THE REAL MYTHBUSTERS – SETTING OUT THE TRUTH The Government has issued a ‘mythbusters’ document that claims to set out the reality of the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill. This document presents the truth in response to claims made within the Government’s paper. MYTH: Allowing same-sex couples to marry will destroy the institution of marriage. REALITY: Marriage is a hugely important institution in this country. The principles of long-term commitment and responsibility which underpin it bind society together and make it stronger. The Government believes that we should not prevent people getting married unless there are very good reasons – and loving someone of the same sex is not one of them.
CARE’s RESPONSE: Commitment and responsibility are key components of marriage. For years the law has recognised this by making adultery a ground for divorce. According to the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill, adultery does not apply to marriages between two people of the same sex. Lawyers have already said that this situation is unsustainable and that, in time, adultery will in practice be removed as a basis for divorce altogether.1 In light of these things, the Government cannot claim that the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill will promote commitment and responsibility. In reality it will have quite the opposite effect. MYTH: Marriage has not changed in hundreds of years. REALITY: Marriage is not static. It has always been an evolving institution. In the 19th century inequalities prevented Catholics, atheists, Baptists and many others from marrying except in the Anglican Church. In the 20th century the law was changed to recognise married men and married women as equal before law. Opening up marriage to all couples will strengthen the vital institution of marriage, and help ensure that it remains an essential building block of society.
CARE’s RESPONSE: This response wilfully confuses two completely different things. Of course the laws regulating marriage have evolved and changed over the years as the Government rightly point out. However, marriage between one man and one woman predates the state and the law. This fundamental truth – helpfully codified in the 1866 case of Hyde v Hyde2 – has never been changed. MYTH: Religious organisations or minister of religion will be forced to conduct same-sex marriages. REALITY: This is not true. The Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill makes clear that no religious organisation or religious minister will be compelled to marry same-sex couples. A ‘quadruple lock’ of legal protections will ensure that all religious organisations are free to choose and can act according to their doctrines and beliefs.
CARE’s RESPONSE: The stated intent of the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill is, indeed, that no minister or church should be compelled to marry same sex couples. However, in his legal opinion, Aidan O’Neill QC questions the Government’s assurances. He submits that the protections afforded to the Church of England are unsustainable because it has a legal obligation to marry a couple where at least one of the partners lives within the parish. He posits that the Church of England would most likely lose any court battle and then have to choose either to marry same sex couples or embrace partial disestablishment. With respect to churches apart from the Church of England, O’Neill submits that it is unclear how the state will be able to provide a legally enforceable right of conscientious objection for ministers of religion who wish to marry same sex couples against the wishes of their church or vice versa. He also suggests that such churches which refuse 1
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2268689/Concept-adultery-abolished-law-grounds-divorce-wake-Government-s-plans-gaymarriage.html 2 Hyde v Hyde and Woodmansee (1866) LR 1 P&D 130