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‘Yes, my wife is pregnant. No, it’s not mine’ Keith BieryGolick Cincinnati Enquirer USA TODAY NETWORK
Amy Polly, Gloria Settelmayer and Amanda Greenberg grew up in the same small town of Goshen Township, Ohio. As the years went by, their relationship grew. In 2017, Polly volunteered to be a surrogate for Settelmayer after Settelmayer had trouble carrying a viable pregnancy. Recently, Greenberg volunteered to do just the same. AMANDA ROSSMANN, THE ENQUIRER/AMANDA ROSSMANN
Gloria Settelmayer cries like she’s pregnant – laughing one minute, wiping away tears the next. You’ll have to forgive her, though, because her friend from high school is pregnant. And that friend is carrying her child. Settelmayer greets Amanda Greenberg with a smile at her Goshen Township home in May. The two have been friends for years, even though they joke about how mean Settelmayer was back in school. This year, their friendship has evolved into something more, just when Settelmayer needed it most. Already a mother of three, Greenberg wears loosefi tting clothing because she just came from school, where she teaches third grade and doesn’t want to prompt questions about gestational surrogacy. Greenberg is 14 weeks pregnant. Settelmayer touches Greenberg’s belly. “You’re showing,” she says. This is the fi rst time Settelmayer almost cries today. It won’t be the last. A few minutes later, she cries while looking through a scrapbook she once made for her sister-in-law, Amy Polly. Polly grew up with Settelmayer and Greenberg. In 2017, Polly was the one pregnant with Settelmayer’s child. Settelmayer has done this before. She just never thought she’d be doing it again. Born in a small town in Clermont County, Settelmayer always wanted a big family. Her husband is an only child and both of his parents are gone. But each pregnancy with their two boys got harder and harder. It wasn’t just throwing up nine times a day. It was seizures and medications. It was miscarriage after miscarriage, both early in pregnancy and late. In 2017, it looked unlikely that Settelmayer could have another successful pregnancy. She wanted to try See SURROGATE, Page 2A
Special Olympian Johnny Vilardo loves his role as Milford’s ‘unoffi cial mayor’ Erin Glynn Cincinnati Enquirer USA TODAY NETWORK
Johnny Vilardo's favorite part of the 2014 Special Olympics was not being the fi rst Special Olympian golfer to represent Ohio in national competition, nor even his gold medal win by 17 strokes. It was the surprise parade Milford threw to welcome him home. Johnny’s sister-in-law, Amy Vilardo is the city's offi cial mayor, but long before she was elected Johnny was known as the unoffi cial mayor of Milford. “The other mayors come and go but not Johnny,” Johnny's brother Ralph Vilardo said. “Johnny is a true ambassador for the community. Everyone I know has a Johnny story.”
Johnny was born and raised in the city of Milford, which straddles the counties of Hamilton and Clermont. He graduated from Milford High School in 1981. He’s worked as a bagger at the Milford Kroger for 23 years, a job he said he likes because he gets to meet and chat with a lot of people. “As one of Johnny's siblings, we don't have names. We are ‘Johnny's brother.’ The family is very proud that of that,” Ralph said. Johnny has represented Ohio in two Special Olympics. He won the gold medal in the 9-hole golf event in Trenton, New Jersey in 2014 and the silver medal in the 18-hole golf event in Seattle in 2018. See JOHNNY, Page 2A
Johnny Vilardo, a Special Olympian who lives in Milford, smiles and waves as he sits along Main Street, on Thursday, June 17. Vilardo received a gold medal for golf in the 2014 Special Olympics. He also won a silver medal in 18 hole golf in 2018. Vilardo also works at the Milford Kroger and is known around town as "the unofficial mayor of Milford." AMANDA ROSSMANN/THE ENQUIRER
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