Baton Rouge Parents Magazine - August 2020

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T H E M A G A Z I N E T H A T B A T O N R O U G E FA M I L I E S L I V E B Y

STOP OVERPARENTING AND RAISE

AN ADULT

GUNS IN OUR SCHOOLS

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Baton Rouge Parents Magazine has committed to the families of Greater Baton Rouge and surrounding areas for 30 years now. We serve, and our primary goal is to make your life just a little bit easier.

We love our community and have a heartfelt and profound commitment to the children, families, and the community that we all call home.

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CONTENTS AUGUST 2020 ▪ ISSUE 361

FEATURES 34

STOP OVERPARENTING AND RAISE AN ADULT

Letting the reins loose in order to help them grow

KIDS WITH GUNS AT SCHOOL

ON THE COVER

2019-20 Cover Kid Cason C. brought his own poses to his photo shoot for the August issue.

As a first time Cover Kid, Cason made getting the perfect photo look easy. The second he got in front of the camera, his true personality came out.

Cason is very outgoing, funny, and caring. He loves telling jokes and making people laugh with his silly dances. He’s very much a people person who loves helping others, especially his mom with work around the house.

He has a wide variety of interests, too. Cason loves music, especially the Hamilton soundtrack, and he enjoys playing basketball and baseball, going to school, swimming, and playing board games.

Why they’re bringing them and how to practice gun safety

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ROOM PARENT 101

Taking the plunge into becoming a classroom parent

LAYING DOWN THE FOUNDATION

IN EVERY ISSUE

CONNECT

16 COMMUNITY 20 EDUCATION 21 ONE AMAZING KID

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WHY MUSIC EDUCATION MATTERS

Discover the role music plays in our lives

EMOTIONALLY PREPARING YOUR CHILDREN FOR BACK-TO-SCHOOL SEASON

Providing extra support to get children ready for back to school

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WHEN TODDLERS SAY NO! Navigating through this challenging toddler phase

LIVE

26 DAD NEXT DOOR 28 EXCEPTIONAL LIVES 30 FAITH

PLAY

54 A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD 56 GET OUT OF TOWN 58 THINGS WE LOVE

46 LAYING DOWN THE FOUNDATION 2019-20 Cover Kid Sophia T. Photo Credit: Kleinpeter Photography

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Defining STEM, STEAM, and STREAM

26 DAD NEXT DOOR

12 A MOTHER’S VOICE 14 LAGNIAPPE 66 CALENDAR 71 MARKETPLACE 72 THE LAST WORD 74 SNAPSHOTS

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Cancer is relentless Chronic pain is relentless Diabetes is relentless COVID-19 is relentless Heart disease is relentless COPD is relentless

So, We are Relentless We’re ready to provide the care you need.

During challenging times, we know healthcare needs do not stop. That’s why we take extra precautions to keep your visit to Ochsner Health safe and convenient. Whether you have an in person or virtual appointment, we’ve made the several enhancements. We have mobile check-ins, temperature checks at all locations, social distancing protocols, safe and accurate testing, personal protective equipment and more.

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ASK THE EXPERT With so much going on this summer, we have to adjust to so many “new� norms. COVID is a moving target; however, each day, we are getting one step closer to hitting it. Below are some of the frequent questions we are receiving.

Q. SHOULD MY CHILDREN GO TO SCHOOL IN THE FALL? A. Yes, starting this fall we believe children should return to school full-time. There are many considerations that must be taken into account, such as the importance of school not only from the educational aspect, but also the emotional, social and nutritional standpoints as well. Part of childhood development hinges on learning through social interactions, and studies have shown that isolation of children can have such detrimental effects on their long-term psychological well-being. The American Academy of Pediatrics has recently published several articles supporting the return to school this Fall by helping the schools establish guidelines to keep students, teachers, and staff members safe. Some of these safety procedures may include wearing face masks, social distancing, grab and go lunches, temperature checks, and frequent hand washing. Another fantastic resource for returning to school comes from Children's Hospital of Philadelphia, whom we believe has laid out the proper procedures to go back to school in a very doable fashion.

Q. SHOULD MY CHILD WEAR A FACE MASK IN PUBLIC/AT SCHOOL? A. Yes, we believe all children over the age of 2 should wear some form of face coverings while out in public or at school. Each age group will have some exceptions, mostly in the 2-6-year-old age group, but a cloth face covering over the nose and mouth is a safe way to avoid spreading COVID-19.

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IN EVERY ISSUE A MOTHER’S VOICE

Back to School in a New Way

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ugust has always been an exciting month, with the close of summer and the beginning of a new school year. I know many individuals who would mourn the end of the summer holiday, but as a child, I was always ready for the first day of school. Purchasing school supplies, picking out the first day outfit (we didn’t have uniforms then!) and knowing that my classes would be exciting–if only for the first few months, were all things I looked forward to doing.

This year is going to be different, though. With COVID-19 causing change in our everyday routines, we have been making adjustments to our children’s learning experiences, too. Many schools aren’t returning to inperson classroom time until after Labor Day. By this time, kiddos are usually saying “I’m bored” everyday, most likely have sunburns, and are tired of staying at home. However, with everything going on, it puts us all in an interesting position. With school being virtual for a few more weeks, we also may be experiencing extracurriculars virtually, too. I’m curious to see how that will come together!

There’s no better time than now to talk with your children to determine what their expectations are for after-school activities. It’s going to be a little different for us all, but regardless, extracurriculars are still very important for our little learners to try.

Schedule some time to sit down with your family and discuss the activities your children want to attempt this year. The single most important component to selecting their after-school activities is to allow them to make the decision.

Be sure to plan plenty of family time, too. While things may get busy this time of year with the excitement of potentially getting outdoors more, having time when the family can come together to unwind will be beneficial for everyone.

Amy Foreman-Plaisance Publisher/Editor in Chief

Have ideas? I’d like to hear from you.

By mail: Amy P., 11831 Wentling Ave., Baton Rouge, LA 70816 Email: editorial@brparents.com. Be sure to include your name, address, and daytime phone number.

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IN EVERY ISSUE LAGNIAPPE

SCHOOL SUPPLY SHOPPING

Finding the right color folders, making sure your child has the correct amount of composition notebooks and pencils, and getting enough copy paper can make school supply shopping a drag.

However, the time for buying school supplies is here and many parents are dreading it. Luckily, there are options that help make the buying easier.

One option? Pre-packed school supplies. These come with everything your child needs for the school year and it saves you time on running from store to store to make sure you find everything on the list. Another great option is Target’s School List Assist. You can choose whether you want the supplies delivered to your door or available for pick up. Just put in your zip code and find your child’s school. Target will then gather the supplies on the list and either ship them to your home or have them ready for you to pick up. Some parents stick to the on-your-own shopping method.

The majority of our readers (78 percent to be exact!) chose heading to the store themselves.

Why? It allows them to pick out only the things they need and find notebooks, pencils, and binders that they know their child will like. Twenty two percent of readers prefer staying in. With the way times are changing, we can imagine that number will be higher in the coming years.

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FAMILY FAVORITES NOMINATIONS POUR IN!

Wow! We received over 21,000 different business nominations during the nomination process of our 2020 Family Favorites. We’re so happy to share the top five nominees with you in each category this month. Visit us online to cast your votes for who you think should win. Voting will end on Monday, August 31.

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Having kids feels like that first seventh grade crush that overwhelms every molecule in your body, but it’s permanent.”

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Have your voice heard, and submit your favorites.

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CONNECT COMMUNITY CHECK YOUR HAND SANITIZERS FOR POTENTIAL TOXIN

As our lives slowly begin to expand after the strict stay-at-home orders of spring, our need to use hand sanitizer also begins to go way up. Unfortunately, not all hand sanitizers are created equal, and some may be potentially toxic. The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has released a list of recalled hand sanitizers that may contain methanol, or wood alcohol, which can be toxic when absorbed through the skin or ingested. We should all check our hand sanitizers against the growing list kept by the FDA, and properly dispose of any sanitizers that contain methanol. Washing with soap and warm water for at least 20 seconds is the best way to clean hands. ■ fda.gov

YOUNG ENTREPRENEURS ACADEMY OF BATON ROUGE GOES VIRTUAL

Calling all business-minded teens! Students who are entering 8th to 12th grades can now apply to become part of the 2020-21 class of Young Entrepreneurs Academy of Baton Rouge. The after-school program teaches students how to start and run their own companies. Working with instructors from the LSU E.J. Ourso College of Business, the young CEOs will create a business plan, pitch to an investor panel for seed money, file their business with the Louisiana Secretary of State’s office, and launch their own company while working with the program. Program graduates are even eligible for LSU credit. The academy will take place in a virtual format this year. The deadline to apply is Friday, August 21. ■ yeabr.org/apply

NEW LAW SUPPORTS ADULTS WHO ARE LIVING WITH DISABILITIES

A new law went into effect on August 1 that will allow people who are living with disabilities to live more independently. The Dustin Gary Act, named for a Mandeville man, brings Louisiana in line with 22 other states, allowing someone with disabilities to legally have a team of people help them make important decisions while still retaining their rights. Sponsored by representatives Paula Davis, Richard Nelson and Charles Owen, and senators Heather Cloud, Franklin Foil and Patrick McMath, and signed into law by Gov. John Bel Edwards, the Supported Decision Making Act provides a less restrictive option to assist adults living with disabilities in making their own decisions about their finances, living situations, relationships, health, and services and supports they may be receiving.

UV DETECTION STICKERS HELP PREVENT SUNBURN

Summer weather won’t be gone in southern Louisiana for many more weeks, and even as we settle into some new school routine, we will surely be soaking up more sun. Applying sunscreen is always important, but it’s not always easy to remember when to reapply. SPOTMYUV is a clinically proven UV detection sticker that can help.

The sticker starts purple, and when you apply sunscreen on top, it turns clear. As the sunscreen wears off, the sticker changes back to purple, indicating more sunscreen is needed. The color change is reversible, so each sticker lasts through multiple sunscreen applications throughout the day. The stickers, which cost about $1 each, are waterproof, sweat-resistant, and hypoallergenic. ■ spotmyuv.com 16

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COUPLE RECEIVES FREE IVF

Building a family should come easily, but for some, that isn’t the case. Fertility Answers and Ovation Fertility have provided a grant for one couple to start their family with in vitro fertilization. Heather and Tyler Quirk have endured more than five years of unexplained infertility. Without the grant, the $15,00020,000 IVF cycle was cost prohibitive for the Quirks. “We started the program as a way to help Louisiana couples undergo IVF who could not otherwise afford it. Our clinic has always been community-minded, and this is another example of our commitment to furthering access to fertility healthcare in our state,” says Dr. John Storment, Fertility Answers founder.

