How to Seduce a Man Super Tips!
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This ebook contains some super tips on how to seduce a man. It's not hard to do once you have a few tricks up your sleeve! The tips here come from different sources to give you some variety to work with. But if you want to become a real pro at it (and learn to speak the language) check out the valuable resource below!
Table of Contents Seducing Your Man: In Bed And Out Of It Seduce Your Man - Killer Tips To Make Him Want You How to Seduce a Man - 4 Most Noted Means of Seduction Seduce Your Husband - Words That Can Have Him Craving You Like Chocolate! How to Seduce a Man You Like - 3 Tips for Getting Him Turned on By You How To Seduce A Man - End Of The Mystery?
Seducing Your Man: In Bed And Out Of It by Michael Douglas You don't have to be a walking sex manual or have a body like a Hollywood siren to qualify to be an erotic enchantress. But you do have to learn to manipulate a man's most sensitive organ: His brain. More than your technique, it is your attitude that will enable you to cast a spell and hold your man in sexual thrall. Capture a man's imagination - and his body is yours. And many a male mind is free for the taking. That's because a great number of men are practically bored out of bed by the uninspired sexual patterns they have established with their regular lovers. They are tired too of always feeling responsible for the pleasure of passive partners. Instead, they long for a self-confident seductress who is willing to take charge (at least once in a while) in order to fulfil her sexual needs which are not merely to achieve an orgasm, but to actively deliver one as well. Fiona, a 27-year-old executive says, "Sometimes, I think that the steamiest, most romantic times of my life were at school, when I wasn't yet ready to go all the way. So, when I meet a man I am attracted to, I enjoy necking, holding hands at the movies or dancing close. "When it's obvious that we are going to make love, I pretend I am 16 again. Rather than jump into bed right away, I tell him, may be next time - and make sure I give a good excuse. "This gives me a chance to get to know him better before we become intimate. The waiting brings our desire to the boiling point - and keeps it bubbling." Once, a woman was able to exercise her erotic power only by saying "no" to a man. If she said 'yes," it meant she agreed to do whatever her lover wanted, whenever he wanted to do it. But, today, women can be in control of most sexual situations - if they want to be. Building up a man's hunger, say experts, is a successful strategy in a long-term relationship as well. Many men turn to extramarital affairs because they find a partner who is more inventive and playful qualities that tend to slip away in a marriage. DISCOVER NEW METHODS Many couples fall into a sexual rut. They depend on a few tried - and tested erotic routines. And that's it. Over the years, they set up a kind of non-verbal contract: These positions or practices are okay; those are too inky. Men and women may also think that their partner would be shocked if they suggest anything but the most straitlaced sex. So, they remain silent and fantasise about other, more adventurous partners. Men still seem to divide women into coy partners and whores. As a result, it's often up to the woman to rid the man of his inhibitions and tempt him into sex acts he's scared of suggesting. Making a few bold suggestions or picking a new, naughty place to make love can reap major relationship benefits. Show him he can turn to you for the erotic excitement he craves and he'll never think about searching for it elsewhere. When it comes to size, Freud may have been wrong. Women don't suffer from penis envy - men do! A man is always afraid his partner has known other lovers who are bigger and better endowed. He fears he's too small, too fast, too slow, too unskilled, and that his performance will not meet her expectations. But a sexual enchantress knows how to nip these fears in the bud before they reach the bedroom. She makes her partner feel more secure, lavishes attention and even reverses the usual sexual roles. When she does this, she dispels all his insecurities and makes him feel like the greatest lover alive.
