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HOLLYWOOD cover exclusive: A lookback at Soleil Moon Frye’s Venice Beach home, with her two daughters, Poet and Jagger

rachel Uchitel An intimate interview with the former party girl from New York turned mom kids summer fashion Chic shopping ideas for the hot months

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The stunning actress and handsome mayor talk about life changes with their adorable daughter, Amanda

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10 10 ray of light The fine print on the 7 things to know about sun protection

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A short sea expedition with your little ones seems like an adventure, but are ye sea-worthy?

18 camp rocks BC’s simple guide to a more successful camp out with the brood. Always pays to be prepared 26 travel and leisure Books, movies, apps and more to take you away for the start and remainder of the summer vacay 32 newborn checklist The coming of a tiny tot is always exciting. Leave the guesswork to the newbies when it comes to this newborn shopping guide 42 a solemn affair Because the season dictates fashion, here are some ensembles that will take your girls in style through the fervent festivities

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70 52 politics aside Mayor Patrick Meneses and Ara Mina are head over heels on their new passion in life: their baby girl, Amanda Gabrielle

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70 celestial mom Growing up in the ‘80s, “Punky Brewster” star, Soleil Moon Frye was an icon to many little girsl.

Now, here’s a lookback at the former Hollywood child star in absolute happy chaos 92 domestic bliss Rachel Uchitel bounces back from her party girl, controversial past and into one of the most hands-on moms we’ve come across

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ON THE COVER: ara mina and patrick meneses with daughter, amanda

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With Ara Mina, Patrick Meneses, and their baby girl, Amanda; with Hollywood actress, soleil moon frye and eldest daughter, Poet

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oo bad in this century we can no longer abbreviate the years into the ‘70s or whatnot, because “Summer of ‘69” by Bryan Adams is one of my all-time favorite nostalgic songs. It reminds me of high school and college, first loves, heartbreaks, climbing aratiles trees with my playmates, hanging out at the mall, trips to Baguio (and more times to Maya-Maya at my friends’ summer home), laughing ‘til I cried with my girlies, cheerleading, dancing on a disco ledge, trying out my first Long Island iced tea (and realizing there was hardly any iced tea in it), and so on. Ahhh… good, simple times.

Fast track to February 2015, and I am extremely backlogged on work while nursing a sick husband who’s on bedrest while my two girls (you’ll see them in our fashion story here called, “A Solemn Affair”) stay with him in the nursery. The AC is coldest in the baby’s room, so it is where the sick husband needs to be stationed. I’m typing this note beside my beloved 2-year old boy who’s knocked out after a too-long day, where he was either cranky, sleepy, or hungry—or all of the above. Not to mention, two furry creatures doze by my feet, just because they are my minions. (Note: Dear God, please don’t let them bark at something inane now and wake Mathis).

The sun blazes for some parts of the day already, and it’s hardly even the summer months. I feel like I am menopausal at 40, because my temper glares as hot as the midday sun, and I’ve got this sunspot on my right cheek to show for it. Good, simple times?

Scarcely. However, when I think about it—do I really hanker back to those days when life was so carefree?

I often yearn for a free hour to have my nails done, and yet when I hear my kids call out to me, I come running. My fear is to miss out on anything that they might do without me—they are my reasons for living. It was seeing my firstborn that this stanza actually came to life for me: “Oh, and when you held my hand

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I knew that it was now or never Those were the best days of my life” Perhaps it was from being the product of growing up in a single parent environment that my ‘summers of ’69’ were comprised mostly of things I did with friends—now I am given the opportunity to change that when it comes to my children. Memories with their friends, they’ll have that for sure, but hopefully I can get in on the action somehow.

These are the best days of my life, thanks to my little kinfolk—and I hope to be along for the ride with my three.

Anyway, I do hope you enjoy this special double cover with two amazing families on it. Soleil Moon Frye of “Punky Brewster” fame has become a friend to me, and because of her I will always have special reminisces of living in Los Angeles—going on playdates and attending her kids’ parties at their home. Soleil has always been someone I look up to for her business sense and crafty-ness—and now that her third cover for BC is overdue, I decided to do a lookback to when it was just her two daughters, Poet and Jagger. Here, we did the photo shoot at their lovely home in Venice Beach, CA.

Here in Manila, it was also a genuine pleasure getting to know actress Ara Mina and Mayor Patrick Meneses in their beautiful abode north of Manila. The two have yet to make their union official, but already they look like an old married couple caring for their daughter, Mandy—meant in the best sense of the phrase. They look comfortable and in-love with each other, and the way they playfully argue is endearing to witness.

I also wanted to invite you all to BC’s first Easter Funday event. This will also mark the official launch of our BC Studio Café at Commercenter Mall in Alabang, which is the physical home of our magazine where you can dine, interact with like-minded parents, shop a bit, and have your family photos taken by our team. Here’s hoping to meet you guys in April!

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hen you think you already know the ins and outs of sunscreen – here come new findings and information on what it really does to your skin, why you should use it, and when you need it most.Apart from the universal knowledge on SPF numbers, there is more than meets the eye about the sun and its effects that you should consider before choosing your next sunscreen product.

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Read up on the 7 things that will change how you view, choose,and use your sunscreen product.

gists worldwide recommend the daily use of sunscreen.

idative damaging effects such as DNA damage, premature aging and higher risks of skin cancer. However, did you know that besides UV radiation, the sun also produces Infrared (IR) radiation thattriggers collagen degradation which leads to wrinkles, sagging and adverse heat effects?

2. UV filters in make-up are not enough for daily protection. Sun-

4. Generally, SPF labels mainly measure UVB protection only. Users of reg-

1. Sunscreen is not only intended for summer or at the beach. Dermatolo-

screen in cosmetics normally protects your skin against one type of UV radiation only. Plus, makeup products are not applied on regular intervals within the day, so you don’t really get the right level of sun protection stated on the pack.

3. It is known that there are 2 kinds of UV radiation from the sun that affect

your skin: UVB, which mainly affects the outer layers of the skin and known to be the main cause of sunburns; and UVA radiation which penetrates deeper into the skin with long-term and ox-

ular sunscreen products that only offer SPF may not necessarily burn their skin when exposed under the sun, but may still get deeper skin damage that cause a higher risk of skin cancers if their sun care product does not have UVA-filtering properties.

5. Get to know more about your SPF numbers. No sunscreen product can

guarantee 100% protection against harmful radiation. Based on regulatory bodies in Europe and Australia, an SPF of 30 already absorbs 96.7% of UVB rays, and an SPF of 50 absorbs as

much as 98.0% of UVB rays. If you’re planning to go for a sunscreen with an SPF level of 70, 80, 90 or beyond – no need! The additional effects of higher SPF at this level are almost negligible.

6. A new study made by the American Academy of Dermatologyreveals the use of broad-spectrum sunscreen with at least SPF 30 for everyday use.

Solar radiation, which

permeates the skin all the way down to the cells and DNA, resultsin cell damage, DNA mutations, premature skin aging, and eventually may lead to skin cancer.

7. For women who wear makeup every day, try this regimen. Start

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“No sunscreen product can guarantee 100% protection against harmful radiation” Science of Sunscreen

Daylong, from the makers of Cetaphil, takes a scientific approach to sunscreen protection with sun care that protects the skin not just from UVA and UVB, but also Infrared radiation. Daylong is made for daily wear, as it comes without the sticky and heavy feeling, with fast absorption, and without the white marks thanks to its unique oil-free and liposomal formulations. Dermatologist-prescribed, this clinically provenrange helps protect the skin even against premature cell damage and death, DNA damage, cellular aging, and skin and tissue aging. Daylong promises its commitment to sun care and sun protection that is daily, deep, and complete.

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10 tips for parents on boating with kids

armer weather and the end of the school year signals the start of the family boating season. Boating offers one of the best ways for parents to escape the distractions of everyday life and share their enjoyment of nature with their kids. However it’s important for parents – es-

pecially those new to boating – to follow a few basic safety steps that will help make the experience more enjoyable for the whole family.

The Sea Tow Foundation, a nonprofit organization dedicated to boating safety and education, offers the following list of 10 Tips for Boating with Kids.

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Life Jackets Save Lives. Be sure all kids on board are wearing a life jacket whenever the boat is moving.

This is not just sound advice; it’s the law. The U.S. Coast Guard requires that all children under 13 years of age must wear a Coast Guard-approved life jacket while the vessel is being operated unless the child is below deck or in an enclosed cabin.

