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Colts Neck Middle School Launches First Ever
‘Battle of the Bots’
This June, Cedar Drive Middle School in Colts Neck hosted its first middle school “Battle of the Bots” robotics competition alongside with a group of neighboring districts. A special thank you to all of the students & teachers for their participation & contributions to this activity!
Photos and caption credit: Colts Neck Township Schools Facebook page
Colts Neck Lions Club Donates to Monmouth County Park System in Order to Create Accessible Trails
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Photo and caption credit: Colts Neck Lions Club
BY LILIANN PARAS
Penelope El-Dalati – The Original Goldfish Artist of the Jersey Shore
Local artist, Penelope El-Dalati, knows goldfish. She has painted them for 25 years and remains inspired to find new ways to capture their essence. To many, a goldfish seems ordinary, an easy pet, not cause for great interest or excitement. And therein lies the beauty of art. Penelope paints goldfish in a realism style and yet unlocks a grace and beauty not normally associated with them. She explores other subjects, especially water themes and clouds, but has come full circle to again create a new goldfish collection.
Penelope’s ties to Monmouth County are deep. Her parents are British and she grew up splitting her time between London and Rumson, crediting the wider peninsula community for shaping her as a child. Penelope now enjoys raising her daughters Olivia and Charlotte in Colts Neck, where she also maintains her art studio. Her works are currently showing in Antwerp, Belgium, Montauk, NY, and at Main Street Gallery in Manasquan. Her art is returning to the MGM in Las Vegas in 2025 after a successful run there and she has been invited to show at The Royal Academy in London. And even with her hectic career and family life, Penelope also is generous with her art, supporting local causes.
CM is pleased to share our conversation with artist, Penelope El-Dalati.
Community Magazine: I think people will wonder, “Why goldfish?”
Penelope El-Dalati: I started painting goldfish for my thesis in the School of Visual Arts. I thoroughly enjoyed creating them and the incredibly quiet space it made around me. I have had people tell me they don’t see a goldfish, but rather something else or some have said they all look abstract to their eye. It’s wonderful to see how viewers interpret the work. I have been dubbed “The Goldfish Artist of the Jersey Shore” as I have been painting goldfish for 25 years.
Do you own the goldfish used as your subjects?
I used to own many fish, but today, I use photos taken from others’ fish tanks for reference.
What other things do you enjoy painting?
I still paint other subjects, usually with a water theme,
including boat portraits, waterscapes, and landscapes. When I’m painting for myself, I love painting clouds. The open spaces in Colts Neck leave a “window” to see some amazing sunrises and sunsets.
What is an early memory of realizing you loved to make art?
I started loving art class when I was still living in Rumson and was taught by Ms. Connie Gryszka, who was a legendary artist at Forrestdale Elementary School in Rumson. I was already playing a lot of soccer at the time, but would use all of my free time creating at home and would bring in my pieces to show the art teacher. I remember her allowing me to come in during lunch times to paint, and it always made me feel as though creating was a truly special thing to be able to do.
When did your interest in art begin to get serious?
I studied art at Central Saint Martins in London for two years, and furthered my studies at the School of Visual Arts in Manhattan for my BFA. It was one thing to be a child in school and using my spare time to paint but it was another thing to be older, and in college when I would paint something and strangers would want to hang my painting in their homes. To know someone is looking at your work every day in their very private space made me love to paint. I loved creating for myself as a child; to know as an adult other people also loved my work, gave me a deeper appreciation of what I was making.
What has influenced your art choices throughout the years?
After time in college and working in the gallery world for a couple of years in Manhattan, I saw how the art world is very much male dominated. So, I would look into successful female artists like Georgia O’Keeffe, Frida Kahlo, and Louise Bourgeois. Most recently I have loved the art community in my immediate area and this includes another Colts Neck painter, Kate Mancini.
How often do you get to paint?
I have a studio space in my home, and this allows me to paint at any time of day. When I wake up at 2 a.m., I can
zoom over to my studio and work. It also allows me to be physically present for my two daughters, and I love that they can see me able to juggle being a mum, and an artist. I think having the studio in my home is brilliant, as my girls see my dedicated work ethic, and how my painting may be important to me, but my girls are always the priority. Before married life, I used to have a studio in Manhattan, but my favorite part was my travel easel that turned any space into my studio. Some of my favorite places to set up are Provincetown and Montauk, but only in the winters when it’s quiet and the natural light is mesmerizing.
Do you have a favorite medium to use in your creations?
I have been painting in oil paints forever and love how the depth in the paintings is created from layering the paint. Certain colors, including the vibrant orange I use for my goldfish, I make myself to achieve the deep, rich hue.
What are some of your challenges in being an artist?
For me, it’s being a full-time mum and a full-time artist. The time I want to put into my painting gets shelved on days or weeks when I need to focus on raising my girls, who are currently 7 and 9. To manage my time best can be the challenge, and being able to sneak time when I am super motivated to work. That usually means getting up before everyone else and stealing some time here and there.
What do you find most satisfying about being an artist?
Allowing to be 100% myself, to create something and have zero concerns whether anyone will like it or even want it. To paint and make something that everyone will look at differ-
ently, find different meanings, and possibly inspire someone to also create.
Is there a type of project you would like to undertake that you haven’t explored?
I have wanted to paint enormous goldfish, and to have endless time to make them as detailed as I want. I simply don’t have a wall I could hang it on right now, so maybe one day soon.
You are active in the community. What are some of your contributions?
Growing up spending most of my summers on the peninsula, the Rumson-Fair Haven community was what molded my childhood. A recent show I contributed to, called “The Estuary”, was a fundraising show to help start the Fair Haven Farmers Market and to help raise funds to preserve and maintain the Bicentennial Hall (formerly the Fisk Church) in Fair Haven. This was an immaculate collection of local artists, including the esteemed Luba Caruso. In Colts Neck, I have been an Executive Board Member of the Colts Neck PTO, helping to run the Digital Media. This has been a wonderful asset to bring my artistic skills to help different aspects of the PTO and help our schools and children. When the outdoor Children’s Learning Garden space is ready on the Colts Neck Library grounds, I hope to plan some events there for the children. Also, donating paintings to help local charities such as Lunch Break, and helping to revive an annual art show in Colts Neck.
What do you enjoy doing “in your spare time”?
Reading. I love the local library in town and love reading about other artists from the 1960s and current times.
Favorite quote or philosophy?
“If” by Rudyard Kipling
To learn more, visit www.penelopedeyhle.com and follow her on Instagram and FB.
From Holmdel With Love
Local charity Sylvia’s Children ensures help is on the way for Ugandan youth
BY CHRIS STELLA
Sylvia Allen has her hands full. A Holmdel businesswoman and philanthropist, she founded Sylvia’s Children after being moved by the sad stories of the unfortunate state of many children in Uganda. Sylvia’s story began over two decades ago with a visit to Uganda, where she saw firsthand the dire conditions and the immense need for support. Moved by what she saw, she decided to take action, and with the help of her community in Holmdel, she founded Sylvia’s Children and has since dedicated her life to improving the lives of Ugandan children. Her work has earned her recognition and accolades, but more importantly, it has created a legacy of hope and transformation.
