Charlotte Parent June 2013

June 2013 • Free CharlotteParent.com

Top Spots for

SUMMER FUN

5 Unusual Roadside Attractions TODDLER BIRTHDAY PARTY TIPS

101 OUTDOOR CONCERTS

Reasons to Love June FREE MOVIES

DAYS WITH DAD

special advertising sections

parties & summer fun

.

aginative. m i e B ed r B i e p I s n Be at...

STEPS NMOTION D a n c e S t u d i o

CHELITA KAYE KELLEY, DDS

MICHAEL HOLT, DDS

Accepting New Patients Board Certified in Pediatric Dentistry

“Dance the Difference”

brookdalepediatricdentistry.com Exit 36, off of I-485 9601 Brookdale Drive, Suite 400, Charlotte, NC 28215 704-599-3901

Funky Tots: Hip Hop for 3 & 4 year olds

Boys Classes & Tumbling

Celebrating Over 30 Years of Dance Excellence register Online now at

stepsnmotion.com TAP * JAZZ * BALLET * TUMBLING * HIP HOP * POINTE * LYRICAL Ballantyne/Blakeney/Marvin | Ardrey Kell & Tom Short Roads (The Fountains)

704-845-1180

Wesley Chapel/Weddington/Waxhaw | Hwy. 84 (Village Commons)

704-684-0005

Total attention

to ADHD patients.

Focus is a new solution for the treatment of ADHD. Our doctor’s dedication and emphasis on the whole patient help move your family from frustration to focus. Contact us for more information or to make an appointment.

Dr. R. Derek Brugman, DO

from frustration to…

Board Certified, Pediatrician

Jade Wright, PA-C

focus-md.com

Now Open 309 S. Sharon Amity Rd., Suite 204, Charlotte, NC 28211 704-900-0252 U www.focus-md.com

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

1

dancers at Award-winning dance instruction

in a variety of dance styles ~ for dancers from 2 years to adult

Summer programs for ages 2 1/2 - Teen Serving South Charlotte and Fort Mill

REA VILLAGE

11532 Providence Road, Suite O Charlotte 704-889-TOES (8637)

BAXTER TOWN CENTER 967 Market Street, Suite 100 Fort Mill 803-396-JAZZ (5299)

www.millerstreetdanceacademy.com MEMBER DANCE MASTER OF AMERICA

When it comes to a woman’s health, there are no “silly” questions. At Midtown OBGYN, we encourage you to feel comfortable talking to us about anything.

And we’ll work to put you at ease with straightforward answers backed by expert care. Learn more about us at midtown-obgyn.com or 704.316.5270.

Then get ready. We challenge you to make us blush.

2

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Register online now for 2013-2014 classes Photography by www.ExultingImages.com

j u n e 2 0 13

features 20

Top 10 for Summer Fun With Kids Get the scoop on local places to explore while on summer break

23

Roadside Attractions Detour for these unusual Carolina landmarks on your next road trip

26 23

Save time and energy with these smart party ideas

30

allenge h C y il m a F it F 32

Tips to Plan a Toddler’s Birthday Party

30

Bully-Free Zones Tips to ensure your camper has a bully-free summer

32

Fit Family Challenge See how the spotlight families are moving toward their goals, plus tips to use technology to get fit, and how to cook healthy, delicious family meals

4

26

6 9 11 12 13 15 19 37 38 46 48

in every issue

from the publisher

family fyi doc says chalk talk on the sidelines food for thought mother of style growing up getting out daily calendar a good sport carolina smiles

June 2013 • Free CharlotteParent.com

20

Top Spots for

23

5 Unusual Roadside Attractions

SUMMER FUN

26

TODDLER BIRTHDAY PARTY TIPS

38

101 OUTDOOR CONCERTS

Reasons to Love June FREE MOVIES

DAYS WITH DAD

special advertising sections

parties & summer fun

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

3

[

FROM THE PUBLISHER EVE WHITE

Dads, Detours & Distractions

J

une is for Dads. It’s also for summer camp, beach trips, pool splashing and firefly catching. As a matter of fact, it’s just about the best time of the year for our family.

June also brings the end of another school year, reminding me one day in the future, Crawford will be graduating and leaving for college. I shudder to think of that first summer with our son gone. I imagine my husband and I will spend time reflecting on how quickly the years flashed by from baby to boy to young man.

In fact, it’s hard to imagine life without him around. No video games, no dirty laundry everywhere. I’m getting teary-eyed just writing these words.

Thankfully, I don’t have to worry about that for awhile. I’ll just linger in middle school madness, enjoying the mall-pool-movies-lacrosse-camp shuffle that is my life, and smile. Maybe by the time Crawford graduates, his dad and I will be ready for the quiet and calm, but I doubt it.

This month, we salute Dads with photos, gifts under $25 and things to do this Father’s Day. Plus we shine the spotlight on our first cover kid. Cliff McNamara, the son of co-founder, Cama McNamara, appeared in 1986 on the first issue of Our Kids Magazine, which later became Charlotte Parent magazine. Fast forward 26 years and Cliff is now a proud dad. It’s just another affirmation of how quickly our children grow up. Blink an eye and they are moms and dads, reading parenting magazines and raising kids of their own.

So don’t miss the precious time you have with your kids this summer. Find something fun to do in these pages. We’ve got more than 101 great ideas for June including our list of the top 10 local summer fun stops on Page 20. And as you head to the beach with the family or hit the road to visit Grandma, take a detour to experience one of the roadside attractions listed on Page 23. These kid-friendly distractions will create some good family photo opps and a nice break, before you reach your final destination — guaranteed to produce a smile or two!

Enjoy!

READER FEEDBACK I just wanted to let you know I greatly appreciate the Fitness and Nutrition Basket! We will definitely use the dishes and containers as well as the food items. I look forward to looking through the cookbook and using it, also. Thank you for providing such a great magazine as Charlotte Parent. I always enjoy picking up a copy and reading it. Thank you again for your generosity with the contest prize. Have a great day!

— Alice

4

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

GROUP PUBLISHER Sharon Havranek

PUBLISHER/EDITOR Eve White

ASSOCIATE EDITOR/WEB EDITOR Michele Huggins

ART DIRECTOR Melissa Stutts

AD DESIGNER Wade Baker

DIGITAL MEDIA MANAGER Susannah Carpenter

EDITORIAL ASSISTANT Katy LeGrand

SR. MEDIA CONSULTANT Leslie Shinn leslies@charlotteparent.com

MEDIA CONSULTANTS Jen Byrum jbyrum@charlotteparent.com Adrian Garson agarson@charlotteparent.com

SALES AND MARKETING ASSISTANT Maria Vita mvita@charlotteparent.com

BUSINESS OFFICE MANAGER Kara Lynn Mann karalynn@charlotteparent.com

BUSINESS OFFICE ASSOCIATE Elizabeth Day eday@charlotteparent.com

CONTACT US Phone: 704-344-1980 Fax: 704-344-1983 214 W. Tremont Ave., Suite 302 Charlotte, NC 28203 advertising@charlotteparent.com calender@charlottparent.com distribution@charlotteparent.com editoral@charlotteparent.com promo@charlotteparent.com webeditor@charlotteparent.com Circulation 109,000. Distribution of this magazine does not constitute an endorsement of information, products or services. Charlotte Parent reserves the right to reject any advertisement or listing that is not in keeping with the publication's standards. All rights reserved.

Reproduction in whole or in part without written permission is prohibited. Published by Carolina Parenting Inc.

what’s new at …

CharlotteParent.com OUTDOOR MOVIES

FATHER’S DAY

Find out where and when to see a movie under the stars in our big list of summer outdoor movie nights.

Let the kids help make Dad’s day great with ideas for crafts, cards and more.

…/thingstodo

…/thingstodo

PARTY PLANNING

Birthday party planning resources in one spot, plus tips on party themes and how to make it the best birthday ever.

…/party

Pinterest.com/CharlotteParent

Facebook.com/Cltparent

CONTEST FATHER’S DAY PHOTO CONTEST Share a picture of Dad and the kids for a chance to win a gift basket for Dad in time for Father’s Day. Hurry, contest ends June 10.

…/contests

@CharlotteParent

“Set up a coloring table at your toddler’s birthday party as part of the entertainment.

Inexpensive

… and get in on conversations to get your family fit at #fitfamilychallenge

and fun!”

CharlotteParent.com Parenting Tips blog

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

5

fyi

FAMILY

summer fun:

Kids Bowl Free AMF bowling alleys and Kids Bowl Free are once again offering cool summer fun for free. Children ages 15 and younger can register at freebowling.amf.com to enjoy two free games of bowling weekdays throughout the summer (does not include shoe rental). Participating AMF lanes include Strike City at the Epicentre and 10 Park Lanes on Montford Drive in Charlotte. Find more information and other participating centers by calling 888 342-2594 or online at kidsbowlfree.com.

59% of young athletes say they expect to get hurt as part of the game.

Source: i9 Sports

6

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Community Wellness Day at the Mint

B

Finding a healthy balance in body, mind and soul is not only about exercise and eating well. Creative activities and art can help to reduce stress and combat depression. Art also plays a major role in the vitality of a community.

The Mint Museum is celebrating the important role art plays in the Charlotte community with a free Community Wellness Day, the first of its kind at the Mint Museum, June 29, 11 a.m.-3 p.m., at the Mint Museum Randolph.

Play croquet and kickball, do yoga, and toss a Frisbee on the grassy front lawn outside the museum.

Try out new dance moves in

the sprawling park as part of the Mint’s participation in First Lady Michelle Obama’s Let’s Move!

Museum initiative.

Watch artists at work throughout the day and let kids learn the finer points of handwashing with Novant Health’s Glitter Bug. There will be lots of chalk for children to make their own sidewalk chalk-art drawings outside. Inside, drop-in art activities and scavenger hunts are planned.

Entrance to the museum galleries is free all day, including the Mint Museum Uptown. While the kids explore the galleries as part of a scavenger hunt, Mom and Dad can view the

Mint’s newest exhibition, New Eyes on America: The Genius of Richard Caton Woodville, as well as other recent installations, including American Glass, Arts of Africa, and Dior, Balmain, Saint Laurent: Elegance and Ease Pack a picnic or purchase snacks and meals on site, and make it a play date of art and fun.

FAMILY FUN DAY Go on an intergalactic adventure at the Mint Museum Uptown’s Sunday Fun Day, June 9. Create constellation string art and make your own space gear. mintmuseum.org

COMMUNITY

::

fyi

*

good deed: Ronald McDonald House Teen Volunteer Board The Ronald McDonald House of Charlotte’s Teen Volunteer Board hosted the annual Carnival that Cares at the Ronald McDonald House of Charlotte. The event was for RMH volunteers and families staying at the house, and included bouncy houses, face painting, games, activities and snacks. The Teen Volunteer Board began preparing and planning for the event in January. The group, comprised of area junior and senior students, actively participates in volunteer days, and other special activities like selling Checkers tickets for RMH Night at the Checkers, and making dinner for families staying at RMH.

Area high school juniors and seniors make up the Volunteer Teen Board at the Ronald McDonald House of Charlotte.

Go Fishing With Dad This year give Dad an opportunity to spend quality time together fishing with the kids. Sign Dad and the family up for FREE flyfishing classes being offered through June at the Orvis store at Phillips Place (near Southpark) at orvis. com/flyfishing101. Then visit takemefishing.org to find local fishing holes and places to boat in the area, plus quick links to N.C. fishing regulations. The website also offers a fishing license coupon that kids can cut out and put in a card for dad.

... It is completely irresponsible for the [Abercrombie & Fitch] CEO to make the comments he made … No wonder so many young women, especially, have body issues!

Dale Levine, via Facebook

get real with

Paul Schadt Quick stats: Morning show host of 96.9 The Kat for 32 years … Family tree: lives in Olde Sycamore with wife Kathy; son Adam, 20; and daughter Emily, 11; plus dog Ribsey; and pet rat Stella ... Favorite indulgence: Kathy’s apple crumb pie ... Favorite outing: Lake Tillery or Oak Island with the family ... Favorite local eats: Big Guys Pizza ... iPod: It changes but right now, Jason Aldean, Brooks and Dunn, Aerosmith, Blake Shelton, Darius Rucker, Van Halen, The Band Perry … Latest read: Coastal Living … DVR: “Breaking Bad,” “Walking Dead,” “Homeland,” “Housewives of Beverly Hill ... NJ ...

Miami ... and Orange County” and “House Hunters International” …

In your bag: Stun gun and flash light ... Can’t live without: Kathy, Adam and Emily ... Stress buster: Looking at water. Lake or ocean will do.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

7

There are

no limits to a child’s imagination ...

Summer Camps at Ivybrook for ages 2-6.

Come join Ivybrook Academy summer camp as we become pirates digging for buried treasure, create culinary delights like Emeril, take center stage for our creative dramatics workshop and venture into the world of dinosaurs and outer space.

Spaces still Available! www.IvybrookAcademy.com | Fort Mill Campus - 803.802.2390

Weddington Campus - 704.845.2310

Teaching kids to swim since 1996.

Your child will be Healthier Safer Smarter

w! ll no o r n E

704-341-9673 info@charlotteaquatics.com www.charlotteaquatics.com

8

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

WELLNESS

Red Bumps, Patches and ‘Itchies’ How to identify and treat rashes

R

ashes are one of the most common reasons that parents take their child to the doctor. In children, rashes are usually due to an infection, allergy or irritant. Most rashes in children are not serious, although a visit to the doctor may be necessary for diagnosis and treatment. Some of the more DOC SAYS common rashes are described here.

