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FEATURES
6 WALLY LAKE FEST
W ally Lake Fest is now in its 10th year celebrating beautiful Lake Wallenpaupack and the surrounding lake region. The last weekend in August promises endless fun for people of all ages with exciting activities and events scheduled August 23rd through the 25th.
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ROD OF IRON FREEDOM FESTIVAL The Rod of Iron Freedom Festival taking place on October 12 and 13 at Kahr Arms/Tommy Gun Warehouse in Greeley, PA is pleased to present Amanda Suffecool and the REALIZE Concealed Carry Fashion Show.
12 POCONO MOUNTAIN HIGH
The songs of country music legend John Denver, such as Rocky Mountain High, Annie’s Song and Sunshine on My Shoulders, will come alive at Woodloch Pines Night Club this September 8th, when acclaimed tribute artist Jim Curry takes the stage for the Wayne Memorial Hospital Auxiliary.
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This image & cover image courtesy of Wally Lake Fest – August 23-25.
WORDS FROM THE TEAM
24 BOOK REVIEW
10 FAIR WARNING
26 POCONO SECRETS
14 DISASTER BLASTER
28 OUTDOOR RAMBLINGS
16 LIVING GREEN
30 PETS
18 MRS. DOGOOD
32 BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE
20 PRISON REFLECTIONS
34 AREA EVENTS
22 MONEY
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resident • publisher • editor in chief deborah bailey production manager meica drake account representatives barry weiss • dwight gregory editorial correction services kay marks assignment writer allison mowatt contributing writers terry mooney, Reflections of a Prison Inmate arthur middleton, MD, FAPA, Behavioral Medicine michael krupa, Finance josh sheard, Finance terri schlichenmeyer, Book Review la guzda, Pocono Secrets arnie milidantri, Classic Cars bill deaton, Outdoor Ramblings pike/wayne conservation partnership, Living Green
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WHAT A DILEMMA To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk rejection. To place your visions before the crowd is to risk ridicule. To love is to risk not being loved in return. **To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. We may avoid suffering and sorrow, but we cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love or know GOD. Chained by our own self-assurances, we are a slave. We have forfeited our freedom. Only the person who dares to take risks and to trust in their GOD will ever be made FREE.
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In 1997, Rev. Edwin E. Bailey, father of the editor, gave this poem to his daughter 8 days before he had a stroke and 3 weeks before he died. The poem was adapted from works by Leo Buscaglia. Edwin hand wrote this on a scrap of paper and gave it to his daughter, Deborah, saying the words, “Someday you’ll understand these words and use them. God bless sweetheart.” **These words were used in making the decision to purchase Connections Magazine in 2002. CONNECTIONS COPYRIGHTED 2007
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ow! No matter your age or whether you're a resident or visitor, August is the month to get out and do something in our beautiful area. Flip through CM’s August pages to see all there is to do before summer comes to a close. From fairs to music festivals to Wally Lake Fest, whatever your age or interest, there IS something for YOU: to go to, to participate in or to simply sit back, relax and enjoy! Plus, look for our GOOD STUFF logo throughout the pages for interesting reads or great things to do! Looking forward into September, we’ll have more concerts, entertainment and fall festivals to connect you with. The fall season is full of GOOD STUFF for you to enjoy! Remember, CM is always your #1 source for all our area has to offer! For your convenience, if you can’t find a copy on the shelves, CM is also available to read and share on our website. www.connections-magazine.com. CM Team 570.647.0085 cmag@ptd.net
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WALLY LAKE FEST
August 23-25, 2019
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ally Lake Fest is now in its 10th year celebrating beautiful Lake Wallenpaupack and the surrounding lake region. The last weekend in August promises endless fun for people of all ages with exciting activities and events scheduled August 23rd through the 25th. Wally Lake Fest honors the “big lake’s” natural scenic beauty and all recreational activities from boating to biking and much more. Some of the fun, outdoor adventures happen right on the lake or beach while others take place in downtown Hawley and other locations near the lake. Whether riding bikes or sailboats, outdoor enthusiasts can look forward to three full days of all Wally Lake Fest has to offer. There will be the 8th Annual Ride for the Lake with a 41-mile motorcycle ride around the lake, stand-up paddle board and kayak demo, Wallypalooza with live music on a floating stage on the lake, sailboat rides, a sailboat regatta featuring the Paupack Sailing Club, a Boat, Watercraft and Outdoor Show, an open market fair, a Tour de Towpath Bike Ride and much more!
Free shuttle buses will run throughout the weekend making a variety of stops in order to make it possible for everyone to get the most out of their Wally Lake Fest experience. Park your car once and take the free shuttle around to many different activities. Wally Lake Fest is proudly hosted by the Downtown Hawley Partnership and presented by Lighthouse Harbor Marina, Silver Birches, Gresham’s Chop House and the Pocono Mountains Visitors Bureau. Pick up a Wally Lake Fest brochure at the Lake Wallenpaupack Visitors Center and other area businesses. The brochure lists the complete schedule of events for the entire weekend. Additional details and daily updates are posted on the website WallyLakeFest.com as well as Facebook and Instagram @wallylakefest. Pocono Mountains visitor information is available online at PoconoMountains.com or by phone at (570) 421-5791. Follow @PoconoTourismPR on Twitter to stay current with up-to-date information. Established in 1934, the Pocono Mountains Visitors Bureau is a private, non-profit membership organization. The PMVB is the official destination marketing organization for the four counties of Wayne, Pike, Monroe, and Carbon in Northeastern Pennsylvania.
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FREEDOM FESTIVAL
Rod of Iron Freedom Festival Presents
Amanda Suffecool & the REALIZE Concealed Carrying Fashion Show
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he Rod of Iron Freedom Festival taking place on October 12 and 13 at Kahr Arms/Tommy Gun Warehouse in Greeley, PA is pleased to present Amanda Suffecool and the REALIZE Concealed Carry Fashion Show. Amanda Suffecool is not only the host and producer of EyeOnTheTargetRadio, which is a nationally syndicated pro 2nd Amendment radio show, she is the face of Concealed Carry Fashion Shows across the nation. On the radio, Amanda and her co-host Rob Campbell talk the technical aspects of firearms at a level that non-technical gun users can absorb. They answer questions, talk to leaders in the firearms world to bring you the latest in legislation, the changes in technology and the advancements in training, while sharing the general fun a trip to the range can be. The show originated in Ohio in 2010 and is now heard from the west coast of Washington State & Oregon to Ohio and multiple states in between. As trainers, collectors and firearm enthusiasts - Rob and Amanda have spent years answering gun questions from their students and their friends. The EyeOnTheTargetRadio show educates interested current and potential firearms owners on a variety of topics from firearms selection, history of the gun, current events and interesting guests to political aspects of defending the second amendment live on the radio and archived in podcast format. In 2014, driven by questions from concealed carry holders such as, ‘Where do the instructors hide their guns?’ The first concealed carry fash-
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ion show concept was born, and a show was produced in Independence, Ohio. From there, history was made, or at least the start of concealed carry fashion shows making waves across the country. Amanda’s shows have been featured on VICE in the documentary, “Packing Heat in Heels”, and HBO featured the 2018 Chicago fashion show that kicked off the Second Amendment Foundation’s (SAF.org) Gun Rights Policy Conference (GRPC). There are a total of 5 concealed carry fashion shows on the 2019 schedule of the Ohio-based 501c3 REALIZE firearms awareness coalition. (REALIZEfac.com) Locally, the fashion show is scheduled each afternoon at 3:30 at the October 12 and 13 event Rod of Iron Freedom Festival. Concealed Carry Fashion Shows are designed to show you what you cannot see, the concealed firearm. In the search for the perfect carry options, there are many things to consider, including style of dress, body style and the size of the firearm itself. With the variety and intricacies of female clothing options, adding a gun to the mix adds complexity. We are living in a time where female – and male- carry options are many. Purse, clothing, undergarment, holster carry are now all options in good quality gear. The show features bags and briefcases from Asfaleia Designer, pants from 5.11 and leggings and tops from Tactica Fashion, among other designers. Local models will be having a great time hamming it up on the runway and demonstrating safe and effective methods of carry.
