Baton Rouge Parents Magazine May 2022 by Family Resource Group

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CHOOSING THE RIGHT CHILD CARE How to find the perfect fit for your children. BY ANTHONY BUI

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CHILD CARE LISTING

Find a local child care center for your children with this helpful list. BY BRPM

IS THERE A BEST BEDTIME?

Discover the benefits of setting bedtimes. BY SARAH BATROUS

BOYS WILL BE BOYS?

14 COMMUNITY 18 EDUCATION 19 ONE AMAZING KID

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52 A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD 54 OUT & ABOUT 56 THINGS WE LOVE

Discover the steps to raising welladjusted boys. BY DR. LYNN R. SCHECHTER, PHD, MP

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2021-22 Cover Kid Adele B. has been in pageants since she was 18 months old, and she loves them. For her, it’s her favorite sport. She enjoys singing Christmas songs all year round and swimming, and she’s quite the animal lover, too. She’s bold and outspoken, and she’s incredibly kind hearted and loves giving hugs.

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O U know when you are younger, you often picture yourself many years down the road, married and with a family. Usually, you imagine a particular order you want your children born in. I, of course, wanted my son first, then a daughter. I never saw a third child in my future, and that was okay, as long as I had one of each. My son would be older to protect my daughter, and the world would be happy. Fast forward many years down the road, my daughter came first. Then, I got pregnant and lost my baby boy at 16 weeks. I started to feel like maybe a boy was not in my future, but boy, was I wrong. Five months later, I was pregnant again, and with the previous loss, my doctor wanted to watch me closely. I still remember looking at the ultrasound screen, asking, “what is that over there?” The tech replied, “I will get to that one in a minute.” That one? Seriously?! The doctor confirmed after they sent me upstairs: they’re twins! Twin boys at that. God knew what my heart needed. I love my dancing queen daughter, but being a #boymom is different. The boys still like to snuggle with me, want me to sit with them, look for me first when they score a goal at a soccer game, and they still want me to tuck them into bed at night. We have our own special bond. I believe 100 percent what Denzel said when he said: “A mother is a son’s first true love. A son, especially their first son, is a mother’s last true love.” Being a #boymom is very rewarding. They can certainly be a handful, but I wouldn’t change it for a second. The best way I can describe being a #boymom is by this quote I found from Katie Bingham Smith: “Little boys can test your patience, run you ragged, and make you want to pull your hair out. But they will also melt your heart with just one look, and make you wonder how you ever existed before them.” To my fellow #boymoms, and all moms out there, Happy Mother’s Day! Love,

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community BRCC RECEIVES $12 MILLION FOR EXPANSION Our Lady of Lake announced a partnership and $12 million investment in Baton Rouge Community College. The investment will help support the construction and development of the college’s new Nursing and Allied Health building and the renovation of a section of the college’s Bonne Sante’ Wellness Center to focus on sports medicine and training. The new facility will bring together BRCC’s School of Nursing and Division of Allied Health under one roof, and will house the college’s current programs in Nursing, Sonography, Surgical Technician, and Medical Assistant. Additionally, it will allow the College to add high-demand programs in Respiratory Care, Physical and Occupational Therapy, and Athletic Training. ■ mybrcc.edu

FIGHT CANCER AND HELP SAVE LIVES

The American Cancer Society has partnered with Our Lady of the Lake Cancer Institute to save more lives from cancer in Louisiana. This includes a campaign to increase cancer screening rates, patient education, employee engagement opportunities, and Presenting Sponsor rights for the American Cancer Society Excel Baton Rouge Best Dressed Ball. “As the community leader in cancer care for over 30 years, OLOL is committed to key partnerships that create stronger cancer care for the people we serve,” shares Linda Lee, Our Lady of the Lake Cancer Institute VP of Cancer Services. “Working more closely with the American Cancer Society will provide opportunities to better support our mission and care for our community.” ■ ololrmc.com

REDUCING THE STIGMA OF SPEECH THERAPY

Local speech language pathologist, Keylonda Wheeler, has published the sophomore book to her series, The Inclusive K.R.E.W.E., centered around bringing awareness and acceptance to disabilities. Her latest book, Mrs. Key Key’s Speech Room, was inspired by Wheeler’s own experiences providing speech therapy for school-aged children with various disabilities. She recognized the need for children to see marginalized groups represented in books that educators use in their lessons. The book includes whimsical rhymes that add loads of fun, while readers get to take a peek into the school’s speech room. The children’s book is available now through online retailers. ■ keylondawrites.com 14

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CHIMP HAVEN OPENING FOR CHATS

Chimp Haven, the world’s largest chimpanzee sanctuary, is opening to guests for ticketed Chimp Chats, and the rare opportunity to witness “The Chimp Life” on the 200-acre forested campus that is home to more than 300 chimpanzees. Visitors will have the opportunity to observe the lush habitats where chimpanzees live, play, and explore, and have the freedom to make choices on Saturday, May 14. Times include 10 a.m.-noon and 2-4 p.m. Chimp Chats will be limited in attendees and held outdoors with behind-the-scenes access to chimpanzees and staff that’s not available during larger public events. Tickets are $75 per person and are available to those ages 10 and older. ■ chimphaven.org

HEALTHYBR RELAUNCHES WEBSITE

Mayor-President Sharon Weston Broome announced the relaunch of the HealthyBR.com website, which will serve as a one-stop shop for public health resources. The website includes healthy recipes and demonstrations, free fitness classes online, access to mental health services, locations of bike paths, and a community resource directory. “If the past two years have taught us anything, it’s the importance of each of us understanding our health and how to navigate the healthcare landscape. In order for our community to be a Safe, Hopeful, and Healthy Baton Rouge, websites like this one are going to be vital to ensure information and resources are accessible and attainable by all of our residents,” says Mayor Broome. ■ healthybr.com

LASM REOPENS HANDS-ON GALLERIES LASM has announced the reopening of both of its hands-on children’s galleries, Science Station & Discovery Depot. LASM’s hands-on galleries will be open from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. on Wednesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. on Saturdays, and from 1-5 p.m. on Sundays. “In response to community desires for LASM to reopen its hands-on galleries, we are excited to invite our visitors to experience our Science Station and Discovery Depot once again,” states S. Meredith Pandos, LASM President & Executive Director. “LASM’s Science Station makes life science, earth science, physical science, and math relevant and fun, and in our Discovery Depot, children are limited only by their imagination!” ■ lasm.org

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THE PREGNANCY HUB BY FIRST RESPONSE

First Response has launched The Pregnancy Hub by First Response, a new online community that aims to connect, inspire, and provide resources to those navigating trying to conceive, pregnancy and motherhood. Members will have access to resources and advice and an opportunity to engage in conversations with other members, share personal experiences, and gain insider access to special offers, products, and news from First Response. “If you are planning your future pregnancy, thinking about your fertility, trying to conceive, or becoming a mother, our community will help guide you through this very exciting and often sensitive time,” says Jennifer Gargano, Brand Manager. ■ frpregnancyhub.com

I JUST WANT TO BE ME! LOCAL CHILDREN’S BOOK

Deana Meaux Murray, a local children’s book author from Zachary, recently published a book about a spunky honeybee named Achoo who doesn’t quite fit in with the other bees in the hive. Achoo is allergic to pollen, so she sneezes all of the pollen away that the bees have collected during the day. However, in the story, she uses her difference to save the other honeybees. I just want to be ME!, says Achoo the Bee will inspire children ages three-six to embrace their authentic self and exclaim, “I just want to be me!” Murray has always loved reading and making up stories, and now, she is embracing this opportunity to focus on her writing. Her newest children’s story is available now for purchase. ■ achoothebee.com

WILD WINE WALK AT THE ZOO Grab your besties, or make it a date night with your special someone, for BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo’s Wild Wine Walk. The Baton Rouge Zoo Foundation is set to host its second annual Wild Wine Walk at BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo on Friday, May 20 from 5-7:30 p.m. Tickets are on sale now, and all proceeds benefit the Baton Rouge Zoo Foundation, the nonprofit supporter of BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo and the Zoo’s international conservation efforts. The event is open to adults ages 21 and up only, and offers guests an opportunity to stroll the Zoo as they taste a variety of wines and sample bites from local eateries. The daylight will enable guests to see the animals as they enjoy vino and stroll the Zoo to the sounds of local acoustic artists. Tickets are $50-75, with a VIP option available. ■ wildwinewalk.org

BLUE STAR MUSEUMS PROGRAM FUNDED

LASM recently received a $21,000 gift from David Stogner and Special Risk Insurance Inc., VFIS of Miss/Lou in support of the museum’s Blue Star Museums program. This program enables veterans, active-duty military members, first responders, and their families to visit LASM free-of-charge year-round. “The Blue Star program at LASM is a great way to help those who serve their country and community,” states Stogner. “Our first responders, along with the military, risk their lives every day, and for their sacrifice, we should assist in any way possible.” LASM has participated in the Blue Star Museums program for many years. Sponsorship has enabled the program to expand at LASM. ■ lasm.org 16

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PARKZEN WINS PITCH CONTEST

ParkZen won a $100,000 investment prize at Baton Rouge Entrepreneur Week’s cumulation–the High-Stakes Pitch Competition. ParkZen, founded by Manos Chatzopoulos, George Triarchou, and Haron Temam, offers an innovative solution to the age-old problem of finding a parking spot. The ParkZen app uses smart crowdsourcing to track and connect users with available parking– right down to the spot–in their vicinity. The Competition awards an investment prize to one local startup in Louisiana. The investment prize, managed by Red Stick Angels and Innovation Catalyst, comes from a group of Louisiana-based investors. The ParkZen app is available to download via the Apple App Store or the Google Play Store. ■ parkzenapp.com

NEW BILL ON RECEIVING BIRTH RECORDS

Currently, in the state of Louisiana, adoptees cannot receive their birth certificates unless they prove their reason for needing the certificates to a judge. It is then up to the judge to decide whether or not access will be granted. However, a new bill that is being reviewed by the Senate could finally change this law. The bill by Representative Charles Owen provides adoptees access to their original birth certificate once they reach the age of 24. “A grown person ought to be able to get their birth certificate,” says Rep. Owen, who said he is also an adoptee who, last year, tried and failed to get his own birth records. The bill passed through the House with a 76-21 vote, and has moved onto the Senate. ■ legis.la.gov B R PA R E N T S . C O M | M AY 2 0 2 2

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education DUNHAM TACKLES NEWSPAPER CHAIR CHALLENGE

The Dunham School’s fourth grade engineers put on their design caps to tackle a new Innovation Lab challenge. The task challenged students to build a newspaper chair that would support the weight of Middle School STEM teacher Ed Van Haute. Students first brainstormed ideas for potential designs, then constructed the chairs using recycled newspapers, learning through trial and error the best techniques for rolling the papers. Mr. Van Haute tested the finished chairs for durability, questioning student teams about their thought process behind their designs and features included, such as number of legs, back support, arm rests, etc. The winning team produced the sturdiest chair that offered the best support for Mr. Van Haute.

LPB ANNOUNCES LOUISIANA YOUNG HEROES

LPB is honoring seven high school students from the state as Louisiana Young Heroes. These outstanding students are role models in their communities. Two of the honorees are right here in Baton Rouge, and they are: Reagan Angers, a senior at St. Joseph’s Academy, who is a cancer survivor. She was diagnosed with osteosarcoma at age nine and spent time at St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital recovering from limb-sparing surgery. Victoria Williams is a senior at Baton Rouge Magnet High School. She co-founded the Black History Quiz Bowl at her school, and she’s enthusiastic about science and her community and plans to study Chemical Engineering with a goal of applying it to environmental relief.

