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COMMENTARY by Congresswoman Eddie Bernice Johnson
The poor die sooner The income gap between wealthy and poor Americans continues to increase and one of the results is that the life expectancy of those at the top continues to grow, while those at the bottom are living fewer years than those who are benefiting from the country’s economy. According to a report released last week by the Government Accounting Office, the income gap is a factor in the deaths of Americans who find themselves on the margins of our society. Some of are dying from inadequate healthcare, poor nutrition, and in some cases suicide. The report found that seventy-five percent of wealthy Americans who were between the ages of forty-nine and seventy in 1992 were still living in 2014. However, slightly more than half of all poor Americans in the same age range in 1992 as the rich were alive in 2014. The report found that poor women were actually living fewer years than their mothers, and that black women and men who were poor lived fewer years than whites. The White House and its supporters are quick to point to a declining poverty rate in America, but they seldom bother to recognize that all people are not participating in the nation’s economy on an equal footing.
The administration seems hostile to increased funding for public schools, employment programs, affordable health care and livable wages which are all recognized as steps that would allow people to lift themselves out of poverty, raise their families, purchase homes and educate their children. Even though Americans are living longer lives they are experiencing more difficulty as they live than those who were their age a decade or two before them. For instance, increasing numbers of senior citizens, even those who have reached retirement age, find it necessary to work just to pay their bills. According to the report, the number of Americans over the age of fifty-five who are still active in the workforce has increased significantly. Twenty years ago 30 percent of those over the age of fifty-five were still working. That percentage has increased to forty percent today. We must close the income and wealth gaps in our country. They are adversely impacting the health of our nation in very negative ways. It is unacceptable, and it is dangerously unfair. myimessenger.com
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This year’s US Open overfloweth with “aha” moments. My favorite was Naomi Osaka’s post-match conversation to Cori “Coco” Gauff’s parents. That moment when she looked to them and said, “And for me, the fact that both of us made it…”
Hurricane Dorian has drowned the Bahamas and devastated the coasts of North and South Carolina.
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MY TRUTH by Cheryl Smith, Publisher
A mind is...
Social media has really helped the world to connect. Folks you’d hardly ever remember, let alone miss, are in front of you with one peck on the keyboard.
The internet is making and breaking relationships; keeping folks from getting into colleges, universities or organizations; making those without a clue relevant; leveling the playing field; causing folks to be fired; ruining lives, reconnecting folks; and among other things; giving a voice to the voiceless. Unfortunately, just like the UNCF says, “A mind is a terrible thing to waste; “believe me when I tell you that access to the internet in the hands of some is just, plain and simple, a terrible thing! Which brings me to my truth! First and foremost: stop blaming youth, millennials, young people or whatever you want to call the under 40 crowd, for the filth we see on social media. Sure, they have been known to put some outrageous stuff on social media, and sometimes all I can do is shake my head, but what about those who are older? Yes, 50, 60 and I’ve seen older, have posted the wildest stuff on their social media pages! You have to wonder who is providing them with guidance. You’d think by the time you get to a certain age, you’d know better about the impact foolish moments of indiscretion can have on your life. But some people don’t care. Or they aren’t thinking. Ignorance really is bliss! Do you really feel the world needs to SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
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know everything you think, do and feel? Sadly for many the answer is yes. And what about these folks we call “friends?” Well, when one person who I raised, fed, clothed and taught right from wrong decided to “unfriend” me; she said she had a good reason, not wanting me to see certain “things.” Here I thought that I had taught her that everyone doesn’t need to know all your business. Oh well. I didn’t get offended. My feelings weren’t hurt. I didn’t feel rejection or like my world was coming to an end. Instead, I said, “When you get into any trouble, or you’re in need; call your “friends!” If she wanted to stray and do her own thing, she knew there were consequences and repercussions. Maybe it was best that I stayed off her social media pages! After all, high blood pressure and acts of violence are on my list of things to avoid. If she wanted to reach me, we knew social media was OUT! For me, I still like picking up the phone — to call, not text! The internet and cell phones have taken the personal out of life. I grew up when you wrote letters to folks, to say “thanks,” and more. I still recall my childhood letters that began: “Dear ____________, How are you doing? I’m doing fine.” Gone are those days. But for one of my monumental birthdays, (which they all are to me), I wrote someone every single day. Some were long time friends or relatives and others were mere acquaintances. I sat down, took just a few minutes to share a few expressions, put a stamp on the
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sealed envelope and dropped it into outgoing mail. It was refreshing to hear from folks who received my letters/notes. Some hadn’t heard from me in years, “but I follow you on Facebook!” Others welcomed the opportunity to reconnect, “because social media is so impersonal.” Yes, social media just puts everything out there. And for what? If I didn’t make anyone happy, I thought the United States Postal Service (USPS) would appreciate the gesture. We all know that with the internet, mailed letters dropped significantly. Year over year, the USPS continues to see a decline, especially in first-class mail where from 2009-2018 first-class single piece mail dropped from 28.9 to 17.5 billion. But, the USPS can count on junk mail and bill collectors! A nice note in the mail can have a really positive effect. It is astounding how communication, especially amongst family members, has disintegrated with the advent and availability of cell phones and the use of the internet. We need to find a happy balance. It’s clear that folks are not learning from other’s experiences, mistakes, or transgressions because every day something out of order appears on social media or in a text. I’m not giving into the madness. I will use social media and texts but I will not be part of the abuse of these tools of communication. I will be respectful and I will think twice and sometimes three times before I say some things. What I will do, however, is speak truth to power and be a real voice for the voiceless; in the pursuit of justice. myimessenger.com
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SURVIVOR Giving new meaning to the word: Roslin Sweat used her life to help others By Cheryl Smith God’s plan. That’s what some would call it. Or divine intervention. Family and loved ones are preparing to celebrate the life of someone who used her life to help others deal with the challenges faced by a cancer diagnosis, even though she had her own. At the age of 22, Houston native Roslin Hunt was a college student, looking forward to a long, wonderful life. She was living life to its fullest. That is until she received test results from her doctor. It was 1990 and Roslin, or “Rozz” as she was affectionately called, woke up to a swollen face and severe headaches. Actually the first diagnosis she received was easily curable, nothing to worry about. She was told she had allergies. But when the prescription didn’t yield any results. It was back to the doctor and following several tests and a MRI (a medical imaging technique), Roslin was told she had a tumor. The doctor said she had an “extremely rare” form of cancer, ethmoid sinus rhabdomyosarcoma. Some might panic, especially an active, youthful 22-year-old; but for Roslin, the diagnosis was not going to stop her from living. She loved life and whether she was hanging out with friends and family or gathering at church, Roslin lit up a room. SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
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Not only did she write about living with cancer; she became a source of support and inspiration for others who were dealing with the same diagnosis. For the next 30 years Roslin used her blessing to the benefit of others. She survived through other bouts with cancer over the years, but she was resilient. Interestingly, the same physician, Dr. Robert Benjamin, who treated her then, was with her until the very end. If you visit the world-renowned MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, you’ll be greeted by Roslin’s picture and message. That’s because she spent so much time volunteering and helping others at the Center. She had a strong message for others who were dealing with a cancer diagnosis: “Dust yourself off and get back up, even if you have to crawl,” she said. “This is your life, after all, and it's worth fighting for.” And Roslin was definitely a fighter. Just ask anyone who knew her. Deeply grounded in her spirituality, she turned to her family and faith. Her church family, The Community of Faith Church, under the leadership of Bishop James W.E. Dixon II, embraced her and walked with her on her journey, Roslin recalled in a first-person report featured in an MD Anderson publication. “All of this love and prayer helped
