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It has to be my favourite month, with the first sighting of the Christmas beetle heralding the beginning of the end of what has been another unfailingly busy year. Walking my daughter into school one morning this term, Julian and I overheard a preschooler ask: “Why are you in such a ‘hush and a push’ this morning, Mom?” Sweet and apt.

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contents december and january

upfront

regulars

3 a note from lisa

6 upfront with paul Paul Kerton

6 over to you readers respond

wonders if our children learn enough about manners and decency

8 pregnancy news – bugs with a bite Marina Zietsman looks at why

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mosquitoes favour pregnant women

12 better together Lucille Kemp explains the value of family traditions

14 3 days in the jacaranda city if you have to play tour guide over the holidays, this guide will help. By Simone Jeffery

16 everyday delicious Christine Capendale inspires us to celebrate the West Coast way armed with her new recipe book

18 your future investments Cassandra Shaw brings you inspirational stories of women who made sound financial investments

21 back to school already?

Tamlyn Vincent gives tips on ways to prep for the new school year, over the holidays

health 7 getting smart about vaccines decisions affecting our children’s health should be based on sound reasoning, says Marc de Chazal

9 best for baby – holiday upheaval how you can holiday without disrupting your baby’s developmental milestones.

By Ruwaydah Harris

10 dealing with difference Tamlyn Vincent looks at toys and their link to gender stereotypes

24 resource – see the world by bike or barge Child magazine unlocks the traveller in you with this exciting destination guide

26 what’s on in december & january 34 finishing touch if Conor gets a vacuum cleaner from Santa, he’ll be over the moon, reckons Anél Lewis

35 a good read for the whole family

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hairy issue I have witnessed thousands of children having their first haircuts as I have had two children’s hair salons in Joburg for the last 15 years. I believe children should be brought into the salon several times until they feel comfortable or brave enough to have their hair cut. To make the experience fun, we have created a child-friendly ambiance: murals on the walls, the ceiling, the floor and the furniture, plus each child gets their own television. The stylist plays her part with sweets, balloons, bubbles and a certificate of the experience. The boys are generally not as comfortable, but this is most likely because girls are familiar with the set-up by watching their moms getting groomed.

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dangers of cellphones I read your article “a valuable learning tool” (November 2013); what the article forgot to mention was how our children’s health is at risk from cellphone use. I read an article called “cellphones and child brains: casualty catastrophe” by Alexandra Bruce, which gave much food for

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thought. Top neurologists issue warnings to patients about the health dangers of cellphone use. iPhones also contain a legal disclaimer page with fine print, which is difficult to read, and discloses the dangers of radiation exposure from cellphones. It advises users to keep the device 10mm away from the body. How dangerous is cellphone use for our children whose skulls are thinner and whose bodies are still developing? According to statistics on brain tumours associated with cellphone-use, this has replaced leukaemia as the number one child killer. Not to mention other effects, ranging from DNA damage, a reduction in sperm count to an increase in tumours in the area of the body where the cellphone is in contact with the skin.

A radiation detector measured a smartphone to emanate 40 000 microvolts compared to the 800 microvolts of a microwave oven and the 800 micro volts of a WiFi router. Normal background radiation levels should not be more than 30 microvolts. In France, WiFi is being removed from schools and replaced with cabled internet and Germany, Israel and Finland are moving towards banning the sale of cellphones to children. In Japan there

is a general limitation of cellphone use for those under 18 and in the UK for those under 12. Many countries like India issue warnings against the use of cellphones by children.

As an educator and a parent, knowing this, I would not support cellphone use in the classroom.

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hubbly bubbly In response to the article “smoke screen” (November 2013); as a parent, it has disturbed me to see so many young people smoking hubbly bubbly. I’m so grateful for your article on the dangers and false perceptions of smoking this pipe. This article is now my ammunition to inform our youth and parents of the dangers of smoking hubbly bubbly.

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the intangible curriculum Human decency and manners are not focused on as much as they should be. PAUL KERTON explains.

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n our eagerness to develop our children into the smartest, brightest specimens on the planet, chasing their – and our – noble aspirations, we focus on the three Rs – reading, writing and arithmetic – as an exam-based, default knowledge foundation.

Clearly this has been working for centuries.

People are generally forgiving of a rude, arrogant narcissist, providing that narcissist is clever enough to find a cure for cancer.

We all hope that the other life skills necessary for basic survival will magically materialise amoeba-like in little Jimmy’s person along the way, at the hands of parents, teachers and their peers.

Nobody teaches you social skills. You have to pick them up yourself through trial and error and finding what works for you.

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These are intangible things like holding a conversation and knowing when to edge into the debate to make a contribution and express an opinion without seeming arrogant, rude or up yourself. How to say “no” politely without upsetting anyone and being true to yourself instead of being badgered into something you don’t want to do; particularly relevant with regards to alcohol, drugs and sex. Yes, there have been great strides in education to address this gap but have we gone far enough?

The same goes for dealing with intense emotions like “love”, which is incredibly difficult to deal with and haunts the teenage psyche particularly as their hormones run amok. Everybody talks about it, sings about it and it is the subject of zillions

of celluloid dramas. We all certainly feel something and think we know what it is, but nobody can give a clear definition and signal when it starts; or the difference between lust and love, obsession and love, and degrees and types of love.

Good teachers impart a lot of these life skills through simply being good people themselves or at least impressing on their learners a step-by-step moral compass for them to follow, through their own example and individual style. You can tell immediately whether one is good at this or not by their influence on your children, and the state of the classroom. If it looks like the baboon enclosure at London Zoo then, the loose rein, anything-goes liberalism suggests Sex-Pistol’s anarchy.

I’ve always thought that South African children – by and large – are very well mannered by modern international standards. As manners go out of the window across continents, the excuse is that nobody has the time to be polite and courteous anymore, which seems truly pathetic. I think nobody has the time to teach children manners and, sadly, we accept the alternative without complaint.

I read today that the sales of baths are dropping like flying pigs. A survey concluded that people no longer soak in baths, preferring the instant gratification of a shower. The same people haven’t got time to say thank you either.

Go on, have a bath and say thank you.

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health

getting smart about vaccines When making decisions regarding our children’s health, it’s important to base our reasoning on sound fact

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and consensus. MARC DE CHAZAL explains why.

hanks to worldwide immunisation campaigns, lifethreatening infectious diseases have been controlled and have dramatically decreased. According to the World Health Organisation (WHO), vaccines against diseases such as polio, last seen in South Africa in 1989, save more than three million lives every year.

Measles is also targeted for elimination, but misinformation can dramatically hamper these efforts. In the late 1990s Welsh parents heeded the warnings of a debunked study spuriously linking the MMR (measles, mumps, rubella) vaccine to autism, which eventually led to a measles outbreak in 2013. This highly contagious disease causes pneumonia, deafness and, in one out of 1 000 cases, death.

How then should we make informed decisions about vaccines?

make sure the information is from a trusted, knowledgeable and highly respected source,” she says. “The Vaccine Safety Network is accredited by the WHO, so any information you find on these websites can be trusted. For Facebook fans, I recommend the VacciNewsNet page,” she adds.

Burnett points out that South Africa does not blindly follow global trends when including a vaccine in the national immunisation programme. “The National Advisory Group on Immunisation (NAGI) is an independent body that includes eight academic experts who all need to reach consensus based on the available scientific evidence before a vaccine is considered safe and essential for the health of our children,” she explains.

what to take in trusted sources There’s nothing wrong with doing our own research on the internet, but Dr Rose Burnett, a public health scientist and senior lecturer at the University of Limpopo’s department of virology, advises caution. “You need to

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You will find many websites with legitimate-sounding names that actually sprout nonsense about vaccines.

“Most of the misinformation that fuels anti-vaccination claims is dealt with by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC),” says Burnett.

“For claims that are not dealt with by the CDC, my advice to parents is to look at the evidence behind the claim,” says Burnett. She suggests we ask: • Did the study compare vaccinated children to unvaccinated children using a large sample size for both groups? Most anti-vaccination claims are based on small studies of only vaccinated children. “Huge studies conducted on over a million MMR vaccinated and unvaccinated children have shown the same rates of autism in both groups,” says Burnett.

• Did the study report a correlation and then conclude that this shows cause? Correlations are not causal.

• Is the website promoting an alternative to vaccines?

“There is absolutely no scientific evidence that these alternatives work,” says Burnett.

• Is the claim linked to a conspiracy theory? Conspiracy theorists have been shown to be more likely to believe and promote misinformation about vaccines.

There are, of course, children who have medical conditions that preclude them from some vaccinations. If you are ever in any doubt about vaccines, your paediatrician is the best person to turn to.

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pregnancy news

bugs with a bite Why do mosquitoes find pregnant women so “attractive”?

what attracts mosquitoes?

The five human scents that attract mosquitoes most come from carbon dioxide, which we exhale; body odour, particularly sweat; secretions, when compounds known as saccharides and antigens are secreted through the skin; certain blood types; and lactic acid, which is emitted through the skin when you are active or have eaten specific types of food.

why pregnant women?

When a woman becomes pregnant, her need for oxygen increases by as much as 20–40%. As you need more oxygen during pregnancy, your body adapts to meet this need in several ways. As a normal part of pregnancy, your breathing may be affected by the increase in the hormone progesterone, which causes you to breathe in more deeply. Towards the end of your third trimester, your uterus begins to push upwards into your ribcage, which then presses on your lungs, naturally

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forcing you to breathe deeper and more often, thus emitting more carbon dioxide.

Perspiration (or sweat) comes from sweat glands in the skin and helps to regulate your body’s temperature when you get too hot. Carrying a baby bump around is hot and hard work, no matter what the weather is, because your core body temperature rises. Hormones play a role too, in pregnant women, increasing blood flow to the skin leaving you feeling warm, looking flushed and sweaty.

the biggest culprit Dr Karen Minnaar, a gynaecologist and obstetrician in Centurion, says that malaria can be fatal in pregnant women. “The placenta acts as a reservoir for the parasite and it is difficult to treat during pregnancy.

Malaria is still a major cause of maternal deaths in Africa and it is better to prevent an infection, than to treat it,” says Minnaar.

She strongly recommends not travelling to areas where there is a risk of getting

infected. It is always safer to postpone these trips until after delivery and when the baby and mom can get immunisations or take preventative medication. “Pregnant women can get very ill if they are infected with malaria during pregnancy,” says Minnaar. “It could cause a miscarriage or congenital malaria infection in the unborn baby.” She adds that pregnant women may not take any antimalarial drugs unless they are infected with the parasite and it is used for treatment. Minnaar advises that if a pregnant woman must enter a malaria area, she should avoid going in the summer. She should wear long sleeved clothing; avoid going outside at dawn or dusk, when the mosquitoes are most active; and to sleep under a mosquito net.

repellents Most insect repellents contain the chemical N,N-diethyl-m-toluamide, commonly known as Deet. This is a highly effective insecticide, and Deet-based insect repellents are

relatively safe if you use them carefully.

The Centres for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) says, “Deet does cross the placenta, however, the effects of Deet use in pregnancy have not been thoroughly studied. There have been no studies of picaridin (the synthetic compound in Deet) use in pregnant women. Infection spread by mosquitoes can be harmful to a developing baby, therefore the benefits of insect-repellent use might outweigh any potential harm.”

Minnaar says citronella oil or lemongrass oil can be mixed with aqueous cream and applied to the skin. Also, “citronella soaps can be used or citronella candles can be burned,” says Minnaar. “If this is not effective, Deet-containing repellents can be used, but women should try and use a product with a low concentration of Deet.

They could also spray the Deet on their clothing.” Minnaar says plug-in repellents can also be used; both the ones containing chemicals and UV mosquito lights.

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best for baby

holiday upheaval Taking your child on holiday and away from a familiar routine can seem a little daunting especially if you started potty training or you’re in the process of weaning your baby off the breast or bottle. But there are ways to manage, says RUWAYDAH HARRIS.

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oing on holiday requires good timing and, at times, thorough planning, especially if your baby is busy learning something new. Abandoning routine for the sake of enjoying a stress-free holiday may be tempting, but sticking to routine, as best you can, even when you’re away from home on a much-deserved family vacation, is important in your child’s development.

“A predictable routine gives children a sense of security and helps them develop self-discipline,” advises Dr Laura Markham, an American clinical psychologist and founder of the website Aha! Parenting. “Even though they are in a different location and the bricks and mortar are different, is it important to keep as close to the child’s routine as possible,” advises baby and toddler expert and best-selling author of Toddler Sense, Sister Ann Richardson.

And in order to manage routine effectively, hands-on parenting is needed. However, if you’ve already started something new, Sister Ann offers tips and advice on how to ensure you still maintain a healthy routine while on holiday.

If your family is on their own with no immediate neighbours or other house guests, then proceed with the weaning programme. But, if there is going to be fussing and crying involved and perhaps some sleepless nights, then it is advisable to wait until the family returns home. The advantage of weaning in the holiday season is that parents are more relaxed, with no work and pressurised deadlines, and where possible, there is always the support of the partner and extended family to call on.

introducing solid foods Pack everything you will need if you are unsure of shopping availability at your destination. Follow your plan for introducing solid foods or changing diets and don’t let too many boundaries around eating expectations loosen.

