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pick up two part-time jobs in the summer, jobs my mother never had when I was a kid, because they didn’t exist.

One is sunscreen cop. My children, pictured here with my husband and me at Museum Beach in Scituate, all take after my fair-skinned Irish mother-in-law. Reminding them to reapply and cover up keeps me busy all summer. I grew up when it wasn’t a good day at the beach unless you came home completely fried. The reward came a few days later when we could peel all that skin off like dried glue. A good sunburn meant a fun day was had by all.

The other is recreational director. When we were little, the day’s agenda was pretty much up to us kids. We made our own lunch, called our friends, rode our bikes all over town and watched the three channels on TV. Today, there are no kids to play with unless you sign yours up for camp or network yourself silly with the other moms. My kids can’t even ride a bike unless we pack up and drive to a rail trail. And forget about making their own lunch. These days, you need a degree in health just to make a nutritious lunch.

While I’m just kidding about the lunch (kind of), all of these changes seem to have forced the family together to play. I do like that part, especially summertime in

Massachusetts. There are lots of free activities for families to do as you fill your calendars with fun this summer. A list of suggestions follow but updates are posted frequently on the baystateparent Facebook page and at baystateparent.com (Check the editor’s blog and our online calendar). Bookmark these three online resources as we hope they are very helpful to you this summer and beyond.

FREE Things to Do this Summer • Bowling. Bowling centers have teamed up to offer families free fun this summer. To find a center near you, visit kidsbowlfree.com.

• The Boston Harbor Islands, a 30-island national park. All activities, which include family concerts, fishing, crafts and tours, are free. Get there by ferry (the fare is affordable!). Check out the schedule of events: bostonislands.com.

• Buffomville Lake, Charlton and Hodges Village Dam, Oxford. Frisbee golf, fishing, swimming, boating, hiking, letterboxing...it’s all there at this unique spot. It’s just $4 to park. Check out their event calendar: nae. usace.army.mil/recreati/bvl/bvlfees.htm.

• deCordova Sculpture Park and Museum, Lincoln. This original museum offers free

• Movies. National Amusements offer Bookworm Wednesdays every Wednesday at 10 a.m. from July 6 – Aug. 10. Just bring a book report! nationalamusements.com. Plus The Hatch Shell in Boston offers movies at sunset every Friday through Labor Day. Times vary. celebrateboston.com/freefriday-flicks.htm.

• Outdoor summer concerts. As you probably know, communities across Massachusetts offer free weekly outdoor concerts which are great for packing a picnic supper and some simple outdoor games. Google the towns near you, and you can fill your calendar with a variety of concerts.

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• Swimming pools and spray decks.

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• Walden Pond, Concord. Swim, picnic, hike, use canoes and rowboats and fish at this pretty and historic site.

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• Woods Hole Science Aquarium, Cape Cod. This small public aquarium has approximately 140 species of marine animals. There is a touch tank and an outdoor seal habitat that demonstrates daily seal feedings. You must take a shuttle as there is no on-site parking, but admission is free. nefsc.noaa.gov.

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age 4 of Wellesley What fun things do you hope to do this summer? Play at the beach and find hermit crabs What are your favorite healthy foods? Carrots, granola bars and breakfast that my mom makes me What can 4-year-olds do that little kids can't? Play with Play-Doh and cook You have a beautiful smile on our cover. What always makes you smile? Tickling! (note from mom: 8 JULY2011

During the photo shoot, we had to warm Grace up a bit by tickling and being silly by throwing Flip flops at me!)

Massachusetts' premier magazine for families has earned more than 130 national and regional awards since 2004, including 30 in 2010:

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Mom and Dad Editor's Note: Grace is the winner of the 2010 JDRF Smile for a Cure Photo Contest with Portrait Simple and baystateparent. The honor was especially meaningful to the Holians as Grace's cousin is a Type 1 diabetic.

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hank you so much for letting me have the gorgeous prom dress for prom this year! I had an unbelievable time in it and received numerous compliments. So many people told me I looked just like a princess and I definitely felt like one. I cannot thank you enough for giving me such an amazing opportunity!

Jackie Rambarran, Charlton Editor’s Note: Jackie won a Mori Lee prom dress valued at $430 by entering our giveaways at baystateparent.com. Check it out as prizes are updated frequently on our website.

Being a working parent, I am not always tapped into events or local family resources.

When I grab bsp at the library while the kids play, I can't be torn away from all of the interesting articles, calendar items and advertisers. The camp special has tuned me into a few new possibilities and the children's entertainer sections have given me birthday party possibilities. When I don't have the current copy, I love to see what the editor will post on Facebook and the feedback, too.

Deb St. Angelo, Marlborough I would like to see baystateparent offer information on free and half-price days at museums, parks and things like that.

Rhonda Baker, Gardner Editor’s Note: Please read the editor’s welcome this month which highlights free things to do this summer.

WINNERS! baystateparent giveaways are announced on our newly-launched website, baystateparent.com, under “Giveaways” as well as on our Facebook page (Join our page today by searching “baystateparent Magazine.”

We’re a friendly and resource-ful group of 1,900 parents and growing strong. Help us reach 2,000 fans and more.). A sampling of our recent prizes and winners include:

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Thank you very much for the opportunity to work on your back-to-school fashion shoot. My son, Jack, loved it! You have a great team working with you. The entire experience was a pleasure.

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Editor's Note: To stay on top of baystateparent's casting calls, visit the editor's blog at baystateparent.com as well as join our Facebook page. Our back-to-school fashion feature debuts next month in our August issue.

Email your thoughts on our July issue: editor@baystateparent.com.

All letters will be edited for clarity and length. Please include your full name and town for publication.

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The Budd family counts the days until 12-year-old Roselande comes home to Acton, Massachusetts. Their journey began 18 months ago when they decided to adopt the girl they were sponsoring through church a month after the devastating earthquake hit Roselande’s home in Haiti. In November 2010, Sue Budd personally delivered official adoption documents to Kids Kingdom Orphanage in Haiti, but it could be as long as another year before Roselande comes home. Roselande prays for her two younger brothers, Dieuluxson and Sebastien, who will be adopted by families in New England as well.

R Isaiah and Josiah will soon be reunited with the boy who shared food with them in Haiti,10-year-old Sebastian (pictured above)....as brothers via adoption.

oselande and her brother Dieuluxson knew it would take some time before they could leave Haiti to go home with their new families, the Budds from Acton, Massachusetts and the Gagnons from Pelham, New Hampshire respectively, but would they have to leave their brother, 10-year-old Sebastien, behind in the crumbling city of Port au Prince?

Far away from the heat of the tropics and nestled in the evergreen woods of Maine, is a little town called Gorham.

Cindy and Tim Irish, who run a small family business, were in the middle of a dual adoption when the 2010 earthquake struck the tiny country of Haiti.

Immediately, they began to

Sebastian is one of three siblings abandoned in Haiti, awaiting approval to join a new family in New England.

pray for the two boys they were anxiously waiting to take home, 2-year-old Isaiah, and 6-year-old, Josiah.

Their thoughts also went out to a kind boy named Sebastien whom they had met when they visited Haiti in February and August of 2009. Adoption was not their intention at the time; even so, they were very fond of the hard working boy and had left him with a special gift, a watch.

They would spend a total of nearly $20,000 dollars to adopt Isaiah and Josiah by September of 2010, when the adoptions would become official, money that was hard earned and not easy to come by.

“At the time we felt we wanted to adopt younger children,” says Cindy Irish, who also explained

she and her husband would have a change of heart after the horrific earthquake hit.

During their trips to Haiti on mandatory visits required for all prospective parents, the Trishe’s noticed the older boy named Sebastien whom they had seen sharing his food with Josiah and Isaiah and some of the younger children. Food is a precious commodity in Haiti, and the jar of peanut butter we take for granted in the United States is considered a necessary protein source for the children there.

Cindy and Tim had heard Sebastien was one of three siblings, Roselande’s and Dieuluxson’s brother, all of whom were abandoned, and he was the only one who had not yet been adopted. The Irishes were concerned when

they learned that Sebastien was suffering from negative attention at the orphanage because of this stigma. All the children who had arrived at Kids Kingdom before the quake had happened, had been or were in the process of being adopted.

But the Irishes were no strangers to adoption; while raising their young biological daughters, Cassy and Miranda, who are now 26 and 24, they also decided to adopt two young foster sisters, April, who is a 21-year-old nursing student and Bethany, a 19-year-old daycare assistant.

Now, Cindy, 46, and Tim, 48, found themselves adopting again almost twenty years later, but because of their ages had initially hesitated until they realized Haiti looked favorably on older couples.

Ten days after the Jan 12, 2010 earthquake, Josiah and Isaiah came to the US on special Humanitarian Parole where they were flown into Sanford Military Airport in Orlando, Florida on a military flight. After reuniting with their two sons, they were delayed when little Isaiah was dehydrated and needed emergency hospitalization. He was transferred to Arnold Palmer Children’s Hospital in Orlando where he stayed for three days before he was well enough to make the trip home to Gorham.

Cindy stayed by Isaiah’s side while Tim waited with Josiah in a Ronald MacDonald House nearby, neither parent having much handle on the HaitianCreole language which the boys only knew.

Isaiah recovered and the Irish family was finally on their way home to Maine, but back at the orphanage, Sebastien was wearing his special watch and missing Isaiah and Josiah and thinking about the Irish family.

Months had passed and Cindy and Tim could not get the skinny 10-year-old boy out of their heads.

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not to adopt him; we had plenty of room for more kids.â&#x20AC;?

Cindy, who believes strongly in making every moment count with the children, came back to a principle she continues to share with her husband, Tim, â&#x20AC;&#x153;We wanted to take those children in who needed a Christian home.â&#x20AC;?

They held a family meeting with little Isaiah and young Josiah. In May of 2010, the Irishes decided to ask Sebastien how he would feel about joining their family.

Seven children and one happy 10-year-oldson-on-Skype later, Cindy and Tim would become adoptive parents for the fifth time

during their 26 years of parenting.

Cindy, the youngest of six children, credits her mom and dad for having instilled the virtue of love and sharing in her at a very young age, something she is passing down through her own example to all of her children. When she was small, her aunt and four cousins, who were down and out, came to stay with them for an extended period. Even though her family had to sacrifice space and privacy by doubling up and sharing one bathroom, she says, â&#x20AC;&#x153;We made it work and it was fun!â&#x20AC;?

Cindyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s great attitude has put her mantra into real-life action many times over. When

JULYâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;SCHILD Autumn, 10

Ten-year-old Autumn is a sensitive, thoughtful young lady of Caucasian descent who is legally free for adoption.

In her most recent foster home, she has stabilized and has made progress, but what Autumn really needs is a family to make a lifetime commitment to be her parents.

Autumn loves animals and having pets.

Her social worker reports that itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a nice way to engage with her. Autumn previously was involved with a therapeutic equestrian program and would love to participate

I spoke to her in November 2010 she was caring for her 2-year-old granddaughter, Hannah, as well as her boys, Josiah and Isaiah, who were waking up from their naps.

A letter received in March 2011 by the Irish family found them reading Sebastienâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s simple, but powerful words: â&#x20AC;&#x153;Please pray for me to come to you. I love you.â&#x20AC;?

Now itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s just a matter of time before Sebastien comes home, and when he does, heâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll have one big happy family there to greet him. He waits as patiently as a 10-year-old boy can, alongside his 13-yearold sister, Roselande, and his 9-year-old

in that again. She also enjoys drawing, reading, rollerblading and swimming.

A bright girl, Autumn attends an alternative therapeutic school where she works to grade level. However, sometimes her emotions and resulting behaviors have gotten in her way. When anxious or stressed, Autumn can have a difficult time self-soothing and coping with the stress.

As a result, she can escalate and lash out at adults who get too close to her. Autumn needs to be given a safe-space, time outs and time to separate and refocus.

A family interested in Autumn should have an abundance of patience and be willing to put in the time to help her continue to progress. They need to be firm without

brother, Dieuluxson. They will all live in New England, just a few hours drive from each other.

And so, he wears his special watch, wondering and counting the days, but no longer worrying if heâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll have a mom and a dad to take care of him and a family to call his own.

Freelance writer Bonnie J. Toomey is the mom of four interesting children and grandmother to two more.

She lives with her child-groom of 30 years, and their dog, Molly, in North Central Massachusetts.

For more information, visit Bonnieâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s blog at parentforward.blogspot.com

yelling and spend the time to fully address Autumnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s concerns. Talking, negotiating and redirection work well with Autumn.

She also needs structure and supervision.

Potential parents should not personalize Autumnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s behaviors at they work with her in overcoming these behaviors. A single mom or two-parent family would be considered but there should be no children in the home close to Autumnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s age. There are two supervised visits a year with Autumnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s biological mother.

For more information about Autumn or the adoption process in general, please contact Department of Children and Families Adoption Supervisor Geoff Cushner at 508-929-1044.

CIRCLEOFFRIENDS Highlights of Julyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Adoption-Related Events The Heart Gallery. This striking exhibit of portraits of children in the stateâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s foster care system in need of adoption can be seen this summer at the Cape Cod Mall in Hyannis through August 31st. heartgalleryofamerica.org.

MAPP Trainings in the State of Massachusetts. The Department of Children and Families offers ongoing training for adults seeking to adopt from foster care. Please visit mass.gov/dss (Click on Adoption, then Foster Care and Adoption Information Meetings to find the MAPP training link) for a schedule of MAPP

trainings or call 1-800-KIDS-508 (543-7508).

Home in One. Womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Golf Tournament to benefit Home for Little Wanderers. Mon., Sept. 19, Woodland Country Club, 1897 Washington St., Auburndale. A women-only day of fun, fundraising and networking.

Sponsorship opportunities are available. thehome.org.

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Boating, cruises, whale-watching, long car trips and amusement rides can be a nightmare this summer if you or your child are prone to nausea. Something new to try is an acupressure wrist band designed to ease upset stomachs. Psi bands (pronounced “sigh”) come in surprisingly nice colors and patterns and are sold at places like Target, CVS and Rite Aid. They’re recommended for expectant moms too! psibands.com. *Enter to win Psi Bands at baystateparent.com.

