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table of contents MARCH 2015 VOLUME 2
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Massachusetts and neighboring states lead the nation in confirmed cases of Lyme disease. Lyme disease is most prevalent among children ages 5 to 9, both nationally and in our state. Get the latest prevention tips and knowhow on page 32.
Families of all constellations are encouraged to host a child through the Fresh Air Fund: empty nesters, families of all sizes, single parents, same-sex couples, grandparents and more. Discover the effects the experience has on families and their host children on page 28.
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Long before accommodations were required by law, the city of Springfield began offering programs to serve children with developmental delays or physical limitations. See how this grassroots movement, which began in 1956, is still paying off today on page 36.
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Meet Our Cover Model Search Finalists
RIPE: CSA 101: How to Eat Fresh, Support Local Farms This Summer
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Raising a Transgender Child: The First Steps
DISHIN’ WITH THE DIETITIAN: Taking a Bite Out of Healthy Living
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How Your Toddler is Saving the Independent Bookstore
RIPE BITES: Impress Spring Guests With Surprise Sweets
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MOMS Club: An Old-Fashioned Solution For a Timeless Problem
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WELCOME: A Letter from Our Editor MEET OUR SPECIAL GUEST: Cover Model Juan MEET OUR CONTRIBUTORS bsp ONLINE FINALLY FOREVER: The Faces of Foster Care: Massachusetts’ Heart Gallery Turns 10 MARCH’S CHILD: Meet Kim CIRCLE OF FRIENDS: Area Adoption Events
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PLAY WITH YOUR FOOD: Chef Jeff Comeau of Ludlow
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OUR MARCH FAVORITES: Facts, Finds and Freebies
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OUT & ABOUT: March Calendar of Family Events
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TAKE 8: Girl Scout Camp Director Lizz Gordon
Our Countdown to
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All The Summer’s A Stage At Shakespeare Camp
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Pack It Up! Your Child’s Camp Gear Gift Guide
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Fresh Air Fund Provides New Outlook For Kids, Families
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The Staggering Statistics About Ticks and Lyme Disease in Massachusetts Springfield Camp Lands $1.3 Million Grant To Ensure Universal Access for All
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Given this winter’s 56 snow days, even the most patient and loving of parents must be grabbing a calculator and a calendar with one word on their mind: CAMP. February gave us a cold, snowy preview of what a long (well, maybe not so much given the whole snowday thing), hot summer will be like filled with school-less kids looking for fun stuff to do. And while Massachusetts families have seemingly endless camp choices, regardless of where their children go, camp is a great experience for all ages for a litany of reasons beyond any program’s stated purpose. Soccer camp, for example, may well improve your daughter’s prowess on the pitch and theatre camp may teach your son how to act. But beyond any central theme, camps build important life skills that are applicable far beyond a summer: how to meet new people, work as a team, try new things, assert oneself, settle conflict, and much more. Or, for a new twist, what if you became “camp,” not only for your children but also for a boy or girl
from New York City? If you’re a Fresh Air Fund host family, your home is the destination for an inner-city child, an experience that changes the child and host family alike, writes Sara Pokorny on page 28. For many of us, when we think “camp,” we also think “woods.” And for parents, the woods leads to concerns about the danger of tick bites and the possibility of Lyme disease — as well it should, writes Michelle Perras-Charron on page 32. Michelle examines the staggering statistics behind ticks and Lyme in Massachusetts. Think you know everything there is to know about tick facts, at-risk age groups, and prevention? Think again. While we’re very excited about our annual Camp Issue, there is one other event that’s equally thrilling this month — the 1st birthday of baystateparent West! The past year has been an amazing experience, giving us the opportunity to highlight the fantastic stories, organizations, businesses and families of Hampden, Hampshire, Franklin and Berkshire counties. To celebrate the event, we launched a Cover Model Search Contest, asking readers to send
in their children’s pictures for a chance to be on our March cover. We were floored by the response and, difficult as it was, narrowed the submissions down to 10 finalists. All 10 came to our offices last month for a professional photo shoot, and we had a fantastic time meeting the children and their families. As hard as it was to pick 10 finalists, it was even more difficult to choose the winner! Congratulations to 5-year-old Juan of East Longmeadow, who won the contest and came back one more time for a fun cover shoot. Thank you to everyone who entered and all our finalist families. And a big thank you to every one who voted in our Fan Favorite online poll: Juan won that, as well! Head to page 10 to see pictures of all our finalists from their shoot at our office. Read on, enjoy, and, as always, I would love to hear your thoughts. Reach me at editor@baystateparent.com.
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If you could go to any summer camp, what type of camp would it be? Cub Scout camp.
What is your favorite thing to do in the summer? Swimming in the pool with my big brother and friends.
When you’re not in school, what do you like to do? Play with my big brother
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March West Contributors Michelle Perras-Charron is a freelance writer and mom to four boys in Belchertown. Michelle examines the staggering statistics on ticks and Lyme disease in Massachusetts and how parents can promote prevention. Read her story on page 32.
Patrice Fagnant-MacArthur is a freelance writer, blogger and homeschooling mother of three who grew up in Chicopee and has called Springfield home for many years. She updates us on the exciting developments surrounding the city’s Camp Star Angelina on page 36.
Christina Cooper lives with her husband and 7-year-old twins in East Longmeadow. This month she shares how joining the local MOMS Club benefitted her family — and many others — on page 42.
Sara Pokorny is a freelance writer who lives in Amherst and is a proud puppy mommy to Link and Piper. She’s interviewed everyone from Mike Tyson to the late Joan Rivers, but still names the time she talked with the mall Santa Claus as her favorite story yet. On page 28, Sara takes a look at the 138-year-old Fresh Air Fund and the effects the summer experience has on inner-city New York children and their Massachusetts host families.
Jessica Day is a lifelong resident of Western Massachusetts who lives in Greenfield with her husband and two daughters. This month she takes a look at a unique Shakespeare summer camp for youth, on page 24. Michele Bennett Decoteau is a writer, mother of two and CSA veteran, which makes her the perfect person to explain how Community Supported Agriculture programs work, as well as how they benefit Massachusetts families and farms. Read her story on page 19.
Justin Shatwell is a writer, photographer, and father of one living in the hill towns of Western Mass. He’s travelled everywhere in New England searching for stories — from the potato fields of Aroostook to the boutiques of Stamford — but it’s only since the birth of his son that he’s come to appreciate the blessing of a good rest stop diaper changing station. On page 40 he details children are saving the independent bookstore.
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bsp ONLINE Happy Birthday to Us and Congratulations to Juan of East Longmeadow! Our Cover Model Search was a ton of fun, thank you to everyone who entered! Congratulations to 5-yearold Juan of East Longmeadow, whom you’ve seen on this month’s cover, and to our 10 gorgeous finalists. Check them out on page 10. Another fun twist was our Fan Favorite online poll. With 10 beautiful faces to choose from, we know it had to be hard Keegan for you to pick one of the finalists as your Fan Favorite. But you voted and Juan earned that honor, too! Right behind Juan was Keegan, 2, of Bondsville. Both received a package of goodies for having such cute smiles and charming personalities!
We lost it, but made it We heard the collective gasp of parents waking up to yet another snowy February day trapped indoors. In homes across the state, children were climbing walls, building indoor forts and staging wrestling matches with under-matched little sisters. The Chipmans of Leicester submitted this brilliant photo — we loved that they were planning a get-away in a makeshift boat — and won a package of Gamewright games.
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Maya, 9, South Hadley
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To celebrate our 1st birthday, we wanted a very special cover and asked you to send in pictures of your children, one of whom we’d pick as the cover model for our 1st Anniversary Issue. Boy, did you respond! We were flooded with entries and narrowed them down to 10 finalists, who came to our office for a professional photo shoot. Here are the results of that afternoon. While Juan was chosen as our winner, don’t be surprised if you see any of these adorable children in future issues of baystateparent! Cailyn, 14, South Hadley
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The Faces of Foster Care
Massachusetts’ Heart Gallery Turns 10
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Ten years ago this month, one of the most powerful messages in adoption came to Massachusetts not through words, but pictures.
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going on.” She aims for a light, breezy, and fun atmosphere, and imparts a specific message: “I make a point of telling them, ‘You look great!’ ‘Look at you, you’re beautiful!’ I show them the back of my camera, so that they have, even in that short experience, a fun time with it. I photograph a lot of high school seniors, too, and they love to be told how great they look. And when they leave they are walking a little taller. Hopefully the little time I spend with them is fun for them.” And while the experience is rewarding, Louison notes, it leaves an impact. “It’s hard,” she confesses. “A lot of times I feel for the kids so much, especially the older kids. Usually I get a kid who is 14, 15, and that is really heartbreaking to me. I just feel
Funaro says. “That’s the most fun. The point of the Heart Gallery is much like any recruitment effort. It has to be constant, up to date; it has to be eye catching.” Early on, the gallery was so eyecatching, the children so striking and wonderfully photographed, it created an unexpected problem. “We realized very early on the photographs looked like they were advertising for photo studios, so we started putting a banner on them all saying ‘Waiting For Adoption’ with our logo,” Funaro noted. The traveling Heart Gallery exhibits are installed at high foot traffic locations across the state: malls, banks, medical centers, libraries, universities, train stations, museums and more. The groups of 20x24 portraits were moved every two to three months in the
for them so much.” She makes a point of ensuring that the children who want copies of the photos get them, noting: “Some of the kids have no pictures of themselves.” “I want to be able to adopt every single one of them,” adds fellow Heart Gallery volunteer photographer Sarah Feinberg of Brookline. “It’s a great privilege to take their picture and help them feel special about themselves and hopefully help get them adopted.” Adds MARE’s Funaro: “I don’t know of any photographers who did one [shoot] and didn’t want to do any more.” Photographers send three to five of their favorite shots to MARE officials. “We all get together and hover over a computer and pick,”
early years, but Funaro says they now switch locations every six weeks. Permanent Heart Galleries have taken up residence at all four locations of MARE partner Jordan’s Furniture. Ask any adoption official or foster parent and they’ll agree: the biggest obstacle to finding more forever homes for children is awareness, a problem the Heart Gallery tackles head-on. “It gets the message out there that these children look just like your children, look like your neighbor’s children and the kids down the street. All that makes them different is that they don’t have a home, and maybe you are that home,” Funaro notes. But the display of children waiting for adoption is not without the
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In March 2005, the Massachusetts Adoption Resource Exchange (MARE) debuted the Bay State’s version of the Heart Gallery, a traveling exhibition of professional portraits of children in foster care waiting for forever homes. The first Heart Gallery was started in New Mexico in 2001, and since has expanded across the country. Regardless of the state in which you find a Heart Gallery, the ultimate goal is always the same: to find families for children who need them. MARE is a 57-year-old private nonprofit that serves as the central link between families interested in adoption, the state Department of Children and Families, and its contracted adoption agencies. One of MARE’s many public awareness efforts is coordinating, running and moving the Heart Gallery, and matching volunteer professional photographers with foster children. More than 400 children have been featured in Heart Gallery exhibits since 2005, averaging 30 to 40 new portraits a year. Two to three times a year, adoption workers are asked to review their caseloads and find potential candidates to be photographed. The child must be legally free for adoption, willing to be photographed, and understand that this photograph is more visible than other means of potential parent recruitment. If willing, the child is matched with a nearby volunteer photographer, and they meet for a half-day session. The photographer is given one instruction, says MARE Executive Director Lisa Funaro: “Make this kid come alive in one photograph. The goal is to capture the essence of this child in a photograph.” “Heart Gallery photographs are generally of kids who have been waiting a little longer,” she notes. “Which is fine because it means this is a recruitment for the hardest–toplace kids. And isn’t that what MARE is all about? Trying to do the best with the hardest kids.” When photographer Terry Louison of Norfolk found out about the Heart Gallery, “it just hit me right between the eyeballs: This is such a smart idea. I had just started my own studio, and I want to give back as much as I can, and that just felt to me a perfect fit.” Louison has been shooting for the Heart Gallery for years and says whenever she’s taking any child’s picture, it’s the same. “It doesn’t matter who you’re doing, everybody’s scared the second you point a camera at somebody, myself included!” she says. “It’s just intimidating and these kids are selfconscious and they want to look good. They realize what they’re doing, they understand what’s
occasional critic, one who thinks public efforts like Wednesday’s Child (which has run every Wednesday on WBZ-TV since 1981), The Boston Globe’s Sunday’s Child (weekly since 1976) and the Heart Gallery may be too public. It’s an argument MARE has heard before, Funaro says, citing its homegrown accomplishment, The Photolisting Book. MARE was the first organization to put photographs of children waiting for adoption alongside their pertinent information, all of which is viewed by potential foster or adoptive parents. This effort began 40 years ago and continues to this day. “At the time it was revolutionary because we were actually putting kids’ pictures in a book,” Funaro says, noting listing books are available in 300 locations throughout the state, many of which are public libraries. “It was the first of its kind in the country. It was the first time we put a picture of a child on a page, and at the time people were horrified. They said, ‘You’re advertising for families.’ ‘You’re advertising children.’ ‘You’re putting them on display. How can you do this?’ “Our philosophy was, ‘If you don’t let the public know that we need them, how are we ever going to find families for them?” she continues. “You have to take some risks, that public perception, putting it right out there that these are the children who need families. These things plant the seed. If we don’t show folks the children who need families, how are they ever going to know?” And it is a strategy that has paid off, she adds, but it’s hard to make a direct correlation to the ultimate goal. A person may walk by a Heart Gallery exhibit and that seed is planted. He or she may catch a Wednesday’s Child segment later and the seed grows. It may not pay off for months or years, Funaro says, noting it’s not uncommon for the organization to receive calls years later from prospective parents wanting more information on the fostering or adoption process after seeing a Heart Gallery exhibit, Wednesday’s Child or another public awareness campaign. “Like many of MARE’s recruitment activities, it’s very, very hard to track its impact,” she notes. “Counting how many calls we got from Wednesday's Child or the Heart Gallery doesn’t come close to measuring the impact. People have said, ‘Oh, I went through South Station and I saw these incredible portraits. I didn’t realize you had brothers and sisters who needed to be placed together. I didn’t know you could be single [and adopt]. I didn’t know you could be gay.' We try to take stabs at those myths.” BAYSTATEPARENTWEST 12 13
CIRCLE OF FRIENDS MARCH'S
Tuesday, March 3 — Western Region Adoption Info Meeting, Mass. Department of Children and Families, 140 High St, Fifth Floor, Springfield. 4 p.m.-5:30 p.m. 413-452-3369
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Fifteen-year-old Kim is a pretty girl of Hispanic descent who has a big smile and a big heart. Kim enjoys lacrosse and field hockey. She uses her friendly personality to engage you in conversation and relates well to both adults and her peers. Kim achieved much success in her last school setting and is working at grade level. History is her favorite subject. Kim behaves well both in school and in her foster home where she enjoys her friends and being around the adults in her life. Kim would do great in any type of family. She needs to know that adults in her life will be fair, support her and talk things out with her. Kim
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wants a family that will allow her to maintain connections to previous caretakers and a home where she will not have to compete for the attention of adults in the home. Kim is legally free for adoption. For more information regarding Kim, please contact Department of Children and Families (DCF) Adoption Supervisor Eileen Griffin at 978-353-3629. The Worcester DCF Office hosts monthly informational meetings for those wishing to learn more about the adoption process in general. Please call 508-929-2143 for specific information about the next meeting.
