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Practical advice and support following a bereavement

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This booklet has been put together to try and help support you through the practical and emotional experience of bereavement. It aims to guide you through the necessary aspects and arrangements which need to be made or considered either at once or over the following weeks. As these decisions have to be made at a time of personal distress, it may be helpful to allow a friend or relative to support you.

Medway Community Healthcare (MCH) provides a wide range of high quality community health services for Medway residents including the specialist palliative care service based at the Wisdom Hospice. This offers a multi-disciplinary team funded primarily by the NHS, with support from The Friends of the Wisdom Hospice.

As a social enterprise MCH have the commercial freedom to broaden their vision, investing in products and services which generate income. They use 100% of this income to improve the quality of the NHS services they provide.

NHS Contents What happens after someone dies? ......................................................................... 1 When someone dies in the Wisdom Hospice 1 Medical Examiner 1 The Coroner 2 Medication 2 Cremation 2 Registering a death 3 What you need to take with you to the Registrar’s Office 3 What else will the Registrar ask you? 3 Information on the deceased 3 If the deceased was a married woman, what the Registrar will need to know 4 What the Registrar will give you 4 Registrar’s Office location map 5 Planning the funeral ............................................................................................................................. 7 Funeral planning and legal requirements 7 Types of funeral 7 Other things to consider 8 Independent and “family organised” funerals 8 Funeral directors 8 Complaints 9 Differences between religions and denominations 10 Finances after someone dies 13 Paying for the funeral 13 Change in circumstances and benefits 14 If you are under pension age 14 If you are over pension age 15
NHS Solicitors, Wills and legal matters 15 Probate (administration of an estate) 15 When a Will is in place 15 When there is no Will in place 16 The Friends of the Wisdom Hospice charity 17 Task checklist 18 Coping with grief ........................................................................................................................................ 19 Children’s support 24 Advice and support organisations 26 Sharing your information 28 Customer care ................................................................................................................................................ 28

What happens after someone dies?

When someone dies in the Wisdom Hospice

People react in different ways following a death, some want to spend time with the deceased while others would rather not. It is important that you do what feels right for you. The nursing team will support you with your wishes.

The bereavement team will contact you to arrange a mutually convenient time to collect the belongings of the person who has died and to confirm that the Medical Certificate of Death has been completed and sent to the Registrar’s office. You will meet with one of the team in a quiet room and they will be able to discuss any questions you may have. If you would like to speak with a doctor, let us know and we will arrange this if possible.

The Medical Examiner

Wisdom Hospice, in line with the new Government requirements has introduced the role of the Medical Examiner, who is a senior doctor not involved in the care of the patient, but understands the circumstances surrounding the cause of death.

The role of the Medical Examiner is to scrutinise the hospice records, and to discuss with the treating clinician the medical cause of death. The Medical Examiner will then speak to the relatives to discuss the medical cause of death. The aim is that they will make it easier for you to understand the wording on the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death (MCCD) and will check all details before the certificate is issued. This means you may receive a call from the Medical Examiner to discuss the medical certificate in the first few days of your loss.

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The Coroner

In certain cases, such as a death following an occupational related disease like Mesothelioma, the Coroner must be informed, and it is likely that the certificate will be issued from the Coroner’s office. In some cases a post mortem will be needed followed by an inquest. We will advise you if this is the case.

Medication

It is the responsibility of the carer or family to return all medication to the local pharmacy for disposal. This should be done at your earliest convenience.

Cremation

If you request a cremation, the paperwork will be commenced at the Wisdom Hospice but will need to be completed at the funeral home. We recommend you discuss a reasonable timescale for your arrangements with the funeral director.

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Registering a death

It is a legal requirement that the death must be registered within five working days. This should be carried out by either:

• A relative

• Someone present at the time of death

• Someone who will be arranging the funeral (should the person who has died be an overseas citizen, their embassy must be notified as soon as possible).

