Baton Rouge Parents Magazine July 2019 by Family Resource Group

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FRIENDLY BIRTHDAY

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CONTENTS JULY 2019 ▪ ISSUE 348

FEATURES FIGHT FAIR

10 rules for navigating healthy disagreements in marriage

FIRST BIRTHDAY PARTY FUN

Throw the perfect first birthday for your little one without the stress

ON THE COVER

2018-19 Cover Kid Calleigh B. showed her American pride for her cover shoot. This two-time Cover Kid will be heading to high school this fall, where she will be taking all AP classes. She’s one smart cookie, and she’s also extremely friendly and always willing to lend a helping hand. Calleigh enjoys reading and playing the clarinet, and she actually taught herself how to play the piano, too! She’s currently working on creating her own WEBTOON series with a friend, and when she gets older, she hopes to become either a psychologist or a psychiatrist because she wants to help others. She is the daughter of Brittney M. and Adam B.

HAVE A HAPPY BIRTHDAY (WITHOUT THE PARTY)

Try these budget-friendly birthday ideas to make your child feel special

2019 BIRTHDAY BONANZA LISTING

IN EVERY ISSUE

AM I RAISING A PSYCHOPATH?

Learn the signs and symptoms that may signal the disorder

8 GREAT APPS FOR KIDS WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

Download these educational and free apps for children living with special needs

CONNECT

16 COMMUNITY 22 EDUCATION 23 ONE AMAZING KID 26 PATHWAYS TO PARENTING

LIVE

30 LOCAL PROFILE 32 MOM NEXT DOOR 34 EXCEPTIONAL LIVES 36 FAITH

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A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD GET OUT OF TOWN THINGS WE LOVE MOMS ONLY

Plan your child's next party with the help of these entertainers, venues, party supplies, and bakeries.

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12 A MOTHER’S VOICE 14 LAGNIAPPE 62 CALENDAR 71 MARKETPLACE 72 THE LAST WORD 74 SNAPSHOTS

2018-19 Cover Kid Jordan J.

40 HAVE A HAPPY BIRTHDAY (WITHOUT THE PARTY)

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IN EVERY ISSUE FREEBIES T H E M A G A Z I N E T H AT B AT O N R O U G E F A M I L I E S L I V E B Y

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A S S O C I AT E P U B L I S H E R BRANDON FOREM AN D I R E C TO R O F O P E R AT I O N S A MY LY N N F O R E M A N

Create cute dinosaurs with your little ones with Floof Dino Babies. This fluffy-as-a-cloud modeling clay comes with three dinosaur molds, perfect for making mini dino buddies, and it’s easy to clean up and doesn’t dry out. ■ learningexpress.com

E D I TO R I A L M A N A G I N G E D I TO R A M ANDA MILLER S E C T I O N E D I TO R M A R I WA L K E R C A L E N D A R E D I TO R NANC Y LEBL ANC A R T/ P R O D U C T I O N GR APHIC DESIGNER M E LO DY TA U Z I N GR APHIC DESIGNER L AUREN LEOP OLD C O V E R P H OTO G R A P H E R K L E I N P E T E R P H OTO G R A P H Y A DV E R T I S I N G /M A R K E T I N G ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE K ASSIE WILLIA MS ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE K A R E N M CC U L L E N

Build your tower, bust out the Briks, and get ready to play again and again with the The Original Brik Buster toppling game. This Strictly Brik game promotes creativity and learning through building, and the fun never stops. ■ strictlybriks.com

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With the Splash Swim Goggles, you can say goodbye to hair pulls and tangles while you swim. These adorable and comfortable goggles allow you to enjoy your water day without fussing over adjusting goggles. ■ splashswimgoggles.com

Last Month’s WINNERS

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IN EVERY ISSUE A MOTHER’S VOICE

All Kids Can Be Cover Kids

ave your children ever expressed an interest in modeling? Well, now is their chance to find out if they have the right stuff. Next month, in celebration of the beginning of Baton Rouge Parents Magazine, we will be hosting The Cover Kid Event. We receive so many calls from parents throughout the year, asking us how their child can get on the cover, and this event was created to give them that special opportunity. We are looking for local children from ages 2-17 who are interested in becoming our group of 2019-20 Cover Kids. Cover Kids can appear on the cover, in the magazine, in ads, and in promotions throughout the year. Perfection isn’t necessary. Our Cover Kids come in all sizes, shapes, and abilities. We are proud of all of the children in this city, and we want them to help represent us and their incredible communities. We’re looking for kids who simply enjoy being kids, so there’s no need to overdress your children for their time with the judges. Let them wear what makes them feel most comfortable, and if that’s a princess dress or a Batman costume, so be it! Let them express themselves how they choose. All you have to do to enter The Cover Kid Event is visit thecoverkidevent.com, register, and then come have fun at the event on Saturday, August 3 at The Tracy Center. Only the child who wants a chance to become a Cover Kid will need to purchase a ticket. It's going to be so much fun, and we can’t wait to meet you! The Cover Kid Event Saturday, August 3 from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. The Tracy Center in Baton Rouge .

Amy Foreman-Plaisance Publisher/Editor in Chief

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IN EVERY ISSUE LAGNIAPPE Your Kid, Our Cover The Cover Kid Event is almost here, so if you have ever wanted to see your child on the cover or in the pages of Baton Rouge Parents Magazine, this is the ultimate event you do not want to miss. The fun begins on Saturday, August 3 at 10 a.m. at The Tracy Center. Your star in the making will meet with our judges for a chance to be named a 2019-20 Cover Kid. But, that’s not all! Throughout the day, you can enjoy live entertainment, demonstrations, shopping, character meet and greets, and get a chance to win door prizes. Tickets are $20 for a chance to meet the judges, and it’s free for everyone else to enjoy the festivities. ■ thecoverkidevent.com

d e d n a r t S on an Island Uh oh! You’re stranded. Not only are you stranded, your kiddos are stranded with you. While it’s a beautiful island and the crystal clear water is surrounding you, we all have needs, and making sure they’re all met, while on an island, is difficult.

What three items are you hoping to have on hand? Here’s what our readers had to say. “I would definitely have a satellite phone, hammock, and an unending supply of food.” —Jenelle A. “Sunblock, a lighter, and an umbrella.” —Lori L. “Three things I hope to have on hand would be shelter for my family and I, protection, and food.” —Katie R.

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“A solar-powered radio, an ax, and the three smartest kids in the world.” —Mildred A. “A knife, bug spray, and a flashlight.” —Dorcas V. “Food, cell phone with internet service, and my daughter's tablet.” —Yolanda M.

“My Bible because we are to always seek first His kingdom, and it can help guide and comfort us. Second would be a portable filter for the water, and third, a fire starter.” —Rebecca L.

“Endless supply of Goldfish, a water filtration device, and solar power radio to drown out the noise (because we all know the kids will be fighting)!” —Amy F.

There should be a children’s song: ‘If you’re happy and you know it, keep it to yourself and let your dad sleep.” —Jim Gaffigan 14

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CONNECT COMMUNITY REV THOSE ENGINES AT INDOOR CAR SHOW

Car aficionados of all ages will “vroom vroom” with delight at the first ever indoor car show at Raising Cane’s River Center on Saturday, July 13. Vehicles of all types will be competing for 65 custom trophies in 21 different categories. What makes this even more exciting is that Tom Smith from Misfit Garage will be on hand as a celebrity guest, and DJ Get Low will be available to provide music throughout the event. Attendees can even pose for free souvenir caricatures while gawking at the incredible vehicles. Entry costs $12 for adults and $5 for kids ages 3-12. ■ raisingcanesrivercenter.com

CATCH A FLICK AT AUDUBON ZOO

Pack your blanket, grab some popcorn and head to the Audubon Zoo for its seventh season of Dinner and a ZOOvie. This month’s movies are Captain Marvel on July 12 and How to Train Your Dragon: The Hidden World on July 26. Gates open at 6 p.m., and the movie starts after 8 p.m. Tickets are $6 online or $8 at the gate, and moviegoers can add admission to the Cool Zoo splash park for $7 more. Pack your own picnic or buy dinner onsite. In addition to music, games and activities with prizes, series sponsor Swedish Fish Candy will have free samples. ■ audubonnatureinstitute.org/zoovie

OCHSNER MAKING SURE MEDS AVAILABLE WHEN NEEDED

A sniffle is a frequent annoyance often treated with over-the-counter drugs, but when an illness is more serious and requires an antibiotic, the availability and cost matters. Ochsner Health System and partners have formed Civica Rx, a not-for-profit generic drug company, to address chronic medicine shortages and high prices. Civica will first manufacture essential antibiotics for its member health systems, including Ochsner. Civica has pledged to deliver 14 essential generic medicines this year.

ZAPPO’S TO TEST SINGLE SHOE SALES

The best things in life may come in pairs, but sometimes people with physical disabilities have two differently sized feet or only one foot. After customer feedback and overwhelming response to a survey, the online shoe retailer Zappo’s is planning to launch a test selling single shoes or pairs of shoes in two different sizes on its website. The shopping experience is expected to launch later this year, and interested customers can email zasingleshoes@ zappos.com to receive updates on the test launch.

STAYING SAFE IN THE SUN

Knowing how to protect our mini sun worshippers’ skin seems simple enough, but choosing the right sunscreen can be tricky. “Sunscreens work by one of two ways, a chemical reaction or a physical blocker,” says Dr. Trent Massengale of Atlas Dermatology. “Generally speaking, physical blockers are the recommended choice for children.” Physical sunblocks, such as zinc or titanium, provide coverage for both UVA and UVB radiation, are more stable in heat, and are better for sensitive skin. “Remember that sunscreen is just a small part of protecting your child this summer,” Dr. Massengale says. Limit outdoor activity between 10 a.m.-2 p.m.; wear protective clothes, hats and sunglasses; and seek shade when possible. 16

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BABYANDTODDLER NO WATER UNTIL SIX MONTHS

As we settle into summer, it can be tempting to give your baby a sip of cold water. But, did you know that babies younger than six months do not need anything but breast milk or formula, and giving them water can actually be dangerous for them? “A baby’s stomach is very small, and everything that goes into it, should have value,” says Lindsy Cordell, RN, IBCLC, lactation consultant with Stork BR. “Why give water when you can give breast milk or formula that will hydrate, quench thirst and provide nutrients?” So, when it’s time to keep them hydrated, we encourage you to give them breast milk or their formula.

WOMAN’S OFFERS POSTPARTUM SUPPORT RESOURCES

Bringing home your baby is a joyful experience, but for up to one in five new mothers, the experience includes postpartum depression. Many more, perhaps up to 80 percent, feel “baby blues.” Woman’s Hospital offers 24/7 assistance to help new moms cope with mixed emotions after childbirth, including access to social workers. Woman’s also sponsors the Mom2Mom Support Group, which offers education and support for moms. It’s important for all moms to know that they are not alone. ■ womans.org/supportformoms

NO SLEEPING IN CAR SEATS OR STROLLERS?

When baby falls asleep in the car seat after a drive, it can be tempting to avoid nap-transfer roulette by allowing baby to finish napping while in the seat. New research published by the American Academy of Pediatrics finds that this is by far a riskier move. Using car safety seats for sleep in non-traveling contexts pose a threat of infant death. Your best bet–take the gamble and move your little one into the crib or a pack-n-play for better sleep and safety.

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CONNECT COMMUNITY WEARABLES MAY HELP DETERMINE FERTILITY WINDOW

When you’re trying to get pregnant, you want to be pregnant NOW. You may be willing to try almost anything, including a wearable device and app that can track body temperature, heart rate, and breathing to help determine your most fertile days. The average woman’s fertility window is about six days, and in a recently published clinical study, Ava, one such fertility tracker, found its device can predict that window with 90 percent accuracy. With more research, such devices perhaps could be used to avoid pregnancy as well.

EXPLORE THE SCIENCE OF WHAT’S EATING YOU

“I vant to suck your blood” is a phrase associated with vampires, but this summer’s visitors to the Audubon Louisiana Nature Center can discover the biological wonders of sanguinivores, or creatures that eat blood. Attack of the Bloodsuckers, a kid-friendly exhibit exploring the science of what’s biting you, will be open through September 1. “Blood suckers exist in our world. We invite guests to embrace the things we can’t change and come visit this indoor exhibit that helps explain why mosquitoes are so fond of some of us, and have a little fun doing it,” says Isaac Wyatt, director of operations. ■ audubonnatureinstitute.org

SPARKLE INTO AN INDEPENDENCE DAY CELEBRATION

EAR INFECTION? THERE’S AN APP FOR THAT

Do you call the pediatrician when you suspect your child has an ear infection? Help may soon be a download away. Researchers at the University of Washington have developed an app that can determine the presence of fluid, a key ear infection indicator. Using a paper funnel and a smartphone, the app makes a series of chirps into the ear. Depending on how the chirps are reflected, the app detects the likelihood of fluid. The scientists hope to make it available in app stores within the next year.

FEWER UNSAFE SLEEP DEATHS IN EBR

Celebrate our nation’s birthday in style at these Independence Day events. The Kenilworth Independence Day Parade will roll at 6:30 p.m. on Wednesday, July 3 with the theme, “Peace, Love and Independence.” Avoid the heat at the LSU Museum of Art’s Red, White & Blue Fourth of July Celebration from 7-10 p.m. Tickets vary, depending on age and membership. Downtown Baton Rouge will be alive with revelers attending the USS KIDD’s annual 4th of July Spectacular starting at 4 p.m. The family event culminates with WBRZ’s Fireworks on the Mississippi River. ■ kenilworthneighborhood.com, lsumoa.org , and bontempstix.com

Nothing is sweeter than a sleeping baby, and the Capitol Area Safe Sleep Initiative (CASSI) works to ensure babies remain safe while they slumber. The number of babies less than a year old who have died from unsafe sleeping environments has declined to seven in 2018. “The goal here is to get to zero by continually educating parents,” says William “Beau” Clark, MD, East Baton Rouge Parish coroner and CASSI leader. “If you understand the ABCs of sleep for baby–alone, on his or her back and in his or her crib–this is 100 percent preventable.” CASSI also works to train first responders to help identify unsafe sleep situations, and they provide cribs for families who otherwise couldn’t afford one. ■ facebook.com/capitolareasafesleepinitiative 18

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YOUTH CONSENT FOR EAR PIERCING

An employee at a Claire’s store in Canada recently quit her job and wrote an open letter to her former employer in protest of the company’s policy for piercing a child’s ears, even when the child would say no. The letter, which went viral online, began a conversation about children giving consent for a nonmedical procedure. Claire’s then clarified its policy and says that their employees have the right to refuse to pierce a child’s ears if the child is distressed or resisting the piercing.

AAP RECOMMENDS ORGANIZED SPORTS START AT SIX

While there’s nothing like a field of three-year-old soccer players bobbing around on the soccer field, they may not be ready for a truly organized sport. The American Academy of Pediatrics recently released a new clinical report recommending that organized sports should begin around six years of age for a child, and they should only be played for fun. “If we offer children a variety of sports for all skill levels, they are more likely to try new activities and stick with the ones they enjoy,” says Kelsey Logan, MD, FAAP, one of the report’s authors. “The interest should start with the child, not the parent.”

HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE A SWALLOWED LEGO TO MAKE AN EXIT?

It seems that LEGOs aren’t just used for building. They’re used for studies, too. Six adult volunteers swallowed LEGO figure heads to determine just how long it would take the LEGO figure heads to make it through the digestive tract. The study, published in the Journal of Paediatrics and Child Health, found that the answer was 1.71 days from swallowing to exit. Of course, adults are not children and swallowing any plastic can be a choking hazard, especially for a child. But, if we had to learn this fact, you did, too. You’re welcome.

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CONNECT COMMUNITY ASCENSION COMMUNITY THEATRE PRESENTS WILLY WONKA

Come along with Charlie as he visits the chocolate factory when Ascension Community Theatre presents Willy Wonka, adapted from the 1971 film version of Roald Dahl’s beloved children’s book. Enjoy a tour through the magical factory with the world famous candy man, and hear favorite songs including, “Pure Imagination,” “The Candy Man” and “I Want It Now.” The scrumdiddlyumptious musical theatre treat will take the stage from July 11-28. Tickets range from $20-30. ■ actgonzales.org

LPB HOSTS FAMILY CREATIVE LEARNING CAMPS

Coding became a family affair with recent weeklong workshops allowing parents and their kids to design and create digital projects using PBS KIDS Scratch Jr. Families were served supper, worked on their projects and shared ideas to support their children’s problem solving skills, curiosity, and creativity with media and technology. At the end of camp, each family took home books and a PBS KIDS Playtime Pad loaded with games, apps and songs. The camps are a collaboration between Louisiana Public Broadcasting and Knock Knock Children’s Museum, as part of a Center for Public Broadcasting Ready to Learn grant.

