May 2010 Baystate Parent Magazine

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MEET A SUPER POWER AGAINST BULLIES SPRINGTIME IN CAMBRIDGE

OH, OH, THE FUN YOU CAN HAVE! • EATING CAKE • STYLING A BIRTHDAY • BONDING WITH MOM & GRANDMA

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2010 Summer Programs Central Mass Dance Academy and LaFemmina Modeling & Finishing School Dance, Model, Act, Sing; All Under One Roof SUMMER DANCE INTENSIVE All summer dance programs are 8 weeks

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8 FULL WEEKS OF INTENSIVE DANCE July 6th through August 27th *Junior and Senior Intensive class may be split. • Tiny Tots: Ages 2 & 3 • Kinder Combo: Ages 4 & 5 • Acro Classes • Hip Hop Ages 6-12 • Advanced Hip Hop/Break Dancing (Ages 13 &up) • Musical Theatre • Acting class

MODELING CAMP 6 Weeks Only 4pm - 5:30pm Wednesday Evenings July 7th – August 11th $250 This camp is for beginners only, who want to learn all of the basics of a modeling and ďŹ nishing course.

PRINCESS & PIRATE CAMP One week of dressing up as your favorite princess or pirate including story time, dances from the movies, crafts and more.

Ages 2 -7 years old Session I: July 19th – 23rd or Session II August 9th – 13th 9am-11am $90.00 per session or $180.00 for both

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our special guest Jenny, 3 1/2 years old, of Groton/Dunstable captured by Cheryl Steinhoff Photography, Groton, MA cherylsteinhoffphotography.com

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FIRST BIRTHDAYS

Baby only gets one first so be sure to read about ways in which you can celebrate this big day. Consider making a CD of songs popular during Baby’s first year or washcloth cupcakes made by bsp’s very own Staci LaTurno.

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WHO’S COACHING OUR KIDS?

Sports are a huge part of our families’ lives. Each month, read a profile about a local coach who is a great influence on our kids. This month it’s Tony Brissette of Shrewsbury. Know a coach whom we could profile in an upcoming issue? Email editor@baystateparent.com.

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in every issue

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WELCOME

17 MOTHER AND SON AT WORK AND AT PLAY

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GUESTBOOK

22 GRAMMA DATES

UNDER MY ROOF: Milestone Birthdays

31 IS IT TECHNICALLY CAMPING?

WHO’S COACHING OUR KIDS: Tony Brissette of Shrewsbury

35 THE ACCIDENTAL STAY-AT-HOME MOM

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OH, THE PLACES YOU’LL GO: Calendar of Events

52 SUMMER CAMP UNDER THE BIG TOP

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LET’S ROLL: Springtime in Cambridge

60 I NEVER KNEW I COULD HELP SOMEONE WITH

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FINALLY, FOREVER: Family Traditions That Help Other Children

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MAY’S CHILD

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CIRCLE OF FRIENDS: Adoption Calendar

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BROWN BAG IT

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TAKE GOOD CARE: Explaining Miscarriage to Kids

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HAVE A VERY STYLED BIRTHDAY!

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FAMILY MUSIC & THEATRE PERFORMANCES

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UNDER MY ROOF: Milestone Birthdays

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MOMS ROCK: Lisa Genova of Chatham

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FATHERS AND SPORTS SUMMER OUTINGS! BACK TO SCHOOL

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e m o c l e W Remember the day that you found out that you were going to be a mother for the first time? Did you remain tight-lipped about your good news for a gratuitous three-month period?

My sister pointed out how difficult it is to remain silent, as some advise, as you fight nausea and fatigue and have to pee every ten seconds, all during staff meetings at work.

Your co-workers think you are going nuts. Well, you sort of are as you detox from a daily dose of Dunkin’ Donuts and never leave your desk without a sleeve of Saltines or a box of Gingersnaps. You flinch at the sight of a cold-cut platter or a salad sprinkled with feta.

Relief comes probably about the same time your belly moves from its snug home in your jeans into a roomy pair of maternity pants. Now, you can let it all hang out, no need to contain your belly or your emotion.

Ah...emotion! Motherhood made me sob through Stevie Wonder’s “Isn’t She Lovely?” and Elton John’s“You’ll be Blessed” as well as the opening scene of the Lion King. Come on, who hasn’t felt like Mufasa when that baby cub was born? Doesn’t the score, “Circle of Life,” get you? It’s so triumphant. Every child is a miracle!

With all the happy drama surrounding new life, no wonder we cry at birthdays.

That beaming birthday child in all her innocence surrounded by the glow of birthday candles, pink frosting and adoring family and friends. I get choked up, just managing to squeak out the birthday child’s name in the song (I’ve looked around. Others are teary-eyed too).

And why shouldn’t we be? Our children’s lives are something to celebrate: baby showers, baby’s announcement, christenings, first

MEET OUR MAY COVER MODEL

Jenny,

cheryl steinhoff

Dear baystateparent, I have been an avid reader of your magazine for years. As an adoptive parent, I appreciate the attention you bring to adoption-related issues and events. In fact, my family has even been featured in the magazine (“Going From One to Three,” May 2009 issue).

However, as a member of a multiracial family, I have to say that I am disappointed and angry to see that the editors have chosen to ignore- and thus

Carrie Wattu, editor This month on baystateparent.com’s blog: Tips for your family’s trip to Orlando

AGE 3 1/2, OF GROTON/DUNSTABLE

1. What kind of birthday cake would you like to have on your birthday this year? strawberry with pink ice cream and a cookie on top with Tinkerbell next to it

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birthdays, first holidays, Mother’s Day. Every little milestone (in and out of the womb) becomes an occasion of joy to herald on Facebook: Baby kicked! Baby smiled! Junior reached for toy! Our email, texts and tweets make it easier than ever to celebrate with the whole world.

This month baystateparent celebrates with you as we shares ideas on how mothers bond with their families on Mother’s Day and throughout the year as well as ways we can honor our children’s lives on their birthdays. baystateparent On May 1st, celebrates our 14th birthday as we enter our 15th year of publishing. In a way, it feels like adolescence too (in a good way). We’ve got a team committed to finding new ways to express ourselves and our audience (visit baystateparent.com and click our advertising button so that you can see pictures and read profiles of some of our talented staffers!). We intend to enjoy this time of building new relationships and trying new things.

Happy Mother’s Day!

2. If you could make Mommy a nice meal for Mother’s Day what do you think she would like? cookies and grapes 3. What does your Mommy do for a job? cleans the floor and puts dolls away

alienate- the significant population of this great state who are not white.

I see beautiful children of all shades whenever I go out; at the YMCA, at Walmart, at the Ecotarium- everywhere you look, there are children representing the diverse population of Massachusetts. It seems that the only place where children of color are equitably represented is in the section devoted to foster children seeking adoptive families...which serves only to reinforce stereotypes regarding children of color.

My African children will spend their whole lives fighting against stereotypes and discrimination, along with the pressure to fit into society’s narrowly defined standards of beauty. I can’t protect them from this forever, but while they live under my roof, I can take measures to present them with balanced messages and images that

4. If your grandmother took you out on a special date, where would you like to go? to the park and carousel 5. Sisters are the best! What fun things do you do with your big sister, Jessica? play talent show and play swimming lessons 6. If you could tell the world one thing about your Mommy, what would you tell them? She loves her puppy and fruits and vegetables.

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make it clear: In this family, we value all people, including those with brown skin.

Sincerely, Rachael Strogoff Oxford Dear baystateparent, Can I possibly get the store information on the two bags (red tote and brown bag with chain links) shown on page 48 of your March issue “Looking Fab: It’s All in a Day’s Work?”

Ivy Chien Editor’s Note: The bags from bsp’s maternity fashion shoot came from Sara Campbell in Wellesley. Sara Campbell also has a location in Boston, but we did not pick up the bags there.

Good luck!

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GUESTBOOK A Very Special Thank You To Our Local Hereos We appreciate your steadfast commitment to our community.

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We hope you can join us.

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Dear baystateparent, My wife and I love the magazine! Great article on SIDS and flat spots (March, 2010). We are the proud parents of a little boy named Wesley. This little man is now 7 months old and is quick with a smile for anybody willing to smile back.

Proud Papa Corey Litchfield, Auburn Dear baystateparent, This magazine made me feel at home in the last three years in a place that was very foreign to me.

Thank you. The local events have been so very helpful. I am a military wife from California and Massachusetts was not something I was ready for. This magazine has made the transition so much easier.

Jessica Priby, Sturbridge

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• Sarah Clarke of Franklin and Rosemary Nelson of Millbury each won a GE Portable Keysafe.

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Thoughts on our May issue? Email your comments and suggestions to editor@baystateparent.com.

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When Loree Griffin Burns, Ph.D was about ten years old, she saw her cousin Billy step into a bee’s nest while picking blueberries. “It was awful,” she says, “Our grandmother ran him down to the lake and covered his stings with mud, all the while slapping away angry bees. I watched the entire scene as if it were a horror movie. It was a very, very long time before I could stand the sight or sound of an insect. ” In some ways, Dr. Burns feels that it was this intense childhood fear of bees that made them so intriguing to her as an adult. “When I learned that people actually raise bees in their backyards--FOR FUN!--I was completely shocked. What was it about this tiny, stinging insect that so interested these people?”

Years later, when the Central Mass mom of three began hearing news reports about the mysterious disappearance of honey bee colonies and what those losses might mean to humankind, her curiosity got the best of her.

“Soon I had bought my own bee suit and was interviewing beekeepers while thousands and thousands of their bees buzzed all around me!” she says.

In Dr. Burns’ latest children book, The Hive Detectives: Chronicle of a Honey Bee Catastrophe (Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, May 2010), she profiles bee wranglers and bee scientists across the country who have been working to understand colony collapse disorder, or CCD. The Hive Detectives is recommended for ages 12 - 16 and is available wherever books are sold or by calling 800-225-3362 or visiting hmhbooks.com. Loree Griffin Burns, Ph.D., can be contacted at loreeburns.com (Loree’s Web site and blog are a fantastic resource for

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families who read and learn together).

Dr. Burns will speak and sign books at Beaman Memorial Library (8 Newton Street, West Boylston) on Tuesday, May 11, 6-8 p.m. and at the Gale Free Library (23 Highland Street, Holden) on Thursday, May 27, 6:30-8 p.m.

Both events are free and open to the public; children and adults of all ages are welcome. Books will be available for purchase (cash or checks only), and all proceeds will go directly to the Beaman Memorial and Gale Free libraries.

Did you Know?

Without honey bees the world would be a very different place. There would be no honey, no beeswax, and—worst of all—barely a fruit, nut or vegetable. -Loree Griffin Burns

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The Ellie Fund

Princess Party When:

Friday, August 20, 2:00 – 4:00 p.m.

Where: Boston Sports Club, Wellesley, MA

You’re invited!

Hostess: Bianca de la Garza, WCVB-TV5 What:

Why:

Moms and daughters ages 3-8 are invited to wear their favorite party dresses and enjoy singing, dancing, and photos with the princesses, plus fun snacks, mini-manicures and gift bags…with all proceeds benefiting moms and families fighting breast cancer.

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To raise money for The Ellie Fund which provides transportation to medical appointments, childcare, housekeeping and meals free of charge to hundreds of women and families each year who are undergoing treatment for breast cancer in Massachusetts.

12 HAVE A VERY STYLED BIRTHDAY! 15 MILESTONE BIRTHDAYS

Tickets: Visit Elliefund.org. $30 Donation per Adult with Child.

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($10 for each additional. Free for Breast Cancer Patients and their daughters.)

HAVING A BALL ON THE FIRST

100% Donated to The Ellie Fund

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17 MOTHER & SON AT WORK & PLAY

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rown bag, you were once the star of every child’s school day, trusty protector of the tin-foiled PB & J and an apple. You’ve been replaced by insulated lunch sacks filled with soccerball shaped ice packs, aluminum water bottles and plasticware, but we haven’t given up on you!

A $5 “splurge” at the Dollar Store and a search through several junkdrawers, baystateparent’s creative director got the goods to turn the classic brown bag into

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the star of the occasion again.

Have some fun this Mother’s or Father’s Day or at the next birthday, graduation or shower coming your way by changing the blank canvas of a brown paper bag into a whimsical gift bag that reflects the recipient’s looks and style.

Don’t forget to think inside the bag as the gift inside can coordinate with decorations on your bag (i.e. our headphone-wearing ‘tween gift bag could hold an iTunes gift card inside).

Glue-gun away!

Dad: Glue silver scouring pad hair, eyebrows and mustache, construction paper eyes and mouth and a pair of old glasses. Hello Dad! Sister: Our pony-tailed girl has braces made out of a Christmas tree ornament hanger (you can also use twisted paper clips), Raffia hair (or cheerleading pompoms) tied with pony tail holders and gluedon earrings for a little more bling!

Brother: This ‘tween is good to go with eyebrows and hair made out of an orange car wash mitt. We’ve added something that is probably glued to the ‘tween in your life anyway...earphones!

All characters have cardboard ears and noses affixed with hot glue.

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Sugar Plum Bakery

161 Summer Street, Kingston, 781-585-PLUM (7586) www.sugarplumbakerykingston.com Specialties: Custom cakes, wedding cakes and favor cookies.

Allergy Sensitive Products: Gluten free products available.

Sweet Bliss Confections

Worcester, 508-926-9386 www.sweetblissconfections.com Specialties: Cookie favors, character cakes, Christening, graduation, baby showers, wedding and more.

Wicked Good Cookies

61 Shrewsbury Street, Boylston, 508-869-6577 www.wickedgoodcookies.com Specialties: Gourmet cookie gifts, photo cookies, baby shower favors and new baby gifts, wedding favors, Christening favors and gifts, graduation gifts, birthday favors and gifts, character cookies.

Allergy Sensitive Products: One cookie with nuts. No shared equipment. Very allergy aware and safe.

Delicious Desserts Bakery

45 Winn Street, Burlington, 781-270-0344 www.deliciousdessertsbakery.com Specialties: Themed cakes for all occasions.

Italian pastries. Chocolate covered strawberries.

Holiday orders.

Allergy Sensitive Products: Gluten free cakes and cookies available. Sugar free cakes also available.

738 Cambridge Street, Cambridge, 617-547-2053 and 317 Marrett Road, Lexington, 781-862-9609 www.royalpastryshop.com Specialties: Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s novelty birthday cakes. Photo cakes. Cakes for every occasion including Christenings, graduation and baby showers.

Quebrada Baking Company

208 Massachusetts Avenue, Arlington, 781-648-0700 and 272 Washington Street, Wellesley, 781-237-2111 www.quebradabakingcompany.com Specialties: Croissants, cakes, cupcakes and cookies for all occasions.

Party Favors

1356 Beacon Street, Brookline, 617-566-3330 www.partyfavorsbrookline.com Specialties: Birthday cakes, cupcakes, balloons, baby gifts, Christenings, graduations, weddings, corporate.

Fancypants Bakery

East Walpole, (Phone & Online Only) 508-660-1140 www.fancypantsbakery.com Specialties: Gourmet hand-decorated cookie party favors and cookie gifts for every occasion. 20% of sale from philanthropy section products is donated to One Mission, a foundation fighting to eradicate pediatric cancer.

Allergy Sensitive Products: All products are 100% peanut and tree nut free.

Panorama Bakery (dba Big Sky Bakery)

105 Union Street, Newton Centre, 617-332-4445 www.panoramabakery.com Specialties: Ginger Downunder cookies; cakes for birthday, graduation, baby shower, wedding.

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HAVE A VERY STYLED BIRTHDAY! BY

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Party specialist, Kate Landers scooped the ice cream out of beach pails, and the kids ate out of their own buckets with shovels. The hit of the party was a race to build the tallest ice cream fort out of flat ice cream cones and buckets of chocolate frosting. Ice cream scoops with a clever message served as favors.

Party specialist, Kate Landers set up different “shops” as the guests toured Paris with darling red suitcase totes and felt Madeline capelets (both personalized).

The centerpiece was a cake designed as Madeline’s hat!

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CELEBRATEGOODTIMES the birthday parties we throw our children have to look like they were styled by a pro?

Of course not!

Party specialist, Kate Landers, a 31year-old entrepreneur and owner of the Needham-based Kate Landers Events, LLC, even admits that, “It usually doesn’t take much to make a child happy, usually just a cake and balloons.”

However, if you do have a weakness for theme and style and would like to incorporate these elements into your next party, it can make a huge difference...and contrary to what you might think, special details are not just to impress adults.

“The elements I include in my parties are because I am trying to create a theme so that children will feel as if they are in a storybook,” Kate says, whose recent recreation of a Madeline-themed party is one of her stand-out celebrations.

“There’s a reason for the detail,” she says, “so that the party feels real, feels authentic.”

In her Madeline-inspired party, Kate says, “You are trying to make them feel as if they are Madeline. Parties can be a greater experience than eating cake off a plate with Madeline’s face on it.”

Kate’s goal is to bring back old-fashioned birthday party charm by planning parties based on original themes right from your child’s imagination. One of her specialties is creating themes from classic children’s storybooks.

If you are one of those moms who responds to a well-executed party with the same excitement some feel around purses and shoes, Kate’s tips could spark something in you that you never thought of before.

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Consider hiring a baby-sitter to help manage the kids (and their younger siblings who sometimes come). Also, too many guests can be overwhelming for the host and the child feel it. I am a fan of parents dropping off the kids so it’s like a preschool experience. The children need to have a single person running the show, and they can get distracted by their parents. If parents do come, I suggest involving parents in the process by making it a parent/child event such as building

bird houses together. I find that seating placecards work well as children can fight over who sits next to the birthday person, and kids typically respond better with things with their name on it. This is also true with favors. A favor is exciting to begin with, but to have your name on it, makes it more exciting!

Q. If a child wants a character party, how can parents take it to a new level?

Try to make it imagination-based instead of a cartoon imitation. Take one element of the character, such as the color and go with it. For a Sesame Street party, you could have a yellow Big Bird section. For Cookie Monster, you could use a blue

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Q. Why hire a birthday party planner? If you added up store-bought decorations for a do-it-yourself party, you’d be surprised!

For the $175 you may spend, you could hire a person to help you with everything including favors that will not not end up in the junkdrawer. Imagine giving one custom-made favor (go for something edible or invest in something that is going to last). One of my favorite favors is a book with a book plate inscribed with a message.

Q. How do you pick a party theme? You can make a party out of something simple or little. Children’s imaginations are wild.

I usually ask a child a series of questions about their likes and dislikes. I try to go off books, favorite foods and colors. A good way to find out more about theme is to ask what is in a child’s room.

Q. What are the parties that you remember as a child? My little sister wanted to have pony rides at her party, but my parent said no, so I dressed up as a pony and gave the kids ride on my back. The kids thought it was great! I also helped to plan an Oscar party for my sister. The kids

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Y M R E D UN ROOF Our Milestone Birthdays No Fear of the Big Five-Oh! jim keogh Americans tend to dwell on increments of 10 when considering milestones. We love to slot things into easily defined decades — the Turbulent ’60s, the Disco ’70s, the Big-Hair ’80s — while neglecting the fact that each of those eras was far more complex and nuanced than can ever be captured in a single adjective.

We regard milestone birthdays in much the same way, and once we’re deep into our twenties those birthdays tend to be fraught with negative connotations.

Your 30th birthday is traditionally the one where you take stock and find yourself wanting (I haven’t landed my dream job yet! I haven’t connected with my soul mate! I thought I’d have kids by now!).

It’s all very italicized and exclamationheavy.

At 40, you glimpse your own mortality.

You’ve reached the age when you realize to your chagrin you have your great aunt’s hands and your grandmother’s hips. That

you’re a guy only makes it worse.

I’ve heard terrible things about the 50th birthday. About how the moment you blow out the candles your face starts melting like a sandcastle at high tide.

About how that persistent pain in your backside at work is the thumping foot of a younger, more affordable coworker trying to kick you out the door. About how you’ve escaped the high-risk stage for certain diseases like testicular cancer (Woo-hoo!), only to face a speeding train of other middle- and old-age-related ailments too numerous and horrible to mention (Nooooo!).

I’m not buying any of it.

My next birthday, in March of 2011, will be my 50th. It’s a big one, no doubt.

But I’ll be coming to the occasion in the mood to celebrate.

Yes, I can expect to be a little grayer, a bit more wrinkled. My annual check-up will include a welcome-to-your-fifth-decade

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He lives in Worcester with his family.

On Thirty amanda roberge Nah. That is my husband’s response to my inquiry as to whether turning 30 was difficult for him. Just Nah. And then he takes his graying, aging, sexier self to the fridge and grabs a bottled water, plops down on the couch and winks at me. It’s that simple.

If it were possible, his nonchalance would make me feel even more embarrassed about all the time I spent in a frenzied state, preparing for that momentous and highly dramatized turning point. But I already felt about as foolish as one can

feel in the face of what was, in the end, much ado about nothing.

