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It seems like only yesterday that I stood in the kitchen willing Julian’s ice-cream cake to set in time for her first birthday party.

Eighteen years on and I am still standing in the kitchen late at night, but now I’m waiting for my eldest daughter, and not for the delightful, slightly lopsided ice-cream cake she requested year after year as her birthday rolled around.

Julian has just passed her driver’s licence test, ending my days of knowing her every move. I can’t help wondering how it all happened so quickly. With her new-found independence, and the relinquishment of my car keys, come the questions: Did I do enough to prepare her for this next stage of her life?

Did I choose the right school for her? I think I did. Did I read her enough bedtime stories?

Definitely not, but my husband may have. Did I organise enough playdates? No, but I think Julian has this one covered. To say that she is a sociable child is an understatement.

But when it comes to my children’s birthday parties, I have tried to make up for

what I lacked on the playdate organising front. My husband and I are happiest when our home is filled with children, while our girls are thrilled that they can have all their friends over at the same time, and that Mom won’t be at work and Dad won’t complain about the mess. As delighted as they may be for the opportunity to get together, it’s also our moment as parents to celebrate what really matters – the birth of our children.

May our “Let’s Party” issue be just what you need to get your celebrations underway.

Here’s to many, many happy birthdays.

To try my almost foolproof ice-cream cake recipe, visit childmag.co.za/content/ice-cream-cake

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upfront

regulars

3 a note from lisa

8 upfront with paul we should

6 over to you readers respond 21 reader’s blog parents should be involved in all aspects of their children’s lives, says Justin Skea

features 13 a slice of history Marina Zietsman looks at the humble beginnings of the birthday cake

14 let’s celebrate Child magazine brings you an inspiring party story board to help you plan the big day

18 beyond the mainstream Nicole Levin looks at education alternatives to traditional schooling

35 is it a plane, is it a train? easy and practical themed recipes from Janette Mocke’s book Easy Party Treats for Children

be vigilant when our children are in contact with wild animals, warns Paul Kerton

10 pregnancy news – baby blessings Lucille Kemp speaks to experienced moms about the gadgets that made life with a newborn much easier

11 best for baby – be water wise Anél Lewis finds out if it’s safe to give your baby or child bottled water

12 dealing with difference the diagnostic criteria for autism have changed. Lisa Lazarus explains

22 the ultimate party guide compiled by Tamlyn Vincent

29 a good read new books for the whole family

30 what’s on in may 34 finishing touch Anél Lewis loves every moment she spends with her children, but admits she sometimes craves some “me-time”

health 9 fight this infection meningitis can be life-threatening, but if you act quickly, it doesn’t have to be.

By Tamlyn Vincent

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technology can unlock potential

great article on vaccination

Educators are beginning to look at teaching more holistically and from the perspective of the child. Teachers are trying to uncover a child’s true potential from a very young age to better prepare them for a world we cannot predict. The relentless march of technology means that today we are preparing children for a future we do not fully understand.

Twenty years ago, most people didn’t even own a computer, now hand-held devices are capable of email, internet browsing, social connectivity and countless other operations.

Yet many schools are against using these devices to supplement teaching.

Nothing can replace hands-on learning and human interaction, but teachers should be more open to experimenting with new ways of teaching using media that is quite literally at their fingertips.

Progressive schools realise the importance of early exposure to technology, and they embrace the electronic age. Children are introduced to computer tablets in informal, fun lessons and they are encouraged to explore the functionality of the device in their little hands. We need to ask tough questions of our current education system. What is it preparing our children for? Why are more children being diagnosed with disorders such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder at a younger age? Why are children being prescribed Ritalin and other drugs, just to keep up with or fit into the rather small box our system has created for them? Is this a product of “problem” children, or should we be taking a long, hard look at the way we shape the minds and hearts of our children?

When they start exploring their world, and the technology in it, in a safe environment, they are better equipped to adapt to a shifting world.

Alexandra Grant, The Little Ashford Preschool, Joburg

Thank you for an informative article. Those who have initiated and inflamed the scaremongering associated with vaccines and autism have at best been proven wrong and at worst, as fraudsters. I have a wonderful child on the autism spectrum and I can honestly say that it’s hard for her at times, and it would be so much harder if she still had to deal with blindness from measles or polio. My child also has a seizure disorder and relies on herd immunity from croup and the other illnesses known to trigger seizures. These are real concerns and your sensible and factual response to this issue is much appreciated.

Tertia Japp-Pearse, Durban

over to you a hairy issue I will start off by saying you produce a super magazine chock-full of excellent information and resources. I often see adorable little black girls in magazines with overprocessed hair. I know the magazines do not intend to promote destructive living habits, but the producers of relaxer warn that children under a certain age should not get their hair chemically processed, as it destroys the hair. Braids are always a great choice.

What about doing a hairstyle-related article where you bring in some of the wonderful, professional hairstylists who specialise in korrel hare to share their expertise? Pambili!

Noosie Petlele

advice from yesteryear My hope is that you will treat this letter with interest and a very advisory openess. I am writing in response to your article written on children and teething problems (“a pain in the gums”, March 2013). I recently turned 81 years of age, and I am the father of two daughters and a son.

In their infancies they were all treated in the following manner, due to advice given to me by my late mother.

At a guess I would say from about six months old, I rubbed their gums each night with a quality brandy.

The results speak for themselves: none of my children drink or smoke and they have pretty good teeth to display. Incidentally, they all slept extra well most of

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thanks for your help Thank you for the coverage of the Kids for Kids campaign for Sea Harvest and the Red Cross Children’s Hospital in the February issue of Child magazine. Just to give you an update: the campaign closed off on R300 000 at a handover on Tuesday 19 March 2013 at the Red Cross War Memorial Children’s Hospital in Cape Town.

Chris de Beer

feedback on haemophilia feature I want to thank Child magazine and the author, Vanessa Papas, for the article on haemophilia you published (April 2013) and for the awareness you’ve raised. We’ve received great feedback from those who have read it.

Bradley, HaemophiliaSA

Let us know what’s on your mind. Send your letters or comments to marina@childmag.co.za or PO Box 12002, Mill Street, 8010.

the time. This advice is obviously not going to go down well as it involves alcohol, but believe me, it was an unforgettable period for my late wife and I. If you’re interested, I also have a remarkable cure for hay fever and whooping cough.

By the way, I am very fit and still athletic and haven’t visited a doctor for over 40 years. I can also still dive from a 12-foot board.

Derrick Merber

volunteer work for teenagers My son is in Grade 7 and has just turned 13. I am a working mom, and when it’s school holidays, he has to alternate between staying home alone or going on play dates.

I would really like him to keep busy and support his interests cost-effectively. There are activities he could do, but these involve money or trying to organise transport. My son is very social and he participates in extramurals and does club sports throughout winter and summer.

So the idea of him doing voluntary work has crossed my mind. I was thinking that perhaps he could help out somewhere for a morning or an afternoon doing age-appropriate tasks. He mentioned that the aquarium sent forms to his school for volunteer work on weekends and that he just had to sign up if he was interested.

We’ve contacted them and have received positive feed back on age-appropriate courses. For future holiday

activities and inspiration, I thought to approach Child magazine to find out what your readers with teenage children do to keep them occupied, entertained and happy during the holidays.

Paula Mulligan Childmag says You can share your solutions on our Facebook page.

do it for our planet I agree with Charl du Plessis (our poor planet, “over to you”, April 2013). I don’t see why I should recycle, keep my carbon footprint to the minimum and support local produce, if rich fastfood outlets could not be bothered to do their bit for the environment. I won’t support them.

Errol Beetge

erratum In the April 2013 issue of Child magazine we published a review on the Fantastic Fingers book, CD and DVD. The cost was given as R250 for the book and DVD, which is incorrect. The cost for the book and CD is R250. The DVD is R200. We apologise for the inconvenience. subscribe to our newsletter and win Our wins have moved online. Please subscribe to our newsletter and enter our weekly competition.

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upfront with paul

animal instincts Engaging with creatures of all types is important for your child’s emotional

he relationship between children and animals has been widely documented and has become a valuable litmus test for our offspring’s state of mind in terms of their compassion, respect, fear and willingness to engage with our natural neighbours, whether fluffy and cuddly or slithery and off-putting. There is something psychologically warming about the connection between a child and an animal. The mere act of stroking a pet is understood to reduce our blood pressure, calm our nerves and siphon off stress. The watchword is compassion and experts agree that the sooner we show our children how to feel compassion, the better the planet will become as compassion begets compassion.

Here I’m talking about all animals and not just the lovable pets that sneak their way into the hearts of millions of families worldwide. Even the “nasty, horrible” creatures like tarantulas and venomous snakes can inspire emotional bonds. A

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Saskia, Paul and Sabina

friend, Bernard, used to run a “petting park”, which I initially thought was somewhere you go on a first date, but it turns out to be a place where children can engage with all sorts of living creatures, from frogs and spiders through to badgers and lizards, up to super-sized lions and elephants. “You can tell immediately whether a child is afraid of an animal and it is really rewarding to watch them overcome their fears and

pick up an otter or have a scorpion run up their arm,” he says.

You can also tell when a child has some sort of social problem, because the converse is true. “Some children can be terribly cold and cruel to animals and treat them with no respect whatsoever.” The last time I got into a fight at school I was defending a harmless hamster against an older classmate who thought it hilarious to

torment it with the sharp end of a geometry compass. I hate bullying of any kind.

Call me a wuss, but while I am in favour of engaging with all creatures great and small, there is one sensible brain cell at the back of my head that screams a reminder that many of these animals are wild and no manner of over-feeding or shampooing their fur will ever disguise that fact. I remember taking Sabina and Saskia to a game farm where the children were allowed to touch small lions and cheetah. Sabina went and frolicked with a handful of baby cheetahs, which was enormous fun. But the caracal was so crazy that we were not allowed to go inside its cage. Which was just as well because no sooner had the handler started to gently pat the pointy-eared “football hooligan” of the cat world, it shot into the air and scratched her on the head. So should your child be taking part in any animal touchy-feely fest, it’s a good idea to be vigilant and stay close.

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development, says PAUL KERTON, but don’t get too close to the wild ones.

health

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very year one million people around the world will suffer from bacterial meningitis and 170 000 people will die because of it. Meningitis is an inflammation of the membranes around the brain and spinal cord, and babies, children, teenagers and the elderly are most at risk. There are two types of meningitis: viral and bacterial.

Viral meningitis is more common and can cause some damage, especially when there is a component of viral encephalitis or swelling of the brain, says Cape Town paediatrician Dr Deon Smith. But it is often less severe than bacterial meningitis, which has a higher chance of causing neurological damage. According to the National Institute for Communicable Diseases, 204 cases of meningococcal meningitis, caused by bacteria, were reported in South Africa in 2012, with most patients being younger than 10.

look out for these signs

getting help Bacterial meningitis can kill in four hours, so getting medical help quickly is essential.

Redelinghuys advises that parents go to a paediatrician or hospital if their child has any symptoms. If doctors suspect meningitis, they may put a child onto intravenous antibiotics until they can determine whether it is viral or bacterial. The different strains of meningitis are best diagnosed by doing a lumbar puncture or spinal tap, says Smith, who adds that even blood tests may not be conclusive. Children will be hospitalised for both strains, but with viral meningitis they could go home after 24 to 48 hours, whereas bacterial meningitis will likely require 10 to 14 days of intravenous antibiotics. The bacteria that can cause meningitis is spread through droplets of respiratory secretions that may be transmitted through coughing, sneezing, kissing or being in close contact with a carrier.

Meningitis can be life-threatening, but

getting help quickly will decrease the risk of

The symptoms for both strains of meningitis are the same, with the classic signs in adults including a fever, headache, light sensitivity, vomiting and a stiff neck. But the way meningitis presents in children is quite different, advises Smith. Children younger than six months will usually be floppy and lethargic, and they won’t want to eat or drink. Other symptoms might include a high temperature, a high-pitched irritable cry, and a bulging anterior fontanel, says Smith. Sister Elsabe Redelinghuys, from a baby wellness clinic in Joburg, says children may also vomit if their temperature is very high. Older children will have a fever, headache and vomiting and, on examination, signs of neck stiffness. Another symptom of bacterial meningitis is a non-blanching rash, which may occur later. Smith suggests placing the bottom of a glass over the rash and pushing down. If the rash doesn’t go white, get to a hospital immediately.

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risky business

Parents may be reluctant for their child to have a lumbar puncture, but paediatricians are skilled at doing these and the risks involved are far less than leaving bacterial meningitis undiagnosed. The complications of this disease include hearing loss, deafness, learning problems, brain damage and even death.

But there has been a decrease in the incidence of bacterial meningitis, says Smith, thanks mainly to childhood immunisations. There are vaccines for the types of bacteria that can cause meningitis such as Bacillus Calmette-Guérin (BCG) and Haemophilus influenza type B (Hib). Smith emphasises the importance of having children immunised.

“Parents don’t understand the devastation that can be wrought by this disease,” Smith adds.

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pregnancy news

baby blessings Pregnant moms are spoilt for choice when it comes to baby products.

Among the biggest time stealers when you have a newborn that’s not being breast-fed, is the seemingly endless cycle of cleaning bottles and preparing formula. It’s no fun standing in the semi-dark at 3am, trying to remember how many scoops of formula you’ve poured into a bottle. Our sisters – and brothers – overseas have been reaping the benefits of ready-to-feed formula for a while, and it’s now also available in South Africa. These sterile and convenient containers of prepared formula will be a godsend for moms on the go, and will no doubt be a must-have when travelling.

As a new parent, you sometimes literally have your hands full. A handy gadget is an all-in-one wet wipe and bum cream dispenser that allows you to clean and put cream on your baby with one hand, while holding his legs with the other.

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A sleeping bag is a proven winner, especially for a winter baby. Babies who are cold during the night are more likely to wake up, and the sleeping bag minimises the risk of blankets being kicked off. Some of them are weighted, providing just the right amount of reassuring pressure to calm troubled sleepers.

Soothers are essential – for baby and mom – with two popular choices being the “doodoo blanky”, which is a cloth of smooth satin tags that provide a tactile experience and a BPA-free giraffe that is a great teething device, with its soft knobbly parts to soothe baby’s gums and long legs for whole-gum chewing and hard-to-reach molars.

