How to Control Your Man - Without a Whip!

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Easy Ways To Get A Man Fall In Love With You Fast Get A Man To Chase You Like A Bloodhound On A Rabbit Trail

How to Melt Your Man's Heart How to Get What You Want From Your Man in 3 Simple Steps Don't Lose Your Man - Proven Psychological Tricks To Win Back The Guy You Love How To Get What You Want From Your Man


Easy Ways To Get A Man Fall In Love With You Fast by Michael Gorbachev Hoping to catch the eye of the specific gentleman can appear to be an entire time job unto itself. In among trying to appear fantastic physically, working at showing not too aggressive, nevertheless engaged and yet at the same time making certain he is attracted also, a girl can really feel a bit confused. If you meet up with a man and you also really feel a tug in your heartstrings towards him, you desire to do anything in your strength to get him to notice you and to hopefully build these very same feelings. Enjoy does not come alongside each and every working day which means you might want a tad of help to inspire it. You'll find basic methods to make a man fall in love with you that every woman can use. Most ladies discover men difficult to discover. They are various animals than us women which produces lots of confusion and misunderstanding in every day situations. Now, let us deal with a way more challenging circumstance - you ultimately identified a man which you like so you are incredibly intrigued in making a connection with that man. So, how can you make that happen, without getting too aggressive, hence probably placing him off? In other words and phrases - you would like to know the way to make him drop for you. Properly, below are some tactics you should use to make this come about. They ended up all tested in the real life: 1. Keep your independence. A needy person is actually a massive switch off. Males like independent females who have a life of their very own. So will not make him really feel you happen to be waiting around just for him to phone. Head out there and do stuff. Get coupled with your buddy; go to the fitness center, focused time to hobbies and the like. The issue is - will not be as well reachable, too easily. 2. Make him truly feel critical. Compliment him about his occupation, his vehicle, his standing... Whatever he is accomplished in life, even though it really is a tiny accomplishment, make him think that he is "made it" in life. Most men have egos and so they like to believe of on their own as effective, whether or not they're not. 3. Be intriguing. It is essential that you simply will spark your man's curiosity and retain him intrigued over time. To do that you'll need to be considered a tiny little bit mysterious and not reveal a lot of info unexpectedly. Everyone likes a tad of mystery and men are no various. Whenever you begin dating, it is possible to at first leave out specifics about your heritage, even if the guy asks you about them. Don't be scared to notify him which you will "leave that for later". This may only boost his will to learn more about you and will have him coming back for much more. 4. Consider excellent care of yourself. You actually need to make investments in oneself ought to you are to be a beautiful and radiant female


which gentlemen are attracted to. So ensure you dedicate time to sleep well, physical exercise, eat healthy and customarily treat on your own properly. This will likely demonstrate within the exterior and also you will likely be significantly much more appealing. 5. Do not get actual physical way too quickly. Constantly remember that men are chasers. They chase what they are unable to have and quit going after once they get it. So the guidance your grandmother instructed you about not finding bodily as well quickly is basically true. You will need time to get to know each other, and create an actual emotional relationship. Obtaining physical way too quick interrupts this method and normally takes the relationship to a informal route. If you don't want that to come about, you need to maintain from the actual physical intimacy to a later phase. The 5 tips over certainly are a very good basis for making a meaningful relationship by using a gentleman. Attempt to act in the soul of factors, and make use of your great judgment to develop the outcome you need in your life. About the Author Do you want to know the truth about making a man fall in love with you? Then you need to visit how to get a man loves you, It's a real eye opener to the way men think and will help you make that man chase you and fall madly in love with you!

Get A Man To Chase You Like A Bloodhound On A Rabbit Trail by Derek Blandford Today, let's look at how to get a man to chase you. You're on the prowl and know exactly which man you want, but how do you get him to want you back? It doesn't matter whether he's a hot friend of a friend or whether he's your husband and you simply want to reignite the flames of passion. The key to getting a man to chase you is triggering attraction. Attraction can make a man addicted to you. First, it's important to understand attraction isn't a choice. It happens subconsciously. A man is either attracted to you or he isn't. He can't give himself a pep talk and then suddenly convince himself he's attracted to you. If you want to get a man to chase you, then you need to trigger attraction by making a man FEEL attracted to you every time he's around you. He may not even know why he feels attracted to you. He just knows something about you is making you irresistible to him.


