Baton Rouge Parents Magazine June 2021

JUNE 2021

T H E M A G A Z I N E T H AT B AT O N R O U G E FA M I L I E S L I V E B Y

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WHO’S THE BOSS?

Discover the key to successful parent-grandparent relationships.

BY KAREN L. RANCOURT

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VACAY WITHOUT THE BUST

Plan a vacay on a budget no matter which direction you geaux this summer.

BY EMILY DREZ

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AFTER THE TRAUMA

How to cope with living with PTSD.

BY JANNEAN DIXON, M. ED.

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BLENDED FAMILIES

Learn the ways to deal with biological favoritism.

BY JULIE ENGELHARDT

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4 STEPS TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM TICKS

14 COMMUNITY 18 EDUCATION 19 ONE AMAZING KID

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44 A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD 46 OUT & ABOUT 48 THINGS WE LOVE

Protect yourself and your family from ticks with these quick tips.

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2020-21 Cover Kid Ryder P-W. enjoys skateboarding, acting, playing guitar and baseball, and creating art. Ryder has written and directed his own short film, which was entered into the Louisiana Film Prize Jr. He won a $250 grant scholarship and the Founders Choice Award. Ryder’s one talented kid who is very sweet and loyal.

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THE MAGAZINE THAT BATON ROUGE FAMILIES LIVE BY

MEET OUR TEAM AMY PLAISANCE

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What catchphrase will always remind you of your dad?

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“He would always say, ‘Can’t complain,’ when asked how he was doing.”

– Georgette

AMY L. FOREMAN

“When you have your paperwork (meaning education), everything will fall in for you.”

– Jamie M.

Managing Editor

“Don’t take no wooden nickels.”

– Eboni M.

It’s often said that “kids say the darndest things,” but when it comes to advice, silly catchphrases, or sayings, dad seems to be the one whose words of wisdom stick with us the most. To celebrate Father’s Day, we asked our readers to share what catchphrases remind them of their own dads.

Here’s what they all had to say.

BRANDON FOREMAN

Associate Publisher

EDITORIAL AMANDA MILLER EMILY DREZ Assistant Editor

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VICTORIA COTEJAR

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“‘Dadgummit,’ when he was aggravated.”

– Janet S.

ART/PRODUCTION MELODY TAUZIN

“At the top of a roller coaster…‘Easy, easy.’”

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“It is what it is.”

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In my career, there are many things I’ve won and many things I’ve achieved, but for me, my greatest achievement is my children and my family.

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a note from mom Fun in the Summer

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AC K in the day, I remember waiting for summertime to come: no school, hanging out with friends, and not a care in the world. We would lay by the pool with our boombox blaring, baby oil on our skin, and Sun In or lemon juice in our hair. Man, I really miss those days. Those days have now been replaced with work and playing Uber driver, chef, or referee with my three littles.

We still have a joyful summer, though.

Summer at our house is usually full of friends, sleepovers, lots of BBQs, fishing, and the never-ending wash cycle of pool towels. This year, I am determined to have my husband build something for the kids to hang their towels on. I mean, you don’t need to use three in one day.

Hang it up and grab it later! I do love that my children love to be outside. We’re not big on video games, well, except for playing the original Nintendo. I do love getting to show them how it’s done and teaching them the secrets to skip worlds.

Regardless, we rarely play because they want to be outside swimming or playing volleyball, basketball, football, or soccer. You name it, they are playing it.

My neighbor and I are always picking up Nerf darts from our yards, and I find them in the most random places inside.

June is not only about being out in the sun. It’s also a time to celebrate all the dads out there. Father’s Day is June 20 this year. Have you thought about what unique gift you can get your dad? I found a few to share in Things We Love this month. There are so many unique gadgets that are coming out each day.

Though, I don’t know why dads are still so hard to buy for. Maybe it’s because, unlike me, I can wait before buying something and my husband can’t. Every Christmas, he almost buys the one gift I find that’s perfect for him and ruins my surprise!

Nevertheless, our June issue also features eight family vacations you can plan that will not break the bank. Maybe instead of a gift for Father’s Day, you can plan a getaway to one of the amazing places we found? Whether you enjoy the summer at home or take a family vacation, enjoy the little things in life while spending time with your kiddos. We all deserve a break. I mean, we did survive a school year with all of the COVID-19 restrictions.

Happy Father’s Day to all the daddies out there. I hope you enjoy a day full of fun, food, and family.

Amy L. Foreman Associate Publisher Email amylynn@brparents.com to tell me about the topics you’d like to see in future issues.

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community ROUGAROU BASEBALL HOME OPENER IS JUNE 5 Plan to munch on some peanuts and Cracker Jack as you root for the home team at an upcoming Baton Rouge Rougarou baseball game or two this summer. The local minor league team recently kicked off its 44-game season while on the road in Texas in May, but the Rougarou home opener will be against the Victoria Generals on Saturday, June 5 right here at Pete Goldsby Field. All home games begin at 7:05 p.m., and gates open at 6 p.m. Games are scheduled for some Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights through Sunday, August 1. Tickets are $5, $7 or $9 for walk-up game day purchase, based on seat type and location. Or, you can buy season tickets for your family or a bonus book in advance in order to receive discounts.

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TEEN ENTREPRENEURS ARE WANTED

Young Entrepreneurs Academy of Baton Rouge (YEA BR) is seeking creative, driven students entering grades 8-12 in any of the nine parishes in the Baton Rouge area to apply to become student CEOs. Participants will launch and run their own businesses while they learn about everything it takes to be successful entrepreneurs. YEA BR combines national curriculum with local leaders’ experiences. Early bird applications are accepted through Wednesday, June 30, and students who apply early qualify for a tuition discount. This year’s after-school classes will resume in-person at the LSU E.J. Ourso College of Business, and graduates are eligible for LSU credit. Applications will be accepted through Friday, August 20. ■ yeabr.org

NEW GAME TEACHES CHESS EASILY Chess has a reputation as being hard to learn because of the dedication required to achieve mastery. Given the cognitive benefits of playing chess, such as improved memory, planning skills and creativity, learning the game is worth it. An award-winning toy, Story Time Chess aims to teach children as young as three how to play. Using silly stories, bright illustrations, a unique board and custom pieces, chess is presented in an easy-to-learn and fun way. The Story Time Chess cast of adorable characters and interactive stories help children learn to play chess stepby-step. The stories focus on why certain chess pieces move the way they do and help cement chess knowledge into young chess players’ minds.

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PARTY FOR THE PLANET WITH AUDUBON

Celebrate all things Earth with Audubon Nature Institute’s Party for the Planet presented by Entergy. The virtual events provide families with activities to discover new ways to interact with nature, create healthy habitats, and help neighbors. The series includes special activities in June for World Oceans Week (6-12) and Pollination Celebration Week (21-27). “Even virtually, we can come together to celebrate our natural world and learn more about how to protect it,” says Sandra Diggs-Miller, Entergy New Orleans vice president of customer service. “Party for the Planet supports Entergy’s longtime commitment to environmental responsibility by providing families with fun and creative ways to help make a positive impact on the environment.” ■ audubonnatureinstitute.org

KNOCK KNOCK REOPENS!

Knock Knock Children’s Museum will reopen this month. The museum’s COVID safety and reopening plan was approved by the LA Department of Health and State Fire Marshal’s office. It’s the first children’s museum to be cleared to fully reopen. Knock Knock’s plan, including extensive new cleaning procedures, visitor entry and exit protocols, and some exhibit modifications, is a model for other children’s museums around Louisiana. Knock Knock will be open Wednesday through Saturday with two timed sessions, and reservations must be made online. “We are confident we can finally provide our visitors the full Knock Knock experience safely and without sacrificing our mission,” says Peter Claffey, executive director. ■ knockknockmuseum.org

PLAYHOUSE FUNDRAISER UNDERWAY

Take a chance on winning an adorable playhouse and support the work of the Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocates Association. The group’s annual Casas for CASA fundraiser helps fund its advocacy efforts on behalf of abused children. The 2021 “Magnolia Mansion” CASA playhouse prize will be on display June 1 to July 25 at the East Baton Rouge Parish Library main branch. Raffle tickets are $5 and available online. Lilliput Play Homes designed the playhouse, and local builders Faulk and Meek General Contractors assembled it. The event ends with an online silent auction from July 12-25, and a virtual CASA Fiesta on July 25, featuring takeout tacos from Superior Grill on Highland that can be pre-purchased online for $50. ■ casabr.org B R PA R E N T S . C O M | J U N E 2 0 2 1

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LASM NOW OPEN SUNDAYS

More opportunities to stargaze in the daytime abound with Louisiana Art & Science Museum’s expanded open days and hours. LASM is now open Thursdays and Fridays from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. and Saturdays and Sundays from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Doors open at 9:45 a.m. for seating in the Irene W. Pennington Planetarium, and the last entries are admitted an hour before closing. “In response to community desires for LASM to expand its weekend access hours, we are excited to offer Sunday visitation to the public again,” says Serena Pandos, LASM president and executive director. “The expansion of our public access hours would not be possible without our growing volunteer base.” ■ lasm.org

UNIQUE STRENGTH TRAINING TOOL AVAILABLE IN BR

The future of fitness using real-time performance data has come to Baton Rouge. OxeFit’s XP1, a state-of-the-art strength training machine using AI and robotics, is available at METS (Making Every Treatment Specialized) Physical Therapy.

METS has the only OxeFit XP1, other than the company’s prototype in Texas. “We selected the XP1 because of its core technology,” Michael Moseley, co-founder of METS, says. “The built-in alignment and performance assessments will allow our patients to track their efforts and immediate progress.

This real-time data motivates optimized outcome at each session, resulting in more successful recovery.” The machine helps track progress and prevent injuries.

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F.O.A.M. CELEBRATES FATHERHOOD Local nonprofit Fathers on a Mission will host its annual Celebration of Fatherhood event on Saturday, June 12 to honor all fathers and those serving as father figures. The free event will provide a chance for fathers and their kids of all ages to spend quality time together bonding, and it will feature entertainment, food, arts and crafts, and prizes. Free, gently-used suits will be available for fathers on a first come, first served basis, and F.O.A.M. expects to serve 300 families.

The celebration will take place from noon to 4 p.m. at BREC Nairn Park in Baton Rouge. COVID-19 safety measures will be in place, and masks will be required. F.O.A.M.’s mission is to promote responsible committed fatherhood through education, strong relationships, holistic health, and socioeconomic improvement opportunities.

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YOUTH BALLET RETURNS WITH ALICE IN WONDERLAND

Polish those teacups, wind your pocket watch, and find your maddest hat for a trip to Wonderland. Baton Rouge Ballet Theatre’s Youth Ballet will resume its in-person summer tour of libraries and community centers in our area with Alice in Wonderland. The free half-hour performances are perfect for all ages and feature fun choreography and beloved characters, including the White Rabbit, Mad Hatter, March Hare and Queen of Hearts. Shows will take place from June 3 to 11 in East Baton Rouge, Ascension, West Baton Rouge and Livingston parishes, and libraries will make video available for patrons who may not yet be able to attend in-person events. Pre-registration will be required at many locations. ■ batonrougeballet.org 16

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MOM PUBLISHES CORONAVIRUS BOOK Scary things happen, and dealing with COVID-19 changes is one of the scarier things our little ones have had to manage in their short lives. Making sense of scariness is a process, and books always help. A local mom and educator has written one to help explain coronavirus to kids. What in the World is the Coronavirus? features main character Jalen dealing with not being able to do his favorite activities because of COVID-19. With

vibrant illustrations, the book includes characters from around the world and shares skills and safety precautions readers can take such as good hand hygiene, covering coughs and sneezes, wearing masks, and practicing social distancing. The book is available on Amazon. ■ martinadomino.com

COVID VACCINES AVAILABLE FOR 12+

Science marches on to fight COVID-19, and Pfizer-BioNTech’s vaccine has received FDA emergency use authorization for ages 12-15. “In order to achieve the two-thirds threshold necessary for herd immunity, childhood vaccinations are a key component,” says Miguela Caniza, MD MPH, director of the St. Jude Global Infectious Diseases Program at St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. “As vaccine hesitancy and the spread of variants become a growing crisis, being able to vaccinate children safely and effectively against COVID-19 will be a critically important step in helping us to control the virus.” Various vaccination options exist in our area, including an effort targeting teenagers in East Baton Rouge Parish schools. ■ brla.gov B R PA R E N T S . C O M | J U N E 2 0 2 1

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A student organization at Catholic High School created a tasty fundraiser while learning marketable skills. By applying what they learned over six months, students who are part of the Grizzly Hospitality Group created a restaurant from the ground up. Cajun Soul Southern Kitchen was the result, a student-driven eatery that received help from Stephen Hightower, Catholic High alumnus and local restaurateur, and Turning Point Food Services. With a pop-up dinner service for friends and family, the group brought together all they learned from food tasting, menu creation, interior design and brand strategy to the delight of their patrons. The evening raised $5,000 for Mission Amatongas, a Brothers of the Sacred Heart school in Africa.