What you need to take with you to the Register Office

• The medical card (if available)

• The birth certificate (if available) – (if not available, information regarding date and place of birth)

What else will the Registrar ask you?

Please note that the death cannot be registered without either the medical certificate with cause of death or documents from the Coroner. Although it can be helpful to take copies of the deceased’s birth and marriage certificates, these are not essential for the death registration, as long as the information they contain can be provided at the meeting.

Information on the deceased person

• The date and place of death

• Their full name and any other names used, including a maiden name where relevant

• The date and place of birth

• The deceased’s occupation

• Date of birth of surviving spouse

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If the deceased was a married woman, what the Registrar will need to know

• The full name and occupation of her husband (even if deceased)

• Her maiden name

The Registrar will give you:

• A green form (Form 9) which permits the undertaker to move the deceased from the hospice

• A certificate of registration of death

• The death certificate (if purchased)

It is advisable to purchase additional copies of the death certificate as they will be needed by the deceased’s bank, building society, insurers etc. We normally recommend around 6 certificates, depending on the number of institutions to be informed as photocopies cannot be used. Each certificate is a certified copy of the entry in the death register and costs £11 (price correct at time of publication).

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You can make an appointment to attend the Register Office, alternatively we can make an appointment for you. The Medical Death Certificate is sent by email to the Medical Examiner and Registry Office.

Medway Register Office:

The Medway Register Office is in Northgate, Rochester, ME1 1LS.

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The direct telephone number to make an appointment to register a death is 01634 338998.

Swale Register Office:

The telephone number is 03000 415151, Kent County Council (KCC). Appointments can be booked online at www.kent.gov.uk

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Planning the funeral

Funeral planning and legal requirements

You can begin to make funeral arrangements as soon as you feel able. The plans can be confirmed almost immediately, unless a Coroner’s inquest is required following a death. However, before making plans, it is important to check whether any specific instructions were left, or if any funeral arrangements were made and paid for in advance.

The main requirements in England and Wales are that the death must be certified by a doctor or Coroner, registered with a Registrar of births, marriages and deaths, and the body either buried or cremated. You do not need to have a ceremony, religious minister, or funeral director unless you wish to; and if you want a ceremony, this does not have to take place in a crematorium or church.

Types of funeral

There are more options concerning the content and duration of a funeral than many people realise. Generally funerals contain both a “service element” and a “physical aspect”.

Many services have a religious element, but Humanist or civil services are available to those who would like a meaningful funeral service without reference to a God or religion.

There are four main types of funeral:

• At a crematorium only

• At a church or other place or worship, and followed by a burial or cremation

• At the grave side

• Cremation without attendance of family

Increasingly, alternative funerals are becoming available, with people selecting options such as woodland burials and eco-friendly coffins, personalised shrouds or other coffin covers.

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Other things to consider

As with all major events there are many aspects you may wish to consider, such as whether the body will be available for viewing, how your loved one should be dressed, whether to make announcements in a newspaper, and so on. In reality there is no such thing as a “standard” funeral. Many people want the funeral to reflect an individual’s character, their way of life, values and beliefs. However, do not feel that you have to accept all options presented to you, particularly if you are not able to spend a lot of money.

Independent and “family organised” funerals

Many people choose to make their arrangements through a funeral director. However, some people consider an independent or “family organised” funeral to be more personal, informal and less expensive. If you would prefer this and you have the time to research and prepare, you can enquire at the Cemeteries and Crematorium department of your Local Authority for guidance. You can also get information from the Natural Death Centre or other agencies listed at the end of this leaflet.

Funeral directors

Funeral directors can manage all or part of the funeral arrangements. They can give advice on available options and provide support to help you make decisions. There are many differences in the types and quality of services that funeral directors provide.

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Complaints

To help you select a funeral director, please note that a licence to practice from the British Institute of Funeral Directors, or membership of a trade association, indicates that the individual or company should operate under a Good Code of Practice.

