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As I sit here on this election eve, a lot is going through my mind. Over these past few months, we have seen both the republicans and democrats put up pretty good arguments for who should be the next President. Some people will vote for Mitt Romney and some will vote for President Obama. My decision is easy. When I first saw President Obama at a democratic convention I was impressed, but above that, I was inspired. Never in my lifetime did I think we would see a black president. When he ran for his initial term, there was absolutely no doubt in my mind about who I was voting for. It wasn't just because of what he stood for, but because of what he represented... hope. Plenty of people my age still don't fully understand what President Obama means to the future of black males, but I never thought about what all he means to me. Sure, President Obama and his successes have inspired me to start several businesses and pursue dreams that people may think are impossible, but it's beyond that. I have a 7 year old nephew who attended an President Obama rally that got a chance to give the president a "high five!" When he called his dad to tell him what happened, he said, "I will remember this night for the rest of my life." It's not just what President Obama has inspired me to do, but how he will inspire generations after generations for simply being a black man who did what was seemingly impossible. My nephew can look at President Obama and know, without a shadow of a doubt, that he can be ANYTHING he wants to be. This is a far cry from what I was saying at his age! Now, my young nephew's dreams are more than just dreams. Now, his goals are more than aspirations. Not only has President Obama been a beacon of hope for so many, but he is the new standard for young black men everywhere. It is now time for the homecoming-- President Obama's homecoming. When I think of homecoming, I think of when everyone returns to the place where their life changed and history was made. This is how I feel about President Obama. It is time for his "homecoming." It is time for him to come back for an additional four years and continue what he began while moving forward in his legacy in the White House. It is time for President Obama to inspire generations to achieve more than what they could have ever dreamed was possible. It's time for Obama. Let us vote and give him what he needs, what we need, and what this nation needs-- four more years "forward." Welcome home, President. Welcome home! Howard J. Clay is available for speaking engagements, clinics/seminars, as well as appearances for organizations, corporate and school events. He may be contacted at howard@boss-emag.com for booking.
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The #1 Encouragement Speaker Derrick Hayes gives a DERRICK Interview by asking 7 questions through each letter of his first name to give you an insightful perspective from other experts, entrepreneurs, celebrities, and up and coming super stars. Today’s DERRICK Interview is with Comedian Rodney Perry who was born in Chicago and raised in Monroe, Louisiana. Rodney served his country for eight years as a member of the United States Navy. Serving two tours of duty took Rodney to New Orleans and to the Bay Area, which prepared him for the entertainment industry and for life. He would perform his duties as Yeoman Second Class by day, and perform his side-splitting comedy shows by night. Perry came to a crossroad in 1998 when he had to choose between continuing his Navy career, or making Stand-Up Comedy a career. He chose the latter. A few weeks ago I did a DERRICK Interview with Comedian Lav Luv and he mentioned that Rodney Perry was the person that others should learn more about. After Lav Luv gave me the opportunity, I reached out to Rodney Perry, and now you are about to read my Derrick Interview with him.
D is for Dream. What is your dream and what have you achieved? My dream was and is to be one of the world’s best comedians. My brand is building, I have a national audience and Rodney Perry time is close at hand. E is for Encourage. What encourages you? I am encouraged by my family. They give me my drive. They are my engine. Without my family I am not sure if I would be as focused. R is for Resource. What resources do you bring to the table that makes you unique or stand out? The core of what I do is to make people laugh, but my greater purpose is to lighten the collective burden. When someone goes to see me I want them to walk away with a sense of fulfillment. R is for Ready. When did you realize you were ready for what you are doing now? I had a teacher that would let me tell jokes at the end of class if I would shut up during the course of the day... That was in second grade. I was born ready to do what I am doing now, and I just got ready to do what’s coming up next. You must always prepare for your next big thing. I is for Individual. Name at least one person that you know that you feel others should learn about and why. Dr. Farrah Gray is the first person who comes to mind. I often site him when talking to my children. He made his first million dollars as a teen. Shoot for the stars!! C is for Continue. When you fail, things look bleak or are not optimistic what makes you want to continue? Winners win even when they lose. I live in a perpetual state of WIN, so even when things aren’t going in my favor I am learning about that situation and myself. K is for Key. What keys to success can you leave for upcoming entrepreneurs and leaders? Work Hard... There are no days off when you are the boss, Unless you say so. Is there anything that we did not touch on that you would like to inspire others with? I will leave you all with this... Find something you Love and do it to the best of your ability. You will be happy, you will make money, and you will never regret your decision. Check out Rodney Perry’s new show “Off The Chain” premiering on Bounce TV October 22nd, 2012 at 9:00 PM EST.