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FUNDRAISER
The songs of country music legend John Denver, such as Rocky Mountain High, Annie’s Song and Sunshine on My Shoulders, will come alive at Woodloch Pines’ Night Club this September 8th, when acclaimed tribute artist Jim Curry takes the stage for the Wayne Memorial Hospital Auxiliary. Curry has drawn remarkable reviews for his uncanny talent for mirroring both Denver’s voice and the late singer’s clean-cut boyish looks. Curry sang some of Denver’s most popular songs in the CBS made for TV movie “Take Me Home, the John Denver Story.” He often plays with former Denver bandmates. One of them, guitar player Pete Huttlinger, describes Curry as “a real trip down memory lane.” The hospital Auxiliary has a proven track record of bringing solid tribute talent to the area since 2013, including Terry Dixon singing Patsy Cline songs, Shawn Klush as Elvis Presley, Pat Farrell honoring Billy Joel and an Eagles’ homage band. “We do a lot of research ahead of time,” says Martha Wilson, concert committee. “We go to the artist’s concerts whenever we can and report back—we have to like what we see and hear!” After John Denver’s unexpected death in 1997 and the CBS movie experience that sought to fill the void, Curry decided to produce full–length John Denver tribute concerts. Denver’s music is often described as hopeful and caring, particularly about the environment. Curry agrees. “These songs blend the images of our natural earth with a love for each other as people. The care you give to someone you love is the best care. Making that connection to our earth and to each other is the goal.”
The Wayne Memorial Hospital Auxiliary has been supporting the hospital since the first patient was admitted almost 100 years ago. Through numerous fundraising operations, such as the tribute concerts, the annual Mistletoe Ball, uniform sales, the Other Shops in Honesdale and Hawley and holiday bake sales, the Auxiliary has helped Wayne Memorial advance on many fronts. Auxiliary funds helped purchase a mammography van, helped build a helipad to support the hospital’s successful application for Level IV Trauma certification, and contributed to the purchase of a stateof-the art nurse call system for the new patient tower. “This year’s fundraising events will help us fulfill a $600,000 pledge to the hospital’s Second Century Fund over the next five years,” says Diane Fox, concert committee. Named in honor of Wayne Memorial’s centennial in 2020, the fund is a drive to raise monies to continue to staff and equip the hospital’s new patient tower. It will be used to recruit and retain providers, which will include the purchase of advanced technology and information systems. “We now have a newly renovated hospital, and we want to maintain and enhance the quality of care in the years to come,” says Wilson. “We cannot take for granted how fortunate we are to have a progressive, non-profit, hospital serving our community.” The Jim Curry show kicks off at 4pm; doors open at 3pm. Tickets are $40 and may be purchased by calling Joan at 570226-9750. Open seating and cash bar. “Want some ‘Sunshine on your shoulders?’” Wilson says with a smile, “Come see Jim Curry—you’ll be beaming!” Bottom Photo WMH Auxiliary concert committee, seated left to right: Diane Fox, Martha Wilson, Karen Hermey, Katy Wood, Linda Wlock, Kathie Carlson. Standing: Keta and Steve Kaminsky, Shirley Herr, Joan Buehl, Opal Hocker.
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TIPS FOR YOUR HOME
Cleaning Tips from the Pros!
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There isn’t much that cleaning professionals haven’t seen (and cleaned!). Here are some of their favorite tips for ensuring your home cleaning goes smoothly!
probably amazed by the amount of hair that can come off of our pets! This can be difficult and time consuming to vacuum up as well. A squeegee is a great alternative, because it is able to pull the pet hair right off of the carpet, allowing you to clean it up much more easily.
Use a lint roller to clean lamp shades
Keep organized Cleaning goes a lot faster when everything you’ll need is within reach. We recommend keeping commonly used cleaning supplies in the rooms you use them in; this way you don’t need to get everything around every time you’re going to be cleaning.
Use vinegar to clean shower head buildup Mineral deposits can be difficult to clean. Instead of trying to clean this by hand, which will be extremely time consuming, fill a zip-top bag with white vinegar, place it over your shower head, and use a rubber band to secure the bag. Allow the vinegar some time to work (at least 30 minutes to overnight depending on how much buildup is on your showerhead), and repeat if necessary.
Use a tennis ball to remove shoe scuffs Have your kids running through the house left scuffs on your floors? While scuffs can be removed while mopping, this requires a lot of elbow grease. Instead, try using a tennis ball to remove the scuffs first. You’ll likely be amazed at how easily this removes even the worst scuff marks!
Use a squeegee to remove pet hair from carpets
Lamp shades collect a tremendous amount of dust. The easiest way to get your lampshades clean is to use a lint roller. Not only will this be much faster than the multiple passes traditional cleaning would require, but throwing away the collected dust is a breeze!
Keep a toothbrush in your cleaning caddy Often overlooked, a toothbrush can be a lifesaver! Whether you’re trying to clean the sink faucet or the corner of your tub / shower, some of these areas just aren’t made for hands. Worse yet, they tend to be areas that are prone to getting dirty. Instead of struggling to get these areas clean, just get out a toothbrush instead! We hope these cleaning tips from the pros help you make short work of your cleaning tasks!
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Increase of Tick Borne
DISEASES Prompts Action By Ellen Scarisbrick
Pennsylvania leads the nation in the number of new cases of Lyme disease. One would have to look far and wide to find anyone in our area who does NOT know someone with Lyme.
Thanks to the determined efforts of concerned citizens and local politicians who have been teaming up to diligently educate area residents about tick-borne diseases (TBD), more people are understanding the threat. In response to those efforts, administrators at Wayne Memorial Hospital have established the Wayne Memorial Hospital Tick-borne Diseases Wellness Center, which opened on April 11, 2019.
Local Treatment Located within the Pike County Family Health Center, 750 Route 739, Lords Valley, nurse Harriet Loizeaux, MSN, FNP-C sees adult patients at all stages of illness from TBDs. Loizeaux has been treating patients with TBDs for over 26 years and has served as the 16 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |
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Supervisor of Communicable Diseases for the New York State Department of Health where she received formal training specific to TBDs. “It is important to remember that one tick bite can convey many diseases,” says Loizeaux. Treating multi-infected patients is complicated and can be costly. At the wellness center, most major insurances are accepted. A sliding fee scale based on income is available for those who qualify. Out-of-state insurance verification is required. The center is part of Wayne Memorial Health Centers, a federally qualified health center clinically affiliated with Wayne Memorial Health System, Inc. For an appointment call 570-775-7100.
tances to find a TBD specialist. Often those specialists do not participate with insurances and charge a lot for an initial visit. The unique wellness center created by the collaboration of the Pike and Wayne community and Wayne Memorial Hospital may well become the template for other clinics across the state as the need becomes more apparent. As Mikki Weiss, a founding member of the Pike County TBD Task Force says, “Good leaders are necessary, but with a good team you can achieve anything.”
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Ellen Scarisbrick, RT(M)(R), is a Radiologic Technologist at the Pike County Lab and Radiology of Wayne Memorial Hospital. She is a member of the Pike County Tick Borne Diseases Task Force.