BY DR. ERIN H. STUBBS

Eczema is characterized by dry, thickened, scaly red skin that is very itchy. It is common in children with allergies or asthma. The rash is usually present in the creases of the elbows and knees, although eczema may also be on the face, chest and back. For some, eczema can be managed with proper bathing and moisturizing techniques although in severe cases topical steroids are prescribed.

Contact dermatitis occurs when the skin reacts to an allergen or an irritant.

Common causes of contact dermatitis include poison ivy, latex, nickel, citrus fruits, or fragrances in lotions, soaps or shampoos. The skin is often red and itchy, and blisters or hives may be present. Removal of the offending agent is important. Calamine lotion and oral antihistamines (Benadryl) can be used to calm itching. Topical steroids are often used to reduce inflammation. In mild cases hydrocortisone 1 percent is sufficient, but a prescriptionstrength medication may be required.

Warts are firm bumps, often yellow to tan, located on the hands, toes, around knees or on the face. When located on the bottom of the foot, they are called plantar warts. Warts are caused by the human papilloma virus and can be treated with an over-the-counter medication that contains salicylic acid. In some instances a physician may need to freeze or cauterize a wart.

Impetigo is a contagious bacterial skin infection that most commonly appears around the nose and mouth. Impetigo may start with a small red bump that progresses to a pus filled blister. The blister can then rupture and the denuded skin forms a yellow crust.

Impetigo is treated with a topical antibiotic ointment or an oral antibiotic.

::

fyi

The days of “clean your plate” are over. New research from the University of Minnesota finds that pressuring kids to eat everything on their plate can lead to obesity later in life. Kids need to learn how their body feels when it is hungry, empt y and full and how to process those body signals.

Pressuring encourages them to inappropriately respond to those feelings. More important is to offer lots of food choices so they learn how to have a balance diet.

Popping baby’s dropped pacifier in your mouth to give it a quick clean may not be a bad idea after all. A recent Swedish study shows that babies who sucked on pacifiers cleaned with parental saliva had onethird less risk of developing eczema, and a lower rate of asthma and food allergies.

The study concluded that the saliva stimulates a baby’s immune system thus resulting in a reduced risk of allergy development.

Ringworm is a scaly, round patch with a red raised border caused by a fungus. There may be a single or multiple lesions. Ringworm is treated with a topical antifungal cream such as clotrimazole, available over the counter. If the scalp is involved then an antifungal medication taken by mouth may be necessary.

Molluscum is another viral skin infection characterized by small, flesh-colored bumps on the skin. The painless lesions are spread by direct contact with an infected individual.

Molluscum can last months to years but usually goes away without treatment. Some parents opt to pursue treatment with peeling agents or freezing to speed resolution.

Always consult your doctor if you are concerned about your child’s skin or if your child’s rash is not resolving as expected with treatment.

For more information visit healthychildren.org.

Erin Stubbs is a board-certified general pediatrician at Myers Park Pediatrics and Levine Children’s Hospital.

1 in 6 high schoolers have been a victim of cyberbullying in the last year. Girls are twice as likely to be a victim than boys. Know what’s going on with your child in the cyber world, ask questions, and learn the lingo.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

9

Camps on Campus Academic Enrichment Camps for Grades 1-12 Week-long programs in June, July and August Programs in: Computing; Creative Movement; Science; Writing; Health; Lab Skills; and much more. Overnight option for rising grades 5 and up.

Aspire! for rising Juniors and Seniors starting to think about college.

SummerCamps.uncc.edu

10

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

{

Ever wonder

what forever looks like?

}

Whether you’re gazing out at the spectacular vistas or looking deep within yourself, there’s a real sense of clarity to be found here at Grandfather Mountain.

GRANDFATHER® MOUNTAIN www.grandfather.com | WONDERS NEVER CEASE Forever Grandfather Mountain Charlotte Parent 1/3 Page Forever.indd Charlotte Parent

1

1/4 page 3.475”x4.5” Art: Taylor Adams 5/10/13 1:39 PM Contact: Landis Taylor 828-733-2013

EDUCATION

::

fyi

Summer Reading All ages, including adults, can sign up for Charlotte Mecklenburg Library’s summer reading program. Register online, find suggestions by age for great summer books, and log books read to earn prizes. Be sure to check the library website for exciting kick-off events happening in early June at branches throughout the area. cmlibrary.org/summerread

Summer Fun to Build Brain Power

Y

our goal is for your children to have a happy and healthy summer.

Based on the fact that children in grades K-12 are gaining more weight and falling further CHALK TALK

BY PEGGY GISLER AND MARGE EBERTS

behind in learning during the summer, consider these tips to keep them learning and their minds — and bodies — active.

Do’s for a Productive Summer • Bring your children up to grade level in every subject through your efforts or outside help.

• Have a daily family reading half-hour where everyone gathers in one room and reads. No discussion is necessary. It can be fun if

several family members read the same books and magazines and talk about them. For example, think of the different perspectives you and your children might have on articles in “People.”

• Make summer a skill-building time for such non-academic activities as sports, music, dance, cooking, knitting, photography and whatever else interests your children.

Gaining skills in these areas can help children build confidence in their abilities.

This is especially important if your children are not academic superstars.

• Have a variety of familyoriented activities such as weekend hikes or biking

outings, game nights, picnics, visits to historical sights and aquariums, and attendance at sporting events and musical performances.

• Have daily household jobs for each child who can contribute meaningfully to the running of the house.

Don’ts for a Productive Summer • Don’t let them spend too much of their time on media entertainment, including TV, video games, Facebook and Twitter.

• Don’t let them makes excusess to avoid fairly vigorous daily physical activity.

• Don’t let them eat a steady diet of unhealthy foods.

App Alert: Laser Pegs A new virtual construction app for the iPad based on the Laser Pegs building set empowers kids to design structures in 3D and learn creative abstract thinking, problemsolving, math skills and pattern recognition. Free; available for iPad version 5.0 or later. Learn more at laserpegs.com.

Map it!

Let older children help plan your vacation route.

Using maps to calculate miles and distance builds geography and math skills.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

11

fyi : : LIFE Welcome to the Game

How to motivate your child to try a sport

T

here is no debate that physical activity is important for a healthy lifestyle, and many young people are introduced to it through sports participation. While some kids are excited and charge ahead, others may be ON THE SIDELINES more hesitant,

BY NYAKA NIILAMPTI preferring to stand back and take the observer role.

Parents may find that they have to provide more encouragement and sometimes bribery to get more reluctant kids involved in sports. Some parents may struggle to identify the line between “encouraging” and “forcing” their young ones. So, when and how much do you push, particularly when it seems that anxiety is high or motivation is low?

• Identify the source of hesitance. Some young ones may be less interested in or afraid of playing a sport on a team where they do not have friends playing. Others may be hesitant to play because they are concerned that they can’t be perfect. Begin with identifying the underlying concern.

• Keep the variety high. Let a child know that he or she can try out for a number of activities, including different sports, and that it’s OK veer off of typical sports paths.

The goal is to find something that they enjoy that allows them to achieve a sense of mastery. When they are young, however, the focus should be on having fun.

• Foot-in-the-door technique. Agree to a small commitment and go from there.

Sometimes the first practice will do the trick. Other times, it may be a larger commitment. “Let’s go for the first week,

REDEFINE YOUR CHILD’S FUTURE AT THE JOHN CROSLAND SCHOOL. Children with learning differences or attention deficit disorder have great potential to succeed, especially when they receive an education dedicated to their needs. The John Crosland School is Charlotte's premier K-12 school focused on learning differences and attention deficit disorder.

Schedule a tour today to see how our unique approach and focus can help nuture your child.

Take a look at a special place called The John Crosland School.

COME VISIT US Call: 704-365-5490 or Email: peley@johncroslandschool.org

5146 Parkway Plaza Blvd. • Charlotte, NC 28217 • 704.365.5490 • JohnCroslandSchool.org Crosland does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, sex, age, marital status, disability, religion, creed, or national or ethnic origin in the administration of its educational programs, admissions, financial aid policies or employment practices.

12

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

and if you don’t like it, we can try something else.” Taking that first step is often the most challenging.

• Remain detached from the outcome.

We know that a child’s perception of his or her parents’ expectations can affect their motivation, enjoyment and longevity in sports. If they believe you have an expected outcome such as winning or scoring, that belief may translate into anxiety or less openness about playing.

Positive youth athletic experiences often develop into a lifelong love for physical activity. Though competitive play is not required, you have to begin somewhere.

Nyaka NiiLampti is an assistant professor of psychology at Queens University and codirector of Mind Over Body at Southeast Psych.

LIFE

::

fyi

A ’Berry’ Fresh Start to Summer FOOD FOR THOUGHT

BY HEIDI BILLOTTO

This summer, try this easy citrus and berry dessert. For the best flavor, use local blueberries, blackberries and raspberries from your local farmers markets. These make a great alternative to brownies.

Celebrating 5 years of commitment & dedication to the Charlotte community!

Classic Lemon Squares with Local Berries INGREDIENTS: 1 cup sifted all-purpose flour 1/4 cup powdered sugar 1/2 cup melted butter 1 cup sugar 1/2 teaspoon baking powder 2 eggs, beaten

• • • • • •

• • •

1. Combine flour and powdered sugar in a bowl and whisk the dry mix to break up any lumps.

4. Meanwhile, combine the remaining ingredients except the berries. Pour over warm baked crust and return to the oven for 25 more minutes.

Remove from oven. Cool to room temperature, then chill before cutting.

2. Stir in the melted butter to make a dough.

3. Press the dough mixture across the bottom of a 8-by-8inch pan lined with parchment paper. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Bake for 20 minutes.

2 tablespoons lemon juice Zest of one lemon Topping: Local blueberries, blackberries or raspberries, plus a sprig of fresh mint for each square

704-544-5000

WWW.

birddentistry.COM

ADHD? Learning disability? Autism?

Don’t address the symptom. Address the cause.

The Brain Balance Program® helps children overcome their behavioral, academic and social challenges with a drug-free, whole child approach that goes beyond the symptoms.

5. Serve each square topped with fresh berries and a sprig of fresh mint for a tasty summer dessert.

Our 1200-point assessment will give you a window into your child’s brain function. Learn how your child’s sensory, motor and cognitive development translates into their and your daily challenges. Call today to schedule an assessment for your child!

Brain Balance of Cornelius 704-655-1334 conveniently located in the Fresh Market center exit 28, I77

20601 Torrence Chapel Rd. Suite 104 Cornelius, NC 28031

Brain Balance of Pineville 704-540-6363 9101-J Pineville-Matthews Rd. Pineville, NC 28134

http://www.brainbalancecenters.com

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

13

fyi : : LIFE Parenting Toolbox: Summer Essentials BAKE AND DECORATE

Kick off summer with these helpful items to keep the kids happy, busy and having fun.

Need inspiration for glamming up your child’s birthday cupcakes? Super-Duper Cupcakes

by Elaine Cohen (Sterling Children’s Books, $9.95) offers kid-friendly decorating tips for creating confectionary masterpieces even Martha Stewart would approve. Kids can learn how to make different batters and shop for “Cupcake Bling,” too. Themes range from Darling Daisies to Racing Cars. Ages 6 and older. Hardcover.

Prevent bug bites this summer by donning a Mosquitno wristband, a no-spray, waterproof alternative that claims to fend off mosquitos for up to 150 hours. These citronella-infused, silicone wristbands come in resealable pouches in a variety of colors for adults and kids. $3.99; mosquitnoband.com.

Send your kids on a summer adventure with Stranded by Emmyaward winning Survivor host Jeff Probst and coauthor Chris Tebbetts (Puffin Books, $6.99). This adrenaline-rushing story focuses on four stepsiblings who take a sailing trip with their uncle. Their boat encounters a massive storm that separates the kids from their uncle, and they end up on a deserted island in the middle of the South Pacific. The stepsiblings must work together to make it off the island — after they learn to survive each other. Paperback. Ages 8 and up.

5 Unusual p to Father’s Day

Backyard missions just got better with Backyard Safari Walkie Talkies. Simply turn the dial and push the button to talk. The builtin antenna gives an approximate one-half mile range in an open field. Be sure to pack them for camping and beach expeditions, too! $39.99; walmart.com.

gifts under $25

1. A man-basket: fill it with salty snacks, gift cards and magazines

2. Goldfish 3. Grilling meat 4. Bonsai tree 5. Gold

Source: U. S. News and World Repor t

choices ... PLAY YARDS

Eddie Bauer Complete Care Play Yard Built to grow with your baby as a bassinet, changing station and play yard. Also has a diaper organizer, plus wind-up mobile with three soft toys, and plays 10 soothing songs. Nightlight and two-speed vibration help lull them to sleep. $149.99, eddiebauer.djgusa.com.

14

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Baby Bjorn Play Yard Light Weighing less than 11 pounds (including the brief-case bag) makes this play yard great for travel. Easy to assemble with no pieces to screw together, it simply pops up when taken out of bag. Bed fabric and waterproof mattress cover are machine washable. $299.99, babybjorn.com/us.