It starts with your looks. But before you start tossing tomatoes at me, don't mistake this for meaning you have to be a supermodel or dress like a prostitute to get a man. That's not the case at all. In fact being confident and comfortable in who you are regardless of what you look like is actually more important to men than your physical appearance. However, your physical appearance IS the first chance you'll have to trigger attraction in a man. It's the first thing he'll notice and most men have to be physically attracted to a woman in some way before they'll want you. He may be attracted to just one single feature of your body or he may be attracted to you as a whole, but if you want to get a man to chase you then be conscious of how you look and how you present yourself. If you really want to drive him wild, add a subtle, but great smelling perfume to the mix. Don't be surprised if he follows you like a bloodhound on a rabbit trail. Next, it's important to leave your man with positive, happy feelings every time you're around him. If you're having a great conversation with him, then leave before things start getting boring. When you always end interactions on a high note, he'll feel like he never quite gets enough of you and he'll crave more time with you. Lastly, if you want to know how to make a guy want you, then don't be afraid to flirt. Flirting can create attraction, especially when done in the right way. Say something flirty to him, then flash a big smile and walk away. It will drive him crazy knowing you're interested, but not just handing yourself over to him. He'll chase you because you never make him feel smothered and he knows you're not just wrapped around his finger. It will excite the hunter inside him.

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How to Melt Your Man's Heart by Donnie Roberts Ever wondered why some men treat their girls like a princess even well PAST the dating phase? Even after many years these blokes STILL buy flowers, they remember Each special day and they give their girls their Total attention when they're with them. They NEVER retreat to the garage, NEVER pay no attention to them to look at the soccer game on telly and NEVER vanish for hours at a time to go golfing with their "buddies." Well fresh reports from relationship scientists ( yes, those do exist ) say you can basically get that actual SAME love, attention and heat from your man, irrespective of how long you have been together or how rocky your relationship could be. The Hidden key to Getting Your


Man to Treat YOU Like a Princess... The hidden secret to unlocking this same warm feelings and love from your man is perhaps something you have never thought about. But when you know the secret, you actually can change your man and influence him to treat you better...even like a princess. Now before you accuse me of heresy, may I explain by asking something: Is there something that you or your man do that Truly gets him going? You know what I am speaking about... Perhaps it is a word, or a certain look, perhaps a flick of the hand or a shoulder shrug - something that Actually gets under his skin? No matter what you KNOW it drives him batty and the result's sometimes the same. Inside milliseconds, his face turns the color of a boiled lobster; his heart practically jumps out of his chest and he either explodes with rage, he runs away to the garage and you do not see him for hours, or he just sits there...stone-faced, not saying a word. WHAT just occurred? His Brain Was Just Hijacked... Conversant with the run or fight reply? Well, you simply experienced it and it's why an easy debate can become a no holds barred war. Every last individual has a little internal guard on duty twentyfour/seven in our brain. It's called the amygdale and it is the little walnut-sized part of your cerebral cortex accountable for warning the body to danger. The amygdale processes inward-bound info and mechanically searches your memory bank to establish if it recognizes the info as mate or enemy. All this occurs right away, and if the brain has memory of that word or action and the memory is bad... The body goes into an automated negative reply over which you have about NO control. It's called neural hijacking and it literally stops love, heat, and close contact from having the ability to enter the relationship. And this automated negative reply fires by those tiny shoulder shrugs, those eye rolls...and anything more you can do which has conditioned your man to react adversely. And once this occurs, it's game over - your man will not hear ANYTHING you are saying after this and you can both go around and round with finger-pointing, name-calling and laying blame on one another. The best way to Get rid of these Triggers and Build a Deep Emotional Connection... The nice news is you can reveal what these triggers are ( for The two of you ) and prepared the ground for the two of you to plant, nurture, and crop new sensations of love and close contact. Here's precisely what you do: First, think about one or two actions you know set him off. Be definitive. You know what they are, if you dig deep enough - you utilize a "tone," you make a face, you have got a categorical phrase you are saying when deliberating an awkward subject, whatever. And when you use any one of these things, you get a negative reply out of him. Write those down now and remember them. 2nd, go directly to the source: ask him what you do that sets off his emotional firebombs. But do not get defensive...let him have his say...just listen. He may feel disinclined initially to share, or perhaps he is not even conscious that there could be something categorical connected to his going off. In any case, after you start compiling your list, here's what you do... Avoid those words or actions at Any Cost. It actually is as simple as that. Unless you actually want to finish up a divorce statistic or you enjoy sieving through dating internet sites, avoid doing those behaviors or saying those words that cause issues in your relationship.

