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REAL WEDDINGS

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PLANTATION, COUNTRYSIDE, BEACHSIDE,GLAMOROUS.

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WHY BARBADOS IS THE BEST LOCATION FOR YOUR DREAM WEDDING

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editor’s notes Congratulations to the lovely brideLIFE team on their first publication! And congratulations to you, the happy couple, who have decided to say your I do’s in Barbados. No one has learnt more about weddings in the past four months that I have. My own nuptials were 12 years ago and while they were perfect in every way for me I’ve been inspired by the blossoms, colours and themes that are presented to you here. More so, it’s really made me look at this lovely island I call home and realise how much it has to offer as a wedding destination, a honeymoon destination and overall as a place with good people and wonderful memories just waiting to happen!

julie murphy EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

A special thank you to the Sandeman’s for letting us shoot at their gorgeous villa Monkey Business, and to Sunbury House and The Cliff for the use of their grounds for our bridal shots. These two venues are among our favourites on the island. Most of all, I’ve learnt how much energy the players in this industry put into ensuring a bride’s dream turns into reality; the same energy was given over to the brideLIFE team and I want to thank everyone who was involved; from our fabulous caterers Patisserie Flindt and Country House Caterers to our wonderful photographers, stylists and models, this was a first class experience for everyone! Let’s do it again soon!!!! Be sure to stop by our new website for weekly updates, guest blogs, tips, brideLIFE recommended vendors and all you need for your perfect island holiday. For now we invite you to learn a little more about this glorious island. From the wild rugged East coast to the decadent dining on the West. Feast your eyes on our gorgeous ‘brides’ as they model the latest fashion from The White Dress by the Shore; and learn a little more about our culture, our beautiful shorelines and the many ways we can make your special day simply spectacular. Welcome to brideLIFE and we welcome you to Barbados; We promise you an experience you will never forget!

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candice coppola

beth chapman

tenika tang

loop barbados

kia foster-blades

julie chalbaud

FROM LEFT: Julie Murphy, Carol-Ann Gollop, Malissa Blackman, Tanya Franco & Sarita Pile

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MANAGING DIRECTOR

malissa blackman EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

julie murphy CREATIVE DIRECTOR + WEB EDITOR

carol-ann gollop

ADVERTISING EXECUTIVES

sarita pile & tanya franco DESIGN & LAYOUT

designers coast melanie weekes OTHER STYLE MODELS kia foster-blades & jalicia nightengale FEATURED ON THE COVER

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EDITOR’S NOTES............................................................ 6 CONTRIBUTORS............................................................. 8 BRIDELIFE TEAM . . ........................................................... 9 WHY BARBADOS? BY CANDICE COPPOLA....................... 12 GETTING MARRIED IN BARBADOS.................................. 13 BLOOMS...................................................................... 14 COLOUR PALETTES . . ..................................................... 28 CAKES . . ....................................................................... 36 PLANTATION STYLE.. ..................................................... 46 E D I T O R I A L

LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION.................................. 58 COUNTRYSIDE STYLE.. .................................................. 62

E D I T O R I A L

EAT DRINK & BE MERRY................................................ 74 BEACHSIDE STYLE . . ...................................................... 78

E D I T O R I A L

DANCING, LAUGHING & PARTYING UNTIL SUNRISE.......... 86 GLAM STYLE................................................................ 90

E D I T O R I A L

ADD SOME FLAIR OR KEEP IT SIMPLE . . .......................... 108

BRIDESMAIDS............................................................. 112 REAL

W EDDINGS

KEVIN & TATIANA................................................... 118 JASON & SALLY..................................................... 122 ALYSON & ADAM . . .................................................. 126 MARK & NADIA...................................................... 130 BARBADOS BY DAY, BY NIGHT...................................... 138 INVITATIONS . . .............................................................. 142 GETTING STARTED . . ..................................................... 146 TRASH THE DRESS...................................................... 148 VENDOR LISTINGS....................................................... 152

CANDICE COPPOLA At Jubilee Events we create highly stylized, highly detailed weddings and events for our clients. Our aim is to give the bride, groom and their guests an experience they will never forget. Any successful event planner knows that there are several key factors that make an event a successful experience for all those who attend. For me the most important aspect of getting it all right, is having the right team. I’ve worked with clients all over the world, from Costa Rica to France, Spain to New Orleans; but my experience working with the brideLIFE team in Barbados this summer has been truly unforgettable. Let me make myself clear. I LOVE this island. I love the coasts, the country, and especially the people. From the gorgeous wildlife on the East to the mesmerizing sunsets in the West, the plantation houses, the villas, natural woods and more; Barbados offers such a vast array of venue options for any bride thinking of her Caribbean wedding. What I especially loved was the cultural history of the island. Many people gloss over this with visions of steel pan and limbo and smiling faces in straw hats, but learning about Barbados’ rich history has been fascinating! It’s romantic, it’s wild, it’s rustic and full of charm but what I think was the biggest surprise was just how luxurious the island is. Not only are the beaches exquisite, the venues are magnificent, the scenery divine, the people friendly and professional and the quality of work high. Meeting the team at The Cliff was definitely a highlight for me. The Cliff is simply magical, there is no better way to end the day than sipping a cocktail, basking in the warm glow of the sunset and drinking in the serene ocean below. Working with the team of Donna, Kia and Kirk over the weekend on the bridal shoot confirmed to me that this island does indeed want for nothing in terms of professionalism. Dining at the various restaurants and our stay at Oceans 2 confirmed it has mastered the service industry. When planning a destination wedding, we in the industry need creative collaborators with high standards, an eye for detail, and a commitment to seeing the event through from the arrival of the bridal party on the island to the farewell and bon voyage! The entire process comes down to everyone working in synergy so absolutely everything, the look, the feel, the taste, the smell the ambiance all come together to create something truly memorable. This little gem of an island has it all: Romance, culture, vogue, country and of course island chic. One minute we are relaxing on the beach and half an hour later we are touring a centuries old plantation house, marveling at the picturesque Cherry Tree Hill or being windswept by the cool Atlantic breezes over at Bathsheba. After my time here, I’ve come to realize that Barbados has captured my heart and taken my breath away, I know it will do the same for you. Candice Coppola is the Owner/Creative Director of Jubilee Events in Connecticut.

Getting married in Barbados is very easy. There is no waiting period or minimum length of stay to get married in Barbados. Application for a marriage license must be made by both parties in person, at the office of the Ministry of Home Affairs in Bridgetown (Tel: 246-228-8950).

DOCUMENTS REQUIRED

HELPFUL INFORMATION

Valid Passports or the original or certified copies of the applicantsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; birth certificates;

CHURCH WEDDING.

If either party was married previously and widowed, a certified copy of the marriage certificate and death certificate in respect of the deceased spouse; If either party was divorced , an original decree absolute or a certified copy of Final Judgment not decree Nisi. If either party was previously married and widowed, a Certified copy of the Marriage Certificate and Death Certificate in respect of the deceased spouse. Where necessary, all documents not in English must be accompanied by a certified translation. A marriage may be solemnized immediately after the issue of the licence. A letter from your marriage officer stating the date and time of the wedding. $25 BDS stamp fee for overseas couples and $10 BDS for Barbadian Citizens

If the Bride and Groom decide that they want to get married in a church, the couple needs a written confirmation from their priest that they are both practicing Christians and have participated in pre-marital counselling.

ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH. If you are requesting a Roman Catholic Church wedding these are the requirements needed: Parties must be interviewed by their Parish Priest in the home Diocese of the Catholic party. It is he who will undertake the necessary investigations, obtain a dispensation if required and provide information about participation in a pre-marriage preparation programme. Your Parish Priest will then forward the relevant papers to his Diocesan Chancery. The chancery should then send them well in advance, to the Diocesan office in Barbados. The Sacrament of Marriage may not be performed on Holy Saturday. JEWISH SYNAGOGUE. There is no Rabbi in Barbados and non-Jews are not allowed to use the Synagogue. Those who would like to get married in the Synagogue must bring their own Rabbi. There is a rental fee of US$1,500. For further information about the Synagogue and couples may contact Jimmy Altman at: altman@caribsurf.com

$200 BDS for Marriage License for overseas couple or $45 BDS for Barbadian Citizens.

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BLOOMS

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POSEY STYLE OR CASCADING

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Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Bouquet by Victoria Florist A tied bouquet consisting of pink lisianthius, baby pink spray roses, pink wax flowers, white lisianthius.

