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GOWN Judd Waddell gown provided by Bella Bianca Bridal Couture, bellabianca.com | ACCESSORIES Earrings from Mira Couture, miracouture.com; Hairpiece from James Ciccotti Bridal Shoes & Accessories, jamesciccotti.com HAIR Zazú Salon & Day Spa, zazusalons.com | MAKEUP Style By Bravura, stylebybravura.com (see Formalwear credits below)

GOWN Jenny Yoo Collection, jennyyoo.com ACCESSORIES The Left Bank Jewelry & Bridal Finery, leftbankjewelry.com | HAIR Edra Couture Beauty Brides, edracouture.com | MAKEUP Make Up First, makeupfirst.com

GOWN by Inbal Dror, inbaldror.co.il/en PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF INBAL DROR

STYLING KERRIE GALLAGHER OF CITYGIRL WEDDINGS, CITYGIRLWEDDINGS.COM PHOTOGRAPHY OCKEN PHOTOGRAPHY | OCKENPHOTO.COM

STYLING CAROLINE SHAW OF THE WEDDING DRESSER, THEWEDDINGDRESSER.NET PHOTOGRAPHY FURLA STUDIO | FURLASTUDIO.COM

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GOWN Hayley Paige gown available at jlmcouture.com/hayley-paige/bridal | ACCESSORIES The Left Bank Jewelry & Bridal Finery, leftbankjewelry.com HAIR & MAKEUP Vanessa Valliant, vanessavalliant.com

GOWN Atelier Pronovias gown provided by Mira Couture, miracouture.com | ACCESSORIES James Ciccotti Bridal Shoes & Accessories, jamesciccotti.com | HAIR Zazú Salon & Day Spa, zazusalons.com | MAKEUP Style By Bravura, stylebybravura.com

GOWN by Maggie Sottero, maggiesottero.com

STYLING LA BELLE FLEUR EVENTS, LABELLEFLEUREVENTS.COM PHOTOGRAPHY SALVATORE CINCOTTA PHOTOGRAPHY | SALCINCOTTA.COM

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STYLING CAROLINE SHAW OF THE WEDDING DRESSER, THEWEDDINGDRESSER.NET PHOTOGRAPHY FURLA STUDIO | FURLASTUDIO.COM

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FORMALWEAR J. Hilburn, carolineshaw.jhilburn.com SHIRT Daniel George Custom Suits, danielgeorgecustomsuits.com | ACCESSORIES Bow tie and pocket square by Daniel George Custom Suits

REBECCA MARIE PHOTOGRAPHY | HAIR & MAKEUP: APPEASE, INC.

Publisher’s Letter Congratulations on your engagement! As the publisher of ChicagoStyle Weddings, I am thrilled to say there’s a long list of things to be excited about at this time in your life. My years in the wedding industry – and my nearly fourteen years of marriage – have given me the unique perspective to lend insight to the pages of CSW. Hopefully my experiences will help you on your path to the perfect wedding. The most important wisdom I can impart is that the phrase “it takes a village” is absolutely true. You need to assemble your “village” or your dream team. And it all starts with your fiancé. We always think long term when deciding yes or no to the forever question. But now with that out of the way, who else should you add to your team? The journey you’re about to embark upon is usually viewed as a long and somewhat challenging process. Picking the right people to help you on that journey will truly make your life easier. When my husband and I started planning our wedding, it was the largest strain on our relationship at that time. I remember thinking “if we can make it through this, we can make it through anything!” Well, we did. We made it through the planning process and are still making memories as we weave our way through this promise called marriage. I have to tell you though, without a strong team I don’t know that we would have made it through unscathed. Our goal with this issue is to help you assemble your own personal dream team. Within these pages you will find the most talented, inspirational, and savvy vendors in the business. These experts will take you from engagement ring to wedding band without a hitch. I knew the only way this magazine could become such a resource for you was to assemble my own dream team. From the front to the back, each member of the CSW staff has played a major role in the creation of every page. I am a very lucky woman! I’m thankful and blessed to have a husband that still puts up with me after all these years, and I’m thrilled to be surrounded by a dedicated, hardworking, talented team. The ChicagoStyle Weddings dream team has taken close care to make sure you are inspired and prepared to create the wedding of your dreams. Wishing you health, love and smiles today and for years to come!

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Letter from the Editor The question has been popped, the shiny ring is on your finger, the maga-

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twelve months until the big day! How will you ever accomplish all that planning in such a short amount of time? Don’t fret, my friends. As you stand on the precipice between nearly-wed and newly-wed, know that we’re there with you – quite literally. I, too, am an engaged woman, ready to gallop down the aisle to my sweet fiancé. But that long aisle can often appear to be filled with obstacles, and you may run into some difficult questions. For instance, do we prefer a live band or a DJ? At which table should we seat sweaty Uncle Mortimer? Will I accidentally recreate the infamous “wardrobe malfunction” of Superbowl 2004 while twerking on the dance floor? Allow me to let you in on a little secret of the industry: no event – not one in the history of all events – has ever gone according to plan. Sometimes dresses are forgotten at home. Sometimes shoes sink into the grass at the ceremony. Sometimes people show up to black tie affairs in jeans (I know, brutal imagery. I’m sorry). As long as you put your trust in the right people, your wedding will be perfect anyway.

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Features 226 Designers’ Challenge Inspiration from Five Local Wedding Planners

254 Flawless Inspiration Experience How Life is Magnifique at Sofitel Chicago Water Tower

294 Chic Eclectically Redefined Vintage-Inspired Fashion for the Modern Era

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Spotlight on Style 72 Soirée Weddings & Events 92 Stems 134 LOLA Event Productions 160 Northern Greenhouses Floral & Event Productions

246 Big City Bride

312 Center of Attention Elegant Style, Creative Design, Extraordinary Taste

334 Return to the Plated Reception Dinner is Served

“ K' Resource Guides 200 Celebration Locations Ceremonies & Receptions

Style Files 24, 26 City Scene

213 Celebration Locations Rehearsals, Parties, & Events

430 Advertisers Index

Extras 6 About the Covers 8 Publisher’s Letter 10 Letter from the Editor 18, 20, 22 Contributors

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Kafi Thompson and James Matusiewicz Deidra and Gabriel Lewit John and Matthew Scothorn Penny Shack and Adam Schneider Aneta and Sahil Aggarwal Alison Cooney and Nathan Dykes Jennifer Marie Urso and U-Xinn Cheang

280 Elisabeth Baker and Kyle Van Schoonhoven

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Melissa and Sara Furlette-Koski Colleen and James Malic Aaja Corinne and Jawaun Magee Jennifer and John Tumpane Paloma Andrade and Alberto Bocanegra Lauren and Christian Prouty

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28-42 Wed Essentials 282-283 Gown Glamour

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FURLA STUDIO

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Categories CELEBRATION LOCATIONS RECEPTIONS 46 Trend Report The Latest Wedding Trends for the 2015-2016 Season

60 Navigating the Planning Process ...or Just Hire A Planner

76 The Perfect Venue Determining the Right Kind of Setting for Your Big Day

98 Glamour on the Small Scale

164 Bridesmaids vs. Bride’s Maids How to Keep Your Bridesmaids from Leaving You at the Altar

172 Altering, Adjusting, and Abandoning Traditions Finding New Ways to Create Your Own Wedding Customs

182 Becoming a Family Because Marriage Isn’t Always Just Between Two People

194 Popping the Big Question A Blueprint for Communicating Your Way to Happily Ever After

Your Guide to an Intimate Bash

106 East Coast Energy Adding a Twist to Your Reception

118 Personally... Creating a Ceremony that Speaks to You

Tips, Tricks, and Words of Wisdom on How to Pull Off the Perfect Wedding Shower

PLANNING & PREP WEDDING CONSULTANTS

Really! How One Bride’s Mistakes Didn’t Ruin Her Wedding

156 You’re Welcome Creating the Perfect Welcome Bags for Your Guests

210 Showered in Love

138 The 7 Questioins You Must Ask 144 It’s All Going to be Okay...

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CAKES & SWEETS 320 Sweet, Sweet Love Decadent Dessert Ideas for Your Wedding

CATERING 327 Food, Chef, Action

BRIDAL FASHION & BEAUTY BRIDAL BEAUTY 356 Get The Look

PRE & POST WEDDING PARTIES

126 Marriage is Equal Your Potential Venue

CULINARY SERVICES

238 D-I-Why? Advice for Navigating the “Pin-demonium” of Pinterest

248 Planning for Disasters How to be Prepared for Anything and Everything that Could Go Wrong

Experts Dish on How to Work the Top Beauty Trends at Your Wedding

363 Healthy Ever After Setting Goals to Create a Happier, Healthier Life

BRIDAL FASHION 268 Ready-to-Wed Translating Your Ready-to-Wear Style into Your Wedding Attire

284 Your Support System Choosing the Right “Foundation” for Your Gown

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FLOWERS 342 A Flower for Every Season How In-Season Flowers Can Color Your Wedding

352 Floral Fashions Unique Ways to Incorporate Flowers into Your Wedding

VIDEOGRAPHY 399 Unforgettable Moments Why Videography is So Much More than Letting Your Uncle Capture the Moment on His Smartphone

304 Envelope Etiquette The When and How of Whose Name Goes Where

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44 12-Month Planning Countdown 70 7 Reasons to Hire a Wedding Planner

181 Tipping Guide and Sample Wedding Budget

CELEBRATION ENTERTAINMENT LIVE MUSIC, DANCING & DJS 403 On a High Note

INVITATIONS & STATIONERY

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FLOWERS & DÉCOR

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TIMOTHY WHALEY & ASSOCIATES

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Tips for Selecting the Perfect Music for Your Wedding and Reception

411 55 Songs to Make Your Night

184 Responsibility Reminders 191 Money Matters 224 Announcing Your Engagement 225 Obtaining a Marriage License 244 Reception Timelines

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Entertainment Pros Offer Their Top 5 Lists for Your Big Moments

PHOTOGRAPHY 377 Picture Perfect Frame-Worthy Engagement & Wedding Photos

382 All the Small Things Capturing Every Detail of Your Special Day

387 Baring It All Boudoir Photography’s Dirty Little Secret is Out - and it’s Not So Dirty After All

394 Photography Style Files Choosing the Right Look for Your Event

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TRANSPORTATION 416 Moving Pieces The Who, Where, When, and How of Wedding Day Transportation

HONEYMOON & TRAVEL 422 Off the Beaten Path Great Honeymoon Ideas for Today’s Travel-Savvy Couples

426 Bon Voyage Make Sure to Pack These Luggage Essentials for Your Honeymoon

291 Gown Glossary 310 Invitation Dos and Don’ts 386 Questions to Ask a Potential Photographer

402 Tips on Writing the Perfect Toast

Contributors Rick Aguilar Rick Aguilar Studios | rickaguilar.com When he was 16 years old, Rick Aguilar borrowed a camera from one of his high school teachers and photographed his first wedding. Thousands of smiles later, he is still photographing weddings. Rick Aguilar has been a photographer for more than 20 years. His fun, artistic approach to weddings makes him a favorite for top wedding clients in the city of Chicago. Rick’s photographs have a timeless and journalistic feel. His years of experience in the wedding industry make him a valued asset in the special event community. His work has been featured in a variety of wedding magazines, books and wedding websites. Rick has even taken part in several national reality TV shows on Bravo, The CW and VH1. Rick also had the pleasure of providing the photography at the wedding of Chicago’s former mayor’s daughter.

Sal Cincotta Salvatore Cincotta Photography | salcincotta.com Sal Cincotta is an award winning photographer, speaker, author, and publisher of Shutter Magazine, the world’s largest educational magazine for professional photographers. Sal and his wife Taylor own and operate Salvatore Cincotta Photography. Started in 2008, they have built a million-dollar business focused on weddings and high-school seniors. After many years in corporate America, Sal left to pursue a career in photography and has never looked back. His success is directly tied to the education he received while in business school. Sal graduated from Binghamton University, a top 20 business school, and has worked for Fortune 50 companies like Procter & Gamble and Microsoft.

Peter Furla Furla Studio | furlastudio.com Peter Furla, an award-winning photographer for over 25 years, is the owner of Furla Studio. His wife, Demetra, is the project designer and studio consultant. Together, with their talented team of certified and professional full-time photographers, they have created a dynamic group that provides clients with unbelievable photography, design and personal, customized service. They love destination weddings and have experience photographing weddings around the world. When hiring Furla, a wonderful journey and experience awaits each and every client!

Chris Ocken Ocken Photography | ockenphotography.com Chris Ocken is an award-winning photojournalist and owner of Chicago-based Ocken Photography since 2000. His current work includes editorial and commercial photography as well as documentary-style wedding coverage. His early career included a stint with the Associated Press, where he photographed both the 1992 and 1996 presidential campaigns in Arkansas. The 1992 Associated Press team won the Pulitzer Prize for campaign photography. This political experience comes in handy when managing couples and their entourage. Chris particularly enjoys getting to know his subjects and revealing their personalities through his images. He holds a master’s degree from the Missouri School of Journalism where he was also an associate professor of photojournalism.

Duron Shem-Tov Duron Studio Photography | duronstudio.com Duron has over 20 years of international photography experience in Israel, Sweden, Paris, Venice and the United States, and is a true artist committed to quality photography. He holds a master’s degree in photography and is a member of many professional organizations. As an expert at his craft, Duron continually educates himself on the latest technologies of digital photography. He is committed to staying current with photography trends, and attends programs and seminars to keep his work fresh and real. Duron is consistently recognized for his work among his peers and the community. His impressive repertoire includes photojournalism, fashion, wedding and portrait photography.

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Contributors Frank J. Andonoplas, MWP Frank Event Design | frankeventdesign.com Recently named Event Planner of the Year, Frank has been planning, designing and coordinating weddings for the last 22 years. His expertise has been featured both locally and nationally in magazines, newspapers, books, radio and on television. His “One Wedding, One Weekend” approach gives you his full attention. He personalizes each wedding to reflect the style of the couple, as well as many unexpected and outof-the-box details that wow guests for years to come.

Denise Bonds Windermere Elegant Weddings & Special Events | windermereweddingplanner.com Denise is a luxury boutique wedding planner, specializing in traditional, whimsical and destination weddings. Her clients love the proactive position Windermere takes in every event. Her sizzling energy, confidence and sheer talent have all added to her dynamic success. Her events are always on the cutting edge. They are fresh, fun, and unique, all while creating memorable and everlasting moments.

Kerrie Gallagher Citygirl Weddings | citygirlweddings.com Kerrie has had an appreciation for art and design her whole life. She entered the world of event planning and design after many years of teaching. Since 2010, Kerrie has been partnering with clients to achieve an aesthetic fit for each individual event. “I find it exciting and rewarding to help someone achieve a look and experience as unique as they are,” she explains. Inspired by fashion, nature, and art, Kerrie views the world as an event!

Kyna Horton Vowed To You | vowedtoyou.com Kyna Horton is the owner and lead planner of Vowed To You. She started planning events while working as a special events coordinator for a large not-for-profit. After receiving her Bridal Designation in 2003, Kyna realized having a wedding planner on your team is just as essential as the photographer or wedding cake. From the modern bride to the glitzy bride, Kyna always delivers exceptional planning and service with a smile.

Cindy Shanholtz

ARTISAN EVENTS

Effortless Events | effortless-events.com

As the founder of Effortless Events, a full-service event planning company, Cindy functions as both the business and creative director. Her background in finance and attention to detail create a unique perspective. Her goal is to provide her clients with a unique event that fits within their budget. She prides herself on being her clients’ advocate throughout the planning process, and making sure her clients and their families are truly guests at their own event.

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Contributors Caroline Shaw The Wedding Dresser | theweddingdresser.net The question of what to wear to your wedding is always a major decision. Trained and educated in Dublin, Ireland, as a dress designer, Caroline has built a reputation for providing bespoke styling and dressing for today's discerning couples. Caroline brings her trusty steamer, her big bag of tricks, and peace of mind for every client. They know that whatever fashion hiccup might occur, she’ll be there.

Miranda Lyn Tassi Events by Miranda Lyn | eventsbymirandalyn.com Miranda, the owner and lead planner for Events by Miranda Lyn, has a passion for perfection. With over five years of experience in corporate event planning, she has developed a meticulous and invaluable planning process, which she has used with her clients since day one of opening Events by Miranda Lyn in 2013.

Leanne Valdes You Name It Events | younameitchicago.com Leanne Valdes founded You Name It Events in 2010, armed with a diverse background including leadership development, counseling, and administration. Her two favorite moments at every wedding are when she finally sees ideas turning into reality and the (usually brief) moment she gets to pause and observe guests making lifelong memories.

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WHAT’S NEW AROUND CHICAGOLAND

GRAND UNVEILING After four amazing years in their original location, boutique bridal fashion shop Veiled by ChaCha needed a bit more breathing room. Owner Antonietta Ciaccia (ChaCha) Cervantes chose an elegant location in Glen Ellyn to expand her already impressive collection of over 450 designer wedding gowns and her custom veil collection. The new space features a private seating area for guests to enjoy during appointments and consultations. Veiled by ChaCha specializes in luxury brands, including new and sampled gowns at affordable prices. All bespoke veils, belts, and accessories in the boutique are handmade on-site to the highest standards of quality to create a unique heirloom for each customer.

Veiled By ChaCha 494 Crescent Blvd. • Glen Ellyn, IL 60137 630.790.1328 • veiledbychacha.net

THE JEWELL OF THE CITY Since 1967, Jewell Events Catering has been wowing Chicagoans with their uniquely crafted fare and brilliant expertise in wedding planning. Known for their work at over a hundred local venues, this premier catering group recently finished renovating their home base. Their new lobby and tasting rooms create the perfect atmosphere for couples as they plan the ideal menu for their big day. Whether determined to design a custom menu, develop the perfect floor plan, or just looking for an allin-one catering and consulting guru, the experts at Jewell Events Catering can make your dreams come true.

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Find the beauty, glamour, and drama of the theater at the Shapiro Ballroom. The building, circa 1914, has been completely restored to show elegant 18-foot ceilings, a gorgeous vintage marquee sign, and a sweeping open layout. This historic-theater-turneddramatic-venue also has many important modern amenities, like a customized lighting and sound system and expansive dance floors. Nestled near Noble Square and the Ukrainian Village, this charming space is truly a hidden gem. When not hosting weddings or events, the ballroom is home to I Do Dance Studio, a company that specializes in helping couples plan that perfect first dance. Let the knowledgeable staff at the Shapiro Ballroom make your event the most memorable experience ever.

424 N. Wood St. • Chicago, IL 60622 312.829.3663 • georgejewell.com

Shapiro Ballroom 1612 W. Chicago Ave. • Chicago, IL 60622 312.843.4798 • shapiroballroom.com

TRUMP CARD: RIVER VIEWS TO TAKE YOUR BREATH AWAY The Trump International Hotel & Tower has expanded to include three amazing new event spaces. Couples looking to wed at the stately structure can expect sweeping, picturesque views of Lake Michigan, the Chicago River, and our gorgeous skyline. Curved around the main floor, the Riverside Gallery offers gorgeous windows and mirrors that give plenty of natural sunlight and highlight exceptional views of the river. Located directly on the Trump Chicago’s famous river walk, the Riverside Room evokes the 1930s with an art decoinspired atmosphere of glamour. Finally, the Bridgeview Room creates a feeling of floating above the river, with its spectacular views of Chicago’s bridges and its modern, geometric design. The three new spaces are guaranteed to be striking, sophisticated, and perfect for any wedding.

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WHAT’S NEW AROUND CHICAGOLAND A LEGENDARY LANDMARK After a two-year restoration, the Chicago Athletic Association has opened its doors as a new boutique lifestyle hotel, perfect for couples looking for a daring and historic venue. Built in the 1890s as a true sports and social club, the founding members of the Chicago Athletic Association are big names in American athletics, such as Wrigley, Comiskey and Spalding. This Chicago landmark boasts 17,000 square feet of beautiful event space – including a rooftop bar, elegant ballrooms, and spacious game rooms that speak to the building’s heritage. The Venetian Gothic building also features beautiful views of Millennium Park and Lake Michigan, stunning architectural design, and plenty of gorgeous guest accommodations. A wedding at the Chicago Athletic Association will be a profound memory to add to over a hundred years of history.

Chicago Athletic Association Hotel 12 S. Michigan Ave. • Chicago, IL 60603 312.940.3552 • chicagoathletichotel.com

DANCING THE NIGHT AWAY

After a lovely – and complimentary – consultation on your skin, hair, and makeup, the experts at Montage Salon and Spa develop the perfect plan of quick and effective treatments for you. They even provide you with instructions for simple athome maintenance, so you can feel comfortable and radiant on your wedding day. At Montage Salon and Spa, they focus on your overall look to make sure you are shining with that nearly-wed glow. And as you head into your big day, their amazing bridal team will come to you to define your beauty with high quality products, so you can just sit back, relax, and enjoy!

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The highlight of any reception is a newlymarried couple’s first dance. That’s why we’re thrilled to announce the grand opening of Arthur Murray Chicago North! The newest of eight Chicagoland locations, this new dance studio is nestled in the heart of beautiful Lakeview. Since 1912, when Arthur Murray himself began teaching dance, the company has grown to be the largest dance organization in the world. The pros at Arthur Murray know how to make your first dance spectacular. To celebrate your big day with swinging style, schedule your first lesson today! The space is also available for personalized lessons, group classes and private events.

Montage Salon and Spa

Arthur Murray Chicago North

612 W. State St. • Geneva, IL 60134 630.488.7198 • montagesalonandspa.com

3301 N. Lincoln Ave. • Chicago, IL 60657 773.697.8005 • chicagoarthurmurray.com

A NEW ELEGANCE Known for their high quality bridal fashions, Veiled in Elegance has been dressing and accessorizing local brides since 1995. Their custom veils, jewelry, and headpieces are made to compliment any gown. The company is thrilled to announce the opening of their new bridal showroom. Says Owner Kathy Lager, “Our new location is still a very intimate bridal boutique where we provide personal service and attention. In Geneva, we are in the heart of a vibrant community. Brides love to experience the charm of this historic city while preparing for their wedding day!” Make an appointment at their new location to find your perfect wedding day look!

Veiled in Elegance 21 S. Third St. • Geneva, IL 60134 630.208.7133 • veiledinelegance.com

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Invitations Dear Emily, dearemily.com Casablanca Gown Bijou Bridal & Special Occasion, bijoubridal.com Bouquet Town and Country Gardens, tandcgardens.com Earrings Veiled in Elegance, veiledinelegance.com Shoe Emmy London, emmyshoes.co.uk Cake Elysia Root Cakes, elysiarootcakes.com Flower Girl Dress Jenny Yoo Collection, jennyyoo.com

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Stationery Suite DBY invitations, dbyinvitations.com Intuzuri Gown Veiled by ChaCha Bridal Boutique, veiledbychacha.net Bracelet Jasmine Galleria, jasminegalleria.com Earrings Amelia Rose Design, ameliarosedesign.com Badgley Mischka Shoe Bloomingdale’s, bloomingdales.com Hairpiece Erin Lindsay Designs, erinlindsaydesigns.com

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12-Month Planning Countdown THE PLANNING PROCESS DECODED There's plenty to do before saying "I do." Our year-long breakdown will help keep you organized and sane throughout the whole process.

12 Months

Nine Months

Six – Eight Months

___ Choose the date and time for

___ Select dresses for bridal

___ Order dress and accessories.

wedding and rehearsal. ___ Select ceremony and reception sites. ___ Create a wedding website and email account. ___ Decide on a general style or theme for the wedding. ___ Pick your colors. ___ As a couple, create your budget. Then discuss finances with any family or friends who are contributing. ___ Choose an officiant and meet with him or her to learn about any premarital requirements. ___ Plan the guest list to get a rough head count. ___ Choose your attendants.

attendants. ___ Start shopping for men’s wedding attire. ___ Decide on the caterer, photographer, and videographer. ___ Have engagement photos taken. ___ Book a florist and choose arrangements. ___ Register for gifts at bridal registries of choice. ___ Select transportation for ceremony and reception. ___ Select hair and makeup services. ___ Look for accommodations for out-of-town guests.

___ Research honeymoon spots.

___ Announce the engagement

___ Interview wedding planners.

in the local newspaper.

___ Shop for gown and accessories. ___ Purchase a gym membership or book a trainer to develop your perfect health plan. ___ Book the musicians for THE BRIDAL LOOK Experts recommend ordering your gown no later than six months before the wedding. Haute & Co. Bridal Boutique, hauteandco.com

A TOUCH OF CLASS Give yourself at least six months to choose your wedding bands and wedding day accessories. Razny Jewelers, razny.com

ceremony and reception. ___ Interview photographers, videographers, caterers,

Schedule delivery date and initial fittings. ___ Help family members select coordinated outfits. ___ Reserve any rental equipment such as tables, chairs, and tent (if necessary). ___ Choose a baker, then order your wedding cake and groom's cake. ___ Enroll in dance lessons and plan your first dance together. ___ Select your wedding stationery, envelopes, and thank you cards. ___ Plan the rehearsal dinner. ___ Research marriage license requirements in the county where your ceremony will be held. ___ Choose favors, then order or begin to assemble them. ___ Confirm honeymoon plans and compile necessary documents, like passports, visas, etc. ___ Finalize guest list. ___ Mail save-the-date cards. ___ Schedule hair and makeup appointments and trials.

and florists. CREATIVE CAKES Make sure to select your bakery about six to eight months in advance. SweetPea Cakes, sweetpeacakestudio.com

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BEAUTIFUL BLOOMS Bouquets and boutonnieres and centerpieces – oh my! Meet with your florist nine months before the big day to design the flowers of your dreams. Jazzy Flowers, jazzyflowers.com

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INSPIRATIONAL INVITATIONS Select your stationery suite six to eight months before the wedding. Dear Emily, dearemily.com

One Month ___ Obtain marriage license. ___ Pick up rings and check engraving.

Three – Four Months ___ Choose the ceremony music. ___ Discuss reception music with band or DJ. ___ Discuss menu details with caterer. ___ Confirm out-of-town guest accommodations. ___ Order wedding rings and arrange for engraving. ___ If interested, meet with a premarital counselor. ___ Plan meeting for prenuptial agreement. ___ Visit officiant and review vows, readings, and music. ___ Select and reserve men’s

___ Give assignments to wedding

___ Confirm details with the florist, caterer, entertainers, and officiant.

announcements. Purchase custom framing for invitations.

___ Notify the newspaper with wedding announcement and photograph. Use this as a trial run with full hair, makeup, and

flower girl, ring bearer, fiancé,

___ Draw up a map to ceremony and reception sites. ___ Complete proper documents for changing your name.

details with vendors.

One Day

___ Prepare tip envelopes and

announcements to an

who helped make the

attendant to mail after

wedding extra special.

the wedding.

___ Arrange for facials and other

___ Verify transportation to and from the wedding ceremony.

beauty treatments.

___ Deliver welcome bags to

___ Plan bachelor and bachelorette parties.

guest accommodations, if you have them. ___ Get a manicure and pedicure.

One Week ___ Pick up dress or have it

___ Attend ceremony rehearsal. ___ Hold rehearsal dinner and

delivered.

hand out special gifts to the

___ Host bachelor and

of the wedding.

___ Give wedding

parents, and anyone else

___ Confirm travel arrangements.

and location.

___ Review timetables and

distribute them the day

___ Buy gifts for attendants,

___ Mail invitations.

sure guests know the time

___ Notify caterer of the final

arrange for someone to

___ Pack for honeymoon.

rehearsal dinner plans. Make

details.

accessories.

Two Months ___ Finalize any rehearsal and

guest count.

___ Have your final dress fitting.

bachelorette parties.

___ Confirm ceremony details.

them of rehearsal details. ___ Confirm transportation

attire. ___ Address invitations and

party members and remind

wedding party.

If traveling abroad, purchase small amount of local currency. ___ Write toasts for rehearsal dinner and wedding reception. GREAT GIFTS Three months before the wedding, have your invitations framed as a thank you gift to your parents. Art De Triumph and Artful Framer Studios, nanciekingmertz.com

Wedding Day ___ Eat breakfast and remember to drink lots of water. ___ Arrange to get checked in and have luggage delivered to your hotel. ___ Get hair and makeup done. ___ Get dressed. ___ Switch your engagement ring to your right hand. ___ Relax and enjoy the day.

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Trend Report THE LATEST WEDDING TRENDS FOR THE 2015-2016 SEASONS So often, we think of trends as fads – little blips on the wedding radar that will be popular one second and so passé the next. In reality, everything we believe to be a wedding classic started out as a trend. Even big white dresses and diamond engagement rings were once just something someone tried. At CSW, we think you should be that someone who makes a change. Do something a little crazy or unique. We’re willing to bet that you’ve got the trendsetting gene and it’s just waiting to do something a little new and a lot exciting.

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A wedding is a wedding – until it’s your wedding. Make your big day stand out by showing off your personality instead of just going by the book. “Couples are breaking tradition, but keeping with an elegant style of décor,” says Gabriela Schreiber, founder of Beso Weddings and Events. “They are less interested in formalities and more focused on experiences that encourage guest engagement and fun.” Schreiber says the goal is to create a fun, relaxed experience for every guest and allow them to participate beyond the typical dancing. She suggests including “living room vignettes, as well as open photo booths and slow motion video booths.” She’s confident these trends are here for the long haul. Hyper-focused themes like “Gatsby” are being replaced by more general terms that invoke an atmos-

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phere rather than a dictated look. Shreiber says among the most popular themes are “Modern Urban, Rustic Elegance, and Eclectic yet Elegant.” For these themes, couples are selecting “farm tables, specialty chairs, and suspended lighting elements” to enhance the ambiance. In the future, Schreiber says to expect “industrial-chic styles, eclectic arrangements of table shapes and varied sizes of floral centerpieces.” She also believes urban lofts and industrial warehouses are the venues of choice for the next few seasons. These venues have great flexibility when it comes to personalized décor. Beyond the venue and atmosphere, couples are looking for small ways to insert their personality into the big day. For instance, Schreiber DENNIS LEE PHOTOGRAPHY

says that traditional guestbooks are a thing of the past. “Couples are [asking] guests to sign items they can either hang or display in their homes.” Couples are also featuring all of their favorite desserts from “cotton candy and gourmet popcorn to donuts and pies.” They’re also

Tasty Trends Trends aren’t limited to décor and fashion. Foodies with discerning palates know that Chicago is a great source for finding new foods and cutting-edge trends. Schreiber says, “There is growing interest in food stations and serving comfort foods – like mac-n-cheese.”

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getting into creative “send-offs” at the end of the night.

Treat your guests to all their favorites, including mini pulled pork sliders or Italian beef sandwiches. Chicago style deep dish pizza shows off our amazing city in the tastiest way. Guests love to see their favorites all gussied up for a party. The action station is a trend we love. Getting guests involved in their dinner makes

want in their dinner – and eliminates the need to plan separate meals for vegetarians and other special dietary needs. Just be sure to leave a cute little sign indicating possible allergens at your specialty stations. While action stations continue to gain traction, there is also a strong case for the plated dinner. A well planned out meal with gourmet course after gourmet course will excite your guests’ taste buds and create a different, but equally memorable experience. To make it unique, be sure to add the details, like a sorbet course to cleanse the palate, or a cheese course featuring local, artisanal fare.

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it truly memorable. On-the-spot stir-fry gives guests the opportunity to choose what they

Take the Cake

It’s no news that sweets tables are all

While sweets tables are having a

the rage right now. Desiree Engman,

moment, that doesn’t mean your tradition-

owner of Desiree Chocolates says, “I

al wedding cake is disappearing. It’s

often see a smaller version of a wedding

just becoming a little less traditional.

cake, such as a groom’s cake, solely for

“We’re actually seeing a comeback for

tradition and photos.”

the classic wedding cake at the moment,

Engman believes one of the most pop-

with larger statement cakes,” says Elysia

ular trends on sweets tables are a variety

Root, owner and creative director of Elysia

of pops. “Pops seem to be very popular –

Root Cakes.

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cake pops, cookie dough pops, pie pops,

The key to updating a classic cake is to add in a few trendy decorations. Root says

brownie pops, etc.” These fun-size treats

metallic accents of gold, silver, and rose gold are hugely popular. Hand-painted cakes

are great for grabbing in between dances

create a gorgeous and extremely elegant look.

or taking home at the end of the night.

For something more rustic, couples are opting for “natural-looking textures” in butter-

Beyond pops, various mini desserts are

cream or they’re asking for the “naked” look. “These are gorgeous in their simplicity, and

also hitting the scene. “Bite-sized desserts

when adorned with sugar or fresh floral, they look romantic.” Beautiful and tasty – what

layered in mini cups, cones, or jars” are a

more could you ask for?

fun trend for a rustic wedding. For the fun-

“For those couples looking for variety, we’re seeing multiple display cakes instead of

loving couple, go with “cookies or fudge

the traditional sweets table,” explains Root. She suggests putting together a duo or trio

served on top of shots of milk.”

of display cakes that offer different looks and different flavor combinations to wow guests.

Sometimes your sweet tooth needs its salty counterpart to make a truly remarkable taste. Mary Ann Young, senior director of partnerships

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and events at Garrett Popcorn Shops has some ideas on how to even out your guests’ taste buds. Young explains that a popcorn bar is an excellent way for guests to dive in and enjoy the treat. They’ve also started bringing the bar to life with their Garrett Mixologists. “Our mixologist will customize your guests’ orders with the flavors of their choice, all while being served out of our new Garrett Popcorn Cart.” Probably the biggest trends Young is seeing are including popcorn treats in welcome bags or using them as favors. “Couples love to showcase their personal style through their choices of flavors, bag colors, etc.” She suggests choosing your favorites and including personalized notes for your guests. 50

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Re-imagining Ice Sculptures Décor isn’t limited to chairs and tables. Go outside the box and re-imagine old ideas to create something new. Johnson Studios Ice Sculptures, Inc. has turned the tables on traditional ice sculptures. Gone are the swans and hearts set upon the dessert table. Welcome to ice art. “The most exciting trend we’re seeing at our studio is more clients inter-

of Johnson Studios. “Most of our sculpture concepts come straight from our clients, rather than us selling traditional designs.” According to Johnson, some of the most popular trends include sculp-

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ested in original artwork,” says Nate Johnson, ice sculptor and co-founder

tures that hang in mid-air, ice curtains behind an ice bar, photo backdrops and ice plates. He also says that about 50 percent of his designs are made to be functional. “We can almost always add some sort of function to any type of carving. This can range from small shot glasses for drinks to a long seafood or beverage bar. The biggest tip that Johnson offers is to do your research on sculptors and businesses – both online and in-person. “Most studios will be open to a walkthrough so you can be inspired by their work and meet the people you’ll be working with.”

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Relax and Get Gorgeous Let’s face it, wedding planning is stressful. A spa day with your besties might be exactly what you need to relax and recharge before your big day. Go a different route with your wedding shower or bachelorette party, and have a mobile spa come to you to provide some amazing services at your home or hotel room. Monica Harris, owner and esthetician of Spa in Your Space mobile spa explains, “We see a lot of clients book a hotel suite in the Chicago area and have a spa party before going out to dinner or participating in other activities they have planned.” Harris also says she’s seeing a trend develop around post-wedding spa parties, “so that everyone can unwind and relax after the big day is over.” She explains that it makes a great thank you gift for moms and ‘maids. The service that seems to be gaining the most traction is their Oxygen Facial. “This is a very popular treatment on the West Coast and a favorite among celebrities. Many receive this treatment right before red carpet events and performances.” She explains that an Oxygen Facial creates that fresh, dewy look that leaves the skin “plump and hydrated to create a smooth, radiant surface for makeup application.

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Beyond Beautiful Don’t deny it, your second largest Pinterest board (after wedding planning ideas, of course) is your “I want to make my hair do this” board. Filled with wedding day styles, this board contains a plethora of inspiring images. But how do you choose? Lira Guzi, bridal specialist and master stylist at Ambra European Salon says some of the best trends are the classics. Braids have been a huge hit the last few seasons and will definitely continue through 2016. “There are so many options – from waterfall to Dutch to French and even fishtail,” Guzi says. “A really popular one right now is a sweeping waterfall braid folding back into a bun.” Guzi and her team is also very excited about a return of floral hairpieces. She suggests weaving baby’s breath through a braid or adding pieces of it into loosely curled hair. One of her most requested looks features “sleek hair up front, full brows, and a low ponytail in a long, loose twist.” This look pairs perfectly with a hairpiece instead of a veil. When it comes to makeup, Guzi suggests “choosing soft browns and peaches for your eyelids. It’s a perfect way to

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keep your makeup looking fresh and flawless.” She sees the trends of full brows and minimalist makeup staying strong for the foreseeable future. Her biggest tip is to test it out and get opinions from trusted friends and family members. “Trends are wonderful, but make sure that whatever you pick is something you can look back on in 20 years and still say you love it.”

Suite Stationery Invitations are also highly personalized this year and will continue to be so in the future. Hav-

venue or theme really enhances the experience for your guests from the start. “Invitations are often more creative and ‘artsy’

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ing a stationery suite that complements your

now than the traditional formal ones we’ve framed in the past,” says Nancie King Mertz, owner, artist, and framer at Art de Triumph and Artful Framer Studios. She adds that couples are getting creative with “graphics, color and bold fonts.” Mertz suggests showing off your suite by framing it to hang in your house or to give as a gift. Frames are also a fabulous registry item. On framing, she says, “One of our most popular gifts is the framed wedding invitation. Couples often say it’s the most meaningful gift they receive.” Modern wedding frames are not always the swirly, silver, heart-adorned frames of the past. “Couples have been leaning toward cleaner shapes for the past few years,” says Mertz. “Black is always a top choice, but color and white have moved in. More rustic woods are replacing some of the polished, furniture-finished woods that were popular for so long.”

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Fashionable Finds “Illusion bateau necklines are in right now,” according to Katherine Kalita, owner of White Orchid Bridal. “These can be adorned with lace appliques or crystal beading for dramatic style.” Hala Sarmiti, owner of Eva’s Bridals of Orland Park, says she’s also seeing the illusion trend at her boutique. In addition, she’s seeing a lot of very low backs, deep v-necklines, and sheer sleeves. According to Natalie Bauer, co-owner of Bella Bianca Bridal Couture, “One of the biggest trends we saw on the runway at bridal fashion week was sleek and sultry silhouettes with an emphasis on exquisite back

styles with very delicate tone-on-one handbeading for a very feminine look. She says, it “adds a perfect amount of sparkle without being overpowering.”

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tic look that is both sexy and feminine.” She is also seeing more color in gowns this year – particularly in the lining. She says, “Especially if the gown is lace, a café, blush, or champagne lining will give the gown a little contrast.” Kalita says one of the most popular designers she carries is Sophia Tolli. “Her styles are so feminine, but modern. Brides just love her gowns.” To finish off a look beautifully, Bauer says to find the right accessories. “Accessories are such a great way for a bride to show her own personal.” This year she’s “seeing everything from fabulous beaded boleros to dramatic lace cathedral veils.”

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stand out. Dyme says the most popular additions to a floral bouquet are “succulents and wood. Both are being incorporated in lots of unique ways. Our barnwood birch and bark vases have become very popular!” At Yanni Design Studio, Sales Manager Charlene Martin says that the vintage look we saw in 2015 will definitely stay strong through 2016. She says, “Our couples loved the soft tones of blush, cream, champagne, and ivory.” She says couples are looking for floral and décor that speak to their own experience. One of her couples was engaged in Paris, so they’re “creating a personalized Parisian backdrop with the streets of Paris and the Eiffel Tower for their themed wedding.” It’s all about personalization this year. Martin also says, “Soft and romantic is always in style, however a dramatic look is something that’s never forgotten.” She suggests adding statement piece, like a huge, cherry blossom tree to give a soft feel with a lot of drama. 56

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One of the biggest trends in the last few years has been in the wedding transportation field. Couples looking to enjoy some time with their bridal party between the ceremony and reception are renting trolleys and driving through the city as they take pictures at various iconic locations. Thomas Aksoy, a.k.a. The Trolley Man, is the owner of Second City Trolley. He says this trend is staying solid and we’ll continue to see it for years. Couples are really getting into their trolley rides, he says. “Most groups bring drinks on the trolley and plug in their phone or iPod to enjoy their own playlists. It makes for a very fun way to get from one photo location to another.” “There has also been a rise in bookings for both rehearsal dinner transportation and for pre-wedding bachelor or bachelorette parties,” says Aksoy. He also mentions that many couples are renting trolleys to give sightseeing tours to their guests between the ceremony and reception.

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Photo Finish Wedding photography is always a hot topic. It’s important to make sure you select a photographer that understands the style you are looking for. The photojournalistic style will remain popular for the next few years – and will be a great way to look back at your photos and really feel the emotions of the day. Duron Shem-Tov, owner and photographer at Duron Studio Photography, says one of the most important aspects of the photo is the location. He’s seeing a lot of “loft spaces, restaurants and galleries.” It’s important to create the perfect backdrop for your images. Another trend is the return of the wedding album. Shem-Tov says he’s concerned about the lack of physical images couples have of their wedding day. He asks, “What happens when our children and grandchildren no longer have the hardware required to access our digital troves?” He suggests talking with your photographer to learn about what kind of wedding albums they offer. It’s not about shoving four-by-six images into plastic sleeves anymore. These beautiful albums go beyond the coffee table book. They stand out as individual works of personalized art – the perfect way to show off your wedding day.

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individuality through entertainment and décor.” The overarching trend for the next few seasons is just finding ways to update those old traditions and really show off your personality through your ceremony and reception. Guests are there to celebrate you and your new spouse. Find ways to tell them your story and have fun with it.

Navigating the Planning Process …OR JUST HIRE A PLANNER Here at ChicagoStyle Weddings, we try to make the planning process as simple as possible. Unfortunately, it’s not as easy as your 10th birthday party – you can’t just book a magician and call it a day. Planning a wedding is a process. Both in our magazine and on our website, we offer a comprehensive 12-month guide to getting it done. Weighing in at a lofty 83 steps, it can be overwhelming. Yes, all of that has to get done, and you should go read through it if you haven’t already. But before

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you do that, read this article, which breaks it into more manageable pieces that you can digest as easily as a delicious slice of lemon chiffon cake.

STEP 1: Find a Consultant. In the age of DIY, many of you are thinking, “Wedding planner? Nah, I can handle it.” You’re a grown woman or man, completely capable of taking care of business, but we really recommend hiring a planner. You probably have a full-time job, but planning a wedding is a full-time job in itself. Can you sacrifice more hours in your day? Rather than sacrificing your precious weekends, hire someone to spend their workday taking care of business. Find a planner you gel with. You’ll be spending a lot of time speaking to this person, so you want to make sure you like how they operate. They should make you feel comfortable and at ease. The last thing you need on your wedding day is someone freaking out while you freak out.

STEP 2: Invest in Color-Coded Binder Tabs. If you’re not the planning type, learn to be. If you are the planning type, let your wildest inner neat freak emerge from its immaculate cocoon. Buy yourself a nice calendar with puppies or beachscapes, and fill in the deadlines for all the major events. Also, keep track of things as you go. “You need to make sure you have the dates and times when you’ve spoken to someone, when you’ve shown up at a location, when something was said,” says 62

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Denise Bonds, Owner of Windermere Elegant Weddings. “Say you had a couple photographers and you liked what each one had. Keep notes of what they offer to keep them straight.” Staying organized will help you stay on budget as well. “There are apps that are available, or use an Excel spreadsheet if you want to go old-school,” says Dr. Ramona James, President and CEO of Accent Events. “Be transparent and honest with [your fiancé] about what you’re spending on the wedding.” “Know your style and know your budget,” says Leanne Valdes, Wedding Planner and Owner of You Name It Events. “The best way is to know where you’re coming from, and then you can know where you’re going.”

STEP 3: Enjoy the Splendid Vertigo of Falling Down the Pinterest Rabbit Hole. Pin the most gorgeous, opulent things you can find. Determine the aesthetic you’re going for and spiral on the Internet for hours. It’s totally allowed in the name of research. Having Pinterest boards that illustrate your vision will only make the process easier. Pin wedding photography you like so you can hand examples of what you’re looking for to photographers. Collect artsy centerpieces to share with your florist or recipes to ask your caterer about. If you’re pinning a lot of forest nuptials, you know you’re headed for some wild vows.

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Once you know your general look, start

meet with the photographer, they might ask

Then find your photographer/videogra-

shopping. “If a bride can start planning 10

because it really speaks to your style.”

pher, caterer, florist, band or DJ, and

months out, that would be great. Some dresses take six to eight months to come back,” says Bonds. Finding the right dress can set you up

your cake.

STEP 5: Knock Out the Big Vendors.

It’s a big sea full of vendor fish out there, and a wedding planner can help you navigate the rough waters. If you search the

for a cohesive look throughout the wed-

Sure there are a lot of incidentals, but

internet for vendors, you’ll be inundated

ding. “I usually suggest that the bride looks

a few vendors take precedence. First of all,

with information. Instead of sifting through

for her dress pretty early on in the

nail down your venue. This will help you

websites and bios, interviewing potential

process,” says Valdes. “A lot of vendors

determine your date so you can eliminate

DJs and florists, and taking a gamble on

will ask you about your dress. When you

vendors who are booked on that day.

their work ethic, ask your planner for their

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list of tried, trusted, and true vendors to get your party started. “I think younger people want to find everything online. They miss great things

STEP 6:

STEP 7:

Enhance Your Natural Beauty.

Enjoy the Process. This is less of a step and more of some-

because of that. There are some great ven-

Girl, you look good. But this is a spe-

thing to focus on throughout the whole

dors who haven’t gotten their stuff out

cial day, and we totally understand if you

process. When you start to get over-

there that way,” says Bonds. She recom-

want to glam it up a little. Start with your

whelmed and worried, keep this little gem

mends couples who opt out of a planner

own stylist and go from there. “Don’t be

from James in mind: “The wedding process

start looking for vendors by word of

afraid to try and try again,” says Valdes. “A

is a fun time for brides and grooms. It

mouth. Ask friends who have already got-

lot of brides feel like once they do a trial,

doesn’t have to be so serious. It’s going

ten married, your venue contact, or attend

they’re obligated to use that stylist. Do

to be a perfect day anyway because you’re

a bridal show.

another trial until you find the right person.”

marrying the person of your dreams.”

