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4 pub’s note The summer holidays and festive season are upon us, but isn’t it time to do things differently?

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6 over to you Our readers have their say and share their news and views

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18 getaways Escape to a winter wonderland for a magical family experience 20 beach holiday Sun, sand and sea, here’s how to have memorable, relaxing family summer holiday 22 recipes Delicious, refreshing festive fare 24 travel light Six packing tips to get your holiday off to a good start

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8 health Be prepared, take a well-stocked first-aid kit when travelling 10 pregnancy A precious bundle of blessing to love regardless of gender 14 best for baby Our pick of the best baby bags for stylish, hassle-free travelling

16 parenting Raising healthy, happy children 26 a good read Books for all ages and tastes 29 back to school Advice, hacks and tips for preparing for the first day at school, plus open days 40 what’s on in December, January and February Family events, festive celebrations, workshops and summer holiday programmes 50 finishing touch Make exercising together and chasing fitness goals a fun family affair

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pub’s note holidays made easy “Oh, the places you’ll go,” enthused Dr Seuss, perfectly capturing the wonder and anticipation of the long awaited summer holidays!

Every holiday should be a memory-making experience, whether at home or away. Some of my children’s best holidays were spent at home, being tourists in our beautiful city and opening our home to family and friends where we celebrate Christmas with much joy and anticipation.

We fill our days rescuing Christmas beetles, who always seem to land on their backs and can’t right themselves, stringing popcorn to hang on the tree out of the dogs’ reach, planning the menu and squabbling over who gets to decorate the tree/set the table/make the punch/hand out presents, it’s a long list …

This year, however, we are travelling over the festive season and have embraced the idea that every journey should be a great adventure. So, we have chosen to head to the Amazon, challenging my children to pack light (a REAL challenge for my youngest), live simply, eat the local cuisine (tricky with a vegan and two vegetarians) and avoid the alligators and anacondas at all cost.

Now, all that’s left is to find a book or two that will see me through, but not weigh me down (I take pride in being the lightest traveller!). Because, as my guru Dr Seuss, said: “The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.”

Happy holidays and happy reading to all you wonderful Child Mag parents!

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over to you Have your say – we value your thoughts, suggestions and feedback. editor@childmag.co.za counting the real cost of screen time In general, I look forward to each of your issues and the varied articles therein, however, I was disappointed by the “tech and toy issue” as I thought it skirted around the real dangers of screen time.

I am an occupational therapist who does not work in paediatrics at the moment, but having two young children of my own, I have spent a lot of time researching the effects of modern-day screen time. Although I understand that you were hoping to provide a balanced view of screen time, I think you downplayed the serious dangers that are coming from children spending hours behind screens. The positives that you noted – namely being able to build incredible things and do amazing things – are not due to the device, but rather the brilliant mind operating the device. And how much better would it be for that mind to be creating in a real-life context using their whole body, including sensory systems, without being limited by what is allowed within the device? Secondly, you noted that the Ipad can be used therapeutically – yes, that is correct – by therapists who are trained to use multiple different mediums to achieve the aims they have set out, not by parents who think that they are in some way assisting or helping their children by allowing them to play with “educational” apps.

I know that parents are bombarded nowadays with the things we should and shouldn’t be doing, however, when it comes to allowing our children to engage with things of which the full weight of their engagement is not entirely understood, I think we should all err on the side of caution. Many of the articles I have read speak only of the dangers and I have begun to adopt this opinion myself. I think we are only just beginning to understand the real risks and, until these are fully understood, we should do our best to keep our children away from such exposure.

Why do more and more children require OT intervention for gross and fine motor skills? Has it not got to do with our modern sedentary lifestyle and increased screen time? Is it that children as

young as two are watching unrestricted amounts of TV? The biggest risk for small children in front of a screen is that they are not spending time moving and playing; children learn through play and movement. We do not have television and my children are restricted to an hour of Ipad time each weekend. I can’t tell you how many times I have been asked by my children’s teachers and other parents how is it that my children are so imaginative, tell the wildest stories and are so inquisitive. I strongly believe that this has nothing to do with being “bright”, but more to do with the fact that they are learning and exploring through play (not always structured or organised play) for as many hours of the day as they can.

I am writing this email not with the view to criticise the views of the writer, but rather with a deep-seated concern for the world that we live in and for what is going to become of our children in 10–15 years’ time.

If they can’t cope now, how do we expect them to become functional, independent and happy adults?

Jess Taylor

finding the joy in the daily grind I was going through an old copy of your mag (I have a pile in my lounge that I can’t bear to put into the recycling) and found these gems. A lovely reminder for such a busy time of the year.

Every day, remember to: • listen to music while at home together, giving each family member a chance to choose the tunes • get sunshine and exercise every day • break from routine, try taking a different route to school • make more time for loved ones not in your immediate family • take daily family walks with the dogs before school or before dinner • eat dinner outside at least once a week • wake up a little earlier so you have more time to better enjoy the morning routine and the space you share with your dearest people.

Wishing your team and all your readers a wonderful holiday.

Marg Stevens

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first-aid kit checklist Don’t let your holiday be ruined by illness or an accident.

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Child Magazine he bags are packed and you’ll soon be leaving for your family holiday. But don’t forget the first-aid kit. It doesn’t matter if you’re staying local, or flying across the world – accidents happen. So be prepared.

pain Headaches, fevers, or muscle pain can spoil your holiday. Your kit should contain ibuprofen and paracetamol. Ibuprofen is a non-steroid pain reliever that also treats inflammation.

It’s suitable for children over three months and weighing more than five kilograms.

Paracetamol can be given to children over two months old for pain relief. Don’t give these together and check with your doctor if they’re suitable for your child, especially if given with

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other medication. For treating sore muscles and aches, use an anti-inflammatory.

plasters and bandages Don’t forget bandages: strip bandages, triangular bandages, elasticated rolled bandages and gauze dressings are essential. Pack plasters, especially waterproof ones for swimming. Spray on plaster is handy for grazes and cuts on joints or fingers.

Pack a tube of antiseptic ointment as well as sterile wipes for cleaning cuts and grazes.

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sore tummies Take remedies for tummy ailments such as stomach aches, cramps, diarrhoea or nausea.

Probiotics are a good way to maintain a healthy digestive system, especially after a bout of diarrhoea or a course of antibiotics. Pack rehydration solutions as well.

stings Pack an antihistamine cream, syrup or pills.

Antibiotic cream can also help prevent infection of cuts or bites. A calamine lotion or Aloe Vera gel can help soothe rashes, itches or jellyfish stings, although these stings can be washed in seawater or rinsed with vinegar. Pack an insect repellent that’s safe for use near children.

equipment • • • • •

A thermometer Tweezers and a pair of scissors A cold pack and heat pads Disposable latex gloves A syringe and medicine spoons.

pregnancy

this isn’t what I ordered Sasha Cuff

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n the dim light of the ultrasound room, the tension is tangible. Silenced by her concentration, I lie and wait as the sonographer steers the probe across my belly.

I squint at the monitor, trying to see what she is seeing, but aside from a distorted and bumpy jumble of shapes, I am lost. As the

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For some, the gender debate begins shortly after conception, but does baby’s sex really matter?

scan draws to a close, she confirms that all appears to be in order. I have arrived at the moment I have been anxiously awaiting since the pregnancy test first came up as positive.

“Can you tell me what sex the baby is?”

I ask her. She smiles and shifts the probe around a bit. I feel my pulse quicken.

“It looks like a little girl,” she says.

