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DREAM FOUNDATION 2013 Newsletter, Vol. 1
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Enriching a final journey. Acknowledging a life lived.
our mission The mission of Dream Foundation is to enhance the quality of life for individuals and their families facing a life-threatening illness by fulfilling a heart’s final wish.
Avid freshwater fisherman, Ron, of Arizona—battling COPD— seen here experiencing the ocean for the first time, as part of his deep sea fishing trip to Santa Barbara in March 2012.
I N T H I S I SSU E Message from the Founder 2 Dreams Come True 8-10 Dream Backers 15
Notes from the Heart 3
Above and Beyond 11
Soul Food 4-5
How You Can Help 12-13
Awareness in the Media 16-19
Events 20-21
www.dreamfoundation.org
In Memory 6-7 Planned Giving 14
Programs 22-23
A Message from the Founder
Herein:
Board of Directors 2013
so many faces…so many families…so many hearts that entrust us with their hopes and dreams. Dreams that come true because of you.
Richard Burnham Mansfield, TX Co-Founder, Odyssey HealthCare, Chairman
This newsletter celebrates the beauty that unfolds from acts of kindness, love and compassion. We are blessed to be part of this humbling work. You’re also a big part of this blessing, and thereby the blessing our families feel during their most challenging days.
Luke Ebbin Santa Barbara, CA Record Producer, Mechanism Strategic Music Consultants
J. Paul Gignac Santa Barbara, CA
In setting our goals, we are inspired by supporters like you who entrust us with your investment in dreams. We are motivated by the individuals who honor us with their heart’s final wish—people like my buddy, Malachi, whose mother began nursing school when she learned she had stage 4 cancer. I had the privilege of taking Malachi to the circus, where he said to me, “My mother is going to be so happy.” “Why?” I asked. “Because I’m having fun.” At the circus, Malachi won a prize. I was unsure why— with all the stuffed lions and dragons available—this 8-year-old chose a pink flower… until we returned to his mom. It was meant for her.
Dream recipient, Tamika, and her son, Malachi.
The work we do allows moments for parents to be parents and witness their children being children. It gives children profound memories to hold on to in years ahead.
• Nearly 2,500 dreams served. A 13% increase in processed applications over 2011. • 5,925 bouquets delivered as part of Flower Empower, up 40% over 2011. • 1,322 children of dream recipients received toys, up 54% over 2011.
As we consider our future, we are reminded of the wise words of supporter, Chad Dreier: “Bigger is not better. Better is better.” It’s a statement that reaffirms our founding philosophy as well as our objectives for 2013. However, we continue to depend on your support; our service area and demand is (indeed) getting bigger. Much bigger. I have one wish for YOU in the year ahead: to join the Dream Team. A minimum donation of $25 is all it takes. Please use the enclosed envelope to impart your gift.
In earning Charity Navigator’s four star rating Dream Foundation has demonstrated exceptional financial health, outperforming most of its peers in its efforts to manage and grow its finances in the most fiscally responsible way possible.
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Hollye Harrington Jacobs, RN, MS, MSW Vice Chairperson & Secretary Santa Barbara, CA
David Johnson Los Angeles, CA Act 4 Entertainment
Bob Murphy Santa Barbara, CA Founding Partner, Roberts Investment Capital, LLC
Thomas Rollerson President Santa Barbara, CA Founder/President, Dream Foundation
Bobby Shand Santa Barbara, CA
Kenneth P. Slaught Santa Barbara, CA President, Investec, Inc.
Chris Smith President, Ohana Real Estate Investors
• Earning the Charity Navigator 4-star rating for the fifth year.
Thomas Rollerson Founder/President
Beverly Hills, CA President & Managing Director, Glickman Capital
Redwood City, CA
• Making budget (by a hair).
From the heart,
David Glickman
President, The Shand Group
This past year Dream Foundation experienced:
Looking forward to working with you in the year ahead.
Partner Arias Ozzello & Gignac, LLP
Dream Foundation salutes outgoing board member and former Chair, AJ Rice AJ Rice joined the Board of Directors in 2001, serving as Chair from 2001-2002 and then again from 20 04-20 07, during which time he provided outstanding organizational and financial leadership. His term expired in 2012. Both AJ and his wife, Valerie, continue to support Dream Foundation, as they have since 2000. Thank you.
Dream Foundation has received the Independent Charities of America (ICA) Seal of Excellence. The award goes to charities that have, upon rigorous independent review, been able to certify, document and demonstrate on an annual basis that they meet the highest standards of public accountability, program effectiveness and cost effectiveness. It is estimated that fewer than five percent of charities reviewed meet or exceed these standards.
Notes from the Heart
PHOTO: COREY VILLICANA PHOTOGRAPHY
“We are so grateful you had a photographer come out to do family portraits. Cindy made sure she wore her ‘Marine Mom’ shirt, since she was ever the proud Marine Corps Mama. We now have amazing memories to hold dear and cherish for a lifetime.” – K a se y,
daughter-in-law of dream recipient, Cynthia
Partners: Delta Air Lines, San Diego Marriott Marquis & Marina
“Janet had been mustering all her remaining energ y to go on the trip and make our time together special. The moment we returned home, she declined faster than anyone imagined, and passed away just a week later. We now know your efforts to expedite the dream were heroic, in that the speediness was what made it even possible.” – A l l e y n,
PHOTO: Jeanne M. Viggiano
“The happiest day of my life was when I married my husband. He is my world and gave me my two daughters. It only made sense 15 years later to have a vow renewal, so now my daughters can see me at my happiest.”
husband of dream recipient, Janet
– K IM ,
Partners: Hasbro, Southwest Airlines, Walt Disney World Resort
dream recipient
Partners: Alaska Airlines, David’s Bridal PHOTO: Jeanne M. Viggiano
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Soul Food
Basic Needs Fulfilled The dreams showcased
on these pages come from men and women who have been financially devastated by medical bills while also facing terminal illness. Requests like theirs comprise 55 percent of the dreams we serve. When the challenges of daily life prohibit the ability to see past basic necessities, a wheelchair ramp, a recliner, eyeglasses, a scooter or a laptop are dreams, simple in nature yet grand in impact. Recently, we received a letter from a woman requesting a couple months of cable service for her television. “Cable?” you may wonder. “How is that a dream?” It’s a fair and common question with respect to the grand association we often apply to the word “dream.” But consider her circumstances: She is bedbound. Her pain and condition have limited her ability to concentrate on things like reading, sewing or conversing with the few visitors she receives. She has eliminated all costs associated with anything more than keeping food in the refrigerator and a roof over her head. She has been watching the same VHS-recorded shows repeatedly, as her main form of entertainment. Television is her window to the world. For her, cable is—most definitely—a dream.
A recliner “Thank you for giving me a scooter for Alexzander and I to get around to 7-Eleven. Remember, you do make a difference in our lives. A Slurpee is just the beginning of our adventures.” – M A R Y LO U,
dream recipient
Partner: U.S. MEDICAL SUPPLIES
Hobart maneuvering around his garden on his new scooter.
A scooter “I had been slowing down more and more, and finding it difficult to walk with my walker. All of the sudden, my dream of a scooter was being realized! I can now eat at my table, do puzzles, and work in my vegetable garden again. I had been consigning myself to a less vigorous life, but now I can move around and smell the roses.” – HOBA RT,
dream recipient
Partner: U.S. MEDICAL SUPPLIES
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Scott relaxing in his new recliner.
A gift card
– S COTT,
“I am thankful for the gift card I was given. I didn’t have the tools needed for simple repairs, but now I do. I was like a kid in a candy store.” – M A RTIN,
“I cannot express what a life-changer this simple thing is for me. In and of itself, the chair fills a genuine physical need for basic comfort. Yet the gift does more. It fills an emotional and psychological need that goes beyond words. Dream Foundation filled the void and gave me the sense that all is not lost. Now I get to feel the warmth of your giving… and that, too, is a priceless gift!”
dream recipient
Partner: GENENTECH
dream recipient
A meal at a favorite restaurant “George was so happy for our outing to Charley’s. You made his last few days perfect.” – JACKIE,
wife of dream recipient, George
The profound effect of a “simple” dream A wheelchair ramp “Having a wheelchair ramp makes me feel wonderful. I am able to attend church once or twice a month now because I have a ramp to help me exit my home.”
A television “The television you sent me is wonderful. I can now see the ticker tape. It’s fantastic! The journey I’m on is a tough one and you have made it better.” – M A SON ,
dream recipient
– LU L A , dream recipient
The community of Eastman, Georgia, including (L-R with Lula) John Sheppard, Emory Lake, Phil Foskey, Rev. Jody Martin and Rev. Tommy Veal came together to build the ramp, constructed with materials provided by Dream Foundation.