HEAD AND SHOULDERS KNEES AND TOES, AND EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN.

HONOR WOUNDED WARRIORS WITH COLOR

Showing patriotism this summer has meant staying home to protect ourselves and others.

Wounded Warrior Project has released coloring pages to provide a way for families to share their appreciation for wounded warriors and have a meditative coloring experience as well.

The organization’s focus is helping veterans and service members who incurred a physical or mental injury, illness, or wound while serving.

The organization has adapted its services due to COVID-19 and is seeking donations to help recovering warriors thrive during these difficult times and beyond. ■ woundedwarriorproject.org

At Magnolia Pediatrics, our doctors do way more than treat coughs and bandage scrapes.

We specialize in whole-kid care, from the tops of busy heads to the tips of tiny (and not-so-tiny) toes.

Call 225.744.4484 to join the Magnolia Pediatrics family today.

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MARDI GRAS GOING TO DISNEY

Disneyland in California and the Magic Kingdom in Florida will soon add a bit of Mardi Gras magic as Splash Mountain is being re-imagined in the style of the animated film, The Princess and the Frog. Disney regularly updates attractions, and this new concept is more inclusive. Charita Carter, senior creative producer at Walt Disney Imagineering, says, “Like Princess Tiana, I believe that courage and love are the key ingredients for wonderful adventures. I am delighted to be a part of bringing this fun-filled experience to our guests.” A timeline for the change hasn’t been announced, but we can’t wait to see how Louisiana is portrayed.

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CONNECT COMMUNITY JASON MOMOA TO VOICE FROSTY IN LIVE-ACTION REMAKE

Do you wanna build a snowman? If the result of your snowman building turns out looking like Jason Momoa, then the answer is absolutely YES. And, you may be quite the artist if that is the case, too. Frosty the Snowman is being remade this year, and the snowman who comes to life thanks to the magic in “that old silk hat they found” will be voiced by the actor who is best known for his roles in Game of Thrones as Khal Drogo and Aquaman as Aquaman/Arthur Curry.

The movie is currently being developed by Jon Berg, Greg Silverman and Geoff Johns and will be a hybrid computer graphics and live-action film that will be perfect for the entire family to enjoy this holiday season. The movie is expected to be released in December, just in time for Christmas.

CHILDREN’S COUGH SYRUPS RECALLED

When our littles are sick, we will do anything to help them feel better. With a cough, that often includes pouring out doses of cough syrup. Two types, Children’s Robitussin Honey Cough Chest Congestion DM and Children’s Dimetapp Cold and Cough, manufactured

by GlaxoSmithKline Consumer Healthcare, have been voluntarily recalled. The measuring cups within the packaging have incorrect dosage markings, leading to the possibility a child would get too little or too much medicine, and too much can be toxic. No adverse reactions or consumer complaints had been filed with the FDA when the recall was issued. Questions for GSK Consumer Healthcare can be asked by calling during weekday business hours.

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FLEXIBILITY IS KEY FOR MOMS WORKING FROM HOME

Without access to child care during COVID-19, 40 percent of working moms are working even more to make up for interruptions, according to a new survey by HeyMama and InHerSight. The surveys said flexibility is what moms need most from employers. “Flexibility has always been really important to women in general and moms specifically, as they try to balance work and life and make the best decisions for their families,” says Ursula Mead, CEO and cofounder of InHerSight. “Throw in a pandemic and a lot of our day-to-day needs from regular, non-stressful times become that much more acute and critical.”

OCHSNER HOSPITAL FOR CHILDREN RECEIVES NATIONAL RECOGNITION

As many know, top care for pediatric heart patients is just a short drive down I-10. For the fourth consecutive year, Ochsner Hospital for Children in New Orleans has been recognized for cardiology and heart surgery and has been named a top 50 children’s hospital by U.S. News & World Reports, the global authority in hospital rankings and consumer advice. The hospital is the only children’s hospital in Louisiana to receive this prestigious honor. “Ochsner Hospital for Children works collaboratively across pediatric specialty disciplines to provide our patients with world-class care,” says William Lennarz, MD, System Chair of Pediatrics, Ochsner Hospital for Children.

“We are proud of the work we do to keep kids across the Gulf South and beyond healthy. It is truly an honor to be recognized as a national leader in pediatric care.”

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NEW WEBSITE HELPS TEENS NAVIGATE GROWING UP

Life comes at you fast, and at no time does it feel faster than the teen years. Sexual Trauma Awareness and Response (STAR) has developed a new website called STARt Here to help young people develop skills to have hard conversations about relationships and sex, explore boundaries and relationship needs, and learn the warning signs of unhealthy relationships. Parents of teens can also use the site to find resources to start conversations about healthy sexuality. There’s also a contact feature that allows submissions of anonymous questions, and answers are added to the FAQ page.

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We’re here for ALL your bruises, bumps, and burns.

OLOL OPENS PEDIATRIC ENT CLINIC

The quality of care for children’s health continues to rise in the capital region. Our Lady of the Lake Children’s Health has added a new specialty clinic–pediatric otolaryngology, more commonly known as ear, nose and throat–with Michael Dunham, MD, as leader. “We are excited to welcome Dr. Michael Dunham to Baton Rouge and add this much needed speciality to our offerings to the Baton Rouge area,” says Dr. Trey Dunbar, OLOL Children’s Health president. “Dr. Dunham brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to serve our pediatric population close to home.” The team will treat newborns through adolescents with head and neck disorders ranging from common to rare and complex.

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The littlest among us have unique challenges understanding the pandemic. Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood, the animated PBS KIDS series, will kick off its new season with a COVID-19 special on August 17 to help toddlers and preschoolers deal with those challenges. In the special, “Won’t You Sing Along with Me?” Daniel learns that the annual neighborhood carnival has been canceled, and he has to cope with missing everyone, keeping himself and others healthy, and making the most of extra time at home.

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The East Baton Rouge Parish School System has made the technology jump to online registration for this school year. The new system integrates with existing student management software, eliminating extra steps and duplication of data entry while limiting in-person interactions, particularly important during COVID-19. “Online enrollment is the next step in meeting our families’ 21st-century technology needs,” says outgoing Superintendent Warren Drake. “Our families rely on technology to pay bills, shop, order groceries, etc. They expect their children’s schools to provide similar ease and access.” Student transfers are still managed outside this registration system.

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WHAM FAMILIES BAKE TO STAY CONNECTED

Getting creative in the kitchen with baking projects is a great way to pass the time at home.

Westdale Heights Academic Magnet School recognized that and took it to the next level with its Great WHAM Bake Off. The WHAM parent-teacher organization challenged families to create a WHAM-themed dessert, and families, faculty and staff responded in a big way. “During the pandemic, they have created ways for our families to connect and engage,” says Principal Catasha N. Edwards. “These activities have made it possible for our students to be close together even when we are apart.” Winning confections received prizes from the PTO. ■ facebook.com/ebrmagnet.org

DUTCHTOWN HIGH SCHOOL PRINCIPAL IS NAMED 2020 STATE PRINCIPAL OF THE YEAR

The 2020 State Principal of the Year for Louisiana is Carli Francois of Dutchtown High School. The award is presented by the National Association of Secondary School Principals, the leading organization of and voice for middle and high school principals and other school leaders in the United States. “I am humbled and honored to represent educators in the state of Louisiana, in Ascension Parish Schools, and at Dutchtown High School,” Francois says. “The part of this experience that excites me most is being given the opportunity to meet, network with, and ultimately learn from outstanding principals from around the country.” Francois was also named the 2019-2020 Louisiana Principal of the Year by Louisiana Dream Teachers. ■ nassp.org

PARKVIEW BAPTIST SCHOOL’S BEAUTY & THE BEAST PERFORMANCE ON DEMAND

The show must go on, and the student cast and crew of Parkview Baptist School’s Fine Arts Department’s Beauty and the Beast production performed the tale as old as time in different ways for all audiences. The family-friendly performances were rescheduled from March due to the COVID-19 school closures. More than 100 students in grades 4 through 12 took part in bringing the story to life with exciting staging, special effects, classic Disney songs, and show-stopping dance numbers. In addition to the socially distanced and audience-masked live performances, Parkview made the show available online to viewers from all over to ensure that more viewers could be their guests during the performances. ■ parkviewbaptist.com/watch

LIVINGSTON RECEIVES FEDERAL FUNDS TO REBUILD FLOODED SCHOOLS

Livingston Parish Schools have been awarded more than $57 million in federal funds to rebuild school campuses damaged during the August 2016 floods. Denham Springs Elementary, Southside Elementary and Southside Junior High will have enlarged and much improved campuses when work is complete. “These campuses will be larger, fully code compliant, more efficient and better equipped for learning inside and outside the classroom,” Murphy says. “We are excited about what these facilities will mean for our system and the Denham Springs community, and we are most grateful that the federal funding will allow us to cover most of the cost.”

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Turning 14 this month, Maddie Wilson already has experience as an attorney through Teen Court of Greater Baton Rouge. The diversion program helps teen offenders stay out of the judicial system and lower rates of recidivism. Starting ninth grade at St. Joseph’s Academy, Maddie has been part of Teen Court since fifth grade and was the youngest volunteer attorney.

“I prepare a line of questioning, get to know the defendant and work to get them a constructive sentence that will keep them on the right track,” Maddie says. A licensed attorney serves as the judge, and a jury of teens makes each ruling.

Maddie volunteers for other causes, including weekly service at an assisted living facility as well as hair donations, food drives and toy drives. She has also received many academic honors. “She’s never made a B in her life,” says Gina Wilson, Maddie’s mom.

Maddie was recognized by the Duke TIP program and has received writing awards.

As a St. George eighth grader, Maddie was a finalist in the Student of the Year competition, honored for her academics and community service. “We are so proud of the inspiring individual she has become and are certain the Student of the Year process has made her more confident in her abilities,” Gina says.

Maddie says she lives her life by the values from a Theodore Roosevelt quote: “Do what you can with what you have, where you are.”

Gina says Maddie’s huge heart is what really makes her amazing. “She’s been blessed with a lot of abilities and talents, and she recognizes that and does what she can to give those back to others through her community service.”

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Louisiana teachers earn about $10,000 less than the national average salary, according to documentary series American Paycheck, premiering on Million Stories, a new online financial literacy entertainment channel. The series focuses on millennials and money– how they make it, what they do with it and how they cope with adverse financial situations. A recent episode of the series profiles two Louisiana teachers, Kimberly Eckhart, who is the 2018 Louisiana Teacher of the Year, and Randy Smith, who is the VFW 2019 Teacher of the Year. The episode focuses on their financial struggles and why they love teaching despite them.

