Big Sky Bride | Fall/Winter 2018

BIG SKY BRIDE FALL / WINTER 2018

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PHOTOGRAPHY FAUX PAS • SECOND CHANCES • SEVEN INSPIRING WEDDINGS

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Billings’ Premier Wedding Venue Just minutes from downtown Billings, located along Pryor Creek, this spectacular venue brings together the quiet of the country and the convenience of the city. We offer a stunning wedding garden and a spacious 7,800 sq. ft. reception hall featuring a beautiful foyer, private bridal suite, elegant chandeliers, & spacious patio areas

We also do reunions, company parties, retreats, corporate meetings, or any other important events!

We’re all inclusive!

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CONTENTS A PUBLICATION OF THE BILLINGS GAZETTE

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Destination Honeymoon

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Reap What She Sews

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Royal Weddings

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Rad Bridal Fads

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The Album

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BY CHARITY DEWING Tips from Travel Agents

BY TARA CADY Custom Sewing Questions Answered

BY TARA CADY A Montana Renaissance Festival Affair

BY CHARITY DEWING Freak Out About Today’s Trends

BY CHARITY DEWING & TARA CADY 7 Unique Montana Weddings

Down the Aisle

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8 The Details 9 The Photos 11 The Ring 12 The Dress 14 The Venue In Every Issue From the Editor 4 Coupled Together Unveiled 6 Inventive Accents and Elements Wed 15 IPatThee and Janet Mullaney

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PHOTOGRAPHY FAUX PAS • SECOND

On the Cover:

CHANCES • SEVEN INSPIRING WEDDINGS

Bride Kendra Kluth swings with her son at Camelot Ranch. Photo by April Sky Photography.

Cover design by Nadine Bittner of the Gazette staff.

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A lucky rain came for Jordan and Chris Kidd’s wedding day at DanWalt Gardens. Photo by Jen Petritz Photography.

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Coupled Together A marriage is where the family tree takes root.

From that foundation, loved ones branch out and build a supportive structure, much like an actual tree that keeps its members feeling connected, sheltered and strong.

Each tree is not in isolation, but is among many in a forest of relationships. Over time, seeds are planted for new partnerships and roots intertwine.

A wedding wouldn’t be a wedding without family and friends; it would be an elopement. And while Big Sky Bride values all ceremony styles, we see the importance in involving and honoring the loved ones who helped us grow up to be groom and bride, husband and wife. After all, a marriage is the

blending of those two families.

In this issue of Big Sky Bride, we give tribute to the village it takes to make the big day more special.

Haven’t bought a bridesmaid gift yet? Honor their commitment to yours with our gift guide on page 6. And on page 15 we highlight local honeymoon helpers to get you and your honey’s marriage off to a great start.

A new selection of engagement and wedding rings are shown on page 11, as well as dresses to impress on page 12.

Set the scene with one of Montana’s beautiful venues described on page 14, and set the mood using the latest trends in décor, color and more on page 21. Thou art a Renaissance fan? Consider a royal wedding at the Montana Renaissance Festival (page 19).

Photographer Zak Jokela puts wedding photos – and their faux pas — in perspective on page 9. And seamstress Jenna Mapston has the inside scoop on alterations and custom sewing (page 17).

We would be remiss not to reach out to a long-married couple for advice. The wedded wisdom comes straight from their hearts on page 38.

And for those who can’t get enough inspiration, real love stories – complete with wedding photos and vendor lists – can be found on page 23.

Big Sky Bride wishes to congratulate every couple and remind readers: We’re in this together.

Cheers to the anniversaries to come.

Tara Cady Senior Editor Big Sky Bride magazine

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Inventive accents and elements for your big day.

ARRANGED BY TARA CADY Photos by Casey Page

SWEET SOMETHINGS

It’s the little things that matter most. Write a love note to show your significant other how significant they really are. The 24-page booklet comes with stickers so you can nicely fold and hold the message together.

TAKE NOTE

An official love note deserves an official vow book. Pink for her and black for him, each fits easily in a pocket or purse prior to the nuptials.

Available at The Banyan Tree $12

Available at The Banyan Tree $8

GOODIES GALORE POP THE QUESTION Fun for an engagement or anniversary party, these surveys ask the hard questions. Test your spouse’s knowledge to see how much they’re paying attention.

Available at The Banyan Tree $6 each

Hold your wedding day essentials in bridal bags labeled with the occasion’s motivation — all for love. One for hair care, one for makeup, one for cash and one for staying hydrated—it’s all there in a fun, floral print.

Available at Joy of Living Water bottle: $36; Larger bags: $27 each; Coin purse: $13

PROUD WIFE

Being married is a great feeling. Show those good vibes night and day with a matching eye mask and ball cap. The simple black design pairs well with casual clothes and lingerie.

Available at Joy of Living $13 (eye mask) $36 (hat)

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Brace yourselves—these bracelets take traditional friendship jewelry to new heights. In rose gold, gold and silver, your girls can wear their part without sparing style. You can win them all over to your wedding party with trendy metal bangles and can coozies.

Available at Joy of Living Bracelets: $15 each Coozie: $7.50

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Avoid forgetting grandma’s advice for a good marriage with this wish jar. With 250 foil cards, each guest can write their well wishes and wisdom while at the reception, and couples can cherish the sentiments many anniversaries later.

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Don’t bottle up your loving feelings. Keep wine fresh using a photo frame bottle stopper with your love on full display. For the reception or the house, this gift stays timeless with each new vino.

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Custom rhinestone tanks, tees and and hoodies clearly state your role in the wedding party. Maid of honor, mother of the bride or the woman in white herself, there’s options for all. Choose from a variety of fabric colors to match the big day’s theme.

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the details

the photos

the ring

the dress

the venue

ALL THE DETAILS YOU NEED FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY

the details The most touching elements of your special day are often the most subtle. With twigs from a family homestead or matching feathers for her hat and his boutonniere, the possibilities are endless. Expand on our list of suggestions with your own spin on weddings for the win.