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7 Reasons to Hire a Wedding Planner 1. Because navigating four vendor contracts at a time can get a little complicated. Luckily, professional wedding planners handle them daily! 2. Because when you look at a venue, you see a room. Your planner sees an event. 3. Because you don’t want to be DIY-ing favors at 3:00 A.M. the night before the wedding. 4. Because you don’t want to know what that crash was in the kitchen right before your beautiful cake is supposed to be wheeled out. No, you want to gaze into your new spouse’s eyes and let someone else handle clean up. 5. Because even though you paid for chiavari chairs, somewhere along the line someone thought you said you wanted to sit on bean bag chairs. In comes the wedding planner to fix it – or make it work. Either way. 6. Because you forgot your shoes. 7. Because you want to actually enjoy your day and not worry about anything other than saying your vows correctly. Which, let’s be honest, is no easy feat. ■ ■ ■

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SOIRÉE WEDDINGS & EVENTS

Jennifer Joseph Michael Harriett

LAVENDER FIELDS FOREVER KAFI THOMPSON AND JAMES MATUSIEWICZ, UNION LEAGUE CLUB OF CHICAGO WRITTEN BY JEANNE SULLIVAN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY EDWARD FOX PHOTOGRAPHY

Both Kafi and James work in the wine and spirits industry. They first met on a work trip in Cancun and five years later, James proposed in Sonoma, California. “I am absolutely in love with lavender fields, and Matanzas Creek Winery is known for their beautiful fields filled with gorgeous lavender. James took me into the lavender fields, with two glasses of wine in hand, and asked me to spend forever with him,” describes Kafi. As Kafi traveled to the church on the morning of the wedding, the skies opened and rain poured. Upon arrival, the rain stopped and the sun shone, matching the brilliant mood of the day. Crying tears of joy, Kafi walked down the aisle with her dad. “When I met James at the [end] of the aisle, I had the immediate feeling of being complete. I couldn’t wait another second to become this incredible man’s wife.” Family and friends joined the couple at the Union League Club of Chicago for the reception. “As James and I walked into the dining room, we couldn’t believe our eyes. Large, submerged, lavender-hued bloom centerpieces, a mintchocolate cake and hundreds of candles filled the room.” Guests were treated to vocal performances from Kafi’s dad, while James’ dad played drums with the band. “James and I think family is the most important thing in the world, and our special day included them in every aspect of the ceremony and reception.” After spending seven years dancing for the Chicago Bulls as a Luvabull, Kafi and her friends were excited to get the party started. “These women are my lifelong friends – including the Maid and Lady of Honor at our wedding, both of whom I danced with for 6 years,” says Kafi. Needless to say, it was an evening filled with dancing, laughter, and love.

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Vendors CEREMONY SITE: Old St. Patrick’s Church

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OFFICIANT: Fr. Tom Hurley

RECEPTION SITE: Union League Club of Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY: Edward Fox Photography BRIDE’S GOWN: Vera Wang HAIR: A`SalonBizz, Inc.

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BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Bella Bridesmaids

MAKEUP: Jillian Kratky

FORMALWEAR: Black Tie Formalwear STATIONERY: Invitation Architects

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CATERING: Union League Club of Chicago

FLOWERS: Kehoe Designs

ENTERTAINMENT: David Rothstein Music SWEETS: Union League Club of Chicago

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TRANSPORTATION: Exotic Coach Chicago

The Perfect Venue DETERMINING THE RIGHT KIND OF SETTING FOR YOUR BIG DAY You’re envisioning your wedding as a fairy tale. You and your future spouse are the main characters, but every story must begin with a setting.

landscape at the edge of a forest, each

what type of venue will enhance your vision

choice has its ups and downs.

is half the battle. Once you decide that, you

Figuring out where to start is the hard part. “I always recommend going to visit five

Internet search to find several options.

Choosing your venue may be the most

to seven places because that will give you

overwhelming step for you. It sets the tone

an idea of what your style is,” says Molly

for the entire wedding. Whether you opt for

Larmon, director of catering at Doubletree

When you book a wedding at a hotel,

the convenience of a hotel or the rustic

by Hilton Chicago North Shore. Knowing

you know you’ll be taken care of. A hotel

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can work with a wedding planner or do an

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Hotel Amenities

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is a one-stop wedding shop with facilities for the ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, a luxurious night’s sleep, and an optional morning brunch. Some hotels, like Doubletree by Hilton Chicago North Shore, keep everything in-house. “You come in and you have food and beverage. We take care of setup, servers, and we have an executive chef. Everything’s packaged into one,” says Larmon. Check with hotels to see what they offer in the way of customization. “There’s a lot as far as really changing up the room to make it suit your style,” says Larmon. “Chiavari [chairs] come in silver, gold or mahogany for a rustic feel. Uplighting is popular, and you can customize the room to any color with linens.” The biggest draw of a hotel wedding is that you know your guests will be safe. When you’re at a hotel, the only keys your guests have to touch are the ones that let them into their rooms. “You’ll have the elevator to take you home,” says Larmon. It’s also convenient if you have guests traveling to attend your nuptials. “Guests can come from out of town and go right to their guest rooms,” says Larmon. This means you have them corralled the next morning if you want to host a brunch, letting you spend more time with the loved ones you don’t get to see all the time.

Lofty Expectations Offer your guests a unique experience with loft event spaces in the city. Each offers a different vibe, and they’re usually open to letting you customize the look. “A couple can create a wedding that is truly personalized in every way,” says Louise McElligott, COO of Chez. “Every detail from 78

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TIP

McElligott suggests, “Sheer draping and

natural light help you to create a bright, clean, ethereal abundant

the furniture selection and the room layout, to the décor and the menu is customized for each couple. No two weddings are the same.” Spaces like Chez collaborate with a team of vendors, which allows their clients

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to create a wedding that encapsulates who they are as a couple. “Many couples work with our event décor partners to completely transform Chez for the wedding of their dreams. Many couples opt to add a lighting treatment. One couple brought in trees!” says McElligott. Many couples gravitate toward loft spaces because of the modern, airy, open feel. Exposed white-washed brick or large columns can really emphasize the enormity of the space. This chic, modern style has become extremely popular and will definitely continue to grow. Minimalistic décor on the walls can really emphasize the unique look. McElligott suggests, “Sheer draping and abundant natural light help you to create a bright, clean, ethereal aesthetic.” One thing to note as you’re imagining all the amazing furniture and décor you can arrange in such an open space, many lofts require you to bring in almost everything. Dealing with all those separate vendors on your own can be difficult. Definitely lean on your venue’s event coordinator. Event spaces know what they’re doing, and with their resources at your disposal, you know you’re choosing from a list of quality caterers and vendors who deliver on their promises, taking the guesswork out of it.

Conference Center Simplicity Conference centers are also set up to serve. With staff well-versed in the many 80

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DREAM WEDDINGS DON’T JUST HAPPEN, THEY ARE PLANNED… Our certified wedding planners are dedicated to help you realize the wedding of your dreams. From an intimate ceremony to lavish receptions, the Chicago Marriott Midway® will bring to your special day a dedicated focus and enthusiasm as well as these amenities: • Over 8,269 square feet of newly renovated function space including the 3,444 sq. ft. Chicago Ballroom for receptions up to 250 guests. • Complimentary Certified Wedding Planners on staff to work with you directly to execute every exquisite detail. • Award-winning catering menus and an expert culinary team on staff. • 2400 square feet of beautifully landscaped Millenium Courtyard for outdoor ceremonies or cocktail receptions. • Grand Staircase for special event photography. • 200 newly renovated deluxe guest rooms including 3 spacious suites. • Specially designed Wedding Joy Packages. • Special guestroom rates for your guests. • Complimentary parking. For more information, call our expert sales team at 708-552-9647

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intricacies of large-scale events, you can often find plenty of amenities in one convenient location with the accommodations you’re looking for. With its contemporary feel and sleek styling, a conference center wedding attracts modern couples. The Northern Illinois University Naperville Conference Center is no exception. Their floor-to-ceiling windows create a spacious effect without the risk posed by bad weather. “Our airiness lends to the bride who wants an outdoor feel,” says Gina Kenyon, sales and marketing specialist of Northern Illinois University Naperville Conference Center. They also feature a gorgeous patio for when the sun is shining. Customization is welcomed by the staff. “We’re a clean slate,” says Kenyon. “Every weekend looks like a new wedding. We work with the bride to customize the floor plans. It allows the bride to create her own room.” Conference centers also have strong ties with local vendors. Be sure to ask who they recommend.

Par for the Golf Course If you’re envisioning a picturesque landscape as the backdrop for your vows, book a golf course for your wedding. “Beautiful views provide a breathtaking atmosphere and fantastic photo opportunities,” says Isabella Vizzini, director of catering of The Glen Club. Like many golf courses, The Glen Club features outdoor spaces for the cere mony and an indoor ballroom for the reception. Floor-to-ceiling windows escort light inside for a bright look. Most golf courses will do their best to make sure their ballroom has a stunning view of the 82

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green. Sprawling lawn, beautiful trees, no ugly buildings or streets in the way? Yes, please. Golf courses get a bad rap for not being able to create a unique look for each couple, but it’s simply not true. When it comes to personalization, they want to help you create your vision. “We work with our couples to tailor their event to be the way they want it. Our ballroom can easily be visu ally transformed with the use of uplighting, rented linens, and chairs or chair covers,” says Vizzini. It’s the details that truly make the difference. Another perk for some of your guests? “We offer special golf outing packages to wedding parties for both pre- and postwedding events,” says Vizzini.

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Many guests have likely not visited a

Victorian mansion , so they historic

love the advantage of wandering through the building and the grounds to

admire

the architecture

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offers a rich aesthetic before you even lift

leisure, but you can also pick different and

your wedding a cozier feel. “This intima-

a finger. The Jacob Henry Mansion

interesting ways to utilize all of the avail-

cy allows the staff to focus solely on your

Estate, built in 1873, gives your guests an

able spaces. “Walk down the aisle in our

event, since you aren’t sharing the man-

incredible experience.

historical church…or exchange vows

sion with another wedding party,” says

“Many guests have likely not visited a

under the romantic pergola in the gar-

Bornhofen-Orr.

historic Victorian mansion, so they love

dens,” says Bornhofen-Orr. With a com-

Although there’s plenty of room for you

the advantage of wandering through

bination of indoor and outdoor space, you

to bring your own details into the mix, there

the building and the grounds to admire

can truly customize to your needs. Hav-

isn’t much need for customization. With

the architecture,” says Sarah Bornhofen-

ing your wedding in such a unique loca-

original woodwork and gorgeous décor,

Orr, event planner at The Jacob Henry

tion ensures your guests will never forget

a mansion lets you forego the expense

Mansion Estate.

your big day.

of decorations to feature the location’s

Not only can the guests explore at their

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The smaller size of a mansion gives

natural beauty.

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Raise a Glass Create a classy event for your guests with a wedding at a winery. Wineries combine a rustic vibe with elegant décor to create a rich experience. “We offer a ceremony in the vineyard and a reception in the winery,” says Shelly Brandonisio, wedding events manager of Acquaviva Winery. This gives couples the option to have two different looks, an outdoor ceremony and an indoor reception, without traveling to a second location. Working vineyards, like Acquaviva Winery, come complete with tanks and a barrel room, which allows your guests to experience the whole process. “There’s something romantic about wineries and wine,” says Brandonisio. Just imagine having your pictures taken in a rustic barrel room or running through the vineyard. It’s like your own little Tuscan escape. “We’re flexible in that we’re a family owned establishment,” says Brandonisio, encouraging couples to make their wedding unique. “We’ll do everything we can to let a bride and groom make it feel like their space.”

Explore the City Surrounded

skyscrapers

and

beaches, we’re lucky to have the options Chicago offers us. “The Chicago Park District’s most sought after venues are South Shore Cultural Center, Garfield Park Conservatory and Promontory Point,” says Sheshe Taylor, assistant director of Chicago Park District. “Those venues combine the aesthetic of both a natural and urban oasis. They are the best of both worlds – a garden under glass, a ballroom on the beach, and a rustic, castle-like structure right on the lakefront with an iconic skyline view.”

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With fourteen venues for weddings, the Chicago Park District allows for a variety of styles and plenty of personalization. “Our venues are extremely versatile. Many of our venues offer a one-of-a-kind backdrop for an event organizer to express their personal style,” says Taylor. If you or your intended have ever considered a tattoo of the Chicago flag, this wedding is for you. “Our clients feel a deep connection to the roots of the city, and we provide them with an opportunity to give their guests an authentic Chicago experience. It’s a destination wedding in your hometown.” While smaller park districts don’t usually have as many venues, most will have at least one beautiful park that can speak to the outdoorsy couple in all of us. No matter what your style is, it’s important to select a venue that speaks to you. Pick a place where you feel comfortable with the staff and confident your wedding will be perfect.

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SPOTLIGHT ON STYLE

STEMS

SWEETS: West Town Bakery & Diner | westtownbakery.com FLOWERS & DÉCOR: Stems | stemschicago.com STATIONERY: Design Studio Creations | designstudiocreations.com LINENS: Stems | stemschicago.com

Jena Eberly Jonathan Stack

PHOTOGRAPHY: Amanda Megan Miller Photography | amandameganmiller.com VENUE: City View Loft | cityviewloftchicago.com

A DREAM COME TRUE DEIDRA AND GABRIEL LEWIT, THEWIT HOTEL WRITTEN BY JEANNE SULLIVAN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY STEVE KOO PHOTOGRAPHY

Two girls walk into a bar…sounds like the beginning of a classic joke, but it was actually the start of a beautiful love story. One of these girls was Deidra. She was celebrating the end of a tough semester with her best friend, who noticed there was “only one cute guy in the bar.” Gabriel, that “cute guy,” made it a point to meet Deidra. From enjoying cupcakes on their first date to exchanging romantic notes in their shared apartment, Gabriel knew he had found the love of his life and asked Deidra to be his wife. “We chose to host all of our wedding events at theWit,” explains Deidra. “Guests never entered the same room twice, and we were able to achieve a novel experience with our ceremony in a ballroom, cocktail hour on The Roof, a bar and photo booth in the Phoenix Lounge, and our reception in Cibo Matto.” “Shivering with nerves” and “bursting with joy,” Deidra married Gabriel surrounded by family, friends, and seventeen bridal party members. “With the city of Chicago as our backdrop, we recited original vows, promised all of our tomorrows to each other, and made it official with a kiss.” Guests sipped cocktails and sampled hors d’oeuvres on The Roof amidst the skyscrapers and stars. A short elevator ride whisked everyone away to celebrate with dinner and dancing. A cupcake tower served as dessert in honor of the couple’s sweet first date. The bride remembers, “We danced the night away and enjoyed every single minute.”

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Vendors CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE: theWit Hotel PHOTOGRAPHY: Steve Koo Photography VIDEOGRAPHY: Amelia Street Studio

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OFFICIANT: Rev. Kurt Fondriest

BRIDE’S GOWN: Eva’s Bridals of Chicago

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HAIR: Charles Campbell

MAKEUP: Megan DeMeyer Makeup

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FORMALWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse

STATIONERY: Wedding Paper Divas

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FLOWERS: Exquisite Designs

CATERING: theWit Hotel

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SWEETS: theWit Hotel

ENTERTAINMENT: NonStop Chicago

Glamour on the Small Scale YOUR GUIDE TO AN INTIMATE BASH When you close your eyes, you don’t

potty training. Your closest friends are rem-

a new way. A private suite offers a swanky,

see the huge bash most people do when

iniscing about that time in college. You

refined vibe your guests will totally dig.

they picture their wedding. A wedding

won’t find yourself staring awkwardly at a

“I’ve done weddings in our larger suites

doesn’t have to bust the bank and bring

distant relative while going through a list of

for up to 60 guests,” says Rebecca Stern,

together a hundred fifth cousins you’ve

possible names in your head.

director of social events at Hyatt Regency

For those of you who are planning a

Chicago. “We have two very large suites

party to end all parties, there are still some

that are mirror images of each other and can

Part of the draw of a more intimate

smaller events you need to plan, like the

be connected through a back hall. We used

wedding is just that – you get to speak to

rehearsal dinner or post-wedding brunch.

one room for the ceremony and one as a

everyone in attendance. Your favorite fam-

When it comes to a smaller event, think

cocktail reception. It was more organic. It’s

ily members are sharing stories about your

outside the ballroom. Use your venues in

never met. It can be as big or small as you want.

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Restaurants are the other obvious

is laid out can mean the difference

combination of classy style and spunky fun,

choice for smaller events. When you’re

between stumbling into chairs and creat-

Kaiser Tiger is your venue with its sleek

looking for the right place, focus on the

ing a smooth, organic feel that encourages

and warm industrial feel. “We’re a beer,

atmosphere and food. If you’re looking

everyone to mingle.

bacon, and sausage hall, so the vibe is

for a more relaxed event, you’re probably

“Using one or two larger dining tables

really chill,” says Tracy Black, director of

not too worried about bringing in your

so everyone is seated together is a great

events at Kaiser Tiger. With bocce ball in

own décor. Make sure you like the look

way to keep it intimate,” says Stern. “I’m

the summer, curling in the winter, and

of the place unedited, giving you a low-

a big fan of keeping seating together and

weekly pig roasts, this venue will keep your

maintenance prep for the main event.

the dance floor off to the side – instead of

loved ones entertained.

Make sure your guests feel comfortable

having the dance floor splitting the room.”

“They’ll get married in our West Wing

and free by speaking with your venue con-

If you want to shake up your wed-

room. We have accordion doors that we

tact about the floor plan. The way the room

ding and treat your guests to a glorious

open onto a section of the beer garden for

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cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, and then they go upstairs to the Skyline Lounge for their reception,” says Black. Some couples opt to keep the whole party downstairs to enjoy the games. If you still want an elegant affair, there’s no need to fear a smaller wedding. “It can be perceived as more casual because it’s more intimate, and the couple knows everybody,” says Stern, “but I’d use the word comfortable more than casual. It doesn’t take away from the formality. You can still have a formal wedding with 30 to 40 family members.” Once you find a venue that matches your idea of a more formal aesthetic, focus on moody lighting, elegant decor, and a dress code. Sending out neat, formal invitations will set the tone, letting your guests know they’re expected to show up in their finery. Even with a formal look, you can feel comfortable and relaxed. The advantage of having a small venue means someone else is taking care of the whole event. “We just want the bride and groom to sit back, relax, and let us take care of the rest,” says Dave Ambroz, general manager of Redstone American Grill - Oakbrook Terrace. If you’re looking for something halfway between casual and formal, a venue like Redstone American Grill – Oakbrook Terrace is just right. “It has a very rustic, romantic feel with 15-foot fireplaces outside,” says Ambroz. Osteria La Madia balances the intimate vibe with sleek décor. “It has comfortable seating with dark wooden walls and nice, new industrial light features,” says Candice Sinn, events coordinator at Osteria La Madia. “I would definitely say we’re kind of in the middle. Our clients dress fancy, and we do a lot of wine service. Everything

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The smaller events that surround wed-

cozy rehearsal dinner. Barbarigos helps

dings, like rehearsal dinners and showers,

them customize the food service to

La Tasca Tapas Restaurant hosts a lot

are a great way to host an intimate get-

enhance the intimate atmosphere. “The last

of rehearsal dinners. “It’s a more comfort-

together as well. “The bridal showers are

wedding we did, we sat one of our main

able setting than the wedding because

more apt to do the buffet,” says Ambroz.

dining tables in the center of the room for

there’s not a whole agenda,” says Danny

“Couples are free to put in the small details

a buffet of our main food,” he says. “Oth-

Barbarigos, owner and manager of La

as far as any decorations or color to the

erwise we have the meet-and-greet, and

Tasca Tapas Restaurant. “It gives them a

room. I’ve seen flowers and centerpieces

people get to mingle before they have a

chance to decompress from the planning

brought in.”

sit-down, family-style dinner.”

is nicely set up, but it’s more relaxed and comfortable.”

of the whole year. It makes them forget

With its warm color scheme, exposed

With the right venue, delicious food, and

about the wedding jitters they might have

brick, and Spanish décor, La Tasca Tapas

an organic floor plan, your small event will

during the next day.”

Restaurant attracts couples looking for a

be the wedding of your dreams.

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East Coast Energy ADDING A TWIST TO YOUR RECEPTION Here in the midwest, we have a certain

This is a pattern we’ve come to know

cadence to receptions. You’ve been to

and love, and few people question it. But

enough weddings, and you know the

what if there was another option? Would

routine. Usually there’s a cocktail hour.

you take advantage of a different way to

Then introductions are made, toasts are

rev up your guests, keeping them ener-

toasted, and everyone eats dinner. After

gized from cocktails to last song?

the food is consumed, the couple has

Consider an “East Coast” or “New York”

their first dance before relinquishing the

style reception to shake up your wed-

floor to their eager, fleet-footed guests.

ding. “Basically it means you come in from

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cocktails and the orchestra is already playing. Guests usually go right to the dance floor for a dance set,” says Frank J. Andonoplas, MWP, owner of Frank Event Design. After the cocktail hour, introductions are made, and the formal dances take place right away before the master of ceremonies (MC) encourages guests to hop in for one or two songs. Then they break for toasts and eat their first course before hitting the dance floor for another short set. When the music stops, the main course is served, they eat, and then they hit the floor again for the rest of the evening. Sure, it’s a lot of up and down, but it keeps the energy revved throughout the night. “I think it’s nice to have peaks and valleys – rest, then the festive dancing is great,” says Walter Gorzela, CEO, founder, and DJ at IntensEvents. Deciding whether a Chicago Style reception or an East Coast reception is right for you depends on how you want the night to flow. “There’s no right or wrong way when it comes to your reception choice – it really comes down to what the couple has experienced and the type of party they want,” says Becca Kaufman, president of BeatMix Music and the Becca Kaufman Orchestra. “Our clients who have experienced East Coast style weddings love the idea of getting the party started immediately following cocktails. For those unfamiliar, the concern can be that it would take away from the meal service or have the party feel too choppy,” says Kaufman. “It heightens the excitement level beyond explanation; the energy level is raised even more than just in a stunning room reveal,” says Andonoplas. “It gets the party started immediately.”

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An East Coast style reception isn’t all sunshine and Chicken Dances, though, and you need to decide if it’s right for you. “Your expenses will increase because the event will go longer, and sometimes, that means paying overtime. The bar is longer. It’s a domino effect,” says Andonoplas. East Coast receptions require impeccable planning and flexibility. “Venues not familiar with dancing between courses will need to work with the planner and the band or DJ regarding timing, as food service takes longer to allow dancing while plates are cleared,” says Kaufman. “Luckily there are strategies to overcome and fix these situations with an experienced MC/DJ team,” says Gorzela. “I think you’d need the right DJ for this style,” says Erika Rodriguez, senior marketing and events manager at Chicago Union Station. A good MC or DJ can keep the night moving at a strong clip, herding all the guests where they need to be. “If people are focusing on the dancing, they may not want to sit back down, which leaves the caterer struggling to keep the food fresh.” Andonoplas recommends serving children their meals during the first course. “Sometimes, parents and kids are ready to eat the tablecloth because it’s so late,” he says. You can pull off this energetic style without a hitch if you’re planning carefully with your venue, caterer, and MC. “When done well, though, the timing of an East Coast style wedding feels very natural and can enhance the dining experience,” says Kaufman. Tirelessly, the old debate rages on: Band or DJ? Traditionally, East Coast bashes get people moving with the fresh, vivacious

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sound of a real band, but your choice

“It’s often difficult for bands to do this since

Is it for you? “The couple that would

should suit your needs and your audience.

they often pre-program their sets before

enjoy this type of East Coast wedding

the event.”

style would be the type who prefers high-

“The live element of a band is fantastic and visually appealing,” says Gorzela,

However, if you’re willing to sacrifice a

energy, non-stop entertainment,” says

“however, bands can’t compare to the wide

little flexibility, a live band injects instant life

Gorzela. “It keeps the night very interest-

library range that a professional DJ carries

into a crowd. “It’s hard to ignore a nine-

ing from start to finish and also gives

and their ability to change the gears of

piece band moving and dancing and not

breaks in between for rest.”

musical programming with the flick of a

want to get up and join them on the dance

If your guests are mostly your fun-

keystroke.” Adaptability makes it easier to

floor. There’s an infectious energy that is

loving peers, give them something to

control the pace of a wedding, and for a

shared between the band and the crowd,”

talk about with an East Coast reception. “It

DJ, it’s as simple as picking a new track.

says Kaufman.

would definitely have to be a couple who

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is expecting lots of young guests who would keep the energy flowing the entire time through the multiple sit downs,” says Rodriguez. “Couples should consider their own preference first (it’s their wedding!), and then play to their audience – will there be a lot of young singles, older family, children? Consider who you’d like to impress.” Some couples find it too erratic for their guests. “The conservative couple who wants a very traditional wedding would be the perfect fit for the Chicago Style wedding,” says Gorzela. Your guests matter. Always keep their needs in mind as you plan your wedding. If you have a lot of older relatives or tiny nieces and nephews, a Chicago style reception would accommodate them better. They’ll eat earlier and can choose to skip the dancing portion without missing anything important. Likewise, maybe you aren’t into the dancing portion. “A couple who doesn’t love dancing might want to wait until after dinner to get the festivities started,” says Kaufman. This way, their guests can dance while they socialize. Maybe you’re torn and want the variety of an East Coast reception with the dancing at the end. Create your own blend of the two styles for a wedding that’s distinctly your own. Break up the dinner courses with the formal dances and toasts, and end with open dancing. It’ll provide an energetic but smooth flow, and your guests won’t be starving while the best man attempts to perform a stand-up routine. Whether you prefer classic Chicago chic, revel in the thought of East Coast glitz, or fall somewhere in between, “Be open to ideas. This may be an unorthodox way of thinking; however, it’s a great way to step out of the traditional style,” says Gorzela.

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Officially Forever JOHN AND MATTHEW SCOTHORN, INTERCONTINENTAL CHICAGO MAGNIFICENT MILE WRITTEN BY JEANNE SULLIVAN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY NAKAI PHOTOGRAPHY

John and Matthew met attending the same social group at church. Requesting financial advice on his new property, Matthew invited John over only to find that the impressive dessert he planned could not be enjoyed, as John has type 2 diabetes. Rising above his embarrassment, Matthew promised John dinner in the near future. “When John arrived for dinner, he noticed the diabetic cookbook on the counter…[John] seemed so impressed that I would go to the trouble of not poisoning him, that he decided to soften his stance on [his] no-dating rule.” Ten years later, John and Matthew were to be joined in matrimony. After getting ready in separate suites, they met for an emotional “first look.” “As the photographer snapped up shot after shot, I realized why people say that their wedding day was the happiest day of their lives…you are the stars of your own production, and everyone you love and care about are all gathered together.” John and Matthew exchanged vows and rings at an altar that “seemed a magical place of glowing light and reflection, both real and metaphoric.” Encouraging their families and friends to fully enjoy the evening, an elegant lounge theme replaced assigned seating. “We wanted our guests to be able to mix and mingle,” Matthew and John explain. The couple served a nineteen course dinner with three desserts, featuring “tapas-style dishes you could eat in two or three bites while sitting or standing.” “The memories are worthy of a lifetime of marriage and love, and we’re so grateful to everyone who worked to make our wedding a reality.”

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Personally… CREATING A CEREMONY THAT SPEAKS TO YOU You’ve known the words since you were a kid whether you were the type to play

ceremony and how you decorate the space can say a lot about you.

wedding-day dress up or not. “Do you take

If you prefer a religious ceremony, talk to

this man/woman to be your lawfully wed-

your venue about what sort of decorations

ded husband/wife?” It’s the “I do’s” and the

they will allow. “The spiritual venue you select

“you may now kiss” moments that feel so

will most likely have it’s own décor and

traditional and formal and real.

you’ll need to take that into consideration,”

Personalizing your ceremony makes for

says Tameka Jones, wedding planner of

a meaningful service that will help your

Pretty in Pink Entertainment. “Think of your

guests get to know you as a couple with-

favorite things and then work with your plan-

out losing that official feeling of a traditional

ner to see how you can incorporate them

wedding. Whether you choose to create

into your ceremony.” Having a professional

your own vows or stick with what’s tried

on your side can be extremely helpful in

and true, there are always ways to make

crafting a custom ceremony.

your ceremony about you.

If you’re going for a simple yet elegant look, she suggests “lining the aisle with

The Location and Décor

columns filled with calla lilies and floating

Adding personality can mean more

candles.” For a more dramatic scene, she

than picking the right readings or playing

says to “fill the room with assorted floral

a favorite song. Where you hold your

arrangements, add a calligraphed runner,

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and even a personal backdrop behind the

incorporate elements into both the cere-

do what you want,” insists Jones. Your

altar.” While these decorations show a

mony and reception.

ceremony is about you, so make it unique!

“Mandaps and Chuppahs are starting to

“This trend [of personalization] is only

pop up again in outdoor weddings, and

going to grow – especially now that you can

If you’re having a ceremony in a non-reli-

they’re not only being used for cere-

get married at a loft with your wedding offi-

gious venue, you probably have more

monies,” says Jones. “You can also use

ciated by your best friend while you serve

options. Have a conversation with your

them to cover a nice lounge area.” She

your guests dinner from the restaurant

coordinator to decide what kind of look

also suggests selecting floral arrange-

where you enjoyed your first date.”

you’d like to create and whether or not it’s

ments or candles that can double as aisle

feasible within your budget. If you’re trying

décor and centerpieces.

range of options, you probably won’t interfere with the venue’s own décor.

to save a little money, think of ways to

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“Instead of doing what your parents did,

The Officiant The officiant, celebrant, or justice of the

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The Format

peace who will preside over your ceremo-

has been officiating wedding ceremonies

ny is the person that will take the most

for many years and has seen it all. He loves

Whether you choose a more traditional

responsibility in making the moment per-

working with couples to create a ceremo-

script or go off-the-book, there’s a com-

fect for you as a couple. It’s extremely

ny that speaks to their love story.

mon format that flows through weddings.

important to choose a person you feel

Rehnberg believes all wedding cere-

Someone, likely the officiant, welcomes the

comfortable with and who you feel will best

monies follow the same similar structure,

guests. There are various readings, poems,

convey your love.

but "it’s the job of the officiant to frame the

musical tributes, or speeches about the

ceremony around the spirit of the couple.”

couple. After that, you “do,” and then they

Reverend Jim Rehnberg of Rent-A-Rev

“do,” and you’re all set. All that’s left is a kiss and a walk back up the aisle hand in hand – or fists pumping into the air, whatever floats your boat. While Rehnberg has seen the famed format stay true, he notes that couples are eyeing the details to find a way to inject their personalities into the ceremony. He says although most weddings follow a certain structure, couples find a way to customize the details. He says the basic framework includes “anticipation, confirmation, and celebration.” He explains that the anticipation of marriage builds as he works with couples to craft their ceremony. An officiant will assist you in selecting the readings, creating or making decisions about the vows, and choosing expressions of unity. The confirmation part is the ceremony itself. “It includes the vows – a personal statement of love – the exchanging of the rings, and any expressions of unity, like lighting candles, pouring sand, planting a tree, etc.” Personalized vows are probably the most common way to switch up a classic ceremony. Speaking your own words about each other can be very intimate and sentimental. If you decide to go this route, have a conversation with your significant other and your officiant about how to write those vows. Should they be a story? The reasons why you love him or her? 122

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A list of promises? How do you want to create that moment? If writing or public speaking are not your forté, talk to your officiant or your planner about other ways to spice up your ceremony. “The idea I love the most is to give all your guests a chance to speak during your ceremony,” says Jones. “Many guests have advice and words of wisdom they’d like to share with the couple, so why not take a seat by the altar while your guests (or select guests) share a few words?” Rehnberg mentions that part of personalizing is selecting who will be part of your ceremony – the bridal party, the family, and readers. He says, “the people that matter are chosen for these roles.” Finally, the celebration comes as the ceremony ends. It’s the moment when guests rejoice that the couple is now bound together for life. Some people toss rice or confetti or blow bubbles as the newlyweds leave the church, and the celebration includes all the merriment after.

...And Happily Ever After Rehnberg urges people to remember the true meaning of the ceremony and not get wrapped up in the details. “It’s so important,” he says, “yet it’s competing with picking a bar package or creating a seating chart. It’s the relationship that needs focus.” It’s pivotal to remember that the reason for the wedding is the marriage. “Most of the people I marry have already been ‘married’ for years,” explains Rehnberg. He reminds couples that it’s important to use the ceremony as a way to rekindle romance. When both partners are focused on creating a happy life together, the ceremony is bound to be intimate and personal no matter what. 124

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Marriage is Equal The law often takes a long time to catch up with society’s values and needs. But on June 1, 2014, Illinois made a giant leap toward equality when it passed the Religious Freedom and Marriage Fairness Act, which grants marriage rights to samesex couples. Among these rights are things different-sex spouses take for granted – the right to visit a loved one in the hospital and make medical decisions, receive insurance and veteran benefits, inherit without a will, parent and adopt jointly, and receive tax benefits. When the act was passed, couples who had civil unions had a one-year grace period to convert their civil union to a marriage at no cost. They had the option of making the marriage date retroactive to the date of the civil union. It was December 5, 2011 when Lauren Mudrak and Ashley Wierema met. Even though same-sex marriage was not recognized in Illinois at the time, Lauren says, “I feel like I’ve always wanted to marry Ashley.” A friend recommended the two women meet each other, and their relationship began as a series of cordial emails. Ashley points to one of Lauren’s emails that ended formally with “Best regards.” “We emailed back and forth for a while, and then we met at the bar, and I was just very taken with her,” says Lauren looking at Ashley. “I don’t know if you were taken with me.” “Not at all,” Ashley jokes. Although the law couldn’t come soon enough, it was just in time for these two, who got engaged six months after it passed. “It just happened to work out that way,” says Ashley. “I think we would have proceeded with a civil union. We would have gotten married our own way.” While a civil union would join them by law, it would deprive them of many rights opposite-sex couples are entitled to – over WRITTEN BY KATIE O’SHAUGHNESSY

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Illinois, which played a role in the passing of the Marriage

Michael Nordman is the Director of Development at Equality

Fairness Act. The organization’s marriage campaign educated

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people on the differences between a legal marriage and a civil union. “We did a lot of work on forums and what rights [same-sex couples] had and what rights they didn’t have.” “We collected almost 12,000 signatures that we then turned in to lawmakers in the districts where we needed support,” says Michael. Among the names on this list were 100 executives of Illinois and national corporations, as well as 1,200 faith leaders. Thanks to the new law, Lauren and Ashley will have the rights promised to all married people in Illinois when they tie the knot. “The truth is, I probably hounded Ashley for six months like a professional telemarketer,” says Lauren. “I was relentless. I told her, ‘I’m done. Talk to me about marriage when you’re ready to pop the question or don’t talk to me at all.’” “She didn’t know, but I had already started planning something,” says Ashley. A month later, Ashley enlisted a photographer friend’s help and made a plan for the day after their three-year anniversary. “The night before, I was at my holiday party talking to my coworkers, and I started freaking out. I didn’t know what I was doing.” The next morning was awkward as she made a lame excuse to leave the house early in the morning. She drove to Fabyan Forest Preserve in Geneva and walked the entire thing, making sure she knew her game plan for later in the day. Although Ashley wanted it to be a surprise, Lauren had given her a warning: “My stipulation was that I couldn’t be homeless looking.” Ashley treated Lauren to a manicure while she was at her work party the previous evening, and before

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their walk, she suggested Lauren dress

says Lauren, “but I know how many geese

Lauren and proposed. Lauren’s months of

for dinner in case there wasn’t time after

were there.”

hounding were finally over.

Ashley wanted to propose in front of the

After some exploring, their plan is to

“How many geese do you think are

wrought iron swirls and concrete pillars of

have an intimate ceremony with family and

over there?” said Ashley, trying to dis-

the park’s gates, but when she paused and

close friends followed by a pig roast at

tract Lauren so she could look around for

said, “This is a cool gate,” Lauren said,

Hawthorne’s Backyard in West Chicago.

the photographer.

“Yeah, cool,” and tried to keep walking.

their walk.

“It was so stupid. I should have known,”

Despite her nerves, Ashley stopped

“We figured we’re non-traditional as it is; why not do something non-traditional?” says Lauren. “We chose a pig roast because it was unique and fun and represented the kind of party we wanted to have by abandoning a lot of traditional norms.” The couple plans on treating guests to sand volleyball, wiffle ball, bags, and horseshoes. Planning aside, both women knew their priorities: “We thought first and foremost to get married,” says Lauren. “Another reason to keep it simple is because down the road if we decide to have kids, that’s really expensive,” says Ashley. “I think what’s important to us is that our family is there.” Although they haven’t chosen their outfits quite yet, Lauren knows she’ll wear a dress. “I’ll probably wear a dress shirt and pants with a bow tie and suspenders,” says Ashley. “She’s doing a non-traditional outfit,” says Lauren. “I’m sticking to something more conventional.” They’re excited to blend their different styles for an overall look that speaks to their personalities. When the couple was looking at venues, there was an extra step they had to take. “We reached out to the venues to see if they were same-sex friendly,” says Ashley. “Ninety percent said, ‘Yes.’ The others we didn’t hear back from.” “Straight couples don’t have to call and say, ‘Hey, are you straight-friendly?’

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It’s just an awkward conversation to have,” says Lauren.

Michael finds that most vendors have been very accepting of the Marriage Fair-

million dollars in new spending in the first three years.

To avoid aggravation, Equality Illinois cre-

ness Act. “One of the important things that

“Not only are they accepting,” says

ated a wedding planning guide for same-sex

came out even before the law passed was

Michael, “but they market directly toward

couples. “We tried to identify LGBT-friendly

how much revenue would be created in

it. It’s a good way to put their best foot for-

florists, bakers, jewelers, and venues,” says

Illinois from same-sex marriage.” A study

ward, and it’s a great way to help [couples]

Michael. “We created a whole list of individ-

conducted by the Williams Institute of

celebrate. We always get outreach from

uals who would officiate LGBT weddings.”

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new clergy who want to be part of the list. All faiths and all religions are represented.” The venues Lauren and Ashley visited reflected this positivity. “People buy from who they like at the end of the day,” says Lauren. “Vendors know that.” While the change in the law allows every couple to live out their own love story, there’s still progress to be made. “There are still issues because there’s not a national law yet in effect,” says Michael. When couples travel, they don’t retain their marriage rights in states or countries where it’s not recognized. This can be a problem if one partner is injured. “We are very vigilant about any types of bills or laws that would come down to strip away these rights,” says Michael. “In the last session there were four bills that came up to repeal. In a lot of states they allow religious exemptions to refuse service. They’re not currently allowed to do that in Illinois.” Equality Illinois is currently focused on achieving equal treatment. “The first step, once you get certain laws, is to work toward equal treatment. Educate people on their rights and keep them engaged to protect them,” says Michael. Ashley and Lauren have found only support for their upcoming nuptials, especially from their family. “I think that’s the most important thing to us,” says Ashley. Lauren agrees. “I think we’re very blessed and fortunate and loved.”

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The bride and groom were high school sweethearts, but not in the traditional way. Penny Shack was not impressed with the “long-haired soccer dude,” while Adam Schneider simply remembered her as the “theatre chick who wore the neoncolored yellow dress.” Twelve years after graduating from Deerfield High School, they reconnected on Facebook over their mutual love of good food. After two years of dating, Adam found the perfect moment to propose to Penny in Paris, the City of Love. It was important to Penny and Adam to plan an event for their guests that was anything but traditional. Inspired by Adam’s love of Chicago history, the couple wed at the Woman’s Board Grand Staircase of the Art Institute of Chicago with a ceremony in the round. “We were supposed to have it outside, but it rained…anyone can get married in a garden, not everyone can get married inside of the Art Institute.” Another unique aspect of the planning involved a lot of exercise. The bride explains, “We got healthy together. I lost 40 lbs. and Adam lost 85 lbs. We inspired each other to be the best we could be for our wedding day!” says the bride. Elegant flowers in vibrant reds accented the event, while Adam’s Oma’s handmade lace tablecloth served as the top of the chuppah. And after Penny and Adam exchanged vows in a very personalized ceremony, the proud “foodies” delighted their guests with a gourmet menu featuring vegan and gluten-free options. Guests left the reception with a mason jar filled with cookie ingredients as a nod to Penny’s skills as a pastry chef. “Overall, the day was great! The best part [was] being in the moment and saying, ‘I do!’” The couple enjoyed “three weeks of pure bliss” in Australia and New Zealand planned by Adam.

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The 7 Questions You Must Ask Your Potential Venue Choosing a venue for your wedding day is one of the most important yet daunting tasks in all your planning. Given all the gorgeous options, after all, where does one even start? Besides determining if it will be indoor or outdoor, in the city or in the suburbs, you also have to consider the different packages and offerings. It can be overwhelming just to keep all the details straight. The more knowledgeable you are on

Is my date available?

This one is obvious, but it’s the first and most important question to ask. “Some people aren’t flexible with their date, whether it’s because they are coordinating with their church or it’s meaningful to them. It saves both the couple and the venue time as well,” says Amanda Mitchi, event coordinator at Salvatore’s Ristorante.

Resort. “It’s extremely important to have a tentative head count when you start looking at venues because you put yourself in a corner if you love something and then find you can’t have it.” Also ask when the venue will need your final head count and when are you locked into those numbers. It is important to know how much flexibility you are going to have with the guest list.

your potential venue the following ques-

What is your maximum capacity? Am I locked into the number of guests I paid for?

tions will ease any future headaches. Let’s

“When we are prescreening brides, we

face it, it’s better to know all of the infor-

don't ask for the head count for general

mation a year in advance than to have an

budget but because it affects the places

At every wedding, there are going to

issue pop up the week before your big day.

we can show you,” says Fay Anders, cater-

be people who don’t make it, people that

even the minutest of details, the easier it will be for you to make a decision. Asking

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didn’t RSVP and show up anyway, and per-

invites and additional guests arrive. It makes

and accommodating last-minute addi-

haps even people that weren’t on the guest

adding chairs and tables in the dining room

tions. Additionally, you should find out if

list in the first place (your cousin’s new

difficult and providing food for the addition-

you will still be charged for those guest-

boyfriend, perhaps?). What happens then?

al guests a challenge,” says Anna Moretti,

list no-shows.

“Some people brush off changes to a

banquet coordinator of The Heritage

floor plan until the last minute and do not

Ballroom at The Centre of Elgin.

realize the impact changes have on the crew

It’s important to find out if the venue is

and facility. Sometimes people have open

capable of whipping up extra meals

What is included in the total cost of the package? Clients can get too preoccupied with pricing and forget to consider all that the package includes.

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“One venue may be cheaper for food and beverage, but you have to rent your tables, chairs, linens, flatware, china, etc. At another venue, the food may be more expensive, but they include all that and more. Ultimately, what seems to be more expensive at the beginning could turn out to be more affordable. It’s important to lay everything out on the table...so there are not many surprise fees a week before the wedding,” says Mitchi. An inexpensive base package at a banquet hall may look appealing on paper, but once you start adding in the other things, you can end up breaking the bank. Look at the full extent of what your money

The Stonegate provides a warm, rich, inviting feel that will bring a timeless romantic elegance to your event.

is getting you. Anders suggests that when looking at a total package, see how many courses you are getting, the type of bar (well liquors or top shelf), the wedding cake, and decorations like centerpieces. The total cost may not always reflect the tax, gratuities, or service charge, so it’s important to ask for the complete number.

5. Everything about The Stonegate will captivate you, from its Grand Ballroom with elaborate iron chandeliers and grand staircases to the year-round Lakeside Pavilion draped in white linen.

What is the venue responsible for and what will I be responsible for? “People often get confused with what

the venue or venue coordinator is responsible for day of. Some couples expect

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bringing in, but that varies from venue to

setting up the décor, who will be available

young couples, but you have the grand-

venue,” says Taylor Dahlstrom, catering and

when vendors begin to arrive and who

parents that can't get up the stairs. Even

special events manager, Rivers Restaurant

should be your vendors’ point of contact.

two steps can be a hassle when going

down the aisle,” says Anders.

& Rittergut Wine Bar. “In short, know that there’s a difference between a venue coordinator and a wedding planner.”

Could there be any issues with accessibility?

It’s important to have a chat with your

“That’s important because there are

venue and ask who will be responsible for

places in the city that are gorgeous for

The last thing you want is for someone to get hurt on your special day. Everyone at the party should be able to enjoy themselves.

What’s “Plan B” in case of inclement weather? You’re usually concerned about the possibility of rain when it comes to outdoor weddings, but what if the problem becomes the heat, and it’s unbearable to stay outside? Play out either scenario with the venue and find out what the alternative plan would be. “It’s important to know that the venue has a plan and not the attitude of ‘Oh, we’re just gonna wing it and see how it goes.’ You should find out if the venue has a backup space if needed,” says Dahlstrom. “I’ve had brides put fans on all the ceremony chairs on those hot days, but if it’s scorching, then you’d want to know if you can bring the party indoors.” “Even a tent really needs a backup indoor location,” adds Anders. “You can have a tent, floor to ceiling with windows, and it will still flood through the side of the seams. No matter what you choose to have outside, make sure you have an adequate space inside.” Starting your planning with those questions will give you a good perspective of the venue. Once you have your answers, it’s important to decide if you like the people working at the venue. Once you find a venue and coordinator you mesh with, you’re ready to book a space and let the rest of your planning begin. 142

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It’s All Going to be Okay…

Really!

HOW ONE BRIDE’S MISTAKES DIDN’T RUIN HER WEDDING

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Let’s face it: every bride wants to be

I was not your model bride – not while

perfect. Even I – a gal who hadn’t thought

I was planning my wedding, nor during

much about bridalhood until I got engaged

the events that led up to my wedding day

– experienced moments when it felt like

and not even on the big day itself. What I

effortless wedded perfection was the

was, was myself: messy and awkward, a

ultimate goal.

little nervous, occasionally overwhelmed

To be honest, I had no idea what I was

and definitely not always fresh-faced.

getting myself into when I started planning

Sometimes I even forgot to shave my legs

my large summer wedding in downtown

(see: dress fitting).

