Baton Rouge Parents Magazine June 2020

JUNE 2020

T H E M A G A Z I N E T H A T B A T O N R O U G E FA M I L I E S L I V E B Y

MENTAL HEALTH

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MARRIAGE

TWEEN HEALTH CHECK

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SUMMERS AND HOLIDAYS Kidcam wants to be your child’s “summer and holiday” home — a place they can count on; where they know they belong; where they can see their “camp family” — friends they meet along the way — and stay safe and have fun!

COVID SAFETY EXPERIENCED Kidcam was contracted by Ochsner Health System to provide a program for health care workers and their support staff since the day school was closed due to the health emergency. For 10 weeks, Kidcam provided a safe, fun environment for children with all the COVID safeguards in place — small group sizes, temperatures taken each day, handwashing upon arrival and throughout the day, and ongoing daily sanitization of all touched surfaces, to name a few of the safeguards.

ACCREDITATION — AMERICAN CAMP ASSOCIATION High quality programming is the fundamental component that makes Kidcam shine! Last year, Kidcam applied for Accreditation by the American Camp Association, which has established very high quality standards for programming, staffing, organization, safety and many other standards — a binder about four inches thick in criteria to be met.

Kidcam was able to easily meet all of the standards with the same program they have been running for the last 10 years! Quality through and through is what you will get in all areas at Kidcam.

CONVENIENT LOCATIONS Kidcam has multiple locations throughout Baton Rouge. This summer with COVID-19, not all sites may not be open, but the sites at St. Margaret Episcopal Church and the Unitarian Church opened on May 26.

Woodlawn Baptist Church is the newest addition, and the site will be opening on June 8. Hours of operation are from 7a – 6p, M–F. Ages 3–13. *Preschool only at St. Margaret location.

PROVEN LEADER IN CHILDREN’S PROGRAMS Kidcam Baton Rouge has been under the leadership of Kelly Coreil, going on 11 years. Kelly Coreil has a Master’s Degree in Child Development and Early Childhood Education; has worked in children’s programs since she was in high school; and has run preschool programs, afterschool programs, holiday programs, STEM education programs and of course — summer programs!

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Leadership Ascension Class of 2021!

As Ascension Parish continues to grow and the community becomes more complex and demanding, there is an increasing need to train responsible and informed leaders. Leadership Ascension is an innovative program sponsored by The Ascension Chamber of Commerce to assist in preparing emerging community leaders for leadership positions in local government, business, and community affairs. This results-oriented program is directed by a steering committee of community leaders and facilitated by the Ascension Chamber of Commerce Staff.

The purpose is to provide a forum for and increase the awareness of potential leaders by giving them an intense course which encompasses a broad scope of community concerns. The first Leadership Ascension class graduated in 1996, and the program currently has more than 600 alumni.

A maximum of 35 individuals are selected each year to participate in the program. Since the number of participants in Leadership Ascension is limited and selection will be made to reflect the diversity of Ascension Parish, applicants who are not selected are encouraged to reapply in subsequent years.

Following an orientation retreat in late August which explores leadership skills, the class will attend eight all-day sessions, each focusing on a specific aspect of Ascension Parish, such as government, education, law enforcement, and economic development. The program will culminate with a closing retreat in early June and a graduation ceremony in mid-June.

Sessions include lectures, simulations, group discussions, panel presentations, field trips, and community research projects.

Attendance at the opening and closing retreats are mandatory.

Participants who miss more than two monthly sessions will not be able to successfully graduate from the program.

Applicants must have the full support of the organization or corporation they represent.

In addition to learning specific leadership skills and gaining a broad exposure to the community, participants also meet their peers in other fields and form contacts which will benefit their volunteer and professional activities.

The Ascension Leadership Program also requires groups to complete a community service project that benefits the overall community. For years, these projects have left a lasting legacy and served both Ascension Parish residents and businesses. Past community service examples include projects such as a senior citizen’s prom, a mass casualty response bus, a community park in Donaldsonville, a parish-wide youth mentoring program, and countless more positive examples of volunteerism.

In 2013, a group of Leadership Alumni came together to launch The Leadership Ascension Foundation. The main goal of this 501-c-3 foundation is to provide a resource for the class to assist in the proper management of funds that are collected for the various organizations supported by the class projects.

For further information, contact the Ascension Chamber of Commerce Office at 225.647.7487 or visit our website, www.ascensionchamber.com.

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CONTENTS JUNE 2020 ▪ ISSUE 359

FEATURES 30

HOW MENTAL HEALTH CAN AFFECT YOUR MARRIAGE

ON THE COVER

2019-20 Cover Kid Samuel “Sam” H. felt right at home while fishing during his photo shoot, as he lives on a pond and loves to go fishing with his Dad. His mom refers to him as his Dad’s shadow, and the two enjoy golfing together, going duck hunting, and spending all their time outdoors.

While Sam has enjoyed visiting Mike the Tiger during time at home, he really misses his friends and can’t wait to return to school to see them when he starts Kindergarten next fall. And he will definitely be ready as he has already started learning to read.

Sam is kind-hearted, super fun and silly, generous, thoughtful and the best big brother. He plays t-ball, soccer and flag football, and he hopes to be a policeman when he gets older.

IT’S HOT, BABY!

Keep your little ones safe in the Louisiana heat

Understanding your mental health and your marriage

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7 THINGS EVERY PARENT SHOULD KNOW ABOUT THEIR TWEEN’S HEALTH Keeping your preteen happy and healthy

13 HOMEGROWN LOUISIANA GEMS

Discover the treasure trove of gems in our state

24 DAD NEXT DOOR

Photo Credit: Collin Richie

IN EVERY ISSUE

12 A MOTHER’S VOICE 14 LAGNIAPPE 58 CALENDAR 63 MARKETPLACE 64 THE LAST WORD 66 SNAPSHOTS

CONNECT

16 COMMUNITY 20 EDUCATION 21 ONE AMAZING KID

LIVE

24 DAD NEXT DOOR 26 EXCEPTIONAL LIVES 28 FAITH

PLAY

52 A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD 54 GET OUT OF TOWN 56 THINGS WE LOVE

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IN EVERY ISSUE A MOTHER’S VOICE

Picking Up Sticks

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recently found my old game of pick-up-sticks while sorting through boxes during our time at home. One look at the box and my memories of how much I loved playing the game came flooding back. I remembered when I bought this particular set though. I had found it in a local toy store, but the sticks were plastic, not wooden. Nevertheless, nostalgia took over me and I brought them home and started to play.

My husband watched me play for a while and I even taught him how to play: You toss the sticks out of the can and however they land in a pile, that is the challenge you’re given. You have to survey the lays of the sticks, look carefully at how each crosses over and under the others, and then plan out several layers of moves before you try to pick up the first one. Wow, now that is a great metaphor for life.

It’s not just the strategy that’s important; you have to keep a cool head and a steady hand as you carefully separate and lift each stick in its place.

You need patience, a strong focus, and persistence.

The comparison to life continues. Some things are just outside your control and you have to work with them the best you can. Some moves in life are serious and have to be handled off-the-cuff. But the real sense of satisfaction comes when you’ve counted up your sticks and have won.

We’ve been going through a time that none of us are familiar with.

Much like what you need for pick-up-sticks can be found in the lessons we are having to work on during the pandemic. Patience for better days to come. A focus on a brighter future. Persistence to continue to do our part and protect our family and friends.

We can only hope that we continue to move in the right direction and remember those characteristics throughout this time. We have a lot to look forward to. Summer fun is finally ready to be had, so whether you’re staying home as much as possible or going for walks, bike rides, or fishing in your neighborhood, getting in some fresh air this month will definitely do us all some good. Or, you can stay in and play a game of pick-up-sticks!

Amy Foreman-Plaisance Publisher/Editor in Chief

Have ideas? I’d like to hear from you.

By mail: Amy P., 11831 Wentling Ave., Baton Rouge, LA 70816 Email: editorial@brparents.com. Be sure to include your name, address, and daytime phone number.

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IN EVERY ISSUE LAGNIAPPE LOVE FOR LOUISIANA

It’s no surprise that here in Louisiana, there’s a lot to love. From the atmosphere and food to the people and hospitality, Louisiana leaves its mark on the hearts of many. We wanted to know what you loved most about our state. Here’s what you had to say!

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“Seafood.”

—Diamond J.

“I love the whole package!

The people, the land, the food, the atmosphere, but most of all, it is HOME! I have lived in five other states and nowhere compares to Louisiana. I always end up moving back home.”

—Jennifer K. “Food!”

—DeJunne’ J.

“I love the hospitality.

Whether you’re moving into the state or have been here all your life, you’re always family.

There’s always going to be someone who will ask

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how you’re doing, someone who will want to catch up with you, and someone who will make sure you’re eating enough! It’s a home for everyone.”

—Amanda M. “I love that we have lots of wildlife that’s indigenous to our area. I love that we have lots of slang words from an English/French immersion.”

—Candace N. “I love the LSU Tigers, the southern hospitality, the many places to go around the state, and of course, the food!”

—Amy F.

“I love Bloody Marys.

There’s a perfect blend of everything southern, and I love the unique architecture style.”

—Ryn W. “I love that my babies were born here. The community we have built.”

—Mari W. “Crawfish.”

“Snoballs.”

—George

—Katherine E.

“I love crawfish season!”

—Tyler F.

My instinct is to protect my children from pain. But adversity is often the thing that gives us character and backbone.”

—Nicole Kidman

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CONNECT COMMUNITY RESEARCH SUGGESTS THAT NESTING IS SOCIETAL

The furious burst of energy directed at preparing your home for the birth of your baby or the need to redecorate may not be a hormonal instinct or the result of a biological drive, according to new research published in the journal Women’s Studies International Forum. Dr. Arianne Shahvisi, senior lecturer in medical ethics and humanities at Brighton and Sussex Medical School, concludes that pressure to nest during pregnancy more likely comes from society than the biological narrative we’ve come to believe as explanation. The influence of gender stereotypes also come into play, especially specific pressures experienced during pregnancy.

ENJOY A VIRTUAL VISIT TO LASM

The option to visit some of our favorite places from around Louisiana from the safety of our homes is one silver lining from the social distancing that has been required to slow the spread of the novel coronavirus. The Louisiana Art & Science Museum has developed an online portal for at-home art and science experiences. Organized by grade level, plus a section for all ages, the site includes videos, hands-on activities and blogs produced by the Louisiana Art & Science Museum and Irene W. Pennington Planetarium. “LASM developed virtual-lasm.org in response to the museum’s temporary closure as a result of COVID-19, but this initiative to share our mission online will persist beyond the current crisis,” says Serena Pandos, Louisiana Art & Science Museum president and executive director. ■ virtual-lasm.org

1,000 EBR FAMILIES RECEIVE FREE INTERNET

The lack of Internet access is one of the biggest challenges to students who are learning from home. During the unprecedented time of social distancing, Every Kid a King extended the gift of connectivity to 1,000 families with children who are in the East Baton Rouge Parish School System. In partnership with Cox Communications, the nonprofit was able to offer students six months of Internet service through Cox’s Connect2Compete program, worth $60,000. “We know our educators are working tirelessly to engage with students, and families are doing everything they can to fill the void of their classroom teacher,” says Dana Bernhard, co-founder of Every Kid a King.

