2023 BYU Women's Conference Program

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Wherefore, be of good cheer, and do not fear, for I the Lord am with you, and will stand by you. D&C 68:6 May 3–5, 2023 womensconference.byu.edu

Welcome to BYU Women’s Conference

Dear Sisters:

We are so happy to welcome you once again to campus for the 2023 BYU Women’s Conference. We look forward to gathering together with women of faith. This year’s conference theme comes from Doctrine and Covenants 68:6. “Wherefore, be of good cheer, and do not fear, for I the Lord am with you, and will stand by you.” This verse is a promise from our Savior that we can be of good cheer even in difficult times and turn our fears over to Him. He knows the difficulties we face and the worries we have, but His promise to stand by us gives us strength and fills us with His love. He watches over us as we testify of Him and follow Him with hope and cheerful hearts.

Along with the wonderful sessions and presenters throughout the conference, we invite you to join us on Thursday, May 4, at our Evening of Service and the wonderful Deseret Book Shadow Mountain concert. We are so grateful to our hospitality and service project volunteers, LDS charities, and our friends at Deseret Book for providing another outstanding evening of service and entertainment. We are grateful to the organizational presidencies for their participation and those in the campus community who have a part in making this conference possible. And we are especially grateful to gather with you. We hope your time with us at the conference brings you wonderful experiences with friends old and new, moments of inspiration, and continued faith in our Savior.

With love,

BYU Women’s Conference Little Lamb by Yongsung Kim Artwork used by permission from Havenlight.

Being part of something extraordinary, in your words…

“I felt especially strengthened this year. It felt more like a refuge and haven than ever for me to spend a couple of days filling my spiritual canteen. I came home with renewed clarity and resolve to stay on the Savior’s covenant path.”

“All the talks from conference strengthened my faith in the gospel and in myself and helped me realize how much control I really have over my life… BYU Women’s conference is a tradition in my life!”

“My favorite thing at BYU Women’s Conference consistently is talking to the ladies in line or sitting next to me and discovering our connections, about how we are not so different. I connected with a sister I did not know and made a lasting friendship. I’m very grateful for every precious experience.”

“WC is something I look forward to each year. No matter what is going on in my life I make a huge effort to go. Reconnecting with family and friends, being spiritually fed, and feeling the love that abounds makes this event two of my favorite days of the year.”

“It is such a highlight of the conference to serve during the Evening of Service. We served, we talked, and we laughed, and it lifted my spirit. Thank you!”

New this Year!

Wednesday Evening option

Join us a day early for BYU Women’s Conference and be a part of our new Wednesday evening option on May 3. The evening will include keynote speakers, sessions, music, food, and friendship, and will be held entirely in the Marriott Center. We hope to see you there!

Additional Session Hour

An additional concurrent session hour was added to Friday’s schedule and gives you an opportunity to hear more inspirational messages from our wonderful presenters.

Sister to Sister Hour

We are happy to announce our Sister to Sister hour at BYU Women’s Conference this year. Six sessions will be held across campus from 3:00–4:15 p.m. on Thursday, May 4. Our Sister to Sister series began in 2019 with the Relief Society, Young Women, and Primary general presidents, and are now a well-loved part of BYU Women’s Conference. These sessions feature panels of women having an open, Christcentered, gospel-focused conversation based on topics relevant to Latter-day Saint women today.

Immersive Learning Sessions

Seven Immersive Learning Sessions will feature learner-focused, scripture-based classes. Class descriptions feature a series of scriptures that you are encouraged to read and ponder before attending the class. These sessions will be held over the two days in the Music Building Concert Hall.

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Build Your Schedule CF Campus Map and Dining (centerfold) 53 Evening Performance 50 FAQs 14 Insights and Information 7 Instant Choir 5 Presenter Index 17 Schedule and Abstracts 7 Schedule at a Glance
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Sessions by Topic 51 Will Call 49 Your Notes
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Keynote Session Presenters

Marriott Center Keynotes

Wednesday, May 3

Evening Session

6:00–7:00 p.m.

J. Anette Dennis, Kristin M. Yee

Thursday, May 4

Morning Session

9:00–10:00 a.m.

“Wherefore, Be of Good Cheer, and Do Not Fear, for I the Lord Am with You, and Will Stand by You” (D&C 68:6)

Irene Caso

Friday, May 5

Morning Session

9:00–10:00 a.m.

Celestial Living in a Telestial World

Sheri L. Dew

Friday, May 5

Afternoon Session

4:30–5:30 p.m.

General Presidency Concurrent Sessions

Thursday, May 4

Marriott Center

10:30–11:30 a.m.

“Notwithstanding My Weakness” (2 Nephi 33:11): Removing the Feeling of Forever Falling Short

Michelle D. Craig, Rebecca L. Craven

Thursday, May 4

Smith Fieldhouse

1:30–2:30 p.m.

Children and Youth Program and For the Strength of Youth (FSY) Conferences

Friday, May 5

Marriott Center

3:00–4:00 p.m.

The New For the Strength of Youth Guide

Steven J. Lund, Ahmad S. Corbitt, Bradley R. Wilcox

Thursday, May 4

Marriott Center

Noon–1:00 p.m.

Avoid Spiritual Overwhelm: Progressing “Line Upon Line”

Susan H. Porter, Tracy Y. Browning

Friday, May 5

Marriott Center

10:30–11:30 a.m.

Our Bodies: Essential for Eternal Progression and Joy

Bonnie H. Cordon

Camille N. Johnson

Concurrent Session Presenters

Note: Numbers reference SESSION NUMBERS, not the page.

Angela Ahn (12)

Starr Anderson (44)

Renee Arteaga (33)

Jackie Barron (26)

Brittany Beattie (36)

Anne R. Berryhill (20)

Jolene H. Bingham (38)

Susan Easton Black (34)

Becky Borden (54)

Shawna Borg (23)

Jodi Orgill Brown (40)

Melinda W. Brown (19)

Tiffanie Browne (47)

Nolong Bullock (48)

Jeanne N. Burgon (66)

Jeri L. Cahoon (37)

Kathryn Saporiti Callister (49)

Tad R. Callister (49)

Martha Darger Carrington (15)

Brooke Casanovas (70)

Whitney Johnson Catt (24)

Rainey Cardon Christofferson (50)

Lisa Valentine Clark (37)

Ganel-Lyn Condie (3, 38)

Sherri Cook (35)

Carol Costley (36)

Liz Darger (24)

Jennifer Kerns Davis (41)

Kathryn Davis (17)

Allison Dayton (54)

Ana De Agostini (59)

Patrick D. Degn (43)

David C. Dollahite (74)

Tanya Dorius (77)

Linda P. Dunn (43)

W. Justin Dyer (56)

Mary Ellen Edmunds (1)

Jana L. Eubank (73)

Kevin M. Eubank (73)

Olivia Flitton (21)

Hollie Rhees Fluhman (22)

Tawna Fowler (29)

Barbara Morgan Gardner (52)

Angela Marie Gehrke (53)

Lita Little Giddins (55)

Christine C. Gilbert (19)

Catherine Carrazana de Gimenez (9)

Erica Glenn (55)

Jamie Glenn (45)

Michael Goodman (41)

John Goodson (31)

Rio Grange (2)

Paige Greenwood (21)

Tyler Griffin (28)

Tammy Uzelac Hall (50)

Chelsea Hayden (35)

Amy Callister Hick (76)

Diana Hoelscher (13)

Bryna Holland (35)

Kelli Houghton-Anderson (77)

Yvonne Farnsworth Hubert (65)

Krista M. Isaacson (47)

Vicki G. Jackman (33)

Kayla Jackson (34)

Lizzy Jensen (45)

Miyamoto Loretta Jensen (57)

Janiece Johnson (56)

Meg Johnson (18)

Joy D. Jones (24)

Christy Kane (68)

Shelby Killpack (57)

Alynda Kusch (29)

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Kristin Gerdy Kyle (61)

Tema Hunkin Laussen (11)

Julie Lee (31)

Natalyn “Natty” Lewis (53)

Kalleen Kirk Lund (9)

Susan R. Madsen (65)

Keri Mae (68)

Sunny Mahe (60)

Cheryl McBride (26)

Debra Theobald McClendon (75)

Andrea McConkie (36)

Elissa McConkie-Gifford (32)

Rebecca Mehr (18)

Angela Jones Meyers (16)

Hannah Miller (33)

Kelend Mills (5)

Kathleen Miner (37)

Sharlene Miner (37)

Courtney Merrill Moffat (61)

David Morgan (10)

Kristyn Morgan (10)

Taylor Morris (46)

Susie Mullen (74)

Heather J. Nelson (15)

Lori Newbold (27)

Samantha Fogg Nielsen (12)

Shauna M. Ogden (16)

Sara Olsen (46)

Emily Orton (48)

Cecilia M. Peek (62)

Kathleen C. Perrin (63)

Ben Peterson (67)

Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt (36, 72)

Julie Postma (78)

Amy Reading (64)

Kathryn Reynolds (71)

Megan Rieker (67)

Marilyn Rizley (44)

Leslie Lords Robbins (7, 59)

Sandra Rogers (24)

Elizabeth Rose (58)

Gaylamarie Rosenberg (5)

Janis Rowberry (75)

Andrea Ryser (34)

Alan C. Sackett (6)

Amy Sackett (6)

Janice Hoyt Sansom (78)

Katrina Seamons (11)

Camila Goedert Silva (23)

Emily Snyder (34, 59)

Connie Sokol (22)

Ingrid Sorensen (51)

Norm Sorensen (51)

Shannon Paulson Sorensen (64)

Maddie Giles Sosa (8)

Amy Soto (38)

Christy Spencer (38)

Joseph M. Spencer (20)

Allison Strang (35)

Chad J. Strang (76)

Gaye Strathearn (42)

Heidi S. Swinton (70)

Jennie Taylor (40)

Jen Yorgason Thatcher (8)

Ruth Jones Todd (33)

Heidi Walker (58)

Laurie Whiting (60)

Kerry Wickman (30)

Matthew Wickman (30)

Michelle Wilson (13)

Rosemary M. Wixom (63)

Dana Juergens Wright (66)

Jenn Zingmark (71)

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Schedule at a Glance

Wednesday, May 3

Marriott Center Keynote

Wednesday, May 3 Evening Session

6:00–7:00 p.m.

J. Anette Dennis, Kristin M. Yee

Marriott Center

7:30–8:00 p.m.}

Counting Our Blessings

Mary Ellen Edmunds

8:00–8:30 p.m.}

“To See Ourselves as He Sees Us” Rio Grange

8:30–9:00 p.m.}

“The Ultimate Source of Relief Is…Jesus Christ”

Ganel-Lyn Condie

Instant Choir

Continuing a favorite tradition, the BYU Women’s Conference Instant Choir is an opportunity for you to join friends and share your testimony through music. All information, including music, is available on our website, womensconference.byu.edu. Come and sing with 500 of your newest friends on May 4 at the Thursday morning keynote session. Rehearsal starts promptly at 6:30 a.m. in the Marriott Center!

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Marriott Center

19,000 CAP

Smith Fieldhouse

3,375 CAP

Ballroom, WSC

1,665 CAP

Concert Hall, MB

1,000 CAP

Auditorium, JSB

855 CAP

Assembly Hall, HC

500 CAP

3220–3224 WSC

580 CAP

3280–3290 WSC

450 CAP

2258–2260 CONF

355 CAP

Ballroom, HCEB

375 CAP

“Notwithstanding My Weakness” (2 Nephi 33:11): Removing the Feeling of Forever Falling Short (pg. 18)

Rebecca L. Craven, Michelle D. Craig

You May Know for Yourself What Is True (pg. 18)

Gaylamarie Rosenberg, Kelend Mills

“Kind Words Are Sweet Tones of the Heart”

(Hymns, 232): Communication in Marriage (pg. 19)

Alan C. Sackett, Amy Sackett

Experience Jesus Christ in the Everyday (pg. 19)

Leslie Lords Robbins

Make Time for the Lord Each Day (pg. 19)

Jen Yorgason Thatcher, Maddie Giles Sosa

Charity: The Pure Love of Christ (pg. 20)

Catherine Carrazana de Gimenez, Kalleen Kirk Lund

Finding Strength through Emotional Resilience (pg. 20)

Kristyn Morgan, David Morgan

Glimpses of Heaven: Making Your Home a Holy Place (pg. 20)

Katrina Seamons, Tema Hunkin Laussen

The Significant Impact of Single Saints (pg. 20)

Samantha Fogg Nielsen, Angela Ahn

Sharing the Gospel in Normal and Natural Ways (pg. 21)

Michelle Wilson, Diana Hoelscher

Avoiding Spiritual Overwhelm: Progressing “Line upon Line” (pg. 21)

Tracy Y. Browning, Susan H. Porter

Essential Conversations with Your Teen (pg. 22)

Martha Darger Carrington, Heather J. Nelson

Mending Hearts in Families (pg. 22)

Angela Jones Meyers, Shauna M. Ogden

Following the Examples of Righteous Women in the Scriptures (pg. 22)

Kathryn Davis

“Faith Is Not by Chance, but by Choice” (pg. 22)

Meg Johnson, Rebecca Mehr

The Spiritual Power of the Temple (pg. 23)

Melinda W. Brown, Christine C. Gilbert

The Continuing Restoration (pg. 23)

Joseph M. Spencer, Anne R. Berryhill

Trust in the Lord During Challenging Times (pg. 24)

Olivia Flitton, Paige Greenwood

“Christlike Attributes: Gifts from a Loving Heavenly Father” (pg. 24)

Hollie Rhees Fluhman, Connie Sokol

Caring for Those in Need (pg. 24)

Camila Goedert Silva, Shawna Borg

8 Thursday, May 4 {10:30–11:30 a.m.} {Noon–1:00 p.m.}

Marriott Center

19,000 CAP

Smith Fieldhouse

3,375 CAP

Ballroom, WSC

1,665 CAP

Concert Hall, MB

1,000 CAP

Auditorium, JSB

855 CAP

Assembly Hall, HC

500 CAP

3220–3224 WSC

580 CAP

3280–3290 WSC

The Incredible Influence of Righteous Women (pg. 25)

Sandra Rogers (moderator), Whitney Johnson Catt, Liz Darger, Joy D. Jones

Children and Youth Program and For the Strength of Youth (FSY) Conferences (pg. 25)

Steven J. Lund, Ahmad S. Corbitt, Bradley R. Wilcox

Finding Hope and Help When Struggling with Mental Illness (pg. 25)

Jackie Barron, Cheryl McBride

“My Grace Is Sufficient” (Ether 12:27) (pg. 26)

Lori Newbold

Preparing for the Return of the Savior (pg. 26)

Tyler Griffin

The Blessings of Following Prophetic Counsel (pg. 26)

Tawna Fowler, Alynda Kusch

“The Heart of Her Husband Doth Safely Trust in Her” (Proverbs 31:11) (pg. 31)

Matthew Wickman, Kerry Wickman

450 CAP Living Joyfully amidst Grieving Days (pg. 31)

Julie Lee, John Goodson

2258–2260 CONF

355 CAP

Ballroom, HCEB

375 CAP

The Savior’s Embrace Extends to All (pg. 31)

Elissa McConkie-Gifford

Every Soul Is Precious: Ministering with Love (pg. 32)

Ruth Jones Todd (moderator), Renee Arteaga, Vicki G. Jackman, Hannah Miller

Why I Stay: “Jesus Saith Unto Her, Woman, Believe Me” (John 4:21) (pg. 32)

Emily Snyder (moderator), Susan Easton Black, Kayla Jackson, Andrea Ryser

Supporting Others in Their Individual Faith Journeys (pg. 33)

Chelsea Hayden (moderator), Sherri Cook, Bryna Holland, Allison Strang

Your True Identity and Divine Potential (pg. 33)

Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt (moderator), Brittany Beattie, Carol Costley, Andrea McConkie

From Toddlers to Teens: Mothering When You Feel Like Surrendering (pg. 34)

Lisa Valentine Clark (moderator), Jeri L. Cahoon, Kathleen Miner, Sharlene Miner

The Importance of Our Individual Spiritual Momentum (pg. 34)

Ganel-Lyn Condie (moderator), Jolene H. Bingham, Amy Soto, Christy Spencer

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Marriott Center

19,000 CAP

Smith Fieldhouse

3,375 CAP

Ballroom, WSC

1,665 CAP

Concert Hall, MB

1,000 CAP

Auditorium, JSB

855 CAP

Assembly Hall, HC

500 CAP

3220–3224 WSC

580 CAP

3280–3290 WSC

450 CAP

2258–2260 CONF

Our Bodies: Essential for Eternal Progression and Joy (pg. 35)

Bonnie H. Cordon

“Whatever My Lot…It Is Well with My Soul” (pg. 35)

Jodi Orgill Brown, Jennie Taylor

Hold Fast to What You Already Know (pg. 35)

Michael Goodman, Jennifer Kerns Davis

With Holy and Devoted Hearts (pg. 36)

Gaye Strathearn

A Willingness to Become His Disciple (pg. 36)

Linda P. Dunn, Patrick D. Degn

“Let Us Not Underestimate the Marvelous Work the Lord Is Doing through Us” (pg. 36)

Starr Anderson, Marilyn Rizley

Seeking Progression along the Road to Perfection (pg. 37)

Lizzy Jensen, Jamie Glenn

Our God Is a God of Miracles (pg. 37)

Sara Olsen, Taylor Morris

355 CAP Meaningful and Purposeful Gospel Study (pg. 37)

Krista M. Isaacson, Tiffanie Browne

Because We Seek to Hear and Do Not Fear (pg. 38)

Kathryn Saporiti Callister, Tad R. Callister

Understanding and Accessing Priesthood Power (pg. 38)

Rainey Cardon Christofferson, Tammy Uzelac Hall

Partnering with Your Spouse and the Lord in Your Marriage (pg. 39)

Norm Sorensen, Ingrid Sorensen

Repentance: “Jesus Christ…Stands with Open Arms” (pg. 39)

Barbara Morgan Gardner

The Healing Path of Forgiveness (pg. 39)

Natalyn ”Natty” Lewis, Angela Marie Gehrke

Loving and Lifting Our LGBTQ Children with Christ as Our Guide (pg. 40)

Allison Dayton, Becky Borden

“We Are Commanded to Love Others, Not to Judge Them” (pg. 40)

Erica Glenn, Lita Little Giddins

Asking Faith-Filled Questions: Being a Seeker of Truth (pg. 40)

W. Justin Dyer, Janiece Johnson

Temple and Family History Work: “The Heavens Will Open” (pg. 41)

Miyamoto Loretta Jensen, Shelby Killpack

Ballroom, HCEB

375 CAP

“Love One Another” (pg. 38)

Emily Orton, Nolong Bullock

The Simplicity of This Beautiful Gospel (pg. 41)

Heidi Walker, Elizabeth Rose

10 Friday, May 5 {10:30–11:30 a.m.} {Noon–1:00 p.m.}

Marriott Center

19,000 CAP

Smith Fieldhouse

3,375 CAP

Ballroom, WSC

1,665 CAP

Concert Hall, MB

1,000 CAP

Auditorium, JSB

855 CAP

Assembly Hall, HC

500 CAP

3220–3224 WSC

580 CAP

3280–3290 WSC

450 CAP

2258–2260 CONF

Changing Our Hearts and Being Transformed through Our Covenants (pg. 41)

Leslie Lords Robbins (moderator), Ana De Agostini, Emily Snyder

God’s Love: “The Most Joyous to the Soul” (1 Nephi 11:23) (pg. 42)

Sunny Mahe, Laurie Whiting

Recognizing Life’s Hidden Sorrows (pg. 42)

Kristin Gerdy Kyle, Courtney Merrill Moffat

Personal Revelation: Does God Really Want to Speak to Me? (pg. 42)

Cecilia M. Peek

Preparing Children for the Temple (pg. 43)

Kathleen C. Perrin, Rosemary M. Wixom

“If You Want to Know Anything, You’ll Have to Do Something” (pg. 43)

Shannon Paulson Sorensen, Amy Reading

The Essential Role of Women in Councils (pg. 43)

Yvonne Farnsworth Hubert, Susan R. Madsen

Understanding the Great Power of Your Patriarchal Blessing (pg. 43)

Dana Juergens Wright, Jeanne N. Burgon

355 CAP “The Hope That Is in Us” (1 Peter 3:15) (pg. 44)

Megan Rieker, Ben Peterson

Ballroom, HCEB

375 CAP

Knowing We Are Never Alone, Even in Times of Loneliness (pg. 44)

Keri Mae, Christy Kane

The New For the Strength of Youth Guide (pg. 45)

Steven J. Lund, Ahmad S. Corbitt, Bradley R. Wilcox

“But We Heeded Them Not” (1 Nephi 8:33) (pg. 45)

Brooke Casanovas, Heidi S. Swinton

Learning from Mistakes and Moving On (pg. 45)

Jenn Zingmark, Kathryn Reynolds

“A Bedrock Understanding of the Doctrine of Christ” (pg. 46)

Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt

Marriage: Nurturing a Love That Lasts (pg. 46)

Kevin M. Eubank, Jana L. Eubank

The Power of the Book of Mormon (pg. 46)

David C. Dollahite, Susie Mullen

Mastering Our Tempers and Speaking with Words of Love (pg. 47)

Janis Rowberry, Debra Theobald McClendon

Remembering the Spiritual Foundation You Have Built (pg. 47)

Amy Callister Hick, Chad J. Strang

Recovery from Addictions (pg. 47)

Kelli Houghton-Anderson, Tanya Dorius

Senior Missionaries: “The Lord Knows Where You Are Needed” (pg. 48)

Janice Hoyt Sansom, Julie Postma

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Build Your Schedule

Photo Booths

Thursday, May 4

Keynote Session—Irene Caso, Marriott Center, 9:00–10:00 a.m.