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Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Bouquet by Simply Flowers A c a s c a d e b o u q u e t c o n s i s t i n g o f m a n g o c a l l a l i l y, g r e e n c y m b i d i u m orchids, burgundy carnations, burgundy dendrobium orchids, red berries, cream roses, psittacorum heliconia. 17

Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Flowers by Victoria Florist A tied bouquet consisting of pink lisianthius, baby pink spray roses, pink wax flowers, white lisianthius. 18

Photography by Jake Thomas A cascade bouquet consisting of green cymbidium orchids, orange tiger lilies, pink ginger lilies, fuchsia roses, fuchsia carnations, green button chrysanthemums, psittacorum heliconias.

Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Flowers by Robert Carter of Petals Paradise A hand tied posey of tropical Barbadian flowers, such as red anthiriums, yellow dendrobium orchids and orange exocticas. 20

Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Flowers by Robert Carter of Petals Paradise A cascade bouquet with a combination of dendrobium orchids in different shades of purple and white dendrobium orchids with accents of purple crytals.

Photography by Himal Reece Bouquet by Kelsnick A hand tied posey green cymbidium orchids, orange high and magic roses, lilac roses, purple lisianthius, fuchsia roses, red roses, red berries. 22

Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Bouquet by Victoria Florists A hand tied posey of tropical Barbadian flowers, such as, mini purple anthirimums, red anthirimums, pink ginger lilies, miniature Indonesian wax gingers and green berries. 24

Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Bouquet by Simply Flowers A neat hand tied posey consisting of cream roses, baby pink wax flowers, cream gerbera daisies, pastel lime green lisianthius, baby pink spray roses, large cream carnations, green berries with the stems wrapped in baby pink lace trimmings.

COLOUR

PALETTES The main colour of this theme is a very rich purple with an accent of lime green. The lime stone environment allows the eggplant colour to pop and stand out with a luxurious feel to the setting.

Grape Sensation

Be inspired b y colour

Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Dinnerware, glassware, candles, shells and silver balls provided by Walkers World Flowers by Victoria Florists Located at Private Villa, “Monkey Business” Designed by Weddings by Malissa Chair rentals by Marquee Events C h a i r s a s h r e n t a l s b y L e a n d r e ’s R e n t a l s I n c S t a t i o n e r y b y “ I t ’s A D a t e B a r b a d o s ”

COLOUR

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Rustical

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A very rustic tropical theme using quintessential tropical colours in a lush gully setting. The restored wooden dining table combined with the right accessories creates a warm and elegant atmosphere. 30

Intimate

charm

Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Dinnerware, glassware and candles provided by Walkers World Flowers by Simply Flowers Located at Private Villa, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Monkey Businessâ&#x20AC;? Designed by Weddings by Malissa

COLOUR

PALETTES White tones using the flowers and the sea shells in the large glass vase. These dĂŠcor components help create a very modern and fresh feel to the table setting. Modern tones and dĂŠcor definitely help highlight a beach scene or theme. We used a lime green accent colour to help break up the amount of white and add a bit of texture as well.

Seashells by the Seashore

Coastal &

fresh

Photography by Kirk Watkins Photography Designed and created by Robert Carter of Petals Paradise Located by The Cliff Restaurant Chair rentals by Marquee Events Ta b l e r e n t a l b y S a r a h R a y s i d e

CAKES

TIERS, CUPCAKES... FANCY OR SIMPLE

Petits fours covered in white fondant icing accessorized with floral and starfish accents, made of edible gum paste.

CAKES BY ANNALISE

Have your cake & eat i t t o o !

3-tiered wedding cake covered in fondant icing, airbrushed to portray a tropical island theme. The coconut trees and bamboo piping are all made of edible gum paste.

3-tiered round wedding cake covered in off-white fondant icing with accents of real shells and gum paste starfish in blue tones. The piping in-between each tier represents the waves in the ocean, and the â&#x20AC;&#x153;sandâ&#x20AC;? is made up of crushed graham crackers.

Top right corner: Small 3-tiered square cake covered in off-white fondant icing and covered with white shimmer dust. The flowers are real white cymbidium orchids. This cake is perfect for a simple and elegant wedding.

Bottom right corner: Large 3-tiered wedding cake covered in white fondant icing with a large white rose on the top made of edible gum paste. All the blue and green flowers are real, and each tier has an embossed diamond shape detail with silver beads.

CAKES

BEVERLEY MARSHALL

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An opera gateau cake covered with different sizes of thin milk chocolate, topped with fresh raspberries and decorated with butterflies. Bottom left corner: simple 4-tiered round wedding cake covered in white fondant icing with 3 fresh orange/ yellow dendrobium orchids and a gray satin ribbon. Bottom middle: A white chocolate dome cake on a chocolate mousse with fresh berries. Bottom right corner: 2-tiered square wedding cake covered in white fondant icing and accented with fresh shells, starfish and coral.

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CAKES

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Mmmm... sweet s t u f f !

3-tiered round wedding cake covered in an off-white fondant icing, with scalloped draping and orange calla lilies made of edible gum paste.

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“Belle” by Jenny Yoo US$1450: Chantilly lace and tulle boatneck reception dress “Regina” floral fascinator by Bijou Van Ness US$395 Jessica Simpson blush patent shoe US$75 Ring by Diamonds International Barbados Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Photo by Kirk Watkins Photography

Audrey

“Audrey” by Amy Kuschel US$3250: Chantilly lace trimmed sheath with ¾ length sleeves. “Grande Fleur Cloche” by Bijou Van Ness US$375 Diamond Ring by Diamonds International Barbados Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Photos by Kirk Watkins Photography

Etoille

“Etoille” by Ivy and Aster US$2640: Strapless tulle and sequined blush gown “Something Old Collection” Miriam Haskell vintage Mobe pearl cluster earrings circa 1970 US$495 “Something Old Collection” Miraim Haskell vintage glass pearl necklace circa 1950 US$800 “Something Old Collection” Miriam Haskell vintage locket circa 1950 US$600 Diamond Ring by Diamonds International Barbados Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Photos by Kirk Watkins Photography 53

Collette

“Collette” by Amy Kuschel US$2500: Organza cap sleeve gown with lattice embroidery Headpiece: Tulle and beaded sash US$375 Feather and crystal comb by Kristina Eaton US$425 “Something Old Collection” Miriam Haskell vintage Mobe pearl cluster earrings circa 1970 US$495 “Humbie” Badgley Mischka shoes US$200 Ring by Diamonds International Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Photos by Kirk Watkins Photography 55

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Location... Location... Location...

ONE TO WATCH

THE SUNRISE THE OTHER TO WATCH

THE SUNSET

when planning your destination wedding, it’s all about location,

location, location! While Barbados offers a stunning melange of settings, from coastal to country, inevitably brides will be lulled to our sun kissed shores by the coastline and it’s promise of sand between your toes romanticism. In this our inaugural edition we’ve chosen to highlight our beautiful shores and the endless possibilities they represent. As Barbados is the most easterly of the Caribbean islands it enjoys both the calm serene waters of the Caribbean Sea and the wild allure of the Atlantic and so we’ve chosen to highlight our favourite venues on either coast. As the sun rises in the East we’ve headed out to Atlantis Hotel in Tent Bay, St. Joseph to discover a hideaway that encapsulates everything that Barbados represents and is perfect for hosting a truly unique tropical soiree. As manager and head chef Manny Ward explains, Atlantis is the perfect venue for couples looking for picturesque symbolism for their new journey together. “This is where the day begins in Barbados, what better place to start your new life together, the day is all yours, from beginning to end.” Atlantis offers more than a sea side getaway, it’s an adventure in itself! Built in the late 18th century the hotel offers breathtaking panoramic views of the vibrant Atlantic coast and prides itself of offering authentic Barbadian luxury. Renovated in 2009, the main house has 8 spacious rooms facing the coast and 2 two bedroom self contained apartments a short hop away from the ocean below. It’s ideal for wedding parties looking for self contained accommodation and a spacious venue for hosting the perfect island wedding. The decor is old world, stylish yet uncomplicated with a hint of decadence long gone, you could forgive yourself for expecting a young Liz Taylor and Harry Belafonte to make an appearance. The main dining hall features open shutters on three sides that draw in the breeze, the view and the island flavour itself, a long saloon style bar to one side and a smaller more private arbor nestles unassumingly to the other. The covered veranda provides a more exposed viewpoint of the charming fishing boats that dot the coastline amid the coconut trees and a breezier option for those wishing to be one with the landscape. Manny explains it can cater to up to 160 guests, making it an unusual prize as far as boutique hotels go.

is without argument, barbados’s most famous dining experience, everything about it is simply dramatic.

