Baton Rouge Parents Magazine August 2019 by Family Resource Group

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COLLEGE

SPOUSE OR

ROOMMATE?

BOUND 10 THINGS TO KNOW

PARENTS,

TEACHERS & TECHNOLOGY

ACTIVE-SHOOTER

DRILLS AT SCHOOL

GE AUX VOTE R U FOR YOITES FAVOR

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CONTENTS AUGUST 2019 ▪ ISSUE 349

FEATURES

ON THE COVER

2018-19 Cover Kids and brothers, Melvin “Ivan” B., IV and Andrew “Chubbs” A., teamed up for our back-to-school photo shoot. Known by his family and friends as Ivan the Great, Melvin, IV feels he has a calling to minister about Jesus Christ. Melvin, IV is on the Autism Spectrum and lives with dyslexia, ADHD, sensory processing disorder, and delayed processing disorder, but he advocates that though his struggles are real, he is comforted by God that “he can do all things through Christ because He strengthens him.” He’s also a member of the National Junior Beta Club and 100 Black Men. When Andrew meets new people, he lets them know that his name is Chubbs. He’s spunky and has a love for gadgets and music. His mom shares that he lives with cerebral palsy and epilepsy, but he doesn’t let it hold him back. He’s also a Kids’ Orchestra and Cub Scout Pack 41 member.

10 THINGS KIDS SHOULD KNOW BEFORE COLLEGE

Make it through college with these basics

LEARNING ABOUT EARLY EDUCATION

Find the right school and discover when the journey should begin

9 SURPRISING WAYS TO FIND AN AWESOME SITTER

Scope out the perfect fit for your family

FOSTERING PARENTTEACHER PARTNERSHIPS WITH TECHNOLOGY

IN EVERY ISSUE

ACTIVE-SHOOTER DRILLS AT SCHOOL

Learn the psychological effects of these drills on students

SPOUSE OR ROOMMATE?

What you should do when it’s getting hard to tell

6 GREAT BACK-TO-SCHOOL APPS

Download these apps for a successful school year

32 DAD NEXT DOOR

CONNECT

16 COMMUNITY 22 EDUCATION 23 ONE AMAZING KID 26 PATHWAYS TO PARENTING

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30 LOCAL PROFILE 32 DAD NEXT DOOR 34 EXCEPTIONAL LIVES 36 FAITH

PLAY

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A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD GET OUT OF TOWN THINGS WE LOVE MOMS ONLY

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Connecting parents and teachers this school year

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12 A MOTHER’S VOICE 14 LAGNIAPPE 68 CALENDAR 79 MARKETPLACE 80 THE LAST WORD 82 SNAPSHOTS

2018-19 Cover Kid Tatiyana A.

48 ACTIVE-SHOOTER DRILLS AT SCHOOL

OCHNERS

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D I R E C TO R O F O P E R AT I O N S A MY L . F O R E M A N E D I TO R I A L M A N A G I N G E D I TO R A M ANDA MILLER

Save space in the kitchen with the Infantino Grow-With-Me 4-in-1 Convertible High Chair. This high chair transforms into a booster and toddler chair, and it even features a dishwasher safe multi-functional meal mat and easy release removable food tray. The food tray and seat back are adjustable for ideal positioning from tiny to toddler. ■ infantino.com

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Organize your child’s clutter, use them to hold snacks, or tote around your toiletries with ZizzyBee Bags. These reusable and washable bags are perfect for holding necessities, including baby wipes and diapers, art supplies, swim gear, and toys when you’re on the go. ■ zizzybeebags.com

Make it a movie night to watch Dumbo with your crew. Circus owner Max Medici enlists Holt Farrier and his children to care for a newborn elephant whose oversized ears make him a laughing stock in a struggling circus. But when they discover that Dumbo can fly, the circus makes an incredible comeback. ■ amazon.com

Last Month’s WINNERS

Look who won July’s Freebies: Carol Celestin won the Floof Dino Babies; Monique Rowe won The Original Brik Buster; and Kyira Terry won the Splash Swim Goggles.

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IN EVERY ISSUE A MOTHER’S VOICE

When the School Bell Rings

our children are probably exclaiming, “I’m bored,” by now; they’re likely burnt from playing in the sun; tired of their friends in the neighborhood; and they’re sick of going to daycare during the week. So, it’s a good thing that school begins in just a few days. Now’s a good time to talk with your children to determine their expectations of this year’s after-school activities. Every year, we parents vow that, “This year, things will be different.” You promise yourself that the number of activities in which your children indulge in will be controlled, and the pace at which your family speeds through fall will be managed through some forethought. So...sit down now and discuss the activities your children will attempt. Remember, many class sizes are limited, so early registration is critical. Regardless of the activities your child selects this year, your child will need your support and encouragement. Even if he or she is not playing the piano like Mozart or scoring every touchdown, your praise of his or her effort and skill is critical in building his or her self-confidence. The single most important component to selecting your children’s afterschool activities is to allow them to make a decision on what they want to participate in this fall. While football may not be your first choice for your son, if it’s his, you should grin, bear it and support him. I remember the days of my kiddos playing the saxophone, the violin, and the piano because they wanted to be the next great musician. While they didn’t end up pursuing it in the long run, it sure made for some interesting practice sessions after school that I can almost still hear...

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IN EVERY ISSUE LAGNIAPPE VOTE FOR YOUR FAVORITES!

Voting for the 2019 Family Favorites is now open. You can visit us online to see who made the top five, and cast your vote for your favorite family-friendly businesses, restaurants, doctors, camps, and educators. Voting will end on Saturday, August 31. Happy voting! ■ ff.brparents.com

HIDING FEARS FROM YOUR KIDS

We all have fears, and they all affect us in different ways. This month, we wanted to know your fears, the ones that you don’t share with your children. Do you have a fear that you hide from your children? Here’s what our readers had to say. “My biggest fear is not being able to protect them.” —Laronica S.

“I am terrified of heights. The very thought of heights make me feel nauseated. I hide this from my children because I don't want them to feel like they have to be afraid of heights. Also. there's plenty in the world to be afraid of; I don't need them to pick up my fears.” —Jannean D.

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“My biggest fear that I hide from my children is money issues. What happens if I can’t provide for them? I don’t want them to have to worry about that at their ages.” —Kayla V.

“If there’s storms or money problems, and it’s not that I hide things from my children. But, things like money, sickness, and bad weather are things I don’t want them to worry about. It’s my job to make them feel safe.” —Joyce M.

“My biggest fear that I hide/ struggle with is how much money my children cost me. It is a monthly struggle to allow them to participate in everything they want to do.” —Lynn H.

“My fear is that am I failing them when they eat junk all day, or watch TV, or play on the iPad when I am busy. Is too much screen time really that big of a deal?” —Amy F.

As a mom, you have to look at how much time you're spending with your kids. There is nothing you will regret more in your life–nothing–than not being present for your children.” —Jamie Lee Curtis 14

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CONNECT COMMUNITY ARC BATON ROUGE TO OPEN NEW HEADQUARTERS

Arc Baton Rouge, a service provider for children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities, announced the purchase of new headquarters, a 12,000 square-foot facility. The building, which they expect to move into later this month, will also house a new day program serving people ages 16 and older with autism, Down syndrome, cerebral palsy and other similar conditions. “The timing is right for us to bring staff and services together into one facility, expand programming and become more visible and accessible to the community,” says David Barber, board president. ■ arcbatonrouge.org

BUCKLE UP! LOUISIANA CAR SEAT LAW UPDATED

Double check your child’s car seat, as the law has changed as of August 1. The biggest updates are that children must ride rear facing until they are at least two, and children younger than 13 must ride in the backseat. “The law is now actually matching up with the safety recommendations set out by the American Academy of Pediatrics and the National Highway Transportation and Safety Administration,” says Amy Waters, child passenger safety technician with Baton Rouge Car Seat Safety, LLC. “I’m very excited about these changes. It will hopefully get more parents to realize that they need to take a second look at what they’re doing when they put their children in the car.” ■ lahighwaysafety.org

GROCERY SHOP WITHOUT THE SHOP

Although a trip to the store without kids can be its own mini vacation, some weeks call for efficiency over bliss. Luckily, many area stores offer delivery and drive-up services that can make shopping easier. Albertson’s offers delivery with InstaCart, as does Rouses, Sam’s Club, Costco and The Fresh Market. Walmart offers its own delivery and drive up services. At Target, you can drive up or have groceries delivered with Shipt. There are extra charges added to the bill, but the trade off in time saved can be worth it, especially during these first hectic weeks of school.

BATON ROUGE ZOO EXPANDS WITH BABY BOOM

Cuteness is on display at BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo with recent births of six animals. Over the last several months, a female Bongo, two Thomson’s Gazelles, a male Nyala, a male Baird’s Tapir, and a female Sable were born. “This baby boom is exciting for our Zoo and our community,” says Zoo Director Phil Frost. “We are always encouraged when our animal collection grows, and it’s especially exciting when it does so through new births. We encourage the public to come out and see these new arrivals soon.” ■ brzoo.org

MEASLES CASES RISING IN THE U.S.

More than 1,000 cases of measles were reported in the U.S. in the first half of 2019. There haven’t been cases in Louisiana this year, but Mindy Calandro, MD, a pediatrician at the Baton Rouge Clinic, says it’s just a matter of time. “This year, it’s truly frightening just how high the numbers have gotten and how quickly they’ve gotten there.” Because measles was considered an eliminated disease in the U.S., Dr. Calandro says people aren’t as familiar with the highly contagious and potentially deadly virus. When making decisions about your child’s health care, it’s important to be informed. “If families have questions about vaccines, talk to your child’s doctor. I’m never upset when a family wants to have a discussion about it,” Dr. Calandro says. ■ cdc.gov/measles 16

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BABYANDTODDLER “BABY SHARK” COMING TO TV AND STAGE

Your baby sharks will flip when they hear that their favorite viral song is making its way into other media. That’s right, mom and dad, you’ll be enjoying the popular earworm in even more ways now! I’ll pause, so you can let out all of your excitement. Nickelodeon has announced the development of an animated TV series for the toddler crowd. Pinkfong, the Korean artists who originated the catchy song, have teamed up with Round Room Live to bring “Baby Shark” on a 100-city tour that the entire family can enjoy. Snag those tickets, doo-doo, doo, doo, doo-doo. ■ babysharklive.com

PAMPERS PLEDGES MEN’S ROOM CHANGING TABLES

Diaper duty is a parent chore that’s inexplicably harder without a safe, clean surface to get the job done. Unfortunately, changing stations can be especially hard to come by in men’s restrooms, but Pampers is working to change that. As part of its “Love the Change” campaign, the diaper company has announced that it will provide 5,000 changing tables in public bathrooms across North America by 2021. To help get the job done, Pampers is teaming up with changing table manufacturer Koala Kare to identify and install the tables where they are needed.

TARGET ADDING NURSING ROOMS TO STORES

As if we needed another reason to love the bullseye. Target is now adding nursing rooms to many stores as they are remodeled. A sign spotted at a Target in Weatherford, Texas and shared on the Breastfeeding Mama Talk Facebook group explains the company’s policy that shoppers “are free to nurse wherever and whenever you like.” Target currently provides nursing spaces–stocked with free goodies–for those who would like more privacy and comfort to feed a little one while they are getting their grocery shopping done.

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CONNECT COMMUNITY OCHSNER HEALTH SYSTEM GROWS WITH THE GROVE

Expanded health options rather than oranges are growing at this Grove, the latest expansion from Ochsner Health System. At $116 million, Ochsner Medical Complex–The Grove is the system’s largest single investment. Ribbon-cutting ceremony speakers included Eric McMillen, Ochsner Baton Rouge CEO; Warner Thomas, Ochsner Health System president & CEO; and EBR Mayor-President Sharon Weston Broome. With 249 exam and procedure rooms, the facility has the capacity to see more than 2,000 patients per day.

LOCAL GIRL SCOUTS ACHIEVE HIGHEST SCOUTING AWARD

The Girl Scout Gold Award, the organization’s highest honor, was presented to Lexus Pham and Jordan Smith. Girl Scouts Louisiana East honored them at a statewide Gold Award ceremony, and they were among 17 in Louisiana to earn the honor. To achieve the honor, scouts demonstrate their ability and skills in goal setting, planning, implementing Girl Scout values, and relating to the community. Each completed a community service project. Lexus’ project was a weekly math tutoring summer program for elementary students, and Jordan worked to bring awareness to childhood cancers via community education.

BATON ROUGE’S FIRST BIKE SHARE PROGRAM ROLLS OUT

ZIP TO THE ZOO FOR 14TH ANNUAL RACE

Lace up your sneakers for the Zoo Run Run at BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo on Saturday, August 24. The event invites families to enjoy the scenery while walking or running through the zoo and parts of Greenwood Park. The race raises funds for the zoo and international cheetah conservation. Participants and supporters receive free zoo admission. “We encourage everyone of all ages to come out and scamper, trot or gallop through the zoo for a fun-filled family day of adventure,” says Phil Frost, zoo director.

Zip around downtown on two wheels without installing a bike rack on your car. Bike share vendor Gotcha has installed 17 e-bike share stations in the downtown Baton Rouge area and will soon expand to the LSU and Southern University campuses. Up to 20 bicycles are dockable at any station, meaning getting around those parts of town is a little bit easier. The best part might be the bikes’ electric motors that assist traditional pedaling to make for a less exhausting ride. Bikes are checked out via an app. ■ ridegotcha.com

NOW BOARDING: FOOD ALLERGY FAMILIES ALLOWED TO PRE-BOARD

Traveling has become a little easier for families with food allergies. A recent U.S. Department of Transportation ruling found that American Airlines violated the rights of a passenger who asked to pre-board to wipe down the seating area for her child who has severe food allergies. Several airlines now allow pre-boarding for people with food allergies or their parents. “We applaud it, and we think it’s a great idea,” says Ben Gaudin, MD, allergist with the Allergy, Asthma & Sinus Center in Baton Rouge. “You don’t know what the prior passenger may have brought on. If there was residue on the tray table, touched by hand and put in mouth that could lead to a more significant reaction.” ■ foodallergy.org 18

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YOUTH TIDE POD CHALLENGE

Although teens have moved on from the “Tide Pod Challenge,” the mini packets of liquid laundry detergent are still harming children, according to a new study published in the Journal of Pediatrics. Nearly 92 percent of the exposures analyzed happened to children under the age of six. Manufacturers have made changes to make the products less appealing to children, but the study’s authors suggest more can be done to protect our littlest laundry creators.

NEW LIVESTREAMING SAFETY RULES FROM YOUTUBE ANNOUNCED

YouTube recently announced that “young minors” will not be allowed to livestream on the service without parental supervision. In a blog post announcing the policy change, YouTube staff explained that artificial intelligence will be employed to “find and remove more of this content.” The post notes that YouTube has removed almost one million videos that violate child-safety policies, and most were taken down before they had more than 10 views. If you have a mini vlogger, make sure you get yourself or another grown-up on camera in any livestream video he or she shares.

MAKEUP SAFETY AND RECALL

Playing with makeup is a fun way for little ones to feel grown up and glamorous, but a new Clinical Pediatrics study has found that children regularly suffer poisoning and chemical burns from cosmetics. While such injuries are rare, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends keeping makeup out of reach, especially from littler makeup artists-in-training. Another risk is asbestos in makeup marketed for children. The U.S. Food & Drug Administration recently ordered a recall of some JoJo Siwa-branded makeup sold at Claire’s stores. ■ claires.com/us/ product-and-safety.html

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CONNECT COMMUNITY STAR LAUNCHES SUPPORT GROUP FOR ADULT SURVIVORS

Adult survivors of sexual trauma in Baton Rouge now have a new resource in the form of a support group launched by STAR, Sexual Trauma Awareness and Response. The group provides a safe space for survivors to process their trauma in a supportive community of caring and understanding individuals. All genders are welcome to attend, and attending the group is free. Meetings will take place on Monday evenings, and they are facilitated by licensed mental health counselors at STAR’s office in Baton Rouge. ■ star.ngo

INJURED TURTLE GAINS WHEELS THANKS TO LSU AND LEGO

Pedro the turtle has some zoom in his step, thanks to the Veterinary Teaching Hospital at the LSU School of Veterinary Medicine. When adopted, Pedro was missing one back leg, and after a recent escape from his outdoor enclosure, he lost the other. Otherwise a healthy adult male box turtle, Pedro now stays inside, making him a candidate for a prosthetic mobility solution. Kelly Rockwell, DVM, a zoological medicine intern, and Sarah Mercer, vet student, made Pedro some wheels using a LEGO kit. “He’s taken to the wheels with no problem. He’s a pretty happy camper after all he went through,” says owner Sandra Traylor.

