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A Legacy of Helping Survivors of Domestic Violence: Anna Diaz-White reflects on 40 years of service to 180 Turning Lives Around

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Honorable Discharge Anna Diaz-White Steps Down After 40 Years of Helping Survivors of Domestic Violence

BY RAY SCHWEIBERT

Those who believe in fate might wonder if the foresight Anna Diaz-White’s parents had in escaping an oppressive regime, nearing the last opportune time to do so, somehow played into her dedication toward saving others from domestic violence and sexual abuse.

Diaz-White was only two when her parents fled Cuba for the United States in 1960. She would go on to earn a Master of Business Administration from New York University and embark on a career in finance with Citibank, now Citigroup, in Queens. After taking a break from business and a tough commute to raise her family, she re-entered the working world by accepting a part-time position closer to home as a finance grant writer for the non-profit 180 Turning Lives Around, located in Hazlet which serves as Monmouth County’s center for providing survivors of domestic and sexual violence and their families with free and confidential programs and resources.

Eight years after taking the part-time post, and with more flexibility in her schedule, she applied for and was granted the title of Executive Director of 180 Turning Lives Around, which was founded in 1976 as The Women’s Resource and Survival Center.

During her 32-year tenure as director, 180 achieved several major milestones, among them reaching in 2016 the mark of one-million 24/7 hotline calls responded to by the organization. Others include creating the first federally funded battered women’s shelter in the nation in 1986, starting 180’s Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence Response Teams (in 1996 and ’98), and overseeing the organization’s name change from The Women’s Center to 180 Turning Lives Around in 2002, which was done to “convey the comprehensive and integrated programs and services available for families.”

Community Magazine NJ spoke with Anna, who announced that she would be retiring later this year.

You and your family fled Cuba in 1960. Was that just to escape the Castro regime and its oppression?

Anna Diaz-White: Yes. My parents were not in agreement with communism. In 1960, they fled the country under a vacation visa. That was just before Castro closed it down and did not allow anybody to leave the country (a travel ban that lasted more than 50 years, until 2013, when Cubans were allowed to obtain a passport and travel).

I remember my mom telling me, years later, how she and everyone around her were in a constant state of panic during the Cuban Missile Crisis (in 1962), believing that a nuclear war was imminent.

It got close. Things got really hairy between (then Premier of the Soviet Union Nikita) Khrushchev and (then U.S. President John F.) Kennedy. I don’t think a lot of people realize how close we actually were to disaster.

I was amazed to learn that the number of calls received by 180 surpassed the one-million mark. That’s a staggering number of people who needed help due to abuse.

ADW: It’s a lot of people, and many of them are children. In 2008 we launched the statewide 2nd floor Youth Helpline, which is now Youth Text/Helpline (see 2ndFloor.org), and that helped hundreds of thousands of kids throughout the state, along with the services we provide here in Monmouth County such as the shelter hotline, court-assisted counseling, and other services (all outlined at 180NJ.org

under the Get Help or Get Info links).

What was your feeling when you were inducted into the New Jersey Hall of Fame last year? (She was introduced by Tammy Murphy, the governor’s wife, and past NJHOF recipient/ famed singer Gloria Gaynor.)

ADW: I have to tell you, that was quite an experience (she was one of 14 inductees spanning six categories). I had no idea of what a big deal it was. I got to see Bruce (Springsteen, husband of Patti Scialfa, who was also a NJHOF inductee last year), Danny DiVito and all these people that I’d heard of but didn’t realize they were from New Jersey. It was a really cool night.

Can you talk a little about how 180 operates in terms relying on volunteers to help carry out your mission?

ADW: Sure, so it’s a combination of paid staff and volunteers, and the volunteers do all kinds of different things. Some are in direct services – they meet survivors in any of the 51 police departments or any of the five area hospital emergency rooms throughout the county. And they’ll also accompany a survivor to court if they request it. If they’re called back to meet with a detective, or called into the prosecutor’s office, a volunteer could accompany them for support, including sometimes in the emergency room.

I understand 180 has one of the largest emergency domestic violence

shelters in the state.

ADW: Yes, and it’s also the only shelter that accepts survivors of any gender or gender identity, and families with their pets. We are currently the only one that accepts families with pets and we are really encouraging other shelters to do so. A lot of folks won’t leave the situation without their dog or cat or whatever. If you had to flee tomorrow, how could you leave a pet behind that you’ve had all its life? That would be particularly traumatic to kids on top of how their lives have already been disrupted.

How much does 180 rely on fundraising events, on top of state and federal support, to help achieve its mission?

ADW: We rely on government funding for support, but that doesn’t cover everything, so we have to raise close to $1 million every year to keep the lights on, keep the services going, and keep the hotlines operating. The Seas The Day fundraiser (at the Rumson Country Club on May 2) is our annual gala where we recognize outstanding supporters.