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How to Get What You Want From Your Man in 3 Simple Steps by Uadiale Amber You KNOW what you want from your man. But he's let you down so many times that it's hard to believe he'll EVER change Fortunately, I've discovered three simple steps that will give you the confidence to start getting what you want from your man. Surprisingly, this actually makes you MORE attractive to him in the process! Step #1: Escape Negative Patterns Our lives are spent developing patterns of behavior. Some are positive patterns that empower us. Others are negative patterns that hurt us. The problem with negative patterns is, we get used to them. We don't notice them. And even worse, they often get reinforced by other people in our lives. For instance, I once worked with a woman named Anne-Marie, who was raised in a deeply religious family. In her family, "divorce" was an absolutely forbidden subject. Anne-Marie's marriage was in a state of crisis, but there was no way Anne-Marie could even utter the word "divorce" without her family raining down criticism on her. She felt judged, shamed, and alone. Now, just because Anne-Marie might think of leaving her husband, that didn't mean she would actually do it. But it was important that she have the confidence of knowing she could walk away if she wanted to. That's the only way she would ever be able to let her husband know she wasn't going to tolerate his negative behavior patterns any more. The only way she could regain power over her relationship. The only way she could fix things. You need that same kind of confidence, so you can eliminate negative patterns from your relationship. It's not about you "quitting" the relationship; it's about you feeling EMPOWERED to make decisions for yourself... ...decisions that can remove negative behavior from your life -- both your own negative behavior patterns, and his, too. Step #2: Build Your "Family Of Choice" To build a strong relationship, you need a strong sense of self, a "steely inner core". As we saw with Anne-Marie's story, you may have a hard time saying what you want and going for it because you're being influenced by those around you. This is when I recommend you consider developing a "family of choice", which means you surround


yourself with people who actually HELP you to be your strongest self. They allow you the freedom to make choices that right for YOU. Step #3: Balance Your Thoughts and Emotions You may have heard the advice "all things in moderation". This advice applies to emotions, too. We all have negative thoughts and emotions. The goal is not to eliminate them completely from our lives; the goal is to learn to control your response to them. This way you can break free from the patterns that hold you back from getting what you want. This takes time and practice. Right now, you and your man are locked in the "Dance of Dysfunction". That tends to throw you both off balance. But if you can get out of that cycle, and balance your own thoughts and emotions, you will suddenly discover your "best self". Believe me, your man will notice the difference. A strong, confident you is sexy-and it can act like a magnet on him. Whatever the outcome of your new efforts, you at least know that you are stepping out into the world a stronger, more self-assured and self-confident you, and that alone is worth the effort.