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In honor of Florida A&M University’s 125th anniversary, I decided to share seven things I learned while a student on the highest of Seven Hills. Here they are:
1. Mediocrity as a standard is unacceptable: I remember so many times when the student senate ripped someone apart for not being prepared or knowledgeable. Somebody thought they were going to get confirmed for a position and didn’t take the time to really learn the constitutional duties. Or, for those that were in a Greek organization, I’m sure you’ve seen one of your bruhs or sorors get a proposal balled up and thrown back at them because it was piss poor. We didn’t accept mediocrity. Be thorough or be embarrassed.
2. Every day is a runway: Please don’t think you’re going to roll out of bed and come to campus. Not acceptable. Even if you have a 8am class. Wherever you go, be fly; and on Set Fridays, be extra fly! This seemed to be the understood culture at FAMU during my time. We were always a very fashion and appearance conscious student body. Transitioning into the real world, I knew the importance of appearance and I understood that presentation is everything. Not to mention, I developed a mean suit and tie game thanks to Beta Nu and the School of Business and Industry.
3. The competition begins before the race even starts: Let me set the scene. It’s February and the spring elections are upon us. All the candidates, dressed in business attire, have gathered in the Grand Ballroom for a mandatory candidates meeting. There’s a thick tension in the air. The time has come for all candidates to introduce themselves and the position they are vying for. Official campaigning hasn’t started. In fact, it’s weeks away. However, this is the first
James Bland cont... opportunity for candidates to prove that they are better than their opponents. It was at these meetings that I learned the battle starts way before you reach the battlefield. Sometimes, you have to intimidate your competition. A lion roars before he attacks. Game faces on… candidates please introduce yourselves…. and you better be tight!
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I was privileged to be in Student Government during my time on the Hill and I took full advantage of all the perks the position offered. There were times when students complained that student leaders lived “too high on the horse.” I mean, sure, we occasionally flew to football games, sat in box seats at the Homecoming concert and enjoyed reserved front row seats at Lee Hall events, but these were simply benefits of the position. I learned quickly that if I wanted to wear the heavyweight belt at FAMU, I needed to get in the ring and fight for the title. So, I ran for office. Even today, I’m still running and competing for the title and seat I want in life. No one lands on the mountain top, but those who climb to get there enjoy the view.
5. Tenacity above all tenacity: Climb trees. Hide in bushes. Get class schedules from the registrar’s office. Make 20 phone calls a night. Join every club on campus. Stay up all night when no one told you to. Dance all night at the party with no water. Run around the track in hard bottoms and heels. Stay off the grass. Walk with a purpose. Throw all of the color out of your closet; black and gray only just to be safe. And if all else fails… push back your graduation. Sounds a bit much, but if you do today what others don’t, you can have tomorrow what others won’t.
6. Serve a purpose greater than myself: Some of my most memorable college experiences were made while a member of the Student Coalition for Justice, and the activism we held to bring justice for Martin Lee Anderson, a 14-year old black male that was murdered in a Bay County bootcamp. When the state of Florida refused to move on the case, the students of FAMU, FSU and TCC raised their voices and demanded justice. When our voices seemed too faint, we sat in on the Governor’s office. When sitting was not enough, we marched in the streets. When marching had become trite, we shut
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down a major intersection in front of the state capital. I literally witnessed mountains move because a group of young people refused to go quietly into the night… all in the name of justice and in the spirt of standing for something bigger than ourselves. That’s powerful.
7. The worst criticism often pushes you to achieve beyond what you normally would: If you’ve ever been to a talent showcase at FAMU, you know that the FAMU crowd can be brutal! Needless to say, the spotlight can burn, but it builds resilience and courage. After competing against and in front of Rattlers, I now believe I can compete against the best the world has to offer.
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Reflecting on college days And the silly games that were played Parading around campus with a pretty girl or I’m the man masquerade Roommates, playing sick, Course syllabus, first lady and the president
Proudly singing the Alma Mater Representing the university wearing the school colors Coming together for a celebration Remembering walking down the aisle with your class at graduation Vendors, food, drinks and money Hair done, nails done new outfits for flaunting
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A time to walk the grounds and revisit memory lane When you laughed all night with friends or shared someone else’s pain Reconnecting lives that somehow drifted apart, yet knowing each other is near and tucked safely in the heart
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Catching up on gossip such as who’s pregnant or the latest news of a couple that just split The person with a new job and the one who just quit
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Knowing that the purpose which unites us is exactly the same To not leave college the same way that we came Time is spent to laugh, cry, remember and cheer My first start in life began right here!
