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FROM THE ASSOCIATE EDITOR MICHELE HUGGINS

Mom Is A Full-Time Job

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our years ago, I took on a new role in my life. After nine months of preparation, I became a mom. I skipped most of the training sessions before taking the job, and opted instead for the figure-it-out-as-you-go method. I'd watched plenty of friends take on the new-parent challenge and thought if they can do it, so can I. And so I did, but not without hitting stumbling blocks and shedding tears in the beginning out of complete terror and amazement that I had a baby. In the past four years, I've learned that the job of mom requires flexibility, patience, quick-thinking skills, and the ability to work under pressure, handle messy situations, and deal with shifting mood swings.

I worked full-time for 11 years as a child-free woman. I now scoff at myself for thinking there wasn't time to do it “all.” As a parent who works full-time outside the home, it's a whole new ballgame of juggling time and responsibility. Just like any new job, there is a learning curve, but you find your rhythm, create your parenting network, and new tasks become part of your routine.

In our story on Page 29, three life coaches share their insights on how to handle the common work-life challenges most parents face. Love the tip about letting go of perfection as a parent. The dishes can wait while I enjoy the present filled with silly, curious questions from my 4-year-old. You don’t get those moments back.

Economic downturns, life changes and personal aspirations cause people to make career transitions. The story "Reinventing Yourself" on Page 22 offers advice for how to be resourceful when starting down a new path. And our list of N.C. Family-Friendly companies on Page 25 highlights local employers who believe in providing services that benefit employees and their families.

Also be sure to join us for our Moms@Work event on Sept. 27. We have a new format this year with informative and entertaining breakout sessions, including how to make quick, healthy meals and best practices for social media in business. Details at CharlotteParent.com/momsatwork.

Michele Huggins, associate editor READER FEEDBACK I really love Charlotte Parent Magazine. I look forward to picking up the new issue every month in the grocery store.

The current issue had an article that I particularly loved/found encouraging. It was about what they call "the fourth trimester" and fitting back into pre-pregnancy wardrobe. The overall thing I got from the article was about cutting myself some slack and giving my body a break. It was just very freeing for me. Just wanted to pass that along.

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Rock & Read 5K on the Move The annual Rock & Read 5K takes place in Charlotte’s Plaza Midwood neighborhood Sept. 14 with all races starting and finishing at the Plaza Midwood branch library.

Children can join in a 1-mile Fun Run/Walk and a Kids’ Dash featuring Chubby of the Charlotte Checkers. Proceeds from the event benefit the Charlotte Mecklenburg Library. Sign up and get details at cmlibraryfriends.org.

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Harvest of the Month Program Presents Fresh Vegetables in a New Way

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ome local school students are getting the chance to try vegetables prepared in new ways as part of the Harvest of the Month Program. Local mom Kendall Kendrick initiated the program to share her passion and knowledge for gardens and fresh vegetables with children and the community.

Kendrick, a mom of four, applied for and received an $8,000 grant from Burt’s Bees and is working with the Food Policy Council, Charlotte School Garden Network and Friendship Gardens to kick off the program at 12 schools throughout CharlotteMecklenburg Schools this school year.

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Month takes off in September at Chantilly, Billingsville, Winterfield and Shamrock elementary schools. One classroom out of each school is selected as the pilot classroom, says Kendrick, and that classroom has a tasting each month based on a harvest item either grown at the school or donated from a local farm.

“We will be doing green smoothies and kale chips and things that make kids have a completely different idea of what vegetables taste like,” says Kendrick.

Fall harvest vegetables include sweet potatoes, chard, kale and squashes.

Student in the pilot classes get to try the harvest vegetable

four different ways during the month, and the vegetable is included on the school menu once a week for all to try. Plus there will be bulletin boards with harvest facts and pictures posted at the schools.

On tasting days, students will get a sticker of the food they tried that they can wear home, as well as a recipe card to share.

Kendrick hopes the stickers will spark conversations at home and encourage families to try more fresh vegetables. In addition to the tastings, a planting program is scheduled for November through February at eight different schools.

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For her 9th birthday, Shelby Cravens asked her friends to bring bags of dog food as gifts. Shelby, a dog lover whose family has two dogs, both rescues, donated the bags of food to Greater Charlotte Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals to help feed homeless dogs at the shelter. Shelby hopes one day to be a vet and/ or animal rescuer. She has talked about setting up her own animal rescue since she was 4, says her mom Juli Cravens. “I love dogs and I want to make sure they have enough to eat. I want them all to have a home and be comfortable and taken care of,” says Shelby.

Shelby Cravens, 9, collected bags of dog food at her birthday party to give to the Greater Charlotte Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals.

Local Teen to Tee Up at Pebble Beach Sam Wimbrow is scheduled to compete in the 2013 Nature Valley First Tee Open at Pebble Beach, an official Champions Tour event that will be held Sept. 27-29 and televised internationally on the Golf Channel.

Sam was selected by a national panel of judges that evaluated player abilities, and comprehension of the life skills and character education learned through involvement with The First Tee. “To play Pebble Beach has been a goal of mine since I joined The First Tee in 2010,” says Sam. “I am looking forward to playing golf on the west coast, in different conditions and climate.” thefirstteecharlotte.org.

Sam Wimbrow, 17, will play at the Nature Valley First Tee Open at Pebble Beach. 

My daughter rode the bus on her second day of kindergarten. I strongly believe that we as parents must let go of the reins at appropriate times to help them develop independence, courage and self-confidence. That's our job!

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Nicole Pietrantonio Quick stats: Age 26; writer and Single Momma blogger for CharlotteParent. com … Family tree: Lives with her 2-month-old son Christian Michael Pietrantonio and black lab Harley … Favorite indulgence: Sleep, a long shower, five minutes on Pinterest, 15 minutes shooting the breeze with a friend over the phone … Favorite outing: I love walking around Birkdale Village with my little one in the stroller, and stopping for frozen yogurt … Favorite local eats: Carolina Ale House near Concord Mills Mall … Latest read: “Brothers in Battle, Best of Friends: Two WWII Paratroopers from the Original Band of Brothers Tell Their Story,” … DVR: “TrueBlood” … In your bag: The diaper bag is stocked like a single-mom survival kit with a diaper for every hour I plan on being out of the house.

Another pencil bag includes a change of clothes, a bib, socks, burpcloth and a hat. In another makeup case I have all of our first-aid needs, and then the wet-wipes, pacifiers and bottles full of freshly squeezed mama-milk …

Can’t live without: My son. I believe I merely existed before Christian. It is amazing what a child can do …

Stress buster: writing, walking and reading inspiring quotes.

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dolescence is a time when children are establishing more independence. They accept more influence from peers on personal style, social behaviors and pop culture to establish an identity of their own. The shift is normal, and it is an important process in DOC SAYS developing self-confidence.

BY DR. MARY FAISON KNOX Parents should allow this process to occur while also providing enough structure to avoid undesirable behavior. Research suggests that adolescents are more likely to engage in risky behaviors when they feel their parents are too controlling or not involved at all in their lives. Experts recommend a technique called problemsolving training, which involves one or both parents discussing the specific conflict with a child.

In a difficult situation, try following these five steps for resolution:

1. Define the problem and its effect on parent and child. What emotions caused the conflict? Allow the child to explain why he or she chose certain behaviors without parental judgment. Teens need to feel respected for their feelings, even if you disagree with them. Together, develop a variety of possible solutions and consider and record the positive and negative effects of each.

2. Choose the best solution from the list, preferably the one with the most positive effects.

Determine who will enforce the decision. What happens if the solution is not followed? What are potential exceptions to this solution?

3. Be open to renegotiating a new solution if needed. Here’s an example of how this may play out at home in a situation where a child sends excessive texts and rings up large overage charges. Let your child tell you how it makes him or her feel when you put restrictions on how much they can text message their friends. Acknowledge you have heard them, and even repeat what you’ve heard them say. Explain why and where you see there is a problem, and why you are concerned about how much they are texting. Together, agree on reasonable amounts and reasonable times to text message. The child should take the lead in making a list of possible solutions to this problem, but parents can contribute. Put positive and negative effects of each option in columns next to the solution.

4. Pick an option that seems most positive for both parent and child. For example, texting is only allowed after homework is complete until 9 p.m., but there is no restriction on texting frequency.

5. Decide what happens if the parent notices the child isn’t following the agreed upon option. Is there a time when the child may be allowed to increase his or her texting privileges? It’s important that this is clear when defining this “solution.”

Though this approach to negative adolescent behavior may not always work, it’s important to remember that effective parenting requires consistency in enforcing consequences, allowing adolescents the freedom to show responsibility and therefore earn privilege. It requires a loving and supporting environment. It also requires parents to serve as good role models. Using a consistent loving approach during time of calm and conflict can help children demonstrate more positive behaviors.

Dr. Mary Faison Knox lives in Charlotte and works at Novant Health South Park Family Physicians. She has two children.

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A good night’s sleep could mean more than you think. A recent study published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health found that going to bed at different times each night can reduce a child's brainpower. Boys and girls who never had a regular bedtime at ages 3, 5 and 7 had lower reading, math and spatial-awareness test scores than children who had a consistent bedtime.

When packing school snacks, make it a mix of proteins and vegetables.

A study in the journal Pediatrics tested third- to sixth-graders’ appetites by randomly giving them one of four snacks: potato chips, cheese, vegetables, or a combination of cheese and vegetables. Children who ate the combination snack felt satisfied more quickly and consumed 72 percent fewer calories.