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me through aggressive chemotherapy, radiation therapy using cobalt, nausea, vomiting, fatigue, blood transfusions and emergency room visits. My weight dropped to 98 pounds, but I survived.” A real blessing for her, she wrote, was Dr. Benjamin, who in 1991 declared her cancer-free. Shortly after, with a new lease on life, Roslin began volunteering with MD Anderson’s support program. Through myCancerConnection she was able to form relationships with other cancer patients. It seems she had found her calling. Then she began working at a cancer facility. For her, this was a way to help others, to give them hope, she said. As the years went by, Roslin married her childhood friend and despite odds that were not in her favor, gave birth to a daughter, Jaylin. Then in 2013 “chronic allergies and sinus problems” landed her back in Dr. Benjamin’s office, “who diagnosed me with radiation-induced osteoblastic osteosarcoma of the left great sphenoid wing/skull base.” As always the village was there and once again, you could call Roslin a survivor, because according to her, “In October 2013, Franco DeMonte, M.D., performed skull base surgery. Then, in December, I began aggressive myimessenger.com
chemotherapy treatments that initially social media, where she exceeded required hospitalization. In August 2014, her goal to make a gift for the I completed my last of eight cycles of American Cancer Society. methotrexate.” She said she chose the nonprofit Methotrexate works by slowing or “because their mission means a lot stopping the growth of cancer cells and to me.” suppressing the immune system. A graduate of Aldine High In 2015 Roslin proudly shared that she School in the Greenspoint district was cancer-free again. Sure, she said, she of northern Houston, TX., Roslin had the “scars and side effects, including also attended Hargest Vocational migraines, fatigue, tenderness in my College and studied business feet, a left lazy eye and vision changes, administration at Houston Comnumbness in a small area of my face and munity College. left ear hearing loss,” but everything was In 1995, she married Erroll going to be fine. Jerome Sweat, who she met when To say that Roslin didn’t have moments they were in the 7th grade. of sadness or fear would be an inaccurate A lover of scrap booking and depiction of this one survivor. In sharing photography, she was the family’s her testimony, she would admit, “Cancer self-proclaimed, resident historian; is mentally and physically challenging.” chronicling everyone’s lives and “She was very private and focused,” documenting key milestones. said her big sister, LaDon. “Her faith was She also loved to travel and a strong and her love of her family was favorite pastime was shopping— equally strong. She was an inspiration to there wasn’t a shopping mall or so many.” outlet she didn’t like! In the midst of all her trials and Roslin spent much of her spare triumphs, Roslin, along with her husband, time working in the church, where she also found time for so many others, like and Erroll led the Kingdom Couples raising her niece, Symika, as their own. Marriage Ministry. She was also an And then there “All of this love and prayer helped me through was that smile, that surely brought joy aggressive chemotherapy, radiation therapy using and hope to other cobalt, nausea, vomiting, fatigue, blood transfusions cancer patients and emergency room visits. My weight dropped to 98 and survivors, as pounds, but I survived.” well as anyone who encountered Roslin. Never one to walk around bemoaning active participant in the Women Faith her fate, she continued living each day to Empowerment Ministry and a founding its fullest and encouraged others to do the member of the Love Ye One Another same. (LYOA) Cancer Support Ministry. Her hope and faith gave inspiration to LYOA presented her with the lifetime others and helped them to smile, even achievement award in 2018. through the pain and various diagnoses Roslin was also a spokesperson for and rigorous treatment regimens. CanCare, a subsidiary of MD Anderson, Born June 2,1967, Roslin Rashall Hunt and a network participant for patient was vigilant until the end. For her 52nd advocacy. birthday, she launched a fundraiser on Her sister summed up the sentiments
of many about Roslin. “I’m convinced that I must be one of God’s favorite children because He loved me enough to bless me to have Roslin as my sister,” said Ms. Ward. “She was and will always be the strongest person I know.” Roslin was preceded in death by her parents Bobbye and A.C. Flannigan and Kenneth Ikner. Left to cherish the beautiful memories they made together is Roslin's husband, Erroll Sweat; daughter, Jaylin Bobbye Ruth Sweat; bonus daughter, Symika Hunt-Morris; sisters LaDon Ward (Kirk) and Veronica Whitley; brother, Edwin Flannigan; her church family; the MD Anderson family; and, a host of relatives and friends. The celebration of her life will be: Saturday, September 21, 2019 11:00 AM - 12:30 pm Community of Faith
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COMMENTARY by Dr. Julianne Malveaux
In the wake of Hurricane Dorian: Hurricane Dorian has drowned the Bahamas and devastated the coasts of North and South Carolina. There are trillions of dollars worth of damages, and communities that it will take years to rebuild. The fury of this hurricane, some say, is unprecedented, with winds measured at 130 miles per hour at their fiercest. Dozens of lives have been lost – at least 30, as of this writing, in the Bahamas, and many others here in the United States. As the winds die down, the questions rise up. Could this hurricane, and its devastation have been prevented? What role does climate change play in the destruction this hurricane has caused? Are extreme and unexpected weather patterns our new reality? What does it mean for our quality of life and our economy? One doesn’t have to be a climate scientist to believe that climate change is affecting our weather. But there is a large body of scientific research to prove it. The ferocity of Hurricane Dorian and the massive destruction it has left in its wake is at least partly due to climatic destabilization. This is why 195 nations signed the Paris Accord, the 2016 agreement to contain greenhouse gas emissions. Many applauded President Barack Obama’s support of this accord. We have been dismayed that the current “President” has indicated his intent to withdraw from the agreement, and has already supported public policy to undermine it. The willingness of US leaders to ignore the scourge of climate change is challenging. It is also challenging SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
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to watch democratic presidential candidates flail around the issue, as they did in the recent CNN debates. To be sure, there was great rhetoric and good ideas, but from my perspective,
no robust approach to better managing our environment. Hurricane Dorian reminds us of the urgency of dealing with climate change policy. It also reminds us of the underinvestment our nation has made to our infrastructure. Better infrastructure would mitigate some of the destruction of this hurricane, and our 45th President promised to address infrastructure. He has not. It’s a bipartisan challenge since whether you are a Democrat or Republican, you ride on our nation’s highways and drive across vulnerable bridges. The American Society of Civil Engineers (asce.org) rates our infrastructure a D+, hardly a passing grade. It points to deficiencies on everything from our bridges and roads to our water supply, and daily headlines suggest their D+ grade may be generous. Flint, Michigan has yet again made national news headlines after its water supply has been again polluted. It is
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easy to focus on Flint, but too many other municipalities also have water challenges, and the public health effects in Flint reverberate all over the country. We have long known of the adverse effects of lead paint on children, yet too many of our schools still are riddled with lead paint. And the beat goes on. The worst thing is that little has improved between 2013 and 2017 when the last report was released. The “President” knows it, but doesn’t care to use his political capital to spark a bipartisan agreement, but instead prefers to keep up the combative mess around immigration and jingoism. Congress is just back from its six-week break. Perhaps they will approach our challenges with renewed enthusiasm. From my perspective, the three top things they must deal with are gun control, infrastructure, and climate change. These need to be bipartisan issues, issues that the majority of the population will be positively impacted by. But the rudderless, leaderless Oval Office prefers to engage in a rhetorical sideshow that diverts from the flailing economy (even with low unemployment rates), the white supremacist gun crisis, and infrastructure ineffectuality. Hurricane Dorian reminds us that legislative malfeasance is unacceptable. To ignore climate change, infrastructure, and gun control is to ignore the issues that are critical to the lives of our nation’s citizens. I’m not surprised that 45 ignores these issues, but what about the Congress, including those who represent areas that Dorian devastated? myimessenger.com