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STUDENTS RECOGNIZED IN NATIONAL GIS COMPETITION

Louisiana middle school and high school students who participated in the nationwide 2020 ArcGIS Online Competition created inspiring, immersive stories using text, interactive maps and other multimedia content. The competition started last October, challenging students to develop their Geographic Information System (GIS) skills with the Esri ArcGIS Online Story Map Application. Story Maps from Jonathan Nuygen and Ahmad Zidan, the eighth-grade team from Park Forest Middle School, and St. Joseph’s Academy ninth grader Katherine Winchester received the state judges’ highest scores, and the Park Forest entry was 1 of 16 entries that received special recognition. Each student received a $100 cash prize.

U-HIGH STUDENT NAMED 2020 STATE STUDENT OF THE YEAR

DUNHAM TEACHER HONORED AS MASTER TEACHER

Honoring teachers for their dedication is so important.

The Dunham School honored history teacher and baseball coach Mitch McIlwain with The Liz Peters Master Teacher Award. Named for the school’s first employee, the honor recognizes outstanding teaching at Dunham with the intent to inspire excellence and retain master teachers. “It is very humbling. We have some amazing teachers at Dunham, and I have learned so much from them that it is hard to consider myself a ‘master teacher,’” McIlwain says. “I absolutely love my job and am honored to be recognized in this way.”

Piper Cangelosi of University Laboratory School has been named the 2020 Louisiana Student of the Year by the state Department of Education. Piper maintains a 4.0 GPA, and she is a basketball player, pianist, actor and an active volunteer through Girl Scouts and her church. The middle school and high school students of the year are both from the Shreveport area: Zachary Evans Cryer from Benton Middle and Antavion Jacarri Moore from Ringgold High. “It takes dedication, sacrifice and talent to excel at the levels of these three young people. I’m proud to have them represent what’s possible for students in Louisiana,” says State Superintendent of Education, Dr. Cade Brumley.

LIVINGSTON SCHOOLS TO OFFER STUDENTS NEW VIRTUAL PROGRAM

In a case of great timing, Livingston Parish Public Schools is launching a full-time virtual school this fall, unrelated to COVID-19. The alternative is for current home school, charter, and private school students in grades 6 to 12 and has limited openings only for parish residents. “Our district has been researching an effective virtual school option for our students for over three years, and we believe the format we plan to offer this fall will give them the best structure for success,” says Assistant Superintendent Jody Purvis.

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LOUISIANA PUBLIC BROADCASTING HELPS BRIDGE THE GAP FOR EDUCATION

In support of Louisiana school districts, educators, parents, caregivers and students, Louisiana Public Broadcasting continues to provide enhanced distance learning education through its Bridging the Gap program. Providing pathways on the air, online and through printed packets, the state network of six noncommercial TV stations helps keep learning going even during school closures and modified schedules that were made necessary during the pandemic.

In addition to airing quality content and instruction videos for school subjects, including math, science and social studies aligned with Louisiana standards, Louisiana Public Broadcasting also holds virtual training for educators across the state on how to best use the content provided by the program.

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fter an extensive nationwide search, Episcopal School of Baton Rouge welcomes Dr. Carrie Steakley as Head of School. With decades of experience in education, Dr. Steakley was most recently the Head of Upper School for St. Mary’s Episcopal School in Memphis, Tennessee. Dr. Steakley began her career as an educator in Tennessee public schools. Eventually, her passion for students and commitment to teachers inspired her to take on senior leadership positions, including the Shelby school district’s National Science Foundation Grant Program Manager and the National Coalition of Girls’ Schools STEM Mentor. Dr. Steakley is a founding board member for One Schoolhouse, an online educational institution and has taught aspiring educators as a professor at Union University and Christian Brothers University. Now, Dr. Steakley brings that dedication to educating tomorrow’s leaders to her role as the fifth Head of School in Episcopal’s 50+ year history.

“It may be impossible to fully convey the sense of honor, responsibility, and excitement I feel to serve as the next Head of School at Episcopal School of Baton Rouge. Throughout the entire search process, every member of the Episcopal family with whom my husband and I interacted embodied the school’s mission with remarkable clarity, enabling me to understand why the school is so well-positioned for continued success in the years ahead. It became readily apparent that the foundation for the future has been established over the past 50 plus years because of Episcopal’s unwavering commitment to its Episcopal heritage within a diverse community where a life of honor and service to others binds generations of graduates past, present, and still to come.”

E PISCOPAL School of Baton Rouge selective institutions. In March, school officials celebrated the opening of the Episcopal Field House, which serves students in all divisions and is a symbol of the school’s commitment to health and wellness. Construction is nearing completion on the QUEST Center which will provide an inspiring and innovative environment in which Lower and Middle School students can engage in project and experiential-based learning. Within the past three years, Episcopal also celebrated the opening of the new Academic Commons and the renovation of the Lewis Memorial Chapel of the Good Shepherd. These campus improvements ensure students have learning spaces to support their academic journey, and teachers have environments in which to challenge students to think critically and live lives of purpose and meaning.

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Brandon Craft

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OCCUPATION ▪ Homebuilder WIFE ▪ Cherith CHILDREN ▪ Adlee, 14; Myla, 12; Ciel, 8; and Corey, 3 HOBBIES ▪ Spending time with friends and family and cooking

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hether he was waiting tables, running a recycling department or working at the ballpark, Brandon Craft credits all of his previous jobs for helping to prepare him for what he does now–creating unique homes by thinking outside the box.

However, Brandon does more than just build homes for families to live in. Each day, he strives to build a life for his family that is full of love and compassion, offering them a place where they know there will always be someone in their corner to help them get over life’s hurdles.

How would you describe raising your children?

was in the church. We wanted to be involved in

letter after there was some struggle between us

B: We are taking a proactive approach. We are

making a difference. I had gone to a breakfast

and she said, “I know you love me and I know you

really trying to be intentional about the way that

where someone was running for mayor, and he

want what is best for me. I don’t agree with what

we parent. We are making sure that we’re dialed

was talking about all these homes where kids are

you’re telling me to do, but I do know that your

in more than usual, that our focus is really on

being raised in disadvantaged homes. So, my wife

heart is in the right place.” So for us, that was a

our kids. We’re doing everything we can to be as

and I sat down and started talking about fostering

win to realize that our kids get that while they

engaged as we can.

and realized that was a way we could make a

may not like our decisions, they know we want

difference in a child’s life.

what is best for them.

B: We’re building a farmhouse in Mississippi for

What’s the greatest thing about being a dad?

How has parenthood changed you?

family time so that we can be away from the busy.

B: It’s just the experience as a whole. With

B: It has made me realize what an advantage I

Also, as a family, we decided to foster. It’s very

kids, it’s very rewarding to walk through the

have because I grew up with parents who loved

much so a family experience because if our kids

experiences of seeing a kid and seeing them

me. It has made me aware of the advantages

aren’t onboard, it’s going to make it hard for us

come into the person they are ultimately going

that my kids have as a result of having parents

to be successful in that. And so far, they love it!

to become.

who love them, and I think that feeds into

What do you like to do as a family?

They want more of it and love the experience.

the fostering side. We want to give that same What was your latest dad win?

opportunity to as many kids as we can to say that,

What made you decide to start fostering?

B: We have a 14 year old who is entering the “boy

“Hey, there’s someone who is in your corner and

B: We were kind of at a loss for what our role

stage,” and it’s a challenge. She had written us a

wants what’s best for you.”

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What has your job taught you about parenting?

B: Failure is absolutely essential. Each week, we ask our kids what they failed at. The intention is we want our kids to understand failure because you’re not going to make the right decisions every time. I want them to be pushing themselves, and the same thing holds true for the guys on our team. It’s explaining to them that I want them to fail because that’s how we’re going to get to something brand new and unique.

What kind of dad are you?

B: A purposeful one. I am behind on this, but I try to take each of my girls on a date, one girl per month. Each girl gets a night where it’s just the two of us, to be able to just talk and have me

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My dad taught me the value of hard work and my

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mom taught me to have a relationship with the Lord, so I think that is why I am so strong on the foster care side because I feel that I have been given so much and I want to offer that to other kids as well.

What’s your biggest goal in life right now?

B: It is a consistent goal to be dialed in with the kids to make sure that we are spending time with them. ■

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Teamwork Makes the Dream Work: Advocacy Leads to Unique Preschool Launch

By Mari Walker

Katrina Rivers Labouliere doesn’t feel like her life is particularly exceptional despite her years of advocacy work with the Deaf and Hard-of-Hearing community.

“I just feel like I am a catalyst for creating programs and making things happen and pulling together a team,” she says. “Team Blue, my team, they deserve the credit. They work tirelessly and trust every idea I come up with. I have an amazing team of passionate people.”

Labouliere’s team is expanding in the Baton Rouge area with the creation of Blue Bridge Academy, a language immersion daycare and preschool for American Sign Language (ASL) and English that is scheduled to open later this year.

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The idea for the school was planted long ago. The oldest child of two Deaf parents, Labouliere’s first language is ASL, and she studied communication disorders in college.

“Early on in my career, working in education I saw the disparities of children with disabilities, but my main focus was children with hearing loss,” Labouliere says. “It is always something that’s been near and dear to my heart.”

Labouliere is mom to five daughters, ages 14 to 23. As a preschooler, her oldest was one of two hearing children in her class. “Her understanding soared being in a bilingual environment all day, every day. That was 18 years ago, and that sort of planted a seed early in my career.”

That career took her to Washington, DC, and back home to Louisiana in 2013.

While maintaining her job as executive

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vice president of DC-based Birnbaum Interpreting Services, Labouliere founded Communications Consulting Group LLC, providing interpreting services, including ASL nationwide, document translation, captioning services and more.

“Communication in and of itself is a fundamental human right,” Labouliere says. “When I see anyone deprived of communication, it really lights a fire in a way that I can’t just sit idly by and watch this happen.”

The success of the CC Group led to a partnership with a local nonprofit, which was restructured as the CC Group Foundation, a community empowerment organization focused on filling gaps within the state for Deaf, Hard-ofHearing, Deaf-Blind and the visually impaired community’s access to services and resources Labouliere calls Blue Bridge Academy her “heart and soul,” and it took some time to become a reality.

Labouliere teaches an ASL class at Walker High School, and through that work met the mom of a Deaf child who wanted to learn ASL and about Deaf culture. That meeting reignited the spark to open such a school. Labouliere hired that mom as director of parent relations and brought in more experts to lead. “It’s not structured like a regular daycare center because this is such a unique thing and we want to make sure all children’s needs are served.”

