Healing of a bad relationship or healing of sexual abuse
Brendan Mc Crossan
Healing of a bad relationship or healing of sexual abuse Brendan Mc Crossan 22-12-2011 0ne
Do you need healing of bad relationships, something about them left you feeling weighed down, like you can’t get those wrong people out of your mind or emotions, it’s like they are still tied to you in some way.{they are} OR HAVE YOU BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED? And you are carrying around with you a heavy weight in your heart. It is like you are the guilty party, not the abuser, this is a lie either told to you by the abuser or a feeling that if I had done this or that I would not have been attacked. These are lies that you have believed for years and they weigh heavily on your spirit. Or if you were the abuser then you can set that person free from what you did by doing this meditation. First you need to ask God to forgive you and he will, then ask him to help you be sincere so this person or persons can be freed by Jesus to live a normal life again. God forgives everyone not just you, if you didn’t approve of what I wrote to the abuser, God’s love knows no boundaries. Here is a little meditation to do to break that over your life once and for all. It is for men or women. ‘IT'S CALLED CUTTING THE CORDS,’ and setting yourself free. Try it, just takes about fifteen minutes.
Before you do this, first forgive every man / woman who didn't treat you right or with respect, and this is a decision not a feeling. Then ask God to cut the ties between you and those men, especially if you had sexual relations with any of them because when we have sexual relationships outside of marriage, there is a soul tie connecting you to that person that needs to be severed.
Or you can do this yourself, picture in your mind each man /woman in your life one at a time, and imagine a cord connecting from his /her mind to yours,' this is control' cut that cord with a sword or anything you like that can cut like scissors or a knife in Jesus name, and ask the lord to fill the cut ends with light so they cannot be reconnected. Then see cords connecting from his her eyes to your eyes, and cut those cords because the eyes are used to control, by a certain look, it shuts you up. Then ask Jesus to fill those cord ends with light. Then go to the mouth and see a cord there and do the same with that cord, this was things that was said that controlled or offended you or put you down, cut that cord, and again ask Jesus to fill with light, do this with each thing I mention, so I don't have to keep rewriting it.
Then see cords connecting his/ her hands with yours, this is control by touch and other things
people do with their hands, and again cut those cords, and fill with light. Next see cords connecting from you private parts {if you have never had sexual relationship you don't need to do this} to his again cut that cord, and again fill with light. Go then to your feet, see cords connect to your feet and his /her, this is ways you have walked into sin or against your will controlled by a man/ woman. Cut those cords in Jesus name, and fill with light.
If you have been sexually abused; doing this meditation will set you free from the pain of the memory, you may still remember it but it won’t have the same effect on you anymore. Forgive the abuser or abusers, that is a choice a decision not a feeling or emotion.
This may sound silly to you but we have see hundreds of women set free by this simple meditation, as Rose my wife and I ministered to them. Take one person at a time and as you are set free God also sets them free so he can deal with them according to his will.
Finish off with this prayer. Father God, heal my expectations of men / women in Jesus name.
you may have noticed that if you had one bad relationship with a man/ woman, you somehow or other seem to have a man/ woman who is the same as the last come to you, and maybe even more, they all seem to be the same. This is because from each of us we have the power to call those who are wrong for us to come to us and this is because, "as you believe so shall it be." You believe only the wrong person will come to you. Deep inside us we believe that this is what we deserve, and after doing the cutting the cords meditation, this ends that belief. Now forgive yourself for your bad choices, and for anything else you may feel you done wrong. Remember forgiveness is a choice not a feeling. God has forgiven you, and loves you unconditionally, and said in Romans 8-1- there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And if you can, read some of my books, they are all short books, ten minute reading. God Bless You Brendan