No, you may not have a spectacular climax if you are concentrating solely on your partner's pleasure but, after such an exhilarating and ego-enhancing experience, most men are more than willing to return the favour. REMEMBER ROMANCE Romance! Remember romance? It used to come before the sex. Romance is essential to seduction and seduction is necessary for peace of mind. It gives us the time to persuade ourselves that we are doing the right thing even when we aren't. The death of romance is the reason seduction has become a lost art. And that is a tragedy because skilful seduction can lead to wonderful, satisfying sex. Seduction is the civilised prelude to sex. Without the sophistry of seduction, sex is just a mechanical act. To learn how to seduce a man, you have to understand why romance is so important. For generations, women have been told (and this may come as a shock to some) that romance is what matters for women. That's not really true. All the time, it was the other way around. The whole tedious card, flowers, flattery and phone calls routine is for his benefit. In fact, a skilful seduction scenario is absolutely essential if he is to rise to the occasion. It doesn't really matter who appears to be seducing whom as long as you are comfortable and relaxed with each other once you actually shut the bedroom decor. Confidence and security is all about. Specially his! Seduction isn't some crude a wrestling match! It is the subtlest power-play there is between men and women because it is ultimately about getting what you want. Does it matter who wins, as long as no one loses? More sex - more health: Recent research has revealed that couples who make love once or twice a week are less likely to catch colds, flu or stomach bugs. Sex has been described as the ultimate analgesic - a natural painkiller - and it is far cheaper and more pleasurable than any prescribed medicine. There is also strong evidence that "feel-good" chemicals released by the brain during sex, act as painkillers. Some studies have revealed that sex can relieve the pain of a headache and even arthritis. Blood flow increase to all parts of the body and this takes pressure away from the brain, while complete relaxation after an orgasm reduces tension in all muscle groups. During lovemaking, the sense of smell becomes more sensitive, the feeling of drowsiness after sex is partly due to the rush of blood and the release of a chemical called oxytocin which helps to create feelings of relaxation and warmth. Also, about half an hour after sex, a person becomes more mentally alert. Researchers have also correlated longevity with the frequency of sex for both men and women. Making love twice a week can make people an average 1.6 years younger in health terms. While, in terms of aerobic activity, the gains are negligible, it is, by far, the most enjoyable way to burn up between 400 to 1000 kilojoules an hour! Sex has other benefits on women's health - it can help regulate oestrogen levels and may also reduce the symptoms of pre-menstrual syndrome. It has special benefits for men, particularly if they are over 40. Research has shown that regular sex is important in the prevention of prostate cancer in later life. It also boosts the level of the male hormone, testosterone which may have a protective effect on the heart. Sex and the urban woman: It has now been established that stress in the city (especially for women) is much higher than anywhere else. Sleep problems and anxiety about managing home and work, often put them in a permanent state of shattered nerves, chronic fatigue, panic attacks and migraine. Many women confess that they live half their lives under stress. This naturally leaves hardly any room for relaxation with family and friends - much less for spontaneity in sex.
When sex is painful: It is common for women to suffer from painful intercourse at some stage in their life. For most, it will be a passing discomfort - probably with a known reason - but, unfortunately for some, it becomes a regular feature of lovemaking. This can have a devastating effect on the physical and emotional enjoyment experienced by both partners. Lack of arousal causes pain and pain blocks arousal. Many women find that they are caught up in a pain cycle. Having already experienced painful intercourse, they begin to fear more pain. There are some temporary conditions... after childbirth, it is quite common for women to feel some discomfort. If you are menopausal, you may find that intercourse becomes painful because of lowered oestrogen levels. Cystitis or vaginal irritations and warts also cause soreness. Some women are sensitive to condoms, contraceptive creams or certain lubricants. If the pain is in the lower abdomen or to one side, you should consult a doctor to rule out gynaec disorders like endometriosis, prolapse, cysts, fibriosis, uterine retroversion and pelvic inflammatory disease. Tips For Increasing Arousal Relax: This is the most important thing you can do. Try a relaxing bath. Relationship issues: Be sure that your head and your heart are in the mood for sex as well as your body. Exercise your pelvic floor muscles: This increases blood flow to the genital area and makes you more conscious of any sensations of arousal. Try fantasy: Get yourself into a dreamy mood by slipping into your favourite fantasy. Enjoy being sensual before you are sexual: Take your time and let your body focus on the pleasurable sensations of touch. Lubricate: If you are finding it hard to arouse yourself, a little lubrication will help. If you have been suffering from painful intercourse for a while, it is better to consult a doctor so that any underlying causes can be diagnosed.
About the Author Michael Douglas is a relationship expert and a sex therapist who is the also the owner of www.go-get-guys.com where he reveals the secrets with which the women can rule the men's world.
