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INSIDE BC contents 12 what kids learn from chores How doing things around the house helps children learn good values, and more

16 avoiding infection and strengthening your immune system Keep these health tips in mind especially if and when you're off to the hospital, or planning a stay there 22 jeffrey sebelia We get the inside scoop on the Project Runway Season 3 alumâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s background, and how he came up with his line for fashionable tots 50 baby on board Before you hit the road with your family for an awesome vacation, make sure to keep these guidelines in mind

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INSIDE BC contents 54 ready for summer Stay fit right before bathing suit season with these recommendations from lifestyle expert, Holly Mosier 60 team jacob {sandejas} The athlete-turned-TV host and mother of five opens up her home to talk about raising her family

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76 nothing but love Businesswoman Dimples La'O, together with her progolfer husband, Cookie, and children, Joaquin and Julia, welcome BC into their fabulous lives (and home) 90 elizabeth rohm The mother of one discusses parenting, career, and everything in between

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Cover mom Christine Jacob Sandejas and myself with my son, Mathis; Me and my husband, Martin with Cookie and Dimples La’O

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I started this year with a heavy heart. My first, 12-year old, non-human child is suffering from tumors, together with a bout with leptospirosis (that my 2-year old Golden Retriever, Sera, is also now afflicted with its first stages of). According to the vet, it’s a highly communicable disease caught from as simple as your pet inhaling mice urine (possibly caught from one of his curious romps outdoors), and can eventually destroy one’s liver and kidneys. I know it’s not customary to write a note about loved ones suffering, but family is all about being there for each other, “in sickness and in health...” My older dog is now on a complete BARF/raw food diet (no kibble). I am also trying out angiogenetic drugs as a last resort, hoping that a certain concoction of drugs will freeze the tumors in its tracks, because from roughly the size of a tennis ball just a couple of months ago, our Bruce’s spine and other organs are now being pushed out of the way to make room for the disgusting cancer. I know you all have your own intentions, but even a one-time prayer for my darling boy will be much appreciated. They say that having a dog or animal love you is an insight into God’s unconditional love, because whatever happens, however angry you get or no matter what distance separates you, your canine friend will always look at you with the same bright-eyed, open-mouthed, tail-wagging joy as if he has been reunited with his soulmate. That’s our Bruce towards my husband, and Sera towards myself. It was hard putting the past few issues of the magazines to bed, because my pace has become more glacial, since my mind is on raising my three children (one is only 5 months old, at that), and is clouded by the deteriorating health of the furry ones. It makes me feel so mortal. Deadlines just become less ‘deadly’

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This is why I have come to this one encompassing resolution: To enjoy each day and live in the moment. Somehow I’ve begun to see the world clearer because of a disease so hideous, it jolts you. Our children are only kids once, so any extra time spent reading to them, telling them we love them—those do not fall on deaf ears. They remember those moments, and will count on that in their time of need. Our spouses/partners are even more “human,” for lack of a less scary word, because they are our age—so we should appreciate each other more, verbalize, and even publicly display our affection like we did when we were younger. On a happier note, it was a blast shooting the gorgeous brood of “Team Jacob-Sandejas” for our cover story. What an inspiration Christine is, for being so hands-on with all her 5 children, and for staying so fit despite her predilection for chocolate (my waterloo as well). It is also my pleasure to give you our exclusive on my friends’ domestic lives, the la’O’s. Dimples, you will come to know is the distributor of the shoe brand, TOMS, and is the head honcho of Nothing But Water. Cookie is a pro-golfer, on the other hand. Both are achievers, and are coincidentally, my friends from back in high school. So, 2013, I’m not deterred. I know this is going to be a great year. Thank you all for sticking around with BC. Here’s wishing you more days of highs that trump whatever your lows are—if all else fails, just look into the eyes of your kids and ask for that warm bear hug.

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“The most straightforward reason your kid needs to do chores is to drive the point home that he is responsible for his actions in the world (and the messes he makes).”

here’s nothing like a real household chore that would teach a child the value of responsibility and make him feel like he is relevantly contributing to the wellbeing of the household and family. Teaching your children to do chores at a young age helps them develop not just some sense of accountability, but also a sense of accomplishment, confidence (in the fact that he was able to carry out a task, even if it’s as simple as taking out the trash, or putting his toys back in their proper bins or containers), and independence. But how must one go about letting your

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kids do chores? While safety is of our utmost concern, we also have to take into consideration our child's age. The chores must be age-appropriate. Mowing the lawn is a feat that a lot of adults dread, so it doesn't make sense to have your young ones handle that (plus, it's very dangerous, too). Start with the basics for toddlers--cleaning up after a meal, putting her toys back in order, piling his books and magazines, putting clothes in the hamper. For older kids (aged 4 and up), get them into making their own bed, bringing in the mail, clearing the table, watering your plants in the garden (just make sure they are under constant supervi-

sion by an adult or guardian). Kids 8 and above can help you take your pet for a walk, put the groceries into their proper places, and help prepare meals. The primary tip here is to firstly show them how a particular chore is done. Don't put too much pressure on him or her that he can't get it right the first time. Be supportive and cheer him on, especially when he gets it done. If you haven't tried getting your children into doing things around the house (especially in the upcoming summer stay-cation months), here are some of the benefits kids derive from assigned chores: bcmag.ph

L E A R N I N G VA L U E S Responsibility (or “I’m not your maid.”)

When you make a mess YOU are obligated to clean it up. The most straightforward reason your kid needs to do chores is to drive the point home that he is responsible for his actions in the world (and the messes he makes). Personal Obligation (or “You helped create this mess now get up and help clean it up!”) When you live with other people,

you’re obliged to contribute to the general upkeep of common living areas. Chores help your kid learn to pull her own weight when it comes to keeping shared spaces clean (so she doesn’t end up moving back home because even her friends consider her a slob). Organization and Prioritizing (or “You had plenty of time to get that room clean. You can just forget about going anywhere till

Chores are unpleasant for most kids. Unfortunately, life is filled with unpleasant but necessary tasks. Chores provide the chance for your kid to practice making time for necessary evils like routine maintenance in their schedule of otherwise fun or meaningful activities. This helps them learn how to plan, organize, prioritize and suffer.

it’s done!”)

Sensitivity for others (or “Just because it doesn’t bother you to wallow in filth doesn’t mean I’m going to live in a pig sty!”) It isn’t

crucial that things be straightened or cleaned. Exposure to germs and disease can help build the immune system (if it doesn’t kill you first). But, there are some things you do because it is important to someone else (like, say, a spouse or the health department). Chores provide your kids with a clear message that the world doesn’t

revolve around them and they need to take others’ feelings and sensibilities into consideration. Pride in a job well done (or “You call that done? Get back in there and finish cleaning that room.”) It is important to take pride

in even the most insignificant tasks. Chores help your kids learn that every task, however base, is an opportunity to work their hardest and do their best. (The expression on their face when you feed them this line is priceless.) Self-sufficiency (or “Why do I have to tell you every single time to replace the trash bag after you take out the trash?”) OK, this

reason really isn’t that important. If your kid needs a lot of practice before he can skillfully take out the trash or sweep the floor, you have much bigger challenges than getting chores done. bc

Like so many time-honored parental expectations, household chores have a value more significant than the practical issue of household maintenance. That said, what is the most important reason kids should do chores? Because you said so, of course. Here are some home-and-child-friendly items to have handy in your home:

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Perfect for drying spills and wet areas, this mop is made of non-woven fabric that easily absorbs and holds liquid. It is also absorbent, scratch-free, and lint-free.

Made of 100% cotton canvas, this storage bin is well-sized for keeping toys, books, or laundry, with whimsical animal designs your child will surely love.

Protect your beddings, linens, and clothing in a bag that comes in a variety of sizes. This protects your and your child’s things from moisture, insects, dirt, and odors.

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Dr. James G. Wellborn is a clinical psychologist with a private practice in Brentwood, Tenn., focusing on adolescents and families. He is the author of the book, Raising Teens in the 21st Century: A Practical Guide to Effective Parenting that includes a chapter on getting teens to do chores along with strategies for addressing 78 other typical teenage issues. bcmag.ph

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avoiding infection and strengthening your immune system

Whether you’re in tip top shape or at higher risk for getting infection, keep in mind these tips for a healthier mind and body, and advice on warding off infection Wo r d s b y Dr . M arc S tevens an d Dr . E u d ene H arry, M . D . A d d i t i o n a l w o r d s b y V alerie A nne Del C astillo

owadays, hand sanitizers, alcohol, and the like are the top must-haves for every individual, especially when you’re in public areas such as vehicles, offices, and hospitals, because these places may be brimming with bacteria, viruses, and fungi—the last things sick and injured people should be around. Moreover, healthy relatives, who often stay at hospitals to care for their sick families, are also at risk for getting such infections.

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“There are steps patients can take to reduce the risk of being infected— and bolster their ability to fight infection,” says Dr. Marc Stevens, an AMA Physician Recognition Award recipient and formulator of Rapid Recovery, a beverage mix of nutrients that help tissue heal quickly after surgery or injury. “As a surgeon, I make it a priority to educate my patients and the public at large about what they should be doing before and during a hospital stay to protect themselves.” Stevens says patients should always take responsibility for doing what they can to avoid infection and bolster their immune system. “Young people, elderly people and those with chronic illnesses—particularly diabetes—are most at risk for being overwhelmed by infection,” he says.

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This is the No. 1 precaution recommended by the CDC, Stevens says. “Wash your hands, ask visitors to wash theirs, and don’t be shy about asking hospital personnel, including doctors and nurses, to wash up before treating or examining you.” After discharge, watch for signs of infection:

Symptoms that can indicate an infection include unexpected pain, chills, fever, drainage or increased redness around a surgical wound. If you have any of these symptoms, you should immediately contact your doctor. Get in the best health possible before a scheduled hospital stay:

People in their best possible mental, nutritional, and physical health are better able to ward off infection and their wounds heal more quickly, closing portals to infection, Stevens says. “Whether it’s physical therapy you need, or vitamin supplements—there are 13 with a demonstrated role in healing—patients should do what’s necessary to prepare before going to the hospital, particularly, before a scheduled surgery.” Monitor your bandages:

Alert a nurse if you notice your bandage is not clean, dry or completely attached to the skin surrounding a wound.

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“Wash your hands, ask visitors to wash theirs, and don’t be shy about asking hospital personnel, including doctors and nurses, to wash up before treating or examining you.”

Aside from these tips, of course, is to maintain proper diet and exercise. In fact, the benefits of exercise go beyond losing weight and fitting into those prepregnancy jeans. For one, it will give you younger looking, more blemish-

free skin. “The increase in circulation and perspiration that occurs with exercise delivers more nutrients to your skin while allowing impurities and waste to

be removed,” says Dr. Eudene Harry, author of Live Younger in 8 Simple Steps, who combines years of emergency-room experience with holistic medicine in her private practice. “The result? A healthier complexion!”