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“the Cliff

Atlantis has become a fast favourite among locals who want a tropical experience with a distinct island feel but without feeling too close to home, it’s the ideal getaway. We love the idea of taking it over completely. Ceremony on the beach or by the pool, cocktails and dinner in the dining hall and dancing on the veranda, guests can pop back to their rooms to freshen up and from daybreak to twilight the occasion flows as one big celebration. Catering options are by no means condensed, with over 23 years in the business Manny knows how to host a party. Surf and Turf, International, A la Carte, Buffet, no menu is too large a challenge and Manny is always on hand to meet and meticulously plan the best carte du jour for his guests. Let’s not forget to mention the versatility of the property! The sea view rooms offer more than a sojourn from reality. Featuring wide french doors that literally open the room to the view beyond and elegant four poster beds in all suites, the rooms beg to be used for photo opportunities, the bride framed against the backdrop, the bed adorned with breakfast and bridal essentials. The cool breeze dances into the room; blessing the happy couple and their guests with the promise of easy sailing through the years. From the rugged, wild East with it’s tempered coast we move seamlessly (for everything in Barbados does) to the classy West. Renown for it’s gorgeous calm coastline and crystal clear waters, the contrast couldn’t be more striking. For island elegance, self indulgent propriety and sumptuous dining look no further than The Cliff Restaurant at Derricks, St. James. The Cliff is without argument, Barbados’s most famous dining experience, everything about it is simply dramatic. The small secluded beach provides the perfect setting for intimate vows and many opt to hold the ceremony in this quiet cove to capitalize on the privacy that is often missing form more public beach venue; though the couple are known to indulge in a little theater once in a while, arriving via speed boat, James Bond style to the delight of their guests. It’s the ideal vantage point to make the sunset a part of your memorable evening. Guests gather and enjoy cocktails before the ceremony; the bride and groom are cheered upon arrival. Perfect for smaller parties, the venue boasts sweeping views of the coast from it’s newly renovated lounge, offering both serenity and a stirring energy infused by the setting sun and tempered only by the elegant ambiance. As the sun sets, the torches begin to glow, sting rays come to frolic in the quiet waves below and the heart swells with the transformation as day blends into night and romantic couples toast to new beginnings. 60

rays come to frolic in the quiet waves below and the heart swells with the transformation as day blends into night and romantic couples toast to new beginnings.

The decor is striking, gilded iron torches, plush settees, oversized mirrors affect a boudoir chic that somehow flirts with the bold sunset, each one complimenting each other as the twilight metamorphosis takes place.

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as the sun sets, the torches begin to glow, sting and let’s not talk about the romantic possibilities down the coral stone stairs....candles alight, demure backward glances; pure decadence.

Francesca Atzori, Marketing and Events Director explains what makes The Cliff so special is the personalized service. “We know that our couples are here for an intimate experience; some are simple, others strive for glamour and excitement, either way we satisfy their every whim.”

The Cliff team encourages couples to bring their imagination; “We’ve hosted beach soirees, local entertainment, fireworks lighting the sky in honour of the happy couple, it can be magical. On the other hand we’ve had several couples that have rented out the entire venue and turned it into their own private disco, dancing the night away under the glow of the torches and the stars.”

The Cliff is of course world famous for it’s culinary mastery and the team works very closely with their clientele to perfect the menu. “We are obviously known for our cuisine, but we believe that every girl has been dreaming of this day since they were a little girl, and it’s important to recognize this and make sure that this dream comes true!” Wine connoisseurs will appreciate the extensive collection housed in the cellar, food aficionados will rave over the subtle flavours that make dining itself a truly memorable experience, but most importantly dreams will be fulfilled.

Not only does The Cliff guarantee your day flows seamlessly; working with preferred wedding planners on the island they are committed to making your entire experience a pleasure. From airport transfers to registration, their professionals take care of everything behind the scenes so the happy couple experiences nothing more than a blissful holiday and picture perfect day.

With most weddings taking place well before sunset the entire property can be used for photographs before any other diners arrive; and photo opportunities abound! The beach, the balconies

From East to West, the sun blesses this little island; it wakes you up with a whisper and a wink and it sets languidly at twilight, the ocean breezes dancing softly, infused with a tropical rhythm; welcome to Barbados. 61

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;Hemmingwayâ&#x20AC;? by Amy Kuschel US$2500: Silk chiffon strapless gown with draped skirt Haute Bride mother-of-pearl drop earring with Swarovski crystal bezel setting US$220 Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Photo by Gina Francesca Photography & Design 67

Hemmingway “Hemmingway” by Amy Kuschel US$2500: Silk chiffon strapless gown with draped skirt Haute Bride mother-of-pearl drop earring with Swarovski crystal bezel setting US$220 Haute Bride Swarovski crystal cocktail ring with bezel setting US$150 “Alexis” headpiece by Kristina Eaton US$450 Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Model Photos by Gina Francesca Photography & Design Ring Photo by Kirk Watkins Photography 69

Elizabetta

“Elizabetta” by Rivini US$6150: Silk organza ball skirt with strapless draped bodice and ruffle detailed skirt “Something Old Collection”Miriam Haskell vintage Mobe pearl cluster earrings circa 1970 US$495 “Something Old Collection” Miraim Haskell vintage glass pearl necklace circa 1950 US$800 Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Photos by Gina Francesca Photography & Design 71

Tippi

â&#x20AC;&#x153;Tippiâ&#x20AC;? by Augusta Jones US$2450: Satin strapless gown with organza and beaded Chantilly lace overlay Cage veil by Kristina Eaton US$130 Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Photos by Gina Francesca Photography & Design

Stansie “Stansie” by Augusta Jones US$2550: Organza strapless gown with vertical ruffled skirt Maria Elena gold filigree earrings with pearls US$225 “Something Old Collection” Robert Demalio vintage pearl cluster bracelet circa 1945 US$600 Hair by Donna Makeup by Kia Foster-Blades Photos by Gina Francesca Photography & Design 75

FOOD &

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whether

you’ve chosen Barbados as your wedding location because you have roots here or you simply desire a truly tropical experience and sun kissed memories of your big day you’re going to want to take advantage of the delicious local flavours of the island. To learn as much as we can about how to blend the right amount of Caribbean flair into your menu we turn to one of our favourite chefs and proprietor of The Tides Restaurant, Guy Beaseley to give us tips for planning the catering on your big day. Guy’s resume includes training with the famous Roux brothers, fondly known as the Godfathers of British cuisine (Gordon Ramsey trained with them) and he firmly believes in his philosophy: “Simple flavour, simple food.” Too far East is West as they say and while many couples desire a wide spread it’s best that you go for simple tastes with a little ‘spice’ so to speak. Locals tend to go for traditional ‘bajan’ dishes such as cou cou, flying fish and ham and macaroni pie, giving guests a delicious meal that ensures guest go leave with full bellies and big smiles. Over the years we’ve seen a definite trend away from the traditional big meals; couples now look for a milieu of dining options for their guests, from full buffets to intimate curry stations, tapas to cupcake canopies. Personalizing the menu can often lead to the enchantment of the evening as guests feast throughout the evening. We like to think outside the box when it comes to Caribbean cuisine and Guy agrees. “I love the tastes of the Caribbean. But of course I trained in the traditional; the key is to find the right blend between the both without being too overwhelming.” Of course weddings are all about the love and Guy says he cooks from the heart and that’s something the happy couple should think about. So if the bride is British and the Groom from the islands you could have a sweet ‘marriage’ of those cuisines by focusing on what flavours mix well and looking at the menu to cater to all tastes. Mini yorkshire puddings with roast beef for canapes, curried shrimp dip, maui maui wrapped in pastry, hot pepperpot soup and a good old roasting station at the buffet with chutney dips to add that island sweetness.

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is always a nice surprise for the day isn’t it. For any wedding it’s considered an important contingent, you could have fireworks, release chinese lanterns into the night or have an amazing dish that had the guests mouths watering.

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As far as those subtle switches that can take a dish from classic to tastily memorable think island spice and local produce. So for example, new potatoes become sweet potatoes, local avocados add a creamy texture and mangos some sweet zest; we urge you to try plantain in all it’s forms. Guy’s favourite is a ‘frou frou’ dish, mashed plantain with garlic and herbs and butter, is your mouth watering yet? We thought so!

Of course we are in the Caribbean sea and everyone desires a little a la mer, trust us Bajan’s know how to get adventurous with their seafood. A little lightly jerked salmon, spicy tuna and watermelon tartar, lobster risotto and more are on The Tides menu and Guy points out that our little island has come a long way when it comes to our seafood and the culinary arts and wedding preparation in general. “The menu is always a nice surprise for the day isn’t it. For any wedding it’s considered an important contingent, you could have fireworks, release chinese lanterns into the night or have an amazing dish that had the guests mouths watering.” Here are some guidelines to consider when you sit down with your caterer for your perfect island wedding: • Choose your spice! Different islands will have different spices. Barbados tends to use classic lime and herbs but if you really want something with kick work together so it can please all palates. •

Keep it simple! Too many dishes can confuse the taste buds. Think different food stations or if it’s a sit down meal go with limited options on sides, no one wants to be overly stuffed.... there’s dancing happening later!