GLEN OAKS CELEBRATES COMPLETED RENOVATIONS

Administrators, educators, students and alumni gathered at Glen Oaks Magnet High School for a ceremony to celebrate the completion of a series of renovations. Made possible by the EBR Schools tax renewal, the $14.8 million project includes new administrative offices, a media center, and athletic facility additions and improvements. An additional $10.2 million was invested in completing repairs required after the flood. “This investment in our school is not only a benefit to our students but the entire Glen Oaks community,” says Principal Robert Signater. “The learning environment here is enriched by enhanced technology, collaborative learning spaces and new facilities that can support the incredible talents of our students.”

WOODLAWN HIGH LAUNCHES ESPORTS

Photo by Parker Nyboer, Class of 2022

LOUISIANA LAUNCHES LITERACY INITIATIVE

Reading is fundamental, and Louisiana is investing in an initiative designed to spark a reading revival among students.

Louisiana Literacy, the effort from the Louisiana Department of Education, provides educators and families with tools and resources to support kids’ literacy journeys. “Being able to read is a foundational goal in education and we must refocus efforts to support this basic need for students,” says State Superintendent of Education Dr. Cade Brumley. “Unfortunately, more than half the students in our elementary and middle grades are reading below level in Louisiana. These new supports will give leaders, educators and families resources to help our students and state move forward.” ■ louisianabelieves.com 18

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Panther Esports may be a new offering at Woodlawn High School, but the team is already racking up wins as it competes in two video game title competitions: Super Smash Brothers and Rocket League. Esports competition teams allow students to play video games on a competition level, and the sport is recognized by the Louisiana High School Athletic Association.

All matches are played online from players’ personal devices in their own homes, which makes it ideal when social distancing.

The Panther team has 16 members, and the captain is Jason Delcid. Team members who participate in the competitions can earn a varsity letter. The team’s first victory came in a weekly season match in the Super Smash Brothers’ Tournament.

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amazing kid Last summer during the height of stayat-home orders, Caroline Simpson began her unique internship with the Baton Rouge Coroner’s Office, working for Dr. Beau Clark.

A recent graduate of St. Michael the Archangel High School, Caroline’s focus on forensics began with reading. “In sixth grade, I read a book series that really got me interested in murder mysteries and crime,” I Hunt Killers by Barry Lyga.

“She’s really interested in stuff that not many people are,” says Natalie Simpson, Caroline’s mom. In ninth grade, Caroline was able to view her first autopsy when her dad, Bill Simpson, won a “Spend a Day with the Coroner” at an auction.

“I was so worried–am I gonna throw up and pass out on the ground?” Caroline remembers. “But luckily, I went in and I was so fascinated. I could do this every day.”

Now 18, Caroline was a leader in her school’s youth ministry and a soccer team captain her senior year. “Especially with a younger team, when you’re one of the older people…you’ve always got to be doing your best,” Caroline says.

“I’m very thankful for the gifts and interests I have,” she says. “I think they make me very different than the average person. I am a little odd, but I absolutely love it.”

Caroline has signed with Centenary College of Louisiana in Shreveport to play soccer. This amazing kid plans to major in pre-med with a goal to become a forensic pathologist.

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GROWING LETTUCE TEACHES MANY LESSONS AT EPISCOPAL

Lower school students at Episcopal School of Baton Rouge flexed their green thumbs when they planted 3,500 seeds in the school’s hydroponic greenhouse. The pesticide- and insecticide-free greenhouse grows primarily lettuce and was made possible by the school’s parents’ guild. Hydroponic means the plants are grown in water without any soil, using a nutrient-film technique to provide soluble fertilizer and maintain a precise pH balance. Students from K-5th grade take part in maintaining the garden, learning about life cycles and pollination, and making healthy food choices. “We’re teaching kids something that they can do their whole life,” says QUEST Center Coordinator Dr. Elizabeth Lewis.

LIVINGSTON TEACHER HONORED AS EXTRAORDINARY EDUCATOR

A sixth grade math teacher at Holden School in Livingston has been chosen as a 2021 Extraordinary Educator by Curriculum Associates. Tracie M. Porter is among 44 teachers from 26 states and Washington, DC, who were honored for how they used i-Ready and/or Ready educational materials in their daily instruction. “This group of Extraordinary Educators–like so many other educators across the country–has more than risen to the occasion,” says Rob Waldron, CEO of Curriculum Associates. “We are proud to recognize Tracie (Porter) for her hard work, dedication, and innovative best practices that continue to positively impact the students she serves.”

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SQUISHY SCIENCE AT LASALLE AND CRESTWORTH

Things were a little messy but a lot of fun at LaSalle Elementary and Crestworth Elementary schools when PreK and Kindergarten students enjoyed a hands-on learning experience with Grant Gallegos. A member of LSU’s Alpha Epsilon Delta and Student Christian Medical Association and biology major, Gallegos worked with Volunteers in Public Schools to develop and present the lesson, which was based on the story, Sometimes Things Change. After reading the book to the students, the real fun began when Gallegos led the classes in a science experiment making slime. Using individually packaged sets of supplies, the students got to mix the ingredients and watch them change into a gooey slime that was pleasing to squish.

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SEMIFINALISTS FOR PRINCIPAL OF THE YEAR

Each year, the Louisiana Department of Education honors the state’s top teachers and principals, and this year, two local principals are in the running. Jeremy Muse, EdD, principal of Lake Elementary School in St. Amant, and Claudette J. Perkins, PhD, principal of Audubon Elementary School in Baton Rouge, are semifinalists for Louisiana Principal of the Year. This is the sixth time in seven years that Ascension Public Schools has a principal in the running. Exceptional educators are honored each year by the department in partnership with Dream Teachers and the Louisiana Association of Principals. The winner will be announced and all the semifinalists will be honored at the 15th Annual Excellent Educators Awards Gala to be held virtually Friday, July 16.

LAB SCHOOL EARNS DESIGNATION

Hate has no place in any school, and the University Lab School works to make that part of its official stance. ULS has been designated as a “No Place for Hate” school for the 11th year in a row by the Anti-defamation League, a process that requires annual needs assessment, a committee, resolution of respect, and three anti-bias or bullying prevention activities. ADL’s No Place for Hate program helps stakeholders take the lead on improving and maintaining a safe school climate so all students thrive. Six ULS students placed at the state level in the 2021 No Place for Hate poetry and poster competition: Cecile Chabert, Abby Choate, Regan Archie, Julian Hartman, Audrey Williams and Justin Collins.

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GRAD BOUND FOR NAVAL ACADEMY

Most high school seniors learn about their college acceptance online, but for St. Michael the Archangel High School’s Katherine Varnado, the news came via phone from Rep. Garret Graves. As the only female from Louisiana who was accepted into the United States Naval Academy this year, the accomplishment warranted the official call. Military service runs in Katherine’s family, with a grandfather and uncle who were officers.

“I wanted to be the first girl in my family to become an officer too,” she says. “That is why getting in was so important to me.

You are able to immediately become an officer after graduating.” This month, Katherine will start bootcamp before heading to Maryland as a biological engineering major this fall.

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Insect bites are no fun, especially when they leave our skin feeling itchy. However, there is one critter you should really keep an eye on, more so when you venture into the woods. Without the proper precautions, children are susceptible to ticks–tiny, crawling, parasitic bugs that thrive in humid climates. Tick bites are not itchy, but they can cause dangerous diseases if not treated immediately, such as lyme disease. Don’t worry! There are several preventative measures you can take so you and your child can enjoy a worry-free summer.

 Make sure you apply repellent after

your sunscreen if you know your child is going to be outside all day, especially in the woods. The repellent should have 20- to 30-percent concentrations. Most experts like Dr. Laura Boudreaux, a pediatrician at The Baton Rouge Clinic, recommends using DEET on your skin and permethrin on your clothing. Insect repellent does not need to be reapplied as often as sunscreen, but carry your repellent around with you in the event you do need to reapply, which is about

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every 8-14 hours. Spraying permethrin on their socks, shoes, and clothing will not only keep the ticks away; it will also kill them if they jump on the areas you sprayed. “Your products should be U.S. EPA registered,” says Dr. Boudreaux. “It’s very important to follow the instructions on the can of insect repellent. Avoid your face and eyes, and make sure to wipe off or bathe after application at the end of the day.”

 The way you dress can also be

defense against ticks! Tuck your shirt into your long pants, and then, tuck your pants into your socks. As soon as you come back from your excursion, take off your clothes and throw them in a hot washer and dryer. Take a shower as soon as you can (within two hours of getting home) and check for ticks on your body, especially in the areas at the back of your knees, your groin, and your armpits.

 If you find a tick, don’t panic. As

long as you remove it within 36 hours, the tick will likely have not caused harm.

To remove it, use fine-tipped tweezers

to grab it as close to the skin’s surface as possible. Pull it up steadily–if you twist or jerk it, the tick’s mouth parts can break off and stay in your skin, which you will also have to remove. Once you get the tick out, clean the bite area thoroughly with rubbing alcohol or soap and water, and dispose of the tick by flushing it down the toilet, wrapping it tightly in tape, placing it in a sealed bag, or putting it in alcohol (do not crush the tick with your fingers!). If your child develops a fever or rash within a few weeks of removing the tick, see his or her pediatrician.

 Another important step is to make

your home tick-proof. You need to make your surroundings unappealing to ticks and any animals that carry them, especially mice and deer. That includes making sure your grass is no longer than three inches tall, trimming your shrubs, and clearing out brush piles. Tick tubes– small containers of cotton soaked with permethrin–are a handy tool you can spread around the perimeter of your yard. ■

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OCCUPATION: VETERINARIAN AT SHERWOOD SOUTH ANIMAL HOSPITAL WIFE: DR. LACIE LEE CHILDREN: ASHLYN, 16, AND JAX, 14 HOBBIES: CATTLE RANCHING, WATCHING LSU FOOTBALL, WORKING IN THE YARD, AND RIDING ATVS WITH THE FAMILY

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AC H day, Dr. Stephen Lee is tasked with caring for some of our families’ most important members: our pets. As a local veterinarian, Dr. Lee has cared for a wide range of animals throughout his career, including a monkey and a prairie dog. Over the years, Dr. Lee has created a family atmosphere at Sherwood South Animal Hospital, providing guidance to his employees and building strong relationships with the pet parents he sees everyday. For Dr. Lee, family time is a huge part of his days, whether he’s at the clinic with his second family, or at home, simply sitting around the dinner table with his wife, daughter, and son.

What are some of the joys of raising your children?

STEPHEN: I think the joy is seeing my wife and I in them, seeing things that we do and things that we’re proud of as individuals coming out in them. Another joy is watching them mature into responsible little humans who actually did listen to the lessons we tried to teach them. It’s great now when a situation arises and they bring up a lesson we taught them. We’re very strict parents. We’re certainly very old school parents. It’s just nice that now they’re finally starting to realize that it wasn’t so bad. There was some structure and there were reasons that we parented the way we did.

What do you like to do as a family?

STEPHEN: We’re not the typical family that is together all the time. Even throughout COVID, my wife and I both worked full time, and where a lot of the world got to slow down and really enjoy extra family time, we didn’t. COVID was advantageous to teens because it slowed them down, and therefore, their slowing down did allow us to have more family time because they weren’t off in every direction. We like to do outdoor activities together. We enjoy the cattle. We enjoy working in the yard.

What’s something a lot of people don’t know about you?

STEPHEN: Most people don’t know that I raise cattle. I grew up in North Louisiana on a cattle ranch, and then I went 15 years without any cattle in my family. Getting back into it was a huge goal of mine because I enjoyed it so much.

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The biggest thing I stress to people about pets is consistency and schedule, and so I have carried that home. Our family, we’re very consistent and we’re very scheduled.

What’s your favorite thing about being a dad?

STEPHEN: My kids truly love me. I enjoy the love I get reciprocated from my children, and I love being able to teach them. What’s interesting about my career is, I have two sets of children. I’ve got my two and then I’ve got my other 70 children who work for me at my office, most of them are 18-30 year old people, and that’s a joy I get from work. I hope I make a positive influence on them everyday. I try to give them direction, and I try to instill in them some things I think would help them in life. They’re my second family.

What has parenthood taught you?

STEPHEN: Patience, patience, patience. I’m not a patient person, and my children have taught me patience. Raising children has also taught me humility.

What has been your biggest challenge in parenting during the pandemic?

STEPHEN: In my family situation, it was childcare, because we were expected to be at work every day and the children were at home every day. It was also balancing because they were at home, and even though they are teenagers, we had to work on a schedule of having people there to assist them, whether it was with school or helping them move from point A to point B. What do you love most about your job?

STEPHEN: I love my pet parents. I love being able to make a difference. So much is educating the pet parents, and so many people want to know; they just don’t have someone who takes the time to teach them or help them understand. That’s the biggest joy. It’s not just treating the dog or treating the cat, but developing that relationship with my clients.

What has your job taught you about parenting?

