This issue marks the 15th anniversary of the Devon edition of Wed Magazine. Over 60 issues, we’ve revelled in the joy of inspiring engaged couples with the beauty of this extraordinary county and the talent of its wedding industry. I vividly remember the anticipation of launching our first issue - of crisscrossing Devon, from north coast to south, from the tors of Dartmoor to the heights of Exmoor, and visiting venues, attending wedding shows, coordinating photo shoots and meeting so many brilliant suppliers. What an incredible journey it has been. It’s a pleasure and a privilege to be here – 15 years, 60 issues and more than 9,000 pages of wedding inspiration later – still doing what we love and being part of your journey through one of life’s most special chapters. Thank you to our wonderful readers and wedding industry friends for your support and being a crucial part of Wed’s story.
IT’S A CELEB RATION!
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In keeping with the celebratory spirit, we have party inspiration galore in this issue. As the entertainment is a key ingredient of a party to remember, you’ll find expert advice for delighting your guests during each stage of your day, from the ceremony to the small hours, in Never a Dull Moment and inspiration for ensuring your first dance is brilliantly ‘you’ in Love at First Dance. trends, from sharing menus and champagne towers to food stations and dessert bars, while In The Mix showcases some top cocktails to get the party into full swing. And, as every good party includes cake, you’ll find some seriously decadent inspiration in Sweet Art.
As if that wasn’t enough to fuel your party appetite, Got Wed features some inspiring and beautifully individual weddings across Devon. From Pollyanna and Marcus’ epic midwinter celebrations at Huntsham Court and Rosie and Matt’s dreamy south coast wedding at Bigbury Bay to Alice and Chris’ woodland wedding (complete with glowstick after-party!) at Middle Coombe Farm, these love stories round off the issue in joyful style. What’s more, each wedding echoes the importance of throwing a party that celebrates your personalities. Let that mantra guide your choices and get set for a sensational, so-you celebration – one that your guests will be talking about long after the last espresso martinis have been supped.
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NATURAL BEAUTY
If you’re seeking somewhere incredibly special to tie the knot, Rumleigh Farm offers rural romance of the most covetable kind. Nestled in the Tamar Valley Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty on the Cornwall and Devon border, the historic farmstead provides a sublime backdrop in which to wed amongst 17 idyllic acres. A back-to-nature haven, the eco-friendly venue is currently in the throes of becoming completely organic, sustainably farming rare breed sheep, goats and heritage apple varieties – and even producing its own apple juice.
Licensed for civil ceremonies, the 17th century events barn accommodates receptions for up to 60 guests (and 120 for evening receptions), while its Friday-Monday hire package allows exclusive roam amongst the farm and its scenic surrounds. Exchange your vows in the Events Barn, Medieval Sitting Room or River Shack, or opt for an al fresco ceremony on the riverbank, orchard or any outdoor space of your choosing for a unique and wildly romantic setting.
Offering only limited dates between May and October maintains the venue’s exclusive and tailored service, allowing you to design a day to individually suit, including your preferred suppliers and style. Accommodation comes in the form of The Farmhouse, The Long Barn (both with beautifully appointed bedrooms, fully-equipped kitchens and spacious living rooms; plus, there’s a spring water hot tub), and an adjoining annexe, allowing you to spend quality downtime with friends and family before and after the main event at this dreamily idyllic hidden gem.
Photography Andy Bowles, Brian Robinson
SKY HIGH
Individualise your day with the unique services of Ceremonies by Skye. The Devonbased celebrant works closely with couples to ensure a personal and utterly memorable ceremony full of character and Skye’s keynotes of “colour, joy, passion and positivity”. Whether traditional or informal, intimate or grand – wherever and however you envision celebrating your union, Skye will ensure your ceremony is a brilliantly unique celebration of your love story.
Her packages include an initial get-to-know (no obligation) meeting followed by a full consultation to discover exactly how you’d like your day to play out, resulting in Skye writing a bespoke script and ceremony to reflect your every whim and requirement. “I want to hear your love story and understand your uniqueness,” she says. “I am creative and imaginative and enjoy turning memories into stories. I am empathetic and open-minded. I enjoy creating meaningful moments, personal to each couple.”
Come W-day, Skye will deliver a tailored ceremony full of flourishes, meaning and beautiful detailing all designed to inspire, entertain and – ultimately – wow you and your guests. After the ceremony, she will send you a keepsake copy of your ceremony script and will also plant a tree dedicated to you and your day so that your love can be incorporated into Moor Trees biodiversity restoration project across Dartmoor and south Devon.
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WORDS OF LOVE
“Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom” Marcel Proust
STYLE
14. INTO THE BLUE
Ocean-inspired details for a wedding inspired by the sea
16. LIVE THE DREAM
A modern fairytale romance played out in the picturesque setting of Pynes House
22. BOLD AND BEAUTIFUL
Vibrant florals and fashion-forward gowns for a dream summer soirée on the coast
28. WED’S WISH LIST
Our edit of the latest bridal must-haves, from dream dresses to lustworthy veils
30. DOUBLE THE FUN
How to change your W-day look, from multiple dresses to convertible gowns
36. BEST FOOT FORWARD
Step down the aisle in style in pearls, bows or colour
38. WED’S BOUDOIR
Our edit of the latest bridal beauty must-haves
41. BE JEWELLED
Aisle-ready jewellery rich with meaning, from make-your-own to one-ofa-kind jewels
46. CIRCLE OF LIFE
How to source your wedding rings, from vintage pieces to co-designed creations
48. A QUESTION OF STYLE
Local jewellers reveal their signature styles
51. SUIT YOURSELF
Modern, timeless or relaxed? Inspiration for grooms’ big day style
60. AMALFI SUMMER
Italian inspired inspiration for a summer tipi wedding in the Devon countryside
66. LIGHT FANTASTIC
Bright, blousy blooms and nature-inspired details that sing of spring and summer
FEATURES
54. HERE COME THE GUYS
Recent grooms share their W-day highlights
56. YOU’RE THE MAN
How to be a best man who’s remembered for all the right reasons
72. YOUR DAY, YOUR WAY
How to plan a wedding that is as unique as your love story
76. GOOD TASTE
The latest food and drink trends for a full-of-flavour wedding feast
80. IN THE MIX
Top cocktails to kick-start your celebrations
83. SWEET ART
The latest wedding cake trends, from artful florals to vintage confections
87. NEVER A DULL MOMENT
Wow your guests with the perfect entertainment for each stage of the day
91. LOVE AT FIRST DANCE
How to dance to your own beat on W-day
95. DECISIONS, DECISIONS
Feeling overwhelmed? Here’s how to avoid decision fatigue
REGULARS
6. BRIDAL BUZZ
What’s new, what’s hot, what’s on
59. WED’S HIP LIST
Fresh, fun and fabulous ways to add a unique touch to your day
99. WED’S VENUES GUIDE
The ultimate guide to Devon’s finest wedding venues
117. GOT WED
Newly-weds share a glimpse of their day
162. NOTES ON A WEDDING
Top tips for your planning pleasure
Claire Nathan Photography Andrew Brannan Photography
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SWEET AND
SIMPLE
A Georgian stately home on the outskirts of Bideford and just a short drive from the breathtaking north coast, Moreton House offers elegance and romance in abundance. With its range of impressive yet homely spaces and luxurious on-site accommodation, the venue is most often associated with weekend-long and exclusive use weddings for up to 100 guests – but the launch of an exciting new package offers a budget-friendly option for couples envisioning a smaller celebration in this stellar spot.
The KISS (Keep It Sweet and Simple) package includes day hire starting from under £1,000 for weekdays and £1,200 for weekends for elopements or intimate celebrations of up to 40 people. Ceremonies may take place beneath the columned portico or in the panelled entrance hall, which seats up to 38 guests, before drinks, canapés and the formal stately home backdrop for photographs. For those seeking something more laid-back, the secret garden offers a more bohemian, back-to-nature setting for ceremonies where a gazebo and fire circle is hidden within an ancient rhododendron stand.
“This package allows you to achieve the big fancy wedding look without the price tag, then continue your celebrations elsewhere at your favourite party spot, whether that’s your local pub, favourite restaurant or local village hall,” explains owner, Helen Phillips. “If you want to go large for the evening, we have collaborated with our neighbours at The Big Sheep to offer their theme park facilities for a festival style evening party for up to 300 guests.” From Regency romance to boho vibes, this brilliantly versatile venue offers a beautiful setting to live out your wedding dreams.
moretonhousedevon.com
WONDER ON THE WATER’S EDGE
Picture this: a Napoleonic Fort sitting on a Cornish clifftop, rolling lawns and wildflowerfilled gardens slipping down to the sea and a private beach for loved up wanders at the water’s edge. Nestled in an Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty on the Rame Peninsula with soul-stirring sea views, Polhawn Fort really is the stuff of dreams – and the venue has recently undergone a revamp in the form of a new brand identity and upgraded interiors.
The fort’s reimagined identity is inspired by the venue’s location to capture “a sense of peaceful, untouched nature, reflecting the tranquillity and timeless beauty of the natural world”. The refreshed interiors echo the natural elegance and organic charm of this aesthetic, with new furniture, linen, lighting, soft furnishings and artwork throughout. The palette complements the soft, natural tones of the brand to enhance the warm welcome given by owners, the Wicksteed family, who run the venue alongside their long-standing team of dedicated employees.
In addition, there’s a new website that beautifully showcases the venue whilst effortlessly guiding users through the fort’s various offerings, including further information on the spaces and accommodation options. A Wedding Guide hosts a selection of downloadable information packs from sleeping arrangements and recommended suppliers to table layouts and a timing guide, while a newly designed digital brochure provides all the key information in one easy-to-read document.
A palpably magical venue for a winter wedding, Polhawn Fort currently has a few remaining 2024 dates available at a fantastic price. With its own microclimate, the bay provides mesmerising sea views and romantic sunsets year-round which – together with the ambience of a roaring fire and inviting interiors – will ensure an unforgettable affair indeed.
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WEDDING FACT
Having flower girls at your wedding is a lovely way to incorporate children into the bridal party, but what’s the history of the role? Traditionally, flower girls were tasked with throwing petals in the bride’s path to lead her to a sweet and plentiful future.
Maria Broome Photography
Freeformimages Photography
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Situated in the romantic rural heart of Devon, The Oak Barn combines a trio of converted historic barns and an ancient cob farmhouse amongst flower-filled landscaped gardens. A beautiful haven for couples dreaming of a wedding with a palpable back-to-nature feel, the venue is surrounded by rolling meadows and lush countryside as far as the eye can see.
From the characterful medieval-style barn to the 18th century Acorn Barn and glorious gardens, you can choose from a range of charming spaces to exchange vows and celebrate your love in inimitable style. Then there’s the accommodation: pick from the Acorn Barn or The Linhay – a converted Edwardian dairy – where you and your guests can enjoy an overnight stay in beautifully appointed rooms.
For those keen to marry amidst the magic of winter, the venue has launched an Intimate Winter Wedding Package for 30 guests. The package includes exclusive use of the venue and grounds from midday on Friday until midday on Sunday and on-site accommodation for all 30 guests including use of the bridal suite. Welcome drinks, canapés, a three-course wedding breakfast, evening catering, all chairs, tables, cutlery, china and glassware, and lighting décor by Socialights are all included for £8,000 (including VAT). Just imagine cosying up and enjoying a weekend of festivities with your nearest and dearest beneath dramatic winter skies in this dreamy Devon idyll.
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LOVE IN FOCUS
Never underestimate the importance of your wedding photography. After the memories start to fade, you’ll want to relive and remember the experience in all its unique beauty, so choose a photographer who feels as passionately as you do about your wedding album. Stephanie Snooks of Snooks Photography will capture your day in a “fun, relaxed reportage” style way, ensuring a set of images to pore over for generations to come. “I love weddings and being part of a couple’s special day, capturing those fleeting loving and tender moments,” she enthuses. “I want you to enjoy and cherish each part of your wedding day as I capture it so that you are able to look back and remember how amazing it was forever.” Stephanie focuses on the myriad emotions and characters of weddings, from the nerves and excitement of the preparations to the post-ceremony joy and party elation.
Tapping into her Commercial Photography degree along with a range of professional photography experience including portrait and product, Stephanie’s friendly approach and honed eye combine to create timeless, beautiful and gorgeously ‘you’ images. Based in east Devon but covering the entire South-west region, she offers a host of packages to suit every budget and requirement, starting from £800 for half a day’s coverage and all including a consultation, bespoke USB of images in a presentation box (with online gallery and full printing rights) and travel within 50 miles of Honiton (with extras such as a second photographer also available).
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WORDS OF LOVE
“It’s not ‘I love you’ for this or that reason, not ‘I love you if you love me.’ It’s love for no reason, love without an objec t” Ram Dass
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The rural venue with stunning views
The rural venue with stunning views
We provide a blank canvas for our own ideas, with extended hire so you can really relax and enjoy the experience of a lifetime.
We provide a blank canvas for our own ideas, with extended hire so you can really relax and enjoy the experience of a lifetime.
Harefield Barn is thrilled to partner with LAP Food and Bars to offer an exceptional ‘All Inclusive’ package for remaining 2025 dates. For just £9,950 on weekends or £7,500 on weekdays, enjoy gourmet food and top-notch service for 50 guests, including a canapé and two-course wedding breakfast or a delightful three-course meal. The package also features four drinks per person and a selection of popular evening food options. You can easily add more guests or upgrade your package. Contact us for more details on menus, availability, or to arrange a personal viewing!
Fabulous ‘All Inclusive’ deals available for remaining dates in 2024 & 2025
Fabulous ‘All Inclusive’ deals available for remaining dates in 2024 & 2025
Image: Amy Sampson
Image: Amy Sampson
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AWARD-WINNING IMAGES
Renowned for her beautiful, natural wedding photography, Laura Farmer of Freeformimages Photography has been announced as Prestige Awards’ Wedding Photographer of the Year. “I am absolutely over the moon for this recognition. All my hard work to capture my couples’ memories and love for each other has just been a real honour,” says North Devon-based Laura.
The award – based on couples’ feedback and reviews, as well as photography and high quality customer service – is a testament to her relaxed and contemporary storytelling style, and the way that Laura will unobtrusively interact with you and your guests and capture the emotion and character of your wedding.
Travelling throughout the South West and beyond – and shooting to exceed your expectations – Laura offers a range of options for a tailor-made service, from engagement and pre-wedding shoots to extensive packages featuring everything from full-day coverage, prints of your day, a USB flash drive with high resolution images presented in a beautiful, handmade box and access to a shareable online gallery with print store to stunning luxury albums that you can design together. freeformimages.co.uk
THE PERFECT PACKAGE
Located in the picturesque heart of Devon, just minutes from Exeter but far enough removed to feel a palpable sense of escape, Harefield Barn presents a scenic rural locale in which to celebrate your love. With flexibility being the keynote of the venue’s ethos, you can host a civil ceremony and reception tailored entirely to your vision amongst the myriad indoor and outdoor spaces of this captivating country setting.
Harefield Barn has teamed up with LAP Food and Bars to create an all-inclusive offer, which is proving popular with couples nurturing visions of celebrating amongst wildflower-filled meadows, lush orchards and rolling rural vistas. Available for any remaining dates in 2025, the package includes exclusive use of Harefield Barn and its grounds on the day of your wedding (with access to the barn the day before to decorate and prepare) and delicious food and topnotch service for 50 guests, including either a canapé and two-course meal or a three-course feast, four drinks per person and a choice of popular evening food. The packages costs £9,950 for weekends or £7,500 for weekdays and comes with the flexibility to add additional guests and upgrades. Bringing together a host of elements, it allows couples to create a money-saving day – minus much of the planning fuss – in a dream-worthy Devon setting.
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into the blue
Let ocean hues and sea foam jewels inspire a wildly romantic wedding on the coast
compiled by Rebecca Matthews
1. Available from Pirouette, Charlotte by Rebecca Ingram combines airy chiffon, lace and beaded spaghetti straps for fashion-forward shoreline style. pirouettethecollection.com
2. The ocean hues, the mussel shells, the sea spray texture – this confection by Ausel Cakes & Catering positively sings of the sea. auselcakes.co.uk
3. Inspired by the textures and colours of the tideline, these Coastal Cluster Drops by Emily Nixon glitter with sapphires in shades of teal, rockpool green and cornflower blue. emilynixon.com
4. Handmade by Naomi Lewis of Found Treasure, the smooth, wave-like shape of the Coastline and Mermaid Curve rings makes for a dream oceanic pairing. foundtreasurejewellery.com
5. These handwritten mussel shell place names by The Whole Caboodle will bring an oceanic touch to your tabletops. caboodle.wedding
6. From the ethereal shade of barely-there blue to the chic one-shoulder silhouette, we love everything about this bridesmaid dress by Watters. watters.com
7. Made from cyanotype impressions of pressed seaweed, the fronds, frills and deep indigo hue of these Coastal Invitations by Paper Birch set the mood for a seaside celebration. paperbirch.co.uk
8. This silver pendant is fresh from Justin Duance’s new sea foam inspired collection. justind.co.uk
live the dream
Styled with blousy blooms and elegant details, Pynes House makes a spellbinding setting for a modern fairytale romance
photography Ivyhouse Photography styling Room for Bloom Events
On location at Pynes House, this wow-factor shoot adopts a classic English country wedding theme with a stunning Italian summer twist. “We wanted it to feel super romantic, elegant, warm and soulful,” explains Jade Cockerill of Ivyhouse Photography, who captured the editorial.
The dreamlike aesthetic is used to tell the story of the love-struck couple, who escape to Pynes House for a romantic weekend away together ahead of the groom’s spontaneous, starry-eyed proposal.
Soft pastel shades set the scene of elegance and are carried in everything from the floristry and stationery to the tablescapes and bridalwear. The ceremony space is bursting with natural light, blousy blooms adorning the arch and carried by the bride who wears a gorgeous off-the-shoulder puff-sleeve corset gown embellished with a beautiful botanical print. The cake is a vision of decadence: a textured four-tiered ‘living’ creation crowned by a cluster of fresh apricot roses reminiscent of an oil painting.
In the stately reception room, delicate white china sits atop silken peach napkins framed by gold flatware and crystal glassware, while centrepieces of miniature posies are flanked by tall tapered glass candleholders. The period features of Pynes House extend the timelessly chic feel through ornate mirrors, eye-catching chandeliers, antique furniture and the statement marble staircase – the perfect place for the couple to pose for breathtaking bloom-filled photos.
Outside, a champagne tower pre-empts the party mood, allowing the couple a private al fresco toast in front of the house, ahead of the group celebrations. His debonair tux is perfectly on-trend yet timeless, while her dress change into a short, tiered frock makes for a fun and flamboyant dance-ready confection. The couple transition from day to night, from betrothed to newlyweds.
Photography
Ivyhouse Photography ivyhousephotography.co.uk
Videography
Timeless Weddings timelessweddings.co.uk
Venue Pynes House pyneshouse.co.uk
Styling, flowers & stationery Room For Bloom Events instagram.com/ roomforbloomevents
Perched on the clifftops of the south coast, where the lush countryside tumbles down to golden sands and Atlantic breakers, Gara Rock looks out across sweeping ocean panoramas. But the sublime location isn’t the only draw of this coastal wedding venue. There’s also a spa, heated pools, a restaurant and luxurious suites with views out to sea. It makes an irresistibly romantic setting for a wedding – and this styled shoot showcases the beauty of a summer wedding at this ocean’s edge retreat.
