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It has to be my favourite month, with the first sighting of the Christmas beetle heralding the beginning of the end of what has been another unfailingly busy year. Walking my daughter into school one morning this term, Julian and I overheard a preschooler ask: “Why are you in such a ‘hush and a push’ this morning, Mom?” Sweet and apt. But thankfully, now the time has come to leave the “hush and push” behind, to take a deep breath and recharge our batteries.

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contents december and january

upfront

regulars

3 a note from lisa

9 pregnancy news – bugs with a bite Marina Zietsman looks at why

6 over to you readers respond

mosquitoes favour pregnant women

10 best for baby – holiday upheaval how you can holiday

features 14 happy travels holidaying with family and friends isn’t always plain sailing. Marina Zietsman gives tips

16 better together Lucille Kemp explains the value of family traditions

18 3 days in the cape if you have to play tour guide over the holidays, this itinerary will help. By Lucille Kemp

22 your future investments Cassandra Shaw brings you inspirational stories of women who made sound financial investments

24 everyday delicious Christine Capendale inspires us to celebrate the West Coast way armed with her new recipe book

27 back to school already? Tamlyn Vincent gives tips on ways to prep for the new school year

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without disrupting your baby’s developmental milestones. By Ruwaydah Harris

12 dealing with difference Tamlyn Vincent looks at toys and their link to gender stereotypes

21 upfront with paul Paul Kerton wonders if our children learn enough about manners and decency

30 resource – see the world by bike or barge Child magazine unlocks the traveller in you with this destination guide

36 a good read for the whole family 40 what’s on in december & january 58 finishing touch if Conor gets a vacuum cleaner from Santa, he’ll be over the moon, reckons Anél Lewis

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8 getting smart about vaccines decisions affecting our children’s health should be based on sound reasoning, says Marc de Chazal

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sharing my thoughts I really enjoy all the articles in your magazine and hope that the parents at our school take the time to read them. I thought I would just share some of my opinions on a few issues. 1. Discipline in schools: to debate whether we should be allowed to smack our children is a moot point, because it is illegal to do so. Part of our school’s values programme is teaching children about bullying. We teach the bully the correct way to behave and the victims how to stand up for themselves. With all the violence in this country, children have to be taught to resolve problems without resorting to violence. Many schools face a lack of support from parents when dealing with discipline issues. This makes it that much harder to deal with a tricky situation and to teach a child acceptable behaviour. Parents are supportive when their child is the victim, not so much when their child is the aggressor. 2. In response to the reader’s letter, regarding finding a suitable school for her Down’s syndrome child (October 2013 issue): I have not been in favour

of including a child with Down’s syndrome in a [mainstream] school. To be honest, I have never experienced it to see whether it works. However, next year we will be welcoming a little girl with Down’s syndrome. The head of department, the class teacher and myself are keen to meet this challenge and find out what we can learn from her. We have had a meeting with her mom who is keen for her to be part of a mainstream school, but who is aware of her limitations. Her mom is a very involved mom and is organising a meeting with the rest of the preschool staff to teach them about a Down’s syndrome child and how to handle her. I am positive about this inclusion. Knowing that we have extremely supportive parents and teachers, makes this a good decision. Perhaps there are other preschools who have a Down’s syndrome child, who could get in touch with us and offer any pointers. 3. Our school has made the wearing of brimmed hats compulsory during break. Children who forget their hats have to sit under a shelter. The little boys hate this, because they can’t run around and kick a ball.

over to you dangers of cellphones I read your article “a valuable learning tool” (November 2013); what the article forgot to mention was how our children’s health is at risk from cellphone use. I read an article called “cellphones and child brains: casualty catastrophe” by Alexandra Bruce, which gave much food for thought. Top neurologists issue warnings to patients about the health dangers of cellphone use. iPhones also contain a legal disclaimer page with fine print, which is difficult to read, and discloses the dangers of radiation exposure from cellphones. It advises users to keep the device 10mm away from the body. How dangerous is cellphone use for our children whose skulls are thinner and whose bodies are still developing? According to statistics on brain tumours associated with cellphone-use, this has replaced leukaemia as the number one child killer. Not to mention other effects, ranging from DNA damage, a reduction in sperm count to an increase in tumours in the area of the body where the cellphone is in contact with the skin. A radiation detector measured a smartphone to emanate 40 000 microvolts compared to the 800 microvolts of a microwave oven and the 800 micro volts of a WiFi router. Normal background radiation levels should not be more than 30 microvolts. In France, WiFi

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We started this in the first term this year and, like with anything new, there were a few grumbles, but everyone has got the hang of it. The teachers also wear hats while on duty. 4. Paul Kerton and Anél Lewis make so much sense. I hope that parents take the time to read their columns. Most of us can identify with them, having gone through what they are experiencing or, like them, are currently experiencing the same issues. Parents should read these columns as they are short and to the point. Fiona Coetzee, principal

hubbly bubbly In response to the article “smoke screen” (November 2013); as a parent to three growing girls, it has disturbed me to see so many young people smoking hubbly bubbly. I’m so grateful for your article on the dangers and false perceptions of smoking this pipe. This article is now my ammunition to inform our youth and parents of the dangers of smoking hubbly bubbly. Avril Adams

Let us know what’s on your mind. Send your letters or comments to marina@childmag.co.za or PO Box 12002, Mill Street, 8010.

is being removed from schools and replaced with cabled internet and Germany, Israel and Finland are moving towards banning the sale of cellphones to children. In Japan there is a general limitation of cellphone use for those under 18 and in the UK for those under 12. Many countries like India issue warnings against the use of cellphones by children. As an educator and a parent, knowing this, I would not support cellphone use in the classroom. Shelley Hindmarch

importance of reading I enjoyed the article “read to write” (September 2013 issue). I have three daughters and my two oldest daughters were reading before Grade R. I think their interest came from me reading stories to them every night. They kept asking me what the words said, so I taught them how to read phonetically, using homemade phonics cards and Ladybird Read With Me books. They are now in Grade 1 and 2 and have a passion for reading. The biggest problem I face now is finding books that are age-appropriate and matched to their reading level. They enjoy Roald Dahl, Enid Blyton, Dr Seuss, the fairy books by Daisy Meadows and the Animal Ark books by Lucy Daniels. I will never regret teaching them to read at a young age. It opened up a whole world of literacy for them. They can keep

themselves entertained for hours, and it has made their lives at school much easier, cutting down on homework time. Their vocabulary and spelling is excellent. Reading is a life skill that should never be neglected. Mel

hairy issue I have witnessed thousands of children having their first haircuts as I have had two children’s hair salons in Joburg for the last 15 years. Children should be brought into the salon several times until they feel comfortable or brave enough to have their hair cut. To make the experience fun, we have created a child-friendly ambiance: murals on the walls, the ceiling, the floor and the furniture, plus each child gets their own television. The stylist plays her part with balloons and bubbles and a certificate of the experience. The boys are generally not as comfortable, but this is most likely because girls are familiar with the set-up by watching their moms getting groomed. Anonymous subscribe to our newsletter and win Our wins have moved online. Please subscribe to our newsletter and enter our weekly competitions. To subscribe, visit childmag.co.za

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getting smart about vaccines When making decisions regarding our children’s health, it’s important to base our reasoning on sound fact

hanks to worldwide immunisation campaigns, lifethreatening infectious diseases have been controlled and have dramatically decreased. According to the World Health Organisation (WHO), vaccines against diseases such as polio, last seen in South Africa in 1989, save more than three million lives every year. Measles is also targeted for elimination, but misinformation can dramatically hamper these efforts. In the late 1990s Welsh parents heeded the warnings of a debunked study spuriously linking the MMR (measles, mumps, rubella) vaccine to autism, which eventually led to a measles outbreak in 2013. This highly contagious disease causes pneumonia, deafness and, in one out of 1 000 cases, death. How then should we make informed decisions about vaccines?

make sure the information is from a trusted, knowledgeable and highly respected source,” she says. “The Vaccine Safety Network is accredited by the WHO, so any information you find on these websites can be trusted. For Facebook fans, I recommend the VacciNewsNet page,” she adds. Burnett points out that South Africa does not blindly follow global trends when including a vaccine in the national immunisation programme. “The National Advisory Group on Immunisation (NAGI) is an independent body that includes eight academic experts who all need to reach consensus based on the available scientific evidence before a vaccine is considered safe and essential for the health of our children,” she explains.

what to take in trusted sources There’s nothing wrong with doing our own research on the internet, but Dr Rose Burnett, a public health scientist and senior lecturer at the University of Limpopo’s department of virology, advises caution. “You need to

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You will find many websites with legitimate-sounding names that actually sprout nonsense about vaccines. “Most of the misinformation that fuels anti-vaccination claims is dealt with by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC),” says Burnett.

“For claims that are not dealt with by the CDC, my advice to parents is to look at the evidence behind the claim,” says Burnett. She suggests we ask: • Did the study compare vaccinated children to unvaccinated children using a large sample size for both groups? Most anti-vaccination claims are based on small studies of only vaccinated children. “Huge studies conducted on over a million MMR vaccinated and unvaccinated children have shown the same rates of autism in both groups,” says Burnett. • Did the study report a correlation and then conclude that this shows cause? Correlations are not causal. • Is the website promoting an alternative to vaccines? “There is absolutely no scientific evidence that these alternatives work,” says Burnett. • Is the claim linked to a conspiracy theory? Conspiracy theorists have been shown to be more likely to believe and promote misinformation about vaccines. There are, of course, children who have medical conditions that preclude them from some vaccinations. If you are ever in any doubt about vaccines, your paediatrician is the best person to turn to.

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and consensus. MARC DE CHAZAL explains why.

pregnancy news

bugs with a bite Why do mosquitoes find pregnant women so “attractive”? Marina Zietsman finds out. what attracts mosquitoes? The five human scents that attract mosquitoes most come from carbon dioxide, which we exhale; body odour, particularly sweat; secretions, when compounds known as saccharides and antigens are secreted through the skin; certain blood types; and lactic acid, which is emitted through the skin when you are active or have eaten specific types of food.

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why pregnant women? When a woman becomes pregnant, her need for oxygen increases by as much as 20–40%. As you need more oxygen during pregnancy, your body adapts to meet this need in several ways. As a normal part of pregnancy, your breathing may be affected by the increase in the hormone progesterone, which causes you to breathe in more deeply. Towards the end of your third trimester, your uterus begins to push upwards into your ribcage, which then presses on your lungs, naturally

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forcing you to breathe deeper and more often, thus emitting more carbon dioxide. Perspiration (or sweat) comes from sweat glands in the skin and helps to regulate your body’s temperature when you get too hot. Carrying a baby bump around is hot and hard work, no matter what the weather is, because your core body temperature rises. Hormones play a role too, in pregnant women, increasing blood flow to the skin leaving you feeling warm, looking flushed and sweaty.

the biggest culprit Dr Karen Minnaar, a gynaecologist and obstetrician in Centurion, says that malaria can be fatal in pregnant women. “The placenta acts as a reservoir for the parasite and it is difficult to treat during pregnancy. Malaria is still a major cause of maternal deaths in Africa and it is better to prevent an infection, than to treat it,” says Minnaar. She strongly recommends not travelling to areas where there is a risk of getting

infected. It is always safer to postpone these trips until after delivery and when the baby and mom can get immunisations or take preventative medication. “Pregnant women can get very ill if they are infected with malaria during pregnancy,” says Minnaar. “It could cause a miscarriage or congenital malaria infection in the unborn baby.” She adds that pregnant women may not take any antimalarial drugs unless they are infected with the parasite and it is used for treatment. Minnaar advises that if a pregnant woman must enter a malaria area, she should avoid going in the summer. She should wear long sleeved clothing; avoid going outside at dawn or dusk, when the mosquitoes are most active; and to sleep under a mosquito net.

repellents Most insect repellents contain the chemical N,N-diethyl-m-toluamide, commonly known as Deet. This is a highly effective insecticide, and Deet-based insect repellents are

relatively safe if you use them carefully. The Centres for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) says, “Deet does cross the placenta, however, the effects of Deet use in pregnancy have not been thoroughly studied. There have been no studies of picaridin (the synthetic compound in Deet) use in pregnant women. Infection spread by mosquitoes can be harmful to a developing baby, therefore the benefits of insect-repellent use might outweigh any potential harm.” Minnaar says citronella oil or lemongrass oil can be mixed with aqueous cream and applied to the skin. Also, “citronella soaps can be used or citronella candles can be burned,” says Minnaar. “If this is not effective, Deet-containing repellents can be used, but women should try and use a product with a low concentration of Deet. They could also spray the Deet on their clothing.” Minnaar says plug-in repellents can also be used; both the ones containing chemicals and UV mosquito lights.

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holiday upheaval Taking your child on holiday and away from a familiar routine can seem a little daunting especially if you started potty training or you’re in the process of weaning your baby off the breast or bottle. But there are ways to manage, says RUWAYDAH HARRIS. oing on holiday requires good timing and, at times, thorough planning, especially if your baby is busy learning something new. Abandoning routine for the sake of enjoying a stress-free holiday may be tempting, but sticking to routine, as best you can, even when you’re away from home on a much-deserved family vacation, is important in your child’s development. “A predictable routine gives children a sense of security and helps them develop self-discipline,” advises Dr Laura Markham, an American clinical psychologist and founder of the website Aha! Parenting. “Even though they are in a different location and the bricks and mortar are different, is it important to keep as close to the child’s routine as possible,” advises baby and toddler expert and bestselling author of Toddler Sense, Sister Ann Richardson. And in order to manage routine effectively, hands-on parenting is needed. However, if you’ve already started something new, Sister Ann offers tips and advice on how to ensure you still maintain a healthy routine while on holiday.

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sleep patterns Routine, routine, routine, reiterates Sister Ann. “Parents must try to keep the routine as normal as possible. Going to bed too late and hyped up (whether it be with overstimulation or too many holiday treats containing sugar) can disrupt sleep patterns.” However, it’s also important to be flexible while on holiday, so sometimes (not every night) bedtime may be a little later than usual. Enforcing day sleeps are important though, as missing out on a much-needed day nap will impact on the child’s behaviour, eating habits and bedtime happiness.

potty training If your child is developmentally ready to be potty trained, then potty training must proceed as normal. Introduce your little one to a set routine from the start and be consistent about it. The holidays are often a good time to potty train as there is more one-on-one, quality time to spend with your child. Don’t forget to pack your child’s

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potty and put it in a place that reminds him or her of a similar spot in your home. Use the warm weather to your advantage. Let your little one run around in just a pair of swimming pants. They will be less likely to urinate in the swimming pants and will remember to ask for the potty.

breast-feeding Time management is important so feeds are timed in a way that is comfortable for you. If you can’t change location, be organised and take along an extra cotton blanket or wrap if you prefer to be discreet.

weaning baby off the breast or bottle If your family is on their own with no immediate neighbours or other house guests, then proceed with the weaning programme. But, if there is going to be fussing and crying involved and perhaps some sleepless nights, then it is advisable to wait until the family returns home. The advantage of weaning in the holiday season is that parents are more relaxed, with no work and pressurised deadlines, and where possible, there is always the support of the partner and extended family to call on.

introducing solid foods Be prepared and organised. Pack everything you will need if you are unsure of shopping availability at your destination. Follow your plan for introducing solid foods or

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changing diets and don’t let too many boundaries around eating expectations loosen. Holiday times are generally a good time to do something new, as both parents and the family are more relaxed.

dealing with nappy rash The most common nappy rash is a fungal infection caused by the candida fungus, which causes thrush in the nappy area. This is usually due to wet nappies, heat, beach sand and swimming pool chemicals. Eating too much sugar is also a common cause of candida. On the beach or around the swimming pool is an ideal time to air little bottoms. Take off wet swimming costumes and keep the nappy area dry. Frequent nappy changing is important if you are going on long car trips or aeroplane flights.

on the flip side With children there is never a perfect time for anything out of the norm. So, when you have a holiday it’s important to enjoy them, and to make the most of what you’re given, when you can. • Spend your holiday creating good family memories that you and your children can look back on fondly together. • Read stories, eat together, spend time outdoors, play and have fun. Just be mindful of your child’s routine. • You don’t need to be rigid. Instead try to be practical and enjoy yourselves.

holiday dos and don’ts • B e organised and prepared before any outings. A day on the beach with small children, for example, requires a lot of planning, so make sure you pack sunscreen, hats, towels, plenty of snacks and water, wet wipes and tissues. • Don’t leave home without probiotics in your medicine kit and an antifungal cream. Ask your chemist to recommend suitable products. • Make sure you pack your child’s favourite toy, blanket and bedtime story books and CDs. • Don’t plan too many activities and keep in mind that your baby or toddler needs some downtime and being around too many people, constantly, may be overwhelming. • If your baby doesn’t sleep in your bed at home, don’t start now. Make the necessary sleeping arrangements.

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dolls vs trucks Tamlyn Vincent explores the link between toys and gender stereotypes, and discovers how to encourage gender-conscious parenting.

e’ve come prepared this year; having arrived early to avoid the hustle of the crowds that are sure to come. We tackle the boys’ section first. It’s easy finding Christmas presents for them. A talking superhero or a collection of larger-than-life bugs, complete with slime, will do the trick. Then I do an about turn, and head to the girls’ section, easy to find with the pink glow emanating off the rows of dolls and kitchen sets. Do I go with the pink tea set or doll, for my niece? I worry that by choosing these toys, I am conspiring to keep girls stuck in the kitchen. And surely muscled superheroes and toy tanks aren’t sending the right message to our sons either. It is this same concern that has seen many international toy stores come under fire for having girls and boys categories. Lego took some heat as well, when it released the Lego Friends range, marketed specifically for girls and available in a range of pinks and purples. Parents are concerned that stereotyping gender like this negatively impacts their children.