Chicago. After all, for many of us brides,

Being a bride is not always easy, and

our first jaunt down the aisle is also our

that voice in our heads telling us we have

first experience organizing such a momen-

to be perfect is not easy to silence either.

tous event. And even for those brides

But if we can let go of the idea of perfec-

who have taken the wedding-planning

tion, we might just end up with something

plunge before, every wedding is different.

even better: a wedding that is uniquely

With so little practice under our belts (or,

our own. Other brides are bound to make

you know, our Spanx) it’s no wonder the

some of the mistakes I did. The key is

pressure to be a perfect bride can start to

learning how to turn those mistakes into

feel overwhelming.

some irreplaceable memories.

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MISTAKE: I

Said Yes… To Everyone

called with planning questions: This venue?

it! While these weren’t necessarily my

Yes! Those linens? Yes! When Great Aunt

“dream wedding” elements, including other

We’ve all seen those adorable wedding

Beverly wanted to invite that second

people in the decision-making took some

announcements: a couple getting cozy

cousin I’d never met? Sure! When my

pressure off me – and gave others the

beneath an artsy sign proclaiming “She

bridal consultant asked if I was “saying yes

opportunity to help create such a memo-

said Yes!” In my case, after I said yes to

to the dress”? Absolutely! When my fiancé

rable day.

my future groom, I also said yes to just

wanted to open our reception with the

about everyone else. When my mother

Chicago Blackhawks theme song? Go for

MISTAKE: I

Bought the First Dress I Tried On …Sort of. It was the fifth. But as far as my mother and the gal-pals cozied up out-

side my dressing room were concerned, it might as well have been the first. These ladies came prepped for the long-haul – purses full of chocolate kisses, pads of paper for note taking, a folder of clipped bridal advertisements. I selected my dress before they’d had time to uncap their pens and unwrap their kisses. Now, if you’re a bride who adores oohing and aahing over fabric and sequins for hours, you go for it girl! But if you’re like me, and dress number one (or five) looks like it’ll do the trick, don’t sweat it. You – your uniquely beautiful self – is what makes your dress. The dress does not make you. You may repeat this quietly to yourself while facing the three-sided mirror if you want.

MISTAKE: I

Registered for All of the Things I’m just going to be honest here – that

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MISTAKE: I

Invited Guests at the Last Minute I also skipped right over making a

MISTAKE: I

Celebrated a Little Too Much at the Rehearsal Dinner

pictures. It’s the perfect time to over indulge! Save your dignity for the wedding day! The rehearsal dinner is where it’s at.

seating chart, which only further enabled

Okay, a lot too much. Went-to-sleep-as-

me to invite guests at the last minute;

the-sun-was-rising-on-my-wedding-day

two wedding Faux pas I highly recom-

too much. This behavior is not going to

As a direct consequence of the afore-

mend. Some of us brides are opting for

come highly recommended by anyone.

mentioned mistake, let’s just say I was not

pretty long engagements these days –

Many a bridal advice column advise against

my freshest, most blushing of selves at

I’ve seen many a wedding countdown

it. Let me just stand apart from these sage

wedding o’clock in the morning. Despite

exceeding 500 days. I was one such

words of wisdom for a moment and say

my Pinterest-ing the heck out of softly

bride. How was I to possibly know how

that I am a champion of the rehearsal din-

curled and braided updos, it was all I could

many new friends I would make in all that

ner. I think it is the most unfairly under-

do to stand beneath a blow dryer and run

time? (Chicago is pretty much the friend-

rated of all the getting-married events. I

a comb through my hair. So that’s all I did.

liest city on Earth, don’t you know?) My

mean, you’re gathered together with the

I gifted the assigned hair-doer to my

last-minute guests didn’t seem to care that

people who are probably your closest

notably better rested bridesmaids and

their invitations were delivered via my sim-

and most favored in the world, for no

walked down the aisle with my hair tan-

ply asking them if they wanted to come,

other reason than to celebrate you. Fur-

gled and wild like it is every other day of

and every single one of them made the

thermore, you haven’t put on the fancy

my life. I ended up looking pretty great, if

day more fun.

dress yet, so no one is really taking

I do say so myself.

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Took a Wedding Break Here’s a little secret about your wed-

ding day – you’re going to smile, both sincerely and politely, more than you think is possible. Your face will eventually start to hurt and then become a little numb. On my wedding day it was at this point that I decided to enjoy something I like to call “the wedding break.” If your reception venue has a bridal room or suite this is what that room is for. In my case, this meant loosening my dress, lying on the floor, and frowning a little, just to make sure I still could. I stayed on the floor for the better part of an hour. Was this behavior a little rude to my guests? Probably. But it also turned out to be one of my favorite memories of the day. My mom,

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When it comes to the business of getting married, every bride is trying to find her

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my best girlfriends and two of my favorite Aunties all took off their shoes and gathered on the floor with me to take a deep breath…and pretend we weren’t gossiping about some of my more uniquely loveable guests.

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Was the Last Person to Leave the Reception In the world of Miss Manners this is an egregious error of etiquette. I didn’t know this. Apparently, following the cutting of the cake (or in my case, the distributing of rainbow cake pops) the bride and groom are supposed to whisk themselves away from the celebration, fashionably leaving their guests to close down the party on their own. Instead my new husband and I were the last ones to leave the festivities. I’m really glad we were. It was one of the most romantic moments of the evening. As the remaining gifts were being put into the car, we were alone for the first time that day. Arm in arm on a rooftop, overlooking the Chicago skyline and starry Lake Michigan, we were simultaneously exuberant over the same two thoughts: “We’re MARRIED!” and “Oh, thank goodness it’s finally quiet again.” When it comes to the business of getting married, every bride is trying to find her own style of bridal bliss and we all make some mistakes along the way. The good news is, in my experience, not only do those mistakes not have to ruin your wedding, sometimes they make the entire day better than you expected. After all, you don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be yourself.

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As Luck Would Have It ANETA AND SAHIL AGGARWAL, DONALD E. STEPHENS CONVENTION CENTER WRITTEN BY JEANNE SULLIVAN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY PHOTOGRAPHIKA1

Friday the 13th is known for being an unlucky day, but not for Sahil and Aneta Aggarwal. Fate brought them both to the same grocery store, where Aneta was looking for the perfect apple. What she found was the perfect man. Sahil canceled his plans with friends and asked Aneta to join him for an apple crumble cake dessert. “That was just the beginning of their fairytale.” “Guests traveled from near and far to attend the wedding of a lifetime.” An international-themed Mehndi Night started the celebration with food stations and dance from around the world. “The Mehndi Night was a surprise – no one would tell me anything. The Indian culture is so bold and colorful, so different from my allwhite wedding,” says Aneta. The next day, with 900 guests in attendance, Sahil and Aneta were married. “As soon as I saw Aneta coming down the aisle, all I could see was how beautiful she looked,” says Sahil. A romantic horsedrawn carriage whisked them away from the ceremony. The following day, Aneta and Sahil had a traditional Hindu wedding ceremony, complete with an elephant for the groom to ride during the Baraat. “I was feeling so many emotions at once. Ever since I was a little girl I dreamt of my wedding, and the reality surpassed my dreams,” says the bride. Family and friends enjoyed an extraordinary reception in which an ice bar and laser light show were featured. “No details were left untouched to bring the weekend to a larger than life finish.”

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You’re Welcome CREATING THE PERFECT WELCOME BAGS FOR YOUR GUESTS There is no better way to kick off your

long after the wedding bells have chimed.

welcome bag should include a few bottles

wedding weekend on a positive note than to

“The goal is to have the bag contain one

of water or drinks. The guests will love you

greet your guests with a thoughtful token of

or two items that guests will actually

for it the next morning. Also give them

your appreciation. Welcome bags are a spe-

remember in a few years,” says Katy Tay-

something to snack on. After traveling,

cial touch that make guests feel comfortable

lor, catering sales manager at Wyndham

guests will appreciate a little energy boost.

and at home, especially if you are having a

Glenview Suites, who also offered the fol-

This can be granola bars, trail mix, or other

destination wedding or are having guests

lowing suggestions:

healthy goodies.

The Essentials

Personalized Items

from out of town. A good selection of handpicked items, some essentials, and a personalized message from the bride and groom will

Because not every hotel offers compli-

Something with the bride and groom’s

leave your guests with a lasting impression

mentary water bottles in the room, every

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little keepsake for guests to bring home. This can be a bar of soap, mug, a bag of coffee beans, or even a candy bar.

Practical Additions These items may not seem super inventive, but boy, will your guests be grateful for them! Be sure to include Advil or Tylenol, Tums, eye drops, and stain remover wipes. Plus, these items are inexpensive to buy in bulk.

Thank You Lastly, you should include a handwritten card that says welcome, enjoy, and thank you. No other gesture speaks more from the heart than a personalized message to your guests. For a Chicago wedding, Molly Larmon, director of catering at DoubleTree by Hilton Chicago North Shore, recommends incorporating some local goodies for out-of-town guests visiting the Windy City. Her top picks are Garrett’s popcorn, Eli’s cheesecake, or a stop at Portillo’s. For those in the bridal party, it’s especially helpful to add an itinerary that includes a timeline, contact information, and key locations. For out-of-towners, you can include a personalized guide to the town, like your favorite places to eat or boutiques for window shopping. In addition to a welcome bag, you may want to consider including a bathroom basket at your reception location. While most hotels offer complimentary soap, shampoo, and lotion, items such as floss, mints, hand sanitizer, mini toothbrushes, deodorant sticks, chapstick, and hair spray are additional bonuses. These baskets of goodies can be further customized depending on the season, like cough drops during the winter or bug spray for summer. CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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Explore other small but convenient options: • Bobby pins • Hair ties • Makeup remover wipes • Blotting sheets • Spray-on deodorant • Lint roller • Eye drops • Contact solution Tailor your bags to fit your wedding theme for an extra classy touch. Larmon suggests customizing the welcome bags by pulling in the bridal party’s colors with a decoration on the bag or the items within. You can custom create labels or stickers that mirror your wedding invitation design or theme and attach it to the front of each bag. You can even have the design printed directly on the bag, if you want to get really crafty. The contents of the bag can also reflect your wedding theme. Taylor’s ideas for favors include peanuts for a sports theme, flower seeds for a garden theme, or fuzzy slippers and earmuffs for a winter wedding. Other fun items include pashminas for an outdoor wedding for when it gets chilly, or flip flops to unwind during dancing, adds Larmon. Brainstorm items that would complement your wedding locale or theme.

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Rustic: • A mason jar filled with homemade jam • Customized map of the area, including your favorite locations • Local brews Determining how much to spend on each guest is entirely dependent on each couple and their budget. “Welcome bags are usually an afterthought to the wedding plans after everything else has been booked and paid for,” says Larmon. She recommends couples be careful not to overspend on gift bags unless it is a destination wedding. “All the items should be practical in everyday life or consumable for that weekend. “An appropriate amount would be ten to twenty dollars per bag,” says Taylor. She suggests ordering most of the items online, where it is easier to find bulk deals or snag items at an affordable price. While it is nice to have the bags ready for each guest on their pillows ahead of check-in time, the hotel may charge you for this convenience. The easiest way to get the gifts to your guests is to have the front desk hand out the bags when the guests check in and have the agent say it is a gift from the bride and groom. If you are going the route of delivering the bags to the rooms, get a room list from the hotel prior to dropping the bags off so that you know how many bags you will need to deliver. Then, hand over the bags to the hotel a day or two before check in. Welcome bags may not seem like a big

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Alison and Nathan met as freshmen at New Trier High School in Winnetka, where they quickly became close friends. Years later, while attending their senior prom, the couple realized they were more than friends. College kept them geographically apart, but their friendship remained intact. When Alison returned to Chicago, their relationship was renewed. “Nathan enlisted the help of Chicago Chocolate Tours to plan a private tasting tour around our neighborhood," says the bride. "At the final stop, he presented me with a box of truffles with the ring box hidden underneath. I, of course, said yes once I finally stopped crying.” The Adler Planetarium was chosen as the perfect venue thanks to its stunning view of the Chicago skyline. “Nathan and I were very excited to show off our favorite city – the city where we met and fell in love,” says Alison. The outdoor festivities were moved inside because of heavy rainfall, but romance prevailed. “As Nathan and I were standing at the altar, the clouds parted and the most amazing sunset appeared. Everyone said it was like magic.” The bride and groom were delighted to be joined by friends and family who had known them both since their early high school days. “They had been there for every step of our relationship, both the good and the bad. It was amazing to be surrounded by such love and support on our big day.” Alison, Nathan and their guests ended the evening with a breathtaking fireworks display from nearby Navy Pier.

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Bridesmaids vs. Bride’s Maids HOW TO KEEP YOUR BRIDESMAIDS FROM LEAVING YOU AT THE ALTAR Dear Bride, I’ve been a bridesmaid several times. I just finished my latest stint and I’m trying

of all bridesmaids out there, I’d like to take

get all the flirts, and their matching outfits

a moment to speak to you before you put

make them look like a sexy military battalion.

bles and add a cute little apostrophe,

to reanimate my exhausted carcass for a run at maid of honor. I’m not saying I’m involved in any kind of 27 Dresses shenanigans, but I’ve done my duty more times than any woman should. And now, dear Bride, as a representative

But it is so easy to separate the sylla-

your favorite ladies on speed dial.

The term is “bridesmaids,” not “bride’s maids.”

and suddenly “bridesmaids” becomes “bride’s maids.”

The term “bridesmaid” is revered. Every-

I’m warning you now. Do not treat these

one wants to be one of those lucky chicks

ladies as though they are literally your

at the wedding. They’re looked up to, they

maids. Don’t demand they empty their

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savings accounts for dresses. Don’t order

Unless you actually pay these women

your brother’s lonely best friend, Eugene.

them to hot glue favors and bead vases

with real money, they are not servants.

You can ask them for their availability

while they’re supposed to be studying for

You don’t get to make huge demands

and invite them to your bachelorette party.

the bar exam. Don’t rip up their calendars

on their time or insist they fly to Las Vegas

Light crafting is well within reason, so feel

and hand them a new bride-approved one.

for the bachelorette party you decided

free to ask them (politely) to give you a

Don’t point out where they missed a

last night just must happen today. You

(convenient) time when they can hop on by

speck of dust on your armoire and make

can’t use them for heavy manual labor

and help you stick rickrack to mason jars

them start over.

or put them in charge of dancing with

or hand dip candles. And hey, if one of them thinks Eugene’s taped glasses look trendy, you’ve got a win-win-win situation on your pretty little hands.

Let’s call a spade a spade and an ugly dress an ugly dress.

No one’s wearing the dress again. Unless you’re one of those super cool brides who says, “Pick out what you want, my friends. I trust your judgment in all things!” then odds are your bridesmaids aren’t going to find the right occasion for the ill-fitting taffeta monstrosity you threw at them. Even if the dress is gorgeous, there’s something different about a bridesmaid dress. It somehow just looks like a bridesmaid dress, and it seems out of place if you wear it in any other setting. That floorlength chiffon frock doesn’t translate to Betty’s favorite techno club or Emily’s backyard BBQ. There’s also something a little bit off when someone wears a dress they didn’t pick out. It’s just not them. The only setting in which a bridesmaid dress is suitable is another wedding, but - and tell me if this is just me – I use that as an excuse to buy a fun new dress that I absolutely love. I’m not recycling anything I didn’t expressly pick out to flatter these curves. As a friend, you know what your ladies feel confident wearing. Your busty friend

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Your ladies may still be in the infancy of their counterfeiting operation.

grandpa gave her a roll of quarters when

While we’re talking about dresses,

in your piggy bank for a rainy day,” your

The dress doesn’t have to reflect their

keep your bridesmaids’ budgets in mind.

bridesmaid was probably not thinking,

personalities. It just has to make them feel

It’s not ok to ask them to spend $600 on

“One day, I’m going to be so-and-so’s

comfortable and confident. If it’s not their

a dress just because you’ve spent $3,000

bridesmaid, so I better save for this

style, it’s not their style. They’ll still wear it

on yours.

absolute pinnacle of my life.”

might not appreciate your choice of a strapless dress with a two-inch bust. Paranoia and nipples do not a happy wedding make.

because they love you.

Odds are you’ve been saving your

pennies for this little event. When your pal’s

she was 10 and said, “You should put this

Whether she’s saving for her own wedding, a car, or an absolutely fabulous new pair of piloxing gloves, your friend probably wants to spend her money on things that directly impact her own life. Look for reasonable dress choices, and don’t demand that she partake in your head-totoe spa day at Le Designer Salon.

“Bachelorette Party” doesn’t have to mean airfaire + hotel + car rental.

The best way to exclude your friends is to plan that trip to Vegas or a weekend beach retreat on Fiji. Even local stuff can add up. I’ve missed out on a few fun, depraved adventures because rent was due that week. If you want everyone there, make sure they can easily afford it. Because somebody has to buy the bride drinks.

Some people (me) are like mama bears when it comes to their time.

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off work, class or yoga. Give them enough advance notice so they can plan around it.

Find a dress you can pee in.

If I had a nickel for every time I had to stand on a toilet in high heels to hoist a big dress over a bride’s head while listening to that unappealing tinkle noise just before dinner, I’d probably have about ten bucks, which, in this economy, is significant. Honestly, this one is just wishful thinking. Your ladies know this is the most important moment of your year, and if you want to wear the fluffiest, frothiest, funnest hoop dress from the 19th century, they’re going to climb over a public toilet for you to lift that gorgeous confection. That’s how much they love you.

Tell them you love them.

In all seriousness, I’ve been really lucky. I do have one dress that I wear over and over again. I escaped Chicago winter to help a friend celebrate in sunny California. I bonded with my fellow bridesmaids and built lifelong-lasting inside jokes about broken underwires and underwear lines. I love all these women still because they’re fantastic, strong people. I never felt as though I was being taken advantage of (maybe a couple times), and mostly budget was considered. But there are some brides (and mother-in-laws *ahem*) who will take it too far and who will confuse “bridesmaids” for “bride’s maids.” Just respect your ladies, be understanding of their boundaries, and you’ll end the night how every wedding should end: in a happy, tearful, and sloppy dance circle. Sincerely, A Career Bridesmaid Who’s Looking for a New Career 170

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Altering, Adjusting, and Abandoning Traditions FINDING NEW WAYS TO CREATE YOUR OWN WEDDING CUSTOMS

It’s your wedding day. If you want to

your love. If you want to mix some age-old

wear a purple dress, then do it. Sure,

traditions and some new features into

you’re going to have naysayers along the

your ceremony and reception, then by all

way. But this is about you, your fiancé, and

means go for it.

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A Harris Poll* last year showed that

But if you plan on dumping some of the

make the day memorable for all involved.

Americans still believe in some very old-

traditions your parents and their parents

Here are some new and non-traditional

fashioned customs when it comes to

held close to their hearts, be aware that

trends you can use to add a little pizzazz

weddings. For instance, 84 percent think it

you may encounter some resistance. Just

and personal change to the same old wed-

is wonderful when a bride is given away by

assure your family that these changes will

ding rituals.

her dad. Seventy percent love when the

flow well with your overall theme. Express-

groom asks the bride’s parents for permis-

ing your choices in place of old-school

sion before proposing to their daughter.

ideas will just add special touches and

Unity Ceremony Lighting a candle to signify the lives you are combining can be beautiful, but there are plenty of other unity rituals to choose from that can be just as impactful. Consider planting a flower or small tree together, or perform a rope braiding ritual. What about a blush wine celebration? You pour a white wine into a glass. Your fiancé pours a red wine into the white. It becomes a combined blush that you both drink. How romantic! Not wine connoisseurs? Swap out the wine for M&Ms in your favorite colors. Besides being bright and bold, you can also feed each other these sweet delights. Yum!

Bridesmaid Bouquet Alternatives Flowers are beautiful. But what about something a little different, like lanterns for the bridesmaids to carry – especially if you have an outdoor wedding at dusk? Clutch purses are becoming a big trend, too, which can be embellished with flowers. Candles, ferns, and fancy fans can also take the place of typical bouquets. Or, if you’re into the floral look, try adding floral crowns to your bridesmaids’ attire. It’s a beautiful, unique look that’s sure to wow.

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cloth or paper aisle runner. And guess what? They have red ones, too! If you’ve always wanted to walk the red carpet like a movie star, here’s your chance.

The Big Entrance While “Canon in D” is always a good choice, why not walk down the aisle to a song that speaks to your unique love. After your first kiss as newlyweds, you can leave the venue to a song that holds special meaning for you both. Talk to your band or DJ about what options they have in their repertoire and if they can learn or get something new for your wedding.

Wedding Party It doesn’t matter who is standing up beside you, as long as they are people you care about deeply. So, if you are the bride

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It doesn’t matter who is

standing

but your best friend is a guy, then he should take center stage as the Man of

up beside you , as long as

Honor. Assigning traditional roles to non-

they are people you care about

norm and we love it!

deeply.

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traditional attendants has become the new

Rice was the old standby for tossing at the couple as they walked out of the church and climbed into their ride to the reception. But these days, many couples get married in the same place they have the reception. So, the alternatives can be ringing bells as the couple seals the deal at the altar, or guests can throw colorful sprinkles as the newlyweds walk back up the aisle. Yarn pom-poms or paper airplanes that are made from the wedding programs can also be a fun changeover. Directions on how to make the planes could be printed on the back of the programs. How fun is that? For an outside, eco-friendly option, have guests toss flower seeds, then return to visit the blooms on your first anniversary.

Music Guests Want to Hear To make your reception a little more interactive and conducive to your guests’ wants, you can add a line for a song request on your RSVP cards or on your wedding website.

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The Newlywed Game with a Twist Add a little entertainment for your guests by playing the wedding shoe game. As you sit back to back with your new spouse, each of you hold one of your shoes in your right hand and one of your partner’s shoes in the left. Have someone ask questions like, “Who leaves the cap off the toothpaste more often?” You both hold up the shoe of the person you believe is the culprit. Your guests will have a blast.

Non-uniform Uniforms Bridesmaids don’t have to be all matchy-matchy anymore. If you like rainbow pastels, then that’s what you shall have – a different color on each of your ladies. If you want them to wear red,

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Just remember that

this is your

day. Make it the way you want it! A few changes here and there to long-lived rituals will be loved and reveled by your family and friends. You might even start a

new trend

be dripping in diamonds? Your ring should be true to your tastes, not what’s “normal.”

Reception Transformation Live music and DJs are wonderful for getting people on their feet. But for a unique, interactive way to get guests moving, why not offer dance lessons to start off the reception? You can hire

or tradition for all those couples that follow you.

instructors to teach a few ballroom dances or whatever is part of your cul-

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ture. You can also plan a karaoke night for your reception to see how talented

orange, fuchsia, and yellow dresses, why

pick out an engagement ring or wedding

your guests and wedding party really

not? It’s your wedding!

band made from this beautiful stone?

are. If your reception is outside, offer up

There is nothing wrong with going with your

old-fashioned games such as croquet,

own style. If you like pink sapphires,

bocce ball, horseshoes, and more. You

Turquoise has been your favorite color

rubies, or just a silver band, then who is

can also hire other entertainers including

for as long as you can remember. Why not

to say that your engagement ring has to

artists, fortune-tellers, or even celebrity

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If you can’t imagine your wedding day without the time-tested traditions, that’s fine, too. Few things say wedding like a big white dress and stunning bouquets. If you like traditional vows, plated dinners, and orchestra music, then no one is going to tell you that it’s wrong. Just remember that this is your day. Make it the way you want it! A few changes here and there to long-lived rituals will be loved and reveled by your family and friends. You might even start a new trend or tradition for all those couples that follow you. *Source: Shannon-Missal, Larry. “Americans Still Think a Bride's Father Should Give Her Away - But They're Split on Whether He Should Be Stuck with the Bill.” Harris Polls. Nielsen & The Harris Poll, n.d. Web.

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Tipping is never mandatory unless your contract warrants it, but if a vendor went above and beyond, let them know. These guidelines will help you figure out the customary individuals

10% Tip – Bartenders

15% Tip – Musicians (Ceremony)

$200 – Catering Managers

15% Tip – Musicians (Reception)

15–20% Tip – Hairstylist

$200 – Photographer & Videographer

15–20% Tip – Limo Driver

15% Tip – Wedding Planner

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to tip. For a house of worship, it’s customary to make a donation of $500 to $1,000. Non denominational officiants should get approxi-

15–20% Tip – Makeup Artist

mately $50 to $100.

Sample Wedding Budget 40% Reception 10% Attire: Wedding Gown, Accessories, Tux 10% Music 10% Photo & Video 8% Other: Transportation, Tips, Gifts, Any Added Expenses 7% Flowers 5% Cake 5% Ceremony 5% Stationery

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Becoming a Family BECAUSE MARRIAGE ISN’T ALWAYS JUST BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE Two very distinct individuals coming together in an attempt to blend their lives – that is, in short, the concept of marriage. The upside is sharing your life with someone. The downside can also be sharing your life with someone. There are many benefits and challenges of figuring out how to essentially mesh two personalities together, smooth out the differences, and accept quirky habits. But not all marriages involve just two people. When one or both partners bring children into a relationship, it’s bound to be interesting, emotional, and not entirely simple. However, a positive attitude towards blending your families can produce a fruitful, lifelong creation. From the planning stages right down to the reception, there are various traditional and innovative ways to make your wedding a family affair. Involving family members will give them a sense of priority in the celebration, signify their unique part in this transition, and symbolize a true team effort. To make sure everyone feels welcome, find ways to include children in all aspects of the wedding celebrations. For instance, opt for a kid-friendly venue for your bridal or wedding shower, where the kids can be given the important responsibility of opening the wedding gifts. When it comes to the reception planning process, you can devise a craft project that the kids can take

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which each member of the family receives

passage, poem, or song. Angelina Jolie

welcome signs or favors. You can also put

a candle and uses it to light one central

found a cute and creative way to showcase

their culinary skills to work and organize a

candle. This gesture symbolizes the act of

her and Brad’s litter of six in their nuptials –

baking day. Serve treats from the little

coming together as a family.

her floor-sweeping veil was embellished

chefs at your rehearsal dinner or your morning-after brunch. Depending on age, there are different

A variation on this is placing pebbles or

with their colorful artwork! Be creative and

sand in a decorative container that you can

think about what your children love to do

then display at home.

and how you can incorporate that into your big day.

ways that you can make your kids an active

Many couples place a bottle of wine in

part of the ceremony. The simplest way of

a wooden box and nail it shut until their first

At the reception, your "first dance"

doing this is to ask them to take a role in

anniversary. Swap out the wine for some

can include kids. Or highlight your new

the wedding, like being a junior bridesmaid

sparkling grape juice and make a promise

bond by having a special dance with each

or groomsman. If they are younger, flower

to include your children in the celebration.

child – a play on a mother/son or father/

girls and ring bearers are always a hit.

Another way of incorporating children

daughter dance.

The kids can say “I do,” too. During the

into a wedding is through your vows.

No matter how you choose to include

ceremony, after the two of you have

Adding a special, direct message to the

them, the important part is to make sure

exchanged rings, the children can also

kids will make them feel like the important

your children know that they are part of

receive a ring, rose, necklace or other spe-

part of the family they are.

your marriage. You’re not only taking your

cial symbol of your new bond. You can also hold a unity ceremony, in

Likewise, the kids can recite something during the ceremony or reception, like a

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on and incorporate into the venue, such as

spouse for life, you’re vowing to become a family.

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Maid or Matron of Honor

reponsibility reminders #1

probably greeted with a resounding “YES”

Your maid or matron of honor (MOH) is

followed by a hug. But before you let them

really your right hand – your second in com-

commit, it’s smart to let them know just what

mand, so to speak. This should be the per-

they’re in for when they agree to be a part

son who’s closest to you, so choose your

When you asked your friends and fam-

of your special day. Here’s a traditional

MOH wisely. You might ask your sister, a

ily to be a part of your wedding, you were

breakdown of the bridal party obligations.

close friend, a roommate, or even your mother to fill this role. If you can’t imagine having anyone other than your brother or best male friend by your side, go ahead and ask him to be your man of honor. Here’s a list of the MOH’s traditional duties: • Assist the bride with pre-wedding tasks • Coordinate the bridesmaids for dress shopping and fittings • Purchase her own MOH attire for the wedding • Host a shower or bachelorette party with the bridesmaids, and attend all other pre-wedding events • Help the bride dress on the wedding day • Arrange the bride’s dress at the altar and hold the bridal bouquet if necessary. • The MOH is also responsible for holding the groom’s ring during the ceremony if necessary. • Sign the marriage license as one of two witnesses. • Give a toast at the reception at the bride’s request. • Assist the bride with any tasks after the reception. • If you’re leaving for your honeymoon immediately following your wedding, ask your MOH to drop your gown off at the dry cleaner or have her take your bouquet to the flower preservationist. She can also help you transport wedding gifts from the celebration site to your home.

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reponsibility reminders #2 Best Man This honor is usually bestowed on the

• Help the groom dress and take care of any last minute details before the ceremony

Bridesmaids Close friends and family of the bride

groom’s brother or closest friend, but

• Keep the bride’s wedding ring safe until

are often chosen as bridesmaids. Which

many a groom have chosen to have his

it is requested during the ceremony

loved ones to choose and how many to

father as his best man. Just as the

• Sign the marriage license as one of two

choose is up to you. Again, it’s perfectly

maid of honor is the bride’s second in command, the best man plays a similar role for the groom. If your husband-to-be

witnesses • Propose a toast to the newlyweds during the reception

is closest to his sister or has a female

• At the groom’s request, the best man

friend that he’s extremely fond of, there’s

may hand out sealed envelopes con-

no reason why she can’t be named his

taining payments to servers, officiants,

honor attendant. The choice is his.

and other wedding professionals

Here’s a list of the Best Man’s traditional duties: • Assist the groom with any pre-wedding tasks • Coordinate the bachelor party with the groomsmen

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• Coordinate the return of any tuxedo rentals after the wedding

appropriate

have

friends

the

opposite sex as attendants. While you might not want to call your male friends bridesmaids, the title of honor attendant is gender neutral. Here’s a list of the bridesmaids’ traditional duties: • Assist the bride with any pre-wedding tasks

• The best man can also work with the

• Attend all pre-wedding events, and

maid or matron of honor to see that all

assist the maid or matron of honor with

the gifts are transported from the recep-

bachelorette party or bridal shower

tion site to your home after the wedding.

preparations

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• Purchase their own bridesmaid attire • Provide support and help with any lastminute details before the ceremony • Sit at the designated table during the reception and if requested, dance with male attendants during the newlyweds’ first dance

Groomsmen Your groom’s closest buddies and family members are the perfect candidates for groomsmen. While it’s not necessary to have the same number of groomsmen as there are bridesmaids, it does give symmetry to photos. But a groomsman should never, ever be chosen just to even out the number of attendants on each side. Let him choose his attendants based on who has stood by him and shown support

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for him throughout his life, not on who’ll look best in a tux. Here’s a list of the groomsmen’s traditional duties: • Assist the groom and best man with any pre-wedding tasks • Help the best man plan the bachelor party • Rent or purchase their own formalwear • Provide support and help with any last-

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Ushers Depending on how many loved ones you want to include in your wedding party, you may want to have designated ushers. Many couples choose to have their groomsmen serve as ushers, but if you have a large family or circle of friends, it might make more sense to include others as ushers. Their attire should be the same or complementary to that of the attendants. Traditional duties of an usher: • Attend all pre-wedding events such as showers and parties • Rent or purchase their own wedding attire • Assist the bride and groom with any lastminute details before the ceremony

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• Seat the guests for the wedding ceremony • Unroll the aisle runner in preparation for the bride’s walk down the aisle • Dismiss the guests from their rows following the ceremony • Sit at the designated table during the reception If you find yourself delegating quite a bit of the wedding grunt work to your attendants, keep in mind that your friends are there to help you, not serve you. Expecting too much is a sure fire way to strain a friendship, and no matter what role they play in your day, everyone who participates in your wedding should be properly thanked. A thoughtful gift and a personally written thank you note will show your appreciation for all their assistance.

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Money Matters Who is Traditionally Responsible for the Costs of Your Big Day When it comes to footing the bill, today it’s less common for the bride’s family to shoulder the bulk of the financial burden. Instead, many couples are paying for their own weddings, or the couple, the bride’s parents, and the groom’s parents share the expenses. If you decide to follow tradition and ask your parents for financial assistance for your

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wedding, allow them to determine an acceptable figure for the celebration. To help you with your planning, here are some traditional expense guidelines, including what each family is usually responsible for.

the bride 1. The groom’s wedding band 2. Gifts for her bridal attendants 3. Gift for the groom

the bride’s parents 1. Wedding invitations and postage 2. Bridal gown 3. Bridal accessories including, veil, headpiece, lingerie, jewelry, and shoes 4. Fees associated with the ceremony

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location, including rental fees, decorations, and music costs 5. Bridesmaid bouquets 6. Cost of the reception including, rental fees, decorations, music/entertainment, and the cake 7. Initial fees for the photographer and videographer (each family will be responsible for selecting and paying for their own photos and videos following the wedding) 8. Transportation

the groom 1. The bride’s wedding band 2. The marriage license 3. Gifts for his attendants 4. Officiant’s fee 5. His formalwear 6. Honeymoon 7. A gift for the bride

the groom’s parents 1. Cost of the rehearsal dinner, including, location fees, decorations, and invitations

the attendants 1. Their wedding attire and accessories 2. Portion of the bridal shower, bachelorette party, or bachelor party 3. Wedding gift for the couple 4. Their travel expenses to and from the affair Formulating and sticking to a budget is never easy, but it’s the right thing to do when you’re planning a wedding. Your budget shouldn’t limit you; it should keep you focused and out of debt. Be realistic, analyze your wish list, and tally the price tag – you need to make the most of your money to pull off the wedding you want. CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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Popping the Big Questions A BLUEPRINT FOR COMMUNICATING YOUR WAY TO HAPPILY EVER AFTER In the months leading up to my wed-

Well-wishers left me wondering what

Being engaged really showed me just

ding, it seemed like everyone from relatives

goes into the “perfect” relationship. I quick-

how important it is to keep the lines of

to complete strangers wanted to impart

ly realized that there is no such thing. The

communication flowing. Planning a wed-

words of wisdom upon me. Everyone had

perfect relationship is the one that works

ding is stressful. You’ve got the big

an opinion on how to plan a wedding and

best for you. In the end, it really doesn’t mat-

things to worry about, like the venue,

how to live happily ever after. At times, it

ter who takes out the trash, who cooks more

the guest list, the menu, etc. And then

was hard to sort through it all and figure

or who walks the dog. What does matter is

there are a million details to organize – all

out what pieces of advice my fiancé and I

how you communicate about those menial

while managing the expectations of every-

needed to listen to most.

tasks – and the more serious matters.

one involved.

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People encouraged us to communicate early, communicate often, and communicate about almost everything. They said they couldn’t believe how following that simple guideline kept their relationships spicy and made for many happily married years. This motto helped them avoid some of marriage’s major stumbling blocks. Couples often associate communication with opening up a dialogue around the BIG questions. Do you want kids? If so, how many? Do you want to live here or move? Do you want to incorporate religion into our lives? What are your career goals? How should we budget? I’m exhausted just reviewing that list, and it doesn’t cover half of the questions people suggested we discuss. I’m proud to say that even prior to our

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yearlong engagement, my fiancé and I had covered most of these topics. Aligning our answers to those questions brought us close quickly. But we learned that much more goes into communication than simply talking through the BIG questions. As we prepared for our nuptials, my fiancé decided to run for a seat on our local Village Board. Between wedding planning, fundraising for the campaign, walking door to door to drum up support, and keeping full-time jobs, we were busier than ever. Most days we worked through dinner and rarely had a moment to ourselves. It was during these very trying months that I realized the true power of communication. I’m not talking about the power of the BIG questions. No, I’m talking about the power of the small exchanges. I fell in love with my fiancé over banter about the latest news story and the hottest trend blowing up on social media. We didn’t fall in love by having heavy, serious talks. It happened while shooting the breeze and engaging in little conversations about music, and sports, and pop culture. It’s these discussions that will make you fall in love with each other over and over again for the rest of your lives. It’s important to take a break from going over wedding details and worrying about the issues the universe has thrown at you this week. Set aside some true “us” time. Big life events (i.e. wedding planning) make life hectic. Take a moment to talk about other things and enjoy the little chats. Consistently having that special “us” time keeps the spark alive. Who doesn’t want that? Remember, your significant other is your sounding board and support system. It’s part of the marriage code to

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communicate early, often, and about almost everything. That’s what your partner is there for! I’m glad I learned that through the good, bad, and ugly moments of planning our big day. One of the most important lessons I learned was that it’s okay to voice frustrations. You can’t be smiley and upbeat all the time, even when it comes to planning one of the happiest days of your life. I didn’t want to seem like a complainer or like I was overly dramatic when I became overwhelmed with work and the wedding. Instead of blowing off steam and sharing my frustrations with my fiancé, I kept them bottled up. While this prevented me from seeming negative, it didn’t make anything better. Frankly, it just made me more frustrated.

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But in keeping my feelings to myself, I was not only creating more stress, I was shutting my fiancé out. Even if he wanted to support me, he couldn’t. I wasn’t giving him the chance. I had to make a conscious decision to open up and share my worries. The result was a deep conversation that strengthened our relationship. I also learned that it’s important to ask for what you need. While it would be nice, our partners can’t read our minds. It’s up to you to tell them what you need – whether that’s emotional support, discussing your career, or simply a date night – communicating your wants and desires is essential. Asserting yourself in this way can be difficult for people – I know it was for me. But voicing my needs deepened our bond and made asking the BIG questions much easier. Good communication isn’t going to come without argument, and sometimes a healthy disagreement actually moves a relationship forward. Expressing your difference of opinion in a healthy way teaches you more about each other. More importantly, expressing your opinion and having it met with respect makes you feel heard. You’re not always going to agree, but knowing that you both have an equal voice makes an argument easier to handle. I treasure the fact that not a day goes by that my fiancé and I don’t offer each other compliments or express gratitude. These little nuggets of appreciation really do bring us closer. It’s easy to assume that our partner knows how much we value him or her, but letting the words actually pass our lips is invaluable. Finally, if you haven’t asked the BIG questions, discuss them now. Seriously, do it now! The talks about family, children, finances, and careers aren’t going away

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after the wedding. It’s important to say where you stand on things up front. If you have talked about them, revisit these topics from time to time. Career goals, especially, seem to change at a rapid rate these days, and it’s vital to keep your partner in the loop. In truth, the BIG questions aren’t really that big if you continuously keep the door open to each other. The discussions flowed naturally for us when we took the time to voice concerns, express our separate views, and show our gratitude each day. Our smaller moments of communication were open and honest, leading us to feel safe as we talked about the big stuff. Now we communicate early, often, and about almost everything. And I have to say, it’s worked out pretty well for us.

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Let your guests mingle with masterpieces by adding a private gallery viewing to your event, or add a personally designed menu by celebrity chef Tony Mantuano.

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Botom Lounge is not your cookie cutter Event space! Contact natalie@bottomlounge.com for sight visits & quotes.

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Chez, located two blocks from the Magnificent Mile, offers an elegant, contemporary atmosphere for your wedding.

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Your wedding is more than a moment in time. It's a moment in history. Reserve your date now, and add your name to our legacy.

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With serene gardens, lakefront settings, and grand ballrooms, find out why so many are choosing the Chicago Park District for their next event.

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The architectural centerpiece is the Winter Garden, a spacious marble and terrazzo atrium, covered 52 feet above by a glass dome.

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The Great Hall features soaring Corinthian columns, terracotta walls, a pink Tennessee marble floor and a five-story atrium ceiling.

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Traditional Italian food. Private dining available. Convenient location. Casual elegance at its best. Visit clubluckychicago.com

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"Chicago’s iconic steakhouse makes its’ traditions, your memories."

Harry Caray’s offers an authentic Chicago dining experience in both food and history.

A sleek and modern restaurant in stylish River North for 20-400 guests. Highline is the perfect place for your wedding celebration.

Let the Mart Plaza make your dreams come true. Three venues with Chicago’s most spectacular views. South Asian menus.

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Just steps from the Magnificent Mile, our stylish hotel provides the perfect backdrop for your event.

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Unique and contemporary wedding packages for the modern bride looking for an affordable, renovated downtown location.

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Five unique ballrooms to choose from for your special day. Call our wedding specialist.

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The James offers the space, catering by David Burke’s Primehouse and event expertise to surpass expectations.

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Host your wedding at Kendall College for sweeping skyline views, outdoor area and free parking.

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Kenmare Loft is a rustic loft space with two floors that can hold 300 each for seated dinners and over 1000 for cocktails with access to rooftop.

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La Villa Banquets, Restaurant and Lounge in Chicago’s Old Irving Park area is a local favorite since 1972.

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With a variety of dramatic reception spaces in a premium location, Loews Chicago brings the dream wedding downtown.

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From an intimate ceremony to lavish receptions, we will bring your speical day the dedicated focus and enthusiam that you deserve.

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Elegant event space, breathtaking views, global cuisine and magnificent ambiance for an unforgettable wedding in an iconic building!

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Create an exceptional wedding in our stunning Crystal Ballroom with an illuminated dance floor at a Magnificent address.

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Beautiful rooms, delicious cuisine, excellent service, and complimentary valet parking for your perfect event!

The Montgomery Club is located in Chicago’s River North neighborhood. The newly-opened event space boasts over 8000 square feet of event space.

Beautiful historic building, reminiscent of Paris chapel. Steps away from Michigan Avenue, a beautiful location for both ceremony & reception.

Experience the unique flavors and one-of-a kind cocktails of 27 Central and South American Countries.

Experience an Italian celebration – food, wine and a sense of la dolce vita!

From the lavish ballrooms to the inspired catering to the discerning decor, no other wedding venue boasts such a legacy of romance.

Pazzo’s will help you create an unforgettable event your guests will be talking about for years to come.

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Urban gateway to nature; views of the lake, skyline and Lincoln Park’s North Pond; elegant setting with indoor and outdoor spaces.

Distinctive and unique venue offering events that are upscale, sophisticated, fun and customized to suit your style. Our talented team brings your wedding to life!

River Roast is situated in the River North area on the Chicago River.

Stunning skyline views overlooking the Chicago River, with fine dining cuisine, covered terrace and indoor reception area.

Salvatore's offers an intimate atmosphere to create a perfect event that is personalized to meet your specific needs.

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At theWit Hotel Chicago, we take your vision and turn it into a masterpiece.

2430 N. Cannon Dr. • Chicago 773.755.5155 Pinstripes

435 E. Illinois St. • Chicago 312.527.3140 River Roast

315 N. LaSalle St. • Chicago 312.527.1417 Rivers Restaurant

30 S. Wacker Dr. • Chicago 312.559.1515 Salvatore’s Ristorante

525 W. Arlington Pl. • Chicago 773.528.1200 Shapiro Ballroom, The

1612 W. Chicago Ave. • Chicago 312.843.4798 Signature Room at the 95th, The

875 N. Michigan Ave. #1525 • Chicago 312.280.0465 Sofitel Chicago Water Tower

20 E. Chestnut St. • Chicago 312.324.4017 Stan Mansion

2408 N. Kedzie Blvd. • Chicago 773.276.0099 Swissôtel Chicago

323 E. Wacker Dr. • Chicago 312.268.8235 theWit Hotel

201 N. State St. • Chicago 312.467.0200

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Progressive French cuisine showcasing the most pristine ingredients in the world paired with an awardwinning wine list.

If you have always dreamed your day to be the pinnacle of sophistication, Trump Hotel is the perfect choice.

180

Year-round #1 Hidden City Patio (Chicago Magazine), acclaimed food and wine, plus unique and memorable wedding celebrations.

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago combines a rich sense of Windy City history and tradition blended with captivating modern design.

Our Penthouse Ballroom features city views and a stunning outdoor terrace, while our Grand Ballroom is perfect for larger parties.

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From beginning to end, Zam Zam Banquets is sure to please.

The Zhou B Art Center was founded by artists, the Zhou Brothers. With 28,000 sq. ft. we can handle events for 60 to a lavish gala for 500.

676 N. St. Clair St. • Chicago 773.433.5330 Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago

401 N. Wabash Ave. • Chicago 312.588.8000 Volo Restaurant Wine Bar

2008 W. Roscoe St. • Chicago 773.348.4600 Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago

701 N. Michigan Ave. • Chicago 312.274.6421 Wyndham Grand Chicago Riverfront

71 E. Wacker Dr. • Chicago 312.346.7100 Zam Zam Banquet Hall

2759 N. Oak Park Ave. • Chicago 773.836.9000 Zhou B Art Center

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1029 W. 35th St. • Chicago 312.787.0190

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NORTH & NORTHWEST & WISCONSIN Allegra Banquets

250

$35

189

Located in Comfort Suite Hotel-O’Hare Int’l Airport. Honeymoon suite available.

1000

$47

129

“Where your dreams really do come true.......”

250

$125

165

This historic and prestigiously Italian Villa combines old world charm with a surprising contemporary style.

400

$85

188

Elegant private club with banquets open to the public. Huge windows. Spacious veranda. Bride and grooms rooms. Gourmet cuisine.

250

$59

115

Banquet rooms with views of our award winning golf course! We also have a majestic outdoor event area ideal for wedding ceremonies and photos!

900

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125

Newly renovated. Family owned and operated. Hotels nearby. Minutes from downtown.

650

$54

103

Private picturesque setting. Fountain pond with white swans and gazebo. Newly renovated grand ballrooms.

750

$58

111

Experience the most elegant venue in the northwest suburbs. Award winning food, customer service and grandeur awaits you!

600

$42

190

Newly renovated! Elegant and spacious rooms, beautiful crystal chandeliers, economical package options, phenomenal food and impeccable service.