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FROM THE OTHER SIDE Dear Editor, I was very nervous at the séance. My best friend, Alice Bright Light, a full blooded Chippewa Indian, held it for me. She is an excellent-evidentiary medium, but I was afraid of what I might hear. We held it because she had earlier dreamt my deceased father-in-law, The Reverend Mr. Silas Patriot DoGood, told her I should no longer be the senior pastor at The First Church of God’s Love which he founded. He also told her I should become a doctor. Ever since Alice told me her dream, I was frustrated about my future. Now we were asking my deceased father-in-law to join us from the other side to explain the dream. Alice had decided to hold the séance in the yellow school bus that was used by The Reverend Silas DoGood to start his church. He preached in it for many years before moving his congregation to the Unity Grange Hall. Alice knew the bus would be very meaningful to him. Reverend Silas DoGood sold the bus after he was finished using it as his church. It was sold several times after that. I finally discovered it being used for storage at one of our summer camps. The church purchased the bus, renovated it and turned it into our classroom for Sunday school. It now has its own foundation, electricity, heating/air conditioning and a bathroom. It is permanently situated near the entrance to the church grounds. Two weeks ago on Sunday evening at 10:00 p.m., Alice and I walked from the church to the bus carrying our lit candles. There was no moon that night so it was very dark. She didn’t want us to use any electricity in the bus which could interfere with the spiritual invitation. As I entered the bus, I smelled the burnt sage and lavender that Alice had used to smudge it. While she was doing that, I had taken the cleansing bath Alice had recommended using two cups of Celtic salt. We sat at a small round table in the middle of the bus which would normally be used as a desk for the children. Alice had covered it with a white-cotton table cloth and had placed pieces of rose quartz on it. Rose quartz is known to open the heart chakras to unconditional love and positive energy. We placed our bees-wax lighted can-
dles in the star shaped glass candle holders on the table and lit the third candle. She motioned to me to join hands, which we did. Alice prayed. “We have cleansed ourselves and erased negativity from this place to welcome Earth’s continuum of time. In its blessedness we can be with both those of us who are presently living and welcome those who are past living. Bless us with a specific visitation. We invite The Reverend Mr. Silas DoGood to join us.” Minutes went by. “We invite The Reverend Mr. Silas DoGood to join us.” Minutes went by. “We invite The Reverend Mr. Silas DoGood to join us.” It felt as though a violent wind hit the bus. Alice: “He is with us. Ask him to prove his identity.” Silence: “What was your name before you became a minister?” Alice: “My name was Claudio Maria Estrucci.” Silence: “Where were you born?” Alice: “North Street. Madison, New Jersey.” Alice did not know this information. It was him. I proceeded to ask questions. Silence: “Do you want me to stop being the senior pastor of the First Church of God’s Love?” Alice: “Yes. I want you to use my former title of pastor which you have refused out of respect for me.” I was so relieved he didn’t want me to stop my ministry at the church. Silence: “Do you want me to become a doctor? Alice: “Yes. I want you to study and become a Doctor of Theology since your education is in art.” Silence: “Thank you for believing in me. I love you.” Alice ended the séance with a prayer. Amen
The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Senior Pastor Executive Director President Chairman Choir Master (part-time) The First Church of God’s Love
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Prison Reflections
“Running on Empty” By Terry Mooney
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s quick to laugh as she is to cry, this funny, thoughtful and deep woman, a single mother of a nine year old daughter, tells a story of a mother’s abandonment, a father’s emotional neglect and a lifelong struggle to stay ahead of addiction, running on empty while trying to be the mother she never really had.
My Story I was born in Secaucus, New Jersey. You could actually see the skyline of Manhattan from our town. Not long after, we moved closer to this area because my dad wanted to buy us a house with his VA loan from his service in the army. As soon as he found out my mother was pregnant with my brother, he got a job with the union for highway construction. My mother delivered newspapers every morning, and we would go with her, still sleepy in our pajamas and covered in blankets. We had to get up so early. I do remember, when I was in kindergarten, my mother fixed my hair, put a little makeup on me and dressed me up for the father-daughter dance. I really felt like a superstar! And we had the best birthday parties back then; she always made a special cake for us. I also can remember, as young as four, my mother would drink during the day. Sometimes I would go to use the bathroom, and the door was locked. I would call out, but no one would answer, so I would pry the door open with a butter knife and find her passed out on the floor. She would throw up and then try to say I did it. But my dad knew. The drinking got worse when she started going to the bar. Dad woke us up one night to say she had gone off the road and crashed the car. We had to go see her in the hospital. I must’ve been around seven at the time. I remember crying and thinking I would see her dead, but she wasn’t dead, and then she recovered. I was always confused. She continued drinking. Another night we were being watched by the babysitter, and my dad was at work. He came home after seeing my mom at the bar. When she got home, he had to carry her into the house. I didn’t hate her; in fact, I loved her so much I just wanted her to be okay. I was always sad and scared. By the age of nine, it was all over. She met another man at the bar, left with him and didn’t come home. So I was now the lady of the house, cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry. My brother and I would get up early, my father being gone for work, and walk our little brother to the baby sitter. We would then go to the bus stop and head to school. Life just went on. My dad was always telling me I was beautiful and hugging me and being proud of me. My self-esteem came from him. But in the ninth grade when he married my stepmother, he no longer was allowed to pay attention to me. It was all about her. I started acting up, sneaking out of the house, smoking cigarettes and pot and drinking, hanging out with older kids. One day, I went to visit my mother and found her medication in the bathroom. I thought I would try her pills to see what it was like. It was a couple of different medications. I took them in school and fell asleep at my desk. When I woke up, I was sent to the nurse. They called my mom, rushed me to the hospital and pumped my stomach. I don’t know why I did it but I guess because my brother was the first born, good at everything, and my little brother was the baby, I just fell through the cracks. Maybe now they’d pay me some attention. (To Be Continued)
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Money
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eneficiary designations can provide a relatively easy way to transfer an account or insurance policy upon your death. However, if you’re not careful, missing or outdated beneficiary designations can easily cause your estate plan to go awry. We often complete these designations without giving it much thought, but they’re actually important and deserve careful attention. Here’s why: Beneficiary designations take priority over what’s in other estate planning documents, such as a will or trust.
For example, you may indicate in your will you want everything to go to your spouse after your death. However, if the beneficiary designation on your life insurance policy still names your exspouse, he or she may end up getting the proceeds.
Where you can find them Here’s a sampling of where you’ll find beneficiary designations: • Employer-sponsored retirement plans [401(k), 403(b), etc.] • IRAs • Life insurance policies • Annuities • Transfer-on-death (TOD) investment accounts Because you’re asked to designate beneficiaries on so many different accounts and insurance products, it can be difficult to keep up. However, it’s worth the effort; failing to maintain the beneficiary designation on that 401(k) from three employers ago could mean money will go to the wrong place. When you first set up your estate plan, go over all the designations you previously made and align them with your plan. After that, you should review and update them regularly – a least once a year.
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10 tips about beneficiary designations Because beneficiary designations are so important, keep these things in mind in your estate planning:
1} Remember to name beneficiaries
If you don’t name a beneficiary, one of the following could occur: • The account or policy may have to go through probate court. This process often results in unnecessary delays, additional costs, and unfavorable income tax treatment. • The agreement that controls the account or policy may provide for “default” beneficiaries. This could be helpful, but it’s possible the default beneficiaries may not be whom you intended.
both primary and contin2} Name gent beneficiaries It’s a good practice to name a “back up” or contingent beneficiary in case the primary beneficiary dies before you. Depending on your situation, you may have only a primary beneficiary. In that case, consider whether a charity (or charities) may make sense to name as the contingent beneficiary.
3} Update for life events
Review your beneficiary designations regularly and update them as needed based on major life events, such as births, deaths, marriages, and divorces.
4} Read the instructions
Beneficiary designation forms are not all alike. Don’t just fill in names – be sure to read the form carefully.
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with your will and 5} Coordinate trust Whenever you change your will or trust, be sure to talk with your attorney about your beneficiary designations. Because these designations operate independently of your other estate planning documents, it’s important to understand how the different parts of your plan work as a whole.
twice before naming 6} Think individual beneficiaries for particular assets For example, you establish three accounts of equal value and name a different child as beneficiary of each. Over the years, the accounts may grow unevenly, so the children end up getting different amounts – which is not what you originally intended.
naming your estate as 7} Avoid beneficiary If you designate a beneficiary on your 401(k), for example, it won’t have to go through probate court to be distributed to the beneficiary. If you name your estate as beneficiary, the account will have to go through probate. For IRAs and qualified retirement plans, there may also be unfavorable income tax consequences.
caution when naming a trust 8} Use as beneficiary. Consult your attorney or CPA before naming a trust as beneficiary for IRAs, qualified retirement plans, or annuities. There are situations where it makes sense to name a trust – for example if: • Your beneficiaries are minor children • You’re in a second marriage • You want to control access to funds
Even in cases like these, understand the tax consequences before you name a trust as beneficiary.