Seasonal blooms are the starting point for the styling. Vibrant clusters of peonies, roses, sweet peas and Canterbury bells pop against the backdrop of blue, creating a striking setting for the ceremony. Tying in beautifully with the petal-pretty cake and stationery, stems in cut glass vases bring colour to the tablescape, while seagrass placemats and linens echoing the shades of the white-tipped ocean enhance the laidback aesthetic.
The bridal wear, meanwhile, makes a statement of its own, while complementing the relaxed romance of the scene. From the eye-catchingly colourful Rue de Seine gown with its stunning floral embroidery, to the fluid simplicity of the high-necked Grace Loves Lace dress, these dreamy designs will ensure all eyes are on the bride – and, of course, the captivating views from this chic coastal setting.
From dreamy dresses to chic clutches, here’s our pick of the latest bridal must-haves
words Rebecca Matthews
Glamorous gown dripping in beads for a modern fairytale wedding? Floaty tulle dress for an ethereal garden or beachside affair? Or uber-cool lace top and trousers combo for partying all night long? Plymouth’s luxe bridal boutique The Ivory Lounge has welcomed some stylish new arrivals – and there’s a gown for every bride, whatever your personal style or W-day vibe.
Élysée Bridal is causing a particular stir with brides seeking standout aisle style. The Californian label crafts modern romantic gowns which exude timeless beauty, combining intricate lace, dramatic trains and dazzling details. Faith is a stellar example, with its shimmering floral embroidered lace, beaded floral appliqués and tulle corset back, while Fia epitomises contemporary sophistication with its deep V-neckline bodice, 3D floral lace and draped Mikado skirt with a high slit.
Also loved by brides for their contemporary take on classic design, the new collection by British label Ellis Bridals is scoring serious style points. With its minimalist cut and sweetheart neckline, Reanna is the epitome of modern sophistication and we love Piper’s draped bodice and showstopping silhouette which can be adapted into a party-ready mini for the evening festivities.
London-based brand Kelsey Rose is a winner for brides seeking cool-girl style, from boho luxe to city chic separates. For whimsical brides, Eliana is a dreamily romantic confection of floral lace and pleated tulle while Winnie is all about soft elegance with its delicate off the shoulder tulle straps, soft plunge neckline and billowing skirt. Those seeking a statement will love the Faith jacket and Ariel top, which both pair perfectly with trousers or a mini for a coolly contemporary look.
Your bridesmaids won’t be left out thanks to a collection of multi-way dresses in a range of shades also available at the boutique, as well as veils, headpieces and jewellery for those allimportant finishing touches. theivorylounge.co.uk
SHE’S THE ONE
A flurry of fresh-from-the-catwalk bridal collections have landed at Pirouette. Nestled in Exeter’s historic West Quarter, the 16th century Merchants House is as packed with dresses as it is with charm – and its latest arrivals from designers Maggie Sottero, Sottero & Midgley and Rebecca Ingram are seriously special.
From glamorous ballgowns in exquisite satin to figure-sculpting fishtails and exquisite sheaths, expect dazzling details including deep plunge V-necks, floral lace, intricate beading and jewel-encrusted bodices. The only hitch will be narrowing it down to just one.
Designers’ enduring love affair with minimalism finds fabulous form in Maui by Maggie Sottero. The deep square back, illusion side panels, square neckline and divine stretch crepe fabric scream couture. If your bridal style is more easy-breezy, then Catherine by Rebecca Ingram, with its light glitter tulle skirt, floral bodice and deep illusion plunge, is an effortlessly romantic choice. Then there’s Bridget by Maggie Sottero – a head-turning vision of romance with its floral lace, sparkle tulle and strapless deep illusion sweetheart neckline. pirouettethecollection.com
PEARLY QUEEN
Seeking a bridal bag to treasure forever? Lovingly crafted by artisans using mother of pearl shells and a luxe velvet lining, each clutch bag by Freya Rose is a veritable work of art – and guaranteed to elevate your W-day look. Choose from ivory, pink or pale blue. freyarose.com
SEAMLESS STYLE
Tights are all the rage – and, before you wince at the thought of wearing restrictive, easily laddered hosiery on W-day, let us introduce you to Heist Studios, whose tights are as comfortable, supportive and sustainable as they are stylish. Combining its signature adaptive waistband and seamless design, the hosiery is available in a range of shades, from brights to skin tones. Whether you opt for the bare nude sheer tights, which give your legs a flawless, luminous finish, or the double diamond fishnet tights made from eco-friendly fibres, you’ll be stepping down the aisle in style –and supreme comfort. heist-studios.com
DOUBLE THE FUN DOUBLE THE FUN
Struggling to whittle down the dress to just one? Embrace the trend of multiple looks or convertible bridalwear
words Hannah May
Ellis Bridals, The Ivory Lounge
Whether you want to refresh your ensemble for the evening reception, swap attire after the vows or opt for three separate looks for the ceremony, wedding breakfast, and after-party, it’s easier than ever to explore different bridalwear options come the wedding day.
From layering and accessorising to two-look frocks and complete dress changes, brides are expressing their individual style with a personalised approach to their wedding wardrobe. We look at the ways to achieve a multi-look wedding, along with the latest lust-have bridal collections to choose from...
Two-in-one gowns
Modern collections are creatively merging aesthetics to present gowns that fall into more than one style genre, allowing brides to nod to two or more eras, trends and fashions. For example, think vintage silk slips with deep plunging necklines, floral print ballgowns, strapless satin A-lines with detachable puff sleeves, minimalist columns with side cut-outs and fitted off-the-shoulder frocks with XXL back bows. Modernise a classic with a column featuring intricate beadwork, or a scooped bodice atop a dramatic ruffled skirt – or lend a seductive edge to a boho lace gown with matching sleeves and a sculpted boned bodice.
Bridal separates are another brilliant way to flaunt two-looks-in-one, allowing you to curate an ensemble that’s also utterly ‘you’ – and primed for a dress change later in the day. Think pearl toppers, silk bralettes, botanical lace tops, satin trousers, bridal capes, taffeta skirts, backless bodysuits and feather jackets. Pair a corset bodice with crepe pants or a crop top with a chiffon skirt. Whether built into the dress design, achieved by layering pieces or customisable via the details (such as belts, bows, corsages, capes, tops, shoulder streamers), two-look gowns are just the ticket for brides seeking something ‘more’.
Elysee Bridal, The Ivory Lounge
Kelsey Rose, The Ivory Lounge
Sottero & Midgley, Pirouette
Ellis Bridals, The Ivory Lounge
Kelsey Rose, The Ivory Lounge
Kelsey Rose, The Ivory Lounge
Maggie Sottero, Pirouette
Rebecca Ingram, Pirouette
Total change
To achieve the ultimate in multiple bridal looks, schedule a complete outfit change. You’ll have to consider your budget, along with the fact that you’ll be dipping out of the celebrations, but a quick dress change with minimal disruption can allow you to totally transform your look.
Most brides who choose to do so tend to gravitate toward a more traditional look for the ceremony, such as with a classic ballgown, fit-andflare or A-line, with the dress change largely depending on the venue and theme of your wedding. For example, a garden party ceremony might call for a botanical lace gown followed by a colourful print dress, blush-coloured skirt or 3D rosebud bodice and micro mini. Meanwhile, a boho-styled beach shindig is the perfect opportunity to reveal a body-hugging, plunging lace gown beneath a tulle topper and matching sleeves.
Convertible bridalwear
Otherwise known as transitional gowns, any outfit that can be instantly adapted is part of the convertible trend. For the most part, this involves detachable elements, such as underskirts and overskirts, sleeves, trains, straps, veils, overlays and toppers. Add sheer bishop or spotted tulle sleeves, a Chantilly lace or tiered tulle skirt, sequin studded jacket, beaded bodysuit, diaphanous floral crop top or detachable off-the-shoulder tulle sleeves. Alternatively, pick a playsuit and layer with a frothy overskirt, throw a sweeping cape over a mini dress, or attach a flowing tulle train or cascading sleeves to your dress for a modern-romantic finish.
Kelsey Rose The Ivory Lounge
Rebecca Ingram, Pirouette
Kelsey Rose, The Ivory Lounge
Ellis Bridals, The Ivory Lounge
Made With Love, St Ivs Bridal Boutique
Maggie Sottero, Pirouette
Maggie Sottero, Pirouette
Ellis Bridals, The Ivory Lounge
Rebecca Ingram, Pirouette
Party-ready wear
You might start with your party look and layer over the top to create your ceremony style – adding or removing items as the day progresses to reveal a new feature or appearance. Or you may choose to switch to something more dance floor-ready post-ceremony. It’s important to consider how your ensemble will evolve to allow you to maximise every section of your day; this might simply mean donning more comfortable footwear, ditching your bridal jacket or peeling away the train and veil.
You might want to surprise your beau with a classy ‘striptease’ during your first dance by pirouetting out of your overskirt or whipping off your top; or you may nip out after the golden hour photo shoot and change into a sequin mini dress. Otherwise, it’s all about the details that the party space and scene will capture to full effect. Consider everything from micro and short skirts to jumpsuits, colourful frocks and form-fitting or body-con silhouettes including mermaids, fitand-flares and slips. Then there’s embellishments like metallic accents, Art Deco beadwork, and glitterball-esque features such as mirror embellishments and jumbo paillette sequins.
Accessorise and personalise
If you can’t be doing with the faff of a dress change or substantial alterations midway through proceedings, focus on the minutiae instead. A look can be totally transformed via the details, which is where a carefully selected accessory or two can help you to create multiple looks-in-one.
Think floral crowns and elaborate headwear, jaw-dropping footwear, detachable tulle streamers, bespoke or statement jewellery, billowing shoulder bows and veils (especially short and embroidered, long and lace fringed, or scallop edged), long pearl-encrusted sheer bridal gloves and the accessory du jour: capes. The runways are awash with a variety of styles, most notably sheer organza capes with appliqués, puff sleeves in canopy taffeta and detachable watteau (attached at the shoulders or back of the dress) chiffon capes. Select an item from bodices and veils to trains and overskirts, including handstitched accents such as floral detailing on straps, bodice and skirt, metallic thread-work, glittery accents, and celestial and botanical embroideries.
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Made With Love, St Ives Bridal Boutique
Made With Love, St Ives Bridal Boutique
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Jenny Yoo, St Ives Bridal Boutique
Kelsey Rose, The Ivory Lounge
Jenny Yoo, St Ives Bridal Boutique
PIROUETTE
Set in the historic West Quarter, Pirouette has it’s home in the famous House that Moved. We have been dressing Brides for over 30 years with fabulous designer labels and offer a private appointment and bespoke alteration service.
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BEST FOOT FORWARD
Your bridal ensemble isn’t complete without a knockout pair of shoes. Walk down the aisle in style with our picks of the trends du jour
words Lucy Lawrence
Pearly queen
Take a bow
Bows are back, and we love how they add the prettiest of whimsy to a shoe. Choose from structured and oversized or floaty tulle, and add elegance to every step.
Timeless and classic, pearls have long been a bride’s choice, in small part thanks to the Ancient Greek belief that pearls were tears shed by the goddess of love, Aphrodite. Match your shoes to your jewellery or let your pearly shoes do the talking.
Flat
and fabulous
Gone are the days when we could dance all night in skyscraper heels, so if you want to rock your day in flats or pack an extra pair of shoes for changing into, these comfy yet classy options will be just right…
Don’t hold back
Is there a better day to go all-out and opt for a total showstopper of a shoe? Whether it’s a decadent gold hue, a huge heel, a fluffy accessory or a totally bejewelled design, it’s the perfect day to dazzle.
wed’s boudoir
Tips, trends and top products for beauty junkie brides
words Lucy Lawrence, Rebecca Matthews
scent with love
If you’re a fan of floral scents, the limited-edition Bridgerton-inspired perfume by Lush is a veritable bouquet of garden favourites perfect for hopeless romantics. Ylang ylang, jasmine and rose meets refreshing notes of mint, sage and rosemary to create a sweet, light and heady floral fragrance. And thanks to its bijou design, it’s small enough to pop in your wedding dress pocket or clutch, and then straight into your honeymoon hand luggage. lush.com
the cheek of it
Dreamily blushed cheeks are just a swipe away with the new Blurring Blush Sticks by Iconic London. Choose from the subtle petal-pink of Daiquiri, the bright and versatile peachy-coral of Mimosa and the suits-everyone rose of Cosmo. Transforming from a buttery cream to a silky-soft powder as it effortlessly glides across your cheeks, it’s infused with nourishing avocado oil and smoothing African yellow wood bark extract to leave your skin looking supple and blush-beautiful. iconiclondoninc.com
lip service
Founded by make-up artist Gabriella Elio, Sweed’s vegan and clean beauty products are beloved by make-up artists and celebrities alike for their innovative formulas with staying power – and we’re big fans. Now the brand has teamed up with fashion and beauty icon Lydia Millen to launch the Eternal Bloom collection. Choose from two shades of Le Lipstick – the soft peach of Holly Hock or warm nude of Wild Rose – and two shades of lip liners: Rose Thorn and Rose Petal. Inspired by nature’s palette, the lipsticks and liners create a gorgeously elegant look in beautifully flattering tones. sweedbeauty.com
sweet dreams
A restful night’s sleep can be elusive in the run-up to W-day thanks to the wedmin list continually running through your mind. The answer to nearlyweds’ dreams, The Night Drink from TenPM is made with a powerful blend of seven vitamins, minerals and adaptogens – including L-Glycine, L-Theanine and magnesium – to help you fall asleep faster and promote a deeper sleep. Not only does this low-calorie, all-natural hot chocolate drink really work, it also tastes delicious – the perfect addition to your winddown evening routine. tenpm.co
glow getter
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Our love for beauty brand Merit shows no signs of waning. The blissfully fuss-free collection of easy-to-use vegan products is full of everyday staples, including the Instant Glow Serum. Packed with skin-loving ingredients (brightening niacinamide, no less than four types of deeply hydrating hyaluronic acid, plumping cacao seed extract and soothing Japanese goldthread root), lavish your skin with this lightweight marvel before applying The Minimalist for a glowing and flawless complexion. meritbeauty.com
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BE JEWELLED
From make-your-own wedding rings to one-of-a-kind designs, wear wedding jewellery with meaning
words Hannah May
and Rebecca Matthews
HANDMADE AND HEARTFELT
Designer-maker Corrinne Eira Evans’ ‘Make Your Own Wedding Rings’ workshops are ideal for couples keen to create their very own, one-of-a-kind pieces to wear and treasure a lifetime. Not only will you be building your own rings (and lives) together, but you’ll also be making precious memories of this pre-wedding chapter in the process.
Workshops take place in the fully equipped workshop at Moon & Moor in Okehampton’s Victorian Arcade on Dartmoor. Handcrafting all her jewellery –including the metals used in her workshops – from recycled and single mine origin silver and gold, Corrinne will provide both the materials and professional guidance throughout the day, with no prior experience necessary. Alternatively, if you have your own heirloom jewellery that you’d like melted and reformed into something new, let her know before booking.
“I have over 16 years of experience in the jewellery trade, so you will be in good hands,” says Corrinne, who is exhibiting at the prestigious Goldsmiths’ Fair. “I’ve had the pleasure of hosting this workshop for over nine years and seen many lovely couples create their very own rings; it really is such a special day,” she enthuses. The day runs from 10:30am-3/4pm and is for just one couple, so you’ll get Corrinne’s undivided attention. You’ll first make a sample in silver (included in the workshop cost) before making your precious real rings in either 9ct or 18ct yellow, white or rose gold, 22ct yellow, palladium or platinum (at an additional cost).
Corrinne is currently offering Wed readers a 15% discount on these workshops by using the code ‘WED15’ at the checkout when booking online or in the gallery.
STANDOUT STYLE
Endlessly inspired by her Devon home, Erin Cox’s ever-expanding collection is replete with beautifully eye-catching jewellery. Whether you’re seeking standout wedding rings, something special for your mums or bridesmaids or a finishing flourish for your bridal outfit – you’ll find pieces to covet a lifetime. Think statement white baroque pearl necklaces, yellow gold circle stud earrings, hammered chain bracelets and ruby studs.
The Bubble Collection presents a striking selection of pieces, which began with a moment of inspiration while Erin was under the water in Borneo “watching the bubbles of air dancing in the water”. The result is a unique aesthetic that blends her organic shapes and textures with molten bubbles in an array of designs. The molten bubble necklace featuring a blue pear-cut diamond, the chandelier bubble earrings and the diamond bubble stud earrings would all make luxe touches for a bridal gown – and heirloom pieces to hand down the generations. Get in touch or pop into her Topsham studio to discover these and more of Erin’s exquisite creations.
erincox.co.uk
SIGNET OF THE TIMES
Renowned for creating distinctive contemporary jewellery to treasure, west Cornwall-based designer-maker Justin Duance has unveiled a new collection of wood and sandcast signet rings. Each ring combines Justin’s signature techniques of casting precious metal in sand and inlaying with a solid piece of hardwood to create a palpable and personalised piece to treasure.
Unisex and made-to-order in a range of metals including recycled silver and gold, examples from the collection include a silver ring cast in sand from the cove of Gunwalloe and inlaid with whiskey barrel oak, and a recycled 9ct yellow gold band cast in sand from Newlyn and inlaid with oak from a 1905 lugger boat.
The rugged nature of the design alludes to the ancient origins of signet rings, which have been around since 3500BC and would be unique to each person. “We were inspired by the idea of a ring that’s impossible to replicate exactly, jewellery that is incredibly personal to the individual, once seen as an extension of one’s self,” explains the team. “By casting each ring in beach sand, no two are the same. The beach sand not only creates the texture you see on the ring, but tiny grains are captured in the gold too. By choosing the sand your ring is cast in, you can carry a piece of your favourite place with you everywhere you go. The wood inlay replaces classic coats of arms and –as with the sand – you are encouraged to choose a wood that holds meaning to you.”
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LOVE IN EXETER
Nestled in Martins Lane, just a stone’s throw from Exeter Cathedral and Princesshay, Polka Dot Gallery shines bright in the heart of Exeter’s city centre with its covetable collection of contemporary jewellery. The gallery is home to an eclectic and supremely talented selection of South-west based and international designers, offering customers extensive choice and exquisite craftsmanship. From engagement rings and wedding rings to wedding party gifts and finishing touches for your bridal gown, prepare to be dazzled by the gallery’s standout selection of pieces to treasure.
You’ll find everything from striking modern pieces by Claire Lowe, crafted in nearby Exmouth, to nature inspired jewels made in Australia by Shimara Carlow. Cornwall-based Emily Nixon’s extraordinary seaworn creations, many featuring sapphires inspired by the shoreline, are a dreamy option for ocean-loving couples, while Dower & Hall’s pearl earrings and dainty pendants make perfect touches for a bridal ensemble.
Breathing new life into heirloom jewellery is a particular passion for the Polka Dot team, who offer a remodelling service as well giving customers the opportunity to design a unique piece from scratch alongside one of their talented jewellers. “There’s something truly magical about taking a piece that’s been cherished for generations and transforming it into something fresh, new and uniquely yours,” says owner Emma Johns who is proud of the warm and knowledgeable service of her team, who share a passion for jewellery. “We want you to have fun exploring what we have to offer,” she continues. “Hopefully you can come away with something meaningful, intriguing and beautiful to treasure forever.”
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TIME TO SHINE
Located in Plymouth’s Drakes Circus Shopping Centre, Allum & Sidaway is home to a gorgeous selection of jewellery for every occasion. With coveted brands such as Clogau, Annie Haak, Thomas Sabo, Swarovski, Giovanni Raspini and their own signature Allum & Sidaway creations to choose from, there’s a dazzling choice for everything from engagement and wedding rings to bridal jewellery and gifts for the bridal party.