ST. JOSEPH’S ACADEMY WINS CHALLENGE DAY 2022

TEACHER AND PRINCIPAL OF THE YEAR SEMIFINALISTS

The Louisiana Department of Education announced the 2023 Teacher and Principal of the Year semifinalists. These educators are making exceptional gains with students, guiding them to achieve at the highest levels. Their commitment exemplifies Louisiana’s teaching profession. All semifinalists will be honored at the 16th Annual Excellent Educators Awards Gala that will be held in New Orleans on July 30. Local Teacher of the Year semifinalists include Hannah A. Comeaux of Central, Ebony C. Williams of Iberville, and Kerri Lee of Zachary. Principal of the Year semifinalists include Michael V Hilton III of Ascension, Erica Aguillard of East Baton Rouge, Carolyn Wilkinson of Livingston, and Kelley Stein of West Baton Rouge. 18

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St. Joseph’s Academy is the winner of Challenge Day 2022, beating Catholic High 11-8 in a thrilling, back-and-forth battle at Olympia Stadium. SJA brought home the winner’s trophy from the 16th Challenge Day competition, hosted by the student councils of both schools. SJA captured the memory game, PVC relay, bucketball, egg toss, and spirit. CHS won the four-legged race, jug transfer, and uniform swap. Both schools met their Food Drive goals and were awarded two points each. Nearly 96,000 pounds of canned food was collected for the Greater Baton Rouge Food Bank, which equates to nearly 80,000 meals for those in need. Additionally, $2,125 in monetary donations were made, equating to another 6,375 meals. P H OT O BY A M I E L L E J E N K I N S

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amazing kid Adeline Guidry is doing big things as an 11-year-old, and she has even bigger dreams for the future. She was a foster child until she was adopted in third grade. Now, she’s a fifth-grade student at Westdale Heights Academic Magnet, and she was a finalist for Student of the Year. Adeline loves animals and everything to do with school, and she might even become President of the United States one day. Competing for Student of the Year requires a high GPA (Adeline has a 4.0) and plenty of extracurricular activities, essays, and interviews. In fact, Adeline had to compete against some of her best friends to make it to the state finals, but those friends agreed that she is a natural-born leader who deserves to win the Student of the Year award. Adeline dreams of attending LSU Veterinary School and starting her own business with her little sister, Katie Beth, called the Guidry Girls Veterinary Clinic. This clinic will include a no-kill animal shelter and a pet store, and it will be affordable for all pet owners. Then, she plans to run for President of the United States. Adeline wants everyone to know that you can go far in life even if you’ve had a rough start. “You could come from a pretty bad place like me, but you can do what you want in life as long as you really try to turn that around and make good things happen,” she shares. Adeline describes herself as a fun and outgoing leader, and she’s truly one amazing kid. ■ DO YOU HAVE ONE AMAZING KID? Email: education@brparents.com

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PARKVIEW’S POWERLIFTING TEAM MAKES HISTORY

In its second year, Parkview Baptist School’s Powerlifting team has established itself as a highly competitive team, returning from the LHSAA Division III state competition with an individual state title and several placements. Anna Wooten, a senior and a first-year lifter, took home a state champion title with a 245 lb. squat, 110 lb. bench press, and 270 lb. deadlift. Madison McCullough also took the podium with a third-place finish. Two freshmen also placed, Laurel Cassidy came in forth in her weight class and Leah Lott placed sixth. The boys have a young team who rose to the occasion with three placements: Hayes Boone placed fifth, Ethan Payment came in sixth, and Nehemiah Johnson placed eighth.

BRIS STUDENT WINS NCWIT AWARD

Baton Rouge International School 10th grader Mackenzie LaCombe has been selected as a 2022 Louisiana Region Affiliate Winner of the NCWIT Award for Aspirations in Computing. NCWIT convenes, equips, and unites nearly 1,500 change leader organizations nationwide to increase the influential and meaningful participation of girls and women in the field of computing. The Award for Aspiration in Computing honors young women for their computing-related achievements and interests. Winners are selected for their computing and IT talent, leadership abilities, academic history, and their plans for post-secondary education. The award offers support and visibility for women’s participation in communities nationwide.

LIVINGSTON PARISH SCHOOL’S STEAM EXPO

More than 1,000 children, parents, and community members gathered at the Denham Springs High School STEM & Robotics Center to experience learning in the festive environment of the district’s STEAM Expo. They visited demonstration booths, special presentations, and hands-on games, both inside and in the parking lot. STEM & Robotics Center Director Michael Simmons notes the Expo focused on STEAM. “The Expo had robotics demonstrations, handson activities, 3-D Virtual Reality building design by Domain Architecture, K-9 demonstrations from the Livingston Parish Sherriff ’s Office, Fire in the Wire from DEMCO, and many more amazing displays and interactive activities from community participants,” says Simmons. 20

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SACRED HEART OF JESUS SCHOOL CONSTRUCTS ALTAR

In honor of St. Joseph’s Day, Sacred Heart of Jesus School constructed a St. Joseph’s Altar. Students, faculty, and staff contributed in many ways to the altar. Third grade students made paper lilies which were placed at the foot of St. Joseph, other classes made fava bean art, coloring pages, cuccidati (fig cookies), and brought canned goods, and other food donations. PreK students made bread in the shape of crosses, fish, and staffs. Fifth grade students dressed as saints led the morning assembly. They took turns reading passages from the Bible and then explained the meaning of the altar. Father Miles blessed the altar and everyone in attendance then closed with a prayer. In the spirit of the altar, Sacred Heart donated the non-perishable food items to St. Vincent de Paul.

DENHAM SENIOR AWARDED $10,000

Denham Springs High School Senior Kamdyn Lee has been awarded the grand prize in the U.S. Bank Student Scholarship Program, receiving $10,000 to go toward her first-year studies in college. Lee is one of only three scholarship winners recognized by the program. The other recipients are from Arkansas and Missouri. The students were selected for their skill and understanding of financial modules that were completed and sent to the scholarship program. As part of the program, those students who completed a certain number of modules throughout their high school career became eligible for monetary awards. Nearly 23,000 students from across the United States competed. “I was overjoyed when I heard the news,” says Lee.

KENILWORTH’S TUTORME PARTNERSHIP

Kenilworth Science and Technology has announced its partnership with TutorMe, a leading provider of 24/7 high-impact online tutoring. Through this agreement, Kenilworth will provide its 400 students access to additional academic support in the form of online tutoring. TutorMe will be available to students at no cost to them for the school year. With over 15,000 tutors available anytime to help with hundreds of subjects, TutorMe provides on-demand expertise whenever students need it. TutorMe’s award-winning lesson space features a virtual whiteboard, text editor, audio/video chat, and screen sharing where students connect live with a tutor. All lessons are archived for future reference. B R PA R E N T S . C O M | M AY 2 0 2 2

BOYS Will Be Boys? RAISING WELL-ADJUSTED SONS BY DR. LYNN R. SCHECHTER, PHD, MP PHOTO BY KLEINPETER PHOTOGRAPHY 2021-22 COVER KIDS GRAHAM F., PRESTON F., AND BRADLEY F.

s a psychologist who has studied child development, and as a mother of two boys and a girl, I can say that there are differences in boys’ versus girls’ development. It’s important to understand these differences and how parents can raise happy, well-adjusted sons. There is always a significant amount of variation among individual children. Here are the general/average trends.

PHYSICAL GROWTH

When boys and girls are born, boys tend to weigh more than girls do. In terms of physical growth after that, boys and girls tend to be about equal until middle elementary school, when girls tend to grow taller than the boys due to hormonal changes. You might look at your children’s elementary school class photos and see the girls towering over the boys. That usually continues until middle

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school, and then, boys’ growth spurts kick in with puberty, which lead them to grow taller than most of the girls of the same age by late adolescence.

GROSS MOTOR SKILLS

In the early stages of physical development, boys may display a faster development of gross motor skills (running, jumping, balancing), and girls demonstrate faster development of fine motor

skills (writing, drawing). This might be part of the reason why the saying “boys will be boys” originated, from parents seeing their boys running around all over the place, jumping here, there, and everywhere. There is scientific research that has shown that the pleasure center of the brain of boys lights up more when they are more aggressive and when they take risks. This doesn’t mean that girls can’t be risk takers, of course.

VERBAL SKILLS

It is a well-known finding that girls’ verbal skills develop, on average, faster than boys. It is not unusual for a boy to be a “late talker.” How can a parent help in this area? Narrate what is going on when you are with your son. For example, “now we’re going to the store to get some fruits and vegetables…This is an apple… etc.” Read with them. Ask them to tell you the names of objects and places. Since girls’ verbal skills are typically more advanced, it makes sense that they seek out social bonding in ways that primarily involve verbal social interactions from a young age. You’ll see the girls sitting together playing on the playground, playing word and clapping games with their hands. Usually, you’ll find the boys running around and climbing and being very physically active on the playground. Again, these are generalizations.

ENVIRONMENT

The environment in which a child is raised can have a big impact on how they develop. For example, a parent can foster a girls’ physical skills by getting her involved in sports. A parent can help their son to develop fine motor skills by getting them to do art or writing. That will probably help to avoid a common problem among boys, that their handwriting, especially in elementary school, can be very sloppy. They need to work on developing their fine motor skills. Helping a boy to learn how to type is probably even more relevant these days since so many teachers expect work to be done on computers.

SOCIAL-EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMENT

What about social-emotional development? There are factors which can help us to understand why there is a stereotype that boys are more immature socially and that they have difficulty understanding or expressing their emotions. Besides the fact that boys’ verbal skills are somewhat slower to develop than those of girls, that alone does not explain it. A more significant contributor are societal expectations for how boys are “supposed” to be. This relates to the traditional expectation that boys are not supposed to show their emotions, which begins in early childhood. In many families, boys will be chastised for crying, for example. They might be called a “sissy” for doing so or instructed to stop being “a baby.” What does this communicate to the boy? That he cannot show this emotion because he will be seen as weak and more “girl-like.” This is part of the culture of masculinity.

This really puts a strain on boys as they grow up. This may foster the inability to understand their own emotions and to suppress them. Or most of their emotions start to emerge as anger, since anger is a socially acceptable emotion for boys to show, even though it gets them into trouble sometimes. Better to be in trouble for being angry than showing weakness or backing down, they are sometimes taught.

