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Real Montana Weddings

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The Trunk Show Experience

BY TARA CADY

Vows That Wow

BY TARA CADY

The Album

BY CHARITY DEWING & TARA CADY 7 unique Montana weddings

Down the Aisle

ALL THE DETAILS YOU NEED FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY

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The Suit The Photos The Venue The Ring

In Every Issue

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Share the Love

Unveiled

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From the Editor

I Thee Wed

Donna and Gary Pippin Burning the Point

Real Montana Weddings

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GOWNS • TRUE LOVE STORIES

On the Cover: Bride Hannah McGarrah smiles with bridesmaids on her

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wedding day. Photo by Simply Sara Photography. Cover design by Nadine Bittner of the Gazette staff.

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Newlyweds Brittany and Braydon Rasmussen play in the field at the Barnsion. Photo by Amber Renee Photography.

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Spread the Love ‌You say you’re marrying your best friend, but how would you know that?

It’s because of your original besties, your soul sisters, who have been there long before you became a bride-to-be.

They know your type, your pet peeves, your ideal date, but now so does he. And as you walk down the aisle, your bridesmaids relinquish their title of best friend to your husband.

It’s bittersweet, yes, but what’s coming for them next may be your bouquet.

In this issue of Big Sky Bride magazine, we show you and your girlfriends that a wedding is the best way to spread the love to everyone in your life.

Shower moms, bridesmaids and groomsmen with gifts they can wear from your big day forward. Necklaces, watches and earrings are all up for grabs from local retailers in our Unveiled section (page 6).

And on page 9, give the boys bragging rights with tuxedo tips from Hew Hundley, owner of The Gentleman’s Gamble.

Granted, the greatest gift you can give is yourself.

Boudoir photographer Tara Reiners bares the basics of making husband-only material on page 10.

No ceremony is complete without some waterworks, so work on your vows with advice from wedding planner Wendy Means (page 17).

As you enter the 2018 wedding season, don’t lose yourself in the pre-marital process.

We’ve found ways to please your pocketbook. Billings plays host to several bridal trunks shows annually, with many offering discounts on dresses. Preview the perks of shopping smart on page 15.

If other Big Sky brides have done it, so can you.

Starting on page 19, follow the lead of seven couples who’ve been in your shoes. It’s their romantic stories that keep us inspired to spread the love to you.

Tara Cady Senior Editor Big Sky Bride magazine

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Inventive accents and elements for your big day.

ARRANGED BY CHARITY DEWING & TARA CADY Photos by Larry Mayer & Casey Page‌

EVERYTHING’S ROSES

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Worn with white or color, the .34 carat diamonds and 14-karat white gold completes the look of any formal outfit.

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GOOD TIMING

If you are looking for a timeless gift for the fathers of the bride and groom, this men’s Citizen timepiece is an excellent fit.

WELL-GROOMED

For the groom or his groomsmen, John Atencio cuff links add an exclusive impression to the special day.

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STAY CLASSY

Elegant and impressive, this vintage-style bracelet is a one-of-a-kind gift for any woman in the wedding party.

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YOLO FOR YOGO

A teardrop white gold pendant looks stunning on both bride and mom. Eye-catching diamonds encapsulate the striking yogo sapphire, creating a sparkling impression.

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THAT’S THE SPIRIT

Don’t make the groomsmen decide between whiskey or scotch. Each can have their favorite liquor without compromise, though they’ll probably share anyway.

Flasks are customizable with engraving.

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STATE OF THE HEART

When you marry in Montana, out-of-state wedding guests won’t want to leave. Give them a parting keepsake as reminder of where love flourishes and yogo sapphires abound.

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ENGRAVE THE MEMORY

This rose gold bar necklace is a guaranteed hit with bridesmaids. Also available in sterling silver, customize it with a name, date or phrase that will stay with them after the wedding.

Available at Greenleaf’s Jewelry Starting at $65-299 without engraving

PRACTICAL AND MEMORABLE

Nothing says “Montana man” like a pocket-knife. The engraved goldplated key chain with sterling silver blade will be a lasting memento for groomsmen.

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MOTHER OF PEARL

IMPRESS THE DRESS

Available at Clark Avenue Jewelers $600

Available at Montague’s Silver $90-175

You can’t go wrong with black pearls and diamonds for the matriarch you love the most.

This pendant dazzles on the mother of the bride or groom.

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SAY IT WITH CHARM

Looking for a thank you gift? Get each of your bridesmaids this sterling silver charm bracelet. The delicate bangle flawlessly matches any wedding color.