The store is currently running an unmissable offer for couples seeking wedding rings. Simply order both of your wedding rings at the store and receive 25% off the lower priced ring. What’s more, if you’re tying the knot in Plymouth, Nomination has launched a charm featuring Smeaton’s Tower; available from Allum & Sidaway, it makes for a very special keepsake of your wedding in Britain’s Ocean City.
And, to keep your jewellery sparkling long after the wedding day, the store stocks a range of products by Connoisseurs. “Our Diamond Dazzle Stik is a must-have! This cosmetic-like pen makes cleaning diamonds and precious stones a breeze. The jewellery cleaning gel contains mico-fine cleansers and polishing agents that bring radiance and lustre to diamonds,” explains Nikki Luscombe.
Head to the store to discuss your requirements with the team, who will advise on everything from those all-important finishing touches to customised wedding bands and bespoke jewellery design and repairs.
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CIRCLEOF LIFE
Choosing where your wedding rings will come from is the first step in selecting jewellery that will be with you for life
words Hannah May
Safrina Smith Photography
If you’re armed with an idea from the outset on how to source your wedding rings, you could save yourselves a great deal of time, money and effort for a stress-free and successful ring-buying process. For example, do you want to repurpose your grandmother’s wedding ring or find a themed design? You might prefer to let your instincts guide you and wait to be bowled over by something that speaks to you while you’re out shopping.
Many couples will go to their favourite designer-maker to purchase ready-towear pieces, recycle heirloom jewellery or commission bands to be made or personalised to individual spec. For others, it’ll simply be a case of searching for something that fits your budget or style.
Either way, your rings’ origin story can help ensure an easy and enjoyable buying journey, allowing you to find or create something from a place of meaning and love. Here’s our guide to the main ways of sourcing wedding rings to help you get started…
Vintage or heirloom
Pre-loved pieces of jewellery can uniquely define the look, feel and significance of your rings. Whether you already have a selection of old items that you’d like remodelled into your rings, are in possession of sentimental gold that could be melted and reformed or require an heirloom band to be resized or set with a stone, sourcing from within your own pre-existing collections is a smart place to start.
Alternatively, you might simply wish to buy something already in existence, by visiting antique jewellers, attending auctions or scouring various vintage marketplaces, which will provide you with an instant one-off purchase that’s eco-friendly to boot. Wear it in its original form, have it reworked into a style that better suits or add a personalisation such as an engraving for additional you-ness.
Buy or commission
If you have an idea concerning the style you’re seeking, then sourcing should be relatively easy. Whether that means booking an appointment to view your favourite jewellers’ collections or keeping an eye out for a classic gold band, an image of the type of rings you’d like will guide you toward buying or commissioning a kind that works for you.
If you’re being led by budget, tell your jeweller what it is, as they often host archive, experimental and end-of-line sales, seconds promotions and ready-to-wear collections that are a fraction of the price of commissioned or ‘perfect’ pieces. You might also be surprised at how cost-effective commissions can be, and many designers can work within most budgets, however limited – so always enquire.
If you don’t have much of a restriction on cost, then explore all the options for buying and commissioning in keeping with your original vision or requirements –unless you find that these change throughout the ring-shopping experience. Just keep an open mind and trust the experts while doing so.
Make your own or co-design
Many designer-makers offer the chance for couples to create or co-design their rings from scratch, meaning that they’ll match your exact requirements and will be a bona fide one-of-a-kind.
In doing so, you might also ask yourself where each individual element comes from to check it fits with your criteria and ethos; for example, are the diamonds Fairtrade or lab-grown, and is the precious metal recycled? You might also want to incorporate materials and methods that are particular or personal to you, such as wood and gemstones, lost wax and sand-casting.
Then there’s the practical matter of a ring’s design, which includes the shape, fit, finish, width, metal, profile and pairing – along with how it adheres to your budget and lifestyle. Making or designing your own bands allows greater scope for personalisation because you’re hand-picking every aspect from the metal to the final flourishes (think inscriptions, fingerprints, drawings, secret stones...). The result will be a set of rings as breathtakingly unique as your love.
Verity Westcott Photography
Verity Westcott Photography
Justin Duance
Justin Duance
Erin Cox
a question of style
Pair your own preferences with a jeweller’s signature style for a wedding ring match made in heaven...
ERIN COX JEWELLERY: THE MOLTEN STYLE INSPIRED BY DEVON
The spirit of Devon is palpable in Erin Cox’s work. “Erin’s signature molten style beautifully captures the untamed essence of Devon’s landscapes, drawing inspiration from meandering rivers and babbling brooks to the rolling hills and rugged tors of Dartmoor,” explains Jasmine Bowden. “Each piece is meticulously crafted, featuring flowing textures and dynamic forms that echo the natural world. Created in her Devon workshop, Erin’s designs pay homage to her home, with each piece as unique and captivating as the landscape that inspires it.” erincox.co.uk
JUSTIN DUANCE: A DEEP CONNECTION TO NATURE AND NATURAL FORMS
Based in deepest West Cornwall, Justin Duance is endlessly inspired by the wild beauty of his surroundings. “Justin’s signature style is characterised by a connection to nature – in his jewellery design, but also in the techniques he uses, which draw directly from our natural surroundings,” explains Jamila Hirtenstein. “While his designs are varied, spanning from pieces inlaid with hardwoods to rings reminiscent of our rocky cliffs, it’s his sandcast rings that are most popular with brides and grooms. The sandcast rings are made by casting precious metals into beach sand; the sand not only creates a unique texture on each ring, but tiny grains are captured in the gold. As a way of personalising your ring, you’re invited to choose sand from a place that holds special meaning to you for your ring to be cast in. These unique and organic bands can then be further embellished with diamonds and gemstones (all ethically sourced), from subtle vintage diamonds set into the texture as if they have grown in place to twists on classic solitaire and eternity rings. Justin’s sandcast rings have a contemporary yet timeless feel that makes them a brilliant choice for a wedding ring.” justind.co.uk
ALLUM & SIDAWAY: A CUSTOMER-LED CURATION FOR EVERY TASTE, BUDGET AND PERSONALITY
Plymouth-based jewellers Allum & Sidaway houses a vast selection of wedding ring options to suit all styles, tastes and budgets. “We truly believe wedding rings should be an extension of the bride and groom’s style and personality,” says Nikki Luscombe. “Couples can choose to shop with us in store, online or even have a wedding ring made using our bespoke service. Our beautiful collection is not limited to traditional styles as we embrace fashions and our signature style is very much led by what our customers are looking for. It’s difficult to choose a favourite style when you get to work in a store filled with so many stunning rings; it just makes our day to witness the moment a couple find the rings to mark the commitment they are going to make to one another. Signature styles in store right now include slightly shaped diamond set bands, titanium rings and zirconium heat-treated styles for the gents, while wishbone styles are becoming increasingly popular - not to mention our traditional diamond set bands. Our bespoke shapeto-fit service is popular amongst brides so that they can find a wedding ring that complements their unusual shaped engagement ring. Sit down with our team to begin the process of having your dream ring lovingly made.” allumandsidaway.co.uk
MICHAEL SPIERS JEWELLERS: A STUNNING SHOWCASE OF EXQUISITE DIAMONDS AND GEMSTONES
With stores across the South-West, Michael Spiers Jewellers take pride in their extensive collection of beautiful jewellery, many of which boast breathtaking gemstones. “We are the West Country’s premier diamond and coloured gemstone experts. We offer a selection of classic and modern rings in white gold, yellow gold and platinum,” says Anna Lewoniewska. “Our diamond ring collection is unparalleled, with stunning solitaires, elegant pirouettes and showstopping cluster rings. We also offer a beautiful choice of precious gemstones, including rubies, sapphires, emeralds4 and even aquamarines. Discover a customer experience like no other, guided by our experts, to help you and your partner find that perfect ring you will both treasure forever.” michaelspiers.co.uk
CORRINNE EIRA EVANS: SCULPTURAL STYLES
INSPIRED BY THE LANDSCAPE
Corrinne Eira Evans’ gallery is nestled right on the edge of Dartmoor – and she counts the untamed beauty of the landscape as the muse for her signature chainmail jewellery. “Individual links are soldered together in a fabric of metal, simultaneously intricate and sculptural. Every chain link piece has an irresistible sense of tactility and motion, moving fluidly on and with your body,” says Corrinne. “I’m inspired by Dartmoor, by the ever-changing, mystical landscape that surrounds me. My work holds echoes of the world I see: shadows, dappled light, wild grasses and shifting skies. Since childhood, I have found a home for my creative spirit in the moorlands. Fuelling and feeding my creativity, these landscapes become mirrored in my jewellery. On the body, you can feel the soulful connection between designer and inspiration come to life. Carefully chosen materials and finishes reflect my natural inspiration. Irregular, faceted gemstones tell a story of rugged topography. Central to my work is enduring quality and heritage craft. Handcrafted in Devon, my contemporary designs are brought to life with artisanal techniques and exacting attention to detail.” corrinneeiraevans.com
SUIT YOURSELF
Whatever your W-day vibe, the latest grooms wear collections have an option to suit. We’ve picked out three of the leading looks to make your own
words Hannah May
MODERN
Grooms with a penchant for ultra-modern style are currently spoilt for choice, with the latest collections ranging from bright and bold to brilliantly bespoke. Colour is a key trend, with various shades of blue, green, yellow, orange, red and purple all splashed across the runways. Tone it down with washed-out pastel or earthy hues or spruce it up with statement jewel shades. Block out your entire ensemble with one eye-catching hue, or incorporate some colour with a feature or two, such as the jacket or shirt, tie and pocket square. Meanwhile, shirt and tie colour-matching is an emerging trend for grooms seeking easy modern style.
Custom-made outfits are most definitely de rigueur, with every detail from the lapel to the jacket lining, material and monogram individually picked and made to order. Opt for a personalised element or design a tailored, made-to-measure look from scratch for the ultimate in à la mode grooms wear.
Pattern is another way to contemporise your outfit, with florals, stripes, animal-inspired motifs, checks, polka dots, tweed and herringbone all making sartorial waves, while varying texture is another must-have element. From cord and flannel to velvet, linen, wool, seersucker and silk – dimensional, feel-me fabrics are the hallmark of many of today’s standout collections.
TIMELESS
Whether you choose a classic suit, source something vintage, reimagine your favourite era wear or opt for a layering of age-proof elements, designing your outfit around a timeless aesthetic is a versatile, unique and tasteful approach to your wedding wardrobe.
The tux is the timelessly chic choice du jour and an outfit that’s easy to curate to boot. Simply select – then individually style – your dream black suit and hone in on the minutiae such as fit (slim, tailored), lapel (notch, shawl, peak), buttonhole, shirt collar (wingtip, spread), neckwear (bow tie, necktie) and jacket (single/double-breasted) for a look as ‘you’ as it is timeless. Modernise with a white or velvet tux, all-black ensemble, a hit of colour, haute couture, pattern (pinstripe, split tartan) – or by ditching the vest/cummerbund and going bare or keeping it perennially dapper with plain black tie.
Morning suits are also making a comeback – but as slim fitted versions and tailored lounge suits, so with more of a sleek and structured style. From blue to forest green, check, rustic tweed and vintage burgundy, play with the colour, cut, fabric and texture to design an enduring look to individual spec.
And of course, heirloom and vintage pieces smack of timeless style while also importing extra meaning and upping the bespoke factor, so pair your grandad’s cufflinks with a ’70s shirt, a boating blazer with tailored slacks or a dogtooth waistcoat with leather loafers.
Retro colour palettes are all the rage (think burgundy, moss green, burnt orange or salmon pink), along with unique and antique accessories such as timepieces, pocket watches, fedoras, tie bars, bracelets and bolo ties.
LAIDBACK
Relaxed grooms will swoon at today’s covet-worthy collections with a highly wearable and laidback charm. Think mismatched features, eco elements and simpler styles for a wardrobe with a coolly effortless edge.
Sustainable suits are appealing to those wanting to don something both unique and more eco-friendly. This could take the form of natural materials such as linen, silk, cotton, hemp and recycled or Fairtrade fabrics; secondhand suits (your own, friends or family’s, thrift store finds), and pre-loved or rented designer suits. Consider each piece’s provenance – as well as its future use (re-wear, repurpose, donate to charity?), for the ultimate in sustainable, story-telling tailoring.
Meanwhile, mix and match styles continue to pique the interest of designers and grooms alike. Combine several key looks for an ensemble packed with interest and depth, opt for a two or three-tone colour scheme, incorporate pattern and texture for extra dimension, or focus on the details with accessories that play with function and form.
Relaxed lines and fabrics also reflect the laissez-faire approach, with silk suits or shirts, loose ’90s silhouettes and transitional wear all part of the formal loungewear vibe. You might plump for an open shirt (or polo shirt) with no tie or a bow tie, go sockless, swap the slacks for shorts or even denim, or simply ditch the waistcoat and replace your leather brogues with a pair of funky sneakers or your favourite deck shoes. It’s all about how you source, wear and pair each item to create an outfit with a quirky and carefree sense of occasion.
HERE COME THE GUYS
It’s not just about the brides! We hear from grooms about which part of the wedding day really stood out for them…
words Lucy Lawrence
Whether your groom is a Chilled-out Charlie who is breezing his way through wedding planning, a Nervous Norman who is anxiously counting down the days or a Hands-off Harry who’s leaving it all to you, chances are there will be a part of the day he’s really looking forward to. And whatever you may think, he may just surprise you with what his standout moment is. We hear from some grooms about the aspects of the wedding that made them laugh and cry. Share them with your grooms to get the excitement building, or just revel in the romance of it all to come…
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“I couldn’t wait to see Lyra walk down the aisle towards me. The moment itself took my breath away. I will never forget that moment for as long as I live.”
Amal
“Turning round to see Gabriella walking down the aisle was the happiest moment of my life, she looked beautiful. Our entrance to the marquee was also spectacular – our friends and family were absolutely going for it; some were even on the chairs. It was pretty special!”
Will
“My favourite moment was when we all sat down to dinner. I looked around the room and soaked it all up. I remember thinking how lovely that all the people Chelse and I know and love are in one place and we’ll likely never have everyone together again like this.”
Lee
“Unquestionably the best part of our wedding was seeing Eve beside me. About a minute before everything started, I got very emotional and couldn’t trust myself not to crumble if I watched her walk down the aisle, so I waited for her to appear beside me. I turned and saw her looking so perfect… It sounds like a cliché but at that very point it all clicked into place and she was everything I’d ever wanted, and it was all so perfect. It hit me like an absolute lightning bolt.”
Tom
“I enjoyed my groom’s speech! I just really enjoyed being able to tell everyone how much I loved Laura and to put the whole day into some kind of perspective. At the end of the night, I sobered up enough to enjoy a moment where I realised she was my wife for life. I’ll never forget it. I kissed her on the head and called her my wife.”
Dave
“I really wanted a first dance and chose Elton John’s I’m Still Standing, which our band very kindly learnt for us.”
Ben
“The best bit? The first dance with my one true love, even though partway through I forgot what I was doing and danced off solo into the night.”
James
“Our ceremony was amazing and everything we wanted. Siobhan walked in to the sound of a live violin, which I had surprised her with.”
James
“I was feeling really nervous as our ceremony started, but when our niece was carried down the aisle throwing big fistfuls of confetti, it made me laugh and I felt like I could relax.”
Chris
“My favourite moment was sitting down to a glass of wine with my new wife Daisy; the speeches were over, and we were ready to just enjoy the next few hours.”
Andy
“I loved our first dance to John Denver’s Annie’s song. Sabrina and I absolutely love it and always said it was going to be the song we dance to.”
Giles
“Before the ceremony, Ana and I did a ‘first touch’. We stood at either side of a door, without seeing each other, and held hands while reading a card that we wrote to each other.”
Andy
“I have two favourite moments. Firstly, and most importantly, trying to memorise every aspect of Sammy walking down the aisle. I’m so happy I listened when friends and family advised me to watch her walk towards me and commit it to memory – overwhelmed doesn’t begin to describe how I felt! Secondly, I thought that we absolutely nailed the prep and execution for our bridal party marquee entrances.”
Will
“Some of my favourite parts of the wedding were when things didn’t go to plan. I found it funny and started to relax when I couldn’t get Clare’s ring on her finger. The Krispy Kreme tower was an absolute hit but over time got a bit wonky, so everyone was taking the doughnuts off it like a game of Jenga. All those stories made the day feel like ‘us’.”
Chris
YOU’RE THE MAN
The complete lowdown on how to be a best man that’s remembered for all the right reasons
words Abby Driver
Congratulations! Your best friend finally popped the big question: will you be my best man? Of course you’ve said yes; what an honour. But if you’ve never done the role before, you might be feeling a little apprehensive. Fear not, as our guide gives you everything you need to know to be the best best man ever…
The best person for the job
Before you start researching stag destinations, take a minute to check in and make sure you’ve got capacity to do a stellar job. The best man role is quite involved both in the lead-up (speech writing, stag do planning, helping out with any wedding requests) and on the day itself (emotional support, timekeeping, public speaking). If you don’t have the headspace to do it well – perhaps you’ve just grown your own family or are travelling lots for work – it’s better to be upfront now. That way your groom can work out if he can work with you, or think about other options, such as having two best men to split the load.
Suited and booted
It’s not just brides who are allowed to get excited about their wedding outfit! But with so much to choose from – from traditional tuxedos to laidback chinos and brace affairs – the groom may need your help finding The One. If he does want your input on his wedding look, be honest but tactful, and full of enthusiasm about his final decision. Even if he’s got his aesthetic nailed without you, he’ll almost certainly need your help arranging fittings for all the ushers. If his ushers are dotted all over, you could help gather their measurements instead.
Party time
It’s time to send your best boy off in style with a stag do he’ll be smiling about for years to come. And while it might sound like the advice of a party pooper, trust us, planning is key. Ask the groom for a list of invitees, create a Stag chat and get everyone to agree on a date ASAP (it should be about a month before the wedding, or before). People are busy and you don’t want to run the risk that only half of your mate’s crew turn up.
Once you’ve secured the date, it’s time to think about what to do. A night out in Newquay? A weekend city break to Bristol? A once-in-alife-time lads’ holiday to Las Vegas? This will be influenced by what your stag would enjoy and what the budget is. In most cases, it’s better to pick an option that everyone can afford. Once you’ve got the basics sorted (when and where) you can think about fun extras. Make it memorable with personal twists like a theme, fancy dress and games and activities you know he’ll love and a prank or two he might not. If you do it right, you might even come away with some excellent material for the speech. Just don’t do anything to jeopardise the stag’s health, relationship or reputation!
Trusted friend
As the big day draws closer, be sure to check in with your best mate and keep an eye on how he’s doing. Nerves in the lead-up to a wedding are normal, and he’ll likely appreciate a sounding board for any worries he’s got. It’s also traditional for the best man to stay with the groom the night before, which is another good opportunity to check in on him and make sure he’s going into the big day with the best possible mindset.
Speak easy
It’s the big one – the part that can reduce full grown men to quivering wrecks: the speech. The trick to knocking it out of the park? Get prepped early. Unless you’re a professional improv stand-up, this is not something to do on the fly. Block out some time to think about what you want to say and then start to jot down ideas. Depending on how you work best, you might type up a draft, write out some ideas longhand or record audio on your phone.
If you need a helping hand, the internet is full of ideas, witty one-liners and even complete templates – but be sure to make it your own. Share funny memories, heartwarming stories and anecdotes that’ll have guests howling. Keep refining your speech until you’ve got a draft you’re happy with, then read it aloud to a trusted friend to make sure it hits all the right notes. Once you’ve got the final version, practise it repeatedly in the lead-up. The more familiar you are with it, the smoother the delivery. And while we understand pre-speech nerves are real, don’t have more than a pint or two for Dutch courage. A sloppy performance never goes down well!
