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The Art of Transformation

Glen Goldbaum leads the pack at Lambs & Wolves in Red Bank

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The Art of Transformation

Glen Goldbaum leads the pack at Lambs & Wolves in Red Bank

BY BILL CLARK

Art studios breed creativity. Experimentation is encouraged and fostered in order to break boundaries and subvert expectations.

It is that ethos that Glen Goldbaum brings to his hair salon Lambs & Wolves. The Red Bank shop is an incubator for self-care and expression, filled with stylists that are supported by Goldbaum and his decades in the industry.

Opened in 2008, Lambs & Wolves was named after the dueling aesthetics of his physical spaces at the time, one clad in brick and darker tones while the other lighter and gentler. A sort of channeling of the grace of fashion week split with the grunge of a punk rock venue.

The concept reaches to his story as well.

Staying in his comfort zone back in New York and continuing to work in salons that were established may have been the lamb. But putting faith in himself to open his own shop in Red Bank released the wolf.

“I also felt like on any given day, someone could be a lamb or a wolf,” he said. “Everybody has that in them.”

Over time, the shop has expanded to a powerhouse of seventy employees. Goldbaum’s staff is mostly made up

of people who have worked under his tutelage and have bought into the Lambs & Wolves perspective. An estimated seventy percent of the staff in the shop have sharpened their skills under Goldbaum’s supervision. Those hired from the outside mesh well with the ideology.

Goldbaum still practices himself three days a week, working with clients to craft their perfect hairstyle. First time visitors can expect a full consultation based on lifestyle, need and vision. Goldbaum isn’t going to fit clients into a box and make them conform to his perspective of style and elegance. He determines their form and function. Are they beachy? Athletic? Professional? He isn’t just checking boxes to calculate the ideal conclusion. Part science. Part art.

“Then it’s really just about making a decision how I’m going to make that person feel better and how am I going to change,” he said. “Not everybody has to cut their hair off or get a color. Sometimes it’s a subtle change. It could be a bang, or something different in how I cut it that makes her feel a certain way.”

There’s no exclusion in Goldbaum or his stylist’s chairs. That personalization helps bring out the confidence in people as the salon cape is removed and they are able to

admire themselves fully.

“Nobody wants to be ordinary,” he said. “Everybody wants to feel a little special. So that’s something I always do. It doesn’t matter where you’re at in your life.”

Potential clients can get this sense of glamor from the salon’s social media pages. Precise lighting, posing and maneuvering of the camera elicit a sense of brilliance and mystique around the teacher, nurse or bartender. Some give coy smiles, concealing the approval and providing a sense of intrigue. Others are incapable of timidity, their smiles revealing their true feeling of radiance.

Goldbaum understands the utility of the sites as well. Consumers now are drawn to the presence that shops cultivate online. Word of mouth may not

be sufficient anymore. Goldbaum wants them to consider the substance they see in the pictures. He’s confident they will see the value of each of his stylists.

The values that Goldbaum cultivates in his staff draws a direct line from his history in the industry. The New York native worked in some of the most wellrespected salons in the city, but he wasn’t drawn to the skill from an early age. He didn’t envision himself expertly wielding a pair of scissors, given full confidence by the person in their chair that one false cut could mean dissatisfaction.

“I thought I would get a lot of dates,” Goldbaum said with a laugh. “I was lucky enough to take myself to the city and I knew that a job at Vidal Sassoon would be like my college for me.”

Most of his career was spent at the

famous salon. But the commute into the city was draining and Goldbaum wanted to ingratiate himself in the Red Bank community.

His credentials alone drew customers from the start. He chose decorations that made the shop bright, lively, colorful and art driven and offered a space with a New York City vibe and sense of style – minus the hassle. People in the area didn’t have to fight traffic or train schedules to get a stylist with a New York resume.

“My space is unique,” Goldbaum said. “I invest in where my hairdressers work because I think it’s cool to work in a place that inspires art. I have probably the nicest space in the state of New Jersey.”

Goldbaum changes the pieces on the wall several times a year, encouraging his staff to grow and be bold. Their

environment inspires them, reminding them that stylists do not fit people into boxes. What colors, shapes, methods are best to bring them back to Lambs & Wolves the next time? Where a painter has a canvas, Goldbaum’s staff has people.

Now that he is further in his career, he is able to focus more on the newer stars that have joined his staff. The shop’s training program lasts a year and a half, as Goldbaum works with aspiring stylists, critiquing and supporting their blossoming skills. Some don’t take to the techniques quickly, but Goldbaum is a patient teacher. The moment of realization and comfort that is sparked during a class is the new fire that keeps Goldbaum’s passion burning. The standouts among his students are those that continue to work through adversity, fixing their mistakes and smoothing imperfections.

Goldbaum himself was an assistant for two years before truly honing his abilities. To be listed on the website as a master artist is a journey, a path of

successes and learning opportunities.

But it’s the skills that can’t be taught that are perhaps most important to Goldbaum. He can correct the specifics of the job, but sometimes industriousness comes from within.

“You can’t teach work ethic,” he said. “There’s a work ethic, there’s an eagerness, and that’s very exciting for me. So, I still find that to be something that I’m attracted to and I want to put effort into that.”

Those that prove themselves capable can find themselves working in the shop. They have been schooled in the Goldbaum way.

“Most people stick with me,” he said. “I have a pretty good ratio of people who have been with me for a long time. Fifteen, 16 years.”

Those that have been with Lambs & Wolves for years are also supported with development opportunities. World class stylists come in and provide insight and perspective, bringing new techniques

that each seasoned stylist can add to their toolbox. “We bring in some global education three times a year to the entire staff,” he said. “Education and training are key.”

Goldbaum has made Lambs and Wolves part of the fabric of Red Bank. He regularly works with the township based nonprofit Lunch Break, and also donates time to the Dress for Success program by providing haircuts for people looking for work. As a member of the Mental Health Association of Monmouth County, Goldbaum supports positive mental health as their social media routinely posts affirmations and aphorisms of positivity.

There’s no master plan for Lambs & Wolves. Goldbaum wants to continue being a successful shop, facilitating the next generation of stylists.

“I want to keep learning and growing and enjoying some of the success I’ve had with my family and continue to evolve as a leader.”

Celebrate Monmouth County History with A Weekend in Old Monmouth

AWeekend in Old Monmouth is an annual two-day event, which will take place on Saturday, May 4 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. and Sunday, May 15 from 12 p.m. to 5 p.m. where 50 of the Monmouth County history sites open their doors to visitors and waive their admission fees. A Weekend in Old Monmouth is a selfguided tour.

A Weekend in Old Monmouth is also available online. A virtual tour has been created to present all 50 tour locations in a linear, place-based narrative with photos.

Each tour site is now a “story point” on an interactive map using geo-location technology. You can click sequentially through the narrative, or you can browse one of the tour routes by interacting with the map. The tour may be viewed on a computer, tablet, or smart phone.

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Visiting the multiple pages within the virtual tour will help you to learn more about each of the tour routes and clicking on each point will reveal more about the specific historic sites.

The 2024 Weekend in Old Monmouth Site list includes: All Saints Memorial Church, Middletown

Allaire Historic Village, Wall

Allentown Presbyterian Church

Baird Homestead, Millstone Twp.

