Baton Rouge Parents Magazine Oct 2021 by Family Resource Group

OCTOBER 2021

T H E M A G A Z I N E T H AT B AT O N R O U G E FA M I L I E S L I V E B Y

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How to Date

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ROUGH PLAY OR BULLYING?

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OCTOBER 2021 • ISSUE 375

DETECTING DYSLEXIA

Understand the learning disability and how it affects students. BY JANNEAN DIXON, M.ED

LEARNING ESSENTIALS

Check out these local academic resources for students. BY BRPM

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DEPARTMENTS IN EVERY ISSUE

10 CONNECTING 12 A NOTE FROM MOM 50 THINGS TO DO 59 MARKETPLACE 60 THE LAST WORD 62 SNAPSHOTS

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IS IT ROUGH PLAY OR BULLYING?

How to see the difference and know when to intervene. BY ANITA RAJEAN WALKER

REKINDLING THE FLAMES Photo by Kleinpeter Photography 2020-21 Cover Kid Marquell B.

Why dating your spouse is so important. BY EMILY DREZ

RSV WAVE STARTS EARLY

14 COMMUNITY 18 EDUCATION 19 ONE AMAZING KID

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24 DAD NEXT DOOR 26 THRIVE 28 FAITH

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44 A DAY IN THE LIFE OF DAD 46 OUT & ABOUT 48 THINGS WE LOVE

Learn all about RSV and its early diagnoses this season. BY DR. JAMES WAYNE JR.

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Look for the pumpkin in Things to Do to find Halloween events your family can attend this month.

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2020-21 Cover Kid Sage H. enjoys doing cartwheels, dancing, swimming, reading, and cooking. When she grows up, she hopes to become a veterinarian because she loves animals. Her favorite animal is a tiger. Sage has a big heart and always wants to help others in need. She’s bubbly, outgoing, and always in a cheerful mood.

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THE MAGAZINE THAT BATON ROUGE FAMILIES LIVE BY

MEET OUR TEAM AMY PLAISANCE

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BRANDON FOREMAN Publisher

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Describe parenthood using only movie titles. “One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest.” – Tanya L. “The Hunger Games. They’re always hungry!” – Laurie B.

“It’s a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World.” – Gay B. “Home Alone.” – Jami R. “Clueless.” – Lynn B.

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“The Usual Suspects.” – Christine T.

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“Groundhog Day.” – Christine V.

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Have you ever thought that the title of your favorite movie also describes parenthood in a nutshell? This month, we wanted to hear what movie titles our parents would use to describe the life of a parent. While not all of these are their favorite movies, we still got quite a laugh at some of the movies that were chosen. Here’s what they had to say.

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a note from mom On Top of the World

O U know, when I think about taking a vacation, it usually includes my feet in the sand, listening to the ocean, lots of sunscreen, and watching my kids play in the waves. I am a beach momma and will go any chance I can get. However, my husband recently had a board meeting he had to attend in Wyoming. What was I going to do in Wyoming while he worked? Everyone said, “You have to go.” Everyone would also say it’s the most amazing place and it’s on their bucket list to visit, but seriously? Jackson Hole, Wyoming? After a little research and soul searching, I decided it was best to go on this week-long adventure with my husband. Let me tell you, this place is magestic! From the moment we got off the airplane, we were surrounded by mountains, and wildlife was everywhere. As our Uber took us to the hotel, we just took in the scenery, barely saying a word except an occasional, “Wow, look how gorgeous.” You know, I don’t think my husband and I have had a vacation alone for seven days straight since before we had kids. It was so nice to just enjoy time with each other without hearing, “Mom, momma, MOM!” While he worked, I found stuff to do, from white-water rafting, wine tastings, driving up mountains, and exploring Yellowstone National Park. I had never done anything like this before. I was not looking forward to leaving the amazing weather and beautiful scenery. I guess what I am trying to say is, your relationship with your spouse needs times like these. I know it is a struggle to get the kids taken care of with keeping all of their after school or school activities covered, but your children watch your relationship and they learn from you. When you are in a healthy, happy relationship, I believe they will seek the same in their future. Thank you KK and Papaw for keeping my crew for our trip.

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Email amylynn@brparents.com to tell me about the topics you’d like to see in future issues.

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community BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PRESENTS PHILADANCO! Baton Rouge Ballet Theatre’s 2021-22 season officially begins this month with two thrilling performances by Philadanco! Philadanco! is a Philadelphia-based company that has been instrumental in breaking barriers and building bridges across cultural divides in the dance world, and the dancers are set to take the stage on Sunday, October 17 at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. at Manship Theatre at the Shaw Center for the Arts. The Philadanco! dancers are among the best in the world, providing a musical experience that is often described as “a brilliant mix of skill, energy, and artistry.” They’re committed to empowering youth with essential developmental and leadership skills that facilitate achievement and success in the world of dance and life. Tickets for the performances are $30-55. ■ manshiptheatre.org

BELLA BOWMAN FOUNDATION TEAMS UP WITH LSU

After their daughter, Bella, passed away from brain stem necrosis, the Bella Bowman Foundation was created by Trey and Kim Bowman to support families through the struggles of having a child diagnosed with brain cancer. The Foundation’s mission is to further pediatric cancer research, and so, the Foundation recently presented a $75,000 pledge to LSU’s research group to support the next phase of a research study that aims to understand rare but fatal side effects following cancer therapy. “Part of our donation will have an impact on LSU student researchers with funding needed to support their research and further their careers and passion to spearhead the fight against pediatric cancer,” says Trey Bowman. ■ bellabowman.org

SPACE RACERS TRAVEL ON INSPIRATION4

The world’s first all-civilian mission to orbit had some unique passengers–a handful of STEM toys. Space Race, LLC, the global production company that specializes in children’s programming and educational entertainment, sent a few toys on Inspiration4. The toys represent five characters from the company’s animated STEM series, Space Racers. The toys are being auctioned for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. “It is an honor to take St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital along on this journey to space and support its current multi-billion dollar expansion plan to accelerate research advances and save more children worldwide,” said Commander Jared Isaacman before the launch. ■ stjude.org/inspiration4 14

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BATON ROUGE ZOO WELCOMES BABY GIRAFFE

Let the celebrations begin! BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo recently announced the birth of a female reticulated giraffe. The calf was born to an 8-year-old, second-time mother, Rosie, and a 15-year-old father, Rowan, and she appears to be progressing as expected. As a species, the reticulated giraffe is considered “Endangered” in the wild. “Our keeper, curator and veterinary staff are incredibly skilled and are monitoring the mother and calf closely. This expert care and supervision will hopefully lead to good outcomes. The progress of the calf over the coming few days and weeks will be crucial,” says Phil Frost, Zoo Director. The Zoo participates in conservation giving to help protect this species in the wild and the community can help, too, by visiting them online. ■ brzoo.org

OCTOBER IS BULLYING PREVENTION MONTH Show unity for kindness, acceptance, and inclusion by wearing orange for Unity Day on Wednesday, October 20. Unity Day is held during Bullying Prevention Month in October. This special day encourages people to wear orange in order to send a visible message that no child should ever experience bullying. Want to show your support? All you have to do is wear orange, whether as your shirt, shoelaces, sunglasses, or socks. If you don’t have anything orange to wear, you can visit Pacer’s National Bullying Prevention Center to download their Unity Day badges that help spread the message. Once you’re ready, snap a photo of you in your orange and tag your social media post with #UnityDay2021 and @PACER_NBPC. ■ pacer.org

URGENT NEED FOR CASA VOLUNTEERS

Providing hope to an abused child is crucial, and the need for CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) volunteers is more urgent than ever. CASA children have already been traumatized by abuse and neglect, and now, many face increased anxieties due to Hurricane Ida and COVID-19. The first step to becoming a CASA volunteer is to attend a 30-minute virtual orientation session. The sessions in October will be held on Tuesday, October 5 at 3 p.m.; Saturday, October 16 at 10 a.m.; Monday, October 18 at 5:30 p.m.; and Thursday, October 28 at 11:30 a.m. To register for an orientation, visit them online and click on Volunteer at the top, or email volunteer@casabr.org with any questions. ■ casabr.org B R PA R E N T S . C O M | OCTOBER 2 0 2 1

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LOUISIANA AUTHOR PUBLISHES CHILDREN’S BOOK

After reading books with her sons, Carencro native Ashley Comeaux Tadayeski recalls them always flipping back through the pages to ask questions about the pictures in the book. This curiosity sparked her creation of the Max and Leo Adventure Series and the start of her company, Max & Leo Books, LLC. Her first book, Do You Want to Come to the Zoo With Me? was published in May, and the second, Do You Want to Come to the Farm With Me? will be released this fall. In the books, the reader is introduced to Max, an excited child who describes his adventures in vivid detail, answering even the most curious child’s questions along the way. The first book is available now. ■ maxandleobooks.com

OCHSNER BR OPENS NEW URGENT CARE

Finding care that is close to home is important, and with the help of Ochsner Baton Rouge, it’s a little easier. Ochsner Baton Rouge recently announced the opening of Ochsner Urgent Care–Arlington Marketplace in Baton Rouge, near the intersection of Burbank Drive and Lee Drive, close to the LSU campus. The opening was pushed up in order to provide a vital community need. Most services are available at the site, including treatment for heat-related illness (with IV), cuts needing stitches, broken bones requiring x-ray and COVID-19 testing (both PCR and rapid tests). To make an appointment with Ochsner, call or visit them online. ■ (225) 761-5200 or ochsner.org/ batonrouge

VISIT BATON ROUGE LAUNCHES FRIENDS PASS Baton Rouge has so much to offer, if only you know where to look. In order to encourage visitors and locals to get out and explore, Visit Baton Rouge has launched a Friends Pass, a new program that offers deals and incentives at Baton Rouge businesses. The mobile-friendly passport showcases the best of the Baton Rouge region. “For a while, we’ve been searching for ways to attract more visitors and even get our locals out to explore the city,” says Paul Arrigo, President and CEO of Visit Baton Rouge. “We hope this first pass serves as a start of something new and exciting in Baton Rouge, especially since the pandemic has taken a toll on our hospitality sector. We would love everyone to sign up for the pass because when you get out and support local businesses, that also benefits our city as a whole. At the end of the day, we’re all in this together.” ■ visitbatonrouge.com

EXXONMOBIL CONTRIBUTES $500,000 TO RELIEF EFFORTS

Preparing for hurricanes is something any Louisianian knows how to do, but navigating through the storm’s effects isn’t always easy. To help, ExxonMobil contributed $500,000 toward relief efforts to those affected by Hurricane Ida. The assistance will support local nonprofit organizations through grants and the donation of gasoline and diesel from ExxonMobil’s Baton Rouge refinery to healthcare workers and the local school system. “We commend the organizations and individuals working tirelessly to care for Baton Rouge and other affected communities, and hope that our contributions will help provide meaningful assistance and comfort to those in need,” says Baton Rouge Refinery Manager David Oldreive. ■ exxonmobil.com 16

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USS KIDD GALLEY REOPENS

For those itching for a historical experience in Baton Rouge, the USS KIDD Veterans Museum has recently reopened the Ship’s Galley. A galley is a shipboard kitchen, and during the galley’s time in service, the USS KIDD’s galley was used to prepare three meals a day for over 300 Sailors. While the space looks a lot smaller than what you would expect to see in a modern kitchen, the crew who used the galley managed to utilize the space and

work as a team to feed everyone. KIDD’s galley has been in the process of restoration for nearly two years with support from a grant from Tin Can Sailors, Inc., and now, it officially returns to the public tour route. USS KIDD Veterans Museum is open daily from 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. ■ usskidd.com

WOMAN’S ADDS TO EXPERT TEAM

Woman’s Hospital is known for providing excellent care to all of its patients due to its exceptional staff members. Recently, Woman’s Hospital expanded their team, welcoming Renee Cowan, MD, MPH, and Evan Smith, MD, to its gynecologic oncology team. “Woman’s Hospital has a wealth of experience in treating women’s specific cancers, and adding Drs. Cowan and Smith will allow us to provide more women in our region with life-saving care,” says Dr. Anthony Evans, medical director of gynecologic oncology at Woman’s. “They both come to us from the prestigious Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, and we’re thrilled with the level of expertise they add to our practice.” ■ womans.org/gynoncology B R PA R E N T S . C O M | OCTOBER 2 0 2 1

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education PEN PALS WITH THE SISTERS OF ST. JOSEPH

To celebrate the Year of St. Joseph, Sacred Heart of Jesus School’s third grade class continued their pen pal relationship with the Sisters of St. Joseph at the Mount St. Mary Convent in Wichita. The Sisters are significant in Sacred Heart School’s history because in 1929, they assumed the direction of one of Baton Rouge’s first Diocesan parochial schools, Sacred Heart. Students now in the third grade began writing letters to the sisters in March of last year for the Feast of St. Joseph. Since then, their pen pal relationships have grown. During the first week of school, students were thrilled to receive letters that arrived while they were out of school and couldn’t wait to start writing to tell the sisters all about their summer.