Solely owned by Labouliere, the independent academy will be located on O’Hara Court in a building that was part of the former Woman’s Hospital campus.

A Type III childcare facility, it will accommodate more than 100 children.

“This project has just been another labor of love with a whole team of phenomenal people,” Labouliere says.

“We want to continue to work with our community partners, work with our children and be able to provide the kids what they need.” ■

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ur world has undergone enormous change in just a few months. Who would have ever thought we would be talking about the good old days of just last year? In a period of only two months, we have seen unemployment go from record lows to record highs. We’ve seen the stock market take unprecedented plunges.

With the mandated stay-at-home order, the economy came to a screeching halt.

Businesses closed, some to never reopen. Thousands of individuals have been laid off from their jobs. These have been the most trying times.

Now that things are slowly beginning to reopen, there are many questions that remain unanswered. Is it safe to sit down at a restaurant? Is it safe to fly? Is it safe to take a cruise? Have we seen the worst of the pandemic? What about this fall? Will there be a new surge of COVID-19 cases, the dreaded “second wave?” How do we navigate such times of uncertainty?

The Apostle Paul knew times of ease and prosperity, but he also knew times of great hardship. His words are instructive and encouraging: “I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:11-13).

There are two important truths we must remember as we go through these uncertain times. 1. Nothing is uncertain to God; He is sovereign over all things. He is working His purposes perfectly. For His children, God manifests the same love as we go through difficulties as He manifests during times of abundance. We must learn contentment and learn to trust Him in all things. 2. During times of uncertainty, those who know the Lord Jesus Christ have found a sure foundation and a solid rock. When everything else seems to be failing, Jesus remains the same; He will never fail. Paul is saying that Christ is sufficient. It is good to be satisfied in Him. ■

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Imagine spending all this time and energy raising your kids, and then when you send them off to college someday, you still have to call to wake them up every morning to make sure they get to class on time. Sounds shocking, right? When I was in college 20 years ago, I can recall going multiple days, maybe even up to a couple of weeks, without communicating with my parents. Sure, this was before cell phones, text messaging and Facebook, but it just wasn’t necessary to talk to my parents that often. They gave me plenty of freedom to live my own life and to explore and grow during those incredible years as I blossomed into an independent adult. Somehow, I figured out how to register for classes, study, eat, do my own laundry, meet new friends, get over break ups, and handle bad grades, all on my own.

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Nowadays, high school graduates enter college as children, incapable of taking care of themselves. According to Julie Lythcott-Haims, author of How To Raise An Adult, overparenting and prolonged childhood are an epidemic in this country.

As the Dean of Freshman at Stanford University for 10 years, Julie Lythcott-Haims witnessed firsthand some disturbing trends of college students. Although they were more successful on paper than ever before, with pages of accolades, high test scores, leadership roles, varsity letters, overseas experiences, unique community service projects, etc., these students were also less familiar with who they were, and their own goals and dreams. So many of them appeared to be robot-like, blindly following the directions of their parents to participate in certain activities and take 34

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She also noticed that these kids couldn’t do much for themselves and still relied on mom and dad to help. They were constantly on the phone with their parents asking for advice and requesting that they take care of basic tasks like registering them for classes, sending them special packages, advising them on their homework, and even contacting professors if they did not receive the perfect grade.

How on earth will these young adults ever hold a job and function in the real world if they can’t take care of themselves during college?

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makes it very clear: we have no one to blame but ourselves. The patterns that lead to this detrimental behavior start right now, even if your kids are in kindergarten.

Are you one of these types of parents?

■ Overprotective. You view the world as unsafe, scary, and unpredictable, so you do everything possible to protect your children instead of preparing them to learn how to handle life’s challenges.

■ Tiger parent. You provide fierce direction to your kid, telling him that you know what’s best for him to be successful.

■ Excessive hand holder. You do everything for your kids to make life as pleasant as possible for them. You are their concierge, chauffeur, handler, scheduler, and secretary.

These helicopter parenting styles are impeding our children. Parents today feel

like their kids can’t be successful without them helping at every turn and hovering over them. They spend so much time planning, protecting, directing, and nagging that they are ultimately stunting their growth. We are taking away the ability for our children to learn self-efficacy, says Lythcott-Haims. This incredibly important skill is a fundamental aspect of the human psyche. It is when individuals realize that their own actions lead to outcomes, that they have power to direct their own lives. “If our children are to build self efficacy, then they need to do more of the thinking, planning, deciding, hoping, coping, trial and error, dreaming, and experiencing life for themselves. We may ensure some short-term goals by over helping, but it comes as a long-term cost to their sense of self. We should be more concerned that they have the habits, skill set, mindset, and wellness to be successful no matter what their future holds,” she announces.

This is worrisome because we all want our children to be able to function without us, to fulfill their dreams and live happy, healthy, successful lives. So, how can we stop doing everything for our kids? Here are some steps to get started.

Stop Making Everything About You Many parents try to live through their children because they are unsatisfied with their own childhood. They may even refer to their child’s grades and activities as “ours.” Learn to separate what’s yours from what’s theirs. We also have to stop trying to mold our kids into something they are not. We will all be much better off if we love our children for who they are and support them.

Teach Them New Skills The only way our children will learn to do things for themselves is if we provide opportunities for them to learn new skills.

This starts during preschool when we ask our children to dress themselves and use a fork properly. With each new year, there are so many chances to help develop their skill set. The best way to teach our kids a new skill is to: 1) do it for them, 2) do it with them, 3) watch them do it on their own, and 4) let them do it on their own.

Wouldn’t you rather gradually teach your kids and not have to cram everything in on the way to college move-in day?!

Let Them Fend For Themselves and Learn From Their Mistakes

It is so important that our children learn how to speak up for themselves and communicate with authority figures and peers alike. We have to stop trying to clean up all their messes for them and protect them from failure. The only way they will grow is if they make mistakes and learn how to handle them.

Give Your Kids Experiences Even if it is totally out of your comfort zone, try to let your kids experience activities without you that will help them build self-confidence and independence.

Sleepovers, all-day sports or other competitions, camping trips, and sleepaway camp are some good examples. Last summer, my son went off to sleepaway camp for four weeks, and it was very difficult for me. I cried for days worrying about him. But, you know what? When I saw him on visiting day, I was blown away by how happy he was and how mature he acted. I was petrified that he would pick up bad habits and become a rotten kid, but the opposite happened–he became an even more amazing version of himself.

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Kids with Guns at School

By Jannean Dixon, M.Ed.

“The year was 1965. My brother and I attended a small country school. It was not uncommon for students to drive to school with weapons on gun-racks in pickup trucks. Rifles, shotguns, and pistols of all shapes and sizes could be found in the parking lot. Often, there was ammunition in the same vehicles, especially during hunting season. It was commonplace to go to the parking lot at recess and look at and hold a weapon, teachers and the principal, too. It was not a problem, as long as the firearms stayed in the parking lot. There were never threats or jokes made about using a weapon to harm other students. It was weird, it was different, it was nonthreatening. Today, my heart stops at the thought of a student carrying a weapon to school,” explains John W., a local father and grandfather while discussing the topic of children, guns, and schools.

Firearm Frenzy The Center for Disease Control and Prevention found that nearly 1,300 children are killed by firearms every year and another 5,790 children are injured by gunfire. Louisiana is fourth in the nation for firearm related deaths. According to Giffords Law Center, Louisiana has no minimum age requirement to possess rifles or shotguns, but the state prevents children under the 38

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age of 17 from knowingly possessing a handgun. Our state also has no laws preventing children from having access to firearms.

Giffords’ Child Access Prevention document reports, “4.6 million minors in the US live in homes with at least one loaded, unlocked firearm. Many children know where their parents keep their guns and have accessed household guns–even if their parents think otherwise. 73

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percent of children under age 10 living in homes with guns reported knowing the location of their parents’ firearms, and 36 percent admitted they had handled the weapons.”

Hands on Guns Only one third of firearm owners report storing their firearms unloaded and locked, which lends itself to easy access for children to get their hands on the unlocked weapons. Children who don’t have access to firearms at their homes often look to other resources to get the guns, such as friends and snooping around the homes of friends.

“Kids have expressed to me that the majority of the time, they need a weapon for their protection. They will tell you that they are hot on the streets, meaning someone trying to kill them,” shares Captain Margie Davis Lias with the School Drug Task Force. “Some of the children breed a mentality that if they live in a neighborhood where there is gunfire all of the time, they should have a gun. They have stated that they can get a gun anywhere, and it is as easy as buying candy.

During our investigations, they have stated that three or four of them [kids] literally go to a neighborhood, walk down the street at two or three in the morning, pulling on car doors looking for unlocked vehicles. They refer to that as ‘car surfing’.”

However, kids will also go online.

Strictly speaking, Letgo and Craigslist prohibit the sale of firearms on their sites, but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t other sites that children can access. There are also rumors of work-arounds on the popular sites, including using codewords and phrases.

Code Words Most firearms obtained by children are taken from relatives’ or friends’ homes or stolen. Because most kids know they are not supposed to have guns, there are a lot of pseudonyms or code words used to discuss them. General terms include: strap, burner, heat, heater, handle, grip, pipe, can, hammer, piece, tool, ratchet, blicky, thang, jawn, chrome, metal, iron, arm, banger, biscuit, flamer, get, llama, steel, nose, toner, tone, instrument, scorcher, thumper, and jammy. Other, more caliber specific terms include: m&m, four-pound, fever, Tre, deuce, Emmit Smith, and a fifty. Brand or type specific terms include: firestick, boomstick, marty-grizzle, grizzle, Elmer Fudd, Fudd, walking-stick, cane, bird, and machine.

Bringing the Guns to School Students who have been asked about having a gun on school grounds have reported various reasons why. The top reason students are bringing firearms to school was reported as protection.

Students who are victims of bullying are far more likely to bring firearms to school. Some students reported wanting to use the firearm to gain respect from peers, others just wanted to show the gun to their friends, a misguided show and tell. There are also students who have access to and possession of a firearm outside of school and don’t remember to leave it when they come to school.

Local high school teacher, Mandy G. shares about a time she found a gun on

her school campus, “We did sporadic book bag checks. I was on the team looking through the kids’ bags. I reached my hand in and felt the handgun. I was so scared and confused. My mind was racing as I asked the student to move toward the security guard and I had to get the gun to the principal without alerting other students to the presence of the gun. The student who brought the gun was a good kid, pretty quiet, kept to himself. I can’t help but wonder what would have happened if we hadn’t had the book check. When the student was interviewed, he said that he didn’t realize that the gun was in his book sack. He was so used to carrying the firearm outside of school that he didn’t realize he’d brought it onto campus. Oddly, we had a potential teacher on campus that day who was interviewing for a teaching position at the school. When he found out that we did book bag checks, he left stating that he felt that checking the students’ bags was a violation of their privacy.”