Brush twice a day to keep cavities away! According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, tooth decay affects more than one-fourth of U.S. children in the 2-to-5 age group and half of children ages 12 to 15. For children older than 2, the American Dental Association recommends brushing twice a day with a pea-sized amount of fluoride toothpaste.

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Start a New Chapter Branches, a new line of illustrated early chapter books, bridges the gap between leveled readers and traditional chapter books. The five series of high-concept stories align with Common Core State Standards, and the 50-50 text-to-art ratio reinforces comprehension in a fun way. $4.99. Ages 5-7. scholastic.com/branches

Middle-School Multitasking Does Not Mix with School Work

App Alert: Marble Math Elementary schoolers can practice basic math skills and concepts by rolling the marble with their finger or tilting the device to collect bonuses, and dodge obstacles. For younger players, explore the Marble Math Junior app. For iPhone and iPad, $1.99.

Tip Use flashcards to help preschoolers build on site words and learn letters.

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their schoolwork while staying in frequent contact with their friends electronically.

Unfortunately, if a student multitasks while studying, he or she is not really doing two things simultaneously, but

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switching back and forth rapidly from task to task.

According to David Pisoni, chancellor's professor of psychology at Indiana University, “Memory and attention are limited. Students don't realize that when they study and engage in other activities, that multitasking comes at a price.� The price is not learning as much as they would without multitasking.

Students in middle school and beyond need to learn how

to balance academics and using social media. Parents need to set rules regarding social media and digital distractions during homework time to help children manage study time with limited distractions.

Quality study time is far more important than the quantity of studying a student does.

Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts are experienced teachers who together have more than 60 educational publications to their credit.

1. Create a dedicated homework and study area, and hours.

2. Help your child identify his most productive time of day. Utilize that time so that his efforts will be most effective.

3. Designate a set amount of time for homework without any digital devices. Then designate a set break where it is OK to check in via social media before returning to homework.

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Starting School Right as a Stepparent

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he beginning of the school year is an important time in the life of every parent with school-aged children, and that includes stepparents. It’s the time when you’re establishing routines that will set the standard for STEP-UP the rest of the

BY KAREN ALLEY school year, whether it’s bedtime rituals or homework schedules, and as with all things in a child’s development, all the parents in a child’s life have an important role to play.

The first order of business is to introduce yourself to all of your child’s teachers and explain your family’s particular situation. If it’s not possible for all parents to attend the open house, set up a conference with the teacher as soon as possible to introduce yourself. Whether it’s at the open house or a conference, the important thing is to let the teacher know

that as a stepparent you are also involved in your child’s life and care about his or her success. It also helps the teacher be better equipped to work with your child once he or she knows the custody arrangement and any other pertinent information that might affect a child’s attitude at school.

Having a clear line of communication from the school to you is also important.

Now’s the time to make sure all parents are listed on the child’s information forms, biological or not, so that both households receive all calls and communications.

With the new PowerSchool program that is being implemented this year in N.C. schools, parents have an easy way to track attendance, grades and schedules online.

Depending on how the security system is set up, it’s likely that only the custodial parent will be able to receive the initial user ID and password. It will be important for

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all parents, including stepparents, to have access to this information, so sharing the login information will be one more task on the list of things to do at the start of the school year.

Though getting communication from the school straightened out is important in blended families, even more important is letting the kids know that you’re concerned about their success in school.

As a stepparent, it’s just as important for you to help with homework and attend school functions and athletic events as the biological parents. After all, you’re all parenting, and the more love a child receives, the better off he or she is.

Karen Alley lives in the Triad and is proud to be part of a blended family.

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TOP 5 Work-FromHome Careers 1.

Get crafty. If you make jewelry, pottery, clothing, illustrations, bath products, edibles, etc. consider selling on Etsy.

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service. Answer customer calls for big brands from your own home. Expect to earn $8 to $15 an hour.

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Freelance. Home-based contractors perform tasks ranging from software development to PR work.

4 . Tutor. Contact your local school systems.

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Write. Websites such as about.com regularly hire guides to create content based on a proven expertise in a specific topic.

Parenting Toolbox: In The Balance Myth: Rethinking Work-Life Success (Green Leaf Book Group Press, $21.95), Teresa A. Taylor shares compelling confessionals about her experiences as a wife, mother and former chief operating officer of Qwest, a Fortune 200 company and leading telecom giant. Through meltdowns and tears, she found creative ways to nurture personal relationships and navigate office politics. One reader wrote for the book’s Amazon review: “There were a few pages in here where I wanted to reach through the screen and give her a hug, and a few where I wanted to give her a high five. It made me feel not so alone, a little less crazy, and gave me hope that I'll ‘make it’ someday.” Learn more at teresataylor.org.

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Bitybean Child Carrier No more bulky child carrier to tote around.

Designed for infants and children ages 3 months to 3 years, weighing between eight and 40 pounds. It fits in a small stuff sack that is about the size of a smartphone.

Adjustable waist and shoulder straps make it easy to wear. Starts at $54. bitybean.com.

Monkey Mat This water-repellant, lightweight goanywhere mat is ultracompact and easily transported as an accessory in an attached stylish, six-inch zip pouch. It has weighted corners so it won’t blow away when spread outside. An easy-buckle strap secures to any bag or stroller. $39.99. monkeymat.com.

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Celia Rivenbark Celia Rivenbark, award-winning columnist, journalist, author and mom, approaches life with Southern style, humor and attitude. She’s bringing her Southern charm and sassy wit to the Charlotte Parent Moms@Work event Sept. 27.

Having penned six funny books of topical essays (and another due out in October), including the national best-seller “We're Just Like You, Only Prettier” and her last release “You Don’t Sweat Much for a Fat Girl: Observations on Life from the Shallow End of the Pool,” Rivenbark is known for her witty commentary about everything from reality TV shows, skanky clothes for girls, getting a coveted seat at the Disney character breakfast, and the day-to-day of her own life as a working mom.

A North Carolina native who grew up in Duplin County, Rivenbark worked as a newspaper journalist, copy editor and humor columnist for almost 20 years before having her daughter, Sophie, and leaving a fulltime position. Having been a writer for 21 years, she knew she couldn’t give up writing “cold turkey,” but she also knew she wanted to stay home with her daughter.

She pitched her idea to work from home, and her bosses at the time (both men) said no. “I think they were shocked when I said that, in that case, I quit,” says Rivenbark. A few months later, she was approached by the Sun News in Myrtle Beach who had no problem with her writing her humor column from home, which allowed her to have time to spend with her daughter and continue doing the work she loved. That work flexibility continued to be important to Rivenbark throughout Sophie’s childhood, but she’s not without plenty of funny episodes from her life as a working mom, many recounted in her books.

“I think the story I love best of all is when I wrote about Sophie taking sex education in the fifth grade. I was working from home furiously on deadline and was summoned to the school because she had fainted during the video for sex ed class. I arrived to find her on a cot with a cold cloth on her forehead. Across the room, lying on another cot, was a fifth grade boy in the same shape. When I told my husband about it, he said, “That boy's my future son-in-law,’” she says.

Rivenbark currently lives in Wilmington with her family. Read an excerpt from her book and check out her weekly column at celiarivenbark.com.

Meet Celia Rivenbark

at the 2013 Moms@Work breakfast at the Convention Center, Sept. 27. CharlotteParent.com/momsatwork.

Watch kids go from

There is something for everyone at the Cabarrus County Fair. With funny foods, cute animals, pig races, exciting rides, joyous music, giant vegetables and more, it’s sure to make anyone go from happy to sleepy!

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BY HEIDI BILLOTTO

Fall Fajitas From the Grill Here’s a great fall family recipe — everyone can help with the prep work of slicing the veggies and then marinating the pork or chicken early in the day — the secret is in the pickle juice!

The beauty of this recipe is that it can all be prepped early in the day or even the day before for quick and easy grilling right before serving. Grilling all the individual ingredients means less fat and more flavor, making it a quick, easy, healthy and tasty weekday or weekend meal.

That evening, when everything comes off the grill, set it up buffet style and let each member of the family make his or her own.

Pork Tenderloin or Chicken Fajitas with Grilled Veggies INGREDIENTS:

• Two pork tenderloins or six • • • •

boneless chicken breasts or thighs 1 cup sour or spicy pickle juice 3 cups water 4-5 tablespoons of your favorite Caribbean or jerk seasoning Your choice of veggies (portobello mushrooms, grape tomatoes, Vidalia onions, bell peppers, eggplant,

1. Place chicken or pork tenderloins in a large resealable plastic bag with jerk seasoning and pickle juice. Brine at least two to four hours, turning the bag occasionally, to thoroughly coat the pork. Remove the bag from the refrigerator 30 minutes before grilling.

2. Remove the chicken or tenderloins from the brine and pat dry. This is an important step, because wet meat will not brown on the grill. Sprinkle them with the coarse sea salt and pepper. Place on a medium high grill and grill six to seven minutes per side.

3. For the veggies: Slice and season the veggies with salt and

zucchini and yellow squash all work well).

• Coarse sea salt and pepper • Flour tortillas — (For this recipe, I really like the spicy habanero lime flour tortillas at Trader Joe’s) • For the garnish, sliced avocado, fresh cilantro and sour cream, if you’d like pepper and place on an un-oiled or sauced grill grid. Grill until naturally browned or caramelized.

Here are some suggested grilling times: Thick-cut onions, six to eight minutes a side; grape tomatoes, four minutes each side; bell peppers and portobello mushrooms, four to five minutes each side; eggplant, yellow squash and zucchini, three to four minutes each side.