Bridesmaids shouldn’t play it by ear when it comes to wedding accessories. Assorted Bastian semi-precious stud earrings make color-coordinating easy.

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the suit COURTESY OF THE ARTISTIC LENS

It may be her day, but does he want to wear a tux that smells like someone else’s wedding?

Hew Hundley poses that question to grooms considering renting a suit; he’s the owner of The Gentleman’s Gamble, a partnership with the downtown Billings bridal boutique, Belle en Blanc.

“Our mantra is to bring the classic man into the modern world,” he explained.

Hundley holds a background in tailoring and sales, which combined with his love of cigars and dressing fancy has forced his hand into the suit business.

Look like a million bucks

“I want people to know why they’re wearing what they’re wearing,” Hundley said.

There are two ways to get a formal education on formal wear, at a suit clinic or a consultation.

Clinics teach how to iron, press, hem and package a formal outfit. Consultations for grooms should include the bride.

“I always joke around with him and say, ‘What’s she looking for?’ and ‘Bring her,’” Hundley said.

It takes five to 10 minutes to gauge what a groom needs. First, a decision is made between having a jacket or a vest with trousers. Then, color, fabric and comfort are considered before budget.

Hundley uses a European style of measuring

for accuracy. The first wedding he worked on took 25 measurements.

“I measure each sleeve length, not just one,” he said. “The wrist and bicep are going to be bigger on the dominant hand.”

The whole package

Hundley says the consultation isn’t just about the suit.

“Shoes are often the biggest faux pas, the biggest blunder when wearing a suit,” he said.

Tailoring is currently outsourced in Hong Kong, but Hundley hopes to provide in-house tailoring in the future, plus custom hats, shoes and ties. When a suit package is ready, it is cleaned, pressed and shoes are shined.

“He doesn’t have to worry about his suit,” Hundley said. “She doesn’t have to worry about creases in weird places because he ironed it the night before.”

And, they don’t have to worry about it not fitting properly.

“Not all rentals fit the same,” he said. “The variable in this equation is people, and I fit the person.”

The Gentleman’s Gamble is located at 114 North Broadway. Hours are 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.

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the photos ‌It’s tradition for the bride and groom to exchange presents.

And since she’s the real present he unwraps at the end of the night, boudoir photography is a great gift to give the groom before the day is done.

Photographer Tara Reiners says brides want their partners to find them the most beautiful they will ever be on their wedding day. An album filled with passionate poses helps keep that memory alive.

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Boosting confidence

Boudoir photography is no easy feat.

Reiners begins with a pre-consultation, asking brides where they carry their weight, what features they want to hide and what features they want to emphasize to feel the most beautiful.

She goes over the do’s and don’ts, like briefs (always a no) and clothing with the word “bride,” which is difficult to photograph.

“The teacher part of me knows that we always feel better when we have knowledge,” Reiners said. “Things that cause us fear are the unknown. It’s super important that the communication is coming beforehand so you know what you’re walking into.”

The purpose is not just to please the husband once he finds her wearing the same lingerie shown in the photographs on their wedding night. It’s a confidence boost for the bride before she becomes a Mrs. “We want them to feel confident and beautiful, period, before they go into their wedding day,” she said. “And then they get that amazing reaction from their partner and that really solidifies it.”

Because boudoir photography places brides in an extremely vulnerable position, it’s important for Reiners to reassure clients before the photoshoot.

“Brides are still struggling with the same thing that all women are struggling with, and really that’s more what I chose my business to speak toward. Most brides coming in are super self-conscious; that’s every woman, every day,” she said. “But I’m going to make sure that they look OK.” Dislike your arms? Reiners might recommend a long-sleeve sheer bodysuit, but a positive attitude is required no matter what.

“I have a no negative self-talk rule in the studio, so it’s already set up to be a very positive experience,” she said.

Reiners partners with professional makeup artists and hair stylists to complete the look, and even offers destination sessions in Arizona and Washington for ladies desiring a scenic backdrop.

ladies into certain body positions and use tricks to relax their faces.

Brides should bring a black and nude thong to wear just in case their lingerie choices don’t work.

“Most women, when it comes to lingerie, truly feel lost in what does look good and doesn’t look good,” Reiners said. “And after five years of specializing in boudoir, knowing that somebody has that knowledge can help.”

Photoshoots need to be scheduled at least three months before the wedding date in case last minute changes to the albums are requested.

The heirloom-quality albums have at least 20 different leather covers to choose from. Reiners recommends brides choose the color based on the photos and what their partner likes.

“The average client typically chooses between 15 and 20 photos,” she said. “The average album is standard to come with 20 pages.”