Art supplies “I’m glad to receive this gift, as it is a gift that keeps on giving. People gather around me while I am creating art and they are all amazed. It seems to bring people together!” – ROBERT,
dream recipient
Household goods
A laptop Rhonda awaiting her next chat with the grandkids.
“Sometimes it’s not one big dream that needs to be granted, but a dozen small daydreams that can change a person’s life. Your generous gift made a lot of small daydreams come true for me. My daily life is so much better because of it. I now have a new skillet, cookie sheets, kitchen towels, potholders and a mop that have replaced the peeling, rusting, torn and broken ones I had. I can see now to cook, sew and write because I have a pair of glasses. All these small things have added up to make a big difference in my life.” – C A ROL ,
dream recipient
“As my illness has progressed, it has become increasingly difficult to leave home. My daughter lives in another state. I miss her terribly and have missed watching my grandchildren grow up. My new laptop has given me the chance to ‘see’ my grandchildren for the first time in almost two years.” – RHONDA ,
dream recipient
A washer and dryer “I appreciate my new washer and dryer so much. They are so convenient, do such a great job, and—best of all—it doesn’t take all day to dry my clothes anymore. The way you help people is the light at the end of the tunnel.” – DONN A ,
dream recipient
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In Memory Dream Foundation celebrates the lives of our dreamers and their final wishes. January 1, 2012 – January 31, 2013 AZILEE, 53 – To take a trip to Disney World OLIVE, 69 – To receive a visit from her son THOMAS, 68 – To vacation in Orlando, FL RAYMOND, 66 – To attend a Chicago Cubs game CAROLYN, 67 – To receive a mattress pad TOMMY, 54 – To visit Yellowstone National Park WILLIAM, 88 – To spend time with his family TAMNEISHA, 24 – To go on a shopping spree DEBRA, 52 – To get a mobility scooter SUSAN, 42 – To take a trip to Pigeon Forge, TN JANET, 49 – To vacation with family in Orlando WAYNE, 69 – To enjoy a dinner boat cruise JENNIFER, 41 – To watch a NASCAR race BRENDA, 46 – To take a relaxing vacation MARIBEL, 43 – To visit Orlando, FL JENNIFER, 50 – To take a trip to the beach MARK, 43 – To attend a NASCAR race RANDALL, 39 – To take a family trip to Sea World DAVID, 22 – To attend taping of “Wheel of Fortune” ROBERT, 51 – To visit a friend KARLA, 26 – To receive a pergola for her garden JAMES, 52 – To enjoy a comedy show and dinner LESLIE, 23 – To meet Reba McEntire RONALD, 60 – To receive Reba McEntire memorabilia DELORUS, 64 – To have a vow renewal ceremony BILL, 82 – To host a block party LYNN, 69 – To visit with her niece and nephew SYDELLE, 78 – To see her daughter CLAYTON, 52 – To enjoy a visit from his son BRANDY, 38 – To enjoy a getaway with her husband HARRY, 68 – To receive new dentures CYNTHIA, 56 – To visit her son in California ROXANNE, 50 – To meet Katy Perry THERESITA, 63 – To visit Orlando with her family
“The main joy will be the memorable moments we shared that can never be forgotten or displayed in a photo. They are treasures in our hearts and minds. I still have some rough roads ahead, but I’m so thankful to have been blessed with this chance to enjoy some quality time with my mom and my kids, time away from doctors, cares and worries.” – C a n d i c e,
dream recipient
Partners: SeaWorld Orlando, Universal Studios Orlando, Walt Disney World Resort, Wyndham Vacation Ownership
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FRANK, 52 – To see his son in North Carolina EVONNE, 53 – To create a book of her photographs ANTHONY, 25 – To receive help with gas and food DEBRA, 53 – To see her daughter and grandchildren MARILYN, 70 – To get a visit from her brother DORIS, 82 – To have her manuscript published BEVERLY, 70 – To receive a new water heater MARY, 75 – To enjoy a special dinner LACY, 23 – To go to Disney World SHEILA, 39 – To vacation in Key West with her husband ANTHONY, 42 - To get a wedding ring WILLIAM, 59 – To visit his family in Tennessee MARIA, 51 – To fix her car NICK, 51 – To take a trip to Baltimore, MD MILLIE, 82 – To have her grandchildren visit SANDRA, 51 – To see her sister KENNETH, 50 – To eat with Chef Gordon Ramsay STUART, 72 – To visit with his grandson ROBIN, 58 – To visit his daughter in California MAUREEN, 64 – To receive a motorized scooter CHRISTINA, 26 – To see a new release movie ANDREA, 42 – To meet Jarrod Saltalamacchia CHARLES, 64 – To get a new TV and DVDs JUNG, 37 – To visit Hawaii GLYN, 77 – To see her son MADELYNN, 47 – To visit with a friend PENNY, 49 – To give her daughter a new swing set KELLEY, 48 – To receive a visit from her children SHAQUILLE, 18 – To watch professional wrestling NATALIE, 33 – To take a family trip to Disneyland FRANKIE, 68 – To have her grandson visit FRED, 63 – To enjoy a vacation in Wisconsin GUY, 36 – To spend time with family at Disneyland LESLIE, 58 – To reunite with his family RONNIE, 45 – To vacation with his family BLAIR, 22 – To visit Universal Studios, FL BRUCE, 46 – To receive a visit from family and friends JERRY, 68 – To see his sons in Oklahoma DAVID, 54 – To attend the NASCAR Sprint Cup KELLY, 23 – To get a new iPad DEBBIE, 56 – To enjoy a day of beauty at a spa HELEN, 58 – To visit with her son and granddaughter DONNA, 64 – To fly her daughter out from California JOHN, 71 – To see relatives from Alabama GERALD, 64 – To spend time with family SHAWN, 44 – To take a trip to Disneyland DELBERT, 58 – To vacation with his family in Orlando JUD, 80 – To listen to a barbershop quartet DAWNA, 54 – To enjoy a trip to Disney World BEVERLY, 72 – To see her grandson DEBRA, 56 – To have a family reunion CLAIRE, 72 – To visit with her son and his family MICHELLE, 46 – To vacation at the Smoky Mountains DENNIS, 58 – To visit with family from Missouri WILLIAM, 64 – To spend time with family BRANDY, 27 – To vacation in Panama City Beach, FL STEVE, 52 – To attend a Beach Boys concert DANH, 55 – To take a trip to Hawaii RICK, 58 – To enjoy a new iPad ROBERT, 82 – To take a trip to Branson, MO STEPHANIE, 23 – To spend time at Disney World LARRY, 65 – To get a new TV and DVDs ANNA, 64 – To see her daughter from New Jersey JULIE, 53 – To take a family trip to Arizona ESPERANZA, 77 – To visit her daughter in Texas IMOGENE, 88 – To meet Barry Manilow JULIE, 49 – To go on a wilderness adventure LAUREN, 74 – To visit with her daughter NICOLAS, 25 – To visit Palm Springs with his family SUSAN, 54 – To enjoy a weekend getaway BEATRIZ, 78 – To travel to San Antonio
THOMAS, 57 – To take a trip to Las Vegas BARBARA, 38 – To relax in Cumberland State Park DOLORES, 82 – To receive a new laptop PATTY, 57 – To see her son in Denver KAMI, 37 – To have a relaxing vacation CHARLES, 55 – To visit Orlando AGNES, 88 – To meet George Clooney GAELYN, 59 – To take her family to Disneyland MINDEE, 37 – To have a fun time in Las Vegas JOANN, 71 – To reunite with her family AARON, 61 – To meet Julie Andrews FLORENCE, 67 – To spend time with her sister FRIDAY, 43 – To have a relaxing vacation in Florida BRENDA, 57 – To see her daughter from Arizona RONALD, 68 – To get a signed poster of Celine Dion BARBARA, 51 – To swim with dolphins in Orlando TERRY, 44 – To get a new laptop PEGGY, 71 – To meet Tony Stewart JESSICA, 29 – To enjoy a trip to Disney World DEBRA, 52 – To see the Florida Keys DONALD, 53 – To have a celebration of life CHARLENE, 82 – To see her daughter JERRY, 67 – To relax in Hawaii GLADIS, 35 – To take a trip to Disneyland BELINDA, 45 – To see her family for a weekend SILVIA, 50 – To receive help with Christmas presents SHAWN, 34 – To take a trip to Orlando JEANNE, 50 – To spend time with her sisters THOMAS, 74 – To see his daughter PEGGY, 50 – To have a fun trip to Disneyland RICHARD, 58 – To visit with his son THERESA, 81 – To vacation with her grandchildren DAVID, 50 – To receive a visit from his brother CHIRS, 61 – To see The Beatles LOVE in Las Vegas STEPHANIE, 34 – To take a family vacation JERRY, 71 – To get a powered wheelchair MONICA, 55 – To visit Santa Barbara DENNIS, 64 – To travel with his sons to Hawaii ROGER, 71 – To attend the Super Bowl RODNEY, 21 – To get a new laptop JULIE, 49 – To take a trip to Dollywood with family CHERYL LYNN, 49 – To vacation in San Diego LEE ROY, 74 – To see his grandson from Japan SARAH, 22 – To see Broadway shows DOROTHY, 55 – To receive a JCPenney gift card KARENA, 38 – To attend a New Orleans Saints game WERNER, 96 – To receive a visit from his niece ROSEMARY, 92 – To go out to lunch and ride in a limo JULIE, 44 – To take her children to see Peter Pan JEAN, 69 – To see her daughter and grandchildren EVON, 51 – To spend time at Disney World DAVID, 63 – To go fishing in Hawaii PATRICIA, 56 – To receive a Walmart gift card SAMUEL, 68 – To receive a futon and mattress GLORIA, 86 – To enjoy new planting materials SAMUEL, 42 – To see his sister and her family ROCHELLE, 52 – To spend time with relatives KATIE, 82 – To get a new washer and dryer YOUNG, 53 – To enjoy a family reunion LISA, 45 – To take a family trip to Disney World RAY, 63 – To visit with his sister and brother-in-law MARIA, 62 – To spend time with family at Disneyland TANYA STAR, 37 – To meet the Celtic Thunder singers JAMES, 59 – To receive a new laptop KAREN, 63 – To meet Barry Manilow in Las Vegas MARIA, 55 – To see her son ORLANDO, 48 – To attend a Detroit Pistons game RUBEN, 88 – To attend his wife’s funeral MICHAEL, 22 – To attend a Blink 182 concert JOYCE, 73 – To take a train ride with her daughter COREY, 24 – To host celebration of love ceremony