And there it is: my moment of truth and my whole world caves. I manage to gather up my things and return to the car, before breaking down into hysterical sobs with my bewildered husband looking on.

“The baby is healthy and normal – isn’t that all that matters?” he exclaims.

Of course, every word he says is true and this is what I should be focusing on. Yet the feeling of loss and disappointment at not carrying a boy is overwhelming and further compounded by an enormous sense of guilt at how thankful I should be.

The thing is this: I already have a beautiful daughter and, as we’d planned on having only two children, I dreamed and yearned for a boy the next time around.

As the eldest of three girls, even the family cat was neutered, I was desperate to experience dirty sports kits, rugby games on a Saturday morning and all the other elements I imagined came with raising a son.

This was my dream and letting go is ultimately what this is all about. It is somewhat comforting to know that, in order to heal, I must acknowledge that there is a loss involved – the loss of something that never was. Guilt should not be a factor here, as it is only natural to be disappointed once you realise that a dream will not come true. There are no good or bad feelings, if I am to be truly honest. I just need time and support. In this case, I’m lucky to have a

the fatherhood gene

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ff <x mf x~y

I felt because I didn’t think they would understand and I worried they’d think I was a bad person.”

Many women have a preference for a particular gender, for a variety of reasons.

Some may arise due to societal pressures or from family, such as a spouse’s desire to have a son to carry on the family name.

Preconceived notions about males and females also add to the pressure to produce a particular sex. Interestingly, research published in the Journal of Evolutionary Biology points to the existence of a “fatherhood gene”, which determines whether men are more likely to father boys or girls or both. The study involved an examination of 927 family trees containing information on 556 387 people from North America and Europe, going back as far as the year 1600.

It emerged that men with a version of the gene known as “mm” produce more sperm with the Y chromosome and are, therefore, more likely to have sons. The second variant, known as “ff ”, produces more X sperm and men who hold this gene are more likely to father daughters. The third version known as “mf ” produces roughly equal numbers of sperm with the female X and male Y chromosomes. In this case, a man may have either a son or a daughter.

Ultimately, I know that each child is unique and special and deserves to be loved and nurtured unconditionally. I am glad that I found out the sex of my baby before the birth. I can now use this time to work through my feelings of disappointment so that by the time my baby arrives, I can welcome her with open arms and as much love as a mother can give – irrespective of gender or anything else.

each child is unique and special and deserves to be loved and nurtured unconditionally.

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compassionate husband who, upon realising the depth of my feelings, has let me grieve and neither judged nor tried to brush off the way I feel. Sadly, many women don’t get the support they need during this period of acceptance and resolution. Many mothers, therefore, choose to suffer in silence.

It has been comforting to talk to other mothers about my feelings and some have, for the first time, shared their own sadness and disappointment over gender with me.

My friend, Karen, recently confided: “When the scan said I was having a boy, I cried in secret for ages, but never told anyone how

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Clicks Made4Baby Backpack | R199.00 Clicks’ new denim range has ample space with different compartments, slots and sleeves to organise everything your baby might need.

bags of style We have selected a few bags that make travelling with baby a breeze.

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Fisher Price Mama Diaper Bag | R1799.00 A spacious bag with multiple pockets and good lining material, ideal for travelling.

Double zippers for easy access. Includes a diaper bag and quilted changing mat.

Clicks Made4Mom Backpack | R299.00 Clicks’ other new range includes a well-designed quilted backpack with various compartments and good ergonomic structure. A changing mat is also included.

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Stokke Changing Bag | R1847.68 Can be used as a backpack or a shoulder bag. A foldable changing mat, detachable carry bag and a waterproof side pocket included. Compatible with all Stokke strollers.

K’lea Belle Baby Bag | R3499.00 Not your average baby bag. Both stylish and multifunctional, with a big interior and many pockets.

Made of genuine leather.

parenting

The true measure of success is happiness – yours and your family’s.

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fter a year of chasing your tail, it’s time to ponder your successes and what you might have done differently. I think life starts to get better for most of us when we realise that quality of life does not centre wholly on achieving the dream of a nice home, job title, goal weight or the perfect child … rather, it’s about achieving happiness. And we can be happy without any of the above perceived symbols of happiness.

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1. Knowing what makes you smile Apart from the basic universal human needs – food, shelter, security and love – individual needs develop over time. Allow your children the freedom to explore and try different activities to discover what brings them enjoyment. When they have this focus they will be able to play to their strengths, which will bring them an overall sense of joy.

2. Connectedness Happy children have secure and loving relationships with their parents, get on with other children and have at least one good friend. These relationships deepen and are strengthened through communication. Spend quality time with your child, encourage them to invite friends over and create opportunities for laughter, playfulness and show appreciation for all family members’ sense of humour.

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the glow of happiness

As parents, achieving happiness is not only a skill that we must learn and then master to keep moving forward, it’s a responsibility.

We owe it to our children because, in their growing years, they will look to us to set the tone for their lives. Glenda Weil and Doro Marden, co-authors of Raise Happy Children, say a large part of a parent’s job is to “delve into the conditions for creating the fertile ground in which happiness can flourish – not the happiness that appears in holiday brochures where the sun is always shining and everyone is smiling, but more where the happiness endures through the ups and downs of real family life.”

3. Guidance Secure children know that they are loved and that their parents are in charge. Children tend to follow their desires the minute they arise, so you will have to teach them patience and delayed gratification.

Focus on teaching them that it is possible to wait for things, however, annoying the wait. Teaching them impulse control is crucial as there will be many times that life will call for them to stop and think before acting.

4. Doing something well We all get joy from deeds well done, children included, whether it is completing a difficult jigsaw puzzle or building a tower of bricks. Psychologist Steve Biddulph, author of Raising Boys, emphasises this by saying that a child should be able to cook a family meal by the age of 11. Provide opportunities to learn new skills and master something appropriate to their age and ability.

5. Realness Don’t get your family trapped in the happiness doctrine – you can’t expect to have fun all the time. Carl Jung once said: “Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness and the word ‘happy’ would lose its meaning were it not balanced by sadness.” Let your child know that you accept their feelings, whether joyful or painful. Acceptance and understanding are invaluable to your child.

6. Resilience This is the ability to rise above challenging circumstances; children who learn to cope with life’s setbacks and disappointments have a head start for happiness. With the proper

support, disappointment can strengthen rather than weaken the child.

Focus on preparing your child for the bumps in the road as opposed to constantly trying to clear the way for them.

7. Optimism If you find that your child reflects a somewhat half-empty approach to life, know that optimism can be taught. Focus on challenging the view that nothing can be done about a problem by countering “I can’t” with “what’s stopping you?” Recall your child’s past successes and praise their efforts, not just their triumphs.

8. Thankfulness Taking things for granted is the enemy of happiness.

Children who feel entitled are less content than those who have an attitude of thankfulness. Teach your child to make gratitude declarations, such as saying three things they are grateful for at bedtime or writing down five things they are thankful for every Sunday.

9. Giving As the saying goes, happiness lies not so much in having, but in sharing – children can be taught the joy of giving to others. Encourage them to practise kindness, sharing and giving.

10. Connecting with nature From climbing trees to flying kites, there is magic in discovering the outdoors. Focus on showing your children that there is a whole world out there. Share the joy, excitement and mystery of the world we live in with your child regularly.

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getaways

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or South African children, winter simply means it’s time to pack away the swimming cozzies because “mom says the pool is too cold”.

For children in the northern hemisphere, winter equals thick winter jackets, scarves, gloves and sometimes even thermal underwear. Winter is also about snowball fights, iceskating in the open air and sleigh rides.

