Healing of the garbage that has been laid on you. & Killing the deep hatred inside you
Healing of the garbage that has been laid on you Mc Crossan
One
Sending back the garbage
This little book is designed to set those who have been abused verbally by others free from those negative words and the effects of those negative words. First of all, words have the effect to create life or death. If a mother or father told a child growing up, it was useless, good for nothing, worthless, stupid, of no value or worth, those words spoken over that child will cause the child to grow up feeling that nothing they do will ever amount to much because there’re worthless, stupid, useless and not worth anything.
If the opposite happens and a child is encouraged told it is the smartest best loving child a child could be and it will be great in this world, that child grows up affirmed feels good about itself always.
The first child will have to deal with depression and a bad self image all the days of its life right into adulthood.
‘Life and death are in the tongue.’
When a woman or man get married there are some who suffer years of verbal abuse from their partner, and those words have a devastating effect on the one abused, they leave them with a low self esteem, a feeling of worthlessness, and this is not what God created them to feel. In this little book I am sharing with you a simple thing to do, that will help the healing process in you, and rid you for the rubbish that has been spoken over you about you.
My favourite piece of scripture in the Bible is from Ephesians 1-4- it is a clear message from God as to how he sees us, and what he thinks of us, he never ridicules us or condemns us or criticises us, he loves us unconditionally, his love for us is enormous it is way beyond anything we could ever imagine. He is a God who gives us everything, everything that we could ever want or desire and all he wants us to do is to ask that it be released into this world so we could enjoy it. God is an overgenerous God but is made out like a tight fisted miser who only helps when there is nothing left for us to do, and then he gives us just enough to get us through, if you really want to know what God is really like, read my book “The Extravagant Love of God” and you will be shocked and amazed to see a different side to God than the side you have known.
To get back to what I was saying in Ephesians 1 God says he created you before the world began, read it for yourself now. God knew exactly what you would be like , every fault, failing, sin, spot, blemish, or wrinkle and still he decided to make you and make you holy like himself ‘anyway,’ he chooses to see us holy like himself he refuses to see our failings if we love him and Jesus. He is not interested in your sins past or present, if you have sinned, say ‘’sorry lord,’’ and your sin is wiped out washed away and you are still in good relationship with God and Jesus.
4 For he chose usin him before the creation of the worldto be holy and blameless in his sight. In love5 hepredestined us for adoption to sonshipthrough Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will— 6 to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves. 7 in him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace 8 that he lavished on us. With all wisdom
Hebrew-10-14- you are forever perfect in the sight of God. Before I can show you how to get rid of all that was imposed on you, I had to show you how much God loves you and sees you.
Two
It does not belong to you Send back the garbage that your partner or ex husband or wife or others shoved onto you. Send back words that others said about you, the horrible devastating words of condemnation and disgusting words that left you feeling worthless, good for nothing an embarrassment to them and they told you it was all your fault, which is and was lies, it is them who are to blame for their words, those rotten words came out of their mouths and not yours so you don’t have to give an account for those words that made you feel like dogs dirt; no one has the right to criticise and condemn you or make you feel like the dirt on the sole of their shoe. God never made you as dirt or worthless he treasures you and loves you very deeply. So no man or woman or mother or father has the right to put you down and make your life intolerable. They will stand in judgement before God some and give an account to him of those negative words, as scripture says, ‘’you will give an account for every negative word spoken.’’
*What you are to do is to get an envelope,* a brown plastic lined bubble envelope, the kind you can get in the post office or from a pound shop, and you are to gather some dirt from the ground or from your rubbish bin, place it in the bubble bag and send it to the person who has caused you so much grief with their disgusting rubbish words and enclose a letter saying, “I send this rubbish back to you “it represents” all the rubbish and dirt you caused in my life. It represents every rotten word you spoke over me or about me. So I am sending this all back to you, it represents all you said to me, and made me feel like dirt, and now I return it to you it is yours to deal with in Jesus name I return what belongs to you.” Make sure that you let them know and understand that those rotten words were their words and that you are sending them back to where they belong.
Think of something here, if you ordered something from a catalogue or store or magazine and it came to you in a filthy state, damaged and shabbily wrapped and covered in mud would you accept it? Of course you wouldn’t, you’d send it back immediately, and do the same with that horrible destructive verbal diarrhoea that came flowing from their mouths, send it back immediately.
And then seal the bag with that letter inside, cover the letter with cling film if you have it, it represents all that things that have clung to you through terrible dirty disgusting lying words,
Romans -8-1 there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus.
and place it along with the rubbish in the envelope. You don’t need to fill the bag completely with rubbish, or maybe you do, you will know what size of envelope to send if you ask the lord. Keep the letter sealed by the cling film so it doesn’t get destroyed before the person who messed your life up gets a messed up letter they cannot read.
{Again I say} place the rubbish inside the envelope with the bubble wrap inside it, place the rubbish representing what they spoke into your life that has been destroyed by that other person in it. Use a separate envelope with their name written on it so they can see it’s a letter for them. Cover the letter {with cling film} {the cling film represents the rubbish that has been clinging to your life;} you write, explaining what you are doing, sending their rubbish back to them that they spoke over you, letting them know it represents their rubbish that you are returning to them. Seal the letter in Jesus name and say. “Lord Jesus I am sending back all this in your name and I set myself free of their disgusting words and actions, now in your precious name; Jesus.
