By Cheryl Smith PUBLISHER
To Text or Not to Text
Have you ever had serious regrets?
Wondered if you could just have another chance?
You have all the answers, don’t you?
After all, hindsight is 20-20 and oh what you would do if you had a chance for a do over.
Now some may ask why I didn't write this column a week or two ago, and that is a very good question.
My answer is, better late than never because hopefully you will get a chance for a do over as Father’s Day approaches.
Which brings me to my truth.
Sometimes I just really don’t have a good feeling about texting. Back in the day at Paul Quinn College I would tell my students that they couldn’t text me because I knew I would be editing their messages instead of paying attention to the message.
Then too, I told them there were special times they could text, but don’t waste time with messages telling me you’re going to be late for class, especially when you are already 15, 20, 30 minutes late.
Finally, identify who you are because you may not be locked into my phone so I don’t know who to respond to if I deem your text worthy of a response.
Now Father’s Day is approaching and we know that Dads don’t get the love that Moms do, but here’s something for you to consider with either parent.
1. First pick up the darned phone and call! - I know you are busy but just think about it. If you are fortunate enough to have a mother or father that you have deep love, affection and respect for; if you outlive them, one day you are going to long to hear that voice again! There are so many who wish they could have picked up a phone any day, and you have a parent to call and you send a darned text! Shame on you!
2. Have your signature if you do text! - You may say it is a display of love to friends but if they don’t have you locked in their phones, for whatever reason, like they have a new one, or lost their contacts; well it can be awkward! I wouldn’t want to respond “same to you” to someone who is saying “Happy Mother’s Day” to me, only to find out that the well-wisher was either a man, or worse, someone who wanted to have children and couldn’t!
3. No one is that busy! What comes around can go around, and I guarantee you that you won’t like the feeling if and when you're a parent!
Allen Mall Shooting Survivor Speaks About Journey to Recovery
By Ayesha Hana Shaji
What started out as a somewhat typical day for many turned into trauma for a Texas community. With weather reports of pleasantly warm and breezy with average highs in the mid 80s, thousands were out shopping at the Allen Premium Outlet Mall in Allen, Texas when mayhem erupted, on May 6.
Irvin Walker II dropped off his girlfriend at an entrance and was on his way to park when he heard bullets shatter his windshield, hitting him multiple times. Fortunately she was not injured during the attack that left several dead and injured.
“I didn’t see the shooter, I just felt the shots,” Walker said. “I was bleeding profusely.”
The Louisiana native said he
immediately got out of his car and started “running, then I started jogging and then I started walking fast as I knew the urgency of my situation.”
He ran to a security guard
Expo focuses on
The resounding messages of hope and healing are the central theme to the You Can Live Again Expo taking place Saturday, May 20th at Gilley’s Dallas located at 1135 Botham Jean Blvd., Dallas, TX, 75215. Doors open at 10 AM.
Actress and comedian Cocoa Brown is the event emcee.
The You Can Live Again Expo features nationally recognized guest speakers in the areas of sports, business, entertainment, health and wellness as well as musical performances and specialty vendor activation stations.
Hosted by award-winning philanthropist and You Can Live Again, L.L.C. Founder Kertrina Dauway, the expo was created to provide men and women from all walks of life and varied experiences a clear path to reclaiming their power and forging ahead beyond life’s difficulties and traumas.
“I know what it’s like to experience intense feelings of loneliness and hopelessness,” said Dauway. “It was my faith that helped me pull through those times, but I have also learned that different people need different coping mechanisms to not only survive but thrive. I
– Christian LaCour, who lost his life at the shooting while he bravely escorted visitors to safety – who asked him to have a seat.
Walker, an independent con-
tractor, reportedly was the first to get shot and was also the first to be taken to the hospital, Medical City McKinney.
and Healing
You Can Live Again Expo provides empowerment sessions conducted by different speakers who tap into very specific areas.”
Another highlight of the expo is the announcement and introduction of the 2023 You Can Live Again award recipients! The honorees will walk the Green Carpet at 12:30 pm just prior to the announcement.
created this platform so that no man or woman is left behind. If someone is experiencing mental or emotional struggles, we have experts to speak to that. If the issues are rooted in financial illiteracy, we have experts for that. So many times, people fall through the cracks, but the
“We are thrilled to recognize this amazing group of men and women who serve as inspiring examples in their communities of rising from despair to excelling in their respective fields and professions,” said Dauway. You Can Live Again Expo panel discussions include financial literacy and health and wellness presented by Baylor Hospital.
To purchase tickets, become a vendor or for more information, visit www.youcanliveagain.net.
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Medical City McKinney Chief Nursing Officer Cassidi Summers, Medical City Mckinney Trauma Director Dr. Elizabeth Kim, Victim Irvin Walker, Walker's attorney Daryl Washington and Janet St. James, assistant vice president of PR and Media Communications at Medical City Healthcare.
Meetup in The Alley Draws Fashionable Crowd
By Eva D. Coleman Lifestyle &
Editor
Nearly a hundred people gathered in The Alley at the Galleria Dallas on May 10, 2023 for an evening where the stakes were high… Fashion!
Fashion Group International (FGI) of Dallas bestowed “Rising Star” honors from among excited nominees during their 27th annual event. FGI Dallas Regional Director Nerissa Helpenstill greeted guests from the stage crafted in front of a few rows of many seated in white, folding chairs. Helpenstill proudly shared that FGI Dallas is the largest and most active chapter outside of New York City, to which the crowd cheered at being closely aligned with a long-running city that is synonymous with fashion.
With a 2023 theme of “Supernova,” five categories of local recognition were celebrated: Fashion Design, Fashion Styling, Beauty, Accessories and Retail.
Nominees enjoyed drinks and light bites as they interacted
with the crowd of family, supporters and friends.
Event co-chairs were famed celebrity designer Venny Etienne of Project Runway and personal stylist Roxanne Carne. Before the event started, Etienne shared with Texas Metro News how fashion unites us in a time when we’re so divided.
“Fashion is a form of art,” he said. “In the midst of all the noise, it's what brings everyone together. There’s no division when it comes to art. It’s all about perspective and viewpoints.”
“When you appreciate the time that an artist puts into their craft, you see beyond what your opinion is,” Etienne added.
“With art, it’s a safe space. It’s a place where people can just express themselves and show their art that humanity really needs.”
During the awards presentation, winners from 2022 came to the stage to introduce nominees who were featured by video, followed by a live announcement of the 2023 recipient.
Fashion Styling category win-
ner Dexter James was humbled yet inspired by his win. He shared with the audience about being conflicted with pursuing his art or going back to a 9 to 5 job. He expressed his motivation to continue with the honor he received.
During the networking portion of the event, Fashion Design category winner Munisa Khur-
for women and the celebration of life and looking good in her acceptance speech as well.