Holiday times are generally a good time to do something new, as both parents and the family are more relaxed.

dealing with nappy rash sleep patterns Routine, routine, routine, reiterates Sister Ann. “Parents must try to keep the routine as normal as possible. Going to bed too late and hyped up (whether it be with overstimulation or too many holiday treats containing sugar) can disrupt sleep patterns.” However, it’s also important to be flexible while on holiday, so sometimes (not every night) bedtime may be a little later than usual. Enforcing day sleeps are important though, as missing out on a much-needed day nap will impact on the child’s behaviour, eating habits and bedtime happiness.

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potty training If your child is developmentally ready to be potty trained, then potty training must proceed as normal. Introduce your little one to a set routine from the start and be consistent about it. The holidays are often a good time to potty train as there is more one-on-one, quality time to spend with your child. Don’t forget to pack your child’s potty and put it in a place that reminds him or her of a similar spot in your home.

Use the warm weather to your advantage. Let your little one run around in just a pair of swimming pants.

They will be less likely to urinate in the swimming pants and will remember to ask for the potty.

breast-feeding Time management is important so feeds are timed in a way that is comfortable for you. If you can’t change location, be organised and take along an extra cotton blanket or wrap if you prefer to be discreet. magazine pretoria

The most common nappy rash is a fungal infection caused by the candida fungus, which causes thrush in the nappy area. This is usually due to wet nappies, heat, beach sand and swimming pool chemicals. Eating too much sugar is also a common cause of candida. On the beach or around the swimming pool is an ideal time to air little bottoms. Take off wet swimming costumes and keep the nappy area dry. Frequent nappy changing is important if you are going on long car trips or aeroplane flights.

on the flip side With children there is never a perfect time for anything out of the norm. So, when you have a holiday it’s important to enjoy them, and to make the most of what you’re given, when you can.

• Spend your holiday creating good family memories that you and your children can look back on fondly together.

• Read stories, eat together, spend time outdoors, play and have fun. Just be mindful of your child’s routine.

• You don’t need to be rigid. Instead try to be practical and enjoy yourselves.

holiday dos and don’ts • B e organised and prepared before any outings. A day on the beach with small children, for example, requires a lot of planning, so make sure you pack sunscreen, hats, towels, plenty of snacks and water, wet wipes and tissues.

• Don’t leave home without probiotics in your medicine kit and an antifungal cream. Ask your chemist to recommend suitable products.

• Make sure you pack your child’s favourite toy, blanket and bedtime story books and CDs. • Don’t plan too many activities and keep in mind that your baby or toddler needs some downtime and being around too many people, constantly, may be overwhelming.

• If your baby doesn’t sleep in your bed at home, don’t start now. Make the necessary sleeping arrangements.

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dealing with difference

dolls vs trucks Tamlyn Vincent explores the link between toys and gender stereotypes, and discovers how to encourage gender-conscious parenting.

learning gender But gender stereotypes don’t originate in toy stores.

Claire O’Mahoney, a play therapist in Joburg, says that toy preference often starts at home. Toddlers play with the toys that they are given, often selected by parents or found in an older sibling’s room. Gender identification only starts at 24 months, says Durban psychologist Gabi Kell, with children only really beginning to understand gender differences by three years. So a child’s primary socialisation and understanding of gender comes from parents and family.

Without realising it, parents commit to gender, says Kell. They may choose the clothes that girls wear, or tell boys that pink is for girls. Carlyn Foster, who works on marketing projects for big brands, points out that there are many baby and childcare products, from toys to clothes, that differentiate between gender and come in either blue or pink. Huggies have recently launched a range of gender-specific nappies, and while their product speaks to a physiological difference between boys and girls, they have embraced the opportunity to create different designs for both sexes. The growth shown by this product suggests that it is popular with the public, as moms understand the need for boys and girls nappies to be functionally different, but also appreciate the visual appeal.

Even when parents consciously work to avoid distinguishing between genders, children pick up on it, and become aware of these differences. Marketing manager Michelle Thomas says that choosing gender-

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specific toys often starts with the parents. “Dads buy their boys Lego because they remember the positive experiences they had with the brand.” Older siblings and friends at school will also impact how children understand gender. Thomas remarks on how common it is for parents to look for a toy that their child wants, but have no idea where he heard about it. My son, having never watched an episode, can tell me all about Ben 10.

Guess what he wants for Christmas?

neutral ground The entertainment industry also plays a part in socialising children. Thomas points out that movie and TV trends influence what the next craze will be. Their newest trend seems to be moving towards a more gender-neutral space, with titles appealing to a broader audience. Disney’s Brave, an animated movie about a bow-shooting princess, saw a mixed audience in its opening weekend, with just less than half of the audience being male. Gender neutral films will foster an industry for toys that appeal to both sexes.

Let children play with whatever toys they choose, without limiting their choice or ignoring their preferences.

This gender neutral approach has been adopted by overseas toy companies, like Harrods, which have reorganised toys into themes. This is, in part, due to pressure from society. The Let Toys be Toys campaign encourages toy retailers and manufacturers to stop marketing toys for a specific gender, and rather let children choose whichever toy they want to play with. Wanda Ambrosini, managing director for a big toy company, says that the move towards being gender neutral is also less risky, as “a product that is developed for boys and girls is less expensive.”

There is a need for gender neutral toys, says O’Mahoney, as many toy manufacturers are leaning towards educational toys. In the past, boys played with blocks and developed gross motor skills. Girls played at dressing dolls, and developed fine motor skills. Many toys are now developed to help both sexes develop a range of skills. The development of these toys, and the new direction of the entertainment industry has resulted in a broader genre appeal. “There has definitely been a shift in the kinds of products we’ve seen developed in the toy world that will bring unfamiliar toy items to gender-neutral spaces, such as the Nerf Rebelle, a girl-themed crossbow,” says Thomas.

a matter of difference But gender specific toys are hardly a thing of the past.

Although children do learn about gender from parents, friends and society, biology also influences the toys children play with. Research has shown that boys and girls 12, 18 and 24 months old show toy preference, says Kell. At this presocialised age, girls were found to watch dolls more, while boys watched cars, suggesting that toy preference is biological. Another study had male and female monkeys choosing toys. The male monkeys favoured wheeled toys while the female monkeys chose to play with dolls.

Children gravitate towards gender-specific toys, says Kell, and the marketing reflects this. Girls tend to show less rigid commitment to gender-specific toys than boys do, perhaps because it is simply more socially acceptable.

Boys don’t want to play with toys that are feminised, says Kell. This will influence toy preference and the marketing of toys. “Big toy brands will continue to market their popular products to the relevant gender especially as specific play patterns remain popular with this gender,” says Thomas.

playtime While there is a space for gender-neutral toys, particularly those that are developmental, O’Mahoney points out that there are gender differences between boys and girls. As parents, we need to acknowledge these differences. We also need to allow children to explore these differences for themselves.

Children need to be exposed to a variety of toys, advises Kell. Girls can benefit from playing with mechanical toys, just as boys can benefit from playing with toys that encourage caring and language development.

For children with a different gender sibling, this is easier as they have more access to a variety of toys and aren’t limited in their play, says O’Mahoney. Parents can also let children play with whatever toys they choose, without limiting their choice or ignoring their preferences. In this way, children can develop a variety of interests and skills, from the social and language skills developed by toys like dolls, to the spatial development learnt from construction sets.

So as I stare at the rows of pink toys, I remember that while my niece enjoys playing with dolls, she also enjoys playing with blocks and designing treasure maps. And while my son wants the biggest ninja turtle there is, he still plays with his teddy bear. So if he wants a baking set for Christmas, I’m sure Father Christmas will sneak one into his stocking. magazine pretoria

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e’ve come prepared this year; having arrived early to avoid the hustle of the crowds that are sure to come. We tackle the boys’ section first. It’s easy finding Christmas presents for them. A talking superhero or a collection of larger-than-life bugs, complete with slime, will do the trick.

Then I do an about turn, and head to the girls’ section, easy to find with the pink glow emanating off the rows of dolls and kitchen sets. Do I go with the pink tea set or doll, for my niece? I worry that by choosing these toys, I am conspiring to keep girls stuck in the kitchen. And surely muscled superheroes and toy tanks aren’t sending the right message to our sons either.

It is this same concern that has seen many international toy stores come under fire for having girls and boys categories. Lego took some heat as well, when it released the Lego Friends range, marketed specifically for girls and available in a range of pinks and purples. Parents are concerned that stereotyping gender like this negatively impacts their children.

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family life

better together generation, start with simple time spent with your loved ones. By LUCILLE KEMP

y mom loves to over-cater; at this time of year I’m hitting the gym hard in preparation for the famed Christmas lunch hangover, which sees me through to New Year’s Eve. When my brother and I were growing up, this abundance meant there were always leftovers from our parties. So, at some point it became an annual thing, to head off as a family to a local children’s home with cake, sweets, cupcakes and chocolates the day after. I remember this time clearly. Not only for its potent lesson in sharing and giving to those less fortunate, but also because it was my family’s special thing to do.

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Each family has something that keeps them connected and provides a shared comfort and enjoyment. These things are what make Boxing Day memorable, and a Sunday lunch over the holidays taste extra yum as they come from simple, everyday acts in the home.

give them the back story What was life like when you were growing up, Mom? What was your favourite present from Father Christmas, Dad? What city did you live in? What was Aunty Padmany like when she was younger? Who was the naughty one in the family? Slindile and Sihle Gumede’s children are still small

but they say, “We want them to continue with our culture’s beliefs and practices and we try to expose them to traditional ceremonies, one such being the baby naming ceremony.”

For me, the holidays are that time of year when I whip out all the family albums; one goes back 35 years to when my parents were still only dating and true to ritual my dad will have a story for pretty much every photo in that album.

Just the other day, Cindy Perry, mom to Josh (10) and Rachel (14), found herself driving past her old house with Josh and got to talking to him about her childhood.

“Normally he talks while I talk, but he was quiet so I know he was interested. He had endless questions.” Children

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Special family traditions, which are cherished and often passed from generation to

are interested in our past and the things that make us who we are, that’s why it’s important to pass on our traditions to them now.

inspired by boredom Any parent will tell you that, often, inspiration for what to do with their young children comes from needing to burn off their excess energy, and these days will surely come during the long school holidays, so be prepared and get creative. Cassandra Shaw’s extended family used to spend the time playing charades or board games – things that everyone could be involved in. “I remember playing massive games of Pictionary – we’re all pretty competitive and we used to stay up late laughing at each other’s cartoonish renditions of things.” This Christmas she hopes to get her almost four-year-old son involved. It’s worth having a solution stacked in the cupboard for those rainy days or evenings with family and friends over the holidays.

Think Trivial Pursuit, Scrabble, 30 Seconds, Twister and Uno, or be creative and come up with your own.

share Cindy gives her children room to be themselves by sharing her space in the home. “Josh enjoys making marinades and sauces. So, if I need meat marinated I leave it completely up to him – a bit nervously at first, but it turns out he makes it super yummy so I trust his concoctions.”

This has taken the tired task, of getting the meat prepped for endless summer braais this holiday, off Cindy’s plate and turned it into a fun activity for the whole family.

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Marius Baldy, married to Nicolene, is the cook in his home and has made it a thing that he and his six-year-old son Tyler do together. This is their one-on-one time before Mom gets home from work. It would be no surprise if the day comes soon when Tyler is roasting the turkey and prepping the trimmings.

I remember this time clearly. Not only for its potent lesson in sharing and giving to those less fortunate, but also because it was my family’s special thing to do. there are simple ways to be hands-on Tessa Daniel, mom to three-year-old Mae, grew up with a very busy dad. However, she notes how he did a good job of keeping her close because he found a hook – walks on the beach with their black Labrador Jackson, that Tessa loved to pieces. When she’s home for Christmas they will keep that tradition alive by stealing a moment to go for their walk. Cindy recalls from her own childhood a simple act of kindness, “My dad was a printer, so he would design and print special little exercise books for me and my brother to use to practise our schoolwork.” This, Cindy came to know as classic Dad behaviour.

your precious experiences will inform your children’s “Growing up, the most amazing time was when my mother took us to the beach. She worked hard as a nurse and we hardly got to spend quality time with her, so those trips were cherished,” says Slindile who plans to keep family beach days alive with her boys this summer.

Cindy has many holiday memories of her own growing up over the years – from camping and hiking to trips to a specific restaurant when, at their dad’s insistence, they could order anything off the menu. Her dad’s sense of adventure, generosity and his desire to constantly go the extra mile for them has played a part in who Cindy is, as a mom. So when she reads a story she gets into character, using funny voices and acting like a “simple”, and when her children want to draw not only does she find a picture and get the table set up, she also puts music on. Having time off over the holidays allows us the chance to do these things more often.

holiday memories endure My memories of our annual summer trip to Salt Rock, on the north coast of KwaZulu-Natal, to holiday with the Gaileys from Gauteng, are vivid. Body surfing, playing hours of make-believe in the garden, trips down to the rocks with the dads to pick mussels (no licence needed back then), table tennis tournaments, solitaire sessions with real playing cards and general knowledge quizzes with good old-fashioned pen and paper – I plan to carry these all on to holidays with my children one day.