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Hello, I am Chauncy Whaley, @MyFathersBiz1 on Twitter, and I just want to share my experiences at Howard University’s Homecoming this year. I had so much fun! My nephew is a senior at Howard who worked on the homecoming staff this year and they did a great job. Secondly, it was my first trip to D.C. so that alone was a blessing to me. Howard lived up to its name by having the best homecoming on the planet! From Yard Fest to the game and to the step show it was just pure fun. I was worn out and I am looking forward to the Homecoming next year. Here is a picture of my family and I from left to right... My nephew, the senior at Howard, Charles “CJ” Canady, Jr.; His mother, who is my sister-in-law, Beverly Canady; His dad, who is my brother, Charles Canady, Sr.; and myself.
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Greetings from Richmond, VA! My name is Kimberly Lawrence, an alumni of Virginia State University, located in Ettrick, VA. Attending homecoming this year with my "Spirit Sisters" was both memorable and enlightening. The VSU Woo Woo's (Cheerleaders) are known and highly respected throughout the CIAA. Our beloved Coach Dr. Paulette Johnson not only guided us for 35 years, but was a mother figure as well. These pictures highlight a bond of sisterly love and friendship for over 10 years. Pictured are 6 of the 19 girls (which was one of the largest squads to be chosen) that made the squad from the year 2000. It was such a blessing to be amonst my sisters and fellow Trojans that night, so much, that we have decided to start a non profit that assists at risk families effected by but not limited to, domestic violence and abuse. We are super excited and can't wait to empower, educate, and support families in need. The message is that don't let the outside appearance lead you to just think beauty. We all have outstanding qualities and experiences that have shaped and molded us to "keep pressing on" no matter what lies ahead. And that is the foundation of our future endeavors for those we serve. Thank you again for this opportunity! Listed in the picture: Nikki Ross-Evans, Maya Tyler, Shanica Noakes, Redia Thomas, Hadiyah Espinosa, and myself Kimberly Lawrence
One of our pictures is featured on the Black Women Are Sexy Facebook website, through Essence Magazine. Sisterhood means so much to us, even though we aren't blood related!
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Here are some pictures from my Homecoming weekend at Middle Tennessee. LaTresa "Tree" Cunningham @PurpleDiva13
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Truly Legendary The Mecca of all HBCU homecomings takes place every year in Washington, D.C. at the historic Howard University. A week packed with fun filled events and concerts sends crowds of people flocking to the nation’s capital just to see what will happen next. This year’s homecoming kicked off on October 17, 2012 with an event entitled “Dream Day.” Hosted by Angela and Vanessa Simmons, this event focused on how to shoot for your dreams and be successful. The annual fashion show, “Nouveau Riche,’’ showcased the flyest fashions on the East Coast and featured a mini concert of the talented Elle Varner.
The International Yardfest was packed with many musical surprises such as Drake, 2 Chainz, Pusha T, and TI. They rocked the crowd with electrifying performances and yummy international cuisine. The parade was filled with spirit as students, along with the greater D.C. community, took to Georgia Avenue dancing to Howard’s own Showcase Band and other area high school bands filling the streets with music. The Grand Marshall was a D.C. native, Howard University Alumni, and Hollywood star Laz Alonso. The yard was jammed packed as people filled the football stadium to watch Howard’s Bisons take on the Morgan State Bears. It was a tight game that led to a Bison victory with a one point
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Homecoming 2012 ended on a positive note with the Gospel Concert headed by Mr. Fred Hammond. Crampton Auditorium was moved with the spirit as students, alumni and Washington, D.C. residents clapped and praised God.
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lead over Morgan, 21-20. The night concluded with a riveting step show, “Epiphany” where the NPHC took to the stage at Dar Constitution Hall and stepped for survival. The Hall was packed with each fraternity and sorority proudly representing the “Divine Nine”. The ladies of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., Alpha chapter and the gentlemen of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc., also from Alpha chapter, represented fiercely for their organizations and won the competition, each bringing home the $2,000 grand prize courtesy of AT&T.
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Know Thy Purpose, Know Thy Plan The Katrina Bruce Interview
B.O.S.S.: What’s your background? How was life before college?