Stand by me
When the day is finally here, it’s your job to help him get married! If you didn’t stay with him the night before, he’ll probably want you there early so you can start getting ready together. You’ll want to make sure he eats, is looking dapper and stays calm. Practically, you might need to liaise with vendors, arrange photographs and whatever you do, don’t forget the rings, lest you become a punchline to a joke.
You’ll want to make sure that you make it to the venue in good time and then stay with your groom at the altar. You might have another role within the ceremony – such as signing the marriage certificate or performing a reading –and then it’s on to the reception. Your duties here will be determined by the couple but will almost certainly involve delivering a top-notch speech and then getting the party started on the dance floor.
If all that sounds like a big responsibility, it is… but the pay-off is huge! You’ll create unforgettable memories, have tons of fun and well and truly cement your friendship forever.
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RAISE YOUR SPIRITS
Treat your guests to a delicious local tipple with the lovingly crafted spirits from Padstow Distilling Co. A luscious blend of ingredients grown and foraged in Cornwall, the gins feature ocean-swept barley grown in the fields above the Camel Estuary. With a flavour developed from the wild roses that grow on the coast surrounding Padstow, we love the pretty hue and heady scent of the Padstow Gin Rose. Served with Navas Cornish tonic, fresh rose petals and ice, it’s a deliciously fragrant choice for a summer wedding. What’s more, the distillery can now supply bespoke batches of its award-winning spirits - or you can even develop your own special edition flavour - served in bottles customised with your initials for a covetable wedding favour. padstowdistilling.co.uk
A PERSONAL TOUCH
A gorgeous finishing touch for your tablescape, these embroidered name napkins from Gigi & Olive also make a covetable keepsake for your guests. You might even upload your own artwork, logo or wedding crest for a beautifully bespoke accent. gigiandolive.com
INTO THE WILD
Fresh, fun and fabulous ways to add a unique touch to your day words Lucy
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IN THE PICTURE
Live wedding painters are a huge trend in wedding world - and these beautiful paintings by Devon-based Clare Willcocks illustrate why. Not only does a painter offer a captivating form of entertainment, you’ll also have a precious memento of your day to look forward to. Clare’s range of services include live guest portrait painting (which make brilliant keepsakes for your guests) and an original framed and mounted painting of a key moment of your day. You might even opt for personalised place settings to add a fun, bespoke touch to your tabletops. clarewillcocks.co.uk
Bursting with flavour and packed with goodness, Wild Life Botanicals’ pioneering sparkling wine offers the taste and fun factor of bubbly while being super-low in alcohol and sugar. Dubbed ‘bubbles with benefits’ for good reason, the Cornish 0.5% sparkling wines are infused with an intoxicating elixir of eight vitamins, five botanicals and minerals all chosen for their health-bringing qualities. Available in ‘nude’ and ‘blush’, Wild Life offers a delectable and sophisticated option for non-drinking guests as well as a fun fizz for the morning preparations which you can quaff to your heart’s content! wildlifebotanicals.co.uk
SWEET SOMETHINGS
Devon-based Flapjackery has taken the South-west by storm with their deliciously buttery and crumbly flapjacks. As well as classic flapjacks, you can pick from a scrumptious selection of flavours such as caramel latte, salted caramel brownie, clotted cream fudge, lemon drizzle and banoffee. Handmade on the edge of Dartmoor with locally sourced ingredients, gift the treats as wedding favours, add them to your dessert table or arrange a selection box to be delivered for your bridal party to fuel the morning preparations! flapjackery.co.uk
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amalfi summer
The Amalfi Coast meets Devon’s lush countryside, evoking vintage kitsch with a lemon-tinted modern chic aesthetic
Adding a touch of southern Italy to an English country setting, this styled shoot takes a palette of soft lemon and duck egg blue to embrace a palpably summery feel.
Towering potted plants line the path leading to the tipi reception, with a prosecco wall welcoming guests to the celebrations. Inside, festooned fairy lights serve to conjure an intimate and swoon-worthily atmospheric setting.
Tablescapes packed with vintage china, ornamental gold candlesticks and blooms in various shades of yellow from buttermilk to lemon zest create a sensorial feast, while fine, goldrimmed charger plates are framed by white and gold flatware to lend a sense of modern opulence. Mismatched floral and striped tablecloths promote a more playful and eclectic vibe, contrasting with the clear glassware that completes the picture of classicmeets-contemporary styling.
A stationery suite featuring lemon motifs and intricate illustrations continues the colour scheme and ties the theme together, reflecting everything from the florals to the cake: a four-tiered masterpiece of textured elements and exquisite floral embellishment. Lemon trees in stone pots provide a fabulous low-level focal point to the table ends, while a hanging floral installation with drapes creates a spectacular aerial centrepiece.
The bride presents a showcase of the latest lust-worthy trends with a midriff-baring two-piece and free-flowing locks adorned with a single oversized bow, and a satin peplum top with a diamanté encrusted veil. Simple floral drop earrings are replaced by dazzling gold chandeliers and a loose, pearl-studded updo for an added air of glamour that ushers in the evening party and the promise of a long, sun-drenched summer.
Shot at Beaconside House in North Devon, this styled shoot celebrates the joy of a whimsical wedding in the spring and summer months in this gorgeous corner of the county.
An inviting reception space sets the scene, presenting vibrant décor with a palpably seasonal feel. From tall floral arrangements in a rainbow of hues to delicate stems scattered across the tabletops and the fresh flower-adorned cake, the floristry is a bright and beautiful ode to summer. The detailing showcases colourful glassware and candles set alongside rustic-luxe elements such as raffia charger plates, a floral stationery suite and velvet ribbons.
Stone walls and bare wooden chairs are softened by sweeping drapes and fairy lights, and contrast with the surrounding greenery that’s visible from the floor-to-ceiling windows. The result is a flooding of natural light accentuated by the twinkling chandeliers. Meanwhile, the signage provides a clean and minimal look in pared-back monochrome, adding a modern chic effect to the overall aesthetic.
The bride dons three separate looks, epitomising boho elegance with a delicate off-the-shoulder sleeved dress with boned bodice and frothy A-line skirt, then a playful two-piece comprising a fitted lace top and voluminous trousers. A sleek, backless gown with side slit and plunging lace bodice is the finale to the trio of fashions, with ethereal jewellery handcrafted in North Devon providing the beautiful endnote.
Outside, the al fresco ceremony stage oozes wild romance and, once the formalities are over, a pool party with a soundtrack from a vibrantly dressed saxophonist strikes the perfectly energised celebratory mood.
Veils, jacket, napkins & bow Gabrielle Elizabeth gabrielleelizabeth.co.uk
Hair & make-up Beauty by Cathy beautybycathy.co.uk
Jewellery Bee Lavish beelavish.co.uk
Flowers Howie & the Flowers howieandtheflowers.co.uk
Cake Peboryon peboryon.com
Stationery Laura Likes lauralikes.co.uk
Signage Signed by Jess signedbyjess.co.uk
Saxophonist Lucy Harvey lucyharvey.co.uk
Confetti Candles & Pearls candlesandpearls.com
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your day, your
How to plan a wedding day that is as unique as your
love story
words Becci Clubb
your way
As one of life’s most exciting milestones, your wedding day is a time for celebrating everything about your relationship. The consensus among those in the industry is that the best wedding ideas are those that really represent the couple and, from bespoke menus to dazzling decorations, couples are increasingly infusing their weddings with personalised details to make their day memorable. Here are some tips to help you, as the stars of the show, put your stamp on your day and plan a wedding that’s undeniably yours…
Set the scene
Where you choose to wed will set the tone for your entire celebration, making it one of the most important decisions in the lead-up to the big day. Consider locations that have a personal meaning to you both. You could say ‘I do’ at a rustic barn venue close to your childhood homes, in the church where your grandparents were wed or at a coastal venue overlooking the beach where you first met.
Make an entrance
Arriving at the venue is a chance for you to throw even more personality into your day. You could arrive in a decked-out campervan, a horse-drawn carriage or hop out of a vintage bus. If you will be travelling between your ceremony and reception venues, you could cycle together on a tandem bike or pull up in a luxury car. Choose transport that nods toward your interests and arrive in style!
Stylish stationery
Give your guests a glimpse of the wedding magic to come with bespoke stationery suites. Use the same design style for the save the dates and invitations right through to the place name cards and table plan. Whether monochrome calligraphy or vibrant illustrations, use the design to tie your theme together.
Special ceremony
For a truly personal wedding, consider a celebrant-led ceremony. A celebrant can offer a bespoke ceremony and tell your love story throughout the proceedings; they will take the time to get to know you as a couple, understanding your values, shared memories and what makes your relationship unique. You can also include special readings and music or rituals that hold deep significance, allowing for a ceremony full of moving moments.
Personalised vows
Exchanging vows is such a poignant moment and writing your own vows will make it all the more meaningful. Speak from the heart, telling your partner how much they mean to you and what your future together looks like. Share memories, promises and reasons you fell in love.
A symbol of your love
For couples looking to infuse their ceremony with meaning, symbolic rituals are a perfect choice. From a handfasting, candle-lighting or sand ceremony, symbolic rituals represent unity and the blending of your lives. You can even involve other family members in these rituals, making it a moment of unity for everyone involved.
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Furry friends
Your wedding wouldn’t be complete without including your pets! Venue permitting, your four-legged friend could accompany your bridal party as they walk down the aisle or be included in your photographs at the drinks reception. If it’s not possible for them to be there, include them in your details, like your cake topper, stationery design or in photographs dotted around the venue.
Décor and details
Let your creativity shine through with your wedding décor, whether you go for DIY decorations or work with a stylist to make your venue pop. Incorporate details that you find significant to make your wedding unique; look around your home for inspiration of what’s meaningful to you. Style your day your way and your wedding will stand out from the rest.
Flower power
Flowers can carry sentimental significance and symbolism, so select stems that mean something to you. Choose blooms that were in your parents’ wedding bouquets, that symbolise romance or that were a grandparent’s favourite fragrant flower.
Table names
For an extra personal touch, swap table numbers for names that tell a story. This could be countries you’ve travelled to together, favourite books or flower names inspired by your bouquet. Choose table names that will leave guests asking why you selected them, learning more about you and your lives together.
Fabulous favours
Forget generic wedding favours and gift your guests something that reflects your personalities and makes them smile. Whether you opt for homemade treats, like preserves and personalised biscuits, or choose something to get the party started, like alcohol miniatures and drinks tokens, choose an item you would gladly receive.
Custom cocktails
Create a signature drinks menu with bespoke cocktails. Offer a choice of ‘his and her’s’ favourites or create a bespoke beverage with a title inspired by your married surname. Complete your drinks with custom drink toppers featuring your initials or wedding date.
Food glorious food
There are so many catering options to choose from, including plated meals, sharing platters, grazing tables and food trucks. Serve dishes you love throughout your wedding breakfast to ensure the day feels authentic, including your favourite at-home dinners, or be inspired by cuisine from countries you’ve visited together. Those with a sweet tooth can incorporate ice cream trikes, doughnut walls or a dessert bar. The key is to pick food that brings you joy and that guests will remember for all the right reasons.
Let me entertain you
Think of fun and unique ways to keep guests engaged throughout the day. Golf enthusiasts could hire a mini golf course, complete with wedding-themed holes. For a classic summer soirée, hire musicians to play acoustic music while guests mingle and play garden games in the venue’s grounds. If you’re a fan of interactive experiences, hire a magician or live painter to add a different dynamic to the day. In the evening, decide if you would rather hire a DJ, band or even karaoke to make your wedding the day of your dreams.
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GOOD TASTE
From mocktails to food stations, we’re serving up the latest food and drink must-haves for a wedding feast full of top-trending flavour
words Hannah May
When all is said and done at your wedding, there’s one part that will linger in the minds and mouths of your guests: the food and drink. Every other aspect may be a well considered and spoilsome affair, but if you don’t serve up something of a storm, your celebrations may run the risk of falling flat when it comes to flavour.
Having nailed the entertainment, originally styled the venue and timed every event to perfection, give your guests the best belly-fill that your budget and creativity can buy. Today’s catering trends allow couples the chance to design a menu that not only individually suits them, but also satisfies their guests, from the first morsel of the canapés to the main event of the wedding breakfast and the finale of the evening food…
Restaurant receptions
Whether you wish to relocate post-ceremony to your favourite foodie haunt, ask its chef to do the catering or take inspiration from the setting or menu – restaurant receptions are all the rage. Many hotels boast their own fine dining eateries to allow couples to stage the ceremony and sit-down meal at the same venue, while other venues either have their own in-house catering team or require outsourcing, allowing you to bring the restaurant experience directly to them. Many restaurants and venues are flexible with their hire options, whether you’re planning an intimate celebration or elopement and only require a few tables, or are keen to exclusively book the entire restaurant for your reception.
Non-formal menus
If you don’t fancy a traditional three-course meal and want to treat yourselves and your guests to a different dining experience, then personalised, non-formal menus are a must. Rather than picking a pre-set catering package, consider weaving a story
into your gastronomy. In particular, family recipes, comfort foods, dishes laden with meaning and memories (such as from your childhoods and travels together), and more personalised ways of presenting and serving tailor-made menus are part of the growing trend toward informality. Think giant self-serve pans of your mum’s paella, mobile food and drinks vans scattered throughout your venue, sushi bars, live cooking and open kitchen theatres, DIY barbecues or carveries, or a 10-course tasting menu designed from your first date through to your engagement party.
Sharing menus and grazing tables
As part of the informal dining movement, the craze for sharing platters and grazing tables is not only a fabulous way to inject some extra fun, flavour and personality into your food – it will get your guests mingling and create a relaxed, festival-feel wedding. Charcuterie and butter boards, fresh seafood, flame-grilled barbecued meat and veg, fruit platters, pastry plates and grazing tables crammed with goodies (dried fruit and nuts, mezze, freshly picked seasonal fruit) will ensure a feast for all the senses while celebrating the act and art of eating en masse.
Non-boozy drinks
Whether you’re catering to the kids, older guests, designated drivers or simply wanting to spruce up your drinks menu, non-alcoholic beverages are enjoying a moment. Thankfully, sober guests are no longer proffered only a jug of water or bottle of lemonade, as today’s drinks lists are reflecting the menu when it comes to creativity and flavour. Engaging all the senses, modern non-alcoholic drinks look, taste and smell delicious, and can range from health-boosting kombucha and iced herbal teas to vitamin drinks and cordials laced with botanicals. Depending on the season and venue, you might want to feature everything from specialist coffees, booze-free mulled wine and a hot chocolate bar to a mocktail list, non-alcoholic wine, bubbly and spirits, ‘pimp your drink’ stations (a fun addition for kids and
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adults), and an array of local or exotic juices. Hire a mixologist and stock the bar with plenty of non-alcoholic options, add a separate 0% drinks table or plant booze-free bottles onto each table for guests to sample.
Interactive food stations
Food stations add another sensorial dimension to weddings, allowing guests to roam and graze at whim. Hire a few street food vans for outside your venue, arrange bespoke cocktail experiences, pop-up food tents or enhance the experience with an interactive food station for a more immersive feel. Think Korean-style barbecues set into the tables, hot rock courses, wine blending and build-your-own dessert bars (including milkshake stands, ice cream trikes, brownies and pancakes with various toppings). Combining a sense of spectacle with personal choice, interactive stations with a fiery element are one of the hottest trends du jour. Anything from barbecues to order and firepit toasted s’mores to elaborate hog roasts and grills (with griddled vegetables, chicken kebabs, prawn skewers, burnt aubergine and cheese toasties) will instantly elevate the epicurean element of your day.
Champagne towers
Blending flavour and form, champagne towers lend a beautifully architectural and artistic edge for the ultimate sense of occasion. You might want to stick with traditional flutes or coupes, source vintage tulips or opt for colourful wine glasses in different hues. Add a sweet or savoury food pairing station including the likes of white truffle, oysters, octopus, crab cakes, popcorn and strawberries. Offer multiple towers of sweet, dry and rosé –or replace the champagne with your favourite tipple such as prosecco, Aperol, whisky or espresso martini. Alternatively, add a customised champagne wall for a statement twist on welcome or toast drinks – and prepare to watch the delight-filled faces of your guests.
Dessert bars
One of the easiest ways to mix things up and score extra points with your guests is to incorporate a dessert bar. You could ask guests to BYO, send requests with their RSVPs and cater accordingly or stock a bar based on your own favourite sweet treats. The options are practically endless and nothing is, quite literally, off the table. Tarts, doughnut towers, cookies, pies, cakes, trifles, cupcakes, jellies, macarons, churros, cake pops and sweeties will ensure a lip-smacking centrepiece. Add a delectable global element with traditional wedding desserts from across the world with the likes of croquembouche, Mexican wedding cookies, bem casados, zuppa inglese or kransekake for a crowd-pleasing endnote to your wedding breakfast.
Local produce and plant-based menus
The sustainability movement is, quite rightly, going nowhere. Couples keen to host an eco-friendly and conscientious event continue to lean towards local produce, particularly with an emphasis on a plant-based menu. Regional flavours, seasonal produce and farm-to-table dishes all form part of the movement, and could feature small additions such as local jams, pickles, ice cream trikes and edible favours – or a feast sourced entirely from within a 50-mile radius. An increasing number of venues locally source or grow their own produce, while others will work with suppliers and couples to design menus inspired by the season and locale, created using sustainable practices. Minimal or zero food waste is another factor to consider and discuss with your venue and suppliers; this could involve everything from composting organic waste to donating leftovers to guests, shelters and charities.
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IN THE MIX
Cocktails are a great way to add a signature element to your reception while kick-starting the party. Jo Fitch of The Buffalo shares her top five for a modern wedding
words Rebecca Matthews
There’s nothing quite like a cocktail menu for stirring the party spirit, as Jo Fitch of The Buffalo (thebuffalo.co.uk) – the South-west’s wow-worthy mobile Airstream bars – can testify. “We serve a fully stocked bar with wine, beer, bubbles, spirits, cider and soft drinks but the cocktails are by far the most popular when we rock up!” she says. “Guests have been waiting a long time for this day to come around and they are delighted when there is a whole host of great drinks available rather than just wine and beer options.”
Recent years have seen a cocktail renaissance, resulting in more people recognising great cocktails and being willing to try something new. “Trusting your bar company is essential,” asserts Jo. “Have a chat with them to let them know what cocktails or spirits you both like so they can tailor a cocktail menu specific to what you and your guests will love.”
From retro favourites with a modern spin to bubbly cocktails, bitter concoctions and non-alcoholic sips, there’s a dizzying choice of cocktails out there. To help you narrow down a crowd-pleasing selection for your menu, we’ve asked Jo to pick out some favourites for a modern wedding or, as she says: “Some that we have tried and tested and enjoyed so much that people keep coming back for more”.
Negroni
It might be over 100 years old, but today the negroni is all the rage everywhere from hip bars to coolly contemporary weddings. “It’s not to everyone’s taste, but those who appreciate it won’t be disappointed,” comments Jo. “Quality ingredients are particularly key when there are few ingredients in a cocktail, and when it comes to the negroni this is essential. Use a great gin, vermouth and Campari, stir well and garnish with an expressed slice of orange peel rubbed round the rim.”
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Hurricane
Invented in a pub in New Orleans during the second world war and made famous by the song It’s Five O’clock Somewhere, a hurricane is a long, fruity and super popular cocktail. “This is sunshine in a glass!” says Jo. “Rum-based with plenty of sweetness, it ticks a lot of boxes for a great cocktail experience and is a brilliant all-rounder for those who may be cocktail shy.”
