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The 2018 Bridal Scene BY TARA CADY
Go the Extra Mile
BY TARA CADY
Destination weddings done right
Written in the Stars
BY TARA CADY
Understand love through astrology
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Meet Me in Montana
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The Album
BY TARA CADY
BY TARA CADY
7 unique Montana weddings
BIG SKY BRIDE FALL / WINTER 2017
Real Montana Weddings
Fall | WinteR 2017
IF THE SHOE FITS • COSMIC LOVE • DESTINATION WEDDINGS
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A PUBLICATION OF THE BILLINGS GAZETTE
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On the Cover: Newlyweds Sarah and Michael Webb on their wedding day. Photo by Miranda Murdock Photography. Cover design by Nadine Bittner of the Gazette staff.
Inset Photo:
Newlyweds Mallory and Wayne Hexum celebrate their marriage. Photo by Miranda Murdock Photography.
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Total Eclipse of the Heart We don’t often get second chances. Much like the total solar eclipse of 2017, true love is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. It’s something that’s dreamt about, yet still unfathomable, until the very moment the stars align. Witnesses of the 1979 eclipse remember the details of the day the moon cast a shadow on Montana— where they were, their age, who was with them. And we’re sure you knew when he was the one, too, right down to the date. Big Sky Bride magazine understands that your wedding is the biggest moment shared with your significant other. It’s the foundation on which your family is blended and built. And its memory is just as important as the minute you say, “I do.” This is your chance to make your bridal dreams come true, and included in this fall/winter edition are the tools to build your big day from the ground up. Was your love written in the stars? On page 26, get an astrologer’s perspective on compatibility and see how receiving and reciprocating love depends largely on your birthday. And on page 23, read about a local couple that went the extra mile for their marriage ceremony in Hyalite Canyon and
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how you can do something just as adventurous with help from new wedding business, Off the Beaten Path Wedding. The devil doesn’t have to be in the details, so use our Down the Aisle section (pages 11 to 18) for ideas on hairdos, dresses, nail designs and more. Trends for 2018 can be found on page 19. We would be remiss not to mention why Montana’s the best place to get married. Review seven reasons why Big Sky Country reigns supreme for romance on page 31, and then see some examples for yourself as we highlight seven ceremonies in The Album (page 35). You already took a chance on him and came up roses. Why not try your luck with your wedding too? The odds are in your favor.
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You have every right to split hairs over the cut and style of your bridal ‘do. In fact, we recommend your stylist practice on you at least once before the big day. That way, you’ll not have to worry about a strand falling out of place. Save face and style with a few ideas of our own.
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Ballerina beauty
This classic high bun brings your best features into focus. From the nape of your neck to your prominent collarbone, there’s plenty room for his sweet kisses after the ceremony. And with strands of hair that he could brush behind your ear, it’ll be hard to not be endearing.
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the ring There are plenty of gems to find in the Treasure State. From the one you marry to the one you wear, nothing puts that sparkle in your eye quite like the dazzler that adorns your finger after he proposes forever. Let us help you find “the one” with some of Billings’ best bling.
Huey Lewis and the News isn’t wrong. It’s not only hip to be square, but it’s even more hip to have diamonds surround a 1.33-carat center in a square shape. With .72 carat total weight in an 18-karat white gold mounting, this ring is downright newsworthy.
When your love has come up roses, it only makes sense to fashion a floral-inspired diamond ring onto that finger. From Tacori’s “Full Bloom” collection, this wedding winner features a .69 carat total weight round-scalloped halo around a 2-carat diamond center.
This Diadori ring has diamonds on diamonds on diamonds—literally. Pave-set diamonds glisten against an 18-karat rose and white gold halo ring with 1-carat diamond center. The split foundation features additional pave set diamonds for continuous sparkle.
Available at Montague’s Jewelers
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Available at Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers
Don’t decide on silver or gold – just do both. A twotone open-twist halo Diadori ring with shoulder loops looks elegant with anything. A conversation starter, the 1-carat diamond center captures the eye, while paveset diamonds halfway down the foundation as well as 18-karat white and rose gold do the talking.
Diamonds may be a girl’s best friend, but sapphires are a Montana girl’s one and only. Don this .83-carat blue Montana sapphire ring set in a 14-karat white gold engagement ring with milgrain accents and .11-carat-total-weight indiamond melee to really dazzle on your big day.
Does he have you caught in a swirl of emotions? Then a .26-carat-total-weight diamond melee swirling around a 1-carat center stone is the way to go. Encased in 14-karat rose and white gold, this John Bagley engagement ring ensures you maintain your emotional high.
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the flowers Aside from that ring-finger bling, the bouquet is your biggest accessory. Make sure the blooms you carry to your beloved match with the dream wedding you envision. Important considerations include size, color, type and what your bridesmaids like. And don’t forget other flowery details like centerpieces, boutonnieres and archway accents, too.
Orange you glad...
Throw her for a loop
Your favorite fragrance
More shocking than a bridesmaid on the receiving end of a bouquet toss is how beautiful those blooms look in her hands. Smokebrush, curly willow, seeded eucalyptus, orchids, dahlias, zinnias, leucodendron and calla lilies are meant to be shared, not squandered. COURTESY OF JESSICA SIMONTON PHOTOGRAPHY
Ripe for the picking
Aside from his cologne, you’ll want other sweet smells surrounding you and the venue. A large arrangement of olive foliage, eucalyptus, anemones, dendobrium orchids, garden roses and white astible will fi ll the air with the loveliest of aromas.
Hearts and flowers
Hushed hues of pink and green pair well with a wintry landscape. White and pink spray roses with blush dahlias, brunia berries and succulents would even look great with a dusting of snow, dare you step outside for a frosty photo op.
