Issue Three
50 UNIQUE pages of Baby Wearing STORIES & NEWS
Autumn Babywearing Ideas On How To Keep Warm
Hybrid Carriers
We Take A Look At The Emeibaby
Kanga Wrapping
There Is More To Wrapping Than The Woven
Big Camp
Get The lowdown On This Year's Event
Sheffield Slings
Celebrate Their First Successful Year
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A Word From The Editor Autumn is on its way and it’s time to think about how you are going to keep those little people warm during the colder months. We have some fabulous advice from the librarian at Chesterfield Sling Library page (6 - 8); with an in-depth look into bamboo wrap on page 12 - perfect for snuggling with your precious ones. This issue we are happy to welcome on board Lorette from the training school Slingababy as our resident ‘Agony Aunt,’ who will be answering your babywearing questions each issue; so if you have any burning questions you would like to ask, email ask@closeenoughtokiss.co.uk For those of you who are navigating the for sale or trade boards on the internet, we have our very own guide of how to get the most out of them. Buying pre-loved can save you money and also save breaking in time, but finding your way round the lingo and board etiquette can leave you feeling flustered. Let our how-to guide you through the maze. August saw the annual ‘Big Camp’ event take place. Close Enough To Kiss were there, and you can read all about what happened on page 30. In October the babywearing community will be celebrating International Babywearing Week. Along with many organised celebrations, Slingathon will be attempting a Guinness world record attempt of as many babywearers in one go as possible, see page 38 for more details. If you want to get involved or host an event, get in contact with them. Also in October we will be celebrating our one year anniversary since the launch issue of Close Enough To Kiss Magazine. What a fabulous year it has been, the magazine has gone from strength to strength and had 120,000 views of our first 3 issues! Our Next issue will be out January, so keep your eyes peeled!
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06 Autumn Babywearing
19 For Sale or Trade Explained
09 Ask Lorette
22 Slingbaby Diaries
10 Arms In or Out?
24 Kanga Wrapping
12 Emma Talk Blend – Bamboo
26 New Wrap on the Block
14 Getting Your Child onto Your Back
28 Explore Wrapping – Double Hammock
16 Motoring Review
30 Big Camp 2013
17 Hybrid Carriers
32 Easyslings Revealed
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Editor Renee Duffin Design & Artwork Colin Jeffery
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Photography Claire Mackenzie Neville, Abedisi Osundeko Charlotte Filcek, Roamy Hunt, Caroline Osbourne Imogen Wheaver, Jason Eadle, Ali Dover Siobhan Thompson, Lindsey Rhodes, Rosie Knowles, Abbie Kennedy Writers Emma Palmer, Katie Mairis, Anne McEwan Helen Rye, Lorette Michalon Featured Writers Abedisi Osundeko, Rachel Coy, Heidi Birdi Lisa Jayne Mee, Imogen Wheaver Sarah Jane Gregory, Emma Eade, Sarah Herrett Editorial Jayne Edwards, Tim Clay-Barnes
34 Babywearing Bellydancing 36 Sheffield Slings 38 Slingathon 40 Sling Library News 42 Directory 47 Shopping
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Autumn Babywearing: Wearing your baby/child isn't just something for good or dry weather. It can easily be done all year round with just a bit of thought. Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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You will get some warmth from each other’s body heat. A lot of people choose to use buckles, ring slings or shorties if they are needing to sling their child when out and about, purely so they don't have the tails/straps dragging on the wet floor. That's not saying that you can't use longer wraps, mei tais or half buckles, you just have to be aware of your lengths. You can put them in loose knots and unravel as you go, or even stick them in your pockets, or use the boot of your car. These methods do take a bit of practice.
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www.closeenoughtokiss.co.uk If you are wrapping from home, a double layered carry with a wrap can be a lovely way of adding some extra warmth. My favourite carry with a young baby is a front wrap cross carry. Supportive, snuggly and protective from the bad weather. Another warm option is a front double hammock. A back double hammock carry is a popular option for back carries; with practice and a knotless finish, you might be able to use a slighter shorter wrap too-not as much fabric length to control.
Supportive, snuggly and protective from the bad weather There are several multi-layered carries you can experiment with - back wrap cross carry, mixed pass carry, Jordan’s back carry to name a few, and lots of variations on different carriers. Pop-in-able carries are also good for wet weather. You can pre tie your woven wrap before you go out, meaning that when you do need to carry your baby or toddler, you can do so with ease. A good example of one of these carries is a Short Cross Carry, this can also be done using sling rings. If you do want to use a woven wrap in the cooler weather, it is worth thinking about the blend and thickness of wrap you use. Some wraps are thicker than others, you can get those with a wool blend too, which can all help with a bit of extra warmth. Cold, damp weather doesn't mean that you can't carry your child, it just means that you have a few more things that you might want to consider. I asked a few babywearing friends for their 'Top Tips' when it comes to babywearing this time of year, here is what they came up with.
TOP TIPS Tails in pockets to avoid getting muddy on soggy autumn days. Not to overdo the layers! A big cardigan that fits over both of you, is just as good as an expensive babywearing coat, open at the front to stop you overheating. Tails in car boot when wrapping. Scotland and similar areas: muslin in top rail with tea tree and citronella oil to fend off midges that the weather often brings. Oversized rain poncho, these can be picked up cheaply in thrift shops and fit right over both you and baby! By Lindsay Rhodes
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Dear Lorette, can you explain sling snobbery for me? I've found a few groups online and Facebook offering advice etc. but the general theme of them is "if your sling didn't cost you more than the average buggy it's no good!" Not all baby wearers can afford obi's and I love my cheap (and perfectly safe) ring sling I got from eBay, and my baby loves it too, after all in some countries babies are happily wrapped with anything to hand. Lindsay-Grace Wow. Now, this is nearly a philosophical question! The "babywearing community", aka "all the people who use slings", is as varied as any other parts of life. You get the cool crowd, the geeks, the teachers' pets, the bullies (unfortunately) and mostly "normal people", also known as "the rest of us". Unfortunately some gangs are more vocal than others and can give a different vibe depending on the group you have joined. Add to the mix, the joys of cyber interactions and you get a rather explosive mix. So are all sling users snobs? Is there a hierarchy based on the price tag? It depends whether you want to play along or not, and whether you want to join a clique or not. I think it is important to keep thinking, this is all a bit tongue in cheek and not really reflective of people's real personalities. To get a sense of what this "community" is all about, there is nothing better than meeting real people in the real world. So get to your local meet, or a giant gathering like Natural Mamas Big Camp to get a flavour of the variety of people involved: the snobs and the rest. Dear Lorette, my other half thinks I am weird for wanting to carry our baby when his mum bought us such an expensive pushchair. How can I convince him it is the way forward? Emma Hi Emma, you know your other half more than I do. What would he respond best to? Science? Money? Art? Fashion? Bribery? You can explain why it is so good for you, for baby and for him if he wants to give it a go. You can tell him that you have already put the pushchair on eBay, so with the spare cash you can buy him a crate of beer (Oh yay, I love a good stereotype) or whatever you know will sway him. Or you can just say you like it and that it is not up for debate. Or you can say the most beautiful jewel a mother can wear is the arms of her child around her neck. If he worries about his mum, tell him to worry about his baby. His mum can take it. At the end of the day, having a new baby means that you will interact differently and you don't have to do everything the same way. If you like carrying, just do that, if he likes the pushchair he can take it along and then it gives you somewhere to put your bag. I hope you find your way as a new family. Dear Lorette, I am getting very hot in my stretchy wrap but I love the snuggles, especially in this very hot summer. Can you help? Sally There are many things you can try: · Make sure that baby is lightly dressed, maybe only in a nappy. Make sure to protect all the parts that are not under the wrap with appropriate sun protection though. · Wear natural fibre clothes. · You can fold a muslin between baby's face and your skin. · You can use a water spray to cool you and baby down. · You can go naked under your stretchy, as it covers most of your torso, it is unlikely people will notice. However, bear that in mind when you get baby out! So maybe best to keep this as a stay-at-home option. · You can try to wrap around your baby instead of the pre-tie. By adjusting as you tie, you will be able to get away with 2 layers of fabric, which will be less hot than the usual 3. · You can get a different stretchy wrap, some are more light-weight than others. · You can get a different carrier altogether. Have you been to your local sling meet to see what the options are? · You can get your other half to carry your baby, and only get baby back for cuddles when you are stationary and wrap free But don't worry, it will be cold again in no time! And you will enjoy your warm stretchy cuddles once again.