In Memory BRIAN, 53 – To enjoy a visit with his daughter ANNMARIE, 30 – To take a family trip to Orlando LEONA, 46 – To receive help with Christmas gifts CINDY, 49 – To enjoy a trip to Minnesota JAMES, 76 – To get a new hearing aid ALFRED, 80 – To visit with his daughter RENE, 48 – To take a trip to New Orleans LISA, 46 – To spend time with her daughters DUANE, 55 – To attend a Denver Broncos game ELVYN, 19 – To see his father and brother ELEANOR, 85 – To receive a new washer and dryer DELMA, 64 – To get a lift recliner JOSEPH, 57 – To visit his grandchildren JOHN, 80 – To receive help with auto repairs and utilities HORACE, 54 – To visit his brother in Florida CRYSTAL, 41 – To enjoy a trip to Orlando, FL MATTHEW, 35 – To spend time in Alaska CHARLIE, 89 – To get an electric wheelchair BETSIE, 70 – To meet vocalist Scotty McCreery BRENDA, 57 – To meet Oprah Winfrey WANDA, 51 – To visit with family in Indiana CHA KHA, 51 – To take a family trip to Disney World KAREN, 57 – To receive a visit from her daughter JOE, 50 – To take a trip to Las Vegas NICOLE, 19 – To meet the Jonas Brothers FLORENCE, 77 – To get a new laptop ANTONIO, 56 – To enjoy time with family at Disneyland JESSE, 37 – To spend time in Washington NANLENE, 71 – To take a trip to New York SCOTT, 46 – To receive a new scooter HEIDI, 53 – To visit with her daughter LONNIE, 61 – To take a trip with his grandson BRENDA, 48 – To stay at an oceanfront resort SIRUCE, 68 – To spend time in Hawaii SIDNEY, 48 – To visit Disney World LINDSAY, 26 – To relax on a Hawaiian vacation JEANINE, 57 – To get new art supplies C.L., 56 – To vacation in Santa Barbara CHARLENE, 72 – To go to Hawaii HAMEED, 59 – To visit with his son CHARLES, 55 – To take a family trip to Disney World FRANCISCO, 62 – To take a trip to Sea World
“Our trip made me realize my time is short. I put my home up for sale last Saturday. We are going full-time R.V. as soon as we sell. I’m going to follow my dream and live until I’m gone. Thank you for making this—I hope— not the last vacation.” – Pau l ,
dream recipient
Partners: CKE Restaurants, Inc., SeaWorld San Diego
PHYLLIS, 70 – To visit Columbus, OH DENNIS, 37 – To visit with his family DAVID, 51 – To spend time with his family PAMELA, 55 – To take a train tour of Savannah CARL, 42 – To vacation in Key West AMANDALYN, 31 – To enjoy a trip in Florida JOSE, 79 – To get a new laptop NANCY JO, 61 – To spend time with her daughter DANIEL, 59 – To relax in a forest cabin in Washington SHAREN-LEE, 62 – To take a trip to Oregon HAL, 63 – To reunite with his children RAYMOND, 61 – To receive a motorized scooter TIMOTHY, 51 – To take a family vacation in Florida CAROLYN, 57 – To visit with her sister KAREN, 48 – To receive a visit from her sister MARITRINY, 19 – To take a family trip to Disneyland MARY, 78 – To receive assistance with utility bills ROBERT, 56 – To visit family in Wyoming JANICE, 59 – To get two recliner sofas JUDITH, 76 – To visit her granddaughter in San Diego ROBERT, 35 – To enjoy a day trip HAROLD, 52 – To meet Cardinal Timothy Dolan JUANA, 75 – To get a new bedroom set JOHN, 71 – To attend a Cincinnati Reds game ANDREA, 34 – To take a trip to Disney World LORRETTA, 71 – To take a trip to Catalina Island STEPHEN, 41 – To enjoy a fun trip to Disneyland JENNIFER, 30 – To take a trip to Universal Studios EMANUEL, 77 – To go to Disney World JOY, 50 – To vacation in a beach home DEBRA, 53 – To take a fishing trip to Virginia Beach GWENDOLYN, 54 – To receive a new lift chair RODNEY, 57 – To enjoy a family reunion MARY-ANN, 48 – To take a trip to Disneyland NANCY, 78 – To visit her daughter in Utah JAMES, 55 – To get a portable air conditioner THEODORE, 47 – To get dentures ARTURO, 64 – To enjoy a family barbeque FRANCISCO, 71 – To receive an Xbox 360 JANICE, 65 – To have reunite with her grandson STEVE, 53 – To receive help with funeral expenses JOSEPH, 55 – To enjoy a vacation CHRIS, 75 – To vacation at Sea World BECKY, 61 – To enjoy a weekend at Myrtle Beach VIRGINIA, 53 – To take a trip to Hawaii DAVID, 69 – To visit his daughter in Arkansas SHIRLEY, 84 – To visit with her mother GRADY, 86 – To receive a lift chair HARRY, 73 – To receive a wheelchair ramp OFELIA, 42 – To attend an NBA game MARY, 47 – To get a new laptop JUSTINE, 27 – To have her family visit ROBERT, 65 – To visit his family in Texas MICHELLE, 57 – To take a family trip to Disneyland SCOTT, 52 – To enjoy a trip to Myrtle Beach SARAH, 81 – To visit with her daughter WENTAN, 21 – To receive a new computer DOBIE, 77 – To receive help with caregiver expenses PEGGY, 74 – To take a trip to Niagara Falls MARY, 44 – To receive help with funeral expenses ANNIE, 69 – To see gospel singer Lee Williams BILLY, 54 – To get a new laptop KATHERINE, 40 – To ride the train to the Grand Canyon DAVID, 62 – To take a family trip to Disney World HOLLIS, 63 – To visit with her children FLORA, 87 – To receive a new washer and dryer ARTHUR, 61 – To have a family reunion MARY, 84 – To spend time with her daughter MEGAN, 24 – To take a trip to Universal Studios LORIE, 51 – To enjoy a trip to South Carolina SHARON, 55 – To meet Kevin Costner TONY, 83 – To receive help with funeral expenses JUDITH, 67 – To meet Loretta Lynn DORINA, 48 – To take a family trip to Disneyland MICHAEL, 25 – To receive a new television ALISON, 40 – To enjoy a family trip to Florida
“What is it like living with a mom with MS? Well, it’s not always easy. But at least I have a mom who can still talk to me, interact with me and be there for me. There are many kids who have lost their mom at an early age, so I feel blessed to have her whether she has this disease or not. The point is—my mom loves me no matter what, and I wouldn’t trade that for the world.” – Ly n n e a ,
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daughter of dream recipient, Linda
Partners: Genentech, United Airlines, Walt Disney World Resort
WILLIAM, 71 – To receive a wheelchair ramp STEPHEN, 56 – To meet NASCAR driver Carl Edwards STEPHEN, 57 – To see his daughter and grandchildren GALE, 50 – To spend time with her mother HILDA, 48 – To meet Kobe Bryant DORIS, 44 – To take a family trip to Disney World CATHERINE, 72 – To visit with her family VULCAIN, 86 – To see his son and daughter-in-law MARY, 44 – To receive a motorized scooter JULIE, 53 – To create photo albums for her children ALVIN, 33 – To take a trip to Florida JEFFREY, 41 – To vacation in the Florida Keys DON, 72 – To get a motorized lift chair MARK, 47 – To stay at an oceanside resort JAVIER, 21 – To meet basketball star David Robinson MATT, 30 – To meet former NFL player Bernie Kosar PEGGY, 59 – To take a trip to Disney World RENAY, 46 – To vacation in Florida KAMALA, 49 – To spend time on the coast in Florida EDITH, 53 – To give her grandchildren a nice Christmas COREY, 37 – To take a trip to Disneyland DAVID, 48 – To enjoy time at Sea World MITTIE, 57 – To spend time with her children JENNY, 70 – To visit with her friend AVION, 73 – To see his daughter after 37 years FERNANDO, 89 – To receive a reclining sofa GUADALUPE, 78 – To visit with his family ODILA, 80 – To spend time with her sister RICHARD, 68 – To see pastor Joel Osteen preach PATRICIA, 69 – To have a special dinner ERMA, 65 – To visit her son in Washington ROOSEVELT, 45 – To visit with family from the Bahamas
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Dreams Come True
“Tony spent yesterday walking on air. It was like he was a completely different person. This trip was—without a doubt—the best thing that has ever happened to him. The people at Storm Products, Inc. were incredible. They showered him with attention. Thanks to all who made Tony’s dream a reality!” – S tac e y,
wife of dream recipient, Anthony
Partners: Genentech, Southwest Airlines
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Felix leads the San Francisco 49ers huddle after practice. He was invited into the huddle, where he roared with his new friends his favorite 49ers slogan, “WHO’S GOT IT BETTER THAN US? NOBODY!!”