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“At a young age, teach your boys about feelings.” For the sensitive boy, these cultural expectations can be very stressful and lead to problems such as anxiety and depression. The sensitive boy does not fit the mold and is seen in a negative light by others. He might get bullied at school or rejected by peers or even by his own family, and depending upon the type of parents he has, he may be put down or discouraged from being who he truly is. You might see a similar pattern emerge when a parent has a daughter who prefers “boy activities” and is a “tomboy.” Although, society seems to have more tolerance for girls who are tomboys than it does for boys who are sensitive and artistic. The pressure for boys to grow up to be “real men” in the old-fashioned sense of the term (physically strong, does not show vulnerability, does not talk about emotions, is dominant) is still more or less the norm even in 2022. Although, there does seem to be a trend now in the media for males to be both sensitive and strong. I’m thinking of The Rock, who plays characters who embody the ultimate powerful muscle man on the outside, and yet have a tender “teddy bear” inside. This is a far cry from the old Western films with Clint Eastwood in the 1970s, where his characters would never show any vulnerability or emotional weakness. So how can we as parents help our boys to grow up to have a balance of strength and masculinity with the caring, compassion and sensitivity that are typically associated with feminine qualities (as I write this, I am hoping that the reader will not think that I am suggesting that the feminine qualities

are signs of weakness; in fact, they are signs of strength–a different type of strength–which promotes successful relationships with friends, spouses, and later, their own children). Here are some suggestions: -At a young age, teach your boys about feelings. There are inexpensive “feeling charts” that you can purchase that show facial expressions and name them. This will promote learning of verbal language and emotional intelligence. -Model for your sons that it is ok to talk about whatever emotions they have. If they’re angry, talk about what makes them feel angry and validate it. If they’re sad and cry, talk about what happened and validate their sadness. -Always keep an open line of communication with your son and be aware of non-verbal signs that they may be having a hard time with their emotions. They might be acting out more, being more aggressive than usual, or withdrawing. These could be the ways that they are expressing sadness, anxiety, or confusion. Because of fear of being perceived as weak, they might not go to you to talk about what’s really going on. As a parent, be alert and go to them to spearhead a conversation. If they don’t feel comfortable, then you could suggest that they could see a counselor to talk about what’s on their mind. -Don’t deny or ignore the signs that you see. Some of the highest rates of suicide in the 21st century are by tween and teenage boys. If a boy does not grow up with a father, or one who is very involved in his life, it is important to find one for him to serve as a mentor. Boys who do not have male mentors often have higher rates of behavioral problems and lower self-esteem. The mentor could be a teacher, another family member, a pastor, a coach, or even an older peer. The Boys & Girls Club of America is one resource that could be useful. There is also the Big Buddy program, Big Brothers/Big Sisters who have programs in Baton Rouge. I also found boystomen.org, which is just one of many other mentoring programs that you can find on the internet. Here is a list of books which might be useful resources for raising boys: Boy Mom: What Your Son Needs Most from You by Monica Swanson He’s Not Lazy: Empowering Your Son to Believe in Himself by Adam Price, PhD Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys (A Practice and Encouraging Guide to Christian Parenting) by Stephen James ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | M AY 2 0 2 2

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mom next door Jasmin Newsome BY EMILY DREZ PHOTO BY LAUREN ASHTON LIGHTS DESIGN & PHOTOGRAPHY

OCCUPATION: Elementary teacher at Parkview Baptist School HUSBAND: Nakia Newsome, M.D. CHILDREN: Nash, 11; Nyles, 9; Nelan, 7; Nox, 5 HOBBIES: Food, hot pilates, working out, drawing

F you asked Jasmin Newsome two years ago where she thought she would be today, she would not have guessed that she would be teaching at the same school her children attend. In fact, she thought she would be owning and running her own business after teaching for eight years and then raising her four boys for nine years after that, but she says God had other plans for her. These plans presented an opportunity she could not miss (and right before the outbreak of COVID-19!): having handson involvement in the education of all her boys, which wound up being perfect for her family’s plan. It all started when the school took her on as a substitute teacher during a time of multiple maternity leaves among the faculty, which eventually brought her back to the classroom. She’ll start that business one day, but, for now, she spends her days with her boys while enjoying their unlimited amount of hugs and finding time to draw, read the Bible, and work out. What does a normal day look like for you? JASMIN: I usually wake up before the house wakes up, which is about 30-45 minutes before everybody else. I start off by opening the YouVersion Bible app, where I watch a speaker discuss the verse of the day. Then, once I have myself pulled together, I wake up the boys and continue with our day. What can you never leave the house without? JASMIN: My cell phone, of course. What are some of the joys and challenges of raising your children? JASMIN: I love watching them mature and grow into leaders based on the values my husband and I have taught them. The challenges, well, being a mom of four boys that are so close in age requires a lot of energy every day. It’s a lot, so it can be hard to find a calm moment after school or at the end of the day.

How would you describe yourself as a mother? JASMIN: I am my sons’ biggest cheerleader, so I consider myself very involved, active, and supportive, along with godly. What do you like to do as a family? JASMIN: We like to attend sporting events, and I like to expose 26

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I want them to know they can have fun and act silly. Don’t take yourself so seriously all the time, and, sometimes, it’s okay to eat dessert before dinner. them to cultural happenings around town like music, art, plays, and festivals. We go on beach vacations, too. What’s your favorite thing about being a boy mom? JASMIN: Buying clothes is very easy, and so is getting ready for school and having to make any bathroom stops. I also love their love! They love on me so much to the point of smothering at times. Sometimes I need my space, though, because I grew up as an only child, but I love their unlimited hugs every day. What’s the funniest thing about being a mom? JASMIN: I am always laughing at how much my boys are just like my husband and me. What’s even funnier is that they don’t even realize it! What has parenthood taught you? JASMIN: Tolerance, understanding, patience, and that I have to make sacrifices but keep a firm handle on things at the same time. What are some things you hope to teach your children? JASMIN: I hope to teach them to be good husbands and fathers and how to care for others. At the same time, I want them to know they can have fun and act silly. Don’t take yourself so seriously all the time, and, sometimes, it’s okay to eat dessert before dinner. What is something your job has taught you about parenting? JASMIN: My job has taught me that even though my four boys come from the same household and the same parents, each one has their own path and personality that will lead them in different directions. Whatever natural God-given gifts are in

them, it’s my job to nurture that and make sure they are good people. How do you tackle any challenges you face as a mother? JASMIN: I pray on it first, then I listen to worship music, which seems to be the one thing that centers me and calms my spirit. I also lean on close mom friends that have experience with kids in the same age bracket. How do you make time to relax? JASMIN: I set boundaries. I don’t believe in life balance–I believe in life boundaries. For me that means a lot of time management, so when something comes up, I will put something else aside and make sure I have time for myself. It is a protective boundary with no flexibility around it. In my case, it is working out, drinking hot tea, listening to worship music, and sketching, which I find very therapeutic and meditative. What personality trait of yours do your children also have? JASMIN: Two of them have my bubbly personality, and all four of them have my go-getter attitude. Do you have any advice for other parents? JASMIN: Two things. First, buy or keep leather furniture as long as you can while they’re young. When you have leather furniture, you can wipe up any spills without a problem. Second, do not listen to any unsolicited advice. God gave you those children, so go with your own natural, parental instinct. ■

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H U R M A N and Torrence Thomas are twin brothers who wished to support underserved communities in Baton Rouge and beyond. As artists and musicians by trade, the Thomases were already enriching their community with art, but were spurred by a very specific need in their community: swim lessons. Inspired by a series of music stars using the television network VH1 to raise awareness and funds for an AIDS benefit in Africa, the brothers wanted to use their talents to do something similar locally. However, a drowning incident at Red River in Shreveport that killed six teens, all attempting to save each other despite being unable to swim, revealed a shocking issue in our community: children, especially minority children, did not have access to swimming lessons. “As musicians, we weren’t sure how our skill set would transfer into the world of aquatics. We knew how to get

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people to come to events and how to make apparel and merchandise, so we decided to create a tank top design in an effort to use those funds to get kids swimming lessons,” explains Torrence. The tank top sales proved very fruitful and offered them enough revenue to support 60 children. The following year’s sales doubled, making them able to help 120 children, then 225 the next. Their wild success allowed for the creation of Tankproof, their nonprofit dedicated to offering swimming lessons to those in need. Today, they employ swim team instructors and have developed their own curriculum. Tankproof continued to grow from there, and so did its reach. In its ninth year, they were able to introduce Tankproof to the rest of the country and tap into eight different markets through appearances in articles and on TV. With expansion came innovation, and Tankproof decided to tackle a different issue: food insecurity. “During the pandemic, we were able to put addressing food insecurity at the forefront of our brand. We were trying to service these kids, pretty much the same kids that we teach how to swim by helping them and their families by providing meals for them as well,” shares Thurman. However, this initiative isn’t the only one Tankproof has been pursuing. This year was the first year they participated in South by Southwest, an international music festival that takes over the city of Austin, Texas during the third week of March. This festival is a huge opportunity for brands to showcase themselves, including Tankproof. “For us, we knew it would be a chance to spread the news about our organization. We partnered with a company called Kin Euphorics to have an afternoon event where people could donate to the nonprofit and help spread awareness,” says Torrence. Despite all of their growth, the brothers haven’t forgotten Baton Rouge and still do plenty to support their local community. Through swim lessons and addressing food insecurity, they support local youth and foster families, veterans, and battered women shelters. Every life they impact is substantial, and since May is National Water Safety Month, they’re about to change more lives. It’s a huge opportunity for the organization to spread awareness about the danger of drowning and how important it is for even experienced swimmers to stay diligent in the water. After all, conditions can change at the drop of a hat. “In the last two years, we have put a lot of programming and social media posts into Water Safety Month, not just to raise funds, but to be a source of education. Most drownings can be prevented with the right knowledge and the right know-how. We not only value being able to teach kids but being able to inform adults and parents about how to enjoy the water safely,” explains Thruman. This month, they plan to be very active on social media and throughout the communities they support with events catered towards preventing accidental drownings. If you would like to promote water safety in our community, Tankproof would love your help. Get involved through volunteering, purchasing their merch, or otherwise supporting the nonprofit through their website, tankproof.org. ■

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H I L D R E N ask the most interesting questions about God. It is easy to dismiss these questions, but that isn’t beneficial for their walk with Christ. As a parent, it is your job to disciple them as they grow in their relationships with Christ. That means fostering an environment where questions are welcome so that when they are confused about something, they will not hesitate to ask. It is important to treat their questions seriously even when it initially sounds silly. It is also important to use scripture when answering these questions. For example, a common question I hear all the time from children is, “Do I have to be nice to everyone?” First, you should praise them for coming to you. Most of the time, children are asking these questions because they are genuinely seeking answers. Assure them that they aren’t alone in feeling that some people make it really hard to be nice to. It is even harder to control your emotions when we are upset with someone. As a Christian, though, it is good practice to lean on God to guide you. Ephesians 4:26 says “Be angry and do not sin.” This shows your child that it is okay to get angry. It is important to acknowledge those emotions but react in a way that honors God. John 13:34 shows us how it honors God. God gives us a command to love one another, and by doing so, we are showing everyone that we are indeed followers of him. You should ask follow up questions to make sure they understood everything 30

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As a parent, it is your job to disciple them as they grow in their relationships with Christ. and clarify things that they found confusing. One of the more difficult questions that I have been asked is, “Why does God let bad things happen?” If God is all-powerful, all-wise, and all-good, why does he allow so much suffering to go on in this world? This is a very tough question, and if you aren’t able to answer that question, it is okay. You don’t want to pretend to know something that you do not, so simply acknowledge that it was a great question and that you will look into it for them. I had no idea how to answer this at first. I dove into scripture and talked to my pastors to equip myself. I learned that God allows the consequences of sin. When God created the world, it was perfect. Sin only entered the world when Adam and Eve disobeyed God. We must remember that we are all sinners just like Adam and Eve, as stated in Romans 3:23. When all of these horrible things happen, it is a result of us living in a sin-filled world. If we have put our faith and trust in Christ alone, we don’t have to face the penalty of sin, but instead, we have been given the gift of salvation and eternal life in Heaven because Jesus came down, lived a sin-free life, died so our sins could be forgiven, and rose again to show victory over sin and death. It is there where there is no sickness or suffering. While on Earth though, we must endure this suffering which God uses for good in order to strengthen and mature us (James 1:2-4). Do not fear what you do not know or cannot answer. Lean into your local church and speak to people who can give you some wisdom on answering some of the wild questions that your children will ask you. ■

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SENIOR SEND-OFF The end of the school year is here. Through this special section, we have come together with local schools to congratulate seniors on their job well done. We’ve also included a list of gift ideas if you’re still in search of the perfect gift for your senior.