If you are not satisfied, either with the costs you are being asked to pay or with the service provided, try to resolve it with the funeral director or service provider in question. If you cannot resolve the issue, contact any relevant trade association (see the back of this leaflet) or get advice on how to proceed from your local Citizens Advice Bureau.

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Differences between religions and denominations

Whilst the basics of organising a funeral will be largely the same regardless of religion or denomination, there are some things which may vary depending on the religion/denomination of the deceased. Detailed below is a brief outline of the funerals of various religions and Christian denominations.

Anglican funerals: Anglican funerals usually take place in a local church, or the chapel of a cemetery or crematorium. Parish boundaries usually apply. Family and friends join together to mourn and commend the deceased into God’s safe keeping.

Roman Catholic funerals: Roman Catholic funerals can be burials or cremations and are more than likely to take place in a church. A priest or deacon will receive the body into the church and say prayers over the coffin. It is common for family members to bear the coffin into the church. Usually the funeral will involve a Requiem Mass.

Other Christian denominations: The funerals offered by other Christian denominations are usually broadly similar to Anglican funerals. Most funeral directors will advise regarding funerals of different denominations.

Jewish funerals: In a Jewish funeral cremation is not permitted. Removal of organs, fluid and tissues is also prohibited, although there can be allowances for autopsies, if these are required by law or for organ donation. The burial must take place as soon as possible. Open casket services are forbidden by Jewish law as these are seen as extremely disrespectful. Flowers are not usually sent or used during Jewish funerals as they are associated with joyous celebrations and similarly music is not played.

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Sikh funerals: In Sikh funerals cremation is the usual method used. In many parts of the world a Sikh funeral involves an open-air funeral pyre, though not all countries permit this. Until the point of cremation the deceased must be kept in possession of the five articles worn by a Sikh in life (the ‘5 Ks’). Sikhism recommends that once the ashes are released to the family they be buried in the earth or scattered over/immersed into flowing water such as a river. In Sikhism, the funeral service can take place at any time, day or night. The Sikh view is that the purpose of a funeral is to induce detachment.

Hindu funerals: Cremations are the most common method for Hindu funerals as they believe this helps the soul exit the body more quickly. There are various rituals which usually take place around the body such as the placing of a lamp near the head, Pindas (Rice Balls) are placed in the coffin, a Mala (necklace of wooden beads) may be placed around the neck and the deceased is sprinkled with water. The deceased’s family may remain in mourning for twelve days.

Muslim funerals: In Muslim funerals the desired method is burial, as observant Muslims disapprove of cremation. Usually on the day of the funeral the body is taken to the mosque and prayers are said before the body is taken to the cemetery for burial. Whilst mourners stand at the graveside prayers are said, another prayer is said after the body is lowered into the grave. The grave is ‘filled in’ by the Islamic community. The graves themselves tend to be above ground level so that the grave is clearly marked. The use of large decorations or tombstones is not frequent though it is not forbidden.

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Buddhist funerals: Many Buddhists in the UK come from families with links to one of the traditional Buddhist countries (e.g. Thailand, Sri Lanka, Japan, China etc.). There will also be many people with no family background in Buddhism who have adopted Buddhism. Therefore the practices and beliefs will vary between traditions or “schools”. Generally, death and dying ideally should take place in an atmosphere of peace, calm and sensitivity. There are no special procedures to be undertaken by hospice/hospital staff. In some traditions it is thought to be highly beneficial for the dying person to be supported by a teacher or member of the Buddhist community during and immediately after the dying process. As part of this there may be requests for the body to remain undisturbed for a period, before being moved – a minimum of four hours is sometimes quoted.

Other religions: It is beyond the scope of this document to attempt to deal with every religion.

