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Wet Weather Wearing Ideas On How To Keep Dry

After A Caecerean

We take a look at comfortable ways to carry

Preschool Carrying

Carrying beyond the toddler months

Explore Wrapping How to hip carry

Front Facing Out

We lift the lid on this taboo carry

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A Word From The Editor It’s a New Year and along with your resolutions and New Year promises, there are plenty of new babywearing articles and advice from us with everything you will need to start a new babywearing year.

This issue we really wanted to focus of some of the more nittty gritty views and challenge some of the misconceptions regarding babywearing. We want to empower parents to challenge what they once thought, as well as encouraging safe babywearing. Front facing out and back wrapping with a stretchy wrap came up as two of the most poignant of debates, have a read on page 16 at our ideas on front facing out and see what you think.

October saw another successful international babywearing week, ‘Get Carried Away’ was this year’s theme and all over the world people celebrated with competitions, parties, meets, sling walks as well as a babywearing world record attempt which succeeded with 1003 babywearers carrying their children simultaneously in Los Angeles. We too celebrated, with our first birthday, as we launched during international babywearing week 2012. It has been a successful year for us with a total of 155,000 reads of our first four issues!

This superseded any expectation we had previously dreamed of and set us in good stead to make our next transition to paid magazine even more exciting.

Our content has also made us extremely proud, so many wonderful writers and families sharing their babywearing stories. We really wanted the magazine to be a true reflection of what was going on within the community, as well as having the most up to date and relevant information for those starting out or just wanting to know more about babywearing. In June I became a carrying consultant in my own right, training with Slingababy. Which has really allowed me to truly explore babywearing and ensure magazine content really reflects the safe practise we all try to achieve.

This issue, as well as focusing on pushing the misconceptions about what we can and can’t do when babywearing, We have focused on carrying beyond the baby months. Toddler and pre-schooler wearing are both close to my heart as my two children leap like lightening in age. If you don’t already, follow us on Pinterest and Instagram to see the images I post daily as I etch ever close to the time when neither will want to be carried.

I hope you enjoy this first paid issue as much as we have producing it.

Our Next issue will be out in March, so keep your eyes peeled!

If you would like to contribute to our magazine in any way please contact info@closeenoughtokiss.co.uk Enjoy x

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Contents 6

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06 Healthy Hips

22 Emergency Babywearing

08 Healthy Hips In Practise

24 Slingbaby Diaries

10 After a Caesarean Section

26 Do You Feel Like An Oddity?

12 Snugiwraps Review

29 Kangaroo Care And Slings

16 Front Facing Out

32 Wet Weather Babywearing

19 Ask Lorette

35 Slingababy

20 Explore Wrapping

36 Preschool Carrying

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5 Editor Renee Duffin Design & Artwork Colin Jeffery Dee Tree Digital Designs Sheffield Sling Surgery Renee Duffin

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Photography Je Mon Porte Bebe, Siobham Thompson Sarah Jane Gregory, Caroline Osborne Charlotte Filcek, Anthea Masterson Writers Katie Mairis, Anne McEwan Lorette Michalon, Tim Barnes Clay Featured Writers Ben Fentem, Rachel Coy Rosie Knowles, Louise Brown Katie Richards, Emily Williamson Lindsay Rhodes, Sarah Jane Gregory Editorial Jayne Edwards, Tim Clay-Barnes

38 Motoring Review - Jeep Wrangler 39 Sling Dads 40 Sling Library News

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43 Babywearing With Love 44 Directory 49 Shopping

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All information in Close Enough to Kiss Magazine or website is intended for entertainment purposes only and professional advice should be sought for those who are in anyway unsure how to carry their children in a safe manner. The publisher, contributors, editors and related parties are not responsible in any way whatsoever for the actions or results taken by any persons, organisations or any parties on the basis of reading information, stories or contributions of Close Enough to Kiss Magazine or website.

The publisher, contributors and related parties are not engaged in providing professional advice or services. The publisher, contributors, editors and consultants disclaim any and all liability and responsibility to any persons or parties, be they a purchaser, reader, advertiser or consumer of this publication or not in regards to the consequences and outcomes of anything done or omitted being in reliance whether partly or solely on the contents of Close Enough to Kiss Magazine.

The publishers, editors, contributors and related parties shall have no responsibility for any action or omission by any other contributor, consultant, editor or related party. Whilst we try to ensure all advertising in Close Enough to Kiss Magazine is relevant to our readers, we do not necessarily endorse the products shown. No part of this magazine is to be reproduced in whole or part without prior written permission from the publisher. All views expressed in this publication are those of individuals and not of Close Enough to Kiss or the companies we represent. All information included was correct at the time of being published online.

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Healthy Hips

By Dr Rosie Knowles People often ask about the importance of a good position for their child's hips in a carrier, having heard about "hip dysplasia" and "knee to knee".

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What is hip dysplasia?

It is a hip socket that is not growing normally, and has a greater tendency to dislocate. It is usually diagnosed in the first few weeks of life and has to be treated with a harness that keeps hips in a spread squat position, so the ball is sunk deeply into the shallow hip socket until the hip has grown enough to stabilise. By about six months most normal sockets will be stable and the risk will have passed.

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Is my child at risk of hip dysplasia?

Some babies are more at risk, for example, a positive family history, breech births, and reduced uterine fluid. These pre-birth situations are not controllable risks. There are some studies indicating that cultures who full-body swaddle (legs are kept straightened) have a higher incidence of hip dysplasia, whereas cultures with a history of back carrying with legs in the spread squat position have very low incidence.

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Will my narrow-based high street carrier cause hip dysplasia?

The simple answer is "Probably not, in the majority of cases" but this assumes your child is not one of the postulated 15% of infants whose condition is missed by health care professionals. It would seem sensible, therefore, at least in the early months of life, to encourage babies and small children to have their hips held in a healthy position, which is less likely to place strain on lax ligaments or possibly shallow

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hip sockets. A good, wide-based sling or carrier can assist with this healthy hip position. This will also be more comfortable for the child - consider perching on or astride a stool versus sitting on a chair or even in a hammock!

To read the full article please visit: http://sheffieldslingsurgery. wordpress.com/2013/09/19/ healthy-hips-busting-somemyths

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Healthy Hips In Practise

Image courtesy of Themio Schuff

I was approached last year by a couple whose daughter had hip dysplasia and was wearing a Pavlik Harness, they wanted to carry her as they felt they were missing some of the bonding due to the harness not allowing them to use the wrap they had.

At the time I ran the Oxford Sling Library which had over 100 different slings and carriers, so with help from my fellow consultants from Oxford Sling Meet we decided the Close Parent Carrier may be easiest to get on round the harness.

Once the couple had been shown how to use the carrier and appeared confident they tried with their daughter and were more than happy to find the harness helped them to get their daughter into an optimum position.

The physiotherapist who was helping them with their daughter was very supportive of the use of carriers in addition to the harness and after a couple of months was happy for the couple to use the harness overnight only and keep using carriers during the day.

The girl is now running about like any other toddler and it is hard for her parents to believe she had dysplasia, they have since borrowed woven wraps and soft structured carriers from the much smaller Abingdon Sling Library.