SUPPORT LOCAL ABUSED CHILDREN AT CELEBRITY WAITER EVENT

EBAY PARTNERS WITH BATON ROUGE

Now might be a great time to start a side hustle or new career using eBay. The online marketplace and East Baton Rouge Mayor-President Sharon Weston Broome recently announced two economic development initiatives, expanding eBay’s Retail Revival and eBay@Home programs. “We’re honored to partner with the city of Baton Rouge to equip entrepreneurs with new tools and resources that will help expand their businesses globally,” says Devin Wenig, president and CEO of eBay Inc. ■ ebayinc.com/batonrouge

Fancy ordering a drink from a local celebrity while supporting an organization helping children in our area? Make plans to attend the 13th Annual Celebrity Waiter event at L’Auberge Casino the evening of July 17. LSU and Southern University coaches and other local VIPs will compete for tips during the event that also includes entertainment and silent and live auctions. Tickets are $50 in advance or $60 at the door and include food, beer and wine. All proceeds benefit the Baton Rouge Children’s Advocacy Center, a nonprofit providing services to children who have been sexually or physically abused. ■ batonrougecac.org

BATON ROUGE NAMES FIRST POET LAUREATE

The world is full of poetry, and so is Baton Rouge. Mayor-President Sharon Weston Broome recently named Christian Davenport as the city-parish’s first Poet Laureate. Davenport, also known as Cubs the Poet, is from Baton Rouge and has traveled widely, drawing inspiration from connections he makes with others. “Christian’s impressive body of work represents new styles in poetry which require collaboration and communication, attributes that will serve him well as the city’s Poet Laureate,” Broome says. Davenport will be part of community engagement events throughout his year of service, and he will provide custom poetry as part of the Louisiana Arts Summit. The honor comes with a $5,000 stipend funded by private donations. 20

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TWEENANDTEEN WILDLY POPULAR YOLO SNAPCHAT ADD ON

A new free add-on feature for Snapchat called YOLO, an acronym for You Only Live Once, became the most downloaded iPhone app in the U.S. in only its first week. Hugely popular with teens, YOLO allows users to add a sticker to their Snapchat Stories, inviting anonymous feedback and questions. YOLO’s app store page says it’s to be used for “positive feedback only,” although as with any social media, there are risks of bullying that can still occur. Check in with your teen or tween about his or her YOLO use, and stay informed in case he or she experiences any negativity through the add-on, so you can help him or her navigate any negativity.

TEENS WORK OUT FREE THIS SUMMER AT PLANET FITNESS Teens ages 15-18 can pump iron for free at Planet Fitness through September 1 as part of the gym’s Teen Summer Challenge. Those who are younger than 18 will need a parent to sign a waiver so they can participate, but then, the teens will have access to the gym equipment and daily fitness classes. Signing up for the challenge also enters teens into a contest for a chance to win some scholarship funds. ■ planetfitness.com/ teensummerchallenge

CONTROLLERS DOWN: VIDEO GAME ADDICTION DIAGNOSIS RECOGNIZED

If your teen spends the summer only playing video games, it may be more than just a way to pass time. The World Health Organization announced it will recognize “gaming disorder” as an official disease. Persistent gaming to the exclusion of other daily activities and an inability to control time spent gaming are two features of the disorder, which takes over daily activities and impairs family, social and other aspects of life. It could be worth a conversation with your teen and pediatrician.

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CONNECT EDUCATION EPISCOPAL THIRD GRADERS CONNECT WITH CURSIVE

Third graders at the Episcopal School brought back the art of letter writing through a pen pal program started with St. James Place residents. While making meaningful personal connections, the students also brushed up on their cursive writing and reading skills. “Learning cursive is sort of a rite of passage for our students,” says teacher Lauren Bilskie, who created the program after seeing a story about students and senior living residents. The program’s first year was successful, and the students will keep writing to their pen pals over the summer and beyond.

BROOKSTOWN MIDDLE HONORED AS GREEN RIBBON SCHOOL

Aquaman would be impressed by the efforts of Brookstown Middle School, which has been named a 2019 U.S. Department of Education Green Ribbon School. The school’s studentled aquaponics program provides fresh, nutritious lettuce via hands-on STEM learning, producing more than 260 pounds of leafy greens in the last two years. Brookstown has also reduced its energy consumption by 29 percent and its greenhouse gas emissions by 27 percent. Three other schools in the EBR School System also have the designation: Mayfair Lab, Baton Rouge Magnet High and Westdale Heights Academic Magnet.

WALKER HIGH SCHOOL LAUNCHES ASL PROGRAM

American Sign Language is being offered at Walker High School to help address the state’s need for certified interpreters. Principal Jason St. Pierre says the idea originated when he learned ASL is considered a foreign language credit for TOPS. The inaugural class filled up immediately, and the school started a club to allow more students to participate. Club members meet with students from the Louisiana School for the Deaf, allowing them to practice sign language and make new friends.

SILVER STEPPERS & JUNIOR STEPPERS REVEAL PARTY

The Silver Steppers and Junior Steppers of Parkview Baptist School hosted a Big/Little reveal party. The party allows the Silver Steppers to surprise their new “little” sisters from the Junior Stepper team. The Silver Steppers were each given a Junior Stepper’s name and information about her, and from this, the Silver Steppers had bags of goodies and gifts for their littles after the reveal. Throughout the year, the girls will be supporting one another at performances and events and gifting their littles with cards and treats.

HIGH SCHOOL ENTREPRENEURS COMPETE FOR SCHOLARSHIPS

An enterprising spirit was evident at Scotlandville High School’s first Mogul Matchup, a business pitch competition designed to connect aspiring young entrepreneurs with local business professionals. Four teams of students from Scotlandville, Woodlawn, and Belaire high schools presented their business ideas, spoke with potential investors, and learned the best practices while networking. The winning concept was “Be’gan,” a vegan baby food company from a team of four Scotlandville senior girls. They received scholarships to Southern University’s College of Business, which sponsored the event with Louisiana’s Small Business and Development Center, and Capital City Collision. “We’re preparing them for life after high school. The biggest takeaway was that they had the opportunity to work with business owners and see what goes in the real world,” says Cynthia Weber, PhD., Scotlandville magnet coordinator. 22

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At nine years old, Tyler Brazier already holds two ambassadorships. He is an ambassador for Westdale Heights Academic Magnet (WHAM), meaning he represents his school to prospective parents and visitors. A rising fifth grader, Tyler is the youngest Flipgrid Ambassador of Student Voice in the country. Flipgrid is a video discussion platform created by Microsoft. Tyler first started using Flipgrid as an alternative to creating his own YouTube channel, about which his parents, Wiley and Tirza, had reservations. Part of Tyler’s role is to spread Flipgrid fever. Tyler gave a presentation at the Magnet Schools of the Mid-South Conference, sharing what he knows about Flipgrid with teachers and administrators from across the region. “In Houston, I presented for the first time, and I was a little nervous,” Tyler says. “I talked about Flipgrid and what it’s used for.” Tyler uses Flipgrid to make book report videos and vlogs, which he creates on his computer and cell phone. Flipgrid can also be used for students who may not want to talk in class, giving them a way to participate in discussions via videos. Tyler has given other presentations, including the Power Up! Conference. His dad says WHAM principal Catasha Edwards and others have reached out wanting Tyler’s help, so they’re working on logistics to teach the teachers how to use this technology. Tyler is also a basketball player, likes playing video games with his brother, Wiley, and is on the honor roll. Tyler is definitely one amazing kid. Do you have One Amazing Kid? Email education@brparents.com. J U LY 20 1 9 | B R PA R E N T S .CO M

CONNECT EDUCATION AREA STUDENTS RECEIVE BURGER KING SCHOLARSHIPS

Nine Baton Rouge students had it their way with scholarships from GPS Hospitality, a Burger King franchisee. Students from 11 states received 173 Burger King McLamore Foundation scholarships, each receiving $1,000 to further their education. Scholarships were funded by guest donations, one dollar at a time. Scholarship recipients include Sierra Charles and Tanisha Patel, Parkview Baptist; Ashley Hess, Central; Kaitlyn Landry, St. Michael; Brian Lewis, Dunham; Emma Newtown, home school; Emily Nichols, Port Allen; Trinh Nguyen, Woodlawn; and Jayla Weber, Belaire.

ST. MICHAEL SENIOR USES STEM FOR SERVICE PROJECT

St. Michael the Archangel High School seniors complete a religion service project as part of their graduation requirements, spending a year studying a social justice topic. For her project about the death penalty, Kennedy Seelbach applied skills from her engineering class to complete her project. She designed an electric chair, syringe, gas chamber, rifle and gallows using TinkerCad 3D and the school’s Makerbot Replicator+ and SnapMaker 3D printer. “She is a great example of what this course can teach kids and an even better example of the power of girls in STEM,” says Zach Leger, engineering teacher.

RUNNELS STUDENTS PRESENT SCIENCE EXPLORIUM

ASTRONAUT LANDS FOR VISIT AT U-HIGH

Astronaut Douglas Wheelock and NASA representatives visited University Laboratory middle schoolers as part of NASA Day. Wheelock, who has flown on the Space Shuttle; the International Space Station (ISS); and the Russian Soyuz, spoke about astronaut training and space. He shared details about experiments conducted aboard the ISS and amazing photos of Earth taken from outer space. NASA Day recognizes the agency’s partnerships with Louisiana and celebrates the workforce that supports it.

The fifth and sixth graders at the Runnels School recently presented a “Science Explorium” for younger elementary students to explore that featured over 26 different hands-on demonstrations and experiments. The exhibits explored a number of scientific principles, including Newton’s Law of Gravity and various chemical reactions. “The emphasis at the event is learning by doing,” says John Baird, the event coordinator and fifth-grade science teacher. “It’s not like a science fair where students do research and write a scientific paper. My feeling is that students develop a better understanding of the concepts of science with a hands-on approach. They also have a lot of fun in the process.”

OSCAR-WINNING PRODUCER VISITS CRISTO REY

Hannah Beachler, an Academy Award-winning production designer, recently visited students at Cristo Rey Baton Rouge Franciscan High School to share her story of success. Winning the Oscar for her work on Black Panther, Beachler was the first African American to receive the honor for production design. During her visit, she encouraged students to pursue their dreams, maintain self-motivation and to sustain an extremely hard work ethic to help them achieve the impossible. Beachler also shared some behind-the-scenes knowledge on how she created the visual world of Wakanda. Her other production designer credits include Fruitvale Station, Creed, Beyonce’s Lemonade and Moonlight. After the assembly, a group of high achieving students were able to meet with Beachler. The students had a chance to hold Beachler’s Oscar, and they were also allowed to have their pictures taken with her. 24

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CENTRAL TEACHER HONORED AS ACT K-12 CHAMP

Brittni Carroll, instructional data specialist at Central High School, has been named the 2019 ACT K-12 Champion for Louisiana. The honor recognizes her efforts to promote college and career readiness. Carroll works with students and other education professionals to advance learning and improve test-taking skills that result in better student performance on the ACT. “I have always loved teaching, but I also have always enjoyed the idea of taking on a greater leadership role in how teaching can be more effective overall,” Carroll says. “My job at Central High allows me to do that.”

DUTCHTOWN HIGH PRINCIPAL A FINALIST FOR STATE HONOR

Carli Francois, principal at Dutchtown High School is one of nine finalists for 2020 Louisiana High School Principal of the Year. Ascension Public Schools has had a principal in the running for this honor for five years straight. “I feel excited, honored, validated and quite fortunate to represent my school, community and district at the state level,” says Francois. She has worked for the school district since 2005 and has been principal at Dutchtown since 2014. Greg Hayden, principal of Juban Parc Junior High in Livingston Parish, is another finalist. The teacher and principal of the year will be announced later this month. ■ louisianabelieves.com J U LY 20 1 9 | B R PA R E N T S .CO M

CONNECT PATHWAYS TO PARENTING

Plantar Fasciitis

eing on your feet–whether chasing little ones or just as part of your job–can quickly lead to exhaustion on any day of the week. As the days add up, in addition to being a pain in the neck, sometimes it can cause actual real pain in your heel. Plantar fasciitis (pronounced fashee-EYE-tiss) is the most common cause of heel pain. Brian T. Perry, MD, a foot and ankle surgeon at the Baton Rouge Orthopaedic Clinic, says he regularly treats patients with the condition. “It’s pretty common in people who are on their feet all day or don’t wear supportive shoes.” Being overweight or having tight calf muscles are also contributing factors. The plantar fascia is “a thick band of tissue on the bottom of the foot that connects heel to toes and supports the arch,” Dr. Perry says. In someone suffering from plantar fasciitis, “where it inserts on the heel, it gets inflamed and has these little tears and develops pain.” The pain will most commonly be the first few steps when getting out of bed and again at the end of the day. Unfortunately, most people will let the pain linger before seeking treatment. “There’s no quick fix,” Dr. Perry says. “It takes longer to resolve when it’s been going on for so long.” Stretching the calf muscles is the most important treatment as well as prevention, Dr. Perry says. Another treatment is a massage of the painful heel. Antiinflammatory drugs, taken regularly for 7-10 days, can also help. People suffering from this type of heel pain should wear supportive shoes with cushioned inserts and avoid walking around barefoot. Other treatments can include injections, physical therapy, dry needling or wearing a plantar fascia night splint to keep the heel aligned while sleeping. “Surgery is rarely indicated,” Dr. Perry says. Treating plantar fasciitis takes time. “It’s not just, here’s a shot or seven day treatment, and it goes away,” Dr. Perry says. “This is something patients have to work at–do their stretching exercises, dedicate time out of their day each day, or it really won’t get better.” ■

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Fight Fair 10 Rules for Healthy Disagreements in Marriage By Sarah Lyons

id you promise to love and comfort, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness, and in health, for as long as you both shall live? When we lovingly answered, “I do,” it was hard to imagine what day-today life with our spouse would look like. Whether you have been married a short time or for many years, you realize that marriage takes a lot of hard work and understanding. Even in the happiest and healthiest marriages, arguments cannot be avoided. It is wise to set some ground rules to help resolve conflicts and keep the relationship loving and respectful. Rule #1: Anger is an emotion. Remember that anger is just an emotion. Everyone should be allowed to feel angry, sad, upset, or disappointed. These emotions are normal and are neither right nor wrong. Also, remember that everyone handles them differently. One person may cry, another may scream, and yet another may want to be alone. Try to be respectful of your partner’s emotions. When your spouse is angry, try to understand her side of things. Allow her to express her anger before responding. When you are angry, check your emotions. Where is the anger coming from? Are you angry with this situation or a larger issue? Knowing the true source of anger will help resolve the conflict. Rule #2: No one “wins.” When someone “wins” an argument or gets his or her way, the other party can feel a lot of resentment towards his or her spouse. Try not to emphasize who has 28

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won an argument and who has lost. When resolving conflict, come to a compromise that makes everyone comfortable. If it is obvious that one person has triumphed, do not flaunt it.

like, “You always…” or “You never...” are not productive. “This evening at dinner, it hurt me when you said...” is much more specific and helps your partner understand exactly what bothered you.

Rule #3: Take a break. If an argument becomes heated and a resolution is not clear, agree to take a break. Many people need time and space to digest the issue at hand. While a break from the disagreement is a good idea, it should never be brushed aside and ignored. It is likely that the issue will arise again and be compounded by the earlier brush off. When taking a break, set aside a specific time when both parties are calm to discuss the issue again. A solution may come easier after some time away from the situation.

Rule #5: Don’t hit below the belt. During an argument, hurtful things may be said, but try to remain respectful, and don’t “hit below the belt.” Bringing up topics that you know are sensitive should be avoided unless at the heart of the matter. Threatening divorce, name calling, or saying negative things about your partner’s looks should also be off limits. Once something is said, it cannot be taken back and words can be very damaging and hurtful. Agree to avoid these “low blows” before an argument is even started. Know when to walk away if things do get out of control.

Rule #4: Be honest and specific. When you do sit down to discuss the disagreement, honesty is best when communicating with your spouse. When your partner brings something to your attention, try to be honest with yourself about what your actions were and how they made your spouse feel. Also, be specific when explaining what upsets you. Name specific issues that are bothering you, and do not exaggerate. Statements

Rule #6: Use good communication skills with each other. When you sit down to discuss the conflict, take turns speaking and listening. Repeat back what your spouse has said to make sure you understand, and so he knows you are listening. Pay attention to how your spouse communicates and how he responds to different types of communication.

Give your spouse the same respect you would give a friend or coworker. Good communication skills are not always easy, but making the effort can go a long way in conflict resolution. Rule #7: List clear solutions. As a couple, come up with a list of clear solutions to the conflict. Negotiate and compromise until you have a solution that you are both comfortable with, and state precise ways to reach this resolution. Not everything can be resolved quickly or perfectly the first time, so it may take some trial and error to find something that will work for you both. Patience and understanding go a long way towards reaching an agreement. Rule #8: Be careful with kids. When a disagreement arises, be aware of the children in the home and what they will overhear. Heated disagreements with screaming, cursing, and name calling should be avoided, especially if kids are around. Arguments can be scary for a child who doesn’t understand what is going on. There is no need to hide a healthy disagreement from your child. Kids should learn that disagreements are normal in any relationship, and they can learn how to best handle these situations by following your good example. Rule #9: Use humor. When a disagreement becomes tense, sometimes it is best to turn to humor to lighten the mood. A good laugh with your spouse can help you remember why you got married in the first place and dissolve anger and tension that may have built up during the argument. Rule #10: No violence. The most important rule that should be set when arguments come up in marriage is that everyone must feel safe. If you are fearful of your partner’s anger, or if your spouse is hurting you, your children, or destroying your property, it is time to seek help. Please speak to a third party professional if you do not feel safe in your relationship. While anger is an emotion that is normal, violence and emotional abuse are never acceptable. ■ J U LY 20 1 9 | B R PA R E N T S .CO M

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Cajun Navy Foundation By Melanie Forstall Lemoine, Ph.D.