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Finances after someone has died

Paying for the funeral

Funeral costs are normally recoverable from the deceased’s estate, but the person organising the funeral will be responsible for paying the bill. It is advisable to check where the money will come from before you make arrangements. Many people now purchase their funeral in advance through a pre-purchase funeral plan. You may need to check if this has been arranged.

Many funeral directors require payment before probate is granted, so ensure you discuss payment from an early stage. Where probate is being requested, many banks and building societies will release money to pay for the funeral before probate is granted but not all.

Where payment for the funeral is an issue, you may be entitled to help with the funeral costs through the Social Fund. There is now a One-Stop contact number at the Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) (0800 731 0469) which will cancel all DWP benefits, as well as help you establish if you are eligible for help towards costs (a funeral grant) and advise on your eligibility for other benefits. There is a time limit for claiming bereavement benefits and a funeral grant so it is important to contact them as soon as possible. Funeral grants have a maximum threshold and not everyone is given the full amount. It is essential to consider this when organising the funeral to prevent running up large costs.

In some cases, where no one is able to pay for the funeral, the local authority may help – but it is important that you contact them before the funeral has been arranged. Your funeral director or the Welfare Advisor at the Wisdom Hospice should be able to advise you.

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Change in circumstances and benefits

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If you were receiving Carers Allowance prior to the bereavement this will continue for eight weeks after the death of the person you were caring for. Check that Council Tax Reduction and Housing Benefit are in your name; if not these may need to be reapplied for.

www.gov.uk has excellent advice on all benefits, or you can use the contacts suggested below.

If you are under pension age

If you are a parent or carer, or any of the following benefits are in the deceased’s name these will have to be changed or reapplied for:

Child Benefit (0300 200 3100)

Child Tax Credit or Working Tax Credit (Tax Credits Helpline 0345 300 3900)

Contact Job Centre Plus, the DWP numbers above or your local Citizens Advice Bureau for advice and support in finding out what is available and how to apply. Alternatively, check out the www.turn2us.org.uk website for information. If you are eligible for certain benefits you may be able to get support with your mortgage. This will be for the interest only and there is a limit to what they will pay. Job Centre Plus can advise you on this.

For example, if your spouse/partner or you were on a state benefit prior to the bereavement, you may need this reviewed, or if you are now on a low income. If you have children and are working, available benefits will depend on your income and the age of the children. If you are unable to work or unemployed you may be eligible for benefits or increased benefits.

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If you are over pension age

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If your spouse or civil partner dies then you may need a benefits review, particularly if you are now living alone. There is a minimum allowance for single people, which may be increased depending on which benefits you are eligible for. A review is recommended at this stage as not all benefits are means tested.

Contact your local Citizens Advice Bureau, for advice or look up the fact sheets on www.ageuk.org.uk

Solicitors, Wills and legal matters

Probate (administration of an estate)

This is the legal process for the distribution of the deceased’s estate (money, property etc). You need to establish if the deceased had made a Will. This may be found at their bank, solicitor, home, with family or a friend, or if registered, Principle Probate Registry. The Maidstone office covers the whole of Kent 01622 202048.

When a Will is in place

The Will may include funeral plans, wishes regarding the deceased’s estate and the name of the executor/s or the person/s legally entitled to deal with the estate. The executor/s is/are legally responsible for administering the estate to the wishes in the Will. If the Will is with a solicitor they should be informed; and they may be the named executor. Named executor’s can administer the person’s estate on their own (information on how to do this can be found online at www.gov.uk) or they may prefer to get the help of a solicitor to carry this out.

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When there is no Will in place

When someone dies without making a Will, they are said to have died “intestate”, and different rules apply. When this happens the law sets out who should deal with the person’s affairs and who benefits. This can be a complex situation and there is a list of people who may be entitled to the estate in turn. Further information can be found on line at www.gov.uk or you can involve a solicitor to help you through the process.

Another source of information on Wills can be found at www.ageuk.org.uk

Stopping Junk Mail to the recently deceased

If someone you know has died, the amount of unwanted marketing post being sent to them can be greatly reduced which helps to stop painful daily reminders.