Pricing is based per image with an added session fee. Session descriptions are listed on tarareiners.com.

“Just like a wedding album, it’s meant to tell Details to be desired a story, ” she said. “But in this story, they are just Typical photoshoots take 90 minutes, including the time it takes for Reiners to guide starting a fantasy.”

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the venue Shout it from mountain tops, declare it in a chapel or promise it in a secret garden. Where you say “I do” needs to be a picture-perfect fit for your happy-ever-after. Check out these venues to see if they are a match made in wedding heaven.

Oscar’s Park

Oscar’s Park really is a dreamland.

If you are looking for something outside of the box, Oscar’s Park is just the place. Nestled on the banks of the Yellowstone River, the park provides a variety of venues where couples can take the plunge.

The Town of Cookeville is an on-site settlement of relocated historical buildings. The man-made town offers a church with one of the oldest steeples in Billings, the first schoolhouse

Moss Mansion

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Built in 1903, the iconic Moss Mansion is a desirable venue for many betrothed couples.

The manicured grounds provide the prefect romantic setting for a summer wedding and reception. Couples can say their “I do’s” in one of three luxuriant gardens, then dance the night away with guests under the beautiful white canvas event tent that seats as many as 200.

For colder months or more intimate

in Yellowstone County, an early 1900’s general store, an old-time jail, barber shop and more.

The depot center, originally the historic train depot from Joliet, can comfortably handle parties up to 350 people. The park itself can host groups from 10 to 15,000 people. No wedding is too big or too small.

Address: 3740 Wise Lane, Billings, MT 59101 Phone: (406) 656-0966 Website: oscarspark.com

weddings, the ornamental mansion creates a classic and elegant scene. The mansion can host as many as 70 guests.

With the grand staircase, French parlor and beautiful landscape, the mansion provides memorable backdrops for wedding portraits.

No two events are the same at the Moss.

Address: 914 Division St., Billings, MT 59101 Phone: (406) 256-5100 Website: mossmansion.com

DanWalt Gardens

Do you want your wedding surrounded by flora and fauna?

DanWalt Gardens offers exactly that. The tranquil backdrop of cascading waterfalls, zen gardens and small orchards of tulips, hyacinths, daffodils, and peonies will transport bride, groom and guests into an enchanted setting.

The ornate pavilion creates a beautiful scene for the wedding reception. Up to 200 guests

can celebrate your wedding day surrounded by seasonal blossoms and foliage of every kind.

The serene landscape of DanWalt Gardens presents a spring or summer paradise from Mother Nature that provides more than just a venue for your special day.

Address: 720 Washington St., Billings, MT 59101 Phone: (406) 248-4003 Website: thedanwaltgardens.com

Red Lodge Mountain Golf Course

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Nothing says Montana like a mountain wedding.

Sheltered under the peaks of the Beartooth Mountains, Red Lodge Mountain Golf Course is just the venue for the true Big Sky couple.

Full services are available at the golf course for your wedding and reception.

Staff assists with planning, including basic set-up, catering and bar services. The spacious facility includes two levels of the clubhouse, a spacious wraparound deck and a large

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patio area.

It is more than a great photo-op, it is an experience your guests will never forget.

Imagine saying “I do,� while the sun sets into the valley against a field of wildflowers, a chorus line of meadowlarks and the clean, cool mountain air. This is what Montana dream weddings are made of.

Address: 305 Ski Run Road, Red Lodge, MT 59068 Phone: (406) 446-2610 Website: redlodgemountain.com

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the ring Legend has it that the ring finger is a direct link to the heart through the vein of love. Finding the right ring to accentuate that connection can be daunting. Let us help with a selection of local jewelry. From Montana yogo sapphires to tungsten carbide, there’s something for both him and her.

It’s easy to say “I do” to Tacori. Decorated with diamonds and petite engravings, the 14-karat rose gold ring catches the eye at every angle.

Available at Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers

A 6 mm tungsten carbide band is comfort-fit for a king. The chrome-like rim adds the right amount of sophistication for the dapper gentleman.

Available at Greenleaf’s Jewelry

Want something new and something blue? A vintage-style 14-karat white gold engagement ring is both. Set with a pear-shaped .83-carat Montana sapphire and 26 brilliant-cut diamonds, your left hand will shine on the big day.

Go with the flow like the .60 carats of swirling diamonds in this dazzler. The John Atencio piece boasts 18-karat white gold and a 1.52-carat center, ensuring she’ll be the center of attention.