Many fashion notables were in attendance during the event, including celebrity costume and wardrobe designer Shawn D. Florence. Florence has worked with Elton John, Madonna, Chloe Bailey, Lil Nas X, Lizzo and many others.
Fashion Group International of Dallas Celebrates Rising Stars
amova shared with Texas Metro News her love of bold colors and how being bullied as a child led her to boldness in fashion.
“Fashion became the armor for my confidence and armor from bullies,” Khuramova said. “Later on it became the armor for my empowerment, so I really want women to feel empowered and carry that light around them and magnify it and never let it be smaller.”
She shared her goal and dream
“Fashion is the great unifier,” Florence said. “Art is something that brings us all together. When we put on fashion, we’re displaying ourselves as a work of art or expressing ourselves through style, and it always is fun; it’s always a great opportunity for us to come together and unify on that one thing that we all love, and that’s ‘Fashion.’”
Fairly new Dallas transplant and lifestyle influencer from D.C., Dr. Keith Harley, serves on
the FGI Dallas board of directors leading membership, and presented an award as well.
Congratulations to all winners of the FGI Dallas Rising Star Awards:
Beauty
About Face Pros
Tina Adams-Mason
Retail MKT Stores
Stephen Swetish
Fashion Styling
Dexter James
Accessories
Elizabeth Hooper
Elizabeth Hooper Studio Fashion Design
Munelle De Vie
Munisa Khuramova
While the Rising Star Awards recognizes the best in local fashion design, accessories, beauty, retail, fashion styling, home and interior design, and fashion tech and innovation, FGI Dallas’ signature event, Night of Stars Gala, was announced to take place on November 10, 2023 at the Thompson Hotel in Dallas.
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FGI Dallas Rising Star nominees and winners pose for group photo
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Celebrity Costume and Wardrobe Designer Shawn D. Florence with Dr. Keith Harley during FGI Dallas Rising Star Awards event
FGI Dallas PR chair Leah Frazier poses with Celebrity Costume and Wardrobe Designer Shawn D. Florence during FGI Dallas Rising Star Awards event 2
FGI Dallas Rising Star Fashion Design winner Munisa Khuramova of Munelle De Vie poses with designs
Celebrity Designer Venny Etienne talks with FGI Dallas Rising Star Fashion Design winner Munisa Khuramova
Event co-chairs Venny Etienne and Roxanne Carne address crowd
Culture
LaToya K. Porter Completes Nine Month Leadership Program
LaToya K. Porter, Project Manager at JBJ Management has successfully completed the LGBT Chamber of Commerce Foundation nine-month LGBT Leadership Institute.
“JBJ Management is committed to supporting the leaders in our company as we work to deliver creative strategies to our clients who connect people and transform communities,” said Willis Johnson, CEO of JBJ Management. “LaToya makes JBJ better and we are extremely proud of her accomplishment. As a member of the 2023 LGBT Leadership Institute class, she represents our company and our commitment to diversity, equity and inclusion and her
passion for leading others by example and with dignity and respect is unparalleled.”
Members of the LGBT Leadership Institute participate in a nine-month program that provides valuable skills and knowledge, along with an historical view of the LGBTQ+ equality movement and community. Graduates of the program have completed more than 50 hours of course instruction each on a variety of topics with an emphasis on the impact by, or on, the LGBTQ+ community.
“The goal of the LGBT Leadership Institute is to fill the generational information gap that exists within and regarding the LGBTQ+ community”, said Lisa Howe who
manages the Leadership Institute program and serves as Vice President of Membership & Programs for the North Texas
LGBT Chamber of Commerce. “Although there are a number of quality leadership programs in North Texas, none of them address topics specific to and the contributions made by the LGBTQ+ community”.
The LGBT Leadership Institute provides a safe and nurturing environment for a diverse cohort of individuals to develop skills and explore the critical issues facing the LGBTQ+ community. Whether one identifies as LGBTQ or an Ally, graduates of the LGBT Leadership Institute can be confident in their ability to represent and articulate the issues facing LGBTQ+ community.”
LaToya is a current participant in En-
gage Dallas. She is also a member of the Texas Young Professionals. She served as the Advocacy Chair for the Park South YMCA for several years, where she is still a member. In addition, she is the 2021 recipient of the Sam Winstead Volunteer of the Year award. She was a member of the D Magazine Young Leaders Network. In 2017, she was selected as a Millennial to Watch by Go to Know media. LaToya has volunteered with the North Texas LGBT Chamber of Commerce, the Special Olympics, the Dallas Police Athletic League, and many other organizations. LaToya enjoys reading, creating artistic pieces, and doing crossword puzzles.
Texas Democratic Party Congratulates Colin Allred for Announcing His Candidacy to Defeat Ted Cruz
AUSTIN, Texas -- Texas Democratic Party Chairman Gilberto Hinojosa has released the following statement congratulating Congressman Colin Allred after his announcement that he is running for the Democratic nomination in the U.S. Senate race against Ted Cruz:
“I want to congratulate Congressman Colin Allred for announcing his candidacy for the Texas Democratic Senate nomination. Colin’s a true fighter and an outstanding Texan, and I wish him the best of luck in what is sure to be a spirited and constructive primary.
“The 2024 election cycle will be a great opportunity for Texas Democrats to flip a seat in the United States Senate and send a real fighter for Texas families to Washington DC. Senator Ted Cruz has proven that he does not have the best interests of everyday Texans at heart – his spinelessness, lack of leadership, and cowering to special interest groups and rich donors have time and time again failed the working families of our state.
“Texans deserve a real leader as their Senator: someone who will actually address the most critical issues that our state is facing, instead of just sitting in a studio to record a
podcast three times a week about whatever the BS culture war of the day is. Someone who will fight to end gun violence in Texas. Someone who will work in Washington to create American jobs and economic growth in Texas and fix our state’s crumbling infrastructure. Someone who will work day-in and day-out to ensure all Texans are able to
access quality healthcare and education.
“Throughout his time in Congress, Colin has proven himself to be a remarkable leader –bringing huge victories home from Washington not just to his constituents in North Texas, but across the entire state. Though we at the Texas Democratic Party remain impartial in primaries, were Colin to earn the Democratic
nomination, I have no doubt that he’d be fully capable of sending Ted Cruz packing to Cancun and fill his Senate seat with a Senator who’ll actually be able to deliver results for Texas.
“I also implore Texas Democrats to engage in the now-launched primary election campaign for Ted Cruz’s seat. From going to hear our candidates speak, to taking the time
to learn about their policy positions, it’s critical that as many of us as possible participate in the process so that we can ensure we choose nominees – up and down the ballot – who best represent our diverse, growing, strengthening Texas Democratic Party.
“I’d like to again congratulate Colin and, with that, let’s go turn Texas blue!”