Dr. Eudene Harry adds four more hidden benefits of a good workout:

Natural “feel-good”

Constipation prevention:

Exercise increases the Exercise releases endorphins, contractions of the wall of the brain chemicals that the intestine, helping to boost your mood and make move things along through you feel happy, as well as the intestinal tract more relieve stress, and enhance easily, and decreasing the your self-esteem and selftime it takes to pass through confidence. Exercise has the large intestine. But wait also been shown to increase an hour or two after eating neurotransmitters, such as before exerting yourself: serotonin and dopamine, Exercising too soon after a meal can divert blood flow which gives us a natural high and allows us to sleep better. away from the gut and toward the muscles, weakening peristaltic contractions (and slowing down the digestion process). chemicals:

Prevents brittle bones:

Enhanced immunity:

Walking, jogging, dancing, weight training and yoga are all weight-bearing exercises that help strengthen bones. Swimming and bicycling are exercises that are considered non-weight bearing. During weight-bearing exercises, bones adapt to the impact of the weight and the pull of muscles by building more bone cells, increasing strength and density and decreasing the risk of fractures, osteopenia and osteoporosis.

Physical exertion increases the rate at which antibodies flow through the blood stream, resulting in better immunity against sickness. The increased temperature generated during moderate exercise makes it difficult for certain infectious organisms to survive.

Don’t overdo your exercise, or you won’t see all of these benefits, Harry says.

tensity level for your individual needs,” she says.

“Check with a physician who can advise you on the right activities and in-

“For all the benefits of exercise, there are down sides if you go at it too vigor-

ously for your physical condition. For instance, you can actually increase stress hormones, which can make you more vulnerable to illness, rather than building your immunity.” bc

ABOUT THE AUTHORS: Dr. Marc Stevens is an award-winning orthopedic surgeon certified by the American Academy of Orthopedic Surgeons and a Fellow in the American College of Surgeons and the International College of Surgeons. He has been recognized as one of America’s Top Orthopedic Surgeons and a World Leading Physician (International Association of Orthopedic Surgeons.) Dr. Stevens has found optimal nutrition— particularly the 13 vitamins known to promote tissue healing—dramatically speeds surgical patients’ recovery. Dr. Eudene Harry holds a bachelor’s in biology from New York University and completed both her medical degree and residency training at Thomas Jefferson University. Currently the medical director for the integrative and holistic Oasis Wellness and Rejuvenation Center, she has practiced medicine for nearly 20 years, is board certified in both emergency and holistic medicine, and for more than a decade practiced emergency medicine as an attending physician in Level II trauma centers. In 2005 she opened Oasis for Optimal Health, a private practice focused on integrative, holistic wellness and empowering and educating the patient.

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eing creative begets more creativity,” is the profound assessment of Jeffrey Sebelia on his journey from musician to seasoned fashion designer. He’s best known for his stint as the punkrocker with the clawing wit who won Project Runway’s third season, but underneath the tattoos is a man who’s truly driven by passion for his craft— and a father, at that. Sebelia has told of a troubled childhood and a faded musical career that forced him to work behind the scenes, which eventually led to a battle with depression and drug dependency. He found his calling as a designer, thus joining Project Runway after much encouragement from season two alum, Santino Rice. There, his upfront personality and inherent talent soon earned him notoriety, and the title of season three champ. To date, his roster of clients include the likes of Elton John, Jennifer Lopez, Gwen

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Stefani, Tommy Lee, Madonna, and his long-time friends (Linkin Park frontman) Chester Bennington and Dave Navarro. Aside from keeping up with his pre-Runway line, Cosa Nostra, Sebelia has recently come up with a 70’s to 80’s-inspired children’s line called La Miniatura. BC gives you the exclusive on this new collection and how he managed to overcome his personal struggles and refocus his creativity, all while being a dad to adorable (and fashionable) Harrison. What was your biggest inspiration while you were growing up? What sparked your interest in fashion?

It was music, and music videos. I loved all kinds of music and fashion, from Led Zeppelin to David Bowie, etc. My favorite albums when I was 10 years old were Kiss’ Alive!, Elvis Presley hits, Celebrate! by Kool & the Gang, and Pink Floyd’s The Wall. I wanted to look like the rock and pop stars that moved me with their songs. I also like military uniforms and tak-

ing things that are special but have very practical use, like Polo shirts, and sports jerseys. You admittedly had a difficult past, dealing with depression and drug dependency. How did you focus your energies on your creative outlet?

Being creative has always been cathartic for me, and has always served as a way for me to express myself, and focus my energy very positively. But I found that I had to address my personal need to change in order to be creative. Can you tell us more about your friendship with Dave Navarro and Chester Bennington of Linkin Park? Did they help jumpstart your career as a designer?

I met Dave years ago while in my band Lifter. He played live with us, and even made an appearance in one of our music videos. Personally, I think Dave needs a makeover. I’m so bored by how he dresses. And Chester bcmag.ph

b ea t ing t h e o d d s is someone I’ve gotten to work with and know because of fashion. I’ve made clothes for Linkin Park, Julien K and Dead by Sunrise tours and videos. But it was actually Ron Herman that jumpstarted my career as a designer—and then Maxfield. But when I started, Ron Herman was the first store that bought Cosa Nostra. It was exciting because the sales people would call me and say, “Winona Rider, Shalom Harlow, and Elton John all just bought your jackets. And we need more.” This is how the word got out so quickly. How did you make the decision to try out for the third season of Project Runway? Did you see yourself winning the competition?

Making the decision to do Project Runway was pretty easy—watching season two inspired me a lot, so when the opportunity came up, I decided that I was fortunate to be part of such a select group. I wanted the chance to win and be on television and show people what I can do. Who is your favorite Project Runway judge? How has she/he influenced you as a designer?

Nina Garcia was my favorite judge because she seemed to have the most useful advice. Her perspective on fashion is one of a magazine editor, and in order to [do] that job, one has to be like a fashion historian. She must know a lot about fashion. You also have a background in music. How do you think this helped in your creative process as a designer?

I think being creative begets more creativity. My love for music comes from the same place as my love for design— it is hard wired into me. Plus, I think music has become one of the most influential subcultures to affect fashion in the last 50 years. What inspired you to come up with a children’s line?

The idea for a children’s line came from my friend, Mel [Melissa Bochbcmag.ph

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Why did you choose the 70’s to 80’s era to inspire La Miniatura? What are the qualities of fashion in that era that you implemented in your line today?

La Miniatura is almost a miniature version of what Cosa Nostra men’s would be like today.

I grew up through the ‘70s and ‘80s, and a lot of what I like to design comes from a place of wanting to share the things I liked—but that had as much to do with where I was raised, as when. Being from Southern California, I have a big tendency toward surf culture, camping, rock and roll, and the idea of personal freedom. Think of the Beach Boys, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, or the movie, The Mask. I was raised with Levi’s, corduroy, and suits for the holidays. I also went to Catholic school when I was younger, so I kinda love navy and khaki twill uniform pants. Some of the older punk-rockers would peg the legs to make them fitted and cool-looking, so that’s what I’ve done for La Miniatura. My family was lower/middle class—my mother raised three kids by herself—and so we shopped at places like Zody’s and Target, long before Target was cool. Most people these days don’t remember when Target was considered awful.

Your neck tattoo is said to mean, “Harrison Detroit is the love of my life.” Describe your relationship with your son.

What sets both your lines apart from the

That’s not for me to say. How does the kids’ line complement Cosa Nostra?

Everyday my thoughts are toward making the world a better place for my son and his friends. And from that, he and I learn from each other. What do you enjoy doing most with your son?

I love playing chess with Harrison, or taking him to the park to play baseball. You and the mother of your son are separated. How are you managing parenting without her?

Quite well. What’s the best thing about being a father?

All of the love I get to give and receive. What is the most important lesson you would like to teach your child?

To have true gratitude for everyone and everything in his life…and to not be lazy. bc

Jeffrey Sebelia shares via his Twitter account, @JeffreySebelia: Nolan is such a smart and talented kid!! And he truly is in to fashion; Sebelia participates in the Treasure Hunt race by District Three; The loves of Jeffrey’s life; All smiles for the quirky family

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“Most of us have memories of reading out loud in class,” he says. “Though we may have been proficient readers, the fear of stumbling on a word in front of everyone was a constant source of anxiety.” Dogs are excellent for unconditional, nonjudgmental love—they won’t laugh if and when mistakes happen.

t turns out dogs are not only good for our health, finding missing people, and helping disabled people live independent lives—they’re good for kids’ report cards, too!

Canines have been found to improve the immune system and reduce blood pressure, among other health benefits. They help rescuers and law officers, blind people, and those with

limited use of their hands and arms. Now we have another reason to celebrate man’s best friend. “Dogs not only help children learn to read, they help children learn to love reading,” says Michael Amiri, coauthor with his wife, Linda, of the children’s book, Shellie, the Magical Dog. “And that’s true of for children with and without learning disabili-

ties.” A Minnesota pilot project called PAWSitive Readers finds that trained therapy dogs helped 10 of 14 gradeschool participants improve their reading skills by one grade level. Additionally, a University of California study showed that children who read to the family dog improved their ability by an average of 12 percent.

Five reasons why dogs help kids learn to love reading:

No embarrassment:

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Win-win:

boosters:

Like humans, dogs are social creatures and most enjoy the sound of a calm voice speaking to them. Many—except perhaps the most energetic breeds—seem to enjoy curling up on a rug and listening to a story being read aloud. They don’t interrupt (except for the occasional ear scratch or to sniff a body part) and they often show appreciation for the attention.

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A canine-student reading program is a great way to help service dogsin-training learn patience and discipline. Dogs are trained to help veterans suffering post-traumatic stress disorder, the blind, and people who use wheelchairs, among others. These dogs in training help children, while children improve a dog’s service abilities.

“I never had a dog while growing up, which is too bad because I think I would have had an easier time gaining self-confidence,” says Amiri. As an adult, he discovered the many benefits of dogs through he and his wife’s very special Maltese, Shellie. “If a little dog can give me, a grown man, more confidence, imagine what it can do for kids,” he says.

Too often, when children think of studying, they think of time spent hunched over a desk struggling alone to work out problems and memorize lists. Interacting with a lovable, fuzzy friend for an hour of homework is an appealing alternative.

About Michael and Linda Amiri Michael Amiri grew up in New York City and became an actor in local theater productions and television commercials. Linda Amiri is an entrepreneur, the owner of a successful hair and nail salon. Their personality-plus Maltese, Shellie, is a popular community character, who puts in a full day of work every day as a greeter at her “mom’s” salon. She’s the inspiration for the first in a series of children’s books that will address topics and issues of concern to children.

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“You're taking your kids to Burning Man!?!" We heard it every time. And our answer was always the same, "Of course we are. We take our children everywhere." Burning Man is a yearly pilgrimage to the Black Rock Desert that's part party, part art exhibit, part utopian city. It's a 20 + year old institution of getting your freak on.

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eally, it jellies and squirms and self-creates in so many different moments and varieties that it defies classification. The best all encompassing definition we found came simply from the admonition in the Survival Guide, “You won’t be the weirdest kid in the class anymore.”

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place is really as big a small city, so you don’t need to go to those neighborhoods. And as long as you’re not so prudish that the occasional naked person, possibly painted silver from head to toe, riding by on their bike doesn’t offend you, you’re in for a fantastic ride.