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he Cajun Navy Foundation is rooted in technology. Yes, it’s boats, but it’s technology,” says Rob Gaudet, Founder of the Cajun Navy Foundation. While the Cajun Navy Foundation is a citizen-led relief effort, it wouldn’t be where it is today without the use of technology. When Hurricane Katrina devastated areas throughout southeast Louisiana, resources were maxed out. There weren’t enough people or resources to meet the demands. It was during this historic event that citizens began filling the gaps where federal and state resources could not. The name, “Cajun Navy,” took hold because of the fleets of civilian 30

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boats launched headed out on rescue missions. Despite limited technology and a communication infrastructure that had been damaged, the Cajun Navy still managed to coordinate efforts. The Cajun Navy had a major impact on rescue efforts during the 2016 flood in large part because of the improved technology. Authorities were still overwhelmed and resources limited, and “citizens filled the gaps because of technology,” says Gaudet. “People could get on Facebook and get help, or find ways to help.” While the name ‘Cajun Navy’ conjures up images of civilian boats, there’s actually much more to it. “The

Cajun Navy Foundation is a dispatch organization,” says Gaudet, “Because of today’s technology, we can dispatch citizen groups across the country to rescue, clear debris, whatever is needed.” The Cajun Navy Foundation assists with disasters far beyond Louisiana. Using GPS and Zello, the Cajun Navy Foundation can dispatch civilian operations across the country. According to Sandy Reeves, the Lead Dispatcher and member of the Cajun Navy Foundation administrative team, “Whenever there is a disaster, the Cajun Navy is the number one channel on Zello.” With the advances in technology, the Cajun Navy has gone far beyond water rescues. A combination of global communication and a dispatch team, the Cajun Navy Foundation has coordinated relief efforts with the California wildfires and Texas tornadoes. “We have a very targeted dispatch system so we can send the exact help that is needed. It may be supply teams, debris removal, animal rescue, or chainsaw teams that are needed,” says Reeves. Beyond the immediate rescue, the Foundation sees their impact as a major part of recovery. “Citizens are filling the gap. Our technology improves collaboration, reduces the cost, and can improve the time it takes to recover,” says Gaudet. “The Cajun Navy Foundation can help people recover more completely and more efficiently.” In a partnership with local businesses, the Cajun Navy Foundation has even launched a disaster registry (crowdrelief. net) which is a highly targeted relief effort in which survivors and relief providers are matched. Survivors can list the exact items lost, and people can search the list and buy the items directly for the family or individual. Again, with the use of technology, the registry includes services for both survivors and those looking to help. The site includes an interactive map with points of distribution, Red Cross locations, and opportunities to volunteer. The Cajun Navy Foundation puts boots on the ground, providing help and hope to those in need during a disaster. ■

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LIVE MOM NEXT DOOR

Donna Travis

By Amanda Miller

OCCUPATION ▪ Owner of Party Time HUSBAND ▪ Michael CHILDREN ▪ Monty, 23, and Claire, 21 HOBBIES ▪ Cooking, traveling, and spending time with family

t just nine years old, Donna Travis began working at Party Time–which started in the family’s garage–as a way to help her parents. After she would get off the bus from school, Donna would work the cash register, helping to make sure that each customer found everything he or she needed. Now, she’s at the head of it all as the owner of the 30,000 square foot party store in Baton Rouge. Although she has followed in her mother’s footsteps, Donna is paving her own way. Her hands-on approach to life and parenting are just a few of the reasons as to why she’s such an excellent mother. Tell me about your children. D: Claire is more like my husband. She’s a great student, and she’s also in Delta Gamma Sorority, so it’s fun getting to share those traditions with her. Monty is more like me. He’s more extroverted, and he loves duck hunting. What do you do together as a family? D: We love to fish. We’re also into sports. I enjoy football and baseball; I’m an SEC fan. My nephews play football, so I go to the games. In the fall, we watch football. What’s the greatest thing about being a mom? D: Watching them become independent. You worry so much when they’re toddlers, and then your relationship changes, and you become best friends who enjoy being together. It’s great to know we raised good people. How has parenthood changed you? D: In every way. You always want the best for 32

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them, and it’s fun to see them figure out their passions. You think that you’re going to mold and shape them into the people you want them to become, but really you mold them into who they want to be. What do you love most about your job? D: Helping people celebrate life’s special moments and picking the merchandise to go in the store. How do you balance work and family time? D: When I am working, I’m very efficient. I want to get the work done. As a business owner, you never really get to leave it, but I’ve gotten very good at separating work and family life. What are some things you learned from your mom about business? D: If you watch the pennies, the dollars will take care of themselves. And, we are always rearranging the store to keep things fresh.

What makes Party Time special for you and your mom? D: The length of time, seeing it grow, and the relationships we’ve made along the way. I love working in the store because I get to see so many familiar faces. What’s your favorite aspect of the store? D: I love the balloon department and seeing what they can create. I also enjoy running the cash register because it allows me to talk to people. What kind of mom are you? D: Hands-on. My son calls me every day and my daughter texts me everyday. We rarely go without talking to one another. What advice do you often give your children? D: Do what you said you were going to do. What’s the best parenting advice that you have ever received?

D: “If you don’t conquer a two year old, then you’re not going to conquer a 16 year old.” Also, you can’t do what’s easy, you do what’s right for your children. What do you want to do that is still on your bucket list? D: I have a big bucket list. A lot of them are travel related, but I am visiting my college roommate and best friend in Alaska, and we are going to the Alaska State Fair. What do you keep on your nightstand? D: Nothing aside from an alarm clock and these two stuffed birds that my decorator thought I would like. Which family member has been your greatest role model in life? D: My mother because of her love of family. What do you do to take care of yourself? D: I get a manicure and pedicure every week. I also started working out three days a week. It helps center me. What personality trait of yours do your children also have? D: My son has a love of people, and he enjoys talking to people. My daughter does have some of my skepticism. Do you have any advice for other parents? D: Never say never! You may think your child is going to be a certain way, but you could be in for a rude awakening. ■

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Academic Immersion Magnet school studying Spanish. When Carissa began having problems with her esophagus and was very susceptible to infections, the family opted for homeschooling instead. “I pulled her out of school in February,” Ginger says. “With all of her issues, I’m afraid to send her back in with the masses.” This fall, Carissa will begin seventh grade via University View Academy, an online public charter school. In addition to keeping up her Spanish, Carissa is teaching herself French with DuoLingo. After an unsuccessful procedure on her esophagus, Carissa was on an all liquid diet for a month. “She’s a fighter, and she doesn’t let any of it get her down,” Ginger says. “She couldn’t eat a thing, and she was still super happy and positive.” A second procedure was successful, and the family is on a high with some good health news. “She’s actually gaining weight. For the first time ever, she’s on the height weight chart. It’s all good right now,” Ginger says. Carissa plays the violin, and she would like to be an author. She loves babies and is a certified babysitter. She’s looking forward to volunteering in her church’s nursery when her immune system allows. Carissa also loves to organize and has made the most of her time while at home by organizing the bedroom she shares with her sister. “She hasn’t been a lazy home body,” Ginger says. “She prepared her own daily schedule, and she always sticks to that.” And best of all, Carissa has a group of good friends who always look out for her. “Her positive attitude is what keeps me going,” Ginger says. “We’re just so lucky we are where we are right now.” ■

A Bright Future After Darker Times By Mari Walker

ou will never meet a nicer girl than Carissa Murray. The 11-year-old is sweet, kind and caring, with an inquisitive mind and an ear for languages and music. She also has faced unique medical challenges throughout her young life. Although she’s received no single diagnosis, she has undergone multiple procedures and surgeries, including five craniotomies. “These have left noticeable scars on her face and head that tell of much darker times,” says Ginger Gauthier, Carissa’s mom. However, life at home is bright and full of love. Carissa lives with her mom and stepdad, Maurice; her sister, Cadee; and her aunt and grandma. “We have a unique family blend,” Ginger says. 34

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Carissa’s health challenges began at birth, and Ginger was advised to call in hospice for her baby. She opted for more interventions, including a feeding tube that remained in place until Carissa learned to eat at age three. “We still don’t even know all the issues,” Ginger says. “She had eating issues from birth, and so her main issue has always been eating. She’s always been small.” Carissa had a ventricular septal defect, or hole in her heart, when she was born. “But luckily that thing healed up on its own,” Ginger says. A spinal fluid leak later caused hearing damage in both ears, so Carissa wears hearing aids. Carissa and Cadee were students at Baton Rouge Foreign Language

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LIVE FAITH

The Importance of Parental Unity and Teamwork

By Dr. Mark Crosby LPC; LMFT

hild Psychologist Dr. James Dobson said, “Parenting isn’t for cowards.” As a marriage and family therapist, I agree, and I would add that parenting isn’t a competition, but it is for a mom and dad who aren’t united as a team. Whenever parents are in competition to be the more popular, fun, or progressive parent, the potential for division and dissonance between them becomes greater. We read in scripture that Jesus said, “A house divided cannot stand,” Mark 3:35. When you recognize that children need both parents to give them the insight needed to create coping skills, you and your spouse begin to unite as a team. When this happens, your child can form relationships, confidence, and the attributes needed to succeed. The strength of your unity is what impacts the overall well-being of your child, and the unity is reflected in the parenting style. When you work as a team, you have greater insight, better ideas, and more rational solutions. These parental attributes become more important as your child gets older. As the challenges become greater, your child may seek to divide and conquer the family to get what he/she wants. These ploys can create problems. One helpful sequence of relational unity is to begin with God and His Word. Discover what the Bible says about what it means to have a relationship with God. Next, insure that you and your spouse share the love and respect needed to create unity, and then, focus on parenting your children without the competition. You and your spouse shouldn’t choose between parenting and marriage, but instead, recognize the importance of unity and specialization that each of you have. Due to the many stressors, irritations, and complaints you endure while raising children, teamwork and marital harmony are essential to create the love and respect needed to meet parenting challenges. A principle to hold to is to believe the best rather than assume the worst. It should be our goal to demonstrate unity and teamwork, so we can raise happy children. ■

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FIRST PARTY FUN BIRTHDAY

By Lindsey Saucier

rom hats to the bib to the banner on the high chair to the party favors to the venue to the food and drinks, the details of planning a child’s first birthday party are nearly endless. Whether you go all out or keep it intimate and simple, order a 12” round smash cake or pick up a simple cupcake, the process can either be exhilarating or anxietyinducing. In today’s world of Pinterest and Instagram, it’s usually the latter, no matter what type of mom you are. But it doesn’t have to be. “Party planning can be overwhelming, and it can stress people out with the details,” says Angela Babin, owner of Angela Marie Events. Babin has been a professional event planner since 2011, and her biggest piece of advice to parents when planning is to “press the easy button when you can,” she says. “When it comes to food, a chip bar is easy because you aren’t slaving in the kitchen.” Local mom Madi Roughton recently celebrated her son’s first birthday and provided “heavy snacks” forgoing an actual, full meal, which “worked out great,” she says. If it’s in the budget, catering is always an option. If it’s not, offer something simple (that doesn’t require cooking), like pizzas. Whatever works for the budget, theme, and sanity, go for it and don’t look back. When planning for food, Babin also suggests planning for drinks–and the Louisiana summer heat. “Always, when you have a party during hot weather, account for double what people are going to drink,” she advises. Local mom of two Stephanie Lambert recommends beginning to plan as early as possible. “Everything about birthdays is stressful, at least to me,” she says. “So much goes into planning one that I feel like you have to start preparing extremely

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early. It’s a big milestone, so you want everything to be perfect. Today, parties have so much detail–balloons, cookies, cake, decorations, themes. It takes a few months to really get everything together.” Which is true. Babin says, while a few years ago it was customary to send an invitation two weeks prior, that number has now jumped to a month. “People are too busy these days,” she says. “People have plans. People go on vacation. So now, I like to send mine no later than a month ahead. If

you really want people to come, you need to let everyone know in advance.” To Babin, the invitations are the first impression of the party. While she knows evites are on the rise, she believes in the old-school mentality of mailing invitations out. “Sending out an invitation lets people know it

is important,” she says. “People don’t send cards as much. People don’t send thank yous as much. An invitation in the mail lets the receiver know it’s going to be an important day for your family and you’d like them to share it with you.” Babin says it’s important to remember that it is not only a child’s

birthday party, but could be a relaxing, fun day for the adults, too. For example, for a “capes and queso” themed party, a taco station and a margarita machine would get the stamp of approval from kids and adults both. “If you’re going to have families over, you want everybody to have a good time,” she says. “It’s not just the kid you’re inviting. You’re inviting the family. There might be an older sibling, mom, dad, and sometimes even grandparents who will tag along.” Still, Roughton says there is a lot of pressure on parents today to throw the perfect party, in what she calls an era of “Pinterest momming.” That being said, being practical is important, too. “You don’t want to overstretch your budget for something your child won’t remember,” she says. Lambert says in the end, the memories are worth it. “I know at such a young age my girls probably won’t remember much about them, but I will. In a few years, they will just want to have a few friends over for sleepovers or maybe go shopping at the mall, so I want to enjoy planning and celebrating them this way as long as I can,” she says. Babin says she went “all out” on her son’s first birthday because he was a miracle. “He wasn’t meant to be, according to doctors,” she says. “Not only are you celebrating that your child is one, but you are celebrating that mom made it through that year. On my son’s big day when I came down, everyone was applauding me. It wasn’t my birthday, but in a sense, it was my day, too because motherhood is not for the weak.” Babin hosted a Kentucky Derby party complete with a southern brass band, catering from City Pork, lawn games, Mint Juleps, and of course, ponies. But beyond the theme, decorations, and food lies the most important part of the whole day–the reason for the celebration. “The best thing about the birthdays are the family and friends who show up,” Lambert says. “You realize just how special your children are when all of the people who mean the most to you take time out of their day to come celebrate with you.” ■ J U LY 20 1 9 | B R PA R E N T S .CO M

HAVE A HAPPY BIRTHDAY (WITHOUT THE PARTY) Budget-Friendly Birthday Ideas By Sarah Lyons

Make it kid’s choice. When you are planning the day, consider your child’s favorites. Plan the day’s meals around your child’s favorite foods. Choose things that you typically do not serve to make the day more special for him. If you will go on an outing, or if you will be dining out, let your child choose the location.

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Document the day. Create a list of questions to ask your child on his birthday, such as, “Who is your best friend?”, or list TV shows, songs, or foods, etc. Record the answers in a safe place and repeat each year. It’s fun to look back and see how your child has changed and matured over the years.

he day your child was born is a day to celebrate and make him feel special. Birthday parties are fun, but they can be a lot of work, and the costs can quickly add up. If you decide to skip the birthday party, it doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate big. Here are some ideas to make sure your child’s birthday is special.

Make the cake. A great way to save money on a birthday celebration is to make the cake yourself. Choose flavors and colors or themes your child loves, and get siblings involved in the preparation. Kids typically don’t care about whether the cake is perfectly decorated; they are happy with a cake that is made just for them.

Create anticipation. As the birthday approaches, build anticipation by talking about it and planning what the day will hold. You can create a special countdown by making a paper chain and tearing off one chain per day, or even just counting down the number of days on a chalkboard in your home. Explain that although there will not be a big birthday party this year, there will still be a lot of fun things planned.

Create a balloon avalanche. When your child goes to sleep the night before his birthday, decorate the house with balloons or birthday decor. Another idea is to try taping a disposable tablecloth to the outside of the door jam, then fill the space between with balloons. When your child opens the door to his room, he will be greeted with a balloon avalanche that is sure to put a big smile on his face.

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Tell their story. Kids love to hear stories about the day they were born, the cute things they did as a baby, or how you prepared for their arrival. Spend part of the day telling your favorite stories about your child; they are sure to love it. Have others reach out. Ask friends and family to wish your child a happy birthday with calls, texts, or cards. Consider talking to family members via Skype or Facetime. This will help your child know that others are celebrating him even if you aren’t hosting a big birthday party this year. As parents, we often feel like we have to spend a lot to make our child’s birthday special when this is truly not the case. With a little extra planning, your child’s day can be just as special as any expensive party. More Ways to Celebrate ▪ Go to the movies. ▪ Visit an amusement park. ▪ Have dinner out at a favorite spot. ▪ Go bowling. ▪ Take a day trip to a neighboring town. ▪ Attend a sporting event. ▪ Be a tourist for the day in your hometown, visiting the zoo or other local attractions. ▪ Let your child pick a place he would like to visit. ■

10 Tips to Hosting a Charitable Birthday Party for Your Child By Denise Morrison Yearian

Charity birthday parties are a fun way to encourage children to use their celebrations in a philanthropic way. Consider these tips if you're thinking of having a charitable party. 1. Proceed with Permission. Ask if your child would like to have a charitable party. Move ahead with party plans only if he is in total agreement. 2. Consider the Options. Ask guests to participate in the charitable giving, create a project to be donated, or opt out and make a personal contribution. 3. Choose a Charity. Talk with your child about the nonprofit he would like to work with. Find one that taps into his interests. Or, adopt a family with children the same age as your child. 4. Contact and Confirm. Contact the organization, and ask what type of donation is needed. 5. Invite and Inform. If you choose to have guests, include a note with the invitation explaining your effort. 6. Go the Extra Mile. Create a party theme with activities your child will enjoy doing. Focus on friendships and having fun. 7. Give a Few Gifts. Even if guests aren't bringing gifts, wrap a few items from your family, so your child has something to open. 8. Deliver the goods. Once the party is over, include your child in the final gift-giving transaction. Take his picture with the donated items, and have him go along to deliver them. 9. Offer Accolades. Give your child praise for sharing his birthday. 10. Live it Out. Set an example by integrating giving throughout the year. â&#x2013; J U LY 20 1 9 | B R PA R E N T S .CO M

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Listing

ALL STAR LANES - BATON ROUGE 9829 Airline Highway Baton Rouge, LA 70816 (225) 939-9214 allstarlanes.com

ART ACADEMY 16117 Highway 44 Prairieville, LA 70769 (225) 276-8229 artacademyla.com

All ages

BARN HILL PRESERVE 11342 Hwy 955 E. Ethel, LA 70730 (225) 286-6303 barnhillpreserve.com 42

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2016-17 Cover Kid: Charlee B., Abrigale C., Iman D.