“We believe it’s our duty to support these extraordinary efforts any way we can and are glad that Cox is here to support.” The Every Kid a King Fund was established by Jim and Dana Bernhard and the Shaw Group to help support local nonprofits in Louisiana.

AUDUBON WELCOMES BABY GIRAFFE NAMED HOPE

Life continues at Audubon Nature Institute, and a baby giraffe has been born at Freeport-McMoRan Audubon Species Survival Center. The new calf is named “Hope,” and is the second birth for mom Sue Ellen. Hope is the eighth giraffe calf born at the survival center as part of the Alliance for Sustainable Wildlife conservation breeding partnership with San Diego Zoo Global. “What name could be more fitting than ‘Hope’ in these challenging times?” says Ron Forman, institute president and CEO. “Hope is what has sustained our community through seemingly insurmountable crises in the past and what we must hold onto. May we all take comfort in the reminder that, even in the darkest of days, life continues, undaunted.”

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NEW PICTURE BOOK HONORS ESSENTIAL WORKERS

Explaining why everything in our little one’s world turned upside down is a task for parents, even when things begin to look more normal again. Looking for the helpers, as Mister Rogers always advised, is an important thing to do.

A new picture book helps children identify and honor essential workers. THANK YOU, HELPERS: Doctors, Teachers, Grocery Workers, and More Who Care for Us is available now as an ebook and will soon be available as a paperback.

Each book purchased will be accompanied by a donation to Americares, an organization providing protective supplies, training and support for health workers around the world.

OCHSNER CELEBRATES 10 YEARS OF WOMEN’S SERVICES Welcoming babies to our area is a specialty of Ochsner Medical Center–Baton Rouge, which recently marked 10 years of providing women’s services. More than 13,300 babies have been delivered during that decade. The center has the largest certified nurse midwife program in our region and was the first hospital in the state to attain international recognition as a “BabyFriendly” designated birth facility. Labor and delivery, mother-baby, neonatal intensive care, transition, and lactation support staff at the center celebrated the milestone with a small, socially distant party.

■ ochsner.org/services/obstetrics

PAMPERS LAUNCHES VIRTUAL CHILDBIRTH CLASSES

It may be some time before parents-to-be find themselves on the floor of a hospital conference room together learning what to expect about childbirth. Pampers, in association with Childbirth Education Association, has created a series of nine online childbirth education classes to provide the information safely at home. Clinical childbirth experts lead the video sessions, which feature real-life expecting parents and provide in-depth information from the stages of pregnancy to delivery and postpartum care, including breastfeeding.

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CONNECT COMMUNITY TWEENS’ REWARD RESPONSE VARIES BY TIME OF DAY

Risk taking while navigating teenage years is a right of passage for growing up. New research has found that, for preteens, the time of day may impact decision making. Older children in the study of 7 to 11 year olds responded more strongly to rewarding experiences and less strongly to negative experiences later in the day. “Heightened reward responsiveness in early adolescents later in the day may contribute to greater risk for making poor decisions in the evenings,” says Brandon Gibb, professor of psychology, director of the Mood Disorders Institute at Binghamton University, and study author with graduate student Aliona Tsypes.

“This may help to explain why adolescence is a period of increased risk for developing psychopathology and substance use problems.”

EXPERIENCE DISNEY FIREWORKS SPECTACULAR AT HOME

A dream is a wish your heart makes! And if you’re dreaming of Disney magic, then you’re in for a treat. Walt Disney World temporarily closed in March and hasn’t announced its reopening date, but the park is providing a fun service to allow fans to enjoy their own fairy tale ending to the endless regular days at home when we can’t be at the happiest place on earth. Disney Parks has released a streaming replay of “Happily Ever After,” the nighttime spectacular display from Magic Kingdom Park that you can enjoy from home. Cinderella Castle at Walt Disney World Resort becomes the canvas for all of your little ones’ favorite Disney characters in the nearly 20-minute video, which is available on the Disney Parks YouTube channel. ■ youtube.com/user/disneyparks

HOME STARGAZING OPPORTUNITIES FROM BREC

While families practice social distancing, Highland Road Park Observatory is offering opportunities to learn about the stars from home. The observatory’s Home Stargazing Opportunities program provides skygazing exercises, some of which can be seen any time and others are viewable on specific dates. Remote support from HRPO personnel is available via phone and email as well as the Baton Rouge Astronomical Society Forum threads. All exercises are tailored to beginners with step-by-step instructions and only require unaided eyes or binoculars rather than a telescope. Let’s look up, Baton Rouge! ■ hrpo.lsu.edu

MORE THAN PEACH PROJECT REDEFINES ‘SKIN-COLOR’ CRAYONS

Nine-year-old Bellen Woodard’s careful response to her friends asking her for the “skin-color” crayon has led to a classroom culture shift and eventually the establishment of Bellen’s More Than Peach Project. When asked, Bellen would respond, “Which color would you like … because it could be any beautiful color?”

Her nonprofit organization’s goal is to get multicultural crayons in the hands of all students and provide, develop, and support arts and gifted education. Bellen’s More Than Peach multicultural crayons will be released this month and will join her already available palette packs and sketch pads. The palette pack has already been added to the permanent collection at the Virginia Museum of History and Culture. Bellen has already donated more than 2,000 items to students and senior citizens so far.

■ morethanpeach.com

CAPITAL AREA UNITED WAY LAUNCHES COVID-19 RELIEF FUND

Recovery from the novel coronavirus will take time and money. Capital Area United Way (CAUW) has launched a COVID-19 Community Relief fund to help its 10-parish service area in those recovery efforts. Specifically, the money will be used to aid the Asset Limited, Income Constrained, Employed (ALICE) population and 2-1-1 operations. “The people of the capital area have always come together in times of crisis,” says George Bell, CAUW president and CEO. “This pandemic is different from the types of crises we have faced in the past, but I know our area will emerge stronger from this challenge.” CAUW will match dollar for dollar up to the first $100,000 donated.

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SUMMER CAMP MAY 26 – JULY 31 AGES 3-13*

LOCATIONS *St. Margaret Episcopal • Siegen & Perkins

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LOCAL CHILDREN RECEIVE FREE LAPTOPS

Online learning is impossible without a device to access the Internet. The Walls Project, with support from Cox Communications and ExxonMobil Baton Rouge, distributed $30,000 in laptops to solve this problem for students in EBR Schools. To reach more students, Walls collaborated with nonprofit partners 100 Black Men, Metromorphosis, Front Yard Bikes and Southern University’s Upward Bound program to distribute the computers.

“Receiving this laptop is not just a gift, but it is a blessing, a lifeline and confidence that my sons can continue with their educational needs to enhance their educational experiences and requirements to secure their futures,” says parent Marissa Gremillion. ■ thewallsproject.org

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CONNECT EDUCATION ASCENSION PARISH SCHOOLS NAMES TOP TEACHERS AND PRINCIPALS OF THE YEAR

Being honored as a teacher or principal of the year is bittersweet while educators remain socially distant from their students. Ascension Public Schools recently announced its district winners, who will go on to compete for the state’s 2021 teacher and principal of the year. Tabitha Adams, Bullion Primary School; Michelin Bertin, Prairieville Middle School; and Erika Poarch, East Ascension High School, are Ascension’s teachers of the year. Laurent R. Thomas, Lakeside Primary School; Michelle Bourque, Galvez Middle School; and Marvin Evans, Donaldsonville High School, are the district’s principals of the year.

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DUNHAM STUDENT TRAINS DAD ON GOOGLE CLASSROOM

By now, students and teachers are practically experts on digital distance learning, but even as schools were setting up the mechanisms for that type of educational experience, some students were ahead of the curve. At The Dunham School, seventh grader Reynolds Pontti was able to put her knowledge to work and help her dad connect with operators of a nuclear power plant he is responsible for teaching. “Within 15 minutes, she had me set up in Google Classroom. Through the weekend, with Reynolds’ technical directing, I was able to launch remote learning for our site,” Chris Pontii says. “These kids are prepared and making differences beyond the classroom.”

RUNNELS SCHOOL DONATES RARE BIRD TO LSU MUSEUM OF NATURAL SCIENCE

As the Runnels School prepared to officially close its doors in May, the school donated a century-old collection of mounted bird specimens to the LSU Museum of Natural Science. The collection of 50 Louisiana birds that were displayed at the school in a glass-enclosed exhibit case includes the now-extinct Eskimo Curlew, which was last reported being seen 60 years ago. Ornithologist Richard Gibbons calls the Eskimo Curlew a “ jewel” and says it’s only the second preserved specimen in the state. The exhibit is a special one as all the birds in the collection migrate throughout Louisiana at some point in their life cycles.

Once the exhibit is installed at the museum, the exhibit will also bear a plaque acknowledging Runnels’ incredible donation to the museum.

AT-HOME LEARNING FOR LITTLEST LEARNERS

Distance learning is complete for 2019-2020 and we made it through the school year. But the Louisiana Department of Education is still offering at-home care and learning opportunities for families home with young children. The department has partnered with Noggin, Nickelodeon’s learning service for kids ages two and up to offer free three-month subscriptions to families. The app includes read-aloud books, learning games, songs and other engaging content. “During this extraordinary time, Louisiana must support the hearts and minds of our youngest learners,” says Assistant Superintendent Jessica Baghian. The department also offers guidance for families with ideas for age-appropriate, play-based learning activities.

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FILM FESTIVAL HIGHLIGHTS STUDENT VIDEOS

While students and teachers everywhere have embraced video technology during the coronavirus crisis, some were already well acquainted with creating award-winning films.

Although the first annual East Baton Rouge Film Festival was unable to have its red carpet premiere event and ceremony, the middle and high school students’ short films were screened and judged. Students participated in a panel discussion with professionals who work in television and film just before schools were closed. Belaire Magnet High School film students’ The New Colossus, earned eight total nominations, the most of any film.

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A.B., which is short for Annabella, is a sixth grader at St. Jude the Apostle School.

Dyslexia and dysgraphia make reading and speech difficult for A.B., but she has always been able to use cooking utensils with ease.

“She started cooking when she was young as a way to practice those fine motor skills without her realizing she was practicing,” says Michelle Perk, A.B.’s mom.

A.B.’s interest in gardening began at the farmers’ market, specifically helping with a local farm’s booth. In a short three years, her own garden has expanded from a few mop buckets to a yard full of raised garden beds.

“It started as I wanted to do what they’re doing at the farmers’ market,” A.B. says. “And I wanted to expand on that and see different flavors that I like. I didn’t realize there was so much variety.” The garden’s benefits for A.B. are many, including developing patience and dealing with failure.

While her garden is the focus of much of A.B.’s energy, she is also an athlete and advocate. Michelle’s mom recently died after a long battle with cancer, and Michelle and A.B. work with their Kids Fighting Cancer team to raise money, this year more than $50,000.

“As a mom, what makes me so proud is that when she could look at something and say, ‘This is harder for me, I give up;’ instead she looks at it and says, ‘It’s harder for me, so let me do it anyway,’” Michelle says.