STEPHEN: I would say the biggest effect is that, at my work, I’m teaching people how to raise their pets. The biggest thing I stress to people about pets is consistency and schedule, and so I have carried that home. Our family, we’re very consistent and we’re very scheduled. It’s also a very emotional job because we deal with everything from life to death, and so, I think it has helped me understand how to deal with my children’s emotions even more.

What kind of dad would you describe yourself as?

STEPHEN: I’m a very structured dad who expects hard work. I don’t expect excellence; I just expect hard work.

What lesson do you teach them?

STEPHEN: That hard work and determination will pay off. It might not be in the way you expect it, but it will. If you’re working hard enough and you’re determined, you will be successful.

Which family member has been your greatest role model in life?

STEPHEN: My father. He’s honest, hardworking, a great husband, and a truly great guy. He’s helped mold me.

Any advice for other parents?

STEPHEN: Time really does fly. In a blink of an eye, they’re bigger and older. My other advice would be that, as parents, you always think that the next phase they go into is going to be easier than the one you just left. It’s not easier.

It’s just different. That’s certainly my take home message. ■

Q&A Before I go out, I always check to make sure I have… my wallet.

In my fridge, you will always find… pickles, salsa, milk and sweet tea.

Favorite cuisine...

Mexican.

Favorite movie growing up…

Tombstone.

My guilty pleasure is…

Hershey’s Kisses.

Music I’m loving…

80s Rap. My favorite television show is...

Yellowstone.

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Originally an assignment for a resilience project in Catherine Lucas’s freshman English class last fall, Cohen’s poem has been copyrighted. A video of Cohen reading it was published

by Ascension Parish Schools as part of Disabilities Awareness Month in March and has been shared more than 100 times from its Facebook page and viewed more than 50 times on its YouTube channel.

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The poem shares Cohen’s memories and struggles, each stanza ending with “Hold on, I’m trying,” something he says often.

“When I read it, I see everything separate; I can separate all of those memories,” says Krystal Swain, Cohen’s mom. “It was emotional for us and everyone that knows Cohen that’s read it.”

A particularly poignant memory comes when Cohen’s brother Mason was born. Cohen went from being nonverbal to speaking his first sentence when his parents, Krystal and his dad, Matt, returned from the hospital: “Look, mom, a baby.”

The poem may be a work in progress, as Krystal says she expects Cohen to add to it each year as he continues to grow and mature, and they are considering possible ways to share it.

Krystal is particularly touched by the public response, which she says has been entirely positive. “It’s amazing how one poem can connect people,” she says. “It’s relatable to any situation.

Everybody remembers a time where they were unable to communicate how they felt or they were nervous, and the poem kind of takes you through all that.”

Attention isn’t new for Cohen, as his family’s work advocating for children living with disabilities over the years has led him to receiving keys to both Gonzales and Ascension Parish when he was a preschooler. After Cohen was diagnosed with a mild form of autism, doctors didn’t think he would ever be verbal. Krystal threw herself into research and taking care of Cohen. “I found that there was a big need,” she says. At the time, Louisiana did not officially proclaim April as Autism Awareness Month and very limited resources for parents existed. So, Krystal started locally, asking for and receiving proclamations first from Gonzales Mayor Barney Arceneaux and then from Ascension Parish President Tommy Martinez.

Krystal and Cohen were part of fundraising for Project Kids Kove, which led to the creation of Kids Kove Discovery Park, a playground in Gonzales designed for children of all abilities. Before COVID restrictions set in, Krystal and Cohen also worked for years with the Active for Autism 5K, Fun Walk & Family Fun Fest, run by Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge.

“With COVID restrictions, we miss the volunteer time,” Krystal says. “That was something we did together as a family and definitely special for me and Cohen to do together.”

Videogames are an outlet for Cohen, and he also loves anime, creating memes on TikTok where his account, @official___asta, has more than 30,000 followers. He also loves to perform as a mascot, serving three years as the eagle mascot for Dutchtown Middle and as an octopus at the fun fest. Cohen is a percussionist for Dutchtown Sound at his high school.

Cohen continues to thrive. “For as much as this kid struggles, he has already accomplished so much and has so much to give,” Krystal says. ■

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BY SHARON HOLEMAN ILLUSTRATION BY GAIL LLOYD (GAIL-LLOYD-ART.COM)

We are created in the image of God, so there should be a familiarity in the traits we see in our families.

The Bible is a surprisingly artful instruction manual encompassing our history, story, and future.

God would you give her in a list? Perhaps Creator. Judge. Kind.

King. Provider. Reliable. Savior.

I see some of the same words on this list, like the one I originally made about my earthly dad, and while I know his good qualities are but a small reflection of God, I am thankful for the resemblance.

We are created in the image of God, so there should be a familiarity in the traits we see in our families.

The Bible is a surprisingly artful instruction manual encompassing our history, story, and future. It includes poetry, songs, and advice on daily life. It’s the ultimate love note and the most practical how-to guide that has ever been penned.

The Bible was written by 40 different authors, for over 1,500 years, across three different continents and in three different languages. Yet, despite being curated with so many differences, each of the manuscripts contains one primary theme–the redemption of humanity through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

Its accuracy has been verified through archeology, geography, history, and science. The number of fulfilled prophecies dispels all theories of chance or mere coincidence. Indeed, it is an amazing text.

But what about modern, practical advice? Does the Bible offer a parenting model? It does.

The brief list below is just a small sampling of topics that are covered within its pages.

■ Authority (Romans 13:1-7) ■ Finances (see the April issue) ■ How to raise a child (Proverbs 22:6) ■ Respect (1 Peter 2:17) ■ Understanding discipline (Hebrews 12:3-17) ■ And oh, so many hands-on pieces of good, solid advice in the book of Proverbs.

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OW L E R. Baseball fan. Good. Kind. Provider. Reliable. Secure.

These are a few of the descriptions that come to mind when I think about my dad.

As I ponder these adjectives, I remember my artist friend, Gail, who creates portraits with words instead of brushstrokes.

Her art is fantastic. What was once a list of attributes now seem to flow together effortlessly as they frame the face, become the upturned mouth, and run playfully along the jawline– culminating in a one-of-a-kind personal masterpiece.

I wonder if this could be a way to view our Heavenly Father, too? What would that portrait convey? What characteristics of

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Try reading one every morning and aim to live the way God tells us.

However, we all know that parenting is hard, and even good dads can make mistakes. We are all human at the end of the day. So, how does dad know if he’s doing it right?

From this daughter’s perspective, perhaps having a good father is as simple as knowing the unconditional love of someone whom I can trust with my heart. Someone who promises never to leave or forsake me. (Deuteronomy 13:8) That’s who God is. He is the multi-faceted Father I get to spend an eternity getting to know, the very definition and description of love.

He is also the one who invented fathers, including mine, whom I adore. He is that handsome green-eyed man who prefers his shirts with pockets and his radio tuned to the afternoon ball game. ■

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S my friend

was introducing me to a friend of hers, she mentioned to him that I wrote an advice column for parents and grandparents. A grandfather himself, he peppered me with questions. “How long had I been writing my column?” Nine years.

“How many columns have I written?”

Around 325.

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“H M M,” he said, “that’s a lot of columns.” I pointed out that nine years is a lot of time. He looked thoughtful.

“So,” he continued, “what’s the gist of your advice?” He seemed genuinely interested, so I took my time in thinking about “the gist” of my advice.

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(1) Involvement/boundaries; (2) Communication; (3) Assumptions and expectations; (4) Power and control; (5) Values, beliefs, and principles.

MY ADVICE FOR GRANDPARENTS IN TWO WORDS

“Okay,” he persisted, “so what’s your bottom-line advice for grandparents?”

“Well,” I said, “my general advice to grandparents distills to two words: Zip it!

This means cease and desist. Stop talking.

Bite your tongue.” He seemed intrigued by this notion of zipping it! and asked me to say more about it.

I elaborated: “Why should you zip it?

Because, as a grandparent, you are not in the driver’s seat anymore. You are a passenger ‘riding along’ at the pleasure of the parents.

When you were raising your own children, you made the rules. Now your job is to enforce the rules set down by your grown children regarding your grandchildren, whether you agree with

them or not. To use a common idiom, ‘There’s a new sheriff in town,’ and it isn’t you.”

I further explained that zipping it can be hard to pull off, especially in light of the fact that the average age for becoming a grandparent is 47. This means that many grandparents are still parents themselves who are also still raising their own children.

So, it is understandable that many grandparents find it challenging to move back and forth between being the rule maker and being expected to enforce the rules of the very people for whom they used to be the rule-maker.

And to complicate matters further, many times the grandparents don’t agree with the rules they are expected to enforce. Nevertheless, zipping it needs to prevail.

He was nodding in agreement, so I said, “Here are some phrases that are strong indicators that zipping it might be a wiser course of action than plowing ahead with unsolicited advice to the parents of your grandchildren: (1) ‘I know that you didn’t ask me, but …’

(2) ‘You really should …’ and the most common...

(3) ‘Here’s what I did when I was raising my children …’”

My advice is straightforward: if you want to be a welcomed and successful grandparent, practice zipping it.

Yes, granted, you have lots of experience, and yes, you have what many would consider wisdom, but until such time as you are invited to share your experience and wisdom, Zip it.

The only time to jump in uninvited is when a grandchild’s health, safety, and well-being are at risk, a very rare occurrence.

You will know when you’ve been invited to “unzip” it when you are specifically asked for your opinion: “What do you think about …?”

We talked further about the unalterable fact that parents determine who has access to their kids, including grandparents, and under what circumstances. Therefore, if grandparents want to be in good stead and have the opportunity to enjoy wonderful and ongoing relationships with their grandchildren, then zipping it is worth doing. It’s really that simple. And not that difficult!

So, two words of advice: For grandparents, Zip it! For parents, Lighten up!

He looked crestfallen and commented that he wasn’t really good at zipping it and often found himself in hot water.

GIST OF ADVICE FOR PARENTS IN TWO WORDS

I pointed out that of course, any relationship is a two-way street, so lest grandparents feel I am singling them out as the sole source of conflict in parent-grandparent relationships, I am not. I also have two words of advice for parents: Lighten up!

If the grandparents have loving intentions, parents should give them a break when they don’t exactly follow directives.

Kids are very resilient and can easily survive occasional deviations in their nap times or eating a forbidden dessert.

If parents have enough trust to leave their children alone with the grandparents, then there will most likely be times when the advice to “Lighten up!” truly makes sense.

Again, two words of advice: For grandparents, Zip it! For parents, Lighten up!

By following their respective two words of advice, parent-grandparent relationships are enhanced. This increases the opportunities for grandchildren to witness and experience interactions between their parents and grandparents that are based on mutual respect, consideration, and kindness. Original source: readgrand.com. ■

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BY EMILY DREZ PHOTO BY KLEINPETER PHOTOGRAPHY 2020-21 COVER KID RYDER P-W.

FTER A LONG, trying year of being cooped up at home, it is likely this summer will be a busier time for travel than usual. Businesses are reopening, travel restrictions are loosening, and family members are looking to get together again after distancing themselves for so long. You may have been saving up your vacation money for a year now, or you may have a tighter budget and antsy kids itching to get out the house. Maybe you’ve been planning to get out of town no matter the circumstances. Whether you’re expensive, frugal, or somewhere in-between, we’ve compiled a list of places to geaux all over the country that will scratch your travel bug without doing too much damage to your bank account. Price estimates were based on a family of four.

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NORTH Lutsen, Minnesota Check out all the Land of 10,000 Lakes has to offer at the Lutsen Resort on Lake Superior. From bonfires to hikes to live music, the Lutsen Resort has something for everyone in your family.

The Resort includes lodging that fits in any budget, from the Cliff House Townhomes to the Log Cabins to the Poplar River Condos & Guestrooms and the Historic Lodge Rooms. All these rooms feature stunning views of Lake Superior, several luxurious accommodations, and can be pet-friendly upon request.

Before you get to your room, make sure to stop at a grocery store along the way so you can stock up on snacks, drinks, and anything else you may need if you plan to cook any meals.

The Lutsen Resort offers two unique fine dining restaurants available to guests and to the public. Both restau-

rants have Scandanavian influences as a true reflection of North Shore cuisine.

The Strand Waterfront Dining & Wine Bar is located in the Historic Lodge at Lutsen Resort and is open for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. You can have signature Swedish pancakes or blueberry fritter bread for breakfast, or indulge in some pine cured salmon and a glass of wine. For a more casual experience, the Lutsen Resort Poplar River Pub offers pizza, burgers, and sandwiches along with Minnesota craft beers. If you want to eat away from the resort, check out the Rustic Inn Cafe. Rustic Inn Cafe’s menu offers food for meat lovers, seafood con-

noisseurs, vegetarians, vegans, and even those who want to stop by just for dessert from their signature pie menu.

During your stay, you and your family can kayak on Lake Superior or on Caribou Lake, and you can take a guided waterfall tour or hike through the gorgeous Minnesota scenery. For your younger ones, there are kids camps, a nine-hole “pitch and putt” golf course, and a playground. You can even do yoga on the shore of Lake Superior.