Most of my friends say they had a checklist of things they had wanted to accomplish by their 30th birthday.

While I had no such official list, I was pretty much there. I’d been married for seven years, had three kids, owned a big, dirty, cluttered house and was developing something akin to a career.

All I really wanted was a big birthday party, so I made all the necessary preparations. I dropped knock-youupside-the-head hints to my friends about the kind of party I wanted, I bought biggirl clothes and a fancy pair of shoes, and the most crucial component of a rockin’ 30th birthday party: to make sure to not be pregnant so you can enjoy champagne and sushi until you explode.

I purred into my husband’s ear for weeks before the big day, seductively trying to squeeze information out of him. I cut off my friends when they tried to talk about what they’d be doing on that particular – imagine this luck- SATURDAY NIGHT. But much like my thirties themselves, the big moment was a bit anti-climactic. The world didn’t shift and nobody shouted “Surprise!” The moment just kind of came and went, with a little wine in the company of a few friends, without much fanfare at all. I was still me, just a little older.

In a way, it took the pressure off. I found that anticipating the moment where I would turn 30 was much more torturous than actually being in my thirties. In fact, I have grown to love being 30something.

I have a column written by Frank Kaiser of Clearwater, Fla. neatly folded in my bedside table. He talks about why he loves women over 30, and my favorite line is this: “A woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, ‘What are you thinking?’. She doesn’t care what you think.”

Amen, Frank. Truer words have never been spoken. At this point, I barely even care what I think. And furthermore, I am convinced that rounding the bend of the next decade will be no big deal.

Is turning the big 4-0 going to send me into hysterics all over again?

Nah. Amanda Roberge is a freelance writer living in Leominster with her husband and three daughters.

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colonoscopy, and maybe, just maybe, I’ll have to abandon my dream of owning sixpack abs. Our physical selves change with time — I get it.

Still, if I’m launching the next 10 years of my life, then I expect I’ll have plenty to experience before I hit 60: My daughter will go from 19 to 29 years old in that span, on the verge of her own milestone birthday. What profession will she have chosen? Will she still love books and movies? Will I have walked her down the aisle?

My son will move from 15 to 25. A sophomore in high school to … who knows? Where will he have gone to college? Will he be working? Traveling?

Falling in love?

Will I finally write the novel that’s been knocking around my head for much of my adult life?

Will the Red Sox win another World Series? The Patriots another Super Bowl?

Will Lady Gaga be one of those odd cultural footnotes that begins with, “Whatever happened to …”?

Will the country still be at war?

Whose births will I celebrate; whose deaths will I mourn?

How will our world evolve, and will it be for the better?

You get the idea. There’s no reason to fear turning 50, 60, 70. I simply have too many questions, and if I don’t grow older I’ll never learn the answers.

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ou did it. Your baby is turning one. It’s as much of an occasion for you to go to a celebratory dinner alone with your spouse, have a glass of wine and take a deep breath as it is for your baby to fingerpaint her face with birthday frosting.

As you plan this special day, baystateparent tosses a pitch for the best first birthday ideas we could find. Catch them while you can. You only get one first.

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ON A ROLL Classic and Unique Gifts for Baby When we saw the washcloth-cupcakes that Staci LaTurno, baystateparent’s account executive, made for her friend’s baby gift, we had to pass it along. You don’t even need to get your Martha Stewart on with this one (but it will look like you did) because if you can roll, you can make a gourmet gift fitting for such a special birthday.

Washcloth cupcakes are inexpensive and easy to create. Simply take a 12-cup plastic cupcake container (Staci picked hers up at a local grocery store for only $0.50) and fill it with colorful cupcake liners (they already come in baby colors).

Roll the 12 individual washcloths and place in the lined cupcake container. Now add some finishing touches to dress up

Washcloth cupcakes made by Staci LaTurno.

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the “cupcakes” (Staci used scrapbooking bows, but hair clips and ribbons could be used for a little girl). For extra detail, add baby socks inside of each “cupcake” or include a gift card. Finally wrap it all up with a pretty bow, and it’s good to go!

Other gifts that will most likely not be duplicated at Baby’s party: • Handprint art kit • Gift certificate to a professional photographer • Handpainted rocking chair • Monogrammed stepping stool • Perennial plant or tree that can be planted and will grow with your child • Hair kit filled with bows, headbands, barrettes, tangle sprays, itty bitty pony tail holders, clips etc. (This may bring a tear to Mom’s eye as her baby will soon be wearing big-girl hairstyles.)

• Boo boo kit complete with decorative ice packs and Bandaids as well as sprays, creams and books about boo boos for the new baby-on-the-go.

• Hardcover book to complement the birthday party theme with a special message to the birthday child written on the inside cover.

• A CD of songs popular during the first year of Baby’s life.

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• Rent, borrow or buy a bubble machine.

• Write a special letter to your child each birthday. Life gets so busy that birthdays are a great time to reflect and write.

• Send photos of your child throughout his first year to a photo studio to have a collage or photo book with captions made (they even have digital scrapbook pages now!). Display at the party.

• Visit a pottery studio to make a quality piece of ceramics such as a birthday plate with your child’s fingerprints or handprints. This can be used every year on your child’s birthday.

• Frame memorabilia from Baby’s first year in a shadow box: pacifier, hospital bracelet, lock of hair, etc. or frame baby’s homecoming outfit.

• Take your child to a professional photographer for his one-year portrait.

• Make a themed party board for party guests to sign. After the party, have it

framed. (submitted by Cristin Murphy, Worcester) • Release balloons for special family members who are no longer here to celebrate so that they are always a part of special days. (submitted by bsp reader, Maryann DeCell) • Buy a size 12 dress or dress shirt.

Starting with the first birthday, take a photo of your child in the dress/shirt each year. Place the picture in a photo album and on the opposite page, write your child a one-page letter about their year. Give it to them on their 13th birthday as a “graduation-to-a-teenager” gift. (submitted by bsp reader, Kathleen Mitchell) • Parents should jump into their child’s first birthday portraits as their true personalities and giggles come alive when, mom, dad and siblings join in. Also consider having a photographer capture your child’s first steps between parents. (submitted by Paula Swift, photographer, Framingham) We wish all Bay State babies and their families a fabulous first. Happy Birthday!

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a perceptive and imaginative 2-year-old child, Colin White saw a diverse range of faces everywhere he looked. Not just in the people he encountered, but also in inanimate objects, such as curtains, trees, clouds, and even his coat buttons.

“He would see an item and notice the face there before the item’s function,” his mother Jennifer recalls of her son, who is now 14. “He would then start doodling what he saw and come up with these really interesting pictures. Over time they became more sophisticated.”

“After a while he had piles of these drawings around,” she continues. “I really thought we should do something with them. So we decided to create a book.”

And so they did. The delightful result, “Coolhead Luke,” was published through Booksurge LLC in 2007.

Colin’s illustrations for that book, all of which were done when he was only 10 and 11 years old, are quite remarkable.

His characters, a mix of unusual looking humans and aliens, are fun, fanciful, very detailed, and as Jen says, have an “ironic twist.”

Accompanying each drawing is an original poem written by Jen, modeled loosely in the style of Dr. Seuss and Shel Silverstein, literary lions whose works she often read to her children when they were young.

The Whites’ book was so successful and such a big hit with young readers that the duo have recently released a follow-up, “On the Edge with Coolhead Luke.”

Jen works full-time as a media consultant and is a very active volunteer in Grafton, where she and Colin live with her husband Mark and 11-year-old daughter, Devon.

Colin is now a high school freshman, who

when not busy with his schoolwork, which includes several honors courses, also enjoys playing guitar.

The creation of these books helps her kids, Jen says, to see that anything is possible with hard work. It also feeds a niche, bookwise, for boys ages 9-14, whom she believes are under served.

One of Jen’s favorite things about Colin’s art, she says, is that it celebrates those little things that make someone unique.

“Many of Colin’s characters have something a bit odd or unusual about them but they still triumph with enthusiasm in spite of that,” she explains. “They don’t necessarily know or care that they may be different from others. It’s just who they are. They show readers that it’s OK to be who you are and it’s OK to celebrate those differences.”

Although the message is an important one, the presentation is always light and fun, never heavy handed or preachy.

“Coolhead Luke,” the title character of both books, the Whites explain, is a fearless young boy. In the first book, although he is portrayed deep in the clutches of a scary Cyclops, Luke has a big grin on his face and is triumphantly clenching his fist. Luke makes another appearance in the followup, this time confidently smiling up at a large cobra in spite of the fact that Luke himself is perched on the edge of a cliff.

As Jen writes in her accompanying poem:

Luke, in essence, is the brave boy that is inside every boy – whether it is the one he believes he is now or the one that he wishes he could be. Colin, through his art, shows kids that no matter what, it is possible to navigate through a life filled with difficulties and challenges and still end up okay.

Colin said when he sits down to draw, he is not specifically thinking of something he has seen or heard in the outside world. His artwork is not deliberate or reactionary; rather it is a response to something that has registered in his sub-conscience mind.

It, “just happens,” he says modestly, of his talent.

This attitude is no doubt enforced with the help of his friends, who he notes with a laugh, “were impressed at first” but are now used to his success.

“They like (the books). They keep telling me to do more!” he says.

For the most part, Colin draws a picture first and then Jen writes a poem to go with it. But for a few entries in their second book, the process was reversed, with Colin coming up with illustrations for several poems that Jen had already written. One of those was a birthday tribute to her Uncle Marvin and another was a poem that she had used for the family’s Halloween party invitation one year.

Jen’s charming poems are varied, some with many stanzas and some with only a few. Some have the traditional rhyming schematics while others may be an example of a haiku or a limerick.

“I also try to use challenging vocabulary to really stretch the reader,” she says.

At the back of each book Jen also includes a glossary of terms and a guide for teachers.

On the duo’s Web site, coolheadluke. com, posted messages from educators rave about the power of these books in their classrooms.

But as gratifying as it to read those accolades, it is the positive response of their target audience - the kids themselves - that really makes Jen happy.

“So many parents have told me their kids never read but love these books,” she says.

“And we’ve had so many kids tell us how much they like the books and how they read them over and over.”

“These are really books geared for reluctant readers,” she adds. “I really feel that because they are illustrated by a boy when he was that particular age, it makes it very relatable for them.”

The Whites also include a lot of other fun things on their Web site for kids such as contests, polls, and puzzles, as well as information on their upcoming appearances. The two often do book signings at local libraries, schools, and bookstores. They also donate a number of their books to organizations that promote children’s literacy.

Although Mark and Devon did not participate in the creation of the books, they have completely supported and encouraged Jen and Colin every step of the way, Jen says.

“Devon,” she adds proudly, “is also a wonderful singer as well as a writer. She’s always working on writing a novel!”

“It’s been a great bonding experience,” Jen says of working with her son. “It’s been a really fun way to celebrate Colin’s talent.”

Colin, too, says he is eager to continue the partnership.

“I hope,” he says, grinning at his mom, “that we can do this for a long, long time!”

Currently both books by the Whites are available through Amazon or you may purchase a personalized copy through their Web site, coolheadluke.com.

Bonnie Adams is a freelance reporter and personal historian who lives in Upton with her husband and twin 13-year-old boys. Her website is storiesbybonnie.com. *From the book, “On the Edge with Coolhead Luke,” Jennifer and Colin White, 2009, Booksurge Publishing

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Something my players would not know about me: I received a letter of commendation from the FBI for my participation in apprehending a serial bank robber.

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Favorite pro athlete: The person I hold in high esteem is not a pro athlete but the former basketball coach at UCLA – John Wooden.

John Wooden has written a book that I believe every high school player and parent should read.

The book is Coach Wooden, OneOn-One and consists of 60 daily devotional readings that include

inspiring conversations on purpose, passion and the pursuit of success.

Highlight of coaching career: Winning the Division 1 District Championship in 2008. The team deserved to be called champions because they were all champions in life.

What I strive to accomplish with my players: I attempt to influence my players in becoming better individuals who respect their opponents, coaches, girlfriends and parents. I continue to place emphasis on being gentlemen by explaining to them that a gentleman is a gentle man. When I first accepted the coaching position in 2000, I had no idea about the importance of providing a good role model for my players.

I did not think that the players really listened to what you had to say but I was wrong – they do listen – it just doesn’t always appear that way.

What I do when I am not coaching: I am a private investigator that specializes in working with financial institutions and conducting security related training regarding bank robberies, check fraud etc. I also love spending time with my wife, children and our four grandchildren. I really have been blessed.

My work with Tenacity, a nonprofit tennis/reading program that helps Worcester youth: Tenacity has been available free of charge to

urban youths in Boston since 1999 and in Worcester since 2008. The six-week summer program will be offered in Worcester from July 5th –August 13th for Worcester youths only. There are two daily sessions that run from 9-12 and 1 - 4 . In 2009, approximately 400 children participated. The program is staffed by college and high school players who will teach various tennis skills and drills. Each child is required to spend 30 minutes of each session reading a book. Visit tenacity.org for more information.

Editor’s Note: This year, Tony accepted the position of Tenacity Program Director for Worcester.

Tony says, “Tenacity provides a safe environment for the summer for many youths and teaches them skills not only for tennis but also in life.” The Worcester Tenacity program relies on fundraising to sustain the program. Anyone wishing to contribute to this program can make their check payable to Tenacity and forward it to: Tony Brissette 9 Quail Hollow Drive Shrewsbury, MA 01545 Nominate a coach in your Massachusetts town to be featured in an upcoming “Who’s Coaching our Kids” profile.

Please email editor@baystateparent.com.

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Gramma BY

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beverly lessard jonathan cumberland illustrator

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he best thing about being a grandparent is that you can brag about everything those precious creatures do…and I do….eight times over.

Four of my grandchildren live with one daughter and her husband in Connecticut; the other four live with my two daughters and their husbands about three towns over.

“You are so lucky,” my friends all tell me, especially my friend who has one granddaughter who lives in Australia.

And I agree. I am lucky and blessed to see them often...and yet...I found that something was missing.

Even though my four Massachusetts grandchildren are part of my weekly life, my visits were often preoccupied with chatting with my daughters and helping them with home improvements. Living close in proximity did not guarantee the closeness that all my friends envied. It seemed that simply being a grandmother wasn’t enough.

I began reflecting over the closeness that my husband had created with each of our daughters. He made it a regular practice to take the girls out one at a time, to the store or to breakfast. As a result, he got the best of all worlds, being a dad to three beautiful children while enjoying each child one on one.

That was it! The best way to build that precious relationship between a grandparent and her grandchild was to create one-on-one time.

And in that moment, “gramma dates” were born.

Gramma

LET THE DATES BEGIN…

The First Date: Sage, 6 and Patience, 3, decided they wanted to go on one date together…to Friendly’s for supper and then to Toys R Us for a small toy. On the way out the door, my daughter tried to slip me a twenty dollar bill.

“Don’t be silly,” I laughed, pushing her hand away, “this is what grammas are born for.”

At Friendly’s the girls giggled and colored their place mats. At one point Sage was rocking back and forth which caused Patience to yell, “Sage, stop that!”

Sage yelled back, “Why?” Patience looked sad as she responded, “Because I’m afraid you might fall.”

The expression on Sage’s face softened. “Really?” She hugged her sister, “That’s so sweet.”

Wow, I thought, this was turning out even better than 22 MAY2010

I had imagined! It seemed that being together brought out the best in all of us perhaps exposing the secret of why grandparents and grandchildren love each other so much.

As I hugged Ruby good-bye dropping her back off at home, we smiled and laughed knowing that we shared another secret bond…we loved the same winter coat.

Date Number Two: I picked up 8-year-old Ruby for a shopping and dinner date. Ruby picked out the perfect winter coat in a design that I liked very much and I suspected her mother would probably hate. I knew that Ruby and her mom often butted heads when it came to clothing styles.

Since I had gone through the same thing with Ruby’s mom, I had to admit that I enjoyed the interplay very much.

At dinner, we chatted about school and homework and friends and then Ruby asked me, “Gramma, tell me about the games we are going to play at Christmas.”

Games on Christmas Eve are a tradition that my husband and I started with our three daughters and their husbands years ago, and now the games include the grandchildren. They are fun, entertaining and seriously…a whole other story.

Date Number Three: Three-year-old Patience decided she’d go solo with Gramma this time. She wanted to eat at Friendly’s, no the food court, no McDonald’s, no….she really wasn’t hungry, just eager to go straight to the play space at the mall.

As we walked into the mall, I discover that we couldn’t have been further from the play space. I wondered if Gramma would be piggybacking it most of the way. But to my surprise, Patience double-timed it to the other end of the mall.

I chuckled to myself knowing that if Mom had been there, Patience would have insisted on being carried. But with Gramma, Patience simply turned and said, “Hey, Gramma, wanna race?”

Date Number Four: My first solo date with 6-year-old Sage included a trip to Friendly’s where we ordered our favorites, chicken tenders and salad.

Sage was such a little princess, holding my hand as we walked into the mall.

When Sage ordered ice cream with gummy bears, the waitress looked at me and asked if that was okay.

I laughed a little and replied, “I’m her grandmother; she can have anything she wants.”

Sage looked up in surprise as if she expected to find that my eyes had suddenly rolled out of my head. But then she remembered, she was with Gramma, and she smiled.

After supper Sage and I did a little Christmas shopping. At one store she found the perfect gift for her older sister Ruby, a little make-up case that opened by pressing a button to display an assortment of lip glosses. Sage insisted on carrying the bag.

At another store we found a lovely candle set for Sage’s mom. As I was paying for it, I noticed Sage playing with the make-up kit, pressing the button and checking herself out in the mirror.

And then it hit me.

“Sage,” I whispered, “would you like to keep that one and go buy Ruby the pink one?”

Sage’s eyes lit up. Yes, that was exactly what she wanted.

To say the least, Sage held my hand with a new warmth and quicker pace as we headed for the mall door to go home.

Sage hugged me and thanked me again and again for buying her a make-up kit too. But what Sage didn’t realize was how proud gramma was of her for buying

Gramma DATE STARTER KIT If you are thinking of starting this tradition in your family, keep in mind that dates can and probably should be kept simple and inexpensive. You are giving your grandchild your time not your pocketbook. Other things to keep in mind as you start this wonderful new kind of dating is that:

We’re about kids, but we’d be nothing without moms

Dates should be flexible. Your children and grandchildren are busy too. A little organization and flexibility will yield the perfect opportunity even if it’s just a quick one-on-one ice cream outing or walk around a park.

Date fairly. Perhaps make a schedule so that your grandchildren know that everyone is going to get her turn, giving each child something tangible to look forward to. Or you might want to mail your grandchild a special invitation or give him or her a birthday gift certificate to a restaurant that you will redeem together. If you keep dates simple and inexpensive, it will prevent competition between siblings and cousins and alleviate the trap of trying to make each date more and more spectacular.

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Keep your eye on the prize. Do not feel as if you have to purchase pricey tickets for shows or stay overnight in hotels to create a memorable experience with your grandchild. At the end of the day what everyone will remember is the time you had together playing cards, taking a nature walk, baking a cake, etc.

Enjoy falling in love with each grandchild on your special outings. I promise you, even with sticky hand-holding and sloppy kisses, these experiences will rank as some of the best dates you’ve ever had.

her sister the gift she really wanted for herself.

Date Number Five: I picked up Ruby for a sleepover at Gramma’s. She wanted help building a tool box in Gramma’s workshop Ruby helped sand all the pieces and then I helped her nailed the pieces of wood together. It looked grand. Ruby was definitely pleased with our work. I plugged in the wood burner, and Ruby burned “Tool Box” into the front.

The next morning when I hugged her good-bye, I whispered,“I love you, Ruby.”

“I love you too Gramma,” she yelled back. “I want to come over to sleep again real soon.”

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What you’ll learn: While we are capable of loving many people, we fall in love one at a time. It is that one-onone time with your husband, your child or your grandchild that makes the heart grow ten sizes. You’ll learn things about each grandchild that you would never have known.

Enjoy falling in love with each grandchild on your special outings. I promise you, even with sticky handholding and sloppy kisses, these experiences will rank as some of the best dates you’ve ever had.

Beverly Lessard is a Boxboro-based freelance writer. Beverly has been the director/owner of Boxboro Children Center for 23 years.

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Today is your day.

You’re off to Great Places!

You’re off and away!

- dr. seuss

GO MOTHER’S DAY WEEKEND!

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PLACES YOU’LL

GO BOATING! Sunday, May 9.

It’s opening day on Spectacle and Georges Islands, Boston. Hop on a boat from Boston, Hingham or Quincy and explore a piece of Boston’s national parks. bostonharborislands.com.

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GO SWEET!

May 3 - 9. Buy a special mom something yummy at over 150 restaurants, bakeries, cafes and chocolate shops across Massachusetts. All proceeds benefit breast cancer research and care at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute. Visit bostonbakesforbreastcancer.org.