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Cater to everyone! Remember you’re hubby might be a curry fanatic but that doesn’t mean his Canadian aunt is. Make sure you have dishes that can be considered ‘safe’ for your guests.

• Numbers matter! Don’t we know it. The larger your wedding the more you need to think about....no one wants to run out of shrimp!

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Keep it taste-ful! Potato salad is all very well but add something simple like red onions or cilantro and you’ve got more wow factor!

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A truly tropical wedding need not embody all the hollywood stereotypes. It’s not all tiki torches and pineapple hor dourves, coconut cocktails and limbo on the beach. Though don’t get me wrong, island entertainment is, as the Bajan’s say “Sweet Fuh Days”. The most popular form of Caribbean flavour injected into island weddings is the sweet steel pan. The sensuous pan tempo is not to be humbled; it can set the right tone and most destination weddings, from the simple to the extravagant, often incorporate some pan rhythms; it lulls, it sways, and it usually flavours the cocktails with the right amount of island ambience. Barbadian entertainment however cannot be boxed in, it’s easier to explain that our culture has a rich history and the styles and genres we have embraced are expressed in a ‘uniquely Bajan’ way. Which is really what makes our entertainers so versatile and our entertainment so popular. While island weddings today still embody that essence of simplicity and romantic escapism, entertainment wise things have gotten a whole lot more sophisticated. Every couple wants their wedding to have that special something that leaves their guests truly inspired, it’s not just about the occasion, it’s about the experience. Barbados offers a abundance of choice that expands well beyond the traditional. The talent available in the island is truly first class and as Director of Notes to Note Entertainment Chris Harper explains, any need, any idea, any whimsy can be brought to life in this tiny island, all you have to do is ask. “We’ve put together Big bands, Mowtown Bands, Jazz Bands. We’ve incorporated traditional West Indian entertainment with Classical, Contemporary and everything in between. Anything is possible here, you just have to have the right team.” Indeed entertainment serves as an emotional barometer for the big day. An acoustic set in the breeze in a garden may convey the pure unity of the happy couple while a full gospel choir in a church can set the tone of celebration that stays with the guests long after they’ve left the reception. The key is to plan ahead and put as much thought into the entertainment as you would any other aspect of the day. You’re flowers could be magnificent but if the wedding singer is appalling that’s what your guests will remember.

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More often than not, couples will want to incorporate a little Caribbean flair into their day That Barbados can provide almost any type of entertainment should not come as a surprise. Our culture is intertwined with music and traditional Barbadian entertainment need not feel touristy, we strive for authenticity and our artistes are penultimate professionals.

TIPS THINK IT OUT:

Don’t just hire a DJ, consider what you want out of him. Think of how you want the occasion to flow from church to reception. Entertainment is an integral part of the day.

BE PREPARED:

If you have special songs you want that represent memorable parts of your life, list them out and provide that list in advance to avoid disappointment.

LOOK AT DETAILS:

if you want a DVD Montage for example, make sure you have everything you need, or have organized everything you need. There is nothing worse than a hitch in your plans, it can ruin the day.

PERSONALIZE IT!

Think about significant periods and occasions in your relationship and see if there is a song or a style of entertainment that was associated with it. E.G Your first kiss, the song that was playing when you first met or the scene of the proposal. Think about things that identify you individually as well as a couple. Try to make your day about both of you!

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More often than not, couples will want to incorporate a little Caribbean flair into their day; while the possibilities are endless they are always well received! An elegant wedding can never go wrong with some sweet pan rhythm and often an authentic Tuk Band (a sort of traveling street carnivalesque band featuring bass drum, flutes and a fiddle) provides a jocular spectacle that can loosen the stiffest upper lip and get the party started. Tuk bands are often accompanied by an assortment of Bajan characters, there to get guests up on their feet as well as providing a show. Mother Sally, shaggy bears and green monkeys tumble, tease guests and provide many a raucous laugh. There is definitely something to be said for considering the tone you want to set. Couples often like to reflect their personality in the ceremony, whether it be through their style, decor or choice of entertainment for the night, the fact of the matter is each aspect should be treated with equal reverence. Chris shared some of his favourite wedding memories: “I did a wedding recently where we had Alex Santorelli (Barbados’s own Broadway star) sing two songs in the church. I guarantee, the guests are still talking about that performance. It was just that powerful!. At the other extreme we did a wedding for a Korean couple at The Cliff, it was very traditional, very sweet but they had specific requests for the entertainment, more specifically hip hop was the genre of music they chose, it took us completely by surprise! But the DJ knew in advance and brought a wide selection and then we accommodated one of their female friends in the DJ booth and she just blew the place up. It was one of the best weddings I’ve ever been to, mainly because they knew exactly what they wanted out of the night and if flowed and it energized and it was completely in tune with who they were as a couple.” Of course he is ever quick to emphasize the importance of teamwork when planning out the entertainment for your big day. “You want things to run smoothly, everyone has to be working in synch. If you want to plan your own entertainment, maybe you have an Uncle who wants to sing something special, you have to ensure that the DJ or band is privy to the plan, otherwise this can lead to disappointment.”

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Your flight is booked, bikini packed but very often guests attending an island wedding from ‘out of town’ struggle with that age old conundrum “What to wear!?” Thankfully Caribbean weddings offer the chance to play it up and be as fanciful and colourful as you like, or go for simplicity that can be understated but island chic, after all the bottom line is you’re on holiday!! Our favourite fashionista and make up artist Greg Williams recommends you pack several choices but also embrace the locale. “Very often when I’m talking with guests they confess they’ve gotten their outfit here from one of our local shops. The truth is until you arrive and adjust to the climate and get into the whole caribbean ambiance, you really can’t know exactly what you’re going to ‘feel’ like wearing!” It’s true that you can find some real gems on the island that often become wardrobe favourites as they’re forever associated with the memory of the event or holiday. Children always have it easy with boys looking charmingly handsome in polo shirts and slacks and the girls can indulge in a little tropical prints that can be dressed up with fancy hair and jewelry, after all, every little girl LOVES a real wedding and dressing up is part of that experience. Our favourite island designer for island whimsy is Tracie Lamb of Best & Tracie in Holetown, St. James. Greg agrees “Her clothes are designed with the tropics in mind but without sacrificing that comfort or style. The cuts are simple but flatter every body shape and their prints are so cute on the kids!” Of course the kids get away easy, we all know it’s a fashion show for the grown ups, and Greg advises you pay close attention to the location! “Absolutely, look if you’re invited to a beach wedding, I strongly advise against long materials and heels! There is nothing elegant or together about a wet hemline. If you’re looking at the beach think short, breezy and light.” Many brides opt for weddings at one of the many gorgeous villas on the island or restaurants. These offer the chance to dress it up and play the socialite! Cocktail dresses, heels and glamour abound but again, it’s all about the fabrics. Go for breezy rather than fitted, a chic belt cinched over a chiffon shift with gorgeous jewelry can be a show stopper (though be mindful not to upstage the bride!). We love colour and colour loves you, don’t be afraid to stand out in bright hues and don’t forget the bling. Most importantly have some fun with it...you’re in the Caribbean, it’s all about those holiday vibes! Greg has some great tips for hair and makeup to keep you glowing all night.

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Accessorize! Island flowers and bright jewelry.

TIPS • Remember Location and time of year MATTERS, beach or villa, day or night? Summer or Winter Season. • Don’t be afraid to ask. Elegantly casual leaves a lot of room for interpretation, as does beach chic...avoid fashion faux pas by just getting a little more info ahead of time •

Like a famous calypsonian once said...the islands are hot hot hot! Remember this when you’re thinking make up! Don’t overdo the foundation, we love the natural look and in this heat, the natural look loves you!

• Accessorize! Island flowers and bright jewelry can brighten the simplest of outfits. • Try wrinkle resistant fabrics....heat and sweat and linens don’t mix no matter what you see in the movies. • Girls walk with your hair spray and straighteners.....don’t play with the humidity..it always wins...embrace it, but be prepared.