Anti-colic bottles are a life-saver for parents with fractious babies. And any bottles that are selfsterilising are an added blessing, especially when you are travelling. Many moms swear by the dishwasher baskets for bottles, teats and lids that spare you from hand-washing all the bits that make up your baby’s bottles. Bottle warmers come in all shapes and sizes. The portable ones are so convenient; there are warmers that don’t require electricity and you even get one that you can plug into your car lighter for when you need warm milk on the move.

Bath time is fun for baby, but hard on your knees if you’re using the “big” bath. A nifty kneeler pad will provide some welcome comfort.

Who would’ve thought new parents could still rock the mini fridge? You know the type that takes four cold-drink cans? One creative mom admits she swore by it, having kept it on her bedside table at night filled with bottles ready-to-go.

Breast-feeding may be challenging for some moms and a nipple shield, made of thin and flexible silicone, can be used to protect sore nipples. A Cape Town mom says she needed laser therapy as her child tore holes in her nipples from sucking so hard. Nipple shields were her “saving grace”.

Babies, for their small size, generate a huge amount of washing. A specialist, energy-saving laundry spin dryer that dries clothes quickly and efficiently by using centrifugal force instead of heat, is useful.

Baby slings and carriers that comply with safety standards have many benefits. The biggest drawing card is that there is little need for a pram if you use one regularly. It encourages closeness, promotes kangaroo care and even helps your baby sleep better. And it frees up your hands for other tasks.

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LUCILLE KEMP asks seasoned parents for their layette recommendations.

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erryn Gibson, a Durban-based paediatric and sports dietician, says bottled water may have unsafe levels of minerals such as sodium, potassium and magnesium. Good old tap water is your safest bet, she says. “Our water in this country is of such a good quality that there’s no reason to drink bottled water.” Kath Megaw, a paediatric dietician in Cape Town, agrees. “The strict South African Bureau of Standards’ codes assure us that the water is safe for our families to drink.”

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too many elements Babies younger than six months get all the liquid they need through breast milk or formula. They don’t really need to drink additional water. In fact, too much water at this early stage can lead to water intoxication, which will affect their kidneys.

However, if you are travelling in an area where the water may be contaminated, or you’re unable to prepare cooled boiled water for a formula-feed, you may want to use bottled water instead. It’s important to note that bottled water is not sterile, and that it also needs to be boiled and allowed to cool before use.

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It’s convenient and refreshing, but is bottled water safe for your baby or child to drink? ANÉL LEWIS finds out.

Gibson says formula already contains high levels of sodium and potassium, so adding mineral-rich bottled water to the mix will place stress on your baby’s kidneys and organs. “The amount of some minerals used in these bottled waters is not regulated (by legislation) and so at the end of the day, the safest option is boiled tap water,” says Megaw. The South African National Bottled Water Association (SANBWA) assures consumers that when it comes to the mineral content “no South African water falls into a category high enough for concern”. SANBWA chairman John Weaver, says that commercially sold bottled water can be safely consumed by babies and

children, because of its low mineral content.

He recommends that “all water – whether from a tap or a bottle – be boiled and allowed to cool before it is used for infants”.

If you do turn to bottled water to make up formula, make sure it is not the sparkling variety as this could irritate the stomach.

dental concerns Tap water is one of the main sources of fluoride, a trace element that strengthens teeth and helps prevent tooth decay.

Dr Nadia Mohamed, head of paediatric dentistry at the University of the Western Cape, says children who drink bottled water, or who live in areas where the tap water has

low fluoride levels, should take fluoride supplements as prescribed by a dentist.

Water that is labelled as purified, deionised, demineralised or distilled is low in fluoride. There are no studies that conclusively link drinking bottled water to tooth decay, and other factors such as poor dental hygiene and over-consumption of sugary foods will obviously play a role. Too much fluoride can cause discolouration of the teeth.

be label-savvy If you give bottled water to your child, look for the SANBWA logo as its members comply with stringent standards. SANBWA sets a guideline for sulphates (SO4) at less than 1 000mg/l, nitrates (NO3) at less than 50mg/l and a maximum limit for fluoride of 5mg/l. Where bottled water contains more than 1,5mg of fluoride it shall have the phrase “not suitable for infants and children under the age of seven years” on the label. Weaver says that as other minerals are unlikely to have an effect on health, legislation does not specify a limit for calcium (Ca), magnesium (Mg), potassium (K), pH or total dissolved solids.

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away with asperger’s LISA LAZARUS looks at the impact of new diagnostic criteria for autism.

proposed changes to the DSM-5 regarding Asperger’s disorder Janine Chester, director of Autism Western Cape, explains that the way we describe autism-related disabilities will change.

Medical professionals will no longer distinguish between autism, Asperger’s disorder, pervasive development disorder not otherwise specified and childhood disintegrative disorder. Instead, all these disorders will form part of an autism spectrum disorder, with one of three severity levels. Janine explains that the severity levels of an ASD are based on the amount of support required by the individual, due to the challenges presented by the disorder.

There are three levels: requiring support, requiring substantial support and requiring very substantial support.

“These terms seem to be very subjective and could be interpreted differently by professionals.” If the severity should fall outside of the scope of these levels but social communication challenges are still evident, then a new category, known as social communication disorder (SCD), might apply. For SCD to be diagnosed, the individual must not exhibit the more restricted, repetitive patterns of behaviour, interests or activities, which characterise an ASD. Chantal van Ginkel, an educational consultant who works with both children and adults with autism spectrum disorders, points out that although communication is now assessed in a more holistic way and the emphasis is on the social aspects

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The new diagnostic criteria may exclude cognitively developed, higher-functioning individuals from receiving a diagnosis, thus excluding them from interventions and resources. of the condition, there is a concern that “the new diagnostic criteria may exclude cognitively developed, higher-functioning individuals from receiving a diagnosis, thus excluding them from interventions and resources”.

why the changes?

Jill Stacey, national director at Autism South Africa, states that the diagnostic changes are an attempt to eliminate subjective influences when making a diagnosis. “It is possible to clearly distinguish between people with an autism spectrum disorder and so-called ‘normal/neuro-typical’ people,” she says, “but it is difficult to diagnose subgroups within the autistic category accurately and consistently, without the influence of perceptions, different training or viewpoints.” Research also indicates that the new diagnostic criteria are more accurate regarding the presentation and pathology of autism and that the stipulated levels of support

will be more beneficial for people with an ASD. Dr Cobie Lombard, principal of Unica School for Autism in Pretoria, says, “This will hopefully lead to more focus on the individual’s needs in terms of school placement and intervention, without creating unrealistic expectations from parents.”

pros and cons of the changes to the DSM-5 Janine, who is also the mother of a 15-year-old adolescent suffering from Asperger’s, sees benefits and problems in

the proposed changes. “On the one hand a diagnosis of autism, not Asperger’s, will make it easier for parents to obtain concessions for the challenges faced by children on the spectrum – such as getting a scribe, extra time for exams, as well as enabling children to take notes and do their homework on the computer.”

In other words, the perception of Asperger’s as mild will be tempered by the realisation that the daily difficulties of such individuals are not always simple for both the person concerned and their family.

“My son’s inability to read social cues and interact with people severely impacts upon his social interaction, making most social contact extremely stressful for him.”

Jill says the addition of sensory issues, such as adverse responses to specific sounds or textures, excessive smelling or touching of objects, as potential diagnostic indicators for autism, is a benefit of the new criteria. They will also better identify an autistic spectrum disorder in previously undiagnosed girls, as the criteria will reveal the more subtle manifestations of autism.

However, Janine explains that Asperger’s has its own unique characteristics and scrapping the diagnosis may result in children not receiving the correct therapy.

Her son was only diagnosed at the age of 13 and although he received speech and occupational therapy, he did not receive behaviour modification therapy. She worries that doing away with the diagnosis of Asperger’s may result in children “not receiving the correct care and therapy, which will affect their prognosis”. Furthermore, she is concerned about medical aid coverage for those people who are no longer on the autism spectrum, due to the stricter criteria.

well-known people who have been diagnosed as “Aspies” • • • • • •

arie Curie, known for her pioneering work on radioactivity M Albert Einstein, who developed the theory of relativity Mozart, classical composer and prolific artist Andy Warhol, American pop artist Bill Gates, founder of Microsoft, is thought to have Asperger’s Daryl Hannah, American actress

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he Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, known as the DSM, contains the criteria for making diagnoses. This so-called “bible” of psychiatry, while published by the American Psychiatric Association, is used by mental health professionals around the world. It therefore has an impact on the way individuals with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), including Asperger’s disorder (AD), will be diagnosed and the kind of intervention they will receive in South Africa. The 5th version of this book, the DSM-V, will be published in May 2013.

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e celebrate our heritage with National Braai Day every September, and I’m sure a National Cake Day would be just as popular. The Americans have one on 26 November. They even have a National Chocolate Cupcake Day, which they celebrate in October. But why is the glorious cake such a prominent celebration symbol? The word itself is of Viking origin, from the Norse word “kaka”. It is believed that the “cake” the Vikings made was just a slab of dough baked until hard. Archaeologists have found evidence of the ancient Egyptians and Greeks baking cake; sweetened with honey, nuts and dried fruit, mostly for religious purposes.

It was also religion that most likely moulded the cake into the round shape we know today. The Greeks made moonshaped honey cakes or bread, which were offered to the Moon Goddess at the temple of Artemis. Incidentally, this is also where the idea of birthday candles was born – the Greeks added them to the cake to give it a lunar glow.

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when did things change?

Initially only the rich enjoyed cake, as the ingredients were too expensive and baking utensils were not readily available. There are conflicting theories as to who made the first cake that resembles the sweet confectionery we know today. Before this, the words “cake” and “bread” were interchangeable, and no one is really sure when cake became the preferred term. In the Middle Ages, the Germans baked cakes in the shape of a baby Jesus, which they placed in a cloth to celebrate his birthday. This tradition later morphed into the Kinderfest, which was the celebration of a young child’s birthday. The Germans also implemented a special, sweet layer cake, called Geburtstagtorten (birthday cake), which was in essence the birth of the modern cake.

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By the middle of the 18th century, eggs replaced yeast as the raising agent for cakes and in 1843 a British pharmacist, Alfred Bird, manufactured the first modern version of baking powder.

Mass production began with the Industrial Revolution in the early 19th century and baking utilities and utensils became more advanced and accessible. Since then, cake has taken on its own unique style and flavour depending on a country’s tradition and culinary tastes.

cake trends

a slice of history From a humble slab of dough to elaborate cake pop – MARINA ZIETSMAN gets stuck into the evolution of the modern cake.

1900–1910 The words “happy birthday” appear on cakes for the first time, when the song Happy Birthday to You gains popularity.

1940–1949 In 1940, box cake mix is introduced and in 1948 ready-to-spread cake icing.

1950–1959 Ken Wood develops the Kenwood Chef in the 1950s, improving the way housewives make their homebaked treats.

1960–1969 Women fight for gender and race equality, putting their struggle with ovens and dough on the backburner. This is the era when mass-produced treats start filling shop shelves.

1980–1989 Toy decorations become the in thing to place on birthday cakes.

1990–1999 Photo cakes become the latest cake trend.

2000–2009 Sex in the City’s Carrie Bradshaw buys a cupcake from a vendor in New York City, and a new fad begins.

2010–now Programmes like Cake Boss make people realise there are no limits when it comes to shaping, baking or decorating a cake. You can even make cake pops, basically balls of mashed up cake, to delight your guests.

Coming soon Look out for peek-a-boo cakes. They appear simple on the outside, but once cut, a surprise is revealed; from different coloured layers to messages or shapes.

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let’s celebrate The preparation can be as much fun as the party itself, if you know what you want and how to get it organised. Use these tips from CHILD MAGAZINE to get started.

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Bear in mind that if your child is at school, there may be a policy about handing out invites. You can either post invites or email or sms the parents directly. Decide whether you want to invite the whole class, or only the boys or the girls.

Consider the season when deciding on your venue. Will you be able to host it outdoors, or could rain put a damper on things?

You may want to book a venue, rather than host it at home.

Draw up your budget so that you know before you start how much you want to spend, and what you can do.

Set up a time schedule so that you are on track with every aspect of the event. Send the invites at least a month in advance, with the RSVP date about two weeks before the party.

Pinterest is a novel way of collecting ideas, and organising them in an accessible way. You can also access thousands of other pinboards packed with party inspiration.

Get tips for everything, from decor to party entertainment. The great thing about Pinterest is that you can link it to other social media, such as Facebook, which means you can get input from your friends as you plan. Afterwards you can pin photographs of your successful event as inspiration for other parents. For more ideas, visit our page at pinterest.com/childmagazine Decide on your theme – this will guide your decisions about the invites, venue, decor, food and entertainment. As your child gets older, they will be very clear about what they want. Involve them in the preparation as much as possible.

You also want to decide on the type of cake you will have, as this is often the centrepiece of the event.

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Also think about the time of day, and duration of the party.

Plan your entertainment. Younger children will be happy to play games, while older children may want a bit more to keep them busy.

If you are hosting at home, make sure the party space is safe. If it’s a pool party, will there be restricted access for younger guests who can’t swim yet? Lock away valuables that could be broken, or cause damage, before young guests arrive.

Are parents invited? From about the age of five, most children will not need their parents to stay.

Decide on how many people to invite. The rule of thumb is usually the age of your child, plus one. So for a four year old, you would invite five guests.

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To read more and to download your party-planning-checklist, go to childmag. co.za/content/party-planning checklist

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Planning a party for your child can be daunting, but it needn’t be. If you work well in advance, and have a clear idea of what you want, you can alleviate much of the party stress.

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Host a movie party for older children – at your house or hire out the cinema.

You can get the children to dress up, as if they are attending the Oscars or a premiere.

The venue will depend on several things, such as the time of year, the number of guests and even your theme. Here are some ideas:

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Get the creative juices flowing by inviting your guests to a pottery or mosaic studio where they can make something to take home.

A boat works well for a sea-themed party.

Host an island- or mermaidthemed party if you live near a beach, or are holidaying close to one when it’s your child’s birthday.

Create an obstacle course for a bootcamp party, or set up a camp in your garden for a sleepover.

Visit a science centre where they can discover more about how things work.

If the weather forces the children indoors, keep them busy with a ballet or martial-arts party where they can learn a new skill while having fun.