Seduce Your Man - Killer Tips To Make Him Want You by Cory Jean
The security of a relationship can be wonderful. Knowing that you have a man that loves you and the companionship of someone that you enjoy spending time with is unequaled. But you may find that the routine of a relationship can almost feel like a rut sometimes and the breakneck speed at which many of us run our lives often leave little time for intimacy in a relationship. It is nobody's fault that your sex life might have fallen into a rut also. Would you like to spice things up a little bit? Would you like to experience the same passion that was there at the beginning of your relationship? Or perhaps you'd just like to become skilled in "seduction" and be able to blow your man's mind from time to time? After all, there's no better way to keep a man interested than being skilled at the art of seduction. You may already know that men are, for the most part, visually stimulated. But what many women don't know is that men can be aroused to the point of near idiocy in many different ways. True seduction is about tormenting a man in exactly this way by using many different mediums over a period of time until he simply can't stand it any longer. Once you plant that seed of seduction in his mind it will stay there. He will be constantly thinking about it until he simply can't stand it any longer. The longer you make him wait and the more you "tease" him and flirt with him the more he will want you. Try a couple of these tricks to seduce him and find out what kind of reaction you can get out of him. Go Commando - The next time you are planning on going out for dinner try this little seduction trick and see what kind of response you get. A short skirt is preferable but not too short. Your goal is to excite your boyfriend or husband; not to give anatomy lessons to small children. "Accidentally" forget an article of clothing, namely your underwear. Feel free to dress a little seductively in addition but not too over the top. Maybe a top that shows off your cleavage a little bit but nothing too far out of the ordinary. As you are eating, if you notice him looking at your cleavage you can ask him if he is likes what he sees. Then slowly and seductively lean over the table and tell him that, oh... you just realized... you were so silly....you forgot....to wear...any underwear. Feel free to really act it out and flirt with him across the table. Chances are that if you were planning on going to a movie after dinner those plans will change. Sexy Pictures - As we already stated, men are visually stimulated. This is why strip clubs and internet porn is such a huge business and such a big temptation for men, even men in relationships. But what if he had no reason to look at internet porn? What if he had visually stimulating pictures of you to look at whenever he wanted? Boudoir photography is great if you can afford it. For those working within a budget a digital camera and some lingerie is all you will need. Most cameras have a timer so you can set the camera up, set the timer and strike a pose all by yourself. Once you have a dozen or so pictures that you like you can start feeding him a daily diet of a picture a day sent to him via email while he is at work. Just a simple subject line asking him "does this make me look fat?" with the picture attached and signed "XXX... there's more where this came from..." should be enough to drive him to distraction before the day is out. Dance Like A Stripper - Many men go to strip clubs on a weekly basis and spend untold hundreds of dollars to watch a woman dance seductively. Why couldn't you be that woman for him? Belly Dancing and Strippercise classes are popping up all over the place these days and there is a very good chance that your interest in such a class would be encouraged and supported by your husband or boyfriend. After all, after class you could show him what you learned and he would never have to feel guilty about watching a stripper dance for him again... because that stripper would be you.
Additionally, these classes are a great workout and you will walk away with a whole new respect for women that do this sort of thing for a living. But simply put, learning how to dance seductively like a stripper will probably completely short circuit his brain and give you a tremendous amount of leverage and power in your relationship. You might be amazed by how attentive he becomes and how quickly household chores get done without you even having to ask anymore. Try some of these tips and experience the power that seduction can have in your relationship. Say goodbye to the days of ho-hum sex and bring some fun and excitement into your nights. Seduction is an art and it's not just about the things you do, it's how you do them. We just want to teach you how to do them seductively.
About the Author Cory Jean is a freelance artist and a budding author living along the NC coast.
How to Seduce a Man - 4 Most Noted Means of Seduction by Sarah Nichols How to seduce a man may seem to be a hard question to answer especially for women who are new to the field. However, when you look closely at things, you will realize how powerful a woman can be in seduction. Below are 4 means of seduction you could try out on your man: 1 - Your Scent. In case you don't know how powerful scent may be then perhaps with this you can understand a little better. Men find it seductive if they smell women's scent especially when enhanced with perfumes and the likes. Scent given off by women can have effect on the subconscious judgment of men. The first way to seduce someone would be to use your scent at your advantage. 2 - Dress and Be Totally Attractive. Drive your man insane through how you dress. When you want to know the basic answer to how to seduce a man, the simple answer would be to go for looks and dress especially for him. Who knows you just might leave him gaping at you? 3 - Radiate your confidence. Be the kind of woman who is certain about what you want and that you know how you can get it done. However, you also need to remember that there is a fine line separating confidence and arrogance. If you overdo things, your guy might interpret it as being arrogant. 4 - Get your message across through subtle moves. Show your interest in a man without becoming
really obvious. Play with your hair, lean forward periodically and moisten and bite you lip while you are talking to him. Do not exaggerate though because experienced men can and will get the hint. If you want to know how to seduce a man, there are basically a lot that a woman can do. If they say women are only next to men, dare to change the view and make them chase you. Turn the wheels of seduction by learning the techniques in easy to follow steps. If you want to seduce a man but can't get started you can always go to http://www.freewebs.com/catchandkeephim/ to learn the basics. Give the dating field a run for extra mile by uncovering the secrets of women who keeps men and enjoy a lifetime of happiness. Be fascinated at what you will uncover because you are in for a great treat.