4. Slice pork, chicken and veggies and arrange on a serving platter.

Warm the tortillas. Let everyone dig in and make their own fajita and enjoy with some sliced avocado and fresh cilantro as a garnish.

Heidi Billotto is a culinary expert who hosts cooking classes throughout the Charlotte area. Find her on Twitter @HeidiCooks.

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MOTHER OF STYLE  BY WHITLEY ADKINS HAMLIN

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the home, mamas are always working. This article is dedicated to the mama who heads for the office during the week who needs clothes that are a fit for her career and when on the go with kids.

If the suit fits. It’s important to invest in a quality suit.

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My favorite modern day go-to is J. Crew. They offer a variety of options including trousers, skirts, jackets and dresses. These days, most department stores and better brands offer free alterations. A low-budget alternative is to shop any number of our high-end consignment stores in Charlotte. Take a well-made garment to your seamstress to have it custom tailored. J.T Posh, summerbird and Sweet Repeats are great options.

Bless your soles. If you work uptown, there is nothing

unfashionable about wearing your sneakers for the morning commute then changing into your stylish shoes when you get to the office. Better yet, invest in a pair of comfortable flats. I have put many clients in the Italianmade Attilio Giusti Leombruni shoes available at Nordstrom.

The right top. If you’ve ever picked up your child

in your work clothes, it’s not easy to move in starchy corporate attire. Avoid inadvertently showing the world what you mean to otherwise keep hidden by wearing smooth-fitting pullover tops. Carry along a cardigan or blazer to polish your look.

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Accessorize. Last but not least, accessorizing is where

1 // J.Crew Accessories, $17.50$128; 2 // J. Crew Sidney Jacket in pinstripe, $250 and J. Crew Paley Pant in pinstripe, $128; 3 // Attilio Giusti Leombruni flat, $298, at Nordstrom.

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you get to really show your personal style. A silk scarf can do so much. Wrap it over your shoulders, tie it on a bag, wrap it around your crown in damp weather. Carry a bag that reflects your personality, and top off your look with some great bangles, earrings or necklaces.

Whitley Adkins Hamlin is a local stylist and mom of two boys under age 5 who lives in Charlotte. Read her Mother of Style blog at CharlotteParent.com/blogs.

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The FBI reports that a child is abducted or becomes missing every 40 seconds in the GROWING UP United States, so it’s no wonder that

BY MALIA JACOBSON teaching kids about “stranger danger” is a parenting priority. Teaching children to fear all strangers, however, is misguided, says Lenore Skenazy, author of “FreeRange Kids: How to Raise Safe, Self-Reliant Children.”

Research from the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children found that 85 percent of abducted children were taken by someone familiar to them, and sometimes approaching a stranger is the right thing for a child to do.

Here’s how to teach kids the facts about stranger safety.

Malia Jacobson is a nationally published health journalist and mom.

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SAFE STRANGERS

Despite the scary scenarios that fill the evening news, strangers pose little danger to children in a public space, says Gavin de Becker, author of “Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe.” That’s because predators rely on privacy and secrecy to harm children. Instead of teaching children to fear all strangers, it’s wiser to teach children age-appropriate safety guidelines.

If a child becomes separated from parents, he or she should learn to search for a “safe stranger” to ask for help. The best bet is a mom with kids, says Rachel Galanter, a family support specialist at the Exchange Clubs’ Family Center in Durham. Help young children memorize parents’ full names and phone numbers by putting the information into a catchy tune like “Bingo” or “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star.” And make sure children know that you will never be angry at them for telling you a secret, even one they promised to keep.

6-11 years

JUST SAY "NO"

Instead of using a blanket “all strangers are bad” policy, parents can teach schoolage children to recognize suspicious adult behavior, says Skenazy. Tactics used by predators include asking for help finding a lost pet, promising gifts or saying that they’ve been sent by the family to take the child to his parent. Teach children a code word that only friends and family members will know, and that they should never get into a car or go anywhere with an adult who does not know the word.

School-age children are generally taught to obey adults, but this lesson can be harmful in certain situations. Studies show that children under age nine rarely say no to sexual predators because they don’t want to disobey an adult. Children should feel empowered to say “no” to a predator, or to any adult who makes them uncomfortable, says Galanter.

PUBLIC PERIL 12-18 years

Teens want to appear cool and be liked, but they need to know that they don’t need to be friendly to everyone who approaches them in a public space, says Galanter. If an adult asks to use a teen’s cell phone, tries to offer a ride, or offers food or drink, teens should say a firm “No, thank you” and notify another adult if the person persists. Dangerous strangers usually try to gain trust by acting friendly, so teens should learn to resist any adult who works hard to befriend them.

Help a teen reach you in an unsafe situation by agreeing on a special texting code to use in emergencies.

Teens shouldn’t feel too embarrassed to scream, kick and attract attention if they’re bothered. Teaching children and teens the basics of stranger safety builds confidence and peace of mind for parents and children, says Skenazy. “You can’t child-proof the world: Think of this as ‘world-proofing’ your child.”

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ust as many employers are changing to meet the work-life balance needs of their employees, employees and their families also are facing changes. Whether it’s returning to school, rejoining the workforce, becoming a single parent following a divorce, starting a business or making a dramatic career change, parents are reinventing themselves now as never before.

Changing demographics are behind some of these life transitions — compared to our grandparents’ day, we’re a more mobile society, with more women in the workforce, a higher divorce rate and a greater tolerance for getting our inner needs met. And recently, hard economic times have forced many people into changes they wouldn’t normally have considered.

Regardless of the reasons for change and the direction parents’ paths are taking, all parents in transition face an uphill climb. Whether you’re contemplating making a change, are already in the middle of the journey or are the partner or spouse of someone on a new path, the following tips will help you guide you forward.

Listen to that still, small voice. Maybe your life

is stable. You and/or your spouse have gainful employment and a good relationship, healthy children, money to pay your bills and a little left over. Still, you feel a restlessness or yearning to do something different. If you have the luxury of time to plan and execute a change, take time to listen to that voice that is urging you forward rather than repressing it out of guilt.

After more than 20 successful years in sales, Kim Brame McGimsey of Raleigh began to feel that she should be doing something else. In fall 2008, she quit her ad sales manager job with a business weekly publication to be home after school with her then-6-year-old daughter and to explore career options. “I always knew I’d have a second career,” says McGimsey.

Fortunate to have a supportive, working husband, McGimsey took time to discover what moved her and kept coming back to a subject she had first become interested in as an Inter-Faith Food Shuttle board member: nutrition. Then a friend tipped her off to the health coaching certificate program offered by the Duke Integrative Medicine in Durham.

“What I liked about the Duke program was that it looks at the whole person,” says McGimsey. “What’s also good is that I get to use the favorite parts of my old job, including asking clients lots of questions.”

The process took close to a year. Today, McGimsey is a selfemployed certified integrative health coach, helping clients stay motivated and accountable as they improve their health either proactively or in response to an illness. She not only loves the work but also the flexibility that being a business owner affords.

“I get to pick my daughter up everyday after school; I’m there when she does her homework and with her until she goes to bed,” she says. “When I was in sales and life was more hectic, I kept having a vision of her as a young woman thinking about me, and the image she had was of me looking back at her over my shoulder, hurrying her along. That was a big motivator for me to change.”

Think both short- and long-term. Maybe you’ve

experienced a layoff and dream of using the opportunity to go back to school or start a home-based business. That’s a great way to stay positive, but such goals will take time. In the meantime, to pay the bills, you might have to take a job for which you’re overqualified and cut out nonessential spending. You also need to get your finances in order. This might mean refinancing your home or taking a home equity loan to help with bills or pay for tuition/ start-up costs. Be careful not to overextend yourself or incur new debt that isn’t an investment in your future. Not only will being conscious of your cash flow during this time help practically, it will also free your mind to focus on your plan.

Take a team approach. Whether you’re married or

single, you’ll need support during your transition. Spread the word about your plans — in-person or via social media — so friends and acquaintances can introduce you to potential employers or connect you with others in your situation. Attending support groups or networking events in the field you hope to join is also important during your journey. Finally, don’t forget to consider how your life change will affect your spouse and children.

“You need to work on this as a couple,” says Julie Wayne, an organizational psychologist and professor of business at Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem. “You need to be supportive of each other both emotionally and instrumentally. For example, if someone is going back to school they may have less time to help around the house or with the children.”

Wayne should know. Not only does her recent research focus on “crossover” — the notion that one spouse’s stressful experiences directly impacts the other — but she has been part of a major life change. When Wayne’s husband lost his job of 15 years unexpectedly last fall, she became the primary breadwinner.

Although her husband is now working again, albeit in a different field, the months of unemployment took their toll on the couple and their three young children.

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{work-life} “It was stressful and a major financial transition,” she recalls. “But it was important for us to reframe it as opportunity for him to evaluate whether he was in the right job, the right career, the right field, even though it was not a move he would never have made willingly.”

Consider professional help. It often takes an expert to help us put

our problems and challenges in perspective. Whether it’s a psychologist, career counselor, image consultant or life coach, the professional brings technical skills and wordly wisdom to bear on unique situations. Some parents in transition need a resume makeover. Turning to a career counselor or resume service can help them discover their most marketable and transferable skills and most noteworthy achievements. If cash is tight, look into free or low-cost resume and career counseling services offered by community colleges or nonprofits. Similarly, free business coaching services offered by the Service Corps of Retired Executives (SCORE) and community colleges can help would-be entrepreneurs get started.

Others who have the time and resources to pursue a more comprehensive approach to reinventing themselves may want to consider working with a life coach.