2023's Problem Drug Areas
With National Prevention Week in full swing and the number of annual drug overdose deaths in the U.S. reaching more than 103,500, the personal-finance website WalletHub has released its report on the States with the Biggest Drug Problems, as well as expert commentary, to highlight the areas that stand to be most affected.
This study compares the 50 states and the District in terms
of 20 key metrics, ranging from arrest and overdose rates to opioid prescriptions and employee drug testing laws. You can find some highlights below.
Drug Abuse & Prevention in Texas (1=Biggest Problem; 25=Avg.):
• 51st – Share of Teenagers Who Used Illicit Drugs in the Past Month
• 51st – Share of Adults Who
Used Illicit Drugs in the Past Month
• 36th – Opioid Pain Reliever Prescriptions per 100 People
• 48th – Drug Overdose Deaths per Capita
• 31st – Drug Arrests per Capita
• 50th – Share of Adults Who Couldn’t Get Treatment for Illicit Drug Use in the Past Year
• 5th – Substance Abuse Treatment Facilities per 100,000 People (Age 12+) Using Illicit Drugs
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Ted Cruz ditching actual work duties in favor of recording an episode of his thrice-weekly podcast. He’s seen here with one of the hosts of his podcast, Michael Knowles, who said that “transgenderism must be eradicated from public life entirely” during a March 2023 CPAC speech.
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Ted Cruz at Cancún International Airport while attempting to flee Texas during Winter Storm Uri in February 2021. Hundreds of his constituents died during the storm. Photo: Reuters
Please Don’t Forget James Byrd!
By Vincent L. Hall
“The past is never dead. It’s not even past!”
– William Faulkner
James Byrd. Jasper Texas. June 7, 1998.
Wikipedia lends an ample synopsis of the crime by three avowed racists and suspected members of the Ku Klux Klan.
“On June 7, 1998, Byrd, age 49, accepted a ride from Shawn Berry (age 23), Lawrence Brewer (age 31), and John King (age 23). Berry, who was driving, was acquainted with Byrd from around town. Instead of taking Byrd home, the three men took Byrd to a remote county road out of town, beat him severely, spray-painted his face, urinated, and defecated on him, and chained him by his ankles to their pickup truck before dragging him for about three miles on Huff Creek Road.
Brewer later claimed that Byrd's throat had been slashed by Berry before he was
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dragged. However, forensic evidence suggests that Byrd had been attempting to keep his head up while being dragged, and an autopsy suggested that Byrd was alive during much of the dragging.
Byrd died about halfway along the route of his dragging when his right arm and head were severed as his body hit a culvert. While almost all of Byrd's ribs were fractured, his brain and skull were found intact, further suggesting that he maintained consciousness while he was being dragged.
Berry, Brewer, and King dumped the mutilated remains of Byrd's body in front of an African American cemetery on Huff Creek Road, then drove off to a barbecue. A motorist found Byrd's decapitated remains the following morning.”
What is it about hanging or mutilating Black folks that make these racists so hungry.
Crowds used to throw picnic, after lynchings and James Byrd’s murderers left him to eat barbeque. Anyway…
I was sitting in the choir stand at church last week when William Faulkner's quote was read. The past is never the
past! I immediately went to my modern-day encyclopedia, which most of you know as Google. I aimed to see what else Faulkner was known for. Although he won the Nobel Peace Prize for his works like “Absalom, Absalom” and “The
Faulkner’s quote made me think he may have been down with the brothers at first. But after further research, the truth revealed that he was just a slightly more intelligent Southern Cracker than most.
W.E.B. Dubois offered to debate him on the court steps where Emmitt Till’s murderers had been acquitted.
James Baldwin excoriated him roundly for his racist rants. Who am I to argue with them?
So, I had to go to the one sophist and social thinker that never fails us. Google…Get me
Richard Pryor, 1976, Bicentennial Nigger!
medic effusiveness and enlightening honesty as he could muster. "Y'all mighta forgot it, but we ain’t never gonna forget it.”
Sadly, we have forgotten.
The waters of disrespect, disregard, and disdain haven't receded for Africans in America who were bound on slave ships and brought here before the Mayflower. Even when President Barack Hussein Obama rode into office on a tide of hope, he soon learned he had to tread the waves of racial hatred lightly.
CREDO OF THE BLACK PRESS
The Black Press believes that America can best lead the world away from racial and national antagonisms when it accords to every person, regardless of race, color or creed, full human and legal rights. Hating no person, fearing no person, the Black Press strives to help every person in the firm belief that all are hurt as long as anyone is held back.
Sound and the Fury.” The very next line of the global encyclopedia forced me to take the famous Mississippian out of my syllabi of sound reasoning.
“He (Faulkner) did not believe in the equality of black people, and during the school desegregation battles, he sided with those who would prevent blacks from gaining access to "White Only" schools. He knew black people as servers and laborers but not as equals.”
Richard Pryor’s epilogue in his classic 1976 standup held a one sentence sentiment that summarizes being Woke and Black in America. After opining hilariously on subjects from slavery to Civil rights, Pryor delivered a crushing blow. Pryor made light of everything from the slave master's whip to the constancy of police brutality in the black community through America's 200th birthday.
Without warning, the laughter and the lighting faded to black. Richard Pryor muttered these words with as much co-
Ross Byrd, the only son of James Byrd Jr., campaigned to ban capital punishment and thereby spare the lives of those who murdered his father. But on Wednesday, April 24, 2019, John William King, 44, was executed. Lawrence Brewer was executed I 2011, and Shawn Berry is serving a life sentence. Ironically, Faulkner was right in one sense. For Black people in these yet-to-be United States, the past is never the past. But in the spirit and wisdom of Richard Pryor, I ain’t never gonna forget it. Unfortunately, this nation won’t let me.
THE AUSTIN REPORT
S.B. 840: Addressing Violence Against Healthcare Workers
Senator West's S.B. 840, also known as the Jacqueline "Jackie" Pokuaa and Katie "Annette" Flowers Act, stands as a crucial legislative response to the escalating violence against healthcare workers. The bill recognizes the urgent need to protect those who dedicate their lives to caring for others. By amending the Penal Code, S.B. 840 significantly elevates the criminal penalty for assault causing bodily injury when committed against hospital personnel. This change, from a Class A misdemeanor to a third-degree felony, sends a powerful message that such acts of violence will not be tolerated. Under
the bill's provisions, hospital personnel encompass a wide range of healthcare professionals and staff members, ensuring comprehensive protection across different roles within the healthcare setting. By holding perpetrators accountable and
imposing stricter penalties, S.B. 840 aims to create a safer environment for healthcare workers and prevent further instances of violence. S.B. 840 has passed in both the House and the Senate and is on to the Governor's desk for his signature or veto.