“South African parents enquiring about travel to Europe with their families in winter are often concerned that the cold might put a damper on their holiday fun. The truth is that winter can offer children the most unforgettable experiences. All it takes is the right preparation to deal with the chill,” says Nicky Potgieter, from Flight Centre.

Here are four great tips to explore Europe in the wintertime:

meet Santa at a Christmas market

Dreaming of a white Christmas?

We round up the reasons to make your dreams come true.

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Walking down the cobbled streets in Europe during winter will make you feel as though you’ve stepped into a Christmas snow globe. Most cities and villages in Europe are proud of their Christmas markets, all featuring towering Christmas trees decorated with twinkling lights, delicious goodies and cheerful music.

The most popular markets are a true feast for children as they can meet Santa Claus and his gang. Children can also expect Ferris wheels, tobogganing, ice-skating and circus shows.

The Stuttgart Christmas Market in Germany even has a warm outdoor pool.

ski through a winter wonderland Almost as good as Disneyland … a skiing holiday ticks all the boxes for young adventurers.

Your children’s eyes will light up at the mention of snowmen, sleigh rides, toboggans, zooming

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down ski slopes and roasted marshmallows. Combining a European city trip with a few days in the snow can make for a fantastic family holiday.

Just seeing the snow-capped mountains and exploring charming little villages in the Alps is still a great way to enjoy winter.

make the most of the smaller crowds Travelling to Europe’s cities in winter will allow you to experience the city of your choice without the crowds and really soak up the culture.

In winter, Paris transforms into one of the most stunning cities in Europe with white rooftops and iconic monuments dusted in snow. You will barely need to line up to enter the Louvre, nor will you have to brave a snaking queue to ascend the Eiffel Tower. Fewer tourists means less time queuing and more time exploring the popular attractions that make Paris such a beautiful destination.

Venice is another city that is overrun during peak season. Come wintertime, however, the tourists stay away and the true charm of the city becomes apparent. The canals are quiet, hotels offer discounted rates, and you can visit the popular attractions without the risk of getting poked in the eye with a selfie stick.

hot chocolate and museum days Although it’s always a great idea to explore Europe’s cities on foot, during winter, you’ll probably need to warm up several times during the

day. Pop into a roadside cafe for a hot chocolate or tea to thaw out and give yourself and the children a bit of a boost.

You can also explore some of Europe’s genuinely child-friendly museums, where you are unlikely to see a “please don’t touch” sign.

There’s the Musée des Enfants (the children’s museum) in Brussels, which is all about education through fun. Plunge your hands into gloop, crawl through mirrored tunnels or sign up for an educational workshop. In Amsterdam, the NEMO Science Centre is a modern, interactive science museum where children can take part in exciting experiments, while the Van Gogh Museum teaches children about art in a fun way.

In Paris, there is also a great variety of interesting museums. The Cité des Sciences et de l’Industrie (museum of sciences and industry) is not only the largest science museum in Europe, it’s also one of the best child-friendly museums in Paris. And, even a museum such as the Louvre is not off limits for children. The Louvre organises a treasure hunt with clues, puzzles and riddles. Your children will have a great time hunting the hidden treasure and navigating the museum while learning about Da Vinci and Michelangelo.

So, is a winter holiday in Europe too cold for our South African kids?

“Definitely not,” says Potgieter. “Winter can be a truly magical time for a family trip to Europe.”

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getaways

What better way to end off the year than with some well-deserved family time. Just make sure that this includes me-time too.

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beach holidays

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ith the stresses and strains of day-to-day activities, a much deserved holiday is important for parents and children alike. And while a quick weekend away here and there might just do the trick, a proper break from the hustle and bustle does wonders. In fact, new studies are showing that the benefits of going on holiday as a family, especially outdoor and beach holidays, are said to improve childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s learning, as well as their emotional and intelligence quotient.

Taking your children on a beach holiday may be a little daunting (especially for new parents), but according to Ramesh Jeenarain, Managing Director at World Leisure Holidays South Africa, it neednâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be a hassle at all. Here

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are four tips for taking your children on a fantastic beach holiday that neither of you will ever forget.

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Travel far enough to be away, but close enough to be home

While it’s no secret that children get fidgety after a few hours of being strapped into a seat, there is no reason why you cannot still take them overseas. Travelling to Mauritius, for example, requires an approximate fourhour flight from Johannesburg or Durban, and a five-hour flight from Cape Town, just enough time to complete a puzzle, have a nap or a meal and get excited for the arrival.

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Opt for easy travel planning

There’s nothing worse than planning a holiday that includes visas, interviews, inoculations and a list of can dos and can’t dos. You want a destination you can book, get on a plane and arrive without weeks of admin and stress.

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Find a resort that makes children a priority

Yes, there are many resorts that are childfriendly, offering daily entertainment and activities, but many are not suitable for all ages and do not understand that the little ones need a holiday too. Look for resorts that offer a variety of unique and child-appropriate adventures from crab fishing, dolphin watching, supervised stand-up paddle boarding to windsurfing, as well as fun activities such as kiddies’ spa experiences or movies on the beach, and arts and crafts catering from toddlers to teens. This way, everybody gets to spend their holiday having fun, learning, exploring and making memories.

In addition, choosing a resort with sandy beaches instead of pebble beaches, shallow and calm water and room accommodation that is close to the beach, will go a long way to making your holiday more comfortable.

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Plan for me-time

Don’t feel guilty for wanting to go for a massage or yoga on the beach, or a cocktail at the bar, having a family holiday with children does not mean that you cannot take a little time out to relax alone. The right resort will have it all covered; while you’re being pampered, your kids are being entertained, it’s a no-brainer.

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Explore

There’s nothing that spells memories quite like exploration, whether it be of the taste buds, culture, talents or activities; try and set aside some time for learning about the country’s customs together. Learn a craft, enjoy a local meal or watch a traditional dance, but do it together. It will change the way you see the world.

So, whether you are taking an annual family break or planning your first “family-moon”, you don’t need to feel stressed about the ins and outs of the perfect holiday, all you need to do is plan your naps between relaxing and relaxing between exploring. Simple.

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recipes

festive holiday fare

easy caprese pastry squares Cherry tomatoes, basil pesto and melted mozzarella on a base of perfectly golden, flaky puff pastry.

• 1 sheet frozen puff pastry, thawed • ½ cup basil pesto • 1 pack (70 g) Galbani mozzarella • 1 cup cherry tomatoes • ½ tsp Italian seasoning, or more to taste • salt to taste • freshly ground black pepper • 1 egg, whisked • 1 tsp water • ¼ cup fresh basil leaves, roughly torn

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Make sure the frozen puff pastry is thawed before starting. Preheat the oven to 200°C. Prepare a baking sheet by lining it with baking paper.

Spread out the puff pastry on the tray and score the edge about 2cm from the edge all the way around. Spread the basil pesto evenly over the puff pastry. Evenly place the mozzarella, roughly torn apart, over the basil pesto. Then add cherry tomatoes sliced in half.

Season with Italian seasoning and salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste.

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Make an egg wash by mixing the whisked egg with the water. Lightly brush over the edges of the puff pastry.

Bake for 6–8 minutes or until the puff pastry is light golden.

Be careful not to let the puff pastry burn. Sprinkle with roughly torn fresh basil leaves.

Season to taste with more salt and pepper before slicing into squares and serving.

rainbow popsicles Deliciously refreshing treats, packed with goodness, colour and creativity. Rope in your kids to help you make these!