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Can’t you just smell them! It’s Lilac Sunday at the Arnold Arboretum of Harvard University on Sunday, May 9, a day filled with family activities and lots of lilacs! arboretum.harvard.edu.

GO DUCKS! Spend the afternoon on Boston Common as families retrace the steps of Mr. and Mrs. Mallard and their family of eight ducklings in Robert McCloskey’s classic, Make Way for Ducklings. A Mother’s Day tradition! friendsofthebostonpublicgarden.org.

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ROAR! Walk With Dinosaurs from June 18 - 20 as 17 life-sized dinosaurs come to life in Worcester’s DCU Center. dcucenter.com.

1SATURDAY FETCH! Lab Opening at the Discovery Museums.

177 Main St., Acton. 10 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. The Opening of the FETCH! Lab Cart at 2 p.m.. Meet Ruff Ruffman, the canine host of the popular PBS TV reality game show, FETCH! between 10 a.m. and 3 p.m. Build a Canine House of Cards and try other exciting FETCH! challenges and activities throughout the day. Take home FETCH! stickers, posters, and resources. Free with admission. A & C $10.50, Sr.$9.50.

978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org FOR MOMS Zumba Gold and Fitness. 1870 Town Hall, 12 Woodward Ave., Berlin. Tuesdays, 9 - 10 a.m. Zumba Gold (older active adults and beginners); 10-11 a.m. Zumba Fitness combines fun Latin and International music with easy-to-follow moves to produce a great calorie-burning, low-impact workout in disguise. cgus2000@yahoo.com First class free, then $8 drop-in fee.

Celebrate Asian American Heritage. Boston Children’s Museum. 11:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. Explore Asian and Pacific Islander cultures. Also May 29. A $12, C (1-15) $9, under one, free. Fridays 5 – 9 p.m., all visitors $1.

617-426-6500, bostonchildrensmuseum.org Ocean Detectives – Whales: Ages 5 – 7. New England Aquarium, Central Wharf, Boston. 2 – 3:30 p.m.

Children will work with parents and peers to unlock the secrets of the deep while developing their math, science and literacy skills. C $30 (includes adult). 617-973-5206, neaq.org FREE Event with Isis and Brigham & Women’s Stork Fund. Brigham and Women’s Hospital, Isis Parenting, Lululemon, Au Bon Pain. The Shops at Prudential Center, 800 Boylston Street, Boston. 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Attend a “Jam Session” at the Prudential outside Isis in the Belvidere arcade! Experience Isis Parent/Baby Yoga Class and the new Isis Jelly Jam music and movement program. Bring your little ones for engaging infant and toddler activities and learn about Brigham and Women’s newest addition.

The Stork Fund will work to raise money for healthy moms and babies. 781-429-1500, storkfund.org.

FREE Celebrate May Day Stories and Craft. The Harvard Coop, 1400 Massachusetts Ave., Cambridge.

11 a.m. thecoop.com FREE Spring Fair. Sunrise Montessori School, 31 Hayward St., Franklin. Noon – 2 p.m. For families.

Silent auction items, gift baskets, raffles and games & prizes for the kids. Held rain or shine. 508-541-8010, MySunriseMontessori.com Drop Spindle Spinning. The Fiber Loft, 9 Massachusetts Ave., (Rte. 111), Harvard. 1 - 4 p.m. Learn to spin on a drop spindle, a nice workshop for teenagers as well as adults. Drop spindles (approx. $18) and wool roving available for purchase. $35 PP. 978-456-8669, TheFiberLoft.com FREE May Day Fairy House Tour. The Trustees of Reservations, 464 Abbott Ave., Leominster. 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Rain date May 2. Build a fairy house creation made of natural materials to place along the wooded paths of the Doyle Reservation or bring one to display in the lobby of the Doyle Conservation Center. Enjoy a maypole dance, a performance by the Irish American stepdancers, and “fairy cakes.” 978-840-4446 X 1900, ttor.org.

Skating Gala. New England Sports Center, Marlborough.

7 – 9:30 p.m. Figure skating show followed by audience skating to benefit the Hole in the Wall Camp. Show features Olympian and Harvard student, Emily Hughes, along with a cast of international, national, and regional figure skaters from the Skating Club of Boston. Be sure to bring your skates! Limited skate rentals available for a charge. $5 pp at the door. 508-229-2700, NES.com.

Frogs, Pollywogs & Fairies. Mass Audubon’s Broadmoor Wildlife Sanctuary, 280 Eliot St (Rte. 16), Natick.

1 - 2:30 p.m. From frogs and tadpoles to fairy shrimp, explore what hides under the water and lives around this seasonal, vernal pool. Pre-registration required. A $12, C $8. 508-655-2296. massaudubon.org.

Young Engineers. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. Noon – 2 p.m. Meet civil engineers and try challenges to learn how they plan roads, buildings and bridges. Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org FREE Summer Camp Fair. Burbank YMCA in Reading, 36 Arthur B. Lord Dr. 10:30a.m. – Noon. Learn more about Burbank YMCA summer camps. 781-944-9622, ymcaboston.org/Burbank Teddy Bear Tea. Chandler’s Tavern at Yankee Candle, South Deerfield. 11 a.m. Also on May 15 & 29, June 12 & 26. Bring your favorite Teddy Bear and have tea & lunch.

Read the book The Brown Paper Teddy Bear. 413-6651277. chandlers.yankeecandle.com.

47th Annual New England Gem and Mineral Show.

Topsfield Fairgrounds, 2nd entrance, Coolidge Hall and Trade Bldg., Rte. 1 North, Topsfield. 9 a.m. -5 p.m. (Also May 2, 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.) Exhibits, hourly door prizes, mineral and fossil identification, gem cutting and lapidary demos, gold panning, geode cutting, goodie bags, treasure sifting for the kids. . $5 PP, under 12 Free. Free parking. nahant. com/nsrmc or nsrmc@verizon.com

2SUNDAY FETCH! Lab Opening at The Discovery Museums.

177 Main St., Acton. See May 1 listing for details.

Special Sundays: Printmakers in Person. The Eric Carle Museum Picture Book Art, Amherst. 1 – 4 p.m.

An opportunity to see two visiting artists at work as they demonstrate their process and work on their newest print project. The perfect opportunity to ask questions and learn more about printmaking. A $9 C (1 – 18) $6, Family

$22.50 Family, under 1, free. 413-658-1100, carlemuseum.org.

Project Bread’s Walk for Hunger. The 20-mile route weaving through Boston, Brookline, Newton, and Cambridge will include entertainment and free snacks along the way. projectbread.org, 617-723-5000.

27th Annual Mayfair. The Harvard Square Business Association, 6 blocks in Harvard Square, Cambridge.

Noon – 6 p.m. Six stages of live entertainment, over 30 restaurant vendors, hundreds of street vendors selling artwork, jewelry, vintage clothing, neighborhood sidewalk sales, and Chalk on the Walk! Rain date – May 16.

617-491-3434, harvardsquare.com, FREE Spring Fest. North Central Charter Essential School, One Oak Hill Rd., Fitchburg. 9 a.m. – 2 p.m. Games, crafts, flea market, car wash, book fair, live entertainment, community resource fair. School tours for interested students and families. Learn more about the Think Care Act mission and the school’s personalized approach to academics. Event supports the PTO Scholarship Fund. Activities range from $.25 to $10. 978-345-2701, ncces.org Hiawatha Day. Garden in the Woods, Framingham.

This program is offered with Longfellow’s Wayside Inn and includes Native American flute music on the Woodland Stage with readings from Henry Wadsworth Longfellow’s “Song of Hiawatha”; guided tours for adults, focusing on plants useful to Native Americans for food and medicines; scavenger hunts for children; birch bark crafts. Call for times and fees: 508-877-7630, newfs.org.

Julie’s Birthday Celebration. Natick Collection. 4:30 p.m. Celebrate Julie’s birthday in seventies style! Join the party and learn about Julie’s life, enjoy a special meal, and take home a keepsake book with activities and journaling pages to help you commemorate this special day. For girl 8 and up. $26 PP. Reservations required. 877-247-5223, americangirl.com .

FREE Julie’s Paper Butterfly Craft. Natick Collection.

2 - 4 p.m. Butterflies were big in Julie’s generation—join the fun with this easy craft activity that teaches girls how to make and decorate butterflies from paper. For girl 8 and up. 877-247-5223, americangirl.com FREE Under the Petticoats. Northborough Historical Society, 50 Main St., Northborough. 2 p.m. Explore the day-to-day customs of the colonial ancestors with costumes, props and lively conversation. Cover such topics as chamber pots, the number of petticoats to be worn, bathing - or not, and manners. Were the good old days really that good?

Come and find out. The Museum will be open following the program from 3- 5 p.m. New this year are sixteen fashions

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through the decades, 1810 - 1940, men’s accessories, paintings by Sheldon Berlyn, and additions to the high school and professional sports display. Refreshments will be served and donations are always welcomed. 508-393-6298, northboroughhistsoc.org Stories Alive. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 1 and 2 p.m. Kids participate in folktale performances and create their own stories by making puppets.

Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org World Rhythms Community Day. Norman Rockwell Museum, Stockbridge. 12 to 4 p.m. Norman Rockwell’s 1960 painting “Golden Rule” provides the inspiration for an afternoon of family fun with an international flavor, featuring multicultural music from A Beautiful Future; traditional kamishibai Japanese storytelling with Diane Clouet; ethnic displays from BRIDGE of Great Barrington, the Literacy Network, and the Stockbridge Mission House; art-making workshops; a display of classic 1960’s cars by the Piston Poppers; and more. Enjoy this celebration marking the reopening of Rockwell’s Stockbridge studio. Free with regular Museum admission. 413-298-4140, nrm.org.

Farm Machinery Weekend and FREE for Grandparents. Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, 145 Redstone Hill, Sterling. Explore real farm machines and meet the farmers who operate them, 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. and 1 - 3 p.m. For admission costs, visit davisfarmland.com.

47th Annual New England Gem and Mineral Show.

Topsfield Fairgrounds, Topsfield. 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. See May 1 listing for details.

FREE Introduction to Yoga. Central Mass Yoga and Wellness, Inc. 45 Sterling Street #28, West Boylston.

11 a.m. Yoga can make your life happier, healthier and more productive. This is an opportunity to better understand what yoga is and a chance to meet one or more of the instructors. 508-835-1176, centralmassyoga.com

3MONDAY FOR PARENTS Zumba with Loyda Burk. 1870 Town Hall, 12 Woodward Ave., Berlin. Monday nights at 7 p.m. and Thursday mornings at 9:30 a.m. Ditch the workout - join the party! You don’t have to know how to dance, just follow along - get moving and have fun! No experience necessary! $10 drop-in fee. dburk1023@msn.com.

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you try hands-on science experiments. Free with admission.

At Science Discovery. Admission to both museums $10.50.

978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org

ture! Children must be accompanied by an adult. Register ahead or drop in. For toddler/preschooler with adult: $4.

978-456-3924 ext 227, fruitlands.org.

Horsing Around the Barn. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 3:30 – 5 p.m. (Wednesdays May 5 – May 26). Ages 6 – 9. What’s the best way to groom a pony? Is he ticklish? Learn all about the equine and other animals. Spend time feeding, mucking, grooming, and doing other chores as well as getting to know Midnight and his other barn pals. Preregistration required. 781-259-2206, massaudubon.org/drumlin

Caring for Animals. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 4 – 5:30 p.m. Ages 10-13. Thursdays, May 6 – 27. Are you an animal enthusiast? Help the farmers and the wildlife care staff with chores and discover what it is like to take care of Drumlin Farm animals. Each week will be a new adventure. Preregistration required. $58 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudobn.org/drumlin

Trucks, Tractors, and Tools. . Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 1 – 2:30 p.m. All ages. Go on a search for trucks, tractors, and tools all over the farm. Meet the farmer and get a behind-the-scenes look at some of these mega machines! Preregistration required. $12 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudobon.org/drumlin Stylists’ Secrets from the Doll Hair Salon. Natick Collection. 4:30 p.m. Bring your doll and discover the stylists’ secrets to pulling off a perfect ponytail wrap, doubleflip twist, and other special tricks using stylists’ clips. This class is taught by Doll Hair Salon stylists. Each girl will also receive a special goody bag with doll hair accessories and styling instructions. $24 PP. For girls 8 and up. Reservations required. 877-247-5223, americangirl.com Eat Like a Bird. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 3 – 5 p.m. Kids race to collect “food” with different types of bird beaks in the FETCH!™ Lab, a hands-on activity center. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

SIGNS OF SPRING Nature programs are popping up all over Massachusetts! For a complete listing, visit massaudubon.org Cancer Institute. During the week leading up to Mother’s Day, more than 150 restaurants, bakeries, cafés, and chocolate shops throughout Massachusetts will create unique desserts. Desserts cost around $8 and 100% sales will benefit Dana-Farber. For a list of participating establishments, visit bostonbakesforbreastcancer.org.

Museum Challenges. .Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. Kids choose a challenge sheet and comb the Museum on a quest for clues.

Ages 4 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

preschools to family-friendly dining and adventurous day trips. 617-859-7700, healthworksfitness.com.

Editor’s Note: Freelance writer Kim Foley MacKinnon’s “Let’s Roll” article on spending the day in Cambridge can be found on page 32 of this month’s issue of baystateparent.

FREE Tuesday Storytime. The Coop, 1400 Massachusetts Ave., Cambridge. 11 a.m. Children ages 1 to 6 and their caregivers are welcome to stories and snacks. All events are free and open to the public and held in the children’s book department. thecoop.com Play and Learn. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 10 a.m. – Noon. Preschoolers use big beads to explore patterns and develop fine motor skills. Ages 2 – 4. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

4TUESDAY FREE Meet the Author of Boston Baby at Healthworks. Healthworks Fitness Center and Union Park Press, 441 Stuart St., Boston. Noon - 1:15 p.m. Kim Foley MacKinnon will give a short presentation, sign books, and answer any questions about getting your Boston babies out and about in the city. Get great tips on everything from playspaces and

5WEDNESDAY National Lab Day at The Discovery Museums. 177 Main St., Acton. Drop-in 2 – 4:30 p.m. Be inspired when

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Meet Rockwell’s Models! Norman Rockwell Museum, Stockbridge. 2:30 p.m. Meet the models who inspired Rockwell’s art.

Free with Museum admission. 413-298-4140, nrm.org.

FREE Parent Workshop: Raising a Bilingual Child.

Worcester Family Community Partnership, 130 Leeds St., Worcester. 6 p.m. (Please use Fairhaven St. entrance, office on second floor). Do you speak a language other than English with your child? Tips on fostering your child’s language development. Child care and refreshments available for those who have pre-registered. 508-799-3136.

(Workshop will also be presented in Spanish at 4:30 p.m.)

FREE FOR MOMS Presentation by Michael KeaneThe Leominster Bee Man. Worcester Chapter of the Holistic Moms Network, St. Luke’s Hall, 921 Pleasant St., Worcester. 7 – 9 p.m. Join the members of the Holistic Moms Network of Worcester County for a evening of “edutainment” regarding the role of Honey Bees in our environment and food chain. holisticmoms.org

6THURSDAY Toddler Thursdays. Fruitlands Museum, 102 Prospect Hill Rd., Harvard. 10 – 11 a.m. Also May 13, 20, and 27. Explore art, nature & history with your toddler/preschooler. Programs may include stories, art projects, gallery visits and outdoor exploration. Each week is a new adven-

Bugs, Bugs, Bugs. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 4 – 5:30 p.m. Ages 6-9. How many will you find on this insect safari? How are they camouflaged? Where are they hiding? Hunt through gardens, fields and forests seeking out those creatures. Take some time to insect behavior and meet someone who enjoys eating bugs! Preregistration required. $14 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudubon. org/drumlin Mom’s Nite Out. Solomon Pond Mall, Marlborough.

4-8 p.m. The nationwide event, billed as the “Ultimate Celebration of Motherhood”, is an evening of free pampering, fun, and giveaways for moms and moms-to-be. The evening will include elements of fashion, beauty, spa, health and wellness, fitness, nutrition, home design, financial advice and more. Swag bags and raffle prizes will also be given away. momsniteout.com.

String Telephones. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St.. 3 – 5 p.m. Who needs electricity to make sound travel? Kids make a phone from cups and string.

Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org FREE Story Time at Goddard! The Goddard School, Reading. Promotes reading readiness for toddlers and preschoolers. Reading, crafts, snacks, and refreshments.RSVP: readingma@goddardschool.com or 781- 942- 0023.

7FRIDAY FETCH! – Screaming String Thing. The Discovery Museum, Acton. 10 a.m. – Noon. What a racket! Turn an ordinary cup and string into a screeching, squawking sound machine. At Children’s Discovery. Free with admission.

Admission to both museums. $10.50. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org FREE Auditions “Night of the Living Beauty Pageant” for 7-14 year olds. Barre Players Youth Theater, 64 Common St., Barre. Also May 8. Friday 6 p.m. and Sat 1 p.m. Auditions for anyone who is now in grades 1 through 8. Roles are available for approximately 30 children.

Production dates are August 19,20,21 and 22.

508-829-6457, barreplayers.homestead.com Big Kids Band. Boston Children’s Museum. 11:30 a.m.

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Spring Sing with Pro Musica Youth Chorus & Studio Ballet of Hudson. Hudson High School, 69 Brigham St., Hudson. 7 p.m. A spring program of music and movement performing folk music, animal songs, and classical pieces by Benjamin Britten, Aaron Copland, Gabriel Faure, Gustav Mahler, Hudson composer Margery Ziegler Goldstein and others.

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Watch for birds flying at dusk and evening fireflies as you ride the hay wagon through the meadows. Stop by the campfire for stories, sâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;mores and a special nighttime visitor.

Watch for the glorious colors of the sky as the sun begins to set. Preregistration required. $19 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudubon.org/drumlin Whereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the Milk? Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 3:30 - 5 p.m. Ages 3 and older. Find out which animals give us milk and spend some time milking and caring for goats and cows, and learn why they are such an important part of the farm. Preregistration required. $14 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudobn.org/drumlin

p.m. A favorite kitchen engineering project; Roots and Shoots Morning 10 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 12 Noon. Activities to make your home and community more sustainable; Kamishibai - Japanese Storytelling 11 a.m., noon and 1 p.m. Listen to Mother Cat and celebrate Motherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day; Storytime Theater in Kidstage 11 a.m. (Also May 11). A dramatic play program for our youngest visitors.A $12, C (1-15) $9, under one, free. Fridays 5 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 9 p.m., all visitors $1.

617-426-6500, bostonchildrensmuseum.org FREE Curious George Saturday Story Hour. Curious George Books and Toys, 1 JFK St., Cambridge. For infant and toddlers. Stories and snacks. Every Saturday, 12 p.m.

617-498-0062, curiousgeorgestore.com.

Carnival and Family Fun Day. Hopkinton Parent Teacher Association, Hopkinton Town Common, Corner of Main St. and Hayden Rowe St. 9 a.m. - 3 p.m. Rain date: May 15. A fun filled, family day with hot air balloon rides, inflatables, games, carnival food, arts and crafts, and free magician and stage shows. Many free events. Inflatables, games and arts and crafts: tickets required - $20 for 20 tickets. 508-740-4100, hptaonline.com.

FREE Meet the Author: Jacqueline Dembar Greene.

American Girl. Natick Collection. 3 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 5 p.m. Your girl can meet Jacqueline Dembar Greene, the award-winning author of Rebecca Rubinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s book series! This informal session is her opportunity to meet Ms. Greene in person and have her books signed. For girls 8 and up. americangirl.com

FREE Family Saturday at the Currier/Motherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day Theme. Currier Museum of Art, 150 Ash St.., Manchester, NH. 10:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. Drop in for hands-on art activities, go on a guided family gallery walk (11:30 a.m.), visit the Discovery Gallery, or use a family gallery guide.

603-669-6144, currier.org

Twist Fair. Northampton Center for the Arts, 17 New South St., Northampton. 6-9 p.m. A fresh kind of fair, showcasing original handmade goods and art from 60 talented vendors. An exciting feast of shopping and fun. twistfair.com. Also May 8, 10 a.m. - 6 p.m.

Twist Fair. Northampton Center for the Arts, 17 New South St., Northampton. 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. A fresh kind of fair, showcasing original handmade goods and art from 60 talented vendors. twistfair.com.

FREE Northborough Library Book Sale. Friends of the Northborough Library, 34 Main St. Noon â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 4 p.m. (Also May 8, 9:30 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 4 p.m.) Annual book sale. Books on Saturday will sell for 50 cents; deeper discounts apply in the last hour. An excellent supply of used books, DVDs, audiobooks, and music CDs. 508-393-5025, northboroughlibrary.org Preschool Friday Series. Providence Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum, 100 South St. 10 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. During this sixweek series, which runs from May 7 to June 11, preschoolers celebrate Motherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day and explore life above and below ground with investigations of sunshine, bees, worms and animals that live around ponds. *30-minute sessions. $8 fee above Museum admission. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. Discount for series pre-registration. Call (401) 273-5437 ext. 234.