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Arms In Or Out By Lisa Mee
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any people often ask, “When is it ok for my little one’s arms to be out of the sling?” This is usually prompted by their little one becoming independent enough to lean to one side and pull their arms out of the top of their wrap or carrier. I can happily say that if your little one has reached this stage, they are fine to remain with their arms out. Once your baby has good head and trunk control many will start to pull their arms out of their own accord and short of duct taping them down, there is little we can do to stop them. The obvious advantages of your baby having their arms out is an improved view of the world and the ability to be able to manoeuvre to see that world a little better (as well as being able to grab your hair and anything else within reach). The usual problem this creates is a slight slackening in your carrier or wrap. The easiest solution to this, when using a wrap, is to simply wrap with your little one’s arms out to begin with. Wrap as you normally would but rather than bringing your wrap over
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the shoulder pull it high up the back and in to the armpit and tighten as normal. The benefit of this is you won’t end up with a saggy top rail when they inevitably pull their arms out to get a better view of the world around them and your carry stays secure. It can also be cooler in the summer months to allow your baby or toddler to travel arms out and allow you both a bit more space in the heat. The disadvantages to your little one having their arms out is that their natural curiosity means you may find yourself back tracking more often to pick up fallen packets of cornflakes and replace the sunglasses your child has helped themselves to in the Supermarket. If your child is still young and likes to fall asleep you may find it handy to have a scarf or length of fabric to support their head when they nod off as it can be harder to support them if they are wrapped or don’t have a sleep hood on their carrier. The advantages to your little one having their arms in, is that they are more secure and closer to you, more advantageous with a younger baby who may want more cuddles and attention. It is warmer for both of you in the winter months when the wrap or carrier can be a welcome extra layer It is also easier if you have a small person who likes to sleep on
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“When is it ok for my little one’s arms to be out of the sling?” you. We will all, no doubt, have experienced being a human comforter and consequently being an upright nap spot; if your baby has their arms in, a sleep hood is easier to put up and often the top rail on your wrap can be pulled over to support the sleeping head. There is no right or wrong answer in babywearing. As long as you follow the Tight, In view, Close enough to kiss, Knee to knee, Supported back, rules for safe and happy babywearing, you are good to go.
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Emma Talks Blend
Bamboo So it's time to think about getting cosy and snuggling under a soft blanket. What could be softer to carry your child in than a bamboo wrap? Bamboo, though a rarer fibre in the wrap world is becoming increasingly popular with new blends becoming available. Natibaby have always been at the forefront of bamboo usage starting with their classic dandelion pattern in a grey white bamboo viscose and linen blend. They stayed the only major wrap company using the soft and luxurious fibre for some time until Ellevill, a Norwegian wrap company, started their bamboo/cotton paisley designs, possibly the perfect “squish” wrap in my opinion. The thin, delicate paisley design with the light sheen from the bamboo viscose which gives the fabric and almost silk like appearance, gives these wraps a classy look while being soft and cosy yet airy, making them perfect for young babies. Luckily for me they then brought out bamboo/ linen blend paisleys which while still being soft and luxurious are supportive enough for my growing toddler. They have even brought out a bamboo/silk blend which is on my “must try” list though I fear on me it may become a mutton dressed as lamb situation.
introducing a hemp/bamboo blend earlier this year. Most bamboo blends seem to abide by the same wrapping qualities; slippy, meaning passes glide into place. Cushy on the shoulders and a good amount of bounce. Bamboo is used in fabric and in particular slings, nappies, towels and bedding for its amazing qualities. Even after processing it has wonderful moisture retention, drawing liquid in and storing it away from the skin. It is naturally anti-bacterial, deodorizing, anti-fungal, breathable and thermal regulating meaning it will keep you warm when it's cold and cool when it's warm.
Caring for bamboo?
Bamboo isn't the easiest fabric to care for, even when blended with other fibres as it has a tendency to shrink. I recommend washing bamboo blend wraps in a full load (to minimize movement) making sure you don't have any zips or other things in the machine that could catch and cause pulls to your Recently Oscha have joined the bamboo club, firstly with their wrap. Wash at a max of 30 degrees c and keep the spin as low starry night midnight with 54% cotton, 46% bamboo blend and as possible, squeezing out any excess water before line drying. then a surya tiree in the same blend while resurrecting their Due to its amazing absorbency bear in mind it will take longer original weston isles collection colourway. Even the to dry than a cotton or linen wrap for example. budget companies like Lenny Lamb are producing So is bamboo eco-friendly? gorgeous bamboo, though Natibaby On one hand yes. It's a sustainable, quick growing plant. Up are still ahead to four feet a day! This means a crop is matured and ready to of game, getting harvest in about four years. It requires no irrigation, fertilizers or very experimental pesticides and needs little care from fuel powered machinery. The large bamboo plantations flourish on natural sunlight and with their blend little rainfall, feeding on toxic greenhouse gasses and pumping combinations, Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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out oxygen with their energetic growth. Even replanting isn't needed due to their voracious root system which sprouts new growth after harvest. This all means that the majority of bamboo produced is done so organically even if it isn't certified.
What's the problem then? There are two ways the fibres can be produced after harvesting, mechanically and chemically. The mechanical method involves crushing the woody bamboo stalks and using natural enzymes to break down the plant into a pulp from which the fibres can be extracted and spun into yarn. Much like the production of the very eco-friendly hemp discussed in the last edition. The problem is this method is very labour intensive and the end result is natural bamboo which doesn't have the sheen and drape the manufactures are looking for. The chemical method involves “cooking” the leaves and stalks in a chemical solution of sodium hydroxide aka caustic soda or lye (also used in soap and becomes inert after the chemical reaction) and carbon disulphide. Both chemicals can cause health problems if the correct safety procedures aren't followed. Due to this process being very chemically intensive and the health and environmental risks surrounding the manufacturing facilities this bamboo viscous is not considered sustainable or environmentally supportable. Newer manufacturing facilities however are becoming more readily available using chemical technology that is more benign and eco-friendly. If these eco methods become the norm bamboo is set to be a very sustainable resource.
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Reader’s opinions “I absolutely LOVE them. They aren't for everybody as there's a significant amount of bounce, but are so soft and cushy on the shoulders. They just envelope my baby and I in a lovely big cuddle of fabric.” Lindsay Hutchinson “I adore bamboo wraps. They are my instant go to. I carry my 6 year old and my 2 year old in them. They are soft and snuggly and like wrapping with a cloud. Luxury and durable” Katie Mairis “The only downside to bamboo is that if I do a poor job wrapping then because it’s quite slippy, I need to readjust more often. But I love my Natibaby royal gears, so soft & squishy, good on the shoulders!” Amy Bower “I've not wrapped with many other blends as I fell in love with a Lenny Lamb ring sling I borrowed which was bamboo. I love it, very supportive for the bigger babies and nice and soft. I prefer them not to be freshly washed.” Natalie Coe “I don't think you can lump all bamboo blends together I tried a Nati bamboo dandelions, it was lush, so squidgy and soft, the perfect winter newborn wrap. It was a conversion with my 10 month old and I found it too bouncy. Oscha bamboo SN midnight was very different, not as cushy and soft but that means its toddler worthy, it's still got a bit of squidge and stretch, but not too much for heavier babies” Vicky “Surya Tiree is like having a bouncy castle on your back unless its multiple layers compared to starry night midnight which is much firmer.” Cathrine Coutts “I love bamboo. You can't beat an Ellevill Paisley for outrageous softness but serious toddler support in a really thin, light wrap. Squashy loveliness” Lindsay Judge “I have Natibaby Royal gears. I opened the pack and thought it was pretty, then I picked it up and it's the softest wrap I've ever touched. You have to work on tying them nice a tight or they can sag a bit but once you've cracked it they're wonderful wraps. My son has terrible skin issues as well and his skin seems to tolerate our bamboo wrap much better than any of the others even for extended periods of time” Hannah Perkin Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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Getting Your Child Onto Your Back By Sarah Jane Gregory When choosing to back carry your child it may seem like a daunting new project deciding which method to use to get your child into the position needed. Back carrying your child can be a useful and exciting new way of carrying especially as it offers the freedom to interact with the world with your baby still in tow behind you. There are three different methods used to get your child onto the back; these are the hip scoot, the santa toss and the superman toss. The first time I saw a friend use the superman toss I nearly fell through the floor. The one swift manoeuvre looked terrifying and worrisome and I decided that it would be one method that I personally would never be able to use. But there had to be a way to get my baby on my back without throwing her over. After being diverted to some WebPages and videos to watch I decided to begin with the hip scoot.