It’s time to celebrate! For your child’s next birthday party, you won’t need to scour the Internet to find the best party services available in town. Why? Because we did it for you! Keep this listing, so when the birthday planning rolls around, you will have all of the incredible venues, party supplies, entertainers, and bakeries who are ready to help you plan a party to remember.

WHAT IS PROVIDED

$14-16

Striker Bowling Party: $13.99 per child, includes one hour bowling and party time, souvenir bowling pin, party host, party supplies, arcade card for birthday child, choice of two slices of pizza and soda, hot dogs, chips, or chicken nuggets. Lightning Strikes Bowling Party: $15.99 per child, includes everything with the Striker Party, plus one hour of lightning strikes bowling and a spin of the birthday wheel.

$250350

Art Academy provides a unique experience for artists to gather with friends to create a personalized art project. Typically drawing, painting, or sculpture, the medium and subject is chosen by the birthday person based on their interests. Art Academy provides all art supplies, paper products, studio time and instruction for each 2.5 hour class. All attendees will leave with a one-of-a-kind project to take home.

$400

The best part of having your party with Barn Hill Preserve is that you can either have your party at Barn Hill Preserve, or you can settle in at home, and they will come to your home or venue. The cost is $400 for the sloth and four to six other animals to attend your party. You will also receive access to the facility, receive a guided tour, and picnic tables.

BREC'S BATON ROUGE ZOO 3601 Thomas Road Baton Rouge, LA 70807 (225) 775-3877 brzoo.org

CELEBRATION STATION 10111 Gwenadale Avenue Baton Rouge, LA 70816 (225) 924-7888 celebrationstation.com

DEFY 10111 The Grove Avenue, Baton Rouge, LA 70836 (225) 224-8545 defy.com/BatonRouge

FLEUR DE ME DESIGNS 11666 Cedar Park Baton Rouge, LA 70809 (225) 938-0907 fleurdemedesigns.com

JUMP N JIVE 17573 Old Jefferson Highway Prairieville, LA 70769 (225) 744-3011 jumpnjiveparty.com

LASER TAG OF BATON ROUGE 5871 Sherwood Forest Boulevard Baton Rouge, LA 70816 (225) 303-0386 ltobr.com

7 and up

25-45

All ages

3-13

10 and under

7-15

PARTY LENGTH 2

2-4 hours

1-1.5 hours

3 hours

PARTY COST RANGE

BASICS PAINTBALL 36302 Ruby Moore Road Denham Springs, LA 70706 (225) 978-4667 batonrougepaintball.com

TARGET AGE GROUP

Party Venues

WHAT IS PROVIDED

$270340

Basics Paintball parties are one of a kind, and they will get every party attendee's adrenaline pumping. Each party includes use of Basics Paintball's Party Pavilion for two hours; private play for the entire group; equipment rentals, including vests for children under 12 and ladies, and 100 paintballs per game per person. The birthday parties are a huge hit for all ages. Yes, that's right, even grandma.

$225320

$199249

These zoo-tastic parties include all day access to the zoo and the furry friends, and a private party room for 1.5 hours. And don't worry about the heat because the room is climate controlled! You will also experience private animal encounters, work with a party host, and have animal-themed decorations, animalthemed tableware, birthday cupcakes and ice cream cups, punch, and a train ride. Celebration Station parties are a great time for everyone. With each party, you and your child's birthday party guests can feast on pizza, play arcade games, score some tickets, win prizes, ride the gokarts and bumper cards, ride and play for hours on the land rides, and play a round of mini golf with their party guests to see who has the best mini-golf swing.

$2535

Each DEFY party package comes with a party room setup and cleanup, jump time, socks, paper products, party host, and 60 minutes of party room time, so you and your birthday boy or girl can have the best party ever. We also have the options of Basic, Epic, and Legendary, and each party package builds on each other. Only Epic and Legendary include pizza and drinks with the package.

$2535

Get your birthday girl or boy to show his or her creativity in this painting party. When you book your party with Fleur de Me Designs, each party comes with canvases, supplies, snacks, bottled water, ice, and drinks for the party-goers. Everyone who attends will get to create a piece of art that any museum would be happy to display, and all of the materials will be provided. Best of all? There's no major cleanup!

$359439

Jump N Jive is home of the stress-free birthday party. When you plan your child's birthday party with Jump N Jive, they will provide a venue with two separate rooms featuring wall-to-wall inflatables for all of the kiddos to bounce around on. With Jump N Jive, parents invite the guests, and they do the rest. Their party professionals are always ready to give the guest of honor the party he or she surely won't forget.

$299500

Laser Tag of Baton Rouge features a 7,500 squarefoot arena, a Phaser Observation Deck System, a dazzling arcade, a prize wall, delicious options at the concessions stand, and a phenomenal crew to ensure you have a fantastic experience. For each party, you receive food, plates, napkins, drinks, party favors for the birthday kid, a private room, and a party host. J U LY 20 1 9 | B R PA R E N T S .CO M

LOUISIANA ART & SCIENCE MUSEUM 100 South River Road Baton Rouge, LA 70802 (225) 344-5272 lasm.org

KNOCK KNOCK CHILDREN'S MUSEUM 1900 Dalrymple Drive Baton Rouge, LA 70808 (225) 317-2016 knockknockmuseum.org

MUD PIES & MASTERPIECES 573 Jefferson Highway Baton Rouge, LA 70806 (225) 954-4774 (225) 229-2487

QUARTERS ENDLESS ENTERTAINMENT 4530 S. Sherwood Forest Boulevard Baton Rouge, LA 70816 (225) 930-4912 quartersbr.com

SIPECUP225 1883 Beaumont Drive Baton Rouge, LA 70806 (225) 335-1149 sipecup225.com

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4-94

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UPTOWN CLIMBING 10505 Coursey Boulevard Baton Rouge, LA 70816 (225) 831-1117 uptownclimbing.com BRPA RENTS .COM |

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SKATE GALAXY 12828 Jefferson Highway Baton Rouge, LA 70816 (225) 756-2424 skategalaxy.com

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$250500

Being a princess for a day, digging for dinosaurs, becoming a pirate...whatever your child is dreaming about for his or her next birthday, the Louisiana Art & Science Museum has it. Our birthday parties feature a variety of wellÂ-loved themes in a unique venue, fun activities, and are led by a professional party coordinator. We even offer a gift registry through the Museum Store. You bring the cake, and we do the rest.

$375395

All birthday parties include exclusive use of the birthday party room. Birthday disposables include plates, napkins, cups, utensils, paper towels, candles, and cake knife. Also includes a birthday party specialist, lemonade, and water. Price includes a maximum of 20 children. Maximum room capacity is 30 people. It is museum policy to have a ratio of one parent for every five children.

$250 and up

The birthday girl/boy can pick what they want to paint for their party, whether itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s something hanging in our studio already or something different. They learn how to draw with different shapes and easy instructions. They sketch it out with chalk, and paint it however they like. They get their creative juices flowing for the first hour or hour and a half. The last part of the celebration is for cake and presents and an art show.

$250305

Three exciting party package options are available at Quarters Endless Entertainment: Laser Tag Pack includes 10 guests, Xtreme Laser Tag, Arcade Cards, large pizzas, fountain drinks; the Bowling Pack includes 10 guests, bowling, Arcade Cards, large pizzas, fountain drinks; and Bowl & Laser Tag Pack includes 10 guests, bowling, Xtreme Laser Tag, Arcade Cards, large pizzas, fountain drinks.

$324.99824.99

SipEcup225 offers an indoor playland for party guests to enjoy at your child's parties; free play; an expansive arcade; mechanical ride on cars; ski ball; Mario Kart; air hockey; pool table; giant Jenga; giant Connect Four; merry go round; inflatable bouncer; ferris wheel; blue dolphin spin ride; bumper cars; and services such as: decor consultation, set up, clean up, and hosting.

$200380

Five packages to choose from; roller skating; laser tag; rockwall climbing; 2-3 hour private party room; pitchers of soft drinks; pizza: pepperoni, sausage, or cheese; Bluebell Ice Cream cups; skate theme plates, cups, napkins; cake knife; Skate Galaxy party t-shirt; free pass for the birthday child; birthday child mom & dad skate for free; party helper; token packages available for arcade; balloon bouquets available.

$275650

UpTown Climbing parties include two hours of staff-belayed indoor rock climbing for all guests to enjoy, plus one (or both) of UpTown's party rooms are available for mid-climb party/cake break for the celebration. When you book a party with UpTown, you will also receive paper goods, cups, and plasticware that will already be in each room and ready for the party goers.

ADVENTURES IN BOUNCING 10793 Moler Drive Denham Springs, LA 70706 (225) 614-6806 adventuresinbouncing.com

18-65

All ages

$100300

$2002,000

Animated Art Balloon Decor and Entertainment offers a variety of event services, including professional face painting, balloon twisting , Sparkles the Clown (who was voted Baton Rouge Parents Magazine's #1 entertainer for 2018), airbrush tattoos and waterproof face painting, and balloon decor.

$150250

For your child's next party, Balloonatics of Baton Rouge has just the entertainment you need to take your party to the next level. They provide balloon twisting entertainment and/or facepainting, as well as amazing balloon decor that will surely add something special to your next birthday celebration.

1-2

$200600

Using their background with animals and joy for sharing their passion with others, this mobile petting zoo and pony rides services Baton Rouge and the surrounding areas. That's right, that means that for each party, they will come straight to your home or your venue with their animals ready to meet your little ones.

1-2

$125225

Offers a variety of packages to choose from: full face paint, air brush waterproof paint full face, air brush waterproof tattoos, glitter tattoos, and Henna art. Available for birthdays, family reunions, and company picnics.

$75125

Welcome to the Photo Booth! Please grab a prop, and get ready to strike your best pose. If you're looking for the best entertainment, you'll want Louisiana Selfie Booths at your next birthday bash. They provide selfie booth rentals for parties to create the best memories.

$150450

We are professional clowns who live only to help enhance your celebration events with fun, laughter and joy. We are Balloon Twisters and Face Painters, and we perform Comedy Magic Shows for children. Call to discuss your package and/or to confirm availability of your performer(s).

$99500

We have more than 20 different princesses to choose from. Our princess parties include a storytime, singalong, coronation, and princess lessons. Mermaid parties include swimming, bubbles, scale tattoos, fun with shells, and pool games. Unicorn parties include makeovers, crafting, singing, dancing and storytime.

$250450

The Unicorn Party is $250/hr plus mileage, and includes Willow the unicorn to ride along with a mini petting zoo. This includes: a tiny donkey dressed like a princess, a giant rabbit, goats, and the silkie chicks. It is pink, but both boys and girls love it. The Pony party includes Snickers the Shetland pony along with the mini petting zoo.

8-24

1-1.5

BALLOONATICS OF BATON ROUGE

(Baton Rouge Balloons) 11764 S. Harrells Ferry Road Baton Rouge, LA 70767

CAJUN CUTIES MOBILE PETTING ZOO & PONY RIDES

16459 Alford Drive Greenwell Springs, LA 70739 (225) 247-8726

1-100

1-10

1-2

FACE PAINTING FOR FUN LLC

8057 Fitzgerald Drive Denham Springs, LA 70706 (504) 495-5016

2 and up

LOUISIANA SELFIE BOOTHS

5718 Bennington Avenue Baton Rouge, LA 70808 (225) 803-8408

8 and up

2-4

OOOH! AAAH! PRODUCTIONS

9543 Burmuda Avenue Baton Rouge, LA 70810 (225) 933-1136 ooohaahproductions.com

3-93

1-3

PETITE PRINCESS COMPANY

25817 Royal Birkdale Drive Denham Springs, LA 70726 (225) 347-1981 petiteprincesscompany.com

2-10

1-4

WILDWOOD FARM UNICORN PARTIES

17528 Old Covington Highway Hammond, LA 70403 (985) 400-3098 book.com/wildwoodfarmunicornparties

1-9

WHAT IS PROVIDED

With Adventures in Bouncing, they will bring the fun to you! Adventures in Bouncing provides bounce houses and water slide and combo rentals that can be delivered right to your event. Rent for the day or keep it overnight. Let us make your event the one that everyone will always remember

ANIMATED ART BALLOON DECOR AND ENTERTAINMENT

8904 Sandpiper Street Denham Springs, LA 70706 (225) 287-6936 animatedart.us

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DELIVERY AVALIBLE

CAKE SIZE AVALIBLE

Party Bakery

WHAT IS PROVIDED

1949

Cookies,Cakes, Cupcakes, Petit Fours, & Other

GAMBINO'S BAKERY

8646 Goodwood Boulevard Baton Rouge, LA 70806 (225) 928-7000

6-24"

SMALLCAKES CUPCAKES & CREAMERY

18135 E. Petroleum Drive, Ste. D Baton Rouge, LA 70809 (225) 831-1856 smallcakescupcakery.com

Cupcakes, Ice Cream, Brownies, & Pushpops

N/A

2017

6-18"

1993

Cookies, Cakes, Cupcakes, & Petit Fours

N/A

1977

Cookies, Cookie Cakes

THE AMBROSIA BAKERY

8546 Siegen Lane Baton Rouge, LA 70810 (225) 763-6489 ambrosiabakery.com

GREAT AMERICAN COOKIES Mall of Louisiana Baton Rouge, LA (225) 769-0007 (225) 767-1066 greatamericancookies.com

Party Supplies

HOURS OF OPERATION

PARTY TIME

3350 Bluebonnet Boulevard Baton Rouge, LA 70809 (225) 297-2370 partytimebr.com

9:30a.m. -8 p.m.

WHAT IS PROVIDED

When you're looking for party supplies, you'll want to visit Party Time for all of your needs. They provide party packs, birthday supplies, costumes, holiday decor, decorating classes, and specialty baking needs for any occasion.

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AM I RAISING A PSYCHOPATH?

By Jannean Dixon, M.Ed.

ho comes to mind when you think of the word “psychopath?” Ted Bundy? Jeffrey Dahmer? Jack the Ripper? Your child or someone else’s? While it’s a terrifying thought to even consider that your little baby boy or girl could ever display psychopathic traits, there are some parents who have had to learn how to deal with this difficult fact, every day of their lives.

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My first job out of teaching college, where I trained to become a special education teacher, was in a middle school classroom for students who were considered Emotionally/Behaviorally Disturbed. I loved the job, and I stayed there for five years before moving on to my next teaching challenge. In those five years, I had some incredible students and some incredibly scary students. I had one girl who wanted to cut the fetus out of another student’s body with a pair of scissors. I remember standing between her and the pregnant student until help arrived. I taught one male student for a while until he horrifically impaled his grandmother to the floor of their home with a screwdriver, and he was incarcerated. When I reached out for more stories, my inbox immediately started alerting me to new messages. Here are some of their stories. Note: The names in these stories have been changed to help protect the families involved. “Paul was only 13 years old when he was sent to the psych ward for the first time,” shares Terri, a local mother. “I walked on eggshells around him for years. My husband, to this day, has not accepted the disorder. We have disagreements about Paul all the time, and I tell my husband to let me handle him on my terms. Paul has never really had a relationship with his father.” John, a local father, shares, “My daughter was three when we first started to see that she was very different from other children. Not just different, bad different, manipulative and unremorseful. She lied and stole property from others.” Grace, a local teacher, shares what she experienced with a student. “She was caught in the neighbor’s yard with a big knife. She’d caught some of their koi fish and had cut them open to see their insides and watch them die. She was in second grade. She started several fires and hurt the family pets. It was so strange because she appeared calm and quiet at school. We paid close attention to who talked with her to see if she had enemies. None. Friends? None. Children didn’t outwardly dislike her, just kept their distance, like they knew something wasn’t quite right.”

