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The bumper holiday issue is one that I have always looked forward to as a reader and so it is quite serendipitous that it is my first as editor. As a working mom, it’s also been a much-needed reminder of what the holidays are really all about. More than just time off, they are an opportunity to reboot and reconnect as a family. Growing up I always looked forward to our annual road trip to Kenton-on-Sea in the Eastern Cape. Carpool karaoke with my sisters and pit stops at local farm stalls and off-the-beaten-track restaurants made for some great memories. Despite the long drive, we would arrive full of energy, eager to head to the beach and plan our holiday itinerary. As a mother, holidays are somewhat less carefree but no less joyful. Sunbathing has been replaced by building sandcastles and languid lunches are a thing of the past. But what can one expect with a toddler and baby in tow? I’ve learnt that the secret to a successful getaway with children is to choose your destination and, more importantly, your accommodation wisely. Turn to p18 for our pick of family-friendly hotels across the country to help you plan your next trip. In the spirit of reconnecting, read “Time for Tea” (p14) about the importance of family rituals and the benefits of taking time out to have a cuppa together. In this issue we’re also celebrating all things party, from great recipe ideas to décor and games inspiration – say goodbye to those party planning blues. And if you’re looking for ways to spoil Dad this father’s Day, cook him a hearty meal from Reuben Riffel’s new cookbook (p16) – you’ll be hard-pressed to choose just one. Until next time, safe travels.
Psst... this issue’s Cape Town cover models are none other than my husband and our daughter Olivia when she was just eight weeks old – she’s now two! A stark reminder that with parenting, the days are long but the years are short.
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features 8 diary of a dad KFM radio presenter Ryan O’Connor shares his parenting journey 12 thinking out the box A look at the emerging science of Playgroundology 14 the ritual of tea Sam Page talks about the importance of family rituals 18 book your next breakaway Find a family-friendly hotel to suit your style (and budget), at home or abroad
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pregnancy news – parental guidance Jessica Baxter shares her insights into pregnancy and its impact on your relationship
10 best for baby – bedtime best practice Philippa Selfe explores ways to guarantee a good night’s rest for baby
13 a good read For the whole family 16 recipes – a feast of flavours Sample chef Reuben Riffel’s favourite childhood recipes from his new book Reuben at Home
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With a new editor on board (welcome to Jessica), I was able to step out of the office for a few days and take a break. There is little that beats going on holiday – especially if it involves exploring somewhere you’ve never been. This time it was Abu Dhabi, a city of many faces, but one that shouts family fun. Be sure to check out our August/September issue for more on my travels to this Middle Eastern mecca, from fastpaced thrills to idyllic beaches. Ah, and the food… plates and plates of fattoush, moutabel and tabbouleh. So good!
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oh baby! Having delivered babies for 33 years, I am always bumping into women whose children I have helped birth, but to have recently been in attendance at the birth of the baby of a baby that I delivered over 30 years ago was a first for me! Sydney Grové, General Manager of Origin Family-Centred Maternity Hospital, Parow, Cape Town
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thank you I just received the April/May issue of Child magazine – my very first copy. As a working mother of four boys, I particularly enjoyed and related to the articles “disengaging the mothership” and “he says, she says.” Many thanks for the great work so far. Lusanda
going green In our complex we’ve contacted numerous companies to arrange collection of our glass and plastic for recycling and have not received one reply. The council does collect, but it all goes into the same truck! If recycling were taken more seriously, many more people would be doing it. Anonymous
We recently celebrated Mother’s Day and as a mom to a special-needs child, I wanted to share our amazing journey with our eight-year-old son, Mehul Soni – the most courageous, incredible person I know. Mehul was born in 2008 and was perfectly healthy, reaching all his milestones up to the age of 18 months. Suddenly, over a period of 72 hours after receiving his vaccinations, he completely regressed. He lost eye contact, became non-verbal, lost interest in playing with toys and displayed all the red flags of autism. It was heart wrenching to watch. Mehul embarked on a very intensive early intervention programme at the Centre for Autism Research & education (C.A.R.e) in 2011 and over the past few years has made incredible strides. Today, he is an amazing, adorable, talkative, confident, friendly and happy boy with a zest for life. He is my true inspiration, my purpose and reason for being. I am truly privileged to be his mom and have learnt so much from him. Mehul, with his dad Satish Soni and mom Dr Rakhee Singh.
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With Father’s Day approaching, CHILD MAGAZINE caught up with KFM radio presenter Ryan O’Connor about raising his daughters Faith (22 months) and Erin (seven months), and what parenting means to him. if you had to describe parenting in three words, what would they be? Scary, beautiful, rewarding. yours was not an easy journey to parenthood. Can you share your story? After 10 years of battling to fall pregnant, my wife Karen and I looked into surrogacy and adoption. And then we found out we were expecting Grace. After carrying her to term, we unfortunately lost her due to a placental abruption. Amongst other things this gave us little hope of ever having children naturally. But miracles do indeed happen and we had Faith who arrived at 31 weeks and then 15 months later, Erin was born at 32 weeks. Both were delivered early because of the risk of another placental abruption. Faith’s arrival was incredibly nerve-wracking. Seeing her hooked up to so many machines made my heart sink. A day felt like a week as we watched her fight her way out of the neo-natal ICU. When Erin came along, because we’d already been through the process and had built good relationships with the staff at the hospital, it felt a little more controlled (or maybe I just was). what have been the biggest challenges of parenting so far? Friends and family warned us of sleepless nights and nappy drills, but in all honesty the sleep deprivation wasn’t as bad as we’d expected. Yes, we were tired and yes, they screamed at all times of the night (and sometimes they still do), but being a parent is so rewarding that I tend not to dwell on the physical strains and focus more on the joys of parenthood.
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Becoming a parent has opened up a world of emotion for me.
what pearls of wisdom do you have for first-time fathers? Spend as much time as possible with your children. They are only small once. And get involved as much as you can to give your wife time to rest. Moms are the hardest-working people in a household with a newborn. how has having children changed you? Becoming a parent has opened up a world of emotion for me that didn’t exist before. I see things through more compassionate and empathetic eyes. what has surprised you the most about parenting? I honestly never thought I’d be changing as many nappies as I do! how do you like to spend the holidays with your daughters? I enjoy taking the girls out to markets or to visit family on the weekends – the holidays are much the same, only we get to do it for a lot longer.
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and what are the joys for you? The first smile and every smile after that. Hugs, kisses, hearing the word “dada” and just feeling so much love that it takes my breath away.
how do you celebrate Father’s Day in your house? Breakfast in bed and spending the day together as a family.
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Pregnancy is a journey unlike any other. Some might argue it’s the wildest ride you’ll ever take. Moms-to-be are often counselled through what to expect, but what about their partners?
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hen my husband and I found out we were expecting our daughter, we were elated. Those heady days of early pregnancy when you lie in bed debating baby names and imagining life with a little one had us convinced the next nine months would be spent in loved-up bliss. And then the hormones kicked in. When asked for advice by soon-to-be dads on how to navigate their way through pregnancy, my husband simply replies: proceed with caution. Pregnancy is equal parts difficult and delightful – at least it was for me. With my first, I battled with the changing shape of my body, the tidal wave of hormones and the enormity of just how life-changing having a child is – and my husband bore the brunt of it. If I wasn’t crying over paint colours for the nursery or complaining that my pants no longer fitted, I was excitedly reorganising the house, room by room. It was like living with Jekyll and Hyde, my husband tells me. Looking back, I feel
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somewhat guilty that his experience of my pregnancy was, in many ways, even more of a rollercoaster ride than my own. Perhaps if someone had warned him, he would have found the transition a little easier. Of course he could have read any one of the mountains of pregnancy books that lived on my bedside table, but to be honest, none offered much in the way of advice for partners. So, here are a few pearls of wisdom I have picked up along the way…
practice patience Pregnancy tests you in many ways. Your other half may ask you the same question a hundred times – most likely about whether she looks fat in a particular outfit or (in my case), if you really are excited about becoming a parent – or she’ll send you to the shop late at night to satisfy her craving for ice cream under the guise that “it’s for the baby”. Stay calm, set boundaries when needed and remember that this too shall pass.
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While engaging in conversation with a pregnant woman can sometimes feel like navigating your way through landmines, it’s important to keep the lines of communication open. Remember, a relationship is only as good as its dialogue. Tell her when she’s being difficult or inconsiderate. My husband reminded me one day that pregnancy was also tough on him, for different reasons. Making me aware of what he was going through made me more mindful of his feelings.
Pregnancy, and especially the arrival of the baby, changes the landscape of your relationship. Instead of bemoaning your wife’s newfound priorities, namely your child, see it as an opportunity to discover new things about her. I was recently at a wedding where the couple wrote their own vows and one part stood out for me: “I promise to love you not just for the person you are today, but for the person you will become.” Parenthood alters the fabric of your being. Love each other through the changes.
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best for baby
Arguably the hottest topic among parents of young children is sleep. Although every baby is different, there are things you can do to set the scene for quality ZZZZs – for you and baby. PHILIPPA SELFE takes a look.