PREPARE FOR SWEET DREAMS WITH GOODNIGHT VIDEOS

Everyone loves bedtime stories, and no one knows stories like librarians. The EBR Library has a new program called Monday Night Bedtime Stories. Each Monday, a video of EBRPL children’s services staff reading a kids’ story is uploaded to the EBRPL Kids Facebook page. “This encourages parents to read to their kids every night before bed,” says Pabby Arnold, the library’s special literacy coordinator. Titles featured so far include Goodnight Moon, Go Dog Go and Corduroy. ■ facebook.com/ebrplkids

GET YOUR GROOVE ON AT KNOCK STOCK MUSIC FESTIVAL

Celebrate the 50th anniversary of Woodstock with Knock Knock Children’s Museum. Knock Stock, the museum’s first ever children’s music festival, will be Saturday, August 17 and Sunday, August 18, continuing the museum’s Summer of Love. Scheduled musical acts will include Peter Simon, Polly Pry, Ziggy & The Junkyard Band, Baton Rouge Music Studios, Dorothy LeBlanc, School of Performing Rock, and School of Rock Baton Rouge. In addition to the groovy music, festival goers will enjoy pop-up activities and a Big Backyard of games. Tickets start at $15 per day for museum members. ■ knockknockmuseum.org/knockstock

AS SUMMER WEATHER LINGERS, STAY SAFE WHILE SWIMMING

Summer is winding down, but hot weather is far from over in south Louisiana. When cooling off in the water, it can be tempting to rely on floatation devices. “Floaties can provide a false sense of security,” says Kayla Dysart, Crawfish Swim School director. Swimmers may expect to float even when not wearing them. “More time in the water without a life vest helps kids start to realize what they’re capable of,” Dysart says. “Healthy fear is a good thing in that case.” Life vests are appropriate sometimes. Dysart recommends finding a Coast Guard-approved vest with lots of clips, to give more time to realize if your little fish is taking it off. Active supervision is always best. “Anything can happen,” Dysart says. “And it happens really quickly and quietly.” 20

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TWEENANDTEEN NEW APP HELPS FIND ‘GRAMMABLE SPOTS

Where’s the best spot to snap a selfie in a given city? Your teen can probably help with that! Teens may seem to have a sixth sense for finding the perfect backdrop, but all social media users looking for Insta-worthy backdrops can find them now with a new tool in their arsenal. Depalo, an iPhone app from lifestyle blogger Rebecca Aneloski, helps photographers and aspiring Instagurus to find and share scenic walls, businesses and viewpoints that make for amazing shots. They even include the exact latitude and longitude coordinates, so you can easily find the locations of the hot spots around the city. ■ depaloapp.com

TOTAL TEEN TAKEOVER

Local teens will rule Cortana Mall during the Total Teen Takeover, presented by The Safety Place and Big Buddy Program, on Friday, August 2 from 4-7 p.m. The organizations invite teens to take charge of their health and wellness at the event, which will include empowerment speakers, entertainment, food and games. ■ facebook.com/safetyplacela

HARRY POTTER WIZARDING GAME LAUNCHED

Calling all wannabe wizards! Harry Potter: Wizards Unite, a real-world augmented reality game inspired by J.K. Rowling’s books and films has launched globally. From the creators of the similar game Pokémon GO, the wizarding game allows users to hold magic in their hands and engage with a number of customizable features. Niantic and WB Games co-developed and co-published the game, which was the number one free app in Apple’s U.S. app store on its first day with about 400,000 downloads. The app is also available in the Google Play and Samsung Galaxy stores. ■ harrypotterwizardsunite.com

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CONNECT EDUCATION THREE ASCENSION TEACHERS WIN SCIENCE LAB MAKEOVERS

Three Ascension science teachers have been named winners in the Shell Science Lab Regional Challenge. Ashley Townsend of Oak Grove Primary School, Jennifer Gautreau of Lake Elementary School, and Jessica Wilson of St. Amant High School are among 39 regional winners from which three grand prize winners will be selected. The competition, sponsored by Shell Oil Company, encourages K-12 science teachers to share ways to create meaningful student lab experiences with limited resources. The regional winners each received a school science lab makeover support package.

ST. MICHAEL ADDS IDEA LAB

Innovation, design, experience and application will be the focus of the new IDEA Lab at St. Michael the Archangel High School. The classroom will provide space for teachers and students to expand learning in all curriculum areas using 3D printers, coding project robots, hands-on STEM and design work stations, and virtual reality headsets. “It’s a great opportunity for students and teachers to learn together,” says Abby Tate, the school’s technology integration specialist. The lab is taking over space previously used by the band program, which will move into the new multipurpose building.

FCA FIFTH GRADERS SUPPORT WATER FOR SOUTH SUDAN

Literature can inspire action. That happened for fifth graders at Family Christian Academy when they read, A Long Walk to Water by Linda Sue Park. The students “were struck by the harsh reality that many people face in their pursuit for clean, accessible water,” says teacher Stacee Jones. Organizing a fundraiser to support Water for South Sudan, a nonprofit building local wells for people who would have to walk miles for unsanitary water, the students raised $572 by selling toys, handmade magnets and snacks.

EMERGE SCHOOL FOR AUTISM BREAKING GROUND

The Emerge School for Autism held a ceremonial groundbreaking for its new, 7,000 square-foot building, which is scheduled to be completed in spring 2020 to accommodate about 48 students. Until then, the school will operate out of Polk Elementary. Emerge is the first and only Louisiana public charter school exclusively designed for children with autism. The building is “a significant extension of The Emerge Center’s successful interdisciplinary therapeutic model,” says Melissa Juneau, CEO of The Emerge Center. “We look forward to seeing our campus grow with the addition of a freestanding building for the new school.” The fundraising campaign began in 2018, and to date, $1.673 million has been raised toward the $2 million goal.

PARKVIEW STUDENTS PILOT DIGITAL SAT

Twenty-two Parkview Baptist high school students got a glimpse into the future of standardized testing when they participated in a pilot of the Digital SAT. The standardized test is used widely for college admissions in the United States and has always been paper-based. Parkview was one of a small number of schools asked to help test potential new additions to the SAT, specifically exploring the option of administering the test in an online model. The students received feedback on the scoring model for each tested category. 22

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Lots of little girls dream of owning a pony. Fifteen-year-old Emma Monroe’s dream came true when her parents, Todd and Jessica, bought her Bailey, a grey Welsh pony mare. Bailey was four years old when Emma got her as a surprise Christmas gift, and conventional wisdom said Bailey was too young to compete. With a lot of hard work, Bailey and Emma proved that wrong when they qualified for Pony Finals 2018, a three-phase competition judging the pony and its rider. “It was the best day of my life when she qualified for Pony Finals,” Emma says. In order to qualify for the competition, which dates to 1967, the pony and rider must be champion or reserve champion at an A-rated show. Now a 10th grader at University Laboratory School, Emma started taking riding lessons at six and showing at eight. She learned her love of horses from her family. “My mom’s side of the family has ridden their whole life,” Emma says. “My great grandfather was in the U.S. Calvary, and my grandma rode and so did my mom. So I just inherited it from them.” Although Emma has now grown too tall to ride Bailey, she rides another leased horse and can show Bailey in Welsh pony shows. “The horses keep me really busy, especially with going to shows,” Emma says. “It’s a big responsibility to keep a horse, and it’s a year-round sport.” Even so, Emma is also on the U-High Student Council and maintains friendships at school and the barn. With her determination and focus, Emma is certainly one amazing kid. Do you have One Amazing Kid? Email education@brparents.com. AUGUS T 2019 | BRPA RENTS .COM

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RUNNELS GRAD RECEIVES CREDIT UNION SCHOLARSHIP

Ryan Lam, a recent graduate of the Runnels School, received a $1,000 scholarship from Pelican State Credit Union. Pelican gave a total of $15,000 to 14 college-bound Louisiana students. Winners were chosen from 80 student applications with more than 1,000 combined hours of volunteer service. At Runnels, Ryan was a four-year member of Mu Alpha Theta and Beta Club and received the Outstanding Achievement Award in World History. He volunteers at the Baton Rouge Food Bank and St. Vincent de Paul. Youth are eligible for awards for good grades with Team Pelican youth saving accounts.

EBR BREAKS GROUND ON JEFFERSON TERRACE ACADEMY

EBR School System broke ground on Jefferson Terrace Academy, a progressive new school that will serve PreK-eighth grade students with cutting-edge learning technology and collaborative workspaces. “The new student-focused Jefferson Terrace Academy promotes 21st-century learning environments for the students with flexible classrooms and an abundance of natural light,” says David Hebert, partner of GraceHebert Architects. “The new campus will be an asset to the surrounding community by providing a walking trail and outdoor play fields.” Construction is expected to be complete by fall 2020.

BUDDY BENCHES ARRIVE AT LIVINGSTON ELEMENTARY SCHOOLS

STUDENTS BUILD MONEY SMART SKILLS

CA-CHING! Belfair Montessori Magnet students learned about personal finance during a day of mentoring from MidSouth Bank and Junior Achievement (JA). Bank associates and JA volunteers provided finance activities for students in K-5th grade. Students explored financial concepts, including budgeting, taxes, savings and financial decision making. “Engaging kids early with money concepts helps them feel more confident about financial decisions,” says Paula Dawson, JA president.

Everyone needs a friend sometimes, and that can especially be true on the playground. Keller Williams Premier Partners made making friends a little easier for students at several Livingston Parish elementary schools. Realtor Ashley Easley and Leigh Gilly, licensed mortgage adviser, delivered buddy benches and kindness rocks. Buddy benches are places for students to sit if they need a friend, and students and teachers know if someone sits on the buddy bench, it’s a sign to ask them to come and play. The project was part of RED Day, which stands for Renew, Energize and Donate, the company’s annual day of service.

AGAPE SCHOOL LAUNCHES IN BATON ROUGE

A new school serving Kindergarten through fourth grade students is launching this fall in Baton Rouge. Agape School of Baton Rouge is a private, Christian school aiming to teach the whole child spiritually, emotionally and cognitively through small class sizes and individual attention. Classes will first meet at the Church of the Highlands, and the school will follow a Monday-Thursday schedule to allow more family time during the weekends. “We are thrilled that families have joined us for our inaugural year,” say founders Kelly Gonzales and Ashley Vilt. “We are excited by our continued growth and look forward to opening additional grades each year until eighth grade.” ■ agapeschoolofbr.com 24

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NEW RIVER DYNAMICS EXPERIENCE FOR EIGHTH GRADERS

Free access to new environmental educational experiences will be available to up to 4,800 eighth graders thanks to a partnership between the Louisiana Art & Science Museum and the Coastal Protection and Restoration Authority. The River Dynamics Experience, which meets curriculum objectives and Louisiana Student Standards for Science, will bring students to The Water Campus to tour the LSU Center for River Studies and the museum. Students will explore a working 3D model of the lower 190 miles of the Mississippi River, one of the largest river models of its kind in the world. Then during classes at LASM, students will problem solve real-world environmental challenges using a state-of-theart stream table.

DUNHAM EIGHTH GRADER HONORED FOR EXCELLENCE

Kari Johnson, an eighth grader at The Dunham School, is one of 500 exceptional National Junior Honor Society members honored with the Outstanding Achievement Award this year. Local chapter advisers nominate current members who demonstrate excellence in the societyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s five pillars: scholarship, service, leadership, character and citizenship. Kari has been a society member since sixth grade and has served as secretary and president for the Dunham chapter. The society offers the annual award to help jump start middle school studentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; quests toward higher education, and the award includes $500 that will be placed in a college savings account. AUGUS T 2019 | BRPA RENTS .COM

CONNECT PATHWAYS TO PARENTING

Children and Broken Bones

ome kids are daredevils, defying gravity in any number of ways. Others stick close to the ground. A broken bone can happen to any of them, and for some, a cast is a childhood right of passage. Knowing that doesn’t make it any less scary when it’s your child with a broken bone. Brad Culotta, MD, pediatric orthopaedic, scoliosis surgeon, & pediatric and adolescent sports medicine physician at the Baton Rouge Orthopaedic Clinic, is skilled at treating patients and soothing families. “In our practice of managing the injured child, we know how to examine and treat kids in a way that helps them be relaxed and cooperative,” he says. “The presence of the growth plate drives how we think about treating orthopedic problems in children,” Dr. Culotta says. “All of our treatments are geared toward the protection and preservation of normal growth.” When faced with a possible broken bone, you may want to head to urgent care first. “Common fractures such as those of the hand, wrist, forearm, foot, ankle, and leg can easily be evaluated and initially managed appropriately in the urgent care setting,” Dr. Culotta says. However, he advises that an obvious deformity to the bone or dislocation of a large joint are best managed in an emergency room, which has the ability to do sedation needed to treat those types of injuries. Most breaks take between six and eight weeks to heal, and some are stable enough to require only a brace rather than a cast. A broken arm or leg doesn’t mean the end of summer fun. “One of the best advances in the way we manage kids’ fractures has been the waterproof cast,” Dr. Culotta says. “We do everything we can to get the kids back to activities as soon as possible and back to having fun. That’s what makes my job most rewarding.” On October 5, the freestanding Our Lady of the Lake Children’s Hospital will open. “Our goal is to have 24/7, 365 pediatric orthopedic care available,” Dr. Culotta says. This means if your child is injured and you seek care at the Children’s Hospital, you will see a pediatric orthopedic surgeon, doctors who spends their entire career taking care of kids’ injuries. “This is truly comforting to parents and families.” ■

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10 THINGS KIDS SHOULD KNOW BEFORE COLLEGE

Cover Kid 2018-2019 Miranda P. & Joel B. Photo Credit: Lauren Leopold Photography

By Kerrie McLoughlin

our family has survived the testing, the essays, the applications, and the waiting game. Now, it’s time to teach your college-bound child some important skills before she heads out of the house and explores the world on her own. Here are some basic things I’ll be working on with my own college-bound teens, and now is the perfect time to do it! 1. How to wash clothes. Wash light and dark clothes separately. Put a set of clothing in the washer, add detergent based on product recommendations, and wash everything on warm just to be safe. Never put “dry clean only” clothing in a regular washing machine. Once clothes are washed, put them in the dryer on a medium temperature for about 40 minutes or as long as a specific setting 28

runs, according to your washer. Also, teach the proper way to separate clothing. 2. How to cook a decent meal to save time and money. Start with basics like how to scramble eggs, boil pasta and bake pizza in the oven. Work your way up to assembling casseroles and putting together slow cooker meals.

or Excel spreadsheet so you can be realistic about how much you’re spending. If you know something is coming up that you’ll need money for, make a note about it and save in other ways, or figure out income-earning opportunities.

3. How to change a tire (and other car maintenance). Always have a spare tire in the vehicle you drive, as well as a jack, flashlight, rain poncho and gloves. Parents, you should teach this one a few times until he gets the hang of it. Also, if there is a AAA plan in place, they can come out and help or supervise.

5. How to manage money and the difference between a credit card and a debit card. A debit card needs a PIN because money comes from a bank account right away. A credit card needs a signature because you’re agreeing to pay interest and anything you owe at a later date. Kids, make sure you know how to balance your checkbook. You don’t want to get that debit card declined…it’s always so embarrassing!

4. How to budget money. Track your income and spending in a small notebook

6. What an advanced care directive is and why you should have one. Once

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you turn 18, the law states that you can make your own medical decisions. Since you’re away from home, you need to think about what you would want done in the event of a life-threatening accident. A living will gives specific instructions, while a durable power of attorney is when you assign someone to make decisions for you. It’s a heavy, but necessary, discussion to have with your family. 7. How to manage time. You might just have a part-time job along with classes, homework and social time. Just like with money, getting real makes a huge difference. Google Calendar is a great on-the-go option and different activities can be color-coded, so you can see where you might have a free block of time… or where you may be double-booking yourself. Don’t forget to plan sleep time in there, or you’ll burn out fast. 8. How to refill a prescription (ADD meds, antibiotics, etc.). Make sure you have insurance information at the ready so it can be logged in the database, and find a drugstore that will take your insurance. The first time you do this, you will likely need to contact your doctor so he/she can contact the pharmacy, but after that, refills should be smooth sailing. 9. How to deal with people. There truly is an art to bringing up grievances and respectfully disagreeing with people such as authority figures and roommates. You don’t have to be a doormat when arguing your case with a professor, doctor, or boss, but you also don’t have to always go for the win. 10. How to use public transportation. You’re not the only college kid to arrive without a car, especially if it’s your first year. Check online or grab a paper route and schedule. If you’re still confused, ask someone at the station how to get where you need to go, then buy your ticket using your student discount. Now that you have some important basics down, relax and enjoy your college experience, knowing you are prepared for whatever life throws your way. ■

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LIVE LOCAL PROFILE

D.A.R.E. By Madeline Rathle

aptain Randy Aguillard, with the East Baton Rouge Sheriff’s Office, has been teaching kids to “make safe and healthy choices” for 25 years. He is the supervisor of the D.A.R.E. program, which stands for Drug Abuse Resistance Education, and the program was implemented in EBR in 1994. Now, the program reaches about 45 different local schools and thousands of students each year. D.A.R.E. began in Los Angeles in 1983 when the Los Angeles Police Department and the Los Angeles Unified School District partnered to create a drug resistance education program for elementary schools. They realized that law enforcement alone could not solve the drug issues the city was seeing. By

1989, D.A.R.E. America was established as a national nonprofit organization and quickly began to grow and adapt to meet the needs of schools across the US. “My biggest goal is teaching decisionmaking,” Captain Aguillard says. “Peer pressure is really bad in middle school, so decision-making skills are very important for them.” As stated on the EBR Sheriff’s Office website, “Elementary school children lack sufficient social skills to resist peer pressure and to say no to drugs. D.A.R.E. instructors do not use the scare tactics of traditional approaches that focus on the dangers of use. Instead, the instructors work with children to raise their self esteem, teach them how to make decisions on their own, and help them to

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identify positive alternatives to substance abuse.” During a lesson, children are broken into groups and given different stories about things like bullying, drugs, and stealing, Captain Aguillard says. Then, they are asked to go through the Dare Decision Making Model: define, assess, respond, evaluate. “You want them to discuss because each student might approach the situation differently,” Captain Aguillard says. “Make them think! Which choice is a good choice and why?” Captain Aguillard explains that each officer who teaches D.A.R.E. has his or her own stories about kids coming back, saying how they got their mom or dad to quit smoking. Plus, some of the children Captain Aguillard taught previously, are now teachers in the classrooms, helping him and the other officers shape the minds of more children. D.A.R.E. has the biggest impact when the triangle of police, schools, and parents work together to promote the same message. This is why Captain Aguillard is passionate about parent involvement after school lessons have been taught. “People want to give me credit, but it’s all three of us coming together,” says Captain Aguillard. “You have parents saying, ‘Who is this guy my kid is talking about who made me quit smoking?’ Then, they come and have a conversation. The stuff I’m saying is what a parent would say, but it’s coming from a third party.” Captain Aguillard believes D.A.R.E. will remain a necessary component of school education for our children because new issues will always arise. He says, “The world keeps changing, and they keep trading one bad thing for another. D.A.R.E. will always be around to help them make good choices.” ■

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LIVE DAD NEXT DOOR

Justin Vincent By Amanda Miller

OCCUPATION ▪ Development Officer for LSU WIFE ▪ Angie CHILDREN ▪ Justus, 3 HOBBIES ▪ Hunting, fishing, and golf

Tell me about your son. J: Justus is as wild and rambunctious as a three year old can be. There’s never a dull moment with him. He’s into dinosaurs and dragons right now, and he loves anything with water. What do you like to do as a family? J: We go to the movies, and every day, we walk to the pond in our neighborhood so Justus can plan on the playground there. We have a miniature basketball goal in the house, so we’ll play. Justus also likes us to lay on the floor and play dinosaurs with him.