Make sure it fits. Children’s life jackets

come in different sizes appropriate to the child’s body weight. Make sure you have one that fits each child onboard, and that the kids haven’t outgrown their life jackets over the winter. Infant life jackets have a strap that runs between the legs and extra flotation behind the head to ensure the baby floats face up at all times. Keep an extra child’s life jacket or two on hand in case a friend comes along.

Kids often complain about having to wear their life jackets on board. Get them “invested” in theirs by letting them pick it out for themselves.

Make sure the life jacket fits the child properly, both for comfort and safety’s sake. Be a good role model. If the kids see you wearing your life jacket, they’ll be more likely to wear theirs.

No Exceptions.

These basic guidelines will help you ensure everyone stays safe on board. But the most important tip for your family boating adventure is this: Have fun out there!

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Safety Starts in the Parking Lot:

Get the kids in the habit of putting on sunblock, a hat and their life jacket even before you walk down to the boat.

That way, they’ll be protected if they accidentally tumble off the dock into the water.

Keep Everything “Shipshape”: When you board the boat, have everyone stow their gear and any water toys away neatly.

Be sure there are no loose lines, mops, buckets, etc. on deck that someone might trip over.

Pre-Cruise Check: The adult who is driving the boat should give the kids a safety lesson before leaving the dock.

Make it a point to tell them that there can only be one captain, and it’s important to follow his or her orders quickly and quietly. Set a few basic rules, including: No running or sitting on the side rails, foredeck, aft sunpad or swim platform when the boat is under way.

Kids will get a bigger kick out of a boat trip if you make them your First Mate. Before you leave, show them where you’re going on a chart. While under way, have them keep a lookout for marker buoys. Teach older kids how to work the chart plotter and find your GPS

coordinates.

Radio Check: Be sure everyone knows how to operate the boat’s VHF radio in case of an emergency. A good way to practice is to call Sea Tow’s Automated Radio Check service. This free service not only shows the kids how to key the microphone and talk over the VHF, it also lets you be sure the radio is in good working order. To find the Automated Radio Check VHF channel in your boating area, visit http://www.seatow. com/boating-safety/automated-radiochecks.

Tow for Two. When you tow kids behind the boat on inflatable water toys, water skis or a wakeboard, be sure to designate an adult or teen to be the official watcher, keeping his or her eyes on the towed rider at all times. Teach the kids hand signals they can use to tell you to speed up, go slower or stop. Be sure they wear their life jackets while skiing, boarding or riding.

First Mate:

Give the kids assigned seats on the boat while docking, so that they don’t accidentally block the driver’s view. Make sure they know to keep their fingers and toes inside during this process!

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About the Sea Tow Foundation In 2007, Sea Tow Founder and CEO Capt. Joe Frohnhoefer created the Sea Tow Foundation – a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization – to promote safe boating practices.

The Foundation’s goal is to reduce accidents, fatalities and property damage related to recreational boating. For more information, please visit www.boatingsafety.com

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The lure of the great outdoors is always beckoning, and is a strong family bonding experience—especially among fathers and sons (or for the more adventurous female members). Here is a brief guide and checklist to get your brood all set up for one of the more enjoyable open-air experiences you can share with your brood.

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Set up your bags 2-3 days before, with each family member bringing a set of sleep and day wear for each night away. A good rule of thumb when it comes to packing articles of clothing and footwear is the number of nights away, plus 1 extra (for spoilage, “accidents,” etc). You also need to keep in mind what kind of activities you’ll be doing: bonfires, horseback riding, swimming, fishing, etc., so you can bring the appropriate attire. It’s better to pack the bags per family member so they can be accountable, and remember to bring footwear that can get wet (like flip flops to use when you trek to and from to take a shower—bathrooms are usually far from camp sites), towels, and a laundry bag (a semi-clear green trash bag works best since it’s waterproof, and also so you can see what’s inside and won’t mistake it for garbage).

Wear covered footwear that can protect against debris and pointed or poisonous objects you might step on.

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Aside from checking the usual tire pressure and filling up the gas tank, check headlights are working as these

moisture the bag gets from your body after sleeping.

Food and Drinks

Ice, ice, baby—cool your coolers around 6 to 8 hours before your trip with an ice block, and store only refrigerated or frozen food inside so that you won’t waste time icing warm or useless items. Block ice will melt slower—just remember to bring a pick or thick knife in case you need to break it into smaller pieces for consumption (however, it may not be sanitary enough for consumption if it was used to store food, so rinse it off with

camp away from the water and build a small fire. Another thing to remember is to keep the tent door zipped up at all times when you are in the vicinity (unless you are airing it out). Turn off your flashlight before you enter your tent, because insects such as moths are attracted to light and will follow you. Always check the kids for ticks at the end of the day when they’ve been in the woods. When roasting marshmallows and singing songs by an open fire, knowledgeable adults (never kids), should start campfires.

Grown-ups also need to watch the

“Treat the campground amenities as you’d treat your own home; be mindful of other campers who’ll be next in line. Look after your campsite, having the privilege also entails responsibility.” can double as flashlights (it is handsfree and shines brighter). See that water level is correct, so your vehicle won’t overheat. Oil change if possible, and check the battery. Make sure all your lights are working, and that emergency equipment is in check.

Tent Care

Make sure your tents are free from holes, zippers are working properly, and lay a tarp before laying down your tent, which gives the tent floor extra protection from wear and tear.

Air out sleeping bags during daytime or post-naps, so you get rid of extra

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clean water if it’s necessary to use ice for drinking). Plan and write down a menu (on paper as well, in case your phone or laptop batteries die), so you know what to buy exactly since storage will be limited, and you don’t want to leave food lying around a campsite as it may attract animals to your tents.

Think of recipes that are simple, and those with ingredients that you can reuse for other meals.

Keeping Kids Safe

It’s a bug’s life in the woods! Insects will definitely ‘bug’ you and the kids, as we know. It is advisable to set up

fires to make sure they are out when you’re done. Never leave a fire without anyone to watch it. And when you’re exploring outdoors, never let kids eat or drink anything unless you’re sure it’s safe. Even if streams or lakes look crystal clear, they could contain germs, and the water may not be safe to drink. Bring bottled water. Likewise, never let kids eat wild fruits. Some are poisonous and it may be tough to decipher which are safe.

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lamping? There is nothing quite as enjoyable as getting outdoors, sleeping under the stars and soaking up the very best that Mother Nature has to offer. The Pod Elite Tent, the revolutionary British tent manufacturer which brought us interconnecting tents that has taken traditional camping to a whole new level by providing maximized space, ease, safety, and accessibility. The modular tents can be connected by a series of walkways, which allow campers to create a wonderfully social living experience. Imagine all the possibilities. A kitchen area? Storytelling with kids under the moonlight? Game on.

near or try to feed a strange animal.

Games (Day and Night)

One great game for kids during daytime, is the scavenger hunt—the great outdoors is the perfect place to hold one. Have players collect items like cones, different kinds of leaves, snail shells, rocks of certain colors, or give everyone a camera and conduct a photo scavenger hunt. Each player should stick to an assigned buddy or small group. Compasses and watches are useful, plus cloth or plastic bags to store the finds, and small clipboards with pens or pencils attached by string to keep track of checklists. Have the unsuccessful team roast and serve the marshmallows at the fire at night.

When the sun is down and it’s already dark, a campfire story contest is a wonderful way to cap the night.Kids are natural story-tellers, and will get a serious kick out of hearing you or your spouse make up tales. If you can’t think of anything, just dig up family folklore or share anecdotes about your

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kids when they were babies or toddlers. You can also play games where one person says a sentence and the next person continues it.

First Aid Kit for Camp

Collect basic bandage items such as for wrapping sprains, sterile gauze, rolls, and pads, adhesive bandages (just keep in mind to have different sizes). Include items to help sterilize wounds and prevent infection (water should do the trick), and prepare sprays and creams in case of minor burns and itch. Keep basic over-thecounter medications to relieve minor headaches, stomachache, and allergies. Include simple medical instruments and tools like safety pins, tweezers, and scissors. Keep everything in a Ziploc or plastic bag to avoid wetting sterile meds, and label the keepers for easy access. Keep in mind to have an ample amount for each family member.

Camp Etiquette

Be considerate when turning up to the camping spot because you do not want to be a pest to others. Treat the campground amenities as you’d treat your own home; be mindful of other campers who’ll be next in line.