But gender stereotypes don’t originate in toy stores. Claire O’Mahoney, a play therapist in Joburg, says that toy preference often starts at home. Toddlers play with the toys that they are given, often selected by parents or found in an older sibling’s room. Gender identification only starts at 24 months, says Durban psychologist Gabi Kell, with children only really beginning to understand gender differences by three years. So a child’s primary socialisation and understanding of gender comes from parents and family. Without realising it, parents commit to gender, says Kell. They may choose the clothes that girls wear, or tell boys that pink is for girls. Carlyn Foster, who works on marketing projects for big brands, points out that there are many baby and childcare products, from toys to clothes, that differentiate between gender and come in either blue or pink. Huggies have recently launched a range of gender-specific nappies, and while their product speaks to a physiological difference between boys and girls, they have embraced the opportunity to create different designs for both sexes. The growth shown by this product suggests that it is popular with the public, as moms understand the need for boys and girls nappies to be functionally different, but also appreciate the visual appeal. Even when parents consciously work to avoid distinguishing between genders, children pick up on it, and become aware of these differences. Marketing manager Michelle Thomas says that choosing gender-specific toys often starts with the parents.

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learning gender

“Dads buy their boys Lego because they remember the positive experiences they had with the brand.” Older siblings and friends at school will also impact how children understand gender. Thomas remarks on how common it is for parents to look for a toy that their child wants, but have no idea where he heard about it. My son, having never watched an episode, can tell me all about Ben 10. Guess what he wants for Christmas?

neutral ground The entertainment industry also plays a part in socialising children. Thomas points out that movie and TV trends influence what the next craze will be. Their newest trend seems to be moving towards a more gender-neutral space, with titles appealing to a broader audience. Disney’s Brave, an animated movie about a bow-shooting princess, saw a mixed audience in its opening weekend, with just less than half of the audience being male. Gender neutral films will foster an industry for toys that appeal to both sexes. This gender neutral approach has been adopted by overseas toy companies, like Harrods, which have reorganised toys into themes. This is, in part, due to pressure from society. The Let Toys be Toys campaign encourages toy retailers and manufacturers to stop marketing toys for a specific gender, and rather let children choose whichever toy they want to play with. Wanda Ambrosini, managing director for a big toy company, says that the move towards being gender neutral is also less risky, as “a product that is developed for boys and girls is less expensive.” There is a need for gender neutral toys, says O’Mahoney, as many toy manufacturers are leaning towards educational toys. In the past, boys played with blocks and developed gross motor skills. Girls played at dressing dolls, and developed fine motor skills. Many toys are now developed to help both sexes develop a range of skills. The development of these toys, and the new direction of the entertainment industry has resulted in a broader genre appeal. “There has definitely been a shift in the kinds of products we’ve seen developed in the toy world that will bring unfamiliar toy items to gender-neutral spaces, such as the Nerf Rebelle, a girl-themed crossbow,” says Thomas.

Let children play with whatever toys they choose, without limiting their choice or ignoring their preferences. a matter of difference But gender specific toys are hardly a thing of the past. Although children do learn about gender from parents, friends and society, biology also influences the toys children play with. Research has shown that boys and girls 12, 18 and 24 months old show toy preference, says Kell. At this presocialised age, girls were found to watch dolls more, while boys watched cars, suggesting that toy preference is biological. Another study had male and female monkeys choosing toys. The male monkeys favoured wheeled toys while the female monkeys chose to play with dolls. Children gravitate towards gender-specific toys, says Kell, and the marketing reflects this. Girls tend to show less rigid commitment to gender-specific toys than boys do, perhaps because it is more socially acceptable. Boys don’t want to play with toys that are feminised, says Kell. This will influence toy preference and the marketing of toys. “Big toy brands will continue to market their popular products to the relevant gender especially as specific play patterns remain popular with this gender,” says Thomas.

playtime While there is a space for gender-neutral toys, particularly those that are developmental, O’Mahoney points out that, as parents, we need to acknowledge these gender differences between girls and boys. We also need to allow children to explore these differences for themselves. Children need to be exposed to a variety of toys, advises Kell. Girls can benefit from playing with mechanical toys, just as boys can benefit from playing with toys that encourage caring and language development. For children with a different gender sibling, this is easier as they have more access to a variety of toys and aren’t limited in their play, says O’Mahoney. Parents can also let children play with whatever toys they choose, without limiting their choice or ignoring their preferences. In this way, children can develop a variety of interests and skills, from the social and language skills developed by toys like dolls, to the spatial development learnt from construction sets. So as I stare at the rows of pink toys, I remember that while my niece enjoys playing with dolls, she also enjoys playing with blocks and designing treasure maps. And while my son wants the biggest ninja turtle there is, he still plays with his teddy bear. So if he wants a baking set for Christmas, I’m sure Father Christmas will sneak one into his stocking. magazine cape town

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happy travels Holiday travelling with an extended family is often filled with stress. MARINA ZIETSMAN explains how to avoid an awkward situation before it happens.

cry freedom It’s everyone’s holiday, and everybody should feel free to do what they please. Although suggestions for activities should be welcomed, let it go if someone chooses not to join in. Someone could say, “We are going to catch a movie, who wants to join us?”, and if the answer is, “No thanks, I’d rather read a book”, don’t nag or take it personally – everyone has different interests and priorities. One way to avoid a scene is to ensure that each family has their own transport. After all, if “Uncle Bill”, who’s allergic to children, wants a minute of peace at a seaside restaurant, but you and your three young ones want to go to a wild waterpark, then each family is free to go their separate ways, do their own thing, and come back happy. Erica*, a Pretoria mom with two teenagers, regularly goes on holiday to Stilbaai with friends from Cape Town. “They don’t understand that us ‘Valies’ don’t see the ocean every day and want to spend as much time as possible on the beach. One year we flew down to save costs, and it almost turned into a disaster.” Having your own transport definitely helps.

money matters If you share a house, you’ll also be sharing certain meals and household products. To avoid arguments about money, keep a kitty. Discuss the contribution ratio even before you leave home. Ideally, costs should be divided between the people in the party,

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including children. But be fair. You don’t have to include a baby on the loo paper bill, but if your teenager has the appetite of a horse, or your child is on a special diet, then compensate for any extra costs. Communication is key. “We are usually about four families over the Christmas holidays,” says Irene* from Bellville in Cape Town. “We count the adults and children under 12 as half, and share basic costs. But nobody wants to be counting money the entire holiday, so the golden rule is to keep tabs, like for restaurants or drinks. Once a day we add costs to a spreadsheet and on the last day of the holiday, we settle all outstanding amounts as per the sheet.” But Irene warns against the odd house guest, with no strings attached, like a family member’s new fling, your best friend who brings her family for the day, or your child’s friend. Either way, the visitor or the family that invited them should help out financially.

make space Think about the seating arrangements, before the meal is laid out, and make sure that your child, no matter their age, has a seat or a highchair. Marian*, from Cape Town says, “Whenever my husband’s family has a holiday meal, they always forget to give my son his own seat, and he ends up having to sit on my lap. This drives me crazy, as it makes him feel excluded, and also forces me to carefully plan and manoeuvre each mouthful past my toddler’s moving head and arms.”

where to sleep? When booking accommodation, make sure there is enough space for everyone. “My parents once changed their time-share option online and invited our family and my brother’s family over for Christmas. We all arrived on the same day, so they couldn’t warn us. We were stuck in a two bedroom apartment,” says Frances* from Durban. “I had three little ones, aged three, five and seven, and my sister in law was seven months pregnant. I felt so guilty with my children making a noise early in

the morning, and my poor sister-in-law struggling to sleep at night… Let’s just say we didn’t visit each other for a few months after that.”

chores and hygiene To avoid certain people not “pulling their own weight”, do a bit of planning. Kara*, mom to three-year-old Alex*, says her best holiday was with a big group of almost 20 people, but because it was well planned, everybody could relax. “The families were divided into groups,” says Kara, “and given tasks. One group made breakfast, and another cleaned up afterwards; the same for lunch and dinner. Each day one group was also responsible for general tidying.” It worked like a bomb, she says, because if you were not on duty, you didn’t have to stress about pitching in, as your turn would come. “It was one of the most relaxed and well-oiled holidays we’ve had in years.” It helps to have a set of household rules that everyone adheres to. It’s likely that your children will leave a few toys scattered on the floor or your teenager will not always make their bed, but try to be respectful of those around you. Communicate or apologise should you notice this behaviour is bothering anyone. Better yet, encourage your children and teenagers to tidy up after themselves.

saving the world Unsolicited parenting advice is uncalled for and holidays are not the time to clear up political and religious differences. Try to avoid sensitive issues, unless your fellow holidaymakers are breaking the law. Holidaying with your in-laws can also be testing but it’s difficult to wish MIL (mother-in-law), FIL (father-in-law), SIL (sister-in-law) and BIL (brother-inlaw), out of your life. Jane*, a mom of sixyear-old twins from Sunningdale in Cape Town, decided to take the “high road”. “We went on holiday with MIL and FIL for the first time last year. It was, in essence, the perfect beach holiday. On the third day I emptied the laundry basket to do washing, when to my surprise the basket was devoid of my husband’s clothes. As I walked past my in-laws’ bedroom, my husband’s clothes were washed and neatly folded on their bed. MIL actually went through our basket, took out her son’s clothes, and washed and ironed them! Later that evening she simply put it on our bed. At first I wanted to confront her, then thought: ‘You know what, it’s less washing for me and I’m not going to spoil our break by arguing with MIL’. I’m just wondering if she thinks I can’t do washing, or was it just her motherly instinct taking over? I’ll never know.” *Names have been changed

practical boundaries • E veryone has different parenting styles – be mindful and don’t criticise those dissimilar to yours. • Suggest activities that appeal to all age groups. • Don’t assume that everyone wants to babysit your children. • Be considerate of other parents’ schedules – especially if they have a baby. • Give your teenagers a curfew realistic to sleeping patterns in the house. • When cooking, be mindful of other children’s or family member’s diets or allergies. • Don’t start a holiday meal without a parent who is away bathing or putting their child to sleep. • Not all parents appreciate a children’s table. Ask parents ahead of time to see what they prefer. • Running, screaming children are not always “cute”, especially during a family meal or when others are trying to read or relax. Find quiet activities for your children during these times.

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ost of us have had the “thrill” of holidaying with extended family or friends. Sharing a stress-free braai on a Saturday is one thing, but getting along in a confined space, far from home, over a long period of time, is never as simple as it seems. Sometimes being able to think about an issue before it turns into something serious can help to prevent a messy situation. Some parents have shared their stories and advice on how to ensure a stress-free holiday with extended family or friends.

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family life

better together generation, start with simple time spent with your loved ones. By LUCILLE KEMP

y mom loves to over-cater; at this time of year I’m hitting the gym hard in preparation for the famed Christmas lunch hangover, which sees me through to New Year’s Eve. When my brother and I were growing up, this abundance meant there were always leftovers from our parties. So, at some point it became an annual thing, to head off as a family to a local children’s home with cake, sweets, cupcakes and chocolates the day after. I remember this time clearly. Not only for its potent lesson in sharing and giving to those less fortunate, but also because it was my family’s special thing to do.

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Each family has something that keeps them connected and provides a shared comfort and enjoyment. These things are what make Boxing Day memorable, and a Sunday lunch over the holidays taste extra yum as they come from simple, everyday acts in the home.

give them the back story What was life like when you were growing up, Mom? What was your favourite present from Father Christmas, Dad? What city did you live in? What was Aunty Padmany like when she was younger? Who was the naughty one in the family? Slindile and Sihle Gumede’s children are still small

but they say, “We want them to continue with our culture’s beliefs and practices and we try to expose them to traditional ceremonies, one such being the baby naming ceremony.” For me, the holidays are that time of year when I whip out all the family albums; one goes back 35 years to when my parents were still only dating and true to ritual my dad will have a story for pretty much every photo in that album. Just the other day, Cindy Perry, mom to Josh (10) and Rachel (14), found herself driving past her old house with Josh and got to talking to him about her childhood. “Normally he talks while I talk, but he was quiet so I know he was interested. He had endless questions.” Children

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Special family traditions, which are cherished and often passed from generation to

are interested in our past and the things that make us who we are, that’s why it’s important to pass on our traditions to them now.

inspired by boredom Any parent will tell you that, often, inspiration for what to do with their young children comes from needing to burn off their excess energy, and these days will surely come during the long school holidays, so be prepared and get creative. Cassandra Shaw’s extended family used to spend the time playing charades or board games – things that everyone could be involved in. “I remember playing massive games of Pictionary – we’re all pretty competitive and we used to stay up late laughing at each other’s cartoonish renditions of things.” This Christmas she hopes to get her almost four-year-old son involved. It’s worth having a solution stacked in the cupboard for those rainy days or evenings with family and friends over the holidays. Think Trivial Pursuit, Scrabble, 30 Seconds, Twister and Uno, or be creative and come up with your own.

share Cindy gives her children room to be themselves by sharing her space in the home. “Josh enjoys making marinades and sauces. So, if I need meat marinated I leave it completely up to him – a bit nervously at first, but it turns out he makes it super yummy so I trust his concoctions.” This has taken the tired task, of getting the meat prepped for endless summer braais this holiday, off Cindy’s plate and turned it into a fun activity for the whole family.

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Marius Baldy, married to Nicolene, is the cook in his home and has made it a thing that he and his six-year-old son Tyler do together. This is their one-on-one time before Mom gets home from work. It would be no surprise if the day comes soon when Tyler is roasting the turkey and prepping the trimmings.

I remember this time clearly. Not only for its potent lesson in sharing and giving to those less fortunate, but also because it was my family’s special thing to do. there are simple ways to be hands-on Tessa Daniel, mom to three-year-old Mae, grew up with a very busy dad. However, she notes how he did a good job of keeping her close because he found a hook – walks on the beach with their black Labrador Jackson, that Tessa loved to pieces. When she’s home for Christmas they will keep that tradition alive by stealing a moment to go for their walk. Cindy recalls from her own childhood a simple act of kindness, “My dad was a printer, so he would design and print special little exercise books for me and my brother to use to practise our schoolwork.” This, Cindy came to know as classic Dad behaviour.

your precious experiences will inform your children’s “Growing up, the most amazing time was when my mother took us to the beach. She worked hard as a nurse and we hardly got to spend quality time with her, so those trips were cherished,” says Slindile who plans to keep family beach days alive with her boys this summer. Cindy has many holiday memories of her own growing up over the years – from camping and hiking to trips to a specific restaurant when, at their dad’s insistence, they could order anything off the menu. Her dad’s sense of adventure, generosity and his desire to constantly go the extra mile for them has played a part in who Cindy is, as a mom. So when she reads a story she gets into character, using funny voices and acting like a “simple”, and when her children want to draw not only does she find a picture and get the table set up, she also puts music on. Having time off over the holidays allows us the chance to do these things more often.

holiday memories endure My memories of our annual summer trip to Salt Rock, on the north coast of KwaZulu-Natal, to holiday with the Gaileys from Gauteng, are vivid. Body surfing, playing hours of make-believe in the garden, trips down to the rocks with the dads to pick mussels (no licence needed back then), table tennis tournaments, solitaire sessions with real playing cards and general knowledge quizzes with good old-fashioned pen and paper – I plan to carry these all on to holidays with my children one day.

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in the cape LUCILLE KEMP creates a three-day itinerary to get your family rediscovering this tourist capital that we call home.

winding through the Southern Suburbs

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This superb Southern Suburbs drive sanbi.org/gardens/kirstenbosch shows a broad view of Cape Town in constantiavalley.com the space of a day, offering vineyards, forest acrobranch.co.za tribakery.co.za and coast. Heading out of the city bowl via kbt.co.za De Waal Drive you will access the M3. Look bluebirdmarket.co.za out for the Rhodes Drive right turn, which will lead you to your first landmark of the day, Kirstenbosch National Botanical Garden. The tree-lined road continues until you get to the T-junction; follow the road to the right, which becomes Constantia Nek. At the traffic circle drive left onto Constantia Main Road into the heart of Constantia Valley, home of the oldest winemaking region in the southern hemisphere. Look out for each wine estate’s signage. At the traffic circle where Rhodes Drive and Constantia Main Road meet, on the premises of Constantia Nek Restaurant, you’ll find Acrobranch, which offers safe aerial adventures by zip line, swing and bridge. Back on Constantia Main Road take a right into Ladies Mile Road, and another right into Spaanschemat River Road, which eventually becomes Orpen Road. Your landmark here will be a parking area on the right of the road, which is your base for Tokai Forest explorations. Close to the parking lot is an easy 4km walk, which is informally referred to as the Tokai track. Before the walk head 500m down the road by foot to Tribakery to grab a coffee or juice and snack. Orpen Road, which becomes Steenberg Road, pass Ou Kaapse Weg. At the traffic lights turn right into Westlake Drive and onto Boyes Drive. At its apex your view opens up onto the coastline. You’ll find many convenient stopping points to relish the view and take a photograph or two. Boyes Drive soon winds down towards Kalk Bay. Take a left turn towards this arty fishing village where there are cafés, a theatre, galleries, boutiques and antique shops to visit. Keeping on the main road, the next town is St James, which presents an ideal opportunity to really stretch your legs and frolic in the tidal pool. Once you’ve had enough sun, it’s back in the car along the old Main Road until you get to Muizenberg. Here you’ll find quintessential Cape Town scenes to capture on camera such as the kite surfers and the famed multi-coloured beach huts. If you feel like being a little off the shore, there is an 18-hole putt-putt course and the hugely popular Muizenberg waterslides. The final landmark is Muizenberg’s Friday night market, the Bluebird Garage Market, which will be in full swing from 4pm. Tell friends to meet you there for dinner, live music and a beer, before heading back home. There is also a play area at the market for the children.