EPISCOPAL CLASS OF 2021 RETURNS FOR YEARBOOK SIGNING

Members of the 2021 Episcopal School of Baton Rouge graduating class stopped by the school’s athletic field house one last time before departing for college. The former students were invited on campus for the annual fall yearbook signing celebration hosted by the Episcopal Alumni Association. The new graduates now move on to universities across the country. While at Episcopal, the class achieved numerous milestones, including 12 National Merit Finalists, three Commended Scholars and more than $10 million in scholarships awarded. More than 60 members of the class returned for the yearbook signing celebration which is hosted each year before students leave for university.

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EBR CELEBRATES NATIONAL HISPANIC HERITAGE MONTH

The East Baton Rouge Parish School System is celebrating National Hispanic Heritage Month with a district-wide coloring contest. Students are encouraged to download free coloring sheets from the school system’s website, color them, and share their finished artwork by posting them on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter and using the hashtag #EBRcontest. A winner will be selected from each platform based on which photo has the most likes respectively. The deadline for submissions are 11:59 p.m. CST on Friday, October, 15, the last day of the recognized month-long celebration that acknowledges the influence and contributions of Hispanic Americans. Winners will be announced on EBRPSS social media on Monday, October 18. 18

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The 2021 FIRST LEGO League Virtual Open International Greece–International Robotics & Innovation Championship was recently held virtually. Almost 2,000 students from 200 school teams representing 115 countries and territories participated in the event, including students from Baton Rouge International School. The BRIS Technology Team was one of the top two teams that qualified to represent the state of Louisiana in the world championship. The BRIS Tech Team members of GO122 BRIS Falcons Team AlphaZero are Chloe Carver, Fermin Torres-Novoa, Joaquin Torres-Novoa, Nathan Pettrey , Nico Bush, and Nicolas Grinstin. Team coaches/mentors are Mr. Abraham Delos Reyes and Ms. Jessica Dunegan.

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amazing kid A star is born in Hadley Rinaudo. The 14-year-old was selected to compete in the Louisiana Film Festival with a film she co-wrote and starred in, Bamboo House. The film began as a monologue that Jency Hogan, her acting coach, encouraged her to write. “Bamboo House is about my grandfather, our relationship, and the bamboo house we created as a family in my grandparents’ backyard. It started from just a monologue, and around that time of writing, he passed, so that’s what I ended up writing the monologue about,” shares Hadley. The Festival was her first, so while she was nervous, she was also excited. Hadley hopes to continue pursuing acting and writing, and she even plans to produce a short film with her acting group. Hadley knew that she wanted to dip her toes into acting after watching Margot Robbie in I, Tonya. Robbie’s performance inspired Hadley to look into her own performance, learning how to really develop characters. She’s currently watching Meryl Streep’s most iconic films and shares that her favorite show is The Crown. Hadley can be described as mature, understanding, and very self-aware, something she credits in part to acting. She says, “Through acting, our job is to analyze characters and be able to see through people, and I think acting has made me more self aware. Even if I can’t relate to what my friends are going through, I can sympathize a little bit. I’m able to figure people out, which is nice.” To us, Hadley is one amazing kid. ■ DO YOU HAVE ONE AMAZING KID? Email: education@brparents.com B R PA R E N T S . C O M | OCTOBER 2 0 2 1

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CRISTO REY HOLDS DRAFT DAY

Cristo Rey Baton Rouge Franciscan High School streamed its fifth annual Draft Day via FaceBook this year. This annual event is held to reveal the students’ job placements in Cristo Rey’s Corporate Work Study Program (CWSP) for the 2021-2022 school year. Through the program, every Cristo Rey student takes a full course load of college preparatory coursework for four years, as he or she participates one day each week in a four-year CWSP to fund the majority of their tuition. Students work in job-sharing teams of four, and their academic schedules are structured so that students work without missing any classes. Cristo Rey students have the opportunity to work at over 40 different CWSP partners in the region.

SPANISH LAKE PRIMARY RECEIVES SENSORY ROOM

Students who have exceptional needs at Spanish Lake Primary recently received a space to help make public school not so overwhelming. The school’s new Sensory Room was provided by the Ascension Fund. The space provides the students a calm place for them to decompress and prepare for learning, and time in the room can be included in a student’s behavioral plan. Funds for the grant were provided by Vulcan Materials through the Ascension Fund. The Ascension Fund is a nonprofit established by the Gonzales Rotary Club as an instrument for private sector leaders to invest directly in the work of individual teachers and schools through grants for innovative ideas and programs in Ascension Parish public schools.

LIVINGSTON IMPLEMENTS STEM LEARNING PROGRAMS

Livingston Parish Public Schools (LPPS) is partnering with the LSU Gordon A. Cain Center’s STEM Pathways Program to integrate STEM learning at the middle and elementary levels through a pilot program in the Denham Springs High School feeder system. The pilot program will target 12 schools in the parish–nine elementary schools, grades PreK-5, and three middle schools, grades 6-8. Instructional Supervisor Kelly LaBauve said school leaders began working with education consultants last summer to design courses and develop strategies for the grade levels. Two courses will be offered at the middle school level, and STEM learning will be embedded within the primary subject fields of learning at the elementary school grade levels. 20

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VIPS’ FIRST DAY HELPERS VISIT SCHOOLS

Volunteers In Public Schools (VIPS) recently welcomed Mayor President Sharon Weston Broome as a school partner and First Day Helper at Buchanan Elementary. Each year, VIPS mobilizes volunteers and community entities to assist on the first day of school, greeting returning and new students, assisting parents in the carpool lane, escorting students to class, helping in the office, and making sure students see a lot of smiling faces on their first day. The event was also held at a variety of schools in the parish. VIPS is an independent nonprofit that fosters student success and builds support for public education. For those who are interested in becoming a volunteer, visit them online. ■ vipsbr.org

ST. MICHAEL’S FALL HONORS AWARDS

Students and faculty of St. Michael the Archangel High School gathered to celebrate the efforts and hard work of their student body by recognizing those who have excelled in the areas of service and academics. These students have dedicated themselves to their studies and, through diligence and hard work, have achieved a particular goal or reached a designated standard. Students who received top awards include Melinda Jones, The Woodmen of the World Award; Jerry Ostrander, Robert A. Bogan Award; Richard Dang, Greater Baton Rouge State Fair Scholarship; Julia Miller, Kay Rabalais Scholarship; Nicholas Johnson, Leadership Scholarship; and Caleb Wiese and Julia Coffey, Barefoot Pedals Scholarship.

NEW ASSISTANT PRINCIPAL NAMED

Dineska McZeal has recently been named as an Assistant Principal of Donaldsonville High School. A native of Lutcher, McZeal is a former electrical engineer who worked at Lucent Technologies. She began her educational career as a mathematics teacher at Lutcher High School and continued to serve in the St. James Parish Public School System for six additional years at St. James High School. “Ms. McZeal is moving into a position of instructional leadership, administrative leadership, and organizational leadership as an assistant principal at Donaldsonville High School. We are so grateful for her courage and desire to serve as a school leader,” says Ascension Public Schools Superintendent David Alexander.

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BY DR. JAMES WAYNE JR. PEDIATRICS SECTION HEAD, OCHSNER BATON ROUGE

S V is a common re-

spiratory virus that usually spikes in the cooler months of winter and early spring. This year has been somewhat unique with the spike starting in the summer.

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Many healthcare providers believe the early start may be related to COVID-19 mitigation measures. While masks and social distancing slowed down RSV last winter, the virus returned earlier this year a few months ahead of the usual season. Most children who develop RSV infections recover uneventfully from what appears to be a common cold. However, RSV can be serious and require hospital admission in certain cases.

TYPICAL RSV SYMPTOMS INCLUDE:

-Nasal congestion and discharge -Coughing -Increased effort to breathe -Wheezing (a high-pitched whistling sound made while breathing) -Poor eating and drinking -Fever -Lethargy -Irritability -Cyanosis, a bluish discoloration of the skin -Apnea, or cessation of breathing, in infants

WHO IS MOST AT RISK?

Even healthy children can experience severe RSV infections. However, those most at risk are infants and those with

a history of baseline lung disease–especially infants with chronic lung disease or prematurity–congenital heart disease, immunocompromised status, and neuromuscular disease.

IS RSV CONTAGIOUS?

RSV is highly contagious. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, nearly all children have at least one infection before the age of

Who is most at risk? two. The virus spreads through coughing or sneezing. It can live on surfaces and on our hands, so it spreads when a person touches something contaminated and then touches their nose or eyes. Symptoms show up four to six days after exposure. It takes about three to eight days to get over the virus, though it can take significantly longer in some groups like infants and the immunosuppressed.

DIAGNOSIS AND TREATMENT

Diagnosis of RSV is usually based on symptoms and a physician’s examination. Nasal swab tests are used if needed. Currently, there are no medications that cure RSV–antibiotics are ineffective since RSV is a viral infection. Instead, RSV is treated with symptom management like: -Fluids, possibly an IV, to prevent or treat dehydration -Nasal suctioning of secretions -Supplemental oxygen or more advanced respiratory support, if necessary

PREVENTION

Proper handwashing is crucial, along with separating infected children from siblings and family members, crowds and, if possible, daycare settings. Secondhand smoke exposure should be eliminated as well. Palivizumab (Synagis) is an injection of immunoglobulin against RSV that can be given to certain high-risk populations to prevent severe RSV disease. This is given once per month from November to March. ■

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dad next door Tim Houk BY EMILY DREZ PHOTO BY KIRSTEN WAGUESPACK

OCCUPATION: CEO OF THE HOUK GROUP WIFE: TAYLOR CHILDREN: TINLEY, 4, & TORI AND TATUM, 2 HOBBIES: COOKING, READING, TRAVELING, EXERCISING

I M Houk is a busy guy. Above his roles as a realtor and the CEO of The Houk Group, Tim finds his role as a father to three girls to be the most important. He wants a close relationship with his daughters more than anything, and his effort is obvious. From cooking with them, to taking his four year old on dates, to bringing all three girls wherever he and his wife, Taylor, go, Tim makes sure he is intentional. What does a normal day look like for you? TIM: I get up around 4:45-5 in the morning to work out; then, I come home, shower, help with kids, get breakfast ready, and go to work at 7:30. If I’m not picking the kids up from school, I’m home for 5:30. I spend time with my kids until they go to bed at 7:30, and my wife and I hang out before we go to bed at 10. What’s something a lot of people don’t know about you? TIM: I used to own a food truck called Salvation Station that served gourmet wraps and paninis with a Louisiana flare, but I stopped because running multiple businesses was exhausting. What are the joys and challenges of raising your children? TIM: I love watching them grow and interact with each other and the world, along with their perspective on things. Spending a week together without power during the hurricane really changed their dynamic. I also love teaching them things about the world and showing them how to cook. They want to help me cook every day. It is difficult to find quality time with them, though, especially with the twins. They couldn’t be more different. One is a wild child and the other is just Little Miss Princess Parenting different personalities needs balance and takes some thought. Kids are kids, and they have bad days, but don’t we all? How would you describe yourself as a father? TIM: Strict, but understanding. I can understand what’s going on and still be strict about it. I am also systematic; they behave better with a system such as strict bedtimes. I don’t want to just give them anything they want, though they do have that power. I just can’t let them know that. What do you like to do as a family? TIM: We love to do art, to cook, and to travel. By the time our 24