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wearing after your Caesarean

One of the most common questions I see posted on babywearing forums and Facebook groups is, “Can I use a sling after a caesarean section?” The answer is quite simple, yes, in most cases. Despite what women have probably planned and hoped for 1 in 4 babies born in the United Kingdom in 2012 were delivered

by Caesarean section.

Therefore there are many mums who potentially want to use a sling to carry their baby who are now scared they can’t do so.

Firstly, I am not a medical practitioner, I am a babywearing consultant and sling librarian who has worked with many mums who have had a caesarean sections and helped them to find ways to carry their babies comfortably and safely. If you are in any doubt you must consult your midwife or General Practitioner.

The key to carrying after a caesarean section is to wear baby nice and high and ensure sling is tight but avoiding the woman’s scar.

Incidentally the tight and high rule applies to mums who have had a vaginal delivery too and simply having a vaginal delivery does not mean you are necessarily ready to carry immediately either.

The amount of time post-delivery where women will feel comfortable carrying will vary from mother to mother and there is no ‘set’ time from when it is safe to carry.

There is no right or wrong sling to use after a caesarean section. In all cases care should be used and it is beneficial to select those which do not have structured waist bands, which naturally sit lower on the mothers’ abdominal muscles and can place pressure on their stomach and scar.

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wraps (woven or stretchy) and even carriers such as the Connecta Baby Carrier.

The benefit of these is that you are able to keep the sling away from the scar tissue and stitches.

Using a sling or carrier can play a crucial role in allowing a mother to regain her strength and posture after the birth.

The key is to listen to your body and to build up the amount of carrying you do. Your body will develop muscle strength and get used to carrying your baby.

Do not assume you will be able to carry for hours straight away. Your postnatal body will need time to adjust and remember you will still have increased levels of Relaxain in your system, especially if you are breastfeeding.

In the first 6-8 weeks all women post-delivery are not advised to undertake physical activity until they have had their 6/8 week check from their GP. This does not mean that women should be confined to the house. Using a sling or carrier allows them to undertake gentle exercise such as walking, which will help woman to start building up muscles again.

Time and care should be used when placing baby in the sling to ensure the mother engages her pelvic floor and core muscles. This is particularly important for

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women who have had a caesarean section as they are advised against carrying anything heavier than their baby. This therefore means they should not lift car seats or heavy travel systems and prams.

The use of a sling for skin to skin contact can be beneficial in helping mothers to bond with their babies and help increase breast milk production, both which can be hindered by caesarean deliveries. Using a sling allows them to get out, start to socialise and can help with mental wellbeing and help reduce risk of post natal depression.

If you want to carry and are unsure of the most comfortable way to do so it is worth having a consultation with a babywearing consultant or trip

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to a sling library. The knowledge and experience they have gained will help you find carries which are comfortable.

Remember there is no date by which you must have started carrying. You should only begin using a sling when you feel comfortable, do not rush your body. If you want your baby to get used to being carried in a sling ask your partner, grandparent or even a friend to carry them for you.

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Snugiwraps Handmade Baby Carriers

Snugiwrap - Classic Mei Tai (standard size) 100% Cotton Single sided Mei Tai Pattern - Beadword Blanket Chevron Jewel Snugiwraps has been making carriers for 2 years, fronted by carrier maker Steph Martin, a work at home mother of 3 children.

over the shoulders making them extremely comfortable without being bulky. The drill fabric has 2 layers on the straps and is soft with a good amount of grip, so it sits well on your shoulders, but slides over clothes easily when being tightened.

The straps are wide enough to distribute the weigh nicely which can be an issue with cheaper produced carriers. They are standard length which would fit most statures and can be made longer at request for larger people.

The standard sized Classic Mei Tai can be used from 4 – 24 months and is fronted with an eye-catching jewel patterned fabric, with the reverse and straps made from black drill fabric. The carrier is also available in toddler size.

The stitching is very characteristic of a hand sewn carrier, in the most part it’s even with a very tiny amount of irregularity, which gives the carrier it classic handmade look and adds a quirk that is loved of handmade items. All seams feel smooth and even and do not dig when carrying.

There are optional extras such as a hood and you can have a front panel of your choice from in-house stocked fabric or those on the frumble website.

My son found the carrier comfortable and happily was worn, which is a rare occurrence.

The Classic is a ‘no frills’ carrier, the basic option is reasonably priced, which makes babywearing accessible to those on a limited budget without compromising on safety or look.

The Snugiwrap Mei Tai is made to be worn apron style as it has no structured waist, this means the carrier can be cinched easily for a young baby and rolled up if the body is too long. With 3 layers of fabric within the body of the carrier it is firm yet comfortable.

The angled straps are sunk around 3cms and feel firm and secure. My son felt very comfortable in both a front and back carry.

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The carrier has passed the relevant widebase carrier clauses of BS EN 13209-2. As well as home testing for weight upto 80 kgs, washing and drying performance and excessive tug testing.

Overall I am very pleased with this carrier in terms of comfort and safety. It’s a great budget option and will appeal to both mums and dads. For those wishing for a more luxurious carrier, Snugiwraps offers deluxe models, full buckle carriers as well as wrap conversions and is always happy to talk over bespoke designs and adaptions to your carrier.

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Front Facing Out Is it as bad as we fear?

Whether carrying your child in a high street carrier or an especially structured carrier, a wrap or even in your arms we should celebrate that more parents are choosing to hold their Little Ones closer to them.

Indeed, it is not carrying your child that is the controversy.

What causes many a dilemma is the way they are being carried.

Now, I am not for one minute suggesting that anyone seen carrying their child in a high street carrier or even Front Facing Out should be faced with a tirade of 'that's really bad, you need to do this......' for instead of helping parents to learn they may be put off for life.

"It’s a struggle for parents to know just how detrimental FFO really is."

For a long time the Front Facing Out position has been a very hot topic indeed and recently it seems to have reared its ugly head again. This time however, by a well-recognised company, who for years have been advocating optimal and ergonomic positioning. The company claim that: 'The Ergobaby Carrier cradles your baby just the way you do with baby in a natural sitting position, aligning with the recommended carry position from the International Hip Dysplasia Institute' say Ergo.

This is all well and good. In fact it is great! The padded waistband and shoulder straps are especially designed to make wearing the carrier very comfortable indeed. The problem raises many issues – mainly one of ethics. Ten years ago it was Ergobaby that stormed the world with their structured carriers and actively told parents that the FFO position was far from healthy. All evidence of these scare-mongering tactics have completely disappeared from their blog, (funnily enough) since launching their new carrier, the Ergo 360.

Before discussing the new FFO carrier, it is important that we all know the reasons as to why this controversial carrying position is not ergonomically beneficial to the child being carried.

When a child is born, its spine is shaped like a C. It is only as a child gets older and stronger does the shape of the spine change to that of an S shape.

By carrying a baby in the FFO position you are putting a strain on the child’s' back. By having their back pressed up against the carriers breast bone the natural C shape of the spine is being changed prematurely. This is putting stress on the child’s' spine and nervous system. A baby may change their position to an arched back to help them feel more balanced, which also causes more stress and strain on their delicate spine.

