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All across Monmouth County, residents are celebrating the New Year and making their resolutions. Here’s what some of our readers are looking forward to in 2025…
Leesha Floyd, Asbury Park
I’m looking forward to traveling, good food, and good drinks.
Margaret Wheeler, Asbury Park
I’m looking forward to finally going to Europe.
Joann Boos, Asbury Park
Looking forward to a less stressful year.
Daniel Pickelny, Ocean
In 2025, I’m looking forward to finishing my classes and making big steps in my career.
ChrisAnn DeGenaro, Asbury Park
I’m looking forward to better health, fitness, and making new friends.
Michele Alonso, Asbury Park
I’ll be making more time in 2025 for friends and family.
Sarah Neczesny, Fair Haven
I’m looking forward to graduating college!
Anthony Cucci, Asbury Park
In 2025, I’ll be continuing my goal of visiting all the national parks, as well as visiting every diner in New Jersey!
Michele Burrell, Asbury Park
Looking forward to new beginnings.
Sylvia Sylvia-Cioffi, Ocean
I’m really excited about going on a family vacation to Spain and Portugal this year.
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I’m looking forward to my sister’s wedding, and for new film opportunities in New Jersey.
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Great health and continued love for my family. Morgan Astorino, Asbury Park
Traveling! And hopefully going back to my favorite city, New Orleans.
Meg Ryan, Ocean
In 2025, I’m looking forward to starting my first full time job and potentially starting graduate school.
Vinny Mangano, Asbury Park
Looking forward to going to more concerts.
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Looking forward to my 20th wedding anniversary.
The Community Magazine staff celebrates 2025 as well! Here’s what some of us are looking forward to…
Emma Sylvia, Ocean
I’m looking forward to another year of actually sticking to my New Year’s resolutions. In 2024, my goal was to watch more movies and go to the gym - both of which I accomplished. In 2025, my goal is to write more and practice art.
Roseanne Sofia, Lincroft
I’m excited to get into the best shape of my life and take more walks in the park in 2025.
Ryan Loughlin, Asbury Park
I am looking forward to doing more outdoorsy things this year. Hiking at Yosemite and finally snowboarding again after a 22-year hiatus are both at the top of my list.
Tenacious D
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Derek DeAngelis braves the ups and downs of entertainment industry success
BY RAY SCHWEIBERT
In the sports world, it is not uncommon to see athletes brush off personal milestones as insignificant during interviews, asserting that the focus instead always remains on the future and the bigger picture, such as bringing home a championship ring, a title trophy or coveted cup.
The Neptune-born Derek DeAngelis puts things into that sort of perspective in the world of entertainment, where he is best known as Derek D, has landed gigs that have literally taken him to the far corners of the globe, and has had a significant impact on many levels of the industry for about the past 20 years.
His is a career that started on a sort of whim while a college student at William Paterson University. It has since led to many opportunities and awards in multiple entertainment facets, due largely to a high degree of confidence, an outgoing nature, a keen sense of humor and – probably more than anything else – a fierce determination to succeed.
Perusing his resumé (on his website at DerekD.com) might make one wonder how it was possible to fit all this activity into a career, even one spanning nearly two decades thus far. He has hosted scores of live events and TV shows, acted in and did voiceovers for many TV commercials, performed stand-up comedy and acted in films and live theater in both comedic and dramatic roles.
He is perhaps best known for hosting a daily automotive-industry newscast with a comical spin called “Fast Lane Daily” that ran from 2007 to 2016 on multiple Internet platforms, setting records for longevity and Internet-episode counts along the way, and garnering two Webby Awards for Internet excellence.
“I always say I’m kind of a Swiss Army knife – what do you need, I’ve got you,” he says. “I’m a song-and-dance man and I love doing that kind of stuff, but I don’t label myself a singer but as an actor who can sing. I don’t say I’m a dancer but I’m an actor who can dance. I’m aware of the work that strictly dancers and strictly singers put in, so I never say that I’m specifically one or the other, but they’re in my wheelhouse.”
Among DeAngelis’ more recent projects was creating and producing all facets of a live talent competition called “Asbury Park Monologues,” which he emceed for the third time in five years at Asbury Park’s House of Independents in November. The shows are structured similarly to “American Idol,” and divided into comedic, dramatic and musical theater categories that are judged by a panel of industry professionals. DeAngelis banters with the audience between acts, and local sponsors donate prizes, tickets and gift cards that get raffled off to show-goers between performances.
“I always wanted to do a show like the ‘Monologues’ at the House of Independents because the venue is perfect for it,” he says. “It can be a delicate dance getting it all together and making it work, but it’s an interesting, fun and different kind of show that a lot of people really enjoy.”
A career unfolds unconventionally
Derek DeAngelis, morphed into Derek D the entertainer after seeing an MTV spoof while still a college student.
“I was always outgoing, but I caught the acting bug late, as a sophomore in college,” says the lifelong Monmouth County resident. “I saw this stupid made-for-TV movie called ‘2gether’ about a fake boy band (an MTV parody of such ’90s groups as NSYNC and New Kids on the Block). I thought ‘what the hell, I can do that,’ and it literally ended up being my dumb aha moment.
“I’d find out where auditions were happening, and I would go to the auditions. At first I was not getting anything – nothing – but I kept at it. I told my parents ‘I think I want to be an actor’ and just kept plugging away. I kept my major because I knew it could help me in other facets of the industry (he designed the
logo, posters and website for ‘Asbury Park Monologues’ using his graphic-arts skills), then started taking acting classes and comedy classes. I would book stuff that didn’t pay just so that I could build up my resumé, and just kept doing that.
“You’re going to get discouraged, you’re going to be broke, you’re going to have many rejections,” he adds. “People have that happen a couple of times and say ‘I’m out of here,’ and if so, it’s
not meant for you. You have to have the mental fortitude and the gumption to do it. For me, there was no Plan B. I’m never going to be a graphic designer. I never will and never was. But I use the skill set to help me in other ways.”
Talent agencies help DeAngelis and other actors locate potential work. Today actors can create video clips of themselves at home to be distributed for possible auditions – a byproduct at least in part prompted by the pandemic. If casting directors like what they see on the videos, actors are then summoned to audition in person for various roles.
“I used to be in New York City for anywhere from three to five days a week auditioning,” he says. “Now I don’t have to spend the money on the train or any of that stuff, which is great. I can make video clips at home, my agents distribute the clips for potential auditions, and we go from there.”
As a seasoned professional, some of the opportunities that went his way over the years included shooting two Heineken beer commercials in Taiwan, four commercials in Spain for a Volkswagen model only marketed in Europe, and a three-part series for Formula E Racing in Monaco sponsored by Swiss luxury watchmaker Tag Heuer.
The Tag Heuer series won DeAngelis a Telly Award (honoring creativity across all TV mediums), and he received another Telly Award for a motorsports-related series called “Sidetracked with Derek D.” Both of those latter opportunities, he surmises, were likely re -
lated to the popularity he gained in the auto industry from his nearly 10 years as host of “Fast Lane Daily,” which included more than 2,300 episodes.
“(‘Fast Lane Daily’) was a daily show about car news, but funny,” he says. “In the beginning I was just the host, mainly just a talking head, but as time went on, I became one of the producers and one of the main comedy writers.
“I love cars too, but one of the great things we were able to do with that show was to draw people together through a common thread. We’d get emails from wives and girlfriends who would say ‘I’m not really into cars, but my husband loves cars, so I watch the show with him since Derek is funny and makes me laugh. But I also learn some cool stuff along the way that I can later talk with my husband and other people about.’ That was the gist of it. You could watch, learn something cool, and laugh along the way.
“That show was such a great experience,” he adds. “Alan Kaufman is my writing partner and also one of my best friends. He and I wrote a sitcom together that’s based on ‘Fast Lane Daily’ that we’re currently pitching.”
Speaking from the heart
The rocky road that the entertainment industry can be prompted DeAngelis to put together an unvarnished video clip of the potential pitfalls of trying to navigate it. The industry is certainly not for the faint of heart, and in the video he essentially states – in a passionate way – that for every part of the iceberg seen above the surface representing success, there is much more unseen below the surface that represents rejection, hardships and failure.
Entitled “Dear Entertainment Industry,” the clip is just over 10 minutes long and can be seen in the New Videos link at DerekD.com. It is slated to be shown in March at the 23rd annual Garden State Film Festival (see GSFF.org). DeAngelis wrote the content and Kaufman was the script supervisor.
“I’m talking to the main camera (three cameras were used at different angles) as if that camera is the Entertainment Industry personified,” he says. “It’s what I would say to you after working for you for 20 years. We released it in August and I’m super proud of it.