First Visit to the Beach Joseph, a 49-year-old grandfather, was diagnosed with stage four colon cancer in 2010. After battling the disease for two years, the chemotherapy failed and he ran out of treatment options. He dreamed of a Father’s Day weekend getaway to San Diego, where he’d see the ocean for the first time. He, his daughters, sons-in-law and grandchildren were welcomed by the San Diego Marriott Marquis & Marina, where Joseph was able to relax and relish in the constant view of the water he always longed to see. The family visited SeaWorld San Diego and had their first-ever professional photo shoot. “Thank you for letting me see my grandchildren play in the ocean,” Joseph said. “Our first time at the beach was even better because we were all together.”
PHOTO: Corey Villicana Photography
A loyal San Francisco 49ers fan, 22-yearold Felix dreamed of meeting the NFL team and attending a home game at Candlestick Park. “Knowing I have cancer does not stop me from my hopes and dreams,” he said. The young man had been a survivor since August 2008, successfully battling Ewing’s Sarcoma. Then two years later, he was diagnosed with a rare form of lung cancer. Amid treatments and hospitalizations, Felix had not missed a single, televised 49ers game in more than four years. Just in time for the team’s appearance in the 2013 NFC Divisional game, Felix’s dream came true. Thanks to longtime partners, the San Francisco 49ers and its nonprofit community funding extension, Felix enjoyed a VIP tour of the training facility and received an autographed jersey and other memorabilia. He met the players, ate lunch with Coach Jim Harbaugh, watched practice from the sidelines, and joined the huddle. Two days later, Felix rejoined the team on the field once more, wishing them luck in that night’s NFC Divisional game against the Green Bay Packers. With Felix in the stands, his team won the game and advanced one step closer to the Super Bowl.
PHOTO: Kym Fortino
For the Love of the Game
Joseph’s daughter and son-in-law lead him down to touch the ocean for the very first time.
Dreams Come True Melissa “Melly,” 20, was diagnosed with Ewing’s Sarcoma and had only weeks to live. Growing up in Southern California, she’d always had a special connection to the beach— especially the golden expanse along the property of the iconic Hotel del Coronado. She remembered being healthy, strong and carefree… walking along the sand with her family, swimming in the ocean with friends. When her time became limited and “bad” days began outnumbering the “good,” Melly dreamt of returning to her special place, creating new memories, and—for the first time—actually staying at the beautiful hotel. For two nights she and her family enjoyed oceanfront rooms and a private bonfire, among other special goodies. They received a sunset photo shoot and an abundant gift basket with certificates to Melly’s favorite restaurants. Her Coronado weekend far surpassed her wildest dreams, giving her and her loved ones the chance to let go of their pain and heartache… and enjoy a special time together. OTHER Partner: KSL Resorts
PHOTO: Corey Villicana Photography
The Touchstone of Home
Christian with his daughter, Bethany.
Smiles, Surf and Snorkels
PHOTO: COREY VILLICANA PHOTOGRAPHY
Paul Wheatley Photography
Prior to his diagnosis with Ewing’s Sarcoma in 2009, Christian, a 39-year-old father of two, had been active and healthy with a passion for surfing. Over the course of three years, his disease had spread to his lungs and became inoperable. Faced with a limited prognosis, he had a final dream to fulfill a promise he’d made to his family years before: taking them to the beautiful waters and perfect conditions of Maui to snorkel, surf and have happy times together. The young man’s dream came true thanks to round-trip airfare from Alaska Airlines and a stay at a relative’s home on the island. “Cancer affects our entire family, not just me,” Christian said on their return. “We’d all been under enormous stress. The trip brought my children together and allowed them to grow, change and appreciate one another in a way that was impossible before.”
Melly embraced by the love and comfort of her family.
OTHER Partner: GENENTECH
“I do believe it is having dreams that keeps us alive. The memories that are now part of me are simply priceless, and I will cherish them for the rest of my life.” – J oA n n,
wife of dream recipient, DAVID
Help Us Make Dreams Come True There are so many ways you can help. Visit our Dream Boutique on pages 12-13.
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Dreams Come True
Lions and Tigers and Bears!
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PHOTO: Corey Villicana Photography
A single mother of four and grandma to one, 46-year-old Maria had been battling breast cancer when—despite multiple chemotherapy treatments—she developed brain metastasis as well. Devoted to her family, Maria worked tirelessly to make sure their days and routines were as normal as possible. Her one dream was for a special getaway full of happy moments and the opportunity to ignite her children’s passion for creativity by showing them a new city and wild animals from around the world. They enjoyed several relaxing days by the ocean, thanks to Dana Horne Vacation Rentals, and fun outings to SeaWorld San Diego and San Diego Zoo. Her favorite part of the trip was watching her children enjoy themselves and getting a break from her treatment. Maria said, “Thank you for giving us so much. It was the chance to be free from hospitals and to leave memories for my children.” OTHER Partner: HASBRO
The Bacara Resort & Spa provided a rejuvenating and gorgeous backdrop for Amee’s dream.
Perfect Getaway
PHOTO: Will Hart/NBC
Maria emanates pure joy.
While fighting a losing battle with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma, 19-year-old Amee dreamed to escape her daily struggles and get away to the coast with one person who had stood by her side since her initial diagnosis four years earlier—her loving boyfriend, Jamey.
“This time last year I was told I wouldn’t live to make it out of the hospital again, but because of the opportunities you gave me, my life turned around. Everything from the set of Law & Order: SVU was a highlight. I couldn’t believe I was actually there. I’m still dealing with most of the same medical problems and I’m not out of the woods, but I feel so much more fulfilled.”
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DREAM RECIPIENT
Partner: Delta Air Lines, Genentech, Hilton Grand Vacations Club dreamfoundation.org
The young couple decided Santa Barbara would be the perfect destination—and Dream Foundation’s founding community came together to embrace them. The Bacara Resort & Spa was the perfect backdrop to warm beaches and stunning sunsets. Amee’s wish to wear a beautiful gown and have a romantic dinner came true thanks to David’s Bridal, which outfitted her for the occasion. “I felt like a celebrity with all the pampering,” she wrote afterwards. “I’d never felt more beautiful.” Their memories were preserved with a professional, sunset photo shoot on the beach. She continued, “Thank you for making this beautiful weekend a perfect getaway for us.”