9} Be aware of tax consequences
Many assets that transfer by beneficiary designation come with special tax consequences. It’s helpful to work with an experienced tax advisor, who can help provide planning ideas for your particular situation.
disclaimers when neces10} Use sary — but be careful. Sometimes a beneficiary may actually want to decline (disclaim) assets on which they’re designated as beneficiary. Keep in mind disclaimers involve complex legal and tax issues and require careful consultation with your attorney and CPA. Trust services available through banking and trust affiliates in addition to non-affiliated companies of Wells Fargo Advisors. Wells Fargo Advisors and its affiliate do not provide tax or legal advice. Please consult with your tax and/or legal advisors before taking any action that may have tax and/or legal consequences. This article was written by Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network and provided courtesy of Michael J Krupa, Krupa Wealth Management, LLC. Honesdale, PA 570-253-0121 Investments in securities and insurance products are: NOT FDIC-INSURED/NOT BANK-GUARANTEED/MAY LOSE VALUE Investment products and services are offered through Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network, LLC (WFAFN), Member SIPC. [Practice Name] is a separate entity from WFAFN. © 2019 Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network, LLC. All rights reserved.
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Book Review YOU WANTED IT. AND YOU WANTED IT VERY MUCH.
don’t know about yet. It’s for performers we sing along with, and for songs not written. It’s for those who tried and tried until the But, ah, well, you didn’t get it. You last breath they had. worked and you begged and maybe you You’ll have to share it, but this book even saved, but you didn’t get what it was is for you. It’s “for us.” that you wanted. You were sad, but you got “The Undefeated” is one of those over it. You’ll try again, work harder, save things that’s really hard to nail down. more and, as in “The Undefeated” by It’s a quick read that may be too quick Kwame Alexander and Kadir Nelson, one for some kids; it’s over almost before it day, you’ll reach your goal. begins because author Kwame Alexander’s This book is words are spare and just for you. But it’s not very attentionsomething you have grabbing for the to share because it’s very youngest of “for the unforgetchildren. It doesn’t table,” too. It’s for help that the picthose people who ture book style opened the doors to illustrations are all kinds of new attractive, but they opportunities for aren’t particularly everyone, but they colorful or active. never became For gradefamous for it. schoolers, none of It’s for people that will matter who did whatever because “The Undeit took to get to feated” is a poem America, to thrive set to picture, and and find a home it’s inspirational for and happiness. This them, especially if book is for people they’re just learning who struggled, and about African for those who didAmerican history. n’t. But there’s a possiIt’s about peobility for those kids By Kwame Alexander ple who were that the power Illustrations by Kadir Nelson strong and were behind the illustraReviewed by Terri Schlichenmeyer admired for that tions by Kadir Nelstrength. It’s for son might be those who believed in themselves but who missed because the stories of the people in also put their faith in a higher power. It’s this book are at the end and not always for those who “tackle vision” and those with the pictures. who don’t hide their light behind anything, Adults, however, might find this book ever. to be a treasure. Alexander’s poem pulses It’s for soldiers and dancers, marchers with strength, and the artwork, from an and players, boxers and parents and kids, adult’s POV, is perfectly rendered. You may and it’s for you. It’s for Black lives that mat- recognize the people depicted – and if not, ter and for the people who never got a there’s always the back of the book. chance to know that. It’s because of the The trick, perhaps, is to carefully “unspeakable.” share this book with the child you love, Share this book for those who won’t explain, and let it spark conversation. Once be stopped, who’ll keep dreaming and kids understand, “The Undefeated” is a reaching and imagining and proving. It’s for book they’ll want very much. the athletes we know, and for the ones we
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Things To Do
TOP 10 Things To Do in August (especially when guests visit) By LA Guzda
1. Wayne County Fair – August 210. Demolition, Monster trucks, Livestock, Music, Food and MORE! Local fun for the whole family. 2. Milford’s Festival of Wood – August 3-4
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3. Hike! There are miles and miles of trails available throughout the Pocono Mountains. Shuman Point, Thunder Swamp, Prompton State Park are just a few. 4. Beer Tasting – Wallenpaupack Brewing Company, Irving Cliff and Here & Now. Make sure you have a designated driver!
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5. Lacawac Sanctuary’s 4th Annual Farm to Plate Dinner – Saturday August 10, 2019 6-9 pm $85 per person. 6. Kayak – Delaware and Lackawaxen Rivers as well as Lake Wallenpaupack and Promised Land. 7. Visit the Dorflinger Factory Museum and then stop by the Art Factory. 8. Enjoy a concert at Dorflinger-Suydam Wildflower Music Festival. 9. Bike – plenty of trails for mountain biking or enjoy the scenic route along the Towpath. 10. Wally Lake Fest – August 23-25
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Outdoor Ramblings
Family Fun at Dingmans Falls By Bill Deaton | williamjdeaton@yahoo.com
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he waterfalls of the Delaware Valley have been a prime tourist attraction for well over a century. The epic winter storm of 2018 made many of them inaccessible, and currently a few are still not open to the public. One of them that certainly is open for business is Dingmans Falls, one of the most well-known and frequently visited waterfalls in Pike County. At Dingmans and Silver Thread, a smaller waterfall that visitors encounter along the way, the trail through the ravine was improved to a boardwalk decades ago to reduce impact and provide accessibility. Thanks to the improvements, the falls became even more popular. During peak holiday and weekend periods, the parking lot can be packed, and the boardwalk jammed with sightseers. Mid-week summer evenings there can be just the opposite. On a recent sojourn, my family and just a handful of others seemingly had the place to ourselves. The walk was easy, and my pre-schooler and first-grader were able to free range without my wife and I wondering if they would take a wrong turn. There’s no elevation gain, and both falls are wheelchair and stroller accessible. A side venture up the falls can be an option and is largely staircases and more boardwalks leading to the top of the cascade. • Height of Falls: Dingmans-130 ft; Silver Thread-80 ft • Trail Length: about 0.3 mi to Dingmans Falls; 1.0 mi round-trip with climb to top • Difficulty: Easy. Boardwalk and Stairs • Visitor Center Hours: Fri: 11-5; Sat & Sun: 9-5; Labor Day 9-5 • Parking, Rest Rooms, and Water available until mid-October • Bird Watching, Hemlock Groves; and Rhododendron stands among the other natural features • Getting There: Take Exit 46 off I-84 South on US-6 East to US-209 South for 8 miles. Turn onto Dingmans Falls Rd and travel 1 mile to parking area. A rush-through walk can be accomplished in under an hour, so for a full day consider adding hikes and visits to Raymondskill and Hackers Falls nearby. However, if taking in all Dingmans Falls has to offer, it can easily turn into a good night out in the great outdoors.
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Pets
Euthanasia of a Beloved Pet Part I
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uthanasia is one of the most difficult decisions anyone can ever make for a pet who is a beloved companion. Although the decision is demanded by humanitarian obligation, it is always traumatic for the person who must finally make it. It is perhaps the ultimate heartbreak we must be willing to endure for our adored companion animal. Aside from being the right thing to do, euthanasia can be a psychological nightmare of confusion, guilt, and even final responsibility. As loving stewards, we have an unspoken covenant with our pets — that we will euthanize, if it is necessary. In the final analysis, only the owner can really understand when the time is right. And even then, emotions still make it so difficult. This is the ultimate loving act for our beloved companion animals. It is for them, regardless of the effects on us, that we must do this. But it is inevitable that we will grieve for ourselves, as well. And now we have to learn to somehow put this into some meaningful perspective. As a pet owner, none of us like to think of the day, seemingly far in the future, when we must say good-bye to our pet. Though the thought may briefly skim through our minds from time to time, we seldom dwell on it. It is natural to feel we have a lifetime to enjoy our dear pets. Unfortunately, because their lives are far shorter than ours, we must always be ready to face this terrible decision. The more you educate yourself about euthanasia — ahead of time — the less likely you will be to question the decision or procedure, after-
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ward. This can help prevent those feelings of wishing you had done some things differently, and it may relieve some of the guilt that inevitably follows. Making the decision to euthanize your pet can involve conflicting emotions.