Chicco Lullaby LX Playard Comes with a bassinet for babies, and padded mattress for toddlers. Includes a toy gym that can be used on the bassinet or as a playmat, and is equipped with electronics that feature music, vibration and a nightlight that can be adjusted by remote control. $189.99, chiccousa.com.

LIFE

::

fyi

MOTHER OF STYLE »»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»»» BY WHITLEY ADKINS HAMLIN

Kate Spade Alyx Sunglasses. $138, Sally’s Optical Secrets in Dilworth.

Suit up. Hourglass or athletic,

apple or pear, you need a bathing suit that fits your body. The always dreaded swimsuit shopping just got easier thanks to SwimSpot. Onepieces, tankinis, bikinis, high-quality stylish designs, free shipping, free returns, on-site fitting specialists and fair prices. Shop online or visit a store.

Whatever your swimsuit needs, SwimSpot’s got it all.

Savvy Style for Beach Days Your very own carry-alls. As parents, we carry way too many bags to count, and chances are we shove all of our personal belongings into the baby’s bag or all the kids’ beach gear in our bag. Where did I put my sunglasses and cell phone this time? Ladies, it’s time to get your own beach bag, and while you’re at it, treat yourself to something stylish and fun.

Spread out. Go ahead and splurge on an oversized towel sheet. I have far exceeded my return on investment in my generations-handed-down beach towel. It’s time you get your own. Go ahead and monogram it too, just so there’s no confusion.

Fuel. Other than an orange glow, nothing else is more undesirable in the hot summer sun than being hungry. As hard as it can sometimes be to stay away from the snack machine, plan ahead with nutritional snacks. Water, nuts, carrots, dried fruits and all things natural are best for filling your tank and the kids’ in the hot summer sun.

Whitley Adkins Hamlin keeps it stylish as a mom with two children under 4. Read her blog at CharlotteParent.com/blogs.

Ella Moss Trellis Underwire Bandeau Bikini Top and Retro Bikini Bottom. $112, swimspot.com

Acting Classes: Kids, Teens & Adults

re + Perform!

PrepaNow Enrolling

• Acting for the camera • Modeling • Singing • Breaking into the Business • Talent, Inc. Program • Birthday Parties • Summer Camps

Ages 4 + up

Summer Classes LIGHTS, CAMERA, ACTION!

Summer Camps

HARRELL G. CANNING III F A M I LY

LAW

AT T O R N E Y

Child Custody/Support Equitable Distribution Alimony Divorce Modifications of Orders Separation Agreements 1001 Elizabeth Ave Ste. 2A Charlotte NC 28201 704-607-6084 canning.legal@gmail.com CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

15

16

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

LIFE

Then & NOW In 1986 the first issue of Our Kids Magazine, precursor to Our Kids and Teens magazine and Charlotte Parent magazine, debuted. Three children were on the cover of the first issue, including Cliff McNamara, son of co-founder Cama McNamara.

Cliff McNamara was 3 when the he joined Katie and Drew McLean, the children of co-founder Fori McLean, for the cover shot at Latta Park in Dilworth.

Fast forward 26 years. Cliff McNamara is now Dad to 4-month-old Ramey Jane McNamara. He and his wife Shannon live in Charlotte.

Cliff McNamara remembers those days of being alongside his mom as she produced the magazine from her home office. “I met a lot of people my mom worked with, and I helped her deliver magazines and tried to stay quiet when I went with her to appointments.”

He now works as a web designer. The best thing about becoming a dad he says, “I love seeing my daughter smile. It’s the best part of my day.”

::

fyi

MEET NEW DAD CLIFF MCNAMARA

Cliff McNamara, 29, with his wife Shannon and their daughter Ramey Jane, 4 months.

Left to right: Cliff McNamara, Drew McLane and Katie McLean.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

17

18

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

LIFE

Safe, Sane Sleepovers

::

fyi

B

elly butterflies, anxious goodbyes, perhaps a tear or two – no, you’re not sending your first child away to college, it’s his first sleepover away from GROWING UP home, and Mom and Dad.

BY MALIA JACOBSON Whether a sleepover is a child’s first or fifteenth, it can be filled with nerves and questions. Will your child suffer from extreme homesickness? Will she be safe and follow your family’s rules? Will the experience be a positive, happy one or a major headache? Read on for an age-by-age guide to sleepover success.

Malia Jacobson is a nationally published health journalist and mom.

0-4 years

TO GRANDMA’S HOUSE WE GO

A child’s first “sleepover” is often at a relative’s home — in fact, many little ones begin having overnights at Grandma’s place during babyhood. Though new parents may be desperate for some alone time (or simply a full night’s sleep), it’s never a good idea to rush the first overnight visit, says certified parenting coach Phyllis D’Agostino.

First, ensure that your relative is ready and willing to take on nighttime care for a young child. Round-the-clock childcare can seem strenuous for those who aren’t used to it.

Have the grandparents over to your home to take part in the child’s nighttime routine beforehand, says D’Agostino. On the big day, send a detailed description of the child’s diet and daily routine along with a security blanket or toy. When it’s time to say goodbye, don’t sneak out — this could compromise trust later on.

5-11 years

FUN, NOT FRAZZLED

In elementary school, the sleepover social scene is in full swing, with first invitations rolling in around age 5 or 6. Whether you accept or decline depends on your child’s temperament, says Julie Newman Kingery, an associate professor of psychology at Hobart and William Smith Colleges. Consider your child’s personality, developmental level and previous experiences, suggests Kingery, who has researched children’s homesickness in sleep-away situations. For timid children, “practice sleepover” experiences — like attending a “movie night” at a pal’s home or hosting a sleepover with one close friend — can boost the chances of sleepover success.

To host a successful sleepover party for school-age children, start with a manageable guest list (maybe three to five kids), and ensure that you have contact information for guests’ parents on hand. Agree on a reasonably late bedtime and plan a few fun activities, like a build-your-own pizza dinner. Be prepared to have fun, says D’Agostino — and to be “a little tired” the day after.

SLEEPOVER SAFETY 12-18 years

When tweens and teens sleep away from home, safety should be on parents’ minds, says Kingery. “Open communication with your teen, as well as with the parents of your teen’s friends, is crucial for a successful, safe sleepover,” she says.

Though you may not score “cool parent” points with your child, it’s perfectly acceptable to check in with the hosts’ parents before a planned sleepover to make sure that rules and expectations are consistent across households.

Before the sleepover, parents should recap their family rules about curfews, drinking and co-ed parties, says Kingery.

Remind your child that she can call you at any time to be picked up early if anything at the sleepover makes her uncomfortable or would violate family rules. Keep your cell phone on and nearby, then (try to) rest easy knowing your child can contact you if needed.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

19

P O T

0 1 SUMMERFUN for

With KIDS

BY KATY LEGRAND

1. Dan Nicholas Park

- Salisbury This place has everything: a carousel, a waterpark to cool off on summer days, a barn with farm animals and equipment, and an aquarium with snakes, lizards and alligators. You can also mine for gems, play mini-golf and rent a paddleboat for more summer fun. dannicholas.net

1

2. The Green -

Uptown Charlotte This little pocket park is a great green space right in the middle of uptown. On South Tryon Street, the park has fountains to play in, gorgeous art and beautiful views of the skyline. It’s the perfect place to relax and enjoy a leisurely afternoon. Hop off the LYNX at Charlotte Convention Center and walk to the park, then jump back on and ride the LYNX to explore other uptown stops. parkandrec.com

3. U.S.National Whitewater Center

2

Phot

20

JUNE 2013

|

o b y R o b er t Kl ei n

CharlotteParent.com

- Mount Holly Jam-packed with fun family activities, the U.S. National Whitewater Center suits adventurous types with zip-lining, rock climbing and rafting. There are also beautiful hiking, biking and running trails, plus geocaching to enjoy. $5 to park; additional fees based on activities. usnwc.com

4. POPS in the Park - Charlotte The summer weather blended with the beautiful sounds of the Charlotte Symphony just can’t be beat! Bring your picnic blanket and the family for an evening of fun and music. The Charlotte Symphony POPS Summer series happens at Symphony Park each Sunday in June and on July 3. $10 per adult; kids get in free. Come early and have a picnic dinner before the show starts. charlottesymphony.org 5. Ray’s Splash Planet -

Charlotte For summer fun in the water without having to apply sunscreen, visit Ray’s Splash

Planet. This indoor water park has slides, water basketball and a lazy river. The venue also includes a fitness area with weights and equipment. rayssplashplanet.com

3

6. Carolinas Aviation Museum and Charlotte/ Douglas International Airport Overlook Park

Airplanes are a fascinating spectacle for kids and kids at heart. The Carolinas Aviation Museum has a hangar full of aircraft for visitors to explore. When you’re done checking out the museum, take a short drive to Charlotte/Douglas International Airport Overlook to watch the planes take off and land. carolinasaviation.org

7. Crowder’s Mountain- Gaston County For a free day of scenic views, fun and exercise, hike to the summit of Crowder’s Mountain. With various trails and ranges of difficulty to choose from, anyone can find a suitable path to the top. Once you make it, take in the views that stretch for more than 25 miles. On a clear day you can see the Charlotte skyline. ncparks.gov

5

8. Zootastic Park - Troutman If you have a young animal lover on your hands, stop by Zootastic Park this summer.

Meet all kinds of animals in the barns and see more unique creatures in the exotic animal facilities. If one day there isn’t enough, Zootastic Park also has camps for junior zookeepers. zootasticpark.com 9. Village Park -

Kannapolis All aboard to a great summer destination. Ride the Rotary Express Train or splash around on the splash pad at this summer hot spot. The park is also the host to summer events including concerts, other live arts and movies. The Gem Theatre, a longtime local favorite, is just down the street with $3 tickets before 6 p.m. cityofkannapolis.com

9

10. Knight’s Baseball Game -

Fort Mill, S.C. Enjoy America’s favorite pastime with your family at the stadium in Fort Mill before the team moves to its new home in uptown Charlotte next year. Games feature various promotions throughout the season, including fireworks on Saturdays and Family Fun Days when kids can run the bases, plus there’s a Rookie Play Zone with inflatables and more. charlotteknights.com

6Find more summer fun at CharlotteParent.com/seasonalfun

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

21

2013 UFIT

Summer

ADVERTISE

CHEERLEADING

your services in our annual resource guide for parents of children with special needs.

& DANCE Camps

DATES: July 15 - 19, 2013 LOCATION: Brayboy Gymnasium JOHNSON C. SMITH UNIVERSITY TIME: 8:00am-4:00pm

Register Now!

EXCEPTIONAL CHILD AD DEADLINE: JULY 25

PO Box 621643, Charlotte, NC 28262 www.u-fit365.com ufit365@gmail.com (980) 819-1365 Follow us on twitter & instagram @ufit365

Contact your media consultant today at advertising@charlotteparent.com.

ACADEMIC SKILLS

DON’T LET YOUR CHILD’S LEARNING STOP JUST BECAUSE SUMMER STARTS. For more than 35 years, Huntington’s highly trained tutors have helped students maintain the skills, confidence, and motivation they need to stay on track all year round.

Here’s how Huntington helps: • An academic evaluation identifies problem areas • Programs are tailored to address each student’s needs • Highly trained tutors work individually with students • Huntington helps improve skills, confidence and grades

1 800 CAN LEARN

®

SAVE $80 ACADEMIC SKILLS

if you mention this ad when you call before July 1

K-12

Reading • Writing • Math • Study Skills • Spelling • Vocabulary • Phonics

SUBJECT TUTORING MIDDLE SCHOOL-COLLEGE Pre-algebra • Algebra • Geometry • Trigonometry • Pre-calculus • Calculus Earth Science • Biology • Chemistry • Physics

EXAM PREP SAT/PSAT • ACT • Advanced Placement (AP) • State Tests • HSPT • ISEE • SSAT • GED • ASVAB

HuntingtonHelps.com

4701 Park Road, Charlotte 9601 Holly Point Drive, Huntersville

©2012 Huntington Mark, LLC. Independently Owned and Operated. SAT and PSAT are registered trademarks of the College Entrance Examination Board. ACT is a registered trademark of ACT, Inc. The College Entrance Examination Board and ACT, Inc. were not involved in the production of, and do not endorse, this program. Offer valid for Academic Evaluation or Tuition, new students only. Not valid with any other offer.

HPA111-2

22

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Family Road Trips Interesting attractions for your next long car ride

Roadside Attractions

BY KATIE PARSLEY

Interesting detours for your next long car ride

1

Sometimes the best part of a family road trip isn’t the destination.

As you pack the minivan for the annual beach vacation or mountain retreat, plan to make the most of your time together by visiting some of the funky, family-friendly roadside attractions that line the byways of North and South Carolina. From giant furniture and retro theme parks to out-of-theway state parks and homemade ice cream shops, the Carolinas have some of the most unique attractions around.

Vollis Simpson’s Whirligigs

2

3

Corner of Barnes & Douglas streets, Wilson 919-920-5280 wilsonwhirligigpark.org Once a machinery repairman, Vollis Simpson has spent the past 30 years as a self-taught folk artist. His “whirligigs” — massive mechanical windmills — have been a popular roadside attraction in Wilson County, 45 minutes east of Raleigh, for decades.

Simpson’s welded and painted constructions are monumental in scale, with the largest, Horse Wagon, measuring in at 60 feet tall and weighing about two tons.