Tuesday, March 10 — Supporting Trauma, a Kid’s Net seminar, Worker’s Credit Union, Community Room, 32 New Athol Road, Orange. 6:30 p.m.- 8 p.m. 413-734-4978. Thursday, March 12 — Working With DCF, a Kid’s Net seminar, Treehouse, 1 Treehouse Cir., Easthampton. 6 p.m.-8:30 p.m. 413-734-4978.
foster care currently awaiting their forever families. springfieldlibrary.org Ongoing — Child & Family Services, 28 North Maple Street #4, Florence. Support services for adoptive families. 413-320-4680. 1-800-972-2734. child-familyservices.org/ florence/ Ongoing — Massachusetts Approach to Partnerships in Parenting (MAPP) Trainings. Western Regional DCF Office, 140 Main Street, 4th Floor, Springfield. Tuesdays, 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. Support for foster and adoptive parents. No fee. Registration required. 413-452-3350. mass.gov
Wednesday, March 18 — Cutting, a Kid’s Net seminar, Zion Lutheran Church, 74 First Street, Pittsfield. 6 p.m.-8 p.m. 413-734-4978.
Ongoing — The Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children offers an after-hours telephone hotline that provides emergency assistance to foster kinship and pre-adoptive families when the DCF offices are closed. The helpline is available 5 p.m. to 9 a.m. on weekdays and 24 hours on weekends and holidays. The number is (800) 486-3730.
Ongoing — The MARE Heart Gallery is on display Springfield City Library, 220 State Street, Springfield, and Greenfield Savings Bank, 6 University Drive, Amherst, featuring striking portraits of Massachusetts children in
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Raising a Transgender Child:
The First Steps BY ALEXANDRA TOWNSEND
“Transgender” is a word that today’s world is learning more about every day. There are regular headlines about actress Laverne Cox and musician Chaz Bono, and their work for transgender activism. The femaleborn child of Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt has renamed themself John Jolie-Pitt and visibly taken on a masculine identity. Although it is not yet clear if John is transgender, the world has been discussing the possibility extensively. Transgenderism is no longer an issue that’s being ignored. As a result, parents now have resources available to understand what is happening when their own child comes out as transgender.
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t’s the sort of revelation that can confuse and worry many parents. How can a child know what their gender identity is? Will this make my child less safe in life? What exactly does it mean to be transgender, anyway? The first thing to realize is it’s alright to have questions. To answer the most basic ones, here’s a quick list of terms. Transgender: describes a person whose gender identity does not align with their biological sex. For example, a man born with a female body. Gender Identity: a person’s internal sense of gender, basically if a person feels they are a girl, a boy, neither, both, or somewhere in-between. Cisgender: describes a person whose gender identity does align with their biological sex, the opposite of transgender. Gender Expression: this is made up of the ways that a person “performs” their gender. It includes the clothes a person wears, mannerisms, hairstyles, and so forth. There is no inherent relationship between gender expression and gender identity. That’s why women can be masculine and men can be feminine without it changing their gender.
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learning that a child is or may be transgender comes with a sense of grief. They can feel that they’re losing the daughter or son they thought they had. Rachel Kahn, a therapist for Sidney Borum Jr Health Center at Fenway Health in Boston, is familiar with this feeling as expressed by her patients: “It can be scary to gain a new vision of a child’s future.” But Kahn emphasized that having a transgender child is not about losing a son or daughter, it’s about recognizing the daughter or son that the parents always had. “Many parents feel complicated emotions [when their child comes out as trans],” Kahn said. “They want to process these feelings with their child, but what they don’t realize is how much that child or teen is going through already.” Indeed, while a parent might struggle with seeing their child wearing new kinds of clothes or going by a new name and pronouns, it’s important to remember that the transgender child is likely struggling far more. It isn’t easy to come to terms with being trans; it means questioning something that everyone has assured you all your life is inherent to your identity. By the time the child or teen comes out as trans they have often spent months, even years, considering the issue. They know they’ll have to deal with issues such as wondering what public restrooms they’ll be allowed to use; whether their identity will be dismissed or mocked by the people they love; and, of course, there is the constant worry of becoming the victim of a transphobic hate crime. Assaults, rapes, and murders are all too often committed against members of the transgender population.
But one of the largest problems facing transgender youth is depression. “Transgender kids often develop depression and anxiety… It’s very hard to live with an identity others don’t accept. People need to have an empathetic eye,” explained New York-based therapist Darby Fox. Unfortunately, rates for depression and suicide are very high for transgender people. According to a 2010 survey from the National Center for Transgender Equality, 41% of transgender people will attempt or commit suicide in their lifetimes. One recent prominent case was the well-publicized death of 17-yearold Leelah Alcorn of Lebanon, Ohio. Alcorn was a transgender girl who committed suicide this past December after what she described in her suicide note as months of isolation and discrimination by her parents. Alcorn’s parents reportedly objected to their daughter’s identity on religious grounds and only provided her with therapists who would try to convert her into the son they thought she should be. Both Fox and Kahn voiced strong opinions against the idea of conversion therapy. “In my opinion, conversion therapy does not work,” Fox said. “It just makes things more complicated for kids. All it does is suit a parent’s agenda.” According to Kahn: “Conversion therapy has been proven to be harmful and is emotionally abusive.” The most important thing any parent can do to support a transgender child, experts say, is to show constant, unconditional love. Transitioning is always a difficult process, but it is infinitely harder without the love and support of family. If you are a parent who is
having trouble understanding and accepting what your child is going through, it is a good idea to look into online research materials, local support groups, and even private therapy sessions. There is no shame in having questions, but often one’s own child is not the best person to ask. Kahn offered advice for some of the most basic elements of support. “It’s absolutely important to use your child’s preferred name and pronouns,” she said. “If you use the wrong ones, apologize and emphasize that you are trying to improve.” Also remember that many transgender people want to transition their bodies from one form to another. This is a discussion that can come up at a young age, as physical transition tends to be easiest if started at or before puberty. Your child or teen may want to take hormone pills or shots, acquire a garment called a binder that ties down breasts, or look into changing their listed gender on official documents. These are all normal parts of transitioning and your child will need your support to get through it. For many, “transgender” is a word that can be strange and intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. Underneath all the terminology and scientific discussion, trans people are still normal human beings who need the same things as everyone else: love, acceptance, and a safe place to call home. If you have or think you have a child who is transgender, remember that while you may have a lot of new things to learn, you already have the tools to give your child all the love they need.
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Ingredients • Waffles • Apple slices • Black olives • Cream cheese • Strawberry • Mini-marshmallows
Chef Jeffrey Comeau says he dreamed up this adorable Waffle Dragon thanks to his love of martial and culinary arts, and notes his creation is easy to make! Once you cut and position the waffles to form the body, add triangleshaped apple slices to form the dragon’s scales. Secure the black-
olive eyes with a little cream cheese. Halve a strawberry for the feet and use mini-marshmallows to form fearsome smoke puffs. While a departure from the homestyle, ready-to-eat entrees he makes at In The Box, Comeau says the Waffle Dragon is simple, fast and fun for moms, dads, and kids.
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Kingston mom Kate Brine devised her Rainbow Pancakes thanks to daughter Abby, 8. “One day, when Abby was 4, I asked her what kind of pancakes she wanted and she said, ‘rainbow pancakes.’ So, we mixed up the batter and divided them into small bowls and added a
different color of food coloring to each bowl. We have continued this tradition, which has developed into not only rainbows, but also flowers, hearts and so on. Abby likes to mix up the colors and we simply hand pour our designs on the pan to cook them. Then we decorate with fruit, and make a colorful breakfast treat!”
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CSA 101:
How to Eat Fresh, Support Local Farms This Summer BY MICHELE BENNETT DECOTEAU
If you want your produce fresh — and locally grown — this summer, now is the time to consider joining a Community Supported Agriculture (CSA) farm in your area. CSAs are collaborations between farmers and people who eat. And like all great collaborations, they benefit everyone. Your food doesn’t travel far, you eat in season, and you get to meet the farmers who grew your food. Farms benefit from getting paid up front during the time of year they need it most — planting.
How do CSAs work? CSAs allow area residents to buy a season’s worth of produce
directly from a farmer, eliminating the grocery store and supporting local growers. When you join a CSA farm, you pay a set fee in the spring for an entire season’s worth of produce. This buys you a “share” of the farm’s production over a future time period, usually June through October. As a CSA member, you become a shareholder of that farm. Shareholders go to the farm weekly to pick up their portion of produce, which consists of whatever is in season and is being harvested at that particular time. Some CSAs have a work requirement in addition to the cost, requiring shareholders to each spend time working on the farm
over the season. This may mean washing vegetables, weighing produce, weeding, or helping plant. Most CSAs offer a newsletter or recipes with each pickup so you have some clue about what to do with three pounds of carrots, or a bag of greens, or kohlrabi.