Kids at heart

Make the flower girl and ring bearer in your brood happy with a wedding-themed kids’ activity. A coloring sheet with a word search and other tasks will keep kids occupied while the adults visit.

Hold on to your hat

Of the earth

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If getting married puts a feather in your cap, why not wear one at the wedding? Trade in an elaborate hairstyle for a cute hat and have the time of your life in chic Montana style.

What do hops, succulents and feathers have in common? They fit nicely in a boutonniere. Keep with the nature theme by donning a wooden bow tie.

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Crowd pleaser

Pop the kettlecorn and break out the bowls for a fun snack at the reception. A vintage popcorn popper adds nostalgic charm and is especially fitting for movieloving couples.

PHOTO COURTESY OF SARA NAGEL PHOTOGRAPHY

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Enchanting arches

As a nod to home, hold your nuptials under a handcrafted arch made from nearby branches. A circle or hexagon shape makes for a unique archway on your wedding day.

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the photos

BY TARA CADY With selfies, snaps and instas, everyone thinks they’re a photographer. And a cellphone camera’s capabilities add to this notion. So, where is the line drawn between amateur and professional?

Often at a wedding.

Couples are spending big, sometimes the most, on professional photography. A 2017 study of weddings nationwide by wedding website, “The Knot,” found couples spent $2,630 on average for wedding photography.

At that price, knowing the photography faux pas is essential.

Zak Jokela has been shooting weddings for about five years. He used to allow guests to stand

behind him with their cameras while he orchestrated a group photo. (Friends and family would already have the perfect shot, after all.) But with many eyes shifting away from Jokela’s lens toward another’s, he’s learned to ban amateur second shooters altogether and recommends couples host unplugged weddings.

Jokela says the photos captured at a wedding are generally more for the guests than the bride and groom, and that’s in part because of how rare it is to get a formal photograph of an entire family or group of friends. Since many of us carry phones in our hands at all times, it’s hard to keep technology out of the picture—literally.

When asked if cell phones get in the way of

wedding photography, Jokela said: “Do you want to see phones or do you want to see guests’ faces?”

Investing in people Once Jokela graduated with a degree in photography from the now-closed Harrington College of Design in Chicago, he first worked in commercial photography, capturing countless images of a single product until perfection was achieved.

After a year of that tedious, non-creative work, he returned to his home state of North Dakota, where he accidentally signed himself up to shoot seven weddings. It was an experience that defined his specialty, along with the 1936 book, “How to Win Friends and Influence

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PHOTOGRAPHY FAUX PAS People,” by Dale Carnegie.

Now, he knows where he wants to invest his time—in people.

Investing in people is essential to capturing life’s biggest moments in an honest and natural way, without the superficiality often portrayed in self-taken portraiture intended for social media.

There’s still a system in place to creating the perfect candid shot. He uses verbal cues, poses and subtle hints to get people just where he wants them, without making them feel uncomfortable, forced or fake.

Jokela may ask for a story from friends and families, or suggest everyone lean in a little closer. The tactics he chooses depend on the mood a couple is looking for.

In March, Jokela experienced a role reversal; he found himself in front of a wedding photographer’s lens as he set out to get married. Despite years of experience, one detail he forgot to discuss with his future wife was the mood they were going for in what would become their wedding album.

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tifully, but the difference between the bride and groom’s personalities was obvious. Jokela was shown laughing with a wide-open smile while his bride had a more laid-back look.

Important discussions between the photographer and couple about things like mood and timeline should be had no more than a month prior to the nuptials, Jokela said.

“Couples often underestimate travel time,” he said. “If you do the timeline wrong, it adds more stress to the day.”

In the end, it all comes down to an experienced photographer gifted in customer service.

Can he or she handle Aunt Betty after her third cocktail? Do they know when the family is arriving for formals? Will they ensure all details are captured, even if the bride isn’t too worried about close-up shots of her dress?

Jokela says it doesn’t matter so much if there’s bad lighting, or other inconveniences to the special day. What matters is the skill behind the lens.

“If you have a good photographer, they can make a bad venue look awesome. If you have a bad photographer, they can make an awesome venue look like crap.”

• Raw images. Ain’t nobody got time, nor skill and data storage, for that. Even though wedding website, “The Knot,” tells couples to retrieve raw image files from their photographer, Montana-based wedding photographer Zak Jokela says those rough drafts should be left to the expert to edit. (NOTE: Professional photographers shouldn’t take JPEG-file photos because it limits editing possibilities.)

• Amateur second shooters. Having a helping hand in professional photography is one thing, but Grandma distracting guests away from formal portraits with her mediocre camera phone is another. Leave the shooting to the experts. (NOTE: A second shooter is a secondary photographer that assists the primary photographer. Jokela won’t enlist the help of a second shooter unless the bridal party has 8-10 people on either side, or the number of guests are at least in the 250-300 range.)

• Mealtime photos. Jokela never takes photos of anyone eating. “Nobody looks good with their mouths full,” he said.

• Drinks and sunglasses in formal photos. Jokela says this to guests to keep them motivated: “Put the drinks away—you’ll have ‘em (back) in 10 minutes.”

the ring Once an engagement or wedding ring is placed on that special finger, it’s natural for your left hand to feel naked without it. What becomes an extension of your body is also an extension of your love, so take care to pick the perfect piece that honors how you feel both inside and out.

Modern and masculine, this Amara Stone men’s wedding band matches a Michael M engagement ring beautifully. Hers is set in 18-karat rose gold and lined with .31 carats of accent diamonds. His is 14-karat rose gold and black tantalum, a durable earth metal.

Heaven sent, this vintage-style double halo engagement ring boasts a brilliant-cut diamond round weighing .53 carats and .63 carats of side diamonds.

Encased in 14-karat white gold, we can hear the angels singing as you slip it on.

Available at Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers

Available at Clark Avenue Jewelers

Feel like royalty in this vintage-inspired 14-karat gold ring. The 1.01-carat oval-cut solitaire diamond shines between 20 .017-carat brilliat-cut round accent diamonds. A matching 14-karat gold wedding band adds to the twinkle with 19 more .17-carat brilliant-cut round diamonds.