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ow your child sleeps can be directly proportionate to how you cope as a new parent. As someone whose children didn’t sleep consistently through the night until the age of two, I basically fell apart. If we had a third child, I’d probably do things differently. For starters, I definitely wouldn’t wait 12 months before seeking professional help like I did with the first two. As owner of a baby academy that specialises in sleep consultation, Una van Staden points out: “Many families question the necessity of paying for sleep advice. Interesting when you think that babies spend more time sleeping than doing anything else – and they develop their brain during sleep. An important investment!” Of course disrupted nights should be expected when your baby is very new, but Van Staden recommends introducing a flexible routine at around four to six weeks. Consistency can help baby identify the cues of sleep, sending a message of security and reassurance.
create a calm zone You can help set the scene for fuss-free naps by paying attention to the sleep environment as well as following a calm sequence to help baby wind down. “The nursery should be decorated in muted colours with minimal visual stimulation. Mobiles and toys in the cot signal a play zone when in fact it is a sleep zone,” says Van Staden. Bath time could be followed by a quiet, soothing massage for baby. Gentle touch stimulates the central nervous system, making the brain produce more serotonin, the feelgood hormone, and less cortisol (the stress hormone). After feeding, Van Staden recommends placing babies into their cot drowsy but still awake. “Most babies prefer to be on their side and will roll onto their back at some stage, which is the safest sleep position. Tummy sleeping is not recommended,” she says. At night, she advises total darkness for babies, but do allow some form of natural light into the room during the day to prevent them from developing day-night reversal.
While not crucial, starting off in a small crib or Moses basket can help the transition to the outside world. “Newborns sleep much better in a contained, elevated position,” explains Van Staden. According to Dr Natalie Arkin, a Joburg-based chiropractor, babies tend to hold their foetal position for the first weeks of life. “That’s why they often like to be swaddled or curl their legs up,” she says. The position of the arms is key when swaddling. Traditionally swaddles keep arms by the baby’s side or across their chest, but some allow for the natural arms-up position, which enables movement of the hands to the mouth to truly self-soothe. You can simulate the womb further with sleep aids that play heartbeat sounds and white noise, which is different frequencies of sound combined together at one level to create a shushing sound similar to what babies hear in utero. “White noise helps a baby transition from light sleep to deep sleep much more quickly. It is particularly beneficial for reflux babies, but it is crucial that it plays for at least one hour, so that the baby completes one sleep cycle,” says Van Staden.
comfort is key The ideal nursery temperature is 21-22°C. A good heart rate monitor will display the room temperature and is also an essential piece of equipment for monitoring breathing. For babies who struggle to settle even when fed, burped and changed, consider consulting a paediatric chiropractor who will use gentle adjustments to correct misalignments to the spine and nervous system. It also helps stimulate the digestive system, which is why chiropractic works so well on colicky babies. Arkin explains: “Sometimes the limited space in utero forces babies into a very uncomfortable position and they can have a torticollis (or ‘wry neck’). The birth itself can also cause issues. In a natural delivery, forceps and suctions can cause trauma. With caesareans, the sudden change in pressure affects the cranial bones of the skull and there is a tremendous amount of pressure placed on a child’s neck to pull them out,” she says. If you hold your baby up under their arms and their legs don’t hang straight down but like a banana, it’s a good indication that they are not comfortable and are in need of a chiropractor. “Of all the research on paediatric chiropractic, the one thing that comes out consistently is that chiropractically treated babies sleep better,” says Arkin.
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The exact cause of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is unknown, but the following guidelines are recommended to reduce the risk. ✻✻ Always place a baby on its back for every sleep. ✻✻ Use a firm mattress covered by a fitted sheet. If there is a history of allergies or asthma in the family, consider a hypoallergenic mattress. ✻✻ Have the baby share your room, not your bed. If you bring the baby to the bed to feed, put him back in the cot afterwards. ✻✻ Keep soft objects, such as pillows and loose
tips for parents Van Staden suggests parents alternate carrying out the bedtime routine to avoid a situation where baby cannot go to sleep if one particular parent is not present. “The most important principle here is that everyone is on the same page regarding the sleep routine,” she advises. She recommends moving baby out of your room at the age of roughly four months. “The baby and adult sleep cycles don’t always coincide and this could be the reason for frequent night waking in babies.” Partners can help by taking over one or two night feeds of expressed breastmilk or formula. At this time, it makes sense for Mom to sleep in a separate room where she won’t be disturbed, even if just for two or three hours. If your baby won’t take a bottle, let your partner handle burping and nappy changes so you can get back to bed immediately after a feed. It isn’t always possible to nap while baby naps when there are bottles to be sterilised and there’s laundry to be done. Relinquishing as many of these tasks to your partner or a nanny will free up some rest time. The good news is that the extreme tiredness doesn’t last forever. My four- and two year olds now wake up and make their own bottles without even disturbing us!
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bedding, out of your baby’s sleep area. An infant sleeping bag is a good option in winter as it prevents baby’s head from slipping under the covers. ✻✻ Do not expose your baby to cigarette smoke. ✻✻ Research shows that a dummy reduces the risk of SIDS. Do not attach the dummy to anything that carries a risk for suffocation, choking or strangulation. ✻✻ Don’t dress baby too warmly. Caregivers should watch for signs of overheating, such as sweating or baby’s chest feeling hot to the touch. For a list of sleep trainers, paediatricians and chiropractors in your area, go to childmag.co.za
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Albert Einstein once said that play is the highest form of research, yet very few schools are using play as a form of learning – until now. ANÉL LEWIS investigates the emerging science
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lay is deemed so important for a child’s development that the united nations High Commission for Human Rights has entrenched it as a child’s fundamental right. Yet there seems to be little time set aside at school for climbing trees, playing hopscotch on chalk-etched courses and partaking in an obligatory game of hide-andseek with imaginary friends. These are some of the activities that proponents of Playgroundology – an emerging science focused on creating stimulating spaces for children to play in – say are essential for the development of young minds. The premise of Playgroundology is that play is not a luxury, but a necessity.
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Alex Smith, a Canadian advocate of Playgroundology, says the benefits of play are “more pronounced in those spaces where adults have demonstrated empathy by taking the time, care and knowledge to create environments that lend themselves to adventure, exploration and the defining of limits”. This is done extensively at Elkanah House in Cape Town where children are encouraged to spend time exploring their environments. “In this way, they are equipped to become adults who have learnt to follow their passion and take initiative. These are the vital self-starter skills to set them up for future success,” says Sarah Jacobs from Elkanah House. “Play is the most important learning process for young children and modern schools often fall into the trap of putting children at desks for too long, too young. The consequence is that children are deprived of a natural development process critical to their growth. With Playgroundology, it is the environment that should be the primary teacher,” she adds.
not just child’s play When we’re on the hamster wheel of adulthood, play is very far down on the list of priorities. But Dr Stuart Brown, an American psychiatrist and pioneer in play research, says it is a catalyst for learning at any age. It is also critical for healthy relationships and social wellbeing. “Our adult biology remains unique among all creatures and our capacity for flexibility, novelty and exploration persists. If we suppress this natural design, the consequences are dire. The play-less adult becomes stereotyped, inflexible, humourless, lives without irony, loses the capacity for optimism and generally is quicker to react to stress with violence or depression than the adult whose play life persists.” Researchers agree that play has important benefits, including boosting creativity and problem-solving skills, mental acuity and improving work performance.
get playful Ideas to encourage more play at home for you and your children: ✻ Role play with your children. Brown, who is also the founder of the National Institute for Play in California, says: “Play should also be used by teachers in their classroom and by parents when they help their child with homework. Learning should not be drudgery. Play promotes true intellectual curiosity.” ✻ Host a game night with old-fashioned board games. ✻ Instead of scrolling through Facebook, write or doodle a sketch when you have free time. ✻ Buy an adult colouring-in book – you don’t even have to stay within the lines. ✻ Dance like no-one is watching. ✻ Stay active – wrestle and rough play with your children, take part in an obstacle course and climb trees with them.
elkanah’s classrooms are designed with the concept of indoor/outdoor play to effectively create learning spaces without walls. In the pre-primary classes, small groups of children take part in different experiential activities during the day for constructive play. Their outside play space, which is equipped with sandpits and water troughs, is used to teach mathematical concepts such as mass and capacity, and each classroom has its own garden and stack-a-doors to make it easy for teachers to work indoors and outside at the same time. But play is not just beneficial for a child’s academic development; it also teaches them social norms, boundaries, collaborative expertise and the foundations of good human relationships. “Our children benefit from learning through play from a young age as they acquire the skills of human relations, inquiring minds, critical thinking and become problem solvers through self-discovery,” says Jacobs, adding that play in the younger years is also crucial in creating an environment in which children feel secure. Research shows that children who play games outside, balance on low walls, hang on monkey bars and play with balls very seldom need the help of an occupational therapist later in their school life. “Play also encourages individuality as children are given the opportunity to develop at their own pace,” adds Jacobs.
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Cowan House, a co-educational preparatory school in KwaZuluNatal, highlights six key modes of play in its approach to learning: ✻ quiet play, which involves activities such as reading and drawing. ✻ creative play, which focuses on painting and dancing. ✻ imagination play ✻ co-operative play, which involves more than one child. ✻ dramatic play such as role playing and pretend. ✻ manipulative play, which involves solving puzzles and playing with blocks to promote hand-eye co-ordination. ✻ active play, such as riding bikes and climbing trees.