FREE Radio Disney Family Fun Night. Burbank YMCA in Reading, 36 Arthur B. Lord Dr. Reading. 6 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 8 p.m.

Radio Disney Cast Members will bring your favorite music, interactive games, contests and tons of Disney prizes. Get your face painted or spin the prize wheel and enter to win a VIP trip to the new Radio Disney studios in Burbank, California. Sign up at the Welcome Center Desk. 781-944-9622, ymcaboston.org/burbank

8SATURDAY Fun at the Boston Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum. Kitchen Science: The Egg Tower Challenge. 11:30 a.m. - 1:30

Blast Off. Providence Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum, 100 South St. Noon â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 2 p.m. Kids send rockets soaring across the room using the power of air in the FETCH!â&#x201E;˘ Lab, a hands-on science station. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Studio Saturdays. Peabody Essex Museum, East India Square, Salem. 1 - 3 p.m. Create a lively, colorful mosaic inspired by nature using simple materials with artist and textile designer Rahat Mama. For children of all ages with an accompanying adult. A $15, FREE for children 16 and under. 978-745-9500, pem.org Fancy Nancy Luncheon. Chandlerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Tavern at Yankee Candle, South Deerfield, 11 a.m. Also May 22, June 5 & 19. Dress fancy for the luncheon and read Fancy Nancy by Jane Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Connor. Full award winning kids menu will be available with parfaits for dessert. 413-665-1277. chandlers. yankeecandle.com.

Waushacum ParkTour. Gates Road Mass Central Rail Trail, Gates Rd., Sterling. 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. All are welcome to join the Wachusett Watershed Rangers and the Sterling Historic Society for a mile-long walking tour of the former Waushacum Park site. This park was once a primary destination for company picnics and rail going vacationers.

Learn how the merry-go-round, dance hall, steam boat, and other attractions were dismantled by the state in the early 1900s to protect the water quality of the Wachusett Reservoir. Email: rebecca.baronoski@state.ma.us.

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FREE Kids Dance Experience. 1870 Berlin Town Hall, 12 Woodward Ave., Berlin. 2 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 4 p.m Grades 3 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 6. (Also May 16) Local dancer, choreographer and dance instructor.

Susan Achilles Frilet would like to introduce herself to the kids of Berlin with two FREE dance classes. For the 1st hour the class will let kids experience different dance styles with small routines. And in the 2nd hour theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll use those moves to discover ways of expressing themselves through dance.

To move freely, come in comfortable clothes. Attend one or both sessions. TownofBerlin.com Meet the Author of â&#x20AC;&#x153;Boston Babyâ&#x20AC;? at the Little Mermaid. The Wheelock Family Theatre and Union Park Press, 200 Riverway, Boston. 3 p.m. Join Kim Foley MacKinnon, author of Boston Baby, and other local families on Motherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day for the Wheelock Family Theatreâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s presentation of â&#x20AC;&#x153;The Little Mermaid.â&#x20AC;? Kim will be on hand to sign books and answer any questions about getting your Boston babies out and about in the city. Get great tips on everything from playspaces and preschools to family-friendly dining and adventurous day trips. $25, $20, or $15 PP. 617-879-2300, wheelock.edu/wheelock/x1934.xml Motherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day Paper Flowers. Boston Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum. 11 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 1 p.m. and 2 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 4 p.m. Create a paper flower for a mom in your life. A $12, C (1-15) $9, under one, free. Fridays 5 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 9 p.m., all visitors $1. 617-4266500, bostonchildrensmuseum.org Art & Nature Story Time ECHO-Spring Blossoms.

Peabody Essex Museum, East India Square, Salem. 2 - 3 p.m. Count whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s springing to life outside. Then craft your own blossoms. For children ages 3 to 6 with accompanying adult. Reservations by May 7. A $15, FREE for children 16 and under. 978-745-9500, pem.org Third Week Wonders Preschool Series: Celebrate Signs of Spring. Mass Audubon at Broad Meadow Brook Wildlife Sanctuary, 414 Massasoit Rd., Worcester. 10 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 11 a.m. (Also May 20 or May 22). If you are between the ages of 3 and 5, bring your favorite adult for a thematic hour of a story, an activity, and a naturalist-led walk. Be prepared to go outside. $10 A/C pair; $2 per additional child.508-753-6087, massaudubon.org

10MONDAY Museum Challenges. Providence Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum, 100 South St., 9 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 6 p.m. Get ready for some super sleuthing! Kids lead a Museum investigation to solve some fun mysteries. Ages 4 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org FREE Breastfeeding Support Group. Mothers & Company, 140 Worcester St., Route 140, West Boylston.

1 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 2 p.m. Just drop in! For all moms, those breastfeeding a freshly-born baby, those having challenges, those interested in learning more about using a breastpump and those just interested in meeting other nursing mothers or figuring out how to breastfeed in public. mothersandcompany.com.

FOR MOMS Ladiesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Night. Central Rock Gym, 299 Barber Ave., Worcester. Every Monday evening starting at 4 p.m. Meet for climbing and socializing. Day Pass only $7 for ladies. centralrockgym.com.

11TUESDAY Sea Squirts (Formerly Family Explorers). New England Aquarium, Central Wharf, Boston. 9:30 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 11 a.m. Tuesdays & Fridays, May 11, 14, 18, 21, 25, 28 & June 1 & 4. Learn about the world of water alongside your young child. Sessions include free play, circle time with songs, stories and activities, art projects and games and may incorporate a visit to the Aquarium or a live animal encounter when appropriate to the topic. Fees apply for each series of four classes. 617-973-5206, neaq.org FREE Hatha Prenatal Yoga. Destination Maternity, Route 9, Natick. 6:30 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 7:45 p.m. 508-653-1605. destinationmaternity.com.

Play and Learn. Providence Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum, 100 South St. 10 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Noon. Preschoolers build ramps and towers and experiment with rolling balls. Ages 2 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 4. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org FREE La Leche League Meeting. Blessed Sacrament Church: Phelan Ctr., 551 Pleasant St., Worcester. 9:30 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. Get information and support to help you breastfeed. Babies and children are welcome. Gently used maternity clothes on sale for just one dollar per piece. 508523-5720, llleus.org/web/WorcesterMA.html

12WEDNESDAY Mercedes the Therapy Dog at The Discovery Museums. 177 Main St., Acton. 10 a.m. Come meet Mercedes and her handler Christine Macdonald from the Pets & People Foundation. Learn about people therapy through pets. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org Some Bunny Loves You. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 1 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 2:30 p.m. All ages. Have an upclose visit with a Drumlin Farm rabbit. Go exploring for favorite rabbit hiding places all around the sanctuary. Visit the garden and plant a rabbit treat. Preregistration required. $12 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudobon.org/drumlin Michael Flatleyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Lord of the Dance. Lowell Memorial Auditorium, 50 E. Merrimack St., Lowell. 8 p.m. Local dancers are performing in the Broadway show. Great for families of all ages. $56.50, $46.50 or $30.50. 978-4542299, lowellauditorium.com. For more music and theatre calendar listings, see page 42 of baystateparent.

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OH,THEPLACESYOU’LLGO Set It Straight. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 3 – 5 p.m. It’s a balancing act as kids discover ways to steady a tabletop seesaw in the FETCH!™ Lab, a hands-on activity center. Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Music Play. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 3 – 5 p.m. Kids play around with interesting instruments and see what sensational sounds emerge! Ages 3 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org FREE FOR PARENTS Beginner Yoga. Central Mass Yoga and Wellness, Inc., 45 Sterling St. #28, West Boylston.

5:30 p.m. Yoga can make your life happier, healthier, and more productive. This is an opportunity to better understand what yoga is and a chance to meet one or more of our instructors! 508-835-1176, centralmassyoga.com

13THURSDAY Music and Movement with Ms. Karina. The Discovery Museums, 177 Main St., Acton. 10 a.m. Come and explore sound through singing and playing. $10.50 PP admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org FREE 20th Annual Voices & Visions Creative Writing and Art Exhibition. The Home for Little Wanderers, Knight Children’s Center, 161 South Huntington Ave., Jamaica Plain. 4 – 7 p.m. Also on May 14 (9 a.m.

– 3 p.m.). Open to the public and features artwork from children in The Home’s residential facilities. This innovative year-long art project strives to teach positive ways of self-expression and is very therapeutic for children with emotional and behavioral challenges. This year’s theme, “Outer Space and Beyond,” encourages children to recreate the solar system by using 3-D art, poems, and stories. The children share many emotions and a piece of themselves

in each creation. For more information contact Pam Nolan, 617-264-5349, thehome.org.

FREE Doors Open Lowell 2010. May 13 – 15. Offers an insider’s look into the preservation of over 30 of Lowell’s magnificent historic buildings. doorsopenlowell.org Music Play. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 3 – 5 p.m. Kids play around with interesting instruments and see what sensational sounds emerge! Ages 3 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Uncovering the Covers of the “Post. ‘ Norman Rockwell Museum, Stockbridge. 12:30 p.m. Norman Rockwell Museum Chief Curator Stephanie Plunkett takes visitors “behind the camera” to explore Norman Rockwell’s extensive use of photography in creating his famous covers for “The Saturday Evening Post.” Beverages and dessert provided. $6, or free with Museum admission.

413-298-4140, nrm.org.

FREE Multiple Joys and Challenges. Mothers & Company, 140 Worcester St., Route 140, West Boylston.

12:30 – 2 p.m. For parents of multiples...bring your lunch if you like and enjoy the company of other parents and their babies. Twins and triplets are welcome! Facilitated by baystateparent’s March mom who rocks, Cindy Morningstar, a mom of 13 children, including a set of twins! Meets once per month. mothersandcompany.com.

14FRIDAY Build It! at The Discovery Museums. 177 Main St., Acton. Drop-in 10 a.m. – Noon. Bring your imagination to build, stack, and sort using an enormous collection of DUPLOS. $10.50 admission to both museums.

978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org School Readiness Friday Night. Boston Children’s Museum. 6 – 8 p.m. Practice kindergarten readiness skills.

A $12, C (1-15) $9, under one, free. Fridays 5 – 9 p.m., all visitors $1. 617-426-6500, bostonchildrensmuseum.org

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860-444-7373, gardearts.org Homeschool Programs - Native Turtles. Mass Audubon at Wachusett Meadow Wildlife Sanctuary, 113 Goodnow Rd., Princeton. 1 – 3 p.m. Learn about these ancient creatures that have been with us since the time of dinosaurs. See turtle shell specimens and meet a live turtle.

A free, C $12. 978-464-2712, massaudubon.org Preschool Story Hour – Turtles. Mass Audubon at Wachusett Meadow Wildlife Sanctuary, 11 Goodnow Rd., Princeton. 10:30 - 11:30 a.m. Come enjoy an hour of fun with your youngster, focusing on nature. Read a book, do a craft activity, and go for a walk with teacher-naturalist Chris Eaton. For ages 2.5 to 5. $10 A/C pair, $2 for each additional child. 978-464-2712, massaudubon.org FREE Mayfair at the Worcester Center for Crafts.

Worcester Center for Crafts 25 Sagamore Rd., Worcester.

Come to an old-fashioned BBQ! Showcasing artisans from all over New England in all ranges of mediums from fibers to wood, clay to glass, as well as jewelry and photography.

Also, don’t miss clay demos. Call for times: 508-753-8183, worcester.edu. Also May 15, 16.

15SATURDAY CycleFest at The Discovery Museums. 177 Main St., Acton. All Day. Experience the world of bicycling and how it encourages active minds and bodies and a healthy and joyful lifestyle. Admission to the Museums will be FREE to anyone arriving on a bicycle. Donations in any amount encouraged. $10.50 admission to both museums.

978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org Spring Kids’ Stuff Tag Sale. Acton Family Network, Parker Damon Bldg., 11 Charter Rd. 8 a.m. – Noon. Turn gently-used kid clothes (age birth–12 years), toys, baby equipment, books, sporting goods and maternity items into cash! Tables are $30 for non-members of the Acton Family Network: tagsale@actonfamily.org Greater Worcester Mother’s of Twins Club Annual Yard Sale. Auburn Public Library, 369 Southbridge St., Auburn. 9 a.m. - 2 p.m. Baby and children’s items, clothing, gear, etc. as well as household items. Baked goods will be available. Free. Weather permitting event. All welcome! worcester-motc.com.

FREE 57th Annual First Parish Plant & Craft Fair.

First Parish on the Common, Route 4/225, Bedford Common. 10 a.m. - 3 p.m. Specialty annuals, heritage perennials, crafters, activities for kids, bake sale, etc. Open to the public. 781-275-7994, uubedford.org.

Critter Day: FerretWise. Boston Children’s Museum.

11 a.m. – 3 p.m. Learn the truth about these mischievous creatures.A $12, C (1-15) $9, under one, free. Fridays 5 – 9 p.m., all visitors $1. 617-426-6500, bostonchildrensmuseum.org.

Design your Own Pizza Garden. Tower Hill Botanic Garden 11 French Dr., Boylston. 10 a. m. - 12 p.m. Grow your own vegetables and make your own pizza at home!

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Go Fly a Kite. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 3 – 5 p.m. Kids build an indoor kite and learn what makes it fly in the FETCH!™ Lab, a hands-on activity center. Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

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FREE Tidepool for Tots Program. First Connections, Sargent Memorial Library, 427 Mass. Ave., Boxborough.

10:30 a.m., 11:30 a.m. or 12:30 p.m. Visit the tidepool from N.E. Aquarium, paint an “Under the Sea” suncatcher, and choose a new book to take home. For ages 2-5 with a parent. Space limited, pre-registration is necessary.

978-287-0221, firstconnections.org

Dinosaur Dig at The Discovery Museums. 177 Main St., Acton. All Day. Conduct your own paleontology dig in the giant outdoor sandbox. Bring a dinosaur and join in the fun! The sand, tools, and fossils provided. At Children’s Discovery. Free with admission. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org

FREE Storytime & Craft. The Harvard Coop, 1400 Massachusetts Ave., Cambridge. 11 a.m. thecoop.com Royal Princess Ball. Miss Emma’s Tea, SpringHill Suites Marriott, 31 Andrews Parkway, Devens Common Ctr., Devens. Noon. A truly magical tea party with singing princess characters (Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, Ariel, Jasmine, Belle), tea sandwiches, fresh fruit, princess cake and “tea,” musical games, and dancing. Special singing performances, picture opportunities, and princess favors for each guest. $35 PP. 978 479-5272, missemmastea.com Waterworks. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. A day of special activities all about water! There will be opportunities for the whole family to learn about the local watershed. You can also meet some native wildlife that depend on clean water for their habitat. Activities free with paid admission to the farm.

781-259-2206, massaudubon.org/drumlin FREE Open House & Kite Festival. Blue Hill Observator & Science Center, Milton. 10 a.m. - 5 p .m. Enjoy the amazing view, fascinating history and fun activities at the oldest continually operating Weather Observatory in the country. All ages. Donation for materials for some activities.

For details and parking information, 617-696-0562.

Wild about Amphibians. Mass Audubon’s Broadmoor Wildlife Sanctuary, 280 Eliot St (Rt 16) Natick. 1 – 2:30 p.m. Visit “up close and personal” with some of the species of amphibians found around Broadmoor. Learn about these frog and salamander friends and take a short walk to our marsh and vernal pool to see more animals in the wild.

Member prices available. Pre-registration required. A $12, C $8. 508-655-2296, massaudbon.org No Time to Waste. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 10:30 a.m. – 1:15 p.m. Families watch a funny show about trash and learn how to recycle everyday items.

Four 20-minute shows. Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Teddy Bear Tea. Chandler’s Tavern at Yankee Candle, South Deerfield. See May 1st listing for details. Also May 29, June 12 & 26.

Heroes Weekend. Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, 145 Redstone Hill, Sterling. Events run Sat. and Sun., 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Firefighters, police officers and armed service personnel and their families are free with valid I.D. Put out a pretend fire, climb up onto a fire truck and even check out the inside of an Army Hummer! Meet Smokey the Bear and talk with real heroes about what they do in your town. For admission costs, visit davisfarmland.com.

Annual Plant Sale. Gore Estate, 52 Gore St., Waltham.

9 a.m. – 3 p.m. Also Fri. and Sat., May 21 and 22; and Sat., May 29. This popular sale offers a wide variety of open pollinated annuals, perennials, and herbs, as well as some 15 varieties of heirloom tomatoes. goreplace.org/plant-sale.htm.

FREE Mayfair at the Worcester Center for Crafts.

Worcester Center for Crafts, Worcester. See May 14 listing for details.

16SUNDAY FETCH! – Train Your Brain at The Discovery Museums.

177 Main St., Acton. 1 – 4 p.m. Design your own fun challenges that use words and colors that confound your brain! At Science Discovery. Free with admission. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org

Bring your favorite teddy bear to the Stone Zoo on Saturday, May 22 from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. for a day of cuddly fun! Zoo staff will be on hand to give your bear a check-up and a clean bill of health. Later, march through the Zoo in a Teddy Bear Parade. zoonewengland.

FREE Playgroup Drop-In ( 0-1 Year). Isis Maternity, Arlington (1:45 – 2:45 p.m.) and Needham (3:30 – 4:30 p.m.). Enjoy our comfortable space with clean and age-appropriate toys. These drop-in groups are a great way to get out of the house and meet other big and small people in a baby-friendly environment, whatever the weather.

No pre-registration necessary. Grandparents and sitters welcome!$5 for non-members. Registration is not required, just sign in at the front desk. isismaternity.com. Visit their Web site for a complete schedule of free groups.

Museum Challenges. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. Kids select hunts and search high and low to solve Museum mysteries. Ages 4 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

Afternoon Chores and Ice Cream! Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 3:30 – 5 p.m. Age 4 and up.

Feed the animals, collect eggs, and participate in other farm chores. Then make a sweet snack of ice cream! Preregistration required. $14 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudubon. org/drumlin

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Kit’s Birthday Celebration. American Girl. Natick Collection. 4:30 p.m. Celebrate Kit’s birthday Cincinnatistyle! Join the celebration and learn about Kit’s life, enjoy a special meal, and take home a keepsake booklet with activities and journaling pages to help you commemorate this special day. $26 PP. For girls 8 and up. 877-247-5223, americangirl.com FREE Kit’s Paper Lantern Craft. American Girl.

Natick Collection. 2 – 4 p.m. She’ll learn how to make a festive paper lantern like the ones that decorated Kit’s “penny-pincher” birthday party. For girls ages 8 and up. americangirl.com Rescue Mission. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. Noon – 2 p.m. Kids design a device to retrieve a space capsule from water in the FETCH!™ Lab, an interactive science station. To the rescue! Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Heroes Weekend. Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, Sterling. See May 15th listing for details.

FREE Mayfair at the Worcester Center for Crafts.

Worcester Center for Crafts, Worcester. See May 14 listing for details.

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18TUESDAY FETCH! Rescue Mission at The Discovery Museums.

177 Main St., Acton. Drop-in 1:30 – 4:30 p.m. Rescue Mission! Can you meet Ruff Ruffman’s challenge? Design hooks that can grab different capsules out of the water. At Science Discovery. Free with admission. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org Bitty Bear’s Story Time. American Girl. Natick Collection. 10:30 a.m.Preschoolers and their parents can hear a reading of Bitty Bear’s Story Time, then enjoy an art activity and tasty treats. For girls 3 and up. $10 PP. Reservations required; call toll-free 877-247-5223, americangirl.com Greater Worcester Mother’s of Twins Club General Meeting. First Baptist Church, Worcester. 7 - 9 p.m.

All welcome including expectant mothers. .worcester-motc.com

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Playgroup Drop-In ( 1-3 Years). Isis Maternity, Arlington and Needham. Meets Mondays in both locations, 3:30 – 4:30 p.m. Enjoy comfortable spacious classrooms, with clean and age-appropriate toys. These drop-in groups are a great way to get your energetic toddler out of the house and meet other big and small people in a child-friendly environment, whatever the weather. No pre-registration necessary.

Grandparents and sitters welcome! $5 for non-member families. Registration is not required, just sign in at the front desk. isismaternity.com.

Working Moms Group. Isis Maternity, Arlington. 7:30 p.m. Meets on the 3rd Wed. of each month. Free but RSVP requested: workingmoms@arlingtonfamilyconnection.org.