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active in the city

Book a family-friendly bicycle tour in useful contacts the city with Bike and Saddle, a travelbikeandsaddle.com tours company that has featured in 12apostleshotel.com the New York Times. A particular ride that is citysightseeing.co.za recommended for families is Darwin’s Trail, a gentle ride taking two to three hours. You’ll set off in the morning before it gets too hot and you’ll be pampered with canapés after the ride. The trail takes you on a tour of Cape Town’s natural heritage sites while offering great views of Table Mountain, Signal Hill, Camps Bay and Table Bay. Bike and Saddle offers tandem bikes and e-bikes (electric bikes). Make sure you have worked up an appetite for Tea by the Sea, Twelve Apostles Hotel and Spa’s traditional high tea, which is a scrumptious, freshly-baked selection of warm scones and clotted cream, cupcakes, and mouth-watering finger sandwiches, along with a fine selection of fragrant teas and coffees. Tea by the Sea is served on Saturdays and Sundays from 2pm in The Leopard Bar, Conservatory or the Café Grill. The light and airy alfresco Café Grill is ideal for families; children have space to explore the outside area, and the buffet-style tea makes for an informal experience. The night bus city tour with Cape Town City Sightseeing is a relaxing way to end off the day’s activities and takes two to three hours. The bus departs from Two Oceans Aquarium at either 5:30pm or 6pm, depending on the time of year, between September and May. The bus passes all the night attractions, including the Christmas lights on Adderley Street during the festive season, and stops on Signal Hill for you to enjoy the sunset. Be sure to pack a picnic. Children love sitting on the open top deck of the doubledecker bus. They receive a free activity pack and there is a special children’s commentary channel during the tour. Did you know that if you purchase the two-day City Sightseeing ticket you get a night tour ticket free?

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west coast to winelands

Rise early, pack a flask of coffee and padkos, and gather the useful contacts children and your sense of adventure before hitting the road for dianneheesomgreen.co.za the West Coast (1hr 43mins). You’ll need to leave Cape Town rhebokskloof.co.za no later than 7am to arrive at Paternoster for sea kayaking with Dianne Heesom-Green. She likes to leave the beach between 7am and 9am, before the winds pick up, but call ahead of time to book with her. The launch point is from the main beach where the fishing boats are pulled up onto the sand. A short beach briefing to prepare paddlers is followed by a gentle kayak to the main rock point off Paternoster. The route is easy and geared for a beginner’s enjoyment and safety. Dolphins, seals and whales are common in the bay as well as the growing penguin colony. Visit Paternoster Fish Market afterwards and be sure to try the West Coast delicacy, called bokkoms (fish biltong). Then it’s Paternoster to Paarl (1hr 47mins) through the beautiful Agter-Paarl region onto Rhebokskloof Wine Estate for their child-friendly Sunday lunch buffets that run until 3pm. There is an abundance of entertainment for the children including pony rides, jumping castles, jungle gyms, a petting zoo and more. Be sure to try Rhebokskloof’s award-winning Sandstone Grove Chardonnay. Since this is the final destination on your itinerary, all that’s left to do is sink a little deeper into your chair, with one eye on the playground, and enjoy the company of loved ones.

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For more day trips around Cape Town, visit childmag.co.za/resources/day-trips If you’re keen to experience more family-friendly excursions in other areas of the country, take a look at our other three-day travel guides for Joburg, Pretoria and Durban online. For your convenience this Cape Town guide is also available online. childmag.co.za/content/travel-joburg childmag.co.za/content/travel-pretoria childmag.co.za/content/travel-capetown childmag.co.za/content/travel-durban Kayak Paternoster

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upfront with paul

the intangible curriculum Human decency and manners are not focused on as much as they should be. PAUL KERTON explains. Saskia, Paul and Sabina

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n our eagerness to develop our children into the smartest, brightest specimens on the planet, chasing their – and our – noble aspirations, we focus on the three Rs – reading, writing and arithmetic – as an exam-based, default knowledge foundation. Clearly this has been working for centuries. People are generally forgiving of a rude, arrogant narcissist, providing that narcissist is clever enough to find a cure for cancer. We all hope that the other life skills necessary for basic survival will magically materialise amoeba-like in little Jimmy’s person along the way, at the hands of parents, teachers and their peers. Nobody teaches you social skills. You have to pick them up yourself through trial and error and finding what works for you.

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These are intangible things like holding a conversation and knowing when to edge into the debate to make a contribution and express an opinion without seeming arrogant, rude or up yourself. How to say “no” politely without upsetting anyone and being true to yourself instead of being badgered into something you don’t want to do; particularly relevant with regards to alcohol, drugs and sex. Yes, there have been great strides in education to address this gap but have we gone far enough? The same goes for dealing with intense emotions like “love”, which is incredibly difficult to deal with and haunts the teenage psyche particularly as their hormones run amok. Everybody talks about it, sings about it and it is the subject of zillions

of celluloid dramas. We all certainly feel something and think we know what it is, but nobody can give a clear definition and signal when it starts; or the difference between lust and love, obsession and love, and degrees and types of love. Good teachers impart a lot of these life skills through simply being good people themselves or at least impressing on their learners a step-by-step moral compass for them to follow, through their own example and individual style. You can tell immediately whether one is good at this or not by their influence on your children, and the state of the classroom. If it looks like the baboon enclosure at London Zoo then, the loose rein, anything-goes liberalism suggests Sex-Pistol’s anarchy.

I’ve always thought that South African children – by and large – are very well mannered by modern international standards. As manners go out of the window across continents, the excuse is that nobody has the time to be polite and courteous anymore, which seems truly pathetic. I think nobody has the time to teach children manners and, sadly, we accept the alternative without complaint. I read today that the sales of baths are dropping like flying pigs. A survey concluded that people no longer soak in baths, preferring the instant gratification of a shower. The same people haven’t got time to say thank you either. Go on, have a bath and say thank you. Follow Paul on Twitter: @fabdad1

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spotlight

your future investments Women are buying more than just handbags and shoes. CASSANDRA SHAW speaks to a

few women about their savvy financial investments, and passes on some helpful tips.

ore and more women are investing in themselves and their future. It’s not always easy to know which sorts of investments fit best or how to get started, but there are a number of possibilities out there for those of us that are willing to start. We spoke to a few women who have made successful investments, and how these investments have helped to enrich their lives. They offer us their stories and share with us valuable advice.

that she found a piece she liked and when she sold it a year later, it had already doubled in value. Regardless of the returns, Tina finds the process enjoyable. “It is an easily understandable investment, no derivatives, complex acronyms and not too much drama, plus the window shopping is fun and you are acquiring valuable industry knowledge and pleasing aesthetics,” she says.

personal health and growth returning to campus and investing in artwork Tina Retief, a Cape Town local, recognised various gaps in her life and felt strongly that she needed to address them. She chose to further her education and invest in an MBA. “I needed financial training and knowledge to credibly operate in the business sector, especially at a higher level than I was operating at,” she says. As a result, she decided to take a year off and invest in herself. Tina feels that, as individuals, we forget to strategically plan our lives. Rather, we need to examine and initiate where we want to go in life, not just put our heads down and work for the next salary, she says. Entering her programme, Tina was surprised at how normal it was for people to go through a 30s crisis and she found others, like herself, who also wanted to make a difference. She was surrounded by a diverse group of professionals, and the experience made her realise how unique she was. “You realise you have great skills, which others do not have, and you are not just another one in your tribe, she says.” Although she explains that it is an expensive year, with long hours and demanding work, she has found it very rewarding. “Studying as an adult you value the content and you can relate to it. It enables you to have a debate with a diverse range of individuals with strong, very different opinions. It has given me a new lease on life. I feel more balanced as both a person and a professional,” she explains. When asked what advice she would offer other women wanting to continue their education, Tina says that if you can, “give it a shot. We underestimate ourselves and are our own worst enemies. Our male counterparts are more likely to take the risk and resign to spend a year developing themselves and their skills. We (females) are far more cautious considering the bond and our responsibilities.” Although Tina is currently focusing on her education, she also enjoys investing in artwork that she loves. After finding a knowledgeable art merchant in her area, she says

Investing in your health and overall wellbeing can also act as a good investment. Michele Jones, a Cape Town mother, realised that she wanted more out of life. She took an active approach in her future and invested in things like her health and her mind. “I needed to get fit and I wanted to build up my strength, so I signed up with a personal trainer. It’s now eight months and I can see the physical, emotional and mental benefits,” she says. She also started going to counselling to develop her own personal growth. Whether you visit a therapist, a life coach or a career counsellor, investing in your mind and thus how you see yourself and your place in the world can also produce advantages. “There is a great benefit in having a trusted ‘sounding board’ – time to reflect, to review, to understand, to challenge the status quo of what makes up your view of yourself and our experiences,” she says. Since embarking on these changes, Michele has seen the benefits of her actions. She has more stress-free time to spend with her son, and she feels “more present and not just an observer in [her] own life.”

We need to examine and initiate where we want to go in life, not just put our heads down and work for the next salary.

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Bjefke Breebaart, a Pretoria mother of two, has experienced the value that involvement in the art world and property market can bring. Possessing a keen eye for aesthetics and having practiced various types of art herself, she joined the art committee at work, and is currently responsible for art acquisition within her company. “It’s given me great exposure to artists, galleries, collectors and auction houses”, enough to “have built up the knowledge to start investing in a personal art collection,” she says. If you buy art wisely and purchase the work of an established artist, then you are likely to make a good investment. But she warns that work by an established artist may already fetch high prices and there are also a lot of unknown factors related to an art piece. So, educating yourself about the artist that you’re thinking of investing in is important. “You need a lot of knowledge in terms of which

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artists to buy as well as which piece is most representative of that artist,” says Bjefke. She recommends buying from a reputable gallery – they are well informed, always seeking out new talent and try to ensure the longevity of the artist, before they decide to support them. There are many young artists with promise and potential, but who stop producing before they become established, which negatively impacts the value of their work. Supporting them, though, will directly make a difference in their lives, she adds. Bjefke has also invested in property, and made her first investment about 10 years ago – having realised the benefit of a tenant contributing to her bond. She explains that she

was fortunate to have brought just before the property boom and as a result has benefited from good growth and return on her properties. She sees this as a long term approach and believes that her investments will directly contribute to her retirement earnings and help her family’s financial future. She’s also found that commercial property may be a better investment than residential, but understands that not everyone has the financial means or experience. One thing that Bjefke has done is invest in shares and unit trusts, where companies are investing in property for you. This takes “a lot of the risk and stress out of it, leaving you with the benefit of good growth and return,” she says.

professional investment advice

wanting to further your education? Tina says:

Debbie Netto Jonker has been in the industry for 25 years and has assisted countless

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individuals with their financial planning. She feels strongly that everyone should have a financial plan. “You don’t land up in an investment by accident, and it’s important that people try to get some education in how to plan their future whether it be a course or a financial planner,” she says. A good financial investment is one

Call someone that’s done it and ask their advice. Attend an open day. If you are looking to study while working, speak to your boss as soon as possible. Don’t doubt it for too long. Once you’ve recognised the need to further yourself you are halfway there.

that gives you diversity – a balance of shares, property, bonds and cash, that includes an appropriate allocation of investment offshore, she adds. As a planner, her role would be to change the balance appropriate to what your objectives are. It’s important to understand the type of investments that you’re investing in and the risks involved. “There is a risk-reward relationship. Shares can be more volatile than cash,” she says. But adds that “your greatest gain will come from utilising your tax deduction; your investments in your retirement or pension fund are good because you get immediate return on your investment equal to the tax saved.” Debbie says it’s important that you “pay yourself first” and decide how much

things to think about before buying property: • K eep an eye out on what’s available in the area – what properties are on the market for and what they sold for. • Work out your return on investment beforehand, weighing up the potential rent against the cost of the bond and rates. • Buy in a good area and only what you can afford.

is usually available after you’ve paid everything budgeted for; don’t wait to see what’s available at the end of the month. “We also need to remember that a man is not a financial plan. Many women end up retiring in poverty because they’ve left their paid work to have children and abandon their own financial plan – they

Bjefke and Tina’s tips for purchasing artwork

actually need to maintain it through their married life.”

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The things people often forget: 1 To stay on course – don’t switch an investment due to headline news. 2 It’s never too late to start. 3 Remember to insure the ability to earn – make provision for illness or disability.

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Love what you buy. Some cities host a monthly social and art affair, see if there’s one in your city. Follow art blogs and news to keep an eye on new artists. Buy from a reputable gallery with tastes similar to your own and ask them to contact you when they see something you would like.

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everyday delicious December is a time to celebrate with family and friends. In her book, Everyday Delicious, CHRISTINE CAPENDALE shares some of her recipes that your holiday guests will love.

fresh tomato and olive tart with basil short crust pastry • • • • • •

500ml cake flour 2,5ml salt 200g butter 50ml cold water 20ml brandy 1 egg yolk

1 Preheat the oven to 180°C. 2 Sift the flour and salt together and rub in the butter to form coarse crumbs. 3 Mix the water, brandy and egg yolk together. 4 Add the liquid to the flour mixture and cut it in with a small knife to form the pastry. 5 Use your hands to gather and knead the mixture gently until it forms a ball. Leave to rest in a cool place for 1 hour. 6 Line a large round or rectangular loose bottom pan with the pastry. Line with baking paper and fill with pastry weights or dried beans. 7 Bake blind for about 10 minutes. Remove the pastry weights and bake for another 5 minutes until the pastry is golden brown in colour. Leave to cool.

• 60ml olive tapenade or pesto of your choice • 200ml pitted and halved black olives • Parmesan shavings and fresh basil to serve

filling 1 Place the tomatoes, balsamic glaze, salt and pepper in a bowl and marinate the tomatoes for about 10 minutes. 2 Drain well. Heat the olive oil in a pan and sauté the onions. 3 Add the garlic and season with salt and black pepper. Leave to cool.

to assemble 1 Spread the olive tapenade on the baked crust. 2 Mix the olives, drained marinated tomatoes and the onions together. 3 Spoon the mixture into the cooked pastry shell. 4 Season the tart with a bit of salt and black pepper and top with Parmesan shavings and fresh basil leaves.

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Serves 6 • 600g baby rosa tomatoes, halved • 30ml balsamic glaze • salt and black pepper • 30ml olive oil • 2 onions, sliced • 2 cloves garlic

west coast seafood and chicken paella This is my West Coast twist on the Spanish paella. It is moist, easy and it looks impressive. Serve with crusty bread and salad. Serves 6 hungry people • 500g rice • 10ml fish spice • 5ml paprika • 10ml spice for rice • 50ml oil • 1 large onion, chopped • 1 yellow pepper, cut into strips • 1 red pepper, cut into strips • 500g seafood mix, thawed and drained well • 80g butter • 2 cloves garlic, crushed • 6 cooked chicken drumsticks or thighs • 250g shrimps, thawed and drained well • 150ml frozen peas, thawed • chopped fresh parsley • 50ml good-quality mayonnaise • 30ml sweet chilli sauce • 1 box (800g) 21/25 prawns, cleaned and deveined • salt and black pepper • 250g mussels on the half-shell, rinsed well and steamed • lemon slices or wedges

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1 Place the rice in a large saucepan with enough water to cover. Parboil for about 2 minutes. 2 Rinse several times with cold water until the water becomes clear. It is important to wash off most of the starch. 3 Cover the rinsed rice with water and add the fish spice, paprika and spice for rice. Boil until almost cooked. 4 Heat the oil in a pan and sauté the onion. Just before the onion is soft, add the peppers and cook for a few more minutes. 5 Add the peppers and onion to the rice and cook until done. 6 Sauté the seafood mix very briefly in half of the butter. Add the garlic, remove from the heat and set aside. 7 Add the chicken, seafood mix and the shrimps to the rice and cook through for 2 minutes. Remove from the heat and add the peas, some chopped parsley, the mayonnaise and the sweet chilli sauce. 8 Fry the prawns quickly in the rest of the butter until they turn pink on both sides. Turn them over at least once during the cooking time. Season with salt and black pepper. 9 Place the rice mix in a serving dish. Top with the prawns, half-shell mussels (quickly heated in the microwave just before serving), more parsley and lemon wedges.

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pear, toasted hazelnut and orange pavlova drizzled with dark chocolate meringue (Serves 6) • 6 egg whites (180ml egg white or 30ml per egg white) • 450ml castor sugar • 2,5ml cream of tartar • 5ml vanilla essence or seeds of 1 vanilla pod 1 Preheat the oven to 100°C. Line a baking sheet with a double layer of baking paper and grease well. 2 Whisk the egg whites until stiff, but not dry. Add the sugar gradually whilst beating, to make sure it’s incorporated completely. Whisk until very stiff and shiny. 3 Add the cream of tartar and vanilla. 4 Shape a free-form meringue on the baking paper. 5 Bake for 2 hours and then switch off the oven. Leave the meringue to dry and cool in the oven – preferably overnight. Place on the serving dish once cooled.

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topping • 350ml fresh cream • 50ml castor sugar • 1 tin (410g) pears, drained and chopped into large chunks • 50g toasted and chopped hazelnuts • finely grated rind of 1 orange • 100g dark chocolate, melted

to assemble 1W hip the cream and add the castor sugar.

2 Spoon a generous layer of the whipped cream over the meringue, and then top with the pears, hazelnuts and orange rind (only a small amount). 3 Drizzle the pavlova with the melted dark chocolate.

about the book This book includes a number of jazzed up recipes each inspired by South Africa’s West Coast. Readers will find everything from yellowtail and bacon kebabs to chocolate pizza. Christine, a trained chef, has also taught cooking classes in Langebaan, and she loves to share her passion for food with others. Everyday Delicious is published by Human & Rousseau and is available at all major bookstores.

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your child’s life

back to school already? Doing some back-to-school prep early on, means children are all set for the new year.

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TAMLYN VINCENT looks at some of the tasks parents can tackle during the holidays.

y son is starting “big school” next year and, to be honest, I’m a little nervous. I know myself; the holidays will start. I’ll put my feet up, relax, play with my son and forget about the long list of back-to-school shopping and planning. But all too soon, Christmas will be over. New Year’s will have come and gone. And school will start tomorrow. But putting in a bit of work at the end of the year can save plenty of stress at the beginning of a new school year. “Starting school, regardless of the grade, is a big event in a child’s life,” says Carmen Weir, headmistress of Tyger Valley College Pre-Preparatory school in Pretoria. Children will be meeting new and old friends, getting to know new teachers and adapting to a new routine. “For children to ease into the system, it is important for them to be well prepared,” says Weir.