By registering with the free service www.stopmail.co.uk the names and addresses of the deceased are removed from mailing lists, stopping most advertising mail within as little as six weeks. If you cannot access the internet you can call 0808 168 9607, where you will be asked for very simple information that will take only a few minutes to complete. Alternatively, ask the bereavement team for a leaflet that can be returned in the post.

This free of charge service provided by the Bereavement Support Network will actively reduce the unwanted marketing mail but also can help reduce the likelihood of identity theft following the death of someone close. The information is not used for any other purpose and you only have to complete this once. Additionally to Stop Mail a comparable service can also be accessed from the Bereavement Register or Deceased Preference Service if you would prefer to use them.

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The Friends of the Wisdom Hospice

The Friends of the Wisdom Hospice is a charity set up to support the work of the Wisdom Hospice. They work closely with Medway Community Healthcare (MCH CIC) by making an annual grant towards the running costs of the hospice as well as providing extra equipment and facilities that lie outside the NHS budget.

The Friends rely on the support of the local community offering a wide range of ways to make individual donations as well as organising a number of fundraising events to maintain their much needed grant. The Friends are based in the hospice and the staff will always be happy to provide more information and support.

Can you help? For more information please visit their website at www.fowh.org.uk or contact the Fundraising Team by phone: 01634 831163 or e-mail info@fowh.org.uk.

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Task checklist

People you need to consider informing

Child/Young Person’s Teacher Bank/Building Society

Social Services (cancer care)

Social Security/DWP (confirm they are aware) Employer

Solicitor

Residential/Nursing

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Lender Relatives/Friends Dentist Useful Numbers DWP – Bereavement Service 0800 731 0469 Child Benefit 0300 200 3100 Child Tax Credit or working Tax Credit HMRC 0345 300 3900 Stopping Junk Mail 0808 168 9607 If in the person’s name Cancel appointments Telephone/Water/Electricity Car Insurance Newsagent/Milkman Clubs Landlord/Housing Television Licence Rental companies Loan company HMRCHM Revenue & Customs (if self-employed) 18
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Coping with grief

Grief is a normal reaction to any major loss in our lives. When someone dies there will be many practical things that need to be attended to. This may mean that you start to grieve once these things are completed and the people around you begin to return to their everyday lives.

It can be hard to accept the death of a loved one. We all grieve in our own way, and it may take many forms. How you are feeling will depend upon your relationship with the person who has died and what they meant to you. This death may trigger memories and feelings of previous losses. The following feelings are common in grief, although some people may feel nothing at all; this is also a sign of grief.

Anxiety – you may feel restless, panicky and develop physical signs such as headaches, stomach upset or a dry mouth. Anger – this may be directed against yourself, other people, or the person who has died. You may feel anger or regret for things that could have been done differently.

Guilt – you may feel you or other people did not do enough for the person who has died. The question “if only” may occupy your thinking. You may feel initial relief that the person who has died is not suffering.

Helpless and afraid – you may be fearful of how you are going to manage without the person who has died and what the future holds.

Unwell – grief is exhausting and stressful and this may weaken your body’s defences and could make you feel unwell. Grief may catch you by surprise and you might suddenly be overwhelmed by emotions.

Low mood – you may have decreased appetite, tiredness without being able to sleep, and an inability to concentrate. Small tasks or problems may seem insurmountable and cause you to feel panicky.

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You may think that you hear or see the person, even though you know that they have died. You may feel numb and unable to cry, or experience a sense of relief. These are all normal reactions in bereavement.

If you have been caring for the person who has died, you may also feel the loss of your caring role. You may feel bereft and alone because the relationships that you have built up with different health care professionals have ended. You may have lost contact with friends while caring for the person who has died and meeting new people or re-establishing old friendships can seem daunting and tiring.