Above & Beyond: A Corporate Partnership at Work Dream Foundation is fortunate to have the active support of individuals and companies across the country that apply their niches, talents and audiences in support of dreams. CKE Restaurants, Inc.—parent company of Carl’s Jr.® and Hardee’s® brands—is a longtime Partner in Dreams. In 2013, CKE Restaurants officially expanded its Stars for Heroes™ partnership with Dream Foundation, choosing the organization as a national beneficiary. The Stars for Heroes fundraising campaign harnesses the national reach of both the Carl’s Jr. and Hardee’s brands and the generosity of its customers, franchisees and company employees to rally behind the nation’s military families, veterans and communities. Funds raised during the campaign go to assist military heroes through national charity partnerships as well as through select regional charities with the same mission and ties to Carl’s Jr. and Hardee’s restaurant communities. Since its creation in 2011, the Stars for Heroes fundraising campaign has raised close to $2 million for military families, communities and veterans. For more information or to donate to the campaign, visit Stars for Heroes on Facebook at www.facebook.com/StarsforHeroes.
The Carl’s Jr. Star Diner adds an element of tasty fun to Olyn’s family camping dream.
Dream recipient Dave and his relatives enjoy a festive and hearty lunch at Carl’s Jr.—hosted by the franchise—as part of their family reunion week together.
The partnership between CKE and Dream Foundation—specifically how it works to enhance the dream experience for dreamers and their families—is often highlighted in the media in feature and human interest stories.
After hosting a dream family in his Carl’s Jr. franchise, District Manager Carlos Guevara (Franchisee, TWM Industries) shares some touching words and photographs recapping his team’s experience. Dream Foundation is fortunate for these glimpses into the partnership at work and shares the recaps using Facebook and other social media.
Do you have a volunteer idea? We’d love to hear from you! Email michelle.hunter@dreamfoundation.org or visit www.dreamfoundation.org/volunteer
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How You Can Help DRE AM FOUNDATION has established new and meaningful avenues by which to support the families we serve while emphasizing and sharing your belief in a final wish. Celebrations, holidays, special acknowledgments, innovative events and/or thoughtful hostess gifts: Dream Foundation has you covered.
Seed Card Acknowledgments: Blooms will share in the memory
Make a contribution in honor of someone special and Dream Foundation will send you—or a selected recipient—this plantable “seed card.” Whether it is a gesture of remembrance, a sympathy note or a acknowledgment of a happy celebration, this card and contribution make for the perfect gift. (Requires minimum contribution of $25.)
Coming SOON: Dream Bingo! Festive fundraiser in a box Recognizing that every intention to help is a tremendous gift to our organization, we wanted to provide our cherished supporters with the tools to make dreams happen. That’s why we created Dream Bingo!, a fundraiser in a box! All you need to do is become a fundraising member of Dream Foundation with a $25 donation, and we’ll send you your Dream Bingo kit, which includes everything needed for your event: rules of the game, bingo cards, bingo numbers, etc. (except we spell out DREAM instead of BINGO!)
Dream Bingo is “one size fits all”—scaled up or down to suit the host’s preference. It can be an added twist to a swanky cocktail gala, a staff retreat, or backyard barbecue. Contact our office for more information: 805-564-2131.
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How You Can Help
Let dream be your theme Dreams look good on you! Our new merchandise logo features the symbolic dandelion and a gentle breeze propelling wishes. By donning this message (and stylish design) you are not only spreading the word about Dream Foundation, you’re making dreams come true for adults with lifethreatening illness.
“Dream on” soft cotton, pre-washed shirt, $16.95; canvas eco bag (green and dreamy!), $6.95; vanilla fragrance candle, $8.95. Merchandise manufacturer donates 20% of all sales to dreams.
www.dreamfoundation.org/where-to-shop please donate online » you can also use the envelope here
Let’s “band” together in the name of wishes… ...”wrist band” that is. Dream Foundation has several chic jewelry designers—including Adesso, Stoney Clover Lane, and Annabel Martin/DREAM FOR 21—who apply their compassion and style to dreams. You can collect and stack them all! We like to refer to them as “love cuffs.”
From left, Stoney Clover Lane “Clair Set,” $100 (25% of all their beaded line goes to dreams); Adesso beaded wing-charm bracelet with blue recycled bottle glass, $35 (100% of proceeds to dreams); Annabel Martin’s DREAM FOR 21 bracelet, $21 (100% of proceeds to dreams).
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Planned Giving
Legacy of Dreams
We Are Grateful
As a friend of Dream Foundation, you have already been touched and moved by our mission—and as always, we are grateful for your generous support. You can help build our future strength and sustainability by becoming a member of our “Legacy of Dreams.” If you remember Dream Foundation in your will or revocable trust, you will leave a legacy that will continue our important work far into the future. Bequests of every size build our financial strength and sustainability.
for those who are building a “Legacy of Dreams” by including Dream Foundation in their estate plans:
Planned Giving Donors Andrew and Elizabeth Butcher Richard Cazen, M.D. Estate
You can include us in your estate plans by: • Including Dream Foundation in your will or living trust • Designating Dream Foundation as a beneficiary of your retirement or pension plan • Designating Dream Foundation as a beneficiary of your life insurance policy • Establishing a Dream Foundation Charitable Gift Annuity • Making a gift of $25,000 or more to the Dream Endowment Fund Please contact me—(805) 564-2131, ext. 103 or carol@dreamfoundation.org—to discuss what you can do and/or request specific bequest language to share with your attorney. You may also visit www.dreamfoundation.org and reference How to Help/Leave a Legacy. On behalf of our dream recipients and their families, thank you.
Marilyn Cole-Shatz Daphne Cooper Living Trust Scott and Debbie Cuzenz Charlotte Doyle Davis Trust Ted Dolas Tracy Greene Estate Anette LaHough Trust Joel Scott Landson Nora McNeely-Hurley Charles and Esther Mylnek Trust Thomas Rollerson and Michael Erickson Bernie and Lori Sandler
Carol Brown Vice President Administration & Finance
Steven E. Shulem Kenny and Elizabeth Slaught
Our Planned Giving Advisory Council offers expert guidance to Dream Foundation’s Planned Giving Program Cary Biren
Patricia Snyder
Wells Hughes
Mary Ellen Tiffany
Christopher Jones
Kendall Van Conas
Gamble Parks
Greg Van Wyk
Jerry and Eleanor Smith Laurie Vandeberghe Diana Wilson
Dream Endowment Fund Donors Betty and Chuck Cluff Daphne Cooper Living Trust Donna Dixon and Dan Aykroyd
2013 Tax Saving Opportunity The American Taxpayer Relief Act of 2012 extends the IRA Charitable Rollover through December 31, 2013. The IRA Charitable Rollover permits individuals ages 70 ½ or older to direct distributions of up to $100,000 from their IRA directly to a qualified charity to exclude the payout from their gross income. An IRA rollover gift qualifies for your 2013 required minimum distribution, permitting you to lower your income and taxes for this year while helping Dream Foundation or another charity.
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The Michael Douglas Foundation Chris and Maryann Edgecomb Joel and May Eisenberg Marcia Gay Harden Audrey Knight Stephen and Angie Redding Paul and Leslie Ridley-Tree The Norris-Rocaberte Family Foundation
Dream Backers
What motivates compassion? What inspires service? At Dream Foundation we have learned it is often a very personal experience that spurs individuals to support our programs. Perhaps it’s witnessing the life-affirming impact of palliative care with a parent or loved one. Or maybe it comes from caregiver perspective... seeing firsthand how the simplest resources can improve one’s last days. The soul of Dream Foundation is comprised of the voices who support us and back us. We want to share their words with you.