And it’s up to those manning the phones at the 24/7 hotline to determine if the situation falls under the category of an emergency situation, or domestic or sexual abuse?

ADW: Well, I’d have to say that by the time they call us, abuse has usually been going on for a while. It’s the same as if someone were to call the police – rarely is it ever after just one incident. Typically,

it is after a bunch of incidents that started to escalate, and then something is triggered to the point that they realize they have to call the cops. Similar with us, it’s rare for someone to call us because they had a bad argument with a boyfriend or girlfriend or loved one.

Sometimes we’ll get calls where they’re not entirely sure themselves. They tell themselves “Hey, I’m college educated, I’m a nurse or a doctor or an accomplished person” and they do not identify themselves as victims or survivors. People sometimes have this mistaken notion I think of what a “victim” is.

If he or she had been hit, they’d know what that is and immediately identify that as not OK, but it’s often the insidious and constant verbal or emotional, or threats of abuse, that can have people walking around on egg shells because they’re worried about someone flying into a rage where, while they might not hit you, they might punch a hole in the wall, or throw furniture around, or kick the dog – those kinds of things where there’s often this constant atmosphere of violence and rage without anyone actually getting hit.

That’s the part that tends to confuse people, and makes them ask “how is that abuse?” We’ve had survivors who tell us that healing from physical abuse is far easier – I broke my arm, it healed, I’m OK now – but the emotional effects of abuse and threatened violence are really what linger, often for years, especially on children. We’ve had people say that the kids don’t know because they were sleeping. The kids were not sleeping. Kids are aware of what’s going on. They might not be able to verbalize it, but they’re going to be acting out in different ways.

I’d guess that working in that environment, it would be hard not to allow dealing with such trauma in others to affect you personally.

ADW: I generally do not direct services personally, but certainly many of our staff and volunteers do, and for them especially hearing really tragic, horrible stories – to the point where you think you’ve heard it all, and then you hear something that is even more horrible than anything you’ve heard before – can and does have an effect on people and their mental health. We encourage our staff to take a break, take a mental-health day when you feel it becoming overwhelming or just becoming too much. Internally, we have peersupport groups for staff to be able to unload what’s going on or express how they’re feeling about what’s going on. It is stressful.

What made you decide to retire, and do you know who your successor will be at 180 Turning Lives Around?

ADW: This all started for me in 1984 and, 40 years later, I’m looking to retire and hand off the reigns to a new generation.

It became official (recently) that our new director will be Elizabeth Graham. She’s a great gal who’s been with us 15 years. She was a former client and now she’ll be the director of the organization, so things have come full circle. She started out as my assistant, then was promoted to Chief Operating Officer, and now CEO. She’s fabulous. It makes me feel so good to know that 180 is going to be in great hands.

To me the organization will always have a place in my heart, but I am ready to have Liz run with the ball. She has some great ideas, a lot of energy, a lot of enthusiasm, and she’s so excited about this new role for her. And I’m excited for her. I’m looking forward to helping Liz in the next six months or so, and then I think I need to just take some time to breathe and decide what the next step is.

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Channeling Passion

The Middletown Arts Center feeds the creative souls of Middletown

BY WILLIAM CLARK

If you have never been to the Middletown Arts Center, now may be the time to change that. Serving as the creative soul of Middletown, this mixed-use venue is centered around the arts, as life pumps through each of its rooms at all hours of the day with programs that cater to everyone from the youngest newcomers through the most experienced veterans. There isn’t much that a lover of the arts can’t practice, interact with or appreciate at the MAC, as the list is seemingly endless. And if they don’t offer what you are looking for, there’s a chance that they’ll start soon.

The unassuming look of the building from the outside hides its breadth and variety. Step further in, and visitors will find an art gallery displaying the works of local painters and photographers.

This is where the office of Director of Community Engagement and Development T.J. Brustowicz is set up. Just six months into the job, Brustowicz has assumed the role of main cheerleader for the MAC.

The cacophony of the space surrounding Brustowicz is omnipresent. The sound of brass and percussion pumps from the theater behind him, an outfit of senior gentlemen is using the space to rehearse. Classic big band hits provide

the soundtrack for the staff of the MAC on this particular Wednesday afternoon, punctuated with solos and other performative flares. Several people walk in, hesitant to disturb the clearly valuable time the performers have in the space. Their heads gently peer around from the entrance, curiously eyeing the rehearsal until Brustowicz’s booming voice penetrates a building crescendo of trumpets and trombones.

“You can go in!” he encourages. “It’s open for all.”

The two share a grateful nod and wave and choose a few seats closest to the door.

Unlike a proper performance, spectators will see the band stop when necessary. The smallest missteps today will be identified, corrected and hopefully perfected amongst the retirees.