Deciding When the Time Is Right The decision when to euthanize is as individual and personal as you and your pet are. This is a judgment only you can make, and it involves great personal courage and sacrifice. Many people fear they will not be able to recognize when the time is right. Do not hesitate to seek guidance from your veterinarian. It is good to include family members or friends who share a close bond with your pet in the decision-making process. This is a time when you will need the support of those who truly understand. Also, the Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement has six online chatrooms that a pet owner can attend and receive exceptional supervised peer support. Some important things to take into consideration when contemplating this decision may be:
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Another important consideration is, are you able to afford the cost of treatment? For some, this must be the overriding determiner. Regardless of their opinions, other people should not stand in judgment of this. In making the final decision, it may be helpful to
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weigh the good days versus the bad days. When the bad override the good, it probably is the right time. Remember, no one knows your pet better than you do. You have spent a great deal of time learning to communicate with him/her by reading the body language. Attend to what your pet may be trying to communicate. And trust what your heart tells you. Later, you may question this, but that is a natural reaction, and you should rely on your present reasoning.
Making the Appointment Once you have made the decision to euthanize your pet, the next step is making the appointment. The timing is often critical, and you may need to act quickly. Some people prefer to spend a few final days with their pet. If you do have the time to plan ahead, it is a good idea to first discuss with your veterinarian all aspects of what to expect.
Tesla 2 and a half year old Pit mix who is very playful and sweet. Tesla is good with other dogs but would do best in a home with teens+.
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Consider the time of day and the day of the week. You will need time before and after to deal with your emotions. You may need to take a day or two off from work. Do not hesitate to care for yourself. You are important. You are making this very critical decision based on what is best for your pet. Make some decisions that are the best for you, as well.
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The euthanasia procedure is typically done at the veterinarian’s office, but can also be performed at home. Your veterinarian may or may not offer this service, and if you prefer, he/she may be able to offer a referral. If not, then you have some important research and networking to do. Euthanasia is normally a quick, peaceful, and should be a virtually pain-free procedure for your pet, regardless of where it is performed.
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Palliation is medical intervention used in terminal cases. It can usually prolong life a short while, but always at great additional financial and emotional expense to the owner — as well as additional stress and suffering for the pet. Unfortunately, too often the treatment can be too aggressive and painful. Remember, pets are very good at concealing their pain and discomfort.
Helen 2 year old tabby who is very sweet but can be super shy at first. She is good with cats, older children and is house trained and would make the perfect lap cat!
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BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE
The Pursuit of
Happiness By Arthur Middleton, M.D., FAPA
We cannot be happy if we expect to live all the time at the highest peak of intensity. Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance and order and rhythm and harmony. ~Thomas Merton
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ach and every day, clinicians of all disciplines see patients for a variety of ailments, both physical and psychological in nature. The expectation is the problem will be easily identified and resolved. Many medical issues can be easily addressed and treated, but when the identification of the issue is not easily diagnosed with respect to etiology or cause, it can be accompanied by pain and suffering until proper treatment is rendered. Psychological issues are frequently complex in nature and often do not lend themselves to easy resolution, but the pain and suffering, which can be experienced, also cannot be ignored. Psychological “pain” is often a function of severe depression and anxiety. More often than not, psychological pain goes untreated. The net result is a decline in functioning; eating too much or too little, insomnia and dissatisfaction in the work environment, and one’s personal life as examples. The CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) describes the “Burden of Mental Illness” referencing Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia, and Alzheimer’s Disease as significant diseases both nationally and worldwide causing tremendous impact, not only to the individuals affected, but economically as well. A more uncommon term “Frequent Mental Distress” is used to address “quality of life.” As addressed by the CDC, Frequent Mental Distress (FMD) is defined based on the response to the following quality of life question: “now thinking about your mental health, which includes stress, depression, and problems with emotions, for how many days during the past thirty days, was your mental health not good?”
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According to the CDC, Frequent Mental Distress is defined as experiencing fourteen or more days of poor mental health in the past thirty days. Statistically, using reports from two periods; 1993-2001 and 2003-2006, 9.4% of U.S. adults experienced Frequent Mental Distress during the identified years. The Miriam-Webster Dictionary defines happiness as “a state of well-being and contentment: joy.” While it may not be a goal we consciously focus on, it is clearly a state of mind that is desirable, but what exactly is happiness? Is it the opposite of poor mental health or is it something entirely different? In a New York Times article by Daniel M. Haybron titled: “Happiness and Its Discontents” (April 13, 2014), the author takes on the issue of happiness, asking the question: “What does it mean to be happy?” The author goes on to describe the complexity of this issue, recognizing that it is possible to be satisfied with one’s life “even if you feel bad.” The author comes to the conclusion that happiness is a “complex emotional phenomenon,” which he states is “emotional well-being.” It may come as a surprise to some, but it has been possible to identify brain activity that is directly linked to several common emotions, including happiness. In a study that was reported in the American Journal of Psychiatry (1997 July; 154(7): 926-33), it was demonstrated that three emotions; happiness, sadness and disgust, were actually measured in the brain. Using “positron emission tomography,” it was possible to show that happiness was unique as it was associated with greater activity in a particular region of the brain- the ventral mesial frontal cortex. Does this mean happiness can be
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achieved by finding a means to stimulate areas of the brain, perhaps by medication? Is happiness the opposite of clinical depression? And finally, do antidepressants make you happy? Traditional psychotherapies include CBT or Cognitive Behavioral Psycho-therapy and Psychodynamic Psycho-therapy. Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) is acknowledged in current psychiatric texts as a newer form of psychotherapy that warrants further study, but has demonstrated effectiveness. As described in a Health-Day release (April 21, 2015) from MedlinePlus (National Institutes of Health / U.S. Library of Medicine), this particular therapy is intended to train the mind and body to respond more constructively to experiences in hopes of preventing another slide into depression. In a Reuters’ press release titled: Mindfulness Therapy as Good as Medication for Chronic Depression – Study (April 20, 2015), the author, Kate Kelland, described how this particular therapy is being used to treat patients, successfully, for treatment of recurrent depression. The author reported on the results of a study that suggested this particular therapy was promising as an additional treatment component for patients who have been on multiple medications for chronically recurring depression. In particular, for this therapy the researchers found “little difference in outcomes” when compared to antidepressants. Many psychiatrists, when asked if they can prescribe a medication that will make a patient feel “happy,” will gently tell the patient that no such medication exists. There are medications that do cause feelings of “well-being” which are abused, leading to problems of addiction or dependency. Prescription medications which are abused include drugs like Oxycontin and Percocet, which can cause feelings of “intense happiness” when taken inappropriately, often in large and dangerous dosage ranges. The bottom line: happiness does not come in a pill. The pursuit of happiness is a phrase that is familiar. Over time it has been demonstrated that happiness is not necessarily associated with wealth. Even having multiple degrees does not guarantee happiness. In another HealthDay press release from MedlinePlus (National Institutes of Health / U.S. National Library of Medicine): Education Doesn’t Guarantee Happiness, it was reported that people with high levels of mental well-being were more likely to feel happy and contented with their lives because of the way they deal with problems and challenges. This conclusion was reached by the researchers of a British Study at the University of Warwick.