Many of his works have been exhibited in museums, including the North Carolina Museum of Art in Raleigh and the High Museum of Art in Atlanta. But more than

1) Vollis Simpson’s Whirligigs located in Wilson.

2) See vintage motorcycles at Wheels Through Time in Maggie Valley.

3) It’s all fun and games at South of the Border, Dillon, S.C.

30 of the pieces have spent the past two decades in a field on Simpson’s rural farm.

Now the giant mechanical windmills have been relocated to a warehouse in downtown Wilson to undergo an extensive conservation effort. When finished, the brightly painted works will be the centerpieces of a new two-acre public sculpture garden.

Before the Wilson Whirligig Park opens in November, travelers can see many of the restored devices outside the conservation headquarters at the corner of Barnes and Douglas streets. Others can be found on street corners around Wilson. Tours of the warehouse may be scheduled on weekdays during business hours by calling Danny Price with the Whirligig Park Project.

Wheels Through Time 62 Vintage Lane, Maggie Valley 828-926-6266 wheelsthroughtime.com Wheels Through Time, nestled in the Smoky Mountains near Cherokee, is no dusty history museum. Its collection of rare American motorcycles and memorabilia brings visitors’ imaginations roaring to life, while also working to preserve the history of the two-wheeled vintage vehicles.

Founded by Dale Walksler in 1993, Wheels Through Time houses more than 300 of the country’s most unique, historic motorcycles. They are displayed in the 38,000-square-foot facility along with thousands of pictures and artifacts — including vintage tires, fenders, wheel rims and other spare parts.

The museum features more than 24 motorcycle brands, such as Harley-Davidson, Indian and Crocker, along with other vehicles powered by motorcycle engines.

Some are one-of-a-kind machines with unique stories — including an ice sled that transported alcohol during Prohibition and a motorized mine car found more than 60 years after a mine collapse.

All of the motorcycles have been restored to running condition, and Walksler and his son, Matt, often demonstrate their power for visitors. A few lucky guests have been known to catch a ride in a sidecar as Walksler explores the winding mountain roads around Maggie Valley.

South of the Border 3346 Highway 301 North, Dillon, S.C. thesouthoftheborder.com Part theme park, part motor lodge and wholly unique, South of the Border is a larger-than-life roadside Continued on Page 24 CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

23

Road Trips from Page 23

landmark. It has been welcoming travelers to South Carolina since 1949, when businessman Alan Shafer built a small beer stand on the side of Highway 301.

Sixty years later, the 300-acre complex features a motel, restaurants, carnival rides, mini golf courses and more. It’s capped by the 200-foot-high Sombrero Observation Tower, where travelers can overlook the Border’s grounds, as well as the surrounding Pee Dee swampland.

It’s hard to miss the retro wonderland near the North and South Carolina border, with about 175 billboards heralding its grandeur on highways from Virginia to Georgia. Prominently featured on each sign is Pedro, South of the Border’s sombreroclad mascot. Visitors can drive through the legs of a 97-foot-tall Pedro on their way to the main restaurant and gift shop.

Despite its throwback appearance, South of the Border recently underwent major renovations to most of its attractions, including the 300-room motor inn. Its most recent additions are a reptile lagoon and a motocross training facility.

World’s Largest Chest of Drawers 508 North Hamilton St., High Point World’s Largest Chair Highway 109 and Main Street, Thomasville In the region known as the “Home Furnishings Capital of the World,” travelers can also find some of the biggest furniture around. Downtown High Point boasts the record-holding World’s Largest Chest of Drawers, and nearby Thomasville features the World’s Largest Chair — celebrating the cities’ furniture-making heritage.

As tempting as it may be, Thomasville’s 10.5-foot-wide Duncan Phyfe armchair isn’t meant for relaxing during a roadtrip rest stop. The concrete structure is 30 feet high, and the striped “upholstery” is actually brightly painted cement. For those who need a rest, there are benches nearby in the quaint town square with a view of the giant chair.

Just a few miles away, High Point’s huge bureau has been a local landmark since 1926. It was remodeled in 1996, transforming the building’s façade into a 38-foot-tall Goddard-Townsend dresser.

One drawer features a pair of dangling socks, representing the city’s hosiery industry.

Katie Parsley is a freelance writer, mom of two daughters and lives in Statesville.

Find the World’s Largest Chest of Drawers in Thomasville.

24

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Epicentre

Prepare for an epic time in uptown Charlotte when you arrive at the EPICENTRE! With more than 40 unique venues, outdoor patio space, monthly family events, including Kid’s Club Central Celebrations, weekend markets, daily bowling specials, and our exciting 2013 is the Children’s Summer Movie Series, the EPICENTRE er!

Summ perfect destination for family fun this

Morrison YMCA: Summer Fun and Fitness Check out a few of the YMCA’s upcoming events dedicated to keeping youth and adults healthy over the summer. Join us for our obstacle bounding C2 Survival Race, June 22, which is guaranteed to push you to the limit; and our Tri! Ballantyne triathlon for all ages on July 13.

Morrison Family YMCA of Greater Charlotte 9405 Bryant Farms Road 704-716-4650 ymcacharlotte.org

Epicentre 210 E. Trade St. epicentrenc.com

Hawksnest Snowtubing and Zipline

Hawksnest offers 20 ziplines including four mega zips tha t are more than 1,500 feet. Featuri ng four miles of ziplines with hei ghts at more than 200 feet and spe eds up to 50 mph. Zipline over tree s, through trees and over lakes and creeks all while enjoying spectacular panoramic view s of the Blue Ridge Mountains.

Hawksnest Snowtubing & Zipline 2058 Skyland Drive Seven Dev ils 828-963-6561 hawksnestzipline.com

Mammal Safari: Journey of Discovery

incredible ntinents and discover the Journey across the co on earth. Go lex and diverse animals story of the most comp globe. Meet fari adventure across the on a virtual mammal sa ted specimens d the world, see moun live animals from aroun d enjoy cool and South America, an from Africa, Asia, North out the hibits designed to bring hands-on interactive ex . Free with paid e for Schiele Members explorer in all of us. Fre bers. admission for nonmem Schiele Museum Gastonia 1500 E. Garrison Blvd., 704-866-6908 schielemuseum.org

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

25

TIPS TO PLAN A

TODDLER’S BIRTHDAY

PARTY

… without losing your mind

BY JENNIFER DURBIN

P

lanning a birthday party for your toddler is a blast, but it can be a lot of work, too. Much like a party for your friends, there are a number of logistical considerations you need to think about. Follow these helpful tips to plan like a pro.

Thematic Presentation Pick a theme that is personal. If your 1-year-old loves the book “Llama Llama Red Pajama,” throw her a pajama party. Or if you have a 2-year-old who loves kicking the soccer ball, throw him a soccer star party. The more personal the party theme is to your little one, the more fun he or she, and the little guests, will have.

Keep Them Entertained Two-year-olds do not mix and mingle, so it is a good idea to set up a few activities or have entertainment to keep their attention. You can do everything from setting up a coloring

26

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

table to hiring the music teacher from day care to perform for 30-45 minutes.

It’s also nice to have entertainment for the parents who attend. If you really want to spoil them, consider hiring a babysitter or the teenager next door to help with the little ones so that they can take a bit of a break.

Party Treats Paying particular attention to your menu is very important to ensure that there are no mishaps with food allergies or dietary restrictions. Make sure to serve toddler-size portions, and have sippy cups or milk boxes available. Serve food in paper party cups that are easy for the little ones to hold. A small cup filled with Goldfish, Cheerios and animal crackers will likely be a huge hit. Cupcakes may be an easier option for little ones to eat than working with a piece of cake, plate, and spoon or fork.

Planning a Party? We’ve got a full list of party

plan

arty

Logistics If your little guests are still in diapers or are potty training, be sure to have a fully stocked changing area, as well as a stool in the bathroom for little ones to wash their hands. You will also want to have plenty of wipes and paper towels handy for the inevitable cupcake frosting mishaps.

Keep it Simple 1. Use toys as decorations.

2. Serve cupcakes for easy handling.

3. Skip the party favor bag.

4. Host the party at a neighborhood park.

5. Keep nap time in mind when setting party time.

Strengthening Your Educational Foundation

Decorations and Favors Save money and impress all of your little guests by using your toddler’s toys as centerpieces. A stack of Duplo blocks or a few teddy bears in a cute basket make for adorable (and free) decorations.

When it comes to favors for a toddler’s birthday party, it is important that they be age-appropriate. For instance, you wouldn’t want to give your 1-year-old guests Jolly Ranchers.

You may even consider not giving out any candy — the other parents will thank you. After all, you are sending their child home already hyped on cupcakes.

Making the Guest List Be sensitive to how much people may, very innocently, talk about the birthday party. If you are only inviting close friends and family, it is best to not pass out any invitations at day care.

Also consider older or younger siblings. Will you be able to accommodate the whole family, or will you address the invitation to the child and ask him or her to bring Mom or Dad? Sample wording: “We hope that you and your Mommy or Daddy can join us for Hannah’s Pink Pirate Party” or “Please bring the whole family to our morning at the park in celebration of Jake’s 2nd Birthday!”

The most important thing to remember when planning your toddler’s birthday party is to have fun. This is a celebration, as well as recognition that you have survived another year of this wonderful, wild ride that is parenthood.

Specialized support in

Reading, Writing and Mathematics 1833 Dickerson Blvd.

Monroe NC 28110 704-635-8268

www.lindenwoodlearning.com

Improve Your Child’s Grades

SAVE $300!

B OWL ING

Spare the excuses ...

Book your kid’s

birthday party today!

Kids’ Birthday Packages Available

Jennifer Durbin is the author of “Party Planning Tips for The Clueless Chick” Find more at cluelesschick.com.

planning resources @ CharlotteParent.com/party

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

27

o t r c y e r ! i D y t r a P Animal Parties wi th Party Pets Matthews 70 4-8 14 -95 94 par typets.org 3-12 years | $175 ! Exciting hands-on Par ty Pets brings the zoo to you g snakes, lizards, programs with exotic pets includin hedgehogs turtles, bunnies, ferrets, chinchillas, and more. Available for birthday par ties, school programs, special events, summer camps and more.

Buck s Ice Cream 704-506 -6691 bucks-icecream.com 1 and older | Starting at $75 Bucks’ brings magic and ice cream to your party.

First is a magic show that makes your child the star of the show. After all the magic and pictures, it’s ice cream or snow cones for all.

28

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Blu e Mo on Pu ppe ts

704 -532 -840 8 bluemoonpuppets.com 3-8 years | Call for rates Lovable puppets, sing-along songs and hilarious stories, all in the comfort of your living room or clubhouse. An adorable puppet performs a song written just for your child, followed by two color ful, fastpaced stories filled with participation.

C ake Ex pressions by Lisa

6, Huntersville 15905 Brookway Drive, Ste. 410 70 4-2 41 -06 37 cake-expressions.com 7 and older | Call for rates ties.

Cake decoration classes and par

Brigh t Bless ings 608-A Matthews-Mint Hill Road, Matthews 704-846 -2329 brightblessingsusa.org All ages | $100 donation Purpose Parties are service-focused celebrations for all ages and any occasion.

Parties include invitations, supplies, decorations, goody bags and more! Celebrate your special occasion at The Giving Village while also helping local homeless children.

C ha rlo tte Nat ure Mus eu m

1658 Sterling Road 70 4-3 72 -62 61 charlot tenaturemuseum.org/visit/ birthday_parties 3-9 years | $255 members/$2 75 nonmembers From cake to snakes, Charlotte Nat ure Museum birthday par ties are wild by nature.

Choose your own one-of-a-kind par ty theme with add -on options.

Includes museum admission, cak e, refreshments, decorations, par ty favors, clean-u p and more.

Disco very Place 301 N. Tryon St. 704-372 -6261 discoveryplace.org/visit/birthday_parties 3 and older | Call for rates Kids can go nose-to-fin with cool critters, create cosmetics or learn magic at one of many themed party options. No set-up or clean up for the grown ups. Visit the website for available themes and rates.

G len di G lam

ws 163 S. Trade St., Ste. E, Matthe 98 0-2 24 -33 94 glendiglam.com 4-18 years | $5-$350 tination! We Glendi Glam is the ultimate par ty des to play dates s day birth are everything GLAM, from packages or our of one and so much more. Choose available for also is Glam di customize your own. Glen nt. eve own space rental to host your

Strike City 210 E. Trade St. 704-716 -9300 strikecitycharlotte.com 15 and younger | Call for rates Celebrate at StrikeCity, a 21st century, multimedia, bowling, dining and private event facility located in uptown Charlotte’s Epicentre.

D isc ov er y Pl ac e K ID SHun te rs vil le

105 Gilead Road, Huntersville 70 4-3 72 -62 61 day_parties discoveryplacekids.org/visit/birth s 2-7 years | Call for rate include museum Customized par ty packages that ions, cupcakes, par ty orat dec admission, refreshments, from a Super Duper favors, clean up and more. Choose ) or pick-your-party Par ty Package (best for ages 2-3 theme with a Cherry on Top Package.

Par ties available TuesdaySunday.

Ein ste inz La b

11007 Royal Colony Drive, Waxhaw 704 -651 -898 9 einsteinzlab.com 4-12 years | Call for rates Your child and friends can have a blast feeling like real scientists and conducting fun, handson experiments. Participate in a variet y of explosive demonstrations while wearing science aprons and safety goggles, and make ooey-gooey slime to take home.