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in the jacaranda city Playing the tour guide, over the holidays, is never easy – especially when planning for different age groups.

To make life simpler, SIMONE JEFFERY has compiled a three-day travel guide for families in Pretoria.

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Pretoria, South Africa’s administrative capital, is home to the seat of useful contacts government, the Blue Bulls, and approximately 50 000 Jacaranda trees. anjasgarden.co.za Start your discovery of this city with something to eat at Anja’s Tea menlynpark.co.za Garden, a tranquil venue situated on the grounds of The Willows Country Lodge. gauteng.net The tea garden is well-known for their home bakes. Especially popular are the baked pretoriaboeremark.co.za lemon cheesecake and white chocolate baked cheesecake with caramel. On the premises there is a lot of play space for children and you can browse Mongoose Trading, which sells truly South African handcrafted bags and homeware. There is also a hairdresser, nail bar and beauty academy at the lodge. The tea garden is open from 9am, Tuesday to Saturday.

After you’ve filled up on wholesome food and browsed the store, head over to the Union Buildings for a photo opportunity and an amble among the rose bushes, terraced gardens, statues of former prime ministers, as well as various memorials. The buildings themselves aren’t open to the public, but you can walk around the grounds and picnic there if you like. The buildings have played a significant role in the country’s history, as many protests and presidential inaugurations have taken place here, including that of Nelson Mandela in 1994.

When leaving the Union Buildings head west and take a drive around Church Square. Although it’s not as picturesque as it once was, in its heyday, the square is still one of the best-known and oldest sites in Pretoria, with buildings dating back to the early 19th century. It is home to the Palace of Justice, the Old Capitol Theatre, the Ou Raadsaal or council chambers and the General Post Office. If you have time, you can pop in for a drink at the historic bistro, Café Riche, with its old-world charm. When leaving the square, take Paul Kruger Street and drive past the City Hall and the National Museum of Natural History.

By now your children are probably tugging on your shirt sleeves and howling out the windows, so after your morning of culture and history, head over to the Menlyn Park Shopping Centre in Atterbury for a bit of unbridled fun. The centre

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offers something for everyone with an inflatable play area, pony cycles, plus some pedal and standard go-karts and quad bikes. From 7pm, depending on the season, you are able to drive your car onto the roof of the parking area for an open-air movie screening at Gauteng’s last standing drive-in. It offers standard fare at the kiosk, but you can take your own picnic basket, camping chairs, blankets, pillows and a transistor radio. You can always use your car radio, but if you’re sitting outside the sound might not carry as far.

If you find yourself in the city on a Saturday, wake up with the sparrows and visit the Pretoria Boeremark that starts at 5:30am. This authentic farmer’s market sells fresh fruit and vegetables, baked goods, plants, flowers and homemade gifts.

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Wake up early and head north on the N1 Platinum Highway for a day useful contacts in the sun. On the way stop at the famous farm, Ludwig’s Roses, ludwigsroses.co.za for breakfast at the Spiced Coffee Restaurant, which is open from foreverwarmbaths.co.za 8:30am. There is a playground, tractor-trailer rides and acres of rose bushes friendsoftherail.com in all varieties.

From there, continue north for a further 55 minutes to the town of Bela Bela and the water resort of Warmbaths, which is best visited during the winter months when children can run and play in the warm spring waters. However, during summer you can still make use of the slides, tubes, wave pool, cable ski, pedal boats, putt-putt and tennis and volleyball courts. There are shallow pools and small slides for young children. If running from slide to slide and taking a dip in the warm waters isn’t for you, if you make prior arrangements the resort will organise a babysitter for you and you can pop into The Hydro for massages and beauty treatments. As far as accommodation goes, the resort offers self-catering options, caravan and camping facilities, hotel accommodation and a lodge at the Ramoswe Game Reserve situated within Warmbaths’ boundaries.

If you don’t feel like driving and would rather spend a day on “the rails”, the Friends of the Rail conducts steamtrain trips to the mining town of Cullinan, as well as the Tshwane Explorer train trip around Pretoria. Visit their website or Computicket for their latest trip schedules.

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commune with nature

To the west of Pretoria lies the small town of Hartbeespoort. useful contacts The dam, around which the town is situated, was originally built footprint.co.za for irrigation in 1923 and has become a place for weekend revellers. dewildt.co.za Start out early and head towards the historical Preller House Restaurant geocaching.com at Pelindaba, situated at Gate 1. The restaurant is at the departure and hartiescableway.co.za end point of the Phaladingwe Nature Trail, an easy 6km or 8km nature walk that can take 2–4 hours to complete depending on the pace of the walkers.

The walk and vegetation varies, making for an interesting stroll. You will also pass alongside the Crocodile River and may come across vervet monkeys, baboons and snakes. For an added bit of motivation, get your children involved in searching for the geocache hidden along this route. Take snacks and bottled water, and wear walking shoes, hats and sunscreen. It can get quite hot in summer, so try to start early. The trail is open from 8am–5pm daily. The restaurant serves pub lunches and you can place your order there, head out for your hike, and your food will be ready when you return.

After you’ve had a rest and a bite to eat, head over to The Ann van Dyk Cheetah Centre, which is roughly a 30-minute drive, and take your children on a memorable tour to see the cheetahs, wild dogs and several other animals. The days and times of the tours vary so be sure to check their website for the tour that suits you best. The two-hour family tour is aimed at families with children under six years old and takes place twice a day, in the mornings and afternoons, but book in advance.

Finish off your tour of Hartbeespoort with a ride on the Harties Aerial Cableway and a panoramic view of the dam, town and Magaliesberg range. You aren’t allowed to take food or drinks with you, but there is a restaurant at the top and at the base station. Picnic baskets can also be prearranged. They extend their operating hours in summer, allowing you to catch a glimpse of a sunset before descending, but please note that the cableway doesn’t operate in bad weather.

If you’re visiting in October, it’s the best time to view the blossoming Jacarandas. The Jacaranda tree is an invasive alien plant that has been given special dispensation because they add to the character of the city. A great street to view Jacaranda trees is Eastwood Street.

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Hartbeespoort Dam

For more day trips around Pretoria, visit childmag. co.za/resources/day-trips If you’re keen to experience more familyfriendly South African excursions, take a look at our other three-day travel guides for Joburg, Durban and Cape Town online. For your convenience, our Pretoria guide is also available online. childmag.co.za/content/travel-joburg childmag.co.za/content/travel-durban childmag.co.za/content/travel-capetown childmag.co.za/content/travel-pretoria

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everyday delicious December is a time to celebrate with family and friends. In her book, Everyday Delicious, CHRISTINE CAPENDALE shares some of her recipes that your holiday guests will love.

fresh tomato and olive tart with basil short crust pastry

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Serves 6 • 600g baby rosa tomatoes, halved • 30ml balsamic glaze • salt and black pepper • 30ml olive oil • 2 onions, sliced • 2 cloves garlic • 60ml olive tapenade or pesto of your choice • 200ml pitted and halved black olives • Parmesan shavings and fresh basil to serve

500ml cake flour 2,5ml salt 200g butter 50ml cold water 20ml brandy 1 egg yolk

1 Preheat the oven to 180°C. 2 Sift the flour and salt together and rub in the butter to form coarse crumbs.

3 Mix the water, brandy and egg yolk together.

4 Add the liquid to the flour mixture and cut it in with a small knife to form the pastry.

5 Use your hands to gather and knead the mixture gently until it forms a ball. Leave to rest in a cool place for 1 hour.

6 Line a large round or rectangular loose bottom pan with the pastry. Line with baking paper and fill with pastry weights or dried beans.

7 Bake blind for about 10 minutes. Remove the pastry weights and bake for another 5 minutes until the pastry is golden brown in colour. Leave to cool.

1 Place the tomatoes, balsamic glaze, salt and pepper in a bowl and marinate the tomatoes for about 10 minutes.

2 Drain well. Heat the olive oil in a pan and sauté the onions.

3 Add the garlic and season with salt and black pepper. Leave to cool.

passion fruit yoghurt terrine served with homemade granola and fresh fruit Makes about 3kg granola • 250ml melted butter • 125ml sunflower oil • 200ml honey • 6 x 250ml oats • 500ml desiccated coconut • 500ml bran • 250ml mixed seeds (sunflower, poppy, sesame or pumpkin seeds) • 250ml crushed All-Bran Flakes® • 200g mixed chopped nuts (pecans, walnuts, cashews or almonds) • 250ml fruit cake mix (or raisins, cranberries and sultanas)

1 Preheat the oven to 180°C. 2 Melt the butter, oil and honey together.

3 Mix the oats, coconut, bran, seeds, AllBran Flakes® and nuts together.

4 Add the melted butter mixture to the oats mixture and mix well.

5 Spoon the mixture onto a large oven tray and bake for about 25 minutes. Remove the tray every 5 minutes and give it a stir.

This ensures even browning and toasting.

Your granola must be a golden brown colour, but be careful not to over bake it.

6 Cool the granola and then add the dried fruit. You can also add chopped dried apricots, large coconut flakes and chopped dates at this stage. Keeps well for a few weeks in an airtight container.

passion fruit yoghurt terrine Serves 6 • 20ml gelatine powder • 60ml cold water • 500ml passion fruit yoghurt • 50ml castor sugar • 250ml fresh cream, whipped

1 Mix the gelatine powder into the cold water. Leave to sponge for a few minutes.

2 When needed, dissolve for 40 seconds in a microwave oven on a medium setting.

3 Mix the yoghurt, castor sugar and the dissolved gelatin together.

4 Fold in the whipped cream and pour the mixture into a lined loaf pan. I use wet clingfilm to line the pan – it works well and makes it very easy to unmould.

5 Set overnight and unmould just before serving.

to assemble to serve Serve slices of terrine on a large breakfast plate. Add some granola and fresh fruit in season. You can also thicken the passion fruit pulp with cornflour to make a sauce accompaniment.

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1 Spread the olive tapenade on the baked crust.

2 Mix the olives, drained marinated tomatoes and the onions together.

3 Spoon the mixture into the cooked pastry shell.

4 Season the tart with a bit of salt and black pepper and top with Parmesan shavings and fresh basil leaves.

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homemade granola

lemon and ginger cordial Makes 1,5 litres • 8 large, ripe lemons • 1,5 litres water • 1kg sugar • 125g grated fresh ginger • 10ml cream of tartar

1 Wash the lemons well and finely grate the rind of 3 lemons (it must be very fine – use a microplane).

2 Juice all the lemons and add to a saucepan together with the water, sugar, ginger, lemon zest and cream of tartar.

3 Stir to dissolve the sugar and then boil for 20 minutes on a gentle heat.

4 Cool and strain through a sieve or muslin cloth.

5 Dilute with soda water for a real refreshing drink.

optional Add mint, lemon and ginger slices to the syrup. Or dilute the syrup with ginger ale, white rum and add ice, mint and lemon to make a delicious cocktail.

west coast seafood and chicken paella This is my West Coast twist on the Spanish paella. It is moist, easy and it looks impressive. Serve with crusty bread and salad.

Serves 6 hungry people • 500g rice • 10ml fish spice • 5ml paprika • 10ml spice for rice • 50ml oil • 1 large onion, chopped • 1 yellow pepper, cut into strips • 1 red pepper, cut into strips • 500g seafood mix, thawed and drained well • 80g butter • 2 cloves garlic, crushed • 6 cooked chicken drumsticks or thighs • 250g shrimps, thawed and drained well • 150ml frozen peas, thawed • chopped fresh parsley • 50ml good-quality mayonnaise • 30ml sweet chilli sauce • 1 box (800g) 21/25 prawns, cleaned and deveined • salt and black pepper • 250g mussels on the half-shell, rinsed well and steamed • lemon slices or wedges

1 Place the rice in a large saucepan with enough water to cover. Parboil for about 2 minutes.

2 Rinse several times with cold water until the water becomes clear. It is important to wash off most of the starch.

3 Cover the rinsed rice with water and add the fish spice, paprika and spice for rice.

Boil until almost cooked.

4 Heat the oil in a pan and sauté the onion. Just before the onion is soft, add the peppers and cook for a few more minutes.

5 Add the peppers and onion to the rice and cook until done.

6 Sauté the seafood mix very briefly in half of the butter. Add the garlic, remove from the heat and set aside.

7 Add the chicken, seafood mix and the shrimps to the rice and cook through for 2 minutes. Remove from the heat and add the peas, some chopped parsley, the mayonnaise and the sweet chilli sauce.

8 Fry the prawns quickly in the rest of the butter until they turn pink on both sides. Turn them over at least once during the cooking time. Season with salt and black pepper.