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anyone? By Dorothy J. Gentry Once upon a time, Gladys Lee had absolutely no interest in golf. “I was just like everybody else. I thought it was silly to chase a white ball, try to hit it, try to go find it, then put it in a hole,” she said. “People of prominence play golf; you’ve got your presidents, your pastors, all these types of people that play golf. After talking with the wife of legendary entertainer, the late Dick Clark whom she worked with, she decided to try it. “She told me it was more than a game and I should get involved. After talking with her and I got that adrenalin when you hit that ball and you know that you can do it, I thought of it in a different aspect. I thought there’s something to it, maybe it is more than just a game. So I started to take it up.” And she never looked back. Fast forward over three decades to today and “Coach Lee” as she is called, is an accomplished D/FW Metroplex SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
legendary golf pro (LPGA Class A1). She launched the Women in Golf Dallas chapter, known as the DFW Fairway Divas and has been a force for teaching golf in economically disadvantaged African American communities. In the 1980s she founded the Roaring Lambing Golf Club for youth in Fort Worth and developed numerous African American golfers who went on to play on the college level. Next week she will make more history as she brings in close to 100 African American female golfers from around the Southwest for the annual tournament, the North/ South Shootout, Thursday, September 26 through Saturday, September 28 at the Riverside Golf Course, 3000 Riverside Parkway, in Grand Prairie. The four-day event will be capped by an awards banquet with the theme, “Putting on the Ritz,” at the Doubletree I Messenger
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am hoping that this regional gathering will encourage more women of color to come out and get in the game. Golf is wonderful.” She has introduced “thousands” of African American children to golf by feeding them and loving them. “Kids don’t care how much you know, they care how much you care. When I fed them and loved them, it (golf) was something they started to do. When you show someone that you love them and really care about them, that breaks the barrier,” she said. That’s how she started and she’s been doing it ever since, most times using her own money. “This is my passion. When you know that you know, that you know, what purpose you have in life, then nothing can deter you from that,” she said. “And I’ve always known, when I stepped out of corporate America, that this is what I was supposed to do. She continued, “I have used the concept of the fish and loaves. I didn’t know, but I keep on keeping on. And God keeps blessing me.” Dr. Sheron Patterson, pastor of Hamilton Park UMC, is president of the DFW Fairway Divas and credits Coach Lee with helping her learn to love golf. “I’ve always wanted to play. I’m the pastor of a golfing church; we have a lot of golfers there and even an annual golfing tournament and I said wow, if all of them are doing it, I need to get in it,” she said. “I never had the time to play golf and I really wanted a good teacher who would just work with me alone. So I went looking for a golf coach and met Coach Lee and we have been together ever since.” Coach Lee said she hopes women, African American women in particular, see the importance of golf and get involved. myimessenger.com
Rev. Sheron Patterson and Coach Gladys Lee “They’ve got to focus on what it’s all about and what it can do for them and their children. There is the misnomer that golf is primarily for the rich and the elite, but it is not,” Coach Lee explained. “We can all get involved, if we dedicate and practice.” Bridging the gap is the main purpose of the tournament. “I want to bring us together. You have your league over there, we have ours over here, once a month we all get together. We have to come together to show we have strength and power.”
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Women in Golf is a section of the Western States Golf Association. It provides outreach activities to women and teens to stimulate their interest in learning and playing the game of golf, and to promote and increase the membership of the Western States Golf Association. There are 15 chapters scattered across California, Colorado, Arizona, and Texas. For more information on the tournament or Women in Golf, please visit www. westernstatesgolf.org. I Messenger
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Wordz of Wilson Association (ATA). It may be hard to imagine, but African Americans have been competing in tennis tournaments since 1898—y’all, that’s just 35 years post Emancipation Proclamation. Several HBCUs, including Tuskegee and Howard, offered tennis to students from the early 1890s. Now I’m sure it didn’t take long for us to dominate the sport, so around that “ same time the USLTA did what they do and I remember I used to see you guys —I don’t issued a policy statement formally barring want to cry—I remember I used to see you African American tennis players from its guys training in the same place as us. And for competitions. But you know how we do, when me, the fact that both of us made it and we’re one door closes, we build a window. So, in both still working as hard as we can, I think 1916, more than a dozen Black tennis clubs it’s incredible…I think Coco, you’re amazing.” met and organized the American Tennis Naomi Osaka Association (ATA). The ATA held its first tournament in 1917. This year’s US Open overfloweth with Lucy Diggs Slowe won the national title and “aha” moments. My favorite was Naomi became the first African-American female Osaka’s post-match conversation to Cori “Coco” Gauff’s parents. That moment when she looked to them and said, “And for me, the fact that both of us made it…” Osaka couldn’t say more, considering the venue, but we knew what she was saying without saying it. She knew that the odds for them to both be competing at the highest level of professional tennis at the same time, were not at all in their favor. What a wonderful time to be alive. We were not only blessed to witness the greatness of Coco and Naomi but Venus Williams, Madison Keys, Sloane Stephens, Taylor Townsend, Sachia Vickery, Francoise Abanda (CAN), and, of course, the Serena Williams national champion in any sport. Ora Mae Washington, named the next also graced the courts of the US Open with their presence. #blackgirlmagic was in full “Queen of Tennis,” won eight ATA National effect, but it wasn’t by happenstance. What Crowns from 1929 to 1937. Dr. Hubert Eaton we witnessed was the result of foundational and Dr. Robert Johnson, two ATA champions, work begun by an organization well over a attended the national tournament in 1946 and century ago, one that unfortunately, many saw an extraordinary young woman play whom have not even heard of—the American Tennis they believed had the potential to transform SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
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tennis. That young woman was Althea Gibson, who incidentally lost that particular match, but it didn’t matter because God had something bigger in store for her. Dr.’s Eaton and Johnson became her coaches and went on to win the ATA title 10 consecutive times. Now about that something bigger… In 1950, Gibson became the first African American player to compete in the US Nationals. She later became the first Black player to win the French Open, Wimbledon, and the US Nationals. By the time she retired in 1958, she was the top-ranked woman in tennis having won more than 50 singles and doubles championships. She appeared on the covers of Sports Illustrated and Time, the first Black woman to do so. In her autobiography, “I Always Wanted to Be Somebody,” she says this in remembering her first Wimbledon win, “Shaking hands with the Queen of England was a long way from being forced to sit in the colored section of the bus.” Now, let me go back to Naomi’s point about “the fact that both of us made it…” I can’t say myimessenger.com
for sure what all happened to us in tennis after Gibson’s reign, but, another Black woman did not make it to a grand slam final until Zina Garrison did so in 1990. Garrison, coincidentally, also got her tennis start in the ATA. It would take another seven years before the next Black woman, Venus Williams, made it to a final, but in 1999, we finally got another champion. It wasn’t Venus though, it was little sister Serena who won the US Open four score and three
years after Gibson’s historic win, making her only the second Black woman to win a grand slam. There were more Black women playing in just that one grand slam week, than all the Black women whose names are recorded in the history of tennis champions combined. Let that sink in. In an action long, long overdue, a statue of Althea Gibson was recently unveiled in front of Arthur Ashe Stadium, and in case you were wondering, yes, Ashe was also coached and mentored by
members of the ATA. Gibson says in her autobiography that she felt as if she “was born too soon.” She did not get to fully enjoy all the spoils normally afforded the victorious. For her, a sense of camaraderie and fellowship among other elite level athletes were outside the grasp of her brown fingers. I can’t imagine how lonely and isolated she must have felt. Perhaps Naomi Osaka did know that feeling, the isolating feeling of being the only one, and
that is why she embraced Coco as she did. Perhaps it is the same reason Serena embraced Naomi on the same court the year before. Perhaps we are closer to realizing the vision of Drs. Eaton and Johnson—a transformed tennis, where there is always room for more than one. Chelle Luper Wilson is a writer, speaker and activist. She is also the International Secretary of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.