Lynnwood Equestrian Center Morr ison YMCA

Fort Mill, S.C. 803 -396 -202 5 lynnwoodequestrian.com 4 and older | Call for rates Celebrate with a horseback riding birthday party that includes decorations, pizza and drinks for guests. We have miniature horses, a pet donk ey, as well as a sand pile to play in. Birthday child receives a gift from us.

Wish Upon A Star Pa rties Charlot te 70 4-7 80 -43 00 wishuponastarpar ties.com 1-10 years | $95-$140+ fairies, ladybug, Clowns, characters, princesses, e painting, tattoos, Fac too! superheroes and pirates par ty games. We silly magic, balloon twisting and and Gastonia. te rlot Cha come to you in greater

Wish Upoesn• LoAok-AS-Litkes r

9405 Bryant Farms Road 704-716 -4650 3-13 years | $175-$275 ymcacharlotte.org Enjoy one of the YMCA’s signature programs (cooking, kid’s fitness, sports, art and more).

Each party is based on 10-12 guests and includes invitations, table covering, paper products and a juice box for each child.

Z eln ik th e Mag ici an

70 4-2 81 -26 98 zelnikthemagician.com 5 and older | Call for rates Memorable entertainment ass ured to capture everyone’s curiosi ty and imagina tion!

Combining comedy, music and audience par ticipation creates a truly memorable, fun and per sonal experience.

Children’s Parti

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

29

BULLY-FREE

ZONES

Don’t let bullies ruin summer camp fun

BY SUZANNE M. WOOD

M

any of today’s parents have fond memories of turning popsicle sticks into crafts, learning how to paddle a canoe without capsizing, and making new — perhaps lifelong — friends. Most are eager for their children to create their own idyllic memories, whether at a day camp or a residential program.

For a minority of camp-bound kids, however, encounters with bullies will mar those memories. While most people think of bullying in connection with school, the sad fact is that whenever a diverse group of kids who don’t know each other are thrown together, especially if they spend lots of time together, power imbalances occur, cliques are formed and bullying can result.

Building Trust In the vast majority of weeklong camps, counselors never need to determine whether bullying is occurring in their group, says Suzanne Belanger, director of Anne Springs Close Greenway in Fort Mill, S.C. One reason for this is the emphasis on team-building exercises — a low-ropes course is one — in which children get to know each other in a trust-based setting and are taught to be responsible for one another. Another bully-busting strategy Belanger’s team employs: a low camper-to-counselor ratio of 6:1, which enables counselors to get to know their charges better and kids to feel safer confiding in their counselors if they have a problem.

Since isolation from the group is a classic invitation to bullying, counselors are sensitive to group dynamics. “If we see a kid who is sitting alone, we make an effort to talk to them and encourage them to participate,” says Belanger.

Focusing on Relationships At the YMCA of the Triangle Area, which operates 100 summer day camps in Wake, Durham, Johnston and Lee counties, staff and counselors go through frequent training to prevent, spot and stop bullying. Last summer, that training kicked up a notch with the participation of Joel Haber, a bullying-prevention expert and psychologist who consults with the American Camp Association, says Marco Ramirez, director of youth programs at the Kraft Family YMCA in Apex and head of the summer camp program.

“We learned from Dr. Haber that the number one way to prevent bullying is to build relationships with children,” he says. “Children who might tend to bully won’t if they are connected to each other and to their counselors. With the beginning of each weeklong camp — every Monday — we do name games so that campers get to know each other better.”

Still, some kids are challenged by the “extremely social” aspects of camp, says Ramirez.

To help make sure every kid feels engaged and welcome, counselors are encouraged to join in the organized games campers play to make sure children who are holding back or withdrawing have someone to talk to or another activity to join, says Ramirez.

30

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Tips to Ensure Your Camper Has a

Bully-Free Summer Know the difference between bullying and normal childhood aggression. Bullying is the “intentional consistent targeting of one child toward another.”If an offender is told he’s causing harm and refuses to stop, that’s bullying and is often grounds for being removed from camp.

Talk to camp directors about bullying policies/tolerance before you sign your child up for camp. Ask about specific training counselors have received and the counselorto-camper ratio, especially in bunks at residential camps. The lower the ratio, the better the supervision.

Share concerns with the camp director/ counselor if your child has been bullied at school. Chances are he or she might be a target at camp, too. The camp staff can be more alert to any bullying behavior directed at your child if they know in advance.

Empower your child with strategies to diffuse difficult encounters, such as not crying or getting angry, as these reactions typically fan the bullying flames. Reassure children that it’s OK to go to a counselor if they’re being bullied — and if that doesn’t get results, to notify other adults until somebody intervenes.

Expose shy, introverted or “different” children to camp experiences a little at a time, over time. Start out with two-hour or half-day activity camps, building up to sleep-away camp when you think homesickness or other vulnerabilities won’t make them likely targets of bullying. If possible, ask if a close friend can enroll at the same time; having an ally helps children feel more confident.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

31

: E G N E L L A H C Y L I M

FIT FA

Part 3

BY LISA HASSELL

T

he Fit Family Challenge is moving right along, and the two spotlight families are enthusiastic about their recently improved fitness and

nutrition habits. Here’s hoping you find their progress inspirational for your family.

1

2

3

5 4

6

32

JUNE 2013

|

The Hills and Garfinkles are quick to agree that they are more aware of the importance of healthy living and the benefits since beginning the Fit Family Challenge. They are paying more attention to the foods that they eat on a daily basis.

“Eating clean foods along with whole wheat and wholegrain foods are better choices for our family,” says mom Shana Hill.

The Garfinkles’ eating habits have also greatly improved.

Fit Family Challenge nutrition expert Cheryl Kuhta-Sutter taught the children how to read nutrition labels. Although grocery shopping takes a bit longer now, the kids are very conscious of what they’re putting in their bodies and are definitely trying to make better choices.

“I actually had to go to the grocery store three times last week to buy fruit. They ate everything I bought within a day or two!” says mom, Lisa Garfinkle. “[The kids] are looking for no more than 7 grams of sugar per serving and are pretty strict about it.”

The Hills are adding whole wheat in their breads, pasta, pancakes, rice and some chips, and are attempting to eat fruit with each meal. “The healthier foods are a little more expensive,” says Shana Hill, “but it’s still not a real issue,” and a little extra cost in healthier foods and gym memberships far outweighs the cost of illnesses, health problems and medications related to unhealthy living.

Fitness expert Paul Sklar taught the Hills that it isn’t necessary to spend time on a treadmill or weight machines, but that results can be achieved with resistance bands and weighted balls. They’ve noticed that moving more doesn’t really take much more time at all; devoting the time was all they needed to do.

“Our girls actually love working out with us because we now make it fun,” says Shana Hill.

In addition to the health benefits, Lisa Garfinkle has found a renewed sense of bonding and family closeness since beginning the official challenge. The family trained together and participated in a 5K in May. “I love that the whole family is working on this together.

1) David Garfinkle, 8, plays basketball. 2) Lisa Garfinkle and her daughter Ellen workout together. 3) Steve and Lisa Garfinkle with children, Ellen, 11, Jason, 13, and David, 8. 4) Layla and Alana Hill practice ballet. 5) Carl Hill and daughter Alana Hill, 6, stretching. 6) Carl and Shana Hill with daughters Alana, and Layla, 4.

CharlotteParent.com

It gives us something in common that we can talk about and interact on.

Usually we’re off focusing on our own things.”

There are, of course, challenges and setbacks. Staying fit and eating well isn’t as easy as sitting on the couch or grabbing fast food at a drivethrough on the way to a ballgame, work or another activity.

When talking with Fit Family Challenge balance expert Kim Jacobs, the Garfinkles were adamantly against dropping any extracurricular activities. They have, however, come up with some solutions to the problem of staying healthy while maintaining a hectic lifestyle.

One of Jacobs’ suggestions: Set a timer each evening for 15-30 minutes and have each family member clean something during that time.

For a family of six, a lot can get picked up and cleaned in that short period, and no one feels that he or she is doing an unfair amount.

The family is also working on make-ahead menus and foods they can take in a cooler, since they spend so much time on the ball field and running to various activities. “Planning is essential,” says Lisa Garfinkle, “and finding the time and discipline to do it is a challenge.” Ultimately the benefits are well worth the extra time.

Lisa Hassell is a freelance writer who lives in Indian Trail with her 4-year-old son and a menagerie of pets. She’s trying to keep up the daily momentum, too!

Get Fit With Technology Technology can be a tool to help get kids moving and have fun. Here are a few suggestions from personal trainer Beth Blount.

Phone apps. The app FitQuest Life requires kids jump and run to make the squirrel move. When kids stop moving, the squirrel sits down. It’s sure to elicit little giggles.

Wii and Xbox Kinect. In addition to Wii Fit games for adults

and kids, consider Just Dance, which can be just as effective.

Pedometers. Encourage kids to get 5,000 steps a day, and increase

the number of steps if it gets too easy. When children complete 10 days of 5,000 steps, celebrate with something they really enjoy.

WAYS 5 TO KEEP AT IT

1

2 3 4 5

“Remind yourself every day of your original goal and visualize how good you’ll feel when you reach that goal. Forgetting goals that you set for yourself is an easy way to avoid success.”

— Paul Sklar “Find exercise you enjoy.

Join a class or a team to stay committed.”

— Kim Jacobs “Stock your freezer with sodium-free frozen veggies and pack healthy snacks in your backpack, car or purse for easy access to powerpacked nutrition.”

— Cheryl Kuhta-Sutter “Honor your commitment to yourself and those that are counting on you to succeed.”

— Paul Sklar “Make small changes, one step at a time, for permanent lifestyle changes.”

— Cheryl Kuhta-Sutter

See more ideas by Blount in the Healthy Families Expert Advice blog at CarolinaParent.com/community/blogs.

The Fit Family Challenge, a Parenting Media Award Winner for Editorial Excellence in a Series.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

33

Got Calcium?

: e v o M r e w o P

Dumbbell Side Bend

Work that waistline with these oblique muscle builders.

Where to do it: At home or at the gym.

How to do it: Hold dumbbell in one hand. Without twisting, bend at your waist as far as you comfortably can on the side you are holding the weight and reach across head with other arm or put other hand at waist. Come back to upright position.

Repeat same number of reps on other side.

Top off your meals with low-fat dairy to get the calcium you – and your family –need to cut calories and reduce saturated fat.

• Use fat-free or low-fat milk on cereal and oatmeal.

• Top fruit salads and baked potatoes with low-fat yogurt.

• Substitute plain yogurt for dips and dressings that call for sour cream.

How much calcium do you need?

Ages 2-3: 2 cups Ages 4-8: 2 ½ cups Ages 8+: 3 cups

How many reps: Start with three sets of eight on each side, gradually increasing reps within a set.

Challenge yourself: Hold a dumbbell in each hand overhead while bending to each side.

Source: choosemyplate.gov

34

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Cook Delicious, Healthy Food for the Family What if there was a way to cook delicious food that helped you get the weight off and got your family eating healthier?

Husband and wife fitness experts Dave and Carrie Woodward, creators of bodyevolution.com, are the parents of four boys and have a typical busy family life. The Woodward’s created the “Strategic Cook” method to help them prepare great-tasting food that’s healthy. They offer these quick and easy ideas from their own kitchen:

in natural flavors. This is a great way to cook meat, poultry, fish, and veggies.

1 // Bake, don’t fry. Frying food in oil or

pasta, but unfortunately, pasta dishes are loaded with carbs and fats from ingredients like cheese and meats.

In Carrie Woodward’s Mexican Vegetable Lasagna recipe, she replaces the starchy pasta and greasy meats with layers of veggies, such as zucchini; squash; and yellow, orange, red or green peppers; mushrooms; and eggplant on top of one another. Add sauce as you go along to make a high-fiber, high-flavor lasagna. You can also use whole grain or corn tortillas in the place of pasta for another twist.

butter adds additional unhealthy fats and takes away much of the nutritional value of the food. Try instead using parchment paper to cook foods you might normally fry, like chicken or potatoes. Place food on parchment paper. Then fold all the loose ends together before placing the item in the oven. By not cooking in fat, the food doesn’t pick up added calories. This technique not only seals in the heat, which can decrease cooking time, it also maintains a food’s nutritional value more completely and makes it more flavorful by locking

2 // Grill more. When cooking meats, poultry or fish, use the grill. Not only does it make food taste incredible, it also cuts calories and fat because excess fats found in the food drip off. Veggies and even fruit can be grilled.

3 // Veggies – The Un-Pasta: Most people love

Find the recipe for Carrie’s Mexican Vegetable Lasagna on CharlotteParent.com/recipes.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

35

Epic fun for families in Uptown Charlotte, brought to you by EPICENTRE. There’s lots for families to do in Uptown Charlotte and EPICENTRE wants you to know about it.

SIMPLY EPIC EVENTS FOR THE FAMILY THIS MONTH:

SUNDAY, JUNE 16 : 1-3PM Dads are magical. It’s only fitting that we celebrate him with all sorts of magical entertainers, as well as games, prizes, crafts and special activities that are perfect for kids of all ages.

Radio Disney AM 1480 Road Crew will be here, and lots of great surprises.

It’s all fun, and all free.