Just about a half an hour later, as a fitting bookend to the purpose of the center, a group of five and six year-old girls arrive after school for a dance lesson in the basement. The set up perfectly encapsulates the mission of the MAC to provide a space for all ages and abilities.

Once ready, the girls will walk down to the lower level and into a spacious dance studio. Mirrors line the back wall and ballet bars run the perimeter at two heights. Dance instructor

“Usually you find something half this size,” Wacholtz notes. “So to be able to travel and dance on diagonals that are so deep, it’s a dream. It’s very free here.”

Wachholtz highlights the sprung floor that the dancers use which helps prevent injuries from repeated jumps and lands. Even at a normal stride, one can feel the bounce that the floor provides to the aching knee or back.

Hidden downstairs are other rooms and studios, office space and storage. Relics of past productions and events are testaments to the years of work the center has done to provide opportunities to the center. This space became a positive consequence of a flood a few years back. The basement was inundated by a deluge of water after a mishap during some work on a nearby site. The foundation shifted in the building.

“Everything was shut down for a while,” Brustowicz said. “This all got taken care of and the payoff was wonderful.”

But most people will experience the main floor and its spaces that provide the venue for much of its tentpole programming.

In the center of the building lies the Gallery. During the month of March, the walls were lined with artwork from the Art Society of Monmouth County. Partitioned into different sections, the artwork shows off paintings in watercolor, pastels and oil in addition to mixed media and photography. The fluidity of two dancers is captured in one oil painting framed beautifully, underscoring the skill and love that these local artists take in their work. Painting classes, field trips, therapy sessions and other events will take place in this space, providing an opportunity for these labors of passion to be appreciated.

Galleries in traditional museums may be staid and stoic, reinforcing the gravity of that art that was

most likely meticulous and expensively curated. Visitors walk gingerly around the works of luminaries of the field.

But the MAC will use this room to its fullest extent. The New Jersey Youth Symphony Orchestra will set up chairs, tune their instruments and fill the room with crashing melodies and rhythmic percussion. Neophytes and longtime painters will learn the finer points of painting and drawing. Young actors will explore how to use their bodies and voices to get audiences to laugh or cry, thumping across the floor or staring at the track lighting attempting to pull in the perfect moment to influence their performance. There’s no solemnity to this Gallery. No hushed voices or

Andrea Wachholtz uses the facility to its fullest capabilities.

reverence. This space is alive and allows the artists within the community to grow and become the performers they hope to be.

Brustowicz said that 60,000 people took part in the MAC last year. Many of those came to take in the performances and events that take place in the auditorium itself, which recently updated some of the lighting and features within it.

Recently, the MAC hosted its first Comedy Show. Brustowicz did not know what to expect. In the past, people came for movies and musicals, but would jokes hold the same draw?

Brustowicz is happy to say that the thirst for laughter is robust. Several of those that attended mentioned they frequented comedy clubs in New Brunswick and Point Pleasant and appreciated having somewhere somewhere in between to enjoy a standup routine.

Within it, the MAC hosts two sets of theater companies. One where the adults take the stage, the other for junior performances. As Brustowicz walked around the facility he pointed to all of the sets and props that would be utilized during the coming performance of “Lion King, Jr.” This summer, the musical version of the movie Legally Blonde will also take the stage.

Recitals and other rentals utilize the auditorium frequently. The foundation that the MAC provides younger audiences is paramount in both training and the opportunity to display those skills. Attendees walk in on the same

level as the stage, ascending through the rows to their seats. Where other venues may make a clear partition between the stars and the viewers, the MAC set up lends itself to a level of comfort for those just beginning their artistic journey.

Executive Director Maggie O’Brien notes that in the MAC’s history she has seen several of its students go on to prestigious performing arts schools. Others have come back and become instructors themselves, feeding that artistic cycle for the next generation.

“Everybody who comes through here just seems to have a great experience,” Brustowicz said. “And if you try one thing, then hopefully you’re going to try something else, or if it’s you with your kid, your kids are going to continue to grow up through here. The entry point for so many families is the kids programs, but we want to do stuff

for the adults too.”

Brustowicz makes it clear that passions can be found at any stage in life. Learning the skills of painting does not require the student to turn around and monetize their skills. “You see so many folks come in who may not have tried something like that previously, and now are at a later stage in life discovering a new passion and doing something new and exciting for them, which is awesome,” he said. “There’s very talented people around here.”

The MAC may be a nonprofit, but it still has to keep the bills paid and the lights illuminating the stage. Sponsorships from local businesses serve as important partnerships and Brustowicz extols the Middletown community for the amount of support it provides for the Center’s mission.

This in turn allows them to support others. The orchestra that performs in the theater, plays for the love and passion of it, and uses this space free of charge.

