13 Surprises to Bring When Visiting a Nursing Home

BY ERINNE MAGEE

Visiting your special person at a nursing home or assisted care facility often raises the question of what to bring during your precious time together.

Yes, your presence is certainly the greatest gift, but sometimes it’s nice to come bearing a sweet surprise.

Of course, do ask a staff member for approval if there’s any doubt about what you are bringing. While the list below does include items that cost money, flipping through old scrapbooks, giving a grandchild’s drawing or a handwritten note are also thoughtful ways to connect with loved ones without taking a trip to the store.

HERE ARE 13 WAYS TO SURPRISE YOUR FAVORITE RESIDENT…

WINDOW BIRD FEEDER: Not every room comes with the view of a tree, so a bird feeder that suctions to a window or sliding door is a fun way to connect your birder with a favorite pastime.

FUZZY SOCKS WITH GRIPS OR SLIPPERS: Many residents don’t wear footwear around the building, so getting a new pair of warm (and safe!) socks or slippers can bring a bit of color and comfort.

SPECIAL TREAT OR DRINK: There’s a touch of delight that comes with a favorite homemade treat or specialty coffee or tea. Or perhaps, bring a special mug or have a mini tea party.

PERSONAL CARE RESTOCK: While many basics are provided, you’re never too old to get excited about a new soap or hand lotion. If manicured nails are their thing, bring the tools (and polish) and provide an inroom spa hour.

WREATHS OR HOLIDAY DECORATIONS: There’s always something to celebrate, whether a season or holiday or perhaps your own personal feat that you want to share with your loved one. Bring the excitement to them!

GREETING CARDS AND STAMPS: Packs of all occasion cards (and stamps) come in handy for those occasions that seem to come quicker each year. If your loved one is already loaded with cards, bring a new pen instead.

SOMETHING TO READ: Large print books or a subscription to their favorite newspaper or magazine can offer a welcomed surprise when the mail arrives.

YARN OR CRAFTS: Common areas usually have several games, puzzles and coloring materials available, but if there’s a specific activity your creative loved one enjoys, let them know you remember that by contributing to their hobby.

WALKER CADDY: If a walker is the mode of transportation, help jazz it up by attaching a basket or caddy (or even a touch of ribbon). You never know what needs to be carried from one room to the next.

DIGITAL FRAME: Sometimes space is limited, especially when sharing a room. A digital frame offers a slideshow of favorite memories and people help the elderly feel connected to their loved ones.

SILK PILLOWCASE: Since many residents spend quite a bit of time in bed, why not make it as comfortable and luxurious as possible with silk or flannel pillowcases and/or sheets.

SOFT TISSUES: Another item that is typically provided, but not always to the softness that those special noses deserve. Patterned or colorful tissue boxes add another element of joy to the living space.

SOMETHING FOR THE STAFF: Of course, do remember the staff that is caring so greatly for your special person. Sending them pizza, bringing a round of Dunkin’ or even handwritten notes can go a long way to make someone feel appreciated.