Kids Bowl Free at Strike City

Monday-Friday at 11 am / Purchase $1 Child and $2 Adult Tickets at Box Office Only. 210 E. Trade Street Suite D-290 Charlotte, NC 28202

Monday-Friday’s 11 am – 5 pm 210 E. Trade Street- Ground Floor

June 10-14 – “Clifford’s Really Big Movie” June 17-21 – “Despicable Me” June 24-28 – “How to Train Your Dragon”

Register for “Kids Bowl Free” and enjoy 2 free games of bowling everyday all summer long!

The EpiCentre also recommends the following Uptown family events: Lights. Camera. NASCAR. Exhibit

NASCAR Hall of Fame, 400 E. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. Charlotte, NC 28202 Entire month of June Come see how this exhibit illustrates the tremendous reach and appeal NASCAR holds as both a means for movie promotion and the starring focus of a film.

World Ocean Day

Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St., Charlotte, NC 28202 June 8, 10am-5pm Dive into World Oceans Day and explore what makes 71% of the Earth’s surface soamazing!

Animalopolis – The IMAX Movie

301 N. Tryon St., Charlotte, NC 28202 Premieres June 1 Take a journey into the magical world of animals with this exciting and humorous film!

Wii-U Gaming- Family Time

ImaginOn: The Joe and Joan Martin Center, 310 N. Tryon St. Charlotte, NC 28202 June 1, 2pm-4pm Play the Nintendo Wii during this time and participate in games that encourage cooperation, problem solving, and critical thinking.

Drama-Rama

ImaginOn: The Joe and Joan Martin Center, 310 N. Tryon St. Charlotte, NC 28202 June 12, 11am-noon Act out and have fun! Play exciting drama games and showcase your talents!

Listen, Look, and Learn in the Garden: Story Time and Nature Learning

Freedom Park Demonstration Garden, Shelter #3, 1900 East Blvd. Charlotte, NC 28203 June 11, 10am This is the first in a monthly series of educational programs which offers children the opportunity to experience and enjoy the wonders of nature!

Green Market Saturday at the Market

7th Street Public Market, 224 E. 7th St. Charlotte, NC 28202 Every Saturday in June, 8:30am-1pm Weekly Green Market Saturday events will feature local vendors and a special theme or focus each Saturday, from BBQ to watermelon, ice cream and even salsa!

Pet Food Drive to Benefit Second Harvest Food Bank

224 E. 7th St., Charlotte, NC 28202 June 22, 8am-4pm Second Harvest helps families in need in many ways, including by helping them feed their pets. Drop by with bags or canned dog and cat food to help out the community!

36

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Mayfair! photo by Erin Stubbs Photography. Birkdale Animal Hospital Kids Triathlon photo by Georgina Emily Photography.

The Magic Of Dad!

Studio Movie Grill Presents the 2013 Children’s Summer Movie Series

G O! ETTING UT

COMPILED BY MICHELE HUGGINS AND KATY LEGRAND

Mayfair! photo by Erin Stubbs Photography. Birkdale Animal Hospital Kids Triathlon photo by Georgina Emily Photography.

June 2013 go. see. play.

1

Get ready to hear lots of ewws, giggles and gags at opening day for the new exhibit Animal Grossology. It’s an icky concoction of animal science facts about some of earth’s stinkiest, slimiest and not-so-slimy animals, and information about why they do the things they do. Through Sept. 2. $10-$15, includes museum admission.

Discovery Place 600 N. Tryon St. 704-372-6261 discoveryplace.org

15

20

22

Charlotte Nature Museum 1658 Sterling Road 704-372-6261 charlottenaturemuseum.org

Pineville Lake Park 1000 Johnston Drive 704-889-2400 townofpineville.com.

Your Backyard backyardcampout.org

From fuzzy little chicks to horses and goats, Farm Day brings a little farm to the big city. Learn all about local farm life, interesting facts about farm animals, and how farms are important to our communities, plus get a chance to see and touch some of the farm animals. 10am-1pm. $6, includes museum admission.

Pack a picnic and a blanket and bring the family out to Pineville Lake Park to hear the Charlotte Symphony Pops perform under the stars at the Rockin’ and Reelin’ Summer Movie and Music Series. Kids can run and play while you relax to the sounds of the symphony. 7pm.

Free.

Disconnect from the modern world for a day, and join thousands across the country in the Great American Backyard Campout that supports the National Wildlife Federation’s “Be Out There” movement.

Enjoy a night camping in your backyard or head to a park for s’mores, stories by the campfire, fresh air, open skies and outdoor fun. Free.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

37

1 SATURDAY

2 SUNDAY

4 TUESDAY

7 FRIDAY

Art of Paper Making. Learn how to make your own paper. Free.

Preregistration required. 2-3pm. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com Competitive Soccer Tryouts. Come out for open club soccer tryouts. 7-10 years. Preregistration required. Free.

1-3pm and 6-8pm. Martin Luther King Middle School, 500 Bilmark Ave. 704618-4306. queencityfutbolclub.com.

Middle School Madness. Activities include basketball, indoor soccer, gaming tournaments, dodgeball, foosball, ping-pong, concessions and dance. 6th-8th grade. Preregistration required. $9. 7-10:30pm. Siskey YMCA, 3127 Weddington Road, Matthews.

704-845-9622. ymcacharlotte.org.

Museum in Motion Festival. Ride trains, enjoy railroad displays and see vintage cars and airplanes. $10-$14.

NC Transportation Museum, 411 S Salisbury Avenue. 704-636-2889. nctrans.org.

Special Needs Angel Care Parent’s Night Out. Parents can drop-off a child with special needs for three hours of quality childcare in a fun, safe environment with 1:1 volunteer care. Space is limited. Preregistration required. $5-10. 5:30-8:30pm. Bailey Road Recreation Center, 11900 Bailey Road, Cornelius. 704-892-6031. cornelius.org.

Summer Concert Series. Enjoy a night of family entertainment.

Free. 5pm. Village Park, 700 West C Street, Kannapolis. 704-920-4343. cityofkannapolis.com.

Victorian Wedding at Historic Rosedale Plantation. Witness a traditional and historic wedding played out in beautiful costume. $8-$10. 1-5pm. Historic Rosedale Plantation, 3427 N. Tryon St. 704-3350325. historicrosedale.org.

Levine JCC Kids Triathlon. Cheer on children as they swim, bike and run.. 5-14 years. Preregistration required. $30. 1pm. Levine JCC, 5007 Providence Road. 704-366-5007. ljcckidstri.org.

SPAFA Adoption Expo 2013. Talk with adoption professionals in one convenient trade show setting. Free.

9am-1pm. Stallings United Methodist Church, 1115 Stallings Road, Stallings. spafa.org.

Survival 101. Go over the necessities to bring on any hike, play games, and discuss what survival really means.

8 and older. Free. Registration required. 1:30-2:30pm. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road.

704-432-6459. parkandrec.com.

Victorian Wedding at Historic Rosedale Plantation. A special living history event that includes an exhibition of clothing displayed only once a year at the plantation. $8-$10.

1-5pm. Historic Rosedale Plantation, 3427 N. Tryon St. 704-335-0325. historicrosedale.org.

Astronomy for Everyone. Explore the sky with a telescope to observe the moon, planets, and beyond. 6 and older. Free. Preregistration required.

8:30-10pm. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704-588-5224. parkandrec.com.

Breakfast With the Birds. Enjoy a pleasant morning of bird watching, walking and eating in the garden. 3-5 years. Preregistration required. $10.

10am-11am. Winghaven Gardens, 248 Ridgewood Avenue. 704-3310664. winghavengardens.com.

McDowell Animal Detectives. Learn how to distinguish between tracks, nests, and scat, then take a hike in search of clues! Free. Preregistration required. 10:30-11:30am. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704588-5224. parkandrec.com.

Movies in the Park. Come watch “Captain America” under the stars.

Live music performances before the movies. Movies start at dusk.

Free. 8:45pm. Village Park, 700 W. C St., Kannapolis. 704-920-4343. cityofkannapolis.com.

Summer Pops - Matthews. Enjoy an evening filled with music by the Charlotte Symphony. $10. 8:15pm.

Stumptown Park, 120 S. Trade St. 704714-5112. charlottesymphony.org.

Summer Sunset Series. Celebrate summer with an outdoor showing of “Madagascar 3.” Free. 6:30pm.

Crossing Paths Park, 120 Blythe Drive, Indian Trail. indiantrail.org.

Taste of Charlotte. Enjoy delicious food and entertainment suitable for all ages. Free. Must purchase coins to taste food. Fri-Sat, 11am-11pm; Sun.,11am-6pm. Uptown Charlotte, Tryon Street. 704-262-9847. tasteofcharlotte.com.

38

JUNE 2013

|

3 MONDAY Krafty Kidz. Have fun learning while making nature-themed crafts. Ages 2-7. Preregistration required. $2.

11am-noon. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704432-6459. parkandrec.com.

Little Explorer Series. Discover nature through crafts, games, songs, animal encounters, and outdoor exploration.

Ages 2-3. Preregistration required. $3. 10:30-11:15am. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704-5885224. parkandrec.com.

Marvelous Monday Storytime. Join the group for a reading of “Walking Dragons,” by Jane Yolen. A fun activity will follow the story. Free. 10am.

Barnes and Noble, Carolina Place Mall, 11025 Carolina Place, Pineville. 704544-9985. barnesandnoble.com.

CharlotteParent.com

5 WEDNESDAY Breakfast With the Birds. Enjoy a pleasant morning of bird watching, walking and eating in the garden. 3-5 years. Preregistration required. $10.

10am-11am. Winghaven Gardens, 248 Ridgewood Ave. 704-331-0664. winghavengardens.com.

Moms on the Move. A coach lead walking and running group for moms of all different fitness levels. Kids in strollers are welcome. Free. 10:30am.

Run for Your Life, 6416 Rea Road. 704541-9665. runforyourlife.com.

6 THURSDAY USNWC River Jam. Come out with friends and family to experience an incredible sunset over the Catawba River while enjoying great music, food and drink. Free. $5 parking fee.

7-10pm. USNWC, 5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy. 704-391-3900. usnwc.org.

8 SATURDAY 2nd Saturdays: Folk at Polk. Explore 19th-century musical traditions through a variety of folk musician performances. Preregistration required. Free. 10am-2pm. President James K. Polk Historic Site, 12031 Lancaster Hwy, Pineville. 704-8897145. ncculture.com.

2nd Saturdays: Garrison Life. Learn about daily lives of provincial garrison soldiers. Free. 10am-4pm. Fort Dobbs State Historic Site, 438 Ft. Dobbs Road, Statesville. 704-873-5882. ncculture.com.

2nd Saturdays: NC Open Panning Competition. Participate in a variety of activities related to gold mining. Preregistration required. Free.

10am-4pm. Reed Gold Mine, 9621 Reed Mine Road, Midland. 704-7214653. ncculture.com.

Daddy ‘n’ Me Storytime. Give mom a break and join a fun journey of great stories and songs with dad. Free.

daily calendar 11am. Barnes and Noble, Arboretum, 3327 PinevilleMatthews Road. 704-341-9365. barnesandnoble.com.

Family Fun Day. A day of music, local vendors, crafts and games for the whole family. Free. 11am-5pm.

Crossing Paths Park, 120 Blythe Drive., Indian Trail. indiantrail.org.

Soccer Clinic. Come out and practice your soccer skills.

4-12 years. Free. 10am-noon. Martin Luther King Middle School, 500 Bilmark Ave.. 704-618-4306. queencityfutbolclub.com.

JAARS Day. Events and displays include: plane, helicopter, boat and 4-by-4 vehicle rides, demonstrations of media in various languages and special speakers. Free admission, cost for food and rides. 9am-4pm. JAARS , 7405 JAARS Road, Waxhaw.

704-843-6130. jaars.org/events/jaarsday.

Parent and Me Tot Trots. Experience nature through sensory-based hikes with your child. Ages 1-2.

Preregistration required. Free. 9:30-10:15am. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-4326459. parkandrec.com.

Paws to Read. Boost reading skills and confidence by reading aloud to a volunteer therapy dog. 3-11 years.

Free. 10:30am. Mint Hill Library, 6840 Matthews-Mint Hill Road. 704-416-5200. cmlibrary.org.

Soccer Clinic. Come out and practice your soccer skills.

4-12 years. Free. 10am-noon. Martin Luther King Middle School, 500 Bilmark Ave.. 704-618-4306. queencityfutbolclub.com.

Taste of Charlotte. Enjoy delicious food and entertainment suitable for all ages. Free. Must purchase coins to taste food. Fri-Sat, 11am-11pm; Sun.,11am-6pm. Uptown Charlotte, Tryon Street. 704262-9847. tasteofcharlotte.com.

Wetland Critter Romp. Spend the afternoon romping through wetlands and hiking creeks to find critters.

Ages 7-12. Preregistration required. Free. 1-3pm.

McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704-5885224. parkandrec.com.

World Ocean Day. Explore what makes 71 percent of the Earth’s surface so amazing. $10-$12, includes museum admission. 10am-5pm. Discovery Place, 301 N. Tryon St. 704-372-6261. discoveryplace.org

fun for all ages. Free. 11am-2pm. NoDa, 800 Everett Place. watershedcharlotte.com.

Stream Search. Come prepared to get wet and muddy and discover what lives under the rocks and mud in Reedy Creek’s stream. Free. Preregistration required.

2-3:30pm. Reedy Creek nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandreck.com.