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Getting Hooked on Provincetown carrie wattu

“We’re going all the way out there?”

One of the coolest parts of going to Provincetown with the kids is the geography, that fascinating hook in which P-town is situated. Show your kids a map and have them trace the route you will take with their fingers. Point out the Cape’s two bridges, the canal, the ocean, the penisula. They’ll be very curious about visiting the eastern-most tip of Massachusetts, as it does have the coolest shape around.

On your way to P-town, you will pass by towns that boast some of the country’s most beautiful beaches on the Cape Cod National Seashore. These beaches stretch all the way to P-Town, which has over 30 miles of dramatic beach alone, including two main beaches, Herring Cove and the dune-filled Race Point.

“Going to the beach at Race Point is like being in the middle of the ocean,” says Jodie Hollister of Feeding Hills. “The beach is picturesque and so secluded.”

Jodie vacations in Provincetown with her husband,

in-laws and two children, ages 3 years and 11 months.

While you can park at the beach for about $15 a day, every year the Hollisters get a permit to drive their SUV right on the sand. “It’s so easy to spend a full day. With our car right there, we can unpack everything we have: a Pack ‘n Play, toys, raft, a grill, a cooler, a kayak, fishing equipment...” she says. There are limited beach driving passes available from the Provincetown Ranger’s Station as well as numerous vehicle requirements, so be sure to look into a beach driving permit before your trip by visiting nps.gov/ caco/cape-cod-national-seashore-oversand-beachdriving.htm.

By day, the Hollisters have seen sharks, whales and harbor seals right from the shore and have experienced some of the best fishing in New England. By night, the adults take turns going into town, which can get quite colorful in the evening hours. Historically a whaling and fishing community, P-town turned into

an art colony in the 1900s. Today it is an eclectic place, home of galleries and shops and a spirited gay community which tends to flaunt their fun side at night. The nightlife is interesting, sometimes outlandish and probably best suited for adults during the summer season.

Since P-town is a place of embracing different lifestyles, you should be prepared to field some questions from your children. Depending on their age, they’ll be quite content getting ice cream, poking around shops and watching the numerous dogs bark about this canineloving town. You can also walk right from town up to the Pilgrim Monument and Provincetown Museum, which teaches families that it was Provincetown and not Plymouth where the pilgrims originally landed.

So if you’d like to head to “the hook” this summer, you’ll find a friendly and open town, which is all about fun, as well as other adventures (many rain or shine) that include:

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â&#x20AC;˘ Whyday Pirateâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum: whydah.org. A$10, C (612) $8, C under 6 free

Town Parking: $11 - $15 per day but some lots offer $2.50 per hour rates. Check if your hotel offers shuttle services to and from town.

â&#x20AC;˘ Pirate Cruise: capecodecotours.com. A$21, C$16

â&#x20AC;˘ Pilgrim Monument and Provincetown Museum: pilgrim-monument.org. A$7, C $3.50, C under 3 free â&#x20AC;˘ Whale Watch: whalewatch.com. A$42, C (12 and under) $34, C (4 and under) free. *Show your AAA card for a discount and look for Internet coupons. â&#x20AC;˘ Dune Tours: artsdunetours.com. A$26, C (6-11) $17 â&#x20AC;˘ Province Lands Bike Trail: Bring your bikes, or do a Google search to find places where you can rent them. â&#x20AC;˘ Welfleet Drive-In: wellfleetcinemas.com.

Helpful Info: Beach Driving Permits: 508-487-2100, ext. 0927 or visit nps.gov.caco/cape-cod-national-seashoreoversand-beach-driving.html. A 7-day pass is $50 $75 depending on your vehicle.

Hint on Beach Fees: With a beach parking rate of $15 per day, you might want to consider a Cape Cod National Seashore Annual Pass for $45.

Carrie Wattu is editor of baystateparent.

She recently visited Provincetown with her family...in the rain.

But there was plenty of shopping and whale watching as well as some cannon balls in the hotel pool.

Where we Stayed : bsp checked out the newly renovated Harbor Hotel on Route 6A in Provincetown, right across the street from the Cape Cod National Seashore. Utile, a Boston Design firm, transformed the former Cape Inn by playing up the hotelâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s existing 1960â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s design with bright torquoise, lime green and orange doors with pops of these colors throughout. The rooms have a modern â&#x20AC;&#x153;IKEAâ&#x20AC;? feel with painted floors that look like sand.

The exterior surprised us at first as it is so dated, but the new design elements really work to play up the nostalgia in the retro-style lobby, open-air restaurant, chic outdoor fire pit and more. We loved looking for places where the updates were done and found it especially fun to stay in a hotel with brand-new paint and furnishings.

Other hotel perks: some water views, pet friendly, complimentary continental breakfast, shuttle to beach and town and nice outdoor pool with Cabana Bar. For more information, visit harborhotelptown. com.

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GO SPLASH: Leap into the spray pool at the Boston Common Frog Pond every day. It’s FREE. Plus, save the date for Frog Appreciation Day on Aug. 20. bostonfrogpond.com.

GO TRIKES AND BIKES: Join the children’s parade in Natick on July 4th with a decorated bike, trike, carriage or wagon. natick4th.org.

GO SOX : Bring food donations to the Red Sox wives at Fenway on Aug. 5 & 6 and receive autographed player photos. gbfb.org. (tickets to game not needed to participate.)

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1FRIDAY FREE & ONGOING FRIDAYS Plays in the Park.

Georges Island, Boston Harbor Islands, Boston Weekly on Fridays at 1:30 p.m. until August 26, 2011. From creative variety shows, to lively musicals and enchanting storytelling, these plays actively engage children’s minds and bodies, leaving them with an expanded sense of their imagination.

Ferry admission applies. 617-223-8108, bostonharborislands.org.

month. Over 200 artists such as painters, photographers, sculptors, glass artists, jewelers, mixed media artists, potters and more. See where they work, discuss art and pick up a little something to take home with you. A great place to visit. westernavenuestudios.com.

FREE Crafts. Lakeshore Learning Store, Newton and Saugus. Drop in every Saturday, 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Ages 3+. lakeshorelearning.com.

17th Annual Family Fun Day. The Town Common, Wilmington. Breakfast, 7 a.m. Family Night Fireworks at 9 p.m. For more information and a schedule of the day, call 978-657-8081 or visit funonthefourth.com.

3SUNDAY FREE Toe Jam Puppet Band. Georges Island, Boston Harbor Islands, Boston. Noon. These performances are very active, encouraging kids and parents to sing and dance along with the band as they

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FREE Amherst Independence Day Celebration.

Fields behind McGuirk Alumni Football Stadium, Umass Amherst. 5 p.m. Musical performances, hot air balloon rides, children’s games, vendors and more.

Fireworks, 9:30 p.m. Free transportation by Umass transit. Rain date: Tues., July 5.

137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 – July 10. brocktonfair.com

137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 – July 10. brocktonfair.com.

FREE Declaring Indpendence. North Bridge, Concord. 1 p.m. Hear the reading of the Declaration of Independence followed by a musket salute. 978318-7825.

FREE Manchester By the Sea Independence Day Parade. 9 a.m. capeannvacations.com.

FREE Natick 4 . Children’s parade will begin around 9 a.m. on Main Street from the bridge at Route 27 to th

ONGOING WEDNESDAYS Concord Band. Fruitlands Museum, Harvard.Weekly on Wednesdays, 7:15 – 8:30 p.m. until July 27. For more than 25 years, fans have enjoyed sunset picnics, spectacular views, and the sounds of a 65-piece, symphonic wind ensemble on the grounds of the Fruitlands Museum. $15 per car. 978-897-9969, concordband.org.

West Side Story. Boston Colonial Theater, Boston.

See July 1 listing for details.

Kids’ Price Saturdays. Franklin Park Zoo, Boston and Stone Zoo, Stoneham. From 10 a.m.

- noon on the first Saturday of every month, all guests will be charged the children’s admission price ($10 at Franklin Park Zoo and $9 at Stone Zoo).

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137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 – July 10. brocktonfair.com FREE July 4th Stories and Crafts. Harvard Coop, Cambridge. 11 a.m. 617-499- 2000.

FREE Open Studios. Western Avenue Studios, Lowell. 12 – 5 p.m. On the first Saturday of every

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137th Annual Brockton Fair. Belmont St./Rte. 123, Brockton. June 30 – July 10. All ages. In addition to the midway full of rides, other featured entertainment includes a surprise-filled magic show, exciting demolition derby, horse racing, amateur boxing, figure 8 racing, stock car football, big bear show, magician, petting zoo, puppet shows, livestock shows and spectacular fireworks displays! 508-5868000, brocktonfair.com.

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ONGOING TUESDAYS African Folktales. The Sterling and Francine Clark Art Institute, Williamstown.

Weekly on Tuesdays, 2 – 3 p.m. until Aug. 23.

Celebrate the El Anatsui exhibition with an afternoon of traditional African folktales presented by renowned storyteller Eshu Bumpus. Free with gallery admission.

413-458-2303, clarkart.edu.

137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 – July 10. brocktonfair.com

ONGOING Butterfly Landing Zoo. Franklin Park Zoo, Boston. Daily, 11 a.m. - 4 p.m. until Sept. 17.

Stroll through a tented outdoor exhibit, filled with hundreds of free-flying, beautiful butterflies. Admission applies. 617-541-5466, franklinparkzoo.org.

ONGOING FRIDAYS Jazz at Sunset. 222 Harrington Way, Worcester. Weekly on Fridays, 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. until July 29. Outdoor concert for music enthusiasts, young families, retirees and couples.

Admission applies. 508-929-2703, ecotarium.org.

FREE Free Admission on Summer Weekdays.

DeCordova Sculpture Park and Museum, Lincoln.

July 5 – Sept. 2 on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Friday: FREE admission to the park and museum from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. with extended evening hours on Thursday until 8 p.m. decordova.org.

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West Side Story. Boston Colonial Theater, Boston.

Weekly, Sun. - Sat. until July 9th. Admission applies.

800-982-2787, broadwayacrossamerica.com/boston.

FREE Northbridge Fireworks. Northbridge Middle School, 171 Linwood Ave., Whitinsville. 9 – 10 p.m.

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FREE and ONGOING ON TUESDAYS Toddler Tuesdays. Spectacle Island, Boston Harbor Islands, Boston. Weekly on Tuesdays, 10:30 – 11:30 a.m. until Aug. 30. Little ones can enjoy nature walks, arts and crafts, storytelling and much more. 617-2238108, bostonharborislands.org.

With songs like “Sneaky Chihuahua” and “Pizza for Breakfast,” Mister G has our attention.

Check out his family concert in Arlington on Sunday, July 10. regenttheatre.com *Plus, enter to win tickets to the show at baystateparent.com. entertain with a unique combination of original songs, masterful shadow puppetry, storytelling and just plain old good fun! Ferry rates apply. 617-223-8108, bostonharborislands.org.

Butterfly Landing. Franklin Park Zoo, Boston.

See July 1 listing for details.

the heart of downtown Natick. The main parade will step off at the 9/27 Mall (two miles away) at 9 a.m.

Check natick4th.org for a complete schedule of family fun events.

FREE Independence Day Celebration.

Gloucester. Horribles Parade 6 p.m. and Grand Fireworks Parade over Gloucester Harbor, 10 p.m. capeannvacations.com.

FREE July 4th Celebration in Newton. Kids’ Morning at the Newton Centre Playground at Tyler Terrace, for children ages 3 – 12 from 10 a.m. Noon. Features a grande pet parade, teddy bear parade, decorated doll carriage promenade, foot races, free ice cream, candy and drinks. Check out the open air market & amusement rides from 11 a.m. - 10 p.m. at Russell J. Halloran Field & Sports Complex, Albemarle Rd., off Rte. 16. There will be crafters and food vendors. At 6 p.m. enjoy music and dancing by the Bo Winiker Band followed by a spectacular fireworks show at 9 p.m. 617-527-8283, newtoncivicpride.org. Rain date: July 5.

FREE Provincetown Independence Day Weekend. Activities July 3 – 5 include fireworks, parades, bands, live music and performances.

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FREE Rockport Independence Day. Firemen’s Parade, 6 p.m.; Band Concert on Back Beach, 8:30 p.m.; Bonfire on Back Beach, 9 p.m. capeannvacations.com.

137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 – July 10. brocktonfair.com FREE Water Safety Programs. Buffomville Dam, Charlton. 2 p.m. Join a Park Ranger on the beach for tips on how to avoid danger or maybe save a life. Call for more details: 978-318-8426. Also July 10, 17, 24.

Hansel and Gretel’s Grimm Tale. Berkshire Theatre, Pittsfield. July 6 – 16, 11 a.m.This summer bring the whole family to see this lighthearted tale based on two Grimm’s Fairy Tales (“Hansel and Gretel” and “The Devil with the Three Golden Hairs”). Admission fees apply. 413-2985576, berkshiretheatre.org.

ONGOING WEDNESDAYS Wheels at Work.

Providence Children’s Museum, Providence, RI. Weekly Wednesdays, 10 a.m. - Noon until July 27.

Kids climb aboard a fire truck, ambulance, forklift, giant digger and more and meet the drivers who operate them. Explore a different vehicle each week!

Ages 3 – 11. Admission applies. 401-273-5437, childrenmuseum.org.

ONGOING WEDNESDAYS Toddler and Preschool Hour. EcoTarium, Worcester. Weekly on Wednesdays, 10:30 – 11 a.m. Enjoy storytime, craft activities, live animals and more - all developed especially for little ones ages 3 and under. New Themes every week!Admission fees apply. ecotarium.org.

7THURSDAY FREE & ONGOING Youth Yoga. Spectacle Island, Boston Harbor Islands, Boston. Weekly on Thursdays, 10:30 a.m. until August 18. A creative and fun beginner’s yoga session on beautiful Spectacle Island that uses animated poses and basic stretching exercises. Ferry rates apply. 617-223-8108, bostonharborislands.org.