Kinds of CSAs The most common type of CSA is a vegetable CSA which guarantees shareholders a variety of vegetables throughout the season. Your weekly share may start out small and offer lettuce, herbs, and peas in the late spring. Shares get bigger in the middle of the summer, probably with tomatoes, cucumbers,
and carrots, and often end with onions and winter squash. “There are all kinds of CSAs, including fruit, cut flower, chicken, meat, grain, and even fish,” notes Mindy Harris, who coordinates Farm Share Fair in Boston, where consumers can meet farmers in a trade-show atmosphere. “We even have a wine and a chocolate CSA.” All CSA farms run on the same general model: Customers pay upfront for a portion of the farmer’s future production over a specific time period. While summer is the primary season for most CSA farms, some are expanding. The number of farms offering winter and fall CSAs is growing. Deliveries of produce
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throughout those seasons often include kale, onions, potatoes, and winter squash. Other vegetable CSAs are expanding by offering add-on items from other farms, like honey or fruit such as strawberries, blueberries, and apples. Some farms include the ability to purchase an egg or raw milk share, as well. “Usually people think of CSAs just as vegetables,” says Margaret Christie, Special Projects Director with South Deerfield-based Community Involved in Sustaining Agriculture (CISA). “But now there are meat, dairy, plant, fiber, fall, and winter CSAs. There are fewer of these, but the numbers are growing.” CISA is a support organization for farmers, helps with marketing, and founded the Local Hero program to encourage people to buy local produce and eat at restaurants with locally-sourced food. While other types of CSAs are similar to the vegetable model, before you sign up be sure you understand the nuances. Meat and grain CSAs traditionally have lessfrequent pickups, some with only a single annual pickup. Grain CSAs usually provide information on where to get the grain milled into flour at community grain mills or ways to purchase a personal grain mill. One fun new CSA is the Kid’s Share from Siena Farms in Sudbury. Each week during the season kids get a box with a star vegetable, kitchen gadget, and kidfriendly recipes featuring the star vegetable. Also included are activities and fun facts just for kids.
Which farms offer CSAs? Now is the time to enroll in most CSAs farms. Generally they take returning members first and then have an open-enrollment period for new members. If you are interested in joining, first payments are
often due in spring. A number of locations have information about where to find CSA farms. Farm Share Fair (farmsharefair.com ) will be held 5:30 p.m.- 8:30 p.m. on Thursday, March 19 at First Church in Cambridge and provides an opportunity to meet farmers and compare programs.
any choice in the produce offered in your weekly share. Other factors can include whether the farm accepts SNAP benefits, supports local food banks/soup kitchens, offers a work portion of the share, and if it is looking to build community through pot lucks or workdays. “A new way some CSAs are work-
How big is a share? “CISA has a listing of CSAs and a guide to choosing the right one for your family on our Website, buylocalfood.org. It is being updated almost daily with enrollments opening for CSAs,” Christie says. Other sites to check include localharvest.org and mass.gov/agr/ massgrown/csa_farms.htm.
How do I find the right one for me? With the variety of CSA farms available, it is easy to find the right one for you and your family. One consideration is whether there is
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ing are Market Cards. A member can buy points at the beginning of the season and use the credit or points at any location,” Christie says. This is an excellent option for families with very picky eaters or who travel a lot during the summer. Originally CSAs provided a box of produce to members. Basically, you get what you get. This option is for the most adventurous eaters and cooks. You have little-to-no control over what you take home and are truly eating with the season. Most, often smaller, farms and single-farmer CSAs employ this option.
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Other CSAs offer some choice during the season. For instance, you may arrive to pick up your weekly share and find piles of carrots, onions and turnips. Your share allows you to choose two pounds of any of those and then select a bag of spinach or lettuce. This type of CSA gives you options so you can avoid an item you know your family won’t eat, but still fully embrace eating seasonally. Pick-up location is key for most families. If you are going to make an adventure of it with your kids, look for a CSA where pickup is at the farm. Most farms will have chickens or goats, maybe a tractor to see. This will give you an opportunity to visit with the farmer as well. This is also your best bet for a CSA with choices. Many CSAs are offering drop-off locations in cities. For example, New Land Farms in Sutton has a drop-off location in Springfield and Red Fire Farm in Granby delivers to Boston. When you have a very busy schedule, this is an excellent option. Often there is an additional fee or less choice, so it is important to understand the fine print.
Share size is a big consideration and will vary from farm to farm. The best way to calculate the size you need is to look at how much you spend, or would like to spend, on produce each week during the summer. That should be about the amount you spend per week on a share. If the amount is modest, consider a half share or splitting a share with a friend. Splitting a share with someone else is an excellent option for families who travel frequently during the summer. If you unsure whether you need a half or full share, ask to talk to other members with kids. They can usually give you guidance.
Dishin’ with the Dietitian
Take a Bite Out of HEALTHY LIVING BY CARRIE TAYLOR, RDN, LDN
Happy National Nutrition Month! March is the month for nutrition professionals and the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. In the weeks ahead, efforts will be focused on promoting the same sound, evidence-based nutrition advice to you and others across the nation This year, our mantra is “Bite into a Healthy Lifestyle.” What does this mean? It’s time to get back to the basics and make informed nutrition and exercise decisions built on sound advice. Focus on improving your overall well-being, while maintaining a healthy weight and reducing the risk for disease. Here’s how to get started: 1. Consume Fewer Calories. Although certain nutrients, such as carbohydrates, protein and fat, may function differently in your body, the puzzle of weight management comes down to calories. If you eat less energy than your body burns, you will lose weight. Do I recommend counting calories? Not necessarily. Rather, pay attention to what your meals and snacks look like. How many Food Groups do you see? Are you eating carbohydrates, protein and a little bit of fat? Or is your snack all carbohydrates and your lunch all protein? I’ve found the U.S. Department of Agriculture’s MyPlate (choosemyplate.gov) to be the most helpful guide to keeping calories in check. MyPlate reminds us that half our plates should be rich in colors from vegetables and fruit. What happens when you load up half your meal with low-calorie, nutrient-rich vegetables and fruits? You displace more calorie-rich items like meat and grains while also filling up. Are you eating enough colors throughout the day? It is recommended the average adult consume 2 ½ to 3 cups vegetables and 1 ½ to 2 cups fruit. To learn what counts toward a ½-cup serving of vegetables or fruit, visit ChooseMyPlate. gov for visual examples. 2. Make Informed Food Choices. All too often, individuals are ready to “go on” a diet and follow a listing of good and bad foods just to find
this new way of eating fails them and they return to their old eating behaviors. The kicker to this scenario is that most people don’t look at diets as failing them. Instead, they erroneously believe they failed, yet again, at trying to eat healthy. Not true. Any eating pattern touting itself as the secret to weight loss is simply a diet bypassing sound nutrition recommendations. For example,
why not just give up carbs? Your brain would not be very happy with you nor would it be able to function effectively. By drastically reducing the amount of carbohydrates in your meals, your brain will start screaming for help by way of headaches, body shakes, anger, fuzzy vision, cravings and lack of concentration. Rather than swearing off carbohydrates, the better choice is to be mindful of serving sizes while spreading your carbohydrate consumption over the course of the day. For example, consume a tuna sandwich on whole wheat bread, with a side of baby carrots dipped in hummus and an apple for lunch vs skipping lunch altogether and eating half a box of pasta for dinner because you are ravenous. Here are a few more tips for getting the most out of your food:
• Eat breakfast. Even if you don’t have much of an appetite, eat something. Whether it’s a bowl of oatmeal with raisins and pecans or an apple with a handful of almonds, eat! • If you find you’re hungry in between meals, grab a snack (not a treat). Look at which Food Groups you may have missed at a previous meal and work toward those. Forget a vegetable at breakfast? Snack on
celery dipped in peanut butter. Forget a fruit at lunch? Grab a bunch of grapes with a slice of lowfat cheddar cheese for an afternoon snack. • Make half your grains whole. Simply put, choose the whole grain options of grain foods often. Cooking rice? Opt for brown rice. Reaching for a box of cereal? Pick a whole grain variety. Making a wrap? Go with a whole grain option. • Go lean with protein foods. If you traditionally choose meat as your source of protein, begin varying your selections. Enjoy “Meatless Mondays” by cooking meals with legumes (beans and lentils) or whipping up a breakfast smoothie with silken tofu instead of yogurt. • Make your fats liquid. Let nuts, cooking oils, avocados, olives and fatty fish serve as your primary
source of fat. These foods offer liquid fats like omega-3s and monounsaturated fats shown to promote health. 3. Get Exercising. Probably the very best thing you can do for managing weight and reducing your risk for chronic diseases like heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes and cancer is to get moving. Exercise also maintains mental acuity and health, builds confidence and lets off steam from a stressful day. Researcher after researcher keeps coming to the same conclusion — one’s quality of life is greatly improved and maintained if we exercise on a daily basis. Every day? Yes, this is the goal. If you can only carve out three days to exercise this week, great! The goal is to start the momentum so daily exercise becomes part of your normal routine. Whether you have a history of trying to follow a healthy lifestyle, or you’ve finally come to terms with the fact that it is time, every day (and every meal) is an opportunity to start anew. Leave the guilt, food rules and excuses behind and remember what motivational speaker Jim Rohn said: “Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.” Carrie Taylor is the lead registered dietitian nutritionist for the Living Well Eating Smart program at Big Y Foods. Have a nutrition question? E-mail livingwell@bigy.com or write Living Well at 2145 Roosevelt Ave, PO Box 7840, Springfield, MA 01102.
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Impress Spring Guests with Surprise Sweets Transform an ordinary cupcake into something extraordinary with peek-a-boo filling. These simple cupcakes are an easy addition to any spring celebration. You’ll want to serve every variety of these turned-up treats for Easter and beyond. The best part about this party trick? It’s easy. You’ll be digging this one out of your recipe repertoire for every spring soiree.
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Who said Easter baskets are just for kids? Treat your holiday guests to take-home cupcakes served in individual cupcake boxes. They’ll be delighted to find a surprise inside these icing-filled cupcakes.
Shake things up with a refreshing new twist. Try supercharging your cupcakes with refreshing lemon meringue, raspberry mousse or peanut butter and jelly fillings.
No matter how you slice it, fill it or serve it, these cupcakes are a party pleaser that’s guaranteed to impress.
Carrot Garden Easter Cupcakes Servings: 1 dozen cupcakes Favorite chocolate cake mix or recipe Creamy Decorator Icing Chocolate Decorator Icing Leaf Green Icing Color Orange Icing Color Crushed chocolate sandwich cookies • Preheat oven to 350°F. • Place baking cups in standard muffin pan.
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• Prepare cake mix following package instructions. Bake in prepared muffin pan 18-20 minutes or until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool completely in pan on cooling grid. • To decorate, tint small amount of creamy decorator icing green; tint remaining orange. Use spatula and chocolate icing to ice tops of cupcakes smooth. Sprinkle with cookie crumbs. Chill until set, about 15 minutes. • Use knife to cut out center of cupcakes almost to bottom of cupcake. Use tip 2A and orange icing to fill in center of cupcake and pipe about 1/4 inch above cupcake; pat smooth. Use tip 352 and green icing to pipe pull-out leaf carrot tops.