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This breathtaking ‘20s-inspired ring is an absolute show-stopper. The intricate design includes 44 accent diamonds around a .18-carat diamond center for the ultimate wow-factor.

Available at Greenleaf’s Jewelry

Charcoal never looked so classy. Bordered by 8 mm rose tungsten carbide, this wedding band easily stands out from the rest.

Available at Clark Avenue Jewelers

A nontraditional ring demands attention. Make others green with envy by donning this 18-karat white gold wedding ring. The .70-carat diamonds showcase an exquisite 1.01-carat center and beautiful contrast of colors.

Available at Montague’s Jewelers

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the Trunk Show experience

BY TARA CADY

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t’s hard to find the gown that suits your fancy.

While bridal gown retailers house hundreds of dresses at their storefronts, they can usually only fit 10 to 20 styles from a given collection. Designers may have as many as 40 styles, but more than half of a collection can be missing from the racks due to a lack of retail space.

Trunk shows change that.

Designers bring entire collections to dress

retailers and make an event of it, with many host sites providing mimosas while she slips into something awe-inspiring.

Step’N Out Formal Wear hosts several trunk shows a year, with many being bridal-related. Not only do the featured designers rotate, but so does the intended clientele.

The Billings bridal boutique invited brides to embrace their curves in late January with a collection from Allure Bridals. The two-day show catered to sizes 16-26.

A week later, the retailer hosted its annual “A Day for Mom Trunk Show.”

“We find that moms like to wait for the last minute and then settle for something sub-par,” said Kesley Jones, Step’N Out general manager.

Jones says it’s a way to get moms taken care of before wedding season hits.

Aside from the mother-focused show, which featured dresses from designers like Montage and Adrianna Papell, Step’N Out

focuses on one designer at a time for other shows and uses client feedback to choose what’s being featured.

“We have over 300 dresses in the store to begin with, but there are girls who plan quite a bit in advance and we have the ability to put them on the (designer’s) books,” Jones said.

“We schedule double the appointments we would on a normal day.”

Appointments are 90 minutes each at no cost and seating is guaranteed for four people.

“If they’re willing to rock ‘n roll, we could get in and out of 15 (dresses) by then,” she said.

“It’s kind of a fast and furious thing. There’s a lot of dresses, there’s a lot of people and there’s a lot more selection.”

The quick turnaround means dresses will only be available to try on during those two days, but Step’N Out may accommodate a Monday appointment for someone who wasn’t available on the weekend.

Jones says trunk shows are the only time Step’N Out can discount gowns. Dresses purchased during the show are 10-percent off.

“We recommend coming in open-minded,” Future Billings bride Maureen Wilburn she said. “Don’t be stuck with just the picture watched the popular TV series, “Say Yes to the in your mind that you found online.”

Dress,” when she began her wedding planning.

“I really considered going to New York, going to Kleinfeld,” she said. “I thought, ‘oh, I’m In the flesh‌ going to have to go across the country to find Catalogs and advertisements don’t often translate to reality. Most dress models dif- my dress,’ but I’m glad I didn’t.”

Instead, Wilburn attended various trunk fer from consumers in body composition, so it’s hard to imagine how the gown will drape shows and catwalks, taking photos on her phone. She had a vision, but still kept an open across your unique figure.

At trunk shows, you can determine the mind at the events.

After deciding on a Justin Alexander dress, dress’s fit and form a better opinion.

Belle en Blanc hosts an annual catwalk Wilburn went to the Belle en Blanc catwalk for event in addition to trunk shows. This special a second year in a row, this time volunteering ladies’ night includes several local models of as a model.

Wilburn came away with the grand prize varying sizes that strut their stuff – and plethwhile donning one of the boutique’s dresses. ora dresses — across a platform.

“The joy brings tears to my eyes,” she said While the show is for looks only, future brides and their friends and family can sit, sip days after winning. “I’m still in shock by it all.”

Wilburn is set to be married June 15 at the champagne, snack on appetizers and watch the models do the work for them. And one Billings Depot, now with a lot of weight off lucky bride-to-be in attendance comes away her shoulders. She advises other brides-to-be with a grand prize of $14,000 worth of wed- to “expect the unexpected; be surprised; don’t worry about the small stuff.” ding-related services.

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BY TARA CADY Sweet nothings don’t come easy, especially on paper.

When it comes to writing vows, Wendy Means suggests you ask these two questions.

1. What do you love about your partner?

2. What would you like to promise your partner for your life together?

Means owns Uniquely You Planning in Billings and has been officiating nuptials for four years. Couples who can’t write vows often task a wedding planner like Means to craft something meaningful for them.