Your beloved is true blue and your ring should be too.

Adorn your marrying finger in 18-karat white gold, a 1.26-carat yogo sapphire and .32 carats of diamonds.

The custom Montague’s design bodes beauty for the beholder.

Available at Greenleaf’s Jewelry

Available at Montague’s Jewelers

A Vitalium wedding band combines class and “mountain man” with an 8mm burl wood inlay. With hints of mahogany between metal, the resulting multi-textured look is the epitome of a man’s rustic chic.

Available at Greenleaf’s Jewelry

This contemporary 14-karat white and rose gold engagement ring set is absolutely gorgeous; a GIA Laboratory Report guarantees it. The 1 carat brilliant-cut round diamond dazzles between 12 channel-set side diamonds, ensuring a sparkle both on your hand and in your eyes.

Available at Clark Avenue Jewelers

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the dress When picking the perfect gown, it is important to find the one that screams you. It can be vintage-inspired, classic ballgown, or all-out glamorous. From swanky to chic, it is never a one-size-fits-all. We hope to inspire you so your special dress reflects who you are.

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Uniquely you

Floral embroidery, loose sleeves and a tulle-tipped train make this dress one-of-a-kind. A square back showcases the shoulder blades and works perfectly with an updo hairstyle.

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Come out of your shell

You don’t need to have a beachside wedding for this semisleeved, ‘20s-inspired dress. Subtle hints of skin delicately peak through the beautifully-detailed fabric, ensuring you won’t be giving anyone the cold shoulder in this hot number.

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Dainty by design

A wedding dress with upscale flair is ideal for the modern maiden’s marriage. Layered in lace, the bodice is the focal point of this sleeved and sophisticated look.

Tickled pink

It’s hard to say which steals the show: a fur stole, a pink mermaid style gown with ruffles dancing across snow, or the bride who wears it best.

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Not too see-through

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Sheer, soft and illusory, this full-length gown shows off just enough without being too much.

The open back bares the “extra” every girl is looking for.

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Fringe-worthy

Two pieces are better than one with this lacy crop top ensemble. Dance like the ‘70s queen you are while donning fringe sleeves and a form-fitting skirt.

It’s all in the waist.

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the venue LARRY MAYER, GAZETTE STAFF

Chico Hot Springs Resort & Day Spa

There is undeniable enchantment to having your special day surrounded by rare botanicals and exotic animals.

ZooMontana offers packages for 50-250 guests. Admission is free for all to explore the grounds and visit the animals. Packages include the Homestead House for the bridal party, event pavilion for the reception, sensory garden for the nuptials, plus wedding arch, tables, chairs, set-up and teardown. ZooMontana even throws in a family membership as a gift to newlyweds.

Address: 2100 S. Shiloh Rd., Billings, MT 59106 Phone: (406) 652-8100 Website: zoomontana.org

Established in 1900, Chico Hot Springs remains a grand affair.

Chico is the premier destination wedding venue with historic charm. With spa services, wine cellar luncheons and restorative hot springs—this picturesque venue only makes sense.

Couples can pledge their undying love under a large gazebo with breathtaking mountain views that can accommodate any size wedding party. The elegant convention center has become well-known in Montana for exchanging vows and can accommodate up to 180 people.

The large front porch is ideal for cocktails, appetizers and socializing. A dancefloor, full-service catering and bar tie an elegant evening together.

Canopies and tents for outdoor gatherings are available upon request.

Address: 163 Chico Rd., Pray, Montana, 59065 Phone: (406) 333-4933 Website: chicohotsprings.com

The Barnsion

Quaking Aspen Ranch

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ZooMontana

If you want to get married under the Big Sky, then The Barnsion is the place.

With wheat fields and prairie set against the backdrop of the legendary Crazy PHOTO COURTESY OF THE BARNSION Mountains, this rustic chic setting captures the great Montana ambiance.

All-inclusive wedding packages include a three-night stay in the beautiful complex. Couples and guests can enjoy the outdoor kitchen, patio and fireplace and go horseback riding, fishing or hiking. Get away from the city lights and remember why Big Sky Country is the last best place.

Address: 402 S. River Dr., Harlowton, MT 59036 Phone: (406) 220-0795 Website: thebarnsion.com

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Quaking Aspen Ranch inspires true Montana romance.

Resting on the banks of the East Rosebud River, Quaking Aspen Ranch offers an enchanting experience PHOTO COURTESY OF QUAKING ASPEN RANCH for betrothed couples.

The grounds present a variety of places to say your “I Do’s,” including the river’s edge beneath cottonwood trees. With the sun setting against the Beartooth/Absaroka mountain range, guests can take a twilight stroll toward the beautiful historic bridge. Illuminated by café lights, it creates an unforgettable reception.

The ranch offers full services, rehearsal options, cocktail hour and delicious catering options.

You can plan a one-day wedding or weekend lodging experience.

Address: 2839 Hwy 78, Absarokee, MT 59001 Phone: (406) 780-0015 Website: quakingaspenranch.com

BY CHARITY DEWING aves are coasting slowly to the shoreline, your feet are covered by cool sand, the sun is warming your skin and you have an exotic drink in hand. The honeymoon has just begun.

After the pressure of planning a wedding is through, the honeymoon getaway should be the last thing a couple should have to worry about.

Most newlyweds want their honeymoon to be the ideal getaway you see in a Sandals Resort commercial—great food, luxury hotel, amazing shows and fun activities. How do you get it all?

That’s where a travel agent comes in.

What most honeymooners do not realize is that having a travel agent do the work for you is not only stress-reducing, but a smart investment. Like a doctor or lawyer, a travel agent will ask you many questions, analyze and assess what you are looking for and make sure your honeymoon is exactly what you want.

“If we have a chance to start from the beginning, we can create the whole package—airfare, accommodations, car rental and extra activities, like food tours and evening dinner cruises.