For our teachers and our children, speak out about injustices -Frisco ISD chose to reassign Coleman and the students will suffer -- you do the comparison
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Cierra’s Interlude by Cierra Mayes
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Issues in education system
Anthony Council: Let’s just say This week on Cierra’s Interlude, I had the pleasure of talking to Kyla they are very different. I’m taking Taylor who attends Clark Atlanta University and is working toward getting her degree in political science with a minor in psychology. Politics are involved in our everyday lives. There are many issues we’re surrounded by that continuously go unnoticed. Many of our politicians fight for what they believe is right in creating fairness within communities. I knew it was only right I got Kyla to vocalize her opinions and share valuable information that Anthony Council would enlighten not only myself, a Mandarin class, African American nonetheless all millennials. experience class, English 101, On last week’s episode, I also and a communication class. The talked to Anthony Council who Mandarin class is really fun. I do also hosts “Anthony Council’s want to be more versatile and be Leadership” on blog talk radio. He fluent in Mandarin, whether I go off has now entered his first semester to another country. I’m learning a of college and is knowing there will lot in my African American history class. You know in high school they be many challenges for him. We discussed issues in the don’t really go into detail about education system and what he African American history. What we learn in high school it believes should change in order for students to succeed in the future. took a week to learn more than I Here is some of what he had to say. ever knew in high school. Cierra Mayes: Do you think that your high school education has Cierra Mayes: You mentioned the classes you are taking. Are the prepared you for college? classes you’re taking hard? Anthony Council: No, I’ll be
honest, No. The reason why I say that so expeditiously because I think it only helps you if you’re a STEM major. When the professor is talking more about life academics, I don’t think high school has taught you that. High school just has a set of rules where they teach you certain things over a period of time, that’s it. So, for high school what our people are known to do is learn everything for a test? Then you forget all about it next year. This stuff that these professors are teaching prepare us for life in the real world.
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Cierra Mayes: Were you in any communication classes in high school? Anthony Council: I was part of the Lead program at my school. The Lead is a program where we talk about the four schools in our district. We talked about news that’s happening at other schools, sports that happens there. This was an elective and not just a specific subject. I say going back, electives actually helped out a lot. It was a pleasure talking to Anthony about issues in the education system. Remember to tune in to blogtalkradio.com and listen to Cierra’s Interlude every Wednesday from 2p.m.-4p.m.
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by Vincent Hall
Hallelujah Ouch! QUIT PLAYIN By VINCENT L. HALL Vincent L. Hall is
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As I began to read Pastor Jonathan Carl’s recent letter to the POTUS, my face brimmed with glee and anticipation. The headline said it all: “Pastor Hits back after inadvertently coming under fire from Donald Trump!” That gave me some hope. A Christian fighting evil? When I found out that Reverend Carl leads the South Fork Baptist Church in Hodgenville, Kentucky and is an Iraq War vet and a Ph.D. from Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, I reared back and shouted; “Amen!” I dove into the text and the advertised headline matched the tenor and the tone of the story. That is a rarity in this “far-too-manybreaking-news” cycles we live in. This preacher admonished Trump subjectby-subject and annotated every salvo with a quote from Abraham Lincoln. “Hallelujah” was the only commensurate response. “Thank You Jesus” followed! Not that fake, phony, faux-religious Jesus that supporters of Trump hold up as an aegis of the Whiteness. My Hallelujah was to that real Jesus. The Matthew 25 Jesus who would never leave the poor and the powerless. That Matthew 21 Jesus who whipped the moneychangers for feeding on the poor. The late Dr. Manuel L. Scott Sr. ,who pastored in Dallas, once said; “Jesus uses his advantage, to the advantage, of the disadvantaged.” In other words, if Jesus were POTUS he would not require papers from Bahamians who lived through 150 mph winds for four days. Let that settle in your spirit. Pastor Carl made several points that made me shout! Be humble. You called an experienced SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
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reporter a “lightweight.” Let’s be honest, you are a lightweight too. We all are. God is the only heavyweight who knows it all and gets it right all the time. That should keep things in perspective for all of us. You are not the ultimate Commander-InChief. May we all be reminded of our national motto, “In God We Trust” and be more faithful to Him, avoiding the temptation to trust more in a politician, party, or post. “I rejoice with you in the success which
has, so far, attended that cause. Yet in all our rejoicing let us neither express, nor cherish, any harsh feeling towards any citizen who, by his vote, has differed with us. Let us at all times remember that all American citizens are brothers of a common country, and should dwell together in the bonds of fraternal feeling.” Abraham Lincoln, Remarks at Springfield, Illinois (November 20, 1860) Choose kindness. Goodness speaks much louder and more effectively than harsh words. Gentleness builds up instead of tearing down. The world is hateful enough. Meekness is not a weakness, but a strength. The world needs more light and hope. My prayer is that you grow into a bright beacon of joy and peace in a traumatized universe.