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rom the farm to the football field, Justin Vincent has experienced some feats that others could only dream about. Justin grew up in Lake Charles on a farm, and before his dad convinced his mom to let him play football, he was all about calf roping. He had a cowboy hat and boots to match, too. Justin chased his dream of playing professionally, and he accomplished that dream. However, he has different goals now. As a father to an adorable three year old, Justin is focused on family time and helping the organization that molded him into the man he is today. What do you love most about your job and working with LSU? J: I get to help the place that molded me. I learned how to be tough here. I made so many friends, and they all had a hand in helping make me who I am today. How do you balance work and family time? J: I used to work from 7 a.m.-11 p.m., seven days a week, so the cool part of this job is, I now work 8 a.m.-5 p.m. I never knew what free time was because of athletics, but now, I make the most of it.

What’s the greatest thing about being a dad? J: Knowing you’re responsible for raising this young person and molding him and teaching him.

What kind of dad are you? J: I’m a fun dad. We’re always playing and laughing. It’s pretty cool.

How has parenthood changed you? J: It’s a very great feeling, but it’s also very humbling. You’re in it for him, and you worry about him now. It changed my everyday outlook.

What advice do you often give your son? J: I whisper into his ear every day and tell him, “You’re special.” I tell him to chase his dreams, because I did! I won’t let him quit either. If he

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wants to do something, I want him to keep going until the road ends. What’s the best parenting advice you have ever been given? J: Let your kid be a kid, and don’t be afraid to be your kid’s friend. Also, every moment is a teaching moment. What was your first job? What life lessons did it teach you? J: My first job was as a professional football player, but it taught me to be firm in what you believe in. Fight for everything and give it all you’ve got. What personality trait of yours do you hope your son also has? J: Outgoing, and I think he has it already. He loves to have fun and hug. I used to be so shy, and I don’t know what happened, but I think I’m an outgoing person now.

What’s your favorite date night with your wife? J: We have date night every Thursday. We will either Waitr something or go to a restaurant. Which family member has been your greatest role model in life? J: My mom. She laid the law down, and she was my rock. She only missed one game and it was because of a work emergency. She travelled everywhere with me. What are some things you learned from football about life and parenting? J: In life, there are ups and downs, and it’s all about how you respond to them. Everyone goes through something, but you learn to grind. You don’t wait around for things to happen, you make them happen. What’s your favorite football memory, either from your career or your love of the game? J: Winning the National Championship meant a lot. It was the first big thing I did in my career. A lot of people ask me what my favorite memory of Tiger Stadium is...and I remember, I was in my freshman year, we were playing Georgia, and our defense had just done a play. I was standing on the sidelines and it was like I had two amps plugged into my years. I stood there listening like, “This is why it’s called Death Valley.” Do you have any advice for other parents? J: Let your kid be a kid, and be patient. ■

Quick Q&A

The parenting item I couldn’t live without…my wife. Justus loves his mommy! Favorite movie growing up…Howard the Duck and Maximum Overdrive. Music I’m loving…old school R&B and Zydeco. I feel my best when I…take a shower. My favorite television show is... Yellowstone. My favorite ice cream is...Cookies and Cream.

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LIVE EXCEPTIONAL LIVES

Finding Purpose After Abuse By Mari Walker

rowing up in Arnaudville, Louisiana, Twahna P. Harris always knew who she was. “I was never one who cared what people thought of me because I had my own identity,” she says. “I knew what I wanted to be in life, and I was driven.” That all changed when, as a 21-yearold college student, Harris found herself in a domestic abuse relationship. “I didn’t run to domestic violence, I woke up in it,” she says. “I would have never thought, and there it was one day, a slap across the face. And I was in total disbelief.” That slap led to mental, emotional and sexual abuse. Domestic violence, or intimate partner violence, is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship used by one partner 34

to gain or maintain power or control over the other. “I didn’t actually know what it was,” she says. “I didn’t trust anyone because I didn’t want to be judged.” However, she was able to share what she was going through with a cousin and eventually leave the abusive relationship. “I had a great support system, but not everyone is fortunate to have this,” Harris says. “I knew that I had a purpose for being here. I just lost what that purpose was because I was in such a dark place in my life.” Harris says she felt like she lost her purpose for three years. “I was determined to go and find it again,” she says. “And I found it.” In 2014, Harris channeled her experience to help others and founded

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The Butterfly Society, a volunteer-based, grassroots nonprofit dedicated to ending domestic violence in the Baton Rouge area. “I just knew that I had to give back. It was my duty to do whatever I could to help that next person to get through that,” says Harris, who serves as the society’s executive director and is legislative assistant for East Baton Rouge Metro Council member LaMont Cole. Harris has been married for 16 years and has a 13-yearold son. “They are such big cheerleaders of mine,” she says. “I have a very strong support system.” The Butterfly Society team is part of that support system with its volunteer board of directors. Using her story of domestic violence to help others “came together so well, perfectly like a puzzle. The pieces fit perfectly together,” she says. Domestic violence has long been seen as a private matter, one you discuss around the kitchen table. Harris and the Butterfly Society are working to change that, bringing the conversation to the community through events at churches, barber shops and schools. “We’re meeting people where they are, because where they are is where they’re hurting,” Harris says. “Domestic violence is not a very easy issue to discuss,” she says. “It’s happening and it’s closer than you know.” Harris encourages victims to “know that you’re not alone. If you’re going through it, tell someone. There’s someone out there that will listen. They will be your voice when you can’t speak for yourself.” The Butterfly Society provides resources and referrals to other services to help victims and families affected by domestic violence. Visit thebutterflysociety.org. ■

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Fear of speaking keeps many people from being heard.

LIVE FAITH

Give Your Marriage A Second Chance

By Elmo Winters, MBA, Founder of the Kingdom Group International, Inc.

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he first and probably most rewarding institution God created was marriage and the family. In Genesis 2:18, God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make a helper for him.” Man needed help to manage God’s creation, and the most suitable assistant for him was a woman, his wife. Thus, marriage was initiated, the union of a man and a woman as God’s most prized handiwork. This dynamic team of husband and wife still holds a special place in the heart of God today. With any successful team, and especially God’s team, each team member is a valuable partner. They bring differing, but harmonious characteristics to the group, in this case, the marriage. It is these unique features and qualities that produce success in the holy estate of matrimony. Good husbands and wives do not compete within the marriage, instead, they complement each other. A major cause of marital conflict that can lead to separation is the failure of partners to operate in their unique God-given roles in the relationship. One effective approach to strengthening a struggling or broken marriage is for both the husband and wife to understand and embrace his or her role in the union. God designed marriage to be complementary, not competitive. Each person in the union is to balance the other. This is the work of completing or equalizing each other, even to the point where opposite personalities attract. It is common to encounter strong extroverted individuals who find comfort and companionship in introverts. This opposite attracting may suggest that a spouse needs to “be fixed, corrected or improved upon.” Remember, only God can do this. It is never the role of one spouse to fix the other. Use your strengths to counteract your spouse’s weaknesses and allow the reciprocal to occur. Never demean, embarrass or disrespect your mate because he or she lacks your strengths. Keep in mind, you are a team, God’s team! A marriage is an exercise in teamwork. We must trust the One who built the team, it is imperative that a couple, “Trust in the Lord with all their hearts and lean not to their own understanding.” He sustains the team even in challenging times. ■

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LEARNING ABOUT EARLY EDUCATION

By Pamela Kleibrink Thompson

the name of the protagonist to your child’s name. Reading to your child is the best thing a parent can do for him. ▪ Building art smarts. Encourage your child to express himself with a variety of media. This activity will improve his hand-eye coordination and also helps to strengthen his hand and finger muscles. ▪ Discovering nature. Teach your child to use her senses, and she’ll learn to become a trained observer just like her favorite scientist.

parent of a precocious fouryear-old inquired, “How do you know when your child is ready for kindergarten?” Marvin Jacobson, author of Educating the Total Child: Straight from My Heart: Six Decades of Inspiring Children, Parents and Teachers, responded, “It depends on the child.” But, how does a parent assess their child, decide when to begin her formal education, and choose an appropriate school for her? Children learning doesn't start for them in kindergarten. “Early learning begins in the womb,” shares Lynn Carmouche, owner of The Learning Center in Baton Rouge. Parents are their child's first teacher. Early eye contact, hand holding, all interactions between a parent and child are critical to a child’s development. “Children are naturally curious,” notes Cynthia Fontcuberta DiCarlo, PhD, the Executive Director of the 38

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Early Childhood Education Laboratory Preschool at LSU. “Encourage your children to ask questions and explore.” DiCarlo believes it is detrimental to focus on academics in pre-kindergarten and preschool. “Don’t start with pencil and paper. Support what children are interested in. Read to them. Go to the library and the zoo. Learning opportunities are everywhere.” Parental interaction with their child– talking, singing, and playing rhyming games–helps stimulate language and vocabulary development, and builds important foundations for learning to read. Studies show that children with early education have stronger language, pre-mathematics, and social skills. How can you help your child get a good start? Make learning fun! Help your toddler develop a love of learning by: ▪ Reading aloud. If your child won’t sit still for the entire story, change

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Preschool can lay a good foundation. To find a good preschool, start searching several months before you want to enroll your child. You’ll want a preschool that is in a convenient location near your work or home, with operating hours that work with your schedule. Determine if you want a preschool with a religious affiliation, one that practices the Montessori teaching method, or any other specific preferences. Carmouche advises parents to ask about the education and training of teachers and management. “Watch the interactions between the children and adults. Look at the kids’ faces. Are they excited about learning? What kind of interactions are occurring between the children? Look for programs that allow physical activity. Early childhood education should encourage inquisitive thinking, the joy of learning new things.” Lindsey All, mother of a five and one year old, is “a research junkie. I read reviews online, read about the

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different options in Baton Rouge Parents Magazine, developed a set of interview questions of what was important to us, and interviewed a handful of schools. We looked for safety (qualifications of teachers, background checks, and CPR training for all faculty and staff), child/ teacher ratios, diversity, and curriculum.” All’s oldest daughter potty trained early, so she entered preschool when she was 22 months old. “She loved her teacher and class, however, she is also very small. Being the youngest child in class, and the smallest, seemed to be affecting her confidence. We decided to keep her in PreK an extra year before kindergarten. It was definitely the right decision. She has become a little leader, and she is very bright and confident, even though she is still the smallest child in her class.” Studies have shown that public preschool and pre-kindergarten classes often give children an advantage over those who do not attend preschool or prekindergarten classes. The report, The Current State of Scientific Knowledge on PreKindergarten Effects, found “that children attending a diverse array of state and school district PreK programs are more ready for school at the end of their PreK year than children who do not attend. Improvements in literacy and numeracy are most common.” The authors of the study discovered that “children who have had early experiences of economic scarcity and insecurity, gain more from these programs than their more advantaged peers.” The study also found that duallanguage learners “show relatively large benefits from PreK education.” Dr. DiCarlo believes that preschool should be compulsory, but that it must not stress academics exclusively to the children who attend. “Children need to learn how to negotiate social situations,” she says. All advises “Be your child’s advocate, and don’t settle if you are worried or uncomfortable. We decided to pull our daughter from two different daycares that made us uncomfortable before ultimately deciding to place her in preschool.” 40

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Preschool and pre-kindergarten classes should also include instruction on social and emotional skills; play; art, music and movement; toys; and games. All learning opportunities should benefit a child’s readiness for school. “Social skills are critical for learning,” states Carmouche. “Children need to learn how to interact with others.” Every child needs to be around other children, and away from mom or dad, before going to kindergarten. Sunday school, playgroup, and swimming lessons, also help develop social skills. Social interaction with peers and adults is key to kindergarten success. To determine whether to enroll your child in kindergarten, observe her or his behavior. Does she know how to get along with her classmates at preschool? Ask her preschool teacher whether she plays cooperatively with others and works out her differences on her own. Watch how your child interacts with peers on the playground, during playdates, or at birthday parties. Is he sitting on the sidelines? Attaching himself to you at group gatherings? While you are the best one to judge whether your child is ready for kindergarten, Louisiana law requires a child to be five years old by September 30 to attend kindergarten. A child may enter kindergarten at a younger age if he or she is identified as gifted. Children are required to attend kindergarten in Louisiana, and schools offer full day programs. If a child is four before September 30, he or she can attend PreK. Having your child evaluated for his or her readiness is also an option you have available if you're unsure. Children mature at different rates. Perhaps your child is physically mature but not emotionally mature enough to start school. If you feel your child is not ready for kindergarten, Louisiana has a program to evaluate your child, and the public schools offer programs to help children get ready. Carmouche sums it up, “If a child has the confidence to try new things, the sky’s the limit for his or her education.” ■

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When Visiting Preschools, Look For: A nurturing environment. Visit and observe the children. Are they happy? Engaged? A good preschool should have a welcoming, friendly atmosphere and invite you to become part of its community by helping with activities or accompanying the children on field trips. Speak to parents of current students, and ask their opinions. Clean, safe facilities. Is the building adequately heated, lit, and ventilated? Equipped with working smoke detectors, fire extinguishers, and first aid kits? Upstairs windows should have screens or bars. Radiators and heaters should be covered. Are all medicines and hazardous substances out of reach? Are toys and play equipment in good repair? Is the outdoor play area level and secure? Is access controlled so strangers can't just walk in off the street? A stimulating curriculum. Look for a program that encourages independence and inspires your child's individuality and creativity. Daily schedules should include physical activity, including time outdoors, group programs, individual activities, creative projects, meals, and free time. A well designed curriculum should stimulate your child's development, provide your child with the chance to try something new, and be adjusted to match each child's abilities and skill levels. A qualified, caring staff. Observe how the staff interacts with the children. Teachers should be well prepared, responsible, and enthusiastic. Does the preschool share your child care philosophy about naps, discipline, meals, and other care issues? Does the preschool have adequate staff to give your child the attention and care he needs? A preschool should have one teacher for every seven children to encourage interaction and development. Ask how long staff have been with the preschool. Low turnover is key to ensuring consistent and stable care for your child.

Established ground rules. Look for a school with a strict sick-child policy. Find out which illnesses mean your child has to stay home, and for how long. A good preschool helps minimize illness by requiring all children and employees to have current immunizations and regular checkups. What are the school's guidelines regarding food? If the school has a food plan, what does it serve at meal and snack times? Does the food plan encourage healthy eating habits? A preschool should have clearly established written procedures for everything from operating hours to how to handle emergencies. A current license. Ask to see a preschool's license, then double-check with a call to your local social services department. Look for a facility accredited by NAEYC, (National Association for the Education of Young Children) by searching the NAEYC database (naeyc.org). Preschools must meet state licensing regulations for health and safety. A license doesn’t guarantee quality—that's why you have to evaluate the school yourself. Top Readiness Skills for Kindergarten 1. Hold and use a pencil/scissors. 2. Be able to focus on an assignment. 3. Knows 11 basic colors. 4. Knows four to six basic shapes. 5. Write name without using a model (capitals okay). 6. Recite the alphabet and recognize at least 10 letters of the alphabet. 7. Identify rhyming words by listening to pairs of words. 8. Count to 10 and be able to recognize numbers 1-10. 9. Take care of own personal needs (wipe themselves after using the bathroom, button/snap pants, tie shoes, blow/wipe their nose). Did You Know? Kindergarten is mandatory in Arkansas, Connecticut, Delaware, Louisiana, Maryland, Nevada, New Mexico, Ohio, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Tennessee, Virginia and West Virginia. ■ AUGUS T 2019 | BRPA RENTS .COM

9 Surprising Ways To Find An Awesome Sitter

Cover Kid 2018-2019 Kylee H. Photo Credit: Melody Tauzin

By Pam Moore

have 20 sitters in my phone. My friends sometimes wonder how I've acquired so many. I sometimes wonder why my friends don’t have more. Babysitters are everywhere—if your eyes are open. Here are some places to find your next sitter. 1. The Internet I’m lucky to live in a college town, where the online university job board is free and available to the public. Other free ways to find childcare online include your local moms’ Facebook Group and Craigslist. One of my friends perused Craigslist’s childcare section on a whim and found one of the best nannies she’s ever hired. For a fee, there are plenty of services available. Popular sites like Care.com and SitterCity.com offer access to sitters in your area for a monthly fee. The Sitter app lets you find new sitters, add sitters 42

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you already know to your network, schedule, and pay your sitter via credit card. While it’s free to search and book sitters, under three of Sitter’s four membership tiers, you’re charged a percentage of your payment to the sitter. 2. On-Site Services Sometimes it’s easier to bring the kids to the childcare center, rather than bringing the childcare center to the kids. Services like Helpr can fill this need. Some races and triathlons even provide parents the convenience of dropping their children off by the start line, and the joy of seeing them cheer at the finish. Helpr can sometimes provide on-site childcare for special occasions, including weddings, corporate events, and conferences. 3. Through Friends Finding a sitter is like dating. While many

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hunt online, some prefer their potential sitter (or date) to be vetted by a friend. One of my best sitters was a friend of a friend. Though she had zero childcare experience, she had a fantastic character reference. I didn’t need a baby whisperer. I needed someone I could trust to follow instructions, and to be punctual and kind. Because of her relationship with my friend, I was (relatively) relaxed about returning to work after my maternity leave. 4. In Your Neighborhood Post a message in your neighborhood email list, Facebook group, on Nextdoor, or tack a “help wanted” note to a physical bulletin board. If those fail, take a walk in your neighborhood with your kiddo(s). If anyone so much as smiles in your direction, introduce yourself and ask if they or anyone they know would be interested and available to watch your little angels.