9 Place the rice mix in a serving dish. Top with the prawns, half-shell mussels (quickly heated in the microwave just before serving), more parsley and lemon wedges.

pear, toasted hazelnut and orange pavlova drizzled with dark chocolate meringue (Serves 6) • 6 egg whites (180ml egg white or 30ml per egg white) • 450ml castor sugar • 2,5ml cream of tartar • 5ml vanilla essence or seeds of 1 vanilla pod

topping

1 Preheat the oven to 100°C. Line a baking sheet with a double layer of baking paper and grease well.

2 Whisk the egg whites until stiff, but not dry. Add the sugar gradually whilst beating, to make sure it’s incorporated completely.

Whisk until very stiff and shiny.

3 Add the cream of tartar and vanilla.

4 Shape a free-form meringue on the baking paper.

5 Bake for 2 hours and then switch off the oven. Leave the meringue to dry and cool in the oven – preferably overnight. Place on the serving dish once cooled.

• 350ml fresh cream • 50ml castor sugar • 1 tin (410g) pears, drained and chopped into large chunks • 50g toasted and chopped hazelnuts • finely grated rind of 1 orange • 100g dark chocolate, melted

to assemble 1W hip the cream and add the castor sugar.

2 Spoon a generous layer of the whipped cream over the meringue, and then top with the pears, hazelnuts and orange rind (only a small amount).

3 Drizzle the pavlova with the melted dark chocolate.

about the book This book includes a number of jazzed up recipes each inspired by South Africa’s West Coast.

Readers will find everything from yellowtail and bacon kebabs to chocolate pizza. Christine, a trained chef, has also taught cooking classes in Langebaan, and she loves to share her passion for food with others. Everyday Delicious is published by Human & Rousseau and is available at all major bookstores.

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your future investments Women are buying more than just handbags and shoes. CASSANDRA SHAW speaks to a

ore and more women are investing in themselves and their future. It’s not always easy to know which sorts of investments fit best or how to get started, but there are a number of possibilities out there for those of us that are willing to start. We spoke to a few women who have made successful investments, and how these investments have helped to enrich their lives. They offer us their stories and share with us valuable advice.

returning to campus and investing in artwork

We need to examine and initiate where we want to go in life, not just put our heads down and work for the next salary.

Tina Retief, a Cape Town local, recognised various gaps in her life and felt strongly that she needed to address them.

She chose to further her education and invest in an MBA. “I needed financial training and knowledge to credibly operate in the business sector, especially at a higher level than I was operating at,” she says. As a result, she decided to take a year off and invest in herself. Tina feels that, as individuals, we forget to strategically plan our lives. Rather, we need to examine and initiate where we want to go in life, not just put our heads down and work for the next salary, she says.

Entering her programme, Tina was surprised at how normal it was for people to go through a 30s crisis and she found others, like herself, who also wanted to make a difference. She was surrounded by a diverse group of professionals, and the experience made her realise how unique she was. “You realise you have great skills, which others

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do not have, and you are not just another one in your tribe, she says.” Although she explains that it is an expensive year, with long hours and demanding work, she has found it very rewarding. “Studying as an adult you value the content and you can relate to it. It enables you to have a debate with a diverse range of individuals with strong, very different opinions. It has given me a new lease on life. I feel more balanced as both a person and a professional,” she explains. When asked what advice she would offer other women wanting to continue their education, Tina says that if you can, “give it a shot. We underestimate ourselves and are our own worst enemies. Our male counterparts are more likely to take the risk and resign to spend a year developing themselves and their skills. We (females) are far more cautious considering the bond and our responsibilities.”

Although Tina is currently focusing on her education, she also enjoys investing in artwork that she loves. After finding a knowledgeable art merchant in her area, she says that she found a piece she liked and when she sold it a year later, it had already doubled in value. Regardless of the returns, Tina finds the process enjoyable. “It is an easily understandable investment, no derivatives, complex acronyms and not too much drama, plus the window shopping is fun and you are acquiring valuable industry knowledge and pleasing aesthetics,” she says.

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few women about their savvy financial investments, and passes on some helpful tips.

personal health and growth Investing in your health and overall wellbeing can also act as a good investment. Michele Jones, a Cape Town mother, realised that she wanted more out of life. She took an active approach in her future and invested in things like her health and her mind. “I needed to get fit and I wanted to build up my strength, so I signed up with a personal trainer. It’s now eight months and I can see the physical, emotional and mental benefits,” she says.

She also started going to counselling to develop her own personal growth. Whether you visit a therapist, a life coach or a career counsellor, investing in your mind and thus how you see yourself and your place in the world can also produce advantages. “There is a great benefit in having a trusted ‘sounding board’ – time to reflect, to review, to understand, to challenge the status quo of what makes up your view of yourself and our experiences,” she says. Since embarking on these changes, Michele has seen the benefits of her actions.

She has more stress-free time to spend with her son, and she feels “more present and not just an observer in [her] own life.”

from paintings to property Bjefke Breebaart, a Pretoria mother of two, has experienced the value that involvement in the art world and property market can bring. Possessing a keen eye for aesthetics and having practiced various types of art herself, she joined the art committee at work, and

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is currently responsible for art acquisition within her company. “It’s given me great exposure to artists, galleries, collectors and auction houses”, enough to “have built up the knowledge to start investing in a personal art collection,” she says. If you buy art wisely and purchase the work of an established artist, then you are likely to make a good investment. But she warns that work by an established artist may already fetch high prices and there are also a lot of unknown factors related to an art piece. So, educating yourself about the artist that you’re thinking of investing in is important. “You need a lot of knowledge in terms of which artists to buy as well as which piece is most representative of that artist,” says Bjefke. She recommends buying from a reputable gallery – they are well informed, always seeking out new talent and try to ensure the longevity of the artist, before they decide to support them. There are many young artists with promise and potential, but who stop producing before they become established, which negatively impacts the value of their work. Supporting them, though, will directly make a difference in their lives, she adds.

Bjefke has also invested in property, and made her first investment about 10 years ago – having realised the benefit of a tenant contributing to her bond. She explains that she was fortunate to have brought just before the property boom and as a result has benefited from good growth and return on her properties. She sees this as a long term approach and believes that her investments will directly contribute to her retirement earnings

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and help her family’s financial future. She’s also found that commercial property may be a better investment than residential, but understands that not everyone has the financial means or experience. One thing that Bjefke has done is invest in shares and unit trusts, where companies are investing in property for you. This takes “a lot of the risk and stress out of it, leaving you with the benefit of good growth and return,” she says.

professional investment advice Debbie Netto Jonker has been in the industry for 25 years and has assisted countless individuals with their financial planning. She feels strongly that everyone should have a financial plan. “You don’t land up in an investment by accident, and it’s important that people try to get some education in how to plan their future whether it be a course or a financial planner,” she says. A good financial investment is one that gives you diversity – a balance of shares, property, bonds and cash, that includes an appropriate allocation of investment offshore, she adds. As a planner, her role would be to change the balance appropriate to what your objectives are.

It’s important to understand the type of investments that you’re investing in and the risks involved. “There is a risk-reward relationship. Shares can be more volatile than cash,” she says. But adds that “your greatest gain will come from utilising your tax deduction; your investments in your retirement or pension fund are good because you get immediate return on your investment equal to the tax saved.”

Debbie says it’s important that you “pay yourself first” and decide how much is usually available after you’ve paid everything budgeted for; don’t wait to see what’s available at the end of the month. “We also need to remember that a man is not a financial plan. Many women end up retiring in poverty because they’ve left their paid work to have children and abandon their own financial plan – they actually need to maintain it through their married life.”

The things people often forget: 1 To stay on course – don’t switch an investment due to headline news.

2 It’s never too late to start.

3 Remember to insure the ability to earn – make provision for illness or disability.

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wanting to further your education? Tina says: • • • •

Call someone that’s done it and ask their advice.

Attend an open day.

If you are looking to study while working, speak to your boss as soon as possible.

Don’t doubt it for too long. Once you’ve recognised the need to further yourself you are halfway there.

things to think about before buying property: • K eep an eye out on what’s available in the area – what properties are on the market for and what they sold for.

• Work out your return on investment beforehand, weighing up the potential rent against the cost of the bond and rates.

• Buy in a good area and only what you can afford.

Bjefke and Tina’s tips for purchasing artwork • • • •

Love what you buy.

Some cities host a monthly social and art affair, see if there’s one in your city.

Follow art blogs and news to keep an eye on new artists.

Buy from a reputable gallery with tastes similar to your own and ask them to contact you when they see something you would like.

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Doing some back-to-school prep early on, means children are all set for the new year.

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TAMLYN VINCENT looks at some of the tasks parents can tackle during the holidays.

y son is starting “big school” next year and, to be honest, I’m a little nervous. I know myself; the holidays will start. I’ll put my feet up, relax, play with my son and forget about the long list of back-to-school shopping and planning. But all too soon, Christmas will be over. New Year’s will have come and gone. And school will start tomorrow.

But putting in a bit of work at the end of the year can save plenty of stress at the beginning of a new school year.

“Starting school, regardless of the grade, is a big event in a child’s life,” says Carmen Weir, headmistress of Tyger Valley College Pre-Preparatory school in Pretoria. Children will be meeting new and old friends, getting to know new teachers and adapting to a new routine. “For children to ease into the system, it is important for them to be well prepared,” says Weir.

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Being prepared means ensuring your children have the correct stationery and uniform. Weir says it also means understanding the school’s expectations of your child. Children feel safe and secure when they feel

Do your shopping when everyone else is not doing it. comfortable and when they feel like part of the group.

“If they are singled out, intentionally or not, they will feel insecure and the experience will become negative,” says Weir. To start off the year on a good foot, parents should send children to school with everything they need for a positive learning experience.

school supplies “Don’t lose the stationery list,” says Isabelle De Grandpre, a professional organiser based in Durban. She suggests getting stationery organised as soon as children finish school. Ask the school to send home any leftover exercise books, pastels or anything else that can be used again.

Check the cupboards at home for unused stationery supplies. Take stock of what you already have, then figure out what you still need. Avoid doing stationery shopping just ahead of school, when shops sometimes run out of items – like the school dictionary your child needs.

To avoid stress at the end of the holidays, especially when money may be tight, shop when everyone else is not shopping, advises De Grandpre. If you’re ordering stationery online, do it early so that everything arrives on time, and in good order.

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Cover exercise books in the holidays. For my son I’m thinking rocket ships and planets. If your children are old enough, they can do this themselves and decorate their books with pictures, stickers or glitter pens. Perhaps get them to invite friends around for a book-covering session, where they can catch up with each other and start to look forward to the year ahead.

During the holidays, start an art and crafts drawer.

Collect anything that may be useful for school projects or extramural activities, which could vary depending on children’s ages. Preschoolers could construct cardboardbox robots or paper-plate jellyfish, while older children may need items for leaf rubs, building an ant farm, or making cardboard spirals for snails. Collect cardboard, plain or decorative paper, or kitchen towel rolls. Also look out for stamps, stencils, glue and paint.

lunchboxes and shoes. Getting children to choose or decorate their own labels, in their signature colour of course, can help ensure everything comes home.

The week before school starts, it’s time to cut hair, check for lice and deworm. Children should be dewormed every six months, so do it at the beginning of the year and again half way through. At the same time, deworm your pets and everyone else in the house. The day before school, check that uniforms are ironed and shoes are polished.

school bags Bags should be packed and ready to go the night before school starts. But at the beginning of the holidays, check that school bags are still in good condition and will last for another year. If a new bag is in order, add it to your stationery list. At the same time, ensure you have a lunch bag, lunch containers and a good juice bottle.

uniforms Shop early for school uniforms, says De Grandpre. Make a list of uniform requirements, including PE kits and any extramurals your children will be doing, such as swimming or ballet. If you’re not sure what extramurals they’ll be doing, hold off until you’re certain. For art classes, get an apron or an old T-shirt. If your children need new school shoes, buy these and new white socks early on. Children should wear in shoes over the holidays to prevent first day blisters. If my son is anything to go by, boys will be reluctant to wear shoes any longer than they have to, so let them play or kick a ball, while wearing their shoes.

Don’t forget about labels, advises De Grandpre. Use these on everything, from shirts and blazers to PE kits and bags. Labels can also go on books, stationery, calculators,

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lunchboxes The thought of making lunches for another year may have you quitting before you’re ahead, but providing healthy lunches need not be a hassle. Before planning lunches, ask your children what they like. They could think beans are gross and egg mayo is smelly, or they may just love hummus and veggie sticks.