FREE & ONGOING Fishing Clinics on Spectacle Island. Boston Harbor Islands, Boston Weekly Thursdays, Noon until Aug. 24. Join a BAYSTATEPARENT 17

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ages 4 – 6 and their parents. Session one: 10:15-10:45 a.m. Session two: 11-11:30 a.m There are two identical sessions and attendance is on a first-come, first-served basis. A$12, C (2- 18) $8, Under 2 FREE. ecotarium.org.

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FREE Krafty Kids on Spectacle Island. Boston Harbor Islands, Boston. 11 a.m. Using inspirations of the islands’ stories and themes, kids will create recycled art masterpieces. All you need is your imagination! Admission applies. 617-223-8108, bostonharborislands.org.

FREE & ONGOING Plays in the Park. Georges Island, Boston Harbor Islands, Boston. See July 1 listing for details.

137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 – July 10. brocktonfair.com.

FREE Second Fridays. MIT Museum, 265 Massachusetts Ave., Cambridge. 5 – 8 p.m. Mingle with friends in the

137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 – July 10. brocktonfair.com.

Discovery Studio Opening Celebration.

Providence Children’s Museum, Providence, RI. See July 7 listing for details. Also July 9 & 10.

Coastal Gardens Tour. Rockport. July 8 & 9. Tour 13 private Rockport gardens. Tour starts on upper Main Street at the Visitor Information Booth, Route 127 and Barletta Park. 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. $25. 978-546-2896 or 978-546-6861.

FREE Nursing Beyond the First Year. Mothers and Company, West Boylston. 1 – 2 :30 p.m. Meets the second Friday of each month. A monthly discussion group/playgroup for those who are continuing to breastfeed children over one year old or those who are considering it and curious to meet moms who are still

ONGOING Opening Day Harry Pottery Scavenger Hunt. Harvard Museum of Natural History, Cambridge. Daily, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. July 9 – Sept. 5. Celebrate the world of J. K. Rowling’s Harry Potter in a scavenger hunt in the museum galleries.

Free with museum admission. 617-495-3045, hmnh. harvard.edu.

Whaling City Festival. Buttonwood Park (next to the zoo), New Bedford. July 8 – 10. 9 a.m. - 8 p.m. daily. Shop, eat, music, entertainment, carnival rides and more. whalingcityfestival.net.

FREE Crafts. Lakeshore Learning Store, Newton and Saugus. Drop in every Saturday, 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Ages 3+. lakeshorelearning.com.

“Welcome to Our Home” A Living History Tour. Orchard House, Concord. 4:45- 5:45 p.m. Take a trip to the past as you have an interactive tour with an expert, authentically costumed guide portraying an Alcott family member or one of their famous friends.

Hear fascinating anecdotes and learn first-hand about their lives and times. A$12, C(6-17)$8, C (2-6) $4.

Family rate: $30. Space is limited; reservations & prepayment strongly suggested. 978-369-4118 x106 for information/reservations.

FREE Take a Look Morning. Applewild School, Crocker Building,120 Prospect St., Fitchburg Monthly, every first Thursday until August 4. 9 a.m.

For prospective parents to tour the school and see teachers and students in action. No RSVP necessary.

978-342-6053, applewild.org.

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FREE & ONGOING THURSDAYS Mashpee Summer Concert Series. Mashpee Commons. Thursdays thru Aug. 11, 6 - 7:30 p.m. artsfoundation.org. No rain dates.

FREE July Concerts on the Green. Pinehill Village Green, Exit 3 off Route 3, Plymouth. Thursdays in July. Expect to see regional favorites such as U2 cover band, Joshua Tree, Beatles cover band, Beatlejuice, Vineyard favorite Entrain as well as up and coming local and regional acts. Pinehills.com. In August, these free nights on the Green will be dedicated to family movies.

Discovery Studio Opening Celebration.

Providence Children’s Museum, Providence, RI. Daily through July 10, various times. Check website.

During this opening weekend celebration, sample a selection of creative activities that will be offered in Discovery Studio throughout the summer. Create with natural materials, tackle creative construction challenges and experience a sensory exploration of materials from mild to messy. Admission applies. 401273-5437, childrenmuseum.org.

Bubble Science for Ages 4 – 6. EcoTarium, Worcester. First Thursday of every month for children

Ever ride in a duck? See the sights and hear the history of Boston as you waddle and swim on this unique tour. BostonDuckTour.com.

Museum’s unique galleries with displays of holograms, kinetic sculptures, historic robots and some of the latest research coming out of MIT during this monthly free evening. web.mit.edu/museum/ Whaling City Festival. Buttonwood Park (next to the zoo), New Bedford. July 8 – 10. 9 a.m. - 8 p.m. daily. Shop, eat, music, entertainment, carnival rides and more. whalingcityfestival.net.

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enjoying their nursing relationship. RSVPs welcome.

Drop-ins welcome too. mothersandcompany.com.

9SATURDAY 137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 – July 10. brocktonfair.com

Fun Concerts for Kids. Amazing Things Arts Center, Framingham. RhymeZwell (10:30 a.m.): This nursery school teacher and hip hop performer is a firm believer that hip hop music can be an amazing tool for learning. In the vein of Mother Goose and Aesop, he has taken rhyming and storytelling one giant leap further. Flannery Bros (11:15 a.m.) A happy quirkiness bubbles throughout the brothers’ music. Accordions, ukulele, horns, percussion, keyboards, guitar and more,

OH,THEPLACESYOUâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;LLGO can thier possibly be another band with more energy than the Flans? Admission applies. 508-405-2787, amazingthings.org.

Discovery Studio Opening Celebration.

Providence Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum, Providence, RI. See July 7 listing for details. Also July 10.

4th Annual CBACT Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Theatre Festival.

Eastern Nazarene College, 23 E. Elm Ave., Quincy. 9:30 a.m. An action-packed day of shows and interactive workshops for all ages. Admission applies. cbact.org.

FREE Swan Festival. Merchantâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Way, behind Main St., Wareham. 10 a.m. - 3 p.m. Family day of live music, dancing, delicous food, artists/ crafters, authors, non-profits, jewelry, train rides thru the festival. Be a Swan Prince or Princess for the day and meet Miss Massachusetts. warehamvillageassociation.com.

Beatles for Sale Outdoor Concert. Goodale Park, Crescent St., West Boylston. 7 p.m. Great for families and teens as you listen to this Beatles cover band in family-friendly Goodale Park. A$10, C (13-21) $5, C under 12 free. All proceeds benefit art education for West Boylston students. wbaf.org. Rain Location: West Boylston Middle/High School. Next date: July 23.

10SUNDAY Mister G Concert. Regent Theatre, 7 Medford St., Arlington. 4 p.m. Mister G is Ben Gundersheimer, a critically acclaimed singer/songwriter/producer who spent 20 years as a Boston-based rock frontman and solo artist before transitioning to making family music. His energetic, highly interactive live stage show features his catchy, original songs like â&#x20AC;&#x153;Sneaky Chihuahua,â&#x20AC;? â&#x20AC;&#x153;Lost Your Teeth,â&#x20AC;? â&#x20AC;&#x153;Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t Waste Stuffâ&#x20AC;? and â&#x20AC;&#x153;Pizza for Breakfast.â&#x20AC;? Admission applies. 781646-4849, regenttheatre.com.

FREE & ONGOING South End Market. Harrison Ave., Boston. Every Sunday all summer from 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. Bostonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s original Art and Indie Design Market. Artists, vendors and farmers for the whole family! sowaopenmarket.com.

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Battle and Can Drive. Stone Zoo, 149 Pond St., Stoneham. 10 a.m. - 2:30 p.m. in the Stone Zoo parking lot. Held the second Saturday of each month through October. All of the proceeds from this annual fundraiser benefit conservation efforts supported by Zoo New England, the nonprofit organization that manages Stone Zoo and Franklin Park Zoo. stonezoo. org. Also August 13, Sept. 10 and Oct. 8.

Have a sunset picnic while listening to concerts on the spectacular grounds of the Fruitlands Museum in Harvard every Wednesday in July. $15 per car. fruitlands.org.

137th Annual Brockton Fair. June 30 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; July 10. brocktonfair.com FREE Water Safety Programs. Buffomville Dam, Charlton. 2 p.m. Join a Park Ranger on the beach for tips on how to avoid danger or maybe save a life. Call for more details: 978-318-8426. Also July 17 & 24.

Family Yoga. DeCordova Sculpture Park and Museum, Lincoln. 10 a.m. for childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s yoga ages 3 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 6; 10:30 a.m. for childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s yoga ages 7-11, and 11 a.m. Adultâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s yoga (All levels) A $10 per session or $25 for all three; Families $25 per session. Admission to the Museum and Park are included. Bring a picnic or enjoy lunch in the cafĂŠ. Sculpture Park tours are offered at 1 p.m. and Museum tours are offered at 2 p.m. Free coconut water provided by event sponsor Vita Coco. Tickets: decordova.org. Also Aug. 14.

Whaling City Festival. Buttonwood Park (next to the zoo), New Bedford. July 8 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 10. 9 a.m. - 8 p.m. daily. Shop, eat, music, entertainment, carnival rides and more. whalingcityfestival.net.

The Art and Fun of the Nature Journal. Garden in the Woods, Framingham. 1:30 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 4:30 p.m. Make your first entries in a new, individualized journal,

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Join Elizabeth Farnsworth, scientific illustrator and ecologist with New England Wild Flower Society, to learn about and enjoy the art and addictive activity of keeping a nature journal. All materials provided. $39NM. Pre-register and inquire about age recommendations: 508-877-7630, x 3303.

Toddler Tuesdays. Boston Harbor Islands. See July 5 listing for details.

ONGOING MONDAYS Story and Healthy Snack Time. Whole Foods Market, Framingham. Weekly on Mondays, 10:30 a.m. for ages 2-6. 508-628-9525.

FREE Brimfield Antiques Show. Fairground on Route 20, Brimfield. July 12 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 17. The Brimfield Antiques Show began in the 1950s and has become the largest and best-known outdoor antiques show in the country. Running along Rt. 20 for a distance of perhaps a half-mile and perhaps 500â&#x20AC;&#x2122; or more, back on each side of the highway, the Brimfield Show is a huge, vast undertaking, filled with thousands of dealers dealers over the course of the week, selling everything from the finest antiques to â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;yard junkâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;, requiring a day or two to see everything there is to see. Food courts and rest facilities abound, and the shows are filled with hidden treasures and the â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;right kind of peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;, creating a safe and fun environment for everyone, children included. brimfieldshow.com.

FREE Ben Rudnick and Friends Concert.

Town Hall Gazebo, 65 North Main St., West Bridgewater. 7 p.m. Ben Rudnick and Friends play the hippest family music around. 508-894-1217, benrudnick.com.

Firefly Nature Program. Mass Audubonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Broadmoor Wildlife Sanctuary, 280 Eliot St. (Rt.16), Natick. 7:30 p.m. Fees apply. Registration required: 508-655-2296, broadmoorprograms@massaudubon. org. Bats: August 2.

Discovery Studio Opening Celebration.

Providence Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum, Providence, RI. See July 7 listing for details.

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African Folktales. Williamstown. See July 5 listing for details.

13WEDNESDAY FREE Brimfield Antiques Show. One of the best in the country. Safe and family-friendly. See July 12 listing for details.

Warfield House Inn at Valley View Farm. 200 Warfield Rd., Charlemont. Find everything from llama treks (seasonal) and cozy rooms. There are 530 acres for you to explore. Depending on the season there are horse and wagon rides, sheep to shear, cattle to round up, hiking or snowshoe trails, sap to gather and unsuspected enjoyments in the most simple and wonderful events of the day. Admission applies. 413-339-6600, warfieldhouseinn.com.

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Family Movie: A Bugâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Life. Peabody Essex Museum, Salem. 10:30 a.m. Create your own bug mask to wear as you watch Flik, a misfit ant, try to save his colony from a greedy gang of grasshoppers.

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Westport Fair. 200 Pine Hill Rd., Westport. July 13-17. See July 13 listing for details.

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Artbeat Festival. Davis Square, Somerville. July 15 & 16. Somerville Art Council annually sponsors the multi-day party, starting with a parade, followed by evening concerts, and culminating with a full day of outdoor concerts, vendors and art shows. somervilleartscouncil.org.

Westport Fair. 200 Pine Hill Rd., Westport. July 13-17. See July 13 listing for details.

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Who Will Feed Yaacob?

Six-year-old Yaacob Gebru of Ayer has been medically cleared to eat with his mouth instead of a feeding tube as pictured here with his father. His insurance company has denied the funding.

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What would you do if the one thing in the way of your child living a healthy and happy life was an insurance company?

imply put, Amy Gebru wants to see her 6-year-old son Yaacob enjoy a family dinner with his mouth, with his hands, with the relish that most kids show when biting into a hot slice of pizza or their very own frosting-laden birthday cake. Because for years, Yaacob has taken his meals through a gastrostomy tube, a necessity when he was a very sick infant, but not anymore. With stronger health, Yaacob has been medically cleared to receive nutrition through his mouth.

First, he needs to learn how to eat.

“I want him to enjoy food,” says Amy of Ayer. “I do get that picture for him. It is just his personality. I think he will really enjoy food.”

To start, Yaacob has to wean off his feeding tube, not an easy process, but one made even more difficult by some of Yaacob’s learning difficulties due to autism and by his total tube dependence. His family

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Once Anthem Blue Cross Blue Shield, the family’s insurance company, denied the initial request to have Yaacob weaned off his tube and learn to eat at an 8-week inpatient program at Kennedy Kreiger Institute in Baltimore, Amy took matters into her own hands.

Using a You Tube campaign, media press releases and good old-fashioned word-of-mouth, Amy is bringing attention to Yaacob’s plight. She has also started an appeal to the denial.

Yaacob’s Story Yaacob’s journey began when he and twin sister, Yenae, were born 9 weeks early on November 24, 2004. The smaller of the two, Yaacob weighed only 2 pounds 3 ounces.