Hip Scoot The hip scoot is a good method to use for beginners and is ideal to use with a Mei Tai or a buckle carrier, although it can be used with a woven wrap. To use the hip scoot tie your carrier around your waist (this is described if you were placing your child on your left hip) with the carrier still hanging down pick up your child and sit on your hip with the carrier under your child's bottom and legs in the optimal position. Pull the carrier up over your child's back and with your right hand grab the 2 straps tightly and place your left hand on their back to support. Lean forward slightly and move your left arm over your child (still holding the straps tightly with your right hand) and take your right arm over your head and scoot your child around until in the middle of the back. Complicated as it may seem, in practice once on the hip it's just a few short moves. Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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child) cross your arms outwards in front of you and palms facing upwards put your hands under the child's armpits and lift up. Leaning forward and with one swift manoeuvre toss the child round left shoulder, your right arm going over your head onto your back and move your child until in the position you want for wrapping. All these methods may seem daunting for a new time back carrier but with a bit of practice can be achieved. A friend told me about her first experience of using the hip scoot. After watching me confidently putting my 6 month old onto my back using the superman toss she thought she would give it a go so I showed her how to use the hip scoot to start. I explained if she was unsure or had any questions just to ask and to practise over something soft such as a sofa or bed. A few days later she texted me describing how she was horrified because she had nearly dropped her little girl and while trying to grab her she ended up smacking her in the face. The short lived cries of the 6 month old left an emotional scar on her mother who vowed to never try again. We laugh about it now but at the time she felt as though she would never be able to master the back carry as she couldn’t even get her The next method to try is the santa toss which may seem onto her back. With help, practice and encouragement she now slightly complicated but it is a good move to use with managed to put her little girl on her back (without smacking her a woven wrap or a Mei Tai and is suitable for smaller in the face may I add).
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children and for those who cannot yet sit up.
Over time I have practised each method and now confidently can
Lay your wrap or carrier on the floor and place your child use all three methods to get my children on my back. I would on top and gather the material around their shoulders. advise against practising when your child is tired or hungry as a Hold both sides of the gathered material in one hand and place the other hand underneath the child's bottom. As you lift your child up take them up onto the shoulder and gently lower down onto the back until in place leaning your body forward slightly. At all times supporting the child with your hand on their bottom/ lower back.
grumpy baby can make for a stressed out mum.
Not bad I hear you say, well the next method is for those people who are more confident and want to try a different manoeuvre.
Superman Toss This is called the superman toss. The superman toss certainly made me stare the first time I saw it as it looked like throwing a child over your back. That is what this method really is. This is a good method to use for an older child but can be used even on a 6 month plus baby and is good for woven wraps. This description used is for manoeuvring over your left. Place the wrap behind the back of the child and taking the material over the shoulders (underneath the shoulders if preferred for an older
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Chevrolet Cruze Hatchback By Tim Barnes-Clay, Motoring Journalist Tweet Tim @carwriteups Website: www.carwriteups.co.uk This car handles far better than it looks. It’s also punchier and more comfortable than you might imagine. You see, the Chevrolet Cruze 1.7 VCDi LT Hatchback gives the impression of being a tiny bit boring and mediocre. From the overly-flexible door panels to the hollow-sounding interior plastics, everything just oozes ‘budget’. But is this a bad thing if the car is reasonably priced? Probably not in today’s economic climate. You see, people still want nice things, even when life isn’t quite as sweet as it used to be – and a shiny motor is one of them. Let’s face it, there’s nothing quite like the heady scent of a brand new car – and knowing you’re the first owner gives you a kind of thrill. So, what’s the Cruze like inside? Straight away, the iffy looking part-textile covered, plasticky dashboard lets things down a bit, but in lots of other ways the Chevy is admirable. For a start, getting comfy behind the wheel is easy. The driver’s seat hugs and supports you in all the right places and the arrangement of the controls is refreshingly simple. In mid-range LT trim, under review here, the Cruze Hatchback incorporates features such as cruise control, electric windows, a multi-function trip computer, parking distance sensors, remote audio controls and a leather steering wheel and gearknob. What a shame I couldn’t find a USB port for my i-Phone though. Regardless of some seemingly low-rent materials used on the Chevrolet Cruze Hatchback, it’s not a bad piece of kit for £18,115. Indeed, in five-door guise, the car is even more practical than its saloon sibling which already has one of the biggest load areas in its class. The boot is big, square and deep, so that should tick a major box for anyone looking for a new set-of-wheels that will swallow a pushchair or two, and the weekly supermarket shop.
impressive enough for a five-seater family car. The engine isn’t just a respectable performer; it’s also fuel-efficient and emits low carbon dioxide (CO2). Returning an official average of 62.7 mpg and giving off just 117 g/km of CO2, the 1.7 VCDi propelled Cruze Hatchback is likely to appeal to private and fleet customers alike. In reality, coupled to Chevrolet’s comparatively high specification and keen pricing, that makes the latest Cruze one of the best value five-door family hatchbacks on the road. PROS ‘N’ CONS • Reasonably priced √ • Handling √ • Efficiency √ • Load space √ • Some cheap materials X • No USB port X FAST FACTS • Max speed: 124 mph • 0-62 mph: 9.8 secs • Combined mpg: 62.7 • Engine: 1686 cc 4 cylinder 16 valve turbo diesel • Max. power (bhp): 129 at 4000 rpm • Max. torque (lb/ft): 221 at 2000 rpm • CO2: 117 g/km • Price: £18,115 on the road
As alluded to at the top of this piece, the Cruze is reasonably entertaining to drive. The steering is direct and road-holding is decent – almost sportily so, but that should be expected really. After all, the saloon variant won both the 2010 British Touring Car Drivers championship and both drivers’ and manufacturers’ titles in the World Touring Car series. Under the bonnet, lurks a 1686 cc four cylinder 16 valve turbo diesel engine, although it feels more like a 2.0 litre oil-burner. There’s heaps of low down shove, meaning you can stir up a swell of power quite easily – and that makes overtaking easy. The six-speed manual gearshift is slick and precise and getting from 0-62mph only takes 9.8 seconds. Okay, that’s not blisteringly speedy – but it’s Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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Hybrid Carriers Emeibaby There are very few carriers that can boast being hybrid, over the next few issues we will examine some of the claims. What is a hybrid carrier? Hybrid means something that contains more than one of, so in the case of a sling, it’s the combination of more than 2 elements of another kind of sling, in the Emei’s case - a soft structured carrier and a woven wrap, with the tightening mechanism of a ring sling The ingeniousness of a hybrid carrier is it takes the best features of several carriers and fuses them together to get something that is simply amazing.
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The Main Feature The Emei has an uncanny ability to accommodate a child from newborn to pre-schooler. It does this with an adjustable seat, this is where the Emei is like a woven wrap, the seat is made of woven fabric, which, like a woven, sits knee pit to knee pit between you and baby, and this gives the greatest flexibility on getting the perfect fit for your child. The seat sits under baby's bum and baby is suspended, hammock style, sitting back onto their bottom, made adjustable with rings each side, which in turn allows you to get a perfect knee to knee fit and raise knees higher than bum.