Look after your campsite, having the privilege also entails responsibility. Be friendly and greet other campers, it’s a form of being polite. If cooking food that has a particularly strong odor, be thoughtful of your neighbors. If there is a central cooking place, choose that over cooking near other tents, to keep the strong odors away. Explain to children where the invisible borders of your campsite end, so that they don’t cross over into neighboring campsites. Keep noise to a minimum; keep in mind the other camper you do not want to attract conflict. Use a flashlight when you walk, but cover it up with your hand so only a small, diluted half-circle of light can come out.

Leave your campsite as you found it, cleaner even. Going back to the first rule, be considerate to others. bc

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“Good healthy habits are key to proper oral hygiene in children.

Parents can ensure this by modeling proper hygiene and teaching their children to care for their smiles, which will help prevent potential problems down the road.”

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ental care is the most prevalent unmet health need of children in the United States. Because of this, tooth decay is the single most common chronic disease of childhood in the U.S. The good news is that it’s entirely preventable. Great Expressions Dental Centers (GEDC) in New York is providing parents with simple ways to lead their children to good, healthy oral hygiene.

“Good healthy habits are key to proper oral hygiene in children,” said Dr. Paul Kim. “Parents can ensure this by modeling proper hygiene and teaching their children to care for their smiles, which will help prevent potential problems down the road.”

Following are some important tips to help your children maintain optimal dental health:

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tips to maintain optimal dental health Teach proper brushing and break bad habits. While your child is young, it is key to introduce healthy habits when it comes to their teeth. At 3 years old, begin teaching them how to brush their teeth using only a pea-sized amount of fluoride toothpaste. Try to break thumb-sucking and pacifier habits by age 4.

Regular visits with your dentist. The first visit to the dentist

should happen before a child’s first birthday, so that parents can learn how to go about cleaning your child’s teeth and to ward off the dangers from bedtime bottles and sippy cups that contain milk or juice. Healthy gums lead to healthy teeth. By the time your child is 5, dentist visits should be happening every 6 months.

Set a good example. Children are known to mimic, so make sure you are setting a good example of good dental hygiene by letting your children see you brush and floss daily. Turn it into something special you do together by brushing to your favorite song or creating a tooth-brushing dance.

Brush and floss daily. As soon as two teeth touch, it is important that children brush their teeth twice a day and floss.

Brushing two to three times a day and flossing one time a day is critical to remove the bacteria that causes bad breath, gingivitis and cavities.

Limit snacking and eat healthy. Bacteria are created by the acid in sugary and starchy foods that slowly destroys teeth enamel. Every time those foods are consumed, an acid bath starts, which lasts 15 minutes. Give your mouth a break in between meals, which includes not sipping on milk or juice.

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Orthodontics is more than just straightening teeth. Children grow quickly and orthodontists are trained to detect problems with the growth and development of the teeth and jaw. The American Association of Orthodontics recommends an orthodontic evaluation by seven years old.

Orthodontic evaluation.

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side from teaching your children proper dental hygiene at a young age, us parents can also start taking a proactive approach in caring for our children’s teeth and gums from birth. the In fact, the Philippine Pediatric Dental Society recommends that even as babies, we must clean our children’s gums after every breast- or bottle-feeding to avoid the proliferation of bacteria in the baby’s mouth. There are several tooth and gum wipes available in the market today, giving us parents a more convenient alternative to damp cloth.

The PPDS also recommends that us parents give psychological support when it comes to visiting the dentist (and make sure that your doctor is a trusted professional who is great with children), because one bad experience may traumatize your child and make him refuse to go back to the dentist for regular check ups. Try to make the trip to the dentist as enjoyable as possible and help make it a positive experience that your child can smile about. bc

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Keri Gans, spokesperson for the American Dietetic Association, shares that 10 easy steps that, “isn’t about creating unrealistic, unsustainable rules— like counting calories, restricting choices, or eliminating entire food groups. It’s about turning smart habits into second nature.” As parents, every bit of change creates an impact on our bodies, so we like realistic goals that won’t get in the way of taking care of our family and ourselves.

Lonely Planet is touted as, “The world’s leading travel guide publisher,” and for good reason. This exciting book showcases the world’s most exciting adventures you can take on by “boot, pedal, or paddle to awe-inspiring natural spectacles and on adrenalin-charged feats of endeavor.” If you were looking for the definitive guide to your next summer destination and activities, here’s one at your fingertips.

You Only Live Once (YOLO!) will remind us how fleeting life is, with suggestions for life experiences for every age. “Anyone can sleep in a castle, sail a ship, make a music pilgrimage, and so much more...They will reignite long-forgotten desires—to learn an instrument or a language—or spark new and unexpected ambitions: why shouldn’t you move to Provence for a year?” Excuse us, we’re already heading out the door.

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You Only Live Once by Lonely Planet Kids P1499

LOCAL TRAVEL GUIDE: Exciting Philippines

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Before jumping on a plane to discover new countries, why not discover our exotic and gorgeous one? With over 100 photographs of destinations, people, festivals, this book shows us that we are truly blessed to call this country our home.

International chef and TV personality, Pete Evans, takes a delicious approach to making gluten-free, grain-free, and dairyfree meals that are restaurant quality, but effortless for us home cooks. More people are taking to the health benefits of the Paleo lifestyle by removing processed and sugary foods from their diet, and instead consume a high quality of proteins and fats, fresh vegetables and fruits, nuts and seeds.

In The Paleo Chef, Chef Evans provides more than 100 recipes for enjoyable food that is filling, yummy, and good for you.

“Thinner This Year” is the brainchild of Chris Crowley, the co-author of “Younger Next Year,” together with Jen Sacheck, a nutritionist and fitness expert from Tufts University, carve out a weight-loss plan that will have readers losing up to 25 pounds in the first 6 months—and keep the weight off for life. It teaches us to: resist added-fat, added-sugar concoctions created by the food industry; skip the supplements; pile on fruits and vegetables to your heart’s content, but it’s OK to eat lean meats, too. And exercise!”

Itake camera kit iphone 5 case by Mindconcept, P488 . Sheep passport holder by DQ & Co, P500 . Book bag set vintage England, P350 . Canister and travel stamp set, P225 . VW van notebook, P260 (All books and items availabe at Fully Booked) bcmedia.ph

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An update on the story of “Cinderella” following the (mis)fortunes of Ella (Lily James) whose merchant father takes on a new wife after her mother’s passing. Willing to support her father, Ella welcomes her new stepmother (Cate Blanchett) and her two daughters Anastasia (Holliday Grainger) and Drisella (Sophie McShera) into the family home. However, Ella’s father suddenly passes away, and she is relegated to becoming a servant girl covered in ashes for her jealous and unkind new mother and sisters. One day, Ella meets Kit in the forest, a handsome stranger posing as a palace apprentice—not knowing he is actually the prince (Richard Madden). She feels that they are kindred souls. The palace sends out an invitation for all maidens to attend a ball, where Ella hopes to chance upon Kit. Her stepmother prohibits her from going, and rips her dress into pieces. This is where a kindly beggar woman (Helena Bonham-Carter) steps into Cinderella’s life to change it forever.

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Tris (Shailene Woodley) now searches for allies and answers in the dystopian ruins of a futuristic Chicago. Tris and Four (Theo James) are now on the run, hunted by Jeanine (Kate Winslet), the head of the Erudite elite. Tris and Four must discover what Tris’ family sacrificed their lives to protect, and why the Erudite leaders will do anything to stop them.

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Earth is taken over by the Boov—an alien race in search of a new place to call home—and the humans are immediately relocated. One resourceful girl, Tip (voiced by Rihanna), manages to elude seizure, and finds herself as the unplanned accomplice of a banished Boov named Oh (Jim Parsons). (All ages, Animation, Comedy, Sci-Fi, 3D)

Based on a true story—an aging rock star, Danny Collins (Al Pacino), decides to change his hard partying lifestyle when his manager (Christopher Plummer) discovers a 40-year old undelivered letter written to Danny by the great John Lennon. Because of this letter, he reconnects with his family, and begins the second act of his life. (Drama, Family)

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Road trip APPS During the season of travel, here are some cool apps for the, “Are we there yets?”

Dumb Ways to Die 2: The Games (Free)

Still boasting of the same adorable illustrations and fun-packed little games, this shriek-inducing app will now have you jump through electric hurdles, lightning pole vault, rocket ski jump, and more.

Music We Love These love songs are fun and uplifting, which is why we’re playing them loud in anticipation for spring.

“Uptown Funk” by Mark Ronson feat. Bruno Mars

Moms, take heed. It is impossible not to dance to the beat of Mars’ new song. Drop hints to your Zumba teacher to hopefully dance to this on your next lesson.