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Yoftahe, from whom she is divorced, were told to brace themselves for problems. But for the first 24 hours, Yaacob seemed to do pretty well, given the circumstances, and doctors were more concerned about Yenae.

“Within 24 hours, that flipped,” says Amy. “As she got better, he got worse.”

As a preemie, Yaacob’s lungs required Continuous Positive Airway Pressure, a large oxygen tube that helped him breathe. Yaacob did not progress, and by late winter doctors recommended a lung biopsy. The results showed cellular interstitial pneumonitis, a very rare condition in which Yaacob’s lungs could not effectively exchange carbon dioxide for oxygen. If children make it past their fifth birthday with the condition, like Yaacob, there is a good chance they will survive and outgrow the condition.

But the life-threatening disease that necessitated he stay in the hospital

for 354 days of his first year of life, carried extensive complications. His breathing difficulties made it nearly impossible to feed normally and grow appropriately.

By 7 months, the feeding tube was placed. Yaacob’s lungs continued to deteriorate, necessitating a tracheostomy and a ventilator for 9 months, further complicating any attempts at bottle feeding.

Improvement But Yaacob is stronger and his lungs have improved. The issues that necessitated a feeding tube are improved. But because of it, he needs constant supervision.

“The feeding tube holds him back from the most normal life he can have,” says Joanne Fontaine, RN, one of Yaacob’s home care nurses. “It is a big burden for him to have a nurse follow him every day.

It just sets him apart from everyone else.”

After speaking with doctors and participating in a meeting with a care team at Kennedy Kreiger (paid for by insurance), Amy believes she has found Yaacob’s best chance for an emotionally and physically sound tube-weaning process. The program covers everything from the coordination for eating to chewing and swallowing food without spitting it out or choking. The family will also receive training, because success depends on Yaacob’s continuing work.

Anthem BCBS The Gebru family is currently waiting word on an appeals process with their insurer. Because of privacy laws, Anthem would not go into detail about Yaacob’s case, but a company representative said, “It was deemed more appropriate to have this take place in an outpatient setting.” According to the representative, two physicians provided an internal review process and stated that what was requested could be done appropriately in an outpatient setting. He did say the case is not closed as the appeals process is an option.

Amy disagrees with the decision.

Despite managing unimaginable medical situations, weaning Yaacob off his feeding tube terrifies her. He is her son, not her patient. Because his life depends on his feedings, how can she possibly withhold them? Will it be done correctly? What if

it isn’t?

“Yaacob’s complex medical history, lack of exposure to eating over the years and diagnosis of autism indicate a multifactorial etiology of his feeding issues,” says Dr. Peter Girolami, assistant director of the Feeding Disorders Program at Kennedy Kreiger. Dr. Girolami notes that Yaacob has never eaten large quantities of food, nor has he experienced the taste and textures of eating, so his digestive system needs close monitoring for discomfort or reactions and to insure that Yaacob is taking in enough nutrients and calories.

“He is not like every other child,” says Amy. “For whatever reason, he is different.” Kennedy Kreiger is the only facility that can manage Yaacob’s autism, nonverbal communication, behavior issues and his complete feeding tube dependence. No Massachusetts facilities offer inpatient feeding tube weaning.

Yaacob’s specialist, Dr. Timothy Buie of The Lurie Center at Massachusetts General Hospital, was unavailable for comment, but said in a recommendation letter that, “There are times where holding feeds seems to affect his blood sugars and his mood and sensitivity, so it has been very difficult using traditional methods to bring about a better eating program.”

Dr. Buie also points out the life-long benefits of being free of a feeding tube.

“He requires a large volume of nutrition support at great medical cost over time, and so although this effort may have its own independent cost in the scheme of his care for life, being able to progress toward better oral intake so that we can remove the gastrostomy tube would be remarkably important for his health and his quality of life as well as to reduce the risk of complications related [to] gastrostomy tube feedings,” he said in the letter.

Yoftahe says that the quality of life is so important. “It is heartbreaking when we go to a restaurant and there is nothing we can offer him,” he says. “You feel like you are neglecting him. The kids might fight about what restaurant they want to go to, but that is all part of life. He is not part of that experience at all.”

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family. Amy once hauled more than 100 cans of Yaacob’s formula to Disney World, and he goes on outings to restaurants and fun places like everyone else. He goes to school every day, year round, in Natick. Yenae and older brother Eliajah model behavior for him and treat him like any other sibling would. Amy, in fact, cherishes (mostly) the normalcy of her kids bickering in the car. But there is no such thing as a drive-thru stop at McDonald’s for the three Gebru kids because a tube feeding, although done in 5 minutes, requires skill. Amy wonders about the future. If Yaacob ever lives in a home where others care for him, will they be able to keep up with feeding Yaacob every two hours as she does?

Amy says when Yaacob’s feeding tube was placed, it gave his parents relief. “No one said anything about down the road how to remove it,” says Amy. “We were so focused on saving his life, having him get bigger and stronger.”

The ventilator only added to the feeding issues. By the time Yaacob was off the ventilator, attempts at typical feeding were difficult at best. “Between the trach and the tube, feeding wasn’t pleasurable,” Amy recalls. “I think that is why he stopped taking things by mouth.”

They tried physical and occupational therapies. “He would just gag at the foods most 1- year-olds would play with,” says Amy. He had chronic gastrointestinal problems from diarrhea and vomiting and he also has some problems with blood sugar, so the tube remained.

Now the Gebrus want it out if it is not

a physical requirement for Yaacob to live.

They want him to be able to eat and to get hungry like a typical child would.

He still gets a “taste” at dinners, where Amy will put different foods in front of him to touch and bring to his mouth. But nothing makes it past his teeth, ever.

“My guess,” says Amy, “is that some see a child on a tube for this long and think, ‘Why take him off?’ Money is a big issue, but we are spending money in other ways . . . with home care, with school and with outpatient therapies. But he is off the ventilator, the trach, the oxygen. Why does he need this tube?”

“If the doctors said he cannot eat for some reason, then we would say, ‘Okay,’” says Yoftahe. “But every doctor and every specialist has cleared him to eat by mouth.”

“We did this to save his life, but there is no remedy for this,” says Amy. “But there are tons of other kids like this. Places have these programs because of the need.

Yaacob is thriving now. Why can’t he do that with food?”

Amy’s single-minded determination speaks volumes about what she sees for her son. With a set to her jaw, Amy says, “I am going to make this happen one way or another. It is just time.” youtube.com/watch?v=SwlOt1EyheM Letters of support can be sent to speakupforlittley@yahoo.com Julia Quinn-Szescuil is an award-winning writer.

She lives in Bolton with her husband and two daughters.

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remember sitting down one day at the kitchen table with my mother when I was about 12. There, in front of me, was a science book opened to a diagram of the female reproductive system. The line drawing of the female anatomy with crayon pink ovaries and uterus stared back at me, and I can’t even remember what my mother said to me, just those pink body parts with the word “menses” written in black. Why wasn’t it called “womenses?”

I wondered.

That was my period talk.

My worst moment was during a cheerleading practice warm up. The crotch of my very short shorts popped open because of the size of the big pad and sanitary belt I was wearing and probably because I was bloated. In a saturated pad in a pair of frayed jean shorts hanging off of me like an odd-looking mini skirt, I panicked.

Luckily, my best friend introduced me to the world of the tampon. Up until that point, I didn’t even know they had existed. I was grateful for best friends and Tampax because I was a dancer and a cheerleader, and Maxi Pads and performances just don’t mix.

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Years later, when I had my girls, I decided I would answer their questions starting with the early days of when the girls saw me reaching for a box of Light Days or tampons at the grocery store or when they had to run with me to the bathroom when they were little (kids learn a lot where there is only one small bathroom in the house). They were not going to get caught red-handed in a saturated Maxi Pad if I had anything to say about it.

I wasn’t going to be that mom who would mislead their girls into thinking a tampon was anything but what it was, a nifty feminine hygiene product to help mommy deal with her period in the most efficient and practical way.

My theory held together quite nicely for my oldest daughter. When she first got her period, she skipped into the kitchen after school.

“Guess what!?” she shouted. She was 12.

I thought she had gotten an A+ on a test by the sound of her voice, but she said, “I got my period!”

She seemed so excited. This open communication stuff works, I thought.

I read later that some moms give

cards or flowers or take their daughters out to celebrate. To me, this positive experience was the celebration!

My youngest daughter was a different story. Just recently, my grown daughter told me that she did not even let on for a couple of months that she had gotten her period! She wanted to play her own role so that at least her story would belong to her and not her sister.

Second daughter’s story goes something like this: She was at a bus stop early one morning with her brother. “Hey, guess what? I got my period!” she said, smiling from pierced ear to pierced ear.

“That’s disgusting. Don’t ever tell me anything like that again!” he said.

Months later she came to me in desperation when she needed help learning how to use a tampon for the first time. She was crying as I tried to stay calm and just go with the flow, pun totally intended.

“Do you want me to do it for you?” I asked in the best possible way that a mother who has a daughter in need of help can offer.

“No!!!!” she cried.

I talked her through it. It was awkward and intense, not exactly the moment I

had planned for, but I just decided I was going to be the best support I could be in her time of need.

As I look back, I realize that although I raised both girls the same way, each had different experiences. This was a good lesson for me as a mom to be mindful of my daughter’s individual personalities.

Despite receiving two different reactions, I never regret talking openly to my girls from early on. Amy Lang, a sexual health educator for over 20 years, says, “If you rely on strangers and their peers to teach your kids about sexuality they lose out on learning from the person they most want and need to hear from - YOU! Worse yet, they don’t get the information you want them to have about your values and related topics like love and healthy relationships.”

Better yet, she says, “And when you are open to talking about sex, this can lead to talking about many other parts of their lives.”

Years Before the Period So it’s a good idea to have an ongoing discussion with your daughter from the

time she is curious by answering questions as they come rather than overload her with extra information. Lang says that it should be a series of short and sweet conversations throughout childhood.

And children as old as age 5 are not too young.

“The sooner you start the better,” she says.

Keep in mind that girls may start to menstruate anywhere between 8 and 16 years of age. The old wives’ tale that your daughter will start when you started is not an accurate indicator so be sure to give your daughter the space she needs to develop at her own pace.

As a mom, you can help your daughter

• Share your own story to help relate your feelings.

• Answer questions as they come; don’t overload your daughter with extra information.

• Be supportive, but let your daughter experience her own feelings. At the same time, let your daughter know it’s natural and it’s going to be okay.

• Reassure your daughter, she should not feel ashamed or embarrassed. This is something to feel special about.

• Give your daughter some breathing

your daughter well before she begins her period is a smart and healthy thing to do. Promote a sense of love and understanding and make sure your daughter feels beautiful and special, after all, she is becoming a woman, and we women have to stick together, period.

Visit Amy Lang’s website, birdsandbees. com, for more tips.

Columnist and writer, Bonnie J. Toomey is mom to four children and grandmother to two more.

She lives with her husband and their dog, Molly in New England. For more information, visit Bonnie’s blog at parentforward.blogspot.com.

“And when you are open to talking about sex, this can lead to talking about many other parts of their lives.”

– Amy Lang, sexual health educator embrace the changes she is going through, and encourage her to feel more at ease by following the tips below: • “Look for teachable moments – watching movies or TV, or even from their friends’ lives,” says Lang.

• Keep panty liners ready to use, just in case, in a purse or pocketbook.

space when she is having her period.

• And remember, this is your daughter’s story to share if she wants to; respect her privacy while at the same time letting her know it’s okay to include other friends and family to celebrate her special milestone if she feels she wants to do so.

Talking about menstruation with

Editor’s Note: On a recent outing to the Museum of Science in Boston, the exhibit “How Your Life Began” on the second floor really struck me as a great teaching tool for parents to explain the menstrual cycle as well as the male and female reproductive system to their children. It’s worth a visit: mos.org.

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The Period Book: Everything You Don’t Want to Ask (But Need to Know) by Karen Gravelle and Debbie Pallen.

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Stacey’s days are long and busy as her husband, a cardiologist in Rhode Island, doesn’t get home until 7 or 8 at night.

Since Stacey’s family lives in Alabama and her in-laws live in Ghana, by the time Joseph arrives home, Stacey is in her exercise clothing waiting for him, literally in the driveway. After a busy day of diaper changes, preschool, elementary school, meals, walks, naps, activities, homework, Stacey just needs to run at the track.

That’s why Stacey couldn’t believe it when Joseph recently asked, “Why can’t we all go?”

Assuming Joseph and the kids would spend some time at the playground while she ran the track, Stacey reluctantly agreed. It’s hard not to smirk as she describes Joseph, in his scrubs and sandals, trailing behind her pushing the baby in the carriage while the other three children attempt to chase her down.

For Stacey, this is where the laughing and sweeping it under the carpet really comes into play. “If I were to get upset over everything,” she says, “I would have to be institutionalized.”

Jospeh, whom Stacey describes as

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even keeled and easy to please, has the right intentions, however, as the family rarely spends a weekend together. Three weekends a month, Stacey packs a bag and heads west down the Pike to her job as an OB-GYN at the Holyoke Medical Center. She’s gone the whole weekend, an

hour and half away, while Joseph handles boo-boos, soccer, birthday parties, play dates, dance and school projects. The remaining weekend of the month, Joseph works in Rhode Island on call.

The family used to have the help of a nanny, but after going through seven

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nannies in one year, Stacey decided, “That’s it. I’m going to be the nanny.”

It’s definitely not easy, but Stacey says, “I worked too hard to get where I am.” She also prefers to be what she humorously refers to as her children’s “nanny for life.”

Stacey wanted to become an OB after taking a trip to Ghana while in medical school. “I was surprised that they let me, the medical student, deliver babies.

I loved it.” Today she still cries after delivering a baby. “It’s the endorphins,” she says. “It’s an emotional high. I love delivering babies.”