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You get one shot at being a parent. Every phase is different, and even if it’s a short amount of time, you still need to pay attention to them. twins were born, Tinlee had been on, like, 11 flights. We love to take them everywhere with us. We also take a lot of walks and spend time outdoors. I want to have a great relationship with my daughters forever. If I don’t start now, it’ll never start. What’s your favorite thing about being a dad? TIM: I enjoy learning, so I find every day is a new experience for me. What worked a month ago is not necessarily the most efficient way. It’s having to adapt, and it’s fulfilling. I love it. What has parenthood taught you? TIM: Patience. I am not the most patient person, ask my wife. It’s teaching me to be better, and I think it’s making me a better leader. What are some things you hope to teach your children? TIM: Honesty, integrity, respect, to be learning-based, and to seek first to understand. Hard work is another important one for me. What has your job taught you about parenting? TIM: Anything is possible if you set your mind to it, but you have to put in the work, energy, and effort. It has also taught me that people are unique, which makes it important to seek first to understand. What has been your biggest challenge in parenting during the pandemic? TIM: It’s all about balancing life in the insanity of the world and still keeping the right mindset when everything is crazy and tense. We make sure we don’t bring that fear and paranoia into the house. My wife and I are very intentional about leaving all of that at the front door, trying not to vent, and keeping that

energy away. My daughters are resilient and tough, but there’s no reason for them to have to deal with all this. What has been your biggest challenge for your job during the pandemic? TIM: Adapting to the new challenges in the world. Selling real estate virtually... just think about that. The norm changes almost by the week. Hurricanes, spikes in COVID, being a parent, and being there for our clients all at once is a challenge. It takes a lot more time and energy to do what we used to do to help people. The job still needs to get done, pandemic or not, but sometimes we need to pivot if other people’s world changes. What personality trait of yours do your children also have? TIM: They are very curious, I think more than most kids, and I love it even though their questioning drives me crazy sometimes. They also have the biggest hearts, but I’ll give that one to my wife. Any advice for other parents? TIM: Listen to your kids. They are so different, and I know life is so crazy and busy, but you just have to make time to understand each kid and their needs. You get one shot at being a parent. Every phase is different, and even if it’s a short amount of time, you still need to pay attention to them. They have to understand that you’re there to build that connection and keep them close their entire life. You have to start making that time now. I want a relationship with my daughters forever. The world’s a crazy place, so it’s my job to make sure I protect and guide them. ■

Q&A Before I go out, I always check to make sure I have… locked the doors In my fridge, you will always find… roux. My favorite food is... rice and gravy. Favorite artist growing up… Foo Fighters, and it still is. My guilty pleasure is… cereal before bed. The first thing I do when I wake up is... make coffee. My dream travel spot is... Tuscany.

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thrive Finding Joy in Life, No Matter the Circumstances BY SARAH BATROUS PHOTO BY LAUREN ASHTON LIGHTS DESIGN & PHOTOGRAPHY

T isn’t everyday that you get to hear the story of a fighter, but Alex Lohmann certainly is one. She shares her life story in hopes to bring awareness to her rare heart condition and give hope to people afflicted with similar conditions. At 11 hours old, Alex underwent her first open heart surgery.

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Her parents were told that if she did survive the procedure, she may be a vegetable. However, against a zero-to-slim chance of survival, she lived and beat the odds. “God had other plans,” says her mother, Lynn Lohmann. “Saying her life is a miracle is an understatement.” Alex was eventually diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot with absent pulmonary valve, a rare congenital condition where her brain was not receiving oxygenated blood. As a result of the surgery, she was non-verbal for years and struggled to make important checkpoints essential to early childhood development. She underwent several forms of therapy through sensory integration in order for her to learn to communicate. Her parents would trace words on the carpet and repeat lessons until Alex was verbal. Every day was another opportunity for growth, and Alex showed great improvement through using sign language to communicate her needs to her family. “Repetition helped her brain create new pathways for the information,” remarks Lynn, “It helped teach her to survive, to sit up, to eat, to walk, everything.” Growing up, she made plenty of trips for answers to her health struggles. She was ferried from Baton Rouge to New Orleans and then to Boston for consultations with specialists and subsequent surgeries. She was prone to seizures due to her heart defect and had to be fitted with a pacemaker in 2013. Alex’s compromised immune system limited her social interactions, but she was not alone. She was educated with in-home teachers coupled with homeschooling from her mother. She found friendship through her siblings. “I had an older brother and older sister who loved to do things with me,” shares Alex. Now 26, Alex is living a remarkable life. She is a “dog mom” to a long-haired dachshund named Bella and an aunt to twoyear-old Lucy. Prior to COVID, on Sundays, she would help out at St. John’s United Methodist Church as an acolyte, lighting candles and working in the church’s pantry. Over the years, she has picked up several skills to express herself. She loves creating art through diamond painting, which combines cross-stitching and paint-by-number crafts by gluing rhinestones to a color-coded canvas. The finished product may depict shimmering portraits of animals, nature scenes, and so on. Alex’s most recent diamond painting was that of a tiger. Most impressively, she learned to ski with the help of her father, Jerome, who once taught skiing. Today, she boasts the skill level of a black-diamond skier through Breckenridge Outdoor Education Center’s adaptive skiing and snowboarding program. From her decade of experience there, her coach believes she could compete in the Special Olympics, an organization that allows people with intellectual and physical disabilities to compete in Olympics-style competitions. Her other hobbies include cooking and baking which result in the most rewarding part: tasting your creation! While Alex delights in chicken alfredo, fresh-baked cookies and Reese’s chocolate, she also enjoys eating her signature dish, corn soufflé, the most. Alex’s growth from such a frightening beginning is incredible, and her story is one meant to inspire others to not give up on finding joy in life, no matter the circumstances. “This child is always happy,” says Lynn, “She’s just a joy to be around.” ■

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Finding God Amidst a Storm BY ANTHONY BUI PHOTO BY DOUGLAS MILLER

T is hard for anyone to understand why there is so much evil and heartache in this world. Everytime we turn on the news, it seems like something is going on. Most recently, Hurricane Ida has ravaged the state of Louisiana. Cities like Hammond and New Orleans were drastically affected with thousands of people left without power and running water as these once beautiful and vibrant cities are left broken. It isn’t a surprise that some people during this time are crying out to God, pleading for an answer to such a difficult question. Why is there so much evil in this world? Can the God that once calmed a raging storm not do the same with Hurricane Ida? Is there a point in still worshipping a God that allows this much heartache and destruction? Right about now, the person reading this is expecting me to answer these questions with such convincing arguments backed up by a list of scripture references. I am not a renowned Christian apologist, and the truth is that I don’t know. An even greater truth is that it is okay. The Bible expresses repeatedly how human wisdom is folly and true wisdom comes from the fear of God. In these difficult times, we like to rely on our own earthly wisdom (1 Corinthians 3:19). That can easily lead us down a road full of anger and bitterness. In these moments, it is vital to

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The Bible expresses repeatedly how human wisdom is folly and true wisdom comes from the fear of God. In these difficult times, we like to rely on our own earthly wisdom. acknowledge these emotions. It is okay to be angry; it is okay to be sad. God does not expect us to not be affected at all. Being a Christian does not mean that life will be all rainbows and sunshine. As a matter of fact, it’s the complete opposite (1 Peter 1:6). There will be times in your life where you find it difficult to follow God with a smile. You are still called to follow though. The decision of who is ultimately up to each individual. In these difficult times, is one willing to deny their own earthly wisdom and pick up their cross and follow God (Matthew 16:24-26)? This question might not make sense to someone who is going through a monumentally horrible trial in their life. It is no secret that Hurricane Ida was awful. People lost everything: their homes, power for the next month, jobs, and even lives. It is hard to see what good could come from any of this. The truth is that we might not even realize the lessons we gain from these trials. They may not even become known until way later down the road, but God has a unique way of utilizing these trials in ways that we can’t even begin to comprehend (James 1:2-4). There have been many difficult trials that I’ve faced myself. Some of these, I have yet to even understand how it has helped me to grow. For some, it took me years before I realized the fruit of that trial. What it comes down to is faith in God and in the people that he has placed around you. As cliche and cheesy as it may sound, you are not alone nor will you ever be. You are united in a body of believers who look out for each other, care for each other, laugh with each other, and even cry with each other (Acts 2:42-48). ■

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Detecting Dyslexia

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O T being able to

read stinks, just ask any of the up to 1 in 5 students who live with dyslexia. Lizzy D., a local student with dyslexia, remembers asking her mom, “Why am I not as smart as my classmates?” Dyslexia has nothing to do with being smart. Most who suffer with dyslexia have absolutely normal intelligence, but those with this learning disability can really struggle with not only learning to read, but the stigmas that come with it.

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WHAT IS DYSLEXIA? With October being Dyslexia Awareness Month, here are some things you should know. Although there is no known cause of dyslexia, it is widely considered to be genetic. It is a learning disability that makes it difficult to learn to read or interpret words and/or symbols, write, and spell. People with dyslexia usually read slowly, laboriously, and with many mistakes. The amount of energy spent decoding the words, along with the choppy reading, can negatively impact comprehension of what is being read. Dyslexia, however, does not just impact reading. Math skills can also be affected by dyslexia. WHAT ARE THE SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS? 32

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Dyslexia can manifest as a host of signs and symptoms and can range in severity from person to person. Some young children experience delayed speech. As early as preschool, students may show challenges with phonemic awareness– the ability to decipher and manipulate sounds in a word, such as identifying rhyming words. Matching sounds to letters can also be a challenge, as can having trouble remembering sequences such as the alphabet or when counting. For some students, the signs and symptoms don’t show up until later when the skills required become more advanced. Kindergarten through second grade students can experience challenges with letters and symbols that look alike (p/q, b/d, P/9) or sound like (v/f, d/t). Children may have difficulty

separating the sounds in a word, or blending the sounds together to create a word. Applying spelling rules can be hard to remember. Word substitutions can also present a challenge when reading, such as reading house as horse. Students in third through fifth grades may show difficulty decoding words, skipping words, quickly recognizing sight words, reading fluently, using proper grammar, spelling, writing, and understanding sentence structure. Inconsistencies can also become frustrating for these students, such as spelling a word correctly in one sentence, but incorrectly in the next. Students may struggle to retell a story or answer questions about key events. At this age, students may start to avoid reading aloud to others, become frustrated when reading, or shut down when asked to read. This is also the age that dyslexia can begin negatively affecting grades and students’ sense of self-efficacy and intelligence.

Tweens, teens, and adults can also feel the effects of dyslexia. Some have trouble understanding abbreviations. Reading may be slow and feel like a lot of work. The same passage may need to be read repeatedly to understand the content. Spelling, writing, and organizing sequential thoughts may continue to be a challenge into adulthood for people with dyslexia. Outside of academics, people with dyslexia sometimes struggle with memory, social interactions, and stress management. Their sense of self, self-esteem, intelligence, and ability can also be affected. Children with dyslexia don’t simply out-grow it, but they can be taught skills and strategies to manage its effects. “Sometimes people don’t understand dyslexia. It would take us until midnight to write 20 spelling words, and then, points would be taken off because it was messy. Teachers would call him lazy and sloppy, and he just sunk into a hole. I wish there was a way for more people to know dyslexia is more than just trouble reading,” shares mom Laura M. WHERE CAN WE GET HELP? Getting help for a dyslexic child at school can be challenging. There are two routes that parents typically take to obtain services for a child they believe may be dyslexic: the public route or the private. The public route involves going through the public school system. School districts have screening and testing instruments to determine if a student is at risk for dyslexia. Once determined,

administer the assessments to the child. Parents who go the private route may have to wait several months for an appointment to have their child evaluated and often have to carry some of the costs, as educational testing is rarely covered by insurance. Dr. Franziska NoackLeSage, a clinical psychologist at Frey Psychology, shares, “Testing usually involves an intelligence test to determine a child’s cognitive ability (i.e. intelligence) and a test of achievement (i.e., academics) that provides additional information about a child’s reading, writing, and/or mathematics ability. A diagnosis is given when a child’s academic ability in one or more areas is significantly below what is expected based on their intellectual functioning, despite the child having received effective academic instruction. While not always necessary, a comprehensive psychoeducational evaluation can be valuable to not only determine the presence of dyslexia, but also determine the presence of other emotional and behavioral disorders that can co-occur with or mimic dyslexia symptoms. For example, some children with ADHD can have challenges with reading comprehension because of attention deficits, rather than an inability to understand what they are reading. On the other hand, children and adolescents can also present with diagnoses such as ADHD, anxiety or mood disorders, in addition to dyslexia. A qualified clinician can provide answers to such questions to provide an individualized treatment plan

inhibit them from showing their knowledge on the subject matter at hand. While having exams read aloud is another accommodation that can be of help for young children or children with severe deficits, this support should be temporary and faded out over time. A general rule of establishing accommodations is to individualize it to the specific child and within their zone of proximal development,” shares Dr. NoackLeSage. SHOULD YOU FOLLOW THROUGH AT SCHOOL? “I was very disappointed and upset with the level of unprofessionalism in the school’s previous meeting and administration,” shares local mom Brittney B. about her experience. “I felt that they were not listening to me as a mother, a person with dyslexia, a previous and now current educator, and a person with the right to request testing. It made me believe that I was not a good enough advocate for my daughter. I had to watch my child get frustrated and feel like a failure because of the difficulty she had when intervention should have been available. I truly don’t know what we would have done without her third grade teacher, who was great with getting her what she needed. I believe that educators should not have a preconceived notion that ‘signs’ don’t show before third grade and children should not have to struggle like my daughter did.” If you feel that your child requires an IAP or IEP for his or her dyslexia and are not having success with the school, it is