Sunday Fun Day: Intergalactic Art Adventure.

See a real space suit, create constellation string art, and learn the moon walk! Free for kids, $5 for adults.

1-4pm. Mint Museum Uptown, 500 S . Tryon St. 704337-2000. mintmuseum.org Taste of Charlotte. Enjoy delicious food and entertainment suitable for all ages. Free. Must purchase coins to taste food. Fri-Sat, 11am-11pm; Sun.,11am-6pm. Uptown Charlotte, Tryon Street. 704262-9847. tasteofcharlotte.com.

9 SUNDAY

13 THURSDAY

Insectigations. Take a hike to explore the wonderful world of bugs. Preregistration required. Free. 2-3pm.

Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road.

Huntersville. 704-875-1391. parkandrec.com.

School’s Out Bash. Celebrate summer with carnival games, pizza, bounce houses, live music for kids and

Family Evening Hike. Roast s’mores and take a hike in the forest in search of nighttime creatures. 5 and older. Preregistration required. $2. 7-8:30pm. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-4326459. parkandrec.com.

10 MONDAY Marvelous Monday Storytime. Join the group as they read “Walking Dragons,” by Jane Yolen. A fun activity will follow the story. Free. 10am. Barnes and Noble, Carolina Place Mall, 11025 Carolina Place, Pineville.

704-544-9985. barnesandnoble.com.

11 TUESDAY Summer Shootout. See Legend Car and Bandolero racing. 5pm. Charlotte Motor Speedway, 5555 Concord Pkwy. S., Concord. 800-455-3267. charlottemotorspeedway.com.

Toddler Tuesday Storytime. Gather together for great tales and songs. Free. Tuesday 9:30am. Barnes and Noble, Arboretum, 3327 Pineville-Matthews Road.

704-341-9365. barnesandnoble.com.

12 WEDNESDAY Drama-Rama. Act out and have fun! Play exciting drama games and showcase your talents. Free. ImaginOn, 310 N. Tryon St. 704-416-4600. imaginon.org.

Moms on the Move. A coach lead walking and running group for moms of all different fitness levels. Kids in strollers are welcome. Free. 10:30am. Run for Your Life, 6416 Rea Road. 704-541-9665. runforyourlife.com.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

39

Unlimited train rides and unlimited FUN The Museum in Motion Festival June 1st, 2013 Passenger train and Caboose train rides Vintage and antique cars Kids activities Tractors and and games farm equipment

Visit online at www.nctrans.org for event and ticket information

The N.C. Transportation Museum 411 S. Salisbury Ave. Spencer, NC

704-636-2889

Father’s Day Gift from the Garden. Make a garden-inspired gift for Father’s Day. 5-8 years.

Preregistration required. $12. 3:304:30pm. Winghaven Gardens, 248 Ridgewood Avenue. 704-331-0664. winghavengardens.com.

14 FRIDAY Family Adventure Camp. Join in an evening campfire cookout and hayride. All ages. Registration required. $10. 6pm-9pm. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road.. 704-5885224. parkandrec.com.

Preschool Pioneers Series. Explore the outdoors with games, stories, and animal encounters. Ages 4-6.

Preregistration required. $3. 10:3011:15am. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704-588-5224. parkandreck.com.

Reedy’s Animal Meet and Greet. Meet some of the inhabitants of Reedy Creek and learn about their habitats.

Preregistration required. Free. 2-3pm.

Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900

Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com.

15 SATURDAY Amazing Critter Cruise. Set sail on a nature cruise for children and enjoy Lake Norman’s beauty. Preregistration required. $25. 3pm. Queen’s Landing, 1459 River Hwy., Mooresville. 704-8774788. lakenormanwildlife.org.

Daddy ‘n’ Me Storytime. Give mom a break and join a fun journey of great stories and songs with dad. Free.

11am. Barnes and Noble, Arboretum, 3327 Pineville-Matthews Road. 704341-9365. barnesandnoble.com.

Farm Day. Visit the little farm in the big city and get up close to horses, goats, and chickens. 10am-1pm. $6. Charlotte Nature Museum, 1658 Sterling Road. 704-372-6261. charlottenaturemuseum.org.

Movie Night. Bring chairs and blankets and watch “Monsters Inc.” under the stars. Free. 8:30pm. Bethany Church, 4301 Beulah Church Road, Weddington. 704-846-3943. bethanychurch.com.

on exhibit BILLY GRAHAM LIBRARY Rooted in Prayer: Biblical Truths for Everyday Living. Features stories and memorabilia from 70 years of ministry by Billy Graham. Free. Through June 30.

9:30am-5pm. 704-401-3200. billygrahamlibrary.org. 4330 Westmont Drive.

DISCOVERY PLACE Animal Grossology. See what happens when ticks and mosquitos have too much to drink. Learn about the various steps of digestion in cows and much more that will make you say “eww!” $10-$12, includes museum admission. June 1- Sept. 2. 704-3726261. discoveryplace.org. 301 N. Tryon St.

NASCAR HALL OF FAME Lights. Camera. NASCAR. Exhibit. Learn about the tremendous reach and appeal NASCAR holds as both a means for movie promotion and the starring focus of a film. $12.95-$19.95; Children under 5 admitted free. Through Oct. 1. 10am-6pm. nascarhall. com. 400 E. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd.

SCHIELE MUSEUM Mamal Safari: Journey of Discovery. Meet live animals from around the world, see awesome mounted specimens from Africa, Asia, North and South America, and enjoy hands-on interactive exhibits designed to bring out the explorer in everyone. $4-$7, includes museum admission. Through Dec. 31. 704-866-6900. schielemuseum. org. 1500 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia.

40

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Nature Art. Search the preserve looking at the ways nature is art then create art in the woods. Preregistration required. Free. 10-11am. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road.

704-432-6459. parkandrec.com

16 SUNDAY Father’s Day Birkdale Animal Hospital Kids Triathlon Series. Cheer on participants as they run, bike and swim, and build lifelong healthy habits of setting goals for physical achievement. 4-14 years. $25-$30.

2pm. Huntersville Family Fitness & Aquatics, 11725 Verhoeff Road, Huntersville. 704-766-2222. hffa.com.

Summer Pops Prelude. Hear the sounds of Charlotte Symphony Youth Orchestra. $10. 7pm. Symphony Park, 4400 Sharon Road. 704-972-2000. csyo.net.

The Magic of Dad. Celebrate Dad with magical entertainers, as well as games, prizes, crafts and special activities, plus Radio Disney. Free.

1-3pm. Epicentre, 210 E. Trade St. epicentre.com.

17 MONDAY Marvelous Monday Storytime. Join the group as they read “Walking Dragons,” by Jane Yolen. Free. 10am.

Barnes and Noble, Carolina Place Mall, 11025 Carolina Place Pkwy., Pineville.

704-544-9985. barnesandnoble.com.

Nature Story Corner. Read a variety of nature-based stories then hike into the forest for a themed activity. 3 and older. Preregistration required. Free.

10-11am. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com

18 TUESDAY Summer Shootout . See Legend Car and Bandolero racing, and more. 5pm. Charlotte Motor Speedway, 555 Concord Parkway South, Concord. 800-455-3267. charlottemotorspeedway.com.

Toddler Tuesday Storytime. Calling all toddlers! Gather together

for great tales and songs. Free.

Tuesday 9:30am. Barnes & Noble, Arboretum, 3327 Pineville-Matthews Road, Charlotte. 704-341-9365. barnesandnoble.com.

19 WEDNESDAY Live Arts Performance: Farmer Jason. Summer Reading Program Performance with Farmer Jason.

Free. 10:30am. Village Park, 700 W. C St., Kannapolis. 704-920-4343. cityofkannapolis.com.

Moms on the Move. A coach led walking and running group for moms of all different fitness levels. Kids in strollers are welcome. Free. 10:30am.

Run for Your Life, 6416 Rea Road. 704541-9665. runforyourlife.com.

20 THURSDAY Story Explorers. Explore books and stories in creative ways through engaging activities including math, science, and games. 5-11. Free.

Preregistration required. 11:30am and 2:30pm. ImaginOn, 300 E. 7th St. 704416-4630. cmlibrary.org.

21 FRIDAY First Day of Summer Movies in the Park. See “The Lorax” under the stars on a big screen.

Most nights begin at 7:30 p.m. with live music performances before the movies. Movies start at dusk.

Free. 8:45pm. Village Park, 700 W. C St., Kannapolis. 704-920-4343. cityofkannapolis.com.

Nature at Night Hayride. Venture into the prairie and take in the sights and sounds of the night. Preregistration required. $1. 8:15-9:30pm. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704588-5224. parksandrec.com.

Summer Solstice Bonfire Celebration. Roast marshmallows, do crafts and visit with nocturnal guests. Free. 7:30-9:30pm. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road. Huntersville. 704-8751391. parkandrec.com.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

41

22 SATURDAY Daddy ‘n’ Me Storytime. Give mom a break and join a fun journey of great stories and songs with dad. Free.

11am. Barnes and Noble, Arboretum, 3327 Pineville-Matthews Road. 704341-9365. barnesandnoble.com.

Family Geocaching. Learn the basics of this outdoor hobby and use a handheld GPS unit to navigate the nature preserve in search of hidden treasures. Preregistration required. $6/ family. 10am-noon. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road. Huntersville. 704-875-1391. parkandrec.com.

From Native America: Stories, Legends, and History. Listen as Lloyd Arneach, Cherokee storyteller, author, and recording artist performs.

Ages 6 and older. Free. 2pm. Gaston County Public Library, 1555 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 704-868-2164. gastonlibrary.org.

Krafty Kidz. Have fun learning while making nature themed crafts. Ages 2-7. Preregistration required. $2.

11am-noon. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704432-6459. parkandrec.com Paws to Read. Boost reading skills and confidence by reading aloud to a volunteer therapy dog. 3-11 years.

Free. 10:30am. Mint Hill Library, 6840 Matthews-Mint Hill Road. 704-4165200. cmlibrary.org.

Space Odyssey. Enjoy a view of the night sky while hearing stories in an inflatable constellation bubble. 6 and older. Preregistration required. Free.

1-2pm. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com.

Stories Under the Stars. Enjoy a literary performing arts event by Sharon Clarke, storyteller and musician. Free.

7pm. Kannapolis Branch Library, 850 Mountain St., Kannapolis. 704-9204343. cityofkannapolis.com.

23 SUNDAY Family Box Oven Construction. Learn how to build a box oven, then make one to use. 5 and older. Preregistration required. $6/family. 10am-noon.

Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road. Huntersville. 704-8751391. parkandrec.com.

Family Friendly Comedy Improv. If you like the show “Whose Line Is It Anyway?”, this is the show for you. $10-$30. 4pm. Charlotte Comedy Zone, 900 NC Music Factory Blvd. 980321-4702. cltcomedyzone.com.

24 MONDAY Little Explorer Series. Discover nature through crafts, games, songs, animal encounters, and outdoor exploration.

Ages 2-3. Preregistration required. $3. 10:30-11:15am. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704-5885224. parkandrec.com.

Marvelous Monday Storytime. Join the group as they read “Walking Dragons,” by Jane Yolen. Free. 10am.

Barnes and Noble, Carolina Place Mall, 11025 Carolina Place, Pineville. 704544-9985. barnesandnoble.com.

Nature Story Corner. Read a variety of nature-based stories then hike into the forest for a themed activity. 3 and older. Preregistration required. Free.

10-11am. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com

25 TUESDAY Summer Shootout . See Legend Car and Bandolero racing, plus much more. 5pm. Charlotte Motor Speedway, 5555 Concord Parkway

South, Concord. 800-455-3267. charlottemotorspeedway.com.

26 WEDNESDAY Moms on the Move. A coach lead walking and running group for moms of all different fitness levels.

Kids in strollers are welcome. Free.

Wednesday 10:30am. Run for Your Life, 6416 Rea Road. 704-541-9665. runforyourlife.com.

27 THURSDAY A Walk in the Woods. Learn about coral reefs and sharks with a special presentation, hands-on artifacts and live animals. 5-11 years. Preregistration required. Free. 2pm. University City Regional Library 301 E. WT Harris Blvd.

704-416-7200. cmlibrary.org.

28 FRIDAY From Page to Screen. See a story brought to life with a special screening of “Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs.” 2pm. Cornelius Library, 21105 Catawba Ave. 704-416-3800. cmlibrary.org.

29 SATURDAY Butterflies and Dragonflies on the Prairie. Take a hike to discover some beautiful creatures. 10 and older. Preregistration requires. Free.

9:30-11am. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704-588-5224. parkandrec.com.

Daddy ‘n’ Me Storytime. Give mom a break and join a journey of great stories with Dad. Free. Saturday 11am.

Barnes and Noble, Arboretum, 3327 Pineville-Matthews Road. 704-3419365. barnesandnoble.com.

DIVA Empowerment Summit.

Workshops topics include antibullying, self-esteem, health and

beauty and healthy relationships.

Free. 11am-4pm. Thomasboro Academy, 538 Bradford Drive. 704326-2187. bigdreamzinc.com.

Migration with Hobey Ford’s Golden Rod Puppets. Enjoy live puppettheatre by an award -winning puppeteer. Ages 6 and older. Free.

2pm. Gaston County Public Library, 1555 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 704868-2164. gastonlibrary.org.

Slippery, Slimy Science. Get messy as you experiment with making slime and homemade Play Dough.