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CONNECT EDUCATION U-HIGH ACHIEVES STEM CERTIFICATION

Following a two-year journey that began fall 2018, University Laboratory School (ULS) became the first public school in the state of Louisiana to earn STEM certification from Cognia, formerly AdvancED. The STEM acronym stands for science, technology, engineering and math, and the certification recognizes the school’s high quality and efforts particularly in those areas. Student investigations of scientific concepts at ULS include inquiry and problem-based learning in the creative process, adding an “A” for arts to the acronym in the school’s theme for the 2019-2020 year: “Full STEAM Ahead.” Previously, ULS has been recognized as a Blue Ribbon School and earned renewed AdvancED accreditation in 2017. ■ cognia.org

EPISCOPAL FIFTH GRADERS HARNESS THE SUN’S POWER

Fifth graders at Episcopal School of Baton Rouge completed a project-based unit on renewable energy before learning shifted to a distance model for the end of the school year. The teaching team of Margaret Boudreaux, Nicole Engstrom and Christy Talbot engaged their students with lessons based on the book, The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind, by Bryan Mealer and William Kamkwamba. Working in groups, students explored dynamo flashlights and solar panels and worked to generate as much energy as they could using water wheels and windmills. While exploring the scientific concepts about renewable energy, students were also learning they can solve problems and make the world a better place.

KENILWORTH STUDENT PLACES THIRD IN STATE SCIENCE FAIR

LIVINGSTON PARISH SCHOOLS LIBRARIANS HONORED

Two librarians in Livingston have been honored for their work. Amanda Jones, librarian at Live Oak Middle School, has been named the Louisiana Library Association 2020 School Librarian of the Year. Laura Foy, librarian at Denham Springs Junior High School, received the association’s 2020 James O. Modisette Award for Middle School Libraries. The awards program honors significant contributions to libraries and librarianship throughout Louisiana, and the association exists to promote library interests in the state. ■ llaonline.org

Sarah Patterson, a sixth grader at Kenilworth Science and Technology school, had a strong showing at the 2020 Louisiana State Science and Engineering Fair. Usually held at Louisiana State University, this year the statewide science fair was virtual because of the coronavirus outbreak. Judges reviewed projects’ research plans and abstracts online, and winners were notified via email. Sarah’s project, “Isoperimetric Inequality,” placed third overall and was first in mathematics in the Baton Rouge-area regional competition. Kenilworth was the only Baton Rouge school to have a student place in the math competition of the fair.

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TWO BATON ROUGE STUDENTS NAMED LOUISIANA YOUNG HEROES

Two Baton Rouge area students join four others in being named this year’s Louisiana Young Heroes by Louisiana Public Broadcasting. The 25th anniversary of the program includes Anthony Chiasson, a sophomore at Catholic High School, and Claire Holder, a senior at St. Joseph’s Academy. The exceptional high school students have excelled in academics, public service, overcome adversity, and exhibited heroism or inspired others. The students and their families will be honored on Louisiana Young Heroes Day, which will be scheduled later this year. The day will include breakfast at LPB’s television studios and a luncheon in their honor, where they will receive special awards and recognition. Supporting partners of the program are Propane Dealers of Louisiana, Hancock Whitney Bank, Community Coffee, DEMCO and Hotel Indigo. ■ lpb.org/heroes 22

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PARKVIEW BAPTIST SCHOOL SENIORS EARN NATIONAL MUSIC AWARDS IN COMPETITION

Ending their high school careers on a high note, Parkview Baptist School seniors Amanda Carmbat and Trevor Cupit were both honored with music awards from the National Alliance of Christian Schools. Amanda was named the first place Outstanding Musician winner, and Trevor was named as an Outstanding Musician finalist. Sixteen winners were chosen from 355 applicants and received $10,500 in scholarships from the 2020 Joshua Expeditions/ NACS Outstanding Scholars and Musicians Scholarship Program. Applicants all had at least a 3.0 GPA as seniors, were highly involved in music and had to provide recommendations from music directors and teachers.

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KNOCK KNOCK CHILDREN’S MUSEUM SHARES STEM KITS WITH LOCAL STUDENTS

Learning at home is hard, but learning at home without the correct supplies is practically impossible. Knock Knock Children’s Museum stepped in to fill the gap for young students at White Hills Elementary School in Baker.

Kindergarteners, first, and second graders were able to pick up the educational-based play kits that supplement the school’s curriculum. In partnership with Front Yard Bikes and other local partners, the museum has been able to give away more than 150 additional kits as part of its Knock Knock At Your Door program, bringing quality play experiences to children in the Baton Rouge area. ■ knockknockmuseum.org J U NE 2020 | B R PA R EN T S .COM

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Craig C. Greene, MD, MBA

By Amanda Miller

OCCUPATION ▪ Orthopedic Surgeon & Public Service Commissioner WIFE ▪ Kristen CHILDREN ▪ Hadley, 18; Cass, 16; Gabe, 13; Ryder, 10; and Boomer, 4 HOBBIES ▪ Working out, running, fishing, and golfing

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t a young age, Craig C. Greene, MD, MBA learned the value of hard work through his first job of baling hay. That lesson stayed with him as he worked toward becoming an orthopedic surgeon.

For Craig, his job isn’t just a job–it’s a calling. His giving heart has not only allowed him to provide excellent care for his patients, but he has also gone even further to provide aid to those who experience disasters through the Greene Team Charitable Fund.

As a father of five, he strives to provide his children with a home that is full of peace and happiness.

Photo Credit: Heather Bush

What makes parenting so enjoyable?

C: We have very good kids and I enjoy spending time with them. They make us better people. It is really great for marriage, too, because my wife and I both have a common goal in raising them.

What do you like to do as a family?

C: I really enjoy having dinner around the table. That’s where the conversations happen.

I sometimes give “dad lectures” that are 1-2 minutes, a few times a week. My kids say they’re daily, though.

What’s the hardest part about being a dad?

C: You never feel like you’re doing enough.

You’re always wanting to be at every school event and every game, but with having more kids, you sometimes have to choose.

What was your latest dad win?

C: I’m all about teaching them about money.

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and they have to learn how to make it last. I encourage them to work for things they want, and so we’ve had a few wins in the money area with them.

How has parenthood changed you?

C: All for the better. As you have kids, you strip away a portion of yourself and you find yourself revealing the areas you need to work on. They show you how you can improve and be a better person, how to give and serve, listen and learn.

How has your job affected how you parent?

C: One difference is that people at work do what I say! We work on the “prepare to launch” method. At work, I provide patients the tools they need to where they won’t need me. For instance, helping them know what they can and cannot do, how much weight they can lift, etc.

We build those boundaries to where they know without me telling them, and I parent the same way. We prep them for their next step in life.

What inspired you to start the Greene Team Charitable Fund?

C: After the earthquakes in Haiti, I told my wife that I wish I could do something. She told me to pray about it, so I did, and I ended up receiving calls about help needed in an orphanage in Haiti.

We sent several teams over, and now through the Fund, we provide disaster aid to those in need.

How do you find time to relax?

C: I enjoy working out; that helps me keep my mind clear. I also enjoy reading and just making time for quiet time where I can reflect and process. Also, getting six to seven hours of sleep.

What kind of dad are you?

C: Engaged and aware.

What’s something you hope to instill in your children?

C: To be principled decision makers and emotionally expressive.

Best parenting advice you have received?

C: Be available for your children and know that when you want to talk about something, it doesn’t mean they’re ready to talk. When I ask them about their days, I ask them about the highs and lows, to describe their day in one word, or to rate their day. Eventually, they start talking about them.

What’s your biggest pet peeve?

C: Lack of self awareness.

What personality trait of yours do your children also have?

C: Perseverance. My goal is to help them to be more conscientious. We’re getting there.

Which family member has been your greatest role model in life?

C: Both of my parents. They’re life-long learners, full of grace and wisdom. Also, my son, Boomer. He has down syndrome and autism. We adopted him from China, and children with down syndrome don’t know discrimination; they know love. He has taught me how to see people and to lead with love.

Do you have any advice for other parents?

C: Ride it out! Go all in with your kids and wife.

It’s going to be scary and hard, but it’s going to be worth it in the end. ■

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LIVE EXCEPTIONAL LIVES James and Grace had their second surgeries four years later. “That transition was less smooth, and it was just harder,” she says. Eventually, she did adjust. “It ultimately helped me a lot in class, in dance and in everything.

Cochlear implants have just enriched the love I have for my hobbies and my passions.”

Growing up, Grace was surrounded by music and theatrics. She and James got started with Center Stage Performing Arts Academy via summer camp, and she stayed in the company for about nine years. As a student at Dutchtown High School, Grace was active in theater.

“It was a hobby at first, something I loved to do, but not necessarily something that I saw myself going into as a career until I came to college.”

Photo Credit: Amelie Smith Grace brings her unique story and the way she learns and perceives things into her craft as an actor. “Rather than my disability being something to put aside, my professors usually ask, ‘How can you integrate this into your characters even if your characters aren’t Deaf?’” between harmony and melody. Grace just Language has always been important couldn’t hear the notes. “I think that’s to Grace, and she is bilingual in Spanish, where I was like, OK, something’s up.” gaining fluency by conversing with Once hearing aids were no longer students learning English as a second providing any benefit, Grace got her first language during high school. “Language cochlear implant when she was eight. Her and dialect carry so much more than just brother James, two years younger, is also the words, so much more than just the Deaf, and they both had surgery at the face value,” she says. “It’s something same time.

I’ve always been interested in since I was “We weren’t sure it was going to work little and have developed over the course or if we were going to like it,” Grace of my academic career.” says. “Then I got the cochlear implants Grace, who will be graduating in activated and that kind of became a whole December, was recently chosen as a reset for me, as in the way I perceived winner of the 18th annual Graeme the world.” The implants aren’t a magic Clark scholarship, which is named switch that allow immediate hearing. after a pioneer of the hearing implant There is a learning curve as neurological community and is open to cochlear pathways are formed and hearing implant recipients. ■ develops as it would for a baby.

Thriving Theater Passion Follows Hearing Loss Recovery Journey

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or 21-year-old Grace Graugnard, hearing limitations never registered when she was a child, even though she wore hearing aids and eventually received cochlear implants.

“I knew I was different and had to do some things differently,” she says. One of those things was taking speech therapy instead of P.E. “As a kid, I wanted to play dodgeball and not go sit in the classroom.” The time spent in speech therapy paid off for Grace, who majors in theater and international relations at Tulane University and applies those lessons to learning new accents for roles.

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Trusting a Great God in a Great Storm

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By Winton R. Anderson, Pastor of Praise Temple of Baton Rouge and Greater Philadelphia Baptist Church

he fourth chapter of the gospel of Mark tells of an account with Jesus and His disciples on a ship. A storm arises while they are out on the sea and the disciples begin to worry. Jesus is asleep in the hinder part of the ship. Some would suggest that He was safe while the disciples were in great danger. From a place of fear, they wake Him up and ask, “Do you not care if we die?” Jesus, before addressing them, speaks to the storm and it ceases.

While the elements of this story make perfect sense, it is often a depiction of our faith. The disciples trusted Jesus enough to get on a ship with Him, however, their faith was contingent upon the ferocity of the storm they were faced with. As a Pastor, I never tell people that fear is a sin. As a matter of fact, fear is a natural response when life throws a curveball we did not anticipate. Just a couple of months ago, life presented a storm called COVID-19 that many of us had to learn how to navigate. However, the message I share with my congregants and those around me is while it may appear that Jesus is asleep, He has the authority to control the elements of any storm. I rest in knowing that.

For those struggling with their faith, I want to suggest a few things that may help comfort you during this time: 1. Our words affect our results. We must continue to encourage each other with words of affirmation each day.