At the end of your day, make s’mores with your beach bonfire before retreating back to your lodging a few steps away.

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NORTHEAST

Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

Home to thousands of restaurants, bustling nightlife, tons of amusement parks, and 60 miles of beaches, Myrtle Beach is a gem along the eastern coast for your family’s summer vacation.

The Dunes Village Resort will offer you a great place to stay while you explore all Myrtle Beach has to offer.

The resorts have a wide variety of condos, suites, and beach houses that can accommodate anywhere from 6-16 guests. They feature private bedrooms and full bathrooms, along with a living room with a queen-sized sofa bed, multiple TVs, a dining room, a kitchen, and a dishwasher, washer, and dryer so you can easily make yourself at home.

Before you settle in, make sure to fill that refrigerator with beach snacks to help cut back on costs of picking up grub while on your way to the sand!

Beyond the beach, you can experience a thrill ride at one of many amusement parks like Pavilion Park or the Family Kingdom Amusement Park, and you can also take a splash at Myrtle Waves Water Park.

You can’t visit Myrtle Beach without stopping at the Sky Wheel, a 200-foot tall Ferris Wheel with glass-enclosed gondolas that allow a bird’s eye view of the blue Atlantic waters.

If you need to get away from the tourist attractions, take a 15-minute drive away from the beach to go on a guided kayaking tour on the Waccamaw River with the birds, frogs, and gators.

If you’re looking to add a little education into your summer vacation without losing the fun, make the trip to WonderWorks, an amusement park for the

mind. This amuseument park features over 50,000 square feet of “edu-tainment” that is so fun that it won’t feel like “work” at all.

For even more family fun, visit The Funplex, where fun is literally in the name. This new outdoor theme park is lined with palm trees and features seven rides, a walk-up bar and restaurant, and hours of family entertainment.

If you find yourself wanting to challenge your family to a race, race to victory at Broadway Grand Prix Family Race Park. The park features seven go kart tracks for your need for speed. You can also climb to the top of the rock wall, play on two 18-hole mini golf courses, and check out the arcade.

Myrtle Beach has plenty of restaurants that will satisfy any craving. Get a taste of the coast at Bubba’s Fish Shack, where you can order anything from fresh catch specials, fried Big Dawg platters, shellfish, Bubba-wiches, Bubba-Que platters, burgers, and wings. For a light breakfast or lunch, or even just dessert, stop at Croissants Bistro & Bakery to cater to your sweet tooth. You are guaranteed to find whatever you or your family is in the mood for at Myrtle Beach.

EAST Outer Banks, North Carolina You won’t find any crowded beaches or tourist traps at the Outer Banks of North Carolina.

Instead, you’ll stumble upon hundreds of miles of shoreline and charming towns and villages that add character to these barrier islands.

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The Outer Banks includes 14 small towns that will suit any desired experience, from beaching, golfing, fishing, surfing, and kayaking. Even better, you can drive to any of these places within a few minutes or a few hours.

We promise that it will be worth

the drive when you see how much fun your kiddos are having.

Each town in Outer Banks has hotels, condos, and Airbnbs for your family to rent, all within walking distance of the nearest beach. Not only will your options be budget-friendly, but they will also be peaceful and private, half of which are family owned and operated.

There are even campgrounds for those looking to sleep under the stars and to the sound of the rolling waves.

Whatever your style, the Outer Banks will surely suit it.

The Outer Banks of North Carolina take pride in their local restaurants and cafes, which offer seafood, barbeque, vegan, gluten-free, and culture-oriented meals for the whole family.

Before you start your day, don’t forget to pick up coffee and breakfast at one of many breakfast restaurants in the area, from Ashley’s Espresso Parlour in between Kitty Hawk and Kill Devil Hills to Beads & Beans on Hatteras Island.

For lunch, stop and enjoy the stunning view at Steamers near Kitty Hawk along with the clams, lobster, or fish and chips. If you’re hungry for a fine-dining experience, check out The Colington Cafe in Kill Devil Hills and its delicious crab cakes and filet mignon.

During your stay, there are some places in the Outer Banks you have to visit.

Climb the 220 steps to the top of the Currituck Beach Lighthouse in Corolla and soak in the stunning view while learning about its rich history.

You can also hike the majestic sand dunes at Jockey’s Ridge State Park in Nags Head, watch the sunset and the rolling waves, and even fly kites.

For the daredevils in the group, if they’re feeling adventurous, they can take hang gliding lessons which will surely give them a view of the Outer Banks from a whole different level.

Next, you can take a stroll through the 10 acres of Roanoke Island’s Elizabethan Gardens for something a little more relaxing.

The Outer Banks are also known for their wild horses, most of which can be found on Currituck Beach. For an indoors adventure day, you can stop at the aquarium on Roanoke Island, or visit one of their many historical museums.

SOUTHEAST

Orlando, Florida

Everyone knows The Sunshine State is the place to be for theme park enthusiasts and Disney fans alike. About 10 miles away from Walt Disney World, Universal Studios is filled with awesome attractions and epic fun for everyone in the family. Plus, it is easier than you think to arrange a budget-friendly trip here.

Go retro at Universal’s Cabana Bay Beach Resort, where you can rest in vibrant, affordable rooms modeled after the classic Florida resorts from the ‘50s and ‘60s.

Your family’s suite will feature more than just comfortable amenities; your stay will also include benefits such as walking paths to Universal’s water theme park, Volcano Bay, early admission to The Wizarding World of Harry Potter, and

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complimentary shuttle buses to Universal Studios, Universal’s Islands of Adventure, and Universal CityWalk.

You’ll find endless opportunities for adventure at Universal Studios–it will be impossible to see it all in one trip! Step into the Wizarding World of Harry Potter, where you can walk through Diagon Alley and visit famous sites come to life. Watch a wand choose a wizard at Ollivander’s wand shop, visit the Hogwarts castle, and talk to a Gringotts goblin at Gringotts bank. You can also plunge yourself into the magic with one-of-a-kind experiences like Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey or Harry Potter and the Escape from Gringotts, where you’ll soar around Hogwarts or navigate the dangerous underground vaults in these multidi-

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mensional adventures. After your magical journey, grab some fish and chips at the Leaky Cauldron and celebrate with some Butterbeer.

On a warm and sunny day, you’ll want to make a splash at Universal’s Volcano Bay. Relax on Waturi Beach or go on a heart-pounding water rafting ride at Puihi of Maku Puihi where you’ll tumble down a lava-tube path and through a dark, winding cavern. There is also the Kopiko Wai winding river for those who simply want to relax before or after feasting on some chicken tacos from The Feasting Frog.

Don’t forget to stop by other attractions like Jurassic Park in Universal Studios and The Cat in the Hat at Universal’s Islands of Adventure. During your stay in Orlando, we assure you there will never be a dull moment.

This island in the Bahamas is nothing short of its own name–paradise. With miles upon miles of soft, white sand; warm, turquoise waters; colorful coral reefs; and tons of opportunities for adventure, Paradise Island is the ideal island getaway for the whole family.

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When you’re not relaxing on one of the island’s stunning beaches, you’ll have plenty of options for exploring all it has to offer.

Of course, if you find yourself wanting time on the water with the whole family involved, you can bet there are plenty of water activities you can all dip your toes into.

In Nassau, you can board a catamaran for a coral reef excursion, explore a shipwreck on a scuba diving trip, or even

try Snuba, which pairs snorkeling with underwater breathing. If fishing is more your speed, you can even hop aboard a charter boat for an excursion.

You can tour the forts of Nassau, which date back to the 18th century, and stand in the same spot as the British Lords who built them. You can also take time to appreciate local artists at the National Art Gallery of the Bahamas, which includes hands-on activities and interactive workshops that are perfect for the little artists in your family.

Other art galleries in the area include Doongalik Studios and the Educulture Junkanoo Museum, both of which feature rich, local culture your family will truly enjoy.

Don’t forget about the largest water park in the Caribbean, Aquaventure!

It’s home to wild rides like The Power Tower, a 120-foot tower with four water slides, a lazy river, and over 20 swimming areas.

However, no trip to the Bahamas is complete without visiting the beach pigs at Big Major Cay about 35 miles southeast of Nassau–you can even swim with them! Make sure you bring your camera because this is one photo op that you won’t want to miss. At the end of the day, stop by La Caverna, where you’ll have a menu full of homemade Italian dishes like Lasagna Al Forgno and Spaghetti Alla Carbonara. If you need vegan and vegetarian friendly options for someone in your crew, visit Luca Fusion and try their daily vegan and vegetarian specials, along with traditional Caribbean dishes for lunch and all-day breakfast. Another local gem is the family owned and operated Athena Cafe. where you can order anything from local conch to Athenian-style fish and burgers.

Comfort Suites at Paradise Island will provide you with an affordable, luxurious place to sleep after your day in paradise with the benefits of a guest staying at the Atlantis Resort. You’ll have access to all amenities and Atlantis facilities and the Aquaventure park.

Padre Island, SOUTHWEST South Texas

Beautiful beaches, bumpin’ nightlife, and bustling activities, South Padre Island, Texas, is part of the world’s longest barrier island located on warm waters of the Gulf of Mexico, and it can be the perfect place for you and your family to vacation only one state away from home.

At South Padre Island, you can lounge on the beach with your crew, take sandcastle lessons, and even walk the Laguna Madre Nature Trail.

Don’t pass up the largest outdoor laser tag arena in Texas, Bobz World, where you can also play in the arcade, take a stroll through the museum and Jurassic-themed botanical garden, and play black light mini golf.

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acres and contains almost two dozen attractions and 13 water slides, from an underwater scuba adventure to a zip line that will send you soaring 10 stories in the air.

South Padre Island is also brimming with arts and culture, where you can visit the many art galleries and dance to live music as the sun sets over the bay.

It’ll be easy to find somewhere to rest your head after you spend the day in the Texas sunshine. You can stay at The Pearl South Padre hotel, which features exquisite views of the ocean from every room, rent an oceanfront condo from the Seabreeze Beach Resort, or book a quaint Airbnb within walking distance of the soft, sandy shores.

No matter where you stay, make sure you stop at the grocery store and stock up on water, sunscreen, and snacks to bring with you on your daily excursions, especially when you find yourself sinking your toes into the sand. You’ll be so at peace that you just might forget to reapply your sunscreen!

You’ll really want to stay hydrated and protected from the sun while you enjoy a picnic by the clear, indigo waters.

South Padre Island also has a variety of restaurants for your family to refuel at while on the go, serving foods that will keep you feeling refreshed throughout your trip. Pick up the summer omelette

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for brunch at Yummies Bistro, build your own fresh ceviche at Ceviche Ceviche, or try the flounder at Pier 19 for dinner with a view. It’s the perfect beach vacay only a few steps (miles) away.

Winter Park, Colorado

Here you’ll stand in awe at the magnificent views while basking in the cool, mountain air and embarking on adventures fit for all experience levels, and right outside the capitol city.

Spend your summer at the Winter Park Resort where you’ll have dozens of lodging options from top-notch lodges and townhomes to the high-quality Vintage Hotel. All lodging options are suitable for all budgets, are complete with comfortable amenities, and are located just outside the resort so your family will never be far from the fun.

Colorado is perfect for families that cannot get enough of the outdoors. The short summers at Winter Park Resort are ideal for hiking the Waterfall Trail or taking a bike ride along the Fraser River Trail before stretching your worn-out muscles with some relaxing yoga.

In 1872, President Ulysses S. Grant established Yellowstone National Park as the first national park in the country.

Whether you want to get up close and personal with the massive canyons, impressive hot springs, and gushing geysers, or see everything from the comfort of your own vehicle, Yellowstone National Park is waiting for you.

You can sleep right in the heart of Yellowstone National Park in one of its summer lodges, some of which are renowned for their architecture. While you may be dying to stay in Old Faithful Inn, the world’s largest log structure, or pass underneath the massive white columns of the elegant Lake Yellowstone Hotel & Cottages, places like this in Yellowstone sell out quickly. You may be interested in staying in a nearby hotel or Airbnb. Wherever you stay, you will get a breathtaking view of the incredible landscape.

Yellowstone National Park is located in three states. Between Wyoming, Montana, and Idaho, you’ll have access to the

In the heart of the Rocky Mountains is the stunning state of Colorado.

You can also get a front-row view of the mountains at 10,700 feet in the air from the Gondola, or spend a night in the middle of it all at one of the local campgrounds. Don’t forget to pack plenty of food and water for any outdoor excursions!

After your busy day, stop by a Colorado favorite for dinner like Deno’s Mountain Bistro–you just have to try their signature steaks! Pepe Osaka’s Fishtaco is another option with a menu full of fusion like Thai Chicken Tacos and soft shell crab enchiladas. For a taste of homemade comfort foods, Goodys Mountain Creperie is the place to be.

You can get anything sweet or savory here, from the loaded Goodys Cheeseburger, to their homemade chili, to their strawberry shortcake crepe and

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their Monte Cristo crepe (full of honey-roasted ham, swiss cheese, ground mustard, and raspberry jam).