“It’s gotten some great feedback. I have friends who are musicians, singers or dancers who are like ‘I’m watching it, and you’re saying what I’m thinking.’ You know you’re hitting the right strings when people say that. It felt good.”
The video is a kind of passionate summary pointing out that for every yes to an audition, there are usually several noes to others.
“I didn’t want to come across like I’m complaining, or like I’m angry, but I wanted to get the message across that there are frustrations, and that, Entertainment Industry, you need to do better. You’re very hypocritical about a lot of things, and while you claim to be the most inclusive, it’s wrought with the opposite.
“I mention in there that people often tell me, ‘Hey, you made it. You’re doing what you love and you do it for a living,’ which is true. But I don’t feel that way yet. I feel like I constantly have to try to move forward, and every time I fail, I’ve fail forward.”
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Post-holiday blues got you down?
With the short days and long winter ahead, it’s easy to get the blues around this time of year. But although it’s admittedly not the most thrilling month of the year, January is the perfect time to enjoy cozy indoor activities. Here are some ideas for indoor fun:
1. Board Games or Card Games
Gather your family or friends for a fun game night. Classic board games like Monopoly, Scrabble, or newer ones like Codenames can keep everyone entertained. Card games like Poker, Uno, or Go Fish are also great options.
2. Indoor Movie Marathon
Set up a cozy spot with blankets and pillows, and watch a series of movies or binge-watch a show. You can even make it a themed movie marathon (e.g., holiday movies, superhero films, or nostalgic 90s flicks).
5. Puzzles
Tackle a large jigsaw puzzle, which can be a calming and satisfying activity. You can also try crosswords, Sudoku, or other brain teasers.
4. Crafting
Try your hand at crafting projects like knitting, painting, scrapbooking, or even
making homemade holiday decorations. It’s a creative way to spend time indoors and you might even have something to show for it!
5. Baking or Cooking
Winter is a great time to bake. Try making cookies, cakes, or bread. You could also cook a hearty winter meal or soup. The warmth of the oven and the smell of freshly baked goods can make the house feel extra cozy.
6. Reading
Curl up with a good book and enjoy the winter silence. You could also join a virtual book club or listen to audiobooks for a different experience.
7. Indoor Gardening
If you miss nature in the winter, you can bring the outdoors in by starting an indoor garden. Try growing herbs, small vegetables, or indoor plants like succulents and ferns.
8. DIY Home Spa
Turn your bathroom into a relaxing retreat with a DIY spa day. Light candles, use essential oils, take a long bath, and do skincare treatments.
9. Virtual Events
Many events like live concerts, theater
performances, or museum tours are available online. Check out virtual experiences for a fun, cultural escape from the cold.
10. Home Workouts
If you want to stay active, try an indoor workout like yoga, Pilates, or a dance party. Many apps or YouTube channels offer free classes for all levels.
11. Indoor Obstacle Course or Hide-and-Seek
If you have kids or are looking for something active, create an indoor obstacle course with pillows, chairs, and other furniture. Or, play hide-and-seek throughout the house.
12. Learn Something New
Winter is a great time to pick up a new hobby or learn a skill. Try learning a new language, taking an online course, or teaching yourself to play an instrument.
13. Building a Fort
Sometimes, the simplest activities are the most fun! Build a fort out of blankets and pillows, and hang out in your cozy hideaway. You could even have a picnic or watch a movie inside.
These activities are great for keeping the winter blues at bay while staying cozy and entertained indoors!
This October, after 28 years, Peter Paras was ready to close his private Red Bank family law practice. He was not ready, however, to stop practicing law. Instead, relinquishing the firm’s business managerial duties allowed him to devote his skills and time entirely to representing clients. His goal was to join a firm that shared his commitment to the highest standards of practice. Ansell Grimm & Aaron, P.C. (Ansell.Law) immediately came to mind.
Peter C. Paras, Esq. Joins Ansell.Law
Paras and Ansell.Law have a long history together, beginning with his decades’ long friendship with founding member, David Ansell, whose work and sense of humor he admired greatly. Through the years, he has known and worked with members of the Ansell.Law Matrimonial & Family Law team, mostly as opposing counsel and often as co-counsel on cases. Paras developed a deep respect for their shared work ethic, values, and approach to getting the best results for clients who are undergoing very stressful and emotional issues. The respect is mutual.
“Welcoming an attorney at Peter’s skill level, with his tremendous experience in divorce and family law matters, along with his contributions to the New Jersey legal community, is a critical component of our strategic growth plan,” said President and Managing Shareholder Michael V. Benedetto. “We’re also looking forward to him mentoring our younger attorneys and helping build future leaders in family law.”
Paras has devoted his entire professional career to the exclusive practice of family law. Longtime CM readers may recognize him from the popular Divorce Talk column he
contributed monthly for many years. He has earned the respect of clients, lawyers, and judges, due to his knowledge of the law, preparation, and just as importantly, his fair and practical approach to cases. Some even appreciate his wry sense of humor! And, perhaps most telling is that many case referrals come to him from opposing parties who saw him in action first hand. What drives his unwavering work ethic? “There are three principles I follow,” Peter said. “Each client’s needs are unique; communication between lawyer and client is essential; and there is no substitute for preparation.”
Paras draws on his many years of experience and several hundred trials to evaluate whether a case can be favorably settled. The chances of a settlement are greatly increased due to most opposing counsel’s awareness of Paras’s skill and advocacy in the court room. However, if a trial will better serve his clients, they can rest assured Paras will be fully prepared and confident.
Paras and Ansell.Law are a good fit. When asked about his new position, his enthusiasm was evident, saying: “I am excited to continue to serve my clients with high quality representation and to contribute to the Ansell.Law tradition of excellence.”
Michael Benedetto agrees. “We’re thrilled to have him join the Firm. Peter’s vast talents as a trial attorney and counselor will benefit our clients immediately.”
Peter Paras can be reached at PParas@ansell.law or 732922-1000
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EVERY SUNDAY
Beats & Crafts with DJ Ghost Gardner
Join Ghost Gardener Studios for a lo-fi, lowkey craft night at The Asbury Hotel every Sunday.
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TUESDAY-WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 31-JANUARY 1
New Year’s Eve Party w/ Friend Zone Celebrate the New Year at Marina Grille in Belmar.
Belmar Marina, 905 NJ-35, Belmar 8pm - 1am
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NYE Celebration at Ocean Place Resort & Spa
Head over to the Ocean Place Resort and Spa to celebrate the New Year. Ocean Place, 1 Ocean Blvd, Long Branch 8pm - 12:15am
For more information, visit oceanplace.com
New Year’s Eve at McLoone’s
Have delicious food, a champagne toast, and watch fireworks this New Year’s Eve.
McLoone’s Pier House One Ocean Ave, Long Branch 11am - 12am
For more information, visit mcloonespierhouse.com
FRIDAY, JANUARY 3
Open Mic Night
Head to Twin Lights Brewing to participate in their monthly Open Mic Night, hosted by Tim Enny. Twin Lights Brewing 4057 Asbury Ave, Tinton Falls 6pm - 10pm
For more information, visit twinlightsbrewing.com
SATURDAY, JANUARY 4
Magic of Lights
Visit the PNC Bank Arts Center for the final night of their Magic of Lights drivethrough holiday lights experience. PNC Bank Arts Center 116 Garden State Pkwy, Holmdel 5pm - 11pm
For more information, visit magicoflights.com
SUNDAY, JANUARY 5
Luminocity Holiday Lights Festival
Head to Freehold Raceway Mall for the final night of the 2024 Holiday Lights Festival, “Wonder of Journey”. Northwest Parking Lot (Rt 33 Entrance), Freehold Raceway Mall, Freehold 4:30pm - 10pm
For more information, visit freeholdracewaymall.com
Kringle Cove Holiday Festivus
Celebrate the holiday season at Whitechapel’s Holiday Pop-Up, Kringle Cove. 15 2nd Ave, Long Branch 5pm
For more information, visit whitechapelprojects.com
SATURDAY, JANUARY 11
The Mountain Jam Band
Head to the Wonder Bar for a celebration of the music of The Allman Brothers Band. Wonder Bar 1213 Ocean Ave N, Asbury Park 7pm - 11pm
For more information, visit wonderbarasburypark.com
THURSDAY, JANUARY 16
Monmouth Park Corporate Center Pop Up
Support local vendors every third Thursday of every month, in a vibrant space of treats, clothing, jewelry, candles, and more.