Everything’s coming up roses—so why would your bouquet be any different? Peach roses arranged with white hydrangeas provide a soft touch to an otherwise bold occasion. The muted blooms aren’t partial to one season and can work well in winter or summer ceremonies.
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...his favorite color complements yours? Try a bold combination of burnt orange and eggplant and bring the best of fall into the palms of your hands. Roses, daisies and wildflowers wear the seasonal shades best. COURTESY OF SIMPLY SARA PHOTOGRAPHY
‘Hold my bouquet’
There’s nothing meme-worthy about your maid of honor holding your bouquet so he can take your hand in marriage. But if there was, it’d be something like, “Hold my bouquet, I’m about to get married.” Let a mix of agonis, pepperberry, antique roses, ranunculus, snapdragons and stock make the statement for you. COURTESY OF MIRANDA MURDOCK PHOTOGRAPHY
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the dress It’s not every day you slip into something spectacular, but at your wedding, being “extra” is to be expected. Whether you bedazzle your dress with sparkly sequins or incorporate meaningful images within its embroidery, you’re guaranteed to be glowing in your gown. Try these trendy styles on for size and see how well white works on you.
Set the two-tone
Let embroidery lace drape across off-white tulle. The muted secondary color need not be cream; it could also work as a soft shade of pink or blue. And with an illusion neckline, there’s no telling how far the compliments will go.
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All tied up
A lace corset bodice brings all the attention to the back. Tied from the shoulder blades down, this dress’s complexity is heightened with its intricate lace sleeves and V-cut.
Warm and fuzzy
You don’t have to come in from the cold. Look cool adding a layer with a soft sweater or stole fit for Montana weather. And with an ornate floral headdress, you’ll keep your ears warm for those wintry photographs, too.
Get glam squared away
Don’t oversimplify it. Donning a dress with a square back adds the subtlest detail to an otherwise simple white gown. Wear your hair up and ensure every bit of your best feature be showcased.
Something blue
Worried about being washed out in white? Stray away from the traditional wedding gown and wear your something blue from head to toe instead. The wintry color works well with snowy backdrops while still looking as glamorous as ever.
On holiday
Have yourself a merry wedding day in a gown that glistens like snowflakes. The illusion neckline sets sequins on the skin and extends the embroidered straps across the chest like a necklace. Worn in wintertime, you’ll be the belle of the bridal ball.
Mismatch made in heaven
Bridesmaid dresses don’t have to be a shade of the same color. Royal blue and red are sure to reel in second looks. And with every dress in a different design, each girl can show her individual style.
The flower of the flock
Flower girls get to have all the fun. Dress her up as your minime in a white ball gown with lots of tulle, bows and butterfly accents so she can feel like it’s her special day, too.
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the details It’s OK to get carried away in the design process. Personalize those Pinterest ideas further. Incorporate family heirlooms. Honor his wishes. Accept help constructing décor. And most importantly, have fun. Here are some fun ways to make your big day unique down to the detail.
Put a cork in it
No, we’re not saying to quiet your love of wine. Quite the opposite. Have friends and family sign a cork from your collection and as husband and wife, you can craft something cool out of the corks.
The big picture
Before selfie sticks, there were Polaroid cameras. Shake it like you enjoyed yourself and share the moment with friends and family. Hashtag not required for these old-school snapshots. COURTESY OF MIRANDA MURDOCK PHOTOGRAPHY
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Savory selections
Haven’t got a sweet tooth? Feed guests your favorite meats, cheeses and crackers as a flavorful alternative to candies and cake pops. Crates are a cost-effective way to display the finger foods.
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Need a reason to make your escape from the reception early? Do like your parents did and ride out into the sunset in a retro vehicle outfitted with aluminum cans and a “Just Married” sign. A classic car doubles as the perfect venue for photography, and we’re sure grandpa would approve.
Clip the curtain
Artificial lighting can be a drawback when you want sun shining through your reception. A hair stick barrette keeps drapery together in an unconventional way. This look works well with fabric wall treatments and archway accents, too.
A fresh coat
Teresa Spitzer, owner of Nail-issimo Salon & Spa, knows bridal nails. She says a French manicure is the most popular design, while shellac is the recommended polish. It holds much better in the sun, she said. And if you’re looking at a honeymoon on the beach, sand is least likely to wear away shellac. Gel manicures should last two weeks, whereas toes could hold for months. It depends on the polish manufacturer. Spitzer recommends ladies get their nails done the day before the wedding so that it’s fresh. Out-of-town bridesmaids may also have arrived in time to make it a party.