That said, there’s plenty of Adult endeavors that you won’t be dragging your kids to, from fetish shows to all-night raves. But those go on in their own space and the

Preparation is key. Radical Self Reliance is one of the basic tenets of the Burning Man experience. All the info is at burningman.com

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1 Bumping into our babysitter who was the original insipiration for coming 2 Press yourself into the translucent posts and make your shape on the other side 3 Vibrating meditation pod way out in deep Playa 4 Burning Man family with brand new newbies on their way to the Million Bunny March 5 The Pier. A life-sized gallion ship sinking into the desert sands 6 All who come are Burners 7 Monument of skulls 8 Kitting out Skyfarm Mobil. Making our borrowed motorhome feel like our home 9 Riding the spinning space ship 10 Mini Thunder Dome in Kidsville

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1. Climbing another art structure in the raucous night. 2. This was the only art car we rode, and it was perfect. 3. The Man as focal point to the beginning of another burning night. 4. Cheering her sister on through a fierce round at Micheal Jackson dodgeball camp. 5. Pod with cans you talk into. The central nest has all voices amplified into it. 6. A pirate disco ship with acrobats, jetting flames, carousel horses and a Klezmer band. 7. Tropical Island art car.

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Traveling tips that will ensure both you and your little one a smooth ride W O RDS BY Kristina M e d ina B affrey

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e can spot each other from a mile away. In family driveways, airports, roadside restaurants—the sight of exasperated parents doing their best just to get through one more trip with the kids. You swore to yourself you’d never be one of those parents who desperately try to fit the whole baby nursery into the back of their mini van or never be that mom who gives time-outs to a 5-year old at 35,000 feet in the air. It seemed ridiculous to you then, but now that you are about to embark on a family vacation yourself, you worry that such scenarios may not be far from what might really happen. Never fear, do know that with a little planning, you and your little tyke will be veteran travelers in no time. Here are great travel tips to keep both you and baby cool—be it by air, land or sea.

Leave the big things behind.

The best way to do this is by planning ahead. When booking a flight, hotel or even a car rental, ask what provisions they have for parents traveling with children. You’d be surprised that some airlines can provide baby cots and bassinets, hotels offer stroller rentals, while some car rentals provide car seats. For your one-stop child supply rental service, check out www.babysaway.com, a site that offers the convenience of delivering the rented items to your destination and picking them up after you leave. Even consumables such as diapers, formula and baby food may be brought to your hotel doorstep now—visit www.babiestravellite.com, a service that delivers baby supplies to any travel destination worldwide. You gotta love the internet…

SAFETY & PRECAUTION baby to sleep or play in and can be set up just about anywhere. KidCo Peapod Travel Bed comes in a tote and has an inflatable mattress for use indoors or outdoors. If you prefer a playpen type of bed, Phil & Ted’s T2 Travel Cot weighs only 6 pounds and what’s great about it is that it has mesh sides and a zip-up mesh top that protect against bugs and UV rays for vacations that require fun in the sun. Dress comfortably.

Dressing in comfy clothes during the trip help you and baby relax and rest better. Clothes that look good but feel better to sleep in for long trips are priceless. Tea Collection’s ‘Miki’ Bodysuit made of pima cotton interlock is a breathable fabric that’s perfect for the jet set baby. Petit Bateau’s “Take Me Home” set is also kid-orable, with matching footed leggings. You can change them into more dressy clothes once near the destination. For your toddler, Speesees skirts (say that 3 times real fast) and pants are made from ultra-soft organic cotton that come in mix-and-match separates and droolworthy styles, it’s comfort without sacrificing style—and that we likey. Choose travel times wisely.

Whether it’s a road trip or plane ride, it’s best to schedule your departure around the time when your child is likely to sleep. For car trips, early morning or nighttime is great, plus you avoid heavy traffic while you’re at it. Schedule flights the same way. Consider avoiding long queues while at the airport, so pick flight times wisely.

Portable is the way to go.

Assemble the ultimate entertainment kit.

Moms on the go rely on portable goodies that you’ll love so much, you will never leave home without them. Mommy’s Helper Portable Potty Seat is a foldable, padded seat that can easily fit in your diaper bag, it’s sure to make all your public restroom visits a breeze. Taking “fast food” to a whole other level, Munchkins Healthflow Car Bottle Warmer can fit all bottle and food jar sizes and has a car lighter adapter so you can heat milk and baby food in jars while on the road. Travel beds are also good investments. We all want a clean and safe environment for

In keeping your child occupied and happy during the trip, it is important to pack the essential entertainment equipment. For babies a year and under, bring a favorite battery operated nightlight or portable mobile. For toddlers, interactive books and toys are always the way to go. My First Finger Puppet Book by Folkmanis Inc. contains colorful finger puppets designed specifically to be “tugged” and “pulled” at by your curious toddler. Crayola’s “Mess-Free Color Wonder” provides no-mess art sessions which mean no accidental “murals” on plane or

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“With traveling come erratic schedules, hungry and cranky kids waiting to throw major hissy-fits. Snack packs guarantee you eat on-time, anytime, any place. Packing your own food ensures that you provide your child with a more nutritious meal.”

Travel log 1) Find out hotel, airline and car rental provisions that can make the trip easier for everybody. 2) Be a techie and bring portable and mobile gadgets and equipment. 3) Dress for success— wrinkle-free clothes make for wrinkle-free faces. 4) Bring appropriate toys and other entertainment tools to pass away the time. 5) Remember that the way to a child’s heart (and patience) is through their stomach.

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car seats (amen to that). For kids 5 and up, allow them portable kiddy stereos, challenge them to games on small versions of Scrabble or Boggle, or bring along the trusty portable DVD player for hours of viewing fun. If your kids get bored of their toys easily, group them in bags that you can pull out as little surprises throughout the trip and at the destination, so they have something new to look forward to all the time. Bring a baby toiletry bag and first aid kit.

Following the concept of the minideos, travel-size shampoos and toothpaste, make your own baby toiletry bag by buying small plastic spritzer or nozzle bottles available at groceries or drug stores and fill them up with baby’s bath wash or watered down baby soap for those quick hand-washing jobs. Stock up on hypo-allergenic baby wipes such as Mustela Soothing Wipes, they’re alcohol-free and

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soft, yet durable. Baby’s first aid kit is recommended to contain an ear thermometer (for fast check-ups), Weleda calendula oil or Desitin for diaper rash, fever medicine, and basic remedies for wounds or scratches. Don’t forget the snack packs.

With traveling come erratic schedules, hungry and cranky kids waiting to throw major hissy-fits. Snack packs guarantee you eat on-time, anytime, any place. Packing your own food ensures that you provide your child with a more nutritious meal. Fast food may seem like the obvious and convenient choice when traveling with kids in tow, but crunchy fruits, veggies and healthy sandwiches simply are the smarter choices vs. greasy burgers and sugar-saturated beverages. To top that, greasy foods can also enhance motion sickness. But don’t fret because soon enough, the one million, “Are we there yet’s?” will be but a distant memory—or at least not until the re-

turn trip commences. Now here’s what you need to know when traveling with your baby this summer season, which is the time when many families will be traveling with babies for the first time, eager to share the joy of their new arrival with friends and family. Both newbies to baby travel and old hands may sometimes feel challenged given the complexity of new baby seat safety rules, airport security issues, and the Consumer Product Safety Commission’s new crib safety rules. Basically, this new ruling means that hotels and motels have until that date to install cribs that adhere to the new safety rules. The new rules, which apply to full-size and non full-size cribs, prohibit the manufacture, or sale of traditional drop-side rail cribs, strengthen crib slats and mattress supports, improve the quality of hardware bcmag.ph

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“When booking a flight, hotel or even a car rental, ask what provisions they have for parents traveling with children. You’d be surprised that some airlines can provide baby cots and bassinets, hotels offer stroller rentals, while some car rentals provide car seats. “ and require more rigorous testing. The details of the rule are available on CPSC’s website at www.cpsc.gov.

United require that if they have been manufactured after 1985, it should be certified for use in an aircraft.

This brief overview of travel safety with your baby will point you in the right direction. For full information on crib safety, go to their website, keepingbabiessafe.org and get familiar with the full details of what constitutes a safe crib. Print and take a cheat sheet of what constitutes a safe crib with you wherever you travel.

The FAA has approved the use of CARES. Certain restrictions on most airlines apply to seating with babies. An infant seat cannot be used in an exit row or in rows immediately in front of or behind exit rows.

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New airport security measures mean that you are likely to encounter what is called a “back scatter” scan machine at security. These machines use what is classified as a “small amount” of radiation to scan you and babies and children are not exempt. Some experts say that even this “small” amount is not advisable, especially if you are pregnant or have a history of cancer in your family. You can “opt out” of the scanning process and choose a pat down. Don’t let TSA agents tell you or your children must go through the machines—this is not legal. If you opt out you will be patted down, but you will avoid any radiation levels and invasion of privacy issues. The FAA and the airlines themselves recommend that you do not travel with an infant on your lap but rather, purchase a seat at a lower-cost infant rate, and use a child safety seat device. If you are using a car seat, airlines like

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Also, be aware that many airlines are charging customers in advance for picking their seats and families may sometimes be separated if they don’t pay in advance for seats together. If you have small children, consider paying a bit extra to make sure the family gets to sit in the same row. Hotel/Motel Crib Safety

While hotels and motels have until the end of the year to make sure their cribs conform to the CPSC’s new crib safety rules, you should try to secure accommodations that have already done so. Call your accommodation ahead of time and ask them if their cribs conform to these new safety rules. Ask them the number and model name of the crib they use and go towww.keepingbabiessafe.org to check if it has been recalled. Ask also if they have fitted sheets for the crib. Never use adult sheets on a crib. Do your own spot check on the crib when you check in. Make sure there are no gaps larger than two fingers between the sides of the crib and the mattress.

Another highly publicized travel issue is bed bugs, which affect crib and infants as well as adults. Check fitted sheets for rust-colored blood stains, however small (yes, I know—“yuck!”) and ask to be moved to another part of the hotel or motel if you see them. Check your own bedding too to make sure the mattress and pillows are clean and stain-free. For cribs, bare is best: this means no pillows or quilts. Also make sure the crib is not near a window with a blind: babies can strangle on window cords. Download specs on safe cribs from our website and bring them with you. Check these points and even if one or two are missing or in doubt, ask to speak with the General Manager or the Manager on Duty and request a crib that conforms to all of the specifications. If you are unsure about your baby’s safety, consider moving to another hotel or motel that puts your family’s safety first. If you must use a hotel or motel’s play yard (what used to be called a play pen) make sure you only use the mattress foundation of the yard itself—no extra padding. Car Seat and Rental Car Safety

Although many car rental companies will rent you a car seat for your baby, the American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that you travel with your own seat if you can because you don’t know how well the car rental seats have been cared for. If you can’t bring your own, the AAP recommends that you never: bc

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s the warmer months approach, fitness and dieting are at the top of everyone’s mind for swimsuit season, among all the other summer activities we’d like to get our kids and our family into. Whether it be sports, traveling to the beach, mountains, or another country altogether, or merely a staycation that involves a lot of play, parents should be prepared to keep their health in check,

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especially during the hot months. Of course, the requisite sunscreen, wide-rimmed hats, and sunglasses are a must, and water is a very vital factor that must not be forgotten by both kids and adults alike. But for us parents, if the hectic travel and play schedule isn’t enough, here are some ideas to keep you going this summer. bcmag.ph

KEEPING FIT The Value of a Picnic:

A summer picnic can boost your mood and health more than you think. Having a picnic with family and friends encourages movement, outdoor games, and social interaction. While the sun’s moodboosting vitamin D shines down, the light also causes you to eat less, and to realize when you’re full (conversely, dark lighting causes you to eat more). Picnic foods are almost always a healthier option as well—think fruits, nuts, water, dips—seasonal, fresh items are a more likely choice than a fatty pasta or creamy dessert. Become a Kid Again!