Elderflower collins
The drinking usually begins soon after your guests arrive from the ceremony, so consider your welcome cocktail carefully and start with something to set the tone of your reception. “All our cocktails are a double measure of spirit but for a welcome drink we suggest you take it easy and offer something refreshing, light and fantastically delicious,” advises Jo. “Elderflower collins does this very well. If you’d prefer something bubbly, make it a bellini.”
Espresso martini
A delicious pick-me-up, the espresso martini is fast becoming a key ingredient of a modern wedding and works particularly well after the meal to ward off the post-feasting slump. “It’s a classic but can be done so badly,” warns Jo. “When I go to a cocktail bar, the espresso martini is a good tester of how great their cocktails are. The key to this, again, is quality ingredients as, with only three ingredients, there’s not much to hide behind: you’ll need good vodka, real Kahlua and, most essential of all, awesome espresso.”
Whisky sour
Light and refreshing with delightful citrus notes, the whisky sour is another cocktail which is sure to wow the crowds. “At first, the word whisky may put people off, but hang on,” says Jo. “This is bourbon, our American friend with a sweeter finish than the Scotch whisky you may be familiar with. Tempered with lemon and sugar, it is much easier to drink than you would assume and, once tried, guests just can’t get enough.”
sweet art
From artful florals to perfectly piped vintage confections, the latest wedding cake trends will ensure a wow-worthy centrepiece for your celebrations
words Rebecca Matthews
VINTAGE VIBES
Whether you’re drawn to Victorian elegance or retro ’70s and ’80s vibes, vintage-inspired cakes are everywhere right now – and we’re here for it. From petite to grand tiered confections, this trend is all about maximalist flourishes, dreamy pastel palettes and pristine vintage piping – Lambeth piping, in particular, is having a moment. A heart-shaped cake offers a cute take on the trend, while lace, pearls, bows or cherries add a kitsch and sweetly nostalgic finish.
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FLOWER POWER
A cake decorated with flowers is nothing new, but the latest trends lean towards an organic approach to floral decoration. It might be hand-painted and texture-rich buttercream blooms, edible pressed petals, a sprinkle of delicate sugar petals, an elaborate flower crown hugging the cake or an array of flowers layered to look like they’ve grown out of it. Think abstract and playful with a sprinkle of cottagecore whimsy.
SEASIDE DREAMS
With so many couples choosing to marry on the Cornish coast, it’s only natural ocean-loving souls should wish to stamp their love of the sea onto their sweet centrepiece. You might choose a palette of sea-inspired hues, scale or wave-like texture, shoreline-inspired detailing such as shells and starfish, or a beachy vibe incorporating surfboards and beach huts.
BESPOKE BAKES
Your wedding cake offers the perfect canvas for personalisation. Cake designer Louise Roach from Ausel Cakes & Catering shares her top five tips for customising your cake...
Incorporate your story. Use design elements that reflect your relationship. This could include symbols of shared hobbies, places you’ve travelled together or significant dates. Customised cake toppers that resemble you as a couple or include pets can add a personal touch.
Match the theme. Ensure the cake aligns with the overall theme and colour scheme of your wedding. Whether it’s rustic, vintage, modern or beachthemed, the cake should complement the décor and atmosphere.
Flavour variety. Offer a variety of flavours that reflect your and your partner’s tastes. Consider having different layers with different flavours or a tiered cake with a different flavour for each tier.
Custom decorations. Add unique decorations like edible flowers, intricate lace patterns or hand-painted designs. Monograms, quotes or lyrics from your favourite song can also be incorporated.
Cake stands and displays. Personalise the presentation of your cake by using a customised cake stand or display. Adding flowers and candles to your table can give a luxurious look.
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TEXTURED TIERS
Couples are increasingly rejecting a perfectly smooth finish to their cake in favour of a more textured aesthetic. Ruffles, ridges, waves or a lace-inspired design will make your cake a tactile delight as well as a striking visual element of your reception. You might opt for a palette knife painted buttercream design for an artful, one-of-a-kind statement, while chocolate lovers will find it hard to resist a tiered cake adorned with elaborate ruffles of the sweet stuff.
SUPER NATURAL
Add a touch of natural beauty to your day. Whether it’s foliage cascading down the tiers, sprigs of eucalyptus or a mix of aromatic herbs, greenery brings a garden-like feel to your celebrations. For a wildly romantic look, create a ‘wedding cake meadow’ by displaying your cake amidst a whimsical arrangement of flowers and foliage – perhaps by repurposing your ceremony flowers.
SWEET STYLING
Wedding stylist Sophie Walker from Sophie Walker Weddings and cake designer Gemma Thomas from White Peony Cake Co. share their styling tips to help you elevate your cake to top tier...
Show it off. Don’t put the most expensive cake you’re ever likely to buy in the corner. Make it stand out as a key feature of your reception. It doesn’t have to be displayed on a table –think creatively and consider other options such as a dressing table, piano, bookshelf or ladder.
Consider your cake stand. Think about what your cake is going to sit on. Have you chosen a petite confection that would benefit from a tall stand? Or perhaps your cake has a gold leaf finish and a matching gold stand would set it off perfectly? Don’t be afraid to ask your cake designer for advice.
Standout styling. Don’t leave your cake table empty. Flowers around your cake can look incredible or opt for a hanging installation above to draw focus to it. Fill it with textures, arrange different fabrics around it, add a funky tablecloth or fill it with a variety of candles and candlesticks.
If you want your cake table to look as amazing as your cake, consider hiring a stylist.
Wait until the sun is done. Don’t put your cake in the window. As beautiful as it may look with the scenery behind it, cakes are made from butter, and butter and sunshine are a bad combination!
Snap away. Make sure your photographer gets lots of photos of the cake before you cut it. Your wedding day is over in a blink of an eye and it’s hard to remember every detail.
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Sophie Walker Weddings sophiewalkerweddings.co.uk
White Peony Cake Co. whitepeonycakes.co.uk
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NEVER A DULL MOMENT
When it comes to planning a guestpleasing wedding, there’s one aspect that guarantees the most memorable party: the entertainment
words Hannah May
The cringe-worthy DJ from many a wedding past is long gone as today’s couples can freely present the most personalised and eclectic schedule of entertainment to their guests.
The trick is to cover all bases by arranging something for each guest and section of the day. From the pre-wedding warm-up to the after-party, timing and atmosphere is everything. Whether you wish to prime your guests for the main event, create a soundtrack while you steal away for newlywed photos, foster a relaxed ambience for some downtime between events or ramp up the party feel for the evening’s dance-filled finale, entertainment is key to the most raved-about wedding.
We’ve asked wedding planner Laura Dalton from Kept Weddings (keptweddings.co.uk) for her advice on how to plan a day that spectacularly entertains from start to finish...
Pre-wedding party
“The pre-wedding party is the perfect opportunity to get people on the wedding day together,” says Laura. “Getting familiar with one another and settling in helps make everyone feel more comfortable. It also allows you to spend more time with your guests so you can focus on being together on the wedding day itself. Most couples typically opt for a more relaxed affair with casual drinks and music to help manage people’s excitement before the big day. But it is becoming more popular to entertain guests beforehand to extend the celebrations. Think tacos and a mariachi band, ballgowns and casino night, casuals and quiz, or you can split the party with a pamper or pub.”
Depending on the type, venue and time restraints of your day, the opportunities before the main event can vary from a family meal at home the night before to an extended day of preparations mixed in with
early celebrations. Couples opting for an elopement or intimate wedding could host a small drinks soirée, while a weekend marquee wedding may call for a daylong festival-style party to extend the mood. Discuss your ideas with your planner, venue and suppliers and work within your budget and time frames to create a pre-wedding party to match.
Pre-ceremony
It’s becoming increasingly common for ‘first look’ scenarios whereby the couple sneak a peek of each other ahead of the vows, as well as mingling with guests either together or separately as part of a more casual welcoming event. Preambles provide a brilliant way for everyone to officially say hello, share a drink, lend support and relax in each other’s company before the more formal proceedings begin. These can take the form of canapés and drinks outside the ceremony venue, a family brunch or lunch at or near the venue (your favourite restaurant, a laidback picnic, food vans or beach barbecue) or even a wedding breakfast ahead of a sunset ceremony. You can make food a particular
focal point and feature of entertainment (mixologist, live cooking station, interactive elements) or prioritise the entertainment itself such as with a saxophonist, vocalist or a live portrait or landscape artist.
“As guests arrive for the ceremony it’s always nice to set the tone of the day,” advises Laura of the importance of establishing atmosphere early on.
“Romantic ambient music is a lovely touch to serenade the audience. String quartets, singers and pianists are a staple for entry music, but we are seeing more cellists, loop pedal guitarists and harpists emerging as an alternative. If you are looking for something a bit different, but with great impact, consider a choir. The many voices add another level to your setting that will impress and captivate your guests” – priming them for the ceremony and building anticipation for the bride’s grand entrance.
Ceremony
The nuptials need not follow a formula when it comes to the entertainment factor. From the flower girls’
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and bride’s entrance to the spaces between the vows, readings, signing of the register and exit, allow your creativity as much free rein as you fancy.
“Tradition always has its place during the ceremony, but you could always be ‘extra’ and have a dance performance before your big reveal,” suggests Laura. “Perhaps ballet dancers leading the procession or an aerialist to wow your guests? You could even make an entrance via helicopter (if the venue allows)! Nothing is too much, right?”
Pepper proceedings with some personalised entertainment, from a live singing duo or musical performance to mini theatrical interludes and aisle dance outros. Bring the unusual into the traditional with an owl ring-bearer or singing celebrant. By incorporating your passions and personalities into each part of the ceremony and splicing entertainment into traditional elements, you’ll create a beautifully bespoke and highly engaging affair.
Drinks reception
Get the party started in inimitable style with a drinks reception designed to surprise, enthral and amuse your guests. Kick off with a cocktail hour, circus act, soul singer, fairground rides or garden games – and don’t forget to make the food and drink a sensorial feast too courtesy of towering champagne fountains, pimp-your-drink stands and colourful grazing stations complete with statement floral design.
“Bring the good vibes with more music, like a saxophonist, roaming band or brass band,” says Laura of some of the best party starters. “A live painter, illustrator or caricaturist are lovely additions for your guests to receive personal keepsakes, but you could also have roaming artists like magicians, tarot readers or jugglers to keep your guests entertained while you are having your photos taken. For longer drinks receptions, food carts such as ice cream, popcorn or doughnuts are a nice treat that we are seeing more of – especially at summer weddings.”
Don’t forget to cater to all ages too. Set up a kids’ corner or crèche area where you can arrange toys, arts and crafts stations, a bouncy castle, Punch and Judy show, balloon artist or face painters – or employ
a kids’ entertainer to occupy younger guests without the need for parental presence.
It’s also worth having a chill-out tent or area for older guests complete with a snug, tea and coffee bar, books or magazines, and laidback soundtrack (jazz pianist, Ibiza lounge-inspired playlist) – which can be adapted as the day progresses to accommodate anyone wanting a post-feast siesta or lazy evening sundowner.
Wedding breakfast
“The wedding breakfast is certainly an awaited affair by guests, but once they’re all fed and watered, you could surprise them with singing waiters or an impersonator to prevent the after-dinner slump and elevate the day going into the night,” suggests Laura. “They help the transition from romance to fun as guests put on their dancing shoes for the evening reception.”
Entertaining guests during the wedding breakfast again depends on the format and layout. A three-course sitdown menu might warrant a harpist, while a selection of street food stations could be flanked by a glitter bar, stilt walkers and aerial acrobats.
The speeches are the traditional means of entertainment and can be delivered before, during or after the meal, with many couples scattering
them throughout courses. Mix this up by playing videos (marryoke, recordings or live feeds from guests unable to attend, vintage footage from the newlyweds’ childhoods), audio or voice notes, and even organising sketches by child guests or performance artists. Host a Mr & Mrs Quiz, table games or hire an actor such as a celebrity lookalike to fit with your theme. Conversation and guest interaction tends to dominate the wedding breakfast, which can be accentuated by interactive catering options like sharing platters, self-serve stations, table chefs and DIY options (build your own dessert, barbecues). Anything from a playlist packed with guest requests to a live band, cellist or steel band could provide the upbeat soundtrack.
Evening reception
When day turns to night, the sense of abandon and celebration is usually revved up, so you’ll want to plan your evening entertainment accordingly. Most couples start with something energised – a live band or specially curated playlist for leading into the first dance that then transitions into a group dance of some kind. Remember: there are no rules when it comes to how and when you decide to don your dancing shoes (if at all!)
“DJs and bands are always the main event when it comes to entertainment on your wedding day and are a must-have to keep the dance floor pumping and energy high,” says Laura, who recommends plumping for personal choice when it comes to genre, such as Motown, party hits, dance or ’80s. “Change it up with a barn dance or even a bandeoke whereby people get the opportunity to feel like a superstar performing with their own band on stage,” she adds.
In short, a plethora of entertainment awaits you and your evening guests to match all moods and party spaces, from silent discos and casino tables to drag performers, s’mores around the firepit, smoke bombs, stand-up comedians, fire breathers, dance troupes, laser shows and pyrotechnics. Go en masse with a ceilidh, line dancing or groomsmen and bridal party dance-off, or arrange splinter areas of entertainment with a photo booth, petting zoo, pamper tent, escape room experience or virtual reality party arcade. No end to the fun!
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love at first dance
The
first dance: a dread for some, a delight for others. Either way, thinking about it in advance will ensure your celebrations start on the right foot
words Hannah May
Whether the thought of the first dance fills you with terror or excitement, there’s a range of options to suit exactly how you wish to tackle the newlywed rite of passage.
Ask yourselves a few questions to get started, such as how do you envision it happening? What will work best for you as a couple and the type of wedding you’re planning? You might want to have a little fun with it or flip the tradition on its head – whether that’s including a posse of your loved ones, incorporating your child guests or even getting your beloved pooch involved.
Then there’s the music. Choose a song that reflects your personalities: don’t conform to tradition or select the track that’s popular at the time if it doesn’t suit who you are as a couple. You might prefer a classic ballad, a symbolic replay of the record that your parents danced to on their wedding day or your all-time favourite get-on-the-dancefloor party track. An acoustic or live performance, vocals by a talented friend or even a karaoke session can make the first dance a unique and utterly ‘you’ event to relish and remember.
Alternatively, you might want to ditch the first dance entirely and replace it with a new tradition or party-starting event to individually suit. We’ve rounded up a range of ideas to help you shimmy your way into married life to your very own beat...
Impromptu
One of the most popular choices, the impromptu first dance is usually the result of selecting a special song (or not) and simply rolling with it. Some couples practise a few of their moves in advance, but generally it’s a case of seeing where the music and mood (and bubbly!) takes you. The endnote is a more relaxed, ‘non-performance’ approach, signalling the start of the party with the mass migration of your guests onto the dancefloor as the tempo builds or switches into party mode.
Choreographed
A routine of some sort marks a more dedicated response to the first dance. You might have studied performance art, take regular salsa classes together or just love to move, so a choreographed dance will give you the perfect chance to show off your skills and repertoire.
Go romantic with a ballroom dance (rumba, anyone?), pay homage to your favourite film or musical by replicating one of its iconic dance numbers (think Dirty Dancing, Pulp Fiction, Grease, Footloose and Saturday Night Fever), learn the steps to a dance song (Macarena remains as infectiously fun as ever) or employ a professional to help you create your own dance routine to suit your ability and personalities.
Group dance
If you’re keen on taking the pressure off while upping the fun factor, then a group dance is the easiest solution. This could be a family affair (you two and the kids/your parents/entire extended family), the newlyweds and the bridal party or all the guests – and can be impromptu, choreographed or even take the form of a dance-off. The newlyweds could still have a centre-stage moment or performance within the dance, or blend into the troupe entirely.
It could also involve an outfit change, entertainment element (such as acrobatics, circus act, live band or light show) or a complete mash-up of music and dance styles, starting with a slow couple’s dance before blending into an upbeat family boogie followed by a group R&B routine with your gal pals (you can’t beat Beyoncé’s Crazy in Love, for example). Variations on group dances include line dancing (either instructor-led or with a screen playing instructions), a ceilidh or a folk dance. Ask your guests to submit their favourite song or to learn the moves to a pre-selected dance and give your DJ a list of well-known moves-in-the-lyrics songs such as YMCA, Time Warp and the Conga.
Professional dance performance
Employing a group of professional dancers can double up as the first dance and wedding entertainment, and can take place alongside a couple’s dance or instead of. You could join in for the duration, toward the end or be the opening act – it’s entirely up to you. The great thing about this option is that you can pick dancers and music to suit the theme and feel of your wedding. For example, if your wedding has a retro, rock and roll vibe, ask your dance act to perform the bunny hop, jitterbug or hand jive – and ask your guests to learn them if they’d like to partake in the performance (giving them the element of choice takes the pressure off them too!). There are so many options, from belly dances and ballet to Bollywood, Argentine tango and Latin styles.
Father-daughter
If the groom isn’t thrilled (or remains terrified) of the first dance or you’d like to honour another special person instead of – or as well as – him, then switching partners is another option. Many brides begin the dance with their spouse before the father of the bride cuts in, but this could also be her brother, mother, sister, best friend, grandparent or child. When it comes to the first dance, do exactly what you want – dance The Loco-Motion with your mum before launching into a Disney megamix with your daughter and ending with Cha Cha Slide en masse! You could also congregate a few couples to join you, such as your siblings and their partners, mothers and fathers, aunties and uncles, and so on.
Champagne shenanigans
Champagne-based events are gaining popularity as a fun first dance alternative. The couple still briefly take centre stage and mark the sense of occasion but do it in unique (and dance-free!) style. With each guest clutching a glass of bubbly, you can make a grand toast to you and them whilst you saber a bottle of champers and say a few choice words to kick-start the celebrations. Or you might prefer the thrill and spectacle of pouring a champagne tower before handing out glasses to your guests to signify that the party has officially started!
Performers
Interactive performers are all the rage, and paying someone else to take the spotlight eases the stress and ups your enjoyment levels to boot. Think about your venue and how to utilise and maximise its space and facilities. For example, plant aerialists in a giant hat tipi, stage a theatrical performance in a large garden, add artistic swimmers to a pool or scatter professional storytellers around a bonfire. Depending on the vibe or theme of your day, you could employ all kinds of acts, from fire-breathers and belly dancers to asking the local kids’ dance school to perform to a song or two. So long as there’s music and movement, you can class it as a ‘first dance’ experience!
You could even rope your guests into a performance of some kind, whether by asking in advance and tapping into their skill sets and passions (musician friends, magician family members, tarot card readers...), or by hosting an impromptu group singalong or dance, for example, a line dance, ceilidh, dance-off/competition, which is a particularly cute icebreaker and dance floor opener if you involve any children at your wedding.
Opt out
It’s important to remember that the first dance, like so much else in modern weddings, is optional. If for any reason you can’t or don’t want to have one, then don’t. If you’re concerned about leaving that section out, then employ a professional dancer or musician to take to the stage in your absence or simply invite all your guests onto the dance floor for the first song of the evening. If it’s nerves that’s prohibiting you, wait for the party to be in full swing for a first dance interlude once you’ve warmed into the party spirit or swap the first dance for a last dance at the very end of the night (or even surprise your spouse by saving it for the privacy of your honeymoon suite!).