The ability to work through difficult challenges in life and to learn from the experience, gaining insight, can provide the necessary structure to avoid the pitfalls of recurrent depression. In summary, Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia are major mental health disorders affecting millions of individuals worldwide. While the field of medicine and psychiatry has advanced significantly with regard to biological therapies, there continues to be a significant population that experiences Frequent Mental Distress or FMD. As defined by the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention), FMD is the number of days during the past 30 days when ones mental health is “not good.” As we learn more about happiness and sadness we have determined that there are specific regions in the brain associated with happiness and sadness. While medications are indicated for the treatment of depression, these medications do not result in happiness, which is a “complex emotional phenomenon” associated with “life satisfaction.” Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy or MBCT is a “talk therapy” which is proving useful in the treatment of recurrent depression, offering an alternative to medication for some patients. While no medication or therapy can guarantee happiness, the ability to learn from past painful experiences and avoid the slide into recurrent depressions can help one to take control of his or her life and subsequently to enjoy the security of a stable life existence. Happiness is difficult to define, but not hard to miss when it is present. Mental health is important, and help is always available. If you feel that you need treatment, talk to your healthcare professional. The following references are provided for the informed consumer: MedlinePlus-U.S. National Library of Medicine / National Institutes of Health: Mental Health http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/mentalhealth.html Medline Plus – U.S. National Library of Medicine / National Institutes of Health: Mindfulness-Based Therapy as Good as Meds for Depression, Study Says http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/news/fullstory_152133.html Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration / Center for Mental Health Services: Building Self-esteem https://store.samhsa.gov/shin/content//SMA-3715/SMA-3715.pdf
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Dr. Middleton is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology, and a Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. Dr. Middleton is retired as an Associate in the Department of Psychiatry in the Geisinger Health System formerly practicing at Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center in Wilkes-Barre, PA.
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EVENTS
Y O U
ENTERTAINMENT
ARTS
RECREATION
a+r+e AUG ’19
THE AREA’S GOOD STUFF
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Ongoing Events DAILY Art-a-Pelago D.J. Harvey Agency and The Bodhi Tree Art School & Studio, Honesdale. One art gallery in two locations (Paros-Anafi). Info: waynecountyartsalliance.org. DAILY Public Art Displays Nature’s Grace, Wayne Memorial Hospital, Honesdale & Pocono Lake Region Chamber of Commerce, Hawley. Wayne County Arts Alliance artists display their work. DAILY Public Art Display REMAX Wayne, Honesdale. Art displays of local artists all year long. Info: 570-253-9566. WEEKLY Table Tennis in Honesdale Lakeside Elementary School, Honesdale. Join a group of table tennis enthusiasts who play weekly. Info: John Babyak, 570-253-4379 or jbabyak1@ptd.net. TUESDAYS Bingo American Legion Post 311, Hawley. Doors open 10:30 a.m., games begin at Noon. Info: legionpost311@gmail.com. TUESDAYS Bingo Texas #4 Fire Company, Honesdale. Doors open 5:30 p.m. Games start at 6:30 p.m. Plenty of parking. Info: 570-253-5467. TUESDAYS, THURSDAYS & SATURDAYS Figure Drawing with Model Mark Rando The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Improve your figure-drawing skills. Must be 18 or older; model is nude. Bring your own materials. Easels provided. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. WEDNESDAYS Bog Walk 10 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. Environmental Educators explain the Bog’s
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formation, its interesting plant & animal life & more. Wear appropriate footwear. Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061. WEDNESDAYS Story Time 10:30–11:30 a.m. Pleasant Mount Public Library, Pleasant Mount. Bring your young children & grandchildren to the library for a fun-filled story time. Included will be crafts, games, songs &, of course, a story. Info: 570-448-2573 or www.waynelibraries.org. WEDNESDAYS Jazz on the Deck 6–9 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Enjoy the summer menu or sip your favorite drink in the garden while listening to great Jazz performers. Reservations & info: 570-226-2993. THURSDAYS Pike County Workforce Development Agency 10 a.m.–Noon. Newfoundland Library, Newfoundland. Serves as an intermediary to identify, create & provide educational opportunities. They can help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-676-4518. THURSDAYS Live Music with John Curtin 6 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Classic guitar playing & musical stylings. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com. THURSDAYS Live Music 6–9 p.m. Kol Steakhouse, Hotel Anthracite, Carbondale. Info: 570-536-6020. THURSDAYS Pub-O-Lympics 8 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. A combination of trivia & physical challenges. Compete with your team to win a gold medal, gift certificate & bragging rights. Info: 570-226-4388. FRIDAYS Live Music 8 p.m.–Midnight. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-4388 or
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EVENTS silverbirchesresortpa.com. FRIDAYS Live Music at Tannery Room 8–11 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com. SATURDAYS Yoga in the Garden 9–10 a.m. Muriel’s Garden at The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Focuses on balance, harmony & wellness. Bring your mat or borrow one. Info: 570-226-2993. SUNDAYS Yoga on the Deck 9–10 a.m. Ledges Hotel Great Room/Great Deck, Hawley. Overlooking the Paupack High Waterfall. Focuses on balance, harmony & wellness. Bring your mat or borrow one. Info: 570-226-1337.
SUNDAYS Live Music 3–6 p.m. The Deck at The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. SUNDAYS Blues, Brews & BBQs 5–9 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Enjoy live music by the falls, featuring a local craft brewery, live blues music & BBQ-style outdoor dining. Dining reservations: 570-226-1337.
August 1– August 9 AUG. 2–4 Scranton Jazz Festival Radisson Lackawanna Station Hotel, Scranton.
FRIDAYS Hawley Farm Market 2–5:30 p.m. Bingham Park, Hawley. Produce, meats & poultry, baked goods, maple syrup & honey, fruits, milk & ice cream, art, crafters & foot reflexology. Rain or shine. Info: 570-336-1644. SATURDAYS Drop-in Family Story Time 11 a.m.–Noon. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Join Miss Melanie for a story, followed by a fun craft for the whole family to enjoy. Info: 570-253-1220 or www.waynelibraries.org. SATURDAYS FREE Tastings and Demos Noon–2 p.m. Mill Market, in the Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Info: 570-390-4440. SATURDAYS Madrigal Choir 3–5 p.m. Farm Arts Collective invites male & female singers to participate in Madrigal Choir, an ensemble that is learning ancient 15th Century choral music. No experience necessary. Madrigal Choir will perform this summer in Farm Arts Collective’s performance events. Info: Tannis, 917-566-7698 or www.farmartscollective.org. SATURDAYS Live Music 9 p.m.–1 a.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com.
Schedule & full listing of artists at ScrantonJazzFestival.org. Info & tickets: 570-575-5282. AUG. 2, 3, 4 There Goes the Bride 8 p.m. (exc. Aug. 4: 2:30 p.m.) The Ritz Co. Playhouse, Hawley. An extremely funny play about a young girl’s forthcoming marriage & attitudes about premarital sex. Info: 570-226-9752 or www.ritzplayhouse.com. AUG. 3 Bridge the Gap: Pond Paddle 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Come for a free paddle on PEEC’s ponds. Beginners welcome — they will teach you everything you need to know. Dress appropriately; you may get wet. Call to reserve a canoe or kayak. Free. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. AUG. 3 Guided Interpretive Hike 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Take a hike with one of the knowledgeable staff & learn a little bit more about our forests. You never know what exactly you’ll find out there, so don’t be afraid to ask plenty of questions along the way. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
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EVENTS AUG. 3 Alcohol Ink 1–3 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. With Jane Brennan. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. AUG. 3 Tom Sadge as Neil Diamond: A Tribute To The Legend 6 p.m. Dorflinger-Suydam Wildlife Sanctuary, White Mills. Tom Sadge, Neil Diamond impersonator & tribute artist, & his back-up band give a rousing, foot-stomping, concert featuring some of Neil’s award-winning songs. Sadge recreates the sound, the look, & the persona so well that you will not be disappointed as you watch this energetic concert & sing along. Bring a chair & refreshments to this outdoor concert. Info & tickets: 570-253-5500 or www.wildflowermusic.org. AUG. 3, 4, 10, 11 Shakespeare on the Farm 6:30 p.m. Willow Wisp Organic Farm, Damascus. Enchanted farm tour & site-specific performance created & performed by Farm Arts Collective’s actors, stilt walkers & Madrigal choir. The performance holds a mirror to nature, drawing parallels between agrarian ecology & humanity’s struggles & triumphs. A delightful & visually stunning Shakespearean journey. Buy tickets in advance. Limit 75 spectators per show. Info: 570-982-0050 or www.farmartscollective.org. AUG. 3–5 Art in Bloom & Verse Krause Recital Hall, Narrowsburg, NY. The beauty of flowers, art & poetry come together in the DVAA’s annual pop up exhibit, featuring live floral arrangements & original poetry inspired by the paintings or sculptures of local artists. Truly a unique show, it is on view for one weekend only due to the perishable nature of the plant life. Opening reception Aug. 3, 7–9 p.m. A poetry reading will take place at 7:30 pm on Fri. Info: 845-252-7576. AUG. 3–SEPT. 3 Art Exhibit: Barbara Briden, “Potpourri An Artistic Melange” Missing Pieces Art Gallery, Honesdale. Thur.–Sat., 11a.m.–4 p.m. Exhibit includes a collection for artist’s watercolors, pastels, acrylics, minature quilts, hand-built pottery, sketchbooks. Opening reception: Aug. 3, 6–8 p.m. Info: 733-433-1438 or stephanfoster@gmail.com. AUG. 4 All You Can Eat Breakfast Buffet 8 a.m.–Noon. Jefferson Township Volunteer Fire Company, Jefferson Township. Info: 570-689-2829.