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The holidays are almost here and if you’re planning a trip somewhere, make sure to pack one of these great reads. for early graders
A little Horse Called Pancakes and the Big Mountain fire By Candice Noakes-Dobson (Jacana, R120) Inspired by events that occurred during the March 2015 fires in Cape Town, this book celebrates friendship and coming together as a community. The story follows Anna B and her horse Pancakes on an adventure to save their beloved mountain from a raging fire. If your children loved the first book in the series, A Little Horse Called Pancakes, they won’t be disappointed with this second instalment.
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Middle School: The Worst Years of My Life By James Patterson (Penguin Random House, R150) In an effort to make his first year of middle school memorable, Rafe Khatchadorian devises a game with his best friend Leonardo the Silent – break every rule at school and earn points while doing it! But when Rafe’s game starts to catch up with him, he has to decide if winning is what’s most important, or if he’s finally ready to face the rules, bullies and truths he’s been avoiding.
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How to Raise a feminist: Bringing up Kids with Confidence to Change the World By Allison Vale & Victoria Ralfs (Jonathan Ball, R275) As mothers and educators, authors Allison Vale and Victoria Ralfs share their insights into parenting and how feminism came to play an important role in raising their respective children. Honest and at times hilarious, this book gives parents of both boys and girls advice on raising strong, empathetic and likeable young people.
Homegrown By Bertus Basson (Jacana, R330) Owner of the award-winning Overture restaurant in the Cape Winelands, chef Bertus Basson knows a thing or two about good food. A proudly South African cookbook, Homegrown shares Basson’s favourite recipes inspired by both his Afrikaans upbringing and local tastes and flavours. This makes for a great Father’s Day gift for men who love to cook.
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the ritual of tea
Without realising it, we participate in rituals every day – some linked to our faith or culture, some to our family – but there are few more unifying than sipping a cup of tea. SAMANTHA PAGE raises her tea cup to the humble brew and its benefits for
t’s been almost 20 years since I sat cross-legged on a simple, woven mat in my tiny apartment in Bangkok, Thailand, where I was teaching English, but I remember it as vividly as the ceremony that took place there that day. Bangkok can be loud, hot and sticky, but on this particular morning, my Japanese colleague, Aimi, was preparing matcha tea and everything felt cool, quiet and restrained. I had mentioned that I was feeling a little homesick and Aimi decided to come “rescue” me with a tea ceremony that is integral to Japanese culture and carries its participants away from the worries of the world and grounds them in the now. The vibrant green matcha powder, which is a superior grade of green tea containing up to 15 times more nutrients than loose-leaf green tea, was wrapped in a simple linen cloth with black Japanese letters dancing from end to end – her mother’s handiwork, Aimi explained. The message: be still and the Earth will speak to you. After we washed our feet and hands, we took our places opposite each other and the graceful, choreographed preparation began. With elegant, immaculate and measured movements, she added hot water to powder and, using a bamboo whisk, blended the ingredients into a rich foam-topped tea. I gently swirled and sipped and bowed as we passed the delicate bowl between us. Conversation was to be “happy”, Aimi suggested before we started, so no gossip or small talk – only praise, mindfulness and peace. It was one of the most sincere gestures of friendship I have ever experienced and a beautiful expression of how an ancient tradition can fit so seamlessly into a contemporary milieu. The Chinese were the first to discover the tea leaf and regarded it as a synonym for life. Before it became widely consumed there, the humble leaf was considered a medicinal staple thought to successfully treat illnesses and promote long life and vitality. Since the beginning of the Ming dynasty, teahouses have been popping up all over the country and now people of all ages frequent these tea sanctuaries at all hours of the day or night to drink tea and simply enjoy each other’s company. Many years later, tea is the second most consumed drink in the world after water and it is revered as much more than a mere beverage. Whether you’re welcoming guests with a bright mint tea in Morocco, socialising with a strongly brewed anise-flavoured red tea in Thailand or sipping a spicy, milky chai from a street vendor in India, drinking tea has been known to soothe a broken heart, warm you when you’re cold or cool you when you’re hot, and provide an opportunity to connect with those you love, respect and treasure. A good friend of mine offers me a cup of Earl Grey when I visit, before I’ve even reached the front door because she knows my penchant for the fragrant bergamot black tea, and you can be sure there’ll be a butter biscuit nonchalantly slipped onto the saucer as an extra measure of love. In a world that is moving at such an incredible pace, the respite of brewing and drinking a cup of tea with your family and friends reduces stress and brings instant comfort.
The simple act of brewing, sipping and savouring tea leaves in a cup elevates you above the chaos of life today.
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“The simple act of brewing, sipping and savouring tea leaves in a cup elevates you above the chaos of life today,” says Jesse Jacobs, the founder of Samovar Tea Lounge in San Francisco and a prolific writer on the benefits of the ritual. “Filling you with flavour, calm and vitality, the tea ritual is a vehicle for both inner peace and health, and interpersonal connection and happiness.” And while serving tea to tots is hotly debated on parenting forums because of the caffeine content and polyphenols that make it harder for the body to absorb iron, resulting in anaemia, the Journal of Human Nutrition and Dietetics reported that children who drank moderate amounts of tea – up to two cups a day – suffered no harmful effects. Recently, my son and I were enjoying a cup of rooibos tea together while he recovered at home after an appendectomy and he declared that he felt better “with every sip”, but the benefits for children 1 Tea may reduce the risk of go far beyond healing. What I love is the heart attack and stroke. focus on being present in that very moment 2 Tea has 50% less caffeine without the burden of homework, projects than coffee, and herbal blends and peer pressure; the indulgence of taking are caffeine free. time out to share opinions and swap ideas; 3 Tea is calorie free. acknowledging differences (I take my tea without milk and he takes his with milk); and unconsciously stressing the importance of “please”, “thank you” and “I enjoyed our time together”. Barbara H. Fiese, professor of Human Development and Family Studies at the University of Illinois, believes that a family tea ritual enhances children’s sense of belonging, which is especially relevant to adolescents who are dealing with social upheaval and insecurity. “If our parents and siblings value us and believe that we’re smart, funny, creative, lovable or talented, then we begin to see ourselves through that lens,” Fiese adds. Furthermore, establishing a tea ritual can help your child cope more effectively with stress throughout their life. Use Granny’s cups or teapot to add a note of nostalgia or choose your own set that is reserved for your family, and keep conversation light, varied and stimulating (and, of course, non-judgemental) so that you’ll always have eager company and a loving exchange. Now send out a loving call (anyone for tea?) and wait for your guests to arrive. Tea, and family time, is being served.
three things you may not know about tea
tea tips
Rooibos and honeybush tea are both perfect for infants, toddlers and young children. Both are naturally caffeine free and have an inherent sweetness so there’s no need to add sugar or even milk. It soothes colic, tummy troubles and allergies, and next to water, it’s arguably nature’s purest beverage. Chamomile is well known for its health benefits, so it has never been solely drunk as a beverage. Perfect for tweens and teens, this floral drink will work wonders to calm exam nerves, induce sleep and quiet restless minds. Bubble tea, also called pearl milk tea, is fun and delicious for everyone. It’s a fruity ice tea flavoured with “popping bobas,” which are filled with pure fruit juice, that burst in your mouth. Traditionally, tapioca pearls are used, which are a good source of iron, calcium and vitamin C.
fact or fiction?
We bust some of the myths around tea: Green tea is the healthiest. All teas have health benefits, but as a result of hype, green tea is credited with everything from curing cancer to losing weight. Tea doesn’t have an expiration date. The health benefits (potency of antioxidants) decrease after six months. Tea bags are as good as loose tea. Loose teas are higher in quality, while tea bags contain lower-quality tea dust. Boiling water “burns” delicate teas. The general rule of thumb is the hotter you brew, the darker and more robust your tea will be; the cooler your water, the sweeter and more mild it’ll taste. magazine joburg
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recipes
a feast of
In his latest book Reuben at Home, chef REUBEN RIFFEL invites readers into his kitchen and shares his love for food and family.
roast leg of lamb
My memories of leg of lamb are happy ones. I must have been about 14 or 15 years old when my ma would come home on Sunday evenings from Chamonix, where she worked, bringing us some of the buffet leftovers. Sometimes there were things from the dessert buffet, sometimes some vegetables or roast chicken, but the pieces of garlicky-rosemary lamb were always my favourite. Years later, when I too entered restaurant kitchens, I worked at Chamonix and my very first job was to debone and prepare the legs of lamb for the Sunday buffet. There is a beautiful synchronicity in that – the very same lamb that had once made such an impact on me as a child became my first culinary responsibility, in the exact same kitchen that my mom worked in. There are no coincidences… serves 6-8 ingredients 1 leg of lamb (about 3kg) 1 leek 1 carrot 1 celery stick 3 mushrooms 4 garlic cloves 1 tablespoon tomato paste 2 cups white wine cup Worcestershire sauce 3 cups water, with concentrated lamb stock added
1 tablespoon Maizena (cornflour) roast potatoes, for serving marinade 2 cloves garlic, crushed teaspoon black pepper 2 tablespoons olive oil picked rosemary leaves picked thyme leaves 1 teaspoon sea salt teaspoon grated lemon rind
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method 1 Preheat the oven to 195˚C. 2 Blend the marinade ingredients. Cut gashes into the lamb and rub this marinade all over. This allows the flavours to permeate the meat and helps to get the fatty bits nice and crisp. 3 Chop up the leek, carrot, celery and mushrooms and place into a roasting pan, along with the garlic cloves. 4 Place the lamb on top of the vegetables, drizzle with olive oil and roast for 2 hours, keeping the pan moist by adding up to 1 cup of water. 5 Once cooked, remove the lamb and set it aside. 6 On the stovetop, continue cooking the vegetables until nicely done. Add the tomato paste and cook some more. 7 Pour in the wine, Worcestershire sauce and stock water, and cook to reduce by half. Strain to remove the veggies. 8 Mix the Maizena with a little cold water and add it to the sauce to thicken it slightly. 9 Serve the lamb with the sauce and roast potatoes.