Things that may help

• Remember that there is no right or wrong way to grieve –everyone is different

• Try not to feel pressurised by the expectations of others

• Do what feels right and comfortable for you

• Allow yourself to laugh, cry or feel angry – someone you love has died and that is painful

• Take care of yourself and pay attention to your health

• Talking about the person who has died and about your experiences can help you to begin to make sense of what is happening for you

• If you feel able, let family and friends know how best they can help you

• Do not be afraid to seek professional help

If after several weeks you find that you are not coping with your emotions or your grief is overwhelming, it would be appropriate to seek help either from your GP or from the Wisdom Hospice Bereavement Service (further information on this service is on page 21).

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Services for bereaved adults and children provided by the Wisdom Hospice

It is sometimes helpful to talk to someone about your loss, the feelings being experienced and the changes that bereavement brings. Trained bereavement counsellors are available to meet with you at the Wisdom Hospice or Goodyer House (also on High Bank) by appointment. Please contact the Bereavement Services Co-ordinator (01634 830456) and an assessment meeting will be arranged.

For family members living out of area, the Wisdom Hospice can make contact with a palliative care service in the locality in which you are living to enable bereavement support. Please contact the Bereavement Services Coordinator (as above) for further information.

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Support for children and young people

Grief is normal and necessary. Grief is not an illness or something to “get over”.

Every child’s bereavement journey will be unique and most children will need support not therapy to understand death and the range of feelings and emotions that come as part of bereavement.

Supporting children at this time can often feel daunting, particularly if you are experiencing your own grief. However, there are some useful ways of supporting a grieving child or young person.

• It is important for children and young people to be able to continue with routine activities in order to help them to feel secure

• Children and young people may see-saw in and out of grief, needing time to play and have fun as well as time to be sad

• Children should be told the facts in a simple way, using appropriate words,e.g. dead rather than lost or asleep.

• Give your child as much information as he/she asks for

• Answer your child’s questions about death as honestly as you can

• Encourage your child to talk about how he/she feels

• Children often need help retaining their memories – share memories and stories with them

• It is helpful for adults to share their feelings, such as sadness, with children. By doing so, children learn that it is natural to feel sad when someone dies. Young children often like to draw pictures, write stories or play as part of their way of saying goodbye.

• The child or young person should be given the opportunity to be involved in the funeral, if they so wish.

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Children’s understanding of illness and death will vary according to their age, experience and development. With support and information, children and young people can be helped to understand what has happened and can slowly learn to live with their loss.

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Children’s support

Local Services for Children

Holding On Letting Go

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Holding On Letting Go is a bereavement support programme for young people (aged 6-16 years) and their families in Kent and Medway. Grieving families are supported through non-residential weekend support programmes; one to one work with children, support and advice for parents and carers, advice and training to professionals working with children and young people and telephone and e-mail support.

Telephone: 03445 611 511

Email: info@holg.org.uk

www.holdingonlettinggo.org.uk

National Organisations in Relation to Children

Child Bereavement UK

Helpline: 0800 028 8840

www.childbereavementuk.org

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Childhood Bereavement Network

For children and young people’s bereavement support services in your area.

Telephone: 020 7843 6309

www.childhoodbereavementnetwork.org.uk

The Child Death Helpline

For anyone affected by the death of a child.

Telephone: 0800 282986

www.childdeathhelpline.org.uk

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The Compassionate Friends

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Bereaved parents offering friendship and understanding to other bereaved parents.

Telephone: 0345 123 2304

www.tcf.org.uk

Grief Encounter Project

For bereaved children and their families.

Telephone: 0808 802 0111

www.griefencounter.org.uk

Partnership for Children

Good mental health for children, helping your child to cope with bereavement.