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Wildflower Montana Weddings
Looking for a high-end destination at high elevations? Wildflower Montana Weddings has that mountain vibe couples vie for. With a barn COURTESY OF JESSICA BYRUM PHOTOGRAPHY capacity of 250, plus additional tent seating available for a maximum of 300 guests, the whole bride tribe can enjoy what Big Sky Country has to offer from mid-May to mid-October. Located across from the Red Lodge KOA Campground, visitors not staying in the venue’s lodge can conveniently camp nearby. Plus, there’s plenty of places to stay in town. Reservations should be made one year in advance to take advantage of all of the services. Wildflower owns a Modvintique – modern, vintage and anitique – rental collection with couches, fabrics, curtains and more for a unique ceremony and reception setting. Packages vary depending on whether couples desire the planning, design and coordinating services. Address: 7461 US Hwy 212, Roberts Phone: (406) 446-4933 Website: montanawildflowerweddings.com
Northern Hotel
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Sacajawea Hotel
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This historic site includes 4,000 square feet of event tent and patio space, plus an expansive backyard. With 29 guest rooms, attendees can conveniently crash after a night of celebrating. There’s room for 200 in the tent, and additional guests can be COURTESY OF SACAJAWEA HOTEL accommodated elsewhere at the venue. Tables, chairs, linens and more are included, and full in-house planning services and event support are available at your convenience. “Planning is highly personalized and our friendly staff will guide you every step of the way to make your special day perfect,” said Haylee Folkvord, sales and events coordinator. Address: 5 N. Main St., Three Forks Phone: (406) 285-6515 Website: sacajaweahotel.com
Rockin’ TJ Ranch
All-season wedding venue Rockin’ TJ Ranch lays the feels on thick with 10 acres of marvelous meadows and Bridger Mountains views. With full service planning and professional catering, a couple’s every need is accounted for so they can focus on the COURTESY OF DAVEY JOHNSON PHOTOGRAPHY marital fun. Aside from the 4,800-square-foot Grand Hall, the venue features an outdoor ceremony site as well, equipped with arches, benches, a patio and bar. There’s even a bridal salon and groom’s tent. Services can be customized to fit the needs of every bride and groom. Added incentive is being less than six miles from downtown Bozeman and 10 miles from Yellowstone International Airport. Address: 651 Lynx Lane, Bozeman Phone: (406) 585-0595 Website: rockingtjranch.com
Be a part of history while making your own at Billings’ historical Northern Hotel. Located in the heart of downtown, celebrate your big day amid the cityscape. Wedding packages can include an hour-long consultation with Patricia Clark Weddings, a pre-nuptial night stay, a rehearsal dinner, brunch or gift-opening breakfast at TEN’s private dining room. Additional amenities include a secure gift room, concierge service, private dressing rooms and lots of champagne. The hotel’s grand ballroom features theater-style lighting and phenomenal sound control, adding to the romantic ambiance every couple dreams of. Address: 19 N. Broadway, Billings Phone: (406) 867-6767 Website: northernhotel.com
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BY TARA CADY It’s time to kill it. But don’t worry—the only thing that’s dying is your cellphone battery after all the photos you take of next year’s trending styles. Knock ‘em dead with wedding décor ideas from Cassie LaGreca of Better to Gather Events.
Big City Colors in Big Sky Country
What happens on the New York fashion runway doesn’t have to remain a faraway fantasy. Incorporate trending colors into your big day to give it the celebrity status it deserves. “With Pantone announcing the color of the year [2017] as greenery, you can expect to continue to see lots of cascading bouquets, greenery garlands on arches and tables, and in ceiling décor,” LaGreca said. Muted pastels are also popular. LaGreca suggests pairing soft tones like blush with richer tones like burgundy.
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The Woodland Wedding
For the bride who wants to bring the outdoors to her indoor ceremony, a woodland, garden or enchanted forest theme is the perfect fit. Other trending themes on the edgier side include industrial and farmhouse, modern and high-drama, LaGreca said. “In Montana we still have our fair share of laid-back casual, barn, mountain boho and rustic themes as well,� she said.
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“The details are what guests encounter intimately,” LaGreca said. Sharing a cup of hot cocoa before the main course and having a thoughtful thank you note at each guest’s seat are ways to show appreciation for attendance. Plus, accents pull the theme together. “You wouldn’t think that something like a tablecloth could make a big impact in a space, but when those are on every table in your space they certainly can make a huge difference in the overall look and feel of your space.”
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Sunsets. Walks on the Rims. Candlelit dinners under a full moon. It’s all romantic, which is why Alicia Pettys and Neal Hines went into the wedding business as a planning and photography duo. Off the Beaten Path Wedding is not your average vendor. Owners Pettys and Hines are in love, not only with each other but with the great outdoors and what that brings to a marriage. They envision a nontraditional ceremony and reception, one where the bride and groom backpack and climb a mountain or navigate a river after saying, “I do.” They create a unique, adventurous wedding experience, and the niche company caters to couples who hike, climb, ski, raft… you name it – literally – and they’ll see if they can make it happen. Hines is a guide with Adventure Whitewater in Absarokee and is also a photographer. He considers himself an amateur meteorologist too, knowing within days if a weather-dependent wedding will be a wash thanks to regularly chasing storms. Pettys works full-time with Northern Plains Resource Council as a lead organizer. Her experience with logistics translates into the wedding scene. She knows what questions to ask couples considering a day hike or more strenuous voyage. Here are some things she says to consider for a wedding adventure:
Can the site accommodate food?
Off the Beaten Path Wedding has a “leave no trace” philosophy. If food can’t be carried and secured away from wildlife, it’s a safety hazard and nuisance.
Can you handle the terrain?
Elderly, disabled and pregnant guests as well as small children probably can’t climb a mountain, so maybe save the adventure for before or after the wedding.
Are you OK with Plan B?
Montana weather is unpredictable, so flexibility is key. “Anything in the backcountry, you have to be prepared for it,” Hines said. Contingency plans will be in place for the worst case scenario, like scheduling photography for another day.
You need to give at least six months’ notice.