3000

$70

131

Wedding receptions can be customized to meet your needs. Kosher, South Asian and outside catering available.

4200 N. River Rd. • Schiller Park 847.987.0897 Alta Villa Banquets

430 N. Addison Rd. • Addison 630.543.1222 Armour House at Lake Forest Academy

1500 W. Kennedy Rd. • Lake Forest 847.615.3219 Boulder Ridge Country Club

350 Boulder Dr. • Lake in the Hills 847.854.3000 Bridges of Poplar Creek Country Club

1400 Poplar Creek Dr. • Hoffman Estates 847.781.3658 Chateau Ritz

9100 N. Milwaukee Ave. • Niles 847.298.0700 Concorde Banquets

20922 N. Rand Rd. • Kildeer 847.438.0025 Cotillion Banquets, The

360 S. Creekside Dr. • Palatine 847.934.5500 D’Andrea Banquets & Conference Center

4419 Northwest Hwy. • Crystal Lake 815.459.7234 Donald E. Stephens Ballroom

5555 N. River Rd. • Rosemont 847.692.6415

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DoubleTree by Hilton Chicago North Shore

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$89

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$40

300

$90

120

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250

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120

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350

$48

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250

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216

$79

600

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700

$75

160

$76

350

$50

300

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$70

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Panoramic views of the Chicago skyline in our penthouse Monaco Ballroom, or take the grand staircase to our exclusive Versailles Ballroom.

Nestled on 106 acres of natural beauty and 35 minutes from downtown, Eaglewood Resort & Spa is ideal for weddings.

170

Centrally located in Chicagoland area. Easily accessible from all major expressways. Complimentary valet parking.

Elegant style, unparalleled service, and magnificent space.

193

A beautiful year-round venue featuring a scenic waterfall view, with a fireplace and grand views of the golf course. foxrungolflinks.com

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Charming banquet hall, private garden patio, and affordable menu options. gardenterracebanquets.com

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For a truly beautiful event, the Genesee Theatre will make you feel like a star. An extraordinary experience for memories that last a lifetime!

187

Make your wedding exceptional at The Geneva Inn! Enjoy a beautiful lakeside destination nestled on the shores of Geneva Lake.

141

“We enjoy hosting weddings and look forward to assisting you in making your wedding day live up to all your dreams and expectations...”

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Whether “the big day” is an intimate event, indoor occasion or an affair on the shore, our staff will make you the center of attention!

"Chicago’s iconic steakhouse makes its’ traditions, your memories."

122

The Glen Club provides the elegance and excellence you deserve on your special day.

133

Breathtaking views and magnificent dining make Grand Geneva the Midwest’s most beautiful wedding destination.

123

Located minutes from nearby Traverse City, Grand Traverse Resort and Spa is Michigan’s premier wedding destination.

Harry Caray’s features private event spaces offering gracious service, award-winning food and distinctive décor.

150

Rustic elegance in the ballroom combines with beautifully landscaped gardens for outdoor ceremonies.

169

The Heritage Ballroom is the perfect venue for your event. Wedding packages and indoor/outdoor ceremony sites available.

171

Custom packages to fit any budget are available. With our full service kitchen and executive chef anything is possible!

9599 Skokie Blvd. • Skokie 847.679.7000 Eaglewood Resort & Spa

1401 Nordic Rd. • Itasca 630.694.5907 Elmcrest Banquets by Biancalana, The

7370 W. Grand Ave. • Elmwood Park 708.453.3989 Estate by Gene & Georgetti, The

9421 W. Higgins Rd. • Rosemont 312.527.3718 Fox Run Golf Links, The Event Room

333 Plum Grove Rd. • Elk Grove Village 847.228.3544 Garden Terrace Banquets

1000 Wellington Ave. • Elk Grove Village 847.228.3524 Genesee Theatre

203 N. Genesse St. • Waukegan 847.406.3152 Geneva Inn, The

Directly on the shores of Geneva Lake • N2009 S. Lake Shore Dr. • Lake Geneva, WI 800.441.5881 Geneva National Golf Club

1221 Geneva National Ave. S. • Lake Geneva, WI 262.245.7000 Geneva Ridge Resort

W4240 State Hwy. 50 • Lake Geneva, WI 262.249.5558 Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse

5464 N. River Rd. • Rosemont 847.928.9900 Glen Club, The

2901 W. Lake Ave. • Glenview 847.832.6420 Grand Geneva Resort & Spa

7036 Grand Geneva Way • Lake Geneva, WI 800.558.3417 Grand Traverse Resort and Spa

100 Grand Traverse Village Blvd. • Acme, MI 231.534.6203 Harry Caray’s Italian Steakhouse

10233 W. Higgins Rd. • Rosemont 847.699.1200 Hawk’s View Golf Club

7377 Krueger Rd. • Lake Geneva, WI 262.348.9900 Heritage Ballroom at The Centre of Elgin

100 Symphony Way • Elgin 847.531.7047 Highland Park Country Club

1201 Park Ave. W. • Highland Park 847.432.8048

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Hilton Garden Inn Chicago North Shore/ Evanston

Max Reception/ Dinner Size

Starting Price per Person

Ceremony Site Available

200

$70

350

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$36

500

$65

225

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Downtown style at just the right price. With our undivided attention, relax and enjoy your day!

180

North Shore Chicago’s most sophisticated, historic hotel. Elegant staircase, professional catering and banquet staff. Absolute perfection for a wedding.

184

Beautiful venue offers creative package options to make your event special.

192

Your day, your dream, our promise. Let us surprise & delight you at Hyatt Regency Schaumburg!

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177

From elegant and sophisticated to fun and festive, let our professional staff handle all the details of your big event!

350

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196

A breathtaking lakeside venue with numerous waterfront ceremony sites and flexible indoor spaces.

450

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181

Beautifully restored historical mansion featuring an outdoor wedding site. Four season tent with A/C and heat. Exceptional food and custom menus available.

800

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143

Here you will find stunning indoor and outdoor unique wedding venues nestled amongst 175 wooded acres.

500

$95

The new Loews Chicago O’Hare Hotel: where hospitality meets art, and your big day is all it deserves to be.

175

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http://weddings.maggianos.com/chicago

175

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139

http://weddings.maggianos.com/chicago

220

$69

176

Experience the elegance, excitement and romance of a Makray wedding. Our weddings are customized to your imagination. We are situated in the heart of historic Barrington. Call or visit us online at www.makraygolf.com.

500

$43

124

Manzo’s creates memories with great celebrations. We care about each and every event. We love what we do. You can feel the difference.

200

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185

From the initial inquiry to your “last dance,” the experience at MCC will be a truly memorable one!

550

$77

147

Medinah Banquets offers white glove service, gracious hospitality and savory, distinctive cuisine to suit your requests.

500

$59

Our dedicated staff is here to help you plan your dream wedding. Please visit us at www.meridianbanquets.com for more information.

300

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Multiple rooms available. Outdoor veranda. Located in the heart of downtown Arlington Heights across the street from Harmony Park.

200

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198

The grounds and gardens offer a beautiful vintage backdrop for showers, rehearsal dinners as well as both wedding ceremonies and receptions.

1818 Maple Ave. • Evanston 847.475.6400 Hilton Orrington/Evanston

1710 Orrington Ave. • Evanston 847.556.7901 Holiday Inn Chicago North Shore - Skokie Banquet and Conference Center

5300 W. Touhy Ave. • Skokie 847.679.8900 Hyatt Regency Schaumburg

1800 E. Golf Rd. • Schaumburg 847.517.6910 Lake Geneva Cruise Line

at The Riviera Docks • 812 Wrigley Dr. Lake Geneva, WI 262.248.6206 Lake Lawn Resort & Calladora Spa

2400 E. Geneva St. • Delavan, WI 800.338.5253 Lehmann Mansion

485 N. Milwaukee Ave. • Lake Villa 847.356.9911 Lincolnshire Marriott Resort

10 Marriott Dr. • Lincolnshire 847.634.0100 Loews Chicago O’Hare

5300 N. River Rd. • Rosemont 847.447.4203 Maggiano’s Little Italy - Old Orchard

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4999 Old Orchard Ctr. Space A28 • Skokie 847.933.9555 Maggiano’s Little Italy - Schaumburg

1901 E. Woodfield Rd. • Schaumburg 847.240.5600 Makray Memorial Golf Club

1010 S. Northwest Hwy. • Barrington 847.381.6501 Manzo’s Banquets

1571 S. Elmhurst Rd. • Des Plaines 847.593.2233 McHenry Country Club

820 N. John St. • McHenry 815.385.1072 Medinah Banquets

550 Shriners Dr. • Addison 630.458.0200 Meridian Banquets

1701 Algonquin Rd. • Rolling Meadows 847.952.8181 Metropolis Ballroom

6 S. Vail Ave. • Arlington Heights 847.870.8787 Midway Village Museum

6799 Guilford Rd. • Rockford 815.397.9112

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Midwest Conference Center

Max Reception/ Dinner Size

Starting Price per Person

Ceremony Site Available

Simultaneous Weddings

Kosher Available

1100

$46

330

$35

300

$39

250

$70

250

$70

300

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600

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325

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Our 16th floor ballroom is surrounded by floor-to-ceiling windows, giving you an unobstucted view of the dramatic Chicago Skyline.

197

Elegant hotel setting with 7 banquet rooms for 20 to 330 guests. Custom packages for all occasions.

170

Ceremony and reception in one location overlooking beautiful Long Lake and the forest preserve without all the hidden fees!

Distinctive and unique venue offering events that are upscale, sophisticated, fun and customized to suit your style. Our talented team brings your wedding to life!

198

Offering scenic river views and an old industrial feel, we invite you to experience a part of Rockford’s history.

171

From elaborate fairy tales to simple love stories, the newly renovated Renaissance Chicago North Shore has the space for your magical day.

109

Enjoy the ambiance of our “grand foyer”. We offer the most comprehensive package at an affordable price.

140

Stonegate provides a warm, rich, inviting feel that will bring a timeless romantic elegance to your event.

120

Family-owned business. Beautiful cozy rooms. Impeccable service and fine food. Off premise catering available.

Private luxury estate with 10-acres of prize-winning gardens, 4-acre lake, exquisite Garden Railways, and a private Model Train Museum.

102

With four ballrooms, including one with a beautifully landscaped patio, we provide the perfect backdrop for an impressive celebration.

149

With delicious cuisine, picture-perfect locations and personalized service, every detail is carefully selected to reflect your individuality.

119

Experience the charming Arches Garden and Garden rooms at Historic Winnetka Community House.

187

Our six-story Garden Atrium is available for ceremonies and receptions. Design your dream reception in our Grand Ballroom.

128

“The Barn” can meet any budget. Three movie screens in the hall for a photo DVD of the bride and groom played during dinner.

165

Setting the standards for excellence in wedding receptions and special events.

401 W. Lake St. • Northlake 708.409.2828 Mirage Four Points Sheraton

10255 W. Irving Park Rd. • Schiller Park 847.671.4230 Parkway by the lake

25212 Lakeshore Dr. • Ingleside 847.587.7285 Pinstripes

100 W. Higgins Rd. • South Barrington 847.844.4810 Pinstripes

1150 Willow Rd. • Northbrook 847.480.7676 Prairie Street Brewhouse

200 Prairie St. • Rockford 815.277.9427 Renaissance Chicago North Shore Hotel

933 Skokie Blvd. • Northbrook 847.498.6500 Seville, The

700 S. Barrington Rd. • Streamwood 630.289.4500 Stonegate Conference & Banquet Centre, The

2401 W. Higgins Rd. • Hoffman Estates 847.884.7000 Villa Brunetti Banquets & Catering

9755 W. Grand Ave. • Franklin Park 847.455.1078 Wandering Tree Estate

North Barrington 847.381.1907 Westin Chicago North Shore, The

601 N. Milwaukee Ave. • Wheeling 847.777.6552 Westin Chicago Northwest, The

400 Park Blvd. • Itasca 630.773.4000 Winnetka Community House

620 Lincoln Ave. • Winnetka 847.446.3154 Wyndham Glenview Suites

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1400 Milwaukee Ave. • Glenview 847.627.4773

WEST “The Barn” at Arabian Knights Farms

6526 Clarendon Hills Rd. • Willowbrook 630.327.7399 Abbington Distinctive Banquets

3S002 IL Rte. 53 • Glen Ellyn 630.942.8600

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Acquaviva Winery

Max Reception/ Dinner Size

Starting Price per Person

Ceremony Site Available

250

$85

275

$18

300

$74

800

$56

250

$49

350

Call

250

$68

200

$40

1000

$58

175

Call

400

$80

200

Call

400

$70

1500

$49

2,000

Call

750

Call

250

$45

Simultaneous Weddings

Kosher Available

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148

Outdoor vineyard and indoor ceremony options. Full service reception with two beautiful patios overlooking the vineyard. Experience the stunning art and architecture.

191

Majestic tent or ballroom for a unique ceremony and reception site. albertosrestaurantandbanquets.com

142

There is only one bride and groom per evening at Arrowhead, so the focus is solely on the bride and groom.

153

Captivating two-story lobby accented with beautiful cascading staircases. Quality food and excellent service!

104

Charming & rustic ballroom with two story windows overlooking a beautiful wooded golf course and pond.

150

Brookfield Zoo’s beautiful grounds and unique animal exhibits make it the best place to host your wedding or reception that guests will talk about for a lifetime. www.brookfieldzoo.org/cateredevents

107

Cantigny is the former estate of Robert R. McCormick and part of the Chicago-based McCormick Foundation.

158

From small intimate affairs to large celebrations, the Carleton offers an elegant décor and innovative cuisine.

Ten time winner of the Silver Platter Award in Food Industry News; over 15,000 sq. ft. of banquet and meeting space; 100-1,000 capacity.

175

Where happily ever after begins! 2.2 acres of beautifully landscaped grounds. Located in the Historic District of Oak Park.

173

Everything needed to make your day exceptional is at our fabulously first class hotel, the western suburbs’ newest venue.

167

Our gorgeous 1930s estate is amidst a lush forest preserve. Host 60 guests inside or up to 200 outside.

Two elegant ballrooms, exceptional food and beverage and dedicated wedding specialists providing an experience that is second to none.

174

Allow our catering staff to share their experience and expertise to make your special day a most memorable one.

191

We provide complimentary assistance finding wedding and reception venues, hotels, transportation, caterers, florists and related services.

105

Beautiful hall. Elegant atmosphere. 25 years of experience. www.theempressbanquets.com

132

Picturesque golf course view, professional service and several unique wedding packages available.

47W614 IL Rt. 38 • Maple Park 630.365.0333 Alberto’s Signature Events at the Holiday Inn

150 S. Gary Ave. • Carol Stream 630.681.7312 Arrowhead Golf Club

26W151 Butterfield Rd. • Wheaton 630.653.5802 Ashton Place

341 75th St. • Willowbrook 630.789.3337 Bartlett Hills Golf Club

800 W. Oneida Ave. • Bartlett 630.213.3103 Brookfield Zoo

(Managed by Chicago Zoological) 3300 Golf Rd. • Brookfield 708.688.8355 Cantigny Park

1 S. 151 Winfield Rd. • Wheaton 630.260.8145 Carleton of Oak Park, The

1110 Pleasant St. • Oak Park 708.848.5000 Carlisle, The

435 E. Butterfield Rd. • Lombard 630.960.0210 Cheney Mansion

220 N. Euclid Ave. • Oak Park 708.725.2500 Chicago Marriott Naperville

1801 N. Naper Blvd. • Naperville 630.505.4900 Creek Bend Nature Center

37W700 Dean St. • St. Charles 630.444.3064 DoubleTree Suites by Hilton Hotel and Conference Center Chicago - Downers Grove

2111 Butterfield Rd. • Downers Grove 630.434.3805 Drury Lane

100 Drury Ln. • Oakbrook Terrace 630.530.0202 DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau

915 Harger Rd. • Oak Brook 630.575.8070 Empress Banquets, The

200 E. Lake St. • Addison 630.279.5900 Glendale Lakes Golf Club

1550 President St. • Glendale Heights 630.260.0095

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LOCATION Harry Caray's Italian Steakhouse

Ceremony Site Available

Max Reception/ Dinner Size

Starting Price per Person

300

$76

850

$90

300

$80

150

$125

175

Call

175

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300

Simultaneous Weddings

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Harry Caray’s features private event spaces offering gracious service, award-winning food and distinctive décor.

195

Quaint and intimate or grand and spectacular, our Certified Planners will work with you to make this unforgettable day the wedding of your dreams.

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We’re not a chain, rather, we’re something a little different. Chic. Seductive.

Discovery awaits at Le Meridien Chicago Oak Brook Center and our 9th floor Grand Salon Ballroom, with spectacular views from floor-to-ceiling windows.

139

http://weddings.maggianos.com/chicago

139

http://weddings.maggianos.com/chicago

$90

128

Have your wedding among thousands of trees, beautiful gardens, stunning autumn leaves and pristine snowcovered lakes.

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192

A historic, nondenominational chapel with spectacular architectural details and seating for 175 guests nestled on 12 picturesque acres.

160

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158

We offer beautiful and unique indoor and outdoor spaces for wedding ceremonies and receptions, located just steps from the Naperville Riverwalk!

230

$56

166

Welcome guests with gorgeous floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking landscaped brick patio, pond and fountain. We host both receptions and ceremonies w/ receptions year round.

250

$75

188

We do catering and beverage service, for all events. Choose your own menu and our food is prepared onsite. Parking is also available!

350

$70

Distinctive and unique venue offering events that are upscale, sophisticated, fun and customized to suit your style. Our talented team brings your wedding to life!

2000

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190

Stunning ballrooms and guest rooms, outdoor ceremony venues, award-winning culinary team and onsite activities.

230

$67

110

Cathedral ceilings, brick accent walls, covered veranda and picture windows with stunning golf course views.

550

$63

2-3

Three rooms available in a formal bistro atmosphere.

196

Turn-of-the-century mansion. Beautifully landscaped grounds and fountains. Garden ceremony and receptions.

101

As Chicagoland’s highly acclaimed and prestigious golf club, we welcome you to experience the elegance and admire the ambiance!

70 Yorktown Shopping Ctr. • Lombard 630.953.3400 Hilton Chicago/Oak Brook Hills Resort

3500 Midwest Rd. • Oak Brook 630.850.5555 Hotel Arista

2139 City Gate Ln. • Naperville 630.579.4100 Le Méridien Chicago - Oakbrook Center

2100 Spring Rd. • Oak Brook 630.368.9900 Maggiano’s Little Italy - Naperville

COMMENTS

1847 Freedom Dr. • Naperville 630.536.2270 Maggiano’s Little Italy - Oak Brook

Morton Arboretum, The

4100 Illinois Rte. 53 • Lisle 630.725.2190 Naper Settlement

523 S. Webster St. • Naperville 630.420.6010 Naperville Park District

320 W. Jackson Ave. • Naperville 630.848.5000 Northern Illinois University Naperville - NIU

1120 E. Diehl Rd. • Naperville 630.577.9101

Oscar Swan Inn

1800 W. State St • Geneva 630.232.0173 Pinstripes

7 Oakbrook Center • Oakbrook 630.575.8744 Pheasant Run Resort

4051 E. Main St. • St. Charles 630.584.6300 Seven Bridges Golf Club

One Mulligan Dr. • Woodridge 630.964.7735 Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante

2251 W. Lake St. • Addison 630.376.1500

SOUTH & SOUTHWEST & INDIANA Bennett-Curtis House, The

275

Call

900

$79

302 W. Taylor St. • Grant Park 815.465.2288 Bolingbrook Golf Club

2001 Rodeo Dr. • Bolingbrook 630.771.9400

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240 Oakbrook Ctr. • Oak Brook 630.368.0300

Broken Arrow Golf Club

Max Reception/ Dinner Size

Starting Price per Person

Ceremony Site Available

250

$39

320

$59

700

$45

500

$46

425

$47

1200

$40

450

$39

400

$54

350

$45

350

$68

300

$50

200

$49

1000

$53

275

$55

1500

$21

420

$55

550

$18

Simultaneous Weddings

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The golf course is quietly nestled on 250 acres of rolling hills, creating the most exclusive experience for you and your guests.

189

Carriage Greens Country Club is one of the finest entertainment and banquet facilities in the Chicago area.

121

The Chicago Marriott Southwest at Burr Ridge offers a picturesque setting to make your special occasion perfect.

177

Allow us to create the wedding of your dreams. Call today for your personal tour!

168

Let us, together, focus on your key elements to build your perfect wedding package. A wedding package to satisfy your needs and budget!

173

A convenient experience in exquisite banquet dining and luxury hotel accommodations. All in one location...

195

Beautiful spacious grounds, and modern clubhouse.

127

Create an unforgettable wedding day at Hilton Chicago/Oak Lawn, from the first kiss to the last dance!

114

Unique venue delivers traditional elegance. Four spacious ballrooms featuring fireplaces, stained glass windows, chandeliers, skylights and much more!

175

Elegance, magnificent views, sole event, customized menus, exceptional food and unsurpassed service.

186

Historic mansion, ballroom, lush gardens, nondenominational church, with stained glass windows and pipe organ.

146

Beautiful country club setting on a traditional wooded golf course. Beautiful views, newly renovated clubhouse and delicious cuisine.

113

Windows overlooking golf course, lakes, fountain, gardens and gazebo. Cathedral ceilings, crystal chandeliers and marble dance floors.

121

Enjoy the beautiful, newly renovated ballroom from Aria Banquets at Quality Inn, in beautiful Burr Ridge.

151

Beautiful waterfall, fountains and crystal chandeliers make the Sabre Room the perfect place for your elegant reception. A picturesque outdoor gazebo available for ceremonies.

100

Floor to ceiling, wall to wall windows overlooking lush illuminated gardens.

159

Impressive cuisine, impeccable service, affordable wedding packages. Customize menus available upon request.

16325 W. Broken Arrow Dr. • Lockport 815.836.8858 Carriage Greens Country Club

8700 Carriage Greens Dr. • Darien 630.985.3400 Chicago Marriott Southwest at Burr Ridge

1200 Burr Ridge Pkwy. • Burr Ridge 630.986.4100 DoubleTree by Hilton Chicago Alsip

5000 W. 127th St. • Alsip 708.371.7300 Elements Banquets - Homewood Suites by Hilton

16245 S. LaGrange Rd. • Orland Park 708.364.9411 Georgios Banquets & Comfort Inn

8800 W. 159th St. • Orland Park 708.403.1100 Glenwoodie Golf Club

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LOCATION

19301 S. State St. • Glenwood 708.758.1212 Hilton Chicago/Oak Lawn

9333 S. Cicero Ave. • Oak Lawn 708.229.8850 Holiday Inn Countryside & William Tell Banquets

6201 Joliet Rd. • La Grange-Countryside 708.352.1101 Idlewild Country Club

19201 Dixie Hwy. • Flossmoor 708.798.0514 Jacob Henry Mansion Estate, The

20 S. Eastern Ave. • Joliet 815.722.1420 Joliet Country Club

1009 Spencer Rd. • Joliet 815.727.3677 Odyssey Country Club

19110 S. Ridgeland Ave. • Tinley Park 708.429.7400 Quality Inn & Conference Center

300 S. Frontage Rd. • Burr Ridge 630.325.2900 Sabre Room

8900 W. 95th St. • Hickory Hills 708.598.1200 Silver Lake Country Club

14700 S. 82nd Ave. • Orland Park 708.349.6940 ext. 5 Willowbrook Ballroom

8900 S. Archer Ave. • Willow Springs 708.839.1000

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The weeks and months leading up to a

Definitely consider the bride’s style and

wedding can be stressful – but hosting a

décor preferences, but don’t replicate what

wedding shower doesn’t have to be. Make

she has planned for her wedding either – you

yours a day for the bride to relax and bask

don’t want to steal any of her thunder!

in bridal bliss by following these top tips

Another great tip, says Lori Stephenson,

from some of Chicago’s most-loved wed-

owner and principal of LOLA Event

ding planners.

Productions, is to make sure everyone

The first step to hosting the perfect

knows each other. “The best party host

wedding shower is to plan a great theme.

welcomes each guest, introduces them,

Miranda Lyn Tassi, owner and lead wed-

and makes sure they have been offered

ding planner of Events by Miranda Lyn,

refreshments.”

recommends using a catchy phrase in the

Also, you want to be completely cer-

invitation to reveal the theme of the shower.

tain that everyone invited to the wedding

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your gifts during the festivities, keep the

the bar party,” she suggests. “Or host a

erwise…how awkward.

guest list and overall party vibe in mind. If

cooking class where you make a meal

If the bridal shower is being hosted in

your shower is a lingerie brunch with your

together and learn what wines are best

someone’s home, Cindy Shanholtz, owner

best gal-pals, everyone probably wants to

paired with different foods. Tie the theme

and creative director of Effortless Events,

ooh and ahh over all the risqué goodies

into the couple’s interests or honeymoon

recommends using rental equipment.

you’re getting. But if you’ve assembled a

destination.”

“Renting unique chairs and a fun, bright

crew of mostly family, nobody really needs

Need another great suggestion? Claire

linen can truly transform your space,” she

to watch you open six packages of silver-

Weller and the wedding planners of Big

says. “You can complement the look with

ware and a crock pot.

City Bride recommend splitting the

rental vintage plates and etched glassware.

As far as planning a couples’ shower

shower up by planning a girls’ side, with

This will make your guests feel like they’re

goes, it seems the jury’s still out on

bubbly and bites, and a guys’ side, with

in a special, new location.”

whether or not it’s a good idea to bring the

whiskey and BBQ. Halfway through the

What about opening gifts? According to

boys along. Some folks love the idea, and

shower, when you’re ready to bring every-

Stephenson, brides today are not required

others not so much; but both options have

one together, do so through a game or

to open their gifts in front of everyone.

their own merits.

other activity.

“Having a discreet gift table and focusing

Stephenson has some great sugges-

Still looking for more ideas on how

on the fun instead of the swag keeps the

tions for showers that will be a blast either

to make your shower unique and fun?

party humming,” she advises.

way. “Try doing a his-and-hers wine,

Weller also suggests an English Garden

whiskey, or craft beer tasting, and a stock

Tea Party theme, complete with hats and

When choosing whether or not to open

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teapots of flowers; a Fiesta theme, with a

an on-site chef to prepare made-to-order

salsa-tasting station and mini margaritas;

crepes. Yum!

or an Around the Clock theme, where every guest is assigned an hour of the day and encouraged to gift appropriately.

Spa Day: Turn your home into a spa with neck massages and mini manicure and pedicure stations. You can also hire a tal-

Shanholtz recommends hiring a mixologist, who can show your shower guests the latest trends in cocktails. Plus, tasting the trends is always fun! She also suggests

ented makeup artist to come to your home and provide your guests with glamorous services, like eyelash extensions and a personalized lip color.

having a dance instructor come to the shower to teach your guests to salsa or

Kentucky Derby: Encourage your guests

tango – an interactive and fun way to sup-

to wear large hats and colorful spring

ply your guests with new moves to show

dresses. Include a Moscow mule mug on

off at your wedding!

everyone’s plate to use during the party

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and take with them as a parting gift. Feel prepared to throw the perfect

Parisian: Take your guests on a day trip

wedding shower now? Great! Get out there

to France by serving mini croquet mon-

and shower your favorite bride with love

sieurs, champagne and macarons, or hire

(and don’t forget the bubbly)!

Celebration Locations

Rehearsals, Parties and Events

CHICAGO

Bistrot Margot

302 E. Illinois St., Chicago 312.222.1800

1437 N. Wells St., Chicago 312.587.3660

Bon Appétit at The Art Institute of Chicago 111 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.443.3530

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Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $25

Bellwether is trendsetting the scene with exceptional food, service and ambiance. Our semi private balcony space is located a full story over the main dining room, offering spectacular city views, plenty of privacy, a full stocked bar and space for up to 70 guests for a seated dinner.

In the heart of Old Town, Bistrot Margot transports guests back to turn-of-the-century Paris with classic French cuisine, charming ambiance, and impeccable service. Our private dining rooms are perfect for your rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, wedding luncheon, and more. With room for 90 seated and 150 for cocktails, we aim to make your event just that: yours.

Let your guests mingle with masterpieces by adding a private gallery viewing in the second largest art museum in the country.

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Chicago Athletic Association Hotel

Chicago’s First Lady Cruises

Club Lucky

12 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.940.3552

Michigan Ave. & Wacker Dr., Chicago 847.358.1330

1824 W. Wabansia Ave., Chicago 773.227.2300

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Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: Call

Maximum # of Guests: 190 Starting Price per Person: Call

Located on Chicago’s cultural mile on Michigan Ave. across from the iconic Millennium Park and Jay Pritzker Pavillion, the Chicago Athletic Association has been restored and transformed into a 241-room luxury lifestyle hotel. The property features 17,000 sq.feet of multi-functional venue space to accommodate upscale events and functions of various sizes.

The ultimate way to showcase Chicago to your guests. Experience classic luxury and superior service aboard your own Private Rehearsal Dinner Cruise. Perfect for parties of 10-250. Breathtaking sunsets and skyline views included.

Bucktown/Wicker Park’s most popular restaurant and unique cocktail lounge. Featuring generous portions of traditional Italian food served family style. Convenient location blocks from expressway and downtown hotels. Private party & wedding room, main dining room and patio available. Special rehearsal, wedding dinner and bar packages.

chicagoathletichotel.com

cruisechicago.com

clubluckychicago.com

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D.O.C. Wine Bar Chicago

David Burke’s Primehouse

The Drake Hotel’s Palm Court

2602 N. Clark St., Chicago 773.480.3708

616 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.660.7157

140 E. Walton Pl., Chicago 312.932.4337

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Maximum # of Guests: 120 Starting Price per Person: $15

Maximum # of Guests: 160 Starting Price per Person: $80

Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: Call

Thank you for considering D.O.C. Wine Bar for your special event. Our private rooms are available seven days a week for brunch, lunch, or dinner. There are no room rental fees. We can accommodate up to 80 guests for a sit-down meal or up to 120 guests for a relaxing cocktail party complete with our extraordinary wine selections and top-quality appetizers.

The James Chicago offers restaurant-style dining with culinary creations by David Burke’s Primehouse - named #1 Steakhouse in Chicago by Chicago magazine. Enjoy 7000 sq. ft. of flexible space complete with natural lighting and warmly modern design, providing a truly memorable experience.

The Drake Hotel’s Palm Court provides a truly unique REAL CHICAGO™ experience for any pre or post wedding celebration. The elegant setting is enhanced by the creativity in cuisine and excellence in service that our team provides.

docwinebarchicago.com

jameshotels.com

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Erie Café

Frankie’s Scaloppine

Franklin Tap

536 W. Erie St., Chicago 312.266.2300

900 N. Michigan Ave., Chicago 773.433.5330

325 S. Franklin St., Chicago 312.922.8025

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Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $35

Maximum # of Guests: 180 Starting Price per Person: $35

Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $35

The Erie Café is a classic Chicago steakhouse, with warm and inviting fine dining. The Erie Café is a family owned and operated, with 3 generations providing exceptional service and attention to detail. Highly individualized private dining is a priority at this River North establishment.

Located on the famed Michigan Avenue, just steps away from an array of shops, variety of hotels and gorgeous Lake Michigan, Frankie’s Scaloppini & Pizzeria is the perfect location for a rehearsal dinner, brunch or wedding celebration.

Franklin Tap provides a fun atmosphere for you & up to 125 guests. Ideal for casual rehearsal dinners & after-reception parties, we’re easily accessible to “L” trains, Union & Olgilvie stations. We are close to many Loop & Downtown hotels and can help you with accommodations, including customized menus to help make your day special.

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Gene & Georgetti

Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse

The Guesthouse Hotel

500 N. Franklin St., Chicago 312.527.3718

1028 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.587.0508

4872 N. Clark St., Chicago 773.564.9568

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Maximum # of Guests: 240 Starting Price per Person: $50

Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $75

Maximum # of Guests: 50 Starting Price per Person: Call

Gene & Georgetti was founded in 1941 by Gene Michelotti and his partner Alfredo Federighi, who was nicknamed “Georgetti” after a famous Italian cyclist. Located in the heart of River North, Gene & Georgetti is Chicago’s oldest and one of its finest steakhouses. Partners Gene and “Georgetti” worked hand in hand to establish a reputation of excellence.

Always happening and consistently offering abundant portions of USDA Gibson’s prime angus, pristine fish and homemade desserts. Entertainment radiates from the piano bar where locals, celebs and out-of-towners mix and mingle. Choose from six of the iconic steakhouse’s private dining rooms.

Voted one of the best new hotels in Chicago, celebrate like a local at our neighborhood boutique hotel. Perfect for an intimate wedding, rehearsal dinner,shower or milestone celebration,our unique event space is designed with urban sophistication. Our distinctive style and exceptional service is guaranteed to create lasting memories.

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Hugo’s Frog Bar & Fish House

Hyatt Regency Chicago

Kaiser Tiger

1024 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.640.0999

151 E. Wacker Dr., Chicago 312.565.1234

1415 W. Randolph St., Chicago 312.243.3100

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Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $75

Maximum # of Guests: 40 Starting Price per Person: $80

Maximum # of Guests: 800 Starting Price per Person: $33

A lively next-door neighbor to the iconic Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse, this Gold Coast seafood authority offers an impressive selection of fresh seafood, flown in daily, along with renowned USDA Gibsons Prime Angus beef. Guests can choose from six elegant private dining rooms.

Experience Hyatt Regency Chicago’s superior service and style. Whether it’s an elaborate dinner for entertaining or a brunch after the ‘big day’, let us build the perfect backdrop for your event in our private dining room, The Annex or in Stetsons Modern Steak + Sushi. Our Events Team will help you create the perfect menu and an unforgettable celebration.

Kaiser Tiger is perfect for weddings, rehearsal dinners, or just a great beer, bacon and sausage tasting party for your friends! Bright event spaces allow for 40-800 guests. Enjoy a ceremony in the West Wing, cocktails in the Tiger Garden, and dinner in the Skyline Lounge. The brews, views and distinctive charm will make your occasion one to remember.

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Kendall College

LUXBAR

The Metropolitan Club

900 N. North Branch St., Chicago 312.752.2556

18 E. Bellevue Pl., Chicago 312.642.3400

233 S. Wacker Dr., 67th Fl., Chicago 312.876.3200

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Maximum # of Guests: 180 Starting Price per Person: $50

Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: Call

Looking for a truly unique experience? Look no further than Kendall College, with sweeping views of the city skyline, an outdoor area and free on-site parking. We offer impressive settings for hosting your wedding or rehearsal dinner. Also, for a unique shower we can create bespoke, hands-on, interactive cooking classes led by our award-winning Kendall College Culinary Arts faculty.

The ultimate evolution of the neighborhood bar in the heart of Chicago’s Gold Coast. Comfort, convenience and familiarity of the corner tavern are combined with luxury, quality and service. Second level private dining room boasts views of Rush Street.

Located on the 66th & 67th floors of the iconic Willis Tower, experience stunning panoramic views of the Chicago skyline while enjoying world class cuisine & service. Wow your guests with a unique Chicago experience. The Private Events team at The Metropolitan Club is ready to assist in turning your vision into a night to remember!

kendall.edu/weddings

luxbar.com

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Michael Jordan’s Steak House

The Mid-America Club

Monastero’s Ristorante & Banquets

505 N. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.321.8823

200 E. Randolph Dr., 80th Fl., Chicago 312.861.1100

3935 W. Devon Ave., Chicago 773.588.2515

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Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $80

Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: $50

Maximum # of Guests: 300 Starting Price per Person: $20

Your legendary event starts here. Raise a glass on the Magnificent Mile to celebrate rehearsal dinners, bachelor/ bachelorette parties, and wedding dinners. Enjoy a special dinner in Michael Jordan’s favorite private dining room. Choose from our customizable menu and beverage packages. It’s your party. You call the shots.

The Mid-America Club is among the most idyllic Chicago venues located just steps from Michigan Avenue, Grant Park, Millennium Park, and we have the best views in the city. The elegant, private ambiance of our venue offers a unique option for those who wish to avoid having their celebration in the public eye of a hotel or restaurant.

Let the Monastero Family host your rehearsal dinner! Four private dining rooms, including our indoor garden, will impress all of your guests. Four-course dinners start at $20 per person, featuring chicken breast marsala, homemade spinach lasagna, eggplant parmigiana entrees and more. 30300 guests. Plenty of free parking.

mjshchicago.com

midamclub.com

monasteros.com

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The Montgomery Club

The Murphy Chicago

New Line Tavern

500 W. Superior St., Chicago 312.587.0508

50 E. Erie St., Chicago 312.280.8447

201 N. Clinton St., Chicago 773.472.1601

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Maximum # of Guests: 1000 Starting Price per Person: $60

Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: Call

Maximum # of Guests: 120 Starting Price per Person: $25

Located in Chicago’s River North neighborhood, boasting 8,000 square feet of event space. Enjoy customizable menus from the award-winning fare of Gibson’s Restaurant Group. Their knowledgeable and attentive staff will create a completely unique event.

Steps away from Michigan Avenue, The Murphy offers elegance, charm and historic space for rehearsal dinners too! Working with Chicago’s top caterers, let us execute a wonderful event for you.

Our classic, intimate style is perfect for rehearsal dinners, receptions, showers, and anniversaries. From linens to lights, our team will help you create the perfect atmosphere. Our private bar, restrooms, and coat check ensure professionalism and privacy. The best kept secret in the West Loop, New Line Tavern, is the perfect host at the perfect price.

gibsonssteakhouse.com

the-murphy.com

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O’Briens Restaurant & Bar

Osteria La Madia

The Parthenon Restaurant

1528 N. Wells St., Chicago 312.787.3131

59 W. Grand Ave., Chicago 312.329.0400

314 S. Halsted St., Chicago 312.726.2407

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Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $25

Maximum # of Guests: 50 Starting Price per Person: $40

Maximum # of Guests: 130 Starting Price per Person: $25

Nestled in Chicago’s historic Old Town, O’Briens Restaurant provides free valet parking, and a selection of rooms to fit your event. From a sit down dinner for 20 to 100 guests, to a hearty appetizer reception for up to 150, we will design a menu that will fit needs. Al fresco dining is a desired location in our Garden Café. We specialize in prime steaks and fresh seafood.

The Semi-Private Stage seats up to 50. With its unique vantage of our 20-foot-tall, glass enclosed wine cellar, the Wine Room accommodates intimate gatherings of up to 14 guests. Our menus are versatile, from passed, seasonal hors d’oeuvres to pizza parties to family-style meals. Our cocktails change seasonally and are always prepared fresh.

A Chicago legend...and still the best restaurant in Greektown. Perfect for engagement parties, rehearsal dinners and all other wedding-related events. Spectacular private room accommodates up to 150 for cocktails,130 seated for dinner and 100 with dance floor. Family owned and operated for over 45 years.

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dinelamadia.com

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Phil Stefani’s 437 Rush

Quartino Ristorante & Wine Bar

The Redhead Piano Bar

437 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.222.0101

626 N. State St., Chicago 312.698.5000

16 W. Ontario St., Chicago 312.640.1000

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Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $40

Maximum # of Guests: 300 Starting Price per Person: $35

Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $40

Our Cafe and Newsroom radiate class and uniqueness; decorated with black linen, votive candles, mahogany wood, black and white tiled floors, stainless steel, mirrors and windows. Overlooking Rush and Hubbard streets, these rooms are perfect settings for rehearsal dinners. Our menu items are prepared to order using only fresh, high-quality ingredients.

Embrace the essence of an authentic Italian urban ristorante, pizzeria and wine bar in quintessential Gibson’s Restaurant Group style. Complimenting the regional Italian cuisine is an extensive wine list with offerings by the liter, mezzo or quartino.

This iconic Chicago venue combines class, style and fun in a unique environment to create an atmosphere that appeals to everyone. A wide selection of drink and food packages as well as great live music options allow for creation of the perfect backdrop for your rehearsal dinner or reception. This classic Chicago nightclub also offers a covered and comfortable smoking patio.

437rush.com

quartinochicago.com

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Ranalli’s

Riva Crab House on Navy Pier

River Roast

1925 N. Lincoln Ave., Chicago 312.462.3671

700 E. Grand Ave., Chicago 312.644.7482

315 N. LaSalle St., Chicago 312.527.1417

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Maximum # of Guests: 385 Starting Price per Person: $35

Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $40

Maximum # of Guests: 280 Starting Price per Person: $39

Ranalli’s offers traditional and Neopolitan pizzas accompanied by great drinks and the Four Corners Tavern Group’s take on Italian-focused bar fare. With a large private room, an intimate King’s Table and the largest neighborhood patio in Chicago, Ranalli’s is perfect for your rehearsal of 12 to 385.

Make your rehearsal dinner one to remember by hosting it at Riva Crab House on Navy Pier. Whether your party is casual, or calls for a truly extravagant meal, we offer menu options that are perfect for all your special event needs. All of our menu items are prepared to order using only fresh, seasonal, high-quality ingredients.

Located on the Chicago River, River Roast offers dramatic city and water views from every seat. James Beard award-winning Chef Tony Mantuano and executive Chef John Hogan’s menu of contemporary American tavern fare is satisfying and soul-warming. Our private rooms accommodate intimate affairs from 50-280 for cocktails and dinner with access to a private outdoor veranda.

ranallislincolnpark.com

rivanavypier.com

riverroastchicago.com

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Rock Bottom Restaurant & Brewery

Salvatore’s Ristorante

Shula’s Steak House

1 W. Grand Ave., Chicago 312.755.1677

525 W. Arlington Pl., Chicago 773.528.1200

301 E. North Water St., Chicago 312.329.6831

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Maximum # of Guests: 230 Starting Price per Person: $45

Maximum # of Guests: 45 Starting Price per Person: $75

Book your upcoming event with us at Rock Bottom! Our innovative menu and experienced staff will ensure an unforgettable reception, rehearsal dinner or wedding brunch for you and your guests. Don’t forget that our handcrafted beers are on tap in all private event spaces. We look forward to creating a perfect event for you. Cheers!

Salvatore’s is the perfect place to begin your wedding celebration! Let our staff create a rehearsal dinner, reception or bridal shower that you will never forget! With the help of our event planners expertise, they can design every detail to fit your needs. From linen to custom menus we are always happy to help!

Enjoy an undefeated private dining experience with the best beef money can buy, The SHULA CUT®. Our private room seats up to 45 people, features audio-visual capabilities, specialized group dining menus, and a highly qualified service team. With Shula’s experience and dedication, we ensure that your event will be a “Perfect” one.

rockbottom.com

salvatores-chicago.com

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Sixteen

Swissôtel Chicago

theWit Hotel

401 N. Wabash Ave., Chicago 312.588.8030

323 E. Upper Wacker Dr., Chicago 312.268.0235

201 N. State St., Chicago 312.230.9514

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Maximum # of Guests: 50 Starting Price per Person: $76

Maximum # of Guests: Call Starting Price per Person: Call

Maximum # of Guests: 225 Starting Price per Person: $50

The rehearsal dinner marks the beginning of your celebration and Sixteen can create a truly memorable event. Our private dining room offers stunning views of the city, Chicago River and Lake Michigan, matched only by the exceptional cuisine being served. Superior service combined with classic luxury makes Sixteen the premier choice for hosting your rehearsal dinner.

Toast to “I do” with Swissôtel Chicago’s Pop-Up Restaurant – a customizable culinary experience in an intimate setting, created to wow your guests. Perfect for rehearsal dinners or bridal brunches, the Pop-Up Restaurant lets couples craft the perfect multi-course menu, complete with wine pairings that make the occasion one to remember.

At theWit, couples may choose from a wide array of options for their rehearsal dinner. From a serene private dining room to an interactive chef’s table, as well as lively, sumptuous or rustic environments, theWit is sure to delight. Our special events team will work to provide an unforgettable evening that is sure to warm the hearts of your closest family and friends.

sixteenchicago.com

swissotel.com/chicago-weddings

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Topo Gigio Ristorante

Volo Restaurant Wine Bar

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago

1516 N. Wells St., Chicago 312.266.9355

2008 W. Roscoe St., Chicago 773.348.4600

701 N. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.274.6421

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Maximum # of Guests: 90 Starting Price per Person: Call

Maximum # of Guests: 120 Starting Price per Person: $45

Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $60

Celebrating over 26 years as a Chicago favorite, Topo Gigio Ristorante is consistently voted as one of the best Italian restaurants. With creative pasta dishes, superb chicken, veal, and fish specialties, we offer a warm dining room, romantic outside garden, and beautiful second-floor party room, featuring vaulted ceilings, full bar it’s perfect for parties from 35 to 90.

Volo has been fortunate to have hosted many rehearsal dinners, post-wedding brunches, and other wedding related celebrations that have been truly special. We’d love to create a unique and memorable celebration for you. Our “#1 Hidden City Patio” (Chicago Magazine), 100 year old patina’d barn, and urban-chic dining room combine to create an ideal wedding venue.

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago presents two very different, yet equally spectacular ballrooms, for your occasion. Our 23rd Tip Top Tap offers breathtaking views of Michigan Avenue and downtown Chicago, accommodating up to 200. For more intimate affairs, you’ll love the architectural features of our 3rd floor Buckingham Ballroom, accommodating up to 120 guests.

topogigiochicago.com

volorestaurant.com

warwickhotels.com

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Weber Grill Restaurant

ZED451

Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano

Multiple locations, Chicago & Suburbs 312.467.0574

739 N. Clark St., Chicago 312.266.6691

Deer Park, Algonquin & Deerfield 847.438.1850

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Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $35

Maximum # of Guests: 800 Starting Price per Person: $50

Maximum # of Guests: 72 Starting Price per Person: $15

From backyard barbecues to gourmet dinners Weber Grill Restaurants can help you create the perfect event. We have many options including private rooms with patios as well as full catering services. Let us share our passion for grilling and entertaining while you sit back relax and enjoy your guests.

ZED451 caters to everyone in your party. Voted “Best Private Dining Venue in Chicago,” our warm, urbane setting is perfect for elegant rehearsal dinners, bridal showers and wedding day banquets. With 2 levels, a rooftop and 18,000 sq. ft. of private and semi-private dining space, ZED451 delivers an unmatched culinary experience on your special day.