“I think success is defined not just by registrations, but just the experience that people have while they’re here,” Brustowicz said. “These guys, they play for free, like they’re just here, we don’t charge them rent to play. They’re just hanging out and playing and having a great time and it’s awesome. It’s good for them. It’s good for us. It’s good for any person who randomly walks in just because it’s enjoyable and the arts are important. And I think people tend to forget that.”

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5 Great Spots to Take Mom for Mother’s Day

BY RYAN LOUGHLIN

It’s May, which means the big day honoring the official MVP of the family is coming up, but that also means it’s your job to come up with a fabulous spot to take her to celebrate. That can be a stressful task, but fret not, as we’re here to save the day with a lineup of five places that are sure to leave all your favorite moms, grandmoms and matriarchs smiling from ear to ear.

Though it often gets overshadowed by Asbury Park, its hip neighbor to the north, we can’t think of a lovelier place to spend a day with Mom than Main Avenue in Ocean Grove. Like a real-life version of Disneyland’s Main Street U.S.A., Main Avenue boasts a picturesque block filled with quaint shops, restaurants, art galleries and bakeries, each dripping with old-fashioned charm and the classic Victorian architecture that has been a staple of the town since it was founded. Start out by grabbing a fabulous coffee or latte at Odessey Coffee, before heading across the street for a heavenly vanilla cream-filled donut at Ocean Grove Bake Shoppe. Wan1 2

MEEMOM’S IN MIDDLETOWN

On Mother’s Day, it’s hard to go wrong with a spot that is not only named after the owner’s grandmother, but even has the word “mom” right in the name. And it’s even harder to go wrong when you have a menu as fun as the one at Meemom’s in Middletown. Known for offering more than 20 different versions of their signature French Toast, it’s worth skipping the predictable breakfast in bed this year and instead getting Mom a plate of their incredible French Cakes, which consist of two thick pieces of French toast dipped in pancake batter, fried and topped with cinnamon and powdered sugar. Meemoms.com

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der the shops and let Mom pick out a few knick-knacks or a piece of framed artwork from a local artist before heading up the street for a pleasant stroll down the boardwalk. OdesseyCoffee.net

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618 RESTAURANT IN FREEHOLD

618 in Freehold is a fantastic spot to head for brunch this Mother’s Day. While their menu of new American dishes is a winner no matter what day you choose to dine there, on Mother’s Day they will offer a special prix fixe Mother’s Day Brunch Buffet that’s sure to please everyone at the table, including the guest of honor. For $69.95 ($24.95 for kids 4-12), guests can indulge in a luxurious spread of breakfast items, such as Cinnamon Vanilla Brioche French Toast, made-to-order omelets, and various bagels, muffins and breakfast sweets; while those in the mood for lunch can enjoy savory dishes like Herb-seared Salmon in a white wine chive butter sauce or Chicken breast with portobellos, marsala, rosemary and shallots; in addition to a carving station, pasta dishes and much more. Seatings are at 11 a.m. And 1:30 p.m. Reservations required. 618NJ.com

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SWEET TEASE TEA ROOM IN BELMAR

Those looking to take Mom for a lovely girls day out, can head to Sweet Tease Tea Room in Belmar. While they are not open on Mother’s Day itself, on Saturday, May 11, they will be hosting three separate seatings (11 a.m., 1 p.m., and 3 p.m.) for their five-course Mother’s Day Tea Party. Reservations are $50 per person or $25 for guests under 10 years old. Guests will enjoy pots of tea along with finger sandwiches, various sweets and scones and more. SweetTeaseTeaRoom.com

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MONMOUTH PARK IN OCEANPORT

The annual Mother’s Day @ the Track event returns this year at Monmouth Park. All ladies will enjoy complimentary admission as well as free family fun day activities, including face painting, pony rides, clowns and a bounce house from noon to 4 p.m. in the picnic area. The first 1,000 moms to enter will receive a free carnation courtesy of In the Garden Flowers. Guests can pack a picnic, or enjoy a special Mother’s Day brunch in the Dining Club and Turf Club before watching the races. For reservations call 732-571-5459. MonmouthPark.com

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Clean Living

Family bonds are at the heart of Lincroft Soap Co.’s artisanal products

BY REBECCA KING

Looking at the perfectly rustic slabs of soap offered by Lincroft Soap Co., you’d likely assume they were the work of a lifelong soap maker. The muted mauve and silky, cream-colored soaps look right at home on farmers market stands and the shelves of fancy organic grocers.

So at home, you’d never know that nearly five years ago, this well-curated body care line was developed through midnight experimenting in a garage by harried parents of three.

William and Angela Smith are the brains and muscle behind Lincroft Soap Co. William is a healthcare worker, former personal trainer, and the author of 14 wellness books. Angela is a school guidance counselor. In other words – they hardly envisioned themselves starting a soap company in the middle of a global pandemic.

“From 2020 to 2022, we’d be up in the garage at night making soap with gowns and masks on,” said William Smith. “Our neighbors would walk by and ask, ‘What are you doing in there?”