185 NJ-36 Building D, West Long Branch 11am - 4pm
For more information, ymcanj.org/mlk
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THURSDAY, JANUARY 16 - SUNDAY, JANUARY 19
Light of Day Winterfest 25th Anniversary
Celebrate the power of music to raise money and awareness to fight Parkinson’s Disease, ALS and PSP. Various venues, Red Bank, Asbury Park
For more information, visit lightofday.org
FRIDAY, JANUARY 17
YMCA’s 36th Annual Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Memorial Breakfast
Celebrate the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. with the YMCA of Greater Monmouth County’s annual commemorative breakfast. Ocean Place Resort & Spa 1 Ocean Blvd, Long Branch 7:30am - 9:30am
For more information, ymcanj.org/mlk
SATURDAY, JANUARY 18
Candice Guardino’s Italian Bred Head over to Two River Theater for this must-see comedy special, starring Candice Guardino.
Two River Theater 21 Bridge Ave, Red Bank Showings: 2pm, 8pm
For more information, visit tworivertheater.org
2025 LADACIN Plunge
Make a splash at the LADACIN Plunge and have post-plunge fun at Leggett’s Sand Bar and Restaurant.
Leggett’s Sand Bar 217 1st Ave, Manasquan 10:30am - 3pm
For more information, visit ladacin.org
FRIDAY, JANUARY 24
The Tempest
Watch Two River Theater’s Little Shakespeare production of The Tempest.
Two River Theater 21 Bridge Ave, Red Bank
For more information, visit tworivertheater.org
Ocean Township Firefighters Save Trapped Child
BY EMMA SYLVIA
On October 26, Wanamassa Fire Company was dispatched to Rustic Drive in Ocean Township after a fire was reported in the Middlebrook apartment complex. Fire Chief Edward Horn discusses the call and the department’s response:
“I was the commander at the scene. On the way over, I was getting reports from dispatch. The fire dispatcher for the day was constantly giving me detailed updates. She confirmed that we were getting multiple calls for a fire and there could have been entrapment.” Upon learning that someone was stuck in the apartment complex, Horn explained that the call was upgraded to a “box alarm”, alerting fire houses in Deal, Oakhurst, Asbury Park, Tinton Falls and more, as all the firehouses work in close proximity to each other. Horn continues, “As I came up Allaire Avenue, I could see the smoke coming up across the treeline. Knowing there was someone trapped, I set out an alarm, which brought in more agencies. Upon my arrival, I saw heavy fire coming from the apartment building. Shortly after my arrival, both my Assistant Chief, Brian Pemberton, and Fire Inspector, Nick Simons, arrived. I split them up – one went in one door and one went in another to try to find the victim.” Simons located the victim – a child – and turned them over to EMS, with police now at the
scene. “The time [between when] I got there and the child was out was only one minute.”
Horn lauds his fire department and fellow first responders for their response. “As the fire chief, I have to worry about the safety of my firefighters, incoming units–everything. Everyone did the job that they were supposed to and everything we have trained for. It made my job easier. Everything from the initial dispatch and keeping everyone informed to the search to the extinguishment – it was one of the smoothest fires I’ve ever had.” Horn thanks all that responded to the fire: “Everyone that was there–from my firefighters to assisting departments to the EMS to the police–thank you.”
Horn elaborates that in Ocean Township, intense fires like these are few and far between. “You get one or two fires a year,” Horn says, “and even then, that’s a lot.”
The fire chief offers advice to all Monmouth County residents: “Make sure your smoke detectors work, and in case of a fire, call 9-1-1, and get out and stay out. Don’t go back into your home–that’s what we’re here to do.”
The Ocean Township School District and the community as a whole gathered to support the child’s family. As of the publishing date, more than $10,000 had been raised for the family by a GoFundMe Page.
To the bride and groom… Community Magazine’s Guide to Weddings and Special Events
BY EMMA SYLVIA
Getting engaged is the fun part. Seeing the ring, telling friends and family and fantasizing about the wedding of your dreams and the life you and your spouse will build together is all a part of the fuzzy afterglow of a perfect engagement. You are on cloud nine, and that’s where you should be!
But then there is the realization that in order to
have the wedding of your dreams, you need to PLAN the wedding of your dreams. Yikes!
And it’s not just weddings — for any special event to be memorable and run smoothly, you need to have the right pieces in place. That’s why we created this list of resources and recommendations in order for you to make sure the visions you have in your head for your special day turn out to be the reality as well.
Charlie's of Lincroft — The Great Room
The Venue…
When choosing a venue for a wedding or special event, obviously the options are going to seem endless — because they are! And there are many spaces that offer a fabulous experience, whether you are looking for upscale fanciness or rustic charm.
But if we had to go with just one spot, we think that Charlie’s of Lincroft is the perfect all-around venue to make your wedding day a memorable one. Charlie’s is renowned for their award-winning menu, exquisite decor, and mouth-watering cuisine. Charlie’s of Lincroft offers fine contemporary American fare in a casual, but elegant setting.
Charlie’s offers two spectacular settings to choose from for your perfect wedding:
• The Great Room — With its exquisite interior design, The Great Room can accommodate up to 75 guests. The centerpiece of the space is a gorgeous, handcrafted stone fireplace and wood-beamed Cathedral ceiling that delivers an unmatched charm.
• The Wine Room — The Wine Room is set beneath
the building, a spectacular old-world wine cellar with an arched stone ceiling and rustic, hand-forced metal chandelier, all surrounded by the world’s finest wines. The Wine Room is an intimate setting that can serve up to 40 guests.
Charlie’s of Lincroft is also a fabulous choice for bridal showers, baby showers, holiday parties, rehearsal dinners, anniversaries, engagement dinners and more.
To schedule a visit or for more information on hosting your wedding or special event, contact the Events Department of Charlie’s at 732-276-1214
The Drinks…
Tipsy Saddle is the perfect accent to your already perfect day. A Monmouth County-based mobile bartending service, Tipsy Saddle elevates your wedding (or other special event) with their trailer, portable bars, or utilizing your athome bar. Sam Marchetti of Tipsy Saddle supplies all mixers and materials and works with clients to craft their perfect cocktail menu.
Charlie's of Lincroft — The Wine Room
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“It’s the overall experience, not just for the wedding party, but for the guests as well,” Marchetti says.
Using a flipped horse trailer converted to a bar, Marchetti ensures a vibrant and cool aesthetic that can match any wedding’s color scheme. Serving indoor and outdoor weddings, Tipsy Saddle travels all over New Jersey. Tipsy Saddle also offers easily customizable packages:
• The Derby - Beer, Wine, Champagne Service Flat Rate + $3 per person
• The Stallion - Beer, Wine, Champagne Service, Cocktail Service, and 1 Signature Cocktail
Flat rate + $5 per person
• The Stud - Beer, Wine, Champagne Service, Cocktail Service, and 2 Signature Cocktails Flat rate + $5 per person
• The Trifecta - Beer, Wine, Champagne Service, Cocktail Service, and 3 Signature Cocktail Flat rate + $8 per person
Find out more at TipsySaddle.com
The Flowers …
Pantano Outdoor Supply, a retail garden center in Holmdel, provides perfect tips about floral arrangements for your upcoming wedding. We sat down with Floral Design Manager, Travis Baez, to fill you in on all you need to know.
CM: What type of floral arrangements are trending this season?
TB: We are seeing lots of airy, organic, asymmetrical types of floral arrangements trending still. Outside of bridal party work, when it comes to tables, especially with the long, farm table-like setting, many brides lean away from a traditional larger arrangement and prefer multiple bud vases with single or small groupings of stems, mixed in with smaller arrangements.
CM: What are the main differences of arrangements between seasons?
TB: We try our best to buy local products, and we are very fortunate to have many wonderful local growers. So, the largest difference is going to be the materials available in each season. When it comes to fall, you will see lots of the natural muted tones, dried flowers, or foliage of the season, whereas in winter we incorporate more winter greens and stems. Into spring is when we see a lot more color, as tulips or hellebores begin to bloom. Spring is a great opportunity to add seasonal branches, especially items such
Pantano Home and Garden
as cherry blossoms or other locally budding stems. This is a great way to add height to a room while still keeping that airy look. Summer is prime time for our native wildflowers, which is perfect for the trending wild "from your garden to table" look that is desired. We also can get more into brighter colors and tropical florals, which work perfectly for summer shore weddings.
CM: What’s your personal favorite floral arrangement?
TB: While I truly love creating one-of-a-kind bouquets for a bride's special day, my favorite work is outside of the bridal party. Large floral installation is my true passion. Whether it is creating a large installation for an altar, where vows are going to be exchanged, or setting the tone with a large arch as guests enter the venue's entrance, or a stunning, show stopping ceiling installed over the dance floor, is where we can truly create the romantic atmosphere.
CM: Do you have any advice for soon-to-be newlyweds about their floral arrangements?