Mental health isn’t the taboo topic it once was, but openly talking about children as sociopaths or psychopaths just feels wrong. In fact, neither term is used anymore as both are considered outdated. The new term, according to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Fifth Edition, or DSM 5, has grouped psychopath and sociopath under one umbrella diagnosis of Antisocial Personality Disorder, or APD, under the heading of Personality Disorders. According to the American Psychiatric Association (APA), Personality Disorders are longterm patterns of behavior and internal experiences that often differ from society’s norms. Because personalities are nearly unchanging over time, a diagnosis of APD implies that the condition cannot be helped. However, children’s brains are still developing, and therefore, APD cannot be officially diagnosed until the age of 18. “In children, the terms ‘callousunemotional traits’ with ‘with limited prosocial emotions’ are sometimes used,” according to Dr. Paul Frick with the Department of Psychology at Louisiana State University (LSU). “In both the DSM Fifth Edition, published by the APA in 2013, and the International Classification of Disease 11th Edition, published by the World Health Organization, a child who often shows serious conduct problems can be diagnosed with Conduct Disorder with Limited Prosocial Emotions if his or her behavior problems are accompanied by at least two of the following features with most people and in most settings (not just occasionally or in certain situations): lack of remorse or guilt, callous–lack of empathy, a lack of concern about educational or occupational performance, and shallow emotions.” Signs and Symptoms Dr. Frick goes on to share, “The first thing that should alert parents, is if their child is getting into trouble (such as not following rules) and hurting other people either directly by fighting and/ or bullying, or by stealing or damaging

others’ things.” Additional red flags for Conduct Disorder can include the child using a weapon against others or animals, setting fires, stealing, and even running away from home. Children may lie to intentionally deceive others, act impulsively, disregard social norms, display erratic or dramatic behaviors, and they may also engage in illegal or promiscuous behaviors. The additional specifier, “with limited prosocial emotions,” includes at least two of the following traits over a 12 month period: lack of guilt or remorse (not feeling sorry after hurting others or does not care about breaking rules); callous–lack of empathy (disregards the feelings of others, may be considered cold or uncaring); unconcerned about performance (shows no concern about problematic performance in important activities, may even blame others for their own poor performance); and shallow or deficient affect (their emotions may appear insincere or superficial, or emotions are used to manipulate others for personal gain). Hope for Families For the Child “Parents can seek a psychological evaluation to determine if these problems are due to the above traits or due to other factors, such as the child being impulsive or having trouble controlling their anger because the child is frustrated with school,” shares Dr. Frick. “Such evaluations can be done by licensed psychologists, and we offer those services through the Psychological Services Center at LSU. It is important that parents seek help for these behaviors early because the treatments are very effective for young children, but they get less effective as the child gets older and enters the adolescence stage.” Although there are no medications to specifically treat conduct disorders, medications for anxiety, depression, impulsivity, and mood-stabilizers can help control some of the symptoms. Additionally, physicians suggest regular exercise, meditation, or yoga to help manage symptoms of stress and anxiety. J U LY 20 1 9 | B R PA R E N T S .CO M

Finally, limit screen time. A 2013 study by Robertson and colleagues found that the risk of developing aggressive personality traits, experiencing negative emotions, and developing antisocial personality disorder (APD) increased with the amount of unrestricted television time the person was allowed as a youth. For the Parents Take a deep breath and read all you can to arm yourself with knowledge about Conduct Disorder. First, know that unless you are either an extremely neglectful or brutally controlling parent,

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you didn’t cause it. Second, children are still developing both cognitively and emotionally, and early interventions can be very beneficial, so seek an evaluation. Third, join a support group to share your experiences and avoid isolation. Having a child who displays the traits of Conduct Disorder is extremely stressful and can be burdensome on relationships. Having a support group of parents who are experiencing similar things can be extremely helpful to other you or other parents. Consider reaching out to NAMI, the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill, an organization for

parents of children who are living with mental illnesses. NAMI has several Louisiana chapters in the state, and each group offers multiple group meetups and discussions for families. Also, it's important to take the physician’s advice and make sure that you are scheduling time to be able to meditate, exercise, or destress with yoga or journalling, which can help with processing your thoughts and your emotions. Spend “time-in” with your child, and rely more heavily on positive rewards for prosocial behaviors than punishments for negative behaviors. Lastly, take heart in knowing that there is hope for you, your child, and your family. Terri shares, “As far as seeing how I was a parent during that point in his life, I felt like I let him down. It was the hardest time of my life. But, to this day, he and I have the strongest relationship that any mother and child could have. He went to counselling, and we also attended family counselling. [After counselling,] if either one of us sees our faults, we can identify them. We let things calm down, apologize to each other, then we talk about it. We are close, he and his sister are very close, and he has gone on to have very strong, meaningful relationships.” As far as my former students go, the ones from the middle school class for troubled or emotionally disturbed teens, some of them are currently incarcerated for arson, theft, or assault. It's unfortunate for me to share these things, but I choose to focus on the happier endings for my former students. Many of my former students are now supportive, loving parents. I have been invited to their graduations, their weddings, their gender reveal parties, and other celebrations they are experiencing in their lives. These now-grown adults are all gainfully employed, they are living independently, and they are contributing to the world in a beautiful and positive way. Ultimately, it is hard to say who or what exactly deserves the credit for these individuals’ successes and changes, but I know one thing is for sure, hope truly does exist. ■

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How Far is Too Far? By Brandon Foreman

hen I was a child, I left home for the day. I would run and play, but I knew to be home when the street lights came on. Today, I bet my kids don’t even know what a street light is, and if they do, I’m certain they don’t realize it goes on and off. I bring this up because we live in a hyper-connected GPS-tracking world where we know where everyone is, and we can reach people at a moment’s notice...except my little ones. They are off the grid, which I think is good, and it is the way we all grew up. But back then, there weren’t any cell phones. Heck, when I was little, my cousins and I would get a boat and head out on the bayou with nothing more than poles and worms, and if we were lucky, a sandwich! We would be somewhere out on the bayou when we heard the voice I will never forget, my Aunt Bev, screaming from the porch, “Boys, it’s time to come home.” Looking back on it now, if she did that today, she would be locked up for being crazy. Can you imagine standing on your porch, looking at the bayou, and screaming out into nothing for the kids to come back home? I want my kids to run and play free, but I feel we are in a different world these days, and having them run through the neighborhood is just not the same. Even when they are in the backyard fishing, I am always watching them because they are either going to fall or get pushed in. I think this is worse for me in the summer as there is more idle time that needs to be filled. The more I think about it, the solution is to step back, relax, and realize it takes a village to raise a child. Because of that, we all need to be on the lookout and use this technology to ease our minds a bit, and let each other know what’s going on. This could be as simple as a text saying, “Hey, the kids are in my backyard.” You know what? This just might be what worked when we were kids, but with a phone call, and there really isn’t a “little birdie” out there who is telling on me and everything I do. ■ 52

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FROM THE MOUTHS OF DADS

It’s amazing that you can be that exhausted and that happy at the same time.” —Ryan Reynolds

PIC OF THE MONTH

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PLAY GET OUT OF TOWN

HAWKS CAY RESORT

Duck Key, Florida

THINGS TO DO

By Kathryn Streeter

BEFORE YOU GO

Coordinates | 24°46’35.0” N, 80°54’33.4” W Baton Rouge to Duck Key | 1,020 miles Driving Time | 14 hours, 41 minutes Why Duck Key? | The 60-acre award-winning family-friendly resort reopened last year, following a $50 million renovation, and it’s evident that a welcoming spirit is ingrained in the fabric of the community. VP Managing Director Sheldon Suga says it best: “Our culture here is to care for everyone.” A seal of approval from the Center for Autism and Related Disabilities assures guests that the resort leads in caring for those with special needs. Parents will find that this is a place where they can relax and breathe easy. Parents are also encouraged to contact the resort in advance about their family’s needs to ensure the best trip for every family member.

WHERE TO STAY

With 177 rooms and 205 two or three bedroom villas, the resort offers variety. Family Guest Rooms feature bunk beds, a layout which sleeps five, with one king bed and a nontraditional bunk bed (the bottom bunk is full-size). For those wanting their own kitchen, the plentiful villa options will appeal as will the grocery home-delivery service.

WHERE TO EAT

Coral Grill Families can hunker down for a full day around Coral Cay and the Pirate Ship Pool. Servicing the area, Coral Grill offers tasty grilled cheese for the kids frolicking about the pool and cool cocktails for moms and dads. The Tiki Grill Perfectly placed overlooking the popular saltwater lagoon and ocean, this eatery buzzes with good vibes and soft happy breezes while you dine. Comfortably camped out by the pool? Poolside service will bring salads, burgers and cold beers to your chair. Angler & Ale Let kids dine off the kids’ menu from the upstairs deck while watching fishing and recreational vessels pass by. If you’ve been out fishing and caught a ‘big one,’ the restaurant will prepare your catch per their popular “Hook & Cook” dining option. Captain’s Hours (2:30-5:30 p.m.) offer specials to tie hungry tummies over until dinnertime. 54

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Parents will love the many complimentary resort perks, especially the array of kids’ activities. Consult the website or conveniently placed sandwichboard by the main pool for a daily schedule of resort events. Water-balloon toss, cornhole competition, face painting with Priscilla the Pirate Queen and s’mores at dusk along the lagoon, anyone? Coral Cay Activities and Adventure Center is a kid-centric paradise. Kids of all ages will have a place to land, with the interactive Pirate Ship Pool, featuring slides, tunnels and water-spewing cannons, crafts and mini-golf, and for the littlest ones, babysitting. Kids can enroll in Camp Hawk, and teens will love the game room that is equipped with Wii, Guitar Hero and foosball. Outside, basketball courts and a sports field will keep the kids on the move. For kids with special needs, parents can choose one-on-one sessions with camp counsellors for no extra charge. Around the Pirate Ship Pool, the sassy Priscilla the Pirate Queen, Clarence the First Mate, Captain Hawk, and the alluring Koral the Mermaid provide free shows for the kids through the Pirate Show. When not performing, look out for these “explosive personalities gallivanting about the resort, bringing laughter to kids and adults alike.” Visit the dolphins at the resort by choosing the Discovery, Encounter or Dockside Experience option. Kids can connect with these smart gentle creatures and appreciate their magical draw like never before. Ramp access ensures that those who are living with physical needs can enjoy dolphin playtime, too. Families who’d rather not sign up for the program can still experience thrills of the dolphins’ tricks and antics from surrounding walkways accessible to all guests. Consider booking a private snorkeling adventure for the family to allow the captain to cater to your whims and needs. Visit a popular sandbar, beloved by locals, where you can splash and enjoy the crystal clear water. For even more fun, add a Sunset Tour to your vacation to forever remember the brilliant Florida Key sunset. Free of charge, guests can take paddleboards or kayaks out on the Saltwater Lagoon, enabling kids to try a new sport in a low-risk environment. The small lagoon, with no waves or current to contend with, is encircled by relaxed guests in chaise lounges. Sombrero Beach is your closest beach getaway, an easy 10-minute drive. If you care to venture a little bit further, head to Bahia Honda State Park for an unforgettable beach experience. ■

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Keep cool with the Frigidaire Cool Connect Smart Portable Air Conditioner. Featuring LED lighting, a mesh grill, and sleek shape, you can remotely turn the unit on or off, change temperature, and control fan speeds. ■ amazon.com

Make your own bags of ice at home with the Sharper Image Portable Ice Maker. Whether you need extra ice to make homemade ice cream or drinks, the Ice Maker is compact in size, and all you have to do is add water and press start. ■ sharperimage.com

Play Yardzee or Yard Farkle outdoors with this Giant Yard Dice set. Each die has smooth rounded edges, and best of all, it comes with scorecards, so you and your family can keep score. ■ amazon.com 56

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Show your American pride with the Summer Fun Mainstays four-piece Kitchen Bundle. Including a pot holder, oven mitt, and two dish towels, these patriotic kitchen pieces are perfect for your Independence Day party. ■ amazon.com

Detect both UV-A and UV-B light with the UV Atmospheric Light Meter, so you will know when your crew needs to lather on sunscreen. The meter displays the current atmospheric UV index, and then relates the numerical index to color changing beads to keep you informed of UV levels. ■ amazon.com

For your next barbecue, tote along this functional Woven Seagrass Cooler. Featuring a classic woven exterior and galvanized tin insert, this Cooler helps keep your beverages cool, no matter the occasion. ■ target.com

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PLAY MOMS ONLY START WITH A THEME The first thing on your agenda should be to decide on a theme. Some of our favorite girl themes include Unicorns, The Circus, American Doll, Tea Party, and even a Spa Day theme. We also love How to Train Your Dragon, Superheroes, Dinosaurs, Hot Wheels, and Legos for boys, but of course, all of these themes are interchangeable. SET A BUDGET After you and your child have chosen a theme, it’s best to set a budget. This will help you decide key factors such as: Do you want an at home party or one at an all-in-one venue? Also, if you feel the need to splurge for the party, you can! Just make sure you have the room in your budget to do so. Here are a few of our favorite splurges from our children’s past birthdays: A bounce house/water slide; superheroes or princesses; petting zoo; face painter; and there are several rental machines that can add a fun flair to any party such as cotton candy machines, popcorn, and for adults, a daiquiri machine are all good ideas to consider.

Let’s Celebrate with Jami & Katrina

Celebrating birthdays is a worldwide tradition, and this month, Baton Rouge Parents Magazine celebrates 29 years. In honor of the magazine’s birthday month, we are sharing our birthday party tips and tricks, so you can plan a party for your child, quickly and easily.

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CHOOSE A VENUE If you decide to do a party at home, you can always make a quick trip to the Dollar Store or Target to stock up on party essentials. Another valuable resource for decorations and props is Oriental Express, and they’re available online. orientalexpress.com To be honest, though, our favorite birthday parties have always been at allin-one venues. What’s not to love, right? We really appreciate that most places that specialize in kids’ parties also provide a personal party planner or hostess. Even if that’s not an option, you can always delegate to a close friend or relative to help out. We suggest researching local venues such as Lil Bambinos; Jump-n-Jive;

DEFY; BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo; Barn Hill Preserve; Blue Bayou Waterpark; USS Kidd Veterans Museum; Knock Knock Children’s Museum; Malco Theatres; Build-a-Bear Workshop; and local parks, including BREC’s Highland Road Park and Jambalaya Park. Several of these provide food, drinks, and entertainment for your little ones, all at affordable prices with little stress for the parents. No matter which way you decide to go, at home or at a venue, you may be pleasantly surprised at your choices. GET A CAKE There’s one important item that’s most likely not included in all-in-one packages (or that you would rather customize), and that is the cake. In our opinion, this is the most fun to create. Do your research and read reviews online to find the best bakery or chef for your party’s needs. Stick to your theme, make sure there’s an ample amount for all your guests, and don’t be afraid to try new flavors. Most bakeries will let you sample their wares just like wedding cake shopping. We have personally ordered cakes from several local bakeries, including Rouses Markets, The Ambrosia Bakery & Deli, Cake That, Sweet Elizabeth Cakes, and Baum’s Fine Pastries & Chocolates. All you need to do is set an appointment, and bring them your idea, no matter how big or small. Just a few minutes is all it takes to create the crowning detail of your little one’s party. CELEBRATE At the end of the day, all that really matters is that your little one and his or her friends enjoy the party and that mom and dad keep their sanity. HERE ARE A FEW OTHER FAMOUS JULY BIRTHDAYS WE THOUGHT YOU MIGHT WANT TO CELEBRATE: July 6, 1907: Frida Kahlo July 11, 1889: E.B. White July 12, 1817: Henry David Thoreau July 18, 1918: Nelson Mandela July 21, 1899: Ernest Hemingway July 24, 1897: Amelia Earhart J U LY 20 1 9 | B R PA R E N T S .CO M

8 GREAT APPS FOR KIDS WITH SPECIAL NEEDS K

By Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

ids living with special needs are diverse just like other kids their age, and there are many educational apps that can help them with their needs. Here are eight of the best ones, and they’re all free. So, if you’re a parent or caregiver of kids who have special needs, have them check these apps out, and then, download the ones that are the most useful and fun. ChatterPix Kids (Available in Apple App Store; Google Play) This app is great for kids who need help practicing their oral communication skills. They can either upload or take a picture of themselves, draw a mouth, and then record anything they want to say. It’s particularly useful if you’re having a difficult conversation at home and your kids find it easier to express their views through an avatar rather than directly to you. It can also be useful in school if your kids require extra time composing an answer to a teacher’s question. They can record and re-record their response until they get it just the way they want it. Coach.me (Available in Apple App Store; Google Play) Drawing on the latest psychological and behavioral research, this is a great app that shares that a key to achieving your goals is to develop good, consistent habits. Users can decide which habits they would like to develop, track those habits over time, receive reminders, and then get positive feedback (high-fives) when they reach their goals. Depending on their age and maturity, your kids can either use this app on their own or with a little help from you. 60