Three
You can also do something else if you don’t feel like you can do the previous thing I wrote on. You can get an envelope and place in it all the rubbish you wish that represents your life or the rotten things spoken over you by others and you can write a letter addressed. “To whom it may concern,” representing all those who spoke, or done, terrible things on you.
You can do this if you were sexually abused also. If this was the case that you were sexually abused you can send the first letter to the abuser with all the disgusting rubbish you gathered and say; “this belongs to you,” just as I wrote in the last verse. Or if you are so inclined you can do what I am saying in this section.
Place in the envelope with the rubbish, a letter expressing all your feelings and emotions that have been damaged, “use words that describe how you are feeling over what they have done to you, using swear words if necessary, or whatever brings the deep anger out of you, God is not religious so he wants you expressing the words that are in your heart because he can see and hear them anyway, so no use pretending to be nice. What happened to you was ugly, rotten and probably they placed the blame on you. - Words like –‘it was your fault, if you didn’t do this or that, it’s your entire fault.’ That is a lie told to shift the blame off them and onto you, to justify themselves and their words and actions. This is not acceptable to either God or to you, what people done on you was their fault and no ones else’s, they did the wrong unto you, so now it’s time to either send it back or to finally get rid of it for good so you can live a life fresh in the newness of God clear light.
Now Go and dig a hole in the ground and bury that envelope deep and as you do so speak these words out aloud to yourself.
Prayer
“I bury all the terrible things that people have done onto me Lord Jesus, and as I bury it, it represents every negative thing that happened to me, or was spoken to me, or about me.”
“I put it to death in the ground, in its grave and I will let it remain there forever, and in your name Jesus I break off of me all the effects that those things that happened to me have; and I declare that it shall never have any negative effect on me ever again.”
Killing the deep anger inside you
A meditation to kill hatred and anger and also to put to death things that happened to you, that does not ever seem to go away, no matter how much you forgive.
Picture in your mind that you are standing in a room and ask Jesus to come and be with you, this does not need to be a clear picture, it is in asking Jesus, that he comes to stand by you. See yourself and Jesus and say to him. “Lord would you bring the person whom I hate with all my heart before us now in this meditation.
Then see that person coming and standing before you, turn to Jesus and see him with a sword in his mouth; ask him for his sword, see him hand it to you, then turn to the person whom you hate, that has done terrible things to you that only you them and Jesus know. And as you look at them feel all that hatred rise up in you; then see yourself ram that sword into them as hard as you can and see them fall down to the ground dead. And as you look at them see Jesus reach down and rise them from the dead again, and stand them again facing you. Once more ram that sword into them as hard as you can. See them fall down dead laying on the ground, and again after a few minutes see Jesus reach down again and touch them and bring them back to life to stand and face you for what they done. See Jesus looking at you and say, ‘’go ahead and strike them with the sword,’’ strike them with that sword cutting them in pieces ramming that sword into them as hard as possible, until they are dead.
Keep doing this until you can do it no more, each time seeing Jesus raise them from the dead. When you can do it no more, turn to Jesus and hand him back his sword, see him put his arm around you and hear him say, “you have just killed all your anger, now let it rest in peace, forgive now with your heart {Your decision} and this shall have no more effects on you or on our relationship ever again.
Sometimes we need to do this with several people, say in the case where a woman has been gang raped, she may need to do it to all concerned, so just repeat what you did replacing each person one at a time.
You will be amazed at the end results and the change in your feelings of being angry all the time. It might not seem very Christian to do these things but these are things that the Holy SpiritshowedmeyearsagowhenIwasministeringinnerhealingwithpeople,andtheyworked. Amen
“Now Lord Jesus turn to good all that happened to me for your glory” Four
But what if they are dead?
What can I do to get set free from all the garbage that my ex husband /partner or Father or Mother or relative have laid on me now they’re dead. I can’t send them the garbage back can I? Yes there is still a way to get rid of what does not belong to you. You do whatI said in thefirstpartwith theenvelope, you fillitwith rotten rubbish representing the rotten words that were spoken over you and that went deep down inside you and crushed your spirit, and then you go to the cemetery if possible and you bury that envelope in the grave with them, telling them this belongs to you and I am burying it with you and all the painful memories that you inflicted on me, and I am ridding myself of your rubbish once and for all. This may sound terrible, not a Christian thing to do, but I have known Christians who have forgiven deeply but cannot shake off of them the effects of what was spoken over them and into their spirit by their dead partner, husband, father or mother, or relative, until I explained that they are burying their resentment and terrible effects that were laid on them, and in doing so Jesus helps set them free. If you are one of those who were verbally abused by constant criticism, verbal garbage you will understand that what I say is true, it clings to you like cling film wound around you tightly, you feel smothered, and the only way to get rid of it is by burying it along with the person who did what they did to you.
If you are unable to do this then go dig a hole somewhere and place your envelope with all the garbage in it, saying, ‘I am burying your words of condemnation and criticism, all the wrong words you spoke over me and laid those words deep in my soul.’ ‘I now bury them in Jesus name they belong to you and are no longer mine, and as I bury them I rid myself off all the hateful things you abused me with.’
Psalm 58:4 Contemporary English Version
Your words spread poison like the bite of a cobra
The hateful disparaging words and actions that people did on you spread like a poison through you affecting your soul, {your mind} now you are ridding yourself off all that poison, that’s why you need to ‘say’ I give it back to you, you are sending back those rotten hate filled words that made you feel less of a person.
Let your words now set you free. Amen