Battery Lewis, Hartshorne Park, Highlands

Burrowes Mansion Museum, Matawan

Christ Church, Middletown - NEW

Christ Church, Shrewsbury Borough

Covenhoven House, Freehold Borough

Craig House at Monmouth Battlefield, Freehold Township

Crawford House, Tinton Falls

Dr. Cooke’s Medical Office, Holmdel

Eatontown Historical Museum, Eatontown

Friends Meeting House, Shrewsbury Borough

Great Auditorium, Ocean Grove, Neptune Township

Grover House, Middletown

Holmes-Hendrickson House, Holmdel

InfoAge Science and History Museums, Wall

Jewish Heritage Museum of Monmouth County, Freehold Township

Joseph Murray Farmhouse, Middletown

Keyport Fire Museum and Education Center, Keyport

Keyport Historical Society Museum, Keyport

Longstreet Farm, Holmdel

Mackenzie House, Howell - NEW

Marlpit Hall, Middletown

Monmouth Boat Club, Red Bank

Monmouth County Historical Assoc. Museum, Freehold Borough

National Guard Militia Museum, Sea Girt

Oakely Farm House, Freehold Township

Ocean Grove Historical Museum, Neptune Township

Old Ardena School, Howell - NEW

Old First Church, Middletown

Old Tennent Church, Manalapan

Old Wall Historical Society, Wall

Old Yellow Meeting House, Upper Freehold

Parker Homestead, Little Silver

Portland Place, Highlands

Red Bank Woman’s Club, Red Bank

Roosevelt Borough (Jersey Homesteads) Historic District, Roosevelt

Rumson Presbyterian Church, Rumson - NEW

Saint Catharine Church, Spring Lake

Seabright Lawn, Tennis & Cricket Club, Rumson

Shrewsbury Historical Museum, Shrewsbury Township

Squan Village Historical Society Museum, Manasquan

Stephen Crane House, Asbury Park

Strauss Mansion Museum, Atlantic Highlands

T. Thomas Fortune Cultural Center, Red Bank

Taylor-Butler House, Middletown

Township of Ocean Historical Museum, Ocean

Twin Lights Museum, Highlands

Village Inn, Englishtown

Walnford, Upper Freehold

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James Yarosh Associates Fine Art Gallery presents HER STORY

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This new exhibition (which opened April 6 and runs through Sept. 2) activates a dialogue between two great female humanistic expressionists of the last century. Located at 45 East Main Street (Rt.520) in Historic Holmdel Village.

Loaded Spoon announces new Executive Chef and Culinary Director

The Loaded Spoon in Freehold is thrilled to announce the appointment of Neil West as its new Executive Chef and Culinary Director. With decades of culinary expertise, West brings a wealth of knowledge and passion to his new role. Chef West’s focus is to elevate the overall dining experience at The Loaded Spoon, to entice both new and returning patrons with his cuisine. Chef West’s vision is clear: “to create a menu that sparks conversation and leaves guests eagerly anticipating their next visit.”

Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce announces appointment of two new board members

The Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce recently announced the appointment of two new members of the Board of Directors. The newly appointed members are Andrew Harris from Liberty Insurance Associates and Kelly Power from Absolute Home Mortgage Corporation, each of whom bring

extensive knowledge of business development and program management to EMACC.

CSAV Systems expands

On Tuesday, April 9, CSAV Systems president Glen J. Dalakian hosted an official ribbon cutting in recognition of the expansion of their office by adopting a new building. The event was held on the outdoor patio in front of 295 NJ-34 in Colts Neck. Founded in 2005, CSAV Systems has grown to be a leader in the professional sound, video, and teleconferencing industry.

Earth Treasures Jewelers celebrates golden anniversary

Earth Treasures Jewelers in Eatontown is proud and humbled to announce that 2024 marks their 50th year in business. In honor of this occasion, they will be holding a storewide sale from now through May 11. For five decades, the business has consistently established a reputation for expertise, knowledge and a customer-centric approach. This commitment has empowered them to play a meaningful role in helping the local community create lasting memories as they celebrate life’s biggest moments.

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5 Great Spots to Take Mom for Mother’s Day

BY RYAN LOUGHLIN

It’s May, which means the big day honoring the official MVP of the family is coming up, but that also means it’s your job to come up with a fabulous spot to take her to celebrate. That can be a stressful task, but fret not, as we’re here to save the day with a lineup of five places that are sure to leave all your favorite moms, grandmoms and matriarchs smiling from ear to ear.

Though it often gets overshadowed by Asbury Park, its hip neighbor to the north, we can’t think of a lovelier place to spend a day with Mom than Main Avenue in Ocean Grove. Like a real-life version of Disneyland’s Main Street U.S.A., Main Avenue boasts a picturesque block filled with quaint shops, restaurants, art galleries and bakeries, each dripping with old-fashioned charm and the classic Victorian architecture that has been a staple of the town since it was founded. Start out by grabbing a fabulous coffee or latte at Odessey Coffee, before heading across the street for a heavenly vanilla cream-filled donut at Ocean Grove Bake Shoppe. Wan1 2

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On Mother’s Day, it’s hard to go wrong with a spot that is not only named after the owner’s grandmother, but even has the word “mom” right in the name. And it’s even harder to go wrong when you have a menu as fun as the one at Meemom’s in Middletown. Known for offering more than 20 different versions of their signature French Toast, it’s worth skipping the predictable breakfast in bed this year and instead getting Mom a plate of their incredible French Cakes, which consist of two thick pieces of French toast dipped in pancake batter, fried and topped with cinnamon and powdered sugar. Meemoms.com

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der the shops and let Mom pick out a few knick-knacks or a piece of framed artwork from a local artist before heading up the street for a pleasant stroll down the boardwalk. OdesseyCoffee.net

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618 RESTAURANT IN FREEHOLD

618 in Freehold is a fantastic spot to head for brunch this Mother’s Day. While their menu of new American dishes is a winner no matter what day you choose to dine there, on Mother’s Day they will offer a special prix fixe Mother’s Day Brunch Buffet that’s sure to please everyone at the table, including the guest of honor. For $69.95 ($24.95 for kids 4-12), guests can indulge in a luxurious spread of breakfast items, such as Cinnamon Vanilla Brioche French Toast, made-to-order omelets, and various bagels, muffins and breakfast sweets; while those in the mood for lunch can enjoy savory dishes like Herb-seared Salmon in a white wine chive butter sauce or Chicken breast with portobellos, marsala, rosemary and shallots; in addition to a carving station, pasta dishes and much more. Seatings are at 11 a.m. And 1:30 p.m. Reservations required. 618NJ.com

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SWEET TEASE TEA ROOM IN BELMAR

Those looking to take Mom for a lovely girls day out, can head to Sweet Tease Tea Room in Belmar. While they are not open on Mother’s Day itself, on Saturday, May 11, they will be hosting three separate seatings (11 a.m., 1 p.m., and 3 p.m.) for their five-course Mother’s Day Tea Party. Reservations are $50 per person or $25 for guests under 10 years old. Guests will enjoy pots of tea along with finger sandwiches, various sweets and scones and more. SweetTeaseTeaRoom.com

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MONMOUTH PARK IN OCEANPORT

The annual Mother’s Day @ the Track event returns this year at Monmouth Park. All ladies will enjoy complimentary admission as well as free family fun day activities, including face painting, pony rides, clowns and a bounce house from noon to 4 p.m. in the picnic area. The first 1,000 moms to enter will receive a free carnation courtesy of In the Garden Flowers. Guests can pack a picnic, or enjoy a special Mother’s Day brunch in the Dining Club and Turf Club before watching the races. For reservations call 732-571-5459. MonmouthPark.com

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Fame Unseen

Rumson man finds success in the world of voice over

BY BILL CLARK

Tim Champeaux is not a household name, but it’s very likely that you’ve heard his voice drifting out of your television at some point throughout his many years doing voiceover work.

In that time, the Rumson resident has covered a lot of ground. He’s lent his talents to Best Buy ads during the holiday season, political junkies might recognize him for his work on past presidential debates on CNN, and Super Bowl viewers may have been enticed to put in an order for Pizza Hut after one of his spots went out to millions of sports fans during the most watched television event of the year.

But Champeaux didn’t set out to be one of the most prolific voices in promos and commercials. Nor did he stumble into it fortuitously. His journey splits the difference between tenacity and luck.

