ACROSS the Board By Patrick Adams
Bravery and hope T
and past year have been interesting is an understatement. I had my article for this month written and finished. Ready to turn in and be done. hat would have been the easy thing to do, and perhaps, I should have. Perhaps I should have ignored the things that I was feeling as I saw protesters turn into terrorists in this great country of mine. From Portland to Washington in the past year, I watched as my fellow Americans raged. Perhaps I should have ignored the constant stream of posts and shares and retweets of half truths from my “friends” on both sides of the aisle, all while safe behind their eyboards and yet, when we are face to face, those conversations never come up because it would be “rude.” Perhaps I should forget about the sacrifices that those who came before us made, and with us and ahead of us will ma e in exchange for this thing we call America. Perhaps I should but last night, I watched as our nation again transitioned to a new administration peacefully. ne side was happy, the other not. ne side was hopeful, the other in despair. And before the night was out, the tide of battle shifted degrees and some channels declared war while the others called for peace. And in all of that, I happened to loo over and see my children and it made me cry. hey were watching all of this, and listening, and studying, and processing. Not as ing uestions, but nevertheless absorbing it all. As I ve traveled the world, I ve seen other cultures. I ve seen what happens when what adults rage about translates into the perceptions of children. In some regions, we call it “radicalization” and once these children grow, there is no reversing it. My daughter came home from school and, at years old, said a group of ids ept pressuring her to learn who their parents voted for and proceeded to go through a very gruesome list of things that our new President apparently supports. As much as for some of us, there is nothing that would have us turn on our family or denounce our God, there is a growing list of things that apparently hold the same weight. So as I write this, I m as ing myself why this weighs so heavy on my heart It s because I love my family and I love this country. I don t say those things lightly they are what give me life and part of my very being. It is easy to sit behind a eyboard and rage about things that may or may not be convenient truths. It s easy to complain about the beliefs and policies of one administration versus anoth-
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er. It s easy to do nothing. But I ve never ta en the easy road in life and as a result, I ve been blessed. It ta es bravery and hope to ta e the tough path. o be an example. o lead. It s easy to tear down others, but tough to build up everyone regardless of whether you agree with them or not. It s tough sometimes to see the bright side of things. It s tough to be a role model. It s tough to put in the wor behind the statement, “I want my children to be better off than me.” But that s what brave and hopeful men do. So today, I choose to focus on the that we all have in common with each other our hope for a better future, our love for our family and our dedication to this country. oday, I choose to try to be brave for my children, my wife, and my friends and neighbors regardless of the things we might not have in common. If we can all sit together and root for a “good game” in spite of supporting rival teams, can t we do the same in life for the good of this country When we are typing, can t we first as ourselves if we would scream this in a crowded room or our neighborhood corner before we share it Can t we hold ourselves first to a higher standard before we choose to udge others to that standard Perhaps I should have turned in the other article this month and let this feeling pass. Perhaps I should ust eep my opinions to myself. But perhaps, I should try to be an example for the sa e of my children that our “gang” is not left or right, but America. ur life has been blessed under both administration s leadership, and we have seen hardship under both. But regardless, our destiny has been at our hands and our willingness to ta e the tough path. I wish all of you the very best in family, health, life and business as our country begins this new chapter. As always, I am grateful for the opportunity to serve this great industry and all of you.
Patrick S. Adams Publisher President mediagroup.com Building-Products.com