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Don't Lose Your Man - Proven Psychological Tricks To Win Back The Guy You Love by H L Archer When the man you love does not love you anymore, you feel as if your life is ended. How can you ever be happy again? These and many other thoughts will make you do things you never imagined you would do. Losing your pride and begging him to love you will be not win back the guy you love, But using these psychological tricks can keep you from losing your man. These tricks are not a spell or some magic potion. They actually aren't a trick at all, but people choose to call them tricks, so we will too. These psychological tricks are a way of getting inside your guys head and making him see he can't live without you. This won't be hard to do because although he is trying to hide it, your ex is still in love with you. You will also be happy to know that using these psychological tricks is not something you need to learn. Woman are born with the ability to use these tricks, but you become so upset at the time of a breakup, you forget to use them. That is why you need to stop chasing your ex boyfriend and take a break. Remember what happened when you first met your ex boyfriend? You saw that he was attracted to you and you were attracted to him. The difference between then and now is, back then you didn't let him know you were attracted to him and that made him begin to chase you. You probably was not aware of it, but you were using a psychological trick. Your instinct told you the way to make his desire for you overwhelm his thinking. Your biggest problem now is, your fear of losing your man for good. That fear is overwhelming your thinking and giving your ex boyfriend control of the situation. As long as you keep telling him you love him and can't live without him, he knows he can have you at any time. To win back the man you love, you have to make him feel he might be losing you. When you make your guy feel he might be losing you, you are using another psychological trick. Since men do not like to lose what they think belongs to them, you will get his attention. You already know that your ex boyfriend, like any other man will want what he thinks he can't have. So how can you make him have these feelings? You can make your ex boyfriend feel he can't have you anymore and he might be losing you for good. You can also have some fun while you are doing it. First you need to stop having any contact with your ex boyfriend. Ignore him and go on with your life for a couple of weeks. This will start to get his attention and he will wonder why you no longer care for him. Next go out with your friends and be seen having a good time, then disappear. Take a trip or just stay out of your ex boyfriend's sight. He will be aware of you being out and having a good time. When you disappear, you will be getting inside his head and making him think you might be with another guy. This will make your guy feel he might be losing you for good and he will start chasing you again.

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How To Get What You Want From Your Man by David Pammer What You Want From Your Man In a relationship between man and woman, it can be expected that there will be episodes of misunderstanding and arguments between the two. This is because man and woman are two similar, yet different beings. There are certain qualities in a woman that may also be found in a man and vice versa. Nevertheless, their differences from one another often serve as a wick of quarrel between the two. For a woman who simply wants the best for the relationship, their different perspectives and qualities can be frustrating to deal with; especially if these differences make it difficult for her to get what she wants or needs from her man. Apparently, there are ways that a woman may be able to get her needs and wants from her man; despite their clashing differences through some valuable tips. You need to show your man what kindness resides in your heart. Being kind is thought of by many people as a weakness, but to be kind requires more strength and courage than being cruel. If you will be kind to the man you love the most, he will develop a greater liking for you. He will want to be with you and will make him want to give what you also want in order to be with you. Do not nag at your man. If you have the chance to watch a talk show on television, perhaps you know that one common root cause of arguments and problems in a relationship is when the woman nags at her man a lot. Women who nag admit that they do this in order to relay a clear message to their men, but there are other effective means of communication than nagging. Remember that nagging is only appropriate for people who do not anymore have control of their lives. Nagging is done by people who feel too desperate. If you want your man to do something for you, then realize that nagging is not the right way to make him so. If there is one reason that will push him to do what you want, then it is his love for you. Thus, what you can do instead of nagging is to lovingly communicate your needs; nourish and treasure his love for you so he will be motivated to serve you. Show him that you are worthy of his time and effort. Men and women alike certainly invest their hard work and dedication on something and someone they know are worthy. Therefore, you can see that worthiness is two-way. You do something for your man because of various reasons: because he nags at you; because you are afraid of his anger if you do not follow him; and because you simply love him and wants to fulfill his needs. In the same way, you man will do things you want without the need of being asked, if he also loves and adores you. Do something that will make him happy and he will also do the same to you. If your man does the things you want, then always be able to reward him for his efforts. Everyone needs reassurance from time to time. Your man will know that you value his efforts through the rewards you give him. From a simple casual peck on the cheek, a passionate kiss or a bedroom surprise, your husband will certainly love it. He will continue to do things for you because he knows he will be quite rewarded for it.


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