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All the Summer’s a Stage at Shakespeare Camp BY JESSICA DAY
Ask 13-year-old Claudia Maurino what was most fun about the camp she attended last summer, and her reply is quick: “We learned how to use swords!” Not your average response to that question but, then again, Claudia wasn’t at your average summer camp, either. "All the world’s a stage…" the Bard wrote, but during the summer that stage has a specific location in Lenox at Shakespeare & Company. For children ages 7 to 9, 10 to 12, and 13 to 15, there’s Riotous
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Youth — a day camp that features Shakespeare, of course, but perhaps even more importantly, fun. “Riotous Youth gives young people a place to be unashamedly bold, creative, and silly through some of the most exciting stories,” says Ally Allen, one of the camp’s “education artists,” and a former member of the Riotous Youth Company. Allen now directs Shakespeare & Company’s fall festival, works with middle school students, and most recently played Ophelia in Shakespeare &
Company’s production of Hamlet. “As a teacher, I sincerely hope that my students have fun in Riotous Youth,” Allen explains. “I hope that after a two-week session, they embrace Shakespeare as something they can understand and enjoy; these plays give students a safe place to take risks and make personal discoveries in the process.” According to Claudia, her younger brother, Theo, and their dad, Marc, Allen and her fellow education
artists fulfill the Riotous Youth mission and then some. “It’s a program that teaches kids to love language and performing, and to be confident,” Marc Maurino says. “Shakespeare is anything but a boring, dead poet to these children.” The brainchild of John Beale and Tor Bjornsen, former Shakespeare & Company actors, Riotous Youth launched in 1999. The first year, one two-week, half-day session was offered. Since then, the program has
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Mom-invented qlipter is a large clip with a rotating, folding hook, which can hang over virtually any surface or bar and hold up to 50 lbs. Campers can hang backpacks, wet shoes or suits, lanterns, food or anything else from tree branches, outdoor tables, tents or cabins. No more muddy packs and belongings!
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Hobo Roll Compression Bag This Kickstarter-funded organizational stuff sack features 5 internal compartments, making packing easy for day or overnight campers. Kids can designate one compartment for stuffed animals, one for socks and undies, one for shorts and shirts, accessories, etc. Once packed, campers simply cinch the end to close and carry it via the shoulder strap or handle.
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Meal Kit 2.0 & Light My Fire Pack-Up Bottle This mess kit is ideal for any camper, sporting everything your child needs to prepare and eat a meal in all outdoor environments: two plates, a foldable Pack-up-Cup with lid, a combined strainer and cutting board, a Spork, two waterproof SnapBoxes in different shapes and sizes, and a harness to keep everything neatly packed. The PackUp Bottle (not pictured) holds 23 oz. and is collapsible for easy transport, sports a loop for comfortable carrying or strapping to a backpack, and is dishwasher and microwave safe.
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Fresh Air Fund provides new outlook on life for kids, families alike BY SARA POKORNY
For most parents, sending children on a walk up the street to their friend’s house or allowing them to play in the yard are blips on the parental radar; nary a thought may be given to such actions. Yet, for some kids, a stroll up the street or a frolic mere feet from home is simply not an option — which is one of the reasons the Fresh Air Fund was formed and has been going strong for over a century. Every summer since 1877, the Fresh Air Fund, an
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COUNTDOWN TO SUMMER CAMP independent, not-for-profit agency, shuttles buses of New York City children to stay with a host family for a week, giving them the chance to experience a different way of living. Kids from 6 to 18 years old can sign up through the more than 90 participating social service and community organizations in the five boroughs of the Big Apple. To date, Fresh Air has benefited more than 1.8 million children. Sue Morello of Amherst has been involved with the Fresh Air Fund for the past 12 years, though she became familiar with the cause at a young age when she saw children come to Rutland, Vermont, where she grew up. With three children of her own, she hosted during her first year, and the next she was asked to be a chairperson for her area. She now oversees and supports the chairs from the Pioneer Valley, and she’s still hosting inner city kids. “At first we hosted a little boy for six years,” Morello said of her initial experience with the program, hosting a 9-year-old named Mike. “He was wonderful. He was polite and smart and willing to try anything new. He got along with my kids and was just eyes wide open for everything.” Morello’s daughter was quick to point out that adding another boy
to the two-son family was unfair, so for two years after that they also hosted a girl. She was followed by another girl, whom the family has been hosting for six years, this year being her last. A lengthy partnership with the
more than 65% of all children are re-invited to stay with their host families year after year. “For the city kids, it plants a little seed of, ‘Oh, there’s a different way to live,’” Morello said. “Suddenly, they’re in your house and with your
program is not unusual, nor is having the same child stay with a family year after year. Strong bonds are formed when those from such different walks of life come together, particularly for the child from the city. According to the organization,
family and they’re seeing a different way of living, of interacting, of being able to be outside more, of a little more freedom from some of the worries of the city a lot of these kids come from. Sometimes parents keep them inside because they
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don’t want them hanging out on the street. They don’t realize, when they’re here, that they can open the door and step out into the backyard when they want — something our kids take for granted.” The impact Fresh Air has on city children was immediately known for Geri Fogg of Northbridge. When she started six years ago she volunteered to escort a Fresh Air bus leaving from the city. She recognized the newbies, the kids who have been doing this a while and knew each other, and the older set that seemed as though they couldn’t be bothered with the younger. Her experience with the latter is what struck her most. “I was a little intimidated. These kids are coming from some of the toughest streets in our country,” she says. “Yet, every single one of them I introduced myself to softened and started to tell me wonderful stories about what they called their Fresh Air moms and dads, about these Fresh Air siblings they’ve grown up knowing. That was the moment that changed it for me, that I could see this was really making a difference in these kids’ lives. It truly is a support system for them.” The new outlook on life can also be applied to the host family. “We think it’s all for the kids, but
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the Fresh Air Fund secret is that we get just as much — if not more — out of it than the kids do,” said Stenie Gullans of Natick, a five-year participant and chairperson for Metro West. “As a host family, it’s important for us to see that not everybody is lucky like us, to have yards to play in, trees to climb.” It also spawns fond and lasting memories. To this day, Morello gets choked up talking about Mike’s reaction to a camping trip to Vermont. “Mike was up there chopping wood and swimming in a swimming hole and jumping off a rock and sleeping in a tent, cooking marshmallows. The weekend was over, we packed up all our things and we were in the car…we weren’t even down off that hilltop yet…” Morello trailed off, pausing to take a breath. Her next words were tinged with tears. “We weren’t even off that hilltop and he said, ‘Can we come back next year?’” Nine-year-old Ariel had always cooked for her family, so when she spent the summer with the Foggs she did the same, introducing them to collard greens. Last year, the Foggs hosted a 6-year-old boy, Joshua, who came from a Spanishspeaking family but spoke fluent English. “I’ll never forget that he didn’t know
the English word for cucumbers, just the Spanish one, so all my kids that week were calling cucumbers by their Spanish name,” Fogg said. Though Fresh Air has certainly helped its fair share of kids, there are still many who don’t get the opportunity. “Every year about 200 kids cannot be placed,” Gullans said. One of her main tasks is to recruit new families to be matched. Matches are usually made based on the kind of activities and life the host family has and the family receives the match in advance so they can reach out to the child before he or she comes. Gullans said there is no perfect host family, nor should there be any strain on anyone who decides to participate. “I have people who are empty nesters, families of all kinds and sizes with and without children. Single parents, two mothers, two fathers, grandparents. There is no financial obligation,” she said. “You do what you would normally do with your children for that week, and there’s just one more little mouth to feed.” Go to baystateparent.com for information on how to learn more about hosting a child through Fresh Air Fund.
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and Lyme disease: Inside the Staggering Statistics BY MICHELLE PERRAS-CHARRON
With the changing season and the warm days of spring ahead, many parents (myself included) are itching for spring sports to begin, finally putting an end to the bitter cold and snow of winter storms past. Spring break looms and we will pass another checkpoint on the school calendar with our eyes on the prize — summer vacation! Thinking ahead to these glorious days of no more packed lunches, folder checks, and lost hats that will never make it home, we will optimistically begin researching summer camps for our kiddos and planning family camping trips around New England. While making those plans, parents need to keep in mind that Massachusetts and neighboring states lead the nation in confirmed cases of Lyme disease, which is caused by the bite of an infected deer tick.
The ugly truth To put things in perspective, according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) the 2013 national incidence rate for Lyme disease (the number of new cases per 100,000 people) was 8.6. The Massachusetts Department of Public Health (MDPH) states that Lyme disease is considered endemic throughout the Commonwealth and reports the 2013 incidence rate for Lyme disease in our state is a whopping 65.09, which is a 12% increase from 2012. Areas of high incidence for Lyme disease include most of the eastern half of the state, however, MDPH also notes that isolated areas of high incidence occurred in Franklin, Hampshire, and Worcester counties. In case you were thinking of taking off to a neighboring state for the summer, know that according to the CDC, Connecticut follows close 32 MARCH2015 33
behind with an incidence rate of 58.7, whereas New Hampshire and Vermont top the charts at 100 and 107.6, respectively. Maine’s incidence rate is 84.8. In fact, the CDC reports that 95% of new cases of Lyme disease came from just 14 states, as it is heavily concentrated in the northeast and upper Midwest. Maybe you’re thinking Lyme disease is only a problem for older people who like to hunt. I mean, they’re out in the woods, handling deer and other wild game that carry deer ticks. Only older people get Lyme disease, right? Well, surprisingly, you may be floored to learn that Lyme disease is most prevalent among children ages 5 to 9, both nationally and in our state. Now you’re thinking, I’ll just keep the kids away from the woods. Again, you may also be surprised to learn that you do not need to be walking in the woods to get bitten by a tick — your own backyard can play host to these parasites. Belchertown resident Beth Knodler knows this all too well. Only 31 at the time, Knodler was bitten in her own backyard by a tick in July 2009. Her family was building a treehouse for her two young children and she believes she was bit while walking back and forth from her house to the edge of the woods on her property. “I did not know I was bitten for a few days,” she recalls. “I first noticed a rash on the back of my thigh. But it was not a bulls-eye rash! It was oblong, raised, red, and hot to the touch with a large bruise. I cannot stress enough that it was not a circle with a bulls-eye. We could not even find the ‘bite’ location with a magnifying glass!” Though well known for the classic “bulls-eye” rash, known as erythema migrans, not all tick bites will cause
this trademark rash. The MDPH notes that 72% of confirmed cases of Lyme disease reported an erythema migrans, meaning 28% did not, as in Knodler’s case. This can make it difficult for healthcare providers to quickly diagnosis patients suffering from early Lyme disease. The MDPH notes that symptoms of early Lyme disease usually begin within 3 to 30 days after being bitten by an infected tick and can include: erythema migrans and flu-like symptoms such as fever, headache, stiff neck, sore and aching muscles and joints; fatigue; and possibly swollen glands. If left untreated, Lyme disease can cause lingering long-term health issues. After being bitten, Knodler was unwell for several days, and her rash continued to grow larger. Over time, Knodler, a young, active, healthy mother of two, began to experience aches, pains, joint swelling, fever, confusion, and short-term memory loss. “It was heartbreaking,” she says. “I was not eating and it even hurt for my kids to touch me. I would lay on the couch and cry in pain.” When a Lyme test was finally done, Knodler was told she had the highest Lyme count one doctor had ever seen. She was immediately put on antibiotics, which alleviated many of her symptoms. However, Knodler now suffers from symptoms of late-stage Lyme disease, such as joint pain, swelling, and short-term memory loss.