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Katrina: I was born in New York but was raised in the small rural town of Cross, South Carolina my whole life. My high school went from 7th to 12th grade. Cross didn’t get our first traffic light until about 2001. It was a big “to do” when the dirt roads got actual names and street signs! It was awesome though and great living. I experienced the loss of my mom when I was eighteen. She was ill, but it was unexpected that she would transition like that so suddenly. She died eleven days after I graduated high school. I was the youngest of three. She was a single mom and divorcee. My father, who is Trinidadian, was in another state and would soon be leaving the country a few years later. My mother’s death affected me and my siblings in different ways. My eldest sister was carrying my nephew at the time and had to deal with handling estate issues and her family. My brother had a child already, he had to reconcile and work through her passing while completing his graduate degree. They were there in terms of making sure I had a place to stay while in the transition from high school to college. But we truly led separate lives. I was accepted to the College of Charleston’s Summer Bridge program and it was scheduled to start about three weeks after my mom’s death. I stayed with my sister in Cincinnati until it began. My brother saw me off to the program however because it was his Alma mater.
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K: It was interesting, I recall a conversation I had on the front porch during the period between [my mother’s] passing and putting her to rest. This woman (who shall remain nameless) told me that ‘my mom would completely understand if I didn’t
want to go off to school. So if I didn’t want to go, I should take some time off and stay home, in Cross.’ And I was thinking, is she really having this conversation with me right now? My mom was an LPN and didn’t have a bachelor’s degree. My sister finished her four year, my brother finished his four year, but with regard to the term “first generation”, there are varying definitions and some people look at whether either parent has a four year degree. Neither of my parents had a four year degree. I was a first gen (first generation college student), and didn’t even know. I overlooked and missed scholarship opportunities. Despite being first generation, staying home was not an option. My family expected me to pursue college. The only thing I truly had going for me at the time was that I was academically inclined and received some scholarships to assist me financially. Those opportunities helped me continue. But I’m from the rural south. So in terms of anyone reaching to and saying you just had a very traumatic experience, maybe you should get counseling, no one said that. I literally went through three years of college depressed. First year was rough, but I was able to make it because I had my high school sweetheart with me. I didn’t want him to attend the College of Charleston, but that was out of my control. He came anyway. He was a huge support. I can recall being in biology class and hearing my professor teach on some of the things that related back to my mom’s death or I can recall smelling hand soap and thinking back to her laying in ICU and experiencing a little PTSD. I could of gotten over it somehow, maybe... I soon crossed as a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority in Spring 1998 and less than a year later, two of my older sorors died in a terrible car accident. What made it crazy was the fact that I was supposed to be riding with them, and I’ll never forget the conversation I had with one of them. I told her I wanted to go to the step show but [she] wouldn’t want me to get an F on an assignment I needed
to work on. Big Sister Edwina’s response was ‘No I don’t.’ And that was the last conversation I had with her. I remember hearing the news and falling to shambles. I was in shock. I sat outside with a friend of mine and we waited for them to pull up. And we waited, and waited, and the sun began to set and they never showed up. The next thing you know we put them in the ground, then my boyfriend and I broke up. To some people it wouldn’t be a big thing but I didn’t have that familiar base. My boyfriend was my family after my mother passed. I was severely depressed. I began losing my hair. I remember everyone on campus was wondering why I was wearing a ponytail (which was tucked under like a bun). I remember thinking to myself that I had a cute face, so I could pull it off (laugh). What they didn’t know was that I was stressed to the point of sleepless nights and losing hair. I think the breakup did it for me, and then seeing him on campus. I was going through severe depression, separation anxiety and abandonment issues. At that time, my father was not supportive and presented himself as an obstacle as well. Honestly, I made it through school because of someone by the name of Jennifer Johnson. My brother had introduced me to her and she was the Assistant Director of Multicultural Affairs. She oversaw our bridge program. As time went on, we established a great rapport. In my junior year, I said to her, “I just want to be like you, what do you do?” And she said “Well, I have my Master’s degree in Higher Education Administration, have you ever heard of that?” I told her no, and explained that I thought anybody could do this. She told me no and asked if I’d be interested in a fellowship opportunity. Well, what else did I have to do? I was just barely making it to class. One semester I had nothing but straight C minuses in my major- it was horrific. I even had a professor who, for some reason, just picked on me because I never smiled. “This girl never smiles in my class,” he used to say and I