The organization started by supporting the Mbiriizi Advanced Primary and Daycare School near Masaka, which then had only four buildings. Under Sylvia’s forward-thinking leadership, the school has expanded to almost 30 buildings now, creating a thriving educational environment.
As Sylvia’s Children marks its 21st year, it’s a testament to the power of community-driven change and the extraordinary impact one woman’s vision can have
for what seems worlds away.
From its humble beginnings, Sylvia’s Children has made significant strides in improving education. The Mbiriizi school is now ranked among the top 100 of 12,000 primary schools in Uganda. This achievement is especially notable in a region where access to quality education is often limited. The organization has provided resources and supplies that have propelled the school to national recognition.
Sylvia’s Children has not only focused on primary education but has also paved the way for higher education. Many students who once had no hope of continuing beyond secondary school are now attending institutions of higher learning, thanks to the organization’s financial and academic support. These graduates are excelling in various fields in education, medical training, and science, contributing to the socio-economic development of their communities.
Education is just one part of Sylvia’s Children’s mission. The organization has implemented several sustainable agriculture projects to promote self-sufficiency and economic empowerment within the community. These projects include coffee crops, chicken
coops, and pig farms, which provide a sustainable source of income for families and the school.
A notable initiative is the establishment of a state-of-theart computer lab. This facility has enhanced educational opportunities by preparing students with essential technological skills. The computer lab helps bridge the digital divide, preparing students for future employment opportunities and furthering their education.
Healthcare is another critical area where Sylvia’s Children has made a substantial impact. The organization constructed a 6,000-square-foot medical clinic that provides needed healthcare services to the children and extends throughout the entire community. This clinic addresses medical needs that would otherwise go unmet, improving the overall health and well-being of all.
In addition to the clinic, Sylvia’s Children has undertaken various infrastructure projects to improve living conditions. These include drilling fresh wells for clean water, providing stoves for efficient cooking, and acquiring school buses for better transportation. These projects have significantly improved the quality of life in the community, ensuring that basic needs are met and creating a more stable environment.
But for all the good that it does, Sylvia’s Children has not been without its challenges over the years. One notable setback occurred when the boys’ dormitory, the first building constructed to house the school’s orphans, was struck by massive flooding. Despite this setback, the organization promptly mobilized its supporters and generous donors. Remarkably, within just two weeks, Sylvia’s Children raised enough funds to start rebuilding.
This rapid response underscores the organization’s commitment to children’s welfare and highlights the remarkable generosity and solidarity of its supporters. The rebuilding efforts demonstrate resilience and the power of community support, showing how compassion and collective action can create positive change even in the face of adversity.
Reflecting on the journey of Sylvia’s Children, Sylvia Allen expressed her joy and gratitude for the impact the organization has made. “I couldn’t be more thrilled with how much of an impact we’ve been fortunate to make in this village. We’ve been able to give these orphans lives they might not have had due to their unfortunate circumstances. I feel so blessed and grateful to have been given this opportunity to help these children and am excited for what’s next!”
Sylvia’s Children has not only provided education and opportunities but has also brought hope and sustainable de -
velopment to the entire community. The organization’s impact goes far beyond the school, contributing to the overall well-being and prosperity of the village.
One Community Helping Another
Sylvia’s Children is not just an organization; it’s a community effort. The Holmdel and Colts Neck communities have played a crucial role in supporting the mission. Fundraising events, community drives, and individual contributions have been instrumental in the success of the organization. This collective effort shows how local communities can have a global impact.
The organization has saved the lives of many children with serious ailments such as spina bifida and typhoid. These medical interventions have given children a second chance at life and have provided them with opportunities they never thought possible. The impact of these efforts extends beyond the individual children to their families and the broader community, fostering a sense of hope and possibility.
Allen’s leadership and dedication have been the driving forces behind Sylvia’s Children. Her passion for helping others and her unwavering commitment to the children of Uganda have inspired many to join her cause. Through her efforts, Sylvia has shown that one person can indeed make a significant difference in the lives of others.
Looking to the future
As Sylvia’s Children celebrates its 21st anniversary, the organization looks ahead with a renewed sense of purpose. The goal is to continue expanding educational opportunities, enhancing healthcare services, and promoting sustainable development. Plans are in place to further develop the school campus, introduce new vocational training programs, and expand agricultural projects to ensure long-term sustainability. Sylvia’s Children stands as a beacon of hope. The organization’s dedication to education, healthcare, and sustainable development has transformed the lives of thousands of children and their communities. As they celebrate 21 years of service, Sylvia’s Children looks forward to continuing its life-changing work, making a lasting difference in Uganda and beyond.
BIZBEAT
A quick roundup of what’s new and happening at local businesses in Monmouth County.
AP Rooftop gives a view from the top
The newest space to open in the McLoone’s army of bars and restaurants, AP Rooftop sits high above the boardwalk atop the 5th Ave pavilion in Asbury Park and offers panoramic views of the seascape and city via floor to ceiling windows. The menu features an intersecting lineup of sophisticated cocktails as well as a fabulous selection of Italian and Mediterranean dishes from executive chef Rob DiBlasi, and the vibe is perfect for date night or a pleasantly upscale night out with friends. For more info, go to APRooftop.com.
Amazon Fresh opens in Eatontown
Eatontown has the distinction of being only the second town in all of New Jersey to get an Amazon Fresh grocery store. The 35,500 square-foot store, owned and operated by the internet shopping giant, opened its doors in late June and offers guests a wide variety of goods from fresh produce to meats, prepared foods and local brands. In addition, customers can enjoy grocery delivery, curbside pick-up, Amazon Dash Cart, Amazon One and Alexa kiosks. Savings will be big at the store, as it will offer a rotating lineup of more than 4,000 discounted items weekly, and Amazon Prime members get exclusive access to Prime Savings, which offers discounts of 10% on hundreds of additional grocery items. “This new, affordable grocery store in the community offers a wide selection of quality groceries and a convenient shopping experience,” said Amazon in a statement. For more info, go to Amazon.com.
Asbury’s
newest retail outfit, New Hour opens downtown
Asbury’s bustling downtown area just added another reason to stop by. The newest opening is New Hour, a men’s clothing store. Located on Bangs Avenue, the shop aims to provide the modern man with an exceptional shopping experience. The store’s mission is to curate a collection of high-quality clothing and accessories that exude style, confidence and personal expression. New Hour offers an exclusive range of men’s clothing and accessories that cater to various occasions and style preferences.
Store owner Connor Closs has over 10 years of experience working in the retail and fashion industry. Bringing influences from his skate, surf and artistic background, he has carefully curated a collection of goods that will keep customers coming back.
Tatum’s Table prepares to launch
Tatum Menake is excited to announce the opening of a new brunch restaurant in the Lincroft Shopping Center in Lincroft. This latest venture promises a delightful dining experience, featuring a carefully curated menu of brunch favorites and innovative dishes. With a warm and inviting atmosphere, the restaurant aims to become a beloved spot for locals, offering a true culinary experience.
Signature Realty opens in Red Bank
Signature Realty, an award-winning boutique brokerage specializing in luxury real estate in New Jersey has recently launched the Grand Opening of their office in Red Bank. Their team of highly skilled professionals have the knowledge and know-how to represent a broad spectrum of classes, including residential real estate, new development, and investment properties. Owner Michelle Pais has been featured on the cover of Central Jersey Real Producers and Connect Magazine along with many other publications.