In Italy, every meal is an event for family and friends - this tradition of honoring food and celebrating those it brings together is what we do best. With the perfect combination of authentic Italian food, distinctive ambiance and affordable pricing, Biaggi’s will make your bridal shower or rehearsal dinner an event to remember.

webergrillrestaurant.com

zed451.com

biaggis.com

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The Glen Club

The Grandview Restaurant & Lounge

1401 Nordic Rd., Itasca 630.694.5907

2901 W. Lake Ave., Glenview 847.724.7272

Located in The Geneva Inn N2009 S. Lake Shore Dr., Lake Geneva 262.248.5680

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Maximum # of Guests: 300 Starting Price per Person: $40

Maximum # of Guests: 230 Starting Price per Person: $31

Nestled on 106 acres of lush, natural beauty, Eaglewood provides a magical setting for your special day. From romantic décor to personalized menus, you will find resources for planning every detail. With breathtaking views & a variety of venues, Eaglewood has everything in place for weddings of unrivaled distinction.

Our beautiful clubhouse provides a grand ballroom and special event spaces appropriate for any social gathering. Your special events are important moments in the lives of your family and friends, and we understand that. At The Glen Club, we have the first class facilities and impeccable service to make any special event memorable.

Be Lakeside At The Grandview! Located on the shores of Lake Geneva, Wisconsin. Enjoy delicious cuisine, spectacular views, beautifully landscaped grounds and a private lakeside patio, perfect for small weddings, cocktail parties, wedding showers, rehearsal dinners, receptions and post-wedding brunches.

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Hofbräuhaus Chicago

Jimmy’s Charhouse

1201 Park Ave. W., Highland Park 847.432.8048

5500 Park Pl., Rosemont 847.671.2739

2290 Point Blvd., Elgin 847.783.0200

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Maximum # of Guests: 1000 Starting Price per Person: $33

Maximum # of Guests: 90 Starting Price per Person: $15

Customized packages to fit any budget are available. With our full service kitchen and executive chef anything is possible! All three private rooms feature floor to ceiling windows over looking our 18 hole championship golf course and is conveniently located off route 41 and Park Ave West.

Hofbräuhaus Chicago provides an authentic entertainment experience. From traditional German cuisine to famous freshly brewed beers, and nightly live music from Germany, every day feels like Oktoberfest. Hofbräuhaus Chicago can accommodate any size party and offers three classic rooms: the Beer Hall, King Ludwig Room and Biergarten.

Looking for the best place for your bridal shower or rehearsal dinner? Jimmy’s Charhouse offers a casual but sophisticated private room. Located conveniently off I-90 and Randall Rd. Private room seats 25-80 comfortably. Custom menus available. We look forward to helping you create the perfect event. Banquet coordinator always available.

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La Tasca Tapas Restaurant

Makray Memorial Golf Club

Quince

25 W. Davis St., Arlington Heights 847.398.2400

1010 S. Northwest Hwy., Barrington 847.381.6501

1625 Hinman Ave., Evanston 847.570.8400

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Maximum # of Guests: 76 Starting Price per Person: $52

Experience private dining in casual elegance! We offer our guests a fun alternative to a banquet hall or a typical restaurant. Special rates for private parties, bachelorette, rehearsals, showers and weddings. La Tasca dishes, colorful décor and live Latin entertainment celebrate the vitality of Spain. “Innovative touches and diverse flavors abound in this lively tapas restaurant. MUST SEE!” Tribune

Experience our exceptional cuisine and excellent service in our Oak Terrace Grille Restaurant, which is beautifully appointed with panoramic views of our outdoor patio and championship golf course.

Quince serves contemporary American cuisine, in a lively and comfortable setting near downtown Evanston. Known for utilizing the best of each season, Quince creates an eclectic and bold array of dishes which start with a traditional foundation and take exciting turns into globally-influenced cuisine.

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Tuscany Wheeling

Arrowhead Golf Club

CityGate Grille

550 S. Milwaukee Ave., Wheeling 847.465.9988

26W151 Butterfield Rd., Wheaton 630.653.5800

2020 Calamos Ct., Naperville 630.718.1010

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Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $27

Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $80

At each Tuscany location, we offer beautifully decorated private dining rooms that are perfect for celebrating your rehearsal dinner. We believe that our success depends on exceeding our guests’ expectations. Each guest is treated with a personal touch that distinguishes us and guarantees all of our guests an unforgettable experience.

Nestled among a forest preserve, the stone and brick clubhouse, lush fairways, lavish greens and sparkling waters provide the perfect setting for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, and indoor and outdoor ceremonies.

CityGate Grille offers 4 unique event spaces for your custom events. Whatever the occasion – weddings, rehearsal dinners, showers, social events or business meetings – CityGate Grille’s exceptional Naperville event spaces are a blank slate for all your best ideas. For more information, please contact us at 630.577.2185

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D.O.C. Wine Bar Lombard

Redstone American Grill

Seven Bridges Golf Club

326 Yorktown Center, Lombard 773.480.3708

13 Lincoln Ctr., Oakbrook Terrace 630.268.0313

One Mulligan Dr., Woodridge 630.964.7735

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Maximum # of Guests: 60 Starting Price per Person: $22

Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $22

Thank you for considering D.O.C. Wine Bar for your special event. Our two private rooms are available seven days a week for brunch, lunch, or dinner. Join us for a sit-down meal or cocktail style reception. Our event spaces feature a private bar, table and couch/lounge seating, floor to ceiling windows, fireplace, and access to an outdoor courtyard.

Our private dining room, which features an attached private patio, is the perfect place to host your engagement party, rehearsal dinner or bridal shower with room for up to 60 people. The Redstone culinary team has crafted several dining packages to suit your needs. Contact us for more information or to book your space.

Unique, warm and intimate venue with vaulted ceilings, brick accents and access to a covered veranda. Delicious made-toorder fresh food and attentive service. Custom menus, plated and buffet dinners, appetizer menus and bar packages available. No room rental fees. Several amenities included in price. Located off Route 53 and in proximity to I-88 and I-355.

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Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante

Broken Arrow Golf Club

Kama Bistro - Indian Food Redefined

2251 W. Lake St., Addison 630.376.1500

16325 W. Broken Arrow Dr., Lockport 815.836.8858

9 S. La Grange Rd., La Grange 708.352.3300

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Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $40

Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $35

Enjoy your party at Chicagoland's most dramatic special events property. Old world architecture mixed with contemporary artwork offers the elegance and warmth that you deserve on your special day. Known for our attention to detail, five star service and our exquisite food, let Venuti’s customize your private event.

Our golf course is quietly nestled on 250 acres of rolling hills, creating the most exclusive experience for you and your guests. Let our experienced catering staff provide you and your guests with the finest food and most personalized service available. From a small, intimate reception to an elaborate event, let Broken Arrow make your event one to remember!

For an unforgettable event look no further than the award winning cuisine and service at Kama Bistro. Our creative menu includes traditional and fusion options made from scratch using fresh ingredients. Our signature drinks will keep the party going. The chic and modern ambiance is a perfect background for event to remember.

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Engagement Announcements You’ve got big news! Share it with the neighborhood by posting your engagement announcement in your local newspaper. Here, we provide information on costs for postings as well as contact information for submissions.

Chicago Sun-Times Approximately 5" x 4" standard size announcement for $500 black & white or $700 color. For more information contact Debra at 630.978.8212 or celebrates@stmedianetwork.com.

Chicago Tribune

announcement

for

$85.

Submit

announcement at theherald-news.com/ forms/engagement. Includes one photo.

month. Prices vary by size, with many

Visit kcchronicle.com/forms/wedding to

options for amount of text and number of

submit announcement and photo. Engage-

images. Deadline is two Fridays before pub-

ments are published in the weekend edi-

lication date. Contact Carrie Dockendorff at

tion. Choose a basic $60 announcement

847.427.4904 or cdockendorff@dailyher-

or a full-color announcement for $85.

ald.com.

brations and select “buy now.” Packages

for publication.

start at $119 and include a print ad in

plates.

For the following local newspapers, visit placeanad.tribunesuburbs.com/announce-

Northwest Herald

ments. Select the region in which you would

Serving McHenry County. Engagements are

like your announcement to run, or pick the

printed in the Sunday edition. Get a basic

premium option to run in all regions. Each

announcement for $60 or a full-color

region includes a one-column listing in

Daily Journal

announcement for $85. Be sure to allow at

multiple local papers as well as an online

Use the online form at daily-journal.com/

least two weeks for the announcement to

post. Starting price varies by package.

site/forms and click on the engagements

be published. Submit an announcement at

page. Announcements run in the milestone

nwherald.com/forms/engagement. Includes

section of the Weekend Edition. A listing of

one photo.

wedding is free. You may upgrade to

Rockford Register Star

include more information and a black and

Visit e-rockford.com/placeanad and click on

white photo. Cost varies on subscription

the engagements page. The standard

status.

package includes 15 lines of text for free. Add a photo for $15 (black & white or color)

Herald-News

and additional lines of text for $1.50 each.

Serving Will County. Engagements are

Upgrade to a display ad for $12.65 per

printed in the Sunday edition. Get a basic

inch. Display ads include a black & white

announcement for $60 or a full-color

photo (add $30 for color).

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announcement and photo to Celebrate, which circulates the second Sunday of each

Includes one photo. Please allow two weeks

online ad, and access to pre-designed tem-

Visit celebrate.dailyherald.com to submit

Kane County Chronicle

Visit placeanad.chicagotribune.com/cele-

Chicago Tribune Celebrations, a one year

Daily Herald

Elgin Courier News Daily Southtown Lake County News Sun Naperville Sun Pioneer Press Publications North Shore Publications

Where To Go Obtaining an Illinois Marriage License

Call your County Clerk’s office to verify requirements, hours, and additional locations. We recommend getting two or three certified copies of your marriage certificate for name change and/or filing purposes.

REQUIREMENTS

identification card. Some counties may

COOK

Both partners must appear together in per-

require divorce decrees and/or death cer-

son at the time of application.

tificates of former spouses. Counties may

Downtown Chicago – Daley Center 50 W. Washington St. East Concourse (Lower) Level – 25 Chicago, IL 60602 312.603.7790

vary in forms of acceptable ID. Call your

WHO MAY APPLY

county clerk to verify.

Unmarried people who are 18 years of age or older and not blood relatives can apply for a marriage license, as can first cousins

CIVIL UNIONS AND SAME-SEX MARRIAGES

50 years or older. People 16 and 17 years

Civil unions are still legal and valid in Illinois.

of age must provide the following informa-

If couples would like to convert their civil

tion: sworn consent, in person, from each

union into a marriage, they can apply for a

parent or legal guardian before the county

marriage license and have a ceremony

clerk at the time of application, as well as

within the 60-day time limit.

a certified copy of their birth certificate and

Illinois now recognizes out-of-state

a second form of identification to show their

same-sex marriages. If you do not live in

date of birth. Those giving consent must

Illinois during the time of your marriage and

provide proper identification, including a

don’t intend to move to Illinois, it is rec-

valid driver’s license, state ID, or a valid US

ommended that you work with an attorney

passport. If the legal guardian is giving con-

to determine the validity of a marriage prior

sent, a certified copy of the guardianship

to applying for your license.

papers must be provided.

COST WHAT TO PROVIDE

Depending on your county, the cost to

You must provide one of the following pieces

obtain a marriage certification is $20-$60.

of information to receive your license: valid

Some offices only take cash.

U.S. driver’s license or state ID, valid U.S. tion card. If the above is not available, you

WAITING PERIOD/EXPIRATION OF LICENSE

passport, or U.S. Armed Forces identifica-

DEKALB 110 E. Sycamore St. Sycamore, IL 60178 815.895.7149

DUPAGE 421 N. County Farm Rd. Wheaton, IL 60187 630.407.6500

GRUNDY 111 E. Washington St., Room 12 Morris, IL 60450 815.941.3222

KANE 719 S. Batavia Ave., Building B Geneva, IL 60134 630.232.5950

KANKAKEE 189 E. Court St. Kankakee, IL 60901 815.937.2990

LAKE 18 N. County St., Room 101 Waukegan, IL 60085 847.377.2411

MCHENRY 667 Ware Rd., Suite 107 Woodstock, IL 60098 815.334.4242

must provide two of the following: a certified

A marriage license becomes effective

copy of your birth certificate, U.S. natural-

twenty-four hours after it is issued. Licenses

ization papers or resident alien card, a valid

are only valid for 60 days from the issued

WILL

foreign passport, a baptismal record showing

date and must be obtained in the county

the birth date of the applicant, or a consulate

where the ceremony will take place.

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LOCAL PLANNERS GO HEAD-TO-HEAD TO CREATE THEIR FANTASY WEDDING DESIGNS

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Pick the winner! Vote for your favorite design at chicagostyleweddings.com/vote

Rooftop Romance EFFORTLESS EVENTS

The Inspiration Who could ask for a more showstopping backdrop than the Chicago skyline? The combination of a sunset palette and today's hottest trend, rose gold, make for a fashionable and chic table setting. This clean and stylish look is timeless and will impress guests from start to finish.

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The Team PLANNER/STYLIST Effortless Events effortless-events.com FLORAL Avant Gardenia avantgardenia.com STATIONERY Papier Girl papiergirl.com SWEETS Bombon Cake Gallery chicagobestcakes.com TABLE RUNNER/NAPKINS BBJ Table Fashions bbjlinen.com RENTALS Hall’s Rental hallsrental.com VENUE PUBLIC Chicago publichotels.com/chicago

A Day at the Races EVENTS BY MIRANDA LYN

The Inspiration The Kentucky Derby is full of tradition and history, much like a wedding. We combined bold colors with a neutral palette to create a sensational look personal to the couple, with a nod to Kentucky Derby customs.

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The Team PLANNER/STYLIST Events by Miranda Lyn eventsbymirandalyn.com FLORAL Jazzy Flowers jazzyflowers.com STATIONERY DBY invitations dbyinvitations.com SWEETS Bittersweet bittersweetpastry.com LINENS BBJ Table Fashions bbjlinen.com RENTALS Hall’s Rental hallsrental.com HORSE “Bullet” Owned by Joan and Lucy Griffiths VENUE Dunham Woods Riding Club dunhamwoodsridingclub.com

Lush Woodland Dream YOU NAME IT EVENTS

The Inspiration We dreamed of a lush woodland wonderland while planning the décor for this design. Botanical and greenhouse elements intermix with earthy wood and moss for a fresh, invigorating look that creates a timeless, magical feel.

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The Team PLANNER/STYLIST You Name It Events younameitchicago.com FLORAL Countryside Flower Shop countrysideflowershop.com STATIONERY/CHALKBOARD ART Invitations by Design invitationsbydesign.com SWEETS Emily Wheeler Custom Cakes emilywheelercustomcakes.com RENTALS/LINENS Elegant Presentations egpres.com LIGHTING Atmosphere Events Group aegproduction.com VENUE The Haight thehaight.net

Southern-Style Romantic Wedding WINDERMERE ELEGANT WEDDINGS & SPECIAL EVENTS

The Inspiration Imagine entering an extraordinary setting featuring the elegance, beauty, and grace of the south. Live oak trees accent cream and marsala centerpieces and a delicate bouquet of cotton and magnolia leaves. Vintage furniture, a lace runner, and French-style seating create the perfect southern-style romantic wedding.

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The Team PLANNER/STYLIST Windermere Elegant Weddings & Special Events windermereweddingplanner.com FLORAL Ashland Addison Floral & Event Décor ashaddevents.com STATIONERY Carol Woldhuis Designs carolwoldhuisdesigns.com SWEETS Delish Cakes delishcakes.net LINENS/TABLEWARE Tablescapes Event Rentals tablescapes.com FURNITURE AFR Event Furnishings afrevents.com

M&M Special Events mmspecialevents.com RENTALS Zap Props and Antiques zapprops.com DRAPING Drape Kings drapekings.com

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Love’s Paradise VOWED TO YOU

The Inspiration Love’s Paradise captures the essence of a romantic, tropical honeymoon. The vibrant colors of turquoise and tangerine create a lovely vision of enjoying delectable treats at sunset and sounds of soothing ocean waves. The gold accent décor and tropical foliage evoke a refreshing ambiance of regalness and elegance.

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The Team PLANNER/STYLIST Vowed To You vowedtoyou.com FLORAL Flowers for Dreams flowersfordreams.com STATIONERY aDORAble Designs by Candice adorablebycandice.com SWEETS Penthouse Sweets penthousesweetschicago.com LINENS/RENTALS Tablescapes Event Rentals tablescapes.com VENUE Galleria Marchetti galleriamarchetti.com

D-I-Why? ADVICE FOR NAVIGATING THE “PIN-DEMONIUM” OF PINTEREST We’ve all seen the posts on social

over your bedazzled tea lights. There are

media – cute snapshots of a soon-to-be-

even a few special do-it-yourself projects

wedded couple surrounded by mason jars,

the professionals themselves recommend.

bags of Jordan almonds, color-coordinated

But first, let’s talk about some of the details

ribbons, scissors, and glue. Hashtag

best left up to those professionals (both for

“Pinterest Project!” Adorable, right? It all

your sanity and theirs).

looks so simple and fun! But behind the

Invitations are one of the most crucial

scenes, this do-it-themselves couple might

elements to your wedding for more reasons

be a bit more frazzled than they seem.

than the fact that without them, none of

We all want our wedding day to feel

your guests will know when and where to

unique and personalized, and why not? A

show up for the big day. Invitations are also

celebration all about you should definitely

one of the first ways guests experience the

show off your taste, style, and interests in

vibe and style of your wedding. So while

festive and creative ways. With websites

it may be tempting to DIY, definitely hand

like Pinterest designed to showcase crafty

this project over to the experts.

gals in all their glory, it seems like every-

“I always tell brides that seem to be

one is jumping on the do-it-yourself band-

interested in designing, printing, and

wagon. But is your wedding preparation

assembling their own invites to take a wed-

really the time to DIY-‘til-you-drop? What

ding invitation class at a local Paper

happens when all that Pinterest fun turns

Source,” recommends Miranda Lyn Tassi,

into complete pin-demonium?

owner and lead wedding planner of Events

As it turns out, there are some great ways to create the gorgeous, personalized wedding of your dreams without crying all

by Miranda Lyn. “Nine times out of ten, they run for the hills post-class!” An added bonus to entrusting your

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invitations to a paid professional is that you’ll save yourself all those hours of assembling, addressing, stamping, and stuffing them into envelopes. This can take a lot more time than you’d think, especially for a larger wedding. Another DIY no-no? Florals. “Many couples think bouquets are simple to make because they can be small. They are actually much more difficult to construct,” says Cindy Shanholtz, owner and creative director of Effortless Events. “Your bouquets need to be put together in a specific way so they do not fall apart, even after being picked up and put down all day, sitting in the hot sun, being tossed from bridesmaid to bridesmaid for pictures, and joining you for some groovy dance moves,” Shanholtz says. Remember, your bridal bouquet will be the most-photographed floral of your entire wedding day. You want those blooms to look their best. Another big reason to leave florals up to an actual florist? Hold on to your glue gun because here’s a word for you: bugs. Sometimes your gorgeous bouquets and centerpieces arrive from their wholesaler with six-legged stowaways in tow. When this happens, a professional florist has quick access to new (bug-free!) flowers that even the most talented patron of Pinterest will not. And it doesn’t matter how chic your dress is, there is nothing gorgeous about a creepy critter crawling around in the lace of your trumpet skirt. Crafting your own centerpieces and any of the larger décor for your reception venue should be avoided as well. Often, these projects will look great on paper (or Pinterest) but do not hold up as well in real life. Ribbon backdrops, for example, can be a lot heavier than you might expect,

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warns Claire Weller and the wedding planners of Big City Bride. She’s also encountered her fair share of place card holders that look adorable but fail to actually hold up the place card. Project fails like this might take some last-minute quick thinking and the ingenious eye of your wedding planner to make sure it works, and no couple wants that kind of down-to-the-wire stress on the big day. “The logistics of a wedding day are complicated,” adds Weller. “Although you can make a cute centerpiece, you can’t be at the venue to set it up, and you don’t want to be responsible for cleaning everything up at the end of the night either.” Lori Stephenson, owner and principal of LOLA Event Productions, advises that in general, any do-it-yourself project that can’t be completed 30 to 60 days before the wedding should be left to the professionals. “There are too many details that need to be attended to as the last weeks before the wedding count down – fittings, wedding showers, finalizing the seating arrangements.” But if you absolutely must try and attempt to DIY? “Start early,” she says. “Most projects require a much larger time commitment than may actually seem, so starting early ensures you can actually finish what you start!” Another great reason to fight the urge to DIY is that you should enjoy the time leading up to your wedding. “Having projects pending in the weeks just before your wedding not only stresses you out, it takes the focus off of the priority of enjoying these moments with your close family and friends,” Stephenson says. Plus, all the helpers you’ll inevitably end up recruiting into your project aren’t there to do your bidding. They’re there to celebrate with you! CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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Overall, these planners agree that while a unique and personalized wedding is important, you should keep the DIY to a minimum. Weller advises to let the professionals take care of all your wedding-day dirty work, so you can truly enjoy the day. “It’s worth every penny!” she says. If you’re still convinced DIY is the way to go for you, these expert planners do offer a few realistic suggestions. “I love when wedding favors have a personal touch to them,” says Tassi. “It’s so amazing to see the creative things that are important to the bride and groom when they decide to DIY the wedding favors, and it’s an opportunity for them to bring their personalities into the reception.” When it comes to DIY, remember that you can get creative without getting complicated. These planners have seen some great examples of do-it-yourself favors over the years from signature spice rubs and mini batches of Grandma’s “famous” cornbread to signature cocktail samples and homemade strawberry preserves. Shanholtz worked with a couple who met at a gourmet dinner party and loved cooking together, so their favors were infused olive oils they made themselves and a homemade spice mixture. Another couple met at a coffeehouse and blended their two favorite coffees together for their wedding favors. Personalization doesn’t have to be painstaking. By making your do-it-yourself project an activity you already love doing as a couple, you’re able to add your own unique, handmade flare to your big day without having to learn an entirely new skill. Plus, incorporating these one-of-a-kind favors means your guests might be writing you thank you notes after the wedding!

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flair to their products. Signature cocktails

vision. Shanholtz worked with one couple

couples looking to Pinterest-project their

are a great way to feature your unique

who served their wedding cake first

way down the aisle. Frame small notes

tastes and style. Some caterers will also

because it was the most important ele-

to tell your story. “Leave notes for your

replicate a special family recipe or

ment of the day for them. The cake was

guests everywhere – on the guestbook

include some well-known family favorites

served with champagne during cocktail

table, in the bathrooms, at the bars –

in the menu.

hour – a choice that rang true to their

The best way to ensure details like this

style as a couple and also fulfilled every-

are included is to spend the necessary

one’s childhood fantasy of beginning din-

Also, there are still tons of great ways

time with your wedding planner and ven-

ner with dessert!

to personalize your wedding day without

dors. “The better your wedding planner and

Whether you and your soon-to-be-wed-

getting crafty yourself. “Adding personal

vendors get to know you, the more per-

ded decide to hop a ride on the DIY

touches is a great way to make the day

sonal their suggestions for making your day

Express or leave the details up to the tal-

special, but that doesn’t need to mean DIY

special will be,” says Stephenson. “Did

ented professionals you hire, every element

projects,” says Weller. “Incorporating your

your mother carry peonies on her wedding

of the day should speak to your unique

grandma’s cake cutting set, wrapping your

day? Let’s incorporate those into the bou-

style as individuals and as a couple. How-

grandpa’s tie around the bouquet, or using

quet. Did you get engaged in Napa Valley?

ever it gets accomplished, you want your

your sister’s toasting flutes are all wonderful

Let’s serve wines from the vineyard where

guests to walk away from your wedding

details.”

your fiancé popped the question.”

day feeling like they were a part of some-

explaining all the personal details you selected,” she says.

Plus, there are plenty of things profes-

Don’t be afraid to toss out the rule book

sional vendors can do to add that intimate

if it’s simply not working for you and your

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Weller offers up another great idea for

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PLANNING NOTES:

reception timelines The typical wedding reception is approximately five hours. Whether it’s a midmorning reception or an evening affair, here’s a breakdown of the standard order of events:

HOUR ONE:

Cocktail Hour You said “I do,” kissed, and now it’s time for the guests to make their way to the reception, which will either begin immediately with a cocktail hour if it is at the same venue or after a certain amount of travel time. The new couple, the bridal party, and their families will follow the photographer to take post-ceremony shots. However, if you choose to do a receiving line, this is the time to line up outside the ceremony location.

HOUR TWO:

The Newlyweds Arrive After the guests have taken their seats, the DJ or band leader announces the new Mr. and Mrs., along with their bridal party. Take this opportunity to go right into your first dance, as the guests are standing, cheering, and watching the two of you. Once finished, begin greeting your guests at their tables (if you didn’t do a receiving line.) About halfway through, dinner will be served. Take a break and eat some food – you’ve been planning this meal for months! Let the bridal party and family (specifically, those who are making speeches) eat first, because about 20 minutes later, the toasts should start, led by the best man. Next up 244

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guests and vendors to vacate the premises

One important thing to remember when

the two fathers’ speeches.

by a certain time? Remember that once

creating your reception timeline is that it is

your guests leave you will also need to be

always better to over-estimate the amount of

sure to give your vendors at least an hour

time needed than to underestimate. Allow

for cleanup and to clear out any equipment.

enough time between scheduled activities for

Wrap up the speeches, and then it’s

This will ensure that you don’t exceed your

the unexpected; and don’t forget that you and

time to hit the dance floor. If you decided

venue rental period and avoid expensive

your groom need time to be able to relax and

not to do your first dance after you were

overtime fees.

enjoy your family and your guests!

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is the maid of honor’s speech, followed by

introduced, now is the time. The fatherdaughter dance follows, and then the mother-son dance. The DJ will ask the bridal party to join the newlyweds on the dance floor, and the party really kicks off.

HOUR FOUR:

Traditions As the dancing continues, it’s time for all the single ladies to put their hands up and catch the bouquet, and the single men to catch the garter. If you plan to incorporate any other reception traditions, such as the Hora at a Jewish wedding, an anniversary dance, or a money dance, this is the time to do so. About halfway into the hour, it’s time to cut the cake (smashing it into each other’s faces is optional.)

HOUR FIVE:

Take A Bow As the dancing continues, the guests will start trickling out. Last call at the bar should be around 45 to 30 minutes before the reception ends. To avoid any overtime charges, start encouraging guests to leave about 15 to 20 minutes before the reception officially ends. Do this by having the bridal party coordinate a fond farewell outside the reception hall, complete with bubbles or sparklers.

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Planning for Disasters HOW TO BE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING THAT COULD GO WRONG

Ask any couple if their wedding and

not go according to plan. It’s OK if that

reception were free of disasters, and they

happens. Life goes on. But being prepared

will tell you that some glitch happened

for it will really help.”

along the way – despite all the great planning done ahead of time.

Her best advice to handle the pressure of the day and the possibility of something

Yes, your best efforts to keep things

going awry is to “make sure you get lots

flawless and flowing impeccably during

of sleep the week of your wedding and

your special day can help. But sometimes,

especially the night before. Drink tons

things just happen.

of water and stay hydrated. That will

“No wedding is ever the same. And

always help.”

while some minor surprises are handled

The best thing a couple can do to avoid

quite calmly by a bride, another bride

potential disasters on their big day is to hire

across town is having a complete melt-

an experienced wedding planner, says

down,” says Kyna Horton, bridal consult-

Bambi Caicedo Rogers, founder of BCR

ant and event planner at Vowed To You.

Events. Anything that does come up on

“Be prepared that something or things may

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Anything that does come up on your wedding day, a calm

professional

planner can diffuse a situation masterfully – oftentimes without the couple ever having to know about it at all.

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planner can diffuse a situation masterfully

about your outdoor space. Is it a windy

– oftentimes without the couple ever hav-

lakefront? Have tiny weights sewn into

ing to know about it at all.

your veil. Is it an expansive lawn? Put heel

“Regardless of having a planner or not, the best way a couple can deal with any

protectors on your shoes and have a golf cart handy, Caicedo Rogers says.

wedding day issue is all about attitude. It

Although outdoor weddings can be so

is imperative that couples look at the big

beautiful with natural lighting, it can also be

picture,” she states. “They are getting mar-

hot, cold or sticky.

ried that day. Surrounded by family and

“If it is an outdoor ceremony, the only

friends, the day should be about what truly

weather-related elements you would have

matters – the fact that you are in love and

to worry about are rain or extreme heat,”

committing to that person for the rest of your life.” Here are some of the areas that event planners say can cause the most hiccups in a wedding, and some of the ways to avoid or help soften these disasters:

Outdoor Weddings “Always have a ‘Plan B,’” says Caicedo Rogers. “Whether it’s an indoor part of the venue that you can move into or side walls that can be added to your tent – always have a back-up plan.” She states that trusting your vendors can also save you a few disasters here and there. “If the guy who has made his living installing event tents for 20 years says to add a gutter or a generator, listen to him. Your vendors are as committed to your day being as perfect as you are so their suggestions are typically good ones,” she explains. As for the little things, you need to think CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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Horton says. “If it happens to be unusual-

rain. If you do get one, it won’t,” she clar-

on the same side of the aisle as the

ly cold, cloudy or very lightly drizzling, the

ifies. ”You can’t call one up last minute.

groom’s parents just to separate every-

show will go on. Ceremonies are typically

They need to be arranged ahead of time.

one. And often, she has had to change

only 30 minutes long.”

If you are just out taking photos in the rain,

things up and allow for them to give

buy some cute umbrellas and rain boots.

speeches separately.

Tiffany Munster, owner and senior event planner at Soirée Weddings & Events,

It will make for a great photo-opp.”

DIY Problems

says she is a little superstitious sometimes. “I feel that if you don’t get a tent, it will

Hair and Makeup Snafus It takes time to get beautiful. Horton has discovered that most of the minor surprises at a wedding have to deal with hair and makeup.

Horton helped coordinate a summer wedding that was mainly a Do-It-Yourself affair designed by the bride. “Let me say that DIY can be your best friend. However, it can be very time-con-

“No matter how punctual you may feel,

suming. Particularly on the wedding day,

you must absolutely factor in extra time for

the bride and groom cannot and should not

hair and makeup. Someone is guaranteed

cut any corners,” she says.

to be late, and sometimes it’s the stylist,”

For this wedding, the couple had

she explains. “If you need to leave the

enlisted friends to help set up the food

hotel by 4 p.m. to head to the wedding,

and décor. Well, they came on the wed-

everyone should be dressed and ready

ding day all dressed up for the wedding –

no later than 3 p.m.”

not to help. “My staff of three rushed to unpack food

Family Feuds

and plates, set up tables and ceremony

Sometimes the bride’s mother hates the

décor, chill champagne and other bever-

bride’s father. Then what? “This does hap-

ages. From that point forward, I always

pen quite a bit,” Munster says. “It really

advise the couple to pay for extra staffing.

depends on the bride’s relationship with

When I explain this wedding story, they

her family.”

totally understand,” she clarifies.

If the couple gets along with everyone, Munster makes adjustments to make

Crazy Kids

everyone happy. She has placed fathers-

“Having children at the wedding is

of-the-bride and stepmoms-of-the-bride

always a risk,” Munster says. “They don’t always cooperate the way we want them to. I explain to my clients that is part of the charm of incorporating children.” Being ready to go with the flow is always an important tool. “If a child is hysterically crying, we make a game time decision to proceed with the ceremony without that child,” she states. The same decision should be made if the child has an “accident” before the ceremony.

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Whatever happens, will happen. Just

focus on each other, your love , and everyone coming remember to

together to celebrate that love. The Alcohol Ran Out Too Early “When purchasing your own alcohol, if carefully planned out with your coordinator, caterer and venue, chances of running out should be very slim,” Horton says. “We usually know ahead of time that ‘x’ amount of alcohol was purchased for ‘x’ amount of guests. When this is the case, the bar is open sparingly – one hour of cocktails, closed for dinner, and reopened for the party for a few hours.”

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between the bride and groom when I ask if they have hired an officiant,” she says. “Another small detail often overlooked is the head count. While it is not detrimental to the wedding day, the bride and groom will forget to include themselves in the final count.” Whatever happens, will happen. Just remember to focus on each other, your love, and everyone coming together to celebrate that love. And should something major happen, trust your vendors to fix the issue and keep your wedding day

Uninvited Guests

running smoothly.

This is almost inevitable, and in most cases will not cause a major problem because for that one uninvited guest there is another that RSVP’d but didn’t show up, Horton explains. “If it is a situation where the reception space is full, we politely ask the uninvited guest to wait until after dinner is served or place them at an open seat. Now, if your guest is uninvited for other reasons and simply is not allowed at the wedding, then he or she will have to be escorted off the premises,” she says.

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| PHOTOGRAPHY BY ROOTS OF LIFE PHOTOGRAPHY & CREATIVE CATALYST ARTS

During their visit to the Taj Mahal, Jen Urso and U-Xinn Cheang walked to a beautiful, secluded area to watch the sunrise. U-Xinn asked a passerby to take a picture of them, but as the shutter began to click, he turned to Jen and gave her a proposal unlike any other. The pair soon returned home and began planning their summer nuptials at the gorgeous, historical Armour House at Lake Forest Academy. “The grand staircase at the Armour is quite stunning, so from the very beginning I knew that was where I wanted our first look,” says the bride. In an intimate moment, Jen descended the stairs to meet U-Xinn. “I just remember the true look of excitement and awe on his face.” As a tribute to their families, the bride wore her grandmother’s blue star sapphire ring and the groom donned elegant Chinese cufflinks. They also honored their mothers by giving them each a rose during the ceremony. After the big moment, the bridal party gathered for a toast. Jen says, “This was really special for us, because it was a moment to just be with the bridal party and each other for the first time as husband and wife.” During the speeches, heartfelt praise was given to the couple by all. “I was incredibly moved when I took a step back from the dance floor and saw how much fun people were having,” explains the bride. As husband and wife, U-Xinn and Jen danced and enjoyed their wedding after so many months of planning. “I think the longest lasting memory that will stay with us is the amount of love we felt during the whole process.”

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HAIR & MAKEUP: The Strand Hair Studio

BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Donna Morgan

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Ready-to-Wed TRANSLATING YOUR READY-TO-WEAR STYLE INTO YOUR WEDDING ATTIRE You have two options for your wedding day look: “Go big” or “Do you.” If you choose “Go big,” really go for it. If “Do you” sounds more up your alley, your best bet is to translate your weekend wear to wedding flair. Decide your usual look and find a 2.0 version of it, something with a little more glitz that’s still recognizable as your own unique style. “A

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Although it seems like brides have unlimited options and grooms get stuck with only a few avenues, there are ways a man can incorporate his personality into his look. The combined effect of newlyweds flaunting their personal style lets your guests know exactly whose wedding they’re attending.

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groom

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Analyze Your Faves Why did you choose these outfits? Does this shirt do amazing things to your arms? Do those pants enhance your shapely cheeks? You probably chose these pieces because of how they highlight your assets. Look for a wedding outfit that highlights the same things. “She’ll probably gravitate toward a wedding gown that’s a proven silhouette that she’s worn in the past because she feels confident and beautiful in it,” says Nicole Kurz, owner of The Dress by Nicole. Once a groom’s signature look has been established, he’s ready to match a wedding look to his style. “If he’s trendy, I would suggest a very fitted coat and pants with a bow tie and some colorful socks for a hint of color. If they’re conservative – a

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traditional tuxedo with a vest and tie in a more classic fit,” says Ambriz.

Shop until You Drop – of Sheer Happiness Find cuts and styles that resemble your chosen pieces. If you pulled a bunch of A-line dresses from your wardrobe, look for an A-line gown that cinches your waist. If your chosen few are sassy sheaths, try on a fit-and-flare or mermaid and watch what happens to those curves. If you’re still not quite sure what your daily look means, a consultant can help you when you begin shopping. “When they walk in, you can assess their personal style,” says Karen Rolfe, co-owner of Reddington Bridal. “We start with their everyday wear. We take that and glam it up one step.” “During her first appointments, a bride should try on a variety of styles, silhouettes, necklines, and fabrics. This will help her discover the style that best fits her personality,” says Lagunas. In his suit-seeking adventures, the groom should keep his mind open. “There are some great dinner jackets in gingham, white, or ivory with a black trim that will still be formal but certainly more trendy,” says Ambriz.

Enhance and Accessorize Your Look You’re not just going to Uncle Jay’s pig roast in this dress. This is your wedding day. Stuff’s gonna get fancy, and you need to keep up. You don’t want to have the most casual look in the house and let some third cousin in a glittery gown steal your thunder. Not today, my friend, not today. Take your style and enhance it. “When you’re looking at a wedding, you have to consider it’s almost like theater. Your 274

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up wearing a lot of accessories when you

sion of you from further away,” says Diane

go out,” says Kurz. How you adapt your

Alfillé, vice president at Eve J. Alfillé

look to different occasions will help you

Gallery & Studio.

decide what types of accessories you want

Unless you have a jewelry box of iden-

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guests have to see you and get an impres-

on your big day.

tical earrings, your aesthetic probably

Another way to up the ante is with

changes from day to day. “Maybe you don’t

your favorite hues. “Incorporate color,

normally wear a lot of jewelry, but you end

whether it be a headpiece, shoes, or other

accessories like your jewelry,” says Erin Lindsay Janish, owner and head designer at Erin Lindsay Designs. “Don’t overdo it,” says Rolfe. “Less is more. If you’re someone who’s very fancy or glamorous, then you can afford to go with the bolder choices.” If you like a vintage aesthetic, bring your family’s heirlooms into your outfit. “I like to take their mother’s and grandmothers’ veils and incorporate that into their style,” says Antonietta Cervantes, owner and designer at Veiled by ChaCha. If the groom wants to go the traditional route with a suit, he can still tailor it to his personality with some well-chosen accessories. “If he goes classic,” says Ambriz, “I would do a unique tie or bow tie, specialty socks, and engraved cufflinks to make it his own look.”

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Whatever you choose, make sure you

cuts that resemble your daily style, try something unexpected. “Though she’s not

can see yourself in the final product. “It’s

usually a Cinderella type of woman, she

reflection of you . You really

may be on her wedding day. Her wedding

day’s a special day, so she might want to

want to stay true to yourself and

go outside her comfort zone.”

your look.”

that many rules. It’s her big day,” says Jan-

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“It’s just important to know there aren’t

ish. “If she wants something, she should be able to incorporate it.” Whatever you choose, make sure you can see yourself in the final product. “It’s a reflection of you. You really want to stay true to yourself and your look,” says Alfillé. “Young people these days really know who they are, and it’s really important for them to be individuals.”

Rock It When your wedding day comes, you’ll know you look like a more vibrant version of you. You chose a dress based on things that make you feel comfortable and gorgeous, so go out, enjoy the night, and know that only you could pull off this look so perfectly.

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BHLDN Jill Jill Stuart for BHLDN | BHLDN, bhldn.com

EVAS INTERNATIONAL AND OAK LAWN Stephen Yearick and YSA Makino | Eva’s Bridal International and Eva’s Bridals of Oak Lawn, evasonlagrange.com

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Your Support System CHOOSING THE RIGHT “FOUNDATION” FOR YOUR GOWN The shopping doesn’t end when you

dress with different undergarments to see

able to add bra cups to the inside of

find your dress. Once you have your look,

what looks and feels best. Keep the tags

the bridal gown for B cups and often C

it’s time for your next challenge, finding the

on the undergarments and return the

cups,” says Kathy Lager, owner of Veiled

perfect foundation with supportive, flatter-

unchosen,” says Bridgid Sekel, manager of

in Elegance. Built-in cups ensure a seam-

ing underwear.

sales at Doris Bridal Boutique.

less look with nearly invisible support. For ladies with a bit more bust, built-in

“The best method for finding the perfect undergarments is to buy a few options from

cups might not be the way to go. “It’s the

a reputable lingerie department. Bring the

The simplest solution to taming your

most photographed day of your life. Why

options for the first fitting, and try on the

tatas is built-in structure. “We’re usually

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a B cup or larger, you’re not going to get support that day,” says Kathy Labedzki, owner of Kasia’s Bridal. The structure of the dress itself may help to take the burden off your breasts. “A lot of the gowns we sell have a lot of internal boning so the bride doesn’t need a lot of additional support,” says Nancy McElvenny, owner of The Crystal Bride.

Strapless Conundrum Finding the perfect undergarments for a one-shoulder or strapless dress is a new kind of brain-teaser. “Bustiers are my favorite option because they have a low back,” says Labedzki. “They give you a nice line because they’re boned, and they have demi cups that won’t show under the neckline.”

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“We encourage brides to wear longline bras. They actually cinch the waist,” says Shannelle Armstrong-Fowler, owner of Haute & Co. Bridal Boutique. Longlines also feature demi cups, and they come to the waist with boning for support and shape for all cup sizes. McElvenny warns against the dreaded bottom line with the longline bra. “Longlines are great, but you can sometimes have a transition point where the longline hits the top of your hip, and that creates a ripple under the dress,” she says. With such stunning control and shape, the longline is worth trying on with your dress. If it cuts you and gives you a transition, find something that extends lower or higher.

Controlling the Curves “The most popular shapewear that we see brides choosing are the highwaisted hosiery shapewear from Spanx,” says Sekel. Although it may be the most recognizable name in shapewear, Spanx might not work for every dress. Find something that matches your dress’ shape so you don’t have to deal with bunching. “Some of today’s slips will have a little compression around the waist,” says McElvenny. “We have one designer that has an eight-inch elastic from the waist down and flares out into a traditional petticoat for an A-line.” Other slips are tailored for fit-and-flare or mermaid shaped gowns. Finding a balance between shape and comfort will make or break your wedding day. “If you can get away without shapewear,” says Lager, “you’d be much more comfortable.” 288

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Sex Appeal or Soft Comfort? You’ll be in your underwear and wedding dress through emotional vows, well-meaning toasts and hours of foot-stomping music. “We like to tell our brides to keep it comfortable and not cute,” says Armstrong-Fowler. “Save the sexy for when you get back to the room.” “I think women are so geared toward the idea of having a sexy undergarment, they spend a lot of money being beautiful but not functional,” says Labedzki. Make sure your support leaves you able to breathe, bend, and shake what your momma gave you.

Personal After-Party Whether you choose items that go from dance floor to bedroom or pull the ol’ letme-slip-into-something-more-comfortable routine, find lingerie that makes you feel stunning. A sheer babydoll or lacy chemise packs a punch in the honeymoon suite, but don’t expect to be fresh and ready for a romp. “Really, the sexiness doesn’t come until the next day,” says Armstrong-Fowler. Rather than push through the exhaustion, plan something special for the next morning. After the wedding, shuck your undies and dive into bed for a snooze. When you blissfully awaken in the morning, dress in your sassiest finery and enjoy your new married life.

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gown glossary

when they hear the words

shaped like an “A” (fitted at

ball gown a Cinderella look

the waist with a wider, more

comes to mind. Well, that

flared bottom) the A-line

There’s a first time for everything, and buying

assumption is essentially

gown is the most com-

Ball gown For most women,

A-line With a skirt that’s

a wedding gown is no exception. Whether

correct. The classic ball

mon silhouette for today’s

you’ve been dreaming of a specific gown

gown is comprised of a form-fitting bodice that

bride. This gown is as versatile as it is popular;

since you were twelve or you’ve just begun

leads to a large, billowing skirt often made of tulle

depending on the embellishment and the fabric

to look through the pages of our magazine,

or satin. A ball gown is flattering for most shapes,

it’s created from, the A-line is as perfect for a

there are certain styles and silhouettes you

but especially for pear-shaped brides because the

super-casual backyard celebration as it is an up-

should be knowledgeable of so that you can

full skirt hides a heavier bottom half while drawing

scale country club affair. It’s flattering for brides

make the best decision about this once-in-a-

the eye up to the bodice. Petite brides should shy

of all shapes and sizes, and nearly every designer

lifetime purchase. Read on for the 411 on

away from a voluminous ball gown because the

features A-line gowns in their collections.

which gowns will provide the best fit to flatter

size and shape of the gown tends to swallow up a

your bridal figure.

smaller-framed woman.

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Here’s the skinny on which waistline is

Sheath Sleek and sophisti-

hourglass shape by highlighting curves, but still

cated, a sheath gown either

provides enough volume so as not to feel restric-

hugs the natural curves of

tive. This sexy shape elongates the body and of-

Basque

the body or falls in a straight

fers a great deal of glamour for your big day. The

Basque waist begins at the natural

line from the shoulders to

fit and flare gown can be wonderfully enhanced

waist and dips to a slight V shape

the hemline. It’s especially

by adding a sash to emphasize the waist.

in the front. The shape elongates

best for your body. The

very

slimming

the torso, trimming the tummy and providing a

flattering on tall and thin brides (what isn’t?) but is

sleek appearance. It looks especially stunning

surprisingly stunning on slim, petite brides be-

Mermaid To really show off

cause it adds length to shorter statures. However

your body in a sexy and so-

if you have problem areas that you’d rather not re-

phisticated way, try the ever-

veal to your wedding guests, a sheath might not

when paired with a sweetheart neckline, which makes it the perfect choice for fuller-figured and pear-shaped brides.

so-couture mermaid gown.

be your best bet.

Slim right down to the knee,

Dropped Falling lower across the

this is the right dress to

hips, the dropped waist gown is a

Fit and Flare The fit and

show off a slender hourglass

classic look for A-line and ball

flare gown (also called the

figure. But, buyer beware – if you’re not into tight

gowns. It adds curves to brides

fit-to-flare gown) is easier to

gowns, this may not be the choice for you. Be-

with larger waists, and is equally flattering to the

pull off than one might imag-

cause mermaids really highlight the whole body,

ultra-thin. Most necklines look smashing with a

ine. This popular style is slim

they tend to show every lump and bump. This style

dropped waist gown; just be sure you don’t have

through the bodice, then

can be a bit constricting, so work with your alter-

a long torso or the dropped waist might add too

flares away from the body below the hip. The great

ations specialist to ensure your gown fits your

much length, making your legs appear short.

thing about this silhouette is that it shows off the

body perfectly.