• 1 cup blueberries • 1 cup kiwi fruit, cut into quarters • 1 cup orange segments, halved • 1 cup cubed pineapple • 1 cup strawberries • 1 cup Liqui-Fruit clear apple juice • 1 cup Liqui-Fruit mango and orange juice • 1 cup Liqui-Fruit berry blaze juice Chop the blueberries, kiwi fruit quarters, orange segments, cubed pineapple and strawberries into small pieces.

Place all the fruit pieces on a

tray and freeze. Keep each type of fruit separate on the tray.

Place the frozen blueberries into a blender together with half of the clear apple juice.

Blend until smooth. Spoon the mixture into the bottom of each hole in the popsicle mould and freeze until set.

You will need about 8 moulds.

Blend the frozen kiwi fruit pieces with the remaining clear apple juice, layer the mixture over the first layer and return to the freezer to set.

Blend the frozen orange segments with half of the mango and orange juice. Spoon the mixture into the moulds as the third layer. Blend the frozen pineapple with the remaining mango and orange juice. Spoon the mixture into the moulds as the fourth layer.

Blend the frozen strawberries with the berry blaze juice and spoon the mixture into the

mould as the fifth and last layer. Freeze until all layers have set and serve.

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getaways

pack like a professional Packing light is an art, so here are six top tips for getting it right. tamlyn vincent

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oliday time often includes trips to see family or just to get away. And this means packing. I usually take as much as possible (who knows what you’ll need?), but this results in an overstuffed bag, even for overnight stays. I’m even worse when I pack for my son, throwing in two warm and two cool outfits, just in case. It’s only when we get home that I realise we haven’t used half the clothes we’ve hauled along. So, to save space next time my family goes away on holiday, I found these packing tips.

1. Best case

outfit is dirty, stick it back into the bag so that the rest of the clothing doesn’t get smelly. Also put anything that can leak into a plastic bag, if you’re travelling overseas, you should probably pack all of your toiletries in clear plastic bags. Take a few extra plastic bags, just in case.

For suggestions on where to buy multiple-use bags, visit neatfreak.co.za

Think about what sort of bags you need. If you’re going overseas, a suitcase may be best. If you’re only going for a few nights, or you’ll be carrying your luggage, go for a backpack or duffel bag.

Get children their own bags, which they can pack and carry themselves.

Not only will they learn some responsibility, but it will also keep them excited.

5. Easy access

2. Technique There are different ways to pack your clothes: folding and rolling are both good options. Either way, pack shoes and heavy items in the corners of your case or bag.

Heavier clothes like jeans go next, followed by lighter items. If your bag has wheels, pack shoes closest to the base with the wheels to help stabilise the bag.

3. Choose wisely

For your complete holiday checklist, use

Pack raincoats in easily accessible spots, like a side pocket. Keep activities for children easily accessible near the top, or in your hand luggage, so you can get to them quickly. If you’re planning a long road trip, pack snacks for the car and keep essential items, such as phone chargers close at hand. If you’re stopping overnight along the way, pack separate smaller bags for everyone, and pack these last.

Take practical and versatile clothes and choose our download: complementary colours, so you can mix and match 6. Don’t forget http://www.childmag. outfits instead of packing extra clothes you won’t use.

• medicine and vitamins co.za/content/ Don’t overpack for scenarios that aren’t likely to occur.

• sunscreen packing-holiday Choose clothes that are less likely to wrinkle, • torch (turn the batteries around and that suit the weather at your destination. If it’s when you pack it, so it doesn’t accidentally turn on) going to be cold, rather layer up instead of taking • electronics and chargers bulky jackets.

• first-aid kit And don’t pack double – if your partner has packed certain items, • toiletries – in travel-sized bottles such as a torch and spare batteries, there’s no need for you to take • maps (or download the Google Maps app) these as well.

• bank cards (check with your bank that they’re open for international use) • passports, visas, driver’s licence and copies of everything 4. Put it in reusable sealable bags • printouts of your travel plans and slip them into a flipfile or folder Packing clothes in plastic resealable bags ensures clothes are neat and • If you’re flying, take photos of the contents of your bags, for easy to find. You can pack entire outfits this way, or keep tops or pants insurance purposes. together. Children’s outfits can also go into resealable bags. Once the 24

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a good read ...

Baby Dinosaur

By DK (Penguin Random House, R85) With eye-catching pages and a variety of textures, this is guaranteed to stimulate baby’s senses and provide entertainment while encouraging learning. Ages 9 months+.

Fender Goes to Africa

By Veronica Lamond (Penguin Random House, R120) This series engages children in diverse, real-life activities. Fender’s trip from Cairo to Cape Town is sure to inspire adventure! Ages 2–6.

Peppa’s Castle Adventure

By Neville Astley (Penguin Random House, R95) Follow Peppa Pig as she spends the day at the castle. With knights, cannons, banquets and dragons, there is SO much to explore! Suitable for ages 3+.

Powerful

By Alicia Thomas-Woolf (Ada Enup, R200) This book approaches bullying in a positive way, and aims to equip young children with the emotional tools needed to deal with difficult situations.

Includes a CD featuring the Powerful song.

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Epic Tales of Skydalon – Battle for the Bearer of Light

By Michelle Sciacca (R110) Through a secret doorway hidden in a baobab tree, you’ll find the magical world of Skydalon. Follow four young adventurers (and their monkey!) as they boldly take on the challenge of defeating the dark forces that are terrorising this world. Ages 8–13.

The New Girl Code

By Niki Smit (Imagnary House, R120) Tumi Letsatsi is an awkward girl, just trying to figure out what her future may hold. She discovers the power of technology, and her life is changed when she creates the app “Project Prep.” This book makes the innovative and creative world of tech more relatable to young girls. Ages 9–15.

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The Trials of Apollo – The Burning Maze

By Rick Riordan (Penguin Book Group, R284) The third book in the fast-paced series lives up to the action-packed and comical standards set by its predecessors. Apollo’s quest becomes increasingly dangerous, and he needs to face his toughest opponent yet. Ages 10+.

Posh Sandwiches

By Quadrille (Quadrille Publishing Limited, R280) Raise your sandwich game with the ultimate sandwich guide! Over 70 recipes of the number one “grab and go” meal. Simple recipes with beautiful photos, it’s time to liven up the lunchbox and perk up the picnic – no more excuses!

This Child of Ours

By Sadie Pearse (Little Brown Book Group, R208) How does one deal with a child who is uncomfortable in their own skin?

Sadie Pearse’s thought-provoking novel deals with difficult subject matter, such as gender, identity and family, in an easy-to-understand style.

An audiobook is also available.

Blue Sunday

By Irma Venter (Human & Rousseau, R280) A businessman has been murdered, a young girl has gone missing, and every answer leads to another question. Described by Deon Meyer as “world-class”, author Irma Venter’s latest thriller will not disappoint.

Camp & Caravan (MapStudio, R50) Nothing is more rewarding than a family camping trip. This handy guide will help you choose your next holiday destination – from remote camping in the bush to luxurious resorts at the beach, this book has it all!

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Back to School?

Start a routine

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start a routine Get children into a routine a few days before they start school. Put them to bed at a reasonable hour, wake them up on time and try and get them used to eating at regular times. Talk about the routine they will have at school; what will happen when they get to school in the morning, when they will have playtime and snacktime, and what to expect at the end of the school day, especially if they’ll be attending aftercare. Also explain to your children when you’ll pick them up and where you’ll meet them.