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“This struggle is too large for you to be diverted from it by any small matter.” Abraham Lincoln, Speech to the One Hundred Sixty-fourth Ohio Regiment, Delivered at Washington, D.C. (August 18, 1864) Let’s Keep Things In Perspective. At the end of the day, being right or wrong on social media regarding the prediction of a catastrophic weather event like Hurricane Dorian isn’t the main issue. Thousands of souls are suffering and they need our prayers, encouragement, and support. We need good leaders. Please lead us well. Sincerely, Jonathan Carl, a Lightweight Husband, Father, Pastor, and Latest Trump-Tweet Casualty” It was as if the Twittersphere dropped its demand for brevity. This preacher found a way to “clap back” and get his whole point across. Tweets are short-range missiles. This letter was a long-range bomb that left shrapnel everywhere. Hallelujah! Dr. Zan Wesley Holmes says that anytime you shout “Hallelujah” when someone else gets his or her just due, there ought to be some self-reflection. Sometimes we can’t see the sin in our own lives until we see it in others. Example: You hear a sermon about David taking Bathsheba away from Uriah and you remember the whoremonger that you are or have been. Ouch! Therefore, in the midst of my Hallelujahs, I had to say “Hallelujah Ouch.” My social media responses are sometimes coarse and like Trump, I should think before pressing the “send” button. I’ve seen some of your SM responses and there are enough of us to create an “Ouch” chorus. Don’t judge me. Thanks, Pastor Carl, for showing us the way! #OUCH #QuitPlayin myimessenger.com
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Review by Hollywood Hernandez Hustlers is the first movie I can recall about strippers and about a strip club from a female point of view. Constance Wu, from 2018’s Crazy, Rich Asians, plays Destiny a stripper who’s struggling to make ends meet. She soon learns that the strip club is as crooked as can be with managers, DJ’s, security, and bartenders all expecting a “taste” of her hard-earned money leaving her with just a few dollars every night after a shift of working for her money. That all changes when she meets Ramona, Jennifer Lopez, who looks amazing at age 50. She shows Destiny the ropes and soon the two are the clubs biggest moneymakers until the crash of 2008 that killed the golden goose fueling their economic windfall thanks to companies going belly up with myimessenger.com
speculation, shady dealing and greed in the marketplace. The movie is based on a true story that was inspired by a New York Magazine article that went viral back in ’08. With the exception of “Jenny on the Block”, who took pole dancing lessons for her part in the movie, Cardi B is the most realistic at playing a stripper in the movie (perhaps because she was one). She is hilarious as a smart-mouthed dancer and may actually have a future ahead of her as a movie actress. The story gets really good, and funny when a group of the girls forms a crew with the express purpose of racking up huge credit card bills from their clients. They team up to drug their married clients and run up huge bills on their credit 21
cards. When the men contact the women and plead for their money back they are dismissed by the ladies who threaten to contact the men’s wives and suddenly to issues all go away. Hustlers is part drama and part outrageous comedy. The movie will keep you laughing with the ladies hilarious actions throughout the movie. It is both sexy and funny. I loved it. The movie is rated R for nudity and drug use and has a run time of 1 hour and 49 minutes. The entire cast is strong including KeKe Palmer, Julia Stiles, and Mercedes Ruehl. On my “Hollywood Popcorn Scale” I rate Hustlers a JUMBO.
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From Marva with By Marva Sneed
On From Marva with Love I had the pleasure of interviewing Randy Corinthian. Randy has been an active musician for over 20 years. As CEO of RC Music Group, Randy holds degrees from Florida A&M University and Florida State University. He’s performed alongside many notables including, Rhonda Ross & Rodney Kendrick, Gerald Albright, Bobby Caldwell, Ellis Marsalis, Myron Butler, and Alex Bugnon. He currently serves as Adjunct Professor of Music at Broward College and maintains an active performance schedule, performing a wide variety of musical styles. The weekend of August 30-September 1, 2019 was the 3rd Riverfront Jazz Festival hosted by The Black Academy of Arts And Letters. Randy performed on the Main Jazz Stage with Rhonda Ross & Rodney Kendrick. Randy plays the Saxophone. This was Randy’s first Dallas visit. MS: Randy your bio is beautiful. I can see SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
God’s hand all over your life and your musical career. How long have you been playing? RC: I have been playing for about 30 years now. I started when I was very young. I took to it, I was drawn,
I had the opportunity to pursue music at the graduate level for Florida State University. All through those years I played professionally as well, until I finished college. I began to teach and play professionally. Teaching
with the work that I do at the college with those students as well. MS: Randy you are an educator, producer and musician. What do you enjoy the most? RC: This is a tough question for me. It’s going to be difficult to answer choosing any one thing because there is much to be enjoyed in each one. But if you force me to pick one I would have to say playing. It all started with playing….. I was at the Riverfront Jazz Fest and I got to hear Randy play it was awesome. There was so much more in my conversation with Randy Corinthian. Check out From Marva with Love for more.
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HBCU Homecoming 2019 dates: Alabama A&M University Visitor: Texas Southern University Louis Crews Stadium, Huntsville, AL Date: Oct. 5, 2019 | 2 PM Alabama State University Visitor: Prairie View A&M University ASU Stadium, Montgomery, AL Date: Nov. 28, 2019 | 2 PM Albany State University Visitor: Lane College Albany State University Coliseum, Albany, GA Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 2 PM Alcorn State University Visitor: Savannah State University Spinks-Casem Stadium, Lorman, MS Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 2 PM Benedict College Visitor: Miles College Charlie W. Johnson Stadium, Columbia, SC Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 2 PM Bethune-Cookman University Visitor: South Carolina State University Municipal Stadium, Daytona Beach, FL Date: Oct. 26, 2019 | 4 PM Bowie State University Visitor: Chowan University Bulldog Football Stadium, Bowie, MD Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 1 PM Central State University Visitor: Fort Valley State University McPherson Stadium, Wilberforce, OH Date: Oct 12, 2019 | 1 PM Clark Atlanta University Visitor: Savannah State University CAU Panther Stadium, Atlanta, GA Date: Oct. 19, 2019 | 2 PM Delaware State University Visitor: South Carolina State University Alumni Stadium, Dover, DE Date: Oct. 10, 2019 | 1:30 PM Edward Waters College Visitor: Allen University Edward Waters College, Jacksonville, FL Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 3 PM Elizabeth City State University Visitor: Lincoln University (Pennsylvania) Roebuck Stadium, Elizabeth City, NC Date: Oct. 19, 2019 | 1:30 PM
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Fayetteville State University Visitor: Livingstone College Luther Nick Jerald’s Stadium, Fayetteville, NC Date: Oct. 5, 2019 | 2:00 PM
Lincoln University (Pennsylvania) Visitor: Virginia Union University LU Football Stadium, Lincoln University, PA Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 1 PM
Florida A&M University Visitor: North Carolina Central University Bragg Memorial Stadium, Tallahassee, FL Date: Oct. 5, 2019 | 2 PM
Livingstone College Visitor: Fayetteville State University Alumni Memorial Football Stadium, Salisbury, NC Date: Nov. 2, 2019 | 1:30 PM
Fort Valley State University Visitor: Morehouse College Wildcat Stadium, Fort Valley, GA Date: Oct. 19, 2019 | 2 PM
Miles College Visitor: Clark Atlanta University Sloan-Alumni Stadium, Fairfield, AL Date: Oct. 5, 2019 | 4 PM
Grambling State University Visitor: Texas Southern University Robinson Stadium, Grambling, LA Date: Nov. 2, 2019 | 2 PM