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takes- all on his little compromised spine.' (Bobafamily) It’s a struggle for parents to know just how detrimental FFO really actually is, after all, with no real testing having occurred and only an educated guess based on our knowledge thus far, we can only surmise what could potentially happen. It’s important to realise that despite places like the International Hip Dysplasia Institute (IHDI) citing the risk of hip dysplasia, they are actually not an official body, but rather a group of well-informed mothers, who truly believe in the potential harm FFO could cause. Which is important for parents to know in order for them to make an informed decision for themselves and not on the advice of others. Knowing this we will explore further some of the-against claims made by the IHDI. "It is very important to understand that a child's hips take two years to properly develop. By carrying your child using a method which provides insufficient support problems such as hip dysplasia is at a high risk of occurring. If the thigh bone is not supported to the knee then an increase in pressure is found in the hip. However, if both knees are spread and well supported then any forces exerted on the hip joint are minimal and the hip joint is kept in a much more stable position.

'The most unhealthy position for the hips during infancy is when the legs are held in extension with the hips and knees straight and the legs brought together, which is the opposite of the foetal position. The risk to the hips is greater when this unhealthy position is maintained for a long time. Healthy hip positioning avoids positions that may cause or contribute to development of hip dysplasia or dislocation.

The healthiest position for the hips is for the hips to fall or spread (naturally) apart to the side, with the thighs supported and the hips and knees bent. This position has been called the jockey position, straddle position, frog position, spread-squat position or human position. Free movement of the hips without forcing them together promotes natural hip development.

"Will my child develop hip problems after being carried FFO? ‘Probably not, in the majority of cases’."

Any device that restrains a baby’s legs in an unhealthy position should be considered a potential risk for abnormal hip development. It is also important to assess the size of the baby and match the device and carrier to the size of the child so that the hips can be in a healthy position during transport. Parents are advised to research the general safety and risks of any device they wish to use."

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www.closeenoughtokiss.co.uk Bold claims made by the IHDI, but are these claims merely more than a belief based on out of date research? Perhaps, but it’s always wise to show the other-side of the Hip Dysplasia argument.

more often a child is carried like this there is a chance that spinal development can be affected (Dr Maya Pande).

Then there is the question of at what age should a child be allowed to FFO?

Which our most up to date argument, is from Dr Rosie Knowles, a highly respected GP and babywearing consultant who has argued that narrow based carriers which do not provide a spread squat.‘Probably won't, in the majority of cases, cause hip displaysia.’ That is unless you are ‘one of the postulated 15% of infants who has the condition and are yet to be diagnosed’.

The uppermost part of the spine is the neck and head, both of which are incredibly important. They need support. An infant that is not able to support the weight of their head alone, could be at risk of the chin dropping towards the chest. This seriously compromises the airway of the child and is very dangerous indeed.

This shines a new light on the hip dysplasia argument, as there is no scientific evidence that shows FFO cause hip problems, or indeed that narrow based carriers do either. It does stand to reason however, if you don’t know if your child doesn’t have the pre-existing condition, why risk it? Especially if the cure for hip dysplasia is to fix the child into a spread squat using a pavlik harness or other harness equally using the spread squat.

It is not just hip dysplasia which parents should concern themselves with. Hip dislocation can also be a major health problem as a result of adopting an FFO position (Dr Maya Pande 2012) Most frighteningly perhaps is the fact that both these conditions are painless and therefore not obvious without investigation. Both hip dysplasia and hip dislocation can lead on to arthritis and hip osteoarthritis. Again perhaps not quite as prevalent as they would have you believe and using the same thought as Dr Knowles has suggested, perhaps there would also need to be an underlying issue with a child’s hips to warrant worry.

"Then there is the question of at what age should a child be allowed to FFO?" So, Ergo aren't all that bad. They have clearly put a lot of thought into the design of the 360 carrier which they will release for sale in Spring 2014. They have paid a lot of attention to the hip positioning of the child. There is extra padding to make it more comfy on the inner thigh and the actual seat is almost a 'bucket' shape giving the recommended M positioning too as well as protecting the spine. Ergo have thought a lot about Hip Dysplasia. They continue to advocate the knee to knee positioning, as they do in all their products, which is fantastic!

Then we have to take into consideration the aspect of the spines curved C shape, whilst the Ergobaby’s bucket seat encourages this position, this is a feature only in the 360, other carrier that offer FFO such as carriers bought from toys r us, mothercare and mamas and papas as well as carriers like the Beco and Kari me which give examples of FFO in their wearing instructions, do not give adequate support neither to their hips nor to the spine.

Whilst again the thought that forcing a spine into an S shape too early isn’t proven, it does hold a lot of common sense, it protects the nervous system which controls all of the body's systems and transmits messages to and from the brain. If the spine becomes misaligned or damaged in any way then the nervous system can become overloaded and/or damaged. Shockingly, the longer and

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It is interesting to note that 'the US Consumer Products Safety Commission recently passed a law that the warning labels of forward facing carriers must state that babies should not face out until adequate head/neck control is achieved.

(Bobafamily)'

"Imagine if you were strapped to someone’s chest with your legs and arms flailing, heading with no control into a busy shopping centre – it would be terrifying."

The age at which a child could be carried FFO varies, mainly due to when the child has full head and neck control, which can massively vary within children but around 6 months is generally accepted providing there are no other health issues such as low muscle tone or global development delay., however, Dr Maria Pande states that if insufficient support is given to the neck and head then there can be serious consequences.

We then have the issue of overstimulation whilst FFO, in this position a child has no way of shielding themselves from the sights and sounds of the world, with their parent behind them it can’t be clearly observed if the child is tired, hungry or scared, Professor Caroline Fowler from Sydney's University of Technology (Professor of Child and Family Health Nursing) accused mothers who carry their babies facing out of being 'cruel and selfish' (Daily Mail 2011). She said the following; "Imagine if you were strapped to someone’s chest with your legs and arms flailing, heading with no control into a busy shopping centre – it would be terrifying. Outward-facing baby carriers and prams give babies a bombardment of stimulus, creating a very stressful situation. In not considering our baby’s perspective, we are inadvertently quite cruel to children."

Her comments were supported by the research carried out in 2008 showing that children who cannot see, or communicate with, their caregiver suffer.

Dr Suzanne Zeedyk, a developmental psychologist at the university, said: "Our data suggests that for many babies, life is emotionally impoverished and stressful. Stressed babies grow into anxious adults."

A baby who is carried facing away from the wearer can become very stressed and react negatively to the stimulation it is subjected to (Kostandy, 2008).

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As Professor Caroline Fowler suggests, babies can become overstimulated and stressed. There is no way of responding to your baby's cues if you cannot see or feel them. Carrying a child facing towards you is a very intimate feeling and one that allows the carrier to not only see the baby's response to the environment they are in, but also 'feel' it too. In an upright and facing inwards position babies tolerate noise and activity around them much better (Ludington Hoe, 1993).

While facing out a child may also be fighting against its' own centre of gravity.

"If carried in a FFO position the child is facing the world, there is no feeling of security and nowhere to escape to either."

www.closeenoughtokiss.co.uk So, well done Ergo! A new carrier in the New Year.... one that clearly supports the child’s hips avoiding dysplasia – brilliant.

Fantastic! What about the rest of the child?