CELEBRATING OUR LOCAL GRADUATES

Senior Gift Ideas

1. Noise-Canceling Headphones 2. Bluetooth Speaker 3. Tile Phone/Key Tracker 4. Apple Watch 5. Reusable Water Bottle 6. Mini Keurig 7. Echo Dot 8. Dorm Room Essentials (Towels, bed linens, blankets) 9. Bookshelf 10. String Lights (Great for decorating) 11. Trash Valet (Helps make trips to the dumpster safer) 32

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U M M E RT I M E is almost here, which means summertime

boredom is right around the corner. It won’t be too long before your teen or tween starts complaining about having nothing to do. However, there’s a solution to speeding up those dog days of summer: get a job. If your child is old enough to work, summertime is the perfect time for them to get a job. Here’s a list of jobs your child might enjoy this summer.

DOG WALKING If your teen loves dogs, then getting paid to take someone else’s dog for a walk could be the perfect job for them. Start by asking friends, coworkers, and family members if they need someone to walk their dog for them. Typically, dog walking jobs pay by the hour or half-hour, and you can also volunteer to dog-sit while the owner is away. Keep in mind: your teen needs to be comfortable with a few things to be a 38

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dog walker, such as handling a large or easily excitable dog, walking around a neighborhood on their own, and picking up after the dog.

TUTORING

Summertime is the perfect time for a student to practice any school subjects they may be struggling with. It’s also the perfect time to help fellow students prepare for the next school year. Whether your teen is a math whiz or

a pro at writing essays, they’ll be able to find a job tutoring younger children in the subject they know best. Local libraries and coffee shops are a great place for your teen to advertise their job as a tutor. They also need to mention their preferred age range and subject in their advertisement.

BABYSITTING

School is out of session, which means many parents will want to hire

babysitters to watch their children while they are at work. If your teen is a natural with babies and young children, babysitting is an excellent (and often well-paying) option for their summer job. Ask around for anyone trustworthy who may be interested in hiring a babysitter, and make sure your teen is okay with tasks such as changing diapers, feeding the child, and cleaning up any of the child’s messes.

LANDSCAPING

Summertime calls for plenty of yard work, which makes landscaping another great summer job for your teen. From cutting the grass, to trimming the trees, and even to gardening, landscaping is a rewarding job for anyone who loves being outdoors. Find some people who need yard work done and set up a regular schedule so their yards will stay fresh all season. Don’t forget to pack plenty of water.

WORKING A SNOWBALL STAND

Snowballs are super popular during the summertime in Louisiana, so working at a snowball stand calls for a fun, fastpaced summer job that will prepare your

teen for any customer-service job they may have in the future. Find out which of your local snowball stands are hiring to get started on this sweet job.

WORKING A CONCESSION STAND

Summertime sports are a popular option for children and teenagers that are looking for something to do when they are not in school. With every sports game comes a concession stand to sell food and drinks to everyone at the game. Usually a parent or staff member will work the stand, but your child may be able to work it, too. See if a nearby school or sports organization would like some help working the concession stand for its summer sports games, then have your child ask for the job.

SELLING FOOD

This is the perfect job for your child if they love to bake. Ask your friends, family, and coworkers if they would like to purchase something sweet from your child, or set up a stand in a safe location where your child can sell their baked goods in public. Whether it’s cookies, cake pops, or cupcakes, baked goods are sure to sell quickly anywhere you go!

CAR WASHING

Car washing can double as a household chore and a fun, small business your child can set up from the comfort of their own driveway. As part of their allowance, you can let your child wash the family cars every week or so. You can also spread the word to your friends and neighbors that your child is willing to wash their cars for a certain amount of money. Either way, your child will have lots of fun playing in the soap and water while they wash cars, and it’s a great way to stay cool, too. If your child is too young for these jobs, they can always earn money by doing chores around the house or by selling some of their things. Set up a weekly allowance for them, or teach them to sort through the toys they never play with and the clothes they never wear so they can sell them in a yard sale, to local thrift stores, or to other places that purchase gently-used items. There are plenty of summer job opportunities for young teenagers that will keep them occupied all summer long. Even better, they will have a little extra money in their pockets. ■

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I N D I N G the right preschool

for your children seems simple enough. Theoretically, all you need to do is find an open spot at the one nearest to you and the job is done. In reality, it is a lot more complicated than that. You must take things such as curriculum, environment, location, and even staff into consideration.

When making this decision, it is important to do your research and find out what is best for you and your child. Preschool may not seem like that big of a deal, but it lays the foundation for the rest of your child’s academic career. It is here where they will get their first taste of what it is like to be in an academic setting.

KNOW THE TYPES OF CHILD CARE

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When it comes to preschools, there isn’t one stereotypical model anymore. There is a wide range of options to choose from that suit the needs of both parent and the child. That is where your own personal research comes into play. If you are looking for a preschool where there is a lot of parent involvement, cooperative preschools are the way to go. Tuition in these preschools are often lower as a result of fundraising goals that are set for families throughout the year. Because of how much parents are encouraged to be involved, the adult-to-child ratio is higher which means that children are getting the attention that they need at this young age to grow and learn. Parents, though, are expected to invest a lot more time into their child’s schooling, so this option may not be best for those who aren’t as available. For these parents, they may want to look into child care center preschools. These preschools are able to offer parents a program that takes

care of a child’s needs throughout the whole day. This is perfect for parents who have a very busy schedule and don’t have much time to be as involved. It also allows parents who work full-time jobs to be able to work comfortably knowing that their child is safe and learning. A more unique and innovative option are Montessori preschools. These types of schools typically have programs that start at birth and go through high school. In these programs, there is an emphasis on self-directed activity where children make choices in their learning that are creative and unique. This encourages a high level of hands-on learning and collaboration. Teachers and staff at Montessori preschools are oftentimes highly trained in guiding children through this process.

TALK TO YOUR CHILD

Since most preschoolers are between the ages of three and five, choosing the right school isn’t as simple as asking them where they’d like to go. At this point in their lives, they don’t really have the level of maturity to make these decisions on their own. That means that parents must sit down and guide the conversation. Talk to them about school and what they will be expected to do there. This will help prepare them for daily life at preschool so they aren’t completely shocked by the change of environment and responsibilities.

DO YOUR RESEARCH

After you have this conversation with your child, it is now up to you to research the different preschools in the area, their curriculums, the tuition, and if it is a good fit for your child. It is also important to consider your needs as a parent and how involved you would like to be. There are countless amounts of resources at your disposal, and if you have any questions, always feel free to call the school and ask them directly.

TOUR THE CENTER

When you have ultimately narrowed down your list, take some time to visit these schools with your child. This helps you get to know the faculty and staff while getting a feel of the environment. For your child, it allows them to feel involved in the process and develop a sense of familiarity if it turns out to be the school you choose. At the end of the day, trust your gut when it comes to choosing the best fit for your future scholar. Always encourage your child to share their feelings during the process so they can do the best they can in school. ■

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2014

1999

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4 months-5 years

$196-205

$200-215

Cameras

Uses Health Insurance

Mother’s Day Out

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Family Discount

N/A

Exceptional Needs Services

Country Day School 3743 Silverside Drive, Baton Rouge Courtney Simpson (225) 767-5259 countrydayschoolbr.com

2007

Program Taught

Country Day School 3131 Congress Boulevard, Baton Rouge Kristen Ziesing (225) 761-4800 countrydayschoolbr.com

Weekly Rate

Broadmoor United Methodist Preschool 10230 Mollylea Drive, Baton Rouge Cheri Coats (225) 926-5243 bumcchildrens learningcenter.org

Ages

Behavioral Intervention Group 8180 Siegen Lane, Baton Rouge Cassie Bradford (225) 757-8002 big-br.com

Year Established

Name Address Director Phone Website

License Type

The search for child care starts early. With these listings, you’ll be able to find a great center that provides quality care for your little ones from birth to school age.

Applied Behavior Analysis

Yes

Developmentally Appropriate

Developmentally Appropriate, Child-focused Developmentally Appropriate, Child-focused

Shiloh Baptist Early Learning Acdemy 185 Eddie Robinson Sr. Drive, Baton Rouge Leslie Vincent (225) 772-4534 shilohbr.com St James Episcopal Day School, Pelican’s Nest 445 Convention Street, Baton Rouge Janine Borne (225) 344-0805 stjameseds.org The Dunham School Early Childhood Center 11111 Roy Emerson Drive, Baton Rouge Morgan Barkas (225) 767-7097 dunhamschool.org

1973

Type I

1986

Type II

1972

Type III

1948

2021

Type I

18 months-12 years

Call for information

6 weeks-4 years

$220-260

6 weeks-4 years

6 weeksFirst Grade

18 months-elementary

$195-225

$140-155

$10,085/ year

$250-312

Yes

N/A

Yes

Frog Street and No Abeka

Yes

Program Taught

Weekly Rate

Ages

License Type Type II

$220-230

Cameras

Kids Count, Inc. 525 Rapides Street, Baton Rouge Toni Turnley (225) 268-1889 kidscountinc.com

2013

4 months-5 years

Mother’s Day Out

Parkview Preschool 5750 Parkview Church Road, Baton Rouge Cindy Riddle (225) 291-2500 parkviewpreschool.com

Type II

Family Discount

Gateway Preschool and Technology Center 14354 Highway 73, Prairieville Megan Byerley (225) 313-4959 gatewaypreschool center.com

1983

Exceptional Needs Services

Country Day School 4455 North Boulevard, Baton Rouge Paige Burchfield (225) 928-4042 countrydayschoolofbr.com

Year Established

Name Address Director Phone Website

Developmentally Appropriate, Child-focused

Abeka

Christian-based No and Abeka

Developmentally Appropriate

Playbased, Personalized Learning Reggio Emilia-style ThemeBased Learning

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Is There a Best Bedtime? BY SARAH BATROUS

ROUTINES ARE THE BACKBONES OF BEDTIMES

To find the best bedtime for your child, they need to establish good sleep habits which starts with a bedtime routine that meets their needs. The amount of sleep your child needs depends on their age and if they take naps. The American Academy of Sleep Medicine provided recommendations for times to sleep for children: -Children 1-2 years of age should sleep 48

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s parents, it’s easy to shun enforcing bedtimes for our children, especially when we’re exhausted after the events of the day. However, there are benefits to having your child in bed at a set time each night for both them and for you.

11-14 hours (including naps) -Children 3-5 years of age should sleep 10-13 hours (including naps) -Children 6-12 years of age should sleep 9-12 hours -Teenagers 13-18 years of age should sleep 8-10 hours When it comes to constructing an actual routine, Aimee Ferrell, MD, a general pediatrician at Our Lady of the Lake Children’s Health Pediatrics at

O’Donovan offers some helpful hints for bedtime: 1. A good bedtime routine involves a set of activities over the course of an hour which help the child get quiet and wind down. It also signals the body that it’s bedtime. Good bedtime routines often include a bath, reduced noise, lower lights, and no screen time. Reading a book, hugs, a drink of water, and then lights out are good ways to end.