Mississippi Valley State University Visitor: Virginia University of Lynchburg Rice–Totten Stadium, Itta Bena, MS Date: Oct. 5, 2019 | 2 PM
Hampton University Visitor: Virginia University of Lynchburg Armstrong Stadium, Hampton, VA Date: Oct. 26, 2019 | 2 PM
Morehouse College Visitor: Benedict College B.T. Harvey Stadium, Atlanta, GA Date: Oct. 26 2019 | 2 PM
Howard University Visitor: Norfolk State University William H. Greene Stadium, Washington, DC Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 1 PM
Morgan State University Visitor: Delaware State University Hughes Stadium, Baltimore, MD Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 2 PM
Jackson State University Visitor: Alabama State University Mississippi Veterans Memorial Stadium, Jackson, MS Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 2 PM
Norfolk State University Visitor: Morgan State University William “Dick” Price Stadium, Norfolk, VA Date: Nov. 2, 2019 | 2 PM
Johnson C. Smith University Visitor: Shaw University Irwin Belk Complex, Charlotte, NC Date: Oct. 26, 2019 | 1 PM
North Carolina A&T State University Visitor: Howard University Aggie Stadium, Greensboro, NC Date: Oct. 26, 2019 | 1 PM
Kentucky State University Visitor: Clark Atlanta University Alumni Stadium, Frankfort, KY Date: Oct. 12, 2019 | 1 PM
North Carolina Central University Visitor: Norfolk State University O’Kelly–Riddick Stadium, Durham, NC Date: Nov. 9, 2019 | 2 PM
Lane College Visitor: Kentucky State University Lane Field, Jackson, TN Date: Oct. 19, 2019 | 2 PM
Prairie View A&M University Visitor: Virginia University of Lynchburg Panther Stadium, Prairie View, TX Date: Oct. 19, 2019 | 2 PM
Langston University Visitor: Texas Wesleyan University W.E. Anderson Stadium, Langston, OK Date: Oct. 26, 2019 | 2 PM
Saint Augustine’s University Visitor: Johnson C. Smith University George Williams Athletic Complex, Raleigh, NC Date: Nov. 2, 2019 | 1 PM
Lincoln University (Missouri) Visitor: Northeastern State University Dwight T. Reed Stadium, Jefferson City, MO
Savannah State University Visitor: Albany State University
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Deltas name new leaders Andrea Hilburn President
Karla McGary Vice President
Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., Dallas Alumnae Chapter, has introduced its executive leadership team for the 20192021 biennium: President Dr. Andrea L. Hilburn, Vice President Karla McGary, Recording Sec-retary Chiquita Scales, Assistant Recording Secretary Rickenya Sisk, Corresponding Secretary Yonde’ Kyles, Financial Secretary Carol Crawley, and Treasurer Jocelyn Mays. The chapter has a proud legacy to uphold. The Dallas Alumnae Chapter was chartered in 1924 and has the distinction of being the first Black Greek letter organization to be chartered in Dallas County, TX! Chapter members are proud to share that one of the 22 national founders, Frederica Chase Dodd, returned to Dallas after her graduation from Howard University and established this chapter, along with four other ladies, and served as its first president. Dallas Alumnae Chapter presently has over 400 active SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
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members and is committed to continue the rich legacy we have become known for. During the most recent 54th National Convention, the Dallas Alumnae Chapter was the recipient of the National President’s Vision Award for Exemplary Program Implementation that demonstrates “Service in Our Heart” for International Awareness and Involvement. This program benefited the Mary Help of the Sick Mission Hospital in Kenya, Africa. Dallas Alumnae is committed to continuing a legacy of service locally, nationally and internationally. According to President Hilburn, “Dallas Alumnae Chapter is intentional about building upon the legacy that has been started. We have withstood the test of time and we pride ourselves by following in the footsteps of our national founders, charter members and past presidents by remaining in the forefront of action as a voice for those in need.” Dr. Hilburn, a retired public school administrator and I Messenger
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adjunct professor, holds a BS degree from the University of North Texas, advanced degrees from Texas A & M Commerce and was awarded a PhD in Public Affairs from University of Texas at Dallas. She currently serves as an Educational Career Alternative Program Consultant. Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. is a private, not-for-profit organization whose purpose is to provide assistance and support through established programs in local communities throughout the world. Since its founding on January13, 1913 by 22 collegiate women at Howard University, more than 200,000 women have joined the organization. The organization is a sisterhood of predominantly Black, collegeeducated women. The sorority currently has 1,000 collegiate and alumnae chapters located in the United States, Canada, Japan (Tokyo and Okinawa), Germany, the Virgin Islands, Bermuda, the Bahamas, Jamaica and the Republic of Korea. Notable members include: journalists April
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Ryan and Soledad O’Brien, economist Dr. Julianne Malveaux, actresses Angela Bassett and Sheryl Lee Ralph, educator Dr. Johnnetta B.Cole, and Atlanta Mayor Keisha Lance Bottoms. The Dallas Alumnae Chapter is in its 96th year of existence continuing to serve as change agents throughout Dallas County and beyond. Among its notable community programs include Delta Academy (for girls), EMBODI (for boys), Delta GEMS (for girls), Monday Night Politics, Jabberwock, the Delta Salon and Black Dollar Day. Distinguished members include: former Dallas County District Attorney Faith Johnson, Dallas City Councilwoman Carolyn King Arnold, Dallas Police Chief U. Renee Hall, DeSoto Mayor Curtistene McCowan and Delta Sigma Theta National Secretary Elsie Cooke-Holmes. For additional info, visit the chapter website at dallasalumnae.org or call 214.428.7400. myimessenger.com
AT&T Foundation supports teacher recruitment/training AT&T* and Urban Teachers are joining forces to recruit and train teachers serving the Dallas-Fort Worth area. A $250,000 contribution from the AT&T Foundation will support the effort and is part of AT&T Aspire, the company’s initiative to help provide access to education and training people need to get and keep good jobs. Congresswoman Eddie Bernice Johnson and State Rep. Victoria Neave joined Urban Teachers and AT&T representatives for today’s event. The mission of Urban Teachers is to improve educational and life outcomes of children in urban schools by preparing culturally competent, effective career teachers who accelerate student achievement and disrupt systems of racial and socioeconomic inequality. “I commend AT&T’s steady commitment to assisting our youth in Dallas with an outstanding educational organization I know very well, Urban Teachers,” said Congresswoman Eddie Bernice Johnson. “Their work is based on education funding,
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students to succeed in the classroom and beyond. I fully support and greatly appreciate the work of the Urban Teachers
serving more than 18,000 students in traditionally underserved communities. The work our teachers are doing would not be
to encourage and improve academic achievements here at home. To me, this check is not only an investment in the future of our youth, but also the success of our community.” Texas State Rep. Victoria Neave also attended the Friday event. Neave said, “Teachers are a critical component of a student’s education and the best ones are able to not only teach but to inspire their
organization and today’s contribution from the AT&T Foundation. Such efforts are mission critical to students in our diverse and underserved Dallas communities.” Emily Garza, Executive Director of Urban Teachers said, "The generous support of AT&T has fueled Urban Teachers' growing impact in Dallas/Fort Worth public schools over the last 3-1/2 years. We currently partner with over 100 campuses
possible without the advocacy and funding we have received from our friends at AT&T." The contribution is part of AT&T Aspire, the company’s signature education initiative focused on school success and career readiness. Since 2008, AT&T Aspire has committed $500 million to programs that help millions of students in all 50 states and around the world.