What... Where... How the school can meet with the child’s parents to determine if the student would qualify for an Individualized Accommodation Plan (IAP) covered by Section 504. In some cases, the dyslexia is so severe that the student may qualify as having a Specific Learning Disability and would receive education through an Individualized Education Program, or IEP, covered under special education services. Going through the public school system is free to the family, but it can take a very long time. One additional option in Baton Rouge, is Louisiana Key Academy, a public charter school designed for students with dyslexia. The private route involves finding a qualified professional, such as a psychologist or dyslexia specialist, who can

that supports the whole child.” Once testing takes place and the family receives the report, that document can be taken to the school and the process for IAP or IEP eligibility can begin. Alternatively, parents can also use the report to enroll their child in a school which specializes in learning disabilities. Local mom Meghan S. shares, “Our son has been at The Brighton School since his diagnosis in first grade and is thriving.” WHAT ARE THE ACCOMMODATIONS? “The most common accommodation for a student with dyslexia, besides individual or small group instruction, is extended time testing, which allows the child to read and comprehend information, so that their learning deficit does not

recommended that an advocate be used to help the family navigate the system. “Early identification and intervention have shown to be of major importance to reduce the impact of dyslexia and other learning disorders,” Dr. NoackLeSage continues. “Within the school system, goals should be consistently re-evaluated and new goals set as the child improves. However, full psychoeducational assessments should also be completed in regular intervals (i.e., about once every three years), to re-assess the child’s performance in comparison to same-age peers and to generate a record that will allow them to access accommodations during standardized testing, such as the ACT, in the future, should they be needed.” ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | O C T O B E R 2 0 2 1

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Essentials

LOCAL ACADEMIC RESOURCES FOR STUDENTS BY BRPM PHOTO BY KLEINPETER PHOTOGRAPHY 2020-21 COVER KID MARQUELL B.

U C C E E D I N G in school

is a lot easier when we provide the right resources to our students. Whether your child is in need of a tutor, needs help with homework, or could use extra help to prepare for the ACT, we have pulled together everything your student needs to thrive this school year.

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HOMEWORK HELP Ascension Parish Library Online resources for test prep, language learning, and skill building. ■ myapl.org

East Baton Rouge Parish Library Provides help in subjects, including geography, languages, math and science. ■ ebrpl.com Homework Louisiana Free online tutoring, test prep and resources provided by the State Library of Louisiana. Services offered in Spanish and Vietnamese. ■ homeworkla.org Livingston Parish Library LPL offers access to databases and tools for homework help, test prep, and skill development. ■ mylpl.info RESOURCES Ascension Public School System Providing parent resources for PreK and Kindergarten students. ■ apsb.org Dyslexia and Instructional Support Services Lab program aims to support students with a diagnosis of dyslexia and students who are in need of Instructional Support Services (ISS). ■ csobr.org Foundation for East Baton Rouge School System The Foundation provides resources for science, technology, engineering, and math career research. ■ foundationebr.org Greater Baton Rouge Learning Disabilities Coalition Creates a hub for organizations who are committed to changing the world for children who have learning disabilities. ■ ldhelp.org Livingston Parish Public Schools Family Resource Center A lending library open to parents of LPPS. Provides educational materials, ACT prep materials and special needs information. ■ lpsb.org ■ (225) 667-1098 Louisiana Department of Education Louisiana Believes provides information so parents can decide the best education for their children. ■ louisianabelieves.com

Suspecting Dyslexia? Janet S. Vosburg, a dyslexia consultant, offers one-hour screenings that show how students process information. ■ (832) 544-7798

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ACT Preparatory Academy A collaboration from LSU, Southern University, 100 Black Men of Metro Baton Rouge, and Baton Rouge Community College. ■ (225) 356-9444 ACT Test Prep Act Test Prep gives free test preparation, along with multiple prep guides, so your student can ace the test. ■ act.org The Extra Point ACT This standardized test prep company specializes in preparing students for the ACT and PSAT with classes and tutoring in Baton Rouge. ■ extrapointact.com Kaplan Test prep for a variety of tests, including SAT, ACT, and GED. ■ kaptest.com LSU Continuing Education ACT prep courses, taught by instructors who know the test better than anyone, prepare students to do their best when it counts. ■ outreach.lsu.edu ■ (225) 578-2500

math, English, science, history, and foreign languages. ■ bestinbr.com ■ (225) 505-6900 CAREducation Tutoring & Educational Services Offers group tutoring, private tutoring, and ACT/SAT courses for K-12 grade levels. ■ (225) 620-6842 Club Z! Tutoring of Baton Rouge Provides in-home and online tutoring services in Baton Rouge, Inniswold, Shenandoah, Old Jefferson, Westminster, Gardere, Oak Hills Place, and Prairieville. ■ clubztutoring.com ■ (225) 372-2573 Gloryland Resources Education Center This nonprofit social services organization, affiliated with Gloryland Baptist Church, offers after-school tutoring and summer enrichment. ■ gercinc.org ■ (225) 356-0577 Mathnasium A math-only learning center, Mathnasium helps kids in grades 1-12 understand math by teaching in a way that makes sense to them. ■ mathnasium.com ■ (225) 753-6284 Peer+Plus, LLC Diagnostic & Tutorial Services Provides psycho-educational evaluations, tutoring, & ACT prep. ■ peerplusonline.com ■ (225) 388-9822

Magnolia Prep Run according to the principles of the Catholic Church, Magnolia Prep provides private tutoring and group courses for the ACT, SAT, and PSAT. ■ magnoliaprep.com ■ (318) 286-7556

Studyville Studyville gives students access to multiple resources, including homework help, tutoring, test prep and college counseling. ■ studyville.com ■ (225) 408-4553

MasteryPrep MasteryPrep specifically focuses on bringing up students’ ACT scores to college-ready standards, helping every student excel on the ACT and beyond. ■ masteryprep.com ■ (855) 922-8773

Sylvan Learning Center Sylvan provides homework help, test prep, and tutoring in reading, math and writing, offering in-center tutoring for students PreK-12. ■ sylvanlearning.com

The Princeton Review Baton Rouge Provides personalized private tutoring, test prep, and admission products and services. ■ princetonreview.com ■ (800) 2REVIEW

Varsity Tutors This online tool connects students to highly credentialed tutors for online or in-person lessons with flexible scheduling. ■ varsitytutors.com ■ (888) 888-0446

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These learning essentials and more educational resources are available on our website. Visit us online to get connected to a variety of support that your student is looking for. brparents.com ■

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BULLYING?

HOW TO SEE THE DIFFERENCE AND INTERVENE BY ANITA RAJEAN WALKER

O M E T I M E S it

is difficult to know when rough-andtumble play is shifting into something more nefarious. As children grow up, they test limits, and we have to trust our judgment. When it comes to bullying, our instant reaction is to cut out any roughhousing and conduct we consider red flags. But, we can’t form a bubble around them, either. We can only strive to understand why kids do what they do and notice when they’ve crossed lines.

UNDERSTANDING ROUGH PLAY AND WHY CHILDREN DO IT

Rough play includes wrestling, tumbling around, and even play fighting. It is a basic instinct that actually helps children develop an array of skills and life lessons. But, most of all, kids enjoy playing aggressively, and it is up to parents to know when it has gone too far. Rough-and-tumble play helps kids understand their strengths. By no means does that mean we should let our kids hurt one another. It does mean, however, that they learn about themselves when they show 40

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newfound power, which boosts self-esteem. However, there must be boundaries, and rough play helps teach those limits. Siblings are notorious for testing one another’s limits, but not every kid has a brother or sister. “When Shawn was little, he and his dad would set up wrestling nights. They never lasted long, but I saw the exhilaration on his face when his dad would let him ‘win.’” Toni Gibson recalls about her now 12-year-old son. “As he grew up, he started to really win, and we saw him test his limits more and more with his peers. We made a decision to enroll

him in a karate class. We watch him now teach his friends how to safely fight and when they’ve gone too far.”

KNOWING THE DIFFERENCE

Part of being a parent is stopping things that we feel will hurt our kids. And, not all fighting is actual fighting. We know our kids, and sometimes we have to trust they will signal when they’re really in distress. The line between rough play and bullying gets more defined as they get older. When kids are mutually enjoying rough-and-tumble play, they smile, laugh, and openly display excitement. Once the rolling around is over,

they continue to play with one another. Frowning, crying, fear responses, or anger are not signs of play fighting. Kids will stop socializing with one another when it has gone too far or develops into bullying. And, bullying can come out of what feels like nowhere. “My daughter had a best friend for most of her childhood. When they turned 12, things seemed to shift, and power became lopsided. Sara started begging for me to get her out of situations, and that her longtime friend got grabby, forceful, and demanding.” Alexi Lee continues, “We all sat down together and talked about bullying and boundaries. The chat went a long way to repairing their friendship and developing what a healthy relationship looks like with communication.”

AT THE HEART OF BULLYING

The sweetest kid can turn to bully behavior for many reasons–lack of attention, troubles at home or school, or learned behavior. But, the core cause is generally the same. Children are in search of their own power. As Cheryl Brodnax of Crossroads Professional Counseling explains, “Bullying is about power. The bully seeks power at the expense of someone else who they perceive to either be weak or a threat.” If your child is the target of a bully, Brodnax offers sound solutions, “Helping kids build their confidence in who they are and in their strengths can help keep them from buckling to the demoralizing tactics of bullies. As well, there is strength in numbers, so help your child talk with their friends about having a zero tolerance for bullying. Sticking together and up for one another can help defuse bullying because the child is no longer isolated.” One thing you need to know is that no one is alone. Brodnax gives parents a roadmap of resources when addressing bullying. “It’s important to become educated on your rights so you can determine the best course of action. There are many anti-bullying laws or policies that can help deal with your child’s situation. Again, bullying is about power, so helping your child regain their power is important. In cases where laws are broken, charges may be filed. In minor situations, your child may take the lead in dealing with the bully, as it helps to develop problem-solving skills and confidence. If your child’s self-esteem and mood are deteriorating, it could be helpful to engage them in counseling. It’s important for kids to feel heard, understood, and helped. Let them know you’re in their corner and that there is hope.” ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | O C T O B E R 2 0 2 1

Rekindling theFLAMES WHY DATING YOUR SPOUSE IS IMPORTANT BY EMILY DREZ

hen you’ve been married to someone for so long, it’s natu-

ral for you to lose the butterflies in your stomach and that initial sense of the warm and fuzzies you felt being together. Those feelings sometimes go away when you are comfortable with each other, but it is possible to be too comfortable. When you get too comfortable, you forget each other without realizing it. Eventually, you and your spouse feel like you are miles apart, though living under the same roof. This emotional distance creates a riff between you two that can only be mended if you make sure to stop, take a breath, and try to get back on the same level. Starting almost from scratch to rekindle your relationship will be difficult, so here are some cru-

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You may have heard that it’s important to be friends with someone before you start dating him or her, but what about still being friends when you are married to that person? As silly as that sounds, it is easy to forget that you two are on the same team, especially when life at work and home seems to separate you for most of the day. When you make an effort to spend time together, you’ll see each other as true companions rather than roommates. As friends, you will have already connected emotionally. This connection establishes a deeper trust in each other and allows you to relate to each other in ways that may not come as easily if your relationship is lacking in emo42

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cial steps to take in the process. tional intimacy. So, when you and your spouse decide to continue dating each other, you are ensuring that you two stay connected. That way, you will be able to avoid a syndrome called “Two Ships Passing in the Night,” in which you and your spouse will cross paths in your own house but hardly exchange more than a few words before parting ways again. With an emotional connection, not only will you two continue to have a mutual understanding of each other, but you will also find it easier to communicate when problems arise. It’s completely normal to disagree with each other from time to time. In fact, disagreements are often what keep any relationship alive because they open

up windows for discussion, encourage open-mindedness, and even strengthen the relationship, but that does not mean they have to turn into a fight. Now that you’ve established you’ve got each other’s backs, every little scuffle will not feel like a battle between who is right and who is wrong; instead, it’s only a disagreement, and one that can be resolved by finding middle ground or even agreeing to disagree. Even if you cannot come to an agreement, you and your spouse can let go of the anger and prioritize each other’s feelings as best friends do. When you choose to date your partner, you are making a conscious effort to dedicate time to them. Your relationship will become a priority instead of simmering