Remember when you were a kid, and exercise was natural throughout the day because you were having fun outside? Just because we are adults doesn’t mean we can’t indulge in some outdoor fun with the kiddos, while toning muscles and burning calories. And there is a double benefit: studies show that we release more endorphins (the happy hormones) when we exercise outside. And other studies confirm the healthy and healing power of laughter. Play frisbee:

If you don’t have a friend available, take your dog! Hula hoop:

Hulaing is a premier core workout, and really tones the obliques. Take one to the park or beach.

Go ride a Trikke: This cool contraption blends the best of roller blading and skateboarding into one fun—and calorie blasting—cardio workout. And it may be one of the best workouts for your legs and glutes. Go fly a kite:

Play tag:

You’ll have fun as you sprint and twist away—a natural interval cardio workout! And this works on the fast-twitch muscles, a nice alternate to the muscles worked in our typical steady cardio.

This is aa terrific fitness activity if you take the opportunity to run, skip and jump as you sail your kite overhead. Plus, it takes mental focus away from your physical exertion, so it doesn’t feel like exercise at all.

Exercise On-The-Go:

No one has time to squeeze in a workout session these days—and that goes double for parents. Holly has a full set of tips on doing double duty, like: 1. Move throughout the entire day, not just during “official” exercise sessions: Many people complain that even though they have started working out, they haven’t lost weight. This may be why: studies have found that many times, once we have done our “official” daily workout (logged our hour at the gym), we actually move around less the rest of the day! Even if I’ve had a good workout, I still take the stairs instead of the elevator, park at the end of the parking lot, pace bcmag.ph

while I am on the phone, walk while waiting for flights at the airport, and on and on. This all adds up. 2. Do leg lifts while doing your hair in the morning, and washing dishes: This is actually easy to do! And you are stuck in one spot, anyway. 3. Do abdominal exercise while driving in your car: You can do tiny crunches to work your abs, and rock your torso side to side to firm obliques. You can get a killer ab workout in a 10 -15 minute drive. 4. Tighten your core when

vacuuming: you get a killer ab workout. Switch the arm you are vacuuming with to get equal work on both sides of the obliques. 5. Squeeze your glutes! When sitting in your chair at the office, or in your car, do repeated glute squeezes. You can do this while on the phone, using your computer— any time. Tighten your glutes for 10 to 15 seconds, release for 5 seconds and repeat. Do 10 to 15 reps of this a few times to help develop a nice firm derriere. bc

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Not necessarily a parenting book, but may be interesting to those who want a coffee table book and a good insight into the designer’s world— while getting some inspiration when decorating for your home or business. We’re sure you’ve somehow seen the iconic lemon squeezer (Juicy Salif), or his unique, colorful toothbrushes— which are some of the initial examples of Starck’s ‘democratic design.’ Let’s not forget the Louis Ghost Chair, which has made its way as a staple among many modern homes. What also struck us in his interview is how he speaks of his better half: “I’m not a fan of anything, except of the woman I love, my wife, and of all of us, human beings, and their genius.” Other Books: The Baby Signing Book by Sara Bingham

How to teach your baby sign language so they can better express themselves before they are able to speak? Sounds like a novel idea, so sign us up. It offers age-specific guides to signing, so you can jump on whenever you or baby are ready. It also includes a dictionary of 350 clearly illustrated ASL signs. Not to worry, signing won’t impede baby’s ability to talk, it enhances it, as the book encourages.

The Universal Code of (Formerly) Unwritten Rules by Quentin Parker

This sidesplitting, yet sensible civil guide teaches unspoken rules of decorum that one would think are common knowledge, and yet are time and again, broken. For example: Never hog both armrests when you fly.; Always remember that one’s own poop does, in fact, stink.; When you borrow someone’s car, fill it up with gas before you give it back.; At least pretend to like a gift; One should not allow one’s children to engage in public meltdowns. bcmag.ph

Healthy Child, Healthy World by Christopher Gavigan

The “Honest” co-founder (along with Jessica Alba) and husband to actress, Jessica Capshaw, penned a timely book on “creating a cleaner, greener, safer home.” It tackles how to prepare a nontoxic home for the coming baby, minimize allergens in the home, keeping pets healthy and safe, food with the least pesticide, and more. What makes it extra special are the “Parentblogs” from celebrities like Gwyneth Paltrow, Tom Hanks, Meryl Streep (foreword), Kate Hudson, and more. Fallin’ Up My Story by Taboo

We did a far-reaching exclusive interview with Taboo when his book came out (real name Jaime Luiz Gomez) on the Black Eyed Peas member’s life story, which talks about how he rose from a lost boy to become one of the world’s biggest musical entertainers. It also tells how he became a teenage father, his marriage (incidentally, to a Filipina), and most importantly, the riveting tale of his journey from the drug and crime-ridden neighborhoods of Los Angeles. This is one book that will leave you inspired, no matter what stage of life you are in.

Beyond the Sling by Mayim Bialik, Ph.D.

The former “Blossom” TV star takes us through her journey in attachment parenting. Although some parts may be a bit too liberal for some’s tastes (natural birth, elimination communication, advantages of co-sleeping) the author’s warmth, expertise, and well-meaning is felt throughout the book. Actress Ricki Lake writes that, “…This book should be compulsory reading for anyone who has even considered becoming a parent.” We couldn’t agree more. Emily Post’s The Gift of Good Manners by Peggy Post and Cindy Post Senning, Ed.D.

“A Parent’s Guide to Raising Respectful, Kind, Considerate Children”—who doesn’t want a world filled with that? Fundamental skills on etiquette, hygiene, and respect (among many others) are tackled in this wonderful comprehensive guide that helps us navigate through the often-clueless journey of bringing up kids. It also teaches us how to be positive role models, deal with bullying, unsavory talk, and more. { FEBRUARY-MARCH 2013 } b c PHILIPPINES

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Escape from Planet Earth

The arrogant Scorch Supernova (voiced by Brendan Fraser) is the blue alien community’s finest hero, who works together with his low profile, nerdy brother Gary (Rob Corddry), head of mission control of BASA, during Scorch’s conquests. Being the haughty alien he is, Scorch finds himself easily trapped by Shanker (voiced by William Shatner), leaving scrawny Gary to step up and save their planet, including his brother and family. The film also features the voices of Jessica Alba and Sarah Jessica Parker. Other Movies

The Croods

Jack the Giant Slayer

Oz: The Great and Powerful

3D animated film, The Croods, stars Nicolas Cage as caveman, Grug, who is forced to evacuate his only home together with his family after a much devastating earthquake disturbed the area. Learn more about their adventures as they set out on a journey to discover the unfamiliar world around them.

Adding a twist to the classic fairy tale, Jack and the Beanstalk, Warner Bros. comes up with Jack The Giant Slayer, where a young princess is kidnapped by a fearsome brood of giants. Directed by Bryan Singer, the film follows Jack as he faces the biggest struggle of his existence—all for his land and for the heart of the bewitching Princess Isabelle.

Adapted from L. Frank Baum’s novel, The Wonderful Wizard of Oz, this film centers on a circus magician, Oscar Diggs (James Franco), who is thrown away into the magical Land of Oz where he meets three witches, who are all doubtful about his claim that he is the great wizard. With all the life-changing events he’s about to encounter, he proves himself once more.

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AUDIO BOX Whether you’re having your ups or your downs at the moment, we might just have the right music to make you feel the vibe

iPAD APPS For the coming months, we give you apps that will surely entice your heart in the best way possible and for that big day you’ve been waiting for. iGraduation

Here’s an ipad app that offers you a new way to document the event so you’ll never miss the exciting countdown before that big day. Oh, the Places You’ll Go By Dr. Seuss

For an inspiration to remind you of all the things the world has to offer, here’s an app, which promotes vivid imagination to kids of all ages. “Little Things” by One Direction

Love and Valentine’s Day Frames

Another sweet act from One Direction, girls are sure to swoon over as they serenade us with their music that will move hearts for they love all those little things you used to hate.

Designed specifically for the upcoming Valentines Day, enjoy creating meaningful memoirs of family pictures or photos of you and your significant other with this app that lets you frame it digitally.

“22” by Taylor Swift

As the singer slowly blooms to a full-grown woman in and out of the camera, Taylor Swift talks about the perks of being 22, highlighting the fun and independence that comes with it. “Lights” by Melanie Martinez and Caitlin Michele of The Voice (Originally by Ellie Goulding) You won’t be feeling anything

but shiver down on your spine as Melanie and Caitlin perform a haunting rendition. “Just the Way You Are / Just a Dream” by The Barden Bellas

From the feel-good musical movie Pitch Perfect comes the perfect mash-up of two pop hits in a female acapella masterpiece. “Daylight” by Maroon 5

Once again, Maroon 5 captures their audience through a song that is bound to cherish the moment because as the daylight comes, so are goodbyes. “Home” by Phillip Philipps

From the song that made him the American Idol 11 season winner, Phillip Philipps aims to let people know that home is the only place you’ll never be alone. bcmag.ph

Youtube Fun Files Enjoy nighttime with your little ones with these short stories that will lull them to sleep Cosmo The Boat Cat

Laid back Cosmo the Cat never wanted anything for he has everything in his home, but one day, his owner Melody announced that they’re off to the ocean to live in a “house boat.” The Lion and The Mouse

Here’s a good story about true friendship that you can introduce to your kids. The King of Jungle spares the mouse’s life in an encounter, and in return, the mouse appears when the great Lion is in need. Sid The Seed

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Christine JacobSandejas, a renowned athlete and TV personality shares how she went from being a spirited and wellaccomplished athlete in the world of competitive swimming to a celebrity and model, and eventually, to a wife and mother of five. In this interview, she talks about how she and her husband first had different religious beliefsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;a twist in their love story that they had to overcome as a couple before getting married, her role as a mom, and how her youngest child is her last hope at having an inheritor of her Olympian genes and love for swimming.

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fter training and competing in swimming events at a very young age, Christine showed the world her greatness in the water when she participated and won the Southeast Asian Games in Singapore in the ‘80s. She subsequently battled it out in the waters in the 1984 Summer Olympics. From the world of athletics, she slowly transitioned into the entertainment industry by landing a hosting stint in Eat Bulaga!, a popular and long-running noontime variety show in the Philippines, from the early to the late 90s. Following this, she also appeared in a similar TV show, ABSCBN’s Magandang Tanghali Bayan, making her a household name. Mother-to-be Christine took a break from her hosting career when she was pregnant with her first child with husband, venture capitalist Francisco “Paco” Sandejas, Ph.D., Managing Partner of NarraVC and Managing Director of BGN Ventures. In the year 2005, she returned to TV with the show Mobile Kusina, which aired on GMA. Proving her chops in the entertainment industry, she won the 2006 PMPC Star Awards for Television “Best Educational Show Host” for the program. She also co-hosted the talk show, Full Time Moms on QTV. Since then, Christine has been an ambassador of family life, health, and fitness. As we enter the Jacob-Sandejas haven, the Olympic inspired swimming pool catches our fancy, which let us reminisce the competitions that she led to victory. She greets us with her stunning physique, yet with genuine hospitality as always, dressed in jeans and polo and emulates nothing but class.