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Emotionary (Available in Apple App Store; Google Play) If you want to help your kids better understand other people’s emotions, the best thing you can do is help them better understand their own. This app has more than 100 short, dictionary-style definitions of common emotions, each accompanied by an emoticon. This helps kids develop a rich vocabulary for expressing their emotions, and it teaches them coping skills so that they don’t become overwhelmed by their emotions. They can create their own emoticons for emotions they think aren’t included in the app but are really important to them. iOT Session (Available in Apple App Store) Created by occupational therapist, Dr. Frederick Covington, this app features kidfriendly, game-like exercises aimed at improving visual perception, tracking, and coordination. It also improves fine motor skills, especially kids’ abilities to create proper letters. The app is used by occupational therapists everywhere, but your kids can use it too, either on their own or with your help, to track their progress over time. MindShift CBT (Available in Apple App Store; Google Play) Based on cognitive behavioral therapy, which is widely used, this app teaches kids how to deal with different anxietyprovoking situations like conflicts, social situations, and tests. It features tools that help users relax, practice mindfulness, and re-orient their

thoughts. It has audio recordings with guided meditations, a journal for users to record thoughts that make them the most anxious, and general tips for managing anxiety. Model Me Going Places 2 (Available in Apple App Store) This social skills app teaches kids how to interact with different kinds of people that they encounter in their daily lives, such as grocery store clerks, hairdressers, doctors, and restaurant waiters. It has 12-photo slideshows that model kids engaging in appropriate behaviors with people in different settings. My Little Suitcase (Available in Apple App Store) This game-like app, which can be played by up to four people, enhances kids’ abilities to memorize and match items. Similar to the popular card game, Memory, each player has a suitcase with six different items represented on a small card that is faced down. Players take turns turning the cards over. If the card is theirs, they put it in their suitcase. If not, it’s the next player’s turn. Aside from improving their working memory and retention skills, they learn how to focus, categorize, and engage in proper turntaking. It’s a great game for the whole family to enjoy. Unstuck (Available in Apple App Store; Google Play) This award-winning app helps users identify strategies when they’re stuck while also trying to reach a specific goal. Kids are asked to explain how they’re stuck, how they feel about it, and how strong those feelings are. The app then generates possible solutions to the problem they’re experiencing. Its biggest educational value, however, is letting kids put words to their feelings and showing them that they’re not alone in feeling the way they do. ■

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR

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JURASSIC QUEST

Visit the Lamar Dixon Expo Center from July 5-7 to interact with over 80 dinosaurs. This event also includes walking dinosaur rides, fossil digs and stations, a dino petting zoo, and dino scooters, so your toddlers can enjoy all of the fun, too. Tickets run $20-36. ■ jurassicquest.com

1 MONDAY CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at noon. Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org HOSPITAL ORIENTATION. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-7:45 p.m. or 8-9:15 p.m. Tour the labor birth suites, family waiting areas, and Transition Nursery while learning what you can expect. Free. (225) 231-5475 LINE 4 LINE. O’Neils Barber and Beauty Salon. Free haircuts once a month to boys ages 2-16 who read to the barbers. (225) 389-7207 LOOK UP TO THE STARS WITH KEVIN MANNING. Dutchtown Library at 10:30 a.m. and Gonzales Library at 2 p.m. All ages can explore the 62

mysteries of the universe with award-winning astronomer, Kevin Manning. Weather permitting, they can view the sun through a telescope. myapl.org NO BAKE TREATS. Dutchtown Library at 4 p.m. Teens entering grades 6-12 can try fun recipes that are easy to recreate at home. myapl.org STORY CHARACTER BALL. Galvez Library at 2 p.m. Dress as your favorite character and have fun dancing, jumping, and throwing balloons. Geared for lower elementary. myapl.org

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CPR FOR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-8 p.m. Learn CPR and foreign body airway obstruction techniques for infants and

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children. $30 per couple. brgeneral.org HOPE CHESTS BREAST CANCER SUPPORT GROUP. Ochsner Hospital from 6-7 p.m. Monthly support group with speakers and light refreshments. ochsner.org NEBULA CRAFTS. Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. Ages 12 and up can enjoy space-inspired crafts. Registration required. (225) 686-4180 PATRIOTIC LANTERN CRAFT. Eden Park Library at 2:30 p.m. Teens can make a patriotic lantern and snack on cookies. (225) 231-3250 STAR TREK ESCAPE ROOM. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 4 p.m. Teens can play an escape game with a Star Trek theme. Registration required. mylpl.info TEEN TUESDAYS. East Iberville Library at 1 p.m.

Teen program with crafts and activities. Refreshments served. (225) 642-8380 THRIVING WITH DIABETES: UPDATE ON DIABETES RESEARCH. Our Lady of the Lake Ascension Hospital from 6-7 p.m. Free workshop. (225) 621-2906

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BATON ROUGE’S INDEPENDENCE DAY PARADE. Starts and ends at the Kenilworth Science and Technology School on Boone Drive, east of Kenilworth Parkway at 6:30 p.m. Annual parade. The theme is “Peace, Love and Independence.” kenilworthneighborhood.com FLY GUY IN SPACE. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 2 p.m. Children ages three to seven can explore space through games,

activities, and a moon rock hunt. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 GALAXY SLIME. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can make slime out of liquid polymer and liquid starch. Registration required. (225) 756-1170 I CARE LIVE. Webinar series at noon by the I CARE program with various guest speakers who promote personal safety, drug prevention, and selfhelp educational resources. icare.ebrschools.org KATHY MATTEA. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. See one of Nashville’s finest song interpreters. manshiptheatre.org MELT AND POUR SOAP. Central Library at 3 p.m. Adults can create a fragrant bar of soap using the popular melt-and-pour method. Registration required. (225) 262-2650

STARS AND STRIPES CELEBRATION. Conway Town Square, Gonzales, from 6-9 p.m. Live music, kids’ activities, yard games, pop-up shops, food and drink vendors, and fireworks. liveconway.com

TACULAR. The Pointe at Americana, Zachary, at 6 p.m. cityofzachary.org

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5 FRIDAY

4 THURSDAY Independence Day

BATON ROUGE CONCERT BAND. Louisiana State Capitol Grounds at 7:30 p.m. Free performance prior to the fireworks. brcb.org FOURTH FEST. Downtown Port Allen at the Riverfront on the Mississippi River Levee from 4-10:30 p.m. Face painting, magicians, clowns, food and beverage vendors, live entertainment, and fireworks. Free. westbatonrouge.net FREEDOM MILE. Downtown from 8-10 a.m. Series of one-mile flights south on River Road, ending at the Old State Capitol. Proceeds benefit the Baton Rouge Food Bank. clubsouthrunners.com JULY 4TH HOMETOWN CELEBRATION. Plaquemine Waterfront Park from 5-9 p.m. Live music, rides and games for kids, food, drinks, arts and crafts booths, and fireworks. plaquemine.org RED, WHITE, AND BLUE CELEBRATION. LSU Museum of Art from 7-10 p.m. Delicious food, cash bar, complimentary water and sodas, live music, kids’ activities, and fireworks. Tickets run $3050, and children five and under are admitted free. eventbrite.com STAR-SPANGLED CELEBRATION. Downtown starting at 4 p.m. Food, music, vendors, and fireworks. Includes a ceremony and activities at the USS Kidd, including a Popsicle Parade, Hotdog Eating Contest, and a Watermelon Seed Spitting Contest. usskidd.com ZACHARY COMMUNITY FOURTH OF JULY FIREWORKS SPEC-

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Tatiyana A. 2018-19 Cover Kid 6 years old BOOK BABIES. Watson Library at 10:30 a.m. Activity for infants through age five with stories, music, and games. (225) 664-3963 JURASSIC QUEST. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, from 3-8 p.m. Includes walking dinosaur rides, fossil digs and stations, a dino petting zoo, and dino scooters for toddlers. Tickets run $20-36. jurassicquest.com MOVIE AT MAIN. EBR Main Library at 7 p.m. Watch a children’s movie in the Plaza or in the Large Meeting Room for those who prefer an air conditioned option. Local vendors and food trucks will be on site. Bring a lawn chair or blanket for outdoor viewing. ebrpl.com SPOOF NIGHT! WITH GREASE. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Baton Rouge’s Family Dinner Comedy Troupe sings their love of this classic musical. manshiptheatre.org STORIES IN ART. LSU Museum of Art at 10:30 a.m. Free program for children from birth to preschool. Enjoy a book and art project designed to make families comfortable exploring in a museum setting. (225) 389-7207 THE EDGE OF NIGHT. BREC’s Highland Road Park Observatory from 8-10 p.m. Introduction to twilight. Free. (225) 768-9948

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Tyler B. 2018-19 Cover Kid 8 years old #LOVEBATONROUGESATURDAYS. Knock Knock Children’s Museum at 1 p.m. The museum, in collaboration with the Baton Rouge Mayor’s Office, will present a program with experts on Mechanics. knockknockmuseum.org CLINTON MARKET DAY. Downtown Clinton in front of the Courthouse from 8 a.m.-1 p.m. Monthly open market. (225) 683-5531 FIRST SATURDAY OF THE MONTH HIKE. Port Hudson State Historic Site, Jackson, at 10 a.m. Join a park ranger on a guided hike of the battlefield area known as Artillery Ridge. (888) 677-3400 JURASSIC QUEST. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, from 9 a.m.-8 p.m. Interact with over 80 dinosaurs. Includes walking dinosaur rides, fossil digs and stations, a dino petting zoo, and dino scooters for toddlers. Tickets run $2036. jurassicquest.com LIGHT PAINTING. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can create light drawings using apps on iPads and light paintings using LED lights. Registration required. (225) 756-1170 PATRIOTIC BLOCK PARTY. Tanger Outlet Mall, Gonzales, from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Visit with firefighters and police officers, see a stilt walker, get your face painted, and enjoy an interactive DJ who will play patriotic and children’s music. tangeroutlet.com

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE SATURDAY MORNING MOVIES: SCOOBY DOO MOON MONSTER MADNESS. East Iberville Library from 10 a.m.-noon. Children and pre-teens are invited to watch a movie at the library. Refreshments served. (225) 642-8380 TEEN LIGHT PAINTING. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Using long exposure apps on iPads, teens can make light drawings and light paintings using an assortment of lasers and LED lights. Registration required. (225) 756-1170 THE PLANTATION APOTHECARY. Audubon State Historic Site, St. Francisville, from noon-3 p.m. Explore the world of medicine in the early 19th Century. (888) 677-2838 TICKFAW REGATTA. LA 22, Springfield, at 10 a.m. Homemade boats race and scavenger hunt. Benefits TARC. facebook.com

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BE NATURAL: THE UNTOLD STORY OF ALICE GUY-BLACHÉ. Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. Alice Guy-Blaché was a true pioneer who got into the movie business at the very beginning. Not rated. Tickets are $9.50. manshiptheatre.org CARDBOARD REGATTA: THE RACE TO INDEPENDENCE. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from 8-10:30 a.m. This wacky event uses your creativity and imagination to build a boat made of corrugated cardboard. Pre-registration required. libertylagoon.com FREE FIRST SUNDAY. Free admission to the LSU Museum of Art, LASM, the Old State Capitol, USS Kidd, Capitol Park Museum, and BREC’s Magnolia Mound Plantation. visitbatonrouge.com JURASSIC QUEST. Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, from 9 a.m.-8 p.m. Interact with over 80 dinosaurs. Includes walking dinosaur rides, fossil digs

and stations, a dino petting zoo, and dino scooters. jurassicquest.com SENSORY SENSITIVE SUNDAY. Chuck E. Cheese’s at 9 a.m. Opens two hours early on the first Sunday of the month with reduced lighting and games for children with autism and other special needs. chuckecheese.com

8 MONDAY

AUDUBON ZOOMOBILE. Dutchtown Library at 10:30 a.m. and Galvez Library at 2 p.m. The wonders of the natural world will be presented with hands-on animal encounters. myapl.org MOMMY AND ME. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 11 a.m.-noon. A continued breastfeeding support and education group designed to help mothers and babies learn about breastfeeding successes and challenges. Free. Babies welcome. brgeneral.org PARENTS NIGHT OUT FOR SPECIAL NEEDS REGISTRATION DEADLINE. St. Jean Vianney Church on July 12 from 6:30-9 p.m. for children with special needs ages 2-12 and their siblings. parentsnightout@stjeanvianney.org PREGNANCY 101. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Learn how to provide your baby with the best possible environment for growth and development. Cost is $25. Registration required. (225) 231-5475

9 TUESDAY

ADULT SCIENCE PROJECT DAY. Fairwood Library at noon. Adults can create a classic volcano project with a glittery twist. Supplies provided. (225) 924-9385 ASK A LAWYER. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 9:30 a.m. Adults can have free confidential and individual counseling offered by the Pro Bono Project of the Baton

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR Rouge Bar Association. (225) 686-4140 AUDUBON ZOOMOBILE. Gonzales Library at 10:30 a.m. and Donaldsonville Library at 2 p.m. The wonders of the natural world will be presented with hands-on animal encounters. myapl.org AVENGERS: INFINITY WAR. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 5 p.m. Teens can watch a movie and interact with props. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 DIDGERIDOO DOWN UNDER. Port Allen Community Center at 10 a.m. Educational adventure show with music, culture, humor, art, and science of Australia. (225) 342-7920 FLY GUY IN SPACE. Watson Library at 2 p.m. Children ages three to seven can explore space through games, activities, and a moon rock hunt. Registration required. (225) 686-4180 MONO-PRINTMAKING. The Royal Standard from 10-11:30 a.m. Class for ages six and up. theroyalstandard.com NO BAKE TREATS. Gonzales Library at 6 p.m. Teens entering grades 6-12 can try recipes that are easy to recreate at home.

myapl.org PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital. Two-day class today and July 10 from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Learn basic information so you can recognize signs of labor and practice comfort measures. (225) 231-5475 STEAM CLUB: BOOM! SCIENCE. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can compete in a series of STEM-related challenges. Registration required. (225) 756-1170 STORY CHARACTER BALL. Dutchtown Library at 10 a.m. Dress as your favorite character and have fun dancing, jumping, and throwing balloons. myapl.org THE AVENGERS PARTY. Watson Library at 5 p.m. Adults are invited to watch Avengers: Infinity War, enjoy themed refreshments, and find out if they can survive Thanos’s snap. (225) 686-4180 TOUR FOR TWO (OR MORE). Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-7 p.m. Free tour of the Birth Center. brgeneral.org

10 WEDNESDAY CONSTELLATIONS

STORY/CRAFT. Fairwood Library at 3:30 p.m. Children ages four to eight can listen to Curious George Discovers The Stars and make a constellation craft with star stickers. Registration required. (225) 924-9385 DIDGERIDOO DOWN UNDER. Erwinville Recreation Center at 10 a.m. and the VFW Hall at 1 p.m. Educational adventure show with music, culture, humor, art, and science of Australia. (225) 342-7920 GROCERY STORE TOUR. Rouses, Bluebonnet, from 10-11 a.m. Join Baton Rouge General’s dietitians for a grocery tour to learn how to choose fresh and healthy foods, and how to understand confusing nutrition labels. Free. brgeneral.org INTERNATIONAL SPY ESCAPE ROOM. Jones Creek Library at 3 p.m. and 4 p.m. Teens can find and solve clues in this Breakout EDU Escape Room Challenge. (225) 756-1170 LEGAL ASSISTANCE. West Baton Rouge Library, Port Allen, from 10 a.m.noon. A representative from Southeast Louisiana Legal Services will be available to answer legal ques-

DINNER AND A ZOOVIE. Audubon Zoo, New Orleans, with the Cool Zoo/ Gator Run open from 6-8 p.m. and the movie, Captain Marvel, starting at 8 p.m. Bring your own dinner or dine at the zoo. ■ audubonnatureinstitute.org 64

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tions. (225) 342-7920 LUNCHTIME LAGNIAPPE–VOODOO QUEEN: THE SPIRITED LIVES OF MARIE LAVEAU. Capitol Park Museum at noon. Free lecture. downtownbatonrouge.org NEBULA JAR CRAFT. Greenwell Springs Road Library at 2:30 p.m. Teens can make a stellar nebula jar craft. (225) 274-4450 PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital. Last of a two-day class from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Learn basic information so you can recognize signs of labor and practice comfort measures. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY Rhys J. 2018-19 Cover Kid 7 years old BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8 p.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 can learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. (225) 231-5475 CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 5 p.m. Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org FAMILY FOOD SHOW. West Baton Rouge Parish Library, Port Allen, at 11:15 a.m. Learn how to prepare simple, nutritious, inexpensive dinner snacks with Nutrition Educator, Mary Jarreau. Appropriate for ages five and up. (225) 342-7920 FIELD DAY. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 10:30 a.m. Children

ages 8-11 can do field day games, challenges, and crafts. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 NIGHT TIME STORYTIME. West Baton Rouge Library, Port Allen, at 6:30 p.m. Read, sing, clap, and dance to nursery rhymes and action songs. (225) 342-7920 PAJAMA STORYTIME. Gonzales and Galvez Libraries at 6:30 p.m. Children seven and younger can enjoy storytime in their pajamas. myapl.org PERLER BEAD PLANETARY WIND-SPINNERS. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teen craft. Registration required. (225) 756-1170 ROCKET CRAFTING WORKSHOP. EBR Main Library from 3-5 p.m. Everyone is invited to make a paper rocket to commemorate the anniversary of NASA Apollo 11’s moon landing, and then launch their rockets to try to set a record. ebrpl.com SPACE MAGNETS STORY/CRAFT. Delmont Gardens Library at 10 a.m. Children ages four to five can listen to The Sun Is Kind Of A Big Deal and make a fuzzy space magnet. Registration required. (225) 354-7050 TEEN WATER OLYMPICS. Carver Library at 2 p.m. Teens can have outdoor fun in the sun with water balloons and water guns. (225) 389-7450

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BREASTFEEDING EXPRESS. Woman’s Hospital from 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Small group class for women only. Cost is $20. (225) 231-5475 BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. Free. (225) 231-5475 COFFEE SHOP. Gonzales Library at 4 p.m. Teens can hang out and learn the