TB: Make an inspiration board – Pinterest is great, as you can share it with your wedding party, vendors, and anyone else invested in creating your special day. Don't just source pictures from your exact venue, as a lot of importation can come from everywhere. And add all the details – your wedding dress style, color palette, florals, linens, invitation, etc. All of this will help your florist create the overall vision you're striving for. Also — remember that a florist's support doesn't just involve flowers. Many florists will assist in creating your overall vision, which includes candles, linens, silverware, and
props. Our goal is to create your vision. Trust your florist with that. When it comes to wedding planning, there is a lot that goes on, so trust us with the details!
WEDDINGS AND SPECIAL EVENTS
CM: Anything else the bride and groom should know?
TB: With 30 years of experience, my favorite part of this work doesn't just start or end at the wedding. Many of the brides I have worked with for their engagement parties, showers, and continued with baby showers through 1st birthdays. It's the best feeling to be entrusted in creating an atmosphere for special occasions throughout their growing lives.
The Caterers …
Opting to have the food brought into your event space? Monmouth County has some of the best of the best when it comes to caterers. For your wedding, consider the following:
Falco’s — For more than 25 years, Falco’s Catering has provided catering for weddings across Monmouth and Ocean Counties. They’ve worked with some of the most popular venues for weddings, including The Renaissance, The Asbury Hotel, The Stone Pony, Bayonet Farm, and many more.
Head to FalcosCatering.com for more information.
La Dolce Vita — Celebrate your wedding with authentic Italian cuisine, catered by La Dolce Vita in Belmar. For more than a quarter century, La Dolce Vita has provided tailored menus for your one-of-a-kind wedding.
Contact La Dolce Vita at 732-749-3177
The Memories …
You are going to want to remember all the fun and silly moments from your big day. What better way to do just that than to have a photo booth onsite?
Pop Shop Photobooth — Pop Shop Photobooth both enhances your wedding experience and gives you the coolest, best way to remember your wedding night. Their retro cameras bring an old-school charm to your special night. Pop Shop Photobooth also comes with:
• On-site printing
• Premium and custom backdrops
• Digital sharing options
• Retro props
• Customizable Templates
• Guestbooks
• Fantastic customer service and attendants
Call Pop Shop Photobooth at 732-301-4339 or visit PopShopPhotoBooth.com for more information.
NJ Wedding Pros — Based in Fair Haven, NJ Wedding Pros is New Jersey’s one-stop wedding and event center. They offer streamlined, all-inclusive offerings, including floral arrangements, day-of coordination, photography, videography, entertainment and more!
NJ Wedding Pros was awarded the 2023 Winner in The Knot Best of Weddings, representing the highest-rated wedding professionals as reviewed by real couples on The Knot. Get a quote at njweddingpros.com
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WEDDINGS
AND SPECIAL EVENTS GUIDE
Community Magazine Venue Recommendations
IPLAY AMERICA
104 Schanck Rd, Freehold, NJ (732) 577-8200
www.theeventcenteratipa.com
The Event Center at iPlay America is the most versatile convention destination in the Northeast. Conveniently located just minutes from most major highways in Central New Jersey, and with over 45,000 square feet of premium event space, every meeting and event will exceed your expectations.
618
618 Park Ave, Freehold Borough, NJ (732) 577-0001
www.618nj.com
THE BANQUET ROOM — A stunning, unique rustic space for weddings, 618 easily transforms into the perfect setting for your special day. All you have to do is say “I do.” Seating up to 170 guests, this large room is ideal for weddings, showers, Sweet 16s, large rehearsal dinners, birthdays, bat/bar mitzvahs, corporate events, non-profit fundraisers, alumni events and so much more!
THE ALL SEASONS ROOM — This (private) space is comprised of large windows, brick walls, lots of greenery, beautiful large chandeliers and a gorgeous fireplace. This room gives off a romantic, yet modern vibe. Perfect for ceremonies, cocktail hours, showers, birthday & anniversary parties, corporate events and more.
MEXIMODO
5 Pearl Street, Metuchen, NJ (732) 395-7767
www.meximodo.com
THE ROSE ROOM — The Rose Room is ideal for hosting a variety of events, including private dinners, cocktail parties, and corporate events. It offers a unique and memorable setting that is sure to impress guests and create a sense of exclusivity and sophistication. With its mix of vintage charm and modern amenities, the Rose Room at Meximodo is a truly special event space. Seats up to 50
THE PATIO — The outdoor seating area is situated in a spacious plaza in the heart of Metuchen surrounded by classic brick walls. The overall effect is a modern and vibrant outdoor dining experience that transports guests to the lively streets of Mexico. Plus, you get a beautiful view of the Metuchen residents passing through the plaza. Seats up to 60
CATERERS IN PARK/PARK CHATEAU
For dream wedding in a park setting check out the following:
• NANINA'S IN THE PARK 540 Mill Street, Belleville, NJ • 973-751-1230 www.naninasinthepark.com
• PARK CHATEAU ESTATE & GARDENS 678 Cranbury Road, East Brunswick, NJ • 732-238-4200 www.parkchateau.com
• THE PARK SAVOY ESTATE 236 Ridgedale Avenue, Florham Park, NJ • 973-377-7100 www.theparksavoy.com
TRIUMPH RESTAURANT & BREWERY 1 Bridge Avenue, Red Bank, NJ (732) 852-7300 info@triumphbrew.com www.triumphbrewing.com
Triumph Brewing offers a unique venue for weddings and rehearsal dinners as well as for business meetings, presentations, and private parties.
MCLOONE'S RESTAURANTS
The Rum Runner 816 Ocean Avenue, Sea Bright, NJ • (732) 842-2894 www.mcloonesrumrunner.com
CJ McLoone's Pub & Grille 560 Shrewsbury Ave., Tinton Falls, NJ • (732) 268-7802 www.cjmcloones.com
THE RUM RUNNER offers a multitude of accommodations for events of any size. All event spaces have breathtaking views of the Shrewsbury River and Atlantic Ocean. Contact their banquet coordinator today to schedule a walk through! For more information please email rrbanquets@mcloones. com, call 732-383-8155, or visit mcloonesrumrunner.com.
CJ MCLOONE'S — To inquire about an event, please contact them by phone 732-268-7802 or email at cj_banquets_ fwd@mcloones.com, or visit cjmcloones.com.
CHARLIE'S OF LINCROFT
700 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ
732-812-4500
www.charliesoflincroft.com
Make your private event a memorable one at Charlie’s of Lincroft, with two spectacular settings to choose from.
THE GREAT ROOM — With its exquisite interior design, The Great Room can accommodate up to 75 guests. The centerpiece of the space is it’s hand-crafted stone fireplace & wood-beamed cathedral ceiling, a perfect environment for you to host an intimate wedding, bridal or baby shower, or any other special event.
THE WINE ROOM — Set beneath the building they have created a spectacular old world wine cellar with a stone arched ceiling and rustic hand-forged metal chandeliers. All of this is surrounded by the world’s finest wines. The Wine Room is a unique and intimate setting that can serve up to 40 guests.
Anything But a Swan Song
After a half-century spent serving delicious meals, Blue Swan Diner is still going strong
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
Is there anything more quintessentially “Jersey” than a diner? Roadside diners have been a part of life in the Garden State for more than a century. Though most are the furthest thing from the homogenized chain restaurants that dot the highways, there are certain common threads that seem to run through all diners. The giant menus, the old-fashioned barstools, booths and milkshake machines and the seemingly magical ability to craft a grilled cheese sandwich that is at least 10 times better than the one you make at home.
Yes, diners are a treasure, and without question, one of the best in all of Monmouth County is Blue Swan Diner in Oakhurst.
Blue Swan just wrapped up its 50th anniversary in 2024, having opened its doors in 1974 at a time
when fast food was growing, but the drive-thru wasn’t yet as ubiquitous a concept as it is today. Instead of rushing to shove down a Big Mac and fries in their car, folks actually went inside a restaurant and sat down to enjoy a casual meal as part of their day. Blue Swan made for a fine choice for hungry patrons back then, and despite the rapid changes in modern dining habits and shuttering of many competing diners, has managed to remain so to this day.
My wife and I stopped in at Blue Swan Diner recently to enjoy an early dinner after a long day of shopping, and the experience made us remember why the humble diner is an American concept that must never go the way of the dinosaurs.
We arrived around 6 p.m. on a Saturday and were immediately seated. A quick look around and
the essence of what makes a diner like this so appealing became obvious – it’s all about familiarity. The Blue Swan’s atmosphere instantly reminded us of so many nights spent at spots just like this growing up in North Jersey – a room full of tables to the left, with a second room packed with cozy booths to the right and behind that a long counter lined with barstools that will surely end up packed on most mornings with folks knocking down mugs of coffee and plates of bacon and eggs -cooked just the way they like them.