Moving Beyond Condolences
In the wake of yet another devastating mass shooting, we find ourselves caught in a cycle of heartbreak and despair.
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Senator West, along with Uvalde families, addresses the public, calling for urgent action following the tragic mass shooting in Allen, TX.
ZOOMing with SD23 ISD athletic directors, and basketball and football coaches. Making sure they are aware of DEI and NIL legislation so that their students are aware.
Realize that Faith without Works...
because it happens so often.
I’m tired of once again the onslaught of only thoughts and prayers.
By Dr. Froswa' Booker-Drew
Last week, I was out of town when I received the alerts about the Allen mass shooting. As I scrolled through Twitter, I was horrified of the raw footage of the murder scene. My heart ached and as I fought back tears, I found myself experiencing an array of emotions. I was angry. I was sad. I was disappointed. I was fearful. It was a rollercoaster ride of feelings. I’m heartbroken for the loss of life, for the pain and suffering of these families. I’m angry that so many people who were there are dealing with trauma because of the experience that will be with them for the rest of their lives.
I’m sick of this becoming common and I’m tired of a society that is becoming so desensitized
I’m tired of families losing their loved ones to random acts of violence and those who witness these atrocities dealing with injuries and memories for the rest of their lives.
I’m tired of people who have no value for human life who choose to deal with their insecurities, racism, hatred, and unresolved pain by murdering innocent people.
I’m tired of politicians sending condolences who choose to do absolutely nothing but offer lip service. They pander for votes but chose to hand off the significant issues to the next generation to address.
I’m tired of people who don’t vote and do not see the correlation between their everyday lives and these folks who make decisions.
I’m tired of people who do vote but only focus on single issues, who do not pay attention
to how those they elect are impacting other facets of their lives or that only care about how it impacts them and no one else because they aren’t affected.
I’m tired of children and adults losing their lives, of families grieving because of the unexpected loss of life taken senselessly.
I’m tired that there is no safe place. Churches, Synagogues, Malls, Grocery Stores, Schools, Public Places and the list goes on and on and on…
I’m tired that people will live in fear and isolating themselves from enjoying the freedom we are supposed to have in this country.
I’m tired of the divisiveness and rhetoric that creates a ‘us versus them’ dynamic, not recognizing that when one suffers, we all pay the price either directly or indirectly. We all are connected.
I’m tired of the passion to protect unborn babies but when they get here, we don’t want to make sure they thrive through-
out their lives.
I’m tired of mental health being blamed when there are hundreds of thousands of people with mental health issues who do not make decisions to harm others instead of recognizing that we have created a culture that does not value human life. We feast on a diet of destruction and viciousness.
I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired. And you should be, too.
I would be foolish to believe that there is only one problem and one solution. It’s multifaceted. Just as mental health is an issue, it’s not the only issue. Just as guns are an issue, it’s not the only issue. We have got to be willing to address root causes and not just symptoms. Otherwise, we will continue to place a band-aid on a rapidly growing tumor.
As a woman of faith, I believe in prayers. I know they work but I am also one who understands that without action, nothing happens.
James 2:14-18 is a reminder to all of us:
“What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him? If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, and one of you says to them, “Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,” but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit? Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead. But someone will say, “You have faith, and I have works.” Show me your faith without your works, and I will show you my faith by my works.”
America,
let’s see your faith AND your works…
Dr. Froswa’ Booker-Drew is the President of Soulstice Consultancy, LLC and the Founder of the Reconciliation and Restoration (r2fdn.org) Foundation. The author of 4 books including Empowering Charity: A New Narrative of Philanthropy, Dr. Booker-Drew is also the host of the Tapestry Podcast.
Message from the Dallas Mayor
“This is absolutely the perfect place.”
That is how one prominent Dallas developer described this city in a recent interview.
Ms. Billingsley is right. Dallas has a palpable momentum that I call “Big Dallas Energy.” And people and organizations across America have taken notice.
Bloomberg reported that Dallas has emerged as the “latest outpost of the Wall Street diaspora,” citing the investments of financial industry giants such as Goldman Sachs in Dallas. And this week, numbers revealed by Penske Truck Rental confirm Dallas is ranked No. 7 on the list of the top moving destinations in the country in 2022.
Dallas’ international partners are also drawn to this city’s undeniable energy. Soon, the European American Chamber of Commerce Texas will open an office in the Dallas International District, where the French-American Chamber of Commerce opened the Trade Office of France less than six months ago. This area in North Dallas is on its way to becoming a hub for international businesses and retailers.
Dallas is truly the place to be and remains well-positioned to win the future.
Never forget
It was a privilege to deliver remarks at the 2023 Dallas Police Memorial. This ceremony is held each year to recognize the law enforcement officers who died in the line of duty while serving the Dallas Police Department.
On this solemn occasion, we paid tribute to one hero in particular who died in the aftermath of his choice to selflessly guard and protect Dallas. In 1972, Sergeant Claude Standridge and his partner stopped a car that had been involved in two hit and runs. The driver, who was a wanted criminal in Oklahoma, shot Sergeant Standridge three times in the abdomen, neck, and face. Following this senseless shooting, Sergeant Standridge struggled with his injuries for 26 years before
he died in 1998.
We honor Sergeant Standridge for his sacrifice — the ultimate sacrifice for which this city will never be able to repay him or his loved ones.
May God bless all of the brave men and women of the Dallas Police Department.
A devastating tragedy
May God also bless the victims of yesterday’s horrific shooting at Allen Premium Out-
lets and their loved ones.
I have been in communication with Allen Mayor Ken Fulk to offer Dallas’ full support, and Dallas Police Department commanders are in contact with Allen Police Chief Brian Harvey. Out of respect for the victims of this terrible tragedy, I directed the Dallas city manager to lower all City of Dallas flags throughout the city to half staff today through May 11, 2023.
A new chapter
It is a true honor to continue serving as the 60th mayor of Dallas. Despite an array of significant challenges faced by this city since 2019 — including a global pandemic, tornadoes, devastating winter storms, a nationwide surge in violent crime, and civil unrest — Dallas is safer, stronger, and more vibrant today.
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By Mayor Eric Johnson
Know Your Lemons to Detect Breast Cancer
As we approach Women’s Health Month in May, Parkland Health is raising breast cancer awareness and education. Breast cancer in women is the most common cancer diagnosed in the United States. The cancer cells begin in the ducts and then grow outside the ducts into other parts of the breast tissue. Regular self-exams and mammograms that can find lumps before they can be felt help with the early detection of breast cancer.