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I’m with his EX
Dear Alma,
thought it would be a good idea to ask what My frat brother is do you think? getting married. We DeAngelo M. graduated over 15 years Arlington, Va. ago and so much has happened since then. Hi D, We’re all successful and living the lives we I appreciate you dreamed of. This is his taking the time to email second marriage and me. we’re all very happy for Blessings to your him. frat brother on his Many of us stay in upcoming nuptials and touch and recently I hope you guys have a out of that constant blast celebrating. connection, his exNow that I’ve salsa college girlfriend and I danced through the have become more than niceties, brace yourself, just friends. here comes the twirl We haven’t told – No, I don’t think you anyone yet. I’ve never two should show up to been married and she’s show out. soon to be divorced. You know as well as I We thought maybe we do, there’s a place and could go to his wedding time for everything. together and that way This ain’t the place. everyone would find out I know yawl excited at the same time. about being each Since we can’t ask other’s new Boo, but any of our friends, I this moment belongs to SEPTEMBER 20, 2019
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them, him and his new bride. The two of you would be the rumor at the reception and ain’t nobody got time for that, LOL. Hold out a little while longer and attend separately. If your relationship continues to proceed on a positive note, you two will be able to post some pictures on Facebook, after the wedding, like everyone else, LOL. Pause for the cause, and prayerfully what goes around will come around. The fact that you two elect to exercise some patience, hopefully will produce a gleeful groomsman and ex-boyfriend, who’ll be happy for you both. Alma myimessenger.com
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Assisted Living
The Valder Beebe Show audience is made-up of 89.9% Baby Boomer women. As we go into the Fall 2019 season with the mantra “Vision” this segment we take a look at aging and can you afford it? Mary Sue Patchett – Brookdale Senior Living Executive Vice President of Operations was a guest in the Valder Beebe Show studios with a discussion on taking care of an aging parent or loved one is not easy and can become emotionally and financially difficult if you are not prepared. According to a new survey conducted by OnePoll on behalf of Brookdale Senior Living, 58% of adult children polled said talking about senior living with their parents was uncomfortable and stressful, while 49% of adult children have not discussed financial planning for their parents’ later years. Did You Know? • 41% of adult children have no plan in place for their parents in the event of a medical emergency or sudden passing. • 36% said they would consider assisted or independent living. myimessenger.com
• Most people think the average annual cost for a senior living community is $59,287. • 33% said they will not be able to afford senior living. • Most people (46.1%) said they plan to pay for senior living with their savings. –Text Provided by Mary Sue Patchett Publicist VBS: Ms Patchett, I wanted to speak with you as I broadcast live across America on an FM platform. The Valder Beebe Show reaches a large audience, and 89.9% are Baby Boomer women as our audience. I thought this is an important subject to discuss with you as Brookdale’s Senior Vice President. MSP: Valder your listeners, Baby Boomer women are the number one profiled in our recent survey of about two-thousand Americans who will make that decision. In the survey, about 58% of those polled already worry about their parents living without assistance. VBS: Ms Patchett, how do we begin that conversation? MSP: Nearly two-thirds of the
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survey respondents said having that conversation about senior living is uncomfortable. So I hope we can provide tips today for your audience. VEB: Is there a ‘best’ time to have this conversation with your parents? MSP: I think the best time is before there is an emergency. Be proactive about it now. Ask what are your long-term goals? And how can you help? VEB: What’s the average cost of senior living in assisted living facilities? According to data I am reading, the cost of senior living generally upwards of $59,000 annually, and it also depends on the type of care that is needed which can add to the costs such as memory care or a nursing home. MSP: You are quoting an average and so it really depends on where you are in the United States. Many people pay for senior living through several options……….. ValderBeebeShow.com, 411RadioNetwork.com, Youtube.com/valderbeebeshow, 411RadioNetwork. com; Podcast audio: Soundcloud.com/valderbeebeshow, Soundcloud.com/kkvidfw, 411RadioNetwork.com, PChatman Streaming TV Network
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COMMUNITY CALENDAR COMMUNITY CALENDAR BLACK COLLEGE MONTH YOUTH SUICIDE PREVENTION MONTH Hispanic Heritage Month
Cool Thursday Concert Series The Purple Madness, Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden, 8525 Garland Rd. Dallas. 7p. Cynthia Mickens Party with a Purpose, 1900 Pacific Apartments, 1900 Pacific, Dallas. 6-9p.
Friendship-West Bereavement Community Presents: Thy Will Be Done Seminar 9a-1p. Narthex, 2020 W. Wheatland Rd. Info: www.friendshipwest.org.
NAMC Golden Shovel Awards & Business Expo., By Lowes, 1600 E. Randol Mill Rd. Arlington. 5p.
Hot Sauce Fest, Downtown Irving Heritage District 217 S. St. 12-5p. Register: http://bit.ly/2019Hotsaucefest
Social Media Communication: How to be Authentic, Capital Factory + DEC, 3102 Oak Lawn Ave. 6:309p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.
PrayHers 3rd Annual, Sisterhood Call To Unity Conference, Texas Star Golf Course & Conf. Ctr, 1400 Texas Star Pkwy, Euless. 9a-3:30p. Tickets: www.prayhers.com 6th Annual Craft Fair, St Andrew Lutheran Church, 504 w. Bedford Euless Rd., Hurst. 9a-3p. Info: 817-282-3607.
Feeding The Needy, Host: Michael “Hollywood” Hernandez, 1641 Corsicana St, Dallas. 3-5p., Sundays.
Denton Blues Festival, Host Denton Black Chamber of Commerce, Quakertown Park 321 E. McKinney, Denton. Info: Dentonbluesfestival.org.
State Fair of Texas Fall 2019 SAT Math Prep, Cornerstone Baptist Church,1819 Martin Luther King, Jr. Blvd. 9a-12:30. Contact: ucrossroads16@gmail.com
The Kinsey African American Art & History Collection, A. A. M. 3536 Grand Ave. 9-21-19 - 3-1-20.
The 2019 Motivated Mom Retreat, Omni Mandalay Hotel, 221 E. Las Colinas Blvd. Eventbrite.com. 2p. - 1p.
In The Heights, Dee and Charles Wyly, 2400 Flora St. Times vary. Tickets: 214-522-8499. 9-21-2019 -10-29-2109.
The Emotionality of Success, Host: Dr. Stacia Alexander LPC-S Ft. Worth Business Assistance Center, 1150 South Freeway, 7:30-9a. www.staciaalexander.com
2nd Annual Converse & Cocktail Dress Soiree, Omni Mandalay Hotel, 221 E. Las Colinas Blvd. Las Colinas. 7-10p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com/MotivatedMom.
Single Black Female by: Lisa B. Thompson, Jubilee Theatre 506 Main St., Ft. Worth. Time vary. Tickets: jubileetheatre.org. 9-27-10-27-19.
September 18 School Backpack Awareness Day
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North Texas Health Fair & Caregiver Resource Expo, Grapevine Convention Center, 1209 S. Main St. 10a3p. Free tickets: Eventbrite.com.
Employer Conference and Veteran’s Job Fair, Host: GSBCC, Mountain View College 4849 W. Illinois Ave. 3:45-5p. Register: www.gswbcc.org.
Kenny G, Winspear Opera House, 2403 Flora St. 8p. www. attpac.org.