Will Ergo be developing some sort of a shield to be worn to prevent the child being carried from being overwhelmed? Their response: “Parents kept asking for a carrier with an option for forward facing. We have been working to find a way to do that while ensuring an ergonomic position for baby and a comfortable experience for both parent and child,” says Karin Frost, founder of Ergobaby. “Ergobaby is now celebrating its 10 year anniversary.

Over the years our carriers have evolved while staying true to our design principles. With the new 360 Carrier we are excited to celebrate another innovation, a truly ergonomic 4-position carrier.”

"There is no scientific evidence that shows FFO cause hip problems."

And whilst Ergo have taken into consideration most of the points covered, what about those carriers that do not? Well the evidence isn’t clear but using what we have learned what will you choose to do? On a final note, perhaps the positioning shouldn't be called Close Enough To Kiss, but slightly changed to Close Enough To Kiss On The Forehead?!

'Most often the wearer will intuitively stick out her pointer fingers for the baby to grab on to and stabilize himself or the wearer will try to support the baby’s legs by lifting them up in the front. With no seat and nothing to grab on to in front of him it is tough for baby not to arch his back under the weight of his own body (Bobafamily) But wait! What about the wearer? Well, while wearing a baby FFO it is very difficult to act upon the needs of your child that only you know of. While baby is snuggled up on the wearer there is an automatic feedback link. There is intuition going on... the wearer will instinctively know to gently cover baby's ears when a lorry goes past, or when a speaker announcement over a tannoy goes off in the supermarket. The wearer acts upon unspoken cues and a beautiful bond between them and baby. That is lost when baby faces out.

What's more, there is evidence to suggest that FFO is detrimental to the wearer.

The majority of the weight from your precious bundle is distributed over the carriers shoulders thus causing tension and muscle pain in the back.

By carrying baby this way the carrier is also forced to change their normal 'walk' and way of standing therefore putting more strain on the pelvic floor muscles meaning they will take much longer to heal after a birth. Arching your back helps to compensate for the awkward load that is a baby in FFO, which can result in serious pain for the wearer too.

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Dear Lorette, I am struggling with carrying over both my coat and my little one's coat and I can't afford a babywearing coat. Do you have any suggestions? Helen Hi Helen, there are several options available to you. First of all, make sure that baby is dressed appropriately. Every layer of sling is like a layer of clothing (so a stretchy is 3 layers, and a mei tai only one). Every part of the body which is out of the sling, like feet and lower leg, hands and/or arms, head, need to be covered. For the feet, you can layer several socks, also by using leg warmers, it can help keep those on. You can find age appropriate leg warmers for a reasonable price. Alternatively you can use adult socks too! I find the socks/legwarmers useful for the arms too when you have an arms out kind of child. Hats can be tricky. I can't recommend enough having a balaclava-type hat. These make it harder for a child to take it off and also protects ears and neck.

If you are front carrying, you can get a bigger coat to fit around the both of you, or you can get a piece of fleece on which you cut button holes and then saw some buttons inside your coat. There are also tutorials online on how to knit inserts.

If you are back carrying, you can also get a larger size coat and wear it "skewed" but make sure to get yourself a good scarf as it can be drafty around your neck. You can also get a reasonably priced oversized fleece in which you can cut a slit at the back. Fleece is great because it doesn't fray.

I hope this helps and that you can keep warm.

Dear Lorette, I want ALL the slings but can't afford them. Will this pass or will it end in divorce? Donna Hi Donna. This is a tricky one! It can be very addictive to start buying into slings.

My first tip would be to step away from the online boards and their temptations. It is easy to get sucked in, wanting to buy all the latest releases. Don't forget what drew you into carrying in the first place. The special lovely cuddles don't need all the slings.

My second tip is make sure you only spend the money your family can afford: a roof and food are more important than the latest unicorn-hair-wrap.

My third tip is: can you sell any of your stuff? or his stuff? Jokes apart, you might have things that can be turned into carriers.

My fourth tip is to get involved with travelling wraps so you get to play with slings without the initial outlay. Trading is another way of getting your hands on a variety of slings. You can also get involved in your local sling meet to get to play with other pretties. Although you might also get tempted there!

My final tip is, choose carefully: the slings or the relationship? I know what I went for!

Dear Lorette, my ring sling is so uncomfortable! The rings always end up on my boobs, then I lose the use of my arm and it just pulls so much! Can you help? Claire Hi Claire, you are not the only one! Ringslings can seem so straightforward and simple but there is a knack to it.

There are 2 ways of using a ringsling: one is to prepare it first so that the adjusting is minimal, the other is to do the work around baby which might mean needing to fix things.

If you want to spend the time preparing it: First, thread your ringsling. Then adjust the overall size of it: if you hold the pouch on your hip and push down, this is the point where your baby's bum is going to end up. Then tighten the bottom rail slightly, this will help with having a deep seat and holding those knees up. Then loosen the top slightly. Now, before you get baby in, you want to make sure that the fabric going though the rings is neatly organised, especially the top as this is where the adjusting is needed.

Then get baby's legs through and sit baby onto the "rope" of fabric with the rings where you want them at the end.

Spread the fabric over baby's back. Then make sure to grab the slack from your back, all the way around your baby.

Now you need to get the slack through the rings by pulling it towards where it comes from. Voila!

If you haven't prepared the ringsling first and it ends up lopsided with the rings in an uncomfortable position: get your hand under your baby's bum inside the fabric and unpop your baby's bum. Shift the whole ringsling to get the rings where you like them and re-pop! Magic! If you still feel something is not quite right, grab the slack from your back and around baby and tighten.

There are more tricks to it but this should get you started! If it is still uncomfortable, let me know.

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Explore Wrapping

In this series we will be exploring some of the different wrapping methods and how it is possible to adapt each carry to your preferences. Wrapping is an art and taking time to fully explore different carrying methods, they can make all the difference in the amount of enjoymment and comfort you and your baby achieve when using a wrap.

How to Hip Carry Hip carries as with other wrapping skills can take time to master and possibly these are one of the hardest to get to grips with. Most wrappers will favour a carry that has cross passes in it (any pass that goes between a child’s legs), the main reason for this is its often the cross passes that help the wrapper get the good ‘seat’ most are trying to achieve, there is also the thought that using cross passes will secure the wrap better than a hammock pass (a pass that goes over both legs of a child) and whilst there is an element of truth in this, a hammock pass, executed properly (with the wrap firmly into the knee-pits of the child and bottom lower than their knee’s) can be not only comfortable, but also reduce the chance of the child straightening their legs and popping out of their seat.

two layers with any hip carry. Hip carries ideally should be used with older babies who have head control and can sit on a lap with minimum support.

Most hip carries are a single layer carry and act like a hammock, sitting baby back on the most outer part of their bottom with their knee’s high, both legs sit astride the wearer’s hips and the wrap will be tied over one of the wearer’s shoulders. Hips carries can be secured by several methods, Ring, slipknot or folding, depending on the wearer’s preference or the carry trying to be achieved.

• Start with the wrap between your hip bone and your last rib.

The size of the wrap can be crucial to what kind of hip carry can be achieved, for example a size 2 or 3 would be great for a hip carry with a ring or slipknot, but may not be so suitable for something like a robin’s hip carry (which you would probably need something slightly longer like a 4 or 5) Similarly a size 6 or 7 would be fairly unsuitable for a hip carry with a ring ( due to the length of wrap that would be left over), however it would be possible if you became inventive with the excess wrap.