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Emily Halverson and Alex Tyler hiked two-and-a-half miles to get married in a meadow surrounded by mountains. PHOTOS COURTESY OF MIDNIGHT RAYS PHOTOGRAPHY
“I know I’ve hiked these spots and thought, start planning. Active couples are not only com‘Wow, how beautiful would it be to get married peting with other like-minded future brides and grooms, they’re competing with everyone who here?’” she said. Here are a few of Off the Beaten Path Wedloves the outdoors. ding’s ideas: • The Beartooth Pass What is the area like on your proposed • Yellowstone National Park chalets wedding date? • Medicine Rock State Park Pettys recommends visiting where you’d like • Clarks Fork trailhead near Cooke City to elope or celebrate your marriage at the time • Yellowtail Dam of year you plan to wed. What are the flowers And if it’s a destination wedding with guests like? Is there sap on the trees? Will there be a bug coming from out of town, Pettys and Hines proproblem? How is the sunset? Pettys and Hines have their favorite spots. pose the idea of a pre-wedding whitewater raftHines loves eastern Montana, with its open, ing trip, where the bride and groom’s families golden fields and big skies. Pettys loves state are mixed together as a way to really get to know each other. parks.
A wedding hike turns the average ceremony into an experience.
Newlyweds Alex Tyler and Emily Halverson got hitched before Off the Beaten Path Weddings was a thing, but their wedding story is one any adventurous couple can learn from. Alex took Emily on a 2 ½-mile hike in Hyalite Canyon where a meadow opened up in the mountainous woods outside Bozeman. “He was telling me about all the wildflowers that were there in the spring,” Emily explained of the moments leading up to Alex’s proposal. “When we were actually planning our wedding, that’s the first place that came to mind.” The Billings couple – who met in Bozeman – chose an early July date for their nuptials so they could take full advantage of those blooms. They reserved a pavilion several months in advance so that even if it rained, they’d have some shelter. In true Big Sky Country fashion, the couple tasked family and friends to hike the 2 ½ miles with them to the meadow. And, July 14 proved to be perfect weather. A permit is required if the hiking party is more than 75 people, but Alex and Emily kept the guest list to about 50. The only snag was their grandparents and Alex’s groomslady, who was several months pregnant, not being able to handle the hike. The single road leading to the meadow was gated at the Forest Service cabin, which was reserved along with several other area cabins when Alex and Emily began planning their wedding. Days leading up the big day, Alex left a note on the cabin’s door with Emily’s number. They hoped to get the access code so that Emily’s maid of honor and mother
could drive guests to the meadow for the ceremony. Whoever rented the cabin was getting married too, and they graciously gave Emily and Alex access to the road. With an access code and 90-degree sunshine, guests wore hiking shoes and carried water bottles for the hour-long jaunt. Photographers ran to get ahead of the group to take mid-hike snapshots while Emily and her bridesmaids cheered camp songs at the front of the line. Alex donned sandals with a single string keeping his feet attached to the insoles. He, his groomsmen and groomslady wore utility kilts in honor of his grandfather Tyler’s Scottish heritage as well as his fondness for comfort. Emily hiked in a floral halter dress and changed into her gown in the woods with the help of her bridesmaids. Guests waited without shade from the trees for Emily’s arrival. Arm in arm with her father, Emily walked to where Alex stood amid friends and family. Emily became a Tyler and the two literally tied the knot. The reception commenced at the pavilion, where the wedding party had prepared a backdrop with simple decorations for an early evening dinner and dance. Upon the dusk curfew, the group dispersed to their respective cabins at Mountain Top Retreat.
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BY TARA CADY
here may be more to “I love you to the moon and back” than “men are from Mars and women are from Venus.” That’s because the moon has more to do with life-long love than any other planet, at least that’s what astrologer Omi Preheim thinks. Preheim has been practicing astrology for more than 25 years, with 10 spent in the Billings area. Also ordained, she’s counseled couples before and after their nuptials so they can better understand their love and compatibility. While most people only account for their sun sign when researching horoscopes, all of the planets are involved in predicting and explaining connection and behavior, especially the inner five—Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars. “I’ve never been able to make sun signs work for stable romance, but definitely for friendships,” said Preheim. “It’s
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about long-lasting friendship. Romantic relationships that survive are based much more on emotion and intuition and whether or not we feel safe and comfortable with this person. This is so incredibly important for true lasting love attachment.” Moon signs involve emotion, intuition and comfort. It’s how we handle emotions. The sun sign is “the part of you that is aching to shine out” and the moon sign is the “inner you.” Preheim says it’s important to know both. Astrology is taught in United Kingdom universities. Calculate your and your partner’s moon sign using UKbased websites lunarium.co.uk/moonsign/calculator.jsp and astrocal.co.uk/moon-sign-calculator. Unlike other planetary calculations, your moon sign doesn’t require a place of birth, only your birth time. Compare and contrast each moon sign below. For further analysis, see https://cafeastrology.com/moonsigncompatiblity.html.
ARIES MOON
TAURUS MOON
GEMINI MOON
CANCER MOON
Like a wildfire, an Aries Moon moves quickly. Its pace makes for an equally fast feeling of emotions, and a quick temper may just as soon subside into forgiveness. Because of their fleeting temperament, they aren’t well suited for those who like to dwell and talk about feelings. That’s also a testament to their emotional self-sufficiency. “To their credit, what they lack in patience, they more than make up with passion,” Preheim said. “Aries Moons can be the most ardent of lovers.”
As is typical with fixed signs, Taurus Moons are stubborn and persistent. But Taureans set themselves apart from other strong-willed signs with their love of comfort. A moon in Taurus can give partners romance and sensuality, said Preheim. Along with a strong, deep affection comes practicality. They can help others feel safe and are reliable, but it’s hard to push them into anything. Once committed, they’re looking for endurance.
Air signs are anything but airheads, though they might appear to be. With a million thoughts at once, these curious and interesting people are often restless. Emotions can be an irritating subject, but the only real solution is for them to be in touch with their feelings. That way, they’ll be understood and more comfortable. On the surface, they are very witty and can talk about anything with anybody, said Preheim.