Born in Buffalo, NY but raised in Cleveland, OH, Champeaux grew up in a literal full house as one of seven children packed into a home with only three bedrooms and one bathroom.

After learning to play the trumpet and sharpening his vocal talents as a singer, he attended college on a partial music scholarship in New Orleans. As music is embedded in the city’s DNA, it would be hard to come up with a place better suited for an aspiring trumpet player to continue his journey. And as luck would have it, it was also a place where the people naturally pronounced his French last name correctly (Sham-Poe).

“When I got to New Orleans, right at the airport they said ‘Mr. Champeaux,’” he recalled. “I said ‘this is great.’ Still to this day, not just for that reason, but I still consider New Orleans my second home.”

A few years after arriving in Louisiana, Champeaux was offered a spot playing on cruises in Los Angeles. There, one of his bandmates told him that he had the voice for announcements. Each night, before he picked up his trumpet, Champeaux would take to the microphone and introduce the band.

After his time in the cruise business ran its course, Champeaux relocated to the northeast, ultimately to a spot on his brother’s couch in Brooklyn – a fitting place for a musician that would spend more nights on the road in the next 10 years than he would in his own bed, as he toured with The Second Step, a popular Brooklynbased ska/funk/soul group.

Champeaux took to the grind once The Second Step came off the road.

“I was sort of looking for anything in the entertainment industry, anything peripheral to the entertainment industry,” he said. “I was a production assistant for a while and I was working on a movie shoot, so I was doing whatever I could just to sort of stay in the game.”

One gig that Champeaux booked was as an extra on the HBO prison drama Oz. During the day he would stand in the background of shots, putting on his best incarcerated face. Then at night he would freely take to stages around New York to continue his passion for music.

During downtime during shoots, Champeaux would talk to his “cellmate”, played by Chazz Menendez, who had grown his role on the show over the years. They talked shop and Menendez reinforced the idea that Champeaux might have a future in voiceover work.

“I would have been flattered if I knew what voiceover meant,” Champeaux said. “Chazz was an actual actor.”

Champeaux’s memory went back to his time pumping up the crowd on the cruise ship. That wasn’t what Menedez was referring to.

“I said, ‘oh, like the guy on The Price Is Right?’” Champeaux said.

Menendez walked him through the different opportunities that were out there. Commercials, movie trailers, promos – all needed a unique voice. Menendez reached out to his agent who agreed to meet Champeaux. “I went down there and I’ve never done a voiceover in my life,” he said. “They

signed me that day and sent me out that afternoon to try to book jobs. So that’s how lucky I got.”

But Champeaux didn’t know the esoteric nature of the industry. He arrived at the audition later that day with nothing more than confidence in his voice, entered the booth and was tasked by the casting director to “slate and go” (a phrase in the acting industry meaning to introduce yourself during an audition).

He repeated the phrase back and began to read the lines. The casting director laughed it off as a joke and prepared herself for a proper go around the second time.

Champeaux, still unaware of the meaning of this industry lingo, repeated “slate and go” again. The director immediately stopped him.

“She asked, ‘Is this literally your first audition ever?’” he remembered. “I said, Yes, it is.”

A bit embarrassed, Champeaux logged the term in his brain and gave them his best reading. He did not get that job, nor did he book anything for the next year and a half.

Champeaux’s next break came when a casting director was looking for Northeastern talent that could pull off a New Orleans accent for Popeye’s Chicken. The midwestern raised gentleman with the French name could be heard nationwide saying “Love That Chicken from Popeye’s” in his best cajun accent. It wasn’t the natural gruff

baritone that Champeaux relied on in so many auditions. It was just a take on the people he spent so many of his formative years with.

From there, Champeaux was attached to Sex and the City, NBC, the DIY Network, and other commercials and promos.

Years later, he auditions with confidence, crafting his style and substance to what the casting calls for. Tim’s website is filled with clips and demos of famous spots he has been associated with. His ubiquitous voice spans the offerings of television and advertisements. Most people would be able to recognize at least one of his famous lines, but as famous as his words may be, the anonymity of the position makes any level of true fame tricky to come by. On a recent shopping trip, the clerk at Best Buy showed little interest in his credentials during a check out process.

Though fame and adulation may not be a reality, Champeaux says he wouldn’t give the job up for anything. The trumpet-player-turned-voice-over-artist still gets excited when certain jobs come through. According to Champeaux, the only position that might make him stray would be to man the booth at a major league stadium, using his gift to fire up the crowd for the next batter coming to the plate. Until then, Champeaux is happy recording lines in Rumson that play throughout the world.

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5 SPOTS to Dine and Drink Al Fresco 1

BY RYAN LOUGHLIN

Is there anything better on a sunny Saturday day in the spring than heading to a fabulous bar or restaurant and enjoying a few drinks on the patio and maybe an app or two?

The lovely temps in May allow us to do just that, and luckily Monmouth County is packed with great spots to bask in the al fresco experience. Here are five of our favorites.

MARINA GRILL, BELMAR

This gorgeous restaurant sits right on the Shark River in Belmar and its sprawling outdoor space is second to none. The views are incredible whether you choose to enjoy them from a table or belly up to the bar for a livelier experience. Even those sitting inside can get a touch of the warm breezes as the restaurant boasts a series of garage door-style walls that can be opened when Mother Nature allows. Outside, a few blood orange margaritas for you and your friends are sure to go down smooth as will a pitcher or two of their awesome white sangria. Pair either with a few plates of locally caught clams from the raw bar or a pile of fresh ahi tuna nachos and you’ve got an afternoon worthy of anyone’s envy. MarinaGrilleNJ.com

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BAHR’S LANDING, HIGHLANDS

With more than 100 years in business, Bahr’s Landing has more than earned its stripes. Not only does it serve possibly THE best seafood anywhere on the Jersey Shore, but it’s serene waterfront views and old school nautical vibe make it an absolute joy to visit anytime. But when the weather warms up, the outdoor deck is the place to be, and frankly, we can’t come up with a better spot to enjoy a cold IPA and a cup of some of the world’s tastiest clam chowder than right here. Bonus for boat owners, you can arrive by sea and dock and dine! BahrsLanding.com

BOND STREET BAR, ASBURY PARK

A wonderfully grungy dive bar, Asbury Park’s Bond Street Bar is a true gem. It’s well weathered interior is a great place to belly up for a beer and a shot any time of year, but when spring hits, we love to head out to the handful of tables right on the sidewalk for some of the finest people watching anywhere in the state. Don’t sleep on the menu here either, as the kitchen puts out a killer selection of sandwiches, burgers and bar munchies. An order of their fabulous beer-battered onion rings is never a mistake, nor is choosing any of the 6 superb grilled cheese sandwiches that take up their own subsection of the menu (we are partial to the frizzled onion, bacon and cheddar variety.) BondStreetAP.com

RED ROCK TAP + GRILL, RED BANK

Hanging out at the patio at Red Rock Tap + Grill always manages to feel like you scored an invite to a fabulous party where something exciting is about to happen at any minute. The crowd is friendly and lively, the beers are always flowing and you can even bring your dog should he or she not want to miss out on all the fun. Red Bank has a lot of great spaces, but few are as enjoyable on a beautiful night as this. Grab a seat at one of the many picnic tables that scatter the space and watch one of the live bands perform on the outdoor stage or you can catch the game on one of many TVs that flank the bars. RedRockRB.com

METROPOLITAN CAFE, FREEHOLD

Upscale, yet casual, hip yet approachable, Metropolitan Café in Freehold checks a lot of boxes all at once. Situated in the hubbub of Main Street, the outdoor space in front of the brick exterior is covered, shielding you from the occasional sprinkle should it pop up, and serves as a relaxing and excellent location to kick back with a martini after a particularly obnoxious week at work. Its menu focuses on New American classics with a pacific rim flare, with standouts including the filet mignon spring rolls, duck quesadillas and their signature calamari and shrimp with sesame seeds. Sushi lovers can high-five over a long list of apps and specialty rolls like the awesome “Rock and Roll,” made with shrimp tempura and cream cheese topped with spicy tuna. MetroCafeNJ.com 3 4 5

Tigger Stavola Foundation Polar Plunge Makes a Big Splash

Over 400 people came out on a windy, chilly Sunday morning to support the Tigger Stavola Foundation’s fifth annual Polar Plunge on March 10. Held at Edgewater Beach & Cabana Club, this year’s event was in memory of Brian Duddy, Jr. who lost his life to substance use disorder nearly a year ago.

