Baton Rouge Parents Magazine May 2019

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CONTENTS MAY 2019 ▪ ISSUE 346

FEATURES

ON THE COVER

2018-19 Cover Kid Bryce C. is one outgoing little boy who recently turned four. Bryce enjoys talking and interacting with everyone he meets, and he’s a great helper! He especially loves helping his mom make coffee every morning.

Bryce is fascinated by cars and trucks, likes to play with his LEGOs, and enjoys going to preschool. Sometimes, he doesn’t even want to leave preschool at the end of the day because he is having so much fun with his friends.

He is the son of Lu Lu and Jinbao C.

28 IS IT TERRIBLE TWOS OR JUST TERRIBLE BEHAVIOR? Toddlers throwing tantrums and when you should worry

THE ONE WORD YOU MUST TEACH YOUR TODDLERS

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Teaching children when to “freeze” for car safety

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PLANTING THE SEEDS OF STEM IN PRESCHOOL

Engaging preschoolers through STEM

IS THIS THE PLACE FOR THAT? 44 The debate on whether or not to screen students for eating disorders

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PRESCHOOL PREP

Gearing up for preschool and creating lifelong learners

10 LIFE SKILLS TEENS LEARN

BY HAVING A SUMMER JOB

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Discover all the ways that having a job benefits your teen

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HOW MOTHERHOOD MADE ME APPRECIATE MY MOM A personal take of a daughter’s appreciation for her mom

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12 A MOTHER’S VOICE 14 LAGNIAPPE 66 CALENDAR 79 MARKETPLACE 80 THE LAST WORD 82 SNAPSHOTS

CONNECT

16 COMMUNITY 22 EDUCATION 23 ONE AMAZING KID 26 PATHWAYS TO PARENTING

MOM NEXT DOOR

LIVE

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30 LOCAL PROFILE 32 MOM NEXT DOOR 34 EXCEPTIONAL LIVES 36 FAITH

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A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD GET OUT OF TOWN THINGS WE LOVE MOMS ONLY

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Spoil yourself this month because you deserve it!

James Avery’s Mother’s Love Gift Set features the Mother’s Love Pendant on a Light Spiga Chain and Mother’s Love Ear Posts. It’s the perfect set to wear on a night out that celebrates you being an awesome mom. ■ jamesavery.com

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IN EVERY ISSUE A MOTHER’S VOICE

Time for Mothers

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s a mother, you have major influence when it comes to your family and your community. Mothers are recognized by major corporations as one of the most powerful and knowledgeable of all demographic groups.

“The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world,” is a poem written years ago by William Ross Wallace. I have always believed that as moms, we have wisdom to share our thoughts and feelings with our children. The Word says, “Your children will rise up and call you blessed.”

A recent factoid came across my desk last week which said that what mothers would most like for Mother’s Day is an extra hour of sleep. Maybe so, but what I think mothers and families need even more is flexibility.

Being a mom to three children was such an engulfing, transforming experience for me. I can’t imagine my life without them. It staggers me to realize how each day would have been so different. I am not sure “who” I would be right now if I had not had children. I wouldn’t have been publishing this magazine for the past 29 years, that’s for sure.

My children shaped my ideas of who I was and who I wanted to become. They taught me more than they will ever know. Sometimes, I would look at my own mother; I would spend a few brief moments glancing forward to the years in the future when I would be a grandmother.

I am there now, a mimi, in the grandest style.

Mothers, your children need your love, and what you do is profound to their development. You mean the world to them, even when they don’t act like it.

This Mother’s Day, as I celebrate my good fortune at being a mother, a stepmother, a mother-in-law, and Mimi, I extend my prayers and support to all of the mothers out there–and yes, some shut eye.

Happy Mother’s Day,

Amy Foreman-Plaisance Publisher/Editor in Chief

Have ideas? I'd like to hear from you.

By mail: Amy P., 11831 Wentling Ave., Baton Rouge, LA 70816 Email: amy@brparents.com. Be sure to include your name, address, and daytime phone number.

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IN EVERY ISSUE LAGNIAPPE Happy Mother’s Day!

Mom, it’s your day, so what would you really like for Mother’s Day this year? A day at the spa? A chance to sleep in or take a nap without interruptions? Or, simply time away from listening to “Baby Shark” on repeat? The choice is in your hands! We wanted to know what was on your wish list this year. Here’s what you had to say.

What do moms really want for Mother’s Day?

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A haircut and color.”

–Amanda S. “I would like the following: Waking up to a nice, peaceful Sunday; fresh coffee and a light breakfast; a new dress and comfortable shoes; for my children to not give me a hard time trying to get out the door; to make it to church on time; brunch with one mimosa; movie time; a clean house that I don’t have to clean; a nice dinner that I don’t have to cook; fuzzy socks; warm blanket; snuggles from my kids; and a nice picture where my son doesn’t have his eyes closed or smiles too hard.”

–Natasha J. “To sleep in, have breakfast made, and none of the kids fighting all day long!”

–Amy F.

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“A spa day! Which means mom would have a kid-free day. The kids and husband are allowed back in the house after 8 p.m.”

–Misty M. “I want my husband to take the children and spend the weekend at his mother's house. That way, I can clean the house and see it that way all weekend. I can go to a movie and come home as late as I want.”

–Mary P. “I would like my back to not hurt and my house clean. I would like my husband to be in charge, make all decisions, and have plans already made for the day, including a nice restaurant with a beautiful view and a buffet of seafood!

I would like my son to listen to everything I say that day and be a sweet angel.”

–Angela L.

“A nice relaxing lunch that we don’t have to cook. A day at the spa is a perfect gift!”

–Leslie B. “Breakfast in bed with tons of cuddling and kisses!

Maybe a family photo where everyone looks at the camera at the same time!”

–Melanie M-L. “I want to spend the whole day with my son, seeing the world through his eyes.

We usually have lunch in NOLA, ride the trolley, and then finish the day at City Park. Don’t forget about the ice cream before we head home. The day is about me being his mother and enjoying it with him.”

–Melissa S. “I want the family to put their stuff away without being asked.”

–Cecilia W.

What motherhood shows you is how selfless you can get. I’m ragged tired. Who cares? My kids are healthy, I’m happy."

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CONNECT COMMUNITY UNITED WAY 2-1-1 ADDS CRISIS COUNSELING

Calling 9-1-1 in an emergency is something we drill into our children’s heads at a young age. However, what should they do in case of a mental health emergency? Now, if you, your child, or someone you know is experiencing a mental health emergency in Baton Rouge, you or your child can call 2-1-1. Crisis counseling access has recently been added to the Capital Area United Way’s (CAUW) 2-1-1 service. This free service quickly connects people to local mental health resources. As a regional partner to the Louisiana 2-1-1 Statewide Network, the CAUW serves 11 parishes around Baton Rouge. ■ cauw.org

PLANES TO SOAR AT NEARBY AIR SHOWS

If you’re looking for something a little different and don’t mind a short drive to Lake Charles or Bossier City, take your aspiring aviators to see an airshow. The 2019 Chennault International Airshow will be May 10-12 in Lake Charles, and the Barksdale Defenders of Liberty Air & Space Show is May 18 and 19 at Barksdale Air Force Base. Families can watch eye-popping, jaw-dropping feats of aerial artistry as fantastic flying machines fill the Louisiana skies. Tickets are free for the Barksdale show, and children under 12 are free with a paid adult for Chennault. ■ chennaultairshow.com and barksdaleafbairshow.com

BABY BONGO BORN AT BR ZOO

The animal family at BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo got a little bigger with the birth of Beignet, a female bongo calf. The second calf from B-Mo, a five-yearold mother, baby Beignet was born on February 24.

Beignet was recently welcomed into the Zoo’s Africa Loop exhibit. Like humans, the bongo’s gestation period is about nine months, typically with a single calf weighing between 20 and 30 pounds. Eastern bongos are actually classified as critically endangered African antelopes, and fewer than 200 are estimated to live in the wild, according to the zoo. Be sure to visit them on your next trip to the zoo. ■ brzoo.org Photo credit: Derra Leonard, Zookeeper

CORRECT INHALER USE KEY FOR ASTHMA CONTROL

Pressing a button while you breathe in seems straightforward, but using an inhaler correctly is not always easy. A new study in the Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology reports that many patients don’t take their asthma medications correctly. “The main thing we have to provide as specialists is the education component” for inhaler use, says Dr. Adrianne Edmundson, allergist at The Allergy, Asthma & Sinus Center in Baton Rouge. “Most of the time, they just pick it up at a pharmacy and have no clue instruction wise,” she says. There are many types of inhalers, which adds to the complexity. Dr. Edmundson recommends finding video demos to refresh your–or your child’s–memory to make sure the medicine has its full effect.

CELEBRATE SPECIAL DAYS IN MAY

On May 1, celebrate National Mother Goose Day by brushing off that old book of nursery rhymes and revisiting those wonderful childhood classics with your Little Boy Blues and Little Bo Peeps. Also, the National Day of Prayer is held on May 2. People of all faiths are invited to pray for the United States. The annual observance was created in 1952 by a U.S. Congress joint resolution. And finally, “May the Fourth be with you” is a play on words of the classic Star Wars line, “May the force be with you.” It’s now a full-fledged holiday as Star Wars Day is celebrated each May 4. Celebrate with a movie marathon, baking themed treats or just making wookie noises with your little jedis.

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BABYANDTODDLER CHEESING YOUR BABY?

The Internet is weird, and nowhere is this truer than viral challenges that crop up on the regular. The latest is tossing a slice of processed cheese onto a baby’s face, hoping that it sticks. The trend began with a Twitter video, and many have responded by flinging Kraft singles at unsuspecting little ones. Asking your baby to say cheese? Absolutely.

“Cheesing” your baby in pursuit of Internet fame? We think not.

UNDERSTANDING PREECLAMPSIA

Detecting preeclampsia during pregnancy before it becomes life threatening may soon be possible thanks to researchers at Tulane University. Carolyn Bayer, assistant professor of biomedical engineering, led the study that discovered a cancer imaging technique can also help detect preeclampsia. “[It] is a powerful preclinical tool that has many promising applications in the understanding and treatment of pregnancy-related diseases,” she says. The hypertensive disorder affects five to eight percent of all pregnancies and accounts for 14 percent of global maternal deaths each year.

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QUALITY NAPS IMPORTANT TO CHILD DEVELOPMENT

Sorting out children’s sleep can be exhausting, especially because things change with every new stage of development. One thing is certain: “Adequate sleep on a regular basis leads to improved attention, behavior, learning, memory, and emotional regulation among many other things,” says Danielle D. Daly, certified pediatric sleep consultant and owner of Bedtime Bliss Sleep Consulting in Baton Rouge.

For babies and toddlers, good naps can make nighttime sleep easier. But Daly says that around age three or four that shifts and preschoolers stop needing a daily nap. All little sleepy heads “need early, consistent bedtimes, so they can get that same amount of sleep opportunity every single night.”

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CONNECT COMMUNITY LEGISLATURE TO CONSIDER #TOBACCO21 BILL

The state Legislature opened its 2019 session in April, and it will continue no later than June 6. One bill to watch is House Bill 38, which would raise the legal age to purchase tobacco products from 18 to 21 in the hopes of decreasing teen nicotine addiction.

Leadership from Orleans Parish Medical Society, Jefferson Parish Medical Society and the Smoking Cessation Trust have endorsed the bill. “As a result of numerous studies, we now know that raising the tobacco age to 21 will have a substantial positive impact on public health and save lives,” says Jim Pittman of the Smoking Cessation Trust.

MICKEY COMING TO BATON ROUGE FOR DISNEY ON ICE

Experience a little Disney magic without trekking to Orlando or Anaheim when Disney on Ice Presents Mickey’s Search Party comes to the Raising Cane’s River Center Arena from May 9-12. In addition to Mickey and his pals, your die-hard Disney fans will meet Elsa, Belle, Moana, Aladdin, and Ariel during an epic journey to restore Tinker Bell’s magic.

Tickets range from $16.50-76.50. ■ raisingcanesrivercenter.com

LIONS RETURN TO AUDUBON ZOO

There’s a new pride in town as the Audubon Zoo welcomes four lions. With the hope of successful breeding, Nia, Kali, Zuri and Arnold were chosen based on genetic and behavioral matches. Although not yet on public view, zoo visitors can hear their resounding roars. Lions’ return to Audubon is thanks to a $5 million donation from Joy and Boysie Bollinger. “Lions face a number of threats in the wild, and our hope is to teach our visitors that people can coexist with these precious carnivores,” says Joel Hamilton, vice president and general curator.

FERTILITY ADVOCACY DAY IS MAY 16

Hopeful parents experiencing the wait of infertility will join doctors and other advocates for Fertility Advocacy Day in Washington, DC, on Thursday, May 16. Supporters from Louisiana will speak with legislators about reproductive care issues, specifically increasing infertility awareness and insurance coverage for treatments. “Most of the news relating to healthcare today involves people losing medical benefits or coverage,” says Dr. John Storment, a fertility expert who treats patients in Baton Rouge and Lafayette. “Having the opportunity to speak directly with our representatives will result in improved insurance coverage for the treatment of infertility. We will be successful.”

MINOR LEAGUE BASEBALL COMES TO THE RED STICK

A passion for baseball is nothing new around here. Baseball at the Box is a family tradition for many, and now there’s a new tradition to begin with Baton Rouge Rougarou, a new minor league baseball team. Opening Day is Friday, May 31 when the team, which is part of the Texas Collegiate League, will play the Victoria Generals. The league, which uses wooden bats, provides summer experience for the best professional prospects from colleges around the U.S. The summer season includes 28 themed nights plus giveaways and activities for your little sluggers. Tickets start at $5 with multi-game packages available. Home games will be played at Pete Goldsby Field. ■ brrougarou.com 18

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YOUTH TAMING KIDS’ ANGER

Traditional Inuit culture may have some advice for all parents when it comes to managing anger and instilling that in children. NPR’s Michaeleen Doucleff traveled to the Canadian Arctic and found the major tenet for calm, cool parenting is to never shout at small children as it only inhibits communication. Inuit parents tend to discipline through storytelling and playacting, giving their kids space to think about what they should do after a tantrum or other situation is diffused.

SKIN CANCER IN KIDS

Although skin cancers are rare in children, protecting their skin now can help prevent cancer later. Just one bad sunburn can increase your child’s risk, says Dr. Ann Zedlitz, a board certified dermatologist and owner of Z Aesthetic Dermatology in Baton Rouge and Prairieville. “Healthy habits are easier to adopt as children. The use of a daily face moisturizer with SPF 30 should be taught right alongside of brushing teeth, daily exercise and healthy eating habits,” she says. Dr. Zedlitz also recommends a water-resistant sunblock and using hats and other sun-protective clothing for prolonged outdoor activities. If your child does have sores that won’t heal, spots that grow quickly, or black, irregularly shaped moles, bring them to your pediatrician’s attention.

“When in doubt, see a board certified dermatologist,” Dr. Zedlitz says.

LAKE AFTER HOURS

COULD EATING BOOGERS BE GOOD FOR YOU?

Few things are as gross as seeing a little kid digging for gold. Watching that finger then go in the mouth? Disgusting! But Scott Napper, a biochemistry professor at the University of Saskatchewan, theorizes that consuming boogers, which he says taste sweet, may be a way to boost the immune system. We couldn’t believe it either. However, we think we will choose manners over immunity on this one, please!

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CONNECT COMMUNITY NEWLY APPROVED TREATMENT FOR POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION

Postpartum depression is the most common childbirth complication, and the first drug to treat it was approved by the Food & Drug Administration. “Not only is the availability of the drug important for its therapeutic benefits, but it really does give an acknowledgement and takes postpartum depression out of that stigma category,” says Dr. Renee Bruno, women’s mental health and perinatal psychiatrist at Woman’s Hospital. Zulresso will require an infusion and can improve symptoms within a few days, especially for mothers with severe symptoms.

PUT YOUR FLOATIES ON! SWIM LESSONS START AT AGE ONE

You can splash into swim with your little one sooner than you may have planned! The American Academy of Pediatrics recently issued updated recommendations suggesting that swim lessons start around age one to reduce drowning risk. Drowning is a leading cause of children’s death. “We believe in getting in as early as possible,” says Kayla Dysart, director of Crawfish Swim School. “Consistent experience in the water will lead kids to know their limits and won’t create false confidence. They’ll be less likely to jump into the pool without supervision.” Crawfish offers classes for babies as young as two months with a parent, and as an added bonus, classes provide distraction-free, quality face-to-face time with your little fishy.