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AUG. 2–10 157th Wayne County Fair Wayne County Fairgrounds, Honesdale. Best of the Eagles, Luongo Brothers, Elvis impersonator & Johnny Cash Experience. Enjoy games, rides, food, exhibits, farm animals, thrill shows, demolition derby, DinoRoar Ohio, live entertainment & livestock. Info: 570-253-5486 or www.waynecountyfair.com. AUG. 4 Community Flea Market 8:30 a.m.–2 p.m. Jefferson Township Volunteer Fire Company, Jefferson Township. Info: 570-689-2829. AUG. 4 Bridge the Gap: River Paddle 9 a.m.–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Join a paddle down the Delaware. Bring a lunch, water bottle & don’t forget to dress for the weather. Extra water & snacks provided. Choose between a canoe or kayak. Preregistration required & begins at 8:30 a.m. on Jul. 4. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. AUG. 5–10 [2019] Carbon County Fair Carbon County Fairgrounds, Palmerton. Entertainment & food. Demolition Derby, Garden Tractor Pull, fireworks, livestock shows. Info: 610-826-1862 or ccllfa@ptd.net or www.carboncountyfair.com.
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EVENTS AUG. 7 Veterans’ Open House 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Salvation Army Ladore Conference Center, Waymart. To Honor all veterans. Community lunch, motorcycle show & classic car show, pontoon boat rides. Trophies awarded & flea market. Rain or shine. Info: 670-488-6129. AUG. 9 190th Lion Anniversary Express 1–2:30 p.m. Departs from Honesdale. Celebrate the 190th anniversary of the Stourbridge Lion, the first commercial steam locomotive to run on rails in America. Relax as you travel aboard vintage coaches along the scenic Lackawaxen River. Each passenger receives a free souvenir postcard. Restrooms available on the train. Kids ride free. Info: 570-470-2697 or info@thestourbridgeline.net.
ing things in the forest and are fascinating to study. Join Roger Spotts to discuss simple tree identification techniques & the important role trees play in the forest ecosystem. Registration & info: 570-629-3061. AUG. 10 Bug Exploration 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Join in & discover some insects on PEEC’s trails & learn about what makes them so unique. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. AUG. 10 Foodstock 6–10 p.m. Hotel Anthracite, Carbondale. Enjoy Foodtruck-style booths in Gravity Hall like Poke Bowls & Tostadas & live music by The Village Idiots. Tasting tickets available for purchase.
AUG. 4 Dinner & Theater Train Departs from Honesdale at noon heading to the Hawley station. Take a short walk to enjoy a delicious dinner in The Ridge Restaurant, followed by a matinee show at The Ritz Playhouse, dessert & return trip to Honesdale by rail. Info: 570-470-2697 or info@thestourbridgeline.net. AUG. 9–11, 16–18 Mary Poppins Jr. 7:30 p.m. (exc. Aug. 18: 2:30 p.m.) The Ritz Co. Playhouse, Hawley. Ritz Bitz Players: Ritz Theatre Junior Actors production of the musical based on the Disney movie & the Broadway musical. “Anything can happen if you let it.” Info: 570-226-9752 or www.ritzplayhouse.com. AUG. 9–16 Pocono Quilt Camp Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Quilters of all skill levels are welcomen. This year’s activities include: Refining machine quilting skills using the book WALK as a text, Reimagining Vintage Textiles, & Faced Machine Applique. Some of the small projects are making a portable ironing tray, placemats, and zipper pouches. Call for day rates. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
August 10–August 19 AUG. 10 Simple Tree ID Program 10–11:30 a.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Trees are the largest liv-
Info: 570-536-6020 or HotelAnthracite.com AUG. 10 Summer Solstice Dance Soiree 8–11 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Adults only (18+). Event is free. Join an all-out dance party as part of Second Saturday Honesdale. Gates to the pocket park open at 7:30 p.m. with beer, yard games & music. Move inside after 8 p.m., where DJs Sommer Santoro, Gary Moss & Master Alden spin their eclectic mix of funk, soul, rock ’n’ roll & more. Dress to impress or dress as you wish; this event is all about having some fun with friends. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. AUG. 10, 11 Shakespeare on the Farm 6:30 p.m. Willow Wisp Organic Farm, Damascus. See description at Aug. 3. Info: 570-982-0050 or www.farmartscollective.org. AUG. 10–SEPT. 14 Frosty Myers Alliance Gallery, Narrowsburg, NY. Info: 845-252-7576.
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EVENTS AUG. 10–SEPT. 14 G.H. Hovagimyan Loft Gallery, Narrowsburg, NY. Info: 845-252-7576. AUG. 11 Waterfall Tour 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. The Delaware Water Gap has quite a few waterfalls within the park that all flow into the Delaware River. Come check out some of the larger & well-known falls in the park. Spaces limited. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. AUG. 11 Bog Walk 1–3:30 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. Environmental Educators explain the Bog’s formation, its interesting plant & animal life & more. Wear appropriate footwear. Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061. AUG. 11 Ecozone Discovery Room! 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Explore the indoor discovery room & enjoy hands-on exhibits on natural history, sustainability & the local environment. No registration required. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. AUG. 16 Romping Radishes at The Farm 10 a.m. The Anthill Farm, Honesdale. Visit local farms to meet the farmers, see where our food comes from, get your hands dirty & have fun. This organic farm features nut & fruit orchards, veggies & solar panels. Geared to students K–2, but all children are welcome. Parents/guardians must stay with their children for duration of the class. A healthy snack is provided. Free entry. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. AUG. 16 Ice Cream Express Departs Honesdale at 6 p.m. Two-hour round trip excursion to Hawley. Step off the train to enjoy a
great ice cream sundae made with local ice cream. Climb back aboard to Honesdale as the sun sets on the Lackawaxen River Valley. Pre-purchase tickets recommended. Restrooms available on the train. Info: 570-470-2697 or info@thestourbridgeline.net. AUG. 16–18 Mary Poppins Jr. 7:30 p.m. (exc. Aug. 18: 2:30 p.m.) The Ritz Co. Playhouse, Hawley. See description at Aug. 9. Info: 570-226-9752 or www.ritzplayhouse.com. AUG. 17–30 Art Exhibit: Mariana Russo “Abstraction of Nature” Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Mariana primarily works with wood, old kitchen cabinet doors, old windows, acrylics, a wood burner, real leaves & real flowers. She also likes to explore materials such as flower pots, wood stains & mirrors to create her paintings’ rich texture & color. Opening reception Aug. 17, 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. AUG. 18 Revolutionizing Health with Essential Oils 11 a.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Through hands-on experience with Health Educator & Wellness Advocate Christine McCue, RN, & Wellness Advocate Eileen Reiman, you will learn how to use essential oils, where to use them, & most of all why. Learn about a popular, therapeutic essential oil application method which supports the body’s need to be balanced in harmony physically, emotionally & spiritually. Limited seating. Registration required. Registration & info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. AUG. 19 Wayne Highlands Quilt Guild 6 p.m. *New Location* First Presbyterian Church, Honesdale. Welcoming quilters of all ages & skill levels. Make new friends who share your passion for quilting. Show & Tell & refreshments. Info: Deb, 570-224-4914 or debszoo@gmail.com.