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Being prepared means ensuring your children have the correct stationery and uniform. Weir says it also means understanding the school’s expectations of your child. Children feel safe and secure when they feel

Do your shopping when everyone else is not doing it. comfortable and when they feel like part of the group. “If they are singled out, intentionally or not, they will feel insecure and the experience will become negative,” says Weir. To start off the year on a good foot, parents should send children to school with everything they need for a positive learning experience.

school supplies “Don’t lose the stationery list,” says Isabelle De Grandpre, a professional organiser based in Durban. She suggests getting stationery organised as soon as children finish school. Ask the school to send home any leftover exercise books, pastels or anything else that can be used again. Check the cupboards at home for unused stationery supplies. Take stock of what you already have, then figure out what you still need. Avoid doing stationery shopping just ahead of school, when shops sometimes run out of items – like the school dictionary your child needs. To avoid stress at the end of the holidays, especially when money may be tight, shop when everyone else is not shopping, advises De Grandpre. If you’re ordering stationery online, do it early so that everything arrives on time, and in good order.

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Cover exercise books in the holidays. For my son I’m thinking rocket ships and planets. If your children are old enough, they can do this themselves and decorate their books with pictures, stickers or glitter pens. Perhaps get them to invite friends around for a book-covering session, where they can catch up with each other and start to look forward to the year ahead. During the holidays, start an art and crafts drawer. Collect anything that may be useful for school projects or extramural activities, which could vary depending on children’s ages. Preschoolers could construct cardboardbox robots or paper-plate jellyfish, while older children may need items for leaf rubs, building an ant farm, or making cardboard spirals for snails. Collect cardboard, plain or decorative paper, or kitchen towel rolls. Also look out for stamps, stencils, glue and paint.

lunchboxes and shoes. Getting children to choose or decorate their own labels, in their signature colour of course, can help ensure everything comes home. The week before school starts, it’s time to cut hair, check for lice and deworm. Children should be dewormed every six months, so do it at the beginning of the year and again half way through. At the same time, deworm your pets and everyone else in the house. The day before school, check that uniforms are ironed and shoes are polished.

school bags Bags should be packed and ready to go the night before school starts. But at the beginning of the holidays, check that school bags are still in good condition and will last for another year. If a new bag is in order, add it to your stationery list. At the same time, ensure you have a lunch bag, lunch containers and a good juice bottle.

uniforms Shop early for school uniforms, says De Grandpre. Make a list of uniform requirements, including PE kits and any extramurals your children will be doing, such as swimming or ballet. If you’re not sure what extramurals they’ll be doing, hold off until you’re certain. For art classes, get an apron or an old T-shirt. If your children need new school shoes, buy these and new white socks early on. Children should wear in shoes over the holidays to prevent first day blisters. If my son is anything to go by, boys will be reluctant to wear shoes any longer than they have to, so let them play or kick a ball, while wearing their shoes. Don’t forget about labels, advises De Grandpre. Use these on everything, from shirts and blazers to PE kits and bags. Labels can also go on books, stationery, calculators,

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lunchboxes The thought of making lunches for another year may have you quitting before you’re ahead, but providing healthy lunches need not be a hassle. Before planning lunches, ask your children what they like. They could think beans are gross and egg mayo is smelly, or they may just love hummus and veggie sticks. Christine Phillips, chef and founder of a children’s cooking group, says that lunchboxes should include one portion each of starch, dairy, fruit, vegetables and protein. Phillips suggests mixing it up by using alternatives. Try brown rice wraps or seeded, low GI breads as a starch. Yoghurt, cheese cubes or milk work as dairy. For fruit and vegetables, Phillips says, “buy what is in season, which is more economical

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and adds variety to a diet.” Cubed melon, berries, dried fruit and bananas are good options. Vegetables could include shredded lettuce or baby spinach on a sandwich, pesto, pepper, cucumber or bean salad. Choose lean, unprocessed meats for proteins, but avoid having meat everyday by using cheese, tuna or hardboiled eggs. Nuts are a healthy snack, but find out if they’re allowed in the class or school, as some children have severe nut allergies.

getting organised The more routine your family has, the better, says De Grandpre. Before school starts, set up a schedule that works for each child and put it where they will see it, such as the bedroom or kitchen. Avoid a chaotic timetable by looking at how much children are taking on after school. De Grandpre suggests talking with your children, possibly before school starts, about what they want to do and what you can cut back on. You may find that they don’t like soccer, or that they would rather prefer trying guitar lessons. Telling time is a useful skill for older children. Get them an alarm clock or watch and teach them how to tell the time. Get into a routine the week before school starts, by setting the alarm for an early morning hour, without too many snoozes. Turn this into a game, awarding a prize to whoever gets ready first or schedule some exciting early morning outings for this week, such as a harbour ride or breakfast at a pancake house. If they’ve been staying up late during the holidays, children can start going to bed earlier in the last week before school starts. Set up a homework space, either in a communal area or in the bedroom, and ensure everything children need is there. Put up a pinboard for their schedule or make a funky

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pencil holder with them. This can also be an area to store school bags when children get home, making it easier for them to find their homework. Whether children are starting school for the first time or returning after a long break, they need to adjust to the school environment. “Discipline children at home, so that they are able to adapt to the structures and expectations of school life,” says Weir. If you establish ground rules for appropriate behaviour at home, and teach children the difference between right and wrong, it will be easier for them to cope at school.

where to go Showing up late on the first day is never a good thing, for children or for parents. Find out which classroom children will be in, and how to get there. If it’s your first year at the school, you may want to do an early morning trial drive, so you know how long it takes to get there, especially taking traffic into account.

lunchbox ideas Christine Phillips, chef and founder of a children’s cook group, suggests the following: • Homemade health bars, oat biscuits or rusks • Popcorn • Bran muffins with grated apple and carrots • Chopped fruit and a small yoghurt (pack a teaspoon) • Pita bread with cheese, gherkins, cherry tomatoes and olives • Chicken Caesar salad (pack a fork) • Shredded chicken, avo and lettuce wrap • Boiled eggs, meatballs, cream cheese, cherry tomatoes and cucumber • Low GI sandwich with hummus, baby spinach and grated carrot • Sliced beef sandwich with chutney and cheese

thinking ahead Keep brains active by encouraging children to think over the holidays. Stimulate them, says Weir, by providing learning opportunities where you can. Plan holiday outings to a local heritage site, learn a new computer skill, make something using your art and crafts drawer or send them into the garden to see what they can learn. Speak to children, and keep them reading and learning. Armed with my checklist, I am determined to be prepared for the start of the school year. This may mean that I won’t get to freewheel into the holidays, but it does mean that my son and I get to relax into the new school year.

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see the world by bike or barge

Holidays do not always have to be conventional. Child magazine has compiled a list of extraordinary and adventurous destinations that put a new spin on family holiday memories.

where to go The Canal du Midi runs from Agde, in the Mediterranean, to Toulouse. the adventure The canal is characterised by 42 000 plane trees that line the 241 kilometre waterway, which meanders through the French countryside and past historic towns. The canal itself is 300 years old, and has been named a Unesco World Heritage Site. The hydraulic engineering used to build the canal is a modern marvel, and is sure to impress any budding engineers as they travel through the 300-plus structures, including locks and bridges. Of note is the round lock at Agde, and the nine-stepped locks at Fonserannes. Also of interest are the towns and cities through which youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll travel, including the medieval fortified city of Carcassonne and Narbonne, with its Gallo-Roman influences. The smaller towns and villages offer interesting stops along the route, and many tours include visits to chateaux where parents can enjoy a wine

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tasting. With the Pyrenees in the distance, and vineyards stretching out along the banks, this is a relaxing, slow way to see the French countryside. Bicycles are often included on the barges, giving you the opportunity to stretch your legs by cycling to local villages or for children to ride alongside the canal. Speak to the tour operator about other activities to keep children busy, such as horse-riding or a game of tennis. for the family This is a popular barging destination with a host of tour operators hiring out barges. Look for a family barge, or one a bit bigger for a larger group. There are also a number of family-friendly tour options, which offer activities to suit your familyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s needs. a bit extra The canal is open from March through to November, but you may want to skip July and August, when the waterways can get a bit clogged with traffic. more info visit gobarging.com/family-cruise

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biking through the danube valley where to go Visitors can travel along the Danube bike path from the German city of Passau, on the Germany-Austria border, all the way to Vienna. the adventure Castles, mountains, green valleys and medieval villages make this an impressive destination. Historical sites worth seeing are the town of Krems and the fortress of Dürnstein. But the route also offers views of vineyards, fruit orchards and castle ruins. Vienna is a cultural centre that offers family entertainment in the form of an adventure park and Ferris wheel. Visitors will also get to experience the best of Austrian cuisine, and maybe even join in a strudel making class. While there are some hilly rides along the way, it is for the most part a flat route along a well-kept network of paths. Boat rides along the river offer tourists the chance

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to skip riding while you take in some of the sights. This may prove a useful option for families with young children. There are a variety of tour operators and options along this route, including self-guided tours or those with a guide. The route is home to many family-friendly hotels that cater for children. for the family It is ideally suited to families, with its mostly flat, well-maintained cycling paths that wind along next to the Danube River. a bit extra The best time to visit is during the summer months. But this is one of Europe’s most travelled bike routes and most people begin the route on the weekends, clogging up the paths and the hotels. If you’re starting in Passau, begin the route on a week day. more info visit danube-cycle-path.com

biking and barging in the west frisian islands where to go The West Frisian Islands of Texel, Terschelling and Wieringen are a chain of islands that lie on the northern side of the Netherlands. the adventure You can see these parts of the Netherlands on a bike and a barge. Touring this part of the world also allows you to visit the cities of Amsterdam and Enkhuizen, and sail the Wadden Sea. Canals, dykes, lakes and the seashore add to the landscape, as do the familiar sights of windmills and fields of tulips. Tours travel along country roads to old Dutch villages. The museums, mills and cobble-stoned villages offer children the chance to explore. The Commandeurs’ homes in the harbour towns give you an insight into the lives of

the captains of the old whaling ships. On Texel Island, bird enthusiasts can see a wide variety of bird species. The cities of Enkhuizen and Hoorn are both home to impressive harbours dating back to the 17th century. And you can’t visit the Netherlands without tasting the cheeses for which it is known, Edam and Gouda. for the family The paths are easy to cycle and the roads are generally flat. Tours can include a range of activities, from visiting the beach to exploring the forests, dunes and villages. Younger children may enjoy seeing old castles along the route. a bit extra Plan to visit this area in the late spring and summer months. more info visit tripsite.com

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liveaboard in whitsunday islands where to go Great Barrier Reef between Mackay and Bowen, just above Brisbane in Australia the adventure Whitsunday Islands National Park is one of the best sailing destinations in the world and consists of 74 islands. You can hire a yacht, put on the skipper cap, and chart an island-hopping course through paradise, or as they say in the industry “bareboat” a charter. If you don’t feel confident enough to hoist the sails, you can opt for a power boat or catamaran, or hire a skipper for all or part of your trip. A must see are the panoramic views of Whitehaven Beach, visible from the Tongue Bay walking track. The crystalclear water may even allow for a sting ray or two to be spotted. In winter, from May to September, the waters are home to humpback and pilot whales. They are a fantastic sight to behold, but be sure to keep a safe following distance.

for the family Choose between snorkelling, fishing, camping and more; there is something to do for all ages. a bit extra It is common for people to wear full-length lycra suits or stinger suits to protect them from the jellyfish. The suits will also protect you from getting sunburnt. They can be rented from the local tour operators. more info visit tourismwhitsundays.com.au

rottnest island by bike where to go On the western side of Australia, a 45-minute ferry ride from Perth, lies Rottnest Island. the adventure The island is a protected reserve, providing recreational and holiday facilities, but with a strong emphasis on maintaining the natural environment. The reserve also boasts one of the largest bike hire facilities in the southern hemisphere, so you’re likely to find a bicycle to suit your needs. They cater to children and adults, and have bikes for individuals with disabilities. They also offer bikes with children’s seats. You can rent bikes and ride from beach to beach, stopping off to snorkel, surf or kayak, and when you find that you’ve run out of peddle power, you can leave the bike at a bus stop and take the bus back to the ferry. for the family There are plenty of activities on the island: an 18-hole golf course, Just 4 Fun Aqua Park and a Family Fun Park. a bit extra The island hosts a variety of events throughout the year, such as fun runs and golfing tournaments – visit their website to see what’s happening. more info visit rottnestisland.com

charter a houseboat on lake taupo where to go Lake Taupo is situated in the northern Island of New Zealand and is the largest freshwater lake in Australasia. the adventure If you look at the mountains to the south of Lake Taupo, you might spot a hobbit. These ominous mountains were featured in The Lord of the Rings trilogy as Mt Doom. Twelve-metre-long houseboats are available for skippered charters or overnight stays, and can accommodate up to eight people. If the land lovers want to spend the day off the boat you can visit Taupo, the nearby town that features Huka Prawn Park, a six-hectare parkland dedicated to the production of New Zealand prawns and home to Shawn the Prawn; Huka Honey Hive, where you can watch bees in their glass hives; Taupo DeBretts Hot Springs or AC Baths, thermally heated swimming pools or the Whitewater World River Adventure HQ Experience, a 4D simulator that will enable you to experience a helicopter flight and whitewaterrafting. There are a number of easy to difficult biking trails around the great lake, along the Waikato River waterway and in the nearby Pureora Forest Park. for the family There are shorter loops of 5km or 8km in the Forest Park. Bikes are available to hire. a bit extra You can also enjoy jet boat rides, quad biking, mountain boarding, windsurfing, hot pools, hydroslides, hiking, kayaking, bungee jumping, mountain biking, swimming, water skiing, skydiving, fishing and golf. more info visit taupoexplorer.co.nz or nzcycletrail.com

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biking in cambodia where to go The Temple of Angkor Wat is approximately a five-hour bus journey to the north, from the capital Phnom Penh. the adventure The site of Angkor in Cambodia is the largest religious monument in the world and is comprised of the Temple of Angkor Wat and, at Angkor Thom, the Bayon Temple with countless sculptural decorations. Once the centre of the Khmer Kingdom, it is now a Unesco World Heritage Site. Bicycles can be hired in the town of Siem Reap and you can join a tour to the temples or go on your own and enjoy it at your own pace. The temples are easy to find and the 12km road you take to get to them is flat. An alternative way to view the temples is from a distance in a hot-air balloon at sunrise or sunset.

When visiting the temples try to dress respectfully by covering your shoulders and not wearing shorts. Festivals to watch out for in Cambodia include Bon Om Tuk (Water festival) in November or the Khmer New Year celebrated in April. for the family Just 40km away is the Beng Mealea Temple, where children of all ages can have a true Indiana Jones experience. The temple has been left untouched, and children can hang from trees, treasure hunt and just run wild. a bit extra The best time to visit Cambodia is in the winter months from November to February. Although this is the peak of the tourist season, the temperature and humidity levels are lower at this time. more info visit tourismcambodia.com

island-hopping in a dhow where to go Menai Bay Conservation Area, southern Zanzibar the adventure Safari Blue picks you up from Fumba Village, south west of Stone Town in Zanzibar. For a full day you will explore the wildlife, isolated sand banks and rugged island scenery of the Menai Bay Conservation Area on traditional handbuilt mahogany sailing dhows. Expect dolphin watching and guided snorkelling, a delicious Zanzibari seafood lunch and tropical fruit tasting. You’ll swim in the mangrove lagoon, explore in a ngalawa (canoe), climb an ancient baobab tree and then return to Fumba by traditional sail. Zanzibar is cooler from April to August and gets increasingly warmer from November through to March. It is never cold but there

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are rainy seasons, which are becoming less defined and intensive. It’s popular for South Africans who wish to escape the winter. Zanzibar is very humid from December to March, but not worse than Durban. for the family Children of all ages love the Safari Blue tour as it is an active day with a steady pace of things to do and see, but there is also ample opportunity to “take time out”. a bit extra Menai Bay was declared a conservation site in 1997 and is referred to as a “gift to the earth”, so expect an abundance of wildlife and an unspoilt beach. A little off the shore, taking place round the month of July, Zanzibar holds an international film festival. more info visit safariblue.net

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houseboat safari where to go Chobe River, bordering Namibia and Botswana the adventure The Ichobezi Safari Boats operate on the Chobe River, on the very tip of the Eastern Caprivi. As they are allowed within the Chobe National Park at all times, you are likely to witness the thousands of elephants (largest population in the world exists here), antelope, buffalo, lions and leopards. The two houseboats each have four cabins and they work like a hotel so you don’t need to take over the houseboat, you can just reserve the room. Each houseboat also has four smaller “tender” boats, allowing you to focus on the activities that most interest you, which could be a sunset cruise along the banks of the Chobe National Park, some outstanding birding offered by the Caprivi wetland, or tiger fishing in the Chobe and Zambezi Rivers. The weather is warm, with the occasional spectacular storm. The green season, from January to June, offers stunning birdlife while the high season, from June to December, is much cooler. The dryer weather means that game viewing is really impressive with great sightings every day, although elephant viewing is great all year round. for the family Children are welcomed onboard, with those aged seven years and younger being allowed to sleep in your