Teen Brain 101 - An Evening Talk on the Biology of the Adolescent Brain. Clarke Middle School Auditorium, 17 Stedman Rd., Lexington. 7 - 8:30 p.m. Have you ever wondered why the teen brain behaves the way it does with its leanings toward risk taking and rebellion? No matter whether you are a parent, teacher, social worker, social observer, or teenager you are welcome to hear how Dr. Jensen translates the most up-to-date research on the teen brain. Dr. Frances E. Jensen is nationally renowned for her research on the adolescent brain and has been featured on 60 Minutes, Harvard Magazine and recently on National Public Radio. She is the senior assistant in Neurology at Children’s Hospital Boston and professor at Harvard Medical School. $10 per family. lexingtoncommunityed.org.

Jack’s Beanstalk. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 3:30 – 5 p.m. Age 3 and up. Revisit this fairy tale favorite and enjoy a hands-on craft and other activities, including planting your own beanstalks! You can even make your own golden egg to bring home using a natural dye.

Preregistration required. $12 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudubon.org/drumlin

Ladybug, Ladybug. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 1 – 2:30 p.m. All ages. Go on an insect safari looking for ladybugs, antlions, and any other six legged animal you happen to find. Make a ladybug craft to remind you of all your adventures. Preregistration required. $12 PP. 781- 259-2206, massaudubon.org/drumlin

FREE Molly’s Stand-up Star Craft. American Girl.

Natick Collection. 1 – 3 p.m. In 1944, Molly and her friends loved to say “Hurray for the USA!” Show your own patriotic spirit as you design a stand-up paper star that you can take home and display. For girls ages 8 and up. americangirl.com

FREE Happiest Baby on the Block. Destination Maternity, Route 9, Natick. 5:30 – 7:30 p.m. Learn magical techniques to calm crying, soothe your baby and add 1 to 3 hours to your baby’s sleep. Taught by Peggy Kleimon R.N. Certified Childbirth Educator and Certified Instructor in The Happiest Baby., Labor and Delivery R.N. in Massachusetts.

508-653-1605. destinationmaternity.com.

Story Center. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 3 – 5 p.m. Kids create their own stories using magnet words and explore funny tales and poems. Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

21FRIDAY FREE FOR PARENTS Evening at The Discovery Museums for Families with Children on the Austism Spectrum.

The Discovery Museums, 177 Main St., Acton. 5:30 – 8 p.m. Author Lisa Jo Rudy will speak about community inclusion and children with autism and promote her book “Get Out, Explore, and Have Fun!: How Families of Children with Autism or Asperger Syndrome Can Get the Most out of Community Activities” at 6 p.m and 7 p.m. Please note: Seating is limited to 25 for each of the guest speaker sessions. Tickets will be distributed first come, first serve on the evening of the event. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org Asthma Awareness Day. Boston Children’s Museum.

6 -8 p.m. Learn more about asthma and how to stay healthy! And Operation: Spy Challenge. Make contact with secret agents throughout the Museum. (Also May 28).

A $12, C (1-15) $9, under one, free. Fridays 5 – 9 p.m., all visitors $1. 617-426-6500, bostonchildrensmuseum.org Blowing in the Wind. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. 3:30 – 5 p.m. Age 3 and up. Spring has arrived and windy days are here! How come sometimes a gentle breeze blow sand sometimes it is a bluster wind?

Head up the drumlin and see if you can figure it out.

Preregistration required. $12 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudubon.org/drumlin FREE at Five! Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. The Museum is open free of charge from 5 - 8 p.m. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

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fancy for the luncheon and read Fancy Nancy by Jane O’Connor. Full award winning kids menu will be available with parfaits for dessert. 413-665-1277. chandlers. yankeecandle.com.

Kindermusik. Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, 145 Redstone Hill, Sterling. Shake, wriggle and giggle with celebrated children’s performer Pam Espinoza! Show times at 11a.m. and 2 p.m., Saturday and Sunday. For admission costs, visit davisfarmland.com.

Teddy Bear Check-up Day at Stone Zoo. 149 Pond St.,Stoneham. 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Bring your favorite teddy bear to Stone Zoo for a day of cuddly fun! Zoo staff will be on hand to give your bear a check-up and a clean bill of health. Later, march through the Zoo in a Teddy Bear Parade. On your way, say hello to Smoky and Bubba, Stone Zoo’s resident black bears. A $11, C (2 – 12) $7 for children 2 – 12,under 2, FREE. 781-438-5100, stonezoo.org

23SUNDAY RUNNING WITH WOOL During Memorial Day weekend, the Old Sturbridge Village sheep get their annual haircut during Wool Days at Old Sturbridge Village. The Village is also rolling out all of their summer fun. For a complete schedule of events, visit osv.org.

22SATURDAY Bubble Bonanza. The Discovery Museums, 177 Main St., Acton. All Day. Use special bubble wands and bubble solution to create extraordinary bubbles. At Children’s Discovery.

Free with admission. $10.50 admission to both museums.

978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org Little Lambs 5K Walk / Run. Route 119, Main Street, Ashby Common, Ashby. 10 a.m. Registration. Competitive 5K run or leisure 5K walk; Live music and children’s games.

A $20, under 12, FREE. littlelambsintl.org FREE Storytime and Crafts. The Harvard Coop, 1400 Massachusetts Ave., Cambridge. 11 a.m. thecoop.com Headgear: Natural History of Horns & Antlers, exhibition opening. Harvard Museum of Natural History, 26 Oxford Street, Cambridge. 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Discover how and why horns and antlers evolved and learn about their cultural significance through dramatic displays and video presentations. A $9, C (3-18) $6, under 3, free.

617-495-3045, hmnh.harvard.edu.

Children’s Blanket Flea Market. Carlisle Fields, 10 a.m. - 1 p .m. Are you wondering what to do with all of those toys in your toy box and/or closet? Bring a blanket and spread your treasures out on the field. Make sure you price your items before you come to set up (set-up begins at 9:30 a.m. and clean up should be completed by 2 p.m.)

Children must be accompanied by an adult. Pre-registration is necessary. $10 per family. 978 -369 -6155. Rain Date: Sun., May 23.

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Military Families Day. Southwick’s Zoo, Mendon. With a Valid Military ID, the serviceperson receives FREE general admission and immediate family receives 1/2 priced general admission. The Woodland Express Train Ride is great for families of all ages you ride through the North American Elk Exhibit! southwickszoo.com, 800-258-9182.

Fairy Dog Parents Education Days. Especially for Pets, 67 Main St., Medway. 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. (Also at Especially for Pets, Westborough 2 – 5 p.m.). Meet volunteers and learn about this wonderful organization.

Fairy Dogparents is a 501c3 nonprofit organization that helps prevent dogs from being surrendered to shelters. They provide assistance with food, medical and general wellness needs of qualified dog recipients in Massachusetts. Fairy Dogparents is 100% dependent on donations and cannot guarantee any goods or services for applicants. fairydogparents.org. 508-533-0275, especiallyforpets.com Balloon Badminton. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. Noon – 2 p.m. Kids design their own rackets and play an animated indoor version of this active game.

Ages 3 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Weekend Festival-Fiery Pool: The Maya and the Mythic Sea. Peabody Essex Museum, East India Square Salem. 11 a.m. – 4 p.m. (Also May 23). Weavers, dancers, puppet masters, hieroglyphics experts and artists illuminate the Maya culture of Guatemala and Mexico. Come see the ancient arts come to life! A $15, C 16 and under, free. 978-745-1876, pem.org.

Fancy Nancy Luncheon. Chandler’s Tavern at Yankee Candle, South Deerfield, 11 a.m. Also June 5 & 19. Dress

Ring Them Bells! Boston Children’s Museum. The Back Bay Ringers perform, and try our own bells! A $12, C (115) $9, under one, free. Fridays 5 – 9 p.m., all visitors $1.

617-426-6500, bostonchildrensmuseum.org FREE Poetry Reading for Kids 12 and Under.

The Rabbit Hole, 805 Main St., Fitchburg. 1 – 2 p.m.

A free Sunday poetry series once a month for kids age 12 and under. Kids can bring a favorite poem to read out loud, or your child will receive a poem to read. Moms, Dads and family members are welcome to read also. And if you are a child who is writing poetry, come share your work with a receptive audience. 978-345-0040, therabbitholeusa.com Open House at Temple Emanuel of the Merrimack Valley, 101 West Forest St., Lowell. 11 a.m. - 1 p.m.

Tour this warm, welcoming, progressive and independently thinking Jewish community, offering a reasonably priced, one-day-per-week religious school. 978-454-1372, temv.org.

Rebecca’s Movie Star Craft. American Girl. Natick Collection. 1 – 3 p.m. Rebecca dreams of being a movie star. Your girl can bring Rebecca’s love of acting to life by decorating a dazzling star-shaped nameplate to hang on the door of her own “dressing room” at home. For girls 8 and up. americangirl.com Kindermusik. Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, 145 Redstone Hill, Sterling. See May 16th listing for details.

24MONDAY Museum Challenges. Providence Children’s Museum.

9 a.m. – 6 p.m. Kids explore Museum exhibits from top to bottom for evidence to solve some perplexing problems.

Ages 4 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org FREE Breastfeeding Support Group. Mothers & Company, West Boylston. 1 – 2 p.m. See May 10th listing for details.

25TUESDAY Take Aparts Potluck. The Discovery Museums, 177 Main St., Acton. Drop-in 1:30 – 4:30 p.m. What makes things work? Gears, levers, magnets, resistors, and circuit boards are some of the components you’ll find inside household electronics. Free with admission. At Science Discovery. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org FREE Community Breakfast Workshop for Dads.

The Allston-Brighton Early Childhood System of Care (ECSOC), Jackson Mann Community Ctr., 500 Cambridge St., Allston. 8 – 9 a.m. John Badalament, a father and educator who directed the film “All Men are Sons,” will lead the breakfast discussion. To register, please contact Vickie Shalian at 617-469-8554, thehome.org/ecsoc.

FREE New Moms Group. Mothers & Company, 140 Worcester St., Route 140, West Boylston. 11:30 a.m. - 1 p.m. All moms of all babies welcome. Meet other moms, talk about timely topics. Drop in from week to week to this ongoing group. Bring lunch. Can’t come on Tuesdays?

There’s a group on Fridays too! mothersandcompany.com.

26WEDNESDAY Five-Minute Doll ’Dos. American Girl. Natick Collection. 4:30 p.m. She’ll learn to do super-fast styles, including a braided headband, twisty bun, and game-time ponytail.

This class is taught by Doll Hair Salon stylists. Each girl will also receive a special goody bag with doll hair accessories and styling instructions. For girls 8 and up. $24 PP. Reservations required. 877-247-5223, americangirl.com All Wound Up. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 3 – 5 p.m. Kids power a racecar with a rubber band and send it zipping across the floor in the FETCH!™ Lab, a hands-on science station. Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Kids Create! A Pre-School Art Program. Norman Rockwell Museum, Stockbridge. 10:30 - 11:30 a.m. a dynamic, interactive hands-on gallery experience for young art lovers and their caregivers. Kids $2, Grownups free.

413-298-4140, nrm.org.

FREE Working Moms Group. Mothers and Company, West Boylston. 6 – 7:15 p.m. This free group is a casual group of working moms who meet (bring baby or not, your choice) who meet in the shop’s “living room” to chat about balancing work and motherhood as well as any other topics that come up about mothering and working. mothersandcompany.com

27THURSDAY Build It! at The Discovery Museums. 177 Main St., Acton. Drop-in 10 a.m. – Noon. Bring your imagination continued on page 38

IS IT TECHNICALLY

CAMPING? BY

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Would your kids believe that when we were children we used to camp for a week with no contact with anyone except the people we were vacationing with? We

had to wait a week before telling our friends about the fish we caught, and then another two weeks before we could develop our photos to show them our

catch. The only access to the outside world was a pay phone at the camp store (when it worked). Gosh, we sound old!

As the teen years approached, the pain of separating from friends for a family vacation filled us with anxiety. We had to wait a whole week to find out what everyone was wearing and watching on TV, and what our best friend’s new perm looked like. And without our iPhones, who did we used to talk to on long road trips in the car? Our parents?

We used to go off on our own – hiking in the woods and exploring – as our parents hung around the campfire with friends.

And if we got hurt, there was no “easy” way to call 911. It sounds dangerous that we used to do that, doesn’t it?

While the safety advantages of bringing today’s technology along on a family camping trip cannot be denied, we can’t help but wonder how technology impacts the experience.

So, is it technically camping if our kids...

• tweet about the tweets they see birdwatching?

• are worried about getting bars on their cell phone rather than logs of wood for the fire?

• use their Flips as field journals to post their findings on You Tube?

• have movie night on a laptop screen?

• search for Wi-Fi instead of frogs and turtles?

• use Google to find out what kind of animal tracks are imprinted near their tent?

• slumber on queen-sized air mattresses with real sheets?

• can’t read their book in the canoe because they are afraid of getting their Kindle wet?

• don’t know how to meet new friends without texting?

• can’t find their way without a GPS? When we pack technology in our camping gear, we feel safe but worry: will our children know how to tell and listen to a good ghost story? How to make shadow puppets on the tent wall and skip rocks?

As for that reluctant child who is not happy about leaving behind her friends to immerse herself in the wilderness, share some of your cut-off-from-theworld camping stories from “back in the day.” And to make sure she listens, leave her iPod at home.

Mother Nature said so.

You can all blog about it later.

• play Nintendo DS in the tent on a rainy day instead of cards?

INSPIRED TO TAKE YOUR FAMILY CAMPING? SANDY POND CAMPGROUND 834 Bourne Rd., Plymouth, MA. 02360

508-759-9336 www.sandypond.com Amenities: Family campground, 30 acre fresh water pond, planned activities, kayak rental, bikes welcome, 2 playgrounds, store, hiking, fishing, swimming. 3 miles from Cape Cod Canal and train bridge.

9 miles from downtown Plymouth and waterfront.

SUNSETVIEW FARM CAMPING AREA Fun family camping for over 40 years!

57 Town Farm Road, Monson, MA 01057 1-90 Exit 8 Rt. 32 South

413-267-9269 www.sunsetview.com Amenities: Planned activities during summer weekends, playground, pool, and pond.

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For any family planning a day trip to Cambridge, there’s almost an embarrassment of riches from which to choose. World-class museums, restaurants galore (including lots of sweets shops!), wonderful bookstores and even plenty of green space to run around, all make meandering around a delight. Especially entertaining on sunny days and on the weekends is the wide variety of street performers who range from jugglers to drummers to banjo players. You’ll find them all over the Square, but many like to set up shop on Mass Ave and Brattle Street.

Harvard Square is the ideal base for the day and your best bet, if you’re driving, is to use one of several all-day parking lots. It’s much cheaper than getting a ticket and you don’t have to worry about moving the car. Almost everything you might want to cover in a day can be done on foot.

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The Harvard Museum of Natural History holds endless fascination for children. It shares a building with the Botanical Museum, the Museum of Comparative Zoology and the Mineralogical and Geological Museum (admission covers all), but the Natural History Museum is what kids usually like best, specifically the Great Mammal Hall, filled to the brim with every animal you can think of, and some you probably have never even heard of. On the weekends, you may be able to catch a family program or story hour. Check with the museum for times.

The Longfellow National Historical Site may sound dry, but actually kids can have a lot of fun here. The site is run by the National Park Service, so this is one place where they can earn a Junior Ranger badge. Pick up a Junior Ranger booklet, clipboard and pencil at the desk (two versions are offered, one for 5 to 8-year-olds and one for 9 to12-yearolds), then take a tour of the house and grounds and complete the puzzles and activities in the booklet to earn a badge.

You’ll all learn that the site was the home of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, one of the world’s foremost 19th century poets and it was headquarters for General George Washington during the Siege of Boston, July 1775-April 1776.

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Outdoor Exploration For some running around time, the Cambridge Common is ideal and the Alexander W. Kemp Playground has excellent climbing structures, swings and an area for tiny tots. The Mount Auburn Cemetery, designated a National Historic Landmark, is a beautiful place to explore if you want to go farther afield. Pick up a map at the gate to learn about some of the history while you enjoy the ornamental plantings, monuments, fences, fountains and chapels. While the kids may not be as into the history as you are, they will enjoy the freedom to wander.

And if you want to get a jump on those college tours, wander through the Harvard University Campus. Founded in 1636, there is plenty of gorgeous architecture to look at and if you’re really ambitious, you can take a free student-led tour.

Shops

The Curious George & Friends children’s bookstore could probably keep the kids (from infants to teens) occupied all day. It’s a two-story gem of a store, filled with books, games and toys. Everywhere you turn, there is something else that will catch your eye.

Be prepared to not leave empty-handed.

Across the street, is the whimsical Black Ink shop, which has all sorts of trinkets and amusing items you never knew you needed, such as pencils that look like drumsticks and Kewpie Dolls.

The Harvard COOP, right around the corner, has a great kids section, but also floors of books that adults will want to browse. You can pick up a souvenir Harvard T-shirt, if you’re so inclined.

Dining

If it’s nice outside, Harvard Square can’t be beat for people-watching.

Combine it with outdoor dining or an ice cream cone and you’ve got a winning combo. There’s any number of spots to eat, but a couple are super familyfriendly. The Hi-Rise Bread Company has a lovely shaded patio where you can enjoy delicious sandwiches made with artisanal bread. The Border Café,

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with a Mexican and Cajun menu, offers plenty of choices, even for picky eaters, though be forewarned, it only has a few seats outside. Quesadillas, tacos and other finger foods are usually crowd-pleasers and the place is always loud and bustling, so kids can feel right at home.

Depending on your sweet tooth preferences, you can opt to get oldfashioned candy at Hidden Sweets, which is stocked with hundreds of kinds of candy and you can choose individual pieces. Or go for gourmet cupcakes at Sweet, which blow most cupcakes right out of the water or you may want some scrumptious ice cream at Lizzyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s. You canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t go wrong with any of them.

A nice way to end your day is a meal at Full Moon, one of the most kid-friendly restaurants on the planet. Beyond the utterly delicious food offered, with sophisticated items for adults, and a childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s menu that is superb, there is a playspace set aside for the kids that can be seen from the tables. So, while adults can linger over their meal, the kids can make new friends at the train table, play with a giant doll house or build with blocks.

Everyone wins.

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Mayfair in Harvard Square is on May 2 from noon-6 p.m. The annual festival features more than 200 Harvard Square merchants and vendors of crafts, jewelry, clothing and other items. Plus there is a huge variety of ethnic cuisine and free entertainment for children and adults. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a great spring kick-off celebration.

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was my day off, and I checked my work email. My boss had sent a note requesting a meeting the next day. Cops call it a hinky feeling when something isn’t right, and that’s exactly how I felt.

I called my boss and got her voice mail, so I left a message asking about the meeting.

Then it was time to wait for a call back.

As I nervously pondered this mystery meeting, I thought about my time with my company. I had started full-time almost five years before, but when my son had been born 18 months earlier, I began working a three-day-a-week compressed schedule of 10-hour days. This gave me two days at home and meant he was in daycare only two days a week, with my mother-in-law graciously babysitting the third day. I considered myself a part-time stay-at-home-mom (SAHM).

I loved the flexibility my arrangement allowed, letting me keep one foot in the working world while giving me more time with my son. After all, my mom had stayed home with my brother and me for nine years, and as she’d always said, you don’t get those early years back again.

You’ve got the rest of your life to work.

After awhile, my cell phone rang, the company’s number flashing across the screen. It was showtime.

My boss was clearly in a conference room.

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(OR HOW I MADE MY LAYOFF WORK FOR MY FAMILY) I could hear someone in the background, who quickly introduced herself as an HR representative. My suspicions were right on: I was about to be laid off.

My company was eliminating my position, among others, and they were telling me over the phone so I wouldn’t have to bring my son to daycare the next day, only to turn around and bring him home. My boss and the HR rep went over my severance package and what would happen next. My brain was spinning in shock. I numbly asked a few questions, took some notes, and hung up.

Then I burst into tears.

After I composed myself, I called my husband. My voice shaking, I told him I was sorry, because I felt I had let him down. He told me he loved me and that I hadn’t. I then made a few more calls.

With the tears still flowing, I began to think about my next steps. I was afraid.

So many people I knew had been laid off, but I thought I’d escape it somehow. Since my husband recently had started his own business, I was carrying the family’s health insurance. And while my company was subsidizing it for a few months as part of my severance, we then would be dealing with COBRA. Plus, you can’t collect unemployment forever.

But I realized something else was scaring me: The thought of being home with my son full-time. Hadn’t I always said I would lose my mind being “only” a SAHM? I also felt I’d let my son down by having to pull him out of the daycare he seemed to

enjoy. I felt guilty.

I went in the next day to collect my things and stopped in at daycare to discuss my options. I could continue to bring him the next few weeks to use up my account balance, so that assuaged a bit of my guilt.

And thus began my new life as a full-time SAHM.

A NEW LIFE The first few weeks were tough. I was working through my feelings of rejection and sadness while getting used to being home with an active toddler. His last day of daycare was particularly hard for me emotionally. But soon he and I settled into a routine, and I began to enjoy my son in a way I wasn’t able to while working three days a week.