LPB’S PLAYFUL LEARNING FOR EDUCATORS

Local early childhood educators became the students at a fun-filled workshop hosted by Louisiana Public Broadcasting. The U.S. Department of Education, the Corporation for Public Broadcasting and PBS developed digital media designed to improve school readiness skills for little learners. Using PBS KIDS series at the workshop, teachers learned how to integrate digital media into their lessons and engage their students in STEM. Each teacher attending received a PBS Playtime Pad for their classroom.

FIND A STAND TO VISIT FOR LEMONADE DAY

If you’re feeling a little thirsty on Saturday, May 4, you will definitely want to hit up one of the many lemonade stands that will be open for business for Lemonade Day Louisiana 2019. An online map can help you find the nearest stand, and the moguls-in-the-making will be happy to serve you a frosty, sweet and tart beverage. The program provides life and business skills to the young entrepreneurs running stands while also encouraging them to give back some of their earnings to their communities.

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SESAME STREET’S 50TH ANNIVERSARY HONORED WITH NEW STAMPS

While it won’t ensure a sunny day chasing the clouds away, mail from your little monster might just brighten a grandparent’s day. Send a letter using new stamps featuring characters from Sesame Street, available soon from the U.S. Postal Service.

The stamps honor the educational and entertaining program’s 50th anniversary. Designed by Derry Noyes, they feature 16 Muppets: Big Bird, Ernie, Bert, Cookie Monster, Rosita, The Count, Oscar the Grouch, Abby Cadabby, Herry Monster, Julia, Guy Smiley, Snuffleupagus, Elmo, Telly, Grover and Zoe. ■ usps.gov

TWEENANDTEEN #TRASHTAG CHALLENGE

Viral trends come and go, but the #TrashTag challenge is one we hope to see stick around. For the challenge, people would take before and after pictures of themselves cleaning up litter somewhere outside in their local communities. Originally created for a 2015 contest by gear company Utility, Comfort and Originality, the hashtag has continued to trend even without the chance to win prizes. A now-deleted viral Facebook post resurrected the idea and specifically challenged teenagers to pick up trash in their communities. This is definitely one viral trend that we can get behind, and it’s a great opportunity for everyone to volunteer for clean up with their families.

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LEARNING BY TEACHING

Often, peer tutoring and mentoring programs that pair up students rely on high-achieving older tutors. But Reach, a nonprofit based in Washington, DC, has found that struggling students can actually benefit from teaching younger students, as their own knowledge will grow and they being to experience responsibility that increases their self esteem. In Baton Rouge, teens can sign up to tutor younger students through the East Baton Rouge Parish Library’s Book Buds and Math Buds programs.

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HELPING TEENS SPOT FAKE NEWS

Navigating online channels is not always easy, even for young digital natives. Research from the Stanford History Education Group finds that most teens have trouble correctly evaluating information online, such as viral hoaxes, misinformation campaigns and sponsored content. MediaWise, a digital literacy project from the Poynter Institute, aims to give students in middle and high school tools to help sort fact from fiction online and hopes to teach one million teenagers these factchecking skills by 2020. Teens can sign up online. ■ poynter.org/mediawise

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CONNECT EDUCATION NEW DENHAM SPRINGS ELEMENTARY DESIGN REVEALED

Livingston Parish Public Schools leaders unveiled the architectural rendering of the new Denham Springs Elementary School which is being rebuilt after it was damaged in the August 2016 flood. The new $14.5 million, 80,000 square-foot campus will be the parish’s first two-story elementary school. It will mimic the exterior design of the Denham Springs High School once located in the same spot before it was destroyed by fire in 1949. Ziler Architects of Lafayette created the design, which is expected to be complete for the 2021-22 school year.

EPISCOPAL STUDENTS RAISE MONEY FOR CENTRAL AMERICAN COMMUNITIES

As part of their Advanced Placement Spanish class, Episcopal School students Maia Adams, Christine Myer, Addie Owens and Thomas Besselman organized a service project for the school community to raise awareness and money for communities in Nicaragua and Guatemala. The nonprofit El Proyecto Pulsera partners with student-led groups around the United States to sell pulseras (or bracelets) made by Central American artists. The Episcopal Pulsera Project funds will go toward empowering nearly 200 artists by providing fair trade jobs, housing programs, scholarships, and healthcare. ■ pulseraproject.org

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LOUISIANA KEY ACADEMY FOURTH GRADERS FACE A ROBOT REVOLUTION

Could robots one day replace humans? That’s the question Portia Bradford put to her fourth grade language class students at Louisiana Key Academy, which is a local school specifically for students with dyslexia. The students interacted with robots, including Roomba’s vacuum cleaner, Amazon’s Alexa and drones, and analyzed, summarized and compared how various companies use robots to increase human efficiency. They concluded that humans remain irreplaceable due to robots’ lack of common sense and dexterity. To wrap up their robot learning unit, students dreamed up their own robot inventions to help them with daily chores and made presentations about their robot’s design and abilities.

Alyssa Carson, a senior at Baton Rouge International School, was recently honored with the LSU Women’s Center Esprit De Femme Award. At 17, Alyssa is the youngest recipient of the award, which recognizes a person who has made exceptional efforts toward the advancement of women. She has had her eyes on the stars since she was three and announced she wanted to be an astronaut. Since then, she has attended many NASA space camps around the world and written a book that was published last year.

FUELING UP WITH NATIONAL SCHOOL BREAKFAST WEEK

Students at IDEA Innovation had a special guest join them for breakfast when East Baton Rouge Parish Mayor-President Sharon Weston Broome visited to mark National School Breakfast Week. The week’s theme, “Start your Engines with School Breakfast,” was designed to remind parents, students and school officials the benefits of fueling up for the day with a healthy school breakfast. IDEA Public Schools, a charter school with two campuses in Baton Rouge, is working to increase student access to healthy foods, adjusting their menus to include more whole grains, lean meats, fruits and vegetables.

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After a grueling application process, Allen Duggar, a senior at Catholic High School (CHS), was chosen to represent Louisiana at the 2018-19 United States Senate Youth Program. Allen joined Louisiana senators Bill Cassidy and John Kennedy as one of the state’s two delegates in Washington, DC, for the annual program.

Sponsored by The Hearst Foundations, the program provides a $10,000 scholarship for each of the student-delegates.

“Senate Youth was truly the experience of a lifetime,” Allen says. “The two definite highlights for me were having the opportunity to ask [Supreme Court Chief Justice] John Roberts about judicial precedent and just meeting the other delegates. Seeing such intelligent and driven people, who are my age, and having the opportunity to debate, rant and learn with them was incredible.”

Allen is also a musician who plays guitar and piano, and he is president of the CHS band. He is vice president of the Youth and Government Club, historian and co-founder of the Quiz Bowl Team, and an Eagle Scout. He is even a National Merit Semifinalist for 2019 and received AP Scholar with Distinction recognition from The College Board.

Allen has recently decided to attend the College of Charleston as a William Aiken Fellow and a Harry and Reba Huge Scholar. “I’m planning to study English and maybe do a double major with history and then law school after that,” he says.

Whether honing his political chops, playing music, or acing his classes, Allen is definitely one amazing kid.

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Along with their religion teacher and campus minister, Emily Froeba, 10 students from St. Michael the Archangel High School ran the Anna’s Grace Quarter Marathon. The race benefits Anna’s Grace Foundation, which helps families who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth or loss of a child in the Greater Baton Rouge Area with financial and emotional support. “It is awesome to see our students and many of their parents come out to support a group that is making a difference for so many families and the unborn,” Froeba says. Seniors Jeffrey Brignac and Adam Callegan placed first and second overall.

FAMILIES FOCUS ON STEM AT PARK FOREST MIDDLE EVENT

Park Forest Middle School students and their families were able to experience a number of science, technology, engineering and math activities at the school’s successful STEM Saturday program with STEMup Baton Rouge. Volunteers from the community, including engineers, scientists, librarians and representatives from LSU, Southern University and the University of Louisiana, shared their expertise about circuits, chemistry, animal life, finances, and drones. STEMup Baton Rouge is sponsored by the Foundation for East Baton Rouge School System and funded by ExxonMobil. ■stemupbatonrouge.org

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SIXTH ANNUAL IT GIRLS CODING DAY

As part of the IT Girls Coding Day, 75 middle school girls from EBR, Iberville and East Feliciana schools were introduced to careers in technology and connected with tech professionals. With hands-on programming and digital media workshops, students developed code for good causes and created posters about those causes, which ranged from water quality and health food to anti-bullying policies and gun legislation. The Foundation for East Baton Rouge School System, Louisiana Women in Technology, and Baton Rouge Community College hosted the event.

Students in the engineering design class at Scotlandville Middle Pre-Engineering Magnet Academy have been working to add technological enhancements to a 2011 Chevrolet Malibu donated by Gerry Lane Chevrolet. With a grant from ExxonMobil, the school partnered with the EBR Career and Technical Education Center and Baton Rouge Community College to execute the vehicle’s transformation into a smart car. So far, the students have installed Bluetooth capabilities, a backup camera, collision sensors and TV monitors in the headrests. Next, they will secure and connect the camera, reinstall removed elements of the car for a professional end result, and go through the testing stage of the engineering design cycle.

CATHOLIC HIGH BREAKS GROUND ON NEW STUDENT CENTER

Catholic High School is making room for its new student center by demolishing two existing buildings on its campus. Once completed, the 32,000 square-foot facility will continue the school’s dynamic learning environment and provide space for students to dine, socialize and interact with faculty. The two-story building will also include space for learning and campus ministry. The center will be dedicated in memory of Brother Donnan Berry who was a teacher, principal and development officer at the school for more than 25 years. Demo has begun, and construction will begin in June.

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U-HIGH SENIORS PRACTICE ‘ADULTING’

Seniors at the University Laboratory School recently got some hands-on practice for life that awaits after graduation on “Adulting Day,” organized by high school instructor and activity director Jennifer Bevill. Throughout the day of life skill sessions, students learned about caring for a car, including changing a flat tire and jump starting a dead battery; basic sewing and clothing care; finances; personal safety; and tips for surviving freshman year at college, including how to avoid the freshman 15.

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MIDDLE SCHOOLERS TAKE ON LEGISLATIVE PROCESS AT OLD STATE CAPITOL

Every year, middle school students from around the state, including many from our area, descend on Baton Rouge to participate in a mock legislative session at the Old State Capitol. As part of Youth Legislature from the Boys & Girls Club of Greater Baton Rouge, students receive classroom instruction and then get to work electing a Governor and House and Senate officers. More than 1,900 students from more than 50 Louisiana schools can experience the lawmaking process by writing, sponsoring and debating bills; serving on committees; and giving speeches. Some students choose to serve as press members who will gather and report information on the proceedings throughout the legislative process.

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When it comes to Activated Charcoal, most people are familiar with its most common use. “Activated Charcoal keeps swallowed drugs and poisons from being absorbed from the gut into the bloodstream,” according to the National Capital Poison Center. The National Capital Poison Center also says, “Activated Charcoal is made by burning carbon-rich materials at very high temperatures to create charcoal. The resulting product is a black, odorless powder. The charcoal is then ‘activated’ through a special process that makes holes and crevices on the charcoal particles to increase surface area and available binding sites.”

So, it’s not as simple as using the charcoal that you need for your outdoor grill.

And, it’s actually not recommended that you even attempt to make your own. Before you consider using Activated Charcoal, it’s important that you speak with your doctor.

Activated Charcoal has been used in the home for a variety of reasons, although not all of them are backed by science. Some of these uses include acute and general detoxification, improving digestive health, decreasing gas and bloating, whitening teeth, helping with heart health, and lowering cholesterol levels.

If you’re planning on using Activated Charcoal for whiter teeth, it has been said that it will absorb what can often be found sitting on your teeth. After the dirt and grime is removed, you will be left with whiter teeth. This tends to be the biggest draw when it comes to using Activated Charcoal in health routines, but before you start working towards those pearly whites, it is crucial that you talk with your doctor to learn how Activated Charcoal can affect you personally. ■ 26

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Is It Terrible Twos or Just Terrible Behavior?

By Lauren Labbé Meher

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ost parents know this scene all too well. One moment, you and your toddler are successfully navigating the aisles of the grocery store. Everyone’s happy.

Everything’s fine. Until it’s not. Suddenly, your little angel is sprawled on the floor red faced and screaming in an all-out temper tantrum. You feel as if all eyes are on you, and they probably are. If you’re lucky, you’ll get a comforting smile from that knowing mom who has been there before. We all know this scene, but how do you know if this is a classic example of the terrible twos or something more?

Tantrums and Terrible Twos One important thing to note is that the terrible twos could come before or after age two. According to Licensed Professional Counselor Courtney Sykes Hesterly, “It’s less of an age and more of a developmental stage.” Whether it begins at 18 months or two to three years old, at some point, your children will go through a phase where they are experiencing intellectual, physical, social, and emotional changes all at once. During this time, they are also struggling between the need to cling to their parents for comfort and security, and their newfound desire to explore their independence and let go.

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understanding of language (receptive language) may be ahead of what they are able to say or express (expressive language).” This is when you may see a temper tantrum because your children may not be able to articulate when they are tired or overstimulated.

Gonzales mom Shannon Dirmann has experienced this firsthand with her son. “With my son, one minute we are laughing and talking about the colors of the trees and the sky, and the next, he is in a ball on the floor because I gave him the wrong colored cup! But, it’s worth every minute. It helps me to understand that I am raising him for the long haul, and how I react to him teaches him how to react to life’s circumstances. Enduring the second year is one of the biggest

parenting challenges I have faced, but it is also the best one, too.”

The best way to handle a temper tantrum is to have a plan before it happens. Be consistent in your response, whether you are at home or in public. Try to redirect your children or distract them with something unrelated to whatever triggered their tantrum. If redirection doesn’t work, it’s best to ignore the behavior. Dr. LeBoeuf advises to avoid the “escalation trap” with toddlers. If a parent overreacts or yells, then the parent gets upset, which leads to the child becoming more upset, and the situation quickly escalates.

Prairieville mom Amanda Higgins, whose daughter is currently going through the terrible twos, tells parents

to try not to worry. “I know with my daughter this isn’t a permanent thing because the behavior isn’t consistent. The terrible twos are just a phase as she is testing her boundaries, so I try not to get too concerned,” she says.

Taking it Beyond Terrible Twos Still, parents may worry that this behavior will lead to continual aggressive behavior and constant fighting or defiance. Sometimes, it is more than just the terrible twos. Dr. LeBoeuf says, “Look for patterns. An occasional temper tantrum is developmentally normal, but if you see an increase in frequency of tantrums and they are occurring daily, and or multiple times per day, there may be cause for concern.” Dr. LeBoeuf says that other signs to look for can include behavior that is physically aggressive towards other children or adults, behavior that is self-injurious like head banging, biting, or scratching themselves, or very frequent tantrums (daily and multiple times a day without being soothed).

These are all cause for concern.

In addition to these physical manifestations, your child may show some warning signs through their emotional behaviors. Sykes Hesterly says, “During this developmental phase, you may see signs of early callous unemotional behaviors (CU Behaviors).

These behaviors include lack of empathy, lying, punishment insensitivity, and lack of emotional responsivity.” Should you notice any of these signs, seek professional help. Sykes Hesterly recommends seeing a pediatrician or mental health professional who can assist in assessing, diagnosing, and treating your child. Positive outcomes can still be achieved with early intervention and parental education.

While this particular developmental phase might seem like one of your most challenging ones, keep in mind that in most cases, it is still just a phase. It might be hard to see the beauty of it when you’re in the midst of it, but with every defiant stance, every hissy fit, every tearful outburst, your child is moving one step closer to becoming the person he or she is meant to be. ■

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LIVE LOCAL PROFILE

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for wedding gowns, and the gowns started piling in. Then, Jennifer Starns reached out after seeing the dresses and crocheting on Facebook.

She, too, began working with Anne, buying fabric and embellishments and working with the patterns.

The community in Central has jumped on board with endless amounts of energy and open hearts. Born with Angel Wings, as the organization is now called, meets once every six weeks at Blackwater United Methodist Church.

While some ladies deconstruct donated weddings gowns and cut out patterns, others crochet bonnets, make diapers, and string beads into matching mom and child bracelets. Some women get creative and make tiny vests and bowties to add to the gowns for the boys.

Once the items have been made, they are arranged in boxes to be sent to hospitals. Each Angel Bereavement Box contains a crochet blanket; gown; hats; diapers; journal; booties; tissues; stuffed animal; and a book, which includes information on the stages of grief, funeral arrangements, and poems. Then, the boxes are tied together with a pink or blue bow and labeled with boy or girl and the age of the baby the clothes will fit.

Anne has found hospitals in the area who don’t already have an Angel Group serving them, and she delivers the boxes to them to pass out to parents when they are needed.