CREDITS Casual chic womens and kids apparel with jewellery provided by Beth and Tracie Evening Womens apparel provided by Intermix Boutique Evening Jewellery for evening wear provided by iCandi Mens apparel provided by Praxis Styling by Nadja Soodeen Hair stylist: Tenika Tang Make up & Styling: Greg Williams from Flawless Styling Photographer: Julie Chalbaud Models: Sacha Soodeen Nadja Soodeen Tanya Franco Sarita Pile Christine Richards Nick Gill Justin Decle Sara Collins Vanessa Gilkes 112

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we always dreamed

of having our wedding in Barbados and shortly after

g e t t i n g e n g a g e d w e d e c i d e d t o m a k e t h i s a r e a l i t y. O u r f r i e n d s a n d f a m i l i e s w e r e v e r y e x c i t e d b y t h i s decision as not only would those living in Barbados be able to celebrate with us, but those living abroad s a w t h i s a s a n o p p o r t u n i t y t o s p e n d a w e e k b a s k i n g i n t h e s u n o n t h e i s l a n d â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s s h o r e s , e s p e c i a l l y t h e B r i d e â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s f a m i l y w h o a r e o r i g i n a l l y f r o m B r a z i l .

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W E D D I N G P L A N N E R - B a r b a d o s We d d i n g s … b e y o n d y o u r i m a g i n a t i o n ! ! PHOTOGRAPHER - Steve Cumberbatch B R I D A L PA RT Y F L O W E R S - S i m p l y F l o w e r s D É C O R – B a r b a d o s We d d i n g s … b e y o n d y o u r i m a g i n a t i o n ! ! I S L A N D E N T E RTA I N M E N T – F i re E a t e r / M o k o J u m b i e s / G re e n M o n k e y s M U S I C – G o s p e l c h o i r ( C e re m o n y ) / S t e e l B a n d & D J ( R e c e p t i o n )

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a traditional wedding

c e r e m o n y w a s h e l d a t t h e h i s t o r i c S t . P a t r i c k ’s R o m a n Catholic Cathedral.

T h e c h u r c h ’s a r c h i t e c t u r a l b e a u t y

and local choir offered the perfect ambiance for the exchange of our vows.

We hosted the reception at a

local seaside restaurant – Whispers on the Bay – set on the sandy shores and showered in the colours of the evening sunset. We chose this venue not only for the spectacular location, which allowed us to take our wedding photos with a paradise backdrop, but it provided a large outdoor area to host our guests and the several international food stations. Our wedding colours and flowers were chosen to reflect the vibrant tropical colours that are often affiliated with the island paradise. The arrangements, wedding décor and lighting were all prepared locally and surpassed our wildest dreams.

We were also very impressed by

our photographer – Steve Cumberbatch – who did an outstanding job in capturing the moments of our special d a y, w h i c h w e w i l l l o o k b a c k o n f o r e v e r. Above all, our wedding would not have been the success that it was without Barbados Weddings… beyond your imagination!! Lisa made planning a destination wedding hassle free and was always there to address our questions despite the distance between us. She considered every little wedding detail and ensured that it was perfectly executed just as we had envisioned. We couldn’t have done it without her and highly recommend her to anyone planning their dream wedding in Barbados!

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n u p t i a l s . . . . e x c i t e m e n t ! J a s o n ’s p r o p o s a l t o S a l l y a l o n e w a s t h e t a l k o f t h e t o w n a s h e h a d w r i t t e n i n the sky above the Sydney Opera House in Australia “W ill you marry me?” Which was then featured in 8 newspapers both in Australia and the UK as well as being interviewed by 2 magazines. The team at Weddings by Malissa was very excited about this wedding and worked closely for seven months to fine tune their plans, everything was to be a surprise for their guests and the team knew exactly what was needed.

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V E N U E : T h e C l i ff R e s t a u r a n t W E D D I N G P L A N N E R : We d d i n g s B y M a l i s s a PHOTOGRAPHER: Steve Cumberbatch FLOWERS: Simply Flowers I S L A N D E N T E RTA I N M E N T: D L S m i t h P ro d u c t i o n s MUSIC: Notes to Note FIREWORKS: Caribe FX H A I R S T Y L I S T: H a i r B y D o n n a MAKE UP: Kia Foster Blades

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the Bride

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a r r i v e d t o t h e c e r e m o n y b y T h e S a n d y L a n e ’s P h a n t o m Rolls Royce, the groom zipping in via speedboat to the applause of their guests! The couple chose The Cliff Restaurant for its dazzling sunset, twilight allure, the decadent ambiance, and of course their amazing food. Steel pan music and the soft sound of the waves rolling on the shore provided a background symphony as they were surrounded by close friends and family as they exchanged vows under a fully draped Huppa. White, white, white with subtle hints of pink was S a l l y ’s v i s i o n f o r h e r r e c e p t i o n , a n d i t w a s a n y t h i n g b u t ‘ t r a d i t i o n a l ’ . S a l l y ’s ‘ s o m e t h i n g b l u e ’ w a s c r e a t e d b y t h e mixology team at The Cliff, and the ‘Blue Smurf’ mojito was a hit! If that didn’t loosen up the guests, local entertainers including calypso dancers and our very own “Mother Sally’ helped to loosen up their hips, pumping up the soca and inviting guests to try out the moves. At dinner to the delight of the guests, they were joined by a set of elegant rays, gracefully gliding through t h e l i t - u p s h o r e b e l o w. A d e l i c i o u s t h r e e c o u r s e m e a l under the stars, more ‘blue smurfs’ and a spectacular fireworks display with every colour imaginable bursting above their heads lighting up the night sky rounded off the evening....or so the guests thought. Drama and excitement were the theme and Sally and Jason didn’t want the night to end! They headed into Bridgetown on the Reggae Bus to local nightclub Harbour Lights for live entertainment and more dancing under the stars! T h e p e r f e c t s t a r t t o t h e i r l i f e t o g e t h e r, S a l l y a n d J a s o n were overjoyed with the experience, and we were thrilled t o h a v e b e e n a p a r t o f p u l l i n g i t a l l t o g e t h e r. W e w i s h them a lifetime of love and happiness together!

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two wonderful individuals,

Alyson and Adam from Sweden, were

united matrimonially under a mango tree, which was spectacularly decorated with streaming lights and elongated floral arrangements, with an aisle of white petals and candles on a carpet of beautifully m a n i c u r e d g r a s s , i n o n e o f B a r b a d o s â&#x20AC;&#x2DC; s m o s t f a m o u s e s t a t e s , S t . N i c h o l a s A b b e y. A f t e r t h e c e r e m o n y the couple enjoyed a playful cocktail hour with family by the monumental steam mills.

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VENUE: St Nicholas Abey W E D D I N G C O O R D I N AT O R : I s l a n d B l i s s REVEREND: Rev Kirton FLOWERS: Simply Flowers C A K E : P a t i s s e r i e & B i s t ro F l i n d t CHEF: Michael Hinds

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D É C O R AT O R : D o n n a N a d u r DJ: “Dusty” – Adrian Payne P H O T O G R A P H Y: G i n a F r a n c e s c a H A I R S T Y L I S T: E l e a n o r M c C o l l i n M A K E U P A RT I S T: Ta n i a H u q u e

the speeches,

cake cutting, and dinning

were done upon the terrace overlooking the lush green tropical gully which was explored further by Alyson and Adam as they ventured down into the midst of it to share a s p e c i a l m o m e n t t o g e t h e r. T h e i n t i m a t e g r o u p o f 1 6 e n j o y e d the mouth watering sumptuous dinner prepared by one of B a r b a d o s ’s r e n o w n e d c h e f s a n d w a s a c c e n t u a t e d w i t h l i g h t , subtle background music, enjoyed by all. The table décor was very simple but elegant with lots of candle light and white petals, not forgetting the favors, bottles of Mango C h u t n e y m a d e b y S t N i c h o l a s A b b e y, w h i c h e a c h g u e s t t o o k away along with the fond lasting memory of that intimate c e r e m o n y u n d e r t h e M a n g o Tr e e . Their special night was concluded by partying the night a w a y a t L e x y ’s P i a n o B a r i n S e c o n d S t r e e t , i n t h e l u x u r i o u s Holetown area. The couple were extremely pleased with their special day! Alyson delightedly stated, “I have to say that the experience w i t h I s l a n d B l i s s h a d s u r p a s s e d b o t h m i n e a n d m y h u s b a n d ’s expectations.”

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Our wedding

was one that tried to combine seemingly opposing elements.

First, even though our guest list was quite big (300+) we wanted our wedding celebration to be and feel i n t i m a t e . S e c o n d l y o u r v i s i o n w a s f o r t h e e v e n t t o p o r t r a y a f e e l i n g o f s i m p l i c i t y, e l e g a n c y b u t s t i l l b e striking and very much fun. In other words, we wanted it to be very much “US”, so we tried as much as possible to have those elements portrayed through all of our contact points – wedding website, s t a t i o n a r y, l o c a t i o n , d é c o r, p i c t u r e s a n d e v e n t h e l i t t l e s u r p r i s e s t h r o u g h o u t t h e w e d d i n g . L u c k i l y f o r us, all of our vendors got “us”, and helped us to create that.