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Be sure to capture your Women’s Conference experience at one of our photo booths! Locations will be posted in the program update.

FIRST CHOICE FIRST CHOICE

Evening of Service—Richards Building and Smith Fieldhouse, 4:30–7:30 p.m. Evening Performance—Marriott Center, 8:00–9:30 p.m.

Friday, May 5

SECOND CHOICE SECOND CHOICE

THIRD CHOICE THIRD CHOICE

Keynote Session—Sheri L. Dew, Marriott Center, 9:00–10:00 a.m.

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Closing Keynote Session—Camille N. Johnson, Marriott Center, 4:30–5:30 p.m.

Upcoming Conference Dates May 1–3, 2024

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Women’s Conference by Topic

We hope this topic guide will help you navigate the sessions offered. Please read the abstract in its entirety to help with your class selection. Note: Numbers reference SESSION NUMBERS, not the page

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Addiction and recovery 77 Adversity, overcoming 21, 31, 41, 61, 68 Agency 35 Anger, overcoming 75 Atonement of Jesus Christ 3, 7, 52, 71 Belonging 32, 48 Book of Mormon 74 Charity loving not judging 55, 92 loving others 9, 48 Children bringing up in light and truth 69 communication with teens 15 LGBTQ, supporting 54 raising 37 teaching children about the temple 63 Choices, individual 18, 35 Contention, forsaking 6, 16, 75 Covenants, transformed through 19, 59 Counseling together 65 Discipleship a higher and holier way 42 a willing heart 22, 64 a willingness to become ............. 43 improving 14, 58 Divine identity....................... 2, 39 Emotional resilience 10 Faith a principle of power 18 individual faith journeys ....... 34, 35, 76 seek learning by faith 47 Family history ..........................57 Family relationships communication with teens ........... 15 making home a holy place 11 mastering our tempers ...............75 mending hearts 16 setting boundaries ................. 53 Forgiving others 16, 53 Forgiving oneself ................. 3, 45, 71 Gathering Israel 13, 24 Gospel discussions asking faith-filled questions 5, 56 having meaningful conversations 35 Gospel study 11, 47, 74 Gratitude 1 Grief 31 Healing 3 Heavenly Father assurances that He is there 10, 37, 41, 54 becoming like Him 39 God’s love 2, 60, 67 has not given us the spirit of fear 49, 70 Holy Ghost, comforter 40 Home, harmony in the home 75 Jesus Christ becoming like Him 22, 42, 45 experiencing Him everyday 7 faith in 18 His grace is sufficient 4, 27 hope in Him 67 knows you and is aware of you 2, 61 learning of Him 74 make time for the Lord 8 peace in Him 40 preparing for His coming 28 seeking Him 8, 49 trust in Him 21, 46 understanding His doctrine 72 Joyful living 31 Kindness 55 Learning from mistakes 71 LGBTQ, loving and supporting your children 54 Loneliness, turning to Him .............. 68 Marriage communication in marriage ...........6 nurturing a love that lasts 73 partnering together with the Lord in marriage 51 trust is central to a happy marriage ... 30 Mental health, finding hope and help 26 Ministering ........................... 33 Missionary work, seniors 78 Miracles .............................. 46 Motherhood 37 Obedience ............................ 29 Parenting 37, 63, 69 Participating in the gospel ........... 44, 64 Patriarchal blessings 66 Perfectionism ....................... 4, 45 Personal revelation 14, 62, 66 Prayer .............................. 8, 60 Priesthood 50, 59 Prophet, following the 29 Repentance is a gift 52 Restoration, continuing 20 Seek to hear and not fear 49 Self-reliance 10 Self-worth 2, 39 Service 23 Sharing the gospel 13, 72 Spiritual momentum 38 Spiritual resilience 67 Temple endowment 19, 50 preparing children 63 Testimony standing firm 41, 70, 76 strengthening 34 Truth, seeking 5, 56 Women in the gospel influence of righteous women 12, 24, 44 righteous women in scripture 24 women in councils 65 women speaking up 72 Youth Children and Youth program 25 FSY conferences 25 new For the Strength of Youth guide 69 Sister to Sister sessions Every Soul is Precious: Ministering with Love 33 From Toddlers to Teens: Mothering When You Feel like Surrendering.......37 Supporting Others in Their Individual Faith Journeys ..................... 35 The Importance of Our Individual Spiritual Momentum ................ 38 Why I Stay: “Jesus Saith unto Her, Woman, Believe Me” (John 4:21) ..... 34 Your True Identity and Divine Potential .......................... 36

Conference Insights and Information

REGISTRATION INFORMATION

There are four easy ways to register:

Online: womensconference.byu.edu

Phone: 1-877-221-6716 or 801-422-8925

In person: Weekdays 8:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m. in the Harman Continuing Education Building lobby

On the days of the conference, May 3–May 5: Marriott Center, northeast and northwest concourse entrances

Now until March 31, 2023

MAY WE HELP YOU?

Do you have a question? Do you need more information? Please call, email, or message us through Facebook. We are ready to help you have a wonderful experience.

Information: 801-422-7692

Registration: 801-422-8925 / 1-877-221-6716

Email: womens_conference@byu.edu

Facebook: BYUWomensConference

CONFERENCE INFORMATION DESKS

For assistance with directions, lost name badges, shuttles, and other needs, contact an information desk assistant at one of the following locations between 9:00 a.m. and 4:00 p.m:

• Marriott Center concourse (MC)*

• Lobby, Joseph Smith Building (JSB)

April 1–May 2, 2023 Full

May 3–5, 2023 (at the door)

ABOUT

BYU Women’s Conference is the largest three-day gathering of Latter-day Saint women anywhere in the world. Over 150+ presenters share their perspectives and insights on a variety of topics, including womanhood and sisterhood, gospel principles, marriage, family, and practical and timely topics of interest and concern to women of all ages. Conference content is planned for those who are members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints; however, those of all faiths are welcome to attend.

Gathering with women of faith, developing friendships, learning from uplifting messages, gaining new insights, participating in service, strengthening your testimony, and enjoying time with family and friends—this is what BYU Women’s Conference is all about.

AGE LIMIT

BYU Women’s Conference is limited to those ages 16 and older. For the safety of all guests, we are not able to accommodate infants or children, including babes in arms, in any conference rooms, including in the Marriott Center. For additional information see our Frequently Asked Questions. This policy applies to volunteers, participants, presenters, and guests of presenters.

• North entrance, Smith Fieldhouse (SFH)*

• Memorial Lounge, Wilkinson Student Center (WSC)

*Open until 8:00 p.m. on Thursday; MC open until 6:00 p.m. on Friday

OVERFLOW ROOMS

Sessions originating in the Marriott Center, Hinckley Building, and Joseph Smith Building will be broadcast in overflow rooms in the BYU Conference Center (CONF).

Session Room Overflow

BYU Conference Center

2258–2260 (CONF) 2254 CONF

Harman Building Ballroom

various rooms located in the CONF; speak with the Hospitality team

Hinckley Assembly Hall (HC) East Room HC; 1108, 2107, 3108 Jesse Knight Building (JKB)

Joseph Smith Building Auditorium (JSB)

various rooms located in the JSB; speak with the Hospitality team

Marriott Center (MC) BYU Conference Center Concert Hall (MB) TBA

Smith Fieldhouse Not available

Wilkinson Student Center Ballroom (WSC) Garden Court WSC

Wilkinson Student Center (WSC)

3220–3224

Wilkinson Student Center (WSC) 3280–3290

3228, 3223, 3211 WSC

3380, Varsity Theatre WSC

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$79.00
$24.00 Thursday
$49.00 Friday
$49.00
Full Conference (Th/Fri) early
Wednesday add-on early
only early
only early
$89.00
$29.00 Thursday $54.00 Friday $54.00
Conference (Th/Fri)
Wednesday add-on
$94.00
$34.00 Thursday $59.00 Friday $59.00
Full Conference (Th/Fri)
Wednesday add-on

ASL INTERPRETERS

American Sign Language (ASL) interpreters will be provided for all Marriott Center conference sessions. Participants needing ASL interpretation should sit in section 8, row 3, in designated seats (enter through Portal H). Interpreters for sessions other than the Marriott Center can be provided if requested by April 17, 2023. Further details can be found on our website at womensconference.byu.edu.

PARKING

Each year we strive to make your parking, shuttles, and walking as easy as possible. We have easily accessible parking lots and extensive courtesy shuttle service to get you to and from parking areas. Parking areas closer to the Marriott Center fill up early, so please refer to the map in the center of this booklet for all parking areas and shuttle stops/ routes.

Please cooperate by parking in designated areas and within stalls. Please note that program participants should not park in the neighborhoods north of the Marriott Center or east of 900 East. Parking in areas other than those noted will lead to towing of your vehicle. Self-contained recreational vehicles can park in lot 37Y, north of the Indoor Practice Facility. No facilities are available.

UVX FREE BUS SYSTEM

Catch the free UVX bus, be dropped off within a three- to five-minute walk to the Marriott Center, and avoid parking on campus. Utah Valley Express (UVX) is a bus rapid transit line featuring high-capacity buses running between the Orem Central Station (Frontrunner station), BYU, and the Provo Central Station (Frontrunner station) and other stops inbetween, and it’s free! It features convenient stops at the BYU Baseball Stadium (about a three minute walk to the Marriott Center), the BYU Harman Building, BYU North Campus, and BYU South Campus. Note: Regular fares are required for bus lines other than UVX. Visit our website under parking for more information.

PARKING FOR PARTICIPANTS WITH DISABILITIES

If you have a state-issued disability placard or permit, you may park in the designated area northeast of the Marriott Center. Participants who have disability placards MAY ALSO park in any of the state disability parking spaces on campus. If disability spaces are filled in a particular lot, you may hang your placard and park in any campus parking spaces EXCEPT for service or timed lots, and designated spaces for deans, directors, or specific license plates.

COURTESY SHUTTLES

Days, times, and routes of the Courtesy shuttles are indicated on the parking map in the center of this booklet. While the shuttles are available to all conference participants, preference will be given to seniors or those with disabilities. Shuttles pick up and drop off at designated shuttle stops only. Please note that from 8:30 to 11:00 p.m. on Thursday, and from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. on Friday, shuttles will only run from the Marriott Center to the parking lots and campus housing.

Please continue to exhibit kindness, consideration, and patience when parking and using the shuttle service. Your actions affect the experiences

of other attendees and university employees assisting with the conference.

One wheelchair-accessible shuttle is available (one friend may accompany). To contact the driver on May 3–5, please call 385-335-3143.

HOW FAR IS IT TO WALK?

Wait times for the shuttles can be long, so if you are physically able, we encourage you to enjoy campus and take a walk to your next session.

Marriott Center to:

Cannon Commons 5–7 minutes

Conference Center 5–7 minutes

Harman Building 5–7 minutes

Hinckley Center 5–7 minutes

Joseph Smith Building 15 minutes

Music Building 12–15 minutes

Smith Fieldhouse 12–15 minutes

Wilkinson Student Center 10–12 minutes

Wilkinson Student Center to:

Cannon Commons 15 minutes

Joseph Smith Building 7–10 minutes

Music Building 3 minutes

Smith Fieldhouse 15 minutes

We don’t recommend it, but if you are planning to text and walk, don’t forget to look up! Please obey all traffic laws, and cross at designated crosswalks. Note: Walking time is dependent on crowds and comfort of shoes.

WHEELCHAIR SEATING

Due to limited wheelchair seating in all conference locations, wheelchair access areas are reserved only for participants who use wheelchairs. One to three companions may accompany those who use wheelchairs, and they will be seated in close proximity.

In the Marriott Center, wheelchair seating is available at all portals except G, H, and J on the concourse level. Wheelchair-accessible restrooms are located on the concourse level. No public floor seating is available.

RECORDING OF TALKS

Personal audio and video recording of conference sessions is not allowed. Select transcripts from the 1997 to 2020 conferences are posted on our website at womensconference.byu.edu under Library/ Transcripts. Selected talks from BYU Continuing Education programs are available in the new InspirED site; details on back cover.

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SPECIAL BYU STORE HOURS AND LOCATIONS

For your convenience, the BYU Store and the Marriott Center satellite store will be open at the following times:

Marriott Center satellite store (located south of the Marriott Center)

• 4:00–10:00 p.m. on Wednesday, May 3

• 7:30 a.m.–10:00 p.m. on Thursday, May 4

• 7:30 a.m.–7:00 p.m. on Friday, May 5

Main BYU Store

• 8:00 a.m.–7:00 p.m. on Wednesday, May 3 thru Friday, May 5

• 10:00 a.m.–6:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 6

Beehive Clothing outlet (located on the lower level of the BYU Store)

• 8:00 a.m.–7:00 p.m. on Wednesday, May 3 thru Friday, May 5

• 10:00 a.m.–6:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 6

Visiting authors will be at the tent 11:00 a.m.–4:00 p.m.

David Bowman, Jen Geigle Johnson, Momomentos

Visiting artists will be at the store 11:00 a.m.–4:00 p.m.

Main Floor—Yongsung Kim, Dan Wilson

1st floor (Art floor)—Lovetta Reyes Cairo, Sandy Gagon, Elise Gomez, Alan Fullmer/Taylor Yardley, Esther Candari, Scott Sumner

Tent—Lilia Shin

BYU DINING

Here is what to expect when it comes to ordering and paying for your food here on campus (BYU Dining options are located in the centerfold).

Cash registers will be open at all Dining Services locations. These registers are cashless, but we do accept Cougar Cash as well as Credit and Debit cards.

Other ways you can purchase food on campus:

• Online: Guests can visit dining.byu.edu/mobile-ordering to place an order at one of the many Dining Services locations using credit or debit card.

• Kiosks: Guests dining in the Cougareat can order and pay at one of the kiosks using credit or debit card.

• Gift Cards: Guests can visit the Creamery on 9th, Cougar Express, or Helaman Creamery to purchase a Cougar gift card that can be used at any Dining Services location. Gift cards can be purchased using cash, or credit card.

• Reverse ATM: Guests can put cash into our reverse ATM, located in the Wilkinson Student Center, and receive a Cougar Cash card that can be used at any Dining Services location.

WHILE YOU ARE HERE

Check out what other participants say are “must-do” on-campus activities:

• Attend all the Marriott Center general sessions. Enjoy that feeling of sisterhood as we all gather together.

• Make a new friend. Say hello to the sister next to you.

• Check out the Sweet Stop at the BYU Store for a share-bag of chocolate-covered cinnamon bears or grab fresh fruit at Cosmo’s Mini Mart!

• Go to the evening performance and enjoy the wonderful music.

• Grab Thursday dinner at the Marriott Center or Cannon Center and go serve on lower campus.

• If you are attending with friends, split up for sessions and share insights each evening.

• Sing in the Instant Choir with 500 new friends.

• Take a cultural break at the Museum of Art.

• Visit the BYU Conference Center to watch sessions from the Marriott Center, JSB, and Hinckley Center

• Visit the BYU Store and pick up your favorite BYU hoodie!

• Visit the BYU Creamery for ice cream or a mint brownie.

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BYU Women’s Conference Sessions

Wednesday Evening Opening Session

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

6:00–7:00 p.m.

J. Anette Dennis—First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency; former member of the Primary general advisory council; served with husband as mission leaders in the Ecuador Guayaquil West Mission, and in the Guayaquil Ecuador Temple as counselor in the temple presidency and assistant to the matron; studied elementary education and Spanish at BYU; wife, mother of four

Kristin M. Yee—Second Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency; former member of the Primary general advisory council; holds undergraduate degrees in fine arts from Brigham Young University–Idaho and Brigham Young University; MPA from BYU; worked as an artist and producer at Disney Interactive Studios; currently works for the Church as a manager of special projects for the Publishing Services Department; her gospel-themed paintings include portraits of the Savior’s mortal ministry

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

7:30–8:00 p.m.

1 • Counting Our Blessings

In his 2020 Gratitude Challenge, President Russell M. Nelson shared: “Over my nine and a half decades of life, I have concluded that counting our blessings is far better than recounting our problems. No matter our situation, showing gratitude for our privileges is a fastacting and long-lasting spiritual prescription. Does gratitude spare us from sorrow, sadness, grief and pain? No, but it does soothe our feelings. It provides us with a greater perspective on the very purpose and joy of life.”

What is the relationship between gratitude and happiness? What can I do to live a life with increased gratitude and joy? How does having a grateful heart give me a different focus when facing hard things?

Mary Ellen Edmunds—Mary Ellen Edmunds lives in Midway, Utah, and is a Sunday School teacher in her ward. She has served four LDS missions in various places and loves so many who are so far away. She taught at the MTC in Provo for 20 years (and misses it!).

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

8:00–8:30 p.m.

2 • “To See Ourselves as He Sees Us”

We are taught that the first two great commandments are to “Love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself” (Matthew 22:36–39). However, the last part of the second commandment, to love ourselves, can sometimes be challenging. Elder S. Gifford Nielsen asked, “Have you ever thought of loving yourself as a commandment? Can we truly love God and love His children if we don’t love ourselves?” He continued, “Our Heavenly Father wants us to love ourselves—not to become prideful or self-centered, but to see ourselves as He sees us: we are His cherished children.”

How can I learn to see and love myself as God sees and loves me? How do I learn to recognize negative thoughts about myself? How do I turn to the Lord rather than the world for positive reinforcement? How do I learn to respect and love myself enough to set boundaries and expect the same respect from others? How does learning to love myself help me to love others?

Rio Grange—wife, mother, and founder of Work + Wonder, Rio created place where her passion for design meets her devotion to the Gospel—a journey that has taught her the importance of discovering and trusting in the God-given strength and divinity in each of us.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

8:30–9:00 p.m.