10th Ave Burrito Co. offers a barrage of discounts
For those starting to feel the pinch from the inflated costs of dining out in recent years, one of Belmar’s most beloved restaurants, 10th Ave. Burrito Co. offers a variety of deals throughout each week to lessen the hit to your wallet. Monday features ½ priced burritos as well as $7 La Casa, Pineapple and Strawberry margaritas and $5 Modelo drafts; Tuesday is “Taco Tuesday” with $15 all-you-can-eat tacos (available in pork mole, shredded chicken, ground beef, chorizo or portobello mushroom varieties) as well as $5 Stateside vodka and sodas; on Wednesdays, you can get $7 quesadillas as well as enjoy their all day happy hour; and on Thursdays, fans of their legendary wings can enjoy any variety of them for just 75 cents a piece (along with $5 seasonal drafts.) For more info, go to TenthAveBurrito.com.
Ranney School, an age 3 through Grade 12 college preparatory school in Tinton Falls, has a strong commitment to STEAM and hands-on learning is evident in all three academic divisions—from early childhood’s exploration of scientific concepts in the school’s community garden to international travel and other unique experiences as part of the Upper School’s two-week-long Maymester. Ranney is also home to state-of-the-art spaces including a finance lab with Bloomberg terminals, a new ColLABoratory for Lower Schoolers to engage in interdisciplinary projectbased learning, an observatory, and a new Lower School library and learning commons.
Back to School GUIDE Getting Excited for a New School Year Tips from the NJEA on how to prepare for success at school
As summer winds to a sticky close, it’s time to start thinking about the crisp days of fall and getting your child ready to go back to school. New Jersey’s public schools have been named the best in the nation by Education Week and U.S. News & World Report. The goal of your child’s teachers and school employees is to help every child reach their full potential. We are proud to be parents’ partners in ensuring besides shopping for backpacks and new shoes, what should you be doing to get your child ready for a successful school year?
Plan a route — If your child walks or bikes to school, walk the route with them and emphasize safety. Instruct your child what to do if a stranger approaches. If your child rides the bus, go over bus safety. Remind children to stay away from the sides and rear of the bus. It’s not easy for the bus driver to see near the back tires, close to the sides, or right in front of or behind the bus. For parents, it’s comforting to know that the safety record for school buses is remarkable. In fact, traveling on a school bus is six times safer than the family car. Talk to your child about being aware of their surroundings getting on and off the bus and remind them about their responsibility to behave properly and to listen to the bus driver and bus aides.
Visit the school — Take a summer stroll to your child’s school to help familiarize him or her with the layout of the building and find the classroom. It will also help your child get excited about the coming school year. Introducing yourself to the main office staff can help your child feel more comfortable on the first day of school and know who to approach if they have a problem. If they are available, it’s also a good time to meet your child’s teacher. It’s a great opportunity to introduce yourself and your child before the hustle of the school year begins.
Set goals with your child — Discuss with your child what you would both like to see happen this school year. Make your expectations about his or her academics and behavior very clear. Create frequent rewards for success so your child will have small, attainable victories to celebrate. Goal-setting helps to boost self-esteem and serves as a great motivator.
Make a schedule — Set aside time each day for studying, reading, and playing. With your child’s input, create bedtime and morning routines to help them build independence and take pride in themselves. Some children like to pick out their outfits for school the night before to help make the mornings
easier. Giving some thought to your routine now will help make the start of the school year that much easier.
Limit screen time — Studies have shown that prolonged exposure to screens, including television, tablets, computer games, and phones can have a negative impact on children in a variety of ways. Setting reasonable limits on their screen time can help them be happier and more active. Starting in the summer can help make the transition back to school easier for everyone.
Read, read, read — The greatest thing parents can do is read with their children and make books available to them when they are able to read on their own. Reading helps build children’s self-esteem, improves concentration, helps them be more empathetic, expands their vocabulary, and so much more. Provide age and reading-level appropriate books, magazines, and even newspapers for your child. Discuss what your child has read. Make reading a priority in your home, year-round, and watch your child explore new worlds!
Get some rest — Sleep patterns change slowly. Start getting your child back to a regular sleep schedule now so you won’t have to resort to extremes to get them out of bed on the first day of school.
Get some activity — Physical activity is a great stress reliever, and can help children blow off steam after school. Help your child identify physical activities they enjoy doing and help them develop a lifelong love of moving.
Create excitement — Shop together for clothes and school supplies to get in the school spirit. Shake off the mental cobwebs by reading a book together or reviewing last year’s math skills. Have your child practice neat handwriting by helping you write out your grocery or to do lists.
Remind your child that their teacher is also getting excited about the new school year and preparing fun and interesting lessons. Over the summer, school staff, including custodians, are working to clean and upgrade schools. Across New Jersey, nearly 200,000 NJEA members are already working to create safe, excellent public schools. Working together, families and school employees can energize students so that everyone has a wonderful school year.
NJEA is proud to represent nearly 200,000 public school employees who have made New Jersey’s public schools the best in the nation.
Simple & Healthy
Back-to School Food Tips
BY ALLISON SABIO Registered Dietetic Technician Saker ShopRite, Inc.
Back-to-School is always an exciting and busy time of year. Shopping for school supplies, wearing new clothes, making new friends, and starting those after school activities. But, what about your child’s lunch and snacks for the week? Here are some quick, healthy ideas to get you and your child through the upcoming school year.
Back to School Healthy Lunch Ideas
• Chicken Tenders & Veggie Hummus Wrap – Kids love chicken tenders, and when you pair them with lettuce, tomato, and hummus it becomes a more balanced lunch. Hummus is a great substitute for mayonnaise as a chickpea-based spread contains fiber, protein, and b vitamins.
• Italian Pasta Salad – There are many variations of pasta salad, that include veggies like bell peppers, cucumbers, and artichoke hearts to make this a super nutritious meal. However, adding cheese like mozzarella or parmesan and switching to a pasta made with beans or lentils boosts the protein.
• Mini Charcuterie Box – If your child is more of a snacker, than this might be a fun way to get them to eat different foods. Pack a bento box with options such as sliced cheese, grapes, whole wheat crackers, uncured pepperoni, baby carrots, cucumbers, hummus, pita chips, or crunchy dried chickpeas.
Snack Ideas For Those After School Activities
• Pre-portioned Nuts and/or Seeds – These are a convenient on-the-go snack, as they are filled with fiber and protein. Snack packs also help with portion control and convenience. If your child has a nut allergy or their school is a nut-free zone, edamame is a great alternative to nuts.
• Individually Wrapped Cheese and an Apple – Pair these two together for a great snack. This little snack provides fiber, protein, and natural sugars to keep kids going until dinner time.
• Protein Bars – Satisfy their hunger with a quick and convenient protein bar. They are available in a wide range of flavors and textures that kids love. Look for bars with real ingredients such as dried fruit, nuts, and seeds. Also, stick to ones with 5% or less of Added Sugars on the Nutrition Facts.