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WEDDING PLANNER BRIDE / MOTHER H A I R S T Y L I S T: A N D R E A P O S T I S H E H A I R S A L O N PHOTOGRAPHY HIMAL REECE FLOWERS NICOLE KINCH KELSNICK M A K E U P S H E R RY- A N N E M O O R E - M A K E U P B Y S A M C AT E R E R S L . E . Q U A L I T Y C AT E R E R S I N C . R E C E P T I O N C O O R D I N AT O R D . B . P R O D U C T I O N S R E C E P T I O N E N T E RTA I N M E N T K E L L I E C A D O G A N A N D B A N D DJ DJ CHILI

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Our wedding day

itself surpassed our expectation – and based on the feedback from our guests, all of the elements we tried so hard to achieve were met and felt throughout the evening and night. All of our decisions were made with the aim to keep it as personal as possible, and where necessary traditional was tweaked to reflect us,, i.e., my opting for a man of honour and opting to drive ourselves from the church to the reception site. After a touching ceremony by the groom’s cousin (Rev. Peter Haynes), we loved being able to mingle and chat with our guests by the refreshment/water station that was set up under umbrellas outside of the church. While our guests proceeded on to the reception for cocktails, entertainment and photo booth pictures, we strolled through the town to capture the beauty and sleepiness of old rustic Speighstown that made us fall in love with the location in the first place. We are not a traditional couple and did not want ‘traditional formal pictures. Instead, we requested ones that told the story of our day and captured the energy of the moment in a truly artistic form. Again our expectations were surpassed. Even when our bridal party (being themselves) started playing around and dancing, or when the unexpected showers made us run for shelter in Fisherman’s Pub, it didn’t dampen our spirits - all of which our photographers fed off the energy and unknowingly captured us being very natural resulting in some truly amazing pictures. Being self professed ‘foodies’ – both from families that are immersed in food industry from both business and personal spheres, we knew that the menu, food and service were the least of our worries. My dad (trained chef) personally oversaw and managed the preparation of the food at the reception, and did not fail to impress. The menu was simple but prepared with love and passion and blended the tastes of both families (Mark’s red meat loving family and my seafood loving family). Even though the guests were free to roam the grounds of the property (which believe it or not also had a working quarry on it), the reception formalities were hosted under a 15,000 sq ft tent which had something for everyone. A children’s play area and dining room, adult lounge area – featuring the ongoing photo booth and a sit down riding bull ( a surprise from our parents to appeal to our crazier side) and two sit down bars offering amongst other drinks, a specially mixed rum barrels - an ode to Mark’s family background in rum). The riding bull may be have seemed out of place amidst the elegance of the formal dinner and the live jazz band which performed during dinner – but it truly reflected US. After the dinner and formalities, we surprised our parents and guests with a special ‘Thank you video message“– a personal project to express just how truly humbled we were from their outpouring of support and love and considering a quarter of our guest list travelled from around the world to be there, and then after, the real fun celebration started continued without a five (5) hour dance party. As far as advice for other couples, try not to get too caught up in all the stress. The wedding is one day – make it reflect who you are as a couple as opposed to impressing others. It is the small things that make the difference in your day. Enjoy the time leading up to the wedding, but more importantly take the marriage seriously - not the wedding! 135

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Two hands intertwine, champagne glasses come together, a toast is given, the sun casts a scarlet hue splashed across the perfect twilight sky.....two souls vow to love each other for eternity. So begins an idyllic honeymoon retreat at the Little Arches Hotel.

encounter; verdant grass and fragrant blossoms of ginger lily and heliconia swarm the senses. The surrounding grounds are a veritable garden of Eden, and the coral limestone walls throughout add to its’ “old Bajan roots” appeal. The general ethos is one of relaxed grandeur, each guest arrives as a guest

Situated in picturesque Miami Beach bay, Little Arches opened

but leaves as family!

its’ doors in October of 2002. This coming October will mark its’ 10 year anniversary as one of the only boutique hotels on the island, and a unique one at that. Among it’s accomplishments, Little Arches is one of the Conde Nast Johansen recommended properties, a prestigious list of the best luxury hotels, spas and venues worldwide; both the hotel and the the rooftop alfresco restaurant Café Luna are award winning with Little Arches winning BHTA Luxury Hotel of the year in 2011 and Cafe Luna claiming winner of the BHTA restaurant of the year award in 2012, such accolades speak for themselves of course but we encourage you find out for yourself!

The luxury Ocean suites offer private plunge pools and terraces with spectacular ocean views. The Garden Jr suites are spacious with private decks, complete with hot tubs fitted with mood lighting and music and resplendent four poster beds. The Ocean Deluxe rooms open up onto a patio with a rooftop pool deck, drawing the eye to the arresting view of the waves below. All of the accommodations are unique and snug, offering amenities such as air conditioning and ceiling fans, king size beds, mini –fridges, plasma screen televisions, cable and wi-fi, en-suite bathrooms with spacious showers and beautiful locally crafted pottery sinks.

With just 10 private rooms, Little Arches is small yes, but if good things come in small packages, then this is as good as it gets. This lovely little hideaway offers the ideal environment for one who is seeking relaxation and solace while on holiday; yet with local hotspots Oistins and St.Lawrence Gap a mere 5 minutes away it appeals to the more social holiday maker as well. Architecturally fashioned in the Mediterranean style, this old converted Barbadian home greets each new arrival with some of the lushest tropical fauna and flora one could expect to

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When it comes to the utmost in customer service, Little Arches doesn’t stop there. A 7 night stay grants you complimentary breakfast at Café Luna, plus “sundowners” wine and hors d’oeuvres on your arrival.

Guests who book a 10 night stay,

as well as full breakfast daily, are offered a choice of one round of golf at the nearby Barbados Golf Club, a luxury catamaran lunch cruise aboard the Silver moon or complimentary car hire for a day.

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The Honeymoon suite offers all of the regular amenities but

Wedding package for two includes all legal documents and fees,

with special additional luxuries for the happy couple. Equipped

minister, witnesses, tropical bouquet for the bride and matching

with a kitchenette to accommodate those lazy breakfast in

buttonhole for the groom, professional wedding photography, a

bed mornings, the evening begins with a turndown at 6:00 pm

one-tier wedding cake and last but not least, a candlelit dinner

complete with complimentary chocolates and candlelight. The

for two on the rooftop terrace in-house restaurant Café Luna,

private pool ensures romantic midnight swims feature regularly

complete with one bottle of complimentary champagne. Some

during your stay.

would say it doesn’t get better than that, but Little Arches is committed to ensuring your wedding and honeymoon are

Take a walk through the lush gardens and you will come upon a

unforgettable, book one of the luxury Ocean suites for 14 nights

lounge area amid a grove of softly sighing trees, where you can

or more and the above package (save photography) is entirely

kick back in quiet reflection, maybe even have a light snooze.

complimentary, ensuring your entire experience is stress free

The Courtesy room and Spa facilities rival those of the highest

and a delight. Other packages include ceremonies for up to 50

standards, and come as a pleasant and welcome surprise for

guests and receptions at Café Luna.

this unique little property. Aside from all this, Little Arches offers some very attractive and intimate wedding packages. The adjacent cliffside is a quintessential place to say your forever “I do’s”. With the sparkling vista of Miami Beach behind you, Little Arches’ Cliffside 138

The intimate setting at Little Arches when coupled with the friendly staff and exuberant service promises a relaxed holiday that will enchant, entice and embrace you as you begin your new life together; come celebrate with us, we guarantee you’ll fall in love all over again.

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For the most part tropical islands have beaches, however where Barbados differs is what lies behind the sun, sea and sand. For an island of its size and age Barbados is a lively and intoxicating profusion of culture and atmosphere which sure packs in a lot: Stunning landscapes, coral reefs, endless beaches, rugged cliffs, luminous caves, unique cuisines, enthralling histories and some of the Caribbean’s best attractions. Loop Barbados is here to give you some guidance and recommendations on the best activities, adventures and entertainment while you are here in the ultimate Tropical Paradise.

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Barbados is, more than anything, a widely diverse eco-system with multiple personalities. She may be young, however, exhibits many distinct characteristics that you can be part of. Whether you are in the mood for an adventure like hiking through one of nature’s most proud masteries, or soothing your soul on one of the most lavish beaches in the world Barbados has it all.

The Sea Voyager

One of Barbados’s most unique features is the beautiful and never ending seas that lap us. Relax and soak up the sun at some of the best and most magical beaches in the world like the Crane, Bottom Bay and Miami Beach. Sail along the golden coast on one of Barbados’ fine Catamarans, snorkeling with turtles and discovering old treasures in shipwrecks as you go along. If you prefer to cruise along the seas at your own pace try the new soft adventure of Stand Up Paddle. Or if you rather get a little deeper and really come up close and personal with the underwater world of Barbados there are many well-respected Scuba Divers eager to take you along their journey. On the other hand, if you are an adventure enthusiast head on over to the East coast to surf the popular and highly raved about Soupbowl, or find your self on the South east coast at Silver Rock to kite surf or windsurf.