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Owing up to her reputation of being a fitness guru, motherhood certainly hasn’t tamed the celebrity mom with regards to her strict diet regimen and workout, but what really amazes us is how she stays fit and in shape despite one thing she can’t let go of—desserts! She even prepared heavenly chewy chocolate brownies and popcorn for bcmag.ph

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the BC team. We matched her yummy spread with some orders of pizza, which Christine and the kids couldn’t resist. A cheat day, it was. We bond a bit with Christine and her children, Paolo Antonio (born 2000), Maria Gabrielle (born 2001), Nina Marie (born 2003), Luis Miguel (born 2006), Jaime Rafael (born 2009), in their resort-inspired home (the sound and the breeze through the trees can take one back to an ocean vacation) that is both warm and welcoming as the family that houses it. Kariz Tanya Favis: How did you develop your passion for swimming? This goes way back when you were 5. Christine Jacob-Sandejas: When you’re

5, you don’t know that you like something or not. When I started swimming, I was the slowest. I had two older brothers and they were far better than I was. Sorry, younger brothers. (Laughs) Puede din older! —Dave and Michael. I was never really anything

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that you’d say, “she’d end up being a good swimmer,” but then I loved it. I loved the friends that I met. My husband was also a swimmer on some team.

But I guess the main thing also was after school, my barkada was there.

K: When did you first meet? C: We were only 12 years old.

K: You’re famous for being an Olympian—one of the few, in our country, especially. How does someone get to the Olympics? C: It has always been my dream to swim

K: Did you have a crush on each other? C: Yes! (Laughs) We were both num-

ber 2 on each other’s side. (Laughs)

K: It became your life? C: It became my hang

out.

K: Start now. C: (Laughs) Yeah,

in the Olympics. Whether I’d make it or not, we had no idea. I was lucky to be born or swim in a time where Philippine sports was at its best. We were able to do a lot of international events, Asian Games, SEA Games, and really excel. I was the only female to represent the country at that time for swimming, in 1984, and there were 3 other male swimmers.

K: It’s when you get better at something that you become even more passionate. C: Then you become passionate, yes.

K: Makes it even more special. Most important lesson you learned from that experience? I know you won in the SEA Games. C: I won in the SEA Games.

K: (Laughs) Okay, that’s funny! C: It was fun. So I encourage

my kids also, “You never know, you might meet your husband in the pool, so you better start swimming.”

because it was a fun time for me, and I just enjoyed it and I got better. That started it all.

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We just wanna hang out and watch movies, eat popcorn, and we’re happy that way. We’re really low maintenance.

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K: In ‘81? 1981. C: ’81. I had the

bronze medal then in ’83, that’s when I started winning more of the gold. Lesson learned? It just builds so much character. I mean, any sport that you do, that’s why I always encourage my kids, whether it is soccer, tennis, or swimming. They don’t give up easily. They even try harder. K: What about when you’d lose? C: I would cry! I was used to

losing. When I started winning then I would lose, I felt so bad, but I didn’t want to get blamed for it so I had to show the whole world that I was alright. I felt bad, “Waah. I can’t believe I lost!” And then somebody came up to me and goes, “You know, people really look up to you, and you know, that’s not a good example”. So since then, I’d cry in the shower. (Laughs) I was never crying in public ever again.

K: You’re holding back the tears? C: Yeah! It’s so frustrating because

you know you’ll never do it again. It’s either that you have to swim or live at that moment. Once it’s gone, it’s gone.

K: Which among your children got the— C: They’re all really talented and I’ve

seen them swim, but they don’t have the passion for it. So that’s tough for me. K: I think, that’s the case normally. When a parent is so into something, the kids don’t get it. C: I still have Jaime. I still have hope. K: One more! C: One more!

When the time is right. But my thing is, you just have to know how to swim well. Whether you want to excel or not, it’s up to you, but you have to swim well at least for safety, so that is my biggest thing.

K: I think so, too. I mean you’re in the water at some point. C: People like to travel a lot, and you

never know. You just have to be prepared. K: Can you tell us more about your transition from being an athlete, to modeling and TV? C: Yes, probably just TV, but more

of covering the Olympic events, the more sporting events—so that’s a big transition, because I never even knew I could do any of those things.

K: At least the topics were relatively... C: When it came to entertainment,

was easy na rin because hosting, it was just intro, extro. It was the Tagalog that was hard for me, which I had to really learn. I’ve been studying in the States so I came back and I had an accent and I didn’t know any of the words, or even the who’s who. K: How long were you living in the States? C: For 4 years… K: Are you an American? C: Yes. But [I stayed there]

lege but I grew up here.

just for col-

K: Oh I thought you were from there. C: No. I went to San Agustin, and then

I left for college. That was it. I worked

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there and then I came back. And all of a sudden, “You wanna work on TV?” “What? What am I gonna do?” First thing pa, “Do you want to work in Eat Bulaga?” And I was like, “What’s that? Hold on, you know,” so I have to check. K: So somebody approached you? C: My tita is a scriptwriter. She intro-

duced me to my manager, Bibsy. “You wanna do this? Oh, they’re having try outs for girls. Wanna try it out?”

K: So you thought, “I might as well.” C: Yeah, I wasn’t doing anything. You

know, it’s always being on TV or even shoots like this. She said, glamorous. Prior to the make-up, I was not glamorous at all. But it was so nice because I like that time out from being a mom.

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Now being a mom. I was getting all dolled up, and I get nice clothes, and people fuss over my hair. K: Like every strand matters. C: Yeah. So I enjoy because

them up good so parang half of my battle is gone. Once I know they’re good kids, they’re well grounded, bahala na kayo. I don’t have to be at your back anymore.

the rest of the day, being a mom, you don’t. Forget the hairstyle! “We’re going to the grocery. What do you need? Let’s go!”

thing.

K: Exactly. C: Normal.

K: Do you believe in “me time”? C: Always. I cannot survive

Like everybody else.

K: Do you feel any pressure to be a good role model because you’re on screen all the time? C: Pressure? Not so much, but more

for my kids. I really want them to grow up to be nice, with good values. We choose the school that will help them. We go to church. We really try to raise

K: Forever. C: Forever,

right. So that is my main

without “me time,” and that’s when the kids are at school. Being an athlete, which is why I always encourage also my kids to be active in sports because I run, swim, or play tennis ‘cause you know honestly, I really feel so much better once I do. It just makes me…“I’m ready now!” If I don’t exercise, I’m so sluggish. bcmag.ph

K: Exercise for you is recharging. C: It really is. It just makes me feel

so much better. I get some sunshine. I’m outside.

K: It’s not like you going to the spa or anything. C: I’m not a parlor type of mom—even

earlier with my make-up, “Are we done? It’s okay na. Let’s go!” I’m not the type of person who can sit down for a long time. “Let’s go!” So I workout in the morning, when they’re all in school. I come back and do lunch. I do my groceries, I go back, I do everything but at least tapos na. My only time in the parlor is like, one…

K: One whenever? C: …every 4 months?

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K: I cut my own hair, so I’m worse. C: But when I’m in a parlor, you’re

there naman for 7 hours, right?

K: Exactly. How do you balance career and family life? C: Priority is always family. You do that

first, and career comes around it. Like if I have a hosting job but it’s graduation, I won’t be able to make it. I have to cancel. Stuff like that. As my husband says, “You know what, it’s the time of the kids! You’re done with your time.” (Laughs) If you’re not with the kids now, you’re gonna miss the boat.

K: You blink and they’re 40, and then you’re what? C: Exactly, and then they’re gonna say,

“Oh, Mom was never there! Or Dad was never there!” So I’m always—

I’ll have lunch, I’ll pick you up from school, we come home, we can do shoots together. Something they’ll grow up and they’ll always remember. K: I can see the closeness. It’s very obvious. How do you manage stress in the household? You’re very hands on. C: Yeah. It’s the scheduling that gets to

be [stressful]. So me and my yaya, we have a schedule every week. “So what are the schedules of the kids? Let’s write it all down.”

K: That’s a lot, right? C: Yeah, especially with

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K: That’s nice. So tell us about your story with your husband ‘cause I know it started way back. C: Way back, way back when— K: And then how did that reignite? You’ve had some relationships in between? C: Yes, I would say, it was really God’s

will—especially in my life. He was a Numerary. He’s an Opus Dei, and he had no intentions of ever settling down. He was in the States at that time, I was here. And we were always like that. And then when he came home, I went to the States. We never met until later on---20 or 30 years—after we last saw each other. K: Oh wow. C: And so he

left work, and he had 2 or 3 girlfriends after. Then he came home and he saw me on TV talking about, “I wanted to commit,” like that. “I’m not scared of commitment.” (Laughs) So he thinks, “Oh, I like her answers.” And then, he switched channels and then he saw me having my makeup done. “Ah, I always see this girl you know, I might as well call her.” So he did.

K: Ah…might as well. C: Might as well, why

not, you know? His officemate went on a blind date with me and he had my number.

K: Oh my God. Okay… C: So he got my number,

and “Okay fine. It’s your birthday okay, but pick me up. I’m hosting a show at New World.” And then when I saw him, I felt I could spend the rest of my life with this guy. K: Wow. C: I prayed for him. “God, if I would be

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single, I’d be single, because I’m really tired.” You know, so I said, “If I would be single, fine, but if not you choose na for me. I give up. Ikaw na.” You know all of a sudden, this guy walks in. But at that time I was Born-Again and he was Opus Dei. Like, “Ano ba ‘to?” (Laughs) “Why are gonna do that to me again?”

K: How did you bridge that? C: I studied the Catholic faith

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peaceful, so content. And so I was ready. So what do I do? “Who’s supposed to convert who here?” You know, it came to one of those things. I said, “I have to study, but you have to understand where I’m coming from as well.” So we go to our service, and I go to Catholic and I have books and all that. Then I finally made a decision to go Catholic, and really study the faith and bring my kids. K: What is the difference between being a Born Again and being an Opus Dei? C: “Born Again” is more Jesus, not so

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it was. And then we started dating, holding hands while walking… K: And then five children after. How long have you been married anyway? C: Since ’99. K: Your secret to a long lasting marriage? C: You have to have something in com-

mon with your husband. Something you like to do together. That’s the only thing at the end of the day.

K: Apart from swimming... C: We love sports. We love

watching movies, and then after having 5 kids, what more bond do we need?

K: Are you gonna add more? C: We’ll see. I think we’re pretty

done.

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K: How do you settle your differences? C: I choose my battles. I don’t fight.

I mean, if I can live with the color blue, I’ll live with the color blue. I don’t need to push for red. He’s still the boss.