Holyoke, which Stacey says has one of the highest rates of teenage pregancy in Massachusetts, also makes her reflect on the many 13-year-olds she sees delivering babies and the young moms of these girls who are so excited for them. “They don’t realize the cycle...” she says.

Stacey will write an order for an epidural almost immediately (she’s a big proponent and had four of them herself) but what she won’t do is write a note excusing a young mother from school. I tell them, “No way. You can do it.”

After having her fourth child, Stacey also better understands postpartum depression. “We had three kids and a fourth ‘surprise’ on the way. Joseph didn’t understand why I was so sad. I had the blues.”

As Stacey worried about where they would find the room in their home to put a fourth child, Joe said, “We can just put the crib in the bedroom.” Stacey was overwhelmed.

Support came from her parents who stayed in Massachusetts for three months while Stacey rested, exercised and got adjusted to life with four children.

Today, life is still hectic and she longs for one-on-one time with each of her children. While she hasn’t found a way to do that presently, she does manage to carve out time for date nights with Joseph. While they may have to stop and do some errands on the way home and inevitably will talk “shop,” sharing clinical experiences with each other, Stacey has to draw upon her mantra each time Joseph asks, “Why can’t we bring the kids?”

Run. Laugh. Sweep.

Carrie Wattu is editor of baystateparent.

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Take 10 with Stacey 1. I am the queen of: Organization.

2. Three words to describe my family: Lively, active, loving.

3. Having four children and a career is: Joyfully challenging. It is now daily routine for our family to live on multiple simultaneous wave fronts of tasks. Both my husband and I love our kids as well as our profession as physicians. We have been fortunately blessed with both. Mindful of this, our family strives to maintain a consistent faith base in our daily lives.

Even on a ‘worst’ day, this base and love truly dwarf and lighten the parental and professional stress.

4. We love going to: The Museum of Science and the Children’s Museum in Boston. Both places foster new ideas, exploration and growth. We usually take the train into Boston and make it into an entire day trip.

5. What makes me a better mom: My children. They have all contributed to my ever-increasing patience.

6. Current family obsessions: Friday night home movie time with popcorn 7. An inspiring parent (s) I know: My parents. They have inexhaustible energy and love for the grandchildren just as they have always had for me and my three siblings.

8. Best things about the town where I am raising my children: A small town with

lots of safe outdoor parks, walking trails, reservoir and tennis courts. Good public schools. Overall safe neighborhoods and lots of decent and friendly folks.

9. Favorite family foods: Spaghetti with stew, served with spinach laced with smoked mackerel 10. Best part of my day: Family prayer time before bed. I love to hear each of the children reflect on his/her day. Sometimes it is short and sweet. Other times it can be lengthy and a bit convoluted, depending on the child. Joe and I want the children to incorporate prayer into their daily lives and believe in God. Moms Rock is an award-winning monthly profile shining a light on the good that moms do. Do you know a mom who just rocks? Email editor@baystateparent.com.

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Back row: Eddie Spellman - Husband Irene Spellman Ann Marie Geanisis - Sister Elizabeth Keefe - Daughter Liam Keefe - Grandson’s 1st walk Linda Kegel - Best Friends David Kegel - Best Friends Front Row: Christine Spellman - Daugher Ashley Durno - Mike’s girlfriend Michael Spellman - Son

Story of Hope

Irene

Spellman is a breast cancer survivor from Plymouth, MA. Her story starts in November 2006, when she went in for her yearly routine mammogram. She was called back for a follow-up appointment to take more pictures due to something suspicious found on the films. After the additional pictures were taken by the radiologist, he still saw something very concerning on Irene’s breast. He wanted to do an ultra sound. The ultra sound also showed a mass, so Irene was told she needed to have a biopsy. This made her very nervous. She had a needle biopsy and got the bad news just 4 days before Christmas that she had breast cancer, Invasive Ductal Carcinoma. Irene was devastated and fell apart.

When she heard the word “cancer,” Irene automatically thought this meant she would die. Having not been through cancer before, she did not know what the treatment would be or what her options were to fight the cancer. In February of 2007, she chose to have a lumpectomy because the tumor was small. There would be a 30% chance

Irene would need another surgery if they found anything in the sentinel node. Unfortunately, they found micrometastatic ductal carcinoma in the sentinel node, causing Irene to have another surgery. The surgeon took out 7 more lymph nodes and they were all free of cancer. Irene underwent 4 chemotherapy treatments and radiation.

It was a year of grueling treatments.

Irene reflects about her cancer experience, “I am very grateful for the American Cancer Society. They were there for me when I had so many questions and they provided the answers 24 hours a day. I am also grateful for my family and friends. They were the best support anyone could ask for. They were always there to listen and keep me upbeat.”

Today, Irene is nearly a five-year breast cancer survivor and has been participating in the American Cancer Society’s Making Strides Against Breast Cancer walk for four years. Irene got involved in the walk through WeGotSoccer. Irene’s daughters played soccer at their college where the owner of WeGotSoccer, Mike O’Connor’s wife

was the coach. Irene decided that if WeGotSoccer was involved in Making Strides, she and her family wanted to help Mike O’Connor make a difference in the lives of other breast cancer patients and survivors.

Through Irene’s participation in the walk, she has raised over $15,000 for the Society’s research and support services.

“It is imperative to stress the importance of self-check breast exams and yearly mammograms,” tells Irene. “The exams helped save my life and they can help to save many more lives.”

Irene now works at the Breast Center at Jordan Hospital and feels that her work there with breast cancer patients is her way of giving back and helping to make a difference for people currently battling the disease. “We need to find a cure to end this devastating disease,” says Irene.

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WeGotSoccer Kicks Support Out of the Park Flagship

sponsor WeGotSoccer proved their combined passion for soccer and commitment to Making Strides Against Breast Cancer once again during the wellattended LA Galaxy New England Revolution face off on Memorial Day weekend. Nearly 200 Revolution fans, Strides supporters and breast cancer survivors donned pink shirts – donated by WeGotSoccer – in a special section of seats at Gillette Stadium, with proceeds from those tickets directed to Making Strides, all courtesy of WeGotSoccer.

“We are thrilled to have the opportunity to continue help building awareness of breast cancer in our new partnership with the New England Revolution,” says WeGotSoccer President Mike O’Connor.”

WeGotSoccer and the New England Revolution also hosted Strides sponsors in a corporate suite at the game to celebrate the continued shared goals of supporting Making Strides Against Breast Cancer, a walk that had nearly 40,000 participants and raised $3 million.

“WeGotSoccer has decided to focus 100% of their charitable efforts toward one cause to have the greatest single effect possible. Our goal is to raise awareness, promote advocacy and create a world with more birthdays,” says O’Connor, whose company has been a Making Strides flagship sponsor since 2007.

A relationship with the New England Revolution will help the continued awareness of the Making Strides walk by raising the necessary dollars so that the America Cancer Society can fund research that

could some day eradicate breast cancer, according to O’Connor.

“WeGotSoccer, along with our families, friends and soccer partners, have raised over $150, 000,” says O’Connor. “WeGotSoccer embraced the American Cancer Society’s Making Strides Against Breast Cancer walk, and it has proven to be a good relationship.”

As a flagship sponsor, WeGotSoccer has its name emblazoned on the Making Strides’s publicity campaign along side other big companies such as AstraZeneca and Blue Cross Blue Shield. Companies at the flagship level are required to contribute $25,000 and rally at least 300 walkers for the Society’s big event.

O’Connor also plans to partner with the New England Revolution and the American Cancer Society to host another event on October 1 to raise awareness during Breast Cancer month.

“Our Pink Night with the Rev campaign on October 1st is a wonderful kick off to Breast Cancer Awareness Month and our hope is to “pink out” our portion of Gillette stadium as we continue to promote awareness and advocacy for Making Strides Against Breast Cancer,” he says.

According to Making Strides Against Breast Cancer Director, Leanne Danielsen, the company’s deep roots in soccer circles in communities statewide allow Strides to reach residents beyond its traditional demographic.

to rally and inspire their community and staff and never pass up an opportunity to partner with other organizations in order to educate the public and find support for Strides at every level.” She added that O’Connor also includes the organization’s name and logo on his letterhead, sign and in its retail store.

WeGotSoccer has not only supported the American Cancer Society, but has provided everything soccer to youth groups, clubs, towns, professional teams, schools, and families across the country for the past 19 years.

“WeGotSoccer has fewer than 30 staff and are the smallest of our Flagship sponsor but they know how

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WeGotSoccer Has Deep Roots in Community, Soccer and Strides Making Strides Against Breast Cancer flagship sponsor, WeGotSoccer in Foxboro, has not only supported the American Cancer Society since 2007, but has provided everything soccer to youth groups, clubs, towns, professional teams, schools, and families across the country for the past 19 years.

The company’s deep roots in soccer circles in communities statewide allow Making Strides to reach residents beyond its traditional demographic. In fact, WeGotSoccer goes a step above and includes the American Cancer Society’s name and logo on its letterhead, sign and retail store.

We took a few minutes to speak with Foxboro-based WeGotSoccer president Michael O’Connor about his connection to soccer and his commitment to Making Strides Against Breast Cancer, which has been his charity of choice for the past five years.

With so many cancer organizations –

and breast cancer walks in particular -- what drew you to Boston’s Making Strides Against Breast Cancer?

“Our goal in aligning with Making Strides Against Breast Cancer is to expose and mobilize our extensive network of families, many touched by breast cancer, in support of this cause.

We are honored to be involved with the many thousands of people who work with and for the American Cancer Society – all of whom are passionate about supporting those who are fighting cancer and committed to working together to help find a cure for this disease that has touched so many of our lives.”

Why do you choose to focus your philanthropic efforts solely on one event?

“I like concentrating my efforts in order to achieve the maximum affect rather than spread them among dozens of small requests. WeGotSoccer has decided to focus 100% of their charitable efforts toward the American Cancer Society to

have the greatest single effect possible.

Our goal is to raise awareness, promote advocacy and create a world with more birthdays.”

What kind of benefit do you receive from supporting the Making Strides Walk?

“There’s no tangible measure of benefit to my bottom line. Just lots of verbal support and when I see 40,000 people come together in a single day for a single purpose, it is just amazing. I think it’s had a positive impact and certainly has put us in a good light.”

support us.”

Since you are a small company with about 28 employees, how would you advise other small companies to go about considering how they would make a big community impact like WeGotSoccer ?

“Businesses get approached by every good cause, all compelling and all meaningful, but we have to weigh our ability to support all of those, and decide if it’s really going to make a difference.

Charity is not all for big companies.”

How does your support of Making Strides Against Breast Cancer impact your customer base?

“We find that our support of the Making Strides walk has an impact on customer pride and loyalty. WeGotSoccer was responsible for signing up more than 500 participants for the Making Strides walk last October. There’s no shortage of breast cancer-induced heartache among the thousands of soccer players that

Staying Well in the Summer Sun If

you’re packing for a beach trip this summer, chances are good you’ve included sunscreen, sunglasses, and a cover-up on your packing list.

Many of us may be fairly cautious about protecting our skin when we travel to the beach, but how many of us take the same precautions on a typical summer day?

No matter where the summer takes you – whether you’re exercising outdoors, gardening, going on a family picnic, or catching a baseball game – if you’re outside, it’s open season on your skin.

More than two million people are diagnosed with non-melanoma skin

cancers each year in the United States, with most caused by too much exposure to ultraviolet (UV) rays. With a few quick tips from the American Cancer Society, you’ll be out the door for summer fun and on the road to staying well by helping to prevent skin cancer.

Cover up: When you’re out in the sun, wear clothing to protect as much skin as possible. The ideal sun-protective fabrics are lightweight, comfortable, and protect against exposure even when wet.

Slather on a sunscreen with a sun protection factor (SPF) of 15 or higher: Apply products with an SPF of at least

15 to unprotected skin. And look for a sunscreen that protects against both UVA (ultraviolet A, or long-wave) and UVB (ultraviolet B, or short-wave) rays so you are protected from both types of harmful rays from the sun (this sunscreen is often called broad-spectrum sunscreen). Apply about a palmful of sunscreen generously to exposed areas, and be sure to reapply at least every two hours (and more often if you’re swimming or sweating).

Wear a hat: A hat with at least a 2- to 3-inch brim all around is ideal to protect your neck, ears, eyes, forehead, nose and scalp.

Wear sunglasses that block UV rays: Invest in a pair of wraparound sunglasses with at least 99 percent UV absorption to block damaging UVA and UVB light.

Limit direct sun exposure during midday: UV rays are most intense during the middle of the day, usually between the hours of 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. It’s best to plan your outdoor activities during another time, if possible. Checking the UV Index forecast, which indicates the strength of solar UV radiation on a scale from 1 (low) to 11+ (high), is also helpful in planning your activities and avoiding overexposure to UV radiation.

You can find the UV Index for your area at epa.gov/sunwise/uvindex.html.

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Give special attention to the kids: Children tend to spend more time outdoors, can burn more easily, and may not be aware of the sun’s dangers. Be sure to protect your kids using the guidelines above, and start building sun-safe habits while they’re young. Babies younger than 6 months should be kept out of direct sunlight and protected from sun with hats and protective clothing.

Have fun in and out of the sun this summer, but take a few moments to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Test your sun safety IQ with a short quiz at cancer.org/sunsafetyquiz, and call your American Cancer Society at 1-800-2272345 or visit cancer.org for more ways to stay well and help prevent cancer.

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ENOUGH with the

SNACKS Already!

TIPS FOR RAISING KIDS IN AN OVER-SNACKED, FAST FOOD WORLD BY

bonnie j. toomey ashraf m. el attar illustrator

I’ve

got to run some errands, and I know snacks will keep my grandsons happy and quiet. I’ve got a coffee up front and a bagel on the console tray. My grandsons each have juices in their convenient car seat cup holders and nifty plastic bowls with the rubber flaps so the Goldfish won’t fall out in their little laps.

Before we get back, we swing into Dunkin’ Donuts for some donut holes. Yum! We all had our snacks; actually, we always have our snacks. But just how much snacking is 38 JULY2011

too much?