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flavours lemon & chilli grilled calamari I only discovered calamari once I’d left school but I seriously love it. Dishes like this remind me of the fish and chips shops of my younger days. Of places like Lady Grey’s Fisheries in Paarl, where we’d all stand, happily and hungrily, in a row waiting for our hot parcels of vis en tjips in an aromatic haze of lemon, oil and vinegar. In later years when Maryke and I were working in England, I experienced exactly the same good feeling when we went down to the local ‘chippie’, as they call it. And speaking about chippies, when it comes to fish and chips, the chips need to be slap tjips with vinegar – no crispy, thin, fancy double-fried numbers. Now, I feel the same about calamari. It just needs lemon and chilli. These flavours are so great, you seldom need more than that.
serves 6 ingredients 1 long red chilli, finely chopped bunch spring onions, chopped tablespoons lemon juice 100ml olive oil 800g baby calamari, cleaned sea salt
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lemon slices garlic cloves, thinly sliced red peppers rosa tomatoes, quartered cup Sauvignon Blanc 1 teaspoon smoked paprika 50g rocket
method 1 Combine chilli, spring onions, lemon juice and 50ml olive oil in a bowl. 2 Toss the calamari in this dressing and sprinkle with salt. 3 Heat a griddle pan until it starts to smoke, and cook the calamari and lemon slices in batches (depending on the size of your pan). Once the calamari hits the pan, weigh it down with a flat-iron or foil-wrapped brick.* It should take a minute on either side to cook and get nice colour. 4 Heat the rest of the olive oil in a small pot, add the garlic, peppers and tomatoes, and slowly fry until the tomatoes release their juices. 5 Add the wine and reduce until the mixture thickens. Season with salt and paprika. 6 Serve as a sauce with the calamari, garnished with rocket and the cooked lemon slices.
*The pressing down helps to get nice colouring on the calamari, which in turn gives it excellent flavour.
about the book Reuben Riffel has worked in kitchens around the world, but it’s the local flavours and food of South Africa that have his heart. Reuben at Home is bursting with recipes inspired by his childhood and the meals he shared with his family. The book is published by Quivertree Publications (quivertreepublications.com) and is available from all good book stores at a suggested retail price of R345. magazine joburg
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book your next breakaway The holidays are fast approaching and if you’re feeling slightly panicky at the thought of cooking, cleaning and entertaining, check into a hotel where your meals will be sorted and your children kept busy, giving you time to relax. Here is our pick of family-friendly establishments across the country.
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Pumula Beach Hotel Just south of Durban, this beachfront hotel offers children’s holiday entertainment; outdoor activities; an indoor games room; a children’s dining room; and a Tiny Tots Kitchen for new moms. Babysitting, cots and high chairs are available, as are family and adjoining rooms. pumulabeachhotel.com
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The Oyster Box Spend your time exploring the lush gardens, lazing at the swimming pools or soaking up the sun at one of the protected beaches. For children, the hotel offers a holiday club; indoor and outdoor activities; a movie theatre; and a child-focused menu. Plus youngsters will also be gifted with a holiday backpack and a wristband for complimentary items on arrival. Babysitting services are available; you can even take your pet. oysterboxhotel.com
Champagne Sports Resort Located at the foot of the Drakensberg Mountains, this resort has recently had an upgrade and now boasts a Wellness Centre and impressive buffet and dining areas. The Children’s Play Park boasts plenty of activities and a big jungle gym for your children to explore. There is spacious accommodation available for families, all with views of the mountains or hotel gardens. champagnesportsresort.com
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Cathedral Peak Hotel Situated in the Central Drakensberg, this hotel has a dedicated children’s dining room with play area; a games room; pools; rides; holiday activities and more. A babysitting service is also available and cots can be requested. In bad weather, the hotel runs a game of bingo or you can request board games of your choice from reception. cathedralpeak.co.za Salt Rock Hotel The Salt Rock Hotel on the north Coast, is an idyllic escape with sea-facing and air-conditioned rooms. There are various dining options available; a jungle gym for the little ones; a pool at the hotel; a tidal pool on the beach; and a sun terrace for dolphin viewing. saltrockbeach.co.za The Cavern Drakensberg Resort and Spa With daily children’s entertainment; walking trails; canoeing; a children’s pool and indoor activities; this Drakensberg resort knows how to look after your family. The children’s dining room caters to your little one’s tastes, too. Join them for dinner or make use of the nanny services and go out for a meal on your own. cavern.co.za
western cape Arniston Spa Hotel The four-star Arniston Spa Hotel, positioned next to a charming old fishing village and surrounded by beaches and nature reserves, is country living at its best. The rooms offer en-suite bathrooms with a shower and bath, and extra beds can be installed for children. Soccer balls, boogie boards, a volley ball net and mountain bikes are at your
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children’s disposal, plus an impressive selection of board games for when the clouds come rolling in. If you want some alone time, child minders are available at just R20 per hour. arnistonhotel.com Fancourt Not just for golf enthusiasts, Fancourt also offers plenty of activities for the whole family. The Teen Lounge is equipped with table tennis, pool and gaming facilities to keep your older children entertained, while the younger ones can join the Fancourt Kidz Club for supervised activities. Babysitting services are available at R300 for the first three hours and just R60 per hour thereafter, plus all babysitters are trained in CPR or have a first aid certificate. There is also a baby pool, as well as bicycles for all sizes and a golf academy for children seven and up. fancourt.com Belmond Mount Nelson Centrally located and boasting tree-lined gardens and beautiful accommodation, The Belmond Mount Nelson is a luxury family getaway. The Helmsley Wing provides families with spacious accommodation, with ground-floor rooms that open onto the gardens. Accommodation aside, there’s no shortage of entertainment. The Children’s Club and the supervised playroom have a number of arts and crafts activities, from making finger puppets and painting to decorating cookies. for the older children from 12 to 18 years, there’s a separate teen lounge with PlayStation 4, DVDs and a big-screen TV. belmond.com Gondwana Game Reserve Situated in the heart of the Garden Route, Gondwana is popular with nature-loving families. Big Five game drives, mountain bike trails and nearby golf courses are just a few reasons to visit, plus the Junior Ranger programme will keep children of all ages busy and inspired. Families can enjoy the privacy of one of the luxury bush villas, which boast en-suite bedrooms, an outdoor deck, flatscreen TV and DVD player, plus cots and rollaway beds if needed. Babysitting at R150 per hour and in-room dining for children are added bonuses. gondwanagr.co.za
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resource Aquila Private Game Reserve Safari & Spa Aquila, just two hours outside Cape Town, boasts the Big Five in a malaria-free area and offers luxury accommodation to boot. While parents unwind at the spa, children can entertain themselves with mini golf, mini basketball, self-pushed bikes and, on those cooler days, indoor games and PlayStation. All meals, plus one game drive are included in overnight stays. aquilasafari.com Beacon Island Beacon Island has become synonymous with family trips to Plettenberg Bay. With 200 rooms, two pools (one heated), fantastic dining and the beach just a stone’s throw away from the hotel, Beacon Island is the whole package. The Bambino playroom will keep smaller children entertained, and there’s a games room as well as entertainment programmes for older children, and babysitting services on request. tsogosun.com Spier Hotel Just outside Stellenbosch, Spier is a great base camp for families wanting to explore winelands country. Rooms come with daily housekeeping, free Wi-Fi, in-room childcare, and cribs and rollaway beds on request. spier-hotel-stellenbosch.h-rez.com Garden Route Game Lodge With a dedicated Kids on Safari programme, the Garden Route Game lodge is ideal for a family getaway. Children can go fishing (all equipment is provided), participate in an hour-long bush walk and go cheetah tracking with an experienced field ranger. There is also a children’s menu and special meal times are on offer. families can choose to stay in the family lodge room or luxury family suites, all with housekeeping, complimentary Wi-Fi and en-suite bathrooms. grgamelodge.co.za Arabella The Arabella is as child-friendly as it is luxurious with babysitting services, a children’s pool and a Kid’s Club at Balou’s Adventure Centre. You can also explore the nearby town of Hermanus, which is known for its beautiful beaches and whale watching. marriot.com Sanbona Gondwana Family Lodge Overlooking the Bellair Dam, this magnificent lodge boasts 12 luxury suites, a pool, Relaxation Retreat and a dedicated outdoor play area, activity room and sprawling lawn for children. The educational Kids on Safari programme is also popular with children aged four and up. sanbona.com The Wilderness Hotel Resort and Spa Set in a picturesque coastal town and oozing old-world charm, the Wilderness Hotel is a family road trip waiting to happen. Activities such as tennis, mountain biking and Putt-Putt will keep everyone entertained. There’s also a children’s play area and a number of nearby farmers’ markets. Choose from the deluxe family room, classic family room or standard family room, depending on your budget. wildernesshotel.co.za
