WHAT TO KNOW BEFORE A WEDDING GOWN SHOPPING TRIP TOP TRENDS IN TUXES
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Weddings mark a turning point from one stage in life to another. The significance of that transition is perhaps one reason why couples and their guests dress so nicely for a wedding ceremony and reception.
Formal garb is a wedding tradition, and guests anxiously await seeing which type of gown a bride will wear.
In western cultures, white wedding gowns have been the standard since the nineteenth century and are believed to symbolize purity and grace. In eastern cultures, wedding gowns often have been elaborate, colorful creations that have their own symbolic meanings unique to various areas of the world. Shopping for a wedding gown can spark mixed emotions. While it is exciting to try on some remarkable garments, there also is the pressure of knowing all eyes will be on you while wearing this couture creation.
Narrowing down wedding gown prospects can take vision, time and patience. The following
pointers can help when it comes time to visit bridal shops.
Make an appointment
Many bridal shops operate by appointment only. That’s because the staff wants to devote complete attention to a client, and having people simply walk in from the street can draw their attention away and/or lead to long wait times. Identify the stores you want to visit, and then call to secure your time slot.
Narrow down styles
Think about what your personal style might be and how you want to look on your wedding day. If you’re not sure about the vocabulary surrounding dress silhouettes, visit Pinterest or Instagram and save images of dresses that you love. Then you can show the sales staff what you are thinking instead of going in empty-handed.
Keep an open mind
Try on a few different styles even if you have a particular dress in mind. You never know if
something might be a better fit for your body type or the scope and style of your wedding unless you give it a go.
Start the process early
Unlike off-the-rack clothing, most wedding shops will have to order your dress and have it shipped. Then comes a few weeks for alterations. KWH Bridal notes eight to 12 months before a wedding is a good time to choose and order a dress. Brides magazine says most made-to-order wedding gowns take about six to nine months to create. There also are three separate fittings to ensure the gown will fit like a glove.
Invite a handful of confidantes
It’s best not to arrive at the shopping appointment with an entire entourage. Pick, at the most, four people whose opinions you trust; otherwise, it could be a case of too many cooks in the kitchen. As a bride-to-be you’ll already be anxious, and you’ll want soothing, supportive people with you.
Plan your budget
Know well in advance what you can afford to spend. According to data from The Knot, wedding attire accounts for 7 percent of the average couple’s budget. Most wedding gowns are in the range of $2,000. Don’t forget about additional costs, such as veil, shoes, alterations, undergarments, and any add-ons.
In addition to these tips, arrive at an appointment well-rested, fed and comfortable.
Theories on the origins of the tuxedo vary significantly. Some believe that this formal garment was created by wealthy aristocrats attending an autumn ball in Tuxedo Park, New York. However, the Wall Street Journal has reported that the tuxedo might be a British invention, spearheaded by the fashion-conscious King of Wales Edward VII in 1865. No matter where the tuxedo originated, it has become standard attire for formal occasions, including weddings. It may seem as though every tuxedo is the same, but that’s not the case. Tuxes come in different styles, so those tying the knot or attending other formal functions can choose an option that fits their personality and physique. Here’s a look at what sets tuxedos apart and some noteworthy tux trends.
Suits versus tuxedos
Some may wonder what sets a tuxedo apart from a suit. One of the more notable differences is that tuxedo lapels are designed with silk, satin or textured grosgrain to provide that signature V-look, says Brides magazine. Suit lapels are made from the same fabric as the suit jacket. Tuxedos traditionally
are held up with suspenders, while suit pants have belt loops for use with a belt. Suits are styled with a dress shirt while tuxedos are worn with a particular tuxedo shirt that likely has a spread collar, bib, decorative studs, and French cuffs fastened with cufflinks.
Change up lapel styles
Men who want to set themselves apart can opt for what The Knot calls the most popular styles of tuxedo lapels. Notch lapels are the most common and feature two lateral points. Shawl collars feature a smooth, sleek looped lapel without notches or peaks. Peak lapels have the lower point of the lapel peak above the upper. Trying on the different jackets can give individuals an idea of which lapel look is best.
New color spectrum
A traditional tuxedo will be black, although navy tuxedos have gained a following. But individuals can find a tuxedo in any color. Those who want to add some extra flair to their weddings may opt for a tuxedo in a color that coordinates to the season or aligns with what the rest of the bridal party is wearing.
Alternative fabrics
The majority of tuxedos are made from wool and will have the silk or satin detailing as described. Newer trends include incorporating fabrics like linen or flannel, although these are rare and may be harder to come by.