3 • “The Ultimate Source of Relief is…Jesus Christ”

Elder Matthew S. Holland declared, “Regardless of the causes of our worst hurts and heartaches, the ultimate source of relief is the same: Jesus Christ. He alone holds the full power and healing balm to correct every mistake, right every wrong, adjust every imperfection, mend every wound, and deliver every delayed blessing. Like witnesses of old, I testify that ‘we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities’ (Hebrews 4:15) but rather a loving Redeemer who descended from His throne above and went forth ‘suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind…that he may know…how to succor his people’ (Alma 7:11–12).”

How does sincere study of the Savior’s atoning sacrifice help me to better understand that He is filled with mercy and knows how to succor me in my trials? How does yoking myself with the Savior help strengthen me to face any hurts or heartaches? What can I learn about the Savior’s mercy through turning to Him for help with my mistakes and imperfections as well as my sorrows?

Ganel-Lyn Condie—author of 13 books, speaker, co-host of “Talk of Him”; wife of 32 years, mother of two miracle children; mental health advocate, lupus warrior; TV and radio contributor; elementary education degree from ASU; Relief Society teacher; willing to have the authentic conversations

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BYU Women’s Conference Sessions

Thursday Morning Opening Keynote Session

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

9:00–10:00 a.m.

“Wherefore, Be of Good Cheer, and Do Not Fear, for I the Lord Am with You, and Will Stand by You” (D&C 68:6)

Irene Caso—Irene Caso is a Media Relations Manager in the Communications Department of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Before this responsibility, Irene had a very successful broadcasting career of more than 13 years. What started as a news reporter job in Salt Lake City, took her to anchor newscasts for seven different Univision stations nationwide while based in Arkansas, and then back to Utah under the capacity of news anchor and news director for the local station of Univision, the leading Spanish speaking station in the country. Irene is a native of Madrid, Spain, loves working for The Church, and lives in Davis County with her husband Mike and her two kids, Diego and Lola, whom she adores.

Concurrent Sessions

10:30–11:30 a.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

4 • “Notwithstanding My Weakness” (2 Nephi 33:11): Removing the Feeling of Forever Falling Short

“Now may I speak,” taught Elder Neal A. Maxwell, “to those buffeted by false insecurity, who, though laboring devotedly in the Kingdom, have recurring feelings of falling forever short. Earlier disciples who heard Jesus preach some exacting doctrines were also anxious and said, ‘Who then can be saved?’ (Mark 10:26). The first thing to be said of this feeling of inadequacy is that it is normal…. Nephi persisted in a major task ‘notwithstanding my weakness’ (2 Nephi 33:11)…. Jacob wrote candidly of his ‘over anxiety’ (Jacob 4:18). Thus the feelings of inadequacy are common…. This is a gospel of grand expectations, but God’s grace is sufficient for each of us.”

How do I remove the inclination to judge myself harshly when I feel I have fallen short? How do I focus on steady, gradual improvement

and changes in my life? How does focusing on the Lord’s love for me change my heart from inner rebuke to encouragement? How can seeking and relying on His grace remove my doubts and feelings of inadequacy?”

Rebecca L. Craven—Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency who rejoices in being with family and being outdoors – and combining them is simply too many Heavenly blessings to count! Executive board member for CHOICE Humanitarian; former mission leader, North Carolina Charlotte mission

Michelle D. Craig—Member of the Young Women General Presidency who finds happiness is popcorn and tacos – and soul-deep JOY in her grandkids and our Savior Jesus Christ; former member, Primary general board; returned missionary; former BYU Women’s Conference committee member

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

5 • You May Know for Yourself What Is True

President Russell M. Nelson has taught, “Truth is truth. Some things are simply true. The arbiter of truth is God—not your favorite social media news feed, not Google, and not those who are disaffected from the Church. President Spencer W. Kimball taught that absolute truth cannot be ‘altered by the opinions of men.… If men are really humble, they will realize that they discover, but do not create, truth.’” President Nelson continued, “You may know for yourself what is true and what is not by learning to discern the whisperings of the Spirit. ‘For the Spirit speaketh the truth and lieth not.’” In Moroni 10:5, Moroni teaches, “And by the power of the Holy Ghost ye may know the truth of all things.”

How can I teach my children to discern and choose between truth and error? How can I be strong enough to stand up and stand fast for the truth? How do I ask faith-filled questions when seeking truth? How do I recognize and understand the important principle of divine truth?

Gaylamarie Rosenberg—wife, mother; adjunct professor of Church History and Doctrine, BYU; M.S. in Family Sciences/Human Development; writer, author; Relief Society president; enjoys travel, hiking, flowers, and all things beautiful

Kelend Mills—born in Star Valley Wyoming and raised as one of 12 children in Laketown, Utah (Bear Lake Valley); missionary and mission president in Japan; administrative director of MTCs for the Missionary Department; currently stake president in Mapleton, Utah

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BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

6 • Kind Words Are Sweet Tones of the Heart (Hymns, 232): Communication in Marriage

Our words have power to build up or to destroy. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland emphasized the importance of words: “The voice that bears profound testimony, utters fervent prayer, and sings the hymns of Zion can be the same voice that berates and criticizes, embarrasses and demeans, inflicts pain and destroys the spirit of oneself and of others in the process.” In James 3:10, James taught, “Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren [and sisters], these things ought not so to be.” Good communication between husband and wife is vital and requires an ongoing effort. Using effective and kind communication methods, avoiding contention, and appreciating that men and women may communicate differently can strengthen marriage and allow us to pass valuable skills to the next generation. How do I incorporate respect, good listening, and positive communication in my interactions with my spouse? In what ways can I respectfully express a difference in opinion? How can a healthy sense of humor help my spouse and I communicate when we face challenges? How can I communicate in ways that build love and affirm my commitment to my spouse?

Alan C. Sackett—husband (currently working on speaking in kind tones); father of Avery, Kimball, Alisa, and McKay; Institute choir director and teacher; pianist and singer; lover of books and movies; Primary chorister; good friend and passionate disciple of Jesus Christ!

Amy Sackett—Amy Sackett grew up in Orem, Utah. She has a Bachelor’s degree in Communications with an emphasis in Public Relations. She served a mission in Utica, New York. Amy and Alan reside in Holladay, Utah, with their four children whom they adore.

CONCERT HALL, MUSIC BUILDING (MB)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

7 • Experience Jesus Christ in the Everyday

Jesus Christ knows the needs of His learners and empowers them with eyes of new understanding; this beautiful narrative weaves in and out of the scriptures. “The woman at the well was a Samaritan who did not know Jesus Christ and was viewed by many as an outcast in her own society. Jesus…met the woman where she was and started by talking about something familiar and common. If He had stopped there, it would have been a positive encounter. But it would not have resulted in her going to the city to proclaim, ‘Come, see…is not this the Christ?’ Gradually, through the conversation, she discovered Jesus Christ, and despite her past, she became an instrument of light (John 4:1–29)” (Sister Bonnie H. Cordon). Christ meets believers where they are and moves them to places of change and transformation. This grand narrative continues to unfold in each of us as we find ways to access and experience the Savior’s atoning mission and sacrifice in our own lives.

How can I immerse myself in a study of the Savior’s Atonement, life, and ministry through seeking, discovering, writing, and reflecting? How does pondering the Savior’s teachings have the power to change and empower me? How do I access the power of the Savior’s Atonement when it seems so abstract at times? How can I teach others and invite them to “come and see” (John 1:46) how Jesus Christ can transform their lives?

For optional preparation for this session, participants are encouraged to read the following: Matthew 15:32–39, Matthew 11:28–30, Luke 24:13–19, 28–32, 45, John 4:9–26, John 9:1–7, Mosiah 2:20–23.

Leslie Lords Robbins—married to kindergarten sweetheart, mother of three beloved daughters; ward Relief Society president; Instructor and Curriculum Writer for Seminaries and Institutes; BA and MA in English from BYU; past Dean of General Education and Instruction at Ensign College

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

8 • Make Time for the Lord Each Day

“The voices and pressures of the world are engaging and numerous. But too many voices are deceptive, seductive, and can pull us off the covenant path. To avoid the inevitable heartbreak that follows, I plead with you today to counter the lure of the world by making time for the Lord in your life—each and every day.… If you are not also seeking the Lord through daily prayer and gospel study, you leave yourself vulnerable to philosophies that may be intriguing but are not true. Even Saints who are otherwise faithful can be derailed by the steady beat of Babylon’s band.…Make your own spiritual foundation firm and able to stand the test of time by doing those things that allow the Holy Ghost to be with you always” (President Russell M. Nelson).

What are ways I can follow President Nelson’s counsel to “make time for the Lord each and every day”? How does a “daily infusion of heavenly light” (Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf) keep us centered on Christ and His path? What daily practices help protect us from distractions, invite the Spirit, and help strengthen our discipleship?

Jen Yorgason Thatcher—wife and mother; M.S., School of Family Life; adjunct faculty, BYU Religion Department and School of Family Life; teaches “The Eternal Family”; writer @smallsimpletruths; served a mission in Poland; loves violin, pickleball, and travel

Maddie Giles Sosa—curious and compassionate wife and mother, lover of the question “why?” and one of the youngest speakers you’ll hear today; hoping to be a warm hug for those feeling overwhelmed with expectations – You’re doing really great!

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BYU Women’s Conference Sessions

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

9 • Charity: The Pure Love of Christ

Charity is “the highest, noblest, strongest kind of love” (Bible Dictionary). Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, quoting 1 Corinthians, said, “Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.” He continued: “Paul’s message to this new body of Saints was simple and direct: Nothing you do makes much of a difference if you do not have charity. You can speak with tongues, have the gift of prophecy, understand all mysteries, and possess all knowledge; even if you have the faith to move mountains, without charity it won’t profit you at all. ‘Charity is the pure love of Christ’ [Moroni 7:47]. The Savior exemplified that love.”

What can I learn from the Savior’s example about being filled with charity? What does the Book of Mormon teach me about charity? How does praying for charity change my heart, my relationships, my actions, and my perspectives? Why is charity considered the “greatest of all” (Moroni 7:46)?

Catherine Carrazana de Gimenez—born and raised in Chile; wife, mother of two; Seminary teacher; has served as Primary, Young Women and Relief Society leader; stake Primary counselor; served with husband as mission leader in the California San Diego Mission; online student at BYU-Idaho

Kalleen Kirk Lund—the joy of her life is being a wife, mother of four, and grandmother of 10; a close second is serving the youth of the church, including her Georgia, Atlanta missionaries; she loves to ski, scuba dive, garden with the grandkids and ride her bike

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

10 • Finding Strength through Emotional Resilience

Whether you experience anxiety, depression, grief, loneliness, addiction, or pain, each of us will need emotional resilience to cope with the challenges, setbacks, and tragedies of our mortal journey. Coupled with faith in Jesus Christ, emotional resilience can help you successfully face adversity with courage and strength, seek help when needed, and extend support to others. As Sister Sharon Eubank testified, emotional resilience can give you the assurance that “[Y]ou are beloved. The Lord knows how hard you are trying. You are making progress. Keep going. He sees all your hidden sacrifices and counts them to your good and the good of those you love.”

What are the blessings of emotional resilience? What resources are available to teach me spiritual and practical skills to build my emotional resilience? How can the Emotional Resilience course help me to improve in all areas of my life? How can I anchor my emotional resilience in the teachings of Jesus Christ?

Kristyn Morgan—social media cheerleader for “keeping it real, while striving to be better”; BYU graduate; blogger; Primary president; former Seminary teacher; lover of Oreos and true crime; wife, mother and grandma David Morgan—I was born in Utah while my parents were BYU students and I was raised in California. I have a PhD in counseling psychology from BYU and have spent my adult life trying to help people better understand themselves and improve their mental health.

3280–3290 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

11 • Glimpses of Heaven: Making Your Home a Holy Place

Our homes, in all their many varieties, can be a place where we create an atmosphere of love, peace, safety, and refuge from the negative influences of the world. President Russell M. Nelson counseled, “As faith and holiness decrease in this fallen world, your need for holy places will increase. I urge you to continue to make your home a truly holy place ‘and be not moved’ (D&C 87:8) from that essential goal.”

How can I follow President Nelson’s counsel to “diligently work to remodel your home into a center of gospel learning”? In what ways can I make my home a “truly holy place”? How do the choices I make about what I allow into my home help make it a refuge from the world? What are some essential habits in establishing a Christ-centered home? What promises has President Nelson given to those who “transform their home into a sanctuary of faith”?

Katrina Seamons—inspirational speaker, writer; wife, mother of five; founder of Deliberate Family; scripture and conference enthusiast; trains moms to transform constant guilt and overwhelm into divine joy and purpose; former homeschool mom; B.S. in Early Childhood Special Ed

Tema Hunkin Laussen—Tahiti-born, American Samoa-lived, Virginiaraised; BA from BYUH, MBA from BYU; Utah real estate agent; loves tennis, travel, food, music; wife, favorite aunty and step-mom; returned missionary, former temple worker, former ward Relief Society, Young Women and Primary President, youth Sunday School teacher

2258–2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

12 • The Significant Impact of Single Saints

If your life or family circumstances do not fit the ideal, you are in very good company. President M. Russell Ballard explained, “More than half of adults in the Church today are widowed, divorced, or not yet married. Some wonder about their opportunities and place in God’s plan and in the Church. We should understand that eternal life is not simply a question of current marital status but of discipleship.” All individuals have the capacity to love, serve, and teach in eternally

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significant ways in both their extended family and their Church family. Sister Eliza R. Snow declared: “There is no sister so isolated, and her sphere so narrow but what she can do a great deal towards establishing the kingdom of God upon the earth.”

How can I focus on the opportunities the Lord has given me and utilize my unique gifts, life experience, strengths, and available time to make a significant impact in the lives of others? How can I push past worries about my place in a family-centered Church and serve faithfully and participate fully in the gospel? How can I find enduring peace when there is a gap between my hopes and my reality? How can our desires for service and family connections be realized as a single member of the Church?

Samantha Fogg Nielsen—Samantha inspires women to look at life through the lens of possibility, even in turbulent times; “Divorce doesn’t defines me, I do!” As a mother and witness of God’s love, she assures others that Jesus is ever present and is always the answer.

Angela Ahn—Angela Ahn enjoys Korean BBQ, Vietnamese pho, and all-you-can-eat American buffets. She enjoys spending time with her nieces and nephew. She spends introspective time in the mornings studying and journaling, then she explodes into a social fervor.

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

13 • Sharing the Gospel in Normal and Natural Ways

Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf exclaimed, “Wherever you are on this earth, there are plenty of opportunities to share the good news of the gospel of Jesus Christ.” While each one of us has an important role to play in inviting others to come unto the Savior, some find it easy to share the gospel while others feel intimidated or hesitant. What can we do to eliminate awkwardness, hesitation, and fear as we invite friends to learn about our beliefs in “normal and natural ways”?

How can I be prepared to answer sincere gospel questions and share gospel insights in normal and natural ways with friends and family? What are some ways I can share my faith and love of the Savior in my daily interactions and on social media? What miracles have I seen in my life and the lives of others as I have labored to gather Israel on this side of the veil?

Michelle Wilson—Michelle Wilson is a speaker and author of inspirational non-fiction who has been featured in LDS Living Magazine, 5-Minute Firesides, and Deseret Book’s “Seek.” She loves laughter, truth, sisterhood, chocolate, and her earthly and Heavenly family.

Diana Hoelscher—wife, mother of 4; published author of five talks at Deseret Book and LDS speaker for 25+ years; returned missionary; currently ward Relief Society president; her trademark voice and sense of humor will get you laughing and a minute later she’ll be clarifying doctrines and bringing in the Spirit

Concurrent Sessions

Noon–1:00 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

14 • Avoiding Spiritual Overwhelm: Progressing

“Line Upon Line”

“Walking the path of discipleship takes practice—each day, little by little, ‘grace for grace,’ ‘line upon line.’ Sometimes two steps forward and one step back. The important thing is that you don’t give up” (Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf). “The Lord’s loving influence through the Holy Ghost helps us know His priority for our progression. Heeding personal revelation leads to personal progression” (Sister Joy D. Jones).

How can listening to the Spirit lead me to the most needful things? How can I know that the Lord is pleased with my efforts and priorities? How do I give myself grace and accept that I can’t do everything at once but will progress day by day and “line upon line” (2 Nephi 20:30)?

Susan H. Porter—married to the late Elder Bruce Porter and mother of four children; Bachelor’s degree in Chemistry; current Primary General President since 2022; former General Primary first counselor and Relief Society general advisory council member

Tracy Y. Browning—born in New York and grew up in Jamaica; currently serving as Second Counselor in the Primary General Presidency; worked in financial services prior to current Church employment; married to Brady; they are the parents of two children

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SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

15 • Essential Conversations with Your Teen

Open discussions about sensitive subjects are needed with our teens. “Please don’t shy away from them. [They] need your counsel, guidance, and input on these subjects” (President M. Russell Ballard). It’s important that we be prepared for these discussions and create safe spaces and opportunities for them to happen. Insight will come to our minds as we listen first, pray for the Spirit to help us understand, and focus on their needs. Our teens need to know that we are willing to listen without interrupting, without making judgments, and without embarrassment. Communicating openly and taking time to talk with our teens is essential to maintaining strong relationships. What strategies can we use to have clear, straightforward discussions and initiate conversations on difficult topics? How do we prepare spiritually ahead of time to respond calmly instead of reacting in the heat of the moment? How can we listen more intently and ask good questions to better understand their point of view and feelings? How can we recognize important teaching moments? How can we counsel and correct without lecturing?

Martha Darger Carrington—married to a wonderful man; together we deliberately and gratefully parent four remarkable children. I am a teacher, leader, friend and fierce advocate of youth...finding and celebrating the Deity in each one.

Heather J. Nelson—wife, mother, grandmother; returned missionary; temple worker; business owner; Licensed Clinical Social Worker; co-creator of family adventures like: skiing, biking, golfing, paddleboarding, camping, and traveling

BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) Noon–1:00 p.m.

16 • Mending Hearts in Families

“Because love is the great commandment, it ought to be at the center of all and everything we do in our own family.… Love is the healing balm that repairs rifts in personal and family relationships” (Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf). We all hope for loving family relationships, yet sometimes small disagreements and hurt feelings between family members, both at home and with extended family, can create divisiveness and misunderstandings. Elder Uchtdorf continued, “Love is the power that initiates friendship, tolerance, civility, and respect. It is the source that overcomes divisiveness and hate. Love is the fire that warms our lives with unparalleled joy and divine hope.” Every branch of the family tree benefits when problems are approached with forgiveness and love. How can I work together with my family members to have harmony and love in our home? How can I identify problems and seek understanding and appropriate solutions? How can I learn to apologize, cease placing blame, and mend disagreements? When there is contention in the home, how can a focus on developing Christlike attributes such as charity, patience, and humility in my own life open communications and strengthen family bonds?

Angela Jones Meyers—mom of four, grandma of three; M.S. in Family Life Education, BYU; public speaker; family life educator, curricula developer; executive director, Kudos for Families non-profit; owner, Family Impact Training; served in the Japan Osaka Mission

Shauna M. Ogden—wife, mother of seven (five girls and two boys), 14 grandkids; Young Women general advisory council member; has served in stake and ward Young Women presidencies and ward Relief Society and Primary presidencies; owns a medical practice; serves on Provo City boards

CONCERT HALL, MUSIC BUILDING (MB)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

17 • Following the Examples of Righteous Women in the Scriptures

Woven through the scriptures are stories of faithful and righteous women. From Mary, the earthly mother of Jesus, to Sariah wife of Lehi, to Mother Eve, and Emma Smith, and unnamed women like the woman at the well and the widow of Zarephath, these stories give examples of women like us. These women, who sometimes faltered a little but then rose to the challenges they were faced with because they loved the Lord and were changed through their desire to follow him.

What can I learn from the experiences of these faithful women? How can I liken their experiences to what I am facing in my life? How do their stories and examples strengthen me in my efforts to follow the Savior?

