Musa Hill

Relationship Propaganda

Musa Hill

People often think that being in a relationship is so much better than being single. Some

also think the opposite. In all reality though, being in a relationship is very similar to being

single. Depending on your sensibilities of course. You can share many of the same freedoms

in both scenarios. The similarities between the two are eye popping.

Being in a relationship you can be with other partners. You just have to be a little

more discreet than when you are single. Being in a relationship you have an allotment of

females who will go out with you. When you’re single you go out with whoever you want to.

Much like in a relationship if you are “unfaithful”. Single life makes you a hot commodity on

the market. Being in a relationship has the same effect, but maybe greater. Relationship life

and single life are alike in your availability.

The common knock on single life is that you get lonely. People claim being in a

relationship you will never be lonely. They say you have a rock. Someone you can always

lean on. That is not true. It is not entirely true at least. Being in a relationship you get lonely

a lot. When you’re young and you both have schools to go to and jobs to work you won’t

have alot of free time. You will get lonely and irritated. Relationships will not prevent

loneliness because of how little you will be together. Being single you have to play the

numbers game. You won’t have any one specific person that you know will swing by. So

that leads to you contacting all of your options. Sometimes every single option will be busy

or unwilling. Then you will be lonely. Being single is self explanatory. You are single. Just

one. By yourself. Living life as a singular being, not attached tosomeone. So naturally being

single you get lonely. Maybe more than when you are not but maybe not. There is a

common misconception only single people get lonely. Being in a relationship or single you

will get lonely regardless.

Being in a long enough relationship you get bored. You just are talking to the same

person day in and day out. Everything gets predictable and monotonous. You might

introduce a mistress to spice things up, but that gets boring too. You lose interest in being

in a relationship and become saddened by day to day reality. You just start to really long to

be out of the relationship and single again. Being single for too long the exact same thing

can happen. You learn that you don’t like everyone you hang around as much as you

thought youdid. You get into a routine of contacting the same people at the same hours

that becomes unbearable. You get so bored that all you do is long to find the one and get

into a relationship.

Being in a relationship and being single have the same long term effects. They both

will make you lonely, bored, and adventurous. The only difference is the names. They are so

similar because being single is just being in a relationship with being by yourself. So they

are both forms of relationships. They are similar for that very reason.