WEEKLY EVENTS A UNIVERSE OF STORIES. EBR Libraries through July 31. Summer reading program with a focus on the anniversary of the first moon landing. ■ ebrpl.com BASF KIDS’ LAB. LASM on the second and fourth Saturdays at 11 a.m., 1 p.m., and 3 p.m. and Sundays at 1:30 p.m. and 3 p.m. Explore the world of chemistry in hands-on workshops. ■ kidslab@lasm.org BATON ROOTS DEMO DAYS. 5509 Winbourne Avenue on Wednesdays from 4-6 p.m. Children learn about growing food, harvesting, and eating healthy. ■ facebook.com/batonroots BOOKLOVERS SUMMER. Ascension Parish Libraries through August 2. Summer reading program. ■ myapl.beanstack.org CASAS FOR CASA PLAYHOUSE RAFFLE. Mall of Louisiana from July 27-August 18. The luxury playhouse will be on display with $5 raffle tickets. ■ casabr.org CHILDREN AND TEEN PROGRAMS AT EBRP LIBRARIES. Programs presented: Harvey Rabbit and Friends, The Baton Rouge Astronomical Society, Knox the Miniature Horse, EBRP Sheriff’s Office K-9 Unit, Playmakers of Baton Rouge, Lady Chops, Hampstead Stage Company, and the Stinky Cheese Man. ■ ebrpl.com CHILDREN’S SUMMER MOVIES SERIES. LSU Student Union on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 10 a.m. Watch a movie on the big screen. ■ (225) 578-5141 COOL CAREERS SERIES. EBR Main Library on Wednesdays at 11 a.m. Free series that features a presentation led by a representative from organizations working in exciting careers. ■ careercenterbr.com CREATION STATION. LASM on Wednesdays from 10:30-11:30 a.m. and 2-3 p.m. Enjoy hands-on arts and crafts in the Discovery Depot. ■ lasm.org FREE FRIDAY NIGHTS. LSU Museum of Art from 5-8 p.m. Free admission to the museum. ■ lsumoa.org RED STICK FARMERS MARKET. Saturdays on 5th Street between Main and North Street, Tuesdays at the Main Library, and Thursdays in the Pennington Biomedical Conference Center parking lot from 8 a.m.-noon. ■ (225) 267-5060 SWEET GEORGIA BROWN. LSU Shaver Theatre from July 25-28. Musical by New Venture Theatre full of 60s and 70s blues songs. ■ newventuretheatre.org TWILIGHT TOUR. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 6-7:30 p.m., with a narrated ride through the zoo, an animal encounter at the Wildlife Safari Theatre, and an evening snack. ■ brzoo.org TWILIGHT TUESDAYS. Families Helping Families of BR from 4-8 p.m. Working families can obtain resources. ■ (225) 216-7474 WILLY WONKA. Ascension Community Theatre from July 11-28. Musical follows Charlie and his adventures with the famous candy man. ■ actgonzales.org

CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE secret behind making a good cup of espresso, find out how a French press works, and recreate their favorite coffee favorites. myapl.org HARRY POTTER PARTY. Galvez Library at 4 p.m. Students can celebrate Harry’s birthday. Costumes welcomed. myapl.org MOVIE IN THE PARK: RALPH BREAKS THE INTERNET. HugYourPeople Community Park, Zachary, at dusk. Special pre-show entertainment will be provided, beginning at 7 p.m. Bring lawn chairs and blankets. The concession stand will offer popcorn, nachos and soft drinks. cityofzachary.org PARENTS NIGHT OUT FOR SPECIAL NEEDS. St. Jean Vianney Church from 6:30-9 p.m. for children with special needs ages 2-12 and their siblings. parentsnightout@stjeanvianney.org RACE TO THE MOON. Watson Library at 2 p.m. Children ages seven and younger can work in teams to complete challenges and race to the moon. Registration required. (225) 686-4180 YOUNG FRENCH CINEMA SHORT FILMS BLOCK. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. The Young French Cinema program seeks to showcase rising French talents with a global vision, whose films incorporate wide-ranging cultural influences and subject matters. manshiptheatre.org

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CHILDBIRTH CLASS. Ochsner Medical Center from 8 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Free class covers pregnancy, pain theories, pre-labor signs, postpartum/newborn procedures and basic breastfeeding. (225) 755-4854 CHILDBIRTH PREPARATION. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 8 a.m.-noon. Learn the basics of labor and birth, including preg-

nancy changes, nutrition, relaxation techniques and comfort measures. $40 per couple. brgeneral.org DANCING FOR A CAUSE. Lamar Dixon 4H Building at 7 p.m. See your favorite local celebrities dance. Admission tickets are $30-40. Benefits the ARC of East Ascension. coeathearc.com LAHOUSE SUMMER OPEN HOUSE. LSU AgCenter’s LaHouse Resource Center from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Highlights the array of cozy technologies in the high-performance house, provides free educational publications, and has experts on hand to answer questions. lsuagcenter.com LAMAZE: LABOR OF LOVE. Woman’s Hospital from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. for couples wanting to learn how Lamaze techniques assist in labor and birth. womans.org MID CITY MAKERS MARKET. 541 South Eugene Street from 4-8 p.m. Makers’ booths, food, a bar, a kids’ area and music. midcitymakers.market ORCHID SHOW AND SALE. Burden Center from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. and July 14 from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Free admission. Baton Rouge Orchid Society members will offer orchid growing and maintenance advice, and do potting demonstrations. batonrougeorchidsociety.com PIERROT LE FOU. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Pursued by foreign thugs, Ferdinand and Marianne steal a car and embark on a crime spree through the French countryside. manshiptheatre.org PLAY TIME YOGA. Java Mama Baton Rouge from 8:45-9:15 a.m. Class for children ages 18 monthsfour years old. Cost is $7-15. Bring your own mats. Registration includes open play and cucumber and lemon iced water. facebook.com SLAM’D AND CAM’D. Raising Cane’s River Center from 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Car show, music,

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR entertainment, vendors and food. Admission runs $5-12. raisingcanesrivercenter.com SPINNING TALES WITH JULIETTE GORDON LOWE. West Baton Rouge Museum, Port Allen, from 10 a.m.-noon. Family workshop with an interactive museum theater presentation of the founder of Girl Scouts of the USA. (225) 336-2422 SUMMER AUCTION GALA CABARET. Theatre Baton Rouge with doors open at 6 p.m. with auction items, hors d’oeuvres, wine and beer, and the Cabaret performance. Tickets are $5060. theatrebr.org

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ORCHID SHOW AND SALE. Burden Center from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Baton Rouge Orchid Society members will offer orchid growing and maintenance advice, and do potting demonstrations. batonrougeorchidsociety.com PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital from 1-5 p.m. Learn basic information so you can recognize signs of labor and practice comfort measures. Registration required. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475

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BASTILLE DAY: CAPTURE THE FLAG GAME. EBR Main Library at 2:30 p.m. Teens are invited to a peasants versus royalty game to celebrate the national day of France. (225) 231-3750 MAD SCIENCE. Galvez Library at 2 p.m. Celebrate the 50th anniversary of Apollo 11’s moon landing with activities. myapl.org YOGA. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teen introductory yoga class. Bring a yoga mat, if available. (225) 756-1170

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AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. For new parents, grandparents, adoptive parents or other caregivers. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475 ALIEN ROAD TRIP. Watson Library at 2 p.m. Get ready to blast off at this family-friendly program, including a puppet show, and then make an alien dress up craft. (225) 686-4140 AVENGERS: INFINITY WAR. Watson Library at 4:30 p.m. Teens can watch a movie and interact with props. Registration required. (225) 686-4180 HAMPSTEAD STAGE COMPANY. Port Allen Community Center at 10 a.m. Watch as The Jungle Book comes to life through the use of puppets and masks. (225) 342-7920 KIDS ETIQUETTE CLASS. The Royal Standard from 2:30-3:30 p.m. Children can enjoy games, role play, and the use of a light learning meal. Sunday dress encouraged. theroyalstandard.com MINIONS PARTY. Dutchtown Library at 6 p.m. Dance and sing along with the Minions, battle evil Minions, and design your own Minion to take home. myapl.org NATIONAL LEPROSARIUM IN CARVILLE HISTORY. Gonzales Library at 6:30 p.m. Elizabeth Schexnyder, curator of the National Hansen’s Disease Museum, will tell the story of a place and people who were often feared because of this misunderstood disease. (225) 647-3955 ROCKET CRAFTING WORKSHOP AND COMMUNITY LAUNCH DAY. EBR Main Library from 10 a.m-noon. Make a paper rocket to commemorate the anniversary of the NASA Apollo 11 moon landing, and then launch rockets to try to set a record. ebrpl.com TEEN FIELD DAY. Watson Library at 5 p.m. Teens compete in space-themed challenges. (225) 686-4180

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TEEN STEAM: A-MAZEING ROBOTS. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can test their skills in guiding robots through a maze using only block coding. Registration required. (225) 756-1170

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#WELLNESSWEDNESDAY. Southern University Student Union Cotillion Ballroom from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Health and wellness fair with free blood pressure screenings, a dance-style workout class, food trucks, and vendors with healthy food samples. joinallofus.org AFRICAN-AMERICAN GOSPEL MUSIC IN LOUISIANA. EBR Main Library at 7 p.m. Discussion for adults led by LSU Department of Geography and Anthropology professor and African and African-American Studies Director, Dr. Joyce Jackson. (225) 231-3751 AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Second class. For new parents, grandparents, adoptive parents or other caregivers. Cost is $35. (225) 231-5475 CELEBRITY WAITER EVENT. L’Auberge Hotel from 7-10 p.m. Annual fundraiser for the Children’s Advocacy Center. Mingle with local celebrities as they compete for your tickets, take a spin on a Wheel of Fortune, and bid on live and silent auction items. batonrougecac.org END OF SUMMER WRAP UP. East Iberville Library at 10:30 a.m. Enjoy prizes, awards, games and refreshments. (225) 642-8380 GALAXY WINE GLASS CRAFT AND TRIVIA NIGHT. Pride-Chaneyville Library at 5:30 p.m. Adults can make a galaxythemed wine glass and show off their knowledge in wine. (225) 658-1550 HAMPSTEAD STAGE

SPOOF NIGHT! WITH GREASE. Calling all T-Birds and Pink Ladies! Get ready for Grease at Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. on Friday, July 5. See Baton Rouge’s Family Dinner Comedy Troupe as they hop into their hot rods and sing their love of this classic musical. This Interactive Movie Experience pokes fun of your favorite films with live commentary, digital skits, and audience-curated improv games. ■ manshiptheatre.org

SUMMER AUCTION GALA CABARET. Have a night out with your special sweetie while taking in a one-of-a-kind cabaret performance put on by Theatre Baton Rouge. Make it a date at Theatre Baton Rouge with doors open at 6 p.m. on Saturday, July 13. Place your bet on auction items, while enjoying hors d’oeuvres, wine and beer, and the incredible cabaret performance. Tickets are $50-60. ■ theatrebr.org

TIGERS AND TRIVIA. How much do you know about tigers? Enough to win a competition? Team up with your date and visit Tin Roof Brewing on Thursday, July 25 for some tiger trivia. In honor of National Zookeeper Appreciation Week, Tin Roof Brewing is partnering with the American Association of Zoo Keepers for an animal themed trivia game night. A portion of the proceeds will go to tiger conservation efforts. ■ brzoo.org

IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR COMPANY. Erwinville Recreation Center at 10 a.m. Watch as The Jungle Book comes to life through the use of puppets and masks. (225) 342-7920 I CARE LIVE. Webinar series at noon by the I CARE program with various guest speakers who promote personal safety, drug prevention, and selfhelp educational resources. icare.ebrschools.org SHRINK PLASTIC EMOJI PINS. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teen craft. Registration required. (225) 756-1170 SPACE JUNK. Gonzales Library at 6 p.m. Students entering grades 6-12 can make galaxy projects, eat galaxy popcorn, and make jewelry. myapl.org

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BIG WIGS UNDER THE BIG TOP. L’Auberge Casino and Hotel at 7 p.m. Fundraiser for the Susan G. Komen foundation. Vote on community notables who have agreed to wear a fun pink wig. komenbatonrouge.org BILINGUAL STORYTIME. Gonzales Library at 6 p.m. Interactive storytime that is presented in English and Spanish with stories, songs and active play, followed by a fun and easy craft. myapl.org BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Preteen boys ages 10-13 and their dads/moms can learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. (225) 231-5475 FAMILY FOOD SHOW. West Baton Rouge Parish Library, Port Allen, at 11:15 a.m. Learn how to prepare simple, nutritious, and inexpensive dinner snacks with Nutrition Educator, Mary Jarreau. Registration required. (225) 342-7920 FELT ALIENS STORY/ CRAFT. Central Library at 2:30 p.m. Children ages 8-11 can listen to Project Terra Crash Course and make an alien out of

felt. Registration required. (225) 262-2650 HARRY POTTER PARTY. Dutchtown Library at 6 p.m. Students can celebrate Harry’s birthday. Costumes welcomed, but not required. myapl.org PERSONAL DIGITAL ARCHIVING. Carver Library at 11 a.m. Free class for adults on file formats, storage platforms, how to organize collections, and digital preservation techniques. Registration required. (225) 231-3752 PFLAG SUPPORT GROUP. Unitarian Universalist Church at 6:30 p.m. Support group for friends and families of LGBT people. unitarianchurchbr.com RACE TO THE MOON. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 6 p.m. Children ages seven and younger can complete challenges and race to the moon. (225) 686-4140 STAR TREK ESCAPE ROOM. Watson Library at 4 p.m. Teens can play a real-life escape game with a Star Trek theme. Registration required. mylpl.info SUNSET PADDLE. BREC’s Milford Wampold Park from 7-8:30 p.m. for ages 12 and older. Enjoy the University Lakes for an evening paddle under the setting sun. $10-15 per boat. webtrac.brec.org YOUR ALIEN RETURNS STORY/CRAFT. Delmont Gardens Library at 10 a.m. Children ages six to eight can listen to Your Alien Returns and make a UFO craft. (225) 354-7050

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CECIL J. PICARD EDUCATOR EXCELLENCE AWARDS. Crowne Plaza Hotel from 5:30-9:30 p.m. This event honors Louisiana’s most outstanding educators for academic and community achievement. dreamteachers.org DISNEY’S MARY POPPIN’S JR. Manship Theatre at 5:30 p.m. and 8:30 p.m. A musical production camp show. Tickets are $15. manshiptheatre.org

MINIONS PARTY. Galvez Library at 2 p.m. Dance and sing along with the Minions, battle evil Minions, and design your own Minion to take home. myapl.org PAJAMA STORYTIME. Dutchtown and Donaldsonville Libraries at 6:30 p.m. Children can enjoy storytime in their pajamas. myapl.org PLAY 4 ALL. Knock Knock Children’s Museum from 5-7 p.m. A monthly program for children with sensory processing differences, disabilities and developmental delays, featuring a less crowded environment, trained staff, light and sound reduction, and quiet rooms. knockknockmuseum.org TEEN FIELD DAY. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 2 p.m. Teens can compete in space-themed challenges. (225) 686-4180

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY Kylee H. 2018-19 Cover Kid 14 years old APOLLO 11 50TH ANNIVERSARY PARTY. BREC’s Highland Road Park Observatory from 6-10 p.m. (225) 768-9948 BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Ochsner Medical Center from 9 a.m.noon. Learn the essential information needed to breastfeed successfully. (225) 755-4854 BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Woman’s Hospital from 1:30-5 p.m. Second class. Learn the basics of breastfeeding. Cost is $35. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 10 a.m.

Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org COMMUNITY MUSIC AND HERITAGE FESTIVAL. BREC’s Anna T. Jordan Community Park from 1-6 p.m. Join BREC and the Scotlandville Hornet Alumni Association for performances by local artists, information vendors, health resources, concessions, crafts, and water inflatables. (225) 775-1707 FROZEN SAFARI. BREC’S Baton Rouge Zoo. This special day will focus on animal enrichment and teaches visitors what the zoo does to promote animal wellness on a daily basis. Frozen treats will be available for visitors, as well as the animals. brzoo.org KALEIDOSCOPE OF QUILTS PARTICIPATION DAY. Jones Creek Library from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. The Sassi Strippers Quilting Guild will present quilting demonstrations, stuffing Teddy Bears for OLOL Children’s Hospital, and children’s activities. (225) 756-1160 LAMAZE: LABOR OF LOVE. Woman’s Hospital from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. for couples wanting to learn how Lamaze techniques assist in labor and birth. Registration required. womans.org LIGO SCIENCE SATURDAY: BEYOND THE MOON SCIENCE. The Laser Interferometer Gravitational Wave Observatory, Livingston, from 1-5 p.m. Tour the facility, talk to a LIGO Scientist or science specialist, and explore and interact with exhibits. ligo.caltech.edu/la MAD SCIENCE. Galvez Library at 2 p.m. Participate in various science activities. Geared for upper elementary, but open to everyone. myapl.org ONE GIANT LEAP FOR MANKIND. LASM from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Celebrate the anniversary of the Apollo landing with handson activities and planetari-

um shows. lasm.org PREGNANCY WORKSHOP AND BABY CARE BASICS. Lane Regional Medical Center, Zachary, from 10 a.m.-noon. The pregnancy workshop is an overview of pregnancy and delivery, and Baby Care Basics covers the first few weeks with a newborn. lanermc.org REACTIVATE BR. Plank Road area from 8:30 a.m.noon. Help is needed in clearing vacant properties, maintaining lawns, painting buildings, planting trees and keeping streets clear of debris. Sponsored by the Walls Project. facebook.com RED STICK ROLLER DERBY. Mt. Pilgrim Family Life Center at 6 p.m. Double Header home team bout. Admission is $8-15. facebook.com ROCKETCHIX. Sunshine, Louisiana at 7 a.m. Racers will swim in a shallow pond. Includes a 12-mile bike ride and a two-mile run. rocketkidz.com SPLASH DAY IN THE PARK. William and Lee Park, Port Allen, from 2-6 p.m. Food, music, games, snowballs, door prizes and hip hop clown. westbatonrouge.net STORIES ABOUT FONVILLE WINANS. Bluebonnet Library at 10 a.m. The celebrated Louisiana photographer will be discussed by his daughter-inlaw, Melinda Risch Winans. (225) 925-8921 STUDENT GAMES DAY. BREC’s Farr Park Equestrian Center from 9-11 a.m. Watch riding students play games on horseback and compete in relays and challenges. brec.org STUDIO SATURDAYS. LASM at 2 p.m. Hands-on workshop for children ages 8-14. Use various tools to create monoprints. Registration required. Lasm.org SUMMER CHESS. EBR Main Library from 10-11:30 a.m. Arrive by 9:45 a.m. For ages 8-13. Tournament will be August 3 at 9:30 a.m. Registration required. (225) 231-3760 SUMMER DIALOGUE:

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CALENDAR IN EVERY ISSUE AFTER THE MOST DESPERATE STRUGGLE. Port Hudson State Historic Site, Jackson, at 11 a.m. Indoor presentation to discuss the Confederate attack against Fort Butler. (888) 677-3400

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AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital from 12:30-5:30 p.m. For new parents, grandparents, adoptive parents or caregivers. (225) 231-5475 BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Ochsner Medical Center from 2-4 p.m. Share stories and tips on what works and what doesn’t. (225) 755-4854 GIRL TALK. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, at 2 p.m. Class led by OB/GYN physicians for girls ages 9-11 and a parent or caregiver. Focuses on what girls experience during puberty, including skin changes, first periods and breast development. brgeneral.org HOSPITAL ORIENTATION. Woman’s Hospital from 1:30-2:45 p.m. or 3-4:15 p.m. Tour the labor and birth suites, family waiting areas, and Transi-

tion Nursery. (225) 231-5475 ITALIAN HERITAGE FESTA. Baton Rouge Marriott from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Free festival with celebrity grape stomp for charity, vino stroll, children’s activities, shopping, live music, food, drinks, and Italian desserts. Free admission. gbraia.org WONDERS OF THE SEA. Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. From Fiji to the Bahamas, using cutting-edge technology, Jean-Michel Cousteau and his children explore the ocean to learn about the threats it faces. Film tickets cost $9.50. manshiptheatre.org

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LIBRARY SCAVENGER HUNT. Greenwell Springs Road Library at 6 p.m. Teens can put their investigative skills to the test and learn about the Library’s free resources, discover how to locate books in the stacks, and get access to cool databases in the Digital Library. Registration required. (225) 274-4450 PIZZA PARTY. Dutchtown Library at 4 p.m. Celebrate the end of the Teen Summer Reading program. myapl.org TEEN CHALLENGE.

LSU Museum of Art from 1-4 p.m. Teens ages 12-18 will explore the Adore/ Adorn exhibition and participate in an interactive activity. Cost is $5. Registration required. lsumoa.org TIE DYE DAY. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can tie dye a shirt brought from home. Registration required. (225) 756-1170

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BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8 p.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. Registration required. (225) 231-5475 BOOKS AND BRUSHES. Galvez Library at 6 p.m. Adult workshop using acrylics to paint a simple predesigned masterpiece. Registration required. (225) 622-3339 CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 9 a.m. Capital Area Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association holds orientation. Registration required. casabr.org ECLIPSE TOTES. Denham Springs-Walker

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Library at 5 p.m. Teens can make eclipse tote bags and accessories. Registration required. (225) 686-4140 LET’S COOK TOGETHER. East Iberville Library, St. Gabriel, at 9 a.m. Fun and educational workshop for parents and children. Learn how to make healthy and tasty meals. (225) 642-8380 NEBULA MUGS. Watson Library at 6 p.m. Adults can customize mugs with a constellation pattern. mylpl.info PERSONALIZED CROWN PAINTING. The Royal Standard from 1011:30 a.m. Class for ages six and up. Cost is $35. theroyalstandard.com SMOOTHIE BIKE FRONT YARD BIKES. Eden Park Library at 3 p.m. Teens can watch a demonstration of the Smoothie Bike, which makes delicious fruity drinks. They can learn about bike ball bearings while making their own refreshing smoothie. (225) 231-3250 TINY GALAXY IN A BOTTLE. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teen craft. Registration required. (225) 756-1170

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EMERGENCY PLAN DEVELOPMENT. PrideChaneyville Library at 2 p.m. Adults are invited to a seminar by certified Emergency Response Team Member, Mary Wells. Get the facts on developing a customized emergency plan, plus step-by-step help to create a plan that works best for you. (225) 658-1550. GROCERY STORE TOUR. Rouses, Juban Crossing, from 10-11 a.m. Join Baton Rouge General’s dietitians for a grocery tour to learn how to choose fresh and healthy foods, and how to understand nutrition labels. brgeneral.org PIZZA PARTY. Gonzales Library at 4 p.m. Celebrate the end of the Teen Summer Reading program. myapl.org

PORTA-PUPPET PLAYERS. Watson Library at 2 p.m. and Denham SpringsWalker Library at 6 p.m. mylpl.info TEEN CHALLENGE. LSU Museum of Art from 9 a.m.-noon. Teens ages 12-18 will explore the Adore/Adorn exhibition and participate in an interactive activity. lsumoa.org

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BINGO @ THE LIBRARY. Jones Creek Library from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Prizes awarded. (225) 756-1160 CRACKED MARBLE CHARM. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teen craft. Registration required. (225) 756-1170 GRANDPARENTS RAISING GRANDCHILDREN. Family Road at 10 a.m. Information and support group for grandparents and others raising children not their own. lagrg.org LA LECHE LEAGUE OF BATON ROUGE MEETING. Java Mama at 10:30 a.m. Breastfeeding meeting. facebook.com MIRACLE TREAT DAY. Dairy Queen area locations. For every Blizzard Treat sold, $1 will be donated to Our Lady of the Lake Children’s Hospital. ololrmc.com NIGHT TIME STORYTIME. West Baton Rouge Library, Port Allen, at 6:30 p.m. Read, sing, clap and dance to nursery rhymes and action songs. Snacks will be provided. (225) 342-7920 PIZZA PARTY. Galvez Library at 4 p.m. Celebrate the end of the Teen Summer Reading program. myapl.org PRENATAL CLASS. Baton Rouge Clinic Pediatric Building at 5:30 p.m. Free class with pediatricians. Registration required. batonrougeclinic.com ROCKET SCIENCE. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 5:30 p.m. Children ages 5-11 will explore hands-on experiments, build rockets, and launch it

IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR outside. (225) 686-4140 TIGERS AND TRIVIA. Tin Roof Brewing. In honor of National Zookeeper Appreciation Week, Tin Roof Brewing is partnering with the American Association of Zoo Keepers for an animal themed trivia game night. A portion of the proceeds will go to tiger conservation efforts. brzoo.org

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BATON ROUGE IRISH FILM FESTIVAL. Manship Theatre through July 27. Film festival promoting the mission of the Baton Rouge Irish Club. batonrougeirishfilmfestival. com BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges. (225) 231-5475 DINNER AND A ZOOVIE. Audubon Zoo, New Orleans, with the Cool Zoo/Gator Run open from 6-8 p.m. and the movie, How to Train Your Dragon, starting at 8 p.m. audubonnatureinstitute.org GOVERNOR’S OFFICE OF DISABILITY AFFAIRS CONFERENCE. Claiborne Building from 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Free conference featuring national accessibility expert Kristi J. Avalos, the President and CEO of Accessology. eventbrite.com SAFE SITTER COURSE. Woman’s Hospital from 9 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Sitter can learn safety skills, first aid and rescue skills, life and business skills, and child care skills. Registration required. (225) 231-5475

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A BABY IS COMING. Woman’s Hospital from 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Class designed to help big brother and sister learn about their new sibling by talking about what new babies are like. $25 Registration required. (225) 231-5475

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Kadynce K. 2018-19 Cover Kid 6 years old BATON ROUGE IRISH FILM FESTIVAL. Manship Theatre. Film festival promoting the mission of the Baton Rouge Irish Club. batonrougeirishfilmfestival.com BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Woman’s Hospital from 9:30-11 a.m. Preteen girls ages 9-12l learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Cost is $15. (225) 231-5475 CAJUN DANCE. UCT Hall at 7:15 p.m. with free dance lessons and the band at 8 p.m. Admission runs $10-12. batonrougecajundance.com CLAY WORKSHOP. The ARTistico Express from 10 a.m.-noon. Children can make a Harry Potter inspired wizard hat and wand. (225) 756-4996 CLOSING THE BIG BLUE DOORS. Louisiana Children’s Museum, New Orleans, from 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Final day of the museum at the current location. lcm.org ENGINEER IT: DREAM BIG. LASM from 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Discover how today’s engineers are inspiring the world with activities with the American Society of Civil Engineers. lasm.org KIDS FISHING RODEO. Ascension Parish with registration at 6:30 a.m. and fishing for children from 7-9 p.m. Donuts, hot dogs, and jambalaya. tourascension.com MODEL TRAINS. Republic of West Florida Historical Museum, Jackson, from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Free indoor and outdoor model train displays by

the Greater Baton Rouge Model Railroaders. (225) 634-3473 MOSQUITO FEST. Audubon Louisiana Nature Center from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Blood drive, CPR class, experts, free Planetarium presentations, a mist garden, a DJ, and a food truck. audubonnatureinstitute.org MOVIES AND MUSIC ON THE LAWN. BREC’s Baton Rouge Gallery, City Park, at 8:30 p.m. Tonight’s movie is The Phantom Carriage with music played by Hartman/Madere/Livingston. batonrougegallery.org RECYCLED READS. 3434 North Blvd. at Acadian Thwy., behind the Baton Rouge General. Enter on Westmoreland Drive from 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Book sale. (225) 231-3741 SHARK WEEK CELEBRATION. LASM from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Celebrate the end of Shark Week with ocean-themed planetarium shows and movies. lasm.org TYKE HYKE. Woman’s Hospital from 9-10:15 a.m. Prepare your three year old for your hospital stay. Cost is $25. womans.org WAGS AND WHISKERS GALA. Hemingbough, St. Francisville, from 6-9 p.m. Includes a silent auction, Smooch a Pooch, and a wine roulette wheel. Children welcome. Tickets are $25. bontempstix.com

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ACADIAN DAY. St. John the Baptist Catholic Church Activity Center, Brusly, from 2-6 p.m. Includes dancing, music, door prizes, and jambalaya. (225) 336-2422 CASA FIESTA. Renaissance Hotel from 5-8 p.m. Fundraiser with Mexican cuisine, a silent auction, wine pull, photo booth and music. casabr.org FUN DAYZ. BREC’s Liberty Lagoon from noon6:30 p.m. Arts and crafts, games, and creatures. libertylagoon.com ROCKETKIDZ TRIATH-

LON. Zachary Americana YMCA. Event for children ages 6-14. No floaties or training wheels allowed. Registration fee is $35. rocketkidz.com

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LEGO MINDSTORM WORKSHOP. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can build and program the LEGO Mindstorm EV3 kit. (225) 756-1170 NEBULA MUGS. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 6 p.m. Adults can customize mugs with a constellation pattern. Registration required. mylpl.info

31 WEDNESDAY BRING IT LIVE. Raising Cane’s River Center at 7:30 p.m. Features the legendary Coach Dianna Williams and her team. raisingcanesrivercenter. com CASA ORIENTATION. CASA office at 1 p.m. casabr.org HARRY POTTER PARTY. EBR Main Library at 2:30 p.m. Teens can celebrate Harry’s birthday with wand painting, pin the nose on You-Know-Who, snacks, and a House Cup Competition. (225) 231-3750

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20-SOMETHINGS ROCK PAINTING AND RICE KRISPIE TREATS. Bluebonnet Library at 6:30 p.m. Adults can paint a unique design and special message on a rock and enjoy delicious treats. (225) 763-2250 BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Baton Rouge General Hospital, Bluebonnet, from 6-9 p.m. Cost is $30 per couple. brgeneral.org MINI ACRYLIC POUR. Jones Creek Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Teens can pour acrylic to make a sensational art experience. Registration required. (225) 756-1170 TEEN OPEN MIC NITE. Dutchtown Library at 6:30 p.m. Teens can sing or play a favorite song or listen to others perform. (225) 658-1850 TEEN SUMMER READ PARTY. Denham SpringsWalker Library at 5 p.m. and Watson Library at 5:30 p.m. Celebrate the end of the summer reading program with trivia, a scavenger hunt, and a poetry slam. mylpl.info TWEEN SKIN CARE CLASS. The Royal Standard from 10-11:30 a.m. class instructed by Mary Kay Skin Care Consultant, Elise Moore. theroyalstandard.com

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The Relaxa 100: How To Not Relax On Vacation By Cheryl Maguire

t used to be easy to relax. All I needed was to be near a body of water with a towel and my Sony Walkman. As a mom to three children, this scenario is no longer possible. During a recent trip to the beach, a woman said to me that I looked like I was pushing a circus cart due to the multitude of bags and other items hanging off my beach buggy. It took me a half hour to pack all the food and drinks which would rival most doomsday preppers survival stash in their basement. And then, I had to pack the toys, towels, chairs, sunscreen, and an umbrella into my massive mobile wagon. To reclaim some sanity, I booked a family vacation to a tropical paradise. I dreamed of this trip while helping my kids with homework, driving them to their various after-school activities and arbitrating the latest disagreement between siblings. Anytime I felt stressed, I would envision myself basking in the sun with my music. The day arrived. The kids wanted to go to the pool and I was determined to unwind. I grabbed three towels to make sure my chair was properly cushioned. The fact I wouldn’t need to launder it later, made me reach for another one. No laundry for a full week! Oh, the thought brought a smile to my face and caused my hand to extend for yet one more. The kids ran into the water. I carefully positioned all five towels on the chair. And then the moment finally arrived, I laid down, closed my eyes, and inhaled the sweet humid air. The hot sun covered me like a warm blanket. 72

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Then, the rays were blocked by something. Was it a cloud? Water drops descended onto my arm. Was it rain? No, it wasn’t rain, but it was definitely a storm, some might even liken it to a hurricane. My children were hovering by my side, blocking my sunlight and dripping pool water all over me and my five towels. Panic set in. I thought to myself, “They didn’t last in the pool for long. Maybe I shouldn’t have spent so much time setting up my chair with all those towels. Please don’t ask me to go into the pool. I don’t want to get wet. Gasp!” My daughters asked me in unison, “Mom do you want to ride on the Relaxa 100? You relax on the raft while we push you around!” I was skeptical. This sounded relaxing, but that is an oxymoron, children and relaxing. Despite my hesitation, I reluctantly agreed. I turned to my husband and said, “Quick, get the camera.” This was an unnatural event occurring, which needed to be captured on film, sort of like seeing Bigfoot or the Loch Ness monster. No one would believe you if you told them about it. We posed for a picture by the stairs. Me, sitting uncomfortably on the raft, wondering if I would fall into the pool, while my darling daughters smiled standing on both sides, excited for their upcoming endeavor. “Mom you have to lay down and relax,” one of my daughters said. Succumbing to the instructions, I leaned back against the raft, nervous about what might happen next.

The arguing began immediately. “No, this way. I want to go this way.” My older daughter ignored her and went in the exact opposite direction. Since she is stronger, the raft went towards her chosen path. I couldn’t see her face, but I could tell there was a smirk on it. Louder now and in my ear, “You are going the wrong way.” “Um. . . this is not relaxing,” I said. She continued to go the “wrong way.” “You need to go over here,” my youngest daughter demanded. Water splashed in my face as she forcefully attempted to steer the sinking ship, I mean raft. “I thought this was called the Relaxa 100; there is nothing relaxing about this!” I said louder. “We need to show her the other side of the pool.” “Does it really matter which side we go to? The pool is shaped like a square. Isn’t the definition of a square mean that all sides are the same?” I asked, trying to defuse the situation. “No, this side is better over here.” “Whatever, this is boring,” said my older daughter and then she swam away. For maybe one minute, I floated in the pool, sun pouring over me, the only sound I heard was a cool breeze. Then, the silence was broken with, “The ride is over, Mom.” My daughter pushed the raft to the stairs with such force I ended up being rolled off into the cold water. Where was this massive muscle when her sister was at the helm? Of course, I got wet, did I really think I would stay dry in a pool filled with children? I thought to myself, “At least I didn’t have to wash all those towels. And there was still a week ahead of me, maybe just maybe, I would be able to lay uninterrupted in the sun for five minutes. It’s a vacation, I can dream. ■

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