“I don’t think it hurts to be working on it throughout the engagement,” Means said. “If they do leave it to the last minute, they may not say what they want to say.”

Instead of rushing the creative process, Means suggests couples have their vows nailed down no later than a month or two before the wedding. If Means is writing the vows, she’ll ask for full love stories from both partners to help her get started.

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“And you know, it’s pages long,” she said. “And unfortunately during a ceremony, you do have an audience. I take the stuff that means the most out of their story and turn that into either part of the ceremony or part of their vows.”

The long-winded stories turn into about three paragraphs for each set of vows.

No contract required

One groom told Means that his fiancée’s feet were always cold.

“In his letter, he was like, ‘It’ll always be my honor to be your blanket and keep your feet warm,’” Means said.

“And she knew what he meant, and she cried, and everyone else kind of giggled.”

Means tries to stay away from popular phrases like: “I promise to love you forever” and “I promise to take care of you.”

“Vows are kind of funny because back in the day they used to be a verbal contract, and it was taken pretty seriously,” Means said. “Now, you

“I don’t think it hurts to be working on it throughout the engagement. If they do leave it to the last minute, they may not say what they want to say.”

Wendy Means, owner Uniquely You Planning

don’t even need vows for the wedding to be legal.

You just need the declaration of intent, which is the ‘I do,’ and the pronouncement of being married in front of witnesses, and the signing of the license which obviously makes it legal.”

But just because vows aren’t valid in a court of law, that doesn’t mean they should be nixed from the nuptials altogether. Guests expect them

as part of the ceremony. And aside from the kiss, it’s the best part.

“They’ll probably talk about it all night and years to come,” Means said.

What’s so punny?

Because these intimate words are meant for your beloved and not the whole world, it can be nerve-wracking to be in the spotlight.

When couples show Means their anxiety, she tells them, “We are the only ones up here; it’s just us three. So, you look into your fiance’s eyes, you tell him what you feel and don’t worry about anyone else. But if you need me, I’m right here.”

Humor relaxes tension and brings the focus back to a happy place.

“And typically most of the vows that I hear, even the ones I write, I try to add something funny,” she said.

Means tries to incorporate puns or poems into every vow, but finding words that hold meaning and summarize everything you want to say can prove difficult with an online search engine. Sometimes, song lyrics fit the bill.

“What’s the point of vows anymore unless it’s you saying what’s in your heart?” she said.

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BY CHARITY DEWING & TARA CADY Our seven Treasure State couples are rich in love.

From mountain high to city sky, their storybook weddings exhibit the hidden gems of the big day.

The dress, the venue, the cake—it all has to be perfect. But through it all, our couples found value in the small things. When the vows are said and the honeymoon is over, the last best place is in each other’s arms.

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ASHLEE & CHRIS

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TAKE IN THE MOMENTS

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Wedding: Henry’s Garage Reception: The Pub Station Photography: Miranda Murdock Photography Dress: Step N’ Out Formal Wear Cake: Velvet Cravings Florist: Mac’s Floral DJ/Band: The Wench Jeweler: Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers Transportation/Limo: Magic City VIP Decorator: Better to Gather Events

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hen Ashlee Mendive moved to Billings and started a new job, she never planned to meet the man of her dreams. It had only been a few months when she noticed a handsome new face at the warehouse where she worked.

Call it infatuation, fascination, or love at first sight; Ashlee was speechless.

He was playing it cool, but Chris Voller was feeling the same attraction to his future wife. He casually asked if she wanted to have lunch and Ashlee didn’t think twice to answer, “Yes.” From that day forward, the couple was inseparable.

Chris proposed to Ashlee on the same day she graduated with her master’s degree. While the family took pictures, Chris prepared to pop the question.

“I went up and asked for one more picture with her,” said Chris. “She looked at me like, ‘We already took a picture, and why is your jacket off?”’

Chris dropped to one knee and said, “Ashlee, I have loved you from the first day I met you. You have made me the happiest man in the world. Will you now make me the luckiest? Will you marry me?”

Ashlee and Chris wanted an outdoor ceremony that would show the majesty of the Big Sky state and an indoor reception to take a break from the August heat.

With 300 friends and family there to celebrate their nuptials, the couple said their “I do’s” under a 100-year-old cottonwood tree at Henry’s Garage.

The rustic and warm environment of the Pub Station provided the reception area. Add in the charming design work from Better to Gather Events and the popular Montana-based band, “The Clintons,” the couple couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day.

Chris only had two requests for their honeymoon destination: somewhere he could wear shorts the entire time and have access to unlimited beverages. They found exactly that at the tranquil beaches of Saint Lucia.