Telephone: 020 8974 6004

www.partnershipforchildren.org.uk

SIBS

For brothers and sisters of disabled children and adults, with any disability, long term illness or life limiting conditions.

www.sibs.org.uk

Winston’s Wish

Winston’s Wish helps bereaved children and young people rebuild their lives after a family death. They also offer support and guidance to families, professionals and to anyone concerned about a grieving child.

Freephone Helpline: 08088 020 021

www.winstonswish.org

Young Minds

The voice for young people’s mental health and wellbeing.

Parents Helpline: 0808 802 5544

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Advice and support organisations

Age UK

Age UK Advice: 0800 678 1174

www.ageuk.org.uk

Bereavement Support Network

Advice regarding funerals, probate, tax benefits and preventing junk mail to the deceased.

Freephone: 0800 168 9607

www.bereavementsupport.co.uk

British Humanist Association

39 Moreland Street, London, EC1V 8BB

Telephone: 0207 324 3060

www.humanists.uk

CRUSE

Email: maidstone@cruse.org.uk

Telephone: 01622 671011

Cruse Bereavement Care: 0808 808 1677

Gingerbread Helpline

Support for single parents.

Telephone: 0808 802 0925

www.gingerbread.org.uk

Independent Age

Advice line: 0800 319 6789

www.independentage.org

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National Association of Funeral Directors (NAFD)

618 Warwick Road, Solihull, West Midlands, B91 1AA

Telephone: 0121 711 1343

Email: info@nafd.org.uk

www.nafd.org.uk

Natural Death Centre

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The Hill House, Watley Lane, Twyford, Winchester, S021 1QX

Telephone: 01962 712690

www.naturaldeath.org.uk

Probate and Inheritance Tax Helpline

Telephone: 0300 123 1072

Samaritans

One to one telephone support available 24 hours.

Free number: 116 124

www.samaritans.org

Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide

SOBS National Helpline: 0300 111 5065

www.uksobs.org

The Silver Line

Helpline for older people: 0800 470 80 90

www.thesilverline.org.uk

Way Widowed and Young

For those widowed under age of 50.

www.widowedandyoung.org.uk

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Sharing your information

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Your information will only be disclosed to those who have a genuine need to know and who agree to keep your information confidential. For your direct care we often share information with:

• NHS hospitals and clinics

• GPs

• Social care

Medway Community Healthcare provides a wide range of high quality community health services for Medway residents; from community nurses and health visitors to speech and language therapists and out of hours urgent care.

Customer care

Please send any comments about Medway Community Healthcare services to: -

Customer Experience Coordinator

Medway Community Healthcare

MCH House, Bailey Drive, Gillingham, Kent, ME8 0PZ

Telephone: 01634 334650

Email: medwaycustomercare@nhs.net

All contact will be treated confidentially.

This information can be made available in other formats and languages. Please contact: medch.communications@nhs.net

Medway Community Healthcare CIC

Registered office: MCH House, Bailey Drive, Gillingham, Kent ME8 0PZ

Tel: 01634 337593

Registered in England and Wales, Company number: 07275637

Publication date: February 2024

Review date: February 2026

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The Hospice would like to thank RNS Publications for publishing this information and the following pages contain some features from services o ering their help at this time.

Whilst the Hospice is grateful of their support it does not endorse or recommend any of the services that they provide.

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John Weir Funeral Directors is a long established family run business providing the highest standard of bereavement care for the people of the Medway

Towns and surrounding area. Our range of funerals vary widely, from the simplest, to the most elaborate All of our staff are highly trained individuals who take great pride in ensuring that all funeral arrangements are carried out to your exact requirements In time of need we are here to provide you with professional advice and a helping hand

• Private chapels of rest

• Jaguar fleet

• Horse-drawn hearse available

• Home visits if required

• Repatriation to and from abroad

• Pre-arranged funeral plans

• Bereavement counselling

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130-132 High Street, Rainham, Kent ME8 8AR.

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127 Watling Street, Gillingham, Kent ME7 2YY

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25 New Road, Chatham, Kent ME4 4QJ

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