Untrue: Common misconceptions Knodler encourages parents to be vigilant. “Do tick checks as a regular part
of your bedtime routine — all year long,” she says. “It is a myth that they die in the winter. You don’t see them as much in the winter, but they are still around, especially a winter without a lot of snow.” Dr. Jennifer Roche of Amherst Pediatrics confirms that daily tick checks are necessary in all months of the year for families to protect children from the dangers of Lyme disease. “Calls regarding ticks and tick bites are a frequent occurrence,” Roche says. “Most tick bites do occur between May and October, but with milder winters we have had tick bites in all months.” According to the CDC, this is because though young ticks, known as nymphs, are most active during the warm weather months, but between May and July, adult ticks can be out searching for a host any time winter temperatures are above freezing. Know that nymphs can be the size of a poppy seed, pencil point, or freckle, making them hard to detect, while adult ticks are the size of a sesame seed. “Daily checks for ticks are essential in this area,” Roche notes. “They appear to be the most effective strategy to help prevent Lyme disease.” A person is unlikely to get Lyme disease if the tick is not attached for at least 48 hours, she says. Therefore, all tick bites do not lead to Lyme disease — another misconception. In fact, according to the CDC, the chances of transmission of Lyme disease from an infected tick increases with the amount of time it is attached to a person; from 0% at 24 hours, 12% at 48 hours, 79% at 72 hours, and 94% at 96 hours. When checking your child for ticks, remember that ticks like warm places
COUNTDOWN TO SUMMER CAMP where they can hide out of sight. Common places to check include the back of the knees, armpits, groin area, scalp, hairline, back of the neck, and behind the ears. If you find a tick attached to yourself or your child, there is no need to panic. Remember that chances of infection increase over time. Remove the tick as soon as possible using tweezers. Grasp the tick close to the skin and pull straight out, then monitor your child for signs and symptoms of early-stage Lyme disease. If you don’t think you quite got all of the tick out, again, don’t panic. Roche says it is a misconception that the entire tick has to be removed. “Actually, tick parts often remain after attempted removal,” she adds. “Retained mouthparts are usually expelled by the body and do not increase the likelihood of Lyme transmission.” Another tick misconception is that any attached ticks should be saved and tested for Lyme disease. According to Roche, this is an unnecessary step because most ticks in our area are positive for the bacteria that causes Lyme disease. Instead Roche emphasizes the importance of closely monitoring your child for symptoms after a tick bite. “Again, it’s unlikely [that Lyme disease is transmitted] if attached for less than 48 hours and the importance is monitoring for symptoms which typically include a classic rash (ECM), fatigue, malaise, headache, muscle aches, and joint pains,” she says.
What parents can do Aside from daily tick checks, which should take place year round if your child plays in areas that may be inhabited by ticks (including your backyard), there are many precautions parents can take to reduce the risk of Lyme disease. Know that ticks find a host by clinging to vegetation and waiting for humans or animals to brush up against them. Ticks cannot fly or jump — you must come in contact with them. Ticks are fond of brushy, wooded, and grassy habitats such as those found along hiking trails, in the woods, the edge of your yard, or within your yard if leaf litter exists. This is because they are also fond of damp, shady, leafy areas, which are often found around homes in the fall. To keep ticks out of your yard, MDPH recommends the following yard-care tips: • Keep grass cut short. Ticks are likely to be found in taller, unmown
grasses and shrubs. • Remove leaf litter and brush from around your home. • Prune low-lying bushes to let in more sunlight (this keeps the yard from being damp and shady).
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• Keep wood piles and bird feeders off the ground and away from your home. Mice and small rodents can carry ticks into your yard. • Rid your yard of plants that attract deer, or use deer fencing on larger properties, as deer can also carry ticks into your yard. • Use a three-foot-wide woodchip, mulch, or gravel barrier where your lawn meets the woods. Ticks are less likely to cross the barrier as they are prone to drying out. • Pesticides can be used to reduce ticks on your property, but use of a licensed applicator experienced in tick control is recommended. To protect yourself and your children when in areas prone to ticks: • Use an insect repellent that contains 20% to 30% DEET. DEET products should not be used on infants under 2 months of age and should not be used in concentrations higher than 30% on older children. • Wear long, light-colored pants tucked into socks or boots, and a long-sleeved shirt. This keeps ticks off the skin and easier to identify if on clothing. • Stay on cleared trails and avoid the edges of habitats where ticks are likely to be. • And finally, check children for ticks as soon as possible after coming indoors. Then have your child shower or bathe, which serves a dual purpose. Bathing washes off any applied chemicals such as DEET, as well as any ticks that may be searching for a warm place to settle. Ticks can wander for hours on the skin undetected before finding a place to attach on the body. Also, put clothes in the dryer on high heat for 60 minutes to kill any ticks that may be on clothing your child has worn outside. Before you start cancelling camping trips and put your kids under lock and key this summer, remember our kiddos need their outdoor time and we, as parents, have the ability to prevent tick bites and, therefore, Lyme disease. Yes, it takes some extra effort on our part, but I think we’ll all agree it's well worth it.
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Springfield Camp Lands $1.3 Million Grant To Ensure Universal Access for All BY PATRICE FAGNANT-MACARTHUR
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magine you are a girl with a physical disability that requires the use of a wheelchair, or a boy with ADHD, or a child with learning disabilities or visual and hearing impairments. Where can you go for summer camp where you can be included and accepted for being yourself — and not as a person with a disability? Camp STAR Angelina, located in
Springfield’s Forest Park and run by the city Parks Department, is designed to meet that need. It is an inclusive camp for youth of all abilities, ages 3-22, in the greater Springfield area. Last December, the camp received a $1.3 million grant that will fund upgrades to ensure universal access to the grounds and facilities for all campers. Running six weeks every summer, the program serves approximately 70 to 80 campers each year. Activities include swimming, sports, games, crafts, field trips, and an end-of-camp variety show. T. J. Donahue, Camp STAR Angelina Seasonal Director, says it provides a place where young people “get to be themselves, laugh and play, and not worry about homework, school bullies and being teased by others….They can just relax and enjoy life.” Camp STAR Angelina has a long history of serving the special needs community. Long before
accommodations were required by law, a grassroots movement began in Springfield to serve children with developmental delays or physical limitations. In 1956, the city began offering therapeutic recreation programs, and in the 1960s, two summer camps were formed: Camp STAR, which met at Kennedy Middle School, for those with physical limitations, and Camp Angelina, meeting at Angelina Park on South Branch Parkway, for those with developmental limitations. In the 1990s, the two programs merged to form Camp STAR Angelina and met at Angelina Park. About 10 years ago, the camp relocated to the Camp Seco grounds, later renamed Camp STAR Angelina, in Forest Park. According to Patrick Sullivan, Executive Director of the Springfield Parks, Building and Recreation Department, this camp is a hidden jewel in the city, ensuring that all young people have access
to a summer camp experience and providing a positive outlet for all those who attend. The Aubin family can testify to the value of Camp STAR Angelina. Jim and Carol Aubin originally became involved with the camp around 1980 when their son, the late Keith Aubin, was about 10 years old. Carol shares that the camp gave their son, who was developmentally delayed, an opportunity to be outside, go on trips and be with friends. Even after Kevin’s death in 1988, the Aubins continued to be involved with the camp. Carol would become president of the parents’ association, working to have functions and raise funds for the camp. Keith’s sister, Jennifer Aubin Cloglazier, began working as a Camp STAR Angelina counselor as a teenager. She has served as camp director for the past 16 years. “I'm speechless when it comes to camp, I usually get goose bumps and
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administration lodge, activity center and amphitheater, where each of the 250 seats would be accessible to all. The administration lodge and activity center will be used yearround as conference and program space. A grant from the State Department of Energy and Environmental Affairs provided more than $1.325 million in capital funding for these efforts. In addition, there have been contributions from organizations such as Mass Mutual, the Davis Foundation, the Rousseau Brothers, Universal Electric, Brouder Campbell Fence, GZAGeoenvironmental, the Springfield Municipal Tradesman Association and other private donations. Camp STAR Angelina also has an active parents’ organization that is involved in fundraising. According to Springfield Parks Executive Director Sullivan, Phases One and Two of the project, including the pool, bathhouse, and administration lodge, are expected to be ready for use this summer. Mayor Dominic Sarno of Springfield announced in December that the pool and bathhouse would be named after former Gov. Deval Patrick due to his commitment to providing universal access to outdoor recreation. About $1 million is still needed to fully complete the project.
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ach holding one of her hands, the boy and girl drag the young mother through Thornes Marketplace in Northampton like a pair of excitable sled dogs. “Go play,” she says as they finally reach their destination, and the kids bound over to an elaborate wooden train set and go about orchestrating epic collisions on a miniature scale. The scene is one you might see in any shopping center in America, except this isn’t a toy store — it’s Booklink Booksellers, a small independent bookstore. “I’ve become a destination, if you will,” says Gabriel Moushabeck, the
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store’s owner. “Now I find that the kids bring their parents here.” Seven years ago, Moushabeck took a big gamble on children’s books. Noticing a rise in picture book sales and an influx of young families moving to Northampton, he decided to radically expand his children’s section. He brought in his own kids and asked them what they would want to see in his store. The train set was a must, and Moushabeck invested more than $1,000 on that alone. He also brought in a designer from Brooklyn to produce large wooden trees to add a sense of whimsy. What started as a few bookshelves has grown to encompass almost the entirety of his
second floor. Moushabeck estimates that 50% to 60% of his floor space is now dedicated to catering to the under-five-foot crowd, and it’s paid off. Over the past five years he’s seen that section of his business grow 7% to 8% percent a year. Moushabeck’s experience is far from unique. Joy Dallenegra-Sanger, senior program officer for the American Booksellers Association (ABA), a trade group for independent bookstores, says that across the country children’s sections are growing. Authors like Grisham and Hemingway are losing shelf space to the likes of Seuss and Sendak, and with good reason. In an era in which the physi-
cal book market is continuously being disrupted by the emergence of e-readers, the world of children’s publishing has emerged as a rare island of stability. While e-books are making inroads in young adult (YA) fiction, the spread has been much slower in the area of picture books. Dallenegra-Sanger says this is because parents are hesitant to put tablets in the hands of young children and because the product simply does not stand up in digital form. “For picture books, for books with visuals; you can’t replicate it,” she says. “There’s something about the physicality of it that matters.”
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Market research suggests this might be true. A 2012 survey conducted by Bowker, a publishing research firm, found that even as parents were becoming more likely to read e-books themselves, they remained overwhelmingly against buying them for their children aged 12 and under. But physical children’s books aren’t just surviving in the digital era; they’re thriving. In fact, the whole children’s/ YA market (both traditional and digital) is exploding. According to the Association of American Publishers, the sale of children’s and YA books was up 25% through the first three quarters of 2014 as compared to the same span the previous year, with growth in every category. Results were especially strong for books targeting the youngest readers. Sales of physical children’s board books saw an astonishing 47.1% jump, accounting for $53.4 million is sales. “There are many stores that used to carry primarily adult books that have expanded into children’s books in the past few years, because it is such a strong growing category,” Dallenegra-Sanger says. “We’ve even seen new children’s-only bookstores opening in different areas of the country.” This surge in children’s publishing is especially good for independent bookstores. While no longer on the endangered species list (the ABA reports that the number of indie bookstores has grown a whopping 20% in the past five years, from 1,651 in 2009 to 2,094 in 2014), they still face stiff competition from Amazon and Barnes & Noble. But DallenegraSanger says that in selling to children, the indies may enjoy some advantages over their behemoth rivals, and the ABA is scrambling to educate its members on the best ways to cash in. Sometimes, this just means tweaking old strategies. Many independent bookstores found success by redefining themselves as gathering places. They added a few couches, set up wireless routers, and started selling coffee. Moushabeck says he applied this same logic to the children’s section at Booklink. Like his café, he wanted it to be something that would draw people in, “a place where families can meet,” as he puts it. The approach has been successful. His store is one of the few places in downtown Northampton where parents can take a break and let their children entertain themselves for 15 minutes. They don’t always buy something while they’re there, but Moushabeck says that doesn’t matter. “It might not translate immediately to the sale of books, but I have the feeling that in the long run it will,” he says. But what about smaller bookstores? Jessica Mullins, owner of the World Eye Bookshop in Greenfield, says that while her children’s section en-
compasses about half her store, she doesn’t have the space to do anything elaborate. That hasn’t slowed her down, though. Like Moushabeck, she says she’s seen her children’s books sales steadily growing, both through sales in the store and through book fairs at area schools. She says that selling children’s
doctor’s office. Spurred by a growing body of research that suggests a child’s brain development is greatly affected by the number of words they hear spoken while growing up, the American Academy of Pediatrics issued a new policy in the summer of 2014 directing doctors to promote reading to children daily from birth
books gives her a greater opportunity to interact with her customers. When shopping for themselves, adults tend to come in knowing exactly what they want and are less likely to ask for a recommendation, she explains. Not so when they’re shopping for little ones. Dallenegra-Sanger says that this is where independent bookstores can really outperform their competitors. “Parents often don’t know what to buy, and they really want somebody to help guide their purchase, and that’s hard to do online” she says. She argues that Internet algorithms just can’t beat a flesh-and-blood bookseller when it comes to recommendations. She encourages bookstore owners to talk to parents about what their kids’ interests are and then guide them to the perfect book. And, according to Mullin, that perfect book is probably somewhere on her shelves. “If there’s an idea, there’s a book for it,” she says. “If you’re into owls, great! There’s a great kid’s owl book. If you’re into racecars, great! There’s a great kid’s racecar book.” While being more family friendly is a great start, Dallenegra-Sanger is encouraging bookstore owners to think outside the box and be more aggressive in courting young readers by finding ways to be a bigger part of their lives. She’s not just talking about reading groups or reward programs. She’s telling storeowners to consider things like hosting birthday parties or even staging summer camps. Another avenue she recommends is reaching out to kids through their
during visits. Many doctors are even going so far as to hand out free books at check-ups. Dallenegra-Sanger says this trend could lead to profitable partnerships for independent bookstores, and she
knows of at least one bookseller who is going into hospitals to teach pregnant women about the importance of reading. Neither of the booksellers interviewed for this story reported going to quite that length, though Mullins said she has had some success partnering with a non-profit organization in Greenfield that reads to children in their homes. More important to her bottom line, however, is a new trend in baby showers that seems to have sprung from the medical research. She says that mothers are now telling their friends to forgo the typical Hallmark greeting cards and bring a book to the shower instead. She says she has shoppers in her store every weekend looking for baby gifts and has gotten a lot of practice in guiding them to the best books. Her biggest piece of advice? Avoid the classics. “I work at a bookstore, and when I had my daughter, I got, like, eight copies of Goodnight Moon. I was like, ‘Really?’” she says. There’s no way to know how much longer the boom in children’s publishing will last, but it’s a fair guess that the smallest readers will remain a very big part of the clientele at independent bookstores for a long time to come. For the time being, booksellers are content to make the most of it and just be thankful for the sales. “We would be out of business if we were strictly adult,” Mullins says. “I can definitely say that.”