Set up a food table at one of the skateboard parks in your neighbourhood and let the boys “ollie” to their heart’s content. Just make sure you have their parents’ permission and that everyone is safely kitted out.

spring Visit a spa for a pamper party.

Create a Bedouin experience with cushions, beautiful fabric and delicate finger eats for pre-teenage girls wanting something a bit different.

autumn

Visit a natural quarry or a forest.

Younger children will love a teddy bear’s picnic at your local park or green belt.

Use the scratch patch for an explorer’s theme.

If you’re not bound by a budget, host the bash at an historic home or stately venue.

Older girls may enjoy a fancy high tea.

Lunch at an airport restaurant for plane-mad boys.

An aquarium for an underwater party

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Go to a venue where children can ride battery-operated cars in a mini city.

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please come to my party

The invitations set the tone for the party. Make sure you include all the relevant information, including the time, venue and whether parents need to pack additional gear for their children, such as a swimming costume or closed shoes.

For a green option, print invites on biodegradable paper, with embedded seeds that you can plant afterwards.

Some ideas: Build an invite around a photo of your child. This works especially well with electronic invites, which you can create on smilebox.com and other sites.

Create rock star lanyards if your pre-teenager is having a disco or rock party.

Make mini beach balls for a pool party.

Buy inexpensive watercolour paints and paste the invite inside the cover for an artist’s party.

Make a puzzle invite. The pieces come in a bag, and have to be put together to read.

Put a message in a bottle for a pool or beach party.

Send a fortune cookie that has the invite inside.

Personalise invites with the hungry caterpillar.

For a secret agent party, write in small text that can only be read with a magnifying glass, which you include with the invite, or with lemon juice as “invisible ink”, that can only be read when held up to the light.

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Your choice of food may be determined by the theme, the age of your child, and even the time of day.

Younger children will enjoy simple, finger foods while older children can eat just about anything. If you have a mix of ages at the party, ensure that younger children can’t ingest anything that may be a choking hazard.

Serve food in innovative ways. Put hot dogs in paper “boats”, as you would get them at a vendor or serve juice from a punch bowl with jelly-fish or stars, depending on your theme.

Serve savoury food first, then the sweet fare. Spare a thought for the parents who will be taking home a child pumped up on sugar if you go crazy with the sugary treats. Keep a balance, and have plenty of fruit and other nutritious options available. Fruit kebabs are a creative way of serving something healthy, yet colourful.

A time-saver for serving ice-cream scoops is to store them in lined cupcake pans in the freezer beforehand, so you have them ready at the party.

Bear in mind that you may have guests at the party who are allergic to certain foods.

The cake is the focal point of the whole affair, so you can let your creativity run wild with this. If you’re not much of a baker, why not try a cupcake caterpillar cake? It’s easy to make, but effective when displayed (and much easier to dish out).

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parents’ behaviour Have snacks for grown-ups.

Think carefully about whether you want to serve alcohol to parents or not. If you do, mention this when you send the invite so that parents can decide beforehand if they want to arrange for transport.

If there is alcohol available, make sure it’s well out of children’s reach.

Also provide nonalcoholic beverages for adults.

If parents are invited, which is usually the case with younger children, you need to think about catering for them too.

Designate an area for parents who smoke, away from the children.

Include parents in the party action by letting them take part in some of the games.

If you are having a fancy-dress party, you could ask parents to also dress up.

There may come a time when you will have to deal with a child who is unruly. If the parents are there, take them aside and ask them to deal with the situation or, if allowed, speak to the child yourself. If it’s the birthday boy or girl who is having “a moment”, take them aside to calm down, or use a diversion tactic like introducing a new game or bringing out the cake.

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after the party

Manners are always important and a party is a good opportunity to teach children about showing gratitude.

Get your child to make a thank-you note, or to write their own message if they’re old enough.

You will have to decide whether you want to hand out party packs. If you do, make sure the contents are age-appropriate. You could include a beautifully decorated cupcake or a funky cake pop as a party favour. If you have had a MasterChef party, each child could take home a monogrammed apron.

If you had games that involved prizes, make sure that each guest has something to take home, including those who did not win.

Decide whether you will send a handmade or hand-written thank-you note.

You can also send electronic thank-you notes, but there is something special about one that has been made by hand. magazine durban

You can take photos of your child opening gifts and use these as thankyou tags.

Also think about thank-you gifts, such as a plant with an organic pot that can be planted. This doubles as a party favour. You could also give parents a Lotto ticket, especially for a younger child’s celebration.

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education

beyond the mainstream With South Africa’s education system ranked among the worst in the world, there’s growing

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ne of the most important decisions you have to make as a parent is what educational path to choose for your child. Most parents opt for traditional schools as these are the most widely available and familiar to them. But are traditional schools actually educational dinosaurs? Sir Ken Robinson, a British academic and internal educational advisor, identifies that traditional schools first came into being in the 19th century during the Industrial Revolution in England. Many schools today follow the educational models from that time: children have to fit in, learn predominately academic subjects and wear uniforms. Robinson suggests that this educational model is no longer relevant to our 21st century-world.

beyond the traditional So what other options do we have? One example of an alternative school is the Hout Bay Montessori School in Cape Town, whose motto is “Education for a New World”.

Kerin Goosen, the school’s principal, says that education has to change to prepare children for an uncertain future. Traditional education, which places emphasis on

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disillusionment with the traditional school system. NICOLE LEVIN considers some of the alternatives.

conformity, learning by memorising and adherence to authority, offers outdated values for a world that is going to need highly creative, innovative and technologically advanced problem solvers.

Cedar House, an alternative school in Cape Town, caters for Grade 5 to 12 learners. Its curriculum is designed by the staff and encourages diversity, social awareness and intellectual rigour. Cedar House celebrates individuality and gives students a voice; it describes itself as “speaking back to conventional notions of schooling and traditional experiences of student powerlessness”. International schools offer an internationally recognised curriculum.

Education is not the same as schooling. You can have an education without schooling, and you can educate yourself in spite of schooling.

Alternative schools often cater for children who are not thriving in the mainstream system. Marc Loon started his school, the Kairos School of Inquiry in Joburg, in 2011 with three such children. Two years later, the school has 38 learners from Grade 1 to 6. His learners now include many children that would cope well in the mainstream systems. Parents are choosing Kairos because they want a more holistic education that develops critical thinking and creativity, and supports their children’s individuality. Parents are looking for something different for their children from what they experienced themselves at school. Ambleside schools value the individuality of each child and cultivate Christian values. They focus on exposing students to “living ideas” found in art literature, science and music.

waldorf schools Anette Bestwick, of the Federation of Waldorf Schools Council, says their system of education is one of the fastest growing alternative school systems globally. Developed by Rudolf Steiner, the 12-year curriculum aims to integrate intellectual,

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Where SA’s education system ranked out of 144 countries surveyed.

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physical and emotional development while nurturing the child’s social and spiritual growth. The method of teaching is based on the in-depth study of child development and it will vary with the age of the child. In kindergarten, the focus is on experience and learning through play. In the primary school, the development of skills and intellectual capacity are met through feeling, observation and experience. In the high school, the intellectual needs are met directly through intellectual discourse and rigorous thinking. The common thread through all the faculties is self-directed activity.

This encourages self-discovery, research and engagement with the subject matter. The emphasis on practical work includes activities such as handwork, woodwork, gardening, metalwork, craft and design. Waldorf aims to prepare children for life.

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montessori way The Montessori system was developed by Maria Montessori, an Italian medical doctor, anthropologist and educationalist. She observed that children learn through their own actions, and she developed learning materials where children could learn through doing developmentally appropriate tasks. Montessori’s approach is based on “following the child”; recognising and responding to the individual child’s developmental needs. In the Montessori classroom children learn at their own pace and are given increasingly stimulating and challenging intellectual tasks as they are ready.

Children work predominantly individually and in small groups. There is no “boardand-chalk” teaching and very little teacher talking time, as the teacher works more as a facilitator. Montessori teachers believe that children have an inherent ability to do their own learning and so the Montessori classroom focuses on developing independence, selfconfidence, self-discipline, concentration and orderly work habits. The Montessori method develops the child’s internal sense of self and connectedness to the world.

Classes are not divided by age but by learning stages. Both the Waldorf and Montessori systems have their critics. Some parents and educators feel that the Waldorf system is not academically rigorous enough, and that graduates can be academically disadvantaged compared to their mainstream peers. Some mainstream primary school teachers feel if children in Montessori schools are not carefully monitored, there can be big gaps in their knowledge. But Sharon Caldwell, CEO of the South African Montessori Association (SAMA), says “that if the Montessori curriculum is followed correctly, there won’t be gaps in the child’s knowledge. The problem is that the name Montessori is not copyrighted. A school can use the name ‘Montessori’ even if they follow the Montessori curriculum very loosely.”

Traditional education which places emphasis on conformity, learning by memorising and adherence to authority offers outdated values for a world that is going to need highly creative, innovative and technologically advanced problem solvers. filling the gap Many children who feel disconnected, uninspired, have difficulty learning in a mainstream environment or are gifted often thrive in Waldorf or Montessori schools. Austyn Cohen, 11, is one such child. “From the age of three I knew he was in the wrong system,” says his mother Sherilyn. “He just didn’t fit. In mainstream schooling he was unmotivated, disinterested, and tried to avoid all schoolwork.” In the middle of his Grade 3 year, Austyn went for a trial day at a Waldorf School. After one day there, he refused to go back to mainstream. Sherilyn says it was “like someone waved a magic wand”. At Gaia, he became a completely different child. He became self-motivated, curious to learn and regained “the authentic Austyn”. Many children start off their schooling in Montessori preschools and then move into mainstream schooling. Even if parents would like to keep their children in the Montessori system, it usually isn’t possible because there are so few Montessori primary schools in South Africa. Caldwell says, “Children who have attended a Montessori preschool have a high level of independence. Parents need to choose a primary school that values this independence in their learners. A good Montessori preschool will advise parents which local primary school would be a good transition for their child.”

learn at home Unable to find a school that suits their specific educational needs, some parents opt for home-schooling; taking responsibility for their children’s education, rather than handing the task over to a school. Home-schooled children learn through tailor-made lessons delivered by their parents or tutors, online resources, and specially designed homeschooling learning resources. Parents are free to structure their child’s learning depending on their child’s abilities, interests and natural rhythms.

Home-schooling is popular in very religious communities who feel that schools expose their children to negative secular values; also those living in isolated communities, children who have learning difficulties or who are gifted, and with parents who feel that school is having a negative impact on their child’s self-esteem and self-worth.

Tantan Alexander, eight, has difficulty concentrating in the classroom, and was constantly being reprimanded in his traditional school. His parents, frustrated with the school system, decided to home-school him. “I do not want him to be hurt all the time by demands and reprimands, detentions and labelling in a system that expects him to mould and squash himself in a way which would cause him to lose his personality, talents and peace of mind,” says his mother, Andi. Home-schooling means Tantan is free to play

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when he needs to, and does not have to sit still for hours on end in a classroom. Andi feels that since starting home-schooling Tantan has a much better quality of life; he is more productive, less exhausted, and has energy and time for socialising and extracurricular activities which he didn’t have when he went to school.

Kyle Mason Jones, 29, is an example of home-schooling success. As a gifted child, Kyle was bored at school, and at age 13 refused to be enrolled in high school. “I didn’t like school because I didn’t have any rights, any decision-making power, and my opinions weren’t valued,” he says. At first, home-schooling was challenging because he had to figure out how to learn on his own. But he soon mastered the skill, matriculated at 16 and went on to travel and then study chemistry. He obtained a master’s degree in engineering and today works as a researcher for an environmental consultancy. “Education is not the same as schooling. You can have an education without schooling, and you can educate yourself in spite of schooling.”

the way of the future In the USA, UK and Australia, governments have recognised that the concept of “onesize-fits-all” education does not entirely work. To curb school dropout rates, these countries fund alternative education programmes to cater for children who are not coping in the mainstream.

In South Africa, it appears as if we need more diverse approaches to education so as to meet the individual needs of children. Large classes, standardised curriculums, a restrictive school structure, bullying, and limited technology are some of the reasons that children may drown in the sea of mainstream education.

In the landmark documentary on education We are the People We’ve Been Waiting For, Dr Cream Wright, Chief of Education for Unicef, says, “Schools often fail to prepare people for contemporary society, for the realities of the world in which we live in and even more significantly fail to prepare young people for the emerging issues of our time.”

for more information about schooling options: The Independent Schools Association of Southern Africa Visit: isasa.org Association of Christian Schools International Visit: acsi.co.za Association of Muslim Schools Visit: ams-sa.org The Federation of Waldorf Schools Visit: waldorf.org.za South African Montessori Association Trust Visit: samontessori.org.za Association for Homeschooling Visit: tuisskolers.org

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witness your child’s life Parents need to be wholly involved, on all levels, says

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St Cyprian’s Preparatory School head Justin Skea.

hroughout my career in education I have been fascinated by what makes some families happy, healthy and well-functioning, while others are wrought with discord and disharmony. The same applies for any community, including schools. Some schools are happy places whereas others seem somewhat devoid of soul in their endless pursuit of results above everything.

What is it that separates a disjointed community (including families) from a harmonious one? I am mindful that the answer to this question is multi-layered.

However, I am certain that true community cannot be achieved if one vital ingredient is missing – authentic presence. I say authentic presence because it implies so much more than simply being physically present. It is in fact multidimensional and enhances the purpose, quality and depth of the relationships you have with others, especially with your child or children.

Eckhart Tolle describes presence as “a still and alert attention, a type of consciousness, which causes you to awaken to yourself and to the other in your relationships”.

In this sense, presence means more than simply “being there” but implies a sacred stillness in which by sharing your presence with others, and others sharing their

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presence with you, you free yourself from your own ego and desires and provide the opportunity for authentic relationships to develop.

Parents face a difficult challenge in the busy 21st century with all its stress and demands. Yet, in these demanding times, how often do you show authentic presence to your child? Now remember, when I talk of authentic presence I’m not asking how often you are with your child. You can be watching a movie, sitting in the lounge together or eating dinner and not be authentically present in the least.

So, the question is, when last did you bring your “whole” self to interact with your child; where you listened, took a deep interest and where the rest of the world did not matter in that moment because all that mattered was your child?