5. Restaurants While you may have the Happy Hour menu at the forefront of your mind, the quest for potential sitters should always be in the back of it. Barring a creepy vibe, be ready to strike up a conversation with anyone who throws a peek-a-boo, a silly face, or a wink in your kids’ direction. Be open to anyone who offers a sympathetic smile when your kid throws food or a tantrum. If you’re shy, know you're doing this for yourself and for your children. One year, we found one of our best sitters sitting at the next table over, enjoying a margarita on Cinco de Mayo. 6. The Park Be on the lookout for anyone with kids who appears well rested and patient; this should limit your chance of mistakenly targeting another parent instead of a sitter or nanny. While the person in question may already be employed as a nanny, you never know what her situation is. Perhaps her employer is about to relocate, or she needs a few extra hours. Wear dark sunglasses if you feel more comfortable eavesdropping behind them. If the nanny seems responsible, kind, and more interested in the little ones in her charge than

her phone, go for the ask. Worst case, she turns you down. 7. Traveling? Ask the Hotel Maybe you’re traveling with your kids for an adult-only wedding, or you want to enjoy dinner at a place with tablecloths on your vacation. You are not alone. Many resorts have a list of names to share with their guests. When our eldest was eight months old, we traveled to Aspen for our friends’ wedding, where we rented a VRBO. One quick phone call to the wedding venue (a hotel), yielded multiple phone numbers of local preschool teachers. The first one we called was available, and she turned out to be awesome. Some hotels even offer centers within the hotels that allow you to drop off your children for a few hours while you go out. 8. Your Kid’s Preschool or Gym’s Childcare The caregivers at the gym childcare or your child’s preschool may be looking for extra hours. A major plus is that you and your kids already know them. If you go this route, you save yourself the initial interview, in which you determine that the caregiver is neither sketchy nor flaky. As

a bonus, the gym or childcare facility has probably already completed a background check on them. 9. Gymnastics Class Music, dance, art, swimming lessons, and karate are also options. If your child is enrolled in an activity, consider asking the instructor if he or she is available for babysitting. Such instructors tend to be great with kids, and many are students who would love to earn extra income through babysitting. And if it doesn’t work out, keep an open mind. My daughter’s gymnastics instructor was happy to watch our kids, but she wasn’t available on the date I needed. She introduced me to her roommate, who ended up being a great fit for our family. The world is full of babysitters. Your next sitter could be the hostess who chats up your preschooler as she sets the crayons and the kids’ menu down, or the friendly lady working the front desk of your gym. (True story: I have found sitters in both of these situations). They say when the student is ready, the master will appear. I say, when the parents need a few hours to themselves and start thinking outside the box, the sitters will appear. ■

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Fostering Parent-Teacher Partnerships with Technology By Pamela Labbe

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Sherburne shares that her school provides Chromebooks for student use as part of the curriculum. For use in the classroom, teachers use an app called Dojo, which tracks the children’s behavior and provides a means of communication with parents. Each class is equipped with a digital whiteboard and panels, and parents have access to Gradebook online. She explains, “They have a code, so they can see the name of the assignment, how many points the assignment is worth, and when it is due.” Myers agrees that teachers should alert parents when their children are struggling–academically, socially or behaviorally. “It’s just as critical for a parent to alert a teacher if she thinks her child is having trouble. It’s good to ask what resources are available, if they aren’t being offered already. If you discover that resources exist but weren’t offered, then that’s a red flag.” Regarding technology-related means of communication, Myers believes that there are almost too many ways to get feedback from school, referring to the teacher websites, the school app, and EBR's online portal and automated phone system. While technology is great, Myers says it is no substitute for face-to-face interaction. “WHAM’s administration and Parent/Teacher Organization do a great job of hosting programs for the whole family,” including STEM nights, picnics in the garden, work days on the playground, and year-round community building events. “By the time your child has gone through two grade levels, you’ll know most of the parents and their children. Many parents exchange information to compare notes on homework, deadlines, and all the nitty gritty that gets lost through the cracks,” Myers explains.

ostering Millie’s sense of curiosity is important to her parents. “If Millie expresses an interest, we let her investigate it and see what new ideas are sparked along the way,” says Sharla Myers about her youngest daughter, a rising second-grader at Westdale Heights Academic Magnet (WHAM), a public school in Baton Rouge. In support of Millie’s newfound interest (her mother says she is obsessed with Jane Goodall), her family’s Florida vacation included a special trip to Monkey Jungle in Miami. “There she was, surrounded by spider monkeys, feeding them and making monkey noises to ‘talk’ to them,” Myers says. “She’ll never forget that experience.” Myers says her role towards her daughter’s education is “to establish a consistent routine” while serving as Millie’s advocate when the workload becomes overwhelming. Meanwhile, she believes the roles of teachers are to introduce and explain new material, building on what the students have previously learned, while ensuring that no students fall behind. “Too much of a gap between those two things, and the students are go44

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ing to really struggle,” Myers says. “Good teachers find different ways to introduce the new material, because their students have so many different learning styles.” Intertwining Parents' and Teachers' Roles While not everyone perceives the roles of parent and teacher the same way, prior studies have linked parental effort with higher levels of student achievement. In fact, parent-teacher collaboration is important, especially when it comes to the educational success of children, so to promote good relationships with parents, the U.S. Department of Education suggests that new teachers maintain communication with parents. East Baton Rouge Parish Schools currently have systems that work in building parent-teacher relationships, including holding open house nights and parentteacher conferences. “Unfortunately, only the first one is mandatory, but we encourage parents to attend,” says Joanne Sherburne, a fourth-grade EBR public school teacher. This allows parents to see their child’s classroom and meet the teachers.

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Challenges Facing Collaborative Efforts in School Regardless of the existing opportunities for parent-teacher collaboration, some circumstances make collaboration more challenging. Sherburne teaches in a typical EBR public school, which includes mostly low-income neighborhoods with working-class parents, single parent households, and sometimes, grandparents who are raising the children. She recalls instances of transportation issues, parental work schedules and one-parent households that have often interfered with parental involvement. “For some parents, the lack of opportunities to know what is going on cause them to not come,” Sherburne says. “I’m dealing with a population that has a lot of negative things going on in their lives, and this affects them and their parents. There are a lot of factors that are at play. For instance, keeping up with technology might be more difficult for the grandparents, and they already have a lot on their plates. In my opinion, it isn’t that they don’t want to, but they are lacking resources,” Sherburne shares. Language barriers need to be overcome. Even in fourth grade, students enroll at Sherburne’s school each year without the ability to speak a word of English. And often, the parents at home speak only their native language. “If the child doesn’t speak English, they can’t even translate for the parents. And the handouts we send home are only in English,” Sherburne says. Sherburne shares that the public school system offers a lot to parents and students to support them in many ways, including ELL (English Language Learners), autistic programs, ESS (Exceptional Student Services) and IEP, in which students receive special accommodations for testing in the regular classroom. IEP works in close collaboration with parents. “Very often from my experience, these accommodations have saved the child’s life, and parents are always so grateful. When given acommodations, a child who was failing with us every year, suddenly, everything turned around for him. He became more confident,” Sherburne says. “Unfortunately, we’ve had some situations where we’ve told the parents their child needs accommodations and they refuse for fear of their child being labeled, but this is not common.” AUGUS T 2019 | BRPA RENTS .COM

Communication is even more important in the face of challenges Another Baton Rouge parent, Maria Yiannopoulos, has two daughters–a recent college graduate and a senior at Dutchtown High School. She notes a real difference in the parochial/private and public school systems, especially when it comes to handling and teaching kids who are living with special needs. “Communication is the key to success to the career of any student,” Yiannopoulos says. “But the communication I’m talking about is between the parent and the educator. The more educators and administrators know about the challenges that a child faces, the better.” Regarding her daughter’s progress, she says, “I have seen her go from doubting herself and her abilities to her understanding that she is very capable. She is mainstreamed, and she has learned to live with ADHD and Asperger’s.” Not long after being displaced by Hurricane Katrina, Yiannopoulos’s daughter was diagnosed with ADHD and Asperger’s Syndrome. “No one in the Baton Rouge parochial system knew how to deal with those two combinations, so

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communications broke down between the schools and me,” she says. Yiannopoulos found herself at a loss when representatives from one parochial school told her they could not accommodate her daughter, suggesting they “go elsewhere.” “Technology has been the biggest Godsend to parents and educators, especially for working parents with questions,” she says. “FaceTime or Skype allows communication to take place to address the concerns together. It’s been a win-win.” Yiannopoulos shares that using Google Classroom allows her to go online with her daughter to look at her assignments. “I see everything that’s going on, everything that she has posted, and if she’s not following through and there’s a reprimand. If she’s not submitting her work, I get to hear why she is not doing this. And then I can understand better,” she says. “It is an incredible collaborating tool, the technology that we have now. It really does take a whole village to educate a kid.” Importance of parental involvement and voluntarism As a stay-at-home mom, Myers served as a room parent for each of her daughters,

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finding a high level of expectations and commitment time at certain schools. “At many other public schools, room parents do not exist. When I was still working, I’d try to pop in at lunchtime,” Myers says. “I could have a quick chat with the teacher, or ask if there were any supplies that I could send her way.” Myers notes that Southdowns Elementary, where Millie attended PreK, focuses on children with special needs and features two PreK inclusion classes. “Millie was more than academically prepared for a magnet kindergarten by the end of that year, but more importantly, she learned at a young age to be inclusive and empathetic toward children who are not the same as she,” Myers shares. As a parent, Myers knows and believes that, at the end of the day, making sure her child receives the best education possible throughout her years of schooling is ultimately her responsibility. “It’s up to me to be involved, to make informed choices, and to be responsive to her needs, as well to those of her teacher and school,” she says. “And if the school isn’t meeting my daugher's needs, then it’s up to me to explore other options.” ■

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ACTIVE-SHOOTER DRILLS AT SCHOOL

By Jannean Dixon

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ommy, all of my friends at school don’t fit in the closet in our classroom.” Kate said this as such an offhand comment that I almost missed it. When I asked why everyone was trying to fit into the closet, the answer occurred to me even as she was explaining. “In case a bad guy comes to our school and wants to hurt us.” Emotions hit me like waves. I was angry that my innocent little five year old had to practice smushing into a closet at what is supposed to be a safe place for kids, her kindergarten classroom. Then, I was upset that the school had not communicated this drill to the parents so that I could have prepared her in my own way. Then, I was grateful for the school and teachers who would risk everything to save the children in their care. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), one billion children worldwide will face violence this year. The WHO document, School-Based Violence Prevention, identifies schools

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as a leading environment for conducting violence prevention efforts. Why are these drills important? Do you know how many school shootings have occurred so far this year? I didn’t. As of this publication, there have been 14 school shootings with injuries or deaths in 2019, according to Education Week. In 2018, there were 24 school shootings which resulted in 79 people being injured and the death of 35. “Hearing about school shootings is so common now. I’m not sure if kids are just desensitized to it,” comments local high school teacher Scarlett T. “It’s interesting that government buildings and airports are often more protected than where our kids are every day. As a teacher, I am keenly aware that it could also happen to us. It’s something teachers definitely think about.” Teachers do struggle with the realities of today’s classrooms. Emily Z. shares, “Wording is very carefully chosen. It’s a calm setting where we practice in the

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classroom as a lockdown drill.” She also shares her fears. “People tend to not realize or notice or know that today’s classrooms are jam packed, 34 kids, sometimes more. I’d take a bullet for any child, any time, any school, and without a moment’s hesitation. That’s not the part I struggle with...that’s the easy part. “Today’s classrooms are much fuller than in the past, and that is a huge responsibility on one person for all of those tiny lives. En Loco Parentis is a Latin phrase I learned early on in college. It means ‘in place of the parent.’ During each school day, I am expected to care for children with the amount of love and effort that any mother would show her child. That’s a lot when you realize that 34 students are in there! It’s a huge commitment, but the absolute most rewarding job, so I wanted to make sure I was doing all that I could,” she says. Emily then went on to explain that she went and got additional training to empower herself to empower and protect her students. What are our kids experiencing? There are so many factors that affect how students are impacted by practicing active-school shooter drills. Mental health counselor Tara Dixon shares, “Students come to school with a variety of experiences that may affect how they perceive these drills. Students who come from a violent home or community environment may respond differently

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than a student who feels safe in his or her home. Active-shooter school drills may serve to heighten some students’ fears and anxieties, but they also may help other students to feel empowered that there is a plan.” Local mom Chelsey R. mirrors Dixon’s comments, “When I look at it through my autistic son’s eyes, I feel it’s both. He already has extreme fear and anxiety about many things and being harmed at school is one. However, he has also made comments numerous times about how grateful he is to know how to handle a situation, like a shooting, should he be placed in that situation.” I happened to be in a PreK classroom when the announcement came over the loudspeaker that the school was in active lockdown. The teacher sprang to action, directing her four year olds to go quickly under her desk and sit down, reminding them that she was going to turn off the lights. She didn’t have to lock the door because it is standard protocol to keep classroom doors locked at all times at her school already. She turned off the lights and the room was plunged into absolute darkness. Several students were afraid of the dark and started to cry and ask for the lights to be turned back on. The teacher whispered to the children to be very quiet, like when they play hide and seek, but for some little ones, the fear of the darkness was too much. “When talking to my students about our class emergency plan, and even when practicing, they don’t seem overly phased, not even my first graders,” shares teacher Haley N. “I tried to say we were practicing in case there was a stranger on campus once, and one of my first-graders very matter of factly announced to the class, ‘Yep, cause if there’s a stranger, he might have a gun and then he will shoot us and we all will die.’ Then, the rest of the class chimed in with, ‘Yeah, that’s right,’ ‘He might shoot everyone,’ ‘Mrs. N. would kill him first,’ and ‘He would think we are at P.E. cause we hide so well!’ It was just a regular morning conversation to them. It’s horrible that this is our children’s normal now.” Teacher Hanna B. reports split emotions in her fourth grade classroom. 50

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“It is a good thing to practice, so that the kids know what to expect if something were to happen. But, it freaks some of them out since it feels real to them.” Older students often have much more of a sense of understanding about activeshooter drills. Scarlett T. shares, “I think some students feel like we are sitting ducks. They think we should run.” At her school, the protocol is to lock the doors, cover the windows, and stay down. “But, some students don’t seem to think about the drills as much.” High school teacher and mom, Layla D., shares, “I think students’ reactions to active shooter drills have changed drastically during my time as a teacher. When we first started performing these drills early in my career, the students took them much more seriously. Some were even anxious and asked many questions about the proper way to behave in these scenarios. However, now the students have a more blasé attitude toward the drill.” Lauren, Layla’s teen daughter adds, “I feel like they are a very necessary drill to have because of the increase in school shootings in the past few years. It may scare some students and some may not take the drills seriously, but I think it is a very important way to help prevent deaths if this situation were to actually occur.” Is there school and teacher training? The teacher’s demeanor and level of training for such drills, as well as the age of the students, make a huge difference in how the drill is perceived. In the WHO School-Based Violence Prevention handbook, the following are listed as criteria for developing a violence prevention curriculum: keep materials and information age-appropriate, use active participation to help students learn the material, use capable and motivated teachers who have been well trained, review the curriculum often with feedback from students and teachers, and work to ensure that the materials used are culturally relevant. Some local schools use code phrases to indicate the start of an active-school shooter drill, while others announce, “We are in active lockdown. Please follow all

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lockdown procedures.” Some teachers are trained in the exact protocol, while others seem as in the dark as the students at times. Local elementary teacher, Lindsay H., shares, “We never practiced activeshooter drills. Our ‘plan’ was to run, if possible, or huddle up behind desks away from the windows.” How can parents help? Many teachers want parents to know that they are an important part of practicing for school emergencies and preparing their children emotionally for what might be practiced at school. Local teacher Timothy C. shares, “Parents should speak with their young children about it before they release their children into the care of others. As a teacher, if it is my job to protect your child with my own life, and they do not understand their own role is survival, then it is my job to educate them so that we all have a better chance of surviving. Bad dreams are scary but not real, but drive-by and school shootings are real. Please speak with your child first if you do not want him or her learning about it first at school.” Talk to your child’s school about the drills that your child will practice, then talk to your child. Start the conversation with open-ended questions such as, “How did it make you feel to practice getting under the desks?” Validate your child’s feelings and avoid the temptation to brush off his or her's fears and concerns. Ask your child what questions he or she might have about the drills at school and answer the questions in an honest, age appropriate way. Remind your child that he or she can come to you with additional questions or concerns at any time. If your child seems withdrawn, anxious, or fearful of school or schoolrelated events; begins having schoolrelated nightmares; or you notice changes in your child’s academic performance or friends he or she spends time with, consider reaching out to a local mental health professional. Providing your child with information can help to alleviate his or her fears regarding these drills, and also give you, as a parent, some peace of mind, too. ■

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SPOUSE OR ROOMMATE?