“Today” by Willamette Stone

Crossy Road Endless Arcade (Free)

The adorable chicken in this arcade game can be your child’s best friend on those car trips. Why did the chicken cross the road? Well, you can certainly find out together because you’ll be crossing the streets with it.

Toca Town (US$2.99)

Kids as young as 3 can buy groceries, cook lunch, build a sand castle, swim in the pond in this advertising-free app with open game play and child-friendly interface. Kind of like going back to nature, in a digital way.

MEANINGFUL VIDEOS

Make the most of your everyday with this feel good song from the tearjerker, If I Stay. It’s an inspiring tune to make your kids listen to about being grateful for life, right now.

“Unapologetic B**tch” by Madonna

(Adult/Profane Language) Madonna strikes hit after hit in her Rebel Heart album, but we recommend this song to empower those of you who have had enough from your partners in life and need to move on.

“Never Seen Anything Quite Like You” by The Script

Perfect for that first dance as husband and wife, those of you who have been with your better halves for a long time will hark back to memories from your early days together. Sigh.

These short clips are entertaining and fun to share with the whole family.

Kids on LOVE!

One of the most significant events in an animal’s life is the journey to have a family and find a perfect home. Be inspired with this VideoScribe on the different perspective of animals on devotion against the odds.

Teaching Kids About Charity

Know the secret to a healthy and long-term relationship with the help of this video from older couples who gave pieces of advice about life and love based on their own experiences.

Kids Talk About True Love

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SM KIds This #summer, SM Kids is heating up children’s closets with a classic and stylish collection of blues, colors, prints, and more. Available in all SM department stores, SM Kids boasts of chic ensembles at a price point that won’t break the bank, coupled with on-trend designs and quality fabric that lasts. facebook.com/SMkidsfashion, smkidsfashion.tumblr.com/

TOMs Toms’ “One for One” movement reminds us how far a simple choice of shoes can travel. With every pair of shoes you purchase, Giving Partners travel around the country to deliver a new pair of shoes for a child in need. Toms has designs ranging from rugged to refined, to classic to casual, which serve as a testament to style and expression. facebook.com/TOMSphilippines, twitter.com/TOMSphilippines, @tomsphilippines

Mustela Since the 1950’s, Mustela has been providing the best in child and mother skincare. It is committed to giving a lifetime of love, care, and protection with each product that is highly-formulated by healthcare professionals. Mustela products have natural ingredients that are Bisphenol A (BPA-) and phthalatefree, which are proven safe and effective for expectant moms and babies. mustela.ph

J&J Research has shown that bath time is a great opportunity to stimulate baby’s senses because it is a time when babies’ senses are very much alive.

Further studies prove that multisensory stimulation can strongly aid in promoting happy and healthy baby development. With this in mind, Johnson’s ® paves the way for a brighter future for Filipino babies by educating parents on the role of sensorial stimulation during the bath time ritual, which can lead to happy, healthy baby development.

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Darlington wooden brown antique dresser, P17,999 .

Star picture frame by Baby K bymleeneklass (set of 2), P849 . “My First Bear” pink bear with scarf, P999 . Porcupine night light by, P1,999 . Duck stuffed toy, P849 . Octopus activity toy, P849 . Fabric storage basket with carry handles in blue with white boats, P1,699 . “My First Bear” blue bear with gingham scarf (inside Moses basket), P999 . Pink dog rug (on floor), P899 . Jamestown brown wooden crib (beddings not included), P16,999. All items available at Mothercare

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Crib accessory rattle in nautical and sea animals by Mothercare, P849

The baby’s room is one of the most exciting parts of the home to build, because so much love and thought (and budget!) is allotted into it. Think of your color scheme and theme that can grow with the baby.

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If you have extra cash, it’s nice to have a side table for the baby’s changing essentials, such as cotton balls, wipes, cotton buds, and the like. Keep a spare laundry or storage basket within your reach, so you can just fling dirty clothes or toys inside (and not lose your mind with the neverending clutter)

Tree bedside table by Mothercare, P3,499 . All We Know baby cotton wool balls by Mothercare, P99 . Baby head-to-toe wash (fragrance- and paraben-free, hypoallergenic) by Cycles Sensitive, P179 . All We Know fragranced baby wipes by Mothercare, P199 . Pronto changing station by Skip Hop, P1,395 . All We Know baby nappy sacks by Mothercare, P199 . All We Know baby cotton buds by Mothercare, P99 . Skin freshener (no parabens, phthalate, phenoxyethanol)

by Mustela, P450 . Storage or laundry basket by Baby K bymleeneklass from Mothercare, P1,299

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Manual breast pump by Philips Avent, P5,999.75 . SwaddlePod

by Summer, P699.75 . Hotdog pillow by Bloom, P99.75 . Feeding Pod by Yoomi, P699.75 . EZ clean premium bottle brush by Nanny Essential, P159.75 . Wide neck feeding bottle (set of 3) by Chicco, P849.75. All items available at Baby Company stores

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When baby is bigger, look for a tub that you can use until he or she is a toddler.

Choose one with a base plug for easier emptying of water. Just remember the #1 rule when bathing a child: Never leave them unattended, even for a minute.

Wee Woodlands Crochet Bin (Pink Deer), land of Nod, $45, landofnod.com

Bath tub set, P2,549 . Cuddle and dry robe, P1,099 . All We Know baby shampoo (300 ml), P249 . 2-in-1 conditioning shampoo (250 ml), P349 . All We Know baby lotion 300 ml, P249 . 3 natural baby sponges, P749 . Pink shampoo rinse cup, P599.

All items available at Mothercare STORES . Soothing body wash (8 oz), $12 by Noodle and Boo, noodleandboo.com

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Youmi baby carrier by Safety 1st, P1,899.75 . Celeb diaper bag by Okiedog P3,199.75 . Baby wipes

by Pigeon P79.75 . Hitch pacifier clip (blue and orange) by Boon, P399.75 . Bee baby cutie soft pillow, P299.75. All items available at baby company stores

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Breastfeeding shawl in gray by Innosense, P1,299 . Navy maternity sleeveless top by Blooming Marvelous, P1,699 . Jeggings in treasure by Blooming Marvelous, P1,699 . Binder (Kourtney Kardashian collection) by Belly Bandit, P3,295 .Expandable diaper bag in versa black by Skip Hop, P3,195. All items available at Mothercare stores

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nights to remember Here’s a nursery design option that will take your child well into toddler-hood and older

2-in-1 Projection mobile by Fisher-Price, P4,799.75 . Digital baby monitor by Tomy, P3,999.75 . Crib by Cuddlebug Solana, P17,999.75 . Mosquito net by Bloom, P1,199.75 . Fitted sheet by Owen, P799.75 . Bumper guard by Bloom, P1,699.75 .

Mosquito net holder by Bloom, P649.75 . Tieside shirt by Obi, P299.75 . Feeding bottle

by Pigeon, P1,099.75 Star . Musical box by Chicco, P799.75 . 3-piece cot set by Bloom, P1,999.75. All items available at baby company stores

Robot bedtime buddy nightlight, land of Nod, $39, landofnod.com

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Bouncer in animal prints

by Bright Start, P1,699.75 . Cortina Sedona travel system (includes car seat with base) by Chicco, P24,999.75. All items available at baby company stores

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mobile devices Stimulating baby’s vision has never been more chic and available. You can now find practically any color palette to match your nursery. Wall art doesn’t have to be baby-ish.

Find art that is cool enough for your kid to keep around, maybe even until college?

Cottontail Mobile, $49 . Yeti Wall Art, $109, both from land of Nod, landofnod.com bcmedia.ph

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A Solemn Season This Holy Week, simple and classy dressing is a family affair to remember P hoto g raphs and sty l in g by k a r iz t a n y a f a v is A dditiona l photo g raphs by p a t r i c k d i m a pilis A ssisted by a r th c a m a c ho shot on l ocation at b a l a i is a b e l , t a lis a y, b a t a n g a s

(L): White hat by Fore Axel and Hudson . Knit tunic by Right Bank Babies, P3,500, both from BC Studio Cafe . Glitter slip-ons with flower

by Baby Fashionistas, P1,099, babyfashionistas.com (R): Classic dress with collar by Baby Fashionistas, P1,399, babyfashionistas.com . Nova red sandals by livie & luca, livieandluca.com

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A Solemn Season White dress by Forever 21 Girls; Blue mary janes with flower appliques

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Kendra: White cardigan,

by Right Bank Babies .