gauteng Sun City The adjoining rooms and baby-changing facilities aside, Sun City has a range of activities for children. Drop the little ones off at Kamp Kwena, or take a family trip to Waterworld, Animal World, Valley of Waves, or the Maze of the Lost City. There is no shortage of entertainment here! suninternational.com African Pride Mount Grace Country House & Spa Just an hour’s drive from Joburg and Pretoria, this hotel boasts beautiful views over the Magaliesberg Mountains. The rooms come complete with Wi-Fi and flatscreen TVs, and can accommodate a cot on request. There are a variety of dining options at the hotel and nearby, and children can keep busy at the Kids Club. marriott.com Crystal Rose Lodge located in the Cradle of Humankind in Krugersdorp, this lodge offers families an ideal getaway. The beautifully appointed family rooms boast a double bedroom and bunk bed, plus an en-suite bathroom. Nearby attractions include the Sterkfontein Caves, hot-air ballooning, a nature reserve, adventure activities and Cradlestone Mall, among others. crystalroselodge.co.za Emerald Resort and Casino From game drives and fishing to adventure golf, wall climbing and the covered water park, Aquadome, this resort is a family paradise. There is also a babysitting service at the Kidzone and in-room internet access. emeraldcasino.co.za Southern Sun Montecasino Visitors to Joburg can stay in this luxury hotel equipped with an outdoor pool, restaurants, a theatre, bird gardens and more. Baby cots, high chairs and babysitting services are all available on request. Family rooms have twin double beds with an en-suite bathroom and guests can take advantage of the free Wi-Fi. tsogosun.com
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Gold Reef City Theme Park Hotel If you love theme parks, a visit to South Africa’s biggest is a must. The hotel itself offers family-friendly accommodation; free Wi-Fi; babysitting services and cots on request. Guests get free access to the theme park and all rides, and can fill up on delicious fare at one of the many eateries. Other activities include a movie theatre, a museum and mine tours. tsogosun.com Valley Lodge & Spa Spend your time relaxing at the pool, playing tennis or volleyball, exploring the walking trails or putting your board-game skills to the test. After the day’s activities, unwind on your private patio, dine out at the lodge restaurant, or picnic on the banks of the Magalies River. valleylodge.co.za
eastern cape Kob Inn Beach Resort Perfectly positioned right on the sea front, this resort offers something for everyone, from quad and dirt biking to canoeing, fishing, hiking and horse rides on the beach. Spacious rooms cater to bigger families and all meals are included. kobinn.co.za Umngazi River Bungalows and Spa Voted Best Family Hotel in South Africa by TripAdvisor in 2016, Umngazi is a must-visit for outdoor enthusiasts. The accommodation overlooks the Umngazi River mouth and the family units boast en-suite bathrooms with an outside shower for those warm evenings, as well as tea- and coffee-making facilities. The Kids Club offers dune surfing, a slippery slide and a host of fun activities for your little adventurers. umngazi.co.za
if you’re planning a trip abroad… Beachcomber All Beachcomber hotels in Mauritius and the Seychelles feature a free Mini Club that keeps children 3-12 years old entertained from morning to night. Spacious playgrounds, a range of outdoor and indoor activities, and dedicated children’s dining areas add to the child-friendly experience. Babysitters are also available as well as complimentary babycare facilities at some of the resorts. Choose from a number of different resorts to find one that suits your family’s needs. beachcomber.co.za LUX Resorts and Hotels Enjoy an all-inclusive beach getaway in Mauritius, Reunion or the Maldives. The Play programme, available at some of the resorts, offers supervised activities such as art classes and treasure hunts for children 3-11 years old, while older children aged 12-17 can participate in local dance and language classes as well as beach sports and adventure trips around the islands. Accommodation is dotted along the pristine beaches, bringing new meaning to seaside living. For something a little different, explore the new resorts in China, the UAE, Turkey and Vietnam, set to open next year. luxresorts.com Club Med Club Méditerranée SA, commonly known as Club Med, specialises in vacation villages in various locations around the world. Most of these villages are designed for families and offer supervised areas for younger children and a special space for 11-17 year olds. Club Med doesn’t only offer beach destination holidays, but also alpine vacation and winter wonderland packages. Club Med’s Aime La Plagne in France has a snow garden for 4-10 year olds where they can learn to ski at their own pace. The Kid’s Club also entertains them with arts and crafts, dancing and special evening activities. Adjoining rooms and a babysitting service for 2-7 year olds are also available. clubmed.co.za Rosewood Abu Dhabi The Rosewood Abu Dhabi offers the ideal stay for families passing through the city. This waterfront hotel feels more like a luxurious home-away-from-home, with each room individually decorated and original artwork spreading light and creativity on every floor. Spacious two-bedroomed suites or interleading rooms offer parents complete peace of mind. For children, the Rose Buds room offers a wonderful space to play and be entertained. Some of the perks for parents include the portable crib and changing table, baby Primrose skincare products, en-suite wireless baby monitors, full-size cribs and linen, an in-room baby proofing service and lush velour terry child-sized bath robes and slippers. rosewoodhotels.com
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Find party inspiration with our four exciting themes and throw a birthday bash your child will never forget! music and movement (p24) adventure (p25) winter warmers (p26) edutainment (p27)
accessories Crazy Plastics 011 817 5357 / info@crazyplastics.co.za crazyplastics.co.za Giant Garden Games 086 111 2876 / giantgardengames.co.za KidzCards & Party Buckets 011 028 8774 / info@kidzcardz.co.za / kidzcardz.co.za
Money Box Party Packs 083 659 4055 / jorsam.co.za Parties 4 Africa 072 083 4844 / parties4africa.co.za Rainbow Parties 011 432 1971 / jessica@rainbowparties.co.za / rainbowparties.co.za The Baker’s Warehouse 011 706 5010 / thebakerswarehouse.com Toy Adventures – toyadventures.co.za
catering Belle’s Patisserie Sandton / 011 440 4474 / quotes@bellespatisserie.co.za / bellespatisserie.co.za Cakes by Seilaz Blairgowrie / 011 029 8776 / cakes@seilaz.co.za / seilaz.co.za Sunrise Sweets Roodepoort / 011 475 8366 / sunrisesweets.co.za Taryn’s Cakes & Patisserie Bryanston / 083 309 8024 / info@tarynscakes.co.za The Cake Lady Fourways, Randburg, Roodepoort / 083 700 8938 / thecakelady@wbs.co.za / thecakelady.co.za
entertainers Leo’s Puppet Theatre – 011 791 6490 / info@leos.co.za / puppettheatre.co.za
Rugby Tots 083 375 5632 / clinton@rugbytots.co.za / rugbytots.co.za Spellbound Puppets 011 615 2768 / 082 744 3882 info@spellboundpuppets.com / spellboundpuppets.com Uncle Dum Dum the Magician 0861 112 876 / info@jkproductions.co.za / jkproductions.co.za
equipment hire Biddy’s Castles 082 453 0348 / jump@ biddyscastles.co.za / biddyscastles.co.za Bumpy Jumpy Castles 082 227 8537 / fun@bumpyjumpycastles.co.za / bumpyjumpycastles.co.za Crazy Water Balls 082 449 4197 / bookings@crazywaterballs.co.za / crazywaterballs.co.za Fairytale Fantacies 079 343 2042 / moira@fairytalefantacies. co.za / fairytalefantacies.co.za
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birthday basics
VK Marketing & Party Services 082 443 3213 / facebook.com/ vkmarketingcw
JK Productions 0861 112 876 / info@jkproductions.co.za / jkproductions.co.za Pick-ur-Party 083 720 8362 / kelly@pick-ur-party.co.za/ pick-ur-party.co.za Smilemakers 011 640 6096 / party@smilemakers.co.za smilemakers.co.za Wizards Jumping Castles 010 597 0947 / info@wizardscastles.co.za wizardscastles.co.za
indoor venues 21 Jump Street Aspen Hills / 011 682 1657 / info@21jumpstreet.co.za / 21jumpstreet.co.za Bounce Inc – Waterfall Lifestyle Centre, Midrand / 011 517 2500 / enquiries@bounceinc.co.za / bounceinc.co.za i-Jump Roodepoort, Boksburg North 011 086 6720 / info@ijump.co.za ijump-trampoline.co.za
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Jungle Joes Bramley / 011 887 1771 / info@junglejoes.co.za / junglejoes.co.za Spur 0860 00 77 87 / spurtribe.co.za
indoor & outdoor venues Avalanche – Fourways / 011 467 2426 / info@avalanche.co.za / avalanche.co.za Clamber Club Parties Midrand/Fourways, 082 573 8643 / Sandton, 084 466 4666 / East Rand, 083 234 4343 / Ferndale, 082 410 4546 / clamberclub.com Crackerjack Party Experiences Rivonia / 082 604 8641 / info@crackerjackparties.co.za / crackerjackparties.co.za Elf’s Hill Fourways / 082 337 5646 / bookings@elfshill.co.za / elfshill.co.za
George & Lucys Chartwell / 082 578 0468 / georgeandlucys.com Happily Ever Laughter Bedfordview / 011 450 0711 / info@happilyeverlaughter.co.za / happilyeverlaughter.co.za Jungle Beat Kids – Meyers Farm, Alberton / 082 451 7377 Mighty Jungle Bedfordview / 082 880 9335 / mightyjungle@global.co.za / mightyjungle.co.za Tembali Party Park – Chartwell 082 900 5474 / info@tembali.co.za / tembali.co.za Two Trees Bakery – 101 Klipriver Drive, Mulbarton / 076 174 7903 / facebook.com/twotreesbakery
outdoor venues Green Garden Café – Broadacres, Fourways / 073 4177533 / info@greengardencafe.co.za / greengardencafe.co.za
Fantasy Park – Chartwell West Country Estates / 062 289 7788 / fantasypark@ yahoo.co.za / fantasypark.co.za Montecasino Bird Gardens 011 511 1864 / welile@montebg.co.za / tsogosun.com StokeCity Adventure Park – Midrand 082 348 6706 / info@stokecity.co.za / stokecity.co.za Silverbirch Restaurant – Beyers Naude Drive, Randpark Ridge / 011 792 5714 / thesilverbirch.co.za
planners Bring on the Party Chartwell West County Estate / 072 256 7834 / bringontheparty@ vodamail.co.za / bringontheparty.co.za Wild Childs 083 260 9007 / info@wildchilds.co.za / wildchilds.co.za
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a festival of music and movement
say cheese! Photo booths are great fun and an easy way to keep children entertained. If you don’t have the budget to hire one, make your own. Here’s how: • Hang a big piece of plain or patterned fabric on a wall. • Gather interesting props like wigs, oversized sunglasses, tiaras and masks and store them in a basket or box next to the photo booth wall. • Appoint someone to man the booth. • If you’re using a polaroid camera you can give each child a copy of their photos as you take them. If you’re using a digital camera, have the photos printed as thank you cards.