K: How do you split parenting duties? C: It’s mostly me ‘cause I’m home

most of the day. He works but he’s far more strict than I am. When he comes home [he’s like], “What’s this? Aaaah!” and they’re more scared of him than me, as always. I balance it out. When he’s here, he has to spend naman all of his time with the kids. Since I’m with them all the time, even if they’re here, “Sige dito muna ako. I’ll check my email first ha. I’ll see you naman later.” But with him once he’s here, the kids are here, he gets stressed out. “What am I gonna do with them? Do I have to entertain them?” He gets reFEBRUARY-MARCH 2013 philippines

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It’s the time of the kids! You’re done with your time.” (Laughs) If you’re not with the kids now, you’re gonna miss the boat.

ally mad when I’m not at home. “Why aren’t you here with the kids? You have to come home!” “Yeah, yeah... parlor! (Laughs) It’s my chance!” But you know he likes the kids to always be active. On weekends, there’s the TV and computer but school days, really nothing. And even on weekends, as long as the sun is out, you gotta go outside. And then once the sun sets, if you wanna go in, you wanna do computer, that’s fine. Parang sayang naman the day… K: What talents have your kids inherited from you both? I saw your son play guitar. C: (Laughs) That’s not from me, cause

I can’t sing. I can’t play. K: He’s really good. C: He’s really good.

I hope they get more of our values. Whatever the talents they have, I hope they use it well. Yeah, I just want them to be really nice kids. That’s my main thing in life.

K: Be good people. C: Just really good

people. Not swapang, not—that’s my main thing.

K: And they are. C: I hope so. They have their moments.

I’m very happy. I always tell my husband, “We’re so lucky ‘cause they’re so bait, no?” They’re not bullies.

K: And it would break your heart if they were bullied. C: Yeah. It does. And it happens a lot. K: How do you handle that? C: Well both—my son, Paolo. Yeah, he

was also bullied growing up.

K: Like if someone says something bad even such a tiny thing, it hurts me. C: I don’t retaliate. That’s not my per-

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sonality. Maybe my husband would say, “Punch him.” (Laughs) I just pray about it or say, “Just avoid him, maybe find another friend. They’re not good anyway, so don’t even bother spending time with them.” I try to make them feel better about it. Parang it’s not you, it’s them. (Laughs) K: Do you find that there’s a difference between raising boys and girls? Because you have both. C: Well, it depends. Boys might be eas-

ier, girls maybe a little higher maintenance, more sensitive, more emotional. I really don’t want to classify them as that as well, because they’re gonna use it. They’re gonna say, “I’m so emotional, ‘cause I’m a girl.” You’re all the same. You wanna do soccer, everybody does soccer. No boy-girl difference.

K: No gender roles. C: No gender roles,

yes. Except boys no dolls, ha. (Laughs) That’s the only thing. K: What do you guys enjoy doing as a family? C: We just love movies. We’re so lazy.

We just wanna hang out and watch movies, eat popcorn, and we’re happy that way. We’re really low maintenance. We don’t need to go to the States every summer. Dito lang tayo, sa Batangas, okay na tayo.

K: Let’s talk about personal style. Do you have a mommy style or certain way you dress? Favorite trends? C: I go for comfort. I don’t like any-

thing tight. It’s so hard to carry the kids. I can’t enter the school if my skirt’s too short. I always have a shawl.

K: You keep telling me about the way you eat and it’s admirable...

I really try to eat a little bit healthier. More greens, not necessary vegan or vegetarian, but if I had a plateful of food, it’d be almost full of greens or veggies, and maybe a little bit of meat.

K: Green Tea Kit Kat. C: (Laughs) That works!

I am a chocoholic. I really, really love desserts and I’m so glad I don’t have gestational diabetes or that I’m not diabetic, because I’m gonna die. (Laughs) I have to work out to balance all the sugar that I eat, but I really have to eat healthy—not necessary to lose weight...

K: I have never seen you like with an ounce of— C: I gain weight so fast. I just can’t,

“This week I’m on a diet.” It has to be a lifestyle and my cheating is once in a while, which is the Christmas break or the Boracay trip but once I get back, it’s back again.

K: Most weight you’ve ever gained though? (Laughs) 5 lbs or something? C: Well, I can gain weight really eas-

ily. I mean really easily. Let’s say my heaviest at 9 months pregnant was how much I weighed without a child. If I was like 145, I was almost 150 lbs. at one point. And that was with no baby, it was just me. And then with Paolo, I reached about 155 lbs.

K: It’s hard! C: Yeah. Cause

I just didn’t know how to dress, I didn’t want to go out… K: Yeah, nothing fit. C: Yeah, it was really

so hard. So after giving birth, I make it a point to try to lose all of my baby weight. K: Do you nurse? C: I nursed for two

years. That really helps me lose so much weight. bc

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What makes a family “picture perfect?” An adoring husband/wife, beautiful children making heartwarming noises around the house, that white picket fenced home in a quiet village, and maybe a dog or two running around the garden—we’ve all imagined and have our own ideas of domestic utopia.

While both are hands-on parents, professionally, Dimples brought in the shoe brand TOMS and founded swim retail giant, Nothing But Water—which houses her other ‘baby,’ swimwear line, Anemone. On the other hand, Cookie is one of our country’s esteemed, professional golfers.

We sat down with Cookie and Dimples la’O (who is 6 months pregnant as of this shoot) in their beautiful home with children, Joaquin, 11, and Julia, 6, who served us a fresh batch of cookies whipped by the latter just before the shoot.

Find out both achievers’ parenting styles, funny personal antics, their love story, and even how one of them can boast of dolphins as a pet. While there may not be a truly perfect family, the Balaguer-La’O brood sure comes close.

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Joaquin: Gray and purple top by NECK & NECK, P1,750 Cookie: Montauk downs plaid polo by ALEX CANNON, P3,450 Julia: Dress by Tarte Tatin, P1,299.95 . Pink wedge shoes by ELLE Dimples: Dress by H&M, model’s own . Shoes by TOMS, model’s own, Ring, P497, Ring, P580 and Earrings, P279, all by PARFOIS

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Cookie la’O K: So, how did you start playing golf? Cookie la’O: Me and my dad started

at the same time and I have an uncle that plays golf and he took me out to the golf course and I just liked it from the start.

K: How old were you? C: Twelve. It wasn’t my first sport ‘cause

I played tennis and soccer, but I was good at it and I just kept going after high school.

K: Like you dabbled in everything first and then you found golf, like that? (laughs) C: Yeah, for sure. K: And, who were your major influences? C: My dad! I used to go out with my dad,

and I had an uncle named Bobby, he used to take me out to the golf course. That’s it. He’s the one who knew how to play golf. He taught me how to hold the club, how to swing the club, what the rules were, stuff like that. My, golfing idol was a guy named Nick Faldo, English guy.

K: That was way back when? Revealing our age. (Laughs) And how did you decide

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to become a professional golfer or athlete? C: Back in the 90s, late 80s. I decided

to be a professional golfer because I excelled at it.

K: Biggest achievement to date? C: I played on the National Team

for a number of years. I played in the South East Asian Games, Asian Games. Pretty good professional-wise, but my biggest achievement to date is having a family, really.

K: And the hardest one. C: That’s right. K: How did you meet your wife? C: I met Dimps in high school,

but she never really paid attention to me then. She had another boyfriend. We didn’t meet again until we were in college and in the States. She was just finishing at FIDM, and I was still in school in L.A.

K: How did that happen? Luck or something? C: I was visiting friends, and then a

friend of ours was staying with her.

She was like, “I’m staying at Dimples’ house, you know Dimples!” I was like, “Yeah, I know her from high schoo, but not too well.” And I showed up and she was so funny, and friendly, and we hit it off. We became friends, best friends, kissing friends, and that’s it. K: You started dating ever since? C: Yeah. (Laughs) The transition was re-

ally quick. It wasn’t like a stretched out courtship or anything.

K: How long have you guys been married? C: 12 years. Together? We were seeing

each other for 4 years, so 16 years. It feels like one year lang.

K: Naks! C: So fresh! K: What’s the secret to a relationship that lasts that long? C: The husband’s really humble.

(Laughs)

K: (Laughs) The wife is always right. C: Yeah, “Happy wife, happy

That’s the motto.

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K: What’s it like parenting 2, going on 3, children and managing your career? C: I don’t have much of a barkada, so the

barkada’s at home. We like hanging out. My son and I love sports, so that’s what we have in common. We just like laughing with each other, hanging out. I used to travel much more than I do now. So now I play on a local circuit, I don’t have to travel as much, which is nice ‘cause I sleep at home. The kids go to school, so it’s not like we’re together 24 hours.

K: Favorite daddy duty? C: Oh, I love kids so, I

little babies anyway.

like to play with

K: (laughs) I saw that! Okay, top 3 travel destinations you’ve been to? C: I love Paris, that’s for sure! Top 3? Par-

is, Amsterdam is a favorite—for the food, the walking around. (Laughs)

K: For the fun stuff. (Laughs) C: For the stroopwafels. (Laughs)

India! India’s pretty interesting. I was always scared about India and how dirty it was, it’s just a different world down there.

K: So your wife tells us you’re a great dad. What are your must haves when traveling with kids? C: Well, recently, the iPad. Small kids?

Stroller?

K: Yeah. A nanny? C: Actually we never

did that. This next trip, we might have a yaya, but otherwise, it’s been all us. It’s been real. (laughs)

K: What are you excited for with the coming baby? Another boy, congratulations! C: Yeah, thanks! The tiny fingers and

toes! That’s what I’m excited about.

(Opposite page) Julia: Dress by TARTE TATIN, P1,499.95 . Denim bolero by PAPER WINGS, stylist’s own . Black boots by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P2,099.75 Dimples: Dress by BELLE MAMA, P1,850 . Shoes by ALDO, model’s own, Necklace by KOKET, P8,900 . Ring, P379, ring, P880, both by PARFOIS Joaquin: Denim shirt by DIESEL, stylist’s own, Shoes by TOMS, model’s own Cookie: Polo shirt by CUTTER & BUCK, P2,975

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dimples balaguer la’O Kariz Favis: What was it like growing up in a family who used to own Crispa textiles. Was there any pressure for you to go into business as well? Dimples la’O: It was really a good influ-

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“Happy wife, happy life.” That’s the motto.” —Cookie, joking about the secret to relationships that last

(Opposite page) Cookie: Polo by REPORT COLLECTION, P3,950 Joaquin: Plaid shirt by RUSTAN JR., P695 . Gray shirt by JEDIDIAH . Denim shorts by ROCAWEAR, both stylist’s own Dimples: Dress by ANJA . Striped cardigan by EVERLY GREY, both stylist’s own Julia: Pioneer explorers multi by MOTHERCARE, P899 . Striped leggings by ELLE . All footwear by TOMS, models’ own

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watching her as she talks to different suppliers. It really instilled a certain confidence—when you are so young and [are] trying to start your own thing. They never pressured me to work for them or anything like that, or to try and carry on the name. My family always told me to do whatever I wanted. K: Is it true you received P300,000 in cold, hard cash? (Laughs) When was this? D: It was just a start up loan that my

mom and my dad gave, to start one store—right out of college. I didn’t want to work yet, and I was like, “Mom, can I just travel?” (laughs) And she was like, “No!” That was just to buy initial fabric so that we could manufacture suits, and to do a really small renovation on an existing store that my mom already had to make it the first Nothing but H2O. That was in April 20, 1997, when the store opened.