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bedroom. Cabins are fairly close together so your children are nearby all the time. There is a plunge pool on the sun deck and the guides are well-trained to handle children of all ages. a bit extra Apart from tiger fishing from a tender boat, you can fish for barbel, off the back of the houseboat, with bits of bacon. On your walk along the Caprivi flood plain there’s a chance to visit one of the local villages. more info visit ichobezi.co.za

galápagos voyage where to go The Galápagos Islands are in the Pacific Ocean, approximately 1 000km west of Ecuador, South America. The islands are distributed either side of the equator. the adventure You will visit the major islands in the archipelago – usually six to eight different islands, under the guidance of specially trained naturalists. In between these guided hikes and lectures, the

family can swim, snorkel and kayak in the protected coves and shorelines. Children can frolic with playful sea lions, and spot crabs scuttling across the black lava fields as well as whales and pods of dolphins breaching and playing around the yacht. Each evening, the naturalists enlist younger passengers in various games and costumemaking contests, to test who has learnt the most that day. You’re advised to select a vessel with wetsuits; most offer them without charge. The hottest months are December to May. for the family Designated family departures mean your child will meet and bond with children from different countries and cultures who are the same age. The naturalist guides working on the yachts are experts at targeting their information to the level of the group they are leading. Children will love the sea lion pups, which have absolutely no fear of humans, as well as kayaking into sea caves. a bit extra Rainfall is most likely in the months of January to April, so travel during these times may call for sturdy, waterresistant hiking boots with excellent ankle support. For the motion sensitive, avoid travelling in August to early September as there is a lot of turbulence in the archipelago. On the other hand, if you do not get easily seasick, these colder waters will bring more nutrients, thereby attracting more dolphins, whales and pelagic birds. more info visit wildland.com

caribbean island go-slow where to go The island of Antigua and Barbuda in the Caribbean the adventure As the island is small, Antigua is well-suited to cycling. The hills are negotiable and generally not too steep. The scenery is varied and village life is much more suited to observation from a slowmoving bicycle than from a speeding car. The best bike shop in Antigua is apparently Bike Plus, which is located in St John, close to the start of All Saints Road. You can hire bikes or get spares from them, and if you hire a bike for a week you’ll get a free road map with directions to all 365 beaches. Traffic is generally light, but common sense, in regards to safety, should be applied. You will find a list of cycling routes on Antigua Outdoors (link is below) and for those families that are serious about cycling there is a Cycling Association in Antigua, which organises cycling events. for the family If you’re cycling around Reservoir Range, book a session of archery, mountain-biking or air-pistol shooting; there are also picnic pavilions. On the off-road trail around the Potworks Dam Reservoir, you will pass farmland and a donkey sanctuary. Here you can explore the island, away from the resorts. a bit extra Watch out for thorns and take plenty of water – Antigua Tourism advises a litre per riding hour. more info visit antiguaoutdoors.com/cycling

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glacier cruise where to go Southeast Alaska the adventure On a cruise through the enormous wilderness of southeast Alaska you should expect to see Leviathan whales, countless eagles, bears catching wild salmon, sea lions, porpoises and various seabirds too numerous to count. Highlights of the Alaskan adventure are seeing calving glaciers, walking through old-growth rain forests, sea kayaking, strolling along secluded beaches and seeing incredible land, air and sea wildlife. The best time to visit is between May and September.

some local spots for the family This destination is great for families with children as young as eight years old. Accommodating up to a mere 12 guests, these small ships find remote passages that larger cruise ships cannot access. ROW’s adventure cruises are joined by expert naturalist guides who will share knowledge of the local flora and fauna, and the natural and cultural history of this remarkable place. a bit extra ROW Adventures was winner of the 2012 National Geographic “Tours of a Lifetime”. more info visit rowadventures.com

biking Cape Town’s Wine Route There are several biking routes in and around Cape Town to choose from. You can opt for tours in Stellenbosch, through the Devon Valley, Franschhoek or the Durbanville Hills, where cyclists can travel through winelands. Stop at the vineyards, where you can sample wine, or find a spot to enjoy lunch and let the children run around. Dinokeng Nature Reserve A cycling safari provides cyclists with the chance to see wildlife, birdlife and nature up close. Situated just north of Pretoria, Dinokeng offers various cycling and MTB trails, along with tours of Cullinan, hot-air balloon rides, scuba diving and more. The Wild Coast Ride along the Eastern Cape coastline, with trails starting in Port Edward, and moving through Msikaba, Port St John’s, Umngazi and Coffee Bay. The changing landscape offers beaches, waterfalls and cliff faces, and difficulty levels will depend on the route chosen.

barging Knysna Lagoon Hire a houseboat and spend your holiday gently cruising around the lagoon, finding sunny beaches or letting the children ride a tube behind the boat. The area also offers hiking, the chance to meet elephants, and a variety of nearby shops and markets. The Vaal River Float along the Vaal in a houseboat, taking in the sights of the wetlands, enjoying a braai on board or docking at a restaurant for dinner. Whether you’re looking to fish, or just enjoy a gentle cruise, this destination offers a variety of activities. Langebaan In the West Coast National Park, at Kraalbaai, you can rent houseboats for a family getaway of fishing, swimming, skiing, tubing, walking, hiking, bird-watching, beach fun or simply relaxing on board.

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a good read for toddlers

for preschoolers packed w ith fun extras

Little Mouse’s Big Book of Beasts By Emily Gravett

Wild Animals Number Fun By Ben Adams and Sarah Pitt (Published by NB Publishers, R89) This wipe-clean playbook is recommended for children from the age of three. They can turn the picture wheel and open the foldout pages to share numbers and counting activities. The pages can be wiped clean, so the book can be used again and again. Activities include joining the numbered dots to complete pictures, counting animals and their features, interactive noise and clapping fun as well as drawing. The illustrations are bright and cheerful, which will keep young children interested and occupied.

Zoe and Beans – How Many Pets? By Chloë and Mike Inkpen (Published by Macmillan Children’s Books, R89) Children from as young as a year old can learn to count with Zoe and Beans. How many pets can you see? Join Zoe and Beans and their new friend Oscar as they count the animals, from one to 10. This is the start of a brilliant new series of board books featuring the adorable Zoe and Beans and all of their friends. With its gentle rhyming text, beautiful artwork and familiar and funny animals, this book is perfect for sharing with toddlers and young children.

The Toucan Brothers By Tor Freeman

laugh-out -loud

(Published by Macmillan Children’s Books, R125) What do you do when your sink’s on the blink? In Tapton everyone knows who to call – the fast-plumbing toucans, Sammy and Paul. But when a new plumber, Flash Rover, swings into town, the toucans’ telephone stops ringing. Flash Rover may be faster and cheaper, but he’s also a rotten cheat and it isn’t long before the people of Tapton find themselves in deep, deep water… literally. “Tapton is drowning, we’re right in a jam. And no-one can save us but Paulie and Sam!” The two birds were touched by the pleas of the town, and this was their home too, so they will not let it drown. This is an absolutely hilarious story, with stunning illustrations where a lot is happening, which makes it one book that will be read over and over again.

(Published by Macmillan Children’s Books, R128) Little Mouse is back with a whole host of terrifying beasts. Little Mouse has found a new book, and this time it’s full of scary creatures. Undaunted, he bravely sets about removing or altering all the scariest bits: cosy mittens to cover the lion’s claws, ruby lips to replace the shark’s teeth, and he even pole vaults out of the way of the bear. Full of flaps, jokes and Emily Gravett’s trademark wit, with a brilliantly satisfying ending, this is a worthy successor to Little Mouse’s Big Book of Fears. It’s also filled with activities like folding an origami mouse and shark, tips on dental care (there’s nothing like a crocodile to inspire this) and flaps to lift.

The Christmas Tale of Peter Rabbit By Emma Thompson

Jo-Jo the Melon Donkey By Michael Morpurgo and Helen Stephens

(Published by Penguin Books, R233) The Christmas Tale of Peter Rabbit is a brand new story from acclaimed British actress Emma Thompson. It’s the perfect Christmas tale: Peter and his cousin Benjamin are on a mission to help a special friend from becoming Mr and Mrs McGregor’s Christmas dinner. Will Peter and Benjamin be able to save him? Thompson is also an Oscar-winning screenwriter, and lives in London and Argyll.

(Published by Penguin Books, R108) Jo-Jo is a lovable donkey, who carries heavy melons through the streets of Venice, that need to be sold. He is bullied by his master and plagued by flies. Jo-Jo is loved by nobody. But one day, somebody notices Jo-Jo; the famous duke’s daughter herself. And when danger looms, the Venetians need a hero to save them. A real feeling of warmth and hope is created in this timeless, classical tale.

Table Mountain’s Holiday By Lucy Stuart-Clark The Crocodile Who Didn’t Like Water By Gemma Merino (Published by Macmillan Children’s Books, R121) Everybody knows that crocodiles love water, but this little crocodile is different. He doesn’t like water at all. In fact, he prefers climbing trees. But it can be lonely when you’re the odd one out, so the little crocodile tries his best to change, but being wet isn’t for everyone, and a shiver soon becomes a cold and the cold becomes a sneeze – a very hot sneeze… Could it be that this little crocodile isn’t a crocodile at all, but he might just be a dragon? And dragons aren’t born to swim. They are born to fly and to breathe fire. This is a lovely story about uniqueness from the winner of the 2011 Macmillan Prize for Illustration.

(Published by Bumble Books, R135) Tired of being covered by a cold, cloudy blanket, Table Mountain, a dinosaur, waves goodbye to Lion’s Head and goes on holiday. He feeds squirrels in The Company’s Garden, has tea at the Mount Nelson Hotel, and catches a boat to Robben Island. He visits the Waterfront where he catches a movie, and then sets out for Muizenberg. He even tries shark-cage diving in False Bay. He also goes on a short trip to the Karoo. But then he misses Lion’s Head too much and decides to go home. To order, email robin@printmatters.co.za or visit printmatters.co.za

Mysterious Traveller By Mal Peet, Elspeth Graham and PJ Lynch (Published by Walker Books, R225) This is a moving story, stunningly illustrated by PJ Lynch for children from the age of five. The tale begins with a camel, trying to protect a little baby from a violent desert storm. He is rescued by Issa, the desert guide, who takes the child in, naming her Mariama. She becomes Issa’s only family and his eyes as he begins to lose his sight. Years later, a stranger arrives at their door, who will change their lives forever.

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for preteens and teens Above World By Jenn Reese

Ella’s Kitchen – The Cook Book: The Red One (Published by Hamlyn, R218) Ella’s Kitchen is the fastest growing brand in the UK baby food sector and this new title is the first in a series of books aimed at creating nutritious, convenient food that children from the age of eight will love. There are 100 recipes to inspire big and little cooks, ranging from the easiest of snacks and light meals that can be rustled up in minutes to delicious and satisfying dinners. Interesting twists and clever shortcuts, such as salmon fillets baked in parcels, make life as easy as possible for busy parents. For weekends there are breakfast recipes such as Blueberry Pancakes and more involved cooking projects such as a Pasta Weekend.

Dogtective William and the Pirates By Elizabeth Wasserman and Chris Venter (Published by NB Publishers, R115) Adrian is 12 years old and an only child. He spends a lot of time with his dog, William, which the family got from the SPCA. But only Adrian knows William’s secret: he understands humans and he can talk. In the second book of the series, Alex’s mom wins a luxury cruise holiday and takes her son along. William plays stowaway in Alex’s backpack, and when modern day pirates take the ship hostage, William’s sleuth skills save the day. Alex and William work together to foil the pirates’ plans, which include locating and stealing a treasure.

(Published by Walker Books, R114) Thirteen-year-old Aluna has lived her entire life in the ocean with the Coral Kampii in the City of Shifting Tides. But after centuries spent hidden from the Above World, the Kampii’s breathing necklaces are failing, but the elders are unwilling to venture above water to seek answers. Only headstrong Aluna and her friend Hoku are stubborn and bold enough to face the terrors of land to search for a way to save their people. But can Aluna’s determination and fighting skills, and Hoku’s tech savvy keep them safe? Set in a world where overcrowding has led humans to adapt – growing tails to live under the ocean or wings to live on mountains – here is a ride through a future where greed and cruelty have gone unchecked, but the loyalty of friends remains true. Above World is recommended for children from the age of nine.

Kite Spirit By Sita Brahmachari (Published by Macmillan Children’s Books, R101) During the summer, Kite’s world falls apart. Her best friend, Dawn, commits suicide after a long struggle with feeling under pressure to achieve. Kite’s dad takes her to the Lake District to give her time and space to grieve. At home in London, Kite is a confident girl, but in the countryside she feels vulnerable. Kite senses Dawn’s spirit around her and is consumed by powerful, confusing emotions – anger, guilt, sadness and frustration. It’s not until she meets a local boy, Garth, that Kite begins to open up – talking to a stranger is easier somehow. Kite deeply misses her friend and would do anything to speak to Dawn just once more, to understand why, otherwise how can she ever say goodbye? Kite Spirit is for children from the age of 11.

Versailles and San Francisco – ThreeDimensional Expanding Pocket and City Guides By Nina Cosford and Charlotte Trounce (Published by Walker Books, R86 each) Discover one of the world’s most famous palaces with this cut-paper pocket guide and bring San Francisco to life with a three-dimensional expanding city skyline. Unfolding to a length of 1,5m and presented in a beautiful slipcase, the Versailles guide features sumptuous rooms and magnificent treasures such as the Hall of Mirrors, the King’s Room, the Grand Trianon and the Queen’s Hamlet. Each illustration is accompanied by a short description, making this the perfect souvenir. The San Francisco cutpaper guide features the important sights in the city, such as the Golden Gate Bridge, Alcatraz Island, Fisherman’s Wharf, the AT&T Park and the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art.

Ladybird Bedtime Tales for Children Retold by Mandy Archer

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(Published by Penguin Books, R135) This gorgeous Ladybird treasury of eight classic, traditional tales is guaranteed to delight and entertain young children. Each favourite fairytale or story has been sensitively retold for modern readers and the mix of amazing animals, magical marvels and classic characters is perfect for both boys and girls. An ideal gift, it comes complete with a ribbon page marker and sparkly foil on the cover. The stories include Chicken Licken, Rapunzel, The Enormous Turnip, The Wizard of Oz, The Emperor’s New Clothes, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, Rumpelstiltskin and Heidi. This keepsake can be read to children as young as three, but your seven year old will also get hours of pleasure from the classic stories and bright, colourful illustrations.

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The Sleeping Baobab Tree By Paula Leyden (Published by Walker Books, R102) This is a funny, heart-warming story set in modern-day Zambia for children from the age of nine. One morning 12-year-old Fred wakes up with an unaccountable sense of foreboding, which his friend Bul-Boo, one of the twins from next door, insists is just his imagination. However, the feeling persists, and grows stronger when Fred’s terrifying great-granny, Nokokulu, asks him to accompany her on a trip to an ancient burial site known as the Place of Death. Then Bul-Boo overhears her parents talking about patients going missing from her mother’s Aids clinic, and when one of the patients turns out to be Fred’s Aunt Kiki, the children suddenly view Nokokulu’s trip in a different light. As the three friends and the old woman journey into the heart of Zambia, dark clouds are gathering and ancient magic is in the air.

Molly Moon and the Monster Music By Georgia Byng (Published by Macmillan Children’s Books, R100) This is the sixth adventure in the bestselling Molly Moon series. Eleven-year-old Molly Moon is known and loved for her incredible powers – hypnotism, time travelling and mind reading, but now something seems to have power over her. Not only has it made her a brilliant musician, it’s given her thousands of new fans, all of whom are mesmerised by her. Only Petula, her pet pug, senses an off note. Molly-the-Makerof-Magical-Music is one thing, but Mollythe-Big-Old-Meanie is another, and every day Petula sees her kind owner become more and more horrible. What is going on? And can one determined dog sort it out before Molly becomes truly monstrous? This popular series is recommended for children from the age of nine. December 2013 / January 2014

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The Last Wild By Piers Torday

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(Published by Quercus Publishing, R173) In a world where animals no longer exist, 12-year-old Kester Jaynes sometimes feels like he hardly exists either. Locked away in a home for troubled children, he’s told there’s something wrong with him. So when he meets a flock of talking pigeons and a bossy cockroach, Kester thinks he’s finally gone a bit mad. But the animals have something to say… They fly Kester to a place where the last creatures have survived. A wise stag needs Kester’s help, and together they must embark on a great journey.

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And When She Was Good By Laura Lippman (Published by William Morrow & Company, R295) Heloise, a single mother, runs her own business, avoids attention and keeps her private life to herself. But Heloise’s life is also a precarious one, because her business is one that takes place in discreet hotel rooms and, for the right money, she could be the woman of your dreams. Now her carefully constructed world is under threat. Her once oblivious accountant is suddenly asking questions; her protector is hinting at mysterious dangers, and another so-called suburban madam has been found dead. Lippman delivers a brilliant novel about a woman with a secret life who is forced to make desperate choices to save her son and herself.

(Published by Bloomsbury Publishing, R175) Novelist Guy Ableman is in thrall to his vivacious wife Vanessa, a strikingly beautiful redhead, highly-strung and blazingly angry. The trouble is, he is no less in thrall to her alluring mother, Poppy. Mother and daughter come as a pair; a blistering presence that destroys Guy’s peace of mind, suggesting the wildest stories but making it impossible for him to concentrate to write any of them. Not that anyone reads Guy, anyway. His publisher has committed suicide. His agent is in hiding and Vanessa is writing a novel of her own. Guy doesn’t expect her to finish it, but he dreads the consequences if she does. Now Guy wonders if it’s time to take his love for Poppy to another level. Zoo Time is a novel about love – of women, of literature, of laughter. It shows a funny writer at his brilliant best.

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(Published by Penguin Books, R414) This is the comprehensive compendium dedicated to all things canine. From Beethoven to Toto, dogs have been adored for their unswerving loyalty and companionship throughout history and this is the perfect celebration of man’s best friend. This extensive catalogue of over 400 dog breeds, from Labradors to German Shepherds and every pedigree in between, provides photographs and profiles detailing character, compatible owner traits, and breed-specific advice. You’ll also find features on famous fictional dogs, canine heroes and a fact-packed guide to canine evolution. Expert advice on everything from exercise and feeding your pooch, to grooming and puppy training is included.

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Things to Make and Do with Your Children By Myleene Klass

100 Clever Digital Photography Ideas By Peter Cope

(Published by Orion Publishing, R260) Packed full of stories, rhymes, activities and advice, this is a great book to share with your two to five year old. Published as a big bumper book, this full-colour edition is perfect for parents and children to enjoy together. Stories and rhymes are appealing, interactive and high in early-learning content; there is a wide range of traditional stories as well as ones about big occasions in a child’s life. The craft and creative play ideas are varied, including dressing up and face painting; food to prepare together; and things to do outside. The sections are interspersed with Myleene’s advice to parents based on her experiences as a mother to two young daughters, which make her an inspiration to both stay-athome parents and those who work.