Although there is no way to quantify the amount of guns entering school campuses, the National Center for Education Statistics reports that during the 2016-17 school year, guns were brought to or possessed on school campuses 3,300 times.

Parental Involvement Communication with your children about gun safety is the first step in keeping them gun safe. ProjectChildSafe.org offers suggestions and resources for parents, including identifying where gun owners can receive free gun locks. Included on their website is their S.A.F.E. strategy: Store firearms responsibly-Always practice firearm safety-Focus on your responsibility as a firearm owner and-Education is key to preventing accidents.

Children are likely to be curious about guns. Take advantage of this curiosity by teaching gun safety. Children are more likely to act in an extreme way when they are in a mental health crisis. Parents can look for these signs that their child needs support: rapid mood swings, excessively tired or unable to sleep, self-isolation, appetite change, and unusual agitation. ■

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Room Parent 101

By Julie Engelhardt

Many parents jump right in as soon as their children enter preschool or elementary school, taking on the role of the room parent. A room parent can be considered the lead volunteer in the classroom, taking care of everything from parties to asking the other parents to pitch in when needed. Teachers depend on these lead parents to keep schedules going and non-academic activities organized.

If you’ve never taken the plunge to become the room parent in your children’s classrooms, we’re here to give you some pointers as to how you can gain the “courage” to become a super volunteer.

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Teachers’ work days are non-stop–they’re busy instructing, managing the classroom, planning lessons and attending meetings with fellow teachers or the principal. It’s no secret that teachers also take work home with them, whether they’re grading papers, working on report cards, or trying to plan out extracurricular activities. With so much on their plate day in and day out, many teachers welcome having someone who can assist them with many other duties that they just don’t have time to attend to. That’s where these volunteer heroes come into play: our room parents. of school, teachers will hold an evening meeting with their students’ parents to discuss the school year, and during that meeting, they will reach out to see who would like to volunteer. Or, they will send home forms for parents to fill out, one of them asking if anyone would like to be the room parent.

On the other hand, there are schools such as Westdale Heights Academic Magnet (WHAM) that have a system in place to find room parents. “At the beginning of the school year, our PTO asks for volunteers who’d like to be involved in their child’s classroom as the main room parent,” says Bonnie Wilder, a first grade teacher at WHAM. “It’s kind of like a network. The PTO then hands out a room parent binder that has do’s and don’ts, as well as a list of the typical things that need to be done in the classroom.”

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Duties Involved with Being a Room Parent Ashley Stringfellow is the mother of four daughters, eight-year-old twins and two teen daughters. Stringfellow says that she’s been a room parent from the time her oldest daughter was in prekindergarten. “There was a period when I was the room parent for all of their classes at the same time,” she says.

Stringfellow says that one of her goals as a room parent is to help with any extracurricular activities the class does to make it a little bit easier on the teacher.

“They have so much to do as it is,” she says. She takes on jobs such as collecting money from the parents for field trips, collecting money for the year-end teacher gift, or coordinating special celebrations throughout the year. She also secures additional supplies for the classroom.

“During the school year, I will get a list of

items that the teacher needs and I’ll send out a note to the parents to see if they can pick up things like Kleenex, paper towels, paints, and other things. We usually have a big year-end party and I put out word to the parents about what they can bring.

It’s important that we all work together to make these events happen.”

Clear Communication Between the Teacher and the Room Parent “I like the discussions I have with my room parents at the beginning of the year,” Wilder says. Wilder will convey to her parents certain needs when it comes to organizing parties or special events.

“So, if other parents want to help during their child’s birthday month, the room parent will come up with a signup sheet to seek help getting cups, plates, food, or games they’d like to play,” she says.

“Being able to communicate my needs to the room parent, and having them run with it, really takes a lot off of my plate.”

Being a Room Parent Makes the Classroom Experience Enjoyable Jenna deBarros is the mom of four children and an administrator for the Moms of Greater Baton Rouge Facebook page. She’s been a room parent for her children at Southdowns Pre-K Center and at WHAM. “I’m a very hands-on parent, so I like the ability to go to the school and help where help is needed and be the support for the teacher, that if she needs something she knows, ‘Hey I can just call on this parent.’ I had a PreK teacher call one time when they were making cupcakes in the classroom and she didn’t buy icing, so she called me and asked me if I could bring some to the classroom.

That’s just the kind of person I am.”

Where to Find Information If you’d like to learn more about being a classroom parent for your child, there are many helpful resources available online.

Check out PTOToday.com for helpful hints on room parenting, and Pinterest.

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Laying Down the Foundation: STEM, STEAM, and STREAM: What is it?

By Emily Egan

Children often have different interests from one another.

Some may take interest in sports, some in cooking or baking, and some in collecting objects like buttons or coins.

Occasionally, parents may take notice that their children are taking an interest in school, or more specifically, what they learn from school. However, with differing subjects, children will usually favor some subjects above the others because of the level of understanding they have in those specific subjects. For some, they may have an easier time understanding classes focused more on creativity and open-mindedness, like English and art, while others may have an easier time with more structured and logical 2019-20 Cover Kid Sophia T. Photo Credit: Kleinpeter Photography

classes like math and science.

For those who take more of an interest toward math and science-like subjects, as a parent, you may wonder if there is any way you can help your children better themselves and encourage them not just to do well in school, but to have them excel and take more of an interest in it. For parents wanting to help their children to stay interested and passionate about these subjects, they can continue to keep their children interested by finding the right programs for them outside of the classrooms.

STEM When some think of math and science programs, what usually comes to mind first is the idea of STEM programs, and while most people may have heard of STEM before, some may not know what exactly it is or how it functions.

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and Math, and rather than teaching solely through lectures, it instead has students learn through real-world applications of the subjects. Instead of having your children sit and listen to a teacher talk at them about these subjects, STEM offers them a more hands-on experience. Instead of simply learning about plants by looking at pictures in a book, STEM programs have students grow their own plants to see the results, or instead of learning about building different items, STEM allows students to build their own creations. With these projects, STEM teaches children with hands-on experiences for both a learning experience but also for a possible career later in their lives if the program keeps them interested enough.

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STEM focuses only on Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math, STEAM adds to the program by including Art into the curriculum and allowing students to learn about these subjects through a more creative way. By using art as a way for children to learn more about the STEM subjects, students can create models rather than just learn about the subject. Think about a model volcano that you often see in many science fairs. Rather than simply reading about volcanoes, children can combine both science and art to create their own.

STREAM Going further beyond both STEM and STEAM curriculums, STREAM programs also includes reading and writing as a way for students to learn about STEM subjects along with the arts of STEAM curriculums. With STREAM, writing and reading is incorporated and students can

use critical thinking and problem solving, and be able to think more outside of the box with their projects.

Get Involved Now that you know more about STEM, STEAM, and STREAM, the next question would be how you can encourage your already interested children more. While there are many at-home projects that parents can work on with their children, Baton Rouge also offers different camps and programs for children who may have taken an interest in STEM subjects.

If your children have a specific interest, LSU and BRCC offer summer camps that focus on the specific subjects of STEM. If your child is in 6th to 9th grade and has a passion for computers, they could attend the Py-FUN Programming Summer Camp where they will learn about the basics of the Python programming language and interact with computer coding.

If your child is in the 9th to 12th grade and is interested in the field of energy, they can attend the Baton Rouge Entergy Venture Camp where they will not only learn about energy development, but also get hands-on experience from the industry, along with performing their own labs to see just how energy works.

Interested in video games? There’s a camp for that, too. Gamecrash-Adventures in Game Design Summer Camp has students from 7th to 12th grade learn how to create video games from the ground up.

If your child has an interest in such handson learning, information on these camps, along with other camps hosted by LSU and BRCC can be found at lastem.regents. la.gov under the student resources tab for Students & Parents.

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Why Music Education Matters Music plays an important role in our lives. Whether we’re strumming along to our favorite song, singing in the car with the kiddos in the backseat, or playing the keyboard (or piano) during a family singalong, music lifts our spirits and provides us with the ability to express ourselves through song. However, it does much more than that.

The benefits of music education extend far beyond getting kids to tap their toes. The National Association for Music Education (NAfME) shares the following benefits among the many other reasons to support music education in our schools.

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training can contribute to the physical development of the left side of the brain that is associated with processing language.

A 2005 study that was conducted by researchers at Stanford University found that mastering a musical instrument may also improve a child’s reading skills,

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which can benefit students whether they are inside or outside of the classroom.

■ Music training can improve hand-eye coordination. Studies have linked long-term music training to improved hand-eye coordination. That is likely connected to the motor skills children develop when they are playing musical

instruments. Without those instruments, those motor skills may not develop for them as strongly.

■ Music improves concentration. Even students who cannot play a musical instrument can still benefit academically from simply listening to music.

In 2007, a research team from the Stanford University School of Medicine found that music engages the areas of the brain involved with paying attention.

Today’s students deal with numerous distractions in their daily lives, from smartphones to tablets to social media, but those who are routinely listening to various types of music might find it easier to block out those distractions and focus only on their work.

■ Music can help students’ emotional development. A 2003 study that was commissioned by Chorus America found that musicians are more likely than the average person to be involved in charity work as volunteers and donors.

The NAfME also notes that music students may be more likely to exhibit empathy toward other cultures.

■ Music can improve self-esteem. In a study examining 117 fourth grade students attending public school, a researcher at the University of Texas at Austin found that children who received piano lessons weekly for three years had higher self-esteem than children who were not given piano lessons during the same period. Neither group had participated in formal music instruction before the study, and students in both groups reported similar levels of self-esteem prior to participating in the study.

Supporting music education in our schools is crucial. However, discovering music outside of the classroom provides a variety of benefits for your budding Beethoven as well. It allows her to expand on her musical interests.

Baton Rouge is home to a wide variety of businesses who are here to help your child reach his or her full musical potential. Whether your child prefers piano, guitar, flute, trumpet, trombone, or drums, there’s an opportunity for her to shine in whichever instrument she chooses to play.

Above all, music education can enrich the lives of young students in a myriad of ways. It improves our moods, relaxes us, and teaches us new skills. All this potentially contributes to living happier, more fulfilling lives. ■ AU G US T 2020 | B R PA R EN T S .COM

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Between staying at home, online learning and time away from friends, many children will need a little extra support as they head back to school late this fall.