would just sit there thinking, Sir, I’m really trying not to check out today. Even though I was a Psych major, it didn’t click to me that I needed counseling. I was just making it through. Jennifer set me up with the National Association of Student Personnel Administrators (NASPA) Minority Fellowship Program. Through that program I was able to explore higher education. She gave me assignments that gave me a feel for what it was like to work in higher education. Luckily, I was able to get a summer fellowship position at a private college in Michigan at Hope College. That summer, I graduated and I didn’t have any plans. I was so much of a first generation that even my brothers and sisters couldn’t help me through the process. I endured things like having a passion for something and hearing people tell me, “How are you going to use that? You shouldn’t do that.” I didn’t have that encouragement or support. They didn’t understand that a person may have a particular degree but it’s their skills that will get them the job. If they can sell themselves they will be fine. I was trying to please others academically and trying to find my way and trying to reconcile that I lost four major people in my life and I’m about to graduate and I didn’t know where to look for a job.. Luckily when I went to work at Hope College, the Assistant Director of Multicultural Affairs there took me under her wing, groomed me and I was able to travel to Santa Barbara through NASPA and participate in their leadership institute. Looking back she showed me how to conduct proper job
“What they didn’t know was that I was stressed to the point of sleepless nights and losing hair.” searches. She inspired me to consider Higher Ed as a career and not just a job. After Michigan, I was able to land a position in North Manchester, Indiana. There was no one talking to me about “fit”, the importance of environments, and learning about yourself so that you can be in the best possible situation to maximize your gifts and talents. At the time, I was the only African- American on staff and there was another African American woman who worked for an outside entity, so there were only two black people that worked in a school with two thousand students. I disliked the environment, but I loved what I did for my students. I’m not sure if enough people realize that in order to achieve certain outcomes you have to take preventive steps which means educating yourself about everything, from the minute such as vocabulary to how you navigate the system, how to be savvy politically, networking, and how to draw out your game plan. I stayed at Manchester for two years and when I left there I moved [to Ohio] in hopes of going to Miami (of Ohio) University. I had to access to a key graduate official and I spoke with her about my program of interest. I never spoke with her, however, about planning for graduate school. I just up and moved
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from Indiana to Ohio. I just thought I’d work and save up. I didn’t even ask about the feasibility of getting an assistantship, or a fellowship. Ironically, when I looked at the program’s curriculum I discovered it didn’t truly interest me. I believe nothing is random, and that the Universe will bring whatever you need to you. At the time, I just happened to keep meeting people who had J.D.s (Juris Doctorate). My aunt has one and she lives in California. We didn’t become close until after my mom’s passing. When I was leaving Manchester, my aunt asked me what I was going to be doing and I told her that I’d just work. And she said that I could stay with her and come work at her law firm in California. And I said what am I going to do? Law? Please! When I came to Ohio, that’s when I conceived my son. Luckily, I was hired working at admissions at Miami, and it was great doing access work for the population we served. It was great educating people and letting them know their options and watching them journey through the system, it was awesome planting that seed and watching it grow into something beautiful. I remember taking the time to look at the law school curriculum and I was sold on it. It was diverse, and I had friends who practiced, and who were non-practitioners and we were like minded. I decided that I would attend Law School. I didn’t even realize that you should apply to around seven schools, and I only applied to three. I was accepted into Northern Kentucky University Salmon P. Chase Law School. I made the decision to attend, but when I tried to move closer to the school, I was unable to move because of legal reasons. There are so many people who know so little about the law and that you really need to mindful of your actions. I never would of thought for a million years that because I had a child with someone they would have the right to impede my freedom, when my freedom works for the advancement of the child we share. I spent a lot of money and emotion working through that ordeal. I didn’t know when I conceived that I was going to be a single parent. I was literally commuting back
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“I never would of thought for a million years that because I had a child with someone they would have the right to impede my freedom...” and forth from Fairfield to Chase (a 40 minute commute, one way) and my son was two.