food truck fun Join the food truck craze and set up your own personalised version with an ice-cream stand. All you need is a trestle table covered in a bright tablecloth, a chalkboard with the menu options written on it and some delicious treats – think ice lollies, ice cream scoops and a variety of toppings. If the weather calls for warmer fare, consider a hot chocolate stand with bowls of marshmallows, chocolate spoons, milk, whipped cream and sprinkles.
karaoke Talent shows like The Voice and Lip Sync Battle have seen karaoke make somewhat of a comeback. Depending on your budget, you can hire a karaoke machine or buy a toy mic and download a few popular tunes for children to sing along to. Rockstar props are a must!
how low can you go Limbo is always a hit at parties and it’s easy to set up. If you don’t have a pole, make use of what you have lying around the house – think broom or pool noodle. Have two adults hold the pole up horizontally, dropping it with every round to make the game more challenging. The goal is for children to pass under the pole bending backwards without touching it or falling. If they do, they’re out. Make sure you’ve got an upbeat playlist to get everyone in the party spirit.
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Disco Baby 084 804 6550 / bookings@ discobaby.co.za / discobaby.co.za Drum Connection 071 169 4254 / info@drumconnection.co.za / drumconnection.co.za Silent Events 072 777 0717 / matt@silentevents.co.za / silentevents.co.za
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Sing at my Party 072 511 0835 / sing@tiffanymarkman.co.za National Children’s Theatre Parktown / 011 484 1584 / bookings@nctt.org.za / nationalchildrenstheatre.org.za Wired Sound Studios Blairgowrie / 072 859 2061 / info@wiredsoundstudios.co.za / wiredsoundstudios.co.za
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adventure Take inspiration from the likes of Bear Grylls and host a sleepover in the garden. too cold to go outside? Move the party indoors if the weather turns bad. Transform your living room into a campsite, laying all the sleeping bags (each child must bring their own) on the floor. Opt for a fondue or chocolate fountain to keep the children entertained – dipping marshmallows in chocolate is a nice twist on the campfire tradition of roasting marshmallows.
backyard movie night Create your own outdoor movie experience by setting up a projector screen (if you don’t have one, look for rental options) and speakers in the garden. Pick an adventure-themed movie and make sure to serve popcorn too.
campfire cooking Get the braai going and have children make their own toasted sandwiches. Make it a feast with a table laiden with a variety of breads, grated cheese, sliced tomatoes and other toppings that tickle your taste buds, and let guests get creative. Place the sandwiches on a braai grid and toast over the coals for a few minutes on each side until golden brown.
outdoor expedition
What could be more adventurous than a night-time treasure hunt? Take your cue from The Amazing Race and divide the children into groups, giving each child a mini torch (which can double as a party favour) to help them navigate their way in the dark. Instead of hiding chocolate, leave clues around the garden and whichever team finds all their clues first, wins a prize.
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Beat Parties – 084 471 2565 / info@beatparties.co.za / beatparties.co.za Kidzville – Kempton Park / 083 463 1429 / beth@kidzville.co.za / kidzville.co.za Honeydew Mazes Randburg / 073 795 2174 / enquiries@maizemaze.co.za / honeydewmazes.co.za Sun Valley Stables – Kyalami, Midrand / 082 571 0309 / kitence@ iburst.co.za / sunvalleystables.co.za The Ski Deck ferndale / 011 781 6528 / info@skico.za ski.co.za
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Sandton Action Sports 011 444 6176 / info@sandtonactionsports.co.za / sandtonactionsports.co.za Soccercise Starz 011 882 3428 / info@soccercise.co.za soccercise.co.za Acrobranch - Melrose / 086 999 0369 acrobranch.co.za Jozi X – Bryanston / 082 456 2358 / info@jozix.co.za / jozix.co.za Wild & Earthly 084 550 0120 / lisa@wildandearthly. co.za / wildandearthly.co.za
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winter warmers entertainers and venues get crafty Create a winter wonderland by hanging snowflakes and cottonwool balls onto helium balloons.
Take a square piece of paper and fold in half diagonally to make a triangle shape. fold that triangle in half again and then into thirds. Cut across the bottom to make it straight. Cut both curvy and straight lines into your paper and then open it up – voila! A beautiful snowflake.
diy snow globe what you’ll need • a glass jar • strong glue (non-water soluble) • miniature plastic toys • glitter or small foil stars
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method Remove the lid from the glass jar and glue the toy to the inside of the lid. Leave to dry. Place the glitter inside the jar and fill with water. Screw the lid tightly back onto the jar, shake and turn upside down.
A-Z Creative Entertainment 011 682 2660 / zelda@creativeentertainment.co.za / creative-entertainment.co.za Barnyard Theatre – emperors Palace / 011 928 1108 / barnyardtheatre.co.za Build-a-Bear Workshop in association with Toy Kingdom – Centurion 012 663 2092 / toykingdom.co.za Color Café – Hyde Park 011 341 0734 / cilla@colorcafe.co.za / colorcafe.co.za Cooking up a Storm 083 408 8802 / cookingupastorm.co.za Craft Basket Fourways / 011 467 5694 / info@craftbasket.co.za Featherbrooke Children
083 704 8600 / springett@mweb.co.za featherbrookechildren.co.za Little Cooks Club 083 556 3434 / littlecooksclub.co.za RollEgoli Bryanston / 083 232 9861 / info@rollegoli.co.za / rollegoli.co.za Pottery Junxion Edenvale / 011 453 2721 / paint@potteryjunxion.co.za / potteryjunxion.co.za Sunninghill Arts & Crafts 011 234 0023 / facebook. com/sunninghillartsandcrafts The Glitter Factory – Fourways / 011 465 6899 theglitterfactory.co.za Wacky Wanda Party Venue 45 nicholls Road, farmall / 082 822 3896 / party@wackywanda.co.za / wackywanda.co.za
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brainy bunting What is a party without bunting? Stick to the theme by sewing letters onto each flag to create science words.
DIY dinosaur fossil pit what you’ll need • cornflour • water • plastic dinosaur toys
invitation inspiration Put on your thinking cap and get creative with your child’s invitation. If you’re throwing a science-themed party, brush up on your chemistry and use parts of the periodic table or maths equations to spell out the details of the day. But make sure you add plenty of colour and some fun illustrations to keep the invitation exciting – it is a party, not a science fair, after all!
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Mix two parts cornflour to one part water in a container – the amount of mixture you make will depend on the size of your container. Bury the dinosaur toys in the mixture. Leave the mixture to bake in the sun for a day or two until it becomes hard and cracks begin to show on the surface. Give each child a mini hammer, paintbrush or toothbrush as excavation tools.