Sadly, in most schools we have many children who I could at best describe as “social orphans” – they are fed and clothed, and given all they need to lead a supposedly normal existence, yet their parents are completely absent from their emotional and spiritual needs. Children yearn for acknowledgement, recognition and affirmation, and this must come from the home, first and foremost. A line from the film Shall We Dance sums this up: “Everybody needs someone to witness their lives.”

I would like to challenge you as parents to be the witnesses to your children’s lives. But beyond that, to be truly and authentically present to their needs, not just physically, but spiritually and emotionally too. Take time out of your busy schedule to show your children the love they deserve, rather than giving them the “scraps” after a long day at work. Showing authentic presence to your children is no mean feat, but presence is about taking responsibility for your fields of influence and, as a parent, by teaching your children authentic presence; they in turn will exercise this in their own lives and relationships.

Readers, this is your column – it’s a space to air your views, share a valuable parenting lesson, vent your frustrations or celebrate your joys. Send your writing to features@childmag.co.za

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Party Wizard There are jumping castles, children’s tables, chairs and more.

Pinetown. Contact: 084 614 6055 or info@partywizard.org Party Zone Hire Stocks more than 120 jumping castles, a train on tracks, swings, go-carts and more. Durban to Ballito to Hillcrest. Contact: 083 685 5577 or hamod@webmail.co.za Piñata and Balloon Africa Sells piñatas and balloon art decor. Nationwide.

Contact Marianne: 082 457 2276, mgwyther@mweb.co.za or visit pinatas.co.za Pixies Jumping Castles and Party Hire Get jumping castles and party equipment. Contact: 083 251 9754, info@pixiescastles.co.za or visit pixiescastles.co.za Rainbow Inflatables KZN Offers slides, a mechanical bull, jumping castles and more. Contact: 083 262 5131, 082 877 8662, info@rainbowkzn.co.za or visit rainbowkzn.co.za Sensation Lab Hires out Bedouin tents, dance floors, marquees and lights.

Nationwide. Contact: 011 023 5940, info@sensationlab.co.za or visit sensationlab.co.za Sign-it@syms Offers personalised banners, with eyelets on the corners.

Scottburgh up to Durban. Contact: 074 134 7967 or mohammed@syms.co.za Stick with us! Personalised party stationery. Contact: 082 377 0513 or mandy@stickwithus.co.za SunshineParties Get party printables.

They can customise designs to suit your needs and budget. Contact: 031 764 6350, parties@limelightwebsites.co.za or visit sunshineshabby.com The Toy Factory Shop Find toys for party packs, party buckets, balloons and more.

Contact: 031 701 1836, 083 321 4936, info@thetoyfactoryshop.co.za or visit thetoyfactoryshop.co.za Tinkle-pea Offers gifts and party favours. Nationwide. Contact: 082 804 5678, jenny@tinklepea.co.za or visit tinklepea.co.za TLC Caterers Offering themed parties, jumping castles and more, plus a party venue, Café Tehelia. Contact: 031 464 8619, 082 871 0004, 084 924 5537, info@tlccaterers.co.za or visit tlccaterers.co.za Tony Miller Promotions Provides entertainment including jumping castles and balloons. Glenwood.

Contact: 031 205 2074, 082 906 5450, lalitha@tonymiller.co.za or visit tonymiller.co.za Xtreme Fun Offers a range of activities, including jumping castles, pedal carts and a rocket shoot. Contact: 082 390 0900 or nadzroux@gmail.com

animal parties Crocodile Creek Children’s parties include options like paintball, crocodile and snake tours and a party area. Party packs can be supplied or bring your own. Ballito. Contact: 082 920 0730, crocodilecreek@mweb.co.za or visit crocodilecreek.co.za magazine durban

Flag Animal Farm Parties cost R33 per person, which includes venue and set up. The birthday child gets a song, small present and gets to milk the cow first.

Ballito. Contact: 032 947 2018 or visit flaganimalfarm.co.za Phezulu Safari Park Tour through the crocodile and snake park. Party packages and safari drives available.

Mobile snake demos also offered.

Botha’s Hill. Contact: 031 777 1000, info@phezulusafaripark.co.za or visit phezulusafaripark.co.za Rain Farm Game and Lodge Party options include a game drive, setup, children’s meal, a party area, play area and party packs. Ballito. Contact: 032 815 1050, info@rainfarmgameandlodge.com or visit rainfarmgameandlodge.com Reptile Party Time Children watch a live reptile and creepy crawly show. Plus get party packs and a photo shoot with a python. Contact: 074 885 7651 or reptilepartytime@yahoo.com The Animal Farmyard There are two party areas, plus see a milking demonstration, feed animals and have one pony ride. Botha’s Hill.

Contact: 031 765 2240, 082 979 6030, jenny@animalfarmyard.co.za or visit animalfarmyard.co.za The Cockatoo Café Based at the Umgeni River Bird Park, packages offer entrance to the park and a bird show, weather permitting. Extras available. Durban North. Contact: 031 579 3377 or neetu.arjun@gmail.com Winsome View Animal Farm and Country Bistro Parties include animal interaction and pony rides. Extras available. Summerveld. Contact: 082 892 1615 or 076 870 0356, info@winsomeview.co.za or visit winsomeview.co.za

art and craft parties 4 Craft Sake Mosaic or paint kits with guidelines.

Craft parties held at uShaka Marine World. Contact: 073 412 4366, michelle@4craftsake.co.za or visit 4craftsake.co.za Alicats DIY Beading DIY beaded bracelet kits for party gifts or activities. Contact: 084 240 5430 or kieraroxy@gmail.com Artbeat Studios Children are entertained with art to the beat of their favourite music. Musgrave. Contact: 082 881 9223, 083 680 7392 or artbeat@mweb.co.za Bambury Stocks a range of sticky mosaics to create sparkling diaries, jewellery or cards. Nationwide delivery.

Contact Niki: 083 680 5976, nikiw@ bambury.co.za or visit bambury.co.za Buddy Bear Stuff, dress and love your own Buddy Bear friend. Party kits available. Contact Leanne: 031 764 2196, leanne@buddybear.co.za or visit buddybear.co.za Cool Kidz | Crafty Kidz Offer crafty kits for children, with all the necessary tools to do a project of your choice. Nationwide. Contact: 079 873 0546, info@coolkidz.co.za or visit coolkidz.co.za

Crafts for Kids A wide selection of crafts and party favours. Nationwide delivery. Contact: 083 293 7208, sales@craftsforkids.co.za or visit craftsforkids.co.za Crafty Party Puts together craft packs for parties, and can run the craft for you at an additional cost. Contact: 083 437 8862, raelenes@telkomsa.net or visit facebook. com/craftyparties Just Imagine Mosaics Offers mosaic parties at your home. For ages 5 years old and up. Contact: 083 782 7810 or sheila.nichol@gmail.com Kidz Only Sandart is available at affordable prices. Various craft kits, such as rock painting kits and party packs available. Nationwide delivery. Contact: 083 453 4032, admin@kidzonly.co.za or visit kidzonly.co.za Lildoodlers Art, crafts and lots of messy fun at your venue or theirs. Durban North.

Contact: 082 338 5721, pinnfamily@ yahoo.co.uk or visit lildoodlers.co.za Perler Beads A fun craft activity to keep children entertained. Finished creations can be used for fridge magnets, jewellery and more. Contact: 082 856 8140, info@perlerbeads.co.za or visit perlerbeads.co.za Sandart Have creative fun decorating cards with coloured sand. Durban North. Contact: 083 656 1901, Leanne.vanrensburg@kcc.com or visit sandart.co.za Sand Art Parties A fun activity for children 5 years and older. Durban and at Essenwood market. Contact: 083 383 7102 or ingridlloyd@mweb.co.za

cakes and catering Baby Cakes Specialises in a range of cakes. Westville.

Contact: 072 647 7276, tanja@babycakesonline.co.za or visit babycakesonline.co.za Baker Belle Novelty cakes, cupcakes, pops and tarts. Upper Highway. Contact: 076 969 7359, info@bakerbelle.co.za or visit bakerbelle.co.za Bella and Boo Natural frozen yoghurt with various toppings. A mobile unit comes to you, or have a party at the Windermere shop. Contact: 082 441 8518, info@bellaandboo.co.za or visit bellaandboo.co.za Cake Rite Images They do edible prints.

Musgrave. Contact: 072 938 9550 or info@cakeriteimages.co.za Cakes by Aliya Specialises in novelty and 3D cakes. Contact: 072 259 2519 or aliya. mahomed@gmail.com Cakes by Ange Freshly baked cakes.

Durban North. Contact: 084 515 6203, noonie@telkomsa.net or visit facebook. com/cakesbyange Cakes by Farzana Rangila Cakes made to order. Contact: 083 384 1008 or cakedreamz786@gmail.com Carol’s Home Industries Catering for special occasions, with themed birthday cakes, cupcakes, muffins, tarts, cheesecakes, biscuits and platters. Glenwood. Contact: 031 202 3039, garb@telkomsa.net or visit carolscakes.co.za

Coffeespoonz and Afternoons Frozen muffin, crumpet, waffle, pancake, cupcake, brownie and biscuit batters.

Nationwide delivery. Contact: 011 849 4273, coffeespoonz@telkomsa.net or visit muffin-batters.co.za Crazy Cakes Beautiful cakes for all occasions. Contact: 031 463 2741, 078 217 5861 or candice.leth@yahoo.com Crunchy Munchy Home-made biscuits and shortbread buttons. Morningside.

Contact: 031 201 3424, 072 456 7315 or leonafaulkner@telkomsa.net Cupcake Couture Designer cakes and cupcakes to suit your theme.

Contact: 071 997 1266, lana@ couturecupcakes.co.za or visit couturecupcakes.co.za Cupcake Couture Pty (Ltd) Offering a range of cupcakes, pops and cakes.

Glenwood. Contact: 072 470 1141, cupcakecouture.tm@gmail.com or visit facebook.com/CupcakeCoutureTaskeen Delite Foods Offering sugar-free, low-fat sweets, jellies, biscuits and chocolate drinks. Shop online. Contact: 021 702 0721, info@delitefoods.co.za or visit delitefoods.co.za Home Treats etc Provides cakes, tarts, biscuits, savouries and other goodies.

Florist service available. Contact: 031 312 6908, gail@hometreats.co.za or visit hometreats.co.za House Of Treats Bakes various cakes.

Glen Anil. Contact: 031 566 1194 or sales@houseoftreats.co.za Huberto’s Ice cream cakes. Waterfall.

Contact: 031 766 2595, admin@hubertos. co.za or visit hubertos.co.za Iced ‘n Sliced Get cakes, cupcakes and biscuits. Westville. Contact: 072 234 7455, icednsliced.dbn@gmail.com or visit icedsliced.blogspot.com In 2 Food For all your cakes and cupcakes. Contact: 083 287 5571 or in2fabfood@mweb.co.za It’s A Cake! Edible art for making magical moments. Westville. Contact: 072 452 4527 or itsacake2@gmail.com Kauai Wholesome food available in party platters. Stores located countrywide.

Contact: 021 552 0222 Kiddies Bakery They cater for events from baby showers to 21st birthdays.

Westville. Contact: 083 453 9991, kiddiesbakery@gmail.com or visit kiddiesbakery.weebly.com La’Treats Choose from an assortment of cakes, tarts, chocolates or snack platters.

Durban North. Contact: 083 340 1825 or latreats123@gmail.com Little Miss Muffet’s For birthday cakes, platters, sweetmeats and desserts. Contact: 082 363 5349, littlemissmuffet@telkomsa.net or visit littlemissmuffet.co.za Mixies Cake Deco Get cakes and cupcakes. Contact: 071 207 0670, mixiescakedeco@gmail.com or visit mixiescakedecor.wozaonline.co.za Pizza Boyz Makes huge pizzas that feed up to 20 children. Contact: 031 566 5428 (Umhlanga), 031 564 2732 (Durban North), 031 467 7310 (Bluff), info@pizzaboyz.co.za or visit pizzaboyz.co.za May 2013

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resource Rainbows and Rascals Specialises in catering and decor hire. Contact: 082 600 1911, laurenmurray@mweb.co.za or visit rainbowsandrascals.yolasite.com Sandwich Baron Offers various platters.

For more info: visit sandwichbaron.co.za Specialised Cakes and Catering They supply cakes, cupcakes and platters.

Contact: 082 782 9751, 082 923 8888 or specialisedcakes@hotmail.co.za Supacakes Cakes made to order.

Biscuits, cupcakes, cake pops and more available. Contact: 072 150 2962, kerry@ supacakes.co.za or visit supacakes.co.za Sweets and Biscuits Unlimited Biscuits, chocolates and party goods available.

Pinetown. Contact: 031 702 5168 or unlimited@yebo.co.za The Baker Boy Novelty cakes and cupcakes. Choose your flavour, colour and decor. Contact: 076 140 0528, adriank@ mweb.co.za or visit thebakerboy.co.za The Cupcake Mom Home-made cakes, cookies and cupcakes. Upper Highway. Contact: 071 112 3381, enquiries@cupcakemom.co.za or visit cupcakemom.co.za The Icing On Top Cakes for all occasions. Westville. Contact: 082 785 2714, claire@theicingontop.co.za or visit theicingontop.co.za The Old Mill Cakes, from Spider-Man to Mini Mouse. Upper Highway. Contact: 031 766 1138, 083 693 9492, beltecsales@ telkomsa.net or visit beltec.co.za

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The Party Hat Get unique, affordable party goodies, from party treats to piñatas. Contact: 083 555 0825 or luluroets@hotmail.com Yummy Cakes Contact: 072 203 7980, 082 329 6871 or tarrynb69@gmail.com

cooking parties Little Cooks Club New cooking themed parties incorporating team challenges and mystery baskets as well as their Spade to Spatula cooking programme and parties for children under 7 years old.

For more info: visit littlcooksclub.co.za Mudcakes Mix food and fun with the birthday chef. Ingredients, utensils and chefs’ outfits are provided. Contact: 082 422 7978 or drinnie.ferguson@gmail.com Sugar Me Kids’ parties Children decorate cupcakes and cookies at your venue. Contact: 072 837 9198 or laundermaria@gmail.com Tots n Pots cooking parties Tailor-made 1½–2 hour baking parties. They supply all the utensils. Various packages available.

Contact: angie@totsnpots.com or visit totsnpots.co.za

educational parties Greensleeves Learn about knights and medieval feasts.