On the big day, Ashlee was told to take in the moments, to stop and look around at the blessings and love that were surrounding them.

“Those are the moments that stick with me today,” she said.

BRITTANY & BRAYDON

• JUNE 17, 2017

LOVE YOUR LOVE THE MOST

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Wedding & Reception: The Barnsion Photography: Amber Renee Photography & Kayla Gilbert Groom’s tux/groomsmen: Step’n Out Formal Wear Cake: Dancing Oven Bakery Hair/Beauty: Lyndee Irish, Blown Away Salon DJ/Band: Yellowstone DJ Company Groom’s hat: Lou Taubert Ranch Outfitters

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rittany Berezay and Braydon Rasmussen have known each other since childhood but their journey didn’t begin until July 2012.

Like the beautiful lyrics of a country song, the couple’s life was full of tailgates, starry skies, hikes with their dogs, and nights with friends.

So, it was nothing out of the ordinary when Braydon took Brittany to dinner at her favorite place one Halloween evening and then her much-loved spot on the Rimrocks to watch the glimmering magic of the city lights.

“We sat on the tailgate talking, and next thing I knew, he asked. Right in front of one of my favorite views,” Brittany said.

The Barnsion Event Center in Harlowton was exactly what the couple was looking for when searching for their perfect venue. To call the Barnsion a barn does not do the event center justice. It is a resplendent manor that ties elegance and rustic Montana flair together. It truly embodies a perfect Big Sky wedding.

“It was like finding a hidden gem,” Brittany said.

The couple celebrated the whole nine yards at the Barnsion: rehearsal dinner, reception and ceremony. Surrounded by their loved ones, Braydon and Brittany were married on the front lawn of the estate, overlooking the Crazy Mountains. The reception was held at the picture-perfect barn, where guests entered through the giant doors to eat, drink and dance into the sunset.

The gorgeous venue was topped off with personalized touches courtesy of the bride and groom (and family): painted mason jars filled with baby’s breath and fairy lights, and beautiful tulle backdrops for the tables. In addition, the bride’s bouquet had two small pictures of her mother tied to it with ribbon and a special seat reserved to commemorate her memory.

How do you top a breathtaking wedding? With the perfect honeymoon destination. The couple spent one week at Glacier National Park whitewater rafting, paddle boarding, kayaking, swimming and just being together.

Like the title of their favorite song, what is most important to this husband and wife, is to “Love Your Love the Most.”

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HANNAH & KOLBY

• JUNE 10, 2017

ALL ABOUT TR ADITION

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Wedding: Evangelical United Methodist Church Reception: Yellowstone Country Club Photography: Simply Sara Photography Dress: Step N’ Out Formal Wear Tuxes: Men’s Warehouse Florist: Gainan’s Flowers DJ: Matt Knoche, Toonz DJ Transportation/Limo: Billings Trolley and Bus Company

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annah Frichtl and Kolby McGarrah’s love story is almost too perfect.

Hannah was a sophomore cheerleader and Kolby was a senior soccer player at West High School.

“I figured out Kolby’s schedule and would happen to be sitting on the ‘Jock Rock’ just as he would be passing by,” Hannah said. “We began to talk and realized we were perfect for each other.”

Years later, both participated as bridesmaid and best man at a friend’s wedding. Kolby seized the opportunity to ask Hannah to be his wife during the bouquet toss.

“Kolby sneakily hid behind me and the rest of the bridesmaids with a ring safely pinned to the inside of his pocket. The bride pretended to get ready to throw the bouquet. Just as she got ready to throw, she turned around and started walking towards me, then handed me the bouquet,” Hannah said.

Behind Hannah was Kolby, down on one knee, with a ring in his hand.

“He asked me to marry him. And I happily said, ‘Yes,’” Hannah said.

Honoring tradition was important to the couple. The wedding was held at the same church Hannah’s parents and grandparents were married, Evangelical United Methodist Church. The couple even used the same unity candle that Hannah’s parents used at their wedding.

Family involvement was also a key element to the big day. Hannah’s twin brother sang during the ceremony and the newlyweds made a special stop between ceremony and reception to see Hannah’s grandparents.

The reception was held at the Yellowstone Country Club.

“That was where my parents had their wedding reception and it has been my dream ever since I was a little girl. I wanted a classy, beautiful golf course/country club wedding,” Hannah said.

They celebrated their nuptials with a relaxing getaway at Chico Hot Springs and plan a tropical vacation on their one year anniversary.