After being out of school for five years, I was a new student all over again. My
reading speed was slower than a turtle and a sloth combined. At the end of my first year, I was more than safe in terms of grades. (I am proud that I made the Dean’s List a few times throughout my legal studies.) I will say that mentally, emotionally, physically, I was exhausted, I would say for the first two years, I would literally crash at the end of each semester. When I look back, I really believe it was my faith that got me through it and the people in my life at that time. Professors Sharlene Boltz and Barbara McFarland were amazing support systems. Just working on campus and having access to faculty that cared made
a difference. There were times when I walked into a professor’s office, and just sat and cried. I wish that I would have had a plan. I truly believe that you don’t have to undergo what I did while pursuing a higher or professional degree. I didn’t have the proper financial support. I quit my job, and I took out loans. And I was still unsure if I could even pay for basic necessities. I am sure I took years off my life but I got them back once I received my degree (laughs). I had to forgo taking the bar for personal reasons, but tried to find work in the legal field. During my search I ended up temping at a local bank. That job was good as I was earning income, but it was not my passion. I eventually found the opportunity to work for a local nonprofit in the field of college access-which is near and dear to my heart- and that’s where I am today.
B: What advice would you give to future high school graduates? I could tell you to plan, I could tell you to research, I could tell you to ask questions, but the truth of the matter is the common denominator is you being proactive. You have to be a self-advocate. You have to learn how to humble yourself and realize K:
that you are not entitled to information, you have to go get it. You must assert yourself. Universally, knowledge is for all to access, but we live in a capitalist society and people aren’t giving it out for free—not the tidbits to success. True, information is everywhere, the library for instance, but you have to be taught to go to the library, you have to be taught how to access information. You have to be taught to navigate the system and taught to ask that librarian to help you navigate the system. I want people to stop waiting for someone to come up to them and hand them the nugget. Granted, if you deal with me I’m going to hand you the nugget, whether you want it or not (laughs). But not everyone has that passion and desire to help other people succeed. People are trying to run their own race, trying to make a dollar to put food on the table. These times are difficult for many of us. But if you want something you need to start asking people how to get it. Ask your teachers and your parents. If they can’t help you, call a college. Seriously, call an admission representative and advocate for yourself. There is not one person on the college level in an administrative office that is going to hang up the phone on you if you call and say ‘my name is ABC, can you tell me how to apply to college.’ They are going to put you in touch with the right people. You have to be willing to ask the questions. Something that worries me about young people is that they are overly concerned with how others view their lack of knowledge. No one wants to look unintelligent or “not so smart”, but if you want to get ahead you better raise your hand. Ask the questions. Make a plan, that’s geared toward your needs and interests. Find your “fit”, that which suites you and your personality.
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Are you simply tired of hearing and reading about the same statistics year after year? • 42% of schools in the United States without minority teachers. • Less than 2% of all teachers in the United States being Black males. • Minority educators making up only 13.5% of teachers in the United States. • Graduation rates alarming for minority students and schools not adequately preparing students to become successful in not only their academic careers but also in their social and behavioral development? • Minority students having the highest suspension and expulsion rates, and referrals for special education services • Lack of minority superintendents, principals and board members at schools across the United States • Lack of networking, development and support for minority educators • The annual focus of conferences and other media outlets not truly addressing the nation’s greatest educational dilemma, ‘Where are the minority educators and how can we get more?’ You are not alone… The National Minority Educators Association for Charter Schools (N.M.E.A.C.S.) is a Non-Profit Association, established by accomplished minority educators with over 20 years of educational leadership and teaching experiences in both charter schools and traditional public schools. From superintendents to teachers, we are on a mission to promote the voice and choice of parents and families to have quality schools. From the Boston Latin School formed as the first public school in the United States in 1635 to traditional schools in 2012, the educational system in the United States has had some success but it is simply failing to address the needs of all students. Gone are the times that the neighborhood school on your block is the only option. You now have a choice and opportunity to use your voice.