2. Daily exercise will help to ensure that the child will be sleepy at bedtime. However, vigorous exercise or playing right before bed can be too stimulating. 3. Avoid caffeinated beverages and heavy meals in the evening. 4. Stick close to the schedule and routines even on weekends and vacation. 5. The most important thing about a bedtime routine is to stay with it. Children thrive on consistency.

EARLIER BEDTIMES VS LATE BEDTIMES

If your child needs to be ready at a certain time to walk, bike, or catch the bus to school, then an earlier bedtime might be best. Be sure that your child has enough time to do the basics of their routine, including brushing their teeth, washing their face, and anything else needing to be done prior to bedtime. The benefits of going to sleep early don’t end with eliminating tardiness. Michelle Lanier, a certified pediatric sleep consultant and the owner of Sweet Sleeping Baby, a sleep consultation service, explains the benefits of an early bedtime: “An earlier bedtime will ensure an adequate amount of sleep at the time when their body is ready. Restorative sleep can improve learning, memory,

behavior, and attention span. A regular consistent bedtime routine occurring earlier in the evening will help with falling asleep and staying asleep.” If your child doesn’t need to be up

“A GOOD BEDTIME ROUTINE INVOLVES A SET OF ACTIVITIES...” early for school or daycare, a late bedtime should be fine if they’re getting enough sleep. For older children, going to bed too late can affect their health, behavior, success in school, and their relationships with you and their peers. “When children do not get enough sleep, their health suffers. A lack of sleep in young children often results in irritability and trouble with emotions. Poor sleep has been linked to over-eating and reduced ability to fight infections. School age children may have difficulty with attention, behavior problems, trouble learning, and increased injuries,” warns Dr. Ferrell.

USING WHAT WE KNOW

With summer coming up, now is the best time to start bedtime training. The worst thing you can do is give up on bedtimes

while the children are out of school. While they might groan and complain, doing this now instead of the week before school will keep them on track for success. If you’re really struggling to get them to bed, talk to your pediatrician about what could be the cause or confide in a pediatric sleep specialist like Michelle. In the meantime, over-the-counter medications and sleep aids can help your child adjust their internal clock and set the pace for a healthy bedtime. “Melatonin and diphenhydramine (Benadryl) have some potential benefits when used sparingly. They are relatively safe, but if used too often, may interrupt the child’s natural sleep cycle and end up being counterproductive. There are no prescription medications which are approved for or routinely recommended as sleeping pills for children,” advises Dr. Ferrell. At the end of the day, there isn’t a set “best bedtime” supported by science or medical professionals. Determining what lights out looks like for your child is dependent on your child’s needs and the length of their morning routine. As long as your family is getting the restful sleep they need and succeeding daily, you’re doing just fine. ■

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a day in the life of dad Soccer and Seals BY BRANDON FOREMAN

A S T year, about this time, I wrote about my boys not accepting a soccer trophy (they did not earn it). Needless to say, there were a number of opinions on that article, but this year, I bring you an update, and a couple of lessons we may have picked up along the way. On the field this year, we look like a team of little boys that actually knows what’s going on and how the game is played, and let me tell you, these games are getting fun. Now, we are only in second grade, but to see how far all the boys have come in a year speaks a lot on not only them but also coach Brent, as they could never do it without him. And, don’t think for a minute that I would jump in the middle of this and toss my hat in the ring for a coaching position. I may be able to do a lot of things but coaching my children is a hard pass. So, back to the game. These guys are holding positions, passing the ball to each other, and really learning how the game works. More importantly, they’re learning how to work as a team to get things done. Some of them are learning they can’t always be the one to dribble down the field and take the shot themselves every time; they have to pass it off and win together. Also, they are learning what teamwork is, and that is one of the skills I’m most proud of them for. You see, I work with many teams from different organizations, and the most highly effective teams are the ones who collaborate and work together, not the ones that work in silos and divide up the tasks and responsibilities and report back. I have heard that (not sure if it is true, but I would hope it is) arguably the most highly-effective teams in the world may be the Navy Seals. We all know the training is some of the most intense you can come by, but what you may not know is there is the normal training and obstacle courses they work (which we all know helps train and build confidence), and there is another course that is designed with the theory of: you can’t do it alone, and maybe some can, but the point is to weed out those actors that want to do it alone and find those who will find a way to work it along together. However, I cannot confirm this. Now, when these soon-to-be Seals learn to work as a team, they can get done so much faster. People naturally want to be part of something, usually a team. When they run this course, it points out those who want to do it alone and those who want to learn to form teams and work together. So often we think that we have to go through things alone and that we are the only ones out there who can do it. When really, we need to step back, pass the ball over to the guy who is wide open on our team, and give him a chance to run. You never know what might happen. These little guys are not just learning who can make it down the field, but they are helping

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So often we think that we have to go through things alone and that we are the only ones out there who can do it.

each other learn that they each have a role on the team, and they all have to work together to win. So I guess the question is: are you going to pass the ball or help the other guy over the wall because you can’t do it alone? And, who would have thought that you could learn all this from a soccer game while connecting the dots back to the Navy Seals? ■

PIC OF THE MONTH Spencer H’s daughter, Madelynn, gives the cutest toothy grin.

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out & about PLAY

‘cause parenting is a trip

Lake Tahoe, California BY EMILY DREZ PHOTO BY LAKE TAHOE VISITORS AUTHORITY

I D you know Lake Tahoe, one of the deepest freshwater lakes in the US, is more than 2 million years old? That means you can get up close and personal with millions of years of history while visiting this iconic vacation destination. While you’re at it, you can dive into (or hike around) the lake at Emerald Bay State Park, get a bird’s eye view from a hot-air balloon, and dine at some locally renowned restaurants. From high in the sky to deep in the clear, blue water, there are endless ways to explore the beautiful Lake Tahoe. WHERE TO STAY Lake Tahoe Resort Hotel is the only place with all-suite lodging in the South Lake Tahoe area, and it’s also the best place to stay during your getaway. Your spacious suite will include a bedroom, a kitchenette area, a living room, and a bathroom. There’s even a family suite available if you need the extra space. Hotel amenities feature a pool, a jacuzzi, a fitness center, a restaurant, and a cafe for you to visit in case you need to grab a quick bite to eat before heading out. WHERE TO EAT Artemis Lakefront Cafe Artemis Lakefront Cafe has tasty Greek and Mediterranean-style food plus a beautiful view of Lake Tahoe. Whether you want pancakes or Baklava French Toast, the Cafe has quite the breakfast menu for families embarking on their adventures early. Or, if you want to make a pit(a) stop, you can stop by for lunch and try the Chicken Gyros or the Falafel Pita Wrap. Dinner will be best started off with some roasted red pepper hummus and pita bread, and, of course, don’t forget to order some Baklava for dessert. The Getaway Cafe If you’re looking for some homemade comfort food, The Getaway Cafe is the perfect spot. Just about everything on the menu is made from scratch, so your Bacon and Egg Sandwich or Maple Bacon Glazed French Toast will be extra tasty. Local favorites include the Pastrami Sandwich, the Parmesan-Crusted Grilled Cheese, and the Barbecued Beef Sandwich. Base Camp Pizza Co. The best gourmet pizza in the Lake Tahoe area is at Base Camp 54

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Coordinates: 39.0968° N, 120.0324° W Distance from Baton Rouge: 2,098 miles Flying Time: 7 hours Driving Time: 31 hours

Pizza Co. The restaurant is located in Heavenly Village, which makes it a great stop after you spend the day shopping, skiing, or mini golfing. Start with the garlic cheese bread before you try to choose from an impressive menu of pizzas. But If you aren’t in the mood for pizza, they have pastas and salads, too. Maybe the Italian Herb Shrimp Penne with The Greek Salad on the side is more your taste. Whatever you order, you’re going to want a fresh Out The Oven Chocolate Chip Cookie topped with vanilla ice cream for dessert. WHAT TO DO With its striking emerald green and turquoise blue features, Emerald Bay State Park is the number-one place to visit in Lake Tahoe. The park is home to Lake Tahoe’s only island, Fannette Island, and Vikingsholm Castle. You can take a boat or a kayak to the island and take in the stunning 11th century-style Swedish architecture of Vikingsholm Castle, and you can also hike one of the many trails to immerse yourself in Lake Tahoe’s beauty. Emerald Bay has an Underwater State Park, too. By taking the right precautions, you can go scuba diving in Lake Tahoe and see sunken, historical artifacts. Your views of Lake Tahoe don’t have to be limited to ground level. Lake Tahoe Balloons will let you have amazing, panoramic views of Lake Tahoe and its mountainous backdrop–all while you float above the clear, blue water in a hot air balloon. While the flights take off shortly after sunrise, even non-morning people won’t want to miss such an opportunity. There’s tons of entertainment all in one place at the Heavenly Village in Lake Tahoe. You can take a gondola down to the village where you can grab a bite to eat, shop for souvenirs, watch a movie, go ice skating, play mini golf, and even see some magic tricks in The Loft Theatre. Needless to say, the Heavenly Village is called Lake Tahoe’s entertainment hub for a reason. ■

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things we l ve Soarin’ to Summer

OA R to new heights of fun in the sun with the things we’re loving this month. Before you spend your days catchin’ rays, we must show our moms how much we care. We’ve found the perfect gift for mom that highlights all the reasons we love her. Along with the heartfelt messages, we’ve included ways you can have a blast outdoors with your children. You’ll find water activities, an adorable bubble mower, and LED planes that will light up the night.

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LYDAZ BUBBLE LAWN MOWER Features realistic sounds and a bubble maker, which encourages pretend garden play, bringing tons of bubbles.

A DOZEN REASONS I LOVE YOU MOM Shake things up for some serious mom points with this handcrafted, customizable collection of reasons why you love her. Choose from over 50 different options to create a container filled with a dozen heart-shaped wooden messages that moms will always cherish.

SPOTMYUV UV STICKERS The first clinically proven UV Detection Stickers give you a reminder of when it’s time to reapply your sunscreen. 56

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THE CHIC INSTASHADE Transform from blue-light to polarized sunglasses by attaching the magnetic frames to the front of the glasses.

RAIN SHOWERS SPLASH POND Create a mini water park in your backyard. Pour water into the tray, and watch as the rainfall effect is activated.

LED LIGHT AIRPLANES These hand-throwing airplanes can fly in parallel or rotate mode, and they feature LED flashlights.

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IN EVERY ISSUE

things to do GO. SEE. PLAY. LEARN. EXPLORE.

DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS LET’S CELEBRATE

MAY 5-8 Raising Cane’s River Center from May 5-8. Grab your Mickey ears and get ready for the ultimate party when Disney On Ice presents Let’s Celebrate skates into Baton Rouge with more than 50 unforgettable Disney characters. $2075. raisingcanesrivercenter.com

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National Stroke Awareness Month National Mental Health Awareness Month National Water Safety Month Skin Cancer Awareness Month

SUNDAY BATMAN DAY LOYALTY DAY ART, JAZZ, AND PIZZAZZ! LSU Museum of Art at 1 p.m. As part of Free First Sunday, LSU MOA will be displaying EBRP student artwork during their Art, Jazz, and Pizzazz! Art Walk in the Young Artists Gallery. lsumoa.org BATON ROUGE GARDEN CLUB’S SPRING TEA. Baton Rouge Garden Center from 2-5 p.m. The program includes a display of antique tea implements and tableware, and a hat contest. Enjoy a stroll through the surrounding gardens after the tea. eventbrite.com FIRST FREE SUNDAYS. LASM. Free admission to the museum, which includes unlimited Irene W. Pennington Planetarium shows. lasm.org GONZALES FOOD TRUCK FESTIVAL. Colonial Stables in Prairieville from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Enjoy music, food, and fun. allevents.in OLD TIME COUNTRY OPEN JAM. West Baton Rouge Museum from 3-5 p.m. Jam sessions are open for any musician to join in to play tunes, including Country, Bluegrass, Gospel, Cajun, and Folk music. wbrmuseum.org SPRING FÊTE 2022. Houmas House & Gardens from 2-5 p.m. Baton Rouge Epicurean Society’s tasting event is an opportunity for guests to taste wine, spirits, beer, and amazing dishes from local chefs. eventbrite.com SUNDAY IN THE PARK: AFTER PARTY. Shaw Center for the Arts from 2-5 p.m.