For optional preparation for this session, participants are encouraged to read the following:

1 Kings 17:8–24, Luke 1:39–48, John 4:4–14, 1 Nephi 5:1–9, Doctrine and Covenants 25, Doctrine and Covenants 138:39.

Kathryn Davis—mother; full-time seminary teacher; host of the LDS Living podcast “Magnify”; returned missionary; EFY/FSY speaker and session director; former ward Young Women president; nature lover and trail runner; loves golf, football and a good book on a beach

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

18 •

“Faith Is Not by Chance, but by Choice”

Faith is a principle of power, not only in this life but also beyond the veil, and sometimes we need to remember that the future of our faith is a choice. Elder Neil L. Andersen taught that “faith in the Lord Jesus Christ is not something ethereal, floating loosely in the air. Faith does not fall upon us by chance or stay with us by birthright. Faith in Jesus Christ is a gift from heaven that comes as we choose to believe.…As you continue to make good choices, trust in God, and follow His Son, the Lord sends increased light and knowledge, and your faith becomes settled and unwavering.”

How is faith a principle of power? How does striving to plant even a small seed of faith in my life and nurturing it help me to draw closer to Jesus Christ? How does choosing to believe help to increase my faith?

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How do righteous, faithful choices give me greater confidence in God? How do I hold onto the experiences that have strengthened and built my faith in times that I am struggling?

Meg Johnson—wife, mom; quadriplegic who is paralyzed, but not so paralyzed :) Motivational speaker, author, YouTuber. Loves to inspire people of all abilities with her motto: When life gets too hard to stand, just keep on rollin’!

Rebecca Mehr—computer-scientist-turned-second-mom of six, grandma of 27; mission leader with husband to West Indies, missions to France, Caribbean Area and Puerto Rico; former member of Tabernacle Choir, Provo MTC Relief Society council and general Relief Society board

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

19 • The Spiritual Power of the Temple

Attending the temple is a glorious privilege that brings heavenly power into our lives. Elder David A. Bednar explained, “Honoring covenants arms us with righteousness and with the power of God in great glory.” Remarkable blessings and spiritual power await those who regularly worship in the temple. President Nelson has promised: “[The Savior] wants you to comprehend your privileges, promises, and responsibilities. He wants you to have spiritual insights and awakenings you’ve never had before.… If you don’t yet love to attend the temple, go more often—not less. Let the Lord, through His Spirit, teach and inspire you there. I promise you that over time, the temple will become a place of safety, solace, and revelation.”

How does regular participation in temple ordinances and making and keeping covenants make me a more powerful disciple? In what ways do my covenants arm me with power? What spiritual gifts and help are available to me through my covenant-keeping? How can I more fully realize the blessings promised to those who worship in the temple? What adjustments can I make to my own attitudes or behaviors to more fully experience the promised blessings of temple worship?

Melinda W. Brown—wife, mother, grandmother; serving in BYU freshmen stake; author, Eve & Adam: Discovering the Beautiful Balance; Duke Divinity student pursuing masters in Christian Practice; loves encouraging brave women @brave.like.eve

Christine C. Gilbert—mother of eight; background in education; served as a stake Young Women president, ward Primary president, and early morning Seminary teacher; deeply involved with her husband’s service at BYU-Idaho and BYU-Pathway; an avid skier and loves traveling

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) Noon–1:00 p.m. 20 • The Continuing Restoration

The Restoration of the Fulness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ: A Bicentennial Proclamation to the World is one of only six proclamations issued in this dispensation. It states, “We gladly declare that the promised Restoration goes forward through continuing revelation.” Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf explained what is meant by “ongoing restoration”: “Sometimes we think of the Restoration of the gospel as something that is complete, already behind us.…In reality, the Restoration is an ongoing process; we are living in it right now. It includes ‘all that God has revealed, all that He does now reveal,’ and the ‘many great and important things’ that ‘He will yet reveal’ (Articles of Faith 1:9).”

How can I utilize this proclamation in gospel study and teaching experiences? What evidence have I seen that the Restoration is ongoing? How can I participate fully in the continuing Restoration? How can I follow President Nelson’s counsel to “immerse yourself in the glorious light of the Restoration”? What recent changes have I seen in Church programs as part of the Restoration?

Joseph M. Spencer—Joseph M. Spencer is a philosopher and an assistant professor of ancient scripture at Brigham Young University. He is the author of six books and dozens of articles and book chapters on scripture.

Anne R. Berryhill—Anne Berryhill is an associate historian in the Church History Department. She researches and documents the lives and experiences of women in the Church. She enjoys cooking and baking for family and friends in her spare time.

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3280–3290 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

21 • Trust in the Lord During Challenging Times

Trusting in the Lord may sound easy when life is going well and there are few bumps in our road. However, because challenges, adversity, and opposition are part of the great plan of happiness, knowing that Heavenly Father and the Savior know us, love us, and want what is best for us, and that we can put our trust in Them completely is essential. In Mosiah 24:14 we are taught that the Lord will “ease our burdens…that ye may stand as witnesses for me hereafter, and that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions.”

What are some examples I can find in the scriptures of how the Lord blesses His people in times of challenge? How do I learn to trust in and rely on the strength, mercy, and grace of my Savior as I face life’s challenges? How do I continue to put my trust in God and remember His promises, especially in times of adversity?

Olivia Flitton—returned missionary; student at BYU; works at the Marriott School Business Career Center as a client success specialist

Paige Greenwood—as a griever of both a daughter and grandson, I offer personal experiences with loss, healing, and faith in the Savior to navigate life’s trials. Additionally, I am a retired military wife, Seminary teacher, health educator, and gatherer of people.

2258–2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

22 • “Christlike Attributes: Gifts from a Loving Heavenly Father”

In 2 Peter 1:5–7, the apostle Peter invites us to become disciples of the Savior: “Giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness; And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.” Elder Robert D. Hales taught, “Disciples live so that the characteristics of Christ are woven into the fiber of their beings, as into a spiritual tapestry.” He continued, “The attributes of the Savior… are interwoven characteristics, added one to another, which develop in us in interactive ways. In other words, we cannot obtain one Christlike characteristic without also obtaining and influencing others. As one characteristic becomes strong, so do many more.”

How does a sincere study of Christ’s attributes help me better understand and follow Him? How have I seen the attributes of Christ develop in my life in interactive ways? How does beginning with a focus on one attribute strengthen and improve my discipleship in other ways?

Hollie Rhees Fluhman—award-winning author/editor of “A Place to Belong”; BYU grad and perpetual student; women’s history buff; civil servant; finance manager; wife to favorite human; mother to brilliant and unique individuals for whom she’d like to take credit but knows better

Connie Sokol—mother of seven; former Gospel Doctrine teacher; speaker, author, TV/podcast contributor; returned missionary; pickleball fan; chocolate stasher; teaches women to speak, write, and share their messages on media for Him

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB)

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Caring for Those in Need

Part of our responsibility in the work of salvation and exaltation is caring for those in need. Many times, we see the needs of those around us, but we may not know how to become involved or where to serve. Bishop Dean M. Davies reminded us that, “Caring for the…needy is a fundamental gospel doctrine and an essential element in the eternal plan of salvation.” President Thomas S. Monson further taught that “every day of our lives we are given opportunities to show love and kindness to those around us.”

How can I better recognize and respond to the needs of others? What resources are available to help me begin serving in my neighborhood and community in meaningful ways? What are some small but significant ways I can serve regardless of my circumstances? How is service sanctifying?

Camila Goedert Silva—wife; mother of two; BYU-I Marriage and Family Relations and culinary school graduate; former Young Women and Primary counselor, Relief Society president, and now Activity Days Leader for girls! Table setting, etiquette, and decoration enthusiast; volunteering anywhere, at any time

Shawna Borg—wife, mom, excited grandma-to-be! Co-founder, The Local Bee nonprofit organization; board member of 100 Who Care SLC; former BYU Women’s Conference service chair and service subcommittee member; loves serving in ward Young Women presidency; grateful optimist

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Noon–1:00 p.m.

Concurrent Sessions

1:30–2:30 p.m.

MARRIOTT

CENTER (MC)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

24 • The Incredible Influence of Righteous Women

The influence of righteous women is immeasurable! President Russell M. Nelson pleaded, “My dear sisters, we need you! We need your strength, your conversion, your conviction, your ability to lead, your wisdom and your voices. We simply cannot gather Israel without you.” He invited us as women to make a lasting impact on the world by understanding our “spiritual gifts—to cultivate, use, and expand them, even more than you ever have. You will change the world as you do so.”

How do I develop my capacities to be a righteous woman of influence? In what ways can I identify, cultivate, and use my unique spiritual gifts to bless my family, neighbors, and the world? What can I do to be more confident in boldly sharing my voice? How do I balance seeking unity and speaking out? How can I stretch beyond my comfort zone and let my voice be heard? How can I use my gifts and talents and trust in the Lord when asked to lead in the Lord’s church?

Sandra Rogers (moderator)—daughter, sister, aunt, friend, and neighbor; native Arizonan; favorite Church calling—Primary pianist; retired BYU faculty

Whitney Johnson Catt—athletics professional; ward Relief Society president; Seminary teacher; served in the Mexico, Mexico City Northwest mission; wife, sister; former collegiate athlete; MBA

Liz Darger—BYU senior associate athletic director; BS, MS, and EdD in educational leadership from BYU; Young Women general advisory council member; joyful aunt to 16; common ground seeker; aspiring pickleball player; chips and queso lover

Joy D. Jones—wife, mother of five, grandmother of 23 ½; stake missionary specialist, temple ordinance worker; former member Primary general board, former Primary General President; lover of all things family on both sides of the veil; pickleball player

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

25 • Children and Youth Program and For the Strength of Youth (FSY) Conferences

Just as the Savior “increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man” (Luke 2:52) as he did the work of salvation and exaltation, the Children and Youth program invites today’s rising generation to grow in every area of their lives—and become more like the Savior as they, too, engage in his work. This home-centered, Church-supported program enables children and youth to build faith in Jesus Christ, develop greater resilience and the capacity to overcome challenges, and progress along the covenant path as they participate

in gospel learning, service and activities, and personal development. Elder Gerrit W. Gong explained, “[Children and Youth] focuses on you discovering and becoming your best divine self through activities and service, learning, and growth.” This inspired program includes For the Strength of Youth (FSY) conferences. President Steven J. Lund has spoken about the transformative power of the FSY experience, calling it “a powerful prescription for spiritual awakening.” As the adversary increases his efforts to distract from the good and destroy faith, the FSY experience provides youth with added spiritual strength and a clearer understanding of their identity and purpose.

What role do parents and leaders play in implementing the Children and Youth program? What resources are available to help me understand this program, help my children get started, and support my children when they lack motivation or experience setbacks?

How can parents, families, and leaders support and encourage participation? How does the Children and Youth program prepare the rising generation to make and keep covenants and follow Jesus Christ? What is FSY and how can I help my child prepare to have the best experience there? What role does FSY play in the spiritual trajectory of young men and women? How can I help youth in my ward or family to “nurture holy habits and righteous routines” (Brother Lund) and “carry this spiritual momentum into the rest of [their] life?” How can parents, youth leaders, and class and quorum presidencies work together to create FSY-like experiences throughout the year that help youth build faith in the Savior, develop and strengthen friendships, and find joy in living the gospel of Jesus Christ?

Steven J. Lund—General President of the Young Men organization of the Church; he is a happy husband, father, and grandfather; a former Area Seventy; he and his wife Kalleen served as mission leaders of the Georgia Atlanta mission; business executive and attorney

Ahmad S. Corbitt—full-time missionary Puerto Rico San Juan Mission; former New Jersey stake president; former president, Dominican Republic Santo Domingo East mission; First Counselor in Young Men General Presidency; he and his wife Jayne have six children and 12 grandchildren

Bradley R. Wilcox—husband, father, grandfather; professor, Ancient Scripture, BYU; author; former mission president of the Chile Santiago East mission; Second Counselor in Young Men General Presidency BALLROOM,

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Finding Hope and Help When Struggling with Mental Illness

Mental and emotional afflictions, including depression and anxiety, can cloud our way and overshadow our everyday joy. When these conditions impede our ability to function fully, we may need to seek help and support. Sister Reyna I. Aburto said, “When we open up about our emotional challenges, admitting we are not perfect, we give

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BYU Women’s Conference Sessions

others permission to share their struggles. Together we realize there is hope and we do not have to suffer alone.” Elder Jeffrey R. Holland encourages, “Though we may feel we are ‘like a broken vessel’. . . we must remember, that vessel is in the hands of the divine potter.” Heavenly Father and the Savior are aware of our struggles and have not forgotten us: they can provide hope, help, and ultimate healing. What mental health resources are available to assist me, and how do I determine when professional help is needed? What strategies can help me care for my own mental health when I feel overwhelmed by life’s challenges? How can being open about my mental health challenges bless me and those around me? Why is it important to understand that mental health challenges are part of the mortal experience and not tied to my worthiness?

Jackie Barron—small-town Idaho girl; bishop’s wife; mother of five with three teens (send help!); returned missionary; athlete; Southern Virginia University grad; certified Yoga Instructor; hosts weekly meditation Mondays online; settles debates with a good leg wrestle Cheryl McBride—mother, wife; therapist for nearly 30 years; temple worker; served in the Zurich, Switzerland mission; passionate about helping others see their divine value and worth

CONCERT HALL, MUSIC BUILDING (MB)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

27 • “My Grace Is Sufficient” (Ether 12:27)

“Grace is a gift from Heavenly Father given through His son, Jesus Christ. The word grace… refers primarily to enabling power and spiritual healing offered through the mercy and love of Jesus Christ” (Gospel Topics). Moroni was comforted by the Lord when He said, “My grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me and have faith in me (Ether 12:27). Elder Bruce C. Hafen has written, “The Savior’s gift of grace to us is not necessarily limited in time to ‘after’ all we can do. We may receive his grace before, during and after the time when we expend our own efforts.” Sister Michelle D. Craig proclaimed, “The good news of the gospel is that with the grace of God, we are enough. With Christ’s help, we can do all things. The scriptures promise that we will ‘find grace to help in time of need.’ The surprising truth is that our weaknesses can be a blessing when they humble us and turn us to Christ.”

How does His grace turn our weakness into strength? What teachings help us understand that receiving [His] grace “is not achieved somewhere down the road. It is received right here and right now”? (Bradley R. Wilcox). How does humility and faith in our Savior help us receive the gift of His grace? What does it mean that “His grace is sufficient”?

For optional preparation for this session, participants are encouraged to read the following: Luke 1:37, Hebrews 4:14–16, 2 Nephi 10:24–25, 2 Nephi 25:23–26, 29, Ether 12:26–27, Moroni 10:32–33, Bible Dictionary-Grace.

Lori Newbold—Lover of truth and all things Jesus Christ; committed aunt of 16; Institute teacher; mental health counselor; Young Women general advisory council member; lover of people; connoisseur of chocolate milk; jack of all trades, master of none; WITNESS OF CHRIST!!!

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

28 • Preparing for the Return of the Savior

Many prophecies of the last days involve tragedy and widespread wickedness, yet the obedient have much to look forward to. As faithful disciples of Christ eagerly await His return, Elder D. Todd Christofferson reminds us that a prerequisite for that glorious event “is the presence on the earth of a people prepared to receive Him at His coming.” In addition to personally striving to be ready for the Lord’s return, Latter-day Saints have “a responsibility to prepare the Church of the Lamb of God to receive the Lamb of God” (Elder Jeffrey R. Holland) and to “try to influence the preparation of those around us” (President Dallin H. Oaks).

What are some of the prophecies that have been fulfilled, and which signs can I watch for to know that the hour of his coming is nigh? (D&C 133:17). What choices am I making today that are preparing me to receive the Lord? In what ways can I invite and encourage others to become ready for the Second Coming? What are the characteristics of a people and a Church ready to receive the Lamb of God?

Tyler Griffin—Tyler has taught Seminary and Institute, and now teaches at BYU in the Department of Ancient Scripture, currently serving as an associate dean; he married Kiplin Crook and they have 10 children; he does “Come, Follow Me Insights” with Scripture Central

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

29 • The Blessings of Following Prophetic Counsel

Like prophets of old, throughout his ministry, President Russell M. Nelson has extended numerous invitations to help us become more like the Savior and draw closer to him. Intended for both individuals and a global audience, these calls to action have included the plea to “increase [our] spiritual capacity to receive revelation,” “let God prevail,” for seven days “turn social media into your own personal gratitude journal,” “make time for the Lord,” “read the Book of Mormon,” “repent daily,” “increase your understanding of priesthood power and temple covenants and blessings,” “do all you can to end personal conflicts,” “establish a pattern of regular temple attendance,” and “Hear Him.” As promised, those who chose to accept these prophetic invitations have experienced increased peace, joy, power, healing, rest, and personal revelation.

What blessings have I been promised and experienced when I follow prophetic counsel? How can seeking personal revelation as I consider

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Map

BYU Women’s Conference

COURTESY SHUTTLES run the routes shown below to the stops indicated with bus icons. Please give preference to seniors and those with mobility issues. See page 15 for information on conference parking, wheelchair van, and disability parking.

BUILDINGS:

CONF/HCEB— Conference Center and Harman Building

HC— Hinckley Vistors Center

JSB— Joseph Smith Building

MB— Music Building

MC— Marriott Center

MOA— Museum of Art

RB— Richards Building

SFH— Smith Fieldhouse

WSC— Wilkinson Student Center

LEGENDS: Parking Conference Buildings Disability Parking Shuttle Stops

UVX Bus Rapid Transit Dining No Shuttle Available

PLEASE continue to exhibit kindness, consideration, and patience when parking and using the shuttle service. Your actions can and do affect the experiences of other attendees. When using the shuttles, plan for an extra 20–30 minutes to get from the parking lots to the Marriott Center.

ROUTES:

PINK , RED , GREEN , ORANGE Limited shuttles will also run the BLUE , BROWN routes during both days.

EVENING SHUTTLES

Thursday, 4:00–11:00 p.m.: BLUE , BROWN ,

PINK , *ORANGE (*ends at 8:00 p.m.)

Friday, 4:00–6:00 p.m.: PINK , BLUE , BROWN

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Come enjoy a great dining experience at The Commons. We offer all-you-care-to-eat from six different food platforms, which include the following: a salad and fruit bar, pasta, entrée choices, burgers, soups, waffles, desserts, and more.

For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/cannon-commons

LOCATION: Helaman Halls, Cannon Commons

WOMEN’S CONFERENCE HOURS:

Thu.–Sat. (Breakfast) 6:30–9:30 a.m.

Thu.–Fri. (Lunch) 11:00 a.m.–1:30 p.m.

Wed.–Fri. (Dinner) 4:30–7:30 p.m.

Don’t lose your parking spot to drive around looking for a restaurant. Stay at the Marriott Center and enjoy great food without the hassle. Choose from sandwiches, entreés, salads, BYU brownies, and more. Also enjoy food booths from outside restaurants and food trucks. We will also have locations in the Smith Fieldhouse on Thursday and Friday, such as BYU’s Blue Ribbon Box, and a food truck roundup for the service project! For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/concessions

LOCATION:

Marriott Center and Smith Fieldhouse

HOURS: Marriott

Wed. 3:30–8:30 p.m.

Thu. 7:30 a.m.–4:40 p.m. (a few stands will reopen for concert at 5:30 p.m.)

Fri. 7:30 a.m.–TBD

Smith Fieldhouse

Thu.–Fri. 10:30 a.m.–3 p.m.

Social gatherings and great food fill the Cougareat. You’ll find Aloha Plate, Subway, Chick-fil-A, Choices, Cougar Café, Cougar Express, Milk & Cookies, Papa John’s, Taco Bell and Wendy’s. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/cougareat

LOCATION:

Wilkinson Student Center

HOURS: Mon.–Fri. 7 a.m.–8 p.m. (hours vary by operation)

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Enjoy lunch and appeal to your finer tastes with fruit, sandwiches, salads, soups, breads, and entrees at this bistro cuisine café located in the Museum of Art. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/moacafe

LOCATION:

Museum of Art

HOURS:

Thu.–Fri. 10:30 a.m.–4:00 p.m.