Wherever you are in Winter Park, you’ll find anything to satisfy any hankering for adventure.

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park and to other points of interest. No matter where you go, you’ll be spending a lot of time outside, so don’t forget to pack plenty of water and snacks. As the original entrance to Yellowstone, Gardiner, Montana is a charming town brimming with activities. Bathe in the Yellowstone Hot Springs, go hiking with the llamas, or take a horseback tour.

After your day of exploration, grab a bite to eat at Yellowstone Pizza, where you can order everyone’s favorite. About 15 miles from Yellowstone is Island Park, Idaho. This is a quiet town with the world’s longest main street and the world’s largest caldera.

In Yellowstone National Park, the Grand Canyon of the Yellowstone, along with the colorful Grand Prismatic Spring, is a mustsee. A classic stop is Old Faithful, the iconic geyser. If you finish your tour in West Yellowstone, refuel at Buffalo Bar and try their ground buffalo tacos or their tender potroast sandwich. If you want to start your day with a delicious pancake breakfast, don’t pass up Running Bear Pancake House. ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | J U N E 2 0 2 1

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After the Trauma

COPING WITH POST-TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER

BY JANNEAN DIXON, M. ED.

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y counselor explained that having PTSD is like having a sniper on the watch tower in your brain. Every single sound, thought, emotion, anything, is a perceived threat. My brain was stuck in that,” shares local mom Candice P., who lives with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

The American Psychiatric Association describes PTSD as a “disorder that may occur in people who have experienced or witnessed a traumatic event such as a natural disaster, a serious accident, a terrorist act, war/combat, or rape, or who have been threatened with death, sexual violence or serious injury.”

In the last few years, Baton Rouge has dealt with a major flooding event, shootings, named storms, and COVID-19. Any of these events, as well as events in personal lives, can cause a PTSD response.

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Local mom Emma C. shares, “I think it is fair to say that everyone lost something last year. We lost our sense of familiarity, predictability, and routine.

Some lost their health, jobs, homes, or people they love.”

Tara Dixon, a mental health counselor and owner of Heal Your Life Counseling, LLC., adds, “In an instant, our world as we knew it stopped. If you have ever struggled with mental illness, you know that idle time does no favors for disturbing thoughts. It’s easy to understand how

someone struggling with PTSD would fall into negative thought patterns when given ample time to ruminate on past events. Lockdown was a perfect storm of idle time, isolation, and increased uncertainty...all triggers of PTSD.” UNDERSTANDING PTSD Anyone can be affected by PTSD as the condition does not discriminate based on age, race, ethnicity, gender, or other bias. In fact, Americans have a 1 in 11 chance of being diagnosed with PTSD in

their lifetime, and that doesn’t include people who don’t seek help. Some studies indicate that up to 50 percent of people suffering with PTSD do not seek treatment. In adults, about half of those with PTSD also suffer with substance abuse problems.

“There have been a multitude of studies exploring the onset of PTSD following a natural disaster,” Dixon reports. “One of the first major studies on this topic was conducted in our own backyard following Hurricane Katrina in 2005. After four years of tracking, it was determined that 33 percent of survivors were diagnosed with PTSD. There is no doubt that COVID will produce similar, if not worse, results. And, unfortunately, our children are extremely vulnerable to the effects of PTSD.” KNOWING THE SIGNS “Some symptoms that you can watch for are large changes in sleeping routines (too much or too little sleep), unwarranted grouchiness or irritability, consistent nervous or jittery movements, an increase in aggression, fixation on death and dying, reverting back to infant behaviors such as thumb-sucking or bedwetting, and consistent physical symptoms such as headaches or stomaches,” Dixon continues.

Other signs and symptoms include: reliving the event either in thoughts or in play; nightmares; becoming agitated when the event is mentioned or denying the event ever occurred; avoiding people or places associated with the event; a sense of helplessness or hopelessness; and intense ongoing feelings of fear, sadness, or anger. People suffering with PTSD may experience feelings of distrust, depression, self-blame, panic attacks, migraines, back pain, or weight loss. Emily T., who is 13 and has PTSD, says, “When I’m triggered, I’m overwhelmed and have trouble breathing.”

TREATING PTSD Candice shares that just speaking about her PTSD conjures anxiety and some panic. However, she continues, “I guess the first thing in dealing with it is to recognize it happening and slowly remind yourself you are in a safe place.”

When Emily is triggered, she reaches out for help. “I find a trusted adult to help me know that I’m safe and to help me calm down.”

It’s also important that you speak with your healthcare provider or mental health counselor. People, especially children, may find it very difficult to talk about the event that has caused PTSD. Therapies in which children can draw,

sculpt, play, or write about the stressful event can be very therapeutic.

Emma adds, “Our two daughters started therapy for the loss of both of their grandfathers. Therapy was really helpful for our family. I’m glad that the stigma surrounding mental health and caring for mental health seems to be diminishing from when I was a kid.”

It should be known though that PTSD cannot be cured. “Although PTSD cannot be cured, it can be treated,” shares Dixon. “Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy have provided the best results in treating PTSD in both children and adults. Both forms of therapy place great focus on emotional regulation, a key component to managing PTSD.” LIVING WITH PTSD “I’m much better now, but it never goes away. Now when symptoms happen, I just stop and try to breathe. If I need to cry, I do, but I try not to stay in that place too long,” shares Candice. “I do a tiny bit of yoga almost every morning and it helps to start my day on my terms.”

If you or someone you know has concerns about PTSD, or if you may be experiencing signs of PTSD, always reach out to your healthcare provider. ■

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Blended Families

HOW TO DEAL WITH BIOLOGICAL FAVORITISM

BY JULIE ENGELHARDT

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both parties, takes a lot of time and planning.

You want to work cohesively on your future together, and maybe, some day, have children. But then there’s a whole other group of newlyweds–those who are marrying for the second or (possibly) third time, many bringing in children from their previous relationship.

“Blending” families together takes an extra special amount of cooperation from all involved.

“Managing a newly-blended family will always require a period of adjustment,” says Cheryl Brodnax, a Provisional Licensed Professional Counselor with Crossroads Professional Counseling.

“Couples entering a new marriage will have to navigate a myriad of new experiences, and much more when there are children that enter the new family with them.”

One of many issues that may arise within the new family unit is something referred to as “biological favoritism.”

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the same when it is their stepchildren’s birthdays. These unfortunate scenarios can even occur to the biological half-siblings who are the products of second marriages.

BIOLOGICAL FAVORITISM WITHIN THE IMMEDIATE FAMILY Natasha Stewart and her young son are currently experiencing biological favoritism in their new family unit.

“My husband bought my stepson a $1,000 dirt bike for his birthday, but he doesn’t want to do anything for my son’s birthday,” she begins. “Another example, he bought himself and his son a drone at the store, and took my son with them. He didn’t buy my son anything and then he got mad when my son touched the drone later that night. My son was excited that

it was left unattended and felt it was his turn to play with it.”

Instances like Stewart’s aren’t uncommon. Brodnax shares, “I have worked with families that have struggled with lack of parity in terms of discipline between biological and stepchildren. In these cases, stepparents have wanted stricter consequences for infractions than biological parents were willing to give.”

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BY EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBERS Parents and stepparents are not the only ones who may give preferential treatment to biological children. Cases have shown many instances where grandparents, aunts, uncles and other non-immediate family members may do the same. They may shower pricey gifts on the biological grandkids, and leave the stepchildren out.

Kristina Dezendorf is in her second marriage and has two sons, one from her previous marriage who is 15, and a son from her current marriage, who is 7.

She says her current in-laws have always treated her older son with kindness and respect, and would often have him over for sleepovers when he was younger However, biological favoritism is something that Dezendorf is very aware of. She grew up in a blended family with one biological brother, four step siblings and a half-brother, Michael, who is the product of her mother’s and stepfather’s

marriage. Michael was the “victim” of biological favoritism on his father’s side.

Although he was their full biological grandson, he did not receive the same kind of attention from his paternal grandparents that his older half siblings received, making it feel as if he were in the role of a stepchild as well.

“When Michael came along, my mother-in-law would maybe bring him something like a shirt, but she would give hundreds of dollars of items to the four older biological grandchildren,” Dezendorf explains. This even continued on as Michael grew older. “When these grandparents passed away, the four grandchildren received inheritances, but Michael wasn’t included at all.”

In addressing a situation such as this, Brodnax says it’s reasonable for biological parents to ask the grandparents to respect the blended family as a whole, without ostracizing the stepchildren.

“It’s for the overall good of the family unit,” she says.

OUTSIDERS LOOKING IN AT THE BLENDED FAMILY UNIT Alex P. is also in her second marriage.

She did not have any children from her first marriage, but her husband has twin boys who are now 21, and she and her

husband have a 4-year-old son together.

“We have a blended family that is sweet and wonderful and I wouldn’t change it for anything,” she says.

Alex explains that there have not been any signs of biological favoritism from family members. However, her friends have given their unsolicited advice and opinions when it comes to her stepsons and her relationship with them.

“I’ve had friends say to me, ‘They’re not your children; you’re not supposed to correct them’ and ‘You don’t need to spend your money on them’,” she says.

“Their mom has not really been in the picture and my husband has raised them from the time they were six, and then I came in as the maternal figure a few years later.”

Alex shares that one day, while having a conversation about the boys with her now former friend regarding discipline, buying cars, and an issue she had with one of the stepsons, her friend said, “I don’t even understand why you’re having this conversation with him! He’s not your son.” Her “friend” also told her that she didn’t understand why Alex was weighing in on what her husband and she were going to buy the boys for vehicles. She said, “That’s not your decision; it’s their dad’s decision.”

NAVIGATING THROUGH BLENDED FAMILY DYNAMICS AND BIOLOGICAL FAVORITISM Communication, like with most relationships, is crucial in successfully navigating through biological favoritism and the dynamics of blended families. Having those important conversations will help parents in the long run “Knowing what you’re getting into is important for parents to talk about,” advises Dr. Christine Belaire, a Clinical Mental Health Counselor. “The danger is throwing kids into situations they’re not prepared for, and then all of a sudden, trying to make it work. Communicating early, communicating ahead of time helps. Discuss things like, ‘What do our households look like? How are they different? What are our values? What do we want to be important for our family?,’ and really defining what the family structure is going to look like.”

Brodnax also adds that the “divide and conquer” approach does not do much to create a unified household, which is key in this situation. “The [divide and conquer approach] will bring about an uneven application of house rules,” she adds. “The integrity of the husband-wife relationship sets the tone for the rest of the household.” ■

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a day in the life of dad Crazy Times

BY BRANDON FOREMAN

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T seems that we have all been living this life with a new set of rules that change every week, if not every day, and somehow, we are getting through it. I will be the first to say that it is not easy. Let’s step back and think about it. Some of us have not made any changes in our lives, but yet, everything has changed. Some of us have made big changes, like new homes, new cities or even new careers, but at the same time, everything around us is also changing. When I say changing, I am talking about the “new world” it seems we are in. It used to be that when we said “social,” we followed it up with the word media, not distancing. Wearing a mask was only what you did one night a year. I’m not going to recap all that has changed here. We know our lives are different, but I do want to take a minute to remind everyone that there are some things that have not changed.

Our children look to us for guidance and stability, and we have to give that to them, even when our lives are constantly changing. We need to be there for them, and they need to know that with all the craziness and changes in the world, they can count on us. I don’t think there is anything wrong with worrying, fear, or being uncertain, but I do think that we need to make sure we don’t let this creep into our children’s lives. They need stability and to not have to worry about these adult problems. Our children need to be children and not grow up so fast.

They should never be scared to play outside or worried about where their next meal will come from, or if they are going to have to find a new home.

I say all this to remind you that, as parents, we sometimes forget that our children are watching and listening to our every move and word. So next time you get overwhelmed and get on a soapbox with your spouse or when you are driving and take that phone call and start going on about how hard things are and you don’t know what you’re going to do about the house, your job, or anything else, make sure you do not have little ones down the hall or in the car just listening in. Your children are along for the ride with you, with nothing to do but listen to what you say. Trust me, they understand a lot more than you may give them credit for. Also, know that what they don’t understand, they will fill that void or lack of understanding with something else. That is just the way our minds work, and 9 times out of 10, it is with negative thoughts.

So, I leave you with this. Though we are all making adjustments and moving forward, remember it is not all bad. There are some really awesome things going on. We have businesses opening back up, people are hiring on every street, and projects are getting started again. Take some time and forget whatever it is you’re going through, and just hang out with your children.

They will love it and you will, too.

And remember, as my grandmother always told me, “this too shall pass.” ■

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Our children look to us for guidance and stability, and we have to give that to them, even when our lives are constantly changing.

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Nickelodeon Universe

BLOOMINGTON, MINNESOTA

BY LINDSAY MILLER

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O C AT E D in the Mall of America in Bloomington, Minnesota, the Nickelodeon Universe theme park has reopened after a hiatus due to COVID-19. With some restrictions put into place, you can assure the park has your family’s safety as its top priority, and because of this, you’ll need to get your tickets as soon as possible for your next vacation. From family attractions to thrill rides, there is something for every member of the family to enjoy.