But, they learned fast. Their cold-processed soaps in scents like lavender and amber peony are now sold

online and in local stores like Green’s Natural Market. (The cold processing requires a curing period of about 72 hours and uses no external heat, leaving the soap’s organic ingredients like olive oil, shea butter, and coconut intact. Smith said the process makes the soap more durable with a richer feel and better lather.) Their unscented castile soap (a plant-based cleaner that removes toxins and chemicals) is available at District Refillery & Co. in Point Pleasant. And their inventive, family-designed GrabNHold soap, made in a proprietary grooved mold with notches for your fingers to grasp firmly onto the bar, is a favorite among local customers. The grip, said Smith, allows “users with gripping issues such as arthritis, carpal tunnel, or dexterity detriments to shower more safely.”

Lincrof Soap Co. also sells natural deodorant and a buttery lip balm that is a favorite of Smith’s.

“I’d put it up against any company’s lip balm,” he said.

ALL THE IN FAMILY

Smith credits his “big Irish family” — we’re talking grandparents with eight kids, 27 grandchildren and 10

great-grandchildren — with inspiring the family brand. Smith’s grandfather William Corley, a decorated World War II veteran, was a former resident of Lincroft by way of Staten Island. Smith’s grandmother Olive was a creative force in the family. A piano virtuoso, knitter and fantastic home cook, Olive is referred to by the family as the “OC” – the Original Creator.

Olive also inspired the creation of the GrabNHold soap. At 80 years old, Olive kept dropping slippery bars of soap, inspiring her sons – Smith’s uncles – Tim and Jack to start working on a soap that could be easily gripped by their mother. Their work began in the early 2010s, but the product needed to go through a lengthy process of proof of concept both with recipes and design. In 2019, they asked Smith if he and Angela would like to take a shot at turning the GrabNHold design idea into a functioning business.

“You know what they say,” said Smith. “‘If you want something done, try giving it to the two busiest people you know’.”

When the Smiths took over, they had some starter recipes and minimal equipment from their family. They had to develop a silicone model sleeve that would peel off the soap in the proprietary GrabNHold shape.

“My cousin Kevin helped with the concept,” said Smith. “We would meet on Sunday morning in Yonkers, New York, at a strip mall, and he’d give me some prototypes.”

SOAKING IT IN

Angela “is very much the chemist,” said Smith, while he handles the sales and marketing aspect of the business. As Angela concocted different formulas, mixing up batches of nourishing mango lip balm and working with essential oils to develop new scents, Smith went to business classes at the Small Business Economic Development Center at Brookdale Community College and signed up for craft markets throughout Monmouth County. Lincroft Soap Co. officially opened in February of 2021. By early 2023, the company’s products were sold in 17 local stores.

Most of Lincroft Soap Co.’s products are still made in a dedicated space in the Smiths’ home, though they

are quickly outgrowing their current setup. They’re in the process of scaling up and finding the right partners to expand their brand, said Smith.

“This is a pivotal year for us,” he added. They’re also hoping to supply more refilleries – stores where people can bring old containers and spray bottles to refill without creating any new plastic waste – to minimize their carbon footprint.

Smith noted, “Our preference is to sell ‘naked’ bars without packaging but the retail stores do require packaging with UPC codes in most instances. Packaging is by far one of the biggest obstacles for small business to break into a larger retailer.”

Smith is excited for the future, as they carefully grow their business and develop new products.

“All of the recipes are still ours, but we’re working to be able to serve our customers in a more thoughtful way,” he said.

“We’re not a business if we can’t provide highquality products to our customers, and that’s what we always aim to do.”

Go to lincroftsoapco. com for more information.

5 SPOTS to Dine and Drink Al Fresco 1

BY RYAN LOUGHLIN

Is there anything better on a sunny Saturday day in the spring than heading to a fabulous bar or restaurant and enjoying a few drinks on the patio and maybe an app or two?

The lovely temps in May allow us to do just that, and luckily Monmouth County is packed with great spots to bask in the al fresco experience. Here are five of our favorites.

MARINA GRILL, BELMAR

This gorgeous restaurant sits right on the Shark River in Belmar and its sprawling outdoor space is second to none. The views are incredible whether you choose to enjoy them from a table or belly up to the bar for a livelier experience. Even those sitting inside can get a touch of the warm breezes as the restaurant boasts a series of garage door-style walls that can be opened when Mother Nature allows. Outside, a few blood orange margaritas for you and your friends are sure to go down smooth as will a pitcher or two of their awesome white sangria. Pair either with a few plates of locally caught clams from the raw bar or a pile of fresh ahi tuna nachos and you’ve got an afternoon worthy of anyone’s envy. MarinaGrilleNJ.com