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Hip carries are fantastic for busy toddlers who want up and down frequently, they are also great for younger babies who are becoming curious about the world and are becoming restless in a front carry.

They make interaction with your toddler about the world around them easy and bridge the gap between front carries and moving onto gaining back carrying confidence.

Hints and Tips

• Use the wrap as a rope, sit baby onto it first, ensuring the wrap is in the knee-pits and lower baby’s bottom before then pulling the fabric up over the back.

• Loosening the top rail slightly then putting baby in will make it easier to get the wrap over baby’s back.When using a ring or a knot ensure they sit on the flat part of your chest just under your clavicle.

Hip Carry Variations Include: Robins Hip Carry Humble Hammock Hip Cross Carry (rebozo) Hip Carry with a Slip Knot Hip Carry with a Sling Ring

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Emergency Babywearing That moment, when you have gone out for an afternoon, you arrive at your destination, and you realise….NO SLING!

I think, if being honest, most people that babywear on a regular basis have done this. I know I certainly have.

Don't get me wrong, you can carry your baby in arms, but it's not always practical, and even the smallest of babes can seem quite heavy after a while of this.

So, what to do? You can use many things as emergency slings if need be, you just have to think out of the box.

A shawl can be used for a hip carry

Personally, I have used a scarf-hip carry, like in a no sew ring sling, and a thin blanket that we were using for our picnic and tied ruck under bum.

Here is some stories of other babywearers when they were caught short: Suse says: I’ve done a torso carry with a picnic blanket and an overtired toddler who couldn’t walk any further.

Renee: My son was 10 months, we went shopping to the local city centre (which is a 30 mile round trip), and after waiting 45 minutes for a car parking space we finally found one.

When we got out of the car I realised the sling I ALWAYS keep in the car boot had been kindly removed by daddy! Luckily my daughter was wearing a scarf, which was thin and more importantly a perfect size 2!

A towel can be useful for a quick torso carry!

A Pashmina can be great for a quick hip carry!

A quick RUB (ruck under bum) and Viola an instant sling.

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Eleanor: I made a sling out of a bed sheet we were using as a table cloth when I was working at a music festival.

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Kris: I’ve used a baby shawl as a sling before.

Emma: I did a quick RUB with a pashmina style scarf once, when my then 5 year old fell over and cut her knee.

A scarf with a slip knot is ideal for a hip carry!

Laura: I’ve used a bath towel when my daughter was making a nuisance of herself when I was trying to dry my son.

Vicky: I used my scarf like a ring sling once when at centre parcs.

Lean Jay Pugh: I’ve used a pashmina as a rebozo hip carry with a slip knot several times.

Rebecca Smith: I used a pashmina when bubs had horrendous reflux and nothing would settle him.

Nicky: I’ve popped my 1 yr old inside my coat and did the drawstring up, so she didn’t fall out the bottom, it was only for a quick 10 minute school run.

Niki: I have used the kids bedsheets as a mock sling doing a made up front torso carry when my daughter wouldn’t go to sleep. I also use my dressing gown to wrap round us both as my daughter loves it. I have also used a sarong on holiday to get up a mountain for a very tired 5 yr old.

So, you see, if you can wrap it around you in any way, chances are you can use it in an emergency to carry your child. You still need to be aware of basic carrying safety, but you aren’t limited to wraps, slings and carriers, if you are caught without one to hand!

Rachel: We once used a beach towel for a quick torso carry, worked so well i bought a Kanga!

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‘The Slingbaby Diaries Parenting Under Wraps’

By Sarah Jane Gegory Today has been what I can only describe as ‘one of those days’.

From under my pillow the gentle sound of Bella's lullaby plays, which only means one thing, world war three is about to erupt.

Mornings in a house with 6 children can be a challenge at the best of times, but this morning was definitely a challenging day.

Over the blissful sounds of my alarm, the cries and shouting of my beautiful angelic children arguing over cereal, brushes and whose turn it is to use the bathroom.

I know its time to raise my bed head and start a new day. While trying to get washed, Dara (my 1 year old) tries to climb out of her cot. No amount of cbeebies, toys or watching people go to work through the window will pacify her, so I run downstairs in my underwear to grab a woven wrap, hearing, euuuugggghhh from my older daughters not amused at my lack of clothing.

I swing Dara onto my back using the santa toss and set to applying my make up (with a trowel as my other half always says). Through all the shouting my 3 year old Archie is still fast asleep, which makes things slightly easier so I can concentrate on dressing myself and then Dara.

Once everyone except Dara, Archie and myself has departed, the house has an eerie silence for a mere 20 minutes before Archie rises like a monster ready to roar.

He drags himself out of bed demands the iPad and starts moaning for breakfast.

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I love presenting my weekly radio show because it gives me 3 hours' worth of sanity, although I always get nervous, stressed and worried that I won't find anything to talk about, but once I step into the studio the mornings antics are left behind and I’m in my own happy little bubble. My show runs for two hours but I always spend half an hour before preparing myself.

I spend a majority of my show talking about children because its a family show and today I managed to get through the show with only 1 mistake, which makes my guest laugh especially as we were talking about her decorators being in while a song was playing (I forgot to lower the slider so people couldn’t hear our conversation).

I get home after a full and fabulous show to find the baby fast asleep on the settee where she landed and Archie back from preschool doing his ‘homework’ (colouring in) after the iPad had been confiscated. I get half an hour break to have a quick snack before I take Archie for his speech therapy appointment, but the grumpy monkey decides he is not having a walking day so to save arguments I throw the preschool carrier into the car and head off to his appointment. When we get there he tells me that he is a big boy and wants to walk, but having the carrier is always a good option. After all he is always changing his mind (his words). .

After the appointment and the school run we arrive home to 6 hungry children, so I grab a buckle and put Dara on my back while I prepare tea.

After tea Archie announces he has just downloaded a game on the iPad and to my shock I discover the game has cost me £35! We gently prise the costly toy from his hands to which tears and tantrums signal an evening full of entertainment.

Starting to feel slightly stressed, I decide it’s time for some mulled wine and a festive mince pie to accompany a nice (quiet) hot bath, my kids on the other hand think differently. The minute I light my candles, put on my relaxing music and slip into the bath, 3 children want the toilet. I succeed in sending them to the downstairs toilet, only to have my other half barge in suggesting Dara accompany me as she’s helped herself to one of her sister’s bananas and wiped it in her hair.

With my peace and quiet plans rapidly evaporating, I admit defeat, bath Dara, get my pyjamas on and end the day early in hopes tomorrow brings a new and pleasant morning.

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Do You Feel Like An Oddity?

Have you ever wondered how non babywearers view those who choose to wear their children? Have you ever thought about whether people who watch you using a carrier or a wrap are being scathing or are genuinely interested in what you are doing?

The first, and perhaps the most important thing that needs to be made clear is the difference between Self Image and Self Awareness.

Self Image is how we see ourselves and how we would like others to see us too and Self Awareness is who we know ourselves to be.