Now is the time for parents and families to investigate and make informed decisions of schools regardless of area code, zip code or miles! It is about a quality program, based on academics, social development, resources, and dedicated and diverse staff. It is about equality in funding, resources and facilities, and a belief that your child will grow and develop each year in that respective school setting and grade level configuration. We are not simply an association; we are a family dedicated to you. In January 2013, we will be launching a new membership drive and our monthly national charter school conference call, “Let’s Have a Conversation.” The calls will feature guest speakers and educational pioneers. But please don’t wait! Memberships and donations are taking place now! Please visit www.nmeacs.org and join us or make a donation. Learn about our pillars and platform to make a difference. Learn about planned conferences, workshops, networking opportunities and employment opportunities in schools across the United States. In little over a year, we now have one of the largest, if not largest, followers on Twitter for an educational organization, and were the first national charter organization to have an app you may download for free. Join our forum on LinkedIn, Follow our Facebook Pages @NMEACS and NMEACS Educators. Lastly, always remember to bold in your purpose and confident in your delivery. Our motto:” Education, Knowledge, Awareness and Action” The NMEACS Family
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I began cutting hair when I was 16... I had a janky pair of Walh clippers, the love I had for the industry was so strong. My name is Barry Hairston better know as TheStarsBarber. The story on how I became a "Boss" began in Akron, Ohio on August 13th, 1972. As a little kid, I was always interested in fashion, hair, and girls. My mom would cut my and my brothers’ hair, and man, it was a disaster! One day I told her "I think I can do a better job..." She challenged me with an unconvinced, "Really?" From there I began my barbering career! My first paying customers came when I worked at a grocery store in the produce department. Instead of helping customers, I was cutting the store manger and fellow employees’ hair. That's when I knew I had "It." In college at the University of Akron, I was cutting hair instead of going to class. I ended up getting kicked out. So, from there, I went to barber school, graduated, and opened a shop. Within the five years of running my own business, I became a Platform Artist for American Crew. I worked many hair shows across the United States. I felt like I needed a bigger challenge and wanted to start working on celebrities! I closed my shop and moved to Atlanta, Georgia. My first year there was very hard. I was alone, broke, and homeless- I was living out of my car. I was on the verge of going back to Akron, then my first high profile client, Q Parker (from the R&B group 112), took a chance on me and the rest is history! I have worked on many artists, athletes, actors... I've done movies, videos , photoshoots- any opportunity to work on celebrities, I have been there. I have to say that life is good. What makes me a "Boss"? I never quit... I am on the verge of opening a high end shop, doing an instructional DVD called AccessGranted and I'm personally doing a fitness calendar . Follow me on Twitter @TheStarsBarber and checkout my website at www.TheStarsBarber.com.
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At the depths o At the depths of his soul, Pervis Taylor III is an encourager. “I get unspeakable joy from uplifting the human spirit,” says Taylor, 32. The passion for encouragement came as result of the pain he faced during his teens and twenties. “I suffered from severe identity crisis. I had no idea who I was.” Taylor was bullied and called vicious names and endured abuse in his teens. After graduating with a degree in Marketing from the University of Miami, Taylor moved to New York to pursue a dream in music. He found himself in the marketing department at Def Jam Records. From there, he signed to the prestigious Wihelmina Modeling Agency for Print and Television. But he discovered his true purpose in what he calls a prophetic conversation with his father weeks before he passed suddenly from heart failure. “He said, ‘you’re gonna write a book that’s going to help young people especially young black men...’” Pervis recalls. Several years later, Pervis’ Principles Volume One was born. The mini book, is a collection of daily life principles that are easy to apply to life. For example, Day 12: Pain produces inspiration. Some of the world’s greatest works have been produced through the pangs of anguish. “Turn your sorrow into a song for others!” Taylor says. The book has gone international reaching as far as Nigeria bringing encouragement to youth and adults alike. “I received an email from a young man doing all he can to get me to come speak in Nigeria,” Pervis says. In short, Pervis’ father was correct. The book has opened many doors for him. Today, Pervis is a sought after Life Coach receiving requests from record labels to work with their artists, as well as from top executives. But his passion is for young adults. He travels around the country speaking to the youth and adults, particularly men of color. His foundation is based on value. “All value in life is determined by the exchange. God saw fit for you and I to live therefore we have
value.” He believes from this truth all dreams are possible. “Our young, black men must realize the kingship that lies within them, not these false advertisements they see daily!” Engaging the heart and will are the keys to his approach. His workshop topics include: conflict resolution, leadership, goal attainment and dynamics of being a black man in society. Moreover, Pervis has been asked to sit on an advisory board at a low performing school in New York City. The vision he has for those whose lives he hopes to impact is what keeps him going during the bleak moments. “In every journey to greatness there will be opposition. I look at an email or a tweet from someone encouraging me to continue along the path; it lets me know all this is worth it.” Pervis believes the future is bright for his mission. He plans to release another book by next year and travel around the world speaking. He had the opportunity to deliver his first commencement speech this year. The topic: Commanding your life with your words. “I told the students to tell themselves everyday that they are spectacular, extraordinary, and impeccable. It’s important that we speak positive things about ourselves.” The impact of the speech was so visceral, a mother came up to him afterwards thanking him for his words. “You never know how you’re impacting lives, I’m thankful,” Pervis says. Recently, he’s caught the attention of the media publishing world. He now adds contributor to his list of tiles. He teamed with Vibe Vixen and created Vixen Inspiration. Indeed the future is bright for Pervis Taylor III. “I always say at the beginning of every speech whether it’s 10 year olds or 40 year olds- ‘There’s a slot in world history for each of us. Either as a world changer or someone who watched the world change. Choose.’” For more information on Pervis Taylor III you can visit his site www.pervistaylor.com. You can find him on Twitter: @pervistaylor.