2. Trust God with your worst just as you trust Him for the best. He is not just the God who blesses us, but He is also the God who keeps watch over us.

3. Continue to talk to your children and family about how important it is to have faith in a God who is bigger than us. Everybody needs a community of hope at a time like this.

4. Life continues beyond a storm. It may look different for many of us, but better days are ahead.

Keep living, keep loving, keep trusting, and most importantly, keep going. ■

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IT’S HOT, BABY! Keeping Little Ones Safe in the Heat

By Anita RaJean Walker

Louisiana summers offer a unique sort of heat. And when it comes to babies, it can be downright dangerous. According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), excessive heat poses the greatest danger to infants and children up to four years old.

It does not take long for a little one to become distressed in the sizzling sun. Infants do not have the means to alert parents and caregivers when they are thirsty or feeling woozy.

Prevention is the best approach to keeping your kid healthy, happy and hopping through the beautiful summer months.

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Preventing Hazardous Dehydration The thing about monitoring an infant for any reason is understanding what the red flags are. For example, babies do not sweat like adults sweat. The little people are not yet done developing and have fewer sweat glands.

Dr. Mallory Allen, a pediatrician with The Baton Rouge Clinic, advises this when it comes to hydration: “A quick rule of thumb for water intake is that a child needs an 8oz glass of water for every year of age. So, a one year old needs about 8oz of water daily, a two year old needs two 8oz glasses daily, and so forth up to the recommended eight glasses daily for older children and adults.”

Dr. Allen recommends that infants as young as six months can be given water, but if they are younger, it is a good idea to consult with your child’s pediatrician.

Sizzling Sun Dehydration is not the only factor that makes the summer dangerous for babies.

While the sun provides a variety of benefits, they must be weighed against the dangers the sun can cause.

The first rule is one that people of all ages need to remember, sunscreen.

According to Dr. Allen, “All children

ages six months and older should wear sunscreen when outside and reapply every two hours or after getting wet.

Broad-spectrum mineral sunscreens (that protect against both UVA and UVB light) are recommended for children. If a baby is less than six months, it is best for them to avoid direct sunlight and keep them in the shade.”

Another helpful tip is to try not to schedule outdoor activities for your family around the hottest part of the day.

Typically, the sun’s rays are the riskiest for everyone between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m.

If outside time is unavoidable, lightweight clothes, hats and sunglasses are your best bet to keep them safe.

Babies are particularly susceptible to getting sunburns. It is more than just uncomfortable for them. Their undeveloped temperature regulating system can become even more suppressed.

Tricks of the Parent Trade The older a child gets, the more likely they will want to play outside, as they should want to! However, what this means for parents is that they have to adapt quickly as an infant becomes a toddler, and a toddler becomes a child in the snap of a finger.

Every summer brings new challenges and dangers, but we all learn from one another. Chasing an active four year old around has taught one mother precisely what helps with the heat.

Rhonda Ravain-Mire has learned what works best for her son, Colton. She explains, “We definitely keep him hydrated with juice that’s water base. Not a sugar base. We try not to go out during the hottest part of the day. We also take breaks, and we will come in throughout the day to cool down. And, popsicles!”

Pediatricians, parents, and kids can agree on the popsicle solution. What little person doesn’t enjoy a flavored treat, even on a not-so-hot day? It is these types of tips and hints that parents share with one another to get through the hottest of days without creating a stir-crazy kid.

Car Safety Too often, there are tragedies of little ones being left in cars on a hot, summer day.

The best rule to follow is to never leave a child unattended in a vehicle, whether it is summer or not. The temperature in a car, even with the windows cracked, can rise 20 degrees within the first 10 minutes.

That’s entirely too hot for anyone. Be sure to bring your babies with you and always check the backseat before getting out, even if you’re not on drop-off duty.

Another hazard that is sometimes overlooked is the seat belt buckle. The reflective metal heats up in the sun and will burn a baby’s skin.

Keeping a two year old happy is not always easy, but Zakah Shawver knows how to keep her daughter, Magnolia, safe and happy while on the road, “When we travel in the car, I make sure to keep air circulating at all times. The windows on the back of my vehicle are tinted. I always have the car cooled off before getting in.”

She goes on to mention, “Magnolia’s favorite thing is having the windows down.

So when we cruise around town, the windows are down, and the music is up.”

The most important thing is to always keep a close eye on your little one. If he or she demonstrates any symptoms of heat-related illness or dehydration, including headache, clammy skin, irritability, and nausea, get him or her to a cool location and rehydrate. It is advised by Dr. Allen that if a child shows no improvement in 20-30 minutes, contact your pediatrician. It is better to be safe than sorry when dealing with Louisiana heat. ■

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How Mental Health

Can Affect Your Marriage

By Chelsea Borruano

Marriage isn’t always easy, and neither is managing mental health. When things like anxiety, mood, impulse and substance abuse disorders are present in a relationship, it can be incredibly challenging. But, if we can navigate these things correctly, they can also bring about an even deeper connection and understanding of ourselves and each other. A mental health condition within a marriage can be managed if both partners have the skills and awareness to cope and communicate through challenges.

Let’s talk about it.

Just starting the conversation about mental health can often be the hardest part, so it’s no surprise that some people tend to hide that part of themselves from the people they love. While this may be sustainable for a while, it will inevitably negatively impact the relationship in the long run. By sharing our health history, we’re sharing insight into not just our challenges but also our strengths.

These tools can be used to start the conversation for those suffering or for those concerned that their partner may be suffering with a mental health condition.

■ Talk when there are no active symptoms of mania, anxiety, or psychosis present.

■ Initiate with a text, email or letter if it feels uncomfortable to speak face-to-face.

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Use “process talk” to introduce a difficult conversation. (“I want to tell you something important that I’ve been worrying about. This is difficult for me to say, though. I hope you can listen and understand.”)

■ Find important information online that might help explain symptoms, concerns and feelings.

■ Expect to be asked questions. Expect to not have all the answers.

■ Be prepared for them to have mixed reactions and emotions.

■ Listen.

■ Be honest with each other.

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It won’t always be easy.

Because many of the symptoms of mental health conditions express themselves

through social behavior, it’s natural to feel hurt by the symptoms. We tend to assume behavior is conscious and deliberate, but with mental health conditions, things are not always so black and white. It’s important to embrace the gray in these situations. According to licensed marriage and family therapist, April Eldemire, the following issues are commonly present in relationships that involve mental health conditions.

1. Shame, guilt, embarrassment.

The stigma associated with mental health can add an extra layer of stress for both partners. The person with a mental health condition may feel shame, embarrassment, or guilt about their condition, and may try to hide symptoms or fail to seek help. Meanwhile, their partner may feel confused or frustrated by their inability to help. In some cases, a person with depression or anxiety may find it hard to complete household tasks, have limited emotional availability, struggle to maintain employment, and lack the desire to socialize. For their partner, these behaviors and challenges can put a strain on the relationship which may lead to feelings of disappointment or even disconnect.

2. Intimacy problems. Having a mental health condition can make a person disinterested in sex–either as a result of the condition itself and/or as a result of the treatment. Many people with mental health issues may feel inadequate and have performance anxiety and low self-esteem. For both partners, this can lead to a decreased opportunity for bonding and result in unmet needs.

3. The risk of codependent behaviors.

Codependency is an unhealthy relationship pattern that manifests as one partner enabling another person’s poor mental health, addiction and/or coping strategies. The partner of a person with a mental health condition may start to derive their self-worth from the degree to which they are “needed” or how much they are able to “take care of” their loved one. In extreme cases, codependency can increase the risk of abusive behaviors, including manipulation, name-calling and other unhealthy dynamics.

But it is manageable.

While conversation is the first step, it shouldn’t be the only step. Seeking professional help both individually and as a couple can help with managing expectations and fears, setting boundaries, and with developing the tools to cope when symptoms arise.

No two people struggling with mental health issues are the same, which is why a trained professional will be vital to providing valuable insight into navigating the challenges that come with living with a mental health condition.

In relationships, challenges often come when we try to hide a piece of ourselves from those we love. Dealing with mental health is no different. The more open, honest and understanding partners are with each other, the easier it will be.

Finally, it’s important to remember that a good relationship should always provide valuable social support during difficult times. A bad relationship will inevitably worsen the person’s mental health symptoms. However, if a relationship is not conducive to safety and growth, then it may be time to reevaluate the partnership. ■

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A few months ago, my oldest daughter started gleefully announcing that she would soon be a ‘tweenager. Wait a minute.

A what? A quick Google search informed us that children between the ages of 10 and 13 are now considered ‘tweens. Oh.

7 Things Every Parent Should Know About Their ‘Tween’s Health

By Jannean Dixon, M.Ed.

Tween Time Benioff Children’s Hospital acknowledges how difficult this time can be for both parents and children. “Young adolescents are continuing to explore their community and world and beginning to develop unique identities separate from their parents. Although it’s not often acknowledged by the child, parents are still extremely important in the life of a young adolescent.” Knowing this, it’s important to understand what they’re going through. Here are a few things you should know about your tween’s health.

1. Physical Health. Local pediatrician Dr. Amber Denham shares, “Parents should remember to bring preteens and adolescents for yearly checkups.

Vaccination against HPV starts between ages 9-11. Parents don’t think they need to bring them in if they’re not sick and they’re up to date on shots for school.”

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Nutrition also plays a big part in our health. Habits that are made in preteen years can last long into adulthood. Be sure to limit access to low-value foods that are high in fats and sugars and stock up on snacks like low-fat cheese sticks, fruit and veggies, and proteins.

2. Mental Health & Self Esteem.

Mental health is a pressing preteen health concern. Local mom Brittany R. shares, “I have watched my child go from a happy healthy girl to an anxious tangled mess of emotions over girl drama that was not mediated through school or parents. I explored all avenues to help my child: pediatrician, therapist, and school counselor. I want her with a clear head and a strong sense of self worth heading into the teen years.”

Bullying, bodily changes, acne, the size of their social group, peer comments, and other external factors such as access

to money and brand name clothing can play a huge part in a preteen’s view of themselves. Local mental health counselor, Tara Dixon, shares, “The emotional and social habits learned during these developmental years will be the ones brought into adulthood. It’s important that families work together to develop healthy, effective habits and strategies that will aid their tweens in coping with emotions and challenges.”

3. Cyber Health. Tweens have access to the Internet via cell phones, video games, iPads, laptops, and school computer labs.

A recent poll by UNICEF reports that one in three young people have reported being a victim of cyberbullying, and one in five have skipped school due to cyberbullying and threat of violence.

How can parents help? Parents should have access to their tween’s online accounts at all times, including being

informed of passwords. Parents should “friend” their tween on all social media platforms. Teach your tween that their voice matters, including when telling others to stop undesired behaviors. If the response isn’t favorable, empower your tween to distance themselves from the situation and not retaliate. Make sure your tween knows that information, including pictures, that are posted online can never be erased.

4. Sleep. Our tweens have so many competing interests that sleep can be sacrificed to texting, watching videos, gaming, and social media. Online resource Sleep.org reports, “The blue light emitted by screens on cell phones, computers, tablets, and televisions restrain the production of melatonin, the hormone that controls your sleep/wake cycle or circadian rhythm. Reducing melatonin makes it harder to fall and stay asleep.” To make sure technology isn’t harming your slumber, give yourself at least 30 minutes of gadget-free transition time before hitting the hay.