Free, outdoor concerts. artsbr.org SWEET CHARITY. Theatre Baton Rouge until today. Hapless but unflappable Charity Hope Valentine desperately seeks love in New York City in the 1960s. In this exuberant, groovy, hilarious musical comedy, Charity tries again and again to find her dream and make something of herself. theatrebr.org

MONDAY WORLD TUNA DAY BOOK BABIES. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library at 9:45 a.m. Book Babies focuses on developing early literacy skills. mylpl.info FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome. ebrpl.com MOMMY & ME FEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Center for Health on Summa at 11 a.m. Feeding support and education. brgeneral.org SENSORY SENSITIVITY TIME. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 9-11 a.m. Patrons can pick up headphones to block noise, sunglasses to block light, and various fidget items to hold. Children under nine must be accompanied by an adult. ebrpl.com

TUESDAY NATIONAL LUMPY RUG DAY AFTER BABY COMES.

WAITRESS: A BROADWAY MUSICAL. See May 4.

Woman’s Hospital at 6:30 p.m. In this class, learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress, and hold a baby with a lifelike doll. Also learn about “baby blues” and recovery from childbirth. womans.org BUILDING FOR BIRDS. Gonzales Library at 4 p.m. today, on May 17 at Dutchtown Library, and on May 24 at Galvez Library. DIY a birdhouse and bring all the birds to your yard. myapl.org COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital at 6 p.m. This class series combines information from Preparing for Delivery, Breastfeeding Basics, After Baby Comes, and Lamaze classes delivered in a more engaging and interactive way to make sure you are fully prepared for the big day and beyond. womans.org FLOWERS FOR MOM POP-UP CARD. Albany-Springfield Branch Library at 6 p.m. Make a pop-up card that blossoms right when you open it. Perfect for Easter, Spring, and Mother’s Day. mylpl.info RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. EBR Main Library from 3:30-6:30 p.m., every Tuesday. The Red Stick Farmers

Market returns with fresh new market hours and an expanded group of farmers and food artisans. breada.org SENSORY SENSITIVITY TIME. Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 9-11 a.m. ebrpl.com THE “YES BRAIN:” COACHING OUR KIDS FROM REACTIVITY TO RECEPTIVITY. Online with Baton Rouge Parents Magazine at 3 p.m. Free virtual ParentEd Talk with renowned author Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D. Learn what it means to cultivate a “Yes Brain.” eventbrite.com WITNESS TO CHANGE. Gonzales Branch Library at 6-8 p.m. every Tuesday until May 10. This fourweek reading and discussion series will spark dialogue on the challenges that coastal communities face. myapl.org

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JUICE DAY NATIONAL STAR WARS DAY AFTER BABY COMES. Woman’s Hospital at 6:30 p.m. In this class, learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress, and hold a baby with a lifelike doll. Also learn about “baby blues” and recovery from childbirth. womans.org CINCO DE MAYO CASTANET STORY/CRAFT. Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 4-5 p.m. In celebration of Cinco de Mayo, they will be reading Miguel and the Grand Harmony by Matt de la Peña and creating castanets to play together. ebrpl.com FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome. ebrpl.com GROCERY STORE TOUR. Rouses Market Zachary at 10 a.m. Baton Rouge General

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR

CRAWFISH KING COOK OFF. See May 6.

dietitians will show you how to understand confusing nutrition labels, how to make a meal plan, and how to prepare healthy dishes. brgeneral.org MAY THE 4TH BE WITH YOU. Ascension Parish Libraries. Make a Chewbacca puppet and lightsaber. myapl.org PREGNANCY/INFANT LOSS SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting at 7 p.m. This free group is a way for families to share their stories and find support in one another. A licensed social worker will guide discussions and help grieving families as they navigate the many emotions that follow the loss of a baby. womans.org SENSORY SENSITIVITY TIME. River Center Branch Library from 11 a.m.-1 p.m. ebrpl.com TEEN HANGOUT. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library from 5-6 p.m. Bring your friends or make new ones where everyone is welcome. Video games, activities, crafts, and snacks. Ages 12-18. mylpl.info WAITRESS: A BROADWAY MUSICAL. Raising Cane’s River Center at 7:30 p.m. Jenna, a 60

waitress and expert pie-maker, dreams of a way out of her small town and rocky marriage. Pouring her heart into her pies, she crafts desserts that mirror her topsy-turvy life. raising canesrivercenter.com

THURSDAY CINCO DE MAYO NATIONAL HOAGIE DAY COLIN HAY. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. manshiptheatre.com DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS LET’S CELEBRATE. Raising Cane’s River Center daily until May 8. Grab your Mickey ears and get ready for the ultimate party when Disney On Ice presents Let’s Celebrate skates into Baton Rouge with more than 50 unforgettable Disney characters. $2075. raisingcanesriver center.com MOTHER’S DAY CHOCOLATE FLOWER BOUQUET. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 9 a.m. Join Chef Chris Nicosia to create a deliciously edible chocolate flower arrangement just in time for Mother’s

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Day. $150. lci.edu SENIORS SKIP DAY. Baton Rouge Fairgrounds from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Live performances. Must be an EBR resident and at least 60 years of age. RSVP required. (225) 923-8000 SENSORY SENSITIVITY TIME. Baker Branch Library from 9-11 a.m. ebrpl.com TEEN ADVISORY BOARD MEETING. Watson Branch Library at 5 p.m. Join a Teen Advisory Board and make a difference. Ages 12-18. mylpl.info

FRIDAY MILITARY SPOUSE APPRECIATION DAY NATIONAL SPACE DAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 9:30 a.m. This breastfeeding support group is devised to help mothers and babies while learning from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org BREAUX BRIDGE CRAWFISH FESTiVAL. Breaux Bridge festival grounds through May 8. Music, food, crawfish etouffée cookoff, carnival, and parade. bbcrawfest.com CAFÉ FRANÇAIS. West Baton Rouge Museum at 1-3 p.m. The museum hosts this program as part of its cultural offerings, for those who speak French, are learning French, or simply support the French language and culture in Louisiana. wbrmuseum.com CRAWFISH KING

COOK OFF. 222 North Boulevard from 5-8 p.m. Taste the very best in local boilers as they compete for the Crawfish King Title. All you can eat boiled crawfish while supplies last. Proceeds support Junior Achievement and Big Buddy. crawfishking cookoff.com CRUMBS FROM THE TABLE OF JOY. Theatre Baton Rouge through May 15. Recently widowed Godfrey and his daughters Ernestine and Ermina move from Florida to Brooklyn for a better life. theatrebr.org DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS LET’S CELEBRATE. Raising Cane’s River Center daily until May 8. raisingcanes rivercenter.com FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome. ebrpl.com HOT ART COOL NIGHTS. Mid City from 6-10 p.m. Live music, art, and food. midcity merchantsbr.org JIMMIE ALLEN. Raising Cane’s River Center at 7 p.m. raisingcanesrivercenter.com LIVE AFTER FIVE: CHRIS LEBLANC BIG BAND. North Boulevard from 5-8 p.m. Live musical performances. downtownbr.org SPOOF NIGHT! WITH OVER THE TOP. Manship Theatre at 8 p.m. Baton Rouge’s own The Family Dinner Comedy Troupe creates an interactive movie experience and lovingly pokes fun at your favorite films with live commentary, skits, and interactive games. manshiptheatre.org

SYMPHONY OF FLAVORS WINE TASTING. Martin Wine Cellar at Studio Park at 6:30 p.m. Wine and cheese tasting fundraiser. brso.org

SATURDAY NATIONAL FITNESS DAY NATIONAL LEMONADE DAY #BELIKECJ RACE TO BE THE #ULTIMATETEAMMATE. LSU Campus: Old Front Nine at 9 a.m. Prizes, food, games, face painting, photo booth, and celebrity guests. belikecj.com BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 9:30 a.m. Includes informal, open discussions, a film presentation, and take-home materials. For girls 9-12. $20. womans.org CHESS LESSONS FOR KIDS. Carver Library from 10:30 a.m.-noon today, May 14, 21, and 28. Richard Jones will teach beginning chess lessons to children each Saturday morning in May. (225) 389-7440 COMPUTERS WITHOUT FEAR. Eden Park Branch Library at 10:30 a.m. ebrpl.com CRICUT BADGING CLASS WITH CARD MAKING. Jones Creek Regional Library at 2:30 p.m. Learn how to use the Cricut Maker and create a card. This will also be a badging class to use the library’s Cricut machines. Register online. ebrpl.com CRICUT WORKSHOP: POP-UP CARDS. River Center Branch Library at 3 p.m. Create a popup card using the Cricut Maker. (225) 389-4960 DERBY DAY FOR GAITWAY. Pointe-Ma-

rie from 4:30-7:30 p.m. Kentucky Derby-style fundraiser benefiting GaitWay Therapeutic Horsemanship. gaitway.org DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS LET’S CELEBRATE. Raising Cane’s River Center daily until May 8. raisingcanes rivercenter.com FIRE AND ICE. Galvez Library at 9:30 a.m. or on May 14 at 2 p.m. at Gonzales Library. Local firefighters will educate you and your family on fire safety. Play in the paint and challenge a friend to a round of Pin the Helmet on the Firefighter. When you’re all done, grab a shaved ice from Kona Ice. myapl.org MOTHER’S DAY FOAM PHOTO FRAME STORY CRAFT. Greenwell Springs Regional from 3-4 p.m. Children will put together a foam photo frame for mom following storytime. ebrpl.com POPUP TEA PARTY. The Crown Bistro from 2-4 p.m. Sip & Spill is the ultimate modern tea party experience with premium tea options, delectable treats, and a great atmosphere. eventbrite.com PREK PLAY DAY. Dutchtown, Galvez, and Gonzales Libraries at 10 a.m. Build with blocks, solve puzzles, color, and use straw connectors to solve age-appropriate challenges. Parental supervision is required. myapl.org PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital at 1 p.m. Covers basic information so you can recognize when labor starts, know when to go to the hospital and what to expect, to be aware of indications for a cesarean birth, and discuss options

available for dealing with the pain of labor. $35. womans.org SENSORY SENSITIVITY TIME. Greenwell Springs Regional Library from 9-11 a.m. ebrpl.com START YOUR OWN PODCAST. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 2 p.m. Adults and teens ages 10 and up can attend a training course to learn how to start their own podcast. ebrpl.com STRONG & CALM WARRIOR YOGA. USS KIdd Veterans Museum at 8 a.m. Free and open to the public. usskidd.com