The Saker family has been operating grocery stores since 1916 when Richard Saker’s great-grandfather opened a “mom and pop” store in Freehold, New Jersey. Today, Richard and family, including brothers Tom and Joe and Richard’s son Rick, own and operate 39 ShopRites throughout central New Jersey. Allison Sabio has been with Saker ShopRite’s Inc. for over 8 years. She is a Registered Dietetic Technician who oversees the Nutrition Centers in all of the stores, and has a passion for health & wellness.
Back to School GUIDE
The Importance and Long-lasting Impact of a Preschool Education
The Vanderbilt study done years ago clearly concluded the benefits of preschool education as an effective method to ensure success in every area of adult life. The authors of this study were able to demonstrate a high correlation between the acquisition of skill sets attained in preschool that were retained and then utilized later in life. At preschool, children build a strong foundation of social, pre-academic and general life skills that will give them a leg up in school and beyond. In a more immediate range, when children attend preschool, they get a really large boost in early skills that set them up for success in elementary school.
Preschool is essential in teaching self-regulation skills, social skills, nurturing creativity and curiosity, developing independence, empathy and self-help skills in addition to problem-solving skills.
Preschool education teaches children to learn by playing and provides opportunities for children to learn in ways that interest them, building a positive association with learning. High quality preschools help children develop a drive to learn that they will take with them for life.
At preschool, children spend extended amounts of time with other children and adults, providing opportunities to learn how to make friends, cooperate, listen and build conversational and social skills.
When children play and engage in activities with peers, there will almost inevitably be minor conflicts where frustration and emotional challenges arise. These situations provide “teachable moments.” Teachers can encourage children to notice how their behavior impacts others and practice interpersonal problem-solving skills, again providing social emotional skills and problem resolution skills carried for a lifetime.
At preschool, teachers offer a variety of games and activities that help children develop pre-literacy skills. Children sing alphabet songs, learn rhymes that help them develop sound symbol correspondence skills, listen to read aloud stories and increase focusing skills. They develop a sense of excitement and motivation to expand learning and develop a positive association for reading.
Preschool builds the foundations for future success through fun activities and guided play offering matching, sorting and counting games as well as board games that help students develop an understanding of numbers, categories, patterning, size, shape and more.
Young children have active imaginations which can be nurtured to fuel learning and creativity. Preschool environments are set up to promote exploration and experimentation. Teachers encourage curiosity and nurture inquisitive behavior.
Preschool children make several choices throughout their day while at school, helping to promote decision making skills and responsibility as they are encouraged to choose which centers to work in or which group to join.
At preschool, children are often given choices to be responsible as teachers expect them to follow directions and internalize routines such as hand washing, caring for personal belongings and returning classroom materials to their designated places.
In addition to taking care of themselves, preschoolers learn to take care of peers, and thus have a sense of responsibility as well as pride.
Children build cognitive skills through activities that challenge them to try new things, solve problems, ask questions and make observations. Preschool emphasizes these types of activities and children learn more as a result of this guided experience.
Teachers help children develop language capabilities by introducing new vocabulary during all lessons and asking thought-provoking questions. With simple opportunities to try new things, listen to read-aloud books, act out stories and sing, preschool children have a clear advantage in learning to communicate effectively.
While literacy, math and cognitive skills are important, several preschool activities are designed to help children develop physical coordination and motor skills. Children are challenged to develop fine motor skills while doing a variety of activities involving crafts, scissor work, Montessori activities and more. In addition to gross motor skills which provide opportunities for children to develop the ability to jump, hop, skip, climb, dance and enjoy the outdoors.
Sharing is a fundamental skill in life and one that most children need to learn. Many children are reluctant to let go of a favorite toy or let others join in building the block area or play kitchen. Preschool will provide opportunities for sharing to be developed. This highly important skill will help them succeed in life and school.
Preschool is a great opportunity for children to develop emotional skills, as they learn to express feelings in a healthy way and learn how to deal with emotional impulses.
Preschool offers children the ability to start developing their independence while making choices based on their own interests. It provides an environment that fosters their creativity and allows for their own interests to be sparked. More than anything, it truly gives them the skills they will need to grow throughout their lives. With improved social and communications skills, they will be better able to ask for help when needed, cooperate and always exceed expectations. With strong pre-literacy skills and a good foundation in math, it is less likely they will struggle or have negative experiences in school.
Their emotional skills and understanding of themselves and the world around them will help them become constructive members of society as they grow.
This commentary is written by Holmdel Preschool. Holmdel Preschool is located at 674 N. Beers St., Holmdel, NJ and on the web at www.holmdelpreschool.com.
Back to School Directory
A list of spots to help you and your child prepare for learning in the upcoming school year.
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Tackling Anxiety and Self-esteem at Barbizon in Red Bank
For all kids, facing a variety of challenges during their formative years can cause stress and anxiety, and confidence plays a key part in overcoming many of these obstacles. Below is a testimonial from a parent who enrolled her child in a modeling and mentoring program at Barbizon of Red Bank, an opportunity that did wonders for her confidence and self-esteem.
My daughter, Sara Tedesco, has excelled under the Barbizon experts’ mentoring. We did research on Barbizon and saw that it covered everything Sara was interested in, so we signed her up! She learned about health and fitness, set a face care regimen, makeup and hair tips, how to appropriately get in and out of the car, runway etiquette and even how to set a table properly. Every time I picked her up, she would get in the car and say, “Oh my gosh, you’ll never guess what we did today! It was fun!”
Through Barbizon, Sara was given the opportunity to model in several fashion shows in Atlantic City, New York and New Jersey. She competed in the Miss NJ Teen USA pageant at 15 years old. She also has collaborated with photographers and fashion designers in photo shoots. Most recently, she was featured on a billboard for a swimwear company in Times Square in New York City!
Sara has gotten real experience, has learned so much about herself and her confidence has exceedingly grown. We are beyond proud of what she has accomplished and are so excited to see how Barbizon will continue to help her succeed in the future.
— Jennifer Tedesco
Preparing Your Child Emotionally for Back-to-School Success
BY DR. DANA SPADA
As summer wanes and the air grows crisp with the promise of a new school year, many parents may find their child facing a whirlwind of emotions for the return to school. By taking proactive steps to emotionally prepare your child for the return to school, they can approach the new academic year with confidence, resilience, and enthusiasm. Together, you can navigate the transition successfully and set the stage for a rewarding school experience.
Here are some helpful tips:
Open Communication: Start by having open and supportive conversations with your child about their feelings and concerns regarding the upcoming school year. Listen actively, validate their emotions, and offer reassurance. Understanding their anxieties allows you to address them effectively.
Establish Routines: Gradually reintroduce school-like routines a week or two before classes begin. Set regular bedtimes and wake-up times to help adjust their sleep schedule. Encourage them to start reading or engaging in educational activities to ease into the academic mindset.
Celebrate the Positive: Focus on the exciting aspects of the new school year, such as seeing friends, participating in extracurricular activities, or learning new subjects. Encourage optimism and enthusiasm about the opportunities ahead.
Prepare Together: Involve your child in back-to-school preparations, such as shopping for school supplies or choosing a backpack. This involvement fosters a sense of ownership and excitement about the upcoming school year.
Manage Your Own Emotions: Children often mirror their parents’ emotions. Stay positive and calm when discussing school-related topics, even if you have concerns. Your confidence and support will reassure your child and build their own resilience.