“A life coach can help a person in transition by listening, helping them understand what they need, analyzing their situation and options, and helping them create a solid vision of the successful outcome,” says Betty Reynolds, a life coach in Charlotte. “Life coaches can also provide tools such as skill assessment, resume writing, interview practice, self-marketing and time management.”

People who are reinventing themselves often have to deal with other issues that complicate their decisions, notes Reynolds, and life coaches can help with that as well. Such issues might include dealing with an imbalance in family equilibrium or tension between spouses stemming from a new job or role.

Regardless of their circumstances, the people Reynolds works with are looking to live life on their own terms.

“They’re tired of living by default, and want to live by design,” says Reynolds.

Suzanne Wood is a Raleigh-based freelance writer and mother of three.

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Books to Read on the Journey » “Switch: How to Change Things When Change is Hard”

by Chip Heath and Dan Heath » “What Color is Your Parachute” (a career-choosing/changing guide) by Richard Nelson Bolles » “Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changes” by William Bridges (revised 25th anniversary edition) » “Going Back to Work: A Survival Guide for Comeback Moms”

by Mary W. Quigley and Loretta E. Kaufman » “Finding Your Perfect Work: The New Career Guide to Making a Living, Creating a Life” (with an emphasis on self-employment) by Paul Edwards and Sarah Edwards » “Feel the Fear … and Do it Anyway” (a general guide to dealing with anxiety)

by Susan Jeffers » “I Could Do Anything …

If I Only Knew What it Was”

by Barbara Sher » “Now, Discover Your Strengths”

by Marcus Buckingham and Donald O. Clifton, Ph.D.

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a hot topic this year. From Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg’s

very talked-about book "Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead" to stories of parents who want to return to the workforce after staying home with kids, but can’t find jobs, balancing a career outside the home with family life can be challenging.

Each year Carolina Parenting, which owns Charlotte Parent, Carolina Parent and Piedmont Parent, seeks information from North Carolina companies that offer family-friendly benefits, including flexible schedules, generous benefits and innovative programs, and then selects 50 companies that stand out for putting into practice a supportive work culture for parents.

Following are brief profiles of each company with an office located in the Charlotte area. To see the complete list of FamilyFriendly 50 companies in North Carolina, and bonus content for Charlotte companies, go to ncfamilyfriendly.com.

{ Fewer than 100 U.S. Employees } Achieve Therapy Services No. of U.S. employees: 18 N.C. locations: Charlotte After working for two years, employees can work fourday weeks allowing time for family bonding. A new program being implemented gives employees more choices about family benefit packages. Children are welcome in the office and are often incorporated into therapy sessions to provide peer interaction with specialneeds children. achievetherapyclinic.com L&E Research No. of U.S. employees: 85 N.C. locations: Charlotte and Raleigh Most employees work from home and many work part time, choosing their own hours. Employees are paid based on productivity. L&E Research provides health, dental and vision insurance as well as the necessary technology for employees to telecommute, because many of these employees are working at home. leresearch.com Lyerly Agency No. of U.S. employees: 10 N.C. locations: Belmont Half-day Fridays allow employees to enjoy an extended weekend, and employees can work from home whenever necessary. Company members often eat lunch together, fostering a family-style work environment. The company pays for 100 percent of employee benefits. lyerly.com Speechcenter Inc. No. of U.S. employees: 75 N.C. locations: Boone, Charlotte and Winston-Salem The company reimburses full-time employees up to $5,000 a year for child care and $2,000 for medical expenses.

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{work-life} { 101-500 Employees } Hannover Life Reassurance Company of America No. of U.S. employees: 270 N.C. locations: Charlotte Hannover Life employees enjoy a complimentary breakfast once a week and have Friday afternoons off. Benefits packages and the “Commit to Get Fit” program encourage employees and their families to stay healthy through subsidized gym memberships, smoking-cessation aids, vaccines and health screenings. The company also provides local discounts for everyday services and free CPR classes. hlramerica.com Mulkey Engineers & Consultants No. of U.S. employees: 125 N.C. locations: Charlotte and Cary A partnership with nearby Little Pros Academy provides employees with discounted child care. Paid time off is available during times of hardship and telecommunication is facilitated by company-provided technology. A wellness program helps employees stay healthy. Parents are encouraged to take time off to care for sick children. mulkeyinc.com Providence Day School No. of U.S. employees: 290 N.C. locations: Charlotte Providence Day School prides itself on addressing the needs of employees on an individual basis. The Employee Assistance Program offers counseling of all kinds and supports employees during difficult times by providing meals and transportation. A free extended child-care center, which provides educational and enrichment opportunities such as cooking and sports, is open daily until 6 p.m. for employees' children. Scheduling is flexible, offering part-time work, a compressed workweek and flexible hours. providenceday.org

companies were nominated and provided information How They Honored about benefits and programs via surveys and supporting employee Information was reviewed at the UNC Kenan-Flagler Were testimonials.

Business School in Chapel Hill, and the final list of selected Selected companies was determined in partnership with the business school. { 501-3,000 Employees } Advanced Home Care No. of U.S. employees: 1,600 N.C. locations: Multiple cities throughout N.C. Health assessments, nutritional counseling and an on-site farmers market demonstrate Advanced Home Care’s commitment to employee wellness. The company permits flexible scheduling and strongly encourages taking time off for family to maintain a worklife balance. Free vaccinations and an on-site pharmacy are also provided. advhomecare.org Alston & Bird LLP No. of U.S. employees: 1,816 N.C. locations: Charlotte and Durham An affiliated child-care center offers locations throughout the country so traveling employees can take children on trips with them when necessary. The company's concierge service helps employees with everyday tasks, and paid time off is available to employees facing hardships. A College Coach program gives financial and academic support to employees’ families. alston.com Charlotte Eye Ear Nose and Throat Associates PA No. of U.S. employees: 587 N.C. locations: Multiple cities throughout N.C. The company pays for 100 percent of employee health benefits and recently began offering health counseling for staff and their families. Job sharing and swapping and a flexible earned-time schedule enable employees to easily take time off when necessary. ceenta.com

Inmar No. of U.S. employees: 1,834 N.C. locations: Multiple cities throughout N.C. Since 2011, Inmar has introduced premium incentives to boost participation in its Wellness Program for employees and their families.

Healthy competition among co-workers has resulted in employees who successfully changed their lifestyles for the better and increased company productivity and morale. Family celebrations such as the Halloween bash and winter gingerbread contest foster unity among families of co-workers. inmar.com { 3,001-10,000 Employees } BDO USA LLP No. of U.S. employees: 3,523 N.C. locations: Charlotte and Raleigh Innovative flexibility options help employees of all levels maintain life balance and maximize productivity. An Employee Assistance Program allows employees to receive counseling from marital to financial. BDO’s L.I.F.E. encourages “life improvements for everyone.” BDO also partners with Bright Horizons to offer child-care resources. bdo.com Blue Cross Blue Shield of North Carolina No. of U.S. employees: 4,194 N.C. locations: Multiple cities throughout N.C. On-site amenities include health clinics, gyms and lactation facilities. Child-care centers at each location boost employee morale and decrease absenteeism. Employees are offered tuition reimbursements, flexible schedules,

Support That Makes You Feel Like Part of the Family

Michael Green, an employee at Hannover Re Life Insurance, with his wife and three sons.

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Michael Green had been with Hannover Re Life Insurance for just a few years when a new opportunity presented itself: a chance to work in the company’s Ireland office.

The Charlotte branch of the organization not only supported Green in his decision to work in Ireland, but took on a personal role when Green’s family, including his wife, Michelle, and three sons, weren’t able to join him overseas yet.

“Even without me being there, the company continued to make my family feel part of the Hannover Re America family,” says Green. “My wife and kids were invited to attend company picnics, Christmas parties and ‘Bring Your Sons/Daughters to Work’ day.”

As the sole member of the Green clan in Ireland for those first several months, he didn’t worry about being kept in the loop or his family being left out of company-sponsored functions. Chris Shanahan, head of the Charlotte office, personally worked with Green’s children to participate in events. “They even sent me personal reminders,” says Green.

But that wasn’t the only time the company has proved its family-friendly qualities. Green is quick to add both personal and broad examples of Hannover Re Life Insurance’s care for its employees.

“For me, as my wife was having medical issues, they let me work remotely for a long period of time,” he says. “In general, they’re just a very flexible, understanding, and a very caring organization.”

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Options such as part-time work, a compressed workweek, job-sharing and telecommuting can make balancing a career and a family easier for employees. bcbsnc.com Grant Thornton LLP No. of U.S. employees: 6,214 N.C. locations: Charlotte and Raleigh To foster synergy between business and family, Grant Thornton offers flexible schedules and back-up dependant-care programs. Schedules can permit alternative start and end times, compressed workweeks, telecommunication, part-time work or any combination of these options. Tuition reimbursements are available to employees. grantthornton.com TIAA-CREF No. of U.S. employees: 7,900 N.C. locations: Charlotte An array of services for employees includes an on-site health clinic equipped with a medical staff, health coaches and life coaches.

Adoption assistance reimburses parents for expenses and allows time off for bonding with the child. Compressed workweek and parttime schedules are temporary or permanent options for employees. tiaa-cref.org { 10,001+ Employees } Bright Horizons Family Solutions No. of U.S. employees: 18,000 N.C. locations: Multiple cities throughout N.C. Bright Horizons is sensitive to the needs of families and allows for time off when a family member is sick or has passed away. An affiliated child-care center for employees’ children is subsidized and company policy allows for children to accompany their parents to work when necessary. The company offers employees flexible scheduling and subsidized elder care. brighthorizons.com Duke University & Health System No. of U.S. employees: 34,000 N.C. locations: Multiple cities throughout N.C. Duke University & Health System offers flexible work arrangements, paid and unpaid parental leave, dependant-care support, and generous health care and retirement plans. Employees have access to numerous wellness services, subsidized child care and lactation rooms.