Natural A natural waist gown falls right across the waist, and is a popular choice for brides of all shapes and sizes. If you have an hourglass figure, this is definitely the look for you because it accentuates your best attributes. If you tend to have a wider waistline, you might want to look at a dropped or empire waist gown. Empire The empire waist gown sports a tiny bodice and high waist that begins at the base of the bust

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line and falls to a slightly flared hemline. If you have a thicker waist, this is a very slimming gown for your silhouette because

different style.

From classic to contemporary, read on for the facts to help you find a face-framing neckline. Strapless This neckline speaks for itself. A strapless gown is usually cut straight across above the bust line, and will sometimes feature a notch or v detail in the center. Strapless

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gowns are flattering on nearly everyone; however if you’re lacking in the cleavage category, you might want to look for something with straps.

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Scoop The popular scoop neckline is shaped like a U and can be cut either high or low. Held up by straps, this neckline is equally flattering on all brides. It’s important to remember, though, that larger cup sizes should be careful of very low cut scoop necklines to reduce the appearance of the breasts spilling out the top. Square A square neckline is similar to a scoop neckline, except the neckline falls in a square shape instead of rounding downward. This style is perfect for those who need the support of straps, but don’t want to bear too much cleavage. Spaghetti Strap Very thin straps anchor the bodice of a spaghetti strap

gown. Many

strapless

gowns can be altered to include spaghetti straps, which makes this neckline a popular option for those who like the strapless look but crave the safety of straps. It’s a flattering neckline for most, however spaghetti straps may not provide enough support for the very well endowed. Sweetheart Shaped like the top of a heart, this neckline is especially flattering on the well endowed because it provides a seductive glimpse of the décolletage, without looking too risqué. However, if your cup size is closer to an A than a C, you might want to consider a different style Off-the-Shoulder

Yep,

you

guessed it. The off-the-shoulder neckline sits off your shoulders, highlighting your fabulously sculpted collarbone. This style is great for brides who want the feel of a strapless, without baring too much skin. It’s also a great alternative if your house of worship frowns upon strapless gowns. And brides with more cleavage to manage will get the added support of the off-shoulder straps. But if you’re broad shouldered, consider checking out other avenues like square or scoop necklines. Bateau Also called the Sabrina, this neckline follows your collarbone nearly straight across. It’s a great look for smaller busted brides, because it gives the appearance of a larger bosom. Broad-shouldered brides should move on because the bateau neckline will draw the eye up, bringing more attention to the shoulders. CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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Envelope Etiquette THE WHEN AND HOW OF WHOSE NAME GOES WHERE

Finding and sending the perfect invita-

is slowly loosening. Experts on stationery

tion sets the mood for your wedding, mak-

and invitations urge couples to keep eti-

ing it an essential part of the planning

quette in mind, but they are also adapting

process. It’s not just the look and feel of

to new trends.

invites that couples should take into con-

“Etiquette has gotten to the point where

sideration, how the envelope is addressed

it’s flexible and couples should decide

is just as important!

what really fits best for them and their

While tradition surrounding envelope

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guests,” says Tara Vanderheyden, owner of Invitations by Design.

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Couples are leaving their mark on each

offend anyone by misaddressing an invi-

2) When couples are unmarried and not

facet of their big day, including spicing

tation. Couples can stress about properly

living together, it’s nice (and correct) to

up invitations and envelopes with per-

addressing envelopes and come down

send a separate invitation to each individ-

sonal touches.

with a bad case of writer’s block, or

ual’s address. This is because some cou-

they can consult the experts to help them

ples may take offense at the thought that

navigate envelope etiquette.

the sender believes that they receive mail

“Couples are managing most aspects of the wedding themselves, now (as opposed to the parents),” says Kasey Larson, pres-

Melissa Mizel, proprietor of stationery

ident and co-founder of DBY invitations.

design house Dear Emily, shared the

“Their personality is coming through in all

following tips:

3) If a woman is married and chooses to keep her last name, keep the husband’s

1) When couples are unmarried and liv-

and wife’s names on the same line, if pos-

ing together, tradition says to put the name

sible. The prefix in front of the woman’s

of the first guest on one line and the name

name would be Ms. and the last name

of the second guest on the second line.

would be her own: Mr. Jonathan Reynolds

Sending out properly addressed invites

However, when it’s a close call (because

& Ms. Rebecca Lundquist.

makes guests feel wanted and welcomed,

the two people think of themselves as

4) If a woman has been widowed, take

and signals the event is sure to be fabu-

“practically married”), consider what would

into consideration how recently this

lous and fun.

please the recipients, and if your intuition

occurred. The more recent the death, the

With so many different situations out

tells you to, put the names on one line

more likely an elderly woman, in particu-

there, couples want to be careful not to

joined by the word “and” or an ampersand.

lar, will appreciate seeing her husband’s

aspects of the wedding, especially custom designed invitations.”

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“When guests see it, it makes them think,

than Ms. Amelia Clarke. A younger woman,

‘Ooh, this is important.’”

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name, thus: Mrs. Ignatius Clarke rather

though, may have been called Ms. Amelia Clarke for decades and wouldn’t neces-

Tiny Attendees

sarily appreciate a name “makeover” just

Choosing to invite or not invite children

because she is now widowed. Always

to weddings can be awkward for many

remember to respect what you know about

couples. However, there are polite ways

a person’s past practice.

to indicate their decision via the invitation

Pay attention to how addresses are writ-

and envelope.

ten out, as well. Vanderheyden noted that

If children are not invited, do not place

couples sometimes forget to fully write

their names on outer or inner envelopes.

everything out on the envelope. Weddings

Additionally, leave a space on RSVP cards

are a time to be formal, and it’s best to

for guests to fill in the number of people

write out guests’ full names and not use

attending from each household. If only the

common abbreviations such as “St., Ln.,

couple’s names appear on the envelope,

or P.O. Box.”

but the RSVP card indicates more than two

“It seems silly, but writing out lane,

guests will be in attendance, that lets the

street, post office box, or apartment gives

host know something is off. They can then

it a more formal feel,” says Vanderheyden.

handle it on a per-guest basis.

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“RSVP cards can also say, ‘We have reserved two seats in the guests’ honor,’” says Larson. This politely lets guests know that a place has been reserved strictly for the couple. “Couples have been asking to include ‘Adult reception to follow’ directly on the invitation, as well,” Larson adds. If children are invited to the wedding, couples can clearly indicate that on the front of the envelope. “Children’s names can appear on the second line of the invitation or you can address the invitation to Mr. and Mrs. Jones and Family,” recommends Mizel. Mizel also suggests, depending on age, sending an envelope for just the children or, when using formal invitations with inner envelopes, adding children’s names to the parents’ on the inner envelope to indicate they are included. Thus, an outer envelope might say, “Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Jacobson,” and the inner envelope might say, “Uncle Joe, Aunt Kate, Zoey and Hugo.”

Making Your Envelopes Your Own Experts suggest beginning to design invitations at least four months in advance of your wedding date. “It takes about a week to get a proof of the invitation and you also need to leave a week for the envelopes to be addressed,” notes Dottie Bucaro, store manager at Marvelous Party. Bucaro recommended several ways couples could create more elaborate envelopes. “Stamping initials, doves, or interlocking rings on the back of the envelope are ways for couples to add their personal touch,” says Bucaro. Sprinkling aspects of their 308

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to customize their invites and gives them an extra wow factor.

Maintaining Tradition

that return addresses appear in the

Traditionally, return addresses are

upper left corner. However, it is still

printed or written in calligraphy on the

acceptable to place them on the back

“Couples are finding fun places to add

back of the envelope. It adds a stunning

or front of the envelope. Some bold

spark from the invitation design to the

touch to any invitation, but Vanderheyden

couples are taking their chances and

envelope so it’s not mixed in with the mail.

warns that invitations might accidently

really getting creative, opting to place

They’re placing details from the invitation

be mailed back to the original sender if

them in unique locations like the side of

onto the envelope,” says Vanderheyden.

addressed this way. The post office prefers

the envelope.

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reception into the invitations allows couples

“Nothing can get lost in the shuffle like a plain white envelope. Try coordinating your envelope with the color palette used to create your invitation suite. If you must go with a white envelope, try addressing it with a bold color ink. And nice stamps will be sure to grab the attention of your guests,” says Candice Dora, owner and lead creative designer at aDORAble Designs by Candice.

Stepping Outside the Box Invitations are still most commonly enclosed in envelopes. However, couples can step outside the box by sending invitations set inside handcrafted boxes. “I am starting to notice more clients interested in having their invitations delivered in boxes. I think it’s a fantabulous way to ‘set the tone’ to your wedding day,” says Dora. Boxed

invitations

are

added

expense. If you’re watching your budget, opt to send two types of invitations – boxed invites for your bridal party, and VIPs and enveloped invites for your other guests. “I’ve had brides send two versions of an invitation – one more elaborate for the family VIPs. We’ve also done multi-language invitations in both English and French, Spanish, German, and Slovak if a majority of guests speak another language,” says Larson. CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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Finally, remember to avoid a common faux pas regarding registry information and invitations. “Don’t put registry/gift information on the invitations,” cautions Larson. Guests are coming to enjoy a fabulous party and celebrate the marriage. While it’s customary to bring gifts, refrain from directly supplying registry details on invitations. Instead, add an insert card with the couple’s website address, if they have one. That will direct guests to the registry should they choose to bring a gift. As all the experts pointed out, remember to have fun! The wedding day and all the events leading up to it are special moments to be enjoyed together!

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Invitation Dos and Don’ts Invitation etiquette can be complicated. That’s why we asked our experts to give us their advice for Do’s and Don’ts.

DO:

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Do mail invitations about six to ten weeks before the wedding.

•

Do choose a stationer who’s a match for you and your groom. Pick a designer that fits with your style, tell them your vision and they will create fantastic invitations that your guests will rave about.

•

Do pick a theme or color you want to coordinate with your entire event.

•

Do take your time to choose the right invitations. In the end your stationery and photographs are some of the only tangible things that will remain after that day. Your guests will notice you have taken the time to use the same stationer for your invites all the way through to your reception collaterals and even thank you notes.

•

Do send save the dates. Save the date cards are a great idea for your guests to

reserve the date and make travel arrange-

the options are confusing and can be a lot

ments. Additionally, you get a chance to ensure all addresses are correct.

of extra work for brides and grooms trying to finalize their head count.

•

Do use correct titles for all guests. It is proper to address an envelope for a married couple as ‘Mr. and Mrs.’

•

Do plan your guest address list in advance. Otherwise you’ll be franticly gathering address info at the last minute.

•

Do double check addresses. Check all the addresses and zip codes, as the post office will scrawl corrections in big, black marker across your invitation.

•

Do supply the postage. Place stamps on the RSVP cards or envelopes. Do not leave this task to the recipient.

•

Do have the proper postage. Always, always weigh your invite before buying the postage.

•

Do order enough invitations the first time. Many couples have to place multiple orders because they miscounted when they placed their order. It’s a lot of work, extra time and money to have to place another invitation order.

•

Do provide directions. Give your guests as much information about the ceremony and reception locations as possible. Include maps, lodging and dining information, as well as phone numbers of someone they can contact if needed, such as the mother of the bride.

•

Do show gratitude to your guests and your wedding vendors. Sending out thank you’s is a big one. It’s important to send a nice handwritten message.

•

Don’t use mailing labels, including clear labels. Remember the invitation will be the first impression of your wedding for your guests and you want it to be personal.

•

Don’t be messy. Organize all the invitations elements like maps and directions so your guests don’t have all sorts of loose papers

floating around. Consider using a pocket style invitation to keep things neat. •

Don’t use abbreviations. When addressing, spell out the word ‘road’ rather than ‘Rd.’. Also spell out the word ‘street’ and the state. Abbreviations are a no-no.

•

Don’t e-mail your thank you notes. Your guests deserve a handwritten note of appreciation, not an e-mail, which can seem insincere.

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•

Don’t have an A and B list. This is very insulting to the guests on the ‘B’ list.

•

Don’t be too old fashioned. Do not use words like ‘five o’clock in the afternoon’. Guests will know that you are not getting married at 5:00 a.m.

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An Instant Connection MELISSA AND SARA FURLETTE-KOSKI, COLUMBUS PARK REFECTORY WRITTEN BY KELSEY O’SHAUGHNESSY | PHOTOGRAPHY BY GOLD GRID STUDIOS

After meeting online, Sara and Melissa had their first date at the Ann Arbor Art Fair. “We had an instant connection,” says Sara. “From that day on, there was no doubt we wanted to be together.” Their first year was spent 200 miles apart, until Sara moved to Chicago to be with Melissa. “Shortly after moving in together, I proposed to Melissa,” she explains. “Melissa also proposed to me about a month later.” A rainy morning couldn’t dampen the mood as Sara and Melissa got ready separately, then met at the Columbus Park Refectory’s pavilion for their emotional first look. Melissa says, “I was more excited for the first look than the party after.” The couple enjoyed a few minutes of privacy as they took pictures. Sara explains, “The time helped set my focus for the real purpose – which was about us, our love, and our marriage.” Later, the sun came out and the couple’s friends and family joined them under the pavilion for an intimate and very personal ceremony. Melissa says, “I remember feeling an incredible amount of love pour out of all of our guests.” The moment the ceremony ended, the party began. The cocktail-style reception featured “modified jewel tones, like pink sapphire, blue sapphire, emerald, and amethyst,” describes Sara. Melissa adds, “We danced a lot, laughed a lot, and were able to kick our marriage off to a great start.” Shared stories and hilarious-yet-sentimental toasts marked the evening as one they would never forget. Says Melissa, “I couldn’t have asked for a more supportive group of people to grace us with their presence as we stepped into our marriage.”

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OFFICIANT: Anita Weds

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FLOWERS: Life in Bloom

SWEETS: Tanner Cole

ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Disobedience | Allison Deaver-Petchenik

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Sweet, Sweet Love DECADENT DESSERT IDEAS FOR YOUR WEDDING There are people who come to a wed-

it’s certainly the tastiest decision you’ll have

Wedding cakes still reign supreme, but

ding to see the ceremony, and there are

to make. Top local experts chimed in to

they are sharing the spotlight with delec-

people who come to a wedding to dance.

give their advice on what’s popular and

table sweets tables. Bring on the éclairs,

Some people come for the food and oth-

how to select what’s right for you.

cake pops, macarons, and tarts! “I like variety,” says Yvonne Ivy-Stephens

ers for the social aspect. But everyone – everyone – comes for the dessert.

creative director and owner of Penthouse

Selecting the perfect dessert for your

The bar has been raised on what

Sweets. “Couples can serve petit fours,

wedding day can seem overwhelming, but

constitutes a memorable sweets table.

lemon bars, decorative sugar cookies

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Sweet Tablescapes

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customized with the wedding date or names of the couple, strawberry cheesecake, peach cobbler and apple pie shooters, and chocolate covered Oreos.” Couples wanting bling can include Penthouse Sweets’ signature rhinestone apple; an apple submerged in chocolate and edible glitter rhinestones with colors customized to match the reception décor. Bakers like Kirsten A. Jepsen, owner of Kirsten’s Danish Bakery, make more than wedding cakes and offer a variety of sweets for the reception. “We’re an allaround bakery,” says Jepsen. Kirsten’s Danish bakery is known for a traditional Scandinavian pastry called a Kringle. This delicious sugary almond pastry pairs well with a to-go cup of coffee at the reception’s end. Bombon Cake Gallery and Design also has an international flair. Owner Laura CidPerea pairs her French cooking technique with Mexican flavors and American dessert traditions to create her pastries. “Many times sweets tables offer ethnic dishes and incorporate traditional foods from each country,” says Cid-Perea. While Cid-Perea follows each couple’s distinct palate, she suggests adding s’mores, cheesecakes, frozen treats, or Bombon’s signature tres leches cake to the table. If you’re getting married outside in the heat of a Chicago summer, think of serving sweets that do well in soaring temperatures. Mindy Gohr, pastry chef and wedding cake decorator at Bittersweet Pastry Shop suggests cookies, brownies, marshmallows, doughnuts, and Rice Krispie treats. “Most popular is our peanut butter torte with layers of crispy peanut butter CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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feuilletine, milk chocolate mousse and dark chocolate ganache,” says Gohr of Bittersweet Pastry Shop’s popular wedding cake alternatives. Alicia Eisenmann, president and operator of Delish Cakes, recommends adding cake pops, cannolis, lemon and fruit tarts, and mini trifle cups. “Think

layers

chocolate

cake,

whipped cream and cherries for a small taste of black forest,” says Eisenmann.

Sweet Elegance Elegant, themed cakes tend to consist of multiple tiers with decorative trimming. Amy Beck Cake Designs often aims very high – seven or eight tiers high. “For some of our most elegant wedding cake designs we have taken inspiration directly from our client's bridal gowns. Using their lace, appliqué patterns and beading designs to create a custom, oneof-a-kind cake,” says Amy Beck, owner of Amy Beck Cake Designs. “Our signature cake designs are elegant and romantic, using beautiful sugar flowers and personal design touches.” Sugar flowers become marvelous keepsakes for couples long after their reception is over. “Sugar flowers last forever once they are dry. Couples can display them in a crystal bowl at home,” says Ivy-Stephens. Tasting distinctive flavor combinations leaves guests savoring every last crumb of wedding cake. Some of Beck’s favorites include passionfruit cake with alternating layers of strawberry buttercream and passionfruit curd, almond cake with alternating layers of raspberry buttercream and Chocolate ganache, and chocolate devil’s food cake with alternating layers of salted 322

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caramel buttercream and hazelnut chocolate buttercream. Carrie J. Curie, owner of SweetPea Cakes, encourages even the most traditional couples to do something more personal and creative with their cake. “If they want chocolate cake, but love caramel, we suggest they turn that into a chocolate salted caramel cake,” says Curie. “If they prefer white cake, we suggest vanilla bean cake stuffed with fresh, in-season berries to give the flavor more dimension.” Curie always reminds couples that the inside of the cake should be as important as the outside. “When I think ‘traditional wedding’ I think white with white. So our vanilla cake could be paired with our Italian meringue buttercream or white chocolate mousse or even our vanilla creme brûlée custard,” says Gohr. For an added element of elegance, go all out and opt to use Bittersweet Pastry Shop’s signature buttercream scroll design. “[Our buttercream scroll] can be piped in just about any color to match any wedding,” says Gohr. “It provides a clean, elegant design that fits well in any wedding and offers a great backdrop for featuring fresh flowers on the cake.” More tiers allow couples to experiment with flavors and fillings. One tier can even be gluten or dairy free to accommodate guests with food allergies. “More tiers mean more options,” says Emily Wheeler, owner of Emily Wheeler Custom Cakes. Wheeler also suggests adding a little bit of glitz to cakes by placing a rhinestone band around the tiers. “That will pop, even with an all-white cake,” explains Wheeler. CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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Eisenmann loves the way bling looks on

Sweet Simplicity

bride’s southern roots,” says Curie.

cakes, noting couples can select real crys-

Sometimes simple really is better. Instead

Eisenmann says chocolate or nutty

tals or satin trim to give cakes extra punch.

of going crazy with layers or décor, some

flavors pair well with rustic weddings, like

“Buttercream finish on a cake also

couples prefer to infuse their personalities

Delish Cakes’ pistachio cake with vanilla

into their cakes a little differently.

mousse filling.

lends itself to many different designs, colors, and textures… such as pressed sugar

“We did a rustic wedding where we

“I recommend staying on the simple

sprinkles in the frosting to give it an extra

created a chocolate caramel bourbon

side with a fresh fruit filling, such as assort-

sparkle,” says Eisenmann.

cake that pulled in elements of the

ed berries or fruit preserves with custard or buttercream and vanilla cake,” says Alexandra Solak, general manager at Oak Mill Bakery. On the other hand, Oak Mill Bakery also loves to make richer cakes, like their chocolate ganache cake with raspberry jam. Curie loves when couples experiment with boozy flavors such as coconut, pineapple, mango, and citrus pairings. Eisenmann added that lemon or Delish Cakes’ Pina Colada combo pair excellently with a beach-themed wedding. “It really makes a statement when the theme of the wedding is carried through the outside and the inside of the cake,” Curie says. Curie also enjoys working with a local olive oil and balsamic vinegar boutique to create uncommon flavors. “This spring we are offering a white peach balsamic vanilla almond cake that is one of the best cakes we have ever created. The balsamic adds a tart dimension that can’t be achieved with an extract,” explained Curie.

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important part to finding the best flavors is to take the couples’ own unique tastes and create something special for them,” says Gohr. Delish Cakes is all in when clients ask to mix up their cake flavors and think outside the box. After all, couples want their day to be memorable. Enjoying a slice of delicious wedding cake is one of the last experiences your guests will have – why not do something different or unexpected with flavor? “To do this, we suggest staying away from vanilla and chocolate cake and choose fun flavors like Oreo, cannoli, pistachio, cherry, etc.,” says Eisenmann. Couples shouldn’t shy away from experimenting with unlikely flavor pairings and off the beaten path cakes. Couples might be pleasantly surprised to find that some of the most uncommon flavor pairings actually satisfy guests the most! “At our tastings, our banana cake gets rave reviews but most couples shy away from choosing it because it’s not a ‘wedding cake flavor.’ But I think that if they both like it, they should just go with it!” says Gohr. Bittersweet Pastry Shop’s banana cake with cream cheese frosting pairs well with their dark chocolate mousse, milk chocolate mousse, and vanilla or chocolate crème brûlée custard. Possibly the best part of planning a wedding is the cake tasting. Be sure to set a time with your baker and check how many guests you’re allowed to bring. A tasting ensures a couple’s opinions and ideas are heard and helps give bakers a better understanding of scope for custom cakes. “Go to the tasting to see what flavors you like best and what your guests would CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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like. Then build from there,” says Beck.

cakes, is if you are also serving a sweets

She recommends contacting your bakery

table,” says Eisenmann.

early to secure your date and begin creating your cake. Cid-Perea suggests bringing as much

Just be sure that one or more tiers of the display cake are actually real so couples can cut into it.

information as possible to your initial meet-

“Cakes are evolving because of fon-

ing, including a budget, photos for design

dant,” says Jepsen. “If you don’t like the

inspiration, a sample invitation, and color

taste, but like the look, we can still make

swatches from dresses or reception décor.

it work. The fondant covers the fake cake

“I like to remind couples that the

and all the sheet cake [with buttercream]

wedding cake has become a focal point of the reception. People look forward to, and are now expecting, a great slice of cake,” says Curie. Some experts suggest creating a fake cake for the reception and having sheet cake in the kitchen ready to serve. “One of the times that I recommend doing a small cutting cake and sheet

is in the back.”

The Personalized Groom’s Cake The traditional groom’s cake has become anything but old-fashioned at this point. Surprise your groom at the rehearsal dinner or reception with a cake designed just for him, such as the 3D jersey or basketball shaped cakes Cid-Perea gets requests for. In Solak’s opinion, groom’s cakes should be playful, funny, and over-the-top. “Does he have a favorite sports team? Is he still obsessed with his alma mater? Does he have a secret vice, like Chik-Fil-A? We’ve done anything from 3D baseball hats, to school mascots and logos, to 3D burgers and hot dogs,” says Solak. Pick something you know your spouse would love and appreciate. Don’t forget to select the perfect flavors, as well!

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Food, Chef,

Action!

Action, action, we want action! Reception dining turns interactive with the rise of action stations across Chicago. “It adds an element of excitement to your wedding and provides guests with more of an opportunity to mingle throughout dinner,” says Dana Konya, senior wedding coordinator at Jewell Events Catering. “Guests are able to pick and choose the items that they will enjoy and then further customize with different protein choices, sauces, and portion sizes.” Jewell Events Catering suggests getting creative with options like

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sushi stations, salad bars, taco stations, flatbread stations, and more. “Now more people consider themselves foodies and good cooks, and they want to be involved in the meal. For so long, guests just sat and were served dinner. Now it’s interactive with the guests getting involved,” says Tatiyana Baukovic, marketing coordinator at Jewell Events Catering. Today it’s about choosing plates and foods distinct to the couple and their unique style. Tom Manetti, president and CEO of Eleganté Cuisine, Inc., says the most enticing action stations blend old and new, upscale and casual. His favorite example is their combined chef-attended bananas foster station and melt-your-own s’mores bar. “The couple’s wedding is their first opportunity to host a dinner party as a married couple. We encourage them to think about their favorite foods and flavors that they would want to serve, and we incorporate them,” says Manetti. Guests may be seated for a beautifully plated first course but choose food from action stations after that. “Sometimes it’s nice to have a sit-down first course (soup or salad) to formally start the evening. That way people are seated for key speeches and toasts,” said Baukovic. Jewell Events Catering’s living walls give the farm-to-table motif a twist. Farmers grow 3-by-7-foot walls of greens in advance and then transport them to the reception location where chefs clip lettuce on-site for salads and toppings. Living walls also make great accents and liven up reception décor.

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“I love to do stations that showcase something that is important to the couple. Perhaps we recreate a dish they shared on their first date or showcase cuisines from places they have lived or traveled to,” says Konya. Laura Cid-Perea, owner of Bombon Café and Catering suggests combining a sushi station with stations serving Thai-inspired appetizers for internationally themed action tables. “Small tapas-style plates make guests happy because they love different varieties,” says Cid-Perea.

TIP

Bombon’s taco and hamburger stations are soaring in popularity. Ceviche bars offering

endless combinations of Latin flavors are a big hit, too.

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station. I thought it was a hit,” said Cid-

a s’mores action station that includes a

a gracious couple and the perfect hosts,”

Perea of a wedding she and her husband,

portable fire pit, but couples must check

says Manetti.

Louis Perea, chef and co-owner of Bom-

the facility’s fire code before it’s brought in.

bon Café and Catering, recently catered.

Keep lines moving by mixing chefattended action stations and buffet-style

Action Table Logistics Kevin Kelly, executive chef and partner at J & L Catering, urges couples to be flexible with the venues they choose in terms of what type of service they want. “We always ask, ‘Where is it going to be held, and what will work in that space?’”

tables. Typically, three to four stations

“People like to bring in hot dog carts,

offer variety, but make sure you don’t over-

fried chicken and waffles, pizza, or have

whelm guests.

empanada stations. Even late night gela-

Certain foods, like crepes, take longer

to carts are fun,” says Kelly.

to cook than others. Having some pre-

Bauer’s Party Masters Catering encour-

pared ahead of time at a separate station

ages couples to incorporate some of

helps the evening flow.

their favorite foods into these offerings.

said Kelly. “Some venues work great for

“The last thing you want is people stand-

Their mini-Italian beef sandwiches are

buffets whereas a sit down dinner might

ing in line,” says Kelly. “If you have 200 peo-

great late night munchies – perfect for the

be more difficult because of the shape of

ple, have some traditional buffet stations

Chicago couple.

the room.”

along with action stations. It will help keep

Eddie and Mary Bauer, owners of

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guests moving around the room.”

“While you want to offer your guests your favorite foods, keep in mind that the

Bauer’s Party Masters Catering, say cou-

“If guests feel at home at the couple’s

majority of your guests may not be into it.

ples should understand the venue’s capa-

reception, they will feel at home through-

It may not be appropriate for a main meal.

bilities early on. For example, they offer

out the night. Their guest will see them as

Incorporate those items as a passed

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appetizer or a late-night snack option,” says Bauer. Phil Stefani Signature Events’ traditional candy store is always on demand, as are their bacon bar, sundae bar, mini soufflé, waffle, ice cream, and donut stations. “Our sorbet station is popular. Guests can choose different toppings to go with their sorbet,” says Phil Stefani, owner of Phil Stefani Signature Events. “We also offer a ‘drunken cookie’ station where guests can dip cookies in warm liquors, fudges, peanut butter, and more.” Whatever foods you fancy, serve your guests something fun. Guests will remember the event where a chef was making made-to-order munchies or flipping flapjacks all over the place. Action stations make for a truly memorable evening for everyone.

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BEER AND MUSSELS created by J&L Catering, jandlcatering.com

STYLING FRANK J. ANDONOPLAS, MWP FRANK EVENT DESIGN frankeventdesign.com

RETURN TO THE ]

DEVILED BACON QUAIL EGG created by Cork Catering, corkcatering.com

PETITE CRAB TIMBALE created by Jewell Events Catering, georgejewell.com

Amuse-buche This one-bite (or sip) hors d'oeuvre is a chef’s choice teaser to wake up your taste buds and invigorate the palate.

FLOWERS THE MEETINGHOUSE COMPANIES, INC. meetinghouse.com RENTALS HALL’S RENTAL hallsrental.com

TRIO OF SOUPS created by Kenmare Catering, kenmarecatering.com LOCATION WYNDHAM GRAND CHICAGO RIVERFRONT wyndhamgrandchicagoriverfront.com

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CORNBREAD PUDDING AND FRIED CHICKEN created by Cork Catering

CEVICHE WITH OCTOPUS, SCALLOPS, AND SHRIMP ON ICE created by Wyndham Grand Chicago Riverfront, wyndhamgrandchicagoriverfront.com ICE SCULPTURE created by Johnson Studios Ice Sculptures, natesice.com

Appetizer While traditionally a soup, today’s couples are opting to twist their appetizers into more unique options to stimulate the appetite.

GRILLED ENDIVE AND FENNEL SALAD created by Jewell Events Catering

QUINOA, ROASTED BABY VEGETABLES, TOMATO MISO VIN created by Harry Caray’s Catering and Events, harrycarays.com

] BABY KALE SALAD WITH AVACADO GAZAPACHO created by Eleganté Cuisine, elegante.net

Salads & Breads Create a salad featuring fruit, nuts, and cheeses in a unique variety of greens. Serve with fresh artisanal breads, Lavosh, flat crisps, flavor infused butter, and offer a chilled fork.

BREAD BASKET created by J&L Catering

Intermezzo Traditionally, a chilled dish is served to cleanse the palate before the entrée. Be creative with cool, refreshing flavors like passion fruit, lavendar, or even infuse it with wine. Offering a cold demitasse spoon is a nice touch.

SUGAR ENCRUSTED CAMPARI created by Jewell Events Catering

] HERB ENCRUSTED RACK OF LAMB created by Wyndham Grand Chicago Riverfront

WATERMELON WITH RASPBERRY INFUSED REDUCTION created by Eleganté Cuisine

Entrée This heavier course is a presentation of meat. Being in the Midwest, your typical entrée includes beef. However, “foodie” couples prefer to take risks with fish, capon, veal or lamb.

SCOTCH ALE SHORT RIB created by Cork Catering

POTATO CRUSTED HALIBUT created by Jewell Events Catering

] VEGAN STUFFED PEPPER created by Cork Catering

Dessert Usually the sweet, last course of a meal, dessert is everyone’s favorite. Consider offering a plated “sweet table” variation, featuring mini French pastries or individual wedding cakes.

RED VELVET TRIFLE created by Harry Caray’s Catering and Events

LEMON CHIBOUSE WITH RAINBOW SUGARED GLASS created by J&L Catering

WINE SOAKED PEAR WITH CRÈME CARMEL created by Kenmare Catering

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In true gourmet style, add a cheese and savory course to the end of your meal to surprise your guests and finish the evening strong.

CHEESE COURSE created by Wyndham Grand Chicago Riverfront

Savory SALMON WITH BEET REDUCTION created by J&L Catering

With their plain, sometimes salty flavors, savory dishes are meant to clear the palate before drinks are served after the meal. Traditionally a savory is served as the last dish.

True Love Was Just a Click Away COLLEEN AND JAMES MALIC, CRESS CREEK COUNTRY CLUB WRITTEN BY JEANNE SULLIVAN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY THIS IS FEELING PHOTOGRAPHY

“James and I met the good old-fashioned way – Match.com,” Colleen explains. After a few weeks of conversation, the couple finally met in person. While enjoying some laughs over pizza, Colleen and James clicked. The couple knew right away they had made a special connection. After spending a happy two years together, James proposed at the Grand Geneva Resort. Eight months “and a flurry of planning” later, the day the bride and groom had dreamed of arrived. Colleen spent the day relaxing and enjoying herself as she got ready with her bridal party. She walked down the aisle on her dad’s arm, and her eyes filled with joyous tears when she saw the gorgeous flowers and lanterns that illuminated her path. Upon seeing James standing at the altar waiting for her, she knew everything was perfect. Reception tables at the Cress Creek Country Club were decorated with antique books and compotes, matching the vintage look of the bridesmaids’ lace dresses. Elegant flowers “drenched the room in color, while accents of gold and silver added a subtle sparkle to the table settings.” Husband and wife enjoyed dinner at their own sweetheart table “basking in the love and joy” of the day. Guests were treated to hand-painted feathers as place cards and signed a black-and-white quilt in lieu of a guestbook, creating a cherished memento for James and Colleen. “Our wedding day was like a dream,” Colleen reflects. “Everything that day went so smoothly and every detail I had planned turned out even better than I had envisioned.”

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Vendors CEREMONY SITE: Divine Providence Church

RECEPTION SITE: Cress Creek Country Club

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PHOTOGRAPHY: This Is Feeling Photography

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OFFICIANT: Fr. Tom Unz

WEDDING CONSULTANT & FLOWERS: The Meetinghouse Companies, Inc. BRIDE’S GOWN: David’s Bridal

HAIR & MAKEUP: D’Amici Salon & Style

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BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Kohl’s

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FORMALWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse

STATIONERY: Wedding Paper Divas

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CATERING: Cress Creek Country Club

ENTERTAINMENT: Music Mania, Inc.

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SWEETS: DeEtta’s Bakery

TRANSPORTATION: Barry’s Luxury Limousines

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A Flower for Every Season HOW IN-SEASON FLOWERS CAN COLOR YOUR WEDDING Twenty years ago, it would have been

everything is available all year round

from South America, Holland, Italy, Israel,

unheard of to acquire peonies for a winter

because it is blooming somewhere in the

and beyond. “You can find something any

wedding in Chicago. Like most markets,

world,” says Jenna Sprengel, owner of

time of the year if you’re willing to pay

however, globalization has taken the floral

Avant Gardenia.

the price.”

industry by storm. Nearly any flower is

Creative Director David Halsey from The

Other florists would argue that although

available to us at any time – it’s simply a

Meetinghouse Companies, Inc. echoes

it is true that one can order in a flower from

plane ride away!

a sentiment similar to Sprengel’s. “The mar-

around the globe, doing so does not

“The reality is that, with the exception

ket for flowers is really a global market-

ensure that the flower is in its prime. There

of a very small handful of flower varieties,

place.” He explains that he gets flowers

are certain times when the flowers may not

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flower with any out-of-season order.

be at their best quality anywhere. Tulips,

One also takes a risk when ordering an

anemones, and peonies truly are at their

out-of-season flower from around the

Anjelica Hennessey, lead floral design-

best and most beautiful form in the spring,

world, as Denise Adan, sales and project

er at Flowers for Dreams says, “I dread

for example. Colors are even subject to

manager at Jazzy Flowers, notes. “It can

waiting for an out-of-season flower to come

change at different times of the year. The

arrive either too small, tattered, wilted, or

because there is so much on the line.”

Piccaso calla lily is white and purple when

unwilling to open nicely given the stress of

Such are the challenges one faces when

in season, yet it turns yellow and purple

its transportation.” For this reason, Adan

ordering “out-of-season” flowers from out-

when out of season.

always recommends selecting a backup

side the Midwest. Although the jury is out on the whether the notion of a seasonal flower exists, there are standard favorites that are specific to each of the four seasons that our city is (usually) blessed with. Separated by season, local florists have compiled what they thought were the most beautiful and popular choices for wedding flower arrangements.

Spring Florists’ top picks: • Poppies • Parrot and painted tulips • Hyacinth • Ranunculus • Scabiosa flowers • Peonies (red charm being the most beautiful and rare) • Hellebore • Blossoming branches (cherry blossoms, forsythia, quince, and pussy willow) • Anemones • Daffodils • Gerberas “There is something magical about poppies to me,” says Adan. “They feel so light and look like they are made of tissue. The most common color range I’ve seen has been orange to peach tones, though they are famous for their red color. As designers, we use the pods, fully bloomed flowers, and partially bloomed pods in our arrangements.” 344

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Adan feels Hellebore also has a tissue paper like quality, “but this time it is more

Summer Florists’ top picks:

like origami. Hellebores come in a variety

• Marigold • Monk’s hood • Cornflower

of dark and muted tones — very vintage

• Sunflowers

looking. The designs of their faces range

• Peonies

a lot. Some flowers are the typical single

• Hydrangeas

layer of petals, but others are doubled, or

• Dahlias

• Dianthus

the petals are ruffled or layered.”

• Dianthus

• Thistle

• Zinnias • Wax flower • Queen Anne’s lace

• Solidago • Lavender • Billy buttons (balls) • Celosia • White bridal veil spirea “Summer is the season of prairie flowers,” Hennessey notes. “If you love the rustic look, summer provides all the small cute flowers.” Though during this bright season, you’ll also find gorgeous sunflowers. “They grow like weeds, are huge, and best of all, cheap! You can get a variety of sizes and they look great at outdoor events.” Dahlias are also popular for the summer season. Hennessey says these big, beautiful blooms “come in white, blush, lavender, orange, pink, and burgundy. They are perfect for any event and are cost effective.”

Fall Florists’ top picks: • Amaryllis • Anemone • Nandina branches and leaves • Marigold • Vine maple • Pumpkin tree • Chili peppers • Liquid amber • Mums (all kinds) • Viking poms • Matsumoto 346

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• Free-spirit • Voodoo and magic roses • Wax flower • Scabiosa pods • Kale, cabbage • Artichokes “Marigolds have a beautiful golden color and full heads,” says Adan. “They are very popular in the fall for Day of the Dead celebrations.” Fall is also a great time to pull nonfloral elements into your centerpieces. Think white pumpkins as centerpieces or a variety of small gourds as escort card holders. Incorporate different greens into your bouquet to serve as a sturdy base with gorgeous colors.

Winter Florists’ top picks: • Tulips • Daffodils • Amaryllis • Hyacinth • Winter greens • Pinecones • Berries • Heart roses • Jasmine vine • Ranunculus • Dusty miller “Although we get some frigid winters, some flowers really thrive in the cold, especially anything that is a bulb flower,” explains Hennessey. “They are reasonably priced and provide vibrant colors for a white winter.” Hennessey mentions that she also has a love for evergreens and winter trees. “Flower markets get a large variety of CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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These common flowers can be found in

winter greens, which smell lovely and pro-

• Spray roses

vide texture and filler at a low cost. It’s like

• White hydrangeas

good condition fairly easily all year. Talk to

having a mini Christmas tree in your floral

• Gerbera daisies

your florist about incorporating some of

arrangement.

• Snap dragons

these options into your bouquet if you’re

• Calla lilies

not loving all of the “seasonal” options that

Year-Round

• Stock flower

are available around your wedding date.

Florists’ top picks: • Orchids (both mokaras • Garden roses

and cymbidium)

Most Economical Florists’ top picks: • White hydrangea • Roses • Spray roses • Snap dragons and stock • Tulips • Hyacinth • Marigolds • Zinnias • Rudbeckia • Sunflowers Florists are split when it comes to the concept of an “economical” flower based on its season. The price of flowers is based on supply and demand. Prices skyrocket during the holidays, understandably – especially Valentine’s Day and Mother’s Day. Halsey also cautions against the “local flower” misconception that just because something is blooming outside or in your garden does not mean that it will be inexpensive or available wholesale. “White hydrangea will always be the most economical, rain or shine, 24/7, 365 days a year,” says Adan. “For the size and price, white hydrangeas can be a life saver. They’re a great, fluffy base.” For budget-minded couples, there are several substitution options that can keep the costs down when designing your floral arrangements.

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Victoria Thanoukos, director of events at Kensington Florals & Events, has a go-to formula for economical arrangements. She says 30 percent of the pieces should be tall, 40 percent medium, and 30 percent short. The variations of pieces and heights will deliver a “wow” factor without breaking the bank. This works well if there’s a particular flower you love that’s on the expensive side. You can balance it – visually and fiscally – with beautiful, affordable fillers. “Brides are constantly misled to think that some things are cheaper at certain times and it is not really the case — at least not enough to make a huge price difference in their wedding, because most all brides mix a variety of flowers together,” says Sprengel. An easy way to fill out a centerpiece is to include stems that have multiple blooms. For instance, the amaryllis, though it may seem expensive, can get three to four blooms on a single stem and can come in five different colors. In the end, it could be more cost effective than a flower with a single bloom. Other multi-bloom flowers include poms, daisies, and spray roses. Full-headed flowers like hydrangeas fill out arrangements using fewer stems. Stock flowers, with their long stems and full flower heads, are exceptionally fragrant and come in an assortment of gorgeous, soft colors. They are the perfect pairing to a white or pastel palette. The lovely dianthus, otherwise known as the carnation, is another cost-effective filler that provides volume and adds color to a bouquet. There are many extraordinary and unique flowers that can cost upwards of $20 per stem. Once your eyes have seen their beauty, however, it can seem

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impossible not to include them in your big

purity and virtue,” says Thanoukos. “Crys-

against each flower stem, making for a gor-

day. If your heart is set on a rare species,

tal Blanc, Casablanca, and star-fighter

geous and luscious arrangement. Other

such flowers can stand alone or be assort-

lilies are some of the most breathtaking,

lush fillers include a variety of succulents

ed with others to keep the costs down.

fragrant flowers displayed at a wedding.

and branches with leaves, particularly in

Your floral designer can help you tweak

autumn. The violent oranges, reds, and

most seasoned of florists.

or substitute some of these popular yet

yellows of the fully-bloomed leaves can

Worth the price

pricey florals to stay in budget. Thanoukos

add a striking pizzazz.

Below are a few that still excite even the

Florists’ top picks: • Lady slipper orchids • Colored hydrangea • Gardenia • Amaryllis • Anemones • Ranunculus • Crystal Blanc • Casablanca • Star-fighter lilies “Calla lilies are gorgeous and stand for

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explains, “If there is a nice balance of

Many florists love utilizing blossoming

flowers in the centerpieces, most people

branches during the spring, as their com-

won’t be able to tell the difference.”

bination of height and color add an unusu-

Aside from using a variety of flowers,

al feature to an arrangement. The most

florists also suggest clients incorporate

common is forsythia, followed by cherry

greens, branches and leaves in their cen-

blossom, quince, and pussy willow.

terpieces and bouquets.

While it is easy to get caught up on the

Greens really allow your florals to take

price per stem, your flower budget realis-

center stage in any bouquet. As fillers they

tically may include much more. One must

add color, texture, volume, and fragrance.

also consider the labor of treating flowers

Salal (lemon leaf), dusty miller, or baby blue

so they open perfectly at the wedding, the

eucalyptus can bring out or contrast

labor to build arrangements, materials to

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build the pieces, materials to mount the pieces, the design work by a floral designer, and the delivery and pick up, adds Thanoukos. “It is an entire process to make sure everything is set up to your satisfaction and that your wedding is the dream you always envisioned.” Whether you’re looking for a sweet and simple arrangement or the kind of centerpieces that require a ladder to set up, an experienced florist will make all the difference. Trust their knowledge of what’s available and what will be in best form during your wedding. If you have a specific flower or two you love, let them know. They can choose the right filler to make it perfect. If you trust in your florist, they will be able to create stunning, memorable flowers for your special day.

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UNIQUE WAYS TO INCORPORATE FLOWERS INTO YOUR WEDDING It’s not just proposals that are becoming

be shaped into a heart or circle, and you can

more and more extravagant these days.

even tie some balloons at the end of it.

Every detail in a wedding is undergoing major

Throw in some glitter and glitzy accents for

creative changes. The standard flower girl

good measure. This fun option makes the

basket? That’s old news. A petite bouquet

little ones feel special and helps coax them

for the bride? Outdated. Old trends are com-

down the aisle – quite a nerve-wracking

ing out of the woodwork and new ones are

experience, if you’ve ever had to go through

coming out of the handiwork of skilled

it. Carlson also whips up floral crowns to

florists. Here we’ll shed light on some of the

complete the floral fairy princess look.

more original ideas from renowned florists

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as you can imagine,” said Carlson.

“I’ve been in the industry long enough, but

Flowers for the bridal party have become

as soon as I think I’ve seen everything,

more personalized and, in many cases, more

someone comes in and decides, ‘I’m doing

of a statement piece. Gone is the petite,

the wedding this way,’” says Bruce Cohen,

tightly-rolled ball of roses carried by the

whose family business, Bonnie Flower

bride. People are flocking towards rich,

Shop, has been in the floral market for the

organic, and textural bouquets, says Allison

last 70 years. “Things come in and out so

Denny, owner and lead designer at Stems,

fast, but they usually go back to something

Inc. Denny creates them with lush foliage

you’re familiar with. It goes in a full circle.”

such as olive branches, ferns, and hanging

Take, for example, the flower girl. For years, the tradition stayed simple and sweet:

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“It’s super fun and they are so adorable,

amaranths, as well as jasmine vines, smilax, and lush floral.

a cute little girl walks down the aisle, pluck-

She recently created a floral bracelet for

ing rose petals in shades of pink, red, or

the mother of the bride using hand-painted

white out of a wicker basket. Now some ven-

gold berries, ranunculus, and tiny garden

ues impose limitations or restrictions on what

roses. For the gentlemen, she prefers to craft

can be tossed around, forcing florists to get

a unique, “hug-proof” cluster of brunia berries,

crafty. Cohen recently made a hoop with

fiddlehead fern, and a sprig of rosemary for

flowers wrapped around it for a flower girl to

the lapel in place of the typical fluffy rose. “We

carry. Others have crafted pomanders,

really encourage people to stray away from

which are ball-shaped assortments of flow-

traditional corsages and boutonnieres.”

ers hanging by a ribbon that children can

Cascades and teardrop-shaped floral

easily hold as they meander down the aisle.

bouquets are making a comeback from their

Bridget Carlson, marketing director at

heyday in the ‘70s and ‘80s, although in an

Ashland Addison Floral & Event Décor, puts

updated way, says Carlson. The holders for

her own twist on a favorite tradition. The

cascade designs are now more floral friend-

most popular has been the floral wand,

ly, incorporating foam to help the flowers stay

stems of flowers and sticks tied together and

hydrated. The overall look is softer and less

woven with natural materials. The ends can

structured than its predecessor and uses

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more greenery, giving it a more natural look. The cascade bouquet is designed to sit on the bride’s wrist, allowing her hands to be free for the walk down the aisle. Some brides have gotten nostalgic with their requests. “Some want to recreate the feeling of their mother’s or grandmother’s wedding, so they’ll bring fabric, maybe from their grandmother’s dress, and incorporate it,” adds Cohen. Lockets, brooches and other jewelry – passed down through generations – can also be included in the bouquet. Another area where designers can have a lot of fun with flowers is in reception décor, especially in unexpected places. “You have these amazing venues, but sometimes their bathrooms are like those in airports or schools,” says Jennifer Hunt, Countryside Flower Shop’s wedding design manager, who has embellished stall doors and spiced up less-than-impressive restrooms to create a more glamorous powder room experience. Hunt recalls a project where she elevated an 84-inch wreath on four foot posts. Elevated projects are a favorite of Denny’s, who designed a suspended bar covered in vines over a long feasting table. Candles and petite lanterns hung from the bar and she decorated the table with loose, fresh moss, succulents, and low bowls of floating candles. “Stunning foliage, branches, and leaves create the most dramatic and textural pieces that can have even more of an impact than floral,” she gushes. For outdoor weddings, designers can create trees, walkways, and even entire outdoor scenes for the ceremony. Hunt uses pliable greenery to build trees to line the aisle and lights them with little Italian white lights. “It’s fun, and it’s a challenge, and we enjoy it very much,” she shares happily.