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Emotionally Preparing Your Children for Back-to-School Season

East Baton Rouge Parish Schools has already announced that they will be offering an all-virtual learning model for all students from August 10 through Labor Day. This unique change adds to the already different school year vibe that children are accustomed to. Not to mention, when students do in fact return to their classrooms, wearing a mask (if they have to) will be something new to get used to, too.

However, it’s important to help your child through all of these changes. It continues to be a challenging time for us all, even for the little ones. Help is here, though, and navigating through these challenging times is possible. Consider these tips from the experts at KinderCare to help you emotionally prepare your children to return to school with confidence, optimism and excitement.

Address Your Feelings (and Theirs) Children often take cues about how to react to various situations from their parents. Think about what it takes for you to feel calm and prepared (or even excited) for the start of a new school year.

That could mean talking with your child’s teacher or school about the safety precautions they’re taking when the schools open so you can feel more at ease, taking a few minutes to establish a morning routine or stepping away from news that makes you anxious. Focus instead on the positive aspects of school, like the opportunity your child will have to learn, make friends, interact with new people and grow into his or her own person.

“Children need a sense of belonging, and school provides an important connection point for them,” says Dr. Elanna Yalow, chief academic officer for KinderCare Learning Centers. “Nothing builds a sense of community like personal contact with friends and teachers. That connection is essential in supporting a child’s growth and development.”

Set Expectations About What to Expect Before the First Day Some children may feel ready to go back to school because they are eager to explore new friendships and learn new things, while other children can be more reserved or even fearful of new places, faces and routines due to the pandemic and the changes they have already experienced that made them uncomfortable.

When your child knows what to expect, it

can go a long way in soothing any worries he or she may have about leaving home and going to school.

It’s also important to respect your child’s growing independence and empower him or her to help others, especially the students in his or her class.

As you explain safety precautions to him or her like covering his or her mouth when sneezing or coughing, or proper hand washing, emphasize how your child’s actions can help to keep his or her family, friends and teachers safe.

“Children may already be apprehensive about returning to school, let alone trying to cope with new safety practices,” says Dr. Joelle Simpson, a pediatric emergency medicine physician and medical director for emergency preparedness at Children’s National Hospital. “Explaining these precautions ahead of time can help your children see them as part of the school day routine instead of something to fear.

For parents, remember that while children can get sick from this virus, it occurs less frequently than in adults and at lower rates than the flu.”

Celebrate the Start of a New School Year Together Try to plan a special activity or some extra family time the week before school starts and encourage your child to participate in the planning.

“Remember, children didn’t have time for a clean break and celebration at the end of the last school year, and this can help your child mentally adjust to a new routine and schedule,” Dr. Yalow says.

Let your child know how proud you are to see him or her growing up, learning how to be a good friend and exploring and learning about the world. Be sure to talk with your child each school day–what was learned, funny things friends said, the things that seem little but are important to your child.

Many of us won’t know what to expect until we get back into the swing of things.

The state of the pandemic is changing daily, more cases are being reported, and wearing masks is something we’re all doing now to help slow the spread.

The best we can do right now is to be there for our family and friends and help prepare our little ones with the tools they need to protect themselves and their friends, both mentally and physically, while they head back to school, whether they attend virtually or in the classroom. ■

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By Brandon Foreman

eally? Did we have summer already and now we are going back to school (or trying to)?

It is such a weird feeling, as on one hand, I feel like we just got the stay-at-home order and we are still in March and waiting to finish out the school year. On the other hand, I feel like I have been with my kids for years and they have not left the house in a lifetime. Now that we are talking about school starting and how that is going to look, I sit here and wonder where summer went. My whole life, summers have been filled with pool parties, crawfish boils and boat rides, and a friend coming over. This year, I felt like I have been working seven days a week and playing a constant wait-and-see game where the rules keep changing. Somehow in the middle of all of this, summer came and went.

I want my summer back and I want my kids back in school, and I don’t want to have to teach them.

Don’t get me wrong, I want to be safe and I want everyone to be safe. I guess what I mean is, I don’t have to have the old normal back. I just want something consistent with a plan, and I understand that may not be possible, but I can still want it. It will be hard on all of us parents this fall, and it may get worse before it gets better, but we have each other and trust me, this too shall pass.

So let’s get the little ones back in school. Take a day off and just sit at home and enjoy the quiet, and get a few friends to come over for a mid-week summer bar-b-q, just like you would have done this summer, but we are instead doing it in August. Share your mid-school day bar-b-q pics with us with #iwantmysummerback. It will be good for you and your soul. Just don’t forget to pick up the kids at 3 p.m. ■

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DODGE CITY, KANSAS

By Julie Engelhardt Coordinates: 37.76547° N, -100.01517° E Distance from Baton Rouge to Dodge City: 891 miles Flying Time: 1 hour, 26 minutes Driving Time: 12 hours, 12 minutes Why Dodge City? History abounds in this former gun-slinging town, famous in American culture for its fabled past as a wild frontier settlement of the Old West. Over the years, the town retained its notoriety, thanks to the many tales told about Dodge City lawman, Wyatt Earp, and to the dramatization of the city via the popular western drama Gunsmoke. This oasis in the state of Kansas is the perfect getaway for those who have a hankerin’ for days gone by. Let’s take a look at what life was like in the 19th century!

WHERE TO STAY If you’ve decided to make your trip into a real western adventure by heading cross-country in your own ‘covered wagon,’ then the perfect open space to spend a few days is at Dodge City KOA. This new facility is tops when it comes to location, cleanliness, service and value. Your camp has plenty of amenities, such as full hookups, wifi, cable, a store, laundry facility, picnic tables and barbecue grills. They also have 10 two-bedroom cabins and 19 tent sites.

WHERE TO EAT Casey’s Cowtown Club Let’s start with Casey’s Cowtown Club, a sweet watering hole featuring unique western décor, and an amazing life-size denim buffalo that greets you at the front door. Locals and travelers give high marks to the Club’s steaks, chicken, nachos, burgers, pizzas and potato salad. This is the perfect place to bring your posse to after a long day of rounding up your own herd.

Central Station Bar & Grill If you’re a train aficionado, then you’re on the right track when you and your family make a whistle stop at the Central Station Bar & Grill, located in a former train station. They have something for everyone in your crew–mouth-watering steaks, carne asada and shrimp, bacon, ham and avocado burgers, and a classic barbecue beef sandwich. For the dessert lovers, top off your meal with their Apple Cobbler Delight or the Churros Con Chocolate.

Dodge City Brewing Dodge City Brewing is a relatively new spot with a fine selection of craft beer, brewed by the award-winning Larry Cook who’s been crafting beer since 2005. Then there’s the pizza. Dig into their Cowtown Queen– topped with pepperoni, cheese and red sauce; the Beefy Fun-guy–a tasty treat topped with beef, cheese and red sauce; or the Wicked City– sausage, cheese and red sauce.

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WHAT TO DO Dodge City is known for its famous Boot Hill Cemetery, so the perfect place to start your exploration on your trip is at the Boot Hill Museum.

Tour the boardwalk, peek into old buildings, and learn about the history of the city through interactive displays. The old west comes alive as you witness exciting gunfights and listen to Miss Kitty croon in the Long Branch Saloon.

Travel back in time to the 1870s–on a Dodge City Trolley! Your motorized spin around town includes a one-hour narrated visit to the original location of the Long Branch Saloon, Gospel Hill, Fort Dodge, and along the path of the Santa Fe Trail.

If the kiddos need a chance to stretch their legs a bit and get in their steps (if they’re counting!), then tour Dodge City by foot. The Historic Dodge City Walking Tour is a self-guided adventure that takes you downtown where you can explore a myriad of interesting locations, read storyboards and visit famous sculptures.

Visit one of the most splendid homes in Dodge City, the MuellerSchmidt House, perched atop a hill northeast of town. This house is the lone limestone house in Dodge City, and has the distinction of being the oldest building in town still on its original site.

Although the city is known for a slower-paced lifestyle, there is one attraction that will get everyone’s heart pumping. Each summer, the Dodge City Raceway Park brings excitement, action and adventure of racing to those who have a need for speed. Featured events at the Park include the World of Outlaws, Drive Appreciation Night and the Sprint Car Nationals.

Cool off at Long Branch Lagoon Water Park, a western-themed water park featuring over 27, 000 square feet of aquatic fun. Attractions include Doc’s Plunge–a steep drop that takes riders up a near-vertical wall for a moment of weightlessness before zooming back down into the splash pool, and The Gunslinger–a 300-foot closed flume raft slide with three full loops. ■

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When Toddlers Say No!

By Christa Melnyk Hines

The moment your child utters her first word, you’ll probably want to announce it to the world, while quickly marking the occasion in her baby book. You probably won’t be so thrilled, however, when her word of choice evolves into the very opinionated word “no.”

Although this is a frustrating and challenging stage of development, it is completely normal.

Jen Mann-Li, a mother of two, describes her three-year-old daughter, Sadie, as a “pro” at using the word no.

“She was a late talker, didn’t really talk until she was almost two years old, and no was a favorite right away,” Mann-Li says.

Mann-Li says that Sadie refuses to be distracted from what she wants. “She’s very stubborn and will not budge (sometimes literally),” she says. “We have a saying that Sadie will ‘die on that hill’ and she does daily over these ‘silly’ things.”

Why they say it. Laura Murphy is a certified parent coach and president of Real Families, Inc. which helps families work through parenting, marriage and financial issues. She explains that the chief child-rearing complaint she hears from parents concerns are children 60

refusing to do what the parents want them to do.

Not only is the word “no” an easy word for toddlers to say, but Murphy believes, “The biggest reason they say it so much is because they hear it so much from everyone else.”

The good news is that this phase is completely normal and healthy. “The number one job of a two year old is to test every physical limit. Pushing physical limits to find out what the adults will do is a natural approach for a toddler. They need to learn those limits,” Murphy says.

Need a few proactive strategies to reduce the use of the word in your home and forge a path of less resistance?

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saying the word no. For example, if your child asks for a cookie, instead of saying, “No, not before dinner,” say, “Sure, after dinner.” This exercise will also make you more aware of just how often you say no.

“Once we change our approach, we usually notice a change in our children,” Murphy says. Also, talk to your spouse and childcare providers about using other words besides no all the time. However, that doesn’t mean you should ban the word entirely. “Say yes as often as possible, and when you say no, mean it,” Murphy advises.

Having a sense of humor doesn’t hurt either. Ingrid Brown has two daughters, four and two, who both went through the “no” phase at around 20 months. “I tried to make a game out of it,” Brown says.