AUG. 15–18 Pittston Tomato Festival Delicious food, live entertainment, parade, 5K run, games, rides, arts & crafts, bingo & home-grown Pittston tomatoes. Tomato fights on Aug. 18, 1:30 p.m. Proceeds benefit local charities. Info: 570-655-1424 or www.pittstontomatofestival.com. 38 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |
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EVENTS ments served. Info: 570-226-4620. AUG. 22 Explorations in Nepal 6 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Colette Ballew travelled to Nepal on an educational adventure that lasted over 3 months & included over 500 pictures, only some of which she will share with you. She will talk about her experience teaching English at a private dormitory school, the many friends she met & the places she explored. Donations collected at the door. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org.
AUG. 17 7th Annual Canal Festival 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Delaware & Hudson Canal Park at Lock 31, Rte. 6 between White Mills & Hawley. Wayne County Historical Society’s festival includes canal history, heritage activities, children’s games, music, food & exhibits for the whole family. Free. Info: 570-253-3240 or www.waynehistorypa.org. AUG. 18–24 Annual West End Fair Noon. Gilbert, Monroe County. Live entertainment. Chris Ruble, vendors, exhibitors, livestock, music, fireworks, amusements, truck pull, demo derby, museum, food. Info: 610-681-4293 or secwefa@ptd.net or www.thewestendfair.com. AUG. 19–24 162nd Harford Fair Harford Fair Grounds, Harford. Butterfly Encounter, Hogway Speedway, Tiger Encounter, entertainment, truck pull, tractor pull, horse pull, chainsaw carving demos, Woodsman’s Contest, demolition derby. Info: 570-434-4300 or hfair@nep.net or www.harfordfair.com.
August 20–August 31 AUG. 22 Unique Pathways Program Series 5:30 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. Jazz musician Nick Niles has had a life-long passion for the piano. He started playing when he was five. He is self-taught & his passion has taken him around the world & given him the opportunity to cross paths with icons of the music industry. Listen to Nick share his story. Free. Light refresh-
AUG. 23 Romping Radishes at The Farm 4 p.m. Old School Farm, Honesdale. Visit local farms to meet the farmers, see where our food comes from, get your hands dirty & have fun. Stick around afterward to enjoy live music, woodfired pizza with ingredients freshly picked from the farm (& Calkin’s Creamery cheese) & good company. Geared to students K–2, but all children are welcome. Parents/guardians must stay with their children for duration of the class. A healthy snack is provided. Free entry. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. AUG. 23 Ice Cream Express Departs Honesdale at 6 p.m. See description at Aug. 16. Info: 570-470-2697 or info@thestourbridgeline.net. AUG. 23 A Contra Dance 7:15 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Live music by Poison Love, with caller Laurie B. Beginners welcome, no experience necessary. Caller Laurie B. will do a beginner lesson starting at 7:15 p.m. Kids under 15 free. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. AUG. 23–25 Wally Lake Fest Lake Wallenpaupack & Downtown Hawley. Over 50 events spanning the weekend, featuring: TwoDay Open Market Fair on the Lake; Two-Day Boat, Watercraft & ATV Expo; An Open Market Fair at Wallenpaupack High School; Outdoor Experiences on the Shoreline & Nature Path; an evening of shopping, dining & entertainment in Downtown Hawley; Wallypalooza, Live on the Lake; & more. Info: 570-226-3191 or wallylakefest.com or info@wallylakefest.com. AUG. 23–SEPT. 1 102nd Greene Dreher Sterling Agricultural Fair Greene Dreher Sterling Fair Grounds, Newfoundland. Old-fashioned country fair with all-new entertainment, kids’ activities, live bands, pie eating contests, demolition derby, exhibits, more. Info: 570-676-4047 or www.gdsfair.com.
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EVENTS AUG. 24 Firefly Picnic 3–6 p.m. Delaware Highlands Conservancy, Bethel, NY. Annual community picnic for members & friends. Enjoy a delicious catered meal, a Live Birds of Prey presentation with Bill Streeter of the Delaware Valley Raptor Center, craft beer selections, guided trail walk, crafts & much more. Reservations required. Under 12 free. Info: 570-226-3164 or delawarehighlands.org. AUG. 24 Lighten Up! 7 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Free community concert with a celebration of the many volunteers of The Cooperage Project prior to the show. Lighten Up! is a trio from Northeast Pa. that places a heavy emphasis on tight vocal harmony & musical arrangements. The band plays classic rock, blues, Motown, swing, country, folk, Irish tunes and bluegrass — an eclectic mix of styles that pleases audiences wherever they go. Free entry. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. AUG. 24 Dueling Pianos at Wally Lake Fest 7–9 p.m. The Waterfront at Silver Birches, Hawley. Munchie Buffet 7–8 p.m. Show starts at 8:30 p.m. Enjoy the Flying Ivories as they play the classics we all know & love during Wally Lake Fest weekend. Info & reservations: 570-226-4388. AUG. 24 & 25 The Pocono State Craft Festival 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Quiet Valley Living Historical Farm, Stroudsburg. Over 30 years offering one of the area’s largest varieties of art & craft demos, the best regionally based musicians & the very best the Poconos have to offer. Kids 12 & under free. Free parking. Info: 570-476-4460 or poconocrafts.com.
food, & continuous live entertainment featured on multiple stages around the square. No admission charge. 5K Run/Walk on Sat. Info: 570-348-4921 or lafestaitaliana.org. AUG. 31 At the Farm: Owen Walsh; Maker’s Market 3–7 p.m. Second District Vineyard and Hops Farm, Milanville. Presented by The Cooperage Project. A mini Makers’ Market highlights some of our region’s finest makers of crafts, art & home goods. From 3–5 p.m., a few vendors showcase their skills with a demo of their process. Singersongwriter Owen Walsh entertains with his soulful music from 5–7 p.m. Beer & food available for purchase. Family friendly, rain or shine. No animals. Seating limited so bring lawn chairs. Info: 570-253-2020. AUG. 31–SEPT. 1 Pocono Garlic & Harvest Festival 10 a.m.–6 p.m. Shawnee Mountain, East Stroudsburg. Over 60 food & craft vendors offer everything from garlic vinegar & garlic ice cream to garlic-themed pottery & paintings. Live musical performances, educational demos, the annual garliceating contest & plenty of children’s activities, making this a great family event. Free for children 4 & under. Info: info@shawneemt.com or 570-421-7231.
September 1–September 7 SEPT. 1 Dinner & Theater Train Departs from Honesdale at noon heading to the Hawley Station. Take a short walk to enjoy a delicious dinner in The Ridge Restaurant, followed by a matinee show at The Ritz Playhouse, dessert & return trip to Honesdale by rail. Info: 570-470-2697 or info@thestourbridgeline.net.
AUG. 29 Shakespeare on Film: Love’s Labours Lost 7 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. One of Shakespeare’s early comedies, the play draws on themes of masculine love & desire, reckoning & rationalisation, & reality versus fantasy. Introduced with a brief background & orientation by Dr. Robert Dugan. Followed by an opportunity for discussion. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
SEPT. 1 102nd Greene Dreher Sterling Agricultural Fair Greene Dreher Sterling Fair Grounds, Newfoundland. See description at Aug. 23. Info: 570-676-4047 or www.gdsfair.com.
AUG. 30 Ice Cream Express Departs Honesdale at 6 p.m. See description at Aug. 16. Info: 570-470-2697 or info@thestourbridgeline.net.
SEPT. 7 Wine Tasting Express Departs Honesdale at 3 p.m. Take a scenic ride along the Lackawaxen River & get off the train when it arrives at Hawley to enjoy tastings of local wines, artisan cheeses, fine olive oils & balsamic vinegars before boarding the train for a sunset ride back to Honesdale. Must be 21 or older with proper ID. Info: 570-470-2697 or info@thestourbridgeline.net.
AUG. 30–SEPT. 2 La Festa Italiana Courthouse Square, Scranton. Labor Day Weekend. More than 80 vendors offering great Italian
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SEPT. 1–2 La Festa Italiana Courthouse Square, Scranton. See description at Aug. 30. Info: 570-348-4921 or lafestaitaliana.org.
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