Lets take ourselves back to the first time we used a carrier or wrap in front of another person... I'm talking partner or close friend here, not in front of the masses! How did you feel?

Were you nervous? What were you nervous about?

Could it have been that you were nervous about dropping the child (we've all been there!), nervous about how you looked while smothered in 5m of fabric and trying to wrap baby or were you nervous about what your Issue Four - Winter 2013/14

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Why not just use the pram we spent a fortune on? Blooming Hippy..... that sort of thing?)

More importantly, why were you nervous? When wrapping in a public place even today sometimes I feel very conscious that as a babywearer I am in a minority group and therefore likely to be noticed (it doesn't help that the last time I wrapped in public I was using my gorgeous Didymos Sun Tendrils not the most blend into the background type of wrap!).

Those who are new to the world of babywearing are going to be, naturally, more aware of themselves while putting their child into their chosen carrier.

Why? Well, for some strange reason the babywearing community is a minority group.

Carrying your baby is not the 'norm' in most of western society. If you lived in a country such as India, Africa or Peru people would not bat an eyelid if a parent stood up and popped their baby on their back.

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"I do not use slings because I cannot afford a pushchair, but because the closeness of cuddles is priceless."

that babywearing seems to put across? Interestingly there are two ways of looking at this I'm sure that most of you can relate to both!

Firstly, lets take the, 'you're making a rod for your own back,' 'they'll never learn to walk,' or the 'oh, can't you afford a pushchair love?' interest that carrying our children seems to spark off.

Instead of being upset and holding your head a little lower why not turn things round to your advantage? I think people making comments could actually be interested in seeing something out of the norm.

'Actually, my child walks really well and it's much easier to pop this in my bag than lug round a buggy all the time and I don't have to worry about fitting through doorways!' is something I have said a couple of times when out and about.

This has oftens lead on to more of a chat about babywearing!

There you go - potential negative image abolished!

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offered a double pushchair for free because apparently I “could not afford one”. I commented that actually I did have a double pushchair (actually a total of five pushchairs in the garage) and for the price I had paid for my ‘table cloth’ I could afford another pushchair if I wished to.

I do not use slings because I cannot afford a pushchair but because the closeness of cuddles is priceless.When I carry my daughter on my back it is something I do with enormous pride!

I adore carrying her, I love my beautiful and bright stash of wraps. I know that the minute I pop her on my back my whole demenor changes and all of a sudden I become an empowered woman who is using a method centuries old - actually I think of it almost as a form of art with the different carries and fabrics.

I have much more of a spring in my step (which is ironic now as my daughter weighs about 37 lbs and should be weighing my down - ah there you go, another benefit of babywearing Weightlessness!)

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Millions of babies have been carried for centuries by different cultures and all for similar reasons!

Who would have thought that as a member of the babywearing community you would have so much in common with so many people from all over the world.

Embrace this - it is a very special thing!

For some this may be at first standing in the shadows and testing the water until the time is right and for others it may be a case of 'Look at me!!! My baby is close to me, why don't you have a go....My advice? Take it easy, it is not a race! What you are doing is beautiful.

Whether you feel like an oddity, or are made to feel like one while carrying your baby is really down to you as an individual and how you perceive yourself. Wear your child with pride! Keep them Close Enough to Kiss for as long as you can.

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Kangaroo Care and Slings

" Wearing your baby, or even having a family member or health professional wear them in a sling, can allow them the comfort and security of a safe place".

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re-term babies are now born into a world where the medical community has made amazing advancements at keeping babies alive and healthy at some incredibly early stages.

These babies need to be monitored all the time, can often come with medical problems and for these reasons kept in intensive care units. Most hospitals have a range of incubators and special systems that are in place to replicate the babies lost time in the womb. As the baby develops and is not required to be involved in these systems as much, the best place for baby is next to their parent – skin to skin.

Babywearing, is a perfect companion for kangaroo care and to provide your pre-term baby with the extra support they need. You are going to be required to hold your baby a considerable amount as a new parent, and with a pre-term baby this is even more crucial. Using a baby sling allows you to regain the use of your hands while you do the best thing for your infant keeping them close and monitored.

Pre-term babies even when they come out of hospital can have trouble gaining weight, they may need smaller feeds which occur more regularly, this can be accommodated particularly if breastfeeding in a sling, as having your baby that close to its milk supply helps both the mother and the baby adapt and encourages the baby to nurse. If there are any issues or concerns with the babies breathing having them this close to you makes it much easier to constantly be checking on their progress.

This form of close contact is called kangaroo care. Some of the benefits for this type of care are as follows: • Parents warmth and body heat thermoregulates the baby to keep them at an optimal temperature.

• Your baby can be enticed to feed more regularly (if breastfeeding), which will assist with weight gain and general development.

• The parents breathing (this is particularly the case for mums, and even more so breast feeding mums – due to hormonal release) and connection to the baby helps to stimulate babies breathing, which can help against apnoea (suspension of breathing).

The shock of being born for a babies is definitely exasperated for pre-term infants, there are a huge amount of stimulants for them to manage including; lighting, sounds, equipment and monitors, a huge range of different people (medical professionals/friends/family/visitors) and over stimulation from handling.

Wearing your baby, or even having a family member/health professional wear them in a sling, can allow them the comfort and security of a safe place.

A sling, if worn correctly will encase your baby on your chest (close enough to kiss) facing inwards. The soft material of a stretchy wraps will perfectly support your baby.

The soft yet dependable material will hold your babies back and spine and support their natural development in a range of areas.

Pre-term babies often do require more head and neck support and these particular slings, worn correctly, can offer that.

I would suggest looking at a Front Wrap Cross Carry (videos can be found on YouTube) to start you off. Then visit a local sling meet, or if you prefer have your local Babywearing Consultant come out to you for a private consultation to help you find the right sling for your journey.

Many hospitals now encourage Kangaroo care with a sling or babywearing top, and some even stock stretchy wraps for parents to use.

Showing just how important Kangaroo care and a stretchy sling can be in the ongoing care for all pre-term babies.

• It is a calming process. For the baby being able to feel a parents skin, hear their heart beat, be soothed by the rise and fall of your chest, be snug in a safe/correct baby carrier – these are all elements that help to replicate the in-utero experience.

• Compared to babies who are swaddled and kept in a cots, babies who receive Kangaroo Care stay warmer, are calmer, cry less and maintain more stable blood sugars.

• Physical contact between parent and baby can be much delayed in these circumstances.

Kangaroo care can allow this contact sooner and helps the parents to feel more confident and bond.

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Wet Weather Babywearing

By Emily Williamson

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Using a sling or carrier offers real practical benefits in wet weather, allowing you to boldly go where no buggy can! On foot you can easily get across wet or muddy ground (do wear appropriate footwear) and you’ll have your hands free to support yourself or a bigger child or to hold an umbrella.

At the South London Sling Library we’ve been getting lots of questions about how to keep everyone dry and comfortable when using slings and carriers in wet weather. So here are some quick thoughts on (baby)wearing in the wet to get you started.

Which slings or carries work well when it’s wet?

Carriers with long straps can feel impractical when the floor is wet and muddy. You can always bundle up dangling strap ends and tuck them into your pocket or waistband to stop them from trailing on the ground, but you might not want to risk it with your favourite sling.