“I feel that every person should be shown the dignity to be buried right,” Anne says. “Many of these parents aren’t prepared when their baby passes away.

Some have financial difficulties. To help these families at this time of their life is such a feeling of accomplishment, and you know you’re doing what you’re supposed to be doing.”■

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bout four years ago, Anne McCoy felt the pain and sorrow of losing a great grandbaby. She was traveling with her fiance, Cliff, and needed a way to deal with the grief she was feeling over her family’s loss. She began crocheting, and it turned into a comforting way to pass the time.

She had heard about Angel Groups that made Angel Gowns for babies who were “born with their angel wings.” In her search, she stumbled upon vibrant communities who made gowns and gifts for parents who lost their newborns.

As she began learning about these organizations, she became friends with many of the founders. Some sent her patterns for dresses and bonnets and shared information about the process of making Angel Gowns.

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Anne, along with her friends Peggy, Sheryl, Sue, Mary, and Helen, who were in other Angel Groups, got into a routine of helping one another by sending each other materials, finishing dresses and bonnets for each other, and lending emotional support.

“I had collected and accumulated a lot of stuff, and everything started stacking up,” Anne says. “It kind of ran like that [for a while], with me solo, with my support from these ladies. And then one morning, I woke up and prayed, ‘Lord, I can’t do this by myself. This is your ministry, and if this is what I’m supposed to do, make it possible. You need to send me some people.’”

Shortly after, April Welch Aucoin came to her, wanting to help. April put an ad in the local newspaper, asking

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LIVE MOM NEXT DOOR

Megan H. Kelly

By Amanda Miller

OCCUPATION ▪ Graphic Designer, Creative Director of Encounter Church & Founder of Baton Rouge Mompreneurs HUSBAND ▪ Trey Kelly CHILDREN ▪ Kadynce, 6, and Kensley, 2 HOBBIES ▪ Editing videos, graphic design, and singing

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njoy the moment and just breathe,” are brilliant words of advice that mom of two, Megan Kelly lives by each day. Her love of life, infectious smile, and excitement of learning (especially about all things techy!) are just a few of the reasons why she’s such a stellar person and mom.

In everything she does, Megan puts her family first, which is why being a mompreneur is so important to her. And now as the founder of Baton Rouge Mompreneurs, she’s on a mission to prove that moms really can do it all.

Tell me about your daughters.

M: Kadynce is 100 percent me, in every aspect.

She is happy, outgoing, and like my brother says about me, “too much!” Kensley is so funny. She is excitement, at all times. She’s energetic and curious, and she keeps us on our toes.

What do you like to do as a family?

M: We like to play games, go on walks. Our most fun time is when we are riding to church on Sundays. We have a little worship time warmup in the car. We try to do things that keep us talking and keep us interacting.

What’s the greatest thing about being a mom?

M: Every single day is the best day ever, even on the bad days. Knowing you’re making a difference in the world, and that these two children are underneath your care and God has given them to you to mold them and pour wisdom and everything into them, it’s awesome.

What brought you to start Baton Rouge Mompreneurs?

M: I wanted a place where moms could connect.

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How do you find the balance between work and family time?

M: I think balance is determined by you and what works for you because balance for you might not be the same as it works for me. I try to get enough sleep and wake up, and if I am breathing and everyone else is breathing, then somehow I have balanced everything.

What kind of mom are you?

M: Hopefully present. Just there in the moment for them. I think that is where the balance thing happens because even if you’re there, sometimes your brain is never stopping. I’m just trying to focus and be present.

What advice do you give your children?

M: Be a leader, not a follower. You are a child of God, you are beautiful inside and out, and you

do what’s right regardless. You lead people in the right way.

What’s your favorite family game to play?

M: Truth or Dare. We played recently and my husband asked Kadynce about a boy, and we were like, “Why do we play this game? Take it back! Just do Dare!” It’s fun to get to know them and learn more about them and vice versa.

Do you have any advice for other parents?

M: Be involved, be knowledgeable, and don’t be ignorant. Know what’s happening in your kids’ lives. With my parents, there wasn’t anything in my life that they didn’t know about. They were always so involved, and now with the social media age, it’s hard to keep up. But if we don’t, we lose our hold. You have to stay involved.

What are some things you want to do that are still on your bucket list?

M: Change the world and go to Africa, and I want my husband to work full time from home

with me. I don’t know if that’s his goal, but it’s certainly mine.

What do you keep on your nightstand?

M: My Bible and so many things for the kids.

There’s Barbies, you know, anything I can grab that is kid friendly and causes silence. My notebooks, too, because I like to write down everything in my head before I go to bed.

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What did you have as a child that kids today don’t have?

M: More opportunity for social interaction. We didn’t have all of these distractions in our hands.

When we went to restaurants, we had to get creative. When we were on long rides, we had to find ways to entertain ourselves.

Which family members have been your greatest role models?

M: My parents. I don’t like to be in environments where there isn’t happiness and peace because growing up, we saw our parents argue one time.

There was always peace in our home, and now that I am married and have kids and see the little things that can come up, I respect them for that so much. They taught us to talk things out when we had disagreements.

How important is it for moms to realize they can do it all?

M: It’s everything because you are equipped for the life that you have. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with things, but God created me to be able to handle the things that are within my realm. I already have everything within me to raise these kids and run this business, I just have to tap into that.

What advice do you often give to other moms?

M: What my mom gives me: Just breathe. Enjoy the moment and just breathe. It’s going to work out, it’s going to be okay. ■

Quick Q&A

In my fridge, you will always find…peanut butter and jelly.

Favorite movie growing up…The Sound of Music.

My guilty pleasure is…chocolate chip cookies.

Music I’m loving…Tasha Cobbs.

My favorite ice cream is...orange sherbert.

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Making a Difference with Dressing

By Mari Walker

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eceiving a chronic illness diagnosis at age nine was devastating for Maddie Plauche.

But in the five years since, she has used that experience to make wonderful things happen for others.

Now 14 and an eighth grader at STEM Magnet Academy, Maddie continues to deal with ulcerative colitis (UC), an inflammatory bowel disease that causes great pain and requires almost constant access to a bathroom. “She is a master of disguise and hides her pain very well,” says Brent Plauche, Maddie’s father.

Maddie says she has several friends who didn’t know anything was wrong until she told them.

Maddie has dealt with depression and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)

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following her diagnosis. “I was severely in a PTSD state,” she says. “I really couldn’t do anything. I lost two years of my childhood that I can never get back.”

Thankfully, Maddie learned about the Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation’s (CCF) Camp Oasis, specifically for kids with UC and similar conditions. Her parents offered to pay for it, but Maddie wanted to earn the money herself and decided to sell a special salad dressing her dad makes. Maddie’s Food Creations was born, and she even designed the logo with the purple CCF ribbon in place of the “A” in her name.

“At first, we kind of figured this is just because Maddie’s sick and everyone’s being nice, but she actually raised enough money to send herself to camp,” Brent

says. The business continues to thrive, and her dressings are sold on her website and in stores as far away as Alaska and New York.

The business is a family affair with her mom, Tammy, and her grandparents helping make and package the product.

Brent says they will have to find a cold packer as demand expands. As the creator of a certified Louisiana product, Maddie has been invited to Certified Louisiana Day at the state capitol where she will share her story with legislators and provide salads for the legislators’ lunches.

That first trip to Camp Oasis in Georgia was soon after Maddie’s diagnosis.

“Camp Oasis is a camp where you get to meet kids just like you,” she says. “Once you get there, it’s just amazing how it can change you so much and help you feel not alone.”

Maddie loved camp so much that she wanted to send others as well. She began Maddie’s Miracles, a nonprofit funded in part by her business, and she’s been able to send four other campers so far.

The family does a lot of fundraising beyond dressing sales, including hosting a craft show in New Roads on June 1.

“We try not to go around and beg for money, but we wanted to bring awareness of Crohn’s and Colitis,” Brent says.

Maddie plans to continue her business through high school and beyond. Her mental health journey has inspired her to want to study psychology in college, and she’s interested in interior design.

“Especially with chronic illnesses like this, it’s hard to come out because by appearances, you can’t tell anything is wrong,” Maddie says. “But once you’re putting yourself out there, it makes it a lot easier for others to come out—that they know it’s OK.” ■

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PIANO PATHWAYS

Breaking the Silence of Secrets

By Rev. Deirdre Halliburton, Associate Pastor of St. John’s United Methodist Church

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om and Dad, I have something to tell you.” These are words that all parents hear. The confession from our children that they took something that was not theirs or said something that was not true.

Our children watch to see how we honor our own words. Do we jump quickly to the punishment, or are we willing to offer grace and forgiveness? In Psalms 32, we hear that keeping silence is a heavy burden that causes us to feel as if we are wasting away.

A richer and fuller life is found in sharing with God and others, for it is in confession that forgiveness is found. Secrets, by their very nature, call us to isolation and silence, and it takes great courage to speak our secrets aloud.

When I was struggling with some of my own secrets, my counselor made me promise to open up and share the secrets with three of my closest friends. Secrets make us fearful and shameful, and to live a joy filled and authentic life calls us to openness and vulnerability.

Brene Brown in her book, Daring Greatly, writes, “Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy and creativity. It is the source of hope, empathy, accountability and authenticity. If we want greater clarity in our purpose or deeper and more meaningful, spiritual lives, vulnerability is the path.”

When we live a life of authentic vulnerability, we offer to our children a model of courage. When we speak aloud our secrets, we ourselves will find help and hope.

There is a story in John’s gospel about a man named Nicodemus who comes to Jesus at night. Preachers often use him as a negative example, but I think Nicodemus had a lot of courage to come to Jesus for confession. His story is not over in this one narrative because we hear about him again at Jesus’s death. Breaking the silence of secrets begins with giving voice to those whom we trust and leads to a life of wholeness and healing.

We are challenged as parents to be open and truthful, so that our children may grow to be authentic adults. ■

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THE ONE WORD YOU MUST TEACH YOUR TODDLER

By Melanie Forstall Lemoine, Ph.D.

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ou’ve likely been there before.

While playing with your busy toddler in your yard, his excitement gets the best of him and off he goes! He’s quickly running toward the street and you’re chasing him after him as fast as you can, which only leads him to think that this is just part of the game, and so, he doesn’t slow down. “Stop!” you yell at him, but he just keeps running.

“Freeze!” you yell at him once more, and suddenly, he pauses before he reaches the sidewalk. You quickly catch up to him, scoop him up in your arms, and carry him back inside, your heart beating out of your chest.

This frightening scenario is all too real for many families. Many have had a similar experience that ended without injury, however that’s not the case for some. Pedestrian injury is the third leading cause of accidental death for children ages 5-14.

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General Car Safety Parents often redirect children, and most often, the default term used is ‘Stop.’

However, ‘stop’ can be an overused word and become less alarming for a child in a dangerous situation.

According to Baton Rouge Clinic Pediatrician, Dr. Shelley M. Martin, “Parents can create confusion in young children by overusing the word ‘stop.’”

When a young child is running towards the street, yelling ‘stop’ may not be effective, as children may associate this with other, less important times a parent says to stop. For instance, making loud noises in a restaurant; if a child doesn’t immediately stop, he or she is not in immediate danger.

Consider a command that is used specifically for street safety, such as ‘Freeze!’ A command such as this should be taught to children and practiced, so that they understand when they are told

to freeze, they know exactly what to do.

Whatever is happening at that moment, they must stop completely until further direction from a parent. Additionally, Dr. Martin suggests, “Parents’ tone of voice needs to clearly convey when they are really serious about something.”

Local mom Stacy Roussel Hill stresses car safety using a similar strategy. “Whenever we played in the front yard, I would yell, ‘Car!’ and they knew to sit down immediately.” Over time, her boys began regulating this behavior on their own. Teaching them what to do when they heard the word ‘car’ helped them focus on their surroundings, which is critical for vehicle safety.

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the safest place to walk. In the event there is no sidewalk, pedestrians should use the left shoulder of the roadway.

▪▪ Obeying Traffic Signals. As a pedestrian, you still have to follow the traffic signals.

Pedestrians in Louisiana are legally required to follow and obey every single traffic signal that they encounter.

▪▪ Intersections and Crosswalks.

Louisiana law states that pedestrians have the right of way in marked crosswalks.

Vehicles must yield to pedestrians in a marked crosswalk, but pedestrians should always use caution when crossing the street.

Understanding what it takes to safely cross the street is key to why children should not cross the street alone. While each child is different, generally, children under the age of 10 do not have the skills developed to accurately anticipate the speed of an oncoming car and accurately

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judge the time needed to get across safely.

Therefore, children should never cross the street alone.

Local mom Krystal Howell has four young daughters, so safety around cars has always been an organized effort.

“When we are all together as a family of six, I say, ‘Everyone grab a buddy!’ and each girl chooses someone.” Howell says that while everyone having a buddy is important, it’s only part of her safety practice. “I’ve taught everyone to always look both ways–look left, look right, then look left again.”

Safety Beyond the Street Car safety goes beyond crossing the street, and includes driveways and parking lots. According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, in the instance of accidents involving toddlers, they are most often struck in the driveway. Preschool aged children are more likely to be hit running in parking lots, and teens are likely to be hit while crossing busy streets.

Accidents can happen anywhere, which is why it is important to have safety measures for all incidents involving moving vehicles. When Krystal is out by herself with her daughters, she instills the same safety measures. “Any time we are near cars, including parking lots, each girl has to be accounted for.

When I’m by myself, everyone grabs someone’s hand and we navigate the parking lot together like a conga line, just minus the dancing!”

When Stacy’s boys were young, safety was a priority while getting in and out of the car in parking lots. While strapping the youngest in the car, the oldest waited next to her. “He had to have his hand on the car at all times until I held his hand to walk him around to his side of the car.”

For any type of pedestrian safety, Dr. Martin reminds to families that being a good role model and setting a good example is best for all safety situations.

She encourages families to talk about street safety ahead of time, and most importantly, practice. ■

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PLANTING THE SEEDS OF STEM IN PRESCHOOL

Cover Kid 2018-2019 Lynnix J. Photo Credit: Kleinpeter Photography

By Jannean Dixon, M.Ed

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y kids love children’s museums. We have visited children’s museums in at least six or seven different states. Whenever we go on a vacation, we have to check out the children’s museum. Our kids have fun, my husband and I have fun, and it’s a win-win situation. Part of the allure, at least for us, is the broad range of experimental, educational play available to youngsters at the museums. Whether we are blowing objects up a wind tunnel or arranging mirrors to direct beams of light, our girls come away talking about what they’ve learned and asking insightful questions. At the heart of most of our play is the concept of STEM. Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math STEM can refer to each of these topics individually or as an inclusive concept of encouraging curiosity, asking questions, exploring and engaging in the world around us, and problem solving. It is never too early to start down the STEM path as children are naturally curious and enjoy experimenting with the world around them. Engaging young children in STEM activities can be likened to playing with purpose.

Tiffany Pontesso, an early childhood educator and mom of three, shares, “I’m a firm believer in including STEM in preschools. Preschoolers learn best by playing. With STEM-based activities, they are encouraged to think, to ask questions, and to observe. Preschoolers are natural question askers and are curious about their surroundings. STEM concepts go hand in hand with this style of learning. I believe the earlier kids are encouraged to embrace this natural curiosity, the better and more active learners they will become.”

STEM in School Incorporating STEM into the school day for our little preschoolers can be done in a variety of ways.

Karen Runnels, the Runnels Preschool Director, shares, “One of my favorite activities uses fresh cranberries and toothpicks. The children create geometric shapes of unique designs, connecting the

toothpicks with the fresh cranberries.

The open-ended activity allows the children to think creatively and problem solve, and work together or individually to create a wide variety of interesting structures. Some children create houses and interesting structures, [and some create] shapes and flowers. It was as stimulating for the teachers as it was for the children. The children are excited because everything looks unique; the creations of the others challenge the children to try something new, gets the children thinking, and opens their minds to think outside the box.”

And having STEM in preschool is important because children are usually already working on these skills.

“Starting at the age of three, students are coding, designing and building, conducting experiments, and integrating math,” shares Nikole Blanchard at the Dunham School. “STEM activities build on/correlate with lessons that students are learning in their classrooms. For instance, our three-year-old class is learning about the season spring. In the STEM lab, the students are testing whether eggs will crack when wrapped in different types of materials such as bubble wrap or feathers. The teacher models the role of a mathematician by graphing student predictions, as well as the experiment results. In the classroom, the students are hatching chicks and observing their behaviors. Learning is relevant and brought to life for the young ones through coordinated curriculum and exciting STEM lab experiences.”

of Earth Day, there are no right or wrong answers. Kids are creative and it is amazing to see some of the end results.”