When I was a little girl, the big treat was when Grandma would slice an apple up for us. I would stand next to her at the counter on a stool watching her prepare the nutritious and delicious snack. But in today’s fast-paced world it’s easier to grab a prepackaged snack.

According to the United States Department of Agriculture, “Away fromhome meals and snacks captured 47 percent of the U.S. food dollar in 2001, up from 45 percent in 1991 and 40 percent in 1981.”

That’s a lot of salt and sugar.

Conglomerates like PepsiCo Incorporated, a Fortune 500 company, and a snack and beverage industry which brought in billions last year, are depending on us to indulge.

“According to the National Center for Health Statistics, an astounding 62 percent of adult Americans were overweight in 2000, up from 46 percent in 1980.

Twenty-seven percent of adults were obese (at least 30 pounds above their healthy weight)—twice the percentage in 1960.

Alarmingly, an upward trend in obesity is also occurring for U.S. children.”

Could it be that we are teaching our kids to over snack without even realizing it?

Kate Scarlata, registered and licensed dietician and Medford mother of three teens, says her biggest challenge is feeding her hungry, growing boys healthy and filling foods. She makes sure to have things like cheese, whole grain crackers, fruit, peanut butter with whole grain toast and whole grain cereals and milk out in plain sight. “They need so many calories!” What they don’t need is the empty snacking.

As consumers we are encouraged and expected to snack. Travel cups and cup

holders are a standard design now and built into everything from cars to cinema seats to strollers. Everywhere we go with the kids there seems to be a nearby snack bar or vending machine; we are never too far away from our snacks.

Expanded slick advertising programs don’t make it easier for today’s parents either.

Marketing slogans like “Betcha can’t eat just one” and “Milk’s favorite cookie” are inviting messages for kids, but we must remember that parents do not have to be powerless over the packages of treats and snacks that pervade our grocery store shelves if they opt not to buy them in the first place.

Donna Jarvis, R.D., L.D. specializes in child weight management and suggests that parents eat their meals and snacks together, preferably at the kitchen table and not in front of the TV. If you’re washing, chopping and preparing your own snacks you’ve won half the battle.

Your kids see you doing it, and eating this way benefits everyone in the family. Kids are natural mimics.

Scarlata suggests that bringing home healthy foods is the first and most important thing a parent can do for a family.

“As a parent, it is your job to provide a healthy food environment at home,” she says and she’s right. Children will forage for things that you’ve made available for them to eat.

Kate’s Healthy Checklist: • Leave a bowl of fruit on the kitchen countertop.

• Store cut veggies in clear containers at eye level in the fridge, not, in the crisper where they are not seen.

• Encourage kids to ALWAYS portion food into a serving bowl rather than eating out of a box or bag. This will help them to visualize what they are actually consuming.

• Make produce inviting – a warm bruised apple has little appeal but a cold sliced apple with peanut butter for dipping is more alluring.

Parents today have to watch out for added food dyes, processing and slick packaging which make it difficult to resist

TAKEGOODCARE putting those things in our shopping carts. Shopping the outside of the grocery store helps to keep a more sensible and smarter grocery list as well.

Scarlata reminds parents to be realistic and to help children understand the world of marketing and advertising so they can be aware at an early age how manufacturers can lure you in with fancy packaging and fun advertisements.

“I explain to my kids that food ‘products’ are ‘junk foods’ and can be detrimental to their health. Likewise, I think being the food police and not allowing deviation from healthful foods can make kids more interested in them, ‘the forbidden fruit’ concept. I will purchase ‘treats’ but they are ‘treats’ not foods for daily consumption,” cautions Scarlata.

With families “on-the-go” and the summer months fast approaching, parents can encourage their toddlers, tweens and teens to eat right by following some of these sensible guidelines.

10 Nutritious and Delicious Tips • Be one step ahead of the children by preparing snacks that are healthy and easy to take along with you to the park, beach, games and gatherings.

• Set an example by eating and enjoying the same foods that you expect your kids to eat. The bonus: everyone gets healthy!

• Regularly eat meals at home, as a family, whenever you can. This helps improve appetite and is comforting for children.

Don’t insist kids clean their plates; never use food as a reward or bribe.

• Involve kids when grocery shopping and packing their lunch box: teach younger children about nutritional values and show older kids how to read labels. Let the kids have a hand in packing their own snacks.

• Instill a love for delicious and nutritious food in your children at a young age.

Don’t automatically assume they are going to prefer cheesy curls over a slice of whole cheese and a fresh piece of fruit.

“A common problem with kids is that they turn to food when bored; helping your child decipher boredom from true hunger can provide a lifetime of positive eating habits for life. This generation has grown up in the fast food world always expecting to have food or a beverage on hand within seconds of desiring it,” says Scarlata.

Snack Snares to Avoid • Pacifying kids with snacks just before meal time. This zaps appetite and reduces a child’s willingness to want to try new foods.

• Using snacks to prevent temper tantrums or to keep kids busy or quiet.

• Offering snacks without checking to see if a child is bored, tired or in need of

attention first. Children who are young often mistake hunger for other needs. You will help to set up good future eating habits if you go through this checklist first.

• If you must have treats, do not keep them in plain sight.

• Don’t make a big deal over junk food, but make it a point to highlight good foods whenever you are eating them.

• Do not allow toddlers to snack anytime, but try scheduling a few designated snack times during the day; this helps toddlers learn control and teaches children there are certain times for snacking. Include two or three healthy choices for kids to choose from like applesauce, low-sugar whole grain cereal, yogurt, sliced cheese in fun shapes, hard-boiled eggs, and soft, small pieces of fruit to avoid choking.

Add veggies with hummus, whole grain pretzels with low-fat dip and whole grain pita chips with salsa for older children and teens.

It does take extra effort, but if parents and grandparents work hard and get kids involved having fun while eating whole foods together from the very beginning, healthy choices can last a lifetime.

For more on healthy choices, visit katescarlata.wordpress.com.

Columnist and writer, Bonnie J. Toomey is mom to four interesting children and grandmother to two more and lives with her husband and their dog, Molly in New England. For more information, visit Bonnie’s blog at parentforward.blogspot.com.

• Don’t get into the habit of eating in the car or stopping for fast food.

• Buy local and fresh produce whenever you can, take the kids to pick their own berries and fruit.

• Remember to stick to whole grains and whole foods in their most natural form.

• Cut down on processed foods with lots of sodium and sugary drinks; drink more water.

• Make your own frozen pops with 100% juice, berries, bananas or peaches.

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amy benoit, steven king photography

hile many of us are still asleep in our beds, they manage to pull themselves away from the warmth of theirs to work out.

Ranging in age (from mid30s to early-50s) and careers, these local moms are committed to physical fitness.

They’re lean, mean, momma machines and dedicated members of the self proclaimed Unfit Mother’s Club.

In March of 2010, with a few friends and a big idea, Traci Parath, affectionately referred to as Sarge, formed the club which now boasts membership of a baker’s dozen. “We would meet at Traci’s house and do exercise stations in the driveway,” says Millbury mother of three Jessica Bristol, whose 8-pound weight loss allows her to fit back into her pre-baby jeans. “We have made connections through being unfit mothers that help us balance our everyday stressors of weight, nutrition, work, parenting, relationships and motivation.”

The inspiration for starting a group actually stemmed from a shopping trip Parath had taken. “Spring clothes were everywhere…I feared having to put on shorts and knew I had to do something,” she says.

Credited with naming the club, Robin

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Barrows provided comic relief. “She put a spin on the word ‘unfit,’” says Parath, “teasing about what kind of mothers we are for leaving our husbands and kids to fend for themselves.”

“I had tried to stay fit and work out, but would stop because I was bored or ran out of time,” says physical therapist Christa Rebidue. “Now I feel and look the best I have in years.”

From using weights and mats to switching up drills and running suicides, routines are never stagnant. Parath researched how “to make sure we had

rearing, bragging rights, etc. “Stations is the fun part,” says member Susan Teixeira, “because that’s when the stories start coming out.”

In the beginning, the group discussed meeting during afternoons and evenings, but “the consensus always seemed to be (to meet) in the morning,” says Boulanger. Balancing workout regimes, family responsibilities and careers didn’t come easily, however. To remain stress-free, Teixeira relies on strategic planning. “Coming home and getting the kids ready for school scared me at

“We have made connections through being unfit mothers that help us balance our everyday stressors.”

– Jessica Bristol Millbury Mom of 3

the best workout and reach all areas.

She also mixed it up,” says mother of two, Kristin Boulanger. “For me, working out with others and at no cost, was great! Traci is the best motivator and always keeps us going.”

The group is never at a loss for conversation regarding husbands, child-

first but now I plan everything out the night before with clothes, lunches and backpacks.”

The women chose familiar meeting places such as bike trails or the Blackstone Mall parking lot. But as weeks passed, in addition to losing inches, they gained notoriety from townsfolk and moved

from jogging down main streets to the quiet safety of their local elementary school. “I always wondered what people were thinking as they rode by at 5 a.m. and saw a bunch of moms running and lifting weights,” Bristol says.

The secret to fighting the battle of the bulge is in the group’s strategies, such as safety in numbers, the more the merrier and good old-fashioned guilt.

Rebidue credits the group’s willingness as reason for her success. “Knowing that people are waiting for you makes it easier (to get up). We have become such wonderful friends who support each other and have so much fun,” she says. A morning hasn’t passed when a skipped workout didn’t prompt a “we missed you” text to the absent member, Parath jokes.

“Traci stored our yoga mats and five pound weights in her shed,” says Teixeira, whose goal is to tackle Millbury’s Fourth of July race again this year. “It’s amazing what you can do when you are with a group of supportive women,” she says referring to last year’s victory. “Never in my life did I think I would be involved in a road race, so it was a nice accomplishment.”

With the arrival of colder temperatures this past winter, the group turned to area churches and dance studios for

individually and as a group, is probably what I’m most proud of,” says Lindberg.

“Each of them has set their own goals and accomplished their own milestones, whether it’s losing 30 lbs or doing 100 push-ups on a daily basis.”

“I wanted to get in better shape and feel better,” says mother of four, Julie Wilbur. Though she admits to not always wanting to get going, she feels better when she does. Proof is in the (nonfat) pudding, because Wilbur has lost 35 pounds since joining the UMC and OPC. And what do the husbands and 33 kids have to say about the Unfit Mothers?

“Since my daughter is friends with some of the other women’s children, she will ask, ‘Was so and so’s mother there this morning?’ or ‘Did you spin bike or ball (Basu) today?’” says Cadrin who is thrilled with her current 12 pound weight loss. “I have become so much stronger...refreshed and energized.”

Although Rebidue’s husband originally thought she’d never keep up, he is “very supportive” she says. “And the kids are glad my workouts don’t take away from family time.”

Meanwhile, Teixeira sheepishly admits her husband’s admiration for “the booty club.”

TAKEGOODCARE No matter – inside or out, rain or shine, summer or winter, this group’s kinship has lots of sole.

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IF YOU ARE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 15 & 40, CANCER WANTS TO ASK YOU SOMETHING:

Why are you ignoring me?

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If you could complete one simple task that could save your life, would you?

Would you do the same for your children?

As a father of four young adults and grandfather of ten active children, I know my answer is a resounding “yes!”

As a longtime friend of someone who lost his teenage son to cancer and then lost his own life to cancer, I am driven to do all that I can to transfer the empowerment that comes with being aware of your own health to other parents and young adults.

Few parents would ever ignore a child’s health complaint or skip kids’ “well visits” to the pediatrician. And most people won’t ignore mechanical issues with their cars; that would be dangerous! But young adults—including adolescents and parents—tend to ignore nagging health symptoms or do not have annual checkups. And the result of not picking up the phone to schedule a doctor’s appointment can be beyond dangerous.

Dire Statistics Demand a Change What’s the urgency? In reality, when people ignore subtle changes in their normal health—those nagging things that “just don’t feel right,” or ongoing fatigue that people blame on just being too busy—they may be giving an undiagnosed cancer time to grow unchecked. There are 70,000 new cases of cancer among young adults ages 15 - 40 annually. Without early detection—because people ignore symptoms or claim they’re too busy to get to the doctor-more cancers among this age group are diagnosed at late stages.

That’s when cancers are most difficult to treat—and halt.

Shockingly, there has been zero improvement in cancer survival rates for 15 to 40-year-olds in the past 35 years, while pediatric and adult cancer survival rates have leapt upward. In fact, cancer is the number-one illness-related killer among 15 to 40-year-olds. This is an age group that makes up about 30 percent of the American population! It includes parents of young families and older children still in high school. It includes young adults charging through those years of early independence, feelings of 42 JULY2011

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invincibility and determination to stake their place in this world. So much is happening to people in these amazing years, but being mindful of health problems and making time to see your

million Americans? Or that nobody seems to know about this crucial problem?

Mark loved to get behind things that nobody seemed to know about. So as I learned more about this adolescent and

Jim Coghlin of Shrewsbury (right) pictured with his best friend, Mark Ungerer, the inspiration for 15-40.org.

is much more challenging. It is more difficult to be an effective parent, have a vibrant career, provide well for your family or share your talents with others. Health really is your ultimate intangible wealth, the foundation on which your life rests.

As a parent, instill in your children the self-confidence to take action throughout their lives when they know they just don’t feel right. And make time to have an annual check-up and get to the doctor’s office if you have symptoms that don’t go away within two weeks. Your lives may depend on it.

Jim Coghlin, Sr. is Chairman and Coach of Worcesterbased Coghlin Companies, Inc. and a leading philanthropist and community leader. Jim founded the 15-40 Connection in 2008. He has received numerous awards for his humanitarian and business leadership and involves family in his community activities. He and his wife Nancy reside in Shrewsbury.

The Coghlin Mission: Jim and Nancy Coghlin of Shrewsbury with their four children, their spouses and grandchildren spread awareness about the age group most vulnerable to cancer: 15 to 40-year-olds.

doctor is not the norm.