(Published by Metz Press, R180) This is a practical, accessible guide to the ingenious and inspirational ways to get the most from your basic camera and camera phone. Discover clever ways to share your photos using Facebook and Flickr, or create web galleries, photo books and largescale versions of your prints from canvas to wallpaper. Understand how to use all those modes and menus to get the best possible picture every time. It is filled with invaluable, imaginative tips from shooting for online auctions and photographing children and pets to organising your own photo treasure hunt and interesting ways to let your old camera live on. Open your eyes to the creative possibilities with your digital photo technology. The book includes a “jargon buster” section.

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(Published by Icon Books, R179) “Does ‘nesting’ mean I have to live in a tree?” “Is there any salad involved in a Caesarean section?” “Is caviar suitable for puréeing?” Apart from deciding which hat to wear for a posh celebration, having a baby is the biggest challenge a person can face. With tips to take you from womb to silver spoon, When One is Expecting is the definitive guide to raising your little prince or princess the aristocratic way. The advice in this book has been produced as a parody and should not be taken seriously. Whether you want a child to brighten up the east wing, avoid a succession crisis, or simply get more out of Mother’s Day, pregnancy and parenting are often the best way to achieve this. But getting there can be far from plain sailing…

Blame my Brain: The Amazing Teenage Brain By Nicola Morgan (Published by Walker Books, R102) This is a comprehensive guide to the biological mysteries that lie behind teenage behaviour. Contrary to popular (parental) opinion, teenagers are not the lazy, unpleasant louts they occasionally appear to be. During the teenage years the brain is undergoing its most radical and fundamental change since the age of two. Nicola Morgan’s carefully researched, accessible and humorous examination of the ups and downs of the teenage brain has chapters dealing with powerful emotions and much more. The revised edition contains new research, including information on mirror neurons. It should be read by parents of teenagers and even children from the age of 10.

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Gorgeous Me holiday programme Learn make-up artistry skills such as face painting and face-paint art.

Free cinema at Alliance Francaise Screenings of French films are held at Alliance Française du Cap.

bump, baby & tot in tow – p55

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Toddlers and children’s bike race Tricycles, plastic motorbikes and beginner “big” bikes take part.

Boks for Books Every “I am Literacy” bracelet sale means R10 for literacy development in South Africa.

SPECIAL EVENTS – p42 Spier Festival of White Lights The festival is a performance arts procession across the farm led by Spier’s Angel of Light on stilts.

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december 2013 1 sunday Summer sunset concerts Pack a picnic, and enjoy lazy afternoons listening to the best in local and international music. 1 December: Jack Parow featuring Francois Van Coke; 8 December: Tailor, Matthew Mole and Nakhane Touré; 22 December: Mango Groove; 29 December: Oliver Mtukudzi. 5 January: The Parlotones. 12 January: Macstanley, Craig Hinds and Ard Matthews. 19 January: Johnny Clegg. 26 January: Jimmy Nevis. Time: 5:30pm–7pm. Gates open at 4pm. Venue: Kirstenbosch National Botanical Garden, Rhodes Dr, Newlands. Cost: R90–R145 for adults, R65– R115 for 6–21 year olds. Contact: 021 799 8783/8620 or visit sanbi.org

sculptures and lanterns and a diverse collection of artistic performances. It ends at the Spier Hotel with a complimentary glass of wine for adults, accompanied by relaxing tunes. Book a picnic at Spier’s Eight to Go Deli before the event begins. Time: 8pm. Venue: Spier Wine Farm. Cost: adults R150, children under 12 R60. Contact: 021 809 1100 or reservations@spier.co.za

7 saturday French Christmas Market Select French items for your festivities, which include French pastries, cheese, wines, jewellery, clothes and crafts. Live performances include Christmas songs rearranged to marimba. Children can have their faces painted, their picture taken with Father Christmas, hang their wish on a Santa Wish Tree and take part in the improvised theatre series. Time: tbc. Venue: The French School of Cape Town, 101 Hope St, Gardens. Cost: free entry. Contact: noelfrancophone@gmail.com

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Café Roux Kids Christmas party A highlight as Santa arrives to hand out gifts. Bring a gift for your child as well as a gift for a child from Sinothando Creche in Masiphumelele. Specify if the additional gift is for a boy or a girl and what age. Booking essential. Time: 5pm. Venue: Café Roux, Noordhoek Farm Village, cnr Village Lane and Main Rd, Noordhoek. Cost: adults R80, children R40; includes supper. Contact: 021 789 2538 or info@caferoux.co.za

Cinderella at Nassau Theatre Centre Cinderella has been given a modern twist. After each show the audience meets Father Christmas, who hands out sweets. Bring a present or a second-hand toy for an underprivileged child. Ends 21 December. Time: 10am, Monday–Saturday. Venue: Nassau Theatre Centre, Palmyra Road, Newlands. Cost: R50. Contact: 021 558 2650, 083 364 8284, elton@lilliputplayers. co.za or book through computicket.com

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Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol at the Baxter Marc Lottering is Scrooge in Lara Foot’s adaptation of Charles Dickens’ classic tale. The all-star cast includes Shaleen Surtie-Richards, Andrew Buckland and Christo Davids. It promises to bring people of all ages together. 4 December–25 January. Time: 7:30pm with matinee performances on Thursday and Saturday at 3pm. Venue: Baxter Theatre. Cost: R100– R150. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com

Winnie the Pooh at Artscape Winnie the Pooh lives in Hundred Aker Wood and wakes up to a cold, snowy day. He goes to his friend Piglet’s home, to tell him about the snow but Piglet has gone to find Winnie the Pooh. Join Pooh, Eeyore, Piglet and all their friends as they look for a woozle, celebrate Eeyore’s birthday, find food for Tigger and go on an adventure to discover the North Pole. It promises lots of fun and audience participation. Ends 21 December. Time: 10:30am. Venue: Artscape Theatre. Cost: R70 per person. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or Artscape Dial-a-Seat: 021 421 7695

6 friday Spier Festival of White Lights Celebrate the festive season at this fun festival, which is a performance arts procession across the farm, winding through Spier’s heritage Cape-Dutch monuments and led by Spier’s Angel of Light on stilts. The evening includes a display of light with fire dancers,

12 thursday Hoerikwaggo This is the story of Knuckles and Smiley, two young baboons who are sent on an adventure from their home in Cape Point all the way to Table

8 December – Matthew Mole of the Famous Frouws at the Summer sunset concerts

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16 monday The Upliftment Programme B’Earthday party The UP is celebrating 10 years of bringing joy to children in hospitals. Travel with your family or a group of friends, to 13 “countries” in one day and play games to get your group “passport” stamped. Time: 10am–5pm. Venue: Kronendal School, Hout Bay. Cost: R50 early bird, R70 on the day. For more info: visit theup.org.za

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Carols by Candlelight Noordhoek Farm Village hosts the annual Carols by Candlelight on the village green. Children are kept entertained until the start of the carols with activities on the bandstand. Please take a gift for a child less fortunate. The South African Navy Band performs before the carol singing and lighting of the candles. Proceeds go to St Luke’s Hospice. Time: 4pm–8:30pm; carol proceedings start 6:30pm. Venue: Noordhoek Farm Village, cnr Main Rd and Village Lane, Noordhoek. Cost: free entry, R5 per candle. Contact: 021 789 2812, info@noordhoekvillage.co.za or visit noordhoekvillage.co.za

Mountain on a quest to return a human baby to its family. The show uses storytelling, comedy and song in English with some Afrikaans and Xhosa. Ends 14 December. Time: 11am daily with an extra show at 2pm on 14 December. Venue: Kalk Bay Theatre, Main Rd, Kalk Bay. Cost: R50. Book through Kalk Bay Theatre: visit kbt.co.za

14 saturday Jazz on the Vlei This is the second annual event at the market. Top of the bill this year is Richard Ceasar and his band, the Mark Williams Jazz Trio, who will back Maya Spector and other female vocalists. You can also listen to Synergy Jazz Band with vocalist Deslynn Malotana as well as Marzia Barry, a 12- year-old, who sings only jazz. Time: 6pm. Venue: Jolly Carp, 38 Sasmeer Rd, Retreat. Cost: R80. Contact Janine: 071 259 4545 or Petrina: 074 302 3254 Yoga Sanga Conference and Festival A three-day celebration of wellness, spiritual expansion and conscious living through yoga, meditation, ayurveda, music, laughter yoga and kirtan. The presenters and teachers are all South African and are experts in their respective field or profession. Ends 16 December. Time: varies. Venue: Uitkyk School and Zebra Moon Backpackers Lodge, Greyton. Cost: day pass R250; weekend pass R450; children’s pass (5–15 year olds) R75. For more info: visit yogafestival.co.za magazine cape town

Stories from the Little Library by Pedro, the Music Man The show features four stories from The Little Library, a collection of storybooks by South African writers and artists. The books have been recognised and awarded for their outstanding educational and artistic value. Pedro was involved in the project from the beginning and composed the songs and music for the CDs. Each story includes a catchy song and many traditional African instruments. These soundscapes are complemented by a vibrant visual art dimension. For 2–5 year olds. 21–24 and 27–31 December. Time: tbc. Venue: Kalk Bay Theatre. Cost: tbc. For more info: visit kbt.co.za

31 tuesday New Year’s Eve at Kirstenbosch Goldfish, Yoav and Tailor are rocking Kirstenbosch this New Year’s Eve. Pack the picnic basket and bubbly, and gather your favourite people together and make sure that you get 2014 off to a flying start. Time: 7pm. Venue: Kirstenbosch National Botanic Gardens. Cost: R290. Contact: 021 761 2866 or visit webtickets.co.za

january 2014 7 tuesday Warrior on Wheels at Masque Theatre This is a puppet show about a young boy destined for great things and even greater adventures. Helped by his guardian, mother, teacher, doctor, school friends and a forest full of fire fairies, the WarriorExplorer must battle the dark shadow of Fear and his ghoulish henchmen in his journey to discover everything he was born to be. You can sponsor a ticket for a child who otherwise would not be able to

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purchase their own ticket by contacting The Chaeli Campaign (021 761 4326 or jared@chaelicampaign.co.za). Ends 11 January. Time: 2:30pm and 7:30pm. Venue: Masque Theatre, Muizenberg. Cost: R40 each. Contact: 021 788 1898 or bookings@masquetheatre.co.za

11 saturday Festival in the Forest This is a new, one-day, children’s arts festival. Enjoy a performance of Fantastic Mr Fox, Roald Dahl’s delightful story that is fun for the whole family. It follows the vain attempts of three farmers – Boggis, Bunce and Bean, one fat, one short, one lean – to get rid of the fox that regularly steals food from their farms. There are also workshops covering theatre skills (including acting), dance, musical theatre and theatremaking. A children’s lunch is included in the price of the ticket. Time: 11am–4pm. Venue: Paul Cluver Amphitheatre, Elgin. Cost: R150 workshop, R250 play, R350 combo ticket. Book through: computicket.com or cluver.com

25 saturday Riesling Rocks Festival This wine and food extravaganza has a garden party theme, perfectly suited to the long summer days. Live entertainment will help make it a memorable experience and delicious treats will be available for purchase from

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the various deli stalls on the day. Time: 12pm–5pm. Venue: Hartenberg Wine Estate, Stellenbosch. Cost: R120, includes all tastings and a complimentary tasting glass. Contact Hartenberg Estate: 021 865 2541 or book through webtickets.co.za

FUN FOR CHILDREN art, culture and science Christmas crafts workshop Creative festive season activities get the little ones prepared for the holiday season. They create decorated gift bags and build their

own Christmas cracker. For 4–14 year olds. 14 December. Time: 11am–12pm. Venue: CapeGate Shopping Precinct, cnr De Bron and Okavango Rd, Brackenfell. Cost: R10. Contact: 021 981 2288 or visit capegatecentre.co.za Free fabric painting workshop For adults and children. 25 January. Time: 8:45am–10:45am. Venue: Pinelands. Cost: R35 for kit. Contact Wendy: 021 531 8076, 082 391 4954 or wendyadriaan@ telkomsa.net Moms and daughters craft day Time for moms and daughters to bond with creative therapy. 7 December: fabric painting. 14 December: jewellery beading. Time: 10am–1pm. Venue: Stages Lifestyle Centre, Littlewoods, Ottery. Cost: R150 per couple. Contact: 021 704 1462, 074 106 0713 or stages@polka.co.za Sue Nepgen’s children’s art classes Children from any school attend classes once a week, where the emphasis is on fostering creativity, self-esteem and enjoyment of art, while learning techniques and a sense of aesthetics. On offer are a variety of media, themes and 2D and 3D projects. First term’s programme consists of clay sculptures, acrylic painting on canvas, colour work with wax and turpentine, sketching, watercolour work as well as drawing and painting projects on personal themes. Classes start in the second week of the school term in

January. Children may join at any stage after those dates. For 4–13 year olds. Time: in the afternoons and Saturday morning. Venue: Michael Oak Waldorf School, Kenilworth or 28 Klaasenbosch Dr, Constantia. Cost: R640 a term, including materials and firing; prorata fees for late joiners. Contact Sue: 021 794 6609, 021 794 4723, 083 237 7242 or snepgen@xsinet.co.za

classes, talks and workshops Dramatots open day Take this opportunity to experience part of the Dramatots programme, designed to

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encourage confident, expressive tots, in beautiful, nurturing surroundings on the Atlantic Seaboard. Activities include a puppet show and an interactive drama class for moms/carers and tots to learn and have fun together. For 1–4 year olds. 28 November. Time: 9am–10:30am (1–2½ year olds) and 3:30pm–5pm (2½– 4 year olds). Venue: call to enquire. Cost: free. Contact Gene: 083 445 5978, info@ dramatots.co.za or visit dramatots.co.za

family outings FamFest The day consists of live music, freshly prepared, seasonal market grub and a wide variety of family-friendly games and entertainment. 30 November and 1 December. Time: 10am–9pm, Saturday; 10am–6pm, Sunday. Venue: Constantia Sports Complex. Cost: adults R80, children over 2 years old R40. Contact: 021 462 1529 or visit famfest.co.za

finding nature and outdoor play Ami and Ziggy explore Cape Town book launch Join for the launch of two books in the Ami and Ziggy explore Cape Town series, The Magic of Kirstenbosch and Treasure Hunting at the Company’s Garden. There will be a book reading and signing by the author. Books will be on sale at the bookshop. For 4–8 year

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olds. 7 December. Time: 10:30am. Venue: Kirstenbosch National Botanical Garden – at the Botanical Society bookshop (near the Visitors’ Centre). Cost: there is no entry fee to the bookshop. Contact Donnaleen: 082 851 1656 or don@tdharry.co.za

holiday activities Active Alive Holiday Club Qualified youth development facilitators will present and supervise each day’s process. Creative and stimulating energisers, games, action sports, adventure challenges, art, crafts, drama, drumming, movies, motivational themes and loads of entertainment. For 7–10 year olds and 11–13 year olds. 9–13 December and 6–10 January. Times: 7:30am–5pm, full day; half-day options are available. Venue: Rustenburg High School for Girls (opposite Rondebosch Common). Cost: varies. Contact: 083 414 3232, kevin@lead4life.co.za or visit lead4life.co.za Aunty K’s summer holiday day camp A secure environment for swimming, craft activities, a movie, treasure hunts, fashion shows, an outdoor play park, lunchtime parties and a picnic. Children get a certificate plus goodie bag. 9–12 December. For 5–12 year olds. Time: 10am–4pm. Venue: Aunty K’s Party Venue, Littlewoods, Ottery. Cost: R150 per child per day. Contact: 021 704 1462 or stages@polka.co.za

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Brackenfell Librar y holiday programme 6 December: make a carrot hat; 11 December: the fire-brigade visits; 13 December: colour-in competition; 18 December: a play on waste management; 20 December: fancy dress, followed by a Christmas party. 9 January: make a dominoes set. Time: 10am. Venue: Brackenfell Library

hall. Cost: free. Contact: 021 980 1375 or gertruida.duplessis@capetown.gov.za Bugz holiday programme With stilt walkers, hula hoop shows, mime artists, magic shows and icing workshops. Contact them for times, dates and costs. For 2–12 year olds. Rides: 6 December–13 January. Holiday programme: 15 December–

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mon Virgin Active Kids Holiday Camp A fun and engaging way to keep your child entertained and active this holiday season. For 3–7 year olds. 9–13 December. Time: specific to your nearest Virgin Active Club. Venue: varies; visit the website for details of your nearest Virgin Active Club. Cost: free for Club V members. For more info: visit virginactive.co.za

2 January. Closed on 25 December. Time: 9am–5pm daily; 9am–2pm (26 December–1 January). Venue: 56 Tarentaal St, Joostenbergvlakte, Kraaifontein. Cost: tbc. Contact: 021 988 8836, party@bugz. co.za or visit bugzplaypark.co.za Camelot Riding School holiday camp They are hosting their annual three-day camp. All riding levels welcome. They provide lunch, snacks and cool drinks. For 6–18 year olds. 11–13 December. Time: 9am–4pm. Venue: Camelot Riding School, Herta Erna Road, Schoongezicht. Cost: R850 or R300 per day. Contact: 083 261 7656 or info@camelotridingschool.co.za Canal Walk’s Snow Play Park There will be a 13m slide, snow-filled play areas with real snow and an Ice Cream Swirl Ride, a 21m ice slide. 5 December–5 January 2014 (closed Christmas Day). Time: 10am–10pm. Venue: Canal Walk Shopping Centre, Centre Court. Cost: R70, R30 (under 2 years old), R50 (2–5 year olds), R25 per parent. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 Children’s yoga and creative art holiday workshops 9 and 10 December. Time: 10:30am–1pm (3–6 year olds). 12 and 13 December. Time: 9:30am–1pm (7–12year olds). 6 and 7 January. Time: 10:30am–1pm (3–6 year olds). 9 and 10 December. Time: 9:30am–1pm (7–12 year olds). Venue: Cape Quarter. Cost: call to enquire. Contact Nicole: 083 377 9248 or info@lila-yogatherapy.com Christmas at The Club House Holiday “drop and shop”, where children are entertained, make Christmas-related crafts and tree decor, chill in the movie corner, swim in the ball pond and have