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MOMS Club:
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“You know what you need?” my mother asked me as she fed Susannah Cream of Wheat. Pop the spoon in, slide it out, scrape off the face, pop the spoon back in. “A year of uninterrupted sleep?” I replied, feeding Jack his own gooey cereal. Pop the spoon in, slide it out, scrape off the face, pop the spoon back in. Twins at lunchtime: definitely a two-person job — maybe even three. “You should join a moms’ group. You need to spend time with other women your own age who have babies.” Spoon in. I groaned. “No, no, no.” Scrape off the face. “There’s no way I’d fit in with a moms’ group.” I struggled to explain. “They will have scrapbooks. They will have had recent
haircuts. They will be….happy.” My mother sighed at my stubbornness. “I’m just saying, I think it would help, being around other moms.” “It would make me feel worse to be around other moms,” I insisted. “I’m the only one who finds all of this so unbelievably hard.” What a pleasure to be so wrong. MOMS Club International has chapters in every state with more than 30,000 members. Started in 1983, the “Moms Offering Moms Support” club was designed to provide stay-at-home moms with an organization that met during the day and allowed children of all ages to participate in activities. Morgan Brinker, current Northeast Regional Coordinator, points
out that MOMS Club chapters are busy and lively, regularly holding playgroups, monthly social/business meetings, activities, outings, service projects, and more. She sums up the club’s purpose by noting, “These events provide enriching activities for children, and for adults to meet and form friendships. MOMS Club chapters benefit the members, their family and local community by providing healthy social outlets.” My kids were almost 2 when I finally bit the bullet and went to my first local MOMS Club meeting. When I arrived at the church auditorium, there were sleeping babies, squealing toddlers, scribbling preschoolers, and 10 moms sitting in a circle. A table held drinks and snacks.
(Yay, snacks! Maybe these ARE my kind of women.) No scrapbooks in sight. The president of the club immediately came over and introduced herself. The first thing she asked wasn’t, “When did you last get a haircut?” but “How are you doing?” And she meant it. She introduced me to the other mothers, and I found out another mother had four kids, including a set of twins. “But how do you do it? You look so…good!” I blurted out. All the moms laughed. Suzy, the president, said, “It’s really hard. My girls are very close in age, and it is just hard.” Other moms chimed in: “I can’t imagine twins, just having one baby is kicking my butt,” “I remember
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that I didn't know anyone outside of work, and suddenly I had no adults to interact with other than my husband. Through word-of-mouth I found the MOMS Club. That was in New Jersey; three years ago my husband's job transferred him to New England. The first thing I did when we were looking for a home was see if the town had a MOMS Club chapter. The MOMS Club had saved me during my last transition from career woman to stay-athome-mom, so I knew that it would be a great way to find support when we moved. Even though my kids have outgrown the club in the past three years that we've lived here, I haven't!” With 40 active chapters in Massachusetts alone, MOMS Clubs every-
where are doing something right. “I almost didn’t come to playgroup today,” I admitted in a friend’s backyard. “My kids were in tempertantrum mode. I didn’t want them to do something that would make all of you stop wanting to hang out with me.” “That’s exactly when you need to come to playgroup,” she advised. “Playgroup isn’t for them as much as it is for us. To see that everything that’s happening at your house is happening at our houses, too.” All Joy and No Fun author Jennifer Senior writes about the social isolation of modern mothers: “In 2009, a specialty consulting firm surveyed over 1,300 mothers and found the 80% of them believed they didn’t have enough friends and 58% of
them felt lonely (with mothers of children under 5 reporting the most loneliness of all.)” Children were never meant to be raised single-handedly. MOMS Club is an old-fashioned solution for a timeless problem: How do we take care of our kids without getting overwhelmed? We do it together. If you’re looking for daytime support, check out the MOMS Club International website at momsclub. org. You can fill out a request for information and also search for websites of existing clubs near you. If families in Western Massachusetts are interested in forming a chapter within their local community, volunteers will walk them through the process and mentor them.
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Machine Age and Modernism. The Clark, 225 South Street, Williamstown. 3 p.m.-4:30 p.m. Join the Curator of Prints, Drawing, and Photographs, Jay Clarke, for the opening lecture for this latest exhibition. Recommended for ages 15 and up. $20. clarkart.edu. Farmers’ Market Winter Fare. Greenfield Middle School, 195 Federal Street, Greenfield. 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Shop, attend a workshop, and enjoy a cup of soup, amongst various community events during this special event at the Greenfield Winter Fare’s Farmers’ Market. Free. greenfieldfarmersmarket.com.
2 Monday Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children birth to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496.
3 Tuesday Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Otis Town Hall, 1 North Main Road, Otis. 10 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Come play and chat at this parent-child playgroup where all caregivers are welcome. For children up to age 5. Weekly on Tuesday. Free. southberkshirekids.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children up to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Cummington Community House, 33 Main Street, Cummington. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Children can participate in art activities, stories, songs, and play together. For children up to age 5. cummingtonfamilycenter.org.
4 Wednesday MotherWoman Postpartum Group. Midwifery Care of Holyoke, 230 Maple Street, Holyoke. 1 p.m.-3 p.m. Join mothers for a 48 MARCH2015 49
free, safe, confidential drop-in support group for expectant and mothers of infants and babies up to 1 year old. Weekly on Wednesdays. Free. motherwoman.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Lenox Community Center, 65 Walker Street, Lenox. 9:30 a.m.-10:30 a.m. Join us for this playgroup with table-top activities and snack time. Weekly on Wednesday. Free. southberkshirekids.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children up to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Cummington Community House, 33 Main Street, Cummington. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Children can participate in art activities, stories, songs, and play together. For children up to age 5. cummingtonfamilycenter.org.
5 Thursday Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children up to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org. @Mason Kid’s Chess. Mason Library, 231 Main Street, Great Barrington. 3:30 p.m.-5 p.m. Open chess time to meet others who enjoy playing chess, in a relaxed and supportive atmosphere. Chess boards and light snacks provided. Recommended for ages 7 to 12. Free. gblibraries.org. Wildlife, Pollutants, and Watersheds. Pleasant Valley Wildlife Sanctuary, 472 West Mountain Road, Lenox. 6 p.m.-7:30 p.m. Using watershed and pollution models, this family program will explore how contaminants get into rivers and strategies to restore rivers for people and wildlife. Come prepared to get a little wet and sandy. Recommended for ages 5 to 12. Register ahead. Free. massaudubon.org. Tuck-Me-In Storytime. Hubbard Memorial Library, Ludlow. 7 p.m.-7:30 p.m. Join us for a bedtime-themed story time, where children are encouraged to come in their pajamas.
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The Clark welcomes new parents and their infants on March 6 for its New Parents Gallery Talk, designed to give parents a cognitive break from thinking about “all things baby.”
Recommended for ages 3 to 7. Register ahead. Free. hubbardlibrary.org.
6 Friday Meet Rockwell’s Models. Norman Rockwell Museum, 9 Route 183, Stockbridge. 2:30 p.m.-3:30 p.m. Find out what it was like to pose for America’s favorite illustrator from Rockwell’s own models, eager to share their personal experiences. Free with admission. Members free, adults $17.50, children ages 6 to 18 $5, children under 6 free. nrm.org. Moonlight Snowshoe Hikes. Pleasant Valley Wildlife Sanctuary, 472 West Mountain Road, Lenox. 6 p.m.-8:30 p.m. Discover the sanctuary by moonlight as we meet up and separate into groups with beverage and snacks available after the hike. For families with children ages 7 to 12. Registration encouraged. Members $20, nonmembers $25. massaudubon.org. Getting Real About Motherhood. UMass Family Center, 1200 North Pleasant Street, Amherst. 9:45 a.m.-11:15 a.m. Come join a diverse, community-oriented group where you can share laughs and tears, for mothers of infants through preschoolers. Snacks and childcare up to age 5 provided. Weekly on Friday. Free. motherwoman.org. New Parents Gallery Talk. The Clark, 225 South Street, Williamstown.
10:15 a.m.-11:15 a.m. The Clark welcomes new parents and their infants into the galleries for an informal guided gallery talk, designed to give parents a cognitive break from thinking about “all things baby.” Recommended for parents with pre-toddlers. $20. clarkart.edu. Warhol & the Stuff of Books. Williams College Museum of Art, 15 Lawrence Hall Drive, Suite 2, Williamstown. 6 p.m. Come enjoy experts and explore Warhol’s lifelong collecting obsession with books; drinks, food, and mingling to follow. Recommended for ages 16 and up. Free. wcma.williams.edu. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496. Drop-in Playgroup. Cummington Community House, 33 Main Street, Cummington. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Children can participate in art activities, stories, songs, and play together. For children up to age 5. cummingtonfamilycenter.org.
7 Saturday Maple Days. Old Sturbridge Village, 1 Old Sturbridge Village Road, Sturbridge. 9:30 a.m.-4 p.m. See the entire sugar-making process, from tapping the trees to “sugaring off,” and learn why maple sugar was more commonly used than maple syrup in early New England. Weekends through March. Free with
snowshoe hikes, and catching up with friends and neighbors over hot chocolate. Free with admission. Members free; nonmembers: adults $5, children 6 to 12, $1. thetrustees.org. Close Encounters of the Third Kind. Memorial Hall Theater, 51 Bridge Street, Shelburne Falls. 7:30 p.m.-10 p.m. Come enjoy this superb, intelligent UFO mystery by Stephen Spielberg that has stood the test of time. Recommended for ages 9 and up. Adults $6, children under 12 $4. shelburnefallsmemorialhall.org.
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Kids can experience the Berkshire Museum’s WeeMuse Program on March 7.
admission. Adults $24, children ages 3 to 17 $8, ages 2 and under free. osv.org.
Members free, Adults $13, children under 18 $6. berkshiremuseum.org.
Dr. Seuss’s Birthday. Springfield City Library: Central Branch, 220 State Street, Springfield. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Celebrate Dr. Seuss’s birthday by making a special Seuss-themed craft. For ages 3 to 12. Free. springfieldlibrary.org.
Free Family Day. Smith College Museum of Art, 20 Elm Street, Northampton. 12:30 p.m.-3:30 p.m. Enjoy this free admission day at the museum with hands-on activities for all ages. Free. smith.edu.