Try This at Home Curious to try some STEM activities in your own home? Here are a few quick and easy ideas: ■ Catapult into Fun. Using large popsicle sticks and rubber bands, challenge your children to build a catapult that will fling small objects the farthest.

■ Cool it Down. Explore temperature with ice, rock salt, half and half, vanilla, and sugar, and shake your own ice cream!

■ Make Fun Colorful. Using food coloring and an ice cube tray, experiment with mixing colors. How many cool colors can you make?

Blanchard shares, “My hope is that by exposing students to STEM at an early age, it creates a positive perception of STEM, encouraging them to continue learning. All students, especially the little ones, need to be exposed to futureready skills: creativity, communication, collaboration, critical thinking, and cooperation. STEM integration in education is the perfect way to do this.” ■

STEM is SUPER STEM activities have various benefits.

Blanchard continues, “STEM allows children to be active learners while tapping into their natural curiosity, exploring the world around them, and asking questions. STEM integration at an early age builds a set of foundational skills and understanding of the world around them. When designing and building, students gain confidence in their ideas. They are encouraged to test ideas and take risks.

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IS THIS THE PLACE FOR THAT?

Schools Screening for Eating Disorders

By Emily Egan

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hen you hear the term “eating disorder,” what comes to mind? Do you picture the typical image of someone with anorexia or bulimia? Maybe even a binge eater?

While these may be the usual images we have come to know, what may not immediately come to your mind is someone you know who has an eating disorder.

While some people may not display the typical symptoms, the person may still be suffering. National surveys have estimated that roughly 30 million people in America will have an eating disorder during their life, and because of growing concerns regarding eating disorders and the impact that they have on a person’s body and mind, there have been questions 44

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on how to identify the signs that someone has an eating disorder more quickly.

Because there are a number of cases that involve children and teenagers, many have suggested that one solution could be carried out through the school system. On average, Louisiana students spend roughly seven hours a day in school, 178 days of the year. Because of this, combined with the fact that some schools already offer health screenings to their students, some question whether or not it would be a good idea to start implementing screenings for eating disorders in school.

Screening in Schools In her 10 years as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Rachel Stokes has come across a

number of cases where children and teenagers have had some form of an eating disorder. Dr. Stokes and Vanessa Richard, a registered dietitian nutritionist, work at the Louisiana Center for Disordered Eating, and when asked if schools should begin screening for eating disorders, both women agreed with the idea.

“Screening in schools for issues relating to eating or body image concerns is a helpful way to bring the topic into the forefront of teachers’ and administrators’ minds, while also helping to get early intervention to those beginning to struggle with these types of concerns, says Dr. Stokes.” And here, Richard agrees. “Kids spend a significant amount of time in a school setting, and because of this, it’s

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time to get addressed about this and even other mental behavioral issues.”

Benefits of Screenings Screenings in schools offer earlier detection, according to both women. However, when it comes to when schools should begin screenings, Dr. Stokes sees that middle school and high school screenings as having the most impact. “While individuals do begin struggling with eating and body image concerns in elementary school, the majority of individuals who struggle, and are later diagnosed, describe early symptoms and signs that began in late middle and early high school. Screening in both is valuable in providing access to more immediate intervention for those who need treatment services.”

Navigating the Obstacles While there are benefits, there are also questions of how to begin having screenings and what may come of them other than early intervention. If a school were to begin screenings, they may face obstacles.

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“If a school doesn’t have the proper training, children can feel stigmatized by what has happened. Costs can be a challenge to add or implement, resources may not always be available, and some families may see an eating disorder as more of a family issue rather than a school issue,” says Richard.

If parents have questions, knowledge is key. “If concerns are raised by student screenings, the school should have a plan for someone who can speak with the student and the parents,” says Dr. Stokes.

Understanding the Screenings Before a school begins screenings, they need to have a course of action. “I recommend that schools learn more about eating disorders to better understand what they are and connect with community resources to offer families help,” says Richard.

“Obtain grants, raise funds, or find tools to secure funding and bring in someone to do a screening.”

If schools do not wish to have the screenings, there are other ways to screen

students. “There are free screening questionnaires available and screening instruments that can be purchased,” says Dr. Stokes. “Typically, screening is just a few questions that can be done by any person who has a relationship with the child.

Many screening measures are now done through apps and computer programs.”

If the parent finds out that his or her child has an eating disorder, there are programs in our community and websites that can help.

“Parents can reach out to the Louisiana Center for Disordered Eating, treatment programs at the Eating Disorder Center, Our Lady of the Lake’s pediatric dietitians, and Baton Rouge Christian Center, who has a therapist who deals with eating disorders,” says Richard. And according to Dr. Stokes, treatment involves medical care, nutritional counselling, and psychotherapy.

With the proper education, screenings in schools could be beneficial for Louisiana students. However, there are obstacles that need to be overcome. ■

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PRESCHOOL PREP

Creating Lifelong Learners

By Pat Friedrich

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and potty training is not what makes a preschool proteégé.

But what does? When Joy Thornton of Zachary became a mom, she was not sure what her newborn needed to know, and by when. “I started talking to other moms and researching information on the Internet.” One great tool available for families is the Louisiana Birth to Five Early Learning and Development Standards (ELDS). The ELDS shows parents which academic standards are appropriate at each age. Using this as a

guide, parents have a clear blueprint for modeling and teaching the right skills at the right age.

We know that boys and girls learn best through play. Dr. Cynthia DiCarlo, LSU Professor of Early Childhood Education and Executive Director of the Early Childhood Education Laboratory Preschool tells us that children “have a natural desire to know and to learn.

And, parents can easily prepare their youngster for preschool success by simply supporting and promoting that intrinsic curiosity.” Dr. DiCarlo encourages parents to focus on intellectual goals versus academic goals. While academic goals concentrate on very specific skills that are practiced and memorized, intellectual goals and corresponding activities support children as they learn to predict, analyze, and question.

“Parents, and those working in the early childhood profession, should provide fun experiences that support children to think critically and solve problems.” Need help? The Early Childhood Education Laboratory Preschool offers training to parents and educators.

Reading to your children is a great example of an intellectual activity. Ask them to predict how the story will end, analyze the illustrations for clues as to what is happening in the story, and question how each character is feeling and why. Local mom Jodi Falgoust says she has read to her daughters since they were born. “My youngest was in the NICU for awhile. I started reading to her there. I think it helped me bond with her.”

Jodi’s children love books and sometimes select reading a good story as their choice for play time. In addition, playing games and singing songs that practice letter recognition and beginning sounds can also promote reading readiness, and create lifelong readers.

Do you want to teach your little ones how to problem solve? Do what Jodi does.

“I make up math word problems. Like, mommy and daddy are laying on the bed.

You come in and lay down with us. How many are in the bed now?” Counting can be great fun. Count fingers and toes, grapes in their snack bowls, and chairs around the table. Combining reading

Tips for Adjusting to Preschool Let’s face it. Preschool is much different from child care centers and home. And because attendance in preschool is not required, academic deficiencies are rarely the reason that a child struggles. Instead, it is often the lack of important behavioral, social, and emotional skills.

Cindy Riddle, Director, and Melissa Ozuna, Curriculum Director of Parkview Baptist Church Preschool offer the following tips to successfully adjust to preschool: 1. Build confidence in your children so that they are able to separate from you. Arranging playdates at other children’s homes is one way youngsters will learn that even when you leave them, you will return.

2. Increase their attention span.

Sit with your children while playing board games, coloring, and reading books. Start with just a minute or two and build up to five or 10 minutes.

3. Encourage sharing. Model how to share and read books about sharing. Praise your child when they do share something that belongs to them. Teach children that if they share with playmates, the playmates are more likely to share with them.

Also, teach children to take special care of shared items that do not belong to them.

4. Practice communication skills.

Teach your child to use words to express his feelings, needs, and wants. Practice by asking him to tell you why he is sad, glad, mad, or scared. Practice by requiring that he asks for what he wants instead of just pointing at it.

5. Prepare for the big day. Take your child to preschool for a visit. Walk through the campus, pointing out classrooms, the cafeteria, and the library. Talk to them about what the first day will involve, and encourage them to ask any questions.

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and math is easy. Read a counting book.

Encourage your child to count the items in the book, touching each one as he counts. Feel like fine motor skills need improvement? Cutting with safety scissors, drawing with crayons, and playing with blocks and Play-Doh work to strengthen muscles of the hands while exploring their creativity.

It's common for children to develop different skills at different rates.

Thornton notes that her children are very different learners. “The oldest was like a sponge, soaking up words and numbers,” says Thornton. The younger thrives doing independent play like Play-Doh, coloring, and using scissors. And, that is okay!

What is important is to challenge our children to do tasks for themselves.

Mia Durden and her two-year-old son practice being independent everyday. “When my son asks me for a drink or toy, and it is something that is safe for him to do, I tell him to do it himself.” This, “just-right challenge,” is important. By letting your child do activities that are just slightly above what he can easily do, yet require a little bit of a stretch, his abilities are being used correctly and his independence is maximized.

On that first day, when the little ones arrive at preschool and unzip their book bags, it will be easy to see crayons, glue, construction paper, and other school supplies. And, for those children who have had spent their early years exploring, experiencing, and creating; their book bags will also be filled with the social and emotional

skills needed to create a life-long love of learning. So, breathe easy. By spending the critical years from birth-to-five by loving, enjoying, and communicating with your children, those sought-after educational skills are sure to follow. ■

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10 LIFE SKILLS TEENS LEARN BY HAVING A SUMMER JOB

By Pam Molnar

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wait to get their first job after college.

These 10 life skills are not taught in a traditional classroom, but can be acquired with on-the-job training.

1. Time management. With 168 hours in a week, your teen will figure out how to fit in sports, social, and family commitments. He will not only learn how to work smarter and more efficiently, but

also learn to prioritize and discover that it’s ok to say no to the things that are not that important.

2. The value of a dollar earned When your teen sees something that he really wants–from a Starbucks coffee to a car of his own–he will feel a combination of pride and happiness to know that he worked for the money, and he gets to spend it guilt free.

3. How to talk to strangers. The customers he encounters at his place of employment will not be as kind or forgiving as his grandmother. They are total strangers who need his help to get them something or solve a problem.

He will learn to appreciate the patient ones, and to gently calm and redirect the difficult ones.

4. To work with people who he doesn’t like. This isn’t a class assignment

How a Part Time Job Prepares Your Teen for College and Beyond Having a part time job shows college admissions that your teen can handle the extra responsibility that comes with a job. He has proven that he can balance his time with his school work, preparing him for the independence of college life. Working with co-workers and irrational customers will be a bonus when trying to negotiate with roommates or in other group settings.

If working in high school was more of a necessity instead of a way to feed his Starbucks habit, it will also show that he is serious about his education since he has some skin in the game. The Common App allows him to list part time jobs under activities, in case he had to give up some extracurriculars to work.

If he is lucky enough to work in his field of study during high school, for example, in a veterinary clinic, he will probably have a jump start on his classmates in class. But even if he just held a job flipping burgers, he has real work experiences, mistakes, and solutions that he can build on for the rest of his life. ■

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where he chooses his partner or sports activity where he has known the other players for 10 years. These are people who may handle things differently than he does, who may have different morals, or who do not work as hard as he does.

5. Having a job means work. Work is not always fun, even for people who love their jobs. Paperwork, maintenance, and cleaning is part of any job. He will learn to do it efficiently, so he doesn’t have to do it over.

6. How to work under pressure Stress on the job comes from the never satisfied customer, a rush order, broken equipment, a co-worker who stands around, and sometimes, all of that at once. The trick is to not take it personally as he works through the problem at hand.

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will learn to take a deep breath and work with the customer until she is satisfied.

The same goes for co-worker conflicts. A rational conversation about the issue will be more effective.

8. Treat people like he wants to be treated. My son recently came home and complained about the people who don’t tip. Regardless of the fact that a large tip jar sits by the register in many establishments, a lot of people ignore them, thinking they are already paying enough for the product or service. When your teen relies on tips as a part of his pay, he will become a better tipper when he is out.

9. The skills required at the job.

Depending on where he works, the skills he picks up may be used later in life. He will learn how to count change without relying on the register, what temperature food needs to be in for the safe zone, or how to pack and stack boxes so they won’t shift in transit.

10. Hard work pays off. Giving 100 percent at work may get him a raise, an opportunity to advance or learn new skills, and even get the better shifts.

The work ethic he develops at his first job will shape the type of employee he will be in the future. ■ If you and your teen are looking for a job for him to take on this summer, there are resources that the two of you can check out to help get him started.

One of those resources is offered online by the local library.

The East Baton Rouge Parish Library provides an online service, Jobs for Teens HQ, that provides them with resume writing tips and guidance on finding the perfect part-time or fulltime jobs. The best part is that these jobs can be sifted through depending on your teen's age and his interests.

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know how to keep an 11-year girl quiet on a road trip. All you need is a 5.5-inch piece of glass. Let me translate that for you: I made the leap and got my daughter her first cell phone, and I decided the best time to give it to her was just as we left for a family getaway. Not only did this keep her entertained, but also, the classic game of, “Are we there yet?” was quickly squashed thanks to Google Maps.

Some people have questioned me on why I would get a phone for an 11 year old, but I look at this differently compared to when we got our first phones. It was a phone then, and now, it’s just an app–another function of this device that does so much more. And, a lot of what it does is for me and my wife, not just her. Also, who are we kidding? Our children are online and using our phones, and let’s face it, this technology/Internet thing is sticking around.

Now, I will say I think there is a gap for a lot of children, and it is our fault as parents that we skipped a few steps. I am guilty myself, but I quickly fixed this. You see, my first call to my daughter was when she was in her room one morning. When she answered, I was greeted with, ”What.” Let’s just say, I hung up the phone, went and got both her and the phone, and we had a “little talk.” The phone became mine.

Did we forget phone etiquette? Parents, let’s make sure that when these phones are dealt out that they come with responsibility and tracking. I can see: What YouTube videos are being watched, what she is searching, what apps are installed, what websites she has been to, and I can turn the Internet off on demand or set a schedule.

If you need some help with this, text me and I will send you a link to the app that can do all of this. Remember, these devices are a window to the world, and our little ones are not ready to see all there is to see just yet. And please, don’t let your children become a “What” child because I can’t even stand a “What” adult. Text me at (225) 283-4888 for a link to the app. ■ 56

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FROM THE MOUTHS OF DADS

Never is a man more of a man than when he is the father of a newborn.”

—Matthew McConaughey

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PLAY GET OUT OF TOWN

GREAT WOLF LODGE

Grapevine, Texas

THINGS TO DO

BEFORE YOU GO

Coordinates | 32.9415° N, 97.0604° W Baton Rouge to Grapevine | 446.5 miles Driving Time | 6 hours, 33 minutes Why Great Wolf Lodge Grapevine? | Start your summer off right with a trip to Great Wolf Lodge in Grapevine, Texas. Featuring an 80,000 square foot indoor water park, on land family adventures, and a wide range of dining options, Great Wolf Lodge has everything you need to have the perfect vacation, all in one location.

WHERE TO STAY

Stay in the middle of the action when choosing a suite at Great Wolf Lodge.

For a themed stay, choose from KidKamp, Wolf Den, Whirlpool, or the KidCabin suites. Included in all of these stays are all-day access to the water park, a 24/7 fitness center, kids’ activities, story time with character appearances, and the Great Clock Tower Lobby Show. Regardless of where your family chooses to sleep, you’re sure to have a cozy and comforting stay.

WHERE TO EAT

Lodge Wood Fired Grill Experience a smart new dining adventure at Lodge Wood Fired Grill. With steaks, fresh seafood, and smoked ribs to choose from, you and your family will leave feeling happy and full. There are plenty of kid-friendly options to try, including standard mac-and-cheese and wings with delicious dipping sauces. Finish your meal with a two-dollar dessert, or if you’re an adult, a Tiki-inspired cocktail.

Buckets Incredible Craveables Have a poolside picnic with the fam at Buckets Incredible Craveables.

Check out their burgers, sandwiches, and fresh salads, before topping it off with one of their delicious desserts. The signature Tipping Bucket can’t be missed. This sugar-filled vacation treat is fit for a king, featuring layers and layers of brownies, cookies, and candy topped with chocolate sauce and whipped cream.

Character Breakfast Start your morning while sharing breakfast with the characters at Great Wolf Lodge. You and your family will be able to dig into an all-you-can-eat breakfast buffet while meeting Wiley and his pack in The Loose Moose Cottage. Be sure to bring your camera for this family photo op.