The Menu
We spent a few minutes exploring the Blue Swan’s massive menu, which is key for any establishment like this. They have something for everyone – literally. In the mood for breakfast at 11 p.m.? They’ve got pancakes and waffles for days. Inexplicably craving a salmon quinoa bowl? No problem, it’s right here. Is the night not over until you find the perfect triple decker turkey club? They’ve got you covered – and then some.
The menu goes on for pages and pages, and includes sections for apps, wraps, soups, sides, breakfast platters, griddle classics, salads, paninis, Mediterranean specialties, sandwiches, burgers, steaks and seafood; not to mention entire subsections devoted to numerous variations of specific dishes like quesadillas and tacos.
The sheer number of options means you have to stay focused when considering your order, otherwise you could end up forgetting half the items that looked so good when you first saw them. So, be sure to take mental notes as you go.
Our Meal
We started things off with a plate of Buffalo Mac & Cheese, which came topped with melted cheddar and jack cheeses along with seasoned breadcrumbs, diced chicken tenders and buffalo sauce. The Buffalo sauce was drizzled on top, which I was initially unsure about, but when mixed in made for a tasty and still creamy cheese sauce – with a nice kick of spice. Pasta as an app is not super common, but it worked quite well and was a standout of the meal.
After that we decided to go as classic as we could, opting to split a grilled cheese
sandwich and a plate of cheese fries. Though you can select any cheese you like, American is always my pick on a grilled cheese due to its superior melting capabilities. We opted for cheddar on the fries though for a change of pace. The sandwich lived up to every bit of nostalgic hype or brains could muster – it was both hearty and somehow light enough to not be overwhelmingly rich, and the bread (white in this case) was griddled to a perfect golden hue. The sides of cole slaw and dill pickle actually came out first, and both were good enough that we polished them off before the sandwich even arrived. The cheese fries also hit the spot, and while the decision to order a second cheesebased item alongside a grilled cheese
may seem odd to some, we were both pleased with the choice in the end.
Dessert is an all but must-do at any diner, and the Blue Swan is no exception, but rather than opt for an ice cream sundae or a slice of cheesecake, we looked to the impressive selection of griddle items, many of which fall closer to the dessert category than anything that can reasonably be considered a breakfast item. Cannoli French Toast, a Belgian Waffle Sundae and many others tempted us, but our pick ended up being the Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup Pancakes -- a hefty stack of chocolate peanut butter cup flapjacks topped with melted peanut butter sauce and a chocolate drizzle. Despite splitting this order, we didn’t even come close to polishing off the entire stack, but we
imagine someone out there with a massive appetite and an even sweeter tooth than either of us possessed would be able to do so.
A quick trip to the front counter to pay the check and we were out of there — and fully satisfied at everything from the food to the experience to the reasonable prices (something that has become more and more rare when dining out as of late). The Blue Swan Diner gives you a chance to go back to a simpler time just for a few minutes, and believe me when I say it’s worth the trip.
Blue Swan diner is located at 2116 Rt 35 in Oakhurst. Go to BlueSwanDiner.com
FIRST RESPONDERS
Q & A
Name: Carla Ward
Title: EMS Captain
Place of Employment: Allenhurst
Town of Residency: Allenhurst
Q: What initially made you want to be a first responder?
A: I have always been interested in medicine. My mother was a nurse and my father was a first aider and firefighter. I have always been drawn to helping others. Watching my parents serving those in need and witnessing firsthand how vital first responders are, I understand the importance of giving back to the community. Once my children were grown and I had more time, I chose to become a certified emergency medical technician. Currently, I work as both a volunteer EMT, serving as EMS Captain at Allenhurst Fire Department & First Aid Squad and as a paid EMT with Wanamassa First Aid Squad.
Q: What do you find to be most rewarding about this kind of work?
A: I love interacting with the community, caring for those who are in need. As first responders, we see people on sometimes the worst day of their life. Being able to help care for them, keep them calm and secure, and get them to advanced care is so fulfilling. It is always rewarding to run into a patient in the community after a call and see that they are ok. I am a huge proponent of education, particularly where health and safety are concerned. I am a Certified American Heart Association BLS (CPR) and First Aid Instructor and enjoy teaching these important skills to members of the community. One of my favorite things to do is teach the children of our community about ambulances and EMTs so that if they ever need it, it is not so overwhelming. I love it when folks pop by the squad with their children and we are able to give them a tour! I also offer CPR recertifications to fellow first responders, as well as teach Emergency Medical Responder training for adult members of the community interested in exploring EMS.
Q: What is the hardest aspect of the job?
A: I think the hardest part of our job as first responders is multifaceted. We see some difficult things, sometimes have to share/explain bad news, work odd hours, sometimes missing holidays/family gatherings. It is also a challenge, from a volunteer administrative perspective, to get folks to come out and join the squad. Volunteerism in our country seems to have lessened and it is increasingly harder to find EMTs to staff our squad. Watching volunteer squads that have been around for close to a century fold because staffing an ambulance is a challenge is heartbreaking. WE NEED YOU! Consider volunteering! I implemented an EMS Cadet program at Allenhurst First Aid, where 15-18 year olds learn hands-on skills, become Emergency Medical Responders, and ride along on calls with our squad. This, in my opinion, is the best way to engage young people and hopefully encourage them to become EMTs so that we can continue to provide care to our communities.
Q: Do any aspects of the job ever scare you?
A: Honestly, I have been around EMS for quite some time. In my tenure, the scariest thing tends to be traffic related. Folks tend to forget the rules of the road where emergency vehicles are concerned, and it can be quite challenging to navigate the roads when responding to calls. Some calls can be high stress, but overall, I feel confident in my skills to be able to work through each scenario we encounter.
Q: What was your most memorable experience on the job so far?
A: Outside of engaging with the public, I would have to say the most memorable experience on the job so far has been my interactions with my cadets. Watching them grow, both as young people and as first responders is so rewarding. Several of my cadets have gone on to become EMTs, some are pursuing medical careers in college, and some have stayed with the squad and are primary crew! That makes my heart sing!
Breakfast + Lunch = Happiness 5 Spots for the Tastiest Brunches in Monmouth County
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
R Bar
Those who love breakfast but also love sleeping in on the weekends are often stuck in a dilemma, as by the time you get around to rolling out of bed, breakfast time is a thing of the past, and most people in your home will likely have lunch on the brain. This is where the ever-popular hybrid meal of brunch comes to the rescue every time! A perfect solution for late sleepers (or simply those indecisive folks who can’t choose between breakfast and lunch), brunch offers the best of both worlds, solving one of Sunday morning’s trickiest conundrums. Here are some of the best spots to brunch in Monmouth County:
R Bar, Asbury Park
R Bar sets itself apart within Asbury’s much-celebrated restaurant scene by NOT being located on either Cookman or Ocean Avenues, instead, this New Orleans-themed spot takes up residence on Main Street, away from the trendiest spots in town. But R Bar is worth walking a few blocks for, as the gorgeously designed space is a visual pleaser, and the Sunday brunch is one of the most unique in town.
The drink menu is as fun as it gets (yes, another of brunch’s big advantages is that it’s somehow socially acceptable to drink your way through it) and standouts like the Erin Rose’s Frozen Irish Coffee — a delicious tip of the cap to the much-loved version from the Erin Rose bar in New Orleans — provide a fine start to the meal. Apps like the Crab Beignets and Broiled Oysters continue the Big Easy theme, but our pick is the Cacio e Pepe Deviled Eggs, which come topped with a blizzard of parmesan and a side of bread and oil for mixing and dipping when you are done. Standout entrees include the fabulous Blackened Shrimp & Grits, Bananas Foster French Toast or the ultimate indecisive eater’s go-to, Chicken and Waffles.
R Bar is located at 1114 Main St. in Asbury Park. ItsRBar.com
Charlie’s of Lincroft, Lincroft
Brunch is one of the few meals that can both take place early in the day and somehow be fancy as well. For those seeking the most elegant and classy of brunch experiences, Charlie’s of Lincroft is one of the best options in all of Monmouth County.
A full drink menu loaded with wines, martinis and signature cocktails sets the tone, with our current pick being the wonderfully-seasonal “Cranberry Sauced” — a mix of Tres Agaves tequila, Bogg’s Cranberry Liqueur, Cointreau, cranberry syrup and lime juice, with a rosemary sugar rim. Apps skate from straightforward options like sticky buns to
Charlie's of Lincroft
their Asian-themed Spicy Tuna Rainbow, a playful dance of spicy tuna, crispy sushi rice, hamachi, jalapeño, sriracha aioli, wasabi aioli, and ginger soy. For main courses, you can lean toward breakfast with their Crab Cake Benedict, Huevos Rancheros, Bacon, Chorizo and Baked Egg Pizza or the utterly divine Tiramisu Cinnamon Sugar French Toast Sticks (get the latter for the table to share no matter what) or opt for savory lunchstyle dishes such as Chalie’s House Burger or the Grilled Chicken Naan.