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on the back burner while the rest of life takes over. In order for this to work, the effort must go both ways. Hold each other accountable by taking turns coming up with date night ideas, by making sure you check in on each other throughout the day, and by reestablishing deeper communication whenever necessary. When you see each other making this effort, you’ll feel that initial excitement from when you first got married, and you’ll remember why you decided to marry that person after all. So, how exactly do you date the person you married? What if you don’t have the time or the money that you used to have earlier in your relationship? It’s not as difficult (or expensive) as you think it would be. Here are some date night ideas for when you can’t afford to take a long vacation or eat at a five-star restaurant: Run errands together. Errands don’t have to feel like a hassle. Get your spouse in the car with you, put on your favorite tunes, and make a game out of your shopping expedition. Whoever completes their half of the grocery list wins! Work out together. Maybe one of you likes to work out while the other does not, or maybe you have separate workout schedules. Whatever it is, having a

workout buddy will motivate you to get your blood pumping, and you’ll be able to give each other tips and tricks while working out. Walk the dog together. Take a leisurely stroll around the neighborhood after dinner with your fur baby. You may even be able to catch the sunset. Have late-night talks. It’s hard to talk about more personal things when the kids are awake. So, after they go to bed, spend at least an hour talking to each other or simply relaxing in each other’s presence. Comfortable silence is okay! Take this time to unwind and tell each other about your days. Go on cheap (or even free) dates. Dates don’t have to be expensive in order for them to count. Look up some local attractions to visit, such as a festival, an open-air market, or an exhibit that lets you get in for free. Get some candy at the corner store and sneak it into a matinee show at the movie theater. Meet up with each other during your lunch breaks at someplace affordable. When you truly value your time together, the amount of money you spend on each other does not matter. ■

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a day in the life of dad Making Memories in Fall BY BRANDON FOREMAN

E T me start by saying that this is not my favorite thing to do, but once the night unfolds, it is well worth it. So, in the same line of thinking, your children are only little once, and I think we need to, as much as we can, keep them young and curious, and have as much fun as we can with them. With that out of the way… Welcome to October and fall weather. As I write this to you, we have just gotten our first taste of fall, and I love it. This is the weather I live for. This year, my mission to you is simple, but maybe not so simple. Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is not only to get out and have a wonderful fall, but get out and enjoy Halloween with your family. By that, I don’t mean just run out and buy your children a costume and walk behind them as they run through the neighborhood. Your mission is to be the fun parent(s) who make it more than just one night. Pick a family theme, have everyone dress up, plan the night together, and get the costumes early. Bonus points if you can make them. Doing this will bring so much joy to your children, as we all know, they love to play pretend and explore using their imaginations. When you embrace their world and take a break from your world, not only does it give you a chance to break away, it will light up their faces more than you can imagine. Again, you have plenty of time. Get your crew together and When you embrace their world and take a break from your world, not only does it give you a chance to break away, it will light up their faces more than you can imagine. have some fun. It will take some time to find a theme that everyone agrees on, and you may have to go to a bunch of stores to find all you need. However, take that time, and bring the little ones with you. If yours are like mine, once that age of 13 comes around, they are off with their friends and you’re stuck with a: “Peace out, Dad. See you later! We are going to the neighborhood where they give out full-size candy bars.” Side note: How has this urban legend not died? Has anyone ever found this place? Alright, last challenge, once you have gotten your crew together, head over to brparents.com and upload a picture. Have your friend vote for you and your family, or their own family. You can fight that battle. The crew with the most votes in early October will receive a great prize pack. Let’s make some memories together. ■

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PIC OF THE MONTH As a dad of four children and Chief of Radiology at Baton Rouge General, Dr. Adam H. has a lot on his plate each day. However, whenever he has a chance to fish, he enjoys getting out on the water. Here he is with his daughter, Averie, after they reeled the big one in.

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Deer Valley Resort PARK CITY, UTAH BY EMILY DREZ PHOTO BY PARK CITY CHAMBER/BUREAU

H AT was once a silver mining town boomed into a major skiing destination and a city of art and outdoor recreation. Home of the 2002 Winter Olympic Games and the annual Sundance Film Festival (and less than an hour away from Salt Lake City), Park City, Utah, is waiting for you with the perfect mountain getaway. Whether you hit the slopes, soar through the sky, bike around a mountain, or even stroll down Main Street, this small city hosts big opportunities for adventure. WHERE TO STAY Deer Valley Resort has three resort areas to choose from: Empire Pass Upper-Mountain, Silver Lake Mid-Mountain, and Snow Park Base Area. From hotel rooms, to condominiums, and to private homes, each resort includes comfortable, oneto-four-bedroom residences with full kitchens, bathrooms, and living spaces, along with views of the Wasatch Mountains and other luxurious amenities. Whichever room you choose, you and your family will have access to tons of outdoor fun in between your rest and relaxation at Deer Valley Resort. Don’t forget your complimentary breakfast before you head out. WHERE TO EAT Riverhorse on Main One of the top-rated restaurants in the nation is in the heart of Park City. Riverhorse on Main is among the oldest and most notable restaurants on Main Street. Your fine dining experience at Riverhorse will include delicious and creative meals like the Surf & Turf Tower, Spicy Stuffed Shrimp, and Red Hot Tofu Skewers. Even the more traditional steak menu has mouthwatering, one-of-a-kind twists that will make your meal unforgettable. The Bridge Cafe and Grill Whether you’re craving breakfast in the afternoon or a bite to eat before you hit the slopes, The Bridge Cafe and Grill has food (and all-day breakfast!) to satisfy every hankering. Each dish has tasty Brazilian influences on classic favorites. Try the savory File Aperitivo appetizer to start; top your sweet pancakes with ham, bacon, or sausage; or bite into the juicy Brazuca Burger. The Bridge Cafe also has lighter options, like the Mint Quinoa Salad and Shrimp Tacos. 46

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Coordinates: 40.6461° N, 111.4980° W Distance from Baton Rouge: 1,715.3 miles Flying Time: 3 hours, 25 minutes Driving Time: 26 hours

Fuego Bistro and Pizzeria The best pizza in Park City is at Fuego Bistro and Pizzeria. From the house Traditional Pizza, to the Meat Lover’s Pie, to the Fuego Blanco, each pizza is gourmet and wood-fired. However, there is more than just pizza. Before you try other entrees like delicious, classic pasta dishes or one of the bistro sandwiches, you’ll want to share the Fuego Antipasto or the Roasted Mozzarella Focaccia appetizer (but, if you don’t want to share, we understand). WHAT TO DO While Deer Valley Resort is best known as a world renowned skiing destination, the opportunities unfold when the weather gets warmer. Ride a horse along trails with incredible views, hike or bike in one of the magnificent mountains, or see it all from above in a scenic chairlift ride. For smaller adventure seekers, there are children’s programs like summer camp, bike lessons, ski lessons, and an activity center. Park City Mountain Kids’ Ropes Course & Zip Lines has pint-sized challenges for your daring little ones. They can zip along on their own speed in a fun, safe environment and even go tubing down the mountain in the summertime. Park City Mountain has tons of other activities, too, like the mountain coaster, golfing, mountain biking, and the Alpine Slide–one of the longest slides in the world. Park City’s historic Main Street is perfect for when you want to hit the town. As Park City’s heart and soul, each shop and restaurant on Main Street caters to its artistic charm. Pick up some souvenirs to bring home, check out some boutiques and local art, and snack on some ice cream as you navigate the charming streets. If you’re there on a Sunday, make sure to stop by for Park Silly Sunday, where Main Street turns into a carfree, open-air market with all kinds of vendors. ■

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E T your jack-o-lanterns, your pumpkin spice-flavored everything, and your favorite old cardigan ready because it’s time to fall into the season with our favorite products this month. This list is full of treats, with none of the tricks. Refresh your Halloween decorations with a spooky wreath and a pumpkin spice soy candle. And, at the end of the day, curl up with a spooktacular bedtime story full of pumpkins, cobwebs, and bats. It’s finally fall!

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WE’RE GOING ON A PUMPKIN HUNT BOOK Read all about three trick or treaters and their spooky quest for the perfect pumpkin.

CANDY CORN HALLOWEEN DOOR WREATH Boo! This door wreath is super cute, and you can hang as a finishing touch to your indoor or outdoor Halloween decorations. Fall into Halloween fun that will spruce up any plain ol’ door and turn your home into spooky fun that’s great for everyone.

MOMSTERS AND DADCULA SHIRTS Don’t have time to put together a costume this year? These matching t-shirts are made for the ghoul-est parents. 48

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SWEET WATER DECOR PUMPKIN SPICE CANDLE Spice up your home and fall decor with this pumpkin spice soy candle.

HALLOWEEN FIDGET TOYS These bubble fidget toys come in the shape of pumpkins and ghosts and are excellent for anxiety relief.

PUMPKIN PATCH T-SHIRT Your child will look adorable in this soft, breathable, and stretchable shirt that is perfect for your fall photos.

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FREE: ZOMBIE PUMPKINS OCTOBER 6 PHOTO BY DAISY ANDERSON

Spooky season is officially here! Pull out those costumes and find your kiddos’ treat bags because we have pulled together all of the Halloween events for your family to enjoy this month. Look for the pumpkin next to the events to know whether or not it’s spooky fun for everyone.

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Did your Halloween event get left out? Email calendar@ brparents.com to be included in our online calendar.

FRIDAY WORLD SMILE DAY BOOK BABIES. Watson Branch Library from 10:30-11 a.m. Focuses on developing early literacy skills. Older siblings are welcome to attend. mylpl.info FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com THE HOBBIT. Theatre Baton Rouge through October 3. This onehour version of Tolkien’s classic novel is a suspenseful, fast-moving journey through the dark, charming, and compelling world of Middle Earth. theatrebr.org

SATURDAY BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Virtual from 9:30-11 a.m. Girls will Learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Includes informal, open discussions, a film presentation, and take home materials. womans.org CORN MAZE AT LSU AGCENTER. 4560 Essen Lane from 10 a.m.-5 p.m., every Saturday. Join them as they open their fields and crank up their tractors to usher in the fall season with some safe outdoor fun. visitbatonrouge.com DOUGH MONSTERS. Galvez Library at 10 a.m. Work on counting and fine motor skills by building a silly dough monster. myapl.org DROP-IN CERAMICS DEMO WITH JOE NIVENS. LSU Museum of

Art at 2 p.m. lsumoa.org FALL FLING WITH OLOL & LSU HEALTH. EBR Main Library from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. ebrpl.com HARVEST DAYS AT LSU RURAL LIFE MUSEUM. LSU Rural Life Museum from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. Activities will include open-hearth cooking, soap making, blacksmithing, quill pen writing, tatting, spinning and wagon rides. Various musical performances will also be scheduled throughout the day. lsu.edu/rurallife PIRANHA PLANT. EBR Main Library from 2:304 p.m. Teens will be able to make their very own potted Piranha plant from Mario. ebrpl.com PREPARING FOR DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital from 1-5 p.m. Covers basic information so you can recognize when labor starts, know when to go to the hospital, know what to expect when you arrive at the hospital, and be aware of indications for a cesarean birth. $35. womans.org SATURDAY STARGAZING. LASM at 10 a.m. Learn about the stars and constellations in the local nighttime sky during the interactive presentation, then sit back for a featured show for all ages. lasm.org STEM PROGRAM. Zachary Branch Library at 2 p.m. Children ages 6-11 can visit for a “cool” STEM project. ebrpl.com STORYTIME IN THE GARDEN. LSU Botanic Gardens. Children ages 3-8 can enjoy storybook readings and imagination-themed activities

HARVEST DAYS AT LSU RURAL LIFE MUSEUM. See October 2.

every half hour. lsu.edu THE HOBBIT. Theatre Baton Rouge through October 3. This onehour version of Tolkien’s classic novel is a suspenseful, fast-moving journey through the dark, charming, and compelling world of Middle Earth. theatrebr.org

SUNDAY BULLYING AND SUICIDE AWARENESS RUNWAY SHOW. Smith-Brown Memorial Union from 4-7 p.m. Brings together local designers, models, and mental health advocates to bring awareness and prevention to bullying and suicide. eventbrite.com FINAL GIRLS & THE EVOLUTION OF THE SLASHER FILM WITH JUNE PULLIAM. EBR Main Library at 3 p.m. Join ghoulish librarian hosts for fall frights, an extravaganza of horror. ebrpl.com FREE FIRST SUNDAY. LSU Museum of Art at 1-5 p.m. Free admission. lsumoa.org SOCIALLY DISTANCED SUGARFEST. West Baton Rouge Museum from 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Provides visitors of

all ages with a free opportunity to learn about local culture, music and history, with a variety of folk art and occupational craft demonstrations, cane cutting and grinding demonstrations, cane syrup boiling, and live music. westbaton rougemuseum.com THE HOBBIT. Theatre Baton Rouge through today. This one-hour version of Tolkien’s classic novel is a suspenseful, fast-moving journey through the dark, charming, and compelling world of Middle Earth. theatrebr.org

MONDAY NATIONAL CHILD HEALTH DAY BOOK BABIES. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library from 9:45-10:30 a.m. Focuses on developing early literacy skills. mylpl.info CROCHET BASICS. Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 4-5:30 p.m.