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Go on a water slide adventure with the entire family at the Indoor Water Park. Suit up and slide down the Alberta Falls water slide together on this tandem ride. Through this exhilarating four story ride, you will slide outside the building (and back in) before splashing into the plunge pool. If you’re wanting to fly solo, you can when you ride single style.

If your child enjoys swinging on the monkey bars at school, then he’s going to get a kick out of Big Foot Pass. This combination of rope cross and lily pads means your child can cross using his arm strength on the cargo nets, or jump from lily pad to lily pad. And if he falls, the pool is below him to guarantee a soft landing.

Take on the Howlers Peak Ropes Course. This course offers all sorts of high-flying adventures, all while wearing a climbing harness. On the ropes course, you and your family will be balancing, crossing bridges, climbing obstacles, and hanging on tight. This experience is sure to “elevate” your family vacation to new levels.

Battle the evil dragon, befriend pixies, and create some magic during MagiQuest. MagiQuest turns Great Wolf Lodge into a playground. Your children will be able to choose a special magic wand, customize it with extra powers, and set off on a quest. They can immerse themselves in Vellara, a realm of enchantment, to defeat the Goblin King. The quest is up to them!

Get in some R&R as you vacay. Great Wolf Lodge offers two spa options to choose from for you and the little ones. If you want to pamper the little girls in your life, Scooops Kid Spa offers ice cream inspired soaks, sherbet scented scrubs, and nail color tips. You can also get a Mommy & Me pedicure if mom wants a sweet time, too! For mom and dad, take off to the Elements Spa Salon for a variety of massages, from the aromatherapy massage to the signature foot massage.

At the hotel, there are plenty of activities included in your stay. Wake Up with Wiley and Friends and find your inner zen before the water park opens. You can even catch The Great Clock Tower Show, enjoy the Lunch Time Lineup and a special Story Time, and finish the night off with a PJ Party with the Great Wolf Kids.

Buckle up for a multi-sensory adventure at the Howly Wood XD Theatre.

This theatre doesn’t just show movies. The theatre is actually a full, 4D thrill ride. You’ll feel like you’re a part of the movie as your motion-enhanced chair and special effects transport you and your family to an entirely different dimension. ■

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These adorable Cat Snackies are perfect for any lunchbox.

You heard that right, mom, even your lunchbox. Pack your child’s lunch with the essentials for school or camp in style. And, they’re especially helpful for the child whose foods cannot touch!

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Being a mom is one of the sweetest and most rewarding things you can be, and the Mama Disc Necklace is a reminder of just how sweet it is. Choose from gold, rose gold, or silver before including “mom,” “mimi,” or even “gigi” in this necklace for yourself or for the one who always has your back.

■ madebymary.com If you dream of growing sweet berries but have zero space to do so, your dreams are about to come true! With the Bushel and Berry Baby Cakes Bush, you can grow berry bushes. The plant will reach up to 3-4’ tall, making it perfect for small spaces or container gardening.

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As you sit in your backyard, the wind blows and the opening notes of “Amazing Grace” fill the silence. This calming experience is created by the Woodstock Percussion Custom Engraved “Amazing Grace” Aluminum Wind Chimes. This wind chime is hand-tuned, plays the opening tones of the song, and can even be engraved. ■ amazon.com

Keep your drink hot (or cold!) and fresh with the SOMA Ceramic Mug. Featuring a leak-proof bamboo lid, you can easily drink your coffee as you sit in traffic or while enjoying a few minutes of “me time” before you start your day.

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Take the perfect picture with your pooch with the WOOFIE. This pet selfie and portrait tool can easily attach to your smartphone or tablet, and it will hold your dog’s favorite treat or toy to keep his attention as you get the pic.

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Mother’s Day Itinerary

STOP 1:

Relaxation is Key

We love our local businesses, and if you want to do something fun, we recommend starting your day by getting a stone massage at Bumble Lane in Gonzales.

The heat from the stones helps to warm the muscles, allowing you to achieve the deepest massage without the deepest pressure. You will leave feeling relaxed and like a brand new woman as you take on your fun Mother’s Day.

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Brunch Time

After you’ve had your massage, a girl has to eat! We recommend heading over to one of Baton Rouge’s hottest new restaurants, Provisions on Perkins. We met up with our husbands and children, Cash Coy and Charli Rose, for brunch, and we indulged in a Watermelon Crush Martini and their amazing Brussel Sprouts.

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You deserve time for yourself, mom! We have crafted the perfect Mother’s Day Itinerary for you and your girlfriends (or you and your special someone) to get together and have a relaxing and stress-free day, celebrating you.

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Mani Pedi?

Yes Please!

Once you’ve finished with your delicious brunch, don’t let the self care stop there.

Head over to the new Venetian Nail Salon in Perkins Rowe for the most relaxing mani pedi experience. It’s such a gorgeous and luxurious new spot to check out, and it’s perfect for a day of pampering.

STOP 4:

Top It All Off

With zero stress, thoughts of the delicious food you indulged in still fresh on your mind, and your mani pedi complete, we recommend finishing your day at our favorite spot in Baton Rouge, Drybar.

Sit among other women, engage in fun conversation, get a fresh blowout, and sip on a mimosa. You deserve it, mom.

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HOW MOTHERHOOD MADE ME APPRECIATE MY MOM

By Sarah Lyons

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hen I look back at each important moment in my life: the day I learned to drive, my graduation, my wedding, the birth of my first child, she is always standing in the background, smiling and cheering me on. More importantly, she was part of the other not-so-monumental moments in my life like when I got stung by a bee, when the kids teased me, and when I cried my way through my first broken heart.

My mom was always there to support me through all the moments, big and small. Now that I have been a mom for a dozen years, I appreciate my mom so much more for the things she has always done with little or no recognition. I now realize the sacrifices she made and the monumental effort she put in. Here are a few reasons why I appreciate my mom a lot more since becoming a mom.

For maintaining.

The mother’s work is never done, and it is a thankless job. Taking even one day off means more work for the days to come.

Moms pick up the same toys, wash the same dishes, and do the same laundry over and over again. Not only do moms maintain the housework, but they also hold a mental inventory of all items in the home. Most moms can recall the location of the baby’s favorite stuffed animal, the toddler’s missing shoe, the library books, and any other random item a family member may request at any given time. I appreciate the example of steadfastness that my mom gave me for maintaining our home each day.

For managing.

As moms, we often feel like we live in our minivans. Moms don’t just transport kids from one activity to the next. They also maintain the family calendar, make appointments, and make sure everyone is in the right place with the right gear.

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a full time job that my mom (and most moms) manage with ease. I appreciate my mom for being the social planner, taxi driver, and personal assistant to our whole family as we grew up.

For enduring.

The first time I dropped my son off at a babysitter’s and watched him cry and reach for me in the window, my heart broke. As moms, we endure heartache as we watch our children learn and grow, succeed and fail, and endure illnesses, hurt feelings, and disappointment.

Our heart soars when they meet their goals and sinks when things don’t work out. Motherhood is a roller coaster of emotions that us moms withstand without complaint. I appreciate my mom for her strong support of me even when she was hurting too.

For the unseen.

There are things moms do everyday that go unnoticed. Moms make sure the football jersey is clean before the next game, check in on a sick kid during the night, drop off a forgotten lunchbox, replace toothbrushes, clean out the pantry, email teachers with concerns, volunteer, cook, shop, and so many little things that keep a family going every day. The little things that don’t seem to matter, that most won’t notice, that no one asks for, that moms do just because they want to show their love for their family. I

appreciate my mom for all the things she has done for me that I never thought to thank her for.

For loving me anyway.

Moms love their kids even when they’re going through tantrums, potty training, back talk, and rebellion. There is no doubt that raising kids is trying on the patience, but moms have a way of letting us know that no matter what mistakes we make, they will be there to catch us when we fall. I appreciate my mom for loving me even when I was unlovable.

For letting me go.

When you become a mother, you are the center of your child’s world. You feed her, change her, and comfort her. The more she grows, the more independent she becomes. While this is something to celebrate, it can be heart wrenching to loosen the grip on a child and trust her to manage life and all of its challenges alone. It’s scary and new and feels more like a loss of control than anything else, but as you watch your child take on life’s challenges, it can be a great sense of pride as well. I appreciate my mom for letting me go, grow, and experience life in my own way.

This Mother’s Day, take notice of the hard work moms do every day.

Acknowledge the little things they do, thank them for always being there, and hug them tight before you leave. ■

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Celebrate all of the moms at this special Mother’s Day Celebration at the Audubon Zoo in New Orleans on Sunday, May 12 from 10 a.m.6 p.m. Enjoy a performance by Grammy-award winner Irma Thomas and the Professionals, feast on delicious treats, and check out the Cool Zoo. Moms receive complimentary admission to the Zoo. ■ audubonnatureinstitute.org

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DISABILITY SERVICES DAY. State Capitol from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. This day is sponsored by The ARC of Louisiana. facebook.com GLUTEN-FREE SUPPORT GROUP. St. Elizabeth Hospital from 6-7 p.m. Dr. Elizabeth Bollinger will discuss gluten-free living for patients who are living with celiac disease and non-celiac gluten sensitivity. The support group is free. (225) 621-2906 I CARE LIVE. Webinar series held at noon by the I CARE program. The webinar will feature guest speakers who will promote personal safety, drug prevention, and self-help educational resources icare.ebrschools.org

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BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8 p.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves.

Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 FRESHHH HEAT. EBR Main Library at 5:30 p.m.

Teen open mic and poetry slam. Free. ebrpl.com PICTURES AT AN EXHIBITION. First Baptist Church of Baton Rouge at 7:30 p.m. Performance by the Baton Rouge Symphony Orchestra. Tickets run $40-60. brso.org ROCK ‘N ROWE. Perkins Rowe from 6-9 p.m. Free concert. Lawn chairs welcome. perkinsrowe.com

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TEEN ADVISORY BOARD. Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. Teens can suggest programs, volunteer at the branch, and help choose books.

(225) 686-4180 TICKFAW 200. Blood River Marina. Louisiana’s largest poker run stretching 200 miles across Louisiana’s waterways. bloodrivermarina.com ZACHARY CHAMBER CRAWFISH COOK-OFF. The Pointe @ Americana, Zachary, at 5 p.m. cityofzachary.org

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drinks available for purchase. Free. visitiberville.com BOOK BABIES. Watson Library at 10:30 a.m. For infants through age five with stories, music, and games. (225) 664-3963 BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. Free.

(225) 231-5475 CRAWFISH KING COOKOFF. Riverfront Plaza from 4-8 p.m. $20-25 is the cost for all you can eat crawfish. crawfishkingcookoff.com DONALDSONVILLE WING AND SING FEST. Crescent Park, Donaldsonville. tourascension.com

FESTIVAL OF TWO RIVERS. St. Alphonsus Church from 5-11 p.m.

Games, rides, bingo, food, drinks, sweets, frozen food booth, and various dinners on certain days. festivaloftworivers.com FRIDAY LUNCH LIVE. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, at noon. Free performance.

Performers are Young at Heart Singers. brgeneral.org HOMECOMING DANCES. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. and May 4 at 3 p.m.

Baton Rouge Ballet Theatre’s most accomplished alumni come home to create dynamic new works for their hometown company. Tickets run $25-45. batonrougeballet.org SENSORY SENSITIVITY TIME. EBR Main Library

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE from 8:30-11:30 a.m. with a special storytime at 9:30 a.m. Flashing overhead and sidelights will be turned off. Registration required.

(225) 231-3750 SPRING CONCERT. Live Oak Methodist Church, Watson, at 7 p.m. The award-winning Livingston Parish Children’s Choirs will present their annual concert. lpccsing.org STORIES IN ART. LSU Museum of Art at 10:30 a.m. Free program for children from birth to preschool and their caregivers. Enjoy a book and art project designed to make families comfortable exploring in a museum setting.

(225) 389-7207 THE COMPASSION JOURNEY. First Baptist Church of Livingston from noon-7:40 p.m. An interactive journey through the true stories of children living in poverty throughout the world. Free, but registration is required. facebook.com TICKFAW 200. Blood River Marina, Springfield, through May 4. This is Louisiana’s largest poker run, stretching 200 miles across Louisiana’s water-

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#LOVEBATONROUGESATURDAYS. Knock Knock Children’s Museum at 1 p.m. The museum will present a program with experts that demonstrates how families can be healthy. knockknockmuseum.org A NIGHT AT THE PLANTATION. Audubon State Historic Site, St. Francisville, from 4 p.m. until May 5 at 10 a.m. Bring your tents and camp out on the Oakley Plantation grounds in this annual program.

(888) 677-2838 BABY GRAND. Woman’s Hospital from 8:30 a.m.12:30 p.m. Join healthcare professionals as they share tips on taking care of babies while taking care of yourself with classes, tours, door prizes and exciting demonstrations. womans.org BATON ROUGE ARTS MARKET. Farmers Market, downtown Baton Rouge, from 8 a.m.-noon. The event will feature special art activities for kids. artsbr.org

CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 10 a.m.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org CHILDREN’S GARDEN FESTIVAL. LSU Botanic Gardens from 8:3011:30 a.m. Participants will receive a snack and a take-home craft with topics of vegetable painting, composting, snakes, bees and butterflies, bird feeder stations and planting plants. lsu.edu CINCO DE MEOW BOWLING TOURNAMENT. Circle Bowl from 6-10 p.m. Teams of four will compete in a threegame tournament, enjoy pizza with soft drinks or a cash bar, and receive a tshirt. Benefits Cat Haven. cathaven.org CLINTON MARKET DAY. Downtown Clinton in front of Courthouse from 8 a.m.-1 p.m. Monthly open market. (225) 683-5531 CRAWFISH FESTIVAL. Breaux Bridge through May 5. Music, food, contests, workshops, rides, cookoffs, crawfish racing, arts and crafts, and a craw-

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fish eating contest. Admission & parking charged. bbcrawfest.com DERBY DAY AT GAITWAY. Gaitway Therapeutic Horsemanship, St. Gabriel, from 3-8 p.m. Annual event benefits riders with special needs. facebook.com DONALDSONVILLE DOWNTOWN LIVE. Crescent Park in Donaldsonville from 6-9 p.m. Free concert series, weather permitting. Lawn chairs permitted.

(225) 445-1383 DONALDSONVILLE MARKET ON THE SQUARE. Louisiana Square from 8:30 a.m.12:30 p.m. Various vendors. visitdonaldsonville.org FESTIVAL OF TWO RIVERS. St. Alphonsus Church from 11 a.m.-10 p.m. Games, rides, bingo, food, drinks, sweets, frozen food booth, and various dinners on certain days. festivaloftworivers.com FIRST SATURDAY OF THE MONTH HIKE. Port Hudson State Historic Site, Jackson, at 10 a.m. Join a park ranger on a guided hike of the battlefield area known as Artillery Ridge.

(888) 677-3400 HOMECOMING DANCES. Manship Theatre at 3 p.m.

Baton Rouge Ballet Theatre’s most accomplished alumni come home to create dynamic new works for their hometown company. Tickets run $25-45. batonrougeballet.org LOUISIANA LEMONADE DAY. A free, community-wide program that fosters entrepreneurship and character development among Louisiana’s youth by supporting them in establishing and operating their own lemonade businesses. lemonadeday.org LOUISIANA TRIATHLON. New Roads. Includes an 800-meter swim, 18-mile bike ride, and a 5K run with a Finish Festival. imathlete.com

MAY THE FOREST BE WITH YOU TREE GIVEAWAY. EBR Main Library from 9 a.m.-noon.

Baton Rouge Green will be distributing 1,000 native trees free to local citizens to aid the ongoing recovery from the 2016 floods. batonrougegreen.com MOTHER’S DAY TEA. Donaldsonville Library at 10 a.m. Children ages three to eight and their moms can enjoy cake, tea, punch, a story, a flower craft and games. myapl.org MS. BECKY’S FARM DAY. Petite Farms, Prairieville, from 10 a.m.-2 p.m.

Free event for individuals of all ages with cognitive and developmental disabilities and their friends and families with food, games, petting zoo, and horse rides.

(225) 673-3276 NOT YO MAMA’S MOUNTAIN BIKE FEST. BREC’s Comite River Park. Event for ages 16+ with contests, a trail ride, slackline, music, and food. brec.org OLD SOUTH JAMBOREE. 9554 Florida Boulevard, Walker, at 7 p.m., featuring Carlton Jones and His Red Hot Country Band. livingstontourism.com ORIGAMI WITH MR. SZE. Bluebonnet Library at 10:30 a.m. Children ages 8-11 will learn how to do basic origami projects.

Registration required.