About the Author For over 3 Years, Sarah Nichols has helped women everywhere become more of the a woman that men want. She is now dedicated to helping as many women possible improve their relationships with men by not only showing them the knowledge that she has learned but by giving them the resources to other successful dating advice experts as well. Visit My Website to Learn More How To Find, Attract, And KEEP The Man You've Always Wanted... http://www.freewebs.com/catchandkeephim/
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Seduce Your Husband - Words That Can Have Him Craving You Like Chocolate! by Cory Jean Do you want to seduce your husband and have him wrapped around your little finger? Would you love the attention and adoration that you may have once enjoyed earlier in your relationship? Have
things just grown a bit tired or do you feel like your marriage is in a rut? Seducing your husband doesn't have to be a chore and the benefits that you receive far outweigh any effort that you might put into seducing your husband. While men may be primarily visually stimulated, meaning that they are turned on by what they see whether it be a short skirt or a low cut blouse, words can have a profound impact on a man's libido. Your words will get into his mind and cause your husband to basically become what you tell him he is. Sounds simple, right? But what about a little fun and a few tips that can bring some instant attraction and seduction your way? Pet Names - Most couples have pet names that they use for each other. If you don't have a pet name for your husband take a little time and have some fun coming up with one. While honey, baby, sweetheart and lover are always good standby pet names something personal and appropriate that you can use to get inside his mind can actually pump your man up and make him feel like the man that he wants you to see him as. Pet names like Zeus or Superman or even handsome can bring about a change in your man that may surprise you. Pet names like Gomer or puddinhead... not so much. Dirty Talk - A little dirty talk at an inopportune moment whispered in his ear or sent via text message can create intrigue and desire in your husband if this is something new for you. Just a few words in a text message sent to his cell phone during his day can change the man that usually walks through the door from a grump to a wild animal. Knowing hot to text message and learning how to trash talk a little bit are skills that will keep your man connected to you and seduce him when he is away from you during the day or while he is on business trips. It should be noted though that most men are horrible at reciprocating and your husband either may be shocked by your seductive text messages or he could just be lacking in texting skills altogether. Most men do enjoy a little dirty talk though either via text messages or in person at but appropriate and inappropriate times when it would be impossible for him to react. Fun stuff! True Seduction - True seduction of your husband encompasses all of his senses and is targeted in making your husband feel a certain way. By truly seducing your husband your goal should be to make him feel strong, powerful, intelligent, handsome and desirable. Making your man become the man you wish he was and he thinks of himself as deep down inside is the goal of seducing your husband. While revealing clothing and a sexy walk can get his attention it is how you make him feel that he will find truly seductive about you. In return you will find that you have a husband that honestly loves you, adores you and cherishes you more than anything in his life. Click Here to learn how to seduce your husband. See how you can make your man feel like a million bucks and have him cherish you more than you ever dreamed. Find out how you can truly seduce your husband and have the marriage that you always dreamed of.
About the Author Cory Jean is a freelance artist and a budding author who lives along the NC coast with his lovely wife and darling children.
How to Seduce a Man You Like - 3 Tips for Getting Him Turned on By You
by Alexandra Scott Is there a man who has caught your eye and you want to know what you should do in order to make him feel totally attracted to you? Are you hoping to be able to seduce him so that he wants to be with you and only you? That's a pretty normal desire to have, the question is, do you know what you have to do to get him turned on by you? If you don't, this article should shed some light on what it is that you need to do to seduce a man you like so that he feels exactly the same way about you. Here are 3 tips on how to seduce a man you like that are going to help you get him turned on by you: 1. Show him that you have a fun and playful side to you. This is a good thing to do, because most men fantasize about finding a woman who is fun and playful. You also will find that if you can show him that you do have this side of you that he gets to see, he is going to start to respond to you very quickly. When you can make him feel like you are someone that he can be with and have a good time with, the desire for him to want to be with you and only you is going to be VERY strong. 2. Be flirty when the time calls for it. Can you go a little too far with flirting? Sometimes you can, but as long as the time is right, you really can't make too many mistakes by flirting with him. Let him feel as though he is the one who is taking the lead though, so that he feels like he is the one who is really guiding things. You'll know the truth, that it is really you who is making the sparks fly, and that is all that really matters. 3. Touch him in a way that turns his thoughts sexual. With men, you don't really have to put too much energy into this. All you have to do is touch him playfully in the right areas and you'll find that he starts to smile one of those big wide smiles that lets you know where his mind is going. Sometimes the simple touches - the shoulder, the leg, putting your hand on his bicep, is all that he needs in order to feel like he is getting turned on by you.