Because I was between jobs, I looked for free or low-cost things to do while trying to get out of the house daily. The library, local museums, and parks were good sources of fun and adventure. We also played in the yard when the weather held out. I considered joining playgroups but found I benefited most from outlets that allowed me to work my brain, which was starting to get mushy. So I got more active in my church and joined a book group. And I still brought my son to his grandmother’s one day a week for some much-needed me time.

But I still wanted to get back into the workforce part-time. As soon as my little man went down for his nap, I’d hit

the job boards and work my network. I encountered a lot of disappointments due to the economy (and the flood of applicants who’d been laid off like me) as well as the fact I only wanted to work part-time and preferably telecommute.

So I started to work a few days a week for my husband, helping him with the nittygritty so he could focus on building his business.

TIPS ON MAKING THE TRANSITION So here I am, about nine months postlayoff. I’m still technically unemployed and doing the SAHM thing. Someday I’ll go back to work, but for now I am enjoying my son tremendously.

In this economic climate, I’m sure many moms are like me: Accidental SAHMs. What can my experience teach you?

Here are my top five tips on making the transition work: • Let Yourself Feel the Whole Range of Emotions: It’s traumatic getting laid off; it’s like being dumped. But you may feel relieved, too. Allow yourself to feel it all without self-judgment.

• Take Time to Enjoy Your Children: Yes, getting laid off stinks, but it’s also a gift -- one of time, especially with your children. Savor the chance to watch

them grow. Also, give yourself time to get into a routine, and try to stick to it. It’s good for you, and it’s good for your kids.

• Keep Your Brain Going: Find time to read. Keep up with the news. Join a group of adults, such as a book group or fraternal or religious organization - whatever makes you happy and keeps you stimulated. On a similar note, you have a leg up on SAHMs who never went back to work. Keep in touch with your business contacts for when you return to the workforce.

• Try to Get Out Daily: Tough to do sometimes, especially with New England’s harsh climate, but changing the scenery is essential for everyone’s sanity -- and your waistline (trust me, it’s too easy to gain weight being home all the time). We hit an indoor play area, go to the library, or take a walk around the mall on those bad-weather days.

• Realize Your Job Is Important -- and Different from Your Paid One: I am very task-oriented, and as a SAHM, a day can go by with nothing to show for it but a happy child. But that’s really what it’s all about, isn’t it?

Christine F. DellaMonaca is a freelance writer living in Leominster with her husband Mike and 2-year-old son Gregory. She can be reached at christine@dellamonaca.com.

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COULD YOU ASK FOR DONATIONS IN LIEU OF GIFTS AT YOUR CHILD’S NEXT CELEBRATION?

MAY’S CHILD Luis, who is of Puerto Rican descent, is described as “kind, sweet, witty (he likes to make people laugh) and very engaging.” He enjoys hands-on activities such as drawing, playing video games, playing tic-tac-toe and baseball. Recently, he made a very impressive pirate ship with Legos. Since Luis is high energy, he likes to be outside riding his bike and scooter, and catching salamanders. When he’s inside, he likes working on his laptop, watching cartoons on television, but his favorite show is “The Kids Next Door.” Since Luis likes to be busy, he is very good about doing his share of chores and maintaining a clean environment in his room. He also takes pride in being well groomed, likes to get his hair cut and have “lines” put in. His favorite food is pizza, and he enjoys all kinds of “sweets.”

Luis is capable of doing well in school.

Currently he is thriving in a specialized program that uses a daily point system, and he consistently brings home the maximum number of points. His therapist, who sees him on a regular basis, thinks Luis would do well in a family who has a medium to large dog, such as a golden retriever, as Luis would benefit from the tactile contact. Luis likes all types of animals and thinks that he would like to be a vet when he gets older.

Luis has been in the care and custody of the Department since he was a young boy, and is now legally free to be adopted. Luis would do best in a two-parent home that is nurturing, consistentand predictable, where he is the youngest child. He also needs to be in an active, but calm and quiet environment, as loud and sudden noises can be very intimidating for him.

If you think you can provide Luis with the type of support he needs in a family, or want more information about him, please call Barbara Ford at the Department of Children and Families at DCF 508-929-2143.

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LUIS, AGE 11

The Gauss children of Hopedale

FAMILY TRADITIONS THAT HELP OTHER CHILDREN BY

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ight-year-old Evan Gauss of Hopedale seems unfazed by the attention he’s receiving. He picks at the paper of a crayon while his mother recounts how Evan’s foray into fundraising began.

Like most children, Evan celebrated his 4th birthday with a party and lots of friends.

Naturally, each friend brought something for the birthday boy. The scene during the after-party cleanup was one most parents can relate to. “He received a lot of presents,” said mom, Sheree Gauss. While sorting through the games, the Legos, and the craft kits, Sheree began working on a plan for Birthday Number 5.

Weeks before Evan’s next birthday, Sheree sat her son down. “Do you think this year we might collect money to help kids who need presents?” she asked. After consideration, and talk about what they could do with the money, Evan agreed. A tradition was born.

In the four years since Evan began

accepting donations in lieu of gifts for his birthday, he has collected almost $900.

Where has the money gone?

“We found The Home (for Little Wanderers) on-line,” Sheree explained.

“I liked what I read about them and they had a link on their Web site that explained how to request the donations.”

The services provided under the auspices of The Home’s agencies have served Massachusetts since 1799. Employing more than 600 people in 16 programs throughout eastern Massachusetts, The Home provides training for foster parents, support groups, crisis intervention, academic support, residential housing, and adoption services.

The Home also works to provide children in its care with the tools they need to succeed. Sometimes those tools might be as simple as a notebook and a backpack, which is where Newton resident Joey DeFranc came in.

Preparing for a Bar Mitzvah is challenging

but has its rewards. At 13, Joey knew he wanted his Mitzvah Project to be something hands-on. He wanted to feel he was making a difference. His mother, Rebecca, remembered how difficult it was to find an organization that would take him on. “Most won’t take volunteers that age.”

Then they found The Home. “I went directly to the FUNdraising link on their Web site,” said Rebecca. “After talking to the staff, Joey and I realized this would be a good connection.”

And, it turns out, a learning experience.

Joey and Rebecca found a request list for school supplies. “Before every school year, we take the kids shopping to pick out backpacks in their favorite colors,” said Rebecca. “It was an eye-opener when Joey learned there were kids who never got to pick out a backpack, much less their favorite color.”

Joey makes cookies, so the family sent a cookie request form via e-mail to

Donna Morin Miller is a Wrentham-based freelance writer who was also adopted through The Home for Little Wanderers, though a little later than 1799. *Names have been changed to protect privacy.

Find more help with fundraising or information about adoption at The Home for Little Wanderers at thehome.org.

Circle of Friends HIGHLIGHTS OF MAY’S ADOPTION-RELATED EVENTS

781-644-2353 or e-mailing jellison@whfc.org. whfc.org.

Korean Adoption Circle Playgroup

Thursdays, May 6 & 20: For families who have adopted from Korea. Korean Presbyterian Church, 2 Main St., Hopkinton.

10 a.m. - Noon. $1 donation per child appreciated. Meets on the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of each month. Seasonal family outings, ladies nights out, and book Club.

Contact Jill at jillfelicio@yahoo.com.

Free Adoption Information Meetings

Thursday, May 6: Wide Horizons For Children, 38 Edge Hill Rd., Waltham.

6:30 – 8:30 p.m.

Explore the exciting and rewarding opportunity of building a family through adoption. Learn about WHFC’s programs and meet families and staff.

Advance registration is required:

MARE’s Walk for Adoption A Walk Home.

Sunday, May 16: Presented by the Massachusetts Adoption Resource Exchange (MARE). Begins at Jordan’s Furniture, 450 Revolutionary Dr., E. Taunton, 9 a.m. – Noon.

Join WBZ TV reporter Eileen Curran and her adopted daughter to celebrate adoption at this family-friendly, non-competitive walk. Funds raised support the work of the Massachusetts Adoption Resource Exchange (MARE) which finds adoptive families for children in state foster care. This 1-hour indoor/outdoor walk (weather permitting) is followed by a party featuring entertainment, activities, refreshments and souvenirs for all. Prizes for top fundraisers. A $13, children under 12, free. 617-542-3678, firstgiving.com/MARE

Free Southeastern Massachusetts Adoption Party

Sunday, May 23: Presented by MARE and the Mass. Department of Children and Families (DCF). Hockomock YMCA, 300 Elmwood St., North Attleboro. 1 p.m. (families arrive), 1:30 p.m. (social workers and waiting children arrive).

Party ends at 3:30 p.m. Refreshments and entertainment are included. The adoption party gives prospective parents the chance to interact with adoptable children in low-key, informal activities, such as organized outdoor group games and arts & crafts. Attendees should dress for outdoor play. RSVP: MARE 617-542-3678 or at web@mareinc.org.

Please submit June’s adoption-related events by Wednesday, May 5 at baystateparent.com, “Submit an Event.”

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family and friends. “We expected a good response,” recalled Rebecca, “but we never expected the response we received.”

Within two days they had to close down the form. They’d received orders for 67 dozen cookies.

Four months of baking and $700 later, Joey made the trip to Staples. Having already ordered 72 colorful backpacks through a wholesaler, Rebecca helped her son calculate the cost of supplies needed to fill the bags. They delivered them to The Home as a family. “He was beaming that day,” said Rebecca, “and I think he’ll forever know the Toll House recipe by heart.”

The money raised for The Home has influenced many success stories. *Liz Robbins knows this first-hand. She found her daughter through The Home. *Mikalya Robbins was removed from her birth home because of abuse and neglect. Her family had moved around so much that by the third grade she’d already attended four schools and was showing signs of learning deficiencies. “One of the first things we did together was visit a library,” recalled Liz. “Mikayla asked what a library was.”

Being an older woman with a high-profile career at a local college, Liz knew she wanted to adopt an older child. “I needed a child who was outgoing because I knew I’d be bringing her to school all the time.”

Liz knew that adopting an older child would mean dealing with psychological and behavioral issues, but she was ready.

“My social worker at The Home took such care in preparing me, right down to the last detail,” said Liz. “I’m often late and she let me know that could create some trust issues. I made sure Mikayla had a cell phone so we could always stay in touch.”

Although Mikayla never suffered from attachment issues, she began her life with Liz as a quiet, dependent girl who lacked confidence and often referred to herself as stupid. One year later, Mikayla has grown into a confident daughter who plays lacrosse, sings in musical theatre, and sometimes boasts that she’s smart. Her school grades reflect this improvement.

“I owe a lot to my social worker at The Home,” said Liz. “She found the perfect match for me.”

It’s these stories that keep kids like Evan Gauss inspired to make a difference. Evan may be too young to understand the impact he’s having on the lives of other kids, and it may be the train ride into the city on his special delivery day to The Home that excites him more, but every action is a link that connects us to a greater community.

Elena Gauss, Evan’s 5-year-old sister, who has now begun her own birthday collection, may have summed it up best. “I think it helps the world.”

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OH,THEPLACESYOU’LLGO continued from page 30 to build, stack, and sort using an enormous collection of DUPLOS. At Children’s Discovery. Free with admission. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org Shape Shifters . Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 3 – 5 p.m. Kids shift and stretch their bodies to form new shapes with yoga poses. Ages 3 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

28FRIDAY FETCH! - Motion Picture at The Discovery Museums.

177 Main St., Acton. Drop-in 10 a.m. – Noon. Create a thaumatrope (wonder turner) – an optical illusion toy that makes two pictures look like one. A preschool-level adaptation of this popular Fetch! activity. At Children’s Discovery. Free with admission. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org Lakeside Family Festival. 157 Middleboro Rd., Rt. 18, East Freetown. On the grounds of the Cathedral Camp. Amusement rides, silent auction/raffles, great entertainment, and food. sjnfreetown.org. Also May 29 -31.

Friday Evening Hayrides. Drumlin Farm, 208 South Great Rd., Lincoln. All ages. 4 – 5:30 or 6 – 7:30 p.m. Watch for birds flying at dusk and evening fireflies as you ride the hay wagon through the meadows. Stop by the campfire for stories, s’mores and a special nighttime visitor. Watch for the glorious colors of the sky as the sun begins to set. Preregistration required. $19 PP. 781-259-2206, massaudubon.org/drumlin FREE Fashion Fun Paper Doll Craft. American Girl.

Natick Collection. 4 – 6 p.m. Learn how to make your own paper doll clothing! You’ll use stencils of clothing designs, patterned paper, and decorations to create original outfits for your own paper doll. Inspired by American Girl’s Paper Doll Fashion Fun craft book. For girls 8 and up. americangirl.com Preschool Friday. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St.10 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. Preschoolers hear the story “Who’s Around the Pond?” and make their own animal tracks.

Ages 3 – 5. *30-minute sessions. $8 fee above Museum admission. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org

29SATURDAY Celebrate Red, White, & Blue at The Discovery Museums.

177 Main St., Acton. 10 a.m. Show your patriotic spirit by using the colors red, white, and blue as your design your own bracelet or American flag to wave. Also join Lego lovers to build community projects. Free with admission. At Children’s Discovery. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org FREE Story and Craft. The Harvard Coop, 14oo Massachusetts Ave., Cambridge. 11 a.m. thecoop.com FREE Small Ships. USS Constitution Museum, Charlestown Navy Yard, Charlestown. 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. Miniature ship model exhibit and hobby fair. Event features small scale ship models from around the world. Ship modelers, producers and collectors will be available to discuss miniature ship building and collecting with the public. smscboston.com Asparagus Festival. Verrill Farm, Concord. 11 a.m. Steve Verrill leads a trip to the asparagus field; 12 noon - Buffet lunch under the tent featuring dishes made with asparagus.

Chef Kevin Carey gives tips on preparing & cooking asparagus and everyone leaves with a bunch of Verrill Farm asparagus. $25 pp. Reservations & prepayment required by May 28. 978369-4494, verrillfarm.or.g Lakeside Family Festival. East Freetown. Toe Jam Puppet Band performs, 1 p.m. See May 28th listing for details.

Happy Birthday, Rhode Island! Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. Make festive pennants, sample coffee milk and meet Rhode Island Red chickens and chicks at the state’s 220th birthday bash. Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, 38 MARCH2010

Oh, Moms Just Want to Have Fun! That’s all they really want Some fun When the working day is done Moms - they want to have fun Oh moms just want to have fun...

Have fun this Mother’s Day ladies with your mom, your girlfriends, and/or the kiddos.

Here are some events to get you thinking of how you can spend the day.

Thursday, May 6 FREE Mom’s Nite Out at Atrium Mall. 300 Boylston St.,Chestnut Hill. 4 – 8 p.m. Cocktails, “mocktails,” and more – oh my! The evening will include retailer fashion shows, beauty & spa tips from Grettacole Day Spa, health and wellness, fitness, nutrition, home design, financial advice, and more. Wendy DeFeudis of “Very Wendy Designs” will be doing live fashion sketches of you and your friends! Swag bags and raffle prizes will also be given away. Don’t miss your excuse for a “Moms Nite Out” with the girls, just in time for Mother’s Day! 617-527-1475, simon.com

Saturday, May 8 Celebrate Mothers at The Discovery Museums.

177 Main St., Acton. Drop-in 10 a.m. – Noon. Also May 9. Come celebrate Mother’s Day and the month of May by making a special May Day basket and card for mom. At Children’s Discovery. Free with admission. $10.50 to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org.

FREE A Tribute to Mothers. Rose Fitzgerald Greenways Conservancy at the Wharf District Parks, Boston.

11 a.m. - 3 p .m. Features a performance by the Boston Ballet Orchestra with conductor Jonathan McPhee as well as pampering for mothers and activities for children. rosekennedygreenway.org.

FREE Garden Admission for Moms. Tower Hill Botanic Gardens, Boylston. 508-869-6111, towerhillbg. org. Also May 9.

FREE Mother’s Day Stories and Craft. The Harvard Coop, 1400 Massachusetts Ave., Cambridge. 11 a.m. thecoop.com Mother’s Day Craft Gathering. Hands On 4 Kidz, 44 Main St., Gardner. 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. Moms, aunts, grammies and other significant adults, bring your girls for a fun time! Create a wall hanging, paint a picture frame or design a tote bag, together! This is a walk - in event! Projects for this event are $8 to complete. 978632-2815, handson4kidz.com/happenings FREE Motherless Daughter Day Breakfast. First Congregational Church, 19 Church Rd., Shrewsbury.

10 a.m. A program for women who have lost their mothers to honor and remember their mothers. Feel free to bring a photo or other remembrance to share. A light breakfast will be served. 508-845-6070.

Free Admission for Moms. Worcester Art Museum 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. WAM’s gift to all moms is free admission on Mother’s Day weekend. Come with or without the kids. Either way, Moms admission is free (and so are the kids, 17 & under!). On Saturday, May 8, the Museum Café is open 11:30 a.m. - 2 p.m.

Check online for special tours, art workshops and more. worcesterart.org. Also May 9th.

Sunday, May 9 Boating with Mom. Opening Day on Spectacle and Georges Islands, Boston. Jump on a boat from Boston, Hingham or Quincy and head out to the islands. Join a park ranger on a guided tour and explore the park on your own. Don’t forget your park passport. bostonharborislands.com FREE Lilac Sunday. Arborotum of Harvard University, Boston. 10 a.m. - 4 p .m. Of the thousands of flowering plants in the Arboretum, only one, the lilac, is singled out each year for a daylong celebration. Tours of the lilacs, dance performances, picnicking (allowed on this special day only), and family activities make for a memorable day. Meet author Meg Muckenhoupt, who will sign copies of her new book, Boston’s Gardens & Green Spaces, and talk about the verdant world found therein (2 – 4 p.m.).

Be a part of this beloved Boston tradition! Rain or shine.

617-524-1718, arboretum.harvard.edu Duckling Day Parade. Boston Common, Noon.

Preregistration begins at 10 a.m. on at the base of the Shaw Memorial, just below the State House. Based on the book Make Way for Ducklings by Robert McCloskey, children and their families will retrace the steps of Mr. and Mrs. Mallard and their family of eight ducklings. Led by the Harvard University Marching Band, children relive the adventures of Mr. and Mrs. Mallard dressed as one of their favorite characters from the book. $25 donation per family.This donation includes snacks, entertainment, and a toy for each child. Ride a swan boat: swanboats. com. friendsofthepublicgarden.org.

Memories with Mom. American Girl. Natick Collection. 4:30 p.m. You’ll enjoy a delicious meal, plus a commemorative photo and keepsakes to take home as a reminder of the memories made during your special day.This event features dining in the Celebration Room, posing for a commemorative photo, and creating a memory booklet.For girls 8 and up. $30 PP (gratuity not included). Reservations required. 877-247-5223, americangirl.com Show Mom a Wild Time! Roger Williams Park Zoo, Providence, RI. 10 – 11:30 a .m. and 1 – 2:30 p.m.

Brunch in the Picnic Pavilion, spa experience, reduced rate for moms, zoo admission for the entire day. Moms: $19.95, Dads, $29.95, C (3 – 12) $19.95, Toddler (0 – 2) $5.95. Pre-register: 401-785-3510 x 343 or 401-941-4998.

Happy Mother’s Day! Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. Free admission all day for moms and grandmoms! Children ages 3 - 11 craft beautiful cards from Noon - 2 p.m. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org FREE for Moms. Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, 145 Redstone Hill, Sterling. Free chair massage for moms and gift-making. Events from 11 a.m. - 3 p.m.

For admission costs, visit davisfarmland.com.

Mother’s Day at Old Sturbridge Village. Sturbridge. 9:30 a.m. - 5 p.m. Moms get in free on Mother’s Day, and Old Sturbridge Village offers a 19th-century perspective on motherhood and child rearing. Heirloom bulbs are in bloom in Village gardens and visitors can meet the baby animals at the farm. Mother’s Day brunch is served at the museum’s Oliver Wight Tavern.

A$20, C $7, under 3 – free. 1-800-SEE-1830, osv.org.

16th Annual Mother’s Day Six Hour Walk/Run. Bradley Palmer State Park, Topsfield 9 a.m. Fundraiser for breast cancer. $20 entry fee. Event is run on a three-mile loop of trails. 978-887-5921.

Tiara Classic 5K Mother’s Day Road Race and Kids Fun Run. Oxford Creamery, 98 County Road, Mattapoisett. 9 a.m. A race day for the whole family in support of the Women’s Fund of southeastern MA where registrants may walk in memory of or honor of a special woman in their lives. Kids’ run $5, A $30. 508717-0283. cfsema.org/womensfund.

Mother’s Day Tea & Tour. Rose Garden and tea at the Carillon Tower at Stanley Park, Westfield. 2 – 4 p.m.

Bring mom to the park, enjoy tea and crumpets, listen to the bells, tour the park and come inside the Carillon Tower which will be opened after decades of locked doors.