Her Collection navy dress

by Elle, P1,499.75 . Glitter star tulle skirt by H&M, P699 . Merryl black shoes

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(Front): Hooded dress by urban elk, BC Studio Cafe; Blue mary janes by umi, BC Studio Cafe (Back): Striped dress with baby pink ribbon on neckline by Baby Fashionistas, babyfashionistas.com

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(L): White panda sweater by H&M, P1,199 . Dress by Agatha Ruiz dela Prada .

Flip-flops by Havaianas (R): White hat by H&M . Purple long-sleeved dress by DKNY .

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Gray sweater (on shoulders) by Forever 21 Girls . Gray and white striped dress with parrot prints

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Herd of Deer dress by Djaknemala, P1,620, chichimary.com . Rockstud peeptoe sandals in gold by Baby Fashionistas, P1,199, babyfashionistas.com

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(L): White hat by Fore Axel and Hudson, BC Studio Cafe . Tunic

by Stella Cove, stellacove. com . Gold glitter slip-ons by Baby Fashionistas, P1,199, babyfashionistas.com (R): Leopard print dress by Baby Fashionistas, P500, babyfashionistas.com

Denise: Green laced dress by CHARINA SARTE, stylist’s own .

Necklace by SM ACCESSORIES . Floral wedge shoes by ALDO, P4,295 Alejandro: Checkered polo by BOBINETTE . Blue denim pants by DIESEL, both stylist’s own . White shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS, P1,299

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Mayor Patrick Meneses and actress Ara Mina seem like a perfect match. They have that “old couple� vibe, add to that the wonderful fact that they bore a beautiful daughter, Amanda Gabrielle, just last December. The domesticated parents give us a tour of their home, and a glimpse of their new life together P hoto g raphs , I ntervie w , sty l in g , and Words

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Coco: Kaleidoscope dress by ANITA G., $36, anitag. com . Peacock Mary Janes by LIVIE & LUCA, livieandluca.com

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successful in their own careers, it is a known fact that both come from political lineages. Patrick hails from the Meneses clan of Bulacan, where he now serves as its mayor. Ara Mina (Hazel Reyes, in real life—her screen name is a combination of her two sisters’ monikers, with the “Ara” part belonging to another actress, Ara Cristine Reyes) was surprised to learn in her teens that her father is former congressman, Chuck Mathay, eldest son of Ismael “Mel” Mathay, who was the mayor of Quezon City from 19922001.

The couple met in 2011 through a mutual friend, one of Patrick’s best buddies, if we are to be specific, who was Ara’s boyfriend at the time. When they first met, both were not interested in one another, although Ara playfully teases Patrick that he admitted to finding her attractive in one of the interviews they’ve done. She recalls not wanting to get close to him for some reason, and was even tasked to find a date for their usual “third wheel.”

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(Ara): Black Sleeveless Dress

by H&M, P2,990 . Shoes and jewelry, model’s own (Patrick): Checkered oxford weave by Marks & Spencer, P2,450 .

Pants and shoes, model’s own (Amanda): Leopard print dress with matching bonnet in cream by Crib Couture (SM cares) by SM KIDS, P349.75 . Silver glimmer mary jane shoes by TOMS P2,190

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As fate would have it though, Patrick relates, “Everything went on the rocks with them and then, they broke it off.

And I had nothing to do with it.” Ara says that Patrick became her shoulder to cry on, and they would do group activities together, like Bikram Yoga— which they will soon get back on now that the baby is getting bigger.

It’s another journey for us. We are learning a lot along the way because we are new parents.

– Ara, on what she’s excited for

The couple was together for 3 years before deciding to get pregnant. They wanted to find out right away what the gender was, and even when the 3D ultrasound confirmed that the baby was a girl, Patrick jokes that he was banking on the 5% chance that the result was inaccurate, and that they were going to have a son. Ara gave birth to baby girl Amanda last December 17, 2014, and as you can tell from our photos, her father is so obviously smitten that any and all hopes of having a son for a firstborn are erased.

As far as pregnancy, she had quite a pleasant experience—just your typical food cravings (which Patrick more than happily indulged in with her), and not even any morning sickness. On maternity quirks, Ara only makes mention of one—she was usually irritated by what Patrick said and did. “He would pinch my cheeks and tease me about my weight, and I would get so annoyed.”

As it turns out, the baby is a copy of Patrick’s features (save for Ara’s lips), so maybe there is truth to “paglilihi” after all.

(Ara): NM Graph long-sleeved dress in bright white multicolor

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(Ara): Black silk tunic jumpsuit by H&M, P2,290 (Patrick): Long sleeved sweater in burgundy by 21 Men, P765 (Amanda): White sequined dress with pleats by Crib Couture (SM Cares) from SM BABIES, P399.75

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Why the name, “Amanda Gabrielle?”

Ara explains, “‘Amanda’ means, ‘worthy of love.’ We wanted names that started with the letter H [after “Hazel”] and P [after Patrick’s], but we didn’t like any of them. ‘Gabrielle’ means ‘Woman of God.’ We like nicknames that are a bit boyish.

For Amanda, we can use “Mandy,” and for Gabrielle, she can be “Gabbi.” The sound of ‘Amanda Gabrielle’ is beautiful.

It was supposed to be ‘Amanda Patrice’ but we didn’t like it so much at that time.

Now, a lot of people are suggesting that her second name be ‘Patrice’ because she looks like Pat. My mom calls her, Amanda Patrice, haha. Told her we can’t change it anymore, [laughs out loud].”

Ara comes from a big family on both sides of her parents’, while Patrick only has one sibling (one sadly passed away), so they want to work to having 6 children all in all. I urge them to get started, since there is a lot more work to be done. Ara mentions that I am correct, because someone already wants to adopt Mandy—Patrick’s youthful-looking mom, whom they lovingly refer to as, “Mamita.”

I ask them what their favorite moments with Amanda (Mandy) already are. Patrick readily states, “Every moment,” while Ara adds, “I love cuddling, breastfeeding, and also bath time.” Beside their dining room table is a medium-sized chest-type freezer dedicated to storing pumped breastmilk bcmedia.ph

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for Mandy. Shows you how serious Ara is on stocking up for Amanda when so that when she goes back to work in the entertainment industry, she will have more than ample milk supply. When she feeds direct from the breast though, Ara uses a nipple shield, which she also recommends to other moms for its convenience.

Mandy is already sleeping longer—Ara reports that Mandy can now snooze for 3-4 hours straight at night, unlike when she was a newborn and awake sometimes at every hour. Although the days where they can sleep in will not be for a while, adjusting their schedule to that of Amanda’s is the biggest change bcmedia.ph

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they are going through at the moment.

They advise other new folks to learn to manage their time, and make themselves responsible.

On the topic of their fears as they will watch Mandy grow up, Patrick and Ara are both scared that she will be hard-headed or rebel against them, and I agree. It can be heartbreaking when your children don’t heed your advice.

I ask whether they want their children to follow in their footsteps, professionally. Ara states, “It depends on what she wants. We won’t know what her passion is. What if she wants to become a doctor?” Patrick agrees, “Same. If her passion is to help others and to be a man for others, she can get into politics.”

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What do they love most about parenthood? Patrick discusses, “Being a parent, because it makes me ready to be one. You can never say when you’re ready to be a parent. Even our parents never thought they were ready when they had a family. It’s the best, most fulfilling feeling that you are getting ready. It’s the process of being a parent—getting ready to become one. It’s like taking exams—you thought you knew everything, but when the test paper is there, you find out there’s so much you didn’t know.” Ara declares, “It’s another journey for us. We are learning a lot along the way because we are new parents.” She adds that being a mom, “It’s the best gift. The feeling is unexplainable.” bc

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t was an afternoon filled with fun, food, and laughter as BC Magazine, along with Baby Company, threw a baby shower for lovely actress Dimples Romana. The couple was then expecting their second child, a son named Alonzo

Romeo Jose. The couple was joined by close friends and family at The Farm Resto in Bonifacio Global City where guests feasted on delicious treats from Tous les jours, and Scarsdale Artisanal Delights. Prizes from

Silly Monkey Clothing were given away to those who were game for the games.

The intimate group enjoyed charades, and hilarious jokes from actors Xian Lim and Bobby Yan, who are both, coincidentally, godfathers of the baby boy.