The Land Explorer

It is now time to head inland and discover what Barbados is built upon or rather constituted of - a rolling terrain of limestone hills, lush greenery and limitless sugar cane fields. One of the best ways to see Barbados on your own pace is to rent a car, acquire a map and drive. Sights like cherry Tree Hill, Morgan Lewis windmill, Codrington College, Bathsheba, Hackletons Cliff, Cove Bay, and Little Bay are small pieces of tropical eye candy that not many get the pleasure of viewing. If you prefer more of a toured guide with a little adventure attached to it some options may include Adventure Land, Island Safari or Segway Barbados. Or if you happen to be in search of real adventure the eco Adventure tour at Harrisons Cave is highly recommended along with the Zip Lining experience.

The Cultural Seeker

Now we have explored both water and land let us dive into where we came from – our roots. Having one of the most interesting historical cultures there are many ways in which you can really discover our past. Scattered among the lush greenery of the country are the beguiling survivors of our colonial past. Vast plantations such as St. Nicholas abbey, Fisherpond Great House and Sunbury Great house stand in magnificence, however their present day beauty and tranquility act as a mere cloak concealing the brutality of their past. Museums such as the Barbados Museum and Historical society and George Washington House document this gripping history along with many other interesting cultural artifacts.

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rbados by night From the sky-high coal pot fires of Oistins fish fry to the esteemed cocktail lounges on the West coast, Barbados has the perfect blend for you, no matter your panache.

The Connoisseur

There is no better way to access Barbados’ cornucopia of cultures than through our cuisine. From some of the most highly recognized restaurants specializing in international cuisine to the man on the side of the road focusing on perfecting the Barbadian fare, Barbados is a gastronomic highway. Just like our history, our food is our own and by night you have many opportunities to stamp your palate’s passport. If you are looking for more of a rooted culinary experience, places like Oistin’s fish fry in Christ Church or Moon Town in St. Lucy are just up your ally. Freshly caught fish are fried or grilled and complimented by a wide selection of authentic starches including sweet potato pie, macaroni pie, steamed cassava, breadfruit, peas n’ rice etc. Now it has come time to treat yourself to a more exalted meal in one of our world famous, award winning restaurants like The Cliff or Cin Cin. Culinary masterminds create works of edible art while you sit back and take in the extravagant atmosphere. So whichever you decide – the roots or the ravish - there is no doubt the cuisine of Barbados will illuminate your tropical Barbadian experience.

The Dancing Queen

Let’s face it, Bajans love to dance, they even have their very own little shimmy - ‘wuk-up’; so it is not surprising that there are many places you can go to ‘boogie’ here in Barbados. For a more authentic Barbadian dance experience, hotspots like Harbour lights and The Plantation put on dance shows consisting of stilt dancers, Mother Sally and limbo dancers; and by the end of the night you too are moving like a true Bajan. If you want a more low-key dance experience there is the option of St. Lawrence Gap (or more commonly know as The Gap) or you can check out the well-regarded West Coast and try out hotspots like Priva and Lexy’s Piano Bar.

The Bar Hopper

Ready to ‘enjoy a few’? You have chosen the right destination with upwards of 1500 rumshops and 1000 bars. An integral part of Bajan Culture with roots that date back some 300 years, this little piece of paradise is laden with saloons. From the bar-lined street of St. Lawrence Gap to the exotic rum shops dotting the country to the fashion forward lounges on the West Coast and Second Street, Barbados has a profusion of it all.

Written by LOOP BARBADOS.

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invitations

INVITATIONS BY ZENADIA DESIGN

Your wedding invitations are one of the most important

elements of your big day. Not only do they provide your guests with the important wedding details, such as date, time and location, but they also communicate the style and tone of the wedding. Is your special day going to be one of tradition and formality, or are you going for a more relaxed and whimsical setting? Is your reception being held at a luxury hotel, on the beach, or in a tropical garden? Every wedding has its own unique and personalized character, simply because every couple is different. Brides and grooms want a wedding that is distinctively theirs. Regardless of if it’s a formal dinner soiree, or a beachside cocktail reception, there are elements of the Wedding Invitation that are customary throughout.

THE ANATOMY OF A WEDDING INVITATION

Most couples try to maintain a style that is socially correct, while at the same time creating an invitation that is personally theirs. Elements such as colour, fonts,

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graphics, card type, embellishments, etc. can be used to create that feeling of individuality, without sacrificing the traditional elements. That being said there are those couples who love to challenge tradition. In this case, the sky’s the limit! Meaningful verses or quotes, out-of-the-box layouts and wording, can all come together (once carefully thought out) to create stationery that just screams “exceptionality”. Whichever style suits you, there are 6 basic elements that should always be included:

NAME OF THE HOST(S)

Invitations should start with the name(s) of those who are hosting the wedding. Traditionally the bride’s parents usually pay for the wedding and are therefore considered the hosts. However in more modern weddings the expenses are shared, and therefore invitations may state multiple hosts. This can include both the bride’s and the groom’s parents, other family members or the couple themselves.

REQUEST LINE

The phrases used to extend the invitation vary depending on the location of the ceremony. For weddings taking place in a Place of Worship, such as a Church or Synagogue, the line “request the honour of your presence” is used. For a more informal location such as a hotel, private villa or beachfront ceremony, the line “request the pleasure of your company” is written. Should the invitation be for a Reception only, the lines “would be delighted by your presence” or “invite you to join them at the wedding reception of” are more appropriate.

Traditionally separate RSVP cards, envelopes and stamps have been used to encourage guests to respond to their invitation. However the more common practice for today’s weddings is to list on the invitation in the lower left corner a telephone number, email address or website that can be used to respond, and a preferred response deadline date.

NAME OF COUPLE

The Bride and Groom are the most important elements of the invitation, and their names are therefore located on separate lines. The preposition used to link them (whether it be “to” or “and”) is usually on its own line. Traditionally, the bride’s last name (once it’s the same as her parents’ above) is not repeated. Titles such as Mr. and Miss are not used. In more contemporary weddings, where both sets of parents are hosts, the last names are treated equally.

DATE AND TIME OF THE WEDDING

REPLY INFORMATION

OTHER POINTS TO NOTE

FOR YOUR INVITATIONS

• If your event won’t include a full meal, it’s courteous to inform your guests. Use phrasing such as “and afterward for cocktails” instead of the classic “at the reception.” • If you want to stress the importance of the style of dress -black tie, for instance, or casual attire -- place that information in the lower right corner, or on the reception card. • The only thing that should not be included anywhere on your invitation -- not even as an insert -- is your registry information. As altruistic as this may seem, it still isn’t considered appropriate to place a reference to gifts on a wedding invitation. Instead, let your wedding party help get the word out.

The date of the wedding on traditional invitations is usually spelt out (eg. Saturday the third of March). There is no “and” before the year, which is also spelt out using all lowercase letters. When indicating the time, usually it is spelled out and written to describe the placement of hands on a clock (eg. “half after” or “half past two”; not 2:30p.m.), and include either “in the morning”, “in the afternoon” (before 6pm) or “in the evening” (after 6pm).

• If you don’t want guests to bring children to the wedding there are much nicer ways to get this point across to your guests other than printing “no children please” on the invitation. The most subtle approach is to spread the word by mouth or on your wedding website. If you are looking for a more formal way to get the point across you can note “adult reception” on the invitation or reception card, or structure the response card as follows:

LOCATION OF THE WEDDING

AND RECEPTION

Please respond on or before April 5th, 2012

Traditionally, street addresses of places of worship or wellknown locations were not included on the invitation. This however has been changing with time, and more couples are including the basic address (zip codes and the name of countries are not used, except in the case of a destination wedding). Commas are not used at the ends of lines. If the reception is in the same place as the ceremony, a single invitation can be used. If however the reception is held elsewhere, a separate card might be helpful.

M _______________________ Number of Adults __________ Regardless of style, colour, size, and wording on your wedding stationery, one thing to remember is that the invitation is your guests’ first impression of your special day. Make sure that you take the time to ensure that the correct message is being sent, and that everyone knows what is expected. After all, you don’t want anyone feeling uncomfortable on your big day!

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Toast the happy couple with the best champagnes and wines. Select from our wide range of quality wines and spirits to find the perfect complements to your menu. With a wealth of international experience and knowledge our team is ready to offer you personalised service.