The spectacular bronze doors of the tower have been restored and each panel tells a story. stanleypark.org.

Moms FREE at Southwick’s Zoo, Mendon. 800258-9182, southwickszoo.com.

Free Admission for Moms. Worcester Art Museum, Worcester. See May 8th listing for details.

FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Teddy Bear Tea. Chandler’s Tavern at Yankee Candle, South Deerfield. See May 1st listing for details. Also May 29, June 12 & 26.

Norman Rockwell’s American Dream: An Evening with David Kamp. Norman Rockwell Museum, Stockbridge. 5:30 p.m. Enjoy a discussion with author David Kamp, contributing editor to “Vanity Fair,” whose commentary on “Norman Rockwell: Behind the Camera” appeared in the magazine’s November 2009 issue. $10, $7 Museum members, or free with Museum admission.

413-298-4140, nrm.org.

Wool Days at Old Sturbridge Village. 1 Old Sturbridge Village Rd., Sturbridge. 9:30 a.m. - 5 p.m.

Trhough May 31. The OSV sheep get their annual haircut Memorial Day weekend. Visitors can watch the sheep shearing, and see how wool was processed in the 19th century, including scouring, carding, dyeing, spinning, and weaving. Try your hand and test your history IQ at our textile exhibit. Memorial Day is also the official kick-off to summer activities (period games, 1830s base ball, French & English tug-of-war contests) and the weekend to roll out the Old Sturbridge Village stagecoach and re-launch a boat ride on the Quinebaug River. A $20, C $7, under 3, free.

1-800-SEE-1830, osv.org Box Turtle Tracking. Wellfleet Bay Wildlife Sanctuary, 291 State Highway Route 6, South Wellfleet. 1:30-3 p.m. Use radio telemetry to find tagged box turtles, or just use your eyes to search for marked box turtles in Guest Cottage Field and surrounding forest habitat. Upon finding one, measure, weigh, and record its information. This will be added to 20+ years of box turtle data that has been collected by children, parents, school groups, and scientists.

A $5, C (2-12) $2.50. 508-349-2615, massaudubon. org/wellfleet.

Construction Expo Weekend Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, 145 Redstone Hill, Sterling. Kids can climb on a bulldozer, move some sand and beep the horn or even operate a backhoe with Digger Doug. Event runs

Saturday, Sunday, and Monday from 10 a.m. - Noon and 1 - 3 p.m.. For admission costs, visit davisfarmland.com.

Scenic Passenger Train Rides Opening Day! Route 149, West Barnstable. Tickets on sale now for train rides every Saturday through October 16th. Visit the historic museum for free, 9 a.m. - 2 p.m. capecodnrhs.org.

FREE Small Ships Boston Exhibit. Society of Miniature Ship Collectors 104 Church St., Winchester. 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. A special exhibit will focus on the history of miniature ship models and illustrate the process of their production.

A workshop will also offer children (ages 6 and older) the opportunity to build a model of the USS Constitution from kits available on site at a nominal cost. 781-729-9394. smscboston.com.

30SUNDAY Meet Bessie at The Discovery Museums. 177 Main St., Acton. 10 a.m. Come meet Bessie, the dinosaur mascot of The Discovery Museums. She’s loves to give high-fives and hugs! *Bessie is a costumed museum staff member. At Children’s Discovery. Free with admission. $10.50 admission to both museums. 978-264-4200, discoverymuseums.org Lakeside Family Festival. East Freetown. Car show, 11 a.m. See May 28th listing for details.

FREE Kaya’s Parfleche Craft. American Girl. Natick Collection. 11 – 1 p.m. Learn how to make and decorate a parfleche, a small envelope like the one Kaya might have made for her doll in 1764. Then take yours home to store your own doll’s accessories! For girls 8 and up. americangirl.com Newburyport Spring Fest. Market Square, Newburyport. 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. Celebrate the season in downtown Newburyport! Thousands attend to enjoy great live music, art, fine crafts, food from Newburyport’s best restaurants and Kid’s Korner featuring entertainment for children and families and the ever popular Teddy Bear Parade. FREE.

978-462-6680, newburyportchamber.org. Also May 31.

Domino Madness. Providence Children’s Museum, 100 South St. Noon – 2 p.m. Families use 1,000 dominos to make amazing chains that spiral, zigzag and snake. Ages 5 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Hiking the Dunes. Wellfleet Bay Wildlife Sanctuary, 291 State Highway Route 6, South Wellfleet. 2 – 3:30 p.m. Hike Bearberry Hill in Truro with a naturalist to give your family a new look at the sand dunes of the Outer Cape. Directions provided upon registration. A $5, C $3.

508-349-2615, massaudubon.org/wellfleet Horseshoe Crabs Close-Up! Wellfleet Bay Wildlife Sanctuary, 291 State Highway Route 6, South Wellfleet.

9:30 – Noon. See & hold live horseshoe crabs and their molts in the nature center, put together a model horseshoe crab, walk to the beach with a naturalist to view them in their natural habitat, and make a horseshoe crab craft to take home. Registration required. A $5, C (2 – 12) $2.50.

508-249-2615, massaudubon.org/wellfleet

of great games, crafts, and advice just for girls! Now girls have an opportunity to create their own craft inspired by the magazine. In this workshop, girls can create a mini notebook where they can record all their favorite summer memories. For girls ages 8 and up.

Chalk the Walk. Providence Childrren’s Museum, 100 South St. 9 a.m. – 6 p.m.

Children make their mark with sidewalk chalk at the Museum’s entrance. Ages 4 – 11. $7.50 PP, under 1, FREE. 401-273-KIDS, childrensmuseum.org Construction Expo Weekend. Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, Sterling. See May 29th listing for details.

Seashore Ramble. Wellfleet Bay Wildlife Sanctuary, 291 State Highway Route 6, South Wellfleet. 9:30 a.m.

– Noon. Explore the area where land meets the sea, searching for animals and plants of the tidal flats or salt marsh (depending on the tide). Using nets, small fish traps, and buckets, you will discover the world of crabs, shrimp, and clams. Registration required. A $5, C (2 – 12) $3.

508-349-2615, massaudubon.org/wellfleet

Construction Expo Weekend. Davis’ Farmland and Davis’ Megamaze, Sterling. See May 29th listing for details.

31MONDAY Happy Memorial Day! FREE Memorial Day Open House at MFA. 465 Huntington Ave., Boston. 10 a.m. - 4:45 p.m. Free day featuring music, performances, artmaking activities, and guided tours. 617-267-9300, mfa.org Lakeside Family Festival. East Freetown. See May 28th listing for details.

FREE Summer Notebook Craft. American Girl. Natick Collection. 11 – 1 p.m. American Girl® magazine is full

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Explaining Miscarriage to Kids

Nutcracker 2010

SIX WAYS TO START THE CONVERSATION WITH YOUNG KIDS, TWEENS AND TEENS

Non-competitive open auditions for dancers ages 6 & up.

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Audition dates and times: June 9 Wednesday

June 10 Thursday

5:00-5:45pm 5:45-6:30pm 6:30-7:15pm 7:15-8:00pm

Ballet (6-8 year olds) Irish Step (ages 6 and up) Ballet (9-11 year olds) Jazz and Tap (ages 6-11, ages 12 and up)

5:00-6:30pm Ballet (ages 12 and up) 6:30-7:15pm Hip Hop (ages 6-11, ages 12 and up)

Registration is required prior to audition. For more information contact DANCE IT UP! at 508-839-1648 or www.danceitup.com

miscarriage can be devastating to expectant parents, but they are not the only ones who experience grief, sadness and loss. Children in the household who have been anticipating the arrival of a new sibling are also affected and addressing their need for information and reassurance is key to a family’s healing process.

“The most important thing for a parent to remember is that the children are feeling the same things they are - they are just experiencing it in a different way,” says Lisa Church, author of Hope is Like the Sun: Finding Hope and Healing After Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Infant Death. The mother of two wrote the book when she experienced a miscarriage and found few resources to help her deal with her loss and emotions.

Children, Church explains, also experience a range of emotions when a miscarriage occurs in the family. Each child will respond in a different way depending on age, maturity level and personality, and reassuring a child that parents are open for discussion is critical.

“It’s really important to be honest and to answer questions as often as a child asks - let them know it’s okay to talk about it,” explains Church. “Young children may ask the same question over and over again, but they are processing

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While the situation can feel overwhelming and complicated, these simple conversation starters can help start the discussion and get families on the road to recovery.

“We have sad news to share.”

If you’ve shared the news of your pregnancy with kids, it’s important to let them know about the miscarriage.

Be honest about the situation and avoid confusing children by making excuses or stories about the pregnancy that are not true. “Avoiding the subject can make the healing process much, much longer for children and parents,” says Church.

“Our baby stopped growing.”

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“You are safe.”

Look for support.

Sharon Cindrich is the mother of two, speaker, author and columnist. Her newest book, A Smart Girl’s Guide to Style (American Girl Publishing) debuted this spring.

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Miscarriages are an unexpected event and children may worry that their own safety could me unexpectedly compromised. Remind children that they are strong, healthy and safe. Help kids understand that miscarriages - as

Finding a support group for yourself will often connect you with others who are dealing with similar family issues and can be a great place to swap ideas on

explains Church. Help young children relate the situation to something they can understand - a seed in a garden that didn’t grow is a popular metaphor used by families. Tweens and teens may spend more time thinking about the logistics of the miscarriage. “An older child will understand at a much level what it means,” says Church, who recommends following a child’s lead and answering questions as they come up.

“It’s okay to feel sad.”

Kids may not show immediate emotion, but that does not mean they aren’t feeling sad, confused or anxious. Expect a wide range of emotions - from anger to aloofness to grief - as children process the situation and the emotions of other family members. Questions and emotions long after the miscarriage are not uncommon either. “Kids will bring things up again as they age and understand it at a different level,” explains Church.

“Mom is going to be okay.”

Miscarriage can take a physical and emotional toll on a parent and a child’s natural instincts will immediately signal that something is wrong. Reassure your child that mom is fine even if she is occasionally sad, teary or tired. “It is fine for them to see you are grieving because it validates their own feelings,” says Church.

“It’s not your fault.”

Miscarriage can be a confusing time and children may even blame themselves.

“Especially if they were worried about sharing attention, kids can feel a lot of guilt,” explains Church. Tweens and teens especially may think they’ve caused stress that in some way affected the BAYSTATEPARENT 41

Family

Theatre &

Musical Performances

Western Mass Goes Broadway A talented12-year-old singer, Madeline, performs broadway showtunes from her new CD, Broadway My Way, with a live band, an inspirational chorus, and special guest artists at Holyoke Community College, Sat., May 8th, 7:30 p.m. Email: rfmartin@charter.net for tickets ($12 each).

A great Mother’s Day outing for musical buffs!

Berkshire Theater Festival Presents Hansel & Gretel. The Eric Carle Museum Picture Book Art, Amherst.

Sat. and Sun., May 8 and 9, 1 and 3 p.m. Berkshire Theatre Festival’s BTF PLAYS! This re-imagining of the classic story is written as we join Hansel and Gretel at home as they reenact their favorite fairy tale with the help of their parents.

When their peaceful home is disrupted, it is the power of the stories that helps them escape the evil witch and find their way home. $6.50 PP. does not include admission. Tickets may be purchased in advance at the Museum Admissions Desk or by calling 413-658-1126. $7.50 PP. A $9, C (1-18) $6, under 1, free. 413-658-1100, carlemuseum.org Kids’ Music Series featuring Uncle Rock and South Hadley Children’s Chorus. The Eric Carle Museum Picture Book Art, Amherst. Sat., May 15. 1 p.m. With Beatles-esque hooks, Grimm’s Fairy Tales depth, and Woody Guthrie folksiness, Uncle Rock creates inspiring music that bridges the gap between adult and children’s music seamlessly. $6 cash only at the door and does not include admission. Also on Sun., May 16, at 3 p.m. the South Hadley Children’s Chorus will be present a family-friendly concert. $9, C (1-18) $6, under 1, free. 413-658-1100, carlemuseum.org An Afternoon With...They Might Be Giants. The Regent Theatre, Medford St., Arlington. Sun., May 23, Noon and 3 p.m. Alternative rock legends, They Might Be Giants, have received rave reviews from the likes of Time Magazine, Rolling Stone, The Village Voice, Pitchfork, NPR and beyond. Their most recent accolades are for the work they have created for children. Both shows are to benefit Boston By Foot, the non-profit group giving guided walking tours of Boston for over 33 years. All concert goers can also use their ticket stub to get a free tour from Boston by Foot, including Boston by Little Feet tours for kids, during the 42 MAY2010

upcoming season. General admission: $25pp. bostonbyfoot. org. regenttheatre.com.

FREE New England Youth Chamber Ensemble.

1870 Town Hall, 12 Woodward Ave., Berlin. Sun., May 23. 6 p.m. Pops concert featuring a program of light classical pieces, table seating, and refreshments. Donations welcomed to send this talented group of kids on their June tour to Quebec. 978-273-8238, townofberlin.com FOR PARENTS “I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change.”The Berlin Theatre Company, 1870 Town Hall, 12 Woodward Ave., Berlin. May 7, 8, 14 and 15, 8 p.m.

A hilarious musical comedy that celebrates the modern-day suburban mating game. $13 or $15 PP. 978-273-8238, Townofberlin.com or email gsp@charter.net.

Storytime Live on Stage! Wang Theatre, Boston.

Sat. and Sun, May 22 and 23, 2 and 5 p.m. Nickelodeon presents their newest, biggest, most exciting live show ever.

Play along with your favorite preschool pals live on stage.

800-430-8903. wang-theater.com The Little Mermaid. Wheelock Family Theatre, Boston.

Runs through May 16. Friday nights at 7, Saturday & Sunday matinees at 3. This tale follows a young mermaid through her quest to find love while developing a better understanding of herself, the unknown world she longs to be apart of, and the true significance of what it means to love and be loved in return. $15- $20. wheelock.com.

Harry the Dirty Dog Live on Stage! The Orpheum Theatre, 1 School St., Foxboro. Wed., May 19, 11:30 a.m. Harry has everything a little white dog with black spots could want. There is just one problem: he hates taking baths! This ArtsPower musical, based on the classic book

Flaming Lawnchairs!

The Airborne Comedians perform extreme juggling and unicycling and other feats of amazement in Arlington on May 1st. regenttheatre.com.

by Gene Zion, captures the humor and dedication to family found in Harry’s story. Tickets: $8/advance; $10 at the door. 508-241-4228, artspower.org.

will be made to Baystate Medical Center Children’s Miracle Network. Tickets: 413-237-9588 or email rfmartin@ charter.net.

Rick Goldin “It’s Spring” Concert. Amazing Things Art Center, Framingham. Sat., May 15, 2 p.m. Enjoy music and puppets. $8 pp. amazingthings.org.

Family Pajama Jam. Indian Hill Music School, 36 King St., Littleton. Fri., May 14, 6:30 – 7:30 p.m. Put on your PJs and have fun with us at the next musical story hour!

Young families are invited to sing, dance, play instruments, and hear stories. Free Admission. 978-486-9524, indianhillmusic.org

Children’s Hour with Musician Ed Morgan. The Performing Arts Center of MetroWest, 140 Pearl St., Framingham. Fridays throughout June, 10 a.m. For infants, toddlers, preschoolers and their families. Sing, clap, and dance along to well-loved children’s songs. A $5, C $1.

508-875-5554, pacmetrowest.org.

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus. Hartford XL Center, Hartford, CT. May 5 – 9. Barnum’s Funundrum! Hop aboard and go on an unbelievable excursion that brings together performers and characters from exotic countries all over the world - even from places for which there are no geographic borders. xlcenter.com.

Spring Sing, a concert by Pro Musica Youth Chorus with interpretive dance. Arts Alliance, Hudson High School, 69 Brigham St., Hudson. Fri., May 7. 7 p.m. Area youth chorus presents multicultural folk music, animal songs, classical pieces in a spring program interpreted creatively by Studio Ballet of Hudson. A $10, C $7. 978562-1646, upwitharts.org 12-Year-Old, Madeline, Broadway My Way CD Release Concert. Leslie Phillips Theatre, Holyoke Community College, Holyoke. Sat., May 8, 7:30 p.m. Featuring a live band, an inspirational chorus, special guest artists, and a talented 12-year-old singer all under the direction of Dan Kane. $12 pp. A donation from performance proceeds

Michael Flatley’s Lord of the Dance. Lowell Memorial Auditorium, 50 E. Merrimack St., Lowell. Wed., May 12.

8 p.m. Local dancers perform in this Broadway show. Great for families of all ages. $56.50, $46.50, or $30.50 PP. 978-454-2299, lowellauditorium.com FREE Family Concert: Manguito, Musical Tour of the Caribbean. Rockport Music, Shalin Liu Performance Center, 37 Main Street, Rockport. Sat., June 19, 10 a.m.

Five internationally known Latin American musicians take the audience on an interactive musical tour of the Caribbean as they play the rhythms of Puerto Rico, Cuba and the Dominican Republic on a variety of instruments. Just drop in! 978-546-7391, rockportmusic.org Miss Nelson is Missing. Watertown Children’s Theatre, Black Box Theater, Arsenal Ctr. for the Arts, 321 Arsenal St., Watertown. May 21 – 23. May 21, 7 p.m., May 22, 7 p.m., May 23, 1 p.m. When Miss Nelson disappears, her sub is the detention-loving, recess-canceling, homework-overloading Viola Swamp! Students and teachers of all ages are sure to love this stage adaptation of the popular children’s book! $10 PP. 617-926-2787, watertownchildrenstheatre.org

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MOMS ROCK!

Lisa Genova of Chatham BY

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ne day while checking Google Alert, an email update of Web searches ranked by popularity, Lisa Genova found herself listed on page one... amongst nine other celebrities!

Joining a club of celebrities felt surreal for the 39-year-old mother but not enough to impress her 9-year-old daughter, Alena.

After a cursory look at the Google page, she concluded that mom was still “just mom” since she was not on the same page as her favorite celebrity, Miley Cyrus.

Genova, who holds a degree in biopsychology and a Ph.D. in neuroscience from Harvard University, is a former strategy consultant in the medical field.

In 2004, Genova switched course when a divorce forced her to question the path of her future. That fall, rather than return to work, she embarked upon a project of a completely different kind – writing a novel. She’d had the idea for a book years ago but had never written a word.

With her decision made, she stopped interviewing for jobs, dropped her daughter off at preschool each day, and headed to Starbucks to write– with no guarantees.

In 2007, Genova remarried and moved to the Cape. She spent a year sending out queries for her novel, Still Alice, before deciding to self publish, selling copies from the trunk of her car for ten months before being picked up by Simon and Schuster (the publisher has since contracted her for two more novels).

Still Alice immediately found a home as number five on the New York Times best seller list, winning a number of awards.

The novel, a work of fiction interspersed with Genova’s neuroscience expertise, offers a fresh new look at Alzheimer’s Disease through the eyes of a 50-year-old protagonist, Alice Howland.

Today the mother of two is working on another novel, which again incorporates her science background, but with a lesser-known neurological condition.

Left Neglected, which will be published in 44 MAY2010

January 2011, is based on the so-named brain condition in which everything pertaining to the left side is ignored. Her third novel is about two women and the spirit of an autistic boy.

Genova, who admits that it is more challenging to write now that she has deadlines, spends approximately four to five hours a day on her current novel and says that by the time the kids go to bed, her creative energy is depleted. While she has a beautiful home office that overlooks the beach, the author prefers to write at a local coffee shop because even with a babysitter, 2-year-old Ethan is looking for his mom’s attention if she is at home. She is shopping for a new caffeine-free beverage to replace her Chai Tea, however, since her third child is due to arrive in September.

While at work on a novel, Genova prefers to write the entire story and insists that she can’t edit it before allowing the whole thing to be put down. Luckily, she has seven cheerleaders who read her work along the way – with no critical voice. Two girlfriends, four aunts, and her husband talk about characters and offer playful brainstorming.

Ironically, Genova took only one English class in college. She gravitated toward math and biology, subjects that she enjoyed and excelled in, and then absolutely fell in love with her first course in neuroscience.

“The brain,” says Genova, “is the most fascinating organ in the body and the one we know the least about.”

Genova was also inspired by the novel The Man Who Mistook his Wife for a Hat

by Oliver Sacks in which Sacks recants clinical tales about patients afflicted with various neurological conditions.

When asked about what life is like as a writer, Genova says, “The best thing-creating stories that move people, that forever change how readers will think about and see others with Alzheimer’s or a traumatic brain injury, that increase awareness and have a positive impact in

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Occupation: Writer Mom of Two: Alena 9, Ethan 2, and a baby on the way!

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real life, beyond the pages of the story.

There is no worst thing about being a writer, but the most challenging thing is keeping up with all the emails from readers!”