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Adorning tables in unconventional and breathtaking ways is something of a specialty at Yanni Design Studio, shares Charlene Martin, the director of marketing and sales. One creation involved a clear Lucite sweetheart table that served as the “centerpiece” of the main room. A heavy, luscious floral arrangement draped across its front and sides, and the addition of candlelight created an absolutely ethereal glow. “It became the big ‘wow’ factor that every bride loves,” says Martin. A similar project was created for a place card table. The team completely covered a custom Lucite table with fresh flowers, topped it with a second layer of Lucite to display the place cards on, and then added additional flowers and romantic candlelight to the top level for a magnificent final touch. One of the hottest trends for 2015 is the floral wall, which can serve as a backdrop for the ceremony or head table. An oversized vintage frame stuffed with fresh flowers creates a stunning visual. Alternatively, using flowers to monogram the couple’s initials can create a more personal look. Northern Greenhouses Owner Maria Petrides suggests doing frames of florals and suspending them in front of your backdrop, or using panels of green boxwood or other greenery and adding delicate touches of floral to them. “Your guests won’t stop talking about it, and each and every photo will be amazing,” she adds excitedly. However you decide to incorporate flowers into your wedding, talk with your florist about amazing options for that “wow” factor. Decide whether you want that vintage feel, something traditional or something totally new and amazing. Pick flowers that you love for your arrangements and you’re sure to be pleased with the look.

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GET THE LOOK EXPERT HAIR AND MAKEUP ARTISTS DISH ON HOW TO WORK THE TOP BEAUTY TRENDS AT YOUR WEDDING.

The Chic Bride HAIR & MAKEUP BY BRIDAL BRIGADE Messy, romantic styles have been very popular. This bride’s hair is styled into a chignon with soft, piece-y waves starting at the root. Our stylist used a large iron and did not brush out the curls, gently pulling them back into a chignon on the back of the head. If you have bangs or like to wear your hair with a deep side part, you could have your stylist pull your hair to the side, creating the chignon on the side of your choice. This bride’s eye makeup is what our team refers to as a natural, smokey eye. For this

crease. We added a thin black line on the top lid, smudged slightly with a matte black/brown shadow to soften the look of the liner and added cluster lashes for a more natural lash enhancement. Instead of lining her bottom lash line we took the nude crease color and softly brushed it from outer corner to inner corner, adding a pop of the gold shimmer to the corner of her eyes. – Brandi Paap, Owner, Bridal Brigade

The Elegant Bride HAIR & MAKEUP BY ZAZÚ SALON & DAY SPA On the day of your wedding, make sure your hair is completely dry. Your hair needs to be clean, but dry. It will hold the curl or wave better and it's easier to work with. Trust your stylist to know what products to use to give that extra bit of grip. A low chignon is simple, elegant and classy. To get this beautiful style, tell your stylist you want a low bun chignon that is not too tight to the head and has a little texture. Ask for a soft, side-swept part with a little volume on top. It’s a beautiful style that works on everyone and goes with every dress. As the bride, you want to feel beautiful and comfortable! This no-worries style is easy to keep all day and looks amazing in pictures! When it comes to makeup, it’s all about what you want to look like and how you want to feel. For spring and summer, you want to keep it bright and clean. A beautiful pink or soft magenta lipstick and lip gloss will look bright without being too flashy. And false eyelashes are a must. They make your eyes look larger and give them depth. Once you have those on, you feel like your face is ready. A little shadow and liner, and you’re good to go! – The Zazú Creative Team, Zazú Salon & Day Spa

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bride, we chose a gold shadow for her lid and blended a nude matte shadow into the

HAIR & MAKEUP BY STYLE BY BRAVURA Lauren's rustic-themed wedding called for a free-flowing, natural look. Her braid headband set back off her hairline adds a fun pop to this romantic style. Subtle waves throughout the body of her hair add volume and texture, which is helpful in summertime for brides who want to wear their hair down and might face curl-flopPHOTO BY MEMORABLE JAUNTS

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ping humidity. With such a natural hairstyle and an outdoor theme, we wanted her makeup to feel really natural, too. We used neutral brown tones to create a sexy smoky eye with a dramatic lash to dress up her overall look. – Robin Wilson, Founder, Style by Bravura

The Glamorous Bride HAIR & MAKEUP BY KATE JOHNSON ARTISTRY Rachel is so beautiful and wanted to look like she came out of a magazine. She has amazing hair that we rolled to sweep her face with a soft, natural wave. Because she has such beautiful blue eyes and wanted a soft, smoky look, I opted to use soft pink and a beautiful navy shadow from Il Makiage. Then I buffed out some black gel liner with the same navy shadow to give it a precise but sexy, smudgy look. My trick to creating full coverage with a "natural look" is to perfect any problems with a thin swipe of foundation then diffuse the skin with an airbrush. This technique is longwearing, but still leaves skin feeling light and photo ready. I created a multi-dimensional look with an ash-based bronzer, highlighter, and flush of rosy blush. To show off her smile, we used an enduring lip stain in Crème Brûlée. Of course, we couldn’t forget beautiful, realhair lashes to complete the look. We love the products we used in this look, so we stock them in studio for lessons and special event makeup. Having the right tools makes all the difference!

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HAIR & MAKEUP BY CLARITY MAKE UP ARTISTRY Dark eyes and dark lips together can be absolutely stunning – when done correctly. The bold drama can give off a really sexy vibe. To create this look, I began by applying a light moisturizer all over and a touch of eye shadow primer to each lid. I chose a light beige eye shadow for a base, a darker brown to enhance the crease, and a light shimmer shadow below her brows. I smudged black liner outward to softly enhance the lash line. Then a pencil liner was applied on the bottom lash line and blended out with a neutral brown on top. A generous amount of black mascara and a set of natural-looking false lashes made her eyes pop and

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her lashes look extra full. Foundation and concealer were applied with a touch of moisturizer mixed in to give the right consistency. I dusted loose powder over her face to set the foundation. Her cheeks were enhanced with a cream blush, then dusted with a soft pink powder. I applied a cream highlighter to her nose, cheeks and temples and blended well for that perfect glow. I filled in sparse areas of the eyebrows using a brown eyeliner pencil, and went over them with a neutral brown eye shadow to set the color. For her lips, I used a red liner and then applied a warm red lip color over it. Using a lip brush, I added a clear gloss to create more dimension, then reapplied the liner one more time to finish off the look. – Dana Schuster, Owner, Clarity Make Up Artistry

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The Modern Bride HAIR BY JESSICA BEGONIA MAKEUP BY MAKE UP FIRST, LLC

A modern, yet classic bride radiates the joy of the occasion. As makeup artists, we want to capture that radiance by creating a flawless application, particularly with respect to the complexion. For skin to look flawless, but still "like skin," the foundation that we prefer to use is our pro product, First by Maqpro. For our modern bride, we selected HD Liquid Foundation and, together with our priming and moisturizing Mixer, we applied it with a brush. You could also use a great sea sponge. The foundation is water-resistant and lasts more than twelve hours. To create that classic flush, we added a pink crème from our First by Maqpro Lip and Cheek palette. For the lips, we first covered the entire lip in “Trick” by OCC, then we once again used the Lip and Cheek palette on the lip, topped with “Cameo” Lip Glaze by FACE atelier. Our bride's eyes are defined with our First tonal shadow palette, and are glamorized with First Star Powder. Finally, our modern, yet classic bride is wearing false lashes to really enhance her beautiful eyes. All of the products we used are available both at our school and online! – Jill Glaser, Owner, Make Up First ® School of Makeup Artistry

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The Romantic Bride HAIR & MAKEUP BY EDRA COUTURE BEAUTY BRIDES I wanted to create something that would hold up in the Windy City and complement my bride Jessica’s elegant and delicate frame. We decided to create a totally unique look featuring a magnificent rose. We began by setting her hair in hot rollers to give volume and support. For the rose, I placed clip-on extensions in her hair to give dimension and maximum expansion. Then I created a braid and formed it into petals. I used a workable spray and shine gloss for each petal and tucked them in using my invisible bobby pin technique. For the front, I did a curved side part with a soft finger wave. This technique kept Jessica's hair out of her face, but left her looking polished. I completed this design with a strong humidity-resistant hairspray. This is a perfect look for the bride that wants an eye-catching chignon and the flexibility of movement! For Jessica’s makeup, we did a purple smoky eye that would photograph well in the bright daylight and hold up until the evening for her ceremony and reception. Individual eyelashes were applied to enhance her look. I finished up with a soft pink lipstick and gloss for shine. I recommend that every bride has a mini touch-up kit for her lips and powder to fix any issues throughout the day. – Edra Wilson, Founder/Designer, Edra Couture Beauty Brides

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The Vintage Bride HAIR & MAKEUP BY APPEASE INC. You can get this look by simply telling your stylist you would like a pepped-up version of yourself! Our bride Ruth wanted a natural look for her makeup. We went with neutral eyes and a natural lip tone to really help her natural beauty shine through. Although this was a full application of makeup with airbrushing and false lashes, this bride’s look is natural and feels effortless. And she’s completely camera ready! For hair, we created a curly side bun with a soft side swoop. We added plenty of

volume and texture, but avoided the “stiff hair” appearance with some flexible hairspray. This natural, sweet look is perfect for any bride who wants to feel relaxed, sophisticated and totally like herself on her big day. – Carrie Novak, Owner, Appease Inc.

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Healthy Ever After At CSW, we’re not huge fans of “shred-

but developing a healthy lifestyle is some-

occurrences. Together, dedicate your mind

ding for the wedding” or “slimming down

thing you and your significant other can

and body to creating a healthy ever after.

for the gown.” We believe you should love

do together.

Mind

your body, whatever size you are. But set-

“Try to plan to do things together that

ting goals to create a happier, healthier life

are both fun and make you happy and

It’s not always easy to stay on a healthy

– even after the wedding – is something

healthy. If you can support each other in

path. That leftover wedding cake looks so

we can really get behind.

that way it’s much easier to maintain that

good and you can’t wait to use every new

kind of lifestyle,” says True.

utensil in your kitchen! Be sure to give

As Rachel True, owner of Pure Barre Chicago Old Town points out, part of mar-

We’re not going to lie – the phenome-

yourself breaks both mentally and physi-

riage is taking care of your partner and part

na known as “newlywed weight” and “post-

cally, as you incorporate exercise back into

of it is taking care of yourself. If you

wedding blues” are real for a lot of people.

your life.

enjoyed exercising before your big day, it’s

But partnering with your new spouse to find

In fact, it’s when people are on extreme-

important to keep exercising long after

ways to stay healthy and active can bal-

ly strict routines that they are in danger

it’s over. Not only will you feel amazing,

ance or even counteract these common

of falling off. Create a routine that is

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reasonable and allows you to have fun

Mindset is key to developing and main-

no time and gyms or classes cost money.

sometimes. Don’t make yourself feel bad

taining a healthy lifestyle. True suggests

No excuses! To stay healthy, you don’t

if you have one too many of those left over

picking an exercise start date and sticking

have to spend your days hunched over

favor boxes filled with personalized M&M’s.

to it. Then, start booking times to workout

machines at the gym, nor do you need

It happens. Let it go.

regularly in your calendar. Schedule work-

to pay for expensive equipment. There

Make sure you and your new spouse

out appointments on the calendar and

are plenty of amazing exercises you can

commit to being healthy, not just losing

make a mental note to keep them! These

do right at home just using your own

weight. Make lifestyle changes instead of

appointments are just as vital to your health

body resistance.

cutting out everything that contains more

is going to the doctor or dentist.

than three grains of sugar. Promise to take

Your spouse can be your most effective

sider a one-time meeting with a personal

a walk in the evenings instead of sitting in

tool when it comes to losing weight. He

trainer. For a relatively low price, a trainer

front of the TV. Even if you don’t do it every

or she can provide support and encour-

can show you how to work your core mus-

night, it’s a goal to work towards. Switch

agement when you need it, and can be

cle groups on your own. You can adapt the

up your routes or stop at the library to keep

your partner in setting realistic goals

moves to keep them interesting and to fit

things interesting.

and sticking to them. It’s like having a built

your work out space, whether that’s your

in cheerleader.

house, a gym or even in the break room

Even if you fall off the wagon, it’s much

at lunch.

easier to get back on than people think. “The hardest day to come back is the first day you start exercising,” says True.

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Body We know what you’re thinking – I have

If you broke a sweat daily before your nuptials you want to continue to do so

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afterwards. Sweating for at least ten minutes a day is paramount to good health. Getting your heart rate up can seriously reduce your risk of major diseases and health issues. Incorporating movement into your life is as simple as taking the stairs instead of the elevator or walking the few blocks to the restaurant instead of cabbing it. Getting those recommended ten thousand steps in per day will make a world of difference. When selecting the type of workouts you plan, think of your favorite activities. Are you a cardio person who enjoys running? Lace up your sneakers and head out to one of Chicago’s many scenic trails. Prefer swimming? Look for a local YMCA or gym where you can bust out your fins. Do you prefer a sport? Get a group together and organize a pick-up basketball game on Tuesday nights. The important thing is to make sure to include variety in your workouts so that you target all muscle groups. If you’re looking for workout that lifts, tones, and burns, try Pure Barre. Pure Barre is a non-impact workout that incorporates small isometric movements, meaning clients use their own body weight as resistance to work muscles out. It’s completely safe to do everyday, but even taking class three to four times a week helps clients achieve a long and lean dancer’s body. Instructors can mod ify any movement, so clients with injuries can still take class and benefit from the movements without exacerbating the issue. “People will tell you after taking a class that they worked a lot of muscles they didn’t even know they had. The isometric CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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movements get into the smallest muscle groups,” says True. Pre-wedding, brides may have opted to use the Pure Barre Bridal Package, a special on unlimited classes for three months prior to the wedding date. True however, sees brides coming back long after they’ve exchanged vows. True strives for her Pure Barre studio to feel like a second home to her clients. That warm and welcoming atmosphere is part of what keeps clients coming back for more. “We want them to be happy and destress while they are here and spend an hour thinking about just themselves, the barre, and nothing else,” says True. Pure Barre’s challenge lies in mastering the technique. Even the most experienced Barre enthusiasts benefit from monthly or quarterly free “Breaking Down the Barre” classes, which help clients master the technique, understand how the movements should feel, and why certain exercises are done in certain ways. Pure Barre locations are scattered throughout the city including Old Town, River North, Lincoln Park, the West Loop, Buck Town, and Lakeview. The trend has hit the suburbs with studios popping up in Evanston, Kildeer, Geneva, Wheaton, Naperville, Deerfield, and Orland Park. “Pure Barre is a learned technique and so is getting healthy – or healthier. It’s not something where you can just wake up and say, ‘I’m going to be healthier today’ or ‘I’m going to be fit today’, or even, ‘I’m going to be happy today,’” says True. “It’s just something you have to work at.” Pure Barre isn’t just for women. Men can, and do, reap the lengthening and strengthening benefits of Pure Barre.

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butter popcorn for a lighter alternative. If

that makes both partners feel happy and

other Chicago locations, offers “Bring on

you’re an ice cream lover, try making some

healthy. Different exercises and foods

the Men” nights, which are a great way to

delicious fruit smoothies for a healthier

impact people in different ways, so figur-

introduce guys to Pure Barre.

semi-frozen alternative.

ing out what’s best for you personally is key to maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Stick to

“It’s a lot of fun because it’s social and more of a date night. The men know for sure they won’t be the only guy in the class,” says True. This is an excellent way

The Mind-Body Connection It all comes down to leading a lifestyle

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Pure Barre Chicago Old Town, as well as

your pre-wedding workout, or turn exercising into a fun bonding experience with your partner. You’ll be glad you did.

to get a couples work out in post-nuptials.

Nutrition It’s hard to talk about health and not mention the foods we eat. Still, with so much information available it can be confusing to know exactly what to eat! “Try to eat whole foods as much as possible,” says True, in addition to suggesting eating a few smaller meals multiple times a day. Breakfast is still the most important meal of the day. Consuming something, preferably something that contains more carbohydrates, within thirty minutes of rising is best. Also try to consume meals or snacks high in protein no later than thirty minutes after working out. Remember that it’s okay to cut yourself a little slack sometimes. Giving into something you’re craving every once in awhile sometimes makes it easier to stay on track. “If you deprive yourself all the time of something you really want, that’s when you fall off the wagon and it gets hard to maintain what you are doing,” advises True. As a couple, go through your fridge and pantry and toss out anything that’s unhealthy and that you can live without. Go grocery shopping together and start with the produce section. Pick fresh fruits and veggies to your heart’s content and then skip the soda and candy aisles. Swap out your regular extra-super-drenched-inCHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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One day, after performing with their local gospel group, Jawaun offered Aaja a ride home. They both knew it was the beginning of something very special. The two began dating and soon Jawaun popped the question. One year later to the date, the pair married aboard the Mystic Blue cruise ship outside iconic Navy Pier. It was one of those magical, 80-degree September days when they tied the knot. The sparkling city provided the perfect backdrop, and brightly colored blooms infused their unique, intimate wedding with an extra dose of personality. Aaja walked down the aisle to a special arrangement of Brian McKnight’s “Love of My Life” Jawaun had created just for her. The bride describes, “He had a live saxophonist, which was a surprise. It was very special.” Jawaun’s son served as the couple’s ring bearer. Aaja gushes, “He was so adorable in his tux and bow tie to match his dad. He wore the biggest smile when walking down the aisle.” “One of my fondest memories of the day was sharing a special dance with all of the important men in my life – stepson, father, father-in-law, grandfather, pastor, and husband,” Aaja recalls. She remembers feeling overcome with wonderful emotions. “It was all so surreal.” Jawaun, too, felt that the wedding could not have been more perfect. He says, “For me, the day was very special. I was a little nervous, but overall happy to spend the rest of my life with the one that God created just for me.”

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Picture Perfect FRAME-WORTHY ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING PHOTOS You have dreamt of your wedding day since you were a little girl. Now, it’s here. You want to look amazing so your photos look flawless. What can you and your groom do to make sure everything is picture perfect? “A wedding can have so much pressure that couples often try to fit everything into the day,” says Dennis Lee, owner and photographer at Dennis Lee Photography. “I say, ‘Do the opposite.’ Figure out what’s really important and build the day around those things. Go for quality and not quantity.” He suggests giving yourself plenty of time for photos, which will ease your stress and make your photos more natural and beautiful. WRITTEN BY LEE NELSON

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“Don’t try to fit every location in for photos. Pick a favorite location or two and enjoy being there. You’ll have more time to relax and less time in traffic. Remember, it’s your wedding day and your pictures. It’s not about the photographer using you as models for his or her work,” Lee says. Choose your photographer for their professionalism, reputation, and quality of work. Let them do what they do best, and you can have fun with your family and friends. It is the photographer’s expertise that will help capture you in the best light, the best time of day, and the best situations. But there are some things you can do as a couple to help your photos turn out amazing.

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Captivating Engagement Photos “Ignore the camera and be yourself,” says Timothy Whaley, owner of Timothy Whaley Photographic Artists. “Couples should focus solely on their fiancé and the love they share with each other. The best moments captured are the candid ones that weren’t directed by the photographer.” 378

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He recommends couples think of some props or activities that represent who they are as a couple. Having something to focus on besides the camera will allow them to be more relaxed and have fun. Kim Bolin, co-owner, photographer, and graphic artist at Bolin Photography & Design, says a couple should find a photographer who involves them creatively and functionally in the process. “You’ll have a sense of ownership in the outcome and can feel comfortable knowing you’re involved in creating images you’ll love in the end.” Lee recommends the bride schedules her wedding makeup artist for the engagement session, too. She’ll be able to see how the makeup translates to film and make changes if she wants.

Releasing Anxiety When the big day rolls around, remember to stay relaxed and enjoy each moment as it comes. When you think about how in love you are, you worry less about having your photo taken, and instead you just enjoy your time together. If the photographer isn’t actually asking you to pose, then don’t pay attention to them. Instead of worrying that your face is going to look weird from this angle, just play with each other. Give kisses and hugs – be the adorable little things you are and have fun. These images will make you look natural, comfortable, and ultimately beautiful. Photographers don’t want their couples to try to act or look like models, or to create some unrealistic moment. “We want to capture images that convey the true, honest love and joy you’re feeling,” Bolin says. “What you see in magazines CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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Consider taking are scenes – designed, choreographed,

as Chicago makes the time of day for

created. Those are models, and they

photos not the main concern. “It’s more

don’t even look like that.”

about finding the light that is most

your photographer on a tour of the

appropriate for the photos the couple

Luscious Lighting

wants. If you want great skyline photos,

No matter how great you look, fabulous

the middle of the day isn’t that time

lighting is what will make your photos

because the light could be too harsh,” he

breathtaking.

says. “It’s the same with beach photos.

“Avoid high overhead lighting,” Whaley says. “Outdoor photos are best on overcast

Bright sunlight can leave everyone squinting to cope with the brightness.”

venue before your big day so they can

scout out the best locations ahead

days or when the sun is lower in the sky.

When it comes to indoor images, find-

Find some time in the ‘magic hour’ before

ing the most natural lighting is a good idea.

sunset for just the bride and groom to go

Consider taking your photographer on a

back outside to do a few more photos.”

tour of the venue before your big day so

accessories,” Lee says. “It’s about the

they can scout out the best locations

bride loving how she looks. If you feel

ahead of time.

like a million bucks, it’ll show. In fact,

This might take them away from dinner or dancing for a little while, but it could create some of the best images of the day. Lee says that living in a city as beautiful

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Stunning Confidence “It’s not about the color or specific

Whaley suggests that a bride enlist the help of wedding professionals to help her find the perfect dress for her body type and a hair stylist that will bring out her best features. “One of the reasons why models look so good is because they have a team of talented people behind the scenes helping them to look their best,” he says. Don’t forget the little but important details, such as whitening your teeth, getting a manicure and pedicure, tweezing your eyebrows, and any other grooming that will make you feel more confident as the camera captures you from every angle.

Just Be You Avoid tanning within a week of your wedding, Whaley says. “You never know how your skin will react to a tan, and you don’t want to be orange or bright red on your wedding day. Try to avoid tan lines caused by swimsuits, too. They are difficult to get rid of, and that’s the last thing you want to see in wedding images.” 380

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things, be sure to do them well in advance

captured,” Whaley says. “Photography is

foods that cause bloating the week

in case you have some adverse reaction

not magic. We need time and happy, will-

prior to the wedding and to remember to

or need time to let it grow back. You real-

ing couples to capture the best images.”

drink lots of water to hydrate your skin and

ly do want to look like you in your wedding

Lee says he has been behind the cam-

body. Make sure to get a good night’s

photos, not some caricature of you.”

era for many, many weddings, and in front of the camera for his own nuptials. “The

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Whaley also recommends avoiding

Perfect Timing

best advice I can give is to really embrace

mally do, don’t do it right before your wed-

Just remember to give yourself enough

the day and be open to your emotions.

ding. “Don’t try to change your hairstyle

time. Running late on your wedding day

You’ll get a great variety of photos and

or your makeup. Don’t get a facial,” Bolin

can cause people to become upset and

might be surprised at the ones you like.

says. “Don’t try some new self-tanner or

stressed. “Make sure you allow enough

Plus, if there are any you don’t like,

herbal cleanse. If you want to try these

time for all of your must-have images to be

nobody has to ever see them.”

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All the Small Things CAPTURING EVERY DETAIL OF YOUR SPECIAL DAY You’ve been planning your wedding day for months, maybe even years. Every

relive it all but with photos of everything

by your talented sister?

and everyone that was involved to make

detail is set, and each one of them has

It’s going to be a perfect day with amaz-

deep and personal meaning to you and

ing food, flowers, fun, and festivities. But

“Our couples put a lot of thought and

your groom – like his tie clasp given to

as many newlyweds say, the day goes so

effort into selecting these vendors, so their

him by his favorite aunt on his college

fast, and they feel like they missed out

style of work is an important piece to bring-

graduation day. Or how about all those

on certain things. So what better way to

ing the entire wedding day together,” says

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it special?

you expect, want, and hope for in your

about are those special items that are

Grid Studios, Chicago. “More often than

wedding photos.

above and beyond.”

not, when our couples see their photos for

“I ask every couple to please tell me what

Sometimes the smallest details are the

the first time, they get the chance to expe-

you have spent money on or if there is any-

best at telling the larger story or speaking

rience a whole other part of their wedding

thing outside the ordinary that I wouldn’t

to the intimacy of a relationship. Fochtman

day that they weren’t able to fully experi-

normally photograph or know to photo-

finds that the small detail images that are

ence in the moment.”

graph,” says Sal Cincotta, creative director

most important to his brides are the ones

To get the details photographed that you

at Salvatore Cincotta Photography in

that tell a very personal story.

want is all about communication with

O’Fallon, Il. “A professional photographer

“Be it jewelry, heirlooms from family

your photographer. The experts don’t want

knows how to document the day. It’s why

members passed, or something borrowed,

lists. They want open dialogue about what

you are hiring them. What we need to know

the personal connection shines through.

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Those details are often subtly integrated

Jewelry

important details of the day. It shows how

into a bouquet or an outfit,” he says. “So,

This is at the top of the list, Cincotta

the couples remember their loved ones. It’s

it is crucial that we visually highlight these

says. And it’s not just the engagement or

a personal touch on the day in one of the

personal mementos. The small stuff tells

wedding rings.

most intimate ways.”

“It’s not always something new. Many

Fochtman says that his photographers

Photographers agree that there are some

times, it’s something that is a family heir-

found out from a bride the morning of their

images most requested. Here are a few of

loom – Grandma’s ring or something like

wedding that the groom was wearing the

them and why they are important to capture:

that,” he said. “Those are some of the most

watch of his grandfather, who had passed

the full story.”

away. “This was a rather non-descript watch, so had she not mentioned anything, we would have never known. Obviously, it was an extremely important detail to photograph.”

Special People At one of Cincotta’s weddings, the image of the groom’s brother (who was the best man) had been turned into a life-sized cardboard cutout. His sibling had been shipped off overseas before the wedding and couldn’t be there. “So, we made sure to photograph him with his brother throughout the day to ensure he was part of the pictures. It was pretty hilarious and touching at the same time,” he says. Some photographers also shoot overall photos from an aerial point of view like a balcony or deck of all the people at the wedding or reception. It gives you something to look back at and see all your friends and family in one place. It can reveal the impact of how intimate or big your event really was. How about some individual shots of your groomsmen and bridesmaids to focus on their whacky or docile personalities? A casual family portrait of the groom’s side and the bride’s side can be great memories when everyone was there to support you two. And don’t forget your adorable flower girl and ring bearer. Although they are small 384

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now, it will be amazing to pull out your photo albums to show them your wedding photos in a few decades as they are about to get married.

Everything the Bride Paid For “The one thing I coach my team on is to pay attention to the details. Here is the rule of thumb for me and my team – if the bride spent money on it – photograph it,” Cincotta says. “That simple practice will ensure you document the day and the couple’s details in the best possible way.” Those details can mean everything from the guest book to the aisle runner to the favors. It can be shots of the signature drink and specially embossed napkins, the cupcake tower with the groom’s favorite red velvet flavor, or the bride’s bouquet studded with old-fashioned broaches from her great-grandmother’s estate. You might also want photos to remind you of the crazy photo booth shots your guests took. You also want the awe-inspiring pictures of the romantic candlelight or the over-the-top rose-laden centerpieces. Fochtman says one way to get all the details of your personal items (such as garter belt, earrings, and shoes) is to put them all in a box while you are getting ready. “When the photographer arrives, you can simply hand him/her the box and then they know without a doubt they have documented all of the important details,” he says.

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PLANNING NOTES:

to document these is to capture the way

Questions to Ask a Potential Photographer

you or your loved ones interact with these

• What is your primary photographic

document those moments and tell the

because of the personal story attached to

story of our couple and their families.

them, Fochtman says.

Those small details create a framework for the story,” he says. So, photographers try to tell the story of what the room or church looked and felt

“So, we find that the most special way

details,” he says.

style?

like. They depict the closeness of family

Sometimes, this is as simple as having

• Are you the individual who will photo-

with the father-daughter dance or the par-

the bride hold her grandmother’s locket in

graph my wedding? If not, can we meet

ents seeing their daughter for the first time

her hands to photograph or document-

the photographer and see his/her work?

all gussied up in her gown and bouquet.

ing the groom’s new cufflinks while he

• Did you shoot all of the images in your

“Sometimes, it can be a blur for the bride and groom and their family. That’s

is putting them on instead of just sitting on the dresser.

portfolio? • Do you shoot using film or digital? What amount of photos will be in color and

where photography can really be important, if not priceless,” Cincotta says.

“Take advantage of the people you have around you. Ask parents, family, or friends

what amount will be in black and white? • Do you shoot alone, or will there be a

When you say your vows, it could be

about their favorite parts about their

second photographer on-hand through-

neat to have candid shots of your family

wedding day,” he says. “Not only is it a

out the day?

and friends’ reactions as you reveal tear-

great way for you to help them relive their

• If you become ill or are unable to make

jerker thoughts about your amazing rela-

big day, it is a great example of things

it, what happens? May I see a portfolio

tionship with your soon-to-be spouse.

that are most important to people years

of your back-up photographer’s work?

Details of a wedding mean something

down the road.”

• Will we receive all of the images you photograph? In what form (CD, DVD, print) will we receive the final photos? • Do we provide a shot list or do you have one that we approve? • What exactly is included in your fee – engagement session, book, CDs, DVDs, etc? • How many hours do you shoot? • When is the deposit due? When is final payment due? • Are you working other events that weekend? • Is retouching included in the price? How many of the images in your portfolio are retouched? • What types of albums do you provide? • What types of packages are available? Can they be customized? • Do you charge overtime fees? • What kind of equipment do you bring, such as lighting, tripods, etc.? How intrusive will this be? • Do you have a copy of your contract I may review?

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Baring It All BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY’S DIRTY LITTLE SECRET IS OUT – AND IT’S NOT SO DIRTY AFTER ALL Sexy, sultry, sophisticated – and totally

a boudoir photography session makes the

you the inside scoop on what it’s like to be

scary. Boudoir photography has a rap for

perfect gift for your fiancé – and yourself.

in front of the camera – sans pants.

being a bit taboo, but that’s really not the

The delightful Hilda Burke of Angel Eyes

I never really thought of myself as one

case. It’s one of those things everyone

Photography offered a photo session in the

to take my clothes off and have photos

secretly wants to do, but few of us actu-

name of educating people on what boudoir

taken. So when I decided to schedule an

ally have the guts to book a session. It’s

photography is really like. As an intrepid

appointment and write this article, I had

time to put that stereotype to bed, because

reporter, I dared to bare it all in order to give

mixed feelings. I was excited because I

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had seen photos of friends and pictures

normally wear,” Burke said. “If you’re a

eyed and bushy-tailed. Taylor and her

in magazines that looked great. I was

bra and panties woman, don’t run out

team of stylists recommend asking the

nervous because this was way out of my

and buy corsets and complicated garters.

studio if their hair and makeup team is

comfort zone, and I do not look like the

If that’s not your thing, you will feel and

certified in the state of Illinois. Be sure to

women in the photos I’ve seen.

look uncomfortable.”

also ask what kind of makeup they use. You don’t want to be breaking out during

My guess is that everyone preparing for

She suggested bringing a couple dif-

a boudoir session has these same feelings.

ferent options, including things like a

I can honestly say all of my anxiety was

veil, your partner’s favorite dress shirt

If your chosen studio does not have an

completely unnecessary. I would highly

or tie. Also bring your absolute favorite

in-house team, ask for recommendations

recommend that every woman get these

lingerie set – you know, the one that

for local hair and makeup artists, or visit

photos taken.

makes you feel like Beyoncé. Some

your own stylists before your session. Get-

As I scheduled my appointment, I need-

boy shorts and a favorite sports jersey

ting your glam on will definitely make you

ed to decide what to bring. Another com-

or band T-shirt is always a big hit. Don’t

feel like a million bucks when the shutter

mon misconception is that you must wear

forget to round up a couple pairs of

starts clicking.

incredibly sexy, Fifty Shades-worthy lin-

remarkable heels.

your session.

I walked into the studio at Angel Eyes

gerie. If that’s what you like, more power

Some boudoir photography studios

Photography in jeans, a T-shirt, and a

to you. But if the thought of a leather thong

have in-house hair and makeup artists,

leather jacket. I’d done my hair and make-

terrifies you, that’s okay, too.

like Jenny Taylor Boudoir Photography.

up the way I like it, and I’d packed a whole

If so, just show up clean-faced, bright-

bag full of lingerie. Burke greeted me with

“Don’t bring anything you wouldn’t

a glass of champagne, which helped calm my nerves right away. She even said, “It can be kind of awkward taking these photos, so I want to do whatever I can to make you comfortable.” I’ll be honest – I was scared. How could I not be? But photographers like Taylor and Burke know people are not exactly comfortable half naked in front of someone they just met. Burke said her goal is to reassure clients that she “will make them look their best through flattering poses and lighting techniques.” She also shows them previews on her camera. “It’s a huge confidence booster when they see how gorgeous they look.” Burke spent time showing me some ideas she had and really trying to get to know me so she could make a personalized plan to my comfort level. I immediately felt better about the session. “The first fifteen minutes are the 388

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give you – you must pick a photographer

ommends asking, “Where will the shoot

I promise I will have you giggling from

you feel comfortable with. This person will

take place?” and “Can I choose to keep my

my bad jokes, and you’ll feel happy,

see you at a point when you probably feel

gallery private from websites and Face-

confident, and sexy. You’ll leave wondering

pretty darn vulnerable. Choose someone

book?” You want to know you’re going to

why you waited so long to book a session.”

who doesn’t make you feel intimidated or

be working in a comfortable setting with

like you’re not good enough.

someone who understands you, so you are

When I put on my first outfit choice, I walked in the studio and felt embarrassed

If you’re feeling unsure about having

and awkward. Burke made me feel better

your photos taken, it could be a good idea

Burke reminded me that almost every-

by pointing out the good things about

to meet with your photographer before

one feels stiff at the beginning. She also

my body.

booking the session. Bring a list of ques-

explained that when you are nervous,

tions to ask your photographer. Taylor rec-

the camera can tell. She turned her cam-

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free to have fun and be sexy.

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I learned that you don’t have to be super

She gave such great direction and showed me

into lingerie to enjoy this or have beautiful pictures taken. You don’t have to feel like a sexy person or be “into this sort of thing” to

enjoy this art form .

awesome

ideas,

complete

with

wardrobe choices. And thank goodness, because I definitely brought too many outfits. I had all this complicated lingerie, but some of my favorite photos feature an oversized tank top, or my jeans, leather jacket, and nothing else. Sometimes less isn’t more!

You don't even have to have a fiancé that’s into it – do this for yourself!

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era around to give me a preview after the

I really recognized was how great it was to

of thing” to enjoy this art form. You don't

first couple shots. She was totally right.

have a professional there to guide me

even have to have a fiancé that’s into it –

I needed to relax.

through the experience.

do this for yourself!

She was great at giving me inspiration

Once the camera really started flashing,

Burke told me a lot of people feel sexy

and showing me poses to hide the areas

I started to relax a little bit. Burke encour-

photos are a young, thin woman’s game,

I wasn't comfortable showing. One thing

aged me to think about other things.

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Taylor agrees, “We are artists helping

I wish I would have done a little more

“After a session, most women’s confidence

you achieve a keepsake item so that 30

research to really find out what I think is

level is at an all-time high.”

years from now, you can look back and

sexy or what poses I really like, but thank

remember how hot you were and be

goodness she was on top of it. She made

proud of the experience you had.”

an experience that had terrified me

She also advised not to wait until you lose that last ten pounds or get rid of your upper arm “bye-bye” fat. Boudoir

Let’s also shut down the idea that to

become an experience that made me more

photography is less about taking steamy

model in boudoir photography, you must

confident in my body, mind, and soul. It

pictures for someone else and more

show a lot of skin. “You show as much

truly made me feel incredible about myself,

about recognizing how sexy you are

as you want or as little as you want,”

and I have some gorgeous photos to

when you’re confident about your body

she explained. “I work within the client’s

always remind me that I can feel – and

and having fun.

comfort level.”

be – sexy.

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Photography Style Files CHOOSING THE RIGHT LOOK FOR YOUR EVENT In the age of Instagram, everyone thinks they are a photographer. But when you strip back the filters and remove the hashtags, the images that are left are not always winners. While many styles and types of photography are great for weddings, your cousin’s iPhone is not always one of them. Whether you’re interested in recreating your entire “Rustic Wedding Pictures” Pinterest board or you’d rather stick with more traditional bridal portraits, the style of wedding photography you choose must be just right. WRITTEN BY KELSEY O’SHAUGHNESSY 394

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Almost like pastel colors with some added grain.”

“Having artistic flair is crucial,” says Rush Darwish, president of Rush

“I would say the current ‘fad’ in wedding

Rick Aguilar, president of Rick Aguilar

Productions. In his photography and

photography in the last couple of years

Studios, has a slightly different take on

videography experience, he finds that

would be ‘fine art photography,’” says Jiho

artistic styles. He says, “The artistic style

after the ceremony ends, most couples will

Park, owner and principal photographer of

has a certain look with lots of stylized light-

go “on-location” to get some really inter-

Lilly Photography. “A few photographers

ing, unique poses, and unusual locations

esting images.

have actually switched over to film to

– like an alley or the middle of the street.”

“This is the part where the creative

achieve the look.”

Rather than film, he suggests digital

direction of a photographer will make you

images, since the photographer can heav-

feel you got your money’s worth,” he says.

ily enhance them.

“The composition, the backdrop of your

Park says using film for fine art images “generates [a] bright, soft, beautiful look.

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location, and a photographer who pays

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attention to the details of the surroundings

“One person may see a certain photo-

is what will give your photographs that

graph and have a different opinion from

‘wow factor.’”

another person,” she says. It’s all about

Traditional Wedding Photography “I think the general public translates ‘traditional style’ with posed pictures where

“I think everyone has their own idea

finding what you believe is artistic and

of what an artistic style is,” says Jessica

working with a photographer who has the

Lindberg, corporate sales and market-

same vision, experience and creativity to

ing communications manager at Edward

capture your style.

the subjects are always looking straight into the camera,” says Park. But in reality, it’s just a “wedding collection with a higher percentage of posed and detail shots.” But traditional images aren’t limited to just portraits. Aguilar adds, “It will also include customary shots, such as the mother of the bride helping with the veil, the bouquet toss, etc.” Some couples may think this style of wedding photography is obsolete, but it may be vital to capturing the important details of the day. “When I meet with couples, most of them still ask for some traditional photography. What is the point of having a photographer if you don’t take formal shots

your

closest

family

and

friends?” says Darwish. “You will pay the price if you go with a photographer that does not know the importance of traditional-style photos.”

Photojournalistic Photography “[Photojournalistic photography] is when an image grabs you into that moment of the authentic scene,” explains Park. “A great photojournalist can tell you who, what, when, and where from an image and has the ability to visually narrate the day. It’s timeless, unscripted.” Aguilar agrees, saying he feels photojournalism is a “a type of photography that brings you to a moment of the day easily.” It evokes a memory so powerful, it makes you feel like you’re there. 396

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To Lindberg, photojournalism is “where images can be captured spontaneously, but can tell a story and show an emotion.” But spontaneous doesn’t just mean willynilly. She says, “Even though you are cap-

“Even though you are

capturing

candids , the photographer is aware

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involved in getting that shot.” “Couples are very quick to spot a pho-

wedding moment that stood out for her, in

always be – the most popular style,”

tographer who has an eye for capturing a

which a couple lit a unity candle. “That is

says Park.

real emotion versus the photographer that

always a great shot, but what made this

is more interested in trying to create it,”

different was that their child was standing

explains Darwish. One of the hallmarks of

in front of the table, and you could see the

The wonderful thing about wedding

photojournalism is the authenticity of the

look on his face while they were lighting it.

photography is that you’re not limited to

image and the moment it portrays.

He was in awe, and the photo made you

selecting one exclusive style or another.

feel something. When you feel emotion

“You can definitely blend styles,” says

with a photo, then it’s doing its job.”

Lindberg. “Having a great mix of everything

“You are capturing what is happening now, but you are also capturing a feeling and telling a story,” says Lindberg. As an example, she points to a recent

“In my opinion, photojournalism with very creative composition is – and will

Blending Styles

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“You want a photographer to be able to give you those

special moments

throughout the day and give you great portraits of your family and the two of

select a photographer whose work captures you. Park says, “A great composition is when I see an image that is able to keep my eyes within the frame of a picture and stimulates my mind.” Darwish points to the “Three C’s: candid,

you,” says Aguilar.

creative, and coverage. You have to cap-

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ture the great emotional, candid moments, to be confident that your photographer

of photography. “It’s best for the photog-

take creative shots, and make sure to

is focusing on you.“You want a photogra-

rapher to show different samples,” says

cover all aspects of the wedding day from

pher to be able to give you those special

Darwish. “From there it’s a lot easier to

start to finish.” If you’re looking through a

moments throughout the day and give

choose which styles work best for you.”

photographer’s portfolio and not seeing all

you great portraits of your family and the two of you,” says Aguilar.

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Aguilar says his couples “do not want

of those elements, it’s time to move on.

to spend a lot of their wedding day taking

It’s a good idea to request a little bit

posed photos. That’s why using an expe-

of everything. Talk to your photographer

rienced photographer is so important –

about which images in their portfolio you

they know the right places to take photos

love and which you could pass on. He or

and how to direct people.”

she will work with you to build a style that’s

If you’re still unsure of a style you like,

perfect for your big day.

Unforgettable Moments WHY VIDEOGRAPHY IS SO MUCH MORE THAN LETTING YOUR UNCLE CAPTURE THE MOMENT ON HIS SMARTPHONE Wedding days go by in a terrific and

“People are always blown away by how

magical blur, with couples wishing they

little they remember and how little they

could relive each moment again and again.

actually saw,” says Chris Chibucos, man-

Over the years, couples appreciate

Enter a film crew and some savvy editing,

aging partner and producer/cinematogra-

being able to relive the memories of

and couples can commemorate their spe-

pher at FurlaVision Films. “For instance,

the best man and maid/matron of honor

cial day on anniversaries fifty years down

they don’t get to see the precious two-

speeches, parent/child dances, and of

the line!

year-old walking down the aisle with his or

course, their vows.

her little teddy bear and the parents at the end of the aisle coaxing them down.”

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“Every moment is an important moment. Our philosophy is that you must capture

they possibly could on their wedding day,” says Chibucos.

photographs really can’t,” says Monroe. Chibucos reminisced about a wedding

everything. Every moment means some-

Creatively combining shots of the gown,

at which the father of the bride broke his

thing different or special for each family and

centerpieces, party favor table, and other

arm before the reception, and it looked as

couple,” says Rush Darwish, president of

establishing shots lets the couple preserve

if he wasn’t going to return in time for the

Rush Productions.

the culmination of all those months of plan-

father/daughter dance.

“When the bride is waiting, she never

ning in one short film.

“I was filming general dancing and I had

gets to see her bridesmaids walk down the

“We take a lot of establishing shots

this shot where the dad walked into the

aisle. She never gets to see their faces

showing the venue, shooting the ceremo-

frame and tapped the groom on the shoul-

during the ceremony,” says Jason Monroe,

ny, and shooting the weather that day,”

der as if to cut into their dance. I don’t

owner/filmmaker at Highway 61 Films.

says Monroe.

know if I’ve ever seen such pure excite-

Filming the entire ceremony is a must,

Monroe pointed out that couples love

ment and joy in the bride’s face as when

as is capturing pre-ceremony prep, impor-

when videographers capture them emo-

she saw her dad back at her wedding. Just

tant toasts, a view of the reception room,

tionally reading the letters they receive

capturing moments like that, even though

and shots of friends and family enjoying

from one another pre-ceremony. Captur-

it was just a very routine shot, that’s what

the dance floor.

ing couples reading the letters aloud

it’s really all about,” says Chibucos.