5. Drugs & Alcohol. When it comes to conversations about drugs and alcohol, it is important to be honest with your tween.

Answer all questions as best you can.

Drugfree.org offers these tips for speaking with them about drug and alcohol use: ■ Make sure your child knows your rules and that you’ll enforce the consequences.

Research shows that kids are less likely to use drugs if their parents have established clear rules and consequences.

■ Teach them what to say when someone offers them drugs.

■ Preteens aren’t concerned with what might result from drug use, but they are concerned about their appearance. Tell them about the smelly hair and ashtray breath caused by cigarettes.

■ Get to know your child’s friends and their parents. Check in by phone to make sure they are on the same page with prohibiting drug or alcohol use.

6. Puberty & Sexual Health. Hormones, mood swings, developing bodies, sex, pregnancy, and STDs are all concerns that

tween parents should be discussing with their tweens. If you are not comfortable having this discussion with them, reach out to their doctor.

7. Financial Health. Whether you believe in giving an allowance or having children perform chores for payment, tweens should be given the responsibility of managing small amounts of money.

Understanding the value of money, the importance of setting a budget, and saving versus spending are all crucial lessons for tweens who will enter the job market and contribute to the economy.

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Dr. Denham concludes, “Several places in town, such as Woman’s Hospital and Our Lady of the Lake Hospital offer classes for parents and kids on some of these topics. Talking openly and honestly in an age-appropriate way with tweens is very important. The classes can sometimes facilitate that discussion for parents who are uncomfortable or less knowledgeable.” ■

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Meet the Faces of Baton Rouge When choosing our care, it’s important to us to find a professional who provides us with the help we need. However, we also strive to form a relationship with them in order to feel comfortable and well taken care of. These Faces are the best of the best in their fields.

They provide a helping hand, a friendly conversation when one is needed, and care that is unmatched.

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PEDIATRIC MEDICINE Dr. Dana Fakouri Dr. Brannon Perilloux

Associates in Pediatric & Adolescent Medicine Being an active participant in your own medical care is important, and Dr. Brannon Perilloux often encourages his patients to do just that. Dr. Perilloux takes the time to explain everything to his patients, regardless of age, about their diagnosis and treatment, and he will also send them home with instructions to make sure their care continues long after each visit.

When visiting Associates in Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine (APAM), Dr. Perilloux is just one of the many happy faces you will see. He truly cares about his patients and strives to make sure

they’re healthy, both physically and mentally, by getting to know the whole family, but especially the child.

Dr. Perilloux was born in Houston, Texas, but he grew up right here in Baton Rouge. He’s happily married to his wife, Alicia, and they have four children. When he’s not working, he enjoys basketball, golf, landscaping, gardening and traveling throughout America with his family.

Another friendly face you will see when visiting APAM is Dr. Dana Fakouri.

Dr. Fakouri is a Louisiana girl through and through. She was born in New Orleans, but she grew up in Baton Rouge.

When it comes to taking care of your little ones, you can bet they are in good hands as she practices pediatric medicine

with a special child-friendly approach.

Dr. Fakouri always knew that she wanted to be a physician, and when decisions need to be made, she often involves the parent, as a parent’s comfort and confidence in the treatment plan is top priority.

Dr. Fakouri enjoys visiting with her little patients, and she has two daughters of her own so she understands the parents’ perspective. Dr. Fakouri also enjoys spending time with her family, whether out shopping, jogging, or participating in outdoor activities.

Call us to schedule an appointment!

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AUTISM PLANNING AND CONSULTING Shelley Hendrix

Different Beat Consultants, LLC Did you know that many Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) symptoms are linked to an increase of systemic inflammation throughout the body, and treating these underlying health issues can improve physical, behavioral and mental well-being?

If you, or your children, have any of the following symptoms that have remained unresolved despite pharmacological, behavioral and mental health interventions, this article is for you: OCD, Anxiety, Depression, Sleep Disruption/ Insomnia, Mood Dysregulation, Chronic Aggression/ODD, ADD/ADHD, lack of social engagement, and addiction (at an unhealthy level–and to anything)–as well as underlying inflammatory issues, such as gastrointestinal problems and obesity.

Clinical research is emerging throughout the world, identifying basic causes such as genetic conditions, vitamin deficiencies or comorbid health conditions which directly contribute as root causes of behavioral and mental health symptoms often experienced by individuals with ASD and other behavioral conditions. Proper medical assessments and treatments can significantly lessen, if not completely resolve, behaviors that have persisted despite prior interventions.

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Currently no blood tests exist to diagnose autism, but over 10 medical conditions can contribute to symptoms associated with ASD. Once identified, these conditions are often found in other family members, perhaps with different presentations, who may also benefit from treatment.

Science is developing around several genes that impair the methylation pathways which contribute to a type of vitamin deficiency that results in lower production levels of serotonin, norepinephrine, and dopamine and/or lower levels of glutathione. If your child is taking an SSRI, SNRI or NDRI to manage symptoms but is not making adequate amounts of the neurotransmitters to help the drug work properly or adequate glutathione to control inflammation, then this may be a solution to discuss with your treating physician.

Why? Because there are affordable treatments, some developed right here in Louisiana, and we can help.

Shelley Hendrix and Different Beat Consultants are working with national researchers, local physicians and Medicaid in various states to educate families and medical professionals on how to reduce inflammation, restore peace in families’–and children’s–lives and improve overall healthcare for the ASD population.

For more information, visit differentbeatllc.com.

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PUBLIC EDUCATION Warren Drake East Baton Rouge Parish Schools The time has come for Superintendent Warren Drake to hang up his coat and tie and retire.

Mr. Drake grew up in North Louisiana where he hoped to one day become a lawyer. However, his path would forever be changed once he became an educator. He knew then he had found his true calling.

Drake describes teaching as one of the most important jobs in the world, and his love for educating the children in Louisiana is evident in everything he does. His incredible experience in education eventually led to him being chosen as the Superintendent of East Baton Rouge Parish Schools, where he worked closely with the wonderful team of men and women who have dedicated their lives to “Building the Future of Baton Rouge.” He credits the EBR Schools staff for their hard work and commitment to improving our school system into what it is today.

Drake will enter into retirement at the end of June, leaving the East Baton Rouge School System stronger and more successful. In Drake’s first year as superintendent, he led the district through the Great Flood of 2016, and he wraps up his lifetime of teaching and servant-leadership navigating the pandemic.

Despite the many obstacles the district faced, the future of East Baton Rouge

Parish Schools is brighter and more resilient than ever, thanks to Mr. Drake’s skilled management.

A possible return to teaching could be in the cards for Drake, as his calling to educate the hearts and minds of children will never cease, but only time will tell. For now, Mr. Drake plans on spending time with his family and taking some time to travel.

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ORTHODONTICS Bryan Hollis, DDS Hollis Orthodontics Creating beautiful smiles, building relationships with patients and their families, and getting to see his family and friends are a few of the reasons why Bryan Hollis, DDS loves his job so much.

Dr. Hollis has been practicing for 24 years. He’s a Specialist in Orthodontics and is also Board Certified by the American Board of Orthodontics. Dr. Hollis feels blessed to own his own business and be able to give back to the community that he grew up in.

A visit to Hollis Orthodontics is a special one. The goal at Hollis Orthodontics is to treat everyone like friends and family. Dr. Hollis and his incredible staff members provide a fun-filled environment in a state-ofthe-art facility that utilizes the latest technology. You can rest assured that you are receiving the very best in orthodontic care with each visit.

In his spare time, he enjoys bowling with his son, Easton. He’s a sportsman and a hunter at heart, and he loves farming on his food plots. Most of all, he loves spending time with his family, his wife, Celeste; his four beautiful children; his son in law; and his grandson, Henry.

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STUDENT HOUSING Collin Webster

Ion Baton Rouge Moving out of the house and heading off to college is a monumental time in a young person’s life, and helping your child find the perfect home-away-from-home can be a daunting task. Collin Webster with Ion Baton Rouge is taking a new approach to help students and parents alike feel perfectly at home.

“A college apartment is so much more than what it used to be,” Webster says.

“Your apartment is something unique to you; it says something about who you are and what you value. Helping students see themselves reflected in their community is incredibly rewarding, and giving parents the peace of mind that their child will be taken care of at the VIP level is what sets Ion apart.”

Ion is luxury living, steps away from campus. This newly renovated, seven-story community sits so close to everything. Your student has the option of walking to the game or cheering the Tigers on from the rooftop pool that overlooks Tiger Stadium.

No expense spared or detail overlooked, Ion is unmatched in quality, location and experience that you’ll have to see to believe.

Originally from Detroit, Collin married Baton Rouge native Elizabeth, where they now live with two miniature dachshunds and three mischievous cats who turned up one day and refused to leave.

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FAMILY PSYCHOLOGY Dr. Maxine Campbell-Flint JMJ Psychological Services Dr. Maxine Campbell-Flint has always had an interest in learning how we function. Through her curiosity of the mind, she discovered that she wanted to pursue psychology, especially if it meant she could help those in need.

Dr. Campbell-Flint was born in Huddersfield, England, but her wonderful career has been here in the states. She received her masters in clinical psychology and a Ph.D. at Virginia Commonwealth University before she traveled to Louisiana, where she began JMJ Psychological Services in 2007.

Dr. Campbell-Flint is a medical psychologist who works with a wide range of clients. She provides services to people in need from all walks of life, including those who are living in underserved communities.

When she’s not working, she enjoys gardening and spending time with her daughter, Jade, and her family and friends. She also also enjoys bringing her dog, Coco, to her office.

Dr. Campbell-Flint understands that it takes a lot to walk through the door to seek the help that is needed. With the help of Rhonda, the friendly face who greets you at the door, Dr. Campbell-Flint is able to maintain that “like home” environment that every patient experiences.

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TRANSITIONING WITH AUTISM Dr. Catherine Lark Steve Whitlow Alvanesha Ford from Merakey’s Autism Center and Gateway Transition Services

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Merakey Autism Center–Supporting the Youth and Families in Our Community Merakey Autism Center joined the Capital Region in 2017 and introduced its continuum of services for individuals with autism to the community. Since then, Merakey expanded into the city of Hammond to enhance support for children and families in that area. And now, as we navigate our way through challenges presented by COVID-19, Merakey Autism Center is pleased to offer virtual services in place of in-person services. For more information on our virtual services, please contact (225) 960-7689.

Merakey provides a variety of services to individuals ages 2-35, including Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), speech and

occupational therapy, school services, and transition services. We help individuals enhance their social and emotional abilities in order to achieve their goals as they transition from childhood to adulthood.

Merakey has provided developmentally appropriate ABA supports to the autism community for more than 25 years. These services focus on skill development, maintenance of learned skills, and behavioral supports. School services provide students the skills necessary for success in the general education setting and to transition them, as appropriate, back to a less restrictive environment. Speech and occupational therapy assist individuals to successfully communicate and participate in their daily activities. Our transition services help young adults with autism develop

fundamental social, pre-vocational, and life skills needed to live, work, and thrive in the community. A group skills program exposes individuals to different working environments for future career goals.

Residential services are provided at the Merakey Cheatham Transition House, which is home to eight individuals with autism ages 21-35. The home provides an opportunity to learn independent living and transition skills, with on-site staff support.