Come try out the Blue Line Deli, a Deli located on the first floor in the Tanner Building! We offer a variety of delicious, one-of-a-kind sandwiches that make the journey over well worth it.

For more information visit: dining.byu.edu/blue-line-deli

LOCATION:

Tanner Building

HOURS:

Thu. 8 a.m.–7 p.m. Fri. 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Come elevate your dining experience! Join us for lunch at the Skyroom restaurant and enjoy panoramic views of the beautiful mountains and the surrounding campus. Enjoy your gourmet four course lunch served to your table. By reservation only, please email skyroom-reservations@byu.edu or call 801-422-9020. To see what menu the Chef has created, visit: dining.byu.edu/skyroom

LOCATION:

Wilkinson Student Center, 6th floor

HOURS:

Thu.–Fri. 11:00 a.m.–2:00 p.m.

Fill up on an all-American meal of hamburgers, fries, and milkshakes in a ’50s-style atmosphere. When you’re finished, stock up on groceries with a variety of fresh fruits, vegetables, meats, bakery items, and household products. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/creameries

LOCATION:

1200 North 900 East MON–SAT HOURS:

Store 7:00 a.m.–10:00 p.m.

Grill 11:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

Ice Cream 11:00 a.m.–9:00 p.m

Enjoy a refreshing smoothie any time of day. Choose from a variety of delicious fruit combinations. For menu information, visit: dining.byu.edu/retail-locations/jamba

LOCATIONS:

Wilkinson Student Center, 2nd floor Student Athlete Building

HOURS:

Wilkinson Student Center (WSC)

Thu. 8:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

Fri. 8:00 a.m.–7:00 p.m.

Student Athlete Building (SAB)

Thu. 9:00 a.m.–7:00 p.m.

Fri. 9:00 a.m.–4:00 p.m.

Cosmo’s Mini Mart offers an enticing selection of breakfast, lunch, and dinner options available early and late. Find delicious sandwiches, pizza, chips, drinks, and more. Whether you are looking for a snack or a meal, or you need that toothbrush, shampoo, or Kleenex that you forgot to pack, you’ll find it here!

Please visit: byustore.com

LOCATION:

Southwest corner of the BYU Store

HOURS:

Wed.–Fri. 8:00 a.m.–7:00 p.m.

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the prophet’s invitations help me determine where to focus my efforts first? Which invitations have I overlooked or could I do a better job of implementing in my life right now? How can increased study and implementation of prophetic counsel increase my testimony and faith?

Tawna Fowler—adoring aunt, sister, and daughter; finding joy in the great and small; humanitarian; big fan of nature, chocolate, travel and fireflies; adventurer; book nerd; current and former ward Relief Society presidency member; MA, MPA; lover of life and the gospel of Jesus Christ

Alynda Kusch—wife, mother, grandmother; companion to husband as he serves as president of Ensign College; mission leader companion in Mexico Cuernavaca mission; Seminary teacher; served in ward and stake Primary, Relief Society and Young Women presidencies

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

30 • “The Heart of Her Husband Doth Safely Trust in Her” (Proverbs 31:11)

“‘The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her.’ This memorable line discloses, first, that the husband has entrusted his heart to his wife, and second, that she safeguards it. They seem to understand an important truth, that every man and woman who covenant to establish a family must create a safe place for their love” (Sister Barbara B. Smith). Trust is central to a happy marriage and is the very foundation upon which strong relationships are built. Eternal marriage requires complete loyalty. However, marital bonds can weaken when we discredit our spouse or share relationship challenges freely. Sister Smith continued, “The longing of the human heart is often for someone who will treat tenderly the devotion one has to give.”

How does a marriage with Christ as its foundation build trust? How can we demonstrate to our spouse our confidence and loyalty both publicly and in private conversations? How can I keep confidences, avoid compromising situations, and foster loyalty? What can be done to build trust in marriage when it is lacking?

Matthew Wickman—professor of English at BYU; writes and teaches about relationships between spiritual experience and literature; father of two daughters; husband to Kerry Kerry Wickman—psychotherapist; lover of nature and gardening; former personal chef; current ward Relief Society president; mother to two young adult daughters and an adopted refugee family; wife for 27 years to her best friend, Matthew

3280–3290 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 1:30–2:30 p.m.

31 • Living Joyfully amidst Grieving Days

The prophet Lehi declared that the purpose of mortal life is that we “might have joy” (2 Nephi 2:25), yet often we feel the opposite. When we are in the midst of grief, loneliness, heartache, and loss, we

may find it difficult to feel joy or even to hope that joy is an eventual possibility, yet the psalmist promised “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning” (Psalm 30:5). President Russell M. Nelson taught, “The joy we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives.… When the focus of our lives is on God’s plan of salvation and Jesus Christ and His gospel, we can feel joy regardless of what is happening—or not happening—in our lives.”

What must I do to claim the joy Heavenly Father has promised? How can I continually experience joy on the covenant path despite a heavy, grieving heart? What can I do to live a life with increased gratitude and joy? How does centering my life on the Atonement of Jesus Christ help me find joy?

Julie Lee—keynote speaker on transforming culture through human connection; author of “I See You” and “Broccolipunzle”; podcast host of “I See You”; former second grade teacher; yogi; severe extrovert; puzzler, cuddle bug, and mother to Sam and Lydee

John Goodson—passionate follower of Jesus the Christ; one woman man; constantly admires six amazing children; vibrant, enthusiastic counselor for 22 years; and all things music (especially percussion), relationships, and sailing

2258–2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

32 • The Savior’s Embrace Extends to All

Sister J. Anette Dennis reminded us, “Many talks have been given by our Church leaders on charity, unity, love, kindness, compassion, forgiveness, and mercy. I believe the Savior is inviting us to live a higher, holier way—His way of love where all can feel they truly belong and are needed.” Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints represent a wide variety of backgrounds, cultures, viewpoints and lifestyles. Yet despite these differences, each individual needs to feel they truly belong. Whether you yourself feel like you do not belong or notice others who are struggling, by striving to see yourself and others as the Savior does and emulating His example, you can increase belonging and inclusion in His Church.

How can I better fulfill my responsibility to create a spirit of unity and inclusion within the body of Christ? What can I do to resist the inclination to judge others and show greater compassion and understanding? What beliefs, assumptions, or prejudices do I need to confront in order to change myself and see others as Christ sees them?

Elissa McConkie-Gifford—humanitarian, refugee advocate, adventure seeker, traveler; sister to 13, auntie to 79 and brand-new wife! BSW; Master’s in International Management; mission in Spain. My deepest desire is to be useful and to leave the world better than I found it.

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BYU Women’s Conference Sessions

Concurrent Sessions

3:00–4:15 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

3:00–4:15 p.m.

33 • Every Soul Is Precious: Ministering with Love

In 2018, visiting teaching was replaced with a “holier approach to caring for and ministering to others,” simply referred to as “ministering” (President Russell M. Nelson). Ministering is both a heavenly responsibility and sacred privilege, yet we sometimes do not engage in ministering efforts because we feel unsure about where to begin, do not understand how this approach is different and similar to visiting teaching, and fear we will fall short. President Henry B. Eyring taught, “When you sit with someone as their ministering sister or brother, you represent the Lord. Think of what He would do or say. He would invite them to come unto Him.”

What resources are available to help me in my ministering efforts? What role do communication and inspiration play in meaningful and effective ministering? How can I overcome awkwardness and apprehension about my ministering assignments? How do I strive to be more like the Savior in my interactions with others as a ministering sister and gain a testimony of ministering? How can I better support and encourage other women and young women in their ministering efforts?

Ruth Jones Todd (moderator)—wife, mother, grandmother; former television news anchor; former church spokesperson; current senior vice president of Public Affairs; community volunteer; Young Women general advisory council member; host for Music and the Spoken Word; BA and MBA from BYU

Renee Arteaga—daughter, sister; retuned missionary; served as assistant to the Lima Peru Temple matron, various callings in the Primary, Young Women and Sunday School; member of the Primary general advisory council; love to cook and use creativity in many ways

Vicki G. Jackman—wife, mother, grandmother; member of the Young Women general advisory council; served with husband as YSA missionaries in the England, London mission; avid reader and biker; camping with grandchildren is her happy place!

Hannah Miller—Relief Society member since 2007; researcher, writer, art admirer, and aunt to 13

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH)

3:00–4:15 p.m.

34 • Why I Stay: “Jesus Saith Unto Her, Woman, Believe Me” (John 4:21)

When the woman went to the well for water, her mind was fixed on the chores of the day. Life weighed heavy until she met Him there, and she was changed forever. Jesus Christ tutored and taught her, to the very workings in her heart. She cast her eyes upward and raised her sights to a higher spiritual place. He taught her to “worship Him in Spirit and in truth.” He gave her freedom to worship in the depths of her heart where He would know the very things she needed beyond the water she came for. She left knowing her “why.” Why she believed in Jesus Christ, and why He believed in her (John 4:1–30).

Why do I need Jesus Christ in a world that is leaving Him behind? What’s my “why” for continuing to believe in Christ and His gospel? Even when I wrestle with questions, what precious gospel truths do I have because of Him? What evidences of His redeeming love have I witnessed that keep my heart rooted in His love and grace? What do I see when I see myself through His eyes?

Emily Snyder (moderator)—lover of experiences, jumping jacks, tears, journals, deep thoughts, and lots of laughter; teacher turned business master - and hoping to fall in love with hiking again

Susan Easton Black—Susan Easton Black was the first woman to teach religion at BYU and the first woman to receive the Karl G. Maeser Distinguished Faculty Lecturer Award for her research and writing, the highest award given a professor at BYU

Kayla Jackson—wife, daughter, and oldest sister; head of marketing for Africa at FamilySearch; native and current resident of Washington D.C.; BYU grad in Political Science; serves in stake Young Women presidency; classically trained pianist and part-time accompanist

Andrea Ryser—wife and mother, reluctantly adjusting to an almostempty nest; former BYU Women’s Conference project leader, service subcommittee member; podcast listener; “home chef”; lover of all things Women’s Conference and Relief Society; blessed by sisterhood

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BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

3:00–4:15 p.m.

35 • Supporting Others in Their Individual Faith Journeys

The mortal journey of faith began with Adam and Eve. They learned from their own experience, and this is true for each of us and our loved ones. With the gift of agency, we know each person’s journey is filled with individual choices, and sometimes those we love may choose a different way than the covenant path. President Russell M. Nelson reminded us, “If friends and family…step away from the Church, continue to love them. It is not for you to judge another’s choice any more than you deserve to be criticized for staying faithful.” President Henry B. Eyring promised: “You can pray for your children, love them, and reach out to them with confidence that Jesus reaches for them with you.”

How can I show respect for my loved one and their faith choices when they pause or step away from the covenant path? How do I learn to have faith in President Eyring’s promise? How can I learn to hear and act on the Lord’s direction to me about what I should and should not do? How can I continue to have meaningful conversations with loved ones about Jesus Christ?

Chelsea Hayden (moderator)—inspirational speaker; EFY session director; LDS Living and Scripture Central contributor; former Seminaries and Institutes instructor; single mother of three; mixedorientation and mixed-faith co-parenting relationship; focuses on faith and compassion

Sherri Cook—wife, mother, grandmother; works with and loves the youth; likes music, movies, and books; super geek who enjoys Star Wars and plays Dungeons and Dragons; 40+ years learning to love others for who they are

Bryna Holland—teen convert; mom of three; public defender; stake communication director; grandkids’ buddy; supporter of faith explorers; oil painter in training

Allison Strang—wife; mother of three young adult/teens; technology professional; wanderer of Middle Earth; avid book reader whose alltime favorite place is home

CONCERT

36 • Your True Identity and Divine Potential

In a worldwide devotional, President Russell M. Nelson shared these divine truths: “Because there is a grand plan of salvation authored by Heavenly Father, does it not stand to reason that you also have a divine destiny? Make no mistake about it: Your potential is divine. With your diligent seeking, God will give you glimpses of who you may become. So who are you? First and foremost, you are a child of God, a child of the covenant, and a disciple of Jesus Christ. As you embrace these truths, our Heavenly Father will help you reach your ultimate goal of living eternally in His holy presence.”

When I question my worth, how do I focus on God’s love and his revealed truth about my divine nature? How can my personal study of the scriptures and the words of the living prophets help me understand that I am a beloved daughter of heavenly parents and that God has great plans for me? How does understanding my divine identity give me insight into the divine identity of all Heavenly Father’s children?

Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt (moderator)—Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt is a wife and mother, a sister, daughter, friend, and teacher. Above all, she is a follower of Jesus Christ. Currently, she and her family live in Rexburg, Idaho where she is a religious educator at Brigham Young University-Idaho

Brittany Beattie—daughter, sister, aunt; Primary general advisory council member; assistant managing editor at Liahona magazine; lifelong learner; fan of nature, board games, sports, temple and family history work, and time with others

Carol Costley—Carol Costley is a wife, mother, and grandmother; a member of the Young Women general advisory council; employed as a social worker; enjoys crafting, gardening, cooking, and acting in local theater

Andrea McConkie—mother, daughter, sister, friend, provider, believer; Canadian missionary; Relief Society general advisory council member; strives to be a covenant keeper; loves the work of ministering to all of God’s children

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HALL, MUSIC BUILDING (MB)
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3:00–4:15
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BYU Women’s Conference Sessions

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 3:00–4:15 p.m.

37 • From Toddlers to Teens: Mothering When You Feel like Surrendering

A toddler spills juice across the carpet, another child upends a box of toys, one won’t eat the food you prepared, and repeated reminders to another to pack homework and lunch prove unsuccessful and they are forgotten—again. To busy mothers, little day-to-day situations can sometimes become exasperating and at times seem overwhelming.

Patricia T. Holland wrote, “Mothering, I believe, requires engaging every muscle, every nerve, every fiber of our being, and through it all we pray,” and Elder Jeffrey R. Holland counseled, “To all mothers in every circumstance, including those who struggle, I say, ‘God bless you. You are doing better than you think you are.”

When I feel my resources are spent, what are ways I can receive the Savior’s comfort and strength? When I put my responsibilities in a gospel perspective, how does that help me feel peace, hope and reassurance as a mother? How can having a sense of humor replace frustration and help strengthen family bonds? In what ways can we as mothers reach out, connect, and support one another? How do I make time for my own spiritual, social, physical, and emotional nourishment?

Lisa Valentine Clark (moderator)—podcast host, actress, writer, producer; founding member of The Thrillionaires theater as improv troupe; mother of five, and “that mom” on commercials, TV, and movies; widow

Jeri L. Cahoon—wife, mother, grandmother; member, Young Women general advisory council; served with husband as mission leaders in the Mexico Saltillo mission; Partner/Principle Designer, CahoonDesign, working on several temples

Kathleen Miner—wife, mother of four, grandmother of seven; Primary general advisory council member; led the Russia Rostov-na-Donu mission with my husband 2015-2018; I love all things family, service, walking with friends, gardening and ice cream!

Sharlene Miner—wife to one, mother of five; Relief Society general advisory council member; alto in Tabernacle Choir; emergency physician; likes to hike, especially with a friend; enjoys cooking, biking, and weeding—a therapeutic task done in solitude that lasts more than a day

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 3:00–4:15 p.m.

38 • The Importance of Our Individual Spiritual Momentum

As we work to rebuild our lives in a post-pandemic world, many have found it difficult to re-engage in regular routines, including attending all our church meetings and serving in callings. President Russell M. Nelson warned that maintaining positive spiritual momentum is key to our success and happiness in these challenging latter-days: “We have seen examples of both positive and negative momentum. We know followers of Jesus Christ who became converted and grew in their faith. But we also know of once-committed believers who fell away. Momentum can swing either way. We have never needed positive spiritual momentum more than we do now, to counteract the speed with which evil and the darker signs of the times are intensifying.” How do I recognize if spiritual momentum is propelling me towards a closer relationship with Christ and strengthening my faith or moving me in the opposite direction? How does my faith in Jesus Christ motivate me to action? How does making and keeping sacred covenants increase the Savior’s power in my life? How can I effectively invite those who have lost spiritual momentum to re-engage in gospel living and Church service?

Ganel-Lyn Condie (moderator)—author of 13 books, speaker, co-host of “Talk of Him”; wife of 32 years, mother of two miracle children; mental health advocate, lupus warrior; TV and radio contributor; elementary education degree from ASU; Relief Society teacher; willing to have the authentic conversations

Jolene H. Bingham—wife, mother, grandmother, and recent unexpected widow discovering the promised rainbows following life’s storms, leaving puddles of joy for me to jump in, and learning firsthand that “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.”

Amy Soto—listening friend, introverted social butterfly, pen and notebook afficionado, karaoke enthusiast, avid non-fiction reader, native Californian; returned missionary, Career Exploration professor; associate director, BYU University Advisement Center

Christy Spencer—Christy will be first to tell you she doesn’t have it all figured out. But that doesn’t stop this wife, mother, writer, and naturelover from examining life with curiosity, humor and faith - from the crushingly mundane to the gloriously divine.

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Friday Morning Opening Keynote Session

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

9:00–10:00 a.m.

Celestial Living in a Telestial World

Sheri L. Dew—is a native of Ulysses, Kansas, and a graduate of BYU. She has written a number of best-selling books, including the biographies of three Presidents of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints: Presidents Russell M. Nelson, Gordon B. Hinckley, and Ezra Taft Benson. She served from 1997 to 2002 as Second Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency and is executive vice president and chief content officer of Deseret Management Corporation.

Concurrent Sessions

10:30–11:30 a.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

39 • Our Bodies: Essential for Eternal Progression and Joy

What do you do with a gift—especially a gift you will have and use every day of your life? “The gift of a physical body is priceless. Without it, we cannot attain a fulness of joy” (President Russell M. Nelson). Heavenly Father is a giver of the best gifts. What does He want us to know about this gift that houses our spirits? “The experiences you’re having with your body can help you prepare to receive one day a perfect, resurrected, glorified body” (For the Strength of Youth: A Guide for Making Choices). Our potential is unlimited. Our inheritance is sacred. As we learn to see and use our bodies as God would have us do, we will find a divine sense of peace and greater confidence to do all that is required of us.

Bonnie H. Cordon—Young Women General President; forever changed by the love and light of young women around the world; member of the Church’s Missionary Executive Committee and BYU Board of Trustees who loves scuba diving, Curitiba Brazil missionaries, and being a grandma

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

40 • “Whatever My Lot…It Is Well with My Soul”

In the opening of “It is Well with My Soul” we hear, “When peace like a river attendeth my way, when sorrows like sea billows roll, whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say it is well, it is well with my soul.” In D&C 19:23 we are taught by the Savior, “Learn of me, and listen to my words; walk in the meekness of my Spirit, and you shall have peace in me.” And in John 14:27, as Christ is teaching his disciples and preparing them for the time he will not physically be with them, he declared, “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.”

How does the peace of Christ differ from the peace of the world? What daily choices can I make so that “when sorrows like sea billows roll” in my life I can feel the peace of Christ? As I experience the peace of Christ, how can I share that peace with others? What role does the Holy Ghost play in bringing the peace of Christ into my life?