By Stacey Winconek

hen the romance has dwindled and the stress of kids and everyday life has ramped up, it’s easy for couples to fall into a pattern where they feel more like business partners than life mates. How can you get back on track? Before we became a couple 11 years ago, my husband and I were browsing at the mall when I stumbled on a pair of pink heart earrings I really wanted. I didn’t have the extra cash, though, so I put them back and walked away. Days later, before he left for a European trip, we met for coffee and he handed me a gift: It was those same earrings I’d been eyeing in the mall. “I knew you liked these, so I went back and got them for you,” he said. I smiled. It was one of the sweetest things anyone had ever done for me–and among the many reasons I fell in love with him at age 19. The earliest stage of a romantic relationship is heart fluttering. It’s when couples are most thoughtful and engaged. 52

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It’s when you really get to know each other. Every moment together is magic. But that era, and the passion that comes with it, is fleeting. As the years go by, the intensity fades into something different. For us–after five years of marriage under our belts and a baby at home–it has faded into conversations about housework and child care duties. At the end of most days, we’re sitting on separate couches, staring at our phones, barely speaking. The thrill, as they say, is gone. And that’s not uncommon for couples. In fact, coping with those changes is often a reason they seek therapy. Dr. Christine Belaire, LPC, LMFT, NCC of Belaire Counseling Services, says, “As relationships go through stages and life happens, stressors can pile up, and it’s important to learn how to cope with those stressors.” More couples experience this than you realize, says Joe Kort, a sex and relationship therapist and founder of the Center for Relationship and Sexual Health. “Couples don’t talk about it,

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which is why people don’t talk about it,” Kort says. “It’s embarrassing.” However, it’s also reality–particularly once the little ones arrive. “It often happens, and it’s normal that it happens after you have children,” Kort says. “You’re up all night, you’re tired,” and moms don’t have much left for their husbands. “Now, you feel like brother and sister.” Talk about a relationship shift. There’s hope, though, for couples whose relationships have “cooled” and connections are crumbling. Here are five ways to reconnect with your spouse. 1. Stop phubbing. Are you scrolling through your Facebook feed or texting instead of talking to your partner? Then, you’re “phubbing”–aka snubbing someone with your phone. While it’s easy to blame technology, devices aren’t entirely the whole problem for couples. “It’s not the technology,” Kort says. “It’s the way the technology is being used.” So, set boundaries around your phone usage.

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“Make it clear to your partner: ‘I’m going to be on my phone for a little bit,’” Kort says. Allow your partner that time on his phone–whether it’s 30 minutes or one hour–without giving him grief for it. After that time, make an agreement that, for example, after 8 p.m., you’ll both put your phones away for the night. 2. Nix the kid talk. “When did the baby last eat?” “Did you help Ava with her science project?” “Am I driving Ryan to practice?” As parents, it’s easy to fall into the pattern of talking solely about your kids, but there has to be more to your conversations than your child. Dr. Belaire adds, “While there aren’t particular topics, you should talk about what brings both of you pleasure. You should be remembering what brought you two together.” Instead, a Women’s Health article titled, 6 Things You and Your Partner Should Talk About Every Day suggests couples talk about their goals (both professionally and personally), discuss their plans for the future, and even chat about their health. 3. Do stuff together. Kick it old school and spend time together–just the two of you. “They should be making time for each other separate from the kid,” Kort says. Sometimes, people do that by laying side by side in bed on Sunday morning, he says, or by talking on the phone when they are away from each other. Or, book a babysitter and go do something. “Focus on having an enjoyable time together. It’s easier to pick things to do if you have similar interests, but if you don’t, you just have to be more creative when deciding what to do. Trade off on who picks what to do, that way you have give and take. You need to be able to conscientiously say, ‘I’m enjoying this time with you,’” says Dr. Belaire. 4. Create a mutual vision. Whether it’s division of household chores, child care responsibilities or intimacy, every person has expectations for what he or she thinks he or she should be getting out of the marriage. If your expectations don’t align, Kort encourages couples to do 54

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“mutual vision” homework to help them share those expectations. “They go home and she writes down her vision of what she wants in a relationship, and he writes down his vision,” he says. This method is based on information from Harville Hendrix’s 1988 book, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. To do this, couples work separately to write down sentences for nonnegotiables and desires. When writing your vision for your relationship, focus on different areas: sex and romance, finances, communication, parenting, in-laws, leisure activities and work. Once you’ve both created your vision, sit down together to create a vision you can both agree on. “Post your relationship vision where you see it daily. Read (it) together with your partner once a week, check if you are on target–this will help you make daily choices that will turn your vision into a reality,” notes The Local, an Austrian website, in a post on Hendrix’s approach. “Update and tweak your relationship vision once a year to fit your current needs.” 5. Get help. “Couples can do better if they address things early. They can learn new communication strategies which can help address issues and be beneficial,” says Dr. Belaire. And, couples sould know that a therapist’s main goal is to help couples work through their conflict and find ways to reconnect emotionally and physically– not prepare for divorce. Even if you’re the one in the couple who doesn’t think there’s a problem in your relationship–or you’re afraid to seek therapy because you don’t know what’s going to happen, or you feel it will force the two of you to break up–you should still make the effort to see a therapist if that’s what your partner wants. It's crucial to open that line of communication with your partner and hear his or her side. “It’s important for him then to validate and hear her experience–why it feels like a problem for her,” Kort says. “To help her resolve the problem, he has to be part of the solution.”

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Intentional Dialogue with Imago If you feel like you’re speaking different languages, Imago Therapy may help. The brainchild of Dr. Harville Hendrix, best-selling author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, Imago helps establish a “couple’s dialogue” to address certain issues and behaviors. It’s something sex and relationship expert Joe Kort does with his clients at the Center for Relationship and Sexual Health. “It’s a great couples tool,” he says. “One partner is the ‘sender,’ the other partner is the ‘receiver’–and they are forced into one of them listening and one of them talking at a time.” If you’re the sender, you’ll first ask for some “couple’s dialogue” time. Once your partner agrees, you then tell him or her what is bothering you–using “I” statements. For example, you might say, “I am feeling overwhelmed and frustrated around the house because I feel like I’m always tidying up, and in particular, I feel like I’m tidying up after you.” Once the sender is done with her statement, the receiver mirrors and validates what his partner said. If the receiver misses the mark, the sender will then clarify the statement. After that, the receiver should try to empathize with his partner, and as the Imago website notes, “evoke that emotional, compassionate side” of himself. This way of speaking isn’t always easy for everyone, Kort says. “It’s a mechanical way of talking. Nobody likes it, but it works.” And it’s not permanent, he adds. “You’ll tailor it to the way that works best for you.” Kort suggests inviting your partner to change his or her behavior in positive, measurable and specific ways. Instead of saying, “Stop doing this” or “Don’t do this,” say, “I’d like you to say this” or “I’d like you to do this.” To see a video of couple’s dialogue in action, visit imagorelationships.org. Originally printed in Metro Parent Magazine. ■

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I’m Not Spoiling Them, I’m Playing the Long Game By Brandon Foreman

like technology, and I use it everyday and any way I can. As you may know, my house is fully automated, from the AC to the lights to everything in between. I have done it all with the help of my little people. We have changed light switches and run wire over the years, all in a little project here and there. We have a great time doing this, and I do hope they are learning something. I think they need to learn how to change a light switch or outlet and run cables in their own homes. So, what is the outcome of all of this for us? We get the fun of the automated home that lets them talk to Alexa to turn off the lights, raise or lower the AC, and even turn the fireplace on or off. Now some of this, and even I have said this, may be spoiling them or making them lazy. Just the other day, I told one of my boys that he left the light on in his room, and the first thing he did was yell, “Alexa, turn off boys’ light,” and smiled at me and walked off without another word. I couldn’t help but laugh and wonder, “What have I done?” Then, I thought about it for a while and came to the conclusion that it’s not spoiling them (maybe a little), but if my six year old can help me pull wire and knows how to change light switches and outlets and basic electrical principles, he is much better off. I think it’s great for them to learn this, sweat, and do the work themselves and/or at least see their dad doing the work instead of calling someone to do it for them. Too many times now, we just say, “There’s an app for that,” and there is, but rather than just passing it off to someone else to do the work, do it yourself with your little one. It’s fun and teaches them that they don’t always need to call someone else, and you get to spend time together not sitting on the couch. Oh yeah, the long game part…I’m waiting for the day when they call home and complain about their apartments and how they have to get up and turn the lights off and manually do everything. ■ 58

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FROM THE MOUTHS OF DADS

I watch my daughter wanting to be like other kids and getting upset that she’s not. But I always try and instill in her the idea that she’s perfect as she is.” —Idris Elba

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Joey F. and his son, Campbell, both know that traveling by shoulders is the best.

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PLAY GET OUT OF TOWN

JACKSON HOLE

Wyoming

THINGS TO DO

BEFORE YOU GO

Coordinates | 43.4799° N, 110.7624° W Baton Rouge to Jackson Hole | 1,729.0 miles Driving Time | 26 hours Why Jackson Hole? | With warm days and cool nights, Jackson Hole is the perfect location for a family trip before it’s time for back to school. While it’s a good drive away, there’s blooming wildflowers, fly-fishing, biking, rock climbing, rafting, and horseback riding for everyone in the family to enjoy. It will also do everyone some good to get out and stretch those muscles, especially after being cooped up inside for so long while attempting to escape from the summer heat in Louisiana.

WHERE TO STAY

Near Jackson’s Town Square, The Lodge at Jackson Hole is only a short scenic drive to Yellowstone and Teton National Parks. This recently remodeled hotel offers 154 rooms and suites that feature modern amenities enveloped in comfort. Each room offers comfortable bedding, 51 inch Plasma 3D HDTVs, Blu-ray players, an iHome docking station, and a large desk with a built-in electronic hub.

WHERE TO EAT

Pinsetter Restaurant Located in Hole Bowl, the Pinsetter Restaurant features tasty foods that will go over well with the kiddos. You can eat while you bowl, or you can just visit them for the food. Dine in on the burgers, flatbread pizzas, wings, or the delicious soups and salads. Rendezvous Bistro While the tables don white linen table cloths, each table comes complete with paper and crayons for the younger ones in your crew. This restaurant is for everyone, and it includes French-American fare, including sandwiches, seafood, burgers, and chicken. White Buffalo Club Make it a date night for you and your special someone while on your vacation at the White Buffalo Club. This cozy, speakeasy-style restaurant is Jackson’s only certified USDA Prime Steak House, and it offers small plates of fresh seafood and fish options. This can’t miss stop is even home to the best burger in town. 60

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Want to see some wildlife in a unique way? Or are you interested in riding the rapids? Either way, you’ll want to climb aboard a raft for some familyfriendly rafting. Dave Hansen River Trips provide safe, fun, and exciting whitewater and scenic river trips for children and adults, ages 6-96. Explore the valley while on horseback. Whether you prefer a short ride or an all day trip, you’ll be able to soak in all of the beauty that Jackson Hole has to offer, even if it’s your first time riding. And besides, as they say, “no trip to Jackson Hole is complete without embracing the Cowboy States’ favorite pastime.” Reach new heights with your family when you ride the tram. The Aerial Tram brings you to the “top of the world,” where you can enjoy great hiking and running trails, climbing, and maybe even a snowball fight. Make it a grand adventure at Grand Adventure Park. Loaded with adventure and family fun, you can spend the entire day mountain biking, riding the tram, tackling the ropes course, or climbing the rock wall. The Park is within walking distance from the nearby free parking lots, so you won’t have to worry about bringing extra cash. Take in all the knowledge you can at Alive@Five. These free, educational programs are geared toward families, and they include visiting raptors and experts on wildlife and ecology. The programs take place on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays, but be sure to check the calendar before planning your evening. Put on your dancing shoes and enjoy the view while listening to great tunes at all of the incredible outdoor concerts. Jackson Hole Live sets up shop at the base of Snow King in downtown Jackson, and Concerts on the Commons hosts touring bands in Teton Village. All concerts are free, but be sure to pack a picnic. If you need a fun way to cool off the little ones, you’ll want to pop on over to the Pop Jets. Located in the Village Commons, the Pop Jets are fountains that feature water that shoots up in varying locations and intervals. Similar to a splash pad, Pop Jets will have your little ones ready to play all day. Get outdoors for even more exploring with your family when you pedal your way around Jackson Hole. The Jackson Hole Community Pathway system allows you and your family to travel around the valley, through the town of Jackson, Wilson, Teton Village, and Grand Teton National Park. ■

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Send a note for your little scholar in his lunchbag with these ScratchOff Lunchbox Notes. Write your message, cover it with the scratchoff sticker provided, and scratch to reveal your hidden message. ■ klingspaperie.com

Make sure your phone stays charged with the Anker PowerCore+ mini 3350. This lipstick-shaped charger is compatible with Apple and Android smartphones, tablets, and some GPS and Bluetooth devices. ■ anker.com

Keep up with your kiddos’ practices and appointments this school year with this dry erase weekly calendar magnetic board. The Black Fluorescent Dry Erase Weekly Calendar Magnetic Board makes it easy for every family member to always stay on track. ■ overstock.com

Pack up your snacks, and keep them from touching, with the BlenderBottle GoStak Starter 4 Pak. These stackable containers can be locked together with a simple turn, and they’re even dishwasher safe. ■ blenderbottle.com

Take a photo of your children holding the First and Last Day of School Reusable Chalkboard Sign to commemorate their first and last days of school. ■ amazon.com 62

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Personalize your computer or laptop with these adorable Keyboard Stickers from DubuDumo on Etsy. They’re easy-to-apply, and they will add a personal touch to your computer, while also making your keyboard pop. ■ etsy.com

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PLAY MOMS ONLY kids around all summer to art classes and camps, and it is time to take a breather. What do you have left to do to get ready for the first day of school? GO SCHOOL SHOPPING ▪ We usually start with haircuts! Between swimming and the sun, we are all in need at the end of summer. ▪ New socks and shoes are a must. For the girls, we always have fun getting new bows! Bows can be very expensive, so one of our favorite places to get bows is at Buck Up. ▪ We love the shoes at Journeys. They consistently offer coupons and discounts in the mail, and Journeys also has great options for backpacks and lunch boxes! Other places that we like to get backpacks and lunch boxes are Amazon, of course; Justice, for the girls; and Target.

Back to School with Jami & Katrina

Congrats, you did it! You made it through another blistering hot, Louisiana Summer! Here’s to trading in pool parties and BBQs for book reports and PB&Js for lunch. School is about to be back in session! That means, summer is officially over. You have been shuffling your

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STOCK UP ON SUPPLIES School supplies that you would typically find at Target or Walmart are absolutely at the Dollar General for less! If you have multiple children, or if you’re ballin’ on a budget, we suggest sticking to the Dollar General. There really isn’t a difference. Costco is a great place to shop in bulk, especially for classroom supplies like paper towels, Kleenex, and Lysol wipes. In addition, Dollar General is still a great place to buy those sort of supplies, as well as through Amazon. Some schools have even started offering package deals where you go to the local pharmacy or store and pay a certain amount of money, and they will hand you a box with everything your kid needs for his or her grade. This is what we are doing this year. START SOME BACK-TO-SCHOOL TRADITIONS WITH YOUR KIDS ▪ It’s time for one last hurrah with the kiddeauxs, and we like to spend the day in Biloxi and go shopping at the outlet mall.

We also enjoy having one last day at the beach to relax. ▪ When school starts back up, it seems like we never have time for snowballs anymore, so we like to have snowballs before the season is up, too. ▪ And, just like all kids in the summer, we let ours stay up late. However, during the last two weeks, we try to get them into more of a sleeping routine before school starts, so they aren’t miserable when it starts back. TAKE BACK-TO-SCHOOL PICS You can get a really great camera on Amazon or Best Buy! Both places offer package deals to bring out the average person’s inner photog! Last year, our little ones were really into the Polaroid cameras, and you can do so much with those Polaroid photos now. The accessories are endless and are very on trend right now. Truthfully, your iPhone will do a fantastic job of taking photos, and portrait mode is a game changer. Some of our favorite apps for editing are Colorstory, Picsart, and Huji. STAY SANE ▪ It’s very important to stay social, whether it’s brunch with your friends or just going to see a movie. It’s always nice to separate mom time and girlfriend time. ▪ Exercise and self-care are so important to your mental health. Moms, you know you feel like a new woman after you leave the salon with a fresh new blowout. ▪ If you’re open to splurging a little bit, retail therapy is one of our favorite options. Back to school time also means it’s time to switch to more Fall appropriate, staple items. ▪ Binge-watching something with our friends in our PJs and drinking wine will also always be a good time. HAVE A GREAT SCHOOL YEAR!