With our experience, expertise and compassion, Merakey empowers everyone within our communities to reach their fullest potential. For more information, or to make a referral, contact (225) 960-7689.

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COSMETICS AND AESTHETICS

Jon Perenack, MD, DDS Shelly Esnard, PA-C

a thought leader among his peers of physicians and cosmetic surgeons.

As a father of three and a “Canadian who fell in love with a Louisiana girl,” Dr. Perenack enjoys spending quality time with his family, painting, and attending LSU and Saints’ games.

Shelly Esnard, PA-C has been practicing at Williamson for over 18 years. Shelly is the center director, a national trainer, and leads the #1 Botox team in Louisiana. Client interaction is what she enjoys most. Shelly works closely with each client, helping them to look and feel their best, while developing Williamson Cosmetic Center & Perenack a plan that works best for them.

Aesthetic Surgery Together, Dr. Perenack and Shelly have created an amazing team at Williamson Jon Perenack, MD, DDS joined Williamson Cosmetic Center & Perenack Aesthetic Cosmetic Center just fifteen years ago and Surgery. They are known for their blend of is already one of the most sought after facial surgical and non-surgical treatment options, cosmetic surgeons in the Baton Rouge area. creating the ideal union of beauty and Dr. Perenack’s primary focus is facial aesthetics. This variety allows them to have cosmetic surgery, as it marries science and lifelong relationships with their clients and art–two things he enjoys the most. For him, is one of the many reasons why clients refer his clients’ happiness is paramount. He enjoys their friends and family. the one-on-one interaction with each client Although they may be the faces, they and finding ways to help them reach their have an amazing team who are key opinion aesthetic goals. leaders in the industry. They strive to bring As an Associate Professor at LSU Health the latest technology to Baton Rouge and Sciences Center, he has a strong love for provide the best services and care to all teaching and training, he lectures internaclients. At Williamson Cosmetic Center & tionally, and has written numerous textbook Perenack Aesthetic Surgery, your result is chapters and journal articles. He is considered their reputation.

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OPHTHALMOLOGY

Dr. Charles H. Williamson Williamson Eye Center Deciding on his career in life was probably one of the easiest things Dr. Charles Williamson has done. His father was an eye doctor who started this practice in Baton Rouge in the early 1950s, and his brother, who is four years older, decided to go to medical school to become an eye surgeon.

Around 13 or 14 years old, Dr. Williamson decided that he would like to play football at LSU, then go to medical school and join the family practice. And, that’s exactly what he did.

All four brothers chose ophthalmology and practice it today. Now that Dr. Williamson has been in practice for over 40 years, looking back at that decision might seem unusual for many people in this day and time, but for those who were born and grew up in the middle of the last century, setting goals and establishing a career in life at an early age wasn’t really an unusual thing.

For Dr. Williamson, ophthalmology turned out to be the perfect career.

Blindness is the most feared disability in the world and it’s a rewarding profession as he’s been able to take care of patients, including generations of families in our community.

Clinical practice, research and teaching have all been part of his career. The most important goal for Dr. Williamson is that patients who come to the Williamson Eye Center find a welcoming and professional environment. Even though Williamson Eye Center has now grown to five offices, a surgery center, laser center and cosmetic center, they still pride themselves in being a family practice and giving patients the feeling of being part of something special

when they visit.

Expertise and the pursuit of excellence, along with a caring environment seems to fit what Baton Rougeans are seeking in their medical care. Certainly in the early part of building the practice, Dr. Williamson didn’t have much spare time; but, as the years have passed with four children, and now nine grandchildren, he is able to enjoy time with them as he continues to build a legacy in eye care.

When it comes to hobbies, Dr. Williamson and his wife enjoy sailing, scuba diving, and snow skiing, but the hobby he most enjoys has been painting. His degree was in art history and creative writing, and having come full circle at this point of his career, he’s been able to start painting again. In the last several years, he has owned a gallery and has had shows and exhibitions of art allowing him to enjoy both the art of painting and surgery.

Schedule your appointment today!

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Williamson Eye Center is now open in South Baton Rouge at 9001 Summa Ave., across from the Mall of LA.

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MENTAL HEALTH ADVOCACY Chelsea Borruano

You Aren’t Alone Project Driven by passion and her own journey of pain, loss and triumph, Chelsea Borruano founded the You Aren’t Alone Project in 2019.

This nonprofit organization is dedicated to building a network of support for mental health and wellness in our community so that no one ever has to feel alone.

Chelsea is currently pursuing her graduate degree in Mental Health Counseling to build upon her role as Executive Director by providing counseling services and programs for those who need it most. The ultimate vision of the project is to be the platform that paves the way for mental and behavioral health to be treated and talked about in the same way as physical health.

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Homegrown Louisiana Gems

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By Jannean Dixon, M.Ed.

Louisiana is a treasure trove of homegrown gems. From festivals and historic buildings to parks and museums, our state is packed with both indoor and outdoor opportunities for fun.

Pack a day bag and let’s go!

Within One Hour of Baton Rouge 1. Capitol Park Museum Baton Rouge has so many interesting places to discover, so let’s start right here!

Visit the Capitol Park Museum to dance, learn, and explore the amazing exhibits.

In the music studios, you can sample all manners of Louisiana songs and artists.

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from Native Americans to colonists, to enslaved people, to controversial politicians. Discover our waterways with the 48’ shrimp trawler or the Civil War submarine. Explore Louisiana region by region as you explore our diverse history and culture. My little ones especially enjoy sitting in the deep sea fishing chair and reeling in the big one!

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2. The Whitney Plantation: 40-Minute Drive Highly recommended by my friend, Teryn B., is The Whitney Plantation.

The Whitney is the only Louisiana plantation that teaches its visitors about life in the South from the perspective

of an enslaved person. This beautifully preserved property includes slave cabins, a freedman’s church, detached kitchen, outbuildings, and 1790s owner’s home. A favorite among visitors are the incredible Children of the Whitney sculptures. The sculptures represent enslaved children at the time of the emancipation and include stories of their lives. This excursion is recommended for older children and those who can handle the mature content.

3. St. Francisville: 45-Minute Drive I always receive a lot of input on ideas, but none with the passion of Kailee H., who raved about her hometown of St. Francisville. “The boat drop, the plantation homes, the gardens, walking downtown, the yummy restaurants, the quirky shops. It’s got so many pretty sights!” she explains.

I needed clarification about a boat drop, this being a new term to me. “It’s where our old ferry used to cross between St. Francisville and New Roads. We have the Audubon Bridge now, so the ferry no longer runs. Now it’s used to take personal boats out on the Mississippi and a place for the American Queen to dock on its run down the Mississippi. It’s down where the Bayou Sara community was before St. Francisville was ‘born’.”

As Kailee says, there is something for everyone in her hometown!

One-to-Two Hours from Baton Rouge 4. Swamp Tour: 1 Hour Drive Drive east or west for an opportunity to spray on the bug repellent and explore the Louisiana swamps. To the east, Honey Island Swamp Tours enchant visitors with the lush greenery and abundant wildlife.

Or, go west to Henderson Bayou in the Atchafalaya Basin, the largest wetland in the country! The Atchafalaya Basin is where the Atchafalaya River meets the Gulf of Mexico and affords visitors an opportunity to explore marshes, bayous, swamps, and a variety of wildlife. Great for children who can remain seated in the tour boat without too many reminders.

5. New Orleans City Park: 1 Hour, 10-Minute Drive Stroll in the shade of 600-year old

oak trees, release your inner child in Storyville–a literary character themed playground, boat along waterways decorated with beautiful waterfowl, or learn something amazing in the Louisiana Children’s Museum, there is truly something for everyone in New Orleans City Park. Leave the picnic at home and come ready for the powdered sugar beignets of Café du Monde where lunch items are also available. Do pack sunscreen, bug spray, plenty of water, and the stroller for little ones because it’s great for the whole family!

6. Fontainebleau State Park: 1 Hour, 15-Minute Drive Take a nature break and enjoy this sprawling park on the banks of Lake Pontchartrain. Build sandcastles on the beach and watch the sailboats drift by, or take a more active approach on the miles of trails through the forest and over the marshlands on boardwalks. Local mom Laura R. shares, “We went for a daytrip! The lake is great for kayaks and boats. There’s also a fishing pier. There is a deck trail that’s through the swamp where we’ve seen alligators. They’ve also got a playground, a splash pad, and a big bathhouse. Cabins, too!”

For a visit back into civilization, pop into the charming town of Mandeville where the kids can enjoy the waterfront park and mom and dad can have a great meal at one of the many eateries. When you are ready for adventure again, helmet up and ride the Tammany Trace bike trails. For a weekend experience, rent one of the cabins over the lake. We did this once and our girls beg to go back!

7. Abita Springs: 1 Hour, 15-Minute Drive My family and I discovered this little gem during a road trip to somewhere else entirely. We ended up loving this little side detour

most of all. Abita Springs is a small and quirky town packed with personality.

The town is centered around a central hub, so it’s easy to park and walk to most of the places of interest. For a yummy treat, stop in at the Abita Brew Pub where the food is terrific and there is often live music. Ready to explore?

Let your imagination run wild at the Mystery House, packed with oddities and the bizarre. Let the kids run wild in the park and visit the farmer’s market.

The Tammany Trace bike trail connects Abita with the rest of the 31-mile-long trace. There are even accommodations as unique as the town itself should you want to stay a bit longer.

8. Tunica Hills: 1 Hour, 15-Minute Drive After an indoor climbing experience, our daughters wanted to go “real rock climbing.” While there are no mountains to climb in Louisiana, Tunica Hills feels pretty rugged! Located north of St. Francisville, Tunica Hills boasts over 5,000 acres of hilly, forested, undeveloped land. Dirt trails lead visitors through the forest and is a haven for bird and animal watchers. Bring your sunscreen, bug spray, plenty of water,

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and a picnic, as no facilities are on site for these necessities. Best for kiddos looking for an adventure in the wild and a car nap on the way home!

of the forest. Be sure to bring your picnic basket, water, sunscreen and bug spray on your trip because you’ll definitely need them all.

9. Acadian Village: 1 Hour, 15-Minute Drive Step back in time as an early Acadian settler as you and your family explore this village made entirely of relocated and replica 1800s historic buildings. Farming, spinning cloth, and making candles are a few of the necessary life skills you will learn about as you experience the interactive exhibits and docents who are eager to share their knowledge and talents. Wear walking shoes, and bring sunscreen, your camera, and water for your day as an Acadian. Visit the General Store before you leave for authentic, handmade goods.

12. Grand Isle: 2 Hour, 45-Minute Drive Go south to explore the edge of Louisiana, where land meets the gulf. Here, you can enjoy a range of outdoor water activities such as fishing, crabbing, swimming, bird watching, boating, or simply relaxing. Bring shovels and pails for the kids, so they can collect treasures and even build epic sand castles. Enjoy the sights on the 2.5mile nature hike. If you’re thinking more long-term, camping is also available for families, whether you prefer to camp in a tent or drive your RV to a camp site. Whichever you decide to do for fun, make sure that you bring sunscreen, bug spray, a picnic lunch, and plenty to drink for each member of your krewe.