Kids Cooking Class. Chandler’s Restaurant, 25 Greenfield Road, South Deerfield. 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. Join Chandler’s Restaurant for this fun cooking class, complete with complimentary lunch for each child and one adult. Register ahead. $25 per child. (413) 665-1277. Family Day! Bringing Civil War History to Life. Norman Rockwell Museum, 9 Route 183, Stockbridge. 1 p.m.-4 p.m. Step back in time to explore the art of Mort Künstler, with activities and exhibition tours specially designed to bring out the history buffs in visitors of all ages. Free with admission. Members free, adults $17.50, children ages 6 to 18 $5, children under 6 free. nrm.org. WeeMuse: Art Lab. Berkshire Museum, 39 South Street, Pittsfield. 10:30 a.m.-11 a.m. Using the Museum as our inspiration, we will explore different art forms and mediums, via a project you can take home. For ages 2 to 5 with an adult. Register ahead. Free with admission.
Parker String Quartet. Jones Library, 43 Amity Street, Amherst. 2 p.m.-4 p.m. This Grammy Award-winning group, currently in residence at Harvard, will present a familyfriendly concert. Free. joneslibrary.org. Winter Farmers’ Market. Greenfield Middle School, 195 Federal Street, Greenfield. 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Come enjoy both the foods and the people that make this region so fantastically one-of-a-kind, all while shopping for great finds to take home. Free admission. greenfieldfarmersmarket.com. Winter Wildlife Guided Trek. Bullitt Reservation, Bullitt Road, Ashfield. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Join an experienced nature educator for a winter exploration of the fields and forests at Bullitt. Snowshoe rental available in limited quantity. Register ahead. Members $5, nonmembers $10, children 12 and under free. thetrustees.org. Hot Chocolate Saturday. Bartholomew’s Cobble, 105 Weatogue Road, Sheffield. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Join us for winter programs,
Lego Club. Sunderland Public Library, 20 School Street, Sunderland. 10:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Come join us at the library for this program allowing children to come and explore the wonderful world of Legos with likeminded children. Recommended for ages 6-12. Free. sunderlandpubliclibrary.org. Chess Club. Jones Library, 43 Amity Street, Amherst. 3:30 p.m.-5 p.m. Come enjoy an afternoon program with other like-minded chess enthusiasts. Free. joneslibrary.org.
8 Sunday Marvelous Multiples. Baystate Medical Center, Wesson Building, 759 Chestnut Street, Springfield. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. This all-day class talks about the special challenges faced by parents of twins and triplets during pregnancy, birth, and the postpartum period. Recommended for women in their second trimester expecting twins or triplets. Register ahead. $75. (413) 794-2229.
9 Monday 2001: A Space Odyssey. Images Cinema, 50 Spring Street, Williamstown. 7 p.m. Come enjoy this classic Stanley Kubrick film as an imposing black structure provides a connection between the past and the future in this enigmatic adaption of a short story by Arthur C. Clark. Recommended for ages 9 and up. Members $5, general admission $10, children 12 and under $5. imagescinema.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. East Hampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496.
10 Tuesday Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street,
Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children birth to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children birth to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org.
11 Wednesday Parent & Child STEM Session. Berkshire Museum, 39 South Street, Pittsfield. 10:30 a.m.-11 a.m. Come explore the world of Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math with your child through books, hands-on activities, and play. For children ages 2 to 4. Register ahead. Free. berkshiremuseum.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children birth to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Cummington Community House, 33 Main Street, Cummington. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Children can participate in art activities, stories, songs, and play together. For children up to age 5. cummingtonfamilycenter.org.
12 Thursday Teen Tech Week. Jones Library, 43 Amity Street, Amherst. 1 p.m.-3:30 p.m. The Jones Library invites teens to this weeklong event on technology. Free. joneslibrary.org. The Notorious Mr. Bout. Mass MoCA, 1040 Mass MoCA Way, North Adams. 7:30 p.m. Part of Mass MoCA’s film series Deception, this documentary on a Russian entrepreneur, aviation magnate, arms smuggler, and strangest of all, amateur filmmaker, is sure to keep all in attendance captivated. Stay for a Q&A with the filmmakers after the screening. Recommended for ages 15 and up. Students $5, general admission $9. massmoca.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org.
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OUT&ABOUT Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children birth to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org.
13 Friday Children’s Crafts. Forbes Library, 20 West Street, Northampton. 3:30 p.m.-4:30 p.m. Join us in the Children’s Department for a fantastic crafting event. Free. forbeslibrary.org. Free Second Friday. Smith College Museum of Art, 20 Elm Street, Northampton. 4 p.m.-8 p.m. Come to the museum to enjoy hands-on activities until 6 p.m., as well as an informal guided conversation about a piece of art. Free. smith.edu. Norman Rockwell in Detail. Norman Rockwell Museum, 9 Route 183, Stockbridge. 2:30 p.m.-3:30 p.m. Hear the stories behind some of Norman Rockwell’s most memorable works, with the Curator of Education. Free with admission. Members free, adults $17.50, children ages 6 to 18 $5, children under 6 free. nrm.org. A Circle of Moms. MotherWoman Office, 220 Russell Street, Hadley. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Join mothers experiencing a challenging postpartum time for a free, safe, confidential drop-in group for mothers of infants and babies up to 1 year old. Free snacks and childcare up to age 5 provided. Weekly on Friday. Free. motherwoman.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children birth to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496. Drop-in Playgroup. Cummington Community House, 33 Main Street, Cummington. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Children can participate in art activities, stories, songs, and play together. For children up to age 5. cummingtonfamilycenter.org.
14 Saturday Fancy Nancy Luncheon. Chandler’s Restaurant, 25 Greenfield Road, South Deerfield. 11 a.m. Bring your child in their fanciest attire for the fanciest luncheon around, complete with a special Fancy Nancy reading. Price varies depending on menu item. (413) 665-1277. Fashion Figure Drawing. Berkshire South Regional Community Center, 15 Crissey Road, Great Barrington. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Explore fashion illustration as you draw from imagination and other imagery while learning the proportions of the figure. For ages 10 to 14. Register ahead. Members $20, guests $24. berkshiresouth.org. 50 MARCH2015 51
Happier Valley Comedy Show. Arts Block Café, 289 Main Street, Greenfield. 8 p.m. Join the improv comedy group the Ha-Ha’s in this delightful show with a special guest at each performance. For ages 13 and up. Advanced tickets $10, day-of $13, theartsblock.com. @Mason Dad and Me: Child Playground. Mason Library, 231 Main Street, Great Barrington. 11:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Dads are invited to bring their kids for a story time and playgroup, complete with coffee, donuts, and juice. Free. gblibraries.org. Dads and Kids Book Club. Springfield City Library: Mason Square Branch, 765 State Street, Springfield. 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. Help your child develop a love of reading, through storytime, an arts & craft activity, snack, and time for dads to mingle. For preschool children and accompanying fathers. Free. springfieldlibrary.org. Upcycled Art. Springfield City Library: Indian Orchard Branch, 44 Oak Street, Springfield. 12 p.m.- 2 p.m. Make beautiful decoupage boxes using found objects. For youth ages 11 and up. Preregistration recommended. Free. springfieldlibrary.org. The Boxtrolls. Springfield City Library: Forest Park Branch, 380 Belmont Avenue, Springfield. 12:30 p.m.-2:30 p.m. Join us for the showing of this quirky family favorite while enjoying provided popcorn. Free. springfieldlibrary.org. Start with Art: Flowers and Plants. The Clark, 225 South Street, Williamstown. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Get your preschoolers off to a good start with themed talks, gallery guides, and art-making activities specially designed for this age group. Recommended for ages 3 to 6 with adult. Free. clarkart.edu. La Donna del Lago in HD. The Mahaiwe Performing Arts Center, 14 Castle Street, Great Barrington. 1 p.m.-4:30 p.m. Come enjoy this Metropolitan Opera production of Rossini’s classic opera set in the medieval Scottish highlands about a “lady of the lake” pursued by a king, broadcast live. General admission $25, children under 13 $18. mahaiwe.org. Lego Club. Jones Library, 43 Amity Street, Amherst. 3 p.m.-4:30 p.m. Come enjoy an afternoon program with other children playing with Legos. For ages 6 to 10. Free. joneslibrary.org. Spanish Story Hour. Jones Library, 43 Amity Street, Amherst. 10:30 a.m. You are invited to enjoy a favorite children’s book tale in Spanish. For ages 3 to 6. Free. joneslibrary.org. Tink-a-Thon Finale. Hubbard Memorial Library, 24 Central Street, Ludlow. 10 a.m. Come to this showing of the new, just released Tinkerbell and the Legend of Neverbeast.
Costumes are always encouraged and the popcorn is always free. Free. hubbardlibrary.org.
10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496.
Hot Chocolate Saturday. Bartholomew’s Cobble, 105 Weatogue Road, Sheffield. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Join us for winter programs and snowshoe hikes, then catch-up over hot chocolate. Free with admission. Members free; nonmembers: adults $5, children 6 to 12 $1. thetrustees.org.
Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children up to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org.
15 Sunday Cirque Ziva. The Mahaiwe Performing Arts Center, 14 Castle Street, Great Barrington. 7 p.m. Come experience a new awe-inspiring cirque extravaganza from the internationally renowned troupe, The Golden Dragon Acrobats, as they perform a show of spell-binding beauty. General admission $37 to $47, children ages 12 and under $25. mahaiwe.org. Boot Camp for Dads. Bay State Health, Wesson Building, 759 Chestnut Street, Springfield. 1 p.m.-4 p.m. This class for expectant fathers covers such topics as forming a new family, the changing role of fathers, and how to meet the needs of the new mom. Register ahead, $20. (413) 794-2229.
16 Monday The Birth Circle Support Group. Treehouse, 305 North Street, Pittsfield. 6 p.m.-8 p.m. This drop-in support group provides a safe space for mothers and their support system to explore the different aspects of pregnancy, birth, and postpartum. Partners, those interested in learning about the process of birth, and infants in arms welcome. Free. motherwoman.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496.
17 Tuesday Lucky Bingo. Hubbard Memorial Library, 24 Central Street, Ludlow. 6 p.m. Come join us on St. Patrick’s Day for a fun night of Lucky Bingo, where there will be prizes, snacks, and plenty of fun. Recommended for ages 6 and up. Register ahead. Free. hubbardlibrary.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton.
18 Wednesday Keeping Baby Safe. Baystate Heath, 361 Whitney Avenue, Holyoke. 6 p.m.-9 p.m. This class teaches basic life support, infant CPR, first aid for choking, poison prevention, babyproofing your home, and car seat safety. Register ahead. $35 per couple. (413) 794-2229. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children up to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Cummington Community House, 33 Main Street, Cummington. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Children can participate in art activities, stories, songs, and play together. For children up to age 5. cummingtonfamilycenter.org.
19 Thursday @Mason Kid’s Chess. Mason Library, 231 Main Street, Great Barrington. 3:30 p.m.-5 p.m. Open chess time to meet others who enjoy playing chess, in a relaxed and supportive atmosphere. Chess boards and light snacks provided. Recommended for ages 7 to 12. Free. gblibraries.org. Pathways for Mom. Wilbraham United Church, 500 Main Street, Wilbraham. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Face the challenges of being a parent with a safe, confidential support group for mothers with an infant up to 12 months. Free. (413) 583-3527. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For children up to age 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org.
20 Friday We Are All in This Together. Community Action Family Center, 90 Federal Street, Greenfield. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Join mothers of
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21 Saturday Spring at Laughing Brook. Laughing Brook Wildlife Sanctuary, Main Street, Hampden. 10 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Join us as we greet Spring and look for skunk cabbage poking its leaves from beneath the snow, insects, early frogs, blackbirds and turkey vultures. Register ahead. Members $5, nonmembers $7. massaudubon.org. First Child in the Woods. Arcadia Wildlife Sanctuary, 127 Combs Road, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-11 a.m. Here is your opportunity to explore the beauty of nature with your youngster and other caregivers. For children ages 5 and under with caregiver. Register ahead. Members $5, nonmembers $7. massaudubon.org. All Day Game Day. 2 Flights Up, 399 Main Street, Dalton. 11 a.m.-10 p.m. Come for an all-day event of card and board games. Free. 2flightsup.com. Playgroup. Sunderland Public Library, 20 School Street, Sunderland. 10:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Come drop-in to this fun playgroup. For children ages 5 and under. Free. sunderlandpubliclibrary.org. Lego Club. Sunderland Public Library, 20 School Street, Sunderland. 10:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Come join us at the library for this program allowing children to come and explore the wonderful world of Lego. Recommended for ages 6-12. Free. sunderlandpubliclibrary.org.
playtime session. For children ages 8 and under with caregiver. Free. (978) 544-5157.