Jodi Orgill Brown—authenticity, resilience, and interactions expert; professional speaker, certified business consultant and coach; awardwinning author; Master’s degree in organizational communication and leadership; bishop’s wife, mother of four; brain tumor survivor

Jennie Taylor—Gold Star widow; mother of seven; served a mission in Chile and on Easter Island before graduating from BYU and Utah State; adjunct professor; podcast host; prolific PTA volunteer; determined to continue living happily even after things go wrong

BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

41 • Hold Fast to What You Already Know

The simple words of the Primary song, “Heavenly Father, are you really there?” are profound. There are times, despite our obedience and knowing that we are serving Him to the best of our ability, we feel Heaven is distant, and our testimony may waver. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland testified, “In moments of fear or doubt or troubling times, hold the ground you have already won, even if that ground is limited…When those moments come and issues surface, the resolution of which is not immediately forthcoming, hold fast to what you already know and stand strong until additional knowledge comes.”

How does “hold[ing] fast to what [I] already know” strengthen me when questions or challenges come? How do I look for and recognize the small assurances that Heavenly Father has already given me that He is always there? How do I remain patient, faithful, and confident in His Plan of Happiness and His unwavering love for me?

Michael Goodman—Mike Goodman is an associate professor of Religion at BYU with a Ph.D in Marriage, Family and Human Development; he has served on several general church committees, as a mission president, bishop, and most importantly as a husband, father, and grandpa

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Jennifer Kerns Davis—striving to be a good steward of her experiences, Jen cherishes lessons learned through life adversity, even though it can be a high price to pay for the learnings; she can also name most mountain wildflowers, and can’t wait to hug her angels again

CONCERT HALL, MUSIC BUILDING (MB)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

42 • With Holy and Devoted Hearts

In His Sermon on the Mount, Jesus Christ taught the very essence of believing and following in higher and holier ways. The Savior expanded the law of Moses and taught a higher law to His followers that pointed toward Him and His future Atonement (Matthew 5–7). In Ether 12:11, we are taught, “Wherefore, by faith was the law of Moses given. But in the gift of his Son hath God prepared a more excellent way.” President Russell M. Nelson taught, “As we strive to live the higher laws of Jesus Christ, our hearts and our very natures begin to change. The Savior lifts us above the pull of this fallen world by blessing us with greater charity, humility, generosity, kindness, self-discipline, peace, and rest.”

What do I need to stop doing or start doing to live in higher and holier ways? What things can I choose to be an instrument in the Lord’s hands? As I love the Lord with all of my heart, might, mind and strength (D&C 4:2), how am I changed? How can I help those I love and teach experience the blessings of living and serving in higher and holier ways?

For optional preparation for this session, participants are encouraged to read the following: Jeremiah 18:4–6, Jeremiah 31:31–34, 2 Corinthians 3:3, Enos 1:7–9, Doctrine and Covenants 8:2–10. Gaye Strathearn—grew up in Australia; teacher; professor of Ancient Scripture and one of the associate deans of Religion at BYU; PhD in Religion (New Testament); I love the gospel of Jesus Christ, trying to be a better disciple as I travel the covenant path

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 10:30–11:30

a.m.

43 • A Willingness to Become His Disciple

“The Church is a gathering place for imperfect individuals who love God and who are willing to follow the Lord Jesus Christ” (Elder Kevin W. Pearson). There is a sacred willingness of heart that comes with believing in Jesus Christ and practicing discipleship. Practicing faith and having a willing heart remove the checklist perspective from our lives and change it to a willingness to become His disciples. Each week we bring our hearts to the altar as we partake of the sacrament and render an account of the makings of our days. This practice of being willing, building faith and becoming, rather than expecting immediate perfection, requires patience of our heart, our mind, and our willingness to study, learn, and live as we strive to become disciples of Jesus Christ.

Rather than viewing discipleship as a checklist of things I need to do, how can I focus on daily choices that show my willingness to become like my Savior? How can the blessing of the sacrament each week give me time to review, render, revise, and rejoice in my willingness and individual growth? How do I remove the idea of perfectionism in my life and approach the things He asks me to do with patience, a willing heart, and a knowledge that I am learning to become like Him?

Linda P. Dunn—grandmother to 12! Favorite Church callings: mission leader in Johannesburg South Africa mission, Young Women high adventure camp leader, nursery worker, Gospel Doctrine teacher; M.S. Education Administration; service learning/engaged learning practitioner

Patrick D. Degn—husband, father of four; Institute Instructor in Logan, Utah; author and frequent tour guide to the Holy Land and other historical/religious sites; savors nature, romantic poets, and the Oxford Inklings; MA in Military History-Classical Warfare

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

44 • “Let Us Not Underestimate the Marvelous Work the Lord Is Doing through Us”

Sister Reyna I. Aburto explained, “The Church is more than the buildings and the ecclesiastical structure; the Church is us, the members. We are The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, with Christ at the head and the prophet as His mouthpiece…let us realize how privileged we are to belong to the Church of Jesus Christ, where we can unite our faith, hearts, strengths, minds, and hands for Him to perform His mighty miracles.”

How can even my small efforts to serve others make a significant difference in God’s kingdom? What talents and abilities do I have that can help strengthen the Church? What are some examples I have seen of uniting with others to perform God’s miracles—great or small? How can I recognize the marvelous work the Lord is doing through me and my willingness to serve Him?

Starr Anderson—mother of eight; Gospel Doctrine and Pathway Institute teacher; served a mission in Bilbao, Spain; BA in Social Work; has taught at various Christian events about the Savior; just started working as a school secretary; currently lives in North Carolina

Marilyn Rizley—a few of my favorite roles in life are: wife, mother, grandmother, disciple and friend; I served in leadership of L’viv Ukraine Mission 2015-18 and Nauvoo Historic Sites 2020-2022; Seminary volunteer for 12 years; mountain biker, hiker, quilter

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3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

45 • Seeking Progression along the Road to Perfection

We came to earth to prove ourselves—to learn and grow through experiences and choices, including mistakes, as we learn to follow and become more like the Savior. Too often we prevent ourselves from enjoying the blessings and happiness of the gospel because we focus on what we are not, instead of what we are and who we can become.

Elder Bruce C. Hafen said that developing a Christlike character “requires patience and persistence more than it requires flawlessness,” and Sister Reyna I. Aburto taught that “Achieving perfection is a process that will take place throughout our mortal life and beyond— and only through the grace of Jesus Christ.”

How can I strive for steady improvement as I try to be more patient and persistent in my attempts to develop a Christlike character? How can learning more about the Savior’s Atonement help me recognize that He does not expect flawlessness, but that He does expect effort, striving, and repenting? How can I remember that He is there to help me through the ups and downs of trying to be more like Him?

Lizzy Jensen—disciple, wife, and mom of five; former missionary in Croatia; founder of Small Seed; former attorney turned advocate to empower women to create a life they love and give their unique gifts to change the world

Jamie Glenn—aunt, sister, friend; currently Gospel Doctrine teacher; served in many callings in Young Women; retired after a career in Church employment; composer of “Walk Tall, You’re a Daughter of God”

3280–3290 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

46 • Our God Is a God of Miracles

Elder Ronald A. Rasband testified, “[Jesus Christ’s] Atonement, culminating with His Resurrection after three days in a borrowed tomb, stands as the greatest miracle in human history. ‘For behold,’ He pronounced, ‘I am God; and I am a God of miracles.’ He continued, “Miracles, signs, and wonders abound among followers of Jesus Christ today, in your lives and in mine.… There are times we hope for a miracle…looking at things through mortal eyes, we want the Lord to intervene, to fix what is broken. Through faith, the miracle will come, though not necessarily on our timetable or with the resolution we desired. Does that mean we are less than faithful or do not merit His intervention? No. We are beloved of the Lord. He gave His life for us, and His Atonement continues to release us from burdens and sin as we repent and draw close to Him.”

Why does the Lord ask me to pray and fast for miracles with faith? What are some examples of His miracles that I have seen in the Church, my life, and in the lives of those I love? What are scriptural examples of both great and mighty miracles and private miracles the

Lord has performed? How can I move forward in faith and trust in the Lord when the miracle I had prayed and hoped for is not the miracle I received?

Sara Olsen—mother of seven, grandmother of 10; served as service project leader and on the BYU Women’s Conference service subcommittee; loves serving in all church callings; avid reader and loves family game nights; traveler, nature-lover but also homebody; believer in miracles

Taylor Morris—husband, father; singer/performer (“John” in Lamb of God: The Concert Film); public speaker; works for BYU Performing Arts Management; MPA; Elders Quorum president; loves movies, racquetball, and snuggling with family

2258–2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

47 • Meaningful and Purposeful Gospel Study

Studying the gospel of Jesus Christ brings great strength, surety, and direction. Stepping away from worldly influences to be illuminated by His word is one of the greatest ways to be reminded of our divine identity as His daughters. “As we look to the future and anticipate the ever more confused and turbulent world in which we will live, I believe it will be essential for all of us to increase our capacity to seek learning by faith. In our personal lives, in our families, and in the Church, we can and will receive the blessings of spiritual strength, direction, and protection as we seek by faith to obtain and apply spiritual knowledge” (Elder David A. Bednar).

What are some ways I can become more effective in my gospel learning? How can I make meaningful and purposeful gospel study a priority in my daily life? How can I not only seek and find, but act on, apply, and live what I am learning?

Krista M. Isaacson—Gospel Library App User Awareness missionary; speaker; author of “Unbearable Burden,” a faith-filled memoir about the loss of her two-year-old daughter to cancer only 30 hours after diagnosis; married mother of six kids and first-time grandma

Tiffanie Browne—wife and mother of four girls; Seminary and Institute instructor; served in New York Utica mission; B.S. in Mathematics from U of U; avid runner, outdoor enthusiast and conference talk lover

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BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB)

10:30–11:30 a.m.

48 • “Love One Another”

As our wards and communities become more diverse, we have the opportunity to learn from and associate with people from different backgrounds, beliefs, experiences, and faiths. The parable of the Good Samaritan emphasizes that everyone is our neighbor, and Nephi teaches that “all are alike unto God” (2 Nephi 26:33). Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf remarked: “We must move forward and lift up our fellow men, whoever they are. We must invite them into our circles, wherever they are, and do it in a way that they do not feel excluded. We are all brothers and sisters. We are all children of our Heavenly Father.” How can I learn to see others as my Heavenly Father sees them? In what ways can I develop sincere friendships with those who have different experiences, backgrounds, and cultures than my own? What can I do to respect others, show kindness, and ‘’live together in love’’ (D&C 42:45)? How can we embrace our similarities and learn from our differences? In what ways can I reach out to those in my ward and community and build Christ-like relationships?

Emily Orton—wife, mom; raised five resilient kids in NYC, and with her kids spent 2014 on a sailboat and 2016-2020 as international land nomads; speaker; co-author, “Seven at Sea”; co-founder, The Awesome Factory; BA in teaching from BYU; currently teaching youth Sunday School

Nolong Bullock—mother of four grown children; grandmother of two boys; lives in Atlanta, Georgia; vice president of auto loan operations at a national bank; went to BYU for three years, graduated in Atlanta; ward Primary president; doting wife; sings from time to time with seven siblings and parents as part of the Bonner Family

Concurrent Sessions

Noon–1:00 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

49 • Because We Seek to Hear and Do Not Fear

All of us have felt fear in the sudden storms of life and in the chaos of the world around us and have sought the comforting peace of the Savior, and the Lord has given us guidance on how to live without fear. President Russell M. Nelson counseled, “Our Father knows that when we are surrounded by uncertainty and fear, what will help us the very most is to hear His Son. Because when we seek to hear—truly hear— His Son, we will be guided to know what to do in any circumstance. The very first word in the Doctrine and Covenants is hearken. It means ‘to listen with the intent to obey.’ To hearken means to ‘hear Him’—to hear what the Savior says and then to heed His counsel. In those two words—‘Hear Him’—God gives us the pattern for success, happiness, and joy in this life. We are to hear the words of the Lord, hearken to them, and heed what He has told us!”

How can striving to “hear Him” and “always have his spirit with [me]” (D&C 20:77) push fear aside? How does increasing my understanding of the Savior’s Atonement provide me with peace, joy, and rest even during tumultuous times? How does attending the temple and keeping my covenants give me confidence to turn to Him when fear arises?

Kathryn Saporiti Callister—mother of six and grandmother of 29; stake Relief Society president; loves to read and member of multiple study groups

Tad R. Callister—adores his wife; author; plays racquetball; and former mission president and general Sunday School President of the Church

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

50 • Understanding and Accessing Priesthood Power

“We have the right to access priesthood power by virtue of personal worthiness,” writes Relief Society General President Camille N. Johnson. In 2019, President Russell M. Nelson issued the following invitation to the women of the Church: “I entreat you to study prayerfully all the truths you can find about priesthood power.” Additionally, he taught, “Those who are endowed in the house of the Lord receive a gift of God’s priesthood power by virtue of their covenant, along with a gift of knowledge to know how to draw upon that power. The heavens are just as open to women who are endowed with God’s power flowing from their priesthood covenants as they are to men who bear the priesthood. I pray that truth will register upon each of your hearts because I believe it will change your life. Sisters, you have the right to draw liberally upon the Savior’s power to help your family and others you love.”

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What is the difference between priesthood keys, priesthood authority, and priesthood power? What resources are available to aid me in my study of the priesthood? How can we consistently draw on God’s priesthood power as covenant-keeping daughters of God? In what ways do women have priesthood power and priesthood authority? How are we all blessed by priesthood power?

Rainey Cardon Christofferson—wife, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend; animal lover; nature enthusiast; former shepherd and farm girl; Camino de Santiago pilgrim; world traveler; ambivert; pie fanatic; musician; Relief Society teacher; BYU grad; editor; Church employee

Tammy Uzelac Hall—“Sunday on Monday” podcast host; former Seminary teacher; life-long student of the Hebrew language; mother to four fabulous daughters; married to her favorite human, and a big-time lover of Jesus and cheese

BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

51 • Partnering with Your Spouse and the Lord in Your Marriage

Elder Ulisses Soares taught that the restored gospel of Jesus Christ proclaims the principle of full partnership between woman and man, both in mortal life and in the eternities. He said, “There is no superiority or inferiority in the marriage relationship, and neither walks ahead of or behind the other. They walk side by side, as equals, the divine offspring of God. They become one in thought, desire, and purpose with our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ, leading and guiding the family unit together” Elder Bruce C. Hafen and Marie Hafen taught, “The restored gospel teaches the eternal idea that husbands and wives are interdependent with each other. They are equal. They are partners.”

How can I partner with my spouse and practice being the kind of companion I have covenanted to be? How can we, together, seek the companionship of the Holy Ghost to guide us in our marriage? How do our covenants commit us to a developmental process of learning and growing together—by practice?

Norm and Ingrid Sorensen—prioritizing love for God and for each other; adventurous parents of nine; seizing the day together; celebrating life with friends far and wide through events like a massive summer block party and a “Night in Bethlehem” interactive Nativity

CONCERT HALL, MUSIC BUILDING (MB)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

52 • Repentance: “Jesus Christ…Stands with Open Arms”

President Dallin H. Oaks declared, “Repentance begins with our Savior, and it is a joy, not a burden…. President Nelson taught: ‘True repentance is not an event. It is a never-ending privilege. It is fundamental to progression and having peace of mind, comfort, and joy.’” President Nelson also shared, “Jesus Christ…stands with open arms, hoping and willing to heal, forgive, cleanse, strengthen, purify, and sanctify us.” Elder Dale G. Renlund said, “The fact that we can repent is the good news of the gospel!”

How can reflecting on the joy I have felt as I have repented help me have a stronger desire to repent daily? How does His love for me help me to humble myself before the Lord and counsel with Him in my daily efforts to repent? What is “godly sorrow” (2 Corinthians 7:10) and how can it soften my heart? How is repentance related to grace, progress, and forgiveness, and the Atonement of Jesus Christ?

For optional preparation for this session, participants are encouraged to read the following: Acts 3:19, 2 Corinthians 7:10, 2 Corinthians 12:9, 2 Nephi 2:7, Alma 5: 14, 26, Alma 34:16–17, Moroni 10:32–33, Doctrine and Covenants 1:32, 18:13.

Barbara Morgan Gardner—wife, mother; associate Religion professor at BYU; PhD; author of “The Priesthood Power of Women”; stake Young Women president, served in stake Relief Society presidency; served Spanish speaking mission in LA visitors’ center; Seminary and Institute teacher/coordinator

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

53 • The Healing Path of Forgiveness

Through His Atonement, the Savior has provided a way for each of us to let go of a “warring heart.” Sister Kristin M. Yee taught us that “in an incomprehensible way, our Savior took upon Himself our sins and the sins of those who have hurt or offended us.” She continued, “In Gethsemane and on the cross, He claimed these sins. He made a way for us to let go of a vengeful heart. That ‘way’ is through forgiving— which can be one of the most difficult things we ever do and one of the most divine things we ever experience. On the path of forgiveness, Jesus Christ’s atoning power can flow into our lives and begin to heal the deep crevasses of the heart and soul.” The Lord requires us to forgive all people (D&C 64:9) for our own good, and He gives us His help, His love, and His understanding.

Why does He ask me to forgive those who have hurt me or my loved ones so badly? What does it look like to fully forgive and still set healthy boundaries? What is the connection between my offering forgiveness to those who have wronged me and receiving forgiveness from the Lord? How does forgiving and seeking an understanding of the Savior’s atoning sacrifice allow the peace of forgiveness to heal me?

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Natalyn “Natty” Lewis—passionate disciple of Christ; wife, mom of four; author; doctrine of Christ enthusiast; emotional performance coach connecting women to their divine power within, and discovering their unique purpose; loves soccer, pickleball, laughter, and people

Angela Marie Gehrke—faithful mother, mid-life divorce survivor; counselor, trauma specialist; lived 10 years in Europe, now living after the manner of happiness with loving husband and various animals on hobby farm; life-long learner of forgiveness and redemption

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

54 • Loving and Lifting our LGBTQ Children with Christ as Our Guide

Many families in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have a child who identifies as LGBTQ. With this identification comes many heartfelt questions, concerns, and discussions as our children navigate their own decisions. Elder Quentin R. Cook shared this counsel: “Let us be at the forefront in terms of expressing love, compassion, and outreach. Let’s not have families exclude or be disrespectful of those who choose a different lifestyle as a result of their feelings about their own gender and/or orientation.”

How does my personal covenant relationship with my Savior enhance my ability to walk with my child while they make decisions about their lives? How do I have open conversations with love, respect, and support as I acknowledge the difficulties faced by my LGBTQ child? How do I partner with the Lord in supporting and loving my LGBTQ child? How can I continue to show love and care for my child and remain faithful to my covenants? How can I help them build their own relationship with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ with the assurance that they are loved as a child of God?

Allison Dayton—founder of the Lift and Love Foundation; artist, skier; wife, mother of three, soon to be grandma; LGBTQ cheerleader, holder of hope, faithful believer

Becky Borden—Becky Borden is a senior product manager with the Church in the Priesthood and Family Department where she focuses on LGBTQ+ resources. Becky and her husband Bennett are both gay and speak often at firesides. They were sealed in the temple in 2014.

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) Noon–1:00

55 • “We are Commanded to Love Others, Not to Judge Them”

In John 13:35 we are taught, “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another,” but many times in life we may be tempted to judge others rather than show love as the Savior would. Sister J. Anette Dennis asked: “How often do we judge others based on their outward appearance and actions, or lack of action, when, if we fully understood, we would instead react with compassion and a desire to help instead of adding to their burdens with our judgment?” She continued, “We are commanded to love others, not to judge them. Let’s lay down that heavy burden; it isn’t ours to carry. Instead, we can pick up the Savior’s yoke of love and compassion.”

How can I learn to pause before judging and find a way to show love instead? How can a study of how the Savior loved and served those who were judged by others help me to learn to love as the Savior does? How does leaving all judgments to our Heavenly Father and our Savior allow me to better love all of Heavenly Father’s children?