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BAHR’S LANDING, HIGHLANDS

With more than 100 years in business, Bahr’s Landing has more than earned its stripes. Not only does it serve possibly THE best seafood anywhere on the Jersey Shore, but it’s serene waterfront views and old school nautical vibe make it an absolute joy to visit anytime. But when the weather warms up, the outdoor deck is the place to be, and frankly, we can’t come up with a better spot to enjoy a cold IPA and a cup of some of the world’s tastiest clam chowder than right here. Bonus for boat owners, you can arrive by sea and dock and dine! BahrsLanding.com

BOND STREET BAR, ASBURY PARK

A wonderfully grungy dive bar, Asbury Park’s Bond Street Bar is a true gem. It’s well weathered interior is a great place to belly up for a beer and a shot any time of year, but when spring hits, we love to head out to the handful of tables right on the sidewalk for some of the finest people watching anywhere in the state. Don’t sleep on the menu here either, as the kitchen puts out a killer selection of sandwiches, burgers and bar munchies. An order of their fabulous beer-battered onion rings is never a mistake, nor is choosing any of the 6 superb grilled cheese sandwiches that take up their own subsection of the menu (we are partial to the frizzled onion, bacon and cheddar variety.) BondStreetAP.com

RED ROCK TAP + GRILL, RED BANK

Hanging out at the patio at Red Rock Tap + Grill always manages to feel like you scored an invite to a fabulous party where something exciting is about to happen at any minute. The crowd is friendly and lively, the beers are always flowing and you can even bring your dog should he or she not want to miss out on all the fun. Red Bank has a lot of great spaces, but few are as enjoyable on a beautiful night as this. Grab a seat at one of the many picnic tables that scatter the space and watch one of the live bands perform on the outdoor stage or you can catch the game on one of many TVs that flank the bars. RedRockRB.com

METROPOLITAN CAFE, FREEHOLD

Upscale, yet casual, hip yet approachable, Metropolitan Café in Freehold checks a lot of boxes all at once. Situated in the hubbub of Main Street, the outdoor space in front of the brick exterior is covered, shielding you from the occasional sprinkle should it pop up, and serves as a relaxing and excellent location to kick back with a martini after a particularly obnoxious week at work. Its menu focuses on New American classics with a pacific rim flare, with standouts including the filet mignon spring rolls, duck quesadillas and their signature calamari and shrimp with sesame seeds. Sushi lovers can high-five over a long list of apps and specialty rolls like the awesome “Rock and Roll,” made with shrimp tempura and cream cheese topped with spicy tuna. MetroCafeNJ.com 3 4 5

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MONMOUTH MOMS SPRING

FESTIVAL AT BELL WORKS

Enjoy a full day of fun where you will find something for everyone! Over 80 vendors and a Touch –a-Truck outdoor zone for the kids. The event runs from 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. 101 Crawfords Corner Road, Holmdel. For more information, visit www.themonmouthmoms.com.

SATURDAY, MAY 4

OCEAN GROVE SPRING FLING

Enjoy this classic arts & crafts show from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Admission is free. 45 Pilgrim Pathway, Ocean Grove For more information visit www.oceangrovenj.com.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 4 AND 5

HANDS ON HISTORY AT HISTORIC LONGSTREET FARM

Spend the day exploring historic items at the farm from noon to 4:30 p.m. 44 Longstreet Road, Holmdel. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth. nj.us.

SUNDAY, MAY 5

THE SPRING “LITTLE SIT” AT SANDY HOOK

Stop by anytime from 7 a.m. – 2 p.m. and search for as many species of birds as you can during spring migration. Spermaceti Cove, 128 South Hartshorne Drive, Highlands.

For more information, visit www.monmouthaudubon.org.

FRIDAY, MAY 10

SCAN/SENIOR CITIZENS ACTIVITIES NETWORK’S

6TH ANNUAL SENIOR EXPO & FASHION SHOW

On Friday, May 10, at the Monmouth Mall in front of Macy’s from 11 a.m.3 p.m. over 45 vendors showcasing products, services and healthy lifestyles for the senior community and their caregivers. The Fashion Show begins at 1:30 p.m. with models age 55+ walking the runway in fashions by Macy’s personal stylist and hosted by 94.3 The Point Morning Show Hosts, Lou Russo & Michele Pilenza. SCANNJ.org

SATURDAY, MAY 11

THE CREATIVE ARTS FESTIVAL

Enjoy the work of artists and fine crafters from all different mediums from 10 a.m.4 p.m. Admission and parking are free. Thompson Park 805 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft

For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 11 AND 12

ASBURY PARK

SPRING BAZAAR 2024

Enjoy a weekend of shopping and music in the Grand Arcade of Convention Hall. Noon – 5:00 p.m. 1300 Ocean Ave.,

Asbury Park. For more information, visit www.asburyparkbazaar.com.