Unique Straps The curved straps, rather than straight straps of most carriers, the Emei straps sit nicely onto your shoulders and then arc at your back making it easier to clip in, and with amazing comfort it reduces the shoulder slippage that often occurs with ruck straps. They are padded for extra comfort, which is especially useful when wearing a heavier child, toddler or pre-schooler.
Easy Seat The padded waist belt gives support to the wearer’s lumbar area, and also help the less experienced wearer to achieve optimum positioning easily.
Micro-Adjustability Lastly it's micro-adjustable: at the shoulders the carrier can be adjusted to be closer to your chin, the headrest can also be cinched to bring the straps closer on your shoulders, it also adapts to the parent's size from xxs to xxl. It’s a truly remarkable product and one which will turn even the most harden woven user to use it.
A Good All-Rounder Supportive, adjustable and comfortable, the Emeibaby carrier ticks all the boxes in what people look for in a carrier, with the added bonus of an array of colours, keeping the mould-ability of a wrap and adding the features of structure really appeals to the widest audience. Emeibaby has supported many sling libraries across the UK by offering carriers at a reduced price, so why not check out your local Sling Library, to see if the Emeibaby is for you. Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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For Sale or Trade Explained For the uninitiated For Sale or Trade (FSOT) markets might seem like a bewildering world, full of abbreviations and terms that a person new to slings could take a while to get to grips with. I know it took me a long time to realise people were not talking about wrapping their husbands when I saw the abbreviation DH and that in this context they were taking about a type of a carry with a long wrap called a Double Hammock. FSOT allows people to buy and trade preowned baby slings and some sites also offer babywearing advice too. There are lots of different FSOT markets out there, including the FSOT sections of The Babywearer and Natural Mamas forums, and several of Facebook. It is crucial to remember that most FSOT groups are ‘buyer beware’ environments and as such your rights as a buyer and seller are often different to buying a sling new from a retailer. Every group will have different rules and guidelines for sale and when you first join you should read these. You may find you have posts deleted if you do not. The guidelines are there to help you and to help prevent issues from arising. For example, most will ask you to pay for a sling by PayPal ‘goods’ rather than as a ‘gifted’ or friends payment. This means if there is an issue with the sling you will have some protection as a buyer and a seller. As a seller, it is important to send via a method which requires a signature on delivery as proof of delivery is required for PayPal. If you are the buyer, you know that if the sling arrives not as described that you have some protection.
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to provide these for you. If you send as bank transfer (cheaper than PayPal) or as a gifted payment you do not have any protection if things do go wrong. Buying second hand is usually problem free but issues can occur. It is important to ask people where they bought slings from in first place, this is especially important with regularly counterfeited brands such as Ergo, Beco Butterfly, Moby and Freehand MTs. Genuine sellers will be able to provide you with photographs, receipts and details to help put your mind at rest. Most forums and Facebook groups will have a moderation or admin system. Many will request a minimum number of posts and days' membership before you can sell, although in most cases you can buy before these requirements are met. By asking for these the forum and board owners are trying to protect you by allowing people to get to know individuals first. As an ‘admin’ on a group I appreciate the complexities of managing a relatively small number of individuals, moderating groups of thousands of members is an extremely difficult job, which admin do for free, in their spare time, with young families. Sometimes issues do arise and FSOT can become quite feverish and heated.
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Part of the problem is what we type can be misunderstood and it is easy for a quick comment to be seen as negative or aggressive. Take time to read what you have written; could it be misconstrued? What you get out of FSOT groups and forums will depend on your expectations. If you are looking for a specific sling ask, if you have a set budget tell people what it is, if you are allergic to cats/dogs for example make sure your posts tell people. Many people come to FSOT looking for their next carrier or sling and can be astounded at the price people are asking for their sling. It took me a long time to be willing to spend anything in FSOT markets. I could not understand why people were asking for the amounts they were. It was only as I became more aware of the different brands, the process of ‘breaking in’ wraps and how some slings (especially wraps) can be limited editions, that I became willing to spend.
Many of these boards have lots of babywearing consultants and sling librarians as members who will always be willing to answer your questions, or point you in the direction of those who can help you.
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Always take a sling!! I own at least 30 slings
Beginners guide to FSOT key abbreviations. (This is not exhaustive but gives you a summary of the key) ones
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FS/FSO - For Sale/For Sale Only
So imagine my surprise when we got to our destination yesterday only to discover that all slings had been taken out in a fit of end of holiday tidiness and not one put back.
FT/FTO - For Trade/For Trade Only PP - PayPal HTF - Hard to Find ISO - In search of (DISO – Desperately In Search Of) ABC - Asian Based Carrier but also a brand of sling MT - Mei Tai SSC - Soft Structured Carrier (has buckles) WC - Wrap Conversion FB - Full Buckle Carrier BW - Babywearing RS - Ring Sling NM - Natural Mamas Forum TBW - The Babywearer Forum
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in the boot of our car, often more.
Eleanor is nearly 3 and not carried as often as I would like anymore yet of course she demonstrated that toddlers do like a carry amply yesterday by demanding to go in the absent sling. We discovered a couple of things: * carrying a toddler on your shoulders is harder than carrying that same toddler in a sling * shawls make great rebozos - do try and take a nice thick scarf if you are planning to forget your sling * my toddler is now big enough for piggy backs - more comfortable than carrying on your shoulders but the lack of use of my hands was a shock to the system * I obviously need to buy more slings so I can chain one to the car.
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‘The Slingbaby Diaries Parenting Under Wraps’ Wednesday 19th Tomorrow, Slingbaby and I have to attend a film premiere. Not the red-carpet-and-Johnny-Depp type of premiere, sadly, but the premiere of a film made by art students for my friend’s charity, for which I sometimes volunteer. She told me in a breezy sort of way the other day that she has me down on the guest list as a professional volunteer with a job title I have only the shakiest of claims to, and added by way of a parting shot that she was ‘looking forward to introducing me to the trustees’. These are a bunch of terrifyingly prominent individuals with old-money names and incomprehensible, triple-barrelled titles like the Lord Lieutenant of the Rolls, and High Sherriff of the Hounds, and even in the days before Slingbaby came along and liquefied my brain, encounters with people like that were pretty much doomed for me. (The time springs to mind when our local MP, a cabinet minister, visited the street drug clinic where I was working and I not only failed to recognise him but also asked him to leave the restricted area where I found him because I thought he was trying to steal a handbag. In my defence, the shirt he was wearing looked like he’d slept in it on the street for about a week, but all the same, I never really lived it down.) Unlike a Hollywood-style premiere, this one takes place at the ungodly hour of 9am, at which time of the morning we have the option of getting there either on time, or presentable, but not both. Our sling choice is easy, though – Jim jade 2 has arrived and temporarily spoiled us for the Love Of All Other Wraps; it’s already stashed in my handbag, along with a pair of shiny silver sling rings. We may be a bit dishevelled at 9am tomorrow - and (in Slingbaby’s case) possibly, unless it turns up soon, minus a shoe - but my goodness, our sling will be classy.