Erica Glenn—doting aunt; choral conductor, composer, scholar, humanitarian; returned missionary and Fulbright Scholar to Ukraine; world traveler and polyglot; assistant professor of music at BYUHawaii; B.M. and D.MA from ASU, M.M. from Longy, Ed.M from Harvard Lita Little Giddins—Jesus activist; wife, mother of five big “little” people; Relief Society facilitator; artist, author, seeker, storyteller, lover of “gathering” and laughter, hugger; licensed therapist; associate vice president of Belonging for BYU

3280–3290 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

56 • Asking Faith-Filled Questions: Being a Seeker of Truth

As we learn from the example of Joseph Smith, faithful questions invite revelation, self-assessment, and opportunities to learn for oneself. While we seek greater understanding, clarity, and direction in our own lives, it is important to turn to sources of truth and not allow doubt and disbelief to rob us of our testimony and the light we have received. Sister Sheri Dew explained, “If we want to grow spiritually, the Lord expects us to ask questions and seek answers…. The Lord loves inspired questions asked in faith because they lead to knowledge, to revelation, and to greater faith…. As seekers of truth, our safety lies in asking the right questions, in faith, and of the right sources—meaning those who only speak truth: such as the scriptures, prophets, and the Lord through the Holy Ghost.”

How can inspired questions lead to building my testimony? How does asking inspired questions lead to greater teaching and learning in Church and home settings? What are examples of the Savior asking inspired questions? How can I establish a pattern of seeking truth in my life?

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W. Justin Dyer—husband, father of six; raised in Utah; Ph.D. in Family Studies from the University of Illinois; served in the Brazil, Recife mission; currently serves as bishop of home ward; loves research and teaching the restored gospel

Janiece Johnson—lover of history, art, traveling, teaching, and leaning into hard questions with faith; professor with a PhD in American religious history and author of articles and books on LDS women’s history, the Book of Mormon, and the Mountain Meadows Massacre

2258–2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

57 • Temple and Family History Work: “The Heavens Will Open”

“It is my testimony that however fabulous your life is right now, or however discouraging and heartbreaking it may be, your involvement in temple and family history work will make it better…. I entreat you to make a sacrifice of time to the Lord by increasing the time you spend doing temple and family history work, and then watch what happens. It is my testimony that when we show the Lord we are serious about helping our ancestors, the heavens will open and we will receive all that we need” (Sister Wendy Watson Nelson).

What blessings are promised as I participate in family history and temple work? How does temple and family history work inspire and touch our hearts with a desire to draw closer to our families, past and present? How does the work of family history connect the generations on both sides of the veil? What resources are available to help me begin or continue my family history work?

Miyamoto Loretta Jensen—@ThePolynesianGenealogist; FamilySearch Pacific Area content strategist; BYU graduate; podcast co-host of “Love Your Lineage”; indigenous, mixed-race, anti-racism activist; DEI educator; mental health advocate; feminist; from Lā´ie; she/her/hers

Shelby Killpack—enthusiast about families and connections; wife, mother, grandmother, friend; gatherer; loves youth; temple; believer; BS in Family Science, BYU; presided with husband over Utah Orem mission 2015-2018; Young Women general advisory council member; ASL Board of Education

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB)

Noon–1:00 p.m.

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The Simplicity of This Beautiful Gospel

“This beautiful gospel is so simple a child can grasp it, yet so profound and complex that it will take a lifetime—even an eternity—of study and discovery to fully understand it. But sometimes we take the beautiful lily of God’s truth and gild it with layer upon layer of man-made good ideas, programs, and expectations.” He continued, “If you ever think that the gospel isn’t working so well for you, I invite you to step back, look at your life from a higher plane, and simplify your approach to

discipleship. Focus on the basic doctrines, principles, and applications of the gospel. I promise that God will guide and bless you on your path to a fulfilling life, and the gospel will definitely work better for you” (Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf).

How can focusing on the small and simple things of the gospel improve my discipleship? How can I simplify my discipleship and ensure I focus on the things that matter most? How does the Spirit guide and help me to self-evaluate, refocus, and make adjustments when needed?

Heidi Walker—mother of five (ages 6–21); devoted bishop’s wife; service missionary mom; Young Women leader; former Sunday School and Relief Society teacher; General Conference junkie; lover of the gospel, learning, hiking, gardening, organizing, church history, and connecting with women

Elizabeth Rose—wife, mother, grandmother; YSA stake Institute teacher; former member Relief Society general board; served mission in Japan, Tokyo South; loves studying the gospel, listening to beautiful music, walking with friends, and gathering with family!

Concurrent Sessions

1:30–2:30 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

59 • Changing Our Hearts and Being Transformed through Our Covenants

Elder David A. Bednar taught that “Covenants and priesthood ordinances are central in the ongoing process of spiritual rebirth and transformation; they are the means whereby the Lord works with each of us from the inside out…. Ordinances that are received worthily and remembered continually open the heavenly channels through which the power of godliness can flow into our lives.”

How does worthily renewing my covenants through partaking of the sacrament each week bless my life? What can I do to remember and recognize the blessings and power that flow from keeping my covenants? How does receiving ordinances and keeping my covenants allow the Lord to change me from the inside out?

Leslie Lords Robbins (moderator)—married to kindergarten sweetheart, mother of three beloved daughters; ward Relief Society president; instructor and curriculum writer for Seminaries and Institutes; BA and MA in English from BYU; past dean of General Education and Instruction at Ensign College

Ana De Agostini—grateful student of Abrahamic covenant; former member general Relief Society board; member Church Writing Committee; stargazer; beneficiary of husband’s daily cooking; fast reader, slow runner

Emily Snyder—lover of experiences, jumping jacks, tears, journals, deep thoughts, and lots of laughter; teacher turned business masterand hoping to fall in love with hiking again

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1:30–2:30 p.m.

60 • God’s Love: The Most Joyous to the Soul (1 Nephi 11:23)

Speaking of God’s love, Nephi taught, “Wherefore, it is the most desirable above all things,” and the angel exclaimed, “Yea, and the most joyous to the soul” (1 Nephi 11:22–23). Sister Susan H. Porter testified, “When you know and understand how completely you are loved as a child of God, it changes everything.… Sometimes we mistakenly think that we can feel God’s love only after we have followed the iron rod and partaken of the fruit. God’s love, however, not only is received by those who come to the tree but is the very power that motivates us to seek that tree.” Elder D. Todd Christofferson declared, “The Bible tells us that ‘God is love’ (1 John 4:8). He is the perfect embodiment of love, and we rely heavily on the constancy and universal reach of that love. As President Thomas S. Monson has expressed: ‘God’s love is there for you whether or not you feel you deserve love. It is simply always there.’”

How does daily scripture study, prayer, and repentance help me feel the love of Heavenly Father and the Savior? How does understanding “how completely [I] am loved as a child of God” change my perceptions of myself? What will help me to believe the reality that God loves imperfect me?

Sunny Mahe—former BYU volleyball All-American; answers to the alias “Reno Mahe’s wife”; mother of 10 (including one three-year-old angel); taxi driver of aspiring young athletes; crafter; Disney pin trader; singer of mediocre karaoke

Laurie Whiting—wife, mother, grandmother; served with husband when he presided over the Zambia Lusaka Mission; scripture lover; life-long disciple of Jesus Christ

BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 1:30–2:30 p.m.

61 • Recognizing Life’s Hidden Sorrows

In the hymn “Lord, I Would Follow Thee” we read, “In the quiet heart is hidden sorrow that the eye can’t see.” At some point in our lives each of us will face unexpected changes to our life plans, and what is felt as a loss for us may not even be recognized by others. Sometimes we may feel to say as Joseph did, “O God, where art thou? And where is the pavilion that covereth thy hiding place?” The Savior responded to Joseph, “My son, peace be unto thy soul; thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small moment; and then, if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high” (D&C 121:1,8).

When I face hidden sorrows and the unfairness of life, how can turning to the Savior provide comfort and peace, recognizing that a “small moment” in the Lord’s time may be longer than I would hope? How can I learn to recognize these hidden sorrows in others and show compassion for their struggles? How can gratitude help me see my blessings and embrace the unexpected turns of life with faith?

Kristen Gerdy Kyle—professor of law, BYU and UNLV law schools; wife; stepmom of seven children; mom of two Pomeranians; Gospel Doctrine teacher; former Tabernacle Choir member; loves watching the Red Cliffs temple construction just down the street from her home in St. George

Courtney Merrill Moffat—marriage and family therapist with 20 years experience with adolescents and families and teaching about emotional health; wife; mother of one spectacular daughter; breast cancer survivor; ward Relief Society president

CONCERT HALL, MUSIC BUILDING (MB)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

62 • Personal Revelation: Does God Really Want to Speak to

Me?

The Savior has said, “Draw near unto me and I will draw near unto you; seek me diligently and ye shall find me; ask, and ye shall receive; knock, and it shall be opened unto you” (D&C 88:63). Learning to recognize how and when the Lord is speaking to you is essential in our world today. President Russell M. Nelson has pleaded: “I urge you to stretch beyond your current spiritual ability to receive personal revelation…. Choose to do the spiritual work required to enjoy the gift of the Holy Ghost and hear the voice of the Spirit more frequently and more clearly.”

Why is personal revelation so critical? Does God really want to speak to me, and how do I know when He is? What do the scriptures and prophets teach me about the process of receiving personal revelation, and how am I practicing those principles in my life? How do I develop the “confidence to claim personal revelation for [myself]”? (Dale G. Renlund). How do I better qualify for, recognize, and claim individual guidance from the Lord?

For optional preparation for this session, participants are encouraged to read the following: Matthew 7: 7–8, James 1:5, 1 Nephi 10: 17–19, 1 Nephi 11:1–2, 2 Nephi 32:3, 3 Nephi 18:20, Moroni 10:5, Doctrine and Covenants 8:2–10, Doctrine and Covenants 42:61.

Cecilia M. Peek—wife, mother; coordinator of the Ancient Near Eastern Studies program; associate professor of Classics, BYU

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AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

63 • Preparing Children for the Temple

President Russell M. Nelson taught, “Every activity, every lesson, all we do in the Church, point to the Lord and His holy house.” Because the nature of the temple ordinances and the covenants we make there are sacred but not secret, we might feel uncertain about what we can say and how we can prepare our children to enter the temple and participate in ordinances there. In the Church booklet “Preparing to Enter the Holy Temple” we are taught, “What we gain from the temple will depend to a large degree on what we take to the temple in the way of humility and reverence and a desire to learn. If we are teachable we will be taught by the Spirit, in the temple.” What resources are available to help us discuss the purposes of the temple and the doctrines and principles we learn through temple ordinances and covenants? How can I give my children a clear understanding of what to expect when they go to the temple? What important doctrine should I teach my children about the sacredness of temple clothing and the garment? How can family history activities help my children have a greater desire to attend the temple?

Kathleen C. Perrin—wife (Yves R. Perrin), mother of three, grandmother of nine; BAs from BYU in French and Humanities; author; certified translator; history buff; mission president’s wife (Tahiti Papeete Mission: 1989-1992); temple matron (Papeete Tahiti Temple: 2018-2021)

Rosemary M. Wixom—A wife, mother and grandmother who loves to learn from those around her - especially those who have been on this earth a very short time. The temple and children have more in common than we think.

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

64 • “If You Want to Know Anything, You’ll Have to Do Something”

Sister Rebecca L. Craven taught, “Being a disciple of Jesus Christ involves more than just hoping or believing. It calls for effort, movement, and commitment. It requires that we do something, being ‘doers of the word, and not hearers only’…. Conversion won’t come while doing nothing. It comes through the power of the Holy Ghost as we intentionally make an effort to know by asking, seeking and knocking. It comes by doing.”

Sister Craven asked, “In our efforts to do something or do anything, we might ask ourselves, ‘What mattereth most?’” How do we “stay focused on what is truly essential for lasting joy”? How does “effort, movement, and commitment” to live our covenants help build a deep and lasting conversion?

Shannon Paulson Sorensen—Shannon lives in California where she raised eight children with her husband, Steve Sorensen. With

the unexpected loss of Steve, she has taken on a new role as an entrepreneur and leader. Her current passion project is producing the “followHIM” podcast.

Amy Reading—wife, mom of four; full-time Seminary teacher; EFY/ FSY session director, speaker, and enthusiast; lover of outdoor family activities: skiing, hiking, biking, walking, relaxing; passionate about Jesus Christ and His restored Gospel

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

65 • The Essential Role of Women in Councils

Elder M. Russell Ballard taught, “For years I have spoken about the power of councils with faithful women participating. Your insight and counsel are absolutely essential…. The work of the kingdom of God cannot fulfill its true destiny without rolling forward, hand in hand, with the faithful, wonderful sisters of the Church.” President Russell M. Nelson declared, “As a righteous, endowed Latter-day Saint woman, you speak and teach with power and authority from God. Whether by exhortation or conversation, we need your voice teaching the doctrine of Christ. We need your input in family, ward, and stake councils. Your participation is essential and never ornamental!”

How can I be bolder in sharing my perspective and insights when I am participating in Church councils? Why is it important for all members to contribute to a discussion in a council? What can I do if I feel the input of the sisters is not valued in my ward or stake councils? How can I encourage greater participation of sisters in council meetings while still welcoming and appreciating the input of the brothers?

Yvonne Farnsworth Hubert—daughter, mom, nana; flautist; student of the scriptures; co-founder of a craft furniture company; mountain biker, outdoor adventurer; Young Women general advisory council member; teacher, minister, disciple, believer in councils

Susan R. Madsen—mother and grandmother; global scholar on women’s leadership; author; Gospel Doctrine teacher; returned missionary; driven, founding director of the Utah Women & Leadership Project; passionate about strengthening the impact of girls and women worldwide

3280–3290 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC)

1:30–2:30 p.m.

66 • Understanding the Great Power of Your Patriarchal Blessing

Patriarchal blessings provide inspired direction and personal counsel from the Lord for our lives including blessings, cautions, and admonitions conditional upon faithfulness. In a BYU devotional, speaking about patriarchal blessings, Robert S. Patterson taught, “These few words, recorded on perhaps a page or more, are remarkable. Their prophetic utterances have great power. They speak to our uncertainties, our abilities, our gifts, our life’s experiences—all in

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the interest of assuring us of God’s love and of His willingness to help us face the challenges and trials of our lives and to sustain us safely through what we must face.”

How can regular study of my patriarchal blessing help guide me and give me perspective and reassurance in my life? Where can I learn about the responsibilities and promises given through the declaration of my lineage? How does my patriarchal blessing help me understand my relationship with God and how well He knows me? How can these principles apply to other blessings that I receive throughout my life?

Dana Juergens Wright—wife, mom, grandmother; always on the lookout for miracles; loves recipes, quotes, sunshine, and gathering with family and friends; cherishes many opportunities to learn, grow and serve; former member, Primary general advisory council and BYU Women’s Conference committee

Jeanne N. Burgon—witness and striving disciple of Jesus Christ; grateful wife, mother of four, and grandmother of 12; 26-year instructor in Ancient Scripture, BYU; current Gospel Doctrine teacher and Church service missionary in ARP; lover of gospel learning

2258–2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 1:30–2:30

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“The Hope That Is in Us” (1 Peter 3:15)

“I speak of hope as an expectation that will be realized,” taught President M. Russell Ballard. “Such hope is essential to overcoming adversity, fostering spiritual resilience and strength, and coming to know that we are loved by our Eternal Father and that we are His children, who belong to His family.” Mormon taught, “Behold, I say unto you that ye shall have hope through the atonement of Christ and the power of his resurrection, to be raised unto life eternal, and this because of your faith in him according to the promise” (Moroni 7:41).

In what ways does hope give me spiritual resilience and strength? How does making and keeping sacred covenants help me have hope in the promised blessings? What does the prophet Mormon teach that helps me understand hope, faith, charity, and the Lord’s promises as taught in Moroni chapter seven?

Megan Rieker—painter of women; mother of three boys, wife, oma; world traveler; survivor of sorrow; four-time Young Women’s president; Masters’ degree in Teaching Art from MICA; lover of all things beautiful and uplifting

Ben Peterson—husband, father of five; teacher; Disciple of Jesus Christ; MA in Religious Education, BYU; Church Correlation employee; former Seminary and Institute teacher; podcast host

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB) 1:30–2:30 p.m.

68 • Knowing We Are Never Alone, Even in Times of Loneliness

“The pain of loneliness seems to be part of the mortal experience. But the Lord in His mercy has made it so that we need never deal with the challenges of mortality alone.… We have been promised the constant companionship of the third member of the Godhead and hence the privilege of receiving revelation for our own lives. We are not alone!”

(Sheri L. Dew). Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf taught, “Please understand that what you see and experience now is not what forever will be. You will not feel loneliness, sorrow, pain, or discouragement forever. We have the faithful promise of God that He will neither forget nor forsake those who incline their hearts to Him.”

What is the difference between being alone and experiencing loneliness? When I feel alone or misunderstood, how can “inclining my heart to God” help me feel less lonely? How can reaching out and serving others alleviate my loneliness?

Keri Mae—speaker for the trees; dances like no one’s watching; divorcee; mother-hen to three man-cubs: one with autism, one with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis; domestic abuse survivor; child advocate and teacher; idealist pot-stirrer and heart-beam hugger

Christy Kane—Christy has a Doctorate in clinical psychology; she is an author, runs a mental health company, and loves to read good books. Christy loves life in all its forms. She strives to live each day helping others find hope even in dark moments.

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Concurrent Sessions

3:00–4:00 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

3:00–4:00 p.m.

69 • The New For the Strength of Youth Guide

In October 2022 General Conference, Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf introduced a revised version of For the Strength of Youth, indicating that the purpose of this guide is to point youth to the Savior. “It teaches you eternal truths of His restored gospel—truths about who you are, who He is, and what you can accomplish with His strength. It teaches you how to make righteous choices based on those eternal truths.” Rather than provide lists of do’s and don’ts, this guide emphasizes understanding the doctrine of Christ and seeking inspiration to make righteous decisions about conduct. Elder Uchtdorf said, “Is it wrong to have rules? Of course not. We all need them every day. But it is wrong to focus only on rules instead of focusing on the Savior. You need to know the whys and the hows and then consider the consequences of your choices. You need to put your trust in Jesus Christ. He will lead you the right way. He is your strength.”

What does this principles-based approach teach about the identity, capacity, and potential of youth today? How can parents and leaders teach children and youth to make righteous choices and recognize revelation in their own lives? How have the youth been prepared for this inspired approach through the recent teachings of our prophet and other Church leaders? How can we empower the rising generation to be accountable for their own choices and prepare for a lifetime of Christlike living?

Steven J. Lund—General President of the Young Men organization of the Church; he is a happy husband, father, and grandfather; a former Area Seventy; he and his wife Kalleen served as mission leaders of the Georgia Atlanta mission; business executive and attorney

Ahmad S. Corbitt—full-time missionary Puerto Rico San Juan mission; former New Jersey stake president; former president, Dominican Republic Santo Domingo East mission; First Counselor in Young Men General Presidency; he and his wife Jayne have six children and 12 grandchildren

Bradley R. Wilcox—husband, father, grandfather; professor, Ancient Scripture, BYU; author; former mission president of the Chile Santiago East mission; Second Counselor in Young Men General Presidency

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH)

3:00–4:00 p.m.

70 • “But We Heeded Them Not” (1 Nephi 8:33)

In his recounting of Lehi’s vision of the Tree of Life, Nephi described the “great and spacious building…filled with people…and they were in the attitude of mocking and pointing their fingers towards those who…were partaking of the fruit” (1 Nephi 8:27). Elder Neil L. Andersen taught, “As disciples of Christ, we stand apart from the world. There may be times we feel uncomfortable as the fingers of scorn mock and dismiss what is sacred to us.” President Thomas S. Monson warned, “Unless the roots of your testimony are firmly planted, it will be difficult for you to withstand the ridicule of those who challenge your faith.” Nephi said, “[Heed] them not” (1 Nephi 8:33) Paul admonished, “God hath not given us the spirit of fear;… Be not…ashamed of the testimony of our Lord” (2 Timothy 1:7–8).