K: What did doing business at an early age instill in you? D: I’ve always been an independent per-

son. Starting my business at that age was just second nature. I didn’t think it was anything out of the ordinary. It’s so easy to just give them the idea and if they think that it’s a fruitful one, okay, “What do you need to do to get this started?” It was always like that with me and my siblings. Both my sisters were already in the retail industry, opening a store was just play. (Laughs) We opened Nothing but H2O Galleria in a month. We had to open that store by April because it was before Holy Week, so they were like, “If you could open the store before Holy Week then you’ll probably make your money back right away because this is peak [season] already.” We were able to turn everything around. When the Asian crisis happened the next year, it jumped to 48, which affected our business because of the prices of raw materials that we had to buy.

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at all. It’s hard to manage or make everybody happy or get along. I grew up in the States, so I’m used to people workbcmag.ph

ing quickly. You don’t have to be here for 8 hours—if you finish your tasks, you can go. But I guess here it’s a different culture. It’s really difficult finding your core team who share the same values as you when it comes to work. K: I agree. What skills did you learn in the US that helped you become a businesswoman, at a young age at that? D: I went to FIDM, which is straight to

what I wanted to do. It was not even a question. I took up Product Development, so I knew I would be making something. Being in the States opened up my eyes to not being so narrowminded. Coming home and seeing what we lacked, I was like, “We can’t buy swimwear here. There’s just like one store!” Seeing the potential there of doing something here, that was the biggest thing that I got. And my work ethic.

K: And the professionalism. D: Yeah! And just quick

thinking or being street smart. The best thing my parents could have done for me was, “Okay! You can go to the States, you can live by yourself.” They set me up, but that’s it. After that, I’d see my mom when I’d come home for Christmas. I was so much on my own that when I

dropped my parents off at the airport, I realized I didn’t know how to get back to my apartment. There was no GPS, nothing. I never really paid attention to where we’re going. I realized, “Oh my gosh! How am I gonna get home?” (Laughs) I had to stop at a gasoline station and ask, “How do you get back to Walnut Creek from San Francisco Airport?” At that moment, I’m like, “Okay, it’s time to grow up!” If you’re hungry, you gotta cook your own food. K: You gotta clean your own bathroom! D: Exactly. Don’t get me wrong, I was

a stupid college kid! My brother came to visit me and I was like, “Okay, I’m going to make sinigang. This is going to be a big deal, man!” But I didn’t put it in the fridge, and it was in a pan. My brother and I left, we flew to Seattle for the weekend. When we came back, it had major amag! “Aaaah! It’s alive!” I closed the lid and put the whole pan on my balcony, and it stayed there for a couple of months—until I knew my mom was coming for a visit. I had to throw the whole pan because I didn’t even want to clean it! (Laughs) K: (Laughs) Clearly you have a love for the water. We heard you used to have dol-

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phins right in your swimming pool? D: Yes, that was so weird! It’s not like we

sat down as a family and my dad [said], “Okay, we’re gonna get dolphins as pets!” There was a show on EDSA. Before Robinson’s, Shangri-La, and Megamall were up. It was an open field and they used to have this carnival called “The Pepsi Carnival” or something, and we used to go to that. My dad, I don’t know if he was a part-owner of that, they had rides, there were dolphin shows. I would go there and since my dad knew the guy that brought in the dolphins, I would go in and help train the dolphins and stuff. One day, we woke up for school, and all we could hear is this really loud pump (makes loud, pump noises). I look out the window and then it goes to the garden and I was like, “What the heck is going on?!” There were pumps and stuff going into our swimming pool. My dad’s like, “Surprise! I bought the dolphins!” (Laughs)

K: Best surprise ever! D: I didn’t go to school

‘cause I was just so excited.

that—and really open with my friends. They’d rather we have people over than we leave. My mom would be like, “Oh, your friends are coming? Oh, I’ll make merienda.” The yaya would bring out crispy pata and I’m like, “That’s not merienda, Mom!” K: Haha! How different is your parenting style from your parents’? D: Pretty much the same, although

I don’t make palo. (Laughs) The olden days uso ang belting, ‘di ba? There are days when I feel like doing it (Laughs), but my kids would be like, “That’s against the law, mom!” So, I can’t do

that day

with my mom a lot. I didn’t appreciate it at that time. My mom took me to Europe at such a young age and I was like, “Boriiing! Museums! Whatever, art!” It gives you character at the end of the day. All of those things, like going to the States for summer, I just thought it was normal, but, mahal pala ‘yon?! Now that you wanna go do it with your kids, right?! (Laughs)

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K: Yeah, same here. D: That’s why I’m gonna die the minute

they say, “Mom, see you later!” I’m gonna be like, “No, don’t go out with your friends!” [Cookie and I] make each other laugh. We know our strengths and our weaknesses, and that’s why we’re together because we can’t be too the same. When we got together, we weren’t really together... We didn’t even say “I love you.” We were both patigasan, like, “Psh! I’m not gonna say I love you. No way!” It took us a year and a half to say, “I love you.”

K: What are you excited for with the new baby?

K: What other luxuries were you granted as kids? D: I remember just traveling

what he said, we don’t have a barkada. We have friends that we see often, but we hang out with our kids, that’s our ‘gimmick’…

‘I love you’ to me while I was sleeping!” So I go, “I got one over you!” and he was like, “I thought you were sleeping!” (Laughs) We just don’t throw those words around. For us, it’s always got to really mean something.

where they didn’t have a show. It was cheaper for them to stay here than to fly to another place and wait there for the next show. We had field trips of [our school] Zobel inside our house. That was funny.

K: Looking at your journey now as husband and wife, what is the secret to the success of your marriage? D: We’re really good friends. And like

K: (laughs) It’s like in the movies! Why did it take you guys so long? D: I was like, “Oh my gosh, he said

K: That’s amazing. How many people can say they’ve had dolphins as pets! D: There was a 2-month period

K: Yeah, it’s so expensive! (Laughs) D: My mom and my dad were cool

what you want them to have, a better relationship with God.

it! (Laughs) We’re more open about a problem, if there’s a problem. K: We talk to our kids more. D: Yeah, we make decisions

together. I don’t have an iron fist and say, “This is it. That’s it.” Sometimes, it feels also like, “Am I making it too easy on them?” Sometimes I’m like, “In the real world, no one’s gonna make it easy on them,” so it’s a constant battle in my head. But they’re still young, I need to protect them—that’s my goal. As long as they turn to God for everything, that’s the best. At the end of the day, that’s really

D: Everything that I didn’t get to do with the two kids. Breastfeed longer. Just being able to provide that, and no one else can do it but me, I like that idea. With the two, they’re really fighting for attention. Once the third one comes along, they won’t even care about us, just about the baby! I’m looking forward to that ‘cause they’re just at each other’s throats most of the time. (Laughs) K: Let’s talk about TOMS for a bit. How you brought it into the Philippines... D: I saw TOMS a couple of years back,

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idea. I thought to myself, “Why are they just giving it to Africa and Argentina, why don’t they give to Filipinos?” I didn’t do anything about it until 2009. It was when I wrote them, and I showed them a picture of this place my sister was helping near service road. “Why don’t you start giving kids in the Philippines?” After a while, they wrote back and asked, “What are you doing?” I said, “Oh, I own these stores...” and they said, “So why don’t you start selling our shoes there?” (Laughs) I’ve never brought in a shoe brand before, then I looked at it and was like, puede! It wasn’t the most attractive shoe. There’s a look to it, which at that time, wasn’t uso yet. I was like, “Okay, let’s try. I’ll put it in a few stores.” So they’re like, “Can you come to the States?” I went and met with them, and I said, “I’ll sell your shoes but you have to promise to be giving it to Filipinos.” In 2009, they came here and I took them to Smokey Mountain because they didn’t understand how I could sell premium, high quality shoes at a higher price point, and also, why our society would need shoes. When I showed them the contrast of how fast from Smokey Mountain to Rockwell, ‘cause it’s 30 minutes, bcmag.ph

they were really, really shocked. K: Marginalized like that. D: I really appreciated

how TOMS trusted me with that. Their company has grown so much in the last couple of years. I’m really fortunate that I came to talk to them when they were still small. (Laughs) When they finally came in 2011 with their first shoe distribution, I hooked them up with WE International, an NGO, and right now, they have 4 other NGOs they’re working with around the Philippines.

K: Tell us about your design process, and what is the usual theme of your stuff? D: For Anemone, it always has to do

with travel. Places, prints and patterns, I love seeing that. I have a great designer who works for me, Lauren, she rocks my world. We work off of each other, we make our own prints.

K: What inspires you? Name 3 people you owe your success to. D: With Anemone, what inspired me

was my family, because we want things that are wearable. We all know that not everyone is a perfect size 6 or 4, so Anemone is a mix and match col-

lection. That was my plan from when we opened Nothing But Water and it’s just happening now—which took 15 years—but we’ve been able to sell all these imported labels so we know what are the strengths and weaknesses of all this stuff. This is like 15 years worth of research. (Laughs) K: Always a work in progess, everything. D: And plans for Anemone are so big,

because potential’s for us to take the brand to other countries. Other people who inspire me of course are my parents, my mom. She teaches you how to think on your feet. And my dad, you can tell him the most outrageous business plan and he’d be like, “Of course you can do it, what are you talking about?”

K: That’s a rare breed! D: Yeah! And my mom, I remember she

had a talk in Zobel when we were seniors. I remember her telling everyone, “School’s not important if you already know what you’re gonna do.” I was cringing in my chair, “Mom, this is career day! You’re supposed to tell them school’s important!” My kids and my family—I work hard for them—they really inspire me. bc

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“they’re still young, I need to protect them— that’s my goal. As long as they turn to God for everything, that’s the best.” —dimples, on their parenting style

Cookie: Long-sleeved shirt in blue, brown, and red by FACCONABLE, P6,650 Dimples: Blue dress, model’s own, Cuff with brown spikes by KOKET, P1,299 . Earrings, P329, gold necklace, P580, gold necklace with blue and black stones, P580, all by PARFOIS . Shoes by TOMS, model’s own Julia: Dress by LITTLE MARC JACOBS . Cardigan by ZARA KNITWEAR, both stylist’s own . Shoes by TOMS, model’s own Joaquin: Plaid shirt by NECK & NECK, P1,750

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ACE HARDWARE Since 1997, Ace Hardware has been providing customers with the ultimate one-stop-shop for the latest solutions for home improvement. Today, it has grown to become one of the country’s leading home hardware chains. Whether you’re renovating your home or just doing maintenance on facilities, you’re sure to find paints, sundries, electrical and plumbing products, hardware and power tools, and building materials that address your home’s needs. Alabang Town Center, Makati Annex, Mall of Asia, Market Market, Southmall, acehardware.ph for more branches

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One of the most recognized brands in baby skin care reaches out to mothers in need through a program that touches the hearts of both mothers and newborns alike Johnson and Johnson showed its commitment not just in providing the highest quality of healthcare products and services, but also in taking action to educate the mothers in caring for their newborn babies through an outreach program conducted at Dr. Jose Fabella Memorial Hospital in November 2012, where high volumes of patients come to their hospital to give birth, thus making it the “baby factory” of Manila. These patients are mostly mothers who cannot afford

private hospital services. In line with J&J’s Credo that states, “our first responsibility is to the doctors, nurses and patients, to mothers and fathers and all others who use our products and services,” the company has been sponsoring two Touch Therapy rooms at the hospital–a venue for learning, where the Fabella mothers are taught the basics of infant massage and baby bathing by midwives and pediatricians.