(L to R): Bobby Yan with daugher Anikka, Erick Del Mundo, Callie Ahmee, BC’s Kariz Favis, Xian Lim, Dimples Romana Ahmee and Boyet Ahmee Gifts from Baby Company

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& Invite you to an Easter Funday celebration on April 5, 2015 (Easter Sunday) at Commercenter Mall, Commerce Ave. corner Filinvest Ave. Filinvest Corporate City, Alabang Kids egg surprise (similar to trick or treating) Cupcake decorating Easter Egg decorating Arts & Crafts Table Chicks and Bunny Petting & Feeding Station Photo Sessions at BC Studio (2nd Floor) How to Make Your Own Bunny Doll Children’s Fashion Show (4 PM) Celebrity Autograph Signing (5 PM) Loot bags per child FOLLOW US AT: facebook.com/bcmag.ph for details

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or someone whose name includes two of the sky’s most important heavenly bodies, Soleil Moon Frye lives up to what her name suggests, providing an influential and inspirational energy to the people surrounding her. It is difficult to age gracefully when one grows up in Hollywood, triple that as a child star, but Frye is coming up roses. With collaborations with retail giant, Target, penning a memoirslash-parenting manual called “Happy Chaos” and a DIY P hoto g raphs by

events planning book, “Let’s Get This Party Started” under her belt—Soleil is still making sure her 1.4 million followers on Twitter and moonfrye. com are satiated by her either inspiring or craft-y daily messages, all the while being hands-on to her two gorgeous daughters, Poet Sienna Rose, 9, and Jagger Joseph Blue, 7, [and now mom to her third, a baby boy named Lyric Sonny Roads]–Punky’s 21st century version is more kick-ass than ever.

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aking her major television debut as the title character in the NBC series Punky Brewster in 1984, Frye served as a poster child for the ‘80s at the tender age of 8. She then made her screenwriting and directing debut at 19, with her then co-director and producer, Jason Goldberg, whom she subsequently married in 1998. The pair are now beaming parents to two smart, darling, and charming daughters, Poet Sienna Rose and Jagger Joseph Blue—both already showing signs of someday entering their parents’ celebrity realm.

While she may be better known in the entertainment industry, Soleil is more involved as a mother, wife entrepreneur, and more recently, is one of the reigning social media activists alongside her family’s good friends, Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher.

Like many other celebrities, the 33-year old took on this popular microblogging online service called Twitter to connect with her fans and supporters, and to communicate her insightful thoughts about the world. Her daily ‘tweets’ include, “A little sentence

to finish...” and “Question of the day,” which, according to Soleil, provides her with perceptive stories and responses.

But more than just a strong presence on the web, Soleil is carrying on that same vibrant spirit while taking on projects that are truly close to her heart: as an active advocate for the environment, clean living, and as a spokesperson for finding the cure for Alzheimer’s. She’s also proud to have added “designer” to her repertoire, after having launched a collaboration between retail giant Target and her store aptly called The Little Seed (thelittleseed. com)—which aims to deliver eco-friendly products for children. The trailblazing brainchild of Soleil and her business partner, Paige Goldberg, is not just a clothing and apparel line for kids, but is also a venue for parents to come together and share their experiences about motherhood and raising their families.

In a simple soirée down at her oceanside home turned architectural masterpiece in Venice Beach—again adding another facet to the busy mom—we catch up with Soleil in her second BC cover, as she shares how Punky affected her life growing up, how she sacrificed college for what she felt was a one-shot opportunity at true love, how she continues exploring her passion for home and fashion design, and is now writing a book to document it all—while cyber-dancing to ‘80s tunes with her best girls.

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Your name is very unique. Where does it come from?

I was born in the month of the sun, and my mom loved the song “Morning, Noon, and Night” –thus Soleil Moon. Soleil is French for the sun.

We heard that your mom is a kind, free-spirited lady.

My mom is amazing. She was a single mom and she did an incredible job raising us. We were always able to be kids. You can see how close my brother and I are...

How was that relationship like when you were growing up? Do you think having a sibling is important?

My brother really helped raise me, and he was my best friend. We can’t imagine growing up without that. We also had a large extended family. My mom created a summer camp out of our house, so literally all the kids in the neighborhood would come and spend the summer with us. My mom was an amazing chef, so everyone came from all over. During holidays we had chestnuts roasting on the front lawn. It was great.

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Do you plan on having more kids?

I am totally open to having more kids. We have to work on the hubby.

When I was little, I used to tell my mom that I wanted a hundred kids and she was like, “Great! Become a teacher.” I’ve always loved kids, and I live and breathe total happy chaos in our house, so I figure two or five is probably around the same thing.

Speaking of “happy chaos,” that’s the title of your book, correct?

Yes. The book just seemed like the perfect platform for me to connect with people on a deeper level, especially because I’m so involved in all these social media. It’s a cross between a memoir and a manual, and it talks about parenting, life, and family. I share stories and anecdotes from my own childhood, and I always felt like everyone got that parenting guide that I never got. It will hopefully make people laugh. I’m working with Dutton on it, which is a part of the Penguin Group.

Speaking of family, you have been honored for your work concerning Alzheimer’s, which your own dad reportedly has.

My father has Alzheimer’s, and I’ve been incredibly blessed to become a part of the Alzheimer’s Association. I’m an advocate for them, and it really means so much to me to be able to connect to people that are affected by this insidious disease. It affects millions, and for so many years we thought my dad was going crazy. He would put stick-it notes all over his house, to forget where he put his keys. He would lose his car. It started with those little things, and we didn’t realize what was happening to our family. We were torn apart as he lost his dignity and was being robbed of his character.

It was heartbreaking. I was able to go to Capitol Hill to try and raise funding because we need to do something to take care of this now, and really try to find a cure, or we’re all gonna be in a lot of trouble soon. Not to mention the economics of it alone, they’re staggering. So many other places [countries] have a plan, and we don’t.

Well said. We know your brother was also a child actor, but how did you know it was your calling as well?

When I was little, I grew up watching my brother and my dad–they were both actors. I didn’t speak until I was 3-years old but when I started, I didn’t shut up. It’s so funny because I would hide behind my mom. I’d be watching my big brother act and when I was 5, I said, “Mom I wanna give this a try.” And she answered, “Oh, you’re so shy!” I guess in front

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of the camera I was a totally different person who came alive, and it really gave me a chance to be creative. My brother and I would go and dress up. For us, any chance to make-believe was amazing, that’s why it’s so much fun.

Every girl I speak to obviously knows Punky, and young guys probably enjoyed watching you. Did you feel any pressure at all?

I love the character so much, and she is such an integral part of my upbringing.

I see some “Punky” colors behind us.

Yes! I think this line [The Little Seed for Target] is very inspired by Punky, actually.

She’s really taught people to believe in themselves, and I think during a time where people didn’t talk so much about torn families, adoption, or foster care, she was this character who literally was abandoned by her mom, was left in a shopping center, didn’t know who her father was, and then found this loving, old man and his dog in an apartment. It was a sitcom, but it was in a time when shows had so much heart.

You had Cosby, you had us and Silver Spoons, which were really groundbreaking in such a way of bringing heart to comedy.

How did you and your husband, Jason Goldberg, meet?

We worked together on a movie, and I had a huge crush on him and he totally played it cool. He knew that I was kinda fickle, so he’d be like, “Hey what’s up?” We became really good friends, and I told him about an idea of a movie that I wanted to direct and write. I pitched his company and they said, “Do it and write it in a week, maybe we’ll think about doing it.” I wrote everyday for 24 hours, and I FedEx’d my brother and he typed it up for me, dropped it off at their doorstep, and I went back to school. I was going to college in New York at the time. I got a call around a week later saying that they were going to make the movie, so I came back and we went to production and became best friends and started the movie. I never went back to school because I fell so in love with him.

Family first, right?

Yes. I also left school thinking, “When am I ever gonna get a chance to make a movie at 19 years old?” The youngest female director. It was pretty amazing.

Would you consider yourself some sort of a renegade then, and how?

I would say that whole period of living in New York–being young, wild, and fun.

And also taking on this whole adventure as parents, because you’re trying to find a balance. For me, it’s so important to try to work from home. I feel like being inspired by my work has made me a better parent. Sometimes you take these risks in life, and you go for it. I remember having a vision of literally having aisles at Target. Basically manifest destiny.

Create your destiny.

It was my dream. When I’m asked what my end goal is, I would say it’s to be able to get this to everyone across America–being able for a mom in Wisconsin, Nebraska, or Arkansas to be able to walk in some place–like a Target–and find a piece of The Little Seed in it.

In your first BC cover, you were featured on your second pregnancy and as a new mom to two kids. Can you tell us more about the girls now?