When we package it all together we generally get them a better value,” said Aimee Bullivant, a honeymoon and destination wedding specialist at Travel Café.

More so, travel agents help couples plan for things they probably aren’t anticipating, like different currencies; climate; destination features, like landscapes, historic structures, and shopping; and the best places to stay and play.

“Choosing the right area within the destination can make a difference for the overall experience,” said Mark Glatt, travel consultant at Cook Travel. “A honeymoon is an experience a couple will remember for a lifetime.”

While there may be additional fees, the added expense is worth all of the bonuses, special passes and upgrades. Travel agents make the honeymoon your own; they have inside connections to create exclusive bundle packages and deals for destination attractions, hotels and dining.

“Sometimes, we do have professional service fees for flight-only bookings or trips that require extensive research, but this generally comes back to you in great experience and added value,” Bullivant said.

Making payments isn’t often an option for couples traveling without assistance. But a financial plan is possible with a travel agency.

Glatt says booking early gives couples the ability to spread payments out. This can even include airfare. Typically, couples only need a deposit to hold a booking.

“Working with the couple’s budget is a critical part of what we do. We always try to get the best deal that fits the couple’s likes,” Glatt said.

Once traveling is underway, there is the possibility of delays, cancelled flights and missed

connections. When something goes wrong, the agency is in your corner.

“When you work with a travel agent, you have a professional in the travel business to give you advice and travel tips. Agents are constantly educating themselves on new destinations, travel trends and travel safety and security,” said Bullivant. “A travel agent is your advocate when things go wrong. They have your back. Who wants to be on hold to an airline or online booking site for hours when you can make a quick call to us and we take care of everything?”

This is especially important when traveling abroad, as anything can happen. Couples should be prepared for the journey ahead when flying out of Billings or Bozeman. Tropical destinations usually require more than one connection and depending on your destination, you may need to plan an overnight stay.

“Picking a travel agent is much like picking a hairdresser. You may have to talk to a few travel agents to find one you are comfortable with.

Using a travel agent does mean giving up some control of the process. For many, this frees them for other planning activities for their wedding,” said Glatt.

The honeymoon is meant to be more than a vacation; it is a celebration of marriage and most importantly, it should be fun and relaxing. With most all aspects of wedding planning, honeymoon preparation holds true to the same adage: you get what you pay for. You only get one so you might as well do it right.

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TIPS FROM A TRAVEL AGENT ‌Travel consultant Mark Glatt, of Cook Travel, wants to remind honeymooners of some simple but crucial aspects of trip planning.

Fares increase based on popular dates.

High-demand times are spring break, summer and holidays like Christmas, New Years and Valentine’s Day. Consider the “off-season” like mid-January to early February; mid-September, October and early November and December for cheaper fares.

Account for flight time.

Whether tropical or eastern destinations, the trip will take a while and time change is often forgotten.

Account for flight time and connections; depending on your destination, there is potential to miss flights to the final destination.

Billings vs. Bozeman.

Bozeman does have more connection options than Billings and sometimes schedules are better from Bozeman, but watch out for added expenses for cheaper flights. Frontier Airlines from Bozeman offers low-fare flights, but there can be add-on charges. Switching to another airline can also pose a problem when flying with cheaper airlines. Baggage often needs to be re-

checked and you will have to go through TSA again.

All-inclusive vs. not inclusive.

All-inclusive comprises of meals, beverages and entertainment. So if you are spending most of your time at the resort, this is the way to go. Keep in mind, only some Caribbean islands offer all-inclusive resorts.

If couples are only spending a few days at a resort and spend most of their time off-property, then all-inclusive packages are not the best choice. Many consider renting condos or houses in these destinations to reduce food costs, but the experience of washing dishes and cooking for yourself might take away from the honeymoon experience.

What She

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hows like “Say Yes to the Dress” make gown shopping look like the grand finale of wedding apparel planning. But when those clips come off and the dress lets out to its original size, you realize the mannequin is who wore it best.

Besides taking a dress in, shortening length and other modifications pertaining to overall look, comfort and your down-the-aisle stride, alterations are customizations that add per-

sonal flair to formal wear. It’s what makes the initial “yes” at the retailer turn into “yaaasss” at the final fitting.

As an independent contractor seamstress, Jenna Mapston has been doing wedding-related alterations and custom sewing for six years.

Upon the insistence of her paternal grandmother, whose only granddaughter was Mapston, she began hemming and hawing over fabrics in elementary school. At first, Mapston fought against the craft, but she’s learned that what’s “uncool” for some could spell unique,

sought-after skills.

“There’s no real place that teaches you how to work on wedding gowns,” Mapston said. “All sewing is just not created equal.”

Mapston sees seamstresses going away as her grandmother’s generation ages out. But the need for wedding dress alterations isn’t. And Mapston says mom and pop sewing businesses often can’t handle tulle and other specialty fabrics common with formal wear.

“You can’t skimp on alterations and the fitting in the dress,” she said. “It could be the most

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beautiful dress, but if it does not fit you, it’s not going to have the same effect at all. You think you can just buy the dress and you’re done, but it’s not the end of it.”

It’s the seamstress’s job make a bride’s dream for her dress a reality.

“They’ve had all the experience of saying yes to the dress. Now I have to make sure that that dress lives up completely to that expectation,” Mapston said. “They have to feel really comfortable and confident.”

As a wedding date approaches, Mapston will customize a bride’s dress for two to four weeks, depending on the job. Many gals want sleeves added on, lots of lace, and illusion features—how mesh makes buttons and lace look they’re floating on skin, be it on the neckline, back or arms.

Many clients are Western girls, looking to Mapston for camouflage trim, leather

work and turquoise. There isn’t much she can’t do, though cheaply-made dresses ordered from overseas prove difficult to touch.

“They are a lot lower-quality,” she said. “The material will run, you can’t get the wrinkles out of it, you might have some staining issues.”

With two to three fittings, Mapston has successfully read a bride’s mind and body language to complete the look she’s going for. And even if the bride doesn’t think she’ll need her seamstress to lace up a corset or handle the bustle on the special day, Mapston plugs the wedding dates in her calendar just in case.