Stay Connected: Maintain open lines of communication with teachers and school staff throughout the year. Building a collaborative relationship ensures that any challenges your child faces can be addressed promptly and effectively.
If you or your child are experiencing challenges or want more information and support, you can find us at LEAF by Dr. Dana Spada Psychotherapy.
Mookie, my 9-year-old Schnauzer-something, will tell you Homdel Park is her favorite spot for a long, lazy walk. With 660 acres, 10 miles of trails, 1 million visitors a year, it’s one of the prettiest parks in Monmouth County.
It’s really three parks in one. I’ll explain as we go. Entering the park off Longstreet Road, you’ll make a left into the first parking lot. You’ll immediately be drawn to the nearby pond. Surrounded by flowering trees in spring, I always try to be there in late April, when everything is in bloom. It is breathtaking to see. But the park is gorgeous any time of year. The pond is stocked, making fishing the real deal, and most every day it’s surrounded by young and old, tending to their poles.
A little less than halfway around the pond, you’ll see a tall, black gate that encloses the David C. Shaw Arboretum. Started with a mere 87 trees
in 1963, there are now 3,000 trees – most native to New Jersey. The Arboretum is never crowded, in fact, Mookie and I usually have this little paradise all to ourselves. However, if you’re lucky, you may come across a wedding party, capturing their big day with photos. It’s that kind of place.
Leaving the Arboretum, head back out towards the pond, and a little further down, on your left, you’ll see a steep hill. Remember it come next snowstorm. In winter, it’s one of the best sledding hills in town. And when the pond freezes, they’re skating too.
The second “park” if you will is Longstreet Farm, just across from the pond. Opened in 1972, Longstreet is a working farm meant to recreate Jersey farm life as it was in the 1890s. Caretakers dress in period clothes, and you’ll find them tending to sheep, pigs, cows, horses and more. You can walk through the grounds and buildings and get up close
to the animals. On certain days, you can take the kids on a horse-drawn wagon ride. (Call the park or go online for details).
So what about that third “park?” Instead of turning left when you drive in, bear to the right and follow the road up to Hill Top. As much as the lower park is landscaped, Hill Top is a more natural setting. There’s a second playground just off the parking lot, but otherwise, it’s all trails. Head one way, and you’ll walk in the sun, with little shade. The trail is hilly in spots and can be challenging for some. Head into the forest, and you’ll be surrounded by densely packed, centuries old trees. Again, the walk is steep as it heads back down to the lower park. Keep an eye out for deer. Mookie and I came across a family last week, almost close enough to touch.
There’s one last thing that I suggest you try. All through the park, the benches are dedicated to lost loved ones. Many of the inscriptions are brief. But I enjoy doing a little research on those that offer hints about its namesake. Sit down and take a break from your hike. Pull out your phone and Google the name on the bench. You’ll find some fascinating stories of lives well lived. Oh, and be sure to say hi if you see Mookie and me on our walk.
AUGUST EVENTS CALENDAR
August 1, 2 & 3 (Multiple times)
Highlands Business Partnership 29th Annual Clamfest
Enjoy plenty of food and music at this annual event.
Huddy Park, Highlands 140 Bay Ave. Highlands
For more information, visit www.highlandsnj.com
Saturday, August 3
Founders Day in Ocean Grove
Come out and experience a Victorian Day. 4 -10:30 p.m.
Ocean Grove, Neptune Township (Auditorium Square)
For more information, visit www.oceangrove.org
Sunday, August 4
The Cliffs
Spend the evening listening to this amazing local band.
7 p.m.
West End Beach 1, West End Ave. Long Branch
For more information, visit www.thecliffsband.com
Sunday, August 4
Latin Festival – Tacos & Tequila
11 a.m. – 5 p.m.
It’s like a Cinco de Mayo celebration in the middle of the summer.
Enjoy live music and plenty of delicious food.
175 Oceanport Ave. Oceanport
For more information, visit www.monmouthpark.com
August 7-11
The 48th Anniversary Italian Festival
This annual festival is the largest fundraiser for the year and one of the area’s best summer events. Food, rides, games and fun! 5 -11 p.m.
Joe Palaia Park
200 Whalepond Road, Oakhurst
For more information, visit www.iaato.com
Saturday, August 10
Bags, Bands & Beer
Play (or watch) the new Cornhole
Tournament at the Track, with two separate divisions
(Gates open at 9 a.m.)
12-6 p.m.
Oceanport Ave. Oceanport
For more information, visit www.monmouthpark.com
August 9-11 (Multiple Times)
70th Annual Sidewalk Sale
Visitors will enjoy eclectic outdoor shopping and savings from a variety of downtown retailers.
For more information, visit www.redbank.org
Saturday & Sunday, Aug. 10 & 11
Watermelon & Wine Weekend at 4JGs Snack on this quintessential summer fruit and enjoy some award winning wines.
12 p.m.
4 JG’s Orchard & Vineyard
127 Hillsdale Road, Colts Neck
For more information, visit www.4jgswinery.com
August 17
Surf & Turf Seafood Festival
11 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Come out and experience the Shore’s largest seafood festival. Enjoy family fun activities and plenty of food. For more information, visit www.monmouthpark.com
Monday, August 19
Movie Night & BBQ
205 Union Ave. Long Branch, Broadway Bandshell
6 p.m.
Bring the whole family to see the Super Mario Bros. Movie
For more information, visit www.longbranch.org
Thursday, August 22
’80s Boom Box Party in the Park
70 West Front Street Keyport 6 -9 p.m.
Travel back in time enjoying the music of the 1980s.
For more information, visit www.visitkeyport.com
Saturday, August 24
Long Branch Jazz & Blues Festival 1-9 p.m.
Long Branch Great Lawn & Promenade Enjoy cool jazz and food trucks at this free event.
For more information, visit www.longbranch.org
Saturday, August 24
Summer Festival Craft Show Squan Plaza 10- 4 p.m.
Spend the day perusing tons of vendors, food, and music.
For more information, visit www.manasquan-nj.gov
Saturday, August 31
49th Annual NJ Friends of Clearwater Festival 1- 8 p.m.
This two day open-air festival celebrates the spirit of people working together to protect our environment.
For more information, visit www.njclearwater.org
Saturday, August 31
BBQ & NJ Craft Beer Festival 11- 5 p.m.
Enjoy over 40 New Jersey craft beers, live music, and some authentic BBQ.
For more information, visit www.monmouthpark.com
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Four-legged Fun!
Check out these fab spots to spend the day with your best friend!