“If they said no to everything, I would

counter back in a funny voice repeating ‘nooooOOOooo’ right back at them and give them a little tickle.”

Offer two choices. Resistance often begins long before a child utters his first word. “When they’re old enough to start flinging food at you from their high chair, they’re old enough to start choices,” Murphy says.

Barring a dangerous situation like your child refusing to move in a busy street, provide your child with two choices that you like and can live with. “Small choices for the kids, but the adults make the big decisions,” Murphy says. For example, a parent decides on bedtime, but a child can choose between wearing the blue pajamas or the red pajamas.

By giving away small decisions to your toddler, she will have a sense of control over her life which will likely reduce negative behaviors such as not listening, running away, resistance, and temper tantrums. If a child refuses to make a decision in 10 seconds, the parent should make the decision for her, following up with empathy.

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Show empathy not anger. Murphy stresses that empathy is an important component of providing choices to your child. When you replace anger with empathy, she says, you’ll notice a huge shift.

For example, when your child doesn’t get something that she wants, say something along the lines of: “I know. It’s really a bummer.”

Avoid “parenting on the fly.” Stay calm in the heat of the moment and decide ahead of time on what things to definitely say no to and what you can say yes to.

Also, try making a list of the small choices you can offer your child during those more troublesome times of the day.

Need help? For more parenting tips and resources, check out Murphy’s website real-families.com, loveandlogic. com, kidsareworthit.com and the book, Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours by Kevin Leman.

If your tactics don’t seem effective, seek out an expert, such as a family counselor who can help assess your family’s situation. Although a tweak in parenting skills may be all that is needed, an expert can help you determine if something more serious is going on with your child. ■

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR

August THE COVER KID EVENT

We’re taking the show on the road. Baton Rouge Parents Magazine will be around town until Friday, August 7 looking for the 2020-21 Cover Kids. Cover Kids are between the ages of 2 and 17. Various locations and times are available. Don’t miss your chance to become a Cover Kid to appear on the cover or in the pages of Baton Rouge Parents Magazine. ■ brparents.com

1 SATURDAY NATIONAL GIRLFRIENDS DAY BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 9:30-11:30 a.m. Preteen boys ages 10-13 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves through informal, open discussions, a film presentation and take home materials. It is recommended that a parent or trusted adult accompany each preteen boy. Registration required. $20 per child. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 PEE-WEE’S BIG ADVENTURE (1985). Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.

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daylight, he sets out across the U.S. on the adventure of his life. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. 5th and Main Street from 8 a.m.-noon.

Shop for summertime favorites at the Red Stick Farmers Market. Pick up peaches, blueberries, watermelon, and tomatoes for fresh, locally-inspired meals. breada.org THE COLLECTIBLE LIFE OF MIGNON FAGET. West Baton Rouge Museum from 6-8 p.m. Reception with a gallery talk with guest curator, Nolde Alexius. westbatonrougemuseum. org

2 SUNDAY

NATIONAL SISTERS DAY THE COVER KID EVENT. Jump-N-Jive

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3 MONDAY

THE COVER KID EVENT. YMCA-Americana in Zachary from 2-4 p.m. Baton Rouge Parents Magazine takes the show on the road to find the 202021 Cover Kids to appear on the cover and in the pages of the magazine. brparents.com

4 TUESDAY

NATIONAL CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIE DAY THE COVER KID EVENT. YMCA-Paula G. Manship from 1-3 p.m. Ba-

ton Rouge Parents Magazine takes the show on the road to find the 2020-21 Cover Kids to appear on the cover and in the pages of the magazine. brparents.com

5 WEDNESDAY

MOTHER GOOSE ASKS “SINK OR FLOAT?”.

Dutchtown Library at 10:30 a.m. Shake things up by investigating objects that sink or float with preschoolers. The library invites you to accompany your preschoolers while they start developing pre-science skills through an entertaining program featuring hands-on activities and stories. (225) 673-8699 THE COVER KID EVENT. YMCA-AC Lewis from 12-2 p.m. Baton Rouge Parents Magazine takes the show on the road to find the 2020-21 Cover Kids to appear on the cover and in

the pages of the magazine. brparents.com WOMAN’S IDEAL WEIGHT LOSS SEMINAR. Woman’s Zoom meeting at 5:30 p.m. The power to lose weight and reset your health exists inside you right now.

Woman’s Hospital has the coaches and ketogenic weight loss science to ignite it. Learn about the Ideal Protein weight loss program. womans.org or (225) 215-7982

6 THURSDAY

NATIONAL ROOT BEER FLOAT DAY HELPING HANDS SUPPORT GROUP. Virtual from 10-11:30 a.m. Parents, guardians, self-advocates, and family members of individuals with autism and related disorders are invited to call in to talk with others

7 FRIDAY

PURPLE HEART DAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding.

Attendees will walk away with new ideas and techniques to try and improve their own breastfeeding success at home. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 CAFE FRANCAIS. West Baton Rouge Museum at 1 p.m. A celebration of Acadian heritage. Wear your boldest Acadian gear.

All proficiency levels are welcome. Each meeting features a topic to spur discussion. westbatonrougemuseum.org MUPPETS TAKE MANHATTAN (1984). Manship Theatre at 7 p.m. Kermit and his friends go to New York City to get their musical on Broadway only to find it’s a more difficult task than they anticipated. Cost is $9.50. manshiptheatre.org THE COVER KID EVENT. Ralph’s Supermarket, Pelican Point in Gonzales, from 4-6 p.m. Baton Rouge Parents Magazine takes the show on the road to find the 2020-21 Cover Kids to appear on the cover and in the pages of the magazine. brparents.com

8 SATURDAY

RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. 5th and Main Street from 8 a.m.-noon.

Shop for summertime favorites at the Red Stick Farmers Market. Pick up peaches, blueberries, watermelon, and tomatoes for fresh, locally-inspired meals. breada.org

9 SUNDAY

AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 12:305:30 p.m. Learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress, and hold a baby with a lifelike doll. Also learn parent care–the class covers postpartum depression and recovering from a vaginal or cesarean birth. Registration required. $35 per couple. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 OLD TIME JAM. West Baton Rouge Museum from 3-5 p.m. This jam will take place outdoors with musicians on the covered porch of the museum’s Juke Joint and guests under the shade of sprawling oak trees. In the event of inclement weather, this program will be cancelled. westbatonrougemuseum.org

10 MONDAY

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walking in your shoes. fhfgbr.org WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 6-7 p.m. Join a weight loss surgery physician to learn more about the different types of weight loss surgeries and get your questions answered. womans.org or (225) 215-7982

NATIONAL LAZY DAY CREATE YOUR OWN COMPASS PARACORD BRACELET. Ascension Parish Libraries, all day.

Pick up all of the materials that you need to make your own compass parachute cord bracelet. You’ll never get lost again once you’ve got a handy compass available at all times. Ages 10 and up. Gonzales (225) 647-3955, Donaldsonville (225) 473-8052, Dutchtown (225) 673-8699, or

Galvez (225) 622-3339

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PARENTS/CAREGIVERS SUPPORT GROUP. Conference call at 10 a.m. Are you a parent/caregiver with behavioral health concerns for your child or youth?

These networking meetings will provide an opportunity to gather and share information and resources related to behavioral health services, and to increase support networks.

(605) 313-4819 / Access Number: 546755# WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 11:45 a.m.-12:30 p.m.

Join a weight loss surgery physician to learn more about the different types of weight loss surgeries and get your questions answered. womans.org or (225) 215-7982

12 WEDNESDAY NATIONAL MIDDLE CHILD DAY

MOTHER GOOSE: MONEY MATTERS. Galvez Library at 10:30 a.m.

Since there’s no such thing as a free lunch, we’d better learn how to count our cash and make it last. Give your little ones a head start in financial literacy and premath skills with stories and engaging activities designed to help them understand the value of money. For ages four through seven, with an adult.

(225) 622-3339 WOMAN’S IDEAL WEIGHT LOSS SEMINAR. Woman’s Zoom meeting at 5:30 p.m. The power to lose weight and reset your health exists inside you right now.

Woman’s Hospital has the coaches and ketogenic weight loss science to ignite it. Learn about the Ideal Protein weight loss program. womans.org or (225) 215-7982

13 THURSDAY

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE INTERNATIONAL LEFT HANDERS DAY

14 FRIDAY

BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding.

Attendees will walk away with new ideas and techniques to try and improve their own breastfeeding success at home. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 THE NEVERENDING STORY (1984). Manship Theatre at 7 p.m. A magical journey about the power of a young boy’s imagination to save a dying fantasyland, The NeverEnding Story remains a much-loved kids adventure. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org

15 SATURDAY

BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 9:30-11:30 a.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves through informal, open discussions, a film presentation and take home materials. It is recommended that a parent or trusted adult accompany each preteen girl. Registration required. $20 per child. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 1-5 p.m. Recognize when labor starts, know when to go to the hospital, know what to expect when you arrive at the hospital, and be aware of indications for a cesarean birth. In part two, they will discuss options available for dealing with the pain of labor and birth such as comfort measures, analgesics and anesthetics, and the importance of your support persons.

Registration required. $35

per couple. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. 5th and Main Street from 8 a.m.-noon.

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16 SUNDAY

TESLA (2020). Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. Brilliant, visionary Nikola Tesla (Ethan Hawke) fights an uphill battle to bring his revolutionary electrical system to fruition, then faces thornier challenges with his new system for worldwide wireless energy. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org

17 MONDAY

BLACK CAT APPRECIATION DAY

18 TUESDAY

HELPING HANDS SUPPORT GROUP. Virtual from 6-7 p.m. Parents, guardians, self-advocates, and family members of individuals with autism and related disorders are invited to call in to talk with others walking in your shoes. fhfgbr.org PREGNANCY 101. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 6:30-8 p.m. Learn how to provide your baby with the best possible environment for growth and development. They will discuss nutrition, practice exercise routines, offer tips for common discomforts, and make you aware of preterm labor warning signs. Registration required. womans.org or (225) 231-5475

19 WEDNESDAY

NATIONAL AVIATION DAY MAKE OFFICE DECOR. Dutchtown Library at 10 a.m. Almost every adult has a workspace, whether it’s

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a table at home or a desk at work. Either way, your workspace could probably use some extra care and attention this year. You will leave with a new journal, a calendar made from a picture frame, and a decorative flower vase. Registration required. (225) 673-8699 MOTHER GOOSE: GROWING. Gonzales Library at 10:30 a.m. Help turn your preschoolers into mini-scientists. Accompany your preschoolers while they start developing pre-science skills through entertaining hands-on activities and stories. myapl.org TESLA (2020). Manship Theatre at 7 p.m. Brilliant, visionary Nikola Tesla (Ethan Hawke) fights an uphill battle to bring his revolutionary electrical system to fruition, then faces thornier challenges with his new system for worldwide wireless energy. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org THE FIGHT (2020). Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m.