“A good film will bring those moments back [to the couple] and allow them to relive the day in a more thorough way than

creates sentimental and magical moments worth watching years later. “Video captures the emotions that

FurlaVision says most of their clients still opt for a full-length documentary style edit of their wedding day. “Most of my clients tell me that on their 25th wedding anniversary they want to sit down and watch the whole thing,” says Chibucos. Trending now are shorter highlight reels and trailers. Investing in these are a fabulous way for couples to share their day via social media with family and friends. Most videographers incorporate these offerings into their packages in addition to the full length recap. “The coolest thing we do is a two or three minute trailer. We do it just like you see in the movies,” says Chibucos. Couples who want to offer something to make their reception pop should consider adding in an elaborate media presentation like one of Darwish’s pre-recorded Bride and Groom Skits or On-WeddingDemand videos. “We offer an On-Wedding-Demand video, which is a video of the ceremony and post-ceremony. We edit it that day and

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passed three months after the ceremony

what the important moments are for the

ing dinner,” says Darwish.

and the wedding video was the last

couple,” says Chibucos.

To craft compelling videos, Monroe and

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the highlight reel is ready to be played dur-

All videographers put their creative spin

his crew rely on friends and family to give

“She said if she didn’t have the video,

on wedding films. It’s couples’ choice when

heartfelt speeches and toasts that add dia-

she wouldn’t have anything of her mom,”

it comes to choosing the one that match-

logue to the film. He carefully selects music

says Darwish.

es what they’re looking for best.

that accompanies the ceremony and suits

If the couple wants certain events

“You want someone that understands

the couple’s unique style to produce a

recorded, it’s best to let the camera crew

that the emotion of the day is happening

romantic and engaging video.

know ahead of time when and where these

all the time and you have to be ready at

“A lot of current wedding film principles

are taking place. Mostly, couples don’t

all times,” says Darwish. “A good filmmak-

and rules have come from filmmaking, such

need to worry, though. Videographers

er isn’t just pressing record. They’re get-

as creating narratives and creating films

shoot the entire day and leave enough time

ting shots that help tell a story.”

with purpose,” says Monroe.

to cover major and minor moments alike.

Not investing in a videographer is often

There’s something special about

“We mainly need to know if there is

the number one regret couples have.

being able to watch guests enjoying your

something that is going to happen out-

Videographers note that investing in

reception years later. Darwish recalls a

side of the ordinary. Maybe they belong

video should be on par with investing in

bride that was thrilled he had captured

to a sorority and they are going to sing

photography. Having their love story doc-

her mother dancing and laughing through-

a song or there’s a certain fraternity tradi-

umented is something couples will cher-

out her wedding. Her mother had sadly

tion. Communication is vital to finding out

ish for years to come.

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PLANNING NOTES:

Tips on Writing the Perfect Toast

• Compliment the bride and groom, ceremony, parents, or whatever honestly

be large enough for everyone to see and loud enough for everyone to hear.

impressed you and thank the couple and their families for including you.

Memorize Your Toast

• Relate an anecdote about the couple

You’ll definitely want to memorize your

Your toast should have the same parts

that gives the audience a more intimate

toast, but it’s perfectly acceptable to use

as any other speech, a beginning, middle

look at the couple or quote their favorite

a note card for this occasion. Keep the

and an end. Most toasts follow this simple

song, poem, etc.

notes nearby for easy access. Even if you

format:

don’t use them, you’ll feel more confident • During this part of the toast, face the

• You’ll want to get the audience’s atten-

just knowing they are available. couple and talk directly to them.

tion by saying something like, “Ladies and Gentlemen, I’d like to offer a

• To close, turn to the larger audience and

Practice, Practice, Practice

toast...” Following this, allow everyone

lift your glass and lead in the actual

After you’ve written your first draft, prac-

some time to fill glasses. This will also

toast, “To Mary and John and a healthy,

tice your toast out loud, preferably in front

give you some time to take a deep

prosperous future.”

of someone whom you trust to critique you.

breath and collect your thoughts.

• Indicate that it is time to take a drink by

• Once everyone is ready, open with a

using one of the traditional words or

brief introduction of yourself and explain

phrases like “Cheers!” or “Salute!” and

how you know the couple.

take a drink yourself. This motion should

You should aim for a well paced three to five minute speech that is clearly enunciated.

Toasting Don’ts • Don’t mention ex boyfriends or girlfriends • Don’t use profanity • Don’t make jokes about the honeymoon or tell bawdy or tasteless jokes • Don’t talk about your own marriage • Don’t mention the cost of the wedding • Don’t talk about the gifts • Don’t embarrass the couple • Don’t reference politics, religion or race • Don’t discuss their future plans

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On a High Note TIPS FOR SELECTING THE PERFECT MUSIC FOR YOUR WEDDING AND RECEPTION Music moves our hearts, crafts our moods, and enhances our lives. At your

can be used for your first dance as a mar-

foul-language rap songs while small chil-

ried couple.

dren are still at the reception.

wedding and reception, the right music can

Choosing the right music isn’t just

“The entertainer creates the ambience

encompass so many emotions, like excite-

about picking the songs you like. It can be

and encourages the guests to celebrate,”

ment, revelry, or sweet tenderness.

about choosing the correctly-paced music

says Jazmine Gonzalez, president of

Special songs can memorialize the

for certain parts of your ceremony or recep-

H.Y.P.E Productions (How You Prefer

loved ones who have passed, but mean so

tion. It’s also about being appropriate

Entertainment). “They are the face and

much to you. Your favorite song together

when you need to be – such as leaving out

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the bride and groom. These are memories that will last a lifetime.” Preparing in advance with your musicians and/or DJ is crucial to having a fantastic event that will keep your guests dancing, talking, and reminiscing all night long.

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Mood Music “You need to communicate clearly if you have a theme or a specific feel you want to create,” says Jeff Stitely, president of Stitely Entertainment. “Any quality DJ or band leader should have creative ideas on how to reflect your style and taste, and should be real curious about what’s on your iPod, and what music you grew up with. You want to have those songs that hit an emotional chord with you.” This is the union of two people, so the music should reflect both of your tastes in music. “It’s our job to assure the couple that we understand their vision and requests, and 404

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will adhere to that,” says Gonzalez. “We will

weave the couple’s story in musically. Music

on your iPod and it hits you that this would

talk about different styles of music to be

can help incorporate the details of your rela-

be awesome at your wedding, write it

played throughout the night and paint a

tionship, did you meet at Sox Park? ‘Don’t

down,” Stitely says. “Over time, you’ll

picture of what it will be like.”

Stop Believing’ or ‘Sweet Caroline’ are must

have a great list of tunes.”

She believes even the smallest piece of

plays then! New York? Then ‘New York, New

“Keeping a running list on their phones

the puzzle can make a huge difference in

York’ or ‘Empire State of Mind.’ France? ‘La

of songs from every genre will give the DJ

the outcome.

Vie En Rose!’”

a wide selection of types of songs to

“We ask them about past weddings they

Joel Quest, owner of Conquest Enter-

choose from. Don’t forget to pick songs for

have attended, and we want to learn what

tainment, says that good song selections

all points in the night – cocktail hour, din-

they liked and did not like,” she says. “It’s

have many things in common:

ner, and dancing,” says Quest. He also

just like cooking – a little bit of this, and lit-

• It’s something other people will like.

believes couples should pay attention

tle bit of that. But they can always tweak

• It’s something that fits your theme (such

it to fit their preferences.”

when their parents mention a band they like, and make note of it so the DJ or band can as a beach theme or gangster theme). make a point to play something for them.

Creating Your Personalized Playlist

Kaufman agrees, “Why not give parents

“I tell all my clients to start collecting

a song choice or two? This is your wed-

“Music is a great way to personalize your

songs they want to hear now instead of try-

ding, but their friends will also be there cel-

wedding,” says Becca Kaufman, president of

ing to come up with a list a few weeks

ebrating with you! Your bandleader’s goal

BeatMix Music and leader of the Becca

before the wedding,” he explains.

is to keep people on the dance floor, so

Kaufman Orchestra. “I love finding ways to

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“When you hear a song on the radio or

input from everyone is always appreciated.”

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And don’t forget to check your band or DJ’s website to see their most-requested song lists. These pros have been in the business a long time. They know what brings a crowd to their feet. Maybe, you are a couple that absolutely hates polkas or the “chicken dance.” Gonzalez prefers her couples give her a “no play” list, too. “As much as we want to know what you like, the dislikes are just as important. This will help us to create parameters for our musical selections,” she says.

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“I always suggest the bride and groom

“There are lots of them out there, but

If a couple thinks that any band or DJ

not only list their favorites, but to consider

there are also classy DJs who let the music

can play the best party songs or they can

the variety of generations of their guests,”

speak for itself and don’t ham it up on the

cut corners with the music, they are mak-

she says. “When people hear a little from

mic or play stupid tunes,” he says.

ing a huge mistake, Gonzalez says.

all eras, you are sure to make a connection and inspire people to celebrate.”

Leave Assumptions at Home There are plenty of assumptions out there that give bands and DJs bad raps,

Matt Stedman, management at Matt

“If they were to spend as much money

Stedman Band & Ring of Music Orchestra,

as they want on the other aspects of the

says that the only sure- fire way for cou-

wedding and hire a terrible entertainer, the

ples to find top level professional groups

outcome is nobody dancing, nothing to

is to find them on wedding websites, and

photo or video, nobody being guided

then to interview them.

through the formalities, and basically a dis-

“This is the only way for them to truly

aster,” she explains.

know they are receiving a high quality

The goal should be that the couple feels

“Some couples think a band can’t play

group that excels at performing and facil-

like they are guests at their own celebra-

contemporary dance tunes well. Not true.

itating weddings,” he says. “It’s so impor-

tion, and that they can trust the DJ or band

Many of the best bands add tracks just

tant to hire a wedding group that special-

to handle the music particulars.

like the touring artists do at their concerts,”

izes in all facets of weddings. A great

he explains.

wedding group keeps everyone on the

says Stitely.

He also says that some people think all DJs are cheesy.

dance floor, playing recognizable songs with impeccable timing.”

Make Sure All Bases Are Covered There is no way that everyone at your party will like every song, but there is a way to include everyone and not alienate people, Stitely says. “More often than not, we will play the classic styles earlier in the evening so grandma says to herself, ‘Thank God this band is playing the music I love and not just that boom, boom music the kids like,’” he explains. “Once grandma makes that decision for herself, there is a good chance she’ll continue dancing to Bruno Mars later in the evening.” But he warns that if you hit her over the head with AC/DC or Rhianna right after the first dance, she’ll run for her car. “The evening should have a shape that includes everyone, but definitely gets the energy up for the bride and groom and their friends. How and when that transition happens should be discussed together,” he says. Stedman believes that everyone can be pleased a majority of the time during the reception.

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“Once again, striking a balance between the couples’ selections and what the group (or DJ) would select based on their professional expertise is a recipe for complete success,” he says. “Communication between couples and their group is key.” He says there is no right or wrong in sticking to one genre of music, if this is what the couple truly wants. “However, even if the couple wants one style, most people want variety and will only dance to variety,” he explains. “We’ve had many couples mention they wanted only one style. But we shared this sentiment with them. They’ve always ended up agreeing, and their weddings were successful.” Kaufman’s answer to pleasing the crowd is to make sure you include a few of those good old classics. “Classics are classics for a reason,” she explains. “Certain songs never grow old – whether for the ceremony or the reception. You can never go wrong with 'Brown Eyed Girl’ or ‘Canon in D.’”

Memorable Moments Even the Musicians Can’t Forget No matter how many weddings and receptions Stedman plays, he says he always embraces the “X factor.” “This is what our couples know about their family and friends that we couldn’t possibly know,” he clarifies. “Sometimes, our couples pick songs that typically wouldn’t go over well for 99.9 percent of weddings, but work well at their weddings because they know their family and friends.” Many times, these songs will be “inside jokes” within their family and friends and are wildly successful.

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“We’ve provided music for various cul-

the couple and 40 of their friends had fol-

He also had a wedding with a bride in

tures, college fight songs for fraternity broth-

lowed the band Phish around the country.

her late 40s who had been dating her fiancé

ers and sorority sisters, and even performed

“Phish tunes aren’t dance tunes, but

sentimental songs in memory of someone

when there’s that large of a group that will

“She started her bridal procession at the

who has passed. All these moments were

dance, it creates a critical mass that draws

ceremony behind a screen singing ‘At Last’

exceptionally important and special to our

the rest of the people onto the dance floor.

then walked down the aisle while singing.

couples and their guests,” Stedman says.

That wedding was a wild, crazy dance party

The first response was laughter, then

Stitely says that he did a wedding where

playing a lot of jam band music,” he says.

there wasn’t a dry eye in the house,” Stitely

for many years.

describes.

Honor Those You Love Celebrating the parents of the couple by playing their first dance song from their wedding and dedicating it to them can be touching. The same thing can be done for the grandparents, Quest says. “If there is a friend or loved one who happens to be going through something wonderful or tragic, a dedication to them can really make their day. Don’t forget about your wacky friends as well, who have been there with you all along,” he says. Gonzalez recently did a wedding in which the bride’s brother had passed away. “They wanted to do some type of dedication song for him. Together, we created an idea that would both touch people and encourage them to celebrate life. We didn’t want to make it a sob fest,” she says. Everyone gathered into a circle around the newlyweds while they played one of her late brother’s favorite songs. The guests were singing along and then let loose at the end into an all-out dance craze. “Out of all of the years I have been an entertainer, this moment will always stand out as one of my favorites,” she says. “Your wedding is one day. You should feel confident throughout the planning process that the entertainers you hired will understand and execute your vision. These are memories that will last a lifetime.” 410

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55 Songs to Make Your Night Perfect Entertainment Pros Offer Their Top 5 Lists for Your Big Moments You’ve just selected your band or DJ.

Don’t forget there are a lot of important

They ask you what songs you’d like to use

moments of the evening. You need to

and you freeze. You haven’t quite gotten

make the right selection for each one.

1. “Canon in D” by Johann Pachelbel

that far, have you? You immediately begin

No pressure.

2. “A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri

Kaufman and Weber suggest these lovely songs:

pouring through stations on Pandora and

So I asked Kaufman, her associate Mike

scanning the good ol’ radio during your

Weber, in-house “clientologist” and direc-

4. “She’s Got a Way” by Billy Joel

commute to work, noting everything you

tor of sales and logistics for BeatMix

5. “Your Song” by Elton John

like from the obvious to the obscure. But

Music, and Aly Heintz, creative director of

how do you pick the perfect song for the

Midwest Event Solutions, LLC for their

biggest moments of your night?

professional opinions on the top five best

Becca Kaufman, president of BeatMix

songs for all those big moments.

a reason.” For example, “Canon in D” is

Entering the Reception like a Champ Everyone knows that entering the reception after your ceremony is a big moment.

Music and leader of the Becca Kaufman Orchestra, says, “Classics are classic for

3. “Here Comes the Sun” by the Beatles

Your Solo Walk Down the Aisle

Kaufman and Weber say your selection needs to be upbeat, fun, and reflective of you as a couple. They chose:

tried and true. When people hear that

Choosing a song you love for your walk

song, they know it’s time to stand up

down the aisle will bring out your confi-

1. “Marry You” by Bruno Mars

because the important people are about to

dence and ensure a smooth journey to the

2. “Sweet Home Chicago” by Robert

walk in, and they don’t want to miss it.

altar. For this most important of events,

Johnson

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3. “Uptown Funk” by Bruno Mars

Daddy’s little girl shares a dance with her

4. “Happy” by Pharrell Williams

father. Kaufman and Weber say to pick

5. “Signed, Sealed, Delivered, I’m

songs that are meaningful, like:

Yours” by Stevie Wonder

First Dance Heintz included some newer songs in her choices for the top five first dance songs. She also says modern versions of classic songs can give an updated feel to

1. “The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra 2. “I Loved Her First” by Heartland 3. “My Little Girl” by Tim McGraw 4. “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong 5. “My Girl” by the Temptations

a lovely classic. Her selections were: 1. “The Way I Am” by Ingrid Michaelson 2. “Marry Me” by Train

Make Grandma Smile Golden oldies are always a good way

3. “Better Together” by Jack Johnson

to get the slightly more mature crowd out

4. “Make You Feel My Love” by Adele

on the dance floor. Because let’s be hon-

5. “Over the Rainbow/What a Wonderful

est, Grandma might break a hip if she tries

World” by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

to twerk. Kaufman and Weber suggested

Kaufman and Weber also chose some awesome modern songs and threw in an old-timey ringer for their top picks. They went with: 1. “Thinking Out Loud” by Ed Sheeran 2. “You Are the Best Thing” by Ray LaMontagne 3. “At Last” by Etta James 4. “All of Me” by John Legend 5. “Then” by Brad Paisley

Mother and Son Dance

these hits from days gone by: 1. “The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra 2. “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong 3. “La Vie En Rose” by Louis Armstrong 4. “At Last” by Etta James 5. “Unchained Melody” by the Righteous Brothers

Get on the Dance Floor Sometimes, you just need to get every-

That “aww” moment when a mother and

one out on the dance floor to get things

son meet on the dance floor is always one

started. Heintz says these are the songs

of the sweetest moments of the reception.

to do it:

Heintz suggests these options for making

1. “I Gotta Feelin’” by the Black Eyed Peas

it a dance to remember:

2. “Sexy and I Know It” by LMFAO

1. “I'll Stand By You” by The Pretenders

3. “Back in Time” by Pitbull

2. “My Wish” by the Rascal Flatts

4. “Celebration” by Kool and the Gang

3. “Wonderful Tonight” by Eric Clapton

5. “Wonderful Tonight” by Eric Clapton

4. “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong 5. “You'll Be in My Heart” by Phil Collins

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kind of doing the side-to-side sway. Put

Equally important is that moment where

on a song that everyone knows, and the

LIVE MUSIC, DJS & DANCING

energy will grow exponentially. Kaufman and Weber suggest: 1. “Don’t Stop Believin’” by Journey 2. “Sweet Caroline” by Neil Diamond 3. “You’ve Lost that Loving Feeling” by the Righteous Brothers 4. “Sweet Home Alabama” by Lynyrd Skynyrd 5. “You Shook Me All Night Long” by AC/DC

Slow Dances Slow dances are a great time to snuggle up with your new spouse and pretend like no one else exists for roughly three minutes. Here are some of Kaufman and Weber’s top picks for those romantic moments: 1. “Stay with Me” by Sam Smith 2. “When A Man Loves A Woman” by Percy Sledge 3. “Unforgettable” by Nat King Cole 4. “Unchained Melody” by the Righteous Brothers 5. “You Send Me” by Sam Cooke

End the Evening with a Bang Sadly, as much as you want it to last forever, the night does end. Go out with a bang by using one of these suggestions from Heintz: 1. “Time of My Life” by Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes 2. “Hey Jude” by the Beatles 3. “Piano Man” by Billy Joel 4. “Last Dance” by Donna Summer 5. “At Last” by Etta James Picking the right songs for all your big moments can feel like a huge task. As long as you choose songs that you love, you can’t go wrong. And don’t forget to enjoy the process of dancing around your living room with your fiancé as you test out each option. CHICAG O STY L EWED D IN G S.CO M

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In Good Times and Bad PALOMA ANDRADE AND ALBERTO BOCANEGRA, STAN MANSION WRITTEN BY JEANNE SULLIVAN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY ADRIAN NASTASE PHOTOGRAPHY

Paloma and Alberto met in 2006, while sharing their passion for politics and the city of Chicago. While working hard to make their beloved city a better place, they fell in love. A few years later, Alberto organized a grand birthday party for Paloma. “He invited all of our friends,” describes Paloma. “During the celebration, when I finished blowing out the candles, he got down on his knees and proposed to me as everyone was clapping and laughing.” Although Paloma and Alberto wanted to marry as soon as possible, they were met with many obstacles. Paloma was diagnosed with breast cancer and with Alberto’s help, overcame her illness. A year later, Alberto was involved in a serious, life-changing car accident. To make matters worse, Alberto’s house caught fire. “Through strife and struggle, the love that we shared overcame all those obstacles,” says Paloma. When the couple was finally ready to exchange vows, they entered a contest at Stan Mansion for a memorable Valentine’s Day wedding. To their delight, they won. They had three weeks to organize their wedding. With all details attended to, family and friends gathered for an intimate ceremony filled with music, dancing, elegance, and plenty of love. As Paloma walked down the aisle she remembers thinking, “I felt like he was the man God sent for me to spend the rest of my life with.” Alberto adds, “Everything was special. It was a day I will never forget.”

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Vendors CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE: Stan Mansion PHOTOGRAPHY: Adrian Nastase Photography OFFICIANT: Rose Lifecycle Ceremonies HAIR & MAKEUP: Eleventh Hour Salon FLOWERS: Juliet Tan Floral Design

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BRIDE’S GOWN: David’s Bridal FORMALWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse

DÉCOR: Art of Imagination

CATERING: Jordan’s Food of Distinction and SpritzOlogy ENTERTAINMENT: Stand and Clap Entertainment

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SWEETS: Elysia Root Cakes

TRANSPORTATION: Chicago Majestic Transportation, LLC

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Moving Pieces THE WHO, WHERE, WHEN, AND HOW OF WEDDING DAY TRANSPORTATION

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Pro Tip Number One

at one time or another. Everything should

“Just because a company’s website dis-

be fine. All your ducks are lined neatly

plays a maximum capacity of 30 passen-

in a row, all your I’s have been dotted and

gers for a party bus doesn’t mean that you

T’s crossed, but you still feel like you’ve

will be comfortable with 30 passengers on

forgotten something. Something impor-

the bus,” says Stonys. “The maximum

tant. While you may have figured out every

capacity is set for liability purposes, and

detail of every event, it’s important to

not for passenger comfort.” He recom-

plan how you’re getting to each place.

mends that before booking your trans-

Transportation is the thread that ties the

portation, consider things like the size of the

whole day together, and without it, you

bridal gown, any equipment the photogra-

could be stuck at your hotel with no way

pher and/or videographer might be carry-

of getting to your ceremony.

ing, and other transportation must-haves

On your big day, who goes where, and

that could take up space in your vehicle.

when and how they get there is just as

Maksim Dolgov, owner of Avital Lim-

important as all the other details you’ve

ousine, agrees, “Just as a bride would not

been diligently checking off your wedding

buy a wedding dress that she had not first

to-do list. After all, you’re probably going

tried on, never book your wedding day

to be moving around a lot – from your house

transportation without seeing it in person

or hotel to the wedding ceremony, and from

first.” Dolgov recommends that every client

the wedding ceremony to your reception

actually visit the companies they are con-

venue, and finally from your reception

sidering hiring and sit in some of the vehi-

venue to a house, hotel or airport at the

cles they offer. Think of it as a little wedding

end of the night. Plus, your family, bridal

day test drive.

party, and guests will all be doing the

Once you’ve finalized your transporta-

same. Whew! With so many moving pieces,

tion head count, another really important

deciding what wedding day transportation

detail to consider is the overall vibe you

is right for you can seem overwhelming.

want to achieve during the festivities. “A

But luckily, it doesn’t have to be.

couple should discuss what their vision is

According to Gabriel Stonys, CEO of

for their wedding day,” says Sarah Mandel,

Elite Chicago Limo, the first thing a cou-

owner of Classic Wedding Car. “Do they

ple should do when planning their wedding

want a vintage feel, whereby they will uti-

day transportation is crunch the numbers –

lize a classic wedding car or trolley? Or do

the number of people you’re planning to

they want the sleek, modern look of hiring

transport, that is. Finding a limousine,

a stretch limousine or SUV?” After all the

trolley, or party bus that can carry the

effort you’ve made in planning a great

number of people you want to travel with

theme for your dream wedding, you should

you from location to location can be trick-

definitely make sure your wedding day

ier than it seems.

transportation reflects that vision.

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Pro Tip Number Two Whatever style of transportation you end

inspiration, all of which make for great

When planning, it’s important to factor in

photo opportunities, as well.

the number of out-of-town guests or guests with special needs to ensure every-

up selecting, be sure to keep your pho-

Everyone agrees that when it comes to

tographer and videographer in the loop.

hiring your perfect vendor, good reviews

“Remember you will be photographed get-

trump price. When researching Chicago

“Some hotels may offer a van service

ting in and out of whatever vehicle you

area companies, Mandel recommends that

within a certain radius – but that’s it, and

choose,” advises Cindy Hudson, co-owner

a couple certainly compare price quotes,

most won’t offer return service after the

of The Trolley Car & Bus Company.

but reputation is definitely more important

wedding reception,” says Hudson. Vendors

If unique photographs are important to

than cost. This is where setting up an in-

like The Trolley Car & Bus Company can

you, lots of transportation vendors will pro-

person meeting with a vendor is key. “A

fill in where a hotel service is unable to, by

vide the props needed for all those great

reputable company will never say ‘no’ to

providing a continuous shuttle or charter

photo ops. Avital Limousine’s wedding

an opportunity to showcase their beautiful

between the hotel and the ceremony or

packages include a red carpet roll-out in

fleet to you in person,” Stonys says, advis-

reception. Hudson suggests designating a

addition to their one-of-a-kind vehicles.

ing that this will not only protect you from

specific departure time for hotel guests so

Classic Wedding Car includes fresh roses

being overcharged for subpar service, but

that nobody gets left behind.

and crystal bud vases in their Rolls Royce

will ensure that you arrive at your wedding

and Bentley vehicles, as well as a curbside

and reception on time and unflustered.

one has access to transportation.

Pro Tip Number Three

champagne toast, with a silver champagne

Once a couple has squared away trans-

You don’t want to forget about possible

bucket and goblets. At Elite Chicago Limo,

portation for themselves and their bridal

on-site transportation needs either. “Cou-

each vehicle has its own unique theme and

party, it’s time to think about their guests.

ples should take into consideration the

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size of the venue and the layout between parking facilities and ceremony or reception locations. The travel distances can be lengthy when walking – especially in heels,” says Sammie Valadez, office manager of Beaver Creek Golf Carts. In addition to noting any variety in terrain or uneven landscapes (for an outdoor wedding), and the distance between the parking lot and reception venue, Valadez also recommends being aware of any ease of access requirements for guests with special needs. On-site transportation, like the golf carts Beaver Creek offers, can be used to move guests comfortably from one area of the reception to the other, when needed. One unavoidable aspect of wedding day travel that trips up most couples is traffic. (Thanks, Chicago.) This is where thoughtful

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planning is a must. “One suggestion I have for couples is to be realistic about travel times,” says Hudson. This is especially significant in a great city like Chicago, where there are tons of street festivals and other events that could divert traffic. Hiring an experienced driver, however, will make a drive through pesky traffic feel like a walk in the park. “Leave the routing up to the driver,” emphasizes Hudson. “They know what bridges their Trolley or Mini Bus can fit under, and how to let your group off at the curb so no one has to cross traffic.” Plus, do you really want to be giving directions on your wedding day? I think not. Leave this one up to the professionals. When dealing with traffic, the size of your vehicle also makes a difference. Just remember, the larger the vehicle, the longer

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the commute. The good news is if you’ve selected a vehicle you love, you can sit back, relax, and enjoy every minute of your drive from the ceremony to the reception. Finally, don’t forget to have a little fun (it is your wedding day, after all). Dolgov recommends including music to get the party started on the ride from the ceremony to the reception. “Something small like a CD or an iPod can actually make a huge difference in the tempo of the day. There is nothing quite like riding in a luxury party vehicle while listening to your favorite song with the people that mean the most to you!” Don’t forget to ask your vendor about any other perks either. Many vendors will offer the newlyweds and their wedding party little bonuses (like champagne!), making your transportation experience even

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Off the Beaten Path GREAT HONEYMOON IDEAS FOR TODAY’S TRAVEL-SAVVY COUPLES You’ve spent months planning your

beach vacation. Set me up with a cabana,

owner of Starship Travel. “They’re inter-

dream wedding. You’ve imagined the

a pitcher of cold, fresh coconut water, and

ested in getting out and doing things – zip

dress, the tux, and the flower arrange-

some surf, and I am one happy human.

lining, horseback riding, water sports. Or

ments; written and rewritten your vows;

But when planning your perfect honey-

they’re looking for cultural experiences –

and tasted hors d'oeuvres and cake until

moon, it’s also nice to consider taking

visiting historic sites or experiencing local

your pants begged for mercy. But some of

(at least part) of your romantic respite off

culture and cuisine.”

the most important planning of all concerns

of the beach and into territory somewhat

that fabulous little thing that happens after

less familiar.

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couples spend at least part of their pre-

“Honeymooners today are much more

wedded lives studying or traveling abroad,

seasoned travelers,” says Linda Schreiber,

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Which makes a lot of sense – plenty of

HONEYMOON & TRAVEL

mium on adventure and culturally-immer-

here are some other unique and fabulous

home and abroad, that have short-term

sive travel (though admittedly sand, sun-

options to consider:

volunteer opportunities for anyone looking

shine, and a great piña colada never hurt anyone either). According to Schreiber, many couples planning their honeymoons today are looking to strike the ideal balance between spending time lounging on a gorgeous beach and diving headfirst into the unique cultural, historical, and outdoor activities that are available further inland. But of course, romance means a little something different for every couple, and lots of newlyweds are choosing to skip the

Drive Old Route 66 …or another iconic thoroughfare of your choice. Nothing says newlywed bonding like ten days in a cozy camper-onwheels. Plus, taking it slow on the road will allow you and your love to discover some great hidden gems as you go along – that delightful, out-of-the-way bed-and-break-

to help out when and where they can. Nothing says love like finding a cause you and your partner are equally passionate about and working together to make a positive impact on the world. Who knows, maybe you two will even build a life-long relationship with a really great nonprofit as well, and make your volunteer-based adventure a regular tradition.

fast that no one you know has ever heard of will feel like your own special getaway.

Hit the Trail

Throw Yourself One Amazing Staycation …because you just spent the last year

beach altogether. In recent years, the quin-

A hiking honeymoon is definitely not for

(or more!) of your life planning your wed-

tessential, 1920s-reminiscent European

the faint-of-heart couple. But if you’re up

ding. That’s right, sometimes the most

honeymoon has experienced something of

for getting down and dirty in the woods

leisurely option of all is just some good old-

a revival. One of the main reasons,

with your new life mate, this might be

fashioned staying at home. The secret to

Schreiber says, is cost.

exactly the kind of off-the-beaten-path

a perfect staycation is to keep this one a

“When the Euro is down we see more

option you’re looking for. The United States

secret. That means turn off your cell

honeymooners interested in traveling to

(and lots of other great destinations

phone, set up your out-of-office email, and

Europe, because it’s less expensive.” This

around the globe) offer stunning locales

actually, you know, stay out of the office.

won’t make a difference in the cost of a

for an outdoorsy couple looking to cele-

Be sure to plan lots of little indulgences,

flight, she warns, but once you get there

brate their union in the presence of nature.

too! Hire a personal chef for the week,

you can experience all that great European

Plus, if you plan ahead, you can make

have breakfast in bed every morning,

culture for a lot less money. The other rea-

sure to put all that really high-end camp-

schedule your regular masseuse to make

son for the European honeymoon, of

ing gear you’d never buy yourself on your

a house call – make your own home feel

course, is romance. Paris is the city of light

wedding registry.

like the ultimate place of luxury.

and love, after all. For couples who want to take their honeymoon in an even more off-beat direction,

Volunteer

No matter what type of honeymoon you and your spouse choose, be sure to still

There are tons of great nonprofits, at set aside time for at least a few extraspecial splurges: schedule a couple’s massage at a luxurious mountaintop resort, make dinner reservations at an upscale restaurant with a great view, or indulge in an afternoon wine tasting at a nearby vineyard. Whatever you decide, be sure you plan activities that celebrate the two of you, in all your newly-wedded bliss. After all, honeymoon aside, you’ve just embarked upon the greatest adventure of all – your marriage.

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Bon Voyage! MAKE SURE TO PACK THESE LUGGAGE ESSENTIALS FOR YOUR HONEYMOON The wedding was a success. Your family and friends are ecstatic, your mom and dad are beaming and even the caterer left the reception happy. That’s great, but now it’s time to forget them all and be alone with your bride or groom on your private, romantic honeymoon. With proper preparation, you can maximize the time spent with your sweetie and minimize the time spent shopping for much-needed items you accidentally left at home. In fact, we recommend packing your bags a week or two in

temperatures and climate for the month of your travel and pack

advance. This way, you simply have to grab-and-go when it’s time

accordingly so both of you are perfectly dressed and comfortable

to make your grand escape from the flurry of wedding-day chaos.

throughout your stay (have extra anti-humidity hair products on

Not sure what to bring? Take a look at our honeymoon packing

hand in case of emergency). If your spouse has turned your des-

tips to help keep your post-wedding travels as carefree and

tination into a romantic surprise, enlist a trusted friend to do the

magical as you both deserve.

bulk of the packing for you. Don’t forget that locations like deserts and beaches may be warm and sunny by day and cooler at night,

The Basic It is easy to forget a basic item (or three) on any trip, let alone your honeymoon when things like socks and contact lens cases

so you might want that light sweater. Bathing suits, of course, should be filed under “basic” items – even mountain top ski resorts have hot tubs.

seem even more mundane compared to all of the other details you’re pulling together for your special day. Your best defense

Activities

is an old-fashioned, itemized list detailing pants, tops, lingerie

Along with the weather, newlywed couples should also

and everything else you’ll need for your getaway. Packing tip: If

consider what activities they may partake in on their honey-

you have an extra phone or tablet charger lying around, pop those

moon voyage. If you’re staying in the French Alps, hiking boots

in your suitcase first. Even if you’re going “off the grid” for a few

and canteens will come in handy, but if your journey is to

days, the convenience of map functions, restaurant directories,

Paris you may prefer to lose the camping gear in favor of a

sightseeing guides and other apps can’t be overstated. Plus, you

glamorous dress and heels for a romantic night out on the

won’t have to stop to print out things like hotel confirmation

town – or better yet, leave space in your bags to purchase

numbers and airline boarding passes in advance.

them there! Your honeymoon is a time to live in the moment and cast aside

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all the details and drudgery of the everyday. A well-packed honeymoon suitcase will help you do both.

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They say the best relationships begin with a solid friendship. For Lauren, that friendship was between her future husband Chris and her brother. After years of unspoken interest, Chris marshaled his courage and asked his best friend’s little sister out for coffee. Lauren recalls, “Of course, I said yes!” Eight years later, she gave the same reply when Chris proposed in Cancun while on a family vacation. “It came as a complete surprise to me, and I was thrilled!” says the bride. “It was a great experience to share with my family, and I was so glad they were part of it.” On a late September afternoon with clear skies and warm weather, Chris and Lauren came together for a first look before the day began. Lauren remembers, “This moment gave us the opportunity to soak it all in before the rush of the ceremony and reception. It was like we were both in a little snow globe for a few minutes, just Chris and I.” The couple said their vows in the courtyard of the Herrington Inn and Spa surrounded by family and friends. Their blush, apricot and berry-colored flowers formed a beautiful archway, framing the natural landscape and the serene Fox River. A violinist and an acoustic guitar duo set the perfect atmosphere for an elegant ceremony and a classic cocktail hour. A live band kept the energy up all night long, as guests dined on amazing fare and danced to their hearts’ content. But for Lauren, “Nothing was more enjoyable than calling the man next to me my husband at the end of the night.”

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HAIR & MAKEUP: Blend Beauty Studio

BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: The Wedding Suite at Nordstrom FORMALWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse

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STATIONERY: Minted

FLOWERS: Elizabeth Wray Design

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CATERING: Herrington Inn & Spa

ENTERTAINMENT: Strings of Silk Music | Ring of Music Orchestra SWEETS: The Cakery, Inc.

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Estate by Gene and Georgetti, The.......................99

Loews Chicago Hotel ........................................53

“The Barn” at Arabian Knights Farms ..................128

Fox Run Golf Links..........................................193

Maggiano’s Little Italy ......................................139

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Volo Restaurant Wine Bar .................................180

DJs

Manzo’s Banquets...........................................124

Wandering Tree Estate .......................................87

Chicago Wedding DJ’s.....................................412

Marriott Chicago Midway ....................................81

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago ...........................15

Conquest Entertainment ...................................408

McHenry Country Club.....................................185

Westin Chicago North Shore, The ......................102

H.Y.P.E. Productions, Inc...................................410

Medinah Banquets ..........................................147

Westin Chicago Northwest, The .........................149

IntensEvents ..................................................406

Meridian Banquets ............................................89

Willowbrook Ballroom ......................................159

Midwest Event Solutions...................................404

Metropolis Ballroom ........................................152

Winnetka Community House .............................119

Metropolitan Club, The .......................................33

Wyndham Glenview Suites................................187

Flowers & Décor

Wyndham Grand Chicago Riverfront .....................77

Ashland Addison Florist Company ......................350

Zam Zam Banquet Hall ....................................199

Avant Gardenia ...............................................344

Zhou B Art Center.............................................23

Bonnie Flower Shop ........................................343

Mid-America Club, The ......................................29 Midway Village Museum ...................................198 Midwest Conference Center ..............................199 Millennium Knickerbocker Chicago.........................4 Mirage Four Points Sheraton .............................197

Countryside Flower Shop..................................354

Culinary Services

Monastero’s Ristorante & Banquets....................130

CAKES & SWEETS

Montgomery Club, The.......................................35

Amy Beck Cake Design ...................................322

Morton Arboretum, The ....................................128

Bittersweet.....................................................326

Murphy Chicago, The.........................................17

Bombon Cake Gallery ......................................323

Nacional 27 .....................................................70

Cocoa Bean...................................................324

Naper Settlement ............................................192 Naperville Park District .....................................158 Northern Illinois University-Naperville ..................166 Odyssey Country Club......................................113 Oscar Swan Inn ..............................................188 Osteria Via Stato ...............................................66 Palmer House Hilton, The ...................................47

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Makray Memorial Golf Club...............................176

Delish Cakes ..................................................324 Desiree Chocolates .........................................322 Elysia Root Cakes ...........................................322 Emily Wheeler Custom Cakes............................325 Kirsten’s Danish Bakery....................................325 Oak Mill Bakery ..............................................321 Penthouse Sweets...........................................326 SweetPea Cakes.............................................325

Flowers for Dreams .........................................351 Jazzy Flowers.................................................346 Kensington Floral & Events ...............................348 Meetinghouse Companies, The ..........................349 Northern Décor & Logistics .............................354 Northern Greenhouses Floral & Event Design .......351 Rosemary’s Garden .........................................353 Stems, Inc. ....................................................347 Westgate Flower & Plant Shop ..........................353 Yanni Design Studio ........................................345

Equipment Rental Blue Peak Tents..............................................355 Northern Décor & Logistics...............................354

Parkway by the Lake .......................................170 Pazzo’s at 311 .................................................69

CATERING

Guest Accommodations

Peggy Notebaert Nature Museum, The .................62

Bauer’s Catering .............................................181

Days Inn Chicago............................................212

Bombon Catering............................................332

DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau.................191

Pheasant Run Resort .......................................190 Pinstripes ........................................................86 Prairie Street Brewhouse ..................................198 Renaissance Chicago North Shore Hotel .............171 River Roast ......................................................79 Rivers Restaurant..............................................68 Sabre Room ..................................................151 Salvatore’s Ristorante ........................................27

Cork Catering & Special Events .........................329 Eleganté Cuisine .............................................330

Honeymoon & Travel

Harry Caray’s Catering & Events ..........................88

Apple Vacations ..............................................423

J & L Catering ...............................................333

Divi Resorts ...................................................425

Jewell Events Catering .....................................328

Pompano Beach Club ......................................427

Kenmare Catering .............................................17

Starship Travel .....................................96-97, 424

Phil Stefani Signature Events.............................331 Wishbone ......................................................330

Health, Beauty & Fitness

ICE SCULPTING

Ambra Salon & Spa ........................................367

Johnson Studios Ice Sculptures.........................333

Appease, Inc. .................................................359

Entertainment

Cinde’s Salon .................................................361

Seven Bridges Golf Club ..................................110 Seville, The ....................................................109 Shapiro Ballroom ............................................179 Signature Room at the 95th, The ........................51 Silver Lake Country Club ..................................100

Bridal Brigade ................................................362 Clarity Makeup Artistry .....................................362

Sofitel Chicago Water Tower .................................9

BANDS & ORCHESTRAS

Stan Mansion ...................................................37

BeatMix Music, Becca Kaufman Orchestra...........409

Stonegate Banquet & Conference Centre, The .....140

Chicalba Bagpiping Services .............................404

Swissôtel Chicago...............................................5

H.Y.P.E. Productions, Inc...................................407

theWit Hotel.....................................................13

Matt Stedman Band ........................................405

Tru ................................................................78

Stitely Entertainment ........................................412

Trump International Hotel & Tower .........................1

DANCE LESSONS

Spa In Your Space ..........................................364

Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante ..........................2-3

Arthur Murray Dance Studio..............................413

Style by Bravura .............................................361

Villa Brunetti Banquets & Catering......................120

I Do Dance ...................................................179

Zazú Salon & Day Spa.....................................357

Edra Couture..................................................360 Kate Johnson Artistry.......................................360 Make Up First ................................................358 Montage Salon & Spa .....................................365 Posh Nails, Nails & More ..................................366 Pure Barre .....................................................366

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Invitations & Stationery

Chicago Athletic Association Hotel......................213

Swissôtel Chicago ...........................................219

aDORAble Designs by Candice..........................307

Chicago’s First Lady Cruises .............................213

theWit Hotel ...................................................219

Art De Triumph ...............................................310

CityGate Grille ................................................222

Topo Gigio Ristorante ......................................220

DBY invitations ...............................................305

Club Lucky ....................................................213

Tuscany Wheeling ..........................................222

Dear Emily .....................................................307

D.O.C. Wine Bar Chicago..................................214

Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante..........................223

G Marie Design ..............................................308

D.O.C. Wine Bar Lombard.................................223

Volo Restaurant Wine Bar .................................220

Garrett Popcorn ..............................................311

David Burke’s Primehouse ................................214

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago .........................220

Invitations by Design........................................308

Drake Hotel’s Palm Court, The ..........................214

Weber Grill Restaurants....................................220

Eaglewood Resort & Spa .................................221

ZED451 ........................................................220

Marvelous Party ..............................................306 Maxe Designs ................................................310 Pulp & Ink .....................................................309

Jewelry Benchmark....................................................OBC Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio ............................274 James & Sons Fine Jewelers .............................IFC Razny Jewelers ................................................43

Photography Angel Eyes Photography ..................................390 Aundriana Parker Imaging Design Studio, LLC......396 Bolin Photography & Design .............................386 CiCi Pictures ..................................................396 Dennis Lee Photography ..................................381 Duron Studio..................................................391 DWJ Studio ...................................................397 Edward Fox Photography & Video ......................378 Furla Studio ...................................................379 Gold Grid Studios............................................378 Jenny Taylor Boudoir Photography .....................389 John Dart Photography ....................................395 Kent Drake Photography ..................................398 Lex Alexander Photography ..............................388 Lilly Photography ............................................383 Ocken Photography.........................................380 Rick Aguilar Studios ........................................375 Rush Photo & Video ........................................385

Frankie’s Scaloppine........................................214

Transportation

Franklin Tap ...................................................214

A Royalty Limousines, Inc. ................................418

Gene and Georgetti .........................................215

Avital Limousine..............................................417

Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse ...............................215

Beaver Creek Golf Cart ....................................421

Glen Club, The................................................221

Classic Wedding Car........................................420

Grandview Restaurant & Lounge, The .................221

Elite Chicago Limo ..........................................420

Guesthouse Hotel, The.....................................215

Make A Memory Limo .....................................419

Highland Park Country Club ..............................221

Second City Trolley..........................................421

Hofbräuhaus Chicago ......................................221

Trolley Car Company .......................................419

Hugo’s Frog Bar & Fish House ..........................215 Hyatt Regency Chicago....................................215

Videography

Jimmy’s Charhouse .........................................221

Furla Vision ....................................................401

Kaiser Tiger....................................................215

Highway 61 Films ...........................................400

Kama Indian Bistro ..........................................223

Wedding Connections Video .............................402

Kendall College ..............................................216 La Tasca Tapas Restaurant................................212 LUXBAR ........................................................216 Makray Memorial Golf Club...............................222

Wedding Services BRIDAL SHOWS Complete Wedding Expo, The............................145

Metropolitan Club, The .....................................216 Michael Jordan’s Steak House ..........................216

CLERGY

Mid-America Club, The ....................................216

LaSalle Street Church ......................................251

Monastero’s Ristorante.....................................216

Rent-A-Rev....................................................250

Montgomery Club, The.....................................217

PRE-MARITAL AGREEMENT

Murphy Chicago, The.......................................217

Anderson & Boback ........................................251

New Line Tavern .............................................217 O’Briens Restaurant & Bar................................217 Osteria La Madia ...........................................217

STYLIST Wedding Dresser, The......................................272

Parthenon Restaurant, The................................217

WEDDING CONSULTANTS

Phil Stefani’s 437 Rush ...................................218

Accents Events ...............................................250

Quartino Ristorante & Wine Bar .........................218

BCR Events ...................................................242

BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY

Quince ..........................................................222

Beso Weddings & Events .................................240

Jenny Taylor Boudoir Photography .....................389

Redhead Piano Bar, The...................................218

Big City Bride .................................................241

Redstone American Grill ...................................211

Effortless Events .............................................245

Renalli’s ........................................................218

Events by Miranda Lyn.....................................244

Salvatore Cincotta Photography ..................372-373 Timothy Whaley & Associates............................384

Rehearsal Dinner & Pre-Wedding Celebrations

432

Erie Café ......................................................214

Riva Crab House on Navy Pier ..........................218

Frank Event Design .........................................239

Arrowhead Golf Club .......................................222

River Roast ....................................................218

LOLA Event Productions...................................240

Bellwether Meeting House & Eatery ...................213

Rock Bottom Restaurant & Brewery ...................219

Pretty in Pink Entertainment ..............................249

Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano ................................220

Salvatore’s Ristorante ......................................219

Soirée Weddings & Events................................243

Bistrot Margot ................................................213

Seven Bridges Golf Club ..................................223

Vowed to You .................................................249

Bon Appétit at The Art Institute of Chicago ..........213

Shula’s Steak House .......................................219

Windermere Elegant Weddings ..........................242

Broken Arrow Golf Club ...................................223

Sixteen .........................................................219

You Name It Events .........................................244

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