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wedding checklist

FOR BARBADOS

Getting Started #1

Pick a date for your wedding. If you are choosing Barbados for your destination wedding, this is a vitally important step, because your wedding co-ordinator needs to make the necessary bookings. Sometimes it helps to have two other alternative dates, just in case the venue you choose is unable to accommodate your original date. You don’t want to be disappointed. Select the various locations for your events, starting with the ceremony, and then the reception. You may choose a venue that can host both the ceremony and reception. Pay your deposits for the venues in order to confirm your booking.

Hire a wedding co-ordinator or wedding consultant, who can help you find the best locations and vendors, and generally source all of the perfect ingredients needed for your special day. You want to ensure that every detail for your wedding runs smoothly.

Choose your wedding attendants. It is recommended to choose people who are not only close to you, but who will be helpful and provide you with the support you need during this planning process.

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Determine your wedding budget.

TIMELINE

OR MORE MONTHS AHEAD: 6 • Hire a wedding co-ordinator for either a full service • • • • • • •

option or “day of” co-ordination. Determine your wedding budget Book and pay deposits to ceremony and reception venues Finalize your guest list Discuss with your wedding coordinator, and book your wedding vendors. Make all deposits and sign all contracts related to the services required. Create an inspiration board with the guidance of your wedding planner of what you want your wedding to look like. Order and have your first fitting of your wedding dress. Start considering options for your wedding invitations. Remember, guests coming from overseas need a save-the-date one year before the wedding date, and an invitation six months in advance.

4-6 MONTHS AHEAD: • Work with your wedding co-ordinator and determine • • • •

what rentals you need for the wedding (eg. tents, chairs, linens, tables, etc.) Ensure that all invitations for out of town guests have been mailed. Register for your Bridal registry Purchase wedding rings Start looking at attire for the groom and bridal party. Decide if you will be renting the tuxedos or suites, and pay those deposits. Will you be purchasing the bridesmaids dresses or getting them ,made?

PHOTOGRAPHY BY LESLIE ST. JOHN

2-4 MONTHS AHEAD: • Hire a caterer and start to formulate your wedding menu • • •

whether it be buffet, food stations, sit down dinner or only canapés for the reception. Discuss bar options with your caterer as well. Your wedding co-ordiantor can guide and advice you with this. Meet with your wedding officiant for the ceremony and discuss how you want your ceremony to run. Choose your readings and readers. If you are a destination wedding couple your wedding co-ordinator will get you the information that you require and finalize your ceremony details on your behalf. Start looking at options for your rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Book the transportation for you and your wedding party, and pay the deposit.

1-2 MONTHS AHEAD: • Mail all remaining invitations to your local guests at least

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six weeks before the wedding. Begin to finalize the remaining details with each wedding vendor and your rentals. Book accommodations for the wedding night.

2 WEEKS AHEAD: • Final fitting for your wedding dress and your bridesmaids

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Your Maid of Honour should make sure that all arrangements for hair and makeup for your bridesmaids have been made, as well as organize a light lunch or brunch for the bridal party. Confirm your rehearsal dinner and your wedding rehearsal. Reconfirm the wedding transportation for your wedding party.

1 WEEK AHEAD: • Confirm numbers and details with your caterer and make • • •

sure they have received full payment . Assign specific tasks to your wedding party at the ceremony and notify your wedding co-ordinator as to whom is doing what. Reconfirm your wedding night accommodation. E-mail your final timeline to all the wedding vendors and the caterer. Your wedding co-ordinator can assist you with this.

WEDDING DAY:

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Give all outstanding payments for your vendors to your wedding co-ordinator in sealed envelopes, and they will give it to the vendors for you. Relax and enjoy yourself.

dress should be completed at this point. Your wedding co-ordinator will assist you with laying out your wedding timeline for how the big day should go. It should include any important notes, a list of the bridal party, all vendors and their contact information, list of speakers for the toasts, etc. If you are having a seated dinner finalize your seating plan and ensure it is included in your timeline.

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TRASH THE DRE

By Gina Francesca Photog

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ow that your wedding is over, you have two choices of what to do with the dress. You can suffocate it in a plastic bag and hope that your daughter will want to wear it in 20 years (she won’t) or you can put it back on and have some fun while getting some amazing photographs at the same time. That’s exactly what Jenn & Derrick did and staying at The Hilton, it was a clear choice to use the beautiful beach right in front of them. Jenn & Derrick have a deep passion for photography (*ahh* a photographer’s dream) and so they had no problem getting down and dirty to get these great photos. An hour later and with a dress that became literally 5 times its previous weight, this shoot ended a tad more emotional than usual when Derrick came across some graffiti on the wall that read, “Banzai Locals Only” which reminded him of his family heritage. A perfect last shot to end another perfect Trash the Dress session.

Gina Francesca was the first photographer to introduce “Trash the Dress” session on the island. Check out more of her work at http://www.ginafrancescaonline.com or become a fan on Facebook at Gina Francesca Photography & Design.

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Marquee Events Inc. Event Rentals & Decor

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Atlantis Hotel (246) Beach View (246) Little Arches (246) Ocean 2 (246) Pollards Mill (246) Little Good Harbour (246)

Bridal Gowns And Accessories The White Dress by the Shore

Cake Designers

Beverley Marshall Cakes by Annalise Patisserie Flindt

(860) 669-4596 (246) 437-9330 (246) 234 4216 (246) 432-2626

Caterers/Chefs

Country House Caterers Ltd. (246) Flindt Catered (246) Daily Cookie (868) Scottâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Catering (246) Waterside Restaurant Exec. Chef Michael Hinds (246)

Event Designers Emma Corrie Designs Donna Nadur

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Event Planners

Weddings Beyond You Imagination (246) 420-4832 cupid@barbadosweddings.com Weddings by Malissa (246) 435-3331 malissa@barbadosweddings.net Island Bliss (246) 243-0549 or info@islandbliss.com (246) 419-0486

Florists

Petals Paradise (246) 256-5681 petalsparadise@caribsurf.com Simply Flowers (246) 437-6597 cmfoster@caribsurf.com Victoria Florists (246) 426-3379 victoriaflorist@caribsurf.com

Gift Registries

Carterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s General Stores Walkers World

Hair Stylists

Hair by Donna Tenika Tang Eleanor McCollin

Luxury Jewellers and Watches Diamonds International

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Invitations

It’s A Date Barbados (246) 435-3331 itsadate@caribsurf.com Zenadia Design (805) 757-7693

Island Guide

Loop Barbados

Makeup Artists

Flawless Styling

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(246) 233-8016

www.loopbarbados.com

(246) 253-6753

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(246) 429-2129

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Photographers

Gina Francesca Photography and Design (246) 256-4459 gina@ginafrancescaonline.com Himal Reece (246) 429-6779 himal.reece@facebook.com Julie Chalbaud (246) 230-2910 juliewebsterphotography@yahoo.co.uk Kirk Watkins Photography (246) 230-9265 kirk@watkinsbarbados.com Leslie St. John (246) 231-3509 leslie@lesliestjohn.com Steve Cumberbatch’s - Magical Moments Photography (246) 230-3732 steve@magicalphotos.net Jake Thomas (246) 232-5386 info@jakethomasimaging.com

Rentals

Ellco Rentals Leandre’s Marquee Events Inc. Belle Femme Studio Sarah Rayside

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events@ellcorentals.com leandres@caribsurf.com whitefoldingchairs@caribsurf.com customercare@belle-femme-studio.com bcdiscount@caribsurf.com

Wedding Venues

Atlantis Hotel (246) 433-9445 www.atlantishotelbarbados.com Beach View (246) 432-2300 www.beachviewbarbados.com The Fish Pot (246) 439-2604 www.littlegoodharbourbarbados.com Fusion Restaurant & Lounge (246) 436-1538 info@fusionrl.com Jammin Catamaran Cruises (246) 422-1152 info@jammincats.com Little Arches (246) 420-4689 paradise@littlearches.com The Mews (246) 432-1122 info@themewsrestaurant.com Ocean 2 (246) 418-1800 info@oceantwobarbados.com Pollards Mill (246) 423-6530 or pollardsmill@gmail.com (246) 824-3381 Sunbury Plantation (246) 423-6270 sunbury@caribsurf.com St.Nicholas Abbey (246)422-8725 heritagetourism@stnicholasabbey.com The Cliff Restaurant (246) 432-1922 info@thecliffbarbados.com Tides Restaurant (246)432-8356 thetidesrest@caribsurf.com

Wine & Spirits

Trident Wines (246) 436-0976 or tridentwines@caribsurf.com (246) 228-5261

Womens Apparel

Beth & Tracie (246) I Candi (246) Intermix Boutique (246) (246)

422-0401 info@bethandtracie.com 432-8777 claire@icandirocks.com 271-5355 or totallyfresh@live.com 271-0393

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