Camelot, Hillcrest. Contact: 031 765 9400, camelot@greensleeves. co.za or visit greensleeves.co.za

The KZN Science Centre Affordable party packages available in their safe, fun Lab Room. Gateway. Contact: 031 566 8040, education@kznsc.org or visit kznsc.org The Menagerie Children have an educational talk about animals and can see and touch some of them. Contact: 072 215 6368 or themenagerie@telkomsa.net Toby Tower The range consists of creative activities, stickers and wall decor.

Contact: 0800 220 488, tobytower@ pyrotec.co.za or visit tobytower.co.za Treasure Beach Rocky Shores Walk Explore rocky shores with qualified guides. Boma area available to set the party up. Bluff. Contact: 031 467 8507/8, tbeachadmin@wessakzn.org.za or visit treasurebeach.co.za

entertainers Adrian Smith – The Magician Specialising in birthday parties. Contact: 071 837 1731, magic@themagician.co.za or visit themagician.co.za AfrodizzyActs Entertainment company with performers all over South Africa.

Contact Natalie: 082 087 5748 or visit afrodizzyacts.co.za Big Top Entertainment Tom and Sparkles offer magic shows, balloon sculpting, stilt walking and more. Contact: 031 811 4145, info@bigtop.co.za or visit bigtop.co.za

Blue Flame Events Get children’s entertainment or rent jumping castles and costumes. Nationwide. Contact: 072 599 2288, info@bflame.co.za or visit bflame.co.za Cherry The Magical Clown Juggling, puppets and more. Travel charge depends on venue. Contact: 031 201 2515, 083 725 0925 or adi@cherryco.co.za Clamber Club Obstacle courses for children 1–9 years old. There are different age-appropriate packages. Ballito, Durban North, Hillcrest and Kloof. Contact: 011 325 2031, headoffice@clamberclub.com or visit clamberclub.com Clowns 4 Joy! Offers complete party packages. Contact: 031 764 7764 or familycare@futurenet.co.za Clowns for Africa Offers clowns, balloon modelling, face painting, magic and party games. Contact: 079 079 2059 or clowns4africa@gmail.com Dilly the Clown With magic, face painting, juggling and parachute games. Contact: 082 574 3230 or dillytheclown@iburst.co.za Durban Facepainting Specialises in children’s parties. Contact: 084 455 1101 or destiny5tooze@yahoo.com Face Painters and Special Effects Artistry For children’s parties. Contact: 074 804 9289 or amykarsen@gmail.com Fairy, Princess and Character Parties At a venue of your choice. Contact: 082 808 5128

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FunSA Offering children’s entertainment, jumping castles, banners, crafts, balloons, sound hire and table decor.

Contact: 083 627 7033, mail@funsa.co.za or visit funsa.co.za Gaby’s Makeup Artistry Choose from a variety of packages, including face painting or a pamper party. Travel allowance may apply depending on venue. Contact: 082 701 0300 or gabysmakeupartistry@gmail.com Jewels The Clown Provides an entertaining show, hairspray for funky hairdos and face painting. Contact: 082 356 4144 or jofjerusalem@iafrica.com Kiddies’ Karate Parties Children 5–12 years old learn basic karate in a fun way.

Durban North. Contact: 082 777 1755 or derekkrummeck@gmail.com Kidz Corner Get a clown, face painters, games, an MC and more. Packages available. Mount Edgecombe, Phoenix and Umhlanga. Contact: 031 502 6255 or tax.smart@telkomsa.net Puppet World Interactive puppet show with music, lighting and characters.

Contact: 082 808 0057 or heather@ puppetworld.co.za Rico the Clown Offers a magic show, juggling and more. Contact: 082 459 1797 or ricotheclown@telkomsa.net The Incredible Dog Show A world class dog show. Nationwide. Contact: 084 500 0415, lloyd@dogzcool.com or visit dogzcool.com

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Vuzu Entertainment Supplies clowns, dance teachers and more. Contact: 082 423 3123, info@vuzuentertainment.co.za or visit vuzuentertainment.co.za Whimsical Parties A Disney character entertains, plus they supply you with games and prizes. Contact: 071 444 0953, info@whimsicalparties.co.za or visit awishawaywhimsical.blogspot.com

fancy dress hire Carnival and Backstage Fancy-dress costumes for adults and children for sale.

Berea. Contact: 031 202 3852 Costume Carnival Hire costumes and mascots such as Spongebob Squarepants, a Barbie collection and Barney. Durban North. Contact: 083 258 0635, costumecarnival@gmail.com or visit costumecarnival.co.za Fantasia Costume Hire and Party shop Costumes for all sizes and ages. The party shop supplies balloons, wigs and more.

Contact: 031 762 1871, ferreiramig@ telkomsa.net or visit fantasiahire.co.za Imagination costume hire Stocks various themed costumes. Bulwer Rd, Glenwood. Contact: 031 202 9999 or imaginationcostumes@gmail.com Stylebudd Costumes and Props Hire For children’s fancy-dress costumes and mascots. Glenwood. Contact: 078 596 9378, stylebudd@mweb.co.za or visit stylebuddcostumes.wix.com/hire

Sweet ‘n Sassy Create party dresses, tutus, hair accessories and more.

Delivers nationwide. Contact: 082 878 7544, lesley@sweetnsassy.co.za or visit tutus.co.za Troubadour Productions They have over 7 000 costumes and 70 cartoon character costumes to hire. Berea. Contact: 031 209 2817, troubad@iafrica.com or visit troubadour.co.za

green parties Natures Haven Lodge at Bluff Eco Park They offer full service venue hire. Contact: 031 467 8865, info@bluffecopark.co.za or visit bluffecopark.co.za

indoor and outdoor parties @Tap Coffee Corner Offers a shady playground, with jungle gyms. Durban North. Contact: 031 563 0882 or coffeecorner@live.co.za Akimbo Kids Equipped with party cabins and a playground. Choose from flexible packages and extras. Drummond.

Contact: 031 783 7892, info@akimbo. co.za or visit akimbo.co.za Blue Zoo Offering a jungle gym area and a childminder, with Sandart, beading and more. Packages available. Morningside.

Contact: 031 303 3568 or bluezoo@ iafrica.com

Burnedale Café Choose from three party areas, which offer supervised play for children 1–5 years old, an animal farm or creative activities. Umhlali. Contact: 032 947 1980 or picnicfanatics@iafrica.com Epic Karting Go-cart racing with individual laps, driver shootouts or endurance races. Racing only for children 10 years old and up and people over 1,4m tall. Contact: 031 904 5470 (Galleria, Amanzimtoti), 076 375 8466 (Pinecrest, Pinetown) or visit epickarting.co.za Funland Entertainment centre Various party packs available including tenpin, dodgems, party packs and snacks.

Amanzimtoti. Contact: 031 903 1068 or info@funland.co.za Glenridge Party Venue Fully equipped with a garden, kitchen facilities and a staff member to assist with tidying up.

Contact: 082 600 1911 Golden Hours Party Venue A party hut that includes chairs, tables, electricity and other facilities, as well as a large play area. Durban North. Contact Lyn: 031 564 2350 or 083 262 3693 (from 2pm–3:30pm) HeatherBelles Café and Party Venue Venue hire, themed parties and party packages available. Durban North.

Contact: 031 563 4546, hbellecafe@ gmail.com or visit facebook.com/ heatherbellescafe Lucky Bean Two undercover party sheds available, plus there’s a play barn, creativity options such as sandart and

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resource Perler Beading, a bike track and fantasy playhouses. Upper Highway. Contact: 082 216 3892, info@luckybean.co or visit luckybean.co (no .za) Mini Town The covered party area has tables and chairs, a braai area, upper deck and power supply. Contact: 031 337 7892 or minitown@live.co.za Pedal Go-Karts Rent go-carts for children 3 years and older. Contact: 083 683 5151 or shirley@bergtoyskzn.co.za Piggly Wiggly Party Party includes a cake, party packs and use of the playground, or putt putt course. Kloof. Contact: 031 764 2497 or robyndale@cinet.co.za Playball party venue There are indoor and outdoor facilities. Chairs, tables and cutlery provided. Entertainers are optional.

Hillcrest. Contact: 031 765 8780 or playball@mweb.co.za Playworks technology and events Themed and tailor-made games, including Survivor, Amazing Race, disco and Laser Tag. Contact: 031 466 4488, info@ playworks.co.za or visit playworks.co.za Polly Parrot Parties The 1000 Hills Bird Park offers an undercover venue, entrance to the bird park and zipline rides.

Extras available. Botha’s Hill. Contact: 072 927 8242, raredleg@iafrica.com or visit 1000hillsbirdpark.com Sand Art parties Get the sand art table, the sand, 20 cards, delivery and collection. Contact: 031 762 2907, 076 645 1430 or gkoenig70@gmail.com

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Southern Rock Climbing Gym Let children climb the walls. New Germany. Contact: 031 705 3842, info@southernrockgym.co.za or visit southernrockgym.co.za Suga Shack Party Venue Offers optional party themes, decor, catering and hiring. Packages are designed for your budget. Ballito. Contact: 083 777 4797 or sugashackparties@gmail.com The Chicken Shack Café Choose between a pizza or fairy party, or self-catering. Old Mission Rd, Grosvenor. Contact: 031 467 9461, fulloutputcc@telkomsa.net or visit chickenshackcafe.co.za Wakaberry Frozen Yoghurt Bar Waka Parties offer different packages and extras. Florida Rd, Durban North, Ballito, Umhlanga, Kloof. For more info: visit wakaberry.co.za Westwood Paintball A secure and accessible playground in Westwood Mall. Contact: 083 644 3050 or westwoodpaintball@polka.co.za Whack a Waffle A waffle chef comes to your party. Durban North.

Contact: 083 721 0787 or anrie@ whackawaffle.co.za

indoor parties Build-a-Party with Builda-Bear Workshop Children make their own cuddly animal, giving it a heart and personalising it. Gateway. Contact: 0861 123 277 or visit buildabear.co.za

Durban Ice Rink Offers a fun birthday package, with options for entertainers, skate lessons and a meal. Somtseu Rd, North Beach. Contact: 031 332 4597, info@durbanicerink.co.za or visit durbanicerink.co.za Galleria Ice Rink Offers catering and entertainment packages. Other entertainment at Galleria includes bumper cars, bowling, mini golf and go-carting.

Amanzimtoti. Contact: 031 904 1156, icerinkinfo@arbourtown.co.za or visit skategalleria.co.za Mr Funtubbles Fabulous Family Funfair An indoor funfair, offering two party areas and a set amount of rides and games.

The rides are suitable for children ages 2–8 years old. Gateway. Contact: 031 584 6645, party@mrfuntubbles.co.za or visit mrfuntubbles.co.za Playgym Waffle Café Offering play parties, where children under 6 can decorate a waffle. Craft lessons and pamper parties also available.

Amanzimtoti. Contact: 082 419 0078 or visit facebook.com/playgymwafflecafe Spur Steak Ranches A safe venue for children’s parties. Each child gets a children’s meal, soda, ice cream and lunch box or lucky packet. Parents can create birthday invites from their website. Contact: 0860 007 787 or visit spur.co.za Superbowling Book a tenpin bowling party at R47 per person and get bumper

cars and mini glow golf at half price.

Amanzimtoti. Contact: 031 904 5770 or junita@superbowling.co.za The Barnyard Theatres Bring your own food and party packs (no beverages), or order pizzas from Barnyard and enjoy fun, interactive live shows. Contact: 031 566 3045 or visit barnyardtheatres.co.za Treehouse Parties and Events Packages to suit your needs. Gateway. Contact: 082 926 1035 or treehouse.g@gmail.com

music parties Drumkidz Djembe drum sessions get children 3–12 years old drumming to stories, songs and games. Durban, North Coast and Upper Highway. Contact: 083 631 6064, robynne@drumkidz.co.za or visit drumkidz.co.za Kids Just Love to Dance Children’s disco or dancing parties include lights, a mirror ball, music and a mic for karaoke. Suitable for children 7–13 years old. Contact: 072 135 8784 or cazzied@vodamail.co.za Mohan’s Jukebox Company Party jukeboxes, karaoke equipment, games and lights for hire. Contact: 082 659 5959, info@jukeco.com or visit jukeco.com

outdoor parties Boot Camp SA Durban Action parties include obstacle courses and paintball. For children 5 years old and

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older. Westmead. Contact: 082 782 6432, durban@bootcamp-sa.co.za or visit bootcamp-sa.co.za Duck and Deck Animal Farm and Tea garden They have two covered lapa areas and various party options to choose from.

Children interact with farm animals and enjoy pony rides. Assagay. Contact: 031 768 1029, cheryl@duckanddeck.co.za or visit duckanddeck.co.za Durban Boat Hire Luxury boat hire accommodates between two and 60 people. Contact: 074 149 0606, info@durbanboathire.co.za or visit durbanboathire.co.za Durban Charter Boat Bookings Choose from over 30 boats. Catering available. Contact: 031 709 0797, info@boatcharters.co.za or visit durbanboatcharters.co.za Durban Funworld Amusement park rides in a safe venue. Parties are from 9am–11am on Saturday, when the park is closed to the public. Durban Beachfront. Contact: 031 332 9776 or funpark@iafrica.com Durban Society of Model Engineers Miniature steam train rides, playground and party area. Durban North. Contact: 082 577 2067 or alfredf@telkomsa.net Giba Gorge Parties include a ride to the waterfall and a gift pack for the birthday child. Westmead. Contact: 031 769 1527, info@gibagorge.co.za or visit gibagorge.co.za

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Giba Gorge Horse Trails Take a guided pony ride along trails and stop by the river for a party. Westmead.

Contact: 082 623 3783 or visit gibagorgehorsetrails.co.za GroovyBalls Adventure Park Hire the venue or the equipment, for children aged 4 and older. Contact: 031 783 7162, bookings@groovyballs.co.za or visit groovyballs.co.za Hakuna Matata Charters For a party on a 58 foot catamaran, with a harbour cruise and a spacious deck. Contact: 031 307 3782, enquiries@hmcharters. co.za or visit hmcharters.co.za Have a Ball Zorb ball hire for children 5 years old and older. Balls can be used on land or water. Durban North to Ballito. Contact: 079 690 6435 or visit haveaball.co.za Lucky Linton Gold Mine Pan for gold or go down a mine shaft. Pony rides, rafting and foefie slide available. Ballito. Contact: 032 947 1459, 083 287 8383 or visit luckylinton.com Paintball Adventures Paintball parties are based on combat simulation and war games, for children ages 9 and older.