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KASSIE & JAMES

• JULY 22, 2017

LOVE IS IN THE AIR

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Wedding & Reception: Bridger Bowl Ski Area Photography: Amber Renee Photography & Ian Hanson Dress: Belle En Blanc Cake: The Dancing Oven Florist: Sue Stark, Wild Blume Jeweler: Montana Gem

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ames Leaphart and Kassie Klemann met as golf course co-workers the summer before Kassie left for college.

Not deterred by long distance, their attraction stayed the course and continued to grow when James joined Kassie in Bozeman a year later.

And on July 18, 2016, the couple’s love reached new heights in a helicopter hovering over Glacier National Park. That is where James made his grand gesture.

“It was a breathtaking experience that assuredly got the answer he was looking for,” Kassie said.

James and Kassie remained on cloud nine with a mountainous ceremony and reception at Bridger Bowl Ski Area, where James works seasonally and where he taught Kassie to ski.

The July 22 wedding date was important to them; it was their four-year anniversary.

Light shades of blue, gray, green and cranberry adorned the Deer Park Chalet interior, and outside the Bridger Mountains provided their own color palette.

“Our big day was amazing,” Kassie said.

“We were surrounded by close family and friends the entire day. We wanted it to be a pretty relaxed wedding and thankfully we were able to do just that.”

With friends as part of the venue staff, the couple felt comfortable ordering original pizza pies for the reception dinner. And the newlyweds indulged in their own specially-made dessert, a raspberry almond cake by The Dancing Oven, while guests selected from three different flavors of cupcakes.

An all-inclusive honeymoon trip through Groupon to Cozumel, Mexico only sweetened the deal.

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KELSEY & LOGAN

• JULY 22, 2017

SWIPE RIGHT FOR ROMANCE

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Wedding & Reception: Red Lodge Golf Course Photography: Simply Sara Photography Groom’s tux: Men’s Wearhouse Florist: Rock Creek Floral Hair/Beauty: Kathy Hedges, Aqua Salon Jeweler: Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers

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ou could say Kelsey Maher’s first match on Tinder sparked more than a flame.

The recent college grad returned to Billings from Missoula looking for new connections and found Logan Hendricks, a Billings-based architect with interests in the outdoors and traveling. With two mutual friends, Kelsey swiped right and so did Logan.

A few years into dating, Kelsey and Logan revisited a familiar hiking trail. Knowing the importance of capturing the moment, Logan set up a camera near a creek, turned around and asked those famous four words.

Logan married his “Tinderella” at the Red Lodge Mountain Golf Course so that their love story could continue amid the mountains.

Plus, the venue afforded them an outdoor ceremony and indoor reception.

In a Justin Alexander gown, Kelsey walked with confidence to her beloved; Logan donned a Joseph Abboud suit as he waited beneath a flowered arch. Strong July sunrays brightened the nuptial’s navy and periwinkle accents.

In addition to the “I do’s,” the ceremony included hilariously charming tips on a lasting marriage from Logan’s parents. The reception was equipped with table centerpieces handcrafted by Kelsey’s grandmother. And guests took “profile pictures” as tribute to the couple’s beginning in a specially-made Tinder photo booth.

Kelsey let her bridesmaids do their own thing when it came to formal apparel, and they all killed it, she said.

Following the wedding, the Hendrickses hiked the days away in Glacier National Park.

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PAIGE & SKYLER

• SEPTEMBER 16, 2017

SOMETHING BORROWED

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Wedding & Reception: Chancey’s Event Center Photography: Ashlie Tate Photography Dress: Belle en Blanc Cake: Wildflour Cakery Florist: A & E Floral Hair: Brandi Tinnes, Meraki Salon DJ/Band: Prince Party Productions Jeweler: Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers

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even years ago, Paige Lawrence and Skyler Best met at a local watering hole. Since then, they have only had eyes for each other.

Paige, who is the owner of Fringe Salon and Boutique, was working a typical Friday evening when Paige’s parents stopped by to say hello with Skyler. That wasn’t so uncommon, but when Paige noticed Skyler’s mom there, too, she began to question the visit.

“Before I knew it, Skyler was behind me and down on a knee. I honestly blacked out and don’t remember much of what he said.

But I do remember answering him with an enthusiastic, ‘Yeah,’” Paige said.

The simplistic beauty of Chancey’s Event Center accommodated guests for the wedding and reception.

“It was really a blank canvas so we were able to decorate it to really showcase who we are as a couple,” said Paige.

Precious moments like cutting the cake, dancing to tunes and dining on Famous Dave’s were all captured with Ashlie Tate’s artistic lens.