Neckties grabbing hold
People can set themselves apart with everything from lapels to tuxedo shirts to different colors, but only bowties or neckties can be worn with tuxedoes. While bowties once were the gold standard, those personalizing their wedding looks and taking liberties with style are increasingly opting for neckties. Gents can choose a necktie in a complementary texture that will coordinate with the elegance of the tuxedo.
Slim fit
Modern tuxedo choices feature a slim fit in both jacket and pant. It’s a good idea to try on a few different options to see what feels comfortable before choosing a fit.
Tuxedos have been around since the nineteenth century and are the attire of choice for formal functions.
CAN’T-MISS PHOTOS FOR YOUR WEDDING
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Couples who hire a professional photographer to capture their weddings may end up with anywhere from 400 to 600 images, with some photographers promising even more. Although it is likely that a wide array of shots will be taken, couples who do not want to leave things up to chance should sit down with their photo professionals and discuss the key shots they want to capture.
Once the big day has passed, there will be no opportunity to go back and arrange missed shots. This list of musthave photos can ensure that the wedding album has all the shots couples desire.
Before the
ceremony
• Wedding day outfits hanging in the wardrobe or placed over a chair
Wedding invitation surrounded by bouquets
Wedding rings side by side
• Outfit accessories, such as shoes, jewelry, a veil, and cuff links
Bride and bridesmaids getting hair and makeup done
• Groom and groomsmen laughing and having fun
• Bride getting zipped up into her dress
At the ceremony
Guests entering the ceremony site
• Ushers escorting guests to their seats
• Close-ups of the couple separately waiting to see their soon-to-be spouse
Cute kids participating in the ceremony coming down the aisle
• Parents of the couple coming down the aisle or seated prominently awaiting the start of the ceremony
• Shots of all members of the wedding party
• Guests of honor, such as grandparents Partner coming down the aisle and the partner’s reaction
• Exchange of rings
• First kiss
• A wide shot of the guests at the ceremony
Signing the marriage certificate
The processional with the newly hitched couple
beaming Couple in the limo backseat
Portraits
• Couple with bridesmaids and groomsmen
Bride and maid/ matron of honor
Groom and best man
• Couple with each set of parents and siblings
• Couple with close family members
At the reception
Couple’s first entrance
• Special signage, decorations or photos of the scenery
Wedding cake details
Toasts and speeches from key people
• First dance as a couple
• Father/daughter, mother/son dances, if applicable
Couple mingling with guests
Guests dancing and having fun
• Shots of the musicians or any special entertainers
The cake cutting The couple’s grand exit and wave goodbye
These are some of the customary images that couples will want to request. Photographers likely will cover most of them without prompting, but couples should be sure to point out any special photographs they’d like captured throughout the day.
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Although many decorative elements help to create ambiance for a wedding celebration, perhaps none is more awe-inspiring than beautiful floral arrangements. Flowers offer visual appeal, captivating aromas and texture that can make a space more welcoming. Engaged couples typically go to great lengths when planning their weddings, but flowers may not be as micromanaged as other elements. Some are content to let florists design their arrangements, but the average cost of wedding flowers in 2023 was $2,800, according to The Knot Real Weddings Study. That price tag merits some input on the part of couples. Floral experts say couples should budget for floral arrangements coming in at 10 percent of the overall wedding budget, which is the industry standard. Therefore, for a $60,000 wedding a couple should assume their florals will cost $6,000. It’s important to note that the cost of wedding flowers has been steadily increasing over the last few years due to inflation and climate change, says The Knot.
So couples may need to be even more involved in floral decisions to maximize their dollars spent. Here are some variables to consider when selecting wedding flowers.
• Greenery: Adding greenery to fill in spaces in floral arrangements can save some money. Centerpieces and bouquets that are floralheavy will certainly cost more.
Symbolism: Consider the meaning behind flowers to make choices even more personal. You also may want to select flowers that will complement the theme of the wedding. For example, traditional spring blooms like tulips and daffodils will coordinate with spring weddings.
• Flower varieties: Hardier varieties of flowers, such as daisies, mums, carnations, and protea, are less likely to wilt quickly in bouquets or centerpieces than some other blooms, even when they are cut. Such blooms can hold up in any weather and last the entire day so that arrangements will be picture-perfect no matter the hour.
• Size: A particularly large floral centerpiece can overwhelm a table, and a bouquet that is overly cumbersome may detract from the bride or her bridesmaids. Choose the correct scale for comfort in bouquets. For table arrangements, select a size that will not discourage conversation or block guests’ view, nor take up too much real estate on the table.