Ironically, Mark Ungerer and I were young adults when we met through business. A deep friendship among our young families grew quickly. After his son David died at age 16, Mark became a founder of the Worcester Area Jimmy Fund Golf Tournament (now the Mark R. Ungerer Golf Tournament); it has raised $6 million in 24 years. When Mark was battling cancer himself, he turned to me and asked if one day I would run the event for him. Of course I agreed to do this favor.

Mark’s death in 1995 was a profound loss in my life, but one that ultimately led me to establishing permanent, life-affirming tributes to him that have the potential to help millions of individuals. Through the golf tournament and the relationship with the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, I learned about the shocking gap in cancer survival rate improvements among adolescents and young adults. It was difficult to believe.

Could it be that nobody’s looking out for this “young adult” age group of 102

young adult gap in cancer —and why it existed—I told my own family that if no one else were going to raise awareness and move people to action, it must be us. I knew this was the best action we as a family could take to extend Mark’s passionate work to help other families avoid a tortuous loss of a young life to cancer.

We put our family’s energy into establishing the 15-40 Connection (1540.org), which works to reach adolescents, young adults and their parents with potentially life-saving yet simple “take charge of your health” messages. Even my young grandchildren are helping us spread our messages and learning those health lessons.

Mark believed there were three things over which we all have personal control: time, effort and attitude. The 15-40 Connection exists to help adolescents and young adults take that same personal control over their health.

It is simple but not simplistic to realize that without your health, everything else

C.A.U.T.I.O.N.:

The 15-40 Connection wants adolescents and young adults to pay attention to changes in their health and make the confident decision not to ignore them!

Common signs and symptoms of cancer might be: • Change in mole or new skin lesions • Abnormal discharge from your nose, eyes, ears, mouth, vagina, anus, sweat glands and nipples • Unilateral pain and swelling in one knee or shoulder but not the other • Tumor / bulge / bump / lump anywhere • Increased or swollen lymph nodes anywhere • Obstinate fatigue or lethargy; • Neurologic changes like numbness or tingling, loss of balance, incessant headache, inability to speak For more tips and resources, visit 15-40.org.

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To be polite, I should say that each of my four kids does things to embarrass or irritate me, but to be honest, it is really my boys. The girls are gold. The

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As I was coming home from work the next day, blaring Metallica and singing, I thought, â&#x20AC;&#x153;What a life! What a great family. What a great street I live on!â&#x20AC;?

I pulled up to my mailbox and the kids were with their friends working an overpriced Kool-Aid stand they had set up. They yelled, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Dad buy one! Dad, please.â&#x20AC;?

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On top of it all, they speak another language. This morning, I stood and said to my 9-year-old boy (17 times), â&#x20AC;&#x153;Leave your brother alone. I will handle it.â&#x20AC;? And the 9-year-old, our â&#x20AC;&#x153;know-itall foreign language speakerâ&#x20AC;? child, who heard these words, just continued to walk straight over to his 7-year-old brother, as if I was not there, and ripped him off of his bike. I stood there yelling in the wrong language louder and louder, as if that would make a difference. Of course, the entire neighborhood speaks English so everyone four houses down heard me! If thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not a language barrier, I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t know what to tell ya.

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So this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s â&#x20AC;&#x153;momentâ&#x20AC;? was at the baseball field, which is a family effort to watch. My 7-year-old, who irritates everyone like a fruit fly, walked by his little sister without tripping her, and I thought â&#x20AC;&#x153;Thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s odd.â&#x20AC;? Then it got really strange when he turned to her and said, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Kendi, do you and your friend want me to buy you a Slush?â&#x20AC;? My freaking jaw hit the gum on the ground. I stood and watched the fruit fly some more. This had to be a trick or something, but no.

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“No one survives something like this.

It’s not in your cards.” This is what the insurance adjuster told Carrie Fernindino when he arrived in Monson, Massachusetts on Sunday, June 5th, five days after the family of four narrowly escaped the F3 tornado that sucked the memories from their home and spit them all over their front lawn.

If you saw the scene in person, you would have to agree. How did they survive?

The Fernindino’s beautiful contemporary colonial was the first house in Monson hit by the tornadoes that swept Western and Central Mass on June 1st. While the F5 is the most violent and rare tornado, the F3 is capable of overturning trains with winds of 158-206 mph.

Five days after the tornado spared Carrie and her family, she is smiling and hugging those who have come to celebrate that her family is alive and to see for themselves what is so hard to believe. The sight before them is surreal. Pink insulation hangs from limbs of the trees (pieces from disaster zones have been reported to have traveled as far as Boston). Carrie’s mother and aunt climb and stumble over piles of what was

the Fernindino’s bedrooms, kitchen and family room, sifting through the debris looking for items to save, while Carrie’s husband, Jerry, and his friends use frontend loaders to lift the remains of what is past rescuing.

It’s surprisingly hard to decide what to save. The family’s belongings look insignificant strewn across the yard mixed with drywall, insulation, glass... It not only seems trivial to save a dish here, a piece of silverware there, it’s overwhelming.

Some choices are easy. Photos, cards, even bills, are salvaged. Carrie’s wedding rings are in the wreckage somewhere, but looking through the rubble for them is not a priority. She’s worried about her teenagers, who are still processing what happened, as well as her dear pet, a cat named Midnight, who has been missing since the tornado.

She’s worried about her husband, who owns Fernindino Lawn Care. His computer with all of his client information was destroyed.

Fortunately, his lawn care equipment was on the side of the garage that was spared, and he will return to work tomorrow. For the time being, Carrie does not have to worry about returning to Hartford Hospital

where she works as a nurse as her colleagues have set up a fund so that Carrie can start to recover.

On That Day Carrie was a half hour away from her quiet New England town on Wednesday, June 1st. She was picking up her 14-year-old son, Andrew, when she heard that a tornado had hit Springfield, just miles away. They were concerned in the way most people were concerned that day, not really sure what the tornado warning meant or how seriously to take it. Still, Carrie and Andrew drove back to their home in Monson faster than usual as giant pieces of hail fell to the ground.* Carrie’s 17-year-old daughter, Kayleigh, was sucking on a piece of the ice as they pulled in the driveway.

“Mom, look!”

But Carrie was worried about protecting her car, so she pulled it into the garage to avoid any damage.

After parking the car, Carrie shut the garage door, walked into her kitchen, put down her cell phone and just happened to look out the kitchen window, a glance that would save her family’s life.

In the distance, she saw what she describes as floating sticks. Later, Carrie would learn that those “sticks” were actually trees swirling in the tornado. She did not recognize what she was seeing as a tornado as there was no signature funnel; the tornado had already touched down.

“You would think we would have heard it....” says Carrie, but at this point, the tornado was not making any noise.

Had Carrie not looked out the kitchen window at that time, had she went to the bathroom first or went upstairs, she would not have seen the strange debris swirling in the wind.

The Fernindinos had a minute or so to figure out they should head to the basement, but like many families in Massachusetts, they wondered where exactly they should huddle. They decided to go into the cold cellar, a long, narrow cement area the Fernindinos had built under their farmer’s porch 17 years ago. Andrew worried that the cement roof would collapse on them; however, had the family stayed in the main part of the cellar, Andrew would have been crushed by the fireplace that fell where he would have been standing. Looking at the main cellar today, filled with large debris, it is hard to imagine a safe spot anywhere.

Since there was no doorknob on the door of the cold cellar, Carrie held it closed by poking her fingers through the vacant hole About thirty seconds after they chose their spot, they heard the “bang, bang, bang” of what they thought was their outdoor furniture hitting the house.

“Your ears hurt. Your head hurt. We had to close our eyes from the pressure,” says Carrie. “I felt it pulling me.

It was pulling us out.”

“I felt like I couldn’t open my eyes,” says Kayleigh.

Material began to fall around them including a gas line and duct work. The family prayed. And then, amazingly, the concrete roof above them did not collapse but tore off in one solid strip, exposing their hiding place.

Still, Carrie had no idea the extent of what was happening until Kayleigh opened her eyes and screamed.

Jerry said, “Carrie, our house is gone.”

Their faces were black. They smelled like gas. They heard screaming coming from their neighbors. Much of their house had fallen into the basement so that they could not open the door. The family scrambled up a pile of gravel and out the spot where the roof of the cold cellar used to be.

The tornado made its second pull at the shaken family,

this time at their hearts, as they looked across their front lawn.

Their bedrooms, walls, floors, comforters, mattresses, were literally hanging in the trees about 100 feet away.

Piles of floor, wall, furniture, glass, the trappings of their lives littered their front lawn. Their home was gone with the exception of the garage and its contents, including Carrie’s car, the room over the garage and their mudroom.

Ironically, what was left untouched on a desk in the standing, but destroyed, mudroom was the family’s homeowner’s insurance papers, which the Fernindinos had just reviewed a week prior.

Talking to Kids about Scary Weather Do your children have fears about another tornado coming or anxiety regarding storms? Dr. Paul Coleman, author of How to Say It to Your Child When Bad Things

Carrie Fernindino’s beloved cat, Midnight, finally returns home.

What Really Matters It took days before Carrie could begin to sift through her home’s remains, but gradually, she found treasures such as blankets their grandmother had made before she had died and her children’s christening gowns. She wanted to salvage their clothes to wash and donate to the Good Will. It would be hard to keep many of the things that they found in good condition as the memories of what the items represented are just too intense.

Midnight returned home on that 5th day, emerging from the woods crying as he tentatively made his way into Carrie’s arms, an act that made the Fernindino family complete. With many months of rebuilding ahead of them, the Fernindinos can now go forward as they have found everything that matters.

• A tornado warning means that a tornado has been spotted in your area, and that you should seek shelter immediately.

However, a tornado watch means that conditions are ripe for a tornado to form and will give you and your family a little bit of time to prepare. While large hail can occur in a dangerous thunderstorm and sometimes does occur before a tornado, it is not a reliable predictor that a tornado will occur.

Carrie Wattu is editor of baystateparent.

Happen, says to tell children they are safe from tragedy.

“Parents may feel like they’re lying, since no one can ever be 100% sure of what the future holds, but probability estimates are not something small kids can grasp, and won’t comfort them,” he says.

Another child psychiarist, David Fassler, M.D., who shares tips for talking to kids about natural disasters in the Huffington Post, says to be reassuring, but don’t make unrealistic promises. “‘It’s fine to let children know that they are safe in their house or in their school. But you can’t promise that there won’t be another earthquake or other natural disaster.’”

He reminds parents to: • Give children honest answers and information.

Children will usually know, or eventually find out, if you’re making things up. It may affect their ability to trust you or your reassurances in the future.

• Be prepared to repeat information and explanations several times. Some information may be hard to accept or understand. Asking the same question over and over may also be a way for a child to ask for reassurance.

• Acknowledge and validate the child’s thoughts, feelings and reactions. Let them know that you think their questions and concerns are important and appropriate.

• It’s a good opportunity to show children that when something scary happens, there are people to help.

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teachers. They will be very interested in how you respond to world events. They also learn from listening to your conversations with other adults. . â&#x20AC;˘ Experts do agree that one of the most empowering things parents can do with their children is find ways to help those who have been affected by a natural disaster. This allows children to find a way to feel in control and secure (ideas follow).

Help a Massachusetts Family The First Church of Monson: 413-238-1782.

The First Congregational Church in Brimfield: 413-245-7162.

The Fernindino garage and mud room is all that remains of their contemporary colonial.

The Red Cross of Central and Western Mass: redcrosscwm.org.

A Tornado Plan Just like having a family fire drill or discussing stranger danger scenarios, families should make a plan in the event something like a tornado ever happens again.

Wherever you do seek refuge, be sure to avoid windows as tornadoes blow out glass. Make sure to cover yourself with a thick blanket or a mattress to avoid dangerous flying debris.

Homes with basements: If you have a basement, avoid windows and get under some kind of sturdy protection such as a heavy table or work bench.

Cover yourself in a thick blanket. Determine where heavy objects are positioned on the floor above you (refrigerator, washer/dryer, piano) and do not go under them as they can fall through the floor.

Home with no basement: Go to the lowest floor, under a stairwell or in an interior hallway with no windows. You can also go to a small center room like a bathroom or closet; a bath tub may offer some partial protection. Crouch low, face down and protect your head with your hands. Cover yourself with thick padding (blankets, a mattress) to protect against the roof and ceiling.

In a car or truck: Vehicles are extremely dangerous in a tornado. If the tornado is visible, far away, and the traffic is light, you may be able to drive out of its path by moving at right angles to the tornado. Otherwise, park the car as quickly and safely as possible -- out of the traffic lanes.

Get out and seek shelter in a sturdy building. If in the open country, run to low ground away from any cars (which may roll over on you). Lie flat and face-down, protecting the back of your head with your arms.

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The First Church of Monson continues to coordinate relief efforts and has established a 501(c) (3) tornado relief fund.

In the open outdoors: Lie flat and face-down on low ground, protecting the back of your head with your arms. Get as far away from trees and cars as you can; they may be blown onto you in a tornado.

In a shopping mall or large store: Do not panic.

Watch for others. Move as quickly as possible to an interior bathroom, storage room or other small enclosed area, away from windows.

Tips are courtesy of NOAA/National Weather Service

Despite sustaining considerable damage of its own, The First Church of Monson is the rallying spot for tornado victims and volunteers.

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Certain books just mean summer to me, and I read them every summer. Harry Potter (Scholastic, Inc) is one, any one of the seven will do. If you have a chance to listen to the audio books: DO IT. Jim Dale reads them; he created voices for all the characters and won a Grammy.

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FREE Buffumville Dam Tours. Buffumville Dam, Charlton. A ranger will meet you at the gatehouse doors for an inside and outside tour of the dam. Rain or shine. 978-318-8426. Also Aug. 7 at 12:30 p.m.

continued from page 20 Disney movie about a baby raised by gorillas whose world is transformed when he encounters humans. $35-$65. 978-232-7200, nsmt.org.

FREE Water Safety Programs. Buffomville Dam, Charlton. 2 p.m. Join a Park Ranger on the beach for tips on how to avoid danger or maybe save a life.

Call for more details: 978-318-8426. Also July 24.