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hen we think of the first day of school, we worry about whether our children have all the right gear, that their hair is neat and that they have a healthy packed lunchbox. But, it’s just as important to prepare our children mentally for the first day. Sure, it’s easier if they’ve done it before, or if they’re staying in the same phase.

But, whether they know what to expect, or if they’re starting school or a new phase for the first time, it can be an anxious time for children.

Preparing children for that first day means they’ll be more confident, you’ll be more relaxed and everyone will be more excited.

talk to them Speak with your children about how to behave. The school will have certain rules, as well as expectations of behaviour, and knowing these upfront can help children adjust more easily. You can also discuss how to handle new situations, like if their friend wants to play with someone else one day, or if they feel like they’re being bullied. Let them know they can always talk to their teacher or you about any problems or worries they may have.

packed up For older children, show them what they need to pack and ensure everything is in their schoolbag before they go to school. If you pack for younger children, show them where everything is in their bag so that they can find whatever they need. You might want to pack a few extras, such as tissues or wet wipes, just in case. Knowing that they have everything they need can help to reassure both children and you.

get excited Getting children excited about the first day can lessen some of the anxiety. Talk about what they have to look forward to: making new friends, seeing old friends, learning about wonderful things and play time. Tell them what you loved about school. And if you’re nervous or anxious, don’t let children see this; rather reassure them and tell them how excited you are for them.

tick the box teeth Visit the dentist when your child is four or five years old, follow up with regular checkups every six months. eyes Get eyes checked when children are between three and five years old, and when they start school. If children have vision problems, eyes should be checked every year or as prescribed.

Otherwise, get a checkup every two years. worms Deworm children every six months, starting just before they go back to school. vaccines Immunisations should be up to date.

Check which vaccinations are needed, most being required before children are 18 months old, with boosters needed at 6 and 12 years old. If any are required, or have been missed, visit a family clinic as soon as possible. medication If your child needs to take any medicine to school, find out what the school’s policy is on dispensing medicine.

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2. Uniforms Shirts, skirts, trousers and shorts can be purchased in a slightly bigger size, so they last longer. Get at least three of everything. Don’t forget about swimming gear, PE kit, blazers, jerseys, rain jackets, hats and socks or tights. Don’t buy for the whole year, just the term, as kids grow quickly and their requirements may change as they try out new extramurals.

3. Shoes are best bought a few weeks before school starts so your children can wear them in.

cellphones

Making the call. If you’re considering getting your child a cellphone, first find out what the school’s policy is. Younger children are probably not allowed phones, while older children may be asked to turn off phones during the day. Your child should be mature enough to use a phone responsibly.

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1. Hair Book a haircut for your child just before school starts. Make sure you have hairbands and clips in regulation colours if required by the school.

get organised 1. Lift club Teach your children the dos and don’ts of using alternative transport. Explain that they need to respect the driver and adhere to her or his rules, which should include wearing a seatbelt at all times, not standing when the vehicle is moving, not placing any part of their body outside the windows, not eating or drinking in the vehicle unless they have the driver’s permission, and not fighting with other children. Meet the driver beforehand. This will help your children feel more at ease and ensure they don’t accept lifts from strangers. Show your children what the vehicle looks like and check that it’s safe. Does it have seatbelts and toddler/baby car seats or will you need to supply?

2. Bag it and tag it Look for a light but sturdy bag that won’t strain your child’s back. You’ll also need a sports or PE bag, and possibly a library bag. Use your stationery list to shop around for the best prices on pens, books and other equipment, or order online. Also stock up on supplies – plastic, paper, sellotape, labels – for covering books. Look for lunchboxes that seal properly and are easy to carry.

Get several juice bottles as well. If you are using plastic, make sure it is BPA- free.

3. Labels Whether you use a marker, sew-on, iron-on or stickon labels, put your child’s name on everything that goes to school, including shoes. Make sure labels are waterproof and non-fading. With so many other children using the same clothes, bags and stationery, items are sure to go missing.

4. Making music If your child is taking music lessons, purchase or hire the necessary instruments, or arrange to have access to instruments either at home or outside of school. Check that instruments are tuned and ready for action. If you use an electronic tuner, make sure you have batteries and the necessary spare parts. Do you need to buy sheet music? They might need to take sheet music to lessons. If necessary, buy a case to transport the instrument.

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All children should: • have good manners – greeting elders, saying please and thank you, waiting their turn, sharing with other children • keep track of their things – you want your children to be responsible and come home with all their possessions.

school’s out, where to now?

Here are some options: • Arrange flexitime with your boss and work remotely in the afternoons.

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For crèche, your child should: • learn your phone number and address by heart • know how to put on their own shoes (tie shoelaces or use the Velcro strap) • know how to use the zips, clips and buttons on their bag so they can open and close it if necessary • use their water/juice bottle • be potty trained. If necessary, ensure your child feels comfortable with putting up their hand to use the bathroom.

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Hire a childminder or enrol your child in aftercare, either at or outside your school.

Hire the services of a lift club or organise a carpool with other parents.

Discuss extracurricular activities that your child may want to do, which will keep them occupied on certain days until you can get to them.

Rely on family. Willing and able grandparents are a huge help.

consider the following when vetting aftercare facilities • • • • • •

Do they offer transport from your child’s school to the aftercare premises?

Do they split the children into age groups?

What is the child/teacher ratio?

Do they offer lunch/snacks? If not, do they have kitchen facilities available to prepare packed food?

Do they offer homework assistance?

Do they offer holiday care?

school-life game plan Create and hang a large white board calendar for all school/ extracurricular/playdate activities, or other commitments. It’s helpful to have a calendar with a month view at a time. Have a section running down the side of the board for “important to remember” points. Keep a pin board or magnetic board nearby for all important notices sent from school. Colour-code the calendar (for each child or activity) and try and make it visual for children who can’t read yet.

Child magazine has a number of downloads to make your life easier. Simply print them off and stick them on your fridge for easy reference and inspiration. Go to www.childmag/downloads for our: 31 Day lunchbox planner

Weekly planner

Eyes checklist

Teething chart

childmag.co.za S O U T H A F R I C A’ S B E S T G U I D E F O R PA R E N T S

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open days Assumption Convent View the facilities and meet the teachers on 16 February during the open day at this independent catholic girls’ school, catering for grade 000–12.

Time: 9am–12pm Venue: Assumption Convent School, corner of Mullins Road and Pandora, Germiston Contact: 011 616 5053, marketing@ assumptionconvent.co.za

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Venue: 74 Witkoppen Road (access via Blandford Drive), North Riding Contact: Kirti 011 462 1505 or registrar@ biprep.co.za

Crawford Schools Contact: 011 706 7404, admissions@ brescia.co.za

Brescia House School

British International Preparatory School

Meet the teachers and explore the school’s facilities on 2 February.

Time: 9am–12pm Venue: Brescia House School, Pytchley Road, Bryanston

Visit the school for their open day on 6 February and experience the true excellence of an international education.

The school is for learners aged 3 to 13.

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The schools’ 2019 open days are on 2 March.

Parents are invited to explore the schools’ offerings and distinct approach to education.

Time: visit www.crawfordschools.co.za Venue: All Joburg schools Contact: crawfordschools.co.za

Curro Waterfall and Curro Castle Waterfall Visit The Castle (3 months–5 years) or Curro Waterfall (grade R–9) on 23 February

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Time: 9am–12pm Venue: Curro Waterfall: Waterfall Country Village, Waterfall Drive, Midrand. Curro Castle: corner of Waterfall and Simlak Drive Contact: 087 287 9471, info.waterfall@ curro.co.za or curro.co.za

Dotty Potty Nursery School Catering for children aged 3 months–6 years, this nursery school provides food and aftercare until 5:30pm, as well as holiday care. Join the open days on 14–18 January to find out more.