Charlie’s of Lincroft is located at 700 Newman Springs Road in Lincroft. CharliesOfLincroft.com
Zoe’s Emilio’s Kitchen, Atlantic Highlands
At most spots in our area that specialize in brunch dishes, the menus lean heavily toward American-style cuisine. But the Mexican culinary influence is what makes a trip to Zoe’s Emilio’s Kitchen in Atlantic Highlands such a fun experience for a weekend breakfast or brunch.
There is no better way to kick off any Mexican meal than with a cinnamon-y
glass of horchata, and the one at Zoe’s is all but perfect. From there, exploring the menu is a delight, but a difficult one, as each dish sounds more mouthwatering than the next and picking just one will always be a difficult task. The less adventurous can play it safe with stand-
bys from the griddle, but even there the creativity shines, as options like the Blue Loaded Pancakes with blueberry batter, homemade blueberry jam and maple syrup; and the Flamed Banana French Toast with flamed bananas, vanilla, cinnamon and a drizzle of caramel can’t help but entice. The Mexican options for both breakfast and lunch are extensive too and include Chilaquiles, Huevos Rancheros, Tortas, Tacos, a Calamari Burrito and a lovely Beef Birria soup, but perhaps our favorite dish is the Costra de Queso omelet, which comes topped with queso sauce, salsa verde, and the ultimate secret weapon — a crispy blanket of cheese wrapped around the entire omelet. Picture the delightful burnt-orange crust on a southern baked mac and cheese bear-hugging an omelet like a taco shell. That’s what this is. Order it.
Zoe’s Emilio’s Kitchen is located at 77 Center Ave. in Atlantic Highlands. ZoesEmiliosKitchen.com.
Tatum’s Table, Lincroft
Twenty-year old Tatum Manake launched Tatum’s Table earlier this year and the spot has quickly become a favorite for those in the area seeking the full package when it comes to brunch options. “I kept going out for breakfast or lunch in the area, and there was nothing that suited what I wanted,” said Menake of what inspired her to open Tatum’s Ta-
Zoe's Emilio's Kitchen
Tatum's Table
ble. “Either the food would be good, but the coffee would be lacking, or vice versa. Nothing had the whole package.”
Tatum’s Table offers guests the whole package in the form of a massive (and frankly unmatched) menu of coffees, lattes and tea-based beverages, as well as a full lineup of skillets, omelets, breakfast sandwiches and tasty and one-of-a-kind dishes such as Tatum’s A.M. Party Mix — a mashup of quinoa with sautéed garden vegetables, fresh herbs, sautéed spinach, lemon juice, garlic oil and two eggs any style, which can be boosted by the addition of shrimp, chicken or NY Strip steak. Those looking for brunchtime decadence will enjoy the griddle options, which feature such over-the-top choices as Fried Oreo Pancakes and Crème Brulee French Toast among others. Lunch comes in hot with fab apps like the Homemade Mac and Cheese Flight as well as a massive menu of main courses, which can be anything from paninis and burgers to bowls and salads. For a perfect brunch item- try the Rise & Shine Breakfast Burger — a
prime beef patty served with a sunnyside-up egg, sausage patty, hash brown, pepper jack cheese and their own spicy maple aioli served on an English muffin. Mmmmm …
Tatum’s Table is located at 650 Newman Springs Road in Lincroft. Go to TatumsTable.com.
Turning Point, various locations:
What started as one simple 12-table restaurant in Little Silver has transformed into a small army of eateries, and a staple meal of any great weekend at the Jersey Shore. That’s right, we are talking about Turning Point.
When the Turning Point launched in 1998, their mission was simple: “To serve the best breakfast, lunch and brunch we know how from 7:30 a.m. to 3 p.m.” And that motto holds strong today, as this hotspot continues to crank out some of the best dishes in those categories, without fail.
We love to start things off with a New
Orleans Cold Brew, a fab blend of roasted chicory with an oversized coffee ice cube. From there it’s on to a pile of Warm Cinnamon Rolls for the table (something that has yet to get anything short of a roar of approval from everyone).
Entrees depend on mood. You can’t go wrong with the Key West Shrimp Omelet, with its all-star lineup of shrimp, avocado, bacon, tomato, cilantro and jack cheese; the Roadhouse Bacon Stack — a triple-stacked grilled cheese sandwich with thick-cut bacon, caramelized onions, tomato, and baby spinach topped with a smokehouse aioli on griddled sourdough bread; or one of the current seasonal specials like the Cannoli Pancakes — a trio of chocolate chip pancakes topped with cannoli cream, powdered sugar and a mini cannoli.
Turning Point has Monmouth County locations in Ocean Township, Holmdel, Little Silver, Manalapan, and Sea Girt. Go to TurningPointRestaurants.com
Turning Point
BIZBEAT
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
New Barnes and Noble location at Monmouth Mall opens
A quick roundup of what’s new and happening at local businesses in Monmouth County.
The Monmouth Mall has been mostly a construction site for the better part of the last year, with much of it being demolished outright, but one exciting new development is the relocation of the Barnes and Noble bookstore. Now located in a brand-new space slightly eastbound of their previous spot, the new store is open and bright and ready to serve bookworms everywhere! The new store is located at 180 Rt. 35 in Eatontown. BarnesAndNoble.com
Benchmark Breads opens first retail location in Little Silver
Benchmark Breads has been a popular staple at farmers markets throughout Monmouth County since the pandemic, but at the end of 2024 they finally opened their first retail location in Little Silver. The shop sells a variety of some of the most delicious sourdough breads you will find anywhere. Benchmark Breads is located at 141 Markham Pl. in Little Silver. BenchmarkBreads.com
Rolling the dice at Barrio Costero’s Taco Tuesday
Anyone who has enjoyed a meal at Barrio Costero can attest to it being one of the best Mexican restaurants in the area. Though unquestionably delicious, the spot can be a bit pricey at times. That’s why their new Taco Tuesday deal is one of the best we have come across anywhere. Every Tuesday, patrons can now enjoy 3 tacos and a house margarita for $15. Not sweet enough of a deal for you? At the end of the meal, one person from your group gets the chance to roll the Barrio dice. Roll a 6 and your meal is on the house! Barrio Costero is located at 610 Bangs Ave. in Asbury Park. BarrioCostero.com
Prioritizing HEART HEALTH in the New Year
BY MAIA FRANCO
The New Year is the perfect time to set new goals and get healthy! While we tend to focus on health for aesthetic reasons in the new year, we need to begin focusing on one of the most important organs in the body: the heart. Coronary Heart Disease (CHD) is the leading cause of death in both men and women in New Jersey. In 2020, more than 19,700 residents of the state died of complications caused by CHD. Make 2025 the year you prioritize heart health and are aware of the signs and symptoms of a heart disease.
Signs of a heart attack:
• Chest pain
• Pain in other areas, such as the jaw, arm, shoulder, and neck
• Rapid or irregular heartbeat
• Shortness of breath
• Heavily sweating (without exercising or being in a hot environment)
• Nausea and vomiting
• Overwhelming anxiety
Atrial Fibrillation and Bradycardia:
Atrial fibrillation (AFib) is a heart condition that causes the upper chambers of the heart to beat irregularly and often rapidly. AFib can be triggered by drinking too much alcohol, smoking, being overweight, drinking too much caffeine, and taking illegal drugs. Someone may be at a risk for AFib if they are over 50, have heart failure, have high blood pressure, are obese, or have sleep apnea.
Bradycardia, also known as bradyarrhythmia, is a condition where the heart beats slower than 60 beats per minute (BPM) while at rest. A normal resting heart rate for adults is be-
tween 60 and 100 BPM. Bradycardia can be caused by a number of things, including Cardiovascular conditioning, electrolyte imbalance, obstructive sleep apnea, inflammatory autoimmune diseases, and certain medications. Bradycardia can be a serious problem if the heart rate is too slow for the heart to pump enough oxygen-rich blood to the body. This can cause someone to feel dizzy, very tired or weak, and short of breath.
Advances in treatment:
An implanted defibrillator is a battery-powered device inserted below the skin and has a vein that connects it to the heart for monitoring. The implanted defibrillator has the ability to change a person’s heartbeat when an abnormal rhythm is detected and can even send a shock, if needed. The implantable device treats conditions such as bradycardia atrial fibrillation, atrial flutter, atrial tachycardia, ventricular tachycardia, and ventricular fibrillation. Physicians may recommend an implanted defibrillator to patients who have previously experienced a heart attack, or may be a risk for cardiac arrest. A Middletown resident, Jose, chose the implanted defibrillator because it gave him peace of mind. “When I experienced AFib, I was constantly worried about the next time I would go into it. With the implanted defibrillator, my heart rate is monitored constantly, my doctor has all of the data, and I know the AFib can be corrected if it happens again.”