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DECISIONS, DECISIONS
Wedding planner Laura Dalton of Kept Weddings reveals her top tips for avoiding decision fatigue
words Lucy Lawrence illustrations Maria Taylor
Once the initial engagement euphoria has passed and you get stuck into planning your wedding, it’s only a matter of time before you realise all the possibilities that are available to you – the options really do seem endless. Before you get lost in Pinterest, wedding planner Laura Dalton of Kept Weddings (keptweddings.co.uk) shares her expert tips to help you stay on track and avoid decision fatigue, so you can say yes to the dress (and the venue, décor and everything else).
Create a mood board
Starting off with a mood board is a great way to define what you envisage for your wedding day. Add pictures, colours and words that describe how you want to feel and how you want your wedding to look. This will create an aesthetic that is authentically you and your partner to help determine which suppliers you book. For example, if you envision a fairytale wedding, you might opt for words like whimsical, romantic, elegant and traditional and include soft shades and sparkle.
Then (this is the important bit), when it comes to reaching out to suppliers, refer to your mood board to check they match the aesthetic you are going for. This will help to eliminate any options that just don’t work for your style.
Create a brief for each supplier
Before you search for your perfect supplier, write down a brief that describes what it is you want from them. For example, if you are looking for a cake artist, you might want to go with someone who can provide three of your favourite flavours, can make a cake with royal icing and can offer doughnuts, macaroons or popsicles alongside the cake. Define your checklist and consider this when requesting further information from your options.
Allow yourself a break
When it feels like decision fatigue is setting in, allow yourself to take a break from wedding planning or look into another aspect of your wedding plans instead. Taking a step back and revisiting what you are looking for with fresh eyes will help you to think more clearly about your decision. You can always revert to your initial supplier brief to remind yourself what it was you wanted in the first place. Considering whether that has changed will help you to make the right decision.
Keep it local
Start local before looking further afield. When you open your search outside of your county or region, you will be inundated with even more options to consider. These
supplier, stop looking!
Often weddings are booked in advance and the leadtime until the big day will see the industry move and trends change. This may lead you to question your decisions. Unfollow any accounts you began following at the start of your supplier research journey and avoid looking for more inspiration or at previous options. Refer to your mood board and brief, remembering why you chose the words and pictures to describe your aesthetic and requirements in the first place.
Book a wedding planner
A wedding planner is a fantastic support if you have decision fatigue. Their logistical and practical nature combined with experience and knowledge will help provide independent and honest advice to enable you to make informed choices. They will listen and understand you and your aesthetic, which will enable them to propose a reasonable amount of options that they feel suit you best.
Having worked with many suppliers in the industry, a planner will take real life experience into account that will provide clarity and logic to your decisions. If booking a full wedding planning package is not an option for you, most wedding planners offer one-off virtual planning consultations to discuss a specific area you are experiencing decision fatigue with.
DECISIONS, DECISIONS
Finally, if you’re still umming and aahing, learn from real bride Sophie’s advice, after she and Henry planned their wedding in four months. “We just had to make decisions quickly and go for it – procrastination just causes more stress and sometimes the most spontaneous decisions are the best ones!”
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wed’s VENUES GUIDE
Choosing a wedding venue is usually the first stop on the planning checklist. From country houses and rustic barns to bijou boltholes, wed reveals Devon’s standout settings for a wow-worthy wedding
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VENUES GUIDE:
COUNTRY HOUSES & CASTLES
Live out your very own fairytale in one of Devon’s elegant country houses or majestic castles
Rockbeare Manor
A ceremony on a pretty outdoor terrace flanked by flowerfilled parkland ticks the box for sheer off-the-scale romance – but that’s only part of the dreamy appeal of Rockbeare Manor. Nestled in the countryside near Exeter, the Grade I listed Regency house is light, elegant and stylish yet relaxed, its full-length windows framing 100 acres of glorious parkland dotted with mature trees. Available on an exclusive-use basis, indoor ceremonies take place beneath the twinkling chandelier of the Dining Room, while the light-filled Ballroom hosts sumptuous feasts and revelry for up to 160 guests. There’s also a beautiful balconied Bridal Drawing Room for the preparations, a Billiard Room and 13 plush bedrooms with sink-into-me bathtubs and far-reaching views across Dartmoor.
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Total capacity: 160
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 30, plus 5 rollaway beds for children
Dog-friendly: On request (couple’s dog is allowed for ceremony/reception but not overnight)
Pynes House
Believed to be the inspiration for Jane Austen’s Barton Park in ‘Sense and Sensibility’, this elegant Georgian house provides the most breathtaking location for your very own love story. Set within 37 acres of parkland in the Exe Valley, the glorious gardens hint at the immaculate interiors, where you can marry in a choice of state rooms, all bathed in natural light and exquisitely styled. For dizzying romance, take your vows before the grand doors on the entrance steps with the majestic tree-lined avenue and gardens as your backdrop, before feasting and dancing the night away beneath the sparkling chandeliers of the Ballroom or, for larger affairs, in a marquee in the grounds.
Romantic details such as the Romeo and Juliet-style balcony and the myrtle bush in the rose garden, which is believed to have grown from a clipping from Queen Victoria’s bridal bouquet, add to the dreaminess, while the beautiful bedrooms make for an incredibly special place to spend the night.
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Total capacity: 96 for dining in the house, 130 for ceremony in the house (with dining in a marquee)
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: 12 double rooms, plus 4 rollaway beds
Dog-friendly: No (couple’s dog for ceremony only)
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Bickleigh Castle
This is the place for a wedding rich in history. Beyond the stirring charm of the 11th century Norman castle, with its Great Hall complete with minstrels’ gallery and roaring log fire, there’s the 6th century chapel, Devon’s oldest building, and a truly enchanting setting for a blessing. The grounds are equally fairytale-worthy – the River Exe runs through the estate’s 1,000 acres of lush landscape and wooded valleys, while a cluster of cosy thatched cottage accommodation creates the feel of a wedding village. Kick-start the festivities with a Friday night feast; get married in the garden pavilion before dancing under the stars in the expansive grounds, with fireworks shimmering on the river. The next day, it’s all too easy to continue the festivities with a tasty brunch and fun on the croquet lawn and tennis court. bickleighcastle.com
Total capacity: 120
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 40 in 18 bedrooms
Dog-friendly: On request
Moreton House
Kingston Estate
A hidden gem nestled deep in the South Hams, Kingston Estate is luxurious, relaxed and informal, where couples and guests are encouraged to make the 35 acres their home for the duration of their stay. Built in 1735, the Georgian mansion house boasts high ceilings, marble fireplaces and a vaulted basement where you can party until the early hours. The grounds include stunning south-facing walled gardens: one perfect for your ceremony and one for eating al fresco-style.There is also a huge party yurt, a street food shed, a rustic ceremony barn with chandeliers, a courtyard cocktail bar for a festival vibe along with a Hayloft Barn big enough for 200 guests with windows overlooking the gardens and surrounding countryside. The accommodation on-site has been thoughtfully renovated with tasteful interiors, original features and meticulous attention to detail. With its Georgian splendour, the décor is classic, the food and drinks are eclectic and, by the evening, it transforms itself into a super-cool venue hidden deep in the countryside. Whether you want a black-tie event, a festival feel or a rustic wedding, the venue can offer it all as every one of their events are bespoke. Kingston Estate ticks all the boxes for couples looking for a stunning exclusive-use venue that can provide first-class accommodation along with top-notch service for food and drink. kingston-estate.co.uk
Total capacity: 250 & 400 with a marquee
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 100 Dog-friendly: Yes
A Georgian stately home on the outskirts of Bideford, Moreton House boasts a range of impressive yet homely spaces and luxurious on-site accommodation. Rich in the beauty of North Devon, the house sits amidst five acres of landscaped tree-lined gardens, while the breathtaking vistas of the north coast are less than two miles away. Marry in one of the elegant, light-filled rooms or, for something more intimate, before the fireplace in the hall. Venture outdoors and take your vows in the portico framed by the grand entrance or the gazebo in the secret garden. Savour the festivities in the beautifully restored function rooms and enjoy the cosy and characterful accommodation for an extended wedding weekend. The exclusive-use venue has also launched an intimate wedding package for couples seeking a small celebration in this endlessly romantic setting. moretonhousedevon.com
Total capacity: 70 day, 100 evening
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 30
Dog-friendly: Some dog-friendly options are available
INTIMATE & UNIQUE
Embrace a small wedding packed with personality at one of these gorgeous spots
Brickhouse Vineyard
Brickhouse Vineyard is a unique and exclusive vineyard wedding venue nestled in Exeter, Devon. Tucked away in the picturesque South Devon hills, the unique barn has everything you could ever desire for a truly unforgettable wedding day. Your friends and relatives are bound to fall in love with its understated elegance and stunning surroundings. Choose from intimate elopements with just the ‘Two of You’ and up to eight guests, micro-weddings designed for up to 40 of your family and friends and larger celebrations in the barn, with capacity for up to 60 guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, followed by 100 guests for the evening party. You will have exclusive use of this fabulous venue as you celebrate saying ‘I do’. The venue hire price includes support with wedding planning and on-the-day coordination. You will also have exclusive use of the Round House and the barn with the landscaped terrace, vineyard, grounds and parking for up to 20 cars. brickhousevineyard.co.uk
Total capacity: 60 day, 100 evening
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: No
Dog-friendly: Yes
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The Lamb Inn at Sandford
This village pub is bursting with charm. Nestled amongst the Tudor cobbles of the chocolate-box village of Sandford, the sense of easy charm and rich character is palpable in the 16th century coaching house, from its low ceilings and crackling log fires to its sink-into-me sofas and sheltered garden. Complete with an award-winning restaurant and luxurious boutique-style accommodation, it is a cosy and memorable setting for an intimate wedding, where the laidback draw of a country celebration meets fine food and luxe touches. Feast on locally sourced Devon flavours and a huge array of party-starting drinks, as the night draws to a close, bed down in one of the eight spacious and luxurious bedrooms or suites, most with underfloor heating and king-size beds. lambinnsandford.co.uk
Total capacity: 40 day, 75 evening
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: 7 rooms and 1 garden suite
Dog-friendly: Yes
Tree Top Escape
Could there be anything more romantic than your very own treetop hideaway, taking your vows overlooking rolling hills, surrounded by nature with the gentle breeze rustling through the leaves? Tucked away on a private North Devon estate, Tree Top Escape offers the most magical of settings to wed. Beyond the jawdropping views of the valley, there’s a large lounge, Italian designer kitchen, freestanding copper bath and stateof-the-art technology. Celebrate with up to 14 of your nearest and dearest in the luxe, light and luxurious setting, sink into the private hot tub on the terrace beneath the stars, and enjoy a delicious dinner cooked over live flames by your personal chef in the Grill-Haus, a fresh-from-a-fairytale cabin in the woods. Beautiful, tranquil and unique, it’s the dream location for back-to-nature nuptials without skimping on luxury. treetopescape.co.uk
Total capacity: 16
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: 2 en-suite bedrooms
Dog-friendly: Yes
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RURAL TREASURES
Throw your dream wedding in a charm-packed setting in the Devon countryside
Uphill Farm Walled Garden & Barn
Located in a pretty idyll on the edge of Dartmoor, this garden party venue is set amidst the grounds of a 500-year old Grade II listed farmhouse. An historic stone barn with views across the Tamar Valley and a picturesque walled garden make for stirringly beautiful settings to take your vows. Surrounded by mature trees, lush lawns and colour-pop flowerbeds, the garden also makes an idyllic setting for marquee receptions. The venue hosts a small number of events from May-September each year, working closely with each couple to make material their vision. Food is also a top priority for the farm, which produces charcuterie from their own free-range rare breed pigs. Enjoy customised cocktails and a bespoke feast cooked from the open fire kitchen; then gather around the firepit and toast marshmallows under the starry Dartmoor skies. uphillfarm.co.uk
Total capacity: 70-120
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: No
Dog-friendly: Yes
Hawke Barn
Prepare to be enchanted by the tranquillity and far-reaching views across miles of rolling hills as you turn down the private drive to Hawke Barn. The 16th century former threshing barn sits amidst 250 acres in mid-Devon, close to the hamlet of Stoodleigh, offering historic charm and stirring rural beauty in abundance. The recently renovated barn boasts high openvaulted ceilings and contemporary full-height windows with heavy oak beams, exposed stonework and flagstone floors. Bathed in natural light, the timeless and natural aesthetic brings a blank canvas for you to make your mark on your special day, whether you envision al fresco celebrations during the warmer months or cosy festivities warmed by the wood-burning stove in the winter. With charm-filled stables on-site, you might even bring your pony along to be stabled in their own private courtyard. The venue also offers Devonian anvil blessings for couples who marry at Hawke Barn. Luxurious accommodation in the farmhouse and two 17th century barn conversions, together with camping options, means your friends and family can extend their stay in this rural idyll. hawkebarnvenue.co.uk
Total capacity: 60 day, 100 evening
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 19
Dog-friendly: Yes
Freeformimages Photography
Albion Row Photography
The Little JJ Studio
Clare Kinchin Photography
Clare Kinchin Photography
The Great Barn
This breathtaking setting lives up to its name both in scale and wow factor. Tucked away in an incredibly beautiful corner of Devon amidst 120 acres of Friesian-filled fields and thatched cottages, The Great Barn combines the magnificent 15th century Great Barn itself, the charming West Barn - a perfect break-out space for wet-weather drinks and children’s entertainment - glorious gardens and elegant cottage accommodation for up to 30. Complete with exclusive-use hire, you can relax with your guests in complete seclusion in this idyllic private estate. Marry beneath the dramatic vaulted ceiling of the barn or the picture-perfect St John the Baptist church on the doorstep. For spine-tingling romance, enter the secret walled garden through the ancient arched gate and exchange vows beneath the arbour amidst a carnival of roses and lavender. thegreatbarndevon.co.uk
Total capacity: 250 ceremony, 198 wedding breakfast
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 30
Dog-friendly: Yes
Upton Barn & Walled Garden
Comprising a cluster of lovingly restored traditional buildings and a walled garden, this exclusive-use venue offers a private, picturesque and peaceful setting in rural Cullompton. Savour the stylish spa-like delights of The Paddock during your wedding morning. Marry in the atmospheric Cider Barn, a restored traditional cob barn with oak trusses and floor-to-ceiling windows, or glide down the lavender-lined aisle of the walled garden and exchange vows beneath the handcrafted oak arbour. Stylishly blending rustic character with modern accents, the Stable Barn is a stunning space for receptions for up to 156, with warm timbers, striking lighting and glorious paddock views, while the Press Bar is the place to stop for signature cocktails by the woodburner. Don’t forget to head outdoors at nightfall when a carnival of festoon lights and firepits add to the magic of this stellar spot. uptonbarn.com
[Photography Kamila Nowak]
Total capacity: 156 day, 200 evening
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 8
Dog-friendly: No
Kevin Mullin Photography
Richard Starr Photography
Sam Gibson Photography
Bovey Castle
From the moment you weave through the beautifully landscaped grounds and set foot inside the elegant and charm-filled climes of the hotel, Bovey Castle takes your breath away. Set amidst 275 acres of idyllic countryside, the luxury hotel prides itself on its sumptuous interiors, quality service and top-notch facilities, making for a wedding that redefines the wow factor. Taking a flexible approach, the venue hosts weddings of all scales; whether you’re planning an elopement, intimate celebration or grand gathering for up to 120 guests, there’s a choice of settings inside and out to take your vows – along with a host of celebratory spaces – to ensure a tailor-made wedding of the highest calibre. You might choose to extend the festivities in this special spot, enjoying the 18-hole championship golf course, cider and sloe gin workshops, off-road driving experiences and clay pigeon shooting or simply unwinding in the Elan Spa. boveycastle.com
Total capacity: 120 day, more for evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Fall for the rural dream at The Oak Barn, where three converted barns and an ancient cob Devon farmhouse sit amidst acres of quintessentially English countryside. We’re talking meadows dotted with hay bales, undulating hills and a beautiful country church right next door. The stunning Oak Barn is a blank canvas for your dream decor. The smaller Acorn Barn, a thatched 18th century barn is perfect for more intimate ceremonies and has additional accommodation. The Linhay, a converted Edwardian dairy, offers further accommodation as well as a beautifully equipped space for bridal preparations. And the gardens beg for al fresco celebrations around the firepit, beneath leafy trees and skies speckled with stars. theoakbarn.co.uk
Total capacity: 90 day, up to 125 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 29 Dog-friendly: No
Will Dolphin Photography
Katy Jones Photography Luna Wedding Photography
Snapdragon Photography
Badgers Holt
Harefield Barn
Located amidst rolling hills and wildflower meadows, Harefield Barn offers the beauty and tranquillity of a country wedding with the convenience of being just a 10-minute drive from Exeter. A light, airy and versatile backdrop for a personalitypacked wedding, the rural gem has a full ceremonies license with the Clock House making a dreamlike option for al fresco vows – and no less than five churches within a short drive. An extended hire period also gives you plenty of time to prepare for the big day. Characterful features such as exposed beams and a wood-burning stove meet a blank canvas aesthetic, lofty ceilings and floor-to-ceiling windows framing vistas across the ever-changing landscape. Relax with your guests in the cosy bar, steal away to the surrounding cornfields for photos against a golden sunset, and dance the night away on the terrace beneath a starlit sky. harefieldbarn.co.uk
Total capacity: 200 evening
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: No
Dog-friendly: Yes
Hidden in the heart of Dartmoor, Badgers Holt is ideally located for couples seeking a relaxed and wildly romantic wedding. The River Dart meanders through the grounds of the former fishing lodge, which houses a series of versatile, rustic spaces for celebrations, all perfect for styling with your own unique twist. Take your vows in the blank canvas Garden Room or Banquet Fireside Room – complete with a roaring wood burner – or even in the garden bandstand on the water’s edge. Venture onto the ancient Tor-dotted moorland for dramatic photos and together-time before returning for festoon lit celebrations and firepit gatherings on the riverbank and sleeping beneath the stars in a Lotus Belle Tent or cosy apartment. badgersholtweddings.co.uk
Total capacity: 100
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 24 in 4 apartments and bridal suite
Dog-friendly: Yes
Hannah Wilde Photography
Helen Court Photography
Amy Sampson Photography
Zac Gibson
Wedding Photography & Film
Memories and Milestones Photography
Wooladon Estate
Situated on the Devon and Cornwall border, where the banks of the River Tamar and River Lyd meet 500 acres of enchanting woodland, lakes and rolling meadows, the setting of Wooladon Estate could not be more picturesque. The private estate offers a five-star country residence, together with a spacious and charming new rustic barn and a cluster of beautiful buildings, to host a wedding steeped in wild romance. From vows in the garden or country ceremony room to festivities in the barn or garden suite and photographs against the lake, the willow tree and woodland, expect seclusion, versatile celebration spaces and breathtaking views at every turn. The luxurious Georgian house lies at its heart with its romantic bridal suite, while a cluster of barn conversion cottages add to the accommodation options, some with private gardens, hot tubs and valley views. With catering being a speciality, you can look forward to a bespoke menu using the freshest produce grown and sourced from the estate. wooladonestateweddings.co.uk
Total capacity: 450
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 34 Dog-friendly: Yes
Deer Farm Tipi Weddings
Located 25 minutes from Exeter and 15 minutes from Tiverton, East Dunster Farm is as picturesque as it is private. Set on the hillside of the family-run deer farm, a trio of spectacular off-white Nordic tipis makes a blank canvas setting for bespoke wedding celebrations with views across miles of rolling hills. The tipis come fully furnished complete with a handcrafted wooden bar; bedecked in festoon lighting, fairy lights and a lantern-lit walkway, you’re assured a magical ambiance as night falls. Luxury accommodation with large, light living spaces, private gardens and hot tubs for 16 people on-site (or more for an additional cost) is included, along with optional camping. Surrounded by green hills and grazing deer and stags, imagine soaking up the romance of your brilliantly personal tipi wedding in this tucked-away corner of Devon. Heaven. deerfarmtipiweddings.co.uk
Total capacity: 150
Civil ceremonies licence: In application
Guest accommodation: for 40 plus space for camping
Dog-friendly: Yes
Sarah Jayne Photography
First Light Wedding Photography
I Do Film & Photos
QUESTIONS TO ASK A WEDDING VENUE
Before you fall for the first venue you see, get clued up on these must-ask questions from wedding planner Jenny Granlund