Time: 7am (half-day until 2:30pm, full-day until 5:30pm) Venue: Dotty Potty Nursery School, 4 Vernon Road, Morninghill Contact: Tamar on 084 500 0736, dpns001@gmail.com

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Holy Rosary School The school will be holding their annual open day on the 9 February. This independent Catholic Day School for girls caters for grades R–12 and is situated in the east of Johannesburg. Their focus is on nurturing God-given talents.

Time: 9am–12pm Venue: 113 Horwood Street, Edenvale Contact: 011 457 0900 or marketing@ holyrosaryschool.co.za

Kairos School of Inquiry On 18 February, the school (grades 0–7) will be holding an info talk to share information about the curriculum, fees, and what to expect from the school.

Time: 9:15am Venue: 79 Rustenburg Road, Emmarentia Contact: 011 646 6221, info@ kairosschool.co.za

The King’s School Robin Hills

SAHETI School

St Teresa’s School

Visitors are welcome every Wednesday during school terms for applications and tours of the facilities.

Time: 9am–11am Venue: The King’s School Robin Hills, Gemsbok Road, Robin Hills, Randburg Contact: 011 792 1420, info@ thekingsschool.co.za, admissions@ thekingsschool.co.za

View the school and learning in action and find out about the values-driven education on 16 February. The school is open to children from 14 months to 18 years, playschool to high school.

Time: 9am–12pm Venue: SAHETI School, Civin Drive, Senderwood, Bedfordview Contact: Tel: 011 479 3700 or email admissions@saheti.co.za

This independent Catholic girls school invites all prospective parents to the open day on 9 February.

Time: contact the school for details Venue: High School, 18 Keyes Ave, Rosebank Intermediate Phase, 14 Keyes Ave, Rosebank Foundation Phase, 30 Rutland Ave, Craighall Park Contact: 011 442 6235 (high school), 011 447 1446 (intermediate), 011 442 9127 (foundation), stteresas.co.za

Sacred Heart College Spend the morning on 9 February learning more about this independent, Catholic Marist school, which provides innovative, values-based education from playgroup to matric.

Time: 9am–12pm Venue: Sacred Heart College, 15 Eckstein Street, Observatory Contact: 011 081 2200

St Andrew’s School for Girls The school invites all prospective parents to the open day on 9 February to learn more about the school and its ethos.

Time: 8:30am (grade 0); 10am (grade 8), 8am–12:30pm (preschool and other grades) Venue: St Andrew’s Avenue, Senderwood, Bedfordview Contact: standrews.co.za

Steyn City School Find out about the world-class education on offer for grades 000–10 on 26 January Time: 8:30am–12pm Venue: Corner of Douw Steyn Drive and Cedar Road, Riversideview, Fourways Contact: 010 597 1250, admissions@ steyncityschool.co.za

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ghosts and characters from his past, present and future visit him. Suitable for the entire family.

Time: 7:30pm Wed–Sat, matinees on Sat 4pm and Sun 3pm Venue: Montecasino Studio Theatre Cost: R130–R180 Contact: 011 511 1988, pietertoerien.co.za

1–2 December ComicEx 6 November–23 December Goggas!

A simple story full of feel-good messages that will keep both children and adults delighted and enthralled. For ages 3 and older.

Time: 10:30am and 2:30pm Venue: National Children’s Theatre Cost: R120 adults and R100 children Contact: Claudy or Karina 011 484 1584, bookings@nctt.org.za or nationalchildrenstheatre.org.za

28 November–6 January A Christmas Carol A classic holiday tradition, this production takes a look into Scrooge’s life as several

From gaming, cosplay, pop-up movies and dance zones, ComicEx Idols, ComicEx Nerf Battle Zone, artist alley, gadget zones, comics, figurines and so much more, this event will provide fun for the whole family.

Time: 9am–6pm Venue: Mall of the South Cost: R100 one-day pass, R150 two-day pass, book at online.computicket.com Contact: info@comicex.net

2 December Cinderella Open Day Experience a dancer’s working day with Joburg Ballet as the company prepares for Cinderella.

Watch the class, meet the creative team and see the company rehearse.

Time: 10am–1pm

29 November–23 December Beauty and the Beast JR A tale as old as time. An arrogant young prince and his castle’s servants fall under the spell of a wicked enchantress. It’s up to headstrong village girl Belle to try and break the spell.

Time: 10:30am or 2:30pm Venue: Johannesburg’s People’s Theatre Cost: R142 per person, book via email on info@peoplestheatre.co.za Contact: 011 403 1563/011 403 2340

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Venue: Joburg Theatre Cost: R100 Contact: Edgar Moagi 011 877 6898, edgar@ joburgballet.com

2, 9, 16 & 23 December Melville Koppies Learn about nature and archaeology on the 3km guided tours (2 & 16 Dec), or join the 8km hikes (9 & 23 Dec). Suitable for ages 6+.

Time: 3pm (2 Dec); 8:30am (9, 16 & 23 Dec) Venue: Park opposite the entrance at Marks Park Sports Club in Judith Road, Emmarentia Cost: Adults R60, children R40 Contact: Wendy 011 482 4797, mk.org.za

3, 5, 10, 12, 14 & 15 December Christmas Gingerbread House Create your very own gingerbread house to enjoy at home. Suitable for 7–15 year olds.

Time: 10:30am–1:30pm Venue: Little Cooks Club Fourways, 92 Leslie Avenue, Fourways Cost: unavailable at time of print Contact: Grant 061 191 9122, grant@ littlecooksclub.co.za.

4 December Santa’s Parade at Greenstone Mall Come meet Santa and his helpers as they parade through Greenstone Shopping Centre.

Time: 2pm Venue: Starts at entrance 1 and ends at the Truworths Court, upper level Cost: Free Contact: greenstonemall.co.za

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7 December Kidchen Concepts Christmas Workshop A gingerbread house workshop in conjunction with Tinker School.

For ages 3–12.

Time: 2pm–4pm Venue: 75 4th Avenue, Melville Cost: R400 Contact: Petra 082 940 6108 or Pippa on 079 151 9015

4, 6, 11 & 13 December Christmas Gingerbread Trees Make and decorate gingerbread Christmas trees to take home, as well as a Christmas craft to hang on your Christmas tree. For 2–6 year olds.

Time: 10am–11.30am Venue: Little Cooks Club Fourways, 92 Leslie Avenue, Fourways Cost: unavailable at time of print

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Contact: Grant on 061 191 9122, grant@ littlecooksclub.co.za

4–22 December The Boy Who Cried Ninja Tim has been witnessing strange happenings around his house, but how can he get his parents to believe him? This hilarious show is perfect for children 4–10 years.

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Time: 11am, 2pm or 3pm depending on the day Venue: Auto and General Theatre on the Square Cost: R100 Contact: 086 191 5800, theatreonthesquare@ gmail.com, or computicket.com

6 December Snow White The classic story of Snow White is brought to life in an enchanting pantomime with an all-star cast, stunning sets and beautiful costumes. Suitable for all ages, the performance is in aid of Joburg Child Welfare.

Time: 7pm Venue: Joburg Theatre Cost: 950 tickets at R250 each and 22 VIP tickets at R350 each Contact: Maria Grigoropoulos, 011 298 8500, inkind@jhbchildwelfare.org.za

Carols by Candlelight Christmas favourites sung by locals artists and the Welsh Male Choir of SA.