Tuition reimbursement for employees and scholarships for dependants demonstrate Duke’s commitment to education. duke.edu

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Ernst & Young LLP No. of U.S. employees: 27,000 N.C. locations: Charlotte, Greensboro and Raleigh The EY Assist program provides information to employees on topics ranging from nutrition to college admission and counseling. Ernst & Young also offers generous paid maternity and paternity leave, subsidizes child and elder care, reimburses employees for tuition, and offers scholarships. ey.com IBM No. of U.S. employees: 100,000+ N.C. locations: Charlotte, Durham and Raleigh IBM offers LifeWorks to help employees maintain a healthy lifestyle balance, as well as priority enrollment at Bright Horizons childcare center. The Take Time program allows employees to take time off in the summer and be financially compensated. Parents can take up to three years of unpaid time off for maternity or paternity. ibm.com Time Warner Cable No. of U.S. employees: 47,000 N.C. locations: Multiple cities throughout N.C. Time Warner Cable allows employees to telecommute and offers lunchtime parenting support groups. Health and wellness benefits include free on-site massages, vaccines, fitness clubs and health consultations. Employees can take home fresh meals for their families from on-site cafeterias and enjoy a significant discount on Time Warner cable, phone, Internet and home-security services. A nursing line offers medical consultation to employees. timewarnercable.com Vanguard No. of U.S. employees: 13,000 N.C. locations: Charlotte A wellness incentive program encourages employees and spouses to stay active. Benefits include premium health-care coverage, a generous retirement plan, paid time off, flexible scheduling and wellness programs. The company reimburses tuition for employees and offers scholarships for dependents. vanguard.com

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“There’s not enough time in the day!”

You’ve likely uttered those words before, perhaps often.

Finding time for everything people need and want to do and finding a balance between home and work demands are common problems for many people — particularly parents who work outside the home.

Life coaching, according to The International Coach Federation, is partnering with clients in a thought-provoking creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential. We met with three life coaches in North Carolina to discuss the most common issues parents face when trying to find a balance between work and home, as well as how best to deal with those issues.

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Many parents say their greatest amount of stress comes from not having enough time to do everything. Penny Sommer, a life coach who owns Powerful Edge in Charlotte, suggests that parents consider making a distinction among their different roles and what it means to be successful in each. Ask yourself, “Who am I as a parent? A professional? A friend? A volunteer? This kind of clarity enables parents to make decisions aligned with their vision — saying ‘yes’ to the things that are important, ‘maybe’ to some that are nice to have and ‘heck no’ to things that don’t support their values.”

Sarah Levitt, an executive coach and motivational speaker from Raleigh, asks clients about their priorities but notices that what they say is often different from how they’re living, and that’s when frustration sets in. Ask yourself, “What are my priorities?

How do I want to spend my time?” Be aware of the thoughts you have. A demanding and stressful schedule is real, but if you spend your time fretting, you won’t be able to focus on the tasks at hand. Instead, get in the mindset of “My schedule is full, but I’m going to be in the present where I am now.” Rushing out of work and taking children to activities is simply a fact of life for many families, but make the most of your time in the car. Turn off electronics and talk to your children.

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Not being able to achieve perfection in each area of life is another cause of stress for many parents. By attempting to be an overachiever at work while also cooking gourmet dinners and helping children make homemade valentines seen on websites like Pinterest, parents end up feeling like failures at everything.

Sommer urges parents to ask, “Is it realistic to be the best at everything I do? Do I truly consider this to be important, or am I accepting someone else’s belief about the best way to live my life?” Role models are wonderful, but they can lead to accepting a belief that we need to be performing at a certain level. Consider whether it’s important to you that your house is immaculate or that your child is involved in four activities.

Life Coach Penny Hazen of Hazen Life Coaching in WinstonSalem believes the best thing a parent can do is spend a little time in his or her child’s school. Take 30 minutes of your lunch break and, for elementary students, eat lunch with your child. For older children, observe a class and watch how your child interacts with friends and his teacher. Just a few minutes can keep you abreast of your child’s development.

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Time for Myself Another common problem is that working parents don’t take time for themselves. “Part of being a good parent is taking care of yourself,” says Hazen. Levitt reminds us that like the rule of putting an airplane’s oxygen mask on yourself before helping your child, you must nourish yourself to be your best for the others in your life. Ask yourself how you want to show up to the most important people in your life. Do you want to be attentive?

Nurturing? Or exhausted, resentful and distracted? Decide what it is you are missing from your life. What is most important?

One full-time working mom refuses to work through her lunch break, using that hour each day to rest and rejuvenate.

Some parents find it helpful to set the morning’s alarm 10 minutes earlier and have a bit of quiet time before the day begins.

On the drive home, put your phone on silent and take a few minutes to breathe deeply and rejuvenate yourself.

Levitt has a personal friend she kept missing because of their busy schedules. They finally scheduled a weekly phone date and made it a priority. She taught her family that for that one hour each week, everyone has to stay in his or her room quietly, and she doesn’t schedule anything at that time. If you have a parenting partner, take turns giving the other a night off each week, allowing that parent to have some alone time. Single parents can make similar arrangements with other parents. Levitt suggests identifying your priorities and then focusing on strategies that will keep them priorities.

“Each of the issues mentioned results in stress that manifests itself internally and externally,” says Sommer. Only when we begin to identify the actual cause of the stress will we be able to find strategies for eliminating that stress. “Remember,” says Levitt, “small changes can add up to big results.”

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Lisa Hassell is attempting to balance life’s demands while living in Indian Trail with her 4-year-old son.

Penny Hazen is the director of a nonprofit organization called One-to-One, with women coaching women. It is made up of professional coaches who want to offer coaching services to women who can’t afford them.

Location doesn’t matter because coaching is done over the phone. Hazen believes that all N.C. women could become better parents with just a little help. One-to-One also coaches women who are caretakers of wounded soldiers. For more information, go to www.onetoone.info.

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Epic fun for families in Uptown Charlotte, brought to you by EPICENTRE. There’s lots for families to do in Uptown Charlotte and EPICENTRE wants you to know about it.

SIMPLY EPIC EVENTS FOR THE FAMILY THIS MONTH: EPICENTRE Commons Artisans

Saturday Epic Art at the EPICENTRE

Every Friday, Noon-7 pm. First Level Common Area Local hand-crafted and hand-grown treasures by local vendors.

Saturday, September 7 and 21, Noon-4 pm.

First Level Common Area Local artists showcase and sell their artwork.

4th Annual Sip and Stroll Friday, September 13: 7-10 pm and Saturday, September 14: 2-8 pm. EPICENTRE For more information, log on to http://sipandstrollcharlotte.com/ Friday: Activities will include a kick-off party on the rooftop Pavilion at EPICENTRE, art demonstrations, live music, and samples from all EPICENTRE restaurants participating in the Taste of EPICENTRE Saturday: Celebration will include art demonstrations, wine seminars throughout the day, and live music.

EPICENTRE also recommends the following Uptown family events: The Lion King

Belk Theatre at Blumenthal Performing Arts Center September 1 130 N. Tryon St. Charlotte, NC 28202 Experience the phenomenon of Disney’s THE LION KING, when Charlotte’s best-loved musical makes a triumphant return to the Belk Theater.

Animalopolis in IMAX

Discovery Place September 1 - 20 301 N. Tryon Street, Charlotte, NC 28202 Animalopolis will take you on a voyage into the magical world of animals. It included good natured humor, beauty, imagination, and just plain fun!

Romare Bearden Park Grand Opening

September 1, 1-4pm 300 South Church Street, Charlotte, NC 28202 Be a part of the Grand Opening weekend of the newest Charlotte Park! Enjoy free live music, children’s activities, dance performances, and an art show!

Southern Women’s Show

September 19-22 Charlotte Convention Center, 501 South College Street, Charlotte, NC 28202 Grab your friends, ladies, and get ready for an entire weekend of food, fashion, shopping, celebrity guest appearances, health, beauty, prizes, and all around fun!

Seventh Street Green Market Saturday Events

7th Street Public Market Every Saturday, 8:30am-1:00pm 224 E. 7th St. Charlotte, NC 28202 September 14 – Tailgating Theme: What better way to support your favorite team than with the perfect fall tailgate? Kick off football season with your favorite tailgating foods and recipes that are perfect for friends and family at the 7th Street Public Market.

September 28 – Fall Harvest Fest: It’s fall in the Carolinas – our favorite season at the 7th Street Public Market! We will celebrate all things fall with our Harvest Fest featuring apples, pumpkins and other tasty treats made from the best flavors in the Carolinas.

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The Charlotte Museum of History 3500 Shamrock Drive 704-568-1774 charlottemuseum.org

Downtown Lincolnton Main St. 704-736-845 lincolncountapplefestival.com

Children's Theatre of Charlotte at ImaginOn 300 E. 7th St. 704-973-2780 ctcharlotte.org

City of Light 3000 World Reach Drive, Indian Land 803-804-7042 indianlandfallfestival.com

Meet the man who couldn’t tell a lie. George Washington visits Charlotte and you can meet him face to face at the Patriot Day Celebration. In addition to brushing shoulders with the first president, there will be colonial games, scavenger hunts and crafts for the kids. Music will be provided by the Charlotte Folk Society, at its annual Old-Time Music Jam and Ice Cream Social. Free. 11am-5pm.