“I support Dream Foundation because I have a heart for hospice care. Dream Foundation provides an additional depth of service and support to those with lifethreatening illnesses. Also, Thomas and his caring staff are extremely dedicated to the foundation’s mission.” Richard Burnham Board of Directors, Dream Makers Circle member and contributor
“I do this because if there is anything—just anything—I can do to bring some measure of joy, happiness and good memories to someone who truly needs it, I feel a huge amount of satisfaction.” Pete Hammond Dream Makers Circle member and contributor
“I have been involved with Dream Foundation for 12 years and have personally seen the happiness a dream recipient and her family felt when they received her dream. They never would have experienced this final wish if it hadn’t been for Dream Foundation.” Vienna Salazar Dream Makers Circle member and contributor
Staff Thomas Rollerson
Nani Oesterle
Founder/President
Part-time Grant Writer
Carol Brown
Kristy Raihn
Vice President Administration & Finance
Part-time Outreach Coordinator
Valerie Banks
Sonia Salazar
Flower Empower Coordinator
Data Entry Manager
Shersy Benson
“The Dream Foundation story is such a perfect example of how a vision from the heart can truly change the world for good. That you have made such a success of this foundation inspires us to carry on and learn more ways to build our dream. Thank you for blessing the lives of our dear residents. With those gifts you gave, they were each able to find the final gift of peace we all seek.” Teresa Wolf Our Community House of Hope Hospice
Dream Coordinator
Stefani Canin-Mullen
Barbara Schoch Vice President Program
Rachel Stelle Receptionist
Part-time Events & Projects Director
Kelly Sweda
Trish Cantillon
Communications Manager
Part-time Special Projects Manager
Cindy Hellriegel Finance Manager
Adam Lichtenstein
Lori Thiel Dream Coordinator
Kaitlyn Turner Dream Coordinator
Katrina Viola
Part-time Website Manager
Dream Coordinator
Michelle Hunter
Jackie Waddill
Director of Volunteer Services
Donor Relations Manager
Emily Mullranin
Would you like to become more involved? Please contact Jackie@dreamfoundation.org
In-kind Resources Manager
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Awareness in the Media We are grateful to the national media for bringing awareness to those we serve—allowing them to share stories that may never otherwise be told, and helping other families in need find their way to our service.
Lake County Record-Bee
Painting through the pain
By Jeremy Walsh | April 18, 2012 “Another goal of hers was to host an art show. ‘She takes each new limitation and finds a way to overcome and adapt,’ her social worker said, crediting the assistance of Dream Foundation.”
The Desert Sun
Palm Desert resident chases one last dream before his time runs out
Tempe students work on van to grant terminally ill woman’s wish By Dianna M. Náñez | May 24, 2012 Most years, Larry Huff teaches students in his high school auto mechanic class about engines, alternators and transmissions. This spring, Huff said his Corona High School students got a “lesson in humanity.” A couple of months ago, Huff’s phone rang. It was a call that he said has changed his students’ and his outlook on life. The Dream Foundation, which grants wishes for people facing life-threatening illnesses, got wind of Huff’s high school auto class and thought, if the Tempe teacher was willing, his class might be the key to making an Apache Junction woman’s dream come true. Huff said his first thought—before the foundation explained what 62-year-old Vickie Hull’s dream was—What could a retired military man turned high school auto teacher possess that would help grant a stranger’s wish? Hospice of Arizona referred Hull to the California-based foundation after she was given six months to live due to end-stage chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, one of the most common lung diseases. Hull’s wish was simple: fix her broken down van so that she could remain as independent as possible during her final months. The vehicle is her lifeline for medical appointments, the grocery store and other chores that would seem mundane to most but mean the world to Hull. Huff was blown away by the opportunity. “Oh, yeah, I said, ‘Yes.’ To think my kids could help. I could help her with something she needs so badly. It was pretty special.” But he had no idea what a challenge re-
Vickie watches a Corona High School teacher and two of his students work on her gold Dodge Grand Caravan on May 24, 2012. PHOTO: Charlie Leight/The Republic
pairing her old Dodge Caravan would be. He realized the first hurdle when he met Hull in March to pick up the van from her home. The transmission, which needed to be rebuilt or replaced, was not coming out the top of the engine. But he took one look at Hull. Her eyes lit up when he came to pick up her van. He was inspired to get the vehicle running again. “I made a commitment, and I was going to keep it,” he said. About a month into the project, the class thought they were done. The transmission was in, and the engine was running. Nico Kittredge, 18, was especially pleased with the accomplishment, Huff said. Kittredge, an Eagle Scout, volunteered to stay after school to help Huff get the van back to Hull. But when they took the van for a spin, it would not shift properly. Huff called a Phoenix business, Automatic Transmission Experts, for advice. “They were so great,” Huff said. “When they heard about what we were doing, they said, ‘Bring it on in and we’ll look at it for free.’ “ The business fixed the transmission, and Huff took it back to fix the air conditioning and get the van in tip-top shape. On Tuesday, the students’ last day of class, Hull was coming to pick up her baby…
Additional features ran in the East Valley Tribune and the Wrangler News
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By Bill Marchese | May 3, 2012 “He even taught himself to read music, but he never mastered a complete song. What happened next is the assembly of a dream team helping Arne fulfill the top item on his bucket list.”
The Cranberry Eagle
Dying woman, 72, gets visit from her son thanks to donations
By Bob Schultz | May 16, 2012 “Through donated flight vouchers from Southwest Airlines, Dream Foundation provided the airfare for Robert to be by his mother’s bedside, flying him out on Saturday.”
Winter Haven News Chief
Couple going to Keys, thanks to Dream Foundation
By Mary Hurst | May 19, 2012 “They have paid hotel accommodations, gift certificates and a check to cash. ‘This is a wonderful opportunity,’ Schwartz said. ‘It’s great that we’re able to do this.’”
The Ledger
Terminally Ill Man Gets Trip to Niagara
By Mary Hurst | May 30, 2012 “The terminally ill veteran and his wife are leaving Monday on their second honeymoon—five days and four nights paid for by the Dream Foundation and Hardee’s Food Systems Inc.” A second feature ran in the Winter Haven News Chief
KPHO
AZ father with terminal cancer gets dream fulfilled to visit ocean
By Matt Longdon | June 8, 2012 “An Avondale father is fulfilling his dream of visiting the ocean. The trip will be the first time the avid fisherman or his family have seen the ocean.”
Awareness in the Media KPHO
Dying man receives life’s dream
By Molly McKone | June 20, 2012 “As the leader of the Pulmonary Hypertension Association, he will be getting the opportunity to attend the group’s conference in Orlando [to] ‘say my goodbyes to all my friends and peers.’” A second feature ran in the Daily News-Sun
The Republican
Janet Parent of Easthampton is Granted a Disney Vacation from the Dream Foundation
By Jim Kinney | July 19, 2012 “A family living with cancer will get a chance to spend four days at three Orlando theme parks. ‘We have gone through so much in the last two years. It has been filled with blessings of people loving us.’” A second feature ran on WGGB
WPXI
Man with cancer turns 300 bowling ball into urn
Dream Foundation fulfills wish for lifelong Pirates fan
By Stephen Nesbitt | June 23, 2012 PITTSBURGH – It might be Jon Gracey’s final trip to the ballpark. He knows that. He’s lived the last five years with a ticking clock, knowing every day could be his last.
Jon is honored on the field before the start of the game Friday against Detroit at PNC Park.
Gracey, 49, is in Pittsburgh with his kids — PHOTO: John Heller/Post-Gazette twin daughters, Erin and Haley, and son, Nathan—to attend two Pirates games in a luxury suite during a four-day vacation gifted by Dream Foundation, a California-based organization that funds a wish for individuals with a life expectancy of a year or less remaining. Gracey, a longtime IBM salesman, was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in 2007. It’s not a cancer you can beat, he said, but that doesn’t mean you can’t fight it. “I won’t just sit here and let it take me,” Gracey said. When asked his wish, Gracey said he hoped to spend a weekend in Pittsburgh, taking his kids to PNC Park for the first time… PARTNERS: Genentech, Pittsburgh Pirates Additional features ran in the Post-Gazette and The Sentinel
August 9, 2012 “Tony will use as an urn, the ball with which he bowled his only 300 game. The ball was customized so that his wife can place his ashes inside.”
Cadillac News
Race fan witnesses Earnhardt Jr. win
By Mardi Suhs | August 22, 2012 “With Childs in attendance Dale Earnhardt, Jr. won his first NASCAR race in four years.”
WTOP August 24, 2012 “A single mother, Kym has relied on the care-taking abilities of her 8-year-old daughter and 11-year-old son. The trip is her chance to treat her children to an unforgettable vacation.”
Erie Times News
Hardy: DeGeneres’ ‘saucy optimism’ is tonic for courageous local woman By Nell Hardy | October 6, 2012
“It was a dreamlike sequence of events and a glorious freedom. To see the same set that I usually view from my living room was indeed a dreamy experience.”
Daily American
Foundation makes dream for ocean vacation come true
By Alyssa Choiniere | October 23, 2012 “As soon as they left for Ocean City, their problems seemed to disappear. Debbie’s wish was fulfilled when she saw dolphins in the ocean.”