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6 GREAT Back-To-School By Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

Dictionary.com Available at Apple App Store; Google Play If there’s one thing that all kids need for their schoolwork, it’s a dictionary. Gone are the days of the paper-bound tomb you had to carry around in your backpack. Now, you’ll have a much easier time teaching them the joys of looking up and learning new words by having them download Dictionary.com. It’s the largest dictionary app in English, offering more than two million definitions and synonyms, and it has other useful features like voice search (if they don’t know the correct spelling of a word) and audio pronunciations (which can teach them the proper pronunciation of words).

Duolingo Available at Apple App Store; Google Play Most schools across the country require students to learn a language other than English. Duolingo is a great supplement to the foreign language instruction your kids receive at school. 66

The app, which offers lessons in more than 30 major languages, teaches them how to speak, read, and write another language. The lessons are divided into modules that practice specific skills, and they can assess how much they’ve learned as they go along, or when they’ve completed a module.

Flashcards with Cram Available at Apple App Store; Google Play When your kids sit down to study, one of the best study tools is flashcards. Flashcards with Cram lets them access more than eight million flashcards on all the major school subjects. They can also create their own flashcards, using both text and images, and share those flashcards with study partners. They can go through entire sets of flashcards when they study for a test or exam, or hide flashcards they already know for more effective studying. They can also have the flashcard read out loud to them, which is useful if they’re auditory learners.

Homework App Available at Apple App Store; Google Play Homework! The thing kids dread the most after a long day at

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upport your child’s learning– whether he’s in elementary, middle, or high school–with these six great apps. They’re all free, so encourage your son or daughter to download as many of them as possible as he or she heads back to school this fall.

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school. But, it doesn’t have to be that way. The award-winning Homework App makes it easy for them to stay on top of all of their homework assignments. They can view their assignments by day, month, and year; color code different subjects; take photos of assignments and break them down into many sub-tasks; and set reminders so they don’t end up submitting their assignments late.

Photomath Available at Apple App Store; Google Play Some students find math easy, others very difficult. However, they’d all find Photomath to be a great study tool. All they need to do is take a picture of a math problem with their phones, and the app will automatically show step-by-step instructions on how to solve the problem. The app has a built-in calculator and can even understand handwritten math problems. Obviously, they should try to solve the problems themselves first and then check their answers against the app.

Moment–Screen Time Tracker Available at Apple App Store; Google Play One of kids’ biggest distractions, especially when they’re doing homework, is the constant buzzing of their phones. If you want them to withstand the temptation to constantly check them, have them download Moment–Screen Time Tracker. This app lets them track how much time they spend on their phones every day, and more importantly, lets them set daily limits on their screen time. They can also set reminders that alert them when they’re getting close to the daily limit, and see how many times they pick up their phones every day and which apps they use the most. The answers can be very revealing! ■ AUGUS T 2019 | BRPA RENTS .COM

IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR

August

THE COVER KID EVENT

The Tracy Center from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. on Saturday, August 3. Baton Rouge Parents Magazine is looking for the next great group of children, ages 2-17, to be named 2019-20 Cover Kids. The Cover Kids will go on to be on the cover or inside the pages of Baton Rouge Parents Magazine. Cost is $20-50. Family members can enjoy shopping, live entertainment, have a chance to win door prizes, and participate in kids’ activities for free. ■ thecoverkidevent.com

1 THURSDAY ART AFTER HOURS: ASTRAL VISIONS. LASM from 5:30-7:30 p.m. $10 admission includes wine, soft drinks, hors d’oeuvres and a planetarium presentation. lasm.org BABY CARE BASICS. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-9 p.m. Learn how to prepare for your baby’s arrival, what to expect on the big day and how to survive the first two weeks. Cost is $30 per couple. brgeneral.org END OF SUMMER TEEN READING PARTY. Jones Creek Library at 3 p.m. Teens can enjoy games, prizes and DIY pizza. Registration required. (225) 756-1170. FOOD TRUCK NIGHT. The Crown: A Royal Bistro from 5-9 p.m. with Basel’s 68

Food Truck, drinks and desserts from the Bistro, music, lawn games, face painting, crafts and shopping. Free. theroyalstandard.com RENEW: SPIRITUAL AWAKENING + HOMECOMING. Broadmoor United Methodist Church at 6:30 p.m. Men’s night, focusing on healing the racial divide. Includes a free dinner and speaker, Rev. Dr. Michael Waters. renewbatonrouge.com TEEN ADVISORY BOARD. Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. Teens can suggest programs, volunteer at the branch and help choose books. (225) 686-4180 VETERANS HISTORY PROJECT: ORAL HISTORY EVENT. EBR Main Library from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. The East Baton Rouge Parish Library is hosting a Veterans History Project

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Event in collaboration with Congressman Graves and AARP Louisiana to conduct oral histories of U.S. veterans, which will be recorded, preserved and made accessible through the Library of Congress. ebrpl.com VIRTUAL REALITY DEMONSTRATION SESSIONS. EBR Main Library at 4:30 p.m. Patrons ages eight and up will learn about virtual reality in the lobby, and learn how to sculpt, draw, and animate. (225) 231-3750

2 FRIDAY

BOOK BABIES. Watson Library at 10:30 a.m. Activity held on the first Friday of every month for infants through age five with stories, music and games. (225) 664-3963 EDUCATOR NIGHT. Knock Knock Children’s

Museum from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Educators and administrators are invited to celebrate Peace, Love and Educators. Tickets are $5. knockknockmuseum.org RENEW: SPIRITUAL AWAKENING + HOMECOMING. Broadmoor United Methodist Church at 6:30 p.m. Kids and teens night, focusing on standing up to bullies. Pastor Brad Waggoner will lead the night that will start with kid-friendly snacks and end with games. For children entering K-12th grade and their parents. renewbatonrouge.com SONDHEIM ON SONDHEIM. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. A tribute to a great musical theater composer. Tickets are $28. manshiptheatre.org STORIES IN ART. LSU Museum of Art at 10:30 a.m. Free program for children from birth to

preschool and their caregivers. Enjoy a book and art project designed to make families comfortable exploring in a museum setting. (225) 389-7207 TOTAL TEEN TAKEOVER. Cortana Mall, Entrance 2, from 4-7 p.m. A one-stop-shop teen resources event with screenings, photos, performances, DJ Kicks, swag bags, door prizes, food, speakers and games. facebook.com

3 SATURDAY

#LOVEBATONROUGESATURDAYS. Knock Knock Children’s Museum at 1 p.m. The museum, in collaboration with the Baton Rouge Mayor’s Office, will present a program demonstrating how families can be healthy. knockknockmuseum.org BATON ROUGE ARTS MARKET. Farmers

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE Market downtown from 8 a.m.-noon. The event will feature special art activities for kids. artsbr.org BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11:30 a.m. Preteen boys ages 10-13 and their dads/moms will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 CHILDREN’S ACRYLIC YARN RESIST ON CANVAS. The Arts Council of Livingston Parish, Denham Springs, from 10:30 a.m.noon. Children ages 8-12 are invited to a class and then hang their artwork with the current exhibit. Cost is $10. artslivingston.org CLAY SHOOT. GOL Shooting Range, Maurice. Benefits Trinity Outdoors that sponsors hunting and fishing trips for persons with disabilities. trinitydisabledadventures.com CLINTON MARKET DAY. Downtown Clinton in front of Courthouse from 8 a.m.-1 p.m. Monthly open market. (225) 683-5531 ENGINEER IT: DREAM BIG. LASM from 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Discover how today’s engineers are inspiring the world with interactive activities with the American Society of Civil Engineers. lasm.org FIRST SATURDAY OF THE MONTH HIKE. Port Hudson State Historic Site, Jackson, at 10 a.m. Join a park ranger on a guided hike of the battlefield area known as Artillery Ridge. (888) 677-3400 FRIENDS AND FAMILY LUAU. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from 6-9 p.m. Individuals with disabilities and their friends and families are invited for swimming, music and snacks. Admission wristbands of $8 can be purchased at Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge’s office, or if any left, at the gate. (225) 216-7474 LIFE ON THE PLANTATION. Audubon State

Historic Site, St. Francisville, from noon-4 p.m. A glimpse at the lives of those who worked and lived at Oakley Plantation in the 1800s. (888) 677-2838 MID CITY MAKERS MARKET. 541 South Eugene Street from 4-8 p.m. Makers’ booths, food, a bar, a kids’ area and music. midcitymakers.market OLD SOUTH JAMBOREE. 9554 Florida Boulevard, Walker, at 7 p.m. featuring Carlton Jones and His Red Hot Country Band. livingstontourism.com PET ADOPTION EVENT. Petco, Siegen Lane, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Offered by Rescue, Rehome, Repeat. facebook.com PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital from 1-5 p.m. Learn basic information so you can recognize signs of labor and practice comfort measures. Registration required. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475 RENEW: SPIRITUAL AWAKENING + HOMECOMING. Broadmoor United Methodist Church at 6:30 p.m. There will be a fais do-do for everyone with a free jambalaya dinner and live music by Corey Porche & the Podnuh AllStar Band. renewbatonrouge.com SONDHEIM ON SONDHEIM. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. A tribute to a great musical theater composer. Tickets are $28. manshiptheatre.org SPIRIT OF TOGETHERNESS GOSPEL FEST. COPAC, Plaquemine, from 11 a.m.-6 p.m. No ice chests allowed. Free. visitiberville.com SUMMER CHESS TOURNAMENT. EBR Main Library at 9:30 a.m. For ages 8-13 who have participated in the summer chess program. (225) 231-3760 SWEET BATON ROUGE ULTIMATE TAILGATE. Perkins Rowe from 2-8 p.m. Seventeen local vendors along with three food trucks and a Don't Stop Just Geaux community

workout with BodySculpt. facebook.com THE COVER KID EVENT. The Tracy Center from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. on Saturday, August 3. Baton Rouge Parents Magazine is looking for the next great group of children, ages 2-17, to be named 201920 Cover Kids. The Cover Kids will go on to be on the cover or inside the pages of Baton Rouge Parents Magazine. Cost is $20-50. Family members can enjoy shopping, live entertainment, have a chance to win door prizes, and participate in kids’ activities for free. thecoverkidevent.com

4 SUNDAY

FREE FIRST SUNDAY. Free admission to the LSU Museum of Art, LASM, the Old State Capitol, USS Kidd, Capitol Park Museum and BREC’s Magnolia Mound Plantation. visitbatonrouge.com GRANDPARENTING 101. Woman’s Hospital from 3-5 p.m. Grandparents can brush up on baby skills. Registration required. womans.org LEARN TO START YOUR OWN PODCAST. Bluebonnet Library at 2:30 p.m. Adults and teens will learn about equipment and practice audio editing. Registration required. (225) 763-2250 MAGIC HAPPENS RABBIT RESCUE ADOPTION DAY. PetSmart, Millerville, from 2-4 p.m. Includes rabbits and guinea pigs looking for homes. magichappensrescue.com SENSORY SENSITIVE SUNDAY. Chuck E. Cheese’s at 9 a.m. Opens two hours early with reduced lighting and games for children with autism and other special needs. chuckecheese.com SONDHEIM ON SONDHEIM. Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. A tribute to a great musical theater composer. Tickets are $28. manshiptheatre.org WILD WILD WEST HOEDOWN. UCT

Hall from 4-7 p.m. Live music by Ambush and free jambalaya. Admission is free. Dance for those with developmental disabilities. (225) 939-2923

5 MONDAY

HOSPITAL ORIENTATION. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-7:45 p.m. or 8-9:15 p.m. Tour the labor birth suites, family waiting areas and Transition Nursery while learning what you can expect. Registration required. Free. (225) 231-5475 KURZWEIL TEXT-TOSPEECH SOFTWARE OVERVIEW. EBR Main Library at 4 p.m. This assistive technology is free with a library card and can help those who are living with dyslexia, are English language learners, or blind and vision impaired. A representative will lead a seminar followed by a q&a period. ebrpl.com LINE 4 LINE. O’Neils Barber and Beauty Salon. Free haircuts once a month to boys ages 2-16 who read to the barbers. Free food. The salon has a Free Little Library stocked by the LSU Museum of Art. (225) 389-7207 MOMMY AND ME. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 11 a.m.-noon. A continued breastfeeding support and education group designed to help mothers and babies learn about successes and challenges with breastfeeding. Free. Babies are welcome. brgeneral.org PARENTS NIGHT OUT FOR SPECIAL NEEDS REGISTRATION DEADLINE. St. Jean Vianney Church on August 9 from 6:30-9 p.m. for children with special needs ages 2-12 and their siblings. $5 donation. parentsnightout@stjeanvianney.org TABLETOP GAMING NIGHT. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 5 p.m. Ages 12 and up can play role-playing, adventure, or strategy or board games. (225) 686-4140

6 TUESDAY

AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Plan to take this class in the sixth month of pregnancy. For new parents, grandparents, adoptive parents or other caregivers. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475 CPR FOR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-8 p.m. Learn CPR and foreign body airway obstruction techniques for infants and children. $30 per couple. brgeneral.org HOPE CHESTS BREAST CANCER SUPPORT GROUP. Ochsner Hospital from 6-7 p.m. Monthly support group with speakers and light refreshments. ochsner.org IDEA LAB CREATE: GALAXY TIE-DYE. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 6 p.m. Adults can bring a black cotton shirt and make a galaxy design. Registration required. (225) 686-4140

7 WEDNESDAY

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Antiono C 2018-19 Cover Kid 10 years old AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Plan to take this class in the sixth month of pregnancy. For new parents, grandparents, adoptive parents or other caregivers. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475 I CARE LIVE. Webinar series at noon by the I CARE program with

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR various guest speakers who promote personal safety, drug prevention and selfhelp educational resources. First Wednesday for the English version and the third Wednesday for the Spanish version. icare.ebrschools.org TOUR FOR TWO (OR MORE). Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-7 p.m. Free tour of the Birth Center. brgeneral.org

8 THURSDAY

QUILLING WORKSHOP. West Baton Rouge Library, Port Allen, at 6:30 p.m. Adults and teens can learn about quilling, the coiling and shaping of narrow paper strips to create a design. Registration required. (225) 342-7920 SUNSET PADDLE. BREC’s Milford Wampold Park from 7-8:30 p.m. for ages 12 and older. Enjoy the University Lakes for an evening paddle under the setting sun. $10-15 per boat. Registration required two days before the event. webtrac.brec.org TONI MORRISON: THE PIECES I AM. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Film on an artful and intimate meditation on the life and

works of the acclaimed novelist. Rated PG-13. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org

9 FRIDAY

BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. Free. (225) 231-5475 CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 3 p.m. Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org FAMILY DINNER IMPROV SHOW. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. From the folks who brought you Spoof Night! with Films at Manship comes a locally made, monthly comedy show. For ages 17 and older. Tickets are $6. manshiptheatre.org FRIDAY LUNCH LIVE. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet Cafeteria, at noon. Free performances. Performers are Jemini Venture. brgeneral.org MOVIE IN THE PARK. HugYourPeople Community Park, Zachary, at 7

p.m. with special pre-show entertainment, followed by the movie, Hidden World, at dusk. Patrons are encouraged to bring their lawn chairs and blankets. No pets or ice chest allowed. Concessions proceeds will go toward movie rentals. cityofzachary.org PARENTS NIGHT OUT FOR SPECIAL NEEDS. St. Jean Vianney Church from 6:30-9 p.m. for children with special needs ages 2-12 and their siblings. Registration requested. $5 donation. parentsnightout@stjeanvianney.org SWAMP FLASHLIGHT NIGHT. BREC’s Bluebonnet Swamp from 5-9 p.m. Experience the Swamp after the sun goes down and the nightlife comes out to play. Explore the trails, enjoy live animal encounters, and view a nature film. General admission applies. brec.org/swamp THE CURE ANNIVERSARY LIVE IN HYDE PARK. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Documentary celebrates 40 years of The Cure. Not rated. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org WIGGLE WORMS. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 10:30 a.m. Children up to age five and

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their caregivers will participate in music and dance activities that enhance lifelong learning and neural development. (225) 686-4140