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Youth and Young Adult Fitness Our youth and young adults are the future and need to be groomed accordingly. Remember, these are the individuals who will be taking care of us when we get older. So, with that in mind, they need to be filled with an abundance of knowledge and great examples to be able to prosper. One area that has been overlooked greatly within the last decade is that of fitness and outdoor activities.
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Youth (Ages 6 to 11)
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We are living in the days of technology or what some like to call, The Digital World. The times when children played outside all day, getting dirty, bruised up, and making it in before the street light comes on (most parents rules along with many others), have been long gone. The days of neighborhood parks, obstacle courses, and jungle gyms are left in the wind. In such a digital world, our youth spend more time in the house playing video games, watching TV, and surfing the internet. I can recall days when I was not allowed to come in the house during the middle of the day. I, along with other children, was forced to be active and spend time outside. Along with that, summer camps and sports were a big part of our lives. Nowadays, children are doing away with fitness to play video games and surf the internet, instead of getting out and being active. We as a people/parents have to change this.
Young Adults (Ages 12 to 19) The young adult population can and should make better decisions than the younger population. Ranging from the ages of 12 to 19, this crucial time of life can potentially determine the individual’s adult physique. Sports and other outdoor activities become a huge factor at this age. Young men begin playing on football teams, basketball teams, running track, wrestling, soccer, etc. You name it, they’re doing it. Likewise, young ladies may become active in cheerleading, track and field, soccer, basketball, field hockey, and the likes. These are all great activities to become a part of to help keep the body physically fit and healthy. Not all young adults become involved in physical activities and chose other routes. There is nothing wrong with that, but it is important to get in at least 30 minutes of exercise daily. Within this age group (12 to 19), the body is changing and building what it will ultimately become.
Statistics Because of the lack of activity among the youth and young adult population, the obesity rate is much higher then ever. According to the CDC, childhood obesity has more than tripled in the last 30 years. The percentage of children ages 6-11 has increased from 7% to 20% (between 1980 and 2008). The young adults, ages 12-19, have increased from 5% to 18% within this same time period. Take note that this last study was completed in 2008 so, within the last 4 years, there is a good possibility that these numbers have changed.
The Metabolism Bad food choices and a lack of exercise is a recipe for disaster. During the youth and young adult phases of our lives, we tend to have this unbelievable metabolism that just burns relentlessly 24 hours of the day. This allows youth and young adults to eat almost anything they want and not have any cares in the world. There are some whom were not born with this monstrous metabolism, but even still at an early age, it is above what it would be at as an adult. Because the metabolism is so fast (at that age), it is taken for granted. I was once in that category along with many others. Eventually the metabolism will slow down and then the problems can occur. But keeping a steady, clean diet can help keep that metabolism consistent.
Food and Nutrition Another part of the problem is food and nutrition status. Food is engineered much differently today, than it was in the years past. Preservatives, saturated fats, and other additives are over the limits and makes foods last longer and taste better. Along with that, there is an increasing amount of hormones and steroids that are injected or sprayed on produce and poultry. This is also why, in my opinion, kids today are reaching puberty MUCH earlier than you and I did growing up. Why you ask? The reason is because the food was very different and wasn’t infused with so many chemicals during that time. Kids are much taller, stronger, and developing faster into their adulthood, due to increasing chemicals
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and hormones places in today’s food. Even within the educational system (Elementary, Middle, High School, and College), food is changed to last longer and taste better. This really affects and is part of the cause for obesity among our youth. The answer to all of this is fairly simple. Here are some examples: 1. Choosing All-Natural or Organic Foods 2. Sugar Free and Low Sugar options. 3. Lower the salt intake. Use the least amount of salt when cooking or use salt replacements. 4. Get children involved in outdoor activities. 5. Get involved in sports and or school activities. 6. Add more Health Education classes in the school systems. This is just a very small piece of the problem and why our youth and young adults are suffering with obesity and being overweight. In my opinion, unless there is a serious health factor involved, there is no excuse for obese or overweight children. All of this should and can be prevented by the parents and guardians. In some cases, adults may need to be educated on Health and Wellness to help prevent these statistics. It all starts at home in the kitchen.
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