It’s so exciting! I love BC, and that I get to do something so fun with the kids, my husband, and brother. It’s more fun than ever because I get to show what I’ve been putting my love, sweat and tears into.

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We had this photo shoot at your renovated rest house in Venice Beach, a place you also have many memories at.

Yes! Well, the house has been in my family for years with my godparents, who have been a huge part of my life since I was born. My godfather passed away a few years

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ago from cancer, but before that, we got to work on this amazing idea of what we wanted the house to become. We really wanted to fill it with the things we’ve grown up having here. We turned it from a duplex into a single-family home. I have a love for architecture and design, and I became the General [when we were building it]. We don’t even wear shoes inside the white floors.

It’s crazy, but really so much of the toxicity that we bring into the house is because of what we you know have on our feet.

You should wipe your dog’s feet off too, just in case.

Yeah, I know I’m not very good at that (Laughs).

What are things your daughters say and do that crack you up?

Jagger and Poet are really into ET, Mary Poppins, and The Sound of Music.

They keep me laughing everyday. There are so many things that come out of their mouth. You just hear these things, that are so young and weird, and you’re blown away.

What physical and personality traits did they get from you and Jason?

They are total opposites. Poet is an incredible dancer. She is so elegant, graceful, and stunning in all she does. She’s dancing her way through life, and she loves having the family together–family night and feasts together, and

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being with her cousins. Jagger is the comedian, she’s constantly cracking jokes.

She’s really independent and strong. Jason would say that Poet is more like me, and Jagger is more like him–but I don’t know. I think it goes backwards.

(Soleil asks Poet) What do you think? Poet? Are you more like Mommy or Daddy?

Poet: Momma.

(Soleil asks Poet) Is Jagger more like mommy or daddy?

Poet: Daddy.

Okay, there it is.

From the source.

Being a mom, what’s your favorite activity, or an errand that you like to run?

I’d love to be able to work out, but what we like to do is we have these dance parties, which is exercise-slash-awesome family time together.

That’s at moonfrye.com, right?

Yes, every Friday, we get one on!

How do you choose the music?

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Jagger: Tilly Flower hair clip by No Slippy Hair CLIPPY, hairclippy.com Pink dress and white leggings by Baby Nay, babynay.com Freya shoes by Umi, umishoes.com

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I feel like we’re coming into this incredible time of social consciousness where the gift to help and support each other is so incredible. I think that we really are next generation activists as parents, and we have this ability to create change.

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Poet: White zip-up hoodie by Diesel Kid, dieselkid.com Cable-yoke gray sweater dress

by Juicy Couture, juicycouture.com Polkadots and striped leg warmers by Little Miss Matched, littlemissmatched.com BC’s eco-friendly tips for your home: 1. Paints and finishes emit harmful toxins into the air, making indoor air three times more polluted than outdoor air. Using non-toxic paints significantly decreases the risk for allergies and sicknesses related to chemical sensitivities.

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3. White paint is best used for kitchens and bathrooms because it gives off a sanitary look and feel, while effectively making small spaces seem larger. It can also brighten up a room even with very little lighting.

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Jagger: Pink dress with owl print by Zutano, zutano.com

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I’m a big fanatic for the ‘80s. We also do Hip-Hop, or whatever it is that we have a good time dancing to. I forgot to mention that our favorite errand is getting ice cream.

Getting ice cream? Awesome.

The girls also come with me to work and to tour, we design together. They are my test models.

And I thought, “Wait a second. You go to college to get a degree for your career, and yet you have a baby and then they’re like, “Okay. You’re Good. Go home.” I’ve read books, but I really did not know where to turn. Social media doesn’t leave me feeling so alone. In between packing lunches and doing car pool, I get to do a blog, or a microblog with just 140 characters.

What is your proudest and most humbling parenting moment?

It’s the little things. The other day, I walked into the room, and Jagger had her head on Poet’s lap, and Poet’s stroking Jagger’s hair. It melts my heart to know that I’ve done something right. Poet had her big dance recital, and I was weeping. Jagger loves horseback riding, and she gets up on that pony and she’s so into it. There’s those little moments of them sharing something, or telling each other a story.

What is the most interesting tweet you ever got?

I once asked how someone’s life has changed in a split second, and the responses–whether it was losing a family member in a car accident, or the day they got married–were unbelievable.

You have more than 1.4 million followers on Twitter. How has online media changed or revamped your career? We heard Demi Moore was the one who got you hooked into it.

It’s funny, actually. Demi sat down with me one day and she goes, “You gotta try out Twitter. It’s really cool, and it’s a great way to connect with your community.” We sat down and I did my first tweet and it was incredible. The first week, everyone really welcomed me–and within a month there was over a thousand people, and then next, a thousand more. I came up with my “Question of the day” because when I was a kid, I’d always ask people “Why?” I’ll ask the cab driver to tell me his life story, how many years he’s been married. My mom would say, “You’re seven years old!” I always had a fascination with people. I love learning and connecting with other moms. For much of my parenting, I did not understand how [when I had my first baby] I literally walked out of the hospital with just a, “Do you have a car seat? Okay you’re good to go!”

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What products would you suggest for kids and parents?

I think for clothing, The Little Seed is awesome. Probably 80% of Jagger’s stuff are hand-me-downs from Poet. I think it’s also being conscientious on how you recycle in your house, and how you turn all things into new. I love taking an old piece of furniture, and putting it into one of the kids’ rooms or nursery.

A good John Hughes movie is probably the best purchase I’ve made. I just bought ET recently. The kids won’t stop watching it. It’s old school–bring old school back.

If you could plant one little seed in the minds of America’s children, youth, and parents, what would it be?

That’s a great question. It would be to do random acts of kindness for others. I feel like we’re coming into this incredible time of social consciousness where the gift to help and support each other is so incredible. I think that we really are next generation activists as parents, and we have this ability to create change. Our little ones can teach us so much about ourselves–I learned more from my kids than I could ever learn from myself. bc

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(ON THE COVER) Jagger: Ivory sun dress with pleated bodice, fit-and-flare design and frilly hem by Little Marc Jacobs, marcjacobs.com Pants by The Little Seed for Target, Target stores or target.com Poet: Tiered tank dress by Gap, gap.com Silver Viper Laminato Mary Jane shoes by Naturino, naturino.com All blankets and hooded towels by The Little Seed for Target, Target stores or target.com

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The other day, I walked into the room, and Jagger had her head on Poet’s lap, and Poet’s stroking Jagger’s hair. It melts my heart to know that I’ve done something right. bcmedia.ph

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BC and Baby Company’s moustache-themed baby shower for Ciara Sotto and Jojo Oconer The Sottos, Oconers, and Ciara’s poledancing students were in full force for the baby shower organized

by BC Magazine and Baby Company, together with Mustela, Cycles, Tous Mustela’s Tammy Tancinco

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les Jours, Scarsdale Artisanal Delights, and Bar Dolci last February 11, 2015 at The Farm Organics BGC.

The joyous event is to celebrate the soon arrival of the couple’s first son.

Guests enjoyed a quick game of charades and a “baby” song game, while Ciara and Jojo basked in the gifts and love for their coming baby boy.

Baby Company’s Wineth Jorge, with Ciara holding the MOM Card

Ciara and Jojo with gifts from Cycles

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baby boy oconer Pauleen Luna and Vic Sotto

Jaime Rivera Joy Woolbright Sotto and husband, Q.C Councilor Gian Carlo Sotto

Rob Reyes, Ali Peek, Harvey Carey, Christie Reyes and sons

Ara Mina and Mayor Patrick Meneses with Kristine and Oyo gifts from Florsheim Kids Sotto with kids, Kiel, Ondrea, and Kaleb

Sisters Ciara, Romina Sottoand Ciara’sLara, sisters Lalaand Sotto - Antonio Romina Sotto

GMA 7 covers the event

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Sabina and Maxine Favis

Ciara with her pole dancing students

Scarsdale Artisanal Delights donuts

BC’s Kariz Favis

Rafa SiguionReyna

Edgar Martinez

Jarwin Ante

Maru Sotto

Ciara, Romina, Joy, Nina and Kristine Sotto–all moustached Charles Ang Tess Guanzon for the party!