Frame for Frame Presents: The Soul Patrol Tour 2019, Arlington Music Hall, 224 N. Center St. 7p. Tickets: arlingtonmusichall.net.
Happy Hour Networking Mixer with Texas Central, Host: RBCA, The Henry, 2301 N. Akard St. #250. Reg: Eventbrite.com. The Principals Lunch & Learn, Dallas Police Department Community Affairs, 1400 S. Lamar 2fl. 11a-1p.
September 19-21 Strength Conference 2019, Tabernacle Worship Center, 1228 Newsome Rd., Mesquite. Noon Day & Night Services. Reg: www.strengthwc.com.
September 19 North Texas Giving Day
Sisters with Superpowers Awards Reception Honorees Tonya Stafford & Alicia T. Grinage, TBAAL 1309 Canton St., 6:30-9p. Eventbrite.com. IHCC North Texas Giving Day Info: IrvingHCC.com TRI-Cities NAACP Monthly Meeting, Museum of International Cultures, 411 E. Hwy 67, Duncanville. 7-8p. Business Women’s Empowerment Series-Teaching our Children in success business, Friendship-West Baptist Church 2020 Wheatland Rd. 6:30-9p.
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All White Roof Top Fling, Host: Miller Title/West & Associates, 320 S. R.L. Thornton Fwy. 7p-11p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com/all-white-everything-roof-top-fling. FWMBCC Annual Scholarship Luncheon & Fashion Show, Jazz Cleopatra, Sheraton Hotel, 1701 Commerce St. Ft. Worth. DBDT Presents: Dance Bound Ronald K. Brown/Evidence, Winspear Opera House, 2403 Flora St. 8p. Tickets: attpac.org.com.
DBWA 2019 Sparkler, Host: JL Turner Legal Association Paralegal Section, Chandlers Landing, Rockwall. 12-6p.
The Affirmation Summit, Host: I’sha Gaines, Lofty Spaces, 816 Montgomery St. 9a-2p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com. DFW Literary Soul Fest, The Dock Bookshop & Dock Community, 6637 Meadowbrook Dr. Ft. Worth. 1-5p. Info: thedockbookshop@gmail.com. Arlington Foundation for Excellence in Education 15th Anniversary, Speaker: Honorable Andrew Gillum, UTA 300 W. First St. 6p. Info: arlingtoneducation.org. 29th Annual Freedom Fund Brunch and Silent Auction, Hosted by NAACP Garland, Hyatt Place Garland, 5101 George Bush Hwy. 9am. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.
IHCC Hora De Poder, Irving Hispanic Chamber of Commerce 135 S. Jefferson St. 9-11a. IrvingHCC.com. 2019 Boss Women of the Year Summit, W Hotel, 2440 Victory Park Ln. 33rd.fl. 4p-8p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.
Nutrition, MLK, Jr. Community Center 2922-B MLK, Jr. Blvd. Info and Registration: 214-426-3645 or email: www. cscottforemostfhc.org Class #3.
September 24 Community Meeting District 3 Casey Thomas & Courtney Pogue Dir. Econ. Dev. Dept., Dallas Entrepreneur Ctr. Red Bird 3662 W. Camp Wisdom Rd. #2044. 6:308p. Info: Yolanda.miller@dallascityhall.com.
Lunch & Learn w/ Shaylon Scott “Financial Services for Social Good,” Frazier House 4600 Spring Ave. 11:30a-1p. Reg: zwhjcoc.org/classes.
September 25 1965 at age 59 “Satchel Page” Pitches 3 innings for the Kansas City A’s
IHCC Bus. Mixer, Westin Las Colinas Mesa Mezcal, 400 W. Las Colinas Blvd. 5:30-7p RSVP: IrvingHCC.com. Women In Business & Leadership, Host: Greater Southwest Chamber of Commerce, 3200 W. Pleasant Run Rd., #320 Lancaster. 9a-1:30p. ARM 30th Anniversary Celebration, Host: Golden Gate Baptist Church, W Hotel, 2440 Victory Park Ln. 12p. “Find Out What Frazier House Has to Offer”, Parkland Health. Frazier House, 4600 Spring Ave. 11a-2p. D’s Young Professional Event, Serendipity Lab, 2323 Ross Ave. 6-8p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.
September 26-29 Soul Rep Theatre SHINE PLAY FESTIVAL. South Dallas Cultural Center, 3400 S. Fitzhugh Ave. Times vary.
September 22
September 26
Shari Belafonte Harper Actress/Model DOB 1954
Natural Hair Product Swap, The Social Corner, 1818 W. Pioneer Pkwy., Arlington. 3:30-5:30p. Eventbrite.com.
1815 Black Troops honored for Battle of New Orleans
Arm Ministry’s 30th Anniv. Luncheon, Host: Pastor Vincent T. Parker, W Hotel, 2440 Victory Park Ln. Tickets: www.armdallas.org.
The Sisterhood Call to Unity Conference, Texas Star Golf Course & Conference Center, 1440 Texas Star Pkwy., Euless. 9a-3:30p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.
Edgefield Auto Sales Grand Opening, Host: Oak Cliff Chamber of Commerce, 2003 Edgefield Ave. 4:30-7p.
September 21
2019 State Fair Classic Prairie View vs. Grambling State Press Conference, City Hall Flag Room 11:00a.
2019 Boss Women of the Year Summit, W Hotel, 2440 Victory Park Ln. 33rd.fl. 4p-8p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.
Day of Dignity, Host: Masjid Al-Islam MLK, Jr. Community Center (Building A) 2929 MLK, Jr. Blvd. 10a.-2p. RSVP:
PRSA Dallas UnSummit, House of Blues, 2200 N Lamar St. 8a. Tickets: .prsadallas.com
Fall Begins
Power Breakfast Understanding the Power of Networking, KAI Enterprises, 101 Zang Blvd. #100. 7:30-9a. Tickets: Eventbrite.com/Powerbreakfast.
Dallas Alumni Kappa’s present Kasino Royale 2019, Hyatt Regency 300 Reunion Blvd. E. 8p-1a. mwest@pqc.edu.
September 20-23 Dallas Regional Prayer Encounter, The Ark Church, 701 E. Plano Pkwy., Plano. 7p. & 3p. 918-810-7711.
Ray Charles Composer/R&B Singer DOB 1933
Par-Tee On the Green, Westridge Golf Course 9055 N. Cotton Ridge Rd. McKinney. 8:30a-3p. Eventbrite.com.
September 20-22
Recurring Events
September 23
Bell Hooks, Writer/Activist DOB 1952
Overcoming Book Discussion, Host: Dr. Stacia Alexander On the Boarder, 4855 Beltline Rd. 3:30-6:30p.
An Evening with Former First Lady Michelle Obama, Winspear Opera House, 2403 Flora St. 7:30p. Tickets: attpac.org.
Frame for Frame Presents: Joe McBride and the Rhythm Club, Arlington Music Hall, 224 N. Center St. 7p. Tickets: arlingtonmusichall.net.
State Fair of Texas Ticket Explosion, Host “Hollywood Hernandez, Allure Jazz and Cigar Lounge, 110 S. Cockrell Hill Rd. 6-9p.
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