WHERE TO STAY Stay near the Mall of America in the Radisson Blu Mall of America Hotel. The convenience of having just a short walk to the main attractions is unbeatable. Everything is in one place, and if you decide to fly, you won’t have to worry about renting a car. Just a short ride in an Uber or cab will take you right to the center of everything. The hotel features beautiful interior decorations, modern rooms, a pool, a gym, and a complimentary breakfast.

WHERE TO EAT Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. Based on the classic comedy-drama film, Forrest Gump, the Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. is a family-friendly seafood restaurant.

All meals have a home-cooked feel, just in case you’re feeling a bit homesick. If seafood isn’t your favorite, they also have a selection of burgers, steaks, and pasta. Additionally, there is a fun gift shop with Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. and Forrest Gump merchandise.

The Rainforest Cafe If you’re looking for a fun experience while eating, you might find yourself at the Rainforest Cafe. Here, guests will find themselves completely immersed in a forest with fun, themed dishes including Rasta Pasta, the Jungle Turkey Wrap, and the Sparkling Volcano brownie dessert. On your way out, stop by the gift shop that is attached to the restaurant and filled with fun toys and games and a few fun shirts for the kids.

The FireLake Grill House & Cocktail Bar For a more formal experience, dine in at FireLake Grill House & Cocktail Bar, located right in the Radisson Blu Mall of America Hotel. This beautiful and modern restaurant offers a menu with 46

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Coordinates: 44.8547° N, 93.2420° W Distance from Baton Rouge: 1,189 miles Flying Time: 2 hours, 40 minutes Driving Time: 17 hours, 51 minutes

breakfast, lunch, and dinner options. While the lunch menu is only available Thursdays through Sundays, there is still so much to choose from on the dinner and breakfast menus.

WHAT TO DO Visit the Nickelodeon Universe, of course! With over 20 rides and several attractions, such as blacklight mini-golf, adventure golf, and an adventure course, there is plenty of fun for everyone in the family. Nickelodeon Universe is also wonderful for guests who are on the autism spectrum, as their team members receive training on sensory awareness, motor skills, social skills, and communication. The theme park also has quiet spaces and noise-canceling headphones to accommodate you and your children.

If you have had your fill of Nickelodeon Universe, there is still plenty to explore in the Mall of America, including the SEA LIFE Aquarium. This aquarium holds a 1.3 million gallon aquarium filled with sea turtles, sharks, sawfish, stingrays, jellyfish, and seahorses. Guests will also have the chance to touch stingrays and sea urchins and feed them as well. This beautiful, educational experience is one worth taking note of.

It almost goes without saying that if you’re in the Mall of America, you know there’s plenty of stores where you can shop ‘til you drop. Featuring over 520 stores, you’ll get a day full of shopping unlike anything you’ve ever experienced before.

One final must-see is the Crayola Experience in the Mall of America. With activities pulling out the creative side of your youngster, you’ll be here all day. Attractions include the Crayon Factory Show where you’ll learn how crayons are made, Melt and Mold where you can make your own crayons in a super fun shape, and Wrap It Up! where guests will learn how their crayons are wrapped and even wrap some themselves. ■

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INFLATABLE RAINBOW SPRINKLER Beat the heat and add fun to any hot day. Your child can safely splash in the water and stay cool all summer.

OUTDOOR POPCORN POPPER Enjoy your summer bonfire with this Outdoor Popcorn Popper. Made from tin and hardwood, it can make three quarts of light and fluffy popcorn in minutes. The popper is built for quick and easy assembly and has a nonstick coating to make cleaning even easier once you are done.

ARMOGEAR LASER TAG SET Turn your backyard into a laser tag arena! Set includes target vests, flashlights, and 150-foot shooting range.

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BURGER MASTER This container instantly molds perfect portions of ready-to-make patties. Patties don’t stick together and it prevents freezer burn.

MINI HANDHELD FAN This Mini Handheld Fan can be wrapped on a stroller, car seat, bed, bike, and desk so you can stay cool everywhere you go.

KIDZLANE AUTOMATIC BUBBLE MACHINE This adorable dolphin spits out 1,000s bubbles per minute. It’s quiet, durable, stable, and kid-friendly.

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FREE FISHING DAYS JUNE 12-13

Enjoy free fishing with dad and the family throughout Louisiana from June 12-13. Free fishing days are a perfect opportunity for beginners to try out fishing for the first time, without a need for a license. takemefishing.org

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Men’s Health Month National PTSD Awareness Month National Safety Month National Soul Food Month

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TUESDAY NATIONAL SAY SOMETHING NICE DAY BINGO DAY: PRESCHOOL PICTURE BINGO. Donaldsonville Library at 2 p.m. Join the library for loads of Bingo Day fun and win some cool prizes, too. Designed for ages three-five. Younger participants may need assistance from an adult or older sibling. myapl.org BUILDING A BETTER AMERICA WITH AMOA! Online certification program with EBR Library through June 6. Program designed for high school and college students and recent graduates. This interactive program introduces participants to a diverse array of curated online courses. theamoa.org CORKBOARD STRING ART MAKE & TAKE. Dutchtown Library at 2 p.m. Tweens can use string, corkboard, and sewing pins to create art for their wall or desk.

Choose from a heart or jewel design, or use your creativity. Ages 9-11. myapl.org HOPE CHEST BREAST CANCER SUPPORT GROUP. Ochsner Medical Complex: High Grove at 5:30 p.m.

This group features topics that would be of interest to breast cancer survivors and their loved ones ochsner.org MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. Occurs weekly on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Fridays. batonrouge.bluezoo.us REMEMBERING MS. SADIE ROBERTS-JOSEPH IN STITCHES.

Carver Branch Library throughout June. View an exhibit of vibrant quilted wall hangings, along with a photo collage of Ms. Sadie Roberts-Joseph and her work at various events and community programs. ebrpl.com STARRY SAVANNA. Albany-Springfield Library at 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. Learn the use of acrylic techniques step by step with local artist, Winnie Hughes. All supplies will be provided.

Registration required. mylpl.info TAILS AND TALES: 2021 SUMMER READING PROGRAM. East Baton Rouge Parish Libraries through August 15. Sign up at your local library or online.

Enjoy a variety of online programming and activities, plus visit any library to get a calendar of in-person offerings. ebrpl.beanstack.org THE DINOSAUR EXPERIENCE. Denham Springs-Walker Library from 9 a.m.-3:30 p.m.

Dinosaurs may be a little intimidating at first, but rest assured “Nash” and his trainer will have the family laughing as they put on an amazing and informative show.

Registration required. mylpl.info

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WEDNESDAY MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Fridays at 2 p.m., Saturdays at 5 p.m., and Sundays at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays at 4 p.m. and Saturdays at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SNAKE SHOW. Blue

YOGA ON THE LAWN AT THE TIN ROOF BREWING COMPANY. See June 2.

Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 3 p.m. and Sundays at 2:15 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us STORYTIME. Gonzales, Donaldsonville, Galvez, and Dutchtown Libraries at 10 a.m. and Galvez and Dutchtown Libraries at 11 a.m. Storytimes are interactive, engaging, and promote early literacy skills.

Ages five and younger. myapl.org YOGA ON THE LAWN AT THE TIN ROOF BREWING COMPANY. Tin Roof Brewing Co. on Wednesdays at 6 p.m. Free yoga class, courtesy of Leela Yoga Lifestyle Studio. tinroofbeer.com

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BATON ROUGE YOUTH BALLET: ALICE IN WONDERLAND. EBR Main Library at 9:30 a.m. and River Center Library at 1:30 p.m. Join Alice as she ventures to the fantasy world of Wonderland where she encounters the beloved characters from the imagination of Lewis Carroll. ebrpl.com BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from

6:30-8 p.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves through informal, open discussions, a film presentation and take home materials. womans.org CORKBOARD STRING ART MAKE & TAKE. Galvez Library at 2 p.m. Tweens can use string, corkboard, and sewing pins to create art for their wall or desk.

Choose from a heart or jewel design, or use your creativity. Ages 9-11. myapl.org JOLIE YOGA CLUB ON THE LAWN. North Boulevard Town Square at 5:30 p.m. Sunset yoga plus happy hour specials at Jolie Pearl. joliepearloysterbar.com LET’S COOK PASTA LEISURE CLASS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Learn to make fresh pasta dough for seafood fettuccine, classic lasagna, and cajun mac and cheese. lci.edu LOUISIANA MASTER GARDENERS AT

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THE LIBRARY. Carver Branch Library at 5:30 p.m. Educational activity offered by the LSU AgCenter. Representatives will be at the library to present free two-part classes for adults on Gardening Basics with Claire Fontenot and Raised Bed Gardening with Lyn Hakeem. ebrpl.com SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 3 p.m. and Sundays at 2:15 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us TELL YOUR OWN TALE. Main Library in Livingston at 5:30 p.m. Join the library for a socially-distanced writing workshop and get ready to set your pen to paper, bringing all of your tales to tell with freewriting, writing prompts, and poetry Mad Libs. Registration required. mylpl.info

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PIRATE SHOW. See June 4.

BATON ROUGE YOUTH BALLET: ALICE IN WONDERLAND. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 10 a.m. and 11 a.m. Join Alice as she ventures to the fantasy world of Wonderland where she encounters the beloved characters from the imagination of Lewis Carroll. mylpl.info BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org CAFÉ FRANÇAIS. West Baton Rouge Museum at 1 p.m. Free and open to anyone interested.

Each meeting features a topic to spur discussion. French speakers of all proficiency levels are welcome. westbatonrougemuseum.com GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP. Lane Regional Medical Center at 2 p.m. Monthly support group to provide companionship, understanding, and support to those who have experienced loss.

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MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PICNIC IN THE PARK. Cate Square Park at 5:30 p.m. Family-friendly and free music event. dddhammond.com PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us SICILIAN HERITAGE FESTIVAL. Independence, Louisiana through June 6. Festival celebrates the Sicilian heritage of Independence, Louisiana. indysicilianfest.com

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SATURDAY ART BY BOURGEOIS: DOUGLAS BOURGEOIS. West Baton Rouge Museum. Exhibit featuring Gonzales native Douglas Bourgeois and his work. westba tonrougemuseum.com BARKS N BRUNCH. Smiling Dog from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Rescue Rehome Repeat adoption event. rescuerehomerepeat.com BATON ROUGE ARTS MARKET. North 5th

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Street and Main Street from 8 a.m.-noon. Find a variety of handmade arts, including pottery, cast & blown glass, jewelry, metal sculpture, mixed media, furniture, and photography. artsbr.org BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves through informal, open discussions, a film presentation and take home materials. Cost is $20. womans.org BINGO DAY: PRESCHOOL PICTURE BINGO. Dutchtown Library at 2 p.m. Join the library for Bingo Day fun and win some cool prizes, too. Designed for ages three-five.

Younger participants may need assistance from an adult or older sibling. myapl.org BUILDING A BETTER AMERICA WITH AMOA! IN-PERSON STUDY HALL SESSION. EBR Library from 2-5 p.m. Online certification program with EBR Library. This interactive program introduces participants to a diverse array of curated online courses. theamoa.org CAJUN COUNTRY JAM PRESENTS: DYLAN SCOTT. Lamar Dixon Expo Center at 6 p.m. Doors open at 4 p.m. Performances

by Dylan Scott, Payton Smith, Chase Tyler and Konner James. etix.com GUEST APPRECIATION WEEKEND. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo through June 6.

Visitors of all ages can enjoy "buy one, get one" pricing on admission. brzoo.org JUNETEENTH MUSIC

FESTIVAL. Frank Sotile Pavilion from 11 a.m.-7 p.m. History, musical performances, and pageant. (225) 803-4042 MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 5 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. Downtown Baton Rouge from 8-9 a.m. Features late summer produce, dairy, seafood, meat, plants, and baked goods from local producers. breada.org SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SICILIAN HERITAGE FESTIVAL. Independence, Louisiana through June 6. Festival celebrates the Sicilian heritage of Independence, Louisiana. indysicilianfest.com THE ROYAL COMEDY TOUR. Raising Cane’s River Center at 7 p.m.

Features comedians Sommore, Lavell Crawford, Earthquake, Arnez J, and Ryan Davis. raisingcanesrivercenter. com YOUTH BALLET SUMMER TOUR: ALICE IN WONDERLAND FUNDRAISER PERFORMANCES. Dancer’s Workshop at 11:30 a.m. and 12:45 p.m. These performances help offset the cost of the 20-performance tour this summer. $5. batonrougeballet.org

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SUNDAY D-DAY BARKS N BREWS. Tin Roof Brewing Co. from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Rescue Rehome Repeat adoption event. rescuerehomerepeat.com FREE FIRST SUNDAY.

LSU Museum of Art from 1-5 p.m. Tour the exhibit, The Art of Seating: Two Hundred Years of American Design. lsumoa.org GUEST APPRECIATION WEEKEND. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo through today.