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Nutty Scientists Bryanston / 083 675 8076 nuttyscientists.com Sci-Bono Discovery Centre Newtown / 011 639 8400 / info@sci-bono.co.za sci-bono.co.za
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For more events go to childmag.co.za/whatson or submit an event for Aug/Sept before 7 July to joburg@ childmag.co.za Mandela Day is on 18 July. For ways to spend your 67 minutes go to childmag.co.za
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This all-encompassing education exhibition aimed at pupils and parents invites local pre-primary, primary and tertiary institutions to share information about their schools. It runs from 9am on 2-4 June at The Glen Shopping Centre and on 28-30 July at Cradlestone Mall. Entrance is free. Contact expo@thelearningpoint.co.za
These outdoor events are an incredible learning experience for children over six. The guided tours take place on 4 and 18 June, and 2 and 16 July. There are also 8km hikes, which take place on 11 and 25 June, and 9 and 30 July. Adults pay R50 and children pay R30. Visit mk.org.za for more information about times and upcoming events.
Suited to runners of all capabilities, entrants can choose which group to participate in. Categories include Pretty Fast: Female; Sole Mates: Pairs; Elite Race; Young, Fast and Free: U18 and Anything Goes: Open. The race starts at 8am at Roosevelt High School, Emmarentia, and tickets are R70. Visit dayofraces.com for information.
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Reefsteamers Train Trips to Magaliesburg Take a break from your fast-paced life with a steam-train trip to Magaliesburg. The train leaves Park Station, Joburg at 9am and arrives at Magaliesburg at 11:30am on 3, 18 and 24 June. Pack a picnic and while away the time in the Magalies Sleepy River picnic area. Adults pay R250, children 4-12 years old pay R200. SMS 062 743 9200 or email bookings@reefsteamers.com for more.
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Disney’s Cinderella Kids This stage adaptation of the animated film will charm its way into your heart and remind audiences that dreams really can come true. Shows run at 9am and 11am weekdays, and at 10.30am and 2.30pm on Saturdays, various Sundays and holidays until 30 July. Showing at the Peoples Theatre, Braamfontein, tickets are R130. For bookings, email info@peoplestheatre.co.za or call 011 403 1563.
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Kairos Winter Kaleidoscope Taking place at 10 Sabie Rd, Emmarentia, this fun family day boasts plenty of entertainment, food, and more. Tickets are R50 and it’s open from 9am to 3pm. Visit kairosschool.co.za for more. 3 June
Introduction to Fly fishing Children six years and older can join a fun session to learn the art of fly fishing in a safe and scenic environment, with a catch-and-release policy. The experience is 2,5 hours, but guests are welcome to fish at leisure for the rest of the day. Lessons take place every Saturday in June from 8:30am at Kloofzicht Lodge & Spa in Muldersdrift. Adults pay R400, children R300, and rod hire and fly packs are available at an additional cost. Visit sundowner.co.za
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Lefthandlearning Workshop Walk in the shoes of a lefty, experience their daily challenges and find easy, practical solutions to some of these. This workshop takes place 9am-11:30am in Constantia Kloof and focuses on what stationery is available and how to use it, plus ways to assist in letter formation and other fine motor skills. Tickets cost R250. Visit lefthandlearning.co.za for more.
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Neil Diamond Tribute This fundraiser for the San Salvador Home For Intellectually Disabled Women promises to be a fun night out. Book a table of eight and get a free raffle ticket. For adults only, the event takes place at 7pm at Casa Do Sol School, 85 1st Ave, Linden. Tickets are R150. Email sheilagh@chantillynetworking. co.za or call 082 653 5128 for details.
Family Talkabout with Puleng Plessie Families can explore the latest exhibitions and participate in an art-making class with a skilled art educator at the Wits Art Museum on 14 June and 15 July at 12pm. Entrance is free, but booking is required. Contact 011 717 1378 or email info.wam@wits.ac.za for details. 22 June
Parent Club / Play date If you’re looking for support from a community of parents, The Parent Club, hosted at 8 Hennie Alberts, Brackenhurst, Alberton, runs from 10am until 12pm and offers a place for parents and grandparents to meet and share advice. Tea and coffee will be supplied, but bring a plate of snacks. It’s free to join, but booking is essential. Contact 011 867 1139 or info@crescoschool.co.za for details.
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Premiere of Despicable Me 3 In the latest instalment of this movie franchise, Balthazar Bratt, a child star from the 1980s, hatches a plan for world domination and Gru’s long-lost twin (Dru) emerges. Voiced by Steve Carell, Kristen Wiig, Trey Parker and Miranda Cosgrove, this animated film is showing nationwide. Visit numetro.co.za or sterkinekor.com to book your ticket.
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The Wonderful World of Disney on Ice Families can enjoy the magic of Disney with an extraordinary line-up of hit songs, memorable scenes and timeless characters. Mickey Mouse, Minnie Mouse, Donald Duck and Goofy all take a walk down memory lane and re-awaken the Disney moments that span generations. Joining them will be the characters from Finding Dory, Frozen, Rapunzel, Snow White, Aladdin and more. Showing at various times from 30 June to 9 July at the Ticketpro Dome, tickets cost between R100 and R475, and family packages are available. Visit disneyonice.co.za to book.
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The National Arts Festival Featuring new works alongside Festival favourites such as the Gala Concert, visitors to this year’s Grahamstown Festival can expect a thrilling mix of productions that both reflect and challenge South African society. There’s something for children too, with shows like The Gruffalo and James and the Giant Peach. Running until 9 July, visit nationalartsfestival.co.za for the full festival programme.
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what’s on in July The Smurfs Live on Stage This magical adventure sees the Smurfs battle Gargamel and save Mother Nature, demonstrating the power of family and team spirit along the way. Expect lifesized forest houses, vibrant backdrops and sing-along tunes. Showing at Emperors Palace until 30 July; book tickets for R150 from computicket. com.
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Puss in Boots Set on a mystical, magical Caribbean island, this is a laugh-a-minute family show with great audience participation, breathtaking sets, gorgeous costumes and toe-tapping tunes. It shows at various times at The Lyric Theatre until 23 July. Tickets start at R150 and are available at computicket.com.
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Wagtastic – the WODAC pet expo Take your children to enjoy dog dancing and magnificent horses on parade, meet celebrity pets and discover what breeds make the best pets for your family at this three-day expo. You can interact with a range of pet breeds and buy treats and care products for your own furry friends. The expo opens at 10am on 14 July and 9am on 15 and 16 July at Gallagher Estate. Your own pets are not allowed. Tickets are R50-R100. Visit dogscats.co.za for more. 18 July
Turbine Art Fair
Mandela Day at Botshabelo
View and buy quality artwork all while enjoying live music and artisanal food. Also on offer are free talks, guided walkabouts for both adults and children, and a dedicated children’s area. The fair opens at 11am on 14 July and 10am on 15-16 July at the Turbine Hall, Newtown. Tickets are R100 at the door or R90 from webtickets.co.za – children pay just R50. Visit turbineartfair.co.za for more.
Collect items to donate to fill up 67m2 in the weeks leading up to Mandela Day on 18 July. Visit Botshabelo (groups of all sizes welcome) to add your donations. Grab a coffee, make your mark and celebrate with pictures and a virtual tour of Botshabelo. The event runs at 9am to 3pm at 64 Maud Ave, Midrand. Visit botshabelo.co.za for more details on what to collect.
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Centrum Kids Like2Bike Fun Cycling Series Event # 4 Children having fun on their bikes is what it’s all about at Cradlemoon Conservancy, Muldersdrift. There are 2km, 5km, 10km and 15km routes to choose from and the event kicks off at 9am. Online pre-entry is R130 and late entry on the day is R140. Visit like2bike.co.za for details. 28 July
Garden World’s Spring Festival This garden design show, featuring the 2017 Kirstenbosch-SA Chelsea Exhibit from London, runs until 3 September and includes designer gardens, garden revamps, school gardens and educational exhibits. On 29 July, at 9:30am, join KirstenboschSA Chelsea designer, David Davidson & Efekto for an informative morning. Tickets for the presentation are R80. Visit gardenworld.co.za for more. 28 July
Big City, Big Dreams Unfolding in scenes that showcase the
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open days exhilaration of South African dance, this show fuses styles from classical ballet to contemporary and street dance. The show runs at 7:30pm on 28-29 July and 4-5 August; 3pm on 29-30 July and 5-6 August; 11am on 1-2 August. Taking place at the Joburg Theatre, Braamfontein, tickets are R80 – R450. Call the Joburg Theatre Box Office on 0861 670 670 to book or go to webtickets.co.za 29 July
International Marimba and Steelpan Festival As the bands compete for top honours you can take part in hands-on workshops and learn to play the steelpan drums, marimbas, boomwhackers or try out a few dance moves. Open from 8am on 29 and 30 July at St Dominic’s Catholic School for Girls, Boksburg. Tickets cost between R30 and R150. Visit internationalmarimbafestival. org for more information.
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Dainfern College
Blubird Wholefood Market
Catering for children between six weeks and six years old, this preschool offers an aftercare facility for learners from Grades 1-7. The emphasis is on the development of happy, confident learners. On 19-23 June, parents can visit the school for a tour and view classes in action. Children can participate in fun activities such as face painting and messy play, plus parents will receive a welcome pack. The school is situated at 8 Hennie Alberts, Brackenhurst, and is open 6am-6pm. Visit crescoschool.co.za for more.