It's all about apples and the beginning of the fall season at the Lincoln County Apple Festival.

Kids can try their hand at milking a cow and tasting lots of apple pie, plus check out the kids apple orchard and children's rides. Other featured events include apple dish contest, pageant, farmer's market and a 5K race!

9am-4pm. Free.

Swing on over for the opening night of the one-act performance of Tarzan: The Stage Musical, featuring the music and lyrics of Phil Collins.

Follow the life story of Tarzan, a boy raised by a tribe of gorilla, whose whole life is turned upside-down when he meets humans. A heart-warming story recommended for ages 7 and older. $12+. Through Oct. 20. See website for show times.

Celebrate the end of summer and the beginning of the cool, crisp weather of fall at the Indian Land Fall Festival. Little ones can enjoy a rock wall, pony rides, putt-putt, and even meet the Carolina Panthers mascot Sir Purr.

The S.C. State Championship Chili Cookoff, Indian Land Fall Festival Car Show, and 5k run/walk will also be taking place for a day jam packed with fun! Free. Small fee for kids area.10am-3pm.

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1 SUNDAY Concerts on the Green. Bring friends and family, comfy chairs, a blanket or a picnic and enjoy the sounds of Too Far Gone. Free. 6-8pm. Village Green, corner of Main Street and Concord Road in front of Davidson Public Library, Davidson. concertsonthegreen.com.

Labor Day Celebration. Participate in a trail race, enjoy live music, and end the day with a fireworks show.

Parking and race fees apply. Races begin at 9am; Music begins at 4pm.

U.S. National Whitewater Center, 5000 Whitewater Parkway. 704-391-3900. usnwc.org.

Race Viewing Party-Advocare 500.

Races are shown live in the Belk High Octane Theatre where you'll experience the excitement of watching the race on our 64-foot wide screen, complete with surround sound. $8-$10; Free for members.

7:30pm. NASCAR Hall of Fame, 400 E. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. 704-6544400. nascarhall.com.

Revolutionary War Reenactment.

Watch the British and Patriots relive

the Battles of Charlotte and McIntyre Farm. $8; ages 5 and under free.

10am-4pm. Historic Latta Plantation, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704875-2312. lattaplantation.org.

Romare Bearden Park Grand Opening. Come out for the festivities over Labor Day weekend that include music, children's activities, street performances, and garden tours! Free.

Romare Bearden Park, 300 S. Church St. parkandrec.com.

2 MONDAY Labor Day Boating Fun. Design and build your own miniature boat out of recycled materials then go to Dragonfly Pond and set sail. Ages 6+. Free.

Registration Required. 10am-noon.

Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6460. parkandrec.com.

3 TUESDAY Family Storytime. Children enjoy favorite stories, songs, and movement activities that support early literacy skills. Help foster a love of books

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The Lion King. The heart-warming story of the King of Jungle, with breathtaking stage design and costumes that bring the Disney favorite to life on stage. $25-$30.

Through Sept.1. See website for showtimes. 704-372-1000. blumenthalarts.org.

130 N. Tryon St.

CHILDREN’S THEATER OF CHARLOTTE Tarzan: The Stage Musical. Experience the story of Tarzan, a baby who was raised by a tribe of gorillas. 7-adult. $12+. Fri., 7:30pm; Sat., 3pm; Sun., 2pm. Through Oct. 20. 704-973-2780. ctcharlotte.org. McColl FamilyTheater at ImaginOn, 300 E. 7th St.

THEATRE CHARLOTTE Gypsy. Considered by many critics to be the greatest American musical to hit the stage, loosely based on the memoirs of Gypsy Rose Lee. 12-adult. $25-$27. Wedneday.Sunday. Sept. 6-22. 704-376-3777. theatrecharlotte.org. 501 Queens Road.

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and reading in your child. Parents and caregivers are encouraged to participate. Free. 10:30am. ImaginOn, 300 E. 7th St. 704-416-4600.

Imaginon.org.

4 WEDNESDAY Moms on the Move. A coach lead walking and running group for moms of all different fitness levels. It's a great way to meet other people, have fun outside and exercise. Kids strollers are welcome. Free. 10:30am. Run for Your Life, 6416 Rea Road. 704-541-9665. runforyourlife.com.

5 THURSDAY USNWC River Jam. Come out with friends and family to experience an incredible sunset over the Catawba River while enjoying great music, food and drink. $5 parking fee. 7-10pm.

U.S. National Whitewater Center, 5000 Whitewater Center Parkway. 704-3913900. usnwc.org.

6 FRIDAY Britax Car Seat Checks. Have a certified child passenger safety technician assist you with your car seat installation. Learn the correct way to install your child seat, safety recommendations and answers to any questions you may have.

No appointment needed. Free.

8-11:30am. Britax North American Headquarters, 13501 S. Ridge Drive.

704-409-1695. britaxusa.com.

7 SATURDAY Charlotte Youth Ballet Auditions.

Open auditions for the 2013 The Nutcracker and 2014 Alice in Wonderland. Open to dancers grades 3-12 and currently enrolled in at least one ballet class per week at any area ballet school. Free. 12:30pm.

CPCC Overcash Building Room 300, 1206 Elizabeth Ave. charlotteyouthballet.org.

Race Viewing Party-Federated Auto Parts 400. Races are shown live in the Belk High Octane Theatre where you'll experience the excitement of watching the race on a 64 foot wide screen with surround sound. $8-$10; Free for members. 7:30pm. NASCAR Hall of Fame, 400 E Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. 704-654-4400. nascarhall.com.

Patriot Day Celebration. Meet President Washington, play colonial games, plus scavenger hunts and crafts. Music provided the Charlotte Folk Society, who will hold their annual Old-Time Music Jam and Ice Cream Social. Free. 11am-5pm.

The Charlotte Museum of History, 3500 Shamrock Drive. 704-568-1774. charlottemuseum.org.

Sailors with Special Needs. Enjoy a sailboat ride on Lake Norman with your family and an experienced captain and crew. Free. Call to schedule sailing time. Blythe Landing Park, 15901 Sam Furr Road, Huntersville. 704-892-6031. cornelius.org/parc.

Tosco Music Party. Hear music from various artists ranging from amateur to professional at this family-friendly tradition. $10-$17. 7pm. Dale F. Halton Theater, 1206 Elizabeth Ave. 704-3306841. toscomusicparty.org.

8 SUNDAY Grandparents Day Flippin’ Frogs and Slinky Salamanders. Test your hopping skills against the Green Tree Frog and learn all about amphibians while getting slimy. Free. Registration required. Reedy Creek Nature Center, 2900 Rocky River Road. 704-432-6420. parkandrec.com.

9 MONDAY Sensory Storytime. Have a storytime filled with stories, songs and activities specifically designed for children

daily calendar with autism spectrum disorders, sensory integration issues, or other developmental disabilities. Infant-11 years. Free. 10:30am. Beatties Ford Regional Library, 2412 Beatties Ford Road. 704-416-3000. cmlibrary.org.

10 TUESDAY Chill Out in the Ice Age. Travel back in time to the ice age and enjoy a nature trail tour and a planetarium show. $3-$5. 5-9:30pm. Museum of York County, 4621 Mt. Gallant Road, Rock Hill. 803-329-2121. chmuseums.org.

Free Tuesday at the Schiele. Learn about the natural history and myths of turtles and meet some live turtles from across North America. Don't miss a special showing of The Planets at 7pm.

Free entry after 5pm. 5-8pm. Schiele Museum, 1500 East Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 704-866-6900. schielemuseum.org.

11 WEDNESDAY Moms on the Move. Join this coach-led walking and running group for moms of all different fitness levels.

It's a great way to meet other moms, have fun outside and exercise. Kids and strollers are welcome.

Free. 10:30am. Run for Your Life, 6416 Rea Road. 704541-9665. runforyourlife.com.

12 THURSDAY Summer Concert Series: Caleb Davis. Enjoy an evening of music out on the Greenway. $5. 5:30pm.

Dairy Barn Lawn, 288 Dairy Barn Lane, Fort Mill. 803547-4575. ascgreenway.org.

USNWC River Jam. Come out with friends and family to experience an incredible sunset over the Catawba River while enjoying great music, food and drink. All ages. Parking fee applies. 7-10pm.

U.S. National Whitewater Center, 5000 Whitewater Center Parkway. 704-391-3900. usnwc.org.

13 FRIDAY Party at the Pavilion. Listen to live local music and bring the kids to the special kids area with magic tricks and activities. Free. 7-10pm. Rotary Centennial Pavilion, 111 N. South St., Gastonia. 704-907-6092.

Rockin' and Reelin' Summer Movie and Music Series. Enjoy the musical stylings of Joystick. Free.

7pm. Pineville Lake Park, 1000 Johnston Drive. 704889-2400. townofpineville.com.

Sensory Storytime. Enjoy stories, songs, and activities specifically designed for children with autism spectrum disorders, sensory integration issues, or other developmental disabilities. Infant-11 years.

Free. 10:15am. Matthews Library, 230 Matthews Station St., Matthews. 704-416-5000. cmlibrary.org.

The Common Artisan Area. Peruse local vendors featuring a variety of art, fresh foods, and jewelry.

Free. Noon-7pm. The EpiCentre, 210 E. Trade St. epicentrenc.com.