4 and older. Preregistration required. $2. 10-11am. Latta Plantation Nature Center, 6211 Sample Road. Huntersville. 704-875-1391. parkandrec.com.

Turtles, Tortoises and Terrapins, Oh My. Visit with Peter the Box turtle to learn everything you ever wanted to know about turtles, tortoises and terrapins. Preregistration required.

Free. 11am-noon. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704432-6459. parkandrec.com.

30 SUNDAY Family Fort Building. Join in the bonding powers of fort building. Ages 4 and older. Preregistration required.

Free. 3-4:30pm. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. 704-5885224. parkandrec.com.

Flippin’ Frogs and Slinky Salamanders. Come test your hopping skills against the Green Tree Frog and learn all about amphibians.

Preregistration required. Free. 2-3pm.

Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6459. parkandrec.com.

on stage OVENS AUDITORIUM

TIME WARNER CABLE ARENA

The Color Purple. Enjoy a touching performance about friendship by the Northwest School of the Arts. All ages. $13-$18. June 16, 4pm. 800-745-3000. ovensauditorium. com. 2700 E. Independence Blvd.

Quidam Cirque du Soleil. Watch this incredible performance about a young girl who escapes into an imaginary world. Tickets start at $37. July 3-7; Wed.-Fri. 7:30pm; Sat. 3:30 and 7:30pm; Sun. 1 and 5pm. 800-745-3000. timewarnercablearena.com. 333 E. Trade St.

42

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

CHARLOTTE

early july Summer Pops - Kannapolis. Enjoy an evening filled with music by the Charlotte Symphony. $10.

8:15pm. Village Park, 8th Street Greenway, Kannapolis. 704-714-5112. charlottesymphony.org.

3 WEDNESDAY The Pinocchio Show. Experience the magical classic tale of Pinocchio. Tickets start at $7. July 3-13 (except July 4 and 7), 10am. Halton Theatre, 1206 Elizabeth Ave. 704-330-6534. tix.cpcc.edu.

Skyshow at Knights Game. Watch the Knights take on the Durham Bulls and then enjoy Skyshow presented by WBT and the Knights. 7:15pm game,

fireworks after the game. $9-$15.

Knights Stadium, 2280 Deerfield Drive, Fort Mill, S.C. 704-357-8071. charlotteknights.com.

Summer Pops: ‘Celebrate America.’

Enjoy an evening filled with music by the Charlotte Symphony. $10. 8:15pm.

Symphony Park, 4400 Sharon Road.

704-714-5112. charlottesymphony.org.

4 THURSDAY Novant Health 4th of July Spectacular.

Come out for family-fun activities, games, giveaways, helpful healthrelated information and a special fireworks presentation to cap off the day. Free. 6-9:30pm. Memorial Stadium, 310 N. Kings Drive. july4thspectacular.com

BEHIND THE SCENES … Charlotte Symphony Trombonist Thomas Burge

BY THOMAS BURGE

To prepare for concerts I like to find a quiet space so I can focus and get in the zone before I go on stage. At a Summer Pops concert, where I’ll be playing outside, I have to be ready to play rain or shine. You might even find me in a hidden corner of the park going through my warm-up routine under the shade of a tree.

STEP 1: I stretch my muscles so I feel loose – just like an athlete might do. What I’m about to do in the concert requires the same focus that it takes to run 100 meters in 9.5 seconds, but instead of wearing a comfy running suit, I have to do it in a tailcoat, bow tie and dress shoes.

STEP 2: I do deep breathing exercises with a slow beat to relax and to prepare to use my lungs.

STEP 3: I sing the tunes I am about to play so my brain and my ears are flooded with the sounds I want to make. I fill my imagination with music.

STEP 4: I make music on just the mouthpiece part of my instrument by blowing and buzzing my lips. It sounds a bit like a musical duck quacking!

STEP 5: Eventually I add the trombone and it always sounds better if I have made these plans first. If it still feels tense, or sounds less than perfect, I just repeat the earlier steps.

In the end, I’m rewarded with a fantastic performance that I get to share with my fellow musicians and the audience.

outdoor movies and music

2 TUESDAY

Charlotte Symphony Summer Pops. Enjoy the sounds of the symphony under a starry sky. $10, free under age 18.

8:15pm. Symphony Park, 4400 Sharon Road. 704-372-1000. charlottesymphony.org.

June 9: The Thrill of the Orchestra June 16: A Summer Pops Fantasia June 23: Scores of Movie Music June 30: That’s Amore Movies in the Park at Ballantyne. Bring a chair or blanket.

Free popcorn, bottled water and face painting. Free.

Movies begin at dusk. Ballantyne Corporate Park, Brixham Green Connector Tent. moviesintheparkballantyne.com.

June 21: “Despicable Me” Movies on the Lawn at Kilgo. Free popcorn and lemonade, bring a blanket or chair. Free. 8pm. Kilgo, 2101 Belvedere Ave. 704-334-7348. kilgoumc.com/movies.cfm June 8: Movie TBD Movies on the Green. Bring your lawn chairs and blankets.

Showtimes begin at dusk. Free. 8pm. Promenade on Providence, corner of Providence Road and I-85. promenadeonprovidence.com.

June 7: “Madagascar 3: Europe’s Most Wanted”

MATTHEWS Matthews Summer Concert and Movie Series. Free.

7-10pm; movies begin at dusk. Stumptown Park, 120 S. Trade St. matthewsnc.com.

June 1: “Hotel Transylvania” June 15: “Odd Life of Timothy Green” June 22: Charlie Brown’s Tribute to the Coasters June 29: “The Little Rascals”

PINEVILLE Movies at the Mall. Free popcorn, pre-show entertainment including music and performers, then a movie in the courtyard. Free. 7:30pm, movie begins at dusk. Outdoor courtyard by REI, 11025 Carolina Place Pkwy. 704-542-4111. carolinaplace.com/events.

June 22: “Oz the Great and Powerful” (Radio Disney Movie Night) June 29: “Ice Age: Continental Drift” Rockin’ and Reelin’ Summer Movie and Music Series.

Free. 7pm. Pineville Lake Park, 1000 Johnston Drive. 704889-2400. townofpineville.com.

June 14: “Madagascar 3” June 20: Charlotte Symphony Orchestra June 28: Too Far Gone See the full summer outdoor movie and concert schedule at CharlotteParent.com/seasonalfun

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

43

BUSINESS DIRECTORY PARTIES

“All That a Magician Should Be” Call Greg at 704-281-2698 “Get him you’ll have no worries.”

Hear the laughter, see the fun!

Memories for years to come!

Relax and enjoy!

Lisa Mueller, proud mother

www.zelnikthemagician.com

About Town Ponies

Mobile Pony Parties

Call Angie: 704-441-3823

Like us on

www.abouttownponies.com

Epic meaning impressive; surpassing the ordinary.

Charlotte’s Premier Event Planning Service. We specialize in upscale children’s Birthday Parties. Our approach is simple full service event planning. We provide set up, clean up, coordination of your event, even entertainment.

The best part? We bring the party to you!

Check us out at www.epiceventsqueencity.com!

We look forward to making your event an (Epic) one.

Avoid the Chaos with Private Birthday Parties Giant Inflatables, Free Arcade, Air Hockey, Mini Golf and Pizza

D E L I V E R Y

F R E E

SLIDES, OBSTACLE COURSE, JOUST ARENA, HOTDOG STEAMERS

Open Play, 9am-12pm, Wednesday-Friday 1641 Matthews Township Parkway, beside Fuddruckers

704-649-1936 Prices starting at $150.00 for 6 hours

704-321-0059 www.spacekidets.com

e m o c l e W

t f a n m e r a i l P y e t t o l r a h C e h t to ll them you saw their ad in Charlotte Parent! !

sers and te i t r e v d a l a c o l t r Suppo

Acting Out Studio Brookdale Pediatric Dentistry

44

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

Cake Expressions by Lisa Camp Friendship Camp Greenville

Epicentre EpicEvents QC Glendi Glam Green Clean of Charlotte

BUSINESS DIRECTORY INSTRUCTION

VOICE LESSONS WITH ÉOW YN

Piano & Violin Lessons Private & In-Home Ballantyne Studio Group Piano Courses

“I teach in-home voice lessons for all ages with a passion for young singers.”

Ages 3-5, 6-8, 9-12 & 13-Adult

Is your child struggling to learn Spanish?

Not all students learn foreign language concepts the same way. It is important to choose a tutor who can modify their teaching methods to fit your child.

custom tailored one-on-one lessons student concerts and recitals, no fee to participate experienced staff money back guarantee flexible scheduling on-site receptionist for the best possible customer service

Call today for a free initial assessment!

FREE TRIAL LESSON!

SPANISH IS FUN TUTORING SERVICE

10046-G East Independence Blvd, Matthews, NC 28105 704-708-8961 www.musicmatterscharlotte.com

704-542-0208

t I obtained a Master’s degree in Vocal Performance from the University of Southern Mississippi t My numerous professional performances have included lead roles in Fiddler on the Roof, Gilbert and Sullivan’s The Mikado, Mozart’s Così fan tutte t I offer a free evaluation and short lesson on our first visit Preparing students for college music departments, choral groups, auditions or those who simply desire to be a better singer. ÉOWYN MELARAGNO VOICE STUDIO

eowyn.morrow@gmail.com

864.680.6132

PlaySpanish SPANISH CHINESE FRENCH ITALIAN GERMAN

Now enrolling for summer camps for ages 3-5!

“America’s Fastest Growing In-Home Service”

invites you to Play Languages with Us!

GET STARTED ON THE PATH TO A SECOND LANGUAGE TODAY

Reading Specialist Dawn Petalino 704-302-4884

or email: alchemytutoring@yahoo.com

Changing Lives One Child at a Time Reading Specialist Master’s, Orton-Gillingham educated

Creative Education in Music

Harmony House for Kids private music classes for ages 5 and up piano, voice, guitar, drum, bass guitar special rates for morning classes Bring this ad - get first month 50% off for classes SUMMER CAMP INFORMATION AT: harmonyhouse4kids.com 704.364.1421

See your ad in this space next month. advertising@charlotteparent.com

Spanish, Mandarin Chinese, French, Italian & German

Instruction for children as young as six months old.

We do birthday parties for ages 2-5!

Classes for ages 18 months - age 6

Locations throughout the Greater Charlotte area!

Call 704-442-5616 for information!

Located in Historic SouthEnd

www.playspanish.com www.playlanguageswithus.com

www.charlottejrgym.com • 704-333-3242

PROFESSIONAL SERVICES

cltjrgym@aol.com

CHILD CARE

NC Family Court Forms

Fast, Easy & Low Cost!

Divorce Child Custody Name Change

Supported by the Mecklenburg County SelfServe Center

www.icandocs.org/nc

Free referrals from a trusted source.

(704) 348-2181 www.childcareresourcesinc.org/ how-to/find-child-care/ CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

45

Bye-Bye to Nap Time

M

y 2 1/2-year-old son, Brayden, has stopped taking daytime naps, just like his big sister, Sage, who quit her midday siestas before she turned 3. But I’ve spoken with many parents who A GOOD SPORT say their

BY BRUCE SNYDER 3-year-olds are still snoozing during daylight.

At first I was a bummed out. After all, when I was home and Brayden would fall asleep around 12:30 p.m., I knew I would have a relatively easy two to three hours. If I was with Sage, I could give her my undivided attention. If I happened to be with Brayden only, then his nap time would be my invitation to a miniholiday. There would be no tantrums, no running around, no stress.

46

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

I initially missed my little midday vacation, but as I adjusted to this new schedule, I learned to appreciate it more and more. Yes, it can be stressful at times, especially when I am home alone all day with both kids. But on the flip side, I no longer have to deal with Brayden’s cranky attitude when he wakes up from his nap. (That little boy can have a big attitude.) Also, after a full day of activity, Brayden and Sage rarely have problems falling asleep. They are usually dreaming before my wife and I get down the stairs, and they usually sleep through the night.

What I am learning from all of this is that as Brayden and Sage continue to grow, they also continue to change physically and mentally. What appears

to be a negative on the surface can turn out to be something positive.

With a good night’s sleep, Brayden is more alert, happier and full of energy.

Also, because the kids are awake all day, our schedule opens up. On days when my wife and I are both home, we have all day to go somewhere with the kids, without worrying that we are missing nap time and throwing their sleep rhythm out of whack.

So the next time something seems to be a problem with the kids, look harder. It might just turn out to be the best thing for all involved … and you can sleep on that.

Bruce Snyder is a longtime sportscaster who lives in Charlotte with his wife and two kids, Sage, 5, and Brayden, 2.

CharlotteParent.com | JUNE 2013

47

CAROLINAsmiles FATHER’S DAY EDITION

More cute pictures from our readers. We love seeing the smiles. See more at CharlotteParent.com/community/photogallery.

Send your smiles to Photos@CharlotteParent.com. Include the child’s first and last name, and age.

Non-professional photos only. Photos must be large format.

48

JUNE 2013

|

CharlotteParent.com

BOONE, NC Mountains of Family Fun! Whitewater Rafting

Grandfather Mountain Tweetsie Railroad

Ziplining

Summer Fun! Biking Discover a ton of fun in the Boone area exploring family attractions including Tweetsie Railroad and Grandfather Mountain, or whitewater rafting, biking, hiking, ziplining and more!

800-852-9506