Parents and their children can come and meet the staff and tour the facilities on 8 June and 6 July at 9am-10am. Visit dainferncollege.co.za for information.
An intimate neighbourhood market where you can find the freshest ingredients. Open Sundays at 9am-2pm in Athol Oaklands Rd, Birnam. Visit wholefoodmarketsa.com for details.
Curro Serengeti On 3 June at 9am-11am, parents are invited to enjoy a cup of coffee and a tour of this independent school in Kempton Park, which offers aftercare, holiday care and a bus service. The school caters to learners from three months old all the way up to Grade 12. For more information, call 011 552 7081 or send an email to adminserengeti@curro.co.za.
Heron Bridge College Find out what this school in Fourways has to offer at their open days, which run every Tuesday during term from 9am. Visit heronbridgecollege.co.za for more information.
Knights Preparatory School This co-educational Christian school is based in Randburg and offers futurefocused, skills-based education. Open days are at 9am on 9 and 23 June, and 7, 21 and 28 July. Visit knightsprep.co.za for more.
Ngwenya Country Market Visitors come from far and wide to spend a day in the Muldersdrift countryside. Here you can do your weekly shopping, listen to fabulous music, sip cocktails on the grass and sample a variety of delicious fare. There is also go-karting and crafts for children. It takes place on 4 June at 9am-4pm in Muldersdrift. Contact 082 497 6054 / 082 887 4263 for details.
Kairos School Info Talk
Sandhurst Pre- & Preparatory College Fun Station at Field and Study Market
Are you looking for an unconventional schooling option? Join Kairos School at 12 Sabie Rd, Emmarentia, for the morning to find out more about what they offer. For parents of primary school children, the open day is on 24 June at 9am-11am. Visit kairosschool.co.za for more.
Sandhurst College hosts a child-friendly stall at the Field and Study Market on 10 June at 8am-3pm. Pop in and engage in a creative activity with Sandhurst teachers and friends. Call 011 784 0452 or email marketing@sandhurstprep.co.za for more.
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Bushtrail Holiday Camp Let your children have a holiday they will remember, with lots of fun activities like hiking, art, swimming, obstacle courses, cook outs, campfires, trail setting and more. For children 7–14 years old, the camp runs on 16-23 July in Magaliesburg. The price is R1 600. Visit bushtrails.co.za for more.
Five-Day Winter Pony Camp
holiday programmes or 10-15 July, 9am–12pm at Crawford College, Benmore, and cost R1 200. Visit fameacademy.co.za for details.
at Lonehill Crawford Preparatory School at 8:30am-1:30pm and costs R330–R990. Visit itatennis.co.za for more.
Fun-a-Galore July Holiday Programme
Cresco Holiday Programme
Children 6-12 years old can spend the morning making yummy breakfasts, baked goods and lunches as part of organised team challenges. The programme runs at 9am-12:30pm, on 11-13 July at Miele Centre, Bryanston, and costs R295 per day. Call 082 468 7720 for bookings.
Cresco Preschool & Aftercare hosts a fun and exciting holiday programme on 3-21 July, for children of all ages, from any preschool and primary school. Meals are included and it’s open from 6:30am–5:30pm at 8 Hennie Alberts, Brackenhurst. Costs are R200 per day or R2 250 for the three weeks. Visit crescoschool.co.za to book.
Creative Writing Workshop
Holiday Fun with Ceramics and Mosaic
Kid’s Haven Community Service Holiday Programme
This fun-filled workshop will help Grades 6 and 7 children polish their creative writing skills. Running on 8 July at 9:30am-11:30am at The Workshop Reading Centre, 9 Riley Close, Pineslopes, the workshop costs R550, which includes a workbook and snack. For more details, go to the-workshop.co.za.
Book a time, choose a mould and let children create and decorate their own ceramic art. Children under seven must be accompanied by an adult. Pottery Junxion in Edenvale is open from 9am Monday to Saturday and you pay R25 per hour, excluding materials. Contact 011 453 2721 for more.
Fame Academy Musical Theatre Holiday Workshops
ITA Holiday Tennis Clinic
Aimed at high school children wanting to earn community service hours, participants will work together to make healthy, nutritious meals and snacks to donate to Kid’s Haven, all while earning community service points. It takes place on 11-13 July at 1pm-4pm at Miele Centre Bryanston. Costs are available on request. Contact 082 468 7720 or jean@fun-a-galore.co.za for details.
Join this camp to learn how to take care of ponies, jump on the saddle twice a day and participate in arts and crafts. No experience is needed. Suitable for children 6–14 years old, the programme costs R300 per day plus an extra R50 per night sleepover. Running on 3–7 July at 8am–5pm at Shepherd’s Fold Stables; visit shepherdsfoldstables.co.za
Children are taught singing, dancing and acting by professional performers, plus they get to perform on stage at the Theatre On The Square. Workshops run on 3-8
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Half-day and full-day tennis clinics for the Sharapovas and Djokovics of the future. Indoor activities will be held in the event of rain. Suitable for 3-16 year olds, the clinic runs on 3-7, 10-14, and 17-21 July
Pony Camp Children can enjoy three-and-a-half days of fun at Inchanga Stables with loads of pony interaction and two rides or more
per day. Children groom and feed ponies, learn how to saddle up and participate in fun, educational activities. Beginners are welcome. The camp concludes with a prize-giving to which parents are invited. For children 5-15 years old, the camp runs on 26-29 June and 10-13 July, from 9am. The cost is R1 300. Contact 073 436 7037 or inchanga@gmail.com for more.
Winter Holiday Programme The Express!ons Centre hosts a fun, activity-based holiday programme, with a variety of creative activities and fun games including craft projects, yoga, baking, dance, music, gardening, minute-to-win-it challenges and a science fair. Children can also enjoy organised games, story time, and indoor and outdoor free play. Open at 7:30am–5:30pm (5pm on Fridays), 26 June–17 July. A full day costs R280 and half day is R220. For details, go to expressionsinfocus.co.za.
Yeesh! Winter School Holiday Programme This exciting programme offers a different activity every hour to keep children 4-12 years old entertained in a safe, stimulating environment. The programme runs at 9am–5pm, 3-21 July at Yeesh! in Woodmead. The programmes costs R180 for the day and R60 for food, or you can pack your own snacks. Visit yeesh.co.za for more information.
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finding the balance It took trying to teach her children how to cycle for ANÉL LEWIS to realise there are some things that dads may just be better at.
hoever coined the expression “it’s like riding a bike” has clearly never tried to teach two children how to balance without training wheels. Conor, age 5, was easier to teach than erin. Barring the small mishap when he rode head first into a drinking fountain, he found his pedals quite easily. I think Craig only had to do two laps around the park before Conor was riding like Evel Knievel through groups of runners and ladies walking their Maltese poodles. erin, age 6, was a bit more hesitant atop her trusty steed. To be fair, I think her bicycle could have done with a bit of maintenance. It seemed to lean to the left, which made her attempts at staying upright rather difficult. As Conor raced off into the distance, scattering poodles and prams, erin was loathe to let her father take his hands off the handlebars. Craig was being quite firm with her, shouting instructions as her legs flailed widely in the region of – but actually nowhere near – the pedals. I thought maybe I would have more luck teaching her the finer nuances of cycling, seeing as I have a softer
approach to these things. But there were some factors I had failed to consider. Gear is very important – I am talking about the instructor’s and not the budding cyclist’s. Erin’s kit would have made Lance Armstrong envious. She had leggings, colour coordinated socks and a matching headband underneath her helmet. At the other end of the fashion fitness spectrum was me, sweating buckets in my jeans and wedge sandals. I also did not expect my sweettempered, slightly reticent child to transform into a tyrant on two wheels. “Mom, what are you doing? Hold me. No, don’t hold me there. Why am I wobbling? Stop. Go.” I was a mess. Erin was in tears. And Conor was breaking land speed records on the other side of the nasturtiums. I tried to be patient at first. “I’m here to hold you. Trust me, I won’t let you fall.” But Erin wasn’t convinced. After shouting at me several times for being unable to prop her up while showing her how to pedal, she called for her father. I walked off in a huff, feeling very upset that she seemingly had no faith in my teaching abilities. If this is what showing her how to ride a bike entails, I can only imagine what it’s
going to be like when we have to get behind the wheel of a car. Craig seemed to have the magic touch (and more suitable gear) and soon Erin was cycling slowly for a few minutes unaided. As her confidence grew, the distance between her and us widened and eventually she was riding happily alongside her brother. My frustration at not being able to guide her on this part of her journey subsided and I just felt so proud of her for tackling this milestone. It also reminded me that both parents have roles to play in children’s development. As mothers, we tend to take on much of the teaching aspect of our children’s growth. But there are just some lessons that Craig is better at than me, and that’s okay. What’s important is that we are both able to share in our children’s joy when they achieve their goals. And there’s also some comfort in knowing that I’m off the hook when Erin starts driving lessons. Dad’s clearly better equipped for things involving wheels and steering. Anél Lewis is dreaming about the pottery course she will do in 2028 when Craig is teaching Erin how to drive.
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