If you feel you may be at risk for any of the following conditions, consult a cardiologist and discuss your options as soon as possible. If you experience any of the symptoms described in the conditions listed above, you may be having an emergency. Seek assistance from 911 immediately.
Dinner Show
Our picks for some fun nights out at local bars and restaurants this month
MONDAYS (JAN. 6, 13, 20 AND 27) • 7-10 p.m.
Pat Guadagno
Jamian’s Food and Drink, 79 Monmouth St. Red Bank JamiansFood.com
MONDAY, WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY, FRIDAY AND
SATURDAY, ALL MONTH LONG • 6 p.m.
Live music
Bar Anticipation, 703 16th Ave., Lake Como Bar-A.com
THURSDAYS, FRIDAYS AND SATURDAYS, all month long Live music
The Cabin, 984 NJ-33, Freehold Thursday, 6-9 p.m.; Friday and Saturday, 8:30-11:30 p.m. TheCabinNJ.com
FRIDAYS (JAN. 3, 10, 17, 24 AND 31) • 6 p.m. Live music
Rooney’s Oceanfront Restaurant, 100 Ocean Ave N., Long Branch RooneysOcean.com
FRIDAY, JAN 10 • 6:30-9:30 p.m.
Vinyl Traction
Charley’s Ocean Grill, 29 Avenel Blvd. Long Branch CharleysOceanGrill.com
THURSDAY, JAN. 16 • 7 p.m. (Doors at 5:30 p.m.)
The Jersey Shore Medium Linda Shields
Tim McLoone’s Supper Club, 1200 Ocean Ave., Asbury Park TimMcloonesSupperClub.com
FRIDAY, JAN. 24 • 5-8 p.m.
Quincy Mumford
Deal Lake Bar + Co,600 Main St. Loch Arbour DealLakeBarCo.com
SATURDAY, JAN. 25 • 9 p.m.
Steve Reilly Band
St. Stephen’s Green Publick House, RT 71, Spring Lake SSGPub.com
FRIDAY, JAN. 31 • 8 p.m.- midnight Nine Deez Night
The Proving Ground, 56 Shrewsbury Ave, Highlands TheProvingGround.com
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Giannis (Colts Neck)
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Atlantic Eye
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Shoprite
Foodtown (Red Bank)
Gianni’s (Red Bank)
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Zone 3 (Jersey Shore Area):
Foodtown (Sea Girt)
Shoprite (Belmar)
Shoprite (Neptune)
Asbury Park City Hall
Asbury Park Book Cooperative
Purpose Yoga
Zone 4 (Ocean Township Area):
Blue Swan
Sunset Diner
Pop’s Bagels
Gianni’s (Ocean)
All Seasons Diner
Zone 5 (Middletown Area):
Shoprite (Middletown)
Booskerdoo (Middletown)
Foodtown (Atlantic Highlands)
Atlantic Bagel Co (Atlantic Highlands)
Foodtown (Port Monmouth)
Brookdale’s Monmouth Museum
Zone 6 (Freehold Area):
Lomurro Law
618 Restaurant
Shoprite (Freehold)
Manhattan Bagel (Freehold)
NJ Leaf
BUDDY of Tinton Falls
BENSON of Ocean Township
CHEWIE of Oakhurst
FIN of Eatontown
JACKSON of Oakhurst
Four-legged fun!
Barktastic places to hang out with your pets this month and beyond
Smokey’s Doggy Café, Keyport — OK this place is truly for the dogs! Smokey’s Doggy Café offers dogs a fabulous place to hang with their humans and features an all-natural treat bar, Puppaccinos, Pawgaritas, Barkuterie boards, dog ice cream as well as a play yard! Humans are welcome to BYO food and drinks or have the option to order delivery from local restaurants. Smokey’s Doggy Café is located at 30 West Front Street in Keyport. SmokeysDoggyCafe.com.
The Hungry Puppy, Farmingdale — The Hungry Puppy may be a pet supply store first and foremost, but they also offer lots of fun events for your et throughout the year. But one of our favorite things is their on-site free dog park, a great place to bring your dog to get those zoomies out in a fun and fenced environment. The park features two separate play areas as well as dog playground equipment for extra waggy tails! The Hungry Puppy is located at 1288 Highway 33 in Farmingdale. The HungryPuppy.com.
Convention Hall, Asbury Park — A great option for a chilly day, dogs are welcome inside the Grand Arcade at Convention Hall in Asbury Park, where you and your pup can peruse the shops, check out the Springsteen Archives pop-up shop and maybe even pick up a few treats at Paws Barkery & Boutique.
Cookman Avenue, Asbury Park — Winter is always a tough time for outings with your doggo, as much of the outdoor dining and fun warm weather activities are no longer available. But Asbury Park manages to be a particularly dog-friendly destination, with many of the stores on Cookman Avenue welcoming well-behaved four-legged friends. Go for a winter stroll through Kennedy Park and if you find yourself getting chilly, just head inside one of the dog-friendly shops, such as Rebel Supply Co., Foolish Ginger, or stop in and pick up a doggie cupcake at Confections of a Rockstar. Pets are even allowed inside Asbury Park Brewery and the Shoppes at the Arcade, which offers multiple fun stores for you and your canine companion to poke around in.
The Jersey Shore Premium Outlets, Tinton Falls — With the holiday shopping madness in the rear-view mirror, January is an excellent time to take in a more relaxing trip to the mall. But that usually means leaving your pets at home. But that’s not the case at the Jersey Shore Premium Outlets! Since the area is outdoors, dogs are welcome in all of the outdoor spaces, many of which are covered from rain. While the stores themselves may only allow service animals, it’s a great spot to go with the whole family. Let Mom run into one store while Dad and the kids hang with the hound. They even have a Starbucks onsite for extra good dogs to get their Pup Cups! PremiumOutlets.com
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Kick off the New Year with Positive Training for a Well-Behaved Dog
Your dog is more than just a pet—they’re a cherished member of your family. But sometimes, miscommunications and behavioral challenges can strain even the strongest bond. The solution? Professional dog training! It’s an investment in your dog’s happiness, your peace of mind, and your relationship together. Here’s why dog training is a game-changer for both you and your furry friend – and with the New Year upon us, a perfect time for a fresh start!
1. Enhanced Communication — Dogs thrive when they understand what’s expected of them, and training provides the tools for clear communication. By learning commands and responding to cues, your dog becomes more confident, and you’ll enjoy a stronger bond rooted in trust and understanding.
2. A Well-Behaved Companion — Imagine a dog that greets guests calmly, walks politely on a leash, and listens even in distracting environments. Proper training transforms good dogs into great companions, making everyday activities—from strolls in the park to family gatherings—more enjoyable for everyone.
3. Safety First — Training is about more than good manners; it’s about keeping your dog safe. Teaching commands like “stay,” “come,” and “leave it” can prevent accidents and keep your dog out of harm’s way, whether it’s avoiding traffic or steering clear of harmful substances.
4. Reduce Problem Behaviors — From excessive barking and chewing to leash pulling and aggression, training helps address and correct these behaviors. Certified trainers work with you to understand your dog’s unique needs and create tailored solutions that work in your home environment.
5. A Happy, Stimulated Dog — Dogs love to learn! Training engages their minds, satisfies their need for mental stimulation, and reduces boredom-related behaviors. An active, engaged dog is a happy dog, and a happy dog makes for a happy owner.
6. Socialization Skills — Well-trained dogs are more confident in social settings. Whether you’re at the dog park or hosting friends, training ensures your dog knows how to behave, interact, and stay calm around people and other pets.
7. Strengthened Bond — Dog training is a team effort, and it deepens your connection. Working together toward shared goals fosters mutual respect and enhances the relationship between you and your furry companion.
Investing in professional dog training isn’t just about teaching tricks—it’s about building a life full of joy, trust, and harmony with your pet. Whether you’re dealing with puppy basics or more complex behavioral issues, the benefits of training are undeniable.
Ready to experience the transformation? Let’s get started today and unlock the full potential of your four-legged friend. Your journey to a happier, better-behaved dog begins now!
To learn more, visit https://www.greenleafpetresort.com/ oakhurst/ or give us a call at (732) 272-0800.
Ditch the Mess!
Got Clutter built a business around the joy of keeping things tidy
BY EMMA SYLVIA
Judith Horowitz of
Got Clutter cannot believe how far her company has grown since its inception. Celebrating their 18th anniversary this upcoming May, Horowitz looks back on the early days and how the business began organically.