SUNDAY, MAY 12

PLANT A SUNFLOWER

AT HISTORIC LONGSTREET FARM

Celebrate Spring by helping the staff plant this year’s sunflower field, then return in the fall for the harvest and bring one home. 44 Longstreet Road, Holmdel. Noon – 2:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth. nj.us.

WEDNESDAY, MAY 15

CLIMB TIME

AT SHARK RIVER PARK

Come on over to Shark River Park and climb the 25’ portable climbing wall. 3- 6 p.m. Open to ages 8 and up, free. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

SATURDAY, MAY 18

VINTAGE CAR SHOW IN OCEAN GROVE

Enjoy live music as you peruse a lineup of classic cars from the good old days.

10 a.m. – 3 p.m. Please bring a canned good or a $5 donation to benefit St. Paul’s Food Pantry - 81 Main Ave. Ocean Grove

For more information, visit www.oceangrovenj.com.

SATURDAY, MAY 19

SPRING MUSIC AT COFFEE CORRAL

Enjoy live music with a cup of coffee

10 a.m. – 1 p.m.

For more information, visit www.redbankgreen.com.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 25 AND 26

CANOE RENTALS AT THOMPSON PARK

Enjoy a day on Marlu Lake in a canoe, all equipment is provided. The cost is $15 per boat for 1-3 people and 2 hours of canoeing.

805 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft

For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

Dinner Show

A roundup of must-do events happening at local restaurants this month

Thursday, May 9

Restaurant: The Rum Runner

Location: Sea Bright

Champaign Social from 6-8 p.m. Call 732-842-2894 for more information.

Friday, May 10

Restaurant: Triumph Restaurant and Brewery

Location: Red Bank

Cat Boy Sound performs live from 8:30-11:30 p.m.

Sunday, May 12

Restaurant: 618

Location: Freehold Township

Mother’s Day Brunch Buffet – 11 a.m. seating and 1:30 p.m. seating. Visit 618nj.com for more information.

Thursday, May 16

Restaurant: Tim McLoone’s Supper Club

Location: Asbury Park

A Fundraiser to Benefit Holiday Express with The Jersey Shore Medium Linda Shields – 7 p.m. Visit TimMcLoonesSupperClub. com for more information.

Thursdays, May 16, 23, 30

Restaurant: The Columns

Location: Avon-By-The-Sea Lobsterpalooza – 5 p.m. start. Live music and several chances to win free lobster dinners. For more information, go to TheColumnsNJ.com.

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Community Commentary

We ask a question, you tell us the answer. Simple as that.

Q: With the weather warming up, there is so much to do in Monmouth County as summer nears. We know what things we are excited for, but we want to hear from YOU. What are you most looking forward to doing this summer in Monmouth County? Could it be a concert? An annual sporting event you look forward to each year? A festival? An al fresco dinner at a seasonal spot? Tell us what you can’t wait to do!

A: What am I most looking forward to doing this summer in Monmouth County? That’s a cinch to answer – the Fair Haven Fireman’s Fair, of course! There is no better way to close out the summer than at this amazing Fair Haven tradition. The Fireman’s Fair is a wonderful opportunity to connect with friends and neighbors, test your skills at the game booths, indulge in the great food offerings, and enjoy the rides – even the Zipper – if you are brave enough! And best of all, the event is an amazing opportunity to support the Fair Haven Fire Department and First Aid Squad! As I did last year, I am looking forward to supporting the Fireman’s Fair as a volunteer worker. This time, I’ll make sure to wear my boots while working the Frog Bog! — Neil Blecher of Fair Haven

OUR QUESTION FOR NEXT MONTH

Did you watch the solar eclipse? Were you excited to see it? If you had the chance to check it out, where were you, with whom did you watch it with and did it live up to your expectations?

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Brookdale Community College Welcomes Summer Deaver

as Director of Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center

Brookdale Community College has announced the appointment of Summer Deaver as the Director of the Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center. With an extensive wellness, mindfulness, and leadership background, Deaver brings a wealth of experience and a proven track record of success in holistic health programming and community engagement.

“I feel so grateful to be here,” said Deaver. “There’s just such an amazing amount of wellness already happening.”

Summer Deaver, a seasoned professional in the field of holistic wellness, has dedicated over two decades to the development of wellness programs,

All Saints Annual Auction to Return May 18

All Saints’ Memorial Church (a/k/a The Stone Church) in Atlantic Highlands will present its annual auction 5:30 p.m. Saturday, May 18. Folks can come join for a lively night of fun, food and festive beverages while bidding on a wide array of fabulous silent and new and unique auction items including gourmet, beauty and entertaining baskets and certificates to popular local restaurants, all leading up to our live auction which will feature getaways, tickets to sporting events, cooking demonstrations and more.