“It’s a team effort getting these brides down the aisle,” she said. “The florist, the hairstylist, the seamstress.

She walks down the aisle with a part of us. I’m really honored to be a part of that.”

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Jenna Mapston makes magic of ill-fitting garments. This gown was shortened eight inches and taken in on the bodice and straps.

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Royal WEDDINGS A MONTANA RENAISSANCE FESTIVAL AFFAIR

BY TARA CADY

A royal wedding is typically reserved for princes and princesses. But not at ZooMontana, where royal weddings have been held the last four years at the Montana Renaissance Festival.

The annual zoo fundraiser upped its magic game when wedding officiant Wendy Means offered to host themed nuptials. Means, who owns Uniquely You Planning in Billings, was inspired

by a Minnesota renaissance festival’s royal wedding and wanted to bring something similar to Montana.

What makes royal weddings a magical experience for brides, grooms and their guests are the costumed characters playing a 16th-century part. The festival’s King and Queen, Fairy Queen and Shaman all contribute to the ceremony.

Within the hour-long timeslot allotted to couples, the King walks mothers of the bride and groom down the aisle and asks attendees to stand as he introduces the bride. The King and Queen, holding the couple’s rings, bless the wedding bands and the marriage. Blessings also come from the Fairy Queen, using glitter, and the Shaman, through song.

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“Then, after they kiss, the King has everybody do the three ‘Huzzahs,’” said Means.

Other characters, like swordsmen and belly dancers, may make an appearance depending on other duties scheduled during the two-day festival.

“They want to be supportive and give the couple the best experience they can, so when they do come down they give it their all,” Means said.

Means, better known as Lady Wendy at the festival, writes most of her officiating script in Old English. Couples can choose from three wedding packages, all of which include a customized handfasting cord to keep after the ceremony, festival vouchers, free zoo entry for two, and use of Lady Wendy as officiant. The offers’ only difference is how many tickets to the festival are included; up to 50 additional tickets are available in the largest package.

Vouchers are given with a reception in mind. Items like mead and turkey legs are on the table for couples wanting the full Renaissance experience. Means says the royal weddings are for people looking for something unique, not run-of-the-mill.

“If they really love the Renaissance, it’s a great opportunity to celebrate their love in a place they love,” she said.

Festival entrance fees benefit the zoo, while all other parts of the wedding package go toward Means and the vendors she hires, like an artist to decorate the arch or a production company to play Renaissance-style background music.

As many as nine ceremonies take place each year, with six on Saturday and three on Sunday. Every scheduled event is listed on the festival’s program so the general public may attend. White chairs on the courtyard are dedicated to the couple’s guests, while park benches along the garden’s perimeter are ideal for public seating. Each ceremony takes 30 minutes, with an additional half-hour available for photos.

In 2018, six royal weddings took place at the zoo’s Sensory Gardens, including an impromptu, day-of ceremony featuring the festival’s Fairy Queen, and a surprise engagement/elopement for a long-established couple.

“The guy hadn’t even asked her to marry him yet … he asked her to marry him at the fair,” explained Means. “She was just bawling; it was pretty magical.”

BY CHARITY DEWING

BRIDAL FADS

What if something borrowed, blue, old and new isn’t for you?

Luckily, the wedding industry is constantly evolving. Here are some new trends that are taking over the wedding scene.

Cakes

So last year: Naked cakes were the craze last season with light layers of buttercream, powdered sugar and real flowers.

Trending now: Smaller cakes with inventive and intricate designs that look sophisticated, as well as marble and metallic fondant icing.

“I’m in love with the trendy metallic-designed cakes. A bride’s cake could be elegantly simple with pops of gold, rose gold or silver, all the way to layers of metallic color with flower accents,” said Antonia Craighill, baker and owner of Velvet Cravings.

Brides are asking Craighill for painted cakes, too, inspired by art like Van Gogh’s, “Starry Night.” Block cakes with solid layers of wine and eggplant hues are another trend she is seeing.

“Rustic style and woodland-themed cakes make an appearance every year. I feel that Montana brides are ahead of the trend of

ery bride,” said Dannette Barth, owner of Magic City Floral.

Trending now: Anything dramatic, like darker bouquets of soft, lush flowers with lots of greenery.

Color palettes take a turn toward purples, including wine, lilac, lavender and mauve. Wedding wreaths and foliage hanging from chandeliers continue in popularity.

“Pinterest is so predominant with wedding planning that trends come to Montana a lot sooner,” said Barth. “With that, I have seen many arrangements with a lot of foliage, loose bouquets with luxurious greenery and deep eggplant colors.”

And size matters.

“A bouquet shouldn’t cover the couple’s faces highlighting their roots when it comes to cake or the brides beautiful wedding dress – it should not be the focal point as you come down the aisle design,” said Craighill. or in pictures,” she said.

Large, cascading bouquets are heavy and Flowers tend to cover too much, so proceed with caution.

So last year: Pink-blush colors, cascading bouquets and round bouquets of roses.

“Trends depend on the bride. Brides still love Food the classic look. White will always be a popular So last year: Formal dinners have become a color in floral arrangements. Round rose bou- thing of the past. This season is all about simplicquets are timeless. But, not every trend is for ev- ity and affordability while maintaining a hip and

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gourmet feel of ethnic cuisine.

“The days of prime rib being the star is going away with high prices,” said Ashley Robichaux, owner and cook at Cajun Phatty’s.

Robichaux also noticed that donut bars and candy stations made a quick appearance and exit on the wedding food scene.

Trending now: Casual dining with street foods or appetizer stations. Food truck fare is a hit with easy, decadent options. Appetizer stations with a Tuscan flair, like giant wooden cutting boards of fruit, veggies, cheese, meats, almonds, olives and French bread are also a simple-yet-sophisticated choice.

“Food stations are still growing in popularity as well as food trucks with fun, fair-type foods. Taco stations are still coming in at the top of the list,” said Robichaux.