10 SATURDAY

A BABY IS COMING. Woman’s Hospital from 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. for children ages four to eight years old. Class designed to help big brother and sister learn about their new sibling’s arrival by talking about what new babies are like. Cost is $25. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 ABCS AND 123S RECEPTION. The Arts Council of Livingston Parish, Denham Springs, from 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Artists will be present, and light refreshments will be served. Free. artslivingston.org BSAFE BABYSITTING COURSE. Baton Rouge General, Bluebonnet, from 9 a.m.-3 p.m. A one-day class for babysitters ages 12 and older who would like to be certified in First Aid and CPR, and learn home safety, tips on starting a babysitting business and child care basics for all age groups. Cost is $65. Pre-registration required. brgeneral.org CAJUN DANCE. UCT Hall at 7:15 p.m. with free dance lessons and the band at 8 p.m. Cajun Luau dance with band, Nouveaux Cajun Express. Admission runs $10-12. Students with ID get a discount. batonrougecajundance.com CHILDBIRTH CLASS. Ochsner Medical Center from 8 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Free class covers pregnancy, pain theories, pre-labor signs, postpartum/newborn procedures and basic breastfeeding. Registration required. (225) 755-4854 CHILDBIRTH PREPARATION. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 8 a.m.-noon. Learn the basics of labor and birth, including pregnancy changes, nutrition, relaxation techniques and

comfort measures. $40 per couple. brgeneral.org COMMUNITY BACK TO SCHOOL EXTRAVAGANZA. Family and Youth Service Center from 8:30-11:30 a.m. Activities, games, crafts, local law enforcement agencies and the annual Tug of War Championship. Backpacks filled with school supplies will be given to the first 500 attendees who preregister. (225) 239-7801 EXPLORE THE POUR. Art Depot Gallery, Gonzales, from 2-3 p.m. For all ages, though those under the age of 10 must have an adult to assist them. An acrylic paint class. Cost is $30 per class. Offered by the River Region Art Association. (225) 644-8496 FUN WITH 3D. PrideChaneyville Library at 3 p.m. Teens can try 3D pens as part of a fun science, technology, art, engineering and math-related (STEAM) activity. (225) 658-1550 GEM AND MINERAL SHOW. Lamar Dixon Expo Center from 10 a.m.- 5 p.m. through August 11. Nineteen vendors, a kids area, fluorescent mineral tent, hourly silent auction and a two-day silent auction. Cost is $1-5. brgemandmineral.org LAMAZE: LABOR OF LOVE. Woman’s Hospital from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. for couples wanting to learn how Lamaze techniques assist in labor and birth. Plan to take this class during the last 8-10 weeks of pregnancy and after attending the Special Delivery class. Cost is $75. Registration required. womans.org MODEL TRAINS. Republic of West Florida Historical Museum, Jackson, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Free indoor and outdoor model train displays by the Greater Baton Rouge Model Railroaders. (225) 634-3473 PLAY TIME YOGA. Java Mama Baton Rouge from 8:45-9:15 a.m. Class on the second Saturday of the month through August for children ages 18 months-

WEEKLY EVENTS ARCHERY ACADEMY. BREC’s Milton J. Womack Park on Wednesdays from August 7-28 from 6-7:30 p.m. Basic archery instruction, common archery equipment, and safe archery practices. ■ outdooradventure@brec.org BASF KIDS’ LAB. LASM on the second and fourth Saturdays at 11 a.m., 1 p.m., and 3 p.m. and Sundays at 1:30 p.m. and 3 p.m. Explore the world of chemistry in hands-on workshops for children ages 6-12. ■ kidslab@lasm.org BATON ROOTS DEMO DAYS. 5509 Winbourne Avenue on Wednesdays from 4-6 p.m. Children and their parents can learn about growing their own food, harvesting and eating healthy in Baton Rouge. ■ facebook.com/batonroots CASAS FOR CASA PLAYHOUSE RAFFLE. Mall of Louisiana through August 18. The luxury child-sized playhouse will be on display with $5 raffle tickets available for a chance to win. ■ casabr.org CREATION STATION. LASM on Wednesdays from 10:30-11:30 a.m. and 2-3 p.m. Enjoy hands-on arts and crafts for all ages in the Discovery Depot. ■ lasm.org DIY BACK TO SCHOOL PORTRAITS. All locations of the Ascension Parish Library from August 5-10. Take a photo of family members with a school photo backdrop and First Day signs. ■ myapl.org FREE FRIDAY NIGHTS. LSU Museum of Art from 5-8 p.m. Free admission to the museum. ■ lsumoa.org PIPELINE. LSU Studio Theatre from September 5-8. Play by New Venture Theatre which contains adult language, content and themes. Tickets run $15-20. ■ newventuretheatre.org PLANETARIUM FAMILY HOUR AND STARGAZING. LASM on Saturdays at 10 a.m. Learn about stars and constellations in the local nighttime sky. Then, enjoy a featured planetarium show. Regular admission applies. ■ lasm.org PRE-LITERACY TEXT MESSAGES. Starting August 1, text the word LITERACY to (225) 400-1336 to receive family activity prompts to your phone every Thursday evening with ideas for encouraging literacy at home. ■ ebrpl.com RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. Saturdays on 5th Street between Main and North Street, Tuesdays at the EBR Main Library, and Thursdays in the Pennington Biomedical Conference Center parking lot from 8 a.m.-noon. ■ (225) 267-5060 THE WILD PARTY. Theatre Baton Rouge from August 16-25. Andrew Lippa’s musical. ■ theatrebr.org TRAVELING TRUNK SHOW. LASM on Saturdays at 11 a.m. Sing, dance, and share stories in this interactive program that explores the art and science of the seasons. Regular admission applies. ■ lasm.org TWILIGHT TUESDAYS. Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge from 4-8 p.m. Open late for working families to obtain resources. ■ (225) 216-7474

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE four years old. Cost is $7-15. No fee for adults. Bring your own mats. Registration includes open play and cucumber and lemon iced water. Registration required. facebook.com RED STICK ROLLER DERBY. Mt. Pilgrim Family Life Center at 6 p.m. Double header home team bout. Admission is $8 for ages 5-12 and $15 for ages 13+ for double headers. facebook.com/redstickrollerderby SECOND SATURDAY COMMUNITY MARKET. Audubon Louisiana Nature Center from 8:30-11:30 a.m. Family event with local produce and seafood for sale, nature hikes, live music and planetarium shows. audubonnatureinstitute.org SOLAR VIEWING. BREC’s Highland Road Park Observatory from noon-2 p.m. Staff shows the sun in three manners so visitors are able to see any sizable sunspots or flares occurring. Free. hrpo.lsu.edu SUMMER PLANT SALE. Botanic Gardens, Independence Boulevard, from 8 a.m.-1 p.m. Includes plants, vendors and knowledgeable persons to help with plant questions. brec.org TRINITY OUTDOORS DREAM BIG BANQUET. Knights of Columbus, Lutcher, with doors open at 5 p.m. and band at 8 p.m. $10 entry gets a meal and dance. Benefits Trinity Outdoors which offers hunting and fishing opportunities for those with disabilities. trinitydisabledadventures.com TYKE HYKE. Woman’s Hospital from 9-10:15 a.m. Prepare your three year old for your hospital stay by taking a brief tour of the hospital and through practice with baby dolls. Registration required. Cost is $25. womans.org V. WATTS TRADE MART TRADE DAY. V. Watts Trade Mart, Livingston, from 8 a.m.-3 p.m. outdoors and 8 a.m.-6 p.m. indoors. 100 indoor vendors and acres of outdoor

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AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital from 12:30-5:30 p.m. Plan to take this class in the sixth month of pregnancy. For new parents, grandparents, adoptive parents or other caregivers. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475 AUDUBON SENSORY SUNDAY. Audubon Aquarium of the Americas, New Orleans, from 9:3010:30 a.m. Special needs visitors of all ages connect with nature with special activities. There is no fee for this event. Advanced registration required. Limited number of participants. audubonnatureinstitute.org FANFICTION WORKSHOP. Bluebonnet Library at 4 p.m. Teens will learn about fanfiction writing, popular fanfiction tropes, and work on writing exercises to sharpen their skills. (225) 763-2250 GEM AND MINERAL SHOW. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Nineteen vendors, a kids area, fluorescent mineral tent, hourly silent auction and a two-day silent auction. Cost is $1-5. brgemandmineral.org TONI MORRISON: THE PIECES I AM. Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. Film on an artful and intimate meditation on the life and works of the acclaimed novelist. Rated PG-13. manshiptheatre.org

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BACK TO SCHOOL APPLE PICTURE FRAME STORY/CRAFT. Eden Park Library at 4:30 p.m. Kids ages 5-11 will listen to Pete the Cat: Rocking in My School Shoes and make an apple motif picture frame. (225) 231-3250 MICROSOFT WORD BASICS. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 6:30

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR p.m. For students ages 12+. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 PERSEID METEOR SHOWER. BREC’s Highland Road Observatory from 10 p.m.-2 a.m. A viewing session during the nighttime period with the best chance of high meteor rates. The date may shift by one night. bro.lsu.edu

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confusing nutrition labels. Free. Space is limited, and registration is required. brgeneral.org LUNCHTIME LAGNIAPPE: LOUISIANA BIRDING. Capitol Park Museum at noon. Free lecture by award-winning outdoor writer and photographer, John Flores. downtownbatonrouge.org THE QUIET ONE. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Movie about Bill Wyman, founding member of and bassist for The Rolling Stones. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org

15 THURSDAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY Solei L 2018-19 Cover Kid 9 years old BOOK A LIBRARIAN COMPUTER HELP. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 2 p.m. Teens and adults can make an appointment with a librarian to help with basic computer and Internet skills. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 RED DRAGON SERIES SONGWRITERS PRESENTS: RODNEY CROWELL BAND. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Former band member for Emmylou Harris. Tickets run $50-80. manshiptheatre.org ZOO AND ME MORNING: NATIVE NEIGHBORS. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo from 9:3011:30 a.m. Children’s program for ages three to six. Cost is $12-18. Registration required. (225) 775-3877

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GROCERY STORE TOUR. Rouses, Bluebonnet, from 10-11 a.m. Join Baton Rouge General’s dietitians for a grocery tour to learn how to choose fresh and healthy foods, and how to understand 72

ANIME CLUB . Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. Teens can watch anime, discuss what manga they've read, learn about Japanese culture, eat snacks and play games. Registration required. (225) 686-4180 BABY PLAY BASICS. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet. Families of infants are invited to a unique class that teaches bonding and ways to engage and develop play with your infant. Class for birth to six months is 9-9:45 a.m. and for 7-12 months is 10:15-11 a.m. Limited registration. Cost is $12-40. brgeneral.org BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8 p.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 11 a.m. Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org HOOKED ON FISHING. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 6 p.m. Fun-filled fishing extravaganza in partnership with the Louisiana Department of Wildlife and Fisheries. Make a fish print and learn knot tying. (225) 686-4140

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PFLAG SUPPORT GROUP. Unitarian Universalist Church at 6:30 p.m. Support group for friends and families of LGBT people every third Thursday. unitarianchurchbr.com VIRTUAL REALITY DEMONSTRATION SESSIONS. EBR Main Library at 4:30 p.m. Patrons ages eight and up will learn about virtual reality in the lobby. Learn to sculpt, draw and animate. (225) 231-3750

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PLAY 4 ALL. Knock Knock Children’s Museum from 5-7 p.m. A monthly program for children with sensory processing differences, disabilities and developmental delays, featuring a less crowded environment, trained staff, light and sound reduction and quiet rooms. General admission applies. knockknockmuseum.org SCOUTING MOVIE DOUBLE FEATURE. West Baton Rouge Museum, Port Allen, at 6 p.m. The evening will include screenings of Troop Beverly Hills and Down and Derby with refreshments and a hands-on activity at intermission. This program is being offered in conjunction with the Prepared for Life: Scouting in West Baton Rouge exhibit. westbatonrougemuseum.org SUNSHINE SOCIAL: JEDI JUMP. BREC’s Womack Ballroom from 6-9 p.m. Dance for adults, ages 16 and up, with special needs and their friends and families. Suggested donation is $5. (225) 216-7474

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FÊTE ROUGE FOOD & WINE FÊTE Feast on the best dishes at the Fête Rouge Food & Wine Fête from 40 local chefs who will prepare dishes for the chance at winning the Gold Medal, People’s Choice, or Best in Show. You and your special someone can have dinner, try wines from all over the world, and enjoy live music and entertainment on Friday, August 23 from 7-10 p.m at L’Auberge Casino & Hotel Baton Rouge. ■ bresbr.org

THE B-52S 40TH ANNIVERSARY TOUR Enjoy the sounds of The B-52s at Saenger Theatre on Sunday, August 25 at 7 p.m. The B-52s have made an impact on alternative music, fashion, and culture over the course of four decades. This incredible date night will make a fan out of you and your sweetie, if you aren’t already, and after, you can pick up a late night bite to eat for some extra fun. ■ saengernola.com

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ASK A LAWYER. Delmont Gardens Library from 9:30-11:30 a.m. Adults can have free confidential and individual counseling offered by the Pro Bono Project of the Baton Rouge Bar Association. First-come, first-served basis. ebrpl.com

LSU VS GEORGIA SOUTHERN It’s finally football season! Snag some tickets to LSU’s first home game on Saturday, August 31 at 6:30 p.m. in Baton Rouge. You can grab them at StubHub, where people buy or sell their tickets for a price that doesn’t break the bank. The LSU Tigers take on Georgia Southern under the lights of Tiger Stadium, and it’s going to be a game that you won’t want to miss. ■ lsusports.net

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE AUDITIONS FOR GENTLEMEN’S GUIDE TO LOVE AND MURDER. Theatre Baton Rouge from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Performances are November 1-17. Registration required for audition time. (225) 924-6496 BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Woman’s Hospital from 1:30-5 p.m. Learn the benefits of breastfeeding, how to prepare, how to get the baby on the breast properly, the father's role, and how to avoid common problems. Cost is $35. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 DREAMS COME TRUE FUNDRAISER DANCE.

Lamar Dixon Expo Center from 7-11 p.m. Band is Na Na Sha. Benefits Dreams Come True. Tickets are $10. eventbrite.com DUCK DUCK GOOSE DAY. BREC’s Bluebonnet Swamp from 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Annual event giving visitors a first-hand look at waterfowl decoy carving with carvers and collectors from all over the Deep South. Activities include a Carving Corner, Duck Box, Duck Pen with live baby ducks, inflatable jump house, games, face-painting and Waterfowl Identification Hike. Admission is $4-5. brec.org/swamp FELICIANA TRADE DAYS. Graceland Portable Buildings at the corner of Hwy. 10 and Line Road, Jackson, from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Crafts, pottery, clothes, yard sale items, a farmer’s market and food. (225) 719-2199 HAIR ACCESSORY CRAFT DAY. Pride-

Chaneyville Library at 3 p.m. Teens can make cool hair accessories. All supplies provided. (225) 658-1550 KIDS’ BIKE RACE. Abundant Life Church, Denham Springs, from 9-11:30 a.m. Children ages 12 and under are welcome. Includes inflatables, refreshments, games, door prizes and activities. Hosted by Pelican State Credit Union. Free. Registration required. pelicanstatecu.com KNOCK STOCK CHILDREN’S MUSIC FESTIVAL. Knock Knock Children’s Museum from 4-8 p.m. Event with music, groovy pop-up activities and games. knockknockmuseum.org LIGO SCIENCE SATURDAY: SWING INTO SCIENCE. The Laser Interferometer Gravitational Wave Observatory, Livingston, from 1-5 p.m. Tour the facility, talk to a LIGO Scientist or science

specialist, and explore and interact with over 40 LIGO Science Concept exhibits. ligo.caltech.edu/la LOUISIANA SATURDAY NIGHT VARIETY SHOW. Suma Crossing Theatre, Satsuma. Grand Country Junction show. Tickets will run from $7-12. grandcountryjunction.com MAGIC HAPPENS RABBIT RESCUE ADOPTION DAY. PetSmart, Millerville, from noon-4 p.m. Includes rabbits and guinea pigs looking for forever homes. magichappensrescue.com PET ADOPTION EVENT. Petco, Siegen Lane, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Offered by Rescue, Rehome, Repeat. facebook.com STUDIO SATURDAYS. LASM at 2 p.m. Hands-on workshop for children ages 8-14 and their accompanying adults. Non-member is $9 per child plus general admission. Registration required. lasm.org

SNORKELING. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from 10-10:45 a.m. This class, for ages eight and above, will teach you how to be comfortable using a mask and snorkel as well as how to properly kick with and without fins. Session is limited to 10 participants. The cost is $5. libertylagoon.com SUMMER DIALOGUE: PREDICAMENT AT PLAINS. Port Hudson State Historic Site, Jackson, at 11 a.m. The final installment of the 2019 Summer Dialogue Series will uncover the story why Union Corporal Charles M. Searles wrote a poem that inspired those who fought to prevent the shattering of the Union. (888) 677-3400 SWORD OF TRUST. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Journey of a ragtag bunch on a tour through the deep South and the minds of the local fanatics who inhabit it.

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR Rated R. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org TASTE OF TIGER TAILGATING. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, with doors open at 5 p.m. Food, drinks, music, shopping and prizes. Advanced tickets are $20 and $26 on day of event. etix.com VIBES IN THE VILLE. St. Francisville Main Street in the evening with unique shops, sensational food and lively music. Trollies will provide transportation along the route. The theme is “Celebrating the 50th Anniversary of Woodstock.” stfrancisvillefestivals.com WOODSTOCK 50TH ANNIVERSARY. LASM from 5-8 p.m. Get groovy with after hours musicthemed planetarium shows in celebration of Woodstock’s 50th anniversary. Also, enjoy the new exhibit, Harmonies in Color. Tickets are $20. Advanced tickets suggested. lasm.org

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BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Ochsner Medical Center from 2-4 p.m. Share stories and tips on what works and what doesn't with moms who are living the experience. Free. (225) 755-4854 FRONT PORCH SOCIETY.