(225) 763-2250 PREGNANCY WORKSHOP AND BABY CARE BASICS. Lane Regional Medical Center, Zachary, from 10 a.m.-noon. The Pregnancy workshop is an overview of pregnancy and delivery, and the Baby Care Basics workshop covers what is needed to know for the newborn’s first weeks of life. Registration is required. lanermc.org READ PHOTOS. Jones Creek Library from 2-4 p.m. Children can stop by the Children’s Room to

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(225) 756-1160 RUN FOR WARD TORCH/COLOR RUN. The Ascension Clerk of Court Building, Gonzales, at 8:30 a.m. Color Run is $40 and Torch Run is $25. getactivefundraising.com SOUTH LA CRAWFISH BOIL, CRAFT, AND CAR SHOW. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, from 9 a.m.-9 p.m. Music, arts and crafts, food, competitions, kids’ activities. Admission is $5 per person. lamardixonexpocenter.com TEEN STEAM: LEGO SPIN ART MACHINE. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens are invited to a monthly club to explore programming and robotics and build a spinning art platform with LEGO MINDSTORM Robotics kits. (225) 756-1170 THE COMPASSION JOURNEY. First Baptist Church of Livingston from 11 a.m.-6:40 p.m.

An interactive journey through the true stories of children living in poverty throughout the world. Free, but registration required. facebook.com THE COOKOUT. LSU Shaver Theatre at 2 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. A dance musical performed by New Venture Theatre. Tickets run $15-20. newventuretheatre.org THE LITTLE RED HEN STORY/CRAFT. Jones Creek Library at 10:30 a.m.

Children ages three to five can listen to The Little Red Hen and make a Little Red Hen picture using feathers, fabric, and paper. Registration required.

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CINCO DE MAYO. BREC’s Gardere Lane Park from 2-4 p.m. Celebrate the Mexican holiday with food, music, children’s village, arts and crafts, vendors and family games.

(225) 272-9200 CRAWFISH FESTIVAL. Breaux Bridge. Music, food, dance contests, music workshops, carnival rides, cookoffs, crawfish racing, arts and crafts, and a crawfish eating contest. Admission and parking charged. bbcrawfest.com FESTIVAL FOR THE ARTS. The Gladys Hague Runnels Theatre starting at 1 p.m. with an art show, harp concert, strings concert and the 6-12th grade band. runnels.org FESTIVAL OF TWO RIVERS. St. Alphonsus Church from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Games, midway rides entertainment, bingo, food, drinks, sweets, frozen food booth, and various dinners on certain days. festivaloftworivers.com FREE FIRST SUNDAY. Free admission to the LSU Museum of Art, LASM, the Old State Capitol, USS Kidd, Capitol Park Museum, and BREC’s Magnolia Mound Plantation. visitbatonrouge.com HOSPITAL ORIENTATION. Woman’s Hospital from 1:30-2:45 p.m. or 3-4:15 p.m. Tour the labor and birth suites, family waiting areas, and Transition Nursery while learning what you can expect.

Registration required. Free.

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ONCE UPON A TIME: A 25TH ANNIVERSARY PICNIC. Old State Capitol grounds from 1-4 p.m. Enjoy a special day with old-fashioned games and challenges, historical characters, and a special re-dedication of the building honoring veterans. louisianaoldstatecapitol.org SENSORY SENSITIVE SUNDAY. Chuck E. Cheese’s at 9 a.m. Opens two hours early with reduced lighting and games for children with autism and other special needs. chuckecheese.com SOUNDS OF COMMUNITY. Wesley United Methodist Church at 4 p.m. Concert by the Interfaith Federation of Greater Baton Rouge, followed by a reception. ifedgbr.com SPRING NEIGHBORHOOD CONCERT SERIES. McKinley Middle Magnet School at 4 p.m. Kids’ Orchestra Honors performance. kidsorchestra.org THE COMPASSION JOURNEY. First Baptist Church of Livingston from noon-4:40 p.m. An interactive journey through the true stories of children living in poverty through-

out the world. Free, but registration is required. facebook.com THE COUNTRY FAIR. Rural Life Museum from 2-5 p.m. Includes live bluegrass music, old-fashioned games, food, and a familyfriendly silent auction. hypebr.com TRUNK SHOW FOR MOTHER’S DAY. LSU Museum of Art Store from 1-5 p.m. lsumoa.org UTC DANCE: LUAU. UCT Hall from 4-7 p.m.

Dinner and dance for individuals with disabilities and their parents/caretakers. fhfgbr.org

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LINE 4 LINE. O’Neils Barber and Beauty Salon.

Free haircuts once a month to boys ages 2-16 who read to the barbers. Free food.

(225) 389-7207 MICROSOFT WORK BASICS. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 2 p.m.

Students ages 12+ will learn the basic features of Word and how to type and format documents. Registration required.

(225) 686-4140 MOMMY AND ME. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 11 a.m.-noon. A breastfeeding support and education group designed to help mothers and babies learn about successes and challenges with breastfeeding. brgeneral.org PARENTS NIGHT OUT FOR SPECIAL NEEDS REGISTRATION DEADLINE. St. Jean Vianney Church on May 10 from 6:30-9 p.m. for children with special needs ages 2-12 and their siblings.

Registration requested. $5 donation requested. parentsnightout@stjeanvianney.org PREGNANCY 101. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Learn how to provide your baby with the best possible environment for growth and development.

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NO SUCH THING AS IMPOSSIBLE BIKE RIDE. Pointe Marie, with registration at 6:30 a.m. Cyclists participate in a 10-, 40- or 75-mile ride followed by free fun rides for children of all abilities later at 11:30 a.m. ■ mcmainscdc.org

WEEKLY EVENTS 33 VARIATIONS. Theatre Baton Rouge from May 10-19. Play about a mother coming to terms with her daughter and a composer coming to terms with his genius.

Rated R. Tickets run $19-25. ■ theatrebr.org A UNIVERSE OF STORIES. East Baton Rouge Library from May 28-July 31.

Summer reading program with a focus on the anniversary of the very first moon landing. Includes special programs and prizes. Registration required. ■ ebrpl.com BASF KIDS’ LAB. LASM on the second and fourth Saturdays at 11 a.m., 1 p.m., and 3 p.m. and Sundays at 1:30 p.m. and 3 p.m. Explore the world of chemistry in hands-on workshops for children ages 6-12 and their parents or caregivers.

Participants may preregister Monday through noon Thursday prior to the program.

Regular admission applies. ■ kidslab@lasm.org BATON ROOTS DEMO DAYS. 5509 Winbourne Avenue on Wednesdays from 4-6 p.m. Families can learn about growing their own food, harvesting, and eating healthy in Baton Rouge. ■ facebook.com/batonroots DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS MICKEY’S SEARCH PARTY. Raising Cane’s River Center from May 9-12. Embark on a quest with Mickey Mouse and pals as they follow Captain Hook’s treasure map for clues to find Tinker Bell. Tickets range $15-75.

■ raisingcanesrivercenter.com FREE FRIDAY NIGHTS. LSU Museum of Art from 5-8 p.m. Free admission to the museum. ■ lsumoa.org JAMBALAYA FESTIVAL. Gonzales Civic Center from May 23-26. Features entertainment, food, carnival rides, a car show, and cooking contests. Free admission.

■ jambalayafestival.net JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH. LSU Shaver Theatre from May 23-26. Roald Dahl’s fantastical tale of a boy, his insect friends, and their amazing journey. Performed by Christian Youth Theater. Tickets are $16-22. ■ cytbatonrouge.org KIDS BOWL FREE. All Star Lanes, Circle Bowl, and Quarters. Children are eligible to register for two free games each day. ■ kidsbowlfree.com NATIONAL PUBLIC GARDENS WEEK. Burden Center from 9 a.m-noon from May 13-17. As part of National Public Gardens Week, the LSU AgCenter Botanic Gardens will have different themes/activities each day. Free. ■ lsu.edu STORY TIME. Java Mama on Wednesdays through May 29 at 10:30 a.m with Susannah Lazar Magnuson, Usborne Book Consultant. ■ facebook.com/javamamabr SUNDAY IN THE PARK. Shaw Center for the Arts Plaza from 2-5 p.m. through May 19. Free concert which includes children’s activities. Bring blankets or lawn chairs. ■ artsbr.org SWAMP POP MUSIC FESTIVAL. Hidden Oaks Family Campground, Hammond, from May 24-27. Includes food and vendors. Tickets are $15.

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CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital today and May 8 from 6:30-9 p.m. Cost is $35.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY KHALYIA R. Cover Kid 8 years old AFTER SCHOOL SNACK WITH PETEY THE PELICAN. Pelican State Credit Union’s Prairieville Branch from 4-6 p.m. Snacks, goody bags, face-painting/tattoos, balloons, photos with Petey the Pelican, and door prizes. facebook.com BE KIND TO ANIMALS WEEK STORY/CRAFT. Baker Library at 4:45 p.m.

Children ages four to eight can listen to Elmer and make an elephant collage craft. Registration required.

(225) 778-5950 BOOK A LIBRARIAN COMPUTER HELP. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 2 p.m. Teens and adults can make an appointment with a librarian to help with basic computer and Internet skills. Registration required.

(225) 686-4140 CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 6 p.m.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org DRIVE FOR DYSLEXIA. University Club Golf Course at noon. Annual golf tournament supporting The Brighton School. thebrightonschool.org HOPE CHESTS BREAST CANCER SUPPORT GROUP. Ochsner Hospital from 6-7 p.m. This

monthly support group features speakers and light refreshments for attendees. ochsner.org KAYAKS AND COFFEE. BREC Greenwood Community Park from 10 a.m.-noon. Adult event with adventure and exercise followed by coffee in the Waterfront Cafe. Cost is $10-12. brec.org LIFE SIZE ALADDIN CLUE. Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. Teens can play a large size game of Clue. Registration required.

(225) 686-4180 PARENTS/CAREGIVERS NETWORKING MEETING. Conference call at noon. For parents of children with behavioral issues who need information and support. Access number is 546755#.

(641) 715-3273 THRIVING WITH DIABETES. St. Elizabeth Hospital, Gonzales, from 6-7 p.m. Free workshop with the topic of “Putting Your Best Foot Forward.”

Registration required.

(225) 621-2906 VIPS PICNIC. Our Lady of Mercy Catholic Church from 4-6 p.m. Annual EBR Volunteers in Public Schools (VIPS) volunteer picnic and Apple Awards ceremony. vipsbr.org YOUNG WRITERS CLUB. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 5 p.m. Open to ages 12-18. Each meeting, members practice writing in many different styles and genres to fine-tune skills and challenge themselves. (225) 686-4140

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AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Second class.

Cost is $35.

(225) 231-5475 GROCERY STORE TOUR. Rouses, Juban Crossing, from 10-11 a.m.

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR Join Baton Rouge General’s dieticians for a grocery tour to learn how to choose fresh and healthy foods and how to understand confusing nutrition labels.

Registration required. brgeneral.org JOSHUA RADIN. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m.

Love and the complications surrounding it have long proven to be Joshua Radin’s songwriting forte.

Tickets run $33-48. manshiptheatre.org LEGAL ASSISTANCE. West Baton Rouge Library, Port Allen, from 10 a.m.noon. A representative from Southeast Louisiana Legal Services will be available to answer your legal questions.

(225) 342-7920 MOTHER’S DAY TEA. Dutchtown Library at 10 p.m. Children ages three to eight and their moms can enjoy cake, tea, punch, a story, a flower craft, and games. myapl.org TOUR FOR TWO (OR MORE). Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-7 p.m. Free tour of the Birth Center. brgeneral.org

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ART AFTER HOURS: FRAMEWORKS OF ABSENCE. LASM from 5:30-7:30 p.m. Tour the exhibition and engage in conversation about the diversity of Earth’s species with artist-biologist Brandon Ballengée and experts from the LSU Museum of Natural Science. lasm.org BABY CARE BASICS. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-9 p.m. Learn how to prepare for your baby’s arrival, what to expect on the big day, and how to survive the first two weeks. Cost is $30 per couple. brgeneral.org GET CAUGHT READING MONTH STORY/ CRAFT. Carver Library at 4:30 p.m. Children ages 70

seven to nine will hear Building Blocks and make a bookmark.

(225) 389-7450 LULU AND BEAN STORYTIME. Lulu and Bean at 9:30 a.m. Babies and toddlers up to age three can enjoy 20-30 minutes of free, interactive fun with a storyteller. luluandbeanbr.com MOTHER’S DAY TEA. Galvez Library at 6 p.m.

Children ages three to eight and their moms can enjoy cake, tea, punch, a story, a flower craft and games. myapl.org ROCK ‘N ROWE. Perkins Rowe from 6-9 p.m. Features live performances by bands from the area. Spend the evening shopping in Perkins Rowe, dining at the restaurants, and enjoying the music. perkinsrowe.com SHIELD OF HOPE GALA. L’Auberge Event Center at 6 p.m. Keynote speaker is David White, producer of the God’s Not Dead movie series.

(225) 326-0726 SUNSET PADDLE. BREC’s Milford Wampold Park from 6:30-8 p.m. for ages 12 and older. Enjoy the University Lakes for an evening paddle under the setting sun. brec.org THE LIFE OF A SINGLE MOM IMPACT LUNCHEON. Crowne Plaza from 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m.

Fundraiser celebration with a chef-prepared meal, entertainment, a speaker, and a silent auction. Tickets are $50. thelifeofasinglemom.com

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BREASTFEEDING EXPRESS. Woman’s Hospital from 11:30 a.m.1:30 p.m. Small group class for women only. Recommended as a refresher class or for women who prefer a fast-paced class. Cost is $20 person.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY ETHAN JACE C Cover Kid 7 years old CLAYS FOR A CAUSE TOURNAMENT. Bridgeview Gun Club, Port Allen, at 9 a.m. Neighbors Capital Area Foundation’s annual tournament benefiting the Neighbors Way Tuition Assistance Fund. neighborsfcu.charityproud. org HOT ART, COOL NIGHTS. Mid-City Baton Rouge from 6-10 p.m.

Free annual spring festival with MidCity businesses sponsoring local artists who showcase their original work along with music, hors d’oeuvres, and beverages.

Free shuttle bus. midcitymerchantsbr.org LIVE ON THE WESTSIDE AT 5. Town of Addis Railroad Museum and Park from 5-8 p.m. Free concert. Don Rich performs. facebook.com LOUISIANA STEM EXPO. LSU Patrick Taylor Hall from 11 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Hands-on demonstrations, hovercraft, and dissections. Free. Registration required. lastemexpo.org PARENTS NIGHT OUT FOR SPECIAL NEEDS. St. Jean Vianney Church from 6:30-9 p.m. for children with special needs ages 2-12 and their siblings.

Registration requested. $5 donation requested. parentsnightout@stjeanvianney.org SPOOF NIGHT: RAIDERS OF THE LOST ARK. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Improv performance by the The Family Dinner Comedy Troupe. manshiptheatre.org

BALLOON RIDE FOR TWO. Hop aboard a hot air balloon and reach new heights with your special someone. You and your sweetie will see spectacular views of Baton Rouge on your hour-long flight. You can go up, up, and away throughout the week on mornings or afternoons, and after you land, you and your loved one will be able to sip champagne and discuss all of the fun you had.

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ULTIMATE DINING EXPERIENCE. Have dinner and enjoy a show in a whole new way when you have hibachi and sushi on your next date night. Grab a group of friends and make it a group date to feast on delicious handcrafted sushi, fresh sashimi, and hibachi at Ichiban Japanese Grill & Sushi Bar. The expert hibachi chefs will flip and chop your perfect meal while you spend time with your special someone and your friends. ■ ichibanbr.com

HILLS AND HOLLOWS: LOUISIANA BICYCLE TOUR. Load up your bikes and head to St. Francisville for a brilliant bike tour with your special someone. This date allows the two of you to get fit, enjoy the outdoors, and connect in an entirely new way. Visit the West Feliciana Sports Parks from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. on Saturday, May 25 for these three races and rides that will test your limits and allow you to spend some time together. ■ stfrancisville.us

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR ST. MARK LIGHT LANE FESTIVAL St. Mark Catholic Church, Gonzales, from 6-11 p.m. with rides, games, music and food. facebook.com SWAMP FLASHLIGHT NIGHT. BREC’s Bluebonnet Swamp from 5-9 p.m.

Live animal encounters, special nature films, and a hike by flashlight. brec.org WIGGLE WORMS. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 10:30 a.m.

Children up to age five and their caregivers will participate in music and dance activities that enhance lifelong learning and neural development.

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A BABY IS COMING. Woman’s Hospital from 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. for children ages four to eight.

Class designed to help big brother and sister learn about their new sibling’s arrival by talking about what new babies are like. Cost is $25. Registration required.