Christine Phillips, chef and founder of a children’s cooking group, says that lunchboxes should include one portion each of starch, dairy, fruit, vegetables and protein. Phillips suggests mixing it up by using alternatives. Try brown rice wraps or seeded, low GI breads as a starch. Yoghurt, cheese cubes or milk work as dairy. For fruit and vegetables, Phillips says, “buy what is in season, which is more economical

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and adds variety to a diet.” Cubed melon, berries, dried fruit and bananas are good options. Vegetables could include shredded lettuce or baby spinach on a sandwich, pesto, pepper, cucumber or bean salad. Choose lean, unprocessed meats for proteins, but avoid having meat everyday by using cheese, tuna or hardboiled eggs. Nuts are a healthy snack, but find out if they’re allowed in the class or school, as some children have severe nut allergies.

getting organised The more routine your family has, the better, says De Grandpre. Before school starts, set up a schedule that works for each child and put it where they will see it, such as the bedroom or kitchen. Avoid a chaotic timetable by looking at how much children are taking on after school.

De Grandpre suggests talking with your children, possibly before school starts, about what they want to do and what you can cut back on. You may find that they don’t like soccer, or that they would rather prefer trying guitar lessons.

Telling time is a useful skill for older children. Get them an alarm clock or watch and teach them how to tell the time. Get into a routine the week before school starts, by setting the alarm for an early morning hour, without too many snoozes. Turn this into a game, awarding a prize to whoever gets ready first or schedule some exciting early morning outings for this week, such as a harbour ride or breakfast at a pancake house. If they’ve been staying up late during the holidays, children can start going to bed earlier in the last week before school starts.

Set up a homework space, either in a communal area or in the bedroom, and ensure everything children need is there. Put up a pinboard for their schedule or make a funky

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pencil holder with them. This can also be an area to store school bags when children get home, making it easier for them to find their homework.

Whether children are starting school for the first time or returning after a long break, they need to adjust to the school environment. “Discipline children at home, so that they are able to adapt to the structures and expectations of school life,” says Weir. If you establish ground rules for appropriate behaviour at home, and teach children the difference between right and wrong, it will be easier for them to cope at school.

where to go Showing up late on the first day is never a good thing, for children or for parents. Find out which classroom children will be in, and how to get there. If it’s your first year at the school, you may want to do an early morning trial drive, so you know how long it takes to get there, especially taking traffic into account.

lunchbox ideas Christine Phillips, chef and founder of a children’s cook group, suggests the following: • Homemade health bars, oat biscuits or rusks • Popcorn • Bran muffins with grated apple and carrots • Chopped fruit and a small yoghurt (pack a teaspoon) • Pita bread with cheese, gherkins, cherry tomatoes and olives • Chicken Caesar salad (pack a fork) • Shredded chicken, avo and lettuce wrap • Boiled eggs, meatballs, cream cheese, cherry tomatoes and cucumber • Low GI sandwich with hummus, baby spinach and grated carrot • Sliced beef sandwich with chutney and cheese

thinking ahead Keep brains active by encouraging children to think over the holidays. Stimulate them, says Weir, by providing learning opportunities where you can. Plan holiday outings to a local heritage site, learn a new computer skill, make something using your art and crafts drawer or send them into the garden to see what they can learn. Speak to children, and keep them reading and learning.

Armed with my checklist, I am determined to be prepared for the start of the school year. This may mean that I won’t get to freewheel into the holidays, but it does mean that my son and I get to relax into the new school year.

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see the world by bike or barge Holidays do not always have to be conventional.

Child magazine has compiled a list of extraordinary and adventurous destinations that put a new spin on family holiday memories.

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where to go The Canal du Midi runs from Agde, in the Mediterranean, to Toulouse. the adventure The canal is characterised by 42 000 plane trees that line the 241 kilometre waterway, which meanders through the French countryside and past historic towns.

The canal itself is 300 years old, and has been named a Unesco World Heritage Site. The hydraulic engineering used to build the canal is a modern marvel, and is sure to impress any budding engineers as they travel through the 300-plus structures, including locks and bridges. Of note is the round lock at Agde, and the nine-stepped locks at Fonserannes. Also of interest are the towns and cities through which you’ll travel, including the medieval fortified city of Carcassonne and Narbonne, with its Gallo-Roman influences. The smaller towns and villages offer interesting stops along the route, and many tours include visits to chateaux where parents can enjoy a wine

tasting. With the Pyrenees in the distance, and vineyards stretching out along the banks, this is a relaxing, slow way to see the French countryside. Bicycles are often included on the barges, giving you the opportunity to stretch your legs by cycling to local villages or for children to ride alongside the canal. Speak to the tour operator about other activities to keep children busy, such as horse-riding or a game of tennis. for the family This is a popular barging destination with a host of tour operators hiring out barges. Look for a family barge, or one a bit bigger for a larger group. There are also a number of family-friendly tour options, which offer activities to suit your family’s needs. a bit extra The canal is open from March through to November, but you may want to skip July and August, when the waterways can get a bit clogged with traffic. more info visit gobarging.com/family-cruise

biking and barging in the west frisian islands where to go The West Frisian Islands of Texel, Terschelling and Wieringen are a chain of islands that lie on the northern side of the Netherlands. the adventure You can see these parts of the Netherlands on a bike and a barge. Touring this part of the world also allows you to visit the cities of Amsterdam and Enkhuizen, and sail the Wadden Sea. Canals, dykes, lakes and the seashore add to the landscape, as do the familiar sights of windmills and fields of tulips. Tours travel along country roads to old Dutch villages. The museums, mills and cobble-stoned villages offer children the chance to explore. The Commandeurs’ homes in the harbour towns give you an insight into the lives of the captains of the

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old whaling ships. On Texel Island, bird enthusiasts can see a wide variety of bird species. Back on the mainland, the cities of Enkhuizen and Hoorn are both home to impressive harbours dating back to the 17th century. And you can’t visit the Netherlands without tasting the cheeses for which it is known, Edam and Gouda. for the family The paths are easy to cycle and the roads are generally flat. Tours can include a range of activities, from visiting the beach to exploring the forests, dunes and villages. Younger children may enjoy seeing old castles along the route. a bit extra Plan to visit this area in the late spring and summer months. more info visit tripsite.com

children can hang from trees, treasure hunt and just run wild. a bit extra The best time to visit Cambodia is in the winter months from November to February. Although this is the peak of the tourist season, the temperature and humidity levels are lower at this time. more info visit tourismcambodia.com

charter a houseboat on lake taupo where to go Lake Taupo is situated in the northern Island of New Zealand and is the largest freshwater lake in Australasia. the adventure If you look at the mountains to the south of Lake Taupo, you might spot a hobbit. These ominous mountains were featured in The Lord of the Rings trilogy as Mt Doom.

Twelve-metre-long houseboats are available for skippered charters or overnight stays, and can accommodate up to eight people. If the land lovers want to spend the day off the boat you can visit Taupo, the nearby town that features Huka Prawn Park, a six-hectare parkland dedicated to the production of New Zealand prawns and home to Shawn the Prawn; Huka Honey Hive, where you can watch bees in their glass hives; Taupo DeBretts Hot Springs or AC Baths, thermally heated swimming pools or the Whitewater World River Adventure HQ Experience, a 4D simulator that will enable you to experience a helicopter flight and whitewaterrafting. There are a number of easy to difficult biking trails around the great lake, along the Waikato River waterway and in the nearby Pureora Forest Park. for the family There are shorter loops of 5km or 8km in the Forest Park. Bikes are available to hire. a bit extra You can also enjoy jet boat rides, quad biking, mountain boarding, windsurfing, hot pools, hydroslides, hiking, kayaking, bungee jumping, mountain biking, swimming, water skiing, skydiving, fishing and golf. more info visit taupoexplorer.co.nz or nzcycletrail.com magazine pretoria

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where to go The Temple of Angkor Wat is approximately a five-hour bus journey to the north, from the capital Phnom Penh. the adventure The site of Angkor in Cambodia is the largest religious monument in the world and is comprised of the Temple of Angkor Wat and, at Angkor Thom, the Bayon Temple with countless sculptural decorations. Once the centre of the Khmer Kingdom, it is now a Unesco World Heritage Site. Bicycles can be hired in the town of Siem Reap and you can join a tour to the temples or go on your own and enjoy it at your own pace. The temples are easy to find and the 12km road you take to get to them is flat. An alternative way to view the temples is from a distance in a hot-air balloon at sunrise or sunset. When visiting the temples try to dress respectfully by covering your shoulders and not wearing shorts. Festivals to watch out for in Cambodia include Bon Om Tuk (Water festival) in November or the Khmer New Year celebrated in April. for the family Just 40km away is the Beng Mealea Temple, where children of all ages can have a true Indiana Jones experience.

The temple has been left untouched, and

glacier cruise where to go Southeast Alaska the adventure On a cruise through the wilderness of southeast Alaska you should expect to see Leviathan whales, countless eagles, bears catching wild salmon, sea lions, porpoises and various seabirds too numerous to count.

Highlights of the Alaskan adventure are seeing calving glaciers, walking through old-growth rain forests, sea kayaking, strolling along secluded beaches and seeing incredible land, air and sea wildlife.

The best time to visit is between May and September.

for the family This destination is great for families with children as young as eight years old. Accommodating up to a mere 12 guests, these small ships find remote passages that larger cruise ships cannot access. ROW’s adventure cruises are joined by expert naturalist guides who will share knowledge of the local flora and fauna, and the natural and cultural history of this remarkable place. a bit extra ROW Adventures was winner of the 2012 National Geographic “Tours of a Lifetime”. more info visit rowadventures.com

some local spots biking Cape Town’s Wine Route There are several biking routes in and around Cape Town to choose from. You can opt for tours in Stellenbosch, through the Devon Valley, Franschhoek or the Durbanville Hills, where cyclists can travel through winelands. Stop at the vineyards, where you can sample wine, or find a spot to enjoy lunch and let the children run around.

Dinokeng Nature Reserve A cycling safari provides cyclists with the chance to see wildlife, birdlife and nature up close. Situated just north of Pretoria, Dinokeng offers various cycling and MTB trails, along with tours of Cullinan, hot-air balloon rides, scuba diving and more.

The Wild Coast Ride along the Eastern Cape coastline, with trails starting in Port Edward, and moving through Msikaba, Port St John’s, Umngazi and Coffee Bay. The changing landscape offers beaches, waterfalls and cliff faces, and difficulty levels will depend on the route chosen.

barging Knysna Lagoon Hire a houseboat and spend your holiday gently cruising around the lagoon, finding sunny beaches or letting the children ride a tube behind the boat. The area also offers hiking, the chance to meet elephants, and a variety of nearby shops and markets.

The Vaal River Float along the Vaal in a houseboat, taking in the sights of the wetlands, enjoying a braai on board or docking at a restaurant for dinner. Whether you’re looking to fish, or just enjoy a gentle cruise, this destination offers a variety of activities.

Langebaan In the West Coast National Park, at Kraalbaai, you can rent houseboats for a family getaway of fishing, swimming, skiing, tubing, walking, hiking, bird-watching, beach fun or simply relaxing on board.

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Your guide to the holiday season’s festivities. Compiled by SIMONE JEFFERY.

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FUN FOR CHILDREN – p27

ONLY FOR PARENTS – p32

Kamers vol Geskenke This is a visual and creative feast of handmade and crafted products.

The Magic Flute Die Zauberflöte is a two-act opera that has been adapted for Star Wars garb.

bump, baby & tot in tow – p32

how to help – p32

Pregnancy education workshop Find out about baby development, diet issues, screening tests and more.

“I am literacy” bracelets Proceeds benefit the South African Rugby Union’s Boks for Books initiative.

SPECIAL EVENTS – p27 Festive parade at The Grove Mall Join the parade of colourful characters as they wind through the mall.

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of lanterns. Accommodation is not available at the temple. The lanterns are released at 10pm, with a fireworks show following at midnight. Time: 10pm. Venue: Nan Hua Temple, 27 Nan Hua Rd, Cultura Park, Bronkhorstspruit. Cost: free entry, lanterns vary. Contact: 013 931 0009, info@nanhua. co.za or visit en.nanhuatemple.org

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december 2013 1 sunday Carols in the botanical gardens Join the Bala Brothers and the Fielding Band Foundation to start the festive season.

Santa arrives at 7pm. Collection bins for donations to selected charities are available. Time: gates open 5pm, carols 6pm–8pm. Venue: Pretoria National Botanical Gardens, 2 Cussonia Ave, Brummeria. Cost: adults R50 pre-sale, R70 at the gate, children under 13 free.

Contact: 012 843 5202, e.adams@sanbi. org.za or visit sanbi.org.za Run of the Roses Run or walk the 8km or 3,8km route through the roses.

Time: race starts at 8am. Venue: Ludwig’s Rose Farm, N1 Polokwane highway going north, Wallmannstahl/Pyramid offramp No 163. Cost: adults R69, children R46. Contact: 082 954 9628 or André: 082 490 5061, babas@wol.co.za or visit francosport.co.za

3 tuesday Nedbank Golf Challenge Things are going to get tense at this year’s challenge with a change in the format, increased prize money, and the addition of official World Golf Ranking points.

Comedians and bands perform daily at the end of the day’s play, from 4:15pm–7pm.