Prior to plunging, attendees enjoyed breakfast and prepared inspirational stones used to form a heart in the sand as a memorial to the many beautiful souls lost to the disease of addiction. The event was supported by local political leaders including Monmouth County Commissioners Director, Thomas A. Arnone, who was a “Bear Friend” sponsor and Assemblywoman Luann Peterpaul, who was in attendance.

Athletic teams like Red Bank Regional High School Boys Lacrosse and service groups like the Boys & Girls Club Leaders of Asbury helped bolster attendance this year. Middle and high school students traveled from as far as New Egypt, Jackson

and Manchester Township to volunteer and plunge.

“Attendance at this event has more than doubled in the past two years,” said Founding Director, Lisa Stavola, who lost her son Tigger at 25 years of age to an accidental overdose.

“This incredible turnout is indicative of the impact that addiction and overdose is having on our community, so we’re thrilled to see so many of our youth showing up and engaging in important conversations about preventing addiction.”

Matt Bellace, a motivational speaker who is part of the foundation’s Partner School Program, delivered a preplunge pep talk about the benefits of achieving natural highs. Attendees also had the opportunity to sign up for the LED (Leadership, Education and Drug Prevention) by Tigger mobile engagement tool, designed to help 7th through 12th graders make smarter decisions when confronted with vaping, marijuana, alcohol, tobacco and drugs.

— PHOTOS BY TOM ZAPCIC

Brookdale Community College Welcomes Summer Deaver

as Director of Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness

Center

Brookdale Community College has announced the appointment of Summer Deaver as the Director of the Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center. With an extensive wellness, mindfulness, and leadership background, Deaver brings a wealth of experience and a proven track record of success in holistic health programming and community engagement.

“I feel so grateful to be here,” said Deaver. “There’s just such an amazing amount of wellness already happening.”

Summer Deaver, a seasoned professional in the field of holistic wellness, has dedicated over two decades to the development of wellness programs, leadership in yoga and mindfulness education, and strategic planning for wellness organizations. Her experience spans multiple roles, including Executive Director of Yoga Peace Kula, where she led a team serving a community of 5,000, and Chief of Staff at the Marilyn Group, where she was instrumental in executing strategic initiatives across five companies, significantly boosting brand visibility and revenue growth.

wellness journey of our community and I look forward to collaborating with the talented team at Brookdale and the broader community to create a space where wellness is accessible to all.”

Deaver’s appointment is effective immediately, and she is poised to enhance the holistic wellness offerings at Brookdale Community College, fostering an environment of health, mindfulness, and community engagement for all students, employees, and the community.

For more information about the Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center at Brookdale Community College, please visit brookdalecc.edu/wellness-center.

Beloved Monmouth County Sheriff’s Office K-9 passes

Deaver’s holistic approach to wellness, combined with her innovative program design skills, has led to the development of impactful wellness platforms and initiatives. Her leadership at the Seven Arrows Retreat + Farm and Greenhouse Holistic, among others, showcases her ability to foster community, inspire teams, and manage large-scale operations with a focus on sustainable growth and holistic health education.

Dr. David M. Stout, President of Brookdale Community College, expressed his enthusiasm for Deaver’s appointment. He stated, “Summer’s impressive background in holistic wellness, paired with her visionary leadership and communitybuilding skills, makes her an ideal choice to lead the Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center. We are excited to see how her innovative approaches and deep commitment to holistic health will enrich our community and advance the center’s mission.”

Deaver’s vision is to cultivate a future in which the Wellness Center’s offerings are enhanced by incorporating the eight dimensions of wellness, aiming to equip individuals with crucial life skills. This approach acknowledges the intertwined nature of physical and financial health with our mental wellbeing, promoting a comprehensive perspective on wellness.

On her appointment, Deaver said, “I am thrilled to join Brookdale Community College and lead the Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center. It is an honor to contribute to the

Prosecutor Santiago, along with members of the Monmouth County Prosecutors Office, send their deepest sympathies and thoughts to everyone at the Monmouth County Sheriff’s Office, especially Sgt. Kurt Kroeper, on the loss of their beloved 10-year-old bloodhound, K-9 Skye.

Skye was always the shining star of the show at any event she attended, along with being one of the most valuable bloodhounds assisting in crime prevention here in New Jersey. RIP Skye, you will be missed. Thank you so very much for your service to Monmouth County and its residents.

Photo and story courtesy Monmouth County Prosecutors Office Facebook page.

May

EVENTS

CALENDAR

SATURDAY, MAY 4

MONMOUTH MOMS SPRING

FESTIVAL AT BELL WORKS

Enjoy a full day of fun where you will find something for everyone! Over 80 vendors and a Touch –a-Truck outdoor zone for the kids. The event runs from 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. 101 Crawfords Corner Road, Holmdel. For more information, visit www.themonmouthmoms.com.

SATURDAY, MAY 4

OCEAN GROVE SPRING FLING

Enjoy this classic arts & crafts show from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Admission is free. 45 Pilgrim Pathway, Ocean Grove For more information visit www.oceangrovenj.com.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 4 AND 5

HANDS ON HISTORY AT HISTORIC LONGSTREET FARM

Spend the day exploring historic items at the farm from noon to 4:30 p.m. 44 Longstreet Road, Holmdel. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth. nj.us.

SUNDAY, MAY 5

THE SPRING “LITTLE SIT” AT SANDY HOOK

Stop by anytime from 7 a.m. – 2 p.m. and search for as many species of birds as you can during spring migration. Spermaceti Cove, 128 South Hartshorne Drive, Highlands.

For more information, visit www.monmouthaudubon.org.

FRIDAY, MAY 10

SCAN/SENIOR CITIZENS ACTIVITIES NETWORK’S

6TH ANNUAL SENIOR EXPO & FASHION SHOW

On Friday, May 10, at the Monmouth Mall in front of Macy’s from 11 a.m.3 p.m. over 45 vendors showcasing products, services and healthy lifestyles for the senior community and their caregivers. The Fashion Show begins at 1:30 p.m. with models age 55+ walking the runway in fashions by Macy’s personal stylist and hosted by 94.3 The Point Morning Show Hosts, Lou Russo & Michele Pilenza. SCANNJ.org

SATURDAY, MAY 11

THE CREATIVE ARTS FESTIVAL

Enjoy the work of artists and fine crafters from all different mediums from 10 a.m.4 p.m. Admission and parking are free. Thompson Park 805 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft

For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 11 AND 12

ASBURY PARK

SPRING BAZAAR 2024

Enjoy a weekend of shopping and music in the Grand Arcade of Convention Hall. Noon – 5:00 p.m. 1300 Ocean Ave.,

Asbury Park. For more information, visit www.asburyparkbazaar.com.

SUNDAY, MAY 12

PLANT A SUNFLOWER

AT HISTORIC LONGSTREET FARM

Celebrate Spring by helping the staff plant this year’s sunflower field, then return in the fall for the harvest and bring one home. 44 Longstreet Road, Holmdel. Noon – 2:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth. nj.us.