1. What is the capacity for a ceremony and reception?
2. Does the venue have a ceremony licence?
3. What ceremony locations are there, both inside and outside?
4. Is the venue exclusive use?
5. What is the availability like?
6. What is included in the price?
7. Will room turnarounds need to take place? If so, who will take care of this?
8. Are there any break-out rooms away from the party for older guests or babies?
9. Will there be a wedding coordinator onsite on the wedding day? What will they be taking care of?
10. Is furniture provided?
11. Is tableware provided?
12. Can you bring in your own suppliers and catering company?
13. Are toilets provided?
14. What time do the licences for music and alcohol run until?
15. Are there restrictions concerning music?
16. Is there the option to provide your own alcohol? Do they charge corkage?
17. What day and time can you have access from?
18. Is there accommodation on-site or close by?
19. Are fireworks allowed?
20. Is confetti allowed?
21. Are firepits allowed?
22. Are there dos and don’ts concerning decoration of the venue?
23. What time does the hire end?
24. Who does the clean-up afterwards?
25. Who’s responsible for taking away the recycling and rubbish?
Rumleigh Farm
Nestled in the Tamar Valley Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty, this historic farmstead provides a sublime backdrop in which to wed amongst 17 idyllic acres. A back-to-nature haven, the eco-friendly venue sustainably farms rare breed sheep, goats and heritage apple varieties. Exchange your vows in the 17th century Events Barn, Medieval Sitting Room or River Shack, or opt for an al fresco ceremony on the riverbank, orchard or any outdoor space of your choosing for a wildly romantic setting. There’s accommodation in The Farmhouse, The Long Barn (both with beautifully appointed bedrooms, fully-equipped kitchens and spacious living rooms; plus, there’s a spring water hot tub), and an adjoining annexe, allowing you to spend quality downtime with friends and family at this dreamily idyllic hidden gem. rumleighfarm.com
Total capacity: 60 day, 120 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes Guest accommodation: for 18 plus space for glamping
Woodbury Park
This country venue has it all: acres of picturesque scenery, a grand-scale reception space for up to 220 guests, plentiful four-star accommodation and even use of the wedding golf buggy! Tie the knot in The Oaks, a charming space with exposed beams and large windows framing views across the countryside, or the Atrium, a grand setting with chandeliers, mood lighting and stunning views. Why not make a holiday of it and gather your loved ones in this gorgeous part of Devon for trips to the nearby south coast with its beaches and wild cliffs, before returning to the extensive facilities including a state-of-the-art gym, pool and Aura Spa. woodburypark.co.uk
Total capacity: 250
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: 54 rooms Dog-friendly: No
COASTAL & WATERSIDE
From waterside retreats to seriously stylish celebration spaces, a wedding by the sea offers irresistible romance
Pier One Plymouth
Located in a prime position on Plymouth Hoe with sweeping views across the sea, Pier One allows you to marry in style within touching distance of the water. With the bustle of Plymouth on the doorstep, the contemporary venue offers privacy, stylish interiors and a stunning balcony for a perfectly picturesque seaside wedding. Mesmerising views of the sea fill the floor-to-ceiling windows, while the balcony makes a sublime spot to take your vows while basking in the sea air. Complete with delicious food and a brilliantly stocked bar, you’re assured a wedding feast and evening reception to remember. pieroneplymouth.co.uk
Total capacity: 60 ceremony, 100 evening reception
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: No
Dog-friendly: Yes
Bigbury Bay Weddings
It’s difficult to imagine a more spectacular setting for a coastal celebration than Bigbury Bay Weddings. Located on the southern tip of Devon, where the sweeping sands of Bigbury-on-Sea meet green fields and wildflower-dotted cliffscape, the venue offers a location of irresistible romance for sea-loving souls. Choose your canvas of choice, whether it’s a marquee or a tipi, and design the wedding of your wildest dreams with your choice of suppliers. Imagine an al fresco celebrant-led ceremony with the white-tipped seas and golden sands of Bantham Beach as your backdrop, and a reception styled to suit your vision. Throw a brilliantly atmospheric party as the sun sets, with guests mingling around food trucks and festoon lights to the murmur of the ocean. bigburybayholidays.co.uk/weddings
Total capacity: 150 day, up to 250 evening
Civil ceremonies licence: No
Guest accommodation: Farmhouse for 7 & bell tents for 8-10 on-site. Further holiday homes & campsite nearby
Dog-friendly: Yes
Margo R Photography
Margo R Photography
The Venue at Sandy Cove
Perched high on the cliffs of North Devon, The Venue at Sandy Cove boasts to-die-for views across the Atlantic, the rugged coastline and heights of Exmoor. A licensed gazebo for vows and a glass-wrapped platform jutting out from the cliffs means you can make the most of the spectacular location, while the purpose-built and light-filled celebration space boasts bi-fold doors, perfect for bringing the outside in during the warmer months or framing the white-tipped waves in winter. State-of-the-art lighting heightens the magic while the hotel’s 37 rooms – some with private balconies and deep bathtubs – will allow plenty of your guests to stay on and savour the sea air and rolling waves in luxury. sandycove-hotel.co.uk
Total capacity: 150
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: 37 rooms, with 2 people per room Dog-friendly: Yes
Polhawn Fort
Nestled in a tucked-away corner of the Rame Peninsula with soul-stirring sea views, Polhawn Fort really is the stuff of dreams. The Napoleonic Fort sits on a clifftop with rolling lawns and wildflower-filled gardens slipping down to the sea and a private beach for loved up wanders at the water’s edge. Available for two, three or four day weddings, take your vows beneath the vaulted ceilings and twinkling lights of the grand Napoleonic hall or head outside for a sun-kissed garden ceremony in the summerhouse. Whether you’re dreaming of frolics on the sands and sundowners on the Mediterraneaninspired roof terrace or cosy candlelit celebrations with the waves crashing at the shore below, this captivating exclusive-use venue offers an extraordinary setting to begin married life.
polhawnfort.com
Total capacity: 100
Civil ceremonies licence: Yes
Guest accommodation: for 16 Dog-friendly: Yes
& TIPIS
Dreaming of a so-you wedding under canvas? Be inspired by these fabulous outdoor wedding specialists
World Inspired Tents
The multi-award-winning World Inspired Tents has been hiring their spectacular giant Nordic tipis and Aurora sailcloth tents across the South West for over 18 years. Accommodating between 50 to 1000 guests, creating the perfect space for every type of celebration, ensuring the wow factor is in full and fabulous force for intimate garden parties through to sprawling festival-style weddings. In addition, the team can supply everything from furnishings, lighting, bars, staging, dance floors and firepits to matted and covered walkways, catering tents, festoons, and oak doors. All you have to do is pick the location and watch as the magic unfold. worldinspiredtents.co.uk
Tipi Spaces
Tipi Spaces’ ivory white canvas Nordic tipis provide a versatile and truly enchanting blank canvas. Manufactured in Sweden, each tipi is designed to offer maximum durability and protection from the elements to give a fabulously flexible solution for any setting or style of event. Their striking structure ensures a wow-worthy centrepiece, while inside, the conical shape sculpts a more intimate space for your celebrations. What’s more, boasting almost 50 years combined experience of project and luxury event management, the team is enthusiastically primed to achieve your vision by attending to all the details. tipispaces.co.uk
Venetia Norrington Photography
Cakes Fireworks
Bridal wear
Days of Grace 01395 443730 daysofgracevintage.com
The Ivory Lounge 01752 875702 theivorylounge.co.uk
Pirouette 01392 432643 pirouettethecollection.com
St Ives Bridal Boutique 01736 799413 stivesbridalboutique.co.uk
Cakes & catering
Peboryon 07534 617059 peboryon.com
Posh Nosh 01392 444877 posh-nosh.co.uk
Celebrants
Ceremonies by Skye 07939 997209 ceremoniesbyskye.com
Décor hire & styling
Abbotts Event Hire 01209 212794 abbottseventhire.co.uk
Out of the Ordinary Event Hire 01209 203291 outoftheordinaryeventhire.com
Knots & Kisses 01837 52885 knotsandkisses.co.uk
Entertainment
Offbeat Entertainment 07725 117639 offbeatentertainment.co.uk
I Do Film + Photos 07535 440807 idofilmandphotos.co.uk
Jennifer Jane Photography 07881 941668 jenniferjanephotography.co.uk
Laurie B Film & Photography 07955 615387 laurie-b.com
Maxi Photography 01803 324255 maxiphotography.com
Melanie Barnfield Photography 07878 919561
melaniebarnfieldphotography.com
Nova Wedding Photography 01392 430853 novaweddingphotography.co.uk
Snooks Photography snooksphotography.co.uk
Venues
Bickleigh Castle 01884 855363
bickleighcastle.com
Bigbury Bay Weddings 07418 052927 bigburybayholidays.co.uk/weddings
Boconnoc boconnoc.com
Bovey Castle 01647 445000 boveycastle.com
Brickhouse Vineyard 01626 682287
brickhousevineyard.co.uk
Deer Farm Tipi Weddings 07791 978628
deerfarmtipiweddings.co.uk
Gara Rock Hotel 01548 845946
gararock.com
Harefield Barn 07541 121404
harefieldbarn.co.uk
Hareston Manor 01752 880401
harestonwedding.co.uk
Hawke Barn 07770 997134 hawkebarnvenue.co.uk
Huntsham Court 01398 361277
huntshamcourt.co.uk
Kingston Estate 01803 762235
kingston-estate.co.uk
Moreton House 01237 425519
moretonhousedevon.com
The Oak Barn 01647 24641 theoakbarn.co.uk
Pier Master’s House 01752 910818
piermastershouse.com
Pier One Plymouth 01752 251320 pieroneplymouth.co.uk
Polhawn Fort 01752 822864
polhawnfort.com
Pynes House 01392 431403 pyneshouse.co.uk
Rockbeare Manor 01392 797444
rockbearemanor.co.uk
Rumleigh Farm rumleighfarm.com
Southcombe Barn 07886 083473
southcombebarn.com
The Great Barn 01647 252552
thegreatbarndevon.co.uk
The Green 01579 362253
thegreencornwall.co.uk
The Venue at Sandy Cove 01271 882243
sandycove-hotel.co.uk
Tree Top Escape 01769 629069 treetopescape.co.uk
Trevenna 01579 320013
trevenna.co.uk
Uphill Farm Walled Garden & Barn 07748 616662 uphillfarm.co.uk
Upton Barn & Walled Garden 01884 38302
uptonbarn.com
Woodbury Park 01395 234723
woodburypark.co.uk
Wooladon Estate 01566 784605
wooladonestateweddings.co.uk
got wed
“Taking our vows was really special - even though I could barely speak for crying!”
Beautiful love stories from across Devon
SHONI AND LEWIS by TOBY LIDSTONE
Blossom Season
Shoni and Lewis’ spring wedding at Rockbeare Manor was filled with flowers and love
Shoni and Lewis’ love story began almost 13 years ago when they met through mutual friends on a night out. “We spent the whole night talking about music and making each other laugh,” she reminisces. Lewis’ plan to propose during an orchestral performance of the theme song from Spirited Away – a particularly special song for Shoni – was scuppered when the London show was postponed due to Covid. He decided to go ahead with his plan and proposed during a late-night stroll in St James’s Park instead.
The answer was an easy ‘yes’, as was their decision to marry at Rockbeare Manor. “We knew straight away it was the one. It’s so beautiful with soaring high ceilings, large windows and lots of period features while still having neutral décor to suit any wedding colour scheme,” says Shoni. “We had a cherry-blossom-themed wedding as this reminds us of Japan; our dream holiday and soon-to-be honeymoon destination!”
A striking palette of black, white and pale pink made for a dreamy scene, with faux cherry blossom trees lining the aisle and crowning the tables, a showstopping arch under which the couple exchanged vows and glass tea light holders enhancing the romantic atmosphere. The tiered cake carried the darker accents the couple were keen to incorporate, while the wedding favours were a DIY effort. “We saved up jam jars for two years and made candles,” says Shoni. “They also served as our guests’ place names.”
The bridal party looked pretty as a picture with Shoni dazzling in an off-the-shoulder lace gown, while her bridesmaids wore pale pink dresses and carried bouquets of pale pink tea roses, astilbe and eucalyptus. “I felt like an elven princess!” says Shoni, whose family dog, Indi, took both flower girl and ring-bearer duties in a blossom flower collar and matching ring box inscribed with the couple’s initials.
The blossom-filled ceremony was filled with personal touches and emotion. “Our friend Dan played piano as I walked down the aisle and our friend Lizzie did a reading for us. We wrote our vows ourselves, which were very emotional to read – I barely got through mine!” she reflects.
Spilling outside to a deluge of pink confetti, the newlyweds and their guests mingled over champagne and canapés before taking their seats for a feast comprising the likes of Moroccan vegetable tagine; tomato, aubergine and mozzarella parmigiana; sirloin of Devon beef; and sticky toffee pudding with vanilla gelato.
As day turned to night, the party got into full swing, thanks to the DJ’s playlist peppered with Shoni and Lewis’ favourite tunes. “He was great at playing a lot of the rock, metal and K-pop that we requested!” she laughs. Fuelled by a delicious array of freshly baked pizzas, guests danced into the small hours, with a sparkler tunnel providing a memorable interlude in the evening drizzle.
Looking back, the pair are full of cherished memories and happy their day panned out in perfectly personal style. “Lewis took my surname – a breaking of tradition and something that we are quite proud of!” says Shoni who advocates sharing the wedding planning load with willing family and friends. “Ask your friends and family for help wherever you can and give yourselves plenty of time,” she advises. “Try and spend quality time together and remember why you are doing this all in the first place.”
Shoes Lace & Favour laceandfavour.com Hair B Studios
Suit Skopes skopes.co.uk
Flowers Fiesta Red Florist fiestared.co.uk
Décor Unique Designs by Tina uniquedesignsbytina.com
Cake Killa Confectionery killaconfectionery.co.uk
Entertainment Devon Pro Entertainments devonproentertainments.co.uk
Something Blue
Claire and Robi filled their wedding at Gara Rock with al fresco vows and shoreline strolls
From the wild romance of the north coast to the dreamy sands of the south, Devon’s coastline has played a starring role in Claire and Robi’s love story. After 10 years together, Robi asked Claire to marry him on Saunton Sands beach. “It’s a special place for us as my family used to live in the area, and I used to holiday there while growing up,” she explains.
On searching for their dream venue, it was a case of love at first sight when they arrived at Gara Rock, which is perched on the clifftops of South Devon. “As you come down the lane, the narrow lane opens up and you are met with the most spectacular view of the coastline with the bright blue sea in the background,” says Claire. Opting for an exclusive-use package meant the couple could enjoy having the hotel to themselves for a weekend of celebrations with guests who had travelled from all corners of the world. “Plus, it was dog-friendly, meaning our lab Dexter could be involved,” she adds.
A palette of blue and white complemented the coastal backdrop perfectly and carried from the elegant floral arrangements and bridesmaids’ dresses to the tables styled with blue and white linens, tapered candles, single blooms in glass vases and coastal style woven placemats. Embellished with blue and white florals, the stationery completed the picture, with portraits of the couple’s dog and cat adding a characterful touch to the signs.
An early morning sea swim with Dexter was the perfect start to the day for Claire, who enjoyed a morning of preparations with her bridal party before the al fresco ceremony on the terrace. “We always hoped we’d be able to have an outdoor ceremony to capture as much of the beautiful view as possible. Fortunately for us, the weather was absolutely perfect. We had blue skies, sunshine and a gentle sea breeze,” she says. The couple took their vows beneath a beautiful moongate arch of flowers, the ocean beyond. “It was truly the perfect setting!”
A vocalist lent her soul-stirring vocals to the ceremony and drinks reception, during which guests enjoyed Pimm’s, champagne and canapés while an artist painted live portraits. After a wedding breakfast featuring pan-fried coastal sea bream, 28-day dry aged beef fillet and white chocolate torte, Claire, Robi and the wedding party headed down to the beach for golden hour photos on the sands.
“We chose Belong Together by Mark Ambor for our first dance,” says Claire. “It was one of the last things we decided upon, but it turned out to be a perfect choice for us. It’s upbeat, a little bit casual but the lyrics also have a bit of romance to them.” Ibiza Lights then brought the party vibes, with a DJ, saxophone and bongos providing the perfect dance floor-filling formula.
Reeling from her dreamy coastal wedding, Claire struggles to pinpoint a single highlight. “It’s hard to pick a favourite moment because the whole weekend came together perfectly. We honestly wouldn’t have changed a single thing,” she says. The couple have plenty of advice for other couples in the midst of planning, however. “There’s nothing you can’t do with a good spreadsheet!” says Robi. “We used it to track everything: suppliers, guest RSVPs, food choices, allergies, seating plans, payment due dates, the works! It helped us stay organised with everything and made sure there weren’t any surprises.”
Photography Margo R Photography margorphotography.com
Videography Blooming Moments Films bloomingmomentsfilms.com
Venue Gara Rock gararock.com
Dress Made With Love from Wild Flora wild-flora.co.uk
Entertainment Clare Willcocks clarewillcocks.co.uk
Lula Weddings instagram.com/lulaweddings
The Ibiza Lights entertainment-nation.co.uk
“The whole weekend came together perfectly. We wouldn’t have changed a single thing”
PHOT O + FILM
PHOT O + FILM
Wild Woods
Alice and Chris celebrated their love with a close-to-nature wedding in the woods
Alice and Chris’ love story began on a night out in Reading. Nine years later, Chris proposed with a ring he had designed himself while the couple were visiting the Forest of Dean with their dog and six-week-old baby, Beatrix. It was an easy ‘yes’ for Alice and the nature-loving couple chose to celebrate their union in the woodland of Middle Coombe Farm, set deep in the Devon countryside.
Drawing on the natural beauty of the setting and their soon-to-be married name of Green, ‘Woods and Wild’ became the theme of the celebrations. “It was important that green featured in the décor and colour scheme, and this also enhanced the natural rustic charm of the venue. Vibrant wildflowers added a splash of colour,” explains Alice who relished bringing her vision to life, handcrafting everything from the signage and bunting to the table runners and lanterns, and styling the cider barn with homegrown seasonal flowers. “We were fortunate to be able to forage for a lot of foliage on-site to further enhance the woodland feel,” she says. “We were very grateful to have friends and family help us put it all together the day before the wedding!”
Alice’s day began with a swim and dip in the hot tub followed by the bridal preparations, decorating the cake, making flower combs and preparing a cream tea with her bridesmaids – all with four children under three in tow!
After a busy morning, she was ready to savour the tranquil woodland walk alongside her mum and bridesmaids to a mystical oak tree clearing where the ceremony took place. “The walk was like a fairytale, and the forest setting and being enveloped by love and nature was perfection,” she reflects. “We chose to write our own vows, which were very emotional. Having forgotten to print them, Chris planned on reading his from his phone but the poor signal meant they would not load! This meant his vows truly came from the heart.” Looking back, this was Alice’s standout moment of the day. “He revealed all of himself in that moment. It was a feeling of utter acceptance and love,” she says.