This season, it is all about simplicity and functionality while maintaining the hip and gourmet feel of ethnic cuisine.

“A big trend is cocktail hour with appetizers and late-night snacks. Buffets or stations are still more affordable. I like to customize the menus to fit the couple’s favorite tastes and budget, giving them options to choose from but to keep them in line with what they are comfortable spending,” Robichaux said.

Colors

So last year: Matchy-matchy.

Trending now: Expanding beyond two or three colors for the flowers, tuxes and venue; make it chic.

“Colors will be all over the board. We are starting to see black and dark steel gray linens again,” said officiant Patricia Clark, owner of Patricia Clark Weddings.

Dresses with black accents and black décor is expected for 2019. Vibrant colors will be added for contrast.

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So last year: Extravagant indoor events.

Trending now: Outdoor venues with long tables and café lights; laidback can still be elegant.

“Rustic and vintage will stay in Montana and it seems to be our trademark,” said Clark.

If an outdoor wedding theme isn’t what you are looking for, you can still have a chill environment to celebrate your nuptials. Consider having an outside wedding, inside. Transparent venues that offer a large garden or sun room give the best of both worlds.

“Great vintage pieces of furniture for decorating remain popular, with higher-end linens that arrive in a variety of colors and fabrics. This year we saw velvet full-length linens and heavily-woven linen cloths that were very romantic,” said Clark. “Wooden vases, wooden farm tables and wooden cake stands remain popular.”

An industrial theme is casual-yet-chic. Marble and metallic blended with textured linens and lush greenery will make your wedding have a relaxing, spa-like feel.

“We have a couple of new venues that have that industrial look and couples love it – brick walls, metal railings and ceilings. They are hard to come by so I think they will remain popular for 2019,” said Clark.

The end result

So last year: Love the one you’re with.

Trending now: Same.

THE ALBUM

BY CHARITY DEWING & TARA CADY If rain brings luck to a wedding, snowfall must bring multiplied prosperity.

Our selection of seven noteworthy Montana weddings cover every weather condition known to Big Sky Country in fall and winter. Rain, snow and even smoky skies made the cut.

Such precipitation — or lack thereof — doesn’t impede the process of getting married. In fact, it makes for excellent photography and a great story.

See for yourself.

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MARISSA & CALEB

• SEPTEMBER 3, 2017

LIFE’S A BEACH

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Wedding & reception venue: Quaking Aspen Ranch Photography: Sara Nagel Photography Wedding dress: Step N’ Out Formal Wear Hair/Beauty: Last Best Beauty & JM Styling Cake: Ashlee Marie Cakery DJ: YO DJ! Disc Jockeys

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arissa Milam and Caleb Berglee have a modern, whirlwind romance. They began with flirty conversations online for a few months before meeting in person. And as the adage goes, they have been inseparable ever since.

The couple went to Oahu, an island of Hawaii, with Marissa’s family in 2016, six months following their first date. After an incredible day of snorkeling blue waters, the group settled on the beach, chatting and taking in the day’s events. Marissa wanted one last glimpse of the ocean when she noticed Caleb crawling on the ground.

“I turned around to gaze out at the ocean and suddenly Caleb was crawling around on his knees in the sand, or so I thought. Then he started saying how he’d been thinking a lot lately about who he wanted to spend the rest of his life with and then the rest was a blur, what a rush. It was super romantic and I was so surprised,” Marissa said.

Of course, she said yes. They chose Sept. 3, 2017 as their “I do” date.

Marissa and Caleb wanted an outdoor wedding venue, something away from city lights. They chose Quaking Aspen Ranch, which honored their childhood farming lives. Wheat-filled mason jars ornamented with burlap, lace and a floret of angel hair completed their rustic centerpieces.

Marissa and Caleb were all about the personal touches of their wedding. Caleb repurposed timeworn barn wood into signs with sayings like, “Live, Laugh, Love” and “Love is Patient,” and placed them in the aisle for everyone to read and remember. Marissa’s brother laser-etched the wedding date and monogram onto a Jack Daniel’s whiskey barrel that friends and family used as the guestbook. It is now an end table in their living room.

The cake was an elegant three-tier with pinkblush floral accents and a wooden tractor topper made by Marissa’s brother. Fairy lights adorned the rustic barn as guests celebrated into the night.

Nothing was country about the couple’s honeymoon. They wanted relaxation, deep-sea fishing and an inclusive resort with great food and drinks, so they traveled to the white beaches of Cabo San Lucas, Mexico.

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MAGGIE & TREVIN

• SEPTEMBER 23, 2017

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Wedding & reception venue: Montana Wildflower Weddings Photography: April Sky Photography Groom/groomsmen suits: Step’n Out Formal Wear Cake & catering: Top Notch Catering Hair: Chic and Sassy Salon DJ/Band: Montana Premier Entertainment Jeweler: Montague’s Jewelers & Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers Transportation/Limo: Sarpy Transportation

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s cheesy at it sounds, destiny really is a thing.

Maggie Colstad and Trevin Anderson became acquaintances some 10 years ago, seeing each other periodically at a friend’s cabin. It was at another gathering on the Fourth of July, when a mutual friend’s mother prompted Trevin to “go for one of those Colstad twins.”

“Long story short, he went for one of those Colstad twins,” said Maggie.

The couple was willing to brave a two-year, long-distance relationship and it was worth the wait.

Maggie could sense that Trevin wanted to pop the question but after a discussion about how Trevin hadn’t asked Maggie’s dad for her hand in marriage, she figured it would be a while. Trevin was just throwing her off his plan. While taking their dogs on a hike at Woodbine Falls, Trevin got down on one knee.

“To this day, neither of us remember what he said because I was in an excited frenzy looking at the ring and he was so nervous,” said Maggie.

The couple celebrated their wedding and reception on Sept. 23, 2017 at Montana Wildflower Weddings.

With impeding severe snow storms, they braced themselves for a possible change in plans. The day before the wedding, a squall of snow covered the venue. However, destiny once again pulled through for the couple.

The couple, along with guests, wedding photographer and venue staff, made it work.