Soft Structured Carriers don’t have dangly straps and can solve this really successfully. For back carries a short woven wrap can also be quick and practical to use. Slings or carries that can be put on before you leave the house and not need to be re-tied while out can also work well, though will generally limit you to front or hip carries. Options for these include Stretchy Wraps, Ring Slings, Pouches and some methods of using a Woven Wrap or Wrap-Tai. If your carrier’s likely to get wet or muddy, then you’ll probably want to use one that’s not too precious or that can be washed easily. If you carry regularly then it’s practical to use one that will dry quickly too. These carriers are made from fabrics intended for using in the wet and that dry quickly: Ergo Performance and Stowaway models, Connecta Solarweave, Boba Air, Comfy Joey Mesh Ring Sling, ByKay Aqua Wrap, Wrapsody Water Wrap.

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Weather earing IN What accessories could I use?

Though your carrier will give you a free hand to hold an umbrella to shelter from wet weather, if it’s cold or windy too, then an umbrella may not be the most practical thing to use.

DIY waterproofing ideas include simply using your child’s own waterproof jacket over your carrier - tuck the jacket arms around your carrier straps with the body of the jacket hanging down and the hood up (if it has one).

If you can spend a bit more, then a purpose designed waterproof babywearing accessory might be the ideal wet weather solution for you. Some will attach to your carrier or tie around your body and can be used over coats for any carrying positions that your carrier allows. These include the Hoppediz 3-in-1 Cover, Caboo Cocoon, Bundlebean Cover and the Mamlila All Weather Cover.

If you’re mainly front carrying then you might prefer to carry your baby inside your coat (which will also keep you snuggly and warm when it’s chilly). You could try a waterproof babywearing coat, or an accessory like the Kumja Coat Insert which fits into your existing raincoat. You could also adapt an extra-large waterproof jacket or rain poncho to wear over you both, adding a wide-brimmed rain hat for your baby to keep them really snug and dry.

And if you don’t mind your sling getting wet then just invest in decent waterproofs for you and your baby and just enjoy being outside! In the end you’re the one who’s in the best position to find out what will work best for you, your baby and your carrier. There are no rules about which carry or accessories you should use for wet weather wearing, as long as you’re all safe, supported and comfortable!

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In View At All Times IF YOU CHOOSE TO CARRY IN A CRADLE POSITION YOUR BABY SHOULD FACE UPWARDS AND NOT BE TURNED IN TOWARDS YOUR BODY

YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE ABLE TO SEE YOUR BABY’S FACE BY SIMPLY GLANCING DOWN. THE FABRIC OF A SLING OR CARRIER SHOULD NOT CLOSE AROUND THEM SO YOU HAVE TO OPEN IT TO CHECK ON THEM.

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In February Slingababy; the wonderful new babywearing school, run by the even more wonderful Lorette Michalon, will celebrate its first birthday and what a year it has been.

The talented Lorette who has trained with Tragaschule UK, School of Babywearing, Je Mon Porte Bebe and Porter Simplement, has a plethora of knowledge and unrivalled passion for babywearing as well as a way of teaching we can only describe as incredibly empowering.

With currently 16 trained consultants under her belt and more added each month, the word is fast spreading about how amazing the course is. A 4 day course, which our editor has personally attended, starts those that attend it, off to an amazing start with consulting within the babywearing industry.

In November Slingababy was proud to announce their accreditation with BABI (The British Association of Babywearing Instructors,) one of only 7 schools currently recognised by this unaffiliated organisation. Fantastic news for Lorette, Slingababy and the consultants that have trained with her.

Talking with Lorette about the past 12 months and what will be happening in the next she said: “The Slingababy Babycarrying School has been growing from strength to strength in 2013. 2014 will be no different as there are many projects in the works, including more courses away further afield, maybe even abroad, also some partnerships with retailers and manufacturers. We are very much looking forward to telling you more, so follow Slingababy on Facebook!”

Don’t just take our word for how great the course is, here is what the consultants say!

"I am proud to be a Slingababy consultant and one of the first, Lorette’s knowledge and inspiration is incredible and I feel so well supported within the Slingababy family."

Lou Robbo "Lorette is an inspiring woman, with a wealth of babywearing knowledge I can only dream of one day having, training with Slingababy is one of the best choices I could have made."

Renee Duffin Interested in training with slingababy?

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Just because they can walk doesn’t mean they can’t still be carried, even bigger-little legs get tired sometimes. Trouble is most people seem to think beyond a small toddler that children can’t be worn.

‘They are too heavy, they keep wanting up and down, taking a bulky carrier out is a pain or the carrier is too small’ are many of the reason’s people decide not to continue to wear their children. But in truth these reasons can all be overcome with a bit of thought.

Preschool carriers are not as prevalent on the market as baby carriers, but thats not to say they are not around.

Rose & Rebellion, Kindercarry and Wompat are just a few of the brands that cater for preschoolers, alternatively a wrap will fit you from birth to well beyond the preschool years or you could opt for a Mei Tai with maxi or wrap straps to last for a bigger child.

Weight distribution can be quite important so something with a structured waistband will have a great comfort factor or a multi layered carry like a double hammock. Taking some of the weight from the shoulder by Tibetan tying can be a useful practise as it distributes the weight across the chest. That’s not to say you can’t do a simple ruck and just fold the shoulders neatly so they do not dig.

As the child gets bigger getting them onto your back can become harder, super-manning or even a Santa toss can be too weighty, so a hip scoot or even just allowing them to climb on would work well, older children will happily hold on to you on their own accord, which makes falling less of an issue, but it’s always a good idea to have a hand still safeguarding them.

Another advantage of wearing an older child is they will naturally get into a seated position making optimum positioning relatively easy.

There is always the reason that they want up and down a lot, but mostly by the time a preschooler wants to be worn, they are ready for a rest and don’t want to chop and change walking or being carried, plus it allows a child to get into the calm-alert state making learning easier and calming for a tired or fractious child.

Most carriers take up a lot less space than a buggy and a large tote bag, or even a childs backpack can be the perfect place for a carrier to reside until needed.

The world can be a mighty big place even if you are a big 4 year old, that doesn’t mean you won’t need the security of mum and dad every now and again! So give it a try and see how wonderful wearing your pre-schoolers can be.

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Jeep Wrangler PROS ‘N’ CONS Iconic image √ Powerful √ Practical √ Open-top options √ Not cheap X FAST FACTS Max speed: 107 mph 0-62 mph: 10.7 secs Combined mpg: 34.0 Engine: 2,776cc 4 cylinder 16 valve diesel

Max. power (bhp): 197 at 3,600 rpm Max. torque (lb/ft): 339 at 1,600 rpm CO2: 217 g/km Price: £31,065 ince 1941, Jeep – the original sport utility vehicle (SUV) – has stood for freedom, authenticity, adventure and passion.

The Wrangler model is a direct descendant of the World War II U.S. Army Jeep and made its debut in 1986 as a compact fourwheel drive SUV. It’s produced

by American automaker, Chrysler, and is available with two or four doors.

From its beginning, the Jeep brand name has continued to stay true to its heritage with a commitment to providing astounding off-road capability in all of its vehicles.