After a confetti shower of home-grown roses, the newlyweds toasted their union with a Devon cream tea served amongst the trees. “My dad then changed into his town crier outfit and performed the most incredible cry that bellowed and echoed across the valley!” says Alice. “It was breathtaking and so special as this is a hobby that my dad and I share.”
Packed with locally sourced produce, the sharing-style wedding feast included chicken in creamy cider and chestnut sauce, slow-cooked lamb, pulled jackfruit and roasted vegetable Wellington.
As day turned to night, Alice changed into an Art Deco-style evening gown to take to the floor for the first dance. “We had spent three short hours with a dance teacher to learn a Strictly-style dance to Rather Be by Clean Bandit and we twirled around the floor in complete euphoria. The moment the dance finished and all our loved ones joined us to party was completely unforgettable and radiated love and joy. It was the best moment of my life,” she reflects. Revellers then partied the night away to the couple’s personalised playlist followed by a glowstick rave into the small hours.
“Give yourself the time to enjoy it!” says Alice by way of advice for other couples. “Don’t plan for next year – plan for the year after to allow yourself time to enjoy it, think about the details and not cause unnecessary stress.”
Suit Simon Dowling Bespoke simondowlingbespoke.com
Bride’s hair Kelly Hampson
Bridemaids’ hair Keziah, Radius Hair
Make-up Ella Butler facebook.com/makeupbyellabutler
Flowers Bude Blooms budeblooms.co.uk
Catering Titley Green titleygreen.co.uk
Cake Helen Stentiford
Cheese cake The Westcountry Cheese Co westcountrycheese.co.uk
Favours Macmillan Cancer Support macmillan.org.uk
“Being
enveloped by love and nature in the woods was perfection”
Rural Romance
Bella and Mat made their wedding at The Oak Barn a relaxed celebration full of personal touches
Meeting through mutual friends at Durham University, Mat asked Bella to go on a dog walk one day – and romance blossomed. Six years later, the couple were camping in northern Spain when Mat popped the question atop a cliff, with a beautiful sunset as the scenic backdrop.
“I am from Devon and always wanted to get married here,” says Bella, who fell in love with the idyllic location, celebration spaces and accommodation of The Oak Barn. “The venue felt very ‘us’ – it is beautiful and relaxed at the same time, down to the fact that you can really make it your own,” she says.
Personal touches and nods to Devon were woven throughout their celebrations, which stretched across four days. “The lead-up to the wedding included exploring the beautiful countryside of Dartmoor and a cocktail masterclass,” says Bella. Opting for a palette of pastel shades to complement the rustic spaces of the barn, the couple dotted the tables with posies of wildflowers they had arranged themselves. “We collected candles, candleholders and table decorations,” she says. “We received lots of compliments for our personal choice of table numbers. We made a series of ‘when we were one, two, three…’ cards with photos of us at that age. This small touch went a long way!”
Flanked by bridesmaids in soft blue, Bella donned a vintage boho style gown for the al fresco ceremony led by the couple’s close friend Promeet. “Promeet has known us both since before the start of our relationship, so it felt really fitting and personal to have him lead the ceremony,” Mat explains. “He wrote a beautiful script for the ceremony, which was personal and really captured the essence of our relationship.”
After the ceremony, guests tucked into a homemade cream tea served on vintage china followed by a hog roast and fresh salads. A dessert table filled with cakes, brownies and cookies homemade by friends and family provided the sweet endnote to the flavoursome feast before guests spilled out into the scenic grounds for mingling and garden games in the late afternoon sun. A 30-person competitive game of Flunkyball – a German game testing your hand-eye coordination and drinking skills – proved a highlight. “We were enjoying this space so much we kept pushing our first dance back to enjoy the last of the evening sun!” says Bella.
When the couple’s first dance did finally get underway, “it was just a lot of fun and we got everyone to join in dancing halfway through! It was to Automobile by Kaleo, an Icelandic band we have been going to see for years,” Mat explains. “It’s a song that we listened to a lot very early in our relationship. It’s all about going on an adventure, which felt very right for our wedding day!”
A hearty buffet of homemade Scotch eggs, pasties, cured meats and local cheeses ensured guests were full of energy for a night of dancing, with a DJ providing the dance floor-filling music. “I’ll never forget Sheila, Mat’s 91-year-old grandma, tearing up the dance floor!” laughs Bella.
Reflecting on their festivities in the Devon countryside, the newlyweds have some wise words for other engaged couples. “Be true to yourselves – there’s no right and wrong with weddings, but rather ‘right for you’ and ‘wrong for you’,” says Bella. “Plan a wedding you’d like to attend and there’s a high chance everyone else will too!”
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“We kept pushing our first dance back to enjoy the last of the evening sun”
Better Together
Rosie and Matt filled their clifftop celebrations at Bigbury Bay Weddings with colour and DIY details
Meeting at a Plymouth high school at the age of 18, Rosie and Matt became friends before they started dating. On their 10-year anniversary, the couple spent a weekend in the Cotswolds. “We went for a hike to Cam Peak, where Matt showed me a short video he’d made of clips of our 10 years together, before proposing with a bespoke ring he’d designed featuring an aquamarine - the same stone as my mum’s engagement ring,” says Rosie.
A beachside venue was a must for the couple, who share a love of the Devon coast. “Bigbury and Bantham beach have always been special to my family with many birthdays and achievements celebrated on Bigbury especially,” says Rosie. “Once we arrived at Bigbury Bay Weddings and saw the spectacular view we just knew it was where we should get married!”
Choosing a sophisticated pastel rainbow palette with lots of plants and flowers, including peonies, dahlias and camomile, Rosie and Matt love crafting and wanted to make all the details of the wedding completely unique. They made everything including the candle-holders, frames and pots, with friends and family pitching in to help source or make the design elements. Rosie designed all the wedding stationery which included her illustration of the stunning view from the venue.
Getting legally married before the wedding meant their clifftop ceremony could be led by their friend William. “He made it into something so personal and funny, and captured us as a couple perfectly!” she says. With Rosie’s family dog, Teddy, as the ring-bearer, Rosie and Matt then exchanged their own handwritten vows. “We both managed to keep it together and live in the moment of the day. It was just so special to be able to create our perfect ceremony and make it so personal,” she says.
After the ceremony, pasties, prosecco and beers were served in the top garden, with hand-marbled glasses created by Rosie for each guest to use and keep as a wedding favour. A musician provided an acoustic soundtrack as the couple headed off to a nearby field for photos. “We could see the wedding from a distance with everyone enjoying themselves,” says Rosie. “It was an amazing sense of achievement.”
Adopting a relaxed approach to the wedding feast, guests feasted on burgers, sausages, chicken, salads and chips followed by cheesecakes and a biscuit bar filled with the couple’s favourite sweet treats, including ginger biscuits made from Rosie’s nana’s recipe. Coldplay’s Yellow was the couple’s first dance song, performed by The Nashville Heat. “We all sang and danced together; it was such a special moment!” says Rosie. “Then they really brought the party. They had us all congaing around the marquee picking up biscuits from the bar en route! Everyone danced and sang and just had the best time, which is all we could ask for.”
Looking back, the couple are grateful for the “team effort” that went into creating such a meaningful wedding day. “Both Matt and I were as involved as each other; we each crafted, designed and decided on the whole thing together and it was really a wedding for us both,” she reflects. “Also, on the day Matt and I made a promise to stick together: talk to everyone together, eat with each other, get drinks with each other. It meant we actually experienced the day together.”
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“Everyone danced and sang all evening and just had the best time”
Times Like These
Ellie and Liam packed their romantic rural wedding with personality and heartfelt moments
Meeting via a dating app in February 2020, Ellie and Liam instantly hit it off before the first Covid lockdown stopped them spending more time together. Recognising that they’d found something special, however, the couple moved in together in May to ensure they kept to the Covid rules. “My friends and family were slightly concerned I was moving in with a stranger from the internet so quickly, but it all worked out with a happy ending!” says Ellie, who got engaged to Liam after he proposed at the top of Arthur’s Seat while the comedy-loving couple attended Edinburgh fringe festival.
Deciding on Ash Barton Estate as the setting for their wedding, a palette of burgundy, gold and brass carried through the details of their relaxed and personality-packed day. “We wanted a casual, fun theme and tried to be as sustainable as possible,” says Ellie.
With Liam’s childhood friend taking the role of celebrant, the ceremony took place in the chapel strewn with fairy lights. “We designed the ceremony to be important and meaningful but not religious,” explains Ellie. “We wrote our own vows and our guests partook in a ring-warming ritual to be part of our union. We also included a German wedding tradition where we sawed through a log to symbolise working together to overcome obstacles – this was a big hit with the guests and a fun spectacle to keep the energy in the room!”
After showering the newlyweds with confetti, everyone gathered in the walled garden for drinks, canapés and a live bird of prey show. “We love bird-watching!”, explains Ellie. “This was followed by my mum playing the guests into dinner with her bagpipes.” In a nod to the couple’s love of travelling, the cuisine had flavour influences from all over the world, including cajun prawns and jerk halloumi, lemongrass and Thai green monkfish and steak with Argentinian chimichurri, while the dessert was a special banoffee pie made with Liam’s late sister’s recipe.
Cocktail hour in the gardens allowed guests to enjoy the golden light and rural panoramas before the first dance to an acoustic version of Foo Fighters’ Times Like These. “Foo Fighters were Liam’s sister’s favourite band; she sadly passed away when Liam was in his 20s, so this was a chance to make sure she was included in the day and celebrated as an important part of our lives,” explains Ellie. Live band Fever Heat kept the party in full swing, with guests dancing into the small hours.
Looking back, the speeches stand out as a particular highlight for the couple. “Everyone did such an amazing job. They were hilarious and poignant, and I loved seeing our best friends, Liam and my parents, deliver them so flawlessly!” says Ellie, who also reflects on the many personal elements they wove into their day. “I loved the unique bits that we designed as surprises for our guests. These really made our personalities shine through, and we still get people talking about them months later, especially the falconry show, with guests being able to hold a golden eagle, and the wood cutting,” she reminisces.
“My advice is to mix the necessary admin with the fun creative bits,” she says. “And book an on-the-day coordinator! This is a must, so you can truly enjoy the day and not worry about any logistics or supplier management on the day.”
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“We designed the ceremony to be important and meaningful”
“It was a cold winter’s day with a fresh frost and all the candles were lit”
Midwinter Magic
Pollyanna and Marcus’ winter wedding at Huntsham Court was a party to remember
“We met the ‘modern way’ during 2014 – the year anyone and everyone was on Tinder!” laughs Pollyanna. After seven years of dating, the couple were at Marcus’ family beach house in Norfolk when he asked her to marry him. “We were up there very early one morning looking down at the sea,” she says. “I thought Marcus had bent down to grab our swimming costumes, but he ended up getting on one knee and proposing!”
Deciding on a midwinter wedding in the Devon countryside, the couple chose the elegant setting of Huntsham Court for their manor house celebrations. The family tartan was the starting point for planning the décor. “Marcus’ family has a tartan called Ancient Davidson, so I leant into that with lots of greenery, whites and purple thistles,” explains Pollyanna.
Their friends and family arrived at Huntsham Court the night before the wedding, where they started the celebrations early with pizzas washed down with champagne. Despite the drama of an estate-wide power cut the next morning, Pollyanna was ready for the 1.30pm ceremony – and her arrival stands out as one of her most treasured memories.
“Walking down the stairs with my mum and maid of honour, then walking into the Great Hall where my family and bridesmaids were waiting and cheering for the big reveal was one of my favourite parts of the day,” she remembers. Choosing to wed in the ancient village church, located just along the venue’s driveway, Pollyanna dazzled in a striking Jesus Peiro gown, with Marcus in bespoke trews in the family tartan and a Bonnie Prince Charlie jacket.
“I had to walk down the aisle alone as my dress was so wide!” says Pollyanna. “We had three readings from Marcus’ uncle and my two stepparents and then three hymns. It was a cold winter’s day with a fresh frost and all the candles were lit – it was incredibly atmospheric. I walked into Bittersweet Symphony on strings and we walked out to Crazy Little Thing Called Love!”
Back at Huntsham Court, a champagne reception took place in the Great Hall to the resplendent sounds of a string quartet, whetting the guests’ appetites for an exquisite wedding feast. “We walked into dinner to everyone cheering and spinning their napkins above their heads!” laughs Pollyanna, who did a speech alongside her maid of honour, dad, husband and Marcus’ godfather and best man.
Enjoying two courses at tables styled with candelabras and stems of white blooms, starters of smoked duck breast and crispy gnocchi were followed by mains of chicken breast with dauphinoise potatoes, balsamic shallot, ham hock fritter and organic greens, and squash, sage and goat’s cheese strudel. Puddings were enjoyed in the library, alongside a selection of cakes made by Pollyanna’s mum.
The evening saw the bride changing into a party-ready dress and sparkly cloak for their first dance to Amy Winehouse and Mark Ronson’s version of Valerie. “Everyone crashed the dance floor after the first verse – it was wild; completely raucous!” says Pollyanna. “We partied into the night and were last to bed around 4am!”
Her top tips for busily planning couples are centred around organisation. “Start early and try to knock the big things off – if you want a big band, book very very early,” she advises. “Figure out what aspects are important to you; for us it was the dance floor so we decided on a band and booked that first, and then worked the budget and everything else around that.”
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The Wilds of Dartmoor
Laura and Alex threw a small, wildflowerfilled wedding at Southcombe Barn
Meeting at a climbing centre near their home in Hampshire, Alex plucked up the courage to say hello to Laura. “From that day on, we were inseparable as friends, heading out on climbing, hiking and wild camping adventures around Europe and the UK,” says Laura. “During this time, I fell in love with Alex’s zest for life and adventurous spirit.” The adventurous couple were on a camping trip in Chile when – with beautiful mountain peaks soaring above them – Alex got down on one knee and popped the question.
Having previously stayed at Southcombe Barn on Dartmoor – rather dreamily in a four-poster bed in a wildflower meadow – the couple asked the owners if they would be happy to host a small wedding. “We’re so glad they said yes!” says Laura.
As a small girl, Laura was inspired by the wedding scene in Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves and wove a ‘wild woodland’ and ‘wildflower meadow’ theme, reminiscent of the film, into the details of their day. Vashti from Southcombe Barn created the bouquet, table flowers and wooden arch using flowers and twine from the gardens.
Celebrating over three days, the guests arrived on Friday and enjoyed lunch in the sunny meadow followed by sauna, beers and swimming in the on-site wild swimming pond for the gents, and yoga, a gong bath, herbal tea and chocolate for the ladies. Rejoining for dinner in the beer garden at a nearby inn, the sun allowed them all to be outside for most of the day.
But the weather had other ideas on the wedding day. “It rained and it poured!” says Laura. “We were supposed to have an outdoor ceremony and dinner under tree canopies. But with last-minute changes, we still had the most magical day.”
The barn was decorated with wildflowers, candles and an aisle sprinkled with petals for the ceremony. With Laura’s “grumpy mini dachshund” acting as ring-bearer, the couple incorporated some very special meaning into their celebrations. “Both of our dads have passed away but we made sure they were present: Alex’s ring was made from the gold of his dad’s wedding ring and my dad still got to walk me down the aisle. Before he passed away, he said: ‘Always look for me in the blackbirds, I’ll be there.’ I had a lovely clay blackbird nestled into the most beautiful bouquet to accompany me.”
Dinner was a rustic affair: guests enjoyed a selection of curries followed by a lemon cake in the barn, which was decorated with wildflowers from the garden, mismatched floral cutlery and cosy fur rugs on benches.
As the sun began to set, the newlyweds ventured onto Dartmoor’s rocky heights for photos. “The rain cleared and unveiled the most picturesque pink sky over the moors,” says Laura. “As magical as the whole day was, it was when we were up on the moors, balanced on rocks and kissing in the wind that we felt most us.” Another magical moment was to come later that evening, after the couple had performed their well-practised first dance to Songbird by Eva Cassidy and a silent disco began around the firepit. “We loved dancing under the stars with our loved ones, we were all so full of joy! If you really want to get people to ‘let go’ and dance then we recommend a silent disco.”
Laura couldn’t recommend an intimate wedding more highly. “With 12 of us in total, it meant that we could spend quality time with each of our favourites on the day. It also meant that we got enough time together,” she says. “And other friends and family didn’t miss out – we threw a big garden party the following weekend when we got home.”
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“It was when we were up on the moors, balanced on rocks and kissing in the wind that we felt most us”
Plan a so-you celebration with these top tips from the wedding gurus. This issue, we look at ideas for making your guests feel welcome
NOTES ON A WEDDING
Stay refreshed. Providing refreshments prior to the ceremony (not just after) is sure to welcome your guests. If your guests are arriving to set up camp earlier, hire a snack van that serves hot snacks or a much-needed coffee. Maddie
Welcome pack. If your wedding includes accommodation on-site, go that extra mile by leaving your guests a little welcome bag in their rooms. This could include things such as an itinerary of the weekend, a map of the local area including recommendations, a drinks token and a snack for those late evening munchies or a hangover pack for the day after. Beckie
Get started early. Nothing will make your wedding guests feel more welcome than extending the celebrations with a pre-wedding welcome event. Keep it casual with a relaxed environment where guests can mingle, connect and get to know each other before the big day. Jessica
Talking tech. Create a wedding website to house all the information for your special day with an option for your guests to leave RSVP comments about how excited they are. Maddie
Make it personal. Use photos of each guest in the style of ‘find your face, take your place’ for an alternative and interactive replacement for the traditional table plan, or hire a wedding illustrator to capture each guest as a keepsake. Beckie
Whatever the weather. If it’s hot, provide fans on seats for the ceremony that guests can carry with them all day and, for cool evenings, add some blankets in the casual seating area for guests to use. Maddie
Hit the dance floor. Incorporating a song request into your wedding RSVPs is a fun and interactive way to personally engage your guests in the day. Not only will it get them on the dance floor, it will also create a playlist that reflects the tastes of your favourite people! Jessica
Get crafty. Make a guest book table with a Polaroid camera and pens for everyone to leave you a special message or set up a ‘build your own Lego mini figure’ station, where guests build themselves and you frame them as a keepsake of your day. Maddie
Nice notes. Writing a personalised note for each guest will add a unique and intimate touch. They will make your guests feel extra special and appreciated, enhancing their overall experience of your day. Jessica
Party time. Supply flips-flops for your guests, whether it’s to ease sore feet in the evening or to keep them comfortable all day long if you’re planning a beach wedding. Maddie
Sitting pretty. Be thoughtful with the seating plan – seat guests with people they know or who they are likely to have something in common with. This small gesture will make a huge difference to their experience. Jessica
Bathroom baskets. Stock some ‘refresh stations’ in the bathrooms with all the essentials your guests will need but might not think to bring.
Book an artist to capture each guest for a fun keepsake
Organise an event for guests to meet the day before the wedding Gigi & Olive’s hangover kit will be welcome the morning after!
Provide flip-flops to ease your guests’ aching feet
Provide umbrellas for an outdoor ceremony - just in case!
A wedding website keeps guests in the loop with the plans
Blankets will ensure your guests keep warm during the evening Serve guests coffees and snacks before the ceremony
Keep guests cool with these personalised fans from Gigi & Olive
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Cornwall Caricatures
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Stock your bathrooms with items your guests might need
Engage guests in the fun by asking them to pick songs for the playlist A personalised note for each guest will be a welcome touch
Fill welcome bags with handy items for the celebrations
A gift box from April & Bloom is a luxe way to treat your guests