Knowing the 12 high-risk signs of breast cancer comes with the territory of ‘knowing your lemons’ which is the im-
petus behind the Know Your Lemons Campaign. This initiative was created by the Know Your Lemons Foundation, a non-profit that supports breast health education that is utilized by the Parkland Breast Health team. Cancer is a scary topic that is often avoided. However, the campaign is based on the idea of sharing visual explanations to further explain the important health message that resonates with all sorts of people with different cultural backgrounds and literacy levels. The imagery uses bruised and bumpy lemons meant to reflect changes to look for in and around breasts.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Pre-
vention (CDC), prolonged delays in screening related to the
COVID-19 pandemic may lead to delayed diagnoses, poor health consequences and an increase in cancer disparities among women already experiencing health inequities. Parkland’s mobile mammography services aim to bring needed screenings and care to the community. The purple mobile mammography unit travels throughout Dallas County, visiting each of Parkland’s community clinics. On some Saturdays, it also visits local health fairs, churches and community events. Check Parkland’s community calendar for events near you.
It's Okay to Not Be Okay BEFASTT – Know the Stroke Signs
Strokes are often called “brain attacks” because they affect the blood vessels in our neck or brain. By learning and sharing the BEFASTT warning signs, you just might save a life from a stroke.
Call 911 if these signs are present:
Balance
• Do they have a sudden loss of balance?
Eyes
• Do they have a sudden loss of vision in one or both eyes?
Face
Have you ever thought about what could be going on inside the minds of those around you? Maybe you quietly questioned why someone aggressively honked at you on the road or why a normally positive coworker snapped at you out of the blue as if you did something to offend them. Mental illness can affect anyone at any time and may look different for everyone.
May is Mental Health Awareness
Month and the staff at Parkland Health is here to remind you that it is okay to not be okay. Mental illnesses or behavioral health disorders are common in the United States. It is estimated that more than one in five U.S. adults lives with a mental illness. Behavioral health disorders include psychotic disorders like schizophre-
nia, mood disorders like depression and bipolar disorder, personality disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), substance use, anxiety and eating disorders, among others.
Don’t be afraid of talking to a healthcare professional. Counseling and therapy are helpful tools for managing health. Ask your primary care provider to refer you to one of Parkland’s behavioral health services at our community health centers. Visit www.accessparkland.org for more information.
If you or a loved one struggles with behavioral health disorders, ask your primary care provider to refer you to our behavioral health team. If you or someone you know is in crisis, help is available 24/7. Simply call or text 988.
• When they smile, does one side of their face droop? Ask the person to smile. Is their smile uneven?
Arm Drift
• When they raise both arms, does one arm drift downward? Ask the person if one arm is weak or numb.
Slurred Speech
• When they say a sentence, are any of the words slurred?
Terrible Headache
• Do they have a sudden, severe headache?
Time is Key
• If a person shows any of these stroke symp -
toms, get help immediately by calling 911.
Other stroke symptoms include numbness or weakness of the face, arm or leg especially on one side of the body. Confusion may settle in if someone having a stroke has trouble speaking or understanding others. They may also have trouble seeing or walking.
Whether you are a stroke survivor or a family member, joining a
support group helps with the emotional changes. You will have opportunities to learn, listen and socialize with others. On the third Thursday of every month from 1-2 p.m. at Parkland Memorial Hospital in the private dining room in the back of the cafeteria, medical providers host meetings about different topics such as sleep changes, reducing risk factors, pain and the impact stroke has on loved ones.
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Call issued to Support Black Businesses
Haynes: "Buy Black"
By Cheryl Smith Texas Metro News
When Dr. Frederick D. Haynes III, of Friendship-West Baptist Church, announced 100 Days of Buying Black in acknowledging the 100th Commemoration of the Tulsa Race Massacre, we joined the movement. December 31, 2021 marked 100 days of featuring Black Businesses. and we decided that the struggle continues and we must also. So enjoy reading about more Black-owned businesses and please support.
EAT BLACK OWNED
Eat Black Owned is the Internet's only directory for BlackOwned Restaurants in every Country.
Edward L Dillard the owner of Eat Black Owned shares this statistic “93 cents of every dollar spent by Black consumers produces no economic benefit for the Black community, as the dollar only circulates in the community for 6 hours.” Dillard believes that one of the easiest ways to change this is by supporting Blackowned restaurants. “If people have a place where they can find all the minority-owned restaurants in this country, more of us will start to support these small businesses.” Eat Black Owned restaurant locator site features over 4000+ Black-owned cafes, diners, and restaurants around the world. Now it's easy to find soul food, vegan, BBQ, seafood, Caribbean, and African eateries in any country. Learn more about Eat Black Owned visit the website https://eatblackowned. com/
FLUELLEN CUPCAKES
Fluellen Cupcakes is a bakery brought to you by Keith Fluellen. Keith has been the owner of Dimples Cupcake Factory in Frisco, since May 2011, and has had tremendous success. Fluellen Cupcakes uses only the finest quality ingredients and bakes each cupcake fresh daily in the heart of downtown Dallas. The downtown Elm Street location made its debut in July 2013, and Stonebriar Centre Frisco followed in November 2014. The cupcakes are bigger and better than your everyday cupcakes. Ordering online and catering are available. Downtown, 1408 Elm St. 469248-0856, open Mon-Thu 11 am-9 pm, Fri & Sat 11 am-10 pm, and Sunday 11 am-9 pm.
CHEF CASSY
Catering by Chef Cassy, creating traditional southern dishes with a modern twist. Cassy Jones Fried Collard Greens are famously sought after by those who attend the State Fair of Texas. She has made appearances on Guy's Grocery Games and Carnival Eats. Cassy made her debut on A&E in 2022 as a cast member of the new reality TV show, Deep Fried Dynasty. She has amazing food choices and dinner options. If you’re looking for someone to cater your next event check Chef Cassy out. https://chefcassy.com/
TLC VEGAN CAFÉ
Chef-driven TLC Vegan Cafe aka “Tastes Like Chicken” is Chef Troy Gardner’s newest culinary venture & commitment to creating “a better world, one vegan dish at a time.” TLC Vegan Kitchen began as the Dallas area’s first and finest delivery & curbside pick-up craft vegan kitchen, now with a dine-in version in Richardson called, TLC Vegan Cafe. The menu radiates excellence with varying flavors of savory & sweet varieties. Popular favorites include Chef Troy’s famous chicken fried oyster mushrooms, house-made sauces, mouthwatering buttercream cake, nationally renowned banana foster pudding, and his award-winning Texas chili. Order for delivery or curbside pickup. https://www.tlcvegankitchen.com/ 469-5624001, 1930 N. Coit Rd. Richardson.