14 SATURDAY By the Sweat of Our Brows. Enjoy theatrical performances, vendors, music and bus tours to celebrate the lives of the African Americans who lived in the Brattonsville Community in the 1800's. $3-$6. 10am-3pm. Historic Brattonsville, 1444 Brattonsville Road, McConnels. SC. 803-628-6553. chmuseums.org.

Flour Power Kids Cooking Studios Grand Opening. Free cookie decorating and giveaways!

Free. 9-11am. Quail Corners Shopping Center, 8438 Park Road. 704-759-4337. flourpowerstudios.com.

Movies on the Lawn. Join family and friends for movies on the front lawn of Kilgo. Free popcorn and lemonade are provided. Bring a blanket or chair.

Free. 8pm. Kilgo, 2101 Belvedere Ave. 704-334-7348.

Rock & Read 5K. Enjoy music and festival atmosphere at this annual run to support Charlotte public libraries. Registration required. $5-$30. 6:45am.

Plaza Midwood Public Library, 1623 Central Ave. cmlibraryfriends.org.

Scales and Tales. See and touch many reptile and amphibian like frogs, turtles, lizards and snakes. $6.

10am-1pm. Charlotte Nature Museum, 1658 Sterling Road. 704-372-6261. charlottenaturemuseum.org.

15 SUNDAY Concerts on the Green. Bring friends and family, comfy chairs, a blanket or a picnic and enjoy the sounds of the Davidson Symphony and Jazz Ensemble. Free. 6-8pm. Village Green, corner of Main Street and Concord Road in front of Davidson Public Library, Davidson. concertsonthegreen.com.

Tega Cay Concert Series: Joey Bishop and the Newz. Live music, kids area with jumpy castles, popcorn and cotton candy. Free. 6-10pm. Runde Park, 5110 Windward Drive, Tega Cay. 803-548-3512. tegacaysc.org.

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Sensory Storytime. Stories, songs and activities specifically designed for children with autism spectrum disorders, sensory integration issues, or other developmental disabilities.

Infant-11 years. Free. 10:30am.

Beatties Ford Regional Library, 2412 Beatties Ford Road. 704-416-3000. cmlibrary.org.

Sensory Storytime. Enjoy stories, songs and activities specifically designed for children with autism spectrum disorders, sensory integration issues, or other developmental disabilities.

Infant-11 years. Free. 10:15am.

Matthews Library, 230 Matthews Station St., Matthews. 704-416-5000. cmlibrary.org.

The Common Artisan Area. Peruse local vendors that will have a variety of goods including art, fresh foods, and jewelry. Free. Friday Noon-7pm.

The EpiCentre, 210 East Trade St. epicentrenc.com.

17 TUESDAY Comic Book Club. Expand your knowledge of comics, and discuss favorite characters and titles. Free.

12-18 years. 6-7pm. Mint Hill Library, 6840 Matthews-Mint Hill Road. 704416-5200. cmlibrary.org.

18 WEDNESDAY Moms on the Move. A coach-led walking and running group for moms of all different fitness levels.

It's a great way to meet other moms, have fun outside and exercise. Kids and strollers are welcome. Free.

10:30am. Run for Your Life, 6416 Rea Rd, Charlotte. 704-541-9665. runforyourlife.com.

19 THURSDAY USNWC River Jam. Come out with friends and family to experience an incredible sunset over the Catawba River while enjoying great music, food and drink. Parking Fee Applies.

7-10pm. U.S. National Whitewater Center, 5000 Whitewater Center Parkway, Charlotte. 704-391-3900. usnwc.org.

21 SATURDAY Family Friendly Back to School Comedy Improv. If you and/ or your family, friends, colleagues, and anyone else you know like the show "Whose Line Is It Anyway?" or just want to smile, laugh, and have a good time, this is the show. for you. $10-$15. 6pm. Warehouse Performing Arts Center, 9216-A Westmoreland Road, Cornelius. 704301-1564. planetimprov.com.

Stories Under the Stars. Enjoy this unique literary performing arts event. Programs are geared toward families with children of all ages.

Performance by Poetry Alive. Free.

7pm. Kannapolis Branch Library, 850 Mountain St., Kannapolis. 704-9204343. cityofkannapolis.com.

Call your mom, sisters and friends and make plans to attend the Southern Women's Show, Sept.

19-22. This year's show includes usual favorites like the annual Firefighter Fashion Show featuring eight of Charlotte's finest firemen, plus 275 exhibitors, "Duck Dynasty's" Jessica Robertson and a special Healthy Living Day. This is the first time in its 31-year history that the show makes its home uptown. $5-$10, free for children under age 6. Show a LYNX ticket stub and get in for $5, or go Sept. 22 between 10am-1pm, for free admission. Charlotte Convention Center, 501 S. College St. southernwomensshow.com.

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22 SUNDAY Reptile and Amphibian Day. Meet live reptiles and amphibians and have a close encounter with snakes, turtles and lizards! $9-$13. 1-5pm.

Schiele Museum, 1500 East Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 704-866-6900. schielemuseum.org.

Sunday Fun Day. Enjoy family-friendly art projects, healthy living activities and artist demonstrations all based around the theme of the World's Fairs. Free for children and members; $5 for adults. 1-5pm. Mint Museum, 500 South Tryon St. 704-337-2000. mintmuseum.org.

23 MONDAY Sensory Storytime. Have a storytime filled with stories, songs, and activities specifically designed for children with autism spectrum disorders, sensory integration issues, or other developmental disabilities.

Infant-11 years. Free. 10:30am.

Beatties Ford Regional Library, 2412 Beatties Ford Road. 704-416-3000. cmlibrary.org.

24 TUESDAY Wii-U Gaming Free Play. Participate in games that encourage cooperation, problem solving and critical thinking skills. Free. 5-11 years. 3-5pm.

ImaginOn, 300 E. 7th St. 704-4164600. cmlibrary.org.

25 WEDNESDAY Fall Homeschool Day. Come out for a living history day just for homeshoolers and their families.

In addition to tours, meet the farm animals and make crafts. 10am-4pm.

Latta Plantation, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. 704-875-2312. lattaplantation.org.

26 THURSDAY USNWC River Jam. Come out with friends and family to experience an incredible sunset over the Catawba River while enjoying great music, food and drink. All ages. Parking Fee Applies. Thursday 7-10pm.

U.S. National Whitewater Center,

5000 Whitewater Center Parkway, Charlotte. 704-391-3900. usnwc.org.

27 FRIDAY 16th Annual Moms@Work Breakfast.

Don't miss our Moms@ Work celebration with a new half-day format that includes entertaining, valuable content for career moms. Seminar topics include Achieving Work-Life Balance, Social Media Tips for Business and Cooking Health for the Family. Registration required. $35. 7:30-11:30am.

Charlotte Convention Center, 501 S. College St. 704-3441980. charlotteparent.com/ momsatwork.

Bug Ball. Put on a pair of wings and dress as your favorite bug. Festivities include activities, games, butterfly dancers, silent auction, special foods and drinks. Registration required.

5:30-9pm. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 South New Hope Road, Belmont. 704-825-4490. dsbg.org.

28 SATURDAY Charlotte Roller Girls. Watch the CLTRG All-Stars take on the Appalachian Roller Girls. $5-$10.

6pm. Grady Cole Center, 310 N. Kings Drive. 704-336-2884. charlotterollergirls.com.

Guiding Parents to Services ASD Workshop. Join Smart Start of Mecklenburg County for a parent workshop for families of young children with an autism spectrum diagnosis. Free. 10:30am. ImaginOn, 300 E 7th St. 704-416-4630. cmlibrary.org.

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Living History Weekend: 18th Century Camp Life. Watch as historic interpreters present musket and cannon firing demonstrations as well as on-going demonstrations of 18th-century camp life. Free.

10am-4pm. Fort Dobbs, 438 Fort Dobbs Road, Statesville. 704-8735882. fortdobbbs.org.

PNC Community Day at Mint Museums. Free museum admission to Uptown and Randolph locations, generously sponsored by PNC Bank. It coincides with national free admission day established

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Randolph offer hands-on activities for families from 11am-2pm. Both museums open until 6pm. Register online. 704-334-2000. mintmuseum.org.

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Living History Weekend: 18th Century Camp Life. Watch as historic interpreters present musket and cannon-firing demonstrations as well as on-going demonstrations of 18th-century camp life. Free.

10am-3pm. Fort Dobbs, 438 Fort Dobbs Road, Statesville. 704-8735882. fortdobbbs.org.

30 MONDAY National Christian College Fair. Meet admissions counselors from colleges and universities around the country.

A complete list of attending schools can be found at naccap.org. Financial Aid Workshop at 7 pm. Free. 6:308:30pm. Charlotte Christian School, 7301 Sardis Road. 704-366-5657. charlottechristian.com.

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exhibit DISCOVERY PLACE Animal Grossology. See what happens when ticks and mosquitoes have too much to drink. Learn about the various steps of digestion in cows and much more that will make you say “Eww!” $10-$12, includes museum admission. Mon.-Fri., 9am-5pm; Sat., 10am-6pm; Sun., noon-5pm. Through Sept. 2. 704-372-6261. discoveryplace.org. 301 N. Tryon St.

IMAGINON Arthur’s World Tour. Learn and have fun at this interactive exhibit that promotes a love of reading with beloved story character, Arthur. Free. Tues.-Thurs. 10am-7pm; Fri.-Sat.,10am-5pm. Through Sept. 8. 704-416-4600. imaginon.org. 300 East 7th St.