Ends 8 December. Time: 10am. Venue: Gary Player Country Club, Sun City, North West. Cost: adults R80–R200, teenagers free–R100, children free. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit nedbankgolfchallenge.com

4 wednesday Jacaranda 94.2 Christmas Carols An evening of traditional Christmas carols with some of South Africa’s top performers, including Loyiso Bala, Nianell, the Mzansi Youth Choir and others. Time: gates open 4pm, the concert starts 7pm. Venue: SuperSport Park, Centurion. Cost: free, bring a toy to donate to charity. Contact: 011 063 5700 or visit jacarandafm.com

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7 saturday Gerber Gear Mud Run Conquer the 12km (18 years or older) or 5km (8 years or older) trail run with various obstacles to get you down and dirty. You need to be relatively fit as the obstacles are quite tough. Enter at Trappers Trading stores in Fourways, Northgate, Boksburg, Cradle Stone or Kolonnade Centre. For children 8 years and older. Time: starts 7:30am. Venue: Avianto Clubhouse, R114, Muldersdrift. Cost: adults R300, children R80. For more info: visit mudrunner.co.za Our summer skies Explore the universe with Maropeng’s resident astronomer.

Discover some amazing facts about the life cycles of the stars. All ages. Time: 5:30pm.

Venue: meet at reception, Maropeng, Cradle of Humankind. Cost: adults R230, children 4–14 years old R145. Contact: 014 577 9000 or visit maropeng.co.za

8 sunday All aboard with Santa While the steam train makes its way to Cullinan, children are treated to a special visit by Santa. He passes out sweets and gifts that have been handed in by the parents prior to departure.

Booking essential. Also 15 and 16 December.

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6 friday Festive parade at The Grove Mall Join the mall’s Christmas ballerina and her toy soldiers and their friends, the gingerbread men and Santa, for a festive parade and night market. Time: 4pm–7pm. Venue: The Grove Mall, cnr Lynnwood Rd and Simon Vermooten Rd, Equestria, Pretoria East. Cost: free. Contact: 012 807 0963, marketing@thegrovemall.co.za or visit thegrovemall.co.za One-day mosaic workshop Enjoy a relaxing morning and create a beautiful mosaic artwork. Choose from a variety of project options. Also 7 December and 25 January. For adults and children 10 years and older. Time: 10am–1pm.

Venue: Koedoeberg Rd, Faerie Glen. Cost: R240 (excludes materials). Contact: 071 675 2030 info@artangels.co.za or visit artangels.co.za magazine pretoria

Wag a walk A fundraising dog walk organised by the Tshwane SPCA. 18 January.

Time: registration from 7am–9am.

Venue: Smuts House Museum, Jan Smuts Ave, Irene. Cost: R20 per person, R10 per dog. Contact Korky: 012 664 5644, admin@spcapta.org. za or visit spcapta.org.za

Time: departs 8:30am, scheduled return 6pm. Venue: Hermanstad Railway Station, 152 Miechaelson St, Daspoort. Cost: adults R200, pensioners R175, teenagers R150, children 7–12 years old R125, children 2–6 years old R100. Contact: 012 767 7913, 082 098 6186, sales@friendsoftherail.com or visit friendsoftherail.com

11 wednesday Children at play The main promotions court has been transformed into a play area with activities, including Lego, face painting, storytelling, magic shows and a space to write letters or have your photos taken with Santa. Ends 24 December.

Time: 10am–4pm, daily. Venue: Woodlands Boulevard, cnr Garsfontein Rd and De Villebois Mareuil Dr, Pretoria East. Cost: free entry. Contact: 012 997 9460 or visit woodlandsboulevard.co.za

14 saturday Christmas at Atterbury Value Mart Have your photo taken with Santa; build in the Lego play area; and try out the water walkers. Photos with Santa 14–24 December; Lego play area and water walkers 16–24 December; meet the Atterbury Fairies 14, 16, 20 and 21 December. Time: photos with Santa 10am–4pm; Lego 10am–3pm; water walkers 9am–6pm, Monday–Friday; 9am–5pm, Saturday; 9am–2pm, Sunday and public holidays. Venue: Atterbury Value Mart, cnr Selicats Rd and Atterbury Rd, Faerie Glen. Cost: all activities free except water walkers. Contact: 012 991 4744 or visit atterburyvaluemart.co.za Oppiplaas Music Festival A line-up of South African artists perform, such as Steve Hofmeyr, DJ Ossewa, Nadine, Gerard Steyn and more. You can also sing carols with Sonya Herholdt on Christmas Eve, and welcome in the New Year with Pieter Koen.

Ends 4 January. Time: varies. Venue: Badplaas Forever Resort, R38, between Carolina and Barberton, Badplaas in Mpumalanga. Cost: day visitors: adults R130, children R45–R90, R40 per vehicle; concerts vary. Contact Louise: 017 844 8000, badplaas@foreversa. co.za or visit foreverbadplaas.co.za

31 tuesday New Year’s Eve sky lantern offering The Buddhist temple conducts a ceremony in the main temple to welcome the New Year with a fireworks show and the release

Roode 1 000 Swim An open water swim with distances for the whole family, from a fun 600m swim to a 1 000m swim in age categories, and a 1 500m swim for advanced swimmers of all ages.

Life-savers and water police are on hand.

Disabled swimmers are welcome. The event contributes to the South African Guide Dogs Association for the Blind. Time: 8am–2pm.

Venue: Baja Dam, Bronkhorstspruit Dam. Cost: 1 500m swim R180, 1 000m swim R150, 600m swim R30 (includes a Roode swim cap). Contact Daniela: 083 260 8542, daniela@roode1000swim.co.za or visit roode1000swim.co.za

28 tuesday Me-Nuts Like2Bike cycling series The 2014 series kicks off with a duathlon where children have the option of completing a 1km run followed by a 5km cycle, or a 2km run and 10km cycle, or just the stand alone cycle. There will be six child-friendly events throughout the year focused to get children on their bikes and fostering a love for the sport. For children 2–14 years old.

Time: starts 8:30am. Venue: The Big Red Barn, Olifantsfontein. Cost: R120. Contact: 083 326 6721, kirsty@like2bike.co.za or visit like2bike.co.za

FUN FOR CHILDREN art, culture and science Hartebeesthoek Radio Astronomy Take a tour of this working observatory and learn more about radio astronomy and the Space Geodesy Research currently being conducted there. You need to bring your own refreshments. Space is limited. 7 December.

Time: 4pm–8pm. Venue: HartRAO, farm 502 JQ Hartebeesthoek, Broedestroom Rd, Krugersdorp. Cost: adults R45, students and pensioners R35, preschool children free.

Contact: 012 301 3100, info@hartrao.ac.za or visit hartrao.ac.za

classes, talks and workshops Christmas chocolate workshop During a two-and-a-half hour session children create Christmas decorations in chocolate, write a chocolate scroll with a Christmas message, paint chocolate moulds and garnish a mini pizza with chocolate. Booking essential. For children 8–13 years old. Chocolate holiday workshop: 5, 10, 13, 14 and 18 December; standard workshops: 3, 4, 10 and 11 January. Time: varies. Venue: Snyman Sjokolateur, Waterkloof Ridge. Cost: R120 per day (bring your own drinks and salty treats). Contact: 012 347 8497, 074 140 1087 or visit snymanchocolates.com December 2013 / January 2014

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Kids Craft Club A fun, educational craft club for children 5–15 years old. 24–31 January. Time: 2pm–4pm, every Friday.

Venue: Art Angels, Koedoeberg Rd, Faerie Glen. Cost: R450 per month (three classes), R150 per class. Contact: 071 675 2030, info@artangels.co.za or visit artangels.co.za Little chefs in training Children express their creativity in the kitchen and learn to measure, weigh and count as they make simple recipes. On Monday, children make pizza and plant tomatoes. On Tuesday they bake and decorate cupcakes and create a craft. For children 3–8 years old. 9 and 10 December. Time: 9am–1pm.

Venue: Little Cooks Club Pretoria North East, 8 Applewood Village, 90 Kwikkieweg, Kameeldrift. Cost: R220 per class. Contact: 082 879 1002 or monicab@ littlecooksclub.co.za

family outings Festive photos Capture a cherished moment at the photo area in the promotions court and spend time in the mini play area. Father Christmas visits on selected days. 16–24 December. Time: 9am–7pm, Monday–Friday; 9am–6pm, Saturday; 9am–5pm, Sunday. Venue: The Grove Mall, cnr Lynnwood Rd and Simon Vermooten Rd, Equestria. Cost: varies. Contact: 012 807 0963, marketing@thegrovemall.co.za or visit thegrovemall.co.za Menlyn Park Taste of Christmas The festival features a range of artisan producers, top-notch ingredients and boutique suppliers all showcasing their finest wares and giving you a one-stop shop for everything you need to make this festive season a memorable one. From cheese, food and wine for your Christmas table and essential ingredients to gifts for the foodie who has everything, and festive ideas for a new way of doing things. All ages. 29 November–1 December. Time: 9am–9pm, Friday; 9am–7pm, Saturday;

9am–5pm, Sunday. Venue: Menlyn Park Shopping Centre, cnr Atterbury Rd and Lois Ave, Menlo Park. Cost: free. Contact: 011 463 0355 or visit tasteofchristmas.co.za Rooihuiskraal Historical Terrain and Animal Farm A national monument and animal farm with children’s playground, picnic area, braai facilities, two barns and a lapa for private functions. Time: 8am–4pm, daily. Venue: Rooihuiskraal Rd. Cost: adults R25, children R9–R15.

Contact: 012 661 4284

finding nature and outdoor play Chameleon Village Lion Park The new park offers visitors a glimpse at both tigers and lions. Time: 9am–5pm, daily.

Venue: Chameleon Village, off the R104, Hartbeespoort Dam. Cost: wildlife viewing tour: adults R100, children 6–10 years old R50, children up to 5 years free; day visit: adults R100, children 6–10 years old R50.

Contact Dirk: 073 183 1795 or ovati@ lantic.net Pipsqueaks on ponies A sleepover pony camp for children 5 years and older. Day campers are welcome. 4 and 5, 16–18 December. Time: 7:30am–5pm. Venue: Mazz Vaulting and Riding Club, 150 Tulip Rd, Mnandi, Centurion. Cost: 4 and 5 December: R700; 16–18 December: R1 100, includes meals. Contact: 083 602 2713, fernanda@centurionhorseriding. co.za or visit centurionhorseriding.co.za

holiday programmes Esperanza pony camp Children are responsible for their allocated horse and stable throughout the camp. They ride, groom and clean the horse and stable.

Apart from their responsibilities, they also go on outrides and pony cart rides, roast marshmallows over a camp fire, and take part in quizzes and games. Booking essential. For children 5 years and older.

Children 7 years and older are able to sleep over. 9–13 December. Time: 7am–5pm.

Venue: Esperanza Riding School, plot 588 Mooiplaats, Pretoria East. Cost: R250 per day, R350 to sleep over, includes all meals. Contact Marina: 076 184 5660, esperanzaridingschool@yahoo.com or visit esperanzaridingschool.co.za Family Corner holiday programme Kick off the holidays with a programme in Glenstantia Library. On Wednesday children are treated to a special story time, and on

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Busy in the kitchen Young budding chefs can take part in a fun, hands-on programme that teaches them to create decadent treats like cinnamon rolls or cranberry cookies and hot chocolate. Booking essential. For children 2–6 years old and 7–14 years old. Ends 14 December. Time: 2:30pm, Monday–Wednesday; 9am–11am, Saturday. Venue: Little Cooks Club Pretoria East, Olympus Country Estate, No 6 Olympus Ridge, 36 Ajax Rd, Faerie Glen. Cost: 2–6 years old R95; 7–14 years old R200. Contact Bridget: 082 896 1758, bridgetk@littlecooksclub.co.za or visit littlecooksclub.co.za

Thursday they create festive Christmas cards. Booking essential. For children 5–12 years old. 11 and 12 December. Time: 10am–11:30am. Venue: cnr De Villabois Mareuil Dr and Hesketh Dr, Moreleta Park.

Cost: R20 per day. Contact: 012 998 6210 or visit familycorner.co.za Kinderland Fun Club Children get crafty in the mornings creating Christmas decorations, wrapping paper, finger puppets, recycled art and more. In the afternoons they slip on their aprons and head to the kitchen to make biscuits, toffee-apples, pizza, sugarloop necklaces and more. There is also time for free play. For children 18 months–10 years old. 4–20 December; 6–14 January.

Time: 7am–5pm, Monday–Friday. Venue: Kinderland Party Venue, 214 Meerlust St, Equestria. Cost: R150 per child per day, includes breakfast and lunch. Contact: 082 680 1368, annalizelouw@hotmail.com or visit kinderlandpv.co.za NZG holiday programme Children learn more about birds, reptiles, mammals and monkeys during the interactive courses that take place throughout the holidays.

Courses are offered in Afrikaans and in English. Booking essential. For children 7–13 years old. 5–20 December; 6–10 January. Time: 8am–4pm. Venue: National Zoological Gardens, 232 Boom St, Pretoria.