Next to a lake, among the trees, snow and mountains, the onsite barn offered a rustic and enchanting ambience for an ideal romantic setting.

Despite a wintry storm, the couple’s only focus was on how lucky they were to have one another.

“I remember losing feeling in my toes after the first hour of pictures but my mood not being dampened,” said Maggie.

The couple intends to honeymoon on the sandy beaches of Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, sometime this winter. Perhaps it’s their way of repaying the cold Montana weather – by leaving it behind.

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KENDRA & SEAN

• OCTOBER 6, 2017

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Wedding & reception venue: Camelot Ranch Photography: April Sky Photography Dress: Step’n Out Formal Wear Hair/Beauty: Kathy Hedges Florist: Mac’s Floral DJ: YO DJ! Disc Jockeys Jeweler: Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers Catering: Montana Jack’s

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t was just a typical day at work for registered nurse, Kendra Kluth. The only thing that was different was the electrician working in her area of the hospital.

She couldn’t help but notice how long it was taking him to repair the problem. Little did she know, he was building up the courage to ask her on a date.

Sparks flew between Kendra and Sean Banderob.

Soon he had an engagement ring and was ready for the perfect moment to ask Kendra to marry him – and then missed it.

Bozeman holds a special place in the couple’s hearts, it was where they shared their first kiss. They found themselves there again for an annual hockey tournament Sean participates in, staying at a hotel right across from the very parking lot they had their first smooch.

“Sean didn’t bring the ring, as he didn’t realize he had the opportunity for the perfect proposal,” said Kendra.

Sean wasn’t going to let another opportunity to propose to Kendra go by. Before the couple could finish unpacking, Sean was down on one knee – ring and all.

They married on Oct. 6, 2017, on the gorgeous grounds of Camelot Ranch.

“We liked the outside setting with the rustic feel of the inside. The setting reminded me of my eastern Montana roots,” said Kendra.

Sean spent countless days collecting driftwood at Yellowstone River to make the arch the couple stood under and swore forever.

“Our wedding day was never about making sure details like centerpieces, décor, et cetera, were perfect. We wanted to create memories – a day our friends and families would remember,” Kendra said.

The ranch was an ideal choice for the reception, too.

The couple took dance lessons and came prepared to wow their guests with a choreographed first dance. The love-fest was topped off with Sean singing a romantic melody to Kendra.

The quiet, relaxing beach of Kauai, Hawaii was the honeymoon getaway they needed. Away from city lights, the newlyweds took time to simply enjoy each other – seems to be a theme with these two.

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SHANNON & AARON

• JANUARY 7, 2017

SKI HON’S

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Wedding venue: Big Sky vacation rental Reception venue, cake & caterer: Rainbow Ranch Lodge Photography: Zak Jokela Wedding Photography Dress: Sunday’s Bridal Groom’s attire: Joseph A. Bank Hair/beauty: Solace Spa and Salon

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t’s tough meeting the partner of your dreams when you lead a busy life.

Shannon Kish and Aaron Shamblin’s hectic work schedule worked to their advantage, though.

Opting to try dating online for its convenience, the two discovered each other and found they had more in common than just a busy lifestyle. They loved the mountains and skiing, and soon began an intimate love affair.

Aaron’s original proposal plan was rained out, but Plan B brought him by plane to Shannon’s parent’s backyard, where he asked her to marry him next to the pool. In the moonlight. On her birthday.

Their shared love for wintry settings prompted a destination wedding in Big Sky with their closest family and friends. The intimate ceremony was held at a ski in/ski out rental home. From there, the party went to nearby Rainbow Ranch Lodge for a reception before finishing off the night back at the rental.

The importance of friendship and togetherness shined through the special day. The couple’s best friends took on the added responsibilities of officiant, best man and maid-of-honor, and family filled the flower girl and ring bearer spots. The newlyweds’ first dance together as husband and wife was “My Best Friend” by Tim McGraw.

“We picked it because it perfectly describes how we feel about each other and it reminds us of how we met in Texas,” Shannon said.

The warmth continued as the couple shared love letters to each other that they had written the night before.

Silver and sky blue wedding colors complemented the snowy scene outside; and the couple’s champagne toast was equipped with glasses that Aaron’s parents found while traveling in the Czech Republic.

“Now, we regularly use them on special occasions and fondly remember our big day,” said Shannon.

Before returning to routine, Shannon and Aaron honeymooned at a few ski destinations as they drove to Texas from Montana.

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KYANNE & SHANE

• AUGUST 19, 2017

HOMETOWN LOVE

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Wedding & reception venue: PR Country Comforts Photography: Jen Petritz Photography Dress: Belle en Blanc Tuxes: Step N’ Out Formal Wear Hair/Beauty: Callie at The Ritzz Salon Cake: Sweet Creations, Glendive DJ/Band: Boisterousboys

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he smell of cotton candy, peanuts and fried food hung heavy in the air when Kyanne Hegel met Shane Rue at a county fair. It had been in the making as their mutual friends arranged for the couple to connect.

As time passed and love grew, the couple forged common interests and activities into their lives. What Kyanne thought was a typical hiking trip through the Black Hills was actually a premeditated proposal. Alone, under pine and spruce trees, atop a cliff, Shane knelt to one knee and proposed.

The couple married August 19, 2017, at PR Country Comforts, a local farm near the Yellowstone River. The venue offered the beautiful, rugged Montana feel they wanted and accommodated their 250 guests.

With summer wind blowing through the open prairie, Kyanne and Shane said “I do,” under a handmade archway built by Shane’s father.

“It’s a wonderful feeling to walk down the aisle with your dad and the love of your life waiting at the other end,” said Kyanne.

The couple also held their reception at the farm.

“I would recommend it to any bride that doesn’t mind dirt and farm equipment at her wedding venue,” said Kyanne.

The party continued into the late evening until guests retreated to rented guest houses and personal campers parked onsite.

“It was great because there were no stipulations on when the party had to end,” Kyanne said.