Time: 5pm–7pm Venue: Truworths Court, Greenstone Mall Cost: Free Contact: prmanager@greenstonemarketing.co.za

7 December (release date) The Grinch The beloved Christmas story of the character everyone loves to hate is back in this family-friendly movie.

Time: check your local Ster Kinekor or Nu-Metro theatre Venue: Ster Kinekor and Nu-Metro theatres nationwide

7-24 December Children’s Activities at the Bedford Centre Festive activities include letters to Santa, a reading corner, Christmas crafts, face painting and roaming buskers.

Time: various times throughout the day

Venue: Bedford Centre Cost: Free Contact: 011 622 1840, bedfordcentre.com

8 December Family Outdoor Movie Night Bring your picnic baskets and camping chairs, and enjoy an outdoor screening of Zootopia.

Time: 7pm Venue: Hotel Grass Area, Emerald Resort and Casino, 777 Frikkie Meyer Boulevard, Vanderbijlpark Cost: R80, online.computicket.com Contact: 086 191 5800, emeraldcasino.co.za

8–23 December Santa’s Village Visit Santa’s Village in the Piazza for some daily fun-filled activities and shows for the children.

Time: 9am–5pm Cost: Free Venue: Clearwater Mall Contact: 011 288 5260, clearwatermall.co.za

9-23 December SA Lipizzanners Fabulous entertainment from the magnificent white Lipizzaner horses with livening music and holiday cheer.

Time: 10:30am (9, 16 & 22 Dec) and 7pm (12, 14, 21, 22 & 23 Dec) Venue: Lipizzanner Centre, 1 Dahlia Rd, Kyalami Cost: R150 per person, pensioners and R100 4–12 year olds Contact: lipizzanner@hixnet.co.za

10 December Mini Pony Camp A morning of horse-related fun just for the little ones! Join Shepherd’s Fold for a morning of riding and activities for 3–5 year olds.

Time: 8am–12pm Venue: Shepherd’s Fold Stables Cost: R250 Contact: Belinda 084 220 2657,

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10–16 December Festivities at Melrose Arch Melrose Arch transforms into a Christmas wonderland with an impressive light display.

Loads of activities such as virtual reality gaming and a record-your-own song karaoke booth.

Time: 9am–6pm Venue: Melrose Arch Cost: Free (some activities cost extra) Contact: 011 684 0002, melrosearch.co.za

11 December Gingerbread Houses Come assemble and decorate gingerbread houses for the festive season.

Time: 2pm–4pm Venue: 24A Riley Avenue, Bedfordview Cost: R300 per child Contact: Sanet on 074 888 7343 or sanet@ littlecooksclub.co.za.

11–14 December Zookeeper for a day From cleaning enclosures to preparing food and everything in between, children can learn about

1 December AIDS Awareness Day World AIDS Day is an international day dedicated to raising awareness of HIV/AIDS and helping educate communities about the pandemic. It is also the day to remember those lives that have been lost to AIDS and to show support for those living with it.

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zookeeping at the Lory Park Zoo. Suitable for ages 6–15.

Time: 8am–4pm Venue: Lory Park Zoo, Kruger Road, President Park Cost: R190 per day Contact: Kara at 011 315 7307

12–17 December Montecasino Christmas Village Montecasino’s outdoor piazzas turn into a magical European market-style Christmas Village.

Time: 2–9pm (Wed–Sat), 12–6pm (Sun & Mon) Venue: Montecasino Skoobs Theatre of Books Cost: R10 per person, free entry for u/12s Contact: 011 513 2800

12 December–6 January Wild World of Adventure fun park From an under the sea obstacle course to an animal express train, this is the ultimate children’s holiday adventure.

Time: 10am–5pm Venue: Cradlestone Mall

Cost: In the Wild Jungle free. Adventure Park R30 per child.

Contact: 010 020 1234

12 December–7 January Casual Bumboarding Bumboard, slope surf and slide down our different slopes.

Time: 9am–5pm Venue: The Ski Deck, 74 Bond Street, Ferndale, Randburg Cost: R100 per child for two hours Contact: 083 677 1811/011 781 6528

13 and 15 December Gingerbread Wonderland

14 December–25 January Elliot the Littlest Reindeer

Create and decorate a gingerbread family, make eatable Christmas tree decorations and decorate a gingerbread house. For children aged 3–8.

Time: 2pm–5pm, 9am–12pm (15 Dec) Venue: Olive Branch Cookery School, Rustic Timber Centre, Fourways Contact: 082 854 7388

Prepare to lose your heart to this tiny horse in a fun, Christmas-themed movie.

Time: check your local Ster Kinekor or Nu-Metro theatre Venue: Ster Kinekor and Nu-Metro theatres nationwide

14–23 December CINDERELLA The fairy tale transformed into dance.

Cinderella offers an unmissable chance for Teatro audiences to enjoy Joburg’s world-class ballet company as it expands its reach during this holiday season.

Time: 7:30pm (Fri), 2pm (Sat, Wed & Thurs) and 3pm (Sun) Venue: The Teatro at Montecasino Cost: Tickets range from R150 to R450, book at online.computicket.com Contact: 086 191 58000

18 December, 15 January Lego Mini Builds Monthly mini-builds for children aged 6–14 to foster their imagination.

Time: 2pm–4pm Venue: Great Yellow Brick Co, Lower level, Sandton City Cost: Free Contact: 011 662 1777, playwell@thebrick.co.za

25 December Mary Poppins Returns Mary Poppins is back in this all-new original sequel that releases today. It’s time for her to

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23 January–3 March The Mousetrap

help the next generation of the Banks family.

Time: check your local Ster Kinekor or Nu-Metro theatre Venue: Ster Kinekor and Nu-Metro cinemas nationwide

31 December Picnics in the Park A camp-out movie night in the park makes for the ideal family-friendly New Year’s Eve event.

Time: 2pm–12am Venue: Riversands Farm Village, Rose Road, Knopjeslaagte, Midrand Cost: R150 adult, R100 ages 13–17, R50 ages 2–12, u/2 free, R200 family (1 adult and 2

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Agatha Christie’s renowned murder mystery is the longest-running play on West End. Time: 8pm (Wed–Sat), 4pm (Sat), 3pm (Sun) Venue: Main Theatre, Montecasino Cost: R100–R240, book at online.computicket.com Contact: 086 191 5800, pietertoerien.co.za

30 January The Learning Point High School Exhibition Discover which high school would best suit your child. Spend one-on-one time with each institution and make an informed decision about your child’s future education.

Time: 1:30pm–5pm Venue: Grayston Preparatory School, Corner North Road and Gillard Street, Sandown Cost: Free

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Contact: Natasha 061 296 4141, thelearningpoint.co.za or expo@ thelearningpoint.co.za

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30 November–2 December Parkview Christmas Market Time to activate your spirit of giving! This event aims to raise funds for the Nicarela Charity.

Venue: George Hay Park, Lurgan Road, Parkview Cost: R50 adults, R20 pensioners, R80 weekend pass, u/12s free Contact: Bridget 082 610 0650, bridget. vonholdt@bm-africa.com

1 December Curro Waterfall Christmas Market A festive season holiday market ideal for your Christmas shopping, plus lots of eats and drinks.

Time: 3pm–8pm Venue: Waterfall Country Village, Midrand Cost: R10 entrance, free for pensioners and u/12s

Contact: 087 287 9471 or info.waterfall@ curro.co.za

and learning. Suitable for children grade R–3.