Foundation making dreams come true for those facing death
By Jane Ann Morrison | May 5, 2012 LAS VEGAS – Everyone’s heard of Make-A-Wish Foundation, but I had never heard of the Dream Foundation, which makes dying wishes come true for adults 18 and older. Then I met two women Thursday whose dreams were to come to Las Vegas, probably for the last time. One was a mother of three who made a Las Vegas trip her dream so that she could see her children swim with the dolphins at The Mirage. Mindee, 37, of Salt Lake City, crafted a wish that would make her children happy. The second woman was Connie, 53, of Fort Morgan, Colo., whose wish was to come to Las Vegas with her best friend of 10 years, Loretta Dunn, a trip they had long talked about, a celebration of friendship.
Mindee and her son with their new dolphin friend at Siegfried & Roy’s Secret Garden & Dolphin Habitat.
This week, the foundation fulfilled those Vegas dreams of making memories with family and friends, aided by MGM Resorts International, which partnered with the foundation for the first time this year… PARTNER: MGM Resorts International, Southwest Airlines
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Teen fighting cancer sees wish granted June 7, 2012 MORENO VALLEY, Calif. — A Moreno Valley teenager fighting cancer had a wish fulfilled this week. Representatives of the Dream Foundation and corporate partner, 72andSunny, visited the home of Dominic, who wanted a computer so he can continue his college coursework in computer-aided drafting from home. Jennifer Hires of Dream Foundation helps Deaja Goodrich, one of Dominic’s brothers, unpack a computer given to Dominic, wearing cap at botton left. The foundation fulfilled the Moreno Valley 18-year-old’s wish to continue his college coursework in drafting from home. Dominic had taken a leave of absence as he battles brain cancer. Contributed Image
Dominic took a leave of absence because of his illness. He has been diagnosed with end-stage brain cancer and given a prognosis of six months or less, according to the foundation.
“This has changed my life from a good dream to a nightmare,” he wrote in an application letter to the foundation. With regular hospital visits, limited mobility, strained vision and fatigue, Dominic acknowledged it would be easy to neglect his studies, but instead wrote, “I’m not gonna let this battle stop me from my dream!” PARTNERS: Genentech, 72andSunny, Activision
Blooming lovely! Katy Perry is at her curvy best for Celebration of Dreams Gala
My Monty Archibald | November 19, 2012 “She is a dream girl for a whole generation. So it is only fitting Katy Perry was a vision of loveliness at the 11th Annual Celebration of Dreams Gala.” Additional coverage in OK! USA, Santa Barbara News-Press, US Weekly, Noozhawk, Santa Barbara Seasons, Santa Barbara Independent, Montecito Journal, Santa Barbara Sentinel, CASA Magazine
WHIZ-TV
Dying Wish
By Katie McGraw | January 2, 2013 “Tabor is scheduled to travel to California to go to The Ellen Degeneres Show. ‘She makes people laugh and is funny. I like her a lot. I watch her every day.’”
Contra Costa Times
Richmond cancer patient’s dream comes true
By Gary Peterson | January 12, 2013 “Vargas, a lifelong 49ers fan, attended Saturday night’s playoff game courtesy of the 49ers and the Santa Barbara-based Dream Foundation.” A second feature ran on SFGate.com
“If tomorrow or today would be my last I could only say I have had everything in life.” – D o lo r e s ,
dream recipient
“Words cannot convey the joy you brought my mother by reuniting her with the grandson she hadn’t seen in over a year.” – DEBBIE, daughter of dream recipient, Beverly
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Awareness in the Media Architect major inspired by Wright, Fallingwater
By Mary Pickels | June 30, 2012
California organization helps fulfill dream trip for Cuyahoga Falls man diagnosed with cancer
By Tonya Sams | April 25, 2012 CUYAHOGA FALLS, Ohio – The Coughlin family needed a break from reality, and thanks to Dream Foundation, they are headed to Disney World. Bill and wife Sarah had always planned to take their daughters Riley, 9, and Payton, 7, but wanted to do it at a time when they were old enough to appreciate and enjoy it. But when Bill was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer in November, that time was now.
Charles Huizar, 21, of Austin Texas, and a sophomore Architectural Engineer major at University of Texas at Austin, photographed at Frank Lloyd Wright’s Fallingwater in Mill Run on Tuesday, June 19, 2012. PHOTO: Evan R. Sanders /Tribune-Review
MILL RUN, Penn. – This spring, Charles Huizar opened a fortune cookie and read the message inside: “Your dearest wish will come true.”
Bill and Sarah Coughlin hold their daughters Riley, 9, left, and Payton, 7, at their home in Cuyahoga Falls on Wednesday. Bill, 33, was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer and has been granted a wish by Dream Foundation to go to Disney World in May. PHOTO: Lisa DeJong, The Plain Dealer
“I was scared, terrified,” he said. “I didn’t know what to expect, where to go from there.” “It’s been an emotional roller coaster,” Sarah said. “Our lives have been turned upside down forever. He deserves something to look forward to.” The family will make their dream trip in a few weeks, just in time for Bill Coughlin’s 34th birthday… PARTNERS: Walt Disney World Resort, The Rogers Company, CKE A second feature ran in the Cuyahoga Falls News-Press
Weeks earlier, the architectural engineering student learned that he would visit Fallingwater, his favorite Frank Lloyd Wright-designed building. He so enjoyed the irony that he carries the small slip of paper to this day, tucked inside a travel folder detailing his visit on Tuesday to the National Historic Landmark in Fayette County. Huizar, 21, is a sophomore studying architectural engineering at the University of Texas at Austin. He said the works of Frank Lloyd Wright, architect of the famous home built over a waterfall, inspired his career choice. Huizar received a private tour of the house, built between 1936-38 as a vacation home for the Edgar J. Kaufmann family of Pittsburgh. Huizar‘s “dearest wish” was granted by Dream Foundation, a California organization that grants wishes for adults with life-threatening illnesses and their families… PARTNERS: UNITED Airlines, Community Care Network
Visit the Adopt a Dream page on our website to see dream stories in progress and donate to a specific dream.
“I shall dream of these perfect moments: holding my daughter’s hand and walking in the sun, the taste of a very ripe peach, the climb or walk I thought I could no longer make, and the love of the people who made my dream come true. I will dream of life and love and profound gratitude.” – RONNIE,
dream recipient
Partners: GENENTECH, ALASKA AIRLINES
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Events May 16, 2012
2011/2012 Flower Empower program sponsors, Andrew & Ivana Firestone, Angie Redding, and Harold & Annette Simmons, were honored at a gathering of more than 150 at the Montecito home of longtime supporters, Robin & Roger Himovitz. Guests enjoyed an outdoor lunch in a lush George Washington Smith garden setting and a silent auction—with all proceeds benefitting the Flower Empower program. Local artist, Cynthia Burt, painted a rendering of the Himovitz’s home, which appeared on the event invitation and as a gift to the hosts. Flowers were provided by Ever-bloom, B & H Flowers, Inc., Maximum Nursery and Westland Floral, with centerpieces by Blue Magnolia, Grass Roots, Kaleidoscope Flowers and S.R. Hogue & Company. KEYT’s Paula Lopez and Alan Rose served as emcees. Thank you to event co-chairs, Lynette Hall and Shelley Schulte, and committee members, Valerie Banks, Jodie Fishman-Osti, Robin Himovitz, Amie Parrish and Alan Rose. A special acknowledgment to Behind the Scenes, Classic Party Rentals, Corey Villicana Photography, Florabundance, Fresco Café Five Points and Omni Fresco Catering. Event sponsors included The Rudi Schulte Family Foundation, Adesso Atelier, Nora McNeely-Hurley in honor of the “Fab Four” (Marla McNally Phillips, Jano Stack, Tammy Hughes and Roxanna Solakian), The Pattis Family Foundation, Hollye Jacobs, Kim Kieler, Clay Dickens, Wells Hughes, Martial Arts Family Fitness, El Capitan Canyon, Thomas Rollerson & Michael Erickson, and Visiting Nurse and Hospice Care of Santa Barbara.
PHOTO: Baron Spafford
Second Annual Flower Empower Luncheon
Flower Empower Luncheon guests enjoying a festive afternoon.
October 19, 2012
Celebration of Dreams Launch Event Celebration of Dreams event co-chairs, Jelinda DeVorzon, Mireille Noone and Bui Simon, hosted a private launch event at the historic Arcady Pavilion in Montecito to honor Dream Makers Circle members and past event supporters. The evening included an awards presentation, cocktails and hors d’oeuvres compliments of Lucky’s steakhouse, a live and silent auction, Rolls Royce and Bentley vehicles on display (courtesy of event presenter, O’Gara Coach Westlake), saxophone accompaniment by Justin Christopher Ward and a surprise musical performance by American Idol finalist, Haley Reinhart. Event sponsors included Santa Barbara Magazine, Lucky’s and Sacks Productions. Special thanks to Alice Willfong for lending her exquisite home for the occasion.