MUSEUM OF YORK COUNTY Way Back When: Ice Age Beasts of Carolina. Travel back in time to the Carolina Piedmont during the Ice Ages when massive mastodons browsed our woodlands, and giant ground sloth ambled along the forest edge. $3-$5, includes museum admission. Free admission on Sunday. Tues.-Sat., 10am-5pm; Sun. 1-5pm. Through December 31. 803-329-2121. chmuseums.org. 4621 Mt. Gallant Road, Rock Hill.

NASCAR HALL OF FAME

Let's Move! Celebrate a new season with healthy ideas and lots of movement. It's a festival of fun with prizes, golf games, Radio Disney and

Lights. Camera. NASCAR. Learn about the tremendous reach and appeal NASCAR holds as both a means for movie promotion and the starring focus of a film. $12.95$19.95; children under 5 admitted free. 10am-6pm. Through Oct.1. nascarhall. com. 400 E. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd.

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Mammal Safari: Journey of Discovery. Meet live animals from around the world, see awesome mounted specimens from Africa, Asia, North and South America, and enjoy hands-on interactive exhibits designed to bring out the explorer in everyone. $4-$7, includes museum admission. Mon-Sat., 9am-5pm; Sun., 1-5pm.

Through Dec. 31. 704-866-6900. schielemuseum.org. 1500 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia.

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Arthur's Word Tour exhibit at ImaginOn through Sept. 8.

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Festivals & Fairs  MATTHEWS ALIVE!

Labor Day weekend celebration dedicated to the support of local nonprofit organizations through music, arts and community involvement.

Free. Aug. 30-Sept. 2. Fri., 6-10pm; Sat., 9am-9pm; Sun., noon-9pm; Mon., 9am-5pm. Downtown Matthews, corner of John and Trade streets, Matthews. matthewsalive.org.

YIASOU GREEK FESTIVAL Enjoy homemade Greek classics, kiddie rides, Hellenic cultural exhibits, art and shopping. $3; children under 12 are free. Sept. 5-8. Thurs. ,11am-9pm; Fri-Sat., 11am-10pm; Sun., noon-8pm. Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Cathedral, 600 E. Blvd. yiasoufestival.org.

CABARRUS COUNTY FAIR Packed with state-of-the art rides, exhibitors, concerts, fair food, livestock, crafts and children's entertainment. $3-$7. Sept. 6-14. Mon.-Fri., 4pm-11pm; Sat.,111pm; Sun., 1-10pm. Cabarrus Arena, 4751 NC Hwy. 49 N., Concord. 704-7867221. cabarruscountyfair.com.

FESTIVAL OF INDIA Enjoy Indian food, art, dance, music and Bollywood entertainment. Sept. 14-15. $7; children under 10 are free. noon- 7pm. Parking $5 at Wells Fargo parking deck on Stonewall St. Belk Theatre, 130 N. Tryon St. indiafestival.iacofcarolinas.org.

AUTOFAIR Marvel at the special collection of rare and unique vehicles. Kids can enjoy the Play Zone with bounce houses, face painters, and other fun activities. Sept. 19. $10; free for children under age 13 with paying adult. Thurs.-Sat., 8am-6pm; Sun. 8am-4pm. Charlotte Motor Speedway, 5555 Concord Pkwy. S., Concord. 704-4553267. charlottemotorspeedway.com.

DAY OUT WITH THOMAS Take a 25-minute ride in a full size Thomas the Tank Engine, meet Sir Topham Hatt, plus story telling, live music and big build with Mega Blocks. $22-$24. Sept.

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20-22 and 27-29. Fri.-Sat., 9am-5pm; Sun. 1-5pm. NC Transportation Museum, 411 South Salisbury Ave., Spencer. 704-636-2889. nctrans.org.

FESTIVAL IN THE PARK Enjoy music, art, food and children's activities taht will stimulate interest in the arts. Free. Sept 20-22. Fri. 4-9:30pm; Sat: 10am-9:30pm; Sun. 11am-6pm.

Freedom Park, 1900 East Blvd., Charlotte. 704-432-4280. festivalinthepark.org.

LINCOLN COUNTY APPLE FESTIVAL It's all about apples at this festival, plus live entertainment, food, crafts and children's activities. Free. Sept. 21. 9am-4pm. Downtown Linclolnton, Main Street. 704-736-8452. lincolncountyapplefestival.com.

DENVER DAYS Carnival rides, games and food, plus crafts and jewelry from local vendors. Free.

Sept. 25-28. Downtown Denver, corner of Business Hwy. 16 and St. James Church Road, Denver. denverlakenormanrotary.com.

ARTFEST OF MATTHEWS Enjoy the art of more than 60 artists on display and for sale. Featuring a handson art area for children with pottery lessons and craft making as well as live music. Free. Sept. 28. 10am-5pm. Matthews Town Green, 232 Matthews Station St., Matthews. 704-847-4411. matthewsnc.gov.

FALL INTO FUN FESTIVAL Celebrate fall with local entertainers, arts and crafts, food, inflatables, putt-putt, and games. Free. Sept. 28. 10am-3pm. City of Light, 3000 World Reach Drive, Indian Land. 803-804-7042. indianlandfallfestival.com.

MOUNT HOLLY ARTS FESTIVAL Enjoy a day of art, live music, fine arts and crafts, and a kid's zone. Free.

Sept. 28. 11am-10pm. Downtown Mount Holly, Main Street. 704-827-5262. mounthollyartsfestival.webs.com.

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Disney On Ice: Let's Celebrate! It's opening night for the colossal party on ice with all your favorite Disney friends. $15-$74. Oct. 2-6. See website for showtimes. Time Warner Cable Arena, 333 E. Trade St. 704-688-9000. timewarnercablearena.com.

5 SATURDAY All American Dog Show. A barking good time with different breeds of canines in various events to enjoy, plus activities for kids. All ages. Free. TBA. Bailey Road Park, 11536 Bailey Road, Cornelius. 704-892-6031. cornelius.org.

Autumn Jubilee. Crafts, food, live entertainment, Carolina Puppet Theater, a magician, pumpkin and face painting, clogging barn, pumpkin painting and much more. All ages. Free. 10am-6pm. Dan Nicholas Park and Campground, 6800 Bringle Ferry Road, Salisbury. dannicholas.net.

Carolina Renaissance Festival. Opening day! Take a time machine back to 16th-century Europe with arts and entertainment for the family, including outdoor theater, circus entertainment, jousting and food. All ages. $11-$21, free for ages 5 and younger. Saturday,Sunday 10am-5:30pm. 16445 Poplar Tent Road, Huntersville. 704-896-5544. royalfaires.com/carolina.

Sensory Friendly Films - "Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs 2." See a movie with lights up and sound down. $4-$6. 10am. AMC Concord Mills and AMC Carolina Pavilion, 8421 Concord Mills Blvd and 9541 South Blvd, Concord and Charlotte. autism-society.org.

Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure. Join in a walk with the family to raise awareness about breast cancer. Registration required. $10-$35. 6am. Marshall Park, 800 E. Third St., Charlotte. komencharlotte.org.

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The Autism Society and AMC Theatres have partnered to offer a Sensory Friendly Film for families of children with autism and other sensory disorders.

During the movie, lights are turned up, sound is turned down, and attendees are free to move around and talk, shout or sing freely. Guests may also bring their own casein- and gluten-free snacks. Movies are shown at 10 a.m. AMC Carolina Pavilion 22 and Concord Mills 24 host films in the Charlotte area. The next Sensory Friendly Film screening is "Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs 2," happening Oct. 5. amctheatres.com/ programs.

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PLAYGROUND REVIEW INDEPENDENCE PARK Corner of Hawthorne Lane and Seventh Street | Midtown

Playtime at Independence Park Long and narrow, this busy city park's playground is found on its northern end. It has two small areas of equipment, separated into areas for preschoolers and school-age children, plus swings, including baby swings. All the equipment is fairly clean with lots of soft mulch underneath.

In addition to the playground equipment, there are lots of other activities to do here, such as tennis, basketball, table tennis and walking or biking on the many trails. There's even a waterfall surrounded by a stone arch, shady trees and flowers, offering a quiet corner in this large park that's prone to traffic noise. The picnic shelter has a few tables, but there are lots of tall trees offering plenty of inviting shade to spread out a blanket. At the other end of the park is a mazelike garden, inviting little ones to find their way through. Parking lots around the park are large. There are drinking fountains but not restrooms available.

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BY BRUCE SNYDER Ever since they were very young, Sage and Brayden have always been fascinated with animals. Petting dogs, looking up at birds and feeding the ducks are pretty common activities when we are out and about.

But just a few weeks ago I saw my kids take their fascination to another level. We were at the Granby Zoo near Montreal, Canada (an awesome place, I recommend it if you are in the area). I saw my kids connect with a camel, bond with a baboon and get friendly with farm animals. They were giggling with the goats, petting the pigs and chugging after the chickens. It was an awesome experience.

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Sage told my wife, Charisse, and me that she wanted us to buy her a pet pig, while Brayden actually cuddled with a sleeping sheep. (The ground was a little dirty, but I promise both kids took extensive baths later that night.) The kids had such a good time that after hanging out for an hour, I finally told them we needed to leave so we could visit the lions, tigers and monkeys. Sage actually had a cool experience with a gorilla. He came right up to her on the other side of the glass and smiled because he was interested in the pizza she was eating. I guess music isn’t the only thing that can tame the savage beast.

All of this pleased me. If my kids know how to treat animals with love and respect, then perhaps they will do the same with people. We want our kids to know that generosity and love are important qualities. I think they are realizing this thanks to some old-fashioned animal magnetism.

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