Thursday 20th By some miracle of not dissimilar magnitude to that thing with Jonah and the Whale, we leave early, clean, with brushed hair and a full complement of footwear. I’m feeling pretty smug, until at some traffic lights I happen to glance in the rearview mirror and notice a couple of thick, bristly facial hairs that have gone unseen in the dim light of the bathroom (clearly they haven’t read the bit in the pregnancy book where it says this sort of humiliating side-effect will end ‘by the time baby reaches 6 months’). There’s no way I’m going in with what now looks like a tiny moustache, so I look for an isolated car park space where I can tweezer them in private. The venue for the film showing is the shiny, Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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Red-faced, I deal with the moustache as subtly as I can and try to ignore the audience as I get Slingbaby out of the car and slip her into the no-sew ring sling, praying she doesn’t pick this moment to demonstrate her flailing/screaming skills. Thankfully, she comes quietly. Inside the venue, Slingbaby continues to be unusually co-operative. She is emerging from her sling strike period and there is none of the frantic leg-straightening or strident cries of ‘Dowwwwwn!’ that have accompanied so many ill-starred trips out over the past few months. She allows herself to be cooed over and accepts a small container of fresh fruit and a breakfast muffin. I am introduced to a lot of people with expensive hair, all of whom are extremely pleasant and friendly, and I think that I manage to acquit myself in a semi-professional manner, so far as is possible in between removing bits of fresh strawberry from JJ with a baby wipe. A distinguishedlooking man in a navy blue jacket with shiny gold buttons pronounces the sling ‘A dashed clever contraption,’ and nobody asks us what we’re doing here. While we wait for the film to start, more baskets of delicious-looking muffins, still warm from the ovens of the catering students, criss-cross the room. I didn’t get given any breakfast container as we came in and have been eyeing Slingbaby’s muffin for the past few minutes. I look hopefully at the basket bearers, trying to catch someone’s eye, but everybody else in the room is far too posh to eat cake in public at breakfast time. I would happily eat cake on national television if it was the only option – but clearly, in this room I am alone in this. The cake baskets leave, untouched. I pinch a bit of Slingbaby’s muffin while she is not looking. It turns out that the lovely, plump blueberries are in fact black olives, and now I look closer I can see little bits of ham poking out. In my book, this is a too-literal and slightly disgusting interpretation of the term ‘breakfast muffin’ – I drop the remainder back into Slingbaby’s container and give up, just as she finally demands to be let out. To my surprise, she seats herself happily on the plush velvet bench beside me, all blonde curls and innocence. There is no screaming, and nobody runs away from anybody to be caught on the street by a passing shop assistant (that’s obviously never happened…) As the lights dim and the giant screen comes to life, I feel myself starting to relax – this is going pretty well. The film itself is short and beautifully done, and the applause at the end is genuine. I return my attention to Slingbaby, still sitting quietly beside me; and leaning over her, put my hand in something wet. And slimy. It is the remains of a large and squashy strawberry. It has been mashed into the seat with a sort of artistic fervour; surrounding it are several of its fellows, along with what might once have been raspberries. I leap up in horror to inspect the damage and as I do, become aware that the carpet under my feet seems to have become a lot more soft pile that I remember. I look down. I am standing in an ocean of muffin crumbs, dotted here and there with bits of olive and ham, like dead fish. I spend the next few minutes crawling around the floor next to sharply-pressed trouser legs and polished shoes, doing the best I can in damage limitation with a packet of baby wipes. Slingbaby thinks this is fascinating, and watches, squatting to get a better view, thankfully too engrossed to run off. Hair plastered to my face with sweat, I try to slink away quietly, but as I reach the door my ’friend’ stops me and introduces me to one last Grand City Mayor/Patron Saint of Devon. I shake his hand, not realising til afterwards that mine is sticky with strawberry juice. He has the good grace not to miss a beat and smiles kindly at Slingbaby, who has crumbs in her hair and is nearly asleep. Out in the fresh air of the car park, I cross quickly to the car, eyes down. A youth with trousers hanging off his bony body passes just before I reach safety, and turns to speak. ‘Is she yours?’ he says, looking down at Slingbaby, now snoring gently, wrapped in her Jim. ‘Ye-es,’ I say, cautiously defensive. ‘She’s beautiful,’ he says, his face serious, and nods at me; ‘You must be so proud.’ And, of course, I am.
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Kanga Wrapping by Adebisi Osundeko
With Babywearing becoming more popular, some traditional carriers are gradually gaining some entry into the western limelight. Examples are the Mei Tai, which has Asian origin and the Kanga with an African origin. In Africa in particular, the Kanga is the most common term used to describe the colourful multi-purpose rectangular fabric used to carry babies. Though some people refer to most African carrying cloth as the Kanga, it is worth mentioning that with Africa consisting of about 55 countries, most ethnic tribes within each country have certain names they call their carrying cloth. The Kanga is also called the ‘Lesso’ in some other eastern African countries and it is called the ‘Chitenge’ or ‘Kitenge’ in Southern Africa. In West Africa the Kangalike textile used to carry babies is called the ‘Ankara’. The Ankara is also multi-purpose like the Kanga but the difference between the two is the fact that the Kanga has quotations or messages printed on it. Some history has it that the Ankara was named after the Turkish people from Ankara in Turkey, who produced a cheap version of the high quality Dutch Wax. (Dutch wax is used when printing the ornate patterns on the materials). History books show the origin for the name Kanga is from 19th Century East Africa. The bright and colourful patterns of the textile reminded the Swahili women of the Guinea Fowl found in their region. The Kanga can be used for a wide variety of crafts, including clothing and upholstery. They are also used for a variety of ceremonial purposes like weddings, naming ceremonies Mothers naturally demonstrate a very high level of responsibility of care when carrying their little ones. Most women even use their and burials. Kanga to carry their newborn, and children get used to be carried The Kanga is rectangular in shape and they usually measure from the start of their life. To prevent falls of babies from the Kanga, around 1.7m x 1.15m. The Ankara fabric comes in more variable some Africa cultures have superstitions or a warning that makes sizes with the longest being 5.4m and 1.52m wide. The Kanga may it almost impossible to drop one’s baby. So when a woman carries come hemmed or not and some have Swahili proverbs written on her baby, it is almost compulsory that the baby must never fall. I their edges as a way to convey a message or expression of belief, remember as a child, one superstition was common in my tribe which is how the Kanga has famously been known as ‘The cloth (Yoruba) and it was said that if a baby falls down from the mother's that speaks’. The standard Kanga comes in a pair, so some women back, that was a negative omen for the child’s future especially if tie one of the Kanga’s round their waist like a skirt and then use the baby was male. the other part to carry their baby or they gift the second piece to My opinion as I grew up was that the superstition was probably a a friend. ploy by the elderly ones to encourage younger mothers to carry The tying of the Kanga traditionally involves a lot of confidence their babies with extra care. However, I have never heard of and with mothers following their natural instincts. In Africa, anybody dropping their babies from their Kanga. What you see is Kanga wrapping enables mothers to multi-task effectively so if a person around feels that a baby is not well positioned on the it is not uncommon to see women with their babies wrapped in mother’s back, they usually warn the mother to re-adjust the baby their Kanga, carrying wares to the market to sell. African women immediately. take full responsibility for the safety of their babies and this really makes a lot of sense because the sophisticated laboratory safety The Kanga is usually in 100% cotton and this is why it is quite testing procedures used for most baby carriers here in the west grippy but if your Kanga looks and feels slippery to touch, it is probably polyester and not cotton. I haven’t really seen lower isn’t available in Africa. Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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4. When baby is at your back, incline your back a little so that baby naturally clings to you (if you can’t do this, tuck baby’s hands underneath your shoulders) and then bring the Kanga up to cover your baby’s bum. It is often said that the body of the female natural supports the baby on the back 5. Then you can adjust the Kanga until your baby feels snug and then you can finish the carry off by either tucking the ends of the Kanga or tying in front (above your bust). The tucking method will be more comfortable for mums who do not like anything tied above their bust. The key to properly tying the Kanga is to ensure that the baby is carried above the bum and use the lower part of the wrap to provide adequate seat for the baby (see picture) 6. I personally prefer to tie the ends of the fabric especially when I’m carrying my wriggly toddlers. For newborns in African, mums usually leave baby’s hands inside the Kanga especially to nurse a baby to sleep and they bunch the upper rails well to provide head support for the baby. In my tribe we use an additional sash called the ‘oja’ to support the baby. Some people use specially woven fabrics called ‘aso oke’or ‘kente’ as well 7. Toddlers will usually want to have their hands out and ensure that you raise the wrap to cover the child back well 8. For back Rebozo carries, follow one to 3 then: bring one part of the Kanga above your shoulder over baby’s back. Then bring the other part of the wrap under your shoulder across your chest. Then tie off using a slip knot or double slip knot and adjust baby until he/she is comfortable How the Kanga can be applied to other carriers
quality Kanga textile, but the Ankara fabric has lower quality imitations manufactured in China. High end Ankara fabrics are the ones manufactured by the Dutch company Vlisco, their Ankara are more expensive and their colours do not run compared to the cheaper ones. There different ways to wrap with the Kanga. The most predominant carries are back or side carries (front or back). Back carries with the Kanga can be done as a ‘torso carry’ or as a ‘Rebozo back carry’ though these terms might not necessarily be used to describe these carries in Africa. Adebisi’s Guide to Kanga Wrapping Torso carry 1. First put the wrap around your waist over your bum and tuck front ends into your thighs 2. Carry baby naturally as you would normally do 3. Then do a gentle hip scoot
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The Kanga can be adapted to other modern carries to make it more versatile. For forward cross carries, you can select a Kanga with a longer length this is where the Ankara will be more useful. The textile is light and very wrapppable.The Kanga can also be used for ring slings. The Kanga has been used all over African for many years to carry babies and as explained in this article there’s a lot of tradition, culture and even folk tales attached to this method of carrying with the Kanga. A lot of the African women carrying their babies have probably been doing this for years even before their own babies were born. Older siblings help out by carrying the younger ones, so you can see that perfecting the Kanga wrapping takes practise as with most back carries in my opinion. What I love about Kanga wrapping is the simplicity and the fact that you can back carry your baby in quick seconds; this is an important tool for emergency situations in Life. I remember about some years ago, my younger sister fell ill suddenly and my dad who was the main family driver wasn’t home and there was no ambulance. My aunt carried my sister who was a teenager to the hospital on her back. Whilst this is not your every day normal carry, it can be useful for when there’s no other option. With the same method of tying the Kanga now translated to carrying with even simple towels and blankets, I see a future where babywearing is more mainstream and liberating in the sense that any sturdy textile might be used to carry. Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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NEW WRAP ON THE BLOCK Warped and Wonderful - Illusion
Warped and Wonderful - Illusion •100% Cotton • Handwoven • Green and White Diamond Design and-woven on a loom, the warped and wonderful wrap is a must have woven for the wrap-addict. I am not one to be drawn into the rather expensive world that can often be woven wraps, but the chance to try out a warped and wonderful, didn’t get past me. For those who don’t know about W&W they are an American weaver in Idaho, the wraps are made to order and the waiting list is currently 18 months with no pre-orders being taken till March 2014. So getting a chance to try one of the traveling wraps was amazing.