ENDA’S BOOKTIQUE
Enda’s BOOKtique is a Black-owned, womanowned, independent retail bookseller of hardback, paperback books, and digital books, as well as educational products, and merchandise by CEO E. Jean. The bookstore is in Duncanville, near the historical Duncanville Downtown area. They offer a variety of books written for women, about women, and by women. They also offer books for youth, children, and families. Enda's BOOKtique has space for book signings, special events, lectures, as well as study sessions for college and graduate students. Visit them online or give them a call. https://endasbooktique. com/ 972-460-6364
ROBERT'S READY TO WEAR
Robert's Ready to Wear is a men’s clothing store to fit your lifestyle founded in 1960 by Samuel Washington Sr, who worked until his passing in January 2017. You will find
them in Sunny South Dallas off Martin Luther King Blvd. Yes, they are a Black-owned and family-run business whose faith and resilience have kept them open for over 60 years. Customers were greeted with hospitality and respect. It’s a one-stop shop for men.
Visit them at 1706 Martin Luther King, Jr. Blvd. 214421-0624. https://robertsrtw.shop/
RITZY MANOR
Ritzy Manor produces hand-poured soy-blended candles to enhance all areas of your home. Style your home in fragrance with hand-frosted jars and textile-grade cotton wicks designed to promote clean burning.
Ritzy Manor candles are made with non-toxic fragrance oils free from carcinogens and reproductive toxins, for the enjoyment of making your home Ritzy! Ritzy Manor creates all these things by providing you with products that create a place you will love to call home. Shop online at https:// www.ritzymanordecor.com/
MOB LUXURY BROW LOUNGE
M O B Luxury Brow Lounge is tucked away in the center of Dallas. With a passion and love for eyebrows, Monica Sperling has gained recognition as one of Dallas’s most renowned eyebrow artists. The M O B Lux Brow Specialist has established a unique and chic approach to the eyebrow game, and you won’t go wrong when you book with Monica. You can book your appointment online, at https://www.monicaobeauty. com/ or stop by M O B Lux Brow, 9850 N. 75 Suite 101, open Tue-Thu 8 am-4 pm and Sat 8 am-4 pm.
KONJO BEAUTY
Business Spotlight:
Replace with this text: Konjo Beauty is an allnatural African-inspired beauty product. "Konjo" means "beautiful" in the native language of Ethiopia, the Konjo products are plantbased, cruelty-free and made to bring out your natural beauty while making you feel comfortable and beautiful in your own skin. Konjo shares the many cultures of Africa with the world through the ingredients of their products. They have a variety of products for every skin type. Konjo Beauty products are made with naturally occurring, organic ingredients that are healthy for the skin. www.konjobeauty.com
GRATUS CANDLES
Gratus Candles is a family owned and operated soy candle company out of McKinney, Texas. Gratus Candles wants to be that simple daily reminder to be grateful
for the things, people and moments in life. Gratus Candles are made from soy and burn cleaner and burn up to 30-50% longer. Gratus Candles also do not produce any toxins, carcinogens, are hypoallergenic and are sootfree. Visit the website: https://www.gratuscandles.com/
BREAK THE MOLDZ
Break The MOLDZ
Create and Sip opened in Downtown Dallas's oldest neighborhood. Break The MOLDZ is a fun and creative arts and crafts company that specializes in bringing the joy of creating something with your own hands. With over 20 years of experience in arts and crafts, they will provide you with the perfect materials, tools, instruction, and inspiration for all your projects. They have group classes, independent shopping, and private and corporate events at the shop. Check them out. https://www.breakmoldz.com/ 1114 S. Akard St. Dallas, (682) 51MOLDZ
PRESSED ROOTS
Pressed Roots is a haven for your hair. Like a love letter to every texture. No Matter if your hair is 4C, 3A, fine loops, tight curls, they are all about it. They learn, nourish, and press your tresses to perfection, in a thoughtfully cultivated space where you can truly relax and reconnect, because caring for our hair is a beautiful thing. The Founder of Pressed Roots is Piersten Gaines, and she says, “Hair is an important part of our culture – a part of our roots. It’s not simply about the aesthetic, it’s a ritual. While the journey to healthy hair is unique to each person’s hair texture, it shouldn’t have to be difficult, or inconvenient. On the contrary, it should be enjoyable.” Pressed Roots is the solution with locations in Arlington, Dallas and Plano. Book your appointment today.
https://pressedroots.com/
V12 YOGA
Ade Hazley is the founder of Rock Star Fitness Camps and co-founder of V12 yoga. V12 Yoga classes provide a yoga flow that builds energy using the power of vinyasa flow. They also offer restorative, deep stretch, high-intensity FIT classes, and meditation. With a mixture of ancient practice and modern everyday living, V12 yoga teachers teach you to connect with your inner power self. Their location brings yoga to Downtown Dallas and creates the experience that is missing in the heart of the Farmers Market district. It’s organic, urban, and natural.
Check them out in person at 600 S Harwood on the 2nd floor, 214-741-9642. https://v12yoga.com/
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Dr. Frederick D. Haynes III
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! May
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Tonya and Rick James 34 years
Roosevelt and Melissa Skerrit 10 years
Pastor Billy and Renee Adkison 30 years
Nadia and Lamonte Parks 1 year
Shanneca and Gerald Weatherall 4 years
Mr. and Mrs. Darryl Curtis 41 years
Ardayrell and Teika Dottery 15 Years
Deano and Coronda Orr 4 years
Keith and Tomeka Herod 23 years
Michael and Kenya Landers 13 years
Allen Mall Shooting
He was brought to the hospital within 14 minutes of the initial reports, said Janet St. James, Assistant Vice President of PR and Media Communications at Medical City Healthcare.
On that day, Mauricio Garcia’s senseless act of violence was registered as the second-deadliest mass shooting in the US this year.
On Tuesday, May 16, Medical City McKinney addressed media to provide an update on the hospital's response to the tragic shooting. Trauma Director Dr. Elizabeth Kim, Chief Nursing Officer Cassidi Summers, Walker and Walker's attorney, Daryl Washington were all present.
Dr. Kim detailed Walker's injuries, explaining the extent of the bullet fragments and the potential risks they posed.
“He had multiple bullet fragments, you know, on around his head, his neck, his chest, his arm,” she said. “There were several bullet fragments that we were extremely worried about… some of those bullet tracks were so extensive and we had to open them up and clean everything out underneath.”
But Dr. Kim said he still had a smile and that was one of the bright parts of that day.
“You were calm and you were an inspiration for me,” she said to Walker.
Walker expressed gratitude for the support and expertise of the medical professionals at Medical City McKinney, acknowledging their love and dedication in treating him.
Despite the difficult circumstances, Walker's faith and the prayers of people from across the country and beyond provided him with strength and hope. He thanked the hospital administration, his family, his faith, his friends and his Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity brothers for their unwavering support.
“I’ve nothing to say about the shooting or the shooter…evil is not gonna win,” he said. “The power of God just showed brightly and gave me the opportunity to fight through this process.”