Durban North. Contact: 076 444 5570 or visit paintballadventures.webs.com Parties at Oasis Open for parties on Saturdays. Photography and entertainment are optional. Durban North.

Contact: 031 827 8991, 082 865 0226 or admin.pawpaw@gmail.com

Pedal Go-Karts Venue and pedal go-cart hire, available at The Wavehouse, The Green Hub, The Skate Store on Durban Promenade and Taurus Bike Hire at uShaka Beach Front. Contact: 083 261 4666 or Russell@bergtoyskzn.co.za Picnics for Pixies Choose from various menus, decor and entertainment options and extras. Contact: durban@dialapicnic. co.za or visit picnicsforpixies.co.za Sage Centre Party venue hire, with a jumping castle and decor, including balloons and bunting. Salt Rock. Contact: 082 412 9905, info@happidays.co.za or visit happidays.co.za Splash Water World Water slides, pool and river rides, mini golf and braai area.

Amanzimtoti. Contact: 031 904 2273 or ragingrapids@yebo.co.za S.W.A.T Lasertag Based on combat simulation and war games, for children 8 and older. Durban North. Contact: 076 444 5570 or visit swatlasertag.co.za The Flying Donkey Pony rides, play areas, and a large undercover veranda available.

Mount Edgecombe. Contact: 083 378 8899 or char.delaney@telkomsa.net Urban Assault Paintball A paintball range catering for children 10 and older.

Gateway. Contact: 031 566 2247 or visit facebook.com/urbanassaultpaintballza uShaka Marine World A day at Kids World, Sea World or Wet ‘n Wild. Contact: 031 328 8000, bookings@ushakamarineworld.co.za or visit ushakamarineworld.co.za

pamper parties Beauty In Motion Pamper parties include portable beds for massages, nail art, mini facials, manis and pedis, candles, spa baths and music. Contact: 083 785 6044, beautyinmotion@eca.co.za or visit beautyinmotion.co.za Gwahumbe Junior Spa A pamper session, lunch, bracelet making and a runway show. Eston. Contact: 031 781 1082, info@ gwahumbe.co.za or visit gwahumbe.co.za Hey Jude! Kiddies’ Pamper Parties Children 3 years and up enjoy a fun spa experience. Contact: 078 280 7870 or judesmcd@hotmail.com It’s Thairs This children’s hair salon offers parties for girls 5 years and older.

Davallen Centre. Contact: 031 562 8462 or itsthairs@gmail.com Limelight Spa Offers pamper parties with a custom-made menu for children, teens and adults. Malvern. Contact: 031 463 1044, limelightspa@telkomsa.net or visit spalimelight.co.za My Little Star Spa A mobile pamper party service. Contact: 083 786 3335, kathija@mylittlestarspa.co.za or visit mylittlestarspa.co.za Sorbet Pamper parties Pampering sessions. Broadway, Durban North.

Contact: 031 564 5486 or 082 765 7585 The Hairy Fairy Hairstyling parties with various themes. Contact: 073 634 3572 or adrithehairyfairy@yahoo.com

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resource Zenju Day Spa Ballito Spa pamper parties for children 5 years and older.

Ballito. Contact: 073 724 3037, info@ zenju.co.za or visit zenjudayspa.co.za

party planners 1 Potato 2 For jumping castles, water slides and entertainment such as dressup characters. Durban North. Contact: 084 569 0226, bookings@1potato2.co.za or visit 1potato2.co.za Big Occasions for Little People They create magical, fun-filled parties, doing everything from catering to decor. North and Central Durban. Contact: 083 656 2599 or bashford@mweb.co.za Classy Party Planners Your one stop party service provider. Party venue available. Contact: 031 569 5559, classypartyplanners@gmail.com or visit classypartyplanners.co.za Funtastique Party and Event Planning Party planning, which includes decor, entertainment, party packs and more.

Contact: 083 234 6259, info@funtastique. co.za or visit funtastique.co.za Hearty Party by Kim H Get tailor-made or DIY packages. Contact: 084 633 1105, heartypartybykim@gmail.com or visit facebook.com/HeartyPartyByKimH Hedgehog Party Services Themed party decor, party packs and a florist. Contact: 082 284 1882, info@hedgehogparties.co.za or visit hedgehogparties.co.za

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Hunnybeez Offering themed parties, decor and hire. Contact: 082 774 5282, info@ hunnybeez.co.za or visit hunnybeez.co.za iKandy Kids Party options include themes, entertainment and eats. Contact: 084 589 4980, ikandykids@gmail.com or visit ikandykids.com Jelly Baby Parties For themed decor and jumping castles. Contact: 072 225 5094 or jellybabyparties@gmail.com Kids Dream Parties Over 100 themes to choose from. Contact: 076 089 0598, kidsdreamparty@gmail.com or visit kidsdreamparties.wozaonline.co.za Kids Fantasy Parties Choose a do-ityourself option or the full package, which includes setup and removal. Mount Edgecombe to Durban and surrounds.

Contact: 076 978 6295 or manorine@ fantasyparties.co.za Laquacious Designs They plan and coordinate your party from the decor, entertainment, catering to centrepieces and party packs. Contact: 073 266 5536, olgamartinshenri@gmail.com or visit laquaciousdesigns.co.za Leeq-Waen Party Planners Organise children’s parties with themed decor, plus delivery and setup. Wentworth, Bluff and Surrounding areas. Contact: 072 442 6695 or chevonnehattingh@yahoo.com Little Raindrops Party Specialists For decorations, entertainment and food. Contact: 084 562 8807, candice@littleraindrops.co.za or visit littleraindrops.co.za

Magic Memories Parties are organised from start to finish, including setup and tidying up. Pamper parties also available.

Durban North. Contact: 083 464 1367, magicmemories01@gmail.com or visit durbanpartyplanner.co.za Namasté Kids Get themes, catering equipment and entertainment. Contact: 072 064 8628 or info@namaste-kids.com Parties from Heaven Offers party packages with cakes, banners and more.

Disney Mascots also available. Contact: 083 775 0377 or partiesfromheaven@yahoo.com Parties with Pizzazz Packages include table and chair setup, gazebos, cakes, party packs and entertainment. Contact: 081 235 1668 or mel.peace04@gmail.com Party Princess Offers themed parties, setup, entertainers and more. Themes include 101 Dalmatians, Bumble Bee and more. Durban to Pietermaritzburg. Contact: 083 944 3477, info@partyprincess.co.za or visit partyprincess.co.za Polka Dot Party Supplies everything from the decor to the entertainers. Contact: 082 920 8102 or polkadot@preferred.co.za Prat’s Parties and Clown Hire Offering themed setup, entertainment, cakes and more. West suburbs. Contact: 082 920 8804, pratsparties@gmail.com or visit pratsparties.co.za Queen of Cuisine A one stop supplier of themed parties. Upper Highway. Contact: 072 937 1430, info@queenofcuisine.co.za or visit queenofcuisine.co.za

Quirky Queens Tailor-made party packages to suit your theme and budget.

Contact: 084 555 1195, info@quirkyqueens. co.za or visit quirkyqueens.co.za Shindig Sisters They plan big and small parties for big and small people. Contact: 071 332 8424, info@shindigsisters.co.za or visit shindigsisters.co.za Sugar Plum Parties Provides themed parties, party packs, cakes, decor and entertainment. Contact: 082 498 4234, nikki@sugarplumparties.co.za or visit sugarplumparties.co.za Supakids They hire out children’s tables, chairs and linen. Contact: 082 332 9687, nelia@supakids.co.za or visit supakids.co.za The Party Hippo Specialises in themed parties. Contact: 072 046 3736, thepartyhippo@gmail.com or visit facebook.com/Partyhippo

sport parties Action Sports Offers netball and soccer. Equipment and an umpire provided.

Contact: 0861 122 8466, info@actionsports. co.za or visit actionsports.co.za Busyballers Parties At a venue of your choice. Entertainment includes sports and obstacle courses. For ages 3–10. Contact: 083 236 0059 or lisa@busyballers.co.za Sport on Court Africa Children can enjoy a variety of sport. Durban North and Westville. Contact: 031 560 0107, janine@ sportoncourt.net or visit sportoncourt.net

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books

a good read for toddlers

for preschoolers

for early graders

Dinosaur Zoom!

By Penny Dale

The Herd Boy

By Niki Daly

(Published by Nosy Crow, R88) Children from as young as two years old just love the Dinosaur series. Following on the success of Dinosaur Dig!, author and illustrator Penny Dale brings you another colourful and busy picture book. The dinosaurs are back and this time they’re revving, roaring and racing to a dinosaur birthday party. Bursting with dinosaurs and vehicles of all shapes and sizes, and with a delicious, surprise ending, this is guaranteed to bring a smile to the faces of small boys especially. In the back of the book Dale introduces young ones to all kinds of vehicles such as a convertible, an off-road, and a tractor and trailer.

(Published by Jacana Media, R88) Malusi is a herd boy who tends to his grandfather’s sheep and goats among the mountains of the Transkei. High above eagles fly, while on the ground below, beetles crawl, termites scurry and dust flies as Malusi plays games of stick-fighting with his friend. But there’s danger too. Can Malusi save his lambs from the hungry baboon that’s stalking the flock? And who is the old man in the shiny car who stops to chat, and encourages the herd boy in his dream of being president? This beautiful picture book is about a boy who dares to dream of a big future. It is a story of empowerment, self-belief and leadership, and is inspired by the life of former president Nelson Mandela.

Again!

By Emily Gravett

best bedt ime story

(Published by Macmillan Children’s Books, R135) This story for children from the age of three is about a stubborn little dragon with a favourite book and a fiery temper. It’s nearly Cedric the dragon’s bedtime, and there is just enough time for his mom to read him his favourite book. Unfortunately for her, Cedric likes the story so much that he wants to hear it again… and again… and again, with incendiary consequences.

This is a typically clever and irresistible book by a star talent for youngsters.

for preteens and teens

Huberta’s Journey

By Cicely van Straten and Melany Pietersen (Published by Tafelberg Publishers, R110) This is a fictionalised account of the story of Huberta the hippopotamus, one of the most famous animals in South African history. In November 1928, Huberta left her waterhole in the St Lucia Estuary and set off on a 1 600km, three-year journey to the Eastern Cape. In that time Huberta became a minor celebrity and attracted crowds wherever she went. She was initially thought to be a male and was nicknamed Hubert by the press. Despite her having been declared Royal Game (and thus protected) by the Natal Provincial Council, she was eventually shot by hunters.

for us

White Dolphin

By Gill Lewis

The Chef

By Martin Suter

(Published by Oxford University Press, R105) When they first meet, Kara and Felix can’t stand each other. But on discovering an injured dolphin calf on the beach, they know they must work together to save it.

Now friends, they set out to find the truth behind the disappearance of Kara’s mother, and to protect the nearby reef. But powerful people don’t want them to succeed and with the odds stacked against them, how can Kara and Felix make their voices heard?

Bestselling author Michael Morpurgo says this about White Dolphin: “It opens your eyes, touches your heart, and is so engaging it almost turns the pages for you.”

a cine m story

atic

(Published by Atlantic Books, R192) As the financial crisis tightens its grip on Europe, the gilded world of Zurich’s leading restaurant, Chez Huwyler, seems immune to plunging stock markets. But even haute cuisine is feeling the bite and so Maravan, a Tamil dishwasher and undiscovered culinary genius, and Andrea, a beautiful waitress, find themselves out of a job. After Maravan seduces Andrea with a meal made in heaven, she hits upon an idea: romantic catering for couples. But when their new company begins to struggle, they are forced to enter into an unsavoury business, plunging them into an underworld where murder and sex feed otherwise unquenchable thirsts.

parenting books If I have to tell you one more time…

By Amy McCready (Published by Jeremy P. Tarcher, R293) Why is it so difficult sometimes to get children to listen?

You ask your child to get ready for school or bedtime.

You know she heard you, but she ignores you. You ask again and still... no response. You’ve tried everything – time-outs, nagging, counting to three – and nothing seems to work. In this book, founder of the popular online parenting course Positive Parenting Solutions presents a nag- and scream-free programme for compassionately, yet effectively, correcting your children’s bad behaviour.

She shows parents how an understanding of Adlerian psychology can put an end to power struggles. Adlerian psychology focuses on the idea that humans have a basic need to feel powerful, with children being no exception to the rule.

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The Essential Guide to Bullying – Prevention and Intervention

By Cindy Miller and Cynthia Lowan (Published by Alpha Books, R176) This book brings together the wisdom and experience of two people who have witnessed the causes and tragic effects of bullying. School social worker Cindy Miller teams with Cynthia Lowen, the cocreator of the documentary Bully, to arm parents and teachers with the knowledge to understand the societal and human forces causing bullying to escalate. Discover who is most at risk for being bullied, being a bully, or not helping a bullying victim. Learn how to target-proof children and teach them coping skills. Find out how to identify even the most covert bullying situations and how to infiltrate the world of cyberbullying. Learn how you can intervene and know what legal recourse you have to back up other anti-bullying efforts.

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Here’s your guide for what to do, where to go and who to see. Compiled by TAMLYN VINCENT

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Babes in the wood Children connect with nature through this Wilderness Leadership School initiative.

New Balance Impi Challenge This epic trail adventure race puts competitors to the test.

Toptots Babies and toddlers play and learn through activities, games, music and songs.

Get them some shoes This campaign provides shoes for children, who walk barefoot over long distances, to get to school.

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PHOTOGRAPHS: Jetline Action Photo / Kathy Esterhuysen / Val Adamson

Quicksilver Pro Junior and King of the Groms Enjoy a day of sand and sun as junior surfers compete on the waves.

SPECIAL EVENTS 1 wednesday Fundraising nature walk and picnic lunch Stroll through the nature reserve and enjoy a short meditation, followed by a delicious veggie burger. Time: 9:30am–1:30pm. Venue: Krantzkloof Nature Reserve, Kloof. Cost: R75 donation. Contact: 031 764 6193 or meditateinhillcrest@gmail.com

4 saturday Hillcrest Primary School family fun day There are fun rides, games, food and a market. Time: 9am–3pm. Venue: 17 Emoyeni Dr, Hillcrest. Cost: free entry.