The stunning green colour works well with most complexions and even those who don’t particularly like the fabric look, are pleasantly surprised once on. As the wrap is made to order it has no hem which gives the wrap a seamless look and I loved how each side looked the same, wrapping evenness is something that I find pleasing to the eye, with no reverse side the wrap looked almost flawless.The no hem did have the downside of being more prone to rolling. My one gripe has to be the straight edges of the ends, because they didn’t taper like most wraps and also because of the general thickness of the wrap, the knot was very large, this could potentially put someone (especially a new wrapper) off. The wrap was a good 2 inches narrower than most wraps, however due to the grippiness of the fabric, it had the wrapping illusion of a longer wrap and also helped to get the seat a lot deeper. There was a very discreet middle marker and the tight weave of the fabric means pulls to the wrap would be very unlikely which is a bonus especially to those among us who are not too precious about using our wraps as multi-purpose materials too.
On feel you would be forgiven in thinking it was a wool wrap, or at least a wool blend, it's soft and silky and amazingly cushy on the shoulders when wrapping, I wrapped on a particularly warm day, and the wrap felt breathable and cool. So I was surprised to find it was 100% cotton.
The wrap would be great for new babies and toddlers alike, soft and mouldable for a baby, and grippy, thick and cushy for a toddler. Downside has to be the waiting list and price, however the price could be offset as it’s a great all-rounder and will more than definitely hold its market value, if not increase.
The wrap had seen a few people before me, so it was reasonably well broken in already, which meant it wrapped like a dream and felt weightless even with a heavy 3 year old. I tried various carries from FWCC to Double Hammock and even a simple ruck, all were extremely comfortable. The fabric had a great amount of grip when wrapping and the nature of the weave made tightening very easy. Widthways the wrap had a slight give to it, which made the fabric mould well around my child and gave a good amount of bounce. The fabric also left no marks to arms or legs when unwrapped.
My overall scores for this are: Supportiveness 5/5 Temperature 4/5 Ease of Care 4/5 Time to break in 4/5 Luxury 3/5
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Explore Wrapping
In this series I will be exploring some of the different wrapping methods and how it is possible to adapt each carry to your preferences. Wrapping is an art and taking time to fully explore different carrying methods, they can make all the difference in the amount of enjoyment and comfort you and your baby achieve when using a wrap. How to tie a Double Hammock The double hammock is a carry which became popular very quickly in 2007, it is attributed to JPMBB and made it to woven wraps as many babywearers found that it was an easy to use comfortable back carry with a toddler. Two hammocks of fabric keep your child seated nicely on your back and the pass across your chest gives extra support as well as showing off your pretty wrap. To tie a double hammock you do not start at the centre of the wrap depending where you want to tie your knot. I start one arm length to the right of the centre mark which allows me to tie at my side. It is worth your time playing around with your perfect spot to start. There are many ways to get your child on your back depending on your ability and your child's age. Once your child is on your back you can get started creating your hammocks. The first hammock is created by keeping the shorter of the two passes over your shoulder and moving the other side to under your arm, this side then comes to the front to form the pass over your chest. The chest pass then goes back under your other arm to form the second hammock over your child. Many babywearers find that it helps to tighten both passes constantly whilst tying the sling and then pulling both passes upwards at this stage to pull out any slack. With each pass coming over the shoulder they then each go to the back on that side, over the first leg and under the second to come together at the side or the front to be tied. Double Hammock can truly feel as a weightless carry and it is highly rated for longer distance or time carrying of toddlers. On the flip side it is not an easy quick up and down carry and if you have some slack in any of the passes you will feel it as you walk.
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Big Camp 2013 Once again the crowds descended on the quaint sleepy village of Horley in Oxfordshire, for the annual Natural Mama’s Big Camp. It was the 3rd year the event has been held at Horley Scout Camping Ground and saw a record 750 people attend. Speaking to one of the organisers, Anne McEwan, we were told that, ‘Every year the uptake for the event exceeds our expectations, the first year 250 attended, last year 500 and once again this year all released tickets were sold.’ The largest event of its kind, big camp brings together families who all have a similar outlook to life and parenting. The event has an almost festival feel without the music and has an eclectic mix of mild and completely crunchy families. Although the event isn’t just for babywearing parents, there is a huge amount of people there that wear their children. There are workshops set up for those wanting to become a better wrapper. Even workshops set up for sling libraries and consultants. As well as a plethora of activities for children, from peg weaving to friendship bracelet making. It’s so refreshing to spend 3 days with people who babywear, I didn’t see a buggy all weekend and everywhere I looked there were mums, dads and even siblings babywearing. Issue Three - Autumn 2013
The weather this year was mainly dry, except for the latter part of Saturday when the heavens opened and it stayed wet for the evening. Children roamed free and families regularly sought out the cake haven of the kitchen, most families brought cooked goods with them, cakes being the number one! One of the most delicious cakes I had ever tasted got handed to me by my daughter, a cupcake I was told, that contained Guinness. It was the most heavenly cake I had ever encountered and my eldest daughter and I spend a good while guessing the ingredients to the amazing frosting on the top! If all that babywearing wasn’t enough, Saturday saw the big top tent open a market of goodies, Connecta and Maverick Baby were selling many beautiful wraps and carriers outside and I witnessed almost carnage as they offered wrap scraps per bag! In the afternoon there was a raffle where some wonderful prizes were on offer. Throughout the weekend there were various events to join in with, Friday evening, I went along with my little one for storytelling, the evening was warm and we basked on the grass
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as the evening sun dropped behind the trees. The air was filled that evening with the smell of smoke as families and groups huddled around small fire pits toasting marshmallow and chatting. Saturday evening along with the rain saw a babywearing quiz. Taking part despite my blatant lack of woven knowledge was thoroughly enjoyable and happy to say I didn’t come last (as I thought I may) and will be swatting up for next year to grab the winner’s crown! Sunday came all too quick and after a 2 hour JPMBB session with Lorette from Slingababy, it was time to pack away for the long journey home. Although many families were staying a few extra days. I got to know some wonderful new people, finally met face to face some online friends and made the decision to make sure next year I stay a few extra days.