Cancer Moons wear their hearts on their sleeves. They’re in touch with their feelings, so it’s easy to tell whether they’re having a good or bad day. Preheim says that emotional insight extends to understanding others’ feelings, too. These sweet and sensitive people prefer peace over conflict and have an “extraordinarily fun sense of humor.” With great concern over home and family, they’re often very attached and dependable despite mood swings.
Cardinal Modality Fire Element
Fixed Modality Earth Element
Mutable Modality Air Element
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LEO MOON
Mutable Modality Earth Element
VIRGO MOON
Cardinal Modality Air Element
LIBRA MOON
SCORPIO MOON
A Leo Moon’s fire burns steadily, so they’ll follow through on their passionate commitments to the finish line. “With huge warm hearts, their love is passionate and given with generous spirit,” said Preheim. Their stubborn persistence makes for not getting over hurts easily, especially since they like their ego stroked. They want to be pet and heard and enjoyed, she said.
Preheim says all of the earth signs like security. Virgo Moons find security in the little things, noticing what’s wrong and fixing it. “The Virgo likes to feel useful and needed.” Reliable, trustworthy and practical, they tend to worry when their inherent helpfulness is not appreciated. Generally shy, they don’t like “gushy affection” and can be a little stiff. “When they are comfortable, they are anything but shy,” said Preheim.
Libra Moons feel incomplete without a partner. “That is what their soul is set up to learn,” said Preheim. This airy moon strives for perfection and can get discontented when reality doesn’t match their idealism. “Libra rules contracts, and Librans are looking for fairness,” she said. Diplomatic, they are not always true to their deeper needs because of putting others first. Being sympathetic and concerned is their way of acting out of love.
“First of all, they radiate strength,” Preheim said. “I’m strong, therefore I’m not needy,” is a charismatic statement that comes to mind. Scorpio Moons don’t want others to see their emotional intensity, “a radiation of mystery and sexuality.” With strong emotional boundaries, they “navigate deep emotional waters with radar, send out pings energetically and see how people respond.” When attached, they don’t break up easily.
Fixed Modality Water Element
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CAPRICORN MOON
AQUARIUS MOON Fixed Modality Air Element
Mutable Modality Water Element
Sagittarius Moons are generous and optimistic, “most interested in the sharing of the things that they are excited about,” Preheim said. Adventurous, they love going places and take knowledge from the experience to inform others. Not solely focused on themselves, they may just as well “want to really understand the learnings you’ve got.” Their mutable qualities combined with fire are like embers that can either dissipate or start a fire anew.
Capricorn Moons need to be seen as competent. “Capricorns are achievement-oriented in general,” said Preheim. They tend to keep turbulent emotions in check so they can seem steady and reliable. Looking for the same security and safety they provide, “they will probably shy away from an overly emotional person.” Preheim says they like to be seen as mountains of strength. “However, Capricorn Moon’s happiness depends on finding a partner who can perceive the sensitivity hidden inside, supporting their ability to feel strong emotion.”
With a progressive streak and concern with humanity, lunar Aquarians are very idealistic and have a strong ego. They feel “as if they are on the outside looking in” and identify as being different. With a cool and detached personality, they need freedom and space to be themselves. Preheim says they can be trustworthy, loyal and very charming. “They see things in the world as the rest of us don’t – and it can be very fascinating.”
“Soft-hearted and sweet, (Pisces Moons) can really help us understand each other with great compassion and teach us a lot about having faith,” Preheim said. Tending to be very intuitive, they are dreamy and not always touching reality. Without clear boundaries, they can easily lose themselves, become doormats and need recharging. Although they can talk to anybody about their passions, they can’t tell you everything because what they feel is often beyond words.
Mutable Modality Fire Element
Cardinal Modality Earth Element
PISCES MOON
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e can’t all live and love in Montana. If we did, it wouldn’t have more cows than couples, and we want to keep Big Sky Country vast and vitalizing for veterans and visitors alike. One way we share Montana with the world is through destination weddings. Lyndsey Bachmeier, owner of Wildflower Montana Weddings in Red Lodge, likens the saying, “the mountains are calling,” to the area’s appeal. Roughly 50 percent of Wildflower clients have roots in Montana but have relocated elsewhere. Brides as far as Florida are inspired to share the wide open spaces with loved ones. They tell Bachmeier, “Our hearts are in Montana.” “A lot of people turn their weddings into vacations,” she said. Out-of-town couples will need to take in more than the landscape in order to marry in Montana. Without following proper legal protocol, the wedding may be a wash. While native Montanans can apply for a marriage license and be wed in any county, outof-state couples must apply in the county they plan to be married.
A license costs $53 and can be paid with cash, a cashier’s check or card. Paying by card has a three percent processing fee (a $54.59 total cost). The license expires on the 181st day from the date of issuance. An expired license
requires reapplication. Yellowstone County deputy clerk Ted Robey said 1,156 marriage licenses were issued in Yellowstone County in 2016. That’s more than four licenses a business day.
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With the help of Billings Depot executive director, Jennifer Mercer, wedding decorator Cassie LaGreca with Better to Gather Events, and Stefan Cattarin of Visit Billings, here are seven more reasons why couples are marrying in Billings and beyond:
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Air service.
“With a strong regional airport, flying guests into Billings can be a huge cost saver from other parts of the state.” ~ Stefan Cattarin
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Inexpensive venues.
“For $30,000 in Billings you can have an epic adventure. That isn’t true of most places.” ~ Jennifer Mercer
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Beautiful and vibrant downtown.
“From the Rims to the river, you can find beautiful views and vistas from almost anywhere in Billings.” ~ Stefan Cattarin
“Our downtown is so walkable that it’s easy to have a day of fun brewery hopping followed by a rehearsal dinner at a nice restaurant, followed by the wedding itself and possible even a brunch the next day – all just steps apart.” ~ Cassie LaGreca
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Scenic vistas.