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their face painted. For 4–14 year olds. 17–24 December. Time: 10am–3pm. Venue: CapeGate Shopping Precinct, cnr De Bron and Okavango Rd, Brackenfell. Cost: free. Contact: 021 981 2288 or visit capegatecentre.co.za Constantia Tots n Pots holiday cooking workshops During the December and January school holidays enjoy hands-on 1½-hour cooking and baking workshops. For 2–10 year olds. Time: tbc. Venue tbc, Constantia and surrounds. Cost R120 per workshop. Contact: constantia@totsnpots. com or visit totsnpots.com Cooking for children in the summer holidays 9 December: pizza and smiley face cookies; 10 December: cut out butter cookies and fruit kebabs; 11 December: chocolate animal moulds and veggie noodle stirfry; 12 December: homemade fresh pasta and Napolitana sauce, and edible bangles; 13 December: chocolate chip cookies and sushi; 16 December: sushi and Rice Crispy treats; 17 December: chocolate chip cookies and frozen chocolate bananas; 18 December: cupcakes; 19 December: wraps and fruit smoothies; 20 December: mac and cheese, and cinnamon buns. For 4–12 year olds; under 4s needs adult supervision. Time: 10am–12pm. Venue: Montana Rd, Camps Bay. Cost: R100 per child. Contact Janis: 082 319 9215, janis@nicetouch.co.za or visit nicetouch.co.za Create your own experience with Elemental Kids In small groups, children can decide what they want to experience, learn and create together and what element they want to focus on. It is going to be a surprise, since it is something that comes from the group. Previously they created things like a sailboard and tadpole environments. 9–13 December and 6–10 January. Time: 9am–4pm. Venue: Kirstenbosch Stone Cottages, Newlands or the camp site at Crysalis Academy, Tokai. Cost: R800 per week or R190 per day. Contact Tahirih: 084 873 4711, 4elementalkids@gmail.com or visit elementalkids.co.za

Football Freestyler soccer skills clinic This is a popular holiday event for children. 9–13 December. Time: call to enquire. Venue: Table View FC. Cost: R650 per child for the week, which includes a T-shirt, cap and Puma soccer ball. Contact: 078 736 7742 or info@airstriker.co.za

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Cricket School of Excellence holiday clinics Students aged 4–14 years old are taught the basics of the game from batting to bowling as well as fielding and general knowledge. The holiday clinic concludes with a match on the final day and prizegiving. 9–12 and 17–21 December and 6–9 January. Time: 9am–2pm. Venues: UCT Cricket Club, Herzlia Constantia, International School of Hout Bay, Jan van Riebeeck Primary School, Parklands College, Durbanville Cricket Club, Paul Roos Gymnasium and Hermanus Cricket Club. Cost: R600. Contact: 0861 123 273 or visit cricketschool.co.za Constantia Tots n Pots holiday cooking workshops

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Eden on the Bay holiday club Parents can shop with confidence, while children paint, colour in, do crafts, dance, listen to stories and get their faces painted. 14–23 December and 28–31 December. Time: 10am–2pm. Venue: Eden on the Bay, Big Bay. Cost: R30 per session for drop and shop, and if “fancy” crafts are done. Colouring in, play dough and free play are free if parents stay with their children. For more info: visit edenonthebaymall.co.za Festive Celebrations Family Sleepover Solemate members are invited to pack a picnic supper and bring the little ones, all dressed up as their favourite character, for a festive sleepover at the aquarium. There will be arrival drinks, face painting, art and crafts and photo opps with their penguin mascot, Samantha. Father Christmas will be visiting. There will also be a movie screening and a breakfast buffet. 5 December. Time: 6pm, Thursday–8am Friday. Venue: Two Oceans Aquarium, Dock Rd, V&A Waterfront. Cost: adults R250, 4–13 year olds R200 and 2–3 year olds R150. Contact: 021 418 3823 or members@aquarium.co.za

Flippers Swim School holiday programme For beginners or for those who wants to perfect their strokes. 5–13 December and 6–14 January. You choose a time slot and come every day at that time. One-on-one lessons with experienced teacher in an indoor heated pool. Time: call to book. Venue: southern suburbs. Cost: for eight days, R500 for 15 minutes and R1 000 for 30 minutes; for five days, R350 for 15 minutes or R700 for 30 minutes, or two days R140. Contact Nikki: 083 747 9196 or info@ flippersswimschool.co.za Gingerbread House decorating activity For children from 6 years old. 7 December. Time: 2pm–5pm. Venue: Proteaville, Durbanville. Cost: R225 per child. Contact: 071 585 1230, sugarstudio@gmail.com or visit facebook. com/thesugarstudio Gorgeous Me holiday programme Learn make-up artistry skills. 6 December: glitter tattoo making and glitter art; 7 December: face painting and face-paint art; 8 December: nail art; 10 December: nail art level 2; 11 December: glitter tattoos and glitter body art; 12 December: face painting and face chart art 2. For 10–14 year olds. Time: 9am–12:30pm. Venue: CBD. Cost: R280 per child per workshop. Contact Gina: 079 896 9588 or gina@gorgeousme.co.za Gumboot Parties Holiday Club These are based on a farm where the children can spend time outdoors experiencing farm life, and enjoying crafts, games, baking, swimming and pony rides. For 4–13 year olds. 5–20 December. Time: 7:30am–5:30pm, Monday–Friday. Venue: Gumboot Parties, Gan Eden Farm, Vissershok Rd, Durbanville. Cost: R50 half-day per

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child and R100 full day per child. Contact: 072 182 9333, info@gumbootparties.co.za or visit gumbootparties.co.za Holiday Pilates classes for children and teens The core principles of Pilates stem from the movement of babies, so children naturally respond well. It’s ideal for all ages. 3 and 10 December (children) 5 and 12 December (teenagers). Time: 2:45pm, Tuesday; 3:45pm, Thursday. Venue: 29 Derry St, Vredehoek. Cost: R50 per class. Contact Marie: 021 461 2159 or info@healthjunction.co.za Horses and humans programme Experience the magic of interaction between humans and horses as they explore aspects of communication, interdependence and development of the individual. For English and Afrikaans learners 8 years and older. 10–12

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December. Time: departs 7:30am. Venue: Journey’s End Horseback Rides, Somerset West. Cost: R600. Contact Elzette: 082 772 2626, elzette@ML-counselling.com or visit ml-counselling.com JellyBean summer holiday workshop Expect hip-hop dancing, Christmas crafts, baking and games, daily. The holiday club is now in the Southern and Northern Suburbs. For 5–13 year olds. 9–13 December. Time: 9am–1pm daily (early bird starting from 8:30am). Venue: Erin Hall, Erin Rd, Rondebosch and Kenridge Primary School, Durbanville. Cost: R150 a day, includes a craft and baked item to take home. Contact: 083 392 9593, bookings@jellybeanworld. co.za or visit jellybeanworld.co.za Julie’s Cake Studio holiday classes 4 December: chocolate making for 8 years and older. Time: 2:30pm–5pm. Cost: R110. 5 December: make under-thesea biscuits for 5 years and older. Time: 9:30am–11:30am. Cost: R95. 6 December: bake “we are the world” cupcakes for 8 years and older. Time: 9:30am–12pm. Cost: R110. 9 December: make and decorate bug and insect cupcakes for 5 years and older. Time: 9:30am–11:30am. Cost: R95. 11 December: make edible Christmas decorations for 12 years and older. Time: 9:30am–12:30pm. Cost: R150. 13 January: make handmade pasta for 10 years and older. Time: 9:30am–12pm. Cost: R150.

mon Holiday musical stage school Students gain three hours’ daily tuition in singing, dance and drama by experts in the field of musical theatre and work towards a hilarious musical production of McRumpelstiltskin for the public. 9–14 December. Time: 9am–12pm. Venue: Helen O’Grady Drama Academy, the Athenaeum, Newlands. Cost: R950 for one week. Course fee includes a musical workshop performance on 22 December. Contact: 021 674 7478, info@dramaafrica.com or visit dramaafrica.com

14 January: build an edible bear for 8 years and older. Time: 9:30am–11:30am. Cost: R110. Venue: Julie’s Cake Studio, Newlands Quarter, cnr Dean St and Main St, Newlands. Contact Julie or Faranah: 021 686 2372, julie@juliescakestudio.co.za or visit juliescakestudio.co.za

Kidsoncloud9 holiday programme Non-sports and sports activity programme. Non-sports activities include supervised half- or full-day activities and outings in and around Cape Town. The sports activities include clinics in soccer, cricket, children’s kinetics, dancing, horse riding and more.

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For 4–13 year olds. 5 December–15 January. Time: call to enquire. Venue: Southern and Northern Suburbs and Atlantic Seaboard. Cost: from R440 for four days. Contact: 084 777 1212 or visit kidsoncloud9.co.za Kidz Discovery Fun Factory summer holiday club Monday, Tuesday and Friday offer mixed-age group activities. Thursday is reserved for the younger group and Wednesday is the art club for 4–9 year olds. 9–20 December. Time: 9:30am–12:30pm (excluding 16 December). Venue: Kidz Discovery, The Drive, Camps Bay. Cost: R140 for holiday club and R200 for specialised TotChefs and art club combo classes. Contact: 083 654 2494 or info@ kidzdiscovery.co.za Kidz Get Wild kidz camps Abseil, cargo net, paintball, zip line, waterfall swims, activity courses, nature walks, swimming, art, fun and games. Three-, four- and seven-day camps available. One guardian for every five children. For Grade 1–7. 15–22 December. Time: varies. Venue: Waterval Nature Reserve. Cost: From R790. Contact: 021 712 6715 or visit kgw.co.za Kronendal holiday club A supervised, day of art and crafts, drumming, baking, a mountain hike, a walk to the beach and swimming. 9 December–14 January. Time: 8am–6pm, Monday–Friday. Venue: Kronendal Primary School, Andrews Rd, Hout Bay. Cost: R80 until 1pm (bring own

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snack), R110 until 3pm (includes lunch and snack), R140 until 6pm (includes lunch and snack). Contact Joanne: 076 402 2333 or joannefrost.s.a@gmail.com Nature’s Treasure Box art workshop Children take part in games, storytelling and an exploratory walk in the garden. They are given the opportunity to discover the treasures that nature provides. Back at the Gold Fields Centre, they create and decorate their own treasure box into which they put the items they have collected. For 6–9 year olds. 8 January. Time: 9am–1pm. Venue: Gold Fields Environmental Education Centre, Kirstenbosch, Rhodes Dr, Newlands. Cost: R50. Contact Sally or Michelle: 021 799 8670, s.hey@sanbi.org.za or visit sanbi.org.za

Process art workshop A four-day workshop with the focus on the process of art-making rather than creating a final product. May suit children who would benefit from an emotional outlet and a free, creative space. For 8–11 year olds. 9–12 December. Time: 9:30am–11:30am. Venue: Frank Joubert Art Centre, Newlands. Cost: R400 for all four days; materials provided. Contact Rebecca: 076 581 1794 or rebecca.solveig@gmail.com Rugbytots pay-to-play holiday clinics 1–7 December. 1 December: Sunningdale. Time: 8:30am (2–3½ year olds). 2 December: Noordhoek. Time: 12:30pm (2–3½ year olds); 1pm (3½–5 year olds) and Somerset West. Time: 2:30pm (2–3½ year olds); 3pm (3½–5 year olds). 3

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December: Somerset West. Time: 10am (3½–5 year olds); Durbanville. Time: 2pm (3½–5 year olds) and Constantia. Time: 2:30pm (2–3½ year olds). 4 December: Somerset West. Time: 12:30pm (3½–5 year olds) and Sunningdale. Time: 1:30pm (5–7 year olds); 2:30pm (2–3½ year olds); 3pm (3½–5 year olds). 5 December: Constantia. Time: 2:30pm (2–3½ year olds); 3pm (3½–5 year olds); 4pm (5–7 year olds). 7 December: Rondebosch. Time: 8:30am (2–3½ year olds); 9am (3½–5 year olds); 10am (5–7 year olds). Cost: R60 to play. Contact Steed: 079 410 1728 or visit rugbytots.co.za

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Sewing camps with Create. Hobby 9–12 December (6–7 year olds): make dolls, dolls clothes, Christmas stockings and accessories. 16–19 December (8–11 year olds): summer skirts/pants, beach bags, aprons and a Christmas stocking. 6–9 January (12–15 year olds): beach bags, accessories and summer skirts/pants. Time: 9:30am–12:30pm, Monday–Thursday. Venue: Create. Hobby, 142 Lower Main Rd, Observatory. Cost: R1 120. For more info: visit http://createhobby.co.za SSISA Kidz holiday programme Fully supervised swimming, sports games, boot camp-type exercises, guest speakers and more. For 7–14 year olds. 9–13 December. Time: 9am–12pm; children may be dropped off from 8:15am. Venue: The Sports Science Institute of South Africa, Boundary Rd, Newlands. Cost: R950 for five days or R200 per day. Contact: 021 659 5600 or fit@ssisa.com Summer fun workshop There will be water games, a pirate treasure hunt, art and crafts, creative dance and drama. 9–13 December. Time: 8am–12pm. Venue: Isabel Byers School of Speech and Drama, Cannons Creek Independent Primary School, Nursery Way, Pinelands. Cost: R550. Contact: 021 762 5167, 072 569 7874, info@ Isabelbyers. com or visit isabelbyers.com Teddy Tennis summer holiday fun For children aged 2–8 years old. There will be music and teddy bear story themes. 9, 10 and 12 December. Time: mornings. Venue: The Glen Country Club, Clifton. Cost: call to enquire. Contact: 083 679 0731, mark@ teddytennis.com or visit teddytennis.com The Kids Cooking Club Children make reindeer, Santa’s boot and snow man cookies with royal icing, fudge cupcakes with a surprise topping and more. View the full menu on their website. For children 3–10 years old. 9–13 December. Time: 10am–11:30am or 3pm–4:30pm, daily. Venue: Stodels, Doordrift Rd, Constantia. Cost: R120 per class; discount for multiple classes and siblings. Contact: 083 309 8024, thekidscookingclub@gmail.com or visit thekidscookingclub.co.za

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expect a great selection of quality products and delicious food, gift items, stalls selling crafts and clothing at reasonable prices and natural body care products and jewellery. Enjoy a boat trip from Intaka Island to Canal Walk. 29 December. Time: 9am–2pm. Venue: Central Park, Park Lane in Century City (follow Intaka Island signs). Cost: free entry. Contact: 021 531 2173 or naturalgoodsmarket@gmail.com Constantia Waldorf night market It’s night market season, so enjoy a unique mixture of about 115 stalls selling food, art and crafts, and fun and entertainment for adults and children alike. 27 December and 31 January. Time: 5pm–9pm. Venue: Constantia Waldorf School, Spaanschemat Rd, Constantia. Cost: R5 entry; parking R20 per car. Contact: info@constantiawaldorfnightmarket.co.za or visit constantiawaldorfnightmarket.co.za Doilie baby and toddlers market There will be handmade crafts, decor and gifts on sale and loads of children’s activities and giveaways. Meg Faure from Baby Sense will present a talk as will guest speakers from Dudes to Dads and La Leche League. 7 December. Time: 9am–4pm. Venue: D’Aria Wine Estate, Durbanville. Cost: adults R30, children free. For more info: visit facebook. com/DoilieMarket Elkanah House Schoolyard Market A community market selling fresh foods, art and crafts with a hint of Parisian flair. 30 November. Time: 9am–1pm. Venue: 85 Sunningdale Dr; Sunningdale. Cost: free entry. Contact Michelle: 021 554 8586 or michellej@elkanah.co.za

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Kidz Discovery open market day Find jumbo children’s books and other gift items. Pop in and play, join for tea, register for the dynamic classes and stock up on gifts. 5 December. Time: 2:30pm–6pm. Venue: Kidz Discovery, The Drive, Camps Bay. Cost: free entry. Contact: 083 654 2494, info@kidzdiscovery.co.za or visit kidzdiscovery.co.za Porter Estate Market Time: 9am–1pm, every Saturday. Venue: Porter Estate Market, Tokai. Cost: free entry. For more info: visit http://porterestate.co.za Terra Madre Day at Jolly Carp Organic Market This day is celebrated the world over by Slow Food members. Jolly Carp Organic Market is celebrating its organic producers of everything from wellness products and face care to medicinal products or organic manure. 14 December. Time: 10am–3pm. Venue: 38 Sasmeer Rd, Retreat. Cost: free entry. Contact Petrina: 021 761 2373, 074 302 3254 or menngos@mweb.co.za The BMC Family Market A delightful, family-friendly market on the first Saturday of every month offering art, crafts, decor and homemade food. Be sure to support the market’s “child entrepreneurs”. There is a jumping castle, sand art, face painting and a jungle gym for children. 7 December and 4 January. Time: 9am–1pm. Venue: Bergvliet Methodist Church, 2 Wesley Ave, Bergvliet. Cost: free. Contact Lisa or Sonika: 021 715 3045 or familymarket@bmchurch.org.za, or like The BMC Family Market Facebook page V&A Market on the Wharf inaugural Christmas Market Celebrate “Christmas Around The World” with specially prepared, delicious Christmas themed food from the vendors. In the spirit of giving, the market will be giving away spot prizes to lucky patrons and there will be live

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4 December–25 Januar y. Time: 7.30pm with matinee performances on Thursday and Saturday at 3pm. Venue: Baxter Theatre. Cost: R100–R150. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com