WEDNESDAY, MAY 15

CLIMB TIME

AT SHARK RIVER PARK

Come on over to Shark River Park and climb the 25’ portable climbing wall. 3- 6 p.m. Open to ages 8 and up, free. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

SATURDAY, MAY 18

VINTAGE CAR SHOW IN OCEAN GROVE

Enjoy live music as you peruse a lineup of classic cars from the good old days.

10 a.m. – 3 p.m. Please bring a canned good or a $5 donation to benefit St. Paul’s Food Pantry - 81 Main Ave. Ocean Grove

For more information, visit www.oceangrovenj.com.

SATURDAY, MAY 19

SPRING MUSIC AT COFFEE CORRAL

Enjoy live music with a cup of coffee

10 a.m. – 1 p.m.

For more information, visit www.redbankgreen.com.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 25 AND 26

CANOE RENTALS AT THOMPSON PARK

Enjoy a day on Marlu Lake in a canoe, all equipment is provided. The cost is $15 per boat for 1-3 people and 2 hours of canoeing.

805 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft

For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

Don’t Trust, But Definitely Verify: Exposing Asset Concealment in a New Jersey Divorce

BY ALFRED M. CASO, PARTNER – ANSELL.LAW

Dishonesty and deception are often hallmarks of a deteriorating marriage. The loss of trust that follows uncovered lies can be the last straw that leads to divorce. But filing a petition for dissolution of marriage doesn’t mean the lies will stop. In many circumstances, individuals have ample motivation to be less than candid about the true state of their finances during a New Jersey divorce proceeding in an attempt to reduce their child support or spousal maintenance obligations or tilt property division decisions in their favor.

Your Spouse Can Try to Hide, But Your Divorce Lawyer Can Seek

Even though New Jersey law requires each spouse in a divorce to make full, complete, and sworn disclosures to the other about their respective assets and liabilities, there are many deceptive and underhanded ways to manipulate those disclosures through creative accounting and hiding assets. When successful, these efforts to deceive the other spouse – and the court – can lead to financial arrangements and asset allocations that are inherently unfair, as they are based on a false picture of the parties’ finances and marital lifestyle.

Generally, the more complex your finances are, the easier it can be for your spouse to fudge the numbers and hide assets. However, working with accountants, investigators, and other professionals, a savvy and tenacious divorce attorney can uncover these efforts, hold your soon-to-be-ex to account, and ensure your rights are protected.

Disclosures Are Just the Start of the Inquiry

As alluded to above, New Jersey’s Court Rules require couples going through a divorce to complete a document called a Case Information Statement (CIS). This is a mandatory disclosure of each spouse’s income, assets, and liabilities, regardless of whether they are marital or separate under New Jersey principles of equitable distribution. Additionally, each party may make requests on the other for documents, pose interrogatories, depose relevant parties, subpoena records, or conduct other asset-related discovery. Once your lawyer receives the statement and any requested material and information from your spouse, the inquiry can begin – not end.

You shouldn’t take these disclosures at face value. Rather, your lawyer should continue digging until they determine through their independent investigation that the disclosures are complete and accurate. If your lawyer discovers hidden assets, they will bring your spouse’s deception to the court’s attention, and the concealed assets will be included in the support, maintenance, and property allocations made in your divorce. Additionally, your spouse’s exposed efforts to game the system will subject them to a range of tangible and intangible consequences imposed by the judge, including:

• Imposition of fines.

• Jail time for perjury or fraud.

• Allocation of more assets to you than initially planned.

• Awarding hidden assets to you.

• Payment of any attorney’s fees and costs you incurred in discovering the concealed assets.

• Irreparable damage to your spouse’s credibility that can color the judge’s decision-making in all aspects of your divorce proceedings.

• Resignation of your attorney from your case.

• How a Spouse Can Attempt to Hide Assets

• There are many ways a determined and creative spouse can try to conceal assets. Some of the more common forms of financial deceit include:

• Transferring money from a joint to an individual account.

• Depositing assets into an offshore corporation, family trust, or shell corporation.

• Buying art, collectibles, or other items that retain their value but are hard to liquidate.

• Purchasing insurance policies.

• Colluding with an employer to delay or hide bonuses, raises, or stock options until a time when the asset or income would be considered separate property.

• Skimming or diverting funds from a business.

• Failing to report income on tax returns.

• Gifting money to someone with the intention of receiving it back after the divorce concludes.

• Keeping money in offshore accounts.

• Hiding items in a secret safe deposit box.

• Selling assets for significantly less than they are worth.

Some of the most common assets that a party may attempt to hide include:

• Bank, investment, and retirement accounts:

• Rental/Investment property income

• International property

• Stocks

• Cryptocurrency

• Timeshares

• Cash (such as tips or income from closely held businesses)

• Physical assets

• Undervaluing cars, artwork, and jewelry

• Gifts from parents

• Tools

• Weapons/firearms

If your marriage is ending, the trust you once shared with your spouse has likely been broken. Putting faith in your spouse now, during the heat of a divorce proceeding that will impact you and your children for years and decades to come, is not a prudent strategy in many circumstances. Trying to hide assets in a divorce rarely pays; in fact, it can cost you dearly. Your divorce attorney can ensure that all your spouse’s cards are on the table and that you get a fair and equitable resolution in your divorce.

About the author: A partner at Ansell.Law, Alfred M. Caso devotes his practice to the areas of family law, domestic violence, and municipal court.

Former Little Silver Fire Chief Passes Away

Chief Rocky Nolin and the members of the Little Silver Volunteer Fire Company No. 1 regret to announce the passing of Ex-Chief and Past President Peter Gale. Chief Gale was a graduate of Red Bank High School and the US Merchant Marine Academy. Pete joined the LSFD in the early 1970s and served as fire chief in 1979, which led to one of his favorite comments “Back in ‘79...” one of the most repeated and imitated remarks in the history of the Fire Department. Pete served as fire company president and several years as an engineer. Pete is one of the only members of the Fire Department to hold every elected office, serving as an engineer, a fire officer, and a business officer. His tenure as house committee chairman and treasurer is remembered for many improvements and enhancements to the fire house. Pete also served with the Little Silver First Aid Squad (now LSEMS) Pete also was the pitcher on the LSFD Shore Firemen Sunday Softball team and was inducted into the league’s Hall of Fame.

engineer, and lived about five doors from the fire house on Prospect Avenue. Many fire chiefs responding to emergencies were comforted when they heard Pete check in service on the radio by saying “77 Engine responding with 4 and a chauffeur.” His capable skill and extraordinary knowledge as an apparatus operator was always evident. He was especially proud when members referred to him as “Chauffeur 7-7.”

Pete was a proud man with a strong personality and even stronger opinions. He was never afraid of a good debate. But when the Fire Department was fighting fire, he had only comrades and brothers and any differences were put aside. His dedication to the organization, his fellow members, and his community was as passionate as his love of a good “exchange of opinions,” and he was a fixture around the firehouse. We extend our heartfelt condolences to his children, his grandchildren, and his extended family.

Fair winds and following seas, Chief. Rest well. We’ll take up.

For many years, Pete served as an engineer and chief

— Credit: Little Silver Fire Company Facebook page

TThe below piece was written by local historian and former educator William Gardell, MA. Gardell is a lifelong Middletown resident as well as a former educator and a 20-year veteran of the Middletown Volunteer Fire Department.

The Allen House Massacre and Other Engagements in Eastern Monmouth County

BY WILLIAM GARDELL

he history of Monmouth County during the American Revolution is a complex one. The 13 British Colonies, including New Jersey, were in a state of rebellion against the Crown. But within New Jersey, Monmouth County was arguably within a state of insurrection against the Patriotcontrolled state government throughout much of the war. The revolution was a long, drawn-out event that changed over time. Some were more or less opportunists who used either or both “causes” in order to rob their neighbors, taking goods and livestock away from political enemies and using the war as an excuse.