ASBURY PARK DISTILLING CO —
It’s a dog-friendly Sunday Funday! Bring your pup and join Asbury Park Distilling Co on their patio every Sunday starting at 10 a.m. for Cocktails & Canines. They’ll have water and treats available for your dogs, and cocktails for you. Asbury Park Distilling Co., 527 Lake Avenue, Asbury Park RED ROCK TAP + GRILL — Like hanging out at a super chill backyard party with great food and drinks and a killer live band, Reed Rock Tap + Grill in Red Bank offers a lot to its patrons, and that includes the dogs! Well-behaved canines are welcome in the outdoor space (which is where you want to be anyway) and can feel free to chill beside the picnic tables with their owners while enjoying the atmosphere and a few fresh bowls of water. Red Rock Tap + Grill, 14 Wharf Ave., Red Bank
ESCONDIDO — Tasty Mexican fare is the name of the game at this long-standing Freehold hotspot, and while you are chowing down on fajitas and sipping margaritas, you can be joined by your furriest companion. Just opt to sit outside in the breezeway, a fun somewhat secluded area where your pup can bask in the glory of his own private fiesta. Escondido Mexican
Cuisine & Tequila Bar, 402 W. Main St., Freehold
FRIDAY NIGHT BITES — A free event for dog owners and their furry friends. Bring your pup and your friends to this double-gated dog park, where you can relax and listen to music while mingling with other pet parents. Enjoy complimentary snacks, soft drinks, and treats from a sponsoring pet food manufacturer. This event is BYOB. 4-7 p.m. Fridays through October, The Hungry Puppy, 1288 Rt 33, Farmingdale
YAPPY HOUR AT WONDER BAR — Wonder Bar’s much-loved dog-parkmeets-happy-hour event returns this year.
Grab your pup and head down for one of the most fun activities in town. Schedule varies by week. Check www.facebook.com/ WonderBarYappyHour/ for updates. 1213 Ocean Ave in Asbury Park. WonderBarAsburyPark.com
YAPPY HOUR AT THE WAVE — Bring your pooch and enjoy special dog-themed cocktails and food and drinks for humans and pups alike. A portion of the proceeds from cocktail purchases go towards the Monmouth County SPCA. Fridays, 5:30-7 p.m. Carousel Bar at The Wave, 160 Ocean Ave. N., Long Branch
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iPlay America of Freehold –A Great Place for Family Fun
Especially on a rainy day, iPlay is a must-go-to with your kids
All it takes is one step into iPlay America to discover the WOW factor. Imagine the boardwalk on the Jersey Shore brought inland and blended with a New York City street, complete with brownstones and quaint shops. The entire atmosphere is energized by NJ’s highest concentration of fun things to do indoors, like rides and various attractions, all sized to fit within nearly 4 acres of indoor family fun. It’s not every day you can ride speedy go karts, the Kite Flyer, Skyscraper, Reverse Time, and play 2-level laser tag – all indoors so weather is never an issue.
Plus, the young and young at heart can enjoy all of the new rides, games and attractions that were added to iPlay America this past year. Ballocity is a four-level structure of play featuring slides, blasters that shoot foam balls and more; XD Dark Ride - an interactive attraction which offers the latest advancements in multi-sensory technology, or battle your friends in one of multiple interactive movies. The High Flyer is a high-energy ride that will have you on the edge of your seat. The Mini Ferris Wheel packs in all the fun of the classic ride, scaled down for an indoor adventure.
What’s more, at iPlay America, you can sit down to great service and a sensational dining experience at The Loaded Spoon where the food and drinks don’t stop. Keep the party going at Topgolf Swing Suite, which features a high-energy, interactive virtual sports and social atmosphere.
If quick and easy food is more your style, choose Sonny’s Boardwalk Grill for Jersey Shore-style snacks, hot dogs, burgers, fried Oreos, funnel cakes, and more. Another favorite shop is Broadway Sweets which offers Monmouth County’s largest array of current and old-fashioned candy in gift packages and bins.
For more information, call iPlay at 732-577-8200 or visit iplayamerica.com
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Luckily for everyone, Monmouth County is ripe with fabulous spots to grab a cone, sundae, shake or float, but if you are having trouble figuring out where to go, here are some places that are regularly in our rotation:
5
FAB SPOTS
for a Frosty Summer Treat
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
The warm summer weather
that we were all wishing for all winter is now firmly in place, and, as usual, it’s somehow much hotter than we remembered it. While the summer sun is hardly worth complaining about, it does make one pine for a frosty bite now and again, and though a half-tray of ice cubes or a still-frozen Ellio’s pizza may each technically fall into that category, you’ll be far more popular among friends if you are the guy or gal taking everyone out for some ice cream on a hot summer night.
Hoffman’s Ice Cream (Spring Lake, Point Pleasant Beach)
Launched in Point Pleasant Beach in 1976 after their original lease as a Carvel location expired, Hoffman’s has been a staple of the Jersey Shore for nearly a half-century. Their ice cream is some of the best you’ll find anywhere, and it’s all made onsite at their original location. Decadent flavors like Fudge Mint Cookie, Salty Shipwreck (vanilla ice cream with a cookie fudge swirl, chocolate-covered waffle cone pieces and caramel truffle bites mixed in) masterfully delight their loyal fans on a nightly basis all summer. If you’re feeling adventurous, you can attempt to conquer the Octopus – an eight-scoop, eight topping behemoth of a sundae that was featured on the Travel Channel’s hit show “Man vs. Food” –but for our money, a simple waffle cone cradling a generous scoop of their fabulously delicious Cookie Monster flavor (blue vanilla ice cream with crushed Oreos and cookie dough) is just about perfect without any bells or whistles needed.
Jersey Freeze (Freehold, Holmdel)
While you’ll find chains like Dairy Queen peddling soft-serve all over the region, there is something delightful about a mom-andpop shop showing up the big boys at their own game. And that’s
exactly what you get at Jersey Freeze, Freehold’s favorite stop for velvety, pillowy soft-serve since 1952. One bite and you can taste the difference that quality ingredients make, as you could easily confuse this ice cream for frozen custard, that’s how rich and flavorful it is. Options run the gamut from your standard cones and shakes to more whimsical creations such as their ice cream cupcakes, but perhaps the best of the bunch are the “boats,” fun sundae creations in boat-like containers. You can go old-school with archetypal standards like the banana split, or delve into a crimson colored bliss with their Strawberry Pound Cake Boat, a simple, yet perfect combo of your choice of two types of ice cream topped with pound cake pieces swimming in a deliciously gooey strawberry compote.
Nicholas Creamery (Fair Haven, Atlantic Highlands, Tinton Falls, Long Branch, Middletown)
When some of the most celebrated restaurateurs in the state open up an ice cream shop, its worth checking out. Such is the case at Nicholas Creamery, the sweet brainchild of Nicolas and Melissa Harary, whose popular restaurant Nicholas Barrel & Roost is one of the best in Monmouth County. Its offshoot, Nicolas Creamery started with one shop and quickly expanded to five. The creamery specializes in small-batch ice cream, with exotic and enticing flavor options such as LeGrand Peanut Butter Bourbon, Tahitian Vanilla, Brown Sugar Cookie Dough, and NJ Blueberry, each of which manages to sound more delicious than the last, all but forcing you to indulge. If the flavors alone aren’t enough to get you, the heavenly scent of fresh waffles wafting through the air as you enter should do the trick. Available in either cone or bowl form, they make for the perfect vessel to enjoy any scoop that catches your eye.
Coney Waffle (Red Bank, Long Branch, Belmar, Asbury Park, Toms River)
Despite the New York-inspired name, Coney Waffle is a Jersey original, with all six of its locations located at the Shore. The namesake waffles (cleverly shaped to hold ice cream in a hot dog bun-style vessel) are worth the trip alone, but the fun only starts there. We love their Instagram-worthy over-the-top milkshakes, cereal-based sundaes (Cocoa Pebbles make for a perfect ice cream topping), impossibly creative ice cream cakes and our fave, the monster-sized floats, which feature your choice of two flavors of ice cream and any of their selection of Stewart’s sodas (root beer is the classic, but the Cherries ’n Cream is all but perfect pairing with vanilla soft serve).