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www.closeenoughtokiss.co.uk Easyslings is a relatively new carrier maker, although having been round for a few years they postponed carrier making while they finished making their family and have been full throttle working over the last 12 months. They became involved in the European Babywearing Conference after enquiries were made to Babywearing UK regarding training. Heidi told us, “I would like to offer my customers more and become involved in the community and local sling library, and of course to help with my business, I'm a firm believer in practising what you preach and enabling mammas and parents to wear their children is a wonderful thing”. After talks of training the matter of the Conference came up and impressed with what Easyslings offered the organiser of the European Babywearing Conference commissioned Easyslings to make a carrier. A beautiful Oscha Lumina was provided and Easyslings added the Conference logo and Babywearing UK logo onto the carrier. We had the privilege of seeing the carrier before the conference and it was beautiful. We spoke with Heidi at length about the intricate embroidery that was on the wrap conversion and it takes many hour of testing each embroidery design, before it’s then placed onto each carrier.
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“Seeing the carrier on the catwalk, was one of the highlights of her sling making to date”. Being amongst many of the industry’s most prevalent people was hugely exciting for Easyslings and Heidi explained how she got rather ‘slingstruck’ when she met met David from Babaslings. And told us about how she had also had lunch with the founders of the Babywearing Carrier Alliance (BCIA) who had flown over from Canada for the event.
Heidi’s overall view of the European Babywearing Conference was, it was a very well organised conference with lots of workshops, however she did feel the stalls could have been bigger, as there wasn't a lot of space to display their carriers, and felt the smaller businesses were a little compromised by the larger manufactured carrier companies. Easyslings have been asked to do some more work for the Babywearing UK, Heidi told us, “We have also been asked to do more conversions with Bristol stars, which will be available to buy over on the European Babywearing Conference Facebook page, our Facebook page and website in September.
The carrier was displayed on Easyslings stall and then showcased during the fashion show, they received lots of positive praise and admiration about the carrier and Heidi told us,
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BABYWEARING BELLYDANCE Babywearing Bellydance is a brand new idea created by Imogen Wheaver from Baby Steps Bellydance, combining her passions of Egyptian dance and babywearing. Bellydance, also known as Egyptian Dance, Middle Eastern dance or Raks Sharki, is a beautiful dance and although it is not easy to master, it is great fun learning, and is a fantastic workout. It is also tremendously empowering, perfect for women of any age, shape or size. Babies love to be danced with and both mum and baby reap huge rewards. Bellydance is especially good during pregnancy and after labour, not only because it is a fun way to keep in shape, but the circling pelvic and abdominal movements teach control and awareness of these areas as well as toning them. By learning to contract and relax various muscle groups at will, women are preparing themselves for labour, and some of these movements are exactly those often spontaneously used during an active birth. It also strengthens legs, glutes and pelvic floor and improves flexibility and stamina, all of which makes childbirth easier to cope with. Pelvic circles can be used to help position the foetus correctly, and other moves have even been used to bring on labour when the time is right. It’s also really good for reducing depression and improving confidence, body image and posture. Bellydance helps women to be in tune with their baby and their body, and to accept and love their bodies, despite their changing shape and size. Women celebrate life, femininity and creativity through the dance. Women who dance during their labour find it really helps reduce, or at least take their mind off, the pain as well as helping the process. After labour it is perfect for getting back in shape, and learning to love the new you! Issue Three - Autumn 2013
‘I shimmied and hip circled my way through labour! 1hr 13min labour, no stitches and drug free. Definitely down to breathing rhythmically through my moves!’ Some people believe that Middle Eastern dance was developed originally, thousands of years ago, as a form of birth preparation. Today, still, in the Middle East tribal women gather around a birthing woman and dance, swaying and undulating their hips encouraging the mother to imitate their movements. Different movements are used to reduce the pain, to help the mother to focus and to help the baby down the birth canal. When I was pregnant with my second son I found bellydance amazing for easing aches and pains, and keeping in shape. I had a wonderful home birth and danced my son into the world- I really feel the movements helped. The midwife had never attended a home birth before and said that now she understood why women like to have a home birth!! Many doulas and midwives use bellydance technique in their ante natal classes because they find them so beneficial for relieving aches and pains and preparing mothers for labour. As Sheila Kitzinger said in her book ‘Homebirth’ “Belly dancing keeps a woman flexible, and this is very important during labour. The circling, rocking and tilting motions in belly dance help increase pelvic mobility and help rotate the baby into the right position for birth”. I returned to my dance classes as soon as possible after giving birth, and my son came too- in his car seat, regularly being picked up and passed around by doting women. It was lovelybut how much better would it have been to have been able to dance with him in his sling? I have been learning the dance for about 15 years, and teaching and performing for about 10 years. Although bellydance is fantastic for pregnant women I found that in my normal classes
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'Women from my classes say they find it soothes their babies and helps them to get them off to sleep while helping them feel beautiful and graceful'.
they would find it hard to limit themselves and not overdo things. I was keen to set up classes specifically for pregnancy, with small classes, focusing on movements particularly suitable for each stage of pregnancy and labour, and then to encourage women to continue dancing after the birth of their child as bellydance is so good for helping recovery afterwards. I also wanted to enable women to bring their babies along with them to class, rather than have to leave them behind.
likely to need medical intervention at birth, to have a healthier birth weight, and their intelligence levels rise more quickly after birth. However, during pregnancy and for some time after birth, changes in hormone levels make ligaments more lax, which makes their ligaments and muscles more flexible, to allow for childbirth. This means they can easily overstretch and cause injury, so caution with any type of exercise is important.
I trained as a fitness instructor, took courses in ante/post natal fitness and dance and trained as a babywearing consultant to ensure I was understood the safety aspects of exercise in pregnancy and sling wearing, and to update my knowledge of wraps and carries. I have also reviewed mountains of research showing that babywearing and dance are ideal for keeping away baby blues, and increasing bonding and maternal confidence. Babies feel secure and comforted by the sensory stimulation they get from being carried and danced with-from their mother’s scent, heartbeat and movement. It also is likely to help their development in a multitude of ways, making sure they are experiencing movement through all planes. Dancing, listening to music, babywearing and socialising are all perfect for releasing oxytocin, the feel good hormone which reduces stress, increases bonding and acts as an antidepressant, making babysteps classes a great way to keep laughing! Women from my classes say they find it soothes their babies and helps them to get them off to sleep while helping them feel beautiful and graceful. ‘I loved my pregnancy classes. Was a really important time to connect with my body and my baby. I also felt that it helped to prepare my body for labour and recovery. After birth my baby usually falls asleep while I dance (with him). It’s great to exercise and have him close to me at the same time. Imogen is such a great teacher, I have been dancing for many years and her classes are my favourite ones.’ Safety I always recommend the TICKS guide for safe babywearing, and mums need to check with their midwife or doctor that they have no contraindications meaning they should not be dancing. It is important to exercise during pregnancy and afterwards; women who do exercise regularly have been shown to have an easier delivery and their children have been shown to be less
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There are also certain dance moves that should be avoided to reduce the risk of diastasis recti, the abdominal separation that often occurs to allow room for the growing foetus, this should naturally knit back together post partum, but until it has, again care must be taken, and traditional crunches and twisting movements should be avoided. Other abdominal movements used during bellydance can help to strengthen this area without risk of damage. Benefits 1. Bellydance trains and strengthens core muscles- important for pregnancy, labour and babywearing 2. Bellydance is great for increasing confidence, self esteem and posture. 3. Bellydance can help maintain or improve fitness- strength, stamina and flexibility 4. Dancing and babywearing increase feel good endorphins, leaving mum and baby feeling great Where you can find our more I have given various talks and demonstrations including ones for the Association of Radical Midwives, the Guild for Sensory Development, and recently a lovely session at the European Babywearing Conference in Bristol. I teach regular classes in Milton Keynes and Northampton and workshops and festivals nationwide. www.openartsurgery.co.uk www.facebook.com/ babystepsbellydance By Imogen Wheaver Issue Three - Autumn 2013
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Sheffield Slings: A successful year for a babywearing community group.