Some used the war to settle old scores with neighbors that had nothing to do with the American War for Independence. The killing of Middletown Patriot Militiaman Joseph Murray in 1780 is a prime example of this. Murray had previously confiscated horses from powerful Loyalist neighbors during the war for the Patriot cause. He was later murdered while working on his farm for his deeds. His friends in turn tracked down and killed at least one man suspected of slaying Murray in retaliation.

Many locals chose to fight for the British, including former slave Titus Tye. He led a unit of Loyalists known as the Black Brigade which operated out of Sandy Hook. Tye had previously fought at the Battle of Monmouth and was famous for capturing local Patriot and Privateer Joshua Huddy. Huddy, who had fought both as an artilleryman and a privateer (essentially a pirate with a license) had been at his home in Colts Neck on September 1, 1780 when he was attacked by Tye and his men. Huddy and a servant girl fought against many, exchanging musket shots from the second story windows of his home. Tye and his men set fire to the building and Huddy surrendered in order to save his servant from burning. Tye himself was wounded in the wrist during the fight and would soon die from his wound. Huddy would escape from custody while he was being taken back to Sandy Hook in a canoe. A party of 16 militia fired upon the boats and the canoe capsized, allowing his swim to freedom. He had suffered a bullet wound to his thigh but would live to fight another day. However, in 1782 he would be hanged by Loyalists in what is now Highlands. The war in Monmouth County was just as much a civil war as it was a war of independence from the British.

The Patriots won a minor victory over British Regulars earlier on May 26th, 1777 in Middletown. Patriots Gen. Benjamin Lincoln gave the enemy “a pretty little threshing”. In the fighting the British lost 7 men and 3 lighthorse killed. The Americans suffered 3 wounded, 1 mortally.

In September of 1779 a skirmish occurred in Shrewsbury that has come to be known as the Allen House Massacre. Twelve Continental soldiers from Virginia were stationed at Allen

House, which was then operating as a tavern known as the Blue Ball Tavern since 1754. The Continentals were essentially an occupying force in the eyes of many local Loyalists. They were there to stop the locals from continuing to trade with British occupied New York. These soldiers being from Virginia would not have familial ties to the locals and would have had no reason to overlook such illegal activities. The Loyalists hid behind the gravestones in the Church graveyard until they were ready and charged the tavern with bayonets fixed. They burst through the door and took the Continentals completely by surprise. One raider managed to grab the muskets of the Virginians which were stored together leaving the Continentals unarmed. A brief melee battle ensued but ultimately the Lieutenant in charge of the Continentals surrendered due to his men not having weapons to fight with. Not before 3 of his men were bayonetted and ultimately died of their wounds. The remaining soldiers were taken prisoner.

The Allen House in Shrewsbury

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DAISY OF RED BANK

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LIBBY OF RED BANK LUPO OF SHREWSBURY MAX OF TINTON FALLS

JESSE JAMES OF LITTLE SILVER

PENNY OF SHREWSBURY

ECHO OF RUMSON

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Saturday, May 11

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Sunday, May 12

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Rumson Fair Haven Students Win Big at Jersey Shore Science Fair

On Saturday, March 16, sixteen Rumson Fair Haven students descended upon Stockton University to participate in the annual 2024 Jersey Shore Science Fair. The fair, in its 49th year, serves middle to high school students from 40+ schools from New Jersey’s coastal counties, Cape May, Atlantic, Ocean, and Monmouth, and offers fourteen different categories and three levels for each category for participation and judging.

This year, RFH had a larger number of students participating in the science fair as it is the first year that RFH implemented a mandatory research project for all 11th-grade students in Biology Honors courses. Those selected to enter the Jersey Shore Science Fair stood out amongst them all.

Mentored and aided by the RFH Biology staff, Mr. Michael Haughwout, Mrs. Valeri Kilar, and Mrs. Cheryl Laviola, students felt confident and enjoyed the experience of a larger science fair. After weeks of research, data analysis, and preparations followed by hours of setting up and presenting at the fair, several honors were bestowed,

including a third-place finish in the team projects category for Annabelle Costello and Chloe Dengler with their study of The Effect of the Environment on Fingerprint Development and second place in Botany for Ellery Donaldson with her study on How Positive and Negative Reinforcement Affects Chia Plant (Salvia hispanica) Growth. Both studies were invited to the Delaware Valley Science Fair to present their findings further.

Three other groups received Honorable Mentions in their respective categories. Mr. Pennetti, Supervisor of STEM, explains, “Mrs. Kilar, also our STEM Club advisor, took the lead to organize and showcase some of our students’ best work and we are extremely proud of not only what they’ve been able to accomplish, but in how far our STEM program has flourished over the last few years.” In addition to the groups invited to the prestigious Delaware Valley Science Fair, the students will also present at RFH’s very own science fair later this spring.

Stiff or Painful Joints Restricting You From Everyday Activity?

Genesis Orthopaedic and Spine has opened its first Monmouth County location in Middletown, NJ. From treating all orthopedic injuries headto-toe, to being one of the top concussion specialists in New Jersey, the Genesis providers focus on personalized, minimally invasive and traditional orthopedic surgery solutions to get you back to doing what you love without feeling restricted. Get Moving Again With One Of Our Orthopedic Experts.

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VNA Hosts Luncheon for Women Leaders

VNA Health Group celebrated Women’s History Month by hosting a luncheon for its women leaders at Navesink Country Club on Tuesday, March 26. They were joined by over 115 attendees, including First Lady Tammy Murphy, the event’s keynote speaker. Beyond the First Lady, speakers included:

Christopher Rinn , President & CEO

Kathy Jones, Philanthropy Committee Chair

Eileen O’Hern Luby, Vice Chair, VNAHG/VNACJ Board of Trustees

Ellen Gusick , Chief Nursing Officer

Jenna Vaccaro, Chief of Staff

Stephanie Giordano, Chief Philanthropy Officer

Karyn Holley, Chief Compliance and Risk Management Officer

One of the event’s recurring topics was Geraldine Thompson (the founder of VNA Health Group), being added to the ballot of nominees for the New Jersey Hall of Fame Class of 2024. Geraldine’s advocacy work, which included preserving Island Beach as a state park, brought her numerous honors — including an honorary Master of Philanthropy degree from Rutgers University — and led many people to call her the “First Lady of Monmouth County” and “New Jersey’s First Lady.”

— PHOTOS BY TOM ZAPCIC

Sea Bright Volleyball Expands to Friday Nights

The 12th year of Sea Bright Volleyball Leagues is about to kick off with an anticipated 200+ teams participating. Many of which will be playing for the first time on Friday nights.

When the league started 12 years ago it was available only on Wednesday nights. Back then, it was a challenge to get just eight teams to join in order for there to be a functioning league. This year, now with league options Monday through Friday, over 100 team registrations were taken in a single day.

When captains register their teams online, they pick a day and time that works best and then play every week at that same time for about 10 weeks in the summer. The majority of leagues are for adults playing at a

recreational level, with six players per team as well as a couple options for youth and adults at a competitive level. While most time slots sell out very quickly, with the addition of Fridays this year the operation will be able to accommodate a lot of new teams.

Founder and participant Corey Wagner says, “This will be a special year to have so many new teams join us on the beach this summer. There’s nothing else like it; being on the beach with nine courts filled with local volleyball players who are having a blast. The trip over to Donovan’s Reef afterwards is also not to be overlooked.”

For more information, please visit seabrightvolleyball. com and sandboxleague.com

— Credit: Corey Wagner

Honorable Discharge Anna Diaz-White Steps Down After 40 Years of Helping Survivors of Domestic Violence

BY RAY SCHWEIBERT

Those who believe in fate might wonder if the foresight Anna Diaz-White’s parents had in escaping an oppressive regime, nearing the last opportune time to do so, somehow played into her dedication toward saving others from domestic violence and sexual abuse.