Contact Sally: 031 765 1214 Moscow on Ice The show combines figure skating and circus performances. Ends 5 May. Time: 1pm and 5pm, Saturday; 12pm and 4pm, Sunday. Venue: Durban Ice Rink, 81 Somtseu Rd, Durban. Cost: R140–R250.

Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com Mother’s Day fundraising pamper breakfast Support the Feed The Babies Fund and spoil yourself. Time: 8am–12:30pm. Venue: Hilton Hotel, Durban. Cost: R220. Contact: 031 201 4682 or fradmin@feedthebabiesfund.org.za

10 friday Rocking the Greatest Hits Featuring music from the ‘60s to now. Ends 19 May. Time: 8pm, Friday and Saturday; 6:30pm, Sunday. Venue: Rhumbelow Theatre, Cunningham Rd, Umbilo. Cost: R100. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com SPCA Durban golf day Join this fun golf day for a good cause. Time: tbc. Venue: Royal Durban Golf Course. Cost: R1 800 per four-ball. Contact Caroline: 031 579 6535

uMngeni SPCA/Hill’s township dog show Pet owners compete for top honours. Time: 9am. Venue: Zamuthule School, Mpophomeni.

Cost: R5 entry; spectators and volunteers free. Contact Tess: 033 330 4557, pro@howickspca.org.za or visit umngenispca.org.za

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11 saturday Moms’ pamper sessions Spoil yourself while your children make you a gift. There are pamper sessions on 8 May as well, and live music on 12 May. Time: 9:30am–12pm.

Venue: Westville Mall, Buckingham Terrace.

Cost: free. Contact: 031 266 0028 or visit westvillemall.co.za

12 sunday Mother’s Day lunch or high tea Celebrate over lunch or spoil that special lady in your life with a high tea. Time: 12:30pm, lunch; 2:30pm–5pm, high tea. Venue: The Oyster Box Hotel, Umhlanga. Cost: lunch R390, high tea R250. Contact: 031 514 5000 or restaurants@oysterbox.co.za

16 thursday Winter Symphony Season The KZN Philharmonic Orchestra performs a series of concerts. Also 23 and 30 May, 6 and 13 June. Time: 7:30pm. Venue: Durban City Hall. Cost: R45–R200. Contact: 031 369 9438 or visit kznpo.co.za

17 friday The Sunflower Fund “Dare to Dream” charity ball This glamorous event celebrates those who dare to dream. Time: 6:30pm. Venue: The Southern Sun Elangeni Hotel. Cost: R600. Contact Stephanie: 078 207 9041, steph@sunflowerfund.org.za or visit sunflowerfund.org.za

18 saturday Quiksilver Pro Junior and King of the Groms A junior surfing competition. Age groups: u20 Pro Junior, u16, u14 and u12.

Also 19 May. Time: 7:30am–4pm. Venue: New Pier, Durban. Cost: varies. Contact Dane: dane.patto@quiksilver.co.za or visit surfingsouthafrica.co.za

19 sunday Husqvarna Classic Mid-Illovo MTB challenge and trail run This event pushes riders to their limits, and also offers family- and fun-rides. Runners can take on a 14km or 8km trail. Time: 5:30am.

Venue: Mid-Illovo Club, Eston. Cost: varies.

Contact: 086 100 7624, info@roag.co.za or visit roag.co.za

23 thursday The Ladykillers A little old lady takes on a gang of criminals. Ends 16 June.

Time: varies. Venue: Elizabeth Sneddon Theatre, Glenwood. Cost: R150. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com

25 saturday Birthday carnival Annie’s Busy Bees celebrates 10 years with a fun day, market and yummy goodies. Time: 9am–3pm.

Venue: Crusaders, Durban North. Cost: free entry. Contact Annie: 031 564 6592 or Lindy: 083 566 4333 The Discovery East Coast Radio mini big walk Children ages 7 and younger walk through uShaka Marine World and watch a dolphin show. Time: 8am. Venue: uShaka Marine World. Cost: R30 per child and one adult, people over 15 years old R15. For more info: visit ecr.co.za magazine durban

Track-a-thon Take your sewing machine and help sew precut garments for disadvantaged children, or help with packing. Time: 8am–8pm. Venue: cinema level, Gateway. Cost: free entry. Contact Joan: 083 655 3201

26 sunday Mind, Body and Soul Fair Featuring health, holistic, esoteric and spiritual exhibitions. Time: 10am–4pm. Venue: Westville Civic Centre, Buckingham Terrace.

Cost: free entry. Contact: 072 428 3431 The Discovery East Coast Radio big walk Enjoy a morning walk of 5km, 10km, 15km or 20km. Enter at Totalsports stores or online. Time: staggered starting times from 7am–9:45am. Venue: uShaka Marine World to People’s Park, Moses Mabhida Stadium.

Cost: R50–R65. Contact: bigwalk@ecr.co.za or visit ecr.co.za

28 tuesday Thank You for the Music Enjoy songs from ABBA, Queen and the Bee Gees. Ends 14 July. Time: 6:30pm, Tuesday–Saturday; 12:30pm, Sunday. Venue: The Barnyard Theatre, Gateway. Cost: varies. Contact: 031 566 3045, gateway@barnyardtheatres. co.za or visit barnyardtheatres.co.za World Play Day Children, and adults, explore new ways of learning. This year’s theme is Making Sense of Play. Time: throughout the day. Venue: your nearest Cotlands toy library, at work or at school.

Cost: raise funds or donate toys to Cotlands.

Contact: 011 683 7200 or visit cotlands.org Highbury Senior Primary bursaries information evening Highbury is offering several senior primary bursaries for 2014.

These are open only to boys currently in Grade 3, and not attending Highbury.

They offer tuition fee remission for Grade 4 through to Grade 7. Time: 7pm. Venue: memorial hall, Highbury Preparatory, Hillcrest. Cost: free. Contact: 031 765 9800, marketing@hps.co.za or visit hps.co.za

30 thursday The Reach for a Dream game show Teams compete to win prizes, and fund dreams for children with life-threatening illnesses. Time: 6:30pm. Venue: Suzuki Showroom, Wilton Crescent, Umhlanga Ridge. Cost: R250. Contact Ana: 031 566 2220 or kznadmin@reachforadream.org.za

31 friday Durban North College family market This night market has entertainment and stalls, with food, jewellery and more.

Time: 5pm. Venue: Durban North College, Prospect Hall Dr. Cost: free entry. Contact: 031 564 1347, dnkollege@telkomsa.net or visit durbannorthcollege.co.za

19 May – Husqvarna Classic Mid-Illovo MTB challenge and trail run

Lil’ doodlers Art, crafts and messy fun.

Age-appropriate classes for 45 minutes.

Time: 2pm–5pm, Monday–Friday. Venue: Glenashley. Cost: R360 per term. Contact Gwyn: 082 338 5721, pinnfamily@yahoo. co.uk or visit lildoodlers.co.za Shooting your neighbours An exhibition of images of neighbours, those you love or don’t. 13 May–1 June. Time: 9am–5pm, Monday–Friday; 9am–2pm, Saturday.

Venue: artSpace, 3 Millar Rd, Stamford Hill.

Cost: free entry. Contact: 031 312 0793 or visit artspace-durban.com

classes, talks and workshops Babes in the Wood Children 1–5 years old learn about nature. Adults must accompany children. Time: 9am–11am, every Thursday.

Venue: Kenneth Stainbank Nature Reserve.

Cost: donations welcome. Contact: 031 462 8642, kathryn@wildernessleadershipschool. co.za or visit wildernesstrails.org.za Children’s yoga Young ones develop strength, flexibility and coordination.

Time: 3:15pm, every Tuesday; 11am, every Saturday. Venue: Centre of Wellbeing, 16 Canberra Ave, Durban North. Cost: R40.

Contact Angela: 076 410 1410 or angela@ rautenbach.co.za Computers 4 Kids Computer skills for Grades R–7. Time: 3:15pm, every Tuesday and Wednesday; 9:45am, every Saturday.

Venue: suite 125 Ridgeton Towers, 6 Aurora Dr, Umhlanga Ridge. Cost: R440 per month. Contact: 031 566 1110, umhlanga@computers4kids.co.za or visit computers4kids.co.za Cooking Kids Children 6–12 years old get busy with flour and can make biscuits for Mother’s Day on 10 May, or bake a chocolate cake on 24 May. Time: 2pm–3:30pm. Venue: Meryl’s School of Cooking, 1 Wingfield Rd, Kloof. Cost: R150.

Contact: 031 764 6577, 083 794 6577 or meryl@merylschoolofcooking.co.za

FUN FOR CHILDREN art, culture and science Arty stars Art and craft lessons for children 18 months–5 years old, and their moms. Time: 2:30pm–3:30pm, Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Venue: Westville.

Cost: R600 per term. Contact: 083 777 4578 or babybrightstars@gmail.com

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I Heart Market Local foodies and designers showcase their products. 4 May. Time: 9am–2pm.

Venue: Moses Mabhida Stadium, Stamford Hill. Contact: thejoyteam@gmail.com or visit iheartmarket.blogspot.com

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Lucky Bean Children can play safely while parents relax in the coffee shop.

Time: 9am–4pm, Tuesday–Sunday. Venue: 10 Cadmoor Rd, Assagay. Cost: R15–R20 entry. Contact: 082 216 3892 or visit luckybean.co (no .za) Steam train rides Ride a miniature steam engine at the Durban Society of Model Engineers. 12 and 26 May. Time: 11am–4pm. Venue: 4 Hinton Grove, Virginia. Cost: R5 per ride. Contact Gerald: 031 205 1089 or 082 569 1383

sport and physical activities

Core 4 Kids Classes build upper body and core muscle strength. For children 6–9 years old. Time: 2pm or 3pm, Monday–Thursday.

Venue: Danville Ave, Glenashley. Cost: R70.

Contact Michaela: 074 101 2616 Get Ready for School programme This is a gentle introduction to formal learning for Grade R learners. Time: 1:30pm, every Monday and Thursday; 11am, every Saturday. Venue: suite 125 Ridgeton Towers, 6 Aurora Dr, Umhlanga Ridge.

Cost: varies. Contact: 031 566 1110, 082 042 2556 or tracy@kipumhlanga.co.za

family outings Book Fair Time: 10am–3:30pm, 9 May; 7:30am–3pm, 10 May. Venue: Crawford Preparatory, North Coast. Also at Hillcrest Primary, 13–15 May; Cygnet Preparatory, 13–14 May; Holy Family College, 24 May; St Henry’s Marist College, 28 and 29 May. Cost: free entry. Contact: 031 705 7744 Inchanga Choo Choo Travel to Inchanga station and back on a steam train. 26 May. Time: departs 8:30am and 12:30pm.

Venue: Kloof Station, Stoker’s Arms. Cost: adults R150, children R120. Contact: 082 353 6003, 087 808 7715 or visit umgenisteamrailway.co.za Mr Funtubbles Fabulous Family Funfair Enjoy fun rides and games. Time: 10am–9pm, daily. Venue: upper level, Gateway. Cost: varies. Contact: 031 584 6645 or visit mrfuntubbles.co.za

finding nature and outdoor play 1000 Hills Bird Park Meet exotic birds or enjoy a meal at the restaurant. Time: 8am–4pm, Tuesday–Sunday. Venue: 1 Clement Stott Rd, Botha’s Hill. Cost: adults R65, children under 10 R40. Contact: 072 927 8242 or visit 1000hillsbirdpark.co.za Crocworld Conservation Centre Visit the centre for a fun-filled, educational outing.

There is a play area, restaurant and more

available. Time: 8am–4:30pm, daily. Venue: Old Main Rd, Scottburgh. Cost: adults R60, children R40. Contact: 039 976 1103, crocworld@cbl.co.za or visit crocworld.co.za Flag Animal Farm milking show See cows being milked and bottle-feed a calf. Time: 12pm and 3pm, daily. Venue: Sheffield Beach. Cost: R28 entry. Contact: 032 947 2018 The Animal Farmyard They offer daily milking demonstrations and the chance to bottle-feed newborn animals. Time: 9am–4:30pm, daily; milking 10:30am and 3:30pm. Venue: 3 Lello Rd, Botha’s Hill.

Cost: entry R15, rides R5. Contact: 031 765 2240 or visit animalfarmyard.co.za Winsome View Animal Farm A play area, farm animals and pony rides. Time: 9am– 3pm, Tuesday–Sunday. Venue: Hamilton Way, Shongweni. Cost: varies. Contact: 082 892 1615 or visit winsomeview.co.za

markets Essenwood Market Fresh food and a range of stalls. Time: 9am–2pm, every Saturday.

Venue: Essenwood Rd. Contact: 031 208 1264 or visit essenwoodmarket.com Shongweni Farmer’s and Craft Market Organic and local produce and crafts.

Time: 6:30am–10:30am, every Saturday.

Venue: cnr Kassier Rd and Alverstone Rd, Assagay. Contact: 083 777 1674, info@shongwenimarket.co.za or visit shongwenimarket.co.za The Food Market For locally produced foods. 25 May. Time: 8am–1pm. Venue: The Hellenic Community Centre, Durban North. Contact: 084 505 0113 or visit thefoodmarket.co.za Wonder Market For foods, crafts and treasures. 26 May. Time: 9am–2pm. Venue: Chris Saunders Park, Umhlanga. Contact: wonder@wondermarket.co.za or visit wondermarket.co.za

on stage and screen Moscow on Ice Russian figure skaters join acrobats, clowns, illusionists and ice dancers.

4 and 5 May. Time: varies. Venue: Durban Ice Rink, 81 Somtseu Rd, Durban. Cost: R140–R250. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com

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Children’s story time A story followed by a craft or activity. For 3–8 year olds. Time: 10am, every Saturday. Venue: 26 Rockview Rd, Amanzimtoti. Cost: free. Contact: 031 903 6692 or thebookboutique@gmail.com

Busyballers classes Lessons are available for children 2½–6 years old. Time: from 2:30pm, every Wednesday. Venue: Westville Country Club tennis courts, Link Rd. Cost: R350–R480. Contact Lisa: 083 236 0059 or lisa@busyballers.co.za Rocking Horse Equestrian Centre Beginners of all ages learn to ride. Daily lessons. Time: varies. Venue: Hillcrest. Cost: varies. Contact Sam: 076 279 3224 or rockinghorse@mweb.co.za Taekwondo Tornados Children get exercise, develop core strength and have fun. Time and venue: from 3:30pm, every Wednesday, Westville Library; from 2pm, every Tuesday, Hillcrest Library. Cost: R130 per month. Contact Sam: 082 876 0628 or tkdtornados@gmail.com

only for parents classes, talks and workshops Homeopathy in the home Dr Alex de la Rouviere conducts a free workshop.