Surrounded by history.
“We’re surrounded by amazing historical sites. Obviously Yellowstone National Park, the Beartooth Highway.” ~ Jennifer Mercer
Abundant accommodations.
Billings boasts 5,000 hotel rooms and 55 hotels, more lodging than anywhere else in Montana. “Variety offers better selection, better
room rates and better assortment of wedding packages for weddings of all budgets and preferences.” ~ Stefan Cattarin
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Vacation worthy.
“There’s plenty here for guests to do in Billings besides just attend the wedding and it provides a great jumping off point for any of the fun outdoorsy adventures guests want to tack-on as part of their visit here.” ~ Cassie LaGreca
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THE ALBUM BY TARA CADY Montana weddings make us swoon. So much so that we selected seven local weddings to make a similar impression on you. Within their stories, you’ll see why it’s hard to keep a proposal a secret, what it means to marry in Big Sky Country and how wedding day stress washes away when he lays eyes on you. Let this be the sign you were waiting for to start planning your own special day.
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TANIISHA & JARED
• AUGUST 19, 2017
HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS
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Wedding & Reception: Camelot Ranch Photography: Tabby Miller Photography Dress: Belle en Blanc Cake: Jayne’s Signature Sweets Hair: Loraine Leslie, A Head of Our Time Salon & Spa DJ/Band: Prince Party Productions Jeweler: Riddle’s Jewelry Caterer: Red Door Lounge Photo booth: Nantes Photobooth
Taniisha Billy and Jared Johnson met on a cold Montana winter night. They’d been invited by friends to the Christmas Stroll in Bozeman, but were strangers to each other. So when Taniisha took Jared’s arm while walking together, it took him by surprise and sparked his interest in her. They talked the whole night and enjoyed their first hours together immensely. Jared wanted to have dinner soon, but Taniisha was reluctant. To her, coffee and breakfast were less intimidating alternatives. Four weeks’ worth of morning get-togethers proved Jared was dinner date material. They scheduled a day of snowshoeing in Hyalite Canyon and an evening meal. “I surely knew I was in it for the long run when we both admitted that we both wanted a relationship with God,” Taniisha said. Months of dating felt like an eternity to Taniisha. It was hard for her to remember life without him. “You know that saying, ‘Home is where the heart is,’ well, Jared, he is my home,” she said. “Wherever we’re at, I’m home.” The feelings were mutual, and Jared proposed on a Triple Tree Trail hike outside Bozeman. Overlooking the valley, he asked his friend to take their picture while he got down on one knee. The couple took advantage of new Billings venue, Camelot Ranch, for its convenient location and appealing facilities. They married overlooking the property’s pond beneath an arch Jared made and celebrated with friends and family in the barn afterward. Burgundy, blush and signs handmade by Taniisha decorated the reception. The newlyweds took a “minimoon” to Glacier National Park and will be officially honeymooning in Bali, Indonesia in early 2018.
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GEORGANNA & TAYLOR
• OCTOBER 8, 2016
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Wedding & Reception: Billings Depot Photography: Jessica Simonton Photography Dress: David’s Bridal Tux: Men’s Wearhouse DJ: DJ Benefit Florist: Mac’s Floral Caterer: Blues BBQ
Georganna Covington and Taylor Dees met in fifth grade. But it wasn’t until their senior homecoming dance that Taylor first told Georganna he loved her while Aerosmith’s “I Don’t Want To Miss A Thing” played in the background. They haven’t missed a moment together since. While out for dinner celebrating Georganna’s mother’s birthday, a present sat on her mom’s seat. “The next thing I know two dozen roses come walking through the door and are placed directly in front of me,” Georganna said. “I read the card on the roses, which reads, ‘Roses are red. Violets are blue. I have a serious question for you.’” Blindsided, she looked to her left at Taylor down on one knee. Georganna and Taylor chose the Billings Depot for its convenient location and attentive staff. On the big day, the blushing bride didn’t have to stress out. Not even once. “From the morning until midnight, our day was so amazing,” said Georganna. Nerves set in as Georganna’s grandfather walked her down the aisle and she locked eyes with Taylor, who had tears in his eyes. Every fall color – especially purple – was incorporated into the beautiful backdrop. Georganna’s grandfather officiated as the bride and groom read their own vows. “I honestly cannot tell you what else was going on around us because we were both so focused on each other that we didn’t care,” she said. The newlyweds’ first dance was to that special Aerosmith song, and then the whole gang broke loose in dance, laughter and love. Having that time for fun was important to the high-school sweethearts. “We wanted to celebrate everyone around us who had supported us to this day,” Georganna said. The Deeses have yet to celebrate their honeymoon, but it’ll be hard to beat the joy they shared on their big day.