Colors for the wedding party included a beautiful burning orange with accents of lemon-yellow and floral greens. Kyanne created floral arrangements for herself and her bridesmaids. Shane crafted decorative ladders holding floral accents and block letters spelling love.

The newlyweds wanted to honeymoon somewhere they had never been and decided on a lavish Caribbean getaway in the Dominican Republic resort town of Punta Cana.

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RYELIEGH & KYLE

• NOVEMBER 4, 2017

HEAD OVER HEELS

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Wedding & reception venue: Billings Depot Photography: Amber Renee Photography Dress: Belle en Blanc Groom & groomsmen attire: Step ‘n Out Formal Wear Cake: Velvet Cravings Florist: Mac’s Floral DJ: Prince Party Productions Catering : Montana Jack’s Décor: Better to Gather Events Officiant: Patricia Clark Weddings

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hey say if the shoe fits, wear it.

So when Ryeliegh Spaeny noticed her Shoe Carnival coworker’s confidence, smile and humor, Kyle Edwards had her jumping into romance feet first.

Two years into dating, they braced below-freezing temperatures on Christmas Day to enjoy the “Whoville of Billings,” the Josephine Crossing neighborhood decorated for the holidays. As they headed toward the gazebo, Kyle swept Ryeliegh off her feet once again as a surprise musician played “Crazy Girl” by the Eli Young Band.

Friends and family hid across the street as a photographer captured Kyle’s grand proposal.

Ryeliegh was looking for an “old-yet-chic vibe” in her wedding venue, which the Billings Depot had. She and Kyle chose the historic spot for their ceremony and reception, decorating it with gray and greenery.

Customized signs by Penned Designs kept guests informed and the venue looking vintage.

Near the altar, a bouquet and portrait rested on a seat in memory of Ryeliegh’s late mother. At the reception, eucalyptus was draped across the tables’ center and lights, linens and copper rings hung overhead.

The same man serenading at the couple’s proposal repeated his performance for the newlyweds’ first dance.

“I could relive that day over and over,” Ryeliegh said.

Mr. and Mrs. Edwards have yet to honeymoon, but hope that 2019 will be their year.

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JORDAN & CHRIS

• SEPTEMBER 16, 2017

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Wedding & reception venue: DanWalt Gardens Photography: Jen Petritz Photography Dress: Belle en Blanc Cake: Dancing Oven Bakery DJ: DJ Benefit Jeweler: Dillard’s Transportation: Magic City V.I.P. Caterer: Top Notch Catering Bouquets & boutonnieres: Magic City Floral

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t pays to know people.

And for Jordan Brown and Chris Kidd, whose mutual friend connected them, networking paved the way to a promise of lifelong passion.

As their time together became more intimate, a proposal was imminent.

While in Las Vegas with family and friends, the guys parted ways with the girls and they all planned to meet at the fountains in front of the Bellagio Hotel.

“All of a sudden, I’m standing there with the show about to start, and I feel Chris grab my shoulder,” Jordan said. “He started to thank everyone for coming out for this special occasion, but shockingly he started to tear up.”

Confused, Jordan listened as Chris emotionally professed his love, ultimately asking her to marry him while Celine Dion played in the background.

Jordan always wanted a garden wedding, and DanWalt Gardens fit that dream for both the ceremony and reception.

The reality of getting married hit Jordan as she approached her dad for their walk down the aisle.

“Of course when you are walking, a million worries start to go through your head. I’m thinking, ‘Gosh, I hope I don’t accidentally trip and fall, or what if it starts raining during the ceremony?’” she said. “Just as we peak around the corner, I see Chris standing there and it’s as if all my worries just disappeared.”

A downpour was a concern that day, but the post-ceremony rain made for great photography and good luck.

“I love this man more than anything, so I think to myself, ‘So what if something goes wrong? I still get to marry the love of my life, even if it’s in the rain,’” said Jordan.

After the “I dos,” the newlyweds carried on the celebration with a fajita bar, cake and dancing at the reception. It wasn’t an all-nighter, however, since the Kidds had a honeymoon to start the following day.

Chris and Jordan took their first trip as husband and wife to Seattle and can’t wait to go back.

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SECOND CHANCE AT ROMANCE

BY TARA CADY

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Statistics don’t support successful second marriages. But if you told that to Pat and Janet Mullaney, who celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary with a vow renewal in June 2018, they’d shrug it off to those unwilling to commit and have faith.

The Mullaneys’ happily-ever-after came in their 40s.

Pat, a divorcee, and Janet, a widowed mother-of-two, were introduced by a mutual friend in 1991. Janet’s children were entering adulthood and she was learning to live independently for the first time since her high school sweetheart and husband of 21 years passed away in a tragic car crash. Pat understood the vulnerability that came with Janet opening her heart again to love; his first marriage didn’t last either.

The thing that caught Janet’s attention about Pat was his trustworthiness and kindness. Plus, her daughters liked him. But if her kids were younger and still living at home, Janet suggests their relationship might not have worked.

For two years, Pat and Janet dated and lived separately. They wed June 19, 1993, at Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd in Billings. When asked how he knew his vows were in earnest, Pat said, “You have to have a little bit of faith for it to work out.”

That faith has kept the Mullaneys married for 25 years. Janet brought Pat back to church after a three-decade absence and he is now highly involved. They’ve surrounded themselves with like-minded friends and family who share their strong faith. But it’s not just similar values and unconditional commitment that keeps the Mullaneys together; it’s also having an identity outside of each other to bring meaning to their lives and lessen dependence on the partner.

Before retirement, Janet taught business at City College and Pat was a fire-management specialist at the Bureau of Land Management. Now, Pat spends most of his time on the farm while Janet manages serious orthopedic problems relating to the accident that took her late-husband’s life. The couple agrees that the past five years have given meaning to “in sickness and in health.”

“When you say those words, they don’t mean much when you’re healthy,” said Pat. The Mullaneys renewed their vows among their blended family—Pat’s relatives, Janet’s relatives and her late-husband Les’s supportive family who stuck by her and welcomed Pat into their lives.

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