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(225) 354-7050 THE VINYL UNDERGROUND. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Record collectors and enthusiasts can connect, listen to records, and discuss their favorite albums. ebrpl.com

TUESDAY NATIONAL DO SOMETHING NICE DAY BABYTIME. Gonzales Branch Library at 10 a.m. This fast-paced, interactive storytime is designed for babies from 0-18 months and their families. myapl.org HOT GLUE CANVAS ART. Watson Branch Library from 6-7 p.m. Turn a simple canvas into a piece of 3D art for your wall. mylpl.info JOYFUL READS BOOK CLUB. South Branch Library from 10:30 a.m.12:30 p.m. Do you love uplifting tales of hope and faith? If so, join them for coffee and a lively discussion. mylpl.info

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SOCIALLY DISTANCED SUGARFEST. See October 3.

SWIRLY PUMPKIN. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library from 2-3 p.m. Create a unique table decoration using paper. mylpl.info TAI CHI FOR ARTHRITIS AND FALL PREVENTION. Galvez Branch Library from 11 a.m.-noon. Evidence-based fall prevention program for adults 60+ years of age. Tai Chi is an easy, enjoyable, and safe activity for seniors with arthritis. (225) 647-3955. TEEN GAMING CLUB. Scotlandville Branch Library from 3:30-5:30 p.m. ebrpl.com WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW. Virtual from 6-7 p.m. Join a weight loss surgery physician to learn more about the different types of weight loss surgeries and get your questions answered. womans.org

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from 2:30-4 p.m. Adults can create a candy corn magnet out of cardboard and gift tissue paper. ebrpl.com CASA 101. Virtual at noon. Join CASA recruiters for a chance to learn more about how you can volunteer to be the change for a child in your community. childadv.net FALL FRIGHTS! HORROR SERIES - CANDYMAN (1992). EBR Main Library from 7-9 p.m. Join ghoulish librarian hosts for an extravaganza of horror. ebrpl.com FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com GENEALOGY: HERITAGEQUEST AND OTHER ONLINE RESOURCES. EBR Main Library from 3-4:15 p.m. In this class, you will explore HeritageQuest, a library database that has several key genealogy collections, including census records and the US Serials Set. ebrpl.com INTRO TO COMPUTERS. Delmont Gardens Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com PUFFY GHOST STORY/CRAFT. Delmont Gardens

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Library from 4-5 p.m. Join them for a reading of Gustavo, the Shy Ghost by Flavia Drago. Then, make your own puffy ghost craft. (225) 354-7040 PUMPKIN HUNT STORY/CRAFT. Zachary Branch Library from 10:30-11 a.m. Children ages 2-5 can listen to We’re Going on a Pumpkin Hunt by Mary Hogan Wilcox, then decorate construction paper pumpkin pies. ebrpl.com TEEN HANGOUT. Denham Springs-Walker Branch from 5-6 p.m. Bring your friends or make new ones. Video games, activities, crafts, and snacks. mylpl.info ZOMBIE PUMPKINS. PrideChaneyville Branch Library from 4-5 p.m. You’ll have pumpkins, paint, yarn, and other little goodies to help create and display your creepiest creatures. ebrpl.com

THURSDAY NATIONAL FRAPPE DAY CRAFTING FOR A CAUSE. PrideChaneyville Branch Library from 1-3 p.m. Learn a new skill and join other adults for a chance to create something beautiful. This month, they will be creating fall-themed hot pads. ebrpl.com COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital from 6-9 p.m. Designed to build confidence and empower moms and couples to make informed choices in their labor and birth. womans.org FREE MATH SESSION.

Bluebonnet Regional Branch Library from 4:30-5:30 p.m. Free math session by Ms. Shruti Saini for 6-12th grades. shrutibinta@ yahoo.com JUMPSTART’S READ FOR THE RECORD DRAGON STORY CRAFT. Greenwell Springs Regional Branch Library from 5-6 p.m. Children will color and paste together a paper dragon following storytime. (225) 274-4460 OOH LA LA-UN REPAS FRANÇAIS! Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso on a French Culinary adventure. Travel through the different regions of France to make a scrumptious meal. lci.edu PUMPKIN DECORATING. Albany-Springfield Branch Library from 5:30-7 p.m. For this family-friendly program, you can bring your own mini pumpkin and use their craft supplies to decorate it. mylpl.info SILVER SENIORS CRAFT, COLORING AND CLASSIC T.V. Denham Springs-Walker Library at 9 a.m. Enjoy classic TV shows while making simple crafts and other activities. mylpl.info SPOOKY FAUX CANDLES. Delmont Gardens Library from 4-5 p.m. Make some spooky décor for Halloween with DIY Faux Candles. (225) 354-7060 TEEN ADVISORY BOARD MEETING. Watson Branch Library from 5:30-7 p.m. TAB members suggest programs, volunteer at the branch, and help choose books for young adult sections. mylpl.info

THE ALLMAN BETTS BAND. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. After a successful year touring as the Devon Allman Project with special guest Duane Betts, the sons of Gregg Allman and Dickey Betts are joining forces to form the Allman Betts Band. manshiptheatre.org TYPING LESSONS. Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 10-11 a.m. Whether you are a beginner or just want to brush up on your skills, join for a progressive keyboard and mouse class. ebrpl.com VIRTUAL 44TH ANNUAL AUTHOR/ ILLUSTRATOR PROGRAM. Virtual from 9-10 a.m. Salina shares her journey from childhood in South Korea to published author/illustrator in the U.S., and how her real-life stories have inspired her published books. ebrpl.com

FRIDAY DATE NIGHT: AN EVENING IN NEW YORK CITY. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5:30 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso on a trip to New York City Steakhouse. lci.edu FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com -FRIDAY NIGHT KIDS CLUB: HALLOWEEN THEME. Art Unleashed from 6-8 p.m. Kids will be making Frankenstein Candy Dishes. allevents.in THE CHARMED LIFE OF FIG DAUPHINE (2021). Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. A child fortune-teller in New Orleans leads her teenage sidekick through escapades while trying

to solve the mystery of her unwitting birth father. manshiptheatre.org VIRTUAL 44TH ANNUAL AUTHOR/ ILLUSTRATOR PROGRAM. Virtual from 10 a.m.12:30 p.m. Salina knows first hand how to draw from real life experiences to create books with characters that readers connect with and care about. ebrpl.com WIGGLE WORMS: MUSIC AND MOVEMENT. Livingston Parish Main Library at 10:30 a.m. Fun and creative 30-minute program for children ages 0-5 and their caregivers. mylpl.info

SATURDAY NATIONAL COSTUME SWAP DAY ADA LOVELACE DAY. EBR Main Library from 2:30-4 p.m. Teens are invited to partner up and write a code to navigate a maze. Afterwards, they can play games that rely on programming logic like Battleship. ebrpl.com GARDEN DISCOVERIES: CAMELLIAS. EBR Main Library from 10-11 a.m. Attendees are invited to learn about Growing & Caring for Camellias, the jewels of our winter gardens. ebrpl.com HARRY POTTER PROPHECY ORB. Galvez Library at 10 a.m. With some acrylic paint and a little magic, you can recreate Harry Potter’s prophecy orb or make your own swirling intricate design. myapl.org LAMAZE: A LABOR OF LOVE. Woman’s Hospital from 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Recommended for couples wanting to learn

how to apply Lamaze techniques for coping with pain in labor and birth who plan to deliver without anesthesia. womans.org LIKE IT OR NOT BOOK CLUB. PrideChaneyville from 10:3011:30 a.m. Join virtually in the Goodreads Group L.l.O.N., or in the story time room, as they read and discuss The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse by Charlie Mackesy. ebrpl.com LSU’S NATURAL SCIENCE MUSEUM PRESENTS: PUTTING THE FUN IN FUNGI! Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 10 a.m.-noon. Learn about these spectacular spores with Spenser Babb- Biernacki. (225) 354-7040 SATURDAY STARGAZING. LASM at 10 a.m. Learn about the stars and constellations in the local nighttime sky during the interactive presentation, then sit back for a featured show for all ages. lasm.org SCARECROW STORY/CRAFT. Pride-Chaneyville Branch Library from 2:30-3:15 p.m. Enjoy reading two wonderful picture books and making a scarecrow hanging decoration. ebrpl.com

SUNDAY WORLD MENTAL HEALTH DAY OLD TIME JAM. West Baton Rouge Museum from 3-5 p.m. Jam sessions are open for any musician to join in to play tunes, including but not limited to, Old Country, Bluegrass, Cajun and folk music. The

public is invited to sit in free of charge. westbatonrougemuseum.com

MONDAY BOOK BABIES. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library from 9:45-10:30 a.m. Focuses on developing early literacy skills. mylpl.info PREGNANCY 101. Virtual from 6:30-9 p.m. Attend this class to learn how to provide your baby with the best possible environment for growth and development. womans.org

TUESDAY NATIONAL GUMBO DAY A FALL HORTICULTURE WORKSHOP. LSU Agriculture Center from 5-6 p.m. (318) 766-3769. TAI CHI FOR ARTHRITIS AND FALL PREVENTION. Galvez Branch Library from 11 a.m.-noon. Evidence-based fall prevention program for adults 60+ years of age. Tai Chi is an easy, enjoyable, and safe activity for seniors with arthritis. (225) 647-3955 TEEN MOVIE CLUB - GOOSEBUMPS. Scotlandville Branch Library from 3:30-5:30 p.m. ebrpl. com TYPING LESSONS. Delmont Gardens Branch Library at 10 a.m. Whether you are a beginner or just want to brush up on your skills, join them for a progressive keyboard and mouse class. ebrpl.com WATSON SPINE TINGLERS BOOK CLUB. Watson Branch Library

at 6 p.m. The Watson Spine Tinglers Book Club reads thrilling fiction with a good mystery and some spine-tingling suspense. (225) 686-4180. WATSON SUNNY-SIDE UP INSPIRATIONAL BOOK CLUB. Watson Branch Library at 10 a.m. The Watson Sunny Side Up Inspirational Book Club reads uplifting fiction and sometimes nonfiction that generates discussion among its diverse members. (225) 686-4180. WRITERS RENDEZVOUS. Fairwood Branch Library from 6-7 p.m. ebrpl.com

WEDNESDAY NATIONAL STOP BULLYING DAY 21ST CENTURY BUSINESS FORUM. Virtual at 11 a.m. Monthly series featuring America’s top business minds and thought leaders. ebrpl.com BIRD MARIONETTE STORY/CRAFT. Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 4-5 p.m. Celebrate feathered friends and put together a bird marionette. (225) 354-7050 FALL CRAFT STICK SIGN STORY CRAFT. Greenwell Springs Regional Branch Library from 4-5 p.m. For National Book Month, children will craft together a fall sign following storytime. (225) 274-4460 FALL FRIGHTS! HORROR SERIES-CHILD’S PLAY (1988). EBR Main Library at 7 p.m. Join ghoulish librarian hosts for an extravaganza of horror. ebrpl.com

FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com INTRO TO EXCEL. Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com LEGAL SERVICES FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SURVIVORS AT THE FAMILY JUSTICE CENTER. Virtual from noon-1 p.m. Presented by Southeast Louisiana Legal Services. ebrpl.com VISITING ARTIST LECTURE AT LSU SCHOOL OF ART: CANDICE LIN. LSU School of Art 103 Design Building at 5 p.m. Lecture by visiting artist Candice Lin. lsumoa.org

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IN EVERY ISSUE CALENDAR CY AND INFANT LOSS AWARENESS DAY NATIONAL WHITE CANE SAFETY DAY

BOO AT THE ZOO. See October 16.