Odie Jose & Anne Cabral

Guest playing Charades Robbie Guevara and Pichie Atelano Krissel Garduque and daughter Farah and Ching Onkingco, and Ebby Labto

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Baby Company’s Kathy Pajatin

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Chino Sotto, Cha Calixto and Martin Favis

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Macarons from Bar Dolci

Nelson “Baby” lyrics game Canlas of GMA Cycles’ Sarah Zorca

Cycles laundry detergents as prizes

Tous Les Jours pastries

B-lyn Bautista

Ed and Dinti Tuviera

Jamie Mesina

Leah Secillano

Jennifer Casimiro and Judith Bueno

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Mustela goodies for Ciara

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Chino, Gian, Wahoo, and Oyo Sotto

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It’s not easy being the purported paramour of a married man—especially one who is a huge celebrity like Tiger Woods—and whether or not that was true is certainly water under the bridge for hot momma, Rachel Uchitel. Rachel is crazy about her daughter, Wyatt, and is currently amicably divorced from her second marriage. In this rare Q&A about her family, the tight-abbed, mom-of-one known for her enviable coif can talk all day about her wideeyed darling that has turned her into mush, her party days into baby swim classes, and why she’ll always choose the salon over being a DIY blonde.

Born in Anchorage, Alaska, Rachel Uchitel’s parents started cable television in the state after moving there from New York City. Rachel thinks back and starts our telephone dialogue with a New York accent I never did catch on, even after a few years of working in the area. “I have really fond memories of my dad—going to work with him and sitting in the television studio when I was a kid. I loved that—I was totally a daddy’s girl. Growing up in Alaska—it’s such a different place— it was very cold, obviously, and it was pretty dark. I remember it very clearly because I moved when I was 4 ½ because my parents got divorced, and I moved back to New York City with my mother then. Because there was such a separation between New York and Alaska, it’s easy for me to remember

the difference.”

I ask about the untimely demise of her father to drugs when she was a teenager in relation to her aforementioned memories of him. “When I was 15 years old, my father died. He was a very successful man; he built his company way up and then ended up selling it.

He actually tried to bring the World’s Fair to Alaska and almost got it there, and spent about US$ 4 million of his own money trying to do that. He was really passionate about Anchorage, and a lot of stuff happened where he and my mom got a divorce. He built

the only sports arena that they had in Anchorage at the time—it had hockey, boxing, basketball. He started to promote boxing, and I think he was really devastated after he got turned down for the World’s Fair. He got involved with some bad people and started trying some drugs. He was never a drug user and unfortunately, he died of a cocaine overdose when he was 44 years old.”

“How did this affect you?” I blurt out. She must have been asked this a million times, but seems open to the topic. “I was at boarding school at the time, and so my headmaster had to tell

Rachel Uchitel shares via her Twitter account, @racheluchitel: Wyatt Lily chilling by the pool with friends; Rachel kissing Wyatt; All aboard: Rachel in San Francisco bcmedia.ph

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For the first time in your life, when you have a child, you realize what unconditional love is. It’s easy to talk about wanting unconditional love with your significant other or whatever, but it’s the first time you actually really experience that.

me—and that was, obviously, absolutely horrible to hear. That was a pretty horrific experience.”

Rachel is also famous for being part of the show, “Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew” [Pinsky]. She relates what she learned from it all. “That was a great experience for me. I was there for a prescription pill and love addiction, and to this day, I haven’t done any prescription pills. That was a huge eye opener for me on how bad it is to selfmedicate. I have tons of friends that have prescriptions for Xanax, Valium, and Vicodin, you know, the standards that everyone has in their closets. I’m a huge proponent of never self-medicating nor taking those drugs unless there was a real necessity to, because mixing it with the wrong thing can lead to a major accident, if not death. In terms of the love addiction, [the show] really changed my pattern of how I have relationships with a man. After the show was when I met Matt, my husband, and because of the lessons I learned and the way I changed my patterns of behavior in relationships, I was able to have a normal, healthy relationship with him that led us to finally get married and have a child. So, I attribute being on Celebrity Rehab with a lot of

good things in my life.”

On the topic of her notorious past involving a rumored involvement with golf star, Tiger Woods, and an alleged affair with actor David Boreanaz (I didn’t name names, just asked her whether she wanted to talk about past controversies) that turned many eyes in her direction, I ask if she still wanted to talk about it. “All I’ll say is, every single experience I’ve gone through in my life is a learning experience that I can use to teach my child.” Well and succinctly said, so we move on.

She passes two ultimate assessments of domesticity: the test for diaper bag completeness, and fixation with baby clothes. “I have my diaper bag right next to me. I have four diapers, wet wipes, an extra outfit, pacifier, bib, blanket. For me, Neutrogena shimmer, clear lipgloss, and wait a minute, I have Mustela lotion which smells so good… like the best, like a baby. Oh, and I have a hat for her in here.”

As far as her favorite clothing brands, she is excited about, “Janie and Jack.

I also like babyGap, to be honest with you, they have really cute stuff. And oddly enough, Target has the best

selection of baby clothes. Forget all those really expensive baby clothes because first of all, they spit up or drool on them. You know you have to change their clothes for, like, four times.”

Naturally, this wouldn’t be a complete parenting story if we didn’t delve into the embarrassing or crazy parts of the day-to-day. “There’s millions of funny things but what stands out is the first time I ventured out of the house by myself. I was just meeting a friend of mine for lunch, like a 20-minute drive away, and it literally took me 2 hours to get my act together to go there. I couldn’t figure out the stroller. I couldn’t figure out the car seat.

She pooped in her pants the second I finally figured out how to put her in the car seat. And I couldn’t figure out how to unlatch her, so she was stuck in the car seat in her poopy diaper—and I was sobbing. I was like, “Oh my God, what do I do?” You know? And the funny part of that actually was that it was 3 weeks after I had given birth, so I hadn’t ventured out to the hair salon or anything. For the first time in my life, I got my hair color in a box from Walgreens or wherever. I was like, “Oh my God, I really wanna color my hair,” but I don’t have time to go to the hair

More from her Twitter account, @racheluchitel: Rachel with Wyatt; Wyatt Lilly at 3, 4, 6, and 7 months old, respectively

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salon because I had Wyatt, and you don’t have 4 hours to visit the hair salon anymore at that moment, especially. So I colored my hair from this box, and you know, I’ve kinda been known for my hair—like a lot of people talk about how I have this long, great hair. My hair just comes out looking nothing like it does on the box. It looks like chocolate, beautiful brown on the box, and my hair comes out and it’s black.

Like, what the hell is going on? Anyway, I didn’t wanna think about it because I didn’t have enough time because Wyatt’s bcmedia.ph

awake and I had to clothe her. Long story short, after telling you about how she pooped in her diaper and whatever, I finally get to this lunch with my friend. The first thing she says to me is, “Oh my God, I’m so glad you made it,” and she looks to me and says, “Why is your hair blue?” You know how an old person makes their hair so black that it’s like a blue?

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@racheluchitel writes: Wyatt Lily, taken at 1 week old!

in San Francisco now. We went back to her house and she dyed my hair a normal color. She has a 1 ½ - year old so she’s like a professional parent and she was helping me with Wyatt. It was such a crazy day, but after that day, I knew how to use the car seat, the stroller, I knew how to change a dirty diaper on the side of the freeway, I knew how to do everything. And I learned my lesson, never to use hair color out of a box. So that was my one crazy day of just having a complete meltdown.”

How has giving birth to Wyatt changed her outlook in life? “For the first time in your life, when you have a child, you realize what unconditional love is.

It’s easy to talk about wanting unconditional love with your significant other or whatever, but it’s the first time

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you actually really experience that. I will always put her first. The things that were important to me before now come second. I’m always very protective of her and am making sure that she has the best of everything, that she’s well grounded and well taken care of, and that she’s safe. I’m planning my schedule around taking her to the park, and the hour I want her to sit in front of Baby Einstein on the TV, and when she does her swim class—like those things come first before me planning my hour to go to the gym. Whatever the situation is, I put her schedule before mine, and I’ve never done that before for anyone. It totally comes naturally to me as it totally comes naturally to any parent.”

Speaking of second nature, Rachel

falls into the bragging-about-your-babyevery-chance-you-get category as well.

“You know how parents talk about their kids’ activities and brag about them?

When it’s not your kid, you don’t care.

But now I get it. Now, I understand!

I’m so proud of her, and I wanna talk about her all day long.”

I inquired about how they’re building a strong foundation for Wyatt in their home, so she can be protected from incidents such as getting involved in drugs. Rachel sounds pensive. “We’re raising her in a way that we’re very affectionate with her. We’re very handson, and we wanna make sure that she feels like she’s a part of a family, that she doesn’t feel isolated at all, and that she feels loved—I think that’s important. bc

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