Diaz-White was only two when her parents fled Cuba for the United States in 1960. She would go on to earn a Master of Business Administration from New York University and embark on a career in finance with Citibank, now Citigroup, in Queens. After taking a break from business and a tough commute to raise her family, she re-entered the working world by accepting a part-time position closer to home as a finance grant writer for the non-profit 180 Turning Lives Around, located in Hazlet which serves as Monmouth County’s center for providing survivors of domestic and sexual violence and their families with free and confidential programs and resources.

Eight years after taking the part-time post, and with more flexibility in her schedule, she applied for and was granted the title of Executive Director of 180 Turning Lives Around, which was founded in 1976 as The Women’s Resource and Survival Center.

During her 32-year tenure as director, 180 achieved several major milestones, among them reaching in 2016 the mark of one-million 24/7 hotline calls responded to by the organization. Others include creating the first federally funded battered women’s shelter in the nation in 1986, starting 180’s Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence Response Teams (in 1996 and ’98), and overseeing the organization’s name change from The Women’s Center to 180 Turning Lives Around in 2002, which was done to “convey the comprehensive and integrated programs and services available for families.”

Community Magazine NJ spoke with Anna, who announced that she would be retiring later this year.

You and your family fled Cuba in 1960. Was that just to escape the Castro regime and its oppression?

Anna Diaz-White: Yes. My parents were not in agreement with communism. In 1960, they fled the country under a vacation visa. That was just before Castro closed it down and did not allow anybody to leave the country (a travel ban that lasted more than 50 years, until 2013, when Cubans were allowed to obtain a passport and travel).

I remember my mom telling me, years later, how she and everyone around her were in a constant state of panic during the Cuban Missile Crisis (in 1962), believing that a nuclear war was imminent.

It got close. Things got really hairy between (then Premier of the Soviet Union Nikita) Khrushchev and (then U.S. President John F.) Kennedy. I don’t think a lot of people realize how close we actually were to disaster.

I was amazed to learn that the number of calls received by 180 surpassed the one-million mark. That’s a staggering number of people who needed help due to abuse.

ADW: It’s a lot of people, and many of them are children. In 2008 we launched the statewide 2nd floor Youth Helpline, which is now Youth Text/Helpline (see 2ndFloor.org), and that helped hundreds of thousands of kids throughout the state, along with the services we provide here in Monmouth County such as the shelter hotline, court-assisted counseling, and other services (all outlined at 180NJ.org

under the Get Help or Get Info links).

What was your feeling when you were inducted into the New Jersey Hall of Fame last year? (She was introduced by Tammy Murphy, the governor’s wife, and past NJHOF recipient/ famed singer Gloria Gaynor.)

ADW: I have to tell you, that was quite an experience (she was one of 14 inductees spanning six categories). I had no idea of what a big deal it was. I got to see Bruce (Springsteen, husband of Patti Scialfa, who was also a NJHOF inductee last year), Danny DiVito and all these people that I’d heard of but didn’t realize they were from New Jersey. It was a really cool night.

Can you talk a little about how 180 operates in terms relying on volunteers to help carry out your mission?

ADW: Sure, so it’s a combination of paid staff and volunteers, and the volunteers do all kinds of different things. Some are in direct services – they meet survivors in any of the 51 police departments or any of the five area hospital emergency rooms throughout the county. And they’ll also accompany a survivor to court if they request it. If they’re called back to meet with a detective, or called into the prosecutor’s office, a volunteer could accompany them for support, including sometimes in the emergency room.

I understand 180 has one of the largest emergency domestic violence

shelters in the state.

ADW: Yes, and it’s also the only shelter that accepts survivors of any gender or gender identity, and families with their pets. We are currently the only one that accepts families with pets and we are really encouraging other shelters to do so. A lot of folks won’t leave the situation without their dog or cat or whatever. If you had to flee tomorrow, how could you leave a pet behind that you’ve had all its life? That would be particularly traumatic to kids on top of how their lives have already been disrupted.

How much does 180 rely on fundraising events, on top of state and federal support, to help achieve its mission?

ADW: We rely on government funding for support, but that doesn’t cover everything, so we have to raise close to $1 million every year to keep the lights on, keep the services going, and keep the hotlines operating. The Seas The Day fundraiser (at the Rumson Country Club on May 2) is our annual gala where we recognize outstanding supporters.

And it’s up to those manning the phones at the 24/7 hotline to determine if the situation falls under the category of an emergency situation, or domestic or sexual abuse?

ADW: Well, I’d have to say that by the time they call us, abuse has usually been going on for a while. It’s the same as if someone were to call the police – rarely is it ever after just one incident. Typically,

it is after a bunch of incidents that started to escalate, and then something is triggered to the point that they realize they have to call the cops. Similar with us, it’s rare for someone to call us because they had a bad argument with a boyfriend or girlfriend or loved one.

Sometimes we’ll get calls where they’re not entirely sure themselves. They tell themselves “Hey, I’m college educated, I’m a nurse or a doctor or an accomplished person” and they do not identify themselves as victims or survivors. People sometimes have this mistaken notion I think of what a “victim” is.

If he or she had been hit, they’d know what that is and immediately identify that as not OK, but it’s often the insidious and constant verbal or emotional, or threats of abuse, that can have people walking around on egg shells because they’re worried about someone flying into a rage where, while they might not hit you, they might punch a hole in the wall, or throw furniture around, or kick the dog – those kinds of things where there’s often this constant atmosphere of violence and rage without anyone actually getting hit.

That’s the part that tends to confuse people, and makes them ask “how is that abuse?” We’ve had survivors who tell us that healing from physical abuse is far easier – I broke my arm, it healed, I’m OK now – but the emotional effects of abuse and threatened violence are really what linger, often for years, especially on children. We’ve had people say that the kids don’t know because they were sleeping. The kids were not sleeping. Kids are aware of what’s going on. They might not be able to verbalize it, but they’re going to be acting out in different ways.

I’d guess that working in that environment, it would be hard not to allow dealing with such trauma in others to affect you personally.

ADW: I generally do not direct services personally, but certainly many of our staff and volunteers do, and for them especially hearing really tragic, horrible stories – to the point where you think you’ve heard it all, and then you hear something that is even more horrible than anything you’ve heard before – can and does have an effect on people and their mental health. We encourage our staff to take a break, take a mental-health day when you feel it becoming overwhelming or just becoming too much. Internally, we have peersupport groups for staff to be able to unload what’s going on or express how they’re feeling about what’s going on. It is stressful.

What made you decide to retire, and do you know who your successor will be at 180 Turning Lives Around?

ADW: This all started for me in 1984 and, 40 years later, I’m looking to retire and hand off the reigns to a new generation.

It became official (recently) that our new director will be Elizabeth Graham. She’s a great gal who’s been with us 15 years. She was a former client and now she’ll be the director of the organization, so things have come full circle. She started out as my assistant, then was promoted to Chief Operating Officer, and now CEO. She’s fabulous. It makes me feel so good to know that 180 is going to be in great hands.

To me the organization will always have a place in my heart, but I am ready to have Liz run with the ball. She has some great ideas, a lot of energy, a lot of enthusiasm, and she’s so excited about this new role for her. And I’m excited for her. I’m looking forward to helping Liz in the next six months or so, and then I think I need to just take some time to breathe and decide what the next step is.

Bringing Freshness to Communities: The Rise of Asbury Fresh

BY MATT DOHERTY

In the vibrant landscape of local markets and community events, Asbury Fresh stands out as a beacon of freshness and entrepreneurship. Founded by Bret Morgan in 2011, Asbury Fresh has grown from a simple idea born over dinner to a thriving community-centric enterprise, enriching neighborhoods across Monmouth and Ocean Counties. I had the privilege of sitting down with Bret Morgan, CEO and Founder of Asbury Fresh, to delve into the roots of this inspiring venture and its impactful mission.