THURSDAY NATIONAL DESSERT DAY COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital from 6-9 p.m. Designed to build confidence and empower moms and couples to make informed choices in their labor and birth. womans.org CRAFTING FOR A CAUSE. PrideChaneyville Branch Library from 1-3 p.m. Learn a new skill and join other adults to create fall-themed hot pads. ebrpl.com LET’S BRUNCH! Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso on a twist to some brunch classics. $125. lci.edu PUMPKIN DECORATING WITH A TWIST. Watson Branch Library from 5:30-6:30 p.m. Bring your own mini pumpkin and use their craft supplies to decorate it. mylpl.info PUMPKIN PAINTING FOR ADULTS. Zachary Branch Library at 6 p.m. Paint and decorate your own pumpkin. Use your creation as seasonal 54

décor for your favorite home or office space. ebrpl.com SILVER SENIORS CRAFTS, COLORING AND CLASSIC TV. Livingston Parish Main Library from 9-11 a.m. Enjoy classic TV shows while making simple crafts and other activities with your peers. mylpl.info STEM SUPERSTARS! Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library from 6-7 p.m. mylpl.info TAI CHI FOR ARTHRITIS AND FALL PREVENTION. Galvez Branch Library from 11 a.m.-noon. Evidence-based fall prevention program for adults 60+ years of age. Tai Chi is an easy, enjoyable, and safe activity for seniors with arthritis. (225) 647-3955 THE LOST LEONARDO 2021 FILM. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Inside story behind the Salvator Mundi, the most expensive painting ever sold. manshiptheatre.org

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FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com HISTORICAL HAPPY HOUR. West Baton Rouge Museum from 6-8 p.m. Features Smokehouse Porter, Miss Mamie and the Gutbucket Blues Band. Bring your blankets, folding chairs, and libations to enjoy this outdoor performance. westbatonrouge museum.com HOT GLUE CANVAS ART. Watson Branch Library from 1-2 p.m. Turn a simple canvas into a piece of 3D art for your wall. mylpl.info RED DRAGON SONGWRITERS SERIES PRESENTS: PAUL THORN BAND. Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. Following his boxing years, Paul launched a songwriting career. manshiptheatre.org WIGGLE WORMS: MUSIC AND MOVEMENT. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library and Watson Branch Library at 10:30 a.m. Program for children ages 0-5. mylpl.info

SATURDAY NATIONAL SWEETEST DAY ANIME AFTERNOON. EBR Main Library from 2:30-4 p.m. Teens will enjoy an afternoon of Anime movies while at the library. ebrpl.com BOO AT THE ZOO. Baton Rouge Zoo. Presented by Hancock Whitney,

participants should wear their best costumes and enjoy a fun and festive day at the zoo. brzoo.org DOUGH MONSTERS. Gonzales Library at 10 a.m. Work on counting and fine motor skills by building a silly dough monster. myapl.org FOIL PRINTED MOON PAINTING. PrideChaneyville Branch Library from 11 a.m.noon. Join them for a reading of a book and make your own moon painting. ebrpl.com HALLOWEEN DESSERTS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 9 a.m. Join Chef Jeans Mancuso for her favorite holiday and learn to make scary treats. lci.edu INNOVATION SPACE BADGING CLASS: 3D PRINTER (BRMMF 2021). Bluebonnet Regional Branch Library at 2 p.m. Complete this training class to reserve the Innovation Space & 3D printer for your next project. ebrpl.com MAKE & TAKE CANDY CORN TREAT BAG. Zachary Branch Library from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Children ages 6-11 can visit the library to make a cute Halloween candy corn mini treat bag from a craft kit. ebrpl.com MASTERING THE JOB INTERVIEW. EBR Main Library from 10 a.m.noon. Learn to perfect your job interview skills through this seminar. ebrpl.com OUTDOOR MOVIE-HOCUS POCUS. Watson Branch Library from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Dress up in your favorite costume, grab something to hold your trick-ortreat candy, and join them for an outdoor

showing of the classic Halloween movie. Popcorn and trick-ortreat candy provided. mylpl.info SATURDAY STARGAZING. LASM at 10 a.m. Learn about the stars and constellations in the local nighttime sky during the interactive presentation, then sit back for a featured show for all ages. lasm.org THERESA CAPUTO LIVE! Raising Cane’s River Center at 7:30 p.m. Theresa Caputo, from TLC’s hit show, Long Island Medium, will be appearing live to share personal stories about her life and explain how her gift works. raisingcanes rivercenter.com TODDLER TIME-AIRBORNE EXTREME. Airborne Extreme from 9-10:30 a.m. Bring your little ones to jump and play on fun trampolines and attractions without the worry of bigger kids. airborneextreme.com

SUNDAY NATIONAL PASTA DAY CAJUN FRENCH MUSIC ASSOCIATION JAM. West Baton Rouge Museum from 3-5 p.m. Free program allows musicians to play Cajun music tunes in an informal setting. westba tonrougemuseum.com PHILADANCO! Manship Theatre at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Founded in 1970, PHILADANCO! has a legacy of breaking barriers and building bridges across cultural divides, consistently performing for audiences of people from diverse communities.

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MONDAY BOOK BABIES. Denham Springs-Walker Branch from 9:45-10:30 a.m. Focuses on developing early literacy skills. mylpl.info POURED ACRYLIC PAINTING WORKSHOP SERIES. West Baton Rouge Museum from 10-11:30 a.m. Sign up for a six-week series exploring an exciting way of creating art with abstract artist and instructor, Kellie Rountree. westbatonrougemuse um.com

TUESDAY CASA 101. Virtual at 6:30 p.m. Join CASA recruiters for a chance to learn more about how you can volunteer to be the change for a child in your community. childadv.net HARRY POTTER PROPHECY ORB. Gonzalez Library at 4 p.m. With some acrylic paint and a little magic, you can recreate Harry Potter’s prophecy orb or make your own swirling intricate design. myapl.org LASER WORKSHOP (BRMMF 2021). River Center Branch Library at 6 p.m. Learn the basics of how to use the laser cutter/engraver, then customize & create your own laser cut & engraved keychain. ebrpl.com LIBRARY FOR ALL: AN INTERACTIVE PROGRAM FOR ADULTS WITH DISABILITIES. Denham Springs-Walker Library from 9:30-11 a.m. Join friends from the Livingston Activity Center and their care-

givers for coloring and a movie. mylpl.info PUMPKIN PAINTING. Watson Branch Library from 5:30-7 p.m. Bring a pumpkin to the library and use supplies to create a festive pumpkin decoration. mylpl.info TAI CHI FOR ARTHRITIS AND FALL PREVENTION. Galvez Branch Library from 11 a.m.-noon. Evidence-based fall prevention program for adults 60+ years of age. Tai Chi is an easy, enjoyable, and safe activity for seniors with arthritis. (225) 647-3955 TEEN ADVISORY BOARD MEETING. South Branch Library from 5:30-6 p.m. TAB members suggest programs, volunteer at the branch, and choose books for young adult sections. mylpl.info TRICK OR TREAT: GIVE ME SOMETHING GOOD TO EAT STORY & GEAUX. River Center Branch Library from 4-4:30 p.m. Story & Geaux with us in the children’s room. Afterward, participants will receive a Candy Corn Treat Box Craft Kit to take home. ebrpl. com

WEDNESDAY NATIONAL CHICKEN AND WAFFLES DAY 20-SOMETHINGS MOVIE NIGHT-REC. Scotlandville Branch Library from 5:30-7:30 p.m. ebrpl.com AUTUMN LEAF STORY/CRAFT. Zachary Branch Library at 10:30 a.m. Children ages 2-5 can hear a story and make a leaf from a variety of fall-colored paper.

ebrpl.com FABRIC CORNER BOOKMARKS WORKSHOP & CRICUT MAKER DEMO (BRMMF 2021). Jones Creek Regional Branch Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Select & assemble materials to sew into a fabric corner bookmark. ebrpl.com FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com HOOKS & LOOPS CROCHET CLUB. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library from 2-4 p.m. Hooks and yarn will be provided, but feel free to bring your own. mylpl.info INNOVATION SPACE BADGING CLASS: AUDIO EQUIPMENT (BRMMF 2021). Bluebonnet Regional Branch Library from 4-5:30 p.m. Complete this training class to reserve the Innovation Space & audio equipment for your next project. ebrpl.com LUNCHTIME LECTURE AND BOOK SIGNING. West Baton Rouge Museum at noon. A lunchtime lecture and book signing featuring author, Yvonne Krumins and illustrator, Katherine Klimitas of the book, Breed All About Us. westbatonrougemuse um.com OPENING RECEPTION/CANDICE LIN: THE AGNOTOLOGY OF TIGERS. LSU Museum of Art from 6-8:30 p.m. Join LSU MOA in the galleries with LSU School of Art visiting artist Candice Lin to celebrate the opening of the exhibition, Candice Lin: The Agnotology of Tigers. lsumoa.org TEEN ADVISORY BOARD MEETING. Denham Springs-Walker Branch Library from 5-6 p.m. TAB volunteers suggest programs, volunteer at the branch,

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THURSDAY BE YOUR OWN SPIDER STORY/ CRAFT. Carver Branch Library at 4:30 p.m. Share a fun afternoon and leave with your own spider hat. ebrpl.com BINGO IN THE GARDENS. Delmont Gardens Branch Library from 4-5 p.m. Play a round to win and select from a number of small prizes. ebrpl.com BOARD GAME NIGHT. Watson Branch Library from 5:30-7 p.m. Join for a night of fun with your friends and family. Bring your own games, or play some of theirs. mylpl.info COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital from 6-9 p.m. Designed to build confidence and empower moms and couples to make

informed choices in their labor and birth. womans.org CRAFTING FOR A CAUSE. PrideChaneyville Branch Library from 1-3 p.m. Learn a new skill and join other adults to create something fall-themed hot pads. ebrpl.com CRICUT WORKSHOP: PERSONALIZED TOTE BAGS (BRMMF 2021). Greenwell Springs Regional Branch Library from 6-7:30 p.m. Learn how to use the Cricut Explore Air 2 & Cricut EasyPress 2 by making your own tote bags. ebrpl.com HOLIDAY APPETIZERS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Learn some new tricks for the upcoming holiday season or ladies night. $125. ebrpl.com

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Culinary Institute at 5:30 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso and spice things up by making a romantic meal using craft beer together. lci.edu FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com KATT WILLIAMS’ WORLD WAR III TOUR. Raising Cane’s River Center at 8 p.m. Katt Williams brings his unparalleled talents to the stage. raisingcanes rivercenter.com MERRY NOT SCARY-STILL SOCIALLY DISTANT-HALLOWEEN. West Baton Rouge Museum from 6:30-9 p.m. Trick-or-treaters can enjoy a fortune teller, crafts, and activities across their six-acre campus. Wear your favorite Halloween costume. westbaton rougemuseum.com THE BONEYARD EXHIBITION TOUR & MUG WORKSHOP. LSU Museum of Art from 6-7 p.m. Join LSU Museum of Art Educator Grant Benoit for a tour of The Boneyard: The Ceramics Teaching Collection and a hand-building coffee mug workshop. lsumoa.org THE VELVET UNDER56

GROUND 2021 (FILM). Manship Theatre at 7:30 p.m. The Velvet Underground explores the multiple threads that converged to bring together one of the most influential bands in rock and roll. manshiptheatre.org

SATURDAY NATIONAL MAKE A DIFFERENCE DAY 7TH ANNUAL DISABLE THE LABEL FUN FEST 2021-LAUNCH THERAPY CENTER. OLOL Livingston from 9-11:30 a.m. This annual event benefits the patients and families of Launch Therapy Center in Denham Springs. eventbrite.com 8TH ANNUAL BATON ROUGE MINI MAKER FAIRE. EBR Main Library from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Outdoor maker market, grab & geaux crafts for all ages, and two special robotics events. ebrpl.com BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Virtual from 9:30-11 a.m. Girls will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. Includes