(225) 231-5475 ARTSY CAPITOL HEIGHTS GARAGE SALE. Create Studios from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Arts, crafts, sample pieces, supplies, art mags, albums, jewelry, and furniture. facebook.com ASK A LAWYER. Greenwell Springs Road Library from 9:30-11:30 a.m. Free, individual counseling sessions. ebrpl.com ASTRONOMY DAY. LASM from 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Annual celebration with activities and special planetarium shows. lasm.org BABY CAKES’ SPECIAL OLYMPICS NIGHT. Baby Cakes Stadium, Metairie, from 6-8 p.m. Baby Cakes will be hosting Special Olympics athletes and honoring their accomplishments by inviting them onto the field. laso.org BEAST FOR A DAY. West 72

Feliciana Park Trail, St. Francisville, with registration from 5-8:45 a.m. Run one lap or three or six or twelve hours on THE BEAST Trail. ultrasignup.com BIRD WALK FOR BEGINNERS. Port Hudson State Historic Site, Jackson, from 9-11 a.m. A ranger-led bird hike with a brief introduction to birding and bird-watching.

(888) 677-3400 CHILDBIRTH CLASS. Ochsner Medical Center from 8 a.m.-3:30 p.m.

Free class covers pregnancy, pain theories, pre-labor signs, postpartum/newborn procedures and basic breastfeeding. Registration required. (225) 755-4854 CHILDBIRTH PREPARATION. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 8 a.m.-noon.

Learn the basics of labor and birth, including pregnancy changes, nutrition, relaxation techniques and comfort measures from certified RNs. $40 per couple. brgeneral.org COLOR THE NIGHT. Barnhill Preserve, Ethel, at 5 p.m. Live music, a silent auction, food and beverages, a photo booth and animal meet and greet.

Tickets are $35. barnhillpreserve.com DANCE SUMMER TOUR AUDITIONS. Odyssey Academy of Dance, Denham Springs, at 1 p.m.

Dancers age eight and older are invited to audition for the tour of The Magic Book Store. Audition fee is $5. (225) 270-7089 DONALDSONVILLE MARKET ON THE SQUARE. Louisiana Square, Donaldsonville, from 8:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m.

Various vendors. visitdonaldsonville.org EMERGE A-GO-GO. Manship Theatre from 8-11 p.m. Fundraiser for The Emerge Center with music, dancing, a live auc-

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tion, gourmet food, and open bar. 1960s mod attire. emergela.org EXPLORE THE POUR. Art Depot Gallery, Gonzales, from 2-3 p.m. All ages are invited to this art class by River Region Art Association. Cost is $30. riverregionartassociation. org LAMAZE: LABOR OF LOVE. Woman’s Hospital from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. for couples wanting to learn how Lamaze techniques assist in labor and birth.

Registration required. womans.org LUPUS WALK. CoPac Walk Track, Plaquemine, from 8 a.m.-noon. $15 team registration includes t-shirts. facebook.com MODEL TRAINS. Republic of West Florida Historical Museum, Jackson, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Free indoor and outdoor model train displays by the Greater Baton Rouge Model Railroaders. (225) 634-3473 MOTHER’S DAY PHOTO. Bass Pro, Denham Springs, from noon-5 p.m.

Free 4X6 Mother’s Day photo. (225) 271-3100 MOTHER’S DAY STORY/ CRAFT. Greenwell Springs Road Library at 2:30 p.m.

Children ages three to five will listen to I Love Mom with The Very Hungry Caterpillar and then color and paste a butterfly-shaped card. Registration required.

(225) 274-4450 MOTHER’S DAY TEA. Gonzales Library at 10 a.m. Children ages three to eight and their moms can enjoy cake, tea, punch, a story, a flower craft and games. myapl.org RED BUG HILL. 13970 Hwy. 421, St. Francisville, beginning at 8 a.m.

Features 10 new challenges on the property. After the challenges, there will be food, raffles, and live music. redbughill.com ROCK THE DOME. LASM Planetarium at 6

p.m. with Laser Beatles and 7 p.m. with the Pink Floyd eXperience. Cost for non-members is general admission plus $5 per show. lasm.org SATURDAY MORNING MOVIES: SPACE DOGS. East Iberville Library, St. Gabriel, from 10 a.m.-noon.

Children and pre-teens are invited to watch a movie at the library.

(225) 642-8380 SNORKELING. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from 1010:45 a.m. Ages eight and up can learn how to snorkel as well as how to properly kick with and without fins.

The cost is $5. libertylagoon.com ST. MARK LIGHT LANE FESTIVAL St. Mark Catholic Church, Gonzales, from 10 a.m.-11 p.m. and May 12 from 11 a.m.-7 p.m. with rides, games, music and food. facebook.com STUDIO SATURDAYS. LASM at 2 p.m. Hands-on workshop for children ages 8-14 and their accompanying adults. Explore the genius of Leonardo da Vinci as the world celebrates 500 years since he lived. Registration required. lasm.org TEA-RIFFIC MOTHER’S DAY CARD MAKE AND TAKE. Jones Creek Library from 1-3 p.m. Children ages 3-11 can stop by the Children’s Room to make a teacup card with flowers.

(225) 756-1160 TYKE HYKE. Woman’s Hospital from 9-10:15 a.m.

Prepare your three year old for your hospital stay by taking a brief tour of the hospital and through practice with baby dolls.

Registration required. Cost is $25. womans.org V. WATTS TRADE MART TRADE DAY. V. Watts Trade Mart, Livingston, from 8 a.m.-3 p.m. outdoors and indoors from 8 a.m.-6 p.m. 100 indoor vendors and acres of outdoor vendors.

facebook.com WALK TO CURE ARTHRITIS BATON ROUGE. Pennington Biomedical Research Center.

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KIDS’ ORCHESTRA PERFORMANCE. Knock Knock Museum at 2 p.m. Baton Rouge Kids’ Orchestra presents a string concert followed by a STEAM activity. knockknockmuseum.org MOTHER’S DAY AT THE ZOO. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo. The first 100 mothers to arrive will receive a free flower, courtesy of Billy Heromans. brzoo.org MOTHER’S DAY CELEBRATION. Audubon Zoo, New Orleans. Moms of all ages receive complimentary admission to the Zoo. audubonnatureinstitute.org MOTHER’S DAY PHOTO. Bass Pro, Denham Springs, from noon-4 p.m. Free 4X6 Mother’s Day photo. First 75 to have a photo taken will receive a free plaid tote for their mother. (225) 271-3100 MOTHERHOOD OUT LOUD. Mestizo Restaurant at 7 p.m. A Readers Series

by Red Magnolia Theatre Company. Tickets are $10. redmagnoliatc.org ST. MARK LIGHT LANE FESTIVAL St. Mark Catholic Church, Gonzales, from 11 a.m.-7 p.m. with rides, games, music and food. facebook.com

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CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at noon.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org HOSPITAL ORIENTATION. Woman’s Hospital

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE from 6:30-7:45 p.m. or 8-9:15 p.m. Tour the labor birth suites, family waiting areas and Transition Nursery while learning what you can expect. Registration required. Free.

(225) 231-5475 TABLETOP GAMING NIGHT. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 5 p.m.

Ages 12 and up can play role-playing, adventure, strategy, or board games.

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BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8 p.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn what changes to expect during puberty and how to take care of themselves.

Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 CONCERTS AT THE POINTE. The Pointe of Americana, Zachary, at 7 p.m. Blue Horizon performs. Tickets run $15-20. raczachary.com LIFE SIZE ALADDIN CLUE. Denham Springs/ Walker Library at 5 p.m.

Teens can play a large size game of Clue. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 PARENTS/CAREGIV-

ERS NETWORKING MEETING. Conference call at noon. For parents of children with behavioral issues who need information and support. Access number is 546755#.

(641) 715-3273 ZOO AND ME MORNING: SPINELESS WONDERS. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo from 9:30-11:30 a.m. Children’s program for ages three to six. Registration required.

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APOLLO 11. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. This documentary takes a look at the Apollo 11 mission to land on the moon led by commander Neil Armstrong and pilots Buzz Aldrin and Michael Collins. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org I CARE LIVE. Spanish version of the Webinar series by the I CARE program at noon with various guest speakers who promote personal safety, drug prevention and self-help educational resources. icare.ebrschools.org LUNCHTIME LECTURE.

West Baton Rouge Museum, Port Allen, at noon.

This lecture and book signing will feature Catherine Savage Brosman and Olivia McNeely Pass, the authors of Louisiana Poets: A Literary Guide. westbatonrougemuseum. com WOMEN’S HEALTH LUNCH. Elegant Affairs, Gonzales, from 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m. A parish-wide luncheon on women’s health with a panel of expert speakers. This event is sponsored by St. Elizabeth Hospital. Tickets are $20.

Pre-registration required.

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ages can play with the computers. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 JEOPARDY AT THE LIBRARY. Jones Creek Library at 7 p.m. Teams play Jeopardy and win prizes.

(225) 756-1160 MURDER MYSTERY MADNESS. Carver Library at 3:30 p.m. Teens can get into character and figure out whodunit. Registration required.

(225) 389-7450 NIGHT TIME STORYTIME. West Baton Rouge Library, Port Allen, at 6:30 p.m. Read, sing, clap and dance to nursery rhymes and action songs. Snacks will be provided.

(225) 342-7920 PFLAG SUPPORT GROUP. Unitarian Universalist Church at 6:30 p.m. Support group for friends and family of LGBT people every third Thursday. sh4569@aol.com SUNSET PADDLE. BREC’s Milford Wampold Park from 6:30-8 p.m. for ages 12 and older. Enjoy the University Lakes for an evening paddle under the setting sun. brec.org TEEN ANIME CLUB. Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. Anime and Manga enthusiasts can watch anime, discuss manga, learn about Japanese culture and play games. (225) 686-4180 THE GIBSON BROTHERS. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. The Gibson Brothers’ newest venture is an effortless blend of classic ‘70s infused rock and timeless country. manshiptheatre.org

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INTERNATIONAL ASTRONOMY DAY. BREC’s Highland Road Observatory from 3-11 p.m. Solar and lunar viewing, demonstrations, games, rides, raffles, exhibitors and food vendors. Free admission. ■ hrpo.lsu.edu

BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. Free.

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THE GAZEBO. Virginia Street Gazebo, Zachary, from 6-9 p.m. Cam Pyle and the Perkins Road Band plays. This is a free family-friendly event with food trucks and beer. cityofzachary.org FAMILY DINNER IMPROV SHOW. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. From the folks who brought you Spoof Night! with Films at Manship comes a locally made, monthly comedy show. For ages 17 and older.

Tickets are $6. manshiptheatre.org PLAY 4 ALL. Knock Knock Children’s Museum from 5-7 p.m. A monthly program for children with sensory processing differences, disabilities, and developmental delays. knockknockmuseum.org SUNSHINE SOCIAL: PROM. BREC’s Womack Ballroom from 6-9 p.m.

Dance for adults, ages 16 and up, with special needs and their friends and families. (225) 216-7474 THE GREEN BOOK: GUIDE TO FREEDOM. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. This is a documentary film from the Smithsonian Channel. Rated PG. Free. manshiptheatre.org

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ACTION SPACE GLIDER. Jones Creek Library at 2 p.m. Children ages six and up will hear facts from The Space Adventurers’s Guide and then Raymond David from Red Stick Remote Control Airplane Club will show participants how to make a space glider.

Registration required.

(225) 756-1160 AINSLEY’S ANGELS STATE BBQ CHAMPIONSHIP COOK OFF. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, at 11 a.m. Championships, including a kids’ competition, Kids’ Zone, silent auction, raffles, music and food and beverages for purchase. facebook.com

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR AUDUBON DAY. LSU Hill Memorial Library from 9 a.m.-2 p.m. A viewing of John James Audubon’s famous Birds of America folios, a display from the LSU Museum of Natural Science, and live birds from LSU’s Resident Raptors program. Free, but reservations are required. lib.lsu.edu BATON ROUGE OYSTER FESTIVAL. Galvez Plaza from 11 a.m.-8 p.m. Eating, cooking and shucking competitions as well as food from vendors. facebook.com BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves.

Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 BUNNY BOWL. Circle Bowl from 3-5:30 p.m.

Magic Happens Rabbit Rescue fundraiser with two hours of bowling, shoe rental, and a free t-shirt.

Cost is $25 per bowler. magichappensrescue.com CALM COLORING AND TEA. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m.

Teens can learn to reduce

stress by coloring soothing designs, sipping on a cup of tea, and watching a calming documentary.

(225) 756-1170 CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 10 a.m.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org COLOR ME CENTRAL 5K. Central Middle School from 7-10 a.m. Cost is $35 with a shirt or $25 without. colormecentral5kitsyourrace.com CREATIVE IN RESIDENCE: CAN YOU PLUCK IT? Knock Knock Children’s Museum with a performance at 10 a.m. Harpist Rebecca Todaro will cultivate musical awareness through hands-on harp workshops and storytelling exercises.

Registration required. knockknockmuseum.org FELICIANA TRADE DAYS. Graceland Portable Buildings at the corner of Hwy. 10 and Line Road, Jackson, from 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

Crafts, pottery, clothes, yard sale items, a farmer’s market and food.

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SHOP. Greenwell Springs Road Library at 3:30 p.m.

Children ages 8-11 will learn the basics of coding as well as fundamental computer science concepts with Dr. Anjayi Anwansedo.

Registration required.

(225) 274-4450 GOSPEL IN THE PARK. Jambalaya Park, Gonzales, from noon-8 p.m. Annual event with youth choirs and liturgical dance teams presented by The River Road African American Museum. tourascension.com GREAT STRIDES. BREC Highland Road Park at 10 a.m. cff.org IN THEIR WORDS. Bluebonnet Library at 10 a.m. Talk by Barbar Haigh, composed of quotes which will create delightful and enlightening capsules of American history from the 1770s to mid-nineteenth century. (225) 925-8921 KIDS TO PARKS DAY. Port Hudson State Historic Site, Jackson, from 9 a.m.4 p.m. Take a nature hike, do a nature scavenger hunt, and pick up an Endangered Species Activity Book.

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ometer Gravitational Wave Observatory, Livingston, from 1-5 p.m. Open to the public for free. ligo.caltech.edu LOUISIANA SATURDAY NIGHT VARIETY SHOW. Suma Crossing Theatre, Satsuma. Grand Country Junction show. Tickets run $7-12. grandcountryjunction.com MUSIC AND MUDBUGS. The Robert A. Bogan Baton Rouge Fire Museum from 6-11 p.m.

Annual fundraiser celebrating Louisiana’s recognized Firefighter Appreciation Day with crawfish, music, drinks, games and other food. Tickets are $35. eventbrite.com OPEN HEARTH COOKING DEMONSTRATIONS. Audubon State Historic Site, St. Francisville, from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. A day of open-hearth cooking using the original fireplace of Oakley Plantation. Admission charged.

(888) 677-2838 PARTY FOR THE PLANET: ENDANGERED SPECIES DAY. Audubon Zoo, New Orleans, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Learn about the importance of protecting endangered species while enjoying animal care chats and interactive activities. audubonnatureinstitute.org PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital from 1-5 p.m. Learn basic information so you can learn to recognize the signs of labor and how to practice comfort measures during labor. Registration required. Cost is $35.

(225) 231-5475 RED STICK ROLLER DERBY. Mt. Pilgrim Family Life Center at 6 p.m.

Double Header home team bout. Admission is $8 for ages 5-12 and $15 for ages 13+ for double headers. facebook.com SWAMP BIRTHDAY PARTY. BREC’s Bluebonnet Swamp from 9 a.m.-5

p.m. Celebrating 22 years of connecting people to nature with live animal encounters, crafts, games and birthday cake while it lasts. brec.org THE REVOLUTIONARY WAR BATTLE OF BATON ROUGE. Audubon State Historic Site, St. Francisville, from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Explore Louisiana´s role in the revolution and the 240th Anniversary of the siege and Battle for Baton Rouge through living history demonstrations.

(888) 677-2838 ZACHARY MAYPOLE CELEBRATION/HUG YOUR PEOPLE COMMUNITY PARK DEDICATION. Lee Street at Virginia Street, Zachary, from 9 a.m.-noon. cityofzachary.org

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY MELVIN "IVAN" B. III Cover Kid 12 years old AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital from 12:30-5:30 p.m. Take this class in the sixth month of pregnancy. For new parents, grandparents, adoptive parents or caregivers.