Cost: R100 per learner; R250 Junior Nature Conservator. Contact Karabo: 012 339 2773, karabo@nzg.ac.za or visit nzg.ac.za The Buzz Zone holiday programme An exciting variety of art and craft activities keep your child busy. Booking essential. For children 6 years and older. 5–20 December; 8–14 January. Time: 7:20am–5:30pm, Monday–Friday. Venue: The Buzz Zone Holiday Centre, 916 Saint Bernard Dr, Garsfontein. Cost: R100 half-day; R120 full day; R500 for the week. Contact: 012 993 0277 or visit thebuzzzone.co.za The Little Party Place holiday programme A holiday programme where children are able to experience different adventures and meet new friends. Activities include dance, science, cookery, crafts, music and more. Instructions are in English and in Afrikaans. Booking essential. For children 3–6 years old. 9–20 December; 6–11 January.

Time: 7:30am–5:15pm. Venue: The Little Party Place, plot 14 Lynnwood Rd, next to magazine pretoria

Safari Nursery, Lynnwood. Cost: R160 per day. Contact: 074 581 0535, info@littleparty. co.za or visit littleparty.co.za West View holiday club A week of activities, crafts and fun in the world of “Disney Planes”. For children 4–13 years old. Holiday programme: 9–13 December; Christmas carols service: 1 December.

Time: 8am–1:30pm (gates open 7am); carols: 6pm. Venue: West View Methodist Church, cnr Tortelduif St and Willem Botha Ave. Cost: R30 per day, includes snacks, lunch and supplies. Contact: 084 586 7267 or josua@westview.org.za

markets Acasa’s Christmas Market The Arts and Crafts Association of South Africa’s annual market offers visitors an array of stalls selling handmade products, as well as food stalls and craft workshops from Thursday–Saturday. Children can try their hand at ceramic painting, and mosaics, and make their own Christmas decorations.

2–14 December. Time: 10am–6pm, Monday–Wednesday; 10am–7pm, Thursday; 10am–8pm, Friday; 8am–3pm, Saturday.

Venue: Centurion Art Gallery, cnr Cantonments Rd and Unie Ave, Centurion.

Cost: free entry. Contact: 082 465 0494, sacraftassociation@gmail.com or visit artsandcraftssa.co.za Baby’s first Christmas morning market Come as a family for a special party to celebrate the magic of baby’s first Christmas. Have a memorable photo

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mon Virgin Active Kids Holiday Camp A fun and engaging way to keep your child entertained and active this holiday season. The camp offers fun group fitness activities, basic art and crafts, and interactive PlayStation games where possible.

For children 3–7 years old. Ends 13 December. Time: varies per club. Venue: at Virgin Active Clubs across Gauteng. Cost: free to Virgin Active Club V members.

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taken with Santa, and browse the craft stalls for gifts and stocking fillers. Food is on sale.

7 December. Time: 9am–1pm. Venue: West View Methodist Church, 83 Tortelduif St, Centurion. Cost: free; photo with Santa R50.

Contact Jaclyn: jaclynturley@gmail.com Candlelight markets The choices are numerous at the Hazel Food Market’s evening affair. Try the pine needle juice from Little Eden Farmers, a freshly brewed cuppa from Bean There Coffee Company, a divine burger from the Balkan Grill, or something sweet from Sweet Angels Fudge. As you make your way past the 70 quality food stalls, your children can visit the Children’s Corner where there’s a jungle gym, a jumping castle and supervised activities. 7 December. Time: 5pm–9pm. Venue: Greenlyn Village Centre, cnr Mackenzie St and 13th St, Menlo Park. Cost: free entry. Contact: 083 554 5636, info@hazelfoodmarket.co.za or visit hazelfoodmarket.co.za Irene Village Market Offers over 300 stalls of art and antiques, numerous food stalls and a licensed tea garden with a children’s entertainment area. 7, 14 and 16 December. Time: 9am–2pm. Venue: Smuts House Museum, Jan Smuts Ave, Irene. Cost: free entry. Contact: 012 667 1659, irenemkt@mweb.co.za or visit irenemarket.co.za Kamers vol geskenke A visual and creative feast of handmade and crafted products that have been carefully selected

from around the country. Take your pick from the originally designed jewellery, gourmet food products, ceramics, soft furnishings, decor accessories, garden gear, designer clothing and accessories.

3–8 December. Time: 9am–6pm, daily; 9am–8pm, Friday. Venue: Open Window School of Communication, John Vorster Dr Ext, East Southdowns, Irene. Cost: R50.

Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit kamersvol.com Nickel Xmas Market Shop for your Christmas gifts and stocking fillers at the 100-plus stalls selling quality handmade products. Proceeds from the market benefit the Paul Jungnickel Home for adults with disabilities. There is a play area and a tea garden. 29 November–16 December. Time: 9am–6pm. Venue: Paul Jungnickel Home, plot 214, Lynnwood Rd, ext Graham Rd,

7, 14 and 16 December – Irene Village Market

Zwavelpoort. Cost: free entry. Contact Natalie: 012 940 0221, natalie@kwo.org. za or visit kwo.org.za Wow Wee Market This is an exciting new market with a variety of goodies and a playground for children. Products include educational toys, art and crafts, clothing and food. 1 and 8 December.

Time: 9am–2pm. Venue: end of Willroux St, Annlin. Cost: free entry. Contact: 076 821 3846 or wowweemarket@gmail.com

on stage and screen Abominable Christmas Book for this Christmas-themed animated movie about two abominable snow children, who are chased from their mountain hideaway and forced to spend Christmas with humans.

They come to understand the meaning of Christmas as they help the family learn to appreciate each other. The film features the voices of Emilio Estevez, Ray Liotta and Matthew Lilliard. 21 December.

Time: 10:40am. On the Disney Channel, on DStv channel 303. For more info: visit dstv.com Fairytale Adventures Children are whisked away to a land of castles and princesses, where they meet interesting characters dressed in beautiful outfits from magical moments in six of their favourite fairytales.

13, 14 and 16 December. Time: 2pm, Friday, Saturday and Monday; 10:30am, Saturday. Venue: Barnyard Theatre Parkview, Parkview Shopping Centre,

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cnr Garsfontein Rd and Netcare St, Moreleta Park. Cost: R65. Contact: 012 368 1555 or visit barnyardtheatre.co.za Frozen 3D Walt Disney Animation Studios presents a comedy adventure in which the fearless Anna (Kristen Bell) sets off on an epic journey to find her sister, Elsa (Idina Menzel), who has trapped the kingdom of Arendelle in an eternal winter.

Premieres 20 December. Time: varies.

Venue: cinemas nationwide. Cost: varies per cinema. For more info: visit numetro. co.za or sterkinekor.com George and the Giant Sweet Factory When George hears that a sweet factory is opening in Pretoria, he desperately wants to be given the opportunity to go inside, but his name has to be drawn and he needs to enter by placing his Leprechaun token in the draw bin. Great

adventures wait for him as he enters the giant sweet factory and meets the magical leprechauns. Booking essential. All ages. 30 November–14 December. Time: 10am and 3pm; 13 and 14 December: 7pm. Venue: Irene Village Theatre, 2 Pioneer Rd, Irene, Centurion. Cost: cushions R60, chairs R80.

Contact: 012 667 2723, 084 804 0490, tshwaneyouththeatre@gmail.com or visit pytheatre.co.za Henry Hugglemonster Christmas Special In this special Christmas episode, Henry is more excited than ever about Hugglemas.

It’s his turn to switch on Daddo’s famous lights, but when he is accidentally trapped in the Enormomonsters’ house it looks like he might miss out. Can he escape in time for the big event? 21 December. Time: 9:35am on Disney Junior, channel 309 on DStv. For more info: visit dstv.com

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Sleeping Beauty on Ice The talented Imperial Ice Stars present a production of Sleeping Beauty, which portrays the timeless fairytale through high-speed leaps and throws, graceful ice dancing, acrobatics and aerial gymnastics, stilt skating and spectacular visual effects. The stage of the Teatro is transformed into a temporary ice rink with a staggering 14 tonnes of ice to accommodate the 26 skaters. 5 December–12 January. Time: 7:30pm, Tuesday–Saturday; 2:30pm, Saturday; 2pm and 6pm, Sunday. Venue: The Teatro at Montecasino, cnr William Nicol Dr and Witkoppen Rd, Fourways. Cost: R100– R400, family discount packages available.

Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit computicket.com Tshwane Youth Theatre puppet show Saving Christmas is a magical, upbeat story that teaches children about the wonderful spirit of Christmas through a variety of fun, colourful characters. 10 and 12 December. Time: 9:30am and 11:30am. Venue: Irene Village Theatre, 2 Pioneer Rd, Irene, Centurion. Cost: R50.

Contact: 012 667 2723, 084 804 0490, tshwaneyouththeatre@gmail.com or visit pytheatre.co.za Walking with Dinosaurs See and feel what it was like when dinosaurs roamed the earth. This animated film uses computeranimated dinosaurs in live action settings to put audiences in the middle of a prehistoric world where an underdog dino

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becomes a hero. Premieres 20 December.

Time: varies. Venue: cinemas nationwide.

Cost: varies per cinema. For more info: visit walkingwithdinosaurs.com/movie

playtime and story time Happy holidays at Montecasino There is a playground in the outdoor piazza, with an inflatable twister, that offers activities such as sand art, pick-and-paint ceramics, a human bowling alley and many more games. For children 2–14 years old. 13–22 December. Time: 10am–5pm, Friday– Monday; 12pm–4pm, Tuesday–Thursday.

Venue: Montecasino outdoor event arena, cnr William Nicol Dr and Witkoppen Rd, Fourways. Cost: free entry; costs for activities vary. Contact: 011 510 7995 or visit montecasino.co.za

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Time: 9am–5pm, daily. Venue: Chameleon Village, off the R104, Hartbeespoort Dam. Cost: R20. Contact: 083 320 5525, 082 605 8870, kobus.horn@yahoo.com or visit pettingfarm.co.za

Time: 9am–5pm, daily. Venue: Mungolistix, upper level of Centurion Mall, John Vorster Dr, Centurion. Cost: R40 per child per hour.

Contact: 074 122 2787, info@mungolistix. co.za or visit mungolistix.co.za

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sport and physical activities ASG Night Series This mountain bike and trail run series takes participants past rosemary fields and dams, across streams and through indigenous vegetation.

Children under 10 must be accompanied by an adult on the 5km children’s race.

You are able to enter on the day, but space is limited. 5 December. Time: 4pm–10pm.

Venue: Rosemary Hill. Cost: main race R120, trail run R65, children’s race R30.

Contact: 012 751 4130, walt@asgworld. co.za or visit asgevents.co.za Holiday swimming course This is a swimming camp for beginners and those wanting to correct their stroke. Booking essential. For children 3 years and older.

2–13 December. Time: 9am–6pm, Monday– Friday. Venue: Centurion Swimming and Aqua Centre, cnr Lenchen St and Migmatite St, Zwartkop Ext 8, Centurion. Cost: R800 for the course. Contact: 012 663 6035, 082 463 6525, centurionswim@vodamail. co.za or visit centurionswim.co.za Zoo fun walk An early 5km walk around a few of the animal enclosures inside the zoo.

The walk starts at 6:30am and you must be at the finish line before 9am. All ages.

7 December. Time: 6am. Venue: National Zoological Gardens, 232 Boom St, Pretoria.

Cost: adults R40, children R25. Contact: 012 323 0294, info@friendsofthezoo.co.za or visit nzg.ac.za

only for parents classes, talks and workshops Jodhpurs and riding crops An intensive horse camp experience for adults and teenagers 15 years and older. 9–13 December. Time: from 7:30am. Venue: Mazz Vaulting and Riding Club, 150 Tulip Rd, Mnandi, Centurion. Cost: R3 000, all inclusive. Contact: 083 602 2713, fernanda@centurionhorseriding.co.za or visit centurionhorseriding.co.za Rebozo workshop This six-hour workshop is for doulas, midwives and other caregivers in the birthing field. You will learn about the history of the rebozo and how to use it to provide relaxation, comfort and strength to the in-labour couple. Wear comfortable clothes and take a yoga mat as you will be kneeling, standing and squatting quite a bit. Booking essential. 7 and 8 December. Time: 8am–5pm. Venue: Gentle Presence at Ladybird Corner, 24 12th Ave, north parking, Linksfield Netcare Hospital. Cost: tbc. Contact: 083 310 8162, annemarie@gentlepresence.co.za or visit gentlepresence.co.za

Little Miracle support for prem babies

been performing Elvis tributes since 1999.

He has perfected everything from facial expressions to speech and vocals. 16 January–2 February. Time: 8pm, Thursday– Saturday; 3pm, Sunday. Venue: Mandela Theatre at Joburg Theatre Complex, 163 Civic Boulevard, Braamfontein. Cost: R100– R250. Book through the Joburg Theatre: 0861 670 670 or visit joburgtheatre.com Gustavo Romero’s New Year’s Eve Gala International concert pianist Gustavo Romero is flown in from the US to play a festive programme of piano showpieces, including Strauss waltz transcriptions, Rachmaninov, Ravel and more. The concert ends at midnight with champagne on the deck. 31 December. Time: 10pm. Venue: Brooklyn Theatre, Greenlyn Village Centre, cnr Thomas Edison St and 13th St, Menlo Park. Cost: R300. Contact: 012 460 6033 or visit brooklyntheatre.co.za Mzansi Fela Festival A music, theatre, dance, comedy and poetry festival that represents the diversity of arts in our country.