Civil Rights Attorney Darryl Washington appeared on the Black Star Network with journalist Roland Martin, at a press conference along with Walker’s daughter and.again at a community vigil for
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the victims. At every occasion, Walker's concern for the other victims was expressed.
Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. released a statement on Monday, May 10, mourning the lives lost in the shooting and offering condolences to the families of the victims.
“The Fraternity is outraged and condemns the acts of the alleged mass shooter, Mauricio Garcia, who was found to have Neo-Nazi ideation and killed eight people, including three children,” the statement read. “We also pray for the speedy recovery of its seven victims, including Brother Walker, a Spring 1997 Delta Sigma initiate at Grambling State University and member of the General Organization.”
Several of his fraternity brothers from the area were also in attendance on Tuesday. It was Jayson Johnson, another Spring 1997 Delta Sigma initiate who, along with others, started a Gofundme account to help defray the enormous costs associated with multiple surgeries, rehabilitation, loss of work, etc.
Johnson wrote on the page that has garnered close to six figures since May 8, “First, I am asking that everyone keep Irvin and all the victims in your prayers. Second, if you find it in your heart, please donate to help cover Irvin’s medical and personal expenses as he fights to get back on his feet.”
Donations can be made to: https:// www.gofundme.com/f/help-neededfor-irvin-walker
SINCE 1992, THE BIG TEX SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAM HAS AWARDED SCHOLARSHIPS TO MORE THAN 3,000 STUDENTS FOR A PROGRAM TOTAL OF MORE THAN $16.1 MILLION.
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YOUNG WOMEN'S LEADERSHIP SCHOOL :
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Vivianne Valdes Pereira
Ashley Vazquez
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You Got to Have Some Skin in the Game Big Mama Said:
By Terry Allen
“Big Mama's” Playbook was always deeply rooted in biblical structure and presence. Yet it was also immersed in the colloquial norms of our culture with informal everyday language that she used was steeped in her multi-cultured experience of being African, African American and Native American. She was BIPOC!
Now remember that colloquial culture is similar to slang. It is shorthand used to express ideas, people, and things that are frequently discussed between members of a group. Unlike slang, it is often developed deliberately. Skin in the game had two meanings for Big Mama.
dia company; founder of various nonprofits; I have been a brand & event management specialist for multiple business owners; and for 20 years I have successfully served as a J.E.D.I (Justice, Equity, Diversity and Inclusion Expert for clients from Fuji to Facebook.
I have been a servant leader on the Boards of several organizations such as NABJ, NBPRS-DFW, Public Relations Society of America (PRSA), University of Dallas, City of Dallas- OCA, Pastor Richie Butler’s Project Unity’s Together We Dine, TMC Media podcast personality, Bestselling author and more. Those appointments have been very beneficial as I have been also recognized as multi-
the year and so on.
Big Mama said that has earned me skin in the game! But nothing has been more rewarding than being my grandmother’s servant and voice with - “Big Mama Said”, which began here and has expanded to a book project. See what happens when you reach out to others. Thanks, Cheryl Smith!
FYI, in the phrase, "skin" is a synecdoche for the person involved, and "game" is the metaphor for actions on the field of play under discussion. According to Stack Exchange, Warren Buffett raised the bar on the phrase when he raised money with 10 doctors for his first fund as he contributed the first $100.00 and called it his skin in the game.
All I can add is that during the 23 years we have executed City Men Cook and its mentoring program, I have learned about so many talented young Black men under 40. At Evolution Academy Charter School and Barack Obama Leadership Academy (B.O.M.L.A.) I have been blessed to see their tech savvy, their hunger for knowledge and their extreme talents! Are you good at TikTok? What I know for sure is that those young men have “Skin in the game" too. In summary, Skin in the game also means to convey that these men also have some equity and/or fi nancial risk in any kind of ven ture, but also have some kind of emotional investment.
First, to have skin in the game means you have an active interest in the success of something. If it fails, it affects you in some way. For example, workers who have stock in their company have skin in the game. So, they may work harder to make it successful.
My diverse career spans over decades. I have been a Chief Development Officer for a me-
year honoree - Who’s Who Dallas · Who’s Who American Colleges and Universities, awarded "Best 10 Events of 2015 Manager by Examiner. com, 2015 Award “Best of the Best of Professional Executive, Recipient -NABJ Salute to Excellence Winner, NTheknow. com Top 50 Movers and Shakers Awards, Best of Dallas 2019 Public Relations Company of
So, paying honor to my col league, Pamela Purifoy, we have to cross the aisle and open the doors to all of us who have "Skin in the game" or we will fail. Thanks, Big Mama!
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If We Do Not Cross Generations and Collaborate, We Will Fail!
20 Years Later, Patrick Lemle earns his Degree
At 38 years old, Patrick Lemle has already achieved significant business success – working his way up from entry-level jobs to management positions at some of the world’s largest hotel chains. He will graduate cum laude with a bachelor’s degree in business on May 9 at Texas Trust CU Theatre at Grand Prairie.
But he always yearned to fulfill his dream of getting a college degree and pursuing a career in law. He started college in Los Angeles right out of high school. But when his mother passed away at the beginning of his junior year, he made the difficult choice to withdraw and begin working, so he could take care of his twin sister, who had just learned she was pregnant.
With his family’s recent move to Phoe-
nix, he was hired as a front-desk clerk at the Ritz-Carlton and worked his way up, eventually landing regional and senior sales management positions at various Marriot properties in Dallas and Phoenix.
Currently, he works full-time as a sales partner in the sports division for Hilton Worldwide, but his journey in the hospitality industry hasn’t been easy.
When the pandemic hit, he was stuck in Paris. By the time he returned to the U.S., he learned that he had been furloughed for three months, which later turned into six months (although he fortunately survived a massive layoff).
A high-energy, go-getter all his life, Patrick was bored and depressed. Comforted that he still had a job, he realized “that I need something to fall back on, some-
thing that can’t be taken away from me.”
In May 2020, he enrolled in Dallas College and attained his associate degree in 2021. Spurred by his success, he immediately started at UNT Dallas, taking a full course load while juggling a 40-plus-hour position that required travel.
With a “no-excuses attitude,” Patrick has made huge sacrifices – from books and laptops on planes and minimal social life, to Saturday and Sunday mornings studying at a local Deep Ellum coffee shop.
He chose UNT Dallas because it was local, affordable, small and flexible – an institution willing to work with non-traditional students facing challenges. Because of his lifelong desire to become a corporate attorney, he was also thrilled with the pre-law program and excited to learn that UNT Dallas has a College of Law in downtown Dallas. He also praises his professors; several he believes will be friends and mentors for life.
As an older student, younger students looked to his leadership, leaning on
the skills he gained through nearly two decades managing time and achieving goals. His hard work was recognized by the Sigma Beta Delta National Honor Society for business, management and administration majors.