An inside look at the legal battles that lawyers for the American Civil Liberties Union are facing during the Trump administration.

Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org WOMAN’S IDEAL WEIGHT LOSS SEM-

INAR. Woman’s Zoom meeting at 5:30 p.m. The power to lose weight and reset your health exists inside you right now. Woman’s Hospital has the coaches and ketogenic weight loss science to ignite it. Learn about the Ideal Protein weight loss program. womans.org or (225) 215-7982

20 THURSDAY

TESLA (2020). Manship Theatre at 7 p.m. Brilliant, visionary Nikola Tesla (Ethan Hawke) fights an uphill battle to bring his revolutionary electrical system to fruition, then faces thornier challenges with his new system for worldwide wireless energy. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org

21 FRIDAY

NATIONAL SENIOR CITIZENS DAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding.

Attendees will walk away with new ideas and tech-

niques to try and improve their own breastfeeding success at home. womans.org or (225) 231-5475

22 SATURDAY

LABYRINTH (1986).

Manship Theatre at 7 p.m.

Sixteen-year-old Sarah is given 13 hours to solve a labyrinth and rescue her baby brother, Toby, when her wish for him to be taken away is granted by the Goblin King, Jareth. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org LAMAZE: A LABOR OF LOVE. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 9 a.m.3:30 p.m. This class is recommended for couples wanting to learn how to apply Lamaze techniques for coping with pain in labor and birth. Plan to take this class during the last 8-10 weeks of pregnancy and after attending the Special Delivery Class. Registration required. $75 per couple. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. 5th and Main Street from 8 a.m.-noon.

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23 SUNDAY

NATIONAL SPONGE CAKE DAY

24 MONDAY

NATIONAL WAFFLE DAY CREATE YOUR OWN UNICORN DREAMCATCHER. Ascension Parish Libraries, all day.

Pick up all of the materials that you need to make your own Unicorn Dreamcatcher. Unicorns are all about legend, myth and fantasy, so it makes sense that you see them in dreams. Ages 10 and up. Gonzales (225) 647-3955, Donaldsonville (335) 473-8052, Dutchtown (225) 673-8699, or Galvez (225) 622-3339

25 TUESDAY

NATIONAL BANANA SPLIT DAY

26 WEDNESDAY BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 6:30-8 p.m.

Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves through informal, open discussions, a film presentation and take home materials.

It is recommended that a parent or trusted adult accompany each preteen girl. Registration required. $20 per child. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 WOMAN’S IDEAL WEIGHT LOSS SEMINAR. Woman’s Zoom meeting at 5:30 p.m. The power to lose weight and reset your health exists inside you right now.

Woman’s Hospital has the coaches and ketogenic weight loss science to ignite it. Learn about the Ideal Protein weight loss program. womans.org or (225) 215-7982

27 THURSDAY NATIONAL JUST BECAUSE DAY

28 FRIDAY

BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding.

Attendees will walk away with new ideas and techniques to try and improve their own breastfeeding success at home. womans.org or (225) 231-5475

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BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Woman’s Zoom meeting from 1:30-5 p.m.

You will learn about the benefits of breastfeeding, how to prepare for breastfeeding, how to get the baby on the breast properly, the father’s role, breastfeeding pumps and supplies, and how to avoid common problems.

Registration required. $35 per couple. womans.org or (225) 231-5475 CIRCUS LOUISIANA PRESENTS HOOK: ACROSS NEVERLAND. Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Captain Hook has returned. He has kidnapped two children from Earth, planning to use them to lure out the Lost Boys and Peter Pan. See the circus arts take on a twist of a classic story. Cost is $33. manshiptheatre.org RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. 5th and Main Street from 8 a.m.-noon.

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DENHAM SPRINGS FINE ART ASSOCIATION EXHIBIT. The Arts Council of Livingston Parish will host artwork from members of the Denham Springs Fine Art Association through August 22. ■ artslivingston.org DIY BACK-TO-SCHOOL PORTRAITS. Ascension Parish Libraries. There will be a back-to-school photo backdrop set up and “first day” signs to hold, ranging from preschool all the way to college. ■ Gonzales (225) 647-3955, Donaldsonville (225) 473-8052, Galvez (225) 622-3339, or Dutchtown (225) 673-8699 MAKE YOUR OWN SAILBOAT. Beginning on Monday, August 3, and while supplies last. Use pre-cut boat pieces to customize a boat. Ages three through six.

■ Gonzales (225) 647-3955, Donaldsonville (225) 473-8052, Dutchtown (225) 673-8699 or Galvez (225) 622-3339 PLAY-DOH PACKET PICKUP. Beginning on August 17, visit Ascension Libraries to pick up supplies you’ll need to make Play-Doh shapes. Ages three through six.

■ Gonzales (225) 647-3955, Donaldsonville (225) 473-8052, Dutchtown (225) 673-8699 or Galvez (225) 622-3339 THE COLLECTIBLE LIFE OF MIGNON FAGET. Exhibit at the West Baton Rouge Museum through January 3, 2021. ■ westbatonrougemuseum.org UNDERSTANDING BIRTH E-CLASS. Interactive, web-based class that uses videos, birth stories, and games to teach everything parents need to know to prepare for their birth. Registration required. $60 per couple. ■ womans.org UNDERSTANDING BREASTFEEDING E-CLASS. This interactive online course covers the essentials. Registration required. $40. ■ womans.org UNDERSTANDING MULTIPLES E-CLASS. This class covers everything you need to know about your unique pregnancy, including what to expect from a vaginal or cesarean birth, breastfeeding more than one baby, and life at home with multiples.

Registration required. $60. ■ womans.org UNDERSTANDING YOUR NEWBORN E-CLASS. This interactive online course covers essential information, including video examples of bathing, feeding and diapering, and lets you know when to call the doctor. ■ womans.org

favorites at the Red Stick Farmers Market. Pick up peaches, blueberries, watermelon, and tomatoes for fresh, locally-inspired meals. breada.org

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ALL I CAN SAY (2019).

Manship Theatre at 11:50 p.m. Shannon Hoon, lead singer of Blind Melon, filmed himself from 1990-95 with a Hi8 video camera. $12. manshiptheatre.org BURNY MYRICK’S THE TIMELESS RIVER. West Baton Rouge Museum from 2-4 p.m. Burny Myrick’s The Timeless River features drawings and paintings depicting life and work along the Mississippi River from 1850-1900. westbatonrougemuseum.org CIRCUS LOUISIANA PRESENTS HOOK: ACROSS NEVERLAND. Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. Captain Hook has returned. He has kidnapped two children from Earth, planning to use them to lure out the Lost Boys and Peter Pan. See the circus arts take on a twist of a classic story. manshiptheatre.org FRIDA: VIVA LA VIDA (2019). Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. The two sides of Frida Kahlo’s spirit: on one side the revolutionary, pioneering artist of contemporary feminism and on the other, the human being, victim of her tortured body and a tormented relationship. manshiptheatre.org

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WEEKLY EVENTS CONSPICUOUS: SATIRICAL WORKS BY CAROLINE DURIEUX. Exhibition featuring satirical lithographs by Louisiana’s Caroline Durieux through August 30.

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Don’t Think Finding a Sitter is Exactly Like Dating?

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For many parents, the prospect of leaving the children with a babysitter is overwhelming. Not to worry. Finding a sitter is a lot like dating, which you have probably done before. Though you may have been driving a car that wasn’t covered in Goldfish crumbs the last time you were on the prowl, finding a sitter and dating have more in common than you think. The types of sitters you meet are actually just like the kinds of people you date.

The One You Hope Looks Like Her Picture It’s the 21st century, so if finding a sitter online makes you uneasy, remember: Google is your friend. Study her Facebook timeline, troll her Instagram feed, and order a background check.

Even if she’s perfect on paper, an IRL meeting could be a different story. Maybe she wears excessive cheap perfume or swipes through Tinder when she thinks you’re not looking. So, keep it light the first time she comes and grab a drink.

Save that fancy dinner for when you’re more comfortable with her. And don’t be afraid to use a nanny cam, especially if you met on Craigslist.

The Older Woman She’s raised her own kids. Maybe she even has grandkids. She has tricks that make your head spin. Her ability to soothe even the most difficult child with a loving touch and sweet whispers will blow your mind. She will be focused on your kids, not sexting or Instagramming #OOTD pics while she’s on the clock. Unfortunately, her experience and maturity could come at a high price. You may have to remind her that just because she lost her virginity the same year you graduated preschool does not make her an expert on everything.

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crafting the perfect text, then wait 24 hours to hit send. When she comes over, you do your best to appear breezy. You explain you’re not looking for anything serious, just occasional dinners. You show her your house. You ask her questions about herself. She seems interested. When you try to schedule, she says she doesn’t see it working. Was it something you said? Was it the track marks in your otherwise pristine toilet bowl? Were your kids acting like...kids? Your husband keeps you from texting her after you’ve had a few drinks, “I just want to know WHY?” The Virgin She’s never babysat, but she has younger siblings.

She’s eager and genuine, so you give her a chance. You come home to chaos. Dirty dishes are piled high. Toys litter the floor. The baby is on the changing table. Unattended. You wonder if this girl has ever met a baby, let alone cared for one. When you change the baby’s diaper, you find traces of leftover poop in every crease.

You gave her a shot, now she can practice on someone else’s kid.

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constantly. She spends entire days there while you’re working, returning after bedtime so you can go to dinner. You brag about her to your friends. Then she says she has to be free to travel. She doesn’t know if she’ll return. You wish her well while holding back tears. Sometimes you Facebook stalk her. You’ll lose your mind if you ever see her with another family.

The One Between sips of her margarita, she makes faces at your baby. The chemistry is unmistakable. When the check comes, your husband whispers, “Should we ask if she babysits?” For once, he has read your mind. She always texts back immediately. She plans fun activities. She makes hanging out at home fun. Her devotion is pure; she rocks your sick child to sleep and volunteers to take her to the park when your second baby is born. You are convinced that whoever says you can’t meet quality people at bars has no idea what they’re talking about.

As my mom said, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince. I came home to a soaking wet baby in a backward diaper countless times before I found The One. You just have to keep putting yourself out there and trust that the right sitter is out there somewhere, waiting for you, too. ■

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