Tickets for this event are $40 per person. For reservations or for more information, go to www. allsaintsnavesink.org

leadership in yoga and mindfulness education, and strategic planning for wellness organizations. Her experience spans multiple roles, including Executive Director of Yoga Peace Kula, where she led a team serving a community of 5,000, and Chief of Staff at the Marilyn Group, where she was instrumental in executing strategic initiatives across five companies, significantly boosting brand visibility and revenue growth.

Deaver’s holistic approach to wellness, combined with her innovative program design skills, has led to the development of impactful wellness platforms and initiatives. Her leadership at the Seven Arrows Retreat + Farm and Greenhouse Holistic, among others, showcases her ability to foster community, inspire teams, and manage large-scale operations with a focus on sustainable growth and holistic health education.

Dr. David M. Stout, President of Brookdale Community College, expressed his enthusiasm for Deaver’s appointment. He stated, “Summer’s impressive background in holistic wellness, paired with her visionary leadership and communitybuilding skills, makes her an ideal choice to lead the Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center. We are excited to see how her innovative approaches and deep commitment to holistic health will enrich our community and advance the center’s mission.”

Deaver’s vision is to cultivate a future in which the Wellness Center’s offerings are enhanced by incorporating the eight dimensions of wellness, aiming to equip individuals with crucial life skills. This approach acknowledges the intertwined nature of physical and financial health with our mental wellbeing, promoting a comprehensive perspective on wellness.

On her appointment, Deaver said, “I am thrilled to join Brookdale Community College and lead the Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center. It is an honor to contribute to the wellness journey of our community and I look forward to collaborating with the talented team at Brookdale and the broader community to create a space where wellness is accessible to all.”

Deaver’s appointment is effective immediately, and she is poised to enhance the holistic wellness offerings at Brookdale Community College, fostering an environment of health, mindfulness, and community engagement for all students, employees, and the community.

For more information about the Caroline Huber Holistic Wellness Center at Brookdale Community College, please visit brookdalecc.edu/wellness-center.

All Saints (The Stone Church) Parish House

BIZBEAT

James Yarosh Associates Fine Art Gallery presents HER STORY

A guide to what’s new in Monmouth County’s small businesses

This new exhibition (which opened April 6 and runs through Sept. 2) activates a dialogue between two great female humanistic expressionists of the last century. Located at 45 East Main Street (Rt.520) in Historic Holmdel Village.

Loaded Spoon announces new Executive Chef and Culinary Director

The Loaded Spoon in Freehold is thrilled to announce the appointment of Neil West as its new Executive Chef and Culinary Director. With decades of culinary expertise, West brings a wealth of knowledge and passion to his new role. Chef West’s focus is to elevate the overall dining experience at The Loaded Spoon, to entice both new and returning patrons with his cuisine. Chef West’s vision is clear: “to create a menu that sparks conversation and leaves guests eagerly anticipating their next visit.”

Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce announces appointment of two new board members

The Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce recently announced the appointment of two new members of the Board of Directors. The newly appointed members are Andrew Harris from Liberty Insurance Associates and Kelly Power from Absolute Home Mortgage Corporation, each of whom bring extensive knowledge

of business development and program management to EMACC.

CSAV Systems expands

On Tuesday, April 9, CSAV Systems president Glen J. Dalakian hosted an official ribbon cutting in recognition of the expansion of their office by adopting a new building. The event was held on the outdoor patio in front of 295 NJ-34 in Colts Neck. Founded in 2005, CSAV Systems has grown to be a leader in the professional sound, video, and teleconferencing industry.

Earth Treasures Jewelers celebrates golden anniversary

Earth Treasures Jewelers in Eatontown is proud and humbled to announce that 2024 marks their 50th year in business. In honor of this occasion, they will be holding a storewide sale from now through May 11. For five decades, the business has consistently established a reputation for expertise, knowledge and a customercentric approach. This commitment has empowered them to play a meaningful role in helping the local community create lasting memories as they celebrate life’s biggest moments.

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First Race 12:50pm

Opening Day

Saturday, May 11

Mother’s Day @ The Track

Sunday, May 12

• FREE Admission for all Ladies

• FREE Flower to First 1,000 Moms (courtesy of In The Garden Flowers)

• Enter Mom to Win Beach Boys Tickets

Jersey Shore Food Truck Festival

May 25-27

• SAVE 15% IN ADVANCE Use Promo Code: FoodTrucks24 at seatgeek.com/monmouth

Middletown Recognizes Honorable Females for Women’s History Month

At the Township Committee Meeting in Middletown on March 4, Mayor Tony Perry swore in the first female judge in Middletown’s history and presented the Women’s History Month proclamation to Judge Clark, alongside other female Monmouth County leaders.

The Township Committee also recognized Middletown High School South junior Thea Rowland for becoming the 2024 NJSIAA Wrestling Female Individual State Champion in her weight class.

Thea has been chasing this dream since 6th grade and she is the first female from the school to capture this title — a title that hasn’t been won since 1994.

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