Visitors of all ages can enjoy "buy one, get one" pricing on admission. brzoo.org LOUISIANA STORIES FIBER ART ON DISPLAY RECEPTION. EBR Main Library from 3-5 p.m. In conjunction with the opening of the exhibit, CFAL members will host a free reception with refreshments, and artists whose works are on display will be present to answer questions. contempo raryfiberartistsofla.com MEET THE ARTIST RECEPTION AND GALLERY TALK WITH DOUGLAS BOURGEOIS. West Baton Rouge Museum from 2:30-4 p.m. In celebration of the opening of Art by Bourgeois: Douglas Bourgeois. westba tonrougemuseum.com MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 1-5 p.m. Recognize when labor starts and know when to go to the hospital and what to expect when you arrive. womans.org SICILIAN HERITAGE FESTIVAL. Independence, Louisiana through today. Festival celebrates the Sicilian heritage of Independence, Louisiana. indysicilianfest.com SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2:15 p.m. Occurs weekly

on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 3 p.m. and Sundays at 2:15 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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MONDAY ANIMAL TALES. Veteran’s Memorial Park at 10:30 a.m. Get up close and personal with six exotic mammals, birds, reptiles, and amphibians from all over the world. Learn all about these animals’ tails and how they use them. Animal Tales doesn’t just lecture but involves the crowd, giving audience members a chance to work with the animals. myapl.org BATON ROUGE YOUTH BALLET: ALICE IN WONDERLAND. River Center Library at 9:30 a.m. and EBR Main Library at 1:30 p.m. Join Alice as she ventures to the fantasy world of Wonderland where she encounters the beloved characters from the imagination of Lewis Carroll. ebrpl.com MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. Occurs weekly on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Fridays. batonrouge.bluezoo.us POURED ACRYLIC PAINTING WORKSHOP. West Baton Rouge Museum from 10 a.m.-noon. Explore an exciting new way of creating art with abstract artist and instructor, Kellie Rountree. Free. Reservations are required.

(225) 336-2422 ZEN COLORING FOR ADULTS. River Center Library at 3 p.m. Release stress with other adults as you color inside and outside of the lines. Coloring sheets and color pencils will be provided. ebrpl.com

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TUESDAY NATIONAL BEST FRIENDS DAY ANIMAL TALES. Hickley M. Waguespack Center at 2 p.m. Get up close and personal with six exotic mammals, birds, reptiles, and amphibians from all over the world. Learn all about these animals’ tails and how they use them. Animal Tales doesn’t just lecture but involves the crowd, giving audience members a chance to work with the animals. myapl.org CORKBOARD STRING ART MAKE & TAKE. Gonzales Library at 6 p.m. Tweens can use string, corkboard, and sewing pins to create art for their wall or desk.

Choose from a heart or jewel design, or use your creativity. Ages 9-11. myapl.org LABOR & DELIVERY CLASS. Ochsner Baton Rouge Zoom class at 6 p.m. Learn about pregnancy, when to go to the hospital, labor, and vaginal birth. ochsner.org MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us RIVER CITY JAZZ MASTERS. River Terrace at the Shaw Center for the Arts at 7:30 p.m. World renowned jazz vocalist Stephanie Jordan closes the River City Jazz Season with her electric performance. manshiptheatre.org TELL YOUR OWN TALE. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 5:30 p.m. Join the library for a socially-distanced writing workshop and get ready to set your pen to paper,

bringing all of your tales to tell with freewriting, writing prompts, and poetry Mad Libs. Registration required. mylpl.info WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 11:45 a.m.12:45 p.m. Join a weight loss surgery physician to learn more about the different types of weight loss surgeries, and get your questions answered. womans.org

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WEDNESDAY BABY FOOD BASICS. Baton Rouge General virtual class at 4 p.m.

Class for those who are preparing to introduce their infants to solid foods. Instructed by speech-language pathologist/feeding specialists and registered dietitians. brgeneral.org MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us STORYTIME. Gonzales, Donaldsonville, Galvez, and Dutchtown Libraries at 10 a.m. and Galvez and Dutchtown Libraries at 11 a.m. myapl.org YOGA ON THE LAWN AT THE TIN ROOF BREWING COMPANY. Tin Roof Brewing Co. on Wednesdays at 6 p.m.

Free yoga class tinroofbeer.com

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THURSDAY NATIONAL ICED TEA DAY BRBT’S YOUTH BALLET PRESENTS ALICE IN WONDERLAND. Port

Allen Community Center at 1 p.m. and Dow Westside YMCA at 2:30 p.m. Join Alice as she ventures to the fantasy world of Wonderland where she encounters beloved characters from the imagination of Lewis Carroll. Registration required. batonrougeballet.org CREATIVE BBQ. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Learn how to make tasty BBQ rubs and sauces. lci.edu INTERVIEW A PROFESSIONAL VIRTUAL PROGRAM. Virtual with Scotlandville Librarians at 1 p.m. Watch an interview with a local professional while learning about their job.

Today’s interview is with LSU Forensic Anthropology and Computer Enhancement Services (FACES) Laboratory.

(225) 354-7570 JOLIE YOGA CLUB ON THE LAWN. North Boulevard Town Square at 5:30 p.m. Sunset yoga plus happy hour specials at Jolie Pearl. joliepearloysterbar.com KICK OFF TO SUMMER. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso to start your summer right with these picnic favorites. lci.edu MANSHIP THEATRE SUNSET SERIES: LOST BAYOU RAMBLERS. Shaw Center for the Arts River Terrace at 7:30 p.m. manshiptheatre.org OPEN MIC NIGHT. Tin Roof Brewing Co. at 6 p.m. Family and pet-friendly event. face book.com/tinroofbeer SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 6-7 p.m.

Join a weight loss sur-

gery physician to learn more about the different types of weight loss surgeries, and get your questions answered. womans.org

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SICILIAN HERITAGE FESTIVAL. See June 4.

IN WONDERLAND. Galvez Library at 10 a.m. and 11 a.m. Join Alice as she ventures to the fantasy world of Wonderland where she encounters beloved characters from the imagination of Lewis Carroll. Registration required. batonrougeballet.org BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m.batonrouge. bluezoo.us MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us SPOOF NIGHT! WITH INDIANA JONES AND THE LAST CRUSADE. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. This interactive movie experience pokes fun of your favorite films with live commentary, skits, and interactive games. manshiptheatre.org THE ROUGE KREWE. 54

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SATURDAY CELEBRATION OF FATHERHOOD EVENT. BREC’s Nairn Park at noon. Event honoring fathers and those serving as father figures. fathersonamission.com CHRIS LEBLANC. Red Stick Social at 8 p.m. Tickets are $10. eventbrite.com CORKBOARD STRING ART MAKE & TAKE. Donaldsonville Library at 11 a.m. Tweens can use string, corkboard, and sewing pins to create art for their wall or desk. Choose from a heart or jewel design, or use your creativity.

Ages 9-11. myapl.org COOKING WITH DAD. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 9 a.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso for this hands-on Father's Day class. lci.edu FREE FISHING DAYS. Throughout Louisiana through June 13.

Free fishing days are a perfect opportunity for beginners to try out fishing for the first time. takemefishing.org GARDEN DISCOVERIES: BE A BEE!

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EBR Main Library at 10 a.m. The Baton Rouge Botanic Garden Foundation will host a free event, led by Kevin Langley of the Capital Area Beekeepers Association. Children will look inside part of a real beehive; dress up in junior beekeepers’ outfits, hats and gloves; and learn how bees collect honey. ebrpl.com LAMAZE: A LABOR OF LOVE. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9 a.m.-3:30 p.m.

You and your labor partner will practice using Lamaze breathing and relaxation techniques. womans.org MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 5 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us OUTDOOR MOVIE NIGHT. Main Library in Livingston at 8 p.m.

Bring the whole family to enjoy a movie on the lawn, complete with your favorite snacks.

Registration required. mylpl.info PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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SUNDAY NATIONAL CHILDREN’S DAY AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 12:30-5:30 p.m. Learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress, and hold a baby with a lifelike doll.

Plan to take this class in the sixth month of pregnancy or any time if you will be adopting a baby. It's for new parents, grandparents,

adoptive parents or other caregivers. Cost is $35. womans.org FREE FISHING DAYS. Throughout Louisiana through June 13.

Free fishing days are a perfect opportunity for beginners to try out fishing for the first time. takemefishing.org MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us OUTDOOR OLD TIME MUSIC OPEN JAM. West Baton Rouge Museum from 3-5 p.m. Jam sessions are open for any musician to join in to play tunes, including Old Country, Bluegrass, Cajun and folk music.

Free and open to the public. westbatonrouge museum.com PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us SIDE BY SIDE: FREE PEOPLE OF COLOR IN WEST FELICIANA PARISH. EBR Main Library at 2:30 p.m. Southern University Professor of Law Evelyn L. Wilson, will lead a discussion on the lives of free people of color who lived in pre-Civil War West Feliciana Parish. ebrpl.com SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2:15 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us

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MONDAY NATIONAL FLAG DAY NATIONAL STRAWBERRY SHORTCAKE DAY MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PREGNANCY 101.

Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Learn

how to provide your baby with the best possible environment for growth and development. womans.org SHANA BANANA. Main Library in Livingston at 10 a.m., 11:15 a.m., and 1:30 p.m. Join award-winning national children’s edu-tainer, musical storyteller, and singer-songwriter Shana Banana and her two beloved dog puppets, Hal and Henson, for an interactive, musical celebration of animals.

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TUESDAY HOGWARTS VIRTUAL ESCAPE ROOM. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 6 p.m. Join library staff online for a virtual escape room. Work in teams with your Hogwarts house, or alone, to solve the clues to return to Hogwarts.

(225) 763-2270 LEATHER EARRING MAKE & TAKE. Donaldsonville Library at 2 p.m.

Learn how easy it is to make your own jewelry.

There will be a pair of rose gold, faux leather earrings prepped and ready for your finishing touches. Then, you’ll create a second pair from scratch in a different leather design.

Ages 12-18. Registration required. myapl.org MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us RESOURCE INFORMATION WORKSHOP. Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge Zoom meeting at 10 a.m. Workshop addresses the mental and emotional health of youth and fami-

lies during and post COVID-19, as well as navigating eligibility and availability of services for people with developmental disabilities. fhfgbr.org SHANA BANANA. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 10 a.m., 11:15 a.m., 1:30 p.m., and 2:30 p.m. Join award-winning national children’s edu-tainer, musical storyteller, and singer-songwriter Shana Banana and her two beloved dog puppets, Hal and Henson, for an interactive, musical celebration of animals.

Registration required. mylpl.info

STORYTIME. Gonzales, Donaldsonville, Galvez, and Dutchtown Libraries at 10 a.m. and Galvez and Dutchtown Libraries at 11 a.m. Storytimes are interactive, engaging, and promote early literacy skills. Ages five and younger. myapl.org YOGA ON THE LAWN AT THE TIN ROOF BREWING COMPANY. Tin Roof Brewing Co. on Wednesdays at 6 p.m. Free yoga class, courtesy of Leela Yoga Lifestyle Studio. tinroofbeer.com

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EVERYTHING STRAWBERRIES. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m.

Chef Jeanne Mancuso will guide you through three popular strawberry inspired desserts. lci.edu JOLIE YOGA CLUB ON THE LAWN. North Boulevard Town Square at 5:30 p.m. Sunset yoga plus happy hour specials at Jolie Pearl. joliepearloysterbar.com LEATHER EARRING MAKE & TAKE. Gonzales Library at 2 p.m.

Learn how easy it is to make your own jewelry.

There will be a pair of rose gold, faux leather earrings prepped and ready for your finishing touches. Then, you’ll create a second pair from scratch in a different leather design.

Ages 12-18. Registration required. myapl.org LOUISIANA MASTER GARDENERS AT THE LIBRARY. Zachary Branch Library at 5:30 p.m. Educational activity offered by the LSU AgCenter. Representatives will be at the library to present free two-part classes for adults on Native Flowering Shrubs with Bob

WEDNESDAY BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Learn the benefits of breastfeeding, how to prepare for breastfeeding, how to get the baby on the breast properly, and how to avoid problems. womans.org LSU AGCENTER & MEDICAL MARIJUANA: DISCUSSION & PHOTO EXHIBIT. EBR Main Library at 6 p.m.

Photographer Bruce Williams, along with AgCenter representatives, will discuss how LSU is involved in medical marijuana farming, as well as current areas of research being worked on and the importance of photos documenting the progress of the plants on the farm.

(225) 231-3751 MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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Dillemuth and Native & Commercial Soils, Fertilizer Basics & Other Additive Options with Kerry Hawkins. ebrpl.com SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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FRIDAY NATIONAL GO FISHING DAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org JUNETEENTH SPEAKER SERIES W/ TIFFANY CROSS. Manship Theatre at 7 p.m.

Features a conversation with Tiffany Cross, host of the Cross Connection on MSNBC. manshiptheatre.org LEATHER EARRING MAKE & TAKE. Galvez Library at 6 p.m. Learn how easy it is to make your own jewelry.