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How To Seduce A Man - End Of The Mystery? by Steve Henderson The age old query of seduction has been around for thousands of years. Its as relevant today as when Cleopatra was strutting her stuff a few centuries ago old school style. While not question , I'm quite positive a thousand years from now women will be having the identical discussion and fearing it's a complicated answer.
Being a person of 31 years and still remaining single, I've seen my share of womanly tactics. Some good, some bad and I hate to take the mystery out of this nice question however seducing a man is not that difficult. Let me justify the essential ideas of a man to you. Men are visual creatures and we have a tendency to are drawback solvers. We have a tendency to communicate and interact with the environment a lot of differently than girls, therefore there are clearly visiting be a natural communication glitch from day 1. Our friendships with alternative men (i.e. Our Boys), our personalities, and our outlooks on life are vastly different. This may be attributed to cultural and/or ancient roles, like the commonly known "Me Tarzan, you Jane" theory, or it may be one thing as straightforward as not totally comprehending what the opposite sex is thinking and saying to at least one another. Otherwise, why would Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus been a best seller for therefore long. So lets build up a collection of a lady's best choices on gaining a man's attention, and a lot of appropriately, his affections: 1. All men are visual. This can be your single most important weapon in your seduction technique. Men can look, stare, gawk, and oogle each lady that looks visually appealing to us. An illustrative example is, how many times have girls noticed men talking or paying attention to your chest. A lot of than once I am sure. Its not invariably intentional, but hopefully that simple example will quantify how valuable a man's visual senses are to him. Thus use this principle against him. Similarly, this can be directly applicable to the "he is a leg man" principle comes into play. 2. All men relish having their ego boosted. This may vary tremendously between men, however women are rather adept at identifying personality traits therefore use your best judgment here. Complement him in some tiny means to test the waters and depending upon his reaction, you can add more or scale it back. Nothing works better than petting your man on the pinnacle and giving him a Scooby Snack (the famous Scooby Doo dog cartoon) than praising him for doing one thing of price to you. 3. All men like attention, particularly in private. Varying degrees of subtlety can work depending upon the man, however initiating physical contact with him should get you a well received message that can tell you if he is interested in your advances. Touching his arm, sitting close to him, or laying your head on his shoulder are universal signs that we have a tendency to recognize well. 4. Each men and girls have highly evolved senses of smell. Of course, it is widely believed that our sense of smell has the best chance of recalling a past memory. Thus after you get close to us, that sweet smell of fragrance on your neck or the smell of your hair may be a definite attention grabber and will literally have a euphoric affect. 5. Enjoying off of one, a great smile and beautiful eyes can flip a person into silly putty if applied correctly. To men, a simple smile or laugh can modification our entire perception of a state of affairs involving a lady as a result of we have a tendency to are usually concentrating on what you are thinking. Therefore, if you give him some positive feedback at the beginning of your meeting, it will obviously speed things in your favor. 6. Men LOVE the art of seduction. The fun of the chase is usually a welcome flip-on for a person, therefore it never hurts to play hard to get. Play this tactic by your own comfort standards as a result of
every situation requires a tweaking of the game plan. Thus be observant and apply what you have learned to your own vogue of seduction. 7. Last however not least, specific your sexuality with confidence and while not hesitation. Having a assured partner is very gratifying for a man and will increase his want to be with you. That's a very PC method of saying "he can need you twenty four hours, seven days per week", but there's substantial proof supporting me here. Remember, I am the tip user of these ways therefore trust me that men forever bear in mind their "uninhibited encounters." This may appear like a ton of data, but these techniques are usually intuitive for most girls merely as a result of it feels natural to need to be along with your partner. Just remember that the previously mentioned seduction techniques are not to be applied rigidly. Everyone is distinctive in their own ways that, and the techniques should be conformed to your own comfort levels and situation. Although, with all of this being said, it never hurts to remember another seasoned method of seducing a man... How does one seduce a person per se? Just show up! We tend to'll be sure of the rest.
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