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entertainment. Children should take their torches. 13 December. Time: 9:30am till late. Venue: The V&A Market on the Wharf, adjacent to Noble Square, V&A Waterfront (next to Two Oceans Aquarium). Cost: free entry. Contact: 021 276 0200, like them on Facebook, follow them on Twitter or visit marketonthewharf.co.za

on stage and screen Cinderella 9–21 December. Time: 10am, Monday–Saturday. Venue: Nassau Theatre Centre (Groote Schuur High School), Palmyra Road, Newlands. Cost: R50. Contact Elton: 083 364 8284 or 021 558 2650, elton@lilliputplayers.co.za or book through computicket.com Free birds premieres at cinemas nationwide on 6 December Two turkeys from opposite sides of the tracks must put aside their differences and team up to travel back in time to change the course of history – and get turkey off the holiday menu for good. For more info: visit numetro.co.za or sterkinekor.com Frozen premieres at cinemas nationwide on 20 December Fearless optimist Anna sets off on an epic journey – teaming up with rugged mountain man Kristoff and his loyal reindeer, Sven – to find Anna’s sister, Elsa, whose icy powers have trapped the kingdom of Arendelle in eternal winter. Encountering Everest-like conditions, mystical trolls and a hilarious snowman named Olaf, Anna and Kristoff battle the elements in a race to save the kingdom. For more info: visit numetro. co.za or sterkinekor.com Movie month on Disney Channel December is movie month on Disney Channel. From 13 December there is a movie on every weekday (except Wednesday) at 5pm, until 27 December. This fabulous film fest begins with Kronk’s New Groove on Friday 13 December, and ends with A Bug’s Life on Friday 27 December. Time: 5pm. For more info: visit disney.co.za/disney-tv/disney-channel/ Hoerikwaggo by Jungle Theatre Company 12–14 December. Time: 11am daily with an extra show at 2pm on 14 December. Venue: Kalk Bay Theatre, Main Rd, Kalk Bay. Cost: R50. Book through Kalk Bay Theatre. For more info: visit kbt.co.za Hope Music Festival A family-friendly, chilled-out day of music featuring the cream of the Cape’s musical talent. It is headlined by Jeremy Loops and the musical delights December 2013 / January 2014

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of new, homegrown sensation Matthew Mole. Indie, retro-rock band The Plastics will be in support as well as Al Bairre, The Rudimentals and Morning Ms Dedham. The event will also showcase award-winning Elgin Wines, which will be available for tasting, and there will be many activities to keep the youngsters amused. 30 November. Time: 2:30pm. Music starts at 3pm. Venue: Paul Cluver Amphitheatre, Elgin. Cost: adults R200, children R100. Book through Computicket: visit computicket.com and for more info: visit cluver.com Stories from the Little Library by Pedro the Music Man The show features four Stories from The Little Library, a collection of specially commissioned storybooks by

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South African writers and artists. The Little Library books have been recognised and awarded for their outstanding educational and artistic value. Pedro was involved in the project from the beginning and composed the songs and music for the CDs. Each story includes a catchy song and many traditional African instruments to accompany them. These soundscapes will be complemented by a vibrant visual art dimension. For 2–5 year olds. 21–24 and 27–31 December. For more info: visit kbt.co.za Walking with Dinosaurs 3D premieres at cinemas nationwide on 27 December For the first time in movie history, audiences will truly see and feel what it was like when dinosaurs roamed the Earth. Walking with Dinosaurs is the ultimate big-screen and 3D experience. Recent discoveries and a breakthrough in technology will introduce new dinosaurs, that are more real than ever before, and put moviegoers in the middle of a thrilling prehistoric adventure, where an underdog dinosaur triumphs against all odds to become a hero for the ages. For more info: visit numetro.co.za or sterkinekor.com Winnie the Pooh at Artscape 10–21 December. Time: 10:30am. Venue: Artscape Theatre. Cost: R70. Book through Computicket or Artscape Dial-a-Seat: 021 421 7695

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Valley Farmstall Family Fun Parents can relax in the tranquil setting, while their children play in the secure playground. Farm style breakfasts, light lunches and tea time treats available or you can take your own picnic for a nominal entry fee. Time: 9am–4pm, Wednesday–Sunday. Venue: Valley Farmstall, Valley Road, Hout Bay. Cost: free entry if ordering from their menu, picnic entry: adults R30, children 2–12 years old R15, under 2 free. Contact Tami: 021 790 3803, 079 323 6290 or valleyfarmstall@gmail.com

Learn2Surf holiday special The course is for those wanting to learn to surf in a safe environment with accredited instructors. Your child only needs to bring a towel and sunscreen. Learn2Surf has schools throughout the country. 9–21 December and 2–11 January. Excluding 15 December and 5 January. Time: call to enquire. Venue: Muizenberg Beach. Cost: R600 for three days, which includes all equipment and instructor fees. For more info or to book lessons online: visit learn2surf.co.za

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New Rugbytots classes in Somerset West For 3½–5 year olds. Time: 12:30pm–1:15pm, Wednesday. Venue: Helderberg Christian Church, 1 Schapenberg Rd, Somerset West. Cost: consult their website. For more info: visit rugbytots.co.za New Year’s Eve Sunset Hike 31 December. Time: 6pm. Venue: Dirtopia Trail Centre, Delvera Farm, R44 between Klapmuts and Stellenbosch. Cost: R100; children under 10 years old R50. Contact: 021 884 4752, theteam@dirtopia.co.za or visit dirtopia.co.za Totalsports Challenge Participants can choose between the seven-disclipline Totalsports Challenge or the four-discipline Totalsports Terra Firma Challenge. 11 January. Time and cost: varies. Venue: start at Gordon’s Bay beachfront and end

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at Kleinmond beachfront. Contact: 021 511 7130, follow them on Twitter (@ tschallenge) and like their Facebook page, Totalsports or visit totalsports.co.za Yo Yoga children’s yoga classes Yoga classes for 8 years and older. The class helps youngsters improve their balance, focus, core strength and flexibility. Time: 3pm–3:45pm, every Thursday. Venue: Yo Yoga, first floor, Cavendish Close, Warwick St, Claremont, next to Cavendish Square. Cost: first class is free; thereafter R60 per class. Contact: 021 671 0888, contact@ yoyoga.co.za or visit yoyoga.co.za

only for parents classes, talks and workshops Family and Friends CPR 7 December. Time: 9am–12.30pm. Venue: Constantiaberg Mediclinic, Burnham Rd, Plumstead. Cost: R250. Contact: 021 705 6459, training@ pec.co.zaor visit pec.co.za Heal your life Transformational one-day workshops based on the philosophy of Louise Hay. This workshop is for children 12–18 years old. Mindful parenting: 23 November. Joyful abundance: 30 November. Sharon McNally is a licensed “Heal your Life” Teacher. Time and cost: call to enquire. Venue: Cost: Contact: 084 502 3579 or ssmcnally@telkomsa.net

on stage and screen After Forever Tour with Madame Zingara The mysterious Madame Zingara welcomes you to her forest where legends and folklore come to life. Ends 18 January; excluding 24–26 December and 1 and 2 January 2014. Time: 6pm, daily. Venue: The Lookout, V&A Waterfront, Granger Bay. Cost: R410– R1 250 per person, depending on seating area and packages. Contact: 0861 623 263 Big Boys 2 Fresh from their international tour of Australia, the UK and Europe, the awardwinning Follow Spot Productions round off the year with their trademark high-energy, super-slick entertainment with the follow up to their smash hit, Big Boys Don’t Dance. 11 December–5 January (excluding 15, 24, 25, 26 December and 1 and 2 January). Time: 8pm. Venue: Kalk Bay Theatre, 52 Main Rd, Kalk Bay. Cost: R100 per person. For more info: visit kbt.co.za Cape Town City Ballet bumper season 11–24 December. The Tin Soldier: a brand new ballet, based on Hans Christian Andersen’s popular fairytale of a tin soldier’s love for a paper ballerina. 18–22 December. Belles and Beaux of the Ballet: an exquisite selection of beautiful scenes from a host of your favourite ballets. Featuring top dancers from Cape Town City Ballet. 30 December–11 January. Night & Day: a tribute to legendary songwriter Cole

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Hope@PaulCluver Summer Programme Enjoy an evening of entertainment with some great wines in a magical, woodland amphitheatre. 7 December: MacStanley, R220. 4 January: The Parlotones, R300. 18 January: Nataniel, R250. 25 January: Laurika Rauch, R280. 31 January and 1 February: Herman van Veen, R350. Time: 5pm doors open; 7pm music starts. Venue: Paul Cluver Amphitheatre, Elgin. Book through computicket.com and for more info: visit cluver.com

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Porter. With memorable tunes, lavish costumes, elements of jazz, tap dance and cabaret, this is a truly sophisticated and entertaining ballet. There will be a special New Year’s Eve performance. Time: tbc. Venue: Artscape Theatre. Cost: tbc. Book through Computicket: computicket.com My Low-Fat, Almost Italian Wedding On the day of the marriage of Salvatore and Maria’s daughter, Victoria, wild comic chaos erupts as chef Alpheus tries to take over Salvatore’s ristorante in order to sell pap en vleis. Will the bride be stood up at the altar? This play by Paul Slabolepszy is directed by Roy Sergeant with some of South Africa’s most distinguished leading actors. 16 December–4 January. Time: 7:30pm. Venue: Artscape Theatre. Cost: R50. Book through Computicket: computicket.com Free cinema at Alliance Française 3 December: Gainsbourg: A Heroic Life French biography with English subtitles. Gainsbourg was an indelible iconic figure in French culture. 10 December: Of Gods and Men. Under threat by fundamentalist terrorists, a group of Trappist monks, stationed with an impoverished Algerian community, must decide whether to leave or stay. Time: 7pm. Venue: Alliance Française du Cap, 155 Loop St. Cost: free. Contact: 021 423 5699 or visit alliance.org.za Wavescape Surf Film Festival Documentary films about surfing including a screening of Revolution, a hard-hitting film about the future of the ocean, a surfboard art exhibition and auction, and an enlightening slide night. All funds raised will go to NSRI, Shark Spotters and the Isiqalo Foundation. 24 November–16 December. Time: varies. Venue: Clifton 4th Beach, Labia on Orange, Brass Bell in Kalk Bay and The Superette at the Woodstock Exchange. Contact: 083 509 5106 or visit wavescapefilmfestival.co.za

out and about Classic Thursdays concert series Classical music lovers can enjoy a piano duo recital performed by local musicians James Redfern and Laura Pauna. 9 January. Time: 7pm–8pm. Venue: The Ballroom, Fancourt Hotel. Cost: R100, scholars R30. Contact: 044 804 0000 or hotel@fancourt.co.za The Franschhoek Cap Classique and Champagne Festival Local winemakers offer the finest Méthode Cap Classiques to emerge from the wine cellars of South Africa. The theme for this year’s festival is black and white, with an emphasis on spots and stripes. In keeping with a tradition, a

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High-end children’s clothing store open day High-end, pre-owned, children’s clothing for 0–6 year-olds (taken on consignment and sold at less than half the retail price). 5 and 12 December, 23 and 30 January. Time: 10am–2pm. Venue: Twinkly Stars, 12 Sedgemoor Rd, Camps Bay. Contact: 021 439 2962, 082 920 1977, clea@twinlystars.co.za or visit facebook.com/profile. php?id=100002640646674

prize will be awarded to the best dressed couple on each day. 30 November and 1 December. Time: 12pm–5pm. Venue: grand marquee on the lawns surrounding Franschhoek’s Huguenot Monument. Cost R200 per person, children under 18 years old free. Book through Webtickets: visit webtickets.co.za

support groups LGBTI Parents Support Group – Proud2B Every six weeks LGBTI parents meet to discuss topics about parenting in general and LGBTI parenting in particular. Alternating with this LGBTI families meet every three months at a playground or venue suitable for children. Time: 7pm–8:30pm on a Wednesday and 2pm–4pm on a Saturday. Venue: Triangle Project, second floor, Elta House, 3 Caledonian Rd, Mowbray (Wednesday meetings). Contact: 021 686 1475, info@triangle.org.za or visit triangle. org.zapage or visit Proud 2B-LGBTI Parents Facebook page Pierre Robin Sequence Foundation support group The organisation provides financial assistance for children requiring facial cranial reconstructive surgery, who would otherwise not have the means to have it. Contact: 082 410 3197, info@ pierrerobin.org.za or visit facebook.com/ PRSFoundation

24 November–16 December – Wavescape Surf Film Festival

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classes, talks and workshops Antenatal classes Birthing preparation classes for expectant moms and their partners. The classes are run in the comfort of your own home by senior nurse and qualified midwife, Sydney Grové. The course runs over six classes. Time: confirmed on your booking, during the day or evenings. Cost: R1 400. Contact: 074 101 6704 or sydinuae@gmail.com Motherhood Matters baby massage classes A four-week baby massage course where moms learn to communicate with their babies through loving touch and also understand the many benefits of massage. Moms also get ongoing breastfeeding guidance and advice on caring for their baby from Motherhood Matters’ registered midwives. Ideal for babies from 4 weeks to 6 months. 22 January–12 February. Time: 10am–11:30am, every Wednesday. Venue: Kirstenhof. Cost: R500. Contact Megan: 071 875 2668 or megan@ motherhoodmatters.co.za

22 January–12 February Motherhood Matters, baby massage classes

The Parent Centre moms-to-be and moms and babies groups These groups are suitable for moms with babies up to 1 year old. Time and venue: 10:30am–12:30pm, every Tuesday at Mediclinic Cape Town and 10am–12pm, every Thursday at Mediclinic Constantiaberg. Cost: R50 per morning, including refreshments. Contact: 021 762 0116, reception@theparentcentre.org.za or visit theparentcentre.org.za

“big” bikes will race around the green grass. There will be great prizes. For 3–8 year olds. 7 December. Time: 10am. Venue: Eden on the Bay, Big Bay. Cost: free entry. For more info: visit edenonthebaymall.co.za Wriggle and Rhyme A relaxed music programme for children 6 months–3 years old. Classes follow a different theme each term and use music, movement, props and instruments. Time and cost: call to enquire. Venue: Claremont, Constantiaberg and Fish Hoek. Contact: info@wriggleandrhyme. co.za or visit wriggleandrhyme.co.za

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support groups La Leche League’s breast-feeding support groups Meetings take place throughout Cape Town. Time: 10am unless otherwise stated. Venue: varies. Cost: free entry. For more info: visit La Leche League South Africa’s Facebook page or llli.org

how to help Boks for Books school library campaign For every “I am Literacy” bracelet (R40) sold, R10 is donated to literacy development in South Africa. The rainbow-coloured beaded bracelets are handmade by women in a beading community in rural North West Province. The bracelet, carrying the message “Today’s reader is tomorrow’s leader”, emphasises the significance of improved literacy for school learners. The bracelets will also be distributed for sale at schools across South Africa. For more info: visit thebeadco.co.za Greenpop This social enterprise plants trees at schools and reforestation sites around southern Africa. In order to plant more trees, they’ve invented a way of “giving” someone an indigenous tree – a Tree Ring. These key rings represent a real tree planted at one of Greenpop’s beneficiaries. Greenpop will email the recipient of a Tree Ring a certificate with the GPS coordinates of where their tree was planted. Cost: R120 excluding postage. To order Tree Rings, contact: 021 461 9265, kate@greenpop.org or visit greenpop.org

playtime and story time Moms and Babes Claremont A mom and baby stimulation class using ageappropriate toys and exercises such as gross/fine motor skills, messy play, use of all the senses, music/movement and baby massage. For 2–12 months old. Time: 10am and 3pm, Monday–Thursday. Venue: Claremont. Cost: call to enquire. Contact Di: 082 746 3223 or reesdi@mweb.co.za Toddlers and children’s bike race Tricycles, plastic motorbikes and beginner

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don’t miss out! For a free listing, email your event to capetown@childmag.co.za or fax it to 021 462 2680. Information must be received by 7 January for the February 2014 issue, and must include all relevant details. No guarantee can be given that it will be published. To post an event online, visit childmag.co.za

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finishing touch

holiday wish lists Christmas comes early and ANÉL LEWIS is left to decide what

Erin, Anél and Conor

know that when those first Santashaped marshmallows start to appear between the dried fruit sticks in my local store – about three days after Valentine’s Day – it’s time to start thinking about Christmas gifts. For us, it’s a double whammy, as Erin also celebrates her birthday on the 25th of December. I make a big effort to keep her birthday gifts separate from the ones wrapped in green, red and gold, so that she gets to celebrate both occasions.

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Conor was too young to really get into the whole present thing last year. He enjoyed sitting on a few of the brightly wrapped packages, but that was about it. So I have really been looking forward to giving him gifts this year, as at the age of almost two he now has a clear sense of what is his, and what he enjoys. But a few days ago, I woke up at 5am to the sound of heavy machinery being dragged across the floor. I almost hit the panic button, but then I spied a nozzle peeping around the corner of our bedroom door. And a few seconds later, a red-faced and breathless Conor also appeared, pulling our vacuum cleaner. So much for the 145-piece construction block set I was thinking of getting him for Christmas, or the remote-controlled car my mom has her eyes on. I tried to pry his chubby little fingers off the machine, but there was no way that he was letting go. And now most mornings,

as soon as his eyes open, Conor heads for the kitchen to fetch his vacuum cleaner. I don’t know if it’s because he has watched the movie Robots too much, or if he thinks it’s a massive pink car, but Conor is happiest when he can lug the thing around the house. So it seems that to make my boy’s Christmas wishes come true, all I need to do is stick a bow on a piece of electrical cleaning equipment. Erin may be a bit harder to please. She’s decided that she wants to be a “goctor” when she grows up, so a medical kit will be high on her list. In the meantime, she hones her skills by sticking pens up our noses to take our temperatures, and rubbing Craig’s shaving gel on our cheeks “to make it all better”. Christmas can’t come quickly enough. And then I came across a blog that talked about how parents are often so distracted by their cellphones or other electronic

devices, that they completely miss out on their children’s lives. It made me think about how Erin often says when I fetch her from school: “You’re not going to work on your laptop now are you?” or how Conor will bring me my cellphone, as if the device and I are inseparable. I considered the many times that I have scrolled through my Facebook messages while pushing Erin on the swing or while playing cars with Conor on the floor. And I realised that the best gift of all, especially during the festive season, would be to spend quality time with my children, without the distraction of a beeping smartphone. I just wonder whether I will be able to convince Conor to give up his beloved vacuum cleaner as well. Anél Lewis is coming to terms with the fact that she may have to fill her children’s Christmas stockings with small household appliances, instead of sweets or toys.

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gifts would make her children the happiest this December.