How does having an unwavering testimony of the Savior give me the strength to “heed not” the voices of the world? In what ways do my continued efforts to stay on the path and partake of the fruit help me stay close to my Savior and Heavenly Father? When the scorn of the world is so loud, how can I remember Paul’s teaching that “God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind” and to “Be not thou therefore ashamed of the testimony of our Lord”?

Brooke Casanovas—Brooke Casanovas is the newly wed wife to Joshua Casanovas. She is the CEO of The Last Mastermind and loves curating intentional communities with women. In the past, Brooke hired and trained at the MTC. She holds a Masters in Organizational Leadership.

Heidi S. Swinton—mother, grandmother; author of President Monson’s biography; ward Relief Society president; former member Relief Society general board; served with husband when he presided over London South Mission and Hawaii Visitors Center; always watching for miracles

BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 3:00–4:00 p.m.

71 • Learning from Mistakes and Moving On

Feelings of guilt can help us have a desire to change; however, we may also become paralyzed by an overwhelming awareness of all our sins and shortcomings and feel as if we want to give up. Sister Linda Reeves testified, “[Jesus Christ] has promised that He would atone. And when He atoned, that settled that. There are so many of us who are thrashing around…with feelings of guilt, not knowing quite how to escape. You escape by accepting the Atonement of Jesus Christ, and all that was heartache can turn to beauty and love and eternity.” Amulek testified, “If ye will repent…immediately shall the great plan of redemption be brought about unto you” (Alma 34:31).

How can I learn from my mistakes, sincerely repent, move forward, and allow others to do the same? How can keeping my covenants

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and understanding the grace of the Savior’s Atonement help me to forgive myself and move forward? How does understanding Amulek’s testimony of the immediacy of the effects of the Savior’s Atonement and His great plan of redemption impact my desire to repent?

Jenn Zingmark—life and divorce coach; speaker and mentor for those seeking hope, healing and happiness in divorce. Jenn publishes a podcast, “Joy in the Journey with Jenn,” and is the founder of the Faith Filled Divorce coaching program and community for saints dealing with divorce

Kathryn Reynolds—firm believer in Christ; gatherer of friends; therapist (LMFT) supporting women with anxiety; former member of Relief Society general advisory council (2020-22); upstate New York missionary; home décor guru; auntie to eight sweeties; map lover and travel enthusiast

CONCERT HALL, MUSIC BUILDING (MB)

3:00–4:00

p.m.

72 • “A Bedrock Understanding of the Doctrine of Christ”

As women, we live in a world flooded with many voices, ideas, podcasts, posts, and opinions of others. President Russell M. Nelson declared, “Attacks against the Church, its doctrine, and our way of life are going to increase. Because of this, we need women who have a bedrock understanding of the doctrine of Christ and who will use that understanding to teach and help raise a sin-resistant generation.”

How do we discern the good among the many voices of the world and tether ourselves to Christ and His doctrine first so we can hear His voice, His prophet’s voice, and find rest in Him? How will studying the doctrine of Christ help me to seek and receive personal revelation and direction from Him rather than listening to the voices of the world? How will studying the doctrine of Christ help me to be more articulate with my beliefs as a witness of Him? What methods of study can I incorporate in my daily life to help me gain more confidence in conversations about doctrine?

For optional preparation for this session, participants are encouraged to read the following: 2 Nephi 31–32, 3 Nephi 11:31–41, and 3 Nephi 27:13–21.

Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt—Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt is a wife and mother, a sister, daughter, friend, and teacher. Above all, she is a follower of Jesus Christ. Currently, she and her family live in Rexburg, Idaho where she is a religious educator at Brigham Young UniversityIdaho

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 3:00–4:00 p.m.

73 • Marriage: Nurturing a Love That Lasts

“None of us marry perfection; we marry potential” (Elder Robert D. Hales). That potential grows through constant care and nurturing of a marriage. President Russell M. Nelson taught, “Marriage brings greater possibilities for happiness than does any other human relationship. Yet some married couples fall short of their full potential. They let their romance become rusty, take each other for granted, allow other interests or clouds of neglect to obscure the vision of what their marriage really could be. Marriages would be happier if nurtured more carefully…. [Their] union is not merely between husband and wife; it embraces a partnership with God. Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other.”

How do I prioritize nurturing my marriage and spending time together to talk, listen, and focus on each other? What small acts of kindness can I perform daily to increase my love and appreciation for my spouse? How do the promises we have made with each other and the covenants we have made with God give us the strength to move forward when difficulties arise? In what ways can we unite to “become partners in the progress of one another” (Elder David A. Bednar)?

Kevin M. Eubank—Kevin was born and raised in Bountiful, Utah, and met his wife Jana in high school. They have been married for 26 years and have four wonderful children. Kevin currently serves in the stake and loves projects. He finds great joy in serving others.

Jana L. Eubank—Jana is a mother to four children, three daughters and one son, and has been married to Kevin for 26 years. She currently serves with the Young Women and is passionate about preserving family memories, teaching scrapbooking, and inspiring others.

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC)

3:00–4:00 p.m.

74 • The Power of the Book of Mormon

President Russell M. Nelson taught, “The truths of the Book of Mormon have the power to heal, comfort, restore, succor, strengthen, console, and cheer our souls…. This is the book that will help to prepare the world for the Second Coming of the Lord.” Elder Gary E. Stevenson testified, “Within the book’s pages, you will discover the infinite love and incomprehensible grace of God. As you strive to follow the teachings you find there, your joy will expand, your understanding will increase, and the answers you seek to the many challenges mortality presents will be opened to you. As you look to the book, you look to the Lord. The Book of Mormon is the revealed word of God.”

When have I experienced the healing, comforting, strengthening, restorative power of the Book of Mormon? How can I personally access the promised power of the Book of Mormon? How will studying the Book of Mormon help me become a better disciple of Jesus Christ? What precious knowledge do we gain through the Book of Mormon about Jesus Christ and His Atonement, the love of God, and making and keeping sacred covenants?

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David C. Dollahite—husband, father, and grandfather; BYU professor of Family Life; scholar of faith and families; author of hymn texts, poems, and short story; was bishop of BYU ward and missionary in New England; converted by reading Book of Mormon; loves bad dad jokes

Susie Mullen—recruited to BYU to teach ballroom dance; moved in with two returned sister missionaries, forever grateful to them for sharing the gospel with her; former member Relief Society general advisory council; served as companion to her husband as an MTC branch president and as mission president in the New York, Utica mission

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 3:00–4:00 p.m.

75 • Mastering Our Tempers and Speaking with Words of Love

“‘Anger doesn’t solve anything. It builds nothing, but it can destroy everything’…. No one can make us angry. It is our choice. If we desire to have a proper spirit with us at all times, we must choose to refrain from becoming angry. I testify that such is possible” (President Thomas S. Monson). Elder Dale G. Renlund reminded us, “When the Savior visited the Nephites, He taught, ‘There shall be no disputations among you…. He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me’ (3 Nephi 11:28)…. When we contend with each other in anger, Satan laughs and the God of heaven weeps.”

What are strategies I can use to remain calm when feelings of frustration, anger, or annoyance begin to build? In Proverbs 3:10 we learn that “only by pride cometh contention”; how does humility help me to overcome this? How can the fruits of the Spirit such as gentleness, charity, meekness, and temperance help me to learn to manage my temper and bring harmony into my home? When others react with anger, what are appropriate ways to respond, defuse, or walk away from the situation?

Janis Rowberry—therapist; mother of seven; grandmother of 33; former Relief Society and Young Women president, stake Relief Society counselor; Institute instructor; served with husband in Durban South Africa Mission and as service mission leaders in Nevada; avid hiker, traveler, singer, theatre-goer; Love Living Life

Debra Theobald McClendon—clinical psychologist specializing in treating scrupulosity-OCD; author, speaker; wife, mother of five; returned missionary from the Temple Square mission; lover of hiking in her mountain community and working out

3280–3290 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 3:00–4:00 p.m.

76 • Remembering the Spiritual Foundation You Have Built

“One of the most heart-wrenching stories in scripture occurred when ‘many of [the Lord’s] disciples’ found it hard to accept His teachings and doctrine, and they ‘went back, and walked no more with him.’ As these disciples left, Jesus turned to the Twelve and asked, ‘Will ye also go away?’ Peter responded: ‘Lord, to whom shall we go? Thou hast the words of eternal life. And we believe and are sure that thou art that Christ, the Son of the living God’ (John 6:66–69). In that moment, when others focused on what they could not accept, the Apostles chose to focus on what they did believe and know, and as a result, they remained with Christ” (President M. Russell Ballard).

As I see similar events taking place, what can I learn from the example of Peter and the disciples that remained with Christ? In times when I feel my faith is challenged, how can remembering the spiritual foundation I have built and the Spirit I have felt keep me anchored to Christ and His gospel? How do I remain faithful, patient, and trust in the Lord’s timing when I do not have the answers I seek?

Amy Callister Hick—educator; former stake and ward Relief Society president, Young Women president; passionate about helping women develop their voices, become leaders and reach their potential; supporter of those with chronic illness; loves watercolor and flower arranging; mother of three

Chad J. Strang—devoted disciple of Jesus Christ; husband to the most amazing wife, father of three, friend to all; convert of 22 years; Church employee; creator, developer, communicator

2258–2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF)

3:00–4:00 p.m.

77 • Recovery from Addictions

“Many who struggle with an addiction suffer from shame or a sense that they are unlovable. They may feel discouragement and despair that recovery is not possible. Yet ‘with God, nothing is impossible’” (Luke 1:37, Gospel Library “Addiction”). President James E. Faust taught, “If we will turn to the Lord and believe on His name, we can change. He will give us the power to change our lives…. We can be taken from ‘the darkest abyss’ to ‘behold the marvelous light of God’ (Mosiah 27:29).”

How do I support loved ones who struggle with addiction on their pathway to recovery? How can my faith and hope in the Savior strengthen them and guide my interactions with them as they go through treatment and recovery? How do I recognize unhealthy, addictive behaviors beyond substance abuse or pornography in my own life? What support and resources are available for those with addictions and their families?

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Kelli Houghton-Anderson—trauma therapist and owner of Lucent Counseling; wife, mom, grandma; lived in seven states including an Inupiat village in Alaska; international presenter and advocate for improving lives and communities; has served in leadership in Young Womens; loves adventures and dancing

Tanya Dorius—wife, mother of five, grandmother; avid reader; explorer; returned missionary; former ward Relief Society president; BA, MA and MSW; Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) candidate; trained in Gottman couples therapy; Lifespan Integration trauma therapist

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB)

3:00–4:00 p.m.

78 • Senior Missionaries: “The Lord Knows Where You Are Needed”

Have you considered serving a senior mission, but aren’t sure how to prepare, what to expect, or how to get started? Elder Robert D. Hales identified four categories of obstacles to senior missionary work: “fear, family concerns, finding the right mission opportunity, and finances.” He continued, “But the Lord has said, ‘If ye are prepared ye shall not fear’ (D&C 38:30). Your life is your preparation. You have valuable experience…. Just go and be yourselves…. Have faith; the Lord knows where you are needed.”

What resources has the Church provided to help me begin to plan for a senior mission? What types of opportunities are there to serve? What is the process to start my senior mission papers? What blessings and opportunities await me when I choose to serve the Lord?

Janice Hoyt Sansom—wife, mother of four, grandmother of 20 treasured souls; served a senior mission in the California Irvine mission; taught Gospel Doctrine; former ward Relief Society and Young Womens president, stake Girls Camp director; is an avid walker, a picture taker and loves Mexican food

Julie Postma—mother of four; retired nurse; former ward Relief Society president and counselor; currently temple worker at Oquirrh Mountain temple; served proselytizing mission to Germany, as mission nurse in Bogota, Colombia and NYC, former member of Nurse Advisory Committee of Missionary Department

Friday Afternoon Closing Keynote Session

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC)

4:30–5:30 p.m.

Camille N. Johnson—Relief Society General President; former Primary General President; served with husband as companion and mission president in the Peru Arequipa Mission; bachelor’s degree in English and a law degree from the University of Utah; practiced law for nearly 30 years at the Snow, Christensen & Martineau law firm, where she recently served as firm president; wife, mother of three

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Frequently Asked Questions

How many women and men attend BYU Women’s Conference?

The average number of attendees each year is about 12,000. Approximately 98% of the attendees are female; 2% of the attendees are male.

Conference Etiquette

• To maintain a spirit of reverence, please be courteous to the presenters and those around you by remaining in your seat until the session has ended.

• Entrance to sessions will not be permitted during the last 10 minutes of each speaker.

• Please refrain from saving seats; all seating is first come, first seated. To seat sisters as quickly as possible, open seats will be filled with those waiting in line.

• Please move over when seats are needed so empty seats can be accessed easily.

• No eating or drinking is allowed in session rooms, with the exception of the Marriott Center.

• To maintain a reverent atmosphere in the session rooms, please refrain from clapping at the end of sessions. If you wish to show your gratitude to presenters, please use the evaluation located in the center of the Program Update.

• Please turn off all electronic devices before entering session rooms.

• To avoid any copyright violations, recording video or audio with any electronic device is not permitted.

I misplaced, lost, or forgot my name badge. How can I get another one?

Your name badge is your ticket to the conference and the evening activities. If you lose your badge or leave it at home, a duplicate may be obtained for $3 on verification of registration at the conference information desk at the Wilkinson Student Center Memorial Lounge (WSC) or at the Marriott Center (MC). Duplicate name badges will not be mailed.

What should I wear?

Some participants prefer to dress up and wear dresses or skirts. Others prefer to be casual and wear slacks or jeans. The choice is yours, as long as you are within BYU dress standards. Comfortable shoes are recommended for walking between session venues.

What will the weather be like?

The weather may still be cool during the conference. Average high temperature in late April, early May is 65–70° F; average low is 45° F. Come prepared for Utah’s changeable weather and varying indoor room temperatures.

How do I get tickets for the evening performance?

Your name badge will be your ticket for the performance. The doors will open at 7:45 p.m.

Why can’t we bring small children or infants into conference sessions?

For the safety of all guests, we are not able to accommodate infants or children, including babes in arms, in any conference rooms, including in the Marriott Center. This helps BYU comply with building safety regulations and fire codes related to maximum room occupancy and minimum widths available for accessible exit routes. These routes must be free from all obstructions, impediments, and blockage, including baby equipment such as baby carriers, strollers, etc. Having a minimum age (16) for attendance is similar to policies for other large, formal gatherings such as BYU Education Week, general conference for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, fine art performances, and workshops where participants pay to attend. Additionally, staying at BYU residence halls during BYU Women’s Conference is limited to those ages 16 and older. For these reasons, we instruct the hospitality teams to not admit young children or individuals with babies into the classrooms.

Other campus spaces are available for families and friends who take turns watching a child and going to sessions. The BYU dining areas and all campus lounging areas are available for their use as well as a family playroom on the main floor of the library. A mother’s room with private areas for pumping and breastfeeding will be available in room 3252 of the Wilkinson Student Center (WSC). Mother’s rooms and changing stations are also available at other areas across campus.

Can my friend or ward attend the evening activities (service projects, performances) without being registered for the conference?

Sessions of BYU Women’s Conference and all activities on Thursday evening are for registered participants. Everyone who attends will need a conference name badge.

Why can’t we preregister for sessions?

This option has been highly considered, however, for a conference of this size, with over 12,000 attendees, such software, maintenance and logistics would result in a substantial increase in registration fees. The available preregistration methods also create other challenges that we feel would not provide the best experience for all participants. First come, first served is not a perfect solution, but it is the best one we have at this time. We will continue to evaluate new software and will consider them as cost and efficiency make them feasible for BYU Women’s Conference.

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What if the class I’ve chosen is full?

Many people have had the experience described by this BYU Women’s Conference participant: “Sometimes the session I want is full, so I end up in an overflow room or in another session, but no matter which session I decide to attend, I always feel inspired by the presenters.” That is part of what BYU Women’s Conference is about. While a particular session you want may be full, plenty of seats await you in other worthwhile sessions and in overflow rooms. The Marriott Center alone can accommodate more than 19,000 participants, and the other venues together have space for over 7,000 participants. Many participants have found that their favorite session had been an alternative choice.

Why are classes spread out all over campus? Why don’t you repeat popular classes?

The largest classrooms are found in various buildings across the university’s campus. Since the schedule is finalized before the conference begins, and we already use all campus space available to us, we cannot set up another session as a repeat.

Why don’t you put popular speakers in larger rooms?

While we already schedule the largest rooms on campus, we honestly do not know beforehand when a presenter will draw a crowd larger than a room and overflow will accommodate. Each year, we pull together a large focus group of women of all ages and gather information about class selections. However, even with focus groups, it is difficult to anticipate who will want to attend a particular class. We also consider as many elements as we can, including past attendance, predictions on the appeal of new presenters, and presenter availability.

Where is the Lost and Found?

During the conference, Lost and Found locations are at all WC information desks (see page 15 for locations). On Friday afternoon during the closing session, all items will be moved to the WC Marriott Center Information Desk. After the conference is over, please call the BYU Lost and Found office at 801-422-3024.

Refunds

Please visit our website at: womensconference.byu.edu/refunds for information on all refund policies.

Will Call Information

If you register after April 12, 2023, you can pick up your name badge and program at Will Call locations, as follows:

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Date Location Time April 13–May 1 Harman Continuing Education Building Registration desk 8:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m. (M–F) Wednesday, May 3 Harman Continuing Education Building Lobby 8:00 a.m.–4:00 p.m. Marriott Center northeast corner (tents) 4:30–9:00 p.m. Thursday, May 4 Marriott Center northeast corner (tents) 7:30–10:30 a.m. Marriott Center northeast entrance 10:30 a.m.–8:30 p.m. Friday, May 5 Marriott Center northeast entrance 7:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Annual Evening of Service

Be part of a great spiritual legacy at BYU Women’s Conference by helping us complete a variety of projects for members of our community in need. Together we will “succor the weak, lift up the hands which hang down, and strengthen the feeble knees” ( D&C 81:5). We hope that as you participate in this extraordinary experience, you will leave the conference with a broader awareness of the needs of others and a greater desire to find and fill service needs in your own sphere of influence. As we joyfully immerse ourselves in the service of others, our own burdens will seem lighter and we will become more like our Savior.

Don’t miss the energy and excitement of our annual Evening of Service! It will take place on Thursday, May 4, from 4:30 to 7:30 p.m. in the Richards Building and the Smith Fieldhouse. Our evening projects are open to all BYU Women’s Conference participants, including those who register for Wednesday evening only or Friday only.

Whether you’re able to help for 20 minutes or 3 hours, we need you! Our service teams will be there to distribute project kits and give instructions as you help us complete the following projects:

2023 Projects

• Autism Caterpillars

• Christmas Stockings

• Courage Capes

• Hygiene Kits

• Meal Kits

• School Kits

• Teddy Bears

“Some of the most significant needs we can meet are within our own families, among our friends, in our wards, and in our communities.”

–Sister Bonnie L. Oscarson, (“The Needs before Us”, October 2017)

“A major reason the Lord has a church is to create a community of Saints that will sustain one another in the ‘strait and narrow path which leads to eternal life.’” He goes on to say, “This religion is not concerned only with self; rather, we are all called to serve. We are the eyes, hands, head, feet, and other members of the body of Christ.”

–Elder D. Todd Christofferson, (“Why The Church”, October 2015)

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An Evening of Entertainment

The Bonner Family

Thursday, May 4, 2023 • 8:00 p.m. • Marriott Center (MC) • Doors open at 7:45 p.m. Your name badge is your ticket to all conference activities.

Don’t miss our evening of inspirational and uplifting music and messages highlighting some of your favorite LDS artists.

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Nathan Pacheco
Book, Shadow Mountain Artists, and BYU Women’s Conference present
Calee Reed Simply Three Truman Brothers
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