10. Avery Island: 1 Hour, 30-Minute Drive Uniquely seated atop a massive salt dome is Avery Island in New Iberia. Leave the picnic at home and start your day at the McIlhenny Company, makers of the world famous Tabasco Sauce. Kids and adults will enjoy the interactive tour of the facility, the grounds, the general store, and the restaurant. Then, head over to Jungle Gardens, a 170-acre drive through botanical garden and bird sanctuary.

There are plenty of pull-off stops to hop out and get a closer look (pack the bug spray). Also in the area are the Rip Van Winkle Gardens, historic Shadowson- the-Teche home, Conrad Rice Mill (the nation’s oldest rice mill), Lake Fausse Pointe State Park, and a plethora of excellent dining options. This spot is great for all ages, but maybe bring a stroller for little legs!

Three Plus Hours from Baton Rouge 11. Kisatchie National Forest: 2 Hour, 45-Minute Drive Kisatchie National Forest is the only national forest in Louisiana and includes large long-leaf pine forests and a plethora of wildlife. Stroll on the trails, enjoy the views, ride on the equestrian trails, enjoy one of the several lakes, or just relax at one of the campgrounds to get your fix 50

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13. Poverty Point: 3 Hour Drive Head north to Poverty Point to explore a UNESCO World Heritage Site. American Indians built this site by hand, digging earth and transporting it basket by basket to the site to create a 72-foot mound in the shape of concentric half-circles. This 3,400-year-old site was a trading hub and remains a marvel of ingenuity and engineering. The Poverty Point website offers many suggested itineraries for a day trip to the site, including what to do, where to stay, and where to eat. This trip, and many of the suggested itineraries, are suitable for all ages.

No matter where you decide to explore this summer, Louisiana certainly packs an action and culture packed punch. Load up the car, make sure you have snacks and water, and get ready to be amazed. ■

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Let’s do this together and make Baton Rouge proud!

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t’s officially summer, but it feels like we should be at the end of summer. I’m wondering if I am going to survive this one. Normally, we have pool parties and friends visiting all summer, and the little ones have sleepovers and our front door is a revolving door of friends and family. Well, that is not looking likely this summer.

So, we are left to our own devices, no pun intended.

So what are we going to do? I think it will end up being more bike rides and our family adventures. I think we will end up with a lot of weekend day trips and sightseeing. We are very lucky here in Louisiana, as there are so many outdoor spaces to explore and places to get in a canoe and paddle and see. If we are honest with ourselves, we should have been doing this all along. We have always had the opportunities, we just have been preoccupied with iPads and iPhones and movies and friends and summer pool parties.

Not that this is a bad thing. I do hope for these days to come back quickly, but until then, I think we need to not be so upset or bummed out, but instead, get excited about the great city and state we are in and geaux explore it. These are the things our children will remember... paddling down the Atchafalaya ...not the iPad game they played on the couch all summer.

So, I challenge you to Survive and Thrive this summer with fun family activities and to stay safe. But remember, this too shall pass, and when it does, make sure you made the most of it and made some great memories for the summer of 2020.

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PLAY GET OUT OF TOWN

KNOXVILLE,

Tennessee

By Julie Engelhardt

BEFORE YOU GO

Coordinates | 35.96068° N, -83.92103° E Baton Rouge to Knoxville | 654 miles Driving Time | 9 hours, 53 minutes Flying Time | 1 hour, 38 minutes Why Knoxville? | This beautiful city is known by many names–Heart of the Valley, Queen City of the Mountains, and Gateway to the Great Smoky Mountains. But no matter what you want to call it, Knoxville is a beautiful, vibrant city that offers captivating cultural events, tantalizing cuisine, stunning natural adventures, and downright friendly folks. Your entire family will find plenty to do–and more–in this eastern part of the Volunteer State.

WHERE TO STAY

We’re always on the hunt for unique places to rest our weary heads, and we’ve found a winner in The Oliver. The Oliver is tucked inside an 1876 building that once housed the Peter Kern Bakery, Kern’s Ice Cream Parlor– even a dance hall! Beautifully-appointed rooms offer king and queen-sized beds, and charming suites with high ceilings and plantation shutters. Dine on site at Oliver Royale or the Tupelo Honey Café. The Oliver is also located close to many downtown attractions and amenities.

WHERE TO EAT

The French Market Creperie The French Market Creperie is a marvelous choice for any time of the day.

They serve both sweet and savory crepes that will please everyone. For sweet, dig into their chocolate, strawberry, S’mores, French caramel, or cherry cheesecake crepes. For savory, enjoy the grilled cheese and tomato, roast beef and Swiss cheese, or the mushroom, spinach and bacon crepe.

Your taste buds will scream ‘magnifique!’

SoKno Taco Cantina It’s always a treat to find authentic Mexican cuisine on our travels, and you’ll discover some of the best at SoKno Taco Cantina. The Nasty Nacho appetizer has plenty of tasty ingredients piled high on crunchy tortilla chips, with your choice of meat, pico de gallo, queso and cilantro. Adult entrees include the delicious taco platter and tamale platter, and you can munch away on pint-sized nachos, quesadilla or tacos. Top off your meal with warm, crunchy churros, served with a scoop of cold vanilla ice cream.

Central Filling Station It happens all the time. Everyone wants to eat something different when dinnertime rolls around. So, next time Dad is in the mood for a burger and the kids are craving a delicious pizza for dinner, head to Central Filling Station, Tennessee’s first full-service food truck park. This family and Fido-friendly neighborhood hangout features a rotation of the food trucks.

Almost any kind of food can be found here, including ice cream, tacos, hot dogs, Asian, and Italian cuisine. Everyone will find just what they’re craving on this menu.

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THINGS TO DO

Zoos are always a great place to start your adventure, and Zoo Knoxville is a winner. Besides showcasing a beautiful collection of exotic and domestic creatures, such as Hamadryas Baboons and North American black bears, the zoo has a long menu of experiences the family will enjoy, like Animal Encounters, Bedtime with the Beasts, and Night Safaris.

Explore the gorgeous Ijams Nature Center, the crown jewel of the Urban Wilderness in South Knoxville. The entire family will find loads to do–hiking, mountain biking, animal education, and paddling in their quarry. There are tons of events, too, including scavenger hunts for animals, plants and birds.

She shoots–she scores! The Women’s Basketball Hall of Fame, the only facility of its kind in the world dedicated to the sport of women’s basketball, is located here. See the world’s largest basketball measuring 30-feet tall and weighing in at an impressive 10 tons! Test your basketball skills in one of the three different courts on site.

For more sporting fun, check out Maple Hall where you can eat, drink, and go bowling! Their kitchen conjures up a winning menu using fresh, local ingredients that are quite delicious and they have two bars on site serving craft cocktails, wine and beer. The 11-lane bowling alley offers leather couches, HD-TVs and a superb lounge area.

Catch a 360-degree view from the observation deck of the magnificent Sunsphere, the iconic structure built for the 1982 World’s Fair, located in World’s Fair Park. There’s no charge to ride up to the observation deck, and the best viewing time is during the sunset hours.

Check out the McCLung Museum of Natural History and Culture on the campus of the University of Tennessee. Kids of all ages will marvel at exhibits that showcase everything from the history of Tennessee to Egyptian artifacts. Special events for families happen monthly, and there are stroller tours where the littlest art enthusiasts are welcome to attend. ■

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Happy Father’s Day

June

1 MONDAY DARE DAY

7V7 YOUTH FOOTBALL PASSING LEAGUE REGISTRATION OPENS. This 7-on-7 passing league incorporates non-contact play with proper fundamentals to provide growth and skill development for youth. League play includes every-down passing on a 60-yard field with all players participating on offense and defense. League plays July 18-August 22.

Cost is $200 per team. brec.org NASA STEAM FOR HOME AND SCHOOL: OUR VERY OWN STAR, THE SUN. Webinar at 4 p.m. Learn how to use a storybook to introduce young learners to the sun 58

and its energy. Explore the 10 things NASA has learned about the sun in the last decade from the Solar Missions. txstate-epdc.net

2 TUESDAY

AFTER BABY COMES. Zoom from 6:30-9 p.m.

Two-day class. Learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress and hold a baby with a doll. Also, learn about “baby blues” and recovery from childbirth. Pre-registration required. $35 per couple. womans.org EXPLORE SOLAR SYSTEM AND BEYOND: SCALE OF DISCOVERY. Webinar from 5-6 p.m. Participants will do hands-on activities using scales and various sized fruit to create a scroll of

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the universe exploring the inner planets, outer planets and the asteroids. txstate-epdc.net WEBINAR: SUMMER CAMPS AND COVID-19.

Zoom at 6:30 p.m. with Baton Rouge Parents Magazine. Our summer camp partners will join us in a webinar to answer all your questions on summer camps reopening safely.

Free. brparents.com

3 WEDNESDAY

AFTER BABY COMES. Zoom from 6:30-9 p.m.

Two-day class. Learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress and hold a baby with a doll. Also, learn about “baby blues” and recovery from childbirth. Pre-registration required. $35 per couple. womans.org

4 THURSDAY DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are encouraged directly with vendors. breada.org EXPLORE SOLAR SYSTEM & BEYOND: NASA’S FOUR GREAT OBSERVATORIES. Webinar from 5-6 p.m. Chandra. Compton. Hubble.

Spitzer. NASA’s Great Observatories each use a distinct portion of the electromagnetic spectrum when studying the Universe and its wonders. In this webinar, participants will become acquainted with the legacy of these

four observatories as NASA prepares to launch the next-generation James Webb Space Telescope in 2021. txstate-epdc.net

5 FRIDAY

NATIONAL DOUGHNUT DAY

6 SATURDAY D-DAY, WWII

BEGINNER SKATEBOARD CLINIC. Perkins Road Community Park from 10-11 a.m. This clinic is designed for skaters who have no to minimal riding experience. By using the ground-up approach, riders learn the essentials first, allowing them to advance their skills with confidence. brec.org

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Zoom from 1:30-5 p.m. Learn the benefits of breastfeeding, how to prepare for breastfeeding, how to get the baby on the breast properly, the father’s role, breastfeeding pumps and supplies, and how to avoid common problems. Pre-registration required. $35 per couple. womans.org DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are encouraged directly with vendors. breada.org MUDDY MERMAID LOCAL ADVENTURE: HIKING CLARK CREEK. Body Archaeology Fitness from 8 a.m.-2 p.m. Hike beautiful Clark Creek in Mississippi. facebook.com SWAMP BIRD WALKS. Bluebonnet Swamp Nature Center from 7-9 a.m.

Visitors can enjoy a morning hike through the trails at Bluebonnet Swamp while identifying various bird species. Beginners are welcome and encouraged to inquire regarding birdwatching and identification techniques. brec.org

7 SUNDAY

FIRST FREE SUNDAYS. Magnolia Mound from 1-4 p.m. Special programs of traditional crafts, informative lectures, and family activities are planned. brec.org PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Zoom from 1-5 p.m. Learn to recognize when labor starts, know when to go to the hospital, know what to expect when you arrive at the hospital, and be aware of indications for a cesarean birth. In part two, they will discuss options available for dealing with the pain of labor and birth such as comfort measures, analgesics and anesthetics, and the importance of your support persons. Pre-registration required. $35 a couple.