The Get Hitched, Give Hope board and committee celebrating at the Four Seasons Hotel Seattle. PHOTO: La Vie Photography
November 8, 2012
Get Hitched, Give Hope
For the second year, Seattle’s most philanthropic wedding professionals came together with over 500 brides and grooms to support Dream Foundation. Held at the beautiful Four Seasons Hotel Seattle, the 5th Annual Get Hitched, Give Hope event (GHGH) boasted a vintage circus theme filled with tasty treats, innovative entertainment and whimsical décor—as well as lively silent and live auctions. With the pop of confetti canons and cheers from the crowd, the GHGH team announced that— with the help of volunteers, generous vendors and sponsors, and the success of numerous fundraising efforts—they had raised more than $100,000 to benefit Dream Foundation and another Seattlebased charity. Thank you Barbie Hull and Christopher Smith and the entire Get Hitched, Give Hope team! www.gethitchedgivehope.com At left: Thomas Rollerson and homeowner, Alice Willfong, with Celebration of Dreams co-chairs, Mireille Noone, Bui Simon and Jelinda Devorzon. PHOTO: Baron Spafford
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November 18, 2012
The Youth Advisory Council (YAC) participated in many volunteer programs this year, including special Flower Empower activities, school fundraisers and their 3rd Annual Holiday Trunk Show, which was held at the historic Santa Barbara home of supporters, Anne Marie & Grant Castleberg. A special thank you to the wonderful vendors who donated their time and resources to the event: Adesso Atelier, Camille K, Jessica Foster Confections, Jules Allen, Pascale’s Kitchen and Solvang Bakery. YAC’s commitment to fundraising for dreams extended throughout the Santa Barbara community and on the following high schools campuses: Bishop Garcia Diego, Dos Pueblos, Laguna Blanca, Santa Barbara and San Marcos.
Dream Foundation held its 11th Annual Celebration of Dreams event at the Bacara Resort & Spa in Santa Barbara. Special recognition was paid to the families of Dream Foundation, as well as Nigel Lythgoe and Katy Perry, who were honored with the prestigious Founder’s Humanitarian Award. Their awards were presented by Randy Jackson and Jane Lynch, respectively.
Youth Advisory Council 11th Annual Celebration of Dreams
The evening included performances Thank you to our event chairs and honorees. by The Tenors and American Idol L-R: Bui Simon, Mireille Noone, Nigel Lythgoe, Katy Perry, Jelinda Devorzon, and Priscilla Presley. finalist, Casey Abrams, as well as PHOTO: Baron Spafford voiceover commentary by Morgan Freeman and a special drum line, which audibly quantified the 15,000 final wishes served by Dream Foundation. Also, a dance performance choreographed by So You Think You Can Dance producer, Adam Shankman, and a spirited shout-out by famed Ellen DeGeneres Show guests, Sophia Grace & Rosie. Actors and longtime supporters, Jane Lynch and Jennifer Tilly, and professional auctioneer, Grant Snyder, hosted a live auction. John Paul DeJoria and The Patrón Spirits Company sponsored the high energy after party, hosted by internationally known DJ, Mia Moretti, with the Carl’s Jr. Star Diner serving late bites upon exit.
YAC members, Grace Copeland, Bella Darke, Kalina Burns, Harper Owen, Liane Sturgeon and Giulia Castleberg enjoying a Saturday volunteering with Flower Empower.
A very special thanks to our illustrious co-chairs, Jelinda Devorzon, Mireille Noone and Bui Simon, and to our event sponsors, CKE Restaurants, Inc., Genentech, Lady Ridley-Tree, Michael Armand Hammer, Armand Hammer Foundation, David & Suzanne Johnson, Craig & Susan McCaw, Arlene Montesano, Herb & Bui Simon, Colleen & Michael Taylor and Bacara Resort & Spa. Live Auction sponsors included World Odyssey Limited, Ohana Real Estate Investors, Montage, Bridlewood Estate Winery, Crystal Cruises and Strictly Vacations, and Starwood Hotels & Resorts. Special thanks to David Merrell, An Original Occasion; and Gregory Pasetta, Tangerine Global, LLC.
Some members of the Dos Pueblos High School Dream Team.
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Nigel Lythgoe and SYTYCD dancers on stage in a number choreographed by Adam Shankman. PHOTO: Baron Spafford
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Flower Empower
Two-year-old Francesca Sweda helping deliver orchids for the holidays.
Children at the Montecito Family YMCA making cards for Flower Empower.
Students from Montecito Union School help to ceremoniously dedicate Rosy the Flower Empower Van to the community of Santa Barbara in a festive tossing of rose petals.
Flower Empower has grown exponentially in the past year, due in large part to the generosity of a strong and growing volunteer base, including UC Santa Barbara’s Sigma Omega Nu and Alpha Kappa Delta Phi, among others. Special to Dream Foundation’s hometown of Santa Barbara, Flower Empower is a volunteer-driven program that delivers hope and compassion—in the form of bouquets—to those in need.
Sorority sisters representing UCSB’s Sigma Omega Nu and Alpha Kappa Delta Phi hard at work for Flower Empower.
In 2012, donated flowers were up 20 percent over prior year— with increased delivery days and four more facilities added to the standing 15. There were 5,920 bouquets delivered to hospices, hospitals, care centers and private residences throughout the greater Santa Barbara area—up from 5,000 in 2011. In addition, a large volunteer force came together during December to deliver 958 donated orchids—courtesy of Westerlay Orchids—for the holidays. In May 2012, Flower Empower received a new delivery van, gifted to the program from the Santa Barbara community. Thank you to Tom & Diane Brown, Andrew & Ivana Firestone, Monica Fulton, Harold & Annette Simmons, and Chris Williams for adopting the program in 2012; and to Herb & Bui Simon for adopting it in 2013.
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A special acknowledgment to the compassionate, young artists (and their teachers and directors) at Adams Elementary School, All Saints by the Sea Parrish Preschool, Bright Start Child Development Center, Carmel River Elementary School (Carmel, California), Cleveland Elementary School after school program, El Camino Elementary School, Girl Scouts of California’s Central Coast troop #50614, Girls Inc., Goleta, The Howard School, Laguna Blanca School, Little Angels Preschool, Mary Belle McCorkle Academy of Excellence (Tucson, Arizona), Marymount of Santa Barbara, Monte Vista Elementary School, Montecito Family YMCA, Montecito Union School, National Charity League, Our Lady of Mount Carmel School, Santa Barbara Middle School, St. Raphael School, Washington School and Dream Foundation’s Youth Advisory Council, for the hundreds of beautifully decorated cards they’ve made to accompany each bouquet delivered. Flower Empower could not exist without our team of fabulous supporters: B&H Flowers, Botanik, Chocolats du CaliBressan, Domingo Farms, Ever-Bloom, Florabundance, The Himovitz Family, Maximum Nursery, Myriad, Trader Joe’s, Valley Flowers Inc., Westerlay Orchids and Westland Floral.
Approximately 100 elves of all ages came together during December in two festive efforts to wrap, package and prepare to mail more than 200 toys to the children of dream recipients, and decorate handmade cards. These workshop events brought together Santa Barbara area school children and their families, National Charity League (NCL) members, volunteers, Santa Claus, and Dream Foundation supporters, Katy Perry and John Mayer. Due in part to the success of the workshops, 2012 saw a considerable increase in the number of children impacted by the Toy Program, with 1,322 served (up from 861 in 2011). The Toy Program provides age-appropriate toys for dream recipients to give their children, allowing them to share happiness and smiles when illness has brought so much pain. Thanks to the generosity of Hasbro, Inc., Dream Foundation receives thousands of donated toys each year to send to families nationwide. A special acknowledgment to JAKKS Pacific, Inc. whose first-time donation of 300 toys arrived on Christmas Eve.
Five-year-old Gino loving his new game.
Volunteer Madison Transki, 4, inspects the boxes ready to be shipped.
Rain, 5 years old, shows off his new arrivals.
Volunteer dream elves with Santa. PHOTO: Baron Spafford
Above: A young Bright Start preschool student hard at work on a special card. Below: Chocolates by Chocolats du Cali-Bressan.
Lily, 6, and Sergio, 5, with their new toys. dream foundation spring 2013
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