MALLORY & WAYNE
• JANUARY 28, 2017
WATERFALLIN’ FOR YOU
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Wedding & Reception: 2905 Photography: Miranda Murdock Photography Cake: Dancing Oven Bakery Dress: Eskay Bridal Beauty: Sarah Smith, Beauty Frenzy Montana Caterer: Abby’s Catering Company Wedding Planner: Patricia Clark Weddings
Common friends and disinterests brought Mallory Hatfield and Wayne Hexum together. Though they both went to high school at Billings Senior, Wayne hung out in the dark hallways and flew under Mallory’s radar. She jokes maybe they would’ve dated sooner if he hadn’t. It took their friends becoming friends to connect them years later. Their first date was their last time at the fair. They aren’t fans of the funnel cake-filled city carnival, but that didn’t stop them from seeing each other a few more times before Mallory returned to Bozeman for her last year of college. The couple traveled back and forth until Mallory came back to Billings to student teach. Road trips had become their thing – so they drove to Libby to see friends Heather and Mike. On the way, Mallory told Wayne about a “cool bridge” she wanted to visit. He didn’t say anything. Then, she mentioned it to Heather; same response. Heather changed her tune the next morning when she suggested going to the Kootenai Falls Bridge. She suggested Mallory wear something cute but comfortable. “Wayne didn’t speak and kept his hand in his pocket the whole time,” Mallory said. “And Mike tried to cover up the silence with extensive silliness.” Mallory had a feeling “it was coming” and when it did, she worried Wayne would drop the ring in the river because he was so nervous. With one resounding “Yes,” Mallory and Wayne chose 2905 (a multi-purpose space named after its address on Montana Avenue in Billings) as their wedding and reception venue. “We loved the character of the building,” Mallory explained. “As a bride, I loved having a space so beautiful it did not need any decorations.” Simplicity made way for a small, intimate wedding. And while the venue transitioned from “I Do” to dancing, guests sipped on cocktails at The Northern. Mallory says people still talk about Mallory’s father’s welcome speech and the amazing food from Abby’s Catering Company. As husband and wife, Wayne and Mallory spent a few nights at Chico Hot Springs, but are looking forward to attending a wedding in Jamaica next spring. “It’s a great excuse for a Caribbean vacation after a year of marriage.”
KRISTI & CODY
• SEPTEMBER 24, 2016
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Wedding: Riverfront Park Reception & Caterer: Elks Lodge Photography: Simply Sara Photography Dresses: David’s Bridal Tuxes: Men’s Warehouse DJ: Daniel Nichols, Professional Audio & Lighting, Inc.
Kristi Kruger and Cody Lux are both from Billings. She went to high school at Skyview. He went to West. They were in honors choir together and she’d frequent his soccer games, cheering for a friend, not him. They didn’t know each other. But when Cody was the cute resident assistant at a Montana State University residence hall, everyone wanted to know him, including Kristi. “Somehow I ended up catching his attention and we started talking and seeing each other,” she said. Kristi and Cody dated for three-and-a-half years before he popped the question. It went like this: Cody’s grandparents were in town visiting and had a mixer passed down from Cody’s great-grandparents that they were going to gift the young couple. Kristi wanted to use it that night, but Cody was obsessed with his new truck. He stole Kristi away from the kitchen for yet another joy ride. He took her to a nearby lake and as they crossed a bridge, he said her full name. And then he asked. “I don’t think I have ever answered a question so fast in my entire life, and of course the answer was, ‘Yes,’” Kristi said. They took their time planning a fall wedding, marrying just a little more than a year after the proposal. Their families forecasted a perfect day. Kristi’s aunts and cousins did makeup and hair. Another aunt arranged bouquets of faux roses, daisies and wildflowers. Kristi’s mom made the cake. And Cody used his pickup as the getaway truck for their night at the Northern Hotel, which they won at a bridal fair. A crafty couple, Cody and Kristi constructed the centerpieces out of corks they’d asked local businesses to save for them. The two combined their favorite colors — dark purple, or eggplant, and burnt orange – and matched them with Riverfront Park’s fall feel for a charming ceremony. With more than 200 guests, they chose the Elks Lodge for the reception. Cody intended to “fake drop” Kristi during their first dance, but slipped on her dress and they nearly tumbled down together. “But I caught her and it looked worse than it really was,” said Cody. “We made the night the best night (we) have ever had together.” To top it off, the Luxes celebrated their honeymoon in London and Paris.
SARAH & MICHAEL
• OCTOBER 8, 2017
A MATCH MADE IN MONTANA
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Wedding, Reception & Food: Quaking Aspen Ranch Photographer: Miranda Murdock Photography Bride’s dress: Step’n Out Bridesmaid dresses: David’s Bridal DJ/Band: YO DJ! Disc Jockeys Jeweler: Riddle’s Jewelry
Listening to pick up lines at the bar didn’t appeal to either Sarah Bicknese or Michael Webb, so they tried match.com instead. Before Sarah cancelled her membership, she and Mike exchanged numbers. Neither called each other; the timing wasn’t right. But when Sarah reinstated her account a few months later, she saw Mike was still listed and emailed him. They finally met in person at Doc Harper’s after a few weeks. “Our first date ended up being eight hours long as we ended up sitting in my car talking until the wee hours of the morning,” Sarah said. Easy communication continued, and at the couple’s four-month mark, they took a trip to Chico Hot Springs. “(We) got caught up in the magic of Chico as so many do and the topic of marriage came up while we were having dinner,” she said. Mike bought a ring two weeks later, but the quick-moving couple weren’t officially engaged. Mike wanted to propose in Virginia. He couldn’t wait that long. After a weekend spent traveling to and from Missoula and cleaning up hail damage, Sarah and Mike were exhausted. “I flopped down on my bed and Mike came in and said, ‘Come in here,’” Sarah said. “I proceeded to act silly and refuse to get up, so every time he tried I would go limp and act like I couldn’t get up.” Mike threw Sarah over his shoulder and carried her into the living room, where he tossed her on a chair and got down on one knee. Quaking Aspen Ranch in Absarokee was an easy venue choice. Camper hookups allowed for both families and the wedding party to stay at the ranch on what Sarah describes as the “perfect fall day.” The colors peaked that weekend, and at 75 degrees, the weather could not have been better. Turquoise accents stood out against the fall foliage, and the reception’s caramel apple and s’mores bars fit the bill for seasonal snacks. “Mike and I were just so happy to be getting married, we couldn’t help but smile.”