23 Monday Fun with Junie B. Jones. Springfield City Library: Central Branch, 220 State Street, Springfield. 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Spend some time with this beloved book character as we read about her ups and downs navigating the school bus, friends, teachers, and much more, topped off with a game or craft. For children in grades kindergarten through fourth. Free. springfieldlibrary.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496.
24 Tuesday Kids in the Kitchen: Indian. Hitchcock Free Academy, 2 Brookfield Road, Brimfield. 4 p.m.-5:30 p.m. Free. hitchcockacademy.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For ages 0 to 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org.
25 Wednesday Parent & Child STEM Session. Berkshire Museum, 39 South Street, Pittsfield. 10:30 a.m.-11 a.m.
Come explore the world of Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math with your child, through books, hands-on activities, and play. For children ages 2 to 4. Register ahead. Free. berkshiremuseum.org. Breastfeeding for Multiples. Baystate Medical Center, Wesson Building, 759 Chestnut Street, Springfield. 6:30 p.m.-8:30 p.m. This breastfeeding class addresses the needs of women who are planning on breastfeeding twins or more. Register ahead. $25. (413) 794-2229. Drop-in Playgroup. Northampton Parents Center, 297 Main Street, Northampton. 9:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Free. northamptonparentscenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. United Church of Ware, 49 Church Street, Ware. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. The Ware Family Center provides play space and snacks. For ages 0 to 5. Free. warefamilycenter.org. Drop-in Playgroup. Cummington Community House, 33 Main Street, Cummington. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Children can participate in art activities, stories, songs, and play together. For children up to age 5. cummingtonfamilycenter.org.
26 Thursday STEM Story Time. The Lenox Library, 18 Main Street, Lenox. 11 a.m.-11:45 a.m. In collaboration with South Berkshire Kids, join the Lenox Library in this STEM-themed story-time filled with demonstrations, songs, and activities for little scientists. Free. lenoxlib.org.
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Bluebird Nest Box Building Workshop. Pleasant Valley Wildlife Sanctuary, 472 West Mountain Road, Lenox. 1:30 p.m.-3p.m. Provide much-needed nest sites for cavity nesting birds in this family-friendly workshop assembling pre-cut bluebird nesting box kits. Recommended for children ages 5 to 12. Register ahead. Members $20, nonmembers $25. massaudubon.org. Divergent. Springfield City Library: Mason Square Branch, 765 State Street, Springfield. 6 p.m.-8 p.m. Join us with as we watch this recent book adaptation following the journey of
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The Very Hungry Caterpillar Day. The Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art, 125 West Bay Road, Amherst. 12 p.m.-4 p.m. Come celebrate one of Eric Carle’s most well-known and beloved books. Free with admission. Adults $9, youth 18 and under $6. carlemuseum.org.
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27 Friday Baby Magic. Baystate Health Medical Center, Wesson Building, 759 Chestnut Street, Springfield. 6:30 p.m.-8:30 p.m. This class will cover realistic expectations of your new life together with a new baby for the first three months after birth, including engaging with your baby’s various cues for feeding, crying, and sleeping. $35 per couple. Register ahead. (413) 794-2229. Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496. Drop-in Playgroup. Cummington Community House, 33 Main Street, Cummington. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Children can participate in art activities, stories, songs, and play together. For children up to age 5. cummingtonfamilycenter.org.
28 Saturday Kitchen Ka-Boom. Berkshire Museum,
39 South Street, Pittsfield. 11 a.m.-12 p.m. Kids perform wacky, interactive, and fun science experiments in the Sabic Innovation Lab. Register ahead. Free with admission. Adults $13, children under 18 $6. berkshiremuseum.org. Spring Tonic: Celebrating All Thing Grown Locally. The Lenox Library, 18 Main Street, Lenox. 12 p.m.-4 p.m. Join us for our 4th Annual Spring Tonic, as we enjoy samples of the bounty from local farms and purchase some to take home. Register to win a gift basket full of treats from the vendors. Free. lenoxlib.org. Family Concert Series: Randy Kaplan. The Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art, 125 West Bay Road, Amherst. 11 a.m. Balladeer Randy Kaplan blends American roots, country blues, and comedic storytelling into award-winning music suitable for the whole family. Tickets for cash or check only. Adults $8, youth $6. carlemuseum.org. Fancy Nancy Luncheon. Chandler’s Restaurant, 25 Greenfield Road, South Deerfield. 11 a.m. Bring your child in their fanciest attire for the fanciest luncheon around, complete with a special Fancy Nancy reading. Price varies depending on menu item. (413) 665-1277.
Hockey ’N Heels. MassMutual Center, 1277 Main Street, Springfield. 4:30 p.m. This exclusive event will teach women Hockey 101 in a fun and interactive setting, including a vendor showcase, trivia, games, complimentary hors d’oeuvre and a cash bar. Women are encouraged to wear red, white, and blue heels. Free with admission to the game. $15-$35. falconsahl.com.
763 Longmeadow Street, Longmeadow. 2 p.m. First opened off-Broadway in 1971, this classic musical is structured as a series of parables interspersed with a variety of modern music by Stephen Schwartz. Reserved admission $20, general $15. 1stchurchlongmeadow.org.
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Fun with Junie B. Jones. Springfield City Library: Central Branch, 220 State Street, Springfield. 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Spend some time with this beloved book character as we read about her ups and downs navigating the school bus, friends, teachers, and much more, topped off with a game or craft. For children in grades kindergarten through fourth. Free. springfieldlibrary.org.
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Easter Bunny Breakfast. Holyoke Children’s Museum, 444 Dwight Street, Holyoke. 9 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Come join the Easter Bunny for this fun and festive breakfast. Free with admission. $7, children under 1 free. childrensmuseumholyoke.org.
Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496.
Maple Days. Old Sturbridge Village, 1 Old Sturbridge Village Road, Sturbridge. 9:30 a.m.-4 p.m. See the entire sugar-making process, from tapping the trees to “sugaring off,” and learn why maple sugar was more commonly used than maple syrup in early New England. Free with admission. Adults $24, children ages 3 to 17 $8, ages 2 and under free. osv.org.
31 Tuesday Drop-in Playgroup. Easthampton Family Center, 43 Main Street, Easthampton. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. For children up to age 5 with caregiver. Free. (413) 527-5496.
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As director of the Girl Scouts’ 52-acre Camp Green Eyrie in Harvard, Lizz Gordon knows a thing or two about summer camp. It will be a while before the tents go up, but Gordon took some time to talk summer camp with us, envisioning warm summer days and cool camping nights.
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What are the 5 essentials every camper must pack? 1. Double the amount of socks and underwear they planned to bring. 2. Layers, as the temperature can be quite varied from day to night. 3. Pre-addressed stamps and envelopes. 4. Flashlight (and don’t forget those spare batteries!). 5. Sturdy shoes may sound simple, but the children will be more than appreciative they have them after a week of running, playing, hiking, and exploring.
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How do you see camp change a child? One of the biggest changes I see in children is how they express themselves throughout their time at camp. They are given the opportunity to have a “clean slate,” allowing different sides of their personality to shine through and be comfortable amongst new friends. I see shy kids become extroverts, and natural leaders take the chance to step back and allow themselves to relax. I see children at camp gain independence, confidence, and self-appreciation as they express themselves in a way that only camp allows.
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What is your favorite camp activity? This is another hard question, but I would have to say boating. I love being out on the water, and before I was the Camp Director, I worked on the waterfront for several years. There’s nothing better than taking a group of girls out to explore the pond, whether it is kayaks, canoes, sail boats or row boats – I love them all!
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How have you seen the camp experience change over the years? I have definitely seen the importance of the camp experience change for children, as it draws them away from technology, social media, and the pressure of staying connected. Screen time has become more integrated in children’s lives, and the chance to become “unplugged” at camp allows them to connect with nature, peers, and themselves on a deeper level.
What’s your favorite camp song? That is a tough question for any camp staff person! I honestly have several, but to name one of these, it would be “Boom Chika Boom.” It’s a repeat-after-me song that energizes and excites both campers and counselors. It gives them the chance to be silly and creative in the verses, and when we sing it at our Opening campfire, it definitely represents what the upcoming week will be like!
What’s the No. 1 thing everyone forgets to bring to camp? It’s not always on a summer camp’s packing list, but an often-forgottenabout item is a fitted sheet. A fitted sheet not only provides a little comfort of home (especially for those kids who are unfamiliar with sleeping in a camp setting), but also offers more comfort during those nights when the sleeping bags slips a little and you wind up laying against the mattress.
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What would parents be surprised to learn about camp? I would have to say how much their child can grow and become independent in one week. Camp teaches children so many different lessons and life experiences, such as working together with people they’ve just met, keeping track of their own belongings, and taking control of how they choose to experience camp.
If you could camp anywhere in the U.S., where would you go? I would love to go to some of the National Parks out west, such as Yosemite, Yellowstone, and the Grand Canyon. I have yet to travel out West, and I would love to experience these beautiful places first hand.
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INDEX A Dream Come True Learning Center....41 Act Now..........................................34 American International College...........34 Amherst Montessori School................33 Amherst Pediatrics............................38 Atkins Farm.....................................18 Basketball Hall of Fame....................39 Beacon Assessment Center.................11 Bement School................................30 Berkshire Museum...........................39 Big Y Foods, Inc..............................56 Busy Bees Preschool.........................51 Camp Half Moon..............................34 Chapin Baby....................................39 CityStage & Symphony Hall................5 Common School .............................37 Country Bank....................................8 DCU Center...............................15, 46
Eagle Hill School.............................30 Falcetti Music..................................11 Final Destination Fitness...................51 FMC Ice Sports ..............................52 Hartsbrook School...........................31 Holyoke Community College.............38 In The Box.....................................20 Institue for the Musical Arts .............25 Interskate91...................................45 Little Friends...................................54 Longmeadow Montessori School.........4 MacDuffie School............................25 Mountain View Training Center..........28 Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fame ...............................39 New England Promotional Marketing....9 Norman Rockwell Museum...............36 Nursing Bra Express.........................43
Oak Meadow.......................................46 Oasis..................................................35 Old Sturbridge Village............................24 Pediatric Care Associates........................11 Pediatric Services..................................51 Pioneer Valley Ballet.............................55 Pioneer Valley Financial Group ...............14 Pioneer Valley Montessori......................17 Rovezzi’s Ristorante................................2 Springfield Museums.............................31 Springfield Parent Academy....................55 The Arbor Kids........................................3 Thompsons Gymnastic...........................29 Tower Theaters.....................................15 Valley Dentists of Belchertown................42 Westfield State University......................37 Wilbraham Monson Academy.................17
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The Springfield Parent Academy Presents… It’s Your Community and It All Starts With You A Family Event Focusing on Civic Responsibility
Wednesday, April 1st, 2015 – 5:30 to 7:30 p.m.
Springfield Jewish Community Center ( JCC), 1160 Dickinson Street, Springfield
All are welcome!
Health: The Greatest Wealth
A Family Event Focusing on Health and Wellness
Wednesday, June 24th, 2015 – ALL DAY EVENT
Parent and Community Engagement Center, 91 School Street, Springfield
FREE COURSES • CHILDCARE RAFFLES • COMMUNITY RESOURCES FOOD AND MORE!
For more information please visit SpringfieldParentAcademy.com or call 413-787-6764 Pioneer Valley Ballet presents an original ballet
At the Northampton, MA
March 28 - 29 1:00pm & 4:30pm
Thomas Vacanti & Maryanne Kodzis Artistic Directors
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