“It all started with a conversation among friends,” Bret recalls. “Back in 2011, during one of our Thursday night gatherings in downtown Asbury Park, the need for fresh produce and a farmers market became a topic of discussion. A few drinks in, someone suggested I start a farmers market, given my involvement in the local scene. The next week, I reached out to city officials, and soon after, Asbury Fresh was born.”

What began as a modest endeavor gradually gained momentum, drawing both tourists and locals alike to its market stalls filled with fresh produce and artisanal goods. Bret reminisces about the early years: “It took some time to build, but eventually, the market became a cornerstone of the community. By 2016, it had grown significantly, prompting

us to establish it as its own entity and expand to new locations.”

Asbury Fresh’s mission, as Bret explains, is to “enliven and enrich local communities through pop-up shopping experiences.” This ethos guides every aspect of their operation, from the selection of locations to the curation of vendors. “We aim to connect makers, food purveyors, farms, and startups with engaged customers, fostering a sense of community and supporting local entrepreneurship,” Bret emphasizes.

When deciding on new locations, Asbury Fresh prioritizes high-traffic areas that can benefit from their energy and vitality. “Whether it’s a downtown main street or a bustling event, we seek spaces where we can make a positive impact and collaborate with local businesses,” Bret explains. This strategic approach has led to successful partnerships with venues like Bell Works in Holmdel and events such as the Holland Ridge Farms Tulip Festival.

But Asbury Fresh’s impact goes beyond commerce. Bret highlights their commitment to building vibrant and sustainable communities, empowering small businesses, and addressing food insecurity. “Our markets serve as incubators for local entrepreneurs, helping them grow and thrive,” he says. “And as the only SNAP-certified farmers

LINEUP OF MARKETS:

Asbury FRESH (May-Oct)

Bradley Beach Main St Market (June-Sept)

Broadwalk FRESH - Red Bank (June-Sept)

Bell Works FRESH - Holmdel (Feb-Dec)

Red Bank Oktoberfest (Sept)

Holland Ridge U-Pick Tulip Festival & Sunflower Festival (April, September, October)

market in Monmouth County, we’re proud to provide access to fresh, healthy food for all residents.”

Looking ahead to the summer, Bret is excited about returning to downtown Asbury Park. “We recently received approval to set up shop in Press Plaza every Sunday,” he shares. “It’s not just about our vendors; it’s about revitalizing the downtown area and supporting local businesses.

As for the future, Bret envisions continued organic growth for Asbury

Fresh. “We’re expanding our lineup of markets and events, reaching more communities and forging new partnerships,” he reveals. “Whether it’s Red Bank, Bradley Beach, or beyond, our goal remains the same: to bring freshness and vitality wherever we go.”

As our conversation draws to a close, Bret leaves me with a glimpse of Asbury Fresh’s current lineup of markets, showcasing their diverse offerings and widespread presence. From the tulip fields of Holland Ridge to the boardwalks

of Red Bank, Asbury Fresh is weaving a tapestry of freshness and community across the Jersey Shore.

In a world where the local is valued more than ever, Asbury Fresh stands as a testament to the power of community, entrepreneurship, and fresh produce. With Bret Morgan at the helm, this grassroots initiative continues to sow the seeds of vitality and connection, one market at a time.

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5th Annual TopCookie Dessert Competition

dishes out delicious desserts and raises funds for Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore

Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore and 150 guests gathered to support the Fifth Annual TopCookie Competition.

Five local chefs came together to compete for the coveted title of TopCookie Champion and People’s Choice Award, and created a special dessert made with iconic Girl Scout cookies. Guests were greeted with a delicious welcome dessert from former TopCookie competitor Tara, from Apple Street Kitchen. Tara created a one-of-a-kind cupcake made with the French Toast-inspired Toast-Yay! Cookie. CEO, Heather Coburn and Emcees Kimberly Bukowiec (formerly Kravitz) and Girl Scout Jennevieve welcomed guests to raise funds to support programs that inspire and motivate young women to be girls of courage, confidence, and character, who make the world a better place.

“This past year we’ve experienced a tremendous amount of growth, allowing us to serve over 11,000 members, but we know there are still so many girls who can benefit from Girl Scouts,” said Coburn.

It was also announced that Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore welcomed over 750 girls in underserved areas of Monmouth and Ocean County. Heather thanked the generous sponsors and underwriters who believe in the Girl Scout mission.

Competitors presented their desserts for judging and were critiqued on execution/appearance, taste/flavor, texture/ consistency, and creativity. The competitors and their cookies were:

Bam Bam Burger Co. – Lemonades

Coffee Corral - Adventurefuls

Homesick – Thin Mints

PURPLE GLAZE donuts, etc. – Peanut Butter Patties

ShugaShack – Caramel deLites

The judges tasted and scored each dessert, and after tough deliberation, they submitted their scores and for the first time in TopCookie history there was a tie, as Bam Bam Burger Co. and Homesick were crowned TopCookie Champions. Guests in person and on-line participated in voting for their favorite restaurant and dessert and awarded the 2024 People’s Choice Award to ShugaShack for their delicious dessert using the iconic Caramel deLites Girl Scout cookie.

The event raised almost $30,000 for the programs and services provided by Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore and the more than 11,000 members in Monmouth and Ocean County.

— PHOTOS BY TOM ZAPCIC

Dinner Show

A roundup of must-do events happening at local restaurants this month

Thursday, May 9

Restaurant: The Rum Runner

Location: Sea Bright

Champaign Social from 6-8 p.m. Call 732-842-2894 for more information.

Friday, May 10

Restaurant: Triumph Restaurant and Brewery

Location: Red Bank

Cat Boy Sound performs live from 8:30-11:30 p.m.

Sunday, May 12

Restaurant: 618

Location: Freehold Township

Mother’s Day Brunch Buffet – 11 a.m. seating and 1:30 p.m. seating. Visit 618nj.com for more information.

Thursday, May 16

Restaurant: Tim McLoone’s Supper Club

Location: Asbury Park

A Fundraiser to Benefit Holiday Express with The Jersey Shore Medium Linda Shields – 7 p.m. Visit TimMcLoonesSupperClub. com for more information.

Thursdays, May 16, 23, 30

Restaurant: The Columns

Location: Avon-By-The-Sea Lobsterpalooza – 5 p.m. start. Live music and several chances to win free lobster dinners. For more information, go to TheColumnsNJ.com.

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Community Commentary

We ask a question, you tell us the answer. Simple as that.

Q: With the weather warming up, there is so much to do in Monmouth County as summer nears. We know what things we are excited for, but we want to hear from YOU. What are you most looking forward to doing this summer in Monmouth County? Could it be a concert? An annual sporting event you look forward to each year? A festival? An al fresco dinner at a seasonal spot? Tell us what you can’t wait to do!

A: What am I most looking forward to doing this summer in Monmouth County? That’s a cinch to answer – the Fair Haven Fireman’s Fair, of course! There is no better way to close out the summer than at this amazing Fair Haven tradition. The Fireman’s Fair is a wonderful opportunity to connect with friends and neighbors, test your skills at the game booths, indulge in the great food offerings, and enjoy the rides – even the Zipper – if you are brave enough! And best of all, the event is an amazing opportunity to support the Fair Haven Fire Department and First Aid Squad! As I did last year, I am looking forward to supporting the Fireman’s Fair as a volunteer worker. This time, I’ll make sure to wear my boots while working the Frog Bog! — Neil Blecher of Fair Haven

OUR QUESTION FOR NEXT MONTH

Did you watch the solar eclipse? Were you excited to see it? If you had the chance to check it out, where were you, with whom did you watch it with and did it live up to your expectations?

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