Last Tuesday (May 9) Patrick graduated cum laude with a bachelor’s degree in business at Texas Trust CU Theatre at Grand Prairie.
So what’s next for him following commencement? A well-deserved, two-week breather and vacation celebrating with friends and family!
Armed with his degree, Patrick feels as if “life is just getting started!” Once back at work, he’ll begin tackling his next dreams – law school or an executive-level position.
Jessica’s Journey: From streets to UNT Dallas to Howard
From homeless and depressed to Student Government Association President and McNair Scholar, UNT Dallas senior Jessica Armstead beat the odds and overcame obstacles to achieve academic success.
Soon, Jessica will graduate from UNT Dallas with a bachelor’s degree in child development and family studies. Next, she will be headed to Howard University in Washington, D.C., on track to earn a master’s degree in social work and eventually a doctorate degree in a related area.
“This is where I need to be,” Jessica thought when she visited the Howard campus in October. But getting there hasn’t been easy.
Jessica’s journey from the street to the UNT Dallas commencement stage is one of strength, persistence and dedication. Following an abusive marriage in which she was victimized both physically and emotionally, Jessica was accepted into UNT Dallas in 2020. It was the beginning of a new chapter in her life where she would finish her undergraduate education and excel in ways that she had only dreamed.
The challenges Jessica endured started when in 2005 she met a young man at Six Flags. They started dating, and when Jessica graduated, she had plans to attend college in Abilene. But Jessica came home for winter break and never returned to Abilene. Her already-controlling boyfriend would tell her later, “The only reason I asked you to come back from college is I thought you’d find someone better.”
Despite the troubled relationship, Jessica and her boyfriend got married in 2007. Their relationship worsened over time, and they got divorced in 2018. Jessica desperately wanted to go back to school, so she enrolled in Mountain View Community College. But, by the spring of 2019, while still attending Mountain View, she lost her housing and was forced to live in her car and couch surf for temporary places to stay.
Jessica applied to UNT Dallas in 2020 as a transfer student and was accepted into the Child Development and Family Studies program in the School of Behavioral Health and Human Services. At UNT Dallas, Jessica found her home. The small campus provided the community feel, connectedness and guidance she needed to thrive and excel in college. Balancing her academic responsibilities with extracurricular activities, to say she became an overachiever is an understatement.
Jessica was elected SGA President in
2021 and reelected in 2022. She also has served as vice president and activities director of the Jax Squad, and president and vice president of the First-Generation Club. Jessica was appointed a student regent on the UNT System Board of Regents. She is a member of the Black Student Union, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated, and the Sigma Beta Delta honor society. All while maintaining a 3.9 GPA.
In addition, Jessica interned for Black Women in Nonprofit Leadership and Promise House, a Dallas organization that helps homeless children, teens and their families.
Last but not least, Jessica is a Ronald E. McNair Scholar through a federally funded program that recognizes students for their accomplishments, offers academic, social and emotional support, and provides a path toward obtaining a Ph.D.
Once she earns a Ph.D., Jessica hopes to present research to Congress, contribute to policy changes related to foster care, and teach at the university level. Her ultimate goal is to operate her own facility focused on assisting children and youth in need, both under 18 and 18 and over. That’s an important distinction because foster children “age out” of the foster care system when they turn 18, often with nowhere to go.
“People don’t realize if we help this demographic, we help so much more,” said Jessica.
When asked about her greatest strength, Jessica replied, “Adaptability and positivity.” Jessica believes her positive attitude is a “light that draws peo-
ple” and shows “you can do whatever you want.”
She needed to rely on that trait when applying to Howard University. “I worried I was not good enough. I doubted myself, but went ahead and did it,” Jessica said. She would check her email “50 times a day” hoping for an answer.
One day, she was so anxious and nervous, she called the Howard admissions office as soon as it opened at 8 a.m. to ask about her application status. Later, at 3:14 p.m., she received her acceptance email. “It was the only place I applied,” Jessica said. Her hard work at UNT Dallas and her persistence paid off once again. She was so ecstatic she noted and now
remembers the exact time that much-anticipated email arrived in her inbox.
Dr. Curtis McDowell, a UNT Dallas lecturer who has been a valued mentor for Jessica, believes her experience is truly inspirational. “Her rags to riches story is powerful,” said Dr. McDowell. “It shows when people collaborate at UNT Dallas, amazing things can happen.”
Last week, Jessica took the stage to share her story with attendees of the Advancing Socioeconomic Mobility conference hosted by UNT Dallas at the Statler Hotel. The audience listened intently as she described overcoming hurdles and feeling empowered by her UNT Dallas experience.
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10th Anniversary of ReuNight for The Family Place. At this year’s event, at the Dallas Petroleum Club at 6:30 pm, guests will enjoy an evening of cocktails, exceptional cuisine, a luxury live auction and more. Support from this year’s event is critical, as one in three Texans will experience domestic violence during their lifetime- one of the highest rates in the country. Contact ReuNight@familyplace.org or call 214443-7717 for more information.
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Nonprofit organizations have changed the news landscape in Texas — but nothing has been easy. Join Fort Worth SPJ for an insightful discussion with Fort Worth Report CEO/publisher Chris Cobler and Texas Observer editor Gabe Arana at 6:30 p.m. at Joe T. Garcia’s Mexican restaurant (Villa Room) on Fort Worth’s fabled North Side. Twenty bucks covers the program and Joe T.’s enchilada dinner. Such a deal. Add $1 to pay with a credit card.
The Annual Malcolm X Community Festival is at Grimes Park in Desoto,TX! Live music, games, vendors , good food & family fun. This event is free & open to the public! Now accepting food & merchandise vendors. Save The Date! https://www.eventbrite.com
You Can Live Again Expo and Awards Announcements, 10am-3pm. Enjoy amazing celebrities, speakers, panelists, performers and fun for the entire family! Hear why Now Is The Time To Do It in 2023! *Special Q and A session with WFAA’S legendary Sports Commentator Dale Hansen! Tickets available www. youcanliveagain.net, Gilley’s Dallas, 1635 Botham Jean, Dallas, Tx. Proceeds benefit Boys and Girls Club Dallas
Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce Business Mix & Mingle 5:30-8:30pm Register at dallasblackchamber.org
Metropolitan Dallas Alumnae and Lambda Nu Chapters of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority present HANDS OFF MY CROWN, a community conversation about the Crown Act and the politics of Black Hair. Moderated by Tashara Parker, at Paul Quinn College’s Grand Lounge, 6:30 pm
Ivy & Pearl Foundation of Dallas, in collaboration with Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. , Alpha Xi Omega Chapter’s 2nd Annual Top Golf Tournament Scholarship Fundraiser 2:00 pm at TopGolf in Dallas, TX.
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