FREE Brimfield Antiques Show. One of the best in the country. Safe and family-friendly. See July 12 listing for details.

Critter Day: Caterpillars! Boston Children’s Museum, Boston. Meet naturalist and photographer Sam Jaffe. Get a close up look at some of Sam’s subjects, and learn how you can become a caterpillar expert, too. Free with museum admission. 617-4266500, bostonchildrensmuseum.org.

ONGOING Barnstable County Fair. Rte. 151, East Falmouth. July 16 – 23. See July 16 listing for details.

Codman Estate Antique Auto Show. 34 Codman Rd., Lincoln. 8 a.m. - 2 p.m. Enjoy more than 200 classic and antique vehicles, music by the New Liberty Jazz Band, food concessions, family activities and tours of the Codman Estate at the 27th Antique Auto Show. $5pp. 617-994-5900 x 5514, historicnewengland.org.

Saturday Family Studios: Tie-Dye. Fuller Craft Museum, Brockton. 10 a.m. - Noon. Join professional artists in the studio to create and collaborate with the whole family. Free with museum admission. 508-588-6000, fullercraft.org.

ONGOING Barnstable County Fair. Rte. 151, East Falmouth. July 16 – 23. Cape Cod’s largest and grandest annual event! Non-stop showcase of local and national entertainment daily, petting zoo, great food, horse and ox pulls, livestock exhibits, vegtable and flower exhibits, 4H activities, horse shows, demolition derby, midway, blacksmith, arts & crafts and much much more! Rain or shine.

A $10, C (6 -12)$2, C under 6 FREE with paid adult. Multi-day passes available. 508-563-3200, barnstablecountyfair.org.

Face Paint Fantasy and Mister G. Amazing Things Arts Center, Framingham. 10:30 a.m.

Get your face painted with Jenny Abarca and then enjoy the catchy, engaging music of Mister G. $10.

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ONGOING SATURDAYS The ImprovBoston Family Show. ImprovBoston,Central Square, Cambridge.

6 p.m. Winner of the Nickelodeon award for “Best Children’s Theater,” the ImprovBoston Family Show offers hilarity for adults and children alike every Saturday. This unscripted show includes improvised singing, dancing and comedic scenes that are guaranteed to have the whole family laughing out loud. Children who want to participate will have opportunities to be on stage and take part in the creative process. 617-576-1253, improvboston.com.

Westport Fair. 200 Pine Hill Rd., Westport. July 13-17. See July 13 listing for details.

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Helen Beaumont of the reggae/ska band, Guns of Navarone, performs in a family-friendly outdoor venue. Ticket info: wbaf.org.

Glasgow Lands Scottish Festival. Look Park, Florence/Northampton. 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. Games, entertainment, and historic re-enactments during this Northampton ethnic festival. Rain or shine. A$16, C (612) $5, C under 5 FREE. Parking $3. glasgowlands.org.

Flippo the Clown. Davis’ Farmland, Sterling.

2 p.m. Flippo the Clown performs dazzling magic tricks and enjoy his hilarious juggling antics. He’ll make a balloon creation just for you! Free with farm admission. 978-422-MOOO, davisfarmland.com.

Artbeat Festival. Davis Square, Somerville.

Somerville Art Council annually sponsors the multi-day party, starting with a parade, followed by evening concerts, and culminating with a full day of outdoor concerts, vendors and art shows. somervilleartscouncil.org.

FREE Downtown Gloucester Block Party. Main Street, Gloucester. 6 – 11 p.m. From Pleasant Street to Washington Street. Dance and party. downtowngloucester.com.

Westport Fair. 200 Pine Hill Rd., Westport. July 13-17. See July 13 listing for details.

FREE Crafts. Lakeshore Learning Store, Newton and Saugus. Drop in every Saturday, 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Ages 3+. lakeshorelearning.com.

FREE Solo Moms Teatime. Mothers and Company, Route 140, West Boylston. Meets the third Saturday of each month at 3 p.m. For single moms, moms who are parenting entirely or mostly on

their own for one reason or another, moms whose partners are living far away (i.e. military service), moms whose children do not know their fathers and moms who chose to have a baby without a partner. mothersandcompany.com.

17SUNDAY FREE Vintage Base Ball. Boston Harbor Islands, Georges Island, Boston. 11 a.m. Step into the 1860s and watch Civil War-era baseball games played at historic Fort Warren with original rules and uniforms.

Take the park ferry to this program. During the summer season, park ferries depart frequently from Long Wharf, Boston; Fore River Shipyard in Quincy; Hingham Shipyard; and Pemberton Point, Hull. Arrive at the dock at least 30 minutes prior to departure to allow time for ticketing and boarding. 781-740-4290, bostonislands.com.

FREE Brimfield Antiques Show. One of the best in the country. Safe and family-friendly. See July 12 listing for details.

18MONDAY ONGOING Barnstable County Fair. Rte. 151, East Falmouth. July 16 – 23. See July 16 listing for details.

FREE & ONGOING Story and Healthy Snack Time.

Whole Foods Market, Framingham. Weekly on Mondays, 10:30 a.m. for ages 2-6. 508-628-9525.

ONGOING Camping on Peddocks, Bumpkin, Grape and Lovells Islands: Boston Harbor Islands. “Rustic” camping with beautiful views of the Boston skyline. Accessible by ferry or private charter.

Since there are a limited amount of sites, campers can really appreciate the organic and serenity of the islands, experiencing camping in a whole new way.

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19TUESDAY ONGOING Barnstable County Fair. Rte. 151, East Falmouth. July 16 – 23. See July 16 listing for details.

Animal Adventures. Garden in the Woods, Framingham. 10 – 11 a.m. For children with adult Companion. Would you like to meet a wild cat called a Canadian lynx? Are you brave enough to meet reptiles such as a giant anaconda snake or a 6- foot monitor lizard face to face? How close have you been

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OH,THEPLACESYOU’LLGO to a skunk or a lemur or a wallaby? Ed Laquidara, animal specialist, introduces children to a variety of creatures and explains their role in their ecosystems. $6pp above admission. newfs.org.

Colonial Military Arts. Plimoth Plantation, Plymouth. 1 p.m. Meet a member of Plimoth colony’s militia for a lively 20-minute discussion about colonial military training in the English Village. Free with Plantation admission. 508-746-1622, plimoth.org.

20WEDNESDAY ONGOING Harry Pottery Scavenger Hunt.

Harvard Museum of Natural History, Cambridge.

Daily, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. July 9 – Sept. 5. Celebrate the world of J. K. Rowling’s Harry Potter in a scavenger hunt in the museum galleries. Free with museum admission. 617-495-3045, hmnh.harvard.edu.

the entire Fair! A$5, C 12 and under $3, Under 4 free. 413-339-4013, charlemontfairgrounds.org.

23SATURDAY ONGOING Barnstable County Fair. Rte. 151, East Falmouth. July 16 – 23. See July 16 listing for details.

Charlemont Fairgrounds Yankee Doodle Days.

See July 22 listing for details.

Renaissance Abbadia Mare Festival. Hammond Castle, Gloucester. July 23 & 24, 11 a.m. - 5 p.m. per day. The producers of Winslowshire Festival for the Animals are proud to bring back a fresh new Renaissance Festival for Hammond Castle originally called by John Hammond “Abbadia Mare” or Abbey

Guns of Navarone. Don’t miss this fab mom of two’s show as well as the opening band, Ruckus. A$10, C (13-21) $5, C under 12 free. All proceeds benefit art education for West Boylston students. wbaf.org. Rain Location: West Boylston Middle/High School.

24SUNDAY FREE Water Safety Programs. Buffomville Dam, Charlton. 2 p.m. Join a Park Ranger on the beach for tips on how to avoid danger or maybe save a life.

Call for more details: 978-318-8426.

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Charlemont Fairgrounds Yankee Doodle Days.

See July 22 listing for details.

Peter and Ellen Allard Concert. Charlton Public Library, 40 Main St., Charlton. 10 a.m. The MOMS Club of Charlton and Southbridge is hosting this concert and bake sale, all to benefit Healthy Families of Southern Worcester County. $5 per child ($10 max). peterandellen.com or email charltonmoms@ yahoo.com.

Renaissance Abbadia Mare Festival. Hammond Castle, Gloucester. See July 23 listing for details.

Bubble Science Day. The Children’s Museum of New Hampshire, Dover, NH. 10 a.m. - 3 p.m.

Experiment in the bubble laboratory. childrensmuseum.org.

FREE Stacey Peasley Sing Along. Angora Ice Cafe, 3-A Boylston St., Chestnut Hill. 1 p.m. staceypeasley.com. Also July 27.

FREE Stacey Peasley Concert. Friendship Park Playground, Howard St., West Bridgewater. 6 p.m. staceypeasley.com.

ONGOING Barnstable County Fair. Rte. 151, East Falmouth. July 16 – 23. See July 16 listing for details.

The Wiggles. Cape Cod Melody Tent, Hyannis. 11 a.m. melodytent.org.

21THURSDAY ONGOING Barnstable County Fair. Rte. 151, East Falmouth. July 16 – 23. See July 16 listing for details.

22FRIDAY ONGOING Barnstable County Fair. Rte. 151, East Falmouth. July 16 – 23. See July 16 listing for details.

Charlemont Fairgrounds Yankee Doodle Days.

Davis Mine Road, Charlemont. July 22 – 24.

Friday: Spectacular fireworks. Saturday: Ox draw, 10th Civil War Regiment, square dance, children’s peddal tractor pull, chicken bbq. Sunday: Gymkhana, horse pull, demolition derby with music, Bowey the Clown, face painter, One Sharp Marriage (knife throwers), Belanger Brothers Amusements and games, Rocky Acres petting Zoo and much more for

It’s a FREE Hot Night in the City on Thursday, July 21 at the Worcester Center for Crafts for middle school-aged children on up. worcestercraftcenter.org. by the Sea. Entertainment, great food, castle tours and an amazing back drop! A$12, C (5 -12) $7, C Under 4, FREE. abbadiamarefestival.com.

FREE Crafts. Lakeshore Learning Store, Newton and Saugus. Drop in every Saturday, 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Ages 3+. lakeshorelearning.com.

FREE Salem Culturefest. Salem Common. July 23 & 24.10 a.m. - 8 p.m. An outdoor cultural experience featuring music, arts and crafts, performances, food, family and fun. 978-509-4821, a3dinc.org. bsp’s Mom Rocks at Ska/Reggae Outdoor Concert.. Goodale Park, Crescent St., West Boylston. 7 p.m. Great for families and teens! Helen Beaumont, bsp’s September 2010 “Mom Rocks,” is the singer for Worcester Mag’s best ska/reggae band,

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FREE Stacey Peasley Concert. Natick Common, Natick Center, 6:30 p.m. staceypeasley.com.

The Wiggles South Shore Music Circus, Cohasset.

10:30 a.m. Ticket information: melodytent.org.

Mothers and Company, West Boylston. Tuesdays, 10:30 a.m. and Mondays, 1 p.m. (except holidays).

For all moms, those breastfeeding a freshly-born baby, those having challenges, those interested in learning more about using a breastpump and those interested in figuring out how to breastfeed in public. RSVPS appreciated but not required: mothersandcompany.com.

FREE Salem Culturefest. Salem Common.

10 a.m. - 8 p.m. An outdoor cultural experience featuring music, arts and crafts, performances, food, family and fun. 978-509-4821, a3dinc.org.

25MONDAY ONGOING Provincetown Whale Week. July 25 – 30. A week-long celebration of family-friendly, marine-themed events, Whale Week features a buildyour-own boat paddle race, arts and crafts, talks and sunset whale cruises. The week culminates with Party on the Pier (July 30), an evening of live music and food on the MacMillan Pier. coastalstudies.org.

ONGOING & FREE Breastfeeding Support Group.

ONGOING New Moms Group. Mothers and Company, Route 140, West Boylston. All moms and babies welcome. Weekly on Tuesdays at 12:15 p.m. Also held on Wednesdays at 11:30 and Fridays at 12 p.m. $5ppNM. Online RSVPS appreciated. mothersandcompany.com.

27WEDNESDAY FREE Stacey Peasley Sing Along. Angora Ice Cafe, 3-A Boylston St., Chestnut Hill. 1 p.m. staceypeasley.com.

ONGOING Canoe and Kayak. South Bridge Boat House, 496 Main St., Concord. Offers direct access to 18 miles of the Concord River and is within easy paddling distance of the Sudbury River, Assabet River, and the Old North Bridge. 10 a.m. - sunset. Rentals for canoes $13 per hour, weekdays; $15 per hour weekends and holidays. Kayaks available for $15 singles, $17 doubles. 978-369-9438, canoeconcord.com.

ONGOING Sundown Concert. Fruitlands Museum, Harvard. Concerts are every Wednesday at 7 p.m. Tickets can be purchased in advance or at the gate. Picnic dinners are encouraged, and food and beverages will be available for purchase on-site.

Concert admission applies. fruitlands.org.

Perkins Child Development Center The Perkins Child Development Center is a quality childcare program dedicated to the care, nurturance, and education of infants, toddlers, and preschoolers. The Center’s certified teachers and enriched curriculum encourage children’s imaginative play and growth. Its progressive design features age-specific outdoor playgrounds, as well as a spacious and bright interior with designated preschool classrooms, and infant & toddler rooms. Arrange for your tour today!

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FREE Drop-In Family Day. Aboretum at Harvard, Hunnewell Building Lawn, Cambridge. 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. Monthly family activities are offered on the last Saturday of each month, April through October.

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Family Concerts. Amazing Things Arts Center, Framingham. Big Doozie Presents Jeff Jam and Todd Migliacci the Magician. Todd Migliacci (10:30 am), â&#x20AC;&#x153;New Englandâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Favorite Magician and Bostonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s #1 Magician.â&#x20AC;? Walt Disney World awarded him Best Specialty Act. Magic and illusions with juggling and comedy. Jeff Jam (11:15 am), a friendly, goofy guy who travels New England bringing bringing classic tunes and interactivity that weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve come to expect

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