FORGIVENESS To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that prisoner was you – Lewis B. Smedes
My mother’s motto was always ‘to forgive and forget’. For her, it was simple and she stood beside this motto for her entire life. Me … well, I struggle but am definitely wrapping my head around letting go and moving forward. It’s not easy, especially if it seems like the damage is a greater outcome than what may have actually been intended. What I have come to realize is that ‘forgiveness’ has a power all on its own. It is deep seeded, under our scaly wounds and surface trauma; you can find it if you go looking for it and most of the time it is an easy pill to swallow. This is another lesson in taking the high road and celebrating the kindness that you can share versus the negative impact our angers can leave on others. When on the other end of forgiveness, it is time to truly consider how lucky you are and what motivated you to direct this behaviour towards others! Try to make time to practice forgiveness ~