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informal, open discussions, a film presentation, and take home materials. womans.org BOO AT THE ZOO. Baton Rouge Zoo. Participants should wear their best costumes and enjoy a festive day at the zoo. brzoo.org BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Woman’s Hospital from 1:30-5 p.m. Learn the basics of breastfeeding. womans.org DOUGH MONSTERS. Dutchtown Library at 10 a.m. Work on counting and fine motor skills by building a silly dough monster. myapl.org FUZZY HALLOWEEN CHARACTERS STORY/CRAFT. Eden Park Branch at 10 a.m. Join other kids to hear a reading of No Place for Monsters by Kory Merritt. Later, you’ll create a Halloween character to take home. ebrpl.com HALLOWEEN MASK STORY CRAFT. Greenwell Springs Regional Branch Library at 3 p.m. Children will color and tie a paper Spiderman, bunny, or puppy mask for Halloween. ebrpl.com MILES FOR MIRACLES 5K: MONSTER DASH. LSU from 7-10 a.m. Benefits the children receiving treatment at OLOL Children’s Hospital. This year’s 5K will be Halloween themed, so dress in your costumes. runsignup.com SATURDAY STARGAZING. LASM at 10 a.m. Learn about the stars and constellations in the local nighttime sky during the interactive presentation. lasm.org

SUNDAY NATIONAL MOTHER-IN-LAW DAY BOO AT THE ZOO. Baton Rouge Zoo. Participants should wear their costumes and enjoy a festive day at the zoo. brzoo.org -FALL FRIGHTS! HORROR SERIES - NIGHT SHIFT BY STEPHEN KING. EBR Main Library from 3-4:30 p.m. Join your ghoulish librarian hosts for an extravaganza of horror. ebrpl.com GRANDPARENTING 101. Woman’s Hospital from 3-5 p.m. Spend an afternoon at Woman’s Hospital brushing up on your baby skills. womans.org -RYLEE GIVES BACK SPECIAL NEEDS FALL FESTIVAL. North Park in Denham Springs from 2-5 p.m. Fall Festival for special needs children and their immediate family. facebook.com STEP INTO THE LIGHT TOUR FT. NEWSBOYS. Raising Cane’s River Center at 7 p.m. Headlined by Christian music veterans. raisingcanes rivercenter.com

MONDAY IT’S ALL JUST A LITTLE HOCUS POCUS…AND SPELL BOOKS! River Center Branch Library at 6 p.m. Join other adults ages 18-30ish to watch a classic 90s Halloween film that follows the Sanderson sisters on their witchy spree. Make a spell book craft while you watch. ebrpl. com POURED ACRYLIC PAINTING WORKSHOP SERIES. West Baton Rouge Museum from 10-11:30 a.m. Sixweek series exploring

an exciting way of creating art with abstract artist and instructor, Kellie Rountree. westba tonrougemuseum.com READ FOR THE RECORD: AMY WU AND THE PATCHWORK DRAGON. River Center Branch Library from 4-4:30 p.m. Listen to Amy Wu and The Patchwork Dragon by Zhang. After the story, take home a dragon craft. ebrpl.com THE NEW MUTANTS MOVIE SHOWING. Eden Park Branch Library from 4-6 p.m. ebrpl.com

TUESDAY NATIONAL PUMPKIN DAY AFTER BABY COMES. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress and hold a baby with a lifelike doll. Also learn about “baby blues” and recovery from childbirth. womans.org BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Virtual from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Boys learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves. womans.org HARRY POTTER PROPHECY ORB. Dutchtown Library at 4 p.m. With some acrylic paint and a little magic, you can recreate Harry Potter’s prophecy orb or make your own intricate design. myapl.org MIKE ANDERSON’S SPOOKY STORIES. Delmont Gardens Branch Library at 4 p.m. (225) 354-7040 PUMPKIN DECORATING WITH A TWIST! South Branch Library from 5-7 p.m.

Bring your own mini pumpkin and use their craft supplies to decorate it. mylpl.info READ FOR THE RECORD: AMY WU AND THE PATCHWORK DRAGON. River Center Branch Library at 4 p.m. Listen to Amy Wu and the Patchwork Dragon by Zhang. After the story, take home a dragon craft. ebrpl.com

WEDNESDAY NATIONAL BLACK CAT DAY 20-SOMETHINGS GAMING NIGHT: HORROR SHOWCASE. Scotlandville Branch from 5:30-7 p.m. ebrpl.com AFTER BABY COMES. Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. Learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress and hold a baby with a lifelike doll. Also learn about “baby blues” and recovery from childbirth. womans.org CANDY CORN BAG STORY/ CRAFT. Delmont Gardens Library from 4-5 p.m. Celebrate Halloween with a reading of It’s Halloween, Little Monster by Helen Ketteman and make your own candy corn treat bag. (225) 354-7040. FALL FRIGHTS! HORROR SERIES - HALLOWEEN (2018). EBR Main Library from 7-9 p.m. Join ghoulish librarian hosts for an extravaganza of horror. ebrpl.com MONSTER STORY/CRAFT. Zachary Branch Library from 10:30-11 a.m. Children ages 2-5 can listen to the story There Was an Old Monster by Rebecca, Adrian, & Ed

Emberley, then make a spooky monster based on the book. ebrpl.com PARENTED TALKS. Virtual event with Baton Rouge Parents Magazine at 1 p.m. Hear from top experts on “Why Tenacity Matters in Raising Successful Kids.” brparents.com PUMPKIN PAINTING. Denham Springs-Walker Branch from 6:30-8 p.m Bring a pumpkin to the library and use supplies to create a festive pumpkin decoration. mylpl.info SPIRITS OF LOUISIANA. Louisiana’s Old State Capitol at 6:30 p.m. Enjoy the fine catering of Heirloom Cuisine and tastings from local distilleries. louisianaold statecapitol.org

THURSDAY NATIONAL CHOCOLATE DAY A VERY “SCARRY” HALLOWEEN PARTY. Albany-Springfield Branch from 5:30-6:30 p.m. Celebrate Halloween with the residents of Richard Scarry’s Busytown. mylpl.info ASCENSION CHAMBER OF COMMERCE BUSINESS EXPO 2021. Lamar Dixon Expo Center from 2-6 p.m. Find the library at this year’s business expo for a tour of the bookmobile, an overview of free programs and resources for business owners. myapl.org COMPLETE CHILDBIRTH CLASS SERIES. Woman’s Hospital from 6-9 p.m. Prepares you for the big day and beyond. womans.org GREATER BATON ROUGE STATE

FAIR. State Fair Grounds through November 7. The Greater Baton Rouge State Fair is hosting the Baton Rouge Halloween State Fair. gbrsf.com THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW. Theatre Baton Rouge through October 31. A performance of your favorite cult classic. $35. theatrebr.org WINNER, WINNER-CHICKEN DINNER! Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso to discover how easy it can be to make chicken dishes. lci.edu

FRIDAY NATIONAL FRANKENSTEIN FRIDAY FITNESS IN THE STACKS. Bluebonnet Regional Library from 10-11 a.m. ebrpl.com SPOOF NIGHT! WITH THE ADDAMS FAMILY. Manship Theatre at 7 p.m. Interactive movie experience. manshiptheatre.org SWIRLY PUMPKIN. Watson Branch Library from 1-2 p.m. Make a unique table decoration. mylpl.info THE ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW (FILM). Manship Theatre at 10:30 p.m. manshiptheatre.org THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW. Theatre Baton Rouge through October 31. A performance of your favorite cult classic. theatrebr.org

SATURDAY NATIONAL CANDY CORN DAY NATIONAL TRICK OR TREAT DAY CHOCOLATE BOOT CAMP. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 9 a.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso for this chocolate boot camp to create treats. lci.edu HALLOWEEN COLORING CRAFT. PrideChaneyville Branch Library from 2:30-3:15 p.m. Join the library for not-so-spooky stories and coloring. ebrpl.com MIKE ANDERSON SPOOKY STORIES. PrideChaneyville Branch Library at 10 a.m. and Zachary Library at noon. ebrpl.com MUMMIES AND A MOVIE. EBR Main Library from 2:30-4 p.m. Teens are invited to design and construct a miniature mummy while enjoying a Halloween movie. ebrpl.com NIGHT MAZE AND BONFIRE HOSTED BY LSU AGCENTER AND BOTANIC GARDENS. Botanic Gardens from 6-9 p.m. Grab your costumes, glow sticks, and flashlights and enjoy the family-friendly Night Maze. eventbrite.com SATURDAY STARGAZING. LASM at 10 a.m. Learn about the stars and constellations in the local nighttime sky during the interactive presentation. lasm.org THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW. Theatre Baton Rouge through October 31. Film is rated R. A performance of your favorite horror cult classic. theatrebr.org

SUNDAY HALLOWEEN NATIONAL CARAMEL APPLE DAY NATIONAL KNOCKKNOCK JOKES DAY HAINTS HAUNTS AND HALLOWEEN. LSU Rural Life Museum from 3-6 p.m. Storytelling, cake walks, games, and trick-ortreating are some of the events kids will be able to participate in while on the museum grounds. lsu.edu/ rurallife THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW. Theatre Baton Rouge through today. A performance of your favorite horror cult classic. theatrebr.org

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Deciding Whether to Travel with Baby or Your Breast Pump Can be Tricky WE CAN HELP BY PAM MOORE

When choosing whether to bring your pump or your baby on your next trip, consider this comprehensive meta-analysis outlining the merits and pitfalls of each option. It is based on my personal experience and my memory of it, which is poor, due to reasons including but not limited to: mom brain, milk brain, and brain probably being right next to keys, wherever they are. CATEGORY: CARRY-ON BAG Baby Your carry-on is a diaper bag filled with squeeze pouches, teething toys, washable books, baby wipes, diapers, and spare clothes. Your wallet and Kindle make it in by the skin of their teeth. You know your Kindle is more likely to be puked on than read, but hope is essential. Hope is what built this great nation and it’s the reason your e-reader makes it into the diaper bag. Pump Your carry-on is the largest, most fashionable bag you own and it is stuffed with your water bottle, a PB&J sandwich, carrot sticks, and trail mix because no hunger burns hotter than the hunger of a nursing mom. It also holds bottles, breastmilk-specific Ziplock bags, a cooler, all the pump parts, and the battery adapter. You also mustn’t forget your nursing cover (it’s like a superhero cape, worn backward) and your pumping bra. You’re lucky if you can fit your Kindle in along with all of your accouterments, but without a baby on your lap, you are at least guaranteed a chance to read it. Winner: Pump CATEGORY: NOISE Baby When you nurse your baby, she’s happy. No matter how much the people around you hate the fact that you are using your breasts to (gasp!) feed a baby, they hate the sound of a crying baby even more. If anyone so much as gives you a crooked glance when you whip out your boob, tell them it’s that or ear-piercing screams. Pump When you turn on your breast pump, it’s all “Wee-WAH!” at the top of its lungs. Unless its mantra for the day is “Do IT. Do IT. Do IT.” or “COME on COME on COME on.” I swear my pump speaks to me. Connecting clear plastic medical grade tubing to a talking, battery-operated black box that turns your nipples into 60

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party wieners with the press of a button shouldn’t be awkward at all, whether you do it at the gate before takeoff, in flight, or in the relative privacy of a public restroom. Winner: Baby CATEGORY: ELBOW ROOM Baby If you are a plebian like myself, you fly economy class, where personal space is limited. Babies don’t help. I have asked a stranger to hold my baby many times in flight. If you’ve ever attempted to access anything stored in the carry-on stowed beneath the seat in front of you, while a human being sits in your lap, then you know why I do not hesitate to ask any random seatmate to hold my baby. Pump Your pump requires more parts and set-up than a piece of Ikea furniture. If you’re seated next to a businessman, he’ll be clueless initially, but once he catches on, he will keep his eyes glued to his laptop. Best case, you’re next to a teenager who is too busy Snapchatting to even notice you’re there. Since there’s nothing remotely cute, cuddly, or socially acceptable about involving strangers in your pumping endeavors, you can’t ask your seatmate to hold your milk-soaked breast shields for just a sec. You can only pray there’s no turbulence as you pour your liquid gold from your bottles to the storage bag. When you’re done with your pump, you can stow it away under the seat in front of you. Winner: Pump As you can see, the pump has emerged as a clear winner, ahead of the baby as a travel companion in two out of three categories. “Oh, but that’s not fair!” you say. “The pump has the added complexity of requiring you to find childcare for the baby that you didn’t bring! And what about all the milk you have to pump in advance so the baby won’t starve in your absence? You didn’t even mention that!” Don’t worry about all that, ladies. This is science, and we ran out of funding to test that hypothesis. ■

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