Betty’s Ice Box (Asbury Park)
Arguably the most unique spot on this list, Betty’s Ice Box has become a summer must-do for those who frequent the Asbury boardwalk, and for good reason. They specialize in frosty treats, including towering mountains of shave ice that are reminiscent of the kind you’ll find on the North Shore of Oahu. Available in a dizzying variety of flavors, they are mildly sweet, made with all-natural syrups and are the perfect treat to tame the raging rays of the sun. They only thing that may beat them are the house-made popsicles, which are so stunningly delicious and popping with intense flavor they will make you re-evaluate your entire viewpoint on what can be achieved with frozen water and a little creativity.
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TEACHER FEATURE
NAME Johnny Grasso
YEARS TEACHING 24
SUBJECT TEACHING Dean of Students
PLACE OF EMPLOYMENT
Asbury Park High School
TOWN OF RESIDENCY Wall Township
What do you love about teaching, and what keeps you coming back?
Simply put, as a Dean of Students, I enjoy being a mentor to young adults, and it’s the kids that keep me coming back, as well as the great staff I work with!
What is the most challenging thing about working with kids? The most challenging distraction to learning is the cell phone. Education as we know it in the classroom changed when everyone was able to have a phone. It is tough to compete with that as a teacher. So, the most challenging thing about working with kids is keeping them continuously engaged.
What was your own school experience like as a kid? Did you enjoy school? Yes, I enjoyed school very much for the most part. Besides the usual growing pains that everyone endured in middle school, it was mostly enjoyable. I attended the Marine Academy of Science and Technology (MAST) for high school which gave me a unique and rich experience, and a work ethic I still utilize today.
If you could add one new subject that every kid would have to take in school, what would it be and why? Psychology. It was my favorite subject in college. I particularly found fascinating the development of the brain & personality. If we teach students how their brain works, as well as Id/SuperEgo/ Ego, perhaps we can quickly improve their conflict resolution skills.
What is the most important thing that your students have taught you? The most important thing that my students have taught me is to be more empathetic.
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What initially made you want to be a first responder? I come from a family of first responders. My father was an EMT in New York City for 21 years, my uncle was an FDNY firefighter, and my grandfather was an NYPD officer. I was born and raised around the job, so it felt natural to pursue a career in emergency services. I can’t imagine doing anything else.
FIRST RESPONDERS
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NAME: Liam Noonan
YEARS AS A FIRST RESPONDER: 5 Years
TYPE OF FIRST RESPONDER: EMT
PLACE OF EMPLOYMENT OR VOLUNTEERING: Wanamassa Fire Company
TOWN OF RESIDENCY: Howell
What do you find to be most rewarding about this kind of work? The most rewarding part of being an EMT is the constant opportunities to be able to help those that I serve. As a trusted member of the community, I will always be put in at least one situation every day where I can make a difference, whether big or small.
What is the hardest aspect of the job? The hardest aspect of the job is dealing with the misfortune, pain, and even death of those who we serve. All first responders process these harsh emotions differently, but it is never easy.
Do any aspects of the job ever scare you? I can’t say I’m ever scared during my job. I understand the risks of what may go wrong every time I go out the door for a call, and I am lucky to always have a great team to support me whether it is my partner/coworkers, EMS crews from other agencies, or any other first responders.
What was your most memorable experience on the job so far? I try to make memorable experiences every day I work, so I am lucky that there are hundreds of them I will keep with me throughout my life. I try to ask every single elderly patient I have, “What’s the secret to a long life?” and the answers have ranged from serious, to funny, to outright absurd.
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Tatum’s Table Aims to Fill a Niche in Lincroft with Decadent Breakfast and Lunch Options
BY REBECCA KING
For most people, making their own birthday cake would be a chore. Not so for Tatum Menake, a Colts Neck resident who, at just 20 years old, is opening a restaurant called Tatum’s Table in Lincroft.
A picture of a 10-year-old Menake shows her proudly pointing to a colorful birthday cake creation, spackled with blue and purple icing and festooned with colorful stars, hearts, flowers, and sprinkles. It’s this longtime love of baking, cooking, and entertaining that led to Menake’s foray into the world of restaurant ownership at an age when many are still figuring out their place in the world.
Filling a Need
Tatum’s Table is located within the Lincroft Grove shopping center and is estimated to be opening in late July. The restaurant, Menake explained, is for folks dining out for breakfast, lunch, and brunch who want
something a bit different than your average diner fare.
“I kept going out for breakfast or lunch in the area, and there was nothing that suited what I wanted,” said Menake of what inspired her to open Tatum’s Table. “Either the food would be good, but the coffee would be lacking, or vice versa. Nothing had the whole package.”
Tatum’s Table will offer the basics — eggs, pancakes, breakfast skillets, pastries, and the like – to satisfy the traditionalists in any dining party, Menake said. However, she’s most excited about the elevated, out-ofthe-box options — pistachio baklava pancakes, a latke-like take on a waffle made out of potato, sweet and savory crepes, creme brulee coffees.
“We wanted something different from everything else that’s in New Jersey,” she said.
Tatum’s Table will initially be open from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m., though Menake hopes to eventually be open for private parties in the evenings.
The Love Language of Cooking
For many restaurant owners, their love of food and hospitality begins at home — and Menake is no exception. She recalls family Sunday dinners with her Italian and Greek family with plates heaped with home cooking.
“All I do is cook all day. For my dad, my mom, my brother, my boyfriend. It’s my love language,” she said.
Menake partly credits her home-schooling education as the reason she’s been able to take on owning and operating a restaurant so young. While traditional lessons occupied her mornings, she was able to follow her interests, she said, during the rest of her day. This flexible structure inspired an entrepreneurial spirit in her, Menake explained.
Menake is a self-taught chef. She was accepted into culinary school but wound up going to cosmetology school instead. But when she realized her passions lie outside of a hair salon, she turned to the lessons she learned at her grandfather’s apron strings.
Her grandparents ran a restaurant called Sammy’s Steakhouse on Staten Island. She describes her grandpa as the best chef in the family, though her grandmother was al ways ready to act as sous chef. She was also the baker of the family and instilled a love of pastries and cakes in her granddaughter.
Menake’s brother also owns the Navy St. Cafe at Naval Weapons Station Earle in Colts Neck, and Menake said she learned the basics of managing a restaurant while working with him there.
“I’ve always wanted to own a bakery. That was my dream when I was growing up,” she said. “As I got older and developed a love for cooking, that dream turned into opening a restaurant.”
And it wasn’t just cooking that sparked Menake’s interest. It was the hustle and bustle of hospitality — the hosts seating guests, the servers scribbling orders, the bussers wiping tables clean.
“I just love being in restaurants,” she said. “I always just sit and watch everything and observe how they’re run.”
At her own restaurant, Menake aims for an elegant, modern aesthetic. Most of the restaurant is a clean white with gold and black accents. There’s a flower wall perfect for selfies and pops of color thrown in to brighten up the space.