Upstage Theatre, 9401 Cortana Place, Entrance #1, at 3 p.m. Play by Upstage Theatre. Tickets are $24. upstagetheatre.biz HOSPITAL ORIENTATION. Woman’s Hospital from 1:30-2:45 p.m. or 3-4:15 p.m. Tour the labor birth suites, family waiting areas, and Transition Nursery while learning what you can expect. Registration required. Free. (225) 231-5475 KNOCK STOCK CHILDREN’S MUSIC FESTIVAL. Knock Knock Children’s Museum from noon-4 p.m. Event with music, groovy pop-up activities and games. knockknockmuseum.org SUNDAYS AT 4. BREC’s Baton Rouge Gallery at 4 p.m. Lecture by Denton Hatcher and Molly Taylor. batonrougegallery.org SWORD OF TRUST. Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. Journey of a ragtag bunch on a tour through the deep South and the minds of the local fanatics who inhabit it. Rated R. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org

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PREGNANCY 101. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Learn how to provide your baby with the best

possible environment for growth and development. Cost is $25. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 TABLETOP GAMING NIGHT. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 5 p.m. Ages 12 and up can play role-playing, adventure, or strategy or board games. (225) 686-4140

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BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8 p.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 MAKE A SPLASH. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from 3-6 p.m. Adaptive patrons are offered one-on-one volunteers to enable their waterpark experiences. Free to the adaptive public. libertylagoon.com PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital. Two-day class today and August 21 from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Learn basic information so you can recognize signs of labor and practice comfort measures. Registration required. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475

BSAFE BABYSITTING COURSE. Baton Rouge General, Bluebonnet, from 9 a.m.3 p.m. Class for babysitters ages 12 and older who would like to be certified in First Aid and CPR, and learn home safety and child care basics. ■ brgeneral.org 74

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IBLE COLOR. LASM from 5:30-7:30 p.m. Meet multimedia artist and musician, Christopher Janney, and preview Sound Is An Invisible Color, the exhibition of his work. lasm.org GRANDPARENTS WEDNESDAY RAISING GRANDCHILDREN. Family Road at ART TALK. EBR Main Li- 10 a.m. Information and brary at 7 p.m. Hear Jason support group for grandAndreasen, Baton Rouge parents and others raising Gallery Executive Director, children not their own. on the history of the Gallagrg.org lery and the future. LA LECHE LEAGUE (225) 231-3751 OF BATON ROUGE CARDEN INTERNATION- MEETING. Java Mama AL CIRCUS. Lamar Dixon at 10:30 a.m. On the Expo Center, Gonzales, at fourth Thursday of each 6:30 p.m. Awe-inspiring month, the League will host show with aerial acrobats, a monthly breastfeeding elephants and tigers. Premeeting. The La Leche sale tickets run $10-20. League's mission is to help Ages two and under are mothers to breastfeed free. spectacularcircus.com through mother-to-mother CASA ORIENTATION. support, encouragement, CASA office at 5:30 p.m. information and education. Capital Area Court ApAll participants will receive pointed Special Advocate discounted open play. (CASA) Association holds facebook.com orientation. Registration LEGO CLUB. Watson required. casabr.org Library at 5:30 p.m. ChilI CARE LIVE. Webinar dren ages 3-11 can try to series at noon by the construct the Lego ChalI CARE program with lenge or make their own various guest speakers who creation. Legos provided. promote personal safety, Open for all ages. Duplo drug prevention and selfBlocks and Mega Bloks will help educational resources. be available for younger First Wednesday for the children. (225) 647-3955 English version and the LIBRARY RESOURCES third Wednesday for the FOR HOMESCHOOL Spanish version. FAMILIES. EBR Main icare.ebrschools.org Library at 10 a.m. HomeMAKE A SPLASH. school presentation BREC’s Liberty Lagoon sponsored by both the from 3-6 p.m. AdapChildren’s Services and the tive patrons are offered Teen Departments. one-on-one volunteers ebrpl.com to enable their waterpark MAKE A SPLASH. experiences. Free to the BREC’s Liberty Lagoon adaptive public. from 3-6 p.m. Adaplibertylagoon.com tive patrons are offered PREPARING FOR one-on-one volunteers DELIVERY. Woman’s to enable their waterpark Hospital. Last of a two-day experiences. Free to the class from 6:30-8:30 p.m. adaptive public. Learn basic information so libertylagoon.com you can recognize signs of ONE-ACT-PLAY FESTIlabor and practice comfort VAL. Ascension Commeasures. Registration munity Theatre at 7 p.m. required. Cost is $35. Showings of one-act stage (225) 231-5475 plays written and directed by local youths. THURSDAY (225) 647-1230 SUNSET PADDLE. ART AFTER HOURS: BREC’s Milford Wampold SOUND IS AN INVISPark from 7-8:30 p.m. for

TEEN ADVISORY BOARD. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 5 p.m. Teens can suggest programs, volunteer at the branch and help choose books. (225) 686-4140

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE ages 12 and older. Enjoy the University Lakes for an evening paddle under the setting sun. $10-15 per boat. Registration required by two days before event. webtrac.brec.org

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BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. Free. (225) 231-5475 FAMILY DINNER IMPROV SHOW. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. From the folks who brought you Spoof Night! with Films at Manship comes a locally made, monthly comedy show. For ages 17 and older. Tickets are $6. manshiptheatre.org FAMILY FRIENDLY CONCERT. New Orleans Jazz National Historical Park, New Orleans, at 11 a.m. Children’s storyteller and musician, Johnette Downing, performs. Free. johnettedowning.com ONE-ACT-PLAY FESTIVAL. Ascension Community Theatre at 7 p.m. Showings of one-act stage plays written and directed by local youths. (225) 647-1230 OPHELIA. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. A reimagining of Shakespeare's Hamlet, told from Ophelia's perspective. Rated PG-13. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org WILD NIGHT AND INSECT ADVENTURES. Audubon Louisiana Nature Center, New Orleans. Insect adventure from 1-4 p.m. and wild night from 7-10 p.m. Join Audubon entomologists and learn about the fascinating bugs that inhabit south Louisiana. Cost for events are $70 for nonmembers. auduboninstitute.org

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CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 10 a.m.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org DENIM AND DIAMONDS EXTRAVAGANZA. Forrest Grove Plantation from 6-9 p.m. Fundraiser for Old City Hall in Denham Springs. Dinner and live and silent auctions. Tickets are $75. denhamspringsmainstreet. org EXPLORE THE POUR. Art Depot Gallery, Gonzales, from 2-3 p.m. For all ages, though those under the age of 10 must have an adult to assist them. An acrylic paint class. Cost is $30 per class. Offered by the River Region Art Association. (225) 644-8496 FRONT PORCH SOCIETY. Upstage Theatre, 9401 Cortana Place, Entrance #1, at 7 p.m. Play by Upstage Theatre. Tickets are $24. upstagetheatre.biz GET A JUMP ON SUCCESS: ACT PRACTICE TEST. Baker Library at 10:30 a.m. Students can take a practice ACT for free. Preference will be given to teens who are currently enrolled in high school. Results will be sent by email. Registration required. (225) 778-5970 HELPING HEAL LITTLE HEARTS. L’Auberge Event Center at 7 p.m. Fundraiser by the Louisiana Pediatric Cardiology Foundation with a Meet and Greet with celebrity host Michael Berry, food, drinks, live auction and music by Triggerproof. lpcf.com MEN'S HEALTH CONFERENCE. Pennington Biomedical Center from 7 a.m.-1 p.m. Free conference to heighten the awareness of preventable health problems and encourage early detection and treatment. Includes screenings, breakout sessions, booths, lunch, and door prizes. Registration required. lamenshealth.org MODEL TRAINS. Republic of West Florida Historical Museum, Jackson, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Free indoor

and outdoor model train displays by the Greater Baton Rouge Model Railroaders. (225) 634-3473 ONE-ACT-PLAY FESTIVAL. Ascension Community Theatre at 7 p.m. Showings of one-act stage plays written and directed by local youths. (225) 647-1230 RYAN’S RUN FOR SICKLE CELL DISEASE. North Boulevard Town Square at 8 a.m. Registration runs $35-45. runsignup.com SIKNIC CAR SHOW. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, from 8 a.m.-6 p.m. Presented by Sparkles Detail LLC with cars, trucks, on-site camping, burnout contest, vendors, games, jalapeño eating contest and food. Coolers allowed. Weekend spectator pass is $20 for ages 13+ and free for 12 and under. facebook.com STEPHEN RICHARD: SUMMER CHILL CONCERT TOUR 2019. Manship Theatre at 8 p.m. Saxophonist Stephen Richard is a native son of Baton Rouge. Tickets are $55. manshiptheatre.org TWILIGHT CLASSIC. Kenilworth from 6-9 p.m. The theme of the race is “Saturday Night Fever” with

a one-mile run and a 5K. imathlete.com ZOO RUN RUN. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo with the Fun Run at 7:45 a.m. and the 5K at 8:15 a.m. Annual race benefits the Zoo and cheetah conservation efforts. Anyone who participates in the race or is present to support a participant gains free admission to the zoo as long as they are on site before the admission gates open at 9:30 a.m. Registration runs $12-30. brzoo.com

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FRONT PORCH SOCIETY. Upstage Theatre, 9401 Cortana Place, Entrance #1, at 3 p.m. Play by Upstage Theatre. Tickets are $24. upstagetheatre.biz FUN DAYZ. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from noon-6:30 p.m. Arts and crafts, games, creatures and other special features while supplies last. Regular admission applies. libertylagoon.com LACHADD SUPPORT GROUP: BACK TO SCHOOL. Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge office at 2:30 p.m. ADHD meetings are open and free to the public. Children are welcome

at the regular meetings, if closely supervised. lacachadd.org ONE-ACT-PLAY FESTIVAL. Ascension Community Theatre at 2 p.m. Showings of one-act stage plays written and directed by local youths. (225) 647-1230 PET ADOPTION EVENT. Petco, Siegen Lane, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Offered by Rescue, Rehome, Repeat. facebook.com SIKNIC CAR SHOW. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, from 8 a.m.-6 p.m. Presented by Sparkles Detail LLC with cars, trucks, on-site camping, burnout contest, vendors, games, jalapeño eating contest and food. Coolers allowed. Weekend spectator pass is $20 for ages 13+ and free for 12 and under. facebook.com OPHELIA. Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. A reimagining of Shakespeare's Hamlet, told from Ophelia's perspective. Rated PG-13. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org

26 MONDAY

MICROSOFT EXCEL BASICS. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 6:30 p.m. Students ages 12+ will

CARDEN INTERNATIONAL CIRCUS. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, at 6:30 p.m. Awe-inspiring show with aerial acrobats, elephants and tigers. Pre-sale tickets run $10-20. Ages two and under are free. ■ tickets.spectacularcircus.com AUGUS T 2019 | BRPA RENTS .COM

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A HISTORY OF MEDICINAL PLANTS, THEIR USES AND WHAT GROWS IN LOUISIANA. Gonzales Library at 6:30 p.m. Dr. Heather KirkBallard, LSU Professor of Consumer Horticulture, will explore this fascinating subject. Registration required. (225) 647-3955 BABY PLAY BASICS. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet. Families of infants are invited to a unique classes that teaches bonding and ways to engage and develop play with your infant. Class for birth to age six months is 11-11:45 a.m. and for 7-12 months is 12:15-1 p.m. Limited registration. Cost is $12-40. brgeneral.org BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8 p.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. Registration

required. (225) 231-5475 BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-9 p.m. Course on the advantages of breastfeeding, how to care for yourself while breastfeeding, and proper breastfeeding techniques. Cost is $30 per couple. brgeneral.org LSU SCIENCE CAFE. The Varsity Theatre from 5-7 p.m. Free lecture on various topics. This month’s topic is “Coastal VoicesStories of Resiliency.” Free food. Open to all ages. Registration requested. eventbrite.com MICROSOFT EXCEL INTERMEDIATE. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 2 p.m. For students ages 12+ who have completed the basics. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 WWE SMACKDOWN LIVE. Raising Cane’s River Center Arena at 6:45 p.m. Includes a Double Main event. Tickets run $20-100. raisingcanesrivercenter.com

28 WEDNESDAY CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at noon. Capital Area Court Ap-

pointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org GROCERY STORE TOUR. Rouses, Juban Crossing, from 10-11 a.m. Join Baton Rouge General’s dietitians for a grocery tour to learn how to choose healthy foods, and how to understand nutrition labels. Free. Space is limited, and registration is required. brgeneral.org JAKE SHIMABUKURO. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. A wholly unique approach to the ukulele. Tickets run $38-53. manshiptheatre.org

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LOUISIANA SHRIMP AND PETROLEUM FESTIVAL. Morgan City through September 2. Most activities have free admission. shrimpandpetroleum.org VIRTUAL REALITY DEMONSTRATION SESSIONS. EBR Main Library at 4:30 p.m. Patrons ages eight and up will learn about virtual reality in the lobby. Learn to sculpt, draw and animate. (225) 231-3750

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30 FRIDAY KIDS’ NIGHT MOVIES AND MUSIC ON THE LAWN. BREC’s Baton Rouge Gallery, City Park, at 8:30 p.m. Monthly event. Tonight’s movie is Alice in Wonderland. Baton Rouge Music Studios will also perform their original score for the timeless story that is loved by kids everywhere. Cost is $7, or free admittance for those who are members. batonrougegallery.org LOUISIANA SHRIMP AND PETROLEUM FESTIVAL. Morgan City through September 2. Most activities have free admission. shrimpandpetroleum.org

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY Kylie B 2018-19 Cover Kid 12 years old BELLY DANCING PERFORMANCE: TRIBAL HAPPENINGS. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 11 a.m. Adults can enjoy a cultural experience with Hammond’s professional belly dance troupe. (225) 686-4140 LABOR DAY BLOCK PARTY. Tanger Outlet Mall, Gonzales, from noon-5 p.m. Includes the Ascension Parish Library Outreach vehicle. tangeroutlet.com LOUISIANA CHILDREN’S MUSEUM GRAND OPENING AT CITY PARK. Louisiana Children’s Museum, City Park, New Orleans, from noon-7:30 p.m. First day at new location. lcm.org LOUISIANA SHRIMP AND PETROLEUM FESTIVAL. Morgan City

through September 2. shrimpandpetroleum.org LSU VS. GEORGIA SOUTHERN. Tiger Stadium. lsusports.net RECYCLED READS. 3434 North Blvd. at Acadian Thwy., behind the Baton Rouge General. Enter on Westmoreland Drive from 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Book sale. (225) 231-3741 SATURDAY NIGHT FAMILY NIGHT SKY VIEWING PLUS NIGHT. BREC’s Highland Road Park Observatory at 7:30 p.m. Sky viewing plus a tour, science demonstrations, filtered lunar trips, and a marshmallow roast. hrpo.lsu.edu SOUTHERN VS. MCNEESE. Away. gojagsports.com TEEN STEAM: MAKEY MAKEY SKEEBALL BUILD. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can design a skeeball game using Makey Makey, paper pressure sensors, and Scratch. Registration required. (225) 756-1170

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I’m Not Who I Thought I’d Be at 40, and I Think I’m OK With It By Kathryn Streeter

’m in my 40th year of life, and today I sat for most of the morning at the kitchen table working on my sevenyear-old son’s model Porsche, a beautiful red Boxster—at least that’s what the picture shows on the box. School hasn’t let back in just yet, and he and his older sister have asked: “Mom, are you going to be using the kitchen?” “Well, noooo,” I answer cautiously. Turns out that today is Car Day and the chosen venue is the kitchen. My son has decided that he’s not waiting for the weekend when Dad can help him put his new model car together. He’s emptied the contents all over the table before I realize what’s happening. Forget my personal ambitions for the day; my to-do list will have to wait. My son cheers me on as I painstakingly follow the instructions to assemble the Porsche. Then he deserts me, running off to continue a game with his sister that involves toy cars of every kind imaginable, unearthed from their hiding places around the house and now all over the kitchen floor. Unbelievable. It reminds me of the games they played as three and five year olds. But apparently that stage isn’t over, even though they have long aged out of it. Honestly, assembling model cars is not my forte. The little tiny pieces, the absurd directions with drawings that don’t match up to the pieces I’ve neatly laid out on the table, the pre-drilled holes that aren’t big 80

enough, the wimpy, poorly manufactured screws—so little and easily lost—all are mind-boggling to me. “Oh no!” A rebellious screw goes ping, ping, ping down onto the wood floor and immediately becomes invisible. The kids let out a sigh of dismay: “Moooom!” I lamely remind them that it wasn’t my idea to dive into the Porsche project; normally, this is Dad-duty. We all scramble over the floor, brushing aside dust-bunnies and cracker crumbs until we rescue the all-important screw. But, screw it. This is my life at 40, and I wouldn’t want it any other way. These little voices begging me to stop working on the computer (“You love the computer more than us!”) so that I can witness some new skit they have for me. Or a newly constructed house—which resembles a Dr. Seuss creation—carefully made out of three deserted shoeboxes for their pipe-cleaner people. Or the snake of cars winding through chair legs in the kitchen. I used to think I’d be an amazing sophisticate when I turned 40, probably too busy to put together a model car for my son. Don’t be too harsh. Forty sounded so out there—I imagined I would be this betterspoken, better-occupied, better-disciplined, better-dressed woman. By 40, I’d actually feel a daily sense of accomplishment, enjoying a life where I was leading the agenda,

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not reacting to strawberry jam stains on my daughter’s favorite white shirt that needs to be perfect for school. Strict work time carved out for writing great stories, captivating articles. Shouldn’t you find yourself concentrating on things of weighty significance by 40? “Mom! We have 88 cars. With the Porsche, we have 89!” my daughter shouts triumphantly. How the heck can one family have so many cars? Clearly, I wasn’t entirely right about how age changes a person’s life. The scene of the 89 cars in the kitchen says so. There’s quite a lot going on as I hit this milestone birthday, and much of it is sweetly familiar. It’s good to discover that for now, time mercifully allows change to happen less drastically than I’d imagined. I’m glad I’m sitting here in jeans. After all, I’m dressed appropriately for concentrating on things of weighty significance—the kids, and yes, the model car. A sense of accomplishment? You bet. My little clients are happy, even if I couldn’t get the darn headlights attached. ■

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