Allergies: Although they are cut, flowers in arrangements can trigger allergic responses in some people. Others may be bothered by overly aromatic flowers. Work with the florist to find blooms that will be best. Color scheme: Although white flowers always coordinate, many couples like some color in their arrangements. Be sure the flowers pick up the hues used in bridesmaid dresses or even the season of the year.
Couples should take an active role in deciding what to include in floral pieces for their weddings
• Venue: Couples may find that some venues already have faux flowers or other decor. That may mean couples do not need to have as many flowers or any elaborate arrangements.
Big Bog State Recreation Area to host candlelit snowshoe
WASKISH — A winter’s glow candlelit snowshoe will take place from 6 to 8 p.m. on Saturday, Feb. 22, at Big Bog State Recreation Area.
Participants will start at the northern unit’s Old Caribou Camp trailhead and loop through the north woods. Afterward, attendees can warm up by a cozy fire and enjoy some refreshments, the release said.
“Wander in peace under the starlit sky, surrounded by the quiet beauty of nature in winter,” the release said.
“This enchanting woodland experience is perfect for all skill levels, providing a unique way to enjoy the season’s tranquility.”
A limited amount of snowshoes are available to borrow on a first-come, first-served basis, includ-
ing children’s sizes. Participants will start at the Northern Unit. All vehicles entering the park need a valid Minnesota State Parks vehicle permit which costs $7 for a day or $35 for a year.
Ski and snowboarding lessons available
BEMIDJI — The city of Bemidji Parks and Recreation Department will host beginning skiing and snowboarding group lessons from 2 to 6 p.m. on Sunday, Feb. 23, at Buena Vista Ski Area, 19600 Irvine Ave.
The cost is $81.50 per participant, and the package includes lift tickets, ski or board rental package, a helmet and a onehour lesson.
Attendees will be with instructors from 2 to 3 p.m. and then have free time to practice without an instructor from 3 to 6 p.m. Participants must be
7 years or older. For more information contact (218) 333-1862 and to register visit www. ci.bemidji.mn.us.
Parks and Rec to offer family cross-country skiing lessons
BEMIDJI — The city of Bemidji Parks and Recreation Department has teamed up with the Bemidji area Cross Country Ski Club to offer crosscountry ski lessons at the Montebello Ski Trail, a 4-kilometer lit trail located behind the Neilson-Reise Arena, at 1230 23rd Street NW.
Lessons will be offered from 6 to 7:30 p.m. on Tuesday, Feb. 25.
The cost is $30 per participant, which includes rental equipment. Attendees must be age 6 or older. Participants must pre-register. For more information or to register, visit www.ci.bemidji.mn.us or call (218) 333-1857.
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Mobile food drop set for Feb. 24 in Bagley
BAGLEY — North Country Food Bank is partnering with the United Way of Bemidji Area and the Clearwater County Food Shelf to offer a mobile food distribution on Monday, Feb. 24, along Great Northern Drive SW in Bagley.
Food will be available from 11 a.m. to noon, or until food runs out, weather permitting.
At the events, people can drive up and receive food. Attendees should be mindful not to block driveways, a release said.
Those receiving food will be asked to identify themselves and answer a few simple household questions by staff from North Country Food Bank. The Food Bank is collecting this information to allow access to more food items for these mobiles, the release said.
For more information,
contact Scott Johnson at (218) 399-7367.
Clearbrook-Leonard Senior Center to host digital literacy workshops
CLEARBROOK — The Clearbrook-Leonard
Senior Center will host a workshop series titled, “Improving Digital Literacy in Older Adults,” at locations throughout the Bagley area.
“Internet Basics” will be held from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. on Wednesday, Feb. 26 at the Bagley Public Library, 79 Spencer Ave. SW.
“iPhone/iPad Basics” is set for noon to 1:30 p.m. at the Clearbrook-Leonard Senior Center, 105 Main St. in Clearbrook.
These workshops are free to attend and made possible through a national grant and the center is collaborating with the National Council on Aging and AT&T on this project, a release
said.
Watermark Art Center to resume intercultural creative circles
BEMIDJI — Watermark Art Center will host its second series of intercultural creative circles from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. on Wednesdays, now through Feb. 26, at Watermark, 505 Bemidji Ave. N.
During the eight sessions, participants will learn embellishment techniques from both woodland and Scandinavian traditions, including Osage and Ho-Chunk style Indigenous ribbon applique arts, painting with natural dyes on hide, embroidery and woodland applique, a release said.
Bead artist Martina Isham will kick off the series with beadwork.
During the February sessions, artist Sharon Nordrum will lead the circles.
The circles are free to attend and registration is not required. Participants must provide their own supplies.