SUNDAY MOTHER’S DAY DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS LET’S CELEBRATE. Raising Cane’s River Center until today. raisingcanesriver center.com OLD TIME MUSIC OPEN JAM. West Baton Rouge Museum from 3-5 p.m. This program allows musicians to come together informally to play acoustic instruments, including but not limited to, acoustic guitar, bass, fiddle, dulcimer, and accordion. wbrmuseum.com SUNDAY IN THE PARK. Shaw Center for the Arts from 2-5 p.m. Free, outdoor concert with Rockin’ Doopsie. artsbr.org

MONDAY NATIONAL LOST SOCK MEMORIAL DAY BOARD GAME NIGHT. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library at 5:30 p.m. Board gaming is

exploding as a hobby. Join the library to try out their collection. Ages 12+. mylpl.info BOOK BABIES. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library at 9:45 a.m. Book Babies focuses on developing early literacy skills. mylpl.info FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. ebrpl.com GET ORGANIZED: ORGANIZING A LIFETIME OF BELONGINGS. EBR Main Library at 1 p.m. Join Louisiana’s only Certified Professional Organizer, Alyssa Trosclair, to learn ways to approach and accomplish the mental and physical challenges associated with organizing. ebrpl.com PREGNANCY 101. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 6:30 p.m. Attend this online class to learn how to provide your baby with the best possible environment for growth and development. This class highlights nutrition, exercise, and normal physical discomforts throughout pregnancy. womans.org

TUESDAY NATIONAL CLEAN UP YOUR ROOM DAY 2022 INFLUENTIAL WOMEN IN BUSINESS LUNCHEON. Crowne Plaza Executive Center at 11 a.m. Join the Baton Rouge Business Report in a celebration of this year’s Influential Women in Business honorees. $65. eventbrite.com COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital at 6

p.m. This class series combines information from Preparing for Delivery, Breastfeeding Basics, After Baby Comes, and Lamaze classes delivered in a more engaging and interactive way to make sure you are fully prepared for the big day and beyond. womans.org GROCERY STORE TOUR. Rouses Market Bluebonnet at 10 a.m. Baton Rouge General dietitians will show you how to understand confusing nutrition labels, how to make a meal plan, and how to prepare healthy dishes. brgeneral.org IDENTIFY COMMUNITY RESOURCES. Webinar with Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge at 11 a.m. Provides resources for organizations statewide that focus on mental health support for youth and teens. fhfgbr.org RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. EBR Main Library from 3:30-6:30 p.m., every Tuesday. The Red Stick Farmers Market returns with new market hours and an expanded group of farmers and food artisans. breada.org SENSORY SENSITIVITY TIME. Fairwood Branch Library from 11 a.m.-1 p.m. ebrpl.com WITNESS TO CHANGE. Gonzales Branch Library at 6-8 p.m. This four-week reading and discussion series will spark dialogue on the challenges that coastal communities face. Registration required. myapl.org

WEDNESDAY NATIONAL EAT WHAT YOU WANT DAY

NATIONAL TWILIGHT ZONE DAY FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome! ebrpl.com GENTLE YOGA. Delmont Gardens Library at 3 p.m. or May 26 at 4 p.m. Certified yoga instructor, Jo Ann Ray, will guide participants through several exercises all from the support of a chair. ebrpl.com

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MOM2MOM SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting at 10 a.m. Free group that offers education and support for women suffering “baby blues” symptoms, postpartum depression, and/or anxiety. womans.org RENÉE FLEMING, MUSIC AND THE MIND. Raising Cane’s River Center at 7 p.m. International recording artist, soprano Renée Fleming will be presenting the next installment in her Music and the Mind series, hosted by Pennington Biomedical Research Foundation. raisingcanesriver center.com SEAUX EASY. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library from 2-4 p.m. Bring your sewing machine for a friendly sitand-sew at the library. mylpl.info TLSM IMPACT FUNDRAISER LUNCHEON. Crowne Plaza at 11:30 a.m. Fundraiser to help support single mothers and their children. the lifeofasinglemom.com

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#NOSINGLEMOMWALKSALONE VIRTUAL EVENT. Facebook Live at 10 a.m. A time of fellowship and truth with The Life of a Single Mom ministry team. the lifeofasinglemom.com CANDLELIGHT CONCERT: PIANO MEN. Cary Saurage Community Arts Center through May 13. Performances of Chopin and Billy Joel hits. brso.org CRICUT WORKSHOP: PERSONALIZED BEACH TOTES. Greenwell Springs Regional Library from 6-8 p.m. Make your own beach totes. ebrpl.com LITTLE SATCHMO. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. An extraordinary tale of identity, loss, and one daughter’s ultimate search for truth–and her father’s love. manshiptheatre.org MOMMY AND ME COLORING. Delmont Gardens Branch Library at 4 p.m. Relaxing coloring session for moms and their kids. (225) 354-7060 ONE SEED AT A TIME. River Center Branch Library from 10-11 a.m. After reading Plants Can’t Sit Still by Hirsch, decorate a garden pot then add soil and seeds to start a garden. For ages 6-11. ebrpl.com

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SILVER SENIORS CRAFTS, COLORING AND CLASSIC TV. Livingston Parish Main Library at 9 a.m. Enjoy classic TV shows while making simple crafts and other activities with your peers. mylpl.info WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 6 p.m. Join a weight loss surgery physician to learn more about the different types of weight loss surgeries and get your questions answered. womans.org

FRIDAY NATIONAL APPLE PIE DAY BOOK BABIES. Watson Branch Library at 10:30 a.m. Book Babies focuses on developing early literacy skills. mylpl.info BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 9:30 a.m. This breastfeeding support group is devised to help mothers and babies while learning from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome! ebrpl.com GEORGIA ON MY MIND. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Celebrating the music of Ray Charles. manshiptheatre.org HEATHER MCMAHAN: THE FAREWELL TOUR.

Raising Cane’s River Center at 8 p.m. Your favorite high-functioning hot mess, comedian Heather McMahan is coming to a city near you. raisingcanesriver center.com POST MOTHERS DAY JAM. Raising Cane’s River Center at 7 p.m. raisingcanesriver center.com WIGGLE WORMS: MUSIC AND MOVEMENT. Livingston Parish Main Library at 10:30 a.m. Fun and creative program for children and their caregivers. mylpl.info

SATURDAY NATIONAL DOG MOM’S DAY ART LESSONS WITH BECCA HILLBURN. Dutchtown Library at 9:30 a.m. Work on watercolor and add layers of color to your artwork. At 11 a.m., teens 12-18 will learn the basics of painting with watercolor. (225) 673-8699 BASIC WOODWORKING: BUILD A FOOTSTOOL. West Baton Rouge Museum from 9 a.m.-noon. Also on May 21. Two-part session to build a four-legged footstool using hand tools. Bring tape and ruler. wbrmuseum.org BATON ROUGE SOUL FOOD FESTIVAL. Riverfront Plaza through May 15. Two days of fabulous food, entertainment, and a cooking contest. brsoulfoodfest.com EBR SCHOOLS TALENTED MUSIC SPRING CONCERT. EBR Main Library from 1:30-3 p.m. Enjoy music from composers like Brahms, Bach, and Tschaikowsky. ebrpl.com GARDEN DISCOVERIES. EBR Main Library

at 10 a.m. The Baton Rouge Botanic Garden Foundation will host a free Garden Discoveries series event. ebrpl.com KIDS WATERCOLOR WORKSHOP. The Arts Council of Livingston Parish from 10-11 a.m. Class fee is $10 for ages six and up. Registration deadline is May 12. artslivingston.org MODEL TRAINS. Republic of West Florida Museum in Jackson from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. See indoor and outdoor model trains in all popular American scales, operated by the Greater Baton Rouge Model Railroaders. greaterbrrailroaders.com SNEAKER SOIREE: KICKS FOR A CAUSE. Capitol Park Museum at 8 p.m. The purpose of the 100 Black Men of Metro Baton Rouge Sneaker Soiree is to support their Senior Project Excel mentees as they continue the next chapter of their academic careers upon graduating from high school. eventbrite.com SPECIAL SATURDAY: ANTARCTICA EXPEDITIONS. Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 10 a.m.-noon. Fresh from her trip to Antarctica, special guest Katherine McNulty will be telling visitors what it is really like to do remote fieldwork on the largest desert and least populated continent in the world. ebrpl.com

SUNDAY INTERNATIONAL DAY OF FAMILIES TAKE YOUR PARENTS TO THE PLAYGROUND DAY AFTER BABY COMES. Woman’s Hospital at

12:30 p.m. In this class, learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress, and hold a baby with a lifelike doll. Also learn about “baby blues” and recovery from childbirth. womans.org CAJUN FRENCH MUSIC ASSOCIATION OPEN JAM. West Baton Rouge Museum from 3-5 p.m. Sponsored by the Baton Rouge CFMA Chapter. Get out your instrument and join in. wbrmuseum.com COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS WITH I AM. EBR Main Library at 3 p.m. Join for a free Community Connections session to meet Christy Mensah, Founder & Executive Director of I AM. ebrpl.com GIRL TALK. Center for Health on Summa at 2 p.m. Focuses on what girls experience during puberty. brgeneral.org

MONDAY NATIONAL LOVE A TREE DAY BOOK BABIES. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library at 9:45 a.m. mylpl.info FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome. ebrpl.com MANDALA WINDOW CLINGS. Jones Creek Regional Branch at 6:30 p.m. Relax and create by coloring and/or painting your own mandala window cling. ebrpl.com

TUESDAY NATIONAL CHERRY COBBLER DAY

BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 6:30 p.m. Includes informal, open discussions, a film presentation, and take-home materials. womans.org COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital at 6 p.m. This class series combines information from Preparing for Delivery, Breastfeeding Basics, After Baby Comes, and Lamaze classes delivered in a more engaging, and interactive way to make sure you are fully prepared for the big day and beyond. womans.org HOW TO STOP FIGHTING AND START WINNING TOGETHER IN PARENTING AND MARRIAGE. Online with Baton Rouge Parents Magazine at 9 p.m. Learn techniques that will restructure your marriage around shared success with authors Nate Klemp, Ph.D. and Kaley Klemp. eventbrite.com RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. EBR Main Library from 3:30-6:30 p.m., every Tuesday. The Red Stick Farmers Market returns with new market hours and an expanded group of farmers and food artisans. breada.org

WEDNESDAY INTERNATIONAL MUSEUM DAY BATON ROUGE CLINIC PRENATAL CLASS. The Baton Rouge Clinic at 5:30 p.m. Free prenatal class that discusses things to do before the baby comes and what you can expect while in the hospital and in the first days to weeks after birth. batonrouge

clinic.com BEEBOT ROBOTICS STORY/STEAM. Delmont Gardens Branch at 4 p.m. Join for a reading of Bee Dance by Rick Chrustowski, then learn about simple coding by playing with Beebot Robots. ebrpl.com FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome. ebrpl.com GROCERY STORE TOUR. Rouses Market Juban Crossing at 10 a.m. Baton Rouge General dietitians will show you how to understand confusing nutrition labels, how to make a meal plan, and how to prepare healthy dishes. brgeneral.org HOOKS & LOOPS CROCHET CLUB. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library at 2 p.m. All experience levels are welcome. Beginners will get one-onone attention, and they have crochet hooks and yarn to use while you’re learning. Ages 18+. mylpl.info PAPER FLOWERS STORYCRAFT. Scotlandville Branch Library at 4:30 p.m. Listen to Chrysanthemum by Kevin Henkes and learn how to make an easy paper flower. ebrpl.com PREGNANCY/INFANT LOSS SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting at 7 p.m. This free group is a way for families to share their stories and find support in one another. A licensed social worker will guide discussions and help grieving families as they navigate the many emotions that follow the loss of a baby. womans.org