Acts include Paul Hamner, Gloria Bosman, Badimo Jazz Band, The Soil, The Muffinz, Micasa and Parlotones. 1–15 December.

Time: varies. Venue: The South African State Theatre, 320 Pretorius St, Pretoria CBD. Cost: R20–R350. Book through Computicket: 0861 915 8000 or visit statetheatre.co.za Salon Music Christmas Concert A typical Dutch and Alpine Christmas concert with short compositions being performed on guitars, Swiss Bells, an organ and more.

29 November–1 December. Time: 8pm, Friday–Saturday; 3pm, Sunday. Venue: Brooklyn Theatre, Greenlyn Village Centre, cnr Thomas Edison St and 13th St, Menlo Park. Cost: R75–R140. Contact: 012 460 6033, info@brooklyntheatre.co.za or visit brooklyntheatre.co.za The Magic Flute Mozart’s Magic Flute, or Die Zauberflöte, is an opera in two acts that is accompanied by an instrumental arrangement by Willem Vogel. Kobie van Rensburg has adapted the opera for Star Wars garb. 12, 15, 17, 19, 22 and 24 January. Time: 8pm, Wednesday and Friday; 3pm, Sunday. Venue: Brooklyn Theatre, Greenlyn Village Centre, cnr Thomas Edison St and 13th St, Menlo Park. Cost: R155–R290. Contact: 012 460 6033 or visit brooklyntheatre.co.za

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support groups

Elvis, the Show Relive the magic of the king of rock and roll with Texas-born Elvis impersonator Nathan Belt, who has

Bipolar Support Group A welcoming environment in which to share your experiences and listen to others in the

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same boat. Speakers to be confirmed.

2 December and 27 January. Time: 6:30pm. Venue: Lions Community Centre, 9 Umgazi Rd, Menlo Park. Cost: R20.

Contact Francois: 082 990 7074 Heart and Stroke Health Line Helpful dieticians are on hand to answer your questions regarding heart and stroke conditions and to offer tips on maintaining a healthy lifestyle, changing your diet, incorporating exercise into your routine and how to quit smoking. You can also enquire about stroke support groups in your area.

Lines are open from 8am–4pm, Monday– Friday. Contact: 0860 1 HEART (0860 1 43278) or visit heartfoundation.co.za

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classes, talks and workshops Pregnancy Education Workshop This workshop is ideally suited to women in the first 16 weeks of their pregnancy. Find out how your baby is developing, common pregnancy problems, diet issues, screening tests and more. The workshop is presented by a qualified nurse. A tour of the maternity ward is also available. 22 January. Time: 3:30pm–5:30pm. Venue: Netcare Montana Hospital, cnr Dr Swanepoel St and Rooibos St, Montana Park. Cost: free. Contact Christina: 012 523 3008, christina.moutinho@netcare. co.za or visit netcare.co.za Toptots workshop Be a part of your child’s development while having fun with other moms. For children 3 months–4 years old. Starts 18 January. Time: varies. Venue: branches across Gauteng. Cost: varies.

Contact: 082 876 7791, info@toptots.co.za or visit toptots.co.za

Famsa Pretoria Assistance to families and individuals who need counselling. Contact: 012 460 0733/8, famsa@absamail.co.za or visit famsapretoria.co.za Little Miracle Products and Services Offers specialised baby products for low birth weight and premature infants, as well as an emotional support service for parents. Venue: 1242 Haarhoff St East, Moregloed. Contact: 0861 548 853, info@ littlemiracle.co.za or visit littlemiracle.co.za Pierre Robin Sequence Foundation This is a registered non-profit organisation that has been established to support families and individuals affected by Pierre Robin Sequence (PRS) and its associated syndromes. The priority and focus is to provide financial assistance for children requiring facial cranial reconstructive surgery. Contact Leigh: 082 410 3197, info@pierrerobin.org.za or visit pierrerobin.org.za

how to help “I am literacy” bracelets Proceeds from the sale of bracelets benefit SARU’s Boks for Books initiative, which supplies 23 fully stocked mobile or refurbished libraries a year to previously disadvantaged schools.

Available to purchase at selected CNA stores, Exclusive Books, Look & Listen, Norman Goodfellows and online. Cost: R40. For more info: visit thebeadco.co.za Pathways Eco warriors PathwaysPretoria is a non-profit organisation that provides education to learners with moderate to severe disabilities and provides small business opportunities for young adults living with disabilities. They welcome recyclable products to use for their Kids4Kids project, which teaches women to make toys and educational material from bottle-tops, egg holders, empty two-litre bottles and lots more.

To find out what items you can collect, contact: 082 866 7112, info@ptapathways. co.za or visit ptapathways.co.za

playtime and story time Munchkins at Mungolistix An indoor play park that gives children the space to let off steam while parents relax in the coffee shop. There is a two level, padded jungle gym, a ball pond, double slides, netted trampoline, swings and a mini basketball hoop. Caretakers are available on weekends. For children 0–7 years old.

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holiday wish lists Christmas comes early and ANÉL LEWIS is left to decide what

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know that when those first Santashaped marshmallows start to appear between the dried fruit sticks in my local store – about three days after Valentine’s Day – it’s time to start thinking about Christmas gifts.

For us, it’s a double whammy, as Erin also celebrates her birthday on the 25th of December.

I make a big effort to keep her birthday gifts separate from the ones wrapped in green, red and gold, so that she gets to celebrate both occasions.

Conor was too young to really get into the whole present thing last year. He enjoyed sitting on a few of the brightly wrapped packages, but that was about it.

So I have really been looking forward to giving him gifts this year, as at the age of almost two he now has a clear sense of what is his, and what he enjoys.

But a few days ago, I woke up at 5am to the sound of heavy machinery being dragged across the floor. I almost hit the panic button, but then I spied a nozzle peeping around the corner of our bedroom door.

And a few seconds later, a red-faced and breathless Conor also appeared, pulling our vacuum cleaner.

So much for the 145-piece construction block set I was thinking of getting him for Christmas, or the remote-controlled car my mom has her eyes on.

I tried to pry his chubby little fingers off the machine, but there was no way that he was letting go. And now most mornings,

as soon as his eyes open, Conor heads for the kitchen to fetch his vacuum cleaner. I don’t know if it’s because he has watched the movie Robots too much, or if he thinks it’s a massive pink car, but Conor is happiest when he can lug the thing around the house.

So it seems that to make my boy’s Christmas wishes come true, all I need to do is stick a bow on a piece of electrical cleaning equipment.

Erin may be a bit harder to please.

She’s decided that she wants to be a “goctor” when she grows up, so a medical kit will be high on her list.

In the meantime, she hones her skills by sticking pens up our noses to take our temperatures, and rubbing Craig’s shaving gel on our cheeks “to make it all better”.

Christmas can’t come quickly enough.

And then I came across a blog that talked about how parents are often so distracted by their cellphones or other electronic

devices, that they completely miss out on their children’s lives.

It made me think about how Erin often says when I fetch her from school: “You’re not going to work on your laptop now are you?” or how Conor will bring me my cellphone, as if the device and I are inseparable.

I considered the many times that I have scrolled through my Facebook messages while pushing Erin on the swing or while playing cars with Conor on the floor.

And I realised that the best gift of all, especially during the festive season, would be to spend quality time with my children, without the distraction of a beeping smartphone.

I just wonder whether I will be able to convince Conor to give up his beloved vacuum cleaner as well.

Anél Lewis is coming to terms with the fact that she may have to fill her children’s Christmas stockings with small household appliances, instead of sweets or toys.

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gifts would make her children the happiest this December.

books

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for preschoolers

The Crocodile Who Didn’t Like Water

By Gemma Merino (Published by Macmillan Children’s Books, R121) Everybody knows that crocodiles love water, but this little crocodile is different. He doesn’t like water at all. In fact, he prefers climbing trees. But it can be lonely when you’re the odd one out, so the little crocodile tries his best to change, but being wet isn’t for everyone, and a shiver soon becomes a cold and the cold becomes a sneeze – a very hot sneeze… Could it be that this little crocodile isn’t a crocodile at all, but he might just be a dragon? And dragons aren’t born to swim. They are born to fly and to breathe fire. This is a lovely story about uniqueness from the winner of the 2011 Macmillan Prize for Illustration.

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for preteens and teens

Ladybird Bedtime Tales for Children Retold by Mandy Archer (Published by Penguin Books, R135) This Ladybird treasury of eight classic, traditional tales is guaranteed to delight and entertain young children. Each favourite fairytale or story has been sensitively retold for modern readers and the mix of amazing animals, magical marvels and classic characters is perfect for both boys and girls. The stories include Chicken Licken, Rapunzel, The Enormous Turnip, The Wizard of Oz, The Emperor’s New Clothes, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, Rumpelstiltskin and Heidi. This keepsake can be read to children as young as three, but your seven year old will also get hours of pleasure from the classic stories and colourful illustrations.

The Christmas Tale of Peter Rabbit

By Emma Thompson

Jo-Jo the Melon Donkey

By Michael Morpurgo and Helen Stephens

(Published by Penguin Books, R233) The Christmas Tale of Peter Rabbit is a brand new story from acclaimed British actress Emma Thompson. It’s the perfect Christmas tale: heart-warming, funny and exciting. In this story, Peter and his cousin Benjamin are on a mission to help a special friend from becoming Mr and Mrs McGregor’s Christmas dinner. Will Peter and Benjamin be able to save him? Thompson’s previous book, The Further Tale of Peter Rabbit, was published in 2012 and featured in the New York Times Bestseller list twice.

Eleanor Taylor, who has a great affinity for the countryside, illustrates the book, and it is beautifully reflected in the engaging characters and scenes.

(Published by Penguin Books, R108) Jo-Jo is a lovable donkey. “Melons.

Melons for sale!” Every day, Jo-Jo brays the same message and carries the heavy melons through the streets of Venice.

Though Jo-Jo loves this city, he is bullied by his master. Jo-Jo is loved by nobody.

But one day, somebody notices Jo-Jo; the famous duke’s daughter herself. And when danger looms, the Venetians need a hero to save them. From the master storyteller himself comes a story about an evolving friendship between Jo-Jo and the duke’s daughter, who loves the donkey despite his lowly position. This is a classical tale, with beautiful illustrations

by Helen Stephens.

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The Last Wild

By Piers Torday (Published by Quercus Publishing, R173) In a world where animals no longer exist, 12-year-old Kester Jaynes sometimes feels like he hardly exists either. Locked away in a home for troubled children, he’s told there’s something wrong with him. So when he meets a flock of talking pigeons and a bossy cockroach, Kester thinks he’s finally gone a bit mad. But the animals have something to say… They fly Kester to a place where the last creatures have survived. A wise stag needs Kester’s help, and together they must embark on a great journey.

Blame my Brain: The Amazing Teenage Brain

By Nicola Morgan (Published by Walker Books, R102) This is a comprehensive guide to the biological mysteries that lie behind teenage behaviour. Contrary to popular (parental) opinion, teenagers are not the lazy, unpleasant louts they occasionally appear to be. During the teenage years the brain is undergoing its most radical and fundamental change since the age of two.

Nicola Morgan’s carefully researched, accessible and humorous examination of the ups and downs of the teenage brain has chapters dealing with powerful emotions and much more. The revised edition contains new research, including information on mirror neurons. It should be read by parents of teenagers and even children from the age of 10.

for us 100 Clever Digital Photography Ideas

By Peter Cope (Published by Metz Press, R180) This is a practical, accessible guide to the ingenious and inspirational ways to get the most from your basic camera and camera phone. Discover clever ways to share your photos using Facebook and Flickr, or create web galleries, photo books and large-scale versions of your prints from canvas to wallpaper. Understand how to use all those modes and menus to get the best possible picture every time. It is filled with invaluable, imaginative tips from shooting for online auctions and photographing children and pets to organising your own photo treasure hunt and interesting ways to let your old camera live on. Open your eyes to the creative possibilities with your digital photo technology. The book includes a “jargon buster” section.

The Dog Encyclopedia Senior editor Kathryn Hennessy (Published by Penguin Books, R414) This is the comprehensive compendium dedicated to all things canine. From Beethoven to Toto, dogs have been adored for their unswerving loyalty and companionship throughout history and this is the perfect celebration of man’s best friend. This extensive catalogue of over 400 dog breeds, from Labradors to German Shepherds and every pedigree in between, provides photographs and profiles detailing character, compatible owner traits, and breed-specific advice.

You’ll also find features on famous fictional dogs, canine heroes and a fact-packed guide to canine evolution. Expert advice on everything from exercise and feeding your pooch, to grooming and puppy training is included.