The funds for the intercultural programming were made possible by the voters of Minnesota through a grant from the Region 2 Arts Council, thanks to a legislative appropriation from the Arts and Cultural Heritage Fund.
Learn more about the intercultural creative circles at watermarkartcenter.org/creative-circles.
Watermark galleries are free and open to the public from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Saturday.
Warren to present at Bemidji State’s Black History and Heritage event
BEMIDJI — Gabriel Warren, Doctor of Business Administration, will speak at Bemidji State University’s Black
History and Heritage event at 4:30 p.m. on Thursday, Feb. 27, in BSU’s Beaux Arts Ballroom. Warren brings years of experience in both higher education and industry, a release said. He serves as the Dean of Applied Design, Business, Industry and Human Services at Century College. He is also a motivational speaker, author of two personal development books and the founder of “The Changing the Narrative Podcast,” which aims to reshape perceptions of Black men in America, the release said.
Warren has been an active member of his community, serving as the first Black school board member for the Bemidji Area School District. This event is free and
open to the public as a President’s Reception, which serves as a time to come together, celebrate and learn about the heritage and culture being honored.
Celebrating diverse cultures year-round, events such as these provide a meaningful way to amplify voices and experiences during national recognitions, the release said. Light refreshments and appetizers will be provided. For more information, contact the Center for Diversity, Equity and Inclusion at centerdei@ bemidjistate.edu.
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Q: Help me out here, because I’m afraid I may be imagining things. Did Mr. T star in a show where he played a private detective? If it’s real, why can’t I find it anywhere?
A: Mr. T, the former celebrity bodyguard born Laurence Tureaud, is probably best known for co-starring in “Rocky III” (1982) and “The A-Team” (1983-1987 on NBC), two zeitgeist-capturing ‘80s classics. His “A-Team” follow-up wasn’t quite so successful, but I can tell you that it was, in fact, real.
“T and T” only lasted for three seasons, from 1988 to 1990. That plus the fact that it never had a stable TV home at the time means that it can be a little tough to find these days. But it’s possible if you know where to look.
It helps if you know a bit about its weird history. Despite starring Mr. T, a very American star at the time, “T and T” was actually made in Canada by the Nelvana production company, which is better known for its kid-friendly cartoon output. The company has a YouTube channel called Retro Rerun where you can watch all three seasons of “T and T.” Canadians can also see the second and third seasons on GlobalTV.com — Global was the show’s original home north of the border. The premise was as weird
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Jansenn to teach woodcarving class at Bagley Public Library
BAGLEY — Artisan
Pam Jansenn will lead a class on woodcarving from 3 to 5 p.m. on select Thursdays in the community room at the Bagley Public Library, 79 Spencer Ave. SW. The class is scheduled for Feb. 27, March 13 and 27, and April 10 and 24. There is no charge for the class, but participants should bring their own wood blanks and carving knives if possible. Wood blanks are available to purchase for a minimal fee, a release said.
Janssen has been teaching woodcarving for 38 years in Beltrami County.
She also teaches rosemaling and is a part of the Norda Gonvick Rosemalers group. Everyone is welcome to attend and learn about woodcarving, the release said.
The class is sponsored by the Bagley Area Arts Collaborative, an activity made possible by the voters of Minnesota from the Region 2 Arts Council, thanks to legislative appropriation from the Arts and Cultural Heritage Fund.
Bemidji State to offer Beaver Happy Hour event for alumni
BEMIDJI — The Bemidji State Alumni and Foundation will offer a Beaver Happy Hour event from 4 to 5:30 p.m. on
Wednesday, March 12, at Keg N’ Cork for alumni and friends.
Beaver Happy Hours provide an opportunity for all community members to connect with Alumni and Foundation staff and others in attendance, make meaningful contacts and build camaraderie around all things BSU, a release said. Headwaters to host Rock Band group performance class
BEMIDJI — Headwaters Music and Arts will host a Rock Band group class for musicians with one to two years of experience in voice, guitar, drums, piano or bass. Participants in grades
4-12 will work together as a band to choose what songs they want to practice and learn, drawing from the many rad decades of rock ‘n’ roll, a release said.
The winter block will meet from 4:30 to 6 p.m. on Thursdays through Feb. 27, at Headwaters, 519 Minnesota Ave. NW.
Led by Headwaters music instructors, the class will cover everything from learning covers, songwriting, chord progressions, scales, singing harmonies, soloing and band communication.
The class will end with a live show for family and friends.
Drum kits and most instruments will be provided. However,
participants are encouraged to bring a secondary instrument if they would like to learn how to improvise. The