RIVER CITY JAZZ MASTERS: DONALD HARRISON. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. manshiptheatre.org TEEN ADVISORY BOARD MEETING. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library at 5 p.m. mylpl.info WHY RACISM SEEMS NORMAL WITH MAXINE CRUMP. EBR Main Library at 6 p.m. Hear Maxine talk about her personal story and how issues such as diversity and equal rights are important in today’s society. ebrpl.com

THURSDAY NATIONAL DEVIL’S FOOD CAKE DAY CIRCUS DAY! River Center Branch Library at 3:30 p.m. After reading Second Banana by Graves, create a circus performer craft. For ages 8-11. ebrpl.com TEENS POKEBALL PLUSH. Delmont Gardens Branch Library at

4 p.m. Learn to sew and create a plush pokeball. ebrpl.com

FRIDAY NATIONAL ENDANGERED SPECIES DAY ACE FREHLEY. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. manshiptheatre.org BEETHOVEN’S NINTH. River Center Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Season finale with Maestro Timothy Muffitt. brso.org BOOGIE ON THE BAYOU. Bayou Plaquemine Waterfront Park from 5:30-8:30 p.m. Performance by Foret Traditions. Free to the public. Bring lawn chairs. Food and drinks available for purchase. (225) 687-3116 BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 9:30 a.m. This breastfeeding support group is devised to help mothers and babies while learning from a certified

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lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. ebrpl.com HISTORICAL HAPPY HOUR. West Baton Rouge Museum from 6-8 p.m. Festivities will include a spirited evening tour complete with live music and a Tequila tasting inspired by the current traveling exhibition. wbrmuseum.org WIGGLE WORMS: MUSIC AND MOVEMENT. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library and Watson Branch Library at 10:30 a.m. mylpl.info WILD WINE WALK. BREC’S Baton Rouge Zoo from 5-7:30 p.m. Evening of wine tastings, food samples, and music for those ages 21 and up. brzoo.org

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AUDIO BADGING CLASS. Jones Creek Regional Library at 2:30 p.m. Take this class to learn the basics of studio audio recording and creating a podcast. Once you take the class, you gain access to their studio for recording your own projects. ebrpl.com BASIC WOODWORKING: BUILD A FOOTSTOOL. West Baton Rouge Museum from 9 a.m.-noon. Part two of building a four-legged footstool using hand tools. Bring tape and ruler. wbrmuseum.org CROCHET COMPASSION. Jones Creek Regional Library at 3:30 p.m. Make plarn and crochet it into plastic sleeping mats for the homeless. They will also be participating in Knitted Knockers to make handmade, soft, and adjustable breast prosthesis for people who have undergone mastectomies. Register online. ebrpl.com LAMAZE: A LABOR OF LOVE. Woman’s Hospital at 9 a.m. This class is recommended for couples wanting to learn how to apply Lamaze techniques for coping with pain in labor and birth who plan to deliver without anesthesia. $75

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per couple. womans.org SPRING IN THE SOUTH RECEPTION. The Arts Council of Livingston Parish from 10 a.m.-1 p.m. artslivingston.org TEEN MOVIE DAY: AQUAMAN. Baker Branch Library at 3:30 p.m. Teens are invited to kick off this year’s Summer Reading theme Oceans of Possibilities with a screening of the 2018 DC movie Aquaman. ebrpl.com

ginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome! ebrpl.com LIVINGSTON PARISH LIBRARY SUMMER READING PROGRAM. Livingston Parish Libraries today through August 7. The summer reading program invites adults, teens, and children to earn prizes by reading and attending library events. This year’s summer reading theme is “Oceans of Possibilities.” mylpl.info

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MONDAY NATIONAL LUCKY PENNY DAY WORLD TURTLE DAY BOARD GAME NIGHT. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library at 5:30 p.m. Space available for tabletop role-playing. Ages 12+. mylpl.info BOOK BABIES. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library at 9:45 a.m. mylpl.info BOOKS, GAMES, AND FUN! River Center Branch Library at noon. Listen to Disney’s Finding Nemo adapted by Saxon then play a game of Memory-Finding Nemo. Available on a first-come, first-served basis. ebrpl.com COFFEE & A CLASSIC FILM. Zachary Branch Library at 10:30 a.m. Screening of the film Sunset Boulevard. ebrpl.com FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a be-

BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting at 6:30 p.m. Preteen boys ages 10-13 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves through informal, open discussions, a film presentation, and take-home materials. womans.org BOOKS, GAMES, AND FUN! River Center Branch Library at noon. Listen to Party Animals by Davis then play a game of Animals BINGO. Available on a firstcome, first-served basis. Ages 5-11. ebrpl.com BRINGING BIRDS TO YOUR YARD WITH JANE PATTERSON. Albany-Springfield Branch Library at 6 p.m. Jane Patterson, President and Education Coordinator of the Baton Rouge Audubon Society, will give a talk about creating a bird-friendly yard. mylpl.info COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital at 6 p.m. This class series combines information

from Preparing for Delivery, Breastfeeding Basics, After Baby Comes, and Lamaze classes delivered in a more engaging, and interactive way to make sure you are fully prepared for the big day and beyond. womans.org RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. EBR Main Library from 3:30-6:30 p.m., every Tuesday. The Red Stick Farmers Market returns with new market hours and an expanded group of farmers and food artisans. breada.org Y2K MOVIE DAY: FREAKY FRIDAY. Fairwood Branch Library at 3:30 p.m. Watch the movie Freaky Friday. ebrpl.com

WEDNESDAY NATIONAL MISSING CHILDREN’S DAY ACRYLIC ART WORKSHOP. Jones Creek Regional Library from 1-2 p.m. Make beautiful, Louisiana-inspired art while learning the basics of acrylic painting. (225) 756-1150 BOOKS, GAMES, AND FUN! River Center Branch Library at noon. Listen to Are You Eating Candy Without Me? by Malesevic then play a game of Candyland. Available on a firstcome, first-served basis. Ages 3-11. ebrpl.com FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome. ebrpl.com MOM2MOM SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting at 10 a.m. Free group

that offers education and support for women suffering “baby blues” symptoms, postpartum depression, and/or anxiety. womans.org

THURSDAY NATIONAL BLUEBERRY CHEESECAKE DAY BOOKS, GAMES, AND FUN! River Center Branch Library at noon. Listen to Jasper & Ollie Build a Fort by Willan then play a game of Jumbling Towers. Available on a first-come, first served basis. ebrpl.com CRICUT WORKSHOP: PERSONALIZED BEACH TOTES. Greenwell Springs Regional Library from 6-8 p.m. Make your own beach tote. Register online. ebrpl.com GAME NATION! Carver Branch Library from 4:30-6 p.m. ebrpl.com MATILDA THE MUSICAL. LSU Shaver Theater through May 29. Times vary. CYT Baton Rouge tells the story of an extraordinary girl who dares to take a stand and change her own destiny. $16-21. cytbatonrouge.org SILVER SENIORS CRAFTS, COLORING AND CLASSIC TV. Livingston Parish Main Library at 9 a.m. Enjoy classic TV shows while making simple crafts and other activities with your peers. Ages 18+. mylpl.info WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 11:45 a.m. Join a weight loss surgery physician to learn more about the different types of weight loss surgeries and get your questions answered.

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FRIDAY SUNSCREEN DAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 9:30 a.m. This breastfeeding support group is devised to help mothers and babies while learning from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. All fitness levels are welcome. ebrpl.com GONZALES JAMBALAYA FESTIVAL. South Irma Boulevard through May 29. Food, music, and fun. jambalayafestival.net PIXELATED PERLERS. River Center Branch from 2-3 p.m. Stop by to make some pixelated perler bead creations. ebrpl.com

SATURDAY HAMBURGER DAY NATIONAL BRISKET DAY BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom Meeting at 9:30 a.m. Includes informal, open discussions, a film presentation, and take-home materials. womans.org BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Woman’s Hospital at 1:30 p.m. Learn the benefits of breastfeeding. $35 womans.org

CIVIC ORCHESTRA OF BATON ROUGE. EBR Main Library at 3 p.m. The orchestra will delight the audience with “Soundscapes Around the World” featuring such pieces as Georges Bizet’s “L’Arlesienne Suite No. 2: Farandole,” Aram Khachaturian’s “Sabre Dance,” and Edvard Grieg’s “Solveig’s Song.” ebrpl.com FAMILY OCEAN MOVIE DOUBLE FEATURE: FINDING NEMO & FINDING DORY. Baker Branch Library at 11 a.m. Families and children of all ages are invited to a day of Disney/Pixar ocean movies. Finding Nemo will screen at 11 a.m., and Finding Dory at 3 p.m. ebrpl.com MODEL TRAINS. Republic of West Florida Museum in Jackson from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. See indoor and outdoor model trains in all popular American scales, operated by the Greater Baton Rouge Model Railroaders. greater brrailroaders.com

SUNDAY NATIONAL PAPERCLIP DAY PUT A PILLOW ON YOUR FRIDGE DAY

MONDAY MEMORIAL DAY NATIONAL WATER A FLOWER DAY FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 10 a.m., every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Patrons can get fit by participating in a beginner aerobics video. ebrpl.com GROOVIN’ ON THE GRASS FEST. Red Stick

Social from 2-10 p.m. Music fest. $25-100. eventbrite.com MEMORIAL DAY CONCERT. EBR Main Library at 7 p.m. The Baton Rouge Concert Band will perform a concert dedicated to those who made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedoms, highlighting many patriotic tunes. ebrpl.com

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Library from 3:30-6:30 p.m., every Tuesday. The Red Stick Farmers Market returns with new market hours and an expanded group of farmers and food artisans. breada.org YOGA WORKSHOPS. West Baton Rouge Museum at 6 p.m. All ages, shapes, sizes, fitness, and skill levels are welcome, including first timers. Bring a yoga mat, wear comfy clothes, and don’t eat an hour before class. wbrmuseum.com

COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital at 6 p.m. This class series combines information from Preparing for Delivery, Breastfeeding Basics, After Baby Comes, and Lamaze classes NTS delivered in a @BRPARE more engaging, and interactive way to make sure you are fully prepared for the big day and Editor’s Note Occasionally the date or beyond. womans.org location of an event may FREAKSCENE: THE change after publication. STORY OF DINOSAUR Always phone ahead JR. (FILM). Manship or check the website Theatre at 7:30 p.m. to confirm important information. Film offers rare insights into the crazy everyday Submissions life of the band and Baton Rouge Parents illuminates the inner Magazine welcomes workings of a cult band submissions of events of interest to families. Send from its beginnings in all calendar submissions the 1980s and 90s to to calendar@brparents. the present day. com. Include dates, manshiptheatre.org times, location with OCHSNER BLOOD address, recommended ages, cost, public phone DRIVE. EBR Main number, website, and Library from 11:30 a.m.photos. 5 p.m. Donors must present ID at the time of Deadline Submit information for donation, and be sure the June calendar by to have plenty to eat May 10, 2022. and drink before and after. ebrpl.com No part of this calendar RED STICK FARMERS can be reproduced in print or web. MARKET. EBR Main

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