Time: 8am–1pm Venue: The Society for Animals in Distress, Plot 20, Moerdyk Avenue, Vorna Valley Cost: R900 for the full week, R200 per day Contact: 078 458 9143, aid@animalsindistress. org.za

2 December Ngwenya Country Market Spend a lovely day listening to Mike the Guitar Man, enjoying delicious food and cocktails and hunting down that special Christmas gift.

Venue: Ngwenya Glass Village Cost: Free Contact: Viv 082 497 6054 or Tina 082 887 4263

holiday programmes and workshops

1–22 December, 8-29 December Junior Chef Certificate Class Cooking courses for 7–15 year olds to learn about food and food preparation and get creative while having fun.

Time: 9:30am–12pm Venue: Little Cooks Club Fourways, 92 Leslie Avenue, Fourways Cost: available on enquiry

Contact: Christine on 083 556 3434 or headoffice@littlecooksclub.co.za.

3–7 December Little Turtles Swim School Children learn how to swim while having fun along the way. Age 3+.

Time: 9am–12pm Venue: 5 Lacey Lane, Bedfordview, East Rand.

Contact: Sam or Penny 064 705 1265/ 083 660 9990

3–7 December, 10–14 December Animal Holiday Adventure Join The Society for Animals in Distress for fun

5–6 December, 12–13 December Sew and Grow Using a sewing machine, learn to sew a drawstring bag and an elasticated skirt in just two lessons at this holiday sewing programme.

Time: 10am–12pm Venue: 17 Second Avenue, Melville Cost: R599, all fabrics supplied Contact: Fatima 082 568 7408/011 482 6542

7–21 December, 7–15 January Festive Season Programme The Express!ons Centre will be hosting a fun-filled, activity-based holiday programme on weekdays.

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Time: 7:30am–1:30pm or 1:30pm–5.30pm (half-day), 7:30am–5:30pm, 5pm Fri (full-day) Venue: The Express!ons Centre, Carlswald Valley Cost: R220 half-day am, R180 half-day pm and R290 full-day Contact: Carla 082 402 8169, carla@ expressionsinfocus.co.za or expressionsinfocus. co.za

9–14 December Around the World A themed holiday camp, sleepover or day camper for 4–18 year olds.

Time: 8am–5pm Venue: Immaculate Equestrian Academy, Plot 123B End Street, Golf View, Walkerville Cost: R250 per day Contact: 082 449 6663 for details

9 December–31 January Extralingual holiday care Language classes and activities such as

sports, cooking, drama, art and music.

Time: 7am–6pm (Mon–Fri) Venue: 41 Bath Avenue, Rosebank Cost: Group and family discounts available Contact: 078 947 6685/073 168 2348, info@ extralingual.com

10 December Art Workshop Let the children’s inner artist shine as they paint their own beautiful art work. Age 6+.

Time: 9am–12pm Venue: SeedPod Studio Cost: R290 Contact: 011 465 0375 or seedpodstudio.com/ holiday-workshops

10–13 December LEGO and Robotics From basic robotics to studying cool technical models, children will learn something new daily.

Time: 9am–12pm Venue: Eagle Canyon Golf Estate Clubhouse

Cost: R650 per week and R180 per day Contact: Rachel 072 320 4664

10–14 December Cherry Tomatoes Gardening Appropriate for ages 4–10, every day will include a range of activities such as digging, exploring, planting and creating.

Time: 8:30am–12pm Venue: REESA Foundation, Craighall Park

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Cost: R300 daily, R1250 for the week Contact: Nicola 071 883 5583/079 895 1332

10–14 December Tennis Clinic with ACE For beginners to advanced players; indoor facilities available. Ages 3–15. Entries close 5 Dec. Time: 9am–12pm Venue: Blairgowrie Tennis Club Cost: R900 for all five days or R250 per day Contact: Ann Chapman 083 271 3804, annchapman1956@gmail.com

11–16 December Musical Theatre A musical theatre workshop with a final performance at Theatre on the Square. For ages 6–16.

Time: 9am–12pm daily Venue: Crawford College, Benmore Cost: R1200 per performer Contact: 082 336 4424, vicky@showiz.co.za or fameacademy.co.za

11–14 December Inchanga Stables Pony Camp Fun, riding, pony interaction, lessons, treasure hunts and other exciting activities. Ages 5–15.

Time: 9am–4:30pm (Tues–Thurs), 9am–12pm (Fri) Venue: Inchanga Stables, Chartwell Cost: R1400 with a 50% deposit due by 4 Dec Contact: Leonie 073 436 7037, inchanga@ gmail.com

12–14 & 17–18 December Christmas Pony Camp End the year off with two days of horsey fun!

For ages 6–16.

Time: 8am–5pm Venue: Shepherd’s Fold Stables Cost: R350 per day, R100 per night Contact: Belinda 084 220 2657, belinda.milsom@ gmail.com or shepherdsfordstables.co.za

Aragon Pony Camp Three days of horse riding and horse-related activities, games and camping for ages 7–12.

Time: 8am–5pm Venue: Aragon Stables, Muldersdrift Cost: R350 per day Contact: Jennifer Jacoby 082 666 3728, jennyf@aragonstables.co.za

15 December–6 January Gadget Factory This holiday programme features a host of fun and educational activities designed to keep young minds stimulated and active.

From building and exploring different gizmos and gadgets to mind-blowing science workshops and shows, and over 350 interactive science exhibits.

Time: 9am–5pm (Mon–Fri) and 9:30am– 4:30pm (Sat & Sun) Venue: Corner of Miriam Makeba and Helen Joseph Streets, Newtown Cost: R48 adults, R32 children, u/3s free Contact: 011 639 8484/011 639 8400, cynthia.mohohlo@sci-bono.co.za or sci-bono.co.za

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finishing touch

strictly exercising If you can’t beat them, join them. anél lewis

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onor came home a few months ago, bemoaning the fact that he does not have a six-pack. Now in our home, unless we are talking about what multi-pack refreshment we need to go with the Sunday braai, “six-pack” is not a term that is often bandied about. A few weeks later, I heard one of his classmates also talking about this all-important six-pack while they were playing outside before school. It seems the boys have decided, in all their wisdom, that a six-pack is the ultimate sign of fitness.

I have been running for the past six years, having started soon after Conor was born. I wish I could say that I too was motivated by a similar desire for a six-pack. But, I have to admit that

I hit the tar for my own sanity, and for some peace and quiet. It is really the only time that I have to myself when there are no calls from the children to mix chocolate milk, make food or find missing goggles. No one is asking me for anything, and I only have myself to look after. In fact, during races there are even people alongside the road who feed me for a change.

I didn’t think Erin and Conor were too interested in my training and running goals, until I overheard Conor telling his friend that his mom ran “lots of races”. I was even more tickled to hear him go on to explain how I am “very strict” from all the exercise. Confused, I asked him why he thought running made me strict. “Because you need to be very strict to

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run for so long, Mom.” And there I was thinking that the early-morning jogs made me a nicer person, not the complete opposite.

Once I had worked out that he was trying to say that the running made me “fit”, I was quite chuffed that my son could see the positive spinoffs of regular exercise. But, I was also hugely grateful that he has not yet invited me to join him on his mission for that elusive six-pack.

I would much rather stick to being strict on my peaceful run around the block.

Anél has signed up both Erin and Conor for Saturday parkruns so that the whole family can get “strict” together. Sadly, none of the Lewis family has any six-packs to show off just yet, but, they’re having plenty of fun getting fit.