18 May. Time: 9am–12pm. Venue: 18 Musgrave Rd, Musgrave Park. Cost: free.

Contact Cherald: 031 202 3082 Meeting of the North Coast Art Group Artist Val Stevens gives a demonstration in pastel. 11 May. Time: 9am–12pm. Venue: Catholic Church, 2 Newport Ave, Durban North. Cost: members R20, non-members R30. Contact Craig: 082 964 9628 Mobile Pilates in Motion A qualified instructor comes to you for one-on-one or group Pilates classes. Time: varies, Monday–Friday. Venue: Morningside to Glenwood or Durban North to Umhlanga.

Cost: varies. Contact Laura-May: 082 443 4533, info@pilatesinmotion.co.za or visit pilatesinmotion.co.za Mom’s IT A computer literacy course.

There are certified courses available. Time: 9am–12pm, Tuesday and Thursday. Venue: suite 125 Ridgeton Towers, 6 Aurora Dr, Umhlanga Ridge. Cost: R150 per hour, course R3 120. Contact: 031 566 1110 or umhlanga@computers4kids.co.za Pilates open day Gain an understanding of Pilates, with a class and short talk.

7 May. Time: 5:15pm–6:15pm. Venue: Methodist Church, Lena Ahrens Rd, Berea.

Cost: free. Contact: 082 443 4533 or visit pilatesinmotion.co.za Sprigs cooking demos Learn to make easy everyday meals, Middle Eastern cuisine and more. Dates vary. Time: varies. Venue: Sprigs The Food Shop, Fields Shopping Centre, Old Main Rd, Kloof. Cost: varies.

Contact: 031 764 6031, sprigs@telkomsa. net or visit sprigs.co.za

Wake up smiling A meditation course to help you shake off that tired, grumpy feeling. 19 May. Time: 9:30am–12:30pm.

Venue: Maitreya Centre, 6 Hamilton Crescent, Gillitts. Cost: R150. Contact: 031 764 6193 or meditateinhillcrest@gmail.com

on stage and screen Rocking the Greatest Hits With music from the ‘60s until now. 10–19 May. Time: 8pm, Friday–Saturday; 6:30pm, Sunday.

Venue: Rhumbelow Theatre, Cunningham Rd, Umbilo. Cost: R100. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com Thank You for the Music Reminisce with some of the greatest pop tunes. 28 May– 14 July. Time: varies. Venue: The Barnyard Theatre, Gateway. Cost: varies. Contact: 031 566 3045, gateway@barnyardtheatres. co.za or visit barnyardtheatres.co.za The Ladykillers The SA premiere of the Broadway and West End comedy hit. 23 May–6 June. Time: varies. Venue: Elizabeth Sneddon Theatre, Glenwood. Cost: R150.

Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com Winter Symphony Season A series of classical concerts. 16, 23 and 30 May, 6 and 13 June. Time: 7:30pm. Venue: Durban City Hall. Cost: R45–R200. Contact: 031 369 9438, reception@kznpo.co.za or visit kznpo.co.za

out and about New Balance Impi Challenge Tackle a 12km trail run and a military-style obstacle course with 17 obstacles. 18 May. Time: 9:15am. Venue: Virginia Farm, Eston.

Cost: R300 entry. For more info: visit impichallenge.co.za

support groups Born Sleeping Parents bereaved by stillbirths, miscarriages or neonatal death share experiences. Contact: 084 524 1541/2, bornsleeping@gmail.com or visit their Facebook page: Born Sleeping Childhood cancer parent support group Choc schedules regular support meetings. Contact Gill: 084 831 3683 or visit choc.org.za Durban Autism support group For mothers of children with ASD. Informal coffee mornings are held four times a year. Contact Di: 083 443 8385 or dimaitland@tiscali.co.za Famsa Offers family and relationship counselling. Contact: 031 202 8987 or visit 30 Bulwer Rd, Glenwood, Durban

23 May–6 June –The Ladykillers

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Hi Hopes Home intervention programme for children who are deaf or hard of hearing.

Contact: 082 897 1632, dianne.goring@ hihopes.co.za or visit hihopes.co.za Sadag For those suffering from depression or drug abuse or who may be suicidal. For more info or referral to a support group: visit sadag.org

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classes, talks and workshops Edubabe Runs childminder training, first-aid workshops and cooking classes for nannies, au pairs and parents. Time: varies. Venue: Glenwood. Cost: varies. Contact Kate: 071 968 1007 or durban@edubabe.co.za Holistic baby care classes This fourweek course helps couples focus on conscious parenting. Starts 6 May. Time: 6:30pm–8:30pm, every Monday. Venue: Westville. Cost: R900. Contact Melissa: 082 601 4108 or melissa@organicbirth.co.za Pre- and postnatal yoga Relaxed pregnancy and postnatal classes. Time: varies. Venue: Eagle View Studio, 4 Galloway Lane, Winston Park. Cost: four classes R220.

Contact Kirsty: 073 351 6824, kirsty@ blissfulbellies.co.za or visit blissfulbellies.co.za Preggi Bellies fitness classes Designed for all levels of fitness. Time: 5:30pm–6:30pm, Tuesday and Thursday.

Venue: Umhlanga Muscle and Fitness Xpress. Cost: R80. Contact: 073 162 3710, 0860 723 559 (head office), latascha@ baby2be.co.za or visit preggibellies.co.za Preggie Pilates Gentle classes invigorate your baby and prepare your body.

Time: by appointment. Venue: your home. Cost: R150–R170, depending on location. Contact Sarah: 071 183 4161 or sarahxevans@hotmail.com Stroller training for mums Get back into shape. For moms with babies 6 weeks– 3 years. Time: 9:30am–10:30am, Monday, Wednesday and Friday. Venue: Mitchell Park, Morningside. Cost: R450–R500.

Contact Bronwyn: bronwyn@fit4health. co.za or visit fit4health.co.za The first 12 months Learn about playing with and stimulating your baby.

Time: 9am–12pm, every Saturday. Venue: Highbury Prep School, Highbury Rd, Hillcrest. Cost: R395. Contact Jeanne: 082 327 1244 or jeanneb@mweb.co.za

playtime and story time Baby Bright Stars Interactive classes for moms and babies from 2 months– 2 years old. Time: varies. Venue: Westville.

Cost: R750. Contact Kelly: 083 777 4578 or babybrightstars@gmail.com Clamber Club Movement and stimulation classes for children 1–4 years old. Time: varies. Venue: branches in Ballito, Hillcrest and Kloof. Cost: varies. Contact Ballito: 076 222 2946, Hillcrest: 084 577 7630 or Kloof: 083 259 2746 or visit clamberclub.com Moms and Babes and Moms and Tots workshops Programmes stimulate, develop skills and promote bonding. Venues: Amanzimtoti, Ballito, Berea, Durban North, Umhlanga and Westville. Cost: varies. For more info: visit momsandbabes.co.za or momsandtots.co.za magazine durban

Get Them Some Shoes

Toptots Children 8 weeks–4 years old join age-appropriate classes to learn and play.

Time: varies. Venues: Durban North, Ballito, Glenwood, Kloof, Hillcrest, Westville and Hilton. Cost: varies. Contact: 031 266 4910, info@toptots.co.za or visit toptots.co.za

support groups Mothers 2 Baby For new and experienced moms who are finding motherhood challenging. Time: 10am–11:30am, every third Thursday. Venue: Hillcrest Private Hospital, Kassier Rd. Cost: free. Contact Hayley: 078 640 7949

how to help Beaded White Ribbon Project Wear your white ribbon and make a statement against abuse, rape and violence. Ribbons are handmade by unemployed women and proceeds go to the Motheo Wa Katlego Community Development Project. Cost: R20. Contact Kea: 082 970 6035, info@ bontlebame.com or visit bontlebame.com Entrepreneurs 4 Africa They train and inspire previously disadvantaged start-up entrepreneurs and unemployed youth.

They are looking for corporate sponsorships and volunteers to assist. Contact: 031 265 2000 or robinhoodfund@telkomsa.net Get Them Some Shoes For every 30 unique sign-ups to the campaign, a pair of shoes will be donated to Adopt-a-School, for children who walk barefoot to school. SMS your name and email address to 37511 (SMS costs R1) or visit getthemsomeshoes.co.za

looking ahead

june

Choc Walk to Sani 2013 Pass On 15 June, families walk in support of children with cancer. To register: dbn@choc.org. za or Joy: sanichoc@gmail.com

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finishing touch

again, again when you’ve been shown the same star for the umpteenth time. By ANÉL LEWIS

ne of my favourite times of the day is early evening, when Erin calls me to come and look at the stars. I love that she reaches up to try and touch them, only to tell me that they’re “too high, Mommy”. I love it for the first 10 minutes, and then I have to admit that my attention starts to wander. MasterChef is on, the dogs need to be fed and I haven’t spoken to my husband since we bumped into each other in the garage, about three days ago. And then I feel terrible for not savouring this special moment with her.

In a few years’ time, I will be lucky if she shares which movie stars she is “into”, never mind making time to sit and stargaze with me. But parenting is a relentless cycle of being engaged and involved, so it’s only natural that even the special moments can get a bit lost in the daily grind.

I can’t remember the last time I took a bathroom break without it being a spectator sport. Erin is not really a problem, as she uses the time to rearrange the shampoo bottles and is not too interested in what

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Erin, Anél and Conor

I’m doing. But Conor is still literally finding his feet, so he practises moves that would make him a worthy addition to the Cirque du Soleil cast while I am trying to get on with my business. And it’s no fun trying to prise a jittery cruiser, who has suddenly realised that he is marooned far from the safety of something solid to hold onto, from my leg while simultaneously trying to pull up my jeans.

Poor Conor tends to get the short end of the stick when it comes to my

attention. This is partly because he can’t call me outside to look at the stars just yet, but he’s also just used to playing second fiddle to his sister, who makes sure that we all know that she was there first. Sometimes he’s so quiet that I almost forget he’s there. This can have disastrous consequences, as we discovered recently when we found him pulling his gran’s knitting off the needles, stitch for painstakingly pearled stitch. He also loves to unplug the computer’s cables

and will quietly snack on the cat’s pellets if we don’t keep tabs on his movements when we’re in the kitchen.

I know though, that in a few months’ time, when he can stand on his own and navigate the stairs without nose-diving, that I will be called to “come and see” all the new things that he has discovered. I will again need to remind myself to make time to stop and share those special moments with him, regardless of what I want to do or how tired I am. And, if my focus does wane a wee bit, as it is wont to do after a long day, or after my 17th exclamation of surprise at the sight of the night sky, hopefully his sister will be content to spend some quality time stargazing with him too.

Anél Lewis is Child magazine’s features editor. She’s learning diversion tactics for her bathroom breaks, and has bought Erin and Conor glow-in-the-dark stickers, so that they can look at stars even when their parents are otherwise engaged. Follow Anél on Twitter:@ChildMagParent

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Cherish special moments with your children, but don’t feel guilty if your enthusiasm wanes

party book extract

is it a plane, is it a train?

Take the fuss out of party catering with these creative yet practical ideas, extracted from Easy Party Treats for Children by JANETTE MOCKE.

tea cups Makes 10 • glacé icing • pink butter icing • 10 Marie biscuits • 10 edible cupcake cases • 10 sugared round jelly rings • 30 sugar flowers • Jelly Tots Roll out the glacé icing and cut out 10 flowers the size of the Marie biscuit. Using a small blob of butter icing, stick these to the biscuits and press flat. Using a little butter icing, stick a cupcake case to the flower.

Cut off one side of a jelly ring and use a dab of butter icing to stick this to the right-hand side of the cupcake case. Hold it in place for a few seconds until it sticks. Stick three sugar flowers to the front of each cup, for decoration.

Fill an icing bag with the pink butter icing and decorate the rim of the cup. Fill each cup with Jelly Tots.

lamington train

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Makes one train • 9 lamington squares • glacé icing • liquorice strips • round sweets for the wheels • 2 sugared jelly rings • 2 dome-shaped sugared jelly sweets • a variety of small sweets • 1 rectangular cake board Use three lamington squares to form the locomotive.

Use glacé icing to stick two lamington squares together, and stick another one on top of the back square. Place the locomotive on the cake board – use glacé icing to secure it.

Cut a square out of the top lamington, leaving a 1cm edge all round. Do the same with the remaining six squares, to form the carriages of the train.

Cut the liquorice strips into pieces ± 3cm long. Press one end of a piece of liquorice into the back of the lamington locomotive and press the other end into another lamington, so it appears as if the train carriage is hooked to the locomotive. Repeat with the rest of the lamingtons to form the train.

Using a little glacé icing, stick the round sweets to the lamingtons so they resemble the wheels of the train.

Stick two sugared jelly rings at the front of the locomotive and place two dome-shaped sugared jelly sweets on top of the jelly rings, to form the funnels.

Finally, place a variety of small sweets on the locomotive and carriages.

green frogs Makes 10 • 10 Marie biscuits • green butter icing • 20 green edible cupcake cases • 20 green jelly rings • small sweets • 10 pink or red sour worms • green glacé icing • 10 green Jelly Tots • 20 silver sugar balls Spread green butter icing over the Marie biscuit and place a green cupcake case on top, slightly towards the back. Cut out a section of the jelly ring.

Stick two jelly rings into the butter icing, right up against the cupcake case, for the feet. Fill the cupcake case with small sweets.

Using glacé icing, stick the sour worm onto the cupcake case, then stick the second cupcake case, upside down, to the bottom case, to form the head – the worm helps keep the mouth open.

For the eyes, cut a Jelly Tot in half and use green glacé icing to stick the two halves on top of the cupcake case. Use green glacé icing to stick a silver sugar ball in front of each Jelly Tot.

about the book Easy Party Treats For Children (Random House Struik) is ideal for busy parents who want to make something special for a party, but just don’t have the time. The recipes are easy to follow so you can also involve your children in the preparation. Janette includes basic recipes for perennial favourites, like lamingtons and fridge squares. She then breaks her suggestions down into broad themes. Her fun suggestions will appeal especially to younger children. The book is available at all good bookstores.