There will be a pair of rose gold, faux leather earrings prepped and ready for your finishing touches. Then, you’ll create a second pair from scratch in a different leather design.

Ages 12-18. Registration required. myapl.org MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PARKER MCCOLLUM LIVE. Lamar Dixon Expo Center at 7:30 p.m.

Doors open at 6 p.m.

Performances by Parker McCollum, Flatland Cavalry, and Jaden

Hamilton. etix.com PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us TWELFTH NIGHT. Theatre Baton Rouge through June 20. Presented by the Young Actors Program, this timeless Shakespeare comedy classic of mistaken identities will be done as an homage to the John Hughes movies of the 1980s. theatrebr.org

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SATURDAY JUNETEENTH BAKE & TAKE: CROISSANTS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 9 a.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso for mixing and laminating dough to shaping and baking croissants. lci.edu BUILDING A BETTER AMERICA WITH AMOA! CEREMONY. EBR Main Library at 4 p.m. To celebrate the close of the program,

AMOA will host a small recognition ceremony where participants will be recognized for their efforts and will receive a certificate of completion. theamoa.org EDUCATIONAL SERIES: PLAN FOR TOMORROW, TODAY. EBR Main Library at 10 a.m. Each event addresses common questions and includes guidance from some of the most knowledgeable people in senior care. ebrpl.com LITTLE BAYOU FAIRY FEST AND BOOK SIGNING. West Baton Rouge Museum from 10:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Free family-friendly event that provides enchanting activities for children of all ages, showcases original sketches and paintings from Little Bayou Fairy, and includes a special reading and book signing with author Erica Ramsey-Bowen. westbaton rougemuseum.org MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 5 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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SAVORY AND SWEET PIES. See June 26.

PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3:45 p.m. Occurs weekly on Fridays at 4:45 p.m., Saturdays at 3:45 p.m., and Sundays at 1:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays at 4 p.m. and Saturdays at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us TWELFTH NIGHT. Theatre Baton Rouge through June 20. Presented by the Young Actors Program, this timeless Shakespeare comedy classic of mistaken identities will be done as an homage to the John Hughes movies of the 1980s. theatrebr.org

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SUNDAY FATHER’S DAY FIRST DAY OF SUMMER FATHER’S DAY AT THE ZOO. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo, begins at 9:30 a.m. Bring your dad to the zoo and spend the day with the wild bunch. brzoo.org MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays 56

and Fridays at 2 p.m., Saturdays at 5 p.m., and Sundays at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1:45 p.m. Occurs weekly on Fridays at 4:45 p.m., Saturdays at 3:45 p.m., and Sundays at 1:45 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2:15 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 3 p.m. and Sundays at 2:15 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us TWELFTH NIGHT. Theatre Baton Rouge through June 20. Presented by the Young Actors Program, this timeless Shakespeare comedy classic of mistaken identities will be done as an homage to the John Hughes movies of the 1980s. theatrebr.org

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MONDAY GO SKATEBOARDING DAY NATIONAL SELFIE DAY FICTION WRITERS WORKSHOP. Bluebonnet Regional Library at 6:30 p.m. Join other fiction writers for a

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free in-person writers group. Email Jordan Courtney to join a local writers workshop to get feedback on your fiction stories. Stories will be emailed out once a month. Once you have given feedback on at least two other stories, you are qualified to sign up for a critique of your own writing. jcourtney@ ebrpl.com HOT DOGS TO THE RESCUE. Off the Chain Grooming from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Rescue Rehome Repeat adoption event. rescuerehomerepeat. com MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. Occurs weekly on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Fridays. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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TUESDAY NATIONAL ONION RINGS DAY MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. Occurs weekly on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Fridays. batonrouge.bluezoo.us STARRY SAVANNA. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 3 p.m. and 5 p.m. Learn the use of acrylic techniques step by step with local artist, Winnie Hughes. All supplies will be provided.

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WEDNESDAY MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Fridays at 2 p.m., Saturdays at 5 p.m., and Sundays at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays at 4 p.m. and Saturdays at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 3 p.m. and Sundays at 2:15 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us STORYTIME. Gonzales, Donaldsonville, Galvez, and Dutchtown Libraries at 10 a.m. and Galvez and Dutchtown Libraries at 11 a.m. Storytimes are interactive, engaging, and promote early literacy skills. Ages five and younger. myapl.org YOGA ON THE LAWN AT THE TIN ROOF BREWING COMPANY. Tin Roof Brewing Co. on Wednesdays at 6 p.m. Free yoga class, courtesy of Leela Yoga Lifestyle Studio. tinroofbeer.com

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THURSDAY NATIONAL PRALINES DAY BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Preteen boys ages 10-13 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves through informal, open discussions, a film presentation and take home materials. Cost is $20. womans.org INTERVIEW A PROFESSIONAL VIRTUAL PROGRAM. Virtual with Scotlandville Librarians at 1 p.m. Watch an interview with a local professional while learning all about their job and what a normal day looks like for them.

Today’s interview is with

LSU Veterinary School.

(225) 354-7570 JOLIE YOGA CLUB ON THE LAWN. North Boulevard Town Square at 5:30 p.m. Sunset yoga plus happy hour specials at Jolie Pearl. joliepearloysterbar.com LEATHER EARRING MAKE & TAKE. Dutchtown Library at 2 p.m.

Learn how easy it is to make your own jewelry.

There will be a pair of rose gold, faux leather earrings prepped and ready for your finishing touches. Then, you’ll create a second pair from scratch in a different leather design.

Ages 12-18. Registration required. myapl.org OPEN MIC NIGHT. Tin Roof Brewing Co. at 6 p.m. Family and pet-friendly event. facebook.com/ tinroofbeer SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us STEAK NIGHT. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Join Chef Colt Patin to make your next steak night quick and easy. lci.edu VIRTUAL CREATIVE WRITING WORKSHOP FOR TEENS. Online workshop with EBR Libraries at 3:30 p.m. Includes writing exercises, discussion, and a Q&A period with professional writer, S.D. Perry. (225) 389-4960

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FRIDAY TAKE YOUR DOG TO WORK DAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breast-

feeding. womans.org DAVID ST. ROMAIN. Red Stick Social at 8 p.m. Tickets are $10. eventbrite.com MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. Occurs weekly on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Fridays. batonrouge.bluezoo.us MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Fridays at 2 p.m., Saturdays at 5 p.m., and Sundays at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4:45 p.m. Occurs weekly on Fridays at 4:45 p.m., Saturdays at 3:45 p.m., and Sundays at 1:45 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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SATURDAY SUMMERSGIVING ADOPTION & GENEALOGY: FINDING MISSING FAMILY MEMBERS. EBR Main Library at 10:30 a.m.

Whether you were adopted, gave up a child for adoption, or want to locate a missing parent or sibling, you can use a variety of techniques and resources to help in your search. Adults can visit the library to learn about some of these from staff who have experience with adoption resources.

(225) 231-3751 BATON ROUGE SOUL FOOD FESTIVAL. Riverfront Plaza from 11 a.m.-8 p.m. and Sunday from 11 a.m.-7 p.m. This two-day festival is a family-oriented event that provides entertainment, a kid-friendly environment and good soul food cooking. brsoulfoodfest.com BIRDING AT BURDEN.

LSU AgCenter Botanic Gardens. Guided birding excursion with Ashley Long, perfect for both beginning and advanced bird enthusiasts to spread their wings. eventbrite.com MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 5 p.m. This show occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Fridays at 2 p.m., Saturdays at 5 p.m., and Sundays at 4 p.m. Admission into Blue Zoo Aquarium is required. batonrouge.bluezoo.us OUTDOOR MOVIE NIGHT. Watson Library at 7 p.m. Bring the whole family to enjoy a movie on the lawn, complete with your favorite snacks. Registration required. mylpl.info PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3:45 p.m. Occurs weekly on Fridays at 4:45 p.m., Saturdays at 3:45 p.m., and Sundays at 1:45 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SAVORY AND SWEET PIES LEISURE CLASS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 9 a.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso as she guides you through creating three delectable pies with homemade crust from scratch. lci.edu SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m.

This special feeding occurs weekly on Wednesdays at 4 p.m. and Saturdays at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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SUNDAY NATIONAL PTSD AWARENESS DAY NATIONAL SUNGLASSES DAY BATON ROUGE SOUL FOOD FESTIVAL. Riverfront Plaza from 11 a.m.-7 p.m. This is a family-oriented event that provides enter-

tainment, a kid-friendly environment and good soul food cooking. brsoulfoodfest.com BOYS TO MEN. Baton Rouge General Center for Health at 2 p.m. Led by family physician, Dr. Jacob Wood, this class is tailored for boys ages 10-13 and a parent or trusted adult that focuses on how a boy transitions through puberty, including topics like proper hygiene and skin and body changes. brgeneral.org MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Fridays at 2 p.m., Saturdays at 5 p.m., and Sundays at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us PIRATE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1:45 p.m. Occurs weekly on Fridays at 4:45 p.m., Saturdays at 3:45 p.m., and Sundays at 1:45 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2:15 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 3 p.m. and Sundays at 2:15 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us

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MONDAY BINGO DAY: TRADITIONAL BINGO. Gonzales Library at 2 p.m. myapl.org CHILDREN’S SUMMER ART CLASSES. South Live Oak Elementary School at 6 p.m.

(225) 954-2700 MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. batonrouge. bluezoo.us

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TUESDAY CHILDREN’S SUMMER ART CLASSES. South

Live Oak Elementary School at 6 p.m.

Exercises use pencil, charcoal, pastels, and watercolor. Grades 2-6.

(225) 954-2700 MERMAID EXPERIENCE WITH STORY TIME. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 1 p.m. Occurs weekly on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Fridays. batonrouge.bluezoo.us THE DINOSAUR EXPERIENCE. Main Library in Livingston from 9 a.m.-3:30 p.m.

Dinosaurs may be a little intimidating at first, but rest assured “Nash” and his trainer will have the family laughing as they put on an amazing and informative show.

Registration required. mylpl.info

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Galvez, and Dutchtown Libraries at 10 a.m. and Galvez and Dutchtown Libraries at 11 a.m. Storytimes are interactive, engaging, and promote early literacy skills.

Ages five and younger. myapl.org YOGA ON THE LAWN AT THE TIN ROOF BREWING COMPANY. Tin Roof Brewing Co. on Wednesdays at 6 p.m. Free yoga class, courtesy of Leela Yoga Lifestyle Studio. tinroofbeer.com

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CHILDREN’S SUMMER ART CLASSES. South Live Oak Elementary School at 6 p.m. Students will focus on the elements of art and the principles of design as they create drawings and paintings using images of summer as subject matter.

Exercises use pencil, charcoal, pastels, and watercolor. Grades 2-6.

(225) 954-2700 MERMAID SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 2 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SHARK FEEDING. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 4 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us SNAKE SHOW. Blue Zoo Aquarium at 3 p.m. Occurs weekly on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 3 p.m. and Sundays at 2:15 p.m. batonrouge.bluezoo.us STORYTIME. Gonzales, Donaldsonville,

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With Father’s Day fast approaching, I’m sharing some negotiating tips I learned from my Dad. He is the best negotiator I know and his wisdom has helped me save or earn thousands of dollars over the years for both buying and selling items.

O M E of the things he personally helped me to negotiate (or I used his techniques on my own) are furniture, wood pellets (used for heating our home), heating oil, cable rates, a house, and a car. He saved me the most money when I purchased a car. They even commented on my Dad’s incredible negotiating ability.

market value of the item. There is only so much room above or below this price that most people will go. Also, if you are purchasing something, the seller might not be able to lower the price but might be able to throw in something else instead.

For example, when purchasing a car, if the dealer won’t go any lower with the price, you could ask for free oil changes.

KNOW YOUR STUFF Before you plan to negotiate either selling or buying an item, you should research it. Even if you are only selling a video game on Craigslist, it helps to know how much a new and used game costs, which you can look up online. If you are selling the item, it will help you to set a reasonable price resulting in a quicker sale. If you are buying an item, it will help you to feel confident about making an offer by providing reasons why you feel it is a fair price based on other similar sales.

LET THEM KNOW WHAT YOU WANT Be specific about what you want when you are buying something. For example, when I purchased furniture, I asked for a specific discount (20 percent off the price) and free delivery. A person selling something can’t give you what you want if you don’t tell them. Also, being specific implies you are a confident person who has done their research.

DON’T ALLOW YOUR EMOTIONS TO TAKE OVER If you really want to buy or sell an item, sometimes it can cause you to get emotional. You can also be emotionally attached to an item such as your home. This may cause you to have difficulty understanding a realistic price to sell it for. It is important to try to distance yourself from your emotions because if you don’t, you will end up losing money. If you are buying a car or a house and the salesperson sees how excited you are to buy it, they will be less likely to lower the price when negotiating.

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One thing I learned from my Dad is he will ask almost anyone if they can lower the price. Even people like doctors or retail stores that are not typically known for bargaining, he asks for a better price. And sometimes he gets one. You never know until you ask. ■

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