“Everything has been so exciting,” said Menake. “It’s amazing to see my dream become a reality. I remember being younger, sitting in my lessons, and daydreaming about owning a bakery. And doing it with my family has been really the most rewarding thing.”
TATUM’S TABLE
650 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft Go to instagram.com/tatumstablenj/ for more information.
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Dinner Show
A quick roundup of must-do events happening at local restaurants this month
FRIDAY, AUG. 2
Restaurant: St. Stephen’s Green Location: Spring Lake Todd Robbins Duo- 9 p.m. SSGPub.com
MONDAY AND TUESDAY, AUG. 5 & 6
Restaurant: Tim McLoone’s Supper Club Location: Asbury Park The World Famous Glenn Miller Orchestra – 7:30 p.m. TimMcLoonesSupperClub.com
SATURDAY, AUG. 17
Restaurant: Reef & Barrel Location: Manasquan Taylor Made – A Taylor Swift Cover Band – 4 p.m. ReefAndBarrel.com
THURSDAYS, (AUG. 1, 8, 15, 22 AND 29)
Restaurant: The Cabin Location: Freehold Country Night 6 p.m.-9 p.m. TheCabinNJ.com
THURSDAYS, (AUG. 1, 8, 15, 22 AND 29)
Restaurant: The Columns Location: Avon
Lobsterpalooza – 5 p.m. Live music and chances to win lobster dinners. TheColumnsNJ.com
FRIDAYS (AUG. 2, 9, 16, 23 AND 30)
Restaurant: MJ’s Location: Tinton Falls Live music from 7-10 p.m. every Friday mjsrestaurant.com/Tinton-Falls/
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Brewin’? What’s
This month CM features Source Farmhouse Brewery in Colts Neck
BY LILIANN PARAS
Located on a picturesque historic farmhouse built in the late 1800s, the rustic setting enhances the overall experience. Source offers more than 30 rotating taps, from traditional farmhouse ales to innovative IPA, lagers, and sour ales. The vast two-story brewery with a rooftop terrace and acres of grounds welcomes families and dogs, and also features multiple adult-only areas.
Featured Brews:
LIBERTY PILS 4.5% ABV | Dry Hopped American Pilsner, featuring the hops Sterling, Idaho 7, and Citra. — Only American hops are used in this fine lager which pours a brilliant, straw-light golden hue. Expect a super light-bodied brew, an ultra-crispy and refreshing drinking experience.
ROCKET POP 7% ABV | Fruited Sour Ale with Cherry, Lemon, & Raspberry — A heavily fruited sour ale, it is conditioned on an abundance of juicy, red, Morello cherries, Siracusa lemons, and sweet, tart raspberries. It pours a vibrant red hue and opens with intense aromas of the classic red, white, and blue popsicle. This drinks with a luscious medium body and closes with a refreshingly tart, fruity finish, leaving rings of fruity foam behind in your glass.
Crowd Faves: The Biergarten & Rooftop Terrace
The expansive grounds include plenty of space for fun outdoor activities. For those looking to relax, enjoy the Adirondack chairs, have a picnic on a blanket on the grass, or grab a picnic table in one of three patio areas. Meet with friends on the rooftop terrace anytime, and especially to watch the sun set.
Don’t Miss:
The Tasting Room experience and local community events. Having a private event? The versatile array of spaces makes it the perfect venue for weddings, corporate events, and other celebratory adult occasions.
Got a pup who is a rockstar? A cat who’s all that? Are your birds the coolest things on wings? We want to see them all. Send us pictures of your beloved pets so they can be featured in the pages of Community Magazine! Dogs, cats, rabbits, parrots – whatever animal you call your best bud is what we’re looking for.
Just send us a picture, along with the pet’s name and the Monmouth County town in which you reside and we’ll take care of the rest! Send all photo submissions to ryan@communitymagazinenj.com
PHolmdel Officers Honored by MADD
atrolman Brian O’Keefe and Patrolman Richard Enzerillo received the Recognition of Excellence Award Certificate from Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) at their Annual NJ Law Enforcement Recognition Event. Patrolman O’Keefe and Patrolman R. Enzerillo made exemplary contributions to roadway safety and held the highest number of DWI arrests for the Department during the 2023 year, while Patrolman Matthew Menosky teamed up with MADD to dedicate DWI Checkpoints in memory of Jack Misdom, a young man who tragically lost his life due to a drunk driver.
Photo and caption credit: Holmdel Township Police Department
4 SEASONAL SPOTS TO HIT Before Summer Says ‘Sayonara’
Each year, when Memorial Day Weekend hits, it always feels like we are at the start of an endless road of summer fun. But before you know it, the days start disappearing and the nights start to spark a subtle but undeniable chill. Alas, summer cannot last forever, and that means we all must remember to pack in as much of the fun as we can while it’s still around. Don’t miss these warm weather faves…
Asbury Splash Park (Asbury Park)
Looking to enjoy ocean views without worrying about the dangers of the ocean itself? Even your youngest kids can have a blast at Asbury Splash Park, the boardwalk’s wettest summer fun spot for kids aged 18 months to 12 years. Whimsical and colorful design elements such as the tipping teacup and giant watering can and hose nozzle make this splash park a visual standout among the more grown-up shops and restaurants that dot the boardwalk, but it’s a strictly summer business, so get your trips in before the first school bell rings.
Boondocks Fishery (Red Bank)
Located right on the Navesink River, Boondocks Fishery looks like the kind of roadside lobster shack you would find in coastal Maine. But it’s not in Maine, it’s in Red Bank, and it serves up some seriously tasty seafood – with a heavy lean toward lobster – in a fun and quirky atmosphere that manages to mix in a pinch of a carefree Key West vibe. It’s cash only and they are only open from mid-May to mid-September, so your days of enjoyment are numbered, but there is good reason to find the time to work in a visit this summer, as Boondocks also offers one of the best deals around on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays when a pair of lobsters along with corn and potatoes can be had for the utterly unheard-of price of $36.95. Dinner for two at a seafood restaurant on the water for under $40? Sign us up.
Shipwreck Island Mini Golf (Bradley Beach)
Does anything scream summer memories like piling the whole family onto the course for a round of mini golf? Probably not, and that’s because the chance to putt your way through a whimsically challenging series of holes is simply not there in the winter. Such is the case for Bradley Beach’s much-loved mini golf mecca, Shipwreck Island Mini Golf. Mock lighthouses, fun water features and, of course, a replica of a shipwrecked boat make this a standout spot along the Bradley Beach Boardwalk. Though the official opening and closing days vary year by year, in order to make sure you secure your chance for a hole in one, you’ll want to stop by while the weather is still warm enough for shorts.
Freehold’s Thursdays Rock! Summer Concert series (Downtown Freehold)
From 7:30-9:30 p.m. each Thursday throughout the summer, this live concert event attracts between 1500 and 2200 attendees outside the Hall of Records in downtown Freehold. The entertainment changes each week, but consistently includes some of the best local acts and cover bands in the area. Much of the good times for the summer of 2024 have already rocked and rolled, but there are a few weeks left to enjoy the fun. The remaining schedule features The Gab Clique Band on Aug. 1, The Ruckus on Aug. 8, a Van Halen tribute band on Aug. 15 and Turnstyles (a Billy Joel tribute band) on Aug. 22. Each event is free and open to the public.