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ANNIE & TYLER
• SEPTEMBER 9, 2017
ROMANCE ON THE R ANCH
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Wedding: Annie’s family’s ranch Reception: Big Horn County fairgrounds Photography: Cabel Noteboom Photography Dress: Belle en Blanc Cake: Sugar by Chaley Bridal bouquet: Gainan’s Flowers DJ/Band: Exit 53 Jeweler: Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers
Growing up 30 miles apart, Annie Allen and Tyler Larson knew of each other. They both went to school in small towns and came from ranching families. But as adults, they found themselves reacquainted at a bar one night in Billings. It was then everything clicked. Like a scene taken from a romantic comedy, Tyler pulled up to a jewelry store as his grand proposal and gave Annie the reigns to choose her ring. The straight-shootin’ couple chose Annie’s family’s ranch with sweeping views of the Big Horn River as their venue and the Big Horn County fairgrounds for their reception. They shared memories in Hardin from their days in 4-H and rodeo, plus it was the closest town with hotel accommodations. “It meant a lot to me to say our vows overlooking the place I’ve always been lucky enough to call home,” Annie said. And because the small ceremony was intimately connected to place, Annie and Tyler stood beside an altar made of burnt cedar trees from her ranch. Additional details included a cake table in the form of a large, wire spool with a crocheted tablecloth made by Annie’s grandmother. “There were so many personal touches, but what I’m most proud of is that the entire wedding was really made possible by our families and people that we love and help out on the ranch,” she said. “No wedding planner, caterer. It was all us, and it was beautiful!” A unity candle ceremony was substituted for dirt, but it’s sweeter than it sounds. Using soil from Tyler’s ranch’s roping box and Annie’s family’s ranch, it was the couple’s personal spin on typical wedding tradition. “It was the perfect reflection of my own style and the lifestyle that Ty and I love.”
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LAUREN & JARET
• OCTOBER 15, 2016
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Wedding & Reception: Swift River Ranch Photography: Simply Sara Photography Cake: Dancing Oven Bakery Florist: DeeLynn Designs Floral Art Jeweler: Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers DJ: Best Music Productions Hair: Paige Berwick, Blown Away Salon & Spa
They were friends first, lovers second. Lauren Henry and Jaret Christensen met at a mutual friend’s house and after five years of hanging out and building a strong foundation, the two began dating. For one of Lauren’s family’s annual summer trips to Seeley Lake, Jaret joined in for some opportune fishing time. “On the last day of the trip, Jaret was very adamant about taking a canoe out on the lake to fish,” Lauren said. “But between the fires and rainy weather, his plans kept having to be delayed.” Unlike the serious fisherman he is, Jaret let his fishing line tangle up under the canoe. Lauren’s confusion turned into surprise as Jaret asked her to be his wife in the middle of the lake. The Montana natives chose Swift River Ranch as their venue for its rustic-yet-classy feel. The river, rocks, trees and barn took Lauren’s breath away, and she knew it would accommodate the couple’s 250-plus guests. Sunshine showed itself on their big day, radiating 75-degree warmth for their outdoor ceremony and indoor barn reception. The bridesmaids wore strapless light blue gowns and held bouquets with peach roses and off-white hydrangeas. The groomsmen donned light gray tuxes. During the ceremony, Jaret and Lauren placed mementos into a time capsule. Included are love letters, a bottle of wine and a poem to enjoy at their one-year anniversary. The Christensens honeymooned at Chico Hot Springs for its low-key, romantic and historic vibe. “It’s the perfect destination for a long weekend to just relax and spend quality time with your loved ones.”
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Before Bernie was a Skiles, she was a girl from a small Iowa town with dreams of being in the FBI. And they accepted her application, but dad said she couldn’t leave the Hawkeye State. It’s a good thing she didn’t, because after World War II, paratrooper veteran Brisbin Skiles was living just 50 miles away in another small Iowa town. Brisbin’s friend had a date to a dance, but didn’t have a ride. Brisbin had just bought a 1935 Plymouth, but didn’t have a date. He agreed to give his friend a ride to the dance if his date would find a girl for him. While there was no second date for Brisbin’s friend, Brisbin had a date for 70 years. “That must’ve been right away,” Bernie said when asked when she knew she’d met the one. Brisbin used his new car to stay in touch with Bernie. They also telephoned, she added. After four months of dating, Bernie and Brisbin were married Aug. 27, 1947 at the Iowa State Fair. The Skiles have kept the love alive for seven decades through traveling to Willie Nelson and Waylon Jennings concerts as well as back to visit family in both Iowa and Pennsylvania. Bernie, Brisbin and their brood of four children relocated to Joliet, Montana in 1964 when Brisbin took a superintendent position with the local school district. When asked how they’ve managed to hold strong after all those years, Brisbin said, “I guess she puts up with a lot, you know.” Daughters Linda McNabb and Barbara Newton chimed in that their parents have survived a lot together, including both having strokes and cancer. For their 70th wedding anniversary, the Skiles’s children surprised Brisbin and Bernie with dinner at Golden Corral. The veteran couple have 11 grandchildren, 19 great-grandchildren and 3 great-great-grandchildren. Brisbin and Bernie Skiles continue to live independently together in Billings with regular help from family. Both say they don’t know what advice they’d give to couples today, but Bernie’s known for her banana bread, so there might be something there.
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Bernie and Brisbin Skiles were married Aug. 27, 1947 at the Iowa State Fair. COURTESY PHOTO
Brisbin and Bernie Skiles have been married 70 years. CASEY PAGE, GAZETTE STAFF
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