With all the attention she has been receiving, how did Genova react when approached as baystateparent’s pick for our May “Moms Rock” profile?

“Yes!” she exclaimed, “now my daughter will have proof.”

Yes, Alena, your mom does rock!

For more information on Lisa Genova, visit her Web site at lisagenova.com or read her blog contributions at Voice Open Move, the National Alzheimer’s Web site, actionalz.org.

Leslie Castillo is baystateparent’s calendar editor and the mom of two boys.

She lives in Wayland with her family.

Take 10 With Lisa 1. Three words to describe my family: Expressive, active, fun 2. We love going to: the beaches in Chatham (Hardings is my favorite), Provincetown, Nantucket, and Rockport

To both—I love you!

5. There’s no such thing as: impossible 6. The best things about the town where I am raising my children: stunning beaches everywhere, the people who live here year round, the Corner Store, the Community Center, our two independent book stores (Where the Sidewalk Ends and Yellow Umbrella Books).

7. My favorite time of day: Dinner at the kitchen table. We always eat dinner by candlelight, always share a toast and yell out “Cheers!”, and almost always laugh to tears about something.

8. Biggest challenge my family faces: getting enough sleep 9. What you’ll never buy again: home gym equipment 10. I steal time for myself: My sweet husband gets up with both kids on Sunday mornings and lets me sleep as late as I want — a most amazing and generous gift!

Happy Mother’s Day to Lisa and all of our baystateparent moms (and to all those who support mom by letting her sleep late on Sundays!).

3. My children teach me: patience and joy 4. I always tell my children: To Alena— When in doubt, always choose the kindest thing. To Ethan—Don’t throw your food.

Seeing the good in what moms do is what our monthly “Moms Rock” feature is all about. If you know an inspiring mom, please email editor@baystateparent.com.

Worcester JCC Preschool/Toddler Center Accepting registration for September 2010

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A Super-POWER Against Bullies BY

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hen Brett Outchcunis was a boy growing up in Wareham, he was picked on for his unique last name. The kids turned Outchcunis into, “Oochy-koochy,” but it was when Brett started taking dance lessons that he recalls, “That was it.”

Brett was bullied.

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While Brett had a loving family to support him, he realizes now that he was also sheltered and naïve. “I was confused why I was the target of teasing because I enjoyed dancing. I just wanted to be famous growing up,” he says.

Fortunately for Brett, he was able to find ways to fight off some of the taunting and bullying with the help of Tae Kwon-Do and an unexpected defense...

One summer before heading off to summer camp in Maine, where he would be the new kid amongst regular returning campers, his dad handed him a yo-yo and told him to bring it along. “That was it for me,” says Brett, “I was the only kid at camp with a yo-yo. I figured it out there… all the possibilities... and it was one of the best weeks I ever had. That week defined me, made me different.”

Now, at age 34, Brett realizes that not everyone is as lucky as he was to have found an outlet to build his selfconfidence and handle bullies, even if it was as simple as a yo-yo. This is why Brett has dedicated his life to empowering kids through interactive and inspiring performances that combine his skills as an entertainer, motivator, dancer, DJ, and of course, “yo-yoer.” “I can take a yo-yo and apply it to a real world concept. My delivery is unique,” he says.

Brett travels to different New England schools speaking to students on topics ranging from positive life choices to academic excellence. His new performance entitled, Super-POWER, is designed specifically to address the topic of bullying.

Someone NEEDS to Stand Up and Do Something After researching bullying and speaking with specialists, Brett was further convinced of the need for anti-bullying programming. “Building up our ability to fight bullying is so important for kids during the fundamental years,” he says, “we only have a small window of opportunity to try and build confidence in kids, to get to them while the cement is still wet.”

Super-POWER is a 60-minute performance for children in grades 1-6 to help them focus on the great power each student can develop by using his or her own unique qualities and talents, i.e., superpowers. These “superpowers” are then applied to common bullying scenarios.

A superpower is “something about you that people notice as cool. Something you are good at, a talent you are proud of,” explains Brett, “I believe everybody has something.”

In fact, Super-POWER is now one of Brett’s favorite performances. “Kids want to know ‘why am I getting bullied and how can I avoid it?’ That’s what they are

interested in, not statistics,” he says.

When asked how recent bully-driven teen suicides, Pheobe Prince, age 15, from South Hadley, and Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover, age 11, from Springfield, have affected him and his performances, Brett is hit hard. Putting his head down, he answers, “It can make me feel helpless but at the same time motivates me more.

Someone needs to stand up and do something, and if that someone can reach out to kids then let it be me.”

Not Your TYPICAL School Assembly As Brett makes his way around a cafeteria filled with Franklin Middle School students, he tosses Goldfish in his mouth, chatting and laughing. There’s a zing in his bright orange step (he wears legendary orange shoes for all his performances).

It doesn’t take long to see the powerful connection Ooch has with kids. Eager hands shoot into the air hoping for the chance to answer one of his questions.

As he begins his “Doing What You Love and Succeeding: Too Good For Drugs” program, the music bumps in the background, Black Eyed Peas in fact, and Ooch fist-pumps his way around the room. This is not your typical assembly as Ooch climbs on stage and captivates the crowd with words like “sweet, sketchy, and snap!” The laughter is immediate.

Brett is not here to preach about the deadly reasons why one should avoid drugs and alcohol; he is here to be real.

As someone who has never had a sip of alcohol in his whole life or smoked a cigarette, he acknowledges to his audience that “you won’t meet too many people like me.” While he fully admits this is a tough decision to make, he tell kids that they don’t need drugs and alcohol especially if they want to be like him. And why shouldn’t they? After all, he says, “I wake up at 12, go to Dunkin’ Donuts, and then I meet with my clients, a.k.a, you guys!” His fingers points to the crowd. “I have fun anywhere I go.”

And sometimes Brett thinks he has more fun on stage than the kids in the audience. “I have always treated kids like my peers, like my friends. Take the age out of it. Just respect them and let them know I am there for them,” he says.

This respect and energy is what makes 5th grade boys come up and hug him after an assembly. In the days of confusing “role models” such as Miley Cyrus and Tiger Woods, this is to be cherished.

But, there is something else, something deeper that makes Brett’s programs so successful. “I’m them,” he says, “I’m every kid out there.”

With performances booked through the summer, Brett couldn’t be more psyched about his rise in popularity, “I feel ready.

The purpose behind my mission is to give kids something like Mr. Rogers gave kids: a sense of self,” says Ooch, “When they leave my shows I want them to feel cool and know that there is something about them of value.

Just as a kid watching Mr. Rogers, I felt like he was talking to me, just me.

There is nothing like that anymore and I want to provide that.

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I’ve always wanted this, so it seems like it is the right time, everything is starting to click. I can’t wait to see what the future brings….BRING IT ON!” Lauren Passaretti is a frequent contributor to baystateparent Magazine.

She lives in Holliston with her family.

For more about Ooch, his company, Ninepoints Entertainment, and his performances, visit oochworld.com.

WORD-Proof Your Child Against Bullies While an anti-harassment/bullying law has made its way to Beacon Hill, it will most likely be some time before the bill becomes an enforced law in Massachusetts

schools. Until then, Ooch shares the following tips on how your child can combat bullying.

The POWER of the Bystander Kids need to inform an adult or teacher about the bully. This can be a scary thing, and no one wants to be the “tattle-tale;” however, when bullying goes unnoticed, that’s when it becomes a problem.

Parents can tell their children, “If you don’t take any action against bullying, then you are in essence almost giving the bully permission to carry on in such a way.”

Research has shown that 50% of the time when someone stands up to a bully, he or she will back down. Sometimes saying

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Making lunches, doing silly dances, breaking up fights, constructing houses out of cardboard boxes, and supervising trips to the potty. These are just some of the activities that fill the day of this suburban stay-at-home mom.

I am not complaining. I had always intended to stay home with my kids and I have been incredibly fortunate to have the opportunity. I am grateful, but there

is a catch. It’s the question of identity.

About a year ago I was sitting at a community playgroup, chatting with a mom whom I considered to be a close friend. We prattled on about the kids, family, and our schedules for the week.

Suddenly, like a bolt of lightning, I was struck by the fact that I knew nothing about this woman’s life before kids.

That’s not entirely true. I knew some

something funny will surprise the bully and catch him offguard. Not to mention, this often deems the child who stands up to the bully a hero.

Remind your child that she should never call more people over to watch a bullying situation. This only makes it worse by giving the bully more attention from a bigger audience.

Learn the Rules of What IS and ISN’T Bullying Kids may think that they are just “teasing” when in fact they could be engaging in hurtful behavior that can turn into bullying. Talk to teachers and school officials about what constitutes “bullying.” Make sure you and your child know.

about her childhood. I knew where she’d most recently lived. But I didn’t have a clue about how she spent her days before she was up to her elbows in Play-doh (and less pleasant things).

Stay-at-home moms can face a real crisis of identity. The “who am I?” question looms large. When I tell someone I stay at home, one of two things happens.

Either I hear, “Oh, that’s nice,” and the conversation ends, or I am asked the laundry list of questions about my kids.

“Stay-at-home mom” tells you very little about me. It communicates only that I have kids and that I have a home. It doesn’t tell you that I went to college and graduate school or that I spent ten years in the non-profit sector or that I see myself as a writer and tea enthusiast.

This is the first time in my life that the “what do you do?” question causes such internal conflict. When I was employed, my response used to tell you something about my interests and ambitions and it opened the door to more in-depth conversations. No more.

This revelation led to a great deal of soul searching. What is my identity? What do I wish my identity to be? I came to a few conclusions: 1) I need to make more of a commitment to myself to pursue my hobbies and interests, carving out more time for me (and trying to leave my guilt

POWER is in Numbers Nobody has to deal with bullies alone.

Whether your child is sticking up to a bully or reporting them, he should do it in a group or with his friends.

The IMPORTANCE of Family “Good family values give kids a strong sense of self and confidence/security to fight bullying. They know where their love is coming from,” says Brett.

“The bottom line,” Brett says to families, “is to do what you need to do to feel safe!”

about that behind.) 2) I need to spend more time talking to my other mom friends about who they really are and who they wish to be. 3) I need to focus on ensuring that I am comfortable with my life and who I have become. As long as I’m clear on my identity, I suppose it doesn’t really matter how I am perceived by others.

This exploration of self has been positive. I am finding it an important part of letting my children know who I truly am, that I am more than a mom, or rather, that their mom is an individual and has interests to share with them.

Without this extra effort, I feel that I am robbing my children of knowing their mom as a person.

Who am I? My response to others may not have become any easier. But, after five years as a stay-at-home mom, my answer to myself has become significantly clearer.

Katrina Ávila Munichiello is a stay-at-home mom, a freelance writer, and a tea enthusiast.

Her work has previously been published in the Boston Globe Sunday Magazine, Yankee Magazine, and Connecticut Magazine and she has been blogging about tea at teapages.blogspot.com since 2007.

She lives in Westford with her husband and two children.

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ver since he was a small child, my son Owen has been in constant motion - tumbling, somersaulting, cart-wheeling, and flipping - all over the place. Many times I have threatened to just “send him away to the circus.” Last year I made good on that promise!

OK, so it technically wasn’t the circus but a fantastic summer camp – Circus Smirkus - located in the heart of Vermont. For a full week, Owen practiced his acrobatic skills, learned to walk on stilts and ride an unicycle, juggled, swung from aerial apparatuses, and gained a whole lot of confidence when he realized he could do just about anything if he tried. And oh, he had an absolute blast in doing so!

Now in its 20th year, this non-profit organization was started by a former circus performer and educator, Rob Mermin, as a way to “to recreate the homegrown, small-town traveling country circus of bygone years, and make it one that kids could realistically dream of joining.” Since then, hundreds of boys and girls, ages 6-18, from all over the US and beyond, have chosen to do just that.

Owen, who is now 13, has never really enjoyed traditional sports such as basketball or baseball; his passions have been Tae Kwon Do and gymnastics, particularly acrobatics.

Two years ago he attended a more traditional summer camp in Maine. It wasn’t a dismal experience but let’s just say, it was not his thing.

So last spring, my husband Dave did an online search for circus and/or gymnastics camps, and Circus Smirkus came up.

I had vaguely heard of them, and after doing more research, we decided to sign Owen up for a week. This, we felt, would be more in line with his interests.

On the last Saturday in June, Dave, Owen and I traveled to Craftsbury Common, VT where the camp was then located. As we waited in line to check in, several of the camp’s counselors welcomed the kids and their families.

We also chatted with several returning campers and their parents. Everyone had only positive things to say about their prior experiences.

After check-in and a quick goodbye to their families, the kids went off with their counselors while Ed LeClair, the program’s executive director, gave a short presentation for the parents.

Safety was absolutely paramount, he stressed, in and out of the circus tents where the kids would be getting their instructions.

Parents were discouraged from contacting their kids via phone or email, he noted. This, he said, would help keep homesickness at bay.

But there would be a way for us to see how our kids were doing, he added. Each night the camp would post pictures from the day’s activities on an on-line blog.

While I still had a few questions before going home, Ed graciously spoke to me one-on-one and put my mind at ease.

Two days later, I received a call from Jess, one of the camp’s directors. Owen, she said, had had a bit of homesickness the first night, but was now doing just fine.

“He’s a great kid, and we are all enjoying him!” she said.

Whew! I knew then we had made the right decision.

Every night that week we would anxiously check the blog for updates, thrilled when we saw a photo of our son. One night the blog said that the campers had participated in a pie throwing contest with pies made of non-irritating soap.

“Uh-oh!” I thought. “I bet he didn’t like that!” But as I scrolled down, I saw a picture of him, with not only soap suds all over his face, but a huge smile as well!

On the last day of camp, before the kids go home, they perform a showcase in the camp’s three “big top” tents to show their families what they worked on over the week.

One by one, the kids tumbled down from above the stage in the aerial hammock, spun around in the Lyra (a big circle apparatus) and flew sideways on a rope suspended from the ceiling.

They demonstrated their new juggling, unicycle riding, Diablo and acrobatics skills. They also entertained the families with silly skits which showed off their comedic talents, including pratfalls and other stunt moves.

Watching the performances, it was obvious that safety was emphasized and that these counselors truly enjoyed working with the kids. Everyone was having so much fun; you could see the pride in the kids’ faces as they performed for their families.

“Our counselors, who are in charge of the emotional and psychological health of the kids (as well as physical health and safety), are chosen because of their love of working with kids and their high energy. They are typically college-age adults with leadership abilities that make them healthy role models for campers,” says Megan Rose, the camp’s co-director, “About three-quarters of them have been campers. We also have a rigorous C.I.T. (counselor in training) program that helps train campers to be counselors, and some are selected from that pool.

Coaches are of course chosen because they love working with kids, but they must have excellent circus skills as well.”

Owen will be going back this summer to

participate in the two- week intermediate camp. To do so, he had to submit an audition tape as well as an original written piece (he wrote a poem) and two references. We were all so excited when he was selected!

“I did not know what to expect when I went to Circus Smirkus camp. My greatest fear was that I would not be as good as everyone else, but I was able to keep up with the campers that had been going there for years,” says Owen, “The staff and other campers were very kind and helpful. Circus Smirkus is a fun place with a happy environment!”

Circus Smirkus will be held at a new location this summer, at the Lyndon Institute, in Lyndon, VT. Many of this season’s sessions are filled but parents can check with the headquarters to see if there is still any availability. The program also has a terrific traveling show that goes to a number of New England towns as well.

Marialisa Calta, a development and public relations specialist with Circus Smirkus shares a quote from a memo Mr. Merwin had written to his staff: “Our broader goal is to create delight, compel wonder, expand amazement, invite enchantment, spread joy, evoke childhood, nourish dreams, activate imagination, trigger inspiration, propel adventures and have fun.”

Based on our experience and that of the other families we met, that goal has definitely been achieved!

For more information, check out circussmirkus.org or call 802-533-7443.

Bonnie Adams is a freelance reporter and personal historian who lives in Upton with her husband and twin boys. Her website is storiesbybonnie.com.

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Don’t be surprised if your child’s reaction is, “I never knew I could help somebody with something I made.”

That’s the empowerment that Kidz b Kidz co-founders, Nancy Corderman of Needham, and Jan Weinshanker of Gloucester, are trying to build in children.

The two working mothers (Nancy has four children ages 8, 11, 13, and 15, and Jan has two grown children) met 15 years ago when Jan, who owned her own ceramic business, Droll Designs, hired Nancy, a textile designer for Christian Dior, to convert her ceramic designs into tableware.

“Immediately we felt like sisters and knew that when we were in the right place in our lives, we would work together,” says Nancy.

For Jan, the need to give back came when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. “I spent two years in the hospital and have been in remission for ten,” says Jan, “I have been so fortunate.”

Nancy’s driving force came when her two oldest children were diagnosed with hearing impairments. She credits the professionals at the Children’s Hospital Boston for making it possible for her kids to “go on and lead normal lives.” However, the memory of their time there and the children she and her husband met never left their minds. “I was struck by the fact that a lot of the kids there were clinically ill and could not just leave the hospital and resume normal lives,” Nancy recalls.

So in November 2008, Nancy and Jan left their corporate lives to launch Kidz b Kidz,

Hospital Boston. Jan says that her team is in a constant effort to “raise charity awareness for children and weave philanthropy into kids’ lives so that they can be better people.”

• A New Generation of Giving Kidz b Kidz’s latest manual enables older kids to run their own Kidz b Kidz club within their school or town. With the help and guidance of Kidz b Kidz staff, young entrepreneurs help organize art parties and mentor the children as they create.

with a mission to teach children about empathy, the importance of helping others, and finding ways to use their artful hands and generous spirits to do good in the world.

The creative pair turns children’s original artwork into beautiful, highend products which benefit the world’s largest pediatric hospital, Children’s Hospital Boston. They transfer the designs onto inaugural t-shirts, ceramics, note cards, designer-wear children’s apparel, paper product lines, and sheets and bedding for infants to adults. They “never force the hand of a child” so the end result is as unique and creative as the original.

Kidz b Kidz tray covers, soup containers, johnnies, etc. are currently being used at Children’s Hospital Boston as a way to brighten every meal and hospital stay. “These are fun

whimsical images that bring smiles to kids’ faces, but also they are made by other kids,” Nancy says.

These items will soon be arriving at hospitals nationwide as well as some restaurants and coffee shops. A line of biodegradable and compost-friendly paper plates will debut at Children’s Hospital Boston soon, and will eventually be available for sale.

This super-original merchandise packed with a philanthropic punch has gotten the attention of A-list celebrities such as Brooke Shields, Debra Messing, Tori Spelling, Ellen Pompeo, the cast of NBC’s “The Office,” and Gary Phil, the guitarist of the rock band, Boston.

With momentum and opportunities growing, Kidz b Kidz recently produced a manual and online gallery so that you can get your kids involved too.

• Art with a Heart The “heart and soul” of Kidz b Kidz is their signature art parties, which bring people together to create art in schools such as Hollistion, Marlbehead, and Needham, hospitals, and public venues, some of the artwork may be turned into stunning gift items to benefit Children’s

• Submit a Design An online gallery will launch at kidzbkidz.com in the middle of May 2010. This means that anyone, anywhere can email a picture or drawing to be considered for a product design. Even if the picture is not chosen to be turned into merchandise, it will appear in an online gallery and will still be available for purchase. Order your child’s art work on an organic t-shirt for $25, or as a removable decal for $10!

Not only has Kidz b Kidz helped change the lives of children, but it has also changed the meaning of work for Nancy and Jan. “Although it feels like we work 20 hours a day, it is so joyful because we are seeing what we believe in action,” says Jan, “Kids come to these art parties and want to draw to try and change lives….we get to witness this.”

Looking forward, Kidz b Kidz is thinking big, “We would love to see Kidz b Kidz nationwide,” says Jan, “for kids to be able to take the mission of Kidz b Kidz and start their own team so that other moms, boy and girl scouts, and kids all over the country have the opportunity to take part, become entrepreneurs, and give back.”

After all, adds Nancy “charity awareness and action equal a manual for life.”

Lauren Passaretti is a frequent contributor to baystateparent Magazine.

She lives in Hollliston with her family.

• Readers, mark your calendars: On June 5th, Kidz b Kidz will have a booth at Memorial Field in Needham. High School KbK members will be selling products and giving out information on how others can start their own KbK club. All kids are welcome to create art work to donate.

To learn more about Kidz b Kidz, see the children’s art work, purchase a product, find a retailer near you, make a donation, and find out other ways you can help and make a difference, please visit their website at kidzbkidz.org

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William Ozga is the Director of Respiratory and Neurodiagnostics Services and oversees the Sleep Disorders Institute and Pulmonary Rehabilitation at Saint Vincent Hospital. Board registered as a Pulmonary Function Technologist, Bill has been a respiratory therapist for 19 years.

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