(225) 231-5475 ART UNLEASHED. BREC’s City-Brooks Community Park and Cane’s Dog Park from 2-6 p.m. Live music, live art, food, beer, crafts for adults and kids, and of course, dogs. brec.org AUDUBON SENSORY SUNDAY. Audubon Zoo, New Orleans. Special

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE needs visitors of all ages connect with nature with special activities. Advanced registration required. audubonnatureinstitute.org EXPEDITION PADDLE. Bogue Chitto from 8 a.m.3 p.m. BREC event for intermediate to advanced paddlers for ages 12 and up. brec.org GAITWAY’S INAUGURAL HORSE SHOW. GaitWay Therapeutic Horsemanship Baton Rouge from 8 a.m.-3 p.m.

Show classes for Barrel Racing, Dressage, English Pleasure and Western Pleasure. facebook.com GIRL TALK. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, at 2 p.m. Oneday class led by Baton Rouge General OB/GYN physicians for girls who are between the ages of 9-11.

Cost is $10. brgeneral.org HERO APPRECIATION DAY. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from noon-6:30

p.m. Free admission available with proper ID for EBR first responders and military. libertylagoon.com LACHADD SUPPORT GROUP. Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge at 2:30 p.m. ADHD meetings are open and free to the public. lacachadd.org PRESERVATION IN THE HOME. EBR Main Library at 3 p.m. Adults are invited to a presentation

by Archivist Melissa Eastin that will cover information on how to care for all types of archival materials in their home. Registration required. ebrpl.com

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CANGELOSI DANCE PROJECT: ON THE MOVE. Manship Theatre at 7 p.m. Various works in classical ballet, contemporary, tap and jazz dance. Tickets run $25-35.

manshiptheatre.org CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 4 p.m.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org LIFE-SIZE CODING. Scotlandville Library at 4 p.m. Children ages five to seven will listen to How to Code a Sandcastle and then become a lifesize computer.

Registration required.

(225) 354-7550 MICROSOFT WORD INTERMEDIATE. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 6:30 p.m. For students ages 12+ who have completed the Basics.

Registration required.

(225) 686-4140 STAR OF STARS SPORTS AWARDS. L’Auberge Casino and Hotel at 5:30 p.m. Special guest speaker is Drew Brees. theadvocate.com

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Learn CPR and foreign body airway obstruction techniques for infants and children. $30 per couple. brgeneral.org FREE PLAY IN MAY. Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. All ages can play with the computers. Registration required.

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LIFE-SIZE CODING. Scotlandville Library at 4 p.m. Children ages 8-11 will listen to How Coding Works and then become a lifesize computer. Registration required. (225) 354-7550 PARENTING SUPPORT. Greenwell Springs Road Library at 5:30 p.m. Seminar for caregivers of children ages five and younger.

(225) 926-8005 TEEN ADVISORY BOARD. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 5 p.m. Teens can suggest programs, volunteer at the branch and help choose books. (225) 686-4140

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breast properly, the father’s role, and how to avoid common problems. Cost is $35.

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(225) 231-5475 CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 3 p.m. Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org LUNCHTIME LECTURE. West Baton Rouge Museum, Port Allen, at noon. Lecture and book signing with Bryan Wagner, author of The Life and Legend of Bras Coupé: The Fugitive Slave Who Fought the Law, Ruled the Swamp, Danced at Congo Square, Invented Jazz and Died for Love. Bring a bag lunch. westbatonrougemuseum.com

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A UNIVERSE OF STORIES: STAR WARS BINGO. Jones Creek Library from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Event for all ages. Celebrate your favorite Star Wars characters.

(225) 756-1150 BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Preteen boys ages 10-13 and their dads/moms will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. Registration required.

(225) 231-5475 BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Learn the benefits of breastfeeding, how to prepare for breastfeeding, how to get the baby on the breast properly, the father’s role, and how to avoid common problems. Cost is $35.

Registration required.

(225) 231-5475 FEEDING YOUNG MINDS. Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. Feeding Young Minds is an initiative working to stop childhood hunger in Livingston Parish.

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Information and support group for grandparents and others raising children not their own. lagrg.org LA LECHE LEAGUE OF BATON ROUGE MEETING. Java Mama at 10:30 a.m. The League will host their monthly breastfeeding meeting. facebook.com LEGO CLUB. Watson Library at 5 p.m. for ages 3-11. Includes a monthly theme, craft and snack.

LEGOs provided.

(225) 686-4180 SISU AND YOU. Knock Knock Children’s Museum from 5:30-7:30 p.m. The topic is A New Health Perspective: The Body Revolution Kids Need. This is a creative workshop for families, and it is free for kids ages 5-11. Registration required. eventbrite.com

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FAMILY DINNER IMPROV SHOW. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. From the folks who brought you Spoof Night! with Films at Manship comes a locally made, monthly comedy show. This show is for ages 17 and older. Tickets are $6. manshiptheatre.org LIVE ON THE WESTSIDE AT 5. Town of Addis Railroad Museum and Park from 5-8 p.m. Free concert. Mojeaux performs. facebook.com SPECIAL OLYMPICS CAPITAL AREA TORCH RUN. North Boulevard Town Square at 8 a.m.

Registration is $25 per person, and it will include the official Law Enforcement Torch Run T-shirt. facebook.com STATE SUMMER SPECIAL OLYMPICS GAMES. Southeastern Louisiana University, Hammond, through May 26.

Male and female athletes from across the state will compete in a varity of athletic events. Winners will be announced. laso.org

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BATON ROUGE SOUL FOOD FESTIVAL. North Boulevard Town Square from 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Entertainment, soul food cooking, arts and crafts, and a kidfriendly environment. Free admission, however, $25 VIP tickets are available. brsoulfoodfest.com BAYOU COUNTRY SUPERFEST. LSU Tiger Stadium. Annual country music festival. bayoucountrysuperfest.com DOG OBEDIENCE TRIALS. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales. Only participant dogs allowed. lccoc.org GREEK FEST. 1200 Robert E. Boulevard, New Orleans, from 11 a.m.-11 p.m.

Greek food, dancing, music, arts and crafts and tours of the cathedral. greekfestnola.com LOUISIANA HILLS AND HOLLOWS BIKE TOUR. West Feliciana Sports Park, St. Francisville, from 8 a.m.5 p.m. Starts at $40-50 per rider. kevindreher@bellsouth.net MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND BLOCK PARTY. Tanger Outlet Mall from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Face painting, balloon artists, make and take crafts, and music. tangeroutlet.com RECYCLED READS. 3434 North Blvd. at Acadian Thwy., behind the Baton Rouge General. Enter on Westmoreland Drive from 9 a.m.-2 p.m.

(225) 231-3741 STATE SUMMER SPECIAL OLYMPICS GAMES. Southeastern Louisiana University, Hammond, through May 26. Male and female athletes from across the state will come together to compete. laso.org THE TRUTH ABOUT FAD DIETS. West Baton Rouge Library, Port Allen, at 2 p.m.

Join Area Nutrition Agent to learn the difference between fact and fiction when it comes to fad diets.

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BATON ROUGE SOUL FOOD FESTIVAL. North Boulevard Town Square from 10 a.m.-8 p.m.

Entertainment, soul food cooking, arts and crafts, and kid-friendly environment. brsoulfoodfest.com BAYOU COUNTRY SUPERFEST. LSU Tiger Stadium. Annual country music festival. bayoucountrysuperfest.com DOG OBEDIENCE TRIALS. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales. Only participant dogs allowed. lccoc.org GREEK FEST. 1200 Robert E. Boulevard, New Orleans, from 11 a.m.-7 p.m.

Greek food, dancing, music, arts and crafts, and tours of the cathedral. Admission is $8 with children 12 and under admitted free. greekfestnola.com STATE SUMMER SPECIAL OLYMPICS GAMES. Southeastern Louisiana University, Hammond. Male and female athletes from across the state will compete. laso.org SUNDAY FUN-DAYZ. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from noon-6:30 p.m. Arts and crafts, games, creatures and other special features while supplies last. libertylagoon.com

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MEMORIAL DAY REMEMBRANCE CEREMONY. USS Kidd at 10 a.m. Honors fallen service members. usskidd.com SAFE SITTER COURSE. Woman’s Hospital from 9 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Sitter can learn safety skills, first aid and rescue skills, life and business skills, and child care skills. Registration required.

Cost is $75.

(225) 231-5475 TABLETOP GAMING NIGHT. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 5 p.m.

Ages 12 and up can play

role-playing, adventure, strategy, or board games.

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BREASTFEEDING BASICS BATON ROUGE GENERAL. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-9 p.m.

Course on the advantages of breastfeeding, how to care for yourself while breastfeeding, and proper breastfeeding techniques.

Cost is $30 per couple. brgeneral.org CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 5 p.m.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org CELEBRATE FIRE SAFETY. Central Library at 11 a.m. Children will listen to Captain Derrick Glover of the Central Fire Department on what to do in a fire and climb on a firetruck. Registration required. (225) 262-2650 LSU SCIENCE CAFE. The Varsity Theatre from 5-7 p.m. This month’s topic is Full Circle: Music, Struggle, Reconstruction and Inspiration. Free food.

Open to all ages. Registration requested. eventbrite.com MOVIE MATINEE: ALADDIN. Jones Creek Library at 2:30 p.m. Children ages six and up can kick off summer reading by watching the 1992 movie.

Bring your own snacks.

(225) 756-1160 PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital. Two-day class today and May 30 at 6:30-8:30 p.m. Learn basic information so you can recognize signs of labor and practice comfort measures.

Registration required. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475 SUMMER READING KICK-OFF DAY. Denham Springs-Walker Library and Watson Library at 10 a.m.

All ages can sign up for the Summer Reading program.

(225) 686-4140 (Denham) or (225) 686-4180 (Watson)

learn the basics of digital painting on a library iPad. (225) 756-1170

ASTRONAUT HELMET. Jones Creek Library at 10:30 a.m. Children ages three to five will listen to Life on Mars and then make a paper astronaut helmet.

Registration required.

(225) 756-1160 COOL CAREERS SERIES. EBR Main Library at 11 a.m. The first of a series for teens and 20-somethings. Today’s workshop is on finding and applying for scholarships. Registration required. careercenterbr.com PRENATAL CLASS. Baton Rouge Clinic Pediatric Building at 5:30 p.m. Free class for expectant moms with Baton Rouge Clinic pediatricians. Registration required. batonrougeclinic.com STEM GALAXY RAINBOW STORY/CRAFT. Baker Library at 3:30 p.m.

Children ages 9-11 can listen to Galaxies, Galaxies and make outer space art. Registration required.

(225) 778-5950 TEEN IPAD PAINTING. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can

ART BOT BUILDERS. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 2 p.m. Children ages 5-11 can learn to build Art Bots. Participants can create and customize their own bots to take home and explore other fun tech toys. Registration required.

(225) 686-4140 AVOIDING SENIOR FRAUD: HOW TO PROTECT YOUR LOVED ONES FROM SCAMMERS. EBR Main Library at 6 p.m. Free workshop hosted by Neighbors Federal Credit Union and Better Business Bureau.

Registration required. neighborsfcu.org CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 9 a.m.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org MOVIE AT THE LIBRARY. Donaldsonville Library at 6 p.m. Families can watch How to Train Your Dragon. Registration required. (225) 473-8052 NIGHT TIME STORYTIME. West Baton Rouge

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Library, Port Allen, at 6:30 p.m. Read, sing, clap and dance to nursery rhymes and action songs.

(225) 342-7920 PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital. Last of a two-day class from 6:30-8:30 p.m.

Learn basic information so you can recognize signs of labor and practice comfort measures. Registration required. Cost is $35.

(225) 231-5475 ROARIN’ ON THE RIVER GALA. USS Kidd with doors open at 6:30 p.m. Inaugural 1940s themed gala. Includes a rum stroll, balloon pop, chorus line, raffle and live auction. usskidd.com SUNBURST MOBILE. Jones Creek Library at 2:30 p.m. Children ages 8-11 will hear some scientific and historical facts about the sun from The Sun is Kind of a Big Deal and make a mobile.

Registration required.

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BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own

successes and challenges with breastfeeding. Free.

(225) 231-5475 FRIDAY LUNCH LIVE. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet Cafeteria, at noon. Free performance.

Performers are Trio Con Brio. brgeneral.org MOVIES AND MUSIC ON THE LAWN. BREC’s Baton Rouge Gallery, City Park, at 8:30 p.m.

Tonight’s movie is Buster Keaton and Captain Green.

Each silent movie is paired with a local band playing music. batonrougegallery.org RED DRAGON PRODUCTIONS PRESENTS: SONNY LANDRETH TRIO IN CONCERT. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Tickets run $40-60. manshiptheatre.org WALKER PERCY WEEKEND. Various venues in St. Francisville. Lectures, panel discussions, book study groups, and social events. walkerpercyweekend.org WIGGLE WORMS. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 10:30 a.m.

Children up to age five and their caregivers will participate in music and dance activities that enhance lifelong learning and neural development.

(225) 686-4140

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Moving Soon?

Here’s What To Keep In Mind

By Kathryn Streeter

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efore a move, there are plenty of rather predictable steps to help make things easier. And then, there are those other, more elusive things that only moms, like me, who have moved often can share.

I’ve adopted several helpful habits when faced with a move to help reduce the risk for emotional meltdowns–and I’m not just referring to the kids here!

Moving well takes a lot of composure and having insider knowledge will only help you be a better person (read: less crazy) through the chaos. If you’re lucky, you may even do it gracefully. Forgetting to pack the hysterics will be the best thing you do in your move.

When the ink on your new job contract has dried and the likely move morphs into the category of certainty, there’ll be so much noise and confusion you can hardly hear yourself think. I’ve got a few ideas to get through the fog.

stuff brings a tingling sense of liberation.

Stop and enjoy that moment when it descends on you.

2. Locate every permanent marker in the house. Track down every Sharpie you already have and then look out for sales so that you have an ample supply.

Permanent markers help save you time later because you’ll be more likely to label those boxes and bags with as much detail as you have the energy for. Label your heart out–the wordier the better.

When you arrive at your new home and you’re looking at a neatly folded mattress pad tucked into a zipped plastic storage bag, you’re better off knowing if it’s a queen size for the guest bed or two singles for the kids’ beds before you open it up. Don’t even be tempted to think your recall will be helpful. Trust me, your recall won’t show up in time to be remotely helpful. In fact, it may not even make the move.

Pre-Move 1. Start hoarding boxes, bags, and newspaper. As soon as you know for sure that you’ll be moving, immediately start squirreling away random boxes, paper, and all types of bags. These items become your best friends as you begin the chore of purging. You’ll be sneaking things out of the kids’ rooms to deposit at Goodwill. Apologize later–as in, when you’re moving them into their new rooms.

It’s pretty likely they’ll not even notice the missing stuff. Neither will you miss the stuff you part with. Lighten up, stuff really does weigh you down. You’ll be making hard decisions, but getting rid of

3. Packing tape: You can’t have too much of it. Packing tape allows you to keep things from getting separated.

Sometimes, the movers will get it all done perfectly and every little screw or attachment will not only arrive (that’s generally not the problem) but will be found. Mostly, various bits & bobs will tend to be illogically packed so you’re on a scavenger hunt to make your various household goods whole. And sometimes, things just don’t show-up. I screwed up on our last move and should have taped over the newly-replaced battery for our daughter’s wall-clock to keep it from jiggling loose in the hands of the packers.

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The clock showed up just fine, minus the battery. You get what I mean. This stuff doesn’t rise to the level of major, but it’s amazing how when multiplied, all of these little missing parts can cost you time, money, and your beloved sanity, which will already be in short supply.

4. Stash an arsenal of paper plates within reach. And plastic spoons and forks. And paper-towels. Your kids are not going to be thinking about how their kitchen messes become a bigger problem as your moving date nears. Take charge and give yourself a break. Restrict use of glassware and go disposable so that you’re not stuck the night before the packers come with a late-night dishwashing party. By this point, your dishwasher should be verboten; handwashing it will be, a party you’ll wish you could skip. Avoid this scenario by using paper products the week of your move.

You may just be a little less crazy because of it, and your teens will definitely think that’s a good thing.

Post-Move 5. Got gardening gloves? Use them.

Cardboard is not your friend, moms.

When you’re faced with mountains of boxes, you’ll feel like you may just survive the move if you have your garden gloves to protect your poor hands as they handle vast quantities of that hostile material. Also, handling sharp scissors and/or box-cutters when you’re teetering from exhaustion is dangerous. It’s easy to nick a finger and having even a humble pair of gardening gloves will provide a small degree of protection.

6. Bonus tip: Keep Band-Aids handy.

No need to ask why (re-read #5). As you unpack, someone will need one. Trust me. And blood, dirty cardboard and newspaper or packing paper don’t mix.

Unpacking towels and smearing blood on them isn’t cool. Stop the flow, stop whining, and move on... ■

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