Something Paige and Skyler will never forget was the support from their family.

Paige’s “something borrowed” was a guardian angel pin her mother gave her. The pin represented Paige’s grandfather.

“It was a reminder that I had a guardian angel with me that day,” said Paige.

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TAYLOR & TANNER

• JUNE 30, 2017

TNT, THEY’RE DYNAMITE

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Wedding: St. Patrick’s Co-Cathedral Reception: The Billings Depot Photography: Simply Sara Photography Florist: Mac’s Floral Hair/Beauty: Blinc Beauty Bar DJ/Band: Prince Party Productions Jeweler: Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers Transportation/Limo: Billings Trolley and Bus Company Caterer/Food: Montana Jack’s

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aylor Hanser and Tanner Klein met at a high school basketball game. A Facebook friend request later, and the relationship was a slam dunk.

The couple had their first date at Mystic Lake, where they engraved their initials on a tree. They have returned to that tree every year since.

Knowing Christmas was her favorite holiday, Tanner asked Taylor’s hand in marriage on Dec. 19, in front of the couple’s Christmas tree.

“It was an amazing surprise and everything I ever hoped it would be,” said Taylor.

To honor their parents, Taylor and Tanner married on the day between their parents’ wedding anniversaries.

“Both parents are still married and very much in love. We found the date symbolic and so special since it lands between the two most important relationships in our lives,” Taylor said.

Like Taylor’s parents, vows were exchanged at St. Patrick’s Co-Cathedral. The couple chose the beauty and antiquity of the Billings Depot to host 350 guests for the reception.

The father of the bride was unable to attend, but the nuptials were live-streamed so he didn’t miss a thing. Taylor also received a video tribute from her dad.

The wedding cake, courtesy of LaRae Blaesius, topped off the special day. It was a replica of the carved tree at Mystic Lake, initials and all.

This dynamite couple took it a step further to include their initials and played “TNT,”

by AC/DC. The fireworks continued at Secrets Capri Riviera Cancun.

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BURNING THE POINT

BY CHARITY DEWING In the ‘60s, downtown Billings streets were flooded with teenagers hitting on each other while they hit the gas.

“We all burned the point,” Donna Pippin said. “That is where I met Gary. That is where all of our friends met their spouses.”

Donna was only 15 years old at the time, but knew that 18-year-old Gary was the one.

After several flirtatious encounters, Gary took her to the riverside dance in Laurel. He proposed to Donna a year later at The Frost Top, a Billings favorite for burgers and milkshakes.

“I reached in the glovebox, grabbed the ring and asked her to marry me,” Gary said.

In 1964, on Gary’s day off from Great Western Sugar Company (Western Sugar Cooperative), the couple had a simple and quiet wedding at a church and then celebrated with dinner at the Muzzle Loader Café.

“Donna’s father offered us a choice: he would pay for us to have a bigger wedding or we could have a half acre of land on Shiloh Road,” Gary said.

The couple didn’t hesitate and took the land.

Together, they physically built their home from the ground up, which is symbolic of their marriage and family. Donna and Gary are still at that home to this day, demonstrating devotion and hard work to the generations of children in their family.

The couple married young, but as Donna points out, “It was a different time, then. It was common to get married at a very young age.”

They own Action Toys on Shiloh. Both come from hard-working and humble farmstead backgrounds; the store operates out of their love of farming and toy collecting.

“That kind of upbringing helps you learn that you have to work for everything, including marriage,” Donna said. “We come from a generation where we didn’t just throw things away, we fixed them.”

Donna and Gary often talk about how rare it is now for people to maintain the commitment of marriage. The Pippins believe that the key to a long marriage is effort, compassion and devotion.

“Spats are normal,” Donna said. “We all have bad days. But, you can’t just throw in the towel. We live in a society where people give up too soon. Yes, some things are out of our control, but we can control how we love and respect someone. Gary and I have learned to work through things rather than walk away.”

Four years ago, they celebrated 50 years of marriage with a renewal ceremony in their backyard. For the Pippins, marriage is a matter of perspective.

“People have asked me, ‘How did you survive 54 years of marriage?’

I tell them, ‘it’s not survival, it’s not a chore. We just did it. We are good friends,”’ Donna said.

The couple has burned this point into the hearts of their four children, 10 grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren: family is important.

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COURTESY OF THE PIPPIN FAMILY

Gary and Donna Pippin were married January 23, 1964, at Pilgrim Congregational Church.

COURTESY OF THE PIPPIN FAMILY

The Pippins say communication is the key to their 54-year marriage.

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