ow, we can’t quite believe how quickly time has flown, but June 9th marked a year since Sheffield Slings was founded by 5 slinging mums. What a difference a year makes, we now have over 520 members in our Facebook group (www. facebook.com/groups/saturdayslings) where parents come for a chat, advice on slings and parenting questions, to share highs and get support on the low days, to show off their beautiful little ones and their lovely carriers, to arrange meets all over the city, to co-ordinate day trips further afield, and of course to have a good giggle! In October we won the International Babywearing Association’s ‘Best Babywearing Outreach Programme 2012’ Award. A very proud moment for us all. We have held meets in most parks, cafes, museums, and public spaces in Sheffield and the Issue Three - Autumn 2013
surrounding area. With an average of 3 meets a week. Which equates to over 150 meets that have happened during the year. We’ve taken dogs on walks, rambled in the Peaks, had train trips to Grindleford and York, wandered the aisles and escalators of Meadowhall, crossed rivers on stepping stones, and gone many other places that buggies struggle to reach. We have taken part in Peace in the Park, Party in the Park, the Sheffield Children’s Festival, Sheffield’s breastfeeding awareness picnic, a Zumba flash mob, Chance to Dance and One Billion Rising events. We have helped numerous new parents find the carrier that suits their little one, their body shape, their lifestyle and their budget. Our demo stash has been used by hundreds of mums and dads as they try out all the different options.13 of our members are now Babywearing Peer Supporters, after completing a course which covers safety, carrier types and good
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positioning in slings amongst other things. 1 of our members (one of the 5 founders) has gone on the complete a babywearing consultancy course and is now qualified to do 1-1 consultations and workshops for parents. She has gone on to set up Sheffield Sling Surgery and has been very busy helping new parents and old hands in equal measure. We’ve organised mass meets with sling users from other parts of the country, invading the National Railway Museum in York. Even appeared in the local paper, featuring on a double page spread and taking over the letters to the editor. As well as demonstrating slings and carriers to groups from the NCT, breastfeeding groups even baby and toddler groups all over the city. With more planned each month. We celebrated our first birthday with a week of events all over the city. We kicked off with a family picnic on Saturday 8th June, where over 100 people descended on Ponderosa Public Park in Sheffield (the place where it all began). A number of our members took part in Race for Life on Sunday 9th June, walking the 5k while carrying their little ones in slings and carriers, and raised £1,216.50 for Cancer Research for doing so. Through the week we met in various places, including Meadowhall, local parks and soft play centres. And of course, we had cake, 7 of them to be exact!
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As part of our celebrations we asked members what they thought of Sheffield Slings. These are some of what they said: Po and Amelie: Sheffield Slings have been a great support to us since we became a part of this community. Not only with fab advice regarding all things slings, but also in the general care of my daughter. Having supportive and non-judgmental people who are always there has helped me to trust my own ability to be Amelie's mum. Meeting people in my area has been a great way to discover new places and build lifelong friendships. Sarah and Nancy: Sheffield Slings has not only allowed Nancy & I to have 'hands-free' closeness which we both love, it offers me a world of nonjudgemental friendship and advice. It is the best group around by far, we are so lucky to be part of it. Kinsey and Oscar: I am so excited to see that one of our main goals in founding Sheffield Slings (raising the profile of baby slings) has turned Sheffield into such a hotbed of baby carrying, I see slings absolutely everywhere I go now. Everyone involved in the group is incredibly proud of what we have achieved in our first year. We are looking forward to seeing what the next year brings.
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Be Part Of Slingathon This International Babywearing Week Babywearing UK is hoping that babywearers, Sling Meets, Sling Libraries, Babywearing Consultants, sling retailers & others passionate about babywearing across the UK will join together under the banner of Slingathon to organise Sling Walks across the UK and help to raise the profile of babywearing this International Babywearing Week. Slingathon walks will be taking place across the UK during International Babywearing Week (7th - 13th October 2013). Culminating in a series of events on Saturday 12th October where we hope to set a new Guinness World Record for the most people Babywearing Simultaneously. “We hope that Slingathon will really bring together groups of babywearers in a very visible way so that we can raise awareness of babywearing across the UK” said Jayne Edwards, Slingathon Project Manager. “The response from people has been fantastic, it looks like we will have around 100 events taking place that week, and a real chance for parents and carers who have never really known much about carrying their babies and children in slings to see lots of babywearing around them and hopefully be curious to find out more.” As well as being part of Slingathon, participants will receive a Slingathon pack and entry into a special Slingathon raffle. There will be several competitions and prizes for Slingathon participants who get really creative. Keep a look out on the Slingathon website for details of events near you, and follow Slingathon on Facebook for all the latest news. More information can be found here: www.slingathon.com or https://www.facebook.com/pages/Slingathon/498866856845699
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Sling Libraries UK is a new Facebook group for all sling libraries' owners & runners as could come together in real time for advice, support and general chit chat. If you w
Chesterfield Sling Library will be celebrating their momentous 2nd Birthday in October and are planning to celebrate again this year. To see what they plan, follow them on facebook www.facebook.com/chesterfieldslinglibrary.
Norwich Sling Library will be celebrating IBW2013 with a Sling Walk on Monday 7th October at 11am, see website for more details www.norwichslinglibrary.co.uk
This September is Stroud Sling Meet and Library's first birthday.
Sheffield Sling Library are celebrating their one year handover anniversary in September, Natasha will be running a competition to name her new demo dolls, check out www.slinglibrary.org or www.facebook.com/slinglibrary for more celebration details. Sheffield Sling library runs every Tuesday 10 - 1
We'll have a special birthday meet on Wednesday September 5th between 10 and 12 at Parliament Children's Centre, Bisley Old Road Stroud, GL5 1NL. www.facebook.com/stroudslingmeet www.stroudslingmeet.wordpress.com
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s well as consultants and lending services. It was set-up so all sling associated people would like to be part of the group please contact renee@closeenoughtokiss.co.uk
Sale Sling Library held a fundraiser at the end of July. Lowestoft Sling Library opened their doors on 30th August, their new venue will be held at Roam Hill Children’s centre, from 10-12pm
First prize was an EBWC Oscha Orion and second prize a Kokadi Bristol Stars. Thanks to everyone who donated, we raised an incredible £512! Now to try not to spend it all at once! www.saleslinglibrary.co.uk
Babywearing Ireland will be celebrating IBW 2013 once again with their annual ‘Wearing a Hug Fair’ last year's successful event spurred on the event for this year, which promises to be even more wonderful and babywearing focused than last year. Join them on October 13th between 1pm- 5pm at The Aisling Hotel, Dublin. See, www.facebook.com/ WearingAHugFair2013 for more details.
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Sale Sling Library have also opened a brand new library - Frodsham & Helsby Sling Library. Frodsham Children's Centre has very kindly agreed to let us use the Big Room every Friday, 11am-1pm. We are very excited to be able to help parents in our local area carry their little ones! www.frodshamslinglibrary.co.uk
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Wrap my Baby Consultancy & Lending Service www.wrapmybaby.co.uk www.facebook.com/anne.wrap.my.baby Suffolk Suffolk Babywearing Group www.suffolkbabywearing.co.uk www.facebook.com/SbgSlingLibrary info@ suffolkbabywearing.co.uk Suffolk Sling Meet www.natureandnurture.co.uk www.facebook.com/NatureandNurture Twitter: @ NurtureMama Lincolnshire Lincolnshire Sling Library www.lincolnslinglibrary.co.uk www.facebook.com/pages/Lincoln-Sling-Library/187190531374651 Lincolnslinglibrary@yahoo.com Midlands Birmingham Sling Meet and Library www.facebook.com/birminghamslingmeet www.birminghamslings.weebly.com Derbyshire Chesterfield Sling Library www.chesterfieldslinglibrary.co.uk www.facebook.com/cfieldslings Twitter: @cfieldslings Glossop Sling Meet and Library www.glossopslinglibrary.webs.com www.facebook.com/GlossopSlingMeet www.facebook.com/GlossopSlingLibrary Leicestershire Leicester Sling Library www.carrymybaby.co.uk/sling-library.html www.facebook.com/carrymybaby Twitter: @ CarryMyBaby Staffordshire
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