To ensure the safety and health of the babies, only the mildest and gentlest products from Johnson’s were used during the therapy classes. Members of the press witnessed Dr. Pinky Imperial discussing proper infant massage and bathing techniques. The press also surprised Fabella mommies with a quick, intimate conversation about the joys and struggles of motherhood, and gave them Johnson’s Newborn Kits to assist them in their journey as mothers to newborns.

1 Mothers at Fabella Hospital, caring for their newborns 2 J&J’s Kris Llanes talking to one of the nursing moms 3 Fabella Hospital mothers and nurses 4 J&J’s Ella Reyes-David 5 Dr. Anita Marasigan with J&J’s Elaine Pallasigue 6 Dr. Pinky Imperial discussing proper infant massage and bathing techniques 7 The J&J team, UMWW team, and members of the media, and bloggers 8 J&J’s Rezel Aquino 9 J&J’s Derek Sotto

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the power of nurturing Joyful ways on how you can help your child reach his full potential through events that share, enlighten, and reach out

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Exploring, Learning, Creating Mothercare Philippines launched its second Early Learning Centre (ELC) store in Level 3, Greenbelt 5. The brand prides itself in delivering quality products for the needs and well-being of each child, pregnant woman, mother, and even father. Now, it has extended its services with the addition of another ELC branch.

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ELC carries a wide variety of merchandise from leading toy brands like Fisher Price, Leap Frog, Lego, etc. Different kinds of toys catering to the specific needs of your little one are also available to discover for parents and kids alike. Sections of toys range from arts and crafts to action and adventure, baby and toddler to activity games, learning to music, and to those used for pretend play. There are hundreds of toys to aid in strengthening your bond with your child while encouraging him to learn on his own, awakening your child’s imagination, and stimulating your child’s mind and senses. Visit facebook.com/MothercarePhils. 1 ELC’s VP for Business Development, Bryan Lim, with Chef Jackie Laudico 2 Chef Jackie Laudico with kids, Kea and Orlando 3 Paolo and Rissa Mananquil Trillo and family, and Mai Kaufmann and family 4 The happy ELC team: Via, Michelle, Lois and Mariel 5 BC’s Kariz Tanya Favis with Mothercare’s Mariel Bartolome 6 A family enjoying the Arts & Crafts station 7 Sabina Favis enjoying the Bring Me/Shopping List Game

Party and Learn Brainchild of preschool teachers Katrina Guidotti-Stehmeier and Ana Romero formed in 2010, the inspiring concept led teacher Michelle Quizon-Balinghasay to join the team in 2012. The graduates of Early Childhood Education and Child Psychology aim to teach your child to enjoy instructive activities at a very young age. Depending on your child’s specific interests and needs, Tots’ Hullabaloo will plan and execute a learn-and-play area in your event venue that will help focus your child’s (and his friends’) overflowing energy into worthwhile activities. With many of the children’s parties dedicated to older kids, Tots’ Hullabaloo makes sure that your little ones will have enormous amounts of fun with party arrangements for children from 6 months to 4 years of age. You can also choose from different themes like princess, Elmo, sports, and flower power, and from various materials available like arts & crafts, homemade play dough, children’s books, and puppets, to make your event more customized and unique. Visit facebook. com/tots.hullabaloo, or call 0927 414 9099.

1 The Tots’ Hullabaloo team: Teachers Kat Guidotti-Stehmeier, Ana Romero and Michelle QuizonBalinghasay 2 The Tots’ Hullabaloo set-up consists of fun, mind stimulating teacher-made materials and enjoyable activities such as the Tinker Wall, Exploration Mat, Dreamy Tent (reading and relaxing area), Discovery Tubs, Fishing Fun, Science Table and Arts & Crafts

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We catch up with the charming (and very busy) film and TV actress, author, and fitness advocate as she talks about boarding school, her two novels, diet sodas, Abduction, and how motherhood to adorable little Easton is the most important part of her life

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ong before the Twilight series, this Prius-driving mom and Global Green supporter was already helping “promote” the vampire scene on Angel. More noteworthy, Elisabeth Rohm’s most famous on-screen role to date is of a stunning A.D.A. on Law & Order. In September 2011, she played Mrs. Harper in the film Abduction (which starred Twilight’s Taylor Lautner), and had already signed on for four more films during that year. Learn how she balances a busy life without compromising her time with her husband, Ron, and their über cute daughter, Easton.

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BC: Describe your years growing up. What were your biggest dreams as a little girl? Elisabeth: I was raised by a textbook

hippie, so my childhood was about nature, meaning the outdoors and animals. Back then, my biggest dream was to work with animals, like being a vet or something of that nature. I was all about horses, dogs, and creatures.

BC: You were born in Düsseldorf, migrated to New York, then moved to Connecticut, then finally to Southern California. E: I really didn’t move around a lot.

was born in Germany and moved to NY when I was 1-year old. I attended high school and college in New York, so I had a very stable childhood in New York. However, I love being bicoastal. BC: Is it true that you went to boarding school? Would you like your child to experience that as well? E: Yes, I went to boarding school in

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as Assistant District Attorney Serena Southerlyn in Law & Order. What attributes do you share with your character? E: One thing I really have in com-

mon with Serena is that I’m a guilty idealist. I refuse to be a realist, and I expect the best from the human race. Also, I like to keep my personal life outside of the office, which is why you won’t find me in the weeklies very often.

BC: What is your favorite memory about the series? E: The morning of my last day

of shooting, I rolled into the studio with my usual Diet Coke in hand— which is such a disgusting habit that I no longer partake in—and when I looked up, every single person on the stage, about 100 people, were wearing blond wigs and holding Diet Cokes. (Laughs) It made me realize that I had an addiction that I needed to break. I have become more of a health nut since then. BC: Your mother was scriptwriter Lisa Loverde. How has she inspired you as a writer yourself? E: My mother was an incredible

writer, a deep intellectual, and a very spiritual person. Because she was such a wonderful writer and even more importantly, person—I am influenced by her, every second of every day. I continue to keep up with my writing in memory of her. ol? Absolutely not, because I don’t want to lose a single minute with her. BC: How was your foray into acting like? What was the biggest challenge of breaking into the industry? E: I don’t want to give the impres-

sion that it was easy because I have certainly worked very hard in my career, but it kind of just came to me. I got an acting job right out of college on One Life to Live and then it just snowballed from there. It tau-

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BC: Can you tell us more about your novels, Nerissa and Desire? E: Desire which is about a young

ght me an important lesson in life, and that is if you’re experiencing a lot of resistance, to me that’s a sign. It’s like a relationship—if you’re in a relationship and you’re constantly fighting with someone, that’s a sign that it’s not meant to be—it’s the same thing with acting. Luckily for me, acting just came naturally, and I have worked extremely hard to be successful in this business.

pediatrician who goes to Haiti to find the nanny who raised her as a child in New Orleans. Nerissa is available now on Amazon.com and tells the story of a young female painter struggling under oppression in Scotland. I’m interested mostly in coming-ofage stories about strong women and female empowerment.

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“I don’t know what the best part of being a mother is, but I do know that it is the most important part of my life.”

2011, including the highly-anticipated Abduction which came out September that year. What did you love most about this project? E: The part of working on this film

that I anticipated the most was just being a part of this movie that the brilliant John Singleton has crafted. He’s such a genius! BC: You’re into horseback riding. How do you manage being a mom while leading an active lifestyle? E: I have to say I have definitely side-

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outside of motherhood and working. I barely have time for anything else. I’m lucky if I make it to my gym (that I am an investor in), Circuit Works, in Brentwood, CA.

add vegetables to make it healthy. I’ve noticed that as I kept giving them to her, she eventually gave in and came around—so you just can’t give up.

BC: You reportedly love to cook. How important is it to you as a mother to properly guide your daughter to have better food choices? E: I got a great piece of advice when

BC: What is your no-fail recipe? E: Grilling! It’s fun, it feels

I first started struggling with Easton’s selective food choices, and that was to tirelessly introduce on a daily basis what she previously rejected. For example, my daughter loves pasta with butter, and I obviously want to

like a party, you get to eat outside, the kids love corn, and you can grill anything and make it a thousand times tastier. BC: Can you tell us more about your daughter’s name, “Easton August Anthony”? E: We were going to name her

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could agree on. Then, I had a dream: in the dream, I picked her up from my best friend, actress Tasha Smith’s house. I said to Tasha, “How was she?” and she said “She was great,” but laughing she said, “She wouldn’t let me call her “Grace,” she told me I had to call her “Easton” all weekend.” So I said, “Grace! Mommy’s here!” and she wouldn’t turn around, so I said it again and she still wouldn’t turn around. So then I said, “Easton! Mommy’s here!” and she finally turned around. In the morning I shared

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my dream with my family, and we all decided it was fate. BC: How do you and your husband, Ron Anthony Wooster divide parenting duties? E: We’re really harmonious in our

parenting styles. We are very consistent and involved. We don’t have a nanny anymore, so we’re doing it by ourselves now. Ron’s better at disciplining her, I’m the spoiler. I’d rather take her for a good time and shopping than correct her.

BC: What do you enjoy shopping for the most for your daughter? E: Pretty much anything. (Laughs)

I’m a guilty clothes and shoes whore. I love buying toys and games too, but I usually tend to take her outside for more outdoor activities.

BC: What are your favorite clothing and shoe brands for you and your daughter? E: Ummm, that’s a good one. (Laughs)

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E L I S A B E TH R OH M I love Ralph Lauren, Lacoste, and Juicy [Couture]. Those are some of the mom and kids brands that I enjoy. BC: What are your favorite makeup brands? Any beauty regimen you would like share? E: I’m very specific on the brands

that I use. My favorite body lotion is from a company called Olivina. My favorite facial product brand is a small company in Los Angeles called Raya. Also, Yes to Carrots, Burt’s Bees, and Aveeno are three of my favorite products that I love to share with Easton.

BC: You are a fitness advocate and are known to lift weights. How else do you stay so toned? E: I do a lot of yoga. My regimen

usually includes doing three days of yoga, and the rest of the days, I do circuit works. I also have a personal trainer, Raphael Verela, who is also the creator of Circuit Works. Also, I’m big on raw foods and juicing, and every couple of months, I do a cleanse.

BC: Any funny stories about being a first-time mom? E: The whole journey of being a mom

is funny because there’s no preparation, and you never have all the answers. It reminds me of that quote that says: “Life is what happens when you’re busy making plans.” Nothing teaches you the meaning of this quote better than motherhood.

BC: What are the best things about being a mother? E: I don’t know what the best part

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“The whole journey of being a mom is funny because there’s no preparation, and you never have all the answers. It reminds me of that quote that says: ‘Life is what happens when you’re busy making plans.’ Nothing teaches you the meaning of this quote better than motherhood. ”

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