“It sorta fell in my lap,” she remembers. “I joined a woman’s networking event, and from there I got my first client — I just had to help someone with renovation. From there, it went from unpacking and reorganizing homes to architectural plans, space planning, closet design and more.”
Got Clutter itself is a professional home and office organizing service, offering fullhome organization for their clients. “We work from everywhere in New York — including Long Island and Staten Island — to New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. We do jobs where we declutter, unpack, organize, and maintain.”
Helping to re-organize roughly 40 to 45 homes a year, Horowitz and her company are able to complete 99% of homes in just one day. “We’re a full-service business. We cater to each person and their personal needs. We really listen to our clients and what they want. We’re always there to make them happy. If they don’t like something, we’ll change it,” Horowitz says.
With 2025 here and spring-cleaning nearing, Horowitz answers questions about Got Clutter, and provides tips on how to organize your home.
Q: How did the business start? Did you imagine it would grow so much?
A: Definitely not. It fell in my lap. It started with my husband being in the stock market, and after the market crashed, I thought that I should get a job. I was always organized. It’s a funny thing; I had a friend that would make fun of me with how organized and lined up my house was. One person asked me to organize their pantry, and then, it grew naturally. I never thought I would still be doing this 18 years later. It was trying to help with the family income — we were always busy with having five kids. But the company just slowly, naturally grew.
Q: What makes Got Clutter unique?
A: Got Clutter is me and my daughter. I have other employees who come when we have big jobs, but 90 percent of the time, it’s the two of us. Most of the time, the clients do want me to physically be there. My daughter is like my clone — she does everything exactly like I do. I might go to one job, and she goes to the other; we split up. I know there’s other organizers out there, but we do things the way we do them. We really do things our way, and we don’t try to copy anybody. I try to do things differently because each house is unique.
One thing I’ve learned over the years is how to deal with all different kinds of personalities. Decluttering itself, too, is almost like therapy. A lot of the time, the clutter is consuming these houses, and people don’t know what to do with it. For most people, something like this might be a luxury, but to some people, it’s not. It’s a necessity. It’s really helping with their daily lives.
Q: How was 2024 for Got Clutter? What are you looking forward to in 2025?
A: 2024 was a great year, thank goodness. We’ve been busy every year. We average around 40 to 45 moves a year. We already have bookings for January, February, and March. We had a few requests for more jobs out of New York, so in 2025, I’m looking forward to traveling to other states and more travel in general. We’ll actually be traveling to the Caribbean to do some organizing out there.
Got Clutter’s Top 10 Tips For Organizing Your Home
Whether your New Year’s Resolution is to declutter your life, or you want to get a jump start on your spring cleaning, Got Clutter has the perfect guide for you to get started…
• Keep what you use and love
• Don’t keep things just because you spent money on them — you’re not getting the money back
• Put things away right away
• If it’s damaged, get rid of it
• If you’re going to store it away forever,
you don’t need it
• Do a clean out every season
• Just because it’s on sale doesn’t mean that you need to buy it
• Just because it’s free, doesn’t mean that you need to take it
• Give everything a home so that you know where to put it back
• Ask yourself: If you were to move today, would you take those items with you?
For more information, visit @gotclutter on Instagram.
Playing it Safe
More than 3.5 million children ages 14 and younger suffer from a sports-related injury each year. It's important for parents, coaches, and young athletes to recognize the signs of injury early to prevent longterm damage. Here are some common types of injuries and what to look out for:
Acute Injuries
Acute injuries happen suddenly, often as a result of a fall, collision, or improper movement.
Sprains and Strains:
• Sprain: Injury to a ligament, such as an ankle sprain.
• Strain: Injury to a muscle or tendon, such as a hamstring strain.
• Signs to watch for: Pain, swelling, bruising, and limited range of motion Fractures:
• Common in contact sports, especially when bones are subjected to direct impact.
• Signs: Immediate pain, swelling, deformity, and inability to use the limb
Dislocations:
• Often occurs in the shoulder, elbow, or fingers.
• Signs: Visible deformity, intense pain, and limited movement
Concussions:
• A head injury caused by a blow or jolt to the head.
• Signs: Headache, dizziness, confusion, memory loss, nausea, sensitivity to light or noise, and changes in behavior.
Prevention Methods:
• Proper Technique: Learning proper techniques for throwing, jumping, running, and other sports movements can significantly reduce injury risk.
• Equipment: Wearing properly fitted and sport-specific equipment (shoes,
helmets, pads, etc.) can help prevent injuries, especially in contact sports.
• Hydration and Nutrition: Proper hydration and a balanced diet support muscle and bone health, reducing the likelihood of injuries.
Overuse Injuries
Overuse injuries are caused by repetitive stress on a part of the body without adequate rest. These are becoming more common as young athletes specialize in a single sport.
Little League Elbow and Little League Shoulder:
• Overuse injuries typically seen in young baseball players due to repetitive throwing motions.
• Signs: Pain on the inside of the elbow or shoulder, decreased range of motion, and tenderness.
Stress Fractures:
• Common in high-impact sports, particularly in sports like running, gymnastics, and basketball.
• Signs: Gradual onset of pain that worsens with activity, tenderness over the affected bone, and swelling.
Tendinitis:
• Inflammation of a tendon, such as the Achilles tendon in runners or the patellar tendon in athletes who jump frequently
• Signs: Pain, swelling, and stiffness in the tendon, which worsens with activity and improves with rest
Prevention and What to Look Out For:
• Proper Warm-up and Cool-down: Ensuring athletes warm up before and cool down after activities helps prevent muscle strains and ligament injuries.
• Rest and Recovery: Overuse injuries often stem from not giving the body enough time to rest. Avoiding exces -
Preventing Childhood Sports Injuries
BY MAIA FRANCO
sive training, cross-training in different sports, and ensuring regular rest days can reduce the risk of overuse injuries.
Signs of Overuse:
• Persistent pain that doesn’t improve with rest.
• Swelling or bruising that doesn’t go away.
• Decreased performance or reluctance to participate in the sport.
• Limping, stiffness, or discomfort in a joint or muscle.
Growth Plate Injuries
Children and adolescents have growth plates, areas where their bones are still growing. These are vulnerable to injury, especially during intense physical activity.
Signs to watch for:
• Pain near a joint or bone (especially in the wrists, knees, or elbows).
• Swelling and tenderness in a localized area.
When to Seek Medical Attention:
• Immediate, severe pain that doesn’t improve
• Signs of a concussion, such as confusion, nausea, and dizziness
• Swelling or bruising that doesn’t subside with rest
• Difficulty moving or using a limb
• Visible deformity
To keep young athletes safe and healthy, it’s essential to encourage safe play practices, monitor for signs of overuse, and ensure that they receive appropriate medical care when needed. Proper training, rest, and awareness of potential injuries are key to maintaining a child’s long-term health in sports.
Teacher Feature
Name: Andrea Sodhi
Title:
Elementary ESL Teacher
Place of Employment:
Ocean Township Elementary School
Town of Residency: Ocean
Q: What do you love about teaching, and what keeps you coming back each day?
A: What I love most about teaching is the connections I build with my students. As an ESL teacher in an elementary school, I have had the privilege of staying with my students over the years. This allows me to truly understand who they are and foster relationships that support their emotional and academic development. Witnessing my students grow and progress over time is incredibly rewarding and fulfilling. I take great pride in their achievements; there is no greater joy than seeing them thrive.
Q: What is the most challenging thing about working with kids?
A: The most challenging aspect of working with children is adapting to their needs, especially when they are not consistently meeting their goals. I've learned that this is perfectly okay; it simply requires us to approach the situation from a different angle.
Q: What was your school experience like as a kid? Did you enjoy school?
A: As a child, I always enjoyed school, but building connections with my teachers wasn’t always easy. It wasn’t until I got older and met truly inspiring educators that I realized the impact a great teacher can have. Those experiences shaped my passion for becoming a teacher myself. Today, as an educator, I firmly believe that building strong relationships with students is essential. Every child needs someone who believes in them, and that belief can make all the difference in their world.
Q: If you could add one new subject that every kid would have to take in school, what would it be and why?
A: I think every student should have some sort of life skills class. This class would focus on teaching students practical skills like managing finances, cooking, basic first aid, and understanding how to navigate adulthood, paired with lessons on empathy, communication, conflict resolution, and self-awareness. Obviously, this would be geared more toward the older students, but I wish I had some sort of education on this as a student.
Q: What is the most important thing that your students have taught you?
A: An important thing my students have shown me is the power of resilience and individuality. Each student brings their own unique perspective, strengths, and challenges, reminding me that learning is not a one-size-fits-all journey. They’ve taught me to be patient, flexible, and celebrate even the smallest victories, because those moments can lead to incredible growth.