It was seriously revamped in 2011, but its solid axles, removable doors, exposed hinges, fold-down windscreen and detachable roof were kept. Sounds like a life-size Meccano set doesn’t it?

But it’s really not like that – and I was surprised.

You see, I drove the four door 2.8 CRD Overland Auto model, which combines Jeep’s legendary rough-stuff capability with an interior that delivers rich styling and versatility, as well as a premium appearance.

At first the Wrangler seems narrow, but space is good. The highlight of the interior is that there’s room for five adults and there are lots of storage areas,

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as well as luxury touches such as heated seats and heated power mirrors. Automatic temperature controls and enhanced visibility, courtesy of larger rear windows, are also welcome additions.

Behind the wheel, the Jeep is a thoroughly up-to-the-minute affair. Steering wheel controls allow you to operate the radio, cruise control, hands-free phone and other functions while keeping your hands where they should be.

As well as that, a USB interface connects to your MP3 player for use with the vehicle’s media centre, which also includes Bluetooth.

With a 0-62 mph time of 10.7 seconds and a maximum speed of 107 mph, the Jeep is not the fastest vehicle. But you wouldn’t expect it to be would you? It’s not intended for speed – it’s built for hardcore, rough-terrain action.

Consequently, underneath all the sugary sweet creature comforts of the cabin, a brute of an engine thrums.

The power-plant for all Jeep Wrangler models is a 2.8-litre diesel lump, producing 197 bhp and 339 lb ft of pulling power - which is ideal for hauling you out of the mire. This is backedup with a five-speed automatic transmission. Some heavy duty suspension with tuned shock absorbers and a high

ground clearance complete the picture.

All of this gives the Jeep Wrangler the sort of clout that trounces challenging off-road obstacles, especially serious slopes.

Indeed, the Wrangler is balanced, with negligible body lean when cornering and braking. Its suspension gives accurate ride and handling.Characteristics off the tarmac, but, on the black s tuff, it’s a much softer, more comfy experience.

its styling, but also for its wellknown flexibility to go ‘topless’.

Reassuringly, safety systems, such as electronic stability control, help you in maintaining vehicle directional steadiness in severe driving manoeuvres on any type of surface.

Looks-wise the Wrangler’s exterior holds to tradition. Its classic round headlamps, a seven-slot grille, flared trapezoid wheel arches and uncovered hinges make it unmistakably ‘Jeep’, yet it’s fashionable, with clean, crisp lines.

Of course, the SUV’s exterior is worth mentioning not only for

The Jeep Freedom Top, a threepiece roof, features separate detachable panels which give you the option to experience wind-in-your-hair abandon, should you desire it.

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The New Breed of Men - Sling Dads

Being a dad is amazing. As a dad, especially one who works full time, there are lots of parts of parenting i don’t get to be part of. Some of them i wish i could be part of, things like taking my boy to baby music sessions or picking my little girl up from school and being regaled with the tales of what she’s done at ‘big school.’

We’ve just launched www.slingdads.co.uk as a central resource, where we can share stories, sling reviews, wrapping tutorials and our experiences as parents.

Alongside a Youtube channel, Twitter, forums and (don’t tell anyone, it’s a secret) a camp. We are hoping to help more dads enjoy babywearing, and the special bond with their children.

Admittedly, 8 hours of the little guys nappies each day is a definite perk of being out at the office but We’ve got more dads planning its one of the few. to train as peer supporters with The interaction, the cuddles and love we get to the school of share are magical. My 20 month old son chatters b a b y w e a r i n g , and sings, snuggles and often snoozes cuddled into and in October i my chest. It’s closeness we wouldn’t get to share will become the without the gift of a sling. For me, and for lots of first sob trained dad in the other dad’s i’ve got to know over the last 18 consultant the uk. months, wearing our kids is one of the best ways of spending time with them.

We’re still a work in progress, but We have got to know each other through the sling we’re working to dads uk facebook group be a resource to (www.facebook.com/group/slingdaduk) the babywearing which has now grown to over 400 members, all community and to united through babywearing. help more papas, and mamas too, Its something i wish more dads could experience, enjoy those special and as a group we are working together to promote slingy squishes than the joy of babywearing for dads. ever before.

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Sling Libraries UK is a new Facebook group for all sling libraries' owners & runners as w could come together in real time for advice, support and general chit chat. If you wo

East Herts Slings Relocates and Decides on New Name Babywearing Guru is the new Name of the Former East Herts Slings They are now located in Oxfordshire and are available for Consultations, and Workshops. Qualified with: School of Babywearing, Trageschule, JMPBB and Slingababy See www.facebook.com/babywearingguru for more details

Harpenden Sling Library is under new managment., Badger Sling is now officially running the area covered by Harpenden, and has opened Watford Sling Library. www.badgerslings.co.uk www.facebook.com/badgerslings

Abergavenny Sling LIbrary is opening for their first meet on 20th January 2014 Visit:

Norwich Sling Library Celebrates 2nd Birthday!

Thursday 13th Feb 2014 will mark Norwich's second anniversary since opening back in Feb 2012. "It's been a tremendous journey" says Renee "We now have a parenting group that is run along side our Library sessions and Meets, as well as offer consultations, workshops, out of hours hiring, and a an online shop where we offer a small ramge of carriers".

We have an amazing team of volunteers and the success is largely down to how much effort they put into running the parenting group!

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well as consultants and lending services. It was set-up so all sling associated people ould like to be part of the group please contact renee@closeenoughtokiss.co.uk

Nottingham Sling Meet Under New Management

Merseyside Sling Shop COMING SOON! See: www.facebook.com/ thewirralslinglibrary for more details

Their Relaunch Party will take place on 9th January at 'The Corner' See: www.nottinghamslingmeet.co.uk for more details Carry My Baby Sling Library Consultancy and Online Shop Now offer postal loans and are back to fortnightly drop ins.

Dumfries Sling Library will be training up 10 peer supporters with School of Babywearing in 2014, exciting times for the dumfries area. www.facebook.com/ DumfriesSlingLibrary

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South London Sling Library Will be moving house in January See: www.londonslings.co.uk for more details

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As a child I always loved the Love is ... comics. I loved that they could come up with 1001 ways to express what love can mean to someone from deep and thoughtful to frivolous and funny. I had books, posters, pens and any other branded stuff I could get my hands on!

With babywearing though for me it applies both ways. Where you can say 'love is dancing in the rain', dancing in the rain does not always mean love. With babywearing you can flip it around every single time. So here are some of my reasons why Babywearing is love.

Babywearing is love because: * Your baby gets to hear your heart beat (again) * You get to smell your baby and your baby you * Skin to skin contact made easy * Seemingly endless cuddles * Your hands free for your other children * You can share the carrying * You get a carrier which you can love too * You get to melt when your baby carries their doll * It brings generations together * It brings you new friends * It gives you a warm welcoming community And I am sure you can add some more of your own! My last point is very present in my mind at the moment. On the 5th of December we celebrated our 5th Natural Mamas Birthday! No mean feat if you consider most forums do not last that long. And it has grown to be so much more than a forum, it is a true community of people with a common link yet at the same time with so many different points of view that there is always someone who knows what you are going through or can offer a word of encouragement.

So yes, Babywearing is Love and Love is Babywearing.

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