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8 MONDAY BEST FRIENDS DAY NASA STEM AT HOME AND SCHOOL: ISS GUIDED INQUIRY LEARNING ACTIVITIES. Webinar at noon. The ISS Learning, Achieving, Believing, and Succeeding (L.A.B.S.) Educator‘s Resource Guide consists of eight guided educational learning activities. The activities provide details targeted skill sets, workshop instructions, listings of materials needed to complete activities, and other useful background information. txstate-epdc.net

9 TUESDAY

EXPLORE THE SOLAR SYSTEM AND BEYOND: ART AND THE COSMIC CONNECTION. Webinar at noon. Participants will learn about the Solar System and Beyond.

Engage with activities that bring Art into the STEM classroom. Learn about Art & The Cosmic Connection, a NASA STEAM Activity that allows students of all ages to engage in art activities while exploring various features throughout our solar system. txstate-epdc.net

10 WEDNESDAY

SENIOR SERIES. BREC’s Webb Park from 10 a.m.-noon. Three-week series on pottery. brec.org SUNSET PADDLE. BREC’s Milford Wampold Memorial Park from 7-8:30 p.m. Enjoy the fading warm colors as you explore this time at sunset.

This experience is perfect for youth and adults with little or abundant watercraft skills. Kayaks and paddle boards are available to rent. Pre-registration required. brec.org

11 THURSDAY

DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are encouraged directly with vendors. breada.org KAYAKING 101. BREC’s Greenwood Community Park from 6-7:30 p.m.

Instructors will coach participants on basic kayak handling, strokes and techniques and maneuvering skills to help you feel comfortable on the water in the kayak. Must be 18 or older. $10 for EBR Parish residents and $12 for out-of-parish residents.

Pre-registration required. brec.org KAYAKS AND COFFEE. BREC’s Greenwood Community Park from 10 a.m.-noon. Looking for something more than your average cup of Joe to kickstart your morning routine? Try adding a little spice with Kayaks and Coffee, a fantastic blend of adventure and exercise to get you ready to face the day.

Must be 18 or older. $10 for EBR Parish residents and $12 for out-of-parish residents. Pre-registration required. brec.org

12 FRIDAY

NATIONAL FLIP FLOP DAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Zoom from 9:30-11 a.m. This breastfeeding support group is devised to help mothers and babies learn about their successes and challenges with breastfeeding from a certified lactation nurse and other moms. Free. womans.org

13 SATURDAY

DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are encouraged directly with

vendors. breada.org JUNETEENTH CELEBRATION. BREC’s Scotlandville Parkway Park at 72nd from 9:30 a.m.1:30 p.m. Registration for the 1K trail walk begins at 8 a.m. Walk to raise awareness of childhood obesity In partnership with Community Against Drugs and Violence. brec.org LAMAZE: A LABOR OF LOVE. Zoom at 9 a.m.

Learn how to apply Lamaze techniques for coping with pain in labor and birth who plan to deliver without anesthesia. Pre-registration required. $75 per couple. womans.org THE GREAT ESCAPE! BREC’s Milton J. Womack Park from 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

Painting, pottery, Yogarts, creative mindfulness and writing are all part of this inspired getaway. Supplies, snacks and lunch are all provided, so there’s no need to pack! Ages 16 and older. $125 per person. brec.org

14 SUNDAY FLAG DAY

GRANDPARENTING 101. Zoom from 3-5 p.m.

Spend an afternoon brushing up on your baby skills.

Class covers new practices during pregnancy and delivery, breastfeeding, safe sleep, diaper changing, car seat safety, skin-to-skin holding, and home safety.

Pre-registration required. $25 per couple. womans.org

15 MONDAY

PREGNANCY 101. Zoom from 6:30-9 p.m. Attend this class to learn how to provide your baby with the best possible environment for growth and development. Discuss nutrition, practice exercise routines, get tips for common discomforts, and become aware of preterm labor warning signs. Pre-registration required. womans.org

16 TUESDAY NATIONAL EAT VEGGIES DAY

17 WEDNESDAY SENIOR SERIES. BREC’s Webb Park from 10 a.m.-noon. Three-week series on pottery. brec.org

18 THURSDAY

DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are encouraged directly with vendors. breada.org

19 FRIDAY JUNETEENTH

20 SATURDAY AFTER BABY COMES. Zoom from 12:30-5:30 p.m. Learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress and hold a baby with a doll.

Also learn about “baby blues” and recovery from childbirth. Pre-registration required. $35 per couple. womans.org DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are encouraged directly with vendors. breada.org JUNETEENTH CELEBRATION. BREC’s Gus Young Park from noon-4 p.m. Today’s events include an assortment of family entertainment for all ages. brec.org SURVIVING AN ACTIVE SHOOTER TRAINING SEMINAR. Focused Fire Training from 2-5 p.m.

This event gives you strategies and skills to survive an active shooter incident, whether you carry a concealed weapon or you are unarmed. focusedfire-training.com

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22 MONDAY 23 TUESDAY NATIONAL PINK DAY

24 WEDNESDAY BOAT RENTALS. BREC’s Milford Wampold Memorial Park from 3-5 p.m.

Meet at LSU Lakes where they will have their fleet of single and tandem kayaks open for rental. Paddles and life vests included. No instruction provided. Ages 12 and over. Single kayak $10 and $20 for tandem kayak. brec.org SENIOR SERIES. BREC’s Webb Park from 10 a.m.-noon. Three-week series on pottery. brec.org SUNSET PADDLE. BREC’s Milford Wampold Memorial Park from 7-8:30 p.m. Enjoy the fading warm colors as you explore this time at sunset.

This experience is perfect for youth and adults with little or abundant watercraft skills. Kayaks and paddle boards are available to rent. Pre-registration

required. brec.org

25 THURSDAY DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are encouraged directly with vendors. breada.org BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Online from 6:308:30 p.m. Virtual class will be held on a Zoom call.

Boys ages 10-13 learn what to expect during puberty and how to take care of themselves. Pre-registration required. $20 per child. womans.org EMERGE FEST: A VIRTUAL 60TH ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION. Virtual fundraiser from 9:30 a.m.-6:30 p.m. Join The Emerge Center on social media to celebrate their history. Follow along as families, staff and friends share their Emerge stories. emergela.org/emergefest

26 FRIDAY

TAKE YOUR DOG TO WORK DAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Zoom

from 9:30-11 a.m. This breastfeeding support group is designed to help mothers and babies learn successes and challenges with breastfeeding from a certified lactation nurse and other moms. Free. womans.org

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21 SUNDAY

EMERGE FEST: A VIRTUAL 60TH ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION. Virtual fundraiser from 6-7 p.m. The times are unique and so is The Emerge Center’s annual fundraising Gala. Grab your best festival attire and join them for a virtual happy hour via Facebook Live. emergela.org/emergefest

27 SATURDAY

ARRL FIELD DAY. BREC’s Highland Road Park Observatory from 2-10 p.m. The Baton Rouge Amateur Radio Club returns to teach you the joys and importance of

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ham radio in communication and emergency situations, how to send your name in Morse code and how to obtain your own transmitting license in this great hobby that is over 100 years old. Ages eight and up. brec.org DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are encouraged directly with vendors. breada.org PARENT/CHILD SUMMER JAM-BOREE. BREC’s Milton J. Womack Park from 6-8 p.m.

Children of all ages are invited to JAM for a night of family togetherness.

This event includes music, refreshments, and photo opportunities. brec.org

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29 MONDAY 30 TUESDAY 1 WEDNESDAY NATIONAL CHICKEN WING DAY 7V7 YOUTH FOOTBALL PASSING LEAGUE REGISTRATION DEADLINE. This 7-on-7 passing league incorporates noncontact play with proper fundamentals to provide growth and skill development for youth. League play includes every-down passing on a 60-yard field with all players participating on offense and defense.

League plays July 18-Aug. 22. brec.org

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DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. One way drive-thru, enter from Kenilworth. Pre-orders are

encouraged. breada.org

3 FRIDAY

THE EDGE OF NIGHT. BREC’s Highland Road Park Observatory from 8-10 p.m. It’s not light, it’s not dark. It’s that special time called twilight, and HRPO wants to introduce you to it. brec.org

4 SATURDAY

INDEPENDENCE DAY BEGINNER SKATEBOARD CLINIC. BREC’s Perkins Road Community Park from 10-11 a.m. Clinic designed for skaters who have no to minimal riding experience. brec.org DRIVE THROUGH FARMER’S MARKET. Pennington Biomedical Research Center from 8 a.m.-noon. breada.org

5 SUNDAY BUILD A SCARECROW DAY

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WHERE IN THE ROOM is My Daughter Hiding Her Laundered Clothes?

By Cheryl Maguire

My 14-year-old daughter doesn’t put her clean clothes away. But I get it. The task requires a great deal of energy. You need a lot of muscle strength to press that pause button on Netflix. And then, don’t get me started with how challenging it is to roll off the couch. It makes sense.

Plus, if she spends five minutes hanging up a few dresses then how will she have time to binge-watch over a thousand different TV shows?

GAME ON

The first time I asked her to put away her laundry, I found it piled on a chair. So, I let her know just like Dr. David Bruce Banner (The Hulk) said, “Don’t make me angry.

You wouldn’t like me when I’m angry.”

When I didn’t find her washed attire on the chair, I patted myself on the back for my incredible parenting abilities. But like most parenting techniques, it didn’t last long. I discovered she was hiding her stash.

Instead of getting angry about it, I decided to turn it into a game, like a scavenger hunt. The last time I played one was during my bachelorette party almost 20 years ago. I know that finding clean socks isn’t as exciting as posing for a picture with a drag queen, but it’s better 64

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than turning into The Hulk. Don’t get me wrong, I would love six pack abs like him, but I’m positive I couldn’t rock that green complexion like he does.

And now, I will share with you my quest to find the laundered clothes in all the least likely places you would search for it if you played a pretend game to prevent yourself from turning into an angry beast.

Under Her Pillow (10 points) Her bright blue shirt was clearly visible under her white pillowcase. I’m guessing it was a rushed job since I could see the evidence before I entered the room, so I only awarded myself 10 points for this find.

Under Her Bed (20 points) She upped the ante with this spot. It took me at least three days before I found her clean clothes piled under her bed.

In Her Sleeping Bag (30 points) She deserves creativity points for this one.

At the end of her bed lay her sleeping bag stuffed with clean clothes which might have been a successful hiding spot if it didn’t look like a dead body was in there. If she had simply flattened out the clothes, it would have worked.

All Stuffed In One Drawer (40 points) This hiding spot might have remained undetected, but her workout shorts were

mixed in with mine. When I went to put it away, I couldn’t open the drawer. The reason? Two sweatshirts, three t-shirts, four underwear, three socks, and pajamas were all stuffed into one drawer.

In Her Gym Bag (50 points) I never would have searched here since I would assume that she uses her bag, but I guess she found another one. The only reason I noticed it was because the stack of clothes fell over onto her floor.

In Her Hamper With Dirty Clothes (1,000 points) This spot was pure genius. Who would think to look in the opposite place for clean clothes? I only figured it out because her load of laundry was double the size compared to the previous wash.

GAME OVER

After discovering her last spot, I turned a bit green. I decided it’s time for me to shut her door and stop searching. I know I might be tempted to look every now and again, but I also know my daughter is a puzzle I’m not going to figure out anytime soon.

When I’m feeling frustrated, I try to remind myself that soon she will be off to college and I’ll miss that